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FULL SHOW: Living Your Dream, Strawberry Letter: My Brother's Ex Wife On The Car - 09.02.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 3: Soon given them.
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  Speaker 5: Listening to show to Joy Yah.
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  Speaker 6: Yah, Joy, you.
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  Speaker 7: Don't love you.
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  Speaker 8: You gotta turnt to turn the mouth. Turn you probably
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  Speaker 8: got to turn the mouth, turn out the water.
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  Speaker 7: Then up, looks.
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  Speaker 9: Me, Come me, come out?
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  Speaker 2: You think that.
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  Speaker 4: I sure will? Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 4: Come on, dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 2: Man oh man, oh man.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: I think about all the things God has done for
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  Speaker 4: me is overwhelming at times. And I want everybody to
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  Speaker 4: have that feeling and to sharing that feeling of completion
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  Speaker 4: and satisfaction. And the only reason I got this, and
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  Speaker 4: it's the thousandth time I've said it, is because I
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  Speaker 4: formed a relationship with my creator.
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  Speaker 1: Period.
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  Speaker 4: That's it. That's that's it. I can't tell you as
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  Speaker 4: anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong
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  Speaker 4: work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's
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  Speaker 4: conversation with me growing up was always constantly about work hard,
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  Speaker 4: don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say
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  Speaker 4: you're gonna do. YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA. Man, I
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  Speaker 4: was so tired of my father At times. I was going, Man,
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  Speaker 4: what is with this dude right here? Man, every time
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  Speaker 4: we have a conversation, it's got to be about work.
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  Speaker 4: It's got to be about, you know, man, doing your best,
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  Speaker 4: trying hard, you know, working, being honest, do what you
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  Speaker 4: say you're gonna do. But that was his mission. I
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  Speaker 4: can't tell you how much I appreciate that now. I
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  Speaker 4: can't even I can't even put it into words when
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  Speaker 4: I think about my old man and what he was
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  Speaker 4: to me, and I just, man, I'm so grateful for
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  Speaker 4: that balance I had in my life. And then my
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  Speaker 4: father was a fighter. He fought on the weekends.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 4: My father used to come home with his clothes toe
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  Speaker 4: off of him. He put a fresh shirt on, and
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  Speaker 4: he go back. My mama used to talk about my
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  Speaker 4: father fighting all the time, slick, while you're always fighting.
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  Speaker 4: You know a little bit of that rubbed off on
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  Speaker 4: me too, you know that that kind of got into me.
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  Speaker 4: And I didn't understand that either, But then understand same term.
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  Speaker 4: My mother was a Sunday school teacher for forty years,
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  Speaker 4: so her conversation was never about fighting or anything. It
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  Speaker 4: was all about love and understanding and doing another that
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  Speaker 4: you would have to do unto you. My mom was
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  Speaker 4: a Sunday school teacher, so I learned about faith. I
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  Speaker 4: had to go to Sunday school, prayer meeting, Bible study,
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  Speaker 4: young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know, I was a
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  Speaker 4: church man so much I was actually looking as there's
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  Speaker 4: got to be an alternative to this, you know. I
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  Speaker 4: want you know, I was a little kid even I
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  Speaker 4: was thinking at one point, maybe I ought to look
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  Speaker 4: into Hell because there's got to be something cooler than
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  Speaker 4: this going on every day. It had got that crazy
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  Speaker 4: for me. But the balance between those two people created
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  Speaker 4: who I am today. And I want you to understand
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  Speaker 4: that the things that you are in your past have
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  Speaker 4: helped create who you are today. If you view it
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  Speaker 4: the right way, everything that has happened to you in
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  Speaker 4: your past has happened to you for a reason, and
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  Speaker 4: it's usual for the good if you view it that way.
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  Speaker 4: But if you, on the other hand, are a type
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  Speaker 4: of person who can't move forward because you are allowing
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  Speaker 4: your past to stop you from having your future, then you,
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  Speaker 4: my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You
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  Speaker 4: are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage
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  Speaker 4: of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example,
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  Speaker 4: if you are a woman and you are always talking
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  Speaker 4: about a former relationship, what he did to me. If
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  Speaker 4: he had not did this to me, I wouldn't be
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  Speaker 4: in this place today. I thought I had a man.
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  Speaker 4: Now I ain't got no man ah llah lah lah
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  Speaker 4: la lah if I you know, he came along and
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  Speaker 4: I was doing just swell. He just came in and
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  Speaker 4: he just lied to me. He lied to me, nod.
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  Speaker 4: He did this to me, then he cheated, then he left.
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  Speaker 4: All of that that you're saying can very well be true.
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  Speaker 4: Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom,
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  Speaker 4: that he knew that you had made a mistake in
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  Speaker 4: picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a
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  Speaker 4: mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway,
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  Speaker 4: or come on, move in?
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  Speaker 2: And so what he did was.
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  Speaker 4: Based on your decision now to say yes, I do,
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  Speaker 4: or come on, let's move in together.
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  Speaker 2: That was your decision. You ain't go to him about
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  Speaker 2: this one.
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  Speaker 4: You made this decision based on that decision, and all
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  Speaker 4: the negative things that started happening. He allowed you to
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  Speaker 4: get away from it. Now how you got away from it,
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  Speaker 4: It's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck
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  Speaker 4: on the fact that he left, that he walked out.
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  Speaker 4: But let me share this with you. When he was there,
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  Speaker 4: How good was he to you? How good was he
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  Speaker 4: for you? See, you got to stare at you got
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  Speaker 4: to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you
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  Speaker 4: are on your own. Now you walk in your house.
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  Speaker 4: Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit.
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  Speaker 2: Now you go home. You could take your clothes off,
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  Speaker 2: walk around like you want to.
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  Speaker 4: Now you go home, you can sit down and look
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  Speaker 4: at TV or catch your breath if you want to.
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  Speaker 4: Your kids don't have to see y'all arguing all the time.
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  Speaker 4: Have you looked at the blessing in it? But now
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  Speaker 4: if you gonna keep looking at the negative, then guess what.
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  Speaker 4: Now you can't move forward because you keep allowing your
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  Speaker 4: past to keep you from moving forward. If God has
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  Speaker 4: brought you through it, why don't you move on from it? Look,
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  Speaker 4: you got through it, He gone, he ain't coming back.
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  Speaker 4: He got somebody else. So you gonna sit there and
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  Speaker 4: just keep tripping couts. He gone and he got somebody else. Hey,
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  Speaker 4: pick yourself up. Thank God for the blessing. It didn't
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  Speaker 4: feel like a blessing. Why you was going through it,
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  Speaker 4: and all the pain of him leaving and the divorce
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  Speaker 4: and all that messed you up? Got it when you
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  Speaker 4: get through it, all of that. You ain't the first
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  Speaker 4: one being left. You ain't the first one being divorced.
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  Speaker 4: You ain't the first one been in a bad relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Pick yourself up, thank God for the blessing, and move
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  Speaker 4: forward in your life, because maybe when you quit complaining,
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  Speaker 4: maybe you'll find out that God has something in store
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  Speaker 4: for you that he wants you to have, but he
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  Speaker 4: can't give it to you if you ain't grateful. So
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  Speaker 4: God gives you a blessing, but because you don't see
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  Speaker 4: it as a blessing, you ain't grateful for it. Now,
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  Speaker 4: guess what, You steady asking God to do something for you,
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  Speaker 4: but you ain't thanking him for what he's done for you,
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  Speaker 4: but you steady wanting him to do more.
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  Speaker 2: How does that work? How does that work?
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 4: That he should keep on giving you things when you
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  Speaker 4: ain't even working with the stuff he done gave you,
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  Speaker 4: and I don't know, And I'm just using that one example.
