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Rodzilla 2 Russia, Beto O'Rourke, Detroit in Voicemail, George Clinton and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on giving them like
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  Speaker 1: the million buck things in its true good the movie
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  Speaker 1: Together for Please, I don't join joining me. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: use that turn you go. You gotta turn to turn
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  Speaker 1: them out. Turn You haven't got to turn them out
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  Speaker 1: to turn the water the water go. Come come on
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  Speaker 1: your thah, I shall well a good morning everybody. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: listening to the voice? Come on dig me now one
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  Speaker 1: it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay. I
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  Speaker 1: want to talk to you today about success. But I
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  Speaker 1: want to talk to you about it like I usually
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  Speaker 1: do in terms of a principle of it, but I
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  Speaker 1: want to share something with you about it. And I
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  Speaker 1: was talking to my daughter about it. I've talked about
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  Speaker 1: my son in law about it, talked about it with
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  Speaker 1: all my children, and I'm really starting to express it
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  Speaker 1: to them now because I'm talking to a wide range
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  Speaker 1: of people constantly. But I want to share something with you.
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  Speaker 1: If you have any aspiration of being successful, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to realize, starting right now, the effort that is
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  Speaker 1: going to require. And that's why I think it stops
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people. I think a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: are never told or don't understand the sheer effort that's
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  Speaker 1: that it takes to become successful at anything, in any
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  Speaker 1: area of your life. If you think that doing your
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  Speaker 1: best is enough, that I got news for you. It's not. Well, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: what if you've done your best, though, and your best
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  Speaker 1: ain't good enough? Well, let me ask you that same question.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on. If you want to be successful and you've
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  Speaker 1: done your best and best isn't good enough, what you through?
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  Speaker 1: That's it? But Steve, it was my best? No no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: It was the best you had at that time, in
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  Speaker 1: that particular day. But tomorrow add something to it. You've
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  Speaker 1: you've never done everything. There is no you can't go
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  Speaker 1: no more, you can't add no more. I've seen marathon
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  Speaker 1: run us end up crawling across the line. I've seen
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  Speaker 1: triath line people man just staggering in the street and
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  Speaker 1: didn't want nobody to help them because they knew that
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  Speaker 1: would disqualify them from the race. You got more? Have
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  Speaker 1: you ever dipped into your reserve tank? That's what we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about now. See all of us have a reserve tank,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I you know, on my ranch. I like
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  Speaker 1: to ride four wheelers. I have all terrain vehicles and
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  Speaker 1: all of them have a gas tank on it and
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  Speaker 1: a gas tank and most of mine, let me see
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  Speaker 1: all of them. Yeah, all of them have gas tank
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  Speaker 1: needles on them, and it lets me know. When I
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  Speaker 1: get down towards eat there's a little lane that's read
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  Speaker 1: that lets me know. Okay, Steve, you're in the danger zone.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're riding into the lowest part of your tank.
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  Speaker 1: But if I keep riding and I forget to get
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  Speaker 1: some gas in there, guess what when it runs out
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  Speaker 1: of gas. All of my all terrain vehicle, all of them, Honda, Polaris,
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  Speaker 1: all of them. Those are the makers. There's a button
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  Speaker 1: on the gas tank itself that I can click and
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  Speaker 1: it says reserve. That means they know that for the
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  Speaker 1: hardcore riders, they're gonna ride somewhere and they're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: themselves into situation and they're gonna run out of everything.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna run out of road, they're gonna run out
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  Speaker 1: of gas. They've prepared because they know for the hardcore rider,
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  Speaker 1: every hardcore rider needs a reserve tank. And so there's
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  Speaker 1: a button that you can click on the gas tank
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  Speaker 1: that clicks it into a reserve, and it will give
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  Speaker 1: you about fifty miles or twenty miles worth of gas
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  Speaker 1: in that Now, guess what in that reserve That may
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  Speaker 1: be all you need to get you to where you're going,
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  Speaker 1: or get you back to safety so you can refuel.
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  Speaker 1: Don't tell me you've done your best. When your best,
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  Speaker 1: don't cut it. What you're gonna do. See when best
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  Speaker 1: is possible, then good enough ain't enough. See that's good enough.
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  Speaker 1: But if the best is possible, why would you not
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  Speaker 1: shoot for that? And you you are all capable of
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  Speaker 1: making it. But you've got to change your mind set
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  Speaker 1: and realize the effort that has to be put forth
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  Speaker 1: in becoming successful. You've got to do it relentlessly, over
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  Speaker 1: and over and over and over and every day. I
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  Speaker 1: try to do something to progress my life for the better.
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  Speaker 1: I try to do something every day. I wake up
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  Speaker 1: every day with the plan. Some phone calls, some meetings,
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  Speaker 1: some some some interviews. Something man that's going to advance
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  Speaker 1: and move the brand forward. Because here's what's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: You are Let's say you reach your goal. Let's say
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  Speaker 1: your goal is to make one hundred thousand dollars. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I got news for you. Listen to this. When you
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  Speaker 1: make the one hundred thousand dollars, you can't go nowhere
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  Speaker 1: and go on vacation and put your hand behind your
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  Speaker 1: head and say I made a hundred thousand dollars. Guess
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  Speaker 1: what you got to do. You got to find a
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  Speaker 1: way now to maintain that one hundred thousand, to keep
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  Speaker 1: it coming in. So you can't just get there and
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  Speaker 1: stop and rest and whoa. It is harder to maintain
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  Speaker 1: your success than it is to get successful. See, let's say,
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  Speaker 1: let me let me show you this. Supposed it takes
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  Speaker 1: you five to eight years to find a way to
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  Speaker 1: make fifty thousand dollars. Let's say it takes you five
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  Speaker 1: to eight years to find a way to make an
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  Speaker 1: extra fifty thousand dollars, and you finally, through work and effort,
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  Speaker 1: you get to the fifty thousand dollars. More. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: it's only just begun now, because guess what, in order
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  Speaker 1: to keep the fifty coming in, you got to duplicate
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  Speaker 1: what you did to get there. And then, oh, here's
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  Speaker 1: what you're going to have the audacity being a human being.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna want another fifty because you're a human being,
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  Speaker 1: because you gotta have something else to shoot for. Now
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna want another fifty. Well, now that guess what
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do. Now, Now you gotta do what you
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  Speaker 1: did before, plus you gotta come up with something else.
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  Speaker 1: Then after that you're gonna have the audacity. Because you're humans,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna want another fifty. Says how this works? And
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  Speaker 1: see that that's the that's the importance of your relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God, because you're gonna constantly need it and ain't
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  Speaker 1: have a point where you're gonna be through needing it.
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  Speaker 1: But there ain't gonna become a point in your life
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  Speaker 1: where you're gonna through. Won't through be through, won't nothing
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  Speaker 1: unless you don't just gave up. And if you don't
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  Speaker 1: gave up, who wants that? Come on, y'all, this is
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  Speaker 1: going to take quite a bit of effort, and if
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  Speaker 1: you think it will come to you any other way,
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  Speaker 1: you're sadly mistaken. Because of all the successful people I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know that the effort they put out on a
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  Speaker 1: daily basis is daunting, and I think that the average
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  Speaker 1: person just doesn't understand the requirement of time and effort
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  Speaker 1: that it takes to get that and willingness to put
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  Speaker 1: it out. You gotta cut a lot of monkey business
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  Speaker 1: out your life. All that hanging out, all that late
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  Speaker 1: and all that club and all that drinking, all that.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta cut a whole lot of monkey business out
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  Speaker 1: to be successful. Man, if you're planning on being successful,
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  Speaker 1: get up early, stay up late, work, try, think, meet, greet, smile, attract.
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  Speaker 1: It takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it.
