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Church Complaints, Granny Bride, Spelling Bee, Richard Branson and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on the don giving
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  Speaker 1: Good Steve listening to going together for STU. Please, I
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out, turnby, got to turn them out,
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  Speaker 1: to turn the water to the water. Come come on
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  Speaker 1: your baby, daddy, I sure will come morning. Everybody, y'all
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  Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one
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  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah, man boy,
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  Speaker 1: God has been good to me. Man, I can't really
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  Speaker 1: count at all. You can't either, you know, it's all
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  Speaker 1: in perspective. You really can't count all that God has
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  Speaker 1: done for you if you look at every little thing.
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  Speaker 1: It's unbelievable the things He's done for us. How many
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  Speaker 1: times you know, we got through something without even talking
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  Speaker 1: to him about it. He just he just blessed us
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  Speaker 1: with it. How many you know? It's just it's so
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  Speaker 1: much that the fact that you wake up in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you still have a place to stay,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you know may be struggling out here,
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  Speaker 1: but guess what, you still going to work. You you know,
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  Speaker 1: you live in check the check, but but you're making
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  Speaker 1: it all. You got all the plates spinning. You know
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  Speaker 1: it's hard. You got a lot of plates spinning, but
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  Speaker 1: you keep him up there somewhere. Every now, I near
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  Speaker 1: one break, but he put two more back up there
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  Speaker 1: to look a little bit better. And you got to
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  Speaker 1: get to spending them so it all works. And then
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  Speaker 1: you got a lot of people who just can't seem
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  Speaker 1: to mentally put it together as to you know, why
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  Speaker 1: their life isn't in a position that they wanted to be.
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  Speaker 1: We talked about this oftentimes, but I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: try another angle with you to day. You know, maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's you. Have you ever thought about that? Maybe it's you.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's no external force that's at fault, like you
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  Speaker 1: keep making the excuse to be. You know, so many
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  Speaker 1: people I hear, well, if this hadn't have done this,
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  Speaker 1: if he hadn't have done that, if she hadn't have
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  Speaker 1: done that, I would have been further along. I wasted
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  Speaker 1: all my time, my years with this man, and he
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  Speaker 1: did this, and I could have been here, and I
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  Speaker 1: could have been there, and this woman she did this
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  Speaker 1: to me. If she hadn't have done that, I could
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  Speaker 1: have been here, and I could have been there. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's you. Maybe it's not really that external force that
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  Speaker 1: you keep making it out to be. See, I've done
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  Speaker 1: this to myself before. Once again, I'm talking to you
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  Speaker 1: about something I know about. I've done this to myself before.
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  Speaker 1: I've had the reason I wasn't where I wanted to be.
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  Speaker 1: I had it figured out as some external force. I
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  Speaker 1: had worked it out in my mind. Clearly it wasn't me.
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  Speaker 1: Because if so and so or if this hadn't happened,
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  Speaker 1: and if they hadn't have done this, I would have
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  Speaker 1: been further along up the road. That's what I was saying.
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  Speaker 1: But WOLDO hold on that? But I learned a valuable lesson. Man. See,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: hard for you to go. If you don't ever let
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  Speaker 1: it go, it's gonna be hard for you to go.
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  Speaker 1: I was listening to Bishop td Jake's one day, and
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  Speaker 1: I heard him say, you can't drive your car if
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna keep looking in the rearview mirror. You go
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  Speaker 1: outside and try that, try to drive your car, but
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  Speaker 1: keep your eye in the rearview mirror. All you looking
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  Speaker 1: at is where you're being. All you looking at in
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  Speaker 1: that rear view mirrors where you're passed or should have passed,
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  Speaker 1: something you should have moved on from. All you're doing
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  Speaker 1: is looking in that rearview mirror at what happened back there.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't stop looking in the rearview mirror, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna crash your car over and over and over again.
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  Speaker 1: All you got to slow it down so bad in
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  Speaker 1: order for you to keep looking in that rearview mirror.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't learn to let it go, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be hard for you to go forward because you keep
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  Speaker 1: reviewing the past. The past is the past, and I
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  Speaker 1: know it's hard. Man. I watched a show and this
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  Speaker 1: lady said, well, I just can't ever forgive them for that,
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  Speaker 1: or guess what. Guess what God may have already forgiven
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  Speaker 1: that person. That person may be extremely remorseful, could have
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  Speaker 1: gone to God and godd and forgiveness for it years ago.
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  Speaker 1: But you you sit here and you keep hanging on
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  Speaker 1: to the back. I can't ever forgive that. Then I
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  Speaker 1: heard Bishop Jakes come on the show one time and
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  Speaker 1: say something that really really struck on. You keep drinking
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  Speaker 1: the poison, waiting on your enemy to die. He said that.
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  Speaker 1: I just shook my head and went, wow, you drinking
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  Speaker 1: the poison waiting on your enemy to die. Revenge is
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  Speaker 1: poor to you. You know, if hatred is poison to you.
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  Speaker 1: Unforgivingness when you won't forgive a person, that person could
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  Speaker 1: be going on with their life, made the right with God.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know how you're feeling. They're skipping through life now.
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  Speaker 1: You make adjustments every time you see them, and it
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  Speaker 1: takes energy. Man, it takes so much energy to hate.
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  Speaker 1: It takes so much energy not to forgive too. That
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  Speaker 1: ain't come in the room. You got to avoid them.
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  Speaker 1: Stay over here. Oh here they come. Now you got
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  Speaker 1: to make a situation over here. They come into the house.
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  Speaker 1: Its family reunion. Oh here they come. And where they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be in the basement. I'm going up on the
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  Speaker 1: third floor. I want to go ahead and get some barbecue.
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  Speaker 1: She out there at the barbecue, staying, oh lord, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want a barbecue. I just eat to take the salad.
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  Speaker 1: People man take themselves all out of position, trying to
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  Speaker 1: make adjustments, when if you it would simplify your life
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  Speaker 1: if you would let just let it go. Maybe you
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  Speaker 1: ain't where you need to be because of them external
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  Speaker 1: forces altogether. Maybe you're not where you need to be
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  Speaker 1: cause of you. Because you won't let it go, you
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  Speaker 1: won't move forward. Look at this, ladies. Let's say you've
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  Speaker 1: been in a situation with a man for years. It
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  Speaker 1: didn't work out for whatever the reason, it just didn't
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  Speaker 1: work out. I got, I got what you said he did.
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  Speaker 1: I got what he did, I got all of that, YadA,
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  Speaker 1: YadA YadA. When you get through, did not God get
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  Speaker 1: you through it? Did not he allow you to survive it?
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  Speaker 1: I got you, got some cuts on you, I got
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  Speaker 1: you been a little bit bruised. But did he not
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  Speaker 1: get you through it? So, now that he's freed you
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  Speaker 1: from it, now he didn't went on. He got a
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  Speaker 1: whole other family over that somewhere. He now he trying
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  Speaker 1: to make it right because maybe he learned the mistake
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  Speaker 1: he made and now he trying to be a better man.
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  Speaker 1: He just trying to get it right now. But you're
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  Speaker 1: sitting there holding onto it. You're drinking the poison, waiting
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  Speaker 1: on your enemy to die. So now instead of you
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  Speaker 1: enjoying the blessing of finally being free from a situation
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  Speaker 1: that was not healthy for you. You create an even
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  Speaker 1: more unhealthy situation in your mind by hating, by having
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  Speaker 1: revengeful thoughts, by hoping he fall on his face. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: you're even doing something to the other situation to make
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  Speaker 1: sure they struggle. Oh man, you're drinking the poison, waiting
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  Speaker 1: on your enemy to die. Maybe you ain't where you
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  Speaker 1: ought to be in life, not because of your external forces,
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  Speaker 1: but maybe it's you. If you don't let it go,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard for you to go. You can't
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  Speaker 1: keep driving your car looking in the rear view mirror.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, man, Forgiveness is not for the other person.
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  Speaker 1: Forgiveness is for you to show. Ladies and gentlemen, it
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  Speaker 1: is about time to get it started. No more messing around.
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  Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show back full foce m D's
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  Speaker 1: Ladies and Gentlemen, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve, Welcome back. Colin Farrell, she's here. I
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  Speaker 1: know I saw Junior Morning Off Morning everybody. J Anthony Brown,
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  Speaker 1: What up, mister Harvey, what's going on with you? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy. Yea, yeah, I'm in the building, Uncle Steve.
