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Attorney Benjamin Crump Interview, Biggie Honored, Plantation Owner, Door Dash Cheeseburgers and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: through good it sEH listening together for I don't join
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  Speaker 1: join me. You gotta use that turn you are you
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn them out? Turn you haven't got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out? Then turn the water the water go.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your thing. Uh huh, I shall well
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  Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come
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  Speaker 1: on digging now, one and only Steve Harley got a
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  Speaker 1: radio show. Here we go today. I think I have
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  Speaker 1: something for a lot of people today, at least I
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  Speaker 1: hope I do. And this is about on your journey,
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  Speaker 1: And this is about something that happens to us all.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what happens to all of us from time
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  Speaker 1: to time when we get discouraged. What happens to all
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  Speaker 1: of us when we feel like quitting, What happens to
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  Speaker 1: all of us when we have that turn back moment.
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  Speaker 1: What happens to all of us when it don't seem
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  Speaker 1: like it's gonna pan out. Because I want you to
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  Speaker 1: understand something that everyone, every single living soul has those
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  Speaker 1: thoughts about something at some point in their life. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you know, look, I've oftentimes been discouraged about things not
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  Speaker 1: happening as fast as I like them. All things don't
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  Speaker 1: pan out the way I would like for them to
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  Speaker 1: have panned out. I mean, there's so many ways to
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  Speaker 1: get discouraged. But but what my encouragement to you is
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  Speaker 1: when discouragement comes is understand this. It is a part
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  Speaker 1: of the growth process. It is a test. It is
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  Speaker 1: a test of your faith. How bad you want it,
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  Speaker 1: do you really believe? That's all faith is. It's simply
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  Speaker 1: and I've said this how many times. Faith is to
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  Speaker 1: belief in things that you cannot see. So when discouragement comes,
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  Speaker 1: set back comes, it is a test of your faith.
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  Speaker 1: At least it's been that way for me. Now other
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  Speaker 1: people can explain it another way. I'm not other people.
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  Speaker 1: I can only give it to you the way it
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  Speaker 1: has come to me and throughout my life, and man
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  Speaker 1: on man on man. Discouragement sometimes it's tough to deal
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  Speaker 1: with because it seems at times when you are discouraged
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  Speaker 1: that is so absolute that this means the end, And
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  Speaker 1: if you allow it to set in, it can be
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  Speaker 1: just that the end of you when Milly Milly, it
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  Speaker 1: was a test, that's all it is. But the majority
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  Speaker 1: of people that I know who are not successful or
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  Speaker 1: who have told me the story of how they gave up,
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  Speaker 1: it was because at a moment of discouragement that they
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  Speaker 1: allowed it to set in and it became so engulfing
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  Speaker 1: that it became the reason why you shouldn't finish. And
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  Speaker 1: then they started justifying it with hither one that I
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  Speaker 1: hate to hear. Well, if it's God's will, excuse me.
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  Speaker 1: If it's God's will that you fail. If it's God's
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  Speaker 1: will that you're not successful, If it's God's will that
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  Speaker 1: you lay down and give up, it's God's will that
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  Speaker 1: you allow yourself to amount to not reach your potential.
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  Speaker 1: That's God's will. That's not the God I know. That's
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  Speaker 1: not the God I served. That's not the God I've
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  Speaker 1: read about. That's not the God I believe in. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I just my mother always taught me something that he
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  Speaker 1: didn't bring me this far to leave me. I just
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  Speaker 1: don't believe that, not for a second. Now have I
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  Speaker 1: convinced myself or some things, Yep, have I allowed the
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  Speaker 1: devil to come into the picture and paint a different
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  Speaker 1: one from it. Yep, yep, I've done all of that,
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  Speaker 1: But you can't blame that on God. Now, come on,
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  Speaker 1: So when discouragement comes, try to look at it if
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  Speaker 1: you can, as a test of your faith, and you
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  Speaker 1: merely have to pass the test. It could be for
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  Speaker 1: a day, a half a day, a few hours, a week,
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  Speaker 1: a few weeks, it don't matter. Don't nobody know how
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  Speaker 1: long the test period is. Your job is to keep
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  Speaker 1: the faith and keep moving. Keep the faith and keep moving,
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  Speaker 1: keep working, keep believing, keep hope alive. That's your job.
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  Speaker 1: If you do that, that's how you pass the test.
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  Speaker 1: It could be over tomorrow, it could be over in
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  Speaker 1: two weeks, it could be over in a month. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know. But all you got to do is wake
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  Speaker 1: up and keep the faith and fight the discouraging feel
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  Speaker 1: And how do you do that? Steve? Now here we go.
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  Speaker 1: This is the part I know about for show because
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  Speaker 1: how many times I've had to fight off discouragement in
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  Speaker 1: order to get to where God wanted me to be.
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  Speaker 1: What do you do when you become discouraged? Well, I
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  Speaker 1: think of the outcome when I get discouraged about a
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  Speaker 1: task I think about the outcome. Man, What would it
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  Speaker 1: be like if I were to complete the task? What
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  Speaker 1: would it be like? Man? What would the outcome be
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  Speaker 1: for me if I hung on in there, if I
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  Speaker 1: didn't give up, if I if I imagine, I imagine
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  Speaker 1: if I don't quit, I imagine if I don't give up,
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  Speaker 1: what would it be like? Man, Suppose everything I'm hoping
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  Speaker 1: for comes true. But if I don't quit and give up,
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  Speaker 1: that might just be the case. I start talking to
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  Speaker 1: myself like that, I think of what the upside is.
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  Speaker 1: What's the upside to stay in with it? You see,
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  Speaker 1: all this is the same thing. I'm just giving you
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  Speaker 1: different ways to look at it. I'm saying the exact
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  Speaker 1: same thing over and over. But I'm just trying to
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  Speaker 1: find the switch that connects in your mind where you
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  Speaker 1: can say, Okay, man, I'm gonna hang in there. Because
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  Speaker 1: if you think of the outcome and the outcome is
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  Speaker 1: appealing to you, if you imagine what it would be
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  Speaker 1: like if you don't give up or you don't quit,
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  Speaker 1: if you think only of what the upside is to
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  Speaker 1: stay in with it, And then I go, where can
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  Speaker 1: this lead to? If I stay with it? Man? And
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  Speaker 1: the outcome comes true? What else could that lead me to?
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  Speaker 1: Because I mean, there's always more to it. So where
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  Speaker 1: else could this lead me to? What are the possibilities? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What are the limitless possibilities? What could God possibly have
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  Speaker 1: in store for me? If I just hang in there?
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  Speaker 1: If I pass this test of faith? If I just
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  Speaker 1: passed this test, now, it ain't gonna be the only one.
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  Speaker 1: But you gotta get past this one. No, then you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna hear the smooth plane. Then it's gonna be another one.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be another one. Life ain't nothing but a
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  Speaker 1: series of tests. Man. Man, when you're thinking about giving up,
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  Speaker 1: when you're discourage, think of the outcome. Imagine what it
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  Speaker 1: would be like if you don't quit, if you don't
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  Speaker 1: give up, what's the upside to stay in with it?
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  Speaker 1: Where can this all lead to? What? What can this
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  Speaker 1: get you too? If you do this and you get
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  Speaker 1: to where you think you want to be, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: what's after that? What are the limitless and endless possibilities
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  Speaker 1: of holding on to your faith? What could really be
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  Speaker 1: out there for me? Man? If I just passed this test,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta talk yourself into hanging in there. You're listening show. Ladies,
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  Speaker 1: kid spakes or kid spakes better than on this Junior,
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  Speaker 1: and the legend that is Nephew talk, Ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: let us begin, Junior, Yes, sir, what's you know? What? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Let me just ask you this on because you know
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  Speaker 1: you you're very different. You know, you got a lot
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  Speaker 1: of stuff that you don't like, like you know, like
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  Speaker 1: like you like what type of people do you like
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  Speaker 1: talking to? Because if you got an illness, you can't.
