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Laura Coates Interview, Stevie Wonder, NAACP Nominees, PDA and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all back all, suit all looking back to
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  Speaker 1: back down, giving them like theming buck things and its
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  Speaker 1: not true. Good Steve har to mother for stunt joy.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn
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  Speaker 1: well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice?
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. You know this week I've just
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  Speaker 1: been on it, so today is no different. I'm telling you,
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  Speaker 1: I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the
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  Speaker 1: principles of success. I'm more determined to help and guide
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  Speaker 1: and teach as many people as I can the things
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  Speaker 1: that I've learned. And I mean, man, I've been through it.
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  Speaker 1: I have really been through it. I kid you not.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I used to say, Okay, God, you know,
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  Speaker 1: why is all this happening to me? But as I've
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  Speaker 1: gotten older, I understand that was the ingredients. I needed
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  Speaker 1: the ingredients to beat this cake. I needed all those
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  Speaker 1: ingredients stirred up. I need all of that different flavors,
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  Speaker 1: the stuff that I didn't think tastes so good. All
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  Speaker 1: that stuff had to come into the bowl in order
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  Speaker 1: for me to get to where I am today. As
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  Speaker 1: much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients,
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  Speaker 1: little did I know God was making this cake, not me.
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  Speaker 1: But what he did was and you've heard you the
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  Speaker 1: old saying God could turn lemons into lemonade, Well that's
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  Speaker 1: what he was doing now. At the time, it all
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  Speaker 1: had a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with
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  Speaker 1: some other stuff in it too. I didn't care for it.
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  Speaker 1: But little did I know that I needed everything that
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  Speaker 1: happened to me to happen to me in the exact
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  Speaker 1: order that had happened, in the exact array of things
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  Speaker 1: that happened, for me to have a knowledge I have today,
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  Speaker 1: the experience, the attitude, so I could turn around and
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  Speaker 1: share that information. Okay, got that out the way. This
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  Speaker 1: is what I want to give to you today. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny,
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  Speaker 1: not your desire. Discipline determine your destiny, not your desire.
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  Speaker 1: You've heard me say this how many times on the
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  Speaker 1: show Okay, here we go against it. I got it.
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  Speaker 1: Faith with our works is dead. But let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you something. To be a hard worker, you got to
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  Speaker 1: be disciplined. That's one of the hardest lessons I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to get through to my sons. You've gonna throw yourself
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  Speaker 1: down a cliff if you're not a young man or
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  Speaker 1: a man that possesses discipline. Because they got something for
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  Speaker 1: undisciplined people. They got some street laws for undisciplined people,
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  Speaker 1: and they got some federal laws and state laws for
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  Speaker 1: undisciplined people. That's why them signs is outside on the freeway,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go fast. But seventy is the limit.
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  Speaker 1: Seventy fast enough. Really, if you're disciplined enough of a
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  Speaker 1: person to leave your house at the time you're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to leave your house, seventy miles per hour is absolutely enough.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're an undisciplined person, if you don't have
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  Speaker 1: the wherewithal to leave your house on time, to get
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  Speaker 1: ready to go where you want to go, see the
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  Speaker 1: desires where you want to go, the discipline is how
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  Speaker 1: you get there. You understand you can wanna go to
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  Speaker 1: see your family in California, all you want, But the
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  Speaker 1: flight leaves at one eighteen. You leave your house at
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  Speaker 1: twelve thirty. They told you you must check in one
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  Speaker 1: hour before your flight. Now, if you ain't got the
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  Speaker 1: discipline to get to the airport to check in one
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  Speaker 1: hour before your flight, leaving your house forty five minutes
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  Speaker 1: before the flight departs, what you think gonna happen? Your
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  Speaker 1: desire to go see your family in la is going
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  Speaker 1: to be thwarted because you lack the discipline to prepare
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  Speaker 1: yourself and get yourself ready to do the things that
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  Speaker 1: you have to do to make your desires come true.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you discipline determines your destiny, not your desire.
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  Speaker 1: You can write down a list of stuff you want
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  Speaker 1: to do all day, but if you don't produce and
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  Speaker 1: show the discipline necessary to get there, what you think
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen? Huh? Okay? I want to be rich, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I want to make four hundred thousand in a year. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I want to be the best player that there is. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't want to practice. See the cat that's
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  Speaker 1: disciplined enough to show up at practice the shooting jumpers
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  Speaker 1: when everybody going home, that's the guy that's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: the best. The guy that's never late for practice, the
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  Speaker 1: guy to study the playbook. That's the guy that's gonna
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  Speaker 1: make it, not the guy that's talking crack I stalking
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  Speaker 1: that smack. I'm gonna make the Pro Bowl, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: make the All Star Team, I'm gonna be All American.
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  Speaker 1: That's just what you're saying. But discipline determines your destiny,
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  Speaker 1: not your desire. So now let's talk about this discipline.
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  Speaker 1: What is that, really, Steve. That's your work ethic, that's
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  Speaker 1: your hunger, that's your will. Discipline is how hard you're
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  Speaker 1: willing to demonstrate the attributes and the traits to be
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  Speaker 1: what you want to be. Did you hear me? It
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  Speaker 1: is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner that
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  Speaker 1: is above and beyond what they say is necessary. Now,
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  Speaker 1: this is a good example right here. Now. You can
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  Speaker 1: want to be in the NFL all you want, but
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  Speaker 1: they got this thing called the NFL Combines where they
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  Speaker 1: bring in some of the top players at every position
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  Speaker 1: to come in and they're gonna run a forty yard dash,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna do a standing broad jump, they're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: a standing vertical leap. They're gonna do drills, running drills,
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  Speaker 1: cutting drills. They can determine if a linebacker got stiff
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  Speaker 1: hips by making them back pedal, point him in one
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  Speaker 1: direction and throw the football in another direction. How does
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  Speaker 1: he turn his body? Now you can say you can
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  Speaker 1: tell everybody at your college you want to play pro football.
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  Speaker 1: You tell everybody at your high school. You tell them
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  Speaker 1: in Peewee you want to play pro football. But they
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  Speaker 1: got tests for you though. It's called the combines. Now
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  Speaker 1: you get out here and you have a bad combine day,
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  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody trying to hear that. Let me tell you
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  Speaker 1: how excuses don't work with people when they just trying
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  Speaker 1: to get when they're trying to win in the NFL.
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  Speaker 1: The fact that you had a bad day at the
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  Speaker 1: combine and you don't run your best forties and you
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  Speaker 1: keep telling them you could do better, they don't want
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  Speaker 1: to hear that. Because see, what ain't nobody gonna pay
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  Speaker 1: you for is to play on Sunday. And that's one
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  Speaker 1: of your bad days. We're paying you to play on Sundays.
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  Speaker 1: But because you keep having these bad days, because you
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  Speaker 1: ain't discipline enough to put in the work to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that your maximum can be called upon at any time.
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  Speaker 1: Now you have to combine with some slow times that
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  Speaker 1: go on your record. You have to combine. You don't
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  Speaker 1: jump as high as you did when you was at
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  Speaker 1: the gym class. Well, hold up, man, this is show
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  Speaker 1: day now. In the NFL, Sunday is show day. What
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  Speaker 1: they can't run the risk of is paying you your money.
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  Speaker 1: And your bad day happened to be on Sundays after
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  Speaker 1: we didn't cut your check. No, no, no, We're looking
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  Speaker 1: for people who limit them bad days, who got the
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  Speaker 1: discipline to work hard, to make an effort for it.
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  Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying to your folks. Please understand this.
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  Speaker 1: Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. If you can
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  Speaker 1: want it all you want, but if you ain't working,
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  Speaker 1: if you ain't grinding, if you ain't hurting, if you
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  Speaker 1: ain't sweating real bad, if you always somewhere, got to chill,
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  Speaker 1: you got to have a cold one, you got to
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  Speaker 1: smoke one, You gotta do all them. Things. Can't tell
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  Speaker 1: you something you ain't gonna make it. Discipline determines your destiny,
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  Speaker 1: not your desire. You're listening show, ladies and gentlemen, it
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  Speaker 1: is here another day, another blessing, another guilt. That's why
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  Speaker 1: they call it the present, because it's a guilt. We
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  Speaker 1: are living in the present. This is a gift from
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  Speaker 1: God and you made it. Congratulations to everybody. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry calling for rel Mississippi Monica. That dog on
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  Speaker 1: Junior kill Space and the legend nephew Tommy. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Junior, what's on your mind? Let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you something up. You know, I saw you on just
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  Speaker 1: Steve Man the other night and that Father's Son case.
