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The Day After E, Big Headed, Largest Lie, Secret Garden and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stove. True good Steve to mother, Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn you're going.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turnout turn you love, got to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out to turn turn the water the water go. Come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your fad, I shall well. Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice. Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show partickling
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  Speaker 1: me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show feel
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  Speaker 1: with nothing but joy and hope about it too. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's a great thing to be able to wake up
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  Speaker 1: in the morning with peace in your heart and joy.
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  Speaker 1: Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has a value
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  Speaker 1: attached to it, and I have no idea what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's invaluable. It is worth so much more than any
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  Speaker 1: amount of money you can make. Peace and joy. I
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  Speaker 1: have not always had that. I have not always been
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  Speaker 1: a peaceful person or a person who lived his life
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  Speaker 1: in a joy spirit. It took an arrival at this moment.
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  Speaker 1: Some people arrive sooner than others. I wish I had
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  Speaker 1: arrived at this point sooner, but I think it was
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  Speaker 1: necessary for me to learn a few things too. That's
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  Speaker 1: the amazing thing I've learned about life is that instead
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  Speaker 1: of reflecting on your past incidences and calling them failures,
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  Speaker 1: instead of focusing on the negative and calling them bad times,
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  Speaker 1: I look at them now as experiences. I had to
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  Speaker 1: have those experiences that were negative, that were good, positive, wrong,
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  Speaker 1: even I had to have all those experiences to become
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  Speaker 1: to shape who we are today. We all have to
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  Speaker 1: have them. If you look back at all the negative
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  Speaker 1: experiences you've had, all the things that you called failures,
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  Speaker 1: all the businesses I started that went under, all of
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  Speaker 1: the jobs I had that I was fired from, all
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  Speaker 1: the shows that were canceled, all of the times I
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  Speaker 1: thought I was gonna get something happened in my way
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  Speaker 1: and turned out I didn't get it at all. When
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  Speaker 1: you look at all of it, all of it, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: along the way, what you have done as a person
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  Speaker 1: is you've taken those negatives and those failures and you've
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  Speaker 1: used them for what they actually are. They are experiences,
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  Speaker 1: and they've now created in you an experienced person, and
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  Speaker 1: you know that is worth something. That's then it becomes
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  Speaker 1: a positive. But what too many people do is they
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  Speaker 1: let the negative things that have happened in their life.
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  Speaker 1: They allow the failures that have happened in them lives
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  Speaker 1: never to manifest themselves as experiences. And you sit up
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  Speaker 1: there and you dwell on it, and you dwell on
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  Speaker 1: it until you have this woe is me attitude. Stop
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  Speaker 1: looking at it like that, y'all. You go through things
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  Speaker 1: in order to become the person that you are today.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you who you sometimes have to sit down
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  Speaker 1: and talk to. Sometimes you are to sit down to
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  Speaker 1: an inmate that really gets it, an inmate that says, man,
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  Speaker 1: I've actually heard inmates say it to me and write
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  Speaker 1: to me, and they've said things like, man, coming to prison,
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  Speaker 1: save my life. Now, those of you have never gone,
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  Speaker 1: how can he say a thing like that? But some men, no, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I was so far out there that if I had
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  Speaker 1: stayed out there, I wouldn't even be here today. This
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  Speaker 1: actually allowed me to stop, spend some time with myself
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  Speaker 1: and learn some things about me. Now does that happen
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  Speaker 1: for everybody like that? Now? But here's a person who
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  Speaker 1: was taking an experience that could be considered a failure
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  Speaker 1: or a negative and turning it into a positive and
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  Speaker 1: using it to enrich their lives. You can do it
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  Speaker 1: no matter what your set of circumstances is. I recommend
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  Speaker 1: to everybody that you try changing your outlook in order
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  Speaker 1: to change your outcome. Everything that happens to you that's
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  Speaker 1: negative or you consider failure their experiences. You've got to
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  Speaker 1: go through these things in order to have the knowledge
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  Speaker 1: that you have today. So I wish that I had
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  Speaker 1: come to this arrival, that I may now this place
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  Speaker 1: of peace and joy. But then guess what I would
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  Speaker 1: not know what I know. I could not share some
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  Speaker 1: of the things that I'm able to share if I
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  Speaker 1: had not gone through some of them. And sometimes that's
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  Speaker 1: the purpose of them, is to teach you a lesson
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  Speaker 1: because you know, God has a plan for you, He
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  Speaker 1: really really does. And eventually he can use you no
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  Speaker 1: matter how old you are, and he can use you
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  Speaker 1: no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine
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  Speaker 1: ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God? What
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  Speaker 1: do you want me to do? That's why I say
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  Speaker 1: every day Steve already got radio show, y'all. Because man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I
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  Speaker 1: ain't seen it. Half of the amazing things that are
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  Speaker 1: happened to me, I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, man,
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  Speaker 1: skin God for some direction. And then I got smart
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  Speaker 1: enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker. Now because faithful,
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  Speaker 1: our works is there and it came. And I remind
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  Speaker 1: you of this. God has given all of you a gift.
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  Speaker 1: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God
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  Speaker 1: has never created a soul that he did not provide
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  Speaker 1: a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a
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  Speaker 1: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts
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  Speaker 1: are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who
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  Speaker 1: really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and in that you can become great. You
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  Speaker 1: know a lot of people people think that successful and
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  Speaker 1: greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at
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  Speaker 1: my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something
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  Speaker 1: so pointed. He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness.
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  Speaker 1: The two have nothing to do with each other. See
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  Speaker 1: people determined success about money and fame and all this here,
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  Speaker 1: but greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's
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  Speaker 1: how you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant
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  Speaker 1: you become in your community, at your church, on your job,
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  Speaker 1: to the cub Scout unit that you run, to the
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  Speaker 1: little girls lives that you change, that that little center
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  Speaker 1: in the hood. Who are you just one place of
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  Speaker 1: hope to so many people and they come back. And
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  Speaker 1: I used the example of Lou Danzler who passed away
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  Speaker 1: in LA, who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club
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  Speaker 1: out in LA. And he wasn't a rich man at all,
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  Speaker 1: and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know
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  Speaker 1: who he was. But if you look at all the
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  Speaker 1: people who have gone on to become politicians, who have
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  Speaker 1: gone on to become CEO's, who have gone on to
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  Speaker 1: become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building
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  Speaker 1: in the hood in La, he was a great trust
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  Speaker 1: me man prad changes things. I said all the time.
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  Speaker 1: But when you see people come successful or great that
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  Speaker 1: somebody praying somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: day Mama. You know, I think of Tiger Woods and
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  Speaker 1: all the greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk
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  Speaker 1: about as farther than all this here, somebody somewhere praying
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  Speaker 1: for Tiger Woods. I got cash money riding on that
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  Speaker 1: Tiger Woods. Mama is a praying woman or something. My
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  Speaker 1: mother was. She prayed me into this place because she
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  Speaker 1: ushould call me all the time. Praying for your boy,
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  Speaker 1: and prayer changes things. It really does. Try it today.
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  Speaker 1: It can change you. It has changed millions of people.
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  Speaker 1: Open up yourself to the greatness that's in you because
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  Speaker 1: God is giving you a gift. Now the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you ain't using it. Who fought you think that is?
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you you got one, and if you
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  Speaker 1: start praying about it, it'll manifest itself and you can
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  Speaker 1: become one or two things, successful or great or both.
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  Speaker 1: You can make the decision. Today morning show, ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: man have your attention. Please. Uh it's Monday morning. It's
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of a new week. But it's the same
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  Speaker 1: damn thing up in here. Reeving to turn up this volume,
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  Speaker 1: create this ignorance and be botty bout it. Dog going it,
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawby. We let Steve we let Oh that's that
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  Speaker 1: CHOI we let Steve Man. We live? That was fun.
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  Speaker 1: That was fun. It's young people listening to this show going, uh,
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  Speaker 1: we live, and they probably ain't even saying that no more.
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  Speaker 1: They say still saying we live. I'm scared to use
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  Speaker 1: modern day slang. I'm still going. I'm still doing you know,
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  Speaker 1: what's happening for the playoff? You know that way? I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know it's out of style and all my talk
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  Speaker 1: is out of style. We let bla for rel what's happening?
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  Speaker 1: We bought that life? What's going on? Cool? Junior? You
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  Speaker 1: got one? I just gonna say, morning on my Tommy.
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  Speaker 1: You got one? Lit light lit I'm living my bath life. Man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: now dude, this one still work turned up? Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: was still work. Come on, Steve, what it is? What
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  Speaker 1: it is? Good? Good? Everybody? Cool? Man? My man? Slapping five?
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  Speaker 1: You did that that? You may as well throw it
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  Speaker 1: right on in their Still I still say right on.
