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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
- 0:05Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
- 0:15Speaker 1: million buck things in the true good together. Please, I
- 0:38Speaker 1: don't join jo. You got to use that turn be hurting,
- 1:10Speaker 1: you're going to you. You gotta turn to turn them out.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Turn you got to turn them out. Then turn the
- 1:46Speaker 1: water to the water. Go. Come come on your bad
- 2:00Speaker 1: uh huh. I shall will come on and everybody y'all
- 2:05Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now wanting
- 2:08Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Um. Five things
- 2:13Speaker 1: that I know successful people have to do to be successful.
- 2:17Speaker 1: The principles are the same. You can apply it to anything,
- 2:22Speaker 1: you know, if you want to be happily married, you know,
- 2:24Speaker 1: whatever it is, the principles of success are the same.
- 2:28Speaker 1: There are a series of things that you have to do.
- 2:30Speaker 1: You cannot skip the steps of success. If you do,
- 2:33Speaker 1: you're going to have to go back and step on them. Anyway.
- 2:37Speaker 1: So here's here's here's here's a part man that I
- 2:41Speaker 1: want you all to understand about me and and and
- 2:44Speaker 1: and about how to look at it. You know, you
- 2:49Speaker 1: cannot under estimate faith and prayer. You just can't. You
- 3:00Speaker 1: cannot underestimate the power of faith and the power of prayer.
- 3:08Speaker 1: See for me, this is just for me. Now, this
- 3:10Speaker 1: ain't in the scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered.
- 3:14Speaker 1: What prayer did for me was was it tied me
- 3:18Speaker 1: to my creator. It gave me a sense and I'm
- 3:25Speaker 1: describing it this way, but I'm telling you it's deeper
- 3:27Speaker 1: than this. But it gave me a sense that I
- 3:30Speaker 1: wasn't alone and an actuality. I wasn't. But prayer helped
- 3:38Speaker 1: connect me to the power source that was available to
- 3:42Speaker 1: me to get through, get around, or get over whatever
- 3:50Speaker 1: it was that was in a way, whether it was
- 3:53Speaker 1: just a period I stretched, I had to go through
- 3:55Speaker 1: hard work. It had a period I had to go
- 3:58Speaker 1: through to learn some lessons, some periods I had to
- 4:02Speaker 1: go through from having to pay for some of the
- 4:04Speaker 1: mistakes I've made. Whatever the case may be, prayer gave
- 4:09Speaker 1: me a decided advantage, especially oh here we go, Especially
- 4:18Speaker 1: over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in my
- 4:23Speaker 1: life that were my enemies, I didn't want them to
- 4:25Speaker 1: be my enemies, Make no mistake about this. But through
- 4:30Speaker 1: the thing called life, some things went down, Some things
- 4:33Speaker 1: happened from here and then went over here or that way,
- 4:36Speaker 1: and a person became my enemy. The majority of enemies
- 4:40Speaker 1: I had came out of nowhere. I have no reason
- 4:44Speaker 1: to even see why they are my enemies. But you know,
- 4:49Speaker 1: life goes on, man. It happens from time to time.
- 4:51Speaker 1: Some people just won't let it go. See some people,
- 4:55Speaker 1: in their quest to do something to you or to
- 5:00Speaker 1: make you pay, they just won't let it go. But
- 5:04Speaker 1: it may cause you some discomfort, and some of them
- 5:06Speaker 1: may be lies about you, and all of this and
- 5:08Speaker 1: all of that, but you that that that can't prohibit
- 5:12Speaker 1: you from going forward. So what I'm saying is prayer
- 5:16Speaker 1: gave me the strength, wisdom understanding the carriage to either
- 5:19Speaker 1: go through it, go around it, or go over it.
- 5:25Speaker 1: But it happened. I do not know how I could
- 5:30Speaker 1: have made it. Without faith and without prayer, it would have.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Something would have got me. You Tube would have got me.
- 5:42Speaker 1: The bloggers would have got me. My partners that I
- 5:47Speaker 1: grew up with that used to laugh behind my back,
- 5:51Speaker 1: they would have got me. My friend that would over
- 5:55Speaker 1: my mother's house one time and told her, you know
- 5:57Speaker 1: what Steve's problem is he out there telling them jokes.
- 6:00Speaker 1: He just lazy, he don't want to work. That would
- 6:04Speaker 1: have got me. They didn't know. I ain't really mad
- 6:09Speaker 1: at them because they were just All they was doing
- 6:11Speaker 1: was basing their conversations and passing judgment based on what
- 6:15Speaker 1: they knew, based on what they believed. They didn't believe
- 6:20Speaker 1: I was gonna make it. But that's them though. If
- 6:25Speaker 1: it was not for the faith, which is the belief
- 6:27Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see, I wouldn't have made
- 6:30Speaker 1: it because I would have listened to everybody else who
- 6:34Speaker 1: didn't see me getting here and went along with it.
- 6:40Speaker 1: And then prayer. Oh my goodness, man, how many times
- 6:43Speaker 1: has prayer bailed me out? Prayer has bailed me out?
- 6:48Speaker 1: Prestiel belling me out. Tell you the truth, man, quiet
- 6:53Speaker 1: as its kelt. Prayer. That connection to your health, Father,
- 7:00Speaker 1: that connection to your creator, that connection to that source
- 7:04Speaker 1: of power and inspiration, that connection of never feeling that
- 7:08Speaker 1: you're alone. You know. I was watching a Bishop Jakes
- 7:10Speaker 1: on the TV yesterday and it was a repeat and
- 7:15Speaker 1: one of the things he was talking about, well, let
- 7:19Speaker 1: me just get to the gist of it. I was
- 7:22Speaker 1: going through a portion of my life and I and
- 7:27Speaker 1: I went through it for some years y'all. I had
- 7:29Speaker 1: gotten myself into a jam that lasted for years. I'm
- 7:34Speaker 1: telling you, for years, with some serious consequences to follow.
- 7:40Speaker 1: For years. And I was so busy looking at who
- 7:48Speaker 1: I was at. I was sulking. Sometimes, Man, I'd get
- 7:53Speaker 1: on the radio, Man, I'd be just done. I was sulking.
- 7:58Speaker 1: My my spirit had gotten low. I had gotten tired
- 8:03Speaker 1: of the fight, and I would I would come on
- 8:07Speaker 1: some mornings, man, and I will try try not to
- 8:10Speaker 1: let on, but I was hurting. I was because I'd
- 8:12Speaker 1: been in it for years. Man, I had been in
- 8:14Speaker 1: this thing for years. And one thing I was doing.
- 8:19Speaker 1: I was so busy looking at where I was at.
- 8:22Speaker 1: And when I was watching Bishop Jake's he preached this sermon.
- 8:27Speaker 1: He was talking about so busy looking at where you
- 8:34Speaker 1: at that you don't even realize that God has been
- 8:42Speaker 1: with you the entire time. And you know what, Man,
- 8:48Speaker 1: just yesterday, just yesterday, I heard this and I text him.
- 8:53Speaker 1: I text Bishop Jakes, and I thanked him because it
- 8:55Speaker 1: was an old message I could tell. And I called.
- 8:59Speaker 1: I text him up and I said, Man, thank you
- 9:01Speaker 1: so much. I was just watching you on TV, and
- 9:03Speaker 1: you told me, Man, something that I that I'll always
- 9:07Speaker 1: remember that whatever you're going through, that he's there with
- 9:11Speaker 1: you the whole time. But see when sometimes when you're
- 9:15Speaker 1: so busy looking at where you at, you don't even
- 9:17Speaker 1: notice where he is. And see sometimes, man, that that
- 9:20Speaker 1: helped me, and that's going to help me in the
- 9:23Speaker 1: future to realize that what I'm going through, that he's there.
- 9:27Speaker 1: He's there with me, and he gonna protect me, and
- 9:29Speaker 1: he's gonna let my enemies overcome me, and he ain't
- 9:32Speaker 1: gonna let nobody overtake me, and he ain't gonna let
- 9:35Speaker 1: me go under because he's there. It's just you can't
- 9:38Speaker 1: be so busy looking at where you at that you
- 9:40Speaker 1: don't take notice or where he at. God is always there,
- 9:43Speaker 1: He's always available, and the best way to tap into
- 9:46Speaker 1: that and know it is you got to pray. Prayer
- 9:49Speaker 1: has changed my life. Prayer can change your life. You
- 9:53Speaker 1: can become something if you just pray. You're listening tow
- 10:01Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. In honor of International Women's Day today,
- 10:06Speaker 1: I would like to open the show by saying, I
- 10:10Speaker 1: know you want to leave me, but I refuse to
- 10:14Speaker 1: let you go if I have to beg plead with
- 10:19Speaker 1: your sympathy. I don't mind, because you mean that much
- 10:24Speaker 1: to me. Ain't you proud to beg these? Don't leave me? Girl?
- 10:30Speaker 1: Ain't you proud to please? Baby? Baby? Don't you go?
- 10:36Speaker 1: I heard a proud man verse I have from man
- 10:42Speaker 1: with no sense. Bye, ladies and gentlemen, this is the
- 10:48Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Again. Why I started like that?
- 10:52Speaker 1: I do not know. But I wake up in the
- 10:55Speaker 1: morning and I go with however, go from me. I
- 10:58Speaker 1: thanked him this morning, first thing I did. Unlike yesterday,
- 11:02Speaker 1: I woke up this morning full of praise and gratitude
- 11:06Speaker 1: because without God I would be nothing. I don't know
- 11:09Speaker 1: who you think you are. I don't care what you
- 11:12Speaker 1: think you've accomplished. I'm gonna tell you right now. If
- 11:15Speaker 1: it wasn't for God, you wouldn't even have breath, just
- 11:17Speaker 1: as simple as that. And without breath, tell me what
- 11:20Speaker 1: would you have? So why are we trying to figure
- 11:23Speaker 1: out ways to pat ourselves on the back. We need
- 11:26Speaker 1: to pat him on the back and say thank you,
- 11:29Speaker 1: appreciate you for everything you are to me and everything
- 11:32Speaker 1: you got coming to me. I gave up trying to
- 11:35Speaker 1: figure it out. You know, I really have man I'm
- 11:36Speaker 1: at this point in my life now where look, God,
- 11:39Speaker 1: whatever you got for me, come on and give it
- 11:41Speaker 1: to me, because it's been good so far. So now
- 11:43Speaker 1: I ain't even proud. You know, know that I ain't
- 11:45Speaker 1: make no phone calls yesterday. I ain't you know whatever,
- 11:48Speaker 1: whatever y'all want to do, fine, God gonna give me
- 11:51Speaker 1: what he wants me to have. I am tired of
- 11:53Speaker 1: going to meetings and asking people and and negotiating. I
- 11:58Speaker 1: really am man. I just sat down on yesterday and say, Lord,
- 12:01Speaker 1: take the will. I'm your child, this your show. I
- 12:05Speaker 1: got a part of it, a very very small part.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Grant me the desires of my heart if that's in
- 12:12Speaker 1: your will, but do it your way. Maybe I've been
- 12:14Speaker 1: going about it the wrong way. Maybe I want want
- 12:16Speaker 1: stuff that ain't good, Joe, what you want me to
- 12:19Speaker 1: have that's good, fu Jie. I just ask you one
- 12:22Speaker 1: thing that couldn't could it just be a lot though,
- 12:25Speaker 1: that's all. Whatever you're good to see it, whatever is
- 12:30Speaker 1: you got for me, just give me a lot of it,
- 12:33Speaker 1: that's all. I just want a lot. You don't even
- 12:35Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and I'm not that ain't being greeted.
