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Diddy VS Cassie, Church Complaints, FREE Turkey Giveaway, Snoop Quits and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what's y'all don't know y'all at all, So.
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  Speaker 3: Don't given them.
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  Speaker 4: A bu busy.
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  Speaker 1: Sea listening to.
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  Speaker 4: Show to.
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  Speaker 3: Don't joy yeah Joy?
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  Speaker 5: Do you know you.
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  Speaker 6: Know you gotta turn.
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  Speaker 3: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got
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  Speaker 3: to turn the mouth.
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  Speaker 4: Turn out a wad of the monypo look me.
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  Speaker 1: Come come out your.
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  Speaker 7: Ah h, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You all
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  Speaker 7: listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One
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  Speaker 7: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Hell Man
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  Speaker 7: back in business too, Man, Man, how good is God?
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  Speaker 7: I mean, really, if you think about it in spite
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  Speaker 7: of all that's going down in your life. First of all,
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  Speaker 7: it could be worse. But secondly, sometimes you have to remember.
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  Speaker 7: And I've just had to have this conversation with myself
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  Speaker 7: this morning. That's how I'm fresh on this one right here.
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  Speaker 7: When a challenge faces you, are you going through a
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  Speaker 7: difficult moment, or you didn't hit a bump in the
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  Speaker 7: road in the middle of that, If you could manage
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  Speaker 7: to be grateful, it would take you a long way.
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  Speaker 1: Gratitude is a powerful resource.
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  Speaker 5: If you can be grateful in the middle of it,
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  Speaker 5: gratitude is a powerful resource when it's dim for you.
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  Speaker 1: And got a little bumpy on the road, and he
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  Speaker 1: ran into some obstacles.
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  Speaker 5: And you done ran up into some detooled signs, and
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  Speaker 5: your journey ain't smooth as it was last week or
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  Speaker 5: last year. You gotta be grateful for the things that
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  Speaker 5: are going right and that have gone right, and for
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  Speaker 5: the thing that's wrong right now to get right?
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  Speaker 1: Man? Can I share that with you? Man? Is that
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  Speaker 1: a tough one to learn? It is for me.
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  Speaker 5: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to
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  Speaker 5: learn how to be grateful because it's a powerful resource,
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  Speaker 5: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when
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  Speaker 5: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make.
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  Speaker 5: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on
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  Speaker 5: the wrong so much in an attempt to fix it.
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  Speaker 5: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it.
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  Speaker 5: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad, man, I can't
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  Speaker 5: believe this is happening. Why just keep going down? That
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  Speaker 5: doesn't fix anything? You know, mealing over it, going over
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  Speaker 5: what's wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends, you know,
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  Speaker 5: making it sound worse than it is. Tell the story
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  Speaker 5: for pity from other people. All of that right there,
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  Speaker 5: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just
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  Speaker 5: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just
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  Speaker 5: making it a bigger problem. You're manifesting it into your atmosphere,
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  Speaker 5: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now, all
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  Speaker 5: of a sudden, it consumes your day. Next thing, you know,
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  Speaker 5: you're having a bad day. If you're having a bad day,
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  Speaker 5: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what
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  Speaker 5: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm
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  Speaker 5: working on this morning is I'm working on the situation
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  Speaker 5: that Ben cropped up.
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  Speaker 1: I was going kind of smooth here for a minute,
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  Speaker 1: and now then got real bumpy in the road, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and all this here.
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  Speaker 5: So what I'm thinking about now, though, is even though
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  Speaker 5: I've hit a bump in the road, and even though
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  Speaker 5: i done ran into a detour, and even though I've
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  Speaker 5: hit this lull, I'm going down into a valley, I
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  Speaker 5: ain't up on the peak. Can I not still be
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  Speaker 5: grateful for all the things that God has given me,
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  Speaker 5: for all the things He's done for me, for all
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  Speaker 5: the things He's bought me through, And realizing that even
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  Speaker 5: this that's happening to me again is going to pass
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  Speaker 5: to He gonna get me through that too. Come on, man,
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  Speaker 5: God is a good god man. It's a lot to
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  Speaker 5: be grateful for. So while I'm tripping on this bumping
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  Speaker 5: the road out in here, what I got to remember
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  Speaker 5: is all the things He's done for me. And like
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  Speaker 5: I say, my saying is join depression cannot reside in
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  Speaker 5: the same place. So instead of being down about this
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  Speaker 5: new bumping the road, if I'm constantly filling my mind
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  Speaker 5: with the thoughts of how good he's been to me,
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  Speaker 5: of what all he's done for me, of all the
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  Speaker 5: things he's brought me through, of all the blessings he's
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  Speaker 5: presented me with, when I go down that lie, I
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  Speaker 5: really don't have a lot of time to mull over
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  Speaker 5: the situation.
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  Speaker 1: Now. Do I have to fix this bump in the roll?
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  Speaker 1: Of course I do.
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  Speaker 5: Are There's some things I'm going to have to do
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  Speaker 5: to straighten it out, of course it is. But Steve
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  Speaker 5: just going to get the business of doing it and
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  Speaker 5: straighten it out. What you mulling over and worrying about
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  Speaker 5: it for you know, old people. I heard old people
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  Speaker 5: say something when I was growing up in the church,
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  Speaker 5: they say, if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry
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  Speaker 5: about it. But if you're gonna worry about it, don't
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  Speaker 5: pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer just
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  Speaker 5: happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, it ain't
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  Speaker 5: always been that way. I want you to understand that
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  Speaker 5: My first weapon of choice was you do it to me,
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  Speaker 5: I do it to you. You called me out, I
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  Speaker 5: call you out. You say something bad about me. I've
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  Speaker 5: tried to find you say something bad about you. That
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  Speaker 5: was my weapon in the past. How did that work
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  Speaker 5: out for you, Steve?
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  Speaker 4: Not so good?
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  Speaker 5: Because you know what, I spent a lot of time
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  Speaker 5: fighting back, kicking back, swinging back, when I could have
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  Speaker 5: spent all that time climbing. See, all you trying to
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  Speaker 5: do at the end of the day, folks, is have
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  Speaker 5: a better life than the one you got. All you
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  Speaker 5: trying to do is to improve your position in life.
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  Speaker 5: You know, it's not my business to make sure you
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  Speaker 5: don't get where you going. I ain't got no time
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  Speaker 5: for that. It's not my job to assure that you
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  Speaker 5: ain't as high as me. I ain't got no time
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  Speaker 5: for that. Your real mission and purpose is to have
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  Speaker 5: the best life that you can have, to ascend to
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  Speaker 5: the highest plateau that you can get to, to make
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  Speaker 5: your family as comfortable as you can, to provide as.
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  Speaker 1: Much as you can for your family. But legally, see,
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  Speaker 1: those of us are sitting up here trying to come
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  Speaker 1: up with sideways.
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  Speaker 5: You can ask a couple million men sitting in prison
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  Speaker 5: today how they wish they hadn't have done that, and
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  Speaker 5: they'll tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never had
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  Speaker 5: did it. I knew not to go down there. Something
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  Speaker 5: told me not to go down there. Man, if I
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  Speaker 5: could change things, I would.
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  Speaker 1: But they sitting.
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  Speaker 5: Somewhere doing some time that had they made another decision
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  Speaker 5: they wouldn't have to do now that don't make them
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  Speaker 5: throw away people, nah, man, Because everybody make mistakes, and
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  Speaker 5: God is in the forgiving business. And some of us
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  Speaker 5: have done some things that really broke the law, and
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  Speaker 5: a whole lot of other things and deserve to do
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  Speaker 5: some time. But through the grace of God, we didn't.
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  Speaker 5: But now we sit up here we pass judgment on
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  Speaker 5: people who got to do some Now I don't care.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care what you've done. God can forgive anything,
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  Speaker 5: but our position. Our motivation in life is to try
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  Speaker 5: to have the best life we can have and provide
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  Speaker 5: for those around us and make it comfortable. If that's
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  Speaker 5: your ambition, you don't have time to worry about or
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  Speaker 5: concern yourself with another person. And I wasted time doing that,
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  Speaker 5: And that's not the way to get it done. It's
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  Speaker 5: simply mine to your business. Taking care of you and
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  Speaker 5: getting yourself right and tight is twenty four saves it.
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  Speaker 5: So that's a full time job. So what I had
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  Speaker 5: to learn was and what I've the reason I've chosen
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  Speaker 5: prayers as my weapon of choice now is that now
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  Speaker 5: prayer helps me that I don't have to fight back. Now,
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  Speaker 5: if I get cornered, I'm gonna fight you. I ain't
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  Speaker 5: even gonna lie to you. And now I'm still working
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  Speaker 5: on some things that trigger me. You know, you know,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and and and and so I'm I'm slowly
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  Speaker 5: getting better at that. But I've learned that my weapon
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  Speaker 5: of choice is prayer now. So when it happens ugly
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  Speaker 5: for me, I pray about it. When it gets tight
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  Speaker 5: and dismal for me, I pray about it. And the
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  Speaker 5: thing about prayer, man, is prayer changes things.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it does.
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  Speaker 5: Now read about it and try it. That's the deal, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: come on, Prayer is a wonderful weapon.
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  Speaker 1: Morning show, ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 4: All I tell you is.
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  Speaker 1: He did it again.
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  Speaker 5: That's all I got for that God, God something else. Man,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if you realize he's the greatest of
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  Speaker 5: all time. Ain't nobody like him? He's that ain't even words,
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  Speaker 5: there's not even words to describe his majesty. It's he
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  Speaker 5: all over there. Man, you don't think about this. I'm
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  Speaker 5: so glad I know him though. That's the part that
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  Speaker 5: amazes me. I am so glad that I know my
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  Speaker 5: God to be who he is for me, now how
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  Speaker 5: he is for you. That may be your favorite, but
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you know that might be your buses. But
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  Speaker 5: can I tell you something about me and God? I
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  Speaker 5: already know I am one of his favorites. Now listen
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  Speaker 5: to me before you start stumbling all over your self.
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  Speaker 5: Won why you got to be the favorite? You can
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  Speaker 5: be his too, Yes you can. He had billions of favorites.
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  Speaker 5: If you want to be, He's capable of that.
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  Speaker 1: You know. He ain't like me like you know, like
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  Speaker 1: I have a favorite child. I just do that's all
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  Speaker 1: to it. And I ain't got fixed out.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't gotta tell that to you, you know, and
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  Speaker 5: they't know who they are too, because when they come
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  Speaker 5: up to me, it just depends on what day it is.