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  Speaker 1: You don't like talking to them. Okay, if you got, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you got, if you got it's gonna features that's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: You don't like talking to them. You know, if you
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  Speaker 1: if you you know, talking, you can't talk, right, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to talk to you. You know you want
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  Speaker 1: to talk to if you really unattracted, but thank you cute.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't want to talk to you.
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  Speaker 1: I know your space inside, in your space and be
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  Speaker 1: comfortable with it. All of my friends are unattractive as
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  Speaker 1: I am an eye and we know that, and just
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  Speaker 1: gone and had a conversation. Don't be standing over that,
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  Speaker 1: pulling on your shirt, trying to straighten yourself out and
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  Speaker 1: all this here, licking your eyebrows and all this here.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't fitting to be cute. So there's some people
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  Speaker 1: I don't care for. You know, I don't like you know,
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  Speaker 1: short people up on me close talking, you know, back
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  Speaker 1: up so I can see you know, you all up
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  Speaker 1: under my arm talking about you. Back up, man, too short,
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  Speaker 1: be up, You're gonna get close to me. Didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to talk all song. You are talking into my chest
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  Speaker 1: and everything back up man and the other and you
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  Speaker 1: know and know your breath no it have you heard
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  Speaker 1: this boy? If you heard your breath is strong today?
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  Speaker 1: Assumed that this could be the day too, just if you.
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  Speaker 1: If somebody ever said, hey man, you need some minutes,
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  Speaker 1: like I've been told, hey hard you need some miss cool,
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  Speaker 1: then I'm assuming every day it could be a mid day,
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  Speaker 1: and I go at it like that. You came on me.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, you ain't got the time to figure out
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  Speaker 1: what day is your day? Every day is your day?
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  Speaker 1: Talk hearty, come home. If you wear glasses, put them
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  Speaker 1: on all that squinting. I don't like talking to people
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  Speaker 1: when they squint. Put your glasses on your blind ass signify, man,
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  Speaker 1: I gonna back up and hold the paper way away
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  Speaker 1: from me so you could see it all this hill.
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  Speaker 1: What is that your shirt? Say Nike, it's Saint niked man.
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  Speaker 1: You thought it was saying. Why would I put that
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  Speaker 1: on my damned shirt? Oh? I thought it was the
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  Speaker 1: end word? Why would I put that on my shirt?
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  Speaker 1: Where's your glasses? Nike? The damned shirt? Say Nike, show
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  Speaker 1: damn glasses on dimned people. I don't like talk to
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  Speaker 1: j Hope. That answered your question, Junior. Thank you. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up back at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 1: hear from the nephew as he runs that frank back
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening morning show, All right, it
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  Speaker 1: it's time for the nephew to run that prank back.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Naw deb Cane and Deborah Cane.
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  Speaker 1: This goes out to all the half stylists out there,
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  Speaker 1: a matter fact, half stylist and beautitions beauticians. All right,
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  Speaker 1: if you under twenty five, you might not know what
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  Speaker 1: beautician is. Okay, my mama went to a beautician. You
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  Speaker 1: understand that's something different. Okay, that's a wash and set
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  Speaker 1: or washing set. That's what you get at the beautician.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go cat dog this right here. I went to
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  Speaker 1: the head dresser, dresser. That's before we got to beauticians.
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  Speaker 1: Have dresser. Hello, man, I speak to them. Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something of you. My name is Wayne. You
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  Speaker 1: did my aunties how yus today? And now I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you did. I don't know what kind of
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  Speaker 1: glue you'd use with weaves or whatever. But my auntie
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  Speaker 1: had and fell out in church today. But I don't
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  Speaker 1: I don't even use glue because I don't even know
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  Speaker 1: why you're coming at me on the side anyway about
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  Speaker 1: your auntie my aunt My auntie is Deborah, and I
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  Speaker 1: have fell you l nineteen eighty two. You come coming
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  Speaker 1: on some glue glue who you think you're tripping with? Look,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what look, let me say this
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  Speaker 1: to you all. I'm saying you gotta say, you gotta say,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm serious about my hard week, you're coming at
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  Speaker 1: me with some glue. It's not for some glue that
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  Speaker 1: be that mouthing on the side of ya ain't well,
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  Speaker 1: that's what happened, and I fell off in service and
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  Speaker 1: all the church member it's sitting there laughing out. Well,
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  Speaker 1: she shouldn't have been. Maybe she's trying to keep the
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  Speaker 1: devil out of a causine been the shout let come
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  Speaker 1: hard anyway, But I don't switch no clue. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: in the city and talk about my ain't it? And
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  Speaker 1: her Jesus, don't you talk about how she shouted. I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know this lady. Don't glue. They call her
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  Speaker 1: miss Debra. I don't know no miss. She just got
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  Speaker 1: her hat done from you yesterday. How you gonna sit
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  Speaker 1: here and act like you ain't cutting yesterday? I God,
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  Speaker 1: you just saying blue comment telling a real woman and
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  Speaker 1: call me tell me mistake I made. I'm because I
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  Speaker 1: don't have no never and I ain't used. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell everybody in Atlanta, Georgia not to come to your
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  Speaker 1: house minute, you like, one minute? That's my livelihood? You
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  Speaker 1: why I don't need you. What is this you? My
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  Speaker 1: name is Wayne White. Look you're white. I know you
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  Speaker 1: don't know Wayne, but you don't. I got a brother
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  Speaker 1: name Big Jay, and you bring Taye, bring bring twine. Look, look,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Y'all don't want no problem,
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  Speaker 1: but I will throw these hands if I got to
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  Speaker 1: what then I ain't on my doll. Look here, look here,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got time to tell your aunty whatever ain't
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  Speaker 1: the mistake? And what me? Then? Look, you don't get
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  Speaker 1: me out here on good Sunday. I just came from church.
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  Speaker 1: It's hot as hell, and you're telling me, Michael, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no joy do today. I ain't got nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do. I got to find out why my ain't
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  Speaker 1: it half farther night in church? It ain't me so
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  Speaker 1: called somebody else in Atlanta, because I'm I am the
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  Speaker 1: finish too. But well you ain't you? You must not
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  Speaker 1: be in right now? You got people have father night
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  Speaker 1: in church and glue following all off on the pew.
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  Speaker 1: Don't y'all ain't it proble clue her own? And that's
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  Speaker 1: not the white fellow not gonna tell you right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the hottest pilot isn't an so no devil. Chi
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  Speaker 1: ain't no body if I if hey, I ain't do
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  Speaker 1: a hat. I don't up Hal you call in and
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  Speaker 1: everybody in a lamp dad tell you the same sight.
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  Speaker 1: Look all, I'm saying else, you're the messed up my
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  Speaker 1: ain'ting hair. I want to get it rectified. I need you,
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  Speaker 1: first of all to call and apologize to her. Apologize.
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  Speaker 1: Have you got a rotial human drinking on some Jesus
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  Speaker 1: use with y'all aint? And that's why you want Michael
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  Speaker 1: Jackson and you ain't in devil see you or wherever
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  Speaker 1: her name milk. Look, let me tell first of all
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  Speaker 1: you go, you go respect my ain't it okay, whatever
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  Speaker 1: you say. Her name is put. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: redo my ain't and half for free and get all
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  Speaker 1: her money back from the first time she paid you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who hold on, I don't know who
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  Speaker 1: this who. I don't know who you are. I'm why
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  Speaker 1: are you coming? Wain? Look your Wayne, I'm gonna go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna hang up in your face. Nah, Hold up,
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  Speaker 1: I'm jebra nephew, Waine. Nah, I ain't fit two years old.
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  Speaker 1: Now you ain't gonna respect your elders. How you expect
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  Speaker 1: to be blessed? You say you just went to church.
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  Speaker 1: Then see that's the problem. You're calling me on Sunday
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  Speaker 1: with some got me cussing like this. I gotta I
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  Speaker 1: got one more thing I need to say to you
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  Speaker 1: before I get off the phone, because you waste my minute.