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  Speaker 1: Man had me hollerand boy, that Father's Son case wasn't
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  Speaker 1: some days you don't want to be a parent? What
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  Speaker 1: a lot of days. It's a lot of I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be one now. Yeah, I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be one now. And you know what I thought. I
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  Speaker 1: thought after they got to a certain age that you
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  Speaker 1: would have to pair it less. You do have to
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  Speaker 1: pair it less. But the situations are far more critical disturbing.
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  Speaker 1: That's a disturbing thing about it. It's when they do
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  Speaker 1: ask you for something you'd been going whoah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: oh they coming, ain't know? Can I use the car?
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  Speaker 1: You know? You know, I mean, it'd be real life situations,
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  Speaker 1: and it's always something that I told them what happened.
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  Speaker 1: On a serious note, I made some mistakes as parenting,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, parenting don't come with a manual. I
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  Speaker 1: made mistakes as a parent, but for the most part
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  Speaker 1: I had to stop and really give myself some credit.
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  Speaker 1: And I want all parents to do this. Give yourself
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  Speaker 1: a break, give yourself some flady, because you did fine.
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  Speaker 1: You did just fine. What they did was went off
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  Speaker 1: and got themselves in some adult situations and made some
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  Speaker 1: adult decisions out on childlike behavior and childlike experience, and
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  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, it's reflection on you as
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  Speaker 1: a parent. No it's not. No, really it's not. And
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  Speaker 1: take yourself off the guiltless. You did the best you
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  Speaker 1: could do it with what you could do. Bishi talking
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  Speaker 1: the other day about being a father, he said, being
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  Speaker 1: a father man is hard. You can never get it
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  Speaker 1: one hundred. If you're the breadwinner of the family, if
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  Speaker 1: you're always home, that's not a good sign. But then
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  Speaker 1: if you're gone to make the money, then you can't
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  Speaker 1: be there. And if you're there, you ain't making the
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  Speaker 1: money to take care of everybody. So what do you do?
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  Speaker 1: And a lot of times women get put in those
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  Speaker 1: same positions because they're single women's, single mothers, and then
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  Speaker 1: they got to go off and make money and do decision.
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  Speaker 1: Now you a little lockkey kid. Now you mad because
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  Speaker 1: your mama wasn't there for you when you was a child.
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  Speaker 1: Well she was working, your ignorant ass and went off
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  Speaker 1: of me some stupid ass decision. Now you should up
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  Speaker 1: here talking about I ain't no good ass pad. How
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  Speaker 1: about you was a ragged ass child. How about that
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  Speaker 1: we don't start putting Blarry every long? You was a
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  Speaker 1: ragged ass shot. Thank you, Julia, go ahead, wrong, that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna feel better now, Steve, thank you because that was
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  Speaker 1: years Coming up. In thirty two minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna start the show off with nephew Tommy's run
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  Speaker 1: that frank back. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, to start your morning off, here's the
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  Speaker 1: nephew with run that frank back. What you got now?
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  Speaker 1: I need a reference. I need a reference. Let's go
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  Speaker 1: quet don't hello, Yeah, I'm trying to I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: reach Scotty please, yeah, Yeah, what's up? Hey, Scotty. How
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  Speaker 1: are you doing, man, I'm trying to actually get a
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  Speaker 1: reference for for Monica Monica or you're talking about Monica
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  Speaker 1: my ex wife. Yeah, I'm trying to get a reference
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  Speaker 1: on her if possible. Okay, so what's the applying for
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  Speaker 1: a jobs? He trying to go to work? Now? Uh no,
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  Speaker 1: this reference is actually for like a relationship, a relationship
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  Speaker 1: that's a whole whole of o boy, Wayne, relationship with
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  Speaker 1: you you're talking about a job relationship? No, no, no no, no.
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  Speaker 1: See what this here is is that I'm finding actually
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  Speaker 1: start dating Monica on the regular, and I'm calling you
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  Speaker 1: for a reference. Wold Wold, Wold Wold, whole way man?
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  Speaker 1: Who did you say this is? And how do you
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  Speaker 1: get my name? Philip Man? My name Philip? I got
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  Speaker 1: your number the Monica phone check this. I feel you
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  Speaker 1: don't need to call me with whatever you and Monica
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  Speaker 1: got going on. Y'all need to go on and deal
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  Speaker 1: with that. No no, no, no, no no no no, got that. Brother, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: y'all throw hear me out. What I'm trying to say
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  Speaker 1: is is that I figured about I get a reference
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  Speaker 1: and figure out what kind of person she yells and
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  Speaker 1: get to get a you know, kind of get a
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  Speaker 1: background so you can kind of tell me what kind
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  Speaker 1: of person her good points, a bad qualities the whole night.
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  Speaker 1: It might save me sometime from being in a long
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  Speaker 1: relationship if I know what to look for. What was good?
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  Speaker 1: Man say? Say? Home boy, oh boy? I know, I
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  Speaker 1: know I'm not listening to this. I was mad for
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  Speaker 1: all ye ain't nobody to give me no refer So
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  Speaker 1: don't call me asking for no like that. If you
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  Speaker 1: got number for Monica, you and Monica need to forget
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  Speaker 1: my okay for holda hola bro Like I say, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out hold up, I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out the good qualities and bad quhit like
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  Speaker 1: you know, do she want to cook? You know? Is
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  Speaker 1: she good in the big room? You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to know. I'm trying to just know what
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  Speaker 1: to look for. Dogs a man, I ain't trying to
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  Speaker 1: come any man looking. Oh but I just can't believe
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  Speaker 1: calling another about some I don't have a no more.
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  Speaker 1: The only thing I have to deal with it is
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  Speaker 1: my child. You know what I'm saying. And you most
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  Speaker 1: definitely don't need to be a robber out. Say, dude,
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  Speaker 1: I got to go okay, okay, okay, but can you
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  Speaker 1: give me a good reference owner? That's all I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to get out. The references don't die number ever again.
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  Speaker 1: And when I talked to Monica being heard, But hey,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna have to worry bout the relationship with Monaca.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, Okay, hold on, man,
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  Speaker 1: let me gonna break this to you. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: me and Monica then dated for the lands year, off
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  Speaker 1: and on we just finn get hold on, Hold up, dude,
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  Speaker 1: the last year. Man, this woman just got divorce a
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  Speaker 1: few months ago. Oh so you that who must have
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  Speaker 1: bested up at Look. Look, I ain't call not the
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  Speaker 1: reason why y'all broke up. I don't have nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with that. Look here, Oh so you that slick?
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  Speaker 1: Say mate, why don't you slide your a little slick
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  Speaker 1: back onto that rock that you slipped from under a dog?
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  Speaker 1: I can slide right on back under the rock you're
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  Speaker 1: talking about. But what I'm trying to ask you is
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  Speaker 1: just right here, man, Hey, doc, can you just give
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  Speaker 1: her brothers from references? Man? Somebody can look out for
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  Speaker 1: some signs that sp reference I'm gonna give you is
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  Speaker 1: when you don't have enough money when she want that
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  Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars, man, don't call me for that. When
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  Speaker 1: she needs some more money for this? Oh well, a baby,
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  Speaker 1: I just gave you my check. What don't mean nothing?
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  Speaker 1: Or you pull up your finger account, ain't no money
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  Speaker 1: or that that's the reference SHO needs. Ain't So I
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  Speaker 1: need to hear from jop especially if you who was
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: around with my why while we was married? Talking about married?
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  Speaker 1: Hold up the reference here, I'm gonna find you. I'm
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: gonna call Monica and I'm gonna track down. Then yeah,
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  Speaker 1: give you a reference. Then yeah, yeah, I give your
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  Speaker 1: reference then face to face. Ain't trying to have no
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: oblication with you? Man? You must have been trying to
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: have some of you die in my im. Okay, dog
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  Speaker 1: let me okay, one more question, man, and then I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be out your I Just like I said, I
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  Speaker 1: just wanted a few things and know some background on him. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You you out of questions on boy? You out of
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  Speaker 1: questions A man. I want everything to run smooth, doggin.
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  Speaker 1: I want us to have a good understanding. Do you
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  Speaker 1: have a problem man with with your little girl calling
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  Speaker 1: me daddy? What did you just say? You asked me
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  Speaker 1: about money? Dy hate calmed down, dude, Come, I'm calming.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna pete. You asked about money? This about mine? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just asking her. Here you are around me, time
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  Speaker 1: I will come and it's oh boy, look I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: find you because you're bad. You missed the bad you
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  Speaker 1: dog nu, but not only you got that, but man,
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  Speaker 1: you're talking about time. I'm just asking, do you mana
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  Speaker 1: she called me? Oh boy, look at man. That child
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  Speaker 1: there then cannot come out your mouth. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Say man, man, I don't. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: time for I'm gonna call that Monica and I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get your Yeah, I'm gonna get you. I'm out of here.