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  Speaker 5: I have a favorite child, but God has a lot
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  Speaker 5: of favorite child and you can get to be one
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  Speaker 5: good thing, ain't the Lord? Yea, that took a turn,
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  Speaker 5: didn't it. Welcome to the Steve Halling Body Show.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah about right now?
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  Speaker 3: I had a real.
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  Speaker 5: Godly and then just a real black moment all at
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  Speaker 5: the same time. Why did he have to say he
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  Speaker 5: had a favorite child? Share the strawberry call it for real,
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  Speaker 5: Mississippi Monica Junior, the real name Killer one Space and
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  Speaker 5: the legend that is Nephew Thomas Jr.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 9: Black man, just blackack main. I take pride in that
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  Speaker 9: your favorite can tell you something. One of my favorite
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  Speaker 9: things I've ever done was to be black.
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  Speaker 5: I thank God for that a lot of times because
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  Speaker 5: being black has given me an experience with some stuff
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  Speaker 5: in it that I know other people can't have, and
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  Speaker 5: I've dealt with it and that ain't all been good.
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  Speaker 1: But boy, who is sure he is cool to be
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  Speaker 1: black though. What coolest though.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody knows that.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody dancing dancing good on beat everything.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't even got try hard, I know the down
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  Speaker 1: beat automatic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we speak to other black people that make it good.
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  Speaker 5: No know how to speak without saying the word. Watch
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  Speaker 5: his here, look at as long as watch his Hell Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: everybody good with that?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, words and.
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  Speaker 10: No black people, we can have a whole conversation with ya.
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  Speaker 4: Talking with one.
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  Speaker 5: Anyword with one any rod is the ultimate warning from
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  Speaker 5: black people.
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  Speaker 4: I know you're right right there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, ultimate warning.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, understand that.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Another thing we do is back folks.
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  Speaker 4: We wanted each other, but we in rooms with other people.
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  Speaker 4: Just a look, gies, some go down.
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  Speaker 1: You know what to do here?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 1: He go right here? You get the other black head
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  Speaker 1: like this right here?
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  Speaker 11: All right, guys, coming after thirty two minutes after the.
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  Speaker 12: Hour, we'll hear from Reverend Motown and Deacon death Jam
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  Speaker 12: and church complaints right after this.
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  Speaker 8: You're listening hard morning show.
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  Speaker 12: All right, It is time now for church complaints with
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  Speaker 12: Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam.
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  Speaker 5: We gavel Hill this morning on a very very augarious day,
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  Speaker 5: realizing that Deacon probably gonna get into some subject matter
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  Speaker 5: that is of the deepest departy of deprivation.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm not.
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  Speaker 5: Gonna bother you with my normal elongated introduction. Are Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I will allow him full a continent of time, the
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  Speaker 5: full continent of time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Someone once told me, Pastor, that's full compliment. I said, well,
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  Speaker 5: supposed he not compliment anyone? Why is we saying that? Lord,
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  Speaker 5: let us gather this morning, Brother Deacon Jerry death jam
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  Speaker 5: go ahead this morning.
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  Speaker 9: I Pastor, Our sister Davis relap her. Some elite gave
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  Speaker 9: her a birthday party with a bunch of gifts. All
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  Speaker 9: the gifts have security detect us on them. And when
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  Speaker 9: she went to the mill, she keeps beeping every time
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  Speaker 9: she goes in and out these store. She's asking if
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  Speaker 9: anybody who had a dog pass knows how to get
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  Speaker 9: these things off of her clothes.
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  Speaker 5: That hen about her brother Rao has or the little
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  Speaker 5: or device at his house.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, take it off. He charges twelve dollars to remove
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  Speaker 1: for a minimum three items. Put that out there, Go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: Our pass.
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  Speaker 9: We got an insan sister Deniece Journey again is in
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  Speaker 9: jail for fighting over the last can a cranberry sauce
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  Speaker 9: in the grocery store. Bill is five hundred dollars. He's
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  Speaker 9: asking us to please hurry up so she can start
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  Speaker 9: her dressing. But yeah, and we're gonna pay the five
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  Speaker 9: hundred for this. Hell we are that girl aggressing is
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  Speaker 9: lord out of the wild, and uh, she brings somebody
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  Speaker 9: every year. So we're gonna take five hundred out to
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  Speaker 9: jackpot Joint and go on and get her or free.
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  Speaker 9: What's uh, We're gonna call it the f F T
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  Speaker 9: Fund if you don't mind. Yeah, the f F fund
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  Speaker 9: that's free for Thanksgiving. Okay, they're gonna make that deposit our.
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  Speaker 4: Ok we are a serious situation.
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  Speaker 1: I just got this car this morning.
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  Speaker 9: My brother Exadia Thompson was supposed to drop turkeys off
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  Speaker 9: at the church this morning for the turkey drive.
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  Speaker 1: Now he dropped off fifty turkeys and that's still mount
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  Speaker 1: it was supposed to be.
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  Speaker 9: But Pastor, the turkeys are alive and they running all
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  Speaker 9: around the through the back of the kitchen of the church, all.
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  Speaker 1: Around the church. How do you want to handle this?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 5: Also, I must refer you to Brother Rauloh. Brother Rauloh
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  Speaker 5: has a turkey killing service.
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  Speaker 1: He has a turkey killing service and that too is
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  Speaker 1: twelve dollars.
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  Speaker 5: So while you getting your safety theft tags taking off
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  Speaker 5: your clothes, also get your turkey killed over there he
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  Speaker 5: got everything. Praise God for brother. That's the t k
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  Speaker 5: S fund we have. That's turkey killing service. All the
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  Speaker 5: jack parties.
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  Speaker 1: Loaded with jewels.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't know that this person joined church recently. They
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  Speaker 9: joined by I guess they joined by email. But he's
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  Speaker 9: asking for some help he did. It is asking if
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  Speaker 9: we can pray for him. All these people are lying
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  Speaker 9: on him at the same time, and he wants us
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  Speaker 9: to pray for him. Though that's not you don't I
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  Speaker 9: don't know what to do. Uh, new members like this here?
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  Speaker 9: So I have well, we we are church and we
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  Speaker 9: have to pray for the down trodden. But do know
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  Speaker 9: his ties this month will be thirty thousand. That's us man,
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  Speaker 9: I'm sorry, three hundred.
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  Speaker 3: Three.
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  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, whoa I'm going to hold up? We
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  Speaker 1: need three million.
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  Speaker 5: Tell brother Puffy that his tithes this month is three
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  Speaker 5: million dollars before we offer up a prayer, all prayer,
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  Speaker 5: because that's what that's the from the AP committee. You
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  Speaker 5: get sent over to the AP committee. Once you make
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  Speaker 5: a re quest for prayer until you are caught up
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  Speaker 5: on your ties and in line with our bylaws of
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  Speaker 5: our church at the jp JJ, the AP committee will
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  Speaker 5: not help you. And for those of you that are
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  Speaker 5: trying to figure out what is AP, until you are
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  Speaker 5: tied credit worthy, we not saying ah prayer a.
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  Speaker 1: Not a prayer.
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  Speaker 5: Shout out to Deacon fifty for always being on the
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  Speaker 5: internet in such a time where I was either thought
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  Speaker 5: of our One of our reporters here at the church
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  Speaker 5: day Question stays up on the salacious Gossip came in
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  Speaker 5: and reported that after the settlement, Deacon fifty posted that
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  Speaker 5: was quick.
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  Speaker 1: Let me get this one as to add, because this
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  Speaker 1: is a.
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  Speaker 9: Serious Sister Strawberry, who can't cook, is asking if someone
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  Speaker 9: can bring her plate on Thursday around noon, but everyone
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  Speaker 9: would be busy. What can we do to help our pastor?
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  Speaker 9: I don't really know what this church.
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  Speaker 5: You know, we're also uh, Sister Shirley normally takes food
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  Speaker 5: from our.
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  Speaker 9: Service kitchen. You know, we give weight, we feed the
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  Speaker 9: homeless and shelter down in the basement.
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  Speaker 4: Sister SHERYLA Wiels, Oh, look at the time we.
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  Speaker 5: Have to go with you, Sister Shirley, you are invited
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  Speaker 5: back to the Homeless Shelter Dinner.
• 20:46
  Speaker 11: Coming up next as the CELO Chief Love Officers.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: You're listening.
• 20:53
  Speaker 12: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 20:56
  Speaker 12: and entertainment news. After being sued for thirty million dollars
• 21:00
  Speaker 12: ex Cassie Ventura, Dinny has settled the suit for an
• 21:04
  Speaker 12: undisclosed amount Snoop Dogg as everyone worried after he said
• 21:09
  Speaker 12: he stopped smoking weed and Kanye and his wife put
• 21:12
  Speaker 12: their marriage on pause. Allegedly that's all coming up at
• 21:16
  Speaker 12: the top of the hour, but right now it is
• 21:18
  Speaker 12: time the CLO. Yeah, he just got married almost a year,
• 21:24
  Speaker 12: not even quite a year. Yeah, we're moving on now
• 21:27
  Speaker 12: to ask the CLO. This is from Leandra in Atlantic City.
• 21:32
  Speaker 12: Leandra writes, I'm married to a beautiful woman, but she
• 21:36
  Speaker 12: got the worst attitude. She's got the worst attitude. I
• 21:40
  Speaker 12: heard her telling her mom that she hates going to
• 21:42
  Speaker 12: my family's house for Thanksgiving. Since she hates it so much,
• 21:45
  Speaker 12: should I plan to go but not invite her this year?
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  Speaker 8: Leandra?
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  Speaker 13: Leandre Leandre Sia, Well, bro, that's a horbecause I don't
• 21:58
  Speaker 13: really you know, you say she's a one beautiful woman,
• 22:01
  Speaker 13: but she has horrible personality.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I don't know that everybody has to like
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: your family. I'm pretty sure you love them, but it's
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: some people in your family that ain't really likable.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. And I think she's right about that.
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: And because if somebody in everybody family, so you know,
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: should you uninvite her? Yeah, you can do that and
• 22:26
  Speaker 5: she might be okay with it, you know, because usually,
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: especially in a marriage, you know, there's always this whose.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: House we going over?
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: Especially when both y'all got families involved, by parents still living,
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: y'all might be debating on whose house we're gonna go
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: over this Thanksgiving, and she just has a better time
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: in her family. You know, they might all be stuck
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: up in bushy with a bad attitude on her side,
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: and that's what she's comfortable with. But you know, everybody
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: don't want to each of them in Adelle's they an
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: of beating castle.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: All right, So I don't, I don't. I can't help
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: you with that one, Bruh, don't uninvited.