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  Speaker 1: God is pressed to plassing out blessings all day long.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling
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  Speaker 1: you right now I want everything God got for me
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  Speaker 1: because what he's shown me so far. Who if he
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  Speaker 1: got some ore? Man on man? How good is God? Huh,
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  Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, it is upon us the start of
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  Speaker 1: a new day. Give all thanks to glory and honor
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  Speaker 1: to God for that. Without him, you would be nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I know I'm nothing without him. Just thought you might
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  Speaker 1: feel the same way. Steve Harvey already show us on
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  Speaker 1: and cracking, y'all. Charlotte Strawberry Colin for real, mouth to
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  Speaker 1: south Junior and me Junior, what's up? Man? Uncle? Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you about this man, and I'm probably sure
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  Speaker 1: you had a lot of this man entitled guaranteeing entitlements
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  Speaker 1: from people. They feel like they gotta claim to your life.
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  Speaker 1: They feel like they had to have a say so
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  Speaker 1: on everything you do. But just the sense of them
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  Speaker 1: trying to take over what you're doing, talk to you
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  Speaker 1: any kind of way, and feel like they entitled to
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  Speaker 1: what you have. Well, a few of those things you
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  Speaker 1: can stop instantly, But some of it is a part
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  Speaker 1: of guilt. As I've said before, Guilt this emost useless
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  Speaker 1: human emotion that we have. It serves purposes. It serves
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  Speaker 1: no one really except the manipulator who is using guilt
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  Speaker 1: to hold you to what they need you to do
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  Speaker 1: exactly agg example, oh so nasi, oh now you all that? Now, No,
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  Speaker 1: we don't hear from you no more. Oh so na
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  Speaker 1: oh oh, now you married them, we don't hear from
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  Speaker 1: you no more. And then here's the people who take
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  Speaker 1: who want to take full credit for your success. I remember,
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  Speaker 1: for you had that job, you know, used to come
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  Speaker 1: over and you know, and I feed you, you know,
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  Speaker 1: let your stay here and watch TV, and I kept
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  Speaker 1: your baby for you, you know, while you was trying
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  Speaker 1: to do all that. But I see you there now,
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  Speaker 1: I guess you don't need that no more. Here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Here's another one. Don't forget where you come from. Seem
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  Speaker 1: all of these things are people manipulating you through the
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  Speaker 1: use of the emotion of guilt. So take guilt out
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  Speaker 1: of it. There are people that you owe something to,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't owe your success to anyone. You just don't.
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  Speaker 1: And and and and and people would try to take it. Now,
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  Speaker 1: the people in your life that's gotta say so, here's
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  Speaker 1: a model for that. You have a say so, no more.
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  Speaker 1: And we have a say so, no more. See when
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: people come up to me, I hang up, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got no conversation for you telling me what to do,
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  Speaker 1: acting like you got a vote, because you don't. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm not interested in your vote because your vote doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have all the facts. Hello, okay, hello, So now now
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  Speaker 1: what I've been through? Yeah, they don't no God, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm dealing with your opinion of it when you clearly
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  Speaker 1: don't have the facts. That's right, that's right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, thank you guys. Coming up. At thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Junior is in for the nephew
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  Speaker 1: to run that frank back right after this, you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to show it is time now to start the morning
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  Speaker 1: off with run that frank back. The nephew's out today, Junior.
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  Speaker 1: Is in? What you got? Junior? Do anybody even know
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  Speaker 1: where the nephew is? No? Because I'm asking something. Do
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  Speaker 1: I get his check for this? Oh? Oh no? He no? No,
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  Speaker 1: oh no, you definitely just stepping in. Okay, okay, man down?
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  Speaker 1: Step up? Yeah, step up, because called next man up? Junior.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to just know one because he shall
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  Speaker 1: have been missing, That's all. I just want to know,
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  Speaker 1: you know, he just you know, ever since Ready to
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  Speaker 1: Love came on, he didn't change, That's all I know. Yeah,
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: y'all have y'all noticed? Yeah with me? Now? I called him?
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  Speaker 1: He said, who is this? I said, I know? My
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: name came up. I know it now? Who is this?
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  Speaker 1: Jackets is real small? You notice that always got something
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  Speaker 1: on his lapel. Now it's like a pn a dove
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  Speaker 1: keep something. Yeah, he keeps something on this. That's when
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  Speaker 1: you changed. Well, let's get to this prank man prank
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  Speaker 1: this morning is can your wife help me with my thesis?
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  Speaker 1: Can your wife help me with my thesis? Come on? Captain. Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Yeah. Who who is it? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: my nay nless man? Is this is this down? It's
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  Speaker 1: a husband? Yeah, yeah, yeah, this is me. What's up? Hey? Listen? Um,
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  Speaker 1: my mother's miss man. She goes to church with uh
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  Speaker 1: with with your wife's mom is when uh with mother?
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  Speaker 1: And uh I'm actually in med school man, And uh
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  Speaker 1: they told me, um, your your wife, she's a she's
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  Speaker 1: a nurse. Is that right? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah ship nurse.
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  Speaker 1: Like you said, you said, your mama go to church
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  Speaker 1: with my wife's mama, right right, my mother she goes
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  Speaker 1: to church with uh with with with mother? Okay, then
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  Speaker 1: all right? Uh, when I was calling you off for down, man,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't mind. I wanted to. I'm going I'm getting
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  Speaker 1: ready to do my thesis, man, I'm doing my thesis
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  Speaker 1: for the end of the year. Uh, into the semester
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  Speaker 1: man for med school. And then they told me your wife,
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  Speaker 1: you know that might be able to help me out.
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  Speaker 1: So I was hoping I could talk to her for
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  Speaker 1: a second. If you're on mind, yeah, hold hold on
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  Speaker 1: real quick, hold on, okay, I want to talk to you.
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  Speaker 1: It's mama. You wanna talk to you? Who is this? Hello? Hello? Hey, yes, hey,
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  Speaker 1: how you doing? My name is Ellis. My mother let
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  Speaker 1: you go to church with your with your mother, huh,
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  Speaker 1: and they gave me a number that you might be
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  Speaker 1: able to help me out with some stuff. I'm in
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  Speaker 1: man school right now, I'm starting to be a gynecologist
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  Speaker 1: and uh that you might be able to help me
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  Speaker 1: out with some things. And I want to reach out
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  Speaker 1: to you if it was cool. Okay, what's your name?
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  Speaker 1: Against Ellis? And your mom grows to church with my
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  Speaker 1: mom's right? Okay, right, okay, what listen. What what I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing is, I'm doing my thesis and uh, you know,
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  Speaker 1: this is the this is my big end of the
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  Speaker 1: year exam. And what I'm doing is I'm making my
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  Speaker 1: thesis a video and opposed to a report, so everything
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be on video. So what I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: do is actually get a time where I can hook
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  Speaker 1: up with you and maybe examine you and get all
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  Speaker 1: that on video. So you say you want to video tape,
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  Speaker 1: I will be giving you a um, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: I put you, you know, your legs in the stirrups
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  Speaker 1: and all that and just video me doing the actual
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  Speaker 1: examination on you. You want to videos, may want to
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  Speaker 1: video tape him giving me up? Hello, Hey, what you're
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: talking about? You want to do? What again? Dude? What
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  Speaker 1: we'll see. I'm working on my thesis man, and what
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing my thesis is gonna be a video. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna actually video on myself giving your wife a
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: what's your kind of what you want to do? Can't
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  Speaker 1: my wife all with you? Hey? Hey, hey brother, this
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  Speaker 1: right here from my grade. Man. You know this ain't
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  Speaker 1: nothing on a personal tip, man, This is for the grave.
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  Speaker 1: You know your wife being in the medical field. I
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  Speaker 1: no wife you talking about? You? Can't you okay? You
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  Speaker 1: want to get my wife? Day? Who're gonna look at it? Man?
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: If you want you can't say? Oh, Man, listen this
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  Speaker 1: from my grade. Man. This ain't I mean only the
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: perfession is gonna be fun as far as I'm concerning
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  Speaker 1: you matter gonna find somebody else my wife this again, man,
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  Speaker 1: My name is Ellis. Man. I told you no, my
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  Speaker 1: mama she go to church. Within't mama. I'm comin. Man.
