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UConn Head Coach, Full Circle Foundation, 1 Has 2 Go, steveharveyfm.com and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Don't know y'all baby at all given back a million busy.
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  Speaker 4: Listening to.
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  Speaker 2: Show to.
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  Speaker 5: Joy.
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  Speaker 2: Yah yeah, Joy, you know you.
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  Speaker 5: Love you.
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  Speaker 6: Know you gotta turn. I got to turn the mouth
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  Speaker 6: the turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,
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  Speaker 6: turn the way up. Come come on you.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh I sure, well, good morning everybody you are
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  Speaker 2: listening to the voice, Come on dig me now. One
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  Speaker 2: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show man or
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  Speaker 2: man o man. I thank God for it. I thank
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  Speaker 2: God for all he's done for me, for all the
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  Speaker 2: little things that I oftentimes failed to thank him for
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  Speaker 2: that I take for granted for you know, I was
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  Speaker 2: talking the other day to a buddy of mine. We
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  Speaker 2: had gotten to this conversation about God and and in
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  Speaker 2: the conversation we had narrowed it down and we were
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  Speaker 2: talking about changing the way we are as people. You
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  Speaker 2: know that everybody has to change. You know, nothing stays
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  Speaker 2: the same. Everybody changes, and a lot of these changes
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  Speaker 2: can be for the good, and a lot of them
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  Speaker 2: are just just come with time.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes it's aging that changes us. But no matter how
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  Speaker 2: old you get, you still have the ability to improve
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  Speaker 2: as a person. You may not have the foot speed
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  Speaker 2: you used to have. You may not be as agile
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  Speaker 2: as you used to be. Your energy level may not
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  Speaker 2: be what it used to be. Your desire to do
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  Speaker 2: some of the things that you used to do may
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  Speaker 2: be gone. The thing that doesn't have to change and
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  Speaker 2: will not change is you. You have the ability to
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  Speaker 2: continue to grow as a person, even when far the
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  Speaker 2: time and nature has taken its course. We were talking
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  Speaker 2: about everybody can change and everybody has the right to
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  Speaker 2: reinvent themselves as they get older, and I equated it
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  Speaker 2: to jumping out of an airplane. You know, there are
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  Speaker 2: some people man who get to a certain point in
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  Speaker 2: their life and they and they jump from the airplane
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  Speaker 2: is now almost a stunt of some kind. It's almost
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  Speaker 2: like they lifed and got out of control. You ever
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  Speaker 2: seen somebody jump out an airplane and the parachute don't
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  Speaker 2: open and they life start and it seems like they
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  Speaker 2: start spinning and tumbling and they can't get it together.
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  Speaker 2: And I've seen some mid air rescues before. But then
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  Speaker 2: there are times when you know when it hasn't worked.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you jump out that airplane and at first
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  Speaker 2: it's fun. I've never scot dived before, but I would
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  Speaker 2: imagine when you first jump out of an airplane that
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  Speaker 2: they people describe it as a a sense of being free,
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  Speaker 2: and it's exhilarating when you first jump out the plane.
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  Speaker 2: But if you pull that cord and nothing happens. It
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  Speaker 2: never happened to me, but I can only imagine the
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  Speaker 2: panic that's got to set in because no matter how
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  Speaker 2: fun it was a moment ago, the flying over to
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  Speaker 2: one another, the holding hands in the air, the breeze,
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  Speaker 2: the descent, the feeling of all of a sudden, if
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  Speaker 2: you reach for that cord and it's not there, you're
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  Speaker 2: suddenly spinning out of control. And that's what happens in
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  Speaker 2: a lot of people's lives. When you first start your life,
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  Speaker 2: you jump out the plane, You free, You young, you
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  Speaker 2: ain't got nothing to worry about it. But then you
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  Speaker 2: get to a certain point in your life when you go, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 6: Pull the cord now.
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  Speaker 2: And pulling the cord is an important thing because here's
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  Speaker 2: the analogy my friend gave me. He said, man, use
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  Speaker 2: your mind like a parachute. It works better when it's open. Well,
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  Speaker 2: see what happens with a lot of people is they
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  Speaker 2: they in life. They jump out the plane and they
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  Speaker 2: and they having this free fall and it's fun for now.
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  Speaker 2: But they get to a certain point in their life
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  Speaker 2: where they got themself in a situation, or they've had
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  Speaker 2: a little bit too much fun a little bit too long,
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  Speaker 2: or you know, they wasn't open to nothing and they
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  Speaker 2: just did what they wanted to do, or they started
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  Speaker 2: getting involved with drugs or drinking or started running with
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  Speaker 2: the wrong people. See, you jump out the plane. At first,
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  Speaker 2: you're free falling this fun, but then after a minute, man,
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  Speaker 2: something happens and they realize whoa and they reach for
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  Speaker 2: the cord, and the chord don't work. Well. Now you're
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  Speaker 2: in the panic stricken situation. And my suggesting that what
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  Speaker 2: I've learned from the analogy that my friends shared with
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  Speaker 2: me is that we all the sooner we can open
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  Speaker 2: our mind to God, the sooner we could develop that
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  Speaker 2: relationship with him. It's like pulling the chord and opening
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  Speaker 2: a parachute. If you open up your mind to God,
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  Speaker 2: God is like a parachute. You know, God can slow
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  Speaker 2: your descent. God can turn this out of control freefall
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  Speaker 2: into a nice ride for you. See, that's what happened
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  Speaker 2: to me. I was spinning out of control. I had
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  Speaker 2: gotten myself into a point. Man, Why I wasn't doing
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  Speaker 2: real good? Oh, y'all would look at me and think, man, Stevie, Man,
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  Speaker 2: Now I wasn't doing real good. I had spun out
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  Speaker 2: of control. I was in a free fall, and I
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  Speaker 2: reached for the chord, but I was so far away
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  Speaker 2: the chord didn't open. Then I went to him and
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  Speaker 2: I pulled the chord. When I went to God God,
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  Speaker 2: I pulled the cord and open, and he slowed my descent.
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  Speaker 2: And this is what I just believe. I don't believe
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  Speaker 2: now that I age as fast as I was aging,
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  Speaker 2: because I got that parachute open. Now, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: take better care of myself eating, I work out more.
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  Speaker 2: Now you know, I'm not out of control. I have
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  Speaker 2: a direction now that win. Then got up under that
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  Speaker 2: parachute a little bit, you know, And now I'm going.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm still getting older, you know so, but
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  Speaker 2: the descent is so slow. Now I'm able to enjoy
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  Speaker 2: the ride. I'm guiding my parachute over. Sometimes we go
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  Speaker 2: over to to a vacation spot over here, we float
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  Speaker 2: back over to it. But you know, I'm still getting old.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still going down, but the descent because I've opened
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  Speaker 2: my mind to God. The parachute has slowed my descent.
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  Speaker 2: And now I'm rocking back and forth. But I ain't
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  Speaker 2: spending out of control no more. You know, I'm able
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  Speaker 2: to enjoy the view now. You know, when you jump
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  Speaker 2: out that plane and you pull that cord and it
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  Speaker 2: don't work, you ain't looking at the view no more.
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  Speaker 2: You're thinking of only one thing. How can I slow
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  Speaker 2: this down? Well, now I'm able to enjoy the view.
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  Speaker 2: I'm able to see all the beautiful things on the
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  Speaker 2: horizon that God has for me. I'm able to see
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  Speaker 2: all the beautiful things around me that He's provided for
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  Speaker 2: me over these years because I've slowed my descent. I
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  Speaker 2: use my mind like a parachute. It works better when
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  Speaker 2: it's open. Open your mind to God, and so you
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  Speaker 2: can see the view, so you can slow the descent,
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  Speaker 2: so you can stop the out of control free fall
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  Speaker 2: that you've been on. That you can get your life
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  Speaker 2: together and see everything out on the horizon that God
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  Speaker 2: has for you. You know, it turned out to be
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  Speaker 2: a very true statement. Your mind if you use it
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  Speaker 2: like a parachute. It works better when it's open. Y'all
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  Speaker 2: you're listening, ladies and gentlemen. It's the same old, same old.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm not used to it yet. I still haven't
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  Speaker 2: gotten over the fact of how good God really is.
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  Speaker 2: It just continues to amaze me. How he just does
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  Speaker 2: it over and over and over again. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: nobody that does it over and over and over again,
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  Speaker 2: same way, same day, and responsible for so much. Man,
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  Speaker 2: It's just incredible. That's all I can take. It's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: It's there are no superlatives for it. God is God, period.
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  Speaker 2: This is that Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sheirly Strawberry calling
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  Speaker 2: for real Mississippi Monica Junior and the growing legend of
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  Speaker 2: Nephew Tommy Jr. You know you seem like you're on
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  Speaker 2: a run right now. I know today is coming where
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  Speaker 2: the dark cloud will be coming. But right now, what's
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  Speaker 2: going on? Oh No, I ain't the wrong. Let me
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  Speaker 2: ask you. I know it ain't. I just said that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know everything good. Let me ask
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  Speaker 2: you one thing. He's starting. You know you do you
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  Speaker 2: feel you a good Christian? Good question? I want to
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  Speaker 2: hear from it, but as some days I am someday
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  Speaker 2: all the time. Yeah, I'm doing the best I can.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't. I guess sometimes I don't try as hard.
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  Speaker 2: I guess sometimes I make other decisions.
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  Speaker 7: Why okay, because I think you didn't make a good
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  Speaker 7: decision yesterday as a Christian when you said you were
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  Speaker 7: healthy than me and Tommy. That's not the Christian thing
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  Speaker 7: to do. Did you ever consider that part? You said
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  Speaker 7: you was just the healthiest out of all of us
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  Speaker 7: on the show?
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  Speaker 2: You think that was christian like considering our situation, did
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  Speaker 2: you feel that? I don't. I don't know if it
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  Speaker 2: was Christian like. I thought it was very factionate. I'm
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  Speaker 2: talking about health and wellness.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, you said, well, I'm the healthiest one
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  Speaker 7: out of all y'all because me and Tommy.
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  Speaker 2: So you ain't never been sick before. I've been sick
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  Speaker 2: many times, many times, not metime. You though you aught
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  Speaker 2: people sick, same counting his signals. But he's been sick
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  Speaker 2: more time me.
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  Speaker 8: He fought it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sixty seven, so I don't say you but is
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  Speaker 2: that the Christian thing to do? Though? Mm hmm, Well,
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  Speaker 2: I don't really, I don't really consider that very Christian.