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  Speaker 1: You want Why are you calling me back? Scotty, Scotty gotty.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying, man, you're looking. Why are you? I just
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  Speaker 1: had to man you something home, ball. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: nothing to tell me home, I want to say, scot Scotty, look,
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  Speaker 1: just listen to me. Man. I want to say this.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Your brother Brian got me the plank phone. Call you. Hey, Man,
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  Speaker 1: It's who Scotty Scotty. This is Tommy Man left you
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  Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your brother Brian
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  Speaker 1: got me the plank pahone. Call you, say man, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to go. Man, Hey dude, I'm about to go.
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  Speaker 1: But listen over here. Man, Hey, Brian, got one coming though.
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  Speaker 1: Oh Man, you are right? Man, yeah, yeah, say man
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  Speaker 1: Man Tommy. Man. Well, hey, I I'm glad you're playing
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  Speaker 1: man because talk about my little girl. Brian. No, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be on in his world. Man got you, Man,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: he got you. Good dog. Hey man. One more thing, Man,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: show in the land? Man is Steve Harvey Morning Show?
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Really good? Singing? You are you is stuping? Oh? By
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: far its stuping. Glad you finally agreed. Oh I've been
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: calling you stupid. Now you agreed with me? All right?
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Thanks enough? Coming up next, it is asked to Celo.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour and entertainment news.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Steve is still trending Steve Harvey. That is it's still
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: trending from his appearance on Ellen Tyler Perry announces media
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: is coming back with a new special call Home Homegoing
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: is It and some sad news. Fashion icon seventy three
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: year old Leon Tally has passed away. Our condolence is
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: of course going out to his family. We'll talk about
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour, but right
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: now it is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building with your love questions. For
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: your love questions. Ronda in Denver Rights. My parents have
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: been married for twenty seven years and my father moved
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: out of the house before Christmas. He and my mom
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: had a big argument and he wants to call it quits.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: They've argued all of my life, so I can't imagine
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  Speaker 1: why he wants to leave now. My mother is expecting
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  Speaker 1: a miracle, but he is dead. It's set against going back.
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  Speaker 1: How do I break it to her nicely that her
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  Speaker 1: marriage is over? M he didn't he'd moved out. Well
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: what do you? What do you? Why are you breaking
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: it to her nicely? Listen to what you said. Your
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: mother is praying for a miracle. Well, listen to me.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Once you start praying for a miracle, you already know
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: that the situation you're in is dismal. Wasn't you would
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: once you looking for a miracle. So your mama, No,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna break this to her. He'd have moved
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: out for Christmas. Here what skip mistle told jingle bells? Eggnog? Fruitcake?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Damn that fruitcake. I don't want your package. I don't
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: want nothing. Don't nobody like fruitcake? Don't I don't. I
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: don't know nobody like fruitcake. What is in green things?
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Ain't put is that green stuff to be in it?
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Who has this fruitcake in this can? Put this back
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: in this can? And Chris setting it out on the table.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never seen nobody cut the fruit cake anyway.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: He didn't want none of that nothing so done. He
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: don't want your gift. He moved out folk Christmas. When
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: a man moved out for Christmas, he to move into
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: a place. He ain't got no tree, he ain't got
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: no lights up. All he wanted to do was have peace.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: You ain't got to break nothing to your mama. She
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: no here here, your mama, Jesus will be back for
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: him Yeah, that's probably what happened. All right, that's probably
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: probably true statement. Moving on to Anonymous in Philly, Anonymous writes,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I'm in a long distance relationship with my girl, uh
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: and my girl visits me often besides because she flies free.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: She popped up on me this past weekend and I
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: wasn't home. She didn't call me or say a word,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: but she was sitting in my bed when I got
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: home the next morning. M I told her I passed
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  Speaker 1: out drunk at my friend's house, but I had on
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: shorts and flip flops and it was snowing here. She's
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: not trying to hear my excuses. How do I get
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: out of this? One? Interesting? Hey, dog, let me ask
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: you a question. When you came in the house at
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: seven am with them shots and them flip flops snow,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: well was you coming from? All I could say is now,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: when you said you passed out at a friend's house,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: do you live in an apartments downstairs? Upstairs? Where was
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: you at with these shouts and me flip flops? O?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Because that sounded like walking us one. Well, hear what
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: you do? Come on, I want to hear it. When
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: you get in a situation like this dog. Listen to me.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: The best defense is a good offense. Yeah, bigger question
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: has to be why is you in here in my
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: bed at seven eight? This thing? And you guys to
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: make that the issue, Like, give us some example. He
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: wrote to you like right now, this is a days later.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: So what you gotta do is this right here? And
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: you know what, I've been thinking about this, and you
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: know what for a person to constantly disrespect my wishes
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: and just pop in on me without telling me, I
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: just that that ain't what I'm really looking for because
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: it just makes me think that there's some trust is
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: trust issues that you have it and the fact that
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I can't come and go freely without having to feel
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: like I'm constantly being checked. That's really not the type
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: of relationship I would look at. So I want to
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: just step back from this for a little bit. Come
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: on board and let you decide do it? You know
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: how you want to move forward in our relationship in
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: terms of trust, because I trust you. You come into
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: my place and I trust you. But this type of
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: thing right here just breaks of distrust for me and
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I've done nothing, nothing to deserve this type Come on trust? Well, yeah,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: didn't write the right person, come on close, make me proud. No,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: that's I'm sorry, Automatic, I'm so sorry. That's because I
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: trust you surprised me, and now all of a sudden,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: it's a lack of trust on a person that I've
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: showed the ultimate display of trust then by giving you
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: a key. Now you popping up without saying, that's unbelievable
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: to me. I can't. I just can't see myself you
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: disgusted it. How do you walk out the rule you
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: broke up with? Or didn't you walk out my eyes? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, emotions.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: You got to have a whole hand on your face.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Got to walk off all right? Okay, well, anonymous, you
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: wrote to the right person, Take that and run with it,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: all right? Moving on to Knetra in Charlotte. Knetra right time.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Thirty years old and I've been in an open relationship
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: for most of my adult life. My boyfriend and I
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: do not live together, so it's fine if I have
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: company or if he has friends over. It gets awkward though,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: if I have company and he wants to stick around
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: and watch us being intimate. I never do that to him,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: So why is he being like this all of a sudden?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Is this jealousy or what? What do you care? Y'all
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: ain't gotten nothing. He don't want you. You in an
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: open relationship. You just didn't know it was wide open.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Ye don't, I don't. Yeah, you get you're in an
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: open relationship. He wants to stick around and watch. Y'all.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Ain't gotten nothing. Why is he liked this all of
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: a sudden? Why is he like? What? What do you have?
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: You have no barriers in your relationship. You have no rules, y'all,
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: just two people that see each other and can go
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: see who you want to see. What do you have? Why?
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Why is he like this? That's what you like? You
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: like open relationships? Well, let's open it all the way.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Let's get this thing open. What open? Open? Open? Coming
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, Thank you, clo.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news right after this. You're listening
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: to show. Okay, So, no matter how much a father
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: likes his daughter's boyfriend, he doesn't want to see his
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: baby girl engaging in PDA with him. He just doesn't.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: And of course, Steve, you are no exception to this rule.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Your daughter. This is about you, Yeah, your daughters five
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: PA public display of effect. I thought about bowling you thought.