• 23:07
  Speaker 9: Just tell her it's an option for her to go
• 23:09
  Speaker 9: and out and see which option she picked picks and
• 23:12
  Speaker 9: if she stay hold washing football game.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: She can't stay in your.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 23:19
  Speaker 12: Moving on to Blaine in Columbia, Blaine says, my husband
• 23:22
  Speaker 12: was in the bathroom talking on the phone when he
• 23:25
  Speaker 12: was supposed to be taking a shower. He was giggling
• 23:28
  Speaker 12: and I heard mumbling. He lied and said he was
• 23:31
  Speaker 12: rapping in the shower. If that's true, why did his
• 23:33
  Speaker 12: phone have soap all over it?
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: He was.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: On his phone.
• 23:42
  Speaker 8: Yeah, he was free stylid.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was recording it.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: He was talking.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, Okay, you had to say that he
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: was recording it.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Sitting and showing up soaking wet.
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: My girl at the door, trying to get a checked,
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: but I ain't gonna let her hear me, going to
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: keep it quiet. Everybody knows, I'm just a living ride.
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: I got money over here. I got cars in the driveway.
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: Everybody knows. Look at her trying to hear what I say.
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: And then that's it right there. It's like I want
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: to say something to about people who freestyle, the respect
• 24:14
  Speaker 5: that I have for freestyle rappers. When I saw these
• 24:17
  Speaker 5: podcasts and stuff and they were just going off the
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: top of the dome. There's some them dudes right there legit.
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: Because I get.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Tired a rhyme and after the third line, yeah, thank too,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: far ahead. I don't like that. Go ahead.
• 24:35
  Speaker 12: Moving on to Canetra and Reno. Canetra says, my boyfriend
• 24:39
  Speaker 12: and I were in the liquor story and another guy
• 24:42
  Speaker 12: winked at me. I told my boyfriend and he spoke
• 24:45
  Speaker 12: to the guy and we left. I asked why he
• 24:47
  Speaker 12: gave the guy a pass, and he said it was
• 24:50
  Speaker 12: best to walk away.
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: Why didn't he tell the guy I am his girl?
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, he said something to the guy. You
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. That's all it is.
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: That's all he winked. He didn't touch you. You know,
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: he didn't disrespect you. The disrespect was towards him. He
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: winked at you.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: You told the guy.
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: He went up to the guy and said something to
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: the guy, what you want him to do? Because this
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: can escalate into something really, really bad. And as a woman,
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: you gotta be careful what you set your man up for.
• 25:23
  Speaker 10: You know.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: Look and really like if the dude winked at the dude,
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: if the guy winked at you, you should have let
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: that go to y'all got in the car, because you
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: could have walked your man into a real, real treacherous situation.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: And see, let me tell you something.
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: You gotta be a real grown woman about some of
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: this stuff now because you gotta protect your man. He
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: winked at me. What you're gonna do a boy? Now
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: he go over there and say something? Why aren't you
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: telling him I was your girl?
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: What what I mean?
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: Couldn't he figure that out about him going over there
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: to speak.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: To your damn if he go over that tend dude you, Yeah,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: that's right.
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: He might have went and said, hey, man, hold up,
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: hold up, just she wouldn't meet and and and let
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: it be going on.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: But it it is best to walk away over whole week.
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: Maybe that's wrong. I get shot over somebody winking at you. Yeah,
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: if you got a girl, don't nobody want to wink
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: out a flirt with what you would?
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: A fuck?
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: You better tell the truth up in here, Steve Harvey.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: C l But that right there, man, Stop setting your
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: man up for danger because me and out here are different.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Man. Just let that go. You should.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: I would never when we was in liquors to it.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: This guy winked to me, Why did you say something here?
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: Because I know you're crazy?
• 26:33
  Speaker 12: All right, we're last one, Steve, We're moving on to
• 26:36
  Speaker 12: Vicki and Memphis. Vicky says, I'm a sixty two year
• 26:39
  Speaker 12: old single woman with eleven kids.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: I had eight and raised three.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Read just read it again for me so I can understand.
• 26:49
  Speaker 12: I'm a sixty two year old single woman with eleven kids. Okay,
• 26:54
  Speaker 12: I had eight and raised three of my sister's kids.
• 26:59
  Speaker 12: My boyfriend and is sixty, and he doesn't have children
• 27:03
  Speaker 12: and said he doesn't like children. He knows I have
• 27:06
  Speaker 12: a big family. So why is he pursuing a relationship
• 27:10
  Speaker 12: with me?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he just want you.
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: He don't want them kids though, Yes, all this is Hey,
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: I'm old, I'm sixty, I want you.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I don't like kids. I ain't never had none. I
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: don't like them.
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: You got eleven kids. I can tell you the fact
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: that somebody talking to you is a halloween He praised
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: the Lord moment.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: So why is he trying to pursue a relationship with her?
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Why he not trying to pursue a relationship with you?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: He just won't you.
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: See you see you think it's a relationship. He just
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: trying to holler at you. Now he'd already made clip
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: listen to me when a man tell you that, when
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: he know you got eleven kids, and first word out here,
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: marm I don't like kid he letting you know. I'm
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: just trying to holler at you. I ain't gonna be here.
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: I don't want to go on no family outums. Damn sure,
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: don't want to help pay for nothing. You got eleven kids?
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: Stop telling people that, she says, she too. Stop saying
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: eleven though. That's just too damn that's too.
• 28:29
  Speaker 9: But eleven. You know we signed you got five kids.
• 28:34
  Speaker 9: We signed up for that eleven. I'm gonna makes it hard,
• 28:41
  Speaker 9: all right, I got eleven kids. You can't say to nobody.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: Grown she's sixty two coming up in the top of
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: the hour. Thank you, c l ot I.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Put that on your dating profile. I can't.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Need a table for thirteen praise.
• 29:00
  Speaker 8: You're listening morning show.
• 29:05
  Speaker 10: A.
• 29:06
  Speaker 12: Last Thursday, Cassandra Cassie Ventura filed a thirty five page,
• 29:11
  Speaker 12: thirty million dollar lawsuit.
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: In the lawsuit, she accused.
• 29:15
  Speaker 12: Sean Ditty Combs of numerous crimes, including domestic abuse, rape, sex, trafficking,
• 29:21
  Speaker 12: and forcing a drug induced lifestyle on her. According to
• 29:25
  Speaker 12: the lawsuit, Cassie and Ditty began dating when she was
• 29:27
  Speaker 12: nineteen and Ditty was thirty seven years old. This was
• 29:31
  Speaker 12: a year after Cassie was signed to a ten album
• 29:34
  Speaker 12: deal with bad Boy Records, and after a ten year
• 29:38
  Speaker 12: allegedly abusive relationship, Cassie and Ditty broke up for good
• 29:42
  Speaker 12: in twenty eighteen.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Ditty's attorney stated that Ditty.
• 29:45
  Speaker 12: Did vehemently deny Cassie's allegations and noted that she had
• 29:49
  Speaker 12: previously demanded thirty million from Ditty by threatening to write
• 29:54
  Speaker 12: a damaging book about their relationship. Now, on Friday, Cassie
• 29:58
  Speaker 12: and Ditty settle the thirty million and dollar lawsuit for
• 30:01
  Speaker 12: an undisclosed amount. The terms of the settlement are confidential. Afterwards,
• 30:05
  Speaker 12: Diddy's attorney released a statement noting that the settlement does
• 30:10
  Speaker 12: not equate to an admission of guilt by Ditty. There
• 30:15
  Speaker 12: are thirty five pages of the lawsuit, and Cassie details
• 30:18
  Speaker 12: the alleged abuse she endured over the decade that she
• 30:21
  Speaker 12: was dating Didty. There have been a lot of mixed
• 30:23
  Speaker 12: feelings on social media, with most of the commenters rejoicing
• 30:27
  Speaker 12: over Cassie's victory and others accusing Cassie of creating the
• 30:30
  Speaker 12: lawsuit just to get a big payday from Ditty.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: So what do you guys think?
• 30:36
  Speaker 10: Uh, I mean as a zone. I mean, she was
• 30:40
  Speaker 10: very young when she dated him, right, yeah, nineteen years old.
• 30:44
  Speaker 10: He's a very powerful person. He probably was manipulation going
• 30:49
  Speaker 10: on with that. She was young and easily influenced. And
• 30:53
  Speaker 10: if there was drugs and things like that involved and
• 30:57
  Speaker 10: sexual assault, she should have a big payday.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: She should suit him for what she went through.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: Cal It's so much stuff on social media. It's crazy.
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: It's so much stuff that's connected with Diddy that I'm
• 31:13
  Speaker 9: like that I had no earthly idea about. I mean,
• 31:15
  Speaker 9: it's just everywhere. It's like everybody's putting out what they've heard,
• 31:19
  Speaker 9: what they've seen from back in the day. It's all
• 31:22
  Speaker 9: just coming out.
• 31:25
  Speaker 12: And then you have the people that are upset with
• 31:27
  Speaker 12: Cassie that are saying, why is she take this long?
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: And all of that. Well, you know, I mean, who
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: can you? You can't determine?
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't like when people do
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: that too, because just just based on what she wrote.
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: Listen you it takes a long time to come out
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: and say half that stuff bout yourself. You got to
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: get over the shame of what happened. You got to
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: get past the feelings that you move on. I don't know,
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: you know, I don't know, so you.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: Know, but you can't.
• 32:02
  Speaker 5: It makes me sick when people get mad at the girl,
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: especially if something happened to the girl. Now, I know
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: plenty of people who have falsely acclaimed a lot of
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: people of stuff that never really happened. It happens all
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: the time, and it's a damn shame because when a
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: person comes out that has a legitimate claim, you always
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: throw that cast of doubt on it right there. But
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: I just this whole situation right here. A friend of
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: mine text me and said, man, how your day going.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: It's it's going on right now. It's going great. You
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: ain't diddy?
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: Oh wow, yeah, yeah, I went.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I guess my day is going great.
• 32:50
  Speaker 10: It just makes you wonder, you know, And I know
• 32:53
  Speaker 10: I'm not alone people. He's settled so fast, yeah, you know,
• 32:58
  Speaker 10: after am out with it. So it makes you think
• 33:02
  Speaker 10: that is you know, something you didn't do, like.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: That your way, you can let this go to court.
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: This this, This ain't gonna work out, man, See, especially
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: in the climate that we're in, you know what I mean.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: But it's it's just two parts of that too. And
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I do agree. But in the climate that we're in,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you this go to court? You can't this. This is
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: no win. Did you see what has happened just off
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: the lawsuit?
