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FULL SHOW: SteveHarvey's Voicemail, Strawberry Letter: I'm Going With The Flow - 1.13.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all bad.
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  Speaker 3: At all at all.
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  Speaker 4: So don't given them.
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  Speaker 5: Black the million bus Bush, Yeah, listen to.
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  Speaker 4: Tother to.
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  Speaker 6: I don't Joy Yeah, Joy.
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  Speaker 3: You know you turn.
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  Speaker 7: Love you you you gotta turn.
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  Speaker 3: We got to turn the mouth turn you probably got
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  Speaker 3: to turn the mouth, turn.
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  Speaker 8: Out, turn ald the money up looking.
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  Speaker 9: Come come on you think that.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody you
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  Speaker 2: are listening to the voice, come on, dig me now,
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  Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay,
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  Speaker 2: here we go. You know what's important, What's what can
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  Speaker 2: be a huge part of your success is if you
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  Speaker 2: if you find a balance, if you find a balance
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  Speaker 2: in your life. That's that's been very important for me.
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  Speaker 2: And I've really never phrased it this way until now,
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  Speaker 2: but I was kind of thinking about it after my
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  Speaker 2: wife and I mean we set up one night recently. Man.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I often come on here and this is
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  Speaker 2: kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I
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  Speaker 2: try to remind people about that most important relationship between
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  Speaker 2: you and God. And that's that's the apex of it.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's the that's the top of the crime. You've
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  Speaker 2: got to form the relationship with God. If you don't,
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  Speaker 2: everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband
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  Speaker 2: without God. It's hard to be a good family man
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  Speaker 2: without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man,
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  Speaker 2: it's hard to be hard to get through this thing
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  Speaker 2: called life without God. So that's clear. But at the
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  Speaker 2: same time, you can't talk about God. Twenty four seven.
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  Speaker 2: You got to go to work. Come on, man, let's
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  Speaker 2: just be real. I ain't doing I ain't your pastor,
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  Speaker 2: I ain't at your church. But let's just be real
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  Speaker 2: about it. You know now, people tell you got to
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  Speaker 2: keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that.
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  Speaker 2: That's a true statement. Got to keep your mind stayed
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  Speaker 2: in that area. I don't I'm not here to tell
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  Speaker 2: you how to live. But you got to keep your
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  Speaker 2: mind stayed in that area of God, of doing the
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  Speaker 2: right thing, caring about people. That's what I took it as.
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  Speaker 2: Now I could be wrong. I apologize if I'm not
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  Speaker 2: saying it the way you've been taught. I can only
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  Speaker 2: do me now. But after that, you got to go
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  Speaker 2: to work. You got to have some fun. You got
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  Speaker 2: to take care of your business. And that's the balance
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  Speaker 2: you have to find. So it once you focus on
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  Speaker 2: showing up your relationship with God, you gotta balance this now. Now,
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  Speaker 2: you got to allocate some time I don't care who
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  Speaker 2: you are, for your family. If you're gonna have a family,
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  Speaker 2: you got to allocate some time for them. See, we
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  Speaker 2: can't just marry these women or make these kids and
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  Speaker 2: then neglect them. And fellas, especially if I'm talking to
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  Speaker 2: men out here and ladies you can listen to, but listen,
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  Speaker 2: if you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and
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  Speaker 2: you can't seem to get it together, Let's just go
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  Speaker 2: over a couple of things. The first two things, if
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  Speaker 2: you find yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it
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  Speaker 2: together and reach your goals and get the where you
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  Speaker 2: want to go. Let's just do a check how is
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  Speaker 2: your relationship with God? And then next how much time
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  Speaker 2: are you taking to allocate for your family? Now, your
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  Speaker 2: family don't always live in your house, but if you
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  Speaker 2: made them, they yours and the responsibility to them is
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  Speaker 2: never lessen because you don't stay that no more. Because
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  Speaker 2: you and the girl broke up, you and a woman
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  Speaker 2: don't speak that, hey man, that don't ever release you
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  Speaker 2: from the obligation feel me what I'm telling you this
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  Speaker 2: now because I'm not telling you something I'm wondering about.
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  Speaker 2: I've had to live through them years. So two things
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  Speaker 2: you can start looking at. If you not where you
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  Speaker 2: want to be, and you ain't, you ain't really solent.
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  Speaker 2: You can't figure out why you keep spending your wheels.
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  Speaker 2: Have you just done a random inventory?
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Have you just checked on your relationship with God? Have
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  Speaker 2: you checked on the time you spending dedicated towards your family,
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  Speaker 2: your children that you created? If them two things is
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  Speaker 2: out of sink, man, that I can tell you right now,
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  Speaker 2: you can go on and get to explaining yourself away
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  Speaker 2: just like that. Hey man, how come you ain't where
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  Speaker 2: you want to be?
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Comes man, I really ain't. But if you really ain't,
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  Speaker 2: then you really ain't. The third thing is you got
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  Speaker 2: to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got
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  Speaker 2: to handle your business. All of this, man, is the
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  Speaker 2: way it works, and the order the order is God first,
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  Speaker 2: family second. Then you got to handle all your business.
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  Speaker 2: But as me, and this is what we do. If
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  Speaker 2: I don't handle my business, I can't take care of
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  Speaker 2: my family. True statement. But if your business is in
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  Speaker 2: front of your family, you out of order. Now that's
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  Speaker 2: all we talking about now in it. See, that's all
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  Speaker 2: we really say in here now, fellas you know, you
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  Speaker 2: know I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know,
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  Speaker 2: let's have a real conversation about being better. You know,
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  Speaker 2: if you have created these children, you got to handle
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  Speaker 2: your business. You may not like the girl no more.
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  Speaker 2: You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might
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  Speaker 2: go your own way, But what that got to do
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  Speaker 2: with the child though, Man, you got to handle your business.
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  Speaker 2: They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation. Man,
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  Speaker 2: that God ain't letting you off the hook for that.
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  Speaker 2: Try it. Go ahead and try it and think you're
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  Speaker 2: gonna get off the hook with that, cause you're not. Man,
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  Speaker 2: You just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, Why you
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  Speaker 2: coming like that? Because I did it like that. I
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  Speaker 2: did it. Man. I was over here trying to reshape
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  Speaker 2: my life, get myself up on my feet when I
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  Speaker 2: was a homeless man and trying to come back. Man,
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  Speaker 2: I thought I had to take care of me first
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  Speaker 2: and then so I can neglect it care about them kids, man,
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  Speaker 2: I ain't hid at work. Man, God keep his knee
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  Speaker 2: on my neck for a long time for that one
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  Speaker 2: right there, till I finally learned the lesson hold up, man,
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  Speaker 2: put these phone calls in, Go spend some time, do something.
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  Speaker 2: And then it started turning around for me. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I can't be there all the time because I am
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  Speaker 2: out here on the grind, in the hustle. But at
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  Speaker 2: the same time, Man, some more phone calls, some more letters,
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  Speaker 2: some more hawhi, he hes something, then take care of
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  Speaker 2: your business.
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  Speaker 11: Man.
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  Speaker 2: You got to work hard to be successful. You know.
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  Speaker 2: I sometimes I don't put that in there. I just
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  Speaker 2: live it, and I expect my sons to emulate that.
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  Speaker 2: But I gotta talk to them all the time. How
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  Speaker 2: hard you got to work to be something. It's an
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  Speaker 2: all out of salt on it.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 2: If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You
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  Speaker 2: gotta wake up every day trying to get there, and
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  Speaker 2: you can't get tired of it because it never ends.
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  Speaker 2: You gonna always be this way. That's how life is
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  Speaker 2: designed and set up. You got to be a hard worker, man.
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  Speaker 2: If you always looking for some time to chill, and man,
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  Speaker 2: I wanna go do what I wanna do. You ain't
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  Speaker 2: gonna make it. In order to be successful, you have
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  Speaker 2: to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing,
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  Speaker 2: and work is the thing that most of us are
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  Speaker 2: uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill matter. I
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  Speaker 2: wish I could kick back with a cigar man all
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  Speaker 2: the time, but I can't, Man, I can't because I
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  Speaker 2: got to work. Then the last piece of the balance, pie,
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  Speaker 2: balance piece is you gotta take some time out to
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  Speaker 2: enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you wanna be,
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  Speaker 2: you ain't got a lot of time to enjoy yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even. It's a
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  Speaker 2: whole lot of God, a whole lot of family, a
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  Speaker 2: whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling.
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  Speaker 2: The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business,
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  Speaker 2: all your God. If the chilling is equal to any
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  Speaker 2: of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man,
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  Speaker 2: and go to work like a man. Do what you're
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  Speaker 2: supposed to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship,
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  Speaker 2: work on your God, work on your business. And then
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  Speaker 2: when you chill, you might not chill as law, but
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  Speaker 2: you show gonna chill bigger, You gonna ball bigger Baby.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, everybody, welcome again to the ride. This
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  Speaker 2: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Reminding you that God
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  Speaker 2: is in the redemption business, reminding you that no matter
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  Speaker 2: how far you falling, you ain't failed so far that
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  Speaker 2: God can't come get you. Reminding you that God is
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  Speaker 2: in the blessing business, reminding you that if you form
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  Speaker 2: a relationship with God, you have now formed the most
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  Speaker 2: important relationship in your entire existence. God is waiting on you.
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  Speaker 2: He loves you. You would love to hear from you today,
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  Speaker 2: so please talk to it. This is how we do
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  Speaker 2: it on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry calling
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  Speaker 2: for real Mississippi, Monica Junior and the Legend of Nephew
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  Speaker 2: Tommy Junior. What's on your mind today?
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  Speaker 12: Man?
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  Speaker 13: Wellwk man, you sound like you're in a good move.
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  Speaker 12: Man.
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  Speaker 13: You know your birthday coming up? Is you excited about
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  Speaker 13: this birthday? Is a party gonna be happening for you?
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  Speaker 13: Is you getting a part of this year?
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  Speaker 2: You've had a lot of them. You don't really, you know.
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  Speaker 2: All I want now is to get and I really
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  Speaker 2: just now. Just want to make it gifts. Man, My
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  Speaker 2: gift is waking up because you know what, man, what's crazy? Man,
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  Speaker 2: is you when you start getting up there, Man, you
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  Speaker 2: start hearing about so many people you know passing it yea,
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  Speaker 2: and ain't here no more. You've been going like, man,
• 11:36
  Speaker 2: what happened to them? And then you realize, Man, they
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  Speaker 2: been here for a while, and you know them because
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  Speaker 2: you went to school with them. I lost another partner
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  Speaker 2: the other day. We wasn't real close. I just knew
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  Speaker 2: him from college, but he was close to one of
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  Speaker 2: my other college buddies, and he was telling me, he said, Man,
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  Speaker 2: that's crazy. Man, I met this dude fifty one years ago.
