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Nick Cannon Grudges Closure Tom Brady and more · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving them like the milling bus things, and it's not true.
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  Speaker 1: Good Steve Hartley, I don't joy. You gotta turn out
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  Speaker 1: very You gotta turn to turn them out, turning, got
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  Speaker 1: to turn out to turn the water the water. Come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your thing, huh, I share will Good morning
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  Speaker 1: everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on dig
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  Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio
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  Speaker 1: show you know today I was thinking of what I
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  Speaker 1: would say today and it just dawned on me this way,
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  Speaker 1: and I just want to share this with everybody listening.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to get some help to make it through life.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot imagine where I would be if it was
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  Speaker 1: not for the help of my God, if it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: for his grace and mercy, if I did not have
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  Speaker 1: the ability to lean on him and all the times
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  Speaker 1: I've had to lean on him, which has become a
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  Speaker 1: daily basis. I have no idea where I would be,
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  Speaker 1: but clearly I know for a matter of fact, I
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  Speaker 1: would not be here today. You have got to get
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  Speaker 1: some help to get through this thing called life. I
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  Speaker 1: am begging you to look into it. Man, you've got
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  Speaker 1: to form a relationship with God. Without a relationship with God,
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  Speaker 1: this thing called life is daunting at times. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care who you are. I know I'm speaking the truth
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  Speaker 1: right now, because listen, no matter who you are, what
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  Speaker 1: job tighter you have, what aspirations you may have, I
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  Speaker 1: don't care what your educational background is or is not.
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  Speaker 1: It does not matter if you don't get a real
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  Speaker 1: relationship going on with God. I don't see how you
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  Speaker 1: can make it. So many people are faking and fronting
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  Speaker 1: out here like they got it going on, and you
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  Speaker 1: don't know, And you really don't know how many people
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  Speaker 1: that you think in your neighborhood had it going on
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  Speaker 1: because you saw a car pull up in the driveway,
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  Speaker 1: or the house look bigger, or grass is cutting nicer,
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  Speaker 1: and you only find out that a foreclosed your side
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  Speaker 1: on their house too. See, you don't know. The mask
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  Speaker 1: that people put on to parade around in is for
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  Speaker 1: appearing's sakes. So a lot of people you looking at
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  Speaker 1: that you think got it going on? Who might be
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  Speaker 1: the pattern of success that you want to trace? You
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  Speaker 1: got to be real careful with that because it may
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  Speaker 1: not be as it appears to be. But one thing
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  Speaker 1: is for sure, no matter what's going on in your life,
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  Speaker 1: I know that behind whatever mask I'm wearing, or I realized,
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  Speaker 1: or no matter what the appearances may be, that on
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  Speaker 1: the other side of me, I'm gonna be just fine. See.
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  Speaker 1: You may be outwardly people hating on you, talking about you,
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  Speaker 1: dragging your name through the mud. Look, man, people can
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  Speaker 1: say stuff about you. Most people talking about you don't
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  Speaker 1: even know you. They just participating in it. You can
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  Speaker 1: have that appearance going on, but behind you, within you,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a relationship with God, it don't matter
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  Speaker 1: because you can be all right. I've seen it get
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  Speaker 1: real stormy on the outside for me, but on the
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  Speaker 1: inside I just had to feel and I was gonna
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  Speaker 1: be all right. See. That's what the relationship gives you, man.
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  Speaker 1: It gives you the confidence to note that the things
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  Speaker 1: that you're going through are temporary, that it's just a
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  Speaker 1: space that you happen to be in. Like I said
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  Speaker 1: the other day, you got to remember something. The road
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  Speaker 1: to success is always under construction. You might as well
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  Speaker 1: get ready for that. If you're planning on changing, getting
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  Speaker 1: better doing something about your health. If you decide, hey, look,
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  Speaker 1: I just would like to live a longer, more prosperous life,
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  Speaker 1: or hey, I want to make X amount of dollars,
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  Speaker 1: or hey man, I'm gonna stop staying out in these
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  Speaker 1: streets and I'm gonna come home and treat my family
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  Speaker 1: where they ought to be treated. I don't care what
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  Speaker 1: decision you make. When you strike out on that road
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  Speaker 1: to success, it's under construction, partner. There's barrels out there,
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  Speaker 1: there's wide turns, there's detools. You know. It's it's me
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  Speaker 1: and out there holding signs saying slow down. Sometimes they
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  Speaker 1: put the stop sign up. You got to wait and
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  Speaker 1: watch people go buy you on the other side. Then
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  Speaker 1: before you can take off again. You've all been on
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  Speaker 1: the road with construction on it. It can be so frustrated.
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  Speaker 1: And the whole time you own that road. I know,
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  Speaker 1: when I'm on the road we could under construction. I'm
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  Speaker 1: always thinking of an alternative path. I ain't ever set
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  Speaker 1: in traffic under construction, man, and thought of if I
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  Speaker 1: get off on this exit, where would it take me?
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  Speaker 1: Not knowing, but just man, could I keep moving if
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  Speaker 1: I go that way? That's a dangerous thing sometimes, see,
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  Speaker 1: because oftentimes when we get off the road to success
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  Speaker 1: and we take that other path, we get further and
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  Speaker 1: further off course because we're nod tool sign for that.
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  Speaker 1: Just a decision I made on my own because I
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  Speaker 1: don't like sitting here sometimes I don't have the patience
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  Speaker 1: I ought to have, so I've taken some what I
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  Speaker 1: thought might be shortcuts. But I gotta tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: ain't no shortcuts on the road to success. Even the
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  Speaker 1: detour signs wind up taking you a little bit out
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  Speaker 1: your way. And look background. I remember one time I
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  Speaker 1: was coming from Las Vegas and that was some type
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  Speaker 1: of chemical spill in a truck and you could all
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  Speaker 1: see the smoke up ahead and very faint. So they
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  Speaker 1: detoured us through the desert and we had to go
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  Speaker 1: all the way around, and I drove, man like an
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  Speaker 1: hour and a half out of the way, and when
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  Speaker 1: they entered us back on the freeway where we were
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  Speaker 1: to go back to La as soon as I got
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  Speaker 1: at that exit to get back on the freeway, I
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  Speaker 1: looked right there and there the accident was. Now it
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  Speaker 1: was an hour and a half hour forty five all
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  Speaker 1: the way around in that desert, to get back to
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  Speaker 1: almost the same place. But it was the best way
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  Speaker 1: to go because see, that was the route to take.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what you got to understand about trying to
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  Speaker 1: make the right decision to be successful, that the road
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  Speaker 1: to success is always under construction. You're gonna have to
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  Speaker 1: go around a little bit, so could stop being in
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  Speaker 1: patient with it. I don't want to go around. IM
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  Speaker 1: gonna go this way, You go that way if you
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  Speaker 1: want to, just follow the detour signe. See, because somebody
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  Speaker 1: that came up this road before you have, somebody didn't
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  Speaker 1: travel the road already and they took the way around,
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  Speaker 1: and yeah, it seemed like it's a longer way, and
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  Speaker 1: you want to make that other decision. But stay on
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  Speaker 1: the road to success. It's under construction, man, that's just
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  Speaker 1: the way it goes. Don't lose your patience and try
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  Speaker 1: to create a shortcut for yourself. I'm gonna go away.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody ever gone way? Hold a partner, you really
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  Speaker 1: thank you for going to do that. Listen. There's oftentimes
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  Speaker 1: a lot of rewards when you go the least travel path,
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  Speaker 1: but the road to success is the least travel path.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you keep getting mixed up. You keep thinking
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  Speaker 1: if you go another way, now, No, stay on the
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  Speaker 1: road to success. That is the least travel path. It's
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  Speaker 1: under construction. You can go out there with you with
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  Speaker 1: your machete. If you want to talk about cutting new trails.
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  Speaker 1: You think the road to success is under construction, take
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  Speaker 1: the other route and get that machette out and see
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  Speaker 1: how long you be out there trying to cut a path. Sometimes, Man,
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  Speaker 1: you just got to stay patient. The road to success
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  Speaker 1: has been traveled before by millions of people in front
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  Speaker 1: of you, everybody that has some setbacks in life. But
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  Speaker 1: don't get off the road to success just because you're
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  Speaker 1: having some setbacks, just because you see some orange barrels up,
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  Speaker 1: just because there's some men out there with vest on.
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  Speaker 1: What that got to do with you? Everybody, everybody that's
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  Speaker 1: trying to be successful, is on that road. Your relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God helps you guide yourself around the barrels. It
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  Speaker 1: helps you have the patience to go around that away.
