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NBA All-Star Weekend, Kim K, R. Kelly and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a suit on looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving them move like theming buck bus things. And it's
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  Speaker 1: cost me true good it, Steve, listen to move to
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  Speaker 1: coether for steam bar handy, I don't join join me
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  Speaker 1: to be doing me. Have you gotta turn huring in
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  Speaker 1: the moment, you gotta turn to turn them out, got
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  Speaker 1: to turn out the water the water. Come come on
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  Speaker 1: your baby at it. I shall will a good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey, I got a radio show
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  Speaker 1: him just trying to give God some back, just some
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  Speaker 1: back of what even gave me, just a portion, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Just I'm just trying, man, to to show some type
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  Speaker 1: of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just trying to, man,
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  Speaker 1: just just get it right sometimes, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, man, you just can't do what you want
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  Speaker 1: to do and just live wrong all the time. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you got it at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man,
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  Speaker 1: come on, man, you could do better. I know you can,
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  Speaker 1: you know saying and you know what I had to do.
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  Speaker 1: I had to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better,
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  Speaker 1: and I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to do better. You know, trying it's just to put
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  Speaker 1: forth and effin and if it don't work, well okay.
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  Speaker 1: But if you make up in your mind that I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
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  Speaker 1: it done is the only thing that matters. Sin It's
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  Speaker 1: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to
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  Speaker 1: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to
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  Speaker 1: win the game. Now, trying to win the game means
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  Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your
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  Speaker 1: mind made up, most athletes will tell you that they
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  Speaker 1: go out there with the full intent and purpose of
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  Speaker 1: winning and winning only see they don't put the second
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  Speaker 1: place finish on the cover Sports Illustrated. Second place don't
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  Speaker 1: get you there. You got to win. And now take
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  Speaker 1: it out of the scope of athletics, but keep it
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  Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you just want to You want to win in life,
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  Speaker 1: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated.
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  Speaker 1: The life don't you want to be recognized for your
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  Speaker 1: hard work. Don't you want, you know, to be recognized
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  Speaker 1: within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't you
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  Speaker 1: to have your plaque up on the wall down at
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  Speaker 1: your job. I mean most people do. Some people could
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  Speaker 1: care less. Some people don't care about looking good or
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  Speaker 1: being their best. And that's cool. But I ain't talking
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  Speaker 1: to them though. I'm talking to you. I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: those of you who want to be the best you
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  Speaker 1: can be. You know, people kill me when they're getting
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  Speaker 1: mad at people there and he Brown knows and he
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  Speaker 1: hall up on an employee of the moment man, the
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  Speaker 1: dude doing his job to the best of his ability,
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  Speaker 1: and he getting recognized for it? What they got to do?
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  Speaker 1: It all that you're talking about because you ain't up there.
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  Speaker 1: There's an amazing man, how people describe other people's success.
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  Speaker 1: He's so lucky, lucky, Hey man, don't they kind of
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  Speaker 1: get you a little bit when people call you lucky
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  Speaker 1: When let me tell you what luck really is, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Luck is when hard work bumps up into opportunity, When
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  Speaker 1: hard work runs smack dab up in the opportunity. Some
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  Speaker 1: people call that luck, but hold on, let's let's think
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  Speaker 1: about this. If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself,
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  Speaker 1: what would you call that? What you call that a
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  Speaker 1: missed opportunity? What you call that wrong place at the
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  Speaker 1: wrong time, or you missed out on that? But see
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  Speaker 1: when you've been working hard and the opportunity presents itself
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  Speaker 1: and it bumps up into each other. Now people want
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  Speaker 1: to call that luck. But hold up here, go to
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  Speaker 1: part though the day ain't paying no attention to. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that opportunity came by, But if you had not been
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  Speaker 1: working hard and the hard work had not ran up
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  Speaker 1: in the opportunity, what would you have. No, sir, it's
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  Speaker 1: not luck, it's work. It is work, because as a
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  Speaker 1: scripture that says faith without works is dead. Look, I
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  Speaker 1: know I use the same ones all the time, but
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  Speaker 1: them the ones I know. I mean what you want
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  Speaker 1: me to, You want me lie to, You want me
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  Speaker 1: to come on here and tell you man, I've been
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  Speaker 1: studying the Bible. I haven't. I haven't. I haven't, I haven't.
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  Speaker 1: But my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught
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  Speaker 1: me enough. Though now I know different between right and wrong,
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  Speaker 1: just like you do. You ain't gotta you know it,
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  Speaker 1: kuss me when people write a strawberry letter? Am I
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  Speaker 1: wrong for this? You know? Gooding? Well look at let's
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  Speaker 1: read your letter. Are you wrong for this? You know
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  Speaker 1: you're wrong? What you don't need that's to be, you know,
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  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, e see, go ahead, though,
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: here's the best advice I can give you. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I really came to talk about this morning, but
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  Speaker 1: I got sidetrack because I listen, you know what, get
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  Speaker 1: get out of your own way. So many of us
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  Speaker 1: are blocking our own blessings. Were just in our own way.
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  Speaker 1: We are in our own way. And one of the
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  Speaker 1: most dangerous ways you can get in your way is
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  Speaker 1: to do it your way, to get it figured your way,
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  Speaker 1: and to lock in on your way. And this the
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  Speaker 1: way it's got to go. Do you know how many
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  Speaker 1: people are blocking a blessing? Do you know how long
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  Speaker 1: I blocked mine? With that mindset right there? This is
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  Speaker 1: how I wanted to happen, This is how I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go down. This the way I'm gonna go about it,
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  Speaker 1: And this what's gonna happen, lock loaded fire. So I
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  Speaker 1: was dead set on doing it my way. Have you
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  Speaker 1: ever talked to people man, Well, it's just the way
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  Speaker 1: I do it. Look, because it's the way you do it,
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  Speaker 1: You think that make it the right way? You think
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  Speaker 1: jazz because you'dn't thought on it long and hard, and
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  Speaker 1: that's what you really want. Do you really think that
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  Speaker 1: your way is the right way or could that be
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  Speaker 1: a better way? See? Until I started listening to God
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  Speaker 1: and started paying attention to his way, man, I was
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  Speaker 1: spending my wheels. Man, I was out here so determined
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  Speaker 1: this how I was gonna do it. But you know
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  Speaker 1: I had to learn how to get out of my
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  Speaker 1: own way because just because I could do it my
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  Speaker 1: way didn't mean it was the right way. I had
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  Speaker 1: to get out of my own way. Just get out
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  Speaker 1: your way, man, Now, what what does that mean? That means, see,
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  Speaker 1: set your goals, That means have your dreams. That I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: set your goals, man, I ain't saying don't set goals.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. Set your goals. What is it you
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  Speaker 1: want to happen? What is it you'd like to have,
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  Speaker 1: What is it you'd like to be? What do you
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  Speaker 1: aspire to set your goals and set your dreams. Now
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  Speaker 1: take your goals and your dreams to God and ask
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  Speaker 1: God to show you how. Man, you can save yourself
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  Speaker 1: a lot of pain. Listen to somebody who did it
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  Speaker 1: his way for so long. And when I finally got
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  Speaker 1: out of my way, out of my own way. When
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  Speaker 1: you've heard old people say, let go and let God,
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  Speaker 1: you've heard him say that I didn't. I didn't get it,
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  Speaker 1: but I got it. Now let go and let God.
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  Speaker 1: And it's amazing little saying. Though now you know you
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  Speaker 1: may not get it now. It took me a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of years to get it too. But when I took
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  Speaker 1: my goals and my dreams and my vision to God,
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  Speaker 1: and I said, God, this is what I hope for,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I aspired to, This is what I
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  Speaker 1: want to be, This is why I would love to
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  Speaker 1: get to. Then I said, help me show me how.
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  Speaker 1: Point me in the right direction, Let me follow your footsteps,
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  Speaker 1: guide me and give me a spirit of discernment. Show
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  Speaker 1: me who wrong? Because I meet people every day. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: up to no good with me? Every single day? Oh man, man,
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe I run up into you. Man, the
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  Speaker 1: Lord told me something's gonna happen to me today. Well, see,
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  Speaker 1: I talked to him every day. He did not mention
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  Speaker 1: you to me. He ain't said nothing to me. He
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  Speaker 1: didn't tell me what was gonna happen in mind. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it.
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  Speaker 1: But it amazes me when people come up to me. Man,
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  Speaker 1: the Lord wanted me to tell you this. Hold on, man,
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  Speaker 1: I talk to him every day, every day, some days
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  Speaker 1: more than others. I ain't perfect. I missed sometimes, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm on a daily basis talking to him. So really, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm and and please know I'm listening it as well
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  Speaker 1: as I've ever listened before. But but get yourself together, though,
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  Speaker 1: see no your goals in your dream and then let
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  Speaker 1: God show you how to do it. He'll do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's so important everybody, that you get focused,
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  Speaker 1: that you aim for something, that you dream of, something,
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  Speaker 1: that you aspire to something. But it's the most the
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  Speaker 1: best thing you can do. After you do all that, Man,
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  Speaker 1: get God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: why would you not what you got to lose. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't got to go down there and make no big
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  Speaker 1: scene and run laps around the church and run up
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  Speaker 1: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and
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  Speaker 1: flip over and throw money in the air. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: got to do that. This you and God, man, This
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  Speaker 1: you and God. You know you got to serve and
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  Speaker 1: praise him the way you do it. You gotta let
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  Speaker 1: anybody else tell you high's done. It's a personal relationship.
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  Speaker 1: People kill me if you don't do it this way,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't come here to this church and you
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  Speaker 1: don't run around in this circle, and you don't get
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  Speaker 1: flipped in and you don't, Hey, man, you better go
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  Speaker 1: have a relationship with God. See what that's about. You understand?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody throw you off with all that? All right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: y'all talk to him. He loved to hear from you. Today.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show ladies and gentlemen, Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: shows on Alive, Open and Well. Good morning, Shirley, Good morning, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back, HALLI for Rell, Happy Friday Day and Junior.
