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New Philly Mayor, Turkey Day Dinner TSA, SHVM, Pimpin' NFL Picks and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, So don't given them
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  Speaker 3: all bust Yeah, listening to to.
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  Speaker 4: I don't joy?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Joy, you know you.
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  Speaker 6: Love?
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  Speaker 7: You gotta turn.
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  Speaker 8: I can't.
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  Speaker 3: Go to turn the mouth turn you probably got to
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  Speaker 3: turn the mouth the.
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  Speaker 4: Turn out, turn the water of the mono.
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  Speaker 6: Look, come.
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  Speaker 2: Come out, you think, Uh huh, I sure will. Good
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  Speaker 2: morning everybody. You are listening to his voice. Come on,
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  Speaker 2: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey got a
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  Speaker 2: radio show. Uh huh, Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah. Man,
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  Speaker 2: oh boy boy boy man. God has been good to me.
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  Speaker 2: I can't even I can't even put it into words, man,
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  Speaker 2: But I try, though, I try, I try, I try.
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  Speaker 2: God does things for me just right on time. He's
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  Speaker 2: so cool with it. And I happened to run across
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  Speaker 2: Joel Oldstein on television like I often do all the time,
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  Speaker 2: and I was sitting there and he had such a
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  Speaker 2: timely message for me. A part of it was something
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  Speaker 2: that I've said oftentimes about if you really really want
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  Speaker 2: to be successful, if you really really want to change,
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  Speaker 2: if you really really want to prosper, if you really
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  Speaker 2: really want to achieve greatness, if you really really want
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  Speaker 2: to have something in life that's worth having, if you
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  Speaker 2: really really want to accomplish your goals, you got to
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  Speaker 2: push through all of it. He said that when you
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  Speaker 2: get closer to it, the more difficult it becomes. Did
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  Speaker 2: you hear me? He said, the closer you get to
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  Speaker 2: what it is you want or you need, or you
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  Speaker 2: have to have or you would love to be, it
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  Speaker 2: gets a little bit more difficult when you get closer.
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  Speaker 2: He told this story that's in the Bible that I'd
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  Speaker 2: never heard before. This is what he said. He said,
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  Speaker 2: there was a man who was paralyzed, and he had
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  Speaker 2: heard that Jesus was speaking at a house, and so
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  Speaker 2: he wanted to get there. So he convinced four of
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  Speaker 2: his friends to put him on a stretcher and carry
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  Speaker 2: him for hours to get to this house where Jesus
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  Speaker 2: was speaking. He said that along the way, these friends
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  Speaker 2: said that they went along because he had so much
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  Speaker 2: faith that if he could just get to him, it
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  Speaker 2: could be better that he could if he could just
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  Speaker 2: get over there and he could see him, that he
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  Speaker 2: might have a shot at getting here. And so he
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  Speaker 2: said they took out along the way, and they walked
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  Speaker 2: and they walked and they walked for hours. And then
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  Speaker 2: when they got there, the house was completely filled with people.
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  Speaker 2: That was absolutely it was packed wall to wall. There
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  Speaker 2: was absolutely no way for the men to get him
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  Speaker 2: on that stretcher in to see Jesus. This is a
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  Speaker 2: story that uh Joe Losting said is in the Bible,
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  Speaker 2: and he was telling it now. I'm just repeating the
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  Speaker 2: parts of it I gathered. And so he said. They
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  Speaker 2: sat there and they went, wow, man, we walked all
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  Speaker 2: this weight and it's full, and and and and and
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  Speaker 2: and and we can't get there, he said. And then
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  Speaker 2: the guy with the affliction told the four men, if
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  Speaker 2: you get up on the roof and cut a hole
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  Speaker 2: in it and lower me down, I bet I could
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  Speaker 2: see him then, and I bet it to be all
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  Speaker 2: right now. He then said, you must imagined how these
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  Speaker 2: four men must have felt when you carry somebody for
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  Speaker 2: hours on on on on on on on the way.
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  Speaker 2: They had to carry some cloth connected by a couple
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  Speaker 2: of sticks, said the me and shoulders had to be bruised,
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  Speaker 2: had to have deep gouges, and them not cuts, but
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  Speaker 2: just indentations where they had carried the weight of this
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  Speaker 2: grown man for so many hours, and they looked at
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  Speaker 2: him in disbelief, like, man, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: We done walked all this far. He said, yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: if you get up on that roof and you cut
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  Speaker 2: a hole in it and lower me down, I can
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  Speaker 2: see him and when he see me, it'll be all right.
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  Speaker 2: After sitting there and imploring the men, they went up
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  Speaker 2: and did just that, And then the story that Joe
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  Speaker 2: Los Dean said, the man was healed. But the point
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  Speaker 2: he was making was he was saying that the closer
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  Speaker 2: you get to what it is you really want, the
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  Speaker 2: more difficult it's going to become. But you've got to
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  Speaker 2: push through. See, if you don't push through, you never know. See,
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  Speaker 2: you can't get right to the answer. And because it
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  Speaker 2: gets really difficult, started creating those little saying that we
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  Speaker 2: got as people. Well, I guess it wasn't meant to be.
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  Speaker 2: I guess it in the Lord's will. Now, man, I
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  Speaker 2: guess you should not give up right now. I guess
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  Speaker 2: you should keep pressing. I guess you should do more,
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  Speaker 2: because see, in all of us, in all of us,
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  Speaker 2: when you've had enough, I want you to know something.
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  Speaker 2: You do have a little bit more in all of us.
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  Speaker 2: You can do one more. You know. That's one of
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  Speaker 2: my favorite things that I heard Joel Oldstein said, and
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  Speaker 2: it kind of made me feel good. He said, I
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  Speaker 2: always feel like I can do one more anything, and
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  Speaker 2: I tell my friends all the time, I can do
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  Speaker 2: one more man, I could do one more day. I
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  Speaker 2: can do one more anything. Now Here was the jewel
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  Speaker 2: that I never really knew that Joel Oldstein and God
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  Speaker 2: sent to me I needed to hear. He said that
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  Speaker 2: no matter what you're going through, no matter how long
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  Speaker 2: the challenge is you've been facing, God has an end
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  Speaker 2: date for it all. Did you hear me? No matter
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  Speaker 2: what you're going through, no matter what challenge you're facing,
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  Speaker 2: no matter what situation you've gotten yourself into, God has
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  Speaker 2: an ending date. All you got to do is keep
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  Speaker 2: pressing forward. All you got to do is hang in there.
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  Speaker 2: All you got to do is don't give up. All
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  Speaker 2: you have to do is don't turn back. There is
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  Speaker 2: an end date for all of it, even when you
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  Speaker 2: think you've had enough. And boy, have I had this
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  Speaker 2: conversation with God on several things that I've been going through,
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  Speaker 2: and I've even told him, look, I got it. Man,
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  Speaker 2: he said, just keep hanging on. There is an end
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  Speaker 2: date to whatever it is you're going through. There's an
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  Speaker 2: end date to your illness, your sickness, your tired of
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  Speaker 2: being tired, as an end date to this relationship that
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  Speaker 2: you can't seem to get through, beyond over that's like
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  Speaker 2: a cancer to you. There's an end date. But you've
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  Speaker 2: got to hang in there. You've got to keep pushing forward.
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  Speaker 2: You cannot turn around. You must not go back, because
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  Speaker 2: when God gets you through this and you break through
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  Speaker 2: to the other side, the reward and the benefit is
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  Speaker 2: far greater than the struggle. I oftentimes look at some
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  Speaker 2: of the things that God has brought me through in
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  Speaker 2: my worst times, and when he brought me through, I went, wow, Man,
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  Speaker 2: now that I understand that, Now that I'm on the
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  Speaker 2: other side and I have the benefit of the reward
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  Speaker 2: for it, would you do it all again to get that? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I would show ladies and gentlemen. I needed attention. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know when it kicked in that I needed everybody's attention.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't as a little boy because I was too bashful.
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  Speaker 2: I was, but once I got out of that, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm tupac all eyes on me. What here I am?
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  Speaker 2: Let's go pop? Yeah, you know, I can't quote too
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  Speaker 2: many people. I'll be hearing people do hip hop debates
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  Speaker 2: all the time, which will lead us probably to a
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  Speaker 2: hip hop quiz this morning because I just wanted to
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  Speaker 2: say something about myself. I stunned the nation with our
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  Speaker 2: last hip hop quiz because I don't you know, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I got all of them right. I don't even know
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  Speaker 2: how I did it. I don't even know where it
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  Speaker 2: comes from. I am not the one to know much
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  Speaker 2: of anything about hip hop. I've grown to respect the
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  Speaker 2: genre of music as one of the greatest genres of
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  Speaker 2: creative creating more millionaires jobs for us as the people,
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  Speaker 2: and has swept the world and is now global music genre,
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  Speaker 2: the biggest of of all of them right now. But
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  Speaker 2: with that said, I am still a soul man in
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  Speaker 2: my heart, and nothing stirs me like soul music. This
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  Speaker 2: is Steve Harvey Martin Shaw. Why did I go on
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  Speaker 2: that tangent? I don't know, because I don't know. Sharlie
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  Speaker 2: Strawberry calling for real, a Mississippi Monica Junior, a government
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  Speaker 2: named kill Space. We're trying to get him to call
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  Speaker 2: his whole name Killer One, Killer one and the legend
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  Speaker 2: that is nephew Tommy Junior.