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  Speaker 1: I think she's here now. Colin Farrell, I am here.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. What's up are you? I said at the morning,
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  Speaker 1: what had happened Monday? I'm in the mid solutely. Well,
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  Speaker 1: how was your Vaca, Steve? I wasn't on Vaca, y'all
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  Speaker 1: was on Vaca ya, Radiom, were won a break? I
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  Speaker 1: still work. Had a good time though. I had two
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  Speaker 1: golf tournaments. Oh my boys came into town and visited
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  Speaker 1: some friends. Forty seven year friends and sixty year friends.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, So we had a good time man and work.
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  Speaker 1: They had a good time at family feud. That's grateful
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  Speaker 1: to still be doing it, man, that's all just grateful.
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  Speaker 1: And now we're back at work. That's another blessing. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't have to come to work. I get to come
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  Speaker 1: to work, that's right, that's all right, amen. It changes
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  Speaker 1: your whole perspective, folks, if you stop saying I have
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  Speaker 1: to and then stay and replace have to get to
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  Speaker 1: it changes your whole perspective. So I got to come
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  Speaker 1: to work this morning, A man, we all get to
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  Speaker 1: come to work. Yeah, and it's a fun job. It's
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  Speaker 1: a fun adventure. Every day. You never know what's going
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  Speaker 1: to happen. Working with you, Steve, it's always a surprise. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's good, Tommy show Big Kid. Heard y'all talking about
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  Speaker 1: the finale and stuff too. Oh my god, see ready
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  Speaker 1: to love. Yeah, it's so good. Yeah it was good, Tommy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Fire it really I've been getting
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  Speaker 1: I've been getting messages out the weekend, people loving it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm suited. I've started on the next season. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I mean watching DC. I'm doing two most seasons and
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  Speaker 1: all the way to October. Man, that's a blessing for me.
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  Speaker 1: Trust me. He should be fun. Tommy. Ye got some
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  Speaker 1: good contestants, y'all. Y'all in for a treatment. Okay, let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you this. Let me ask you this. Do
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  Speaker 1: you think that Jason and Liz will get married? All right?
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  Speaker 1: That could very well be here. I think that's my
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  Speaker 1: first wedding veils. That's what I think, so too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's there's a couple on there, Steve, Yeah, that are
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  Speaker 1: really cute and they're really in love. It looks like
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna make it all the way to the altar.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what it's all about ready to love, ready
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  Speaker 1: to be Jason has Why didn't you Carla? Everybody really?
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  Speaker 1: Everybody ready? Wait? What stake? Great name for everybody? Ready?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Congratulations Tommy. Coming up at thirty two minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, we're gonna talk to the CLO. It's
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  Speaker 1: been a minute. We're gonna ask the cello Chief Love
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  Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to all right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: it's time for ask the CLO. Ready, Chief Love Officer
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Yes, all right, fresh back from vacation, here
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  Speaker 1: we go, Jeanette and Tucker. Georgia says, I'm a thirty
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  Speaker 1: four year old woman that thought she was dating a
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  Speaker 1: thirty six year old man for almost a year. Three
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago, out of the blue, he said he was
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  Speaker 1: having back surgery, so I told him I would be
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  Speaker 1: there for him. He said he had a private duty
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  Speaker 1: nurse that is staying with him and his insurance provided it.
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  Speaker 1: After his surgery, I tried to visit him in the
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  Speaker 1: hospital and I was told he could only have one
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  Speaker 1: visitor at a time and his girlfriend is staying with him.
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  Speaker 1: I was so mad and hurt. Do I let him know?
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  Speaker 1: He hurt me, or walk away quietly? Well, I mean
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  Speaker 1: you you going to let him know he hurts you.
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  Speaker 1: You go, you're gonna tell him, you know, for your
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  Speaker 1: own closure purposes. You could have told me you had
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  Speaker 1: somebody I didn't have to find this way. But didn't
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  Speaker 1: you know? He back out? What's your trip in foe?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, he can't do nothing. He can't do nowhere,
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  Speaker 1: probably ain't gonna be able to work for a while.
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  Speaker 1: Who's just going about to busy? Oh okay, Yeah, he
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  Speaker 1: don't sound like thirty. He don't sound like a thirty
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  Speaker 1: something though. He really don't sound like that where you
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  Speaker 1: say that, well, let's say no to love. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: say no Viale signals and the healthy after you part, yeah, part,
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  Speaker 1: and you can walk away. He doesn't have to be quietly.
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  Speaker 1: You can want make some noise, you know, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Morgan and u Ypsilanti, Michigan, says, my mother recently moved
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  Speaker 1: into a senior living apartment building, and I got a
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  Speaker 1: call from the administrator to let me know that my
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  Speaker 1: mother is seeing a married man and his wife has
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  Speaker 1: threatened my mother. I called my mother to see what
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  Speaker 1: was going on, and she said that the man comes
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  Speaker 1: to see her, not the other way around. So I
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  Speaker 1: need to talk to him, she said, the man shows her.
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  Speaker 1: So it is what it is. How can I get
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  Speaker 1: my seventy eight year old mother to behave you know
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  Speaker 1: the rules? Baby? She behaved. She said me, eight rules
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  Speaker 1: you want her to go by? She seventy. Well, there
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  Speaker 1: are rules to this. I mean he is married married. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't think that. She just said, he chose me.
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  Speaker 1: It is what it is, pretty, that's what she didn't
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  Speaker 1: came away with. What you want to heart it, what
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  Speaker 1: you want to do, what you've fin to call it? Man?
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  Speaker 1: She said, may howl is man? Yeah, she didn't say yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She all these old ass people like that. They they
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  Speaker 1: make different rules when they get old. Say what they
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  Speaker 1: want to say, do what they want to do, to
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  Speaker 1: go where they want to go. You know, they want
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  Speaker 1: to see you know, ninety day rule. Ain't got nothing day.
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  Speaker 1: Ninety day rule is more like a ninety minute rule,
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  Speaker 1: you know, nine time? Yeah? All right, So what so
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  Speaker 1: she can't get her to behave to leave her mom alone?
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  Speaker 1: You're saying what you want? What? Okay, n I put
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  Speaker 1: it in the home. You ain't got too many votes. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: Amelia dropped me off at the home. You can quit
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  Speaker 1: talking to me. Amelia in Tallahassee says, I'm forty one
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  Speaker 1: years old and my boyfriend it's fifty one and we've
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  Speaker 1: been dating for six months. I put up with drama
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  Speaker 1: from his ex wife for the first three months of
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  Speaker 1: getting to know him. He was going through the divorce
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  Speaker 1: when we met, and now it's final. His ex thinks
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  Speaker 1: it's cheating, but he went to divorce court twice. Right
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  Speaker 1: after I met him. He begged me to be patient
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  Speaker 1: and stay with him, and recently she went to my
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  Speaker 1: son's job and told him I took her husband. My
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  Speaker 1: son has been on my case about it. Is it
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  Speaker 1: considered cheating if he'd already filed, Look, you could look
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  Speaker 1: if you if you're married, the party's gonna call it cheating.
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  Speaker 1: Is a deal. When you file filing, the marriage has
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  Speaker 1: been over by the time you file them. By the
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  Speaker 1: time the court grants the divorce, it's been over even
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  Speaker 1: longer than that. The marriage is over. It's over. We file,
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  Speaker 1: we want to get out. Now we're waiting on some
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  Speaker 1: paperwork from the court. It's over. You call it cheating
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  Speaker 1: if you want to but hey, it's over you going
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  Speaker 1: down the job telling this woman's son and all this here,
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  Speaker 1: whatever it's filed, it's over her son works all right,
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  Speaker 1: Joe punk ass son, wake up, get a life, thard
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  Speaker 1: realizing this high go sometimes. Yeah, yeah, right with your mama, man, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Moving on, Maria and Tennessee says,
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  Speaker 1: I've been married three years to a great guy with
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  Speaker 1: a big heart. But he's nice to everyone except his
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  Speaker 1: own brother. We live in a townhouse with a one
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  Speaker 1: car garage, and his brother is sleeping in our garage.
