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MJ $70M Plane, Family Secret, Black Man Empowerment, Voter Suppression Tips and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all.
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  Speaker 3: Given the busy listening to.
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  Speaker 4: Together, I want to joy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Joy, you.
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  Speaker 3: Got you.
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  Speaker 5: Gotta turn.
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  Speaker 1: To turn the mouth turn you probably got to turn mouth.
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  Speaker 5: Turn out, turn a word of the monjo wouldn't.
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  Speaker 4: Come come out, you think, Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on,
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  Speaker 4: dig me now?
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  Speaker 2: Want it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: here we go. I was working out. I was talking
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  Speaker 2: to a buddy of mine, and I was telling him
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  Speaker 2: something that Bishop TD Jakes told me one time I
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  Speaker 2: heard him say it. He said, I would hate to
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  Speaker 2: die and not do the thing that I was born
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  Speaker 2: to do. I would hate to die and not do
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  Speaker 2: the theme that I was born to do.
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  Speaker 6: Man, oh man, oh man man.
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  Speaker 2: That hit me like a like a like a pile
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  Speaker 2: of bricks man, because it made me feel so grateful
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  Speaker 2: that God has allowed me.
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  Speaker 6: To live my life this way.
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  Speaker 2: Now. And I'm talking about grateful for all of it,
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  Speaker 2: the good, the bad, and the ugly, and I have
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  Speaker 2: had all of them. The person you see today, it
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  Speaker 2: ain't always who I was. It was on the inside
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  Speaker 2: of me, but it hadn't externalized itself, if that's a word.
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  Speaker 2: It hadn't been bought out. It was in here, but
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  Speaker 2: it was under development. Who I am today was a process.
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  Speaker 2: But like I said before, don't trip. He ain't through
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  Speaker 2: with me yet.
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  Speaker 4: Even today, I'm still an imperfect soldier for Christ.
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  Speaker 2: Today. I still fall short oftentimes, but I'll tell you what,
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  Speaker 2: I'm ever grateful for the life I have. And you
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  Speaker 2: know what, I want to encourage every everybody today to
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  Speaker 2: explore your possibilities. I mean, man, explore your possibilities. Why
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  Speaker 2: would you not want to find out, discover, or know
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  Speaker 2: what it is God got for you? Why would you
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  Speaker 2: not want to achieve or accomplish all of your possibilities? Now,
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  Speaker 2: as I ask you this question, I want you to
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  Speaker 2: know that the devil is busy, that he plays mind tricks.
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  Speaker 2: So as you hear this, I already know he's saying
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  Speaker 2: to some of y'all, Yeah, Steve, that's easy for you
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  Speaker 2: to say, but I didne got myself in this situation
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  Speaker 2: right here.
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  Speaker 4: You ain't nothing too hard for God, nothing.
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  Speaker 6: Nothing.
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  Speaker 2: And see, so as you listen to me, try to
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  Speaker 2: get your mind open to this. Why would you not
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  Speaker 2: want to explore all of your life's possibilities, what's possible
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  Speaker 2: with your life? And I'm talking about from right where
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  Speaker 2: you are right now. I'm not asking you to change,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not asking you to do anything. I'm telling you
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  Speaker 2: this is a fact that God can get you from
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  Speaker 2: right where you are right now. Broken, misled, misguided, misunderstood, mistaken,
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  Speaker 2: all of that, misfortunate, all of the missus you've been
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  Speaker 2: talking about in your life.
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  Speaker 7: You know you.
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  Speaker 2: I missed the lottery, I missed my ride, they fired me,
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  Speaker 2: I missed the deadline. I didn't get it. Miss people
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  Speaker 2: people just missed they self to death. If you've been
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  Speaker 2: all the missus, God can get you from right where
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  Speaker 2: you are. God a home run hitter. I'm here to
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  Speaker 2: tell you that he's a home run hitter. He's a
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  Speaker 2: put him over the wall whenever he want to, all
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  Speaker 2: the time, and you can be a recipient of some
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  Speaker 2: of these home runs. He'll put the bat in your hand.
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  Speaker 2: But you got to swing. Now, listen to me. You
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  Speaker 2: got to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You got to
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  Speaker 2: stop holding yourself down with beating yourself up. He won't
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  Speaker 2: hold you down about it if you don't hold yourself
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  Speaker 2: down about it. But I'm gonna tell you one more time.
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  Speaker 2: The devil is busy. So what the devil do is
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  Speaker 2: He make you think you ain't worthy. He make you
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  Speaker 2: think that you've done something so despicable that you can't
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  Speaker 2: come back from it. He makes you feel like you
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  Speaker 2: so low you can't go up high. He knock you
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  Speaker 2: down and make you feel like you've been knocked down
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  Speaker 2: hard than anybody else. You can't get up. He rolled
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  Speaker 2: you so deep down in that ditch you can't see
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  Speaker 2: over the edge. God can come get you from no
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  Speaker 2: matter where you are. I'm telling you, man, you ain't
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  Speaker 2: in no hold too deep for God. Magic Johnson to
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  Speaker 2: tell you that, listen to me, you ain't in no
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  Speaker 2: hole too deep for God. Steve Harvey can tell you
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  Speaker 2: that you ain't in a hole too deep for God.
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  Speaker 2: Tyler Perry can tell you that I can name you
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  Speaker 2: some people. Bishop Jake can tell you that I could
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  Speaker 2: tell you. Kenneth Olmah can tell you that. Bishop Kenneth
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  Speaker 2: Omar I could tell you some people. Kirk Franklin can
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  Speaker 2: tell you that. Donny mcclerklin can tell you that I
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  Speaker 2: just know some people personally man that then.
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  Speaker 4: Been in a hole.
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  Speaker 2: Joel Oldstein can tell your body. I know some people
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  Speaker 2: man been down, been in a hole so deep.