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  Speaker 2: If you can say you met a guy fifty one
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  Speaker 2: years ago in college, don't worry about them gifts and parties.
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  Speaker 2: Be grateful, yeah, man, Just be grateful because you know
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking about it too, man, Like when I
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  Speaker 2: look on us, when I look at us as a
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  Speaker 2: morning show, man, that's some experience on this show. There's
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  Speaker 2: a lot of experience on this show. I mean, we've
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  Speaker 2: known each other long enough, man, We've we've been around
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  Speaker 2: each other with children's successes, graduations, acceptance in the college, marriages,
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  Speaker 2: kids being born graduated. Wait, Shirley, what'd you say, Oh, divorces?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, don't lay that out? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Me and you know who leading that group? Right there?
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  Speaker 2: Only is one what I'm gonna lead you. What you
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  Speaker 2: ain't finna do is I'll do me. You can ask
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  Speaker 2: that divorce. You ain't getting no divorce, don't you.
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  Speaker 14: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna get somebody new. Oh you finna get
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  Speaker 2: somebody new hanging with me?
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  Speaker 15: Yeah, you're not.
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  Speaker 9: Gonna be out done.
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  Speaker 1: No, what you're not gonna do?
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  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 10: Thank you?
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  Speaker 4: Guys.
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  Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we
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  Speaker 11: will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank
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  Speaker 11: back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now to run that prank back. What
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  Speaker 1: you got for its nep This.
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  Speaker 2: Right here is me and my jeez cat dog. Give
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  Speaker 2: you wood.
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  Speaker 10: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, I'm trying to reach his sister. How you doing.
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  Speaker 14: I'm giving you a call on behalf of Baptist Church.
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  Speaker 14: You are a member there, I am, I right, yes,
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  Speaker 14: I am. Okay, listen, I'm calling you. They some of
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  Speaker 14: the members have gotten together and had a meeting and
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  Speaker 14: wanted me to give you a call. It seems that
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  Speaker 14: a lot of them are complaining about sundaysert services that
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  Speaker 14: go on and wanted for me to give you a
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  Speaker 14: call on their behalf so that we can see if
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  Speaker 14: we can address the problem and talk to you diligently
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  Speaker 14: as possible and try to get the problem rectified.
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  Speaker 12: What's going on.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it seems like that a lot of members are complaining.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, And what is your name again?
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  Speaker 2: My name is ma'am. I'm not actually a member of
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  Speaker 2: the church.
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  Speaker 14: I've just been the one that's been asked to give
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  Speaker 14: you a call and try to talk on the members' behalf.
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  Speaker 14: So maybe we can get this problem rectified that you
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  Speaker 14: that they have as far as you are concerned, now, okay.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 15: Well, I'm just trying to see what.
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  Speaker 12: This is in regards to go ahead.
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  Speaker 14: Well, it seems like the members of the church are
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  Speaker 14: complaining about that you're doing too much shouting at church
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  Speaker 14: on Sunday, and it seems to be going on every Sunday.
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  Speaker 14: You're running up and down the aisle and you shouting
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  Speaker 14: all over the place, and it's me.
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  Speaker 10: I've been singled out about my shouting.
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  Speaker 2: Is that you're saying, wellever, didn's distracting ma'am.
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  Speaker 14: You're distracting everyone from getting the word and listening to
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  Speaker 14: the word and being involved in the service. And that's
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  Speaker 14: the purpose of the call is to see if we
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  Speaker 14: can get you to tone it down some.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, So the whole church is complaining about me shouting
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  Speaker 10: the way people run up and down the house every
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  Speaker 10: Sunday and almost turning cart wheels and flips, and they
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  Speaker 10: singling me I complained about me.
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  Speaker 2: Well, ma'am, I.
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  Speaker 14: Don't know how it is that you can see everybody
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  Speaker 14: else doing cort wheels when you're the ones that they
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  Speaker 14: say is the one that's doing them.
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  Speaker 10: How am I being singled out?
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  Speaker 2: Ma'am.
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  Speaker 14: All I'm saying is is that they saying that you're
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  Speaker 14: doing too much shouting and too much running at this church.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm just the message.
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  Speaker 10: Well, they can't tell me how to shout. They can't
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  Speaker 10: tell me what's going on in my life. What's gonna
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  Speaker 10: keep me from praising God? I mean, they could just
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  Speaker 10: they can go somewhere else with that, But they are
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  Speaker 10: not gonna tell me that I can't praise my God.
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  Speaker 15: They don't know how good.
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  Speaker 10: God has been to me.
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  Speaker 14: And you know what, I understand that I agree with
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  Speaker 14: you wholeheartedly. But it's becoming a distraction. I mean what
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  Speaker 14: they they was at the point last night talking about
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  Speaker 14: should we put some seat belts on the pews so
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  Speaker 14: so you can stay down?
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  Speaker 10: They will put some seat But I only gonna tell
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  Speaker 10: people they can't shout in church and praise God. What
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  Speaker 10: can we come to church?
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  Speaker 3: Fark?
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  Speaker 9: Will you do?
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  Speaker 10: Come to We need to be trying to prase God
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  Speaker 10: and get their own shout on and stop looking at
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  Speaker 10: me and worry about what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 14: We gonna need you to quit running up and down
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  Speaker 14: these aisles and doing what you now.
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  Speaker 10: I'm sorry, sir, you know I'm trying to stay calm.
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  Speaker 10: I'm trying my best. Who Jesus, she sir, that's not happening.
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  Speaker 10: You can't tell me I gotta stop shouting.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, man, But let me ask you. Are you running now?
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  Speaker 9: Aren't you just standing still?
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  Speaker 7: Talking?
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  Speaker 10: But I don't have to run right now?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, what I'm trying to get.
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  Speaker 10: You to, You know, like if I want to run
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  Speaker 10: up and down this street right now, I can run
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  Speaker 10: up and down the street and praise God. But they're
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  Speaker 10: not gonna tell me to stop shouting at church?
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  Speaker 9: Can we get you to be a little bit more
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  Speaker 9: reserved as what we see? Man?
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  Speaker 14: Let me let me go ahead and go further on
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  Speaker 14: what they do all the spirit move? Okay, well, let
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  Speaker 14: me move and tell you what they've told me.
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  Speaker 15: Now.
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  Speaker 14: If we can't get to the point where you can,
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  Speaker 14: you know, tone it down, then we may have to
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  Speaker 14: ask you to leave.
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  Speaker 10: You want to ask me ooje ooh Jesus O Jesus,
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  Speaker 10: you ask me why would they want me to leave
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  Speaker 10: a church. I've been at that church for fifteen years.
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  Speaker 10: I'm not leaving the church. I'm gonna run up and down.
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  Speaker 15: I'm not gonna run on the church.
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  Speaker 10: I may even turn you some slip where I am
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  Speaker 10: I I feel like it.
• 18:25
  Speaker 15: Not now listen, that's all.
• 18:28
  Speaker 10: I'm okay, go ahead, but.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be there.
• 18:30
  Speaker 14: I'm going to I am going to be there on Sunday, man,
• 18:34
  Speaker 14: and I have been the person that's been appointed to
• 18:36
  Speaker 14: make sure that you're not running up and down these
• 18:39
  Speaker 14: hous and shotting like this. You got to keep yourself
• 18:41
  Speaker 14: reserved so people can hear the word of God. You
• 18:44
  Speaker 14: are standing in people's word. That's what you're doing.
• 18:46
  Speaker 8: You in the whale.
• 18:47
  Speaker 10: If they come trying to send me down, I'm gonna
• 18:49
  Speaker 10: give them a word, and it ain't gonna be a God.
• 18:51
  Speaker 10: So let's you put that hands up on me here
• 18:53
  Speaker 10: now listen. I'm telling you that now you could say
• 18:56
  Speaker 10: I haven't been in that church fifteen years. If I
• 18:58
  Speaker 10: want to run, dance out, jump cray, whatever I want
• 19:02
  Speaker 10: to do, I'm gonna do it. It ain't nobody gonna
• 19:04
  Speaker 10: stop me.
• 19:04
  Speaker 9: You're gonna have to stop this.
• 19:06
  Speaker 14: This past Sunday was your last Sunday doing it, and
• 19:09
  Speaker 14: you're not finna do it this Sunday.
• 19:10
  Speaker 10: Well, like I said, just why, And I'm telling you
• 19:13
  Speaker 10: could tell the ernswers, the deacon boyd, the deaconness, the
• 19:16
  Speaker 10: minister's wives, or whoever else you want to tell. Let
• 19:19
  Speaker 10: them put their hands on me and see if I
• 19:20
  Speaker 10: don't sling on them, I'm gonna come right up out
• 19:22
  Speaker 10: the spirit and swing on me. I'm telling you that now,
• 19:24
  Speaker 10: because see, sir, you gonna really push me there out
• 19:26
  Speaker 10: of tried, out of try me. Let me ask you this,
• 19:29
  Speaker 10: what is trying to show that I'm saying, But you
• 19:32
  Speaker 10: make it you making me reright back to my own ways,
• 19:35
  Speaker 10: and you you really finna put me out, that's what
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: you're finna do.
• 19:38
  Speaker 14: Okay, well, let me ask you this, Where is the
• 19:40
  Speaker 14: God at right now in you? Where is the one
• 19:43
  Speaker 14: that the God.
• 19:44
  Speaker 11: Was in me?
• 19:45
  Speaker 10: When I was trying to be calmed with you at
• 19:47
  Speaker 10: first to tell you don't be calling me with this foolishness.
• 19:49
  Speaker 10: But now even have made the other side of me
• 19:51
  Speaker 10: ro he's up.
• 19:52
  Speaker 9: Well, you wouldn't raise it up in there. You wouldn't
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: raise it up in me too.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Guess what come.
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: Sunday, You're gonna set your in the pew and you
• 19:58
  Speaker 9: ain't gonna mook.
• 20:00
  Speaker 10: When you call yourself. Okay, all right, all right, we're
• 20:06
  Speaker 10: gonna see how well I'm not sitting at you. A
• 20:07
  Speaker 10: matter of fact, first, same time in the morning, I'm
• 20:10
  Speaker 10: going to past Oh yeah, well you gonna Deacon whoever
• 20:12
  Speaker 10: you are, whatever your name is, I'm gonna telling about it. God,
• 20:16
  Speaker 10: matter how long we got you, you need to lose.