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  Speaker 1: He's an alcoholic and he lost his job and his
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  Speaker 1: wife from the drinking. Nobody in their family will take
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  Speaker 1: him in, so my husband gave him a fan and
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  Speaker 1: an air mattress for the garage. I want to offer
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  Speaker 1: him our guest room, but my husband is dead set
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  Speaker 1: against it. Should I overrule my husband and put his
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  Speaker 1: brother in the guest bedroom. Your brother in the garage
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  Speaker 1: for a reason, and your brother and brother, no brother
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  Speaker 1: know something you don't know, ya, your brother, Your brother
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  Speaker 1: had married you and is trying to protect his family.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. This man don't care enough about his
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  Speaker 1: own family to where he didn't lost his family and
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  Speaker 1: his job. What makes you think he gonna come in
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  Speaker 1: your house and care about your family when he didn't
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  Speaker 1: give a damn about his own family. You leave your
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  Speaker 1: brother alone. He cheating, He treating his brother as he
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  Speaker 1: needs to be treated. Right now. If you put him
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  Speaker 1: in the house, he ain't gonna ever leave, and he's
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  Speaker 1: gonna mess his brother's house up. And a brother ain't
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  Speaker 1: finished in for that. And you you're gonna regret that. Thanks. Yep,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna regret that. Lady. Yeah, you can't put him
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  Speaker 1: between your marriage either. Yep. Mmmmmmmmm. Should she overrule her husband? Hell? No,
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  Speaker 1: her brother and his brother in the guest room. No,
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  Speaker 1: let us stand in a garage with that fan, that mattress.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: That's the kind of hell he got. No a fan, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a fan and an air mattress. All right, thank you?
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: See Hello. Coming up next, we'll have some church complaints
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  Speaker 1: from Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam. Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening Dave Morning Show. Coming up at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour, Miss Anna's standing by with today's national
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  Speaker 1: news and an entertainment news. Grandma going viral for wedding dress.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of this at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour. But right now it is Monday. It is
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  Speaker 1: time for church complaints with Reverend Motown and Dick and
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  Speaker 1: deaf jam in the year. So glad, grateful and arbitrriously
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  Speaker 1: we are the palliapatience moving in the right alleviation of
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  Speaker 1: the things that we perpituate. Ah, I am here for
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  Speaker 1: complaints all right, knowing that I have full aarbtraction. Now
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  Speaker 1: do this, let us begin, Go ahead, all right, passing,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: let's get started. The church members got together and bought
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  Speaker 1: you a role, but now it only goes to your
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  Speaker 1: waist because they thought you would still be preaching on zoom.
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  Speaker 1: They can get you the other half, but it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: cost some money. Now what would you like for them
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  Speaker 1: to do? Pass it? But right now I have preached
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  Speaker 1: in a role in my thirty eight years in the
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  Speaker 1: man strap, and I'm not going to begin preaching it.
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  Speaker 1: I wear my suits because my suits sending the message
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: that I want the people to get right. But what
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  Speaker 1: you gonna We don't want this road to go to waist.
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  Speaker 1: And it's a nice shot roll that stopped at the waist,
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  Speaker 1: short roll you wear say you're not gonna You're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna do this. Now, you're not not on We just
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  Speaker 1: got that already, do you not. H Let's get down
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  Speaker 1: the south Man step by. They complaining about they saying
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  Speaker 1: that you anointed baby Travail with some ten W thirty
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  Speaker 1: and motor all on the boy's forehead. It's just why
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  Speaker 1: they want to They want to sue the church. Now
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  Speaker 1: the ore got in the boy's eyes, Baby Travail. Now,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: did you did you annoynt this baby with some ten
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  Speaker 1: W thirty weight? All the announting with the aar was
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  Speaker 1: made in the cross formation on his forehead. Yeah, the
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: baby Terrell's mittens got on his forehead and he stuck
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  Speaker 1: the oar in his eye. Nah, how that's the church fault. Well,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: let's go back. Did you use some ten W thirty weight?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it would ten W forty. I didn't want
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  Speaker 1: the all to drip into the baby eye, so I
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: used a heavy weight. Once again, the baby mittens went
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: up in there and then he put the oil in
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  Speaker 1: his eye. Not the church, I understand that. But if
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: he the baby wouldn't have got it in his eye.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: If you wouldn't have used that. The baby wouldn't have
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: got it in his eye. He stoodn't have stuck it.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Damn mittens up there. I don't know who you're raising
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: your voice that, but all right, let me move on
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: the shouters of the church. The shouters would like to
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  Speaker 1: use the church for a rehearsal on Saturday so they
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  Speaker 1: can be good and ready for live services. So they're
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: asking you if it's all right they come in saurday
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  Speaker 1: evening and practice shouting so they can have their shouting
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: right on sunndit. Oh, shouting rehearsals are being closed down.
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  Speaker 1: Oh right, shout practice service, waiting till the Spirit moves
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  Speaker 1: you correctly and in the right way. Don't come in
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  Speaker 1: here with no pre shouts already set up. We don't
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  Speaker 1: do that in here. We're moved only by the spirit,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: only by the spirit. I keep a note of that.
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  Speaker 1: All right now, would you be willing to make a
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  Speaker 1: hospital visit to also? Also, I don't even know the who. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't do sick or shit
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: in well out right now, we had Deacon Carter, Deacon
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Guard with It, Carter Jenkins, and Deacon Roy Thompson. While
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: riding the bus. They got into a big fight while
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: playing a game of that's my car. Uh even them
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: has a car, but they're not both in the hospital
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: for whupping each other behind on the bus. So we
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: are asking that you're going then grave for so I'm
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: not going down there due to COVID restrict you. I'm
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: using that as an excuse me. It's been lifted. They
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: have take members. You know, they have take some visitors now,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: so I don't know what did you say has been
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: lifted or you can not go into the hospital, then
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: you can visit these two right here that you know
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: they're not in I just said I'm not going down
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: there due to COVID restricts. Okay, there's the same tone
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: you had anything with me. Now It's not gonna keep
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: happening now, but you keep doing it. But all right, now,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: let me move along. The choir wants to raise money
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: to go into space. They want to be the first
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: choieter to go into space and sing Amazing Grace. The
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: problem here, the problem is it coust two hundred and
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: fifty thousand per person. They say they're trying to send
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: eight members from the choir and that that's two million
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: right there, pastor so uh, they want to start raising
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: money and of course they're asking you because you help
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: them do more to to help them get to space.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: A version of amazing Gridge, don't even sound good here
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  Speaker 1: on earth? No pass away. Now they're not bad. Now
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  Speaker 1: they're not No no no no no no no no
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  Speaker 1: no no, you don't spend two million dollars on they're
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: not bad? Okay, but but they're not bad though, past.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I mean you know they get once again, what are
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: you willing to spend two million on the And after
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: you say it, you say not bad? Do you bought
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: a house for two million, it wasn't bad. You went
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: on Vaca Haitian for two million and you final senses
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: is it wasn't bad. You understand, No, I understand whole
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  Speaker 1: herd of they passed it. But now it's just something
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: that the choir is trying to do. That's all I'm
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: trying to ask you that have you heard a choir recently?
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I haven't where they did sing on? Don't worry about
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: the major Have you heard, precious lord right? Have you
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: heard I'm climbing? Oh? Have you heard this little light
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  Speaker 1: of mine? Light of man, I'm gonna let it. Wow,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: are we trying to raise two million, a million, or
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: any dollars at all for what? I just see it?