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  Speaker 2: But you answered this question so so you know that
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  Speaker 2: you can do better by supporting me in time that
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  Speaker 2: I could do better. And I have supported you and Tommy.
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  Speaker 2: I called and checked on Tommy when he's in the hospital,
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  Speaker 2: checked on his family, you know, ask him if they
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  Speaker 2: needed anything. You know, I called you down at that hospital.
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  Speaker 2: So that's doing that sound like he was dying. I
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  Speaker 2: have stayed on the phone that sound make it be
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  Speaker 2: the last person doing bitter is calling us, not coming
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  Speaker 2: down there and seeing us, all of us. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: a doctor's nothing. I can do what I get down there.
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  Speaker 2: Everything I can do down there at the hospital. I
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  Speaker 2: can do some phone you know what I'm saying. Come
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  Speaker 2: down and get sit with people. You know you just
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  Speaker 2: sitting the Flowers City, check on them, put your checking
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  Speaker 2: them on the phone, FaceTime with them. Why would I
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  Speaker 2: drive down there. It's not him, it's me. Why would
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  Speaker 2: I drive down there to see how sick you are?
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  Speaker 1: I'm coming up in thirty two minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Why a Christian, I don't see where it's sitting with
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  Speaker 2: the sickest. That's not one of the commandments.
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  Speaker 1: Come sit and run that break back right after you're
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  Speaker 1: listening Morning show.
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  Speaker 9: It is time to have to run that brenk back
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  Speaker 9: with the nephew, nephew, what you got for us today?
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  Speaker 1: I'm to give me some of that booty.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, it is time for booty taxes, all right, booty taxes.
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  Speaker 8: And a lot of you guys out there are paying
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  Speaker 8: for booty taxes. You just don't know that you're paying
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  Speaker 8: for it. I've actually gotten fed up and I just
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  Speaker 8: want to call the man that she's married to and
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  Speaker 8: let's discuss these booty taxes. I mean, we got to
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  Speaker 8: discuss this day. This This is gutten out of hand.
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  Speaker 8: You understand what I'm saying. Booty taxes, cat dog? If
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  Speaker 8: you would fire it up? All right, how about that
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  Speaker 8: booty taxes?
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  Speaker 5: Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach Kendrick. Hey, Kendrick. How
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  Speaker 5: you're doing, man? My name is Anthony Man, Anthony Collins.
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  Speaker 5: They called me a c How you doing, I'm good, bro?
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  Speaker 5: How you doing? I'm good? I'm good. Hey listen, uh
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  Speaker 5: this right here, man, this I don't even know how
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  Speaker 5: to put this though, but hey, listen, I'm calling you
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  Speaker 5: man because I got some issues. I'm getting ready to
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  Speaker 5: file my taxes, and I'm going through all my expensive
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  Speaker 5: all my and all this kind of stuff. You know,
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  Speaker 5: I just I can't. I can't just let this go. Man.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't spend like twenty thousand dollars on your wife
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  Speaker 5: last year. And I'm trying to figure.
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  Speaker 10: Out, Oh well, bru wait, Manue, you asking me you
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  Speaker 10: don't spend twenty thousand dollars on chick I'm married to?
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  Speaker 10: Is that what you're telling me?
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  Speaker 5: So all I'm trying to do, man, is I'm trying
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  Speaker 5: to do a write off. That's what I'm trying to do.
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  Speaker 5: I'm trying to claim no, no, no, no, to write off. Basically,
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  Speaker 5: what you're telling me is you my wife. I ain't
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  Speaker 5: say all, man, I ain't.
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  Speaker 10: Saying what what what you're saying?
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  Speaker 5: Bro. All I'm saying is I'm trying to figure out
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  Speaker 5: is all right if I claimed Melanie on my expenses? Man,
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  Speaker 5: I'm over twenty grand on money I spent on Melanie
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  Speaker 5: last year.
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  Speaker 10: So let me understand something right quick. You asking me
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  Speaker 10: for permission to claim my wife? When did you ask
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  Speaker 10: for permission my wife? Help me with that, brother?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, okay, let's do this here. Drug I
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  Speaker 5: ain't say I did that. You saying that. I'm saying,
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  Speaker 5: I just want to claim the taxes because I spent
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  Speaker 5: twenty k on it. That's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, let's just do this, brother, Let's put Melley on
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  Speaker 10: on the phone. Let's put mail on.
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  Speaker 5: The mother phone. I ain't no, we we ain't got
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  Speaker 5: a brain mail in this. We ain't got brainmailing it.
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  Speaker 5: What I'm saying is already hear it, see in it?
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  Speaker 2: What excuse me?
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  Speaker 10: We ain't got a blame any see an it.
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  Speaker 11: Like you must be outside Joe mine.
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  Speaker 5: All I'm saying is do you have a problem with
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  Speaker 5: me claiming melody? Mother?
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  Speaker 2: What did I do?
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  Speaker 5: Brouh?
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  Speaker 10: I got a mother problem having this whole mother face?
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  Speaker 5: Wait?
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  Speaker 10: How first of all, how did you get my information?
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  Speaker 10: How do you get my number?
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  Speaker 5: Brous? I asked around for your number. I ain't want
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  Speaker 5: to call you. Took me a week to call you.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. I'm just trying to dude,
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  Speaker 5: I just spent twenty grand. You donder say what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 10: When did you spend twenty grand? That's what I want
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  Speaker 10: to know. I ain't spent twenty grand on this and
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  Speaker 10: I'm married to her, So what what the you doing
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  Speaker 10: that you spent twenty thousand dollars on my wife and
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  Speaker 10: then you want to claim that tep me understanding that.
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  Speaker 5: Hey man, I ain't trying to go and to all
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  Speaker 5: my receipts on everything I did for Melanie. I'm not
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  Speaker 5: trying to do that. All I'm trying to do is
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  Speaker 5: is just I just want. I want to I want
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  Speaker 5: to know if you I don't want to vote, claim it,
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  Speaker 5: because that's how you get in trouble.
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  Speaker 10: Brother, you already and mother, brother, trouble is the last
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  Speaker 10: mother time you are to be worried about it and
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  Speaker 10: you call it my mother phone telling me about some
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  Speaker 10: that you got going home with my old lady, and
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  Speaker 10: then you telling me can I have your permission?
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  Speaker 5: You? Okay? So dog, we got to get some kind
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  Speaker 5: of resolution to this.
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  Speaker 10: A good resolution is a good ass for what you mean?
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  Speaker 10: A resolution? That's the only mother resolution we gonna get. Brother,
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  Speaker 10: Ain't no other resolution, Ain't no other resolutions. W ain't
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  Speaker 10: we ain't got elfice talk about. We ain't got a
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  Speaker 10: mother thing to talk about. That's the resolution I got fighting.
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  Speaker 10: I'll tell you what, bru I'm texting Mail right now.
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  Speaker 10: I've been texting her since we've been on this mother phone.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, And I pray, what are you texting her? Farther?
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  Speaker 10: No, what you mean when am I texting her?
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  Speaker 2: Fuss?
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  Speaker 10: She is the subject matter. So that's why I'm texting her.
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  Speaker 10: But you better pray to God.
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  Speaker 11: This is some molly.
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  Speaker 10: I hope to God you y'all got, y'all people stuff
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  Speaker 10: with me like this, bidy, this ain't gonna go do
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  Speaker 10: it brouh at all at all?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So I guess I can't claim them at this point.
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  Speaker 10: Tell mother now, so what you want to do, though, bro,
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  Speaker 10: I don't already tell you what I'm gonna do. And
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  Speaker 10: I'm waiting on Mail's response on this mother she got.
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  Speaker 10: She's slow than the mother. She can't fight fast for Somebody,
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  Speaker 10: Go get me some maam today.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 10: But man, look at Brouh. I don't know who this is.
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  Speaker 10: On the other than in the end of this song.
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  Speaker 10: I hope to God there's something somebody X five or
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  Speaker 10: something that I can't even fathom. You better pray to
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  Speaker 10: God y'all playing with me? This is some boot Okay, Okay, So.
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  Speaker 5: Can I go on. Tell you this, your dog, and
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  Speaker 5: then I'm gonna get out your way, man, because I
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  Speaker 5: know how it's gonna go after this. Can I just
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  Speaker 5: go and tell you something else.
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  Speaker 10: I don't know what the else you can tell me,
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  Speaker 10: but the only.
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  Speaker 5: Thing I can tell you, only thing I can tell you, Kendrick,
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  Speaker 5: is that this is nephew Tommy from the Steel Harvey
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  Speaker 5: Morning Show. Your wife Melanie got me to pray fag
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  Speaker 5: call you dog.
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  Speaker 10: Well, y'all from riding my boy.
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  Speaker 5: You look that's about come was talking about. I slept
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  Speaker 5: for gone.
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  Speaker 10: Man, y'all ain't man, y'all ain't And I'm sitting up
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  Speaker 10: at Eve crackling, and I done through.
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  Speaker 5: Them the way my all? You all right, man, I
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: gotta make sure you are right before we get off
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: the phone. You're good, man.
• 20:11
  Speaker 10: I gotta go get in the drink.
• 20:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm right all right. Tell me this man.
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: It's twenty twenty. Baby. Tell me this. What's the baddest that,
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: I mean, the baddest radio show in the land, man.
• 20:27
  Speaker 11: The dam Steve Harvey Morris Show with that bright land
• 20:31
  Speaker 11: lip you telling.
• 20:37
  Speaker 8: And that's how you jump started, you know, that's that
• 20:40
  Speaker 8: that's the first dose then I come back out later
• 20:42
  Speaker 8: with that second note. You understand what I'm saying. Stupid
• 20:45
  Speaker 8: is in the building. I'm being extra stupid this up
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: this week because I'm on my way to the Majestic
• 20:51
  Speaker 8: Dallas Fort Worth, Texas. Comedy is on the way. Nephew
• 20:56
  Speaker 8: Tommy's House, part of Comedy Jam. It's going down Saturday night.
• 21:00
  Speaker 8: That's me and my girl Dominique, my boy Tony Robinson,
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: the bill, and Stupid is in the house. In his
• 21:05
  Speaker 8: father's day. Bring your daddy, bring your baby, Daddy. We
• 21:08
  Speaker 8: gonna have some fun. Ignorance is landing in Dallas this weekend.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Soon at Junior got.
• 21:14
  Speaker 8: To walking, y'ut, I'm gonna come up in there and
• 21:16
  Speaker 8: lay y'all. That's how we do that thing, like a
• 21:17
  Speaker 8: little tag tea. All right, Stupid is on the way
• 21:20
  Speaker 8: this weekend at the Majestica.