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  Speaker 1: He gonna get you back where you gotta be. But
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  Speaker 1: you got to go out there so you can learn something. See,
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  Speaker 1: you need God to make it in life because the
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  Speaker 1: road to success is always under construction. He calms you down.
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  Speaker 1: When the barrels is up, he lets you know it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be all right. He rewards you with the patience
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  Speaker 1: to finish because he gonna get you right back where
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  Speaker 1: you need to be and you can get on which
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  Speaker 1: where you was going. Okay, all right, yall, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: try that today. You're listening SA Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: let's get it all. It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, let me tell y'all something I cannot tell
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  Speaker 1: you how twenty twenty two is going for me simply
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  Speaker 1: by waking up every single morning with nothing to start
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  Speaker 1: my day except gratitude. I don't check no text, I
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  Speaker 1: don't look at my email. I don't. I don't kennerbuddy,
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  Speaker 1: don't even if you know me, you know how to
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  Speaker 1: email me anyway. I don't do none of that. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I wake up and just start thanking him and I
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  Speaker 1: go down the list and it don't And you ain't
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  Speaker 1: got to worrybody getting redundant because it's the same grateful
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  Speaker 1: things to be grateful for. It's just a new way
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  Speaker 1: to look at it. Like, if you wake up today,
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  Speaker 1: don't you know that's a big opportunity than waking up yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: What that's a big gift, man, you are to thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you, welcome to twenty twenty two.
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  Speaker 1: Make your twenty twenty two go a lot better with
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  Speaker 1: starting off each morning with gratitude. Now, Junior, what's on
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  Speaker 1: your mind? Uncle LEVI ask you so, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: just talking to you is always fun. I just got
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  Speaker 1: the question. I just want to know this because I
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  Speaker 1: know I got messed up, but up. How many whoppers
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  Speaker 1: you think you got behind line? How many whippings I
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  Speaker 1: got from my parents for lying? Yeah, Mike, you're like, well,
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  Speaker 1: because anytime I was gone, if I thought I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna get a whipping, that was a lie because I
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  Speaker 1: had to tell you something to try to fend it off.
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  Speaker 1: I knew why you called me in and I heard
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  Speaker 1: the accusation. But if you if you're talking to me,
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  Speaker 1: and if your conversation has the tone that this could
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  Speaker 1: be a ass whipping, I have to start lying at
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  Speaker 1: this point because obviously you bought me in here for
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  Speaker 1: some truth. You've called me in here for some truth. Boy,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't see them street lights? Come on, boy, didn't
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  Speaker 1: I tell you to go out. Not to go out
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  Speaker 1: in that street. Boy, I thought, I said, don't play
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  Speaker 1: on them steps? Boy? Did you throw that rock through
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  Speaker 1: that wonder? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to climb
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  Speaker 1: up in that tree? Boy, Didn't I tell you to
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  Speaker 1: mop down them steps before we was gone board? Didn't
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  Speaker 1: I tell you to rake them leads for you went
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  Speaker 1: out to play? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to
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  Speaker 1: throw that football over that by Miss Johnson's house? No more?
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  Speaker 1: All lease, all these once you brought me in and
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  Speaker 1: had a tone of accusation to it. Nah, I got
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  Speaker 1: to lie. I got to lie because I already know
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  Speaker 1: already no. And so now my parents, being the brilliant
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  Speaker 1: people that they were, they knew lies because I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know how to tell them at first. Like I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you could see this on zoom, but like
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  Speaker 1: this is how I would start all my lives. Boy,
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  Speaker 1: didn't I tell you not to throw that football by
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  Speaker 1: Miss Johnson's house? I got to look off because I
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  Speaker 1: was searched for the lie. I would look right or
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  Speaker 1: left because I got to look for this line. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you so I had to learn over
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  Speaker 1: the years, lads of being focused whole yass still lie,
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  Speaker 1: don't blink, don't swallow some techniques to line. And so
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  Speaker 1: I turned into one of the top lines in the
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  Speaker 1: country because of that. But I want to answer your question,
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  Speaker 1: how many asses out and took for line? Probably about
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  Speaker 1: probably about hunting. That's nothing to be proud of, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Answer the court truth level might be a little shot
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  Speaker 1: coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour was
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  Speaker 1: the Nephew and run that frank back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it
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  Speaker 1: is time now for the nephew and run that frank back.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Now? Um, I got papers
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  Speaker 1: on that man. I got papers on that man, cat dog.
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  Speaker 1: If you would hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh
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  Speaker 1: this Phyllis, Yes, it is who am I speaking to?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Phillis? This is this is Jim down at
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  Speaker 1: the top. How I work out here with Clem your
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  Speaker 1: husband Clem clo Okay, yeah, okay, how are you? I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: He's slipped in fails today. What and he heard himself? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: He gotta leave a little shaken up here at the job.
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  Speaker 1: So what happened? What do you what happened. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: think he he definitely pulled something in his back. But
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  Speaker 1: we um, Now who is you? Now? I'm his wife,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm just my chilly, you're you're your Phillis. That's right,
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  Speaker 1: that's right. Okay, because we got listed that his wife
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  Speaker 1: is jam and we tried to call her earlier but
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  Speaker 1: we didn't get an I'm his wife, so I'm his wife.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know Janis? Who the hell is Janis? Janis
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  Speaker 1: is who he has listed for a contact? When when uh,
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  Speaker 1: when it's an emergency contact or something she happens. Now
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  Speaker 1: y'all got that mixed up? Yeah, Ill must have nixed
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  Speaker 1: that up somehow. He wouldn't have put no, no damn
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  Speaker 1: Janis as his wife. I'm his wife. Steal it. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who who messed up? But that ain't right.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the wife. Okay, Well it has her listened as
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  Speaker 1: the wife and call her as a contact if something
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  Speaker 1: goes wrong. Well, I don't know what to tell you
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  Speaker 1: is because i'm his wife. Now, I don't I don't
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  Speaker 1: know who messed up. Hold on one second, let me
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  Speaker 1: let me click over one second of a call coming
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  Speaker 1: to any one se jan it's on the dog on.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, that was Janis what she said.
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  Speaker 1: She but she's gonna come out to the job, so
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  Speaker 1: you don't have to know. Now I'm coming out to
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  Speaker 1: the job. I'm his wife. I don't know who No
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  Speaker 1: Janis is. That John need to get it straight because commy,
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  Speaker 1: she says she's gonna come and take him to the doctor.
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  Speaker 1: Now she ain't come where. So I'm is white. I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking it. No, you don't let you don't lease my
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  Speaker 1: husband the note naughty. I'm is freaking white. So y'all
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  Speaker 1: need to say, y'all Ye Janis says she'll be right
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  Speaker 1: here in ten minutes. Well I'm right. I bet I
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  Speaker 1: beat there in ten minutes too, And I bet y'all
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  Speaker 1: been not release my husband and nobody. I'm in white.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who No Janis is, but y'all need
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  Speaker 1: to get that straight. I'm on my wife. You tell
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  Speaker 1: Janie that she beat me there to all that sister
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  Speaker 1: produce some become very certificate papers or something to tell
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  Speaker 1: us to produce that I got the papers on that man. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, uh, Janiss, he does have her on
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  Speaker 1: the list. Man, so I can't What do you have
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  Speaker 1: on the list side, I don't give it. What's on
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  Speaker 1: the list? Who? Yeah? Name on the list? Man? Why
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  Speaker 1: would her name be above your name on the list?
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  Speaker 1: You know well, I'm not gonna play this little ring
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  Speaker 1: around the rosie with you. I got papers on that, man,
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  Speaker 1: so you better met Bessie. I best hold up until
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  Speaker 1: I get there. And cat y'all want some more problems.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna release him to Danners as soon as she
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  Speaker 1: gets deal. Sir, you've been at release my husband another buddy.
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  Speaker 1: All y'all lay out on the floor. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell you right now. If my husband on, when I'll
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  Speaker 1: get that, it's gonna be some full blown going down.