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  Speaker 1: This is Nephew Timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
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  Speaker 1: You just got prank from your girlfriend? How about got me?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Your girl told me? She said, trust me
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  Speaker 1: going off the first twelve sucker. Hey, baby, man, you
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  Speaker 1: don't do no, you don't do no glue. No, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know glue. I don't. I don't tell you. It's
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  Speaker 1: too all right baby, Ain't nobody. Ain't nobody half fell
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  Speaker 1: out of church that you still? They say you the
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  Speaker 1: bomb down there. So I just wanted to call and
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  Speaker 1: make sure I prank my girl. She the one, all right, baby,
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  Speaker 1: answer one thing from me. What is the baddest I mean,
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  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the world. Morning show. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna use no glue. She was hot. It's too hot,
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  Speaker 1: No Google, make me call my brother Big Jake and Leroy.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all know who you think you're talking to coming at
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  Speaker 1: me sideways like this, and they only no, no, damn
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  Speaker 1: Deborah k O use no glue. It's too hot to
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  Speaker 1: be used some damn glue. I don't use no blue.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the blank. I've been the blank since eight
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  Speaker 1: to two two. Ignorance at its best, y'all. That is
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  Speaker 1: us to run that prank back of the day, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next, it is
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  Speaker 1: to walk home. Wow, right now it is time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we'll get into that. Don't worry about it, we'll get
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  Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey right here, right now,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Gina and Macan says, I met a great
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  Speaker 1: good date. He cooked, then I cooked, then his mama cooked,
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  Speaker 1: and then his sister cooked. I'm sick of going to
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  Speaker 1: his family's house or any house to eat. Will it
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  Speaker 1: be a turn off if I tell him that? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's the truth. Tell him, don't. Don't do
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: it like that. Don't don't register a complaint against his family.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Just put out the wish that you want. Just simply say,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you know what, I really appreciate your family and I
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: enjoy being around and then the cooking. But if I
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: would love for you to take me out to dinner
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: at least once a week. You know, I don't mind
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: going over to people's houses, but if you could take
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: me out, you know, I just want to be out
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: sometimes and socialize. I like to sit a nice sit
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: down restaurant. I like service. Would you do that for me? Please? Bam,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: you have dinner once a week and then this feelings
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: ain't hurt by his mama, Because you hurt a man
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: feeling about his mommy. Your relationship bang gonna last night, mama,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: she said she don't want to come over here and
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: just all this eating. You know, she don't like coming
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: over here. Oh so when she don't like eating? Yeah,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: so you're gonna date the health of that. Don't like
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: to eat, and we eat people who are eating people?
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to a Brook and Gary Brook rights.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I'm thirty. I'm a thirty year old single woman, and
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: my married father is having an affair with a married woman.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sleeping with that married woman's husband. Nobody knows what's
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: up but me. I'm about to end the affair with
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: this guy because it's too much for me to handle.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Should I go out with a bang and expose everyone? No? No,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: no no, why would you do that? Go out with
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: the bang and expose everyone? Why? What's what's the purpose
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: in that? People are imperfect? You included, you made a mistake.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: That if you want to correct your mistake, going to
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: correct your mistake, that's all? Who are you? You? Don't
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: you know? It cused me. When people decide to be
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: judge and jury, after they decide to get their self right,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: then they want to be judge and jury or everybody else?
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: You single, she's seeing a married man. Her daddy who
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: is married is seeing the married man's wife. M okay,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and problem, well those are all sorts of problems. But
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: don't but I mean, but look, I mean everybody in
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: this you're dating the married man. Your daddy dating the
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: married woman. He already man, the married woman is dating
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: the married man. Everybody all this is consensual when and
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: apparently this ain't your mama, that the daddy with so
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: no right, this is a whole other woman. This ain't
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: your mom at all. No, And I got news for you.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Might not know what your mama doing. Oh hello, because
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something about women. They're not stupid.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: No for the goose is good for the gander. Remember
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: that next question with the bank. Here we go. Unique
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: in Kansas City, Missouri, because I was stuck in the
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: back of my man's suv for an hour after his
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: girlfriend pulled up next to us. We were about to
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: have sex, and he jumped out and I jumped in
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: the back. He went to go eat with her, but
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I didn't know, so I stayed hidden. He has told
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: me he's sorry a million times. Should I get have
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: a second chance? Surely she went to dinner with her boyfriend, Okay,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: she was She and her man were in her man's suv. Okay,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: So she was stuck in the back of her man's
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: a shov for an hour after his girlfriend pulled up
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: next to them, okay, they were about to have sex.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: He jumped out, she jumped in the back. He wouldn't
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: to go eat with his girlfriend who pulled up next
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: to them. So the woman he was about to have
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: sex within the truck jumped in the back and she
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: was in there for we clearly should you give him
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: another chance? But clearly you're not the girlfriend? No, he ain't.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Can you know where you're in the truck, chick? A
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: matter of fact, he didn't got out the truck to
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: go to lunch with his girl. How much low on
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: the total pole? Do you want to position yourself? Should
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: I give him another chance? A chance to do what?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: To tell you? You ain't nobody right right to get
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: in the truck again? What he stuck back there? He
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: almost gave it to me in that truck. Yeah, you
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: ain't even working rooms, right, girl? Get yourself some standards.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Should I give him another chance to tell you that?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: You ain't the one to tell you you have no value?
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: He's too hot for that's a long term. And your
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: stupid ass stayed in the truck there. I ain't going
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: to be back here in no truck now, hallo, are
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: you gonna introduced me? Yeah? Excuse me, ma'am, I was
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I'm with him. What is your name, Tino? I'm Keisha? Hello?
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: He lucky you didn't do that? Right? Yeah? All right?
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Moving on, get it together unique. Moving on to Treacy
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: in Norfolk. Treacy says, my husband and I played a
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: drinking game with other couples and I found out that
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: he had had a threesome and he's tried cocaine before. Wow,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: We've been together for five years and this has never
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: come up. He keeps saying he was just trying to
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: be a good sport and it's not true. How can
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I get the truth without nagging? Well, you know, what
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Y'all? Was playing a drinking game.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: He obviously had to drink and then tell some stuff.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: He didn't told you try cocaine and he didn't had
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: a threesome. Do you want some more truth from him? Yet?
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Listen to me, a little girl. You probably need to
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: cut your losses right here for you find out some une.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Let it go. See O he messed around and tell
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: you who who? What the three people wore? Hello? Yeah,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: they've been together for five years and she said it
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: just never came up. Yeah, you can't tell everything. Say
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: it all the time. We say it all the time.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: All right, Well that's the last one, Steve. Wow, does
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: she need to know the truth? No? See, that's why
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I tell y'all all the time. This is why you
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: had to lie. You're going there telling the truth now
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: now here we are, we are damn Strawberry. Let him
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: all this truth telling. Now she'd rode in on the
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: show and all this here. All you had to do
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: was lie. I've never been with three people, I never
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: tried any drugs. That all you had to do. Simple,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: We right back to this happy five year relationship. You
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: are telling the damn truth with Joe dumb All right, Steve,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: thank you. See coming up at the top of the hour,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: we'll have some matter ham of news for you right
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to. All right, We're gonna start
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: it off with Carla and music news coming in hot, Carlo.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: What you got? All right? Thank you? Sherley Girl. The
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: notorious b I. G. Will be honored this weekend in
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: New York City on what would have been his fiftieth birthday.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: The Empire State Building will turn red over the weekend
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: and have a digital crown spinning in its mast. You
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: know the long pole thing anyway. New York City, The
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Landmark will also host a ceremony for Biggie's friends and
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: family and partnership with bad Boy Atlantic Records, and in
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: his home borough of Brooklyn, Brooklyn in the House. The
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Barclays Center will show a Biggie video on loop above
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: the arena's entrance, and Amazon has partnered with Beautified Earth
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: to install Biggie. Uh, they're high merles all over the
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: five cities in the boroughs. So that's gonna be nice,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: nice Biggie tribute this weekend. Yes, and what had been
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Biggie's fifty birthday, Love me some Biggie. That's nice. And
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: that's music, dudes, big Apple Biggie, Thank you, thank you.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: That's a great tribute. Well, it is graduation season. And Tommy,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: your beautiful daughter, you're smart, your genius daughter, Sydney is
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: graduating this weekend from high school. Congratulations. She's had a
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Texas A and m right, that's right. Then that's your mother. Yeah,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: your your wife's Alma Mata. So how are you feeling
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: right now? Tell us about it? What's going on with you? Uh,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little bit. I mean I'm excited that
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: she's graduating. I mean, you know, you look bolded this
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: as a parent, But I think it's just a whole
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: leaving home and my it's my baby girl, my only daughter.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: So I'm a little concerned. So I'm daddy gonna be
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: doing a little popping up at Texas and him that's
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: gonna happen for show. I'm just gonna pop my ass up.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Daddy won't. But why am I thinking bad boys right now?