• 21:22
  Speaker 9: Certain thank you coming up next as the clo or
• 21:25
  Speaker 9: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top
• 21:33
  Speaker 9: of the hour and Entertainment News. Now, Steve, you've been
• 21:36
  Speaker 9: mentoring you for over fifteen years for your Steven Marjorie
• 21:40
  Speaker 9: Harvey Foundation and over a decade, yes, over a decade
• 21:44
  Speaker 9: with the Disney Dreamers Academy. We're gonna have a full
• 21:47
  Speaker 9: circle moment coming up with one of your mentees who
• 21:49
  Speaker 9: is now a pastor. He's also a therapist and an author.
• 21:53
  Speaker 9: Full circle moment, that's all coming up. Yeah, that's major.
• 21:57
  Speaker 9: Right right now, it is time to ask the CLO
• 22:01
  Speaker 9: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right
• 22:04
  Speaker 9: after this.
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  Speaker 1: That is not correct.
• 22:07
  Speaker 9: Right now, it is time to ask the CLO our
• 22:09
  Speaker 9: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go Monroe and Lafayette.
• 22:14
  Speaker 9: Says, my girlfriend broke up with me, but she can't
• 22:17
  Speaker 9: stand to see me with anyone else. She randomly posts
• 22:20
  Speaker 9: old pictures of us to create problems in my new relationship.
• 22:24
  Speaker 9: Why did she break up with me? If this is
• 22:26
  Speaker 9: how she's going to act, how can I stop her?
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: Dog? You can't stop her. Why aren't you just going
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: by your business now? She can post all the pictures
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: she won't. You know what you probably need to do
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: is quit wearing that shirt doll that you had while
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: you were banging her, cause she posts that picture and
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: you've got that on that that date you was with
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: this new girl. That's your problem. See when you can
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: when somebody get rid of you, you got to get
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: rid of them. Sometimes you got to get rid of
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: the remnants of the relationship, the remnant all all in picture,
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: just sitting around, all that, all that, all that, all that,
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: that blanket y'all used to lay up, all that. You
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: got to get rid of the rim neicks. So that
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: shirt that you that's your favorite date shirt, you got
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: to quit wearing that because you're wearing that with your
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: new girl and make it look like you was out
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: with her last week. See what I'm saying, go to
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: she not gonna stop though, Yeah, that should go say
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: I've been through that shirt away. I don't even have
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: that shirt though. And then when a new girl look
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: in the closet, it ain't there. Turn out sound all right.
• 23:32
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Chan and Arlington, Chan says, I'm twenty
• 23:36
  Speaker 9: eight and I hate my job, but it pays very
• 23:40
  Speaker 9: good money. My boyfriend said, to quit my job and
• 23:43
  Speaker 9: he float me while I find another job. My mom said,
• 23:47
  Speaker 9: it's a risky deal because he gets so mad all
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: the time. Do I take the risk or keep suffering
• 23:52
  Speaker 9: at my job?
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Well, no, you don't keep suffering. But you need to
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: find something else to do. If you want to have
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: a miserable life, wake up to go do something you
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: don't like doing for an extended period of time. If
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: you want to have a miserable life. I am a
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: proponent of chasing your dream. So you probably call the
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: wrong guy for this information because I say chase your dream.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: At least you can wake up in the process of
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: pursuing something that you're happy about. Because I'm gonna tell
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: you right now, the job that you have is not
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: tied to your gift. Oh, it pay good, but it's
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: not what you gifted at. If you are gifted that
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: it would come natural to you. You would find enjoyment,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: you would find purpose but finding your gift.
• 24:40
  Speaker 9: But you're not suggesting that she quit and let her
• 24:43
  Speaker 9: boyfriend take care of her until she finds another job.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Though, Well, I'm saying what I said. But now if
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: you if you're quitting with the expectation of somebody taking
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: care of you, I don't know if that's the way. Yeah,
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: you know, if I were you, I would have enough
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: saved up. Well when I bounce, I got I got
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: a little hole money until I find something else. Okay,
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: you know, yeah, but I would not be dependent on
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: somebody else because, like your mama said, he get mad.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Too quickly, right right, you know yeah, I don't.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not giving nobody that control over me.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's her, it's shelling. Okay, we cleared that up,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 25:28
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Jasmine and Cleveland, Jasmine writes, my husband
• 25:32
  Speaker 9: and my husband and I have an off and on
• 25:36
  Speaker 9: kind of marriage, and I ended up pregnant by someone
• 25:40
  Speaker 9: else on one of our breaks. He accepted my daughter,
• 25:43
  Speaker 9: but he keeps complaining about me cheating on him. He
• 25:46
  Speaker 9: was doing it, so why couldn't I?
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Well, you got a baby. Now, you remember what I
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: just said a minute ago. Sometimes when you end the relationship,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: you got to get rid of the remnant. Yeah, your
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: remnant is a baby.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Can't get rid of it.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: You can't get rid of the baby. So that's a
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: constant reminder. You not only went and got with somebody else,
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: You brought somebody else back with you. So and if
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: you if you think a man gonna get half that,
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: no you no, you not only left him when you
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: came back. You came back with somebody with you. You
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: came back with a baby and his baby. So you
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: came back with a baby and another daddy. Yeah, see,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: you came back with two people. That's a lot. How
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: you don't think he not understanding that? Me personally, I
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: don't know how he took you back. I don't know
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: if you don't go off and get pregnant. I'm most
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: strongly suggest that whoever you got pregnant with, he's willing
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: to take care of you, and he I don't know
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: that I'm gonna do that. I don't know that. I
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: haven't been in that position, but I don't know. Now
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: marrying a woman who has children, that's totally different. Yeah, completely,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: that's completely different. Right, But you have a first of all,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: and here's another new norm for us. On the Steve
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: Harper water Show, I've been on again, off again marriage. Wait,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: how does that work?
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: You know what? You know?
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I've heard on again, off again relationship. You got to
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: on again, off again married.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, we're married now now we're not we're married.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I'm gonna go see somebody else. I'm gonna
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: go see somebody else too when I'm pregnant with the baby.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: What see we now that off section? Hastna get extended.
• 27:39
  Speaker 9: Yeah, Jasmine and Cleveland. All right, moving on, this is
• 27:47
  Speaker 9: our last one. See this is Aretha and Bartlett. Aretha writes,
• 27:50
  Speaker 9: my twenty three year old daughter lives with me and
• 27:53
  Speaker 9: I've allowed her boyfriend to stay overnight. But I was
• 27:56
  Speaker 9: shocked to see two guys leave from her room last night.
• 28:00
  Speaker 9: Her boyfriend was not one of them. She said they
• 28:03
  Speaker 9: were watching movies.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Is my child a tramp?
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Sound like? And I'm gonna tell you right now.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: And she ain't the Disney movie tramp either. I'm gonna
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: tell you that right now. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she ain't
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: that Disney movie tramp. I'm gonna tell you that right now.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: She ain't tramped the dog. I'm gonna tell you right
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: now that little girl up been there you know, first
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: of all to me and left her room. Is my
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: daughter tramp? Well? Let me ask you someone, when the
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: last time two men left your room a bedroom now,
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: not a house. They wasn't in the house. They was
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: in the bedroom. Yeah, I ain't been in no movie
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: that I've never seen the movie. Who I went in
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: a girl's bedroom to watch the movie?
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Coming up? Thank you, Clo. Coming up at the top
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: of the hour.
• 28:54
  Speaker 9: We have a very special guest from the Steven Marjorie
• 28:57
  Speaker 9: Harvey Foundation right after this you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: Morning show.
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  Speaker 2: Not everybody has promised our special guest this morning is
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: this was personal to me. This young brother attended to
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  Speaker 2: Steve and Margye Harvey Minnering Camp in twoenty eleven, that's
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: thirteen years ago. He also came to the Disney Dreamers
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  Speaker 2: Academy the next year. He has claimed that, well, I'm
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: his minnor. Back then and to this present day, this
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: young brother right here, when I tell you, has excelled.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: He is a moor House graduate. He is a Rutgers graduate. Currently,
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: he is a pastor, a licensed therapist, and an author.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: He's here to tell us about his full circle moment
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: and how minnering really works. Please welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 2: For the first time. His name is Nicholas Young. We
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: call him Nick. This is Nick Young.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody, Good morning, Good.
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  Speaker 10: Morning, everybody.
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  Speaker 5: How are y'all doing? How you doing?
• 30:08
  Speaker 9: Man?
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  Speaker 5: Bless blessed, blessed, truly.
• 30:12
  Speaker 11: Truly honored and grateful to be on the show. And
• 30:16
  Speaker 11: I always am happy to tell people that that I
• 30:21
  Speaker 11: would not be where I am in any way, I
• 30:24
  Speaker 11: would not be on my two seeds.
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  Speaker 4: I would not be.
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  Speaker 11: I don't even feel like i'd be a high school graduate,
• 30:29
  Speaker 11: let alone three degrees if it had not been for
• 30:32
  Speaker 11: what the Steve Harvey Mentoring the Stephen Market Harvey Foundation,
• 30:37
  Speaker 11: a mentoring program did for me in my life.
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: You all literally changed my life.
• 30:41
  Speaker 11: And now I'm able to pour into people every day.
• 30:44
  Speaker 11: And it's only because you are poured into me.
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  Speaker 2: And that's that is really what it's all about. It's
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: not about me getting credit. It's about the results. It's
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: about the It's about the reward of it, not the awards.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: And this brother is one of the rewards of minering man,
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: which makes it so. Also, I need to mention he
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: is a proud, proud member the greatest fraternity on planet.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: That's them one and only. Oh makeer fight FIGHTQ. So
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: got that out the way, this step of pastoral adult.
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  Speaker 2: Don't worry about that. I know I've seen you well
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: he I have seen him set out of hot before
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: they young. You know, the hot has changed since I
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: was stepping. These brothers got a whole nother hot. I
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: had to go to dance class and take it up. Now,
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: hey man, Nick, listen, you got a master's degree. In
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: divinity and you're licensed master social worker, what's the motivation
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: factor that kept you going?
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  Speaker 11: So that the motivation factor is a thank you, fostor
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  Speaker 11: what God has done for my life, what you all
• 32:06
  Speaker 11: have done for me. I know there's a scripture where
• 32:11
  Speaker 11: Jesus hills a group of levers and one of them
• 32:14
  Speaker 11: just made up in his mind that he had to
• 32:16
  Speaker 11: come back. I feel every time that I get the
• 32:20
  Speaker 11: opportunity to pour into a young child, or pour into
• 32:24
  Speaker 11: a couple or family, anybody who's in front of me,
• 32:27
  Speaker 11: I feel like it's just me saying thank you to
• 32:29
  Speaker 11: the God who blessed me and the guy who used
• 32:31
  Speaker 11: other people.