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: All right, I pay two million for him to go
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: to space and don't come back. Alright, so bank, alright, Pastor,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: we got to wrap it up. Coming up at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour. Thank you guys. Coming up at
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour. We'll have some entertainment the
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: National News for you right after this. You're listening to
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: the Steven Show. Well, the most adorable grandma is going
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: viral for a wedding dress experience. It all started after
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Erica Tucker shared on Facebook that her ninety four year
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: old grandmother, Miss Martha may Orphelia Tucker, from Alabama, didn't
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: have a traditional wedding and that she wanted to try
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: on a wedding dress. Miss Tucker was watching Coming to
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: America with her grandmother, and during the wedding scene, her
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: grandmother her granddaughter overheard her say, I've always wanted to
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: try on a wedding dress. See. Miss Tucker got married
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  Speaker 1: back in nineteen fifty two, and back then it was
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: a time when black women were not allowed in bridal shops.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: So she never got to experience the thrill of trying
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  Speaker 1: on wedding gowns. Well, the family planned a surprise fitting
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: and she was a beautiful bride, Erica wrote, along with
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: video footage of her grandmother trying on dresses. Now, since
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: becoming a viral sensation, Missus Tucker is loving all of
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: the attention and if you've seen her, she's just as
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: cute as pie, I mean, just a beautiful in this
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: wedding dress. And now, Erica says, all Missus Tucker is
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: waiting for now is for Steve Harvey or Tyler Perry
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  Speaker 1: to give her a shout out. Missus Martha, Oh Fie Tucker.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I want to say, from the bottom of my heart, congratulations.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: This is a shout out from your boy old family.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Few keys and commented to botch it through it. I
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: want to say big shout out to you. Look absolutely wonderful.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I did see the picture. You look stunning. Congratulations. Waiting
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: all them years for them no good people that wouldn't
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: let you in that bridle boutique to try to dress.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Now we got money for all kind of dressing. Yeah,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: that's ma'am, pretty, so beautiful. To fly her down to
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: whatever bridle boutique she ever want to go in. I
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: don't even dressing it. Every dress keep bring. Yeah, so Steve,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: you made her day. Yeah, well well let's just hope
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: shout out get to her. Oh well, you know it's gone.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: She put it out there, It's gonna come back, you
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: know that. All right? Well, congratulations again missus Tucker ninety
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: four years old and still just beautiful as ever. All right.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, que couple alert, guys, check this out.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Martin Lawrence's daughter, Jasmine Lawrence is dating Eddie Murphy's son
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Eric Murphy. Talk about Hamedy Royalty right there. That's so
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: cute that I want to be at a family gathering. Yes, yes,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: that's funny. Yeah, that's a good one. That's a real
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: good one right there. So congratulations to the new couple.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Cute couple and uh wow, celebrity birthdays. He just got
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: out last week. Bill Cosby is eighty four years old
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: today and going back on tour or something. What I mean,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: he's out. Did judicial system freed him? Yeah, I'm accepting
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: of that. I'm perfectly fine. It's our judicial system and
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: that's the way it operates. And so he's out, he's free.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Uh don't know if I'd go on tour. I'm well,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just go home watching joke. What would he open? Win?
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: That's what the hell I wanted. All Right, we're moving on, Steve.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: It's time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne True,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: thank you, and good morning everybody. Here we go with
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: another week at last count recovery teams in Serfside, Florida
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: have now dug ninety victims out of the rubble that
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: collapse that high rise condo building, so that leaves thirty
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: one people unaccounted for. Mayor Daniella Levine Cava says the
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: searches continue working day and night. This recovery is moving
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: forward with great urgency as we work twenty four hours
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: a day on the pile to recover victims and bring
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: closure to all of the families still waiting. I'd already
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: say that over fourteen million pounds of concrete and debris
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: have so far been moved from that site as they
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: search for victims. Investigators looking into the brutal assassination of
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Hades President have reportedly led to a Haitian Florida doctor
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: under arrest a thirty three year old doctor named Christian Snome.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Hades Police chief says Snome high Colombian gunman through a
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: US based Venezuelan security company, and that the mission changed
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: from just arresting President Jovan Almy's to killing him, and
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: that Snome apparently wanted to be president himself. A total
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: of twenty six Colombians are accused, most under arrest I'm
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: dead still others on the run. FBI and Home Security
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: agents meanwhile helping the investigation, But the Biden administration at
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: this point anyway, not in favor of sending down any troops.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Republicans in Texas making another try at limiting access to
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: voting by holding a thirty day special session to get
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: the measure passed. Back in May, you may remember Democratic
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: lawmakers blocked the GOP's effort to pass new voting bills
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: by just walking out. Staging a walkout, say they didn't
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: have the numbers. Republicans want twenty four hour voting band,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: they want driving dive through voting ban and the States
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Republican Governor Greg Abbot defend end of those ideas on
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Fox News Sunday, even comparing his state to President Biden's
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: home state. If you're doing drive through voting, there's going
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: to be electioneering. It could be on the bumper sticker
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: in the car right in front of you. It's far
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: easier to vote in the stead of Texas than it
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: is in Delaware. And yet nobody is claiming that there's
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: some type of voter suppression taking place in Delaware. Well,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: the fact is that in the twenty twenty election, voter
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: turnout in Texas was sixty percent. In Delaware it was
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: seventy percent. If you haven't heard about it, here you go.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: An African American teenager from Louisiana, the first black jaw
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: to win the National Spelling Being. Unlike the last competition
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: where the last eight youngsters were all declared co winners.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Fortune Year, Ozela vant Guard spell the winning word and
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: you are an that is I don't know what that is.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Young Dale is also a talented basketball player. She's the
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: hold of three Guinness World Records for driveling. Louisiana State
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: University has offered her a full scholarship. I love it.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Now back to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, please introduce your man Jay Anthony Brown. Yes,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you Baltimore for coming out my voice,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: his horse, sorry running wrong. Thank you for you know,
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: selling out to Jay spot and July of eighteenth, blowout
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: comedy show an art show column in South Carolina over
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: the weekend, well forth of July weekend. We know there's
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that called for nine one one.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I have a list of some of the calls that
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: were made for fourth of July nine one one. Here
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: we go. We have a family. We have a family
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: involved in a mustard fight. Could you send someone over
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: to the house. I'll just straight up must mustard. That's
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: it mustec We have a white girl holding her own
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and a Black Lives Matter rally. Could you send an
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: officer over to one Adam twelve, One at them twelve.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: We have a fat kid stuck in a dry Could
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: you send someone over to what's going on? One Adam twelve.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Any officers out there? We have sparklers stuck in somebody's butt.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Center officers, sparklers one atam twelve, one atam twelve calling
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: all officers. We have a fight that broke out for
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: somebody made banana putting with breast milk. Could you go
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: over to the house one month for nothing? Who told?
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: One Adam twelve, whoever's out there. We have two Christians
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: in a head lock. They're about to kill each other.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Could you send someone over to the house, please too,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: one Adam twelve. Any officers by any officers. We have
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: someone with a head wound from a turkey leg. Please
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: send someone for right away. Serious food, Yeah, a lot
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: of fights. One atam twelve, One atam twelve in any
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: officers out in the area. We have an elderly woman
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: stuck in a leather cat suit. Send someone over to
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: the houses. Got the vigil on still got a deal?
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Got it? One atam twelve calling all officers. We have
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: a dog that swallowed a deal dope. Please get someone
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: who the house. He's a calls that went out over
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: the fourth of July. See y'all eighteenth in Columbia, South Carolina.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: Baby Dade, you say you had an art show. I
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: have an art show coming out. It's called a Blowout
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Comedy and art shows gonna be in Columbia, South Carolina
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: on July the eighteen. You're I'm a great artist. You are?
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: You are with Miss jess Amy and some other artists
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: from Colombiac. Oh wow, that's nice, Jack, very nice, nice, nice,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. All right, Jay, you're crazy, Marie,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you, coming up with thirty four minutes
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: after the hour, tell me something good, black girl magic
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: good news coming up right after this you're listening to
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: all right, as promised, it is time now for tell
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: me something good, black girl magic news. Well, we have
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: to say congratulations again to the twenty twenty one National
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Spelling Bee champ. Her name is Zaila Garde. She made
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: history becoming the first black American champion. She is fourteen
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: years old. She's from Harvey, Louisiana. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Zaila won the ninety third Spelling Bee by spelling the
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: word Maria. Zaila has now been offered a full scholarship
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: to Louisi Louisiana State University. Congratulations, that's right, yes, son, yeah, yes,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: she came. But she's only fourteen. All she got to
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: do is weight does she got plenty of the scholarships coming,
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: you know, that's an all Yeah, So, Steve, you know
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: how we do it. Whenever we talk about the Spelling Bee,
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: we have our very own spelling Bee here on the
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show. So I'm just you know, wanting
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: to ask you are you ready? You're ready to go?
