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Sister O'Dell Comes Through and Keith Sweat Gets Got - 07.27.17 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on dig
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  Speaker 1: I was. I had my head down then it was
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  Speaker 1: thinking of what I wanted to say this morning. But
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  Speaker 1: it kind of uh, it's kind of be something I've
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  Speaker 1: lived for a long time, and uh, you know, for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. You know, I had a lot of
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  Speaker 1: faith in people. You know. It's strange too, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: you know, my mother was a Sunday school teacher, so
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  Speaker 1: of course I grew up around it, knowing the scriptures
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  Speaker 1: and things like that. Not not a lot of them,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, the ones I retained. But having her
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  Speaker 1: as a mother was it was a huge help and
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  Speaker 1: understand about faith. But even with that, as I grew up,
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  Speaker 1: I began to put a lot of faith in people
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  Speaker 1: and and um, you know, I figured, you know, just
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  Speaker 1: like everybody else, you know, man if I could just
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  Speaker 1: meet this person, or if I could just sit down
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  Speaker 1: with that person, or man if I could just get
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  Speaker 1: this person to hear my ideal, or man if just
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  Speaker 1: if this person could hear my track, or man if
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  Speaker 1: I could just get this in the hands or somebody
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  Speaker 1: in the know. I was, like everybody else, I thought
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  Speaker 1: that way. You know, I actually thought that if I
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  Speaker 1: could get in a certain situation with a certain person,
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  Speaker 1: that if a certain person were to meet me, that
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  Speaker 1: you know, it could change everything for me. Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: Oh how wrong I was? Oh how wrong I was?
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  Speaker 1: How long did I spend feeling that way? And how
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  Speaker 1: many of you out there possibly have felt that way before?
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  Speaker 1: You know, like even in a relationship, this is the
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  Speaker 1: person for me, And you know, you just lay claim
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  Speaker 1: to that, you know, not necessarily being a fact, but
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  Speaker 1: you just lay claim to it. This is the person
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  Speaker 1: for me, This is the person that I want to
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  Speaker 1: spend the rest of my life with. You know, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: you know, we just lay claim and stuff, and it's
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  Speaker 1: not always what's in our best interests, or it's not
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  Speaker 1: always a fact. It's just what we decided we wanted.
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  Speaker 1: And I was guilty of that, just like anybody else.
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  Speaker 1: And I spent a lot of years in my life
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  Speaker 1: putting faith in people. Man, if I could tell you
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  Speaker 1: anything this morning, it's to stop putting your faith in
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  Speaker 1: people and put your faith in God where it counts
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  Speaker 1: the most. I mean, you can get something out of
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  Speaker 1: this one. See, here's a deal about the relationship with God.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's the same all the time. He never changes.
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  Speaker 1: His word is one absolute. His word doesn't have loopholes
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  Speaker 1: in it, none of that. It's this is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: He's very clear. Now, you can deviate off your end
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  Speaker 1: at a bargain, but it don't stop what he says
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  Speaker 1: from being true. But if he asked you to do something,
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  Speaker 1: If if God asks you to to be a certain ad,
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  Speaker 1: to do a little something a certain way, and you
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  Speaker 1: don't do it that way, then you know you could
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  Speaker 1: still possibly get by for a while. But don't you
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  Speaker 1: understand that his end of the deal stays the same.
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  Speaker 1: And as long as you're not doing it the way
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  Speaker 1: you're supposed to, the results are not going to be
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  Speaker 1: what you wanted to be. And I did this for
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  Speaker 1: years and years and years, and I counted on people,
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  Speaker 1: and uh, you know, I got myself in a lot
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  Speaker 1: of situations. And I got out one a dire situation
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  Speaker 1: that I've been in for a number of years. But
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  Speaker 1: he had protected me from years prior to that. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't even know what was going on. And then he
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  Speaker 1: made it away and made me aware of the problem.
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  Speaker 1: And then, man, Lord have mercy, I was in a
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  Speaker 1: dismal situation. And then at the end of the year,
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  Speaker 1: I was free, free from it all. But it was
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  Speaker 1: a decision that I had made that led up to that,
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  Speaker 1: and in and in going through that process, I had
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  Speaker 1: to learn something. Man. I learned a lot about people. See,
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  Speaker 1: if you want to learn about your friends, if you
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  Speaker 1: want to learn about your people people around you, Get
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  Speaker 1: yourself in some trouble, get yourself in a situation. Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: you start looking around, man to feel get real clear.
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  Speaker 1: When you're in trouble. The field clear is out when
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  Speaker 1: you're in doubt, when you don't know what to do
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  Speaker 1: when you need help. It gets real clear on the
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  Speaker 1: play and field, then don't it. But when things is
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  Speaker 1: going right, it's time for a party. Were throwing the celebration.
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  Speaker 1: We we we were gonna We're gonna do one down here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, there's plenty of people on the field. But
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  Speaker 1: but but but get yourself in a situation. You find
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  Speaker 1: out rather quickly that old no, old no, everybody ain't here.
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  Speaker 1: And that's when I started learning and I and I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, I had to start learning this for real
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  Speaker 1: until I finally got it to stop putting my faith
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  Speaker 1: in people and put all of mine and God where
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  Speaker 1: it counts the most. Now is that to say that
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  Speaker 1: there are people that you can't trust. No, that's not
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I ain't say you can't trust him,
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  Speaker 1: but you can't dump your faith in him. I got
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  Speaker 1: it all righting on what he say. I got it
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  Speaker 1: all righting on what she say. No, no, uh uh no,
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  Speaker 1: I hear you saying it. But I'm gonna keep my
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  Speaker 1: on this situation because I hear you saying it. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this faith of mine and instead of
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  Speaker 1: putting it in people, I'm gonna put it in God
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  Speaker 1: where it counts the most, because his word is absolute.
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  Speaker 1: What he says he's gonna do, he gonna do what
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  Speaker 1: he says. He's not gonna tolerate. He's not gonna tolerate. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you can make it, you can make it tolerable for yourself,
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  Speaker 1: but he's not gonna tolerate it. And that's just the
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  Speaker 1: end of the line. And so you know, I'm i'm
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  Speaker 1: I'm wondering how many people out there find themselves in
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  Speaker 1: a situation like me, or maybe you've gotten yourself in
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  Speaker 1: a situation because you put your faith in some people
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  Speaker 1: and now you wound up in a different type of situation. Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you whetting people at see every person
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  Speaker 1: that I had put my faith in when I got
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  Speaker 1: in trouble, when I got down, I couldn't find them
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  Speaker 1: people nowhere, nowhere, nowhere. I didn't see a lifeline. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't say, hey man, we're coming to get you. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't see none of that, No, sir, No sir. The
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  Speaker 1: only one that I found when I was in my
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  Speaker 1: deepest trouble, when me and my wife were in our
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  Speaker 1: darkest situation, was God is the only one was the
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  Speaker 1: only one who was just right there, right there, all
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  Speaker 1: the way through. I mean, comforting us, consoling us, putting us,
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  Speaker 1: putting his arms around us, tucking us under his wings,
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  Speaker 1: all of that all it was just him. It was
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  Speaker 1: just him. And I'm asking any of you to just
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  Speaker 1: do the same. If you look around at the people
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  Speaker 1: that you put your faith in, and you got in
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  Speaker 1: a situation because you had some faith in some people
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  Speaker 1: when you got in that situation, where were those people?
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  Speaker 1: Where were they? Nowhere to be found? I have not.
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  Speaker 1: I've yet to find those people when I get in trouble.
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  Speaker 1: And so I'm asking you why would you put your
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  Speaker 1: faith there when instead you can put your faith in
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  Speaker 1: God where it counts the most, and He's always there. Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. Because you have this
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God, it does not mean, it does not
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  Speaker 1: mean now that it won't get it won't still be
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  Speaker 1: a situation, you understand. But what He will do is
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  Speaker 1: protect you during that period. He'll cover you during that
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  Speaker 1: period that it is a situation. He will give you
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  Speaker 1: the strength to overcome the situation when it turns into
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  Speaker 1: a situation. Then when he when he cracks it open,
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  Speaker 1: for you and the sun is bright and shining. What
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  Speaker 1: he don't want you to do is when he gets
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  Speaker 1: sunny again, to forget about him, who was there when
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  Speaker 1: it was dark for you. See, I used to do
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  Speaker 1: that too, you know I was Oh, man, I did it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, I did it. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you man, when I learned a very serious lesson
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  Speaker 1: and I watched some people I thought were friends of
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  Speaker 1: mine just sort of casually remove themselves from the situation.
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  Speaker 1: Then I said, okay. Me and Margie looked around. We
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  Speaker 1: said okay, it's just me, you and God, and we
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  Speaker 1: started conducting ourselves accordingly. So when it's sunny for us,
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  Speaker 1: we remember God. We stayed prayerful, We keep talking to him.
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  Speaker 1: We thank him for the sunshine, We thank him for
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  Speaker 1: the dark days that he allowed us to do, who
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  Speaker 1: allowed us to survive it and turn it into sunny days.