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  Speaker 1: We don't know what mans. Man, We ain't ever seen
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  Speaker 1: your mama. Man, what you're trying to do, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna do no my wife. Man, all y'all, okay, let
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: me ask you something. Don't she going there and get
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  Speaker 1: anyway at least once or twice a year? Yeah? Yeah she. No,
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  Speaker 1: don't change trying video tape my wife. Man like that? Man, brothers,
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  Speaker 1: what are gonna find some about else? Man? Man, man,
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  Speaker 1: doll that man, I don't know you. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: your mama, doll y'all? Man, okay, okay, can you put
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: me on speakerphones I can talk to both y'all. No,
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  Speaker 1: he don't. No, you ain't gonna talk back to my wife. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Can I say one more thing? Come about video taping
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  Speaker 1: my wife? No? Yeah, ain't ain't talking to my wife.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I'm up. I just want to say this. Man, this
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: is Nephew Timming from the Steve Harbin Morning Show. You
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  Speaker 1: just got franked by your homeboard. Dug baby, is never
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  Speaker 1: com me talking about video taping my wife? Yeah? You
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: got a boy named Doug. Don't you read what you say?
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  Speaker 1: Who did that? Does? Dude? Done it? I'm gonna kick it, man, definitely. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you come about it. Man, you had me hot dude?
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, y'all all right, Man, my heart was beating
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: fan man hey man, they put on y'all heels. Man, Okay,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: hold on, that could let me see fact speak. Hold on, Uh,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: I ain't go head man, okay, uh what I got
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: one thing I gotta ask y'all. What is the baddest
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: radio show in the land? Man say? Man? Next time
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  Speaker 1: my wife go back up in there. Man, get up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going up in there. Man in there. Okay, yo,
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  Speaker 1: help me with my thesis. I know that means it's
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: time for prank and worship now, yeah, yeah, right after
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: you better get the brace. Don't waste some time between it.
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  Speaker 1: But but you do it usually with prairie requests. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: exactly what that means. Ranks. I got mine in Oh,
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  Speaker 1: come on, y'all, and and I stupid. Come on now,
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  Speaker 1: y'all know this is Come on y'all to see it.
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  Speaker 1: Kane pranking, prank, Come on, that's best that ever did it.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I think thank me, Yeah worthy, God made you.
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  Speaker 1: He threw away the mold. All right, thank you, Junior.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Coming up next to his ass the CLLO with our
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, ready for
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  Speaker 1: your love questions right after you're listening to show. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, r Kelly, his
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  Speaker 1: trial star witness testifies wait till you hear what she
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• 21:14
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  Speaker 1: of the hour, but right now it is time to
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• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Lowell in Saint Paul writes, my boyfriend loves sleeping naked
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: and I don't mind it. I don't mind it at all,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: but it would be great if he showered before getting
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: into bed with me. What he prefers to shower in
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: the morning, and I get it, But how can I
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: get him to wash up before he tries to spoon
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: with me? Well, noobo, spobo six, I need this shower
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: before bad. That's nice. Yeah, you can throw some water
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: on your face in the morning, but we're gonna need
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: that bad before you climb up in here though. Yeah,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: after all days, eight hours under this cover which you
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: ain't working, you need to rest off. Yeah, yes, ran
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: ranild Ranch, Yeah all right, that was an easy one. Steed,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Sheila and Roanux says, I'm fifty seven years old and
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: my husband and I are separated because I caught him
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: sexting with the woman. He had a new picture of
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: her on his phone and he said she just sent
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: it and he didn't ask her to. He swears he
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: hasn't cheated on me. But isn't this the first step
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: to cheating? Should I go talk to the woman? Well,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I don't see what going to talk to the woman does.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: You're not married to her and she didn't extend any
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: vows to you. Your conversation is purely with your husband.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: And if he says they haven't had set yet, that
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: a possibility. But now is that the first step to
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: having it? Well, let me just say this, if you
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: talk about it long enough, once you started talking about
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: it sexty, then you got to wonder what it would
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: really be like words into action. If this don't stop,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: this could be a problem. And no, you shouldn't go
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: talk to the woman because no, that ain't who you married. Yeah, okay,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: all right, that part all right. Moving on to Kimika
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: and Jacksonville. Kimika writes, I'm twenty eight years old and
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I'm dating a forty four year old married man, and
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: he pays my rent. He had a key to my apartment,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: so I had my locks changed. He got upset and
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: said that I violated the rules. I never agreed to
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: give him full access to me. He's married, so why
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: can't I have my privacy to date others? I mean,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: you know what, y'all need to get these rules established
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: early before. Yeah, you know, why did he have a
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: key in the first place? So you gave him McKey?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Then you changed your locks. Now, he confused, because if
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I'm paying for the place, it's because I can get
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: a key. Now you ain't got no key to his house,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: nor will you get a key. Oh no, he's married now,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: so you got to re establish what it is. Now
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: he may stop paying. Yeah, but you have to understand
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: now what it is you're in it for. That's right,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: because this is a form of you know, this is control,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: an arrangement, a contract. It's just an organized form of prostitution,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: that's what it is. It's an organized prostitute right now.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: So you call it what you want to call it,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: But if you're doing performing sex for monetary gain, that's prostitution.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: The fact that y'all regular have all the time there's
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: a lot of prostitutes got regular customer lots. Yeah. Is
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: everyone clear on what it is? One more time? It's
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: just a verbalized contractual form of prostitution. That's what it
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: is for. I will provide you monetary gain in exchange
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: for sexual faith. Okay. And the moneta's name was an
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: apartment with the key. You changed the lots, you know,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: because you want to do some other stuff. Why are
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: you doing it? So? We got a problem? He upset
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: you changed the rules. Yeah, because he established the rules
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: when he gave you money. Yeah, she said, I never
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: agreed to give him full access to me. Well, when
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: you give him a key to the apartment and now
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: the key don't work anymore? What clears? Yeah? See what
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: do you think the check was for ya? I don't
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: know how you wanted to go your way anyway? He
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: didn't you say he was married? Yeah? Yeah, he's married,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: and he had a key. She said, he had a key.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: There's no right way to do this. You do know that,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: because all this is wrong? Yeah, because he's married. That's
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: a right there. Now. I don't know how y'all want
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: some clear Oh this works for me? And when the
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: whole thing is wrong, So you know, grow up, put
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: your big girl panties on. This is what you signed
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: up or now y'all have to renegotiate the deal. Okay,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: so now you may be down to just half rind
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: chipping in on the rind half access. I guess. Yeah,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: you're gonna mess around and be one hundred dollars a
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: visit in a minute with money. All right, here we go.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Last one, Steve, Last one Felana and Arkansas says, I'm
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: married and I have a male best friend. We are
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: strictly platonic friends. We talked twenty four seven and enjoy
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: shopping together. My husband assumes that my best stie is
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: a new female I work with and he wants to
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: meet her. Would my husband flip out if I introduced
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: him to my tall, fine and chocolate new best friend.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Wouldn't you feel about if his new best
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: friend was a tall, fine chocolate chick. Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: so yeah, he gonna flip out? And you know you're wrong.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: That's why you're right, letter uh huh. And he's so
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: fine yeah, okay, okay, now unless he's gay, get ready, Yeah,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: because the flip and you know it, because he's fine yeah,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: tall and yeah, yeah, y'all just talk twenty four seven,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: you're gonna introduce him to your husband. Fit to be
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: a problem. But she's letting her husband think that it's
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: her her new co worker. She's letting her husband think that. Absolutely,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: that's deception. That's no, no, no, that's lie lying. Yeah. Oh,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: you're not upset that she's lying her. That's not what
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing, is it? Oh? See when women lie, because
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: y'all also always come out, why I do me and lie?
