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FULL SHOW: One Has To Go, Strawberry Letter: When I Look, I Find - 11.19.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all at all
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  Speaker 2: at all. So given them.
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  Speaker 3: Back a million bus buss things. And it's not ye
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  Speaker 3: listening to me.
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  Speaker 4: I don't joy joy, you don't use that.
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  Speaker 5: You love.
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  Speaker 2: I came.
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  Speaker 4: You got to turn the mouth the turn You've probably
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  Speaker 4: got to turn out to turn out, turn the water
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  Speaker 4: of the mono.
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  Speaker 2: Look, come come out you think that?
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  Speaker 7: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
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  Speaker 7: to the voice, Come on, dig me now what and
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  Speaker 7: all that? Steve Harvey man oh Man got a radio show, yep.
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  Speaker 7: Trying to make it work too. I'm not trying. I'm
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  Speaker 7: getting it. I'm getting it done to the best of
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  Speaker 7: my abilities. Now, something funny my father taught me. He says,
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  Speaker 7: so when you've done all you can do, if you've
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  Speaker 7: done your absolute best and you look up and it
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  Speaker 7: didn't get the job done, take a deep breath and
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  Speaker 7: do some more. That used to bug me, man, when
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  Speaker 7: my father used to tell me, that's the son. When
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  Speaker 7: you've done your absolute best and you think you can't
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  Speaker 7: do no more. You've done all you can and it
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  Speaker 7: still don't get the job done, take yourself a deep breath,
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  Speaker 7: and do some more. And you know what I found
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  Speaker 7: that has worked every single time, every single time, because
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  Speaker 7: what my father knew was that what you think is
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  Speaker 7: your breaking point or what you think is your all
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  Speaker 7: in all, he says, son, it's just something about it. Man,
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  Speaker 7: if you just gather yourself, you got a little bit more.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody got some more. And you know, I gotta be
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  Speaker 7: honest with you. It has worked. It has helped me greatly,
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  Speaker 7: and you know it. Everybody does have some more.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 7: I tell that to my sons all the time. Dad,
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  Speaker 7: I did my best. Well, let mens you something else.
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  Speaker 7: Could you have done anything else? Could you have studied
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  Speaker 7: a little harder, Could you have shown up a little
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  Speaker 7: bit earlier, could you stayed.
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  Speaker 8: A little bit later?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, well then okay, that's what you should have done.
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  Speaker 7: Then see, there's always a way. But if you're going
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  Speaker 7: to create excuses, if you're gonna make them up all
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  Speaker 7: the time about why you don't get it done, I
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  Speaker 7: have a very, very sad a statement for you right now.
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  Speaker 7: You're never gonna get anything done. You're never gonna get
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  Speaker 7: to the top.
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  Speaker 8: Not to the top.
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  Speaker 7: You can get half way up. Now you can get
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  Speaker 7: a third of the whey up. You can get three
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  Speaker 7: quarters of the whey up. But if you don't have
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  Speaker 7: that little extra reserve in you, you're not getting to
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  Speaker 7: the top. The top is only reserved for those that
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  Speaker 7: have the wherewithal and the power to desire, the drive
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  Speaker 7: and the gut riching effort to get to the top.
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  Speaker 7: The top is reserved only for the top.
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  Speaker 2: It's just the top.
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  Speaker 8: There ain't but one top. Then the middle done, ain't it?
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  Speaker 9: You know?
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  Speaker 8: The top, the top of the mountain.
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  Speaker 10: Half.
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  Speaker 7: It's a different view at the top. Things look different
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  Speaker 7: from up top. So if you want to get to
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  Speaker 7: the top of whatever your profession, your field, your career,
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  Speaker 7: whatever it is, you got to do extra.
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  Speaker 2: You have to do more.
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  Speaker 7: More is expected of you, more, but his what's really crazy,
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  Speaker 7: More is required of you.
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  Speaker 8: Don't live your life in the lasadaisical state.
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  Speaker 7: Don't wake up every day with the feeling of, well,
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  Speaker 7: you know, whatever happens happens, NA man have a say
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  Speaker 7: so in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You.
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  Speaker 7: First of all, let me ask you something. Who has God?
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  Speaker 7: Name the person that God has given authority over you.
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  Speaker 7: Name the person? But who is the person? Nobody has
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  Speaker 7: domain over you. God didn't create that person. So what
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  Speaker 7: you sitting here for?
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  Speaker 2: Man?
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  Speaker 7: What are you sitting here here for? Letting people who
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  Speaker 7: do not know direct your path? Why are you worried
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  Speaker 7: about all these people with what they got to say
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  Speaker 7: about you and all these people with what they got
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  Speaker 7: to think about you? When here's the news flash, they
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  Speaker 7: don't know either. All these people that you overly concerned about,
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  Speaker 7: all these people that you go into these.
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  Speaker 8: Answers for, they need answers to.
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  Speaker 1: Stop.
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  Speaker 7: What are you doing here? Gather yourself for a minute.
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  Speaker 7: Here is a solution to all of that. You have
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  Speaker 7: one source that will be there for you to the
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  Speaker 7: end of time, and that is your relationship with God.
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  Speaker 7: That is the one thing that's solid and for show.
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  Speaker 7: He's behind the wall. He's in your jail cell. He
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  Speaker 7: rides with you in the police car. He's with you
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  Speaker 7: on your job up ato school. He's down there in
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  Speaker 7: the board meetings with you. You when you travel on planes.
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  Speaker 7: He says with you when you're in a relationship. He
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  Speaker 7: helps you with your parenting skills. He helps you. He's
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  Speaker 7: there to assist you. He show if you do the
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  Speaker 7: right things, he show you and guide you to your
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  Speaker 7: next job. When you lose your job and you think
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  Speaker 7: it's a rap, there's some good behind it. Man, God
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  Speaker 7: is always working on your behalf. To those that believe you,
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  Speaker 7: just gotta believe.
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  Speaker 8: He don't ask you for nothing else.
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  Speaker 2: Believe in me.
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  Speaker 8: That's all He asks you to do. What you're tripping for.
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  Speaker 7: Man, And then when you make the decision to believe
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  Speaker 7: in him, and it comes out your mouth from time
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  Speaker 7: to time somewhere what you're worried about, what people say,
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  Speaker 7: What you're worried about, what they think for?
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  Speaker 8: Why who are they?
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  Speaker 7: They need God to you telling them you found something
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  Speaker 7: new that you're gonna give this a shot right here. Now,
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  Speaker 7: they got some yang yin yang and some yak ofy
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  Speaker 7: yak to say about that when they need God too.
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  Speaker 7: That's what amazes me mad about people sit up in here, man,
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  Speaker 7: be knocking your dreamings. Look, if you're an atheist, man,
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  Speaker 7: do your thing, do your thing. But you can't create
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  Speaker 7: no laws?
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  Speaker 8: Why I can't do mine? That don't make no sense. Man,
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  Speaker 8: That makes no sense at all to me.
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  Speaker 2: You have the right to go be whatever you want
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  Speaker 2: to be.
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  Speaker 7: You know, if you don't like the fact that I'm
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  Speaker 7: in school, got my head bowed down, and I'm saying
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  Speaker 7: a prayer for I take this test. Just don't buy
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  Speaker 7: your head. Don't you pray. But if some kids want
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  Speaker 7: to get together, that's some crazy mess. That's what happened
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  Speaker 7: in our schools. We took prayer out of schools, and
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  Speaker 7: now look at our schools. You send your child to
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  Speaker 7: school and someone else comes back home. That's a whole
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  Speaker 7: nother thing right here. That's not what I want to
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  Speaker 7: talk to you about. But I was just throwing it
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  Speaker 7: out because you know, hey, man, your relationship with God
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  Speaker 7: is essential to your success as a person. It's essential
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  Speaker 7: to your existence. It's essential to where you're trying to
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  Speaker 7: go and what you're trying to be. Because He made you.
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  Speaker 7: Why would you not talk to the person that made
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  Speaker 7: you to find out what he created you for. I
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  Speaker 7: ain't talking about your parents, who made your parents. This
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  Speaker 7: is God, we created in his image. Why would you
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  Speaker 7: not talk to your maker to see why you got made?
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  Speaker 7: That don't make sense to you. If you're sitting and
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  Speaker 7: gotten yourself in a situation, you sitting in the jail
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  Speaker 7: cell somewhere, you locked up, you doing some time, man,
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  Speaker 7: be a good time. For you to reflect. But whatever
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  Speaker 7: your situation is, man, God can get you through it.
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  Speaker 7: He can give you the strength, the courage to wherewith
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  Speaker 7: all the understanding everything you need, the wisdom to get
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  Speaker 7: you through anything you're going through. You just got a
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  Speaker 7: touch base with him. I need God every single day
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  Speaker 7: of my life. And what He's done for me. Man
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  Speaker 7: off the chain. But guess what he'll do the same
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  Speaker 7: thing for you.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, it's another day, another opportunity, another blessing,
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  Speaker 7: happened to you. It's ninety percent what you do about it. Huh,
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 11: Make this clip? Force up?
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  Speaker 2: You make this clip?
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  Speaker 8: Force uncle?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 11: How do we how do we know if what we
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  Speaker 11: want out of life is what God won't force?
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  Speaker 7: Oh, you ain't gonna get it? How that clip clear
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  Speaker 7: enough for you, but you're not fit to get it?
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  Speaker 1: Response?
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  Speaker 2: Bo I learned to tell you something.
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  Speaker 7: You know how many times he'd have told me, no, boy,
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  Speaker 7: you know much stuff I didn't wanted and it wasn't
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  Speaker 7: in God's will and I wanted it anyway. And if
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  Speaker 7: you get it, you're gonna wish she never had a
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  Speaker 7: had it. Boy, boy, boy, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 7: God is real clear, man, he ain't foggy, he ain't hazy,
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  Speaker 7: It ain't none of that. When it ain't for you,
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  Speaker 7: you fit to find out real fast, and it's gonna
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  Speaker 7: be and it's gonna be constant.
