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- 0:30Speaker 1: an American decision business owner best known for his appearance
- 0:33Speaker 1: on Bravo's TV's Marriage to Medicine series. With over twenty
- 0:37Speaker 1: years of experience in the medical field and the community
- 0:39Speaker 1: service and his growing popularity, has doctor metcalf been sought
- 0:44Speaker 1: after for professional opinions and world health issues, lifestyle medicine, lectures,
- 0:48Speaker 1: physical health, and preventive medicine, especially in the black community.
- 0:52Speaker 1: We're discussing his motivation to pursue medicine, the jaws and
- 0:55Speaker 1: pains in medicine, and his outlets to reduce stress, such
- 0:58Speaker 1: as family time, physical fitness, cooking, writing, and live musical performances.
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- 1:08Speaker 1: The one and only Doctor Walter Scott Metcalf. How are
- 1:11Speaker 1: you doing, sir? I'm doing great, Doctors McDonald, thank you
- 1:15Speaker 1: for having me. I appreciate that's not with the live
- 1:17Speaker 1: musical performances. Doctor, We're gonna get right on the end
- 1:20Speaker 1: to it. We'll get right on end to it. Will
- 1:22Speaker 1: you be introduced as doctor Metcalf for the live performers
- 1:25Speaker 1: down in Orlando on March two in the fifth or
- 1:28Speaker 1: how is the introduction gonna be set up? I think
- 1:31Speaker 1: the way because my wife is gonna introduce me, so
- 1:33Speaker 1: I think she gonna introduced me to the world as
- 1:35Speaker 1: Doc Scott. What Polly broke up a little bit that
- 1:38Speaker 1: Doc what? You introduced you to the world as who
- 1:42Speaker 1: Doc Scott? Doc Scott? I love that Doc Scott's now now? Now?
- 1:46Speaker 1: Has this been something that I kind of like missed
- 1:49Speaker 1: along the way in the series here because all it
- 1:52Speaker 1: was just just you know, because we know you work out,
- 1:55Speaker 1: can you shape? You know you you know you're motivated,
- 1:57Speaker 1: you know your your entrepreneur? What the musical side of
- 2:01Speaker 1: you start to say? You know something I gotta start
- 2:03Speaker 1: showcasing this. I know it started with the song loss,
- 2:06Speaker 1: which was dedicated to your wife, But how did that
- 2:09Speaker 1: come about? You know? I think the musical side of
- 2:12Speaker 1: me just woke back up. I had it. I always
- 2:14Speaker 1: had it as a kid, you know, I was. I
- 2:17Speaker 1: remember taking piano lessons as a child, and when I
- 2:20Speaker 1: got in seventh grade, I remember over hearing my wife,
- 2:23Speaker 1: my mom, talking to the leader of a church choir,
- 2:26Speaker 1: and she was saying, his instructor said that he'll be
- 2:30Speaker 1: ready to take over a church in about two years
- 2:32Speaker 1: if if he keep on learning and playing like he did,
- 2:34Speaker 1: and sir, I quit after that. I said, I'm not
- 2:37Speaker 1: gonna be playing piano in church. Yea. They take up
- 2:39Speaker 1: too much of my time. So so you're trying to say,
- 2:44Speaker 1: you're trying to say the church kill your your musical dream.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Don't say that. Don't say that. Don't say that. Hey,
- 2:49Speaker 1: I already was on the usher board, you know, and
- 2:51Speaker 1: the junior choir, and I was, I was already in
- 2:53Speaker 1: church two days a week, and I said, man, they're
- 2:54Speaker 1: gonna have me in church three, four or five days
- 2:56Speaker 1: a week, you know, in practicing with three different choirs,
- 2:58Speaker 1: you know, how it is absolutely, absolutely, absolutely. You know,
- 3:02Speaker 1: it's really interesting because you know, as I always tell
- 3:04Speaker 1: people that that, you know, between the ages of eighteen
- 3:08Speaker 1: and twenty four, you know, we are kind of like, um,
- 3:11Speaker 1: we're kind of like, uh, you know, ambitious, you know,
- 3:13Speaker 1: we're we we we see so many opportunities and nobody
- 3:17Speaker 1: can tell us anything. We'll we'll chase those dreams. And
- 3:20Speaker 1: I always tell people what you do between eighteen and
- 3:23Speaker 1: twenty four, when you get your forties, fifteen and sixties,
- 3:26Speaker 1: that's what you start really making your money off of.
- 3:28Speaker 1: You know, those dreams, those desires, those early passions. You know.