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Why you lie? Why don't you just telling me they
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: ain't your co working down there, that he's a big, tall,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: fine man and he goes shopping with me and who
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: and we talked twenty four entretail that truth. Yeah, she's
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: all right. See Ella, you nailed it today, Yes, you did.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: morning show. The jury and R Kelly's federal trial in
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Chicago on Friday watched graphic videos that prosecutors say show
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: the singer sexually assaulting his god daughter when she was
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: as young as fourteen. The videos are key evidence in
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: the prosecution's case. Against our Kelly, who was accused of
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: producing child pornography and rigging his two thousand and eight
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: child pornography trial in Cook County. The witness, who is
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: now thirty seven year old, she's thirty seven year old
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: niece of R and B singer Sparkle, took the stand
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: and as Jane Doe, she told the jury how she
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: and R. Kelly started to have sex when she was
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: only fourteen. She had intercourse hundreds of times before her
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: eighteenth birthday. She was not the only young girl in R.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Kelly's bedroom. He secretly recorded some of their sex acts.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: The smoke detectors on his bedroom ceiling were hidden cameras. Actually,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: R Kelly failed to have the fake detectors removed before
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: selling his home, and the next owner made the creepy discovery.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Until the trial, Jane Doe and her family have publicly
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: denied she was abused, and Jane Doe has testified she
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: lied to a Cook County grand jury before the two
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: thousand and eight child pornography trial, where, if you recall,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Kelly was acquitted. Asked why after all these years she
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: continued the relationship or the friendship with R. Kelly into
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: her adulthood. She said, I no longer want to carry
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: his lies. So her aunt, Singer Sparkle, says that some
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: of her niece's testimony is not true. She didn't say
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: which ones. R Kelly is on trial and a thirteen
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: counter indictment including child pornography and obstruction of justice charges.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: The trial is expected to last four weeks. That's a lot,
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: well she What Sparkle says is some of the girls
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: testimony is not true. See, so which part of it
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: is okay? Is? Yeah? See which part of this is okay?
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Because see, I don't have nothing for you when it
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: comes to kids. Now you and grown women, man, grown women,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: consensual consensual impeded visits. Yeah, I ain't got nothing to
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: say about that. Yeah, the fourteen when this involves a child,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I got nothing for you. No part of this is good?
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: Which part of it is good? We had sex, not
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: hundreds of time, just twenty Okay, that's better. Uh No,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: he feeled. And but they got video footage? Yeah, yeah,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: because you don't took a smoke detective turned it into
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: a camera. Man. The sickness of it all. Now you
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: didn't get that took out? Now you n the new
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: homeowner discover that yeah, yeah, he got some more court cases.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: He gonna be on the prison door, it would even
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: be on Yeah. And then by him being acquitted in
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, he continued that behavior and that
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: this is why he is where he is now. You know. Yeah,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: that's it. He got off because she lied. M Yeah,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: oh this is this is heavy. This is it really
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: is this is this is really something. It's really it's
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: really sad, man. It's sad because he was such a talent,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, without a doubt and had moments of being
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: a cool guy when you just sit him chop it
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: up with him. There was moments of that really well,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: but you didn't know nobody. Yeah yeah, you didn't know
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: behind closed doors what he was doing and what he
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: was capable of. Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, we're moving on.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: In other news, um entertainment news, Dennis Rodman, NBA legend
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Dennis Rodman said he quote got permission to go to
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Russia to seek the release of w NBA star Britney Griner,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: who of course, has been sentenced to nine years in
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: prison on drug charges. Rodman told Rodman told NBC News
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: that he got permission to go to Russia to help
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: that girl. He went on to say he knows Russian
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: President Vladimir Putin too well, so I go ahead, yeah yeah,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Ki John, Yeah yeah, Korea and pull it off there
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: on the gil rodman a big reward and straighten his
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: life out. Yeah, yeah, I hope he does. Hopefully, hopefully
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: he can. Yeah, I hope he can. I'm willing. Yeah,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I'm glad he's even willing to try and go over there,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: thank you. I think it's noble as hell, right on, Dennis, exactly,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not going over there. You don't know Vladimir like that. No,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: it'll be looking in my shaving lotion and stuff. It's
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: too much. Yeah, I'll be over there traveling so light.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Excuse me, what are your dru had some baby all on?
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: What kind of all? Y'all gonna think you ain't got nothing, Harry,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: We don't recognize you. You haven't shaved. No, I ain't
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: got nothing in my bad So we found it you back.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know how you did. I didn't bring it back.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: You didn't away, saying if it takes me a month,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: I'm aware the same thing this month. Yeah, that's man,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: But come on, Dennis, feel great it really would, it
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: really would? Yeah, love that? All right, Um, last story,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Miss Jackson. If your nasty, remember that saying right, people
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: who use old school Microsoft system people who use old
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: school Microsoft systems, their computers will crash if users play
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Janet Jackson's Rhythm Nation video. Microsoft principal software engineer said,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: it's not Janet's dancing in the video, it was that
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: in the video, the laptops were triggered by a particular
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: tone that repeated throughout the video. The sound was so
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: powerful that it was even capable of shutting down computers
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: near the laptop playing the video. Janet Jackson, I mean,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: she's such an icon. She's such an icon that she's
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: she's over here shutting down computers if you play her videos.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, Miss Jackson. Yeah. All right,
• 36:01
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  Speaker 1: Oh goodness, but we do. This one's from Jasmine from Detroit.
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  Speaker 1: Jasmine needs some parenting advice. Steve. Hi, Uncle Steve. This
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  Speaker 1: is Jasmine from Detroit. I was calling because I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to get some advice from you. I'm very far. I'm
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: a single mom. I've been single for almost ten years now,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: i am divorced, and I know you talk a lot
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: about how men should be fathers and how women shouldn't
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: hold their kids away from the fathers for you know,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: trivial things. In my case, I'm not a mom that
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: keeps my son away from his father. His father just
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to do right. My son is fourteen years old.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I want to know what would you say for single
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: moms that don't have a support system and don't have
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: fathers and their lives are males in their lives that
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: can influence their sons. What advice would you give to us?
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: And also I would like to ask would you be
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: writing a book on single mom raising sons for theirselves? Okay,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: thank you. Listen. As far as this the boy goes,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: you have to get him in some type of program
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: where there's sports, Scouts or one hundred Black Men Boys
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: and Girls Club are because you have to get him
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: in a position where mentoring is occurring. Also, I would
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: attempt to call the father and say, listen, he really
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: needs you. He's going through it. Your absenteeism in his
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: life is hurting him at this point. And I'm not
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: gonna get in the way, but I just really need
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: you to spend some time with your son because I
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: don't know how to turn him into a man, and
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: you do, and he really needs that. I would really
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: appreciate the help from you. I won't bother you with
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: anything if you would just spend some time. You gotta
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: try that at least. I know that's maybe uncomfortable for
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: you because I don't know how you all got away
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: from each other, what's the cause a break up or
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: the separation. But when it comes to for the children,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: you had to make some uncomfortable decisions sometimes and do
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: some things that's uncomfortable. Man, he ain't gonna tie to
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: sleeping with you again, not that uncomfortable, but I mean,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: you know, having a conversation with your ax is worth
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: a try. But other than that. The programs that are
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: out there, sports Scouting, Boys and Girls Club one hundred
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Black Men had a wonderful mentoring program. M Steve, K
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: no about this, No, no, no, I won't be writing
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: a book about that. No. No, it's too much custom
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: to be in that book. So you get cussing a book,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: just not on the radio. Yeah, glad you're gonna be
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: using tell your children because it just ticks me off
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: a bit too, because I need for brothers. I need
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: men out there to just look. Man, I know, I
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: know how they can be sometime. I've had X with kids.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: It can be a whole bunch of challenges, but you
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: gotta fight through them. Yeah, because your job as the dad.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now when I learned it.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: God does not release you from that responsibility, fellas. He
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: just don't. He don't ever let you off the hook
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: because whatever excuse you got, it ain't it ain't gonna
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: do it because you're the father. So it's your job
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: to be the dad. H Yeah, all right, great advice, Jasmine.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve. Come up at coming up
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: next it is the nephew and the prank phone call.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: But guess what he's not here, and Junior is and
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: we're gonna deal with the prank phone call for today
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show coming up at
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, about four minutes after. It's
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is why
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: does he keep me around? Why does he keep me around?