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I have all ready for you. Okay. The first word
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: is a French word meaning appetizers. The word is orders,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: spell that please orders. Yeah, that's what she says. Yes,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: apathize in your chair foot it's a French word meaning ampathizers.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: I know you've had a few and served a viewing
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  Speaker 1: the advertisers. Or dirt, yes, come on? Oh? Or dirt
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: huh or dirt? You didn't use it in the sentence. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: surely you lose it and use it in a sentence.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: We went to a party at Steve's house and his
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: wife Marjorie served the most delicious or dirt now what
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  Speaker 1: that thing that thing in the air. Huh oh e
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: no oh yeah you here's such a bad actor. You yeah,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: the last three of them. I want to say thank
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  Speaker 1: you today. I'm pulling r E okay, okay, all right,
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: very good, very good, I got it. Yes, h R
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  Speaker 1: as apostrophe d O E U v R E s
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  Speaker 1: very good state. He started out with an apostrophe actually
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: is after the d yeah oh is it okay? All right? Here,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: here we go. Um, here's an easy one. Eventually, okay,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: go ahead. Uh broccoli b r O uh huh c
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: man Win. Would you like me to use it in
• 43:11
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  Speaker 1: c k k. Right coming up next to nephew with
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: today's Frank Bad Steve. We'll be back. You're listening. Coming
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is why
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: won't his wife leave him? We'll get into that in
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: just a bit, but right now the nephew is here
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: with today's spring phone call. I just wanted to say
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: thanks to my nephew. He came through the golf tournament.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: Surprised me. Yeah, came through the golf tournament little flyass
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: outfit on and bought the long dry female champion with him,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Troy mullenh nephew, trust me, they was not using my
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: balls early. They were using her ball every single time.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Good time, my ball one time. That's because everybody else's
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: balls was in the bushes, birdie one hole by myself.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: That's it. It was good. Still got an incredible tournament.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: It was good. It was good to see how how big,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: how big I want my tournament to be. I'm living
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: around like, oh my god, I was in a tournament.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Heaven looking at it. He was like, got all this
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: good God, But the love that, the love and the
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: support I was so I was so tired of. You know, man,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: it's hard to have your own tournament because you gotta
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: every hole is sponsored. And so many great sponsors were there, man,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: with so many great products, but you got to try
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: all the cupcakes, all the pass all the drinks. Man,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: they need a bathroom every hole. But they sponsor you
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: because you're doing good work. So that's yes. It was yeah,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: and a nice surprise in that you cool all right? Well,
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: I like I said, yeah, what you got now? You
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: ain't no sigma, You ain't no signa cool, You ain't
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: no sigma. Let's go catch up. Hello, Oh I'm trying
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: to reach a Greg please. Yeah, this is he How
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: you doing? My name is Bernard five beta sigma. I'm
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: over pledged relationships? Uh huh uh? Giving you a call
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: to Dame man um you attended priv a m university?
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Am I correct? Yeah? You am? I right? You attended, right, okay,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: and for my understanding, you pledge five Beta Sigma and
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: fall of ninety one. That's correct, all right, that's the
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: that's the Theta chapter, correct, Yes, all right. Here's where
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: we're we're having some problems here going through the records, records,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: actually looking at the records that we have here headquarters.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: You're not actually an official member of five Beta Sigma.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know what has taken place. But wait a minute,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: what what do you mean or not a member? Looking
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: at our records here at national headquarters, it's indicating that
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: you're not an official member of five Beta Sigma. I
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: don't know what could have gone wrong with this? Now,
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Now that ain't right, man, That ain't right, because see
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: depth of data is recognized nationally, so why wouldn't I
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: be nationally recognized. I'm not certain, sir. Maybe it's something
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: that took place on that that actual line of Fall
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: ninety one. We're actually going to have to do some
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: research on everything that's going on with your line as
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: well as the chapter. But how is that possible? If
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: they gave if they gave me a certificate in the
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: in the plaque and I got my pen and I
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: mean I'm a sigma. What you mean? Okay, sir, I
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: don't know what I'm looking at here, And and please understand,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: I want to try to clear this matter up. Yeah, yeah,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: we need to this matter. Who else is there somebody
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: there like a oversee uh maybe the head president or
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: your branch or something that I can talk to or something. Well,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I'm actually I am actually over pledged relations and I
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: wanted to give you a call personally so we can
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: try to rectify the matter. And it's gonna take us
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: some time to hiring this thing out. But what I
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: need you to do as at this point. Yeah, And
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: you know what the problem is that I'm noticing is
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: that all of the people that were on your line
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: they are official for some reason. Mister greg is an official,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: so I want to I don't understand that because I
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: was the line president. So how how is everybody else
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: able to be a signa and not me when I
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: did all the paperwork that it takes to for the
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: process to be right. I don't understand it. So you
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: know what, brother, I can't call you brother for the
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: fact that you right now try me brother, because I'm
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: a signa. So here's what we're gonna have to do. Greg.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to get you to first of all,
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: if you're dealing with anybody alumni wise, asking that you
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: don't go to any meetings right now. We're also asking
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: that you don't wear any five beta sigma pal for Noel.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: At this point, we want to make sure and get
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: clarity that you are definitely a brother A man. Man,
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I am definitely a brother. Do you know what I
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: had to go through to get where I am today?
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: To be a signal? All the do y'all, y'all took
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: y'all dudes whatever to that. If you're taking my dudes,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: you should be able to tell me yo, man um,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: we got this going on, certain things that are going
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: on with your line. We need to we need to
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: check you. You took our money. That's the thing. I'm
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: seeing checks that have gone through for other people that
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: are on that line. I don't see your man, And
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: to this day, I'm like a lifetime member, So what
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: the hell are you talking about? I have no records
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: indicating that you're a lifetime member. That's what I'm saying, sir,
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: we got that dog. Somebody needs to tell me something today.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: We're gonna try to get to the end of this
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: by the end of the week. It's gonna take no. No,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: but no, but no, you're not understanding what I'm saying, man,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: because I'm a signal to the heart. Dude. You know
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Y'all playing with my heart right now? Man,
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: ain't nobody to do that and get away with I
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. You know. Here's what we
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: can do. We can bring you back in and do
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: another pledging process. Pledge. Did you understand what you just
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: said to me? No? Man, that ain't happen. Dog. And
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I've been through this already. Man, I'm not pledging. I'm
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: not signing my name on nothing else because I have pledged.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I need to get somebody on
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: the phone that can answer my question. I want to
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: know what's going on, okay right now? And I understand
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: you know the disbelief of what's going on. I really
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: do you obviously, so you are, brother. Brother, We're gonna
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: try to what year did you grow across? Did you
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: walk the fan? I mean, tell me what's going on? Brother?
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: I'm fall eighty nine, brother, And now what we're gonna
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: have to do right now is, first of all, no paraphernalia,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: no name. You're trying to tell me that I can't
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: well what's nearest and dearest to my heart, next to
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: my wife and my child. You're telling me that I
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: can't grow around and proclaim what I am. That's like
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: telling me I can't be black? What the hell is
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: you're saying? And another thing we're going to get you
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: to do. Understand, you have a brand, a Sigma brand
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: that's going to have to come off until we until
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: we get this taken care of? What and then you
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: talk about them medical procedures? What are you saying? So
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: we cannot allow you to wear a brand representing five
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: Beta Sigma when right now you are not only you
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: can't five a lot that that brand to me, was
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: allowed to put the brand on me. Now I can't
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: be allowed to wear something I've been wearing for almost
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: fifteen years? Are you crazy? Come on, man, that's some crazy.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: So we gotta get you to take your brand of
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: me until all of this brand? What the hell a
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: out man? This is some look here, brother, But what
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Bernard is that what your name is? You need to
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: get somebody on this a minute. That's all right, I
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: know the president bill, how about that? I would just
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: call in and I'll figured out my bill. Right now,
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: we need you to take the brand off off you.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: Come take the brand off of me. And if you
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: wanted that bad, come get it. That's what you do.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: You are not a member of five Beta sick. I'm
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: don't give up you talking about dog. I am a member.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: If you want something over here high land, your boy,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: that's what you do, you bad, come do it. So
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you for the final time, do not wear
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: any paraphern Now you keep couldn't don't want to hear
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: that talking about no final. Let me tell you what's final.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: I am a five Beta Sigma to the hard boom boom. Sir.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is no more hurt and cover
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: that brand up until we here. Man, I'm gonna wear everything.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I got a hat. I'm annead of a matter of fact,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna wearing hey just to get on yong Nurst.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: You're gonna keep praying, covering up until we figured out
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: if you are sing no hand covering up you come
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: get it and tell then you better get away from me.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about don't pull that brand up and don't
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you wear no church no more? Me tell you something
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I ain't covering. Come get it if you want it.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I got one man, I hard baby, this is boom fire.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: You don't want none. You don't want none of them? Man,
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know what one more thing I need to
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: say to you? Are you really to say what you
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: got to say? You ain't getting. This is nephew Tommy
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: by your point. Hello boy, y'all had me ready to
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: kill my man? Y'all boy, let out one more thing? Man?