- 3:33Speaker 1: So when I when I when I read about this
- 3:35Speaker 1: and I saw it, heard the song, and now this
- 3:38Speaker 1: concert and we're going, I'm talking to doctor Scott Walter,
- 3:40Speaker 1: Scott Mike Metcalf, he's one of the stars from Bravos
- 3:43Speaker 1: TV's married to medicine, and we're talking about this singing
- 3:46Speaker 1: career right now. And we're going to talk about this
- 3:47Speaker 1: medical career and this entrepreneurship because that's important because part
- 3:51Speaker 1: of your brand, it's part of your development. But when
- 3:53Speaker 1: you see people break out of these sides that you
- 3:56Speaker 1: don't see, it's important to know that that sometimes you
- 4:00Speaker 1: have to follow your dreams. That's why always tell people,
- 4:02Speaker 1: don't let nobody tell you what you can't do, you know,
- 4:05Speaker 1: because people will tell you that. So when you start
- 4:07Speaker 1: pursuing this aspect, the naysayers came out, correct, doctor metcalm
- 4:12Speaker 1: oh for sure, for sure they says came out family, friends,
- 4:16Speaker 1: you know, and definitely social media. You know, the naysayers
- 4:19Speaker 1: always waiting for you. They don't even have to come out.
- 4:21Speaker 1: They sitting there waiting to click dislike. So that's how
- 4:24Speaker 1: that's how that goes with them. So how do you
- 4:27Speaker 1: overcome that? How do you because that's what this show
- 4:29Speaker 1: is about because of the fact that, you know, really
- 4:32Speaker 1: social media. A lot of people do understand this about
- 4:34Speaker 1: social media. You know, a like dislike, a dislike can
- 4:37Speaker 1: be a form of bullying, especially when you tie negative
- 4:41Speaker 1: comment to it, and then it's tied to people you
- 4:43Speaker 1: don't even know. You know, that's the that's the wild
- 4:46Speaker 1: part about social media. You know, you can get emotional
- 4:50Speaker 1: highs from the likes, but then the negative comments and
- 4:54Speaker 1: the dislikes or the ugly emojis can also be emotionally
- 4:59Speaker 1: they're down for you. How do you in a person
- 5:02Speaker 1: who is a professional. You're a professional. You you with
- 5:06Speaker 1: the school you've earned, a professional were respected, respected degree.
- 5:10Speaker 1: How do you deal with the fact that sometimes people
- 5:14Speaker 1: kind of like disrespect you and actually sometimes don't even
- 5:18Speaker 1: believe you're a real doctor, you know. I guess thick
- 5:22Speaker 1: skin and intelligence hopefully keeps me away from all the negativity,
- 5:25Speaker 1: you know, because one, you're not gonna scoop down. You're
- 5:29Speaker 1: not the level that other people are. So stofe gives
- 5:31Speaker 1: me a disrespectful comment, It's just easy to block, delete
- 5:34Speaker 1: and move on with my life. And you know, say
- 5:38Speaker 1: they never existed basically, So, so I think this is
- 5:41Speaker 1: a level of having thick skin. You know, I'm the
- 5:44Speaker 1: youngest of tenids and sticks and stones, you know, and
- 5:47Speaker 1: and you know, I you know, the battles that I've
- 5:50Speaker 1: been through my life, negative words could never hurt me
- 5:53Speaker 1: nothing from social media. And my wife already told me
- 5:55Speaker 1: when we first got on the show. Don't you know
- 5:58Speaker 1: she knew more about reality than me. I knew absolutely
- 6:01Speaker 1: nothing about it, didn't care about you know, and actually
- 6:05Speaker 1: you know, refused to participate, you know, the first year
- 6:08Speaker 1: that they offered and so um so she basically told me, like,
- 6:12Speaker 1: you just gotta not read the comments, you know, yeah
- 6:15Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Like I said that, that's the bully area.
- 6:18Speaker 1: That's the area where they they attack you on your
- 6:21Speaker 1: on your on your video of chill on your video
- 6:24Speaker 1: when the comments there can like be depressing and demoralizing
- 6:28Speaker 1: because all you're doing is living your dream and you're
- 6:31Speaker 1: sharing it. And that's what you were doing when you
- 6:32Speaker 1: posted your video about your song, your your lyrics and
- 6:37Speaker 1: all that. It was just sharing your gift that God
- 6:40Speaker 1: gave you. That's gonna be real about this. It's a gift.
- 6:42Speaker 1: I can't sing, doctor Scott. I can't sing, so so
- 6:47Speaker 1: you you ain't ever gonna get nothing negative from me.