- 12:39Speaker 1: It's just if God is good to you and he's
- 12:43Speaker 1: full of grace and favor, could I just have a
- 12:47Speaker 1: lot of that? Yeah, just give me a lot of skip.
- 12:52Speaker 1: I ain't asking you for no money. I ain't asking
- 12:55Speaker 1: you for no for no nothing. I would love to
- 12:59Speaker 1: have a long, healthy life. I would appreciate that. And
- 13:03Speaker 1: with that, I'd love to have means to do what
- 13:05Speaker 1: I want to do. But if you, if you just
- 13:08Speaker 1: hold me right where I am right now, I can
- 13:10Speaker 1: ride like this. I ain't gotta get no health help,
- 13:13Speaker 1: but I don't want to get no sickle. I ain't
- 13:15Speaker 1: gotta have no more money, but I don't want to
- 13:17Speaker 1: lose no my life. Right, you ain't gonna do I'm right,
- 13:23Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm letting you know I'm good. Thank you
- 13:25Speaker 1: for this here right here. Just gonna take nothing. Yeah, okay, man,
- 13:30Speaker 1: Oh lord, that's a prayer right there. Yes, it is
- 13:34Speaker 1: an International Women's Day, Steve, thank you. Coming up at
- 13:38Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, the nephew will run
- 13:41Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening to Steve
- 13:45Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for
- 13:48Speaker 1: the nephew to run that prank back. Nephew, what you
- 13:51Speaker 1: got today? I got it. I got it, I got it,
- 13:54Speaker 1: I got it. I got it on International Women's Day,
- 13:58Speaker 1: Yes I have. Are your lights on? Are your light on?
- 14:06Speaker 1: All right? All right, let's go kay, come on, I
- 14:08Speaker 1: don't play with it. Let's go out. Hello, Hello, uh Is,
- 14:13Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach us. Who's going this? This? They
- 14:17Speaker 1: call me pepper, I love. I think I actually live
- 14:21Speaker 1: in an apartment behind you. I think my my apartments
- 14:24Speaker 1: are up against each other. But you are you in
- 14:26Speaker 1: um in Uni? Who want to know? Actually? I want
- 14:31Speaker 1: to know. I'm calling you. I got a little bit
- 14:32Speaker 1: of a problem. I actually live in uh which is
- 14:36Speaker 1: the apartment that that's our apartments are back to back
- 14:39Speaker 1: with each other. And I don't know harm man, but
- 14:43Speaker 1: you are so right, Yes, okay, here's here's what's going on.
- 14:48Speaker 1: It took me a long time to figure this out.
- 14:50Speaker 1: But when you come home in the evening and you
- 14:54Speaker 1: turn your life down, my my oven and stove come on,
- 14:59Speaker 1: and I'm telling about every out on my stove is
- 15:03Speaker 1: on and burning hot. How do you know? That's because
- 15:06Speaker 1: when I turned my lights home, I just I mean,
- 15:09Speaker 1: I didn't figure it out. It just seemed like every time.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I mean I hear you when you close your door,
- 15:13Speaker 1: and every evening I'm like, why is my oven and
- 15:17Speaker 1: my stove coming on? And I'm talking about my whole
- 15:20Speaker 1: kitchen just hunting degrees in there, But I understove being
- 15:23Speaker 1: on like that. Okay, did you call maintenance? From my understanding,
- 15:27Speaker 1: I'm only listen. They're not gonna get to me for
- 15:29Speaker 1: a couple of days now, so I'm not I'm asking you,
- 15:32Speaker 1: miss you're on mind to not how your lights on
- 15:36Speaker 1: until they come get this pix. Okay, So you asking
- 15:40Speaker 1: me not to turn on my lights for three or
- 15:42Speaker 1: four days, and you know, to sit in the dark. Well,
- 15:45Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's it's only gonna be for a
- 15:46Speaker 1: couple of days. I know it's a little bit of
- 15:48Speaker 1: an inconvenience, but I mean I can't be over here
- 15:50Speaker 1: in the house, you know, damn about to burn down.
- 15:53Speaker 1: Are you listening to what you're saying? You're asking me
- 15:55Speaker 1: to sit in the dark. You know I got a baby.
- 15:57Speaker 1: I can't sit in the dark. Okay. I mean y'all
- 15:59Speaker 1: have any else or something y'all can work with or
- 16:01Speaker 1: something like that. Um, I have to give my baby food, milk.
- 16:05Speaker 1: I mean, really, you want me to sit in the
- 16:07Speaker 1: dark and you don't want me to turn anything on.
- 16:10Speaker 1: You know, I gotta feed my baby. I understand, and
- 16:13Speaker 1: and and much respect to you in your child, much respect.
- 16:17Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to explain to you is, I mean,
- 16:19Speaker 1: we have to look at the big hazard here. The
- 16:21Speaker 1: bigger hazard is is that I'm over here with fire on. Okay,
- 16:25Speaker 1: First of all, where are you getting this wee from?
- 16:27Speaker 1: How am I involved in your situation? I am nothing.
- 16:30Speaker 1: The one that's going on in your life is patched
- 16:32Speaker 1: in some kind of way to my oven stove. Okay,
- 16:36Speaker 1: but I still I don't have anything to do with that.
- 16:39Speaker 1: You know, you need to call management whatever. But I
- 16:43Speaker 1: don't have anything to any with that. And I want
- 16:45Speaker 1: to know, how do you know when I get home
- 16:47Speaker 1: and turn on my lights? I mean, like, are you
- 16:49Speaker 1: looking at my window or something? Are you a peeping tongue?
- 16:51Speaker 1: Do I need to call nine one one? You don't
- 16:53Speaker 1: need to call nobody on me. Now, what we need
- 16:55Speaker 1: to get somebody over here and fix this other than
- 16:57Speaker 1: the stove. That's what we got to get done. But
- 17:00Speaker 1: in right now, you can't turn them lights off. Oh,
- 17:03Speaker 1: I'm turning on my life. I mean, I know you
- 17:07Speaker 1: ain't trying to regulate what I do in my house.
- 17:09Speaker 1: I'm listen. I'm gonna tell you, just like this here,
- 17:11Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to keep them lights off until
- 17:13Speaker 1: meeting this get over here in two days. Now. If
- 17:17Speaker 1: if I see this stove come on and all these
- 17:20Speaker 1: our eyes on this on this stove come on, that
- 17:23Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over there and we're gonna have to
- 17:25Speaker 1: directify the problem. But I cannot have this coming on now.
- 17:30Speaker 1: I'm not no, I'm not no, I'm not. I'm telling
- 17:33Speaker 1: you not to turn the lights off. That's what I'm
- 17:35Speaker 1: asking you to do. Well, I can't sit in the
- 17:37Speaker 1: dark and I'm gonna turn on my lights. So you
- 17:39Speaker 1: know you're gonna have to deal with it. No, I'm
- 17:41Speaker 1: not gonna deal with it. You're gonna have to actually
- 17:43Speaker 1: turn the lights off. Now, I understand. Do you have
- 17:46Speaker 1: someone you can go stay me? Do you have somewhere
- 17:49Speaker 1: you can go stay. I'm not leaving my house. I
- 17:51Speaker 1: don't have a problem, you know. One of the problem.
- 17:54Speaker 1: I'm not going to leave here and then you turn
- 17:56Speaker 1: it on, and then you come over here and knock
- 17:58Speaker 1: on my door. You think you see firing yourself. If
- 18:00Speaker 1: you're gonna see some fire, I can show you some five. Okay, listen,
- 18:03Speaker 1: I'm trying with as calmly as I can. I'm trying
- 18:06Speaker 1: to work with me calmly. Okay. The only thing you're
- 18:08Speaker 1: doing right now is you're trying to tell me what
- 18:10Speaker 1: to do and run my household. Okay. If you're not
- 18:12Speaker 1: gonna work with me, then this is what I'm gonna do.
- 18:14Speaker 1: So I already found out where the breaker is. I
- 18:17Speaker 1: just go and just turn all the power off so
- 18:19Speaker 1: you don't have your powa it off. Wait a minute, what? No,
- 18:22Speaker 1: you can't turn my break off? Are you crazy? I
- 18:25Speaker 1: got to do what I got to do. I can't
- 18:27Speaker 1: start no far right. Don't you get my phone number anyway?
- 18:30Speaker 1: I mean, how you know my name? My number? Artist?
- 18:33Speaker 1: You know what about to come home? And he's gonna
- 18:35Speaker 1: put the foot up, y'all. I don't care if he
- 18:37Speaker 1: put your in the of it and we set you
- 18:40Speaker 1: on fire. What you're talking about, You're gonna damn turn
- 18:43Speaker 1: the break off? Let me. I'm trying to shill me
- 18:46Speaker 1: and prevent a fire for the whole complex and you're
- 18:49Speaker 1: up and you're trying to commit h this is like
- 18:52Speaker 1: arsen for you to turn that on. I don't give
- 18:54Speaker 1: a you don't want you already got a problem, So
- 18:56Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask you to the fire. You call
- 18:58Speaker 1: me and again, I want to how you got my look.
- 19:02Speaker 1: I'm not going to sity that go on in this
- 19:03Speaker 1: little small t is that we got a problem with
- 19:07Speaker 1: your switch when you turn it on able who got
- 19:10Speaker 1: all the on the stove problem? It's about to be
- 19:13Speaker 1: a bigger problem when my man come over there put
- 19:15Speaker 1: a foot off your I don't know who the you
- 19:18Speaker 1: thank you with me, but it's about to be on home.
- 19:22Speaker 1: I don't know how you got my number, but you
- 19:24Speaker 1: called the wrong today. Okay, fine, I got one more
- 19:27Speaker 1: thing else I need to say. Tis you listen? You
- 19:29Speaker 1: got to say? Because I'm tired of listening to you?
