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Alarm Clock, Snoop Dogg, Kim Kardashian, Taco Tuesday and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all bat
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  Speaker 1: all suit on the don giving them like the milking
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  Speaker 1: buck bus things and its cubs. Good it. Steve listening
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  Speaker 1: together for ste Please Moby, I don't joy by joining men.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn you are you gotta turn the turnout.
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  Speaker 1: You got to turn them out to turn the water
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  Speaker 1: the water. Go me come come on your back. Uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: I sure will a good morning everybody. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. I got a radio show, just trying to
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  Speaker 1: give God some back, just some back of what even
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  Speaker 1: gave me, just a portion, you know. Just I'm just trying,
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  Speaker 1: man to to show some type of gratitude for all
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  Speaker 1: his blessings. I'm just trying to, man, just just get
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  Speaker 1: it right sometimes, you know what I mean. I mean, man,
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  Speaker 1: you just can't do what you want to do and
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  Speaker 1: just live wrong all the time. Man, you got it
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  Speaker 1: at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man, come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: you could do better. I know you can, you know saying,
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  Speaker 1: and you know what I had to do. I had
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  Speaker 1: to stop saying. I'm gonna try to do better. And
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  Speaker 1: I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: do better. You know, trying it's just to put forth
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  Speaker 1: in that and then if it don't work, well okay.
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  Speaker 1: But if you make up in your mind that I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
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  Speaker 1: it done is the only thing that matters. Sin It's
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  Speaker 1: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to
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  Speaker 1: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to
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  Speaker 1: win the game. Now, trying to win the game means
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  Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your
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  Speaker 1: mind made up, most athletes will tell you that they
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  Speaker 1: go out there with the full intent and purpose of
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  Speaker 1: winning and winning. Only see they don't put the second
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  Speaker 1: place finish on the cover Sports Illustrated. Second place don't
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  Speaker 1: get you there. You got to win. And now take
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  Speaker 1: it out of the scope of athletics, but keep it
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  Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you just want to you want to win in life,
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  Speaker 1: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: don't you want to be on the cover Sports Illustrated
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  Speaker 1: the life? Don't you want to be recognized for your
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  Speaker 1: hard work? Don't you want you know to be recognized
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  Speaker 1: within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't you
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  Speaker 1: want to have your plaque up on the wall down
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  Speaker 1: at your job? I mean most people do. Some people
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  Speaker 1: could care less. Some people don't care about looking good
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  Speaker 1: or being their best. And that's cool. But I ain't
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  Speaker 1: talking to them though. I'm talking to you. I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: to those of you who want to be the best
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  Speaker 1: you can be. You know, people kill me when they're
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  Speaker 1: getting mad at people here and he Brown knows and
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  Speaker 1: he hall up on an employee of the moth Man,
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  Speaker 1: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability,
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  Speaker 1: and he getting recognized for it. What they got to do?
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  Speaker 1: It all that you're talking about because you ain't up there.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's
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  Speaker 1: so lucky, lucky? Hey man, don't they kind of get
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  Speaker 1: you a little bit when people call you lucky when
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. Luck
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  Speaker 1: is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some people
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  Speaker 1: call that luck. But hold on, let's let's think about this.
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  Speaker 1: If you wasn't working hard an opportunity presented itself, what
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  Speaker 1: would you call that? But see when you've been working hard,
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity presents itself and it bumps up into each other.
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  Speaker 1: Now people want to call that luck, But hold up here,
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  Speaker 1: go to part though, to day, ain't paying no attention
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  Speaker 1: to Yeah, that opportunity came by. But if you had
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  Speaker 1: not been working hard and the hard work had not
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  Speaker 1: ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir,
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  Speaker 1: it's not luck, it's work. It is work, because as
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  Speaker 1: a scripture that says, faith without works is dead. But
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  Speaker 1: my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught me enough.
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  Speaker 1: Though Now I know different between right and wrong, just
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  Speaker 1: like you do. You ain't gotta you know. Itcused me
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  Speaker 1: when people write a strawberry letter? Am I wrong for this?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Good? Well, look at let's read your letter?
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  Speaker 1: Are you wrong for this? You know? You're wrong? What
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  Speaker 1: you don't need? That's to be telling, you know? But
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, see, go ahead, though,
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: here's the best advice I can give you. And this
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  Speaker 1: is what I really came to talk about this morning.
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  Speaker 1: But I got sidetrack because I listened get out of
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  Speaker 1: your own way. So many of us are blocking our
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  Speaker 1: home blessings. We just in our own way. We are
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  Speaker 1: in our own way. And one of the most dangerous
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  Speaker 1: ways you can get in your way is to do
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  Speaker 1: it your way, to get it figured your way, and
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  Speaker 1: to lock in on your way and just the way
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  Speaker 1: it's got to go. Do you know how many people
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  Speaker 1: are blocking a blessing? Do you know how long I
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  Speaker 1: blocked mine with that mindset right there? Look, because it's
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  Speaker 1: the way you do it, you think that make it
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  Speaker 1: the right way? You think jazz, because you'd have thought
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  Speaker 1: on it long and hard, and that's what you really want.
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  Speaker 1: Do you really think that your way is the right
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  Speaker 1: way or could that be a better way? See? Until
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  Speaker 1: I started listening to God and started paying attention to
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  Speaker 1: his way, man, I was spending my wheels. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: was out here so determined this is how I was
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  Speaker 1: going to do it. But you know I had to
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  Speaker 1: learn how to get out of my own way because
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  Speaker 1: just because I could do it my way didn't mean
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  Speaker 1: it was the right way. I had to get out
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  Speaker 1: of my own way. Just get out your way, man, Now,
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  Speaker 1: what what does that mean? That means? See? Set your
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  Speaker 1: goals that means have your dreams. That I'm saying, set
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  Speaker 1: your goals. Man, I ain't saying don't set goals. Listen
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  Speaker 1: to me. Set your goals. What is it you want
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  Speaker 1: to happen? What is it you like to have? What
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  Speaker 1: is it you like to be? What are you aspire to?
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  Speaker 1: Set your goals and set your dreams. Now take your
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  Speaker 1: goals and your dreams to God and ask God to
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  Speaker 1: show you how. Man, you can save yourself a lot
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  Speaker 1: of pain. Listen to somebody who did it his way
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  Speaker 1: for so long. And when I finally got out of
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  Speaker 1: my way, out of my own way. When you've heard
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  Speaker 1: old people say let go and let God, you've heard
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  Speaker 1: them say that I didn't. I didn't get it, but
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  Speaker 1: I got it. Now let go and let God. And
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  Speaker 1: it's amazing little saying. Though now you know you may not.
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  Speaker 1: I get it now. It took me a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: years to get it too. But when I took my
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  Speaker 1: goals and my dreams and my vision to God and
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  Speaker 1: I said, God, this is what I hope for, this
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  Speaker 1: is what I aspired to, this is what I want
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  Speaker 1: to be, this is why I would love to get to.
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  Speaker 1: Then I said, help me show me. How point me
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  Speaker 1: in the right direction. Let me follow your footsteps, guide me,
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  Speaker 1: and give me a spirit of discernment. Show me who wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Because I meet people every day. Ain't up to no
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  Speaker 1: good with me every single day? Oh man, Man, I
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  Speaker 1: can't believe I run up into you. Man, the Lord
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  Speaker 1: told me something's gonna happen to me today. Well, see,
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  Speaker 1: I talked to him every day. He did not mention
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  Speaker 1: you to me. He ain't said nothing to me. He
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  Speaker 1: didn't tell me what's gonna happen in mind. Now, I
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  Speaker 1: don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it.
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  Speaker 1: So really, man, I'm and and please no, I'm listening
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  Speaker 1: to it as well as I've ever listened before. But
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  Speaker 1: but get yourself together, though, see no, your goals and dreams,
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  Speaker 1: and then let God show you how to do it.
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  Speaker 1: He'll do it. You know. It's so important everybody, that
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  Speaker 1: you get focused, that you aim for something, that you
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  Speaker 1: dream of something, that you aspire to something. But it's
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  Speaker 1: the most the best thing you can do. After you
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  Speaker 1: do all that, Man, get God involved in it. Man,
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  Speaker 1: talk to him. I mean, why would you not what
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  Speaker 1: you got to lose? You ain't got to go down
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  Speaker 1: there and make no big scene and run laps around
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  Speaker 1: the church and run up there and throw yourself on
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  Speaker 1: the altar and scream and flip over and throw money
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  Speaker 1: in the air. You ain't got to do that. This
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  Speaker 1: you and God, man, This, you and God. You know
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  Speaker 1: you got to serve and praise him the way you
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  Speaker 1: do it. You gotta let nobody else tell you highs done.