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  Speaker 4: It could go for me and too, vice versa, and
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  Speaker 4: so on and so forth. I'm just using that as
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  Speaker 4: an example. Now, why I laid on that one so long?
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  Speaker 4: You have to take that over.
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  Speaker 2: God, That's all just sweet.
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  Speaker 4: I ain't pointing fingers at nobody in nothing, because I've
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  Speaker 4: been guilty on.
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  Speaker 2: Both sides of the coin. Who am I?
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  Speaker 4: But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do.
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  Speaker 4: I had to learn to stop allowing my past to
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  Speaker 4: interfere with my future.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach miss Lydia Liticy mass call.
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  Speaker 9: This is coach Watkins up at the up at the school.
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  Speaker 9: How are you, hey, Coach Watkins?
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  Speaker 10: I'm fine?
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  Speaker 13: What can I do for you?
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  Speaker 9: Listen, We've had Maleik out for the last week and
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  Speaker 9: a half. He's been coming to practice here at the
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  Speaker 9: Junior High School and wanted to reach out and give
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  Speaker 9: you a call about everything that's going on. Oh yeah, Well,
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  Speaker 9: I know he's really excited.
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  Speaker 13: He can't wait to start the season.
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  Speaker 9: He's ready. Well, you know what, I'll be honest with you.
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  Speaker 9: He's a great kid, and he's got a good heart,
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  Speaker 9: and he's really really really trying and trying to produce
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  Speaker 9: as much as possible.
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  Speaker 11: Well, you know, he loves the game and he's been
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  Speaker 11: playing since he was a little kid.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, you know, this is you know, this is
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  Speaker 9: the seventh grade. This is the first time some of
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  Speaker 9: these kids have played organized football, and this is the
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  Speaker 9: first time playing school football. And it's a big it's
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  Speaker 9: a big transition that if you've been playing little league
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  Speaker 9: ball or pop Warner or whatever you want to call it.
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  Speaker 9: It's a it's a big difference, in a big transition
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  Speaker 9: to go from one to the other. You understand, Yeah,
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  Speaker 9: I do understand. But Malika's been working really hard, yes,
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  Speaker 9: and he's ready. Well well, well, let me let me
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  Speaker 9: say this. My main reason for calling you is letting
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  Speaker 9: you know that league as of right now is not
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  Speaker 9: going to be able to make the cut as far
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  Speaker 9: as what you did. Well, he's not gonna be able
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  Speaker 9: to make the cut as far as being on the
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  Speaker 9: team for this year. Now, I got a wait a minute.
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  Speaker 13: You said, wait, wait, you said that Malite is not
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  Speaker 13: gonna be able to make the team.
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  Speaker 10: I said, it's not gonna.
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  Speaker 4: Make the team.
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  Speaker 9: He's a great kid. You know, he's a great you
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  Speaker 9: know he's a great kid. But wait, man, now, he
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  Speaker 9: didn't play proper warner and he was.
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  Speaker 13: A starting quarterback, so what are you talking about. He's
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  Speaker 13: not gonna make the team this year.
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  Speaker 1: He was the best they had.
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  Speaker 9: Out on that squad. Okay, and you know what, I've
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  Speaker 9: heard a lot about him. I heard he did a
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  Speaker 9: great job.
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  Speaker 13: Heard about him. Wit a minute, Wait, man, have you
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  Speaker 13: seen his got twenty touchdowns in the season.
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  Speaker 9: I understand what are the kids is out there doing that?
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  Speaker 9: But you know what, but right now, we got a
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  Speaker 9: lot of different kids that are coming into this particular school.
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  Speaker 9: So you know, the competition has gone greater and greater
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  Speaker 9: than what we could possibly understand.
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  Speaker 13: Wait a minute, When this is seventh grade, first of all,
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  Speaker 13: everybody makes the team. Nobody gets cut in the first place.
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  Speaker 13: You got an A team and a B team. So
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  Speaker 13: you telling me my baby ain't made.
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  Speaker 9: None of them teams? Right right now, miss Lydia? Uh
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  Speaker 9: you know? Uh? Like I said, Malika is a great kid.
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  Speaker 9: I like him.
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  Speaker 10: I know what Milik is.
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  Speaker 13: I know that he's a great kid and he's a ballplayer.
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  Speaker 13: Now I make sure that. So don't come telling me
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  Speaker 13: that he's not good enough to make the cut on
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  Speaker 13: this seventh grade team.
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  Speaker 9: Well, come telling me who is the quarterback? Who?
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, you tell me what's going on?
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  Speaker 9: Who is the quarterback? Well? Actually right now, my son
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  Speaker 9: is the quarterback. Your son, well, I mean you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 9: is actually the quarterback. He hasn't done any pop warn
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  Speaker 9: or anything, but he really has what it takes to
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  Speaker 9: be the never played.
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  Speaker 13: Football before, or he's never played organized football, but he's
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  Speaker 13: going to be the quarterback for the seventh grade team.
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  Speaker 9: Is that what you're telling me? Well, yeah, my son
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  Speaker 9: is actually a starting quarterback, but that.
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  Speaker 13: My son don't make the teach and my son scored
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  Speaker 13: twenty touchdown twenty Is that what you're telling me?
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  Speaker 8: Oh?
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  Speaker 9: Hell no, I'm calling up to that school tomorrow. I
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  Speaker 9: will be up there tomorrow. Let me explain something. I say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 9: no no.
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  Speaker 13: And I don't know what this is, this nepotism or
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  Speaker 13: whatever you got going on around here, but hell no,
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  Speaker 13: my son ain't Nathan what. Hell no, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 13: smoking the city tomorrow when.
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  Speaker 9: I get up there, Miss Lydia. What I want to
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  Speaker 9: say this is this, if your son would take a
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  Speaker 9: year off, lord and try to get itself together and
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  Speaker 9: get the fundamentals together together, a greater football player when
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  Speaker 9: he gets to be headed to the eighth grade.
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  Speaker 13: It was the wrong This doll last year. What you
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  Speaker 13: going about this? Fundamentals together? Your son ain't never even play?
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  Speaker 9: Well, you know what. I've worked with my son, you know,
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  Speaker 9: And it's a little it's a little awkward for me
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  Speaker 9: to try to talk about what my son has done.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, from behalf you talk about because you don't know
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  Speaker 13: what your son is done. Because ain't nobody ever seen
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  Speaker 13: your son. You just got this dream, probably something that
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  Speaker 13: you ain't dead. You want to live vicariously through him.
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  Speaker 9: Hell no, that's that's about it. I don't like in school.
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  Speaker 9: I played in high school, and let me play this.
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  Speaker 9: I'm trying to do the best that I can and
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  Speaker 9: the best of my ability to make sure that everybody
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  Speaker 9: gets a good and fair shot at what's going on.
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  Speaker 13: I said, well not, but but he don't get to play.
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  Speaker 13: So what about I'm getting up here?
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  Speaker 9: I think don't get the players. Probably he doesn't even
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  Speaker 9: gonna work out to be a better burgle. Turn that
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  Speaker 9: to the mole mothers. That's some bull.
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  Speaker 1: I bet you.
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  Speaker 13: I guarantee you this my son to be starting this year.
• 19:31
  Speaker 13: I guarantee you this.
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  Speaker 9: You don't want none of that, Okay?
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: Right now?
• 19:34
  Speaker 9: All I can say is I need Malik to actually
• 19:38
  Speaker 9: bring his cliques back, because my son's gonna need him
• 19:41
  Speaker 9: to play in what.
• 19:43
  Speaker 13: Fuck them?
• 19:44
  Speaker 11: Cli.
• 19:44
  Speaker 13: Your son ain't getting your son running down that field.
• 19:47
  Speaker 13: We're gonna work barefoot.
• 19:49
  Speaker 10: He ain't get mine nothing.
