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LBJ NFL, Jazmine Sullivan, Sheryl Underwood, Carla's Reality Update and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: I shall will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now. One and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, Oh man, almost
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  Speaker 1: forgot I had one this morning. But I'm okay. I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you who I am in a little bit. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I get around. Man, it's so much. But man, good
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You know today I was having a conversation
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  Speaker 1: with my wife last night and we were talking about
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  Speaker 1: our plans. You know, we often sit down, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just like a married couple. I mean, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: know we're married. You know, we have children, we have aspirations,
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  Speaker 1: we have hopes, we I mean, we have things we want.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when you're married, you know, I mean it's
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  Speaker 1: important to sit with your partner. I'm not telling you anything.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know, it's common sense. Really, it's important to
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  Speaker 1: sit down with the person that you've chosen and decided
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  Speaker 1: to share your life with it and have multiple conversations
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  Speaker 1: on a lot of things. And we try to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that all of our conversations aren't always just business
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  Speaker 1: related and always kid related, you know, because that that
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  Speaker 1: that becomes it's a part of it. But it weighs
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  Speaker 1: so much on the marriage that because that that's the
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  Speaker 1: grunt work of being married. You know, your children, your family,
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  Speaker 1: your bills, your your mortgage, your your car notes. You
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  Speaker 1: know though, what's due, what's coming up, and if you're
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  Speaker 1: not careful, you'll you'll start that becomes the focal point
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  Speaker 1: of you all's conversation. And this woman or man or
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  Speaker 1: person that you've decided to have this life with, all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, they're an extension of your business, and
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  Speaker 1: you guys become business partners or whatever, and and and
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  Speaker 1: it just gets so anywhere. I'm just saying that that
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  Speaker 1: is important to sit down and have these conversations, but
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  Speaker 1: it's even more important to have the other conversation, you know.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's important with the person that you're planning on
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  Speaker 1: making the run to sit down and talk about other things,
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  Speaker 1: you know, on a more upbeat note. You know, we
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  Speaker 1: were having a conversation that she was reminding me of
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  Speaker 1: what she loved about me, and then I, in turn,
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  Speaker 1: was turned around telling her the things that I admired
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  Speaker 1: about her and loved about her. And we kind of
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  Speaker 1: have these all the time, you know, when we sit
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  Speaker 1: down and we talk about the things that we still
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  Speaker 1: enjoy about one another, or we may talk about some
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  Speaker 1: of the things that we miss in one another. But
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  Speaker 1: we constantly had these conversations about appreciation. You know, It's
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  Speaker 1: so important man, that the other person feels appreciated. So
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  Speaker 1: these things are important. But we got into the conversation
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  Speaker 1: deeper last night, and I was telling her about this
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  Speaker 1: idea that I had and that I wanted her to
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  Speaker 1: help me with and make a phone call for me
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  Speaker 1: because she knows these people and I was going to
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  Speaker 1: be doing this, and then my wife reminded me of
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  Speaker 1: something not once again, you know, as always, you know,
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  Speaker 1: when I'm talking to you, I just keep it as
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  Speaker 1: real as I can. I don't know the Bible inside out.
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  Speaker 1: I can't quote to you scriptures and tell you exactly
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  Speaker 1: where it is. I just you know, I heard her
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  Speaker 1: say it, but it kind of blew by me. I was,
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  Speaker 1: I was telling about something I wanted to make happen,
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  Speaker 1: and she reminded me that there's a scripture somewhere, and
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  Speaker 1: somebody emailed it to me to day. I'm sure, Well,
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  Speaker 1: the Bible reminds us not to be anxious for anything.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be anxious for something. And you know, it really
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  Speaker 1: mattered to me at that point yesterday that she bought
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  Speaker 1: this to my attention, because how many times I've been
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  Speaker 1: guilty of that in my past and I've learned better now,
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  Speaker 1: but every now and then I need to be reminded,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And I think what that what she was
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  Speaker 1: saying to me was, you know, I've gotten to a
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  Speaker 1: point in my life, and we all should get to
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  Speaker 1: a point where. You know, you've heard old people say this,
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  Speaker 1: if you're gonna pray about something, then don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 1: And if you're gonna worry about it, don't pray about it.
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  Speaker 1: Back to this, be anxious for nothing, don't. If you're
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  Speaker 1: going to him trust in God didn't do that, and
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  Speaker 1: trusting in him means sometimes you got to be patient.
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  Speaker 1: God has never been too late. You don't know the
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  Speaker 1: plan he has, You don't know. You don't really always
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  Speaker 1: know his will. You definitely don't know his route, his
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  Speaker 1: way of doing anything. So he's always on time. He's
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  Speaker 1: always been there on time for me. He's always been
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  Speaker 1: there on time for you. How many times have you
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  Speaker 1: thought it was over only to find out it's really
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  Speaker 1: just begun. How many times have people wrote you off,
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  Speaker 1: those of you who have lost jobs but you are
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  Speaker 1: still maintaining. But man, God has already began to turn
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  Speaker 1: around process for many of us. Some of us lost
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  Speaker 1: jobs and now have better jobs. Some of us lost
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  Speaker 1: jobs and now has forced us to rekindle that dream
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  Speaker 1: and that vision for business we had. It's sometimes the
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  Speaker 1: mishap is the thing you need to make something good happen.
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  Speaker 1: See a lot of times we get so comfortable in
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  Speaker 1: our life where we we get complacent, We just settling
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  Speaker 1: in and when this is it and this is what
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing. But in actuality, God has a tremendous amount
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  Speaker 1: of abundance for you. He has an amazing amount of things.
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  Speaker 1: He has all these boxes packaged up with your name
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  Speaker 1: on him that he's willing to ship if you would
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  Speaker 1: just align yourself with some of his wills so you
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  Speaker 1: could get some of these things. How many times have
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  Speaker 1: you thought it was over and it didn't really go over.
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  Speaker 1: How many times have you thought, well, this is it
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  Speaker 1: and it wasn't it at all. Well, how many times
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  Speaker 1: do you thought, well, it don't look like this gonna
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  Speaker 1: work out, and it didn't work out, but then something
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  Speaker 1: better came along? How many times has that happened? You've
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  Speaker 1: got to realize this, man. I was talking to a
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  Speaker 1: family who had got displaced from the Katrina thing that
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  Speaker 1: happened down there in New Orleans. And Man, when they said, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we got a displaced from Katrina, and I braced myself
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  Speaker 1: because the old wo was me, here comes this story.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta hear this, and I gotta be encouraging think
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  Speaker 1: of something. It was totally different. They totally totally blew
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  Speaker 1: me away. Man. The brother said, Man, is actually the
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  Speaker 1: best thing that ever happened to my family. And I
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  Speaker 1: went whoa And he said, yeah, man, he said, because
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  Speaker 1: what happened was, he said, I got settled in. He said, Plus,
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  Speaker 1: I was doing some things outside of my marriage down there,
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  Speaker 1: he said, I was doing some stuff in the streets.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't need to be doing. He said, Man, it
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  Speaker 1: all got washed away. We thought our life would never
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  Speaker 1: be the same. But he said, man, my life ain't
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  Speaker 1: need to be the same. He said. Man. Now we
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  Speaker 1: live up here in Texas, we got a house, don't
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  Speaker 1: know nobody, he says, I ain't got nobody I know
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  Speaker 1: to get into trouble with. He said, man, i'd't rediscovered
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  Speaker 1: my wife, how beautiful she really is, how much my
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  Speaker 1: family really was counting on me. And he said, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's straightened me up. Man, he says, so I gotta
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  Speaker 1: tell you, Steve, it was the best thing that ever
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  Speaker 1: happened to me. Now that's not always the case, but
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  Speaker 1: it's how you look at a situation. But just don't
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  Speaker 1: be anxious for anything, because God got a fix for
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  Speaker 1: you if you just let him work. So just stay
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  Speaker 1: on course, stay focused, don't lose faith, don't be anxious. Man,
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  Speaker 1: just just stay in the wheel. Let God work with you.