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  Speaker 1: It's a personal relationship. People kill me if you don't
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  Speaker 1: do it this way. If you don't come here to
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  Speaker 1: this church and you don't run around in this circle
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  Speaker 1: and you don't get flipped in and you don't Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: you better go have a relationship with God. See what
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  Speaker 1: that's about. You understand? Nobody throw you off with all that?
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, y'all talk to him. He loved
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you today. You're listening morning, ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: Let me have it. Yeah, you know what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Attention please uh. This is a matter of fact, speaking
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  Speaker 1: of attention. Today's show is dedicated to people with attention
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  Speaker 1: deficit disorder. Can't hardly pay attention that much. Oh that's
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  Speaker 1: kind of me. Yeah, that's kind of me too. So
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  Speaker 1: now that we know what that is all y'all that
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  Speaker 1: can't pay attention that good. This show is dedicated to you,
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  Speaker 1: and what we're asking you to do today is going
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  Speaker 1: to pay attention. Okay, through your head. Quit drifting off,
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry. Oh hey, I had just drifted off. Good morning, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: are you doing? Call it for real? I am paying attention.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, sir. Hello crew you huh oh, I'm the
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  Speaker 1: only one listening. Yeah what No, my attentions, man, is
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  Speaker 1: that of a three year old? What we're doing? See
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  Speaker 1: right there? The show? But thank you for dedicating to
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  Speaker 1: a Steve blowing it off? Okay, everybody kidding about that? Sorry, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they're just saying huh all the time. What are we doing?
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  Speaker 1: Where are we what are we doing? Focus? Focused? People focused.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here. I'm excited about waking up every day. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm here, man, yes, man, man, Yeah, I don't watch it.
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  Speaker 1: Things I'm grateful for. I'm glad. I'm not a politician.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man. You know, was really really strange though, and
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  Speaker 1: I just want to I really I'm not surprised, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm like really amazed at how the Republican Party is
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  Speaker 1: so quiet about what Donald Trump has done. Really if
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  Speaker 1: you listen to what happened, it's not right. But they
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  Speaker 1: are extremely quiet about it, and it's really really alarming.
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  Speaker 1: But it's politics. Yeah, we have got to vote elections.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of paying attention, you know, we really need to
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  Speaker 1: pay attention and all of the elections, like you said, Carlo,
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  Speaker 1: particularly the presidential election, but there are a lot of
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  Speaker 1: elections next year that we have to pay attention to.
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  Speaker 1: It's crucial. I kid you not, man, I mean really
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  Speaker 1: vocal elections. Yes, we got to. And the judges, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just the senators. I just don't know that this country
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  Speaker 1: can take four more years of this guy because he's
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  Speaker 1: he's doing some real damage and people are trying to
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  Speaker 1: ignore the damage to protect their position and their power
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  Speaker 1: and their money. Yes, but the damage he's gonna leave
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people at the wayside up at the
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  Speaker 1: top level. Two. Yeah, yeah, all right, well listen, um, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna move on right here. Coming up at thirty
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  Speaker 1: two after the hour. Do you hit the snooze on
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  Speaker 1: your alarm that snooze button on your alarm clock, or
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  Speaker 1: do you just pop right up when the alarm goes up.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about that right after this you're listening to.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Um, here's the question we posed right before
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  Speaker 1: we went to break Do you hit the snooze on
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  Speaker 1: your alarm or do you get right up now? Steve,
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  Speaker 1: a listener send us an email and wanted to know
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  Speaker 1: our morning show routine. This email is from Kevin. He says, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: morning crew, My wife wakes up very early in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: and when her alarm rings, she turns it off and
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  Speaker 1: gets right up to get ready. I couldn't be more opposite.
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  Speaker 1: Every time my alarm goes off, I hit the snooze
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  Speaker 1: button at least once. I also have crazy procrastinating thoughts
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  Speaker 1: when my alarm goes off, like I'll just take a
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  Speaker 1: shorter shower or I'll skip breakfast. Also, I can sleep
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  Speaker 1: a little longer. So Steve, I gotta ask you, what
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  Speaker 1: is your morning routine because you know we have to
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  Speaker 1: be up very early in the morning. Do you hit
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  Speaker 1: the snows on your alarm clock or do you just
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  Speaker 1: pop right up? And let's answer that one first. Well,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, I almost never ever set my law.
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  Speaker 1: I almost never because I wake up every morning before
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  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to. I very rarely ever use my lawn.
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  Speaker 1: Don't time I use alarm, it's when I travel, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I get in late and I gotta get up
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  Speaker 1: really early, like four thirty or four forty five something
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  Speaker 1: like that. Then I use my alarm on my telephone.
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  Speaker 1: When I'm at home doing television and radio, I never
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  Speaker 1: ever set my law, so only use my alarm when
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  Speaker 1: I have to travel. Yeah, I wait, I wake up automatically.
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  Speaker 1: Huh My mom used to do that. Yeah, well at
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  Speaker 1: like at what time? Like four? I mean I cannot
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  Speaker 1: sleep past five thirty. That's that's not going to happen. Now,
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  Speaker 1: do you get Are you just up? Or you up
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  Speaker 1: and out of the bed. Well, when I do wake up,
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  Speaker 1: I wake up and I just you know, lay there
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  Speaker 1: for about probably about sixty seconds. And because it's kind
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  Speaker 1: of weird, man, I'm always like excited to get up.
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  Speaker 1: I think it has a lot to do with my age,
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  Speaker 1: because I just think I'm at that age now, man,
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  Speaker 1: where I don't want to miss nothing like a kid
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  Speaker 1: who has to go to sleep. Yeah, because like I
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  Speaker 1: mean really and really, to be honest with you, I
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  Speaker 1: know that I do not have sixty two more years
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  Speaker 1: left already. No, I don't. So since I know that
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  Speaker 1: I live longer than I got left. I have a
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  Speaker 1: tendency to get up and get it started. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: it could happen. I don't. I don't want to do that. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's a lot of customs. One twenty four. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do one old four and get on out on four healthy,
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  Speaker 1: still driving if I want to at one oh four.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm gonna still be able to drive if
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  Speaker 1: I want to. I can walk around the block the
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  Speaker 1: up heels and stuff. Yeah, I'm gonna be a functionable strength. No, no, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take care of myself. I've cut me way
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  Speaker 1: way back, way back. It's not completely gone, but it
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  Speaker 1: can be absent for long stretches at a time. So
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  Speaker 1: if you let go of barbecue, is this what you're saying?
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  Speaker 1: I haven't had any in a long time? Surely, Wow,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't had barbecue since breaking news. I had some
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  Speaker 1: barbecue this summer, okay, four July holiday somewhere like that.
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  Speaker 1: But other than that, No, man, I've cut way back.
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  Speaker 1: To be honest with you, that's goods with the keys
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  Speaker 1: at one hundred and four, dude, don't you take we
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  Speaker 1: should take it now when I get outside. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna take the keys. I might need help finding
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  Speaker 1: a car, but it's all good. Yeah, because I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: have so many, you know, I might if you give
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  Speaker 1: which one I drove to day? You look forward to sing?
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  Speaker 1: Your your grandkids and your great grandkids and all of that.
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  Speaker 1: Do you look forward to that? Here's my deal. I
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  Speaker 1: would really love to see Winton's grandchildren, wild That's my goal. Man.
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  Speaker 1: If I could, you know, Winton to have a son,
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  Speaker 1: he could have a son within ten years. That ain't
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  Speaker 1: no big deal. I'll be I'll still be here. But
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  Speaker 1: if I could see Winton's grandchildren, That's I've been talking
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  Speaker 1: to God about that. Winton's grandchildren, that's what I want
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  Speaker 1: to see. Wow, your children, wild man, and I want
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  Speaker 1: to see I want I want son. I want Winton
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  Speaker 1: to have a boy. Please God let me see that.
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  Speaker 1: And if that boy can have a boy and I
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  Speaker 1: live to see it, Yeah, I'm going in there. Well
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  Speaker 1: what if he has a girl, Okay, then I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be disappointed? Really yeah? Yeah? Really? Yeah? What is that about, Steve? No,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's about the truth. What Wow? Because you
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  Speaker 1: want the name to carry on? Yeah, one of them
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  Speaker 1: can't see them them girls in mind. I love them,
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  Speaker 1: but Lord have mercy when they get married, the name
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  Speaker 1: gone get hyphenated. No, I don't hyphenate nothing. No, man,
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  Speaker 1: you gott asitated. You ain't got to go off like that.