- 19:32Speaker 1: Are you listening? You ain't saying I wanted here today?
- 19:35Speaker 1: You calling me without this? It is his nephew tire
- 19:39Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
- 19:42Speaker 1: pranked by your husband? Are you wait a minute? Hold up?
- 19:47Speaker 1: This is who This is nephew tire Me from the
- 19:52Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show your husband got me the prank
- 19:55Speaker 1: phone call? You are you serious? It's for real, Iliad.
- 20:05Speaker 1: I can't believe it. I'm no. I was ready to
- 20:08Speaker 1: put a foot off in somebody. I don't believe I
- 20:14Speaker 1: just got pump light this. Okay, I gotta ask you
- 20:17Speaker 1: one more thing. What is the baddest I'm talking about
- 20:20Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, the Steve Harvey
- 20:24Speaker 1: Morning Show. You got it? Ladies on International Day? What
- 20:30Speaker 1: you think ladies? We think stupid on International Women's Day?
- 20:35Speaker 1: All right, nephew, coming up next, ask the CLO Chief
- 20:39Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building ready for your
- 20:42Speaker 1: love questions. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
- 20:46Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour.
- 20:49Speaker 1: In Entertainment News. It is International Women's Day. We will
- 20:53Speaker 1: be highlighting ladies that are change makers and leaders in
- 20:56Speaker 1: today's society. But right now it is time to ask
- 21:00Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officers, Steve Harvey, in order of
- 21:04Speaker 1: Ladies Day, all of my answers, I will make sure
- 21:09Speaker 1: or get towards the female advantage. Okay, So whatever the
- 21:14Speaker 1: question of international they are not well, you know sometimes
- 21:19Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you have to know the truth now,
- 21:24Speaker 1: and the truth ain't always what you want to hear,
- 21:26Speaker 1: because the truth will set you free. Here we go
- 21:29Speaker 1: Kelly and Fort Myers. Kelly says, I'm having liposuctions soon
- 21:35Speaker 1: and my husband gave me the money for it, but
- 21:37Speaker 1: he says I don't need it because he loves my
- 21:41Speaker 1: pudgy belly. I'm doing it to feel better about myself
- 21:45Speaker 1: after having two babies. Do I listen to my husband
- 21:48Speaker 1: or do this for myself? Well, I want you to
- 21:52Speaker 1: understand something. Your husband gave you the money. Yes, he
- 21:56Speaker 1: wants you to do it. Yes, But the smart thing
- 22:00Speaker 1: we can say it if you don't have to do it,
- 22:01Speaker 1: because I love you like that, because he really is
- 22:04Speaker 1: loving and honor the fact that you gave him too
- 22:06Speaker 1: wonderful children. And he understands that if you don't do it,
- 22:10Speaker 1: it'll be okay with him. But he did give you
- 22:12Speaker 1: the money already, and if you don't do it, we
- 22:16Speaker 1: want the money back and we're gonna need that money.
- 22:19Speaker 1: How is this toward International Women's Day? Okay, Okay, that
- 22:28Speaker 1: on wasn't. But I'm but it's a compliment because he will.
- 22:34Speaker 1: He did give you the money because he wants you
- 22:37Speaker 1: to do it, but he also let you know that
- 22:40Speaker 1: he loves you just the way you are. And that's
- 22:42Speaker 1: fine and Danny, but he wants to honor your request
- 22:45Speaker 1: and give you the desires that had, so he gave
- 22:47Speaker 1: you the money. He cool with it. He gonna praise
- 22:49Speaker 1: you when you get it. But it ain't necessary. It's
- 22:52Speaker 1: what I'm saying, MS. But I don't if you don't
- 22:57Speaker 1: take this eight five hundred him more back in camp.
- 23:05Speaker 1: They're going back in they all remember. We're moving on
- 23:10Speaker 1: to Hendricks and Grand Rapids. Hendrick says, while my wife
- 23:14Speaker 1: and I were on vacation, I wanted to have sex
- 23:16Speaker 1: in a hot tub at the hotel. It was late,
- 23:19Speaker 1: so we were the only ones out there. Hotel security
- 23:22Speaker 1: caught us in the act, and my wife is traumatized.
- 23:26Speaker 1: How can I get her to forgive me? That's not
- 23:31Speaker 1: gonna work. Brother, she didn't want to. She did it
- 23:34Speaker 1: your way. I don't know how you think you in public,
- 23:37Speaker 1: And ain't nobody gonna see cameras, security, iPhone and black
- 23:42Speaker 1: people out there by their self. Somebody always gonna see
- 23:47Speaker 1: the race chat swinging background about two blacks alone out
- 23:55Speaker 1: go see things import out here, I believe looks like
- 24:03Speaker 1: they're engaged. They're having an entanglement in the war, all right,
- 24:14Speaker 1: So how can how can he get her to forgive him? Hey? Bro,
- 24:19Speaker 1: this lowe walk back traumatized, all right. Moving on to
- 24:25Speaker 1: Jocelyn and Kenner, Jocelyn writes, my husband and I have
- 24:30Speaker 1: we had some ac work done in the house, so
- 24:32Speaker 1: I went home to meet the technician. It was an
- 24:34Speaker 1: old friend from high school, and I was surprised to
- 24:38Speaker 1: see him. I gave him a hug and we chatted.
- 24:40Speaker 1: Awhile my husband saw it on our cameras, and he
- 24:44Speaker 1: doesn't believe my story. I'm innocent. Why is he tripping?
- 24:50Speaker 1: You hugging the technician? Why he tripping? Yeah, because you're
- 24:56Speaker 1: hugging the technician and you went home for that. It
- 25:00Speaker 1: sounded like it looked like some type of rendezvous. And
- 25:04Speaker 1: then it just so happens that he comes to the
- 25:06Speaker 1: ad guy and he happened to be an old friend,
- 25:09Speaker 1: and y'all happen to be hooked. But that could happen,
- 25:13Speaker 1: Absolutely can happen. But this is how real men react. Now. Yeah,
- 25:18Speaker 1: so I'm still trying to This still is International Women's Day.
- 25:21Speaker 1: We're still on it. I mean, now, you can't be
- 25:24Speaker 1: hugging the technician in front of the camera that I
- 25:28Speaker 1: don't know that you went home to meet because you
- 25:31Speaker 1: say we had ac problems. Now all of a sudden,
- 25:33Speaker 1: you know him and y'all hugging. Are you that insecure? Really? About?
- 25:39Speaker 1: Are you hugging in my house? Bat? But why are
- 25:42Speaker 1: you watching your wife on the camera? Yeah? I don't
- 25:44Speaker 1: get that part, because holy wait a minute. If your
- 25:51Speaker 1: wife go home by herself to meet a technician, you're
- 25:55Speaker 1: supposed to look at her own camera. You got a
- 25:58Speaker 1: strange man? No, no, you got a strange man in
- 26:01Speaker 1: your house, so you thought Noah, turns out I know
- 26:04Speaker 1: him and we're hugging. That's why he owned camera. Hey man,
- 26:08Speaker 1: let me let me watch this cat over here. Got
- 26:10Speaker 1: my wife at the house, boss, I do Why is
- 26:14Speaker 1: he watching her? Because he posted to that's his job. Okay,
- 26:18Speaker 1: But why is he trip here? Work chat? That's why? Ladies? Okay, ladies, ladies.
- 26:30Speaker 1: Hold yes, you all got some light fixtures coming to
- 26:36Speaker 1: the house. Your husband has to go home to let
- 26:39Speaker 1: the people in. He lets the people in in walks
- 26:44Speaker 1: an old classmate, that's a female. They standing there hug
- 26:49Speaker 1: you see it and then he tells you, oh, man,
- 26:53Speaker 1: she's an old friend from high school, and your reaction is, Okay,
- 26:59Speaker 1: that's exactly I trust my husband. Yes, yes, yes, yes,
- 27:05Speaker 1: Oh damn, we're gonna do our research. We are gonna
- 27:10Speaker 1: do this saying about you trusting your husband. This is
- 27:15Speaker 1: about who this half for in this house, hugging my
- 27:19Speaker 1: husband in my house. But you're calling for real. I
- 27:24Speaker 1: don't ask my husband who is that, and if he
- 27:26Speaker 1: tells me who that is, I have no reason to
- 27:29Speaker 1: believe that he's lying about who she is. Cool. What
- 27:34Speaker 1: is y'all hugging fault? Because he just why? But you
- 27:39Speaker 1: make it seem like they're just standing there just hugging church.
- 27:43Speaker 1: I have text at my house all the time. I
- 27:45Speaker 1: ain't never hugged now one them all right, but they
- 27:49Speaker 1: didn't go to high school with you. Yeah, from your
- 27:53Speaker 1: so so so is your answer. Let's get to Mimi
- 27:57Speaker 1: and bally Duds to Mimi says my husband. Female co
- 28:00Speaker 1: worker called him and when he answered, she said, hey, boo,
- 28:04Speaker 1: my husband says, is what she calls everyone. I told
- 28:06Speaker 1: him I want to meet her, and he says it's
- 28:08Speaker 1: not happening now he won't take any calls around me.
- 28:12Speaker 1: Why I love this. He can take a no call
- 28:19Speaker 1: because he boo nothing to take no call, Hey boo,
- 28:24Speaker 1: hey this woman history more question didn't work out quite right?
- 28:31Speaker 1: I love I thought it was going no trick me?
- 28:37Speaker 1: All right, thank you, CLO. Happy International Women's Day coming up.
- 28:42Speaker 1: It will be a tribute to the ladies right after this.
- 28:45Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The events
- 28:51Speaker 1: that initiated International Women's Day happened on March eighth, nineteen
- 28:56Speaker 1: o eight, when fifteen thousand women marched through the streets
- 29:00Speaker 1: of Manhattan demanding the right to vote and for their
- 29:03Speaker 1: rights as working women. The women ask for shorter work hours,
- 29:07Speaker 1: better pay, and the right to join a union. There
- 29:10Speaker 1: is no mention, however, of the countless enslaved African American
- 29:14Speaker 1: women who labored without pay in New York and across
- 29:18Speaker 1: the country. But we celebrate and pay homage to the
- 29:22Speaker 1: powerful black women that are making strides in science, technology, engineering,
- 29:26Speaker 1: and math. We celebrate our first black female Vice President
- 29:30Speaker 1: of the United States. We celebrate our first black former
- 29:34Speaker 1: First Lady, Michelle Obama. We celebrate the first black female
- 29:38Speaker 1: Supreme Court Justice Katangi Brown Jackson, Representative Maxine Waters, and
- 29:44Speaker 1: in the Southwest we celebrate Representative Sheila Jackson Lee. There
- 29:49Speaker 1: are countless and countless numbers of black women in the
- 29:52Speaker 1: motion picture industry as creatives, producers, and writers, and in
- 29:56Speaker 1: radio broadcasting. We salute the black women in this industry
- 29:59Speaker 1: as well. That paved the way for Carlin and I
- 30:02Speaker 1: to be able to do what we do daily and
- 30:05Speaker 1: what we love to do. So thank you. Happy Women's Day,
- 30:09Speaker 1: I mean this day. Yeah, all the women kings out there, absolutely,
- 30:17Speaker 1: I think too. You know, we could talk about this morning.