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  Speaker 1: And we talked to him constantly to protect us of
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  Speaker 1: our future enemies. And that's what the deal is. So
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  Speaker 1: if I was everybody, I would stop putting your faith
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  Speaker 1: in people and put your trust in God where it
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  Speaker 1: really does count the most, It really really does. We
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  Speaker 1: don't lose anymore? Let's say you got a half a
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  Speaker 1: million dollars. Do you never go below something? Do you
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  Speaker 1: never go do you pick up? Do you pick a
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  Speaker 1: number and say, okay, I can never be below three hundred? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean you should try to do that. You should
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  Speaker 1: always have breakpoint, a breakpoint. It's like your weight. It's
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  Speaker 1: like I can only get so big, and then I
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  Speaker 1: got to going back to the gym. Right now, I'm
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  Speaker 1: on the topped out. Okay, I just every day. So
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  Speaker 1: now it's like that with your finances. You want to
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  Speaker 1: keep yourself because you gotta understand something. If God blesses
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  Speaker 1: you to get to a certain point, why would you
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  Speaker 1: go back? Why would you go back, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: you gotta understand you go, Okay, well I've been there,
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  Speaker 1: done that. I know what it's like to live mouth
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  Speaker 1: to mouth, check to check and not saying it takes
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  Speaker 1: a long time to stop living check to check. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to understand it, so don't feel bad if
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  Speaker 1: you do, because it takes a lot. Even after you
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  Speaker 1: make a lot of money, you still be living check
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  Speaker 1: to check a lot of times because you're still you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to get a lot of things, acquire a lot
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  Speaker 1: of things. It's hard, but you want to try to
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  Speaker 1: get Once you cross a certain threshold, you want to
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  Speaker 1: try to stay on that side of it. Nevin not
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  Speaker 1: in there. You may dip it low, but you want
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  Speaker 1: to try to get back, so fight as hard as
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  Speaker 1: you can. That's a good question. Okay, here's my question, Um,
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  Speaker 1: how much and what should you invest in? What's a
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  Speaker 1: good investment right now? Well, land is always landing property,
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  Speaker 1: It's always a good investment because it's always an appreciable asset.
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  Speaker 1: Cars are not an appreciable asset. Don't think you've invested
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  Speaker 1: in there's nothing. Land and property always appreciates because somebody
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  Speaker 1: is gonna always want that land or somebody will always
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  Speaker 1: need a house. Now, does that include like a things
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  Speaker 1: like just yes, condos, apartments, a home, a piece of land.
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  Speaker 1: If you buy a piece of land with the intent
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  Speaker 1: to build on it one day, just having that land,
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  Speaker 1: I promise you in a couple of years that land
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  Speaker 1: gonna be worth more than you pay for and somebody
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  Speaker 1: will be willing to give you more. That is the guaranteed. Now,
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  Speaker 1: there are some more things that you can invest in,
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  Speaker 1: stocks and things, but that's always a little bit more risky, risky,
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  Speaker 1: always a little bit more risky. But there are safe stocks,
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  Speaker 1: you know. There are stocks that ain't going nowhere. You know,
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  Speaker 1: that's expensive. Apple ain't going too many places. Facebook ain't
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  Speaker 1: going Colas ain't really going nowhere. You know, general electric
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  Speaker 1: ain't going nowhere. Certain things okay, yes, okay. See what's
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  Speaker 1: your best advice, you know for keeping focused on important things?
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  Speaker 1: You know, when distractions in our lives are are kind
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  Speaker 1: of constant and kind of throws you off a little bit,
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  Speaker 1: what's your best advice to keep us focused? Well? I
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  Speaker 1: learned this from Eric Thomas, to be honest with He's
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  Speaker 1: one of the greatest motivational speakers I've ever heard. Eric
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  Speaker 1: Thomas is a guy that I listened to. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I have some great speakers out there, but Eric Thomas
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  Speaker 1: nails it for me because he talked like I talked.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he mad most of them. He swept to
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  Speaker 1: a shirt in a minute, won't he. I love the
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  Speaker 1: intensity what she talks. When you have your visions and
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  Speaker 1: you have your motivation, your dream board, the why, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta write down the why, the why you want it
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  Speaker 1: to happen. Because Eric Thomas said that the why eliminates
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  Speaker 1: that I quit that I can't make it because the
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  Speaker 1: how it coms to be why are you doing it?
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  Speaker 1: Like I have to do this for my family? Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's harder to quit when it's more than just
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  Speaker 1: you on the line. You have to create a why.
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  Speaker 1: These big dreams you have, they have to have a
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  Speaker 1: why behind that will help you stay to it and
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  Speaker 1: fight through the discouragement. Also, your dreams have to be
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  Speaker 1: bigger than the consequences are the problems. You gotta want
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  Speaker 1: something so big that no matter what it takes to
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  Speaker 1: get there, or what it costs, or what the factor is,
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  Speaker 1: this dream so big I got to go on to
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  Speaker 1: go for it because Okay, Okay, cool. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: lose time with my friends, but I'm gonna be a millionaire. Okay, cool.
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  Speaker 1: So I won't be able to go to happy hour
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  Speaker 1: no more because I'm trying to on vacation of a
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  Speaker 1: dream of a lifetime. Okay, cool, Yeah, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. Vacation for the dream has to be so
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  Speaker 1: big that it outweighs the problems, all the consequences. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, that keeps you motivated like that. Here's one
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  Speaker 1: more I want to ask you this, because you live this,
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  Speaker 1: do you ever feel guilty or have you ever been
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  Speaker 1: made to feel guilty because of your success? Because you're
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  Speaker 1: so successful, lute one, you will go through that period
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  Speaker 1: of feeling guilty about your success mainly because the people
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  Speaker 1: closest to you are usually not experiencing your success, and
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  Speaker 1: they make you feel obligated to them because of your success.
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  Speaker 1: Because I knew you when I got You knew me when,
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  Speaker 1: But do you know me now? And Duster, you knew
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  Speaker 1: me when I got to do with where I am now?
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  Speaker 1: And my obligation is not to you. My obligation is
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  Speaker 1: to my wife and my children. It's really not to
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  Speaker 1: my brothers. And sisters and my cousins and my homies
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  Speaker 1: that I grew up with. It's really not. And then
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: what you try to do when you're successful, you want
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: to share your success and they know it, so they
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: call you it a man, I know you got it,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: and so you go yeah, yeah, yeah, what you need.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: That's where I am. I know because they all got you.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Oh man, I know you got it. And now here
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: you go being a good brother. You're going, yeah, man,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: let me try to help you out. But that ain't
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: your job. That ain't your job. And if you get
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: into loaning money business, you're gonna lose a lot of
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: friends and you're gonna create a lot of drama in
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: your own life loaning money. So you don't loan money.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Do you get I'm gonna give it to you or
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: that's it. If y'all want to continue this conversation, we can, Okay,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: I want you want to continue the conversation when we
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: come back most Steve Hart Mota Show. Right after that.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: You're listening, stew All, Right, we're back. Wow, what an
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: interesting conversation. It's it's the Morning Show. We're asking Steve
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: questions because I think it's important for people to hear
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: directly from somebody who doesn't have an agenda with their life,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Like I don't want y'all do this because I get
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: a piece all this here. Genuinely want to share this
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: information because I know it's important to people. The average
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: person out there really does want to know how to
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: make it. And unless somebody who has made it gets
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: down off their horse to share the information, well you're
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: gonna get the information from it. And didn't have this.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that we as a as
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: a race, we don't share this type of information. We're
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: starting to, maybe more now, but growing up, the only
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: thing we knew about money was money doesn't grow on trees?