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  Speaker 8: Reminded us that this ain't for you.
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  Speaker 2: He man.
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  Speaker 7: Let me give you an example, because we just kind
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  Speaker 7: of talking about this before the pre show. Look, all right,
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  Speaker 7: look you meet this girl right.
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  Speaker 8: She found to you I won't huh.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, So.
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  Speaker 8: You ain't asked God about it. You decided you won't huff.
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  Speaker 7: God, in his infinite wisdom, starts showing you signs that
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  Speaker 7: you probably need to put this one back.
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  Speaker 8: You go outside. You ain't got no windows on your car?
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  Speaker 1: Why you don't have no windows?
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  Speaker 7: I'll windows thrust it all out, And Neil wrote a
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  Speaker 7: song about it, call the anthem.
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  Speaker 1: It is not Yes. Shout out to Jasmine Sullivan.
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  Speaker 8: Don't I'm just saying. I'm just saying it'd be some signs.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta make the call. Let this man know you
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  Speaker 2: ain't married. You're not married. The pastor that you had
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  Speaker 2: not had the qualifications, did not have all the credentials.
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  Speaker 8: You are not married.
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  Speaker 2: So that kids cut y'all hand them kids is out
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  Speaker 2: of WHI you know what you supposed you know what
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  Speaker 2: they call them key?
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  Speaker 8: But anyway, here we go. Heymen, they was out.
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  Speaker 1: Of what lock quid locke, It's just weblock.
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  Speaker 2: It's unlocked. You know what I'm trying to say. Let's
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  Speaker 2: go cat, I'm not gonna sit here, please, w's with y'all.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, I'm trying to reach Brian. Yeah, how you doing, Brian?
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  Speaker 9: My name is Daniel. Wanted to give you a call today.
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  Speaker 9: You got a minute? Yeah, okay, listen. You're you're Brian,
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  Speaker 9: Brian right, you're married to uh to Althea.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah.
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  Speaker 13: Hello, hello, yeah, yeah, that's that's me. That's my wife.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, got a question for you. How long have you
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  Speaker 9: guys been married?
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  Speaker 13: Going on nine years?
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  Speaker 2: Now?
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  Speaker 13: We've been married? Now?
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  Speaker 12: Who is it?
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  Speaker 9: My name is Daniel. Were you were you guys married
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  Speaker 9: at a Greater and New Missionary Baptist.
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  Speaker 13: Church Una see yeah, yeah, yep, yes, that's the name
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  Speaker 13: of that church. Yeah, great, by nine years? Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 13: Why what's going on? What's asking all these questions for?
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  Speaker 9: Okay? Do you remember the minister that officiated your actual
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  Speaker 9: wedding ceremony?
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  Speaker 12: Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: Uh reverend right? Yeah, okay, I got the right person.
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  Speaker 9: I wanted to make sure I had the right person, Brian.
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  Speaker 9: So I'm sorry if it seemed a little weird to you. Here.
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  Speaker 9: Here's what's going on. We've just come up with a
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  Speaker 9: new discovery a lot of information that Reverend none of
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  Speaker 9: his credentials are true. Everything is false. He's not a
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  Speaker 9: minister at all. He never was a minister, And every
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  Speaker 9: single wedding ceremony that he officiated is basically null and void. So,
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  Speaker 9: and I hate to be the bearer of bad news,
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  Speaker 9: but you and Althea, even though you think you've been
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  Speaker 9: married for nine years, you guys are not married at all.
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  Speaker 13: No, no, no, no, that that you got to have
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  Speaker 13: the wrong person, because me and that thing we got
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  Speaker 13: we got married by nine years ago.
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  Speaker 9: And what I'm telling you is he he never was ordained.
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  Speaker 9: He's never been an ordained minister. He's not a minister
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  Speaker 9: at all. So when he performed this ceremony, your wedding ceremony,
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  Speaker 9: he had no right to be doing that. You guys
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  Speaker 9: are not are not married. You know, you guys have
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  Speaker 9: been living in sin for nine years.
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  Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on that.
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  Speaker 13: Let me tell you something. I ain't been living in
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  Speaker 13: those sins. Me and my wife we have been married
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  Speaker 13: for nine years. And that man, he's a preacher. I'm
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  Speaker 13: telling you, he's a preacher. Read preached last Sunday, Sir.
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  Speaker 9: As of today, he is he has no right to
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  Speaker 9: be in anybody's pull pit. He has no right to
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  Speaker 9: be officiating, whether it's weddings or funerals, no matter what
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  Speaker 9: it is, christenings for children. He's not allowed to do that.
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  Speaker 9: And we have officially stopped him from doing anything serving
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  Speaker 9: under as being a pastor or a minister. We have
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  Speaker 9: stopped at But what I want you to know is
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  Speaker 9: that you have been living in sin and you don't.
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  Speaker 9: We want to try and get you guys married as
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  Speaker 9: soon as possible, so you're not living in sin.
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  Speaker 13: Oh no, dog, I have been living in those sin.
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  Speaker 13: I have been married for nine years. This woman shit
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  Speaker 13: has been taking care of me and my kids for
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  Speaker 13: the past nine Wait.
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  Speaker 9: Wait, wait, wait a minute, wait a minute. You guys children?
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, we got two kids, two beautiful kids.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, then those kids are bastards.
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  Speaker 5: Bastards.
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  Speaker 13: Hold up, hold on, let me tell you something. My
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  Speaker 13: kids ain't no baskets. What about your kids? Your kids ambassts.
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  Speaker 9: No, sir, my kids were born in wedlock. Your kids
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  Speaker 9: have been born out of wed.
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  Speaker 13: I'm telling you that man did my service, and he
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  Speaker 13: is a preacher. He's a man after God's own heart himself.
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  Speaker 13: He hasn't done everything that he could for me and
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  Speaker 13: my family.
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  Speaker 5: He is a preacher.
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  Speaker 9: Sir, I know it's hard for you to swallow the truth,
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  Speaker 9: but I want you to know, and I need you
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  Speaker 9: to be able to tell our theater. You guys are
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  Speaker 9: not married and not as of right now.
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  Speaker 13: No, no, okay, so holder hold on now, back in
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  Speaker 13: the older days, but before all these all these colleges
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  Speaker 13: and stuff came came about. You telling me that their
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  Speaker 13: men making old days, that they wasn't no preachers, that
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  Speaker 13: they wasn't men after the clock.
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  Speaker 9: What are you getting at, sir.
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  Speaker 13: What I'm trying to say is back in the older days,
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  Speaker 13: baking the twenties and thirties, they didn't have all these
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  Speaker 13: colleges and all these degrees and stuff like these new
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  Speaker 13: preachers got these days. That man now he was from
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  Speaker 13: back then, and God called him and that's what they
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  Speaker 13: went on too. And all them people that they married
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  Speaker 13: back then, they did the same thing today. You don't
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  Speaker 13: need no degree to say that you're a preacher. You
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  Speaker 13: don't need no life to say you're a preacher. Me
• 19:16
  Speaker 13: and my wife, we've been married for nine years. My
• 19:18
  Speaker 13: kids have been born any wedlock. We were married, We
• 19:22
  Speaker 13: were married by reverend. My friends and family they was
• 19:24
  Speaker 13: all there, sir.
• 19:26
  Speaker 9: The bottom line is that you have been living in
• 19:28
  Speaker 9: sin because you have not been married with your wife
• 19:31
  Speaker 9: for the last nine years. And your kids, I hate
• 19:34
  Speaker 9: to say it, your kids are bastards.
• 19:36
  Speaker 13: Now an't on?
• 19:37
  Speaker 9: Now?
• 19:37
  Speaker 13: I done told you, don't say nothing else about my
• 19:40
  Speaker 13: kids said, I ain't.
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: No custom, But don't push me. My kids ain't no bastard.
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: You understand me. You won't getting me up, sir.
• 19:46
  Speaker 9: I'm trying to give you the truth and try to
• 19:48
  Speaker 9: get you in here and get you married so you
• 19:49
  Speaker 9: will not be living in sin any more than what
• 19:52
  Speaker 9: you are.
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: I'm living in noo sin. Look now, you gonna make
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: me whoop your ass. You understand, men and my wife
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: we are married for nine years. Don't sit up here
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: in time me talking about that. We ain't mad that
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: that man ain't no fature. Do you understand? I get
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: off my phone, but you that's my life. Those are
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: my kids. They have been born in wedlocks. Do you understand, sir?
• 20:14
  Speaker 9: So I just wanted to call and give you the
• 20:16
  Speaker 9: information so that you could probably stop living in sin.
• 20:19
  Speaker 9: That's all I wanted to do.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: I ain't living in those saying that's what I just
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: told you you ain't hear me. I ain't living in
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: those sins, neigb you' the one that's living up in
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: some sin that you ain't got nothing necess say to
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: me that man that nine years ago they get your
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: ass off my phone, sir.
• 20:33
  Speaker 9: So I have one more thing, one more thing I'd
• 20:36
  Speaker 9: like to say.
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: You ain't got nothing nels to say to me. You
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: ain't get though ass off my dam's phone. Now do
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: you understand me? I ain't got time for this publicly, sir?
• 20:45
  Speaker 9: Can I say one more thing? What you got to
• 20:47
  Speaker 9: say on me? Now? So? I just wanted to let
• 20:48
  Speaker 9: you know that this is nephew tom Me from the
• 20:51
  Speaker 9: Steve Warby Morning Show. Your wife half feel got me
• 20:54
  Speaker 9: to brank phone call you.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: Oh man, now lott it dot ye uh doty.