• 20:18
  Speaker 14: I would be talking to Pastor myself and letting him
• 20:21
  Speaker 14: know about this situation.
• 20:22
  Speaker 7: You don't talk.
• 20:23
  Speaker 10: You don't we can come Pastor your pasty.
• 20:27
  Speaker 8: You don't talk the pastor.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: I talked to pastor at.
• 20:31
  Speaker 10: This church fifteen years. Like I said, I'm telling you,
• 20:34
  Speaker 10: Oh Jesus gee, oh you you feel oh.
• 20:37
  Speaker 14: Jesus not not not not now see just like this,
• 20:39
  Speaker 14: you'll see how you calling on him and you standing here.
• 20:42
  Speaker 10: Yeah, because I'm calling on him to keep me from
• 20:44
  Speaker 10: just really going to cuss you out right.
• 20:46
  Speaker 15: Now because you don't really hit my nerves.
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: I got one more thing I need to say to
• 20:49
  Speaker 8: you ladies.
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: What you know?
• 20:51
  Speaker 10: You better say it real quick because you're gonna talk
• 20:52
  Speaker 10: to this operator.
• 20:53
  Speaker 9: That's his nephew.
• 20:54
  Speaker 14: Time It from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just
• 20:58
  Speaker 14: gotta pray by your girl.
• 21:06
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna kick but.
• 21:13
  Speaker 9: On the Okay, Jesus, I got one more thing, baby.
• 21:16
  Speaker 14: Let me ask you something. What is the baddest I'm
• 21:18
  Speaker 14: talking about the baddest radio show in.
• 21:20
  Speaker 15: The land, harm and Morning.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: And I'll be back in an hour, you know I will, right,
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: all right?
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew.
• 21:29
  Speaker 11: Coming up next, it is asked the CELO or Chief
• 21:32
  Speaker 11: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this, you're.
• 21:35
  Speaker 12: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's Carla Farrell.
• 21:43
  Speaker 12: Kick that old mopping bucket aside? Are you ready for
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  Speaker 1: At the top of the hour.
• 22:14
  Speaker 11: In Trending headline and Entertainment news, still trending at the
• 22:18
  Speaker 11: Golden Globes, It's award season, of course, and the nominations
• 22:22
  Speaker 11: are out for the fifty seventh annual NAACP Awards, and
• 22:26
  Speaker 11: gospel singer Donnie McClerkin deny sexual assault allegations and says
• 22:31
  Speaker 11: he will be vindicated. We'll talk about these stories at
• 22:34
  Speaker 11: the top of the hour, but right now no time.
• 22:39
  Speaker 11: But we get up to ask the Colour Chief Love
• 22:43
  Speaker 11: Officer Steve Harvey. He said he's ready, so let's go.
• 22:47
  Speaker 11: This is from Ariana in Camden. Ariana writes, I walked
• 22:51
  Speaker 11: up on my husband and the woman across the hall
• 22:53
  Speaker 11: from us gossiping about a lady that just moved in.
• 22:56
  Speaker 11: He hasn't even talked to me about the lady. Should
• 22:59
  Speaker 11: I go meet her for myself and see why my
• 23:01
  Speaker 11: husband is so concerned about her?
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, next question, Shirley, Yeah, going over there and
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: meet her?
• 23:13
  Speaker 11: What? What?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: This don't make no sense? And you walk up on
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: your husband gossiping about a woman who just moved in
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: with the woman across the hall. You ain't even met
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: the woman across the hall. Why is he he ain't
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: even talked to you about Okay, go meet it in.
• 23:28
  Speaker 11: Okay, But you know the issue is her husband gossiping
• 23:33
  Speaker 11: with this woman.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Before? See what she trying to make it is like,
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: why is he so concerned about the woman that moved in?
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Should I just go meet her? Okay, go meet her?
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: See that that don't make no sense. What you can't
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: do is write us and then try to lie to
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: us about your real reason. Right right, your husband talking
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: with the woman across the hall. Have you met her yet?
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: And why they ain't shopping it up.
• 24:05
  Speaker 11: Right?
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: And ain't saying nothing to you about the woman down
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: the hall yet? Go down there and meet the woman
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: down the hall? Yes, because stay in the little messy
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: apartment complex.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: So yeah, all right?
• 24:19
  Speaker 11: Moving on to Porter in Gainesville, Porter writes, I met
• 24:22
  Speaker 11: the woman of my dreams and we're going on our
• 24:25
  Speaker 11: first day. I suggested pizza and live music. She said,
• 24:30
  Speaker 11: she'll pick the restaurant. What if I can't afford the
• 24:33
  Speaker 11: restaurant she chooses? Should I be honest about my finances
• 24:37
  Speaker 11: up front?
• 24:40
  Speaker 14: Oh?
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: I how to get this pizza man? The situation? All
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: when y'all get in the car to go to the
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: restaurant and her choice, you put in your gp of
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: the piece of place you wanted to go to.
• 25:00
  Speaker 14: Do it like that?
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Here's the problem we got. You claim that you have
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: met the woman of your dream. First of all, slow down, dog.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: You know how times I said that that's just bag
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: that slow down a little bit. We done. Probably I'm
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: probably about thirty woman situation, easy.
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: Easy.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Temples, thirty.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Lord. So first of all, back up a little bit. Secondly,
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: you got to quit meeting people you can't afford.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Level up though.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, well you can level up, but you got
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: to get up to where you level it. Because see
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: you can say you up, but we can't eat.
• 25:57
  Speaker 11: Over there though, Because that's his thing, that's his question.
• 26:01
  Speaker 11: Should I be honest about my finances up front? That's
• 26:05
  Speaker 11: really what he wants to know.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Bruh, Listen to me. Man, If you tell the woman
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: of your dreams that you can't feed her, eh, you
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: ain't feed Yeah, you ain't finna be the man of
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: her dread, she might be the woman of your dream.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: You know what, Here's what I heard somebody say online
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: it one day. He said, he said women are gold diggers.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: You know what this old dude said. He said, no, man,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: women ain't gold diggers. He said they just expensive. All
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: women are expensive.
• 26:43
  Speaker 7: I like him.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: You just got to find the one you can afford.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: You can't because broud.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you agree, Junior?
• 26:56
  Speaker 13: Ain again right now to this day, right to this
• 27:00
  Speaker 13: day is not expensive. I didn't see her in Macy's.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I know that.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Shop in macy been looking, I ain't.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I ain't seen her in there.
• 27:18
  Speaker 11: But steee, you used to be porter in Gainesville, so
• 27:21
  Speaker 11: I thought, you know, I used to be what porter?
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: The guy who wrote the letter porter? The yeah, the celot.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I couldn't get bag of popcorn at one point. Yeah,
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: I couldn't have got you nowhere?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so did you tell your days on? How did
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: you hand Yeah? How did you handle it?
• 27:42
  Speaker 11: No?
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I just went where I could afford.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: So you planned the date?
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we got in my car, I just started driving.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: I knew I was going to Dennis. I knew, I
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: knew exactly what it was. I knew I knew, I
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: knew what the dollar ninety nine was gonna do for me. Well,
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: see this is how you do it. First of all,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: you're planning the date. You know, you're playing the date.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Then you call and say, hey, I got car trouble.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: As soon as I get it fixed, I'm coming. Then
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: you wait till all the good restaurants is closed. Last
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: serve at ten thirty eleven o'clock. Now you're down the
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: waffle house.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I hop.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Dennis and that is now. I still want to take
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: you out. My cop broke down, so you let you
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: you out there, and you're sitting there. You're sitting in
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: your house until all restaurants stop serving, and then after
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: that you just down there. I hoped Dennis and waffle house,
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: but I'm still coming to get you, and then she
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: gonna appreciate the effort, and then you that's how you start.
• 28:59
  Speaker 11: Okay, all right, Well, I hope he learned something from that.
• 29:04
  Speaker 11: Moving on to Resa and de Soto, Resa writes, my
• 29:07
  Speaker 11: sister's husband died and I told my family that I'm
• 29:10
  Speaker 11: not going to the funeral. He and I were married
• 29:13
  Speaker 11: for six years, and he divorced me for my sister.
• 29:17
  Speaker 11: My family said I should let go and be there
• 29:19
  Speaker 11: for my sister.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: What do you think I should do?
• 29:22
  Speaker 11: Steve?
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: He did here.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Nobody know, man, anybody going there. You know what, y'all,
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: we gotta start being real. Everybody.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: You know that die does not move you.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Let's just come to terms with that. Every death ain't
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: on sident. You've all gotten that call. Man, you Steve,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: you sitting down. Yell man, Uncle Remus died. Yeah right,
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: bab man, y'all still having the barbecue Friday.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: You and he weren't that tight?
• 30:05
  Speaker 7: You and is the opposite?
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: Everybody die? You gotta hit does not require my morning right, Okay,
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: that's all. She don't have to your point.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, all right, thank you, Celo.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Coming up at the.
• 30:26
  Speaker 11: Top of the hour, we will have some entertainment news
• 30:28
  Speaker 11: for you right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:37
  Speaker 11: The eighty third annual Golden Globe Awards remain a topic
• 30:41
  Speaker 11: of discussion, with several highlights and moments still generating some
• 30:45
  Speaker 11: buzz lur. Harvey, your daughter, Steve, deserves special recognition as
• 30:50
  Speaker 11: one of the best dressed women at the Golden Globes.
• 30:54
  Speaker 11: She looked, yes, she did. Her black dress on the
• 30:58
  Speaker 11: red carpet was stunning.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: It was just stunning.
• 31:02
  Speaker 11: Yeah, Tianna Taylor, Oh my goodness. She slays on the
• 31:07
  Speaker 11: red carpet every time. She doesn't miss. She also deserves
• 31:13
  Speaker 11: major kudos for winning Best Supporting Actress for her role
• 31:17
  Speaker 11: in One Battle after Another. You saw that, write, Steve,
• 31:21
  Speaker 11: you saw that mos Yeah, and her Yeah, she's amazing.
• 31:30
  Speaker 11: Her speech concluded with a powerful message her acceptance speech
• 31:36
  Speaker 11: to her brown sisters and little brown girls watching. She says,
• 31:39
  Speaker 11: our softness is not a liability, Our depth is not
• 31:43
  Speaker 11: too much. Our light does not need permission to shine.