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  Speaker 1: I would say, old fashioned. I'll just say so traditional.
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  Speaker 1: Well I don't, it's not. It's just if you have boys.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care if they have girls. I'm beautiful with them.
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  Speaker 1: I love my daughters and my granddaughters. They're so precious. Man.
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  Speaker 1: But if he don't have no boys, I'm gonna be hurt. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna bug me a little bit. O. Man, that
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  Speaker 1: should being real? What what? What? Everybody trivel fault? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's okay. Yeah. If you don't want to answer, don't ask.
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  Speaker 1: I can ask you about the snoozs. But but I
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  Speaker 1: did I know he talked about came out, just said
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be disappointed if he has girls. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be disappointed. Oh wait, let me tell you the real truth.
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  Speaker 1: When the twins was born, and the first one came
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  Speaker 1: out and they said it was a little girl, so
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  Speaker 1: that's cool. The second one came they said, oh, the
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  Speaker 1: second it's a boy. I said, my man. Then he said,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: oh no, it's another baby girl. I'll crush oh like
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: a grape dog. All right, Um, the nephew is not
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: here today, but Junior, of course is here. We're gonna
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: run that prank back with Junior right after this. You're listening.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, And entertainment
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: news Beyonce and Solange text testa negative for the cancer
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: gene and University of Cancer's apologizes for Snoop's concert. Boy,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: oh boy, that concert right now though, Yeah, well, what
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: do you expect? Right? All right, the nephews out, but
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Junior is in in his place to run that prank back.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: What you got for us today, Junior draws, after retirement home.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: That's how the nephew was saying. Anyway, rolls at the
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: next time, like we didn't hit the first time. Rolls
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: at the retirement home. Run it cat? Hello, yo, oh yeah,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: who's this? Who is this? This is Attorney David uh
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: huh all right, this is after me, Anthony. I was
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: giving you a call. You used to work at the
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: uh uh Seniors Center. Dem I right, yes, okay, we
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: got a bit of a problem here. Uh Are you
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: familiar with miss Yes, yes, older lady. That a Caucasian
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: lady that's here at the center. Yes, okay, now we
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: got a problem. I know you retired in UH in December,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: but there's cleaning out her room, cleaning up her room.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: There's been some uh men's underwear found here and she's
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: saying that it's yours. Well, then't you got a problem
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: called I don't know where the ladies are that no
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: here here at the center, sir. They're claiming that. Then
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: at the center you find the ladies and men underwear
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: city who was man or whoever and whatever and whatever. Now,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: I don't waste my time with that. If you're gonna
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: call somebody, call somebody, get the state now, but don't
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: waste my time with you. Have a nice date. Wait
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: just a minute, sir. I don't want to have to.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have to get officials to come
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: down there. Oh your sir, mister listen, I don't want
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I want to. I want to try to do this
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: about your wife finding out. But we need I got
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: a few questions I need to ask you tell your
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: wife your puppet. You man that mester me wasting my time?
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Come on, call it back, dog, Hey, this is ours,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Please enjoy the music until I answer your calls. Right Hello,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Doris's boor. He didn't cuss up, but he keeps hanging up.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: So so I need I need you to help me out.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I want you to uh call from your phone and
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: put us on three way and say, hey, you need
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: to talk to these people. Okay, Hello, Hello, this is ours.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Tony's right here. Um. I told him about the situation
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: with so I just want him to clear it up
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: so you can stop calling him. Okay, yeah, So this
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: is an attorney. Is he available? I can speak with him. Sure,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Hold on the second David. Hello, Hello, mister h Tony
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Anthony Ye, could you possibly tell me what's going on?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Why we would find your your underwear and miss is
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: in her room? How do you know what you underwear?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, sir said underwear? Sir, I don't I didn't
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: work here. The younger the lady is saying that it's
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: actually your underwear that's been in her room here at
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: the retirement home. You got the ring. This is a
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: bad time to be messing with me. And where is
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you at anyway, sir? I'm down here at my office
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: right now. Who are you offer that do you need
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: to come and see me. Yeah, I need to come
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: see you. Who are your offer? Is that what seems
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to be the situation, because I'm getting I'm getting a
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: hostile You're sounding very hostile right now, sir. Yeah, well
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I'm a hostile individual. Okay, we're calling meself about some
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: old lady. You gonna call me about somebody called me
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: something about? When do you see yo? Yeah, sir, you're
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: gonna watch your tone and you're gonna talk to me
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: like you got some se man. I ain't got to
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: watch nothing. I'm an old man. I ain't got to
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: do but die. I don't even pay taxes. What you want,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: you want to do something, you go ahead and only
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: do it, but don't be calling my numa normal. Okay,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Well I want to tell you this, sir. Yes, this
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: is Nephew Timming from the Steve Harvey Marning Show. You
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: have been prank phone call by your girl that's standing
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: right there with your daughters. I would have kicked booth, y'all.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Why do you do that? Time? What's wrong with you? Man? Man?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: You know this ain't no good time for me. Man.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I don't have time, man, you mess it with man,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm I'm in the studio. I'm in New
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: York City, Man, New York. Where you get a chance
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: when you're going back your suling you stopped through tripping.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Let me I'll ask you put your picture on TV
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: so I see't know what you look like next time
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: might see you. Oh man, you got you got it,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: but you m don't notice. Woman, you got the wrong one.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: You should have had somebody else. They ain't gonna work.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: You couldn't get that off. Craziest hell, I hate well,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: I got something, miss Darth. Hey, I gotta ask you
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: one more thing, mister Anthony, what is the baddest radio
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: show in the land? Man? You know what it is?
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: All right? Huh? That is like too much hearing. Let
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: me give it. Let me give a renovant statement. Sometimes
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: you gotta have draw down the time at home. Yeah,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: you know that's what it is? Relevant Yeah, relevant statement
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: at the every prank you gotta have one, Huh that
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: you gotta have drawn your time at home. That's all
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I fame. Yeah, and I don't blak it like that.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: That was a crazy friend though. That's crazy though, you know,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: so why are you performing that time? I'm down at
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the Why Kobe a Comic Coach Center. Uh? Yeah that
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: was last weekend you did that? Yeah? What did you
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: give him? Out? Bad date? You got people coming down
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: there to see me again, and I'm already gone, Tommy.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody coming to see you when you already gone?
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: They left? Yeah, you ain't that famous homie. I thought
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: he was down here two week kids in a row. Nope. Uh,
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: why don't you? You really won't gonna do with you
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: won't come down. I just want to see it from
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: me though, No Ce Junior, listen, listen. Let me just
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: say this. Why he ain't here because his boy Paul
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: gonna tell him I said it anyway. So whatever. Oh,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: here's a deal. Y'all know. I can't go down there,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: walk out there in front of Tommy. Y'all know that.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: And why y'all keep letting him think that it'll be
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: nice if I show up. Why would y'all do that?