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Or do you think I'm made of money? Things like
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: that that are parents told us. So now we're getting
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: real information. Jay Z is doing it. In is he's
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: doing it. Let's go, Let's go back to where we
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: were for U. Tell us how we deal How do
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you deal with the guilt that because I'm constantly I'm
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I loan a lot of money. Let me ask you something,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Loaning money does it not create tension? Yes, Loaning money
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: creates more problems than it's solved, and it's creating issues
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: not only with the person that you loaned two, but
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: then in your own home, because now you have loaned
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: some money that belongs in your home, and now somebody
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: in your home may have to do without because we
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: didn't gave what we had over here to help someone.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: And usually money you loan. What they don't understand about
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: people that's climbing up. Money they loan is money they need.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Think we all have no extra free money. And then
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you about Let me explain
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: something to you about loaning you money or giving you money.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: Whatever I give you money, I'm actually giving you that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Plus if you ask me for a thousand dollars and
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: I give you a thousand dollars, what I'm actually giving
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: you is one thousand, four hundred dollars. Because Uncle Sam
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: is taxing me tax breathe, he don't give a damn
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: what you do with the money. So now I didn't
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: give you a thousand of my dollars. Plus I gotta
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: see in the government four hundred of that thousand I
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: sent you the whole partner. Oh so now I really
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: hate that simple So when you're gonna pay me back,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you really didn't jaim me now, well, in your case,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: people don't think you need it. You know, Oh he'll
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: he'll be all right. That money money, he's got money.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: He doesn't need that money. I'll get it. I'll get
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: it to him when I get While you are coming up,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: people think that you have a reservoir of money. But
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: that reservoir of money you had to work for. The
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: only reason you have a reservoir a little bit of
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: extra money or more than them, is because you usually
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: work more than them. So now you are asking me
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: to take not only my money, but my time that
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: I've given to make this money and just let you
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: have that because you know I got it. Well, that's
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: foul and you should not suffer from guilt, because let
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: me explain something to you I've learned about guilt. Guilt
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: is the most useless human emotion that there is because
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: guilt serves nothing. Guilt is the most devoid, the worst
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: human emotion there is because it serves no purpose. What
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: what this guilt serves when you feel guilty? What? It
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: don't help you, It don't benefit you, It does nothing
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: for you to feel guilt. But people take advantage of
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: the guilt for their own self entitlement. And self selfish needs.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: That's what they use. They use guilt for that. So
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: guilt serves no purpose. So stop feeling guilty because you're blessed.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Stop feeling guilty because God has given you grace. Stop
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: feeling guilty because you go to work and nobody gave
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you nothing, nobody mails you free money. Stop feeling guilty. Yes,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: that guilt when you talk about that guilt, because Tommy,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I think we've all kind of been in that boat.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: When you're loaning money and and the whole guilt thing.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: You don't want to be the bad guy or whatever.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: It's different when you loan friends money, and then when
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: you're taking care of family. You understand what I'm saying.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: I think there's a different level of guilt with that
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: when you gotta look out for mom and them and
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Grandmama and them, and and it grows when you get
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to a certain level. Do you understand what I'm saying? No,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I do, because when it gets to a certain level,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: here's what you can do. You have to wait till
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: you get to a certain level. I got so sick
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: of my family, Nickel and Diamond, me the phone calls,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: that having to duck them, the phone call to trying
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: to tell them no to making it happen. The constant
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: phone calls. Now, you gotta wait till you get to
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: a certain level. And I've talked to a lot of
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: people like this. I put all of them on salary. Okay,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: that's all that, and then here's your monthly cipher and
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: you can make it whatever you want to make it.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Here's your five hundred a month. Here's your two fifty
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: for the month. You know, I'm off on another bracket
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: with mine. They're getting off the thousands. But here's your
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: money for the month. I love you, I am successful.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I know y'all older than me, y'all being struggled. This
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: all to help. Guess what it alleviates the phone calls.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: It alleviates that you ain't nothing. You forgot about us.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: But you gotta wait until you at a certain level.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: But if you want to help your family out, your mama,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: your sister, your brother is constantly nickel and diamond, you man,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: let me get a hundred fifty. Here, let me hold
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: two fifty. Put them on salary to two d a month.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: He go your two hundred. Guess what that that really does?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Slow down there, I need fox Hunter. Hold up, partner,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I sent you my Yeah she has because Steve, I mean,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: while we're talking, there are people out there that do
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: need help. I mean, you know, legitimate help. There's some
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: people they do need help. I mean we all have
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: been there and thank god there was something. All yeah.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: But I mean I'm just saying there are some people
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: you know that need need help. I mean, how do
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: you determine. I'm not saying you don't help. Nobody know
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: what I'm telling you right now, listen to me. Get
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: out of the loaning money business, all right? Got it now?
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: If you're not gonna give it to him, so you
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: ain't gotta worry about it no more. My philosophy is
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give it to you, then I ain't
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: got it. Broka, I ain't got I don't have it,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I don't loan, I don't loan, don't don't come to me,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: So just say no and don't feel guilty. I had
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I had a wealthy friend who got in a real
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: jam and kind of got publicized with his business, and
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: he came to me for a loan. But he's and
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: he's been wealth and I knew he was gonna come back.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: And I loaned him a healthy amount of money, substantial amount.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: He came right back to me when he said he
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: was with the check. Okay, he had done things for
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: me in the past, not so much money, but phone
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: calls put me in touch with this guy. That guy,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: so we had a little bit going on. So when
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: he came for that substantial amount of money, you know,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I had to go now because Marge and I have
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: a relationship where she has some of her money from
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: her allowance and I had my money from my allowance.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: But this money he came to me, I had to
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: go to my wife and go ahead, baby, can we
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: do this right here? That's a lot because it's kind
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: of stepping outside of what I have the power to
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: do without confiding in you. So forth and so on.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: You know, she's had family members that's needed help and
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: she comes to me and then, but but she'll tell
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: them for any amount of money, y'all, you gotta go
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: to my hub that takes her off the hood. She go.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: You gotta, Mardie, just tell you know, y'all can't come
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: to me with that, You have to go ask my hub.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Now speaking, since you brought Marjorie up, well, talk talk
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: quickly if you can. We have about thirty more seconds left.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: You always say you need four bank accounts. For bank accounts,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: we have the bank account where all the money goes
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: in that pays for bills and everything, necessity, house, electric, car,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: know anything. We have another account that requires both of
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: our signatures. It's a savings account. We cannot have touched
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: that unless Marjorie and I both signed, and then Marjorie
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: has an account. I have an account. That money go
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: to her, that money go to me. I can't tell
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: her what to do. She can't say nothing of that.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: She wanted to buy jewelry, she brought jewlry about Cuba,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Cigar cigar. Can't say nothing to them, and we'll be
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: we'll be that. You're listening to the Steve al right,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: miss Anna standing by with today's national news. But did
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: you guys hear about this Justin Bieber? Everyone knows who
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Justin Bieber is. His fans were shocked and upset after
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: he abruptly canceled the remaining dates of his Purpose tour. First,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: it was said that Justin pulled the plug due to exhaustion.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: A lot of entertainers do that. No problem there. But
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: now other sources are saying that Beads acts the rest
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: of his tour in order to rededicate himself to Jesus Christ.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I love that, Okay, I love that. Okay, that's what
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: he said, Jess. Yeah, yes he is, thank you very
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: much pointing that out. Yeah, and then that of course
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: would be fine if that was truly it. But Bieber
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: was seen on video saying that he needed time to
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: relax and ride bikes, so that maybe he gonna ride
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: up in the mountain seat. But Justin's come to Jesus moment.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: As upset the tour crew, Justin made the movie uh
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: the Move without any notice, leaving close to two people
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: out of work. Now that's not cool. Sources also claim
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: the crew members aren't buying the exhausted excuse, especially since
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: he just had a month off and spent the time partying. So,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: for the record, while that's exhausted, I ain't know party
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: for a month, but I didn't watch Tommy though he
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: didn't have some hell of fa Tommin came in here
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: stretched out. You can't imagine a month. But you know what, though,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I understand the cruise position on it, but at the
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: same time, it's sort of crazy because the reason you
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: are working mm hmm. You know, but you affect a
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: lot of people's family when you just drop off the
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: map like that. You know, people and your fans, you people.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: People need these jobs and they really do because they
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: went all, Okay, I got a contract, I'm doing this,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: be all some I'll be able to pay for this distance.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Then you don't come, you mess, you upset the plans. Yeah,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I understand. Yeah. So he's been hanging out with Pastor
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Carl Lentz of a Hillsong lately, and the pastor apparently
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: does not kind of in line with what you just
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: said about those times, does not advocate canceling his tour
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: at all. So Justin issued an apology, but that may
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: be too late to even say, you know, for the
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: fans and the crew members to say sorry. So there
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: you go. Yeah, even the pastor doesn't want him to
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: cancel the tour. You know you're doing, Justin? How did
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: you ride on your bike? Phone? Yeah? I know you're
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: young and everything. We gotta pa Toronto tonight, trying to
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: bike rab Where does bike cut off time? Though? How
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: far you ding? We gotta be fun over hereuldn't have
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: been here? Because we had a building fun at our church,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: he says, our a little boy know at least eighteen
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: years of building fund. We hadn't put a dough now,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: but every Sunday, faithfully, you dropped something into the building.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Where's it going. We're gonna get a new window. How
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: about just some seat cushion, a couple of more older
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: ways to get hard by because I'm gonna tell you
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: one thing. What I'm not gonna do is watch service
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: in the overflow room. I'm not that committed. Once some
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: down in the basement in the overflow room, I lose
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: all interest in the service. It's just who down here?