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  Speaker 9: You know, unc let me ask you about that because
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  Speaker 9: you know, like you know your soul man to your heart.
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  Speaker 10: But how did you get to know all of this
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  Speaker 10: hip hop?
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  Speaker 6: Like?
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  Speaker 10: Where was you at? How did did you listen? Is
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  Speaker 10: it at hip hop?
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  Speaker 6: Well?
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  Speaker 10: He got all them right?
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  Speaker 2: You get quiet heard saying he got all of them right?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, what what was you doing? I got all
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  Speaker 2: I'm right, y'all. Was trying to get me to praising
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  Speaker 2: him Junior? About him? Who I know? I know a
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  Speaker 2: man who begs for praising, worship everything because I'm from
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  Speaker 2: praise one day this month, audacity or you know, I
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  Speaker 2: just think it's from just exposure. I think I'm I've
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  Speaker 2: been in radio, you know, I'm around a lot of artists,
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  Speaker 2: and I hear stuff. I hear them. You know, all
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  Speaker 2: my kids is hip hop. My kids don't know nothing else. Broderick,
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  Speaker 2: my oldest son, he know all old school music. That's
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  Speaker 2: that's he know it. Like he played the music from
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  Speaker 2: me in my dressing room and all like that. He
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  Speaker 2: picked a song. So, but all the rest of my
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  Speaker 2: kids are straight hip hop. They get mad when I
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  Speaker 2: walk in the room and say cut it off.
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  Speaker 4: You know, dad, what I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna say, cut it off because it's too loud. And
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  Speaker 2: I heard what he just said too.
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  Speaker 11: But when you played, brother, you got that loud.
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  Speaker 4: Earth the winning fire.
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  Speaker 12: I can't nobody turn that down?
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  Speaker 2: But not youn't. You don't pay for nothing in here
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  Speaker 2: in the room. I walked in and asked you to
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  Speaker 2: turn it down. Paying for that too. Payments, payments has privileges.
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  Speaker 2: All right, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Steve, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: we'll hear from the nephew. Is he runs that prank
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  Speaker 1: back right after this?
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  Speaker 13: You're listening hard morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back. Nephew, What you got for us today?
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  Speaker 6: Ad you not?
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  Speaker 2: Line?
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  Speaker 14: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Church bought me this glove so that I mean feeling power.
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  Speaker 2: The title is God is not through with you yet,
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  Speaker 2: but we are that dog.
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  Speaker 11: If you would.
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  Speaker 6: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach our sister Takara. This
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  Speaker 6: is brother Brinkley from the church. How you doing? Oh?
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  Speaker 15: Hey, how is it's I'm at work? Can I call
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  Speaker 15: you back?
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  Speaker 6: Well? This is this is kind of urgent. I'll call
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  Speaker 6: your your house phone, and I didn't get an answer,
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  Speaker 6: and I had this other number on file, so I
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  Speaker 6: wanted to reach out to you. But what I won't
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  Speaker 6: take long. But it really is a hurt, all right,
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  Speaker 6: that urgent matter? If you don't matter, all right, hold.
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  Speaker 15: On, hold on, let me let me step away from
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  Speaker 15: my tuber.
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  Speaker 6: Hello.
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  Speaker 15: Hello, Brinkley, speak to me.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, we have a bit of a problem here and
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  Speaker 6: we're gonna try to We're trying to clean up a
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  Speaker 6: lot of things here at the church. You know, I
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  Speaker 6: hate to be the one to bring and you some
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  Speaker 6: bad news. Let me just start by by saying that
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  Speaker 6: God might not be through with you, but we are
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  Speaker 6: here at the church. It has been brought to our attention,
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  Speaker 6: Sister Carr that you guys are halfway coming to church,
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  Speaker 6: and you you you might come once once out of
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  Speaker 6: a month. You're not tithing as we expected. You know,
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  Speaker 6: the church can't really depend on you. It's you you
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  Speaker 6: got you know, you bring your kids. I think your
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  Speaker 6: brother comes to the church, but everybody is coming every
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  Speaker 6: now and then. We cannot depend on you all to
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  Speaker 6: be the members and have the expectation of what we're
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  Speaker 6: trying to do what you say.
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  Speaker 16: You say your name is.
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  Speaker 15: Yes, and you work, you work under the I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 15: I've never heard of you before.
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  Speaker 6: I have been officiated by the pastor as I'm over
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  Speaker 6: actually over the finance and we're going through all of
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  Speaker 6: the books and looking at all of the numbers of
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  Speaker 6: the of the members of the church, the directory, and
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  Speaker 6: we're noticing what people are paying tied, what people aren't
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  Speaker 6: paying tied, who's coming to church, who's participating in different
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  Speaker 6: and different uh ministries, and whatnot. And Sister Takar, I
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  Speaker 6: got I have to be honest with you. You you
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  Speaker 6: the hell maybe once every one of someone we might
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  Speaker 6: see you might not see you, you know, and like
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  Speaker 6: I said, God may not be through with you, but
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  Speaker 6: we are.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 15: You can't say that. Listen, Why I don't understand, like,
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  Speaker 15: are y'all monitoring my my my church going like I
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  Speaker 15: can't I have to go every single week.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, why are you absent so much at the church?
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  Speaker 6: Explain that?
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  Speaker 15: I mean, I have three kids, you know, I mean
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  Speaker 15: I have y'all. Sometimes I don't, I mean, I still pray.
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  Speaker 15: I don't understand how a church can.
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  Speaker 6: Are you got two jobs but we're not getting tied.
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  Speaker 6: It's like you got two jobs. You're not tired, and
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  Speaker 6: like you got two jobs.
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  Speaker 15: Because I can't afford you just you just said.
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  Speaker 6: I got two jobs, That's what you just said.
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  Speaker 15: And that those two jobs are in support my kids.
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  Speaker 15: I mean, I can't support the church and my kids
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  Speaker 15: is the same term I can't vote. I mean, I
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  Speaker 15: get when I can.
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  Speaker 6: Let me ask you something. What are you making on
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  Speaker 6: that other job?
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  Speaker 15: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 1: Are you really?
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  Speaker 11: Really?
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  Speaker 15: You really?
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  Speaker 17: I didn't know what the church?
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  Speaker 15: God is this deepuent? You're really asking me how much
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  Speaker 15: I make and my second job did I take to
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  Speaker 15: support my kids?
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  Speaker 2: Come on?
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  Speaker 13: Now?
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  Speaker 15: Did this gotta be something?
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  Speaker 6: This is I'm gonna say this to you again. God
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  Speaker 6: may not be through with you, but we are. If
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  Speaker 6: you are gonna pay your tides, If you're not gonna
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  Speaker 6: come to work on a consistent basis, then what what
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  Speaker 6: do you benefit? The church?
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  Speaker 15: Is that what the church is about? This can't be.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna say that. I'm gonna say this to you.
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  Speaker 6: You let me tell you what the church is all
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  Speaker 6: about the church is.
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  Speaker 15: And you say we done with you again?
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  Speaker 16: One more time? I'm serious.
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna tell you this you're talking about, is
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  Speaker 6: that what the church is about? Let me tell you
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  Speaker 6: what the church is. The church is a hospital for
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  Speaker 6: crippled souls. You understand that that's what That's what the
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  Speaker 6: church is. But when when we have souls that are
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  Speaker 6: coming in to be saved, we are doing our job.
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  Speaker 6: And guess what those people that are coming in, you
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  Speaker 6: know what they're doing. They're tithing. That's what they're doing.
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  Speaker 6: They're tithing. You, sister Takara, I'm sure your soul is crippled.
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  Speaker 6: You're not coming and you're not tithing. You may give
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  Speaker 6: us a little some something when you show up if
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  Speaker 6: you show up. Am I right or wrong?
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  Speaker 15: Okay? Let me get what is straights? Is what you
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  Speaker 15: called me for in the middle of my work day
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  Speaker 15: to tell me that you're kicking me out the church
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  Speaker 15: because I don't give it enough money to the church
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  Speaker 15: while I'm at my job that I can very afford
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  Speaker 15: to pay my bills with.
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  Speaker 9: Cause that a fact, I.
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  Speaker 16: Don't even know who you are.
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  Speaker 15: I've never met you in my life, and I don't
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  Speaker 15: know what this church you know?
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  Speaker 16: This church.
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  Speaker 15: I hate to say it, but if that's what the
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  Speaker 15: church is about you had the nerve to call me.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, now let me say something. Now you being very
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  Speaker 6: Unchristian like, now does the card you're gonna watch it
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  Speaker 6: done in your language?
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  Speaker 15: In this is not Christian like?
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  Speaker 6: Well do you do? You know brother Dwyane? Isn't that
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  Speaker 6: your brother?
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  Speaker 17: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: And my brother Dwyane is who told me to call you?
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  Speaker 15: Really?
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  Speaker 6: My brother?
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  Speaker 15: So what?
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  Speaker 6: So?
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  Speaker 15: What is just about?
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  Speaker 6: Hum? Whatever?
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  Speaker 15: I don't know. What is your name?
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  Speaker 6: My name is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 6: Your brother Dwayne got me the brank phone call you.
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  Speaker 15: No mo sho, Oh my gosh, he's about to get
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  Speaker 15: me bye for this job. I'm in the lobby screaming
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  Speaker 15: up than you're looking at me.
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  Speaker 6: Oh mysh, you are right. You tell me what's up?