• 19:51
  Speaker 9: Man, from my records. Understanding is that the cliques actually
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: came a record.
• 19:55
  Speaker 13: Look understand the one that told you that my son
• 19:57
  Speaker 13: can't fight your records. Thinking about your records. You your
• 20:02
  Speaker 13: mama and to day she bushed your man.
• 20:05
  Speaker 9: I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth
• 20:07
  Speaker 9: with you. All I'm trying to say is this is
• 20:09
  Speaker 9: that maleigue at about to do? You?
• 20:12
  Speaker 13: Start looking for a job, get your resume together.
• 20:14
  Speaker 9: You know what, ma'am, I'm not gonna go back and
• 20:16
  Speaker 9: for I got one more thing I need to say
• 20:17
  Speaker 9: to you.
• 20:18
  Speaker 13: Nothing that you You ain't got nothing else to say
• 20:22
  Speaker 13: to me. My son to be playing and I'll be
• 20:24
  Speaker 13: up there tomorrow.
• 20:25
  Speaker 9: I have one more thing I need to say to you.
• 20:27
  Speaker 9: You listening.
• 20:27
  Speaker 13: Only thing you need to tell me is who I
• 20:29
  Speaker 13: need to talk to tomorrow.
• 20:31
  Speaker 11: Now.
• 20:31
  Speaker 9: I'll let you know that as soon as I tell
• 20:33
  Speaker 9: you this, sore, you're listening.
• 20:34
  Speaker 11: I'm listening.
• 20:35
  Speaker 9: What this his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:40
  Speaker 9: Your sister ain A got me to prank phone call you.
• 20:46
  Speaker 10: What Hello, I'm gonna.
• 20:57
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 20:58
  Speaker 13: I thought I was really conible.
• 21:00
  Speaker 9: You don't worry about school day? Oh man, I got
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: some ask What is the baddest and I mean the
• 21:14
  Speaker 9: baddest radio show in the lane.
• 21:18
  Speaker 13: The Steve Harvey Loaded Show.
• 21:22
  Speaker 10: Oh lord, all right, thank you nephew.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is ask the clo or Chief
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's
• 21:41
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• 22:18
  Speaker 1: ask the CLO. Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: in the building. Quentin and Bakersfield says, I'm dating a
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: woman that is bestie's with her mom, and when we
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: go out, her mom comes to CLO. I don't mind
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: the mom coming, but she's got it going on and
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: I'm becoming more attracted to her. Do I separate myself
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: from the two of them? Or do I focus more
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: on the mother and see where that could possibly go?
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Quentin?
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Quentin, yes, Quentin, Yeah, I cannot tell you. Hot Dog
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: and deep the holiest about to step yo dump.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Now mama has going on.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I bet she do.
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Now, sir, I don't know how far you and this
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: daughter then went. I don't know how y'all met. I
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: don't know if y'all was set up. I don't know
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: if y'all been cuddling. I don't know if y'all and
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: went all the way. It don't sound like it. It
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: sounds like y'all just been hanging out and you trying
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: to see.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Where it goes. I understand what, Lord have mercy.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: I updated in my life a best friend that had
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: a woman who had a best friend that used to
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: come along and her friend was finer than her.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: So and the first day we had never done nothing.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: We just went out on the date.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: The first day we went out, I drew the conclusion
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: that I would be much better off with her friend
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: than her I came at the first day.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: I knew that right way, first first day, just on sight.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: In my twenty some years, I came to the conclusion
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: that my life, future and all I.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Hope for would be in better hands with her.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Friend because, like the mom and this one, she had
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: it going on.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Boy did she.
• 24:37
  Speaker 9: So.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I sat there and made the switch in my mind.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, the problem I had.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Quentin, is the problem you gonna have.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: You can make the switch in your mind, but how
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: do you get to switch out verbally? Verbage to use
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: to tell your original date that you are now feeling
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: her bestie? I have yet to come up with those words, Quentin,
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: good luck, Steve.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Isn't this different? It's her mom. It's not just her
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: best friend, it's her best friend who happens to be
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: her mom.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Surely I told you what would happen with just the
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: best friend.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: I really don't know what to tell you about this
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: girl's mom.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is something right now, This is really something
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: you gotta stop.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: It ain't nothing, he could say, you know, there's nothing.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: You're right all right. Moving on to JJ in Southfield,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: JJ says, last night I heard rumbling in my backyard,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: so I opened the curtains. My neighbor and a woman
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: were back there having sex. The next day he called
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: to thank me for not scaring the woman off, and
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: he said it won't happen again. His wife is my
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: wife's cousin. I know man code, but do I break
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: code if it involves family?
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: No, you can't break man code. Family, your wife's cousin.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: They ain't even close. Oh that ain't your brother, cuse
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: you really don't even know them people. Man, Come on now,
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: my mama's sister's kids. What what y'all live out of
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: state in Alledge. No, man, whatever, now, dog, you can't
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: break man code on that, okay. And he even he
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: realized you saw him and thanked.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: You and said, it won't happen again, not in your backyard.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: That's what that's what he said.
• 26:54
  Speaker 7: What mean?
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's what he said.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: It won't happen again. You didn't hear on the his breath,
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: it won't happen again, right, and that's what that mean?
• 27:06
  Speaker 10: All right?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Harper and Talladega says, I'm thirty and I'm dating a
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: black man that is a mama's boy. If the food
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: doesn't taste like it's mama's food, then he won't eat it.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: He highly offended my pastor's wife last week by telling
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: her that she didn't cook her lime of beans long enough.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: We're about to get engaged, should I think twice before
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: marrying him?
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: Well, now I'm gonna be real, which it's hard to
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: chew down on some tough line. I'm just gonna get
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: real with you, do.
• 27:34
  Speaker 9: You know what?
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Because they already starchy, you know, and that's like that,
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: that's like undercooked coin. You know, them starting foods. You
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: got to cook them through and through. I'd rather have
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: a soft lime of bean than a crunchy line of bean.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: These ain't snap peas. Now, you got to know your grocery.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: And I love you know, And if you're gonna be
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: country and we're gonna get married, you can't be in
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: here undercooking these limee of bean. And the pastor wife better, Yeah,
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: hell you and a Harry foe. You should have just
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: left them own and came to church, cut them on
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: low and leave them in there on simmer in the
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: crack five and then call home and tell somebody ain't
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: there is somebody that don't go to church go up
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: there and turn them beans off.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: But you gotta say it like that. That's how they
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: always go in there and turn them beans off.
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: Somebo they run over, You know how they go because
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: somebody at that street, in their apartment across the street,
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: got the kid your house because you made friends with them.
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: Y'all had your own little watch committee, and you know,
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: to send them over to the house cause they don't
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: never go to church and turn them beans off.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I got a question lady that wrote the letter, is
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: she white? Because she says some dating black man man see?
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: And now that I kind of thought that too.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't gonna say that because I try to stay
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: out of hild when I came as. You don't give
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: it from here I go. You know, y'all always running
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: stuff under hot water. Anyway, You got the ball and
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: blind of beans and your pastor's wife don't know how
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: to cook. And I don't blame it black for saying
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: nothing about it, because I'm not gonna be coming over
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: here these little white dinners, and y'all under cooking these
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: vegetables and running these hot water across these green beans
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: and slicing up these almonds on them. I'm not coming
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: over here for this. And stop putting these marshmallows on
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: top of these jam Who talked y'all to do that?
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: And we like dressing and dressing and stovetop is two
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: different things, entirely coming to the White Church.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: No more, thank you for yellow. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Here's a question for us. Uh, listen to this.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: What has your boss done to help you live your dream?
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: What y'all don't talk about? Let me go and sit back.
• 30:00
  Speaker 8: Listen.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: We're always helping our boss.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Take it away, crew, We're always helping our company. That
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: ain't a question about, no you helping me? Question is
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: what is your boss done to help you live your dream?