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  Speaker 5: To pour into me.
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  Speaker 2: Nick, how were you when you came to the camp.
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  Speaker 11: Thirteen between thirteen fourteen years old?
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  Speaker 2: Beat? I mean, this cat fought through some things, y'all.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: When I tell you he fought through some things, it
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: is what perseverance is all about. This young brother I'm
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: talking about, they tried to take him out, when I
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: tell you they really that was a real plan to
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: take him out. But we gathered ourselves, we rally around him.
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  Speaker 2: We gave him all a lot of support, love and
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: encouragement and especially prayer. And his brother got through. I mean,
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: he got through some tough times. Man. So congratulations.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Before we talk about this book you got, let's talk
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: about this full circle moment. You were at the camp
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: as a thirteen year old. I'm assuming you what to
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  Speaker 2: How are you now? Nick, I'm twenty eight, twenty eight
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: years old this year from being a camp mentee to
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: now he's speaking at the mentoring camp this year. Tell
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: us how you felt when you got the call. What
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: is this full circle moment like for you?
• 33:38
  Speaker 11: It's a tear jerkery. When I went to the camp,
• 33:43
  Speaker 11: I did not want to. I was dealing with bullying
• 33:46
  Speaker 11: at the time, and I did not want to complete
• 33:49
  Speaker 11: high school.
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: My mom was having the hardest time in the.
• 33:52
  Speaker 11: World, and me and my sister talked before I got
• 33:54
  Speaker 11: on the plane, and she said, just go down there
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  Speaker 11: and do well, and she's and God's going to do
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  Speaker 11: something for you. And my entire life changed because of
• 34:07
  Speaker 11: the camp and all that you are poor and all
• 34:10
  Speaker 11: that you all did. And so now when I got
• 34:15
  Speaker 11: the call.
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: It's like, no way, there's no way I'm going to
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: get to go back.
• 34:21
  Speaker 11: And pour into and pouring through mom and sons who
• 34:28
  Speaker 11: are just like my mom and me were years ago.
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: It's humbling.
• 34:35
  Speaker 11: I can't the words fail to express the level of
• 34:40
  Speaker 11: emotion I feel and being invited back to the place
• 34:43
  Speaker 11: that changed my entire life.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: You know, man, it's crazy because let me tell y'allself,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: this is one example. The guy that runs my camp
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: now along with my son, his name is Toring. He
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: runs my him. He sets up the program for he
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: was a camp. He was a mentee at the camp
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: at thirteen years old. The other guy that comes down
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: and helps out every year and mentor the boys, his
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: name is Kendall. He was he's an engineer now. He
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: came to the He came as a gang bank. He's
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: an engineer now. Wow, yeah, man, we got the We
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: got a brother that's a young pilot that I sit
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: to pilot school because his dream was to become a pilot.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: He's an airline pilot.
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: I got a kid down here that's on the Pro
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Bass Fisherman Tour. He hurt my feelings because I wanted
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: to That's what I wanted to be. Hey, y'all, we're
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: gonna come right back with more with Nick Young. Right
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: after this. One of the mentees from the Steven Marge
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Harvey Foundation, who has come full circle to be speaking
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: this year.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: We'll be right backs Morning Show.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: All right, everybody, we're back in our special guests this morning.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: His brother, Nick Young, who is having a full circle moment.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: He's coming back to the camp as a speaker. Now,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: this is what's makes this incredible. Was added thirteen, fourteen
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: years old. He was a mentee at the camp. He
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: is now a licensed therapist. He is a minister, he
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: is an author. He's a young man. I watched him
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: go to college, went to more House, he went to Rutgers.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: We were part of all of that. I watched him struggle.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: I watched him try to take him down. I watched
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: through prayer and just men rallying around one another.
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: When you got a circle of men, strong men who's
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: been there, done that, then seen it before, can put
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: your mind at ease and help you through it. That's
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: what mentring does. His name is Nick Young. Everybody, Nick,
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: we're in here talking about the program. But I said,
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: you're an author. You got a book that teaches children
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: about the power of therapy. Tell us a little bit
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: about the book.
• 36:52
  Speaker 11: Yes, sir, mister Harvey, I had the God give vision
• 36:56
  Speaker 11: to plant a seed very early on.
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: And I learned this in many.
• 37:01
  Speaker 11: Ways from the programs with the Mentor Foundation, that when
• 37:07
  Speaker 11: you teach a child a way to go, it doesn't
• 37:10
  Speaker 11: it doesn't leave them. I know when I was at
• 37:13
  Speaker 11: the camp, you all told me, like, when you're on
• 37:16
  Speaker 11: the date, make sure you walk on the outside and
• 37:18
  Speaker 11: open doors. And I find myself still doing those things,
• 37:22
  Speaker 11: and so using that logic, I was thinking that when
• 37:25
  Speaker 11: you teach kids very early on the importance of taking
• 37:29
  Speaker 11: care of their mental health, how to regulate their emotions,
• 37:32
  Speaker 11: how to deal with relationships through mental health practitioners and therapists,
• 37:37
  Speaker 11: that when they get older, they will grow into adults
• 37:39
  Speaker 11: who know how to take care of their mental health,
• 37:42
  Speaker 11: how to remain sane, and how to help other people
• 37:45
  Speaker 11: take care of their mental health.
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: And so I wrote a book.
• 37:47
  Speaker 11: Called Carry the Caring Koala, a Child's Guide to Therapy.
• 37:51
  Speaker 11: It's available on Amazon, and the book has been really helpful,
• 37:54
  Speaker 11: has a workbook page, and it just really teaches kids
• 37:57
  Speaker 11: how to manage their emotions and relationships.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Now you say, what's the name of the book, Carry
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: the Carrying Kality, Okay, carry the Carrying Koala that's a
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: tongue twist. The young find that book. I just got
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: a koa l a. The two things that we teach
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: at the mentory and camp, the two main focuses is
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: dream building and manhood. I don't discuss your education with you.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: I don't discuss your You know your educational background, where
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: you hope to go. If you go to school, fine,
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: But I want to know what your dreams are. And
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: we start with dream boards, and I teach young men
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: how to dream. I get their mind out of their
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: neighborhoods and the hoods and put them somewhere else. And
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: then I teach them what real men do. Real men
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: go to church, Real men go to work. Real men
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: honor God, Real men obey the law. Real men take
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: care of their children. Real men honor women. Real men
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: go to work every day. That's what manhood is. It
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: ain't in a video, it ain't in a in a chain,
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: it ain't on the set the rems. We teach those
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: two things, and those two things work. Our special guest
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: this morning, Nick Young, appreciate your man. I'll see you
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: in a couple of days. What day you speaking, man, Sunday?
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: Sir?
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Oh you're doing oh you're doing the closes. Excuse me,
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: get my old ass. I have to wait closing remark,
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: know what?
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: Okay, there you go.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: There you go, wait to go. Hey, y'all, Nick young, everybody.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: We'll be back with more to Steve Harby Morning Show right.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: After, sir, you're listening Morning Show. All right, guys, it
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: is time now for one of these has to go.
• 39:47
  Speaker 9: One has to go, sense of taste, sense of smell,
• 39:51
  Speaker 9: ability to get aroused.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: One has to go.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: Ain't you take you could take taste smell? Yeah, and
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: we aroused either one of them all both taste smell
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: or around hm hmm.
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  Speaker 9: Interesting.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: All right, moving on smell smell.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: Smell okay, junior, yes, smell, okay, all.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: Right, I changed to smell it. I'm gonna be scared
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: to taste it. I can't just okay, one of these
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: has to go.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: One of these has to go.
• 40:32
  Speaker 9: Sense of taste food, it's a smell, all right. Humpty Dance,
• 40:38
  Speaker 9: Atomic Dog, come and talk to me. One of these
• 40:42
  Speaker 9: has to go. Humpty Dance, Atomic Dog, come and talk.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: To it's your favorite song.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my favorite.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't care what the purpose is, but Hampty
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: Dance can go.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, the Humpty dance, atomic dog.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: Come and talk to me, you say, let me plain something.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: You know what ain't fitting.
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: Dog?
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Im out the ruin the image and the style that
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: you're used to. Boy, yeah, really, I don't know what
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: you could have said, and I would have got rid
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: of a tomic dog.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: That's the way of the world.
• 41:35
  Speaker 9: Earth winding, fire, fire, atomic dog, atomic dog, earth winning
• 41:41
  Speaker 9: by that's the way.
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: Of the world.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Lenny Williams.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: By Joy Clinton's drinking.
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: Dog.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: All right, one of these has to go.
• 42:05
  Speaker 9: A treehouse, a tiny house, a house boatreuse man, Well.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna be no good on that boat. But
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'm going on tiny house. Okay. That
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: has put that tiny house on the wrench for people
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: staying you ain't gonna stay hell, I'm not staying up
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: hit your you inside a tiny house. I'm too standing
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: in the door. I'm too damn big. Plus, I don't
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: like multitasking like that. You got to do it? What
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: do you mean?
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: I mean multitask?
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: What you know?
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: I don't like turning on the TV, frying chicken and
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: use your bathrooms at the same day. I just don't.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be that while I'm sitting at them,
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: I can vacuum, turn on the TV. HANDI bricked chicken
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: at the seven table put right next to the stove.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: But you can do all of that. I can vacuum
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: the whole damn place, then turn on the TV without
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: a remote and fried chicken stuck while I'm sitting on
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: the TOI I don't want to be able to do that.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: And I can make the bed for me that time, right,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: asking at its finest.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: In a tiny house, you can't even go in the
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: bathroom and rest your mind.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: With you in the bathroom, you he is in the house.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: You are sitting on the toilet trying to gather yourself,
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: and then you go, man, who left that tie over
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: there on the floor? And this dead need to be
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: made up? I showed which they stopped popping that baking
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: beast on me while I'm sitting here there going on
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: all right, to reach up and open up the window
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: so we can add out while much house people to
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: have him come build some executive homes on my property. Yeah,
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: and then let them feel me.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great idea.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: I just want to picture you in the doorway that's
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: all I want to.
