Latest / The Steve Harvey Morning Show / ESPN "First Take" host Stephen A. Smith discusses building your brand and how not to fall victim to success.
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations.
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- 0:29Speaker 3: Here we go. Hi, I'm Rashan McDonald.
- 0:32Speaker 4: My hosts the weekly Money Making Conversation Masterclass show. The
- 0:36Speaker 4: interviews and information that this show provides are for everyone.
- 0:40Speaker 4: It's time to stop reading other people's success stories and
- 0:42Speaker 4: start living your own.
- 0:44Speaker 3: My next guest is Steven A. Smith. In the last
- 0:47Speaker 3: five years, Steven A.
- 0:48Speaker 4: Smith has become one of the most powerful media voices
- 0:51Speaker 4: and sports commentary. He's also a popular actor on General Hospital.
- 0:55Speaker 4: He's a social media influencer, podcasting YouTuber, influencer, producer, the
- 1:01Speaker 4: host executive producer of the number one sports morning show
- 1:04Speaker 4: on TV, First Take, and The New York Times best
- 1:07Speaker 4: selling the author. We have a lot to talk about,
- 1:09Speaker 4: so please welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass Show.
- 1:13Speaker 3: Steven A. Smith. How you doing, my brother?
- 1:16Speaker 1: What's going on?
- 1:17Speaker 3: Man?
- 1:17Speaker 1: How are you? How's everything? Man?
- 1:18Speaker 2: Excuse me for these big headphones that I have on
- 1:21Speaker 2: a mind. You know they're heavy, but you know, at
- 1:23Speaker 2: least it's the only way I can hear you. It's
- 1:24Speaker 2: the only way I can hear you. I appreciate them
- 1:26Speaker 2: having these headphones for you.
- 1:28Speaker 4: Well, I appreciate it taking you, taking the time, because
- 1:30Speaker 4: I know West coast, East coast where you at.
- 1:32Speaker 2: I'm in LA right now, just taking care of some
- 1:34Speaker 2: business out here at the film, some scenes for General Hospital.
- 1:37Speaker 2: Plus I've got some individual business ventures I've been working
- 1:40Speaker 2: on as well.
- 1:41Speaker 4: So right, so we share Emmy award winning General Hospital huh.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Yeah, they wont about seven. That means I mean I
- 1:47Speaker 2: didn't want I didn't win one individually. I mean I'm
- 1:50Speaker 2: not on that level. I just make guest appearances. My
- 1:53Speaker 2: character's name is Brick. I'm a surveillance expert for the Mob,
- 1:57Speaker 2: but I come in and out. I'm not a regular
- 1:59Speaker 2: everyday cast member. So because of that, I wasn't I
- 2:02Speaker 2: wasn't able to apply for any of those categories to
- 2:07Speaker 2: win an Emmy, but who knows, one day I might.
- 2:11Speaker 3: Okay, Stephen a Sports Sports Sports.
- 2:14Speaker 4: You're a regular, you know, recurring actor on General Hospital.
- 2:18Speaker 3: How did you become a General Hospital fan?
- 2:22Speaker 2: Well, I've been a General Hospital fan since I was
- 2:24Speaker 2: a kid growing up with four older sisters and my
- 2:28Speaker 2: late brother, and we'd come home from school and you know,
- 2:32Speaker 2: we only had two TVs in the house, and if
- 2:35Speaker 2: you wanted to watch TV, it was on General Hospital.
- 2:38Speaker 2: It was either that or do your homework. And none
- 2:40Speaker 2: of us wanted to do homework after we had just
- 2:42Speaker 2: spent seven eight hours in school. So because of that,
- 2:45Speaker 2: we were like, hell with that, We'll watch General Hospital.
- 2:48Speaker 2: And I've been watching General Hospital since I was like
- 2:51Speaker 2: seven eight years old and I've never stopped since.
- 2:54Speaker 4: Wow, So that's kind of like a can we say
- 2:56Speaker 4: a childhood dream come true to be a regular?
- 3:00Speaker 2: I think so, because I mean I love the soap.
- 3:02Speaker 2: I've grown to love it throughout the years. Of One
- 3:05Speaker 2: of my pet peeves whenever I'm working is if somebody
- 3:08Speaker 2: bothers me between three and four pm, he's to standard time.
- 3:11Speaker 2: They better have a damn good reason for interrupting because
- 3:14Speaker 2: they know I watch a general hospital, so if they
- 3:16Speaker 2: bothering me, it's gonna be a problem. So in that
- 3:19Speaker 2: regard to grow up watching it and some of these characters,
- 3:22Speaker 2: like the start the show has been on the show
- 3:24Speaker 2: for nearly thirty years, and the go from watching him
- 3:27Speaker 2: and being a fan of his to literally working with him.
- 3:30Speaker 1: It's just an.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Extreme, extreme honor that I can't I really really can't
- 3:35Speaker 2: put into words. It really is fascinating for me to
- 3:38Speaker 2: jump in there. And then not only that it's helped
- 3:40Speaker 2: me develop the acting bug because I didn't ask for it.
- 3:43Speaker 1: I just want to make an appearance.