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  Speaker 1: He got some great stuff in store for you. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening show, ladies, and gentleman wants to Parliament that dreary
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  Speaker 1: as I parted week and really puzzled by a single query.
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  Speaker 1: I will not do that to you today because that
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  Speaker 1: would depress one of the members of this team. So
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  Speaker 1: I will start over by saying, I love you all,
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you all. I admire people who are skilled.
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  Speaker 1: I admire people who are driven. I admire people who
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  Speaker 1: are loving and kind. I admire people who aspire to
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  Speaker 1: be more than what they are. That is a description
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  Speaker 1: of people I admire. I also admire people who are
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  Speaker 1: carrying dary. I admire people who stretch themselves beyond the
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  Speaker 1: level of the comfort zone. I admire people who have
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  Speaker 1: been an example to me of what manhood, fatherhood, and
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  Speaker 1: brotherhood should be about. Those other people I admire. Take
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  Speaker 1: some time out today and say thank you to those
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  Speaker 1: people who have helped you become who you are today,
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  Speaker 1: and associate yourself only with those who you aspire to
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  Speaker 1: be like ladies and gentlemen. That's how I decided to
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  Speaker 1: start to show this morning. How you wanted to show
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  Speaker 1: to get started this morning. I'm not really sure that's
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  Speaker 1: no business of mine, because only one person starts to
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  Speaker 1: show every day, and that is more in case you
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  Speaker 1: don't know, that's French, yell bi lingual college and try liness.
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  Speaker 1: You hear me English, French and span Ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Struck Barry boy, will be better boy, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: step On, good morning, Yeah, calling for real, see that
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  Speaker 1: And well everybody, good sir, we are here. A friend
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  Speaker 1: of mine stopped by yesterday. I very rarely get people
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  Speaker 1: who stopped by. He called me at all about eleven
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  Speaker 1: am and said, hey, man, I'm gonna stop by. I said, okay, cool,
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  Speaker 1: come on, it's good to see him yesterday. Had a
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  Speaker 1: great time. You've never heard me say that. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: you're not a stop by the house kind of person.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I right now, I don't have one. You
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  Speaker 1: can stop by, adobel, So okay, I was in the neighborhood.
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  Speaker 1: Can't say it ain't so. Yeah, I had a really
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  Speaker 1: good time. Would you hear folk? Who exactly all of it?
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was at a different country when I'm
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  Speaker 1: man who live here? All right, Well, I'm glad you
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  Speaker 1: had company. Steve coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 1: the clo. We know who that is, the Chief Love Officer,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This one clo is from Elaine in Philly.
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  Speaker 1: Elaine writes, I am a mature woman in my husband
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  Speaker 1: and I are separated, so I started dating again. I'm
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  Speaker 1: having a great time going on dates and my husband
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  Speaker 1: has a problem with me because we live in a
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  Speaker 1: close knit suburb. But get this, We've been separated for
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  Speaker 1: six years and he won't entertain any conversation about divorce.
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  Speaker 1: He says he's trying to help me save my reputation.
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  Speaker 1: But I believe it's his ego that doesn't want me
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  Speaker 1: dating anyone else. I want to file for divorce so
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  Speaker 1: I can be free of him. Why is he hanging
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  Speaker 1: on to me? Why you letting you hang on? You
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  Speaker 1: don't need an agreement to get a divorce, You just
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  Speaker 1: need a divorce. Six years separated, living in a close
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  Speaker 1: knit community, you're dating and he talked about he trying
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  Speaker 1: to save your reputation more, you don't want me right
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  Speaker 1: and what is the reason for the separation? Always remember that, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to save your reputation. It's your ego, that's
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  Speaker 1: all it is. Why are you allowing this to happen?
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  Speaker 1: Go on about your business? You happy, go file on
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  Speaker 1: your own yet Now, a couple of telltale things in
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  Speaker 1: this set. I'm mature, I'm dating, and we live in
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  Speaker 1: a close knit community. This sounds like a senior citizen holder.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I pulled up out of that. So what
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  Speaker 1: they can date? Right? Yeah? A suburbs. It's a suburbs. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he got retirement home out of that. Mature in the suburb,
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  Speaker 1: close knit suburbs. Don't try to throw me off with
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  Speaker 1: suburbs in the middle of the town, ain't it. I'm just,
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  Speaker 1: you know, showing you how I think you know you
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  Speaker 1: inside the mind? All right? Alicia moving on in Gary, Indiana, says,
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  Speaker 1: my forty five year old husban been his overweight and
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  Speaker 1: he hides food and snacks from me in the house.
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  Speaker 1: Since the pandemic, we've both been watching our weight and
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  Speaker 1: he stopped working out with me after he sprained his wrist.
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  Speaker 1: I've given him an ultimatum to either get back in
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  Speaker 1: the gym or we're not having sex anymore. He's more
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  Speaker 1: content with his cupcakes than with my body. If this
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  Speaker 1: is sign of a bigger problem in our marriage, or
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  Speaker 1: is he just addicted to food? Well, we got a
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  Speaker 1: couple of things going on. Yeah, I think he is
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  Speaker 1: addicted to food. I'm a little bit confused where you
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  Speaker 1: said doing the pandemic. Y'all was watching y'all's weight. I
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  Speaker 1: guess he was on. He is close enough that he
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  Speaker 1: was enjoying the movement. So obviously as he was watching
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  Speaker 1: his weight, he loved the expansion that was going on.
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  Speaker 1: The excuse for not working out was I hurt my wrist.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell walking got to do
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  Speaker 1: with your damn now had food. That's the fat boy syndrome. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's the fat boy syndrome. Now let's talk about this.
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  Speaker 1: You told him that you weren't gonna have sex with him, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and that ain't move the needle. He chose the cupcake
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  Speaker 1: over you. He might like cupcakes better than he liked cookies. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: he like cupcakes better he liked cookie. Let's church say, hey,
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  Speaker 1: hey man, let's just move on. Okay, Malika and Richmond says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight, my fiance is twenty nine years old.
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  Speaker 1: I was home Friday night, scrolling on Instagram, and I
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  Speaker 1: saw a live video from a jazz concert at the
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  Speaker 1: park and my fiance was in a tent with a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of people, male and female, popping bottles um. He
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  Speaker 1: told me he was going to hang out with the guys,
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  Speaker 1: and I trusted him. I called to let him know
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  Speaker 1: that I saw him and that I was hurt because
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  Speaker 1: he didn't invite me. He said it was his guy's
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  Speaker 1: night out. Uncle, Steve, do guys go to jazz concerts together?
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  Speaker 1: Or is he up to something? Izz killed the boy.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never been to a concert with a dude.
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  Speaker 1: Well one time I did. Ain't gonna like date night.
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  Speaker 1: Well here's what happened. We was in Vegas. Sean Day
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  Speaker 1: was performing in Vegas, so she invited us to the
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  Speaker 1: show and gave us front row tickets. In Vegas, Me, Boomerang,
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  Speaker 1: JT and another brother walked down the aisle at the
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  Speaker 1: Sea Day Country all the way to the front. Now
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  Speaker 1: we got on big as hat and we sat out
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  Speaker 1: on that front rowand and you to have no idea
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  Speaker 1: how I was feeling as I was walking. Can pass
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  Speaker 1: all our faith? Steve Harvey, Steve Harvey, What's up. What's up?