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  Speaker 6: I bet you. Paula Dean can tell you about it.
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  Speaker 4: See.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, then here we go see see
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  Speaker 2: see you know, see we don't like to talk about
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  Speaker 2: that because now we want everybody to pay extra hard
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  Speaker 2: for some mistakes they made when clearly an excuse me
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  Speaker 2: for being a new Christian. But there is a prayer
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  Speaker 2: that I've been saying since I was a little bitty boy,
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  Speaker 2: and it took me till I was a grown man
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  Speaker 2: to understand it. Forgive us our trespass, as we forgive
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  Speaker 2: those who trust passed against us. So see, it ain't
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  Speaker 2: my job to hold nobody down, to keep my knee
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  Speaker 2: on somebody's neck.
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  Speaker 4: Who am I. I'm gonna need some forgiveness in a
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  Speaker 4: second here, probably today.
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  Speaker 2: See so all this you holding people down with the
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  Speaker 2: way you feel inviott them, And she shouldn't have said this,
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  Speaker 2: and she'll never get it.
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  Speaker 6: I'll never support this again.
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  Speaker 2: Man, get up, get up and get real, you for real,
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  Speaker 2: you think you ain't finn need forgiveness real soon? You
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  Speaker 2: ain't finna make a diabolical mistake in your life. You
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  Speaker 2: don't think you are. I have thousands of them, probably
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  Speaker 2: gonna make a few hundred more for I get up
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  Speaker 2: out of here. So I've decided to be in a
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  Speaker 2: forgiving business because I want God to forgive. My trust
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  Speaker 2: passes as I forgive those who trustpass against me.
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  Speaker 6: You understand. See excuse me for being a new Christian.
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  Speaker 2: I get tired of talking to people man supposed to
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  Speaker 2: be saved and talking about dear Christians.
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  Speaker 6: I don't want that type of man. I ain't in
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  Speaker 6: that no more. I ain't in that.
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  Speaker 2: You can call me wrong if you want to say
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  Speaker 2: it how you want to say. I ain't in that
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  Speaker 2: no more. I ain't in all that. You can feel
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  Speaker 2: how you want to feel about me. But I got
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  Speaker 2: proof that God work in my life. You know. I
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  Speaker 2: can't hardly get it out sometime when people ask me
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  Speaker 2: something about depot on the inside of me, about my
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  Speaker 2: soul and how I used to be, and my journey
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  Speaker 2: and my trip because people don't know the trip I've
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  Speaker 2: been on. You may have been on one worse than me,
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  Speaker 2: but you know what you ain't in a whole too deep.
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  Speaker 2: God can't get you out of and I wish I
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  Speaker 2: want people to remember that. Man, God is a redeemer,
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  Speaker 2: He the great I am. So if you ain't got nothing,
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  Speaker 2: now what you asking for? You know, you might not
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  Speaker 2: have nothing because you ain't asking for nothing. Quoit asking
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  Speaker 2: God to get you out of debt and ask God
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  Speaker 2: for a life of abundance. Then you take the money
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  Speaker 2: and you get out of debt. You keep asking to
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  Speaker 2: get out of debt, you keep being in debt to
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  Speaker 2: get out of Come on, man, what you asking God for?
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  Speaker 2: I'm just tripping today, that's all. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: I apologize you're listening.
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  Speaker 2: Morning, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Ride to Steve
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  Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show us live and well.
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  Speaker 6: All because God is who he is.
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  Speaker 2: He's in the blessed business, the delivery business, the healing business,
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  Speaker 2: to get your life together business. He's in the make
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  Speaker 2: it all right business. He in the dream building business.
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  Speaker 2: He's in the he's in the start over business. He's
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  Speaker 2: in the how you want to do, He's in to
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  Speaker 2: make your dream come true. Man, he is the business.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, he is the business. Whatever you need,
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  Speaker 2: God got it took me a long time to figure
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  Speaker 2: that out.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 2: I kept making phone calls, trying to meet people. I
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  Speaker 2: was always trying to arrange something, and all that hid
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  Speaker 2: He Hey, man, Steve, relax, God got you. God got
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  Speaker 2: everything you need. Quoit asking the people.
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  Speaker 6: Take it to God.
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  Speaker 2: God will put the right people in front of you
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  Speaker 2: at the right time. He will make it all come
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  Speaker 2: to pass in the in the way you would never
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  Speaker 2: see it. And when he do it, it'll be better
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  Speaker 2: than the way you wanted it. That's how God really worked.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I found out. That's what I'm sharing with
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  Speaker 2: you this morning. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Sherley Strawbert Carlin
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  Speaker 2: for Real, Mississippi, Monica Junior and the legendary is nephew
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  Speaker 2: Tommy Junior gets shirt.
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  Speaker 6: What's on your mind?
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  Speaker 8: Man, I'm gonna tell you unk is today? Voting on
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  Speaker 8: my mind today. Early vote starts today.
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  Speaker 4: He and Georgia. Yes to do.
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  Speaker 8: I'm going to vote today, man, That's what I'm finna
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  Speaker 8: gonna do. I'm excited about going to vote. I'm finela
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  Speaker 8: go ahead and make my right.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 5: This time, all that talk that we've been doing, it's time.
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  Speaker 4: Now, it's time.
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  Speaker 6: We gotta start black man, finished show somebody something I
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  Speaker 6: don't know.
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  Speaker 4: See.
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  Speaker 6: First of all, I've never been surveying ever. So when
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  Speaker 6: they be talking about black men, I'll be gonna who
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  Speaker 6: y'all talking to?
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  Speaker 4: Y'all?
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  Speaker 6: Ain't I've been a black man the whole time.
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  Speaker 4: I've never been surveyed.