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  Speaker 1: The best mentor in the business is Morning Up, Alive
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  Speaker 1: and Well. I want to thank y'all for letting me
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  Speaker 1: to take off yesterday. How I'm Valentine. I had to
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  Speaker 1: because you know, I work all the time, so I
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  Speaker 1: had to give him a girl some time. We had
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  Speaker 1: a wonderful time. Man, what you do because you know,
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  Speaker 1: we always like to hear the stories. Nobody does it
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  Speaker 1: like you, Steve. I probably can't tell y'all the name
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  Speaker 1: of the restaurant. I don't want nobody going down there
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  Speaker 1: messing it up. Okay, I'm not, y'all. But I called
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  Speaker 1: a restaurant that was one of our favorites and we
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  Speaker 1: hadn't been in a long long time, and so I
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  Speaker 1: called down and made some arrangements to get a private
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  Speaker 1: room with a separate interest interests, and so had it
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  Speaker 1: set it up with all flowers and candles and everything.
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  Speaker 1: And I had a table side uh waiter somalia because
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  Speaker 1: my wife loves wine, and a table side chelf. And
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  Speaker 1: he made us about fourteen to sixteen different dishes, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just small bites, you know, small sides. Marjorie can order
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  Speaker 1: some food. I know, with Marjorie, we don't even look
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  Speaker 1: at the menu. We just let Marjorie order everything and
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  Speaker 1: the wine and every really married to a big girl,
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  Speaker 1: Yeah I am think so, yeah I am for real.
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  Speaker 1: But now she don't eat everything she ordered. But she
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  Speaker 1: gonna order though, yeah, like like yeah, but you know
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  Speaker 1: if she if she ate it, yeah, i'd be married
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  Speaker 1: to me girl, and and and I and I love
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  Speaker 1: her the same, you know. You know that's right. Just
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  Speaker 1: be a lot most that much food on the table.
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  Speaker 1: Well mean you know they come take it off, you
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  Speaker 1: know every time, you know, if they just bringing the
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  Speaker 1: dish out of time. And so it was a private
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  Speaker 1: well its coloring table, side chelf and private area. It's
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  Speaker 1: just real nice just me and because it's very nice
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  Speaker 1: to sit and have dinner with service and not have
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  Speaker 1: to worry about talking to nobody else, just her. So
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  Speaker 1: we had a really really nice time, you know. All right,
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  Speaker 1: So I appreciate you'all understand that. And I also just
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  Speaker 1: want to say this. I appreciate everybody's love and support
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  Speaker 1: all y'all that mattered to me. Thank you, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. That's because we love you, boy, We love you.
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  Speaker 1: We love you. That's right. So you got big plans
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  Speaker 1: for this weekend? Not yeah? Family? Yeah your stars today. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as I get off day, I gotta go
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  Speaker 1: to work. Yeah wow. Yeah, our animal weekend is off,
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  Speaker 1: so it don't stop it's just a weekends off is over.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going back full times. What was that noise work?
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  Speaker 1: That's it? Well, you know, I want to know how
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  Speaker 1: your Valentine's was, Junior, because you're you're the single one
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  Speaker 1: in the cruise of we come back. Yeah, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: find out how Junior's Valentine's Day was. We'll be back
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  Speaker 1: at thirty two after the hour right after this you're
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  Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, Junior, we want to hear
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  Speaker 1: how your your Valentine's Day was. We know Steve always
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  Speaker 1: sets it out really beautifully for Marjorie every Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, but how was yours? Junior? Well know
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  Speaker 1: what they wasn't like us. You know I had that
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  Speaker 1: private room and everything. Now we was in there with everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we was at regular restaurant. We went down
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  Speaker 1: to the space called Smitty's. Uh, you know that's what
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  Speaker 1: she liked. So you know it's like a pool hall.
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  Speaker 1: You know, they got pool in the back, got wings
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  Speaker 1: over here, but everything ever packed. But that's what she
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  Speaker 1: liked to do. She's had to play pools. I wanted
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  Speaker 1: that shot some pool. She won every game. You know,
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  Speaker 1: they didn't really know, love like that. Oh you don't
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  Speaker 1: even know her. I come at it down here, La,
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  Speaker 1: you know, real cool chick, you know, but she a
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  Speaker 1: pool Shaw so you know this is the spot they Smitty.
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  Speaker 1: She said, come on, we're going to Smitty. I just
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  Speaker 1: put on a suit, you know. Now, yeah I'm in
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a suit at Smitty's pool hall, getting whooped.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about this ain't even fun tone the pocket,
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  Speaker 1: fick move move, it's nine balls, sad fucking fie. I said,
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  Speaker 1: this stuff taking all the fun out this day. And
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  Speaker 1: she came by Shirley and grabbed my behind. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: like the way that failed when yeah just just hugged
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  Speaker 1: me at okay, So did you get us Awa? Yeah? Uh,
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  Speaker 1: well when you went to pick her up and everything,
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  Speaker 1: did you take her fly? She picked me up really agress,
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  Speaker 1: really different time date. I didn't know what kind of
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  Speaker 1: car does she have, Junior? Oh she has a what
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  Speaker 1: sense uh what they call a thing that like they
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  Speaker 1: call it tesla tesla thing. Yeah yeah, yeah, but but
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, just way she's aggressive. I've
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  Speaker 1: never dated aggressive woman on Valentine Day and this how
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  Speaker 1: did go? You know, like I wasn't even ready to
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  Speaker 1: kiss you ever got pulled in. I wasn't even ready
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  Speaker 1: two kiss. But it wasn't romantic. Are you saying it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't romantic? It was very exciting. I was exciting, but
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  Speaker 1: but you know, like when I got dropped off, I
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  Speaker 1: just didn't feel right about that. What do you mean? Well,
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  Speaker 1: the way she let me out, She's like, you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get out now. I was like, that's it. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: coming in? Nah? What fuck? Ain't you gotta be the
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  Speaker 1: work in the morning. I was like, okay, all right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, thank you so much, Cheryl l Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: not underwood, Okay, nice though, I really enjoy it. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much for the pool lesson. How'd you meet
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  Speaker 1: this aggressive woman? Man? I met her? I met her.
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  Speaker 1: I met her over here at one of the restaurants
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  Speaker 1: of the Balls and everything. Can't tell you something, sure, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell you something. The kids. I didn't really
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  Speaker 1: like it. Why I thought you liked all that? You No? No,
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  Speaker 1: she kids like a pool stick. It's straight, straight, straight,
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  Speaker 1: tongue just hard, just like just shot in the back
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  Speaker 1: of my mouth like faid colder pocket sh But what
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  Speaker 1: does she have on does she have like a sec
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  Speaker 1: she red corner pocket right there in the back hute
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  Speaker 1: poked out the back of my cheeks. Well, Junior did.
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  Speaker 1: How was she dressed and she having like a sexy
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  Speaker 1: red Oh yeah, she wore all black heels and everything. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I just didn't know she take you fast
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  Speaker 1: like that? Oh okay, you know she wanted them to type.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we're gonna be going out again. Well
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  Speaker 1: that's not It doesn't sound like you have much decision making.
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  Speaker 1: Well she might, she called, I might have to go,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't really want so that's all I feel.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think kids though, the kids? Yeah, what was corfuck?
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  Speaker 1: That was in back of my mouth? That fast? Wow, Carla,
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  Speaker 1: I knew you had a good one. Oh yeah. My
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  Speaker 1: husband gave me these beautiful, beautiful roses flowers from Beautiful
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  Speaker 1: and then we went to dinner and then you know,
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  Speaker 1: it was a nice Valentine's night, thank you. Yeah, mine
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  Speaker 1: was really good too. I I enjoyed myself. I had
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  Speaker 1: had a great Valentine's Now it was kind of low key,
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  Speaker 1: we kind of like Netflix and chilled kind of night. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I like that. I enjoyed that very much with
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: the flowers and everything. You know. Um, of course we
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: ordered dinner. I didn't think I had to say that. Yeah, yeah,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: of course, Yeah, I don't need a reckon of perfectly
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: five whatever. Start experimenting down here, digging out this cropt,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out what is all this stuff that
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: stuffed together hanging in neft. Though. It was good, though,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: we had a great time. I was happy. Yeah, yeah,
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: nice Valentine's Yeah, very nice. Yeah, I'm a little tired.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: All yeah, let's corner, Junior, rack them up. All right, Well, Junior,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm happy. You know, you're going out
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: on dates since you know what. I'm happy about that. Yeah,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: you know, you to see what happens, you know. Yeah, Well,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: you gotta bring her around so we can meet her
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: for y'all. I know, y'all. What y'all y'all got them?
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Question Johns you're our little brother now, Yeah, y'all question
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Johnsyby having What does she do for a living? Yeah?