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  Speaker 1: So your best just make sure I get that. This
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  Speaker 1: is a bunch of bulls, but it's gonna oom when
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  Speaker 1: I'll get down on her way. I don't got to
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  Speaker 1: hung up with you. I ain't got time to play
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  Speaker 1: with you either, So I'm all my way. Because you
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  Speaker 1: don't answer for this, Jannis might get a beat down,
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  Speaker 1: and your ass don't get them business as my husband
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  Speaker 1: thet there, Oh you mess your head here you are here,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got trying to be growing back and forth
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  Speaker 1: with your playing ringing around the road. I'm a gown
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  Speaker 1: as woman I got, you said, go, I seem like
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  Speaker 1: I got some business to take care of over there. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Well what am I supposed to do with Jannis? Like
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  Speaker 1: I said, you're telling that the home of cap I'm
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  Speaker 1: on my way. She's trying to represent like me, trying
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  Speaker 1: to be me. Okay, wife, you will you what? What
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  Speaker 1: do you? What do you want me to tell? Tommy who? Tommy?
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know the dolly who Tommy? That's me, baby,
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  Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Your husband Clemmett got me to Frank Fall called you. Okay, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: really okay, y'all, really, I'm okay. I don't know you
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  Speaker 1: to me, you stay your hands over there. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: trying to be praying with y'all like I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: get by. What does I'm gonna get god? Y'all ask Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I got one more thing? There is your favorite? What's
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  Speaker 1: the laddest radio what's the baddest radio show in the layer?
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  Speaker 1: Those three thirty got papers on your man? Ain't this
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  Speaker 1: your seventh answer? Yeah? Yeah, I think it's seven. I think, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we just celebrated seven. Don't truck But he know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he bet your nesto nothing. He knows all me and
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  Speaker 1: know how long they've been in? Come on? What in prison?
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  Speaker 1: What down down to the hour and the second? How
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  Speaker 1: many you've been in t twenty? You say that the
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: June be twenty one? Lord, forty one years? Wait a minute,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: forty one? What do you mean forty one? Forty one years?
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I've been married since I was twenty four. The whole
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: damn time I've been married. I even to be married
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: or engaged the entire damn time for the one years
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I won't I won't live time for credits served. You
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: give me all my damn years in this here? All right?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, asked the CLO. With our Chief Love
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this, you're
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour and entertainment news. Guess who's
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: expecting baby number eight? What they still do eights? Yeah, yeah,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: just sound like Nick Cannon is. Yeah, yeah, that's right.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it about it. Another one and a
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: sexy new actor has been added to the Fast and
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Furious list. This is Fast and Furious number ten movie,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: and we got to check in with Tyrese to find
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: out how he feels about it. That's all coming up,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time for asks. The CLO
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, ready for
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: your love questions. Dorothy La writes, I'm sixty seven years
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  Speaker 1: old and my boyfriend is sixty nine. He's got bad
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: teeth and most of them have been pulled out. Last
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: week he got two more pulled on the left side,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: so it looks terrible. He's not at all bothered by it,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: but I'm ashamed. I know it's a money issue for
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: him because his insurance is terrible. Why won't he let
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: me help him? First of all, let me help you
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: with a couple of things at sixty seven and sixty nine?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Why are you using the term boyfriend? I don't even
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: understand that, y'all. Damnns seventy? Well is a turn boyfriend
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: coming from next He ain't just start having bad teeth
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: when you're seventy. This has been a continuous problem. He
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: didn't have got two more pull out the left What
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: do you mean out of the left. The left side
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: is the corner teeth missing. It's hard when the corner
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: teeth is missing, that right there on the side where
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: you smile, when you smile all the way and nobody
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: grinned what you know more? You know? You know people smiling.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Then when you smile all the way and you go
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: and you see that gap, people going because man all
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: his teeth missing on the side. And so now you've
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: got to help him because it's an embarrassment and it
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: do bother him. But see, since you still let him
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: be your boyfriend, it ain't no consequences. So now when
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: your man looked bad, ladies, and you claim him as
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: your man. I hate to tell you this. I didn't
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: create this rule, but you get blamed for it though
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: how she let him come out the house looking like that.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Women get blamed for a lot of stuff, ain't they fault?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: But you do get blamed for it. And there ain't
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: no Steve Harvey rule and nothing. Uncle Steve ain't saying this,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: but I gonna get his ragged ass mouth fixed for
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: we go anywhere else. But we're not going to church.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: We're not going down here to bingo, We're not doing
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: none of this now, damn mother, you get your ragged
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: ass mouth. Shop everybody, all right, shop everybody shop everybody.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: We hear that. Stop spitting on me. Go ahead, get
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: your damn mouth moving onto Keisha and Charlotte. Keisha's is
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: five years ago. I had a threesome with a married couple.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: It only happened once, and now I date their son,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: who's eight years younger than me. The wife called me
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: and said her son is off limits. I told her
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: if she called again, I'd let her son know I
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: slept with his mama and his daddy. Would be wrong
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: for that. Well, you ain't gonna wear about her calling
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: no more that for damn show. She will not put
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: in another phone call. That was an ultimate slap threat
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: right there. If you call me one more time, I'm
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: gonna tell him that I slept with your mama and
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: your daddy. You ain't got to wear about her calling. No,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: damn mo. This is the only family in town, though.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: How small? When do y'all live in a village? Why
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: do y'all live Charlotte, Charlotte, Yeah, Charlotte. Oh that's where
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: they're from. Yeah, No, there must be in a subdivision,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: because Charlotte, big enough to get lost in. You can
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: have a couple of people. You see it in Charlotte.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: You must live in a subdivision that's way out and
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: ain't y'all ain't got no calls or nothing, because where's you?
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Keep going back over to that family. Family, everybody in
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: that family cute mama to daddy, a little boy. Lady,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: you need to move around, he needs you. Never heard
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: the time spread Joe oats? You spread him further, all right?
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Janetta in Kansas City, Missouri, who says
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I went on a blind date that my cousin set up,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: and she said, the guy used to drink a lot,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: but he's doing better and he's ready to settle down.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I had two glasses of wine while we were out,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: and he started judging me, saying I should stop at two.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: I wanted to call him a drunk and leave. Was
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I wrong for drinking? Well, he's an alcoholic and he
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be around the temptation and now he trying to
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: be up at him. He got a lot of damn nerves.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: But why did they introduce you to him? Because he's
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: doing better now and he's ready to Okay, Well, I
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: bet he is, But see nothing to settle down with
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: me and then have your ask some relapse. Man, I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: was listening to this dude that drank heavy and he
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: he had me laughing so hard. It wasn't funny. Yeah,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: well to me, it was. Let me stop that. I
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: was laughing so hard. He said, I'm a strong ass
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: man and he drank a lot. He said he's alcoholic,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: he's I'm strong ass man to dude said have you
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: ever thought about going to a A? He said, AA
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: is for quitters. Wait, man, this dude right here, he'd
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: have propped himself up to the point where you tried
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: as for quitters. Okay, that's wrong. For drink no, hele No,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: you had two glasses of wine but he couldn't handle
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: it and he's judged. Yeah, I think I think you do.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I think this should be your last date with the
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: blind date. Dude, this ain't gonna work out. It ain't
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: for you, all right. Teresia and Um Jacksonville says, I'm
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: a thirty year old single mother and I'm in a
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: financial bond. My child's dad hasn't paid child support in
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: a year because he's unemployed. His wife makes good money,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: so I told him to ask her for the money.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: She called me and cursed me out. If they're married,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: shouldn't she want to help support his child. Nope, not
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: at all, that's what you think. And legally it can't
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: even it can't even happen. Legally, it's not her responsibility
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: at all. It's his responsibility. He made that child. You
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: call it, lady again, you're gonna get cussed out again
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and hard and next time. And legally, there's nothing you
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: should do. And I don't know how you even thought
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: you can't get support from this woman. Are you nuts?
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: You got to talk to this guy that's on him? No? Yeah,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Cielo. Coming up at the top
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: we want to remember beautiful Chesley christ former Miss USA,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: who passed away on Sunday morning after jumping from a
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: building in Manhattan. Now, according to the NYPD, Chris, who
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: is a native of North Carolina, was thirty years old
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: and was crowned Miss USA back in twenty nineteen. She
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: worked as an attorney seeking reform of America's justice system,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and she was licensed to practice law in two states.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Chris also worked yeah as a correspondent for Extra tv
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: um and before her death. On Sunday, she posted an
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Instagram picture of herself with the caption made this day
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: bring you rest and peace. Um Steve, I know you
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: didn't know her well, but you did get a chance
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: to work together work with her at the Miss Universe
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: pageant back in December. Yeah, we just did it. She
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: was the correspondent alongside Kelsey. Uh yeah, Chris um No grandma,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: what's his name? I liked the guy too, Elsey Grammar,
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: no Nost Carson Crestle, Carsley Carson Crestley. They were side
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: by side, so all my tosses went to them, and
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: you know, we stood on stage and did the final
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: goodbyes together, and after the show, you know, we were
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: talking with her and her mother because her mom is
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: in the forty fifties gorgeous woman, and were standing next
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: to her and Margie was hugged and talking about hanging
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: that sish. You know, we're in these fifties, we gotta
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: looking good. We's laughing. So Laurie was standing there talking
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: to it, taking pictures with it. You know, gorgeous girls
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: that's just all be cheerful. You just never never know.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: And that's why, man, it's so important. Man when you
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: call and checking people and you say how you doing,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: really find out how they're doing, you know, go deeper
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: than don't. Don't just make it a superficial cart how
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: you doing? Man, I'm hanging in there. Man, Hold up, dog?