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I thought it was what your daughter Laurie is currently dating,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan, the actor. Uh so doing an During
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: an appearance on The Ellen de Generous Show, you were
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: showing a photo of her sitting on Michael B. Jordan's lap.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Think a listen, look at that that's happening in front
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: of you. I've never seen that picture before. Very uncomfortable
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: with that picture right now, really feeling that picture. Oh
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: the wedding, got the picture phone, but when she put
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: it up on that big screen, I was mortified. She
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: was sitting on his Lapful, What did you got your
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: hand on her? Faftful? Get your ass off my damn daughter. Steve,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: you also said you do like Michael bach Jordan because
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: he's a good gift giver. Take a listen. So he
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: bought me this big one hundred cigar box of the
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: most most hard to get cigars, one hundred of them
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: in this big box, and gay that to me. He
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: gave my wife some skis? Who do that? Only way
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: you give your potential mother in law some skis? It's
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: because you want her to be your mother in law. Yeah, yeah, course, yeah, glory,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: But you meant yourself. You met you and Marjorie. Oh,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: you gotta get good gifts. Yeah, and I'm pulling for
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, Like he got good family, his father. Oh,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: we know the same people in that you got. He
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: got good family. Man. He's good dude. He's really a
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: cool dude, really is you know, on the Ellen Show,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: you know, I still hum. I don't know that yet.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I got to wait and see.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: That's up to her. You know, it's up to her
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: and him. I hope they make it. If they don't,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm just sh Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: But like I said on the show, you know, I
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: didn't told him. I didn't threaten him. I really I
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: don't really see myself being able to Oh, everybody getting
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: back everybody, everybody I threatened everybody. Look, you can break
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: up with him. You can stop speaking to all my daughters.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: You can quit speaking to them, you can stop texting,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: you can leave them, you can walk out on them,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: you can do you can do everything, but you can't
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: put your hand on them. If you put your hand
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: on them, I just got news for you. There's no
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: where you can go. But I had to talk with him.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: But it wasn't really necessary. He from that cut. But
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: you know, like I still got my own him. But
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: you know, I can't whoop it. I know already know that.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I don't see all the Creed movies. Yeah I saw
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: the Creed movie. That's good enough for me. I can't. Yeah,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I know, but I can't even I can't even act
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: that way, no more so. But I'm clear about it though.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: If you turn your back, though, I'm gonna knock your ass.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Ain't no doubt, Ain't no doubt. I'm gonna get you.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: You in shape, but your eyeball, your eyeball is not
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: that in shape. Your eyeball anyway, We're moving on and
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: other entertainment news, Tyler Perry is bringing Medea back from retirement.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: He dropped the news with the hilarious promo poster resembling
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Beyonce's homecoming Netflix special Homegoing, Uh, I want to think
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: my Incredible moth I Mitchella Netflix coming soon. Tyler decided
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: to revive the character of media to give fans a
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: good laugh during these crazy times. He says, I was
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: looking at the state of the world and how polarized
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: it is. Nobody's laughing, he said, and I'm like, what
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: tool do I have in my arsenal that can bring
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: that kind of laughter? So there you go. So he's
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: bringing media back, and I think it will. I think
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: he's right. That would go give everyone a laugh, a
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: good laugh, good belly laugh. The mop Hive, the mom
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I've love homegoing though. Yeah. Also, finally, some sad news
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: from the fashion world, seventy three year old Andre Leon
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Tally has passed away. Mister Tallely was a towering figure,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: both literally and figuratively in the world of fashion. He
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: was six foot six. He was an icon that wrote
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: about fashion. Served as Vogues news editor, creative director, and
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: editor at large. Andrea was instrumental in getting more models
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: and fashion designers of color on the runway and in
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: the magazines. At one point, he even served as a
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: stylist for President and First Lady Michelle Obama. UH, President
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Barack Obama. Our deepest condolence is going out to the
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Tally family. You knew him too. I met him. Once
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I met him, was made him at Neiman Marcus. Had
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: a jewelry show. M h and heck of a nice guy,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: very nice. He night. He complimented me on what I
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: had on which that's all I cared about, right, dude, Yeah,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: that was that. I felt terrific man after that. Yeah,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: so I allowed him met him was yeah. Yeah. Rest
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: in peace. Andre Leon tally Well. Coming up at twenty
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, a special treat for our audience.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: We love this woman. CNN's Laura Coats will be our
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: very special guest. She's going to tell us about her
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: brand new book. It's called just Pursuit, A Black Prosecutors
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Fight for Fairness. Right after this. You're listening, l right, everybody,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: our special guests this morning is a CNN senior legal analysts.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: She's also a serious XM host and she was She
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: is a professor at George Washington University School of Law.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: She's a former federal prosecutor and a civil rights attorney.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: And to add to her Stella resume, she's also an
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: author and she's got a new book out and it's
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: called Jess Pursuit, A Black Prosecutors Fight for Fairness. We've
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: invited her to the show to talk to us about
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: this book called Jess Pursuit. Please welcome to the show
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: for the first time. One of the most respected legal
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: analysts of our time on CNN. Please welcome for the
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: first time, Miss Laura Coates. Welcome, welcood morning, Welcome, good morning.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be with you all. How are you, Laura,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. First time for you. We've been waiting. Well,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I am so happy to be here, and I am
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: so glad you called and so excited. I put a
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: big fan of the show. I listen all the time.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: So it's for you to hear myself now on this
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: program because I'm so giddy inside and I'm going to
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: try not to fan girl and be respectable. Lad. Hey,
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: well listen, Laura. We got a new book out, and
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you wrote a book. It's called Just Pursuit, and they're
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: describing it as an urgent, deeply personal, and groundbreaking account
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: of bias in the courtroom. Now and all this is
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: from your perspective as a black female federal prosecutor at
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: the US Department of Justice. So give us an overview
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: of the book. So you know, this is not the
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: kind of book I think people expect for lawyers to write.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: They expect it to be something very stuffy, let me
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: be signed in a law school classroom. But I intentionally
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: made sure that it was a narrative memory are that
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: every chapter stands alone as its own separate episode for
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: people to really understand not only what the law is,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: but what justice feels like, what justice really looks like,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: the ways in which justice creates injustice at times. And
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: I take you through a journey of my own personal
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: battles of allegiance where you all know we don't have
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: the luxury of shedding any facet of our identity at
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: the door. I come in as a woman, a black woman,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: a mother, a wife. I come in as a civil
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: rights advocate, and I'm immediately struck by the idea that
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: I have the lived experience as a black woman, and
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: yet the orders that I'm being given or the role
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I must play within the system are at complete odds
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: in tension with what I am experiencing. And I walk
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: you through from anything in terms of having to aid
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: in the deportication to what mistaken identity really looks like
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: on the front end, to the idea of victim blaming
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: of sexual assault survivors, to what it's like to actually
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: investigate voting excrimination. There are moments of triumphs, there are
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: moments of tragedy. There are moments of connected CHISSI that
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: tells you, look, it's not a justice system. It's a
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: legal system, but perhaps you can get to the pursuit
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: of justice and actually catch it one day and I
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: write about all of it. Yes, and Laura, hang on,
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: when we come back, we're going to talk about some
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: of these very very interesting chapters in the book. Oh
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: my god, when we come back. We got Laura Coats
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: on the show. Everybody, We'll be right back, Steve Alving
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening, all right, everybody, we're back in
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: our special guests at CNN senior legal analysts. Uh. And
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: she's on CNN all the time now she I'll notice
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: that she stepped in and feel a set of shoes
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: over there. You see her every night, almost coming on
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: right behind Don Lemon, or in front of Don Lemon
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: sometimes but most of them mostly behind Don Lemon, I think.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: And so we've been watching that. We're a fan of hers,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: and she's a fan of the show. She's on here
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: today talking about her new book. It's called Just Pursuit.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: And when I was going out on the break, she
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: has some chapters that you really don't expect to see
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: in a book from an attorney, and I'm gonna ask
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: her about these. Chapter one, please don't come. Chapter two,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: want to see something funny. Chapter three, I want no
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: part of this. Chapter four, she needed me to believe her.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: In chapter five, that's not me. Wow. I mean, this
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: doesn't sound like words from a lawyer, Laura, Well, I
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: hope they sound like words from a human being, because
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: we have to be in our justice system, and we
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: have to have the wherewithal to bring our whole selves
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: into it, and we have to think about the role
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: of black and brown people in our criminal justice system
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: as more than simply a defendant. We know there's no
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: monopoly on the commission of crime, and yet we see
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: the parade of human misery. We see the idea of
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: how disproportionately impacted black and brown community is in the
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: targeting and the policing and the prosecution. And so I
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: really wanted to peel back the curtain and personify the
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: issues we've been talking about all across the table. And
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I'll begin with that first chapter because that was one
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: of the most difficult ones for me to write. I
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: felt so vulnerable. You see me on CNN talking about
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: the law, but rarely do you see how I feel
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  Speaker 1: about the law and what it really means when you
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  Speaker 1: are having your marching orders for justice. Here's what it
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: can look like. And sometimes, Steve and everyone, the pursuit
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: of justice creates injustice. And case in point here, I
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: was running a regular background check like we have to
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  Speaker 1: do for anyone who's going to go into the courtroom,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's a victim of a crime, obvious superdefendant, and
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: any witnesses you are going to call. My victim had
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  Speaker 1: a deportation laurrant. It was decades old, he had been
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  Speaker 1: in the country illegally, had raised his family, was an
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  Speaker 1: a law abiding person who wanted to be a citizen
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  Speaker 1: with tributing member. Hadn't go to sneeze at a police
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  Speaker 1: officer in the time that he remained in the country,
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  Speaker 1: And because the fact that he had a warrant, I
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  Speaker 1: was required to essentially aid in his deportation or got
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  Speaker 1: contact Ice and try to turn him in to let
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  Speaker 1: them know that there was an active warrant. And I
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  Speaker 1: can't tell you how conflicted I was in those moments
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  Speaker 1: when my moral compass of what I knew was right
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  Speaker 1: and wrong was in direct contrast with what I was
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  Speaker 1: ordered and I think in our lives we have moments
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  Speaker 1: where the things that we think we would do, the
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  Speaker 1: moments that we think define us. Who you think you
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  Speaker 1: will be when your back is against a wall will
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  Speaker 1: shock you. And trying to reconcile your strive for civil
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: disobedience and realizing what injustice looks like. I write about
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  Speaker 1: it because I don't spare myself in the criticism of
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  Speaker 1: the justice system in America. Do you believe that the
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  Speaker 1: criminal justice system can be and if so, what do
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  Speaker 1: we start? Absolutely, And here's where we start by First,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: if you want to speak truth to power, you first
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: have to know the truth. That's why I write throughout
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: the chapters about what it really looks like. We're talking
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: about mistaken identity, and what it really looks like when
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: you have prosecutorial discretion, and all the way up to
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: the judges, what sort of bias they bring in even
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: though they are cloaked in this black robe, they still
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: bring themselves bias and all with them. And I think
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: if we start to if we know it just speaks
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  Speaker 1: truth to power. They have to know what the truth
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  Speaker 1: is and then you can do more to reform it.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Justice is not a destination it's not a verdict, it's
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: not one case. It's recognizing the humanity, the role of redemption,
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  Speaker 1: and also the role of bias and race in our
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: legal system. And once we peel back those curtains, once
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  Speaker 1: we acknowledge it, we can actually be on the road
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  Speaker 1: to reform and not just pursue justice, but maybe one
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  Speaker 1: day catch it. Well, yes, that would be yes, that
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  Speaker 1: will be great. Hey, listen to everybody, Steve Harvey Nation.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a deal. The book is called Jess Pursuit. It's
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  Speaker 1: for joining us. Don't be a stranger. Okay, I won't
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  Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate you all so much from the
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  Speaker 1: bottom of my heart. Thank you, Lady Jim and Lord coach.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: All right, and coming up next, it is the nephew
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: with the prank phone call for today. Right after this,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today. The subject we did it
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: and he's trying to do me. We'll get into that
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now. The nephew is
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: in the building with today's prank phone call. What you
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: got for us, Nev, Well, I think we're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: a little praise dance in this moment. Oh yeah, the
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  Speaker 1: praise da little praise dancing. Let's go, come on, kat. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: this is the day that the Lord has made. Let
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: us rejoice and be glad in And how you doing?