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• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment
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  Speaker 1: news as Patrick Dempsey is People Magazine's twenty twenty three
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• 21:20
  Speaker 1: but I don't forget. Conversation between Nee Long and Jeezy
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Jesus said, real men don't cheat. We'll talk about all
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: of these stories at the top of the hour, but
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: right now it is time to ask the clo This
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: is from Carrie in Thousand Oaks.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Carry right.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I saw a few leaves and rose petals on the
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: floorboard of my husband's car. He said that Tim. Tim
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: must have had them stuck on a shoe when he
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: picked him up. I called Tim right in front of him,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: and he was clueless. I assume my husband bought flowers
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: and he's cheating on me. Why won't he prove me wrong?
• 21:57
  Speaker 11: Wow?
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Too, don't understand. Why won't he prove you wrong?
• 22:03
  Speaker 6: What?
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: What?
• 22:04
  Speaker 10: What?
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: What does he have to prove to you? Okay? She
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: found rose petals where.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: On the floorboard of her husband's car.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: On the floorboard of his car. Rose petals, yeah, how
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: and his dad and some leaves? Because how do that
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: say cheating?
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Because her husband lied about how the rose petals got there.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Probably when Tim was getting in the car, they was
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: on his foot. Tim ain't know what he was talking
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: about because Tim wasn't paying attention to what the stuff
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: was on his foot. I deal with Tim when I
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: see his ass right now. Yeah, yeah, well, mister clueless
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: got a problem when I see his ass, know that. Yeah,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I deal with Tim when I see him. And she
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: gonna call him right in front of her, But how
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: can she prove him wrong? See the the thing that
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: she got is she's trying to get her husband to
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: disprove her theory when all he got to do is
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: stay clueless to the theory. Baby, I ain't seen no
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: rose peddl I don't know how they got that. Somebody
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: could have been could have been getting in the truck
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: next to me, and and and leaves blew up on
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: that they leaves? And what are you talking about?
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Why didn't he say that at first? Why did he
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: have to throw Tim in there?
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: He said, maybe Tim when he was getting in the truck.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: You don't know Tim, Tim must have done it.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: See you know what, Shirley, People like this lady in
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: the letter. You don't want to believe your man. You
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: don't want no relationship. Just gone split up, gone split up,
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: over the leaves and the rolls. Gonna throw your family,
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: got home, throw your family out the window. Go ahead,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: just go over your whole family. Yes, I deal with
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: till when I see his ass. Hey, Till, what's up?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Don't with your wife right now?
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Come on, Colo, Lloyd and Ackward says, my six year
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: old son went to a Halloween party at his classmate's
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: house and I was totally against it, but his mom
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: let him go. He's been having nightmare since then because
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: the dad chased the kids with the chainsaw. Would I
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: be wrong to go chase the man with a real
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: chainsaw so he'll he'll be traumatized? Like my boy?
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Wow, Well, I don't think you need to go over
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: that man's house. Boy don't know, Yeah, I got he
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: scared the boy and the boy you know, yep, that
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: was stupid, but you know he traumatized. He can't go
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: to sleep now. I think he called a man and
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: address it, but it's too late. It's too late now
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: here's the other kicker though. Every time he get up hollering,
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: that's mama job now, because you don't want to let
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: his ass go down there, because I told you so. Now,
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: since he up all night crying, you get up and
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: sit with him. You the mama, and you the reason
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: he down there. Now, brother, you got to be careful
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: going over this man's house because he didn't just chase
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: your boy with the Chaine saw. He chased a lot
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: of kids with the change.
• 25:34
  Speaker 11: Saw crazy this Halloween.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you don't take a six year old to
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: the to the haunted house. That ain't a six year
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: old wearing costume and go trick or treaty. You don't
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: take six year old to the haunted house.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: What was his classmate?
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: It was another six year old classmate.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: He went to schoolmates Halloween Park.
• 25:58
  Speaker 12: But I'm saying, though, I think what you don't know
• 26:01
  Speaker 12: the people though, it's what you're saying to dance.
• 26:03
  Speaker 11: No, yeah, you know.
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: What I mean.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Know that's what they're gonna do that. But I'm just
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: saying the stupid parents that throws a traumatizer to scaredy kids. Yeah,
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: six child's don't do good with scale because they cried, Yeah,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: it's a sick I ain't going to that house, but
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna find him by because I know if I
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: go to that house then he may put that chains
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: on me. Now we both up at night, so but
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I wish I get him by itself somewhere. So you
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: thought I'm gonna let him run me through the house
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: with chains. Now I can't sleep.
• 26:33
  Speaker 11: But if I get him out.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: For well, you're being ups for a different reason because
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: you gonna have to stand up because he's gonna cut
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: your ass off with this.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: To Raheema and Savannah, Rahiema writes, my husband emptied his
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: pockets when he got home, and I saw a cherry
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: chapstick on the dresser. I asked him about it, and
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: he said his coworker got it for him because his
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: lips were Should I go see why my husband's lips
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: bother her?
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: What man, y'all ain't got y'all, y'all need to quit
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: going down here talking to these other people. So other
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: people didn't take no WED advisus. You got to talk
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: to the person that said the viws with you. She
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: brought him the cherry chapstick because she cared about the
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: way his lips. Look, now, your real problem is why
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: is the husband so close to where his lips matter.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: That's your damn problem. So you're going down there to
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: see about this woman. Your problem is your husband. It
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: ain't the woman. She did not walk down the aisle
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: and say no, vows to you nothing. You have to
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: dress your chapstick with him. Y'all could talking about going
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: down there seeing these people. Stupid Tommy gonna go over
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: this man's house. Y'all down and told you you can't
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: go over these people house. Man, they got rights. It's
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: called stand your ground. As soon as you come over
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: their house, they can open fire on your ass because
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: they feel like their life was threatening. You know, Tommy
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: went over the Tommy gonna go over there. Tool whooped
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: the man. This is his baby because of the baby. Okay,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: my boy, They baby gonna be a lot of stuffs.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: The baby gonna be scared a bunch of times.
• 28:36
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: But then when your daddy is scared of lightning, that
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: you understand.
• 28:40
  Speaker 11: Hey, hey, hey, and so.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: The ladies shouldn't go down to her husband's job to
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: find out why the husband job.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: You did to talk to your husband about this chapstick
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: You're gonna go in there and run up on that woman,
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: and then then when you leave, you gonna need chapstick,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: gonna brush you in your mouth. I'm keeping running up
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: on these people.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Celo.
• 29:06
  Speaker 10: We gotta go.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 29:11
  Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: People Magazine Sexiest Man Alive twenty twenty three is actor
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Patrick Dempsey, former star of Gray's Anatomy. Patrick, of course,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: played the role of neurosurgeon Derek McDreamy for years, and
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: he is happy to be named People's Sexiest Man Alive.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: At this point in his life, He's fifty seven years old.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: The list also includes sexiest athlete. Guess who that is,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: none other than Travis Kelsey, Taylor Swift's man, sexy as
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: musician Harry Styles, Yes, sexiest morning show host. Now before
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you get up set Steve talking about TV right here,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Mark Consuelos sexy as Grandpa is Pierce Brosnan and sexy.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: It's funny guy, sexiest funny guy. Who do you think
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: you know?
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: It ain't talking? He's got Steve. Don't you say nothing either?
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: It's Trevor Noah, Trevor Noah. Ok yeah, sexy at funny guy.
• 30:28
  Speaker 12: We need to do over on that list because Jalen
• 30:30
  Speaker 12: Hurts is sexyes okay, that.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Athlete and in other entertainment is Trevor.
• 30:40
  Speaker 12: It is just the white list, right, We have more
• 30:43
  Speaker 12: we can put on there. You could be on their
• 30:45
  Speaker 12: Sexiest Morning.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, mm hmm.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Travis Kelsey exactly.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well people, you know Taylor Swift made him sexy,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: so there you go.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: You know, sexiest grandfather title. No, they ain't gonna give
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: me nothing. I don't really care. I'm trying to figure
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: it out. No, I don't get nothing. Sold War coming up,
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: y'all need to watch that when it come on.
• 31:21
  Speaker 17: I got that, okay, could Okay, you might not think
• 31:28
  Speaker 17: I'm pretty, but I'll tell you what though, I've been
• 31:33
  Speaker 17: here longer than anybody now.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Sexy ist, older man. Yeah, all right, there we go
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: another entertainment.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Categories where I know I can win, like like sexiest
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: man on TV there's ever been homeless? You know like that?
• 31:56
  Speaker 18: Wow?
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Really just narrowed, no argument, just take everybody else out
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: to run it.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, all right, so have you guys seen
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: some of the trending video clips of Me Along and
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Jeez from the I Might forgive, but I don't forget conversation. Yeah,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: because Jesz sat down with me along Junior for a
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: vulnerable conversation about their respective divorces and self love. Now,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: during the talk, Jez said quote, real men don't cheat.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Take a listen. Got to know when it's time to
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: be done right.
• 32:35
  Speaker 14: And that's usually not about another person and affair or
• 32:40
  Speaker 14: you know some chick that's willing to like make you
• 32:43
  Speaker 14: feel like a king. Because that's why most men cheat.