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Oh what you mean you're hanging in there? What's what's
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: happening with you? Oh? You know, got a couple of things?
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: What you got, man, let's talk about it, you know,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: because if you're friends with somebody, didn't be their friend.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not blaming anybody for this because you don't know.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: But I'm just suggesting to people that maybe when we
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: talk to our people, our loved ones and people we
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: care about, the next time we ask them how they're
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: doing and they say, I'm all right, you know, probe
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: a little bit, pro probe a little bit. You know.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: When she calls, she's not doesn't sound quite right. My
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: question to her is, okay, how are you sounding right now? Though?
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: You know, and then she'll just break it down well
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah, because she'll call all chipper
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: and everything. But then I'm like, but how are you sound?
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: What is that in your voice? I here? You know, yeah,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: so yeah, it's important, and you know it's important especially
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: for men too, because men we don't like you know,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: like I mean, I'm a I'm in a text group
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: with thirteen brothers. We all went to school together, man,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: and we all we always stayed close. And you know, man,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: we check up on each other, like we know, some
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: of us are closer with the other ones than the
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: other ones. And some of us like, you know, boo
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: boo boo boo boom. So like I hear something somebody saying,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I go, hey, man, I text the other dude. Separate man,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: check on kid, See how kid doing. Hey Man, call
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: walt Man. Makes your walk good? Hey walt Man? Call Space.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: He what was happening? Because sound like he loved and
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: you know, and we do all that. You know, we
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: have a health seminars. We get on the A zoom
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: call man. We have like health meetings, you know, the
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: twelve of us, just to talk about health issues and
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: stuff because all of us in our sixties. Man, Like
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I'm the I'm the youngest dude in the group. I'm
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: the youngest one in the group. Now I turned sixty
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: five after all of them. I'm I'm the youngest one
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: in the group. That's crazy, man. And you know, we
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: gotta check on cats, man. And I'm not I'm not
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: saying that would end it, but if you gotta, you
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: gotta check on them, man, just check on them. Yeah,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: that was such a sad story, man, because you know,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: you look at people and you think, wow, what could
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: be wrong because they're gorgeous or something like that. That's
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: not nothing to do with it. Man, that's sad, but
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: it's nothing to do it. I wish that was it.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I wish you know what, I've seen very very wealthy
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: people commit suicide. You think, man, money, money, money fix everything.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: No it don't. It don't. And so sad, sad story.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: You know, people are have been calling me to get
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: my thoughts and comments on it, but I just said,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: you know, I give my thoughts and comments on my
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: radio show, and I don't like trying to be the
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: first one when something tragic strikes, you know. And you know,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: they got pictures of me at her own stage, and
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: they wanted to A guy called me, wanted to do
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: an interview and all like that. Oh, man, this is
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: this just happened. She got a mother, their family got
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: to deal with some stuff. I'm not fit to be
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: the spokesperson jump out front like I got the yeah, yeah,
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I asked Steve Dog just ain't just ain't asked Steve
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: or the Judge show. Yeah, this is different, and so
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: just pray for the go ahead. Tell me what makes that?
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: What is it inside that makes you snapping it? Just
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: just end it all. I'm just I don't I don't
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: know the answer to happen. I don't know the answer,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: but I just pray. You've got to remember that the
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: devil has one mission that's to rob you of your destiny.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: And he's a con artist. And if he can get
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: you to think that it is hopeless that you have
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: to escape. If you if the devil can get in there,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: man and plant that seed and let it take root,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: you you have a problem. You have a problem. I
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: just prayed that other people in my life find that
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: the strength to just always know that this too shall
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: pass and to get some help. And therapy is real, man,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: And therapy is really really real. It works for a
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: lot of people. Seriously, all right, all right, coming up
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes, after the hour, We'll have more of
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: to show. Well, it appears that Nick Cannon is expecting
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: his eighth child, and it's a boy. Nick hosted a
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: gender revealed party with mommy to be Bree Teazy, who
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: just happens, just so happens to be Johnny Mansell's ex wife.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: The gender revealed party took place in Malibu, Mai j Yeah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Football player. Um, that's that's the only one I know. Yeah,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: this is her first child. It will be Nick's eighth child.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Took place in Malibu this past Saturday. Nick has ten
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: year old twins with Mariah Carey uh Um. Their names
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: are Monroe and Moroccan. He has a four year old son, Golden,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: and a one year old daughter called Powerful Queen with
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: another ex. He also welcomed six month old twins, Zion
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: and Villier with another woman, Abbie d l Rosa. That
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: was back in June of last year. And remember in
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: last December he lost his seven child then to brain cancer.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: So he's expecting child number eight. I got three kids.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: That's enough for me. Nick listening, just call me because
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: I want to know what you use it. Well, let
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: me let me let me give you some help when
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: you get this advice whatever whatever he wants to share
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: with you, that's on him. Let me talk to you
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: about last week. Yeah, I was just on this show.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: We had a good time. Let me just say this
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: to you, Janie. There is something to call child support. Yes,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: and you're not gonna believe a chunk some money the
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: FINNI me clipping off your ass. Do you think you
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: think you was mad at your family members? Boy? When
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: the well, let me tell you something. You who but eight?
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: If I did you even think about that? H Oh
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: you need to get some thinking. Oh you show me
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: to get the thinking. I don't know how you didn't.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I just want to know. Oh my god, stupid, I
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: stupid for real even think about child Oh you can
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: get all these women, you have, all the babies you want.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Oh you can't get some chicks. You ain't even got
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: to have a good line, Junior. Just go down there
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: and tell just oh brother, I can get you start
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: if it's someone's fact what you want. The ain't I
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: talk to Nick. I'm right here. I can get you
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: started if that's what you want. But let me tell
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you what come with it. I messed around. I got
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: seven kids. All my seven kids was out of marriage.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: I've been marriage since I was twenty four years old.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: I've never had a child out of where. Luck. All
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: the kids I had was due to marriage. Yeah, and
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I didn't have none of my kid's own purpose, not one. Yeah.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: All right, So congratulations once again to Nick Cannon. Coming
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: talk about holding grudges and letting stuff go. We'll be
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Here's a question, how long does it take
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: you to get over a disagreement? For example, there was
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: the notorious twenty eighteen clash between Cardi B and Nicki
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Minaj that ended in a tussle. We all remember this,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: a tussle at the New York Fashion Week party and
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Cardie threw her shoe at Nikki. One month later, the
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: ladies called a truce on social media. When Nikki tweeted
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: let's focus on positive things only from here on out,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Cardie responded on Instagram with the caption, all right, then
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: let's keep it positive and keep it pushing. So here's
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: the question. Do any of you have a problem admitting
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: you're wrong or calling a truth? Or do you hold
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: a grudge for a grudge forever? I think we all
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: know who you who you want to address this to? Share?
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Who should answer this? Who? Who should? Okay, cool question,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: I'm stam A step to the side. Do you get
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: out to way? Yeah? We know what you this thing on? Tommy?
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: See right there? Do you have a problem admitting you're
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: wrong or calling a truth? And do you I'm wrong?
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: I got no problems admitting if I'm wrong at all? Wrong?
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: What about? Hold on? Hold on, hold on, You're not
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: saying wrong. If I'm wrong, I ain't right right right right, right,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: right right, that's not this problem. Uh, it's we gotta
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: get him round to the I'm wrong. But now when
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  Speaker 1: you're right, though, Tommy, when you're right, and I've seen
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: you right on several occasions, now post the question to
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: him now when he's right? Sure? How long do you
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: hold a grudge? Do you hold a grudge forever? Oh? Huh?
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I like that? Right there? I like that right there?