• 21:04
  Speaker 13: I almost went in on you.
• 21:05
  Speaker 7: Dog.
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: You wonna let me go down?
• 21:07
  Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm a good put you up to this.
• 21:09
  Speaker 9: I got me to prank you, man, wow man, oh man,
• 21:14
  Speaker 9: hey man? You all right with me?
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Brother?
• 21:16
  Speaker 9: I got to ask yourself, man, what is the baddest
• 21:18
  Speaker 9: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.
• 21:22
  Speaker 13: Steve Harvey on the show Man.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: And now you have it Shirley, I'll be back at
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: how all right, nephew.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is ask the Colo, our Chief
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey and the Building. Right after this,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays,
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• 22:15
  Speaker 1: In Entertainment News, ESPN rolled out its new look Countdown
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: team and guess what, Stephen A. Smith is not part
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: of that team. We'll talk about that. Yesterday, the House
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: voted four hundred twenty seven to one to make the
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein Files public and let great actor Chadwick the
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: one Bozeman Yeah, will be honored posthumously with a star
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: on Hollywood's Walk of Fame. That is all coming up
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, But right now it
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: is time for us to ask the clo. Our chief
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey elv and Vancouver writes, I was
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: facetiming my husband when a lady came and kissed him
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: on the cheek and said good night. He said he
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: saw earlier. Yeah, right, but this is what he said,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: that he saw her earlier in the restaurant and their
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: old friends from the neighborhood. Why would an old friend
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: kiss him goodbye?
• 23:12
  Speaker 6: What?
• 23:14
  Speaker 7: I can't let me just let me say this. You know,
• 23:17
  Speaker 7: normally I try to find a way to get a
• 23:20
  Speaker 7: man out of jail.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah you do.
• 23:22
  Speaker 7: Normally I am a firm believer and find a good
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: lie and tell it. I've said this many times. So
• 23:33
  Speaker 7: the only way he can fix this is he must
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: come up with a great lie. Yeah, nork, but you
• 23:40
  Speaker 7: face timing. You didn't see her walking towards you. I
• 23:44
  Speaker 7: just cut your camera off.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Just click in.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: If I see her walking over there.
• 23:49
  Speaker 7: Men, I got some this face time up with whoops,
• 23:52
  Speaker 7: something to act like. I dropped the phone and I'm
• 23:54
  Speaker 7: pressing button so hard you ain't even gonna stare.
• 23:57
  Speaker 8: But she gonna see me stabbing at this phone.
• 24:00
  Speaker 7: I just know, bro, the fact that you let this
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: woman come up on you and kiss you and say
• 24:06
  Speaker 7: good night, that you got, Bro, I can't.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Help she knew what she was doing, she knew what
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: she knew why was doing.
• 24:17
  Speaker 8: Was okay, I got all of that, Ladies, I agree
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: with that.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but what he let her fault?
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: If I facetiming with my wife, ain't nobody come nowhere.
• 24:30
  Speaker 8: Near that FaceTime?
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just no way. Yeah, he was stupid, all right?
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: Moving on to Detroit, because you know, if you're that stupid,
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: you've done something else before and you're gonna do something else.
• 24:44
  Speaker 8: So I'm not gonna be able to save you. You're
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: just too stupid.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Facetiming with other women.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Tommy said he was super stupid. All right, Bro,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: I've been.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: I've been. Let me tell you him. I've been in
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: a meeting with women.
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: In the meeting, Marjorie and FaceTime meet we I'm in
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: the hallway because I'm not gonna have to explain this.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: All right, Oh go ahead, I know that that was
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: really something.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Meredith and Detroit, Meredith writes, my husband
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: usually goes outside to talk on the phone because he's
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: so loud. But lately he's been quieter when he's out
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: on the patio on the phone. I need to know
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: why he's so quiet all of a sudden. Should I
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: have a camera installed out back?
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: Oh well, now you can put the camera out back
• 25:41
  Speaker 7: if you want to, but let me let me talk
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: to the fellas right now.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: This is what you do.
• 25:47
  Speaker 8: You get up, you go outside and you talk, you.
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: Know, FaceTime and Lector Walman walk upon good night.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Outside.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Mad.
• 26:02
  Speaker 8: I can't, that's just yeah, I'm mad. I'm still mad
• 26:07
  Speaker 8: at him.
• 26:08
  Speaker 9: What you know?
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: Uh, now, as far as you installing the camera. Look,
• 26:12
  Speaker 7: I wouldn't go through all of that, you know, Yeah,
• 26:16
  Speaker 7: you know I'm not. I don't want to be in
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: that marriage.
• 26:19
  Speaker 8: Marriage No.
• 26:20
  Speaker 7: If I got the spy, yeah, I got a partner
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: to hide a private eye to follow his wife.
• 26:32
  Speaker 8: Yeah. And so I after he told it to me,
• 26:35
  Speaker 8: he said, what would you do? I said, that's not
• 26:37
  Speaker 8: my wife.
• 26:38
  Speaker 10: No more.
• 26:38
  Speaker 8: If I got to get a private eye to go follow.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: You, I'm not.
• 26:43
  Speaker 8: I'm not fitna do that. I'm not to do that.
• 26:49
  Speaker 8: You're just going where you're going out there?
• 26:54
  Speaker 11: Just Colombo.
• 26:58
  Speaker 8: Too much it is, but I tell you you get
• 27:00
  Speaker 8: where you're going, your credit card ain't gonna work.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just let you, all right. Moving on to
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Bow and East Point, Bow writes, I met a beautiful
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: woman on Instagram. I went to Miami to meet her,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: and I found out she's married but getting a divorce.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I told her, let's put everything on pause until she's single.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: She said, if I snooze, I lose. Should I risk
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: losing her? Please help? If you snooze, you lose, That's
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: what she said. Yeah, she fine.
• 27:40
  Speaker 8: You went to Miami.
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: She getting a divorce. Let's put everything on Paul's to
• 27:47
  Speaker 7: you clear?
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 27:50
  Speaker 8: I got jokes for that, but let me let's have
• 27:53
  Speaker 8: an honest conversation.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 27:56
  Speaker 8: The god in you said, let's Paul until you get clear.
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: The devil in her said, if you snooze, you lose.
• 28:09
  Speaker 7: Right now, bro, I'm gonna tell you right now. She
• 28:12
  Speaker 7: may be fine, she may even be getting a divorce.
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: But if you move forward, after you just told yourself
• 28:20
  Speaker 7: to the latest, you fin to run up and you
• 28:23
  Speaker 7: fin to find out the very reason you.
• 28:26
  Speaker 8: Said, let's put this on pause till you get clear.
• 28:29
  Speaker 7: And once she once a man verbally gives himself a
• 28:33
  Speaker 7: warning and then he goes against that warning. You fin
• 28:37
  Speaker 7: to find out why you had the warning. I can
• 28:39
  Speaker 7: about one thousand percent promise you that I like that.
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: I can about one thousand percent promise you that she
• 28:47
  Speaker 7: may be getting a divorce. I'm not saying she not,
• 28:50
  Speaker 7: but something in you said, hey, let's wait till we
• 28:52
  Speaker 7: get clear.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 28:54
  Speaker 8: That's you know.
• 28:55
  Speaker 7: Sometimes God protects us. Follow that self, father, dog. If
• 28:59
  Speaker 7: you don't follow that, you find to find out why
• 29:02
  Speaker 7: you say it. I promise you you will.
• 29:04
  Speaker 10: Dog.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: So he should risk losing her, Yes, yeah, yeah, absolutely.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: If not, it's a it's a it's a in the
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: crystal ball, I'll see it, and.
• 29:15
  Speaker 7: It's a risk no matter what, Dog, he can lose
• 29:18
  Speaker 7: most stuff to listen, because you're the hottest man.
• 29:22
  Speaker 8: Feel about the Yeah, vorce this lose, I lose all right.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Last one, Steve, This is from Janey in Houston. Janey writes,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: my coworker said she saw a woman in my husband's car,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: and she pulled up to speak and realized it wasn't
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: me in the car. My husband never mentioned it. Is
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: it worth asking him about it? Or should I assume
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: my coworker had the wrong car.
• 29:50
  Speaker 8: That's that's what you want to go with.
• 29:53
  Speaker 7: You want to assume, so you either you either you
• 29:57
  Speaker 7: either want to know what you don't want to know, right,
• 30:01
  Speaker 7: and it seemed to me like you don't want the truth.
• 30:04
  Speaker 8: So your assumption is to assume she pulled up to.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: The wrong car.
• 30:09
  Speaker 7: Okay, then go with that, because I promised you right
• 30:14
  Speaker 7: now if you ask him about this woman in.
• 30:16
  Speaker 8: The car, what the hell are you talking about?
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
• 30:20
  Speaker 14: That's what I thought. It was the wrong car because
• 30:22
  Speaker 14: I'm not fitting admitted. All right, Thank you, Cielo. Coming
• 30:28
  Speaker 14: up at the top of the hour. We will have
• 30:30
  Speaker 14: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
• 30:34
  Speaker 14: Hardy Morning Show.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: ESPN adjusted its NBA coverage this week and rolled out
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: its new look NBA Countdown team led by Melika Andrews
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: with Brian Windhorst, Kendrick Perkins, and Michael Malone. Stephen A.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Smith did not appear on the new lineup and has
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: not shown up on the program at all this preseason
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: or regular season. For the first time in more than
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: twenty years, Steven a will not participate in the NBA
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Countdown Show. According to ESPN, it has expanded its NBA
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: coverage after adding Inside the NBA with Charles Barkley, Shack,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Kenny Smith, and Ernie Johnson. But even with Steven A
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: being removed from the Countdown team, he remains locked into ESPN.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: You know, he just signed that five year, one hundred
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: and five million dollar extension this year that was earlier,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: so at least he still works there. So what are
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: you making of this, Steve that.