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  Speaker 1: I still say, hey, man. When I talk to my
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  Speaker 1: older brother, it's it's it's like talking to Marvin gay S.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to them, Hey, what's up? Drunk. What's hand
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  Speaker 1: with you? Something? Man? Give me some of that skin, Man,
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  Speaker 1: some skin that's five on the black hand, keeping like that.
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  Speaker 1: It's all right man, right on. What's been going on
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  Speaker 1: with your player? You still doing it? Ain't you? You know,
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  Speaker 1: people ain't easy. But somebody ain't gonna do it. It It
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  Speaker 1: mightn't be me. He don what's up? What's up? Timmy?
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  Speaker 1: One of my little girls, what are the friends of
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  Speaker 1: the house, said mister Timmy? You lit? I said, baby?
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  Speaker 1: I said, baby, I don't. I don't. I don't smoke
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  Speaker 1: with I don't know what you're talking about. Said what
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  Speaker 1: that couldn't be a drop reference either way. I wasn't there.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what lit Mick. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: especially in front of your kids, know what, You gotta
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  Speaker 1: stay fresh him, Tommy, We got younger kids too, you know. Hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what I did. One day in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I came out of my officer with my shirt open,
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  Speaker 1: and my kids friends was in the house. When you say, Dad,
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  Speaker 1: your shirt is open, I said, I live here. Tell
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  Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from to turn around
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  Speaker 1: quick looking over here. But it's so funny. Steve you're right,
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  Speaker 1: because we're at an age now where everything we do
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  Speaker 1: embarrasses our kids. There's nothing that we can do that
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  Speaker 1: where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen,
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  Speaker 1: coming up in thirty two after the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop. Right after this. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: let we let turn up. You're listening to show the
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  Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you
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  Speaker 1: got next the shop lift? Let's go cat. Hello. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Tanya. Please Hi. Tell you
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  Speaker 1: my name is Daniel. I'm the head of store security
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  Speaker 1: here at your job. Uh, listen, I'm trying to see um,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to I know, to day's your day off.
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking at the schedule here. It seems that you
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  Speaker 1: don't come back in until Saturday. I'm trying to see
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  Speaker 1: if it's possible I can get you to come to
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  Speaker 1: the store. There's a bit of a situation I want
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  Speaker 1: to discuss with you. There's about eighteen hundred dollars worth
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  Speaker 1: of merchandise missing from the store. Yeah, it's about eighteen
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  Speaker 1: hundred dollars worth of merchandise. And we definitely know that
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  Speaker 1: this is a in house situation. This is not someone
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  Speaker 1: walking in shoplifting. This is definitely an in house situation
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  Speaker 1: with employees who have evidently been shoplifting from the store,
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  Speaker 1: taking things, and we want to get down to the
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  Speaker 1: to the roots of the problem. Well, ma'am, it's uh,
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  Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention that there's a possibility
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  Speaker 1: that you may be part of this situation. And I
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  Speaker 1: ain't no thief. I don't steal. You don't call my
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  Speaker 1: house accusing me is stealing. I ain't stole nothing from nobody. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: my hangar man, what I'm trying to do is just
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  Speaker 1: trying to you, trying to say out and stole something,
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  Speaker 1: and I ain't stole them. Okay, wait just a second. Now,
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  Speaker 1: do you have a sister named Cynthia? Yeah, what about it? Well, now,
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  Speaker 1: it seems that here on some of the footage that
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  Speaker 1: we have on camera, that it's a possibility that it
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  Speaker 1: seems like your sister's actually wearing some of the merchandise
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  Speaker 1: that we sell here in the store. Okay, just because
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  Speaker 1: she wears something that we sell in the store, don't
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  Speaker 1: mean that I stole it. Well, we don't see where
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  Speaker 1: she's act I backed the footage up as far as
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  Speaker 1: I could. I don't see any footage of where she
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  Speaker 1: purchased this particular merchandise. And my assumption is maybe you
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  Speaker 1: gave it to her. I ain't gave her. And just
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  Speaker 1: because you don't see what somebody purchased it don't mean
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  Speaker 1: that it's been stolen. Okay, here's what I'm gonna get.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just get to the chase of this, Tanya. What
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to do is this if I can't
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  Speaker 1: get you to come to the store man. And matter
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  Speaker 1: of fact, here's another question for you before I go
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  Speaker 1: any further. You have children at all, Tanya? Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: got children? Why do you? Is it possible? Because I'm
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  Speaker 1: missing a lot of baby merchandise as well. And you
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  Speaker 1: know what, you know what you really cruising for this morning? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: because you don't call somebody on the off day accusing
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  Speaker 1: them of stealing. Okay, here's what I gotta do. Are
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  Speaker 1: you coming into the office so I can talk with you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not coming know where on my off day. Well,
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  Speaker 1: then what's gonna happen, miss Tanya, is I'm gonna have
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  Speaker 1: to actually come to your home check your closet. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna have to check your kids and see if they're
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  Speaker 1: check and see if they're wearing merchandise that comes from this.
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  Speaker 1: Come to my house if you want to, and they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna take your somebody here in abody back. Excuse me.
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  Speaker 1: You heard what I said. You heard what I said.
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  Speaker 1: You don't call nobody. I bust my death store. I
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  Speaker 1: bust my to that store. You understand me. I work
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  Speaker 1: hard for y'all. Okay, you're you've been busting you You've
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  Speaker 1: been busting your car here excusing me of stealing. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't so from nobody. I don't have to steal. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I work all that, you understand. I think you've
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  Speaker 1: been busting your butt. Taking stuff is what you've been doing.
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  Speaker 1: You've been from nobody. You understand me. I do not steal.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over there. I'm checking your closet stings,
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  Speaker 1: but it ain't no sea, you understand. And I'm checking
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  Speaker 1: your babies as well. And I'm making check my babies
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  Speaker 1: and see what happens. You put your heads on any
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  Speaker 1: damn thing in here and see what happens. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to have to drag your butt here. Oh
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna drag somebody. Oh, Now, you threatening me? I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to drag by of your house security guy.
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  Speaker 1: You tough security guy. You like your job that much,
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  Speaker 1: you're willing to die for that? Huh? Who said anything
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  Speaker 1: about me? Die? I did come over here, and that's
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  Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. That's what happens when you put people
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  Speaker 1: on the off day, you get hurt. Okay, I get
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  Speaker 1: a couple of damn days off and y'all gonna call
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  Speaker 1: me with this. So are you threatening me? Now? I'm
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  Speaker 1: threatening you? Didn't you just called that you was coming
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  Speaker 1: over here. Yes, I did bring you. I'm don't bring
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  Speaker 1: your security guard. I'm all don't. Let me tell you something. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting you. I can have you brought up on charges.
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  Speaker 1: You know that. Bring me up on charges and see
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  Speaker 1: what happens, you see if you get that first. I'm
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  Speaker 1: on my way over there now to check you when
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  Speaker 1: your kids. You understand, man, I'm over here to check
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  Speaker 1: me and my kids and see how they checked somebody here.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Now, you got to tell me.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to tell me, you ain't got something.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you go ahead? And tell me what you took.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'll go light on you. I'll go like I'm
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  Speaker 1: stupid or something. You don't sound like a damn food.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you tell me what you took? I took?
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  Speaker 1: I bet you teaching your little kids over there how
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  Speaker 1: to steal too. Aren't you what what you tea? Hey? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Hey hey? Now you hey hey hey hey hey hey,
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  Speaker 1: don't call me with this on my stake. Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you one mother, Are you listening to me? I
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  Speaker 1: got one more thing to say to you. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: got nothing else to say to me? Are you listening
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: what this is? Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
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  Speaker 1: You just got prank your sister sid to you? Okay? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Are you and that broad want to play a game? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: y'all want to play? Right? Y'all got joke? Y'all got joke.
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  Speaker 1: I got Joe for both of y'all around here taking
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  Speaker 1: care of her and all her ugly na play with
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  Speaker 1: me and my all day, all right? Tell you she
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: told me, she told me, she said that timmy be
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  Speaker 1: be pranking people. You can't nobody get me that on
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  Speaker 1: crazy stuff that come to people don't know. Somebody calling
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  Speaker 1: and tripping with this. She told me you couldn't you
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  Speaker 1: thought you couldn't be got That's right, y'all. Got me,
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  Speaker 1: I love you. I got some bug. All right. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you one more thing. What is the baddest
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  Speaker 1: radio show in the land. Let's Steve Harvey Morning Show US.
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  Speaker 1: That goes out to all the shoplifters out there. How's that?