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: We'll find out. We'll get into it in just a
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: few but right now today Junior is in for the
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank phone call. What you got for us, Junior?
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: You know last year you got the nephew Downay, we
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: started prank you know last year. So good, what nephew,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I'm stepping up once again in place of nephew he's
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: not here once again with no pay. I will do
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: this now. Not trying to make more money. I just
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, at least, I ain't trying to get a
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: whole lot. Just at least just a lunch from the
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: nephew or something, just anything. He just your uncle pays him.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: So well, you know, well, I don't know not to
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: ask him. I've been not ask I know I've got
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: that lessons what yeah, okay, go ahead, let me just
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: see if how you the nephew ain't here. I'm doing
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: his prank and I just want to know is it
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: possible I can get a raised? Yeah? Yeah, right after covida.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: How that word. As soon as COVID is though, it's
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: here to stand, it will be here never Well, you
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: need to start praying there. That's when I'm passing out raised.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: It's when COVID is over. For covidin the flue like
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: the blue who's here? It's listen. This pandemic has caused
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: it upheaval in the economy. I'm still trying to recover from. Yeah,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need everybody in recovery mode. Now we can
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: look at these raises again once COVID is over. Is
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: that for everybody else? Everybody that can hear this. Let's
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: just get to the prank here. It is wedding at
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: the funeral. Comeball can't hello? Ryan? Hi, I'm trying to Ryan, Ryan.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: How you doing? Hey, I'm good, I'm second. This is
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Josh Josh over at the I want to be officials
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: at the church where you guys are getting married tomorrow? Yeah? Yeah,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: how you doing? Man? They want to thank y'all for
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: that too. Man, We'll appreciate it sure. Yeah, well, we
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: definitely hope to make you a member here soon or later.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: And you guys are getting married. You know. Hey, man,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: you know I'm trying to get this worst schedule change up.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They got me working on
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: Sundays now, man, So sons, I tweaked at the mood
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: that around a little bit. I'll be there. Okay, listen,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: we have a bit of a situation that's come up.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: We had some problems and miscommunication and it's definitely been
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: on the outside. They had your name Ryan down here
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: with your phone number as well as you're soon to
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: be wife Sonya. They had her name here, but we
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: didn't want to call her with this. We wanted to
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: just reach out and talk to you and see if
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: it just make you ware of what was going on. Okay, well,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: what's what's going on? Man, There's been a mix up
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: on scheduling. I don't know if you know Such the
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Older make she passed away a week ago and you're
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: not you're not a member of the church, so you
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: wouldn't know it. But she's one of the one of
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: the oldest members here at the church. Such the Older
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: may passed away and what's going on? Is you all's
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: wedding is tomorrow at twelve o'clock, right, but the actual
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: funeral is at three of clod here at the church. Okay, uh,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: but shame again, brother would Josh Josh? Okay look here,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: brother Josh, um hey man, we we we already got
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: this thing in motion. Man, we didn't stand now they
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: have been a two hundred differentations. Man, I mean blessed
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: old man and and and I understand that, but but
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: but I mean, you know, she's there's no way we
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: could have moved it around down. The biggest problem the
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: funeral home is bringing the casket first thing in the morning.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: So what I want what I wanted to make you
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: aware of, and I didn't want you to tell your
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: wife this, but the actual casket will be in the
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Saint ar but we will have it. Hold hold on, man,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: are you serious? Now? Look at y'all need to move
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: this round. I don't know what y'all gonna do. Y'all
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: have a fellowship all in the back something like that. Ryan.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: The only place we can actually put the casket, and
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: if we didn't put it there, is in the actual
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: room that you'll you'll soon to be wife would be
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: changing in that's the only place could have changed, no
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: room when it was dead body. But you can't even
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: and you know what, I understood that, that's the first
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: thing I thought of, thought, I said. And they still
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: put the casket where it goes for the people of them,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna cover it up and see basically you
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: actually didn't. But I can't even believe you call on
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: me with did man look at and excuse my french man? Yeah,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: I know I need to get back in the church,
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I really do. But right now, Doug, this ain't going
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: down like this man, we didn't already paid the money
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: when first First, first of all, first of all, you
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: know she I don't even feel like she may had
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: to pay, you know, to hold no wedding over at
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: hut church where she paid. Tis that that's that's the
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: first thing. You know. I ain't like that from the jumping.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: But I wouldn't hear when women because she won't her
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: pasta to marry us. And now you got the nerd
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: to tell me that y'all, well, arrange something that funeral
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: gonna happen the same day as my wedding, and my
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: wife's got to get dressed in the room with a
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: dead body. Well, no, we're not gonna put her in
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: that bro I was like, I said, I'm putting that
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: body first thing in the morning. I'm gonna put that
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: body in the right there in front of the fullfit,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna cover it. Now, what you're getting out
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: of is you get more flowers, because there's gonna be
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: flowers from the funeral. So I'm thinking that's probably gonna
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: be a little bit of a person point. I just
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: wanted you to be as probably gonna be more people
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: than you think because some of the people that's gonna
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: be at your wedding, it's really for the funeral. A
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: hold of man, are you serious? Righting owt? I mean,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: look at doctor, i'dn't paid for the wedding happened at
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: this church, man, Okay, ain't. And no disrespect to the
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: lady that is passed called blessed so family, I ain't
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: planning to not putting no dead body having a funeral
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: at my wedding. Man, that's crazy down on that church too, sir.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: She's a member of the church too. I don't give it.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I don't being no member of the church. Man, I've
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: been paid for this wed and it's gonna happen tomorrow. Man,
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: you go six and of putting the dead body. It's
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: my wedding. Ryan, Ryan, I mean no disrespect, but the
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: woman has passed. She is not gonna get up. I mean,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: what is the problem. The problem is YA called me
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: with this man the day before my wind, and we
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: didn't schedule there six months ago. I spend twenty five
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars on this wind, okay, And you're gonna
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: tell me that we got to share our win with
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: a funeral, but the Hillers won't with you? Man, do
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: you want to have? You're winning at this church? I
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: pay for them, and which we want? I'm having the wind? Okay.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what lit the about the BP in
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: the marn and I rolling right out to the street
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: playing y'all sting in the front and and and throw
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: flowers like throwing rice. But we're gonna have a wind
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: inside the same tier tomorrow. I promise you that I can't.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: I care not assure you that it won't be. I
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: have no other place to put the body, Okay, Well,
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I'll bet y'all find someone to put it if I
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: get that a march. It's a body in there. It's
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: gonna be a couple of about it in there name.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: You got two choices to move that funeral or to
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: reimburse me back this thirty thousand dollars out of an
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: hour to spend those only two choices. I want to
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: hear about it. Meet me at the front door to
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: night with a thirty thous and dollar cashier check. Always
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: said to have his winning up in that tomorrow morning.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: You heard me. I ain't playing. I ain't playing at all.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: No jokes. That's wrong with y'all. Man. You can do
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: something else, man, I understand that I don't want to
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: from you. Man. All I'm saying is it's gonna be
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: a winning at this church tomorrow without saying dead about it.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Push it to the band. Man.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: There's there's one more, a bit of an issue that
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I need to tell you. Also, What can be worse
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: than a dead about it? What issue can be worse dead?
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: By that way? The man the issue, sir, that it
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: is worse than the dead body is. This is Nephew
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your best man,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Jeff got me the prank phone call you what what
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you Mane the bitch man about to get the best
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: bloop but he can possibly get man I playing. Then
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: God leads the day beat down possible band. I'll tell
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: you hey, one more question. What's the baddest radio show
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: in the land? Ryan the Steve, Alright, Dandy Shirley. We're
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: in in the funeral? Thanks, all right? King of Bran
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: all the time? No, alright, us Nah, great job. Junior
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: is always all right. Coming up next, it is a
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter and the subject is why does he keep
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: me around? We'll find out. We'll get into it right
• 53:35
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• 54:12
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• 54:15
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• 54:37
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. My good friend, Shirley Strawberry. Give Junior a raise.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: Thank you Junior. Subject why does he keep me around?