• 32:46
  Speaker 14: Most men cheat because.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Of that's so fascinating to me.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: It's so gross, it's so stupid.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: I personally this is my quote. Real don't cheat.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: You don't think so kill or No. I kind of
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: understand what you mean when you say that you do not.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I understand what you mean.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: In us that makes us want to be right across
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: the border, you guys agree a statement, Well, it's it's
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: missing a couple of things, because there is something in
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: us that makes us want to be right. But you
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: also have to introduce the human element. And there's none perfect, no,
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: not one. So you can be a real man and
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: make a mistake, you can. You know, I understand where
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: he's coming from. But you know, now Nia Long's statement
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: about you know, this woman made me feel special and different.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: That's so dumb. That's not dumb. That's usually what happens
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: if a man is at home and he lacks two
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: major things. If a man don't feel a appreciate it
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: and a man don't feel supported, those two things right there,
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: Them two things right there that women never talk about.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: It ain't how you look. And he saw somebody fine
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: and all this he and she was real sexy. No, man,
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: it's some other things in there too. But if a
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: man don't feel appreciated, and a man don't feel he
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: don't feel like his value, you gonna have a problem.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: You're going to have a problem. And it's not just
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: cutting dry, no, sir, it can't be. I mean, that's
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: a nice statement Jeez made anyway, but it can't be
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: that cut and dry, because you can be a real
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: man and make a whole lot of mistakes. That I'm
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: telling you, man, that's what this thing is. You know,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: it's a lot of good men that made some mistakes.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of good men in prison. People don't
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: like when you say that, but it's some really really
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: good men sitting behind that wall. And because good people
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: make mistakes, so I understand where JEZU coming from. Sounds good,
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: nice quote, good to put on the book cover, but
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: in real life, Doggie.
• 35:16
  Speaker 10: I ain't like the quote here.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: I didn't like it. Why didn't you like?
• 35:19
  Speaker 11: What?
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: What's wrong?
• 35:20
  Speaker 13: What's wrong?
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Junior?
• 35:23
  Speaker 9: I don't know. You can't be talking to my crush
• 35:25
  Speaker 9: like that, and you just making statements, making healthy some
• 35:27
  Speaker 9: type of ways, like I ain't sitting over here. This
• 35:31
  Speaker 9: is about you, and don't cheat you try to depress.
• 35:40
  Speaker 9: I would have said the same thing, Jesus, you're not impressed.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we're gonna
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: try to calm Junior down. Essay's tips for flying with
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving food. We'll talk about that right after this. You're
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: listening morning show. Thanksgiving travel is right around the corner.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: If you're confused about what you can bring on a
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: plane and what needs to go in your checked bags, well,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the roads can be confusing, but the TSA gets it,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: and they're helping to clear things up as we get
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: into the busy holiday travel season. The Transportation Security administration
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: is sharing some lighthearted guidelines about the Thanksgiving foods that
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: are okay to have in your carry on and those
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: that belong in your checked luggage. Turkey dressing, mac and
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: cheese are.
• 36:30
  Speaker 10: Good on the plane.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you could carry on bag.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't. Yeah.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, and cranberry sauce. It doesn't matter if it's from
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: a can or homemade. If it's it's classified as a liquid.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: So it needs to go in your checked luggage. Okay,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: So you could take the turkey dressing in the mac
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: and cheese, but the cranberry sauce has to be checked.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: And in addition, you need to check your alcohol and gravy.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: If you're gonna bring gravy, that's a liquid too, So
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: that checked bag, gravy?
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Who house going to? The damn? Why is we flying here?
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: And all gravy? Who house you going to? How many things?
• 37:30
  Speaker 19: Given?
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Jimmis has day ass ruined Henni's house and you didn't
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: bought everything? Where is we gonna put this mac and
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: chites in? You gonna turny green bean?
• 37:42
  Speaker 11: But the grave we'll.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: Need all the part looking at who is carrying this turkey?
• 37:47
  Speaker 15: Turkey?
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: We need a whole turkey. You know we're going to
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: ain't hellis I'm going what's we're talking about? Flying all
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: the food here? Braving damn dog graves to bring gravy?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: How big that gravy pot got the boom?
• 38:03
  Speaker 9: Man?
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Don't how much?
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Look ad you fit in the half because all the
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: food has gotta be in a separate thing in case
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: it spells you want.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: To which graves? They don't even want it that. I
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: don't want no gravy come out of thermos.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: I just.
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: The turkey pounds. We got a nineteen pound taken. We
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: got a luggage just for that.
• 38:31
  Speaker 11: Great.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I'll just stay home, thank you.
• 38:34
  Speaker 7: Or dry all.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Listen, I'm gonna just eat Thanksgiving him. I'll tell you
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: we're gonna got then this Thanksgiving. Yeah, we're gonna zoom
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: sit around table. I'm not sliging all this damn food.
• 38:52
  Speaker 11: See me on.
• 38:53
  Speaker 10: Somebody said dip that bag and get.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: That and the Ranberry sign.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Else, somebody got to fly in the punch this helpful
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: can't cooking nothing. Somebody got to fly into punch money all.
• 39:11
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• 39:14
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• 39:31
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• 39:34
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• 39:39
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• 39:42
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• 39:45
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• 39:47
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• 40:14
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• 40:29
  Speaker 16: she'll lonely before calling to come to you.
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  Speaker 6: First.
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  Speaker 16: It was the one who says Junior mister sway from
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  Speaker 16: you and Tommy because you all talked down to him.
• 40:38
  Speaker 16: That's not the point. They're missing the whole concept of
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  Speaker 16: the show. It's humor. You'll have a crew, you'll a
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  Speaker 16: youngster together and write to each other to tell them
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  Speaker 16: mind their business or let me know when I can
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  Speaker 16: glove up to get them for you, because I'm tired
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  Speaker 16: of them coming to you now your number one friend
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  Speaker 16: always love morning crew.
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  Speaker 2: Right, yeah, thank you. You don't come for him, boy,
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  Speaker 2: take down in the back for you coming. You're going
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  Speaker 2: to get yourself smack one time down right here out.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: All right, here's another called Paul from Philly.
• 41:24
  Speaker 18: On Steve is Paul from Philly. First of all, I
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  Speaker 18: want to say thank you for you and the crew.
• 41:28
  Speaker 18: I lost my wife last year, but before then you
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  Speaker 18: and TDJS helped me to become and understand what a
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  Speaker 18: true husband is and how to treat a woman. The
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  Speaker 18: one thing you say, thank you.
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  Speaker 6: For that, Junior.
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  Speaker 18: Let the hair go, Tommy, somebody gonna get you.
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  Speaker 17: Boy.
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  Speaker 18: Ladies, y'all, y'all do a wonderful job. I just want
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  Speaker 18: to say that real quick, but I just thank you
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  Speaker 18: for helping me do my tough hup, and I appreciate
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  Speaker 18: it and anything you're saying. Forget the met the emph.
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  Speaker 18: Y'all have a blessing.
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  Speaker 11: Paul Junior, he didn't you heard what he said.
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  Speaker 12: That's what Tommy got out of the whole thing.
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  Speaker 10: Uh, tom, I know you hear what Paul said to
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  Speaker 10: you though, get me.
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  Speaker 2: Uh he's sitting here.
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  Speaker 9: Right.
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  Speaker 10: He just prophesied.
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  Speaker 2: He just prophesied. Yeah, appreciate you man to man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah right me. Truck driver left a message about
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: the r n B Mount Rushmore.
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  Speaker 8: Take a listen, hey, Steve, I'm riding hen. I'm a
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  Speaker 8: truck driver and I've been listening to tackle all the
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  Speaker 8: way back with you, all the way to Steve Top.
• 42:51
  Speaker 8: But Joe was just talking about men R and B singers. Man,
• 42:55
  Speaker 8: you can't forget James Ingram and you can't forget before
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  Speaker 8: Brian McKnight. You gotta put them in there. That's saying,
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  Speaker 8: y'all have a blessed day.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, them two dudes are super time. That Brian
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  Speaker 2: McKnight cold songwriter and vocalist that boy cole and James
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  Speaker 2: Ingram is cold too.
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  Speaker 20: Ain't no doubt compliment what she does. Come on, boy,
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  Speaker 20: send her roses just because if.
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  Speaker 4: It's Vily, she loves.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Let them play forever. Oh that was a jail. That
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  Speaker 2: stuff in my heart. Man, I feel, but you can't
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  Speaker 2: five not replacing nobody. Now, if I had the women's
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  Speaker 2: Mount Rushmo, who you got? Okay, let me think about
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: that for a minute. My four favorite Mount Rushmoe, women
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  Speaker 2: of R and B.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: No, Lord, okay, all right for the prank, all right,
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: coming up next, it is a nephew in today's prank
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  Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this you're listening.
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  Speaker 13: Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
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  Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and
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  Speaker 1: the subject is real men can cry, but there is
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  Speaker 1: a limit. All right, we'll get into that also right
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  Speaker 1: after the prank, nephew. When you get into that, Steve's
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  Speaker 1: going to come back with his women's mount Rushmore. We
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  Speaker 1: did the men yesterday, He's going to do his female
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  Speaker 1: mount Rushmore of R and B today.
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  Speaker 21: Okay, so all right, you're here right now. What's the
• 44:43
  Speaker 21: prank for today? The title of the prank is I
• 44:46
  Speaker 21: dropped your wife. I dropped your Hey. Hey, it happens
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  Speaker 21: sometimes you understand.
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  Speaker 2: Mean, it happens.
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  Speaker 6: Hello, I'm trying to reach Tony.