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: I don't even really know, but I know whatever it is,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: it's aggressive and it might involve pool. It might have pooled.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Is she taller than you? Yes? Oh heels? Yeah, okay,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: but she nice though. Oh that's good. She's just a
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: little aggressive. I like that. Well, what did y'all eat? Yes, Smies,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: waynes fry, Smitty's special sauce, whatever that was. It sounds
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: like it was hot. Yeah, yes, but she would she
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: wouldn't even bother it was me needed to walk. That's
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: type of one. I have cocktails. I couldn't focus on
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: having drinks with her. Too many other people that I
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: wouldn't familiar with. I don't know. I know gangster is
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: what I see him. I don't need to be drinking
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: while I'm in him. She was comfortable, No, just pudo. Yeah,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I'm overdressed as it is, right, But you are playing
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: a nice, quiet, romantic dinner. Yeah yeah, but you know,
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: well maybe you can play the next the next day,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah maybe. Well this is good, but we have
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: to meet her though. If it starts getting serious, I know,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: bring it to the fan. Yeah, we have to meet her.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: H definitely, all right, Carla, how you fitting color? I'm
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: probably gonna need another cup of cars hanging there? Girl
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: hanging to sit up straight? All right? Guys, coming up next, Junior,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: you're in for Tommy this morning. Tommy's out We're gonna
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this you're listening to.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we have
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news Jesse small Let in the News opening
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: up about his attack, plus Miss Annazon Deck with our
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: national news for this morning. Right now, the nephew is out,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Junior is in with today's run that prank back. What
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: you got, Junior. Valentine's Day Delivery, Oh you just like
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: to now Salentine's Day Delivery running cat. Hello, Hello, my
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: name is Eric. I gotta hear you guys a call.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: I gotta delivery. I gotta make there tomorrow for Valentine's
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: for who Kendra? Kendra? Yeah, Kendra lives here, that's my wife.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: But I didn't order. I didn't order anything for her
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: from from for her from Valentine's Day. I'm supposed to
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: be there between seven and seven thirty, you guys, the
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: first on my list tomorrow morning for Valentine And I
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: got like seven eight boxes here. That's uh, that's coming
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: to you. All's play So all right, I can let me,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: let me, let me ask you this are you at
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: six West Don Is that you? Yeah? That's me. But again,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: there's there must be some clerical error typo because, like
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: I just told you, man, I didn't boxes in Canada.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: It's about seven boxes. But I mean, I mean, let's
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: just looking at the total here, that adds up about
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: six hundreds something, not dollars. I mean, I got flowers,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: no partner. We're just gonna I'm just gonna take her
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: to dinner and we're just gonna do our thing. But
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: there was there was. There was no delivery schedule from me. No,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: especially not it at seven o'clock. No partner, you got it.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: There's something wrong. Well you are you you're not gonna
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: be there? Are You're not gonna be there tomorrow morning? Sir?
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm I'm gonna be here. But as far
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: as accepting a delivery that I didn't order and didn't
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: pay for, that's not happening. Man. Well let me tell
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: you this. I got flowers, two boxes that are lingerie,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: several boxes that are sex Choice, all that stuff. I
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: have all that stuff loaded to be the liver tomorrow
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: at seven am. And oh, dude, obviously there's a communication
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: breakdown between you and me, player because I didn't order that,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: and right, but I have the But what the problem
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I'm having is that you're telling me I'll have the
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: right address. You know the name of the person Kendred,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: which is your wife. Right, yeah, yeah, so far so
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: good man. But as far as me ordering that, dude,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not accepting it because I
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: didn't pay for it. I did not mean. I mean,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: it's already it's already paid. Let me let me just
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: look at the name here on the h here it
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: is here is right here. Okay, we got Devin. Who
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: would you to say, I've said, Devin, that's that's who
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: made the purchase. Oh no, no, no, no, okay, that's
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: my wife's ex husband. So eithern you and him or
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: in cahoots with each other to do this and and
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: try to upset me. But guess what you succeeded. All right,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna make this as I listen to you,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: so you listen to me. This is what I want
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: to make abundantly clear to you. I understand you have
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: a job to do, but if you bring those roses
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: and all of that stuff past my house tomorrow, this
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: is what's gonna happen. Those roses, those storms, I'm gonna
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: put them somewhere so far up your rear end that
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: the only way that they see sunshine is when you
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: open your mouth. So do not, I repeat, do not.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: You and Devin, y'all can take this and you can
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: do whatever y'all want with it. Y'all can play with
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the sex toys, y'all do whatever you want to, red roses,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: tuttles and all that other stuff. Y'all gonna do what
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: you need to do. Not show up at my trib
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: tomorrow because it ain't gonna be a happy Valentine's Day
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: for nobody involved. That's what I'm okay. But here's the deal.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: As a deliberate person, I am obligated to make the drive.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: I have to make this job or then I don't
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: get it. You know, I get chewed out that I
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: didn't do my job, because that's something, okay, So what
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: would what would you rather be chewed out or half
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: towards up your rear end? Since you let's hold down.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Let's slow down here. What you gonna do is holes
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: you bring? Okay, all right, I won't do the flowers.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I'll use the sex toys for you. So you got
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: a choice. Music got flowers? You you? Let's let me
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: let me say this flowers as professional as possible. You
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to be as cool as possible, but you
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: ain't listening to me. Do not bring them? Do every Okay,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: you can drop them off at the curve, then you
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: get credit for and whoever walked past and up and
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: down the street, they can pick it up. But do
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: not come to my front door and ring my doorbell
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: asking me to sign and accept nothing. And it ain't
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: have to drop them off at the door, sir, dude,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you now, I gotta drop him off at
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: the door. The problem I'm having is you telling me
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: you're gonna stick some flowers up like now we got
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: a problem. Just listening to this whole scenario, I'm just curious.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Is it possible that maybe Devin does something for her
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: that you don't do? Hey? Man, you what? What's where
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: are you going at? Was this all I'm telling you
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: is demanding your business and don't make this drop? Why
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: am I doing that? Devin? I'm sure I'm just that.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Why am I don't do this stuff that Devin has
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: purchased for her? And why you need to ask Devin?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Because Steven show his faith up over here you can
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: take it home and give it to your girl if
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: you want to. I'm not giving my girl or anything
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: that I didn't buy far. I'm not doing that you think.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: So if you if you're not gonna get your girl
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: or anything that you didn't buy far, why am I
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: going to accept something for my girl that I didn't
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: buy far? I ain't A'm telling you that you gotta
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: accept this at all. I'm saying, how do you have
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: to make relate if you bring my hounds? I got accepted,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: and I'm telling you now, don't he bread to my house?
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe mister Devin know what she looks. She looks
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: like obviously she him no more. She most of the
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: flower delivery person, just like he heard that husbin. I'm whooping.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: That's all I got to say. Two words. But you're
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: bringing some whooping, so you might as well come on
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: now so you can go home after you get this whooping. Okay, okay, okay,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: let me let me say this. At the end of
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: the day, I'm gonna say this is Tommy already told
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: me she's gonna do something like this. He told me
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: that who do you say? Who the hell of me
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: already told me you was gonna act like, who the
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: hell is timmy nephew tim Me, Isaiah, this is nephew
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: timm me for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And guess what, Isaiah,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: your girl Kendrell got me to prank phone call you.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: You know what, you Kendre Devin. All of y'all can
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: show up tomorrow and all of y'all gonna get portions
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: of this Valentine to day. You gotta give brother chance
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: to cool down, not man. I to my sweet one
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: and only kindred with all that is in me. I
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: love you, baby girl to death do us part, and
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: it almost came early, but I love you. Huh what
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Valentine delivered? That is yeah? Okay, yeah, yeah, that that's
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: what you got to do your half Valentine. They delivered.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Am I the greatest? N Yeah nobody, You're the King,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you? I love you. Ain't here. Valentine's Day must
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: have been a bit much for him, all right, Uh
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: channing a little Kaleen, Yeah he is, He's in Kaleen
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: entertainment news, Jesse Smalllett opens up about his attack two
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: weeks ago and the NAACP image award nominations are here.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this you're listening to show.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Jesse Smallette opened up to GMA's Robert Roberts and told
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: his story about his alleged racist and homophobic attack, which
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: occurred in Chicago a couple of weeks ago. Small Lett
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: gave a very detailed description of what happened. He also
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: answered a lot of the questions that critics and doubters
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: have had about his story. Smalllette says is disappointing that
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: his attack wasn't captured on video. Take a listen. I
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: went down to where it happened and I walked them
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: through exactly what happened. And I looked up that I
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: saw that there was a camera directly on the light
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: post that is in the intersection, so I'm like, there
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: it is. And then the deta to told me that
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: the camera inside of the casing was facing north, so
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: they didn't have it, and that was disappointing. Yeah. Jesse
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: also said that he gave police a description of their
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: body type and believes that the guy who said one
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: hundred percent that the two men and the surveillance photo
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: released by police are the attackers. Now, according to Yeah,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: he said that. Now he was that that's them, he
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: said that. Now. According to TMZ, the Chicago police raided
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: the home of the persons of interest and seized two laptops,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: five bottles of bleach, a red hat. Both of the
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: men were reported to be extras on the set of Empire.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Also yeah, also, multiple sources have told Chicago ABC seven
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Eye Witnessed News that police are investigating whether Jesse Smalette
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: and the two men staged the attack. Now, that was
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the latest thing that came out, allegedly because Smallette was
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: being written out of Empire. However, a Chicago police spokesman
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: by the name of Anthony Googliemi says that there's no
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: evidence to support that report from ABC seven I witness
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: News in Chicago. I can tell you right now that
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: really I don't only know how that would make sense. Yeah,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: that somebody with stage getting jumped on to save your
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: role on a show, right because you thought you were
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: getting written out. Yeah, but how does that make any sense?