- 3:45Speaker 2: And executive producer Frank Valentini, who won obviously an Emmy,
- 3:49Speaker 2: and then you've got Maurice Bernard to start the show,
- 3:51Speaker 2: instantly said do you have time to do this? We
- 3:53Speaker 2: want to make this a recurring role for you. After
- 3:55Speaker 2: I made one appearance for them, and I've been on
- 3:57Speaker 2: the show now for seven years, and wow, they believe
- 4:00Speaker 2: I can act, and they believe that I should dedicate
- 4:03Speaker 2: more time to acting. The one thing that I will
- 4:06Speaker 2: acknowledge and will admit that I've become very, very fascinated
- 4:09Speaker 2: about with acting, you know it, but to actually perform
- 4:13Speaker 2: the craft and do it, you really, it really really
- 4:15Speaker 2: hits home for you. I love the fact that you're
- 4:17Speaker 2: allowed to be whatever the character allows. It's like, we
- 4:21Speaker 2: say that and we know that's the case looking at
- 4:24Speaker 2: what they do when they're working. But to actually be
- 4:28Speaker 2: on the job, having to perform and to be somebody
- 4:32Speaker 2: else at a particular moment in time, it's hard to
- 4:37Speaker 2: put in the words the feeling that you get when.
- 4:39Speaker 1: You pull that off. To pull it off like that
- 4:42Speaker 1: is something special.
- 4:43Speaker 4: Now, some people say that on first take, you plan
- 4:45Speaker 4: a character's steven A Smith, on first take steven A Smith,
- 4:50Speaker 4: or a commentary version of who you really are.
- 4:54Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's me. It's me.
- 4:56Speaker 2: You know when I'm on General Hospital, I'm acting, I'm
- 4:58Speaker 2: really acting. I'm on first take. All I'm doing is
- 5:03Speaker 2: showing different facets of my personality, right like you know,
- 5:06Speaker 2: I know sports, and you know on first take you
- 5:10Speaker 2: want to be informed. You want to articulate your positions.
- 5:15Speaker 2: You want to show the range that you have in
- 5:17Speaker 2: terms of being serious one minute, comical the next, et cetera,
- 5:21Speaker 2: et cetera. That's me that's who I am according to
- 5:25Speaker 2: my sisters. That's who I am according to my fifteen
- 5:27Speaker 2: nieces and nephews. It's who I was to my wonderful
- 5:31Speaker 2: mother who passed away in twenty seventeen, God rest her soul,
- 5:34Speaker 2: and my father passed away in twenty eighteen. I mean,
- 5:37Speaker 2: those those are the things that they know, what they've
- 5:39Speaker 2: always known about me. The facets of my personality, the
- 5:43Speaker 2: multitude of personalities that I have is what people see
- 5:49Speaker 2: on first take.
- 5:51Speaker 3: Right, here's up the interesting Stevid Amy watching your TV.
- 5:57Speaker 4: There's a love, there's a passion that drives I'm sure,
- 6:01Speaker 4: what did you think your biggest asset, your voyage, your
- 6:05Speaker 4: intellect or your passion?
- 6:08Speaker 1: I can't separate the three.
- 6:13Speaker 2: The aspiration, the desire to have a voice can't come
- 6:21Speaker 2: from not knowing anything. You have to be informed. When
- 6:25Speaker 2: you're informed, you have to have a passion and a
- 6:30Speaker 2: desire to express yourself to the masters. And the only
- 6:35Speaker 2: reason you should want to do that is because you
- 6:38Speaker 2: want to have an impact and you want to make
- 6:40Speaker 2: a difference. I'm executive producing and co producing as a
- 6:44Speaker 2: production company a documentaries called Up for Debate that's going
- 6:50Speaker 2: to be coming out probably around February or so, in
- 6:54Speaker 2: concert with Religion of Sports doing that.
- 6:57Speaker 1: What do I say in there? I talk about in
- 7:00Speaker 1: a voice.
- 7:01Speaker 2: Tinkering and touching and leaning towards that third rail and
- 7:04Speaker 2: making sure that you're positioning yourself to have an impact
- 7:09Speaker 2: and to make a difference of the people that I
- 7:11Speaker 2: have working with me and for me, people like yourself
- 7:14Speaker 2: or Sean McDonald, people like my guy Michael Anafree and
- 7:17Speaker 2: various others. It matters, you know, associating yourself with people
- 7:22Speaker 2: who share your vision, your passion, your zest, and a
- 7:27Speaker 2: willingness to be a voice. Knowing that puts you in
- 7:30Speaker 2: the lions. Then it puts you in the eye of
- 7:32Speaker 2: the proverbial storm. It's gonna make people come at you.