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: This is just.
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: Look and this is a civil lawsuit.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: But you know what what's crazy is this ain't no blog.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: This was on CNN. This they filed. This was court case.
• 33:48
  Speaker 8: Let's see that.
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: The blog is.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: This is this is a court case.
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: They're talking about evidence, incriminating evidence, and that that's the
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: major problem here, and settling is really the only option
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: he had. He had no other option. He can't win
• 34:11
  Speaker 5: this one because if this thirty five pages, yeah, thirty
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: five pages? Yeah broh, yeah, you know the witnesses that's
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: on thirty five pages? Yeah, Now you can't have no
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: counter witness to thirty five pages because who's gonna stand
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: up on your behalf? Because first of all, it ain't
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: a good look in this culture in time, the settlement
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: was all he could do.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: It was all he could do, is a settlement?
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Me do he do?
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: He still get to be called brother love, is what
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: I'm asking.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: That's a no, because we need to find a new
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: name for you. Change his name again.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I changed this. I hope his attorneys advised them to that.
• 35:01
  Speaker 5: Somebody asked me, they said, what do you think the
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: settlement was for? I said for thirty million and possibly more. Yeah,
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: because listen, let me tell you something that was no.
• 35:10
  Speaker 5: That was that was too quick for negotiating. Yeah, yeah, wow,
• 35:16
  Speaker 5: I negotiated a TV contract longer than that.
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: Judge, Yeah, come on, judge, Steve, I went away so fair.
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: Everybody was shocked at that.
• 35:33
  Speaker 12: The timing of it all, Yeah, all right, guys, coming
• 35:36
  Speaker 12: up in twenty minutes after the hour. Once again, this year,
• 35:39
  Speaker 12: the Steve Harvey Morning Show is giving away turkeys today
• 35:42
  Speaker 12: and tomorrow and select markets will tell you all about
• 35:45
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• 35:47
  Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 35:51
  Speaker 12: Well, we as a family here at the Steve Harvey
• 35:54
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• 35:57
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• 36:00
  Speaker 12: year we are providing close to get this number ten
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  Speaker 12: turkeys today and tomorrow. We want to shout out some
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  Speaker 5: Ninety two point three, Yes, damn Detroit. Favorite city, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I love nothing like I love going to Detroit.
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: It was one hundred and eleven miles from Cleveland, and
• 37:33
  Speaker 5: just Detroit was Cleveland and me wow. And then Detroit people, man,
• 37:38
  Speaker 5: they came out and they city slickers in Broadway and
• 37:43
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• 37:47
  Speaker 4: Detroit.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Detroit man always was special for me man that damn Detroit.
• 37:54
  Speaker 12: And tomorrow Carlo, you're gonna be in Birmingham with Hot
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  Speaker 12: Morning show, all right, ladies and gentlemen, She is here
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• 39:15
  Speaker 4: Love this Thanksgiving week.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Lifted me.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, it did, look.
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  Speaker 6: Live, did me?
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: Lifted me? Good morning?
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  Speaker 1: Everyone was good.
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: Everybody especially shout out to the truck driving and don't
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  Speaker 5: care for me.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: You have not forgotten every week. Every week you got
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: to send a shout out to him. You know, it
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: just goes to show you.
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: You know, if you're looking for people's approval, you might
• 40:06
  Speaker 5: not get it. My approval comes from that lowly am man. Jim,
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: you cannot realize that, you know. Just pray for your safety.
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: Keep your eyes on the road, sweetie, you be careful
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: out then. Now what's going on today?
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: Well, since old some really sad news.
• 40:25
  Speaker 12: Uh, former First Lady Rosalind Carter has passed away. She
• 40:30
  Speaker 12: was ninety six years old. Ah hello, yes lam, yes ma'am.
• 40:35
  Speaker 12: She died peacefully with her family by her side at
• 40:37
  Speaker 12: her home in planes Georgia. Now did you ever I
• 40:40
  Speaker 12: wanted to ask you, did you ever get to meet
• 40:43
  Speaker 12: President Carter and First Lady Roslynd.
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: Did you ever get to meet them?
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm I met them down in Georgia one time.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: We were shelling peanuts together.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Oh mm hm he and Jim. Okay, and I knew grandfather.
• 41:02
  Speaker 9: His name.
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: Another another n U T T E R. Another butter.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: That's where it got the name from. You know they
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: indepeanuts schedule, didn't I yeah, yes, yes, ma'am terrific CAUs
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: you nasty.
• 41:23
  Speaker 5: You need to get your ring on the Lord and
• 41:25
  Speaker 5: get it out the gun and said, I said no
• 41:27
  Speaker 5: that and everybody will wait.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I know you did, sweeting, but you ain't gonna worry
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: about me.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: I'm holy gonna feel wow, hear me there a little bit, I.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: Know I did.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: That's the powdery. That's power of the Lord.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: It shakey.
• 41:47
  Speaker 12: Okay, Well this is Thanksgiving week, we know, and so
• 41:51
  Speaker 12: what are your plans for the Thanksgiving holiday?
• 41:54
  Speaker 5: Oh Lord, I'm gonna have to stop at several revivals. Okay,
• 42:01
  Speaker 5: I'm going by h Centiia's house. My girl Sentia she
• 42:06
  Speaker 5: having Thanksgiving. We're gonna go down there and eat and
• 42:09
  Speaker 5: enjoy ourself.
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: She's having some mens is over this year.
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: Really, she sent some pictures to me, you know, on
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: the Facebook. You know, my kids put me on the Facebook,
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: and so I looked up to mends. I'm gonna be
• 42:23
  Speaker 5: late because I don't feel like pushing nobody up there,
• 42:26
  Speaker 5: ramp I told her to quit bringing these old dead
• 42:32
  Speaker 5: ass valley people there to meet me because I'm not
• 42:34
  Speaker 5: shoving nobody around.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Since oh there, don't get sued. I ain't.
• 42:38
  Speaker 5: I ain't dating you to help you. Lord, I am
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: not dating the man I got the white. I ain't
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: helping you wash back there.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: None of that.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: We're not finna do this.
• 42:56
  Speaker 12: Yes, ma'am Carlo, did you want to ask Sterdl's something
• 43:00
  Speaker 12: I forgot my question.
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: Definitely.
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: I'm not pushing it and I ain't wiping you. Now
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: we can go out after that.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: I was gonna say, well, what will you do, sister Odell?
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: You know, I help you with your prescriptions and things.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I go to get them.
• 43:21
  Speaker 9: I make all the phone calls, I cook for you,
• 43:24
  Speaker 9: you know, I take I make sure we get to
• 43:26
  Speaker 9: the doctor's appointments and everything.
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: That's nice.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Well, that's good.
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: That's helped U so he can have a nurse or
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: a caretaker for the rest.
• 43:36
  Speaker 8: Of the things.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Yea, all that there.
• 43:37
  Speaker 5: Just I'll tell you one thing what we can't do
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: is when we first start dating and we go down
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: there and that first doctor reported bad news, I'm gonna
• 43:44
  Speaker 5: do what the key is saying.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get.
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: Ghosts look up on the first Yeah, I see all
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: that coming. I ain't gonna be here for all that.
• 43:52
  Speaker 12: We just thank you, sister Odell. We want you to
• 43:55
  Speaker 12: have a happy Thanksgiving. Sure will, yes, ma'am come up next.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: And is the nephew with today's prank phone call?
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Right after.
• 44:05
  Speaker 12: You're listening hard Morning show coming up at about four
• 44:09
  Speaker 12: minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today
• 44:13
  Speaker 12: and the subject is body heat and smelly feet. We'll
• 44:17
  Speaker 12: get into that find out what that's all about in
• 44:19
  Speaker 12: just a few It's not what you think it is.
• 44:21
  Speaker 12: I can tell you that already, but it's something though.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: It's all.
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: Right now It is time for the nephew and today's
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: prank phone call. What you got for us?
• 44:32
  Speaker 9: And f this right here, Shirley is baby chick? Baby
• 44:36
  Speaker 9: y'all probably y'all ain't used to seeing nothing like that
• 44:38
  Speaker 9: baby chick?
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: You know know about that. Let's go, kat, We're gonna
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: drop it on a baby chick. Let's go.
• 44:44
  Speaker 10: Thank you.
• 44:45
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to reach warn.
• 44:49
  Speaker 9: This is war you call.
• 44:52
  Speaker 6: Are you the manager there? Yes, sir, your name Warren.
• 44:55
  Speaker 14: Yes, so this is one.
• 44:57
  Speaker 6: Okay, I need to actually file a lawsuit on y'all.
• 45:00
  Speaker 6: And I'm actually calling you first to let you know
• 45:02
  Speaker 6: that I'm getting ready to file a lawsuit on the
• 45:05
  Speaker 6: whole grocery store. Uh for what did happened to me? Sir?
• 45:09
  Speaker 14: Tom?
• 45:09
  Speaker 15: Let me let me get hold on a second.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: So let me do this.
• 45:13
  Speaker 15: Let me let me have what what did you say?
• 45:14
  Speaker 9: Your name was?
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: My name is Evans. Evans is my name?
• 45:19
  Speaker 15: So Evans is your last name? Let me let me
• 45:21
  Speaker 15: write this down.
• 45:22
  Speaker 14: And you came into my store? Did you have an
• 45:25
  Speaker 14: accident in my store or something?
• 45:26
  Speaker 15: I'm not You have to show what you're calling about.
• 45:28
  Speaker 6: I ain't had no accident. What happened was I came
• 45:31
  Speaker 6: in there yesterday and I bought a bunch of grocers
• 45:34
  Speaker 6: that I bought a card in the eggs right now.
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: When I got home, I was checking to make sure
• 45:40
  Speaker 6: the eggs didn't didn't break on the way home. When
• 45:42
  Speaker 6: I got home, it was a baby chick inside the
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: egg Caughton Man, one of the eggs had it had
• 45:48
  Speaker 6: hatch and got my kids traumatized. Now they don't even
• 45:52
  Speaker 6: want to eat breakfast or nothing around here. Because it's
• 45:54
  Speaker 6: the baby chick play inside caught the eggs. That don't
• 45:57
  Speaker 6: make no sense.
• 45:58
  Speaker 15: Man, I don't mean to let me so you tell
• 46:03
  Speaker 15: me it was a chicken, a baby chicken, actual chicken,
• 46:06
  Speaker 15: and a.