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: And he's such a prominent character, it just doesn't make
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: me live. Yeah. But but Fox exex came out and
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: said that's definitely not the case. They weren't planning on
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: firing him or anything. Yeah, he's a core part of
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: that show. Yeah he is. He is a major story liner.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah on the shows. Yeah, yeah, this case. Yeah yeah.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: And we'll keep you posted, of course as the news
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: comes to us. Yeah. The nominees were the NAACP Image
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Awards were announced and Regina King, Chadwick Boseman, Jessie Smallett
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: and It's a Ray are just a few of those
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: up for recognition. And congratulate to our very own guests,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: who Steve Harvey. Okay, dude, you were nominated for Outstanding
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Game Show Host for Family Feud, which you start today.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Congratulations on that. You didn't know, You didn't know, because
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: this sounds like surprise. Yeah, I didn't know. They don't
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: content you. Wow, you've been working that hard getting the
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: hands up. No, maybe I should fire some people whatever.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: That shocked. Yeah, I'm in I'm in the news in
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: the damn way. Well be forsothe we congratulations Steve, Outstanding
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Game Show Host for Family Feud. The Image Award celebrates
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: excellence by people of color and movies, TV, music, and literature.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: The fiftieth Annual NAACP Awards as on March thirtieth on
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: TV one. Congratulations again. Now it is time Steve for
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: today's headlines. Ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne Shrip, thank you
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: very much, Steve. Thanks everybody out there. Good morning, This
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: is a trip with the news. Yes, it is now
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: both the as Senate and the House of Representatives now
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: that they have both ratified the new border wall compromise agreement.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: The President is expected to sign the measure into law
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: later on today and stave off another government's shut down then, though,
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: in order to get over the full amount that he
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: wants for his campaign promised boarder wall. At ten o'clock
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: this morning, President Trump is reportedly going to declare a
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: national emergency so that he can simply take money already
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: earmarked for other things like renovating the Army's Camp Le
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: June stuff like that, and use that money. Democrats say, however,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: that using a declaration of national emergency just to get
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: some money test the limits of the presidential's authority and
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: how Speaker Nancy Pelosi says she might fill a legal
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: challenge President that the President is setting here is something
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: that should be met with great unease and dismay by
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: the Republicans. And of course we will respond according when
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: we review our options. And paulas Pelosi says that the president,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: if he does declare a national emergency just to use
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: government as a piggy bank, that that would set a
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: dangerous president, as you said, for the future of other
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: commander in chiefs who could do something like that. Also,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: William Barr has been confirmed as a nation's new attorney general.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: Barr held the same position in the administration of hw Bush.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Colin Kaepernick fans rejoice. That's because the Colorado Spring Sports
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: store that stopped selling Nike products just because of the
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: campaign they had featuring the Gifted, a quarterback who's still unemployed. Well, anyway,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: that company is now out of business. Kaepernick melt in
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: the national anthem, you know, call attention to the police
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: murders of unarmed black people, and the owner of Primetime
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Sports didn't like the fact that Kaepernick was being featured
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: and that Kaepernick's T shirts were flying off the shells.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Everybody was buying him. So what he did he got
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: rid of his entire Nike inventory and now he's out
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: of business. A website reporting that Bravo TV network listen
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: to this has just given the green light for a
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: new reality show featuring legendary model and restaurate tour b Smith,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: her husband Dan Gasby, and his mistress Alex Lerner, who've
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: been talking about this story on the show. Mto says
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: that the show is going to be focusing on the
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: quote fabulous life of Alex and Dan and how they
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: lovingly care for Barbara while spitting their time between Barbara's
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: homes in New York City and the Hampton's. Barbara Smith
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: was a millionaire, a top Black model, a restaurateur, and
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: TV personality with her own line of home furnishings. However,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: ten years ago she was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's disease.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Sad News, music and polder Michelle Legrand has died at
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: age eighty six. Y Oscar winner wrote music for a
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: number of movies like The Summer of forty two and
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Brian's Song starring Billy d williamsment James con Remember this
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: it's a sad movie. I cried my eyes out. Well,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: let's not cry. Finally, today is give Some Love Day
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: and I sam in love. You just believe on in
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: love the uz you best believe. Get back to the
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everybody, and good morning. You're listening
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: to the String Show. All right, here we go again
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: with these R. Kelly videotapes and stuff man. Their new
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: allegations now against R Kelly. Investigators are looking to a
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: newly surfaced video featuring R. Kelly and a young girl
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: v A VHS tape was submitted by a whistle blower
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: who was being represented by Michael Abanati. Michael Abanatti is
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the same lawyer who represented Stormy Daniels in that case.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Abanatti claims that his client can id both Kelly and
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: the girl in the video, who are seen performing multiple
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: sex acts. They are also some disturbing references to the
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: girl's age and their dynamic, including referring to her private
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: parts as fourteen years old and her calling R. Kelly
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Daddy multiple times. The man in the video also apparently
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: has a mole on his spine, consistent with one of
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: the singers marks. Apparently, the whistle blower has known Our
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Kelly for decades and has met the girl a few times.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: The singer's lawyer says they are unaware of any new
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: evidence against Kelly. Avanadi as I mentioned as the same
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: attorney who represented Stormy Daniels last year, if you would
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: call back. In two thousand and two, R. Kelly was
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: arrested for child pornography for a very similar video and
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: wound up being acquitted six years later. One issue back
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: then was that no one could prove whether it was
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: our Kelly on the tape. Jesus, Yeah, he does, he
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: really does. Does Anybody? Is anybody saying how old this
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: tape is, how recent it is, or they're saying VHS
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: tape was submitted so you can it's back then it Yeah, yeah,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: but when the tape when it happened, she was fourteen
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: years old. Yeah. See, I think I don't. I don't
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: know how law works in these cases right here. I
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: don't know if there's a statue of limitations. It's just
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just repeatedly. Yeah, he needs to be
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: stopped the same thing though. Man, it's not it's not good.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: It's it's not good in any way. It's just not good. No, no, no,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's not even a lot you can say
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: about this. And I mean, you know, until I saw
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: this special on it though, the series that they did,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't know it was at that magnitude.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't know. You know, I heard it, but I
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: didn't know. Yeah, you know, I didn't go to court
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: read documents on it. I just didn't know. And you
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: weren't alone. A lot of people said the same thing. Yeah, yeah,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: this is awful, This is really sickening. Yeah, all right,
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: we're gonna move on hopefully. Um, you know this situation
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: will be handled. Okay, coming up at thirty four after
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: the hour, Junior and Steve are gonna play are you
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Smarter than Junior? But yeah, you guys are gonna play
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: are you Smarter than Junior? So get ready, okay, the movie. Okay,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: well you're just get we get in the mood. You
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: get in the mood, all right, I am right after
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, Steve? Uh since his
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: coming up basketball season, the All Star Game is coming
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: up in all of that, you know, yeah, this weekend art. Yeah,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: and since Junior you know, so so knowledgeable about sports
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: and everything, and you are too. Of course, we thought
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: we'd play a game of are you smarter than Junior?
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: All right, so we're gonna ask the questions and were
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: trying to see who I asked the first. Yeah, yeah,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: come on game show host. Come yeah, nominated? I'm don't
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: you know your sports? Here? Let's go all right? Here
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: we go? Are you smarter than Junior Steve number one?
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Which NBA team is the first major league team to
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: be named after an insect? Charlotte Hornets? Okay, Which former
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: bad boy of the NBA had a brief relationship. Yeah,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, what is Doctor Jay's real name? What is
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Carmelo Anthony's wife's name? What is the regulated height of
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: an NBA goal? What is the foul called when a
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: player touches the ball on its way to the goal?
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Goaltending King James is a nickname Lebron James. Which which
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: NBA legend's real name is lou Alinder. Which Orlando Magic
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: player had a seven year contract for forty two million dollars?
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: How many points? How many points is a free throw
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: word to one? What NBA legend was nicknamed the Black Mambat?
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Which rapper, actor, and producer is the creator of the
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Big Three Bastball League. Yeah, all right, that was good.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: That was really good. Man. You got me a lot,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: You got me on. Now, well you chopped me down
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: like I did too. I know, I knew I was wrong. Now,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't wouldn't read it. I don't just gonna say
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: field goal, you don't try to jump it? Yeah, I
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: didn't do. You jumped one a moment, bad Boy, you
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: got me. That was fun though. That was way different,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't it. It was? Yeah, yeah, that was that was engaged.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: He'd been uh, well, hold on, U well you know
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: a right, here we go. Which NBA team is the
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: first major league team to be named after an insect?
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: That was a tie? Charlotte Hornets is the answer? Which
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: former bad Boy if the NBA had a brief relationship
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: with pop star Madonna, Dennis Rodman is the answer. Kire
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: got that one right. What is doctor Jay's real name?
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: That was a tie? Julius Irving? What is Carmelo Anthony's
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: wife's name? That's a tie? La La? And okay, y'all
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: trying to call that? What is the regulated height of
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: an NBA goal ten feet? Steve? You got that? What
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: is a file called when a player touches the ball
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: on this way to the goal called goaltending? Steve got
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: that one. This is when we thought Junior fell off
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: right here, Carla file something like call it a foul?
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: You hit a player. King James is a nickname of
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: which NBA player Lebron James. Steve got that which NBA
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: which NBA legend's real name is Leu Alsinder. That was
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: a tie. Kareem abdul Jabbar, which Orlando Magic player had
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: a seven year contract for forty two million dollars. Junior
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: got that one right. It was Shaquille O'Neill. How many
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: points he is a free throw worth? Uh? Junior got?
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, Steve got this one right to Ji said too,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: But Steve got it right with one point which what
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: NBA legend was nicknamed the Black Mamba Kobe Bryant. Junior
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: got that right. Number twelve. The last one, which rapper,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: actor and producer is the creator of Big Three Basketball League.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: That is ice Cube, also known as O'shay Jackson. Steve
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Harvey got that one right. That was good, guy, Yeah,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: that was really good. That wasn't fun. Yeah, So the
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: score is, uh, you tied for four, Kier got three,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Harvey got five? Whoa yeah? Why Steve? Yeah, old man
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: coming through, baby right, old man coming through. But Junior
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: you shut down though on well, you know you said
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: it was a hYP question him one time ain't gonna
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: do that because they ain't. That's a dump man, that's somebody.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah you might have, but it was a little spring ball.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: All right. Next, actually backwards, Junior is in for the
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: nephew with the prank phone call for today. Right after this,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, coming up
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today. Subjects Can a cheater
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: ever change? Can a cheater ever change? That is the subject.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: Right now it is Junior in for the nephew with
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. Junior, what you got? I ain't
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: ready for this today? Are you killing me? Tommy? Is sleep?