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Is that not the most undecorated rum? But the man
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: we're late now we're in here trying to act like
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: we loved it. Man. Man, we're listening to man. We're
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: listening to the crown. This little speaker. All right, we
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: have down here now, Steve, they got screens, video screens.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: What they got you to that room? We gotta bring in.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody, Thanks a lot. This is a trip
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: with the news. Okay, well let's go to Ohio. First
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: of all, catastrophic malfunction on a ride at the Ohio
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: State fair has killed one man and injured seven other people.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: This is Ohio. A man who was killed was one
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: of several people thrown from a ride called the Fireball. Again.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: This was at the Ohio State Fair. Now the fair
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: is open today everybody, but officials say that all the
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: rides are closed down. They're going to check all the rides.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I don't want anybody on the rides. Yesterday's White House
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: press briefing, Press Secretary Sarah Huckaby Standards was of course
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: asked about the president's transgender military band, specifically about out
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: to what would happen to people already serving in the
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: service if they were going to be automatically dismissed or something. However,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: her answers seemed somewhat general, but she did stress that
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: the President felt the current situation had to be changed.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: The Department of Defense and the White House will have
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: to work together as implementation takes place, and has done
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: so lawfully. He's awes that this is a very expensive
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and disruptive policy, Sander said. Trump consulted with members of
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: his national security team before reversing President Obama's policy. Some
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: groups already say they're prepared to go to court to
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: fight the White House on this one. Meanwhile, the US
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Center voted down a proposal yesterday they would have repealed
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: most of the Affordable Care Act and allowed the Congress
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: two years to come up with a replacement. That went
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: down the flames the Minnesota Police Department. The Minneapolis rather
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Police Department now expanding the use of body cameras after
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: an Australian woman who called nine one one ended up
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: shot and killed by a police officer there earlier this month.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Acting police Chief Madera Aredondo says the problem is that
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: too many officers hard to use the technology at all.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: It is not being used when it may be needed
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: the most. From this day forward, in the Minneapolis Police Department,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: body warn cameras must be on PILs goes into effect
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: in two days. Michelle Obama has opened up about the
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: racism she faces first Lady racism so many of us
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: saw at the Women's Foundation of Colorado's thirty anniversary. She
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: discussed the shattering the glass ceiling and the shards that
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: cut her the deepest, she said, with those that intended
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: to cut her, She says, quote, we are living with
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: tiny cut, small cuts. We are bleeding every single day,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: but we are still getting up. Meanwhile, on a much
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: much lighter note, everybody, Today's National cranborough A Day, National
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Chili Dog Day, and National Brown Liquor Day. Not that dry. Okay,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: this is nan trip and we'll be back with Eugene
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: the Butterfly twenty minutes after the hour. Stay tuned to
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Ladies and gentlemen, he's here. But one
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: last comment, Eugene, for I bring and I'm gonna bring
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: you out big, thank you that much, thank you, and
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring him out, asked Anthony Brown. But I'm
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: just boy cotton the overflow rule, sir, I just wanted
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: to always say that. And this is not a question,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: this is a statement. I'm boy cotting all services in
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: the overflow room on video coming out of a mono speaker.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: You no usher down here, and the usher that's working
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: the overflow room they knew anyway. They ain't even't qualify
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: because they're not working the main sanctuary banding over there.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: He ain't got his hand behind it back, he ain't
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: got no gloves that No, they ain't gave him nothing.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: He got a yell on band on, and he'd the
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: nurse too. Ain't nobody shouting in the overflow rule. We
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: ain't that connected. Ain't nobody saying amen while we're in here.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Let's cut this out, lady and gentlemen, why the game?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Put your ass agether get your mand right, yes, carlor
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: my asy and I'm about to get out. Jane up
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: very much out he did get. Good morning everyone, Stephen, Timey, Shirley,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: Carla Junior, Good morning to everyone. Here is the question
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: out of the day. Ready, Yeah, what are some things
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: that sound like compliments but are actually insults? Oh man,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: that baby looks just like yeah, that's well, that's a comment.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Oh man, that that I look good it on the squirrel.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: You know that don't look good on the squirrel? Let
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: me too tight? Wow? Your eyes really are that big?
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: I get that a lot one on my Instagram page. Wow,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I see what Steve means about your eyes, Tommy, I
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: think the one I get that just trips me ideas
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: one day you might be good at Steve's compliment. Yeah,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: it's a d gonna compliment the same he just did
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: what we're talking about, comment made. Okay, what come on, man,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: your hair look nice today. Huh yeah, that could be
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: a complimented, Carlo, you good for your age? Yeah, that's
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: the one. That is how you just gonna bring them
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: pants back like that? Sometimes you a compliment really isn't insults,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: so think about it. That's just that's my school proNT today. Stephen,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: you want you want? Coming up next to good Nephew
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: will be black? Thirty four after the hour, you're listening
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Show. All right, Steve. Maybe you
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: feel like you're stuck in a relationship or a marriage
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: that's broken. Maybe you're not getting enough attention. Maybe you're
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: just not in love anymore. Let's talk about the five
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: most important things to consider if you're tempted to cheat.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: How about that five most uh? Five most important things
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: to consider if you're tempted to cheat. Yeah, I have
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: a list. I have a list. You can come in
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: up again. Five most important things to consider if you're
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: attempted to cheat. Okay, you want to hear my list.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: You guys make your own list. Okay, yeah, I know
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: you do. You may yeah, alright. Number one, no good
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: can come of it, So remember that if you're attempted
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: to cheat. Number two somebody's going to get hurt. Someone's
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: gonna get hurt. Number three. The guilt will stress you
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: out immediately, the guilt. Number four, The fling is not
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: gonna last. It's just a fling. It's not gonna last.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: And number five, Come on, now, there's a better solution.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: You don't have to do this. Should I go back
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: down from from take it from the top. Number Number one?
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: No good can come of it? Why not? That's why
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I'm doing it. Just's some good coming immediately. Number two,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: somebody's going to get hurt. You're not gonna find out
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: what I'm finishing doing to find out nothing about this.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Let's keep from number three. The guilt will stress you out,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: and definitely it never has before. I have gone on
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: with my life back number four. Number four, the relieving strip.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Number four. The fleet we're not laying. Most of mine
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: have gone three four years. I call that pretty good life,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: that life expectancy. Number five, there's not a there's a
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: better solution. What's solution looking for? I'm not looking for
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: one now and I just named it two. What is
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: the subject? Again? The object is the five most important
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: things to consider if you're tempted to cheat? Number one.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Number one, when they see who you cheating with, will
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: they say okay, really crazy, that's good. And then here's
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: the second most important. Asked the question again, Okay, what
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: are the five most important things to consider if you're
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: tempted to cheat? These are Number two? How much is
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: has you got? You got to consider that, how much
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: he is? You got paid? You got it could go down?
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Can you lose? These are things that you really got
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: to Oh, this keeps me at home? You got paid?
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: You got to consider. I don't have no money. So
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: do you think that I got to consider? Do she
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: have somebody? Just the case we get called? Got to
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: go down? He to kill me. I need to know
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: and to do she live on the same side of
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: town I do. I need you to be across town.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: We can't be seen together at the same stop us
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: now can't work together. Dri drive a bout the house,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: see your car in her drive. If I'm on the east,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: she got to be on the west. If I'm on
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: the north, I need your south. See the things for
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: me to consider. I don't know what this no geek
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: can come of it. I don't know about that. With
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: them two things I got to come on boy, do
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: she have brothers as well? Number three? Come number three.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: It's being seen in public? Important to you? You, that
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: is my favorite series in public? Important to you? Oh
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: my god, because if it is when talking about last
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: week about some cheating and they never went out of
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: the house ever a day. They never went on a day.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you guys. Now we see how your
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: minds work. Coming up next, it's the nephew prank phone
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: called the Ignorance never stops on this show. You thought
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: I would. We'll be back you're listening to all right,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, about four
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Get ready for today's another one
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: crazy strawberry letter. Okay, but up next it's the nephew
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: with the prank phone. Call what you got now? You
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: know it was your birthday not too long ago. This
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: is my dude. This is this is unc dude too.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: But I pranked. Keep sweat right, oh you Frank Keith
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: set just keep sweat alright now. Celebrities, Oh wow, we
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: have a long list to day. Hello, I'm trying to
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: reach Manny. Is this Manny not in the same mann?
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: He man the sweat? Who's this man? Hey? This right? Here, man,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: Uh wow, this is what okay? Uh, Mr Keith you
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: we we got we got people down here. You're supposed
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: to be here at that record store, man, right here
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: on Arloman and we got people wrapped around the building.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to be here sign in these CDs. Man,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: But it's been over all these people have been standing
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: there waiting on y'all. Yo. Man, I don't know nothing
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: about no record store and uh and number two, I
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: don't know nothing about doing no signing. Man. Who set
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: this up? Man? I don't know. I mean the name
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: I was giving was Manny? Who was who was? Manny?
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Man is my road manager. But he don't set things up. Man.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: He's a road manager. He's not my manager. He just
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: handled my stuff on the road. But I was never
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: told I was supposed to be nowhere to do anything. Man.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: I mean normally on was toobody telling me and them
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: have an understanding that I book what I'm supposed to.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: So I don't know nothing about this, my brother, Okay,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: Well you know we gotta get this taken care of.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: We got people wrapped around the building. We got a
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: table here laid out, we got pins and everything for
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: you to sign these CDs. Man, we got a hundred
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: people outside of the store. My brother, nobody told me
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: about no no signings or no nothing. Man. I mean
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about no signing for real. Okay,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Well are you hearing what I'm saying to you? Man?
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: We got people outside the building waiting for you to
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: arrive to sign some CDs. Now what I'm supposed to
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: tell these people? I don't know what you're supposed to
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: tell them, man, I mean, you know, and and and
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: it's kind of like you're raising your voice. Dude, I don't.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I don't furst of all. I don't know even know
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: who you are calling me like this. I told you, man,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I don't said nothing, man. And you know, I mean
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: I don't even know who gave you my number. You
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying for I mean, I don't handle
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: all this information was on the fax machine. I got
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: this as a contact number. Man, he is the person
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be talking to. And Mrs Smith was
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: supposed to arrive here at twelve noon. Now here it is.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: It's it's one twenty man, and you ain't here. And
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: we got people wrapped around the building. We've been advertising
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: this with the last two weeks, I mean our dropping down.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: I don't think you I mean no disrespect to you,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: but I don't think you're hearing me. Man. I I
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: don't know nothing about a sign And if I knew
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: about a signing or knew I had a sign in session,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't have a people sitting around or standing around
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: like that. That's not what I do. But no one
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: informed me that nothing like this was going down today.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, So okay, But look, man,
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: now that you realize people are here waiting, what are
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: you gonna do what I'm supposed to tell them? Man,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: there's no where in the well I can get down
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: there and do a signing at this time late time,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: right now. Man, I mean, you need to get so
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: big that you need you need to get try to
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: try to get yourself down. You know, first of all,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, what did you just say, y'all?