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Are you wor mad at someone? Right now? And for
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: how long have you been mad? I ain't mad? Nobody
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I ain't mad at Nobodge whatever, but I will get
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: you up out my life though I would do that.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I will get you of my life. Well, can I
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: say this about it? I'm not really mad at anybody
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: right now in my life. But I'll tell you right
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: now it's three. People can't walk up on me, and
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: the conversation can't be number Hello, master, how are you
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: anything else? It's that would they would have to open
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: a conversation with hello, master, how are you? And seeing us? How? No,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: they ain't going to open it with that. It's only
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: cracking sight. Yeah, a doc you ain't got. But one
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: more wrong thing to say to me about me? There
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: are three people in this world? Four four four four,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: it's four. I just said, so tell me you're not
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: mad at anyone Mudge right now? Ye name, I just
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  Speaker 1: quit fooling with people. That's a that's a name. Just
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  Speaker 1: just quick fooling. Yeah, just be to him when you're seing.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: We just quick fooling work. What about just one person?
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I'm looking for a life and I know when I
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: see him what's gonna happen. But his name is called
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: When I see him, tell you right now, I see call. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care if he didn't know, because he knew.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: He told me I wasn't gonna be nothing anyway. But
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: when I see calling, I'm telling you right there he
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: snagger tooth. Now I'm gonna wide that gap. Ye just
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: want him to know, Car, I said your name. Everybody
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: know I'm looking for you. When I see you called,
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: I'm standing right now. You're missing the two front but
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take them insides out too. Now they' know
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: exactly who you're talking about, because even if they didn't
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: know his name, they know, they know, they know. Wait
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: till I see Car, and you know I'm just telling you.
• 42:55
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  Speaker 1: having nothing to lose many social media man, Yeah, all right,
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: I got nothing now. Hey, coming up next, and is
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: the nephew who is the kindler gentler nephew? Now with
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: the prank phone call right after this? All right, Frank,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: The subject is how far is too far with my man.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that in just a bit,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: because right now the nephew is here with today's prank
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Now, well, let's
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: see how far I can go. Oh, we know, exotic delivery.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Exotic delivery, all right, cat dog, Let's see how far
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: the nephew can go if you would. Hello, Hello, I
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: am trying to reach adriaan Adria and yeah, this is
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: this is he How can I help you? How you doing?
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: My name is? My name is was Shot. I'm with GPT,
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  Speaker 1: and we have a delivery for you. I'm gonna be
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: arriving probably in the next I guess about the next
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: ninety minutes. Are you Are you actually at the house, sir? Um? No,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: I'm not at home right now, but I mean you
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: can just go ahead and leave whatever it is my
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: my wife and you know kids can probably get it
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: when I'm home from school, you know. So let me
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: make sure I got the address right, Are you thirty
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: eight North River Drive? Yeah? Okay, So is anyone there
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: right now at all? Uh? No, nobody is home right now.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: I don't understand why I can't just just leave the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: package there for again. Well, this has to be this
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: has to be signed. And I have you on here
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: as the handler for this delivery, so I definitely I
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: gotta get quite a few signatures from you. I got
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: about five or six pieces of paper sheets that you
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: need to sign off on. Are you? Are you? What
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: time did your wife get there? Sir? She'll be the lady.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: What do you what do you? What do you mean?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: I'm a handler handling? What? What are you? What are
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you delivering? This is GPT, sir, this is Global Pet Transport.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: We have two peacocks, we have a seal, and we
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: have a baby kangaroo that we're dropping off today. Okay,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: there's gotta be some kind of mistake, right, we have
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: a dog, that's it. We don't we don't. We're not
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: an animal sanctuary here. I don't. I don't understand what
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. We didn't a kangaroo. I feel,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're you're you're you're Adrian. It's correct. Yeah
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: that's my name, man, But okay, and you're thirty eight
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: North River Drive. Listen, listen. Yes that is accurate. But again,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not a handler. I'm not handling things. Okay, okay, sir,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Let me, let me if there is some confusion. Your
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: name is here, your address is here, So I don't
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: see where I have a problem. Everything I'm asking you,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: you're saying it's correct, except now you're saying you don't
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: want your delivery. It's not my delivery. Man. If that's
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to tell you, this is not I
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: didn't order a kangaroo. I did even order these things. Okay,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: a kangaroo, a seal, and two peacocks doesn't make sense, man,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: two peacocks? Whose order is this? This is not my order? Man?
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: You got my name? Okay, So here, okay, so here's
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: here's what we need to do. Will your wife be here?
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Would be at the house within the next ninety minutes?
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: She she she might be. But you know, what are
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: you saying? What I'm gonna do is leave them here,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: Leave them at you at your place, and you can
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: call the company that shipped them and you can figure
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: out what went wrong or whatnot. But it is my
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: leave these animals there. What what what is your what's
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: your name? Brothers? What's your name? Brothers? My name is
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Roshan Rashane. Let me tell you something like now, okay,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: you're not about to leave no animals at my house. Okay,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: you're not leaving no peacocks. You're not leaving no kangaroos.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: You're not leaving no see. Okay, we're not having them
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: in pettant zoo at my house. When I get you.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: My house was shot. Ain't no animals gonna be there. Okay, Okay,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: you know what? Who gonna figure? Okay, listen, let me
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: get my wife on the phone here right, let me
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: let me call my wife. Hang on, hang on, sir.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: I don't listen, sir. I don't have time for you
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: to reach out to your wife, for you to try
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: to figure out what you're gonna do about your kangaroo,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: your peacocks, your seal. I don't. I gotta make this drop.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: I gotta keep moving. I have other animals on the truck.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: I don't give up about your other animals. Okay, I'm
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: gonna hold my wife. I'm if she bade ordered to
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: damn cable would see okay, because I know I didn't
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: order sh all right, we're out, okay, and she's not
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: gonna sir, listen to me. Listen to me, sir. You
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: can figure this out when you get home. Right now.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I'm now about an hour out. I'm gonna drop the animals.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Can you give something, sir? If if it's not yours,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: somebody will come back tomorrow and pick them up. Do
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: you mean somebody gonna come back and pick them up tomorrow?
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have the feeling my house not able
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: you think I am? Huh, I ain't Mary Popper's man.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't out here doing nothing with these animals like this.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: You're crazy for shot. Please, it doesn't cont animal at
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: my house when I arrived. So help me, God, so
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: so so help you. Goud what you're gonna have it?
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: The animal's gonna be there when you get there. Man,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: you're not feeling. You're slowing up my whole delivery route today. Okay.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: I ain't got time for this. I ain't got term
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: of this, man, I'm not. But why you order? Why
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: you order of Kangaroo if you don't want it? Now?
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: If I didn't order them to Kangaroo, that's why I
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: don't want them to Kangoo, because I didn't order them Kangaroo.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: Be telling me what's out worder? What's God want? Okay?
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: This is the worst customer service in the world. I
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: don't even a customer of yours. You're trying to tell
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: me that I gotta kangaroo a peacocks and peacocks. You
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: have two peacocks. You have two peacocks, Sir, This doesn't
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: even make any I'm gonna do with those animals. Animals.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna do with them, But
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: you're gonna sign. You're gonna sign this paperwork through. That's
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. You outright if you think I'm
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: signing that pork animal, man, I don't want to whoop
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: your ass at your house in front of your wife
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: and kids behind some damn animals. I don't, But you're
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: gonna sign my paperwork you want. I wish you would
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: try to whoop my I must have show my kids
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: what it looks like to show up. It's poks, real, reckless.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Can you show it up here with a damn caravan
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: an animal like I'm in the ridiculous Okay, huh no,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: got my face, man, this is ridiculous. It's only one thing.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I really, just only one last thing I need to
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: tell you, to be honest with you. What is that?
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: The only thing I can tell you now Adrian, is
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: that I have nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morty Show.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Your white bridget got me in the prank phone call you.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: Oh man, you gotta be kidding me. Oh man? Who wow?
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: You don't want the delivery man? You don't want I
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: don't want the kangaroo. Man. What are those animals together? Man,
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: you gotta be high up your mind. One of those
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: damn animals together? All right? Baby, give it. Tell me
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: what's the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: in the land. Let me hear, Adrian, it's a Steve
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Baby tell me. Oh this was the
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: part well made me laughs when you turned it and said, Man,
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have to come over there and
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: whoop your ass in front of your wife and kids
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: about these animals. Man, hold on, wait a minute, hold on,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: you're gonna beat my ass and then drop these animals off?