- 7:36Speaker 2: You got to be the kind of person that stands
- 7:38Speaker 2: up and says, Okay, I'm here for it. That's what
- 7:41Speaker 2: it is, That's what it's all about, and that's who
- 7:43Speaker 2: I am, and that's who I've always been, and that's
- 7:45Speaker 2: who I've always aspired to be. And that's why the
- 7:48Speaker 2: other day, when I was doing my show to Steven A.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Smith show, my podcast last show on YouTube, I ended
- 7:56Speaker 2: the show by paying tribute to Bryant gumble Right. Ryan
- 8:01Speaker 2: Gumbel is a pioneer. He's one of the greatest voices
- 8:05Speaker 2: and one of the greatest reputable journalists we've ever seen
- 8:09Speaker 2: in American history. And I felt it was compelled, considering
- 8:13Speaker 2: the years of excellence that he had put forth, that
- 8:17Speaker 2: I took time to recognize as a young black man,
- 8:21Speaker 2: what he meant to me, what he's meant to our people,
- 8:24Speaker 2: to our culture by tackling the issues that he's tackled
- 8:29Speaker 2: with the intellect, the knowledge, the substance, the passion that
- 8:33Speaker 2: comes with it. I owed that to him, and you know,
- 8:38Speaker 2: he reached back out to me and thanked me from
- 8:40Speaker 2: the bottom of his heart seeing what I said. And
- 8:43Speaker 2: I just said to him, what's to think? You know,
- 8:47Speaker 2: I should be thanking you. We all should. And that's
- 8:50Speaker 2: what I hope somebody, you know, a bunch of people
- 8:53Speaker 2: are able to look at me when my day comes
- 8:56Speaker 2: and able to say the same thing about me.
- 8:59Speaker 4: There's another person that inspires you. He's not with us.
- 9:03Speaker 4: His name's Howard Cosel. Yeah, he's a person that many
- 9:06Speaker 4: times in conversations with you, you said I wanted to
- 9:09Speaker 4: be Howard Cosel when you look at Brian Gumbel and
- 9:14Speaker 4: Howard Cosell, what are the similarities. We know he was
- 9:17Speaker 4: an African American Brian gumble But what was the inspiration
- 9:21Speaker 4: with Howard Cosel.
- 9:22Speaker 1: Well, Howard Cosell was a voice.
- 9:26Speaker 2: He was somebody who was incredibly opinionated, unapologetic about it,
- 9:30Speaker 2: and I think spawned and sparked debate television because no
- 9:35Speaker 2: matter what followed in the years to come, even though
- 9:38Speaker 2: he wasn't quote unquote debating, he was perceived as being
- 9:42Speaker 2: such a polarizing figure at time, a white Jewish individual
- 9:47Speaker 2: willing to stand by Muhammad Ali's side and say that
- 9:51Speaker 2: he had every right to want to be called Muhammad
- 9:54Speaker 2: Ali instead of cash Is Clay.
- 9:56Speaker 1: That's his name, That's what he wants to be called.
- 9:58Speaker 1: He deserves that respect.
- 10:00Speaker 2: It's not about what he did, it's about when he
- 10:03Speaker 2: did it, and when he did it is what crystallizes
- 10:06Speaker 2: the significance of what he did. And that is pointing
- 10:08Speaker 2: out that you got to be willing to stand up
- 10:10Speaker 2: in front of the storm and be willing to embrace
- 10:13Speaker 2: it and.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Absorb it because of what you believe is right.
- 10:17Speaker 2: That was Howard Cosell, and he was the one that
- 10:21Speaker 2: showed us the way because he was the first one
- 10:24Speaker 2: to do it, and they gave a license to him
- 10:27Speaker 2: to do it. He profited off of it because obviously
- 10:31Speaker 2: he was being paid handsomely to do it. And then
- 10:34Speaker 2: he turned around and in the aftermath of doing all
- 10:37Speaker 2: of that, ultimately ESPN came along. And when ESPN came along,
- 10:41Speaker 2: you know, you usually would have the mentality, you know what,
- 10:44Speaker 2: Howard Coosell could do that, but none of us could.
- 10:46Speaker 2: But then when he ESPN came along, you said, yes,
- 10:49Speaker 2: we could, because the platform was available for us to
- 10:52Speaker 2: do those things. So in Howard Coosell, I'll give him
- 10:55Speaker 2: all the credit in the world for that. With Brian Gumbel,
- 10:59Speaker 2: he does that too, and he should be revered for
- 11:02Speaker 2: it because he did it with such intellectual brilliance that
- 11:06Speaker 2: you just can't deny how special of a talent Brian
- 11:10Speaker 2: Gumbel was all of these years. The difference, however, is
- 11:13Speaker 2: that Brian Gumbel was a host.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Howard Cosell was not.
- 11:18Speaker 2: Howard Cosell was a pundit and he was a commentator,
- 11:21Speaker 2: and obviously he did some reporting. Briant Gumbel did it
- 11:25Speaker 2: all okay, plus he executive produced, plus he led, plus
- 11:31Speaker 2: he pioneered in so many different other ways, and as
- 11:34Speaker 2: a black man to be able to do that from
- 11:36Speaker 2: the seventies up until right now, it's astronomical and incomparable
- 11:41Speaker 2: in so many ways that I can't even begin to describe.
- 11:44Speaker 4: Wow, first tape, let's go back to first tape. Record numbers. Yeah,
- 11:50Speaker 4: I've read in the media over six hundred thousand. That's
- 11:54Speaker 4: an average, highest average in.
- 11:56Speaker 3: The history.
- 11:58Speaker 4: Pre COVID numbers history. You brought two individuals onto your show.
- 12:04Speaker 4: You're executive producer up. First take mad Dog Russo. Why
- 12:08Speaker 4: did you bring mad Dog Russo on your show?