• 31:36
  Speaker 8: Because he ain't got no friends in the NBA.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Oh so you have to have friend What do you
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: need to Yeah, he said, well, you know, all.
• 31:46
  Speaker 7: Great reporters have had a report with the star athlete
• 31:53
  Speaker 7: in that particular sport.
• 31:55
  Speaker 8: You're upset that one?
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: We know all that one with Lebron Yeah.
• 32:00
  Speaker 7: Howard Coachell had Muhammad Ali got you, uh, Costas had
• 32:06
  Speaker 7: Michael Jordan Michael, you don't, you cannot. I'm just this
• 32:12
  Speaker 7: in my opinion about career Jordans he they man relationship.
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: You've got to be somebody that the players want to
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: talk to.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Okay. But on the flip side of that, though, stephen
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: A as a reporter is supposed to be biased and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: just you know, report what he sees. He's supposed to
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: be biased.
• 32:36
  Speaker 7: Yeah, if you're gonna talk about the sport, you can't
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: be all in these cats background.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Right, A lot of that's the opinion part of it.
• 32:45
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what many The problem with him and Lebron
• 32:49
  Speaker 7: was when he got into Lebron as a father, right,
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: and look, man, here's against my wishes.
• 32:56
  Speaker 8: What I this was just me talking.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 32:59
  Speaker 7: I would have apologized to Lebron and said, hey, man,
• 33:02
  Speaker 7: you know what, my bad overstepped my bounds. I should
• 33:05
  Speaker 7: have never said nothing about you being to day. That's
• 33:09
  Speaker 7: that would have fixed it. Hey man, I'm sorry, bro,
• 33:12
  Speaker 7: my bad. You're absolutely right.
• 33:14
  Speaker 8: I was out of line for that.
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: There's nothing wrong with being wrong. But when but when
• 33:20
  Speaker 7: you hold the line. Man, if he if he'd have
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: raised up out to put hands on him, you to
• 33:25
  Speaker 7: put hands on who n he'd he'd have put you
• 33:37
  Speaker 7: in one of them sleeves he'd be wearing sixty's. So
• 33:43
  Speaker 7: this kind is a physical specimen. And even though Lebron
• 33:47
  Speaker 7: don't fight, we we know who don't fight.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: We saw his.
• 33:54
  Speaker 7: Punching about that videos he was working on see and
• 34:01
  Speaker 7: I used to fight when I saw that punch I went, what.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Dog.
• 34:07
  Speaker 8: Let me tell you something. I've been in the gym
• 34:09
  Speaker 8: a lot. I've been a lot of bags.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 34:14
  Speaker 8: Ain't nobody said through that he didn't.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: Have no technique, no back foot, no spin, no rotation,
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: no no rotat not none of that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 8: Let me see that punching that go ahead. Excuse me.
• 34:29
  Speaker 8: So this t VN A Smith video when he was boxing.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: So is this considered a demotion?
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I mean, what what?
• 34:37
  Speaker 6: What is this?
• 34:38
  Speaker 9: No?
• 34:38
  Speaker 7: I don't think it's a demotion. I just think, you know,
• 34:41
  Speaker 7: it's just they gotta they gotta build a network. They
• 34:44
  Speaker 7: got other people. They got some good people. That perk
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: is good man. There's some cats in there that's good.
• 34:49
  Speaker 7: Malika Andrews is good man. I tell you another sister.
• 34:53
  Speaker 8: I like the Duncan l Duncan.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 34:58
  Speaker 8: Elle, Oh she's she's dope to me, man, she's knowledgeable.
• 35:03
  Speaker 8: She is dope.
• 35:05
  Speaker 7: Beautiful her and Malika Andrews, I mean they really know.
• 35:09
  Speaker 7: Uh you know it's it's uh. They got some women
• 35:13
  Speaker 7: on that that no sport. The sister will shorthand like that.
• 35:17
  Speaker 7: I like her and I love the ball heads. The
• 35:20
  Speaker 7: ball head girl is beautiful.
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: She had.
• 35:28
  Speaker 8: Clap clap, people.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: They're expanding. So it's true what you think. They are,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: just expanding, just expanding. You know, you can't put him
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: on everything.
• 35:39
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, at the end of the day, he knows sports
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: running backwards, he got down to a sound. Yeah, he
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: knows his job.
• 35:47
  Speaker 8: But he he gotta get all off all the other subjects. Yeah,
• 35:52
  Speaker 8: mege is great. You don't know how you made that statement.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: All right to Christine Williamson. That's the sister that we
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: were talking about. Okay, yeah, all right, So moving on
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: to wow. According to The Hill, Senate Democratic Leader Chuck
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Schumer has said that the Senate is ready to act
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: quickly on the Epstein Files Transparency Act, which passed in
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: the House four hundred and twenty seven to one. This
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: would require that all unclassified records and documents related to
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: the convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein be made public. Finally,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Schumer noted, the House has now spoken in an overwhelming fashion.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: There's only one right answer for the Senate passed the
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: bill as written today, the bipartisan bill will nouns.
• 36:43
  Speaker 7: Surely stop reading all that he not in there, No
• 36:47
  Speaker 7: mo Is gone, is gone, No Trump not in there,
• 36:52
  Speaker 7: no more they they got cash for tail in his
• 36:55
  Speaker 7: hill pocket.
• 36:56
  Speaker 8: You don't think they would files.
• 36:59
  Speaker 7: Donald Trump is on it because now he's saying, let's
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: release these files.
• 37:03
  Speaker 8: Yeah good, heal well, he ain't in there no more.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Kulda had a file all in his kitchen up on
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: the stove.
• 37:09
  Speaker 8: They got all the filed the.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Reading it coming after three minutes after the hour, Michelle
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Obama thinks America is not ready for a female president.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: the right gifts, but you know, it's even harder getting
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• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Lady Michelle Obama recently spoke at the Brooklyn Academy of
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Music while promoting her new book. When asked about running
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: for president, Missus Obama said that she is tired of
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: being asked about running for president because America is not
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: ready for what a female president. Missus Obama told the audience, quote,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: as we saw in this past election, sadly, we ain't ready.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: This is why I am like, don't even look at
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: me about running, because you all are lying. You are
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: not ready for a woman. You are not, So don't
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: waste my time. We got a lot of growing up
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: to do, and they are still sadly, there are still,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: sadly a lot of men who feel like they cannot
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: be led by a woman.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: True, this is.
• 38:43
  Speaker 8: True, Mergan, I feel I feel that exact same way.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't.
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  Speaker 7: But I got one dragon mine well, and you can't
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  Speaker 7: get back in this story fall.
• 39:00
  Speaker 8: In chain hooked up.
• 39:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah no I don't really, but you know, in all seriousness,
• 39:07
  Speaker 7: this country's not ready for a female president, and they
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: really not fin to elect no black women. Yeah, that's
• 39:16
  Speaker 7: not even They're not going to do that that year,
• 39:21
  Speaker 7: a year ago, because this is America. Surely, yes, it
• 39:26
  Speaker 7: is still America, predominantly run by white men who are
• 39:32
  Speaker 7: in controlling positions. Super packs, money corporations, all of that
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: Project twenty five all white men, Donald Trump's cabinet all
• 39:45
  Speaker 7: white men, right. They are afraid of losing their grip
• 39:50
  Speaker 7: and their power. That's why they don't want immigrants over here.
• 39:54
  Speaker 7: They don't want to be a minority. You don't understand
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: the fear of that some, not all, some white people
• 40:03
  Speaker 7: have of being a minority and not being in charge.
• 40:05
  Speaker 7: He's scaring them because they know what they've done to minorities,
• 40:09
  Speaker 7: and now they don't want to be one of them.
• 40:12
  Speaker 8: See that's and that's not all white people. Don't get
• 40:15
  Speaker 8: me wrong. Let me tell you sound.
• 40:17
  Speaker 7: Slavery did not go away because black people got tired
• 40:20
  Speaker 7: of being slaves. Slavery went away because there was some
• 40:23
  Speaker 7: well thinking and good white people who saw this as
• 40:29
  Speaker 7: a horrific crime against mankind. That's slavery. End it because
• 40:34
  Speaker 7: a lot of white people went well, y'all crazy. All
• 40:37
  Speaker 7: the black people wanted it over but you needed some
• 40:40
  Speaker 7: people in power that can help push this across. But
• 40:43
  Speaker 7: the residue of people who did not want it. See,
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: here's a problem that they keep talking about. They say
• 40:49
  Speaker 7: only two percent of Americans owned slaves. Yeah, but they
• 40:54
  Speaker 7: owned all of them and all their friends.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Enough fit well happen, math and back to a woman
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: running the country. I can't wait. It's gonna happen one day.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: It can.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: we'll play around it. One has to go. Right after this.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It is time now
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: to play around it. One has to go now, Steve.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: This is for the caller that loves this game. They
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: love one half that one has to go, but they
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: hate Cister, O'Dell and Roscoe. Remember that from last week. Right, Okay, cooler, no.
• 41:41
  Speaker 8: Problem one of them going. So where we at?
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: That's right?
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: If one has to go at the caller.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Our audience, stop that, all right. One has to go.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Thirty days of rain, thirty days of snow, thirty days
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: of darkness. One has to go. Which one?
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, thirty days of rain? You need to get rid
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: of this snow? Boy? What is wrong? I got to
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: go out there, got to go out.
• 42:18
  Speaker 8: I don't want the snow. You gotta walk that dog.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: In the snow.
• 42:23
  Speaker 12: You got it?
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: Glass time taking that little dog.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Don't talk about like that.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: If you get a fish and.
• 42:29
  Speaker 8: Get open the door and let him go in and
• 42:31
  Speaker 8: call him back in, open that back door. She's gone.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: One has to go. We're talking about women. One has
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: to go. Great in bed, a great cook, great with finances.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: One has to go.