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: I think you just called me I'm a name or something. Man.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: What did you just say to me? Man? No, No, no,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm saying you need to try and come
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: on down and sign sign these CDs for these people. Man,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: these people are here, They're waiting in line. You've been
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: waiting over an hour on. You know that that's not
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: gonna work. The day dude, we got your we got
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: your CD. Almost on every show, I'm feeling you, and
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I understand that. I understand what you're saying to me,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: but there's no way I can get that there. Man,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: were you just gonna have to reschedule this. So we're
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: gonna have to reschedule this. I apologize for the you know, misunderstanding,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: but bottom line is, I knew nothing about on only
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: on a second hold on And this is mrs what
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: he's saying. He don't know anything about being I'm telling him,
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: we got people all wrapped all around the building. He
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: don't care. Yo, Yo, dude, I didn't said I didn't care.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I said now I could do I instead of I
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: didn't say that. Man, don't put words in my mouth,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: my brother, What do you want me? All you gotta
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: do is reschedule it for another time. Man, I's what
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: you do. I don't know. Man, I'm talking to my boss.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out again we got people from
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: to get mad Man because you're not here, Okay, you
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: never man, he man, he needs man. He does. I
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: don't say. I don't know nothing about that, man. I
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with that. Man. All I
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: know is that nobody told me about that. You know,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: I call him and he and I who said, Because
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I don't do things unless I know where where it's
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: coming from. It, I ain't no way you can get you.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: You can get yourself. Now. You keep further of all, Man,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: you don't talk to me like I'm your child. Man, No,
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: you keep saying there's no way I can get my
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: You know your back up on what you're saying. Man, Man,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: we're having a problem. This is supposed to be one
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: of the biggest days of our record store. We got
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: your CD on every shelf, and you do just so
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: calm and collect like it's not a problem with you
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do? Man, When I didn't know
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: nothing about it, I understand there's a problem. Is a
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: problem because it makes me look like I'm a no show.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: But dude, I'm telling you again, I knew nothing about this. Man.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: Oh no, old I want to second take all his
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: damn CDs off the shelf. Every yo, Yo, I don't
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. Man, You're losing your dark
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: mine right now. Man. I'm not trying to disrespect you, dude,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: but you're really losing your mind right now. You're doing
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: something you ain't got no business though. Man, I said,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: reschedule a situation. Man, you know tomorrow to day we
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: rescheduling when the album drops today. Okay, well, well there's
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: nothing I can do about this, dude, nothing's ther Wait. Wait,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: sounds like you're raising your voice. That made my voice man,
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: because you're now now you disrespect me. You don't call
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: my phone going on like like like I'm somebody's chat
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: like I'm your child, dude. Think you don't talk to
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: me like that. Man, So you can't stop what you're
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: doing and bring your butt down here to the record store.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: What I'm doing. No, no, no, no, I can't start
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing. Man, what you're doing right now, that's
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: so important. You can't come. Man, It ain't none of
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: your business what I'm doing right now. Dude, I'm saying,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I know I knew nothing about this, man, So I'm
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: not gonna keep going back and forth with you like
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: like like I gotta explain to you why I can't.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: I gotta start what I'm doing to come down there.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I knew nothing about it. It's not my fault. Dude.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: You need to take this up with somebody who scheduled
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: this because I didn't schedule it. That's a right and
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: a wrong way to look right and the wrong way
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: to do somebody. Mr Sweat, Man, come on, now, you
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: resign my songs, Man, Come on, many problems. I'm just
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: gonna go out here and tell everybody in the line.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: Mr Sweat don't want to come okay, And I'm taking
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: all of the damn CDs off the show because you
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: don't want to stand up and be the celebrity that
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to beat. Man. Okay, now you know what, man,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: You do what you gotta do. Man, at this point,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: you do what you gotta do. Man. But who am
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: I talking to anyway? Man? I work here at the store. Okay. Well,
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: I'll see you right heim. You go ahead and do
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: what you give me, do and I'll come and see
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: you do. What what? What what you mean You're gonna
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: see me? What that means? I see you. I'll see you,
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: y'all see you. That's what it means. I'll see you, okay,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: because because the bottom line is man, Tommy said, you
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: was gonna come here. Once said you was gonna come
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: sign Tommy Who now you brahin Tommy? Who the who
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: the hell is the Tommy Tommy Man nephew taught me
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning shows what I got you? Boy? Man?
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: You know what? Man? Y'all tripping boy for real and
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: you you don't even understand what you give me? Make
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: speak to dude. You're crazy boy. I mean you know
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: what I man. You don't have anything better to do
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: than from me. And that's me man. I knew the
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: album was dropping. Man, I said I'm getting in today.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: You're good. Yeah, I'm good. I'm good man, boy, you
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: crazy boy? Man, Let me get off this phone. Man,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: y'all do what you don't even understand? Sweat Man, I
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: had to get you do look at it. You know,
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: I know you got your show, but you got to
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: tell me what is the baddest radio show in the morning,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Monty's your man. Get off my phone. Every time,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: somebody got to do it. And I chose myself big
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: else to keep sweat happy to later. Birthday to you, brother,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna be seeing Keeth. He's gonna be doing
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: this thing and saying and so let me write a
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: wrong Yeah, yeah right, I wanna show and he don't
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: sound like Keith. It looks good. Well, ain't nobody run
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: up on now? Noddy? I like about it. He already
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: second he's maying on ready to be a healthy? Yeah,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: keep man is actually a game. I don't want to
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: put that out there. It ain't the safest group out
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: of trop Wood. They didn't play that. You didn't jump
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: on this back. They were from Ohio, Tropwood, trop Wood, Ohio.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: Right outside of dating Man. All the boys went on
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: how players were from now to all of them as
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: was from now? The whole group Old James whip on
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: the board, Cleveland Man, they turned them out? Was the
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: Seveness were vertils neo? Ain't they ever been free? Al Right?
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: Get ready coming up in about an hour, she's back, sister,
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: O'Dell will be here in the building. Yeah. Do you
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• 56:15
  Speaker 1: hold on tight. We gotta Joe Barry Let thank you,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Tommy subject childless, manless, clueless and hungover at forty, Dear Steve,
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: Harvey and Shirley. Currently, I am separated and over forty.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: Can't have any children's main reason for my divorce. Anyway,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I met a man, Mr. Man, who was also separated,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: and we became very close. It was great. After a year,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: Mr Man has his divorce. Once my divorce was final,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: this summer, I thought Mr Man and I would be together. Well.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: Mr Man told me that he was going to New
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: Jersey to get his ex girlfriend, the woman he should
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: have married instead of his wife. I had to ask
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: what about me? He said, I am a beautiful woman,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: but I had three problems. Number One, I am too emotional.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I cry at the drop of a dime. Number two,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: real women are mystery. Once that's gone, nothing is left.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: I'm an open book. Number three, the big one I
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: should not have I should not have fallen in love
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: with a married man him. I missed all the signs
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: of this rejection. I tried to be open and honest
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: with this man. Of course, the sex was good, but
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: I am truly hurt. So as I watch him take
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend on a romantic weekend to the Poconos
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Mountains this weekend. Last night, I had my brown liquor,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: my brown liquor song Anita Baker no more tears and
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: cried myself to sleep. I should have known better and
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: controlled my feelings at forty. So I'll say it's my fault.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: I am not perfect now. I am out of two
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: men in one year at forty. I pray that God
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: heals my heart and my mind. Childless manless, clueless and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: hungover at forty. Wow. Uh, dear dear childless manless, clueless
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: and hungover at forty. I mean, yeah, you know, Uh, God,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: will you know, protect you and heal you and all that.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: But you have to do your part. You know, you
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: gotta do your part um and that is not jumping
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: into something when number one you're still married to this uh,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: to your husband. Uh and uh number two, you know,
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: just jumping in, not getting to know this man, you know,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: sleeping with him right away. That's exactly what happened. That's
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: what he means by the mystery. You know, once the
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: mystery has gone, then it's over. I mean telling him
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: everything you said. You're an open book. You don't have
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: to tell this man everything. He's not even your husband, um,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: you know, and then being so emotional and needy. You know,
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: you gotta learn from um from your relationships so this
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: won't happen again. And as far as not being able
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: to have children, um, you know, if you want to
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: go this route, adoption is always an option, and it
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: definitely is always an option. You know, think about that
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: in your next relationship. But I don't advise you to
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: even get in a next relationship, a new relationship until
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: you know you learn from this particular one so you
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: won't keep making these same mistakes over and over and
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: over again. So take your time, know what you want,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: and don't settle uh anymore? Okay, and make these men accountable,
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: you know, talk about their plans, find out what he
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: wants to do. You know, why should that have even
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: been a surprise to you that he wanted to go
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: back and marry someone else, Steve, This letter is classic,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: is classic, classic example of how women get involved and
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: not know upfront her whole life is that one. First
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: of all, she's separated right now, can't have any children.