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  Speaker 1: It was so many, you know, groups of women and
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  Speaker 1: then just men and women, and I felt so damn
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  Speaker 1: the place. I didn't even wait on shot day to
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  Speaker 1: come out. It was not the look I wanted because
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  Speaker 1: you were with a group of guys. It was some
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  Speaker 1: women do it all the time, groups of dude sitting
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  Speaker 1: up on the front row listening to day Crime and
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  Speaker 1: y'all all see a crime. Your love is king King,
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  Speaker 1: And I was one of the kings of comedy. You know,
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  Speaker 1: this is just whole look, ain't even you know? And
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  Speaker 1: were they disappointed when you wanted to get out? Hell no,
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  Speaker 1: they all felt the same thing. Listen, man, you know
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  Speaker 1: what we look like walking down? Did you have to
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  Speaker 1: take your hats off? So the people in the middle,
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  Speaker 1: he'll no stronger than pride. Baby, get up out of here,
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  Speaker 1: you got get up. I hate to be sitting behind y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Ye es, I said that wasn't a good look. So
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  Speaker 1: now me and don't go to jazz concerts by itself.
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  Speaker 1: So what is up? Well, he ain't really up to nothing.
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  Speaker 1: He just got caught in the situation, you know, with
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  Speaker 1: females popping bottles. He's not up to nothing. He got
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  Speaker 1: caught up in something. But it all it was was
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  Speaker 1: he was in the tent popping bottles. That's all it was,
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  Speaker 1: and that's it. Don't make no more of it that
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  Speaker 1: it is. But you have every right to wonder why
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  Speaker 1: you wasn't invited to the jazz club, because dudes don't
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  Speaker 1: go to jazz clubs by they sail. We gotta move on.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up, the nephew would run that break back right
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  Speaker 1: snapped on me? I mean what I mean she My
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  Speaker 1: wife ain't crazy. She don't just snap on me. She might,
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  Speaker 1: you know, try to check me or say something. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. She's just gonna snap on me
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  Speaker 1: in probably so your wife your so your wife has
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  Speaker 1: tried to check him, It's what you're saying. May not
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  Speaker 1: check me per se. I mean she might. She might
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  Speaker 1: not like some mom doing and might say something about it.
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  Speaker 1: But so basically your wife is not in her place
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  Speaker 1: where she needs to be old. I mean what you
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  Speaker 1: mean plan I mean she might say something, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I might be doing something more, you know,
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  Speaker 1: might be with my boys and might get out of
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  Speaker 1: control a little bit. She might just say something at
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  Speaker 1: the time, but she don't just try to all out
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  Speaker 1: check nobody. You know what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Let me ask you this one.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever just had some plans with your guys
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: We're gonna go out, and had to change your plans because, um,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: your wife. Well, I mean, if like I'm just coming
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: about hanging out and I ain't let her know or something.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: She might you know, be like, well, baby already had playing,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: you know, can you stay home with the boys or something?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean nothing on the regular. You
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  Speaker 1: know how I usually do what I want to do.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Seems like denial. Okay, here's another one, sir, well, no, listen, listen,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: hear me out. Now, let me ask you this um
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: has your wife. Let's say, back when Michael Jordan was
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: playing basketball, did you ever miss a playoff game on
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: television because your wife wanted to watch something else. I mean,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: we got two TVs in my house, man, I wish No.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I don't even get down. I mean I might have
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: to watch the little TV, okay, but I mean I
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: usually watch it on the big shaly. Yeah. But but
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: you doing You've been pushed to watching the smaller television. No,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't push to do nothing. Man. What I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to tell you is, I mean we compromise. We do
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: fifty fifty in my house. I mean, she might get
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: the big TV to watch her stories or something, and
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I just had to go watch the little TV. Little TV.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Do go out of here once to see? We got
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: so cool with that though I'm cool with that. You're
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: here with that, so you're you're actually the one that's programmed.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: And you ain't nothing wrong with my wife, ain't nothing
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: wrong with within my family? You know, I honderstand Well,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: let me the reason why I'm asking you these particular
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: questions is because someone has actually let me know the
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: problems that are at hand in your household. Let me
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: ask you. I got one question for you. Here's what
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I want to ask you. Has your wife ever cussed
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you out at a family cookout? Hey? Man, hold on, man,
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  Speaker 1: don't make me be your guinea pig. Don't don't start
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  Speaker 1: out calling me trying to get you know, referral to
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  Speaker 1: the clientele or whatever it is you trying to do. Man,
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• 25:56
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• 25:59
  Speaker 1: ALSOLD okay, Well, last thing I want to ask you,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: and this is the last question I have for youna,
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  Speaker 1: make it, make this the last I want to straight up. Okay,
• 26:07
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  Speaker 1: Or does she buy the company? You know what? Man?
• 26:12
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  Speaker 1: house no more? And whatever put you up to this?
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Whoever give you my number? Talk about my wife? Checked
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  Speaker 1: me or got me under control? Got me on lock man?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: You tell him too, don't call me no more? Are
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: you are you? Are you in denying dog? Noble house?
• 26:33
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• 26:49
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• 26:56
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you're calling my house, I'm minding my
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: and as you worrying about who you're watching what TV
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: in my house and my wife checking me in public?
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I want man, Hey, doll, look, I'm telling you, mister,
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  Speaker 1: don't you want to watch the big television? Big TV? Man?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with the TV I got. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's in my room. I gonna get across
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  Speaker 1: the bed, watch whatever I want to whenever I want
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  Speaker 1: to do. Don't you want to be able to go
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: out with the boys when you went? I want my partners, doll,
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  Speaker 1: not a fact you need to get partners? You call
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  Speaker 1: asking dumb. Listen what you want to do to me
• 27:29
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  Speaker 1: you got to Damn, I'm gonna block what's your phone number? Man?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Give me something, tell me where to find you. Why
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: are you in denial? Denial? I'm gonna tell you what's
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  Speaker 1: you need to get your wife checked in the wife
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• 27:53
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• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Listen to me, sir, yeah, what what? What's his nephew
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• 28:41
  Speaker 1: All right, you might think, but no, I'm I can
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• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour Entertainment News.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steven show Bill Cosby
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: is speaking out um he thinks R. Kelly got a
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: raw deal. Cosby, who was just recently released from prison himself,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: believes that Robert Robert got a bad deal when he
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: was found guilty in his federal sex crimes case. This week.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Cosby spokesperson Andrew Wyatt says that Cosby said the guy
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: was railroaded speaking of R. Kelly, and he blames famous
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: women's civil rights a journey Gloria Alread and systemic racism.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Alread represented alleged victims in both Cosby and Kelly's cases.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Kelly is facing ten years to life when he gets sentenced.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: In may Or, Kelly tweeted a statement he said to
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: all my fans and supporters, I love you all and
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: thank you for all the support. Today's verdict was disappointing,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: and I will continue to prove my innocence and fight
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: for my freedom. Hashtag not guilty what Well, here's here's
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: a problem with Cosby's statement. I mean he mentored me,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I mean he taught me a lot. So I'm speaking
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: from a standpoint of all soul just hearing these statements.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: When you say that R. Kelly was railroaded and given
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: a bad deal, you have to be careful with that statement,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: because I can assure you something has happened. And when
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: you say that R. Kelly was railroaded and given a
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: bad deal, you must take into consideration that there are
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: some victims here, and you have no excuse when we
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: are talking about children. Look, if two adults are consenting,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: that ain't none of them my business. That shouldn't be
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: none of our business. But you can't get consent from
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: a miner because a miner doesn't have the mental capability
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: of processing everything that you're presenting to them in such
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: an old, mature way in their young, underdeveloped mind. And
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: we all know this as a fact. I just think
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: he's got to be very careful about that man, because
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: you can't say that Robert was given a bum deal
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: and a bad rap and ignored the bum deal and
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: a bad rap to these girls got stove And look,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I got what you're saying about this attorney, And that
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: was something that happened in the cause Be trial that
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: caused this judge to come in. That's real, that really
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: happened but you can't apply that peanut butter to his bread.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: You can't put that on him. You know, you cannot
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: ignore the victims in this case, and it's too many. Yeah,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: they did a whole movie about it, Surviving document a documentary.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: It was a victim after victim over repeated behavior, so
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: the same kind of behavior. They did the same thing
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: to all of these women. Yeah, justice for the victim