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Greg?
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: What is it? Steve Harvey Morning Show? And whoa thank
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: you nephew. I'm next Today's Strawberry Letters subject why won't
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: his wife leave him? We'll get into it right after this.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 53:47
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• 54:00
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• 54:04
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• 54:07
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• 54:10
  Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you if
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: you subject. Why won't he leave his wife? Why won't
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: his wife leave him? What was I thinking the same
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: thing though? Right here? Stephen Shirley, I'm forty four years old, fundamental,
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I know what it is. Huh think I'm still in
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: vacation mode. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm forty four years old,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: divorced and single for ten years. My husband divorced me
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: because I cheated on him and the man I cheated
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: with was married and he's still married. We met at
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: work and the rest is history. We are still in
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: a relationship and it's been ten years now. Our sex
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: life is great, but our relationship has a few challenges.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: We have a six year old son and he has
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: two children with his wife. His wife is known about
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: us from the beginning due to my husband sending her
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: explicit text messages, hotel ex seats, and pictures of us together.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: She knew about my pregnancy and is aware that her
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: husband spend times with our son, but she will not
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: leave him. He said he's staying because of the kids
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: and she will drag him through the mud if he leaves.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I really truly love this man. He met my parents,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: my siblings, and all of my friends. Everyone knows he's married,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: but no one makes a big deal out of it.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: I had to threaten him with child support to make
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: him step up financially to provide for me and my son.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: He has put our son on his insurance at work
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: as his third child. Nothing I ever do to this
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: man has made him angry enough to cut ties with me.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: So I really feel that he loves me. I do
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: want more and have expressed that to him, but he
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: says he has too many obligations at home. I feel
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: like I have a boyfriend and everything is fine until
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: reality sets in and he leaves me to go to
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: his wife and other life. I'm sure his wife knows
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: where I live, but I don't understand why she's never
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: acted out over what I've done. He and I will
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: be connected forever because of our son, but I want
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: him all to myself. I'm getting too old for the
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: back and forth and he is too. Do I give
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: him an ultimatum? Or would that be selfish of me?
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: Would that be selfish of you? What? I think everything
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: that you're doing is selfish because all you're thinking about
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: is getting this woman's husband for yourself. You were selfish
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: when you cheated on your husband in the first place.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: And I don't see how you don't see any of
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: this as selfish because it's all selfishness. I mean, now
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: you want him to leave and be with you, that's selfish, okay,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: And he obviously doesn't want to leave his wife. Obviously doesn't.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: He's giving you every excuse not you, and more importantly,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: he doesn't have to at this point. He gets anything
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: he wants from you with the arrangement you already have,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: and everyone is going along with it. You said, he's
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: met your family, he's met your friends, and they're cool,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: No big deal. His wife is known about your affairs
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: since the beginning. She's still his wife. And no matter
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: what you do to him, you say, he won't leave you.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: You two started this, you made a child, and now
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: you have a problem with it the way it is now, Well,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: you know, too bad, because this is a mess, and
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: this is what messes look like. I mean, trust me, wife,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: he isn't going anywhere. It's called revenge, okay, it's called
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: a woman scorned, it's called spite. You think she doesn't
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: know you want her to leave. She probably can't stand
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: her cheating husband. You know, didn't you say? He's sent
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: her explicit pictures, hotel receipts of you guys together. But
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: she's still not leaving him. That should tell you something
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: right there. So this is what it is and what
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: is going to be. Okay, you need to stop wishing,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: stop waiting, stop hoping for him to leave her. It's
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: not happening. She's not going to leave him either. The
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: wokest moment you had and this whole entire letter was
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: at the end when you said you're getting too old
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: for this back and forth, and so is he. And
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: you're right, you're forty four. I say, girl, get your
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: child's support like you're doing. Please don't waste any more
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: time on him though. You need to get your self
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: respect back. You need to close this chapter of your life.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: You need to walk away. Stop answering his calls. This
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: is not love. It's not even close. Of course, he
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: needs to pay continue to pay for the child and
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: take care of his kid. But other than that, you
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: need to move on with your life. Steve. To me,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: this whole letter ain't got nothing to do with to do.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: The whole thing to me is the woman who wrote
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: the letter and what she's settling for and what she's accepted,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: and what she keeps trying to make or wrong or right.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: And it can't work this way? Woman, What is wrong
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: with you? Your moral compass is so far off. You
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: keep trying to get something out of this that don't
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: be longed to you. You have nothing here. You're forty
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: four year old, divorce and single for ten years. Your
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: husband divorced me. My husband divorced me because I cheated
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: on him and the man I cheated with was married
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: and he's still married. Oh okay, and you're still cheating.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Do you understand you've never corrected any of your mistakes,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: but you want stuff to right itself for you, but
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: you've taken no ownership. Look, everybody make mistakes, so I
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna beat you up about the mistakes, but damn,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to grow from your mistakes, learn from him,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: ask for forgiveness, and move on. You've done none of that.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: You just keep repeating the same thing over and over
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: expecting a different results. Don't they say that's the definition
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: of insanity? Absolutely, Steve. Ain't that what they say? So
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: when we come back, we've finished talking to your crazy ass.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Ye all right, we'll have part two of Steve's response
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the our subject
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: why won't his wife leave him? We'll get back into
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject why won't his wife
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: leave him? Why won't his wife leave him? What? Forty
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: four years old? Divorced? Single for ten years? Your husband
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: divorced me because my husband divorced me because I cheated
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: on him. And the man cheated on him was married
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: and he's still married. We met at work. In the
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: rest is history. We are still in a relationship, so
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: you're still cheating and it's been ten years now. Our
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: sex life is great, but our relationship has a few challenges.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: Oh you mean the fact that he's married, that's the challenge. Okay.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: We have a six year old son and he has
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: two children with his wife. Oh you mean his family Okay.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: His wife has known about us from the beginning due
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: to my due to my husband sending her explicit text messages, hotels, receipts,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: and receipts of us together your husband. See I didn't
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: catch that at first. Your former husband sent all this
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: information to your wife when he found out you was
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: cheating on him with her husband, He said her all
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: the messages to receive and all this stuff. She knew
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: about my pregnancy and as aware that her husband spends
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: time with our son. But she's not. But she will
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: not leave him now. Surely said it best. And I
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: hadn't thought of this. This is revenge. Oh no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: I'm in this mass. I'm gonna make you wallow in
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: it with me. So I didn't even know that, But
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: women are capable of it. I'm leaving, I'm bouncing. We're
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: gonna do revenge somewhere else. We're nothing to sit up
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: in here. But Shirley made a valid point. He said
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: he's staying because of the kids, and she will drag
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: him through the mud if he leaves. Wait a minute,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. He already in the mud.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: It can't get any muddy earth now she will tell
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: his job and all this hell. But now she gonna
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: drag him through the mud. She giving this band hell.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: I want you to understand it. I really truly love
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: this man. He's met my parents, my siblings, all my friends.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: Everyone knows he's married, but no one makes a big
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: deal out of it. You know why they don't make
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: a big deal out of it because you don't don't see.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: You cool with stupid and they cool with you. So
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: if you cool and stuck on stupid, then we cool
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: being stuck on stupid for you whatever, that ain't what
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: you like that everybody day. Don't make no big deal
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: out of it, Lady. I had to threaten him a
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  Speaker 1: child support to make him step up financially provide for
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: me and my son. He has put our son on
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: his insurance at work as his third child. Nothing now here, depart.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: Nothing I ever do to this man has made him
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: angry enough to cut ties with me. So I really
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: feel he loves me. So I know what you did.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you that in a second. Now he does
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  Speaker 1: love you. You can be in love with two people,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: but he ain't leaving his wife. Though I do want more,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: and I have expressed that to him, So, and what
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  Speaker 1: do you do bout it? Not? So I do want
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: more to expressed that to him again? So you're through
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: express it. I'm fitting to go home, but he says
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: he has too many obligations at home. Yeah, a wife
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: and two children. I feel like I have a boyfriend
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: and everything is fine until the reality sets in and
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  Speaker 1: he leaves me to go to his wife and his
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: other life. I'm sure his wife knows why I live,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: but I don't understand why she's never acted out over
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: what I've done. Let's go back to this line right here.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: Nothing I ever do to this man has made him
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: angry enough to cut ties with me, So I really
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: feel like he loves me. I'm sure his wife knows
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: why I live, but I don't understand why she's never
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: acted out over what I've done. Because you've tried to
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: ruin them, and now she ain't gonna let you again,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: going back to what Shirley said, this is revenge. Oh,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: so you're gonna ruin me? You ain't fit to have him.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: I just hold on to this regtive mess. Why I
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: give you anything? So now you can't win? He and
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: I will be connected forever because of our son. But
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: I want him all to myself. Wait a minute. He
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: has a wife and a family, and you cheated on
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: your family with this man, and you're still cheating with
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: the man, this man and his family, and you want
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: him all to yourself. How do you keep thinking something right?