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: What a giraffe, a seal. I'm gonna show you what.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Somebody to show up at the house. I'm gonna showing
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: my kids Tommy, a kangaroo, two peacocks, and a seal.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: A man was He had worked trying to talk quiet
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: because he was kind of cold, nose man, I had
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: to go outside. Don't none of them go together? Don't
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: none of them go together? Seal seal, The peacocks is crazy.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: I hadn't been around while peacocks befall, But that seal thought, yeah,
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, at least they birds, they stay outside,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: they'll walk around, they'll try to get you today surround.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: It's right quick, But that damn seal though, that's seal rough. Clearly,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing for him with water. It ain't
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: cold out of here? What was happening? Because you heard
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: the word exotic and you thought something else. You heard
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: the word exotic. February tier eleven, twelve, ten eleven twelve, Huntsville, Alabama,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: Stand Up Live Comedy Club. The Nephew is coming to town,
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  Speaker 1: to Huntsville, Alabama. Take his own sale, rat nass, stupid,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: his own the way, baby baby, All right, all right,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: thanking Nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject how far
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: is too far? With my man? We'll get into it
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: All right, it's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
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• 52:50
  Speaker 1: subject how far is too Far? With my man? Dear
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together for
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: two years and we've been married for six months. I'm
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: twenty eight and he's three years younger than I am.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: I have a seven year old son from a previous relationship,
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: and my husband loved him to death. I started having
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: sex when I was in middle school, and by the
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: time I was a senior in high school, I was
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: running with a crew of girls and working as an
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: escort for older men's I loved sex and couldn't get
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than my
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: husband because of past encounters with older men. After I
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: had my son, I stopped partying and tried to make
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: things work with my son's father. He soon found out
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: about my reputation and he dumped me. I joined a church,
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: and I guess you could say I got saved. I
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: met my new husband at church, and I played the
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: wholesome role the whole time we dated, and I even
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: abstain from having sex with him until we got married.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: My problem is there's no way for me to suppress
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: the fire that's deep inside my soul. I loved sex
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: and everything about it. I've tried to ease my husband
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: into my world gradually, and he says, each time we
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: make love, it gets better and better. I was honest
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: about my past, well, not totally honest about the number
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: of men I've been with or about my bad reputation.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: I told him I learned a lot from an older
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: man I was dating. He says he loves the kinky
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: things I do to him, but the other night he
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: got offended and asked me to stop doing what I
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: was doing. This is a problem for me because I
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: need him to match my freakiness in the bedroom and
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise, Well,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: too far with the other person is whatever they say
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: is too far. Okay, if your husband is uncomfortable and
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: turned off, it's time to stop. I mean, you're too
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: much for him right now. And whatever freaky offensive thing
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: you did for him to him, he is not feeling
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: it at all. You don't have to do or you
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: don't have to show him everything you've ever done in
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: the bedroom. We get it. You love sex, we get it,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: we get it. You guys can still have fun enjoy
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: each other. But you've got so much experience in him,
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: like you said, so don't expect that he's ever going
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: to match your freakiness. That may never happen. I say,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: take it slow. You got to really take it slow
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: with your husband. I mean, I know you said, you
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: know every time you guys make love it gets better
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: and better. But whatever you did he didn't like. He
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: didn't like that at all. I don't think you need
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: to do everything or show him everything, or tell him
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: how many men you've been within the past and all that.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: You don't have to do that. You have plenty of time.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: You know in this marriage. You guys are so young
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: to swing from the chandeliers later. But stop doing what
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: you're doing because because it's turning your man off, and
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be a problem in your marriage if you don't, Steve,
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to answer this letter because you
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: know what she did. I have some questions about what
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: she's doing and what she's done, and then I think
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: I have a solution. I'm not really sure how to
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: do this letter. I can't solve your problem. Let me
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: just start by telling you that I've read the letter.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I've heard Sherley's response. I don't really have anything for
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: you except one thing, and I'll probably wait till the
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: second half of this letter to give it to you.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: But just let me tell you something. Your past has
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: caught up with you. You've been having sex since she
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: was in middle school. Now you got a three year
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: old son by your former guy that you were dating.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: When he found out about your past, he dumped you.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: You got a seven year old son that you had
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: from your relationship with a man before. After he found
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: out about your reputation and everything, he dumped you. You
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: try to make it work, you stop partying and stuff,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: but once he found out about your reputation, he dun't
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: jump you. Then you joined the church, and I guess
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: you could say I got saved. Well, see that's a
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: little shaky thing to say. I guess you could say
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I got saved. No, you have to tell us if
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: you got saved or not. If you're not saved, there's
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: no problem. Most people aren't. That's not a problem. You
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: can still be okay. But you have to tell us
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: that and not know. We ain't got to guess you
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: saved or nothing. Then you met your new husband at church,
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: and you played the wholesome role the whole time you dated,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: and you even sustained from having sex with him until
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: we got married. I don't know how you marriage you,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: but I don't know what y'all did or something have. Anyway,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: my problem is there's no way for me to suppress
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: the fire that's deep in my soul. I love sex
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: and everything about it, you know. And then you said
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I've tried to ease my husband and to my world gradually,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: and he says, each time we make love it gets better.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. It's I think you
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: got to stop easy him into it. You're just gonna
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: have to go for it. But you got a problem
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: because you're not You've been honest about your pass but
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: not totally honest about the number of me and I've
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  Speaker 1: been with, or about my bad reputation. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you need to bring that up. Leave that and you pass,
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  Speaker 1: young lady. I told him I've learned a lot from
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  Speaker 1: an older man I was dating. He says he loves
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: the kinky things I do to him. But the other night,
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: here we go with the whole letter, he got offended
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: and asked me to stop doing what I was doing.
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  Speaker 1: That's the part of this letter we got to get to.
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  Speaker 1: And this is the problem with me because I need
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  Speaker 1: him to match my freakiness in the bad room, and
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise when
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: I come back well and give you a list of
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: things that I think is too far. That's all I
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: can help you with. I don't know what you're doing,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: but when we come back, I do know what too
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: far is. Yeah, it's whatever you say, it is, all right.
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response is coming up to twenty
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject how far is
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  Speaker 1: too Far? With my man? We'll be back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is a freaky one
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: right here. The subject is how far is too far
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  Speaker 1: with my man? Well, this girl who's twenty eight and
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: it's got this man that's three years younger. She's got
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: a seven year old son from a previous relationship, and
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: the husband loves the little boy. She admitted that she
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: started having sex when she was in middle school and
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: started running with a crew of girls. By the time
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: she was in high school, there was an escort for
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  Speaker 1: older men. She said, I love sex and I couldn't
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: get enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than
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  Speaker 1: my husband because of my passing honors with older men. Lord,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: have mercy. This story is getting more troublesome. Then, after
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: she had a son, she stopped parting and tried to
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: make things work with your son's father. He soon found
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: out about your reputation. He cut you loose. So after
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: that she joined the church and say she got saved,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: And she met a new husband at the church and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: played the wholesome love roll the whole time. And they
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: datedn't even up staying from having sex with him until
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: we got married, when you did something to make him
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: want to marry you. So probably he didn't go all
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: the way, but you can learned enough stuff to where
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: he wanted to marry congratulation. The problem is there's no
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: way for me to suppress the fire that's deep in
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: my soul. This woman loves sex so much, and she's
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: tried to ease her husband into my world. Sometimes you
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: need to leave your worlds behind, but now you want
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: to drag him into it. He says. Each time we
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: make love, it gets better and better, seeing that you
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: didn't need easy him into it now. But then you
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: said you're honest about your past, not totally honest with
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: the number of men you've been with. Don't ever tell
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: him that, and don't tell him about your bad reputation.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Don't tell him that. I told him I had learned
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: a lot from an older man I was dating. He says,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: he loves the kinky things I do to him. Here's
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: what this letter is about. But the other night he
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: got offended and asked me to stop doing what I
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: was doing. This is a problem for me because I
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: need him to match my freakiness, which may not be possible.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: You've been with men since middle school. This boy right
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: now is three years younger than you. You twenty eight,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: he twenty five. You're taking him too fast. He asked
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: you the other night to stop doing something that you