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  Speaker 6: The whole time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah right, I didn't get to be white for a
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  Speaker 2: little while. You know, I ain't gonna be Asian. Ain't
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  Speaker 2: ever been Turkish, you know. I just I just been
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  Speaker 2: me the whole time and have never ever been surveyed.
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  Speaker 2: So when they talk about what black men gonna do,
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  Speaker 2: I be wondering how y'all know, right, because all the
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  Speaker 2: black dudes.
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  Speaker 6: I talked to we all saying the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: Now, is it a couple of random people out on
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  Speaker 2: the internet with some old, ignorant theory about why they
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  Speaker 2: voting for Trump? This little rapper with the tattoos on
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  Speaker 2: his face, well, right there, right there, we don't care.
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  Speaker 2: Little boy. You made several dis physicians on your face
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  Speaker 2: that has led me to think I can't trust you.
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  Speaker 2: And let you say, yeah, you got a card to
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  Speaker 2: you and of a little boy peeing in the bush
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  Speaker 2: on your face? Why would I when you put that
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  Speaker 2: tattoo on your face? What was what was going through
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  Speaker 2: your mind? You know, I know a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: say they get tattoos, like after the club. They'll be
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  Speaker 2: leaving they see a tattoo pol and they're going there
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  Speaker 2: because they were drunk.
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  Speaker 6: What do you have to be to put a little
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  Speaker 6: boy that's peeing on your face on your face?
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  Speaker 4: What the what drug is that? I don't know because
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  Speaker 4: that is not brown liquor.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll hear
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  Speaker 1: from the nephew who is back from Vaka as he
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  Speaker 1: runs that prank back. Right after this you're listening morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back.
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  Speaker 10: What you got for his neph going way down to
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  Speaker 10: the church. This is a make a wish ministry. Make
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  Speaker 10: a wish ministry, all right, if you could New Baptist.
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  Speaker 3: This is Terrence Man.
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  Speaker 7: Help you please, brother Terrence. Yeah, how you doing? I
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  Speaker 7: got your number? You you went to over the church
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  Speaker 7: you with to make a witch ministry?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I am I may help you.
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  Speaker 7: Well listen. I'm I'm I'm actually uh, I'm I'm I'm
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  Speaker 7: terminally hell brother, brother Terrence, and I don't you know,
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  Speaker 7: as far as what the doctors tell me, it could
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  Speaker 7: be six months or another year. But I know, uh,
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  Speaker 7: my time here is definitely limited. You know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry to hear that, but we're definitely here
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  Speaker 3: to help you out with whatever you need or whatever
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  Speaker 3: we can help you with. So what can we do
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  Speaker 3: for you?
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  Speaker 7: Well? You know, I truly believe that sometimes people have
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  Speaker 7: you know, I've seen one of the more movies they
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  Speaker 7: got with it got a bucket list or whatever they
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  Speaker 7: call it. You know, people trying to do things before
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  Speaker 7: they leave here. I guess I'm just sitting around trying
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  Speaker 7: to figure out what I do and what I wanted
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  Speaker 7: to do before I left this world and went on
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  Speaker 7: to what he asked for me next. You know, I
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  Speaker 7: don't believe and doing anything unless it is prayed on first.
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  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, if you don't mind, maybe you can. You know,
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  Speaker 7: before I even tell you my wish, we prayed that
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  Speaker 7: the wish.
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  Speaker 4: To come true.
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  Speaker 7: You're not doing anything like.
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  Speaker 3: That, Oh no, I don't mind praying. That's what we're
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  Speaker 3: here for. Bow your head with him.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, yes, sir, is your head by yes, sir, Yes, sir.
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  Speaker 3: It is Father, God, we come to you in the
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  Speaker 3: homeless way. We know how Lord, we asked you to
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  Speaker 3: touch this young man and every which way he hurt,
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  Speaker 3: and then we asked you to deliver him for whatever
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  Speaker 3: is going on with him and let him know that
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  Speaker 3: we the church is here to help him with whatever
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  Speaker 3: his needs is in his last days. And Jesus Name,
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  Speaker 3: I pray say Amen with me.
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  Speaker 7: Amen, Amen's gonna do it here. Amen.
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  Speaker 3: No, you a member of the church here of New York.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I was a member. I still consider myself a member.
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  Speaker 7: It's just been quite some time trying to over a
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  Speaker 7: year and a half, two years since I've been able
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  Speaker 7: to come, you know, Throe to my illness. But definitely
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  Speaker 7: I will remember that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's all right. We're not worried about all that.
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  Speaker 3: We just here to take care of your last and
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  Speaker 3: final wits. That's what our ministry is for. You know.
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  Speaker 3: We helps people with with with anything they need, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like what what what all of I.
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  Speaker 7: Mean when when people call and won't things? What all
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  Speaker 7: of you you all, what all of y'all help them with?
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  Speaker 3: Well, we've helped them with the rent, uh, take them
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  Speaker 3: to the store, help them with a utility bill, come
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  Speaker 3: out and cut the grass, anything like that that they
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  Speaker 3: just can't do. Take them to the doctor's apartment. Anything
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  Speaker 3: we'd like to help them with, We do exactly that.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, Well I pretty much got those things taken care of.
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  Speaker 7: I think what I like to do between you and
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  Speaker 7: and myself brother saying that I've never told anyone what
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  Speaker 7: I'm about to tell you. I've never been with a
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  Speaker 7: with with a woman to come. I'm you know, I'm
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  Speaker 7: thirty eight, but I've never been with a woman.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I guess that might be a blessing. You might
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  Speaker 3: you might be here. That's a good thing.
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  Speaker 7: Well, you know, but sometimes you know, I guess before
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  Speaker 7: I leave, I guess that's a desire that I have.