• 31:47
  Speaker 11: We belong in every room we walk into. Our voices matter,
• 31:51
  Speaker 11: and our dreams deserve face. What a great speech and
• 31:57
  Speaker 11: Jacques the Michael and amazing, Yes you did?
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: He really did?
• 32:03
  Speaker 12: I know?
• 32:04
  Speaker 14: Can you just.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Body is unbelievable.
• 32:09
  Speaker 11: The front was good and then she turned around and
• 32:12
  Speaker 11: I was like, oh my god with the little rhymestone ball.
• 32:17
  Speaker 16: Amazing dress she lost. Yeah, anybody around the tailbone, anything.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Around I get your attention.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Glori and Tiana are friez. I'm not allowed to
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: make no comments, so we all go here.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's all love.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I've better not saying nothing.
• 32:41
  Speaker 11: And other award show news. Ryan Coogler's Sinners starring Michael B.
• 32:47
  Speaker 11: Jordan has received eighteen nominations for the fifty seventh nua
• 32:52
  Speaker 11: A Serie Image Awards. Congratulations to Him Yeah, including Outstanding
• 32:57
  Speaker 11: Montion Picture and Director. Spike Lee's Highest to Lois was
• 33:02
  Speaker 11: also nominated. According to Yahoo dot com, Tianna Taylor and
• 33:06
  Speaker 11: Kendrick Lamar are among the nominees for Entertainer of the Year.
• 33:10
  Speaker 11: I may as well go on and give it to
• 33:11
  Speaker 11: Tianna now, because she's killing this year. She is, anyway,
• 33:17
  Speaker 11: alongside Cynthia Revo Doci and Michael B. Jordan's Outstanding Game
• 33:22
  Speaker 11: Show Celebrity Family Fuse.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: I've heard of that, the host on that show.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's his name?
• 33:34
  Speaker 7: You boy?
• 33:35
  Speaker 12: Yeah?
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, black guy?
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, from Cleveland Lips, you know the one.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:43
  Speaker 11: Anyway, well, Outstanding Game Show Host nominee are very own.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey graduation, Steve yet again. Congratulations. How do you feel?
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, they're gonna give it to Kiki Palms.
• 34:05
  Speaker 9: Did you see the envelope?
• 34:06
  Speaker 7: Bar ready?
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: No, I just understand how it was. It's only I
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: got enough of them. I'm fine.
• 34:13
  Speaker 11: The Image Awards will air on TV February twenty eighth
• 34:17
  Speaker 11: on B E T. Congratulations through all the nominees and finally,
• 34:21
  Speaker 11: in entertainment news, earlier this month, there was a lawsuit
• 34:24
  Speaker 11: filed accusing gospel singer Donnie McClerkin of sexual abuse and grooming.
• 34:29
  Speaker 11: Mcclerkin's former assistant, mister Carleto claims McClerkin.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: What mean.
• 34:37
  Speaker 9: You know they have to.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: Each other half? Let me brush your hair? No, that's
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: not what it means. No, no, no, see, let me
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: get your back for you give me that wash call?
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: What do that mean?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: You groomed them to get to the point that you're
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: talking about this situation? Uh huh that you just mentioned.
• 35:07
  Speaker 11: There's there's some stuff that takes place before you even
• 35:10
  Speaker 11: get there, and that's them.
• 35:13
  Speaker 16: Yeah, that butter them up, That's what that is. Yeah,
• 35:17
  Speaker 16: say that ding that ain't got nothing, dude, bro, Yeah
• 35:22
  Speaker 16: with the word yes, I.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: Ain't familiar with it. Is that like winding and done?
• 35:29
  Speaker 10: Or play?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: Sweet fall down.
• 35:37
  Speaker 11: Recently, Donny released a video to respond to the allegations
• 35:40
  Speaker 11: and said, in part quote, You've heard many accusations, lodged
• 35:45
  Speaker 11: and alleged. You have heard some very untrue things. But
• 35:48
  Speaker 11: I want to lend my voice and my face to this.
• 35:51
  Speaker 11: He went on to thank his supporters for their prayers,
• 35:53
  Speaker 11: adding thank God for truth with which you have not heard.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: You haven't heard, but you will.
• 36:00
  Speaker 11: So that was Donny mcclerkin's statement to that, I like
• 36:03
  Speaker 11: Donnie m'clerking man.
• 36:04
  Speaker 17: Oh yeah, yeah, and both can he sing yeah, yeah,
• 36:11
  Speaker 17: mm hmm, okay, yeah, you.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Know, maybe I'm a little Oh okay, ye'll go ahead
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: next door because maybe God just edited myself. That ain't
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: gonna work out.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Oh that's progress, look at you. Twenty twenty six. Yeah,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: he says he doesn't care. He says he doesn't care,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: but I think he cares a little.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: I don't care, but I don't I don't want to.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: You know, you can't say nothing no more. So this
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: is true. Yeah, true. You have to be careful with
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: what you say. Everybody, I think everybody does just saying
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: and I'll beep it out if I need to, let
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: me hear. You're not grooming me. That's all I'm saying.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: That's that's on your mind. Yeah, But a lot of
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of people who are washing it being groomed.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: That's the thing. You don't even know you're being groomed
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: when they're grooming.
• 37:08
  Speaker 11: Hey, coming up in twenty minutes, twenty minutes after the hour,
• 37:15
  Speaker 11: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 37:26
  Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside.
• 37:30
  Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in
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• 37:57
  Speaker 11: So how are those New Year's resolutions going for you
• 38:00
  Speaker 11: so far? Now that we've made it more than a
• 38:02
  Speaker 11: third of the way through January, some people who made one,
• 38:07
  Speaker 11: who made a resolution have already abandoned it. And a
• 38:10
  Speaker 11: new survey looks at the most common reasons people fall
• 38:14
  Speaker 11: and fail at their resolutions. Giving into temptation that's one reason. Yeah,
• 38:22
  Speaker 11: you agree with that one, Steve.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I have a reason why am I didn't work?
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: But go ahead and finish it?
• 38:28
  Speaker 11: Okay, all right, let me do this. And then you
• 38:30
  Speaker 11: tell me it's just too difficult. They say it's too hard.
• 38:34
  Speaker 11: It's just too hard, that's true, And people give up easily.
• 38:39
  Speaker 11: They say they don't see the results quickly enough, and
• 38:44
  Speaker 11: then they forget.
• 38:45
  Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I.
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: Can't do that.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: It's my resolution to stop.
• 38:49
  Speaker 11: It's too boring to them, or just they just finally
• 38:54
  Speaker 11: realize that they don't even want to do it.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: It just yeah, it's the same resolution every year, and
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: I don't never make it every I'm not gonna cuss.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna yeah, you never do that.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: And I discovered why the reason is, and.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Why don't you? Why can't you keep it?
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Because I don't mean it. I don't mean it.
• 39:22
  Speaker 9: Committed to it.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: Change.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: I'm not committed to not cussing. I'm more committed to
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: it than I am to undo it.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Have you cut back?
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Cut up? Step it up?
• 39:39
  Speaker 12: You haven't cut back at all, you know, because if
• 39:41
  Speaker 12: you could try to cut back on something, well.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: I've cut back in regard because I have less people
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: to cuss out. Oh oh so the quantity of yeah,
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: that's all is. I've just over the years gotten rid
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: of them slowly, so that's less like like right now,
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: it's only uh two, it's only two people that I
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: need to drag cross the concrete for I quit cussing.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Cool, I'm gonna I'm just gonna ask.
• 40:13
  Speaker 12: Now.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: I can't tell you who because I know soon. But
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: it's on site, though, it's on site when you see him,
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: so soon as I see him, ain't gonna be no, Steve,
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: what you're tramping for? Steve? What you're doing that? Don't
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: even when you when you hear about it.
• 40:33
  Speaker 11: Just no.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: Somewhere around my birthday I told y'all on site, Then
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: when I saw him, it popped off.
• 40:43
  Speaker 11: Do you think it's wise for you to still be
• 40:45
  Speaker 11: fighting and stuff at this big ape.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fight him. No, No, I don't have
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: to fight.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: What are you gonna You're not gonna fight him. Oh,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: he can't hook me? No way on site that usually
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: means a fight, you do know.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just gonna tell him something. He can't whoop.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: He can't, he can't whoop me. There's no way this
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: was a positive.
• 41:04
  Speaker 11: I know. I'm so confused right now, and coming up
• 41:09
  Speaker 11: at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna check
• 41:12
  Speaker 11: your voicemail Steve eight seven seven twenty nine.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: Steve is the number if you want to talk to Steve.
• 41:17
  Speaker 11: Right after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:26
  Speaker 11: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail. Eight seven
• 41:29
  Speaker 11: seven twenty nine Steve. You can call and leave a
• 41:31
  Speaker 11: message and you might just hear your call on the air.
• 41:34
  Speaker 11: Here we go, ready, Steve, This is ANGIEP. From Detroit
• 41:39
  Speaker 11: Christmas decorations comment for nephew Tommy.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Take a listen, Grand Rising King and Queen.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: This is ANGT from the DP.
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: That's right Detroit, residing in North Carolina at the moment.
• 41:55
  Speaker 15: However, I don't take.
• 41:56
  Speaker 10: My decorations down cause I get ready, Tommy, I think
• 42:00
  Speaker 10: that's the prior a progative.
• 42:02
  Speaker 15: Excuse me, y'all have a blessed day. God bless you.
• 42:06
  Speaker 15: I love you, and there's nothing you can do about it.
• 42:09
  Speaker 15: Take care QUMG my radio station.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, keep them up, leave them up to
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Easter of the end, if that's what you want to do.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: Leave him up there Valentine, Eastern Mother Day.
• 42:22
  Speaker 14: Fall day or more day weekend, leave them up till
• 42:25
  Speaker 14: the fourth of two.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Live light it up.
• 42:26
  Speaker 14: Then you know how you want to do. This is
• 42:28
  Speaker 14: your paragative. Bring it on back round to Christmas. I
• 42:31
  Speaker 14: don't I mean to to the balance Halloween.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: Keep him out. I could care less.
• 42:39
  Speaker 7: Your life eight eighteen.
• 42:41
  Speaker 14: Hundred dollars because you won't take these cripinal life there.
• 42:43
  Speaker 14: Leave them up then come here? How much eighteen hundred?
• 42:48
  Speaker 14: Because you watch eight these dollars on Christmas Life that
• 42:53
  Speaker 14: run across the chimney in July and all these.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Rain deals and stuff.