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Who is hu? Name? Whats your baby? I'm not. I
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: don't want to embarrass it, but I'm I'm you know,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm a real part of man. Ain't nothing happened
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: to my little girl, not if I can hold it,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: not if I can do something about it. So but
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I gotta trust her, you know, I gotta trust her
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: that that we've instealed everything in it, that she needs
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: to go off and be a lady. So I gotta.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I gotta do that. But I'm trusting it. But I'm
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: still popping the hell up to hell. I'm sorry, I'm
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: doing both. Trust I don't trust everybody else. Put it
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: that way. I trust you. I don't up there everybody else. Sidney,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: your daddy here. What is that? Congratulations Sydney and other
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: graduation news. The graduating class of Clark Atlanta University got
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: more than their diplomas. They got brand new businesses. Commissment
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: speaker Alicia Pinky Cole. We know Alicia Pinky Cole. She
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: is the founder of Atlanta's super famous restaurant Sloody Vegan,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: and she announced that she's partnered with Vary Bank to
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: provide every single graduate in that audience with a brand
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: new LLLC and a path to entrepreneurship. Every single graduate
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: in this audience will leave this stadium as a business owner.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Now that's giving right there, That is giving back. Yeah,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: that is big. What a graduation gift I know to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: every student night. Wow, Now you gotta do something about it.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: You know you get to gift is blessing. You gotta
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: do something about it. I try to tell college students
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: what I meet with them. You've made a major accomplishment.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: It's a huge thing to get a college degree. I
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: for one, I don't know how you do it. So congratulations,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: you've accomplished something that's a major milestone in your life.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Now that you've done that, what you now have as
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: a piece of paper that will hang on your wall
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: as decoration unless you do something about it. And that's
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: what you got to get the business on. Now. I
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: hate to tell you this, but you've accomplished the easy part.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: As hard as college was. That's the easy part. Oh
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god. What's in front of you
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: is daunting. Get ready? All right? Thank you for that,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Steve Well. This next story is an awful story for
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: single women. A woman on TikTok shared a video of
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: her date telling her to either walk home or go
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: back to his place. In the viral video, the female
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: is sitting at the table on a first date with
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: this guy, and after she rejected his invitation to go
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: back to his apartment, he suggested that she started walking home.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Take a listen, So you're just gonna sell your phone? Yeah?
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Are you going to get up and start? Welcome? Why
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: do I have to walk? Like? I mean? But you're
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: joking here, so I don't get why I'm walking the
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: whole I don't get. That doesn't make me. I mean,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to come back to my
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Place's no point of waste together. So I mean, I
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: feel like I don't want to go to her place
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: because I don't know you well enough. And it's just
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: like our first stop meetings, Like does that not maxis
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: to you? I don't get it. I mean we spend
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: the whole day together. I'm obviously a check to you know.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: I see the police who is punk? Wow? Man, That's
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: why I'm going up at an right there. It's just
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: the way a lot of these young men are raised
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: and bought up. And uh, I mean the young lady handler,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I wish she had just got out the car. Yeah,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: and we're right back in that restaurant and called yourself
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: at uber or call somebody you know, sat down and
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: just got yourself. You ain't gotta go back and forth
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: with this dude right here. I just feel like I
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: spent a whole day with you, and obviously I'm attracted
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: to you. This is awful. Man. She also gave him
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: money for gas. She paid for both of their bails.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Man hugs. Yeah, yeah, all right, Uh listen, coming up
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour, we're gonna switch gears,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: and our special guests will be the most notable civil
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: rights attorney of our time, Benjamin Crump. Right after this.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: You're listening, Hey, you all asked, promise we've got our
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: special guests. He is the trial lawyer of our time.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: He's been on the front lines of some of the
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: most notable cases of civil rights and justices. He's joining
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: us today to discuss the racially motivated mass murder that
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: occurred in Buffalo, New York. Please welcome to the show, everybody,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: our brother Attorney Benjamin Crump. Welcome, Welcome, sir, Good morning,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Steve and everybody. It's such an honor to be here
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: with you all to talk about this just incredibly important matter.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Attorney Crump, let's do that. What is this exactly? Man?
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: What do we label? Is this as? How do you
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: see it? You know, it is not even beautiful in
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: my mind. This is domestic terrorism. And anybody else who
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: tries to call it anything else has been disingenuous. You know.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: They called the Oklahoma City Obama's domestic terrorism. They called
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: the Parkland shooting domestic terrorism. And so when this black
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: people who are targeted by young, depray, sick, racist eight
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: yo white supremists in a grocery store that he says
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: in his manifesto, my objective is to kill as many
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: black people as I can. That fits the very definition
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: of domestic carrynism and I quote these domestic terrorism a
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: homegrown terrorism is a form of terrorism in which victims
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: was in a country or targeted by a perpetrator with
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: the same citizenship as the victims. Domestic terrorism is violent
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: criminal at submitted by individuals and our groups to further
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: ideological goals stemming from domestic influences. Attorney Crumpy seems to
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: me as though in this country we have more documented
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: acts of domestic terrorism than we do terrorism from outside
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: the country. Lines Absolutely, the director of the FBI, the
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: greatest threat to American society right now is white supremacy.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: And so we have to deal with not just the
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: sick individual who did this hate for act, but Steve,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: but we also have to deal with the root of
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: the hate, and that is these individuals who are inspiring
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: these young, insecure white boys to go out and commit
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: sense let's acts of violence by coming up with these
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: crazy notions like race replacement theory that you should feel
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: fear because you're being replacing you gotta do something about it,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: and it's irresponsible and it's dangerous. Yeah, hey, at tourney, Croma,
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: hold on right there, because when we come back, we
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: want to talk about those two things right there. We'll
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: be back with more Attorney Benjamin Crump right after this.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, everybody, We're back in our special
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Guests this morning as Attorney Benjamin Crump, and we're dealing
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: with we're talking about this act of domestic terrorism that
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: was perpetrated by this eighteen year old white supremacy in Buffalo,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: New York. I wanted to ask you a couple of
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: things that we want to talk about. The family Ruthwood
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: feel in a minute, which you're representing, we were talking
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: about race replacement. I want to ask you a question.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I'm really I've been watching Fox News and I can
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: honestly say at this point that I actually miss Bill
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: O'Reilly because Bill O'Reilly and Ben Glack Glenn Beck actually
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: had some line that they drew in the sign. You know,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: every now and then, you know Bill Riley would call
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: out Roun on the right side. This guy, I mean Hannity,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: but Tucker Carlson is at a level that I've never
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: seen on a TV anchor person in my life. His
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: comments about this eighteen year old white supremacis have been
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: just I mean, this this guy is ridiculous. Man. Do
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you have any thoughts on the views that they take, Well,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, you know it's thought provoking, mindboggling. It used
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: to be these crazy theories who are just on the
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: fringe of the far right, but now they are making
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: it acceptable in mainstream society to say those things that
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: inspire these young people. And you have it from the
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: cable news provocateurs. You have it from these conservative politicians
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: who are trying to help build and expand their base
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: and are doing it at the expense of knowing that
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: real people are gonna get killed and mass shootings are
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: gonna happen based on what they're saying. We must remember
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: that the Jewish temples in New York, that young white
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: supremac said very similar things to what this young white
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: supremac said about Buffalo, New York shoot and when he
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: talked about in that manifesto that if white people don't
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: do something now, they're gonna take over our country as
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: if we are not Americans. And that is what they