- 30:20Speaker 1: I want to throw this question to the fellas what
- 30:23Speaker 1: woman in your life inspired you the most? You know,
- 30:28Speaker 1: we can throw that out there. Steve m I think
- 30:31Speaker 1: I think we all know. Your mama, Yeah, your mama.
- 30:35Speaker 1: It loves Vera. Harvey taught me faith. M M. She
- 30:40Speaker 1: just wanted me to be understand the power of prayer
- 30:45Speaker 1: and and the what fine important faith, the role of
- 30:50Speaker 1: faith could play in your life. She said, boy, you
- 30:53Speaker 1: may not see it now, but you're gonna need it.
- 30:57Speaker 1: And the more you understand that, the more comfortable your
- 31:00Speaker 1: life gonna be. And she's telling to me all the time,
- 31:03Speaker 1: He's I don't know. There has never been a lesson
- 31:07Speaker 1: that has had a played a bigger role in my
- 31:09Speaker 1: life then my mother's role of teaching me faith and
- 31:13Speaker 1: prayer and just the story of Jesus Amen, I just
- 31:18Speaker 1: just the whole story. I ain't memorize everything. I didn't
- 31:22Speaker 1: do everything right, I sho ain't. Boy. I'm gonna tell
- 31:25Speaker 1: you something that was the most valuable that I've learned.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Nothing more valuable than that. That's so interesting because my
- 31:35Speaker 1: story is similar as far as the lesson my mom
- 31:38Speaker 1: taught me. Of course, you know us both being female.
- 31:41Speaker 1: She taught me so many lessons. But the one lesson
- 31:44Speaker 1: that sticks with me forever and ever is when she
- 31:48Speaker 1: asked me where is your faith? Because I was going
- 31:52Speaker 1: through something. I think I was having Sheridan at the time,
- 31:54Speaker 1: and I was scared and I was just freaked out
- 31:56Speaker 1: and everything, and she looked at me and she said,
- 31:59Speaker 1: where is your faith? Then that's the moment that I
- 32:01Speaker 1: realized that you have to exercise faith. You just can't
- 32:05Speaker 1: talk about it. You gotta actually do it. When challenges
- 32:09Speaker 1: come along, you have to be in faith. You do,
- 32:13Speaker 1: and when you're in faith, it can work out for you.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Of course it always works out for you. But that
- 32:18Speaker 1: was a lesson she taught me as well. Where is
- 32:20Speaker 1: your faith? I'll never forget those words. I've taught it
- 32:23Speaker 1: to my daughter and my granddaughter. And where is your faith?
- 32:27Speaker 1: You gotta have that, You gotta have that, you gotta have.
- 32:30Speaker 1: My mama beat Jesus into me. I mean, just beat
- 32:33Speaker 1: it into me so I get I have it, I
- 32:36Speaker 1: have it. Yeah, I'm up lifting my mama on international women.
- 32:41Speaker 1: Beat beat Jesus. I get you. I know him for
- 32:47Speaker 1: myself now. I have had him beat into me. The
- 32:51Speaker 1: only thing I was missing was them thrown on my head.
- 32:56Speaker 1: I felt very much close to the story. But as
- 33:02Speaker 1: you got older, your mom forgot all the beatings. They
- 33:07Speaker 1: forgot it right. As soon as they get grandchildren, they forget.
- 33:11Speaker 1: They don't have the same stuff. Norm I didn't do that.
- 33:14Speaker 1: I didn't whoop you, mom, be the crap. Don't don't don't,
- 33:24Speaker 1: don't whoop Jordan, don't whoop Jordan. He all right, he
- 33:27Speaker 1: made a mistake. Don't whoop what I made a mistake?
- 33:31Speaker 1: Are you? Lady? You? If we met, and I think
- 33:39Speaker 1: for us in the black community, for us, it's our mother,
- 33:43Speaker 1: our grandmothers, all of these women in our lives that
- 33:46Speaker 1: help shape us to who we are today. You know,
- 33:49Speaker 1: your sisters, aunties, all of that. So you know, we
- 33:53Speaker 1: see women today, we hear women today. We're empowered by women.
- 33:58Speaker 1: You know. I think for me, surely, the challenges I'm
- 34:02Speaker 1: always um trying to balance having it all. Yeah, and
- 34:08Speaker 1: I think that's a lot of pressure. Yeah, a lot
- 34:10Speaker 1: of pressure that women put on themselves of husband, career, motherhood.
- 34:16Speaker 1: And you got to set boundaries and set time for yourself,
- 34:20Speaker 1: for yourself, Yeah, you absolutely do. There's nothing like mama, nothing,
- 34:26Speaker 1: nothing like that. There's nothing like mother, especially growing up. Man,
- 34:31Speaker 1: There's just nothing, nothing that competes against mama. Man. I
- 34:36Speaker 1: watched my mama make some sacrifices, man, getting her nursing
- 34:41Speaker 1: degree at twenty seven, going to school in the daytime,
- 34:44Speaker 1: going to work at night, I mean for four years
- 34:46Speaker 1: and I'm here, I am ten years old, got to
- 34:49Speaker 1: take my sister to school just so my mama can finish,
- 34:52Speaker 1: you know, the sacrifices she made, man, it's just unbelievable.
- 34:55Speaker 1: And that's what makes her my hero. Man. I've watched
- 34:57Speaker 1: her and especially single mom, I've washed you know, yes, yes,
- 35:03Speaker 1: that's it. That's what I'm just saying. That's it, balancing
- 35:06Speaker 1: all women doing it all all yea, And we celebrate
- 35:10Speaker 1: you on this International Women's Day. We absolutely do, and
- 35:14Speaker 1: thank you for all you've done. Coming up at twenty
- 35:17Speaker 1: minutes after the hour and continuing to celebrate women for
- 35:20Speaker 1: International Women's Day, Carla is going to highlight female legends
- 35:24Speaker 1: in music. This is gonna be good. Right after this,
- 35:29Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. As we've
- 35:32Speaker 1: been mentioning all morning, it is International Women's Day, and
- 35:35Speaker 1: we continue to salute women by highlighting our legendary female artist. Carla,
- 35:41Speaker 1: Let's go what you got for us, girl? Okay, So
- 35:44Speaker 1: in this segment, you all, we're going to celebrate women
- 35:48Speaker 1: who make music and culture. And you know, I see her,
- 35:52Speaker 1: hear her. These lists of women artists. You have a
- 35:55Speaker 1: connection between beauty, confidence, empowerment. So you from my list.
- 36:01Speaker 1: I'm ready all right number one on my list, and
- 36:04Speaker 1: I shouldn't number them because you know, we already fell
- 36:07Speaker 1: out about the Rolling Stones two hundred lists of singers,
- 36:12Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna throw them out there. The point
- 36:15Speaker 1: of soul, right right, A queen of soul, Aretha Franklin
- 36:18Speaker 1: on my list, Beyonce, Whitney Houston, Shy Day, Anita Baker.
- 36:27Speaker 1: This is not in a certain order. H Jill Scott,
- 36:32Speaker 1: Gladdest Night, Stephanie Mills, Tony Braxton, Mariah Carey, Focus, Erica
- 36:44Speaker 1: by d Yeah, Yes, Patty LaBelle, Yeah, I'm sorry. Shaka
- 36:52Speaker 1: Khan and let me say this about Shaka Khan. The
- 36:56Speaker 1: other day she did apologize for Shady the other singers
- 37:02Speaker 1: like Mary Adelle and Mariah. She also said that music
- 37:06Speaker 1: is not a competition. I love me some Shaka Khan.
- 37:09Speaker 1: So Shaka Khan. Also on my list, Tina Turner, turn Up,
- 37:15Speaker 1: don't don't let nobody come on, Diana Ross the Ultimate,
- 37:22Speaker 1: The Ultimate, Yes, Alicia playing the piano keys. Yes, yes,
- 37:31Speaker 1: you better know that. Mary J. Blige, Mary Hutson, Yes, Yes,
- 37:41Speaker 1: singing behind girl Brandy because I'm gonna take it to
- 37:47Speaker 1: the nineties now, brand I'm waiting on somebody that ain't
- 37:52Speaker 1: new artists. Her. This woman right here is a bad girl.
- 37:57Speaker 1: Before you go to new artists, let me add one.
- 38:00Speaker 1: Come on. It's a fantation, fantation. Oh you okay? On
- 38:09Speaker 1: that list? That girl her cold though, yes, cold she
- 38:13Speaker 1: is Cole. I just got hip to her. Yeah, you
- 38:16Speaker 1: just got hip to her. Got here, Yeah, I just
- 38:19Speaker 1: got hip to her. Phyllis Himan. Oh, yes girl, it's
- 38:23Speaker 1: a good great girl. Yes, yes, Phyllis him. I love music, Phillip.
- 38:30Speaker 1: Who you want to ask? Steve? You look like you both? Yes,
- 38:39Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Thank you, Carla. That was great, all right,
- 38:42Speaker 1: coming up thirty four minutes after the hour. That's right, low, Yes, yes,
- 38:49Speaker 1: your Odell is here on International Women's Day. We'll talk
- 38:55Speaker 1: to her right after you're listening, Steve Harvey. Morning, all right,
- 39:02Speaker 1: So sister Odella is here, ladies and gentlemen, of course
- 39:06Speaker 1: she is. It is day who love, and you know
- 39:10Speaker 1: why we ain't got no time to waste keep the
- 39:13Speaker 1: music going. I'm just here right now when you ain't
- 39:15Speaker 1: got time to saying. This an International Women's Day, and
- 39:18Speaker 1: I came on to uplift and give honor and glory
- 39:21Speaker 1: the women's Yes, ma'am and Carle. It beautiful list you
- 39:26Speaker 1: put together. The sweetie is good to do that, you
- 39:29Speaker 1: know and everything. But I want to come home. I
- 39:32Speaker 1: know why you bought me in and I ain't gonna
- 39:34Speaker 1: let you down. I'm here for the gospel singers. Come on,
- 39:40Speaker 1: you did the secular walls and I lost them all,
- 39:43Speaker 1: you know, because I you know, I listened to me
- 39:46Speaker 1: some you know secular music. Oh you do. I didn't
- 39:50Speaker 1: know that you listen for me, girl, girl, Me and
- 39:54Speaker 1: me and me and Ella fish Gerald went to school.