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley, My husband and I have been married
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: for fourteen years and we're hanging on by a thread.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: We have two children, and sometimes I wonder if that's
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: why he stays with me. We never talk about our problems.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Things have happened in our marriage that would make a
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: normal couple split up, but we're not normal. At our wedding,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: one of his exes showed up and cried loudly while
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: we set our vows. She was escorted out and he
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: apologized to me on the altar. It was supposed to
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: be the happiest day of my life, but it was ruined.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: That was the first red flag, and over the years
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: he kept me guessing about her. During our tenth year
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: of marriage, I had an accident one night and the
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: EMTs called my husband. I was in the car with
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend and he was pinned in the car. So
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: that's the night my husband found out I was having
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: an affair. My husband never asked me one question about
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: my affair, but he did make a joke about being
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: at the wrong place at the wrong time. After my accident,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: there were nights that my husband did not come home
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: and didn't call me. I felt like I could not
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: say a word because I was because I was full
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: of so much guilt for getting caught cheating. We still
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: have sex and act like a loving couple and outside
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: of our house for the sake of our kids. But
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: he does sleep in a separate room and said it's
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: because he snores. I will take the snoring and the
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: talking in the sleep just to feel his body next
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: to mine in the bed. I have no idea what's
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: going on in his head. It would have been easier
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: if he had yelled, scream or cursed at me four
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: years ago, curse me out four years ago. I wonder
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: if he still loves me or not, or if he's
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: got a woman on the side. Is he with his
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: ex that ruined our wedding? Why does he keep me around? All? Right?
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: This is crazy? This is crazy right here. Surely though,
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: you are not comparing what your husband's ex did, I mean,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: coming to your wedding and crying during your vows. You're
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: not comparing that to your husband finding out you were
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: having an affair when your lover got pinned in the
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: car after that accident. Okay, these are two completely different
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: scenarios here, And I know you know that you were cheating.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: You were cheating, okay, versus a woman who cried at
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: your wedding. I mean, it's just not the same. It's
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: not the same. Why is he still with you? You asked.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: That's a really good question, because men are definitely more
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: likely to leave and not take their wives back after cheating. Okay,
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: that's a proven fact, while the opposite is true for women.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Women generally, you know, after some counseling and some beggings,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: some cleaning, a lot of times they'll take their husband
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: back after cheating. But like you said, maybe he is
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: staying for the kids. Maybe it is because you're comfortable
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: and convenient, Maybe you're familiar to him and he just
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to leave, or maybe he's having his cake
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: and eating it too with you. I mean, he can
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: still have sex with you, and he can stay out
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: all night and not call you and not come home,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: and he knows you won't say a word because of
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: the guilt you feel for cheating on him. So it's
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: kind of like he's got you because of this guilt
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: situation that you put on yourself because of that, And
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: that's why I think he keeps you around. But the
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: question is why do you stay? Why do you stay
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: and take this? I mean, you guys got to work
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: the situation out if it's to be worked out. Steve,
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: why does my husband keep me around? After reading this letter?
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: I don't really know, but I have a real strong
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: opinion about it, and I'll share it with you. Y'all
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: been married fourteen years and hanging on by a thread.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: It's not even a thread, lady. This letter is just
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: two people just in something. It's not being held together
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: by anything. We have two children, and sometimes I wonder
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: if that's why he stays with me. Well, that's the
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: only thing I can come up with, but I have
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: an even better reason later on. Though we never talked
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: about our problem them things happened in our manage that
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: we're making a normal couple split up. We're not normal.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: At the wedding, one of his actually showed up cried out, Ah, Jerron,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: that's his name, Jerome? Why not me? I should have
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: been me. I didn't have on my god, I got
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: I got a dressed. You I got a bought a
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: dressed like doing the most I got. Some friends wouldn't
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: look good. And bros, baby, I know your best man crying.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: I ain't even wait on the part where the man says,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: is there anyone here who would find just na see?
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: First of all, he ain't no real he ain't no
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: real boy hood boy. Because out of had my boys on, look,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: got any exit come to the dope. They don't even
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: got me. Oh my, one of my homes would have said, hey,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: doore you go out there here, and you would have
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: known exactly what they meant. Oh hey are you get out?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: Get out? Yeah? Well hang on, Steve, okay, hang on.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: We'll get to part two of your response coming up
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letters,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: subject why does he keep me around? We'll get back
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: into it, try to find out why right after this
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, come on, Steve, let's
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject why does he keep
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: me around? Yeah, y'all got problems? Two kids at you wedding?
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Oh started here. One of his ex was at crime Holland.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: Like I said, I had, I got some cute friends.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: Would have been brides. Man, I know you'll best man.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: I met your mamma, your mamma, and back you see
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  Speaker 1: me miss Anto. Oh yeah, she's back to tacking the food.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: She was escorted out. He apologized to me at the
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  Speaker 1: altars supposed me to happen to day in your life.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: But you lord, you say that that should have been
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: the first red flame. But then y'all didn't talk about it.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: So you kept on so over the years, uh damn
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: d before it didn't don't just go right there, roll
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  Speaker 1: under your desk, right. I don't think that's ever happened
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: before on the air, Steve. So that was the first
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  Speaker 1: red flag. Then over the years he kept me get
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: sing about her. Don't well, y'all, don't talk. So I
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: guess you ain't got nothing to do. But gast you
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: didn't bring up no more. He just left you guessing.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: Y'all don't talk and uh But around about the tenth
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: year of the marriage, I had an accident one night
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  Speaker 1: and the e MPs called my husband. I was in
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  Speaker 1: the car with my boyfriend and he was peeling in
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: the car. You wrote that census like it belonged. Now, yeah,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: you just put that in the ldder like what nothing
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  Speaker 1: doing out tienth year. I was in the cars and
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  Speaker 1: then with my boyfriend and they're gonna call my husband
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: because he was peeling. Then, well I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: so so so call my husband for what? You should
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  Speaker 1: have walked off? Yeah, I can't be in that car.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: You wasn't peeing, inn he was peeling. Then you couldn't
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  Speaker 1: get him out walk off. You crossed the street at
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: the corner stone, looking at the whole thing. Well, how
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: would she explain that to her man? What? It's her car? Right? No,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: it wasn't her car. I think it was her car,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: wasn't and he's him? Yeah, she just said penned in
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: the car. Yeah, Oh, what I have just said? My
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: car was stolen. I walked off. Somebody stole the car.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know how he got in the passenger seat,
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: but he got penned in. That's probably how the car
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: f lift though, and that's why they called her husband. Yeah, okay,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: so that's the night my husband found out I was
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: having an affair. That's not true. My husband never asked
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: me one question about my family, because that's not the
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: night he found out. He already knew. That's why he
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: didn't say nothing. But then he asked him. But he
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: was joking about being me being in the wrong place
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: of wrong time after my accident. That was night that
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: my husband didn't come home and didn't call me. He
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: got a free pass. You know what your husband saying, Oh,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: this is what we're doing. Yeah cool, Oh cool. I
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: ain't got to play this off no more. I felt
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: like I couldn't say a word because I was full
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: of so much guilt for being caught cheap. Yeah. Now
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: we still have sex and act like a loving couple
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: inn and outside of our house for the sake of
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  Speaker 1: the kid. But he does sleep in a separate room.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: And he said, because he's snow he said, and he tied.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: It ain't Yoe Knight. It ain't Yoe knight. I got
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: the rest. I would take the snowing and talking in
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: his sleep, just to feel his body next to mine
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: in the bed. What you just want something? I have
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: no idea what's going on in his head? Oh? I
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: can tell you exactly what's going on in his head.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: It would have been easy if he had just yelled,
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: scream and customed me out four years ago. I wonder
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: if he still loves me, or night he ain't in
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: love with you, you're sleeping with another dude. He ain't
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: in love with you. You ain't saying you stopped having
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: another fan. You didn't say that. No, he don't love you.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: Or if he's got a woman on the side, Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he don't come over, He don't call you, He ain't
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: playing cards, Yes he got another woman on the side.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: Is he with this ex that ruled? Now? Why is
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: that a question? Why is that even important? What difference
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: do it make? Who he with? He would more than
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: one person. I tell you that right now. He lived
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: his best life. Why does he keep me around? Are
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: you kidding me? Why would he leave? Why not? Yeah,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: here's a man that's getting all the sex he won't
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: you still have sex with him and he can come
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: in when he wants to stay out when he wants
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: to have sex with somebody else. You don't say nothing
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: about that, and you don't say nothing when y'all have sex.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: It's a perfect scenario. Oh my god, who wouldn't take that?