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: push on Fox, that there are some people who are
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: more fit to be American citizens than ore and see
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I just you know they're saying that you and I
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: and our children. We are not as appropriate to be
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: an American citizens when you think about everything black people
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: has done for America. We built this joint for free,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and they still try to say they are more appropriate
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: to be recognized as American citizens than us. That's what
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: we have to call out. That is the root of
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: the hate plan on this spirit insecurity. And if we
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: don't address that, it's not enough just to hold accountable
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: this little racist white board. We have to deal with
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: those journalists who got audience of millions that they are
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: radicalizing every day. I mean they're radicalizing them Steves, just
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: like being radicalized young people in their native land to
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: go through crazy sense of sacts of violence. Well, that's
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: what they're doing here with these young white boys, and
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: we have to call it out. We can't call what
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: they do either. And this here is that's evil. No,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: when you go into a church in South Carolina and
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: you kill none of the most innocent people, you come
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: to Buffalo, you kill tens of the most innocent people were.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: How is that any different what they're doing and they
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: accused being a loting on them. That's all we're saying.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: We got to call hate, hate and domestic terrorism domestic terrorism.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: And when they try to say, well, we just call
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: crime crime when it's Buffalo, but then in Parkland it's
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: domestic terrorism. It's the worst thing we've ever seen where
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: it's the worst thing that black people ever seen too.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: When you kill us and we keep seeing it over
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: and over and over. They hang on one more time
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: for the Attorney Clump. I want to ask you a
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: couple of more questions when we come back. You're listening.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: We're back, everybody. We've got our special guests, Attorney Benjamin
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Crump on the phone, and he's on here talking about
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: the tragedy that occurred in Buffalo. I wanted to ask
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: you something because you're representing the family of Ruth Whitfield,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: the eighty six year old woman who was amongst those
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: killed in the two minute attack. How did this come about,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Attorney Crump? Yeah, you know, Steve, oftentimes when things happen
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: to people, especially marginalized people of color, they don't know
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: what to do. It is utterly shocking, and so they
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: reach out to us because they trust my law firm
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: to fight for them, and they understand that, you know,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: they're no guarantees, but they want somebody to at least
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: fight for them. And you know, Steve, the reason I
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: love you so much, brother, You say what you mean,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: and you mean what you say, and I try to
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: emulate that. So I'm honest with Ruth Field's family that
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: we're gonna sue these good manufacturers, We're gonna sue these
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: good distributors. We're gonna try to whole accountable anybody who
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: might have had anything to do with this young eighteen
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: ye white supremise killing their mother, even his parents who
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: bought them guns. The person who sold this eighteen year
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: old boy a R fifteen that can shoot seventy rounds
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: in less than twenty seconds. What do you sell an
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: eighteen year old a gun like that for? What do
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: you think they're going to do with it? So we're
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: dealing with all these issues, Steve, because Ruth Whitfield was
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: an angel. I mean everybody in the family, everybody in
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: the community. Her son was the first black fire commissioner
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: for the city of Buffalo, New York. And he talks
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: about how his mother every day went to the nursing
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: home to be able to just take care of her
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: the love of her life, who she had been married to.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Get this, Steve harb and she had been merit to
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: him for sixty eight years. And they don't even know
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: how they're gonna tell their father, Garden the or Whitfield
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Senior that the love of his life was killed by
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: six individual of our committing the act of hate. And
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: so when we think about this great testament of love
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: for sixty eight years, who blessed this earth, we won't
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: let her legacy be defined by this hate or act.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: But as her children and grandchildren and great great grandchildren say,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: they're going to make sure that there's some positive change
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: out of this tragedy, and that would be the legacy
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: befitting such an angel as Ruth Whitfield. Well, Attorney Crump,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: I tell you what we're going to be watching this closely.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: You know you have our support here on the radio
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: show for anything messaging we need to get out. I
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: wish you well with this case. I wish that is
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: truly a way, even though like you say that I
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: know guarantees that we can hold people accountable all the
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: way back to his parents who bought them, to people
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: who sold it to him. That that's gonna be a
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: heck of a dog fight, But you demand for it, man,
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: and we appreciate all you do in terms of civil
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: rights in this country. If it weren't for you, man,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know who we'd have stepping up in the
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: forefront and making a stand for us on these very,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: very still important issues that just keep playing in our community, man.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: And we're sick of it. We're exactly sick of it.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: And so hey, man, let's get together with our forces
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: and see what we can do about some of these
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: people who are taking our airwaves and spewing this type
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: of hatred to perpetrate and build up and lift up
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: people like this. So Attorney Crump, as always, brother, thank
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you for coming on. You're always welcome. Our prayers go
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: out to all the companies in Buffalo, New York. We're
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: on up there, man. We think about y'all daily and
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: we are with you and you have our undying support.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Attorney Crupp, we love you, bro, Love you to Stephen. Also,
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: we represent Andre McNeil's family and Geraldine Talent family. Want
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: to lift them up as well. Okay, good good, I'm
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: glad you said that. Thank you, brother, be well. Hey,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: love you frad all right, boy. Wow. See that's that's
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: the part man, that we've you know, when he said
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: go after all these people, that's the key. But we
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: gotta get it past you know, some of these judges
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: and stuff. We gotta get it past them. And that's
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: the dog fight that we gotta make because we're not
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: going to get them to change the Second Amendment. That's
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: not gonna happen. And we're not gonna stop the nr
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: A from donating more money than anybody to the Conservative
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Republican Movement who's support watch the Second Amendment. So we
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: got to find another way. If we could just get
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: one judge, one judge somewhere to say, hey, you know what,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: the parents never should have but this written Howard cased it.
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: His mama drove him up. The hi hi as saying
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: in jail is beyond me. But but we gotta He's
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: not you know that that that that right there, And
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Tucker Carson put the money behind his defense. That's what
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about. That's dangerous, man. When you use a
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: platform like we have to support murder crime, acts of violence,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: and racism. When you use this platform to support that
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: domestic terrorism, that's an all time load. When you're using
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: your brats, Yeah, yeah, exactly. And and like you know,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Attorney Crump said, the FBI says that the number one
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: problem facing America today is white supremacist. That's the FBI.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: That ain't a black organization, that ain't Black Lives Matter,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: that's f b I. And we're targeting away most of
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: it's always us. And there's always some white group that
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: don't like the other group. Where people gonna understand where
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: white supremacs really is. It's always a white somewhere that
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: don't like somebody else because they ain't white. What damn
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: what we got to do? Man? Why why we got
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: to keep? Man? See, all of our lives, all of
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: our parents lives, all of our grandparents, it's the same thing.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: It's just I mean, when when is it going to end?
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: Is the question? And like Attorney Crump said, we built
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: this nation for free. We built this nation. Man, this hours,
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: this sint Charles. But we're not Americans. We're not considered Americans. Man,
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: who's more American than nash We built it, We built America.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: We're grieving all over again. Here, yeah, here we are again.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: We can't go a quarter without something happening. It's almost like,
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: oh wait, oh man, are they starting to be okay,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: oh no, oh no, they're six weeks. Man. We gotta
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: do something. They must think to stay country. Who down there?
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Ain't we got a white board somewhere. Don't like them?