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Its security? Go once again? Sleep? It's a kid it god,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: rut it kit security booth man? Help you? Hey, uh
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: this circuit I can barely heat. Is this Is this
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: a security booth down by by the gate? Yes, sir,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: this security booth. Yeah, let's some man. It's some people
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: next dough to me. They they keep I'm hearing a
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: bunch of scuffling and stuff going on. But I ain't,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: you know, I ain't really show what's happening. I know,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm hearing this lady scream or something. Man,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: But I I just okay, so you can give us
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: the unit number that you're in. We could have somebody
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: come right over there and check that out. Hello, sir,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: sir um Hello, yeah, sure, okay, yeah, I uh, I
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: gotta I gotta sleeping disorder, man, So I'm okay, honest,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: people next dough to me? Man, they was, I mean,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: they were sitting there. I heard this lady screen and
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: I just didn't. I ain't want nobody to, you know,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: start shooting or nothing, because I know they was arguing
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: pretty pretty heavily then I heard it. I know they
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: must have been fighting because I heard something. I understand, Sir, sirry,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: what what unit are you in? Hello, sir, are you there? Hello? Hello? Hello, Yes,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I'm here. Are you okay? You do you're security guy? Right? Yes,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: sir you called us about ten minutes ago and we've
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: been trying to find out what unit you're in. Well, yeah, man,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: the people up here, man, they are, and I'll be
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing more people over that night and they've they're fighting. Man.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I know I'm here too. Is God be too mean?
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: And they're fighting This lady over sir. I hate to
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: interrupt you, but tell me the unit. The unit, sir.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: He some kids over that to sir. We need to
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: know the unit so that we can come out and investigate. Hello, Hello, sir, Hello, Hello,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: hello sir. Huh hey, hey, look I cannot do this
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: all day. I am trying to work. I cannot be
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: around with you on the phone. Could you please give
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: me your unit number? Shut argument? Man? I know you. Yes,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: you have said that they don't argument. I heard you
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: when you said that they will argument sir. If you
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: just give me that unit number that either you're in
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: or the union number you hear the no it's coming from,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: we could have somebody to come over there and check
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: that out immediately. So what the union number are you in? Again? Sir?
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Do you do you do? You? Do? You hear them? Argums?
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: See let me put I only hear you snor. I
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: need the unit number. Let me see. Listen, I'm gonna
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: put the phone up. Do you hear yes, sir, but
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I don't hear the unit number. I need the unit number.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Without the unit number, we're just having a conversation. Hello, hello, Hello, Hello,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: sure are you there? Yoh yeah? Oh ay man? You
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: checked on the people. No, sir, we have not checked
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: on the people because we have not been able to
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: get the unit number from you. Sir, dude, this fall
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Please every time you get here to stuff fall, please
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: come hell, you got to hear it. Keep falling off?
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: Hey man, Come dude, this guy following a sleep on
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: the phone. I think it's unit out of him to
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: keep falling asleep. Hello, sir, Love, Sir, sir, Hey man,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know what unit he's in. Keeps falling asleep
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: every time I asked you something. If he falls asleep.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: He keeps telling me that over that fight, but I
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: don't then he won't tell me to you. I don't, sorry,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know to you. What's the would you wake him? Sleep? Hey?
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I got a guy on the phone that he says
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: if they get here, some screaming over his highest unit,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: but keeps falling asleep. I don't can't get him on,
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: get him to tell me what the unit number? Hey, dude,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: come in listen to this. Listen. Hello, I'm gonna need
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: you to wake up, sir, SIRR Could you please give
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: me the unity? I gotta ask you something. How come
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: y'all all y'all. Do just sit on y'all to watch
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: cars come in and out that door instead of helping
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: people that need help, like you want the number. You
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: shut your housing at me. You didn't do your damn job.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: You read a cop. I'm a read a cop. I'm
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: a rend the cop fall asleep. But just give me
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: the you don't number? Please, I give you the number,
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: new yo, the number? You ready for the n the number?
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Are you? Are you listening to me? Yes? Listening to you, sir.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Death is a few timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: You just got crank by your co worker, y'all crazy, y'all.
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: This is not funny, man, This is not funny. Y'all
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: got me out here walking around this complex looking for
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: people's hollering and screaming, and you're sleeping every thirty five.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Put it okay, Let me let me ask you something, man,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Show Junior? Did I get him the greatest? Come on?
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: But hey, hey, you're the best I've ever seen that.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Say it again? You you the best I've ever seen? That?
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Is it? Any way you can put some more owing, man,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Let me try You're the best I ever seen. Come on, Oh,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: you're the king of pranks. Baby. See see what I did?
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Was I called a security guard. That's what you did.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Ben told me he was sleeping. Yeah, let's leave it.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: Security guard. That's how I got it. Let's called the prank. Yeah,
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: that's how I got the prank right there. Everybody don't
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: do that though, true. See, everybody don't do what I do.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: See what I'm saying, that's how I do. Because I'm
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: the great ever done it. I need to give you
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: my problem. I don't hear nobody saying Rick smiling, can't
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: do what I'm doing. The other boy. I can't do
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing the other boy. Everybody know who you boy?
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: The other boy? That boy. Come on, now, I'm the
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: great that did. Y'all pick me. I'm gonna have to
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: go ahead and do it right here. I just shut
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: you're killing me this weekend. Yeah here I am. Yeah,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: all after twice, it's funny tonight. And to Mars also
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: that then in the cut in the cut, yea, uhh yeah, stupid,
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: it's coming to town. I just tie yeah, come around
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: once again. Come on, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all stop this.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Let's not even going all right, thank you? That is
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: not a competition? Will you home like it is? No?
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: Surely my comedy career staying on his own. This that's
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: true time trying to get his damn he's doing a
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: good job. Yeah boy, funny, he's selling down. He's doing good.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: You just don't even watching for what I'm gonna do.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: All right, look, we gotta go. We gotta get to
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: this letter. Thank you, Thank you, Junior in for the nephew.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: Up next, it is the Strawberry Letters. Subject can a
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: cheater ever change? Right after this, you're listening to Steve
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: If you need advice I'm talking about on relationships, on dating,
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: on work, on sex, on parenting, and more. Please submit
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We are here to help you. That's what
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: we do. Okay, we could be reading your letter live
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: right now. All right, we're ready, all right, what's that time?
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: She is my free and strawberry shirty shibby shirty. Strawberry
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: was his strawberry left. Did you say strawberry Shirley, Yeah,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: well you know who. It's just funny. I'm good, I'm good,
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: I'm good. All right, subject can of cheater ever change?
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. I've been in a relationship for nineteen years,
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: but we are not married. I stayed in this relationship
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: because I do really love my guy, and we have
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: five kids together. Since day one, he has cheated on me,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: and I was young, so I let him get away
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: with it and hopes that he would get it out
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: of his system. While things got worse over the years,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: and now he has four outside kids with four other women.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: His family knew about the other children, but nobody ever
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: told me about them until recently. He swears he has
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: stopped the cheating, but he is still up to his
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: childish games. And I heard he took another woman to
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: his mom's around his family over the holidays. When I
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: asked him about it, he told me that I don't
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: have the right to question him about what he does
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: when he's not with me. Wow. Then he blames his
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: behavior on my wrong doings. Over the years. He found
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: out that in the past I would talk to other
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: guys on the phone whenever he and I were going
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: through a bad spell. But I never cheated on him.
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: He says that I'm not a cheater. He knows that
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater, but he likes to throw that
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: up in my face. I still want to marry this
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: man so our children can have both of their parents
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: in the home. I don't want to be with anyone else,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: and I have nothing left to give anyone new. Whenever
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: I mention leaving him, he acts up and goes crazy,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: but he doesn't do anything to show me that he cares. Steve,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: this man is thirty seven years old now, so do
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you think he will ever change and get it together.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: I am willing to accept his other children and make
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: it all work. Am I being foolish? I need your
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: honest advice? Wow? The disrespect that is in this letter.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, there's just you know, a couple
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: of ways to look at this. One of the ways
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: is the way you want things to be, you know,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: the way you imagine things to be. But this is
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: not the relationship you're in. The relationship you're in is
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: how things really are. You've been with a man for
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: nineteen years, You're not married to this man. This man
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: is cheated on you for nineteen years. You have four
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: outside children this man does with four other women that
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: you know about. And then the disrespect. He's just disrespecting you.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: His family knew about the other children. They disrespect you.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: He's taking the children and other women around his family.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: That's more disrespect. But you're still staying there nineteen years.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: You love this man. You wanted to work out so
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: your children can have both the parents in the home.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: For what, he doesn't respect you. He even told you
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: you don't even have a right to question him about
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: what he does when he's not with you. What you've
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: been with this man for nineteen years? Come on, come on,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: this is so crazy to me. I mean, this man
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: is thirty seven years. Do you think he'll ever change? No, No,
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: he's not gonna change. Why should he? Well, what's the
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: incentive to change? When he can do whatever he wants
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: to do with home, he wants to do it and
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: still come back to you and you'll take him back.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: You're willing to accept his other children and make it
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: all work. What incentive does he have to change and
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: be a better man? You're certainly not giving it to him.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: I mean, really, this is a case of low self
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: esteem here and all of that. I mean, we talk
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: about that a lot on this show. You're allowing him
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: to do it, and you have for nineteen years, So
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: why change now, Steve. Great answer, Shirley, really really great answer.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: I feel the same way. The problem system as that. Look,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for nineteen years, not married,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: so he's never planned on committing to you. You stayed
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: in the relationship because you really do love this guy.