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  Speaker 7: And and and uh, what I wanted to ask you
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  Speaker 7: was there is a lady there at the church, and
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  Speaker 7: before I leave, I think that's the woman that I
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  Speaker 7: would actually.
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  Speaker 6: Like to to be with.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if make a Wish ministry can
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  Speaker 3: support that kind of stuff, but go ahead, let me hear,
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  Speaker 3: okay that the lady.
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  Speaker 7: That I'm I'm actually interested in actually, uh, she works
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  Speaker 7: at the church too. When I see she's kind of tall.
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  Speaker 7: When she's about five to nine and she's probably about
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  Speaker 7: a size eight, A beautiful long league man and sandy
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  Speaker 7: type of half sandy color, sandy brown man. And I
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  Speaker 7: mean she looked like Cara Mia.
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  Speaker 3: Hold on a minute, what's her name?
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  Speaker 11: Uh?
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  Speaker 7: I think her name Linda?
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  Speaker 3: Now hold on, that's my wife? What you mean go
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  Speaker 3: ahead and see? Wait?
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  Speaker 7: Wait wait wait wait wait wait sending your wife?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my wife, you sorrs?
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  Speaker 7: What do you mean? Listen, y'all are ministry now now,
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  Speaker 7: if y'all supposed to be taking care of people, don't
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  Speaker 7: make a wish and taking care of what they want
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  Speaker 7: before they leave this world. If that's my wish, what
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  Speaker 7: is the problem?
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  Speaker 3: Listen here? You didn't cross every line there was about
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  Speaker 3: this man, so I don't give a damn about it.
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  Speaker 3: The more you talking about sleeping with my wife, if
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  Speaker 3: I see y'all gonna do something to you, they ain't
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  Speaker 3: gonna even be able to recognize you. So what the
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  Speaker 3: you talking about? Messing with my wife? Son of a all?
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  Speaker 7: Missus Linda myself and see if she don't have a
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  Speaker 7: problem with helping me make my wish come.
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  Speaker 3: True, go right in and call and you won't call
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  Speaker 3: nobody else. That'll be the last call you make.
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: I thought y'all were here to relieve people and so
• 19:15
  Speaker 7: they can enjoy themselves before they leave this world.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: You talking about sleeping with my wife? Are you crazy?
• 19:21
  Speaker 7: But if I'm finna leave here, ain't nobody gonna know?
• 19:24
  Speaker 7: But you want?
• 19:24
  Speaker 8: Huh?
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: I don't care if you die. I don't care. You
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: ain't sleeping with my wife and you fool with her.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: You probably gonna go ahead and die quicker than you
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: need to.
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: I thought this was a ministry.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: I don't tell you.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: Now you're over there telling me about dying. Y'all supposed
• 19:40
  Speaker 7: to be a ministry that helps people before they leave
• 19:42
  Speaker 7: on word what it is.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: But you talking about sleeping with my wife? You got
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: an illness? But something must be wrong with your ma.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Ain't talking about messing with my wife.
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: Ain't nobody gonna even know? I find with your wife?
• 19:52
  Speaker 7: Want something?
• 19:52
  Speaker 11: Gonne?
• 19:53
  Speaker 7: It ain't gonna beople the two of y'all. At least
• 19:55
  Speaker 7: you would have helped me before I left.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: No, I can't help you with nothing, And let me
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: tell you something have to preach. I'm not the past,
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: I'm not the deacon, I'm not none of them. But
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: if you mentioned my wife, you gonna know who I am.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be the hundred take er. Do you understand?
• 20:09
  Speaker 7: I hear what you're saying. But I got one more paint.
• 20:11
  Speaker 7: I need to tell you about who I are?
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Who asked you to go?
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Ahead?
• 20:16
  Speaker 7: Mean Nehew talk me from the Steel Harvey Morning Show,
• 20:21
  Speaker 7: Your wife Linda, y'all need the price shop.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: Now, y'all? You Lord ham Murs past ain't gonna hear
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: this is.
• 20:35
  Speaker 7: I got one more thing that Lloyd, what is the
• 20:38
  Speaker 7: baddest and I mean the radio show in the land.
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: There you go, Sarla aute, Yeah you will.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Coming up next it is ask the clo our chief
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Love Officers. You're listening Hard Morning Show coming up at
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour and entertainment news. Diddy's legal
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: team fires back out of Texas attorney Michael Jordan, Steve
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: dropped seventy million dollars on a brand new plane and
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: we the people audio Tawny Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's going
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: to be live from Detroit with Charlemagne and Vice President
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Kamala Harris. That's going to air this afternoon on the
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Free iHeartRadio app We'll talk about these stories at the
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: top of the hour, but right now it is time
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: to ask the clo. This one is from Teddy and
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Dade County. Teddy writes, I have four younger brothers and
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: they all owe me money. My wife is getting on
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: me about helping them out. But I don't mind helping
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: when I can. We're not hurting for money, So why
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: does she care? How do I tell her nicely to
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: stay out of this? Well?
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: See, my man, if y'all had the full bank accounts
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: that I suggest, she wouldn't even know. But once you
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: start taking money out the main pot and she can
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: see it, they gonna have questions about it. And I
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: understand how you feel, man, You know, because you're helping
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: your little brothers out. You know they and you know
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: y'all ain't hurting for money. I got it, But that
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: ain't how she looked at it. That's not how she
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: looked at it. You can't expect her to see what
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: you see. She ain't.
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: She ain't in your shoes, and she.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Ain't got no little brothers. So I don't know.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell your brother cept you
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: need to have a separate bank account so when you
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: give your brother's money, she don't know about it. That's
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: all too.