• 42:47
  Speaker 8: Got cook. I got the cook.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I got you. Get you keep this money together and
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: keep the bedroom together.
• 42:54
  Speaker 8: I got, I got your head.
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: Thing.
• 42:56
  Speaker 15: If you're great in bed and you can cook, you
• 42:58
  Speaker 15: ain't got to worry about money. Probably, I probably you
• 43:04
  Speaker 15: ain't good.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Cook.
• 43:06
  Speaker 8: You in that band and cook, I don't worry about that.
• 43:11
  Speaker 8: Money ain't gonna get you.
• 43:12
  Speaker 11: Yeah, whip may where you going roofing? I got an
• 43:17
  Speaker 11: extra job.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Get that shack baby, all right.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Red one has to go. German chocolate cake, red velvet cake,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: carrot cake, harrot car carriage.
• 43:32
  Speaker 7: All right in the hard cake though you can have
• 43:35
  Speaker 7: every red veil it. You get a good carrot cake.
• 43:39
  Speaker 8: You have that red all right.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: In the house. Waldi wall carpet, concrete floors, vinyl floors,
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: vinyl flooring, conk carpet, vinyl or wad wall carpet, carpet carpet.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Two of them.
• 43:53
  Speaker 8: You in the project. That vinyl product, Hey should call it.
• 43:59
  Speaker 8: If not need of this.
• 44:00
  Speaker 11: Stuff, cop call battle floor collar.
• 44:07
  Speaker 8: You got vinyl flows. I'm just telling you.
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: But yeah, I don't know what that is lately.
• 44:15
  Speaker 8: But back then.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: You have concree a linoleum kitchen.
• 44:23
  Speaker 8: Who's in the projects?
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Now, no, you don't know.
• 44:26
  Speaker 8: They're sweetie, and it's okay, but I'm not fit to
• 44:30
  Speaker 8: do that.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Have you seen the new vinyl flooring? Yeah, it looks
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: like wood. You can't really tell you.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: It looks like what child?
• 44:40
  Speaker 8: They have seen the projects?
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: This concrete flow.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Listen, I've been in too male of the last one
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: before we have to go. Last one has to go.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Denzel Samuel, l Eddie Murphy, one has.
• 45:02
  Speaker 10: Man God to man, which one found been done more
• 45:11
  Speaker 10: movies and all of them.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: This is a tough one. And you need his cadence,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: his quotes. We need Blankety Blake, we need just sexiness.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: We need Eddie and we need Eddie's sense of humor.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: So what are we gonna do here?
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: I ain't put one of these us, man, I'm sorry.
• 45:33
  Speaker 8: You got to get rid of everybody, but.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Stars.
• 45:40
  Speaker 7: Get Tom Hanks, Tom tom Brady. You can get all
• 45:46
  Speaker 7: the Toms. And you get Tom Cruise, Tom Hanks, Tom Brady,
• 45:52
  Speaker 7: you can get all of them.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: You can not actor Tom Brady all them.
• 45:59
  Speaker 8: I don't care you can't have my homies, man, all right,
• 46:03
  Speaker 8: I just set.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: With all of them. Yeah, that's great, dog. I have
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: been on boats with.
• 46:09
  Speaker 8: Ded and Sam. I have seen them cats, man, I've been.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: letter for today, and the subject is when I look
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  Speaker 1: I find We'll get into it, find out what that's
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  Speaker 1: all about in the few, because right now the nephew
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got
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  Speaker 1: for is today, neph I don't know.
• 46:45
  Speaker 8: I don't know.
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: I've been going through the archives, and I've been going
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: through and I just don't know which one I want
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: to drop, you know, I just I'm looking at it
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: and trying to figure out which one I want to do.
• 46:57
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: It's just you have to have you your mind ready
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: for praying, you know, you have to have it. You
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: got to have your mind set, you know. And there's
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: some people right now sitting in the car till my time.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: If you don't hurry up so I can get to
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: work playing with I got three in mind, so y'all
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: picking up two one, two three. I ain't gonna tell
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: you which one it is from picking I got my
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: grim ridden up. Surelie said one Junia, and I said, okay, two,
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: it is Deborah K, my auntie Deborah K.
• 47:31
  Speaker 8: It's right here.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, yes, yeah, I mean there are no losers here.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: Let's go cat dog my aunt te Deborah K. Speak.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you some of you. My name is Wayne.
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: You did my aunties hair yesterday, and now I don't
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: know what you did. I don't know what kind of
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: glue you'd used with weaves or whatever. But my auntie
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: had and fell out in church to day.
• 48:00
  Speaker 12: But I don't I don't even use glue because I
• 48:02
  Speaker 12: don't even know why you're coming at me on the
• 48:04
  Speaker 12: side tip anywhere about your auntie. My auntie Joe Amy.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: My auntie is del Brook and I have fell like no, no,
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: he's Brook.
• 48:13
  Speaker 12: I don't know that Brook you're talking about. I used juice,
• 48:17
  Speaker 12: grew up and saw that. Since nineteen eighty two, you
• 48:20
  Speaker 12: come coming at me.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: With some glue glue who you think you tripping with? Look,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: let me tell you.
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  Speaker 9: Some time.
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  Speaker 5: Come on there, some deer.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: Look, let me say this to you all.
• 48:33
  Speaker 12: I'm saying, you gotta say that you gotta say it
• 48:35
  Speaker 12: because I'm.
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: Serious about my heart.
• 48:38
  Speaker 12: We you coming at me with some glue. It's just
• 48:41
  Speaker 12: not for some glue that be that messing on the side.
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: Of your age.
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: Well that's what happened, and I have fell off your
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: service and all the church members and sitting there laughing.
• 48:48
  Speaker 12: Now, well she shouldn't have been. Maybe she's trying to
• 48:50
  Speaker 12: get the devil out of it because she ain't no
• 48:52
  Speaker 12: business shouting hard anyway. But I don't switch noble glue.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: You ain't in the city and talk about my ain'ty
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: and hout. Jesus, don't you talk about how she shouted?
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know. They call her miss de Brook.
• 49:08
  Speaker 12: I don't know, no miss Brook.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: She just got her hair done from you yesterday. How
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: you're gonna sit here and act like you ain't cut
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: it yesterday?
• 49:16
  Speaker 12: You're just saying blue, real woman and common tell me,
• 49:24
  Speaker 12: because I don't have no and I ain't.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell everybody in Atlanta, Georgian not to come
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: to your house.
• 49:32
  Speaker 12: Wait a minute?
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: What minute?
• 49:34
  Speaker 12: You white?
• 49:35
  Speaker 9: What minutes?
• 49:36
  Speaker 12: That's my livelihood? Why I don't need you?
• 49:40
  Speaker 9: Is this?
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: My name is Wayne.
• 49:45
  Speaker 12: I know you're know Wayne, but you you I got
• 49:48
  Speaker 12: her brother names big Jay, and you bring ye bring
• 49:52
  Speaker 12: out bringa look.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: Look, let me tell you something. I don't want no problem,
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: but I will throw these hands. If I got you what,
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: I ain't.
• 50:00
  Speaker 12: Numba throw, then look here, look here, I ain't got
• 50:03
  Speaker 12: time to tell yo. Ain't it whatever? Ain't some mistaken
• 50:06
  Speaker 12: whatn't it?
• 50:07
  Speaker 9: Now?
• 50:07
  Speaker 12: Look you done got me out here on good Sunday.
• 50:09
  Speaker 12: I just came from church. It's hot as half, and
• 50:12
  Speaker 12: you telling mebody to glue. You ain't got no joy
• 50:14
  Speaker 12: got you today?
• 50:15
  Speaker 9: Do?
• 50:16
  Speaker 12: I ain't got nothing to do.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: I got to find out why my ain't and half
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: falling out in church?
• 50:20
  Speaker 12: And it ain't me so called somebody else in that
• 50:23
  Speaker 12: land because I'm the I am the hated too.
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: But well you ain't you? You must not be in
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: right now? You got people hair falling night in church
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: and glue fallowing all off on the pew.
• 50:34
  Speaker 12: Ain't y'll ain'ty probably glue her own, and that's kind
• 50:36
  Speaker 12: of why it fell out. I'm gonna tell you right now,
• 50:39
  Speaker 12: I'm the hottest silence in that laught. So I don't
• 50:42
  Speaker 12: know whom no deputare ain't nobody If I ain't I
• 50:45
  Speaker 12: ain't doing half. I don't some half. You go in
• 50:48
  Speaker 12: and everybody in that lamp Dad'll tell you the same thing.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Look, all I'm saying is you the messed up my
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: ain't and hair. I wanna get it rectified. I need you,
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: first of all to call and apologize to her.
• 51:00
  Speaker 12: Joys show you and drinking on some Jesus juice with
• 51:03
  Speaker 12: y'all ain't and that's why you wasn't Michael Jackson and
• 51:06
  Speaker 12: you ain't in debral seats to or whatever her name is.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: Look, let me take you first of all. You'll go.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: You'll go respect my ain't.
• 51:13
  Speaker 12: Okay, whatever you say her name is, I put up.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: I want you to redo my ain't and half for
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: free and get what her money back from the first
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: time she paid you.
• 51:21
  Speaker 12: I don't know who this old. I don't know who
• 51:24
  Speaker 12: this I don't know who you are. I'm whe you
• 51:27
  Speaker 12: coming way ain't.
• 51:28
  Speaker 7: Look you're Wayne.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead.
• 51:29
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna hang up in your faith.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: No hold up, I'm jeffor nephew.
• 51:32
  Speaker 8: Wayne.
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: Nah, I ain't fifty two years old. Now. If you
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: ain't gonna respect your elders, how you expect to be blessed?