- 6:49Speaker 1: But there are people out there just like me who
- 6:51Speaker 1: can't sing, but making comments though, oh yeah, oh yeah,
- 6:55Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah. And when you're dealing with that
- 6:58Speaker 1: and you got the opportunity now on March twenty fair,
- 7:01Speaker 1: how much gonna tell you'll look, it's so almost sold out, okay,
- 7:04Speaker 1: because he's all olverays social media, Oh my god, he
- 7:06Speaker 1: can't believe the tickets are moving that fast, but he
- 7:09Speaker 1: don't if I'm if I'm correct, this is who you
- 7:11Speaker 1: on the show with just some of the Stars, Goodye,
- 7:14Speaker 1: mob correct, Fantasia correct, baby Face correct, Yes, Life, Jenny's correct, Life,
- 7:21Speaker 1: Jenny's Yes. Okay, Now now the next question, I'm gonna go.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Are you nervous? You know what? Right now, I'm not nervous.
- 7:34Speaker 1: One nephew was on the song with me. You know,
- 7:35Speaker 1: he's been an entertainment since he was probably eight years old.
- 7:39Speaker 1: He traveled the country, how yar devion, He traveled the
- 7:42Speaker 1: country playing young Marvin Gay and my brother Marvin, uh huh.
- 7:46Speaker 1: This young man and he went to Berkeley School of Music.
- 7:49Speaker 1: So this young man literally has me practicing with them.
- 7:52Speaker 1: We got a video this. I think it's gonna be
- 7:54Speaker 1: very interesting to see this whole journey, um, you know,
- 7:57Speaker 1: in the near future. But so we're we're documenting everything.
- 8:01Speaker 1: But this young man has me in there with them
- 8:03Speaker 1: while they're doing dance routines, and I'm I'm like, goody,
- 8:07Speaker 1: move on this one. No, I don't dance no more.
- 8:08Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay to the side and you know, hype
- 8:10Speaker 1: up the crowd and maybe maybe move side to side,
- 8:12Speaker 1: you know what. But you know, far as the movements
- 8:14Speaker 1: the new young guys are doing, they got they got
- 8:16Speaker 1: a routine together. Okay, so you said that you you
- 8:19Speaker 1: don't have no steps, that's what your no no spo steps.
- 8:26Speaker 1: Come on now you Oh you're gonna be old school.
- 8:29Speaker 1: Now you're gonna be old school. Just stand in one place.
- 8:32Speaker 1: You're not gonna You're not gonna break out with no
- 8:34Speaker 1: four tops, no temptation moves, none of that. Nope, Nope,
- 8:38Speaker 1: it's gonna be some side to side. No not. I'm
- 8:42Speaker 1: giv I'm gonna give him something. Okay, I'm talking to
- 8:44Speaker 1: doctor Walter Scott, and they're gonna be a little bit surprised. Yeah,
- 8:47Speaker 1: I'm talking to Walter. Doctor Walter Scott Metcalf from Bravos
- 8:50Speaker 1: TV's Marriage to Medicine. He'd be introduced by Doctor Contessa,
- 8:54Speaker 1: his wife as doctor Scott because he will be performing.
- 8:57Speaker 1: Just in case you just tuned in, he will be
- 9:00Speaker 1: before mean it March March twenty fifth at the Music
- 9:04Speaker 1: Festival Orlando Movie Music Festival. So let's talk about you
- 9:09Speaker 1: know the song you dropped. I think the song or
- 9:11Speaker 1: dropped in September of last year, correct, yes, okay, cool. So,
- 9:15Speaker 1: so when it was put out there, what was the
- 9:18Speaker 1: purpose of you releasing the song to the general public?
- 9:21Speaker 1: The song is called Lost. I think the purpose of
- 9:25Speaker 1: the song was really like redemption, you know, because it
- 9:27Speaker 1: with real reality TV. You know, they you if you
- 9:31Speaker 1: make the wrong slips, say the wrong thing, they're gonna
- 9:34Speaker 1: run with it. They're gonna run with it. You know,
- 9:36Speaker 1: I don't care like you know, you know, or someone
- 9:38Speaker 1: else says something about it, They're gonna run with it.
- 9:40Speaker 1: So Reality TV wanted to run with a narrative like
- 9:44Speaker 1: you know, like me and my wife. You know, you know,
- 9:46Speaker 1: every marriage has problems, but they wanted to act like
- 9:48Speaker 1: we had more problems than we did. I wanted to
- 9:49Speaker 1: create more problems for us, and so you know, I
- 9:52Speaker 1: think when I wrote lost, I was just saying, Okay,
- 9:54Speaker 1: well let me um, you know, as opposed to getting
- 9:57Speaker 1: on TV arguing and talking and repeat, let me make
- 10:01Speaker 1: a song, and then if they choose to play it,
- 10:03Speaker 1: they'll play it. And fortunately, you know, Andy Cohen, they
- 10:07Speaker 1: chose them. They chose and played from the season finale.