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: Main reason for my divorce. You're getting divorce because you
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: can't have children. Who didn't know this in the beginning.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: How was this not talked out thoroughly in the beginning.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: So you get to this point with your husband and
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: he finds out you can't have children, or he just
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: his sizes he won't children, or this is the reason
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: he's telling you that he got to leave. All it is,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: all it is. All of this could have been handled
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: up front. You were surprised that your marriage is over
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: because of the fact that you can't have children. You've
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: been knowing this a greater part of your forty years,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: especially in your adult life where it really counts. Okay. Secondly, um,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: you met a man, Mr. Man, who was separated, which
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: means he was still married to Mr Man gets his
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: divorce and once your divorce was final this summer, I
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: thought Mr Man and I would be together keyword, I
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: thought you once again, ma'am. And I'm just not trying
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: not to be too hard on you, because you know
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: you made a mistake. But you said I thought Mr
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: Man and I would be together once again? Classic classic
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: not knowing up front. You could have found out if
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: you and Mr Man was gonna be together before you
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: broke off the cookie with this man. But now you're
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: passing out cookie like it's like like it's a business card.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Now you're sitting up in here and found out that
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: Mr Man, after his divorce, is gonna go back to
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: Jersey and get his ex girlfriend. He could have told
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: you that to begin it, had you inquired. Ladies, you
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: have the right to inquire. It's not being nos it
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: ain't being pushy. You ain't gonna run no man off.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: If a man really want you, you can't running him off.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: You can't run us off. We scary, We won't you,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: we want you. We are not scary people me and
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: are not scary. You don't run us all, and we
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: won't you. Come on, come on, pimps and players. Didn't
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: put it in your head that you will run us all.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: Men can't be run off. So here you go. He
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: goes to the ex girlfriend, the woman that he should
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: have married instead of his wife. Oh, this is conversation
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: you could have add, why are you getting the best?
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: Who would you have married if you didn't marry your wife?
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: I would have married this girl in New Jersey. Matter
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: of fact, if I ever get out of this, I'm
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: going back and get hard. You could have found this
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: out and saved yourself to them, so you had what
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: about me? What about you? It's too late. He going
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: to get the girl in Jersey. Ladies, you have every
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: right to ask up front, see what about you is first?
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: You gotta get the what about you out first, or
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: when you get to the point where you gotta ask
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: what about you? This ain't about you no more. This
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: about him and the woman in New Jersey. Now he
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: got us the boys, he gone. He's going back to
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: who we should have married in the first place. You
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: ain't asked none of these questions because you was swat
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: having a good time, feeling good. Y'all was pleasurable. You
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: all had so much in common. The only thing y'all
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: had in common was both y'all were separated. His plans
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: was not your plans. You have every right to know
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: of a man's plans. You especially have the right to know, ladies,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: if you are not in his plans. There always to
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: go about finding this out. We come back. I'm gonna
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: open up a few more cans in the uh in
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: this letter. A few more items in this letter share
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: with you, especially the three problems she has. I'm too emotionally,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: he says, he's too emotionally cried to drop down. Real
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: women are mystery wants. That is gone, nothing's left. I
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: tell you what me and mean by that. And I'm
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: an open book. And the third big one I should
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: have should not have fallen in love with a married man.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I mean too when we come back.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: You're okay. The man told me that he was going
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: to New Jersey to get his ex girlfriend, the woman
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: he should have married instead of his wife. I had
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: to ask what about me? He said, I'm a beautiful woman,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: but I had three problems. Let's go over these problems late.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: Number one, I am too emotional. I cry at the
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: drop of a dime. Well, here's the deal. If a
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: man don't love and don't have emotional ties to you
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: of any kind, which is obviously this man don't, he's
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: not buying into drama. Tears to a man is drama
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: because guess what if your man loves you and he
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: sees you crying, he has to fix something. We got
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: to spring into action and do something. Since it's it's
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: it's the only reason we like to talk to you.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: We don't want to talk to you if if we
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: can't fix it. So now you're just crying at the
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: drop of the dying. He don't know what the hell
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: going on. He can't fix it. That's drama. I'm not
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: in love with you, and I ain't really feeling you
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: like that. So gus, what I ain't buying into this
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: drama over no cookie, which is all you are is
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: some cookie. Second, real women are mystery. Once that is gone,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: nothing is left. He told you that, Okay, you know
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: what that means. That means you told everything in the book.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I will tell you what to tell a man and
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: what not to tell a man. See, y'all go about
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: this the wrong way, y'all. Y'all think it's being honest
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: and open. Hey, hey, y'all better understand what this really is.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: Now when you're talking to us, when you give us information,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: we're taking this information to use it a certain way.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: That's what we're doing. We're not gathering information because we
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: care for you. We gather informa mation because we can
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: use it in our quest. Third, the big one, I
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: should have not she said, I should have not fell
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: in love. That's what she said with the married man.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: I miss all this, all the signs of this rejection. No, no, no, no, no,
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: you didn't miss any of the signs of rejection. You
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: didn't ask for the signs, You didn't ask any questions.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: What was his intentions after his divorce was over, whether
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: you fit into the plans? How does he see you?
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: What the big one is I'm gonna give you is
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: that you fell in love with a married man. You
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: know what he says to him, You had no standards.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: That's all that says to him. Man, you had had
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: no standards. Now you won't do what now you wanna
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: start practicing standards with me? I'm not really sure if
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: you have any, because what you ain't gonna do is
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: start practicing new standards with me and my feelings. I'm
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: gonna going up to Jersey and get my old girl back. Man, Holly,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: at you we gotta go email or Instagram. That's your
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at my girl? Surely? Now,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: come on, Steve, introduce that girl from the top. Ladies
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, boys and girls, military personnel, everybody around the world.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: Girl on the world. Come on, Cheryl, what's doing? That
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: intro was too much for Sorry? Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Hello, Hey, Okay, Okay,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry I missed all of that. I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: What's happening, family, Okay, let me tell you what's happening
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: since Okay, let's just talk about it. Okay. I think
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: earlier this week they talked to about ugly wives. Oh yeah,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: the guys. Yeah, you know why here, I need to
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: clear up some things. None of us like to be
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: called ugly wives. We prefer handsome. Let's I'm gonna be
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: real now, I'm I'm a member of the ugly wife club,
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: you know, because some men like that woman to look
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: like y'all fat, something like that. They do because you know,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: sometimes it ain't in the face, it's character, it's wisdom.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: You know. I give my man confidence because I know
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: we're walking together. Some people thinking, how the hell did
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: that happen? See I'm before see up, Shirley. Am I right?
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: You see a fine dude looking like peeling Michael Thomas
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: walking with somebody should have been on Planet of the Apes. Pleas,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: I'm so uncomfortable right when ugly women walk in the bedroom,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: we play Bubba sparts because it's about to get ugly
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: up and I'm the perfect woman any man. Why Because
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: men loved the Steve Harvey Mortner Show. And I got
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: everything that's part of the Steve Harvey Mortner Show on
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: the male ugly side. I got multiple personality like Tommy.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: I got a smile like Junior. I gotta mustache like
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: Steve at a body like Jath the brown flick. Stop
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: what some women gotta face and everybody look like you, Shirley,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: I gotta face and men like that. Call men like
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: a woman with character with sticktuitiveness, you know, look like
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: an old hound dog, look like dude. Likely sure you're
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: gonna stop. I'm just telling you the truth. You know
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: that there's handsome women in the world, call them. So
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: I'm just know what I'm saying is on behalf of
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: all the women that are not printing in the face,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: but beautiful in the ways and got that nice boute
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: that nice on young don't worry, that's something they out
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: there for you. And Steve harving them bad. And I
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: talked about no more unattractive women because there's somebody out
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: there for everybody. Don't y'all believe that, Yes, yes, that's right,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: that's right. So I'm not lied to know about everybody.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: Know what I look like without a wig and make up.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: Everybody know that I know you got to beat. Let
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. Let me tell if you're a
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: woman and your feet look like you should have been
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: on the flintstones sticking them out of car, you need
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: to know that. You need to just said that somebody's
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: gonna love you, you know, because all men don't like
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: what they say. If you're gonna be happy for the
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: From my personal point of view, get an ugly girl
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: to marry you. That's what the song I'm saying. Y'all
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: don't know them lives. Yeah, see, should see the win
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: you won't co sign is because you was pretty. Some
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: women out there, well thank you for that, But because
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: I love you challenged you gotta fight that. Why do
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: you think make that wasn't venting to enhances up, not
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: to cover up. Thanks. People texted me going, did you
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: say y'all fat cooto? Okay, all ugly women, raise your hand.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: I do solomly sweat to accept the face that God
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: gave me at work with what I got because I'm
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: really fine in my mind. I'm Steve Harvey. Don't be
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: tripping I'm finding my mind. You're beautiful. I don't know
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: what that's right. You're beautiful inside, beautiful inside you handsome,
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: that's what you are. You handsome alright, Cheryl, thank you
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: as always. I think I don't even know you're listening
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: to Steve made good day in the moon. It's all
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: right now, yes it is. Yes, he's coming mad one
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: day and I should wanna be ready, wity go. I'm
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: gonna be ready even if you ain't. I I gotta
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: go to heaven and I'm done the same. Well, it
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: will just be me, all right. It's a ges be
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: me and Jesus my dollar. Good moneys everyone for brutal,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: for brutal for Hi calling, Hey, sister Dale, how you doing?
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: You know the delay? Yeah, I'm sorry, okay, junior morning,
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: sister old Dale, Hi boy, I'm good. How you doing?