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: We have five kids together since day one. He's cheated
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: on me day one. He's cheated on you through the
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: five kids. Now, I let him get away with it
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: in hopes that he would get it out of his system.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: That ain't high man, get it out of his system.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: He get it out of his system. When you stop
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: letting him get away with it, it further ingrains in
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: his system. When you allow him to get away with it,
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: you've accepted bad behavior from him, and since he knows
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: you's accepted, he just continues to bad behavior. But you
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: were young, you didn't know how to do it. So
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not mad at I'm just telling you what happened. Well,
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: things got worse over the years. Of course they got
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: worse over the years because he's had no check and balance,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: ain't been no conselt, quinches of repercussions for none of
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: his actions. Well, you've got worse over the years. And
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: now he has four outside kids with four other women.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, man, dude, you haven't made nine babies. No, no, no,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: huh no, four outside kids with four different women. Oh
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: but you mean with his other with his five children
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: he got fired with huh. He got four outside children
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: with four other women. You haven't made nine babies with
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: five women. Come on, dog, dog, what's what's wrong with you?
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? And you? And you thirty
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: seven years old and this day and age condom ain't
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: never what? Man? You? You just an idiot? He's an idiot. Yeah.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Now his family knew about the other children, but nobody
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: ever told me about them until recently. Now he swears
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: he stopped the cheating. What after nine kids? I mean,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: how much child supposed how much you making? Though he
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: stopped the cheating, but he's still up to his childish games.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute. He swears he stopped the cheating, but
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: he's stealing to his childish game. I already took another
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: woman to his mom's house around his family over the holidays. Okay,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: this is woman number five. She gonna have a baby too,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: because that's what he do. He didn't have four other women,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: and four of them got kids. Man, it's something wrong
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: with this dude. We come back. When I asked him
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: about it, he told me I don't have the right
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: to question him about what he does when he's not
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: with me. Well, no, you can't question you, because when
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: he ain't with you, he making babies. All right, Steve,
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have part two of your response coming up
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hours. Subject can a cheater
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: ever change? We'll find out right after this you're listening show,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Let's recap Steve Today's strawberry letters. Subject can a cheater
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: ever change? This lady been with this man nineteen years.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: They never got married. He hadn't stayed in the relationship
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: because she really loved the man, and they got five
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: kids together. But since day one, he hadn't cheat it
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: on him. You let him get away with it and
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: hopes he get it out of his system. That ain't
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: how we get it out of our system. We get
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: stuff out of our system a lot quicker when there's consequences,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: checks and balance. Well, things got worse over the years.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: I knew it because he ain't got no checks into
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Now he's got four outside kids with four other women.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: It's fair. I'm knew about everything. Blah blah blah blah.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: He swears he stopped his cheating, but he's up to
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: his childish games. I heard he took another woman over
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: to his mama's house around the family and the holidays,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: And when I asked him about he told me, you
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: don't have to right to question him when he would
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: you do when he's not with you, you can't. You
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: ain't got the question what he's doing. You already they
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: walking around, they need Pampus, they need to ride to school,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: they need lunch money. You ain't got to question him
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: about what he's doing. He got proof of what he doing.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: Now he got a fifth woman he didn't take over
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: to the house. Told him, you ain't got the right
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: the question. Then he blames with my behavior wrong doings
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: over the years, said, you talked to other guys whenever
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: you're always going through Bassville, but you never cheated on
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: He knows I'm not a cheater. But he likes to
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: throw that up in my face. Here is the kicker.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: I still want to marry this man so our children
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: can have both their parents in the home. He's never home.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: And let me ask you something, little girl, because I
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: really feel badly for you. What do you want to
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: marry him for? Listen to me. The whole nineteen years
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: has been horrible for you. Nineteen years, nine kids that
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: you know about, five yours, four other kids by four
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: different women. But you still want to marry him? Why
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: so your children can have both parents in the home.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: He not at home no how, And I don't want
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: to be with anyone else. I have nothing left to
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: give anyone new. Whenever I mentioned leaving him, he acts
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: up and go crazy. Okay, stop mentioning it. Yeah now,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: But he doesn't do anything to show me that he cares.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: He doesn't. The reason he doesn't show you that he
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: cares is because he doesn't. This is a self senate,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: egotistical bad person, Steve. This man is thirty seven years old.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: Do you think we will ever change and get it together? No?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Why should he listen to me? There's been no consequences
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: if all these kids ain't got him to straighten up.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Yet these nine babies that he really supposed to be
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: paying for. If that ain't got him straightened up, I
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: don't know what you can do. I'm willing to accept
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: his other children and make it all work. Why you
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: already got five in your own? Wait a minute, you're
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: going to accept his other children? What about the other mothers?
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: Is this for old people? They ain't just kids. These
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: other people got money. These kids ain't all sitting around
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: at the daycaret waiting on him and pick him up.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: It's for other women you got to bring into your life.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: And I'm willing to acceptance other chiefs to make it
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: Am I being foolish? I think so? I don't think
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: he's going to change. I need your as he when
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: he told you he wasn't through cheating you. Right after that,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: your next sentence was, but he's up to his childish
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: ways because he's a child. This man posedly grown a man.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: Keep acting like a child. You can be a little
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: boy and become a father. Being a father don't make
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: you a man. He's out there fathering children. He ain't
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: a daddy. To know, anybody can be a father. It
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: takes a real special man to be a dad, that's
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: the answer. Can a cheatah ever change Yes, this one's
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: not one of them, and she can't change him. He
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: enjoys cheating, He enjoys unprotected sex. He must like kids.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: He got nine of them. He thirty seven years old.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: He got nine kids. Let me show you. So y'all
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: been dating nineteen years? He thirty seven? How long? What
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: was he twenty two? Like, eighteen, eighteen and nineteen Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: you're right. S So he was eighteen years old. He
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: sported made a baby every other years of his adult life.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: Every other's year he's produced to child. So he's gotten
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: a woman pregnant every year and every nine months. This
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: dude and't produced a child. Wow, but he takes him
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: around his family. Yeah, I mean you know him. You
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: probably got the stage man got her. He gotta have
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: a winning bag on a kid. You gotta have kitchen
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: in there everything. Yeah, he ain't got that little minute
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: man ain't enough people here. You got out moaning that
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: he didn't. Probably bought an old school bus or something.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: I had room. Guys, Look, lady, your self esteem is
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: is in the crapper. Like Shirley said, you've got to
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: pick yourself up somehow. You need some prayer and some counseling,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: and you need to find yourself and find the good
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: in you, because there's a lot of good and you
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: could be miserable by yourself. You probably would be happier
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: because you wouldn't have to worry about him, worried about
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: somebody said something one time. Life is too short for
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: me to be waiting on you to act, right, Yeah, Yeah,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: that's too bad that she's sitting around waiting on him.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: All right, please email us your Instagram. That's your thoughts
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey f M. Coming
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: up in about ten minutes. We're gonna talk about basketball
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: and the NBA All Star Game this weekend in Charlotte.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, all right. This weekend is
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Game weekend in Charlotte. And the
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: last time the All Star Game was in Charlotte, that
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: was back in nineteen ninety one. And right now, North
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: Carolina's native son, Michael Jordan, it's very happy that the
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: festivities are back in Queen City, Charlotte. Right. Junior Absolutely
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: tonight kicks off the celebrity game with Steve Smith. Need
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: some people playing in the game. Steve Smith's playing a
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: long time Falcon Steve Smith. JA be smooth, Oh good, Yeah,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: Celebrity game tonight, the Celebrity game. Yeah, the Celebrity game
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: kicks off to night you know Friday night on Friday nights.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: You got the Celebrity Game tonight. No, what celebrity game?
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: NBA All Star Weekend. Are you paying attention to the show, sir, No,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: I didn't even know this All Star weekend? What I didn't? Quick, Dog,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: I promise you listen. If we've been talking about it
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: this morning on the show, I ain't heard. I ain't
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: know it this weekend, played a questions. Yeah, I know that,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: but I ain't know All Star this weekend. Yea. I
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: swear to you, Dog, I swear to you. I had
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: no idea All Star games this weekend. Played in the
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: game this weekend tonight to kick off to night Celebrity
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: game and night Star Celebrity Game is going on to night.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: You are something special, I'm sorry, I continued, Junior. I
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: know all right. So we got Steve Smith played in
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: the game. Your friend Smith play? Yeah, he Smith is
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: playing j B one month j B. Smith you don't
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: love J. I love jb Man, I love J Commercial. Yeah,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: he's funny, J. I love j. They got a host
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: playing the night too. Huh doctor Oz, Oh my good game,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: your friend Steven. You don't think you can get in
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: one of the game. Look, I don't know. I know
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: I won't be getting more. I can promise you that
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: two trips up to flow Man and I'm y'all gonna
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: be looking at me. Ste don't go down to the
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: other end. Should have been a coach, Steve, you could
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: have been. Yeah, I probably cuss too much. Tears Ja tears,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: jend he playing to night Man, even Quavo. Quavo can ball. Now, okay,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: got game. He got a real nice game. Somebody told
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: me he did. Oh man, he's probably gonna be m VP.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: That's my pick for MVP. Really oh yeah, oh yeah,
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: oh yeah. And Tennessee hometown, he wrote. James Sean Julia
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: came on the should the talk show Brother from the Waferhouse.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: He yes, yeah, he played. He's playing in the game. Man,
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: that's a good that's cool, man, I like it. Yeah,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: and this this ain't even really fair for him to
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: be there, but he played Ray Allen he that ain't
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: even really fair, man, because Ray could probably still he
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: probably can still play. This might be his warm up
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: and his return back to the NBA. But then on
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Saturday night, man, they got the three point Contest and
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: the Slam Dunk Contest. Uh in the three point contest,
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: you have you know you got the usual suspects, Klay Thompson.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: You know you got uh Steph Curry, Steph in it?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know you're gonna have James
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: James Harden. Oh he in it? Oh everyone who he's
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: mentioning is in it. Okay, it was surprised. Did you know,
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: is he? I've been NFL Honors. I ain't got time.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: You got none of this, dog. The NBA asked me
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: to do something with them. Boy, I know them boys here,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: but I probably enjoy I like the NFL Honors though.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: It was really really really cool, man, I would love dude.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: I wish I could j J Dunk contest. Oh yeah
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: yeah okay, So Junior, go on please, So you know
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: on Sunday, as you know, this weekend, it is also
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: a weekend the game All Star game that it was
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: this weekend though, did you know that now Sunday. They're
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: gonna have team the ball. Okay, who's lebronze team? Oh? Who,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know who's on le bronze team. Everybody, everybody,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: it's you know they're picking this year now't like his
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: West first East? Yeah, they picked last year. So his
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: his team and the Janni's tea, the boy we cannot
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: say his name, the Greek free, the Greek freak. Yeah.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: I think Steph Curry is on his team. Really, he's
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: not on lebronze team. I think he's on. Yeah, it's
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: gonna be a good game, I tell you that boy.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: Nasty man. I'll be watching them. Boy out of Milwauker. Yeah, man,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: the big seven foot Greek boy. Yeah man, he nasty man.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: He got moves and handles, man like he's six four.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: That dude. Now you know he was a little bit
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: more athletic, uh than Magic, But Magic made up for
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: any athleticism. Magic awareness of the game was just greatness
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: to watch. Man. But Magic was the first big man
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: six nine I saw with the handlers. But this boy
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: seven feet man and he got some nice hand Well.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Look here is who Lebron got his starting five. Lebron
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: got Kevin Durant. Okay, James Harden, James Hardened, Kyrie earth Boy,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: get him back, and Kawhi Leonard into it and he started. Yeah,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: that's his starting five, right, and then who is Greeks five?