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: LA girls. You know we already said in the media. However,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: you know that we feel that people don't care about
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  Speaker 1: what happened to young black women and girls. So justice
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: for them. And his statement R Kelly with the whole
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: innocent innocence I'm still still be quiet, sir, Yes, innocence.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: You are you kidding me? You have more trials to
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: go Chicago, This isn't over there, and ten years to
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: life in this particular trial, he's got more, but he
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: got to go two more times. Ye, So what does
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: that tell you, Tommy? Repeated behavior in different parts of
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: the country over see. Look, man, I know that attorneys
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: to pile on I get that, I know attorneys to
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: blost to that case. I know prosecutors have done some
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: stuff to us in terms of systemic racism since we
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: got here, we all are very familiar with that. But
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: you can't give him enough real evidence to pile on
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: the other evidence. Come on, you gave him too much
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: real stuff. We got films. We have a woman this
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: is going to get her mama out of a dough,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: and it's filmed and the girl wouldn't come out the
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: dough and she talking to her mom in the hallway.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: That wasn't That wasn't reality TV. That was a documentary. Yeah,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: So to say he was railroaded Bill Cosby, Please, hey,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: when when R. Kelly did the interview with Gail King
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: and when them two young girls sat down and R.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Kelly would in the hallway clearing his throat, that was
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: controllers and don't say and then the girls came to
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: court and testified to that it was It's like, ojay,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: he wouldn't sit down and be quiet. Oh he's gonna
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: say something tomorrow. Trust he's gonna say something to mow. Yeah,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: but you still won't shut up, that's right. And can't
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: say something about Andrew Wyatt his person attorney. Are you
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: for real or dog? You've got to be able to
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: say to your client, Hey, man, I don't think this
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: is smart for us to do this at this time. Well,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: you're Bill Coffee's representative. You have to be able to
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: say that. Somebody got to be in your circle to say, Yo, man,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: you find to say what, Well, we don't know that.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: He didn't say it, and Cosby said what he said anyway, No, No,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Cosby said this. Yeah, but Andrew Wyott, the attorney, the spokesperson,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: somebody in your camp gotta be able to say, dog,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you find to say what. But what I'm saying is
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: we don't know that. They didn't come mister Cosby to
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: beat I know that, but he stid The quote came
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: from Andrew Wyatt, and somebody got to say, man, we're
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: not doing that. Yeah. I'm telling you, when you are,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: when you're famous, you gotta have people around you, man,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: that tell you the truth. If you don't, you're gonna
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: let your fame, your ego getting your damn way. Like
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: that's what's happening here. All right, We're gonna move on.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Coming up for twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: sports talk with Junior Lebron James news Hunt. Junior, we'll
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  Speaker 1: talk about it right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, guys, brace yourselves because Junior is
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: in the building. Not with the poem, sadly, but he
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: is here at Sports Talk, which you got Junior okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: doing a recent interview on the Many Brothers simul care
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  Speaker 1: my man, Lebron James says he was offered two NFL
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  Speaker 1: Cowboys owner Jerry Jones himself. Take a listen, Jerry Jones
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: offered me a contract. Also. Pete Carroll did as well
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: in Seattle during our lockout time, and it definitely got
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  Speaker 1: my blood flowing again, got my mind racing again thinking
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  Speaker 1: about the game of football, you know, being out there
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  Speaker 1: on Sundays. But you know we're able to get a
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  Speaker 1: deal done in the NBA and I was back on
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: the court no time, but I definitely thought about it.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I still got the jersey too that Jerry Andy Carroll
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: sent me from twenty eleven. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Lebron James
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: gonna play in an NFL. Who was this is that?
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: When he played tight end? How big kids? You can't
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: wait till you in your thirties, Gonna put them showing
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: the paths out there with them boys out there. That's
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: a whole another sport. When you play the high school too, though,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: didn't high school. I played in high school time in
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: your right time. He's a big boy. He could take
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: a hit one time. See when you were in high school.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: I saw the footage of him in high school, the
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  Speaker 1: biggest one out there. You're not fit to be the
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: biggest one out here in the NFL. No, no, no, no, no.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: They got you. They got a lot of you out there,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: and they fast fast, dog. It's physical. It's physical. Yeah.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: The linebacker that's covering you run the same speed you do. Hello,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I got my money on Lebron like I ain't got
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: a quarter anymore, splashed all over that damn. One of
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: the greatest basketball players. He will be on the Mount
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Rushmore or basketball. But in taotball, you go over the
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: middle one time and watch what they do. You do
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: them safeties and stuff. Man, Lebron just ain't what. I
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: don't care. Who sent you a jersey? Not playing? I
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: sent you jersey. Ain't seen you know, patch, didn't they
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: It's the pads, And it's very different in football than basketball.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: You know, going across the lane in basketball, it ain't
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: be five. It's eleven out here. Football is a collision sport. Yeah,
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: also Lebron, he also made news man. Lebron revealed that
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: he did get the COVID nineteen vaccine and said it
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: was the best choice for him and his family. So,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: you know, Broun, but he's not encouraging anyone else to. Yeah, well,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you know Wiggins and beal ass Is gonna get this
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: vaccine and you're not gonna be playing. And Kyrie Irving
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: with this foolishness talking about he just won't play no
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: home games. He's another one. Somebody need to sit his
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: ass down, and you stopped talking. We're moving on. Coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour tomorrow kicks
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. In
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  Speaker 1: twenty twenty, breast cancer was the most commonly diagnosed cancer worldwide,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: while breast cancer screenings dropped drastically, Black women are at
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Jasmine. We know that you're very
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  Speaker 1: passionate about breast cancer awareness. You reveal last year that
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  Speaker 1: your mom battled inflammatory breast cancer for two years. So
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  Speaker 1: how's your mom's health. My mom is doing so much better.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we're taking it one day at a time.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like breast cancer you always you can never
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  Speaker 1: get too confident because you know you never know how
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  Speaker 1: things are going to end up. And I want to
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  Speaker 1: their diagnosis right now or they're getting you know, reoccurring diagnosis.
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  Speaker 1: So but she's doing really well. Early detection is the key. Yes,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: it is definitely the early detection is key, and especially
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  Speaker 1: for Black women. With these numbers, black women are approximately
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: forty percent more likely to die of breast cancer. Just
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: let's talk more about more than just words? Uh, this
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: initiative give us a quick overview of more than just words. Yeah. So,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: More than just words is a Camp Pain partner with
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: Nive artists that's committed to promote health equity and breast
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: cancer and really just urge Black women to get mamograms
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: and get screenings and to take care of themselves. And
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: I'm passionate obviously because my mother was diagnosed a couple
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: of years ago, but also because I love Black women
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: and I think that we are the best things since
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: life's bread and we have love you. I guess so, Jasmine,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: how is more than just words addressing this? Because this
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: is action? So can you talk a little bit about
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: that please? Yeah? So, more than just words is um
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: campaigning with the leading hosts experts just about continuing these
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: conversations talking to our family members, talking to our mothers
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: and our aunties and our grandmas, because I feel like
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: as a Black community, we don't talk a lot about health,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: and we have to because you have to know where
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: you're coming from. You don't know where you're going. Absolutely,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I think too in our community black women, the generations.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: You know, you talked about your grandma's and your untie's, Jasmine,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: and I think for us we get as black women,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: we put everyone else's needs before ourselves. Yeah. So one
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: way they can find out information is by going to
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: www dot more than just words dot us. I found
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: out so much information that I didn't know even with
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: experiencing it with my mother, I didn't know a lot
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: about all these statistics that I've learned on the website.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: So definitely go there and like we said, just continue
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: to have these conversations. One more time, go to more
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: than just words dot us, more than just words dot
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: us to find out more. Jasmine Sullivan has been our
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: special guests. We love you and continued success to you.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys for having me. I appreciate it. Coming
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: up next, the nephew is here with the prank phone call.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show coming up at the top of
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject he's not equipped to handle me.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: All right. We'll get into that in just a little bit.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: All right, he's not equipped to handle me. Right now,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: the nephew is here to handle this prank phone call
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: for us? What you got for us? Nas, Yo drunk husband? Yeah, yo, drunk?