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: You say you just went to church this month.
• 51:40
  Speaker 12: See that's the problem. You're calling me on Sunday with
• 51:42
  Speaker 12: some got me cutting like this, See that I gotta
• 51:45
  Speaker 12: go get I'm putting my pastor behind some I got
• 51:49
  Speaker 12: one more.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Thing I need to say to you before I get
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: off the phone.
• 51:53
  Speaker 12: What you got to say? Because you waste in nine minutes.
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: This is Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: You just got prank from your girlfriend.
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: I was about.
• 52:11
  Speaker 7: Got me.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: What your girl told me? She said, trust me going
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: off the first twelve second.
• 52:31
  Speaker 12: She know what it is if you tell me.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: Hey, baby le man, you don't do no uh, you
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: don't do no glue.
• 52:38
  Speaker 6: No, I don't know glue.
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: I don't.
• 52:41
  Speaker 12: I don't tell you no glue.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: It's too all right, baby, Ain't nobody, ain't nobody half
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: fell out of church and that you still they say
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: you the bomb down there. So I just wanted to
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: call and make sure I prank my girl. She the one?
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: All right? Maybe answer one thing from it. What is
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: the baddest I mean, the baddest radio show in the
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: world Morning show, Come on, come on, come on, yes, yes, yes, yes,
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: we told you bout messing with black women's hair.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: We told you about that.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: I don't use no glue line stay. I love it.
• 53:29
  Speaker 8: I love it.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: I love what I do.
• 53:31
  Speaker 8: I love that I get paid to be stupid.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: I love this.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: But you would do it for free, though, that's what
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: we love.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I would, certainly once I found
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: out when I found a stupid. When y'all see me,
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: when y'all see me on Friday night, do I do
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: I be stupid? I don't be stupid. See, it's hard
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: to see you like that already.
• 54:00
  Speaker 11: I know you stupid, so I can't contend you something else.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: But when you're watching this, when you're watching Ready to
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: love what you think, you don't see stupid.
• 54:09
  Speaker 8: My mama watch the showtime.
• 54:10
  Speaker 11: She calls me, and she says, look at the TV.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Do you see something?
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: I see his stupid? I'm not. I can't see you
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: nowhere else.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know how.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: And where are you calling me, mama?
• 54:24
  Speaker 9: With this?
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: I'm not watching him. I can't tell me.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Oh it's so good, it's like play us and it's
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: a guilty pleasure.
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know him all right. So now y'all got
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: to get ready Shirley called Junior Monica. Y'all gotta get
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: ready because when the Motown Party hits, y'all got to
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: let me know what y'all think about the Motown Party.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Especially Tommy.
• 54:52
  Speaker 8: You just gotta let me know what you're.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: Always fishing for compliments. It's not it's not.
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: I just want you to see the party, and then
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: I want come back the next day and the next Monday.
• 55:02
  Speaker 8: After we do what, I want you to come back
• 55:04
  Speaker 8: and let me know.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, okay, okay, you better bring it because
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: if you don't, you go in about.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: I promise you you're gonna have something to talk about, Okay,
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: to assure you you're gonna have something to talk about.
• 55:20
  Speaker 10: All right, love it hell wait, Ready to love Detroit
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  Speaker 10: tru leading Nephew.
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: Tell me trying to find love.
• 55:29
  Speaker 8: Find the guide people to find the love.
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: That's me.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's see. Okay, all right, and if you thank you?
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Coming up next my Strawberry letters subject when I look,
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I find we'll get into it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: find Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been divorced for five years
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  Speaker 1: and I'm starting to date again. I've been eager to
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  Speaker 1: find a new guy for years, but as love would
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: have it. I've been picking men that are just like
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: my cheating ex husband. The last guy I met seemed
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  Speaker 1: like he was going to be a good prospect, but
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: we've only been together for four months and he's already
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  Speaker 1: shown me that one woman isn't enough for him. He
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  Speaker 1: started out sending me flowers and taking me on nice dates.
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  Speaker 1: We had sex after our fourth date, and he got
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: up and went home right after we were intimate. He
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: said that he really needed to use his own restroom
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: at his own home. That almost caused an argument as
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: he left my house in the middle of the night.
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  Speaker 1: He used that same excuse whenever he was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: spend the night at my house. We'd always eat dinner
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: at my house or go out to eat and have
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: sex later on. Right after sex, he was out the
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: door and headed home to use a bathroom and take
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: a shower. On Friday night, when he did that, I
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: decided to ride by his house after he had been
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: home a while. He was there sitting on his front
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: steps with a woman. I slowed up and blew the horn.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: He jumped up and came over to my car, asking
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: why I was at his house unannounced. I told him
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I was suspicious that he was dating other people. He
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: told me that we aren't exclusive and I'm too messy
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  Speaker 1: to ever be his girl. He said he wasn't cheating
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  Speaker 1: because I was never his girl. I'm grateful that I
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: got in my car and rode by his house. When
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: I look, I find is it best to look and
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  Speaker 1: be aware or act like you don't know what a
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: man is up to? Why is it a lose lose
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  Speaker 1: situation for women trying to date? Wow, I guess because
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: dating has changed so much over the years, just like
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: everything else in the world. I mean, there's no courting
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: or like getting to know you period anymore. People nowadays
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: get love bombed in the first couple of weeks, where
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: the men whine and dine you, they call you every day,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: they spend quality time with you, to send you flowers
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  Speaker 1: like this guy did all of that. Then after that
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: two week time frame, after you've slept with him or whatever,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: it's a short time time frame, two weeks or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: it's usually just over the phone call stop, the attentative
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  Speaker 1: tentif ness stops and he starts ghosting you or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I guess that you've been divorced for five years and
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: you want to be in a relationship. You said you
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: were eager to be in a relationship, but you still
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: have to take your time to see if these guys
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  Speaker 1: are even worth it. What you don't want is to
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: come off as desperate. I mean, men can smell that
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  Speaker 1: kind of stuff a mile away and they go in
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  Speaker 1: for the kill. I say, you're not ready to date.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: You got to find out who you are, get your
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: confidence up. I think you need to decide what you want,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: what kind of man you want. Then you know you
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: won't keep ending up in these same type situations with
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: these men. Work on your confidence, work on self love.
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  Speaker 7: Steve Well said Shirley. I agree with what you're saying.
• 59:51
  Speaker 7: Oh here's the part for me with women.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 7: You get with these men that you really don't know.
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  Speaker 7: You get with these men that you have no clarification
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 7: of what you have with this man. You get with
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 7: these men and you assume, and when you meet a man,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 7: you forget that. When you meet this man, what do
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 7: you think he's been doing up until the day y'all
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 7: met what you thought? Stop meeting men thinking they free
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 7: and clear. Ain't nobody free and clear? Everybody you meet
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 7: in this world is connected to somebody somewhere, some way.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 7: There are no free and clear people who You've been
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 7: divorced five years, You meet a man what you thought
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 7: he was doing when you met him sitting at the house.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 7: Everybody you meet comes with a past. Your job is
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 7: to uncover as much of the past as you can
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  Speaker 7: to determine if you can fit into a future with them.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 7: That is the real deal. It ain't no lose lose
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 7: you or a woman out here dating. Stop jumping to conclusions.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: Stop alte.
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  Speaker 8: I wrote a book in two thousand and nine.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 7: I'm thinking about writing another book because dating has changed.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 7: I'm thinking about really really pulling the covers back on
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 7: this one too. But I wrote a long time ago
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 7: a ninety day rule that it still applies. But y'all
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 7: don't because y'all Instagram now and everything is instant.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 8: So here we go.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 7: You've been met, divorced five years and starting to date again.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 7: Surely said it best. I've been eager to find a
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 7: new guy for years, but as luck would have it,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 7: I keep picking men that are just like my cheat
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 7: next husband. Really, well, let's find out about this guy.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 7: Last guy met seemed like he was gonna be a
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 7: good prospect. But we've only been together four months and
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 7: he's already showed me that one woman ain't enough for him. Okay,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 7: good at out sending me flowers and taking me on
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 7: nice dates. We had sex after our fourth date. Okay,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 7: when was the fourth date? How much time was it?
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 7: Two weeks?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 8: Was it ten days? Was it a month?
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 7: And why, ladies, do you not understand when you first
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 7: meet a man that you are meeting his representative.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 8: You're not meeting who he really is.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 7: When you first meet him, you're meeting his representative. Then
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 7: after a while you get to know who he is.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 7: We had sex after our fourth date. He got up
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 7: and went home right after we were intimate. He said
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 7: he really needed to use his own restroom at his
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 7: own house. Now that right there, I can understand. I
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 7: respect that, and that right there, you didn't give him
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 7: enough credit for that. It's some people that have got
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 7: to get up and go to the bathroom, and that's
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 7: when we come back. Got to get out this house.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 8: You can't know this.
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  Speaker 1: Steve's response at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's
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  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject is when I look, I find We'll
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  Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is when I look I find.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, ladies, I've talked to you about this letter, and
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 7: you've got to be smarter when you're dating. Dating has
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 7: changed over the years, but you still have to be smart.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 7: And the ninety day rule that I had before it
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 7: should still applied. But it don't cause y'all done got
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 7: around that.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: Y'all done.
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  Speaker 8: Let me in talk you into it, y'all Instagram people,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 8: so y'all don't do that no more.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 7: Stop assuming of men, Stop dating men you don't know
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 7: what you're and stop expecting them to treat you the
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 7: way you treat them. Stop and when you meet a man,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 7: first thing you must know is he comes with a
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 7: past and a history. Secondly, know this nobody you meet
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 7: is unconnected. Everybody is connected to somebody. Ain't no way
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 7: in the world you done met this man, found him
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 7: to be attractive, and you the only one. Stop thinking
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 7: you've met a man that ain't got nobody?