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  Speaker 19: This is Tony, Tony.
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  Speaker 6: How you doing this? Is nephew, Tommy.
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  Speaker 19: I can't believe you're Okay, y'all been married eight years. Okay,
• 45:08
  Speaker 19: here's that's my heart.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, let me ask you something. What makes your husband
• 45:13
  Speaker 6: just go off?
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  Speaker 19: Anything that has to do with me?
• 45:15
  Speaker 15: Let me tell you he is crazy about me.
• 45:18
  Speaker 19: If anybody mess with me, if anybody tries to go
• 45:21
  Speaker 19: off on me, he will lose it.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Oh, what are we gonna do? What?
• 45:25
  Speaker 19: I'm so excited on the time?
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  Speaker 6: All right? Can you click over on a three way?
• 45:30
  Speaker 6: Can you call him?
• 45:32
  Speaker 19: Okay, I can call it from my phone, but you're
• 45:34
  Speaker 19: gonna be on the phone right Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I want I want him to think that I got
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  Speaker 6: your phone. Okay, just click over so when you click back,
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  Speaker 6: you can't say nothing else. You got to be quiet
• 45:43
  Speaker 6: because I'm gonna at the end, I'm gonna let you
• 45:44
  Speaker 6: talk to him. Okay, Okay, hold on, Tommy, are you there?
• 45:51
  Speaker 6: I'm here. Okay, you're getting newt or something?
• 45:54
  Speaker 19: Okay, Okay, Hey, what's that?
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  Speaker 6: Uh no?
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  Speaker 9: Just this is this?
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  Speaker 6: Is this?
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  Speaker 14: Dren?
• 46:01
  Speaker 6: Dad is Darren? What was this? Hey? We got a
• 46:03
  Speaker 6: bit of a situation with with Tony.
• 46:05
  Speaker 19: Man, we got a situation for real?
• 46:07
  Speaker 6: You just my wife phone?
• 46:08
  Speaker 20: Who is this?
• 46:09
  Speaker 6: This? Uh? Actually is the other one? Brother? Who is this?
• 46:12
  Speaker 6: We're trying to get Tony actually twisted her ankle? Man,
• 46:15
  Speaker 6: We got to get her to the emergency room and
• 46:17
  Speaker 6: get her checked out. She twisted her ankle? How she twisted? Wait?
• 46:20
  Speaker 6: Wait wait, wait back up?
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  Speaker 19: Who did you say?
• 46:21
  Speaker 6: Who is this?
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  Speaker 19: How did Tony.
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  Speaker 6: Twist her ankle? Actually? She she she fell?
• 46:26
  Speaker 19: And man, look look, my wife is with her mom
• 46:30
  Speaker 19: right now.
• 46:30
  Speaker 6: Who who and who are you?
• 46:32
  Speaker 19: How did you twist her ankle? And why are you
• 46:34
  Speaker 19: calling me? Why isn't her mother? Somebody called him?
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: Who is this?
• 46:36
  Speaker 19: You never told me your name?
• 46:37
  Speaker 6: Bro? No, I'm a friend man ship in Fall. I
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  Speaker 6: actually dropped her?
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  Speaker 19: How you how did you drop he?
• 46:44
  Speaker 6: Wait?
• 46:44
  Speaker 19: What do you mean you dropped her?
• 46:45
  Speaker 6: We had a couple of drinks at the hotel, man,
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  Speaker 6: and she hey, wait.
• 46:49
  Speaker 19: Wait wait hotel? There you mean a hotel? My wife
• 46:52
  Speaker 19: is supposed to be over her mom's house. Now you
• 46:54
  Speaker 19: called me from my phone talking about you dropped her.
• 46:56
  Speaker 19: Y'all let some hotel? But why y'all even let a hotel.
• 46:59
  Speaker 19: What are you talking about?
• 47:00
  Speaker 6: A hotel? Bro?
• 47:01
  Speaker 19: Where is my wife? Where's Tony?
• 47:03
  Speaker 6: Why? Well?
• 47:03
  Speaker 19: Why ain't Tony on the phone.
• 47:05
  Speaker 6: You gotta come. You gotta calm down.
• 47:08
  Speaker 19: Situated you calling me for my wife phone telling I
• 47:11
  Speaker 19: see hurt. You dropped her y'all at the hotel. She
• 47:13
  Speaker 19: sp mom's house.
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  Speaker 6: Bro, where is my wife?
• 47:16
  Speaker 19: Man?
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  Speaker 6: She's it, Tony, I got it, I got it.
• 47:18
  Speaker 19: Just hang on to Tony. I gotta put my wife
• 47:20
  Speaker 19: on the phone.
• 47:21
  Speaker 6: Man, Hey, dude, just I need you to calm down.
• 47:23
  Speaker 19: Man, No, no, I need you to this man, No, no, no,
• 47:26
  Speaker 19: you talking about yall about to go to an emergency room.
• 47:28
  Speaker 19: You dropped my wife y'all at the hotel. Dog, Keep
• 47:30
  Speaker 19: putting my ship on the phone before y'all be in
• 47:33
  Speaker 19: the emergency room.
• 47:34
  Speaker 6: Hey, man, listen, you gotta calm down. Tony already embarassed.
• 47:38
  Speaker 19: I don't even know who the hell you are. You
• 47:39
  Speaker 19: still ain't telling me put Tony on the phone.
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: Listen, man, you gotta chill out. Man. I'm just a friend. Okay,
• 47:45
  Speaker 6: I'm there. You are.
• 47:46
  Speaker 19: I tell you what in the emergency room? Tell me
• 47:48
  Speaker 19: where y'all at. I come to the hotel. I get
• 47:50
  Speaker 19: my own wife and take it wherever she needs to do.
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: As soon as Tony get dressed, man, I'm gonna get
• 47:56
  Speaker 6: her there.
• 47:56
  Speaker 19: Okay, as soon as she gets dressed. What do you menue? Hey? Man,
• 48:01
  Speaker 19: real talk, Joe. Where y'all at?
• 48:02
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 48:03
  Speaker 19: Where putting Tony on the phone?
• 48:04
  Speaker 6: Man? I'm not putting Tony on you too? All right? Man?
• 48:07
  Speaker 6: Why are you screaming at Holland? Dude?
• 48:09
  Speaker 19: I swear to God, I swear to God. If I
• 48:11
  Speaker 19: find out where y'all at, I'm gonna come on her.
• 48:12
  Speaker 19: It's gonna be one for you and Tony. Hey, hey, man,
• 48:16
  Speaker 19: where y'all at? Bruh, I'm cool. Where y'all at? Simmy,
• 48:18
  Speaker 19: where y'all at?
• 48:19
  Speaker 6: No? No, I'll tell you what, man. I'm gonna get
• 48:21
  Speaker 6: Tony's ankle taken care of and we'll get somebody to
• 48:24
  Speaker 6: drop a back off at the house.
• 48:26
  Speaker 19: Okay, I think I'll drop a off at the house. Man,
• 48:28
  Speaker 19: just tipping where y'all at? I want to come get
• 48:30
  Speaker 19: my wife. I want to make sure she gets the
• 48:31
  Speaker 19: treatment that you need. Bro sidnt where y'all at? Don't
• 48:34
  Speaker 19: go nowhere. I want you to be there when I
• 48:35
  Speaker 19: come and get it. Don't go nowhere where y'all at.
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: I can't do it.
• 48:38
  Speaker 19: I mean we put this tony on the phone.
• 48:40
  Speaker 6: Man, put my wife on. I'm not listening.
• 48:42
  Speaker 19: Let me talk to my wife.
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: Brou Hey, Man, it's the reason why I'm calling. Man.
• 48:46
  Speaker 6: She embarrassed about all of this, and.
• 48:47
  Speaker 19: Now she's gonna be holding embarrassed one height.
• 48:49
  Speaker 6: Okay, it's cool.
• 48:50
  Speaker 19: Ain't to tell. Ain't gonna need to be embarrassed. I
• 48:51
  Speaker 19: love her, man, that's my girl.
• 48:53
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 48:53
  Speaker 19: Let me let me holler at my wife. Bro, please, no, no, no,
• 48:56
  Speaker 19: already no wife or phone. Bro Listen, dude, Man, look
• 49:00
  Speaker 19: really talking. You still ain't telling me what you want.
• 49:02
  Speaker 19: Don All I know is you coming to me talking
• 49:04
  Speaker 19: about you? So I don't tell her with my wife,
• 49:06
  Speaker 19: and let me tell you something.
• 49:08
  Speaker 6: You don't.
• 49:08
  Speaker 19: Don't let that lord that ankle with him? You say
• 49:10
  Speaker 19: it's running. My wife's get your looks. God, I'm telling
• 49:13
  Speaker 19: you want to find out who you are. I'm fussing.
• 49:16
  Speaker 19: Put my wife on the phone, and that's all. That's
• 49:18
  Speaker 19: my last time to ask you.
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: Dog.
• 49:20
  Speaker 19: I promise this.
• 49:21
  Speaker 6: Hey, I ain't man, what but see man?
• 49:22
  Speaker 7: You throw all right?
• 49:23
  Speaker 6: Man, you call right.
• 49:24
  Speaker 19: I'm my wife on the phone. Bro, That's all I'm saying.
• 49:27
  Speaker 19: You gotta leave town. That's what I'm You got to
• 49:29
  Speaker 19: leave town, man, you gotta leaves.