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Can get way? Can I set it up?
• 30:14
  Speaker 14: Please?
• 30:15
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, hear about all that old other self call we
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: do this and that. That ain't what the question is.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we got to set it up,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: all right. So you know we're always helping our bosses.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: We help our companies often we do extra work then
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: get left in the dust when our companies have bigger opportunities.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: But some of us have great bosses. Okay, trying to
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: get to this part, Steve, some of us have great bosses. Uh,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: time for us to share with Steve, our boss, what
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: he did for us to help us live our dream.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Wants to go. I think Junior wants to what they
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: got to live.
• 30:48
  Speaker 15: Let me just say about my boss will live my dream.
• 30:51
  Speaker 15: First thing my boss did will give me jobs? Yeah,
• 30:56
  Speaker 15: first of all, let's just look at the jobs, little
• 30:59
  Speaker 15: big shot. Yeah, Apollo, Steve TV and this hip morning Shoot.
• 31:06
  Speaker 15: Now what else do I have to thank him for? Yeah,
• 31:10
  Speaker 15: I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good.
• 31:12
  Speaker 14: You're good.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good, Junior. That's the come up, right, Yes? Yeah,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: all right? The question is what is your boss done
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: to help you live your dreams? Go ahead, Carla, are
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: you still writing your list down?
• 31:27
  Speaker 14: Uh?
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: Huh yeah?
• 31:28
  Speaker 9: Let me.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Tom He don't even know what.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: No, Tommy's going last because.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: He's your nephew.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: He's going take time I can talk for. No, he's
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: gonna go last because you're his uncle. Sure is going Yeah, okay,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I'm going.
• 31:49
  Speaker 12: So the first thing you've done is allow me to
• 31:54
  Speaker 12: continue being an executive manager in radio for over twenty something.
• 32:00
  Speaker 12: You think I am the only black African American woman
• 32:09
  Speaker 12: to be running a syndicated show in this country. Right,
• 32:14
  Speaker 12: that's thanks to you. Let's see what else. And you
• 32:18
  Speaker 12: encourage me to launch my own lip glass, my own
• 32:21
  Speaker 12: lip glass line.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: So thank you very much.
• 32:24
  Speaker 12: Entrepreneurial, ownership, cosmetic or guru, whatever you want to say.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: So thank you, Steve. That's awesome. All right, here's the question.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: What has your boss done to help you live your dreams?
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: All right? My turn?
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: All right? First of all, First of all, Steve has
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: made me laugh more than I've ever laughed in my
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: entire life, which is a great thing. I mean it
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: just yeah, we're trying to give you love here. You've
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: made me laugh, really laugh. Okay. Here's the other thing
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: you've done for me. You've taught me because I didn't
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: know this before I met you. You taught me about
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: men and how men think and all of this kind
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: of thing. Okay, you taught me about that. I didn't
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: know that at first. I didn't have a dad. I
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: didn't really have you know, like a lot of male
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: role models in my life. So you became that for me.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: So you became like a father, brother uncle to me
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: as well, all right, and that yeah, you made me.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: You allowed me to help you write on your most
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: successful book, your first time out, you know, I mean
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: really you gave me credit for that, you paid me
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: for that. That was awesome, and you keep me employed
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: every day. So thank you very much, sir. We are
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: answering the question, what has your boss done to help
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: you live your dreams? Nephew, Tommy, you.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: Uncle don't have to leave you.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 34:03
  Speaker 14: He has motivated me, and it's just certain lines that
• 34:07
  Speaker 14: he has said to me directly that has just motivated
• 34:11
  Speaker 14: me to follow my dread. Uh cussed me completely high.
• 34:17
  Speaker 14: That that motivates me. Told me I was a worldless
• 34:22
  Speaker 14: Yeah I was. Okay, that's so motivational. Uh, I would
• 34:27
  Speaker 14: be told me I would be nothing without him. Motivate Honey,
• 34:33
  Speaker 14: just told me yesterday I was stupid and unintelligent.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: He said, stop him when he lies, let him.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Motivated me. Motivated me to follow my dream uh my
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: raggedy career.
• 34:50
  Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, yeah, motivation Uh quit being a one job
• 34:58
  Speaker 14: having sorry person. Yes, motivated me to follow my old
• 35:04
  Speaker 14: hug now and then he motivates me even more when
• 35:08
  Speaker 14: he describes how I look shout how ug lads man
• 35:14
  Speaker 14: right there, very strang It just motivates to.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Keep you ground.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Don't forget turtle Tommy.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I left the turtle line. I looked like the
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: watch commercial.
• 35:26
  Speaker 14: But that motivated all of these motivational lines that I've
• 35:29
  Speaker 14: got you something to follow my dream?
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: What this is your response to the question, what is
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: your boss done to help you live your dreams? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: that's it right, there's a right I have been cussed
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: into my dream. Let me see how you feel you feel?
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: See, you know some of the stuff I have forgotten.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: I appreciate y'all remembering it, but you know, I do
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: have a strange way of motivating that time. But I
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: am in the uplift business. It just aggravates me when
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: the person I'm trying to uplift don't want to be
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: lifted up.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, then I turn on them get lifted, you know.
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: And but you all have turned out to be wonderful
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: people and wasn't because of me. But if I could
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: have been any part of your success, I say, you're welcome,
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: But it wasn't cause of me.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Fill be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Time Now, guys, but would you rather? Would you rather
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: be captured by pirates or cowboys? You know those Old
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: West bad guys. Pirates are Old West bad guys.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with the Old West bad because I'm
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: out on that water.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: I can't jump off now, so I'm forever your captive
• 37:26
  Speaker 4: because I cannot jump in.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I am the captain.
• 37:28
  Speaker 12: Now.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna leaves, run behind a cactus or something.
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: Got a shot, I'm gonna I'm gonna break out, running
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: to the hills something.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: But you on that ship, your gots to sit there.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right. Would you rather get cheated on
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: and know about it or not get cheated on and
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: just always be suspicious?
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: I just take the suspicion. I don't give it that
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: going to thee but knowing you cheated.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: And still be there. No, that's not gonna work.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Your third doctors appointment this week?
• 38:08
  Speaker 6: You know that?
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Analyze You can't go.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: To the grocery st to the doctor while you buy
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: a damn ice street who else like that place?
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: Just be suspicious on her?
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: Should it would be a little stuff? Oh oh, old
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: black panty holes?
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: What you ain't been wearing?
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Black panty holes? Okay?
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: Hey, hey, what does your ba even fall? I'm just
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: taking a bath for what?
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, i'd be suspicious? Yeah, all right, are you quite done?
• 39:01
  Speaker 9: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy? Fortune today,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: let's ask the most famous person. That's easy.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: If I could find a way to make this money
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: and nobody everybody leave me alone?
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, heartbeat, that's.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: Right, No, that's right, all right. Would you rather be
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: a clown in a rodeo who distracts the bull or
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: would you rather be the cowboy who rides the bull.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna be the clown and you bet not
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: fall off of it when I'm out there ready to
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: get the roll and get your arena. Come on, dog,
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: come out out hey, But I don't be nowhere near it.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Bull, do that shout again.
• 40:05
  Speaker 6: I like cowboy, just didn't this crazy?
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Get out for him, Get out for him? All right,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: we gotta go Yo.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: This is Jamie Foxx.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: This is Kim Whiley.
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: You already know what it is, Maag.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: You're match go bean and you are now listening to
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: the Steve Horvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail. If
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: you want to leave Steve avoicemail, call him eight seven
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: let's go to the first caller. Her name is Michelle.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: She's from Greenville, Mississippi. Tay, Steve.