- 40:00Speaker 1: She's on the list to Ella used to sing in
- 40:05Speaker 1: the church choir with me, the little choir called Jorlander.
- 40:09Speaker 1: We were kids. But she said, wasn't no money in that.
- 40:11Speaker 1: She was right though, she right went out there. I
- 40:17Speaker 1: knew billy holiday, you know, but I wanted to just
- 40:21Speaker 1: let's just go down the list of blacks women that
- 40:25Speaker 1: sing the church music. Lord, have mercy. Let's start with
- 40:30Speaker 1: the greatest one. Broaly on them. But hey, you're joshing yes, Lord, Lord,
- 40:35Speaker 1: Lord Lord, your lando singing at him, open my heart.
- 40:42Speaker 1: I had to stop Steve a couple of times. He
- 40:45Speaker 1: looked upside her head at the b et celebration of gospel.
- 40:48Speaker 1: I said, you ain't got enough God in you. You
- 40:51Speaker 1: need to go. He's a beautiful lady, though, yes, what
- 40:56Speaker 1: is that girl that can sing? Kim Barrell? And once
- 41:02Speaker 1: the girl is married to the little fat boy, mister Brown,
- 41:07Speaker 1: tame man, I'm gon kids. Oh no, let me get
- 41:19Speaker 1: on down, Come on now, now we got the bed
- 41:21Speaker 1: because of Shirley season, all right, pastor Shirley season. I
- 41:28Speaker 1: knew her grandmama or really what was her name? Who
- 41:32Speaker 1: was dressing her? Last day dressing system? Thank it only
- 41:49Speaker 1: dressing everyone's I knew everyone's or then ah, that was
- 41:54Speaker 1: another singer, y'all didn't know how Berta Clementine. She was
- 41:59Speaker 1: married to the lead single or the Mighty Clouds of Joy. Okay.
- 42:06Speaker 1: She had a women's church group called Thunderstone. Oh mighty
- 42:12Speaker 1: close the Thunderstone. When they came in there, they brung it.
- 42:18Speaker 1: The Thunderstone, they brung it and it was just a
- 42:22Speaker 1: lot of them. You know, it's a lot of good
- 42:24Speaker 1: ones that singing. Now you know Mary Mary girls is good?
- 42:31Speaker 1: What is the one U c c CC wine, Yes, family, Yes,
- 42:42Speaker 1: let's see. Oh she got on your list. Boy, it
- 42:46Speaker 1: ain't you know the ones that's really singing, y'all ain't
- 42:51Speaker 1: gonna know. Brunner dead pics girl, that girl because sang,
- 42:57Speaker 1: she sang that only revival. She traveled the country, did
- 43:00Speaker 1: dotted people's time dot and what is my dead Lady?
- 43:06Speaker 1: That passed recently, was on Steve Show. Oh I put
- 43:12Speaker 1: this name, yeah, the past one of the yes, uh
- 43:17Speaker 1: huh oh. I ain't no sisters like the clocks. That's right,
- 43:23Speaker 1: every last one of them. Help us because you bought
- 43:27Speaker 1: the blows up day, but you bought the sunshine days.
- 43:30Speaker 1: A bombing Gilliam everything, a bombing Guineas. Oh, that's amazing.
- 43:39Speaker 1: There's so many people I didn't have time to name,
- 43:41Speaker 1: all over the Happy Mother's, Mother's Women's Week, the women's
- 43:50Speaker 1: frank phone call from the nephew sister Odell. Right after
- 43:54Speaker 1: this you're listening Steve Morning Show. Coming up at about
- 44:02Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, it's my strawberry letter for
- 44:05Speaker 1: today and the subject is is this my house or hers? Okay,
- 44:09Speaker 1: we'll get into that, find out what that's all about
- 44:12Speaker 1: coming up, but right now it is time for the
- 44:14Speaker 1: nephew and today's frank phone called Nephew, Nephew, nephew. It
- 44:19Speaker 1: is International Women's Day. What it is? And I does
- 44:22Speaker 1: I just cannot let you down on International Women's Day.
- 44:26Speaker 1: I cannot do that, Carlos. Right, we have to. We
- 44:30Speaker 1: have to show love and affection for these beautiful ladies
- 44:34Speaker 1: in the world. We have to so so the prank
- 44:36Speaker 1: today is I love your wife more than you do?
- 44:42Speaker 1: What girl? What you I love your wife more than
- 44:52Speaker 1: you do? Oh God, you gotta say it. Look at me, Stay,
- 44:58Speaker 1: I saw you. Don't let him do this today? But
- 45:01Speaker 1: what day have you been able to stop? He did
- 45:06Speaker 1: it on Father's Day? Mother, He's resurrection from Sunday? Don
- 45:20Speaker 1: he just a food through all baby holiday? Croser having
- 45:27Speaker 1: all the days? A candle all by hi, It don't matter.
- 45:32Speaker 1: What's the name of the king, Tommy what? I love
- 45:35Speaker 1: your wife more than you do? Why did you pick
- 45:39Speaker 1: that for today? Tommy? Yeah, that's that's appropriate for today.
- 45:46Speaker 1: You don't see how this fit? This ignorance, This don't
- 45:49Speaker 1: fit to y'all. I don't understand, all right, you know what?
- 45:55Speaker 1: You know what? I try to do something nice for
- 45:58Speaker 1: y'all and we do appreciate you. Is that what you're
- 46:01Speaker 1: about to tell? Off? Reaching my archive and get y'all
- 46:03Speaker 1: something nice that's gonna fit your little day and none.
- 46:06Speaker 1: That's how y'all like with He putting lel on in front,
- 46:09Speaker 1: Tier said the play it all right, cat dog, let's go.
- 46:16Speaker 1: I love your wife more than you do. Come on, man, Hello, Hey,
- 46:21Speaker 1: I'm trying to I'm trying to reach track this track.
- 46:23Speaker 1: Who is this? Hey, Tree? How you're doing? Man? This
- 46:25Speaker 1: is Milton. I work with your wife, Teresa Milton. Yeah. Yeah,
- 46:30Speaker 1: you probably heard of me before. I've been I've been
- 46:32Speaker 1: at the job probably about five years now, Chase, she
- 46:35Speaker 1: ever mentioned me? No, I ain't, No, Milton. What's going on?
- 46:38Speaker 1: Everything cool? Yeah? Yeah, everything's good. Everything is good. Hey, listen, Um,
- 46:43Speaker 1: I wanted to have a conversation with you. Man. I
- 46:47Speaker 1: don't really know how to spring this on you or whatever,
- 46:50Speaker 1: but um, like I said, I've been working at the
- 46:53Speaker 1: spot for five years and been on Teresa probably like
- 46:56Speaker 1: around three. And I guess what I really want to
- 47:00Speaker 1: say is that I didn't I didn't gain some feelings
- 47:03Speaker 1: for Teresa and wold on, Manlo hold on you calling
- 47:11Speaker 1: me and you're telling me right now you have feelings
- 47:14Speaker 1: from my wife who you work with, and you Teresa,
- 47:18Speaker 1: because that isn't my wife. You have feelings from my wife?
- 47:20Speaker 1: Is that correct? Yeah? You know it took me a
- 47:23Speaker 1: while to come forward and say this, but I you know,
- 47:25Speaker 1: I'm a man enough now that I feel like men
- 47:28Speaker 1: you need to talk about it. Bro, have you loved
- 47:30Speaker 1: your mind. No, no, I haven't. No, listen, I'm just
- 47:35Speaker 1: letting you know. Today is the day and I decided
- 47:37Speaker 1: I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders no more.
- 47:40Speaker 1: I'm getting it off for me, all right. And at
- 47:42Speaker 1: the end of the day, I love your wife more
- 47:44Speaker 1: than you do. What I I love your wife more
- 47:51Speaker 1: than you do. Bro. So you how long you've been
- 47:55Speaker 1: loving my wife? You tell me how long you've been loving?
- 47:57Speaker 1: How long? How long you feel that you have been
- 47:59Speaker 1: in love up with my wife? I mean I'm looking
- 48:02Speaker 1: at I know, I know, I know at least two.
- 48:04Speaker 1: Does my wife even know this? I mean, I'm I'm
- 48:09Speaker 1: sure she's awherever to a certain extent, to a certain extent.
- 48:12Speaker 1: What's what house? How certain of the extent are we talking?
- 48:15Speaker 1: I mean, you know when we go to lunch together
- 48:16Speaker 1: and she you know, I mean, I'm sure she know y'all,
- 48:19Speaker 1: y'all we're going to lunch together. How long y'all been
- 48:21Speaker 1: going on lunch together? Bro, We've been going to lunch
- 48:23Speaker 1: together at least at least two and am kids. I mean,
- 48:25Speaker 1: we're going to lunchgeal almost every day. We might miss
- 48:28Speaker 1: the day if she go with the girls. I go
- 48:30Speaker 1: with the fellas so big, but for the most part,
- 48:32Speaker 1: me and huh me and I'm pretty much at lunch toga. Yeah,
- 48:35Speaker 1: I need that sweat eyes. Bro, stay the hell away
- 48:40Speaker 1: from my wife. Bro. I needed to back up. Ain't
- 48:43Speaker 1: no more, no no, no, no no, Bro, because you
- 48:45Speaker 1: get talked enough that you'n't talked enough. Ain't no more
- 48:48Speaker 1: in love, ain't no more states. You need to stay
- 48:50Speaker 1: the back, period, stay the back, man. I don't want
- 48:54Speaker 1: to hear none of that, nothing, nothing, nothing at all,
- 48:57Speaker 1: because soon come home. We don't live. Hey, bro, listen, listen.
- 49:01Speaker 1: I know all about you, Trey, everything about it, all right.
- 49:05Speaker 1: I already know how you treat her. Right. I'm hot, right,
- 49:09Speaker 1: I'm feeling like a strong sensation right now because I
- 49:12Speaker 1: really want to reach the phone and just break your
- 49:14Speaker 1: neck right now. That's what I really want to do.
- 49:16Speaker 1: They do, That's what I really want to do. And
- 49:18Speaker 1: what's my wife talking about business outside of my role, Phoe.
- 49:21Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to figure out. Hey. All I'm
- 49:23Speaker 1: saying is when we go to the lunch, she let
- 49:25Speaker 1: me know how she's feeling. She let me know what
- 49:27Speaker 1: she's going through. She let me know all that stops.