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: Let me see Greeks five? Kevin Durant, Yeah, man, James Harden, Kyrie, Yeah,
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: can't carry all right? Now? Who is kl Kawhi Leonard
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: so Gianna is the Greek freak? Got Steph Curry, step
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: Joel embiid oh, Joel By, Paul George and Kimball Walker.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: That's starting with him. That's he starting fire and Kimball,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: Kimball Walker. It's gonna be a good game, it is, Yeah,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: President Trump says he would feel a little phony having
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: a dog. We'll find out from the crew. I know
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: the dog happy about you? Because people are wondering, why
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: doesn't you know because normally people the president has a dog? Okay, person, Yeah,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: all right, well, well we'll find out. We'll come back
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening. President Trump says he would
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: feel a little phony if he had a dog. Okay.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: Lara Trump Uh recently encouraged her father in law to
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: adopt a dog, and um, so you know he's said, yeah,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not really into dogs like that. I agree with him.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: Here's a person that don't really like taking care of people.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: So last thing he knew is damn dog. Yeah, that
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: dog would be so missubmission. Yeah, yeah, it's not for real.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: He used to sing a dog in the White House.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, we really are. If man don't like him,
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: man's best friend, Man, don't nobody can nobody whether Donald
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: Trump got a dog or not? Please man. Yeah, it's
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: too much going on anyway. They used to seeing the
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: dog getting the White House. Yeah, I mean we are. Yeah,
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: yeah right, we got no room, no dog in this
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: White House. We got so many damn criminals up here.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: We didn't replace the dogs with inmates. Man, we got
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: criminal charges. Manner for it, plead deal getting taken from him.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: He doesn't Trump Din told five thousand lines since he'd
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: been in office. Well, these people like because they thought
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: that we're gonna get pardoned and stuff, you know, so
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: they didn't think about it. Now the yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: yeah it is. Yeah, so no dog, huh nah, you
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: still have your dog, Steve, you like dogs now, huh uh?
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: You know we have dogs. I'm not I'm not really
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: a dog person, but our dogs are really really well trained,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: so they're very, very tolerable. You know, I just wish,
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: I just you know the thing about having a dog,
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of responsibility. The vet bills is amazing. Yes,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: to use the bathroom, you still got to take him out, yeah,
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: or else you got to walk him. Yeah. He cannot
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: feed himself, so you got to feed him. Yes, responsibility.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: I got out. I'm tired. Man, I didn't I'd have
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: raised my kids all. My kids can feed their cell
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: work eat, they know how, they all what. Yeah, I
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: don't need nothing, Carl. You still have your dog? Right,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: fancy fancy Yes, big bear, big dopmen walking around the house.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: Oh you do have your dogs? Yeah? Yeah, I've seen bad. Yeah,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: you a little bit, you a lot. Where was bad
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  Speaker 1: when we were at your house for your birthday? Oh
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  Speaker 1: thank god you had him put up? Yeah you put up?
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  Speaker 1: Thank god, because surely you don't like that. No, but
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm I'm trying this year. I've made
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  Speaker 1: it a decision to try to like dogs, to try
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  Speaker 1: to get over my fear of dogs. Okay, sure I did.
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  Speaker 1: I did I'm you're scared of all dog little dogs. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I am, and I The thing about it is is
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  Speaker 1: that I like them, but I have some sort of
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  Speaker 1: unnatural fear, and um, they always sense it and they
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  Speaker 1: are always all over me. They love me. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna try and get hypnotized or something to get rid
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  Speaker 1: of ittiz. Yeah, because you can get hypnotized. It's called
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  Speaker 1: fear of dogs. It is called cenophobia something like that.
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  Speaker 1: It's a phobiabia. But that they happened to you, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: it's a little bit. I mean, you know, they were
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  Speaker 1: just loose. Dogs were all over our neighborhood. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: we lived in the third floor floor of our apartment
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: building in Chicago. The second floor had a huge, gigantic,
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: very mean, ambitious German shepherd who would get out and
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: chase me. I never got bitten or anything like that,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: but it was very very close. Yeah. Yeah, dogs were
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: all over the place. So yeah, I just I never
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  Speaker 1: had a good experience with them, but I like them
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: and I want to get over it. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get hypnotized. I'll let you know when it happens. I
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: don't know if my life Yeah, I don't know. If
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  Speaker 1: I don't, it'll make me get a dog. I don't know.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: I'll have to see. I have to see, because like
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: Steve said, it's a big responsibility and su you do
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  Speaker 1: not need that, you don't think so No, No, you
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  Speaker 1: don't need to own the dogs. And you ain't even
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  Speaker 1: gott over being scared and sitting on the wall going down.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: She didn't win out of town and yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 1: I want to do. That. That's my biggest fear of
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  Speaker 1: touching them. What Junior, I hate you. What did you
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: just so Nesto and the dog ain't eating both of them?
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: Well the dog food, that's simple. Write you to scrip
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: open a bag and pour it right, look anything for
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: the dog that took anything. But I know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to get over it. I'm tired of
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  Speaker 1: being afraid. But you're gonna have to pat the dogs.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: Dogs need love and attention. You got him, Yeah all that,
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  Speaker 1: But I mean that's part of I would think that
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  Speaker 1: would be part of the process. That would be part
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  Speaker 1: of the process to learn how to touch them and
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  Speaker 1: love them and you know, people cuddle with them. Yeah. See,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: you don't need to own a dog. To do that
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: because if it don't work out for you, now, you
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  Speaker 1: didn't bought this damn dog. Now he just over there
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: in the cage. Oh, he and maximum security. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: put him in one hour a day for your exercise.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't put him in a cage. Or you have
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: to fine, you have to put your dog. I know
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: people that don't put dogs in cages. Our dog has
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: He stays in the room at night. Oh okay, yeah, yeah,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: just in a little bit, he's gonna be roaming the house.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: And now, what do you mean in a little bit.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: You know, you've got to get a little bit older.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Oh when he gets told. Yeah, that's what. He's a
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: great dog. Now do you kiss your dog and all that?
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: I know people kissing my dog? Did not put him
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: out nowhere near me. I don't let him nick my hand,
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: your ass, kiss my dog. I hugged my dog. Hua, Yeah,
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: I hold my dog and everything. Does your dog sleep
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: in the so it's a little bitty dog. I don't
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: have a big dog like Sea does. Does your dog
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: sleep in the bed with you? No? Oh, Steve, I
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: wish he's not. He's not allowed in the bedroom. Our
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: dog is trained not to get on any furniture. Oh okay, no,
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: don't put your paws up on it. He's trained. Huh
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: you're a dog man, yeah, uh, Caesar. What's the guy
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: for the dog? The dog Seeson Milan. He came to
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: the house to train him one day. We ended up
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: using another trainer, but season Milan told us the biggest
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: mistake that pet owners make dog owners is they try
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: to treat them like they're human. Yeah. Yeah, they say
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: that dogs really enjoy being dogs. They want to be
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: a dog. That's what they are. Naturally, that makes sense.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 1: They like discipline, they like because they like him, please masters.
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  Speaker 1: So okay, well, thank you for saying that. That makes
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  Speaker 1: me feel better. All right, coming up more of the
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: all right, guys. The last two weeks have been a
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: rollercoaster ride for twenty one Savage and his team. Now
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: ICE has dropped one charge against him, but he's not
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: in the clear yet just yet. BuzzFeed News reports that
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: government attorneys dropped an aggravated felony charge on Tuesday as
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: grounds to deport the Atlanta rapper. It's been confirmed that
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: twenty one Savage does not have a felony on his record,
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: as a prior conviction was sealed. Now, immigration officials will
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: make the case to kick twenty one out on the
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 1: basis of the travel visa he overstayed over a decade ago.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: After bonding out on Wednesday twenty one, Savage is awaiting
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: a deportation hearing and uh, while, guys, this is apparently
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: in line with President Trump's new policy, which is to
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: deport anyone in the process of applying for citizenship and
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: let them back when and if that that application is approved.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: So there you go, Steve, Well, why not, Yeah, really,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't talk about what deporting this kid does.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: He's making it. He's a productive citizen over here, Yeah,
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: or any of the DOCCA people. You know, you know,
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: it's so many. It's just you're talking about the president
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: whose wife were talking about that. Yeah, yeah, we're talking
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: about the same president who's great great grandfather probably came
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: over on the boat of some care about his current wife.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, matter of fact, his last two Yeah, I
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: work visas expiring, We talked, we talked about that same
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: and you know, the story finally came out about all
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: illegal immigrants that work at his call. Yes, yes, y yeah,
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: I've been saying that, yes you have, yes you have,
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: Yes you have. He's like, don't look at them. We
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: ain't talking about them. Well, we'll keep you posted on
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: this story. Um. And yesterday, of course, was Valentine's Day,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: and boy, did you guys see Kim Kardashian's Valentine's Day
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: was unforgettable courtesy of her ball or hubby. His name
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: is Kanye West. I don't see it? What do you do?