• 40:48
  Speaker 11: My name is Michelle. I'm from Greenville, Mississippi. I was
• 40:52
  Speaker 11: driving and listening to your closing remarks and it almost
• 40:55
  Speaker 11: brought me to tears. I had this exact same conversation
• 40:59
  Speaker 11: you're closing remarks mentioned with my son yesterday and I
• 41:02
  Speaker 11: googled him, and I hope it's somewhere online that he
• 41:05
  Speaker 11: can actually listen to let him know it's just not
• 41:08
  Speaker 11: me talking that it is true statements that are from
• 41:10
  Speaker 11: people you don't even know in person. But I thank
• 41:13
  Speaker 11: you for that, and I pray that my son listens
• 41:16
  Speaker 11: to that message, because Steve, he is so lost. He's
• 41:19
  Speaker 11: only twenty two, and I believe I'm about to lose
• 41:21
  Speaker 11: my child.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: But thank you so very muche.
• 41:25
  Speaker 9: Thank you.
• 41:25
  Speaker 12: I believe you're talking about the one where Pastor Will
• 41:28
  Speaker 12: the one that we played the phone call the other
• 41:30
  Speaker 12: day and you followed up with that talking about God,
• 41:35
  Speaker 12: and it was very moving what you were saying, So
• 41:37
  Speaker 12: I believe this is what Miss Michelle from Mississippi was
• 41:41
  Speaker 12: referring to.
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: Well, thanks, but keep praying for your son though he
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: ain't totally lost, don't ever give up on prayer.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: Prayer change his thing, Prayer, change people too.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: That's right, all right, Steve. As we move on, this
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: caller needs some relationship advice about trusting a cheating husband.
• 42:00
  Speaker 9: Okay, Steeve, hope us for some information and advice from you.
• 42:05
  Speaker 12: I was a victim of infidelity.
• 42:08
  Speaker 10: I'm not going to say a victim.
• 42:09
  Speaker 9: I'm going to say my husband he did on me.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: I'll just say that.
• 42:14
  Speaker 11: And it's been several years.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: And I decided to stay and we're working it out,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: but I just don't trust them. Can you give me
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: some advice on how I can start trusting my husband again.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I really love them, I want us to stay together,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: but I just I just don't trust them, and I
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: really want to thank you.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: I don't know the exact answer to that, to be
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: honest with you, because there's so many particulars when you
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: get into things like this. But one thing is if
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: your husband's behavior has changed, then it could mean as
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: it's been a change in him. Now, if you're going
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: to hang on to these feelings that you have nothing
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: I or anybody else can do, because if you're gonna
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: stay in that feeling for whatever the reason, now, you
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: may be very legitimizing that feeling now because that maybe
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: you're seeing a reoccurring pattern which causing you not to
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: fully trust again, or maybe your intuition is telling you
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: something is still happening even though you see a little
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: bit of change.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: See, I don't know what that is, so I really
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: can't advise you on this.
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: But you cannot live your life in an untrusting atmosphere.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: You just can't.
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: That's hard to do for anybody, to keep walking in
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: a door into a home.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: That's not a peaceful existence for you.
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: And I got you wanted to work, But you got
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: to ask yourself a couple of questions.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Is this my soul mate?
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: It's because you gotta ask yourself that am I staying
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: in this simply because I've been in it? Because a
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: lot of people don't want to leave a relationship because
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: the time they have invested.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: In it, right, And then always ask people the same.
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: Questions, Well, I've been with him eight years and if
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: I just leave, it'll all be for nothing. Well, let
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: men ask you this question. Do you want eight more
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: years of the previous eight years? You got to ask
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: that question too, Yes, women, I can't yeah that time? Yeah, yeah,
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: you hang on to that time instead of hanging on
• 44:33
  Speaker 4: to what you want or what you deserve.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: But on the other side of that, Steve, with just
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: a few seconds left, if he has cheated, can he
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: change his ways? Absolutely? Women?
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: Have you all up spreading bad information? Once a cheata,
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: always a cheata. That's not true. People change and get
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: it right all the time. Once a thief don't make
• 44:57
  Speaker 4: you always a thief.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I just wanted you to point that out.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: A hold on real quick, like that dude on TikTok's head.
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Just because I cheated one time, I'm a cheater if
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: I cut your hat one time in my ball Yeah.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: All right, now, all right, okay, all right?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Coming up next our prank phone call for today. Right
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up at about four minutes after the hour,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: get this my brother's ex wife on the car. We
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: don't know what that means on the car, but we're
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: gonna find out.
• 45:50
  Speaker 11: On the car.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: The car. I've been in the car, but not on
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: the car I've been on. But that's so uncomfortable, really,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: it is.
• 46:10
  Speaker 8: Clear.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that in just a bit.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for the nephew and the
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: prank phone call. What you got for his neph What
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: you got that? Right here is I left my ring.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: I left my ring.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I left.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: All right, let's go get dog. I left my wreck.
• 46:39
  Speaker 9: Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister, mister and missus
• 46:42
  Speaker 9: please all right, my name is doctor. I'm actually trying
• 46:46
  Speaker 9: to reach your husband, Clarence. Is he Is he available?
• 46:52
  Speaker 10: Is that reason you'll collin?
• 46:54
  Speaker 9: Well, I'm actually the surgeon that actually did the procedure
• 46:57
  Speaker 9: on removing his gallstones. I was doing as any complications as.
• 47:01
  Speaker 10: Far more complication.
• 47:05
  Speaker 9: Okay, well listen, there's a couple little bit of things
• 47:08
  Speaker 9: I want to discuss with you guys and see if
• 47:10
  Speaker 9: we can maybe get em rectified. Is he around? Oh?
• 47:17
  Speaker 13: What is this in racks?
• 47:19
  Speaker 9: To actually actually, when we actually did the procedure on
• 47:23
  Speaker 9: your on your husband and removing the gallstones, I will
• 47:27
  Speaker 9: say that there's a bit of a mistake made and
• 47:28
  Speaker 9: I'm hoping that he can come back in so we
• 47:30
  Speaker 9: can kind of get it rectified. You know, it'll be
• 47:33
  Speaker 9: actually thirty minutes and he'll be in and out. But actually,
• 47:35
  Speaker 9: when I removed the gallstones, and I'm very embarrassed to
• 47:39
  Speaker 9: say this, I actually left my wedding ring inside your husbins.
• 47:45
  Speaker 9: And I understand man, I say I actually left my
• 47:50
  Speaker 9: wedding ring inside your husband when I actually removed the gallstones.
• 47:54
  Speaker 9: And I'm hoping that he'll come back in so I
• 47:56
  Speaker 9: can actually take it out and and he'll be on
• 47:58
  Speaker 9: his way.
• 48:00
  Speaker 10: He's my boy.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: The Last Book.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, Hello, mister. Yeah, how you doing this is doctor?
• 48:21
  Speaker 9: I actually did the surgery on you when you were
• 48:24
  Speaker 9: came in and got your golfstones removed. I remember you that.
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: I will say this, missus Clarence. I actually made a
• 48:30
  Speaker 9: bit of a mistake when you were here, and and
• 48:32
  Speaker 9: my apology. If I can actually get you to come
• 48:34
  Speaker 9: back here, man, I can get you taken care of.
• 48:37
  Speaker 9: But and then this is just a big mistake on
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: my part. But when you guys came in and I
• 48:41
  Speaker 9: removed your stones, I actually left my wedding ring inside
• 48:45
  Speaker 9: inside of me. Yeah, yes, sir, your wedding ring. Sir.
• 48:49
  Speaker 9: I know this is crazy, but yes, I have truly
• 48:53
  Speaker 9: made a mistake and wanted to see if I can
• 48:54
  Speaker 9: get this thing rectified and get this thing taken out.