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: It's fend to come out of all this wrong you've
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: been doing for all these years. I'm getting too old
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: for this back and forth and he is too He
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: too old for this? Do I give him an ultimatum?
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: Or would that be selfish of me? Hold on, let
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: me ask you something. What ultimatum you talking about? What
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: you're finding threatening with? Oh? Oh oh, let me see
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: what what're you gonna do? Oh you're gonna tell his
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  Speaker 1: wife about y'all. Oh, you're gonna call down on the
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: job and tell him he got a baby out of where? Like?
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: Do you talk about the baby lady put on his insurance? What? What? What? What? What?
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: What ultimatum threatened do you have? You ain't got nothing?
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: What if she says I'm going to leave you? But
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: she ain't going Nowhere's she's really not. She just set
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: herself up to state she going where with who? Man?
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: This man no, she ain't going nowhere. You have no ultimatum.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: The best thing, and let me tell you something else, lady,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: you will never have a man of your own ever.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Not doing this, you have doomed yourself to a lonely life, sister,
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  Speaker 1: unless you change your ways. You gotta just realize it's
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  Speaker 1: a mistaken ask for forgiveness and get up and try again.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only thing I got for you. Leave them alone,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: all right? Thank you? Steve. Post your comments on today's
• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:56
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  Speaker 1: at four six minutes after Junior in Sports Talk right
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  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show. There we go. Time
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: now for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: before we shut it? Now, we're in the NBA Finals. Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: last night okay, Phoenix Suns Milwaukee Bucks score one twenty
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  Speaker 1: to one hundred Bucks win. Series is tied to two
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: one now Phoenix took the first two games. It's third
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  Speaker 1: game at first home game in Milwaukee's eifitted their home court.
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  Speaker 1: So up the question we got on the table now
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: we're only rooting for Chris Paul. How many games I'm
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: pulling for Chris Paul. I think Milwaukee is gonna win
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: a minimum of two of them in Milwaukee. If they
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  Speaker 1: win three, it'll be three two and they're gonna go
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: to Phoenix. Yeah. Yes, I'm just pulling for Chris Paul. Man,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: I want Chris Paul to win. I thought it was
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: gonna be a tough series the way they played tonight
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: and the last night, and the Bucks didn't shoot Wale
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: last night and they came out of that. But then
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: Devin didn't play his best game either. He did, he didn't.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: He didn't play his best game. But I gotta say
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: Yannis is probably the big man in the entire NBA.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: He had he was thirteen or seventeen from the field.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: All his points came at the basket. Yeah, you got
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: only seven foots at the three point list. He not
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: out there. He is not out there. He at the rim,
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: dunk every chance he gets. That's what I like about Yannis.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: I don't want to shoot, I want to dunk. Okay,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: that's what he did, man. So I'm excited for that series. Uh.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: And then I don't know if y'all saw this, Jay Tommy.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all saw the fight, but Justina
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: saw that. Did you saw that up? I don't know
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: what in the world I was looking at. When I
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: was looking at Conor McGregor leg, he broke his ankle
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: looked like more like a similar the ain't everything ankle? Yeah,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: ji jiji? When did you see him standing up on
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: He had to quit that No, no, no, Junior, when
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: he stepped backwards, Yeah, that leg popped. Yeah, he said
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: his ass down. He didn't get no, no, no standing
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: up on that dog that. I've never seen a nartell.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: You gotta be you gotta be a tough guy to
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: do go go through something like that time. Have you
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: seen his leg? Man to like a twig when he snapped,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: I saw it. I didn't like his reaction afterwards, what
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: he was saying the poor about his wife while he
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: was walking out the ring. I went over there and
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: stomped him in his head with it broke lay. I
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: couldn't can't say it. Oh, I was like that, Yeah,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: it wasn't It was nice. So they probably gonna have
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: another fight, is what they were saying, that they want
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: to have another fight. This would be number four oh man,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: that's all. I don't think Connor McGregor could beat this kid, though,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: and let it go, Let it go, this Louisia and
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: a boy. I don't think he can beat this kid.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you? Coming up this j Anthony
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  Speaker 1: Brown's comedy Roulette right after this you're listening, all right, guys,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: here we are. It is time for today's comedy roulette. Jay,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: please set it up for us. Here's how we do it,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: because we know how to do it. Take three subjects.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Put him on a wheel, spun the wheel around, wedge stop,
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: we'll do the damn thing. Put him up in spinish
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: let me here, all right. Today's categories are things people
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: whisper in church. Ways you describe someone for from outer space?
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: Let me read that one again. Ways you describe someone
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: from outer space. That's what we doing. Stuff kids say
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: when they want you to babysit, and then stuff kids
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: say when they want you to babysit. All right, got
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: him spend the wheel? Yeah, whis to be interesting? Yeah?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: Really out of space aliens? Oh okay, just missed it.
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  Speaker 1: It's things people whisper in church. Let's go there, we
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: go comedy roulette. Things people whisper in church. Now, she
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: know that hat is just too damn big. Seriously, nobody
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: on this rope can see a damn all right, James,
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  Speaker 1: when we're doing things. People whisper in church? Okay, Um,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I passed. Act like he only
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: want to hear the word from God. I heard one too,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: Sit down, wrap it up, cut your mic on from me.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: Oh damn you, I've been talking ten minutes ago. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't hear what happened. Things people whispering church. You know,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: you know why she laid getting to the choients thing,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: because you're always in the studies with pastor. That's what
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: they'd be doing. They fast study, That's what they be
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: doing church, big dog, Julia, Julia, what's the school? I
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: love it? Church? People whispering ship in church. That old
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: lady hit that tamarine one more damn time, one more
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: damn yeah, things people say in church. I see they
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: got Satan attendant service this morning. Right, thanks, people whisper
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  Speaker 1: in church. He gonna be another damn pass me that
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: plast you got in your prayers? A little knel part
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  Speaker 1: of that. I just need a little kneels. People whisper
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: in church, Junior, I ain't won't say nothing. He really
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: can't preach a conversation that thinks people whispering church. You know,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: praise dancers ain't in the Bible. Nowhere in the Bible,
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  Speaker 1: no praise the Lord in the dance. All right, things
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  Speaker 1: people say at church, whispering church. We all know he
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: got new danches. He ain't got to smile that damn much.
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  Speaker 1: It's new grill. Is she coming all in? Kid? You
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: know that little one that blowing her brother Edward? You
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: know that looks just like them things people whisper in church.
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  Speaker 1: Close it up, Julia, what Junior? Yeah, I s want
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: to hit that least single dog. I've heard that one before.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, guys. That's comedy re lette, Ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen. More of today's trending stories on the Steve
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the seven Show. Well, Steve,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: seventy year old billionaire Richard Branson has made history. You
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: know it was yesterday when he was in space aboard
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: his very own spacecraft. Okay, yeah, it was a winged
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: aircraft with a single rocket motor, so Branson and his
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: five crew mates took off above New Mexico and experienced
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: three to four minutes in space, and then the crew
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: returned safely to Earth just over an hour after leaving
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: the ground. So now there are more discussions about space tourism.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: Would you guys, would you guys, would you do with Steve?