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: And and and then and and then here it comes,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: and we're just dealing with this. Man. I'm exhaust sixty
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: five years old, I'm exhausted. I've never known nothing else
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: but this my entire life. I've never in sixty five
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: years been able to take a deep ass breath. And
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: it started since I was a kid. And when the
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: teacher made us watch in elementary school mar Luther King's
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: funeral on TV. I'm sitting there, going and my father
• 52:08
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• 52:11
  Speaker 1: My father said, when he was watching the funeral, he
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: was crying. My daddy said, white folks don't want us
• 52:17
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• 52:22
  Speaker 1: How do we shut down these hate sites? Though? What's
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: the beginning of that? How do you get to where
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: we can shut these people down? No? No, no, no,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: oh no, no no no no, Tommy, that's freedom of speech. See,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: these people they got this. This country set up the
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: freedom of speak. See, you can get a permit to
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: walk down the street that I live on and pay
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: taxes on for you to walk down that street and
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: tell you how much you hate me. All right, Uh,
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: there's still more work to be done. That's all we
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: can say. We're gonna switch gears here and get into
• 52:56
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• 53:00
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  Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Subject common sense versus Church sense. Dear Stephen, Shirley,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I'm close friends with a coworker that is being misled
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: by religion. She's thirty two years old and single, but
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: she acts like a sixteen year old dizzy girl. All
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: of a sudden, she has to check in with one
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: of her three spiritual visors when she gets to the
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: office and when she's heading home. She usually talks to
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: one of them on the phone while she's eating her
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: lunch too. In the past seven months, she's lost weight,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: let her hair grow out, and she stopped polishing her fingernails.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: She told me that nails are an attention grabber, and
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: her church preaches that women should be more in the background.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: She has a churchy excuse for doing the craziest things.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: She pays her bills and car note and then gives
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: whatever she's got, whatever she's got left to the church,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: and they take her grocery shopping. If she needs to shop,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: they give her a church credit card with a small
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: spending limit. I told her that she's in a cult
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: and she's slowly but surely getting brainwashed, and she said
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: it's all kingdom business that she's tending to. She said
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: that her spiritual advisors call her body a temple and
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: they love tapping into her energy to give them strength
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: for the week. If it was with all three, and
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: she said it was the first time, but now it's
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: one on one, so the connection can be greater. I
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: used to burst out laughing, thinking she was joking at first,
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  Speaker 1: but now it's just crazy. She's happier than I've ever
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: seen her, so it must be beneficial to let the
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: kingdom run through her weekly. But what I don't want
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: to happen is for her to lose her job over
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: this church mess she's stuck in. I can't get through
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: to her, so should I try talking to her spiritual advisers?
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: She has no common sense? Yeah, it sounds like she
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: has no common sense. And I have to give you
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: a compliment here. You are a very good friend. You're patient,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: you're caring. She needs someone like you in her life
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: right now because this so called religion she's in that
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: has no name or anything, it sounds like it has
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: no foundation and God is nowhere to be found in this.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: And I say that because there's just too many ungodly
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: things going on. For instance, you asked her about having sex,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: and she says, first she had it with the three men,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: and then sex one on one with them. What does
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: she say to tap into her energy so they could
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: tap into her energy and have strength for the week.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: What religion is this really? You know? Then she gives
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: all her money to them after her bills and rent
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: are paid. If she needs to go shopping, she can
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: do that with the church credit card. And she doesn't
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: know the difference between someone pimping her and using her
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: and a real church. Obviously, I agree wholeheartedly with you
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: one hundred percent that she's definitely brainwatched. She needs to
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: be rescued and be programmed asap. This is a cult.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: This is the has you know, all the signs of
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: a cult, but she can't see that. And this is terrible.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: This is really terrible. Please stay her friend, see if
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: you can get some other people I don't know involved
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: to maybe talk to her and get her out of this,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: because she is definitely heading down the wrong path. Steve,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: this is clearly this is some type of cult message.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: This is not you know, and once again, this is
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: not This is not what God is about. These are
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: none of the requirements. And he ain't gotten a requirement
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: for you to have sex with three men so they
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: can tap into your energy. They're tapping into something. It
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: ain't your energy though, you know this whole letter man.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: It's just it's a sad letter man, because I hate
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: to see people who are lost get caught up because
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: they don't know the way. And you know, when you
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: don't know the way, man, you can be misguided, misled easily,
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: especially if you're looking for something and somebody comes along
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: at that moment where you're looking for something and anything
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: sounds right to some people. And that's what happened in
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: this case. She's thirty two years old. She acts like
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: a sixteen year old dizzy girl. All of a sudden,
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: she got to check in with one her three spiritual
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: advice when she gets to the office and when she
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: going home, and she usually talked to one of them
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: on the phone while she eating her lunch. It's been
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: seven months, not a girl in lost weight. She to
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: let her hair grow out, she can stop polishing her
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: finger nails, and then she said the nails are an
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: attention grabb her and her church preaches that women should
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: be more in the background. Him already, what were talking
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: about here? When this church gets started, the women should
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: be more in the background. Man, come on, man, I
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: mean anyway, I got a few more things to say
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: to you, but you know, I don't know if it's
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: gonna help because the girl I'd rather talk to the
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: thirty two year old, But I got some news for
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: her friends, though it's well. Coming up. At twenty three
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have part two of Steve's
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: response Today's Strawberry letter, subject common Sense versus church sense.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's very sad
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: strawberry letters, common sense versus church sense. See, this is
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: a letter about a person who's lost. It's looking for something,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: and somebody saw her looking for something and field in
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: the blanks with some mess. Because that's all this is
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: this mess. And I feel sorry for this little sister
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: right here that's got these three spiritual advisors that she
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: talks to when she gets to the office, when she's
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: heading home, when she eating her lunch. They didn't have
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: told her to. She didn't lost weight, she's letting her
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: hair grow out. She didn't stopped polishing her fingernails because
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: she's saying nails are an intention grab and her church
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: preachers that women should be mowing the background. She's got
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: these churchy excuses for doing the craziest thing. So here's
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: what's happening. The girl pays her bills as her car
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: note and then gills whatever she's got left to the church.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: They take her grocery shopping. If she needs to shop,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: they give her a church credit card with a small
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: spending limit. Now a girl told her that's a cault.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is, and she's getting brainwashed. But
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: she said, it's all kingdom business. Now. I don't want
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: to say what I've heard that religion is, but I'll
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: just leave that alone. She said, it's all kingdom business
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: that she's tending to. And she said her spiritual advisor
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: called her body a temple and they love tapping into
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: her energy to give them strength for the week. Now,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: a girl asked her girlfriend, is that for sex, and
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: she said, it's a lot greater than sex. See. They
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: temple tapping, see, so that makes it greater than it sex.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: Were temple tapping? Were tapping into your temple? Were not
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: just having sex? And then she asked it was it
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: with all three and she said it was the first time,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: but Nile's one on one, so the connection can be greater. Now.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: The girl says she used to bust out laughing, thinking
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: she was joking at first, but now it's just crazy.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: She's happier than I've ever seen her, so it must
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: be beneficial to let the kingdom run through her weekly.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: But what I don't want to happen is for her
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: to lose her job over this church mess she's stuck in.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: This is not the most important concern her losing her job.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: The bigger problem is she losing her soul. Damn your job.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: You can get another job. You got one soul. So
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: she's been deceived by this trickery. Got the nerve to
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: call it the church, but it is really a cult.
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  Speaker 1: I can't get through to her soul. Should I try
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: talking to her spiritual advisors? Wow, little girl, what are
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: you gonna say to them? They they won't start at
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: this mess. They're the one that is perpetrating the mess.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: That the one that's pulling off the mess. They the
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: one is involved in the mess. What you're gonna say
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: to them? She has no common sense. What I would
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: do if I were you is I would report this institution.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: I really would. Now people have the freedom of religion
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  Speaker 1: and all like that, but I would put them on notice.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, there are some things you could do to
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  Speaker 1: unravel this stuff, because this like really is borderline really
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: some dangerous stuff. When you're turning over your entire check
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: to a group and they're giving you a small church
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: credit card with a limit on it, and once you
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: start passing our church credit cards for them to buy
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: stuff with collections, getting into some tax situation. I would
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: report them. I would go down to somebody that's some
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: people that go and save and rescue people from groups
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: like this, and I would get some help with it,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: because something's wrong here. When they get through using and
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: abusing this girl, they're gonna throw her out. She gonna
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: either run out of money or she gonna run out
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: of attention, one or the two. So how does this
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: religion explain to her having a family? How does this
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: cult group explain to her about having a husband children?
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: Or she just group property? Now? Who are these men?