- 49:29Speaker 1: Start with that lunch. Bro. I don't want to hear
- 49:31Speaker 1: another damn thing about lunch. Bro, ain't no more lunch.
- 49:33Speaker 1: It's from here on out. Brom calling me talking about
- 49:36Speaker 1: people in long with my wife even take it work?
- 49:40Speaker 1: Is I'm Milton, I'm milted? Bro? What anam man? Man? Listen,
- 49:47Speaker 1: calm down with all that energy you got going on
- 49:50Speaker 1: like you're gonna do something I'm trying to do. You're
- 49:52Speaker 1: not talking down what you're not. You're not gonna do
- 49:56Speaker 1: nothing you are right now, But I'm my keys right
- 49:59Speaker 1: now something where you have right now? Bro? Right now?
- 50:02Speaker 1: So so how about how about when you got laid off,
- 50:04Speaker 1: when you was off for six months and she was
- 50:06Speaker 1: carrying on all the all the way and pay all
- 50:08Speaker 1: the field? You ain't you all right? Bet? Since you
- 50:13Speaker 1: know I since you know everything, I bet you know
- 50:16Speaker 1: I gotta go too. So all you need to know
- 50:18Speaker 1: is all you need to know is bro, get dumb,
- 50:20Speaker 1: bro get dumb, broke down. Bro. You know what we
- 50:28Speaker 1: talk about that he went my wife saying that he
- 50:30Speaker 1: will love is talking about luncheon. So tap the hell up.
- 50:34Speaker 1: While we are, you can thank me for the for
- 50:37Speaker 1: the suit that you got for Christmas. You can thank
- 50:39Speaker 1: me for that. I picked it out and I paid
- 50:42Speaker 1: for it. Okay, okay, cool, cool, cool, all right, cool,
- 50:46Speaker 1: let me go in the closet right now, right now,
- 50:50Speaker 1: all right. You're talking about the great sitter three peas,
- 50:52Speaker 1: that's what you talk about it. He's got the great
- 50:55Speaker 1: bulls right here with this bull anyway. I don't like
- 50:59Speaker 1: to I'm nine nine. You don't like to shop, you
- 51:02Speaker 1: don't want to suit three times nine. You don't like
- 51:04Speaker 1: you ain't told me at lunch when you don't want
- 51:06Speaker 1: to sue, dude. I swear to guy bro, I swear
- 51:09Speaker 1: to God. I need to talk to my wife. Man,
- 51:13Speaker 1: I need to talk to my wife. I need to
- 51:15Speaker 1: talk to my wife because I hey, man, listen, you
- 51:19Speaker 1: know what. I just couldn't hold this back. No more
- 51:22Speaker 1: me living behind in the shadows. And but I'm over
- 51:24Speaker 1: here kicking money out to Teresa when she needed why
- 51:28Speaker 1: you was laid off, I'm helping her out. I'm going
- 51:31Speaker 1: you know I'm doing I'm doing too much on money.
- 51:34Speaker 1: You so you was giving the money. You kicking the
- 51:37Speaker 1: money when I was laid off. You're kicking the money, dude,
- 51:40Speaker 1: somebody had to step up. Man to me and Teresa's tight,
- 51:43Speaker 1: so you know, I just try to step in and
- 51:44Speaker 1: help an hour. So you're giving my wife money? What
- 51:49Speaker 1: are you saying? Do you want to make you feel
- 51:51Speaker 1: better about the whole thing? You want to make you
- 51:52Speaker 1: feel better. You ain't need to make me feel better
- 51:54Speaker 1: about it. Man, I really feel you talk to my wife.
- 51:59Speaker 1: I gotta do is talk to my wife. Bro. That's
- 52:02Speaker 1: that's fine. But can I say something to make you
- 52:04Speaker 1: feel better? What I'm gonna say this till you Trey.
- 52:08Speaker 1: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 52:11Speaker 1: Your wife Teresa gotten me to prank phone call you?
- 52:17Speaker 1: Wait what hey? This is Tommy. Man. This nephew times
- 52:22Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You the Steve Harvey Show. Bro, Bro,
- 52:31Speaker 1: you gotta getting it, bro, Bro, don't do that. Bro.
- 52:38Speaker 1: You gotta stop that. Tommy, come on now, come on,
- 52:42Speaker 1: you gotta stop. My heart is racing. I'm sweating. Oh now, hey,
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- 52:54Speaker 1: Gotta be happy International Women's Day. Yeah us who yes,
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- 53:17Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today and the subject is is this
- 53:20Speaker 1: my house or hers? We'll get into that right after this.
- 53:23Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time for
- 53:29Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,
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- 53:59Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Is this my house or hers? Dear
- 54:03Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, My husband and I are twenty nine years
- 54:06Speaker 1: old and we got married a year ago. Our anniversary
- 54:09Speaker 1: is coming up. So his parents gifted us with a house.
- 54:14Speaker 1: My husband and I thought they were giving us a
- 54:16Speaker 1: down payment, but without telling us, they went and picked
- 54:20Speaker 1: out our house and bought it. My husband and I
- 54:23Speaker 1: were working with a realtor and looking for a ranch
- 54:26Speaker 1: style house with a big backyard. Our home search came
- 54:30Speaker 1: to a screeching halt when his parents popped up at
- 54:33Speaker 1: our house with balloons, champagne, and an iPad. They came
- 54:37Speaker 1: to show us a new house on the iPad and
- 54:40Speaker 1: we liked the house, but it wasn't our style. It's
- 54:44Speaker 1: a two story home with the primary suite on the
- 54:46Speaker 1: main floor and all of the other bedrooms are upstairs.
- 54:50Speaker 1: We want to have a family, and that's not ideal
- 54:54Speaker 1: for our babies. We were not pleased, but we both
- 54:57Speaker 1: had to act grateful. His mother all the credit for
- 55:01Speaker 1: picking out my house, so I pretended to be excited,
- 55:05Speaker 1: but my husband was squeezing my hand under the table
- 55:08Speaker 1: because he knew I was about to explode the idea.
- 55:12Speaker 1: The deal is done and our mortgage is less than
- 55:15Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a month, so we got past the
- 55:18Speaker 1: initial irritation we were feeling. But now we have another
- 55:22Speaker 1: dilemma with his mama. She's hired her old white friend
- 55:25Speaker 1: as our interior designer and they're planning to paint my
- 55:28Speaker 1: kitchen a bright yellow because it's a cheerful color. I
- 55:33Speaker 1: called my husband immediately and told him he'd better come
- 55:36Speaker 1: and get his mama. He said, to let his mother
- 55:39Speaker 1: waste her money and we can change the paint color later.
- 55:42Speaker 1: All I kept asking him was is this her house
- 55:46Speaker 1: or mine? And he kept telling me to calm down,
- 55:49Speaker 1: It'll be all right. Well it's not all right. Should
- 55:52Speaker 1: I let him and his mama have this house? Are
- 55:56Speaker 1: you crazy? Seriously crazy? Right now? I know? I mean
- 56:05Speaker 1: you don't want the I mean, somebody's gonna be feeling
- 56:07Speaker 1: some kind of way. I get that, especially if you
- 56:10Speaker 1: say something. Do not say anything. You don't want his
- 56:14Speaker 1: very generous mom and dad to be feeling any kind
- 56:17Speaker 1: of way. You and your husband are missing the bigger
- 56:19Speaker 1: picture here, mostly you. I mean, this is, for the
- 56:23Speaker 1: most part, a free house. What do you have a
- 56:25Speaker 1: thousand dollars a month mortgage? Come on, now, this is
- 56:29Speaker 1: a blessing. What about blessing? Don't you get don't you understand?
- 56:34Speaker 1: You guys sound so ungrateful and it's mostly you mostly you.
- 56:40Speaker 1: Have you been watching the housing market lately? Do you
- 56:44Speaker 1: know how much houses cost? Are you aware how hard
- 56:47Speaker 1: it is to get a house? Do you have you
- 56:48Speaker 1: seen the interest rates? Junior? You just bought a house?
- 56:52Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I mean here it
- 56:56Speaker 1: is you guys, get a house, you have to pay
- 56:57Speaker 1: a thousand dollars a month mortgage that they practically gave
- 57:01Speaker 1: it to you, and you're complaining. Now should your mother
- 57:05Speaker 1: in law be trying to decorate the house to know?
- 57:08Speaker 1: She needs to stay out of that part of it
- 57:09Speaker 1: except come by for dinner and stuff when you invite her.
- 57:13Speaker 1: But I don't think you really understand what's happening here.
- 57:16Speaker 1: You basically have a mortgage free home. You just have
- 57:19Speaker 1: to pay a thousand dollars. They bought a house for you.
- 57:21Speaker 1: Come on, I wouldn't say anything to them, but thank you,
- 57:26Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. Don't be ungrateful. They
- 57:29Speaker 1: didn't have to do this for you. The house may
- 57:31Speaker 1: not be exactly what you want right now, but you
- 57:33Speaker 1: can live there for a few years, save your money,
- 57:35Speaker 1: sell it whatever, and get somebody that fit your family more.
- 57:39Speaker 1: That's what's smart and thankful people do. Don't be stupid here.
- 57:44Speaker 1: Don't be stupid. You better hope they don't hear this letter.
- 57:47Speaker 1: That's all I got. Steve. Well, they gonna hear the letter,
- 57:52Speaker 1: and yeah they are. Okay, here's a deal. This is.
- 57:56Speaker 1: You're twenty nine years old. You don't even know yet.
- 58:00Speaker 1: You have no idea what these people have actually done.
- 58:04Speaker 1: You have no idea what they saved you. You're on
- 58:07Speaker 1: the market looking for a house. You got to have
- 58:09Speaker 1: a down payment. They give you the house that you
- 58:13Speaker 1: would have had to put a down payment on, and
- 58:16Speaker 1: now the down payment. As hard as it is to
- 58:19Speaker 1: save lumpsms of money, you now get to keep your
- 58:23Speaker 1: lump sum of money. Now you mad because she didn't
- 58:26Speaker 1: got the old white lady paint your kitchen yellow. I
- 58:29Speaker 1: have so many damn yellow dishes sitting up in there
- 58:32Speaker 1: wouldn't be funny. I had yellow table. Cloffee be the
- 58:35Speaker 1: sunniest body, is happiest free room you've ever seen in
- 58:38Speaker 1: your life. I think at twenty nine, you're not looking
- 58:41Speaker 1: at what this actually is. You're staring a gift horse
- 58:46Speaker 1: dead in the mouth. You have been given number one.
- 58:52Speaker 1: You have an instant asset and the money you were
- 58:56Speaker 1: saving looking on Zillo for a house, I'll get to keep.