• 46:07
  Speaker 6: Baby chick inside the carton the eggs. Man, you got
• 46:11
  Speaker 6: my kids traumatized. Man, don't nobody want eggs if you're
• 46:14
  Speaker 6: just feel it.
• 46:15
  Speaker 14: Out here, Because if you're just calming up for one second, listen.
• 46:20
  Speaker 6: What I told y'all put that chicken down in there.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Put it down.
• 46:24
  Speaker 6: He might have Rayze say what.
• 46:27
  Speaker 14: I don't even think that that's possible.
• 46:29
  Speaker 15: First of all, if you had any idea how this
• 46:32
  Speaker 15: thing comes from the farm to the store, it is
• 46:35
  Speaker 15: they go over these eggs a countless some of the times.
• 46:38
  Speaker 14: And the temperton the phrazer, first of all, wouldn't even allow.
• 46:42
  Speaker 6: For a chicken to be alive if you had a baby.
• 46:45
  Speaker 6: I don't know this one. I don't know how this
• 46:49
  Speaker 6: one got tasked the system, okay, But what I do
• 46:52
  Speaker 6: know is we got a baby chick over here running
• 46:56
  Speaker 6: around because the odd sto ain't doing what you're supposed
• 46:59
  Speaker 6: to do. Man, and I got it, And no, my
• 47:01
  Speaker 6: kids are traumatized. Behind this When did you say you
• 47:04
  Speaker 6: in here? So I was in there yesterday. I bought
• 47:06
  Speaker 6: the eggs yesterday, man, and down here at amstring, Yes,
• 47:11
  Speaker 6: I bought them, I said the grocery stove. I sure did.
• 47:15
  Speaker 14: Okay, but do this.
• 47:16
  Speaker 15: Why don't you bring me eggs into me and the chick?
• 47:19
  Speaker 6: So now you want me to transport a baby chick
• 47:22
  Speaker 6: right to the grocery store. A look, we already traumatized
• 47:26
  Speaker 6: over here, already behind this dog on baby chick.
• 47:29
  Speaker 14: Man, I'm not exactly sure what you are trying to
• 47:33
  Speaker 14: pull here, but.
• 47:34
  Speaker 15: I just don't I don't think that.
• 47:37
  Speaker 14: First of all, anyone.
• 47:38
  Speaker 15: Would common sense will tell you that that's not possible.
• 47:41
  Speaker 14: First of all, you can't have a baby.
• 47:43
  Speaker 15: Chick living in a dozen eggs.
• 47:46
  Speaker 14: There is no possible way that this. The temperature and
• 47:49
  Speaker 14: my freezers are right above freezing. There's no chickens or
• 47:54
  Speaker 14: fragile creature in the first place. You can't have a
• 47:56
  Speaker 14: little bird that is not gonna survive the transport from
• 47:59
  Speaker 14: the on to the factory to my store.
• 48:03
  Speaker 6: I'm not kidding. Then hey, hey, hey, I'm not gonna
• 48:08
  Speaker 6: go back and forth, but you hut buy if you want.
• 48:11
  Speaker 14: To bring me a dozen eggs. Bring the dozen eggs
• 48:14
  Speaker 14: in if you can catch the chick. Catch a chick.
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: Hey, man, you you're you're supposed to be the miniger.
• 48:18
  Speaker 6: You're not supposed to talk to me like that.
• 48:20
  Speaker 14: So I mean all, tell you, as politely as possible
• 48:23
  Speaker 14: if you want to bring in the leven eggs and
• 48:26
  Speaker 14: a chick, I will gladly refront of your money, give
• 48:29
  Speaker 14: you another cart ass whatever you want to do, but
• 48:31
  Speaker 14: I'll not tell you what I have. But I'm got
• 48:33
  Speaker 14: all a lawsuit because y'all have traumatized me.
• 48:36
  Speaker 15: And my kids said, listen, all right, let's just bring
• 48:39
  Speaker 15: this time.
• 48:40
  Speaker 6: A lawsuit, sir.
• 48:41
  Speaker 14: It over a dozen.
• 48:44
  Speaker 6: Eggs, Over a dozen eggs, that gotta baby chick.
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: Hit it man.
• 48:50
  Speaker 15: Let me get your phone number as some information, and
• 48:52
  Speaker 15: I'll talk to my manager and we will figure.
• 48:55
  Speaker 5: This thing out for you.
• 48:56
  Speaker 14: Because I just I just don't believe that this would
• 48:59
  Speaker 14: be well.
• 49:00
  Speaker 15: I just I don't.
• 49:01
  Speaker 14: Understand how you would have a chick.
• 49:05
  Speaker 6: Just leave them over there, don't touch the chicky.
• 49:08
  Speaker 14: I just don't believe that this could possibly be happy.
• 49:11
  Speaker 15: So this is it is unbelievable means to even get
• 49:13
  Speaker 15: this frothing.
• 49:14
  Speaker 6: So I don't have time to go back and forth
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: with you about how something happened. All I know is
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: it may be it's a fluke accident. Okay, but it happened.
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: My kids are over here playing with a baby chick,
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: and I'm traumatized. I don't even want to ever have
• 49:30
  Speaker 6: prekmas up again. And I'm over to make show. I
• 49:33
  Speaker 6: file a lawsuit on your store and your show me.
• 49:38
  Speaker 14: I don't such anything to do with me. I didn't
• 49:40
  Speaker 14: do anything except come in to run today. You understand
• 49:44
  Speaker 14: what I'm saying.
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: If you wanna found lost in Okay, I don't file
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: a lawsuit. I'm found lawsuit on the grocery store, and
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: I'm filing a lawsuit on the manager Warren, which is
• 49:54
  Speaker 6: your for giving me a hard time about what I'm
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: telling you that happened.
• 49:58
  Speaker 14: I don't even got a hot town out of me
• 50:00
  Speaker 14: like you I'm saying.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: I'm saying you are a.
• 50:01
  Speaker 14: Hard time comes down here when i'm dad.
• 50:03
  Speaker 6: I'm bringing the bags down here, and I'm bringing that
• 50:06
  Speaker 6: baby chick back down there too. I'm bringing all of it.
• 50:10
  Speaker 14: Well, pose said, I'd like to see it about how
• 50:13
  Speaker 14: much did you pay for those days?
• 50:14
  Speaker 6: I paid by two dolls. It ain't about how much
• 50:16
  Speaker 6: I'm paid for the egg. It's what you have trauma time.
• 50:18
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, because I don't give you just that much
• 50:20
  Speaker 6: back of that when you say you want to stay,
• 50:23
  Speaker 6: I don't give it.
• 50:25
  Speaker 14: I'm tousches out here and lines. But gentlemen, trooper offline
• 50:28
  Speaker 14: sensing and not something dropped from the telephone talking about
• 50:31
  Speaker 14: some chicken and a grabbing egg.
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: Okay, well let me let me tell you this too.
• 50:35
  Speaker 6: Do you have a guy that works at the checkout
• 50:37
  Speaker 6: name Tyrant?
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: Okay, Tyrant got me the play phone call you. This
• 50:43
  Speaker 6: is Nephew tire Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. One.
• 50:47
  Speaker 6: You just gotta pray what.
• 50:50
  Speaker 14: Goo' tutting you?
• 50:54
  Speaker 6: Ay?
• 50:57
  Speaker 14: Look now I need to come on chicken chicken's going
• 51:03
  Speaker 14: through eggs?
• 51:04
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 51:05
  Speaker 14: Man, I I play got people looking at me in
• 51:07
  Speaker 14: this store like I'm crazy.
• 51:09
  Speaker 6: One. I gotta ask you, man, what is the baddest that,
• 51:12
  Speaker 6: I mean, the baddest radio show in the land.
• 51:15
  Speaker 15: Man, it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:20
  Speaker 6: You check out god tiring? You got your bad.
• 51:23
  Speaker 14: Yeah, I'm gonna get in too. I'm gonna put him
• 51:25
  Speaker 14: back in produce. I'm gonna takehim off the register. I'm
• 51:28
  Speaker 14: him stacking egg.
• 51:29
  Speaker 6: There you go.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: Now, was that stupid enough? I just want to make sure.
• 51:33
  Speaker 9: I just want to make sure, you know, I just
• 51:34
  Speaker 9: want to get everybody's opinion. If I was stupid enough.
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to ask yes, yeah, yeah, check more
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: than we hoped for.
• 51:42
  Speaker 9: All Right, I gotta say this. I enjoyed Virginia Beach.
• 51:46
  Speaker 9: Five solo shows in Virginia Beach. I appreciate y'all coming
• 51:49
  Speaker 9: hanging out with me this past weekend. Thank you, Thank you.
• 51:52
  Speaker 9: Then me, Joe Claire and Mike Washington did where fundraiser
• 51:57
  Speaker 9: last night in Washingt d C. Friends a Carter Baron
• 52:01
  Speaker 9: Foundation where the performing arts and or they're raising money
• 52:03
  Speaker 9: for a new theater. It's where comedy meets d c's
• 52:07
  Speaker 9: go go. Comedy meets d C go go. And we
• 52:09
  Speaker 9: had a blast last night. So thank y'all, Thank y'all,
• 52:11
  Speaker 9: Thank y'all. Laying in the cut for nephew. Tommy is
• 52:14
  Speaker 9: Tommy Tes Comedy Club, Oakland, California, December eight.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: Nine and ten, eight nine and ten. All right, now
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: you're happy, all right, thank you, thank you. I'm a beast.
• 52:27
  Speaker 9: Case y'all, ain't no if y'all ever come to see me,
• 52:29
  Speaker 9: y'all one thing, my my radio family will come see me.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you I'm but you ain't seen
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: me lately.
• 52:40
  Speaker 9: Oh you're different now you Okay, we have to see
• 52:46
  Speaker 9: what all the fuss is about.
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: Come see you're fussing about you now, I'll be on show.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: So I've seen, I'm saving Okay, you're right now, that's true.
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: That's true.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: I've seen.
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: You can vouch for him. You ye, your uncle is
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: awfully quiet right now.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: He don't come out no more. He don't come around.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: You know the comedy scene.
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know he changed, all right, nephew, Thank you.
• 53:14
  Speaker 12: Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject body heat and smelly feet.
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: We'll get into it right after this.
• 53:20
  Speaker 12: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
• 53:25
  Speaker 12: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,
• 53:30
  Speaker 12: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM
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• 53:37
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• 53:40
  Speaker 12: we're going to read this one right here, right now,
• 53:42
  Speaker 12: and you never know, it could be yours, It could
• 53:45
  Speaker 12: be yours.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on time. We got it for
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: it you here.