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, if it isn't a little miss attatude,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: come on today night. That's my favorite thing. I saw
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: tick talk. I don't know who the dude voice is,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: but they put it on a little cute girls, little
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: babies when they do it. Oh my god, if it
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: isn't me, little miss Antaitude. His name Martin Laurence. I
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: don't know where they got that from, really, but I
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: didn't know where it was anyway. Lady, Wait, you're not
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: looking forward? Answer to get out? So whatever whatever? Both
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: y'all in trouble. Y'all ain't got no man. Yeah, the
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: marriage is doomed. You're right. Poster your comments on Today's
• 1:06:47
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• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. You
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: know what time it is? Time for junior and sports
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: talk right after this. You're listening Steve, all right at
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: the time now for junior and sports talk. What you
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: got junior? All right, Shirley, First of all, let everybody
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: know September first, Huntsville, Alabama, Stand up Live, your favorite
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  Speaker 1: play Cousins coming. Go ahead and get your tickets that
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  Speaker 1: stand up Live dot com. I need to talk to
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: Piper Tom. He is like, here, what's up, Junior? What
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: you got going on? Yeah, man, listen if I just
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: want to get your take on the team we're gonna
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: see this season in the NFL. Just wasn't how you
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: feeling about what the pimps is talking about? All right?
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: Chiefs Chief Well, you know the Chiefs, they're gonna be
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: in it, but they ain't gonna win it. Mahone and
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: just a bad boy, but they ain't gonna run him
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: in the Buffalo this year in Buffalo, Gona handed to him. Yeah, bubbaloo.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: You know, Browns would have been in good shape. And
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: Sean got eleven games suspension. We gonna say why, but
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: some people, well just go ahead, move my once to
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: the seawanee is what's that when you get your massages,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: you haven't got to stop turning over, though. You just
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: got to stay on your stomach. You gotta stay a
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: little stomach. Him your whole problem. Star. As soon as
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: you turn over, you want to start talking to him
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: and the thing. Just stay on your stomach. As soon
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: as you flip over, you want everybody see you, and
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: you wanta start talking. Who else you got? James, Cowboys,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: pivot what you feel? Cowboys? Ain't this? Ain't you don't know?
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: You know? I love Jay Jones, I love all the players.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: I love Dad Elliott, I love cec Lam, I love
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: it players. Man, I just don't like that star on
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: the side of that helm. Me and I can't stand
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: when they say a man because team Yeah, I don't
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: really get a damn what they do. Okay, that's honest.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: What about them? Pippy probably be back in Super Bowl,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: super Bowl Chimp Cincinnati in Cincinnati, No him, No, I'm
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: from Cleveland. I can't do no day to wink. I
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: don't get damn one hip Joe. I'm damn bout joe Vin,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: joe Vin, We're Cleveland. Don't jim him Damn I No,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: damn Joe Vinean Washson. We're gonna die as soon as
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: he goes. As soon as he quit flipping over, We're
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: gonna be thank you, pimp. I just had to find
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: out how you felt, pimp. All right, Junior, thank you,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: thanks pimp. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: a guy on social media needs our help. His mom
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: invited his ex to dinner. Then there's another guy who
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: needs help, Steve, because his son is into hot auntie porn.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about this. We'll talk about it when we
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: come back. Right after this, you're listening to show, guys.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: This was on Facebook. T Mac wrote this, Thanksgiving might
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: be awkward. I just walked in on my teenage son
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: enjoying some quote adult content time. A quick search revealed
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: that his choice to watch is hot auntie porn. It's
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: not making me wonder, it's now making me wonder if
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: I should tell my wife about it, and if it's
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: a good idea to invite her sister over for the holidays.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: Am I reading too much into this? Yeah? Yeah, he
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: just like older woman, dog. Yeah, he just that's what
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: it is. Yeah. I had to thank for older woman
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: when I was you know too, I like mind starter
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: when I was twelve. Yeah, I was a little with
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: my Sunday school teacher. I knew everything about the lord
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: back then asked me anything. Yeah, mine divided attention. I
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: kept no stockings. God. All right, Now here's another one.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: So so you're saying it's not a big deal, he's
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: just ain't no big deal. P it's on TV, hot, Auntie, pawn.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: He just in that you know his when when when
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: your wife's sister come over his aunt Yeah? Yeah, he
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: had from feelings aunty you know Auntie five? Oh happy
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: thanksgiving up to his conversation towards her talking nobody else
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: you like stuff? All right? Here's another one. Steve Dave
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  Speaker 1: on Twitter wrote, what do you do when you and
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend break up on bad terms but your mom
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: just adores her? Yesterday, my mama invited her out to eat,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: invited me out to eat, but didn't tell me that
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: she had invited the X two. And maybe she's hoping
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: to get us back together, who knows. But I can't
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: seem to get it into her head that this relationship
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: is over and now she's crossing lines. How can I
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: make the point even more clear than I already have?
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: When she show up, Just get up and walk off, Mama,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: This ain't happening. Y'all broke up on bad turns. Just
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: ain't working. I'm not getting back with her, but this
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: was bad. Rude Steve just walking off. Yeah, your mama
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: with your mamma, take you sit back down, Mama. I
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: can't do it. I'm sorry. Not if she hire h No,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: but I know mama like her. But the mama don't know.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: She cheated on this boy. Oh is that what had happened? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: this was a bad break up. Yeah, he said it
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: was bad. He said it was bad. It was cheating.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: Was involved. Either she busted him with the chick that
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: he really won't or he busted her. Either way it
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: was bad bad. Yeah, yeah, maybe it was. And you know,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: mama don't know because she's such a sweet girl and
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: I want you with her because y'all was gonna give
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: me some grand babies and this was gonna be bail.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: So you can shut up here. You just you your
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: things happen, work through it. It's a bad break up.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: It's hard to eat hard. He should just leave, he
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: should just walk away. He should just leave your thing, mama. Mama,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: this ain't gonna have him. Stop inviting her over here.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: All you just go ahead tell you, mama, what happened?
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: He shapt with dog Davis, who just blurts it out
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, appetizing Davis, dog Davis. You know, alwa day.
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  Speaker 1: I always had him Spanish Roman nobody, you know, if
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: it ain't that natural real name unless he used his
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: rap name. What little baby dove ball, A little baby everybody,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: little baby, I don't know, a little little baby, little Duval,
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: little smack, little baby tea get well, little Duvall. Yeah,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: a lot of little We'll have more of the dar Davis,
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: Harvey Shaw like bay minutes after the hour, darn Davis.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah you're listening, all right. So Steve, we saw a
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  Speaker 1: video did you see this gun viral of George Clinton,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: who is eighty one years old? George Clinton? It's a
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: parliament thing, partying with the Ques. No, he is a kid, okay,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: and he was partying with the Ques. Yeah, yeah, he's
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: he's a memorable making out. He wrote a tonic dog.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: I know that he's eighty one. We love now. I
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: saw the video when it happened. That was bros in
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: that shooting that lie. They sent that to me. I've
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: been I was, I was on that phold that when
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: went viral. He was a part of it. Every cueing
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: scene that this is a story about a famous dog. Yeah,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: that was talking about me. Yeah, you're a famous That's
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: why I took I took it like that. It was
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: a great video, man, he eighty one. He loved Yeah.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: He when the bros. When he around the Brothers, he
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: loves it. One of the greatest moves we've made. Just
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: a celebration. Man. I was at the Good Show, you know,
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: before my TV show. When I'm coming out my dressing room,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: they played Tommy Doll. If it's a queue in the
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: audience anywhere, I can look on the monitor and he
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: out there, he out there, step oh, here we go,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: like you're right now, I'm getting save. You'll still be
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: doing that at eighty one? Yes, all right, coming up
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around it.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this you're listening to show,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: it is time now for would you rather? Would you
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: rather see what was behind every closed door or be
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: able to guess the combination of every safe on the
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: first try. I try, I'll give a damn horse behind
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: them door. Yeah, b B like that every safe on
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: the first try. Okay, all right. Would you rather include
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: mine because you don't know you're coming? You mess it
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: up on the first try every time? All right? Would
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: you rather sleep with your boss for promotion but everyone
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: knows about it? Or would you rather sleep with your
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: best friend's spouse for world peace? Which one? Uh? Huh?