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking for uh Stania? This is Sitania, Satia. This
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  Speaker 1: is Brother Fuller from the church. How are you? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm with brother, How are you? I'm good, I'm good. Um.
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  Speaker 1: We wanted to give you a call about the about
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  Speaker 1: the praise dancing that's at the church. First of all,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I wanted to really show you how much, uh you're
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  Speaker 1: doing a great job over there with the praise dances
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  Speaker 1: and you you definitely do a great job on uh
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  Speaker 1: I Hapy third Sunday that you guys actually perform. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: seemed to really like it. Well, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: What can I do for you today? It was a
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  Speaker 1: bit of a situation with um. You know, it's been
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been
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  Speaker 1: elected to actually give you all and who is this?
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who are you again, brother Fuller? Uh huh?
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: And and who had a meeting uh some of the
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: brothers at the church and uh path to actually sat
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: and for moment on it. And I was actually elected
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: to actually just give you a call. It nothing that
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think we can't get rectified and you know,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: move on slowly as we normally do. But I just
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  Speaker 1: think it's we wanted to reach out to you and
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: kind of make you aware of it. If it's if
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: you don't mind, okay? Um? And what things are those? Well?
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: Since since a Tania has any of the praise dancers
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: before they became praise dancers? Was was any of them strippers?
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: I beg your partner, was any of the praise dancers
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: that at the church that you have on the praise
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  Speaker 1: team right now with any of them strippers in the past.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: you are, um, and I don't really understand this line
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  Speaker 1: of question. But like I said, I'm brother full I
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  Speaker 1: don't think we've met. But uh, like I said, I've
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: been elected to give you a call. Not now it
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: seemed like what happened is this past week when you
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: all actually uh danced, It seemed like a couple of
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: the girls was actually gyrating during the praise routine. Hey,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: what jat raiding? Brother full I don't know who you are,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know what you saw. None of my
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: girls with gy rating. They would dancing for the Lord.
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  Speaker 1: And I think if you look through your Lord's eye,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: perhaps you would see them better. Exaid, maybe you were
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: looking through the jar rating. Aye, look a couple of
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: the girl we can point them out. A couple of
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: them have uh strip girl tendencies of it? Then, because
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: some of them has been up girls tendencies, you know what, sir?
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: I think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: need to call bishop and speak to him myself, because
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what you do all day,
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: but I have a real job and I'm sitting here
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: holding a conversation in my office about gyrating strippers in
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: the church. Are you kidding me? Man? Listen? Now here's
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: a couple other things that they're talking about. Some of
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: the girls feet a real ass you when you are
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: a performing and they wanted to see it, maybe you can,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you can I don't know. Maybe I don't know if
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: y'all need to grip or whatever that y'all don't y'all
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: don't put lotion on. We're not sure what that is.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: As well as the tote enail polo, everybody has three, four,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: five different designs and everything is it? Any way, y'all
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: can be in unison with your totenail polis. But the
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: most important thing ill the ji raton doing the dance routine.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: need you calling me talking to me about my girls
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: their feet, their nail polis. Perhaps your man should be
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: on Jesus instead of on them. How about that man?
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: For I don't have time. I don't have time, and
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: to be on Jesus when somebody shaking them. But at
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: the church, now that's the problem. I know what. Look,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a work tone.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me curse up here, and now let
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I will
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: deal with pastor. If he has something to say with me,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: he can say it to me personally. But I'm done
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with the Ji
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: Rayton is what we want to know. Maybe you know
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  Speaker 1: what It just hit me. Maybe you're one of the
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: ones that's doing the gy rate. Look, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you something, my girl thing your rating and neither am
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I Now I am done with this conversation. Do you understand?
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: But listen, I'm done all you're done with this rating.
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  Speaker 1: We want to stop so we can We can't praise
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  Speaker 1: the Lord if the boot isn't shake you know what, sirt? Look,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: I gotta go to work. I gotta go now again.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what your issue is. It sounds to
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: me like you have an issue which I rerating booties
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: And I heard so much greating booties in one conversation
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: in my entire life. Now my mind is set on Jesus.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know what your mand is set on. What's
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: to tell you? Before you was a praise then ministry
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: over the ministry? Did you el use to strip? Hu
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: didn't do no stripping? Now did your wife do any striping?
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: What did your mamma do any stripping? What you heard
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: what I said you were? How do you like to
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: somebody call you would ask you if your mamma get
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: some stript and how do you like that? I'm you
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: know what? I want to know? When is the next rehearsal,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Then the way I can come and pick out who
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: it is that's doing this till you don't have You
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: don't have any minutes at my rehearsal. I don't want
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: to see you at my rehearsal. I don't want to.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want to see any part that you in
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: my worst if I see you near one of my girls.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: That's why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me?
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I need to find out who's doing that job thing.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: You need to say your body y'all high, and I'm
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: glad y'all. Ain't then and when the plates being plays,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: because I ain't no telling her you act with them?
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: One's coming through it, you know what? That's it. That's it.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: You call me disrespecting me. I'm at work. They can't
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: even have this to more. You know what. Don't call
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: me no more. Don't look at my girls no more.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: Man Come to the church and see what I got
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: for it. I don't want to know. Is you're gonna
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: stop the job rating? What is gonna do it? Moving?
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: That's gonna do it? Why you're talking to like that.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to be a mine of side. Yeah, I
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: have done listening to tell you. Now I'm getting ready
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: to job. Well, I got one more thing to say
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: to you. Fold your lead. How you ain't got a
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: thing to say to me? I said I was dealing,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: and I said, I got one more thing to say.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: It is you Listen. You know what? Men, get off
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: of my phone. I'm gonna say it anyway. This is
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: Nephew Timment from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: praise and ministry congregation, all your girls got me to
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: frank phone call you. Oh I'm a shot for Oh
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: think I'm chursing on the radio. Oh, I think I'm
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: gonna have a show. I got one thing to ask you,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: to tell you? What is the baddest radio show in
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: the land? Nobody else with the Steve Harvey More in
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  Speaker 1: the show made the doors the church open? Yeah, man,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: anybody might be one church. Your mama's dancing? What was
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: your mama? Monster? People, We're gonna go thro't tell him
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: how y'all gonna act when the ones come down? Now? Ye, Junior,
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: making it rain? Making it rain? What feeling the moment
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I saw I saw the tossed up about this, you know, funny,
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: funny prank. But I like when they praise dance such
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: a church out. You don't like the praise dancing dog.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Oh no he ain't the one. I don't either. I
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: like the praiseless coming here for the singing, like singing
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: and the preaching, you know, you know, interpretation, a waving, spinning,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: somebody got flagged white laying down. That's that's nice. That's nice.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Sometimes like their moms they be at the church. To them,
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: two moms that come to all the games. Oh they're
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: cold on Oh they're cold, but I you're moming. You
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: got on white gloves and white face. The words we
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: do jokes. Not a comic show. Care what is it?