• 22:33
  Speaker 6: You gotta have bank accounts if you won't stay happily married.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Joint account where you both have to sign to take well,
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: you need you need the money where both y'all pull
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: y'all money together that take care of all necessities household bills, living,
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah blah. Then you need a savings
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: account that requires two signatures to move the money, so
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: y'all always have a little nest egg on the side.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: And then the third account is you need your bank
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: account with your separate money and she need her bank
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: account with her separate money. You are not to question
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: her about what she does and she can't question you
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: about what you do. And that's the best way to
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: stay married. Dude, gender man that taught me that is
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Rogers Salters and Roger Salters recently passed and it broke
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: my heart. Man, the passing of Roger Assaults up in Chicago,
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: one of my great friends that taught me almost everything
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: I know about finances. I learned from Rogers. Saltis from
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Saltis San Mar Financial up in Chicago. We lost a
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: great brother man, condolences go to his family.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Man, all right, all right, moving on, Steve to Jules
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: and Hoover. Jewles writes, my fiance and I met and
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: we moved in. We moved in with each other. Five
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: months later, we're engaged and I want to get married
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: soon so my parents won't know we're living together. We
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: rush to do everything else. So why won't my fiance
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: agree to a wedding date?
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: Wow, it's Jews. I don't understand. Is this guy or dude? Tone?
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: This is a woman. Your name is Jewels. They moved
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: in together, they're engaged, and she wants to hurry up
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: and get married so her parents won't know that they're
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: living together.
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: They still Jewels.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know he got what he wants
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: to keep telling women all the time, you know your
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: your dream, your most A lot of women have a
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: dream of a wedding day. A lot, not all, but
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: most women have the dream of a wedding day. That's
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: your dream. I don't know no man the dreams of
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: his wedding day. Every man I know dreams of the
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: chick of his dreams, but not.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: The wedding date.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: And if he can get you without the wedding date,
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: then both and now y'all already moved in. So he
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: got he got what he he got the chick, his dream.
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: He got you.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: So he don't understand the rush to get married. Man,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: he might be having second thoughts. It's five you know,
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: five months. Might have learned among you know, when you
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: move in, you learn and stuff.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: Hello, Ho did y'all moving? Did y'all live together?
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: I did?
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: I did?
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: But you know what, even when you do that, it
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: worked out, It worked out.
• 25:16
  Speaker 10: But they can they can still hide some stuff till
• 25:19
  Speaker 10: chill after when yes, the ladies.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the ladies were supposed to hide stuff.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: We know that.
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: Ya really.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: What did you hide?
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Though?
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: What did you hide?
• 25:43
  Speaker 6: Did you gonna tell what you see?
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: You know?
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: What kind of questions is that's on the radio?
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Fool like you snor some three damn fools?
• 25:58
  Speaker 6: Did tim it kires te?
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: Damn?
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: We just gonna say give up a secret on the radio?
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: What hell you think it was a secret? I ain't
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: nothing the simple secrets? What simple secrets?
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: If you snore? That's all?
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: Like some that ain't no secret.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Everybody know that you got They found that out on
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: the plane on the American airlines one time. The boy
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: was on the plane one time and he's sitting next
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: to his white dude because because he wouldn't switch secret.
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: I told him switch seats with it. But I know wrong,
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: gonna go steep sheep, he don't snow hark. I did
• 26:45
  Speaker 6: look at it.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: What he said, Oh my god, this is crazy.
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: This is just crazy.
• 26:54
  Speaker 6: Can anybody just somebody's wiped this guy up.
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: I said, my man, this is They don't want to
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: tell you.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: You don't want to don't don't do that, don't don't
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: wake up one, oh pardner, he did it anyway.
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: Hey, God, got got your snoring. I can't even work
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: instant this. It came out of his hey, hey, hey, god,
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: God got your snoring.
• 27:18
  Speaker 6: It opened with blankety.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Blank, moving on to uh bree and Savannah rewrites, my
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: best you got pressure to have a threesome to keep
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: her boyfriend. She's crazy about him and has no idea
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: that he is a real garden tool. I even slept
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: it tim years ago, and she knows it. And our
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: friend group said I need to talk some sensen to her.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Do I So we all, well, how are you gonna
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: talk some sense into it? You slept with him years ago.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: Matter if you slept with him, he convinced her to
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: do a threesome. What you don't you don't what what?
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: What help does she need that he that?
• 28:10
  Speaker 6: Okay, I don't know if y'all be watching the news.
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: But hey, hey, all freak off. I'm telling.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Get somewhere, get you one person, SA then lock it down,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: put them bone cameras up.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Didn't she kind of break girl cold to the best
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: sleep with Yeah, I don't think. Looks like they didn't
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: know each other. They probably didn't know she did it
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: years ago, that she didn't tell she told her because
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: she does know it now.
• 28:45
  Speaker 9: Yeah, can get my wife to do it Tucson. You know,
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: you know you get a two gold Man over.
• 28:57
  Speaker 12: Yeah, really, I understand what behind? All right, Uh, thank you, Clo.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: morning show. All right, guys, new affiliate alert Steve. Please
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: welcome our newest station to the Steve Harvey Nation. Welcome
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Baton Rouge one O four one the Vibe.
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  Speaker 4: You Southern Jag Wow you.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know we're gonna have some pushback from these
• 29:42
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  Speaker 7: Now.
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  Speaker 2: We already got the sonic boom shaking their head. Then
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  Speaker 2: we got the.
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  Speaker 4: Storm Sam in the storm, Oh prayer view.
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  Speaker 1: Grambling again, welcome Baton Rouge one O four one Vibe
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  Speaker 1: kV d U and Baton Rouge Louisiana. We're happy to
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  Speaker 1: have you aboard. Thank you. All right, it's time now
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: for entertainment news now. According to TMZ Guys, Diddy's legal
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: team is pushing back on the Texas attorney who hit
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Ditty with a slew of lawsuits on Monday, slamming Tony
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Busby as a lawyer craving attention. The press conference and
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: one eight hundred number that preceded today's barrage of filings
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: were clear attempts to garner publicity. A reference to Busby,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: who says he's representing get this number one hundred and
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: twenty alleged.