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: All right, let's go straight to it, yo drunk us.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: But let's right Hello, you gotta hold on an okay,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: all right, I got your phone. I'll give your wife
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: a call. Hello, Hello, a right right now. You're inebriating, sir, okay,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: right now, to be taking you in, but I'm not
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: gonna do that. You let me. I'm able to come
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: and pick you off. I'll let her come get you,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: all right, all I'll ride. It's gonna office. The bride's
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: gonna put you in his squad call. I'm gonna call
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: your wife. I've got the phone, dolling now all right, okay, Hello, Hello?
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Who is who am I foosh with? Please? Who is it?
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: This is Officer Daniels Offer Daniel you just called from.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: This is my husband number? Who is who is officer.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Then I am Officer Daniels Many. Your husband's actually been
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: pulled over and he's been uh, actually he's in another
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: officer's car. He's he's a little bit of kneebriated here
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: and we're trying to see about getting him picked up.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I'm trying my best not to take him in today,
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: so I'm trying to be a good Samaritan. I'm trying
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: to get someone to come and pick him up. Hold on,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, back up, back up. You got
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: my husband? Uh what I got here on the driver's
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: license is Kenny Kenny, and he's with you now. He's
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: actually an Officer Brian's squad car right now. So he
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: was actually bobbing and weaving out on the road and
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: we pulled him over. He's not creating any problems. The
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: young lady wasn't creating any problems. So what we're trying,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is get somebody to come
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: and pick him up. You don't have my husband because
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: my husband's didn't work, so he can't be in the
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: officer Brian in her car. And did you say tim again,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: did you say somebody's with Kennedy? That was a young
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: lady in the car. Man, we're actually letting her go
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: because she's not inebriated from a look though at somebody.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: She's calling somebody to pick her up. Now, man, No,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Kenny, and I know that dirty
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: song gotten a back in my car. That's my car.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: And you said that he had Timidus officer Temmidus look
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: at that and telling what she looked like. If that'd
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: not be that, that'd not be the one I think
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: she I have no idea. Excuse me, ma'am. I know
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: about it in my cause he's supposed to be working.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Jack. Jasmine, okay, you're Jasmine? Okay, no, just
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: we'll talk to your moment. Yea, her name is Jasmine.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure who she is, but keep them keep it, yeah,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: holding that time I get there. I'm on my way.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: I'm on my way right now. Hey, Bridget, I want
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: you to watch these children from the time I get back.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: I'm going to see if I can give me a
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: ride up to the truck stop and I'll be back
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: in a minute. Hello. Yeah, Hello, I'm here. Yeah, I'm here.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: I'm here. Okay, man, listen, I can't I can't stay
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: here too much longer. I can. I can say maybe
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: another fifteen twenty minutes. Somebody come to get the car,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: and but I gotta keep moving here. I'm just trying
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: to do another because I'm all my way. I'm all
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: my way. I'm all my way. I got my purse
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: in my hand. I'm all my way to that fuck stop,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: please don't take that nowhere, because I got something for
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: his And when I get there, I hope like hell,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: and ain't they they's been calling to with me all
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: through the night. Leave for the attack. Get there because
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: I got some things that I need to take care of.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: This thing. Don't move the squad car to I get there.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I'm all wait right now, right now, I be there
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: in a minute. I well, that took my time picked
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: up there. To date, we have had arguments over this.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: It better not do that. If better not, I bet you,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: If bet not be her, it better not be here.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I'm all my way. I'll be there in a minute.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: I be there. I get them. Okay. Well, now here's
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: a guy that was with Kenny. Let me close not
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: she can hear me better? Man. Here was another gentleman
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: that was in the back seat of the car that
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: was riding with Kenny and the young lady. I don't
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: give it. I know other rider with Kenny. Just make
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: sure he's there when I get there. Okay, okay, Now
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: do you know who this other gentleman? Do you know
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy? I don't care, but I know Nephew Tommy.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy sent to you. This is Nephew Tommy from
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: the Steve waved morning, your baby. Your husband Kenny got
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: me to Frank Fall called you man, who got if
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: you've got? You ain't kidding because just going to happen
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: to kennon next you time to was gonna go down
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: to bank Head in two eight to five and ten.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: When he gets home, he's still on. Oh my god,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: you aren't. Oh my gosh. Now I'm gonna check what
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: you at times? Oh man, he told me. He said, man,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: my wife don't play, he said, my man to pray
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: my wife. You aren't said, I'm good time, I'm dood.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I'm doing what career though he didn't work. We don't.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: He didn't work. Hen't work here work? He in your
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: call at work? He worked. You're Benn, be it worse, Hey, baby,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: tell me is what's the baddest radio show in the land,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Steve Holling Marty Show. I don't know. I think I
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: think she don't want. I think she kennon behind before.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. I don't give in the back seat,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: bet not be. You ain't got in the back seat
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: because he had worked. Man is your husband, Kenny? Yeah,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: it was a young lady with him. We let her go.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute, back up.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: What was her name? It bet not be who I
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: think it is. It might not be the car. We
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: didn't had conversations about her. I know he ain't get
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: up in my car. I'd be right down there. I'll
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: be down there a minute. Stay with the man. But
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: if you're looking for love, I got it for you.
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• 51:08
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• 51:18
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• 53:06
  Speaker 1: All right, thank enoph you coming up. Strawberry Letters. Subject
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: he's not equipped to handle me. We'll get into it
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
• 53:19
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• 53:24
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• 53:27
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• 53:31
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• 53:33
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• 53:36
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• 53:39
  Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject,
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: He's not equipped to handle me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: am married to a man that was my king, and
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: he messed it all up by having a female best friend.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: He didn't have a physical affair with her, but he
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: had an emotional one, and he shared intimate details of
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: our marriage, good and bad. Then he encouraged her to
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: call me and have a talk with me about how
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: unhappy he is in our marriage. When she called, I
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: got so teed off that I invited her over. I
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: made sure my husband wasn't home so I could drag
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: her around my house by her dirty wig. She knew
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: that I was crazy, so luckily for her, she brought
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: her sister with her. There is no way I could
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: handle them both. So I sat in my own house
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: and listened to this woman tell me was lacking in
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: my marriage and what irritates my husband. She went on
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: and on for a few minutes, and her sister finally
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: broke her silence and told her own sister that she
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: had a lot of nerve to come up in my
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: house to do to do that, and she ushered her
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: out of my house. I yelled to the woman that
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I was still going to beat her tale if I
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: see her out. My husband got wind of what has
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: so called, but he did and he didn't come home.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: He texted and said he'd give me a day or
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: two to cool off. In the meantime, I sent a
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: group text to three of his closest friends with a
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: video of how he's not equipped to deal with me
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: in the bedroom. In the video, he wasn't able to
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: perform and he was getting frustrated because his little man
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: kept flopping around his friends all set, all sent laughing emojis,
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: and said he'll never live this one down. I got revenge,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: so I'm cool. But he's furious and claims he had
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: good intentions. He's not equipped to handle me in or
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: out of the bedroom, and he shouldn't have told our business.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: Are we headed for divorce? Or can we move past this?
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Woo listen. I think if you get past this, it
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: will be a miracle from God. Okay, it will be
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: a miracle from God. You already know two wrongs don't
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: make a right, and they absolutely do not. But what
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: you did was so wrong and it was pretty much unforgivable.
