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FULL SHOW: Special Guest: Bill Bellamy, Strawberry Letter: What Is My Role In My Marriage? - 08.27.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. Y'all
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  Speaker 3: Listening to.
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  Speaker 2: Joy, Yeah, Joy, second, you don't use that love. Turn
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  Speaker 4: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out
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  Speaker 4: the water the money.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Listening to the voice, come on, dig me now, One
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  Speaker 4: and only Steve Harvey Man oh Man got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do.
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  Speaker 4: God so big to me, man, I just have to
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  Speaker 4: tell you about it. I can't help it. It's rather
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  Speaker 4: obvious to me how big, how good God is. He's
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  Speaker 4: absolutely tremendous. He's off the chain. He owned one, he'd
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  Speaker 4: be clowning, he'd be just showing out.
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  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just over here, just on the receiving end. You know,
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  Speaker 4: if you're out there, start your mission today, Start your
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  Speaker 4: mission today? What are you waiting for? Why do we
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  Speaker 4: as people delay what we want or delay the process
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  Speaker 4: to begin what we want on our hopes, our dreams,
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  Speaker 4: our desires. Why won't you start your mission today? Why
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  Speaker 4: don't we all decide together that just individually. Look you listening,
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  Speaker 4: you got something that you've been dreaming about. You got
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  Speaker 4: an ambition of yours that's not yet fulfilled. You got
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  Speaker 4: goals you haven't accomplished yet. Everybody has them. Everybody's got them.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody's got something that's on the table that they haven't
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  Speaker 4: yet attacked yet. What are you waiting for? Start your
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  Speaker 4: mission today? Stop the procrastination. Now, the procrastination is only
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  Speaker 4: hurting you yourself. If you got a goal of aspiration
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  Speaker 4: to dream and you fall off track momentarily, you can
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  Speaker 4: get back to that because God knows where you're left off.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 4: You may have to accomplish a few more things since
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  Speaker 4: you stopped for a long period of time, but God
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  Speaker 4: know where you left off. You can get back on track. Look, man,
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  Speaker 4: this dream of being on TV since I was a kid,
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  Speaker 4: and it got off track. Now it got off track.
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  Speaker 4: I just kept it as one of the dreams, and
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  Speaker 4: in some real dog moments when it looked like it
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  Speaker 4: wasn't gonna happen, all I was hanging on to was
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  Speaker 4: just the hope that one day it could.
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  Speaker 1: But that's what faith is really about. Faith is the
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  Speaker 1: belief in things that you cannot see. But faith gives
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  Speaker 1: you the confidence to keep hoping. Man, Sometimes it just
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  Speaker 1: keep hope alive. Sometimes you heard Jesse Jackson say it,
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  Speaker 1: just keep hope alive. Sometimes, man, it's just the hope.
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  Speaker 1: I was hanging on a hope, and I'm talking about
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  Speaker 1: when it.
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  Speaker 4: Got real ugly and funky out there for me, when
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  Speaker 4: it looked like I wasn't gonna ever make it, and
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  Speaker 4: all of the facts was in and everything pointed in
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  Speaker 4: the direction you not gonna make it. You done really
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  Speaker 4: messed up this time. Then I sat there and I
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  Speaker 4: just hung on to the hope. But man, that's what
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  Speaker 4: I'm saying. If you got a dream on aspiration of
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  Speaker 4: vision or something, when you fall off track and you.
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  Speaker 1: Want to go get back in line, God holds your place.
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  Speaker 5: See.
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  Speaker 1: He held on to that for me.
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  Speaker 4: He knew I was off tracking, out of line, but
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  Speaker 4: he said, okay, here's where we stopped. You want to
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  Speaker 4: be on TV. Now, when you get it together and
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  Speaker 4: you quit tripping and you come and your turn to me,
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna hold your place, put you back in line.
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  Speaker 4: Then we're gonna finish the journey that took me a
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  Speaker 4: lot longer. To get here than I wanted to. But
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  Speaker 4: then it was necessary because I needed all of them
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  Speaker 4: mishaps to happen to me along the way. So when
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  Speaker 4: I got on the radio one day, which I did
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  Speaker 4: not see coming, Steve Harvey got a radio show, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I say it every day. See, because of
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  Speaker 4: this radio show that I didn't see coming. Now I
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  Speaker 4: have stories to tell. I got experiences to share, and
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  Speaker 4: I can tell you about me better I can tell
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  Speaker 4: you about anybody. And I done been through enough whereas relatable,
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  Speaker 4: where enough people can go mad that happened to me.
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  Speaker 4: Appreciate you saying that that's what it was for. See,
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  Speaker 4: I get it now. See at the time, no, I
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  Speaker 4: didn't like what was happening to me. At the time,
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  Speaker 4: I was really in total disagreement with God on a
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  Speaker 4: lot of stuff he was pulling off on me. But
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  Speaker 4: in essence I was really pulling it off on myself.
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  Speaker 4: But through his grace and mercy, he kept me through
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  Speaker 4: all of my mistakes, all my bad decisions, all my miscalculations,
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  Speaker 4: all my misfires, all the times I knowingly.
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  Speaker 1: Stepped out there and did wrong.
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  Speaker 4: He forgave me, he said, because man if you ever
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  Speaker 4: come to me, I have a plan for you that
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  Speaker 4: is going to be far and above. It will supersede
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  Speaker 4: everything you've ever dreamed of. That's what I did. I
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  Speaker 4: just got sick of me, good and sick of me,
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  Speaker 4: and I turned it over to God. And then God
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  Speaker 4: started working and here I am today. Now, he threw
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  Speaker 4: with me. Yet, Nope, I have jet Nope. But guess
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  Speaker 4: what the journey is cool?
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 4: It's like I was talking to this young brother the
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  Speaker 4: other day about comedy and he's a really good stand up.
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  Speaker 4: You know, this young dude is really good. He said, Man,
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  Speaker 4: what is this I feel every night before I go
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  Speaker 4: on stage. I don't know what it is. I just
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  Speaker 4: want it off me, I said, sir, listen to me,
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  Speaker 4: you young dude. This thing that climbs on my back
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  Speaker 4: every night before I go on stage. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: what it is. It's got something to do with pressure,
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  Speaker 4: It's got something to do with anticipation. It's got a
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  Speaker 4: whole lot to do with the fear of falling.
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  Speaker 1: He said.
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  Speaker 4: What you mean by that, I say, every night I
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  Speaker 4: walk out on stage, it's like I'm about to go
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  Speaker 4: and step off of cliff. I say, it's a sickening feeling.
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  Speaker 4: He said, Man, but you do so well. I said,
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  Speaker 4: that's because the parachute opens. I say, but I want
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  Speaker 4: you to understand something. When I first walk out there,
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  Speaker 4: it's just stepping off the cliff. Now these yokes provide
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  Speaker 4: a parachute which slows my descent when I jump off
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  Speaker 4: the cliff, and I turned it into a glide. And
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  Speaker 4: then I take the audience this way and I swung
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  Speaker 4: them back over to that way. We might swing out
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  Speaker 4: to the Colorado Rockies. We may go down to Miami
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  Speaker 4: with this joke. We may take it on out to
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  Speaker 4: LA and I just swing back and forth till I
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  Speaker 4: land softly. The crowd cheers. The night is over with,
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  Speaker 4: I said, but it's been too many nights though. When
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  Speaker 4: I walked off that cliff and I pulled the cord
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  Speaker 4: and the parachute didn't open, I said, Now I'm just
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  Speaker 4: free falling out there for thirty minutes. Ain't no jokes working.
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  Speaker 4: Ain't the parachute didn't open. I said, So see, that's
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  Speaker 4: what it's like for me. And then you know what
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  Speaker 4: I found out. If you done walked off the cliff
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  Speaker 4: in life and you ain't got no guard in your life.
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  Speaker 4: It's like not having a parachute. You step off the
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  Speaker 4: cliff and you just free falling. Now see we all
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  Speaker 4: now that fog gets you closer to the grave, right,
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  Speaker 4: We all heading to the grave from the moment we're born.
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  Speaker 4: But the cool thing about a relationship with God is
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  Speaker 4: when you step off the cliff and you got God
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  Speaker 4: here a parachute.
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  Speaker 1: You still going.
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  Speaker 4: Down, but it's a nice ride, and God just helps
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  Speaker 4: your descent appear more like a rise and the more
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  Speaker 4: like a euphoric fall. Instead of not having no God
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  Speaker 4: in your life and you just walking off that cliff
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  Speaker 4: every day, free falling. Ain't got no cord, you steady pulling,
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  Speaker 4: you hollering the whole way because you to mess around
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  Speaker 4: with yourself, and ain't let God come into your life
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  Speaker 4: and provide a parachute for you. I would rather have
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  Speaker 4: a parachute since I got to jump every day than
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  Speaker 4: to not have one. God has been like a parachute
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  Speaker 4: for me. Ask me where that came from. I can't
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  Speaker 4: tell you. But like I always say, most good things
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  Speaker 4: that happen in my life that I can't explain is
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  Speaker 4: usually him.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, I guess you can't be surprised about
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  Speaker 4: what I'm about to say, but you do know that
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  Speaker 4: God did it again.
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  Speaker 5: You do know that.
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  Speaker 4: Don't you stop being surprised that I bring this up
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  Speaker 4: so often, because that's really how amazing it is, because
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  Speaker 4: only God can create a new day, and so realizing
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  Speaker 4: that you ought to thank Him for it and the
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  Speaker 4: fact that He allowed you to be here in it present. Man,
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  Speaker 4: what a great honor. Man, I'm so grateful today. Thank
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  Speaker 4: you God for everything you've done for me, for the
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  Speaker 4: measure of health that I have, for my strength being
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  Speaker 4: in my right mind. Thank you, Heavenly Father for using
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  Speaker 4: and putting my names in rooms before I get there.
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  Speaker 1: Thank You for your grace and mercy everything. Man, this
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  Speaker 6: What the powerball tonight about the one Monday night I played.