- 10:11Speaker 1: So I guess they understood what I wrote, and I
- 10:13Speaker 1: guess it was good enough because they chose it from
- 10:15Speaker 1: the season finale, right wow. As opposed as opposed to
- 10:19Speaker 1: women screaming, yelling, and hollering at each other. You know,
- 10:23Speaker 1: they did that first, and then the absolutely well, you know,
- 10:27Speaker 1: the interesting thing about it was that when I when
- 10:30Speaker 1: I look at my life, you know, I always look
- 10:31Speaker 1: at the things that people have told me what I
- 10:34Speaker 1: should do. You know, I just worked for IBM, and
- 10:36Speaker 1: when I told people I wanted to pursue a career
- 10:38Speaker 1: as a Steve a comedian, they looked at me like why.
- 10:42Speaker 1: They looked at me like who who? You can't make
- 10:45Speaker 1: no money, you can't do that. And when I hear people,
- 10:49Speaker 1: they're not. So when I hear the word haters, people,
- 10:51Speaker 1: haters is not a term that's just been around recently.
- 10:55Speaker 1: People are always been discouragers or people are always told
- 10:58Speaker 1: you what you can't do because people have put you
- 10:59Speaker 1: in a box. Now people call them naysayers. If Bible
- 11:03Speaker 1: call him Nay says, Nay says, they're saying right, right,
- 11:07Speaker 1: and and and and that's the part of this whole conversation,
- 11:10Speaker 1: because it's a it's a two part conversation. I'm having
- 11:12Speaker 1: with you today. Because of the fact that you know,
- 11:15Speaker 1: as an artist and I'm calling your artists, because of
- 11:17Speaker 1: the fact that you're going on stage. People have told you,
- 11:21Speaker 1: based on your celebrity status, based on your your your
- 11:25Speaker 1: your talent. It's saying that they're gonna put you on
- 11:28Speaker 1: stage with a baby Face, on that same stage with
- 11:31Speaker 1: Good Emove, on that same stage with Fantasia, on that
- 11:35Speaker 1: same stage with Life Jen. And I know all these people,
- 11:38Speaker 1: all these people are just you know, they got they
- 11:40Speaker 1: got an audience. And guess what, you're going to have
- 11:42Speaker 1: a fan base coming to see you too, Doctor Scott,
- 11:46Speaker 1: How do you feel about all this? You know what,
- 11:49Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm excited that this part of my life.
- 11:51Speaker 1: You know, like I said, I love and enjoy being
- 11:54Speaker 1: a doctor, and um, but I'm just happy that my
- 11:57Speaker 1: love for music woke back up inning you know. And
- 12:00Speaker 1: how would you say walk back? How did they wake
- 12:02Speaker 1: back up at your house? Well, I had, um, I
- 12:06Speaker 1: had my nephew, Javier, and doing piano lessons for my kids.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Okay here at my home, and um they be in there.
- 12:13Speaker 1: And then you know, we did them on Sunday. So
- 12:15Speaker 1: after after they finished the lessons, we go in there
- 12:18Speaker 1: and you know, get on the piano and we start
- 12:20Speaker 1: singing old church songs because my kids have never heard
- 12:23Speaker 1: the old good Baptist church song absolutely and and so
- 12:27Speaker 1: we get in there, we start singing some old Johns
- 12:29Speaker 1: acting silly and then um, another friend sent me a
- 12:33Speaker 1: beat and it just captivated me. And when Javier was
- 12:36Speaker 1: leaving out, I had my phone. I had recorded the
- 12:39Speaker 1: beat on my phone and I did a little voice
- 12:41Speaker 1: memo and I said, Javier, I like this and can
- 12:43Speaker 1: you can you like go home and singing hook to me?
- 12:45Speaker 1: Can you just go like lost lost, so lost without you?
- 12:50Speaker 1: And you know? And I said, can you do that
- 12:52Speaker 1: hook for me? And then he came back to the
- 12:55Speaker 1: neighbor the amazing hook, and I said, oh, okay, well
- 12:57Speaker 1: let me let me, let me get on the hook
- 12:58Speaker 1: and let me write some rhymes with this and uh
- 13:01Speaker 1: and there you go. Next thing you know, called a
- 13:03Speaker 1: friend and we were up in the network studios, all
- 13:09Speaker 1: based on just a beat. And then you had the
- 13:12Speaker 1: talent to come in and create the hook, because you
- 13:14Speaker 1: gotta have a hook in the song, like you got
- 13:16Speaker 1: you know that hook, you know, great song. I always
- 13:19Speaker 1: remember that, the famous of Harold mel winning the Blue
- 13:22Speaker 1: Notes miss you come on, Teddy Pendegrad. You know, if
- 13:28Speaker 1: Teddy Pendegrass wasn't in the background singing that hook to
- 13:34Speaker 1: Miss You and it's not a song. Oh no, you're
- 13:38Speaker 1: absolutely correct, absolutely correct, And that's why it's the beauty
- 13:42Speaker 1: of doing these things and doing these things with a
- 13:44Speaker 1: with a dream. And we're talking about a dreamer. We're
- 13:47Speaker 1: talking about the person who who sits around and has
- 13:50Speaker 1: looked at his life like saying, we're referencing here, doctor Scott,
- 13:54Speaker 1: doctor Walter Scott Metcalf. You know, youngers of ten kids,
- 13:57Speaker 1: you're born and raised into Michigan. Correct, yes, sir, And
- 14:01Speaker 1: as they say that the cold state at Michigan State
- 14:04Speaker 1: grad When we come back, we're gonna continue this conversation.