- 12:11Speaker 2: Because I wanted white America to know that I don't
- 12:13Speaker 2: just care about what black people say alone. I want
- 12:17Speaker 2: to care about what everybody says, and I want to
- 12:18Speaker 2: care about everybody's perspective. It's not just about black, it's
- 12:22Speaker 2: not just about white. It's not just about young. It's
- 12:25Speaker 2: also about middle aged and older folks. It's not just
- 12:28Speaker 2: about males. It's about females too.
- 12:31Speaker 1: You know.
- 12:31Speaker 2: I want to have the kind of show that everybody
- 12:35Speaker 2: knows they're invited, that everybody knows that they're included.
- 12:39Speaker 1: I remember when I had my show, quite.
- 12:40Speaker 2: Frankly on ESPN two from two thousand and five to
- 12:43Speaker 2: two thousand and seven. When I reflect on that show,
- 12:46Speaker 2: which was on the air for eighteen months, three hundred
- 12:48Speaker 2: and twenty seven shows, where I interviewed about seven hundred
- 12:51Speaker 2: and eighty guests, what I reflect upon most was the
- 12:55Speaker 2: fact that there were some people who felt left out
- 13:00Speaker 2: that I wasn't including them in the show, that the
- 13:04Speaker 2: show was with somebody else. That's not what you're in
- 13:06Speaker 2: this business for, you know. My roots are rooted in journalism. Yes,
- 13:10Speaker 2: how I've evolved and I've become a personality and a pundit.
- 13:13Speaker 2: I was this general sports columnist, so that gave me
- 13:16Speaker 2: a license to open and editorialize and give my opinions.
- 13:19Speaker 2: But my base, my foundation, evolves around the tenets of journalism.
- 13:25Speaker 2: And when you think like a journalist, you don't think
- 13:30Speaker 2: for or towards a monolithic audience. You think about everyone.
- 13:35Speaker 2: You might want one community to hear you more so
- 13:39Speaker 2: than others, because your message on a day to day basis,
- 13:43Speaker 2: depending on the subject, may be aimed towards them, but
- 13:46Speaker 2: the message is not just for them, it's for everybody.
- 13:50Speaker 2: It might be about them, but it's not for just them.
- 13:54Speaker 2: It's for everybody. And so when I was, you know,
- 13:57Speaker 2: on first take, the first order of business was to
- 14:00Speaker 2: make sure that I showed all the multitude, you know,
- 14:03Speaker 2: the multiple facets of my personality, so I could be
- 14:06Speaker 2: inclusionary and come across as inclusionary in that regard, you know, people,
- 14:11Speaker 2: you know. I could be comedic, I could be serious,
- 14:15Speaker 2: I could be straightforward, I could deviate. I could be rambunctious, petulant, comical,
- 14:22Speaker 2: the list goes on and on. You just never know
- 14:24Speaker 2: with me, and I definitely wanted to do that, but
- 14:28Speaker 2: then when I became the executive producer, it was an
- 14:31Speaker 2: obligation to make sure the show represented that, not just me.
- 14:37Speaker 2: And so that's what I've gone about the business of
- 14:40Speaker 2: doing Mad Dog. Russo being added, Shannon Shop being added,
- 14:45Speaker 2: Ryan Clark, Marcus Spears already being there, Minachimes, Kimberly Martin.
- 14:51Speaker 2: Of course, my partner in crime, Molly carm who does
- 14:54Speaker 2: a sensational job. I have no desire to do the
- 14:56Speaker 2: show without her. I love her to death, even though
- 14:58Speaker 2: I would never tell her, don't echo, don't that. I
- 15:00Speaker 2: don't want her to know how much love I have
- 15:01Speaker 2: for her because her head is big enough, it'll just
- 15:03Speaker 2: get bigger. But she's she's she's absolutely wonderful. And you know,
- 15:08Speaker 2: and then you see people like Monica McNutt, J J. Reddick,
- 15:13Speaker 2: Jay Williams, Kendrick Perkins. Can't forget my big bro, Kendrick Perkins.
- 15:18Speaker 2: You know when you look at Brian winterhors now makes
- 15:21Speaker 2: major contributions to the show.
- 15:23Speaker 1: And I'm not finished.
- 15:24Speaker 2: I've got more parts and pieces that I intend to add,
- 15:28Speaker 2: things that I want to do, and as long as
- 15:31Speaker 2: I'm at ESPN and they give me the license to
- 15:33Speaker 2: do it, I'll do the best that I can.
- 15:35Speaker 1: I've been number one for.
- 15:35Speaker 2: Over twelve years, hopefully it'll be thirteen fourteen and beyond.
- 15:40Speaker 3: Cool.
- 15:42Speaker 4: When we talk about success and you're why, it's Stephen A.
- 15:46Speaker 3: Smith popular, I don't know.
- 15:52Speaker 1: I mean, I don't wake up thinking about popularity.
- 15:56Speaker 3: But you are popular.
- 15:58Speaker 1: Yes, I accept that you got.