• 48:57
  Speaker 9: And I tell you, man, I've I've been without my
• 48:59
  Speaker 9: ring and my wife is raising holy hell about it. Yeah,
• 49:03
  Speaker 9: but you know something about it. We got a problem
• 49:05
  Speaker 9: with what do you mean? I mean, I'm about to
• 49:08
  Speaker 9: go back to work. I really can't be going back
• 49:10
  Speaker 9: into the operating room for somebody to take a ring
• 49:13
  Speaker 9: out of me that they left by mistake.
• 49:16
  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.
• 49:18
  Speaker 9: Okay, I mean you know, I realized your wife.
• 49:21
  Speaker 10: Might be upsetting. You need your ring.
• 49:23
  Speaker 9: But at this point that ring's gonna have to stay
• 49:25
  Speaker 9: where it is for a while. So I can't ironically
• 49:28
  Speaker 9: can't allow what that ring to stay there another two
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: or three days. I don't think you understand exactly what
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: I'm going through. There's no way I can allow that. Yeah,
• 49:36
  Speaker 9: I got to go back to work. But you know something,
• 49:38
  Speaker 9: I mean, you know, I mean, you know we're talking
• 49:39
  Speaker 9: about a bad, bad, serious problem. You know, we're talking
• 49:42
  Speaker 9: about malpractice. I mean, you know we're talking about me
• 49:45
  Speaker 9: taking out more time from work when I'm ready.
• 49:46
  Speaker 10: To go back.
• 49:47
  Speaker 9: I mean, you know we're talking law suit, all kinds
• 49:49
  Speaker 9: of stuff here. We need to get together. Can you
• 49:51
  Speaker 9: hear me that? No? Oh, okay, my wife's a upset
• 49:58
  Speaker 9: to a I mean, you know I can't get back
• 50:02
  Speaker 9: on an operating team. Cirt. This won't take the seconds
• 50:05
  Speaker 9: it's actually for me to snip that thing and get
• 50:06
  Speaker 9: that ring out of there. It won't take but a minute.
• 50:08
  Speaker 9: I mean, you still have the same incisions there. I
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: can go right back into where the same scar was
• 50:13
  Speaker 9: and take that out and keep.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: It moving on.
• 50:15
  Speaker 9: Go back into the same if you're going to operate again,
• 50:17
  Speaker 9: if you cut me, oh sir, I promise you that
• 50:20
  Speaker 9: you won't even know I was there. I'll go in
• 50:22
  Speaker 9: there and take that ring out just that quickly.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, But.
• 50:26
  Speaker 9: Let me ask you this, ye my wife, My wife
• 50:27
  Speaker 9: is about to go crazy. I'm pretty I'm a pretty
• 50:30
  Speaker 9: good guy here, but I mean, you know you got
• 50:32
  Speaker 9: lefpar ring in me. I mean, you know, do you
• 50:34
  Speaker 9: all have mal practice in shirtance? And we have plenty
• 50:36
  Speaker 9: of insurance. You know, It's really more about what I'm
• 50:40
  Speaker 9: going through at home. So I'm doing this, but young, yeah,
• 50:42
  Speaker 9: pretty much here at this point, I mean, no one
• 50:44
  Speaker 9: actually from the hospital actually knows what I'm actually calling you. Wow, right,
• 50:49
  Speaker 9: you know. I mean that's a big, big problem. You
• 50:51
  Speaker 9: said something about malpractic now, I didn't say anything about
• 50:54
  Speaker 9: mail practice. You guys actually said that. I didn't say anything. Okay,
• 50:58
  Speaker 9: now let me okay, hold on now, darsh hold on.
• 51:03
  Speaker 9: Uh well, now, let me ask you. This's here. Every
• 51:05
  Speaker 9: time I've heard of somebody leaving something inside of somebody.
• 51:08
  Speaker 9: You know, it usually end up being a situation where
• 51:10
  Speaker 9: it sets up infections or stuff. Well, that's eighteen carre go.
• 51:14
  Speaker 9: That's not gonna infect you at all. Yeah, I understand
• 51:17
  Speaker 9: what you're saying, but good grief. I mean, I just
• 51:20
  Speaker 9: I mean, I didn't even want to do the first surgery,
• 51:22
  Speaker 9: but I didn't have any choice. You know what, miss,
• 51:25
  Speaker 9: I'll be honest with you. I've tried to talk to
• 51:27
  Speaker 9: you and be patient with you. If I got to
• 51:29
  Speaker 9: come over and put some cold form up against your
• 51:32
  Speaker 9: nose and knock you out in order to perform this
• 51:34
  Speaker 9: procedure to get my ring, then that's what I gotta do.
• 51:37
  Speaker 10: Oh ho, hold on that. That what I'm supposed to
• 51:40
  Speaker 10: be doing while you're doing that.
• 51:41
  Speaker 9: You hear that what he said?
• 51:43
  Speaker 7: Woa, come along, Come on.
• 51:46
  Speaker 10: You know I'm not gonna stand for these threats.
• 51:48
  Speaker 8: Died.
• 51:49
  Speaker 10: You know that's your problem with your ring.
• 51:51
  Speaker 12: Now.
• 51:51
  Speaker 9: You know, up until now everything was cool. Now you
• 51:54
  Speaker 9: got a big problem. I tell you it's here.
• 51:57
  Speaker 10: I'm at home right now.
• 51:59
  Speaker 9: You're at home with my ring.
• 52:00
  Speaker 10: You got my ring? You can come getting right now?
• 52:04
  Speaker 9: Right? No, okay, now, I don't I don't have a
• 52:06
  Speaker 9: problem coming right over there to get my ring because
• 52:09
  Speaker 9: I want I need my ring back.
• 52:11
  Speaker 10: Let's do it. Come on over wan, we got something
• 52:15
  Speaker 10: for you down Hey, listen, I don't care what the
• 52:17
  Speaker 10: both of you are doing.
• 52:18
  Speaker 9: The bottom behind INSI that you have my ring. I
• 52:21
  Speaker 9: got your ring.
• 52:22
  Speaker 7: You just told me I had it.
• 52:23
  Speaker 10: It's inside of it. Well that's gonna stay, sir.
• 52:26
  Speaker 9: I'm not gonna continue to go back and forth with you.
• 52:28
  Speaker 10: You're not gonna continue to do anything because you come
• 52:30
  Speaker 10: over Here'm gonna take you out. You already threatened to
• 52:33
  Speaker 10: come over here and.
• 52:33
  Speaker 9: Put plural from him and know knocking me out to
• 52:36
  Speaker 9: go in the side of my body to come over here.
• 52:38
  Speaker 10: Doc, you got pwer.
• 52:39
  Speaker 9: I'll tell you what. I don't want any problems out
• 52:41
  Speaker 9: of your wife or out of you who's waking us.
• 52:44
  Speaker 9: Only gonna take thirty minutes and everybody'll be happy after that.
• 52:47
  Speaker 10: You won't make it back.
• 52:49
  Speaker 13: Got cram down.
• 52:49
  Speaker 9: I understand everything you say. I got one more thing
• 52:52
  Speaker 9: I need to say to the both of you all.
• 52:53
  Speaker 9: Are you listen to me? I'm listening. It's Doris listening. No,
• 52:57
  Speaker 9: not really, cause I'm already tune you out. Here's the
• 53:00
  Speaker 9: last thing I need to say to you. This is
• 53:02
  Speaker 9: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Y'all just
• 53:05
  Speaker 9: got pranked by y'all niece Peaches.
• 53:10
  Speaker 10: What you would have all be? Nephew, Timmy, nephew, tell
• 53:17
  Speaker 10: me that you This is me. Man up next, you
• 53:22
  Speaker 10: tell me, nephew, Yeah, I got your land.
• 53:26
  Speaker 9: You at my home. Man, you're messing with my heart
• 53:29
  Speaker 9: top that might have run back inside of my body.