• 44:23
  Speaker 9: All right, last one keelan and pop never mind, all right,
• 44:29
  Speaker 9: thank you guys. Coming up next, prank phone call from
• 44:31
  Speaker 9: the nephew right after this.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: You're listening.
• 44:35
  Speaker 9: Morning show coming up at about four minutes after the hour.
• 44:39
  Speaker 9: It's my strawberry letter for today. And the subject is
• 44:42
  Speaker 9: he described a different experience. He described a different experience.
• 44:47
  Speaker 9: We'll get into that find out what that is all about.
• 44:50
  Speaker 9: But right now it is time for the ignorance. Because
• 44:53
  Speaker 9: it never stops on this show, it never stops. So
• 44:57
  Speaker 9: it's a prank phone call with the nephew right now.
• 45:00
  Speaker 6: What you got now.
• 45:01
  Speaker 8: We get insulted when we pull up into the church
• 45:03
  Speaker 8: parking lot and we don't get the park over there.
• 45:06
  Speaker 8: You know, the attendant pushes us back this way, and
• 45:09
  Speaker 8: I'm thinking, you know, maybe it's because of the car
• 45:12
  Speaker 8: that I'm driving.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it is. All right.
• 45:14
  Speaker 8: So the title of this is the church parking lot,
• 45:17
  Speaker 8: the church parking lot. This goes out there, Oh you
• 45:20
  Speaker 8: church parking lot ministers. Okay, that's out there working and yeah,
• 45:24
  Speaker 8: telling us where the park and you know, you see
• 45:26
  Speaker 8: my car, it don't look good enough.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: The ugly cars is over that we're sending you over there.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: All of a sudden, you just stopped the land.
• 45:35
  Speaker 7: You appoint me that I got your time. I got
• 45:38
  Speaker 7: to go to the right yeah, orange Wan and you
• 45:42
  Speaker 7: keep pushing us back to this.
• 45:44
  Speaker 8: Come on, man, And then when you get out the car,
• 45:47
  Speaker 8: start walking towards the church he got he can't make
• 45:49
  Speaker 8: an eye contact with you know, you know, he fits
• 45:52
  Speaker 8: you a mile out the way.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: In the lot.
• 45:54
  Speaker 8: This right here is the church parking lot. Let's go
• 45:56
  Speaker 8: catch down. Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, I'm trying to reach you.
• 46:02
  Speaker 8: How you doing, uh Britain? I want to make sure
• 46:04
  Speaker 8: I got the right person. You the person that uh
• 46:07
  Speaker 8: you work at the At the first of all, I
• 46:09
  Speaker 8: go to uh my name, my name is Calvin, brother Calvin.
• 46:13
  Speaker 8: But I go to Saint Missionary Baptist Church where.
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: You yeah, so yeah, so everything all right.
• 46:20
  Speaker 8: Everything's fine. Well, I got a little issue and I'm
• 46:24
  Speaker 8: trying to get to the bottom of it.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 46:26
  Speaker 8: You work in the before service start. You work in
• 46:30
  Speaker 8: the parking lot on and yeah, and you tell people
• 46:35
  Speaker 8: where the park and stuff right right right?
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: What you looking for some employment? You want to you
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: want to join us?
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: No?
• 46:42
  Speaker 8: No, no, what to see the issue I got, man,
• 46:44
  Speaker 8: I've been dealing with this probably about the last two
• 46:47
  Speaker 8: months now that okay, hold on, I'm trying to teach you.
• 46:50
  Speaker 8: So the problem is when I come to the church
• 46:53
  Speaker 8: last couple of months, man, I've been I've been like
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: my my, my, my regular card and broke down on it.
• 47:00
  Speaker 8: So I had I got an old van that I've
• 47:02
  Speaker 8: been about that. Yeah, yeah, you know, I got a
• 47:04
  Speaker 8: old van that I've been using to get around in.
• 47:06
  Speaker 8: So now for the last two months, I've been riding
• 47:09
  Speaker 8: in it when I come into the church. You know
• 47:12
  Speaker 8: you and I find out who you were, but you
• 47:15
  Speaker 8: keep sending me to the back of the parking lot.
• 47:18
  Speaker 8: And then but you know I noticed, now no bro,
• 47:21
  Speaker 8: no on the real So you sending me to the back,
• 47:24
  Speaker 8: and I'm noticing when I see cars that's like two ten,
• 47:27
  Speaker 8: twenty fifteen cars.
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: Well brother, well listen, we don't have no set place
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: where we put model car. You know, I just I
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: just direct the traffic.
• 47:36
  Speaker 8: Brother, Okay, So so you're trying to tell me for
• 47:39
  Speaker 8: the last two months, you just direct traffic, but you
• 47:42
  Speaker 8: got but you directed me to the back every time.
• 47:45
  Speaker 8: But a car behind me or a car in front
• 47:47
  Speaker 8: of me. It'll be going to the front.
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: Now where you getting this information from me?
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: I didn't seen you man or send people to the
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: front to park. I hadn't seen you do.
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: No.
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: No, I just I just put you know, the bigger
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: vehicles in the in the back and.
• 48:04
  Speaker 5: Uh certain.
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: You know, it's really no schedule if you come in,
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: I just I just direct you to the right of
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: the left. It's really nothing to it.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: Really, So you're not trying to say, so my my
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: van being raggedy ain't the reason why.
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: I'm being No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: what we're about. Now, Okay, Well, I'm sorry you feel
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: that way. I mean, so I guess this Sunday.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this Sunday.
• 48:31
  Speaker 5: Gonna make sure.
• 48:31
  Speaker 8: No, no, let me tell you right now when my
• 48:34
  Speaker 8: van pull up there Sunday, I'm gonna tell you right now,
• 48:37
  Speaker 8: if I get sent to the back, I'm gonna tell
• 48:39
  Speaker 8: you right now, it's gonna be No, it's gonna be
• 48:41
  Speaker 8: a problem if I.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Get sent to the back.
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: You know, now, you don't have to cut from just this.
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: Calm down, it's not it's not that serious.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: No, it is serious. I know I got a raggedy
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: ass man. I know that.
• 48:53
  Speaker 8: I know that, but I see that's the reason why
• 48:55
  Speaker 8: I'm getting sent to the back. And I know it
• 48:56
  Speaker 8: because the car I had before y'all were sending me
• 48:59
  Speaker 8: up front. So already know I'm just saying. I'm telling
• 49:01
  Speaker 8: you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now, it's
• 49:04
  Speaker 8: gonna be a problem if I get.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Sent to the back.
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: Brother, you just singled me out.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: And no, no, or did you know I didn't single
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: you out?
• 49:13
  Speaker 5: You?
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: You are the person that has been sending me to
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: the back.
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: Dude, No, No, I haven't.
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: Hey, man, why you why are you sending Why are
• 49:21
  Speaker 5: you accusing me of.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: I'm thank because I didn't seen it?
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: No, you are. You're calling me.
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: You're calling me out of the blue, and you accuse
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: me of something that I'm not doing.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: You just sent my ragged ass band to the back.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: You didn't done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: you have done haven't. Yes, yes you have. You send
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: all the predy cars up front. That's what you're doing.
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: But I tell you what comes soundy gonna be a problem?
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: Threatened me?
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: I mean now, now listen, we we we can meet
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: up at it. We can meet up there to be
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: for any cars get there.
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: Help about that.
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: I don't care how you want to do it, Brendon.
• 49:54
  Speaker 10: You actually do know how you want.
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: To do it, So bring it then.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm letting you know my car, Yeah, my vel
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: gonna build.
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: Come give bent give Ben. It's me and you.
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: How about that you want you and you want to
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: talk to Tony stuff?
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, so you are you're sweating all up now?
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: All right, so now like you already did, so, I
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: guess I'm matching.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, no, I'm.
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: Gonna listen brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna call my
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: phone and threaten me and tell me what you what
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: you think I did when I didn't do it.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: I told you man, you've been sending me to the
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: damn back man.
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: That's what we passed. What you thought?
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, that what it is. No, it's what I know.
• 50:30
  Speaker 8: It's what I know, Brendy, it's what I know. Okay,
• 50:33
  Speaker 8: you didn't you didn't sit with you at right now? Okay,
• 50:35
  Speaker 8: you know you know what got work? You know what
• 50:37
  Speaker 8: I'll tell you what you are right now, Come sunny
• 50:39
  Speaker 8: that's that's Dan Brend.
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, no, how about what
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: you're doing right now?
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: What you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: work right now?
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: Oh oh so you you at work calling me about
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: some bull parking spot.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, oh look at the cussing Christian. Now look
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: at you. No, look at the cuss no you.
• 50:56
  Speaker 10: No, no, no, matter of fact you.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: Okay, if you want to do something, let's do it now,
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: parking lot.
• 51:01
  Speaker 5: I don't I don't care.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: We'll be at okay. Okay.
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: That's one thing you're not gonna do is disrespect me.
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: I'm telling you that right now. Brother, Calvin, you bring,
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: Fold you like a wet piece of paper. You don't
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: know who you with.
• 51:13
  Speaker 10: Okay, I didn't been locked up.
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: Six seven years. I'm just in the church trying to
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: get my life together. And you said you're just gonna
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother, I'm
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: gonna tell you that right now. So you want to
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: get it off, meet me in the parking lot right now.
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: I give you an hour to get there.
• 51:27
  Speaker 8: Your pieces tonight. Now you're trying to scare me with
• 51:29
  Speaker 8: your god, with your background. What it is you're trying
• 51:33
  Speaker 8: to scare me with your background or something like EVI
• 51:35
  Speaker 8: then you I ain't know you have been in jail with.
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: The wrong one.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this. Do you know Lester that
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: that also wants he also had a cars parking.
• 51:44
  Speaker 10: Would you try by yourself out of this.
• 51:48
  Speaker 5: You're talking about? I know a Lester?
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning.
• 51:57
  Speaker 8: Brenda, your boy Lester in the parking lot got me
• 52:00
  Speaker 8: the frank funk call. I brought the lockdown out there?
• 52:10
  Speaker 10: You man?
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: Did I bring the lockdown out there?
• 52:16
  Speaker 6: Strangle?
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: Y'all got me out here talking reckless?
• 52:20
  Speaker 5: I cast this.
• 52:23
  Speaker 8: Hanging there, bro, and then do this for me. Man,
• 52:25
  Speaker 8: Tell me what is the baddest and I mean the
• 52:27
  Speaker 8: baddest radio show in.
• 52:29
  Speaker 4: The last man, Steve Harvey Radio man.
• 52:33
  Speaker 8: Hey man, if you see somebody's Sunday pull up in
• 52:35
  Speaker 8: a van, show them some love.