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  Speaker 1: Let's cool? Then get shot out, they get shot out,
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  Speaker 1: some dedication. All your shoplift is out there, and so
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  Speaker 1: sooner let it go get caught. This goes out to
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  Speaker 1: you all. Okay, wow, and there it is. There you
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: have it. Columbia, South Carolina, Friday, July, first Township Auditorium, Columbia,
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  Speaker 1: South Carolina. Until then I will lay dormant with my
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: stupid and then I'll rise again stupid at his best. Yeah,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: go as promised. This is uh, this is for the ladies.
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  Speaker 1: We want to help you get your get you to
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: get your man to open up, because you know, they
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: don't like to talk about stuff. They don't you know, Yeah,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: they don't like to talk about their feelings and all
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: that and women as women we love that. Yes, so yeah,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: so this is how to get your man to talk
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: about his feelings. And Steve, please see if you agree
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: with this. Guys, see if you agree with this, because
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: they're not known to do this. So, ladies, if you're
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: tired of guessing how your man feels, here's some pointers
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: for you to get your guy to share. All right, Steve,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: let's see if you agree. Be trustworthy? How about that?
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: For a guy to open up? What we stop right there?
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: So I didn't even hardly get him. Understand what you
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: say for your man? Open up? What? Okay? Yes? Okay.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: So if you want your guy to open up and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: share his emotions with you, he's got to be able
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: to trust you. Okay, he's got it, that's what it means. Okay,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: ask you to be Yeah, you didn't even let me
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: get it out, Tommy, anything with the word trust yeah,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: all right. Treat him as an equal. Okay. So he's
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: your partner, he's your husband, he's your man, you know,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: he's your boo whatever, So don't treat him like a
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: tread No, I ain't had it. What do you mean?
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: You know? Treat you like an equal? What hap I'm
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: just saying I ain't saying who it was. I'm just
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: saying we didn't say who. Yeah, you're being treated equal.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Now I'm being treated equal. Now you know, Okay, I've been.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I've been. I've actually been a slave. I mean, you know,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: if that's the game you're playing, that was that the
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: game you were playing or something? You know how people
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: roll through roll reversal? Uh? Game? He was a slave
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: me my shoes? What are you talking about? Roller? You
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: know how you role play with your mate? You roll
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: play when you talk? Yeah, talking the whole time. You've
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: been in such a bad relationship that they'd be sleep
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: on your arm in the morning, and you have a
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: decision to make. Do I run the risk of pulling
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: my arm out and waking her up? Or do I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: just chew it off? That's your man? I damn near
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I damn that had got it off. But I started
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: crying because I had been bitten into my show. That
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: blood was everywhere. She woke up with blood all around
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: in my mouth? What are you doing? I was trying
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: to chew so this wouldn't happen, but she heard me whimpering,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: How Steve, why are you crack? Why that blood on
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: your trying to eat, which obviously I didn't do this
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: blood everywhere on these sheets. You didn't mess these sheets.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: And what are you doing? Sorry? Hey, just trying to
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: leave your ass sleep is what I was trying to
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: my bad. Let me go to the hospital and get
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: these eighty five stitches put in my shoulder I had.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I had most of the meat in my mouth, so
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: they was able to pack it back on and restructure
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: my shoulders. Ahead, all right, you know, like compliment with
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: him when he does something, well, that's a good way
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: to get him to open up, like Roman. Yeah, like
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: you know, compliment of the things he does well, you know,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: in case he's self conscious or something. You know, oh honey,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I like the way you did this, or you know whatever. Whatever.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: That's all you're gonna do. That's what you've heard. That's
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: what you get. Who told you to put that on?
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Told me one time you got on four different blacks,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: them blacks, right, that's four different blacks you got on
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: them pants, Gonna go with that jacket, that shirt, that's
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: four different blacks. Yeah, that's ugly. That's t shirts around
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: where you going? Yeah, Yeah, all of a sudden, you're
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: just gonna put on a clean T shirt. Now the
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: blue changing behavior, all right, You gotta pick the right time, okay.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Don't start asking him about his feelings when he's rushed
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: or when he's distracted or watching the game and stuff
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: like that. You gotta ease into it, ladies. Right here,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: So you just gonna sit there and ain't gonna talk
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: to me, Well, I'm wanting the damn got Oh the
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: game is more important than me. Yes, yes, before you
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: go to work, we need to talk. Yeah, this game
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: is pretty big. They're only gonna play this wats a year?
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Did you actually say those words? But you're getting safe.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Here's another one. Watch your approach, how you approach it.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Don't just push it down his throat, you know. Yeah,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: be gentle, Be non judgmental. You know, you want him
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: to open up. You don't want him to run away
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: from the conversation because you show it. Don't want to
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: put that down your throat. Yeah, yeah, you don't want to.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Don't put you down out throat. And watch your body language, ladies.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: We're just moving on. We're just moving on. Watch, yes,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: watch your body language, you know. Yeah, keep yourself cool,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: keep your you know, don't forget you're trying to make
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: him feel safe and not judged. Okay, so you know,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: be cool about it, you know, sexy with the Yeah, okay,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I'm learning. I'm sure scared. You got that one. Seeve,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: you cool with that one? Watch your body language, watch
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: your body less? Do you hear me talking to you?
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Is that neck movie turned around? Everything you're saying sitting
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: over there with your arms fold? Yeah, you gotta be
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: cool about it, ladies. If you want to get him
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to open up, you want him no, no, but you
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: crossed your living and forward. This an ugly conversations and yeah,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: these ain't good advices. If you want to come talk
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: to me naked, I would be wide open as soon
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: as you walk in the though talking to me. Nick,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Can I talk to you from here? Are you with
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: your unless it is a game you really want? You
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: picked now to be naked? Yeah, right now? Every time
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: to be naked. You're show all right, Steve? Time now
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  Speaker 1: for asked the CLO your favorite segment. The Chief Love
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Officer is in the building. Please submit your questions to
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com. This is one question from
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Sharon out of Kentucky. Steve. She says, I'm a single mother,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: and earlier this year, I moved out of state and
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: took my eleven year old daughter with me. My daughter
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: has had a hard time adjusting, and now she tells
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: me that she hates me. I found out that she's
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: been texting her dad saying I'm verbally abusive and she
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: needs to come live with him. I can't get my
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: ex husband to see that she's being manipulative. He is
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: a great dad, but I know he's not ready to
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: be a single dad. How can I get my daughter
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: to stop lying and acting out? Wow, Well, I don't
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: know who answer that I can give you that? Oh,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: keep me out of coy radio friendly. Yeah, I'm trying
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: to find a radio friendly So I guess I could
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: say counseling. That's an answer. See. Oh, no, you're right.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I could stop all this line at my house, but
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: you don't. You're not gonna do that, So counseling. Next question.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Dante and Raleigh, North Carolina says,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I'm a young, hard working single guy and I live
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: outside the city, so I shop at a small family
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: owned store that's close to my house. The store is
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: run by three middle age sisters, that look like that
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: look like trolls? Do? Three old women make shopping a
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: living hell for me? They say the most inappropriate things
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: to me and treat me like a piece of meat.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude, so I've been trying
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: to ignore them. I would feel funny reporting them to
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: their dad. How can I get them to leave me?
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: A now? Where he says he lives in North Carolina,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Drive to a Walmart. You're outside of Rally, I don't care.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: It's Walmart is close by. Get your ass to a Walmart.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not going in here take abuse from ugly people.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it. That's what I'm not gonna do. Yeah,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I draw the line right here. If you cute, you
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: can talk to me bad sometimes, but if your little
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: troll looking ass, you can't say not a damn thing
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: to me because it comes cross different. You know, it
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: ain't even funny. You know, when qute people mess with you,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: you go, you go. You're a little ugly person, say
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: something to you, damn it. You know, you keep that
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: look on your face like, yeah, hey man, just drive
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: to Walmart. You're in Raleigh. I know you live outside Riley.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: You're trying to support a local business. But you ain't
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: got to ugly. People have ugly attitude, just the man,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: so Steve. This one's from Kirby in New Jersey. Kirby says,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: my husband and I are very active in our church,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: and our social life was mostly events at church. I
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: stopped going to church when I found out my husband
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: had an affair with the church secretary and everyone knew
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: it but me. My husband confessed and broke down and cried.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: I told him he needs to get in front of
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: the congregation and apologize to me. Church will reopen next Sunday,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: and he said he will not do that. He's willing
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: to throw away twenty three years of marriage instead. Should
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: I just let him go? He I don't know how
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: the public apology in front of the church is go
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: make you feel any better, be any less hurt, or
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: be even more forgiving. I don't know what it is
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: about that that would make it do now. I think
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: what you're trying to do is because you think everybody knew,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: and they didn't. Some people knew, but when the story
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: got out, girl, I saw him over there and I said,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: you know, you're hearing a lot of that and a
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: lot of the church members that found out you found
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: out acted like they was in the No suspicion and
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: know is two different things. So I think it's it
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense for you to ask him to
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: do that. He's not trying to throwing it away. Was
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: the affair. He broke down and cried, he said, I'm sorry,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: and that you want him to publicly apologize to you,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: and he said he's not gonna do that. Who goes
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: to church to stand up in front of the church
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: to apo? That's not what churches for. Church is a
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: place for forgiveness. You don't go to church to confess.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Now unless y'all Catholic and y'all got to boof up
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: at the front and they have confession. Didn't do that right,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: But ain't nobody got it where you got to go
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: stand up in front of everybody. Don't know what's going
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: on at that church. Half your church probably need to
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: stand up and say I'm sorry to somebody about something
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: a matter of fact, all of them. And see she
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: never even said how she found out, So you're right,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: maybe everybody at the church doesn't know, she thinks. And
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: if they do, so what how is that gonna make
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: you better. See, Yeah, I just don't see how what
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: that does for you. You're not loan that line to
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: be If that was a Baptist booth, you're not log
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: any Yeah, short, So do you know how long I
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: have to stay in now? Yeah? It was, sir, a
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Baptist booth. Sir, how long are you in here with it?