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  Speaker 1: Fifteen million tunesday nights. Yeah, time for me to play. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's so high enough.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I ain't want that little you know, eat hundred million?
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  Speaker 4: You know how we're gonna be real. Boy, Let me
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  Speaker 4: tell you something I wouldn't any I'm taking the path
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  Speaker 4: for the end of day off half of that whatever
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you should.
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  Speaker 1: How much would you pay into the lottery though? How
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  Speaker 1: many lottery tickets would you buy? How much.
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  Speaker 4: You die when you go down there? Hu, eight hundred million.
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  Speaker 1: You dropped two hundred and ten thousand dollars worth of tickets? Easy? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: ten thousand out of mode than that in Vegas? That
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  Speaker 1: ain't nothing. And they raked that in a hole.
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  Speaker 5: They spun the ball.
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  Speaker 1: They can't go in.
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  Speaker 4: They rate that whole tea and in that hole. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: at least let me watch some numbers pop up.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, let me take my little five dollars and go
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  Speaker 1: sit down.
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  Speaker 8: Now.
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  Speaker 4: The most I have bought at one time was two hundred.
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  Speaker 4: I bought two hundred tickets and the man didn't want
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  Speaker 4: to sell them to me. Had a little confutation coming
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  Speaker 4: through Florida. Why would you want to take that opportunity
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  Speaker 4: from other people and brodd you out of tickets?
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  Speaker 9: What?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, just print some mo You got a roll of
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  Speaker 1: I ain't taking no opportunity for nobody.
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  Speaker 4: So it's a little young black girl worked there and
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  Speaker 4: came out said, you don't know who this is there?
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  Speaker 1: Now, this just ain't right.
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  Speaker 4: A man coming here and spend up two hundred dollars
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  Speaker 4: worth of tickets, she said, But mister, whatever he can,
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  Speaker 4: he can buy him tickets as he won't. I don't
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  Speaker 4: just I don't think it's right. Well, it's why I
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  Speaker 4: was on that side of the counter and I move
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  Speaker 4: its two hundred dollars. So now can you please hand
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  Speaker 4: me them two hundred tickets? Because this low budget thinking
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  Speaker 4: you doing is the reason why we have an argument
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  Speaker 4: right now? Why is two hundred too much?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly?
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  Speaker 4: I ain't said nothing to you about that three dollars?
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  Speaker 4: Hot dog, y'all got up on that wall over.
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  Speaker 1: That hey thing? Got that, that's right, get let's get
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  Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, hopefully one of us will win. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we will
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  Speaker 1: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back what you got for his neph.
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  Speaker 4: This right here is butt man, Shirley. This is butt man.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I know it's kind of early. It's kind
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  Speaker 8: of early, but this is but okay, we gotta find
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  Speaker 8: out who's been putting the butt on the copy machine
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  Speaker 8: and making copies of a blot in the office.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, see yeah, what is?
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  Speaker 1: Tell me?
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  Speaker 5: What do you?
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  Speaker 4: What do you want?
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  Speaker 1: It's mean? Okay, it's mean, I got it fake? What
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  Speaker 1: you what you want? A sermon?
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  Speaker 8: I ain't got no sermon for you. I ain't got
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  Speaker 8: none net I got stupid. So let's go cat though. Hey,
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  Speaker 8: I'm trying to read von please.
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  Speaker 2: VN.
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  Speaker 4: This is Darius. Darius with human Resources.
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  Speaker 1: How are you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing fine?
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  Speaker 5: Can I help you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: Listen, we have an incident that has taken place at
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  Speaker 8: the job you actually.
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  Speaker 1: What floor are you on? Vin? I'm all for twelve
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  Speaker 1: floor twelve? All right? So do you use the copy
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  Speaker 1: machine that often on that floor?
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  Speaker 3: Not all the time, but I do use it every
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  Speaker 3: once in a while.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, every once in a while. So here's what's going on.
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  Speaker 8: There's gonna be some actions being taken place here pretty soon,
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  Speaker 8: some legal actions, and we're just clearing everybody. You know,
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  Speaker 8: this is just a proper procedure that we're having to
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  Speaker 8: go through. So let me just kind of enlighten you
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  Speaker 8: on what's taking place. Someone on the twelfth floor has
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  Speaker 8: copied their butt on a piece of paper in the
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  Speaker 8: copy machine. So someone I actually sat up on the
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  Speaker 8: xerox machine and copied or butt. Why someone would do that,
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  Speaker 8: I have no earthly idea. But what's happening now is
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  Speaker 8: everyone on your floor is gonna have to come in
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  Speaker 8: and show their butt. So we're scheduling this now. I'm
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  Speaker 8: thinking Friday at eleven a m.
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  Speaker 1: Would that be so.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all y'all talking, y'all talking about y'all want me to
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  Speaker 3: come up there and show show my, show my, because somebody,
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  Speaker 3: I'm a grown man. Okay, I'm a grown man.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you know what. I believe you.
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  Speaker 8: I believe you wholeheartedly, Von, But just to clear your name,
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  Speaker 8: we have to, I hate to say it, clear your
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  Speaker 8: butt as well. So we want to make sure we're
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  Speaker 8: gonna find out whose butt.
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  Speaker 1: This is on a piece of paper, that did this.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna find out.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna find you're gonna find out who's You're gonna
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  Speaker 3: find out whose cheeks those are, and you're gonna find
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  Speaker 3: out real quickly in our mind. All right, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: doing that, man, I'm not gonna come in.
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  Speaker 5: You said Friday.
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  Speaker 4: You're doing this on Friday, Friday at eleven, not coming
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  Speaker 4: my day off.
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  Speaker 3: I'm pull my pants down. But some strangers looking really
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  Speaker 3: look at my look at my cheeks, talking about somebody copy,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to.
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  Speaker 8: I don't want this to take a turn, Von, because
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  Speaker 8: right now this is if you're not if you're saying
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  Speaker 8: you're not coming in, then other actions will be taking
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  Speaker 8: place if you don't come in and follow the precedure
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  Speaker 8: that everybody's saying.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody else that I'm calling they have to come in.
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  Speaker 3: How many how many people work on that floor?
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  Speaker 1: There's at least eighty plus people on that floor.
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  Speaker 3: You're talking about trying to have eighty plus people come
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  Speaker 3: in drive a way work so some strangers and we
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  Speaker 3: don't even know can look at our look at our cheeks,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna do that. I don't know who
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  Speaker 3: did it, but I know they ain't me.
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  Speaker 8: Well, somebody somebody's xeroxs there butt on the twelfth floor,
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  Speaker 8: and we're gonna get to okay, but we're gonna get
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  Speaker 8: to the bottom of who did it and what you're
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  Speaker 8: what you're not gonna do? Von Is tell me you're
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  Speaker 8: not coming in. What you're not gonna do? Do you
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  Speaker 8: like your job here with this company?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, what you're not gonna do exactly like you're gonna
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  Speaker 3: fire me because I'm not gonna show y'all my sweet
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  Speaker 3: goodies just because you just because you're from HR You
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  Speaker 3: got me fooled. If you actually expect me to think
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  Speaker 3: that everybody that work from this floor is over here like,
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  Speaker 3: oh yeah, sure, I'm going some strangers look at mine,
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  Speaker 3: look at my crack.
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  Speaker 5: You must be playing, no, sir, not with me.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, let me let me let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 8: Do you have a coworker named Andre Andre? Yes, Andre
• 18:36
  Speaker 8: says he knows you. Now, I'm just gonna put it
• 18:39
  Speaker 8: out here. Andre is stating that it could have possibly
• 18:43
  Speaker 8: been you.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: Really, Andre got the nerve to say it could have
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: been me? Andre? Why didn't he trying to single me out?
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: Like I even use that damn copier not around there
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: playing games.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: I'm a grown man.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: He must be out of his mind thinking he gonna
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: say I did it.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: All I know is he stated that you were a possibility.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: That's what. That's what he stated.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: He said I was a possibility.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: That that's dumb.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: He ain't have absolutely the reason to think. I don't
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: even use that copier, man, I use that thing like
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: once every two to three weeks, everybody on that floor.
• 19:18
  Speaker 8: Okay, so out of once every two three weeks, is
• 19:20
  Speaker 8: there a possibility maybe you propped your butt up there
• 19:23
  Speaker 8: and copied it.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Not at all, y'all ain't even told me when this happened.
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: I probably wasn't even working when the booty chicks them.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: You can you must be out your mind. You can
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: waste everybody else the time trying to bring everyone in
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: to get a free strip show.
• 19:39
  Speaker 5: But you're not gonna do that to me.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: This has to be unethical and illegal on so many levels.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: You're trying to come in and say everybody on the
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: entire floor has to come show that. Geez man, you
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: want to be kidding me?
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: What's your name?
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Whole time You're trying to call me saying this is
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: HR what's your name?
• 19:57
  Speaker 8: Because when I'm I'm Darius out of human Resources.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: I told you that when I first called you.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Well Darius, Well Darius.
• 20:05
  Speaker 8: When I do come into work, I want to see
• 20:09
  Speaker 8: let me ask you this vonn Do you know Leslie?
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Leslie? I know that better not either say my name,
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: but so you do know Leslie?
• 20:19
  Speaker 9: Yes?
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: I know Leslie. She works there with me. So you're
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: trying to tell me that Leslie said.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: Do you want to know what Leslie said?
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Yes? I would like to know what Leslie says, so
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: when I cuss her out, I get it.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Right, okay.
• 20:33
  Speaker 8: Leslie told me to tell you that this is nephew
• 20:36
  Speaker 8: Tommy from the Steve Harvey more on the show. And
• 20:38
  Speaker 8: you just got pranked by your coworker Leslie and Andre.
• 20:43
  Speaker 8: Oh Man, Leslie and Andre got me to prank phone
• 20:52
  Speaker 8: call you, Mande.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: I was man, I was pssed. Your uncle is right, bro,
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: somebody is gonna whoop your I bet it this year?
• 21:08
  Speaker 8: All right, boy, tell me this man, what is the
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• 21:14
  Speaker 3: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Somebody is dad really gonna
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  Speaker 3: whoop you up?