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Because it would? Yeah? Do you see enough on a
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: show together? That's priceless if I go out there and
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: perform in front of Tommy. Yeah, y'all, y'all don't know
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: how SHOWBI has worked, do you? Mister park? Y'all don't
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: get You got to follow the act in front of you. Yeah. Well,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, and he's pretty good. Tommy is pretty good.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Tommy can't follow Steve Harvey. Okay, that's when you do it.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I don't give a damn how long I've been out something.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve coming up at the top
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: of the hour. We have some entertainment and national news
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: for you right after this. You're listening to this show,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: all right, So in today's entertainment news, listen to this story.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: The University of Kansas has issued an apology after Snoop
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Dogg performed at a preseason college basketball celebration that featured
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: pole dancers and a money gun. What were they unset
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: about the pole dancers or the money gun? I don't know.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: While the audience, yeah, while the audience enjoyed Snoop, university
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: officials were less than impressed. They said, we made it
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: clear to the entertainers managers that we expected a clean
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: version of the show. This is according to Kansas Athletic
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: director Jeff Longed. He says, I take full responsibility for
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: not thoroughly vetting all the details of the performance and
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: offer my personal apology to those who were offended, He
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: added in a statement, we strive to create a family
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: atmosphere at Kansas and fell short of that this evening.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I'll say, but the pole dancers were fully clothed. They
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: weren't like um. Pole dances do bring families together. I mean,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: if I'm out there with my brother, if you, if
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: you when they was doing the rehearsal and they saw
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: the poles and where they was gonna put the poles
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: in the spotlights, because I saw it. The poles was
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: spot was spot lit. When the poles was out there
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: doing rehearsal for the spot lit part, what did they
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: think was gonna happen? What did he think? Did did
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: they think them was fiming poles? Did they think them
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: was telephone poles? M No, I don't know. But come on,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: it's Snoop. You know who you gets? Why is Snooped
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: at Family Night? Yeah? No? Who was the genius in
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: the meeting? And off of that? But I'm just trying,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just a lot of reasons why y'all
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: don't need to be talking to Snoop. Yeah, but you
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: know what, and Snoop is also one of those entertainers.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: Don't you think Steve that whatever he does, it's it's Snoop.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: We love Snoop so much. Okay, so he did that, Okay,
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: get over it. It's what he does and it would
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: have appreciated it. And we had some concerts Maze Patting
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Lab Snoop come through. They seemed like they were equally
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: as upset though about the money gun. I didn't get
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: that part. I get, but yeah, he's shooting it out
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: of yeah, the money gun. So it seems like that
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: would have been students need money. Yeah, it seems like
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: that would have been fun. I don't get it. And
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: then he was saying words. He was saying the curse
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: words from his songs. He wasn't censoring himself. You know,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: that's how he wrote it. This is Snoop deal double Jen.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: He wrote it Snoop is performing at Family Night right there.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: When they okayed that, skip monitoring it when you okayed it. Yeah, yeah, man,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: he doesn't say anything yet. But maybe they thought since
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: he put the put the Gospel album out last year,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: and you know he's on TV with Martha Stewart, maybe
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: they thought, you know, his life, Yeah, his live shows
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: calmed down a little bit. But this is Snoop the
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: dog Father. Come on, it was fake money too, dollar bills. Yeah,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: great job, great job for family, night, Steve, all right,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: for family and not a trip. All right, it's time
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: for our headlines. Ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Tripp, please
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: watch everybody. This is a trip for the news. Donald
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Trump says he's pulling US forces out of the multinational
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: coalition that's fighting terrorism in Syria. But the plan move
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: is raising concerns of the President's abandoning Syrian Kurds who
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: had been fighting ISIS with the United States, leaving them
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: open to attack from Turkey. Republican Senator Lindsey Graham all
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: went on Fox and Friends and called the idea shortsighted
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: and irresponsible. It's impulsive decision by the president has undone
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: all the games we've made, throwing the region into further chaos.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Iran is lifting their job, and if I'm an ISIS fighter,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: I've got a second least like the Senate leader, Mitch
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: McConnell is now the highest ranking Republican to also criticize
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Trump's decision. Trump says that Turkey and the rest of
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Europe should be responsible for watching overcaptured ISIS fighters, and
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Trump's tweeting that he will quote obliterate Turkey's economy if
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: that country does anything he deems quote off limits. US
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: ANGI Secretary Rich Perry. Meanwhile, he says he absolutely did
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: ask President Trump a number of times to call Ukrainian
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: President Volimir Zelenski, but he says he wanted Trump to
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: talk about energy, not about the bidens Perry held a
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: news conference yesterday to defend himself from what some critics
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: say appeared to be the President throwing him under the
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: bus by telling lawmakers that Perry urged him to make
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: that controversial call in July twenty fifth, the now key
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: focus of the House Democrats impeachment and Korey. Perry says
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: he did tell the President that it wasn't the best
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: interest of the two nations to have discussions, but regarding
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: energy issues. His spokeswoman tell CNN Perry wasn't part of
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: that phone call between Trump and Zelenski, and that Joe
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: and Hunter Biden never came up in his conversations about Ukraine.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Three House committees leading the impeachment in Korea of President
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Trump now issuing a new wave of subpoenas, and reports
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: are that Legislators are now asking for documents from both
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: the Pentagon and the White House Budget Office part of
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: the probe and to Trump's alleged decision to withhold military
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: aid to Ukraine again. This Minnesota Congress from an Ilhan
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Omar is calling out officials in West Palm Beach, Florida
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: for putting a twenty one year old black man in
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: jail for ten days because he overslept and missed the
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: first day of jury duty. Ten days in jail for that,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: DeAndre Somerville, who has no prior criminal record, cares for
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: his elderly grandfather who works for afternoon program for West
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: Palm Beach Parks and Recreation. Somerville was sentenced to jail,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty hours of community service, and he
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: was fined over two hundred dollars. Representative Omar says that
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: the treatment given to young mister Somerville is indicative of
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: a US criminal justice system devised to criminalize people of color.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: The grocery store chain Crogus as it is no longer
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: selling e cigarettes and today is National no braw Wearing Day. Yes,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: now back to the Steve Arbiboarding show you're listening to
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: show Kim Kardashia and weren't we just talking about this yesterday?
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian has secured yet another early release of an inmate,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Momalu Stewart was convicted of murder at the age of sixteen.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Prosecutors tried him as an adult, and Stewart was sentenced
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: to spend the rest of his life in prison without
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: the chance for parole. Following twenty two years behind bars,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Stewart may walk away a freeman this week. The judge
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: could stick him with five years probation. Kim Kardashian filmed
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: her prison visit in July with Momolu. She has an
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: upcoming reality series on the Oxygen network called The Justice Project.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: He thanked Kim on social media, saying, thanks to the
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: homie Kim for her support. In my case, freedom is
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: imminent and success is assured. Wow, Steve, she is really
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: doing some really good stuff. Yeah. I think she won't
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: be until like twenty twenty four, but she's studying diligently,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: and wow, she's making a different twenty twenty four for
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: what she's graduating. I think for law school she'll have
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: From law school, she'll have her law degree. But yeah,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: she's yeah, yeah, so she's doing all of this and
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: still studying and preparing to be a lawyer. Man, she's
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: on the right track. But yeah, for sure. Wow, that's
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: pretty yeah, yeah, pretty impressive what you're saying. Social media
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: would have something to say about that, because she helped
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: somebody to get out of y Yeah, they had something
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: to say. You know, her husband. We talked about her
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: husband yesterday and yeah, you know his issues in Salt
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Lake City and talking about Well, that wasn't a great
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: thing to say. Yeah. No, you know, you can't make
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: a sweeping statement about slavery. The Republicans free just the
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Republican Party was totally different back then. Totally. It's not
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: the same party. It's just not. And you can't give
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Republicans credit for freeing slaves when you look what this
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Republican president is doing to bring it back. Hell, what
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: do people think he means when he says make America
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: great again? I'm not saying he's bringing back slavery, But
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: at what part in American history do black people want
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: to go back to where it was great again? Doesn't
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: help me with that, Yeah, I can't. I cannot help
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: you with that because I don't recall. I don't know
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: if any time I want to go back to ye
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: said no, man wouldn't get it back then. Any Can
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: you think about Jim Crow and all of that stuff
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: back in the day. Come on, man, what a fountain
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: for coloreds only all of that? Yeah, listen. If you
• 38:48
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram or Facebook. Coming up at thirty four after
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: trending news, some members of the Youth Black Leadership Summit said, quote,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: President Trump has done so much for the black community.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: We're going to talk about that right after this. You're
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: listening to the Steven Show. Well, Steve Harvey, here is
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: a story that's trending on social media. President Trump spoke
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: at the Young Black Leadership Summit at the White House.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: It was in the East Room, it was on this
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: past Friday. In attendance were some of the hundreds of
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: young black conservatives who came to Washington last week to
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: show liberal America that African Americans can be conservatives and
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: support Trump and that the conservative movement is not just
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: for old white men. Also, one of the Youth Black
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Leaders said that mister Trump has done so much for
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: the black community, please take a listen. First of all,
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I just want to say I love President Donald J. Trump.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: The media is attacking him, but when they attack him,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: they are attacking us because he is out here fighting
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: for us, and they are harassing you, miss the president,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: so they are harassing me. And I want to say
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: one more thing here. A while back, President Trump said
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: when he was talking to the black community, if you
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: vote for me, whether you have to lose because the
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: do nothing Democrats have done nothing for the black community.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: Twenty twenty is around the corner, and we have a
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: lot to lose now because President Donald J. Trump has
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: done so much for the black community. Thank you, President Trump.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: But what young man, I'm really I just would I
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: would love to talk to you because you have no
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: problem saying these words, but your words that you have
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: nothing to back them up? Young man, he has done
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: so much for the black community. I love President Donald J. Trump.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Why why I was waiting to hear why why you
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: love him so much? And then you said he has
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: done because he's done. He has been fighting for us.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: How name one fight Donald Trump has made for black people?