• 53:33
  Speaker 9: All right, let me let me let me speak to
• 53:34
  Speaker 9: miss Darry. Whoa miss does you?
• 53:37
  Speaker 10: All right?
• 53:40
  Speaker 9: Hey, miss dar? I got one more thing. Now. What
• 53:44
  Speaker 9: is the baddest radio show in the land? Man show?
• 53:50
  Speaker 10: Well, lucky.
• 54:00
  Speaker 12: Dar?
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you too much. We just want to
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: get Marie back. They was tag team and you tell me,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: come on over here. I got something for you.
• 54:17
  Speaker 16: I got something for you.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: He got to go to work.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: I got to go to work.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: But then he said, hold on the doors, hold on
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: my wife. My wife not hearing this man, she's not's
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: not going along? All right, too far? Bishop, thank you
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: now if it works for me. Coming up next, it
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• 55:31
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  Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter thank you for you subjects. My
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: brother's ex wife on the car got it all right,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been separated for three months and
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: I'm getting divorced. My husband and I had a very
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: happy marriage until three months ago. He was a family man,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: and he's allowed two of my younger siblings to live
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: with us in the past. My youngest brother is twenty eight,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: and he rushed into marriage after he got a woman pregnant.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: It was obvious that his wife was not the marrying type.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: She's twenty five and all she does is smoke weed
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: and drink. One night, she went home drunk and tried
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to fight my brother, so he put her out and
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: divorced her a few months later. She resurfaced three months
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: ago asking if she could stay with my husband and
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: I while she looked for a job close to the
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: baby's daycare. We agreed to one week. This girl ate
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: our food and used my car and never said thank you.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: avoided her. That's a lie. Just five days after she
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: got to our house, she ruined my life. She was
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: out smoking wheed on the patio and my husband was gone.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: Around nine pm, I heard noises coming from the carport,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: so I went to see if it was my husband.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: It was him and my brother's wife, who had her
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: bent over his car, and when they heard me, they
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: started pulling up their pants. I told them both to leave.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: I was so shocked. I was so shocked that she
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: would do that to me. My husband moved out and
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: served me with divorce papers. Recently, he said it is
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: all his fault and he could never look me in
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: the eyes after what he did. Now, my only problem
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: is that my brother wants his family back together and
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: he wants to remarry his ex wife. How can he
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: want her back. I've lost my husband, and if my
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: brother remarries this woman, I won't ever speak to him again.
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: Would I be wrong to cut my little brother off?
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: You know what I got to tell you. You have
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: every right to handle this situation however you see fit.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: I clearly understand why you're angry. I understand why you
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: feel betrayed by your brother, by his ex wife, by
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: all of this situation, but him getting ready to remarry
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: this weed smoking trifle and Heffert who broke up your marriage. Wow,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: that's a lot. That's a lot. So handle it however
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: you need to handle it. I mean, you're thinking, how
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: could he.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: Do this to you?
• 58:28
  Speaker 9: I get it.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: Either he's still in love with her or has forgiven
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: her for having sex with his brother in law, your husband,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: which I don't know how he could, or he's just
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: whipped and just stupid. I mean, I don't know, but
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: some of the blame for all this has to go
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: to you and your husband for letting her come back.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: You knew what kind of person she was. Letting her
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: come back to live with you is crazy because you
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: just knew how she caused the breakup of her own marriage.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: Then you double back and invite the devil in your
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: house again after your brother divorced her. Why would you
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: do that? Her coming back to live with you should
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: have never happened at that point. I'm sure your brother
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: felt some kind of way about you think about it,
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: but I don't know what the damage is done now.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: So there's enough hurt and pain to go around for
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: everyone in this entire family. So no, I definitely get
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: it if you're mad at your little brother for taking
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: her back, but at some point you're gonna have to
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: forgive him so you can move on. That's his life.
• 59:26
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: Your husband, on the other hand, cannot look you in
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: the eye because he knows what he did to cause
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: all of this. I'm glad that nowhere in this letter
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: did you say you were taking him back because what
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: he did was just foul.
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: Steve, I see what's happening in the letter. My brother's
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: ex wife on the car hit The problem. The real
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: problem in all of this is your husband. This is
• 59:57
  Speaker 4: your real problem. You ain't married to your brother. You
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: didn't marry his skank ex wife. You're married to your husband.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: On the person that owes you their loyalty in this letter,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 4: that owes you and promised it to you was your husband.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: It ain't enough in this letter about your husband. You
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 4: keep talking about bringing up this girl and man and
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: how could she do this to me and your brother?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: And if he should I cut him off, if he remarried?
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 9: What?
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: What you need to get your priorities lined up here?
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: Your real problem is your husband. He the only one
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: took a vow to you, Your brother, stupid, the girl trash.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: What you expect from stupidity? And what do you expect
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: from trash? Stupid people are going to do stupid things.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: Trash type. People are gonna do trash thing. The only
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: decent and see your husband got in him is he? No,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: he can't look you in that because of what he did.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 7: He know that.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: All right, let me try to walk you through the
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: hignas right here. It's really nothing to do. I'm separated
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: for three months. I'm getting divorced. Your husband and I
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: we had a very happy marriage to three months ago.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: He was a family member. He allowed two of my
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 4: younger siblings to live with us in the past, my
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: youngest brother twenty eight. He rushed into Marria, got a
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: woman pregnant. Obvious wife wasn't to marry and type. She
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 4: twenty five. All she do is smoke wheat and drink.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 4: One night she went home drunk and tried to fight
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: my brothers. So he put out and divorced her a
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 4: few months later. Now he is a part where Shirley.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: I understand. She resurfered three months ago asking if she
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: could stay with my husband, and I watched she looked
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 4: for a job close to the baby's daycare.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: We agreed.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 4: The one week I understood that that's okay. That wasn't
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 4: inviting the devil back in. That was just your husband
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: has proven he's a family man. But Gee's really really
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 4: a family man. Ah See, the problem is your hub.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: All that thought, Steve. Okay, we'll be back with part
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: two of your response, coming up at twenty three minutes
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: after today's Strawberry letter subject my brother's ex wife.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 8: On the car.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away
• 1:02:32
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• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: the subject to my brother's ex wife on the car.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: Listen to me this whole thing, lady, this letter, about
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 4: this woman, about your brother, whether you should accept your
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: brother back, How could she do this to me? All
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 4: of this your focus should be purely on your hooks. Now,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 4: some ramifications and some fallout behind it. But your husband
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 4: bought all this. See you said in your letter you
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 4: and your husband had a really happy marriage. He was
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 4: a family man. He allowed two of my younger siblings
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 4: to live with us. My youngest brother, twenty eight, rushed
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: into married. He got a girl pregnant. Obviously, she wasn't
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: a man type. She twenty five. All she do is
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 4: smoke weed and drink. One night she went home drunk
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: and tried to fight my brother, so he put out
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 4: and divorced her a few months later. You're not divorcing
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: a woman because she came home drunk and tried to
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 4: fight you.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: It's way more to this today, way way more to
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: this than that, yo.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 4: But see, your brother stupid, So he ain't smart enough
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: to divorce you just because you came home drunk and
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 4: wanted to fight him.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no no no no no.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 4: Something happened while she was out that caused the fight
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 4: that made him put out, that made him want to divorce.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: She resurfaced three months ago, ask him she could stay
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 4: with my husband and while I was living and with
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: our while while she looked poor job close to the
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: baby's takers. We agreed to one week. That's being nicer.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: Father.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 4: You just said that your husband is a family man,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: and he allowed two of your longer, younger siblings live
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 4: with y'all.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: You said that this girl ate our food, used my card,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: never said thank you.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: You just said she smoked weed and drink all day.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 4: She ain't got time to say thank you. It's hard
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: to say thank you. Why are you smoking weed?