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: Did he victims?
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Did He's legal team went on to say, quote in court,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: the truth will prevail that mister Colbs has never sexually
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: assaulted anyone adult, adult or minor, man or woman. So
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: that's what they're saying, Busby.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: You know, let me just say this. I find this
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: whole thing. This is tragic on every level. This is
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: a huge tragedy for victims. Let's just start with victims especially. Yeah,
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: if there are victims out there, this is tragic for them.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: Can they deserve justice? Now?
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Anybody that's consensual, all that consentual mess that I know
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: what's happening over there, that's on y'all, y'all would up
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: in there knowing what the deal was.
• 32:01
  Speaker 6: Y'all went forward that right there.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: You can't get is when it starts happening against a
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: person's will, where a person's hell, that's when you got
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: your problems. And that's where and that and that's where
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: you that well, that's what a lot of this is
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: gonna be about. And you know you can't This is tragic. Man.
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: I hate this on so many levels.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: Man, But I'm gonna tell you something, man, I feel
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: sorry for them kids, them girls, them them twin daughters,
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: because they don't they don't have parents anymore, them twin
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: daughters of his They don't they They Mama gone.
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Man, look man, when you lose a mother, that's tragic
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: for you, that's tragic for anybody. That's tragic for those
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: of us and lost hours and were full blown adults.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: So I feel sorry for his for those children, man,
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: because now and then, I don't know what it's like
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: for them to go to school.
• 32:56
  Speaker 6: You know, it's it's just sad man, Like you.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Said, all over for the victims of what they're going through,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: their trauma.
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: Hor Yeah, that is horrible.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: But those children, man, that are in school, it's tough
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: for them because they didn't ask for none of this.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: They ain't the calls and none of this. They can't
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: help the actions of nobody. So I really, I really do, man,
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: feel for them.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Kids, man, Really sad situation, it really is.
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: And then this puffy man, this is you. This could
• 33:30
  Speaker 6: have been avoided. You didn't even have to bruh the behavior.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Well next year he will, yeah, but you.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Have every day right now and your court though, I'm
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: telling you right now, every day in jail, and this
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: right here, this is not a day.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: No serious charges, very serious allegations. Yeah, all right, moving on.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, NBA legend Steve Michael Jordan's bought
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: a seventy million dollar plane. It was a jet, customized
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: private jet, a top tier gulf Stream six hundred and
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: fifty e R. Is that how what?
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: What does all that mean? What is the emergency? What
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: is it yard?
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: That's for juniors emergency?
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: He said that aviation world, What does it mean?
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: What does it mean?
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: That question right there just like just just that's the
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: big boy mess. That's just like you know, you know,
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: they attached names to a Falcon xal is Okay, the
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: xal don't mean extra lodge, but means emergency room.
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: Once you see the price, you're gonna be an E
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: sevent to me.
• 34:57
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: So look, he spent five hundred grand on a custom
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: paint job inspired by his famous elephant print sneakers. The
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: exterior boasts a sleek silver and black design with his
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: signature Jumpman logo proudly displayed.
• 35:12
  Speaker 6: On the Showare any pictures of it?
• 35:15
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: You got even the Jets tail number. Now listen to
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: the tail number in twenty three six mj all right,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: that's especially the.
• 35:27
  Speaker 6: Tail number because it's an American plane that has.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: To start with ED.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's how you know it's from America. Every country
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: has a cold. That's how you know the tail number
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: where it originates from.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Okay, and we know twenty three was his jersey. Number
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: six was his championships.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: I know they had some planes on sale somewhere. You
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: ain't had to get this int me. They had to
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: have some planes on sale.
• 35:51
  Speaker 10: Seventy me.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about family secret. Right after this. You're listening
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: morning show. So hey, guys, Michelle on Facebook says, my
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: friend Danielle admitted to me that her eleven and twelve
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: year old son don't know that their father is her
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: second marriage. She said, it's not quite a secret. She
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: just never told the boys. Now that did her husband.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: So here's a question to you, guys. What's something like
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: big in your family that wasn't a family secret but
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: it just wasn't known. Or do you have a family
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: secret that you can share now?
• 36:33
  Speaker 10: I was asking us stuff that we ain't supposed to
• 36:36
  Speaker 10: talk about it, all this secret stuff.
• 36:40
  Speaker 6: Today. Of course we have family.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Secret anything we want to share so we can get
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: to know you better. No, some way, you don't have
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: a family secret about Tommy.
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: Well not that he fins to.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Say right now, Well, this ain't no secret about Tommy.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: This is not a secret. I'm not gonna tell you
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: a secret. Everybody thought he was gonna be small. That's
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: what everybody.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: Had.
• 37:17
  Speaker 6: Some head scratching for your family.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the only thing we thought we had all
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: quite quietly. Jor my junior family.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they didn't even tell me though.
• 37:38
  Speaker 8: But I found out my real granddaddy had lived on
• 37:43
  Speaker 8: the street behind my grandmother and the man I thought
• 37:46
  Speaker 8: my grandfather wasn't really my grandfather. So when I go
• 37:49
  Speaker 8: back there because my grandmother yard, we was looking at
• 37:50
  Speaker 8: each other, but it almost feels like we knew each other,
• 37:55
  Speaker 8: knew it like.
• 37:56
  Speaker 5: It looked like me, but it didn't look like me.
• 37:59
  Speaker 5: I just so I asked the other man, who is
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: this then?
• 38:02
  Speaker 8: So when I find out, I said, were your real
• 38:04
  Speaker 8: grandaddy stay on the street behind you?