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: And then he said, and then let me say one
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: more thing, hola broh, you haven't said anything yet. You
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: haven't said anything yet. He has done so much. And
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: when they are attacking the president and they are harassing you,
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: they are harassing me, sir. Policeman. Politicians, slave owners have
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: never had a problem harassing black people. So, young man,
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: when you make these sweeping statements about how good he
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: is for black people, all black people want to know
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: what the hell you're talking about. I got Democrats ain't
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: done much for blacks. You might, you might compass that statement,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: but I shall want you to show me what President
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Trump has done for black people. You cannot be pointing
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: at that African American that he pointed to in the
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: crowd one time too. There goes my African American. You
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: can't tell me we have nothing to lose because he
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: knows that there's nothing ever going to happen on our behalf.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I was reading the article where the young man was
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: talking about how African American unemployment as at a low.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Young man, is that really because of something President Trump
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: has done? Or is that's something that has been brewing
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: over time? That was a thing's implemented and now he's
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: getting credit for it because I haven't seen him or
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: heard of him doing anything to employ black people. Next
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: part the crime bill, I mean the prison bill. That
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: was a great move, that Van Jones, that Cohole Committee.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian, she played a huge role in that. Okay,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: that's cool. That does not mean he should be president
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: because those two things right there that you're pointing to. Man,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: if you look at all the rest of the stuff,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: you gotta be kidding me and Steve, only like four
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: percent of African Americans think that mister Trump's actions have
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: been good for African Americans. Only eight percent. And they
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: was all at the White House the other day. Yeah, yeah,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: identify with the Republican Party. And this is according to
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: an ape pole. So and I'd like for you to
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: check and see if that percent sign is real. Off,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: it's just faux black people. Okay, coming up next now
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: you tell me is out. Junior is here with today's
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this you're listening to show
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today. Subject
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I'm raising my children the old school way. All right,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: that is the subject. Right now. Nephew's out. Junior is
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: in for the nephew with today's prank phone call. What
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: do you have for us today, Junior? Oh, you know,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: am my brilliance, Uh what you know, my brilliant got
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: compliment yourself first. You just can't get a prank out
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: a compliment yourself first when I'm freaking you know, sometimes
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: you have to do these things. Well, that's why I
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: came up with sleeping the cuity guard. Sleeping the curity guard.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Run it cat scurity both man help you? Hey, uh
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: this circuit stuff I can barely heat? Is this is?
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: This is secure the booth down by the by the gate. Yes, sir,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: this security booth. Yeah. Listen, man, it's some people, uh
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: next door to me. They they keep I'm hearing a
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: bunch of scuffling and stuff going on, but I ain't
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you know, I ain't really show what's happening. I know,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: I know I'm hearing this lady scream or something. Man,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: But I I just okay, Sun, you can give us
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: the unit number that you're in. We could have somebody
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: come right over there and check that out. Hello, sir, sir,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: um Hello, y s okay, yeah, uh, I gotta I
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: gotta sleeping dis auto man. So I'm okay, honest. People
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: next door to me, man, they was I mean, they
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: were sitting there. I heard this lady screen and I
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: just didn't. I ain't want nobody to, you know, start
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: shoot nothing, because I know they was arguing pretty pretty heavily.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Then I heard it. I know they must have been
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: fighting because I heard something I understand. Sir, sirry, what
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: what unit are you in? Hello, sir? Are you there? Hello? Hello? Hello, Yes,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I'm here. Are you okay? Just you you're security guy, right, Yes,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: sir you called us about ten minutes ago, and we've
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: been trying to find out what unit you're in. Well, yeah, man,
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: the people up here, man, they arguing and I'll be
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing mold people over that now and they're fighting. Man,
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I know I hear too, God be too mean, and
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: they're fighting. This lady over step you. But tell the
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: un sir, are here some kids over that? To sir.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: We need to know the unit so that we can
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: come out and investigate. Hello, Hello, sir, Hello, Hello, Hello sir.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Huh hey, Hey, look I cannot do this all day.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: I am trying to work. I cannot be around with
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: you on the phone. Could you please give me your
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: unit number. Shut they arguing? Man, I know you. Yes,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: you have said that they are arguing. I heard you
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: when you said that they were arguing, sir, If you
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: just give me that union number that either you're in
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: or the union number you hear the no it's coming from.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: We could have somebody to come over there and check
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: that out immediately. So what the union number are you in? Again? Sir?
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Do you do? You do? You do? You hear them arguments? See,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: let me put on her snore. I need the unit number.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Let me listen. I'm gonna put the phone up. Do
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you hear, yes, sir, but I don't hear the unit number.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I need the unit number. Without the unit number, we're
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: just having a conversation. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello sir. Are
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: you there? Yoh yeah? Oh a man, you checked on
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: the people, No, sir, we have not checked on the
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: people because we have not been able to get the
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: unit number from you. Sir. Dude, this pall please every
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: time you get there to telling stuff, Clase got to
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: see it keeps falling asleep. Hey man, come here, dude.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: This guy following a sleep on the phone. I think
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: it's unit out of him to keep falling asleep. Hello, sir, Love, sir, sir,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: Hey man, I don't know what unit he's in. Keeps
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: falling asleep every time I asked you something. If he
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: falls asleep, he keeps telling me that over that fight,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: but I don't then he won't tell me to you.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I don't sorry, I don't know to you? What would
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: you wake him to sleep? Hey? I got a guy
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: on the phone that he says if they get here,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: some screaming over it by his unit, but keeps falling asleep.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: I don't can't get him on, get him to tell
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: me what the unit number? Hey, dude, come in listen
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: to this. Listen Hello, I'm gonna need you to wake up. Sir. Okay, sir,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: could you please give me the unity? I gotta ask
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: you something? How come y'all all, y'all, dude, just sit
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: on y'all to watch cars come in and out that door,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: and of helping people that need help, like you walk
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: up together the number? You shut your housing at me.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: You need to do your damn job. You rent a cop,
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: I'm a read a cop. I'm a rend the cop
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: fall asleep. Would you just give me the you ain't number? Please?
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I give you the number new Yo, the number you're
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: ready for the un the number? Are you? Are you
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: listening to me? Yes? Listening to you, sir. Death is
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: a few timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: just got crank by your co worker. Y'all crazy, y'all. Ah,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: this is not funny, man, This is not funny. Y'all.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: Got me out here walking around this complex looking for
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: people hollering and screaming, and you're sleeping every thirty five second.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Put it, okay, let me let me ask you something, man,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: Her dad is huh? He come a relevant statement? You know,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: sometimes you have to have sleeping security and nobody to
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: be on the job watching everything. Why would I do that?
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Why would I do that? Why would I do that?
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Why did I do sleeping security? The high Candy can friend?
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Because I think like that. I chid But you can't
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: catch Stephew this Saturday on the new hit TV show
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  Speaker 1: Own Ready to Love ten Eastern nine century. You can
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: catch the nephew on TV this by moving up. I'm
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: proud of And I just ad ask something while I'm
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: go ahead. What anybody want to tell me why he
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: ain't here today? Anybody on the air, I don't know.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I don't know. I know he big
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: time now TV shows and everything. I just want to
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: know why he just I didn't get let me ask
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: you a question because he reports to you, So he
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: didn't call his boss to tell him he wasn't coming
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: in to that, didn't you? Hear me? Just ask you
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: why is he not here? And that makes me ask you,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: it's your nephew, why did you hire him? Because you
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: know how he is. He might be at home listening
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: to the show right now, just kicking it, just chilling
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: for all we know. When we're gonna interview my daughter
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: Brandy tomorrow, I think Brandy may say something in lightning
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: that would open up this little bit. We interview Brandy,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: y'all ask of a few questions her cousin. All right, listen,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: all right, junior, thank you. We're gonna move on up next.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: It's the Strawberry Letters subject I'm raising my children the
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: old school way. We'll get into it right after this.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, time
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen if you need
• 53:20
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• 53:33
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• 53:34
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• 53:37
  Speaker 1: here it is. It's time for the Strawberry Letter with
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: my good friend Shirley straw Thank you, my good friend. Junior.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Subject I'm raising my children the old school way. Dear
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I am a married father of two girls,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: and I have a problem at home. Last week, I
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: popped my sixteen year old daughter in the mouth after
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: she raised her voice and her little sister and then
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: raised her voice at me when I told her to stop.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: When I hit her, she lunged at me and punched
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: me in the face. I tried to hold her. I
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: try to hump, starting to breathe heavy right now. I
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: tried to hold her to keep her from hitting me again,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: and we ended up scuffling in the floor like two
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: dudes in a street fight. The whole time she was
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: still yelling and I was oh. I was trying to
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: control my anger so I wouldn't hurt this child. Her
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: bad behavior has been building up for a while, and
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: there were several incidences, incidents where I had to punish
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: her for her bad attitude or from making smart remarks
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: when we asked her to do things. I have warned
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: her in the past that no child of mine will
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: ever talk to me crazy or disrespect me, and I
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: threatened to pop her in the mouth before she kept
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: on trying me. I grew up under strict rules and
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I was taught to respect my elders. But my wife
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: grew up differently, so she doesn't understand my form of discipline.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: I am not an abusive father, and I do not
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: hit my child hard. I did not hit her hard,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: It was just enough to get her attention. I agree
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: with my wife that I could have handled it differently,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: but I lost it when my daughter yelled at me. Now,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: whenever I try to talk to my daughter, my wife
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: jumps in and escalates the situation and sides with my daughter.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: I'm praying for patience and guidance to move past this,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: but I cannot promise that I won't react the same
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: way if my child ever puts her hands on me again.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: I understand why my wife is upset, But am I wrong?