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, hell, you can't remember her manners and stuff
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: over you.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 4: My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 4: avoided her.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: That's a lie.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: Five days after she got to our house, she ruined
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: my life. Oh dish.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 4: She was out smoking weed on the patio or my
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 4: husband was gone. Around nine pm, I heard noises from
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 4: the car port, so I went to see if it
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 4: was my husband, and it was and my brother's wife.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 4: He had her bent over his car, and when they
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: heard me, they started pulling up.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: They pass. I told them both to leave. That's a
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: lot of stuff missing in this letter right here.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 4: Oh lord, oh lord, girl, See anyway, let's just leave
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 4: that alone. I was so shocked that she would do
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 4: that to me. You were so shocked that she would
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: do that to you, But do that to you? You
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: shocked at her? Your sentence was he had her bent
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 4: over his car, He had her been over his car.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: Your next line is, I was so shocked she would
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: do that to me.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 4: You didn't. You forgot about the last statement you made. Anyway,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 4: my husband moved out and served me with divorce papers.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: Reason.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 4: He said it was all his fault and he could
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 4: never look me in the eye after what he did. Okay, cool,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: Now my only problem here we go?
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: Here we go now.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 4: My only problem is that my brother wants his family
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: back together and he wants to remarry his ex wife.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: How that's your problem. You got your priorities wrong. Your
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 4: marriage is gone. The problem ain't your your brother stupid?
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 4: We done talked about this. He's stupid. He wants to
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 4: remarry his ex wife. How can he want her back.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: Because he's stupid.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 4: And I lost my husband and if my brother remarries
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 4: this woman, I don't ever want to speak to him again.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: That's the decision you're making. Would I be wrong to
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: cut my brother? Cut your brother off? You cut your
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: husband off? He's stupid? My question is he want her back?
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 4: What is she doing to these means? Lord kidding Dad?
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: Is the question for me?
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 4: What is this alcoholic, weed smoking woman doing to these
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 4: men that make him in the cop hope and your
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 4: wife right there in the house. What is she doing
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 4: that make your brother want her back? After your brother no,
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 4: he been with she been with your ex husband and
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: he wanted to remarry her. What is she doing doing
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: some things? And I'm just gonna have to be honest
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: with y'all. It is really undescribable for this wow in
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: this letter right here, Mac magnificent.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: Feats of them. But that's all she can do though.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 17: She can't think. She can't save money, she can't raise kids,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 17: she don't know where the baby, They can't act, she
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 17: has no thought to the future. But lord Lord, Lord Lord,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 17: I think there's some clapping involved.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not sure.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, please leave your.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: Commence stapping sounds that makes a man do extra things.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: On Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: dot com and please marry me.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 9: I was.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: Steve Bartimore show man. Why do we have a radio
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: show if we're gonna do it right?
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 14: Listen to your that's stupid, stupid, That's what I'm talking about.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: Boy, say that? Man? Why do we say that?
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: Show? If we're gonna be right? Morning show coming up
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 2: right after.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 18: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, get into
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 18: the Hyundaid Getaway Sales event and get away with the
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 18: deal so right, it almost feels well right now, Get.
• 1:09:34
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• 1:09:38
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• 1:09:41
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• 1:09:46
  Speaker 4: five or Ionic six.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 14: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away
• 1:09:50
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• 1:09:53
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• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: All right, so we might not feel any Chris cool
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: weather yet because we're still you know, still in summer,
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: but fall is just a few weeks away, and it's
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: the ideal time to prioritize habits that can keep you
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: healthy and full of energy before you know, before I
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: get to those healthy tips, quick question for Steve. Now, Steve,
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: are you focused on your on your health? Steve and
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: the guys?
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: Focused?
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 17: Okay, yeah, all.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: Right, I'm here elevated it this week. I've even elevated it.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, here's some tips to help you
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: stay healthy for the fall season. And you may have
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: some tips of your own, Steve. As we head into
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: the cold and flu season, load up on foods that
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: can boost your immune system, including foods rich and vitamin
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: C and vitamin D. You have any tips, Steve.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you have got to stop being an alcoholic. You
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: are alcoholic. You have got to check yourself.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: In other words, stop going down to that cold of stove.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 4: It's a must. If you alcoholic. You got to stop
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 4: that right now. That's my number one tip. Help all alcoholics.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 4: Must stop being alcoholic, immediate go ahead.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: Ship, All right, here's another one. Make sleep a priority.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: Being well rested is crucial to staying healthy.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 4: Sleep is important to your health. Too much sleep is
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: critical to your wealth.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: How much sleep are you supposed to get per night?
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: I don't believe.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: Let I ain't never slept a.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: Year because I don't. I don't see how you need
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 4: once you're not a child anymore. I don't see why
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 4: you need eight hours. I don't know how the child need.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 4: But I'm glad they sleep well. I mean a child
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 4: because he's growing his bones, got extend and all this it.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 4: Children have to sleep, right, But adults, if you're sleeping
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 4: eight hours, you're growing. But you're growing. You're not growing taller,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 4: you're growing wider. And I don't I mean, like you said, Tommy,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 4: you don't know last time you had eight hours? Do
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: you sleep eight hours?
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 9: Never?
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: Do you need eight hours?
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: I got, I got sickle cell.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: Sleep eight hours.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 3: Hell, I'm sick and don't get eight out.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: But I just don't.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 4: I'm not a proponent of eight hours is a third
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: of your life. I find that desperately hard to see
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: how you can have a quality life if.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: You sleep a third of it. That does not make
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: sense to me.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna get into that no more because
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: they ate me up on the internet talking about Steve
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 4: Harvey prefers wealth over health.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: So here's my thing about sleep.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 4: If you want to sleep, get all you want sleep
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 4: as long as you like, you can sleep your life away.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: You can sleep.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: You can sleep until you dream the most magnificent dreams.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 4: But I'm telling you this, to make a dream come true,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 4: you got to get woke, stay well. So but if
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 4: you want to sleep, go ahead, Steve, don't give it
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 4: no more.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: So there's a topic circulating on social media. Many of
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: us have experienced the dating scene, okay before we were
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: married and all of that stuff, And a lot of
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: women expect men to pay for the check, help with
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: their bills, their rent, their groceries, nails, hair bags, cell phones, etc.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: And on the other hand, some men feel like just
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: because we're dating or in a relationship, that they shouldn't
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: have to help with your bills or help you keep
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: up with a certain lifestyle. We're in this together. I
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: should get something from you and you should get something
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: from me. So, Steve, we got to ask you, as
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: you are our chief love officer, Well what do you
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: think think about this? I mean it's different now.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 4: Well, it's a true statement that everybody should get something
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 4: from the relationship.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: Now, if the relationship has progressed.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 4: And it looks like you are planning a future together,
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 4: if you are having any talks or plans of having
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 4: a future together, why would you align yourself with someone
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 4: who's not willing or looking forward to taking care of you.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 4: And that goes for both the man and the woman,
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  Speaker 1: All of that is what I need. Okay. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: It's there.
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  Speaker 2: It has to be an exchange.
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  Speaker 2: Woman, is unreasonable and unfair to walk.
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  Speaker 1: What you're saying over time and we want different things
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, in the top four.
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  Speaker 4: But if you're loyal to us and respect us, that's
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  Speaker 2: You must love me. But those are the things were
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  Speaker 2: looking for. Love is not at the top of the list.
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy. Fortune,
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  Speaker 9: Easy.
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  Speaker 1: Heartbeat, that's right, No, that's right, all right. Would you
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• 1:23:03
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• 1:23:07
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• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I'm will be the clown. You bet not fall off
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  Speaker 2: That arena. Come on, don't come out, but I will
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: be nowhere near the bull.
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  Speaker 1: Do that shout again, I like.
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  Speaker 2: Cowboy, Get out for you, Get out for you.
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