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: was doing you. That's a problem for you because you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: need him to match your freakiness in the bedroom and
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise? This
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: is all Uncle Steve got for you. I'm going to
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: give you a short list of things that we probably
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: don't like. That's too far. Leave them tools in the
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: tool box, go outside in the garage, coming in here
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: with nothing, don't don't do that that little red box.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: Lead that thing shut. That's probably gonna be too far.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: You know, there's other things I need to know. Need
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: to know this right here. None of my openings is
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: to be opened. Hello, I just need you to know
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: that none of my openings needs to be open. Don't
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: do that too far too, I'm just going I'm just
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: telling you what we don't need. I just you know,
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: isn't something else? Stop asking me? No, I cannot lick
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: my own toes. I can't do that no more. I'm
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: sixty five. If I could be in my foot up
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: that far, it'd be a mile. Na. I can't do that.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: Quick asking me, I tell you something else? This too far? Nah,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be choked quick asking me. Don't
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: ask me to be choked, and stop asking me to
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: choke you. I don't like your ass bugging out your
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: head like that. It scare me. I don't like that.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: Stop talking to me about getting choked. Please cut your
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: damn fingernails. This is too much. That's something else that,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: Bobma tell you something else. I don't like. I don't
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: like quip marks. Stop doing that to me. I do
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: not like whips. Come on now, I've been in here
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: with you, but you're going too damn far. Now all
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: this hell, this is not fun. I don't like that.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: Stop that hurts. I want you to stop what you're doing.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: Another thing right here, Your tongue is too damn long.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: I I don't know what I was going. Took me
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: how long say this to you? But your tongue is
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: too Yes, it is that this goes back to some
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: things I said earlier. But your tongue is too damn long.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: And now I can't walk in your stilettos. Stop strapping
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: them on my feet. I broke two pad heels. Stop
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: asking me that I am going to tell you that.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: Listen to me. I'm just gonna tell you this. Listen
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: to me, faby, not when you're going too far. My
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: fist is just for fighting, That's all this fault. My fist.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: My fist is just for fight. Okay what I all
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: these things up and the fir hands Jesus just for fight.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: We get it, and I want one last thing for you.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: Go come on, damn it quick brighting me everywhere. I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: don't like all that. Not everywhere. You can leave in
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: your comments on Today's Crazy Letter on Instagram and Facebook
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey at that too far for check the
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: letter was too far. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: on demand. Coming up next int is Sports Talk with Junior.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it's time now for Sports Talk with Junior.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: What you got Junior, oh Sureley over the weekend. Time
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: to tell you right now, two quarterbacks were tired from
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: the nfail. Let me tell you, Tom Brady, hang it
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: up Man twenty two seasons seven Super Bowl. But I'm
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: glad it is Houston. We are rejoicing because the reason
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: why we couldn't win because Tom Brady centers on every
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: single year We've never beat him in the playoff. We're
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: so glad his ass and hung up. I'm not even
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: you're trying to blame. Yes, yes, I'm Brady. Yes, yes,
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: yes i am. That's why. Yes. What was the Texans
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: football record this year? Let's not talking about we are
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: talking about that. We just talked about the No, No,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking about junior. Yeah, what was the record
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: this year? Right here? Just tell it to thirteen and thirteen?
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: How many times did they play Tampa Bay? Oh, we
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: didn't play this team I'm talking about in the past. Oh,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: y'all didn't play Tom Brady this season? No, and y'all
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: was four and thirteen? Yeah, well, good thing. Y'all didn't
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: players ass this year. Let me say at the second
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: go ahead. Ben Roethlisberger also retired. He did hug it up.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: And I know you don't feel nothing, you don't care
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: nothing about being Roethlisberger c You know, man, he had
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: a great career, but he was with Pittsburgh. I hate
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: everything about Pittsburgh except mean Joe Green and Jack Lambert,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: Lyon Swan and Mike Tomlin. Okay, and this explained this
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: about this whole rivalry y'all be having. But see Cleveland,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: when they heard the news being Roethlisberger was hanging up
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: this Cleis, they put this in the newspaper. This was
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: the headline. Long time Stiller's quarterback Ben Roethlisberger retires winless
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: against the Browns in the playoffs. That was the headline.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: See we're gonna say goodbye. Yeah, the great quarterback all
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: this hill. Winless against the Cleveland Browns in the playoffs. Winless,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: now bye. I appreciate you having a nice ass career,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: but you remember last year. Don't don't you go week?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: Damn show. Don't do with your monk assent better much? Hey,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: listen to me, man, We Cleveland people, Yeah, got no time.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: We don't do political correctness, damn show. Not fit to
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: do sportsmanship, No time for that, man. We ain't one
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: since nineteen sixty. Folk, here as we find to be
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: spokesman about. Now all right, junior, thank you. Coming up
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: closure and why some men and women leave relationships without
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: an explanation. All right, Oh you want to miss that
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show? All right? So, Steve,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: I saw this video on social media media recently of
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: a man who was honest about why he ditched women
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: without any explanation, any closure. I know you say men
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: don't do closure, but he said that the woman he
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: ghosted was either too much for him at the time
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: and that meant to him that he didn't measure up
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: to her. So he was trying to explain and put
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: a button on why you know he did what he
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: did in the past or was he looking for the
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: past of the path of least resistance here? No, I
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: think women have to understand something, you know, Like I've
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: always told them, I said, you know a lot of
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: times when a man break up with you, a woman
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: immediately goes to or what's wrong with me? That's not
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: always the case. A matter of fact, the majority of cases,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: it's not anything to do with you. It's something wrong
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: with the men. It's just to just brother online admitted
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: that it was him that he couldn't measure up, that
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: he wasn't ready, that he wasn't the man for the job.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: And that oftentimes is the case, and the reason men
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: don't give you closure, it's because most men are not
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: going to admit that, and no, don't know. Man want
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: to come to you and go, you know, look, I
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: just I just ain't man enough for you. You too much.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: Some men will do it, but a lot of men
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: have broken up with women and just went, hey, look
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: it ain't you, it's me, and then that's it. Yeah,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: but it means what this brother was saying, you were
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: too much for me. You had some requirements. I couldn't
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: live up to your your standards were too high. I'm
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: not enough man for the woman you are. I can't
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: feel the job application requirements out matter. I'm not ready
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: for that. I want a woman who's less than you.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: I need somebody who's just less because you just too
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: much now. And then they go on and they find
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: women who are less and try to have relationship with them,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: and women get mad because how can he just move
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: on and starting a relationship. Maybe he found less, Maybe
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: he you know, stop blaming yourself wrong, Stop blaming yourself.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: It's your life. Because a lot of women something I
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: don't care about closure, you know, they just move on
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: and let you figure it out on your arm. And
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: that's usually the case, because I wrote a chapter. Men
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: don't do closure because normally we don't. And Tommy's exactly right.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: The majority of time we just walk, We don't know
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: you nothing. You work through it out and then the
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: most a lot of men ain't gonna admit to their shortcomings.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: And then me and we don't feel like it's our application.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, and in truth, what happened to us was
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: we didn't work. Now we ain't got to get a
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: seat now standing here and calling you back to explain
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: why you know what that's gonna lead into. Yeah, at
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: that moment when you decide not to do closure and
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: move on? What is going through your what's going through
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: the man mind of a man? What'sn't that? Who? Who
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: wasn't that? Yeah? Who behind you? I'm looking. Yeah, it's over.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: So there's no guilt, there's no remorse. No what I
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: got well, I got to be killed. I'm are. We're
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: getting out of something that ain't working for me and you.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: I'm doing you a favor. I'm getting out of here
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: now because this ain't working. You may think it's working,
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: but all this is arguing and all this what I
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: ain't what you don't do? And where was you? And
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: all this here? No no, no, no no, So you
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: ain't got to question me no more, and I ain't
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: got to answer the question. I'm out right free yourself
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: from having to wonder why I'm at any more? Good. Look,
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: And that's really how a man looks at it. And
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: that's a clean way to get out, because if it's over,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: it's over. The why to high come? What happened? Why not?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: We ain't got We'm really look, it's over. No matter
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: what I say, you're not gonna like the answer. So
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: how about just no answer? And that's usually how me
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: and look at that too. Don't we already know why
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: we're leaving? Yeah, of course we know. Okay, let me
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: ask you this. Did you know when you met the woman?
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: Did you know already know that she was too much
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: for you? Or she was above your pay grade? Or
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: you know the signs don't show up till later. Yeah,
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: and then and then you got to understand, y'all find
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: this clouds out right? Say that? All right, Wow, this
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: is good. This is good, guys. We'll have more of
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: after the hour, right after this, you're listening to the
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, before we left,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: we were talking about men and they don't do closure.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: They just move on. And a lot of times it
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: is them, or most times it is them and not
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: the woman. Did you want to add anything to that?