• 49:32
  Speaker 6: You want to where you want to talk? Let Tony
• 49:35
  Speaker 6: decide that she want to talk to you or not.
• 49:37
  Speaker 19: I'm right here here that decide.
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: Tony. Do you want do you wanna? Do you want
• 49:41
  Speaker 6: to talk on? Then?
• 49:42
  Speaker 19: Don't even ask?
• 49:43
  Speaker 6: I ain't man. You'll see what Tony want to do.
• 49:48
  Speaker 19: Toddy on the phone.
• 49:49
  Speaker 6: Heymen, pull don I don't even know you. Man?
• 49:53
  Speaker 19: Put on the phone? You you scared to kill me?
• 49:55
  Speaker 19: Your name?
• 49:56
  Speaker 6: Tony? You want to talk to him? Hell?
• 49:58
  Speaker 19: Yes, you want to talk to me? Man, I don't
• 49:59
  Speaker 19: even know why. She asn't no jump quitting you the phone?
• 50:02
  Speaker 6: I phone de Tony, this is man.
• 50:05
  Speaker 19: Yeah, hey baby, baby, baby to look on't have time
• 50:13
  Speaker 19: for games? Were you when you're with That's all? You
• 50:15
  Speaker 19: gotta chill me, baby, Just calm down.
• 50:16
  Speaker 15: I got something to tell you.
• 50:18
  Speaker 19: Tony.
• 50:19
  Speaker 16: You listen to me.
• 50:20
  Speaker 19: Maybe you got to listen to me. Are you listening? Yes,
• 50:23
  Speaker 19: listen to me real carefully? Okay, where are you at,
• 50:26
  Speaker 19: Tony baby? Are you listening to me?
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: Yes? I'm listening.
• 50:29
  Speaker 19: Maybe you just got prayed, but nephew trying to. I'm
• 50:37
  Speaker 19: laughing right now. I love you, okay, yeah, okay, you
• 50:44
  Speaker 19: hurt your home. That's who you got me.
• 50:47
  Speaker 6: You got me.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: All right much picked it back up. Let's go big golf.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: You already you didn't set the playing field, you know, man,
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: I just I can't do it. Just come to the conclusion.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: I can't come up with the top folk because it's
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: just too they mean too much to me. Cause see,
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: let me say something to you. First of all, in
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: terms of hits, patty LeBell don't have the hits, but
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: patty Le Patty La Belle is a voice that resonates
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: with us as a pla. Then you got gladys out there,
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Lord Haven mercy and see you. You don't really know
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: how this Mount Rushmo can go. And let me begin
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: with this one here, drum roll, please day give me something,
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  Speaker 2: give me some some Mount music or background. Whitney Houston,
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  Speaker 2: your Mount.
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  Speaker 6: Way.
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  Speaker 2: The greatest voice ever lived belonged to Whitney Houston. Next
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  Speaker 2: on the list, my Mount Rushmo of r and be women.
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: The Queen ain't no soul. I just don't know how
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  Speaker 2: we could do this list without her. I would have
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  Speaker 2: a modern list after this one. Third on the list
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  Speaker 2: for me, uh God for me? Or female on the vocalist, Man,
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: that's my girl. I've got more enjoyment for her music
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: than anybody living. See that's why I'm told my last
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  Speaker 2: one this list is shaw day A Shaka Khan. Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: damn Shaka Khan got a voice matching it. That's my
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: list And I'm wrong for that because gladders, Lord have mercy.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Daphane, all right, oh for sure? All right, Kelly
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: up next Strawberry Letter. Subject Real men can cry, but
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: there is a limit. We'll get into that, talk about it.
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  Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:22
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject Real men can cry, but there's
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: a limit. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I had
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: a long distance relationship for two years, and we had
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: never spent over two weeks together until we got married.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: It was overwhelming for me to have a man around
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: full time, and when I asked him for my own
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: space in his home, he got sad. I'm twenty six
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: and I went straight from my parents' house to my
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: husband's house. My mom said, since he's thirty two years old,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: he should be patient with me because a lot of
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: things are new to me right now. He's not patient
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: or understanding, and he doesn't deal with things in a
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: manly way, in my opinion. For example, I got some
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: tea last Sunday and sat on the back patio enjoying
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: the cool air, and I called my best girlfriend to
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: catch up. He came out and he started crying, saying
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: that he can't believe I'd rather spend quality time with
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend than talking to him. I got off the
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: phone and I went in and sat on the couch
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: while he watched football. I was very weirded out by
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: what he did, and it's not the first time he's
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: done that, so I need to know what's wrong with him.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: The crying after intimacy is the worst, and I don't
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: know how to console him. At first I thought I
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: had heard him, but he said he just can't believe
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: he bagged a beauty like me. Is it low self
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: esteem or what? Let's say, for instance, I pick up
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: a meal for him that he's been wanting, he will
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: hug me and cry like I bought him a rolex
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: or something. I'm telling you something is not right with him.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I'm scared to talk to any of my close friends
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: about him because they will never look at him the
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: same way and the jokes will never be never ending.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: I do think it's healthy for a grown man to cry,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: But why is he so emotional all the time? Please help?
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: I'm with you. Although I haven't seen it a lot
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: in my lifetime, I do think it can be healthy
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: for a man to cry. It's more acceptable in this
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: society for a woman to cry. But who wants to
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: see a woman who cries all the time?
• 55:49
  Speaker 13: Either.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: In your case, the question is why is he crying?
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: We don't know the answer to that. Because you bought
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: him some food. You brought him some food he start
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: crying because you called your best friend when you were
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: out on the patio with a glass of tea because
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: you're having sex.
• 56:05
  Speaker 13: He cries.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: All of this is very strange. I guess you didn't
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: know it before you married him, since you guys didn't
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: live together, so this is all a surprise to you.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I have to agree with you about this. With you
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: not talking to your friends, they won't understand and they
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: will clown him. If anything, you should try a therapist
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: or a marriage counselor or something. You have to tell
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: your husband how you feel and try to get him
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: to agree to get some kind of help to find
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: out what's wrong, because you don't want to start looking
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: at him as unmanly for crying all the time and
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: lose respect for him. I have no idea what he's
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: crying for, and you don't either, So try and get
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: some help for him.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: Steve, ain't no help for him. Let me straighten this
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: out for you. I know dudes like this. I know
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: one just like this. And you ain't going to therapy
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: and fix this. You know he ain't for therapy. You
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: know you ain't finna stop this. Ain't nobody finish fin
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: He ain't have no deep seated problems in his childhood
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: or nothing, I'll just get to what's really wrong right
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: here in a minute. Y'all had a long dist relationship
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: for two years and you never spent two weeks together.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: Now you have married the man and moved in. Now
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: all held and broke news. So now you told him,
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: since you have twenty six and you had moved in
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: directly with him, that you wanted to have your own space,
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: and your mom said he should give it to you
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: because he's thirty two and he should be patient or understanding.
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: Then you said, he don't deal with things in a
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: manly way. Folks, let me tell you something. When your
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: woman types my man does not deal with things in
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: a manly way, that is because she has had another
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: view of manhood or is at a different reaction or
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: behavior of a man that you're not doing. And once
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: a woman has that viewpoint of view, this marriage is
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: heading towards the end because the things you are expecting
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: for him, he is not going to be able to
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: deliver on. I'm sorry, We about to get to it
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: in a minute now. When I say what I got
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: to say, don't nobody say nothing to me because she
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: wrote me with the problem and I have to tell
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: you what your man's problem is so, for example, you
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: got some tea last Sunday, you set out on the
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: back patty and joined the cool app, and you call
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: your girlfriend to catch up. He came out and he
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: started crying. I can't believe you would rather spend your
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: time with your girlfriend to be they tell me me,
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: And that's why I'm out here crying. Look at you.
• 59:10
  Speaker 6: I know.
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: She looked up at him and going, what's wrong with you?
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: I know because see women women today self, what is
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: wrong with your pocast? I know you ain't out here
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: crying because I'm talking on the phone. So she got
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: off the phone and went and sat on the couch
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: while he watched football. Now, you say you was very
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: weirded out by what he did, but that ain't the
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: first time he done that. It's to crying after intimacy.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: That's the worst. I don't know how to console him.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: I don't understand that either. Not crying after sex, crying
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: during sex. I've seen that happen. I've cried. I've had
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: something so good that tears have run down my face.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: I've had I can't hold on.
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: But afterwards, I don't know what we s you're crying
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: for hour.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: Hold that thought, Steve. We'll have part two of your
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject real men can cry, but there's
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: a limit. We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 13: You're listening morning show?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: The subject is real men can cry, but there's a limit.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, she'd havene married this man that cry a lout,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: and she don't know what to do. He thirty two.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: She twenty six, and one time she was out on
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: the back patio having a hot cup of tea and
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: she called her girlfriend. Well, precious came outside and saw
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: her having the tea talking her girlfriend and just started crying,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: to you out here talking only I ain't watch any
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: game out, but I said you a visit. Well, you
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: old man with me? And then she looked up and
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: said on the her brother, what is your punk ass
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: talking good? And she said, well, baby, I was just
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: out here talking to my friends, so it kind of
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: weirded my mouth. So she went inside to watch football
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: set on the couch next to him. She was kind
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: of weird about that, and she didn't know what to do,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: but that ain't the first time. Then she said, it's
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: to crying after intimacy. That is the worst, and I
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: don't know how to console him. At first I thought
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: I had heard him had put it on it to
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: where you had caused him some pain. But he said
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: he just can't believe he bagged the beauty like me,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: he too, Damn, he cried too much. You don't cry
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: after intimacy. You can cry during intimacy, Like I said
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: on my last break, I've had something so good that
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: the tears had run down my face before something. But
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: I just I know you can cry during intimacy, but afterwards,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know how because especially when you get to
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: that moment that you all work for, that climactic moment
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: of excitement. Yeh, there's no crying now because it because
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: they feel like you're getting electrocuted. So it's kind of
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: hardy hard to cry when you're getting electrocuted. You know,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: you holler, and you know, half stand up on the
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: back of your neck. I don't even have half more
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: and it's still standing there and it's just shocking. But
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: that's when I know what the really my it's no
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: self esteem of what to say. For instance, I pick
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: up a meal for him that he been wanting, he
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: will hug me and cry like I bought him a
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: Rolex or something Chinese food.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 11: How did you know?