• 53:47
  Speaker 12: It is strawberry letter subject to thank you nephew, body
• 53:52
  Speaker 12: heat and sweaty feet. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married
• 53:56
  Speaker 12: for twelve years and we had a son before we
• 53:58
  Speaker 12: got married.
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: He's sixteen now.
• 54:01
  Speaker 12: Then we have what we call an oops baby six
• 54:04
  Speaker 12: years ago, and since then I sank into a depression
• 54:07
  Speaker 12: because I thought my mid forties would be when we
• 54:10
  Speaker 12: would travel, hang out with our friends, and be having
• 54:13
  Speaker 12: a lot of wild sex. Now I'm a boring boy
• 54:16
  Speaker 12: mom and my husband and I are both overweight. We
• 54:19
  Speaker 12: barely greet each other with a kiss when we get
• 54:21
  Speaker 12: home from work, and sex is a thing of the past.
• 54:24
  Speaker 4: Because we have a six year old in the bed
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: with us.
• 54:26
  Speaker 12: My husband lets him sleep right in between us, and
• 54:29
  Speaker 12: if I go put him in his own bed, my
• 54:32
  Speaker 12: husband is cool with letting him come back into our bed.
• 54:35
  Speaker 12: I asked my husband if it's a way to keep
• 54:37
  Speaker 12: from having sex with me, and he said that he
• 54:40
  Speaker 12: didn't think I wanted him anymore. What I don't want
• 54:43
  Speaker 12: is this little person between us, with his body heat
• 54:46
  Speaker 12: all on my side of the bed. I also do
• 54:50
  Speaker 12: not want his little sweaty feet touching me during the night.
• 54:53
  Speaker 12: I want my husband's body heat all on me at night,
• 54:56
  Speaker 12: and I'm almost tired of fighting for it. My husband said,
• 54:59
  Speaker 12: our son has sweet feet and his tiny heart is
• 55:02
  Speaker 12: warm because he's between us every night. I am starting
• 55:06
  Speaker 12: to read between the lines because I seem to be
• 55:08
  Speaker 12: the only one that is missing intimacy in this marriage.
• 55:11
  Speaker 12: I've been overlooking a lot of stuff that was obvious
• 55:15
  Speaker 12: to my male cousin when I told him about my
• 55:18
  Speaker 12: marriage right away, he said, my husband is cheating on me,
• 55:21
  Speaker 12: and he's using our son to stay away from me
• 55:23
  Speaker 12: at night. My cousin said that he noticed my husband
• 55:26
  Speaker 12: keeps his phone on silent all the time. This is
• 55:29
  Speaker 12: something I never paid attention to. Is my cousin onto something?
• 55:34
  Speaker 12: Is our son in our bed for a reason? Please help? Well,
• 55:39
  Speaker 12: you know you say you've sank into a depression after
• 55:42
  Speaker 12: you had your baby.
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: All of this, I mean, who knows?
• 55:47
  Speaker 12: It could be what you suspect he's not touching you
• 55:50
  Speaker 12: for some reason, maybe because you're depressed, maybe because you
• 55:54
  Speaker 12: know you don't have the energy used to have, or
• 55:58
  Speaker 12: what It could be a number of reasons. But how
• 56:01
  Speaker 12: is it that your cousin knows about it? Has he
• 56:03
  Speaker 12: seen him or heard anything? Or is he just going
• 56:06
  Speaker 12: by what you told him and trying to put two
• 56:09
  Speaker 12: and two together. Your cousin could be wrong. Instead of
• 56:12
  Speaker 12: talking to your cousin, why didn't you talk to your
• 56:15
  Speaker 12: husband about this? And as far as the baby goes,
• 56:18
  Speaker 12: I mean, kids love to sleep with their parents. They
• 56:22
  Speaker 12: love that, They love to be in bed with mom
• 56:23
  Speaker 12: and dad. You could put him in his own bed
• 56:25
  Speaker 12: when he goes to sleep for good and you and
• 56:28
  Speaker 12: your husband can be intimate then. But your husband not
• 56:31
  Speaker 12: wanting to be intimate with you ever, that is a problem.
• 56:35
  Speaker 12: So this is not about the baby being in bed,
• 56:38
  Speaker 12: his body heat and sweaty feet. I mean he's a baby,
• 56:42
  Speaker 12: you know, I mean a six year old. This is
• 56:45
  Speaker 12: about is your husband cheating on you and what's wrong
• 56:47
  Speaker 12: with your marriage? The answer is your husband might be,
• 56:51
  Speaker 12: but because you're lying there in bed with him and
• 56:53
  Speaker 12: there's no action going on, your marriage is in trouble,
• 56:56
  Speaker 12: that's for sure. There's no romantic interaction between you two,
• 57:00
  Speaker 12: and your husband is paying you no attention. You say,
• 57:03
  Speaker 12: so you gotta you know if there's some signs here.
• 57:05
  Speaker 12: You got to stop overlooking them so you can see
• 57:08
  Speaker 12: what's really going on in this marriage and not so
• 57:10
  Speaker 12: you won't have to wonder. You want to have to speculate,
• 57:13
  Speaker 12: then you can decide how you want to move forward.
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: Steve Wow, Well.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: All right, everybody here would go. This lady been married
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: to this man for twelve years.
• 57:23
  Speaker 5: They had a child before they got married, so they
• 57:26
  Speaker 5: got one child at sixteen. Then she said they had
• 57:30
  Speaker 5: what they call the oops baby six years ago, and
• 57:34
  Speaker 5: after that it threw her into depression. And she's saying
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: because she's in depression because she thought, in her farty's
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: would be when we were traveling, hang out with our.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: Friends and be having a lot of wild sex.
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: Eah, yeah, that's what you thought her. You thought in
• 57:54
  Speaker 5: your farty, that's when you'd be traveling and hanging out
• 57:57
  Speaker 5: with your friends.
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: What fart is you talking about? Because I missed them.
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: I missed them for they most people miss them forty
• 58:07
  Speaker 5: you're talking about that's what happened in the movies, But
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: in real life, you ain't traveling and hanging out with
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: your friends, and forties you're trying to pull your life together.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: And forties forties man is a.
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: Real grind year what I found it could be different
• 58:23
  Speaker 5: from some but you know, y'all don't hang out with
• 58:27
  Speaker 5: your friends. Y'all don't have no more wild sex. You
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: a born boy, mom and your husband both y'all overweight.
• 58:35
  Speaker 5: Oh here we go, yeah, here, both of y'all overweight. Yeah,
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: that's what y'all. When y'all walk in the room, that's
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: when everybody go here, come to bigginings. What he'll come
• 58:51
  Speaker 5: the biggest, the bigginess anyway.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: That ain't got nothing to do with everybody. Pick up boy.
• 58:58
  Speaker 5: Listen, I know I'm not joke about that, but we
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: ain't even gonna focus on that because I ain't what
• 59:02
  Speaker 5: just let about now? We barely greet each other with
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: the kids when we get home for work and sexy
• 59:08
  Speaker 5: thing of the past because we have a six year
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: old in the bed with us. Up, Pumpy, break stop,
• 59:13
  Speaker 5: what did you just say? We have a six year
• 59:15
  Speaker 5: old in bed with us? Shirley kept calling him a
• 59:18
  Speaker 5: baby at six? Why is your ass in this bed?
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: You six?
• 59:24
  Speaker 5: The baby coming into bed is when the one year
• 59:26
  Speaker 5: old gets scared of two year old something like that's
• 59:29
  Speaker 5: a baby in the bed.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: He's six.
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  Speaker 3: His ass.
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: Go to school.
• 59:36
  Speaker 5: He walking in classrooms taking tests. He's six, Shirley talking
• 59:42
  Speaker 5: about yeah, and live baby in your bed?
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: Why is his ass in the bed?
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: He six?
• 59:52
  Speaker 5: And it seemed to me like you don't even like
• 59:53
  Speaker 5: him no more because you said, I don't want this
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: little person between us with his body heat and all
• 59:59
  Speaker 5: on my So damn ain't that your baby?
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  Speaker 6: I know?
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  Speaker 12: Hang on, hang on, we'll have part two of your
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 12: response coming up, Steve at twenty three minutes after the
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 12: hour of today Strawberry Letters, subject body heat and sweaty feet.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 12: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 12: Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 12: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is body heat and
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 12: sweaty feet.
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  Speaker 5: Well, this letter right here is about this couple that
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: got married. They got one sixteen year old, and then
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 5: they had a oops baby six years ago, and they
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: threw the woman into the pressure because she thought in
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 5: her me at forty's she was gonna be traveling, hanging
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: out with their friends and having a lot of wild sex. Okay, Well,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: like I said, I don't know what forty's you was
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 5: talking about. I missed them, I'm in my forties.
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  Speaker 9: I wasn't traveling a lot, you know, hanging out with
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 9: my friends and having a bunch.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I wasn't traveling and hanging out.
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  Speaker 4: That isn't bad.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: I wasn't traveling and hanging out with a loud for
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: the oh boy anyway.
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  Speaker 5: And then you said, now I'm a boring boy. Mom,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 5: and my husband and I are both overweight. Normally I
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 5: would tackle this problem. But this problem ain't about overweight.
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  Speaker 5: Because both of y'all overweight. We barely agree to other
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 5: with the kiss. It's hard to walk in the room
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  Speaker 5: and you're you're sitting down there in your chair. And
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: then he got a bend over with his big ass
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 5: to kiss you and then being back up. Nothing about
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: the way I get in the way of kissing though,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 5: when you're old weight, overweight, you know you he go
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: out to the car to say bye. Now you got
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: rolling one down. He got being down in there wind
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: to give.
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  Speaker 1: You a kiss for you. You were just going back
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: out the driveway, he said, and spent time. Well, I
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: can't do it, go down there and then get getting
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: my high. I caught on this card.
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  Speaker 5: Don't handle Now I'm down there and there, you dragging
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: my fat ass down. I wasn't gonna say nothing about
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 5: to being overweight, because I don't really think this is
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 5: what this letter is about. It's going to it well,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: I couldn't help it, and then we barely greet each
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 5: other and get home. Sex is a thing in the
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: past because we have a six year old in bed
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 5: with us. Shirley kept saying the baby. A lot of
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 5: people sleep with the baby in the bed.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: He's six. You're talking about the boy to go to school.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're talking about the boy to go play recess,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 5: throwing footballs and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: That boy. Do you want to come sleep in the bed? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all got to be crazy. Y'all got to be crazy.