• 21:21
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, our special
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  Speaker 1: guests is a comedy legend. He's an actor and a
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: good friend of the show. He's family. I'm talking about
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: the one and only mister Bill Bellamy. He and Tommy
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: will be performing this weekend at the Buttwell in Birmingham
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: and we'll find out what else he's been up to.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: You don't want to miss our good friend Bill Bellamy
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. But right now it
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Parah and Queen's CLO. Parah writes,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: my mom and my boyfriend talk on the phone all
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: the time. I've found out he's been complaining to her,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: and she tells me how frustrated he gets with me.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I don't like my mom being in the mix. How
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: do I break up my mom and my boyfriend's relationship.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: You might not be able to. I don't think so
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: might not be able to. They're too close.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Plus I have one is your mama?
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Fine? And you're asking that because you might want to
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: consider this. You know I've walked in the house and
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: seen that before that her boyfriend and her mom.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: Oh, I you know when I was real young, I
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: saw I walked in the house and the girl mama
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: way find it than she was.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: And so what happened? Then you started what?
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: No, I was young, I couldn't. There wasn't nothing I
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: could do. Her husband, I ain't had nothing for him.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, when I'm sixteen, this man fought. No, I'm not
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: finish quipped like them. Real What was the first thing
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: you said when you saw her mom to yourself? God,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: sixteen is it? He said? All right? Oh, so she
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: wants to break them up? Though, how does she do that?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen. They're just gonna stay close and
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: keep talking about her on the phone. Yeah, I mean,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: you know that's what you got. Two things. You gonna
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: have a conversation with both of them.
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: Don't talk about me to my mama, mama, and not
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: talk me to my boyfriend, and then see how I go.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: If they keep talking, then they don't care about you.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. That's good advice.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: This is from Robin Burbank. Rob says, my girlfriend of
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: almost three years, is pressuring me to meet my parents.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I don't speak to my dad and my mom lives
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: in New Mexico. My girlfriend and I are in our
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: mid fifties, so it seems a bit childish. Do I
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: have to carve out time for a trip to New Mexico?
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: This is from Rob and Burbank. Rob, you know the.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: Answer to that question. Dog, You and your dad ain't speaking.
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: Why you need to fix that because one day you
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: could lose this man. Secondly, every man wants his woman
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: to meet his mama. You know, Rob, if you ain't
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: been took her down there, you know what's happening a dog?
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: Come on, man, and how is she pressing you to
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: meet your family? She ain't pressing you to get married,
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: but she probably of the of the understanding that if
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: you don't introduce me to your mama, that means you're
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: not interested. Why don't you just come clean with how
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: you really feel. You're three years in, you're fifty.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: What y'all doing? Yeah, he thinks it's childish for her
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: to want to meet his parent.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: I think it's childish to be fifty in date for
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: three years.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: But you know who am I? You're the clo.
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: Baby, you are the speak I mean, you know.
• 25:57
  Speaker 9: What I mean?
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: You fifty?
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: What y'all doing if y'all don't know what you want
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: by fifty, if you've been with somebody three years and
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: you don't know this to one by fifty? Yes, what
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: are we doing? I just ain't that hard, man. You
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: either want somebody or you don't.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: That is not hard.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: I ain't show no man, if you ain't show your
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: don't want them?
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, because you should be shown show almost this show
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: to be sure.
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: Don't say to be shown show supposed to show.
• 26:37
  Speaker 8: What's some country on sham?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Just I'm so unbothered by you should be sure, by
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: ben is what you're saying.
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, you can be sure if you want to, but
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you what you need to be for show?
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: All right, all right? Moving on to Alma in Chicago. Alma, Right.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I went to a retirement party for a friend and
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: it turns out her that her date for the party
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: was a guy I met at church. He had just
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: called me. He had just called to invite me to
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the movies a few days before that. He has apologized
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: and still wants to go see a movie.
• 27:18
  Speaker 7: Should I go?
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Already know you're going.
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: Are y'all old people sitting up in here? How you
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: know it's round You know you're going to the movie.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: She invited you to the retirement party. Now was he
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: there specifically for her?
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Well, she just went to a retirement party for a friend.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: It turns out that her date for the party was
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: a guy that she met at church.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: The girl that was retiring. Her date was a guy
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: that she met it lady met exactly play boy church busy.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: But he went to her retirement party. But he had
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: just called the other woman a few days ago to
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: ask her to the movie. Oh, well he go out
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: a lot, you know, Yeah, he's booked business.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: When the last time somebody asked you to go to
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: a movie?
• 28:17
  Speaker 9: I know?
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: You know, you know they old. You gotta be old
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: to go to the movies. Wow, we last time somebody
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: asked somebody, Hey, let's you wanna go to a movie?
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Down?
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Know, kids don't do that no more. They watch it
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: on Netflix and stuff like that.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: They they hang out, hang out to the movie. Well, Tommy,
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: you're talking about like your son Jordan.
• 28:41
  Speaker 8: Yeah, he's fourteen. They more in the game room area
• 28:44
  Speaker 8: at the movie.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: These were talking about these older people that just retirement party. Yes, yes,
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: they really is going to the movie hanging out. They
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: done drove down there, sitting up there and got popcorn.
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: Fella sleep in their chairs.
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: They got the chairs, so you can bring the blanket,
• 29:03
  Speaker 6: reply all the way back.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: You can order the food and yeah, yeah, yeah, you
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: don't want to hear so she's going to the movies. Okay, Khalila,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: this is the last one. Steve and Lakeland Wright sat.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: My husband and I had an argument and he left
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: the house and doesn't answer his phone for hours. He
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: didn't answer his phone for hours. He said he didn't
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: want to talk to me. To get back at him,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I have ignored him for four days. He's very mad.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: How can he dish it out? But he can't take it?
• 29:42
  Speaker 9: What?
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: Two hours?
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Four days? Come on now? She said, four hours? Yeah,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: because he didn't want to talk. Surely you just.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Said four days. You wasn't paying attention to what I said.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I heard him said two hours, four days.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: I was just saying that don't make no sense. Why
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: he can't dish out He only didn't talk to you
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: for two hours. Now you ain't talk to this man
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: for four days. That ain't even fair.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Oh we're fair. Oh, oh y'all, oh, y'all gonna do
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you clo. All right. Coming up at
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, our special guests will be
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: the one and only Bill Bellamy. Right after this, you're
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: All right, y'all, we got a special guest this morning.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: One of the legends, one of the real legends out
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: here in the comedy world.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: He's an actor. He he's been doing standing up for.
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: At least three decades, still performing in front of soul
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: out audiences. This weekend him and nephew Tommy is gonna
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: be at the Botwell in Birmingham and he's gonna tell
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: us about that and everything else he got going on.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: But let's get to a lazy gentlemen.
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: My dog. When I first did death Jam, he was
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: on the show Ladies of Jersey, the one the only
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: that Bill Belling me.
• 31:19
  Speaker 7: I made it.
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: Boy. I'm gonna tell you, Steve, you should introduce me
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: everywhere I go where I feel so good about myself.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: For I as you should.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: Okay, Bill, Before we get into this interview, I gotta
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: ask you one thing, because you'd have made me want
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: to go. I saw you on Instagram. You went to BUCkies.
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: Set me let me chell you something.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Buckets everything Bill Bill, We've been telling him.
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: Let me chell you something, Steve about BUCkies. Right, and
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: you got a lot of money. You come in out
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: of there with thirty two grills full take again. You're
• 31:59
  Speaker 5: gonna have a busher brownies. You're gonna have some meat.
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: They got brisket everywhere like you can get You can
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: get half a taste gas and a gallon of brisket,
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: the just and they got a brisket salt. This is
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: what's gonna blow your mind, Steve. They sing about the meat.
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: This thing is so everybody was telling me to go
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: to buckets, but they ain't everywhere. You kind of gotta
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: be going between two places, like you gotta be between
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: Making Georgia and like a Columbia, South Carolina, and it
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: be the biggest gas station you've ever seen, and people
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: are walking out with fourth lines, flash lights and sodas
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: like it's just weird.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: But it's big.
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: Punk round flash light and soda.
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, Steve. Have you ever been to a gas
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: station and they had seventy five umps with exaggeration, sir,
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: And you will be in there eating all the strawberries.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: I've been there, Bill.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: I saw you doing this thing on BUCkies, and I've
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: been trying to go to one ever since, and so
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna go past.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna go to a BUCkies.
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: No, No, you got you no re rout re rally
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: because it's one of those things you're not gonna believe.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: And you're gonna call me from BUCkies.
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: I'm very king you're gonna call me from bucket.
• 33:35
  Speaker 9: Listen.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I bought the Bucky T shirt, Jeff, so I can shirt.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: You ain't never bought a T shirt at the gas
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: station in your life. You're gonna get that Brooklyn T shirt?
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: What's on the Bucky T shirt?
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Here?
• 33:59
  Speaker 5: Beaver Man? Any good people to Steve?
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: You gonna like good people.
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: You don't even you don't even need it, but you're
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: gonna buy dep feed.
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: Listen, Steve, you're not understanding. It's the biggest gas station
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: flash hospital you ever been to. You could buy seasoning.
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: It's the weirdest thing you could You could buy seasoning.
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: You could turn around. You can get you some some
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: fat back. Gotta sitting in the corner. Just put your
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: hand the body is so the things you could buy,
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: like you could buy a sofa. Uh Man, they like
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: I'm looking at that. Like they got like every kind
• 34:54
  Speaker 5: of to like strawberry show, barbecue, pork brown. Then you
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: got you could buy like a cat. It be real Cafi.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: All right, Tommy, tell me what y'all got going on?
• 35:13
  Speaker 9: Man?
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: We got going on this with you? Bill. That's all
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I wanted to know was about BUCkies. Man, I gotta go.
• 35:19
  Speaker 8: Okay, I got you week zero comedy jail this Friday night,
• 35:23
  Speaker 8: my well auditorium. This myself, Bill Bellamy, Bill, who tell him?
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: Who else is with us?