- 16:00Speaker 2: Nearly fourteen million followers on social media and you got
- 16:03Speaker 2: a YouTube channel that's nearly reached four hundred and fifty
- 16:07Speaker 2: thousand subscribers and nine months. I guess that equates to
- 16:10Speaker 2: popularity in this day and age. Okay, so be it,
- 16:14Speaker 2: but I ain't for more. I'm just getting started, and
- 16:18Speaker 2: I don't wake up thinking about my popularity. I wake
- 16:22Speaker 2: up thinking about being successful and how can I put
- 16:27Speaker 2: my head down and put forth the work that's going
- 16:29Speaker 2: to ensure my success. I think the thing that any employer,
- 16:35Speaker 2: whether it be present or perspective, or future employers, or
- 16:40Speaker 2: whatever the case may be. I think the one thing
- 16:43Speaker 2: that people talk about how I work hard. Yes, they
- 16:48Speaker 2: don't understand the discipline I exercise. You do because you've
- 16:54Speaker 2: known me for over twenty years, but most people don't.
- 16:58Speaker 2: They don't understand how I think about.
- 17:03Speaker 1: The fruits of my labor. Person You know, you tell me.
- 17:07Speaker 2: One of the popular statements you make to me all
- 17:10Speaker 2: the time is I am you have never seen Because
- 17:13Speaker 2: you called me a superstar. I never felt that way.
- 17:16Speaker 2: But you say you've never seen a superstar like me.
- 17:18Speaker 2: You really really think you're ordinary. I drive myself ninety
- 17:22Speaker 2: five percent of the times instead of using car service.
- 17:25Speaker 2: I walk through airports, you know, ninety five percent of
- 17:29Speaker 2: the times instead of flying private. You know, I it
- 17:33Speaker 2: is nothing, nothing, You know this. It is nothing for
- 17:37Speaker 2: people to just turn around one day and to see
- 17:39Speaker 2: me standing in a white Castle for McDonald's. You know,
- 17:42Speaker 2: I'm not sending somebody in it for me. I usually
- 17:44Speaker 2: do it myself. I mean, I don't care, you know,
- 17:46Speaker 2: unless it's my man Juvie or Somatra.
- 17:48Speaker 1: I mean, I'm usually doing that. You know.
- 17:51Speaker 2: It's like people are shocked at how ordinary and you
- 17:55Speaker 2: to use your words regular I conduct myself, And it's
- 17:59Speaker 2: a very simple reason why I do.
- 18:01Speaker 1: That, because I don't think about all of that. I
- 18:04Speaker 1: think about the work.
- 18:07Speaker 2: I don't think about the success I intend to reap
- 18:10Speaker 2: from it. I expect that I expect to win. I
- 18:15Speaker 2: expect to be one of the best at whatever I
- 18:17Speaker 2: choose to do. I expect the rewards to be reaped
- 18:20Speaker 2: at some point. But it's not what I spend a
- 18:22Speaker 2: lot of time thinking about as it pertains to popularity
- 18:26Speaker 2: and what that ultimately can reap because in the end,
- 18:31Speaker 2: I believe, when you're married to the work.
- 18:35Speaker 1: It will speak for itself.
- 18:36Speaker 2: And the phrase that I used to use is when
- 18:39Speaker 2: Kevin Garnett got one hundred and twenty six million dollar
- 18:41Speaker 2: contractor you know, or Kobe Bryant got his money and
- 18:45Speaker 2: stuff like that, I said, these brothers are filthy rich,
- 18:51Speaker 2: and they play like this starving. I work like I'm starving.
- 18:57Speaker 2: I work every day, and so when I think about
- 19:00Speaker 2: people who want to go up against me, who think
- 19:02Speaker 2: they could do what I can do and think they
- 19:04Speaker 2: can enjoy the same level of success and all of
- 19:06Speaker 2: that stuff, the number one reason I'm so confident is
- 19:10Speaker 2: because I just find it hard to believe that most
- 19:13Speaker 2: people are going to match my work ethic and my
- 19:16Speaker 2: commitment to being great at what I do, no matter
- 19:20Speaker 2: how much money I'm making or not making.
- 19:23Speaker 4: Cool stealing a twenty eighteen you're the plan, and you
- 19:30Speaker 4: invited me into the heart of that path. You said, Raseean,
- 19:34Speaker 4: I'm putting together a dream team. And in twenty eighteen,
- 19:37Speaker 4: you didn't have a TikTok account. In twenty eighteen, you
- 19:41Speaker 4: didn't have a LinkedIn account. You still debating your Instagram account,
- 19:47Speaker 4: your Facebook and Twitter was your biggest account, which is
- 19:50Speaker 4: X now right, What was the plan, if you can
- 19:54Speaker 4: reveal to people with that plan was back then, because
- 19:58Speaker 4: we see it being played out right now with your popularity,
- 20:02Speaker 4: with your organic with your show that you just said
- 20:05Speaker 4: four hundred and fifty thousand subscribers in nine months.
- 20:09Speaker 3: Oh, in twenty eighteen, it started with your plan.
- 20:12Speaker 2: Well, I think the mistake that a lot of people
- 20:18Speaker 2: make is they focus on the money.
- 20:22Speaker 1: But not how you acquire it.
- 20:25Speaker 3: Right.