- 59:01Speaker 1: See you. You're mad about all the wrong things, little girl.
- 59:06Speaker 1: Damn I got y'all wanted the joy buying a house.
- 59:09Speaker 1: Somebody gave you a house. It's so much you can do.
- 59:14Speaker 1: The equity that's in a house that's already purchased, the
- 59:19Speaker 1: equity that's in the house, the asset that you have.
- 59:22Speaker 1: You have no idea what that's done for you. And
- 59:25Speaker 1: yet and still you mad because they removed the joy
- 59:29Speaker 1: of you looking for a house. You wanted a ranch
- 59:32Speaker 1: style house. They got you a two story house. It
- 59:35Speaker 1: ain't good for babies. You ain't even had no baby.
- 59:38Speaker 1: You ain't even you know what I mean babies? You
- 59:40Speaker 1: know what I mean. Family has been raised with steps.
- 59:43Speaker 1: It's not ideal for baby. What ain't gonna learn how
- 59:46Speaker 1: to go them downsteps? It's just you're just not looking
- 59:51Speaker 1: at this the right way. When I come back, we're
- 59:53Speaker 1: just gonna talk about real estate. I don't have nothing
- 59:57Speaker 1: in this letter for you that surely didn't cover you.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? You are looking at all
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: of the negative and have not taken one look at
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: the positive in this and you therefore hang on. We'll
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: come back with part two of your response to twenty
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry letter, subject is this my
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: house or hers? We'll get back into it right after this.
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve Let's recap today's
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Is this my house or hers? Well the question,
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: let me answer that question. It's your house. She gave
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: it to y'all. It's in y'all's name. She's just trying
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: to be helpful. Man. She thinks she's doing you a favor,
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: paying for a decorator, painting it for you, fixing the
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: house up. You know you got money, you could change
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: all that. Look your husband he rocking a hard place,
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: his mom and his daddy and done this for y'all,
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: and now his wife don't like it. He try and
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: just get you be all right, and it is gonna
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: be right. But you would you but you act like
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: a you know, y'allking, like a spoil brat here. You're
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: just acting like a brat. So let me explain something
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: to you. Y'all ain't but twenty nine your anniversary coming up.
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: Parents gifted us with a house. We can stop the
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: letter right there. Hallelujah, Thank you Jesus. The praise dance,
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: the parade I'm throwing for these people. I'm taking them
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: to dinner. They get a day's International Women's Day, to
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: be international mom and Daddy day. Right, my husband, and
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: I thought they were giving us a down payment. Pay minute,
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: hold up, so you ain't even had a down payment.
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: I ain't even see that. Y'all thought they was giving
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: you a down payment, but instead of down payment, they
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: gave y'all the house. They picked out the house and
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: bought it. Y'all was working with a real looking for
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: a ranch style house with a big backyard. Then it
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: all came to a heart when they popped up and
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: popped up the house with balloon, champagne and iPad. They
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: came to show y'all a new house on the iPad.
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: We liked the house, but it wasn't our style. My
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: first house wasn't my styleigue my first apartment wasn't my style.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: My first car wasn't my style. You got to start somewhere.
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: It was a two story. Everyone, we want to have
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: a family, and that's not IDEALFI our babies. What babies?
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: You ain't got no babies. We were not pleased, but
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: we both had to act grateful, Act grateful, Act grateful.
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: These young people today, man, and this is not all
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: young people. So let me just correct that because I
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: know some young people right now. You walk up and
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: get in the house you find to see a whole
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: bunch of gratitude. We are not pleased, but we are.
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: His mother took all the credit for picking out my house.
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: So I pretended to be excited. My husband squeezing your
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: hand on the table because he knew I was about
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: to explode. The deal is done. Our mortgage is less
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: than a thousand dollars a month. What kind of house
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: is it? What? They didn't put enough money down? Where
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: your mortgage is less than a thousand dollars a month? Girl,
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: So we got past the initial irritation we were feeling.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: But now we have another dilemma. She then had an
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: old white friend and they playing on painting my kitchen
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: bright yellow because it's a cheerful color. You can go
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: in there and say, hey, I can't paint it yellow.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: I really yellow doesn't do it for me. What other
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: choices do we have? You know you could do that.
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: I called my husband told him he better come get
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: his mama. Come get his mamma for what. See, now
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: you're making the man have to choose you fenn to
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: make your mama feel bad for doing y'all a favor.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: You was first looking for the down payment. These people
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: turn around, gave you a house, he said, let his money,
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: mama waste her money, and we could change the paint color. Lately,
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: all I kept asking, was this her house online? And
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: he kept telling me to calm down, It'll be all right.
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: Well should I let him and his mama had this house?
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: Are you for real? So now this marriage that's only
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: been a year, you're ready to walk away from him,
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: the house and the mama. Little girl, what's wrong with you?
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: If this all it takes to break up your marriage,
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't have gotten married. Because I got news
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: for you. It's way more coming than this hill. They
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: don't gave us a free house in him paint now
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: kitchen yellow, and didn't give us no damn payment. They're
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: gonna buy the damn house. And then sit up here, now,
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: this old white lady in here fitting to paint my
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: kitchen for free, and I'm sitting up in here she
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: hadn't picked it out, brag and talking about she hadn't
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: picked out my house. Gonna bring some damn balloons and
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: some champagne over here on the iPad. And now all
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: we'd had to call these realtives and tell them don't
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: call us no more because we messed around and got
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: this damn free house. And she's sitting up in here
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: taking all the credit for I don't won't know, damn
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: free house, won't know mutgage for no underne thousand dollars.
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: That's that's all it sounds like. And it's the stupidest
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard. Young lady, get a grip on yourself.
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: Here's what you can do when Shirley said it. Move
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: in the house when you get pregnant, sell the house
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: and go get what you want. And guess what, when
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: you sell the house, it will give you the money
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: to put the down payment on whatever house you want.
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: Of a house and you didn't have a down payment
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: or a house before, or hallelujah, keep the house, save
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: your money, get a down payment, and now you have
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: rental property. I don't understand how you're not looking at
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: this girl. You you I've never said I wish somebody
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: to this date would give me a house. Hey, jackpot,
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: just give me a house. You can give me a
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: house that need fixing up. I take that fix it
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: up and flipping. I wish somebody would give me a house.
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: Ain't no body never gave me no damn house. You
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: are one spoil non visionary person. But the most disturbing
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: part in this whole lot of is should I let
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: him and his mama had his house? Yeah, gonna buy
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: me a house and make me pay under a thousand
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: dollars a month. So na gonna pay my kitchen yellow,
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: I got to give me some paperwork. Wow, lady, all right,
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- 1:06:50Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Well, on
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: this Women's International International Women's Day, we might well celebration
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: some women in sports because they have made some contribution.
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: I mean, off the top, you can think about no
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: other than the Venus and Serena Williams. I mean they've
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: made They've changed the entire landscape of tennis for women,
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: and I'm just want to give them their their props. Also,
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: Simone Viles, let's just go ahead and just say best
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: gymnasts I've ever seen. I don't. I don't, I don't know.
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: I don't know one better than that one. I've never
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: she got her own, she had her own flip that
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: what that take? That's how cold she is. Yeahbbie Douglas,
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: Yes she did, Yabby Douglas. That's a nugle, that's true.
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: Here's another one in tennis, Naomi Osaka. Yeah, bringing attention
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: to issues, I mean, just being an activist and a
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: tennis player. I mean that. That's another one. Here's one
- 1:07:52Speaker 1: we have to give a shout out too. She's been
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: through a lot, and I'm telling you this is this
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: is when we want to celebrate Britney Griner. I'm telling you, yeah,
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: everything that she's been through, her strength, her surst bravely yes,
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, and and and then I have to
- 1:08:10Speaker 1: look at this, don Stately. She is the head coach
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: of South Carolina. Yes, the highest paid coach in women's
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: NCAA basketball. Right now, I just I just wait on y'all. Stately,
- 1:08:26Speaker 1: wait a minute. Yes, Yeah, she's a bad girl right there. Yes,
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: another woman. I want to give a shout out to
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: Candice park girl. Yeah, tell I love Candice Parking, w
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: NBA player. Yes, candas parking. First woman to dunk in
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: an NCAA tournament, that's what Candice. Yes, yes, okay, we
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: can go to the track. We can please you. Anybody
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: heard Jackie joined the Curse and anybody anybody heard a
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: flow Joey, anybody heard this girl named Alison Felix, Alison
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: Felix her come on that. Yes, yes, yes, I'm just
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: telling you. Women have made dominant contributions in the sports world. Gibson, Yes,
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: opened the door for all of them. Lisa Leslie, Yes.
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: On International Women's Day, we just wanted to highlight all
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: these women who've made all these great contributions. Joe Patterson
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: who used to come up to the bus barn and
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: play tackle with the boys. All of us who were
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: scared of her. Shout out to Joe, Shout out to
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: Joe knocking boys. Our first wanted to make the boys say,
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: oh little fact, all right, junior, thank you, thank you,
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: thank you. At the time of the hour, black females
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: across the world are still reeling from Trevor Noah's powerful
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: emotional tribute to black women. Remember when you did that
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: back in December. Well, we'll let you hear it again.
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: It bears repeating right after this, you're listening to Day
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: Morning Show. No celebrity has publicly acknowledged and thanked black
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: women quite like the former Daily Show host Trevor Noah
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: did in his final emotional monologue. Trevor's last show was
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: back in December, you recall, but it's words still resonate today.
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: Take a listen special shout outs to black women. You know,
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: I've been I've often been credited with, you know, having
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: these grand ideas of people are like, oh, Trevor, you're
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: so smart and you so and I'm like, I'm like,
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: who do you think teaches me? You know, who do
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: you think has shaped me, nourished me, informed me? You
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: know from my mom my grand you know, my aunt
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: told these black women in my life. But then in
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: America as well. If you always tell people, if you
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: truly want to learn about America, talk to black women
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: because unlike everybody else, black women cannot afford to around
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: and find out. Black people understand how hard it is
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: when things go bad, especially in America, but any place
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: where black people exist, where it's Brazil, or it's South Africa,
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: wherever it is, when things go bad, black people know
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: that it gets worse for them, but black women in particular,
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: they know what is genuine. He'll always be shocked to
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: be like, why do black women turn out the way
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: they do in America? Why do they vote the way that? Yeah,
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: because they know what happens if things do not go
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: the way it should. They cannot afford to around and
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: find out. Yes, yeah, yes, I love that. Thank you, Trevor,
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: Noah for that. Noah, uh huh, thank you for that.
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: That kind of put it all into perspective, you know.