• 38:05
  Speaker 9: I've seen the man I knew, mister Jesse was the
• 38:08
  Speaker 9: day mister.
• 38:10
  Speaker 6: Junior, Hey, jun how old was it he was a
• 38:13
  Speaker 6: he was.
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: About he was blas at that time. He's about sixty
• 38:16
  Speaker 5: eight sixty nine.
• 38:16
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well you you you ain't no you can tell,
• 38:21
  Speaker 6: so here I am. Well, let me ask you a question.
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: He said, where was his headline?
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: What he was born? Oh?
• 38:32
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that dadd is that's it.
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: That's your papa.
• 38:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that's Paul, Paul, Yeah, that is j.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah eight.
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: Wait how old were you junior when you found out
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: about nineteen?
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: That was a long time long.
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: Did y'all form a relationship after that?
• 39:01
  Speaker 8: We spoke, you know, but I didn't know because the
• 39:03
  Speaker 8: man I thought of my grandfather, he was in the house,
• 39:05
  Speaker 8: so I kept calling him papa, And then I find
• 39:08
  Speaker 8: out he really wasn't my papa.
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: So he gets married my grandmother when I was born.
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: You know, he's coming.
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: So what I got here, he was my papa.
• 39:15
  Speaker 5: That's all I knew.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: That's all I want.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: The whole time.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, Vice
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: President Kamala Harris is laying out a new plan to
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: empower black men as she tries to energize them to
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: vote for her. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: You're listening, Hardy Morning Show. Vice President Kamala Harris has
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: announced a plan. She announced it on Monday to give
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: black men more economic opportunities and other chances to thrive.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: Her plan includes providing forgivable business loans for black entrepreneurs,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: creating more apprenticeships, national initiatives for better funding for studying
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: junior sickle cell diabetes, prosta cancer, and other diseases that
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: disproportionately affect African American men. And she's calling for better
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: regulating cryptocurrency to protect black men and others who invest
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: in digital assets. Last week, former President Obama called out
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: black men. I don't know if you guys saw this.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: He called them out, arguing that they should have the
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: same enthusiasm for Vice President Harris's campaign that they did
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: for him and his campaign back in two thousand and eight.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: In twenty twelve, now check this out, the Black Men
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: for Trump Advisory Board released a joint statement that said
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: President Obama's recent call for black men to support Kamala
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Harris based solely on her skin color rather than her policies,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: is deeply insulting. Black Americans are not a monolith.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: Don't nobody want to hit That's what they said. Don't
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: nobody want to hit that? And let me tell you something, man.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: What President Obama said that he had every right to
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: say because he happens to be one of us, y'all,
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: and then kill me the backlash. This black woman was
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: on CNN talking about how Dad he whoa slow your roll,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Slow your roll. It's some it's black dudes that can
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: say stuff to other black dudes and we go with it.
• 41:23
  Speaker 6: He one of them, He one of them. Jesse Jackson
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: used to be one of them. You know.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Lewis Farakham is another one who could say stuff to
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: black men and we listen to him, you understand.
• 41:39
  Speaker 6: I just so you you don't have talking about how
• 41:42
  Speaker 6: Dad he call our black men. He one of us.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: It's certain black dudes man we will listen to. And
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: he wasn't talking about all black men. We knew exactly
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: who who he was talking to. And then you know,
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: if you throw a rocket a pack of dogs, the
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: one that hollers on you hear Now he come to
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: little black man for Trump? And where that organization at
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: because I still I still ain't seen that.
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah what ass?
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: What ad what that group of where they come? But see,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: I keep telling y'all black dudes about trying to act
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: like you one of them, because when they threw with
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: your ass, they threw with your ass ass herschel Walker.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: They propped his ass up, bought in my house in
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: Georgia and everything. He lost that damn election. Where is
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: herschel Walker?
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: You ain't heard from him. They took his black ass
• 42:38
  Speaker 6: right on back to Texas. We don't need you, We
• 42:40
  Speaker 6: discard you. Tim Scott he finding out too.
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: He'd have done all that brown nosing, licking, kissing, lapping,
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: juice booty all. He'd have done all this here and
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: they still don't want his ass. He'd han't mad a
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: white guy. He'd have done everything just right, and he
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: can't get nowhere. What that other black dude that was
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: a Trump supporter and all that now they done went
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: on that website and found out you a black nazi
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: talking about your own slave. And I guess what now
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: they threw what your monky ass to y'all kill me
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: running over there. That's what y'all kill me with that
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: right there. Stop trying to fit in, and they don't
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: want your ass over here. I'm telling you what, dog,
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: I don't give a damn let him be mad?
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: What taking on?
• 43:28
  Speaker 7: Do?
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: What they gonna do? What ain't acting?
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: I don't care nothing about no black man for Trump
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: mad at me y'all stuck up under Donald Trump Junior's black,
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: his raggedy ass talking about it.
• 43:41
  Speaker 6: I'm surprised at how many black men come to me
• 43:44
  Speaker 6: talking about you.
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: You're a hero.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, what, ain't nobody said that to your monads?
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Who would have went up to Donald Trump Junior said
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: you're our hero? What black dude said that? Man, y'all
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: stop misrepresenting us. President Obama spoke to a certain group
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: of black men, and he had every right because he
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: one of us, and we know him to be one
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: of us.
• 44:08
  Speaker 6: So back off, my man. When he talked to.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Us, See, it's always us. You vote for her just
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: cause you black. Your mucket ass ain't voting for for
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: the same damn reason. So miss me with that steak
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: ass racism again.
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: And did man?
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Coming up now, you're listening Morning show coming up at
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today. The subject is she
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: sent me the Brew. Okay, she sent it to me.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about. We get to
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: just a little bit. But right now the nephew is here.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: He's back, and he's here with today's Frank phone call.