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: Why would he do that?
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 7: What made you know that can have sex, can perform sexually,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 7: and is not where he stayed? What country he live in?
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 7: All right, so you'd have met this guy and you
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 7: mad because he just like your ex cheating HUGSB.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 8: So you met this guy. After the fourth date, y'all
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 8: had sex.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 7: I don't know how long that was, but obviously you
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 7: didn't know him well enough, and after four months he
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 7: didn't show you. The one woman ain't enough for him.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 7: He started out sending you flowers, going on nice dates.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 7: That's because you were meeting his representative. I tried to
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 7: explain that to you. We had sex after that fourth date.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 7: He got it, went home right after we were intimate.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 7: He said he really needed to use his own restroom
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 7: at his own home. Come on, now you gotta get
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 7: his man credit for this. Right here, I've been there,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 7: you must. I'm telling you one of the worst nights
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: of my life when I dated this creole girl and
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 7: my stomach was tored up from eating creole food with him,
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 7: and I knew to go home, and her parents wasn't home,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 7: and she said, come on in. I should have took
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 7: my home, but I went up in her house. And
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 7: what I go up in that, folk, cause my stomach
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 7: was cutting and it went on up in there, and
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 7: I used a bathroom at her mama's house. We never
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 7: dated again after that. When a man tells you that
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 7: he got to go home to his own bathroom, respect that,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 7: because if you make him go to the bathroom in there,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 7: something fin to go home when he shut that door,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 7: that he not gonna be able to open that door
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 7: for awhile, I'm just telling you anyway, that almost caused
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 7: an argument.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 8: As he left my house in the middle of the night.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 7: He used the same excuse. Whenever we were supposed to
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 7: spend the night in my house. We'd always eat dinner
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 7: at my house and go out to eat and have
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 7: sex later on.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 8: Right after sex, he was out the door headed home
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 8: to use the bathroom and take a.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Shower or go.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 7: I still ain't mad at that, because until you are
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 7: in that room, after he come out that bathroom, you
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 7: really don't know why he got to get home. So
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 7: I ain't mad at this right here on Friday night,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 7: when he did that, I decided to ride by his
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 7: house after he had been home.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 5: For a while.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 7: He was there sitting on the front steps with a woman.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 7: I slowed up and blew the horn. He ran out
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 7: there and asked you why he was at his house unannounced.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 7: I told him I was suspicious that he was dating
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 7: other people. He told me, we ain't exclusive, and I'm
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 7: too messy to ever be his girl. How did you
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 7: think y'all was exclusive because you met a man and
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 7: had sex with it.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 8: What made you think y'all was exclusive? Did you ask
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 8: were you exclusive?
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 7: Or did you assume? Did he ever tells you y'all
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 7: were exclusive? Well, now, he over sitting on the steps
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 7: with the girl. He said he wasn't cheating because I
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 7: was never his girl. Wow, But because you slept with him,
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 7: you thought you was his girl. No, you was another
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 7: person he was having sex with.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 8: That's who you were. That's not his fault. That's you
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 8: not getting clarity on what you have with a man.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 7: Stop thinking because you done gave him some sex that
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 7: he is going to give you exclusivity. That is not
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 7: how it works. I am telling you that right now.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 7: That's just not how it works. And you got to
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 7: stop expecting that. And it's sad. It's so sad. Now,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 7: let me tell you something. You know why they sitting
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 7: outside on them steps because he didn't went in there
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 7: and used the bathroom. And they still can't go in
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 7: that house. That's why they was out on them steps.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 7: I'll tell you that right now, sitting out on them steps,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 7: cause I'm telling you ain't kin't nobody he'd have went
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 7: home and used the bathroom.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 8: Now that woman that came.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 7: By, they outside on the steps because they cannot go
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: in that house.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 8: Because he'd have been in there using the bathroom.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 7: So I rest my case what I think he's still
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 7: strong with that bathroom line.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: But that is the.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 7: They sitting on them steps. Can't nobody go in that house.
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  Speaker 1: a problem.
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  Speaker 8: That's probably why he ain't got no girl.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up Sports Talk right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 15: All right, sure, let's go ahead talk about it. You know,
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  Speaker 15: on Sunday he actually got into game. Shador Sand's got
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 15: in the game against the Baltimore Ravens. Gabrin Dylan Gabriel
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 15: had a concussion and so you know they brought in Shoudor.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 15: But you know it was it was amazing how crazy
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 15: the fans but when they saw they bought run out there. Man,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 15: they saw that he two go out there. They were
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 15: so excited when he went out there, we saw hope.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: Is that what it's about us? Yeah?
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 7: Well none with Dylan Gabriel. I told that happened to
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 7: get go. I said a whole Pivot podcast. They're gonna
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 7: put Dylan Grabile in there and then the Wolves is coming.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 7: I said that on the Pivot podcast.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 11: Well, man, you're absolutely right because it came in there.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 7: Man, he's not a professional football quarterback. He's a college quarterback.
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  Speaker 15: Now, now, Chador, look, you know, should Door had a
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 15: rough go of it, you know, but it's his first
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 15: It's actually no reps with the first team. None since
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 15: it's week eleven. He has never worked out with the
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 15: first strink.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 9: Now.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 15: I don't know why that's crazy, because you know, you
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 15: got to develop these players. But he has never taken
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 15: any snaps with the first team.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: That's why I look like that.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 11: But he's gonna make his first professional start this Sunday
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 11: against the Raiders.
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 2: But here's why I don't like.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 15: I don't like y'all giving it this boy all this
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 15: flak for one half of football. It is not his
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 15: whole career. Because Rex Ryan is getting on my nerves.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 15: I can't stand Rex Ryan. You don't stop I don't
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 15: know what his problem is with your doing. I don't
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 15: know what's his teeth?
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  Speaker 9: Is that what it is?
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 8: He makes this statement too white.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: After the game.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 15: You see your door saying that, sitting on the bench
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 15: after they lose to the Raven And he's taking it
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 15: pretty hard because it's his first half of football.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 11: But Rex Ryan saying he's making it all about him,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 11: not about the team. He didn't go out there and
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 11: say how do Lamar Jackson or greet him or not?
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: He's but the man is a competitive.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 8: What are you out here saying how the Lamar fak lost?
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: He just exactly what is Rex saying?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 8: Lamar?
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: How you doing that?
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 9: Man?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 7: Hey man, Rex Ryan, He'll see man anytime, see sin
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 7: quite What didn't happen is see when you go get
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 7: them teeth.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 8: I guess they got a color chart.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 7: You can't go way over there and get the brightest
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 7: ones they make it just it ain't gonna look and you,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 7: especially if you see.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 4: Moving on.
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 15: Though he got a full week of practice, I bet
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 15: you're gonna have to put on bet performance than he
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 15: did against Raveist because he's playing. He got a full
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 15: week of practice with the first team with the first
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 15: the Raiders Brown Finn to get a win.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Junior. Coming up next, This is
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: from Shy Shy and in Arlington, a wife is worried
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: that her husband doesn't care about her anymore. We'll talk
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: about it, I promise you.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 8: That woman.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: you said it's Chee Chee in Arlington.
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  Speaker 7: Surely, surely, surely you too Bullishye? What it ain't no
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  Speaker 7: shotshot hi hi, chie chee.
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  Speaker 8: That's black. Everybody call no black woman, no hair shotshat.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: It's chee che girl Chee.
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  Speaker 7: But I was like, I can't take this bougie girl
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 7: nowhere any way.
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  Speaker 8: Call it get her, love her.
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  Speaker 1: She got the name. You got it, Chee Chee. You
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: got it. Surely she was from Chicago. You were gonna
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: say that?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: Every day, as soon as I leave the job, I
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: text my husband to let him know I am headed home.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: I have a forty five minute commute. I noticed some
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: days he doesn't even text me back, and I can
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: see that he read text. I stopped at the grocery
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: store yesterday and I didn't tell him it was pitch
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: black dark and almost seven pm when I got home,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: my husband did not check on me at all. I
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: told him that he's followed for that, and he said
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: that I need too much attention. How dare he say that?
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Does that mean that he does not care about me
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: or my whereabouts?
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 8: Yea, yeah, pretty much? Yeah, you need too much attention?
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 8: Why can't Why would I care about your where about it?
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: What he's just Wow?
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  Speaker 7: All I want is that forty five minute notice that
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 7: I got forty five more minutes.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: Of freedom, Jesus wife, He doesn't care.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 7: Well, you stopped at that store in the pitch black
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 7: and I had an extra time at the house.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 8: What, thank you God?
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: This is wrong. You know that's wrong.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 8: He through with her. He done told her you need
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 8: too much attention. Why do you want somebody to care
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 8: about you?
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 7: Shut shut?
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 8: I mean girl has lost stop it ain't shot.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: Shot whatever shy shy chichi is. Her husband is terrible,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: that's the bottom bottom line.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean he threw I mean he didn't checked out. Yeah,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 7: but you, first of all, you don't say that to
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 7: your wife. That's she's the number one rule of being married.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 7: And I talked this to my attorney one time that
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 7: he went a while uh huh, because he was getting
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 7: in little arguments with his wife about little bitty stuff.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 7: I said, my man, you missing one key element your
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 7: job as a husband. He said, what's that mistage? Show concern?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 7: That show you have always got to show concern. I
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 7: don't care what they come in and talking about the one.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: I had to tell you that.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 8: Okay, show concern. No, I had to learn that, Uh
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 8: because I used to didn't give it.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to pay attention and listen.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 8: You were here talking about how was your day? Well, and.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: How I was young.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 8: I didn't know how was your day with her? I've
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 8: been at work too, so yeah, we both got jobs.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 8: How was your day?
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: My day?