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: I would never intentionally hurt my own child. Please advise,
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: all right, listen, dad. As a parent myself, I understand,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I deeply understand where you're coming from. I was raised
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: this way as well, you know, the old school way.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: Spare the rod, spoil the child, all of that. And no,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: I won't necessarily say you're wrong for wanting to discipline
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: your child and teach her some manners and all of that.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: But your heart is in the right place. But I
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: just think, you know, as her dad, popping her in
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: the mouth is a bit extreme, okay, and her behavior,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: her behavior is inexcusable. I will say that there's no
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: way that I could not have survived in my house
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: had I done this yelled at my mom or you know,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: or my parent, and then on the floor tussling with
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: my parents. No, no, no, no, uh you know. I
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: will say this. This is a problem I think between
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: you and your wife and your parenting styles. Okay, this
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: has been building up, like you say, and going on
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: for too long. You and your wife are on two
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: different pages, and you don't present a united front. Your
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: daughter sees that she knows it. She plays you, guys
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: against each other, and then your wife steps in and
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: sides with your daughter and escalates the situation. Your family
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: dynamic is way off. You and your wife need to
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: need to get to some sort of agreement on how
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: you are going to discipline these children. You cannot have
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: your daughter in your face and tussling on the floor
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: with She's got to understand that she can't do that.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: It's a respect situation going on here, and your wife
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: can't allow this to happen either. She's got to step
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: in and tell your daughter she's wrong. And until that
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: happens between the two of you, your daughter is just
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: going to keep doing it. But please don't don't hit
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: your daughter. Okay, sometimes you know you said, you kind
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: of just snapped, you lost it. You know, you don't
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: know sometimes your own strength, and you could really hurt
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: your daughter. So back away from that, you and your daughter,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: You and your wife talk about this situation about next time,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: how you handle your daughter, Steve and discipline her. Steve.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: All right, first of all, just let me say this, bro,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: before we even get too far in this letter. You're wrong, bro.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: I just got to tell you you wrong. I got
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: four daughters. I'm just telling you man, you're handling this wrong. Bro,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: You just wrong. You said I'm raising my child the
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: old school way. Okay, well, let me hip you to
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: a couple of things. I'm a married father two girls.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: I have a problem at home. I popped my sixteen
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: year old daughter in the mouth after she raised her
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: voice at her little sister and then raised her voice
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: at me when I told her to stop. You hit
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: your daughter in the mouth, dog, How does that sound?
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: I raised my kids the old school way. You hit
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: your daughter in the mouth, She's sixteen. What message are
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: you sending to her from a man that if you
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: run your mouth to a man, he is sorry for him.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: Pop you in your mind. I don't care if you
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: are her father. You can't hit your daughter in the mouth. Man,
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: not raise my kids old school for real. But I
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: just gotta tell you, man, I've never hit one of
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: my daughters. I've never spent Brandy, Carly, Morgan, Lorie, none
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: of them. Won't it to I wanted to knock him out,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: but I didn't because I can't, because I can't send
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: that message to them that a man who loves you
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: should fit should be able to hit you. I love them,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: I can't hit them, bro, that's the basic rule you've broke. Now.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: When I hit her, she lunged at me and punched
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: me in my face. I tried to hold and keep
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: he up from hitting me again. We ended up scuffling
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: in the flow like two dudes in the street fight.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: What yo, bro? What dog? You're scuffling in the floor
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: with your daughter like two dudes in a street fight.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: You raise your daughters, your daughters the old Schoolwait? What bro?
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry man, I'll be back. But you you hey man,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: you wrong dog man. Hang on, Steve, we're gonna have
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up at twenty three
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: after the hour of the subject of today's Strawberry Letter,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: I'm raising my children the old school way. We'll be
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve,
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject I'm raising my children
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: the old school way. Yeah, we're back, so listen to me.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: I'm raising my children old school way. This man got
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: two girls, got into an altercation last week and popped
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: his sixteen year old daughter in the mouth after she
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: raised a voice to a little sist and then raised
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: a voice and me, I told her to stop. Then
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: I hit her. She launched at me and punched me
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: in the face. I tried to hold it keep it
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: from hitting me again, and we ended up scuffing in
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: the flow like two dudes in the street fight. Bro,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: I told you before, you're wrong for this on so
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: many levels. First of all, you should not be hitting
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: your daughter in the mouth, period. Like Shirley said, I
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: was raised old school. When I raised my kid, spared
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: the rod, spawled the child. Cool. But I've never hitting
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: my daughters because I never wanted my daughters to equate
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: a man's love with physical abuse. You and your daughters
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: in the man you're supposed to love her. So now
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: she thinks when a man get mad at her, it's
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: okay for him. You know how many times a woman
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: has hit me and I've done nothing, So came, no
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: woman hit you and you do nothing? Come on, bro,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, since we're talking old school, if you really
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: want to go old school, no man should ever hit
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: a woman or girl. That's old school. You should never
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: fight in front of your kids with your wife. I
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: can't let my sons abusing their mother. There's a lot
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: of old school stuff. You're breaking everything dog with just
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  Speaker 1: hitting this little girl right here. The whole time she
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  Speaker 1: was still yelling. I was trying to control my anger
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  Speaker 1: so I wouldn't hurt this child. What what you've been
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  Speaker 1: to do to anth dog? You don't punch it and
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  Speaker 1: popped in the mouth and you had to flow wrestling
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  Speaker 1: like would like to do? What's next? D bro bro
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  Speaker 1: When you typed the letter? Did you read it? Her
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  Speaker 1: bad behavior has been building up for a while, and
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  Speaker 1: that was several incidents where I had to punish her
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  Speaker 1: for her bad attitude or for making smart remarks when
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  Speaker 1: we asked her to do things. She got a bad attitude.
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  Speaker 1: She punched you. Why's she get the punching from? But
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: I don't you got any any idea where she might
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  Speaker 1: have got the punching from because her daddy hit her
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  Speaker 1: in the mouth. I have wandered in the past, and
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  Speaker 1: no child of mine will never talk to me crazy
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  Speaker 1: or disrespect when it's a way to get that a
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  Speaker 1: better result than the way you did. Man. So I
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  Speaker 1: popped in the mouth. I threatened to pop in the
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  Speaker 1: mouth before, but this time you did it. She kept
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  Speaker 1: on trying me. I grew up on the street rules
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  Speaker 1: and I was taught to respect my elders. Well, you
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  Speaker 1: got to teach your daughter to do that, to respect
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  Speaker 1: they her elders. But popping her in the mouth. Now,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: if your wife popping in the mouth, that's a whole
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: other thing. But you, as a man, popping your girl
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  Speaker 1: in the mouth. Bro Come on, man, I'm not an
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  Speaker 1: abusive father and I did not hit my child hard.
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  Speaker 1: You are a man, dog, How hard do you have
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  Speaker 1: to hit the girl for it to have an effect?
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  Speaker 1: Come on, man, you're in a different weight class. You're
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  Speaker 1: and your daughter. Don't even wait, the same fighters are
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  Speaker 1: in different weight classes. I didn't hit the hard. It
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  Speaker 1: was just enough to get her attention. Oh you got
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: attention her how she came for you. I agree with
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  Speaker 1: my wife that I could have handled it differently. So
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  Speaker 1: why are we writing a letter? Dog? If you agree
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  Speaker 1: with your wife that you could have handled it differently,
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  Speaker 1: why are you writing the letter? So? But I lost
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  Speaker 1: it when my daughter yelled at me. Now, whenever I
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: try to talk to my daughter, Hey, man, let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something about your daughter. A lot of men
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  Speaker 1: then yelled at you. You ain't hit him in name mouth?