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: And the legendary Kenny G. Okay, he was. They were
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: in a room he hired to play his saxophone. Okay,
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: in a room with a lot of vases, glass vases
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 1: with one rose each covering the floor of this room.
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: Kenney G couldn't even move, Steve. It was just roses everywhere,
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: Kenny G playing in the middle of the room. I
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: mean just beautiful. It was beautiful, beautiful. Yeah, it was
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: yea and Kenny G was serenading Kim of course it
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 1: was real. Yeah, just in their living room, I mean
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 1: really just roses. Yes, yes, she loved every minute of it.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: And how how could you not? I mean, you know, Kanye,
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: this was really romantic. Of him. He just decorated the
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: room with the just beautiful, beautiful roses just filled the room.
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: It was so pretty. Yeah. Yeah, she's given it up
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: for her man too. This was an over the top
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: surprise for her, handing him the Best Husband Award for
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: what she says is one of Kanye's most thoughtful gifts ever. Yes,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: and very romantic. Nice way to go, yea. Yeah. I
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: was a little concerned for Kenny G. I was like, dang,
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 1: what if he moves a little bit left, He's gonna
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: knock all those broken nowhere. But it was really sweet
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: and I love that. I love that you had to
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: put some thought into that. Yeah, shout out to Kenny G.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: He ages will Yeah he does looking good right, same
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: hairstyle and we'll have more of the show. Is that
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: ninety seven? Right after this you're listening to, Jussie Smallett
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: opened up to GMA's Robert Roberts and told his story
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: about his alleged racist and homophobic attack, which occurred in
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: Chicago a couple of weeks ago. Small Lett gave a
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: very detailed description of what happened. He also answered a
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: lot of the questions that critics and doubters have had
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: about his story. Small Lette says is disappointing that his
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: attack wasn't captured on video. Take a listen. I went
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: down to where it happened, and I walked them through
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: exactly what happened. And I looked up and I saw
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: that there was a camera directly on the light post
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: that is in the intersection, So I'm like, there it is.
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: And then the detective told me that the camera inside
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 1: of the casing was facing north, so they didn't have it,
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 1: and that was disappointing. Yeah. Jesse also said that he
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: gave police a description of their body type and believes
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: that the guy who said one hundred percent that the
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: two men and the surveillance photo released by police are
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 1: the attackers. Now, according to Yeah, he said that now
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: he's that that's them. He said that now. According to TMZ,
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: the Chicago police raided the home of the persons of
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: interest and seized two laptops, five bottles of bleach, a
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: red hat. Both of the men were reported to be
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: extras on the set of Empire. Also really Yeah. Also,
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: Multiple sources have told Chicago ABC seven Eye Witnessed News
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 1: that police are investigating whether Jessie Smalleett and the two
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: men staged the attack. Now, that was the latest thing
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 1: that came out, allegedly because Smallette was being written out
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: of Empire. However, a Chicago police spokesman by the name
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 1: of Anthony Googliemi says that there's no evidence to support
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: that report from ABC seven I witness news in Chicago.
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: I can tell you right now that really I don't
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: only know how that would make sense, Yeah, that somebody
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 1: would stage getting jumped on to save your role on
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: a show, right because you thought you were getting written out. Yeah,
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: but how does that make any sense? And he's such
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: a prominent character, it just doesn't make me live. Yeah.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: But but Fox exex came out and said that's definitely
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: not the case. They weren't planning on firing him or anything. Yeah,
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 1: he's a core part of that show. Yeah he is.
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: He is a major storyline yeah on the shows. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: this case yeah yeah. And we'll keep you posted, of
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 1: course as the news comes to us. Yeah. Uh. The
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: nominees for the NAACP Image Awards were announced and Regina King,
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 1: Shadwick Boseman, Jessie Smallett, and It's Array are just a
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 1: few of those up for recognition, and congratulations to our
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 1: very own guests who Steve Harvey, Okay, d you were
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 1: nominated for Outstanding Game Show Host for Family Feud, which
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  Speaker 1: you start today. Congratulations on that you didn't know. You
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 1: didn't know because it sounds like surprise. Yeah, I didn't
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: know you. They don't cantare you? Wow, you've been working
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: that hard getting the heads up. No, maybe I should
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  Speaker 1: fire some people whatever. Shocked. Yeah, I'm in. I'm in
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  Speaker 1: the news in the damn ways will be forsoe well.
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  Speaker 1: Congratulations Steve, Outstanding Game Show Hosts for Family Feud. The
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: Image Award celebrates excellence by people of color and movies, TV, music,
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  Speaker 1: and literature. The fiftieth Annual NAACP Awards airs on March
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  Speaker 1: thirtieth on TV one. Congratulations again, all right, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Steve on this Friday, great show. We have fun. Yeah okay,
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  Speaker 1: And as Steve, our closing remarks are back as well.
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  Speaker 1: What you have for us here we go. Here's a
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  Speaker 1: suggestion here's what I came up with for today, a
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  Speaker 1: suggestion something I've learned that has helped me out dramatically
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  Speaker 1: in accomplishing my goals and attaining my dreams. I still
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: have things I'm after, Steve, or have goals that have
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  Speaker 1: not yet met in dreams that I haven't seen come
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: true yet, but I'm working on them and I know
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: they will. And i know they will because I have
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  Speaker 1: mastered one technique of how to do it. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: share it with you right now. If you are wanting
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  Speaker 1: something from God, this is just for spiritual people. If
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  Speaker 1: you're not a spiritual person, you can go and do
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: what you want to do right now. Only this is
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 1: for people who believe in God. When I want something
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 1: for God, when I'm trying to reach a certain goal
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 1: or fulfill a dream or attain something, I never go
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 1: about it without his help. You know, the things that
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: I do on my own, I'm just doing them, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Like you know, I don't simple stuff, you know, like
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: make sure I got water in my office so I
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: could drink enough. Now I don't, I can do that right.
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  Speaker 1: But let's say I have an aspiration or a dream
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: that's pretty big as are most of mine and as
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 1: should yours be. You should dream as big as you
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: possibly can. You should let your imagination lead you into
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: the life that God has for you. Not. A way
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: to do that is to first of all, ask, because
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 1: the scripture says you have not because you ask not,
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 1: And then you have to believe. You have to have
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: faith that God can do anything but fail. The third
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: thing you need is a work ethic, an unrelenting work ethic.
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 1: There's a scripture that says faith without works is dead.
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  Speaker 1: So after you ask for this incredible dream or vision
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: or goal that you have, and you put the faith
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: in it, the belief, you gotta work because faith without
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: works is dead. Okay, cool. Now, the best way to
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: accomp your dreams and gifts, First of all, you should
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: tie it to your I mean your goals and gifts.
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: Your goals and dreams you have to tie to your gift.
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  Speaker 1: Everything should be tied to your gift. Now, if you
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  Speaker 1: want an airplane or go on special trips has nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with your gift. But the route that you're
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 1: gonna get to this goal and to this dream has
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: to be tied to your gift. Okay. Now, once you
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 1: do that, and you ask God for something that's impossible,
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: be careful who you share it with, because sharing things
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 1: from your imagination is not always in your best interest.
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: Because your imagination is yours and yours alone. Other people
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: can't see it, they don't see no way how. They
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: just start shooting it down. But when you do ask
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: God for this incredible thing, listen to me. The how
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: too is out of your business. Let me repeat that.
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 1: When you ask God for your visions, your goals, your dreams,
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: your aspirations, and you believe He'll do it, and you're
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: willing to work as hard as you can to accomplish it,
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 1: that's all that's required of you. The how to is
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: none of your business. Get out of the way. The
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: reason there is no scripture that tells us as people
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: to figure it out is because if you're asking God
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: for something so big, you gotta leave it up to him.
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 1: You gotta let him have let The how to is
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 1: not any of your business. The how too is not
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 1: up to you. It's up to your faith and your
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 1: belief in a higher power. Stop tripping on the how too.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't your business. The reason the how to is
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  Speaker 1: not up to you I have found in My life
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  Speaker 1: is for this reason right here, because my ways and
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 1: my understanding is not enough to get me to where
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 1: I want to go. Be half entertained to where I
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 1: want to go be have entertained. My ways and my
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 1: understanding is not enough because I'm asking God for something
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  Speaker 1: so huge that I don't know how to get it,
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: but I know that he does. You can't even fathom
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 1: his ways. You can quit tripping, you can save yourself
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of time. You can't google his ways. You
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 1: don't know the route he's gonna take. You don't know
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: how he's gonna touch certain people's hearts along the way.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know how he gonna move people into position
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 1: to get you exactly what you need, when you need it,
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 1: and how you need it. You have no idea what
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: God is going to do and how how He's going
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 1: to do it. So why trouble yourself with the how too?
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 1: Because it ain't your biss. The how too is not
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 1: up to you, and the reason is not up to
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 1: you is because when you ask for something so great
• 1:38:13
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