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Mister hark? Mister hark? What is you in that set?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Why are you crying again again? If it was a
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Baptist booth, a Baptist booth, I like that instead of
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: how I'll forgive you, give you for your sins. You
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: be here, man? What man you lying? God do? Man?
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I can't help you with that damn party, now, Steve.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: They do in church, you know, like if you've done
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: something like say this man is done and the pastor
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: found out, they will sit you down. If you have
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: a prominent position in the church, they will do what's
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: called sitting. He ain't got that. She was the church circuitar.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: He ain't got no position, right, She never said any
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: of that. So, yeah, they're real active though he's something
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: in the church. They real active. Yeah, and he was
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: mo active, very very active. Thank you for your CLLO questions,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: thank you Clo. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Truth
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: be told. Come on, Junior, I don't know who these
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: people are and where did it come from? But on Saturday? Yeah,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: why you called any human being before eight o'clock? Hell?
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: What do we have to talk about at seven fifteen am?
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: There's nothing I want to talk? Like my boy called
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: me at seven. Come about what you're doing? Dog is sad.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to sleep all trying to do well here.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: The thing about it is like he said, dog, did
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: you see I ain't seeing nothing? Seventh fifteen? God, damn,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: people need to go. I'm trying. Just don't jump off
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: in dressing. The phone shouldn't even be allowed to work,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: but foe until after eight? After ten won't ring shit.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, what made you get up? Pick
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: your phone up? Saying? Damn? You know who I ain't called?
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Let me call him right now? What? At what time?
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Doing that? At seven fifteen? First of all, I ain't
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: formulated a thought. And then you're another brown man talking
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: to another grown man as I lay in bed. Really,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: this is not comfortable. I'm not comfortable when you heard
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: me saying hello, Hello, you gonna fall? Dog? Guess what? What? What?
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: Etcept fifteen? What? Why am I guessing? I ain't got
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: no shirt on right now? Why you want to wake up? No,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt one? What shirt? I'm just asking?
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: However I sleep? It ain't none of your fifteen. I'm
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: just something. I'm comfortable with the conversation. That's all I'm saying,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: y'all should just just just find something else that don't
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: call people no mother, That's all. I just want to say.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: What's the earliest you can take pen thirty seven fifteen
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: on the set? Yeah? Ten thirty. I want to get up,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: half my coffee, enjoying my morning. What do you call
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: me at seven fifteen? I ain't got no shirt? All
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: you talk about guesting? What? What? This is uncomfortable. It's
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable you laying horizon talking to another man. Dog, I
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: got I got, I got one leg in the bed,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: one leg out to be Yes, what That's all I
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: want to say? Just stop calling me ten thirty, ten thirty.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: He'll be upset. Yeah. And the first I'm talking about
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: it is Jake wanta know you? Jake Wow? Just won't
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: try you know? I thought we agreed not to bring
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: that up to agree that same we agreed that you
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: would not. Both y'all, Come on, I think you agree
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: with both of y'all. Both y'all sick ass niece. Some
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: women all me, some ladies something to do. I got nothing,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: y'all waking up by y'all, Sam shirt on you. Why
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: y'all issues ain't even real me? Ten fifteen, I'm need
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I thought we agreed to talk about. All right, thank you, junior.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: We get it. Now you're listening to show. All right,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: it's time now for comedy roulette, Jay, please quickly. It's
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: so easy to explain this. You test out comedy ability
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: every week. Yeah, tell you what you do? Take five subjects.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Put him on the wheel, spin the wheel around, stop,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: say how good we are? We take from that? All right,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: let's go put five. All right, here we go. Here's
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: the subjects. Number one, the deltas ain't all that you
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: just just read. Read that. Number two, your car smells funny.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: That's a good one. Number three, you try to act
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: like you don't know nobody, alright, alright, never Number four
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: people who let their new positions go to their head.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: That's the real one. Yeah, And then and then number
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: five skycat spend the wheel, put them up spending the
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: wheel cat that far. People who let their new positions
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: go to their head have let me start off right, man.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: You know the people who get just a little small
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: lass name tag on their dome. Thein't never had one,
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: and all of them sudden they're betting you just because
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: they had a name tag. They had a little two
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: cent rave too, damn sent no not not not for
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: neckoli speaking. That's all they got with two damn sins
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: for a check one check that ship. How about that? Yeah?
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: What you mean? What you mean now? Huh? I got
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: two cents more than you? Go ahead, yeah, I'll tell
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: you what the under about to do positions when you
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: go to their head. I used working fans food right,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: hunt me about potting on. All of a sudden somebody
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: got called in. He now he gets to wear a
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: head set. Now he talking crazy. Try now he ain't
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: farted the crew no more. Hey, I said, I need
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: to fry off. Now he's talking everybody because he got
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: the head set off because the boss that called his
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: there this show first day went. He didn't even know
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: how to control it, he said. He man, I take
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: your order. But he comes on in a calm in
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: the back when he's gonna press the other budd to
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: go out to the order. I'm just saying, he just
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: no good and dog gone. Well, you ain't posting on
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Facebook that you to lead vacuum cleaner operator at the plant? Really?
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: And now you got your picture on now with the
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: valuum really? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, man. That's how they do it.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: People let their new positions go to their head. I
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: just have two words for this one. Donald Trump will
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: cut up. Man. He's in the food letting the new
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: job go straight to his head. I got I got
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: a part of mine in the joint, right, so I
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: go to see him. He worked in the furniture department
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  Speaker 1: right now. The people in the furniture department and make
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  Speaker 1: three cents hour. The other workers make two cents hour.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Do you know that? The three centers talk trash to
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the two centers? But how fun are you making? Two center?
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: You ain't making no money when you start to make
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  Speaker 1: some cash, talk to me, Oh man, I feel a
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: new position go to head right to let it go
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  Speaker 1: right to their head. And you know what when I
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: can't understand no, man, is that when you do get
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: a new position. I come, everybody else got to call
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: you by your last day, like you just use Charles yesterday.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Don't you expect us call you mister Jaks. We gotta
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: call you mister Jacks. Yeah, not today. She was Charles
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  Speaker 1: yestern They just gave your l on Hold on, hold
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  Speaker 1: on hold. I know you ain't put a sign in
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: front of your parking space at the job. That's say
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: Larry Jenkins lead bath room attend. I know you ain't
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: done this. You ain't done this, Larry, how you lead
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: bath room attend? That? What happened? Man? It goes to
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: their here. Oh you got a new position, but you're
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: still getting a ride to work with me? Oh you
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: don't even work well. I thought you letting you. I
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: thought you letting your job. Let the job to talk.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today. Subject her family is ghetto
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: and she doesn't even know it. M right now though,
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: we'll get to it right now. The nephew is here
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: with today's praying phone call. What she got now? Gon't
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: tell him what I guess you all right? Well, this
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: was my mom's favorite. Okay, my late mom, this was
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: her favorite when she loved to hear this one. It's
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: called um Aqua boogie, right Auqua boogie, Right Aqua boogie,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Aquae current aque. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a Quincy. Please.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: This is Hey. How are you? My name is Maurice.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Maurice calling you from the power company. How are you
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: doing today? I'm all right? What's up? Well, listen, we're
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: doing some testing in your neighborhood. We're trying to make
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: sure we don't have to actually shut the power down
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: out there, and we're we're calling around to quite a
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: few people in your neighborhood, running some tests on individual
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: homes and making sure the electricity is running correctly. Um,
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: can I get you to do a few things swarm
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: and see and in the quicker we get through with this, sir,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: and as possibility, we won't have to turn your power
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: off at all. I know you don't want us to
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: have to come out and turn power off. And you
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: got stuff in your refrigerator that can spoil and things
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: like that, so we want to try to get this
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: done and hopefully the power with the with the test
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: that we run, it'll it'll run correctly and we won't
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: have to do anything. Okay. I don't know about an
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: electricity though, you know what I'm saying, So no, no, no,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I understand that. Don't worry about that. All right. Here's
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: what I need you to do. Now. How big is
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: your house? What do you how many bedrooms? You got
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: four bedrooms? Now you have upstairs downstairs? It's too sure? Okay,
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: all right, so here's what we need to do. Um
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: if you can't, ain't gonna take loan though I got
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: because I'm in a hurry. Man, ain't gonna have a
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: lot of time. No, no, no, this this, this, this,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: this won't take long at all, sir. Can I get
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: you to take your breaker and shut down everything upstairs
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna run a test on the stuff downstairs
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: right now. It'll be real quick, all right, just shut
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: everything off. I want you to keep the downstairs open
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: and keep that to the weekness so we can run
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: our tests on this thing. All right, everything's shut, everything's down, okay,
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you you turned off the things. I just turned off
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: all the switches. Okay, here's what I need you to do.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I need you to turn on your television and then
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: turn it off downstairs downstairs. How many TVs you got downstairs?