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: They get to decide who sleeps with this girl and
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: how often they get to tap into her energy. This
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: is the happiest she's ever been because she's been lost
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: for so long. Now she thinks she found. But if
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: this is your idea of being found, this is ridiculous.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: Right here, I would report it. I would find a group.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. I have no idea,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: but there are some help groups out there for anybody.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: But they got you know, you can look into this
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: right here, man, This don't have to be I would
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: try to help my friend that way, get some attention
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: some eyeballs on this organization here, so they don't just
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: exist and you know, to other people. Yeah, a lot
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: of eyeballs got put on this Christian Scientology organization cause
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that Ronne or Hubbard biss. It's
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: a lot of eyeballs got put on a lot of
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: other groups. And I'm not saying that's a cult or nothing.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm just saying a lot of eyeballs got
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: put on this group and a lot of changes came about,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: and it's continued to come about. I would look into
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: that myself if I were you. This is hate. I
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: don't like this letter because I feel sorry for this
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: thirty two year old girl. She's my daughter, somebody I know.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I go up in there with all advisers asked, let's
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: start right there. Yeah, we really talking tapping into and
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: all this shit. Man, get out of here. I'm I'm
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: tapping to everybody when I get that. Yeah, yeah, but
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: it'll be a different kind of tapping. Your turn, brother,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Steve we Prober. Yeah, all right, um. Leave us your
• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we'll
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: have some sports talk with Junior right after this. You're listening,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: all right, it is that time. It is time for
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: junior and sports talk. Hey, Junior, what you got? Thank you, Shirley. Listen, Um,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: Tommy Man, you know, we just had crump on and Um,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: I just got to thinking about it. You was there?
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  Speaker 1: What role could an athlete played today? What's going on
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: with situations like in Buffalo? Because I know when y'all
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: was coming up, man, in the sixties, you had Jim Brown,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: you had Muhammad Ali, Kareem Abdul Jabbar, you had people
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: like that who are prominent athletes who stepped up for
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: situations such as these, what social injustice? But we're happening, like,
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  Speaker 1: what role could they do today with everything that's going on,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: like like in both I mean in actuality, man, they're
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: doing a really good job of it. I think I
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: think there's a lot of athletes out there, man that
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: use their voice, man for voting and all like this
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  Speaker 1: right here. So I'm like, I've been very, very pleased
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: with the way these young men and young women have
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: behaved on a lot of social issues and So I
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: just think, man, that that's not our problem. I think
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: there's enough athletes who have stepped up for different causes.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: You know, even Colin Kaepernick with the kneel. And you
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: know these young cats, man, when they get socially active, man,
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: they're They're a bad group of young dudes. Man. So
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: I know I'm I'm an old person, older person on
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: the show, but I just gotta tell you, man, I
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: think that this generation is getting it right in terms
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: of using their voice because they want to shut them down.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: But these young cats is out here, man, using their
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: voice to bring about change. A lot of rap artists
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: are doing it, especially when it came to voting. That
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: kid Yellowtail that came out with that whole thing about
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: voting and everything. I thought that was slick. You know,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are using their voice. So I
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: don't think that's a problem today. I really don't. Now.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: Back in the day, it was more prevalent. Prevalent because
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: we were in the height of civil rights. I mean,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: we was just trying to be able to drink out
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: of day and water, found to go to bathroom and
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: quit getting our asked for for sitting at lunch counters.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. So it was it was bigger,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: you know, back then, and more and it was and
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: it was a lot more dangerous to speak out then.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: But I do want to say that I think that
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: they are on point. I think these young people today
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: are on point. And I don't think that's our problem.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: Our problem is much greater. Our problem is the conservative platform.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: Our problem is quite supremacy. Our problem is the freedom
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: to do and say what you want to say. You
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: can get a permit to walk down the black person
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: street to tell him you hate him. So that's a
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: lot of stuff. We got the wrong judges in place
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: because we're not getting the right ones in place, and
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: so right, that's it. But we have to vote on
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: all the elections, not just president, and as a big
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: one coming up tuesday, thank you. Coming up at the
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: top of the hour, here's a question, Wow, um, would
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: you live on an old slave plantation? We'll talk about that.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: Answer that question right after this. You're listening to show.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, picture this all right. Imagine you just
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: bought a house and you find out that it used
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: to be a slave plantation. All right. Air Force veteran
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: Fred Miller bought a large country home in southern Virginia
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: and found out recently that his ten and a half
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: acres of land was once part of a third teen
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: hundred acre plantation. Miller worked with a local genealogy researcher
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: to learn about his family history and connection to what
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: was once the Miller plantation. He was featured on sixty
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: Minutes with Leslie Stall and he worked around the abandoned
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: slave cemetery on the park. He walked around the abandoned
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: slave cemetery on the property and counted eight tombstones there
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: and pointed out a lot more. He has plans to
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: restore the quarters now where enslaved people lived on the
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: property to educate others on the history of slavery. He
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: remarked that he hopes his great great grandmother is somehow
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: looking down from heaven and finally cracking a beautiful smile. Interesting, huh.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: So he bought the plantation that his family, you know,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: once worped on, and I mean has plans to restore
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: it and teach people about slavery. I mean, I think
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: it's Powell move myself. I commend him. You know, here's
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: where you enslave my people. Now I'm buying it. How
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: about that? Nah, I'm not gonna let anybody forget what
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: you did to him. So I'm gonna restore it so
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: I could teach the message. That's that's that's that's that's
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: power to me. I get it. I appreciate what the
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: would you would you live there though? Ye? I mean
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I understand and restoring it, But what you live there
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: on that property? Well? I um, I think I live
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: down the street from it. Dog, I don't think I'm
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: gonna really be on the plantation. I'm I'm gonna I'm
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: I can own it and restore it and have it,
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: you know, built up like museum. You can come see
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: it and all that. But I'm gonna be a little
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: further down the way. Though you live on Smith Street,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna yea plantation all plantation Helloa when you
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: think about it, man, Yeah, I mean, but just imagine
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: him walking around, you know, the property and imagining what
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: went before him, what happened you know, his great great grandmother,
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: he said in heaven, Now she was there. You know,
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: just all that history, all that history and stuff. A
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: really interesting story. Yeah. I like about Air Force veteran
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Fred Miller. Yeah, I think it's a great idea. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: some heavy times we live in here. Yeah, I mean
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: something this week has been really heavy for us. Man, Yeah,
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: it really really has. And and so far no resolve
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: as far as what's going on in Brooklyn. Um, I
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: don't know how that's going to turn out. And I
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: said Brooklyn, I met Buffalo, New York. Yeah, something happened
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: in Brooklyn too. What happened in Brooklyn? You were thinking
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: New York and Buffalo. Yeah, I'm in Buffalo. Yeah, nothing
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: happened in Brooklyn. Man. But yeah, m it's just so sad. Yeah.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: But anyway, Yeah, I don't know. Tommy talking about living
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: on the plantation that that is an interesting question. Could
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: you do that? And would you do that? You know
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: by finding the Miles plantation. I'm not living on it. I'mderstanding.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not living You're just gonna restore it and make
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: it historical and teach it to all that you want
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: to live on the Harvey plantation. I'm gonna let him
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: do that. You're going on Tractor Virginia, stay on the
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: Harvey plantation. I'm not doing it. He didn't say he
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: would what Steve? What are what what Harvey plantation your
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: ass talking about because you didn't know about it. I
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: buy all of that. I tell you what, if I
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: found it, I'll bide and bawled it out, turn it
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: into a big basketball court, a song, and I gonna
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: be no house if you it would be something the kids.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: I like that though. All right, all right, we're moving on. Guys.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show well. A two year old toddler
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: had an extreme case of the muncheese and ordered thirty
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: one cheeseburgers from McDonald's. Did you guys hear that? Two
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: years old ordering thirty with cheeseburgers McDonald's cheeseburgers from door
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: dash Okay, from the door dash app These kids are
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: geniuses and had them delivered to his home. Kelsey Burkhalter
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: Golden was stunned when she received an unexpected delivery with
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: the guy holding a big bag of burgers. She jokingly
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: described I've did on Facebook, saying, apparently my two year
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: old knows how to order from DoorDash. Uh. She also
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: shared a picture of her two year old son sitting
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: on the table eating a cheeseburger next to a mound
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: of thirty remaining McDonald's cheeseburgers. The total amount was ninety
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: one seventy and the kid was nice enough. He was
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: so sweet, it was nice enough to include a sixteen
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: dollar tip for the door Dash driver. The two year
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: old kid, he's gonna be big. Don't he eat Aldenburgers?