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: Would you go to space? No? No, I just like
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: flying to what I want to fly on Earth. Ask
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: for people that that need to seek challenges and new horizons.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: I'm still trying to get treated equally in this country
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: we got. That's all I'm trying to do. Damn, just
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: treat us the way we're supposed to be treated. I
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: ain't got to go to the Moon and nothing else
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: because they don't telling how they're gonna treat us up there.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: It's better Mike might not. Why would I want up
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: there too? Right? A great point, Steve, They're gonna stay
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: down here and just we can go up there and
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: meet the Martians and see how they are. They probably
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: don't like black people either, though, so I'm not gonna
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: stay here. They hate It's real, all right. More of
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
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  Speaker 1: minutes after right after this, you're listening to show well,
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  Speaker 1: the most adorable grandma is going viral for a wedding
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: dress experience. It all started after Erica Tucker shared on
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  Speaker 1: Facebook that her ninety four year old grandmother, Miss Martha
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  Speaker 1: may Orphelia Tucker, from Alabama, didn't have her traditional wedding
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: and that she wanted to try on a wedding dress.
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  Speaker 1: Miss Tucker was watching Coming to America with her grandmother
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  Speaker 1: and during the wedding scene, her grandmother her granddaughter overheard
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  Speaker 1: her say, I've always wanted to try on a wedding dress. See.
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  Speaker 1: Miss Tucker got married back in nineteen fifty two, and
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  Speaker 1: back then it was a time when black women were
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: not allowed in bridal shops, so she never got to
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  Speaker 1: experience the thrill of trying on wedding gowns while the
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: family planned a surprise fitting. And she was a beautiful bride,
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: Erica wrote, along with video footage of her grandmother trying
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: on dresses. Now, since becoming a viral sensation, Miss Tucker
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: is loving all of the attention and if you've seen her,
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: she's just as cute as pie, just beautiful in this
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: wedding dress. And now Erica says, all Missus Tucker is
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: waiting for now is for Steve Harvey or Tyler Perry
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: to give her a shout out. Tata Steve. What's her names?
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  Speaker 1: Missus Martha May or Phelia Tucker. She's ninety four years old.
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  Speaker 1: Missus Martha, Ophelia Tucker, Martha May. I want to say,
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  Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart, congratulations. This is a
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: shout out from your boy on family. Few keys a
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: commented and bought it through it. I want to say
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: big shout out to you. Look absolutely wonderful. I did
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  Speaker 1: see the picture. You look stunning. Congratulations. Waiting all them
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  Speaker 1: years for them no good people that wouldn't let you
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  Speaker 1: in that bridle boutique to try on the dress. Now
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: we got money for all kind of dress it Yeah
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  Speaker 1: mmmm yes, ma'am so beautiful to fly her down to
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  Speaker 1: whatever browdle boutique she ever want to go in and
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: every dress keep yeah which champagne? Yeah? So Steve, you
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  Speaker 1: made her day. Yeah. Well, well, let's just hope to
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: shout out get to her. You know she put it
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: out there. It's gonna come back, you know that. All right, Well,
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  Speaker 1: congratulations again, missus Tucker ninety four years old and still
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: just beautiful as ever. All right. In other entertainment news,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: que couple alert, guys, check this out. Martin Lawrence's daughter,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: Jasmine Lawrence is dating Eddie Murphy's son Eric Murphy. Talk
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: about Hamedy Royalty right there. That's so cute. That is
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: really cute. Coming up, it is our last break of
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: the day. It is the last break of the day.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, Jay, And we'll also have some closing remarks
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after from the one and only,
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  Speaker 1: our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to all right, guys, here we are our last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day on this Monday. Absolutely. Yeah, it's been
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: a good day. It's been a good day. Started a
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: brand new week. Yeah. Back from vacation. A lot of
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: things going on, of course, And Steve, what you got
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: for us, I don't know, you know, I was pondering
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: a couple of things because I was on break and
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: I've been doing my meditation most mornings. I've missed a
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: few because you know, had company over and everything, you know,
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: but I'll i've been I've been paying attention closely about
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: my spiritual relationship. And you know, I've never really been
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  Speaker 1: one to tell a person which faith to choose. That's
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: that's not my business. I don't you know, it's not
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: my job. Whatever your faith is, it's fine with me.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Jehovah, witness, you seven day of nas you Catholic, you,
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: you know, whatever, you know, Muslim, all all of it
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: is about faith. You know, the which day you go
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: down there in worship Jewish, which you observed Friday, Saturday, Sunday, whatever,
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: you know, it's the observance that matters to most. To me,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: I was talking to a young person about faith and
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: they were explaining to me how mister Harvey, I've heard
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: you talk about faith, but I was thinking there's more
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: work related. I said, well, it's definitely work related, young man,
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  Speaker 1: because faith without works is dead. But work without faith,
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know how that works either. See, faith without
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: works is dead. So once you do that, you can
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: flip that easily and assume that the one without the
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: other is no good. That's what it actually means to me.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: Faith without works is dead. You need them both one.
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  Speaker 1: If any part of that equation is missing, it won't
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: be successful. A times be equals c Now, if you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to throw the being that you ain't gonna
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: get to see, you know, it's just it's just the equation.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: But the young man went on to tell me, he said, well,
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: I think it's more work than it is faith. I said, well, son,
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand why you're saying that, because you can
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: work really, really hard. But let's just say you start
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: to lose faith. What is the motivation to work harder
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: if you've lost the faith? Because faith is the belief
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see. And if you do
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: not maintain your faith, that is strictly the belief in
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: things that you cannot see, what are you working for?
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: And the back and forth with this young man was
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: really interesting because he was trying to make one more
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: significant than the other. And the message that I'm trying
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: to get through to day, to him and to anybody listening,
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: you need them both. You're not going to make it
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: without either one of them. Don't you understand that faith
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: is such a key component in your spirituality. Faith that
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: such a key component in your life. It's a very
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: very daunting thing to do is to complete this thing
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: called life successfully, and success has to be determined by you. Look.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: Success is not money or fame. Let's stop thinking that.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that. I'm preaching that
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  Speaker 1: to you. Success is living in your God given gift
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  Speaker 1: to your fullest. If your gift is teaching, you should
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  Speaker 1: be the best teacher that you can be. If nursing
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  Speaker 1: helping people is your gift, then you should be the
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  Speaker 1: best nurse and help people the best caregiver. If watching
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  Speaker 1: people's children daycare, if that's your gift, you should have
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  Speaker 1: the best possible daycare you could possibly have. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care what it is you're doing. That's what success is.
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  Speaker 1: It's not fame or money. I know a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people who are extremely wealthy and very unhappy people, very
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  Speaker 1: very unhappy. I know some people who make average incomes
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  Speaker 1: man and just as happy as they can be. Man.
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  Speaker 1: And you might not think that because you got more
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  Speaker 1: money and you think, man, I want this, this, this,
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  Speaker 1: and this. You're not them. You're not them. I had
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  Speaker 1: one of the best times of my adult male existence
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  Speaker 1: as a black man when I had thirteen of my
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  Speaker 1: fraternity brothers come and visit me over the break and
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  Speaker 1: to sit down with these men that I formed a
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  Speaker 1: friendship with forty seven years ago. Forty seven years ago
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  Speaker 1: we became friends and to still have that friendship. And
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  Speaker 1: one of my friends was here that I've been friends
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  Speaker 1: with sixty years. And to sit with them who knew
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  Speaker 1: me long before I had become any of this, and
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  Speaker 1: to exchange the stories and then remind me of things
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  Speaker 1: that they have. They all had a special moment that
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  Speaker 1: they remembered with me, and some of them I remember
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  Speaker 1: that some of them they refreshed my memory for man.
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  Speaker 1: To sit with them, I had the best time. And
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  Speaker 1: they were some of the best men I've ever known. Man.
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  Speaker 1: They just great dudes. Two of them have become pastors.
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  Speaker 1: You know. They in the insurance business, They in the
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  Speaker 1: trucking business, They in finance, they own digital companies. Man,
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  Speaker 1: these guys man really really solid guys and they become
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  Speaker 1: very successful within their gift. Now who's the most famous me?
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  Speaker 1: But what they were. They taught me a lot about friendship.
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  Speaker 1: They taught me a lot about love, They taught me
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  Speaker 1: a lot about family. And I listened to their stories. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I was so happy for them. But listen to me,
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  Speaker 1: every last one of them. The common thread between all
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  Speaker 1: of us was the measure of faith. We all consistently
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  Speaker 1: talked about faith and how important faith was in our
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  Speaker 1: journey to become who we all were today. Faith without
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  Speaker 1: works is dead. Works without faith is dead. They go
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  Speaker 1: hand end in hand, one without the other. En y'all
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