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I got two TVs downstairs. Let's turn them both on.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: You just turn them on, Just turn them on. You
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: got them on. I got one on. Let's try to
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: turn that other one on. All right, they both on? Okay.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Now you got a microwave in your kitchen, Yeah, microwave. Okay,
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: turn that on. It's already on, man, I can see
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: the lights one, it's got the clock on it. That's
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: got that double hron thing that's going through there, and
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: it's a whole different type of current. I just want
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: to mount on number what you're talking about. But I
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: gotta get to work, man, So the microwaves on, it's running. No, No,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I want you to actually turn it on. I want
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: you to actually push like a minute or two on
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: that things. Do anything, man, Come on now, I mean
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: what you gotta do. No, this is a test, sir.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: What I don't want to have to do is come
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: out there and turn your power off. And I don't
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: want to do that. You got a lot of food
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: in your fridge. I'm sure right, all right, all right,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: he's look, it's on microwave's zone keV zones. Okay, now
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: open your man, the electricity works downstairs. Okay, but listen now,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I know, but what we gotta do is we gotta
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: make sure that this stuff isn't overpower. Now, can you
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: open your refrigerator? Yeah? Yeah, man, do you see the
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: button that actually has you can turn you can push
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: it in the lighter go out. You know what I'm
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: talking about. Come on, man, you ain't got nobody to
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: just be able to check something outside. Man, I mean
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: I'm in the fridge. I understand. But push that button
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: five times for him and see what it does. What
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: the light button? Yeah, push that light button five times?
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, that did it go off and on?
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Every day it's open? On man, they'd wrong with the refrigerator.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Refrigerators plug in man. Okay, now here's what I want
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: you to do. Right there, if you're in the kitchen,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: turn your sink on for me. Turn the sink on
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: through electricity. Many say that's a nitral current. That's a
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: nitral current. You wouldn't understand that. But I need you
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: to turn that on for me too. Just turn it
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: on full blast. Got it on, I got it on Okay,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: now go in your master bedroom. I can turn it off. No,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: let that water run. Go on your master bedroom and
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: go on the bath for me. I appreciate you helping
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: me out on this. Man. Come on, man Quincy, I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: appreciate a hurry. I mean everything that. It's everything I'm in.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: I'm in the bath. Plush that toilet for me, Quincy. See,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: we're plus that toilet for me. Plush the toilet. Yeah,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: flush that toilet. It's even electrical. What it is? It's
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: a it's a it's an awkward book. You need to
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: get somebody up. Okay, I'm gonna plush the toilet. It
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: ain't no electrical plugs in that in this area, man, right,
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I understand that you don't see what it is. This
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: is an awkward bookie current that flows through that water.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: Plush that thing for me one time. Yeah, yeah, that's it. Okay,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: all right, Tory works. Man. You ain't got nobody in
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: the area that could come out here and just check
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: it out. Man Quinny, I'm trying my best not to
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: come out and and and and and turn your power off.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: And I know you got somewhere to go. Turn my
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: power off. Man, you're supposed to be making sure the
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: power of stay on right. I understand that. Now do
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: you have quinny, Do you have a blender? Yeah? I
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: gotta blender. Man, I gotta blender. I got a TV,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I got a refrigerator, and they all work. The toitter works.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: Everything worked all right. What I want you to do
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: is get this blender and we'll just throw you a
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: few cues to eyes or something there and turn that
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: thing on for him. Come on, man, we're almost done.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I got to get to work, man, just work women
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: who was appreciated? Man, this is just the blunders. Come on, man,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: it's a bully. I said, I have to match your
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: current be walking this house. Man, you need to check
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: the next house. You don't have no problems with no
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: smoothes or nothing in that thing. Do you you see? Man?
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: With the world, I got to do anything. Man, I
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: gotta get to work. I understand. I just listen a minute, minute,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: go too far? Somebody come out here or do this
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: because I need to get to my job. And I
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: understand that job. I can just call and had people
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: go through the damn house playing scavenge. And I gotta
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: get to work. Okay, Now, listen to Quincy, one last thing.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Are you able to shut that breaker? Put that breaker
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: back on and then shut off downstairs, and then go
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: upstairs and check some stuff for me. Shut off what
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: shut off the breaker downstairs? Go ahead and turn it.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not shutting off no breaker downstairs. I shut off
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: the water upstairs. We didn't turn on every damn thing
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: down here. You didn't have me. I got the blender.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: I didn't turn on the microway torofridgerate cool man pushing
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: the tall us. I gotta get to work, Quinton. I
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: needs you to lose this attitude you got. I need
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: you get somebody down here to do this. My electricity
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: in my house work. It worked for you. Calling the
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: long thing ain't work. It's my ain't at work because
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I'm here doing this book. Play off and all. Get
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: somebody in here this work. I don't piss me off
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: and make me turn it all the way off. Well
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: shooting all work, and when I get back from work,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: way this should be on. I got one more thing
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: I need to say to you, Quinny. It's better be
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: the last thing. That's his nephew Tommy from the Steve
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got pricked by your sister
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: gown still better being a witness protection program. Man, ah,
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: let me turn it one. Man, Hey man, let me
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: ask you something. Man, what is the baddest I'm talking
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: about the baddest radio show in the land. That's got
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: to be the Steve Harvey Morning Show and Tommy, uh
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: you call me again. They're gonna be the show used
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: to have Tommy on that right there, fairly goes to
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: Miss Helen right there? Can I do that? That's that's
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: the Miss Helen. She loved that one. She really did. Okay,
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: people go all over the house doing all this stuff.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: He's so crazy. All right, here we go, coming up
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We'll get into its subject. Her family is ghetto.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: She doesn't know it. We'll be back right after this.
• 51:18
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• 51:46
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Ain't done that in a minute. Wow, thank you,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: you're welcome. What do you mean you haven't done that
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: any well? You know when Steve is here, you don't
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: let me introduce the letter? No, mott up, I don't
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  Speaker 1: need all that's sure. Jill ignaty. Well she back and
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: you did it, so can we do the letter now?
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: You're happy? He hate? It's a lot going on, all right?
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Subject like me? My uncle do not like me. He
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: loves you though, he loves you. Yeah, all right, subject
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: her family is gathering for y'all. Both of y'all are correct?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: What your uncle and he do not like? See that,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: but he loves you, all right? Yeah, I love you
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: the death boy. Ain't gonna let nothing happen to you.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: Do not particularly care for you. All right, here we go,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: just Stephen Shirley's Yes it is. I grew up in
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: a two parent home, and both of my parents earned
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: college degrees and worked hard to provide a good life
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: for me and my siblings. And I have a college
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: degree as well. And I've been married for over twenty
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: years to a great woman, and we have two teenagers.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: My teenagers are well mannered and really smart kids. So
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: here's my problem. I met my wife in college and
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: fell in love with her, but I cannot stand her family.