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, what he did was horrible too. I'm not
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: letting him off the hook at all. He should not
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: have shared your intimate details, none of that. Your husband
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: was wrong to blast all that to his bestie. But
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: at least all he did was run his mouth. You
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: You disgraced and humiliated him by showing his private parts
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: to his boys. I just don't see how there's any
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: coming back from that or his little man. I said
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: private parts, but you called it his little man. Huh.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: The only one who seems to have any sense in
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: this whole letter is your husband's friend's sister, who checked
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: her sister for being at your house and for disrespecting you,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: and then ushering here, ushering her up out of your
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: house again. I don't know how you come back from
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: something like this unless the Lord himself intervened. Otherwise. I
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: think you guys are done and your marriage is over. Steve.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: I think it's something wrong with every single person in
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: this letter, every single person in this letter, and I'll
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: tell you why, and I don't I don't know what.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: This ain't gonna He's not equipped to handle me. This
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: woman writes in says she's married to a man that
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: was my king right there. If this was your king,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: and this is who you chose to marry, and this
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: is how he is, and then this is how you
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: treated him. I showed would hate to be your slave
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: because this is how you treat the king. Lord ha mercy.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: This letter is doomed from the get go, y'all, but
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: he messed it all up. By having a female best friend. Now,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: he didn't have the physical affair with him, but he's emotional.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: This fool. He shared intimate details of our marriage. He
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: didn't say that. I'm saying that. He shared intimate details
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: about marriage, good and bad. Then he encouraged her to
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: call me and have a talk with me about how
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: unhappy is in our marriage. Okay, how stupid is your king?
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: How stupid is your king? Hate Fellas? What woman would
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: you have call your wife to tell your wife what's
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: wrong with her and how unhappy you are in your marriage?
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: What man listening to this show would dude that stupid
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: ass move like? I thought? Nobody? Okay? Cool? What she called?
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I was so teed off that I invited over. I
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: made sure my husband wasn't home so I could drag
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: around my house by her dirty wig. She knew I
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: was crazy, so luckily for her, she brought her sister
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: with her. Wow, now this is kind of crazy. What
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: a housewife show? Is this? Because you going over another
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: woman house to sit her down to tell her about
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with her in her marriage. There's no she
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: bought her sister with her. Luckily for her, she bought
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: her sister women, and there was no way I can
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: handle them both, so I said in my own house,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: and I listened to this woman tell me what's lacking
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: in my marriage and irritates my husband. She went on
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: and on for a few minutes, and then her sister
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: broke her silence. Her own sister said she had a
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: lot of nerve to come to my house and ushered
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: her out of my house. But as something wrong with
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: your sister too, though, because I wouldn't went over that
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: with you in the first place. Wait a minute, hold up, sister,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: you cann't do what you finn't go over his house
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: and tell her what's wrong with them? No, we not
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: once again. You need some better people around you, like
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: so we'll not come back. I'll tell you the rest
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: of them. All right, we'll have part two if Steve's
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after subject He's
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: not equipped to handle me, we'll get into it right
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, let's
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject he is not equipped
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: to handle me. We didn't got to that part yet.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: Woman married to a man, she says, her keen, but
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: he messed it all up by having a female friend.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: This dude has been telling this female friend everything about
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: his marriage, good and bad, and then asked the female
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: friend of his to go and talk to his wife
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: for him and tell her what she's unhappy with in
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: her marriage. This dumb woman calls up this man's wife
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: arranges to meet with her, but she knowed a woman crazy,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: so she gets her sister to go over that with her.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: She gets over to the house proceeds to tell of
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: the woman was wrong in her marriage, until her sister
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: couldn't take it no more and told her you was
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: wrong for coming over here, coming up in this house
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: and ushered her out the house. I yelled to the
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: woman that I was still gonna beat the tail when
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: I see her out. Okay, this one who is mess
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: right here? See you out where. My husband got well
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: into what his so called buddy, this female friend did,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: and he didn't come home. And he texts and said
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: he give me a day or two. The cool law
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: that's because he know how crazy his wife is. He'd
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: know if I go in here now, all hell gonna
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: break loose. This is how crazy this woman is. But
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, really, this sister right, yeah, well, you come
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: up in my house talking to me about me and
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: my man. I mean, she bosts have a problem. But
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: the gall of this stupid so called best friend to
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: go to this woman's house. But then the utter stupidity
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: of the husband for asking her to go talk to
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: his wife. It's so many fools in this letter. I
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: don't even know where to go. Calm down, Stephen. Now
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: here's where the letter take a dog turn. In the meantime,
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: I sent him a group texting three of his closest
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: friends with a video of how he's not equipped to
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: deal with me in the bedroom. In the video, he
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't able to perform, and he was getting frustrated because
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: his little man kept flopping around. His friends all sent
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: laughing emojis and said he'll never live this down. I
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: got revealed, So I'm cool. I don't understand this group
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: of people. I don't understand this group of people when
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: you send a sex video out, lady, ain't you any
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just curious. So now you have sent
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: his video all his friends saying he ain't gonna leave
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: us down. So now they've been to tease him. Now
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: you say I got revenged, so I'm cool, But he's
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: furious and claims he had good intentions. Then you say
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: he's not equipped to handle me in out of the bedroom,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: and he should and that he shouldn't have told our business.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: Now you saying he ain't equipped to handle you in
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: or out of bed room. Ain't nobody can handle you
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: out of bed room? But in a minute ago he
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: was your king, So king did something early on, someone
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: was working to make you want to be queen all.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't nobody else ask your crazy ass to get him married?
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: One of the things, are we headed for divorce? Or
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: can we move past this? I don't like, Shirley said,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know unless you have an act of God
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: come in here. I don't know where y'all think y'all going.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: Why y'all still want to be married? First of all,
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: he's not married to his best friend. His best friend
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: is another woman. Your man is so weak that he
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: don't have enough sense or gumption to come and talk
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: to you about his own marriage. You so crazy, he
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: can't talk to you. She's so crazy she come over
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: the house to talk to you. Her sister crazy because
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: she came over here with the house but then her
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: sister realized what it is was heading and at least
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: had to common sense talk out. Now, you so crazy.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: You took a video on your man's little man and
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: send it to his three friends. Now they're laughing at
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: your man, and you figure I'm cool. Now I got revenge?