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: How don't you change your mind? Yeah, so you're gonna
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: get that promotion but everyone knows about it. That's fine,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: that's fine. Yeah, I don't care about that. Yeah, I
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: got the promotion. Yeah, I'm your boss. Yes, yes, deal
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: with it. Okay, yes, sleep with your best friend's spouse
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: for world peace? The whole world? The first one's just
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: about you. So are you gonna save the world? Steve?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna get a would you now my bedfriend wife?
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: Ain't that fine? Are they listening? Crazy? Pass? I'd rather
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: get my stomach pumped. I got any number thing for
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: I spleep with his wife. Would you rather eat only
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: raw food? Or would you rather eat only burnt food?
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Or only burnt? Burnt? Piss me off? Burn burnt steak?
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: No at you like a little charm? No that that
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: little chaw and burnt different thing? I like it? Burnt
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: is how my sister Megan eats all foods burnt. Really.
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hey, man, is ridiculous. It's dry. Oh my god,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: where to God? It's a land animal. You're crazy. All right,
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: that's it for would you rather for today? Coming up
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after it is our last break
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks from
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: the one innimly Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: all right, guys, here we are our last break of
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: the day on this Tuesday. So far, so good, yes,
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: good show ye m M have fun today. All right.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: See before we get to your clothing or before we
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: get out of here, I should say we have one
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: more voicemail from a pastor named Will. Take a listen,
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: doctor Steve Harvey. One more again, Thank you, thank you.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: This is Reverend Will. That you should be in the
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: screet life. That just I just want to say it again.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: Please keep up that what you doing, keep up that
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: at that six o'clock wake up and at ten fifteen
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: to ten closing remarks. That is so wonderful. I'm gonna
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: say it again. That's part the top of your blessing.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: That God is blessing you because you're delivering something for
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: God to tell folks like myself, so I could imagine
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: the millions of folks that's listening, but I just had
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: to testify on it. Thank you, Steve R. D. Not
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: to tell you a black man what. Thank God at
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: that too. But I mean, I'm not prejudiced or nothing
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: like that. But thank God that we got a person,
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: a brother that's doing what you're doing and waking up
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: other souls. I don't know you. I knew you're waking
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: up other racest too, but thank God for what you're doing.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: You are a blessing Steve Harvey. It's no one you you.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: You're a blessing brother. Please keep doing God's worth and
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: God bless you on all the stuff that do. Your family, few,
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  Speaker 1: the judge, thang and your radio station. Let God touch
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  Speaker 1: keep touching that Father, Thank you, Thank you for Steve Harvey. God,
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  Speaker 1: Thank you in the name of Jesus. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: him waking up dead souls. Thank you God, keep touching him,
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  Speaker 1: his wife, his family, his staff, Keep touching them God
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  Speaker 1: and Jesus's great name. Thank you Steve Harvey, and keep
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  Speaker 1: on the journey with God. God bless you, my brother.
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  Speaker 1: Let God be with you, Steve, thank you. And you
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  Speaker 1: know I wasn't gonna do a closing remark. I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna do a question, but I got to do one.
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  Speaker 1: Now you got to keep on, you know what he
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  Speaker 1: was saying, though, I have to again, I have to
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  Speaker 1: give God all the credit, to honor, the glory, the praise,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, man, I really, I really wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: nothing without God. And I really, I really imployed people
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  Speaker 1: to form a relationship with God. I mean, look, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's real easy, it really is, you know, y'all. Look
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  Speaker 1: for those of you that's way out there like I was.
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  Speaker 1: I was way out there, but I knew the way back.
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  Speaker 1: I knew. I was raised by my mama in the church,
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  Speaker 1: so I knew about it. I just went when I
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  Speaker 1: went off to college, man, that who I threw my
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  Speaker 1: life in a spot. Oh boy. I started participating and
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  Speaker 1: I participated strongly, strongly till I was about really man,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't pull it together till I was about forty eight.
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  Speaker 1: I just got tired of myself. And I said this before,
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  Speaker 1: maybe sometimes you ever get sick and tired of yourself,
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  Speaker 1: you ever get sick and tired of the way your
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  Speaker 1: life is gone. But you really have nobody else to
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  Speaker 1: blame because you're the only one that's making them decisions.
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  Speaker 1: That's bringing about half two circumstances in your life. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: life already got a series of events and circumstances that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen that you have no control over. But when
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  Speaker 1: you're making decisions to be in a relationship that ain't
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  Speaker 1: healthy for you, to go in the direction that ain't
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  Speaker 1: healthy for you, to keep associating with people, that ain't
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  Speaker 1: healthy for you to keep doing the same thing over
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  Speaker 1: and over expecting a different result. If you don't do
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  Speaker 1: something different, you will remain the same. And then you're
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  Speaker 1: mad at God. I don't see why he see me
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  Speaker 1: down here. Ha ha ha ha. God has gone through
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  Speaker 1: extra measures to make sure that we are the one
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  Speaker 1: creation that has the power of choice. Other animals don't
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  Speaker 1: have that power. They can't decide when they have sex,
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  Speaker 1: they mate doing a certain season, animals are born doing
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  Speaker 1: a certain period of time. All the will to beast
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  Speaker 1: calves on the plains of Africa, born together. All that
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  Speaker 1: it just happens. Man. All the birds flock to certain
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  Speaker 1: regions to nest and have babies at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: All that deers have babies at the same time of
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  Speaker 1: the year, but people can do it all year round.
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  Speaker 1: So He's gone through extra measures to make sure we
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  Speaker 1: have the power of choice. So y'all start record nizing
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  Speaker 1: that you have a choice in this. You can have
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with God. It's easy. All you have to
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  Speaker 1: do is go somewhere by yourself and sit down and
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  Speaker 1: just say it. Hey, Lord, man, I'm tripping. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know the way. I don't see the light. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't got the light. I ain't got no, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got the button. I don't know where to switch at.
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  Speaker 1: I need some help. Can you just help me? What
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  Speaker 1: do I do? Tell me, show me where to go?
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  Speaker 1: What do I need to read? Who? What church? What's
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  Speaker 1: somebody man that could get me on track? Do it
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  Speaker 1: for your instant think about God is here right now? God.
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  Speaker 1: It don't take God a loan to do nothing. But
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  Speaker 1: now understand something. It's just a process. You got to
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  Speaker 1: get in the process. You understand and the process means
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  Speaker 1: it starts. But you got to be willing to go
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  Speaker 1: through the process. Stop giving up so quickly. He heard you.
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  Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen when you want it to happen.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, hardly anything I've ever asked
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  Speaker 1: God for it happened exactly when I asked for it
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  Speaker 1: to happen. But I'll tell you what it all happened,
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  Speaker 1: and it happened way bigger and better than what I
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  Speaker 1: asked for. So if I was, you out form relationship
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  Speaker 1: with it. It's vital, it's necessary. It's really really cool too, man,
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  Speaker 1: I thank you. That's my clothes with mars Hey, y'all
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  Speaker 1: talk to God that David As to lose and love
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