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know these people?
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: Man, it's so many people. If we got like fifteen,
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: I think Tommy got two comedians from BUCkies.
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: You Bill, you're crazy, you know.
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: Tommy like to help me be Tommy be helping people.
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: We was in BUCkies and he saw two people that
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: seen they was funny looking. He's put them on the show.
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: So I said, okay, probably got a good heart.
• 35:59
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 36:00
  Speaker 8: Way, here's one thing I got about down to both
• 36:03
  Speaker 8: of you two about Uncle Steve and Bill. One thing
• 36:06
  Speaker 8: I got about down on it. Y'all have done something.
• 36:09
  Speaker 8: Y'all conquered something I could not conquer. And that one
• 36:12
  Speaker 8: thing is is that Peppermint Lounge. Man, that place right there,
• 36:18
  Speaker 8: Hold up, I got this.
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge was the proving ground of the East Coast.
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you so.
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: Bill had this club called the Peppermint Lounge. I called
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: it the Peppermint Entertainment Complex.
• 36:36
  Speaker 9: It was.
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: It was a.
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: Hotel, deli club, strip was everything was under the roof.
• 36:47
  Speaker 4: But you performed, and all the dope boys set up front,
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: and they all had on coogie sweaters, all of them,
• 36:59
  Speaker 4: and they would have.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Was ruthless audience members.
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: And when we come back, I will tell you the
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: greatest thing I seen at the Peppermint Lounge, the legendary
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: Bill Bellamy and the Peppermint Lounge in New Jersey. Hey, y'all,
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: we'll be right back with more right after this.
• 37:21
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• 37:25
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• 37:27
  Speaker 4: Now, all that effort has.
• 37:28
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  Speaker 1: Hi everybody, We're back.
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: Our special guest this morning is the legendary comedy legend himself,
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: Bill Bellamy, who I first met. I think I met
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: before or that, but maybe Death Jail, maybe death Jail.
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah, all I know is.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember the first night I.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Was on death Jail. He was there.
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: Man, this dude right here was He was killing it
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: and we've been cool ever since. Or before we left,
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: we were talking about two things, BUCkies, and Tommy said
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: it's something that he had never conquered. It was a
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: club called the Peppermint Lounge in New Jersey and Bill
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: Bellie was Bill Bill's joint Bill booked, it, ran it everything,
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: but it was the proving ground. It was one of
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: the roughest after the Apollo Theater, that was the Peppermint Lounge.
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: I'm just telling you that, boy, I've seen some great
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: acts have called down there and and not done well.
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: And then there's been some dudes that went up in
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: their man and just got they got they got, they
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: close toe off. I told this one boy, I said,
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: hey man, you shouldn't go up last. He said, no,
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: I'm majoring comedy clubs. I said, look, man, this this
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: ain't no comedy club.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: This is a session. This a session to say this
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: is really about to go.
• 39:20
  Speaker 5: It was like the boot camp or some Oh.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: It was ugly and boy, the dope boys were sitting
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: on the front and this one dude was performing and
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: they didn't like him, and they was reaching in their
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: champagne buckets and they was throwing ice on him. And
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: ice was just dripping off this dude's head and he
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: kept talking. I'm sitting there going how you gonna take
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: all these ice cubes?
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Marvin? What was the doskined Marvel Man Marvin Dixon.
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: Yes, it was from Miami. I will forget that.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: He walked up on stage and said, hey man, I
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: seen what y'all did.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: This other dude. Let me tell you one I ain't
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: right here. You could throw app he's an ice up here?
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: What ice chip cube? If I feel cool, spit, I'm
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: from myammy. It's gonna be yellow tape all round this
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge. Them dope boys fell out laughing. Well, he
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: had one of the best sets, and then he took
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: all his clothes off, all his clothes off.
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: He had a red tongue on. He weighed eighty seven pounds.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: That's all he had on was a jockey strap.
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: He was the first dude I've ever seen twerk in
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: the comedy club. He said, welcome to Miami. We blacked out.
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: And got a standing ovation.
• 40:44
  Speaker 5: Standing old basin bro. I mean he literally I don't
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: know if he put on trick Daddy. I know he
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: had a song that was a theme. Yeah, he had
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: them dope boys so confused. They brought him about eighteen
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: bottles of more weet.
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, hey, we'll be back. We're talking to Bill Bellamy.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: We'll be back with more Bill Bellamie right after this.
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: We don't find out what had.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: In a minute.
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: All right, y'all, we're back with the legendary Bill Bellamy Man.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: We just family.
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: So we've been talking about to Bob Well, the legendary
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: Peppermint Lounge. But we got a show coming up him
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: and Tommy told me, you want to talk about the
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: showing or something.
• 41:27
  Speaker 8: The sow Go start out with straight ignorance with nephew Tommy,
• 41:31
  Speaker 8: let's get this jumping off the jump, and then Bill
• 41:33
  Speaker 8: already knows I'm finna come with as.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: Much energy and ignorance as.
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: Numb to man. I don't know how many outfits Tommy
• 41:40
  Speaker 5: be having, but they I don't know. He don't even
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: have a rest the room. I don't know when he
• 41:47
  Speaker 5: changed that in the car between two in the alleyway,
• 41:52
  Speaker 5: but he changed his clothes a lot, Steve, I don't
• 41:55
  Speaker 5: know how much money you're paying him, but he got it.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: He got that much.
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: Oh, he got plenty much, dang it. But the Glasney Bill,
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: he changed all Bill.
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: How many times you think he changed I'm gonna say
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: at least sixty three minim in the show. It's a
• 42:19
  Speaker 5: sixty minute show. He changed sixty three times. It's unnecessary.
• 42:26
  Speaker 5: I got I got before we I know we're gonna
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: be at the bout Well on Friday, But I gotta
• 42:31
  Speaker 5: ask you a question, because you know, comedians, we think
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: of funny stuff. And I'm going to ask you this question,
• 42:36
  Speaker 5: when the last time you've seen an albino? Because I
• 42:40
  Speaker 5: remember we used to have one or two in the neighborhood.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: You know, while this is what I'm.
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: Saying, like where did they go to Albania or did
• 42:50
  Speaker 5: they leave the country, ain't no.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: More with the frosted had and match it eye and
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: then they.
• 42:58
  Speaker 5: They eyebrows was just like look, they looked like like
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: clear caterpillars.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: Why aren't we talking about this?
• 43:07
  Speaker 5: Saul I said the same thing the nephew. We whatever happened,
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: it's a lot of stuff you don't even see no more,
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: like I ain't seen it.
• 43:14
  Speaker 8: Uh, we're Latin. You've seen the Messican twins. I swear
• 43:19
  Speaker 8: I ain't seen nothing.
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: No, they showed don't build them, they showed them make
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: them out.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: Twins.
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: I've seen it maxic twenty twin and thirty years. I
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: don't think so. I think they start making them in
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: sixty two. What about Hey, when the last time you've
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: seen somebody cross eyed? I think they've been fixing the
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: eyes for the last twenty Remember we had that one
• 43:47
  Speaker 5: cousin that I be sitting right on the nose. It
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: was right and it always was looking at the nose,
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: and the other I was regular. Do you remember that cousin?
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a cousin. We used to call him waller.
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: That's terrible because one of his eyes was always looking
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: at the wall.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I tell you something I ain't never seen to. I
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: ain't never seen an Amish.
• 44:14
  Speaker 4: On the talk show.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: What is that about?
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: It's something with him and Amish.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: It's something with him and all I do Amish all
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: the time because they come talk to Steven talking about
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: Amish what they gonna do.
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: But I ain't never seen an Amish in the nightclub either.
• 44:31
  Speaker 5: Though they don't go out.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: No, they're not so shocked.
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: They got them little high pants home with them suspenders.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: They don't say.
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: They pull up the valet with their horse, throw everybody
• 44:43
  Speaker 5: off in that.
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Now he blocking the whole intry because don't
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: nobody know how to park the horse, drive no carriage.
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: He just up in there with got the big triangle
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: on the back.
• 44:55
  Speaker 8: Hey Bill, What happened to that thing that used to
• 44:58
  Speaker 8: hang in the bath from on a coat hanger with
• 45:00
  Speaker 8: that holes on it?
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: What happened to that thing? When is that?
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: I don't know what that was, but my grandmama said,
• 45:05
  Speaker 5: don't touch it.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: Well, me and my nepht we touched it one time.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: We had a We had a we had a fight
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: with it. One time we filled it with water. We
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: didn't even tell her we did it. Then she came
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: in the house from shopping and said, why does house
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: smell like vinegar? And then next thing you know, she
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: went in there and did the math on it. We
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: got to beat with that same holes, that same hole.
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like it was like a pinkie show,
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: like a if you surely, why wouldn't y'all just put
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: it in the in the close or somewhere while y'all leave.
• 45:41
  Speaker 8: If you're looking for most stupid, it's happening Friday night,
• 45:43
  Speaker 8: Baby Bockwell Auditorium, Birmingham, Alabama, Week zero comedy. Damn, it
• 45:47
  Speaker 8: is myself, nephew Tommy and the one and only Bill
• 45:50
  Speaker 8: bella me in the building.
• 45:53
  Speaker 5: Let go Bill Bell. We love you boy, and love
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: you mean thank you and amen. Gone the BUCkies man
• 45:59
  Speaker 5: to get you something.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: I'm going to Bucky. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after the hour.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: what is my role in my we in my marriage?
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: What is my role in my marriage? We'll get into
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: that find out what as myself. That all about a
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: lot of time I pay for every day. That's a
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: good role. That's a good I like your role. All right, nephew,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: What you got for us today?
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 46:40
  Speaker 8: We're going down to the church. You know church people,
• 46:43
  Speaker 8: I love pranking them. We're going down to the church.
• 46:45
  Speaker 8: Right here is a church fee, church fee, church all right? Yeah,
• 46:51
  Speaker 8: we got fees. We got church feed. What you ain't
• 46:53
  Speaker 8: gonna do is be coming up in church late. You know,
• 46:55
  Speaker 8: you'll pay a late fee if I got If I
• 46:57
  Speaker 8: catch you coming in here late, you're gonna pay a fee.