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: How simple minded are y'all? It's bad? So this is
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: the real Housewives of Green Metal Oaks, Insana Sila, because
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: everybody and it's not it. It's crazy. Yeah, so, ma'am,
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: I don't care that you hit it for divorce. I
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: don't even see why y'all marriage. You don't have a marriage.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: He's not married to his best friend. You're not his
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: best friend. You've been willing to do that to embarrass
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: your man. He don't like you, he's scared of you.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: You crazy. Why don't y'all just go y'all separate ways? Yeah,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: make no damn sense? Yeah, man, stop writing us. Let's see, Steve.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think the sister. I like the
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: sister what she did. She may not have even told
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: her why she was going over to this woman's house,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: but once she realized what was happening, then she said no, no, no, no,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: no no no, no, no, no, no, no no, come
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: go with me over his wife's house. But she knew
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: they were friends. They're best friends. The man and the
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: woman is best friend. Right, That's what I'm saying. The
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: sister knew that we're going over here for what because
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: he wanted me to talk to her. No, no, no,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: We've done. Yeah. I mean the sister ain't ain't really
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: the cause of the letter, at least's system. I guess
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: after she realized what was happening here. We gotta get
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: up at you. Maybe that's it. I don't like. We
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: gotta go. Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at
• 1:06:21
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• 1:06:25
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• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour from the Talk, our girl
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening to show coming
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, it's Carla's Reality Update.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: But right now, Steve, it is time to introduce our
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: girl from the Talk. Let's good, That's what I'm talking about,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Now, Steve, I got a question that's really
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: directed toward you, Tommy and Julia, not Carlin Shirley. You know,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: I know, you know, we ladies of the group and everything, Monica, everybody,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: we are ladies. But I got a question directed toward
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: the Fellas. But it's really something had to me. Okay,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: So the tire gauge in my car went off right,
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: and I always panted anything to happen. I'm like, oh,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, right, because back in
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: the day used to be like a shade tree mechanical dude,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: you go to and go, what's that mean? And then
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: he would go, oh, that means slow leak or whatever.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: He's tired. But what it made me think about is
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: how manhood seems to have changed when I grew up,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: because I didn't really realize how young my father was.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: My father was twenty one years old when I was born,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: but when we were little, we thought our uncles and
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: everybody were older men, you know, like my uncle Clip saying,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: ain't just my dad was my dad's best friend. But
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: it seems like manhood has changed. Then they got the
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: study come out that says that college for women is
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: sixty percent women going to college forty percent meant so
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: then that is a discussion of our marriage pool, not
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: saying that you got to marry somebody who went to college.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: But it just seems like the I don't know, outward
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: aesthetic of being a man seems to be evolved in
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: a different direction. You know, you used to had the
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: dudes used a street news, but there was an honor
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: to that. You used to had the hard working, regular
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: go to work dude, and there was a stability to that. So, Steve,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: I want to ask you. I don't want to ask Tommy.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: I want to ask Junior. Do you feel that there's
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: a different representation or nuanced to manhood? Steve, I'm asking
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: you absolutely, Okay, absolutely true, And I believe that it
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: is because I believe that it is because we have
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: allowed our society to dictate and allowed for too many
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: other versions of what manhood has always been to exist
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: and to flourish and to accentuate it, and so therefore
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: it has just created too many different angles and so
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: now you don't really know or women don't really have
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: a clear view of what it is anymore. And I
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: feel for women because we don't give you a clear
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: view of what manhood isn't anymore and what you can expect. Yes, yeah,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: how do you want to come back for the right
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: you want to do that? Okay, well we do that?
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: What not this one? When we come back next time?
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: All right, Cheryl, We'll continue this next week. Part two
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: coming up. This is good, thank you, and Carla's reality
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: update coming up at the top of the hour right
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show. All right, Tommy, she's here, introducer.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: Let's go. It's time, ladies and gentlemen. She is here
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: the one and only call a farel with reality update
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: coming in hot. All right, here we go, nephew. Check
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: this out. Real Housewives of Atlanta. The show is not
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: even back yet, but a lot of the cast members
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: have been in the news this week. All right, Cynthia
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: Bailey is leaving. I told you the rumor that I
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: heard that she was leaving the show, and she is.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: Say it ain't. So. She posted yes, Junior the insta
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: announcement on her Instagram page, and she didn't really give
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: the reason for her departure in her announcement. She just said,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: it's time to move on to my next chapter and
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I look forward to sharing it with all of you.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: So there you go. Cynthia Bailey is leaving Real Housewives
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: of Atlanta after eleven seasons. Yes, yes, she's simply beautiful,
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: simply gorgeous. All right. Porsia Williams is really in love
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: with her fiance Simon. They were in Vegas with her
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: best friend, you know, Shamia, she's a friend on the
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: show and Portia. She bought her fiance an engagement ring
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: in Vegas at Tiffany's. She put it all on Instagram,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: and uh, it was real emotional. He was crying and
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: she was crying and they what what, Junior, go ahead?
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: Crying over the ring. YEA been nice. She bought him
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: a ring. Now she has an engagement ring. He got
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: her ring earlier. I think it was like in May,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: earlier in the summer. It's a big, big rock, it's huge.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: But she got her fiance a an engagement ring. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: go ahead. Did you hear when she gave the man
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: the platinum American American Express give him whatever? I did
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: see that she showing her platinum card all of what, Steve,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: you got your arms folded? What? Yeah? I'm like, I
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: don't gay whatever he wants. Okay, that's the TV line.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: Maybe for a spin off show that she's uh, you
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: ain't money? Go ahead? Max has no limit. I know
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: some people that can say that. I do know some people.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: I say that, but that that you got to have
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: another getting whatever he want, and then whispered to him,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: don't don't get it, all right, So moving on to
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: right right, But he can't get a car, You're crazy, Steve. Kenya. More,
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: she's doing her things. She's on Dancing with the Stars
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: and she is killing it doing the chacha with her
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: partner Brandon, and she looks really good on Dancing with
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: the Stars. I'm I'm voting for I'm rooting for. Go ahead, Kenya. Now,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: there's also a rumor that Acon, y'all know Acon, the
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: music rapper, the producer. He believes in polygamy, and they're
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: saying that one of his wives that's going to be
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: on the new season of Real High Swives up Atlanta.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: It is rumored that he has four wives. Okay, that's
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: what I said. Yeah, yeah, one is enough. Yeah, it's
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: gonna be interesting. Yes, it is going to be interesting
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: to check out Real Housewives of Atlanta. All right, let
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: me move on quickly. Real Housewives of Potomac Giselle Huh.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: She threw a get together outside because her house is
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: being remodeled in her driveway for her launch party. It
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: was a mess. The women were arguing. Candas drive She
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: tried to make nice. Yeah driveway, Yes, Steven was in
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: the drive. Now let me ask you somethingbody driveway. Okay,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: is it the driveway where you pull in one end
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: of the house and drive around the front and pull
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: out the other side. No, it's a pretty long driveway.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: It's it's back. No short driveway. Job to turn around.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: You got bag outs, Messa come out here and motor car.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: Well that had to had to go. We gotta go right,
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: you call as to go all right, Thank you, Carla.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: We'll have more of today's trending stories and more of
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to the
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Say it isn't so. It is
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: turning into a really bad year for the Cuomos, both
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: Andrew and Chris. Now, just a few weeks after Andrew
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: Cuomo stepped down as New York governor amid sexual harassment allegations,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: his CNN anchor brother Chris Cuomo, is now feeling some heat.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: His former producer on Cuomo Primetime, who left abruptly back
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: in March of last year, reportedly asked to be taken
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: off the show because um she felt Cuomo's behavior was threatening,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: and she was reassigned. This new revelation comes a week
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: after his former executive producer at ABC News alleged in
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: an our bed piece that she was touched inappropriately by
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: Cuomo at a party back in two thousand and five. Supposedly,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: Cuomo grabbed her but at a Christmas party she was
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: standing there with her husband and said, I can do
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: this to you now that you're no longer my boss. Wow.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's get out what you got. I
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: just want to know what a husband was doing when
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: she got just standing there. Maybe he didn't see it.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: He didn't, No, he saw that. I don't think that
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: damn party. Party. Heard about this party right here? Party? No, No,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: just a just a gang violence site. Manages. Shall get
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: all your money right now because I'm going to close
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: this broad at Okay, Well, well yeah they are. Uh,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Morning Show all right time. Now
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: for ask the CLO. We know who that is, the
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one CLO is from
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: Elaine in Philly. Elaine writes, I am a mature woman
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: and my husband and I are separated, so I started
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: dating again. I'm having a great time going on dates,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: and my husband has a problem with me because we
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: live in a close knit suburb. But get this, We've
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: been separated for six years and he won't entertain any
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: conversation about divorce. He says he's trying to help me
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: save my reputation. But I believe it's his ego that
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: doesn't want me dating anyone one else. I want to
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: file for divorce so I can be free of him.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: Why is he hanging on to me? Why you're letting
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: him hang on. You don't need an agreement to get
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: a divorce, You just need a divorce. Six years separated,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: living in a close knit community, you're dating, and he
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: talking about he trying to save your reputation. Boy, you
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: don't want me, and what is the reason for the separation?