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  Speaker 1: Oh god, doctor slip see yelling at you getting hit
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  Speaker 1: in the mouth is not the measuring stick. You know,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: many dudes and yelled at me, and I'm glad that's
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  Speaker 1: all they did when she yelled at me. Bro, I'm
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: just telling you, I'm sorry. Man, try to talk to
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  Speaker 1: my daughter. My wife jumps in and escalates. She sighed
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  Speaker 1: with my daughter. I'm praying for patience and guidance to
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  Speaker 1: move past this. What after all this, you're gonna drag
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  Speaker 1: the Lord in it. But I cannot promise that I
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  Speaker 1: won't react the same way if my child ever puts
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: her hands on me again. Did you not put your
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: hands on her first? See? Bro, I'm just sorry, man.
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  Speaker 1: I can't let you now. All is praying for patience
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: and guidance from God. Then you say, I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 1: I can't promise you that I ain't gonna do this again. What.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: I understand why my wife is upset. But am I wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Dead wrong? I would never intentionally hurt my own child,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: but you can. People have killed their kids before. I
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: remember a few years ago, this little boy was getting
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: on his daddy nerve. He sucker punched him in the chest.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: The boy died. I don't hit that hard. You're a
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: different way class homie. Yeah, you're wrong. And to every
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: man out there that is beating their daughters, you're wrong.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: You're wrong. You gotta find another way to talk to
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: your daughter, man, because you cannot be the person that
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: they say loves them as a male figure and teach
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: them that a man that loves you should have also
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  Speaker 1: the right to hit you. You can we backwards hire.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you wrong, partner. I ain't signed with you
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: no way, shape, form of fashion. Your wife is right,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: should have handled a different way. I'm in a flow
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: with my daughter wrestling like two dudes in the street. Man.
• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: six after the hour, The New Orleans Saints linebacker has
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: been fined for wearing a headband that said man of God.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: What we'll talk about that right after this you're listening
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show. All right, faith and his belief
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: in God are at the forefront of Demario Davis's life.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: The NFL get this guy's has fined him for putting
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: it on his forehead two. During a September twenty second
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: game against the Seattle Seahawks, the New Orleans Saints linebacker
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  Speaker 1: again his name is Demario Davis, wore a head and
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: matching the team's colors, bearing the words man of God.
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  Speaker 1: He said he was fined seven thousand, seventeen dollars for
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: a first offense uniform violation, even though the headband was
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: invisible beneath his helmet. NFL rules are strict when it
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: comes to game day apparel, and personal messages are prohibited.
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  Speaker 1: He says, my faith is always going to be the
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: most important aspect of my leadership. When he was with
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: the New York Jets, he says, I was a leader
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: off the field on this team before I was a
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: leader on the field. I wanted my character to speak
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: for me before I even stepped in the stepped a
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: foot on the field. I wanted guys to know that
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: I put God first, I put my family second, and
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: I put football third. So there you go. This was
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: all in an Associated Press interview back in twenty fourteen.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: So that just lets you know where his heart and
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: his head is. A man, I don't know what man
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: for that thought, Wow, so much else that we could
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: be finding for. I mean, seriously, man, there's a lot
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: of stuff dudes, dude, you could find them for. Ye
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: not that. Yeah, the NFL rules are strict, though, and
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: I guess if they let him go, I don't I
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: don't know, don't even well, I guess if you're here
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: being got Nike on it, then yes? Cool? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: because paying God forbid, you have men of God on there. Yea.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: He wants to promote that. Yeah, no, we already got
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: a imag your league already look crazy and good point
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: Carla on the team called the Saints, called the Saints. Wow,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: you can't talk about God? You're mad about that? What
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: is this world coming to believe? I mean it's crazy, man.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: But your president could say he can grab women by
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: the pea and he can still be the president. Yeah,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: not get fine, not anything. The president ain't got fined
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: for nothing. He then said that, I mean he'd just
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: making stuff up, man. Yeah, and he doub is a
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: little nervous about this impeachment inquiry to be a phone call.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: He're little nervous now, Yeah, so we'll see Ji all right?
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. You can
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: sue the person that your ex husband or your ex
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: wife left you. Four what we're gonna talk about that.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show, all right, So you
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: can sue the person that your ex husband or ex
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: wife left you. Four? What? What? What happened? All right?
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: This is relationship Tuesday. This is our topic. Okay. A
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: jilted North Carolina husband reportedly has won a seven hundred
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: and fifty thousand dollars that three quarters of a million
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: dollars lawsuit that he filed against a former friend for
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: stealing his wife. His name is Kevin Howard. He won
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: the judgment under an unusual North Carolina law that lets
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: people file a suit for alienation of affection against the
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: person who seduced their spouse. What I guess she's going
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: back for that money, right? Mister Howard said it was
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: painful betrayal. He came to my house and ate dinner
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: with us. This is what he told a local TV station.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: We shared stories, we talked about our personal lives. Mister
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Howard went on to say that he believes in sanctity
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: of marriage and his divorce was almost unbearable. Like someone
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: calling you and telling you that a family member had
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: tragically died. So, m wow, Steve, should all mistresses and
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: jigglos or whatever they're calling themselves be liable for ruining
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: a marriage? What do you think about this? Well, I
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: don't know if ruin it if like if I had
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: an X that I didn't like or something she left me,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: you know, but sending the dude some flowers or so,
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: that's the thing. He loved her, He loved you know,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand that. But yeah, you know
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, they're suing for everything else. They
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: sue for a lot less, That's what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: but he was so why not seven hundred and fifty
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars? Is it worth that? Man? What was she doing? Yeah,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: it's crazy that you can do that, though, that you
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: can sue you know, someone who broke up your marriage.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: But someone he's saying, someone who Yeah, someone who came
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: into his home ate dinner, shared stories. He was probably
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: telling him too much. Uh huh. He shouldn't have told
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: him all the stuff he told him. Maybe that had
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: something to do. Yeah, wow, yeah, the trail right there. Yeah,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: Well yeah, I'm not I'm I'm Okay, with him suing
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: for that, you know, but hell, they suing for everything else.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: Let's go what they all saw? You saw? Oh man?
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: What to bring that up? Junior? I just saw if left.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: But you know what, man, the majority of lawsuits that
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: I'm involved in is some person who is trying to
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: extort money or get money by making a false claim
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: and thinking I'm gonna settle just because I don't want
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: to go through the case. I never do. I never settle.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: I do not do that. Wow. Okay, so you go, sol.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: Did you know if you're wrongly accusing me? I'm sorry, partner,
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, partner. Get your money out too. Wow? Did
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: you know this that? Among all the other things are
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: Kelly is facing, he's also facing a charge similar to
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: the man we're talking about in this story. He's facing
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: serious criminal charges. Um wow. But one Mississippi sheriff is
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: demanding his case against the singer move forward. According to
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: court documents obtained by The Blast, the sheriff, Kenny Bryant,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: is asking a judge to grant him a default judgment
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: against R. Kelly. He's suing R Kelly, accusing him of
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: breaking up his marriage by carrying out an affair with
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: his wife. He filed his lawsuit in Mississippi, which allows
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: partners to file cases over cheating, just like this case
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: we're talking about Carolina. Yeah, okay, this case has been
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: atte He don't have no money songwrights y. Wow. He
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: says he's tired of waiting around for R. Kelly or
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: his companies to respond. He believes the judge should award
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: him damages and close this case. Wow. He got way
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: bigger problems than you, right there. Part. That's why you
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: ain't getting a call from his lawyers. All his comet here.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: We gotta fight with the kids. Coming up next. You're
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: in here talking about your wife. More music, more fun,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: more ignorance. On the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: back at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this,
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steven Show. All right, guys, Today's
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Taco Tuesday. And according to a poll from Taco del Mar,
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: soft shell taco lovers and hard shell taco lovers are
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: quite different people when it comes to personality traits. Hard
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: shellers describe themselves as adventurous, curious, happy, hard working, high maintenance,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: and organized. On the other hand, soft shell eaters say
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: they were calm, clean, creative, friendly and loyal. Me too, soft.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: I don't like that show, couldn't top of your mom day.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: That means I don't like crunch with my meat. That
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: means I love you. Don't like chips with your sandwich,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: chips with your sandwiches or anything shows. I've never been
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: a fan of nachos, which with all the stuff in
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: a pal after two if three people is over there
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: and started looking like trash. Real, it started look like
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: what it just started looking like trays. Get your own
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: play You don't share, Steve, No, I do not do that. No,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: if another dude hands touch the bowl, we need two bowls. Yeah,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: that's like, that's like double dipping or something. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: but I love hard shell tacos and nachos. I like crunch, Yeah,
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: I like I like the tacos. I like soft shell,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: I really really do. Yeah, but I love that shell too,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: But I like yeah. All right, coming up, we'll have
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: more of Steve Harvey Morning Showing some trending news at
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: thirty three after the hour. Right after this, you're listening
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show. All right, So in today's entertainment news,
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: listen to this story. The University of Kansas has issued
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: an apology after Snoop Dogg performed at a preseason college
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: basketball celebration that featured pole dancers and a money gun.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: What were they unset about the pole dancers or the
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: money gun? I don't know whence Yeah. While the audience
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: enjoyed Snoop, university officials were less than impressed. They said,
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: we made it clear to the entertainers managers that we
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: expected a clean version of the show. This is according
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: to Kansas Athletic Director Jeff Long. He says, I take
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: full responsibility for not thoroughly vetting all the details of
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: the performance and offer my personal apology to those who
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: were offended. He added in a statement, we strive to
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: create a family atmosphere at Kansas and fell short of
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: that this evening. I'll say, but the pole dancers were
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: fully clothed. They weren't like old dances. Dude brings families together.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm out there with my brother, if you,
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: if you When they was doing the rehearsal, uh and
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: they saw the poles and where they was gonna put
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: the poles in the spotlights? Because I saw it. The
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: poles was spot was spot lit. When the Poles was
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: out there doing rehearsal for the spot lit park, what
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: did they think was gonna happen? What did he think
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: did did they think them was fiming poles? Did they
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: think them was telephone Poles? But come on, it's Snoopop.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: You know who you get? Why is Snoop at Family Night? Yeah?