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: I gail what I wanted? Some ship right right? Everything?
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: Oh God, I can't believe you, beautiful hen you spot
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: about this? Oh God? Is sim was like, And let
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: me tell you something, lady. You got to divorce this
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: man because this ain't finna get no better. It's no
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: counseling for him. You can't tell this to your friends
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: because every time they see him, they gonna see precious coming.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: Listen to me, first of all, this ain't crying. This
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: is whining. You're married to a whiner. Now it has
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: turned into tears because he whines so convincingly to himself.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: He hurts himself. Your man is soft. He softened and medicated.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: Cot See, you can be emotional and you can be sensitive.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: You can't be both. Bro, he not gonna recover from this.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: I mean he was the little kid that remember the
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: song we used to sing when we were a little
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: Cry baby cry, Why if you weeping eyes, put your
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 2: hand on your hip and let your backbone slip all
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: shake it to the east, Shad, take it to the west,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: Shake it to the everyone that you love the best. Hey,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: cry baby cry, Yeah that's him, except he thirty two.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: He too soft, man. I don't know what to tell you.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: He just soft. This ain't gonna work. He gonna do
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: it in front of some people. Now, I don't know
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: what qualities he have that made you marry him. I
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: don't know. He could be good in a lot of
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: areas because he's obviously a sensitive man. And it's okay
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: to be a sensitive man. Yeah, cry, it's okay to cry.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: I think I'm a sensitive man because I'm umsive to people,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: but I'm not an emotional man. I don't fall apart,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: I don't come apart. I handle stress extremely well. I
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: take more than the average person is willing to take.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: I know how to get in the fox hole and fight.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: I come up out of it. I got a lot
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: of dog in me. I'm a sensitive man. I'm sensitive
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: to people. But you can't be sensitive and emotional because
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: now you're just sitting up for some of your your
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: punk ass, just crying on the turn. And that's what
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: it is. And he gonna do it in front of
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: some people. Y'all gonna be sitting up at dinner and
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: he gonna bite down into one of them dishes that
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: he just loved. Oh love not mashed potatoes. God, I
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: love mash potatoes. Love no juice turkey. Yeah, see Thanksgiving
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: it's gonna have all the food. And don't cat this.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: Don't kill your little soft man around your uncles. I'm
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: telling you this right now. Don't take him over that
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: round Uncle jun Bug and Uncle Earl O'Neil, because he
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: not buying none of this.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 7: Hey man.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: All right, yeah, you got a little you guys, you're
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: married to some medicated cotton. I suggest you get out
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: because he ain't gonna toughen up no time soon.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Post your coming Thanksberry.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving, he gonna cry in front of you uncles and
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: they gonna they're gonna ruin.
• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: the hour, it's Junior with Sports Talk. Right after this
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: you're listening Hard Morning Show. It is time now for
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Junior and sports talk What you got Junior Pippin right here, Jr.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: Tak me long?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 11: What's up here?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: Everybody was up late?
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 13: Heyy ain't none was up?
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: Come on quick with me. I was boy, I was
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: on file Las.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 10: Yes you was, Yes you was. Papa All.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: Y'all better is out there and get ready called pimping
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: and put them over the town path is Chicago, Okay,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: Coats Patriots? You know I hate the Patriots. I can't
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: pull for the Patriots ever. I don't care who they played.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 10: Colts, Texans, Bengals.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: Bengos, y'all. I want y'all to please please beat the
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 2: Bengals for me because they're in the same division as
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: the Brown But y'all.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 10: Know better, Come on down, pack of stealers.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: I want to pack us the wind stealers, Titans, Buccaneers.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: Come on, Titans one more time. Crush the Buccaneers.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 10: Yeah, Brown though, let's go Brown.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: You ain't even know it's gonna be a struggle.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: But come on, Cleveland, let me.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: Go forty dollars Jack Wars Jaguise upset Game of the Week.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 10: Saints Vikings.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 18: Man.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: I said I wan't gonna pick the Vikings. Then they
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: starting to winning. But the Saints. They Saints had a
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: win last week? Really, No, who did they beat last week?
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: I ain't really show.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 6: It.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: Beat the Vikings, Falcons, Cardonals Falcons.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, Lions, Chargers, come.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: On, Lions Detroit up there, City Slippers Broadway. I still
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: dream about it when the players played Detroit things.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 10: All right, Command the Seahawks come on.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: Command is win your game?
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 19: Right?
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 10: Jets? Raiders like we care?
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: Huh, no one cares about this game, but there would
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: be a shaker Jets.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: Broncos Bills, Now you know the Broncos ain't supposed to
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: beat the Bills.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 6: You know that.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: Now, Russell them they came in around and they playing better.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: So I love Russell. Yeah, I love most Russell's and
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: Bill's gonna win that though, especially if they paying their
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: cold Weather Giants Cowboys, Tim Little Cowboys Alive.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you you and your thank you, Pimpen.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. A guy
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: on social media needs some advice. We'll talk about it
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: right after this.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: All right, So Steve Dean on Steve Harvey FM, rights,
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: I have a homie who historically has the worse luck
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: with women of anyone I've ever known. Sometimes it's just
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: painful to sit back and watch it all unfold. Now,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: I think he's setting himself up for more pain, and
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: I'm wondering if it's my place to step in and
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: warn him after a After running out of options, he's
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: turned to a dating site dedicated to women behind bars.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: He says he's been having regular exchanges with Angela, who's
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: incarcerated in a facility over one thousand miles away and
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: will be for five to seven more years. But he's
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: sure she's the one and is already planning multiple trips
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: to visit her. I'm like, come on, dog, uncle, I'm
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: trying to be a real friend here, but I don't
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: know what else to say. I just don't know what
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: else to say here.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: No, you got to let him go. You got to
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: let him go ahead do this. See when people don't
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: have look and then they come up with a real
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: stupid idea. You got to let one of them play
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: out inmate love of one thousand miles away on a
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 2: dating site, women behind bars. You'll go ahead, go here.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: Just that's it. Nothing.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 2: All these women out here, all these women free, all
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 2: these women ain't leading now, though she's gonna want revenge. Okay,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: all these women out here, what man came find a
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: woman out here? Got to go get one in prison.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: I understand women finding men in prison, but a man
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: got to go find a woman in prison. He don't
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 2: have no luck. Man, Hey, man, what's wrong with your friend?
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: See something wrong? Something wrong with him?
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: It ain't this girl in prison?
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 18: Right?
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 6: All right?
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: I think she looked like when she come up to
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: that glass though, you got, homie, and then I need
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: to know what you were in here before we can
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: start talking about love.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: is from Sherry and Steve Harvey. Cherry says, I have
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: a decently home, so I've been asked to host Thanksgiving
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: dinner this year. I am happy to do it, and
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: figured I would just order food from a local restaurant
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: and waha, dinner is served. Well, we got out about
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: my plan, and now I'm being accused of taking the
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: lazy way out. I figure that one I'm a terrible cook.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: Two I already have to clean my house and take
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: care of the hosting duties. Three it'll probably end up
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: being cheaper in the long Run. And four, if they
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: think it's lazy, then why aren't they hosting Uncle Steve and.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 13: The Morning crew?
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: Is really?
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: Is it really being lazy? Or should I be ashamed
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: over this?
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: What should is not being lazy? You just said you
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: ain't a good cook. All the people fit to drive
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: in for that, right? No, you need to go and
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: get that food from that restaurant or you could do
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: what one of the stories was early in the show,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: they were discussing that the airlines is going over the
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: foods that you can fly in because your ass can't cook.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: You just said you can't cook. You ain't got no choice,
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: but they saying you took the lazy way out. Tell
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: them all, just tell all the women on the text.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: Y'all know I can't cook. Now, what y'all gonna eat
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: when y'all get here? Y'all want me to go on
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: and try something because I can try a few things.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: You know your first turkey. You ain't gonna do the
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: first turkey right. I don't know if you know that,
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: but you're not gonna get the first turkey right.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be a disaster.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: Yes, And if you ain't never made mac and cheese.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: Trust me, that stuff that's on the shelf that you
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: get in the box that ain't what they want. Oh
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 2: and then you're gonna go to a restaurant and you
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: really gonna mess up because you're gonna bring in that
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: punkin pie. They're gonna be three with your.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: Ass, right, thanks giving it over.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 6: All?
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: Right, So she's not lazy, she's just doing the best thing.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: What do you do, Serlica, You can't cook, not that
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: she can relate the same thing you do. What you do?