- 14:06Speaker 1: I just wanted to start this whole opening half of
- 14:09Speaker 1: the show about his career as a as a live
- 14:12Speaker 1: musical performers. When we come back, we're gonna talk about
- 14:15Speaker 1: why did he get into medicine, what did the entrepreneurial side,
- 14:18Speaker 1: why did he move to Atlanta this side of the business,
- 14:21Speaker 1: and how has been one of the stars on marriage
- 14:24Speaker 1: to the medicine affected him professionally, and how he's had
- 14:28Speaker 1: to live and deal with this new fame notoriety because
- 14:32Speaker 1: there's a difference in being a doctor who's unknown and
- 14:34Speaker 1: then a doctor who's famous. Be right back with more
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- 15:38Speaker 1: we just you've just heard it live Performers Music Festival
- 15:42Speaker 1: in the Lando, Florida, March twenty fifth. He'd be sharing
- 15:46Speaker 1: the stage with baby Face. He'd be sharing the stage
- 15:49Speaker 1: with Fantasia. He'd be sharing the stage with Goodym. He'd
- 15:53Speaker 1: be sharing the stage with Life Jennings. He'd be introduced
- 15:55Speaker 1: by the One day Only Doctor Contessa. She'd be calling
- 15:59Speaker 1: him doctor Scott, the one and only Doctor Walter Scott
- 16:02Speaker 1: metcal as we move in your life. Being a person
- 16:05Speaker 1: who the youngest of ten kids, can I ask you know,
- 16:09Speaker 1: you know what type of careers are lifestyle that your
- 16:12Speaker 1: other siblings have. Did they motivate you to pursue a
- 16:14Speaker 1: career an educational career, sir? You know, being the youngest,
- 16:19Speaker 1: they motivated me. I had a very supportive family. They
- 16:21Speaker 1: motivated me and supported me and everything that I've done.
- 16:24Speaker 1: You know, I'm the only one that chose medicine, but
- 16:26Speaker 1: you know we have I haven't an educator and counselor
- 16:30Speaker 1: both for phdsh I have a flight sister that was
- 16:35Speaker 1: a flight attendant, to have a brother that's an engineer. Uh,
- 16:38Speaker 1: two brothers that retired from the factory. You know, we
- 16:41Speaker 1: were in Flint, Michigan, so that was that was you know,
- 16:43Speaker 1: they were in the factories. McDonald dared one sister that
- 16:47Speaker 1: retired from the factory, one sister that got an advanced
- 16:49Speaker 1: degree as well and went into business and worked for Jim. So,
- 16:53Speaker 1: you know, pretty much, my mother's stressed the education. She's
- 16:56Speaker 1: you know, and uh she's she's definitely stressed excellent in us.
- 16:59Speaker 1: And she was in that era where you know, she
- 17:01Speaker 1: moved that moved up here from the South. You know,
- 17:03Speaker 1: she was a valedictorian of her class and so she
- 17:08Speaker 1: wasn't on me, and so she made sure her kids
- 17:09Speaker 1: wasn't no dummies. And and she hurt her she she said,
- 17:13Speaker 1: because of having ten kids that that kind of killed
- 17:17Speaker 1: her dreams and of going to law school. And so
- 17:20Speaker 1: she never she never finished her undergraduate degree herself. But
- 17:23Speaker 1: you know, was super successful as a mom and just
- 17:26Speaker 1: just overall great, beautiful woman. Well you know that like
- 17:29Speaker 1: my mom, Like I come a big family too, you know,
- 17:32Speaker 1: six sisters and two brothers. So I came, I came,
- 17:36Speaker 1: and my mom was just like your mom. You know,
- 17:38Speaker 1: she graded away from my high school very smart, but
- 17:40Speaker 1: high school, you know, high school was the highest level
- 17:43Speaker 1: of education that she achieved. But you know I myself,
- 17:47Speaker 1: I just knew I just wanted to be pursue a
- 17:50Speaker 1: life that was different from where I was living because
- 17:53Speaker 1: I lived in the neighborhood um you know, well, you know,
- 17:57Speaker 1: my parents was in the hood Fifth Ward and used
- 17:59Speaker 1: to Texas, and then we moved to the northeast side
- 18:03Speaker 1: of Houston, Texas. Basically, I just moved from black people
- 18:06Speaker 1: who were struggling to black people who weren't struggling as much. Okay, So,
- 18:10Speaker 1: and I knew I didn't like either lifestyle, and so
- 18:13Speaker 1: I was motivated to see what was out there because
- 18:16Speaker 1: basically my whole life doctor Metcalf, all I saw was
- 18:19Speaker 1: black people my whole life, and so I didn't even
- 18:22Speaker 1: know from a standpoint of what that white world looked
- 18:25Speaker 1: like until I went to college, and that opened my eyes.