• 46:59
  Speaker 8: All right, y'all gonna get yourself together when y'all come
• 47:02
  Speaker 8: into the house, let's go get Hello.
• 47:06
  Speaker 9: Hello, I'm trying to reach us the church.
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: Hey, you got her?
• 47:08
  Speaker 9: Hey? How you doing? This is this is brother Glenn
• 47:11
  Speaker 9: from the church.
• 47:11
  Speaker 11: Hey, brother Glenn, how you doing.
• 47:13
  Speaker 9: I'm good. I'm good, I'm real good. Did you enjoy
• 47:16
  Speaker 9: service boring?
• 47:16
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 47:17
  Speaker 11: I enjoyed it past the PASTA brought it down.
• 47:23
  Speaker 9: Yes, Oh my god. That was a word for me,
• 47:27
  Speaker 9: right right, right right?
• 47:28
  Speaker 11: So what do I owe the pleasure of this call?
• 47:31
  Speaker 9: I wanted to give you some information that the that
• 47:34
  Speaker 9: the church has come up with and we wanted to
• 47:37
  Speaker 9: let you know what was going on before next Sunday.
• 47:39
  Speaker 9: You got. I didn't interrupt you, Dinna, No, no.
• 47:41
  Speaker 11: I actually I may sound a little a little off
• 47:44
  Speaker 11: a little bit. I'm trying to get getting ready for
• 47:46
  Speaker 11: my little babes, my little darlings, and I'm trying to
• 47:48
  Speaker 11: your voice sounds so familiar to me. It just sounds
• 47:52
  Speaker 11: so familiar. Trying to place place that voice.
• 47:54
  Speaker 9: Okay, Well, you've seen me at the church quite a
• 47:56
  Speaker 9: few times. I think I have.
• 47:57
  Speaker 11: I'm just trying to place it. I can't place it
• 47:59
  Speaker 11: right now.
• 48:01
  Speaker 9: Well, nevertheless, I just wanted here's what's going on now.
• 48:04
  Speaker 9: You're aware that for the last the last six Sundays
• 48:07
  Speaker 9: you've been actually coming into service late. Have you realized that, Yes,
• 48:11
  Speaker 9: I know.
• 48:13
  Speaker 11: I'm sorry about that, but you know, yes I have,
• 48:16
  Speaker 11: I have my reasons.
• 48:17
  Speaker 9: So okay, okay, Well here's what's going on. The officials
• 48:20
  Speaker 9: at the church have gotten together and this is what
• 48:23
  Speaker 9: they've decided on, is that anybody who is late starting
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: next Sunday, there would be a fifteen dollar charge for
• 48:30
  Speaker 9: that for coming in and disrupting services. Fastest tired of
• 48:35
  Speaker 9: service being disrupted by people walking in late that that
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: could not come at a worse time.
• 48:41
  Speaker 11: I don't have fifteen dollars to give.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I don't have it.
• 48:47
  Speaker 11: Oh look, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that we're late. I
• 48:52
  Speaker 11: am we are doing our best. I have three kids.
• 48:56
  Speaker 11: I have three young kids, two seven and and they
• 49:00
  Speaker 11: are a handful, and we do the best that we
• 49:04
  Speaker 11: can to get the church on time. And to tell you,
• 49:08
  Speaker 11: when we get there, it's doing praise and worship. I mean,
• 49:11
  Speaker 11: Pats ain't even preaching.
• 49:12
  Speaker 9: Yet, so I know it's not pass is not up yet,
• 49:15
  Speaker 9: but he's he's stating that people coming in. It just
• 49:18
  Speaker 9: seems very disruptive to the service that's going on. So nevertheless,
• 49:22
  Speaker 9: like I said, this is a warning call, you know,
• 49:24
  Speaker 9: to let you know that if you are late on
• 49:26
  Speaker 9: next Sunday, then they will be charging you fifteen dollars
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: are late charge. And actually you won't be able to
• 49:33
  Speaker 9: even come in what until you until you pay fifty dollars.
• 49:37
  Speaker 11: I can't even get in church with we Look, Okay, look,
• 49:41
  Speaker 11: I don't I don't owe nothing. I don't owe you
• 49:43
  Speaker 11: no explanations, but I need to tell you something. We
• 49:46
  Speaker 11: are me and my kids for the last few Sundays
• 49:50
  Speaker 11: that we've been late. It's because my car broke down.
• 49:53
  Speaker 11: We are on the bus man public transportation.
• 49:56
  Speaker 9: Okay, I mean, and I understand. I understand. I said
• 49:59
  Speaker 9: civilitize whatever thing that you're going through.
• 50:01
  Speaker 11: But why are you called if you understand? Why are
• 50:02
  Speaker 11: you calling me about fifteen dollars? If you understand what
• 50:04
  Speaker 11: I'm going through?
• 50:05
  Speaker 9: Well I didn't at first of all, I didn't know
• 50:07
  Speaker 9: what you were going Why are you raising your voice
• 50:08
  Speaker 9: at me? Why are you raising? Did you just raise
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: your voice at me?
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: You know what?
• 50:13
  Speaker 11: You know what I think? You're raising your voice at me?
• 50:16
  Speaker 11: How dare you call me about this? About a feat?
• 50:19
  Speaker 11: And I'm there at church, I got my key. Instare
• 50:22
  Speaker 11: trying to raise them up? Is the way they should go,
• 50:24
  Speaker 11: just like the Bible say. And you know why I
• 50:27
  Speaker 11: gotta do this and why I'm late? Why we got
• 50:30
  Speaker 11: to catch the bus? Do you understand why that is?
• 50:32
  Speaker 9: Brother Gleed, No, I do not.
• 50:35
  Speaker 11: That is because they to their.
• 50:36
  Speaker 9: Daddy is ain't And yes it's Tracy. You got to
• 50:39
  Speaker 9: calm down a little bit now.
• 50:41
  Speaker 11: Oh Jesus, healthy, Jesus help me Jesus.
• 50:43
  Speaker 9: Okay, listen, here's the deal, all I can do is
• 50:46
  Speaker 9: tell you this. I hope you can make it. Maybe
• 50:48
  Speaker 9: you can catch an earlier bus, you know what I mean,
• 50:51
  Speaker 9: and get that a little earlier. But but I'm just
• 50:53
  Speaker 9: stating the facts that as of next Sunday, if you
• 50:56
  Speaker 9: come in late, it's fifteen dollars late fee, and that's
• 50:59
  Speaker 9: what you'll pay to get in the service.
• 51:01
  Speaker 11: You know what, Well, maybe next Sunday I just won't
• 51:03
  Speaker 11: be there. How about that? You know I'm already working
• 51:08
  Speaker 11: six days a week. The only day I have office Sunday,
• 51:11
  Speaker 11: I've been baking, breaking my back. Do you know I
• 51:13
  Speaker 11: work two jobs. I work two jobs, and they always
• 51:15
  Speaker 11: trying to take money out of my check, always trying
• 51:18
  Speaker 11: to pull me here and there, and I'm always tired.
• 51:20
  Speaker 11: I get two hours of sleep, and then now the
• 51:22
  Speaker 11: church wants to dump another fifteen dollars charging me for
• 51:25
  Speaker 11: being at church when that's what I'm supposed to do.
• 51:28
  Speaker 9: But you're coming in late, though, Tracy.
• 51:31
  Speaker 11: You know what, you know what late ain't bad. Okay,
• 51:35
  Speaker 11: I might be delayed, but I ain't denied, and I'm
• 51:37
  Speaker 11: getting there the best way that I know how. For Oh,
• 51:40
  Speaker 11: the bus, I have to put my kids on.
• 51:42
  Speaker 9: The school bus and long did I.
• 51:43
  Speaker 11: Have to put them on the school bus. Then I
• 51:44
  Speaker 11: have to get on the bus to myself to work
• 51:46
  Speaker 11: because I don't have a car. Because they Daddy ain't
• 51:49
  Speaker 11: doing nothing nothing for them. Do you understand what I'm
• 51:52
  Speaker 11: saying to you? I need to under that Number one,
• 51:57
  Speaker 11: it's what hit daddy for two, he in jail. I've
• 52:00
  Speaker 11: been there about five years. He ain't And daddy number
• 52:03
  Speaker 11: three she decided to go ahead and walk out. And
• 52:07
  Speaker 11: I ain't heard from that that t listen in about
• 52:10
  Speaker 11: seven months now. He knows we struggling. She had to
• 52:12
  Speaker 11: nerve to take my wallet too. You don't You don't
• 52:15
  Speaker 11: even understand what I'm going through. You don't even understand
• 52:17
  Speaker 11: that I'm trying to make a better life for me
• 52:18
  Speaker 11: and my children.
• 52:20
  Speaker 9: There is one one thing, Sister Tracy, that the Church
• 52:22
  Speaker 9: wants you to know before next Sunday that you definitely
• 52:24
  Speaker 9: need to know.
• 52:25
  Speaker 11: What one more thing does the church want me to know?
• 52:27
  Speaker 11: It's fifteen dollars.
• 52:28
  Speaker 9: The Church just wants you to know that this is
• 52:31
  Speaker 9: Nephew towm me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your
• 52:33
  Speaker 9: sister Patrece got me the prank phone call you.
• 52:39
  Speaker 11: I am gonna walk. I'm no, are you you know
• 52:45
  Speaker 11: I ain't got time for that. You know I ain't
• 52:47
  Speaker 11: got time for that. Oh hook for trees?
• 52:50
  Speaker 9: Uh huh, you got you all right?
• 52:54
  Speaker 11: I got something for her?
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: How about that?
• 52:58
  Speaker 9: You tell what she says? She said the corproo. Now
• 53:01
  Speaker 9: she says, she got these kids, you over a struggling
• 53:04
  Speaker 9: and struggling and she's trying to make it. But you
• 53:06
  Speaker 9: gotta give a hard time. She just wanted, she wanted,
• 53:09
  Speaker 9: she wanted you to put she wanted to put a
• 53:10
  Speaker 9: smile on your face.