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: All right, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: after this.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Well, the city of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia has just elected
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: a sister as their new mayor. Her name is Cherrelle Parker.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: She's a Democrat and she will be the city's one
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: hundredth mayor and the first woman to ever be elected
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: to the office. Congratulations again to Mayor elect Cherill Parker.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: That is wonderful news. Congratulations, congratulations first woman ever.
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, sure, yeah.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: It works.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: More election results. Congratulations to Kentucky Democrat Andy Brisher, he
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: wins re election in Kentucky's governor's race. It was a
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: good night for Democrats and the Republicans are not happy
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: about this.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 10: No, that's good though. The voters showed up.
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  Speaker 1: They did not skip this election, and that's good news.
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  Speaker 1: Gotta do it every election.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Philly got a system first one, first woman, first black woman.
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  Speaker 1: This is wonderful news. Charille Parker, I love her name,
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  Speaker 1: Charille Mayor Cherill Parker.
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  Speaker 11: Shela Jackson leave.
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  Speaker 2: It's a runoff in Houston.
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  Speaker 11: It is okay, it's a runoff. Yes, yes, yes, that's
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  Speaker 11: the one of the grades.
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  Speaker 1: Love her and she cares about Houston.
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  Speaker 6: She's been.
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  Speaker 1: A long time, for a very long time. So hopefully
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  Speaker 1: she will win too. That would be nice, all right,
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  Speaker 1: that's what happens when we get out and vote. Can
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  Speaker 1: let's win?
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  Speaker 11: All right?
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 1: play another round of would you rather? Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening hard Morning Show, and it's time now for
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather go
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  Speaker 1: hunting or fishing with your father in law?
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  Speaker 11: Fishing?
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  Speaker 2: My father in law, he go fishing, He's gonna ben't
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  Speaker 2: make it through the woods. I'm just tell you that
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  Speaker 2: right now. I'm not gonna be getting him up down,
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  Speaker 2: off that coolaris and all this. He go a bucket.
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  Speaker 2: He gonna cane pall and me come by and check
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  Speaker 2: on your head. Now, my father in law was a
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  Speaker 2: Vietnam Vet, a medic. He is not going back in
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  Speaker 2: the wood. That's laughing. All he can do is his shots. Fine,
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  Speaker 2: my brother. When my brother first came from Vietnam, he
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: was walking down the street and it's fourth of July.
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  Speaker 2: They started firing off firecrackers. He pushed me in the
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  Speaker 2: bookies bushes and dove on me. It's wrong with you, man?
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, b.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, that stuff is real?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather eat fruitcake or would you rather eat
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  Speaker 1: peppermint bark.
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  Speaker 11: Peppermint ball? Fruit?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know who what white person invented fruit cake? White?
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  Speaker 2: It's it's white. You know, only ones put green stuff
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  Speaker 2: in stuff pieces are men in there? And white white
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  Speaker 2: person made fruitcake? You know it. You know a white
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  Speaker 2: person invented fruitcake? What black person you know gonna put
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  Speaker 2: them ingredients and bacon?
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  Speaker 6: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I ain't never had a good piece of fruitcake
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  Speaker 2: peppermint bark.
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  Speaker 11: I'm gonna give it a shot.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, you never tried it. I don't even know what
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  Speaker 10: it is.
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  Speaker 9: Pepper pepd bark. I'm just gonna go with the other
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  Speaker 9: black people. Peppermint ball, peppermint ball.
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  Speaker 6: All right?
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: Would you rather visit Santa at the mall if you
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: were a kid, or would you rather write him a letter?
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  Speaker 1: You want to see him in person? Or just write
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  Speaker 1: them a letter?
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  Speaker 2: Ad laing too long at the mall. I'dra to write
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  Speaker 2: a letter and he'd be drunk up dead looking toe
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  Speaker 2: iron at the mall.
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  Speaker 1: Man those kids.
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  Speaker 11: And on his cell, all kind of.
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  Speaker 2: What do you wrong? All right, be fired?
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: That's all right? Would you rather never? I'm sorry? Would
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: you rather be with someone you don't trust? Or would
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: you rather be with someone you trust but don't love.
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  Speaker 11: I could be with a fine person that I don't trust.
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  Speaker 1: Just would you rather be with someone you don't trust
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  Speaker 1: or be with someone you trust but don't love.
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  Speaker 2: I take the trust, but don't love it.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I can deal with that.
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  Speaker 2: Because you're steal this money. It's gonna be a problem.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be a day problem.
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  Speaker 1: That's today's round.
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  Speaker 2: So please understand. As soon as I find out, it's
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  Speaker 2: gonna be a problem.
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  Speaker 1: And let you know that right now, coming up at
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  Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day and we'll close out the show with
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  Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: are last break of the day on this Thursday.
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  Speaker 10: It's been a good day, yes, absolutely, Steve.
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  Speaker 2: Well, here's some closing remarks I got for you today.
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  Speaker 2: And I've thought this because I have to remind myself
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  Speaker 2: of this all the time. And I'm not gonna say
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  Speaker 2: anything new. You've all heard this, but every now and
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: then we need a reminder, and that reminder is simply this.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 2: Don't you ever ever give up? Don't do it. I
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  Speaker 2: don't care how long you've been waiting. I don't care
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 2: how long it's taken. I don't care how many times
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: it's been delayed. I don't care how many no's you've gotten.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: Don't you dare? Don't you dare give up? Because I
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: am telling you it is those that endure to the end.
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  Speaker 2: The race isn't given to the swim, but to those
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  Speaker 2: that endureth to the end. You have got to make
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  Speaker 2: it to the end so you can see what the
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: results are they don't give away. This is not this
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 2: thing called life. Ain't about first place because it's a
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: whole lot of places. You ain't trying to place first.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: You just trying to win your race because you ain't
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 2: against nobody else. See, that's the problem you got. People
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: get it twisted. You are not so what somebody got picked,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: and you didn't saw what somebody got promoted, And you
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 2: didn't saw what somebody else hit the lodder when you
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: didn't saw what somebody else got there first, saw what
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: somebody down the street got a bigger house, saw what
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: somebody on the block keep getting a new car every year.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: You don't know what their circumstances is. Don't you ever
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: give up because you are not in a race against
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 2: in nobody else. You are in your own life race,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: and the race isn't given to the swill, but to
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: those that endure to the end. You have got to
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: stay with it. You don't know when God is gonna
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: flip that switch. I promise you you don't. I can
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: go over. It's so many documented stories about me about
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: how I felt like giving up and then all of
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 2: a sudden God came through. I'm going through something right
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: now that I do not understand why it's taken so long.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 2: But I tell you one thing, though, I bet you
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: I don't quit. I promise you that I am going
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: to wait on God. I am going to trust in
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: his timing. Now listen to me. Trusting in God's timing
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: is difficult because it almost ain't ever on the timeframe
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: you got in mine. I have never prayed for nothing
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: that I want to happen in ten years. I have
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: a lot more immediate prayers than that. But can I
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: tell you something I have prayed for something that took
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: ten years to happen. Oh boy, As I look back
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: on my life, I remember asking God for stuff at
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: twenty something that I didn't get till I was almost forty.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, I asked God for something
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 2: when I was twenty four. I didn't get it till
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: I was fifty. I can't tell you how many times
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: I have wanted something to happen so bad and it
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 2: didn't happen nowhere in the time frame. But I kept
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: the faith. I kept hope alive. And sometimes that's all
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: I had, y'all. It was I just hope something happened.
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  Speaker 2: But faith is the substance of things hope for and
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 2: the evidence of things not seen. Sometimes your faith has
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: to just be a hope. It's all right, it's all right.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: It's okay that your faith wavers. You just got to
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 2: keep hope alive because sometimes your faith is just diminish
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: yourself down to our hope. Man, show hope. God hear me, Man,
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 2: I show hope. He comes through. You know that's different
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: from I know he gonna come through. But it's okay.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: Sometimes it get down to that we human. Man, this
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 2: is hard.
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  Speaker 11: That's human.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: God, Why is it taking so long? That's human?
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  Speaker 19: Lord?
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  Speaker 2: Why are you letting me do this? Why is this
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 2: happening to me like this? That's human? But as you
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: get through having him human moments, don't you dare give up.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: Don't you give up. I'm telling you, y'all, it can
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 2: happen at a moment when you least expect it, and
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 2: it can happen better than you ever thought it would be.
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: This life that I have now, it's no way I
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 2: saw this. He will do exceedingly and abundantly over all
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 2: you think or ask. That's the power of God. God
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 2: is good man. But y'all, whatever you're going through, don't
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: you give up whatever you've been praying about. You just
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: keep on praying about it, keep on believing. And if
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 2: you can't believe some days, just hope, keep hope alive.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: Faith is the substance of things hoped for. That's the
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: substance of faith. It's just a hope sometimes and sometimes
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 2: you just down to that. But don't y'all give up.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, man, don't you dare you? Bet not quit?
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 2: Don't you let the devil fool you, make you think
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 2: God don't hear you, and he ain't coming. God, don't
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 2: forsaken you. God don't ever forsake you.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 6: That was you.
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 2: You tripped out. Don't give up, y'all. Those are my
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 2: closing remarks. Don't forget you. We all talked to God today.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: He'd absolutely love to hear from me. That was a
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 2: good program. Love Steve, Thank you.
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