- 18:29Speaker 1: When you start making that transition, tell us your background
- 18:32Speaker 1: and then also transitioning from that high school world into college. Okay, Well, mom,
- 18:39Speaker 1: after my father passed when I was five, my mother,
- 18:42Speaker 1: it was six kids left at home, and so my
- 18:44Speaker 1: mother actually decided to leave the city of Flint and
- 18:48Speaker 1: we moved. We moved to a place where her and
- 18:51Speaker 1: my dad used to vacation, which used to be called
- 18:53Speaker 1: the even of the North if you ever heard of Idawa, Michigan.
- 18:56Speaker 1: So we moved and grew up in Ottawa, Iawall, Michigan
- 19:00Speaker 1: bad with Michigan and uh so that was a pretty
- 19:03Speaker 1: diverse community. But it was probably second to been Harvard
- 19:06Speaker 1: and Forest community in Mission uh and uh. But but
- 19:10Speaker 1: you know, but nonetheless, like I said, great mom, she
- 19:12Speaker 1: always worked, she always provided, which was awesome. And so
- 19:17Speaker 1: I was. I had a really diverse education and diverse
- 19:22Speaker 1: friend group growing up. And so when I went to
- 19:25Speaker 1: Michigan State, there was still a culture shock of coming
- 19:28Speaker 1: into a classroom of three hundred people, but but none
- 19:33Speaker 1: of us. But but there was there was you know,
- 19:35Speaker 1: the diversity was was not anything that I had to
- 19:38Speaker 1: get you know, adjusted to, you know, if I right.
- 19:42Speaker 1: So so basically you're saying, like, okay, Rashan, I was,
- 19:46Speaker 1: I had that diverse education. If I stayed in Flint
- 19:48Speaker 1: has been a different story. But when she moved me
- 19:51Speaker 1: and allowed me to adjust, and I would understand another
- 19:55Speaker 1: side of life and how to communicate with another side
- 19:57Speaker 1: of life. So Winter Michigan State, other than massive campus
- 20:01Speaker 1: of over thirty five thousand students, you know, that's my adjustment, correct, right, correct,
- 20:08Speaker 1: you know and coming and you know, like I grew
- 20:10Speaker 1: up in the like the small town. It was not
- 20:12Speaker 1: even the McDonald's there, not even a traffic light. So good. Yeah,
- 20:16Speaker 1: big adjustment, big adjustment in that man. So how white medicine? Though?
- 20:20Speaker 1: But why medicine? You know, I was I would like
- 20:22Speaker 1: to share personal stories where I talk to people because
- 20:25Speaker 1: I know I can't cut on nobody. I know, I
- 20:28Speaker 1: can't tell nobody that they're sick. I know that, But
- 20:31Speaker 1: why medicine, sir? I think the power of positive reinforcement.
- 20:37Speaker 1: My mother has been calling me. My mother and siblings
- 20:40Speaker 1: have been calling me doctor since I was probably since
- 20:42Speaker 1: I was walking. Wow, I've been saying I was going
- 20:45Speaker 1: to be a doctor myself since I was five years old.
- 20:48Speaker 1: And I remember in seventh grade I said, I really,
- 20:51Speaker 1: I really made the decisions that I'm really going to
- 20:53Speaker 1: be a doctor, you know, and I'm really gonna try
- 20:55Speaker 1: to get all eggs. I made that decision myself in
- 20:58Speaker 1: seventh grade, and like I said, my mother, and I'm
- 21:00Speaker 1: sure my mother, you know, she she said, I know
- 21:03Speaker 1: what you're capable of. You know, you really don't need
- 21:05Speaker 1: to bring me nothing home more than they. You don't
- 21:06Speaker 1: need to bring nothing less home, you know. She she
- 21:09Speaker 1: just basically said that to me. And uh, I think
- 21:12Speaker 1: how passing with my father dying, you know, of a
- 21:15Speaker 1: preventable illness was definitely one of the deciding factors in
- 21:20Speaker 1: my mind. He died of a metastatic colon campcon to
- 21:23Speaker 1: the brain, and uh, just like just like a lot
- 21:26Speaker 1: of black man, you know, he knew he was sick.