• 53:13
  Speaker 11: Well, you want being settled out, I'm gonna have to
• 53:16
  Speaker 11: say she did.
• 53:18
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 53:19
  Speaker 11: Wow, Now that I know you y'all were joking, And
• 53:22
  Speaker 11: now I know this is nephew Tommy.
• 53:27
  Speaker 9: Hey, I gotta ask you something, baby, what's the baddest
• 53:29
  Speaker 9: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.
• 53:32
  Speaker 11: That's Steve Harven Morning Show.
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: Babies, there we go, folks.
• 53:39
  Speaker 8: Is that nephew? Is that ignorant? It's that stupid? It's
• 53:43
  Speaker 8: that nephew all right? And you just heard earlier who
• 53:47
  Speaker 8: is mo ignorant? Bill Bellamy and the nephew will be
• 53:50
  Speaker 8: off the twenty ninth Friday Night. Well, Auditorium, Birmingham, Alabama.
• 53:54
  Speaker 8: It is week zero comedy, damn, it is week zero.
• 53:57
  Speaker 8: Of course they got the big football games Valdosta's say
• 54:00
  Speaker 8: it against Clarke, Atlanta University, West Alabama against Fort Valley,
• 54:04
  Speaker 8: and that's all going down Saturday night. But on Friday night,
• 54:08
  Speaker 8: it's where it's stupidity Stars, And that's where you want
• 54:11
  Speaker 8: to start.
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: You want to start with stupidity, straight ignorance. That's how
• 54:15
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  Speaker 1: All right, all minds clear? End with that.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, yes, yes, yes, And it's not sixty something out fifth,
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  Speaker 8: it's like four or five.
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  Speaker 1: You know that was an exactuate. I didn't know you
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  Speaker 1: changed that many times. I never did that, you know
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  Speaker 1: I got different. Yeah, I got that from Patty Le Belle.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: You do that a lot.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, made Megan Stars do that.
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  Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying. That's like you got that
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  Speaker 8: from Patty La Belle. Okay, yeah, yeah, you knew you'd
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  Speaker 8: have done it. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying,
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  Speaker 8: Oh my god. If you know, if you're not in
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  Speaker 8: the city of Birmingham, then you'll catch me. I'm ready
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  Speaker 8: to love. I'll be there on my own network. Okay,
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  Speaker 8: and we're coming up on one hundred and fift the episode.
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  Speaker 8: So hey, come on, Hey, what you got?
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  Speaker 4: But don't worry about me though, dog please, you know
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  Speaker 4: I tell people all the time it's hard to catch
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  Speaker 4: somebody still running though.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry Letter for today
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  Speaker 1: and the subject is what is my role in my marriage?
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  Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
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  Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, work, sex,
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  Speaker 1: All right, Telly, thank you. Subject what's my role in
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: my marriage? What's my role in my marriage? Dear Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 1: I'm married to a man that doesn't do his own laundry,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: rake his own plate into the sink, or do any
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: chores in our home. He said. He makes the money
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: and provides a decent living for our children, and I'm
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: supposed to have sex with him and do my duty
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: as the wife and mother. He is only thirty two,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: so he's getting this from his daddy, who's been divorced twice.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: He told me that if he can't be a king
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: in his household, he will have to go where he's celebrated.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: I have told him several times to go ahead and
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: see if the grass is greener on the other side,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: but he won't do it. I refuse to be treated
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: like a handmaid at home. The only time he treats
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: me like an equal is when it counts. He brags
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: to his friends that I'm so smart, and I'm a
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: great wife, and I'm raising our daughters to be polite
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: and kind. Then as soon as we're alone, he's telling
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: me to go get ready for bed and wait for
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: him before I fall asleep. Because he is in the
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: mood for intimacy. He never does the appetizer part first anymore.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: He skips right to the entree and then takes the shower.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: If I try to take a shower with him like
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: we used to, he will say that he won't be
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: in there long. I would love to know where I
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: stand with my husband and if this is what our
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: marriage will be like forever. I want to talk to
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: his dad to see why he's advising him to treat
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: me like I'm his servant. And I want to ask
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: his mother if this is how her marriage was. My
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: husband said, I have no right to speak to his
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: parents if he is not present. Am I part of
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: this marriage or am I a smart maid and nanny
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  Speaker 1: that he enjoys having sex with? What is my role
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: with him? Well, right now, your role is that of
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: a wife who is being controlled and defined by her husband.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: I don't like the fact that you are letting him
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: tell you who you are in this marriage. Marriage is
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: supposed to be a loving, committed partnership between two people.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: Marriage is not a dictatorship like what your husband has
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: going on in your marriage. You can control your own narrative,
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: meaning you decide your own role with him. He doesn't
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: decide that.
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  Speaker 5: You say.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: He treats you well outside of the house, but inside
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: he's cold and mean. You've told him many times to
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: go ahead and see if the grad greener on the
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: other side. Go ahead, but he won't do it. And
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: why do you think that is? Because he knows better.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: He knows that it isn't. So don't just allow him
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: to continue to treat you this way. Talk to you crazy?
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: How dare he? You have to teach him how to
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: treat you. And you don't need to talk to his
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: parents about what's going on in your house either. Talk
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: to him that's your husband. Tell him how you feel
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: or better yet, show him. Don't wait for him to
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: come to bed only to just satisfy himself. You go
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: to bed and go to sleep if that's what you
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: want to do, because your body and mind only respond
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: to a caring, loving husband. Let him know that that's
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: what you got to tell him. No one said he
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: couldn't be the king of the castle. He's just got
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: to remember that you are the queen of the castle
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: and he needs to treat you as such. Period.
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: Steve Well, the problem with this guy realizing that his
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: wife says the queen of the castle is he doesn't
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: have a good definition of what queen is. He doesn't
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: understand that the queen is the most powerful position on
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 4: the chessboard, always has been, always will be. Now the
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: game is over once you capture the king, but if
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: you lose your queen, and the game is very difficult
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 4: to win, especially if somebody else got one. Now you're
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: I'm married to a man. What's my role in my marriage, lady,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: that's for you to define. This is your definition of
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: what your role in the marriage is. What role are
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: you willing to play?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: You're married to this man that don't do his own line,
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: you rake his own plate, int to the sink, or
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: do any chores.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: In our home?
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: He said, he makes the money, provides a decent living
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: for our children, and I'm supposed to have sex with
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 4: him and do my duty as a wife and mother.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: He's only thirty two, so he's getting this from his daddy,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: who's been divorced twice. He told me that if he
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 4: can't be a king in his household, he'll have to
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: go where he's celebrated. Look, man, early threats and what
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: you're gonna do and all this hell man bye. I
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: told him several times to go ahead and see if
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: the grass is green on the other side.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: But he won't do it. No, let me explain something
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: to you. It ain't that he won't do it. He
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: done tried it properly. But what the deal is is
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: he not.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: Gonna find nobody that's gonna take in with this nineteen
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 4: fifty two marriage agreement nineteen fifty two.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: This ain't my three sons or leave it to beaver.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: This is the same. What this is the Saint Black
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: and White TV.
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  Speaker 4: No more think on you. You don't get You don't
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: get to talk to women like this man. You you
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: don't get to tell a woman that go in there
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: and get ready for bread till I come in there.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 4: What where are you if you're getting this from your
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: stupid daddy that's been divorced twice. Don't you know that's
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 4: where you're headed. I refuse to be treated like a
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 4: handmaid at home. Then you say, the only time he
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 4: treats you is equal is when it counts.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: That's so.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 4: That's a double canandra what you call it? That's a
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: oxy moron. I don't know what they call it. This
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 4: don't make no sense.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 9: Now.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 4: The only time he treats me like an equal is
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 4: when it counts. What getting treated right counts all the time.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: But you think it's kind when he brad to his
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 4: friends that I'm smart and a great wife and kind
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 4: of politen. Then when he's alone, he's telling me to
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 4: go get ready for bed and wait for him before
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 4: I fall asleep because he in the move for intimacy. Man, girl,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: I'm tired.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: hour Today's Strawberry letter subject what is my role in
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: my marriage? We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 4: Get into the Hyundai Getaway sales event and get away
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: with the deal.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: So right, it almost feels wrong. Right now, get.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: Huge savings on our popular models, including our venture ready
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: SUV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all electric
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic five
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 4: or Ionic six.
• 1:03:26
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:03:32
  Speaker 8: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: The subject is what is my role in my marriage
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: a wife?
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 9: One?
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: That's the question and that we can't answer that one.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 4: You're supposed to determine that you've married this guy that
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 4: don't do no household chores at all. Told you that
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 4: that's the way it works because he make all the money,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 4: He take care of his wife and kids, and all
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 4: you need to do is your wifey dudies, the wifely duties.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 4: And you're supposed to have sex with him when he
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: wants to. And he'll tell you, you know, go in
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: there and get ready for bed and before I fall asleep,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: and I'm coming there because I want to be intimate.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 5: What do you.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 4: Then here's a line that stood out for me in
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 4: the whole letter. The only time he treats me like
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 4: an equal is when it counts, lady, it counts all
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: the time. But you think when he gets in front
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: of his friends and he brags on you, talk about
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: how smart you are and how good of a wife,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: and how you're waising your daughters and all that. And
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: then after that, as soon as we're alone, he telling
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 4: me to go get ready for bed and wait for
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: him before I fall asleep, because he in the mood
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 4: for intimacy.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: Who married to this? Where do you find? Huh?
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 9: How you?
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: What did you say? Get in there?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 4: Get in there and get ready for bed till I
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 4: come in there?
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 9: What?