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: But show them some love.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: I might have to call out this week, but my
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: heart can't take you.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: If nothing else has happened.
• 52:45
  Speaker 8: Y'all ought to be in it ought to be in
• 52:46
  Speaker 8: your spirit to get up and go on this great
• 52:49
  Speaker 8: getting up Sunday. All right, this coming Sunday, y'all ought
• 52:52
  Speaker 8: to be getting ready to get.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: Up and go get your praise on. All right? Did that?
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Did that jump started?
• 52:59
  Speaker 9: Why couldn't you say good morning to the parking lot ministry?
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: Water are coming? They got too much power? Put your power? Yeah,
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: your power wrong, there's no spirit in your power.
• 53:17
  Speaker 6: Say it right?
• 53:18
  Speaker 8: Yeah, but over here, over here, ain't none worse than
• 53:23
  Speaker 8: parking lot power.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: Nothing worse than that.
• 53:27
  Speaker 7: Don't when they backing you into your spot and they
• 53:30
  Speaker 7: put that that hole like I can see too.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: I know I ain't just start driving.
• 53:35
  Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, then they got right there, Yeah yeah that one.
• 53:39
  Speaker 8: Come on back, Come on back then, God, I'm coming.
• 53:42
  Speaker 8: I got I got a I got a camera in
• 53:45
  Speaker 8: the back.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: I know what I'm doing.
• 53:47
  Speaker 8: Okay, thank you LP. Parking lot Power, parking lot power.
• 53:53
  Speaker 8: We're gonna have some power this Saturday night. And Dalla's baby,
• 53:57
  Speaker 8: all my Texas A and the buddies been calling me.
• 53:59
  Speaker 8: They coming to the show to see me. I am excited.
• 54:02
  Speaker 8: I am elated. And the nephew got some for you.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 54:06
  Speaker 8: It's at the Majestic. It is Saturday Night. It is
• 54:09
  Speaker 8: Nephew Thomas House Party, Comedy Jam, We gonna jam, we
• 54:13
  Speaker 8: gonna party, we gonna laugh. All that wrapped up in
• 54:15
  Speaker 8: the one. It's the show you don't want to miss.
• 54:16
  Speaker 8: Don't about he have nothing like this. I'm sorry, I
• 54:18
  Speaker 8: think from the left side.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: All right, nephews, ain't nobody coming up next?
• 54:22
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  Speaker 9: Few subjects. He described a different experience. Dear Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 9: I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that
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  Speaker 9: I dated in high school.
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  Speaker 1: We both married other people, and we both.
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  Speaker 9: Got divorced last fall, so we decided to give dating
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  Speaker 9: a try again. But he lives almost three hours away,
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  Speaker 9: so I don't get to see him as much as
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  Speaker 9: I'd like to. He came to see me over the weekend,
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  Speaker 9: and this was our first time having sex in nineteen years.
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  Speaker 9: I was so ready for it. He got in Thursday
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  Speaker 9: and I went to his hotel room after work. I
• 55:34
  Speaker 9: took a shower, and then he put it on me
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  Speaker 9: like he promised. He kept on saying that I had
• 55:39
  Speaker 9: been waiting for that moment for years, and he said
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  Speaker 9: I'm by far the best woman he ever had sex with.
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  Speaker 9: We went in for round two before I went to
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  Speaker 9: work the next day. I had been twisted and turned
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  Speaker 9: in the best way, and I could barely make it
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  Speaker 9: through the day without having flashbacks. I went straight to
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  Speaker 9: the room after I got off. I'm surprised that his
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  Speaker 9: bed wasn't made and he was still in it. I
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: was expecting more sex, but he said he was still
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  Speaker 9: tired from the night before, so we did an oral
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  Speaker 9: exchange that put me to sleep. I woke up to
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  Speaker 9: wrap my hair up and I overheard him in the
• 56:15
  Speaker 9: bathroom on the phone, talking low. He was describing a
• 56:19
  Speaker 9: sexual encounter he had earlier that day, but it was
• 56:22
  Speaker 9: definitely not with me.
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  Speaker 2: He said.
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  Speaker 9: It was the kisses that had him so turned on,
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  Speaker 9: and it is hard for him to be intimate without
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  Speaker 9: kissing and sensual touch. He didn't kiss me in the
• 56:33
  Speaker 9: mouth at all. He also said he kept eye contact
• 56:37
  Speaker 9: with whoever he was intimate with. He and I never
• 56:40
  Speaker 9: locked eyes. He was in there describing a different experience
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  Speaker 9: than we had. Should I assume that he's not ready
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  Speaker 9: to settle down? Can I tell him what I heard? Well,
• 56:52
  Speaker 9: I don't mean to be harsh here, but he only
• 56:55
  Speaker 9: wants you for the sex. Okay, whatever. Whatever gave you
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  Speaker 9: the idea that you were in a relationship with this guy. Yes,
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  Speaker 9: you knew him in high school, but like you said,
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  Speaker 9: that was nineteen years ago. All you have in common now,
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  Speaker 9: besides the sex, is that you're both divorced. He's single
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  Speaker 9: and ready to mingle, but he's not thinking about settling
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  Speaker 9: down with you, and he's more serious about the other
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  Speaker 9: woman because they're kissing and making eye contact and stuff.
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  Speaker 9: And you heard him say that turned him on, But
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  Speaker 9: it wasn't like that with you, He said, you're the
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  Speaker 9: best woman he ever had sex with.
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  Speaker 1: That's it.
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  Speaker 9: So you have the wrong idea about this guy. No,
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  Speaker 9: he's not ready to settle down. I'll say that again.
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  Speaker 9: You should get out well while you can if you're
• 57:36
  Speaker 9: looking for something more serious, because he's not serious about you,
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  Speaker 9: and if you tell him what you heard, So what
• 57:43
  Speaker 9: I mean, what difference is that gonna make Steve?
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  Speaker 2: Some of these dudes. I can't help, y'all, brus y'all,
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  Speaker 2: just man. I don't know if you don't care, I
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: don't know if you don't know how to be careful.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you understand all of the powers
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  Speaker 2: that women have. Let me start by saying, one of
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  Speaker 2: the major powers that all women have that's exceptional is hearing.
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  Speaker 2: They ask can hear. I don't know why God gave
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  Speaker 2: it to them like that, but they have dog hearing,
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  Speaker 2: A key in the back, no, downstairs, in the basement,
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: a dog here at she hid. Women have exceptional hearing.
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  Speaker 2: You in the bathrooms on your phone, talking low, not
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: low enough? All right. I'm in a long distance relationship
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  Speaker 2: with a guy that I dated in high school. We
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: both married other people. We got divorced, so last fall
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: we decided to give dating a try again. But he
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: lives almost three hours away, so I don't get to
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: see him as much as I like to. Now in
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  Speaker 2: this we don't know how long you've been seeing him.
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  Speaker 2: But he came to see you over the weekend. And
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  Speaker 2: this is your first time having sex in nineteen years.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm assume y'all thirty seven, eighteen year old high
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  Speaker 2: school leave. I'm assuming y'all around thirty seven, so, and
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  Speaker 2: he lives three hours away. So how did you all
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: find each other? Was this on Facebook? Have y'all always
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: stayed in touch? See, I don't know none of this.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: It is our first time having sex in nineteen years.
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: I was so ready for it. He got in Thursday.
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  Speaker 2: I went to his hotel room after work. I took
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  Speaker 2: a shower. He put it on me like he promised.
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  Speaker 2: Come through, boy, come through, Come through. Be able to
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: deliver on your promises. Do the rule of manhood. I
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 2: teach at the Mintory campus. Do what you say you
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: gonna do. That is the number one rule of manhood.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: If you can master that rule right there, you will
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: have the respect of your peers, You will have respect
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: of your coworkers. You will have respect of your children.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: You will have the respect of your mate, You will
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: have the respect of your employers. Anybody. All you gotta
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: do is a man do like you say you're gonna do.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: He said, you're gonna put it on him. He came
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: in here and get to us that he waxed that
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: car till it shine. We come back, Steve, tell you
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: what all that car wax and got you.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 9: Hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 9: up at twenty three minutes after the our today's strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 9: Subject he described a different experience. We'll get it back
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  Speaker 9: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 9: The subject is he described a different experience.
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  Speaker 2: Woman in a longest relationship with a guy that she
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  Speaker 2: dated in high school. Has been nineteen years. They hooked
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  Speaker 2: up somehow they started seeing each other again. He lived
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  Speaker 2: three hours away, but he came up over the weekend
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  Speaker 2: to see her, and it was our first time having
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  Speaker 2: sex in nineteen years. She came over after work, took
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  Speaker 2: a shower, got into bed, and he put it on
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  Speaker 2: her jest, like he promised it was a complete and
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: total waxing. The car is shined and polished. Now the
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: car is shining. He kept on saying that he had
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: been waiting for this moment for years, and he said,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: I am, by far, the best woman he ever had
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: sex with. We need to keep this line in mind.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: This is very important, by far the best woman I
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: ever had sex with. We went for round two. I
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  Speaker 2: went to work the next day. I've been twisted. I
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: could barely make it through the day without flashbacks. She said.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: I got he had. I had been twisted and turned
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: in the best way. And this boy you got flipped.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: This boy was in here doing pancakes and it worked.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: I went straight to the room after I got off.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: I was surprised that his bed wasn't made and he
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: was still in it. I was expecting most sex, but
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: he said he was still tied from the night before.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: So we did an all exchange. That put me to sleep.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: I woke up to wrap my hair. Here we go.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: That's how you know you gotta get up and wrap
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: your hair. Gotta get that hair wrapped or else. Because
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: he come out of that bathroom, he ain't gonna know
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: who you are. So you gotta get that hair wrapped.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: And I overheard him in the bathroom on the phone talking.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why men don't understand this gift that
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: women have. Why are you in the bathroom talking women?
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: All women have an incredible gift. What is that gift?
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: It is called the gift of hearing. They can hear
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: any damn thing that's about them being said anywhere. Your
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: ass could have been in the parking lot, in your
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: car with the windows roll up, in the radio on,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: if you was talking about her, her ass would have
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  Speaker 2: heard it. I'm telling you they have dog ass hearing.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: German shepherd here, I don't know what you thought. He
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: was talking low. He was describing a sexual encounter he
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: had earlier that day. Well, that's why he was acting
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: like he was in the bed when you got there,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: because he realized he had tossed the bed up. Now
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: he got to get in and act like he wasn't
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: doing nothing. He was describing it, but it definitely wasn't me.