- 21:28Speaker 1: He waited till after Christmas to go in, you know,
- 21:30Speaker 1: and that was our last Christmas with so uh yeah,
- 21:34Speaker 1: and that was you know, five years old, almost six
- 21:37Speaker 1: when he passed away, you know. So all that had
- 21:40Speaker 1: all that, I'm sure just in that upbringing, you know,
- 21:44Speaker 1: and then I had believe it not. I even had
- 21:47Speaker 1: a black doctor growing up in that in that small town,
- 21:50Speaker 1: and he was a World War two veteran with my
- 21:52Speaker 1: father and my father was a medic in World War two. Wow,
- 21:58Speaker 1: So that was that was that was kind of andage there.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this because you know,
- 22:02Speaker 1: you said that about black men, and we hear that
- 22:04Speaker 1: a lot in the black community. You know, before we
- 22:07Speaker 1: hear two things in the black community, you know, not
- 22:09Speaker 1: enough quality healthcare. But then we hear the story by
- 22:12Speaker 1: black men who are don't want to acknowledge they need
- 22:16Speaker 1: to go to doctors or don't want to go to doctors.
- 22:20Speaker 1: What what's creates that doctor medcalf in our male community. Well,
- 22:27Speaker 1: I think one lack lack of knowledge, you know, of
- 22:31Speaker 1: of of medicine. That's that's that's definitely one, you know,
- 22:34Speaker 1: and we know the main thing would be our our
- 22:37Speaker 1: healthcare disparities and a lot of those are created by
- 22:40Speaker 1: you know, lack of access, you know, lack of having
- 22:42Speaker 1: representation of having an African American physician. Um, you know, um,
- 22:49Speaker 1: we as African Americans make up what almost what twelve
- 22:51Speaker 1: percent of the population, but yet less than four percent
- 22:53Speaker 1: of us are doctors. So that's that's definitely showing that
- 22:56Speaker 1: we don't have the representation that's needed. And you know,
- 23:00Speaker 1: ultimately with black man we know, h it stems from
- 23:03Speaker 1: the mistrust of the medical system in general, and we
- 23:06Speaker 1: can't hire the fact that the interesting there should be mistrust,
- 23:10Speaker 1: you know, but a lot along with that mistrust is
- 23:12Speaker 1: a lot of misinformation. So you know, I tell people
- 23:14Speaker 1: like we know about the Tuskegee Experiment, we know the
- 23:18Speaker 1: trocities that they committed against our black men and black
- 23:21Speaker 1: women and black babies. Because if black men are affected,
- 23:23Speaker 1: the wives are affected. So it's not like the men
- 23:25Speaker 1: would just walk around with syphilist you know, the women
- 23:27Speaker 1: were catching it too. The babies were catching it and
- 23:29Speaker 1: having complications of you know, pregnancy and and and giving
- 23:33Speaker 1: birth to baby with cyphilis. So all those health care
- 23:36Speaker 1: disparities kind of kind of mound up, and that adds
- 23:39Speaker 1: up the apprehension of a black man, you know, seeking
- 23:43Speaker 1: you know, to get medical attention. Cool that mistrust. Can
- 23:46Speaker 1: you know, if you don't trust somebody, you're not gonna
- 23:48Speaker 1: you're not gonna show up. That's absolutely true, because you know,
- 23:53Speaker 1: we walk in there afraid anyway. I know, I've never
- 23:56Speaker 1: walked into doctor's offers confident because I don't know, because
- 24:01Speaker 1: I don't know what they might find out about me.
- 24:03Speaker 1: I don't know for a high blood pressure, I don't know,
- 24:05Speaker 1: cholesterol level, I don't know. You know, I've been I
- 24:09Speaker 1: you know, I've had a numal thraxx in my life,
- 24:11Speaker 1: which means that my long collapse while I was just
- 24:14Speaker 1: watching TV. I've been diagnosed with cancer throd cancer. So
- 24:20Speaker 1: you know, once you're diagnosed, as they might say that
- 24:22Speaker 1: you in remission, but it means that it can't come back.
- 24:25Speaker 1: I've been I've had my gall bladder removed, and so
- 24:28Speaker 1: these are things you know, that have happened to me
- 24:31Speaker 1: just in my daily life, my daily my daily process.