• 42:56
  Speaker 14: It's gonna make them my dog gonna say, but you're
• 42:58
  Speaker 14: gonna head leave them up there, it's your packet.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: The longest I left mine up was Valentine's to Day.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I give you, I give you that.
• 43:09
  Speaker 14: Yeah.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I took mine down last weekend too.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah. It was just such a noble opening to the call,
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: and then it just turned into nothing. Grand rises, Kings
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: and queens. This is Lady D from the P and.
• 43:25
  Speaker 11: The B.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: I cut you last time when I want to. That's
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: a big way. She couldn't do it. It's time for
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: me to use paracket peroxide proposed. Anyway.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: She didn't start off very nice, that's all I said.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: You know, it started off and then all of a
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: sudden it just turned in the next.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: She was mad at Tommy though.
• 43:52
  Speaker 11: All right, see, we have one more call for you.
• 43:55
  Speaker 11: This caller said, some of our show is about hypocrisy.
• 43:58
  Speaker 18: Take a listen, hey, listening to the show in the
• 44:01
  Speaker 18: mornings and a lot of times you talk about God
• 44:03
  Speaker 18: in the mornings and then an hour later it's complete
• 44:06
  Speaker 18: hypocrisy and you go against anything and everything you had
• 44:09
  Speaker 18: to say about God. So I'm not sure like what
• 44:12
  Speaker 18: you think you're accomplishing like that, But y'all need to
• 44:15
  Speaker 18: wake up over there, because it.
• 44:16
  Speaker 7: Don't make no sense.
• 44:17
  Speaker 18: Either don't talk about God or line your show up
• 44:20
  Speaker 18: with what you have to say about God.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Don't be hypocritians. First of all, young man, this is
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: not a religious program. What I say about God. I
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: stand on everything I ever say about the Lord. You understand.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: And then after that, but we tell you what this
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: show is. This show is inspirational, this show is motivational,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: This show is informative. But this show is entertainment. So see,
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: some of y'all people think that if you're a Christian
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: or you believe in God, you shouldn't be laughing and
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: nothing did take your sad some of where you're going.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: How hypocritical? Did that sound? Right?
• 45:00
  Speaker 10: You?
• 45:00
  Speaker 14: See? Man?
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: I don't really, I don't really. I don't let people
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: like that inside like hypocritic everything you said about God. Well,
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: then you need to cut into the PT. Seven hundred
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: club cor they talk about God, the whole show. That
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: ain't what we do though. That's not being hypocritical. That's
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: it's called life. You're young and if you keep living it,
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: you gonna find out.
• 45:22
  Speaker 14: Now.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: If you don't want to talk about nothing but God,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: there are shows that you can turn in too. But
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: I would like to inform you of something.
• 45:31
  Speaker 11: Now.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: If you cut on let's say Joel Oldstein's Sunday morning
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: service at Lakewoods, you would you will find out that
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: he goes bike riding, jogging, he go to games. If
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: you could watch Bishop Jakes, you could do that. If
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: you watch Jamal Brown, don't care who you watch. They
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: you still gotta go live your life. So no, man, dude,
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: ain't nobody being hypocritical. And if you don't like what
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: we're doing, man, then tune out, doog, just go somewhere.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: It's what are you talking about all day?
• 46:02
  Speaker 11: Is?
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Stay on this subject? Yeah? Stay on the subject. Hey,
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: where's you talking about?
• 46:08
  Speaker 7: Weather?
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: Phone?
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: You was talking about the lawd a minute ago? Well
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: within the rank though, amen? All right?
• 46:15
  Speaker 11: Coming up next to is the nephew in today's prank
• 46:17
  Speaker 11: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 46:21
  Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 46:28
  Speaker 11: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
• 46:31
  Speaker 11: and the subject is I'm going with the flow.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that and find out what that means,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: what it's all about.
• 46:38
  Speaker 11: And just a few because right now it's time for
• 46:41
  Speaker 11: the nephew and today's prank phone call.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got for us?
• 46:46
  Speaker 14: I got it, I got it, I got it. Just
• 46:48
  Speaker 14: right here is pecan tree. Pecan tree. My granddad used
• 46:52
  Speaker 14: to say, pe can it, pecan tree. Rindaddy, Let's go
• 46:56
  Speaker 14: cat doe. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh LC.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: Hey, let me let me.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: Hey.
• 47:04
  Speaker 14: My name is Marcus, my mom and them little next
• 47:07
  Speaker 14: door to you, Mr and missus my mom and daddy
• 47:11
  Speaker 14: little next door to you. And I was calling because
• 47:14
  Speaker 14: y'all got a pecan tree in y'all backyard, I mean
• 47:17
  Speaker 14: right on the fence line and to keep you know,
• 47:21
  Speaker 14: pecan and stuff keep.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Falling over into my mom and them yard.
• 47:24
  Speaker 14: So I talk to see if y'all can do something man,
• 47:27
  Speaker 14: where y'all can pick up I mean, my mom and
• 47:30
  Speaker 14: them have got a little older. You know, we've been
• 47:32
  Speaker 14: picking them up for a long time. But I need
• 47:34
  Speaker 14: somebody to, like, maybe you can cut the limbs back
• 47:37
  Speaker 14: that's hanging over so that they won't, you know, the
• 47:40
  Speaker 14: pecans won't be falling over into my mom and them yard,
• 47:43
  Speaker 14: cause you know, for them to be bending over like
• 47:45
  Speaker 14: that picking up them pecan and it's a lot of them. So,
• 47:48
  Speaker 14: you know, mister, I just wanted to holler at you
• 47:51
  Speaker 14: and see if you don't mind maybe cutting the limbs back,
• 47:53
  Speaker 14: because even when we turn the lawnmow on and stuff, man,
• 47:56
  Speaker 14: it just, you know, the pecans and stuff be coming
• 47:58
  Speaker 14: out of the lawnmow just shooting all over the place.
• 48:01
  Speaker 15: Well, first of all, mather con trills an old corn
• 48:06
  Speaker 15: tree and it's fout well and I can't see me
• 48:11
  Speaker 15: cutting it.
• 48:12
  Speaker 9: Well.
• 48:13
  Speaker 15: I mean, I'm not saying you can't have nobody to
• 48:16
  Speaker 15: maintain your yard. I mean you your mother. You can
• 48:20
  Speaker 15: maintain your mother's yard, Sir.
• 48:22
  Speaker 14: I go by my mother's house, you know, every other
• 48:25
  Speaker 14: day and check on them. But I don't have time
• 48:27
  Speaker 14: to go in the back and pick up pecans and stuff.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 48:30
  Speaker 14: I mean, if you just it don't seem no more
• 48:32
  Speaker 14: than like maybe four or five limbs that's hanging over there.
• 48:35
  Speaker 14: But they're four or five limbs. I mean they there's
• 48:38
  Speaker 14: a lot of pecans falling.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Off of that.
• 48:40
  Speaker 15: So mava con tree is shady. I goes back there.
• 48:45
  Speaker 15: There's nothing, no kind of nothing back there. Okay, want
• 48:49
  Speaker 15: to rake the yard whatever, sir. I'm not cutting my
• 48:52
  Speaker 15: tree for like that.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: Sir.
• 48:54
  Speaker 14: Listen, what I'm what I'm trying to get you to
• 48:56
  Speaker 14: do is I'm not I want you cutting your entire
• 48:58
  Speaker 14: tree down. I just want you to cut a few limbs, sir,
• 49:01
  Speaker 14: so you know those that way that those are the
• 49:04
  Speaker 14: ones that are hanging over it won't be you know,
• 49:06
  Speaker 14: the pecans won't be falling over into my mom's them yard.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: And and you know, like I say, they're.
• 49:11
  Speaker 14: Older now, man, they can't be bending over like that.
• 49:13
  Speaker 14: So you know, I'm I'm just coming to you as
• 49:16
  Speaker 14: a man right now and asking you, will you please
• 49:19
  Speaker 14: cut this down so these pecans can quick falling over
• 49:21
  Speaker 14: my mom and them yard.
• 49:22
  Speaker 15: Almost you. All you can do is hard someone okay,
• 49:25
  Speaker 15: someone I know your mother. Don't cut your yard.
• 49:29
  Speaker 9: No, it's it's a guy that it's a guy that
• 49:31
  Speaker 9: cuts the yard.
• 49:31
  Speaker 14: But even when he cutting the yard, these pecans is
• 49:34
  Speaker 14: flying out from underneath the yard. The lawn more they
• 49:37
  Speaker 14: they soon the lady, we're gonna be breaking windows over there.
• 49:40
  Speaker 15: What kind of lawn person you have that don't pick
• 49:43
  Speaker 15: up before they cut? That's fool.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: Why am I arguing with you about picking up stuff
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: and all of this?
• 49:48
  Speaker 14: I'm asking you to cut a funky left five limbs
• 49:51
  Speaker 14: so these dog on pecans, they are.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: Falling off my mama yard.
• 49:55
  Speaker 15: You want to cut, You're gonna make me come over.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Here and cut the whole. I would come cut the
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: whole of the tree down.
• 50:01
  Speaker 15: You ain't gonna put my tree. I grew that tree
• 50:04
  Speaker 15: from when I was a kid, and that tree gonna
• 50:07
  Speaker 15: say nothing your lord as I say though.
• 50:10
  Speaker 14: Sir, look, I didn't ask you like a man to
• 50:12
  Speaker 14: cut your little funked pecan tree down.
• 50:14
  Speaker 11: Now.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: I ain't fro the.
• 50:15
  Speaker 15: Hat, no what, no what? Guess what you you you
• 50:19
  Speaker 15: bad to know you can cut it up.
• 50:22
  Speaker 14: Look sir, tonight today rather this evening, It's either gonna
• 50:27
  Speaker 14: be two things happening. Either you gonna cut these five
• 50:30
  Speaker 14: limbs that I won't cut off inna cut cut the
• 50:33
  Speaker 14: whole pecan tree down.
• 50:35
  Speaker 15: That's my tree. In any game nobody's gonna with my tree.
• 50:38
  Speaker 15: I'm here right now. I'm hearing them in yard right now.
• 50:41
  Speaker 14: Come on, it's you over that right now, right now,
• 50:44
  Speaker 14: I will pray my right hold back.
• 50:47
  Speaker 15: You know what, you get my number in the way,
• 50:50
  Speaker 15: got your number.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: I got it because it's the same.
• 50:53
  Speaker 14: It's one address less than my mamas. You're gonna cut
• 50:55
  Speaker 14: this tree down.