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: The words? But speaking of a comedy show. Fever Where
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• 53:46
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• 53:49
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• 53:54
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  Speaker 1: it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Nephew. Subject,
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  Speaker 1: we did it and he's trying to do me. Dear
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty two year old married woman,
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: and I've got a problem with my district manager. For years,
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: we flirted with each other and it made work fun
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: and interesting. He's married, too, so I never imagined we'd
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: ever fool around, but we did. Here's how it happens.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I've been married three years and my husband was being
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: distant and staying out more than he usually does. I
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: asked if he was okay, and he said he was
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: stressed at work, but that he's fine. Right after that,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I ran into one of his female friends he went
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: to college with, who I never really clicked with. She
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: told me that she is praying things work out with
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: my husband at work because she's not used to seeing
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: him so depressed. She went on to say that my
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: husband confided in her about an issue with his boss
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: and how he resolved it. I could hardly breathe. I
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: went home and he confessed to confiding in her and
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: having dinner with her a few times to talk. He
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: swore to me that it was nothing major, just two
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: friends talking. I went to work the next day and
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: I lost it. I couldn't stop crying, and my manager
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: came in to check on me. He took me out
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: for coffee and we sat in his car talking. My
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: rap dress had all of my goodies on display, so
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: he reached in and rubbed a few things. He kept
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: on rubbing until I left his car with blurred vision.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Now he wants more, and I can't give him more.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: What my husband did was very wrong, but I honestly
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: do not think my husband would cheat on me. My
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: district manager is using what he knows about my marriage
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: in his favor. He is trying to coerce me into
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: having an affair by saying my husband doesn't my husband
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: doesn't appreciate me, and revenge sex always makes a person
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: feel better. Is this man crazy or just being manipulative? Well,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: you're the one that's crazy if you do let this
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: man manipulate you into having an affair with him, because
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: that is exactly what he's doing right now. You say
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: you haven't gone all the way with him, so you
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: can walk away with something of a clear conscience, So
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: please let that go and make sure it goes no
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: further with your boss. Okay, because he's unready set. He's
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: unready set right now, all you have to do is
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: give him the go and he's waiting for that. So
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: now your husband, your husband, on the other hand, what
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: is he doing? You say, you honestly don't believe he
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: would cheat on you. So so what were the dinners for?
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: If it was just with a friend? Why didn't he
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: tell you? Why did you have to make him confess
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: it to you? And he went out with her, this
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: other woman, not just once or twice, but a few times.
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: And she's a female friend from college that you don't
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: even these are your words click with. This is not
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: adding up. It's not looking good at all, because surely
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: she knows she's not one of your favorite people. Surely
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: she knows that. She still decided, though, to tell you
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: about what happened between her and your husband. That was
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: just messy. Don't you think that was messy? She knew
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: it would throw you into something, and it did. And
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: what does she have to gain from all this? I'm
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: thinking your husband? So you know, I just say, definitely
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: tell your your boss it's a no for you, and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: then turn your attention to the more pressing issue of
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: your husband. Been his job in these dinner dates with
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: this college friend of his? I think there's definitely something
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: going on between them, and you need to get into
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: the bottom of it. Steve, that's not what this letter
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: is about to me. Ah read these letters. See Shirley
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: be really trying to help y'all. You know. And there's
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: a difference between me and Shelly because I might try
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: to help you sometimes I might not, but I'm always
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: here for entertainment. And that's the difference between me and
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: Shelly's response. So in the entertainment, I always peeled this
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: onion back to you. Tear up. We did it, and
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: he's trying to do it. This thirty two year old
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: married woman, she's got a problem with her district manager.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: For years, we flirted with each other and it made
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: work fun and interested. Right there, that just tells you everything.
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  Speaker 1: She went to work flirting with her district manager, and
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  Speaker 1: she said because it made it fun and interested. Her
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  Speaker 1: husband didn't know nothing about this. This was her doing.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't come in out and tell her husband. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I go to work and I have so much fun
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: with my district man. We flirt with each other, and
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  Speaker 1: it's just made the years fun and interested. Keep that
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  Speaker 1: in mind, ladies, he's married too, so I never imagine
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: we fool around, but we did. His hide happened. I've
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  Speaker 1: been married three years now. For them three years, she
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: was still flirting, having fun with the district manager. To
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: keep this in mind now, and I've known my husband
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: being distant, staying out bored than he usually does. I
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: asked he was okay. He said he was stressed at work,
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: true statement, will find out later, but that he's fine
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: right after, and that I ran into one of his
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  Speaker 1: female friends he went to college, which who I never
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: really click with. She told me she is praying things
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: work out with my husband at work because she's not
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: used to seeing him so depressed. Rick, let's pump your brakes.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: Whenever a person comes to you saying they're ping for
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: you or your situation. God, don't dig at you and
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: pray for you at the same time, and need to
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: do real friends. All right, Steve, We'll have part two
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  Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: the our subject for today's Strawberry Letter. We did it,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: and he's trying to do me. We'll get back into
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, right,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap Today's Strawberry Letter, the subject
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  Speaker 1: we did it and he's trying to do me well.
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  Speaker 1: This thirty two year old woman been flirting with this
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  Speaker 1: district manager for years and it's made work fun and interesting.
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  Speaker 1: She's married for three years now, but she'd been doing
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  Speaker 1: this without her husband knowing. Okay, didn't notice her husband
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: standing out more than usual. Ass was everything fine? He said,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: he was stressed out at work. Then you ran up
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: in the one of his female college friends who you
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: don't really like, never click with. She told you she's
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: praying everything works out for your husband at work because
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: she's never used to seeing him so depressed. A woman
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  Speaker 1: comes to you tells you that they praying for you.
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  Speaker 1: People always be aware. People come to you something. I'm
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: praying for you in your situation, But then it comes
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  Speaker 1: in the form of a deed. No, you're not. No,
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  Speaker 1: you know you ain't praying for me. That ain't high
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  Speaker 1: prayer works. We ain't friends. And then she went on
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  Speaker 1: to say that your husband confided in her about an
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  Speaker 1: issue with his boss and not and how he resolved it.
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  Speaker 1: I could hardly breathe. I went home and he confessed
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  Speaker 1: to confiding in her and having dinner with her a
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  Speaker 1: few times of talking. He swore to me that nothing major,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: just two friends talking. I went to work the next
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  Speaker 1: day and I lost it. I couldn't stop crying. Now,
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, ain't you the same woman? You can't
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: believe he confided in her. I bet your husband wouldn't
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: believe that you and with your district manager for years
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: at work, and it's been fun and interest. See now
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden he didn't confide it in this
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: college girl, and they didn't had dinner a couple of times.
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  Speaker 1: Now you can't you crying at work? I bet your
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: husband would have been crying if he'd known you was
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: at work flirting with your district manager. See, you can't
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: have your cake and eat it too. You can't do
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: one thing. And then when it happened to you nice
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: all messed up. Now the whole letter is you think
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: your man cheating on you. I couldn't stop crying. And
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: then my manager came in to check on me. He
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: took me out the coffee. We said in his car talking.
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  Speaker 1: Now you would work now you thirty two wrap dress
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  Speaker 1: had all my goodies on display. It was the size
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  Speaker 1: of the wrap dress that had your goodies on display,
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  Speaker 1: and the way you were sitting in the car. You
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: know how wrap dresses fit. They wrapped and unwrapped. So
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: when you said in the car, it wasn't wrapped no
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: more because it wasn't enough fabric in the first damn place.
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  Speaker 1: He reached in and he rubbed a few things. He
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: kept on rubbing until I left his car with blood vision.
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  Speaker 1: That he hadn't rubbed you all tween your thighs and
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: all on your cleavage in this wrap dress until you
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  Speaker 1: had blood vision. Well, what kind of rubbing was going
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  Speaker 1: on in this car? Well, I bet your husband would
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: have been amazed to find this out. You've been flirting
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: for years. Now You're in the car rubbing until you
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: got blurred vision. Oh, I know what he was doing.
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  Speaker 1: I know how to rub and win. I know how
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: to induce blurred vision. I crossed your eyes. Yeah, I
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: hear you sitting in that car cock eye. That's right.