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: They are, for lack of a better term, ghetto. I
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: must admit that as my kids grew up, I limited
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: their access to my wife's side of the family, but
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I had to be careful so I wouldn't offend my wife.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: These people are hood and they have a cookout for
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: every occasion. They all live on the same street in
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: five or six mobile homes, so they always are down
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: to party, play cards, drink, get all loud, and act
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: a fool. These kids are always part of their kids
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: are always part of the festivities, and when my children
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: were younger, my wife wanted our children to get to
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: know their cousins. That didn't last long because the hood
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: cousins started teasing my children about the way they speak
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: and how they carried themselves. One of my sons will
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: be graduating from high school soon and my wife has
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: a party plan for him. She wants to invite her
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: entire family to the party that's in our community center
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: in our neighborhood. I have politely reminded her how much
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: of a fiasco it might be, but she is dead
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: sit on having her family included. I can already imagine
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: a dice game jumping off by the pool if her
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: uncle comes. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: need to put my foot down and set some ground rules.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, how can I make this party work? Wow? Well? First, first, first,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: no alcohol. I have to say that, no alcohol, because
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: that's when the stuff jumps off. No alcohol, okay, none,
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: don't have any. They're gonna be mad. But you can't
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: have any alcohol because they get that in them and
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: it's just no telling. You might want to have some
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: security around, some playing close security, you know, let them
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: mingle through the crowd and everything, because you know that's
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: in case something does go down. You know. In the meantime, though,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this. I gotta tell you this.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: She gave us a lot of information in your letter.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: You know about you graduating from college. You and your
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: wife have been together for twenty years. She's a great woman.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: You fell in love with her. Your kids are great.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Their hood cousins make fun of them and everything. I
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: just say, in the meantime, this is a teenage party.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: You know, remind people of that. So it should be
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: okay because it's for the teenagers as long as a
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: grown folks don't act to fool the adults just have
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: to behave You love your wife. You said that you
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: love your wife. You fell in love with her, and
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: you don't want to offend her, so please please be
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: mindful of that. You know that these are her folks.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: She wants them to be included. She loves them, and
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: really she wants them there, So I mean it or not,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: ghetto or not, as you call it, they're gonna. They're
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: gonna be there because this is what the wife that
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: you love want. So no alcohol and a little bit
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: of security might help you, Steve. Well, how many minutes
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: I got here before I get started on this. I
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: just wanted to say that I completely and totally disagree
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: with everything Shirley said. Your damn children need these people. Yes,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: they do. Try to give a damn both my parents
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: and college degree. My mom and daddy ain't ever't. My
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: dad ain't even finished elementary school. My mama got a
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: high school diploma, that's it. Ain't. None of my brothers
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: and sisters been in no college that's it. I went
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: funk right out. I got a college degree as well.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: I've been married over twenty years. Everybody, don't make it
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: twenty years hip hip, hoorade for you, Pardner, Are you
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: better Stevie's now. I'm just gonna tell him what because
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: you know he think he's somebody. Yeah, you got these
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: two teenagers. They well mannered and really smart kids. They
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: booked smart, they ass ain't street smart. Stupid ass. Need
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: to get with these cus and show them how to
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: handle themselves out there in life. You got a family
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: that's got five mobile parks down the street from each other,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: all of them in trailer home. He needs to know
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: these people because something could pop off. You need them people,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: and you're mad and stuff. You don't want them around
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: there for lack of better turn. They get old. Everybody
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: on this morning show from damn get old. It's a
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: lot of good in the hood. But you think because
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: you got this little degree, oh, you think your ass
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: is somebody and you special where you ain't. You're mad
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: at him? Yeah? Hell yeah, And I'm gonna tell you
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: why when you come back. Yeah, sending him here because
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: he got a little punk ass degree, all right, listen, Steve,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: hang onto that. We'll have part two of your self
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: your response coming up in twenty three minutes after the
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: our Today's Strawberry Letters subject her family is ghetto, she
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't know it. We'll get back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter, which you are so mad about.
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  Speaker 1: The subject her family's ghetto and she doesn't know Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: tell me. I'm so Most ghetto people don't know they
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  Speaker 1: get on because they're from the ghetto. That's just where
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  Speaker 1: they from, that's just where they live. Now you're sitting up,
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  Speaker 1: been here because both your parents got college degrees, worked hard,
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  Speaker 1: you and your siblings. You mad twenty great woman two teenage.
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  Speaker 1: Both of y'all got degreed. You met in college. But
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  Speaker 1: you can't stay in her family. Well, her family probably
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  Speaker 1: can't stay you eat your bush r ass coming over.
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  Speaker 1: See there, there are a lot of they lack for
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  Speaker 1: a better turn. Yeah, here comes his snobby ass sitting
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  Speaker 1: up in here. You don't like nothing they do down there,
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you about him. I must admit
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  Speaker 1: that as the kids grew up, I limited their access
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  Speaker 1: to my wife's side of family, but had to be
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  Speaker 1: careful not to famm these people who they have a
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  Speaker 1: cookout for everything. See, you think your kids is well
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  Speaker 1: manned and smart kids, but ain't. Don't got no streets smarts.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm in a stupid ass book. Smart people.
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  Speaker 1: I know. Bill Gates ain't got a college degree. Mark
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  Speaker 1: Zuckerberg ain't got a college degree. Hold on, let me
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  Speaker 1: show you. So let's get it real of it. We're
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  Speaker 1: talking about college green Timmy got a college degree? Oh
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  Speaker 1: my don't have a college degree? Now, which one ears?
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  Speaker 1: You want your kids to be? You want your kids
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  Speaker 1: Timmy got a college degree. I ain't who you want
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  Speaker 1: your kids to be, probably neither one of us. But
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  Speaker 1: if you had to pick one, what you pick his
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  Speaker 1: stupid ass. That's all I'm asking. You got a college degree,
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  Speaker 1: ain't got a damn brain in his school. So much
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  Speaker 1: for your little damn college degree. They have a cookout
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  Speaker 1: for every occasion. They live on the Stame Street in
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  Speaker 1: five or six mobile homes. They always down the party,
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  Speaker 1: play cars and dre Damn it, what's wrong with that?
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  Speaker 1: You got to do something. We've been working all week.
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  Speaker 1: We got to have some fun. We ain't got a
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  Speaker 1: whole lot of money, so we're gonna play cars. That's
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  Speaker 1: what doesn't matter what your punk ass kids. They don't
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  Speaker 1: know how to play page. They can't play Dead with
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  Speaker 1: they don't know how to or they don't play tongue,
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  Speaker 1: they don't shoot dice. Little punk ass kids gonna go
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  Speaker 1: off to college. Ain't gonna do a damn thing. He
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  Speaker 1: gonna get the ass hustle. They're gonna go in Times Square.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody gonna have a three card model game set up.
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  Speaker 1: Take all your little ignorant ass kids money. Somebody gonna
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  Speaker 1: have a share game set up. Take all your kids money.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're gonna but they're gonna go visit everybody
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  Speaker 1: go to Times Square. Your little kids gonna come back broke.
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  Speaker 1: The kids are always a part of the festivities. Your
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  Speaker 1: kids probably need to learn how to play tongue. I
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  Speaker 1: don't hell you grow up don't know how to play tongue.
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  Speaker 1: You can't shoot no damn pood. My wife want our
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  Speaker 1: children to get they know their cousins. Because your wife
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  Speaker 1: is right, because she know you ain't taught him a
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  Speaker 1: damn thing. Set up here and taught them all that
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  Speaker 1: book knowledge and all that name, and they're just getting
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  Speaker 1: their ass swipt every time they go to the playground.
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  Speaker 1: What I'm telling you what it sounds, this is what
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  Speaker 1: I'm reading in the letter. I'm reading all this in
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  Speaker 1: the letter. Your wife want them to know their cousins
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  Speaker 1: because they damn dadd is soft. They didn't last long
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  Speaker 1: courting hood cousins. They want them to come over and
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  Speaker 1: could start teasing your children about the way they speaking,
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  Speaker 1: how they care themselves. They're the last time they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: hit this. The hood cousins was getting them ready for life.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you mad because they're sitting up in here
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  Speaker 1: and not not not honoring the value of these hood cousins.
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  Speaker 1: It's good in the hood. You need to let these
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  Speaker 1: hood tease your kids about the way they speak. They
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  Speaker 1: probably speak real properly, just like your hands. One of
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  Speaker 1: my sons be graduated from high school. My wife got
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  Speaker 1: a party playing. She want to invite her and tie
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  Speaker 1: party to the P five family to the party that's
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  Speaker 1: in our community center in our neighborhood. Oh oh, I
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  Speaker 1: see you live in a complex that's got a community set. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: now you're gonna old you scared the hood people gonna
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  Speaker 1: come over that star swimming with all his clothes on
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  Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Gonna bring a grill out there,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, we travel with grills in our car.