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: He never does the advertiser part first anymore. He skips
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: right to the entree and then takes a shot. If
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: I try to take a shot with him like we
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: used to, he'll say he won't be in that long.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 4: And I would love to know where I staying with
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 4: my husband. You don't stand no where with him. He
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 4: done told you you don't stand You get in there
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 4: and lay in that bed, wait till I come in. Now,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 4: I don't do no charge. You do all this clean
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 4: and mopping, wiping, take caady, kids, I'm the king of
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 4: this castle. I want to know where I stand with
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 4: my husband. If this is what our marriage would be
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 4: like forever. Yeah, unless you change it, you're getting what
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: you're gonna get. And if you keep doing what you
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 4: been doing, you gonna keep getting what you've been getting.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: The change is up to you. I want to talk
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: to his dad to see why he's advising me to
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 4: treat me like this. I'm his servant, and I want
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: to ask his mom if this is how and her
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: marriage was.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: What are you talking to them for? What you keep
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: looking for? Insight?
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: See your problem, young lady, is you keep looking for
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: your justification in other people. You won't talk to his daddy,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: you won't talk to his mama. Then you say he
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 4: only treats me right when he counts. You keep waiting
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: on validation for somebody else. My husband said, I have
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 4: no right to speak to his parents if he is
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: not present. Wow, what kind of relationship y'all got? Am
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 4: I a part of this marriage? Or am I a
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 4: smart maid and a nanny that he enjoys having sex with.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 4: You're a part of his marriage. Once you insert yourself
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 4: into the marriage, you do know that it takes two
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 4: people to be married. I don't know what y'all's viles was,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 4: but I most women don't listen to him no way. Now,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 4: I'm not talking about in terms of lawty is nothing
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: like that, but that that they even took them words
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 4: out honor and obeyed. They don't even say that no more,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 4: I don't think because if you can get one to obey,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 4: that have to be a miracle. Please please tell me
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: how that works. Donna and obeyed, I be I at
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: never and these two that's on this show married down
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 4: obeyed nothing. I can just tell you that it's just
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 4: not in their card. So I don't even really anyway.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 4: They ain't got nothing to do with it. What is
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: my role with him? Well, you're the lady that does
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: all the housework. You're the lady that goes in there
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 4: and lay down till he get ready to have sex
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: and shut up all this talking.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: You don't come in here, don't show with me.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 4: I don't want to. I don't want that. Don't be
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 4: a hero of nohing to stop. That's your role, that's
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 4: what you've described to us. Now, Am I a smart
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 4: maid and a nanny that he enjoys having sex with
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 4: I think you just described your role because so far
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: in the letter that's what you are. You're a smart maid,
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 4: a nanny, and he enjoys having sex with you. What
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: are you getting out of this? What's in it for you?
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: I mean, you didn't say he was a great dad.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: He told you he's a great provider.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: I know I am.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 4: I want that credit all the time. But that ain't
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 4: all you get to be though, when you're a husband
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 4: and a father, you got to be something else. And
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: so yeah, lady, what's your role in this marriage? Only
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 4: you can determine that. But I tell you what you
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 4: all are young. If you don't change this, this is
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 4: this is what's gonna happen in your marriage from now on.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: And you're gonna be miserable.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: Because I don't really see what you're getting out of it.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 4: And here's left to his other point, I almost forgot this.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: Y y'all ain't had none of these discussions.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: Before y'all got married. Helen, you didn't. You didn't know
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: that this is what he expected you to do. You
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: didn't know he never told you when I get married,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: I make this money. I ain't doing no cleaning.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 4: I told her to Marrow.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: I said, hey, when we get married, don't ask me
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: to clean.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 4: I told her that.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: She still asked me to clean. You've lift up through.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 4: Now I gotta go in there and wipe the count
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 4: off every night. It's my plate.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Damn the dish washer for what are
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: these people in here?
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 5: Well?
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 4: What has we got these people walking around here for?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: Oh one?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 4: I don't understand right, all right, please stop telling me
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 4: what I need to do, but clearly these people are
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 4: in here.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: You're coming, buddy on Today's letter on Instagram at.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: White your clothes can't find the hample. They can't find here,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 4: but I don't know where it is.
• 1:09:46
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• 1:09:47
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• 1:09:51
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, Tommy is here and for junior with
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  Speaker 1: sports talk. What you got Tommy?
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  Speaker 4: Aren't they talking about it? Talking about Shallow?
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 8: Shallowed and got cut from Tampa Bay Buccaneers. There's talks
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 8: about Dollar possibly going to play Canadian football, and there's
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 8: also a rumor that the door might be going to
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 8: Canadian football.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: You're going to know where? Okay, I'm.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: All right, clean, clean, and just traded Kenny Pickett to
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 4: the Los Angeles Raiders for a fifth round pick.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: In next year's draft.
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  Speaker 4: Cleveland's draft board next year is outstanding. Okay, so now
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: they have three quarterbacks, well technically, but go ahead, No,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 4: how they got full Trump?
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: Well are you adding? Uh uhha?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: Oh no, he ain't even in the company, man, he
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: ain't even in the conversation.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 8: Thank you, congratulations. I think he just got married. But yeah, so,
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 8: so what do you think do you think shot? This
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 8: is a good move for Shallow going to Canadian malls.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: I don't think that's necessary yet.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 8: Okay, he can get cornerback man. He played pretty good
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 8: throughout the preseason. He did pretty decent.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: Is he a cornerback or safety? I thought he was corner.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's safety. I thought he was corner like a dad.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: Well not like his dad. You know what I'm trying
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: to say. He can play something.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 8: I don't understand. Man, This this preseason, of course, is
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 8: for everybody. You know, you got you got rookies coming in.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 8: You're either gonna make the team or not make the team.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 8: But at least you see, you get to see your
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 8: main quarterback come do a couple series, march the field.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: That's that's normal.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 8: What I don't understand, Dallas, Cowboy Dak Prescott has not
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 8: taken a snap yet, and I don't get that. And
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 8: you finna come play Philadelphia for your first game? Uh,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 8: the big defense opening game Thursday night would be will
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 8: be the Philadelphia Eagles and the Cowboys.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: And he ain't took a snap. That doesn't make no
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: sense to me. Well you know this, Dallas, though, this Dallas, what.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 4: Makes sense in I mean? And this ain't me hating.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: I'm just asking a question. The fans are confused. This
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 4: man ain't sign Parsons yet. Parsons. It's confused. Everybody want
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 4: to know what's happening. That's how Jay jorganes NEI running
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: the organization. Man, there is where That's why. Man, I
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 4: like the Dallas Cowboy players. Man, I just can't stand
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 4: the teams. No, the dog I ain't got no problem
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 4: with the fans. Well, I loved a cheerleaders. Let me
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 4: just put that out there. They have the most americous team.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 8: Man.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Coming up at the top
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: of the hour, a lady needs some advice Steve on
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: how to handle her baby daddy and his wife. Okay,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that God right after this. You're listening
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: is from Precious in Memphis. Prescia says, I had a
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: baby in March, and my child's dad has been to
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: see the baby once. He called and asked if he
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  Speaker 1: could come and get our child to introduce the baby
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: to his wife. I told him if my I pause
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: there because I know you needed a moment. I told him,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: if my baby goes to meet his wife, then I
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: should go meet her too. He said that his wife
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to meet me. Should I keep my baby
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  Speaker 1: away until I meet his wife? That is her question.
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  Speaker 1: That's precious.
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  Speaker 4: He's your baby. He'dn't been to see her once. I
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 4: don't think he's in a position for demands. If you say, look,
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: you can come get the baby, but I want to
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  Speaker 4: meet your wife. You got to know who got your kids.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 4: Now his wife don't want to meet her, then you
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 4: can't meet the baby. What what the hell?
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: This woman had the baby?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 4: She got DIBs. The mother got DIBs. Sorry, yeah, wow,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 4: yeah she had Yeah, brother, you'd have been to see
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: her one time. Now you want to pick the baby
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 4: up and take so your wife can meet her. Oh well,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 4: I want to meet your wife. She don't want to
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 4: meet you.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well cool, she don't want to meet me. Shea's
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: fit to meet my baby, right baby? Okay? All right,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: So she should keep the baby until she meets the wife. Absolutely,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: this is a simple request. Yeah, it was stupid asked it.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: He's stupid. A baby mama for your wife. All right,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: we have time for another one, Steve. This is from
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: Cynthia in Studio City. Cynthia says, I pay my teenage
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: son to help me out by picking up his little
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: brother from school this year and keeping him until I
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: get home from work. I found out that he's been
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: smoking weed out back and leaving my son inside unattended.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: I told him that if he can't be as sharp,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: that he can't be as sharp as he needs to
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: be when he's under the influence of drugs. He says,
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: he's better when he smokes. He's nineteen years old and
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: weed is legal here.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: So what do I do?
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: Do I stop paying him if he's going to be high? Well,
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: I mean you're paying him to watch is your son? Okay?
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: I mean he's not smoking in front of the How
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: old is the boy?
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 9: That? Yeah?
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 4: And I mean if he's outside smoking weed, you know
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: he thinks he can. He the reason he watched him
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 4: better when he high is called he ain't watching it.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: Explain that please here out back smoking weed? I can
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: watch him better from out back. See how that sounds crazy? Yeah?
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: And she's concerned about the younger brother, the little brother
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: in the house by himself, just leaving him in the house.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 4: He got to be a toddler, he you, well, yeah.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Should you stop paying
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: him if he's going to be high? She says, yeah,
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: But he told his mom that he's better when he smokes.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 4: We didn't get paid to watch our siblings. You just
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 4: had to watch your siblings.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: But I mean, this is a nice savage from the mom. Toddler.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: He's in school, so he's yeah, he's not. Yeah, he's
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: not a toddler problem. That's daymare. Yeah.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 4: I can't imagine wrapping my lips up to tell my mama,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 4: I'm better when i'm high.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: I there, let's go right, right, right right? Nineteen he's
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: ninety Yeah, next question, Shirley, I can't. All right, that's it,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: that's it, that's it. Yeah, he's better when he smokes.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: If you believe that, then then tyda, we have a problem. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: I think they have a problem. Yeah, but weed is
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: legal there, and he's nineteen. He can't he's stupid. He's
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: here his little brother. Yeah, yeah, but it's not legally
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: if you're nineteen. Well maybe the mom doesn't know that.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 4: I mean, don't weed have a like twenty one? Yeah,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 4: you gotta be twenty one to smoke it.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know about wheed, but she did say it's
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: legal there. All right, all right, coming up at about
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here's a question.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: Listen to this, guys, what celebrity do you hate for
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: no good reason? Not do you love, but do you
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: hate for no goo for some reason? You just don't
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: like them?