- 20:27Speaker 2: I working at ESPN on the number one show. In
- 20:34Speaker 2: total fairness to them, I'm paid a pretty handsome salary,
- 20:40Speaker 2: no question about it. But that was never going to
- 20:44Speaker 2: be enough for me and it never will be enough
- 20:47Speaker 2: for me because there I can honestly sit here and
- 20:52Speaker 2: tell you that, in my perfect world, if I could
- 20:56Speaker 2: work for ESPN and the walk Disney family for the
- 21:01Speaker 2: rest of my career, I would do it right, so
- 21:06Speaker 2: long as there's a separate part of my life that
- 21:11Speaker 2: has a level of independence that's completely not associated with
- 21:15Speaker 2: that right.
- 21:17Speaker 1: Because.
- 21:19Speaker 2: There's this itch that you get in life when you've
- 21:25Speaker 2: spent your life producing for others, and most people that
- 21:31Speaker 2: I know, that itch is what am I capable of
- 21:41Speaker 2: without those others. Denzel is a phenomenal actor, right, He's directed,
- 21:50Speaker 2: he's produced.
- 21:52Speaker 1: Why that doesn't that's not acting? Why you do those
- 21:55Speaker 1: other things?
- 21:57Speaker 2: Because he had a desire to branch out in the
- 21:59Speaker 2: city what he's capable of. Antoine Fuqua has become a
- 22:04Speaker 2: dear friend of mine.
- 22:05Speaker 1: He's not just a director, he's a producer.
- 22:09Speaker 2: You've seen comedians, you've seen actors, you've seen musicians, you've
- 22:15Speaker 2: seen journalists, pundits, even with the executives themselves.
- 22:20Speaker 1: Well, you at ESPN, while you leave, You're at Disney.
- 22:24Speaker 1: While you leave, you at Warner Brothers Discovery. What you
- 22:27Speaker 1: will ead, what you go for?
- 22:29Speaker 2: You know you're an agent, you're going out on you
- 22:31Speaker 2: and you're starting your own business. Why you weren't making
- 22:34Speaker 2: enough money? Of course you were making money, it wasn't enough.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Not that the money, the dollars weren't enough. But there's
- 22:42Speaker 2: this itch to feed yourself, to fuel yourself, to inspire
- 22:48Speaker 2: you to get up every day and to feel refreshed.
- 22:51Speaker 2: It's like go into a sauna and have the temperature
- 22:58Speaker 2: up at one hundred and fifty degrees and.
- 23:01Speaker 1: Then walk out in the ninety eight. You're gonna feel different.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Get in a cold plunge and sit there and freeze
- 23:08Speaker 2: for ten minutes, and then get up and expose yourself
- 23:13Speaker 2: to that same temperature and see how you're going to feel.
- 23:16Speaker 1: It's something different.
- 23:20Speaker 2: That fuels and inspires you to get up and reach
- 23:26Speaker 2: for more. And when you see when you wake up
- 23:30Speaker 2: one day and you have achieved a level of success,
- 23:35Speaker 2: and you see that you've done all that you can
- 23:39Speaker 2: do on this level, You're wondering, what's at this level,
- 23:43Speaker 2: what's at this level, what's here? What's there that's your itch?
- 23:49Speaker 2: And it's just something that I have. And in twenty eighteen.
- 23:58Speaker 1: It was necessary.
- 24:00Speaker 2: It wasn't just because I lost my job in two
- 24:02Speaker 2: thousand and nine because I was unemployed with a daughter
- 24:05Speaker 2: and expecting another. It wasn't just that I didn't have
- 24:09Speaker 2: but so much money in the bank. It was that
- 24:13Speaker 2: I left myself at the mercy of one entity. I
- 24:18Speaker 2: didn't plan and coordinate a future without them, even though
- 24:24Speaker 2: I knew I didn't want a future without them. And
- 24:28Speaker 2: that's the difference between me then and in twenty eighteen,
- 24:33Speaker 2: when I put the wheels in motion to be exactly.
- 24:36Speaker 1: What I am now.
- 24:38Speaker 2: My YouTube channel is very important to me for one
- 24:41Speaker 2: reason and one reason only.
- 24:43Speaker 1: It's all mine.
- 24:46Speaker 2: Masters RSS feed, you know, eye piece of everything, it's
- 24:49Speaker 2: all mine. Nobody has it, nobody owns it. It's mine
- 24:53Speaker 2: and it is what I make it. And to know
- 24:57Speaker 2: that I have the opportunity to position myself to not have.
- 25:03Speaker 1: To depend on others is the fuel that I needed
- 25:10Speaker 1: to feel inspired.
- 25:11Speaker 2: And that's why when people look at me now and
- 25:13Speaker 2: they say, yo, stephen A, what's going on with you?
- 25:14Speaker 1: Man?
- 25:15Speaker 2: You look like you lost some weight. You look great,
- 25:17Speaker 2: you look in great shape. Man, I'm not playing. I'm
- 25:21Speaker 2: fifty six and I haven't felt this better, this good
- 25:26Speaker 2: since my early thirties. The help that I'm in. I've
- 25:30Speaker 2: lost thirty pounds, I've lost fourteen points of body fat.
- 25:37Speaker 2: I eat better, I exercise a minimum of five days
- 25:41Speaker 2: a week. I take my vitamins and supplements. I'm focused
- 25:47Speaker 2: because I'm not interested in being alive.
- 25:50Speaker 1: I'm interested in living.