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: Now he can't eat Aldenburger delicious. I'm talking about the
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: whoop and argued for order sixteen dollars tip. Right, I'd
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: be vegan after that. After I'll be vegan. Yeah. Just
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: the genius of this two year old to do that,
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: I mean the order from door Dash, leave a tip
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah, pretty genius. All right, We'll have
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a round
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this. You're listening to
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for a round
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather have a goal
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: too in the front of your mouth or would you
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: rather have a missing tooth in the front which one
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: gold or just blind? You had to go and give
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: it that goal I can't. I can't have a hole
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: in my head. Open open face too. Yeah, I had
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: a gold too. I can explain the goal too. We
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: can get some jokes going that hole in your head, don't. Yeah,
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: go for the goal, Go for the Every time you talk,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: you whistle. You got a little spot understand. So what
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: you so? What you're thinking? At what? It's rough? It's rough?
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather take a vow of silence
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: or a vow of celibacy? I think we know the
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: answer to silence? Wait a minute, for how long? I guess,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: just for however long? Just period? We just quiet, say
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: a year. We'll say a year. How about that? Take
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: about silence for a year? Come out some much notebook
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: paper and a pin. I'm gonna be write down so
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: much stuff. I'm gonna do a lot of texting. I'm
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: gonna text your answer. Man, I'm gonna be I'm gonna
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: be celibate for a year. Yeah, okay, what ye I'm
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: gonna do? Yes, sir read, Yes, sir read. I got
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: way too much I got to talk about. Damn. You
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: can't well your show life. You can't do dog, it's
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: nowhere in here. I'm gonna be quiet for a year,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: not a mess up your money on these checks on
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: the table to trying to so we have some sex, man, quiet,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: cut these movies on getting the room, cut that light out.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: I'll be fun. I'll be talking again for a year,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather have a partner that just
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: knows everything? Or would you rather have an unintelligent partner?
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: Which one? Oh? What d Yeah? Yeah, yeah he wants
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: somebody with low self can bill up. Yeah, I'm just
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: had to explain her everywhere we go, shirty, I'm just
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: gonna have to explain her. Well, I'm just gonna say
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: it on behalf of myself and Tommy and every other
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: married man. If you have a wife you already married
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: to somebody think they know everything? Notice we notice we
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: didn't answer. Notice we didn't answer. Did already live with
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: a woman that thinks she knows every damn thing? Got
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: the answer for everything? But what did I say? Though?
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: I heard you say you was wrong about that too. Oh,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: but we gonna do it though, jazz for peace? Your
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: piece is important. That's right, all right, guys, that's today's
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Thank you? Thank you? Thank you?
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: Coming up? It is our last break of the day
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: of the week as a matter of fact, and we'll
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to show. Here we are, guys,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Friday. It's
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: been a week, but we got through it, thank the
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: good Lord. A long week. Yeah, it's been a week.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: It has it really has a lot that's been going on.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: But birthday, boy, it was your birthday this week. It's
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: really gonna know. And he celebrated tank tops trim this
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: room with his shoulders out. That means a little bit.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: The ladies are all covered up and yeah, we all
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: he got his shoulders out, little strap showing it stuff.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: That's just that's just the first strait you grabbed. That's all.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: That's put some on and go to work. When when
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: you come to zoom work, you just grab whatever over
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: the Hey, this is me zoom work, all right, guys.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: Any questions on the way out to Steve, I was thinking, um,
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: you have any advice, you know, based on our clo
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: questions earlier. Uh, these young women, um, some of them,
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: especially the single ones, they're kind of struggling, you know,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: meeting good men good guys. Any advice to single women,
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: young single women about where to meet how to meet
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: young single men, And there is no advice about that
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: because you don't know where. There's no place you can
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: go and meet guys your soul mating all like this.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: Here's the problem today that I found discussing with women.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: The problem is women keep telling me the same thing, Steve,
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: you don't understand. This is how men are today. All
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: these young men talk this way, act this way, and
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: treat us this way. Okay, cool, all right, let's accept
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: that that's the statement. Let's accept that that's the truth.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: What's the counter to that. The counter to that, young ladies,
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  Speaker 1: is you don't have to accept any of that behavior,
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  Speaker 1: and you should not accept or reward bad behavior to yourself.
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  Speaker 1: If a guy like like you know, I mean, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like earlier when you played that thing where that guy
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  Speaker 1: had took that girl out to dinner I mean lunch
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  Speaker 1: or whatever and then wanted to take her home and
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  Speaker 1: then she said she wasn't going home, and he said,
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  Speaker 1: well you can walk home, and she said, are you
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  Speaker 1: kidding me? And he said, well, I'll spent the whole
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  Speaker 1: day with you. And obviously I'm attracted to you, and
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  Speaker 1: if you don't want to go home, and you can
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  Speaker 1: go home, I ain't burning no gas taking you home.
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  Speaker 1: That's what's out there today. But the counter to that
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  Speaker 1: is you don't have to accept that because a man
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  Speaker 1: will treat you as you demand. If you demand to
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  Speaker 1: be treated the right way, a man will do that.
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  Speaker 1: If he refuses to do that, move on. So stop right,
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  Speaker 1: stop the feeling that this is how men are. So what?
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, don't you think there's a certain
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  Speaker 1: amount of pressure on single women to have a man,
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  Speaker 1: to get married, you know, And that's to me what
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  Speaker 1: causes them sometimes to act desperate, you know, and all
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  Speaker 1: of that, because yeah, you know they right, they settle
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  Speaker 1: for guys you know that are beneath them or or
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  Speaker 1: and they know they could do much better, guys that
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  Speaker 1: they don't deserve that don't treat them. Well. Okay, then
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  Speaker 1: if that's the case, let me ask you something. So
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  Speaker 1: you want to sign up for a lifetime with this
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  Speaker 1: behavior in your act of desperation and wanting so desperately
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  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship, to have a family, to
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  Speaker 1: be married, You're going to accept what this man puts
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  Speaker 1: down and offers to you and you want to make
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  Speaker 1: a lifetime commitment to that. I don't think so. No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think so. You who signs up for misery
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  Speaker 1: knowing it's going to be miserable if you're in a
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  Speaker 1: relationship that's not good or healthy for you right now?
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  Speaker 1: Getting married ain't gonna change that right right? But you know,
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  Speaker 1: some some some women have a thing. You know, I'll
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  Speaker 1: get mister right now. He might not be mister Wright,
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: but he's mister right now, and you know and all
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: of that, I mean, you know it's problem. The problem
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  Speaker 1: with mister right now is Tomorrow's coming. So now what
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: he gonna be then? Because tomorrow comes, So he might
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: be mister right now, but tomorrow when he get here,
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: what what he fitting to be? You know? I mean
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: I hate to just sound so matter of fact. Or
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: you sixty five years of wisdom and common sense, but
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: you don't get it unless somebody gives it to you.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: And I'm sorry it's not the way you think because
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: you're thirty and you don't have the years or experience
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: that I have. But unless someone tells you the truth,
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: how do you know the truth? Now? The only other
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: way is to go through the experiences yourself and discover
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: the truth. But if somebody could tell you instead of
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: you having to experience it, don't that make better sense
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  Speaker 1: to you? Don't touch that Carolin I, and it's hot, Okay,
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: So you don't want to do that, so you want
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: to grab the Carolin I. Now guess why. Now you
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: know it's hot. So what I just try to do
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: is offered to women, and hopefully you accept it. Now
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: listen to me. It's difficult explaining these ways that men
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  Speaker 1: are to women. So sometimes you got to hit your
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: head up against the wall. Yeah, now I'll tell it
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: to you. You ain't gotta believe me, But I do
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  Speaker 1: know men, and you can go about it another way.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: And I really feel for women like that. But my
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: suggestion in closing for women is up your standards, do
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: not lower your standards. Do not accept and reward bad behavior.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: You deserve better. You can get better. And I got
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: news for you that is better period to hell with
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: hell right, yes, And that mistreatment of you as a
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: human being, you ain't got to do that. I'd rather
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: be by myself unhappy than with somebody else in miserable.
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks today. Talk to God today, y'all.
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