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 9: You know?
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: This question was posed on a Reddit pop culture chat,
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  Speaker 1: and the answers were funny. Luckily, Steve, no one named you.
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  Speaker 1: No one, so see people love you if you've ever
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: experienced dream anger or discussed with the celebrity that you
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: don't know or that you know for absolutely no reason,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: who was that person?
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 4: I ain't really never had no beef with no real celebrity.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 4: I ain't got nobody. I don't like it for no reason,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 4: no even for a reason.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: What about?
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  Speaker 9: What?
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: What are you gonna say that just I hate Tyl?
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: I asked this man this question. I do Uh, you're good? Yeah,
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: I'm good man. I don't really all right, we're getting
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: through it. Then it's just like you know, one or
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: two people I bet not see nowhere.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 4: But he said, I got about three more people that
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 4: I want to drag across the concrete.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna get baptized. Oh wow. Okay, dude, all right,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: I'm glad it's all love on this show. We'll have
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we will play around.
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  Speaker 1: It's time now, guys, for a round. It would you rather?
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  Speaker 8: All right?
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: So on a woman? Would you rather a big pretty
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: smile or big pretty eyes on a woman?
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  Speaker 5: Wow?
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: Smile teeth or eyes like a pretty mind pretty smile?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, all right?
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: Like your.
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  Speaker 4: Eyes? Your eyes is too much. You got a big
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 4: smile and big.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 6: Overnight you come a b It's like your nose and
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 6: your lips I get too much, too much.
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  Speaker 9: Much.
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  Speaker 4: You're too close, You're too close. Back up, back up,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 4: scare the kids.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: Now all right? Would you rather run in a street
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: race barefoot? Or would you rather dangle your feet in
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: a lake? Dang on my feet on the lake. Wait?
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: What are the choices?
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: What race?
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  Speaker 9: Well?
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: This, this, this is what it is.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 4: Would you rather I'm gonna dangle my feet in the
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 4: lake all the Okay, I'm.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: A good dangler. You're a good thing.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 9: Yeah, we know.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have one account with your spouse or
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: just live without a debit card? One bank account? Just
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: one account with your spouse one probably a joint account.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I just gotta keep going down that to the
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 4: bank and getting me.
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: You got a debit car, debit card? Okay?
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 4: Explain you mean a debit card like to go to
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 4: ATM machine?
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't been to an ATM machine since.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you can do more with a debit
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: card than just go to the ATM. It's your cat.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 4: It's just like cash.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 8: You ain't done it, you know, you pull up in
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 8: there to day and stick your card in and and
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 8: and check your balance.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 4: I put that card in there. I ain't even gonna
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 4: know what to push.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: They have prompts. They ask me what.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 4: Okay, suppose I say credit or debit?
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: Then they then they're gonna ask me for some numbers.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: What's your personal identification number? Your PIN?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 9: What is it?
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: Credit? You don't need a pin if you press debit? Yeah,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: the PIN number to make the purchase?
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 2: What is the pin?
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: Photo? Why would I do that?
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 4: You and.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: Or your card in the machine? Oh, you can tap it.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: You can tap from it. Now tap, you can tap
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: a card. I just I did.
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  Speaker 4: The first time I did that was last year I
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 4: taped that bass pro shot.
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  Speaker 1: You was excited. All right, that's today's would you live
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  Speaker 1: a fun day. We want to say thank you to
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  Speaker 1: our very special guest, Bill Bellamy. He was fantastic, sick. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: off the shame. Always tell me what's your show this weekend?
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  Speaker 4: With you and you and Bill?
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  Speaker 8: Oh? Come on man, this is zero baby, this is
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  Speaker 8: week z ro, this is the comedy Jam. This is
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  Speaker 8: Friday Night bock Well Auditorium. Me and Bill Bellamie what
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  Speaker 8: I am stupid? And I'm making changes at the same
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  Speaker 8: time a costume.
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  Speaker 1: He said, sixty three. I think Bill Bella, are you
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  Speaker 1: taking hand? Yeah, I'll be sweating.
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  Speaker 7: I'll cause you jump around the stage and do all
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 7: kinds of crazy stuff. Yeah, too much energy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm working up there. I'm putting into work.
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  Speaker 8: How come I hang out with us? Man, We're gonna
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  Speaker 8: have a good time bought well off Friday night.
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  Speaker 1: That should be a lot of fun. All right, Steve,
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: here we are time for closing remarks. I did want
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  Speaker 1: to ask you this. You know, sometimes you talk to
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: us about relationships and things like that. I always love
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: when you talk about the four bank accounts, four bank accounts.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: People ask me, what did Steve say about the four
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: bank accounts? Can you explain that? Please?
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  Speaker 8: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: You know, that's crazy because I just had this conversation
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 4: with this couple who were having an argument about money.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 4: Oh why And they said, well, let's ask mister Harvey
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 4: and see what you think. And so I just had
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 4: this conversation and it was taught to me actually by
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 4: a friend of mine who's deceased now, the great Roger E. Salter,
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 4: who owned San Mar Financial up in Chicago. That man
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 4: right there taught me so much about finances. Roger Salters
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 4: man Frat Brother sixty eight, MISSI man. He was a great, great,
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 4: great friend. He taught me something. He said, Steve, every
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 4: couple should have four bank accounts. He said, you could
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 4: save yourself a lot of trouble. Because he was advising
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 4: me years ago. This was in the nineteen nineties, and
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 4: he was giving me some advice. Now I was struggling.
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 4: He said, here's why you're struggling, because even though you're married, man,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 4: you need to have individuality. I said no, He said,
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 4: nobody wants to ask somebody for something all the time.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 4: Say you got to create freedom within your marriage, he say,
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 4: and within your partnership. So every couple should have four
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 4: bank accounts.
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 1: He said, you.
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  Speaker 4: Should have number one. If both of you are working,
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 4: you should have a joint account where you both put
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 4: your incomes into this account and you sought out the
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 4: bills that have to be paid.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: These are the.
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 4: Must do things, the rent, the mortgage, the light, the gas,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 4: the groceries, the card notes, the insurances are cation for
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 4: all of this has to go in in it. And then,
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 4: no matter who you are, you have to make a
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 4: concerted effort, the two of you to save something. He said,
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 4: I don't care if it's twenty dollars a week, two
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 4: hundred a week, five percent of your money a week,
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 4: whatever your two of you decide, you've got to save
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 4: something from every check. Don't ever spend the whole check.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 4: Put it in a joint account that requires both of
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  Speaker 4: your signatures to move the money so now you've taken
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  Speaker 4: care of your household, you've taken care of your necessities,
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  Speaker 4: and now you have a little nest egg that you're building.
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  Speaker 4: But it requires two people to move, so one person
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  Speaker 4: can't go and take the money out without the other
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  Speaker 4: person's knowledge. He said, Now a bank account three and
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  Speaker 4: four that you need is she needs her own personal
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  Speaker 4: account and you need your own person. There's no account
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  Speaker 4: because what that does is you all decide out of
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  Speaker 4: the joint account where you all put your money. Who
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  Speaker 4: gets what as there monthly or buy monthly. If you
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  Speaker 4: get paid once a month, it goes in once a month.
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  Speaker 4: If you get paid twice a month, it goes in
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  Speaker 4: twice a month. If you get paid weekly, it goes
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  Speaker 4: in weekly. However you want to decide it. But who
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  Speaker 4: gets what?
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  Speaker 1: He said?
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  Speaker 4: Now, let me give you a piece of advice. Son,
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  Speaker 4: He said, you.
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  Speaker 1: Should always give your wife more than you get.
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  Speaker 4: He said, I explain something to you, he said, because
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  Speaker 4: you're not gonna be able to give this woman, especially
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  Speaker 4: if you have a true partner, because she will take
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  Speaker 4: care of stuff with her money that you don't even
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  Speaker 4: think about. She gonna do stuff for the kids, she
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  Speaker 4: gonna do stuff for the grandkids. She gonna do stuff
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  Speaker 4: for the house out of her money. But now she
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  Speaker 4: needs more to maintain herself than you do. You gotta
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  Speaker 4: go get a haircut. She gotta get a hair done.
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  Speaker 4: She gotta buy makeup. She gotta do manicures, pedicures. She
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  Speaker 4: gotta do spa treatments to keep it up. She gotta
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  Speaker 4: buy skincare products. All you got is some lotion at
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  Speaker 4: the house, he says, So give your wife more than
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  Speaker 4: you get now in her account. She does not have
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  Speaker 4: to ask your permission for anything. If she want to
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  Speaker 4: spend it on barettes, she get to buy bags or barettes.
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  Speaker 4: She want to spend it on skin care products, You
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  Speaker 4: can't say nothing. You, on the other hand, sir, you
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  Speaker 4: get your own money. She can't say nothing. If you
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  Speaker 4: buying cigars, tequila, if you buying golf clubs, whatever you buy,
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  Speaker 4: she can't say anything. You want to loan your partner
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  Speaker 4: one hundred dollars, that's on you. She want to give
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  Speaker 4: her family members one hundred dollars, that's on her. And
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  Speaker 4: it keeps a level of independence while you're made married
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  Speaker 4: in freedom and allows the one person not to be
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  Speaker 4: beholden to the other person. It'll cut down on a
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  Speaker 4: lot of financial arguments. It'll ensure that you all have
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  Speaker 4: taken care of your basics, and it will ensure that
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  Speaker 4: you all are building for the future with some type
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  Speaker 4: of saving. Four bank accounts per couple is a must have.
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  Speaker 4: Greatest advice I've ever had. Those are my closing remarks today,
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  Speaker 4: and listen to everybody. Please don't forget talk to God today.
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  Speaker 4: He would absolutely love to hear from you.
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