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: But you can't have a baby. All right, we have
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: time for another one.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 8: You tell them, yeah, I got all that, I got
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 8: all it.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 7: Y'all can't hand no babies. But until you had a
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 7: baby we talking about please all right, we.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: Have time for another one. This is from our Linda
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  Speaker 1: and Jackson. My mother in law knows I don't like
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: to feed my family canned foods, but she insisted on
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: bringing canned green beans, corn, and collared greens to my house.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: This past Sunday, we had a Thanksgiving celebration early because
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: she's going out of town. I didn't allow our twelve
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: year old and nine year old to eat that food
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: filled with sodium. My mother in law got offended, and
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: my husband has been rolling his eyes at me as
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: a mom. Am I not allowed to have rules?
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you can have rules, but you know, you know,
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 7: and I understand you don't want your kids eating sod
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 7: him and preservatives.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 8: I got only but you go eat it today though.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: You have today, you go eat your grandmother vegetables. You today,
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: up the cans, straight out the cans.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just one day, man, just one day. That
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 8: sold him sod him. Good for you. Sodium Bill's character.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: Care food.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 8: If you can survive care food, you can make it
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 8: all right.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after, we'll have more of
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening
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  Speaker 1: Are you guys drinking enough water?
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  Speaker 2: You think?
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: Should you be drinking more?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 8: I was just thinking that yesterday.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we've probably more than already.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 8: I drink an eight hours bottle, but I need more
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 8: than that.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: I need wait more moon. Yeah.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think I don't think people think of that,
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, to stay hydrated. Yeah, all of it
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: works together.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, it does, because i'd be listening, I be, I'll
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 11: be listening for your comf. I listened for hey, hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 11: you can get If.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 2: You can get five of those sixteen ounce bottles now
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 2: per day, you're doing pretty good of water of water. Yeah,
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 2: you got to start earning.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, My cousin who's a bodybuilder, used to say, you
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: got to get it all in before nine and by
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: noon you need to be on three. We'll play around it.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: Would you rather when we come back right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays,
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  Speaker 1: for a round of would you rather? Okay, so think
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  Speaker 1: about this when you're aroused. Would you rather bark like
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: a small dog? Or who like an owl?
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: Ye?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Would you rather a woman lies to
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: you and says you're handsome or lies and says you're
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: great in bed?
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: Either one will do. Yeah.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 8: You can lie to me the way? Why I know
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 8: you lying? If you say I'm handsome? So you are
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 8: the cutest man I've ever seen. The lady stop.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 7: You know, man, you know what, See, the thing about
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 7: being honest with yourself is you ain't got to get
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 7: faked by nobody else. Oh yeah, that's the thing about
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 7: being honest about yourself, you know. Oh my god, your ASBs,
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 7: my ASBs.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: Having said that, Steve, let's let's hear from the nephew.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: We know how he what he thinks of himself? Anyway? Good,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: I'm both Why are you looking at them?
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: You put on the rail? Though?
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 3: Dog?
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 7: When the last time somebody let me ask you a question?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 7: When the last time anybody said.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 8: To you, Lord Mercy? You fine? Last time? Tell them
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 8: see that he can't he can't think of that?
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 2: Somebody hollered it out at one of the last shows.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 8: Idea O that boyfriend?
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, talking about them the wan that's on stage, y'all
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: the stand up a one person up there? You know
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: they're talking about me? All right?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 8: Okay?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: Who that boy?
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 8: Fine?
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: Who you think they're talking about the way that has passed?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: About who you condition? You were fine?
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 15: You okay? Oh oh oh god, I just got to
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 15: talking about the cancer, will be all right?
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: Would you rather pretend it your birthday for a free dessert,
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: or put a hair in your plate for free food
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: bird dessert.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 8: I'm not putting no ham up. I don't need you free.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: You get a free dirt dessert, dessert, pie, chocolate cake,
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: ice cream.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: I've done that.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 8: I have money for that.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: So you've done it before. Tunion. We lied about your birthday?
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 5: What you get.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: November fifteenth? I was there, that was me. That ain't
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 2: your birthday. I know that guy got the free dessert.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: What you get?
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 10: You love?
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: That chilies?
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: How you know yummy?
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 7: I was two for one and all out here you
• 1:24:22
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• 1:24:25
  Speaker 11: Put your wallet up on and just come on, come on.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 5: Every day.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: Well some closing remarks from the one and only Steve
• 1:24:36
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  Speaker 1: break of the day. Wow, it's been a good day.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening as usual. All right, Steve,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: it's on you. You're up.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 7: You know we were talking earlier and Junior, I forgot
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 7: what was your initial question? What was your initial question?
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 11: It was a how do we know if what we
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 11: want in life.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 8: Is what God wants for us?
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 7: How do we know if what we want in life
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 7: God wants for us? My quick response was you ain't
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 7: gonna get it correct. And then as we were talking
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 7: off air, Carla said to me, Carla said, remember the saying,
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 7: if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: My grandma used to tell me that. Yeah, yeah, you know.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 7: And I got to thinking about that, which leads to
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 7: my closing remarks. Me being a comedian for the early
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 7: part of my career, I must have han had God
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 7: on the flow hollering because I can't tell you the
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 7: plans I came up with, only to find out it
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 7: wasn't God's plan for me, and what I had to
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 7: eventually learn what I didn't know.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 8: When the beginning is, Hey, Steve, why.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 2: Don't you ask God what he has for you?
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 8: Instead of all the time going to God telling God
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 8: what you want from him.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 7: Steve, why don't you start asking God what he has
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 7: or wants for you? Because his plan is going to
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 7: be better than the one you had. But I didn't
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 7: do that.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: I just didn't do it.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 7: For years. I just went to God with what I wanted.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 7: And here was the dumber thing. Most of the time,
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 7: I didn't even go to God. I just went after
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 7: what I wanted. Somebody out there know what I'm talking about,
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 7: And boy, let me tell you something. It's just because
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 7: I've understood the power of being authentic with people and
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 7: not being fakean acting like I've always had it together.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 8: No, no, I haven't.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 7: I've made thousands of mistakes. I have messed it up
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 7: so many times. Hey, man, if you all knew all
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 7: the mistakes I made, it's actually a miracle that I'm
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 7: here today. It really, I kid you not, And I'm
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 7: not blowing it up for radio purposes. If God had
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 7: dealt with me according to my iniquity, if God had
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 7: if God had shown me no grace and extended to
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 7: me no mercy and just dealt with me as I was,
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 7: as I be in a world of trouble, Man, I
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 7: would be in a world of trouble. But I got
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 7: news for you, so would you. Hey, mister and misrighteous
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 7: who sending them talking about?
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 8: Oh lord, what did Steve do?
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 9: No?
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 2: No, what did you do?
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 7: See all this point and fangle business right here? I
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 7: stopped doing that to people because I found out very quickly.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: Man, it's a.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 8: Lot of fangle point can come my way too.
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 7: So in not asking God what he had for me
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 7: or wanted for me, I pursued a lot of stuff
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 7: that wasn't good for me. I pursued people that wasn't
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 7: good for me. I pursued businesses that wasn't good for
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 7: me or I had to learn the business. Hey, Why
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 7: why did I think I should own a carpet installation company?
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 2: Why did I think that?
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 7: Why did I think I was actually gonna get rich
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 7: selling to Dick Gregory Bohemian diet? Why did I get
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 7: into amweight thinking this was my ticket. I'm gonna draw
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 7: these circles in these living room I'm gonna become a
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 7: direct diamond distributor. I'm'a be by, i'm'a be like Don
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 7: and Georgia Hell. And I'm gonna have all these people
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 7: in Orlando following me, and I'm gonna get up and
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 7: Gill's speeches like Dexter Wansol and Bill Britt and Don
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 7: and Georgia Hall. I had all the motivational tapes. Man,
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 7: I was listening to it all. I'm gonna be a
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 7: megastar Amway distributor. I didn't ask God one time if
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 7: that's what I should do. He just set there with
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 7: his arms fold hollering, laughing at me. If you want
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 7: to make God laugh, telling me your plan. The whole
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 7: time I was in them living rooms drawing them circles,
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 7: he had to be on the flow, laughing or I
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 7: was good at it, though, because my real gift was
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 7: standing up in front of people entertaining. So my presentation
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 7: of circles, oh, man, I turned it into a routine.
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 8: I didn't even know it.
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 7: I was the most captivating Amway consultant ever born. You
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 7: couldn't stand up in front of a living room full
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 7: of people and draw them circles better than Steve Harvey.
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 7: I wasn't getting a lot of people that signed up,
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 7: but I wasn't selling enough soap powder. That was my plan.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 7: My plan, man, I can't tell y'all. Y'all had so
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 7: many plans that went around. You know how many people
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 7: I've picked that I thought was funny. God, I can't
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 7: say no name, but Lord have mercy. And it just
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  Speaker 7: didn't work out. And as I look back on it,
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  Speaker 7: Lord God Almighty, didn't work. Then I forced some things
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  Speaker 7: in my life. I just forced some relationships, I forced
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  Speaker 7: some stuff, and it ought.
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  Speaker 8: None of it worked.
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  Speaker 7: Until I stopped and started saying, Okay, God, what you
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  Speaker 7: got for me? And now it seems like everything I
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  Speaker 7: do works.
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  Speaker 8: It don't.
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  Speaker 7: But that's what it appears to other people. Somebody told
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  Speaker 7: me the other day, man, see everything you touched turned
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  Speaker 7: the gold. Now I just started touching what God tell.
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  Speaker 8: Me to touch. That's really the fact, and it just
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  Speaker 8: looked like it. But I made enough mistakes to learn that.
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  Speaker 7: Talk to God today, Ask God to order your steps
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  Speaker 7: and you'll have a much better and more.
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  Speaker 8: Fulfilling life and save yourself a lot of pain. Y'all,
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  Speaker 8: have a good today.
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