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: Who was the genius in the meeting? That off of that?
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: But I'm just trying, you know, it's just a lot
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: of reasons why y'all don't need to be talking to Snoop. Yeah,
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: but you know what, and Snoop is also one of
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: those enterty haters. Don't you think Steve that whatever he does,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: it's it's Snoop. We love Snoop so much. Okay, so
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: he did that, Okay, get over it. It's what he
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: does and it would have appreciated it. And we had
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: some concerts, Maze Pad Lab Snoop come through. They seemed
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: like they were equally as upset. Though about the money gun.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: I didn't get that part I get, but yeah, he's
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: shooting it out of Yeah, the money gun. So it
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: seems like that would have been students name money. Yes,
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: it seems like that would have been fun. I don't
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: get it. And then he was saying words. He was
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: saying the curse words from his songs. He wasn't censoring himself,
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, that's how he wrote it. This is snoop.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: Oh it was fake money too, dollar bills. All right,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: there you have it coming up her last break of
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: the day and some inspirational closing remarks from the one
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey at forty nine after the hour
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, here we are,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: last break of the day. It's been a good day
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: as usual. Yeah, it's been fun. Yeah, great, You're all right, Steve?
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: Did you because we started the show off talking about attention, Well,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: you know, it's it's been one of those days for me.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: I will admit that so far, but it's gonna get better.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: I always keep my head up, yeah, you know, which
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: could lead into these closing remarks because I might as
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: well talk about something that I was dealing with. You know,
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: I was in a Jamaica over the weekend, and every
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: morning I have a little meditation that I do with
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: daily inspiration that I read my Bible and a journal
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: that I take notes in and I started it doing
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: this taking these notes. The first or July seventh was
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: my first day doing it, and I have notes for
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: practically every single day. I've only missed like three days
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: from taking notes, just three. And so it's something I've
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: learned to do, and it starts my day off really,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: really well because it gives me a weaponry till God
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: against the evil principalities of the world. You know, there's
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: so much stimulation out here with social media and technology
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: and cyberspace and phone calls and messages and texts that
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: you know, even if you're having a great day, there's
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: so much stuff out there that can throw you off
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  Speaker 1: if you're not, if you haven't stabilized yourself spiritually. And Sunday,
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  Speaker 1: when I woke up, I was in Jamaica. I was
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  Speaker 1: just about to open up my journal, my daily inspiration.
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  Speaker 1: But I had left the TV on the night four
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  Speaker 1: in the living room, and so I went into the
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  Speaker 1: living room and I was about to sit out with
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  Speaker 1: my books, and I said, man, let me, let me
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  Speaker 1: cut this TV off. And I went over there and
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  Speaker 1: I hit it. It didn't go off for some reason,
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  Speaker 1: and I said, man, what's the deal? And I tried
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  Speaker 1: to hit it and didn't go off, and I just
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  Speaker 1: hit the channel and I hit the channel one time.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm in Jamaica. Now I hit the channel one
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  Speaker 1: time and up pops Joel Oldstein. And so I was
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  Speaker 1: instead of me opening up my journal in my daily inspiration,
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  Speaker 1: I sat down and cut cut the volume up. I went, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this must be for me. Maybe he wants me to
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  Speaker 1: get this, And oh my god, oh my goodness, was
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  Speaker 1: he correct. Now I can't tell you exactly what he said,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm a paraphrase it a bit. He was talking
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  Speaker 1: about people who have given up on their dreams. Now
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  Speaker 1: that didn't apply to me, but he said, this is
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  Speaker 1: for people who've given up on your dreams. This is
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  Speaker 1: for people who've been waiting on something for God for
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  Speaker 1: a while and it hasn't gotten there yet, and you're
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  Speaker 1: starting to feel like maybe it ain't for you all
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  Speaker 1: you're thinking about giving up on it. I wasn't quite
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  Speaker 1: in that part of it, but I've been a little
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  Speaker 1: discouraged about the fact that something I had been wanting
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  Speaker 1: for a while hadn't happened. A lot of people fall
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  Speaker 1: into that bracket, but a lot of people have fallen into.
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  Speaker 1: They waited so long, they just decided it wasn't for them,
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  Speaker 1: and they stopped all. They gave up on their dreams
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  Speaker 1: and their visions. And he was talking about he said,
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  Speaker 1: what you don't realize is that when you ask God
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  Speaker 1: for something, that God is working on it behind the scenes.
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  Speaker 1: He's doing some stuff in orchestrating some stuff, and putting
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  Speaker 1: some stuff into play for you that you may very
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  Speaker 1: well not even be aware of. But if you give
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  Speaker 1: up hope, if you stop looking for it, if you
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  Speaker 1: lose the faith, you then stop the process. Because God
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  Speaker 1: don't give you what you want all the time. He
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  Speaker 1: gives you what you believe all the time. See, you
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  Speaker 1: don't always get what you want because what you want
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  Speaker 1: may not be best for you or something like that.
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  Speaker 1: But if you believe God to give you something and
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  Speaker 1: He has it for you, He's going to give it
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  Speaker 1: to you. But some people just give up hoping for
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  Speaker 1: it looking for it. He said. If you've gotten at
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  Speaker 1: the point in your life where you've given up on
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  Speaker 1: your dreams or you think it ain't coming, and you're
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: starting to faith, he said, I want you to do something.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I want you to look again and that
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  Speaker 1: caught my attention. He said, I want you to look again.
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  Speaker 1: He said, if you look again and you don't see
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  Speaker 1: the blessing coming, or you don't see the blessing right there,
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  Speaker 1: he said, I want you to look again, he said
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  Speaker 1: in it. If you still don't see it, he said,
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  Speaker 1: listen to me real close. I want you to look again.
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  Speaker 1: And that was the thing that I needed to hear yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes, y'all, when you ask God for something that
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  Speaker 1: it don't come in the time frame that you wanted
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  Speaker 1: to come in, you got to stay patient, you got
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  Speaker 1: to stay watchful, and you got to do like Joel
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  Speaker 1: Olstein said, you got to look again. And if you
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  Speaker 1: look over there and you still don't see it, stay patient,
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  Speaker 1: but look again. And man on, man on, man, I
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  Speaker 1: can't tell you how I needed that yesterday. I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you how I need it today. I can't tell
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  Speaker 1: you how often I need that because so many times, man,
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: so many things go counter to the way you wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go or what you thought it was gonna be,
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  Speaker 1: that you end up and you start feeling just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit discouraged. Sometimes you just flat out I can't
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  Speaker 1: take it no more, and I quit but I very
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: rarely get that way, but I do get I'm human,
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: you know, so I get moments when I'm man, this
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  Speaker 1: is exhausting because what I'm attempting to do is exhausting.
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  Speaker 1: What you're attempting to do or become, or the point
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to get to, it's exhausting. But if you're
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: exhausted and you don't feel like it's happening fast enough,
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: do like Joel Oldstein said, y'all, look again, just look again.
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  Speaker 1: He's probably doing something on your behalf that you're not
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  Speaker 1: aware of. Those are my closing remarks that really helped me.
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  Speaker 1: So you know what I'm doing right now, I'm looking
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  Speaker 1: at again. I'm looking again. Y'all. Have a great weekend.
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