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  Speaker 1: I had y'all all up in the back of your
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  Speaker 1: head if you let me rub like I know how
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: to rub. See that what district manage with you? When
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: he was rubbing until you got blurred vision. You don't
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: get blurred vision from somebody running across his hand across
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: your chest. That ain't how you blur your vision. You
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: got to get into one of them creases of him.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: For that wrap dress opened up back, and it opened
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: in two parts. It opened up at the thighs in
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: the wrap dress, and it opened up in the cleavage
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: at the wrap dress. He in both their marriage because
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: your vision blurred. Now he wants more and I can't
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: give him more. You ain't say you didn't want to.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: You said you can't. What my husband did was very wrong,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: But honestly, I don't think my husband would cheat on me.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: I bet your husband don't thank you being a car
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  Speaker 1: getting rubbed onto. Your bligion to your vision got blurred either,
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: but you did. My district managers, using what he knows
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: about my marriage and his favor, you told him he's
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: trying to coerce me into having an affair by saying
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: my husband doesn't appreciate me, Well, you should ask him
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: does he appreciate his wife? Because it's a lot of
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: non appreciative people on this in this letter right now.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: Then he says, and revenge sex always makes a person
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: feel better. Revenge sex, that's the stupid approach. Your district manager. Dumb.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: You don't use revenge sex as the approach to getting yours.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: You got to, you got to, you got to. You
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: got to make a person feel like you can be
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: there for him. Let's talk about this some more. Let's
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: get somewhere and getting the consolation party. That's the stupid
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: revenge six to always make a person feel better. That's
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: a dumb approach. He should be more consoling so he
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: could do more rubbing if that's what he wanted. Now
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: is this man crazier just being manipulative? Keep both. He's
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: crazy for using the stupid ass approach that he used.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: He was almost home with the goodies with Jess rubbing.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: Now he talked about revenge six And is he being manipulative? Yes?
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: And are you willing yes? Have you been flirting for years? Yes?
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: Have you been in the car with him getting rubbed
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: onto your vision got blurred? Yes? Did your husband go
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: to dinner with this woman? Yes? Did he talk about
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: his problems? Yes? Everybody in this letter wrong and you
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: want us to tell you how wrong your husband is.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: I think you're the wrong person in the letter, and
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: I think you get what you put out. Post your
• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: check out the Subbary Letter Podcast one demand coming up
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: with forty six minutes after the hour, we'll have Sports
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: Talk with Junior right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for Sports Talk with Junior,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: which you got Junior. I don't know, Sirlott, what's going
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: on with the NFL players? But crazy is going through
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: here now. I don't know what. I don't know if
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: you saw this, but Cleveland Brown defensive tackle Malik McDowell
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: was arrested for public exposure and assaulting an officer down
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: in Deerfield Beach, Florida. Did you see this? I saw
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: this butt naked, butt naked? What but not ply? Yeah?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: Fighting police running down the street, fighting the po poles,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: butt naked. Pull it up, man, man, you had to
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: see it? Yes? What send it to me? Many? Hold on?
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: I just I don't wait a minute. He was fighting
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: the police, button naked, yes, and dropping them hands on him,
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: putting them hands on him too, said he was well,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: he looked like he did it before. He looked like
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: he hadn't done this. Yeah, when he been in a
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: lot of locker room fights and stuff. So he but
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: what drug was this? Though? I don't know what this is? Man,
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: That ain't we so what isn't? No, that's not weird.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: They released a statement we say we understand the severity
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: of this matter and our thoughts are for all well
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: being for people that are involved. We have no further
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: comment at this time. But I'm just saying, well, what
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: he gonna have to do is go to the go
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: to one right now, mental health issues. He got the
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: gold Air No, so this was it was just crazy, man.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: But in other good news though, I'm really proud of
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: this though. The Boston Bruins retired the number twenty two
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: in honor of Willie Oree, the first black NHL player.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it was a nice ceremony for him. Man.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: He's the twelfth player in Bruin's history to have his
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: number retired. He played from nineteen fifty eight to nineteen
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: seventy nine. He is now eighty six years old. His
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: number has been retired sixty four years later, so no
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: one will ever wear the number twenty two again. He
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: played more than one thousand, one hundred games. He is
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: referred to as the Jackie Robinson of ice hockey. He
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: is also in the NHL Hall of Fame. He was
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: inducted in November of two thousand and eighteen. Mister Willie O. Reid,
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: Congratulations sir, you did that, sir Englations that is big man. Now,
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Junior want to commend you on on actually reading this
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: story like you knew what you was talking about. Congratulations
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: on that. Thank you, sir. Thank you very much. I
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: just sent you to do he sixty. I just send
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: it to you. Got to see this because you got
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: understand it. He has to do that, man, So congratulations,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: mister Willio. Remain proud of you. Thank you so much
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: for opening any doors all these black any child players
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: we got now he was the first. He was in there,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up next at the
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: top of the hour, Stevie Wonder calls out lawmakers who
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: refused to take action on voting rights and we'll talk
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: about it right after this. You're listening to the Steve
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Stevie Wonder is calling for the Senate
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: to pass voting rights legislation immediately now. On the evening
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: of Martin Luther King Junior Day on Monday. That was
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: January seventeenth. Of course, Stevie shared a video message in
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: which he issued a call to action to lawmakers who
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: refused to act on voting rights. Take a listen. Any
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: senator who cannot support the protection of voting rights in
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: the United States of America cannot say and they support
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: the constitution, stop the hypocrisy. Cut if you can and
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: support our rights, do the hard work. You can't please everybody,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: but you can protect all of us. To keep it
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: all the way real. The filibuster is not working for democracy.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: Why won't you step Yes, Steven, that's truth. That's truth. See,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: the filibuster doesn't work for democracy, but it works for
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: people to hold their power in their position. Yes, that's all.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: The filibuster. The The filibuster isn't even a law. It's
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: it's not even a law. It's just something that they
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: created to do. They could disband it. It's not a law.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: It is not even as It's the craziest thing, man,
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: how they've managed. The minority has managed to hold on
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: to these things to control the majority. The electoral college
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: vote is so the minority has a bigger say than
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: the majority. That's what is for. That's why they'll never
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: get rid of it. It was for slave owning states
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: to maintain a level of control right as same mess
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: man is in place today. The hypocrisy of this country,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: it's alarming, man, It is alarming. And that in the
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: year twenty twenty two, we still have to ask white
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: people for rights, and we got to ask them for it,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: and we gotta keep asking white people for rights. This
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: is bull sugar hunt iced tea. That's all this is.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: If this was happening to white people, it would have
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: been resolved. I'm telling you right now. Do this to
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: white people and see what happened. Tell white people that
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: you don't have the same voting rights. Tell white people
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: they got they got to jump through hoops for freedom.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: Tell white people that you're not really included in this constitution.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: Tell it too. Go tell white people you can't get
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: the same education. Go tell it to white people to
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: watch what Watch all right, So go tell mansion. Go
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: tell mansion in West Virginia that what we're doing to
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: black people we're going to do to you. Watch what happened.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: Watch Also go tell any white person, we're going to
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: now start treating you like we treat all black people.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: And watch what happened. How the hell are we still
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: doing this in twenty twenty two. America is so full
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: of hypocrisy. Man, This most hypocritical country on Earth. It's
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: the greatest nation. Prove it. We're the greatest nation, but
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: we got the highest incarceration rate in the world. We're
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: the greatest nation. We got the highest COVID deaths in
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: the world. We're the greatest nation. We got the worst
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: healthcare system in the world, but we supposed to be
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: the richest. Canada got a better healthcare system. We got
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: way moment in Canada. We're the greatest at being the worst.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: You know that we're the greatest when it comes to
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: treating people unequal. We're the best at that. But making
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: them think that they are equal, but doing stuff to
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: constantly show that they're not. We leave the world in violence.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve. We'll have more of today's
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: trending stories on the Steve Every Morning show coming up
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening to show.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: All right, Carla is here with music news. What's you got, Carla, Well,
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: it's more of award news and nominations. The NAACP image
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Award nominations were announced the other day, and we all
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: know the Image Award honors the excellence of people of color, movies, television, music, literature, podcasting.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, Little nas X, Megan Thee Stallion, Regina King
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: are all in the running for Entertainer of the Year.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: Of course, the movies The Harder They Fall, TV show
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: Issa Rays Insecure and R and B Singer her lead
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: the nominations in film, TV music and oh, yes she is.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: She's a bad girl, Yes she is. And we have
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: to say congratulations, drum roll please. Celebrity Family Feud, hosted
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: by a verry On Steve Harvey is nominated for Best
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: Game Show. Yeah, yeah, congratulations Steve. Alright, Steve, that's big.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: That's big. He needs God, need to go somewhere, man,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: he just needs a quick clowning with me. I want
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: to apologize my haters, because here he go again. My bad.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I told you who I belonged to, and
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: I told you who I was, and he keeps showing
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: up for me again, and here we go something else. Oh,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: I want to apologize my haters, man, boy, If I win,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: who let the hate continue? All right? To do. Thank you, guys.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: a round if would you rather? Right after this you're
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: it is time for a round of would you rather?