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  Speaker 2: He said he had kisses that he said the kisses
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  Speaker 2: turned him on and it was hard for him beinim
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  Speaker 2: without kissing the central tuck. He ain't kiss me in
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  Speaker 2: the mouth at all, we see why you ain't won't
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: get kissed. You just said in the letter what type
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 2: exchange y'all had. Now, if you want mouth kissing, you
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: got to start talking. Speak up. You wasn't interested in
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: the mouth kiss minute ago. Now all of a sudden
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: he here mouth kissing this other girl. Now you won't
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: be mouth kissed too. That ain't what you said in
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  Speaker 2: your letter. Y'all had a different type of exchange. You
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: want mouth kiss it, you're gonna have to speak up.
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  Speaker 1: We got it, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, and sensual touch. He didn't kiss me
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: in the mouth at all. He also said he kept
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: eye contact with whoever he was intimate, and I never
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: we never locked eyes. He was in there describing a
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: different experience that we had. Should I assume he's not
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: ready to settle down? He ain't settled down? What the
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: hell are you fittingh soon? He just had somebody over
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: at the room. But let me go back. This is
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: what he said in the letter. He said, you are
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: by far the best woman he ever had sex with.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: Well not by far. So now he got to test it, now,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: don't he He said by far? That means till now,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: So after you left, he called somebody over. But now
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: this is odd what you need to be because he
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: got to see if he got to make sure he
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: wasn't lying. Now and now hit the other part. He
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: came up for the week end to see you. How
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: did he end up with the other chit? So it
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: ain't just you just three hours away because he came
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: up to a hotel room with you. Now you find
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: out another woman was in there. So how many people
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: are three hours away? So you got competition in town?
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: Should I assume he's not ready to settle down? He
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: ain't settled down, and it ain't nothing you can say
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: to him, because guess what, y'all ain't got no clarity
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: on what your relationship is. Now, can I tell him
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: what I heard? Might as well? Why not tell him
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: what you heard and see what that changed? So what, yeah,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: tell him what you heard? I heard you in that
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: talking about looking at this woman in the eyes and
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: y'allys kissing. You know what he gonna tell you, you
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: ain't kiss me crazy And then and then you're gonna
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: say you ain't looking me in your idea. You know
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: you're gonna say every time I looked at you, your
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: eyes in the back of your head, but your pupils
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: was in the back of your head. I saw the
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: whites of your eyes. Now, if you want to make
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 2: eye contact, you got to look at me when I'm
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: looking at you.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: Looking at the whites are kind of scary.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: And I do like kissing, but you didn't seem to
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: care for that. So now here we are, there's nothing
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: except you want to know. Was should I assume he's
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: not ready to settle down? He's not settled down. You
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: don't have to assume that he's not settled down. He
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: didn't tell you he was settled down either. He just
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: said he'd been thinking about this for nineteen years. Yeah, yeah, okay,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: tell that I did it. Can I tell him what
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: I heard? You can?
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: They've just been seeing each other since the fall. They
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: just got divorced in the fall.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Oh you know what I'm saying.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you wonder how long they were dating.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know if you've been up there to
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: see him, but it seemed like the first time.
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  Speaker 9: Well, yeah, definitely the first time.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: Because you hadn't been intimate in nineteen years with him,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: but he ain't been You ain't been intimate with him,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: but he been intimate, and he been intimate with that
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: other girl that's three hours away too, yep, on the
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: same day.
• 1:07:29
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  Speaker 1: Right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening hard Morning show, and it's time now for
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  Speaker 1: What you got Junior?
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  Speaker 7: All right, Charlotte, But first, let me just tell everybody
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  Speaker 7: the June twenty ninth Gateway Arena, Atlanta, Georgia, come see
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  Speaker 2: Can I say something, Michael Cary is the best joke
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  Speaker 2: teller I've ever heard, man, Michael John Tayler, I've ever
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: heard nobody tells a joke better than Michael car Wow.
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  Speaker 7: How long you been know Michael Carlo since ninety Yeah? Wow,
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  Speaker 7: it's a long time.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: Man. Y'all started together right about the same time you
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 2: started before. Michael. When I first saw him, he was
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: on Venice Beach. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. When I
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: first saw Michael Cary, he was on Vesics Beach. He
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: was killing then. He's the most theatrical dude I've ever see,
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  Speaker 7: All right, I'm gonna get into it, man. Game three tonight,
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 7: Game three tonight. Do you feel this final is missing something?
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 7: Up Boston leading to zero? Do you feel like Dallas
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 7: is here for this or you feel like this Boston
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 7: just too dominant?
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 6: Oh?
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: You asking me that I thought it was missing something.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Yeah, Cavaliers.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 6: Team choice.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: There's that.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 7: It's that, and it's just the fact that it just
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 7: seems like Boston just the more dominant team, the more
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: aggressive team.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: So far they winning, so what. Yeah, you can't say
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: nothing about them right now. But I know Dallas got
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 2: to win two at home or else. This is a rap.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: This is a rap because Game three is tonight is
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: in Dallas, so us Yeah, it is up to and
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: this is a must win This is a must win
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: for Dallas. Dallas has to win tonight, period. They have
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: to win tonight. Come on, Mavericks. Yeah, now we don't
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 2: win to night for the Mavericks, we pull it for you.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 7: If you don't win tonight, we just gonna ahead, go
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 7: ahead and just don't be down to his corn hole tossing.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: Let's get the corn hole the final. If they don't
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: win the night, it's down three. Oh, there's no way
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: you've come back on. Nobody's come back from that. But
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: you're not gonna come back.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 5: No.
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  Speaker 7: And then the other sports news, did you see what
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 7: happened to the Lakers head coaching search? Dan Hurley for
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 7: the head coach of Yukon? Turn down the Lakers man
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 7: turn him down. He's gonna stay at Yukon. Seventy million
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 7: six years was the offer.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad he turned it down. But see, you
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: gotta look, the cost of living in la is high.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: The taxes in La is high. Connecticut, the taxes is different.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: Cost of living is different. And then you got two championships.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 2: You can coach these kids or you can go out
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: here and mess with Lebron and Ad and all the attitudes.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: No man, I'd have stayed up there in Yukon, have
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: myself a good life and make money. And they that
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: thirty two million they fin to raise that. Trust me, yeah,
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: trust me. He didn't stay. He didn't turned down seventy
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: for thirty two because I was about to say, show
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: and them what have see. That's not why he's staying.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: It's a different reason. We know why. Now. You can't
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: got money. They got all this nil money for these kids.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now what they then gave his coach.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know what the real number is yet, but
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: when it come out, it ain't thirty two no more. Right,
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: all right?
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  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, a husband
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 9: needs some advice. His wife got a new booty and
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 9: she can't stand being the center of attention. We'll talk
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 9: about it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show, all right, So Steve, this one is from
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  Speaker 9: Rich and Little Rock. Rich says, my wife teaches seventh
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  Speaker 9: grade math, and she recently had surgery to round out
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  Speaker 9: her hips and give her a little more booty. She
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 9: returned to work, but things didn't go well because her
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  Speaker 9: white coworkers asked a lot of questions. I told her
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  Speaker 9: to admit that she had surgery and move on. The
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  Speaker 9: day after that, there was a big bouquet of flowers
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 9: at her desk with a card that said they were
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 9: all glad her surgery went well. She called me upset
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 9: and crying. Now my question is, why would she go
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 9: get a bigger booty if she can't stand the attention?
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  Speaker 1: Help me out here.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's a woman, though, if you will meet it,
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  Speaker 2: have an answer for that. We're talking about a woman.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what are you saying.
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  Speaker 2: I have no idea why she cried now, I ain't
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: got her flowers. Yeah, glad the surgery went well. It
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  Speaker 2: looks wonderful. We know of it. You know, got a
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: bouquet of flowers. You know, white people. It just it's
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: amazing they getting it too. Look if you look on Instagram,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: they all getting it now. I remember when they used
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: to talk about black women. She got that bubble butt.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: Un everybody won't that. Yeah yeah, all these white girls
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: on Instagram turning around showing you their button, all of
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: them now they want the bubble butt. We been wanting
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: the bubble but the bubble butt has been in since
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: the parties. Cab Callaway now was looking at bubble Butts
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: back then, Duke Ellington. Alla, so it's it's nothing new,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: you know. I think what happened was the Kardashian craze
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: came along. Kim Tardashian, who took that look from them. Girl,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: you know, she took that look from them. They took them.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: All that boatox in the lips, they took that from them, yea,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: all that all that tanning, they took that from Black
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: women have been the epitome for so long. Yes, for
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: so long they have been the bitch mall. Oh, didn't
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: nobody want to admit it. Didn't nobody want to admit it.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: But black women have been the benchmark for beauty for
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: a long time because they are the lisen to me,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: there are some gorgeous white women. I'm not excluding Latinos
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: from this group at all, because I'm not. I'm not
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: excluding no Latino from this black group at all. But
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: I am telling you women of color have been the
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: benchmark for beauty for a long time. They just wouldn't
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: admit it. They kept trying to make everybody else the benchmark.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: Black women and women of color have been the benchmark.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: They've always had the booty they've always had breasts, they've
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: always had the lips. They call it the exotic look. Oh,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: it's just they women of color, curves.