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: You know what the show pick up for you? If
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: you get some bass in it, yes, ma'am, to get
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: some base in your voice. You ain't gonna you funny though,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: good good day in stay that hate Tommy, Hi boy?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: How you doing good? Good good dude? I Shirley, Well, hello,
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: sister Odal. Aren't you a good movie to that? Brutal
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: for you love ter hally favorite, he said, Usually am
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: I mean? She said? She said, usually call me here again.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: See what happened, big get hitting one of them? Big
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: as cain't missing? All right? Well, sorry about on the
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: back of your line? Is I know you ain't checked
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: out the donor call for them. You'na able to fit
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: them in nobody's head. If you get one of your
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: eyes on the back of your driving line, if you
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: put it in the man's head, he's gonna be able
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: to see too much to take the one chill out
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: of the car so he can dry. Okay, we got it. Hey,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: what I'm just saying you you call me. We're back
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: on the end of the back already. We just had
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: out from the back first place, right back on the flot.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: You can't keep your damn mark shut. Yeah, you're just
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: drinking water. You're down, said, come on, what y'all got today?
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about? You know what we're kind
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: of discussing off air like slang, you know, stuff that
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: we used to say back in the day, like for
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: instances your odal, like we take advantage of the opportunity,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: maintain success. Huh, take advantage of the opportunity maintain success,
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: said this joker. Right, Yeah, that's slang that ain't slanger.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: But you didn't say that. Okay, well I'm saying it now. Well, hey,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: you cann't say it after you just said it? How
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: you want to get you down? Now you know she'd
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: be able to read read didn't go to the next one.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: Sho you're supposed to be saying. We're gonna say, I'm
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: gonna say something. You tell me the best way to
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: say it. Okay, I'll say this, and you tell me
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: the best way to say it. Shoot your shot, Shoot
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: your shot, shoot your shot. Bring it yet? Should bring it?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: It does to go after something or someone that you want. Okay,
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: we'll bring it in that close Okay. Um, we ain't
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: snatch snatch I know you know this one to be
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: put together together or in shape. No, that's what your
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: mama do when they're snu your not in you, when
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: you show it out at the church and your mama's
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: snatch you. Now, next thing you know, she snatched you
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: sitting there looking like a pressure. That's where that meant,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: because when we say snatch, it means what you ain't
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Aboudy asked you what you said, Shelly, you're messing the
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: joke up and keep going back over. I gave a
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: punch line. What is your reiteration it for? You didn't reiterate? Huh,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: not reiterate, reiterate, reiterates. I'm not iritated with you, but
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: I'm back to be because reiterate. You want to real
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: this situation banging it back up? Tell you to re
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: entity always conversation, you can't talk? What else you got?
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: All right? Secure the bag, meaning take advantage of the opportunity,
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: maintained success. Now that just hold my purse. That's all
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: I mean. That's only time, only time I have the
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: holy baggs when I'm on baptism committee. And now I
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: got address him. Let let's read the fraglan once you
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: get paid. Back to Teddy Pendergraph, Huh, I don't feel
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: comforable discussing her paint is? I don't. You're a big
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: fan of his back in the day, did you granddad?
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you, Yeah, did you know anyone?
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: What was his grandfather's name? Mogetty Mott, pend Mogetty Pendagram,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: Oh oh Pendra. And how do you guys meet where
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: that they're called him Getty called the more you want
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: the more he gave you. They call him, you want
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: some more? Here? Can you get it? And him't get him?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: Don't get it? Pendigran and I mean here you ever
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: run out? The man was something else, had a rough
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: old voice. You light. He couldn't sing though, not at all.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it. Sound like everybody in there. Get
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  Speaker 1: the blowing out candle. Oh it was candle. It wasn't like,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: wasn't no lights back there? What you guys right after
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: service one time? Oh? You guys went to the same church,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: I said. After service, I went down to the new
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: Chickland spot later that fried chilans. After serving, I went out.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: He was the one lighting the fire for the grease.
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  Speaker 1: And Lord Jesus, you're listening to show. Well, it's ten.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody put your hands together. It's time for reality reality Baby,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: let it in. I love it. I love it. One
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: more time with the reality Park. Here we go. It's
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: time for reality update. You're fired, nephew, he don't give
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: it hit all Hire Jr. All right, here we go,
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  Speaker 1: Reality Update. Alright. Love and hip hop Hollywood is back,
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: ladies and John Yeah, and I love me some Ray
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: Jay and Princess in three. Yeah, that's the season three
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: ended with them finding love and they got married last season,
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: but they were not They weren't on the season premiere
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: of I guess it's a season four. They went on
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: the season premiere episode. I'm sure we'll be seeing a
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: lot of them as the season episode started airing every week.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: But new cast member my girl, I Love Love Loved
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: Me Some Kesha. Yes, Keisha has joined the show. And
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: you know what, we all know that Keisha has had
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of drama in her life. You know, she had,
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: you know, the issues with her mom, Frankie and her sister,
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: and you know we've seen Keisha Col's life play out
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: on reality TV before so and this time it's no difference.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: She has joined the cast of Love and Hip Hop Hollywood,
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: and she had a very public and being tough breakup
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: with her husband, Daniel Booby Gibson. Now we all know Booby.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: He played in the NBA for I think it was
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: about maybe what seventy six years junior. He played for
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: the Cleveland Cavalier years back in the day. Right, yeah, yeah,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: he is from Houston. I know some people that mama
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: went to school with my mama, and then she gonna
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: act like she didn't know my mama because her son
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: was Mama checked that situation. Then I said, I know
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: you ain't sitting up here tracking like you don't know me,
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: Booby Mama that I don't like them. I love your
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: mama and your mom. I did not know your mama, dude.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: Mama held Booby. Mama grabb me helm Booby. My mamma
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: graduated together from Jones High School. Come on, classmates, class
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: of seven to six. She said, Oh, you're gonna okay.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: I remember you were praying it with Booby. You're not
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: gonna get in Hollywood. We had this kind of world
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: shout out to Houston right about now. You said, Jones
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: High School. That's South Park, baby, if anybody from Houston
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: you o the area? All right? Well, Daniel lied and
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: cheated on Keisha, you know throughout their marriage and that breakup.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: It was heartbreaking for Keisha. I mean that they broke
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: up and um, it devastated her. But despite all of that, Yeah,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: she was just really really hurt by that. But despite
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: all that pain and drama, Booby and Keisha, we discover
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: are still living under the same route. They are still
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: still living together. Keisha still cares for her ex, and
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: so she wants them to co parent together. Booby and Keisha,
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: they have I think he's seven seven year old son,
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: DJ together, and we know Keisha's family's history. Keisha didn't
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: know her biological father growing up, and you know, she's
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: had some serious, serious family issue dramas, and so Keisha
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: feels that DJ needs his father, he needs his father there,
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: and so they are coming together, living under the same rout.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: You know, Booby is not playing ball anymore. It's I
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: guess he's trying to get himself together and get his
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: career together. So there's still some tension there. It's just
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: not all a bit of roses under that roof. When
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: you walk into the house. You see Keisha coming in
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: working from being on the road and being in the studio,
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: and Booby is there being the dad kind of handling
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: the domestic duties and you know, taking DJ to school
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: and that kind of thing they worked out. Yeah, they're
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: trying to work work it out for the baby. And
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: I don't think they are legally divorced, so surely I
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: don't think technically they are. I'm not sure. I don't
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: quote me on that. But I don't think they are
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: legally divorced. But here's my question. Do you think that
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: you could co parent with your ex and live under
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: the same route. Do you think you can do that?
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: Come on, Strawberry, what was the inside boys? Outside? Move on?
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: What about you? Junior? Do you think you can do that? No? No, No,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: I can do that? Why what? What fun? I mean debate?
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: You could just be hugging the baby and not hugging me.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: That's my problem. You'll be wanting to get back together.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: Come on, no sense, How can he get all the
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: husband kids? And I'm standing over here by myself. No,
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: I think Booby is still wanting to get back with Keisha.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: I think he's trying to fix it. Yeah. I think
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: he's trying to fix it. But she's just she thinks
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: of them and get coparing on the same house with you.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, surely when it's old, you don't want
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: all of it, it's no more. Yeah, you do make
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: sacrifices for your child every single day. Yeah, that's what
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: love is about. Sacrifice. Yeah. Yeah, Well hit me up
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: on Twitter or Instagram if you're listening right now you
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: want to join in this conversation. Do you think that
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: you could co parent with your ex under the same
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: roof like Keisha Cole and Booby Gibson are doing right now,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 1: lips by Carla, hit me up on the Gram or
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: Twitter and we'll talk about it now. On the scripted
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: show Let's Move On Power, Yes, Kendrick Lamar said, this
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: is the best show. Yeah, yeah, I said game with
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: Rolls Power. You know, I love both of them. So
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: your girl Angela did not see Ghost hide the gun
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: at Truth. She got a copy of the surveillance video.