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: And Steve, you're a champion for black women, always have been.
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, you know, um for me,
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: I don't know anybody. There's not a single group that
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: is responsible and has been called on to do more
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: in in in this not not in this country, not
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: in this country, because black women have felt the brunt
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: of all of these policies, whether it was the Willie
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: Lynch letter, whether it was the three fifths of a
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: human being, whether it was women can't vote, whether it's
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: blacks can't vote, whether it's been voted, suppression was, this
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: has been the two drug laws that created the mass
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: incarceration of black men. Women. Black women have suffered the
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: brunt of what this country does. More so than anybody,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: they've been on the receiving end. Now, black men, we
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: all understand what this is. But when talking about the
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: women who have had the coat with this, because they
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: are oftentimes left holding the bag and they are responsible
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: for building up the backbone, the courage, and the fort
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: two of their men. And they've had to do it
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: when none when when when what nobody lifting them up?
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: And when they take their men from the welfare policy,
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: you can't get welfare if there's a man in the house.
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: So when a man does come around, if the social
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: worker finds that's out, you lose your benefits. So they
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: don't even do nothing to promote a family. You have
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: to be on your own to receive this. And you
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: think that's some great way of helping single women as
- 1:14:09Speaker 1: it's a great way to keep the destruction of the
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: family in place, which you know is far more important
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: than any financial support. But they know that, But that
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: policy who ends up suffering for that? Black women, women
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: of color. They've always done that man. And that's the
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: thing about it, man that makes them such a special
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: breed because they are just man them women man. They
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: next level strong, they next level strong period. That's all
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: I could say. Well, thank you, thank you for that, sir, Yes, sir.
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show on this National
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Right after this you're listening to the
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: movie The Woman King has been given official permission to
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: release in cinemas in mainland China. It is expected today
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: but on April fourteenth. The Woman King was directed by
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: a black woman, Gina Prince Bythewood, and stars Viola Davis
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: and a predominantly black female cast. The movie has grossed
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: ninety seven million dollars worldwide, with twenty nine million dollars
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: coming from international markets and sixty seven point three million
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: in North America. So we have to say on this
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: International Women's Day, congratulations going out to Gina Prince Bythewood
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: and the incomparable Viola Davis. That was absolutely my favorite
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: movie of last year, The Woman King. If you have
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: not seen it, please see it. I was upset that
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: she was not nominated Viola Davis for the movie. I
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: thought she would be, but it is. You gotta go
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: see it. If you have got she got everyone in,
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: you got all love you're good. Did you hear your uncle?
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: You got a bunch of you don't want me to say, Matt, Yeah, yeah,
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: right right. But weekend of nominations the Oscars this Sunday.
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. If Angela Bassett does not
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: get an Academy award, I'll go walk down there. We're movie,
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: we're movie. Whatever. It is. Her time to get this
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: Academy award. Get the walking got all right, We'll have
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: more show started eight the Seave Harvey Morning Show coming
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Right after this. You're
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and it's time
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: now to play around of would you rather? I want
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: to get started right now. It's International Women's Day. Let's
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: get to it. Okay, So now since his International Women's Day,
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: I will be asking the ladies the question. Okay, we're
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna flip the script a little bit of
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: it here. Okay, Okay, would you rather kip the has
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: salon for three months or skip the nail salon? Oh?
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: Definitely the nail salon. Yeah, gotta have the hair together.
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: Ain't nobody not getting their head three months, not sir, No, sir.
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: We're gonna have to put your hands and feet in
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: something though, if you're gonna yeah, right, we get some
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: gloves and some clothes to get your damn ha gotta
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: get it. Yes, all right, all right, here we go.
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: Would you have Would you rather have lunch with your ex?
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: Or mow your entire yard by yourself? Surely you go,
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: and then I'll go. Surely I'm having lunch with my
- 1:17:50Speaker 1: ass j Yeah, I'm not mowing the lan no tired yard. No,
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: I will mold the entire lawn edged. Uh, the shrubbery plates,
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: whole weeds, go to the backlash the house, putting new
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: roof on the garage. Or I have lunch of my ex. Yes,
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: it's just lunch. I don't care. I'm not doing all that,
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather be filthy rich with no friends?
- 1:18:30Speaker 1: All a hard worker with lots of friends. We're already
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: be uh we've seen that movie, right, we're already to
- 1:18:40Speaker 1: be rich but no friends. Ye take a page out
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: of Steve Harvey. Y. Yes, your husband, kids, friendless col right?
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather get qualities? Sleep every night?
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: I have great sex every night. B I'm gonna go
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: with b B get it. Yeah, Yeah, I'm going to sleep. Yeah.
- 1:19:16Speaker 1: I love his combat. That is the International Women's Day
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: version of would you rather thank you? Tommy? Yeah? All right,
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: we'll be back to close out the show and do
- 1:19:30Speaker 1: our last break right after this. You're listening to the
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this International Women's Day.
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. We appreciate you, We love you. Happy
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: International Women's Day to you, Carla, to you Monica, Happy
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: International Women's Day to YouTube Shirley Monica. We hold it
- 1:19:51Speaker 1: down every day, and we want to shout out all
- 1:19:54Speaker 1: the women listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Shows, some
- 1:19:58Speaker 1: soldiers and some strong women out there. We see you,
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: We salute you, we know you, we know what y'all
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: going through, and we love y'all. Y'all get up every day.
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: And what about the women haters? You want to say
- 1:20:10Speaker 1: anything to them? Not at all. That's that's where I
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: draw the line. Yeah, we see you hate that's all.
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: But it's all good. It was you know. My closing
- 1:20:27Speaker 1: remarks is really uh complimentary. I don't have the makeup
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: that women have. I could not do half the things
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: that they do. And if you think about it, fellas,
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: neither can you. Could you really take all that they
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: have to take? Could you really? Could you put up
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: with all they have to put up with? Think about
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: who we are as men? Just think about who we
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: really are. I'm just talking to fellas right now, and honest,
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: who are we are? And I'm including myself in this
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: group of all of who we are? Do you know
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: what a woman has to do to tolerate that? Now, fellas,
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: before you start comparing, well, they're tough too, Yes they are.
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: They are more than a notion. Please don't thank you
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: Finn to get one. And it's Finn to be happy
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: sailing you you fin to get your hands on something
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: right there. But then again, ain't it worth it? Ain't
- 1:21:28Speaker 1: it worth it? As difficult as they can be, ain't
- 1:21:33Speaker 1: it worth it? But now let's talk about why they
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: are difficult. Oftentimes, Oftentimes they are forced to be what
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: we've put them in a position to be. We don't
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: like women who are so independent, but we've left them
- 1:21:49Speaker 1: alone so many times they had no choice. We don't
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: want women to be snappy and would come quick, would
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: come back with quick comebacks. But we've talked to them crazy.
- 1:22:05Speaker 1: You know, you want a woman to be submissive, but
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: then you ain't giving them nothing to submit to a
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: lot of times, you know, a lot of women would
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: let you lead if you would show leadership qualities. I'm
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: not talking about all men, because there's a lot of
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: good men out here, and there's a lot of great
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: women out here. But we got to give them credit
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: where credit is due now, because if you had to
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: do everything that they do, if you had to tend
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: to all of the things that they take the time
- 1:22:36Speaker 1: to tend to, if you had to nurture everybody that
- 1:22:39Speaker 1: they nurtured, your parents, her parents, the kids, the grandkids,
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: what's happening up at the school, what's happening down at
- 1:22:46Speaker 1: the soccer game, pta meetings going here, delivering your kids,
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: taking your kids, all these extracreuits. If you had to
- 1:22:53Speaker 1: do all of that, how much of that would you
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: really get done? I know I couldn't. I could. Could
- 1:23:01Speaker 1: you have taken what they've taken throughout our history? Could
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: you watch your men and family get sold off? Could
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: you watch that low down slave master coming out and
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: half his way with her? Could you could you do
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: that and still be standing. I don't know, man, I
- 1:23:21Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think you could. They've had to
- 1:23:25Speaker 1: be stronger than strong. And now that we've said all that,
- 1:23:29Speaker 1: and I haven't even began to explain to you how
- 1:23:31Speaker 1: difficult it must be for them to try to climb
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: the corporate letter in a man's well, Oh my god,
- 1:23:36Speaker 1: because we saw mels the casting couches. Yeah, you're mad
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: at you're mad? Do we madden to me too? Movement?
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: Or we created to me too movement? We had to
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: bring it. They had to do something because there was
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: so many wine Steins out there just doing what they
- 1:23:53Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein's. They had to come up with something. Man,
- 1:23:58Speaker 1: half the stuff you're mad about lived. They had to
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: come up with something. They won't equal pay because they've
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: been underpaid. You want all that, now, let's talk about
- 1:24:06Speaker 1: just the real deal. They give us namesakes, they give
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: us bloodlines, they give us they populate the world. On
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: top of all that, I've said to you, they got
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: the nerves to have the ability the only ones who
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: can make a human life. That's a lot, man, that's
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: a lot. And I can honestly say I don't have
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: the wherewithal to do half of what they do. I'm
- 1:24:37Speaker 1: a hard worker, I'm a great provider, I'm an incredible protector.
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: But the list of stuff that they have to be
- 1:24:46Speaker 1: that makes us who we are, that allows us to
- 1:24:48Speaker 1: be who we are, The things that they have in
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: their makeup, that makes everybody's life better around them. Your
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: child's life is better because of her. Life is better
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: because of her. You look better because of her, You
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: dress better because of her, you eat better because of her.
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: You walk into a house that makes you feel better
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: because of her. Wow, it's a lot, man, It's a
- 1:25:15Speaker 1: lot that women do. I don't think this day is enough.
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: They to have a Women's Year because they do a lot, man,
- 1:25:23Speaker 1: they really really do. Like Mother's Day, ought to tell
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: you that Mother's Day are to give you a sign
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: of what it really is. Look at Mother's Day compared
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: to Father's Day. You know why it's that way because
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: it should be that way. Day day is so much
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: bigger because they do way more things than we do, fellas,
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: And that's just being honest about the whole thing. So
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: happy in the National Women's Day to all the women
- 1:25:48Speaker 1: out there, and keep on doing what you're doing. With
- 1:25:50Speaker 1: you're bad, so keep on being strong with you're strong self.
- 1:25:54Speaker 1: I love y'all. I appreciate y'all. I'm glad I ain't
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: one of y'all because y'all do it so much better
- 1:26:00Speaker 1: than we would. Thank you for being who you are.
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: Those are my clothing remarks to day. Hey, listen, y'all
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. All Right, cool,
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: y'all have a great day, Happy women for everybody. For all.
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