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  Speaker 1: I had a grill in my car till I was
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  Speaker 1: thirty four years old. Sorry to mention, Yeah, kept a
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  Speaker 1: grill in my car. Charcoal light of fluid too, and
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  Speaker 1: a fishing rod. Hell yeah, hey, never know, when I
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  Speaker 1: run across the lake, I need some neat. I was homeless,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't no time, did them this punk ass letter,
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  Speaker 1: and he was sitting up in here. I politely remind
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  Speaker 1: her how much of fiasco it'll be if I invite
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  Speaker 1: them people over there, but she did sat on having
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  Speaker 1: her family included. I can imagine the dice game jumping
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  Speaker 1: off by the pool. If they uncle come, who don't
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  Speaker 1: like to shoot dice? Hell, now I know you ain't
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  Speaker 1: say we can't shoot dice. He we can't shoot dice.
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  Speaker 1: We at the swimming pool. Black people don't swim, So
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  Speaker 1: what else they gonna do? Your uncle can swim. He
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  Speaker 1: got some dice. We're standing around. We ain't doing and
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  Speaker 1: then you hold on shut we're shooting dice. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be disrespectful. I need to put my foot down.
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  Speaker 1: You can kick the dice. Put your foot down. If
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: they roll, kick it forward, hit point, you can kick
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  Speaker 1: the dice. Get a rethroat, baby, I need to make
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  Speaker 1: Why can I make this party work? Your ass don't
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  Speaker 1: go now what you want to ask. So you're rolling
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: around with a fishing pole because you get hungry. So
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  Speaker 1: you'll go get some fish and then catch it and
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  Speaker 1: bring it back and cooking on the grill that's in
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  Speaker 1: your car. No, I take it up to the rest
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: area because they got the cassine grills already dug into
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  Speaker 1: the ground. We threw parties. My brother my brother still
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: got card parties at his house. When my older brother died,
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  Speaker 1: we stopped for six months because we was morning. But
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  Speaker 1: we're back now. Thank you sim today my Instagram and
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  Speaker 1: that the majority of my friends ain't got no damn college. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we'll be back. You're listening show what's the biggest light
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: you ever told? Tommy started off my oldest son. When
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: he was younger, he wanted to go to PG thirteen movies.
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  Speaker 1: I always knew it was gonna be something that he
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  Speaker 1: didn't need to see, so he didn't know. But I
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: would tell him, Hey, do you know what PG thirteen means?
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: He's like no, I say that means only thirteen people
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  Speaker 1: can go in the movie. So when I when we
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: would get there, I say, it's already twelve people in there.
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  Speaker 1: We can't go in there. It's too late. And he
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: would be like, wow, we don't never get him time
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  Speaker 1: enough to see any PG thirteen movies. We're gonna have
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: to go see a G movie. We're gonna go see
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: a G. We'd be all up in line, king, we're
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  Speaker 1: not going to see your mom ain't gonna be mad
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  Speaker 1: at PG. Thirteen and all right, come on, what I
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  Speaker 1: need to make sure that my mama ain't listening? Huh? Man.
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  Speaker 1: I was at football sixteen years old, and my mama
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  Speaker 1: let me take her truck to practice. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: after practice, my boy getting the truck, we're driving back.
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  Speaker 1: I took my mama brand new blazer and backed it
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  Speaker 1: and got it stuck on the side, and then it
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  Speaker 1: the whole left side on the school bus. Ah. My
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: boys said, Man, I can't let you go back home
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  Speaker 1: with the truth. Huh. You got to say that bus
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  Speaker 1: backed into you. Boy, He said, you can't walking mama brand.
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  Speaker 1: He got this tag still on it. It ain't no
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  Speaker 1: license plate. Man. I walked in the mom and said,
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  Speaker 1: what happened to that truck? And my boys went talking.
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  Speaker 1: We was just bustling up our seatbelts and they didn't
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: know a school bus hit us. My mama bought that
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  Speaker 1: for about two months. Uh, she said, she said, why
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  Speaker 1: you ain't getting no case? Right? I got the nig ass.
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  Speaker 1: I was fast after that. I come on, Steve, the
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  Speaker 1: god you've ever told last one so many? He said,
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  Speaker 1: I have an end of this pool to choose. I
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: was at ball, my daddy's station wagon. One time I
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: was taking this girl out on the date in my
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  Speaker 1: church choir. But I wanted to be with it in
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: the car. And so what I did was I stopped
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  Speaker 1: at the drugs there on Boston Ponds cold cream. That
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  Speaker 1: wasn't trick me. And the fella shues to you back
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: the day you put Ponds cold cream on the windows
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  Speaker 1: and make it you know, you can't see in the window.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: And uh, I put the Ponds cold cream on the window. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I got down there to pick her up. And when
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: I went and picked up and she came and got
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  Speaker 1: in the carm in the station wag, and I backed out.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't see a damn thing. And I hit my
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  Speaker 1: daddy's offender on the fence and tote the head light
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  Speaker 1: out and get cream off. No window blind, You can't
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: get it out to crack the window meets the post.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, guys, you're listening. All right. So guys,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Do you have a hiding
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: place in your home to just have a few minutes alone?
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: You know, I mean everybody should have someplace, some little
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: getaway place that they can have some me time. For instance,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: some Women like to have what they call a she
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: shed or a small room that they can read in
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: or just chill in. I you know what, I love
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: the bathroom. Men usually go into the garage or their
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: man cave or the basement or someplace. Uh. Do you
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: take an extended break in your home hiding place? Do
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: you do it every day? Is the question? Or does
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: your family know not to disturb you when you're in
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: your favorite room or you're hiding place. Come on, Steve,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: I know you take time for yourself. Yeah, they've always
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: done that. Yeah, I go, I go to San Diego.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: You lead a house. Yeah, get the hell out. Can't
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: follow me down now, Damn. Grandkids know how to use
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: the elevating everything. I'll be Damn, I'm going to San Diego.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful there. I don't care if it is. They're
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: not there, clearly you got one. Yeah, I love. I
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: will be in my bathroom for out words. Okay. I
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: was in the bathroom in the bat because I have
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: a TV in there, and you know I do my makeup,
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. I don't mean the water, you don't
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: mean the toilet, No, no, no, I don't spend most
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: of my time. I spend most of my time in
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: the bathroom. No, no, no, not there, I just out part. Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's a separate with the fan. I got my TV
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: right in front of the toilet and a computer. Now
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: that's how you go from. Now, that's how you don't
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: mean it's nothing go when I'm watching the game, I
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: just get up going in the bathroom. It's on the
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: wall right in front of you. Yeah, I ain't done
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: that up a little high where you can keep your
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: head up. You don't want to look even keep your
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: head or be digestive tracking more open the slight little
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  Speaker 1: What about you tell me I'm in my theater I
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: can get away from Did you hear that rich as? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: you said a rich ass statement. And I ain't saying that.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: You said, my kids on my grand baby's on the elevator.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing about your elevating in your house.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't even know you're saying I was going because
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: I ain't going. Go ahead, teeth, thought I had it limited. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, well my fast his elevator on my theater. Hey, junior,
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  Speaker 1: which one of your rooms in your house is your theater? Yeah,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: let's hear from the poet a theater. What I had
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: to do is take some some drapes and put them
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  Speaker 1: on the side of the TV. Make my ass a theater.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a theater. Hold on, y'all, come out
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: the kitchen. The drapes gonna catch you. I'm gonna make
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: a thill. That boy him, Paula be nice. I ain't been.
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  Speaker 1: He me. I'll go to my theater. Nothing. I can't
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  Speaker 1: say nothing. How many seats in the theater, I'm not
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: telling so many. They can't find him in there. Y'all
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: shut up. Steve, go down front. If down now, I've
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: benna take my hand down. Ain't look in the b
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: canna see where we are? Bel ask me where I
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  Speaker 1: go to get away? That's all I see. Man. Well
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: the Lord is still blessing, blessing you. Man, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: even know you had said. If you're talking to you
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: like you he had one, I got changed. I talked
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: to you. How are you talking to him at first?
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: Like he handle THI he got a thing I gotta changed.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: I talked to him, man. Miss the nephew. Now, hey,
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: miss nephew, what time you go down to the Oh?
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: So Steve in case you don't make it to San Diego.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: What what room in your home do you go to?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: Where do you go? I'll go all the way down
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: to the Basement's done, done, then this little man cave
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: I got. Oh okay, all right, see all right, coming
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: up more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: Morning Show, and then we'll be back in twenty minutes
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: after the hour right after this. Yeah, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the show. Well, guys, scientists are working to control a
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: non harmonal birth control pill for men, all right, for
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  Speaker 1: men now, and it has been proven successful in lab
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: trials on mice. The drug was nine percent effective at
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: presenting pregnancy in mice and has no apparent side effects.