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: She watched the video. Yeah, and so she saw that
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: Ghost did not hide the gun at at Truth. And
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: so Angela, you know, she believes that you have to
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: do the right thing no matter what. So she shared
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: with Ghosts and his lawyer the prosecution strategy to come
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: forth and frame Ghosts with that seven million dollar check
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: that they said that Tommy paid, that Ghosts paid Tommy
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: to kill Greg Knox. Angela did the right thing. And
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: the hardest scene to watch was Ghost fighting US Marshall
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: Williams played by Charlie Murphy. It was a tough that
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: was a tough scene to watch the timing of it
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: all due to Charlie Murphy's being deceased. It was tough,
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: and it looks like the my boss is uh might
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: be Tommy's daddy. We're gonna see you saw that the
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: mob boss and we can't stand Tyreek. Everybody hates Tyreek.
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: We'll be back. You're listening to the stew all right.
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: I want to ask you guys some questions. These are
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: some questions, uh, that we found on reddit dot com. Steve,
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: what job do you have zero experience in but are
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: confident you could do successfully? President of United States? I
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: could do it now. I used to didn't feel that
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: way when Obama was in. I didn't say got to
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: do it at all. But now keep going there right
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: off the top of my head. And then you didn't
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: even make that in a question. I love that this
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 1: is I don't need that in I bet you I
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: could do it. I can't do it no worse. Damn. Now,
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make some mistake, but I take a couple
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: of things I wouldn't have done, Like I wouldn't have
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: done the travel band. I ain't saying nothing about sexuality
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: in the military. Damn. A matter of fact, if you
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: want to come in here shooting come on, I don't
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: give a damn who in that kid? Yeah, I don't
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: making stronger. And then I wouldn't have asked myself to
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: come up there in January if I knew I was
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: gonna be all type of huncle terms and coons. You've
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: told you to stay. Hey, yeah, I'd have never asked
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: I asked to come up there if i'd have known
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: what y'all was gonna do to me. I just said
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 1: no to your self. I called the Obama transition team
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: and everybody and saying, hey, I'm not I thought I'm
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: being a good American. I got up, you ignorant slave
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: got through with me. Actually with damn what I come up.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: I didn't know you. I thought I was doing the
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 1: right thing. I really feel in my heart I did
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: the right thing. But you know, after that, knowing what
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: I know now, but you wouldn't asked you, I wouldn't
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: ask me to well, I was nephew cool after that.
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: I didn't ask a lot of people that come up there.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: They went to President man. Right. You know, people don't
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: even understand how God, you don't even understand he takes
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: what looks like your darkest moment and if you just
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: keep the faith. He got something. All things work for
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 1: the good. Who love the Lord God? No, I love
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 1: it now. I ain't perfect, but I do love him though,
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: and he keeps showing up in my life, man, just
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: like you do yours. I mean, look at all the
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: wrong stuff you've been done, and then look at where
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: you are at today. Now, technically we have no business
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 1: being here, Lord Lord, that's grace and we all benefit
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: from his grace. But we act like we don't. But
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: you know, didn't here come them hate us? That you
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 1: ain't got room for nothing in your life like they life?
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: Just like the crystal staircase. Right, all right, here's another question, Steve,
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: What item completely changed your way of life after you
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: found out about it? That's a good question for you.
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: Say it again? What item? What things completely change your
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 1: way of life after you found out about it? Well
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 1: it wouldn't, cavyall it? Okay? One more time? Asking okay,
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: what item completely change your way of life after you
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: found out about it? Like that? Tomas? Thomas? I didn't?
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: That was Thomas say, I'm sorry. There's now see if
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: you ever get some real cash, maybe we'll continue this
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: when we get back. You're listening to the string show.
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: All right, here we are back to the questions crazy
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: guys that I'm working with the time. Okay, So what
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 1: item completely changed your way of life after you found
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: out about it? When you say item, like like you know,
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 1: like a thing, like you know, for instance, you're into yachts,
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: you're into cars, you know, just things whatever, Yeah, whatever
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 1: change your life? Like, was it the what's the thing?
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 1: The alexa? Whatever it was vacationing. Vacation has changed my
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 1: life because you used to just go to Vegas. Yeah,
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: I didn't understand going to wed in the first year
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: we was married, Marge from timing, I want to go
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 1: to Paris. Well, hell, they we get that's in Vaga.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: They got over there. You ride on the Gundol. You
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: will just go to Vega. You go to Pyramis? Is there?
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: You go anywhere? What are you wanting to go somewhere else? Why?
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: Why did I marry her? Why do you always want
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: to go some damn where? All this is in Vegas?
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: But now vacationing has changed my life. Exposure to the world.
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 1: It is not just the United States, y'all. It is
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: some amazing places to see in this world. God did
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 1: just not create the United States of America. It ain't
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 1: Vegas in Hollywood in New York. It's the French riviera,
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: the Italian riviera. It's it's Sicily, it's the food. It's
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 1: the Marfi coast, It's Porto Fino. Africa's Dubai. It's Africa.
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: Safari's my recommendation. You can save your money and put
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 1: it together. You have to see the continent of Africa.
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 1: You gotta flyer in an airplane different and see the
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 1: vastness of it. It's just hours and hours and hours
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: and hours of flying and not see a building, wow,
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: but fly and see the animals and the vast ways.
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: It's so vast man, I mean, it's the most Africa
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: is the most amazing continent on the earth. So what
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 1: would be the first Like if you go over you
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 1: can't see it all at one time, but what will
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 1: be the first stop to me? It's Africa's huge. Can't
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 1: see at all. And you know, everybody in different countries
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: in Africa. I mean when you say you go to
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 1: South Africa, people in Angola and Nigeria, they go wild.
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 1: You got to come see us South that But Johannesburg,
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: what's so alarming for me to get off the plane
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 1: and see black people in charge of everything. Oh yeah, everything,
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what they see when you what they say
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: when you get off the black Oh man, he is here,
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: he is here. It was amazing being famous. There was
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: amazing in charge of everything from the highest office of
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 1: the presidency on down. Huh. I mean you see him
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: in charge of everything, and it's like the airport is
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 1: filled with people in charge. You go with your supervisor
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: e Africa. That I saw animal. We didn't know what
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: that was. It was it was animals. You ain't And
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: the size of him, a lion, is not what you
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: see on TV. Oh I bet that roar is something
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: I gotta works. Would nobody ain't sick? He died? Let
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 1: me take a chance. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, Now it's time for just one more thing.
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 1: Researchers have discovered that Americans are having less sex than
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: they were twenty years ago. I know, I am years ago. Yeah, Jack,
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: rabbit Jack, you were bringing it stick repeated, I'm talking
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: about he didn't that ramage? Sun j R. S everything up. Boy,
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  Speaker 1: You should have seen that. You should have seen well
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: to be exact. They say about nine fewer times per
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: year than they were in the nineteen nineties. Yeah, that's
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 1: what they're saying twenty years ago, nine fewer times a
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: week per year, but you were per week. I'm talking
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: about performances that that had no meaning. Is it a performance? Though?
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: We have to put on a show. What what did
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: you say? Wasn't in love? Which stage? You're just? You're
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 1: not on stage? I will sunds on stage. Rabbit, gentleman,
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: rabbit sunshine come bouncing out the bathroom with a bitter
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 1: with a white tail, rabbit dog, lights, lights, sunglasses and
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 1: a cottontail. One rabbit didn't kick the energe as the funny.
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: I have to wait. I was in the I had
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 1: a drum beIN and muscular, hard ass looking rabbit dog,
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 1: nothing but veins, muscling, ski is, six pack ass, muscles,
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: hard sim I'm strange. Everything but rain skin, just some
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: massive I ain't never had no real girl, but you
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 1: just saw vain man. I'd like to do yours. Nobody fat.
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 1: You have to bring him up. They had to bring
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 1: him out. Ladies and gentlemen coming into the room right now,
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 1: the holy rabbit that makes bugs. But it's not that funny.
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 1: The only rabbit that can tell Peter cotton hand on
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 1: go ahead, it's Jack rabbit. Fun Jack rabbit, back rabbit
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: came in with a pair of gold boots on purple sues. Shine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that rabbit, Johnson man telling you man, the only rabbit
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: to stone roch the rabbit girl dog Jack. Wow, I'm
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: getting ready to tell you right now. The researchers believe
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 1: that this is because Americans are getting married older and
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: starting their families later, so that it's called jack rabbit.
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: Ain't give a damn back beach. That's why I was.
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 1: I had nothing to lose. So if you're older, you know,
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 1: you might be more tired as a parent, which means
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: less sex. No, I had no money. I wasn't working
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: regular Yeah time time, okay. In technology, they say, is
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 1: also a major distraction in relationships. Now, hell yeah, I
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: didn't have nothing back no self, I have none but time.
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: You couldn't text me, You can't find me, all right,
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: you couldn't call me here. I am dang, I'm tech
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: with these folk glass sides. Everybody looking at me. I'm
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 1: trying to trying to do it, but the phone booth
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 1: I'm standing up the don't not it grew in here
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: the doors over there. I gotta do to my say
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 1: saying little man, what is you in that talking out
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: the grew in I'm should have been here, man, I don't. Yeah,
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 1: I got excited. Now I'm bad and back out to
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 1: do a little bit. Man, stupid. Oh man, I had
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 1: Troub'm trying to get it all in technology. Technology, None
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 1: of that not here. Know that that pay phones hard?
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 1: You have the phone saying you got long distance, you
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 1: got putting the quarter in there? Oh my god. You
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 1: got to hear up and say this. The greatest invention
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 1: they had was when they started dropping them pay phones
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 1: down where you could put up your car and then
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 1: let the window down. That was the greatest inventure. But
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