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  Speaker 5: My husband lets him sleep right in between us, and
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 5: if I go to put him in his own bed,
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 5: my husband is cool with letting him come back into
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 5: our bed. I asked my husband's a way to keep
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: from having sex with me, and he said he didn't
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: think I wanted him no more. See, this is two
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 5: big people talking. This is two big people.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: I have my hood.
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  Speaker 5: See, I'm telling you what it is. They both over
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 5: I didn't think this was about weight, but I wasn't
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 5: gonna touch on it, but all these weight issues keep
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 5: coming up. I asked my husband if it's a way
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 5: to keep from having sex with me. He said, he
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 5: ain't think I wanted him no more. He dodne looked
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 5: at you. You done looked at him, and he'd have said,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 5: who in the hell want my big ann? And then
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 5: you said, well, how come you don't want me? He said,
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 5: cause this is too much.
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  Speaker 1: I can't you know, I can't. I can't toss it
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: like I used to. I can't handle it. You know,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: it's just a lot of work for me. This is
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: about winning.
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  Speaker 9: And then.
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  Speaker 1: And he said he didn't think I want him anymore.
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  Speaker 5: Now, what I don't want is this little person between us,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 5: with his body he all on my side of the bed.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: I also do not want his little sweaty feet touching
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: me during the night. Wait a minute, is this your baby?
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 5: Where'd y'all get the baby?
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: From?
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  Speaker 5: Talking about him? Like you don't even know this? You
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 5: might as well just say, who is this little eml
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 5: in this bed with us?
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: That's what you might have wan say.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, what that's what it sounds like she's saying.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 5: Don't well, man, who put this little thing in the
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 5: bed with us. Damn, it's your baby. You you really
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 5: did suffer from depression. Yeah, and uh, I want my
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 5: husband's body heat all on.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: Me at night. No, you don't, not with his overweight ass.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: You don't.
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  Speaker 5: I'm telling you right now. You think you want him
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 5: all over you at nothing? You ever had a fat
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 5: person lay up against you at night?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 8: Boy?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: You know how how they get in there?
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 8: That what you're saying you have?
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 5: No, I've had a regular sized person against me, and
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 5: I want Tom to go lay over there. So when
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 5: school on school over, Oh, I want to cuddle. Hey, hey,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: I'm telling you I'm hot.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: Now you get a big person a sweat, you gonna
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: have a problem.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 5: My husband said, our son has sweet feet and his
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 5: tiny heart is warm because he's between us every night.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 5: I'm starting to leave between the lines and I have
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 5: an overlooking a lot of stuff. And it's obviously my
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 5: male cousin. When I told him about my marriage right away,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 5: he said, my husband cheating on man. He using our
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: son to stay away from me at night. That's true.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 5: The son is a blocker. He bringing his son in
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 5: at the block. My husband said he noticed that my
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 5: husband keeps his phone on silent all the time. This
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 5: is something I never paid attention to. Is my cousband
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: on to something? Is our son in our bed for
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 5: a reason? Please help?
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 5: Your son is in the bed for a couple of reasons,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: because something is wrong with y'all. Parents are skills. Y'all
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: don't know how to make his little tall ass stay
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 5: in a bed. There's two fat people in the bed.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: I don't even know how y'all sleeping at all?
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: All them people.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: You gotta go.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 9: And his little I asked, is sweating because he and
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 9: that lay between two fat people. It ain't your baby,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 9: low Roads. I'm surprised you baby ain't passed that road.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: Just cook it.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 4: Leave your comments. We gotta go, Steve.
• 1:06:20
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• 1:06:24
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• 1:06:26
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• 1:06:29
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• 1:06:31
  Speaker 4: Coming up next Junior with Sports Talk. Right after this.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 8: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 4: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk, which
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 4: you got Junior.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: Tommy did the picks this WEEKNDI, Yeah you did the pis,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah you did too bad. But let's just look at
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: it though. You know, you picked the Steelers to beat
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: the Browns. That was the first thing you did.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: And the Browns.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 4: The Browns beat the Stealers.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 9: Yeah it Frowns beat the States.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Everything is on the heart, little boys. Picked the Steelers
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: over the brown I don't give it.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 6: Damn.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: How the rest of your picks go?
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 9: Now?
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: You gonna tell me you didn't pick the Texas beat
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: the Cards. Man, that happened twenty one to sixteen. Go ahead, Texas,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: all right, man, jag Wars over the Tights. You did
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: pick the Jaguars. They did beat the Tights thirty four
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: to fourteen. All right here you gonna time here another
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: Dolphins over the Raiders. You did pick the Dolphins pick
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: they won twenty to thirteen. Yeah, you picked the Cowboys
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: two times. The Cowboys did beat the Panthers thirty three
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: tea baby, Yeah, okay, all right, I was it hard?
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: He here, Yeah that was here has trouble.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: We understand this one.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: You picked the Bears to beat the Lions, and they
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: was winning. But the Lions one on the last minute.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 9: You didn't pick you know, the Lions, dog, I picked
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 9: the lines because for the Bass. No, the Lions, because
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 9: my boys the coach over there, I wouldn't go against.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: Okay. I went with Glenn, I mean is her Okay,
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: that's all good? Okay, come on, man, the charges leaving y'all.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: Don't pick Detroit now, I can't remember that part. You
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: picked the Charges they didn't win. Don't worry about.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: The pack pay the charges twenty three to two. Okay,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: I worry about it. It's Timmy though. Now then you
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: go with the command of Timmy. You went with Washington
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: w h.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: U R didn't against Yeah, I went with w h R.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: I did against the Giants. Well, giants one time.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: Again, Reship I go down with I go down with
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: with her.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: I'm with with her all forty niners.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: You picked the fortys with the Buccaneers twenty seven to fourteen.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: Man, Now, you did pick the Bills over the Jets.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: Bills won thirty two to six. At your time. You
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: know here you go, Tommy. You picked the Seahawks.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 4: You will with Gino dry Wine.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: Sixteen about three games. It's not bad, but it was
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: just funny though some of them. But you did good man.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 4: You ain't doing man, We ain't man.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: At you.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 4: That's all he cares about.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: Without without the sure All.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: Right, thank you, Junior, Thank you Tommy. Coming up next
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: at the top.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 12: Of the hour, a lady needs some advice after her
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 12: boyfriend admits that he is broke. Right after this, you're listening.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 12: All right, Steve, this lady needs some advice. Her name
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 12: is Valencia. She's from Dots and she says, I dated
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 12: my co worker for three months and he never invited
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 12: me to his place, So I followed him home from work.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 12: His apartment complex wasn't very nice. He got out and
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 12: went to an apartment and gave his keys, his car
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 12: keys to a lady that stuck her head out of
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 12: the door. Then he walked into a totally separate apartment
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 12: upstairs like a dummy. I finally told him that I
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 12: followed him home and what I saw. He told me
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 12: that he uses his neighbor's car because he can't afford
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 12: the repairs on his car. He said he was afraid
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 12: to be honest with me because he likes me so much.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 12: Would I be wrong to dump him because he's broke?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: Why do women do that?
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 10: Man?
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: All this following somebody, It's.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 4: Just so fame and you don't think men do that.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 10: You think it's just a gender yeesgat investigation.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 9: We'll almost side and we all y'all, hey, y'all know that.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, and we're good at it.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 5: Yes, if more women would look into things a little
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 5: bit more closely, it could save y'all.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: A lot of pain.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 5: He was honest in saying that he was embarrassed to
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 5: tell you because he likes you so much. That's an
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 5: honest statement. Now, what you have to find out is
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 5: the two things. I don't know how old you all are,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 5: but he's not that old, so that no kids involved
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 5: don't look like But here's a deal. Does this man
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 5: have potential. If he has potential, you could be the
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 5: very thing that could help him get to where he's
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 5: trying to get to. But in order to determine if
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 5: a man has potential, you have to find out what
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 5: his goals are. I wrote this chapter in the book
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: Act like a Lady, Thinks like a man. There are
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 5: five questions you need to ask a man. You need
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 5: to find out his long term goals and his short
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 5: term goals, and if he has a plan to attain
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 5: those things. He could be going through a hard time
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 5: right now. But is he worth it in valid? He
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 5: may very well be, but he can't afford to repair
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: his car. He used a lady's car downstairs to go
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 5: to work. She stuck her head out door. He give
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: her the key, He go upstairs. Now, I'm telling you
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: right now, ain't nothing, no stairs, nothing refrigerator, Look up,
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 5: I look up the refrigerate.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: You walk in. He probably he probably got one bedroom
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: or maybe studio. Now.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 5: That thing on the floor, that's the bed matt which
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 5: you sit on it in the afternoon. It's a couch
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 5: and then at night he just bring a comfort out
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 5: the closet and he sleep on it.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: The refrigerator ain't got nothing in it now?
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  Speaker 5: And he is this you when you were younger, Yeah,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 5: but you got it. Look, it's it's all about potential, ladies.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 5: If a man has potential and he has long term goals,
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 5: short term goals, and he has a plan, do not
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: attach yourself to a person who doesn't have a plan.
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  Speaker 1: Now and then he could be a good guy.
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  Speaker 5: You were having a decent time with him, but you
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 5: followed him home, and you know, you said, hey, the
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  Speaker 5: guy just was honest and said he was embarrassed he
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 5: liked you so much, so maybe he could be worth
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 5: it if he has a plan and he has some goals. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: all right, you could give the relationship some time and
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 5: see where it goes.
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  Speaker 12: All right, well, I think we have time for one
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 12: more Steve. This one is from Olive and terror Hate.
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  Speaker 12: She says, I'm in an open relationship and I live
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  Speaker 12: with my boyfriend and one of his girlfriends. We all
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 12: have our own rooms, but he usually sleeps.
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  Speaker 4: In my room.
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  Speaker 12: If I want him all to myself, I lock my
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  Speaker 12: bedroom doors or his girlfriend can't come in. She gets
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  Speaker 12: jealous and it creates friction, so I suggested that she
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 12: move out. Now, why is my boyfriend against it?
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: Because he won't both? Y'all? He been having both y'all.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Why is your boyfriend against cause he don't want?
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  Speaker 9: Just you?
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: Who do that? And why y'all writing us with this?
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 4: We go figure this out?
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 3: You don't know, y'all.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Look now, I'm trying to figure out how, y'all? Look,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: who signed up for this? How mad does she get?
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  Speaker 5: How you think you can have him to yourself when
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 5: you signed up to be in an open relationship.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: I don't care. You don't care, all right, man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: too old for these type.
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  Speaker 12: Damn let us coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 12: we will have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
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  Speaker 12: right after this.