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: Always remember that, ladies, I'm trying to save your reputation.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: Dog is your ego, That's all it is. Why are
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: you allowing this to happen? Go on about your business.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: You're happy, go file on your own. Yes, Now, a
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: couple of telltale things in this set. I'm mature, I'm dating,
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: and we live in a close knit community. This sound
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: like a senior citizen holding. That's what I pulled up
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: out of that. So what Yeah, suburbs and Thieves is
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: a suburbs. Okay, he got he got retirement home out
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: of that suburb. Close knit suburbs. Don't try to throw
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: me off with suburbs of the town. I'm just, you know,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: showing you how I think you know beside demand. All right.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: Alicia moving on in Gary, Indiana, says, my forty five
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: year old husband is overweight and he hides food and
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: snacks from me in the house. Since the pandemic, we've
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: both been watching our weight and he stopped working out
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: with me after he sprained his wrist. I've given him
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: given him an ultimatum to either get back in the
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: gym or we're not having sex anymore. He's more content
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: with his cupcakes than with my body. Is this a
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: sign of a bigger problem in our marriage or is
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: he just addicted to food? Well, we got a couple
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: of things going on. Yeah, I think he is addicted
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: to food. I'm a little bit confused where you said
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: doing the pandemic y'all was watching y'all's weight. I guess
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: he was on. He is close enough that he was
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: enjoying the movement. So obviously as he was watching his weight,
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: he loved the expansion that was going on. The excuse
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: for not working out was I hurt my risk? I
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: don't know what the hell walking got to do with
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: your damn coming up? It is our last break of
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: the day on this Thursday, and of course we'll have
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: some closing remarks of forty nine minutes after from the
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: one and only, our fearless leader, our captain of the ship,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, right after this. You're listening, all right? This
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: is our last break of the day on this Thursday,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: last break. Yeah, um, yes and Steve, yes, what do
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: you think of today? Well, I'm ready my closing remarks. Today,
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: I'd like to talk to people about a question that's
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: oftentimes asked with me. Steve, You always working, You always busy?
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: What are you doing it? Why do you work like that?
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: Why are you always how do you do this? How
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: do you do that? And look, I'm not bragging here.
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  Speaker 1: I get the same twenty four hours that everybody else gets.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not awarded any more dayd daylight did nobody else?
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  Speaker 1: Sunrise for me just like it do for you. It's
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  Speaker 1: set for me just like you do for you. I
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  Speaker 1: don't get no extra I can't control time. The Bible
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  Speaker 1: says time and tide waits on no man, it ticks
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  Speaker 1: for me just like it ticks for you. What I
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  Speaker 1: want to offer everybody, though, is a way to look
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  Speaker 1: at this thing though, And it's a simple process. It's
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  Speaker 1: just called time management. You actually have a say, soul
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  Speaker 1: and what you do with the time that supported you.
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  Speaker 1: Now here's the upside. If God wakes you up in
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  Speaker 1: the morning, it is a sign that God is not
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  Speaker 1: through with you yet, which means that's still more for
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  Speaker 1: you to accomplish. Now, us being the human beings that
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  Speaker 1: we are in the creature that He created us to
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  Speaker 1: be in, the only creature that He gave complete total
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  Speaker 1: of choice. So now you get to decide what you
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  Speaker 1: do with this opportunity that's been given to you on
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  Speaker 1: a daily basis. I need your attention here. You get
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  Speaker 1: to decide what you do with this blessing called time
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  Speaker 1: that is presented to you every day. So stop looking
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  Speaker 1: around at what somebody else got, and always tell about
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  Speaker 1: how they do this, how they do that when you
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  Speaker 1: have your own set of twenty four to concern yourself with,
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  Speaker 1: and just maybe they gotta going on because they spending
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  Speaker 1: day twenty four a little bit different. So I invite
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  Speaker 1: you all to start controlling your time management. I'm inviting
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  Speaker 1: you all to start looking at how you go about
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  Speaker 1: your day. Now, I got the three ws I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk to you about. It's the what you spend your
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  Speaker 1: time on, the way you spend your time, and who
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  Speaker 1: you spend your time with a whole That's the whole story, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: In time management, all you have to do is answer
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  Speaker 1: these three questions. What are you spending your time on?
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  Speaker 1: Where are you spending your time, and who are you
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  Speaker 1: spending it with. It's the what, where, and who of
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  Speaker 1: time management that I've started to concern myself with that
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  Speaker 1: began to change my life. See, what are you committed to?
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  Speaker 1: What activity occupies your mental space, what activity occupies your
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  Speaker 1: daily space? What are you committed to? If God has
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  Speaker 1: given you this blessing of waking you up every day
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  Speaker 1: because He has yet more for you to receive. Ask
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  Speaker 1: yourself a simple question, what are you doing to move
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  Speaker 1: yourself in a direction to receive what God has done
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  Speaker 1: for you, this incredible blessing called this gift of life?
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  Speaker 1: What have you done today? Oh? I know people don't
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  Speaker 1: like hearing this, but all you got to do is
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  Speaker 1: ask yourself what am I gonna do today? Where am
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  Speaker 1: I going today? And who I'm gonna spend my day with,
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  Speaker 1: and watch at the end of the day, you can
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  Speaker 1: determine whether you're moving forward, sideways, standing steel or going backwards.
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  Speaker 1: Or you can even just determine if you ain't going nowhere.
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  Speaker 1: But people have to be honest with they self. And
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  Speaker 1: this ain't me saying I got it all together and
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  Speaker 1: this is me talking to me all the time. I
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  Speaker 1: got to constantly monitor my time management, what occupies my
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  Speaker 1: mental space and what occupies my daily space. If you
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  Speaker 1: hang with people and all they do is gossip, guess
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  Speaker 1: what You're gonna be a gossiper. If you hang with
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  Speaker 1: people that's always talking about business, you're gonna discuss business.
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  Speaker 1: If all the friends you hang out with are only
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  Speaker 1: into physical fitness, and that's it. You're gonna go to
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  Speaker 1: the gym. You got to go to gym. If everybody
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  Speaker 1: you hang out with shoot dice and gamble, guess why
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  Speaker 1: y'all gonna be someone shooting dice and gambling. That gambling
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  Speaker 1: is win some, lose some, but it's mostly loose song
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  Speaker 1: not hard it is to become a professional gambler because
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  Speaker 1: you don't control enough of that situation. So that's what
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  Speaker 1: you do. That's why you end up, and that's who
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  Speaker 1: you're running with. Y'all. You got to change the way
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  Speaker 1: you manage your time. You got to start caring about
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  Speaker 1: this day. You got to quit letting me all these
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  Speaker 1: days slip by where you ain't doing nothing to progress yourself.
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  Speaker 1: You're not doing anything to make yourself better. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: stop that. Come on, man, God is inviting you to
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  Speaker 1: a life of abundance, and he invites you to this
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  Speaker 1: life of abundance by waking you up. Every day. It's
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  Speaker 1: a fresh invitation. Every day you got a ticket to
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  Speaker 1: the ball. Waking up is like having a ticket to
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  Speaker 1: the ball. Every day. You get to go to the
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  Speaker 1: met gallat every day you're invited. Now this gallot that
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  Speaker 1: you attend is up to you. You have to determine
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  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do today, where you're gonna spend your day,
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  Speaker 1: and who you're gonna spend your day with. You have
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  Speaker 1: to say so with that people has locked up. I
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  Speaker 1: know people who are locked up who have gotten together
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  Speaker 1: and said this is what we're gonna do today, this
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  Speaker 1: is where we're gonna spend that time, and this is
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  Speaker 1: who we're gonna hang with. I know some people that
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  Speaker 1: have come out of prison and gotten better. So what
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna do, I'm just asking you how you gonna
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  Speaker 1: manage your day in your time? Those are my closing
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  Speaker 1: remarks today. I know I've upset some people. Sorry, see
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  Speaker 1: you tomorrow. I was just Uncle Steve, just trying to help.
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