- 25:52Speaker 2: And you're not living when you're stagnant or you're deteriorating,
- 25:58Speaker 2: or you're not elevating. You're only living when you're working
- 26:03Speaker 2: on elevating, even if you're not elevating yet, Like there's
- 26:06Speaker 2: not tangible evidence to show Rashan that you're elevating right.
- 26:10Speaker 2: If you're working towards it, you feel alive because this purpose,
- 26:16Speaker 2: and that's where I'm at.
- 26:18Speaker 4: Cool as we close out the show, you have a book,
- 26:21Speaker 4: Straight Shooter New York Times Bestseller comes out, and it's
- 26:24Speaker 4: out in paperback.
- 26:25Speaker 3: And that comes out. It's out in paperback why you
- 26:28Speaker 3: wrote it and why are you so proud of it?
- 26:32Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I love how you ask these
- 26:33Speaker 2: rhetorical questions, like you want to know when you're you
- 26:36Speaker 2: know you're the instigator for half make me sick. I mean,
- 26:40Speaker 2: I didn't want to write the damn book, to be
- 26:42Speaker 2: quite honest with you, I really really didn't do it,
- 26:44Speaker 2: you know. And then I said to you, yeah, I
- 26:46Speaker 2: want to write the book, but you know, if I'm
- 26:48Speaker 2: a writer book, there's only one book I can write.
- 26:50Speaker 2: It's my memoir. I don't feel like should write anything
- 26:52Speaker 2: before I write that. But you know, people were bugging
- 26:58Speaker 2: me since to thousand and nine when I lost my
- 27:01Speaker 2: job at he Is being to write a book. But
- 27:03Speaker 2: they wanted me to write some tell all book. They
- 27:05Speaker 2: just don't know me very well. I don't play that game.
- 27:07Speaker 2: I would never do that to any employee. I don't
- 27:09Speaker 2: play that nonsense. I would always defend myself against anybody.
- 27:13Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna be some tell all book.
- 27:16Speaker 1: And that and that other. I'm too gifted, too skilled
- 27:19Speaker 1: to principle to.
- 27:20Speaker 2: Make my money that way, right, So when people came
- 27:23Speaker 2: to me and wanted me to do that, I said no,
- 27:25Speaker 2: And then they said, well, right about your memoir and
- 27:27Speaker 2: stuff like that, and talk to my mother about it.
- 27:30Speaker 1: This was in twenty and ten.
- 27:33Speaker 2: Janie Smith, the greatest woman that I've ever known, greatest
- 27:36Speaker 2: human being I've ever known, who I loved dearly and
- 27:38Speaker 2: miss every day. She said to me, you absolutely positively
- 27:43Speaker 2: will not write a book while I'm alive, because she
- 27:48Speaker 2: knew how much I loved her, and she knew that
- 27:54Speaker 2: if I wrote a book, it would be dedicated to her.
- 27:58Speaker 2: That's why it's entitled straight Shooter. It's a dedication to
- 28:01Speaker 2: my mom. And she knew that if I dedicated a
- 28:05Speaker 2: book to her, I would have to talk about her greatness.
- 28:10Speaker 2: And the only way to talk about her greatness is
- 28:14Speaker 2: to talk about and highlight what she overcame, which would
- 28:18Speaker 2: involve my father. And my mother did not want me
- 28:21Speaker 2: to do that, and so she made me promise that
- 28:25Speaker 2: I would never ever write my memoir until she passed away.
- 28:31Speaker 2: And when she passed away in twenty seventeen, I didn't
- 28:36Speaker 2: think about it for about a year year and a half,
- 28:39Speaker 2: and then people started bringing it up. And then somebody,
- 28:43Speaker 2: I don't know who, the hellless person was, rolled up
- 28:47Speaker 2: on Rashan McDonald and was like, you.
- 28:50Speaker 1: Need to get Stephen Aate to write a book.
- 28:53Speaker 2: And then this dude, Rashan McDonald proceeded to bug the
- 28:58Speaker 2: living hell out of me every damn day for about
- 29:02Speaker 2: a year until I finally.
- 29:04Speaker 1: Said, okay, okay, okay, I'll do it. And then when
- 29:10Speaker 1: I started writing.
- 29:11Speaker 2: It, it took me about four four and a half months.
- 29:16Speaker 2: I wrote every word myself, had an editor, not a ghostwriter.
- 29:21Speaker 2: Had you helped me edit as well. But when I
- 29:26Speaker 2: wrote the book the first thing, you know, it took
- 29:30Speaker 2: me four and a half months, but it took me
- 29:35Speaker 2: about two and a half to three months to get
- 29:40Speaker 2: through two chapters. And you know what those two chapters were.
- 29:44Speaker 2: It was revisiting my childhood, my situation with my father,
- 29:49Speaker 2: the things he put my mother and my family through,
- 29:52Speaker 2: and when that happened.
- 29:55Speaker 1: That was.
- 29:57Speaker 2: That made it very very difficult because was the first
- 30:01Speaker 2: two weeks I didn't even finish the book. I just
- 30:04Speaker 2: sent the excerpts to my sisters and they didn't speak
- 30:07Speaker 2: to me for.
- 30:08Speaker 1: Two weeks, all.