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: All right, we go? Would you rather? Think about this one?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather live on the beach? Okay? Or would
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: you rather live in a cabin in the woods, on
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: the beach, on the beach, on the beach, or a
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: cabin in the woods? Black people don't do cabin in
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: the mood. That ain't really what we do. Do they
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: do beaches? We do beaches and manship question? Do you
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: have a house only beach just s just out here
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: on play a survival? You can have a you can
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: have a little house on the beach. Wait, I don't
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: want to live or a beautiful cabin in the wood,
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: a little house on the beach, or a beautiful cabin
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: in the moosell. I might have to go to the woods.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: You don't have to do that beautiful cabin in that woods.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna for cabin in the woods, for a little
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: house on the beach. Yeah, I couldn't have them trees
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: out in the wood though, I need to I gotta
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: be in sick. Yeah, I got it. I need a
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: little bit of I need a little clear for you.
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  Speaker 1: Walk up to the house because I can't walk outside,
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  Speaker 1: and all us on the back porch exactly. But the
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  Speaker 1: beat can walk out to the water, walk along the beach.
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  Speaker 1: Clear your head running. But you got us in that
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  Speaker 1: little house though. That's the little house. Okay, But hurricane
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  Speaker 1: we wash up. Hit your window, blush your window, that
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  Speaker 1: glass in there wet No, the wet woods. A bear
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  Speaker 1: can be in the wood. Yeah. When we got that
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  Speaker 1: clearing coming, yeah, knocked that little cabin down. Okay, all right,
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  Speaker 1: so I thank you guys. Are corn I think you
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  Speaker 1: guys are coming on that one. What's what you got
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  Speaker 1: next year? All right? Here I go. Would you rather
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  Speaker 1: be stuck in traffic? Would you rather never be stuck
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  Speaker 1: in traffic again? Never be stuck in traffic again? Period?
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  Speaker 1: Or would you rather never get a cold? I missed it.
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  Speaker 1: I missed it the second part. Would you rather never
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  Speaker 1: be stuck in traffic again? Or would you rather never
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  Speaker 1: get a cold? Yeah? I never I'd never get a cold.
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  Speaker 1: I'm caring about the traffic. M h m hm. Never never,
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  Speaker 1: would never be stuck in traffic. I hainte being stuck
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  Speaker 1: in traffic. I don't want know coal if I ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna held especially not not in the I'm gonna stay
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  Speaker 1: away from that cold because I turned into something else
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  Speaker 1: that traffic. We're gonna eventually go home. I got driving anyway. Hell,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sleeping, Yeah, not that you're stunting on? Would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: I'm going next? I gotta drive, go ahead? What else
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  Speaker 1: you got? All right, that's it. We gotta get out
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  Speaker 1: of here. Coming up with forty nine minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: it is the last break of the day. With Steve's
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks right after this, it's the last you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we
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  Speaker 1: are last break of the day on this Thursday. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: what a week started off with the holiday and Steve's birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Birthday boy week. You're still celebrating, aren't you. Yeah, just
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  Speaker 1: keep it, keep it going. Huh. What are you gonna
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  Speaker 1: do for the rest of the day? You know what?
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  Speaker 1: With the shop, I don't worry about to hay this. No,
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  Speaker 1: Steve don't do that. I don't. You know, my wife
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  Speaker 1: is adventurous. I don't. I don't do none of that. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I ain't. Let's see, my job is to
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  Speaker 1: protect her now diving that water with a butcher knife
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  Speaker 1: and in a shark of life, but using nice shall
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  Speaker 1: ass water. But that's all I'm doing. I'm just watching
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  Speaker 1: to make sure don't nothing to happen. I'm right there.
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  Speaker 1: I jump in if I got to, But I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: jump in killing though, you know, Oh no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: These sharks they don't even have teeth, and the way
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  Speaker 1: they eat, they suck, they don't really they don't chump
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  Speaker 1: down and stuff happen. Well, it's still a wild animal,
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  Speaker 1: so anything can happen. You know. They got a little
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  Speaker 1: sad paper teeth. The teeth is like sam paper. So
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  Speaker 1: they suck food, they don't chew it, they don't tear.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, things can happen, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: you have to wear shoes when you're playing with them
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  Speaker 1: shark because they don't want to make your toes. Think
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  Speaker 1: they food. That's that's a little stuff like that. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't need to heal. What was your question? You've been
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  Speaker 1: fishing off your boat. Yeah, no, it ain't a fishing boat.
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  Speaker 1: They ain't a fishing boat. But surely they got a
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  Speaker 1: rod on now come on this show. They do, but uh,
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  Speaker 1: that ain't what my country asked come out here to do.
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  Speaker 1: So just you know, it's a lot of a lot
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  Speaker 1: of things you can do. You're just going to participate.
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  Speaker 1: Just keep it going. I don't really want to talk
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  Speaker 1: about it because you know the other people be listening
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  Speaker 1: to know that's what's the cigar account? You just smoke by? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Oh who? Since Monday? Yes, it's been up there about seventeen.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm smoking a lot. You like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, hell yeah, that's the problem. He got gym
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  Speaker 1: and everything, and my ass going to the gym to
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  Speaker 1: day though, I got to stay, what have you been eating? Fish? Cholic? Who?
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  Speaker 1: I had some with German chocolate cake? You know it's
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  Speaker 1: a French chelf. You know, he need to somebody need
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  Speaker 1: to introduce his ass to peach cobbler, pound cakes, something
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  Speaker 1: like that. Only little pofes and moose songs. Yeah, tart
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  Speaker 1: when you make a tart, you mean tiny ass version
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  Speaker 1: of anybody? Just thought? How about pie? Don't and to
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  Speaker 1: be stuff, the stuff that you don't really need to
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  Speaker 1: be making a pie. Who the hell wants to eat
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  Speaker 1: a keywee tart? What is it? Keyweed tart? Man? You
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  Speaker 1: don't get some peaches and get some cruss up in
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  Speaker 1: the hill sugar, Jenny said, poy, no pie. Is he
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  Speaker 1: familiar with sweet potato pipe? Did he know anything about it? Oh? No, no,
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  Speaker 1: These these punkin pipe people out here, you, Oh, they
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  Speaker 1: believe in punkin pie, punking soup. They love punk i'na
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  Speaker 1: you don't know how to make potatoes soup. Yes, it's
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  Speaker 1: just different, different cultures. You gotta get over put caveat
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  Speaker 1: on everything. I'll be gonna there we go food. Put
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  Speaker 1: can stop talking about Hey, listen, I want to give
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  Speaker 1: you all little piece of encouragement the last couple of
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  Speaker 1: minutes I got. Twenty twenty two can be the greatest
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  Speaker 1: year of your life if you expect it to be.
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  Speaker 1: You have to project the thoughts that you want return
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  Speaker 1: to you. Everything starts with the thought. You are no
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  Speaker 1: dream come true without starting a thought. Once you start
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  Speaker 1: the thought, that enables you to start the process, but
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  Speaker 1: it starts what you're thinking. You have to change the
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  Speaker 1: way you think make twenty twenty two the best year
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  Speaker 1: of your life by changing it to the best thoughts
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  Speaker 1: of your life. Positive thoughts bring about positive results period.
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  Speaker 1: It works no other way. You can ask any person
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  Speaker 1: that's successful. It starts with how you think. Remove negativity
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  Speaker 1: from your thought process and positivity will invade your life space.
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  Speaker 1: That is a fact that scripture. A man is as
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  Speaker 1: he thinking that. That's the law of attraction. That's how
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  Speaker 1: remote control works. That's how it all works. Man. It
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  Speaker 1: does not work any different, and it will not work
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  Speaker 1: any different for you. The law of attraction is real.
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  Speaker 1: Whether you understand it, believe it, or adhere to it,
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  Speaker 1: it's still the same law of attraction. You are what
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: you put out in twenty twenty two. Focus on putting
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  Speaker 1: out positive imagery of yourself. Stop allowing people who do
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  Speaker 1: not create you, who do not love you, who do
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  Speaker 1: not have your best interests at heart, and don't know
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  Speaker 1: anything about you, determine how you feel about yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: can control the narrative of yourself. You elevate your thoughts,
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  Speaker 1: you elevate your life. That's your mission for twenty twenty two.
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