• 50:57
  Speaker 15: I'm wasn't on the good anyway, man, I ain't use
• 50:59
  Speaker 15: my preaching something in a long time. Any way. I've
• 51:02
  Speaker 15: been waiting on him like you.
• 51:04
  Speaker 8: You lost your mind.
• 51:06
  Speaker 15: You live young, conk. I told you once, then I
• 51:09
  Speaker 15: told you twice. I'm on you, young. Don't do that.
• 51:14
  Speaker 8: See that's what's right. You know what you can do.
• 51:17
  Speaker 15: Tell your mama to make a for corn pie and
• 51:19
  Speaker 15: bring me a piece. What you say about my mama,
• 51:21
  Speaker 15: Tell her to make a precan pie and come for me.
• 51:26
  Speaker 15: Tell my mama what make a forcan pie with?
• 51:30
  Speaker 14: Make a pecan pie. I don't want no pecan pie.
• 51:33
  Speaker 14: We don't even eat pocn pie. We so sick of
• 51:37
  Speaker 14: because you got followed over in the backyard. You got
• 51:40
  Speaker 14: to do something about this, man. Now I'm trying to
• 51:42
  Speaker 14: I'm trying not to hurt you, old man, I really
• 51:44
  Speaker 14: am hurt.
• 51:45
  Speaker 15: Me hurt mean, come on, hurt me for me.
• 51:50
  Speaker 8: I'm on my I'm on my way. Is your south side?
• 51:53
  Speaker 8: Is you outside?
• 51:54
  Speaker 15: You know how?
• 51:56
  Speaker 8: You know?
• 51:57
  Speaker 15: Say? You know what I'm here. I'm I'm a man.
• 52:01
  Speaker 15: Your mama veway due you get out?
• 52:03
  Speaker 14: You get out my mama driveway right now, get out
• 52:06
  Speaker 14: my mama driveway.
• 52:07
  Speaker 15: All wrong up, putting me out.
• 52:10
  Speaker 8: I'm you get your getting back in your driveway. You
• 52:14
  Speaker 8: get out my mama driveway.
• 52:17
  Speaker 14: Get out of it.
• 52:18
  Speaker 8: You get out of my mama driveway.
• 52:20
  Speaker 10: Whoa crying for now?
• 52:23
  Speaker 15: Tell you I'm here waiting on you.
• 52:25
  Speaker 8: You get out of my mama Get out of my
• 52:27
  Speaker 8: mama driveway.
• 52:29
  Speaker 15: Better go cook me something me because I'm gonna sit here.
• 52:31
  Speaker 8: I got one more thing I need to say to
• 52:33
  Speaker 8: you with you listen it.
• 52:35
  Speaker 15: You know what I'm say. I'm waiting at you at
• 52:37
  Speaker 15: your mama house.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: This his nephew.
• 52:39
  Speaker 14: Tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just
• 52:43
  Speaker 14: got pranked by your brother.
• 52:46
  Speaker 15: Man, I don't pay this unner man. I'm gonna put
• 52:50
  Speaker 15: my feet man, I'm gonna I'm a man. I don't pay.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: I'm too old for this conner, Elsie, do me a favor.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: First of all, get im people yard, go back to
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: yo yard.
• 53:08
  Speaker 15: And you gave me hot blood pressure.
• 53:11
  Speaker 14: Ain't nobody mad by your pekan try noney that ain't
• 53:14
  Speaker 14: nobody finna cut it down.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody tripping you? Alright?
• 53:18
  Speaker 15: I got a living now, man, I've been carrying my
• 53:22
  Speaker 15: grandkids school. Listen, listen, man, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all, boy, y'all.
• 53:28
  Speaker 9: Something else, man, I got one more question for you.
• 53:32
  Speaker 14: Tell me what is the baddest radio station in the
• 53:35
  Speaker 14: land al season?
• 53:37
  Speaker 15: The same harbi so.
• 53:42
  Speaker 14: Petity, the petity at its best, at its best. All right,
• 53:48
  Speaker 14: I got one for you. The nephew then picked up
• 53:50
  Speaker 14: a whole weekend, a stupid, a whole weekend, a stupid
• 53:54
  Speaker 14: February thirteenth to the fifteenth. The nephew will be Levity Live.
• 53:58
  Speaker 14: That's Levity Live. That is West, not New York West, nayak,
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  Speaker 2: Thirteenth, fourteenth, and fifteenth. I will not be the work
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  Speaker 2: have a question for you, Tommy. Yes, sir. He was
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  Speaker 2: talking about all the people you bring. Can you bring anybody?
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: You glooming.
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  Speaker 11: Well?
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  Speaker 9: I I take you, I take groomers, groomies.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah right, I'm too old. Don't put your head on.
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  Speaker 11: Don't you.
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  Speaker 1: Like your mom used to do.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, man, I know you, al yeah, some of you
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 9: Going was Julo man you to worry about.
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  Speaker 2: We're fighting so hard.
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  Speaker 11: Thank you, nephew, coming on, Max. It is my strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 11: The subject is I'm going with the flow. We'll get
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I'm going with the flow. Dear
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 11: I'm fifty four years old and I met a great
• 56:59
  Speaker 11: man in church and he moved me in after a
• 57:02
  Speaker 11: year of dating. I felt like it was too soon,
• 57:05
  Speaker 11: but my lease was ending, and my friend said that
• 57:08
  Speaker 11: at my age, I should go with the floe well,
• 57:11
  Speaker 11: going with the flow has got me in a miserable
• 57:13
  Speaker 11: living situation. Everything is fine between us, but he has
• 57:17
  Speaker 11: a trifling daughter that runs him. She has access to
• 57:21
  Speaker 11: all of his accounts and she paid his mortgage and
• 57:23
  Speaker 11: bills until I moved in. I took over the bills,
• 57:26
  Speaker 11: and she had a nerve to ask me if I
• 57:29
  Speaker 11: would be splitting things fifty to fifty with her dad.
• 57:33
  Speaker 11: I told him to get her straight, but he didn't,
• 57:36
  Speaker 11: so she still has a key to the house and
• 57:38
  Speaker 11: keys to both his cars. She comes over unannounced to
• 57:42
  Speaker 11: wash clothes or to see what's in our fridge. She
• 57:45
  Speaker 11: doesn't have a car, so she usually rides with different
• 57:48
  Speaker 11: men or some raggedy females she hangs out with. I
• 57:52
  Speaker 11: have a problem with the riff rap being in our house,
• 57:54
  Speaker 11: but her dad is always excited to see her and
• 57:58
  Speaker 11: have a drink with her.
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: The girl uses my.
• 58:00
  Speaker 11: Makeup and my feminine products without asking and doesn't replace anything.
• 58:06
  Speaker 11: She walks in and out of our bedroom like she's
• 58:09
  Speaker 11: the woman of the house. I told my man that
• 58:12
  Speaker 11: we need to set some boundaries.
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  Speaker 1: He says, she used.
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  Speaker 11: She's used to it being just the two of them,
• 58:17
  Speaker 11: so I need to give her more time. My friend
• 58:20
  Speaker 11: said the same thing and added that if I keep complaining,
• 58:24
  Speaker 11: he's going to get rid of me, not the daughter.
• 58:27
  Speaker 11: If they tell me to go with the flow one
• 58:29
  Speaker 11: more time, I'm going to lose it. I thought about
• 58:32
  Speaker 11: bonding with the daughter, but she is not the type
• 58:35
  Speaker 11: of person i'd associate myself with. How do I make
• 58:40
  Speaker 11: some changes around here so that I can be comfortable
• 58:43
  Speaker 11: at home? You're going to have to move. Seriously, You're
• 58:47
  Speaker 11: not going to be comfortable there. You're not going to
• 58:49
  Speaker 11: be able to make any changes there because it's not
• 58:51
  Speaker 11: your house. His disrespectful daughter doesn't want you there interfering
• 58:56
  Speaker 11: with her and her dad's relationship. Can't you see this
• 59:00
  Speaker 11: messing You're messing up her good thing? Speaking of relationships,
• 59:05
  Speaker 11: since I mentioned that, where is this one between you
• 59:08
  Speaker 11: and the dad going anyway? Are you guys planning on
• 59:12
  Speaker 11: being married or you planning on just living together? You
• 59:16
  Speaker 11: know that should be made clear here because things would
• 59:21
  Speaker 11: change if you became the wife.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to know that.
• 59:25
  Speaker 11: I think you don't tell us how old the daughter is,
• 59:28
  Speaker 11: but I think she's definitely old enough to know she's
• 59:30
  Speaker 11: out of line and what she's doing is for you.
• 59:33
  Speaker 11: She's basically pulling rank and throwing it in her face,
• 59:36
  Speaker 11: in your face that she still comes first with her dad,
• 59:40
  Speaker 11: So you will never be the woman of this house.
• 59:43
  Speaker 11: The bond is just too strong between them, and the
• 59:46
  Speaker 11: dad is scared to say something to her about it
• 59:49
  Speaker 11: for fear she'll disappear. You said in your letter, he's
• 59:53
  Speaker 11: always excited to see her and have a drink with her.
• 59:57
  Speaker 11: Your friends are right about him putting you out before
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 11: he had If he has to choose before her and
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 11: bonding with her is not gonna work because clearly you
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 11: guys don't like each other, you know. I just find
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 11: it hard to believe that you didn't know any of
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 11: this before you moved in. You didn't know how the
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 11: doughter and the father got along and all of that.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 11: You all didn't talk about any of that, or were
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 11: you just thinking about him providing you with a roof
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 11: over your head since your lease was up. Your guy
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 11: isn't stepping up. He's not putting his daughter in her place. So,
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 11: like I said, you need to move out and get
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 11: your own place. Anyway, Steve, Yeah, that's great advice.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: Sherlly. Here's a problem I'm going with the flow. This
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: is the whole problem. And the reason this woman has
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: chosen to go with the flow is cause she's fifty four,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: fifty four. If you were twenty four, thirty four, forty four,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: would you put up with this? Probably not, But you
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: fifty four, you're gonna go with You met a great
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: man in church? Who how many times we done heard
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: that I met a great man at church. He moved in,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: and he moved me in. After a year of dating,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: he moved you in. I felt like it was too soon,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: but my lease was in it, and my friend said,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: here we go that at my age, I should go
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: with the flow. This is your friend, h I wish
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: I could see her friends. I really wish I could.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: I wish I could see him. It would explain so
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: much well. Going with the flow has gotten me in
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: a miserable living situation. Everything is fine between us, but
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: he's got a trifling daughter that runs him. She has
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: access to all his accounts, She pays more his mortgage
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: and bills until I moved in. I took over the bills,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: and she had the nerve to ask me if I
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: would be split fifty to fifty with her dad. She
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: in that good right. I told him to get her straight,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: but he didn't. She got a key to the house.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: She got keys to both of his cars. She comes
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: over without asking. She washed clothes or to see what's
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: in the fridge. She doesn't have a car. Who is
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: this good woman here? She ain't got no washing machine,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: She ain't got nothing to eat, she ain't got no car.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: What so she rides with different men or some raggedy
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: female she hangs out with. I got a problem with
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: the riff raf being in our house. Well, see, Shirley
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: kind of said this to.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 11: You, but it.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 2: Ain't your house. She moved you in. The daughter was
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: already in position. She not about to change her position
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: because you'd have got moved in.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 11: Hang on, Steve, we'll recap. We'll have part two of
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 11: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 11: Today's Strawberry letter subject. I'm going with the flow. We'll
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 11: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 11: Hardy Morning Show.