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: Baby body, ideaity, that's what it is.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: Now everybody wonted welcome to what we've always known. There
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: are gorgeous white women in this world. There are gorgeous
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: Russian women, Holish women, Italian women, French with gorgeous women
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: all around the world. That's not what I'm saying. The
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: benchmark we got right now, it comes from them sisters. Yes,
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: in that sun causing them, sisters, you're getting them both
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: tox in them full lips and drawing the outline and
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: your lipstick all on the top of your lips. That's
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: for them, sisters. Kim kar dashing. That looked from them sisters.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: That's credit. That's where it comes from. They've been to
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: benchmark comes out. They want our rhythm, but not our blues.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 7: Yes, and you know what I know, you know about
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: how beautiful women are around the world, cause you know,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 7: we worked at Miss Universe, at Miss I saw it.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: At Miss Universe. Oh my god, Universe up. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: because it all around the world, you know, Junior, But
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: you know you raised your hand, You wouldn't this, No,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: I just saw this beautiful wind already.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 7: World of just is you think about what you say
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 7: about what I saw, what I said.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: after this.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: Take your head off.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 9: If you've ever wondered how much a social media influencer
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 9: can earn annually, here's who earned twenty twenty three's top spot.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Hopper.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 9: This is a social media marketing platform determined that Kevin
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 9: Hart earned more than twenty eight twenty eight million dollars
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 9: in twenty twenty three, followed by Kylie Jenner, Chloe Kardashian,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 9: and Mark Wahlberg, who fall within the fifteen and a
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 9: half to seventeen million dollar range. Other top earners are
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 9: artists and athletes like card b j Lo, Lebron, Steph
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 9: Curry and The Rock, who bring in between six and
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 9: ten million. Then there's DJ Khaled, Paris, Hilton Shack, and
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 9: Kim Kardashian who bring in a few million annually.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: So here's a question. Here's a question, Steve. Think about this.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 9: Guys, do you think social media ads will someday make
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 9: TV ads non existence?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: It's not no one day. It's happening now. Television has changed, y'all.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: A hitch show used to be a seven point oh
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: a hit show TV show now is a point seven. Wow.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: If you get a point seven in prime time, they
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: happy to have you. It used to be seven point
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: oh to hit the mark. Now it's a point seven.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: Everything is shifted. Everybody has to have Look, that's why
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: all the tvnetworks have a dot com, CNN, dot com,
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: ABC thing, streaming apps, streaming, that's why because people don't
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: even watch TV like they used to. Normal people watch
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: you get on their phone.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 9: Yeah, all right, guys, we'll have more of the Steve
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 9: the hour, we will play around.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this? You're listening hard morning show?
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: It it's time now for a round. Would you rather?
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather a head full of course hair, a
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 9: head full of coarse hair, or a back full of
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 9: silky fine hair?
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: Which one?
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: Let's well, let's talk about one. Who who's junior? Why? Why?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 8: Why?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: Mean?
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: You were trying to hang on me and Tommy. We
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: don't let out so we can go way hang on? Well,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 2: well then I'm gonna go with the full of course hair.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Then I just had course hair.
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: You're a haad full of course hair. Yeah, course hair.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, no, it ain't that.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: It's the full part I'm talking about. That's what you
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: because it is half a head you got working right now,
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: my head.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: That's not true.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 7: See people be seeting me like why why Steve be
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 7: talking about your head on and they don't.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 6: See what you be.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, take your head off you if you would right
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: now to take the hand if you would, so we
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 2: can prove a point. Okay, and the handset now not
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: not keep the head set off to No, no, you
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: leave the hand set off because that's what it had.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: Let me let me see wonder.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, stay right there, ju Let me ask you all something.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you something. Before his the strap over
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: the top of his head said, Scott, did you see
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: any hair right now?
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 7: No?
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: Come closer. The light.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 6: Is the light?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I told you it's there.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: It's not right there right, stay right there because we
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: do see hair. Now turn sideway.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: Gone again.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: Lord, you gotta you gotta carry a light with you
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 2: where you go.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: You gotta just carry a life hat.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: You know, get a flash like Sureley, this next question, I'm.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, all right, light, I'm with you.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 9: Would you rather a big corn on both of your
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 9: baby toes, a big old corn? Or would you rather
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 9: a big bunion on both your feet? Which ones were going?
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 9: With corns or bunions?
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you well that corn. I've never had
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 2: a bunion that corner or breaking. I don't know.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 8: I heard that tiny token where you're at though I
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 8: heard it. That's that's what a corn is.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: That that's what that's what he's saying.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: He's agreed. I used to wear size eleven and a
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: half more regators, and boy, let me tell you something
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 2: I couldn't. That's when I I don't know why I
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 2: would buy eleven of half when back then I was clear,
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 2: I was twelve, and I don't know why I was
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 2: doing that. I just didn't know. I didn't know the
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: growth pattern. I bought a series of them at eleven
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: and a half. And lord Jesus, let me tell you something.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: May you ever been standing somewhere uh huh and your
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: knees buffle, you know, just for no reason. So when
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: I see women take their shoes off, I could relate
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: because I couldn't take mine off.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: They stuck.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: I had to wear mine, all right.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 9: Last one, Would you rather be happily married, happily married
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 9: but broke, or would you rather be wealthy but with
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 9: your ex?
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: Huh? That's poll all over again. I I'm not saying
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: sending me up shirt. I'm married. I'm not doing the
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: XT thing, and I don't give it. Tell you what
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: I could start over with Marjorie, me and her, we
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 2: could build it back up. I'm not going. I ain't
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: doing the X thing.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 9: That's all right, coming up next, last break of the day,
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 9: and we'll close out the show with the one and only.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening Morning show.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 9: All right, guys, here we are last break of the
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 9: day on this Wednesday, Homp day.
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: It's been a good day.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, hey, you know what I have closing remarks today.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, thanks to Nick Young.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, I want to thank Nick Young
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: for calling in. Are the mentoring camps this week? The
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: boys come in today are two hundred and fifty boys
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: from around the country. I want to think of all
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: our sponsors. I want to think. I can't think of them,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: all right, now, so don't let me start. But you
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: know who you are. I have a better list when
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: I want to do it, mentoring works, mentoring changes lives.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: I want to talk to you about though becoming successful.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: You know I'm a faith based person, so I always
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: I always turn to faith when I talk about success.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: I always talk about God's grace and mercy. I always
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: talk about prayer, always talk about faith, always talk about
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: the element of God that will never ever change in me.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 2: But I'm gonna add something to that today. I'm gonna
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: talk to you about the component that you have to have.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 2: And it's several things that you have to develop. But
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now, your effort has a
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 2: lot to do with it. You can pray all you want,
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: you can believe all you want, you can faith about
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 2: it all you want, but faith with our works is dead.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: And that work you got to put in is called effort.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 2: You cannot overlook the effort. You can read all the
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: scriptures you want, but if you ain't gonna do the work,
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: it ain't gonn happen for you. Man, the Bible is clear.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: Faith without works is dead. I am telling you, if
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: you have any any any thought any concept, any desire
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: to be successful on whatever level you choose to call that.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: It don't make me no difference. If you want to
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: be successful, let me tell you something. It is going
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: to require a massive, massive effort. Don't you think for
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 2: one minute that you can just walk through the door,
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 2: that it just swings open like you in a saloon
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: in a movie. Man, Them doors got bricks behind it.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 2: Them doors got throwings on it, They got nails on it.
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 2: Them doors is broken. Them doors fall on you. Sometimes,
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: them doors lock in your face. It's hard, man, It
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 2: is hard. It is going to take the greatest effort
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 2: you have. You know what amazes how people they find
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: people successful and they start talking about how lucky they are.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: Do you know what lucky is? Luck is when hard
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: work runs up into opportunity. That's what lucky is. And
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 2: luck is how people describe other people's success. You ask
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: somebody who's really successful and find out how lucky they
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 2: thought they were to get that. No, sir, luck is
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 2: when hard work bumps up into opportunity. I can't tell
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 2: you how many times people have told me I was lucky.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 2: I sat there and I listened to them, But lucky, No, blessed. Yeah,
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: lucky no, favorite, yes, lucky No. I have worked my
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 2: tail off. I have put in the work. I am
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 2: telling you I've put it in. Now. Once again, I'm
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 2: not saying this without faith, without favor, without grace, without mercy,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 2: without prayer. I am not saying this without that. I've
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: done all that. But the added component is I showed up.
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: I showed up. God can't show out for you if
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 2: you don't show up. If you want to see him
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: show out, you got to show up. God can't put
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: his finger on it to bless it if you ain't
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: got it stuck out there. You got to put out
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: an effort. Y'all, stop complaining about how hard it is,
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 2: because it's gonna be hard. And I got news for you.
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 2: It only gets more difficult. Life only gets more difficult
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: and more challenging. You know what happens though, We just
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 2: get better at the challenges and the setbacks. We just
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 2: get better at handling it. I was talking to a
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: young man yesterday who had a major problem in his life.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: He was just telling it to me. When he got through,
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: he said, you, why are you just sitting there all calm?
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: I said, because I've seen this one before I've seen
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: it and done that because you thirty two and I'm
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 2: sixty seven, and what you explaining to me, it don't
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: even really sound to me. Oh, mister Harvey, how can
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: you say that this is a major problem? I said,
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: I got that. It's a major problem to you right
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: now with your coping skills. But I've coped with that
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 2: on a greater level. So now I'm gonna give you
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: the answer to it. You mean to tell me if
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 2: I just walk away and quit worrying about it, that's
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: all I got to do. Yeah, Because let me tell
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: you something. If you staying there worrying about it, what
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 2: does that change? What has worried ever accomplished? What has
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: worried ever accomplished? Man? But I feel so much anxiety
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: about this. You know what anxiety is. Anxiety is concerning
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: yourself about tomorrow, which you have no control over. More
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 2: people suffer from anxiety because they concerning theyself with something
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: that might happen tomorrow. And you don't even know what
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 2: tomorrow gonna bring, So you're tripping yourself out. I say, hey, man,
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 2: stop worrying about that and going about your business. Leave
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 2: it alone. What you mean, leave it alone. What can
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: you do to change it? You are telling me something
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 2: that somebody else is doing, and you can't change another person.
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: So I'm telling you walk away from it and leave
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: it alone. And the moment they see that you ain't
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: concerned about it or move by it, they gonna quit
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: rocking your boat. See, people like to rock your boat.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: When they look up in there and they see you
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 2: shaking and holding on, you can rock my boat all
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 2: you on. I ain't got nothing for you. I give
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 2: you none of my light.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: I don't care who you are when you come for me.
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 2: And that's another thing. That's why I can't leave prayer
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 2: out of this. When you come for me, I must
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 2: warn you. You must be careful. You got to be
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 2: careful how you handle me. I'm on a mission from God.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 2: I'm on an assignment from God. You got to be
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 2: careful with people that's on assignment. Man. You don't know
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: who these people are. You running up on people you
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: don't know who God then put on assignment. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: be careful. Man. The Bible says, touch not my anointed.
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  Speaker 2: You don't know who they are. You see you keep
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  Speaker 2: on people like that, man, and then you wonder why
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  Speaker 2: your life is topsy turvy and flipped all up down.
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  Speaker 2: You got to be careful how you handle me, because
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  Speaker 2: I got a relationship with God Isaiah fifty four seventeen.
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  Speaker 2: I no weapon, formed A gives me your prospert and
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  Speaker 2: you don't say it wasn't gonna get formed. You just
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  Speaker 2: say it ain't gonna prosper. You form them on me
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  Speaker 2: all day. But you gotta watch yourself. Be careful. Touch
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  Speaker 2: not my anointed. Have yourself a good day, stay anointed.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to God. He'd love to hear from me. Appreciate it.
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