- 30:09Speaker 2: Four of them. I thought they were mad at me,
- 30:12Speaker 2: but they weren't mad. They were just going through it
- 30:15Speaker 2: themselves because the things that I had mentioned were what
- 30:18Speaker 2: they forgot about, and for a long time I had
- 30:22Speaker 2: forgotten about, right, And so to bring those things up
- 30:25Speaker 2: to the surface forced us to relive the hell that
- 30:30Speaker 2: we had gone through when we were younger. And it
- 30:33Speaker 2: was really really painful, to say the least, but necessary
- 30:38Speaker 2: and cathartic in.
- 30:39Speaker 1: Its own ways.
- 30:41Speaker 2: And then ultimately I finished the book in law and
- 30:43Speaker 2: behold it's a New York Times bestseller for nine weeks,
- 30:47Speaker 2: both paperback I'm sorry, in hardcover, I'm sorry, and audio,
- 30:53Speaker 2: and I can't tell you. I still get stopped on
- 30:55Speaker 2: the streets.
- 30:56Speaker 1: You know.
- 30:56Speaker 2: The book's been out for almost a year, and I
- 30:59Speaker 2: guess out on the streets all the time.
- 31:01Speaker 1: People loved my book.
- 31:04Speaker 2: I got to give major, major thanks to Howard Stern
- 31:08Speaker 2: because the interview he did with me about my book.
- 31:12Speaker 2: There has not been a city that I have traveled
- 31:14Speaker 2: to since that interview that somebody hasn't brought up that
- 31:18Speaker 2: interview with Howard Stern. Many, many people have interviewed me
- 31:22Speaker 2: and profiled the book and given me a lot of
- 31:24Speaker 2: love and a lot of praise. They thought it was
- 31:26Speaker 2: going to be a sports book. It's not a sports book,
- 31:29Speaker 2: and they gave me a lot of praise and a
- 31:31Speaker 2: lot of props for.
- 31:32Speaker 1: That, But that Howard Stern interview is what.
- 31:39Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many people have come up
- 31:41Speaker 2: to me and said I've had people coming to me
- 31:44Speaker 2: and say they read the book again because they said,
- 31:47Speaker 2: we read it once, but then after the Howard Stern interview,
- 31:50Speaker 2: we read it again because we were like, wait a minute,
- 31:53Speaker 2: where did he say that?
- 31:54Speaker 1: I missed that?
- 31:55Speaker 2: But let me go back to that and so and
- 31:58Speaker 2: now Simon and hused to put it in paper and
- 32:02Speaker 2: it's expected to be a success.
- 32:03Speaker 1: Again.
- 32:04Speaker 2: I think we've sold over four hundred thousand copies or
- 32:06Speaker 2: so some way around there.
- 32:08Speaker 1: Whatever. Again, it's been a New York Times bestseller. That's
- 32:10Speaker 1: the krem.
- 32:11Speaker 2: Dela Kreme doesn't get me hired in that. And for
- 32:14Speaker 2: me to think about the kid that got left back
- 32:17Speaker 2: in fourth grade because I had a first grade reading level,
- 32:20Speaker 2: I had undiagnosed dyslexia.
- 32:23Speaker 1: For me to be a.
- 32:25Speaker 2: Professional journalist in my career and now a writer who's
- 32:29Speaker 2: a New York Times best selling author, I mean, damn,
- 32:33Speaker 2: I mean, how can we possibly say this is in
- 32:36Speaker 2: a high power looking over us. The Lord has truly,
- 32:39Speaker 2: truly blessed me, and I apologize for saying damn.
- 32:41Speaker 4: Preceding that statement, Steven Ah, he's my friend and somebody trust,
- 32:50Speaker 4: somebody who's been there in my downtimes. Thank you for
- 32:52Speaker 4: coming on money making comings as your master class show.
- 32:55Speaker 3: You're brilliant. Brother. I wish you much good luck.
- 32:58Speaker 2: I appreciate the kind words, but you know you could
- 33:00Speaker 2: have stretched it a little bit longer.
- 33:02Speaker 1: I mean it was really quick with the kind words.
- 33:03Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
- 33:04Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I mean he spent about you know,
- 33:07Speaker 2: twenty seconds on the kind words and stuff like that.
- 33:10Speaker 2: When I when I praised with Sean McDonald, I'm lengthy
- 33:13Speaker 2: with it.
- 33:13Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I mean, I put it
- 33:15Speaker 1: out there, I make it, I let it marinate it.
- 33:18Speaker 1: Stay out there for what I'm trying to do.
- 33:20Speaker 3: You moment you're getting out.
- 33:23Speaker 1: Twenty seconds, all right?
- 33:26Speaker 3: I love you, brother, Stay strong man. I mean, like
- 33:29Speaker 3: I said, Stevid A, you're one of a kind brother.
- 33:32Speaker 3: You are a guy that let me just tell you,
- 33:35Speaker 3: he said it. I've never in my life made a
- 33:39Speaker 3: superstar like you, brother.
- 33:41Speaker 4: Not so much your work, but your heart, man, your
- 33:44Speaker 4: heart is incredibly passionate, loyal and honest because you've had
- 33:52Speaker 4: some honest conversations with me and I appreciate you and
- 33:56Speaker 4: I need it.
- 33:57Speaker 1: And that's that's that's that's good time. See that's all right, Stevid, Bye.
- 34:07Speaker 5: Bye, Thank you for joining us for this edition of
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