• 1:03:23
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  Speaker 11: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 11: The subject is I'm going with the flow.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: I'm going with the flow has gotten this woman in trouble,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: and it seems to me like that it's age related
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: because she starts off the letter. I'm fifty four years old.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: I met a great guy church. Now this right here,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: you're letting me know that age has something to do
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: with this letter. I felt like he moved me in
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: after a year dating. I felt like it was too early,
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: but my lease was in it, and my friend said
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: that at my age, I should go with the flow.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: Cause you know, I'm assuming if you're fifty four, you
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: probably wouldn't have went along with this at twenty four,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: at thirty four or forty four, But somehow fifty four,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: a crossing that half century mark has affected your thinking,
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: so now you just signed up, But you didn't know
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: nothing about his little trifling daughter that pays all his bills,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: all of his mortgage and all this. Here you came in.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: She's so comfortable, she asked you, was used to fifty
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: fifty with her daddy. You told her to get her
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: under control. He ain't said nothing to her. Well, it
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: ought to become obviously if you splitting stuff fifty to fifty,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: because you would be making a contribution to the mortgage
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: and all that. But obviously you're not. Now she comes
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: over to the house to wash clothes, check uts in
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: the refrigerator, and she got keys to both cars because
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: she don't have a car. I don't know who this
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: woman is right here that ain't got no washing machine,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: ain't got nothing, need no food, and don't have no car.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: And she got these men bringing all over, these raggedy females,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: and you don't want them in your house. Well, like
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: Shirley pointed out, it's not your house, it's his house.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: You moved in after Daton for a year cause you
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: let your friends tell you to go with the flow. Yeah,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: at one point in time, we suposted no more. When
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: we get older, I'll admit I've done some stupid stuff
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: after fifty.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: Lord, heaven, no kidding, poor.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: Lord, I've done some stuff, but I ain't never had
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: to write no letter about it. And so now, uh huh,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: we could help you. Yeah, I don't need help. No, no, no, no,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: y'all can't no. Now, the trouble I'll be getting in,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: can't nobody help me? But the Lord that's right there.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: And my friend said the same thing. He said if
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: you They said, if you keep complaining, he gonna get
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: rid of you and not the daughter. Okay, but what
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: are you settling for. You're not complaining. You're in the house.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: You can't set no rules where you live. You can't
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: make no boundaries. You don't like these trifling people hanging
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: out at your house, but you got to let me
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: in because it's his house. Girl, listen to me. You
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: need to go get you another lease and move yourself
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: back into your apartment, or at least threatening to because
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: you need to issue an ultimatom. Look, if I'm gonna
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: be here and I'm gonna be your woman, and you're
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: gonna invite me to this house, you need to share
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: this house with me because I'm not finna be a tenant.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: I'm not in here as a border following your rules,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 2: you know, like you got to ad B and B
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: you know where I can't. You got rules and established
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: when I come in here. And if I can't establish
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: the rules, I don't need to live here. Why would
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: you live somewhere? And you have no say so in
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: the conditions that you have to live in. You can't
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: pick who comes in and out the house. You can't
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: stop people from opening your refrigerator. You can't stop And
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: then she got keys to both cars and she take
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: both of them. You can't stop this woman from driving
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: your car. Suppose you got plans and you look outside
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: and going in the car, you was gonna take No man,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: why would you live like this? It doesn't make any
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: sense all because you going with the flow and you're
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: fifty four lady, what you ought to do is go
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: to your man and say this right here, I can't
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: do this no more. I love you, but I can't
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: do this. And I know you love me, but you
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: don't love me enough to make sure that I'm safe
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: and comfortable. Women want to be in a relationship where
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: they First of all, a woman wants to feel safe
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: If you don't feel safe, man, let's just okay, let's
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: not even get to the provided for a part yet.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: You don't feel safe, you mean to tell me. You
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: come in the house and you don't know who gonna
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: be sitting there. You go to get in the car
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: and you don't know whether it's in the driveway or not.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: You come in the house and somebody standing in your
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: refrigerator using your feminine products. Don't ask you nothing. You
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 2: don't know if when you come in the house that
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: everything you put in place is still gonna be in place.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: You going in there to watch TV in the living
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: room and some people already in there watching it. You
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: gonna live like that? Man? It ain't no way. Home
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: is supposed to be the one place, the one place
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: where you can go and feel safe, have control, have
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: your WUSA moment. You got to go home, be able
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: to take a breath. You can't go home and choke
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: it at the same time. Lady, here's what you do.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: This is how I feel when I come here. I
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: can't do this no more. I know you was trying
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: to help me out. My lease was up, but let
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: me tell you something. I'm gonna go get me another lease,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna move out because I can't do this
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: no more. I love you, but I know you love
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: your daughter and I'm not asking you not to love
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 2: her no more. But I got stick. Go either off.
• 1:10:00
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk, which
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: you got Junior all.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: Right, sureley.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 13: We had the NFL Wildcard weekend and a what a
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 13: weekend it was uh these games. Every game was really good,
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 13: with one particular I really enjoyed.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 14: Uh.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 13: But let's get to it.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 19: The Rams beat the Panthers man thirty four to thirty one.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 19: A man, I sure wanted the Panthers to win, Man,
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 19: they were so close. Matthew Stafford with that pass in
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 19: the corner, with the time wanting running down, take it over, man.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 19: So hey, congratulations to the Ram Here we go. The Bears,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 19: can we get a Bears a shot out? Came back
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 19: and beat the Package. It was twenty one to three
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 19: at halftime. They came out and won thirty one to
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 19: twenty seven.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 13: Come on, Bears.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: Wo Yeah they did that.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 19: The Bills edged one out over the Jaguars twenty seven
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 19: to twenty four.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: And you know you picked them up, but you know
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: John I did, but I was secretly pulling for the Jaguars.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 9: He was secretly pulling for Duke Boom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I wanted them to come through, man.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 13: The forty nine Ers beat the Eagles twenty three to nineteen.
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  Speaker 10: I know that hurt.
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  Speaker 9: That didn't look like Philip the last minute and a half.
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  Speaker 9: Let's look like that through the game.
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  Speaker 19: But graduated to the forty nine Ers the Patriots. I
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 19: know you have said about this. The Patriots beat the
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 19: charge of sixteen to three. I don't even know what
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 19: was going on that game. Justin Herbert got sacked six times.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 19: He could even throw this ball, get on now, he could,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 19: He kept getting off the back of his jersey.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 7: Dirty.
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  Speaker 19: I don't even to say about that one. But here
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 19: go the one we most proud of. Come on here,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 19: now them boys off Kirby, Houston, Texas, come on here,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 19: beat the Steelers behind thirty to six.
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  Speaker 2: Thirty to six, Yes, sir, so are they going to
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: say this to you?
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  Speaker 8: See?
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  Speaker 2: You played great defense? Amazing Well, y'all got a cold defense.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: I picked y'all to you know you did. Yeah, offense
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: is terrible right now, man, man, we got a problem.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 13: Three turnovers, man, two forms an inn you.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: Know, man, y'all y'all'understand y'all. Thirty six, he got a problem.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: We no clean, they got a problem. You don't have
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: no problem. Center in here. Thirty to six. C J
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 2: strive man, I don't know what he doing.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 13: We're still ed it shut.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's not over yet.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's goody good? Yeah, go so Houston.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, young man
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 11: and social media needs some advice, you, says, my manager
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 11: is making me look bad. We'll talk about it right
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 11: after this up. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 11: All right, Steve, this is from MJ on Steve harbfm
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 11: MJ says, I started a new job about six months
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 11: ago that I worked.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: Really hard to land, and I genuinely like the role.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 11: But my manager's communication is inconsistent and it keeps making
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 11: me look bad. She'll give instructions but then change them
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 11: later without telling me, or she'll be too busy to
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 11: answer my follow up questions and then flag my work
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 11: as incorrect. Twice she's warned me that these mistakes can't
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 11: keep happening, but it's one hundred percent her fault. I've
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 11: been taking careful notes and asking for clarity in writing,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 11: just waiting for the next time I get in trouble
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 11: for her lack of clear communication. I've set up a
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 11: meeting to talk about how to prevent errors, but I'm
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 11: nervous that explaining the issue from my point of view
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 11: is going to come off as a as defensive or disrespectful.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 11: So here's her question, how can I protect my credibility
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 11: and my job without it looking like I'm.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: Making excuses or trying to throw my manager under the bus.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: Well, I think you're being very smart with creating a
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: pay per trail. That's imperative in corporate America. That I've learned.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: You got to have a pay per trail. Secondly, you
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: got to have a conversation with this woman because if
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: you don't, y'all fit to be in that situation where
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: you can't, she'd have told you you can't keep making mistakes.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: She told you that, so you need to tell her
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: that there's a communication gap between the two of them. Now,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: however that's gonna come across. Let it come across that way,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: because if you don't, what's gonna come across is you're
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: incompetent and you keep making mistakes. Then you've got to
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: pull out this paper trail and now we you know,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 2: I don't really wreck.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 10: Me and that.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 12: That's what she's amazing. She's worried about the pay per trail.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 12: You just pot ale, you just pull out.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: Well, hey, ain't no pottle, you making mistakes pay per trail.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: But now I'm gonna say something to you because I
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: have an HR department in my company, you know, and
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 2: plus I hide the HR person. So HR my company
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: don't stand for human resources. My HR stand for heat. Right,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: come up, come up in here if you want to.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: But you had a regular job, so your job stand
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: for human resources. I would at least open up a
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: file with human resources to say, can I just get
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: this on file because this is what's happening, and just
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: ask her to make a file for you in case
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: you need period. You gotta protect yourself. This is the
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: world we live in any day. Yeah, so you gotta
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: protect yourself. What a great answer, Steve.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: Next year we have.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 11: Time for another one. This guy says, I have a
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 11: girlfriend that I one hundred percent. I'm one hundred percent
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 11: devoted to, and she knows that being nice to customers
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 11: and cracking a few jokes isn't flirting.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: It's working customers for tips.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 11: Apparently, there's one girl who's a regular that told her
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 11: boyfriend how funny I am, and over the weekend he
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 11: literally came into the bar and threatened me. I alerted
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 11: my manager of the issue, and he basically said, handle it.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 11: I don't even know what that means.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: She's a good.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 11: Tipper and a nice lady. But it's not right to
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 11: just blow her off moving forward. But I also don't
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 11: want to just tell her about her man acting crazy?