• 44:51
  Speaker 9: Nephew, what you got this right here is you didn't fall,
• 44:55
  Speaker 9: and you ain't getting no money.
• 44:58
  Speaker 10: You didn't fall, get no money, cat dog if you
• 45:03
  Speaker 10: would I I'm trying to reach a Glinda and please
• 45:08
  Speaker 10: how you doing?
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: My name is Brad.
• 45:11
  Speaker 10: I'm actually with the A and C Department Accidents and Conditions.
• 45:15
  Speaker 10: Wanted to give you a call and see how you're
• 45:17
  Speaker 10: doing this morning. I'm great, great now. I am the
• 45:23
  Speaker 10: the Accident and condition coordinated the last person that had
• 45:26
  Speaker 10: goes before actually issuing out a check and just wanted
• 45:29
  Speaker 10: to give you a call and see how everything is
• 45:32
  Speaker 10: going going. Have you Have you been to the doctor
• 45:34
  Speaker 10: on your fall and just wanted to do a follow
• 45:37
  Speaker 10: up with you and make sure everything is okay.
• 45:39
  Speaker 11: Yeah, everything is just fine.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: Have you needed to do any any rehabilitation work or
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: anything like that.
• 45:46
  Speaker 10: This is just a random procedure of all the notes
• 45:48
  Speaker 10: that I have to write down, and like I said,
• 45:50
  Speaker 10: this is the final step of getting you out of check.
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: Now. The last I heard you were offered two thousand dollars?
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: Is that correct?
• 45:58
  Speaker 11: If you were here going supervised, you wouldn't know all
• 46:01
  Speaker 11: that if you were there.
• 46:03
  Speaker 10: Okay, Well, I'm just looking at the file that I have. Man,
• 46:06
  Speaker 10: I don't have everything you got down.
• 46:09
  Speaker 11: That's what they offer.
• 46:10
  Speaker 10: Okay, well listen, here's what we're doing. I've also been
• 46:14
  Speaker 10: brought some other records. Is this the first time you've
• 46:17
  Speaker 10: actually had an incident like this? Is this the first
• 46:22
  Speaker 10: time you've had an incident of actually falling?
• 46:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, that's my first time.
• 46:27
  Speaker 10: Okay, Well, actually, what we're doing looking over the records here,
• 46:33
  Speaker 10: I've got some actual incidents that it seems like you've
• 46:36
  Speaker 10: actually fallen several times in other places. And uh, what
• 46:41
  Speaker 10: I'm having to do here, ma'am, is let you know
• 46:43
  Speaker 10: that I am not going to sign off on this
• 46:47
  Speaker 10: at all. So the money that has been offered to you,
• 46:49
  Speaker 10: I am no longer going to be I'm not going
• 46:52
  Speaker 10: to confirm this check to go out to you. I
• 46:54
  Speaker 10: don't think that there's anything wrong with you. I don't
• 46:57
  Speaker 10: think that you have a problem. I think that there's
• 46:59
  Speaker 10: something that you deliberately did in one of our stores.
• 47:03
  Speaker 11: I could cure less about what you think what happened
• 47:07
  Speaker 11: was that was on the floor. I feel they gonna
• 47:11
  Speaker 11: have to pay for the claim either way it go.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: No, we're not gonna actually, ma'am, what I'm gonna have
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: to do is get you to come down and.
• 47:17
  Speaker 11: Sign uh an agreement coming nowhere.
• 47:20
  Speaker 10: Yes, I'm gonna need you to come down and sign
• 47:22
  Speaker 10: an agreement that you actually made this whole thing up,
• 47:25
  Speaker 10: and I need that.
• 47:27
  Speaker 11: I'm not coming nowhere.
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: Look, ma'am, I don't.
• 47:29
  Speaker 10: Care if you come down or I have to come
• 47:31
  Speaker 10: down and haul your tin, because I'm not signing over
• 47:34
  Speaker 10: a check to you for somebody that deliberately laid down
• 47:37
  Speaker 10: in the floor and act like something was wrong with them.
• 47:39
  Speaker 11: Good and mine deliberately done it?
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: How exactly did it was?
• 47:45
  Speaker 11: Witnesses? You need to talk to them.
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: I've spoken to every witness.
• 47:48
  Speaker 11: And you know what, ma'am, everyone, thank you to every witness.
• 47:51
  Speaker 11: Because my friend was there, you haven't spoken to her.
• 47:55
  Speaker 4: There's a lot of people that assume that you're lying.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Well, I don't care what the man.
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: Let me explain something. We can take this thing further.
• 48:03
  Speaker 10: I even have you on video actually deliberately laying down
• 48:07
  Speaker 10: in the middle of the floor as if you have.
• 48:11
  Speaker 7: No I.
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: Am not, ma'am. We're not going to give you two thousand.
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: We're not going to give you two dollars. My name
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: is Brad with the A n C Department.
• 48:21
  Speaker 11: Well you want him John too much? For long because
• 48:23
  Speaker 11: you're food.
• 48:24
  Speaker 10: No, No, I'm not a fool. I want to make
• 48:26
  Speaker 10: sure that you understand. I want to make sure that
• 48:28
  Speaker 10: you understand that this is not something that you can
• 48:33
  Speaker 10: do or continue to do.
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: Now. I want to hear it out of your mouth.
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: You tell me, did you lay down on that floor deliberately?
• 48:39
  Speaker 11: You claim you think I'm finished sitting here and tell
• 48:43
  Speaker 11: you I deliberately laid down in the floor.
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: Oh am, I crazy crazy for you to sit here and.
• 48:49
  Speaker 11: Tell me that to sell that it at all.
• 48:53
  Speaker 10: No, deliberately laid down on that floor, and you're deliberately
• 48:57
  Speaker 