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  Speaker 1: According to the research presented at the annual meeting of
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: the American Chemical Society, after a year of testing with
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: human males, the drug could soon be the first effective
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: form of both birth control from men besides condoms or
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: getting a vasectomy. So, guys, here's the question, what are
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: you buying and would you take the pill? I'm not
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: saying peal and none, But so far all these tests
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  Speaker 1: have been done on mice. There's nothing simmol about me
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  Speaker 1: and a mouse and nothing a reproductive glances the size
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: of a mouse. So you wouldn't take the billets and
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: know for you? Well, I'm just saying, I don't know
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: what they don't put in this mice. I'm gonna need
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: probably four hundred times to do yo anyway, Jay, And
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: if they make it, if they make it taste like chicken,
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: I'm in all right, Jay, love chicken, Jay a chicken.
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  Speaker 1: We are at the age where it don't matter. I
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: don't even I can take it or not make babies.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:52
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• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: Come on, Junior. I don't know who do people are
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: and where it comes from. But on Saturday, why is
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: you calling any human beings before eight o'clock? Why what
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: do we have to talk about at seven to fifteen am?
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: There is nothing I want to talk like my point
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: called me at seven fifty am. Come out. What you're doing?
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: Dog is sad. I'm trying to sleep, trying to do well. Here.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: The thing about it is like he said, dog, did
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: you see? I ain't seen nothing? Seventh fifteen? Deep, people
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: need to I'm trying. Just don't jump off in dressing.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: The phone shouldn't even be allowed to work, but poe
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: until after eight? After ten? Shit, But I'm I'm just saying,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: what made you get up? Pick your phone up? Saying
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: damn it? You know who I ain't called? Let me
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: call him right now? And what time you at? Seven fifteen?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't formed a thought. And then
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: you're another grown man talking to another grown man. As
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: I lay in bad, I say, you ready, this is
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: not comfortable. I'm not comfortable when you heard me saying hello, Hello,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: you gonna fall? Dog? Guess what? What? What? Except fifteen? What?
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Why am I kissing? I ain't got no shirt on
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: right now? No, I ain't got no shirt on? You sleep?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: What shirt? I'm just however I sleep? It ain't none
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: of your misstep. Fiftee. I'm just sing comfortable with the conversation.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Y'all should just just just find
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: something else that don't call people no both, That's all.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say, what's the earliest you can
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: take ten thirty seven fifteen on the set. Yeah, ten thirty.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get up and have my coffee, enjoying
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  Speaker 1: my morning. What do you call me at seven fifteen?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt all you talk about? Guess
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  Speaker 1: what what? This is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable you laying horizon
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  Speaker 1: talking to another man except dog, I got I got,
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  Speaker 1: I got one leg in the bed, one leg out
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  Speaker 1: to be Yes, what that's all I want to say?
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  Speaker 1: Just stop calling her ten thirty, ten thirty, don't call it.
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  Speaker 1: You'll be upsid. Yeah, and the person I'm talking about
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  Speaker 1: it is Jake. Don't want y'all know wow, just want try.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we agreed not to bring that up, to
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  Speaker 1: agree that we agree that you would not. Both of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, I think you agree with both of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Both of y'all. Sick ass me said, women, lady something
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  Speaker 1: to do? Got nothing y'all waking up by y'all Sam
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  Speaker 1: shirt on you? Why is'all y'all issues? Ain't even real me?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I thought we agreed, all right, Steve coming
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  Speaker 1: up closing remarks right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve?
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  Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day on this Monday.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We've had some fun today.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, and now it's time for you to take
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  Speaker 1: us home get back to work with some closing remarks. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: You know something, Um, as I get older and I
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  Speaker 1: go through things in my life, one of the things
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  Speaker 1: I've become really comfortable with is sharing my own personal
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  Speaker 1: experiences with people and hope that they can learn from
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  Speaker 1: some of the experiences I've had, some of the mistakes
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  Speaker 1: I've made. And so, you know, one of the things
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to help people with out there, because everybody
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  Speaker 1: has their share of haters out there, and so I
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  Speaker 1: just want to talk to you for just a second
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  Speaker 1: about the people that you surround yourself with. It's important
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  Speaker 1: that you take constant inventory in your life to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that you don't have dead weight attached to you.
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  Speaker 1: It's important that you don't have people or who are
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship with you that's just one sided. It's
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  Speaker 1: important that you know that everybody in your life is
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  Speaker 1: important to you and would be there for you in
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  Speaker 1: the moment of du rest. Now, if these people don't
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  Speaker 1: fit that bill, then I'm sorry you got to do
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  Speaker 1: something else, But you got to watch people you got
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  Speaker 1: to constantly monitor people because people change, especially as you
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  Speaker 1: elevate in life. As you elevate in life, people have
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  Speaker 1: a different perception of you. Seeing what I found in
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  Speaker 1: getting more and more and more success tful. It's not
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  Speaker 1: that you change as you becomes more and more successful.
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  Speaker 1: It's that people's perception of you changes. So now it
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  Speaker 1: becomes all Now they think they all that are now
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  Speaker 1: they think they It is because of that when an actuality,
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  Speaker 1: you can very well be the same pay person. You're
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  Speaker 1: just at a different level. But it's amazing, man, when
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  Speaker 1: you get to this other level in order for people
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  Speaker 1: to throw rocks at you, it ain't level no more.
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  Speaker 1: They got to throw their rocks up at you. And
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  Speaker 1: it kind of disheartens you from time to time as
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  Speaker 1: you're just minding your business and going through your life
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  Speaker 1: and doing what you do to get people throwing rocks
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  Speaker 1: up at you. And now a lot of people out
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  Speaker 1: there that can relate to what I'm saying. It's not
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  Speaker 1: that you think you better than somebody, but it's just
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  Speaker 1: that you've gotten yourself in another level. You've just leveled up.
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  Speaker 1: And when you level up, you can't be concerned with
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  Speaker 1: the people that ain't up there with you because a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people ain't up there with you because they
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't even fit up there with you. Know how, the
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  Speaker 1: majority of people ain't up there with you because if
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  Speaker 1: God wanted them to be up there, he to put
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  Speaker 1: them up there, but he didn't. He put you up there.
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  Speaker 1: And it's okay, that's just what it is. You up there.
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  Speaker 1: It's not for everybody, this place that you've reached. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just sorry, man, It's just not for everybody. And you
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  Speaker 1: gotta understand that and don't get disheardened. Man, when when
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  Speaker 1: when when you get up at the top and it
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  Speaker 1: starts to feel lonely. I was talking with somebody the
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  Speaker 1: other day. You know the problem with being at the
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  Speaker 1: top is like being on the pyramid. It's a sharp
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  Speaker 1: point at the top of that pyramid. Ain't a lot
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  Speaker 1: of friends up there, ain't a lot of company up
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  Speaker 1: there because guess what, it just ain't a lot of
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  Speaker 1: room up there most people. And then now when you
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  Speaker 1: do have ends, they write up under that pyramid. They
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  Speaker 1: there and you know what they do. They the support
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  Speaker 1: system for you. And you find that in people all
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  Speaker 1: the time. But man, if you're not careful if you're
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  Speaker 1: not really, really careful and you're not monitoring people along
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  Speaker 1: the way, it's not you. The changes, they change, their
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  Speaker 1: perception of you changes. So once their perception of you changes,
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  Speaker 1: they attitude towards you changes. I can't count the people, man,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: I can't count the people in my life, man, who
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  Speaker 1: for one reason or another, felt like it should have
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: been them, or for one reason another, they just got
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: jealous of you because of what you had. I was
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: talking to Jamie Fox at this party the other night,
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: and Jamie Fox I showed him something that he had
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: posted on Instagram. He said, wow, man, I'm glad that
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  Speaker 1: meant something to you. And what he posted was some
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: people only hate you because of the way other people
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  Speaker 1: love you. Y'all, remember that some people only hate you
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  Speaker 1: because of the way other people love you. Do you
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  Speaker 1: know that That's simply all it takes for some people
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  Speaker 1: to hate you. You ain't got to have done nothing
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  Speaker 1: to them. But people get sick of your success. People
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  Speaker 1: get tired of you. God always blessing you, how you
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: always why they get another car from why they keep
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  Speaker 1: getting a promotion? What they doing over there? They always brag,
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  Speaker 1: my theay baby did this? They baby did that? No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no. Some people only hate you because of the
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  Speaker 1: way other people love you. So you got to constantly
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: monitor people in your life, man, because, like I said,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: as you get more and more successful, it's not you
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  Speaker 1: who changes, it's the people's perception of you who changes.
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: And if they can't make the adjustment, then you have
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  Speaker 1: to make the adjustment. You got to get rid of
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: people who don't mean you will. You got to get
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: rid of people who are non supportive. You got to
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: get rid of the people that's always bad news. You
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: got to get rid of the people that you always
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: got to help, but they ain't got no help for you.
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  Speaker 1: Am I talking to you? And are you listening? You
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  Speaker 1: can't help everybody. Drop it, nobody. Have a good day, y'all,
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