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 11: So what's the best way to handle this without jeopardizing
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 11: my job or my income?
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: He must be your job and your income? That atual problem,
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: you say, good chop, Her part is you.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: Don't understand missing something?
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: Man, dog, where are you from?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 8: Boy?
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: Your problem is this dude then came up to the
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: job and told you keep playing if you want to.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: You didn't went in there and told your boss he'd
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: told you to handle it. You say, how do I
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: do this? Stop losing my tips? Or dog? It's the
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: dude that can walk up on you and threaten you,
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: which is your concern?
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 7: Media?
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: All right, lose some tips, lose some teeth, right, all right,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: thank you, Steve.
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 11: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 11: up in twenty minutes after the hour.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 11: So rapper Lil Wayne posted an angry reaction to the
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 11: Chicago Bears beating its team, the Gray Green Bay Packers.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 11: Lil Wayne took to x of course we know it
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 11: is formerly Twitter to roast Chicago Bears quarterback Caleb Williams,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 11: writing quote, we just lost a playoff game to an
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 11: n word.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: With purple nails.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 11: Caleb Williams reposted Wayne's post and had a simple response
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 11: to Wayne. He posted snowflake and a man emoji and
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 11: simply wrote the hashtag the Bears. I'm wondering why does
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 11: Caleb Williams paint his nails. He says it's to represent
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 11: his mom, who worked as a nail technician for his
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 11: entire life, and he also enjoys being a fashion trendsetter.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: So there you go.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 2: H didn't know that. I'm not in the way of
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: a man and his mom.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I prefer myself.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: So you do wear it?
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 15: Oh?
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 9: So you do wear.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: I got yeah, like Jil, like.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 9: Junior got jail jour nail be nine. You ain't.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 8: I got jet So what is it?
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: Because talking about.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: But what that was, I'm ashamed you talking about fannail pilot.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 2: We're not We're not finna put your fan nail polog
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 2: I thought you had stopped.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: It's coming up. We'll play around it. Would you rather
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 12: Hey is Carla Farroll kick that old mopping bucket aside?
• 1:20:55
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  Speaker 12: a round of would you rather? Would you rather?
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 11: If you were a professional football player, would you rather
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 11: play in the dome or open roof.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: Stadium in cold snow weather.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what you bet not playing? You bet
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: not playing Houston Coke when they win down't appreciate that.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: That's what's not gonna play. Well, you say that's Steve,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: He's two right, he'll complain about a thirty to six win.
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: It We just know we have CJ man. He just
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: turns won six. What the problem you've got?
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  Speaker 14: It is?
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  Speaker 11: It?
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  Speaker 7: Picks?
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  Speaker 2: It was the score, dumb, Take the dumb Is that
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: what you y'all talking about.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 13: He's just saying take the Cleveland. Don't get that.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 2: Definitely the same we're talking about team. You're worried about
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 2: what y'all gonna do next year? Let us we are worried.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: We're always we are already concerned.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 14: If they if they get rid of Tomlin, would you
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 14: want him to come to Cleveland?
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  Speaker 2: Hell?
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Uh would you rather be running back
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: or quarterback?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: Oh? Definitely running back?
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: Running back for you junior, Yeah, running back?
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 7: One of them.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: You finish, get beat up either one of them.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: Pick one. Okay, running back or quarterback?
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: Quarterback. There's no way out can beat the quarterback. Everybody
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 2: wants and I don't want it enough to I'm gonna
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 2: let you have it.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: The quarterback.
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  Speaker 14: I'm throwing it to the center, the guard, whoever close
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 14: to me, water, the coach.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 11: All right, would you rather your favorite team lose in
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 11: every Super Bowl game or never make it to the
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 11: Super Bowl?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: Which losing every Super Bowl I'm cool with.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 13: We ain't made to Super Bowl, So I'm just gonna
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 13: go with b.
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 2: You ain't made it? What you mean up, y'all ain't
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 2: never made it to the Super Bowl. How old is
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: the tex Two thousand were from the Brown since the fifties.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: We won a championship in sixty four. We've never been
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 2: to the Super Bowl. I only see what y'all complain about.
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: Next next? Would you.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 11: All right?
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have bad hair or bad I say,
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: oh bad here?
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 11: Huh.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not listening to most people anyway, so whatever.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 3: Huh.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: That's like I don't hear you no way, So soun
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: you out anyway?
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 14: All right?
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 11: Would you rather never be able to take a hot
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 11: shower or never be able to eat barbecue? Again?
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: Got the baby? Y'all know, I gotta let that barbecue go?
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's today's round it would you rather go?
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 2: Already? Ain't gonna take no hot dayth So now I'm.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 11: Just it'll be our last break of the day and
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 11: we'll close out the show with the one and only
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 11: Steve Harvey right after.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: This eating the barbecue.
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mopping bucket aside?
• 1:24:54
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is our last break of the day.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: It's been a good day.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 11: And before we get to your question for Steve Junior,
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 11: we got to say Happy Founder's Day for Delta Sigma
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 11: Theta Sorority Incorporated one and thirteen years.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: It's Founder's Day.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah, Modulations, Happy Founders Day to the Deltas.
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  Speaker 7: I saw your.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: Monica nineteen thirteen. Wow, yes, found this day, beautiful woman.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah you.
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 7: All right?
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah you got a question? Yeah, Uncle.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 20: You talk about this purpose versus passion and what the
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 20: difference between the two is because people purpose the passion
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 20: your passion, I mean, it's your passion, not your purpose.
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  Speaker 2: Though you know you might be doing one thing. What's
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: your passion and what's your purpose? The perfect marriage is
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: to have them both. It is to marry your passion
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 2: to your purpose. Oh it's it's not a bad thing
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 2: to have both, but you know, you can be passionate
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 2: about something that you're not even good at. That's the
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: sad thing. You know how many times you've heard somebody say,
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 2: if you want something bad enough, you can have it.
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true. You know what I mean.
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: Think about all some of the stuff you've really really
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 2: wanted and never gotten, but you wanted it though. That's
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: just not a true statement. If you want something bad enough,
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 2: you will have it. That's not true because if you
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 2: don't apply the principles to the things you want, it's
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: not gonna happen. Wanting something is not enough. Believing something
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: is not enough. Wanting and believing something I am telling
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: you is not enough. Faith without works is dead. Wanting
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 2: something without applying the principles, it's useless. I wanna win
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 2: the lotto. I want to win the power ball. Oh
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: I want it so badly, I play it every week.
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  Speaker 9: You know what I mean.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: People have died and never won that power ball. Because
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: you know you're wanting and you're passionate about something. First
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: of all, you don't have a control over nothing. You
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: don't have control over their mount, the ball, the number
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: that comes up, that what the ritually is to payout.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: It's just nothing. Passion doesn't mean you're good at it.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: At one point in time, I was passionate about golf.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: I'm not passionate about it anymore. I'll play it when
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: I play it. But and because I discovered something as
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: passionate as I was, I just wasn't good at it.
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 2: Now I still enjoy going out there playing it, but
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 2: my expectations has been lowered to the point where now
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 2: I have a good time. But I was passionate about it,
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: but I wasn't good at it. Now what I am
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 2: good at, what I am really really good at. I
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: have managed to become passassionate about it. I am really
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 2: really good at mentoring young men. I am really really
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: good at that. As a matter of fact, I am
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 2: passionate about mentoring young men. I am passionate about having
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: them at my ranch. I'm passionate about talking to him
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 2: on the phone one on one. I'm passionate about going
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 2: on zooms talking to him. I'm passionate about that. And
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 2: it's become my purpose because when I leave this world,
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 2: I want to leave behind thousands of young people who
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 2: can say, man, what Steve Harvey said really helped me,
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 2: not that I was a great game show host, not
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 2: that I was a pretty good comedian. All let us
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 2: speak for itself or not. As a matter of fact, Man,
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 2: I've stopped doing the one thing I love. Do you know, man,
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 2: that I I was really really passionate about stand up?
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 2: Do you know, man, that my purpose was to be
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 2: one of the top stand ups in the country. Do
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 2: you know that I have stopped so long that the
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 2: majority of people who are fans of mine now don't
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 2: even know that that's what I was.
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 9: Man, It's so crazy.
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: Man. When I realized how long I been doing this,
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 2: a lady was doing my makeup and told me she
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 2: didn't realize that I used to have hair. You thought
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 2: I was born ball And I say, you don't think
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: at no point I had. She was doing my makeup
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 2: and said, mister Harvey, I never knew you had hair.
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 2: You're putting makeup on my head. Them little granules you
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 2: see every now and then, you ain't know what that is?
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 2: You see them roots up there? That was hair. But
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  Speaker 2: when she was born, when she was born, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 2: show was off. When when she got old enough to
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  Speaker 2: watch stuff, which was twenty years ago, when she saw
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  Speaker 2: what she was twenty six. I was already bald. It's crazy, man.
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  Speaker 2: So the perfect marriage is to become purp is to
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  Speaker 2: have your become passionate about your purpose, but be very
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  Speaker 2: very careful. Because you're passionate about something, don't mean you
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  Speaker 2: good at it.
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  Speaker 14: Now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm passionate about fishing. I fished pretty good. But if
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  Speaker 2: I'm on the boat with Kevin van Dam, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: look like a fool. Or I'm on the beer with
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  Speaker 2: with with with Bill Dance, I'm not gonna look that
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  Speaker 2: good of a fisherman because I'm out here with the pros.
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  Speaker 2: Just have to be careful, man. I know that might
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  Speaker 2: not have answered your question, but that's what I felt
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  Speaker 2: like saying. Those are my closing remarks today. If you
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  Speaker 2: didn't get nothing out of a tuney in tomorrow might
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