- 24:34Speaker 1: And you know, the cancer was discovered basically through going
- 24:38Speaker 1: in there doing exams. If I didn't have these exams,
- 24:41Speaker 1: Lord knows, I may not be talking to you right
- 24:43Speaker 1: now because I didn't. Nobody wouldn't have had that preventive
- 24:47Speaker 1: medicine treatment because I wanted to talk about that as
- 24:49Speaker 1: we close out your interview about what as black people,
- 24:54Speaker 1: black men, black families can do in the value of
- 24:58Speaker 1: preventative medicine. Um be advocates for one another, you know,
- 25:04Speaker 1: every everyone in the family should be advocates for one another,
- 25:06Speaker 1: because like to say, for instance, my father died of
- 25:09Speaker 1: colon cancer, so I made sure that all my brothers
- 25:12Speaker 1: had their colon cancer screening, not at fifty you know,
- 25:16Speaker 1: nine at forty five, but I made sure, I say,
- 25:18Speaker 1: we had a higher risk. You know, our dad died
- 25:20Speaker 1: of it, uncle died of it. So we getting our
- 25:22Speaker 1: we all getting our colon ospies. By the age of forty.
- 25:24Speaker 1: All my brother's done it. Two of us had two
- 25:27Speaker 1: of us had polyps. You know that. You know, they
- 25:29Speaker 1: say a polyp If it's one of the specific polyps,
- 25:32Speaker 1: that's the type of polop that can take about eight
- 25:34Speaker 1: years to turn into cancer. So you know, So having
- 25:37Speaker 1: those colon oscaries at age forty, getting those polops removed,
- 25:40Speaker 1: having to follow up colon ospy five years later, being clear,
- 25:44Speaker 1: that's what you do. You know, that's what you do.
- 25:46Speaker 1: You prevent that that that polyp from from growing over
- 25:49Speaker 1: a period of eight you know, up to eight years
- 25:51Speaker 1: and turning into cancer. So advocates for one another, educating
- 25:54Speaker 1: one another, and one we just you know, you you
- 25:57Speaker 1: you gotta find a doctor that you trust. And you
- 26:01Speaker 1: paying all this money for your healthcare. All you guys
- 26:03Speaker 1: out there with those jobs and benefits, everyone, every every
- 26:08Speaker 1: ployer he covers UH one year or your your annual
- 26:11Speaker 1: physical exam. So the minimum you need to do is
- 26:14Speaker 1: go get your physical exam every year and your doctor
- 26:17Speaker 1: should know what is age appropriate for you. So I
- 26:20Speaker 1: have an age appropriate physical exam for my males that
- 26:22Speaker 1: are under under twelve from twelve twelve to eighteen eighteen
- 26:28Speaker 1: twenty twenty five to thirty five. You know, so I
- 26:30Speaker 1: know what needs to be done, what type of tests
- 26:32Speaker 1: need to be done? When when we need to start
- 26:34Speaker 1: screening for this, When we screen for test kick cancer,
- 26:36Speaker 1: when we screen for prostate cancer, you know, and more
- 26:39Speaker 1: importantly now you know, if we start screening for depression,
- 26:43Speaker 1: you know, we gotta we gotta recognize that this is
- 26:45Speaker 1: humongous in our black community, and we got to start
- 26:48Speaker 1: screening these kids between age eleven and thirteen for depression. Absolutely.
- 26:53Speaker 1: I'm talking to doctor Walter Scott Metcalf, Doctor Walter Scott,
- 26:55Speaker 1: how can we reach out to you? How to think
- 26:57Speaker 1: out people who are listening to the show? Uh, you know,
- 27:00Speaker 1: out to you and guard you your business. You know,
- 27:02Speaker 1: to be able to schedule in the potential like uh
- 27:05Speaker 1: sessions with you at your at your at your various
- 27:08Speaker 1: business locations. They can catch me and me or my
- 27:12Speaker 1: wife virtually or in person at chat same medicine dot com. Uh.
- 27:16Speaker 1: The link is right there. You can check that. All
- 27:19Speaker 1: you have to do is get on the computer check
- 27:21Speaker 1: go to chat same medicine dot com. You can schedule
- 27:23Speaker 1: appointment virtual visit with myself or my wife. Doctor Contesta metcalf. UM.
- 27:28Speaker 1: I'm available on all social media platforms, pretty active on
- 27:32Speaker 1: Instagram and I would love for you guys to join
- 27:35Speaker 1: me on Instagram at doctor Scott Metcalf and UH and
- 27:39Speaker 1: Twitter and Facebook is just Walter Scott Metcalf which is
- 27:43Speaker 1: my name or Scott Metcalf MD. I appreciate you so much, sir,
- 27:47Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you. Rachelle. I really appreciate you.
- 27:50Speaker 1: And we're gonna talk toon Okay, all right, I appreciate it,
- 27:53Speaker 1: thanks a lot, Bye bye, there you go again. I
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