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: You were saying you already knew when you met the woman. Perhaps,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: well it was too much for you when we meet
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: a woman. I don't want to say game because it
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: isn't every man that meets you not playing a game,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: but game on. We now have to see what it's
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: gonna take to win you over. Now, if it's a lot,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: we'll pretend to have a lot, but we can't sustain
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: the pretense, the pretension. We just can't sustain it. And
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: you know, like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I got myself together.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: I'm holding I'm strong, I'm dedicated, I'm working. And then
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: when she keeps that pressure up, this is what I'm
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: looking for. This is what when did you or are
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: you still looking for a job? Did you still how's
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: the job hunt going? How's the business going? And they're
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: gonna cause they're gonna because women gonna ask you because
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: women want to feel safe, and that's an important thing
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: for a woman. She wants to feel safe, and so
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: in you coming alonger than her life, where's the security
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: in this relationship? So it's not that she's a gold
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: digger or nothing like that. She just wants to feel safe. Now,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: we've created the term gold digger to keep you out
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: of our pockets and keep you from talking about that money.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: And women are stupid from falling into that trip, let
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: me tell you, because you want to feel safe. And
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: so now once we find out that these safety questions
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: is gonna keep coming, we get nervous and we back out.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: Good information, good information. We'll have more of a Steve
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Very Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: and we'll do around or would you rather right after this?
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steven show, It is time now for around?
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather? Would you rather wash windows on
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: a skyscraper? Be? Or would you rather run with the
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: bulls in Spain? He'll be b Yeah, I'm gonna give
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: the bulls. I'm gonna I'm gonna get I'm gonna get on,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: i gonna get over a wall or something. Yeah, I'm
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: gonna push some people in front of me. I can
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: get I can get this bull off my ass. Trip
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: some people of Trippe show. No, no, I've seen that.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: Ain't no where in hell, and it's no where in hell.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not gonna be able to wash
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: your window. You up there already both my hands is
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: attached to this rope and this safety device, so we're
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  Speaker 1: not watching where I'm not watching you wind to know, damn.
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  Speaker 1: And if you look outside, all you're gonna see is
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  Speaker 1: it's scared ass dude. I'm kicking. I won't end. I
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  Speaker 1: won't end. Man, open the way. I'm gonna pee on
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  Speaker 1: your window. I'm telling that's all we got. We got
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  Speaker 1: some other stuff. What is all these stands on my window?
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  Speaker 1: You know what? Open this window? Hanging up in that album? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm running with the bulls man, I'm not. You can
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  Speaker 1: put me in an all red pajama setting, make sure
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  Speaker 1: they see me. I'm loving with the damn bulls man.
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  Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Would you rather have a
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  Speaker 1: full time butler for life or one hall pass a
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  Speaker 1: month for life? I already no, I ain't gonna get that.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna have to hate this butler. That's what I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to do for life, not for the confessed, and
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  Speaker 1: won't the hall pass ain't yet on this radio show
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  Speaker 1: with that? Have you learned nothing on the show, Junior? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: learned that I'm gonna go with the butler. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have a full time butler for life. Okay, Well, I
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  Speaker 1: passed up the hall pass. You got hold hold. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you a question, though, Do she know about
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  Speaker 1: the hall pass? Huh? We know know about the hall pass.
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  Speaker 1: That's the whole concept of the hall pad that you
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  Speaker 1: give the mask. Thank you? Oh no, no, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: not not hell no, hell, I'm not gonna hear that
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  Speaker 1: every month. It's gonna, it's gonna that's who it's gonna. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's the fifteenth who you're picking now her? All right,
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  Speaker 1: here's the last one, last one. Would you, guys, rather
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  Speaker 1: tell the truth for thirty days, tell the complete truth,
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  Speaker 1: no lies thirty days, or wear a lace front wig
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  Speaker 1: for thirty days call me ki looking like Rue Paul front.
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  Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day
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  Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one in the Yeah
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to the show, All right, guys, here we
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  Speaker 1: are our last break of the day. This is it
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  Speaker 1: a good day? A good day. Yeah, I've enjoyed it.
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  Speaker 1: What about you, guys? Yeah? Yeah, Oh, Judge Steve, Hello, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: tonight again, appreciate the support and love everybody watching George
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  Speaker 1: Steve on ABC eight pm Eastern, seventh Central, or you
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  Speaker 1: is turning out, you know, Hulu, just more than I
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  Speaker 1: even thought it would be. I mean, it's so good,
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  Speaker 1: it's so compelling, it's so funny, it has all the
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: elements in it comedy, you know. I mean, it's heartfelt,
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: you do good. It's just a great show, it really is.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. I'm so sorry. It's such
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  Speaker 1: a blessing, man, because you know what makes this show
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  Speaker 1: such a blessing is behind the scenes things. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I did a few weeks ago, my favorite couple of
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago, my favorite clothing remarkables to my haters, but
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  Speaker 1: in particular, you know, I've been in television a long time, man,
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  Speaker 1: I really have. I've grown a fan base in television.
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  Speaker 1: That's really when I look at my career, it's not
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people can say they've had the longevity
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  Speaker 1: and the success that I have. I'm not the biggest
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  Speaker 1: person ever in television, not by a long shot, but
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to being able to have a presence
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  Speaker 1: on TV and in so many different ways and formats,
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: I've been really blessed man and graced by God to
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: probably cover more types of shows than anybody. And one
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  Speaker 1: of the blessings behind the Judge Show was was the
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: failure of two other shows. And it wasn't that the
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: shows failed. The numbers were good. Little Big Shots was
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  Speaker 1: a hit, My talk show was doing well. Nothing was
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: wrong with it. Dude, they have bad numbers? Are nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody in the higher ups made a decision, and the
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: decision was not only am I going to cancel this show,
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get rid of his TV career. That decision
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: was made and I got winned about it. And I
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: remember one time somebody asking me to fly to New
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: York and just have a meeting to talk to them
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: about staying on the air and saving the show and
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: make some promises. And I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: do it, and I just stood fast. And the thing
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: I've learned I was telling the crew earlier, I was
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: listening to something online and I saw some actors gathering.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: One of them was Jamie Fox and a couple of
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: other people, and one of them was Tom Hanks. And
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: Tom Hanks said something. That question was something to the
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  Speaker 1: effect of, if you could tell your twenty year old
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: self something that you wish you known, what would you
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: tell yourself? And Tom Hanks said, this tool shall pass.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: And I sat down and I thought about that. Man,
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  Speaker 1: do you know how important of a message that is
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: to get through your head? This tool shall pass. No,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, man, Look, even when you're on top of
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  Speaker 1: the mountain, this two shall pass. You ain't gonna stay
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: up there. Even if you gotta hit show, it ain't.
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  Speaker 1: It can't stay on TV forever. And this tool shall pass.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: If you're in the bottom of the valley and you'd
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: fail so low that it seems hopeless for you, this
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  Speaker 1: tool shall pass. All of it. The fatigue you feel,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: this tool shall pass. The lack of understanding you're getting
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: from yourself and people, This too shall pass. So all
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: the moments in my life. Tom Hanks said, this too
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: shall pass. It passes. And when they got rid of
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: those two shows, I was in the process of learning
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: through experience of my life that everything that happens to
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: me has happened in the order that God wanted to,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: whether I agreed with it or not, whether I understood
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: the process or not I did. I finally came to
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: the realization that everything God allows to happen to me
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: is in preparation for something. I asked for. The cancelation
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Talk Show and the cancelation of Little
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: Big Shots all at once, And if you look at
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: those numbers, those shows were doing wonderful. That decision came
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: from somebody who was on a mission to get rid
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: of me, that's all. It was pure and simple. And
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: I don't say their names. I ain't got to say nothing.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: It's cool you did what you did, but this too
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  Speaker 1: shall passed. But little did I know that was all
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: in preparation to clear the path hathway for me to
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: accomplish some other things. So little did I know. Now
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: I had the time to go to Africa and do
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: family Feud and put on two seasons of the number
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  Speaker 1: one show on the continent. Little did I know that
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: I now had a little bit more time to travel
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: the world and increase my global brand and persona. I
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: didn't know that's what God was doing, but he was
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: clearing the way from me. And then lastly, next thing,
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: you know, and I did that I had created twelve
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: years ago, mentioned it in a pitch meeting, and ABC said,
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: we want that show. I created the show, I owned
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: the show. I'm the executive producer of the show, and
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: I'm the star of the show. And that's the new
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: Judge t Show. And guess what. Had I still been
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: doing what I was doing, I would not be in
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  Speaker 1: this position today. This too shall pass. That's the grace
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: of God Almighty. And you see me not taking no
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: credit for this, because I didn't set this one up.
• 1:25:02
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