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  Speaker 4: You're listening Steve.
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  Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 12: So Snoop Dogg stunned all of his fans after posting
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 12: that he stopped smoking marijuana.
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  Speaker 4: He stopped, he said on Twitter.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 12: Snoop posted a somber looking selfie with the caption quote,
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  Speaker 12: after much consideration and conversation with my family, I've decided
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 12: to give up smoke.
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  Speaker 4: Please respect my privacy at this time.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 12: On quote, It's no secret that Snoop loves smoking, and
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 12: he has started several businesses in the cannabis industry, including
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 12: his own cannabis brand, Leafs by Snoop. Now, fans reacted
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 12: by wondering if Snoop's health is at risk, and other sneak.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 12: I thinks Snoop made the announcement as a marketing stunt. So,
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  Speaker 12: first of all, can you believe that Snoop finally is
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 12: given up weed giving up smoking?
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 5: Well, I mean he's done it before, and I talked
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 5: to him afterwards. He said, hey, unc man, I ain't
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 5: felt as clear in years. Man, it's amazing the things
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 5: I take notice of now. So he's done it before.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 5: That's a hard one for him.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope he's not his health though. I hope
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 4: he is not well.
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  Speaker 5: Most people go down there with their little health card
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: to buy weed most of the exactly.
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  Speaker 9: If I had to do it for her, I'll be
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 9: down there with the dog hares blue blocking glasses on.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Weed from my block. Yeah, well, the yawn to try
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: smoking weed for your eyes?
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 6: Why do you keep saying that?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 10: What?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 4: What about my eyes?
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: It'll bring them down.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 4: Anyway.
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  Speaker 3: We will.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 11: We will have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 11: coming up at thirty three minutes after we'll play a
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 11: round it would you rather?
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  Speaker 8: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 12: Time now for a round of would you rather? Would
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 12: you rather give up sex? Forever? Give up lying? Give
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 12: up lying forever? You'd give up lying?
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'll tell the truth.
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 4: You're lying right.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Lying about what we ain't gonna do is give up sex.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: That that's whatever you need to hear, all right?
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 12: Would you would you rather for Thanksgiving dinner smoke turkey
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 12: or glazed ham, Junior, I go smoke.
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  Speaker 9: Turkey I'm gonna go with that ham. I want to
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 9: fry turkey. I'm gonna go with that glaze.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: Hunh yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Because smoke turkey, man, is when you smoke a chicken
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 5: or you smoke turkey, it is hard to get that
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 5: skin not to be rubbery. I been, I done called
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 5: mold case, and I done called everybody about it. I
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: try not to get this skin to be so rubbery
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 5: when you smoke it. They can talking about brining it
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 5: for twenty four hours and all that. No, just fry turkey, man,
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 5: that turkey juicy.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 5: I'm telling you right now, get y'all a butter ball
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 5: fry or master Bill turkey fry, Master Bill, make a
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 5: wonderful turkey fry.
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  Speaker 1: You can do it indoors. You ain't gonna set your
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: house on fire. None of that. It's safe.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 5: Because they be outside the garage is just burning the
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 5: damn house down with that. Go out there, man, drop
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 5: not taking that hot airs grease?
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 14: All right?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 12: Would you rather a nagging wife that can really cook
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 12: or a sweet wife they can't cook?
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 9: I take the sweet wife they can't cook? Yeah, sweet yeah,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 9: sweet sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Up in there with that nagging health and you got
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  Speaker 1: your damn.
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  Speaker 4: Man, she can throw in the kitchen.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: That's all right, yeah, attitude, Why are you hear that?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 4: One has to go Thanksgiving dinner.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 12: One has to go, Mac and cheese, greens dressing or yams.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 12: One has to go I'm putting out Okay, which one?
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 12: Let me put the damn greens out to the greens
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 12: all day. You can't take them, yam. I gotta have
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 12: that mac and cheese and the dress together, dressing, greens
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 12: right on out the wing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the greens. I ain't crazy about the greens.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, all right?
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: Can I get some yam with some green juice running
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  Speaker 1: up against.
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  Speaker 8: Delicious?
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 4: So everybody's they're greens? Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, pretty much?
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 12: Would you rather go to Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade or
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 12: to a football game?
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: What parade?
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 4: Going to the game?
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: All right? No, I don't even know who have them balloons?
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 6: That's it?
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  Speaker 3: What is that?
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  Speaker 1: That's hoping?
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  Speaker 4: Today's rounded? Would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Guys?
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  Speaker 12: Coming up in forty nine minutes after it's our last
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 12: break of the day, and we'll close out the show
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 12: right after this.
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 8: You're listening hard morning show?
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 12: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
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  Speaker 12: the day on this Monday, Happy Thanksgiving week. It is
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 12: then you know something.
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  Speaker 5: I was in my clothing remarks this to people, that
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  Speaker 5: you take this time that they call Thanksgiving, and you
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  Speaker 5: implemented in your daily regimen. Stop waiting to Thanksgiving, to
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  Speaker 5: thank God for the year, thank God for the blessing man.
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  Speaker 5: We ought to be doing this every single day, every
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  Speaker 5: single day.
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  Speaker 1: Look, we don't.
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  Speaker 5: I don't celebrate Thanksgiving for any other reason, just except
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  Speaker 5: just to see my family. That's the only reason I
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  Speaker 5: have Thanksgiving. I could care less what they talking about.
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  Speaker 5: Some pilgrims and the matter horn and then Native Americans
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  Speaker 5: that rescue them. They should have left all of them
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  Speaker 5: on that damn boat. Shouldn't have made now quilt, shouldn't
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  Speaker 5: have planned it, now row a corn. If you'd have
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  Speaker 5: knew this what they was gonna do to y'all, man,
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 5: I'd have let they add freeze out there on that
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  Speaker 5: damn rock. Really, really, man, if you knew this what
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 5: they was gonna do, would you not have left them
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  Speaker 5: on Plymouth Rock right where they was?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, let's just be real. Let's just deal with.
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  Speaker 5: The real history of what this country has done. So
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 5: instead of getting into that. Let's be thankful all year round.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, man, take some time out and put this
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  Speaker 5: in your every day regimen. Don't let a day go
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  Speaker 5: by that you don't wake up and give God thanks.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 5: Stop laying down at bed at night without thanking God
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  Speaker 5: for your day. The fact that you are able to
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  Speaker 5: lay there and lay down and get a chance to recuperate,
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 5: regenerate yourself to go out here and deal with it tomorrow,
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 5: that's another reason to be thankful. Don't wait on Thanksgiving
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 5: to be thankful. Spend some time with your family, enjoy them.
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  Speaker 5: You know, there's some people that I ain't hear this
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 5: Thanksgiving that was at the last one. You know, you
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  Speaker 5: got to think about that. You gotta thank God that
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 5: you still here, you still have a measure of health.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 5: You don't stop talking about what you don't have, And
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 5: how about if you focus on some of the things
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 5: that you do have. You know, I was praying about
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 5: this certain deal I wanted to happen, you know, and
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 5: I was just I kept hampering it, just hammering the
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 5: prayer home that I want this deal. I want this deal.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 5: I want this deal. And God reminded me of something.
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  Speaker 5: How he did it I can't share it, but he
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  Speaker 5: reminded me of something.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: He said, Steve.
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  Speaker 5: It's almost like he I didn't hear a voice or nothing,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 5: but it came to me in the form of Steve,
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 5: have you stopped to take a look at what I've
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 5: already done for you? So, while you sitting up in
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 5: here with all this concern about what you don't have,
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: have you taken a look around, young man, at what
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 5: I have done for you? Have you not taken an
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 5: inventory of all the blessings I've given to you that
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 5: you didn't even know you had come in your way?
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 5: Do you know all the grace that I've afforded you
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 5: in your life? Do you know how many times I've
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 5: forgiven you? Do you have any idea of the number
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 5: of times I had your back when you didn't know
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 5: I was covering you. Do you know how many times
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 5: I work stuff out on your behalf, so when you
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 5: walked into the room, it was already done. Do you
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 5: know the rooms that are speaking your name right now?
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 5: And you have no idea that I'm arranging things in
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 5: your life? You study asking me for something, boy, But
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 5: have you stopped to remember what all I have done
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 5: for you? You tell people all the time that you
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  Speaker 5: one of my favorites. But do you know why you
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 5: one of my favorites? Have you taken the time to
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 5: go down the list of stuff I've done for you,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 5: Steve Harvey, And Man, when I do that, I get
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 5: real quiet.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: I get real quiet. Has God been good to me?
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 5: But if you take an inventory of your life, I
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 5: bet he being good to you too. But see what
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 5: you gotta do, is you gotta stop comparing yourself to others.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 5: Just go down the list of what He done for you.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 5: Skip the car you see in the neighbor's yard every year.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 5: You don't know what that neighbor going through. Some of
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 5: these people barely making payments on this stuff Right here, Man,
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 5: there's people doing stuff just to show out. You don't
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 5: even know what's going on up the street. There's some
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 5: people out there you see waving at you in that driveway.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 5: They ain't happy at all. You better go in there
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 5: and be good with your spouse.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 5: If you got a good if you got a good husband,
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 5: you better be grateful. If you got a good wife,
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 5: you better be grateful. If your family still love you,
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 5: you better be grateful. Man, you got a roof over
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 5: your head. You better be grateful. You eating be grateful.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 5: It's so many things to be grateful for. God has
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 5: been good to you. I'm just a reminder because I
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 5: had to remind my stupid self sometime sitting up here
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 5: steady asking for more and then forgetting to be grateful
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 5: for what I got. Man, God said, you must be
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 5: out your mind. Have you lost it completely? Of all
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 5: the things I've taught you, you can't remember to be
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 5: grateful to me? Are you kidding me? Steve Arvey? So,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 5: Steve Aarvey had to strained himself out. So I'm telling
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 5: y'all here's my suggestion to you. Be grateful year round.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 5: Make sure every day and every night is filled with gratitude.
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: Now in between that.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 5: You can send all your requests to God, lay them
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 5: at his feet. Don't ever stop asking, don't ever stop wanting,
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 5: don't ever stop praying. But before you pray, tell God
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 5: that you're grateful for all He's done, Before you ask
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 5: for one thing from him, tell him how much you
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 5: should prove that you are pre shade all He's done
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 5: for you. That simple application of gratitude will change your attitude,
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 5: which will then have a direct effect on your altitude.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my clothes and remarks. If you did not
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: like those clothes and remarks, I hope you can't find
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: your cranberry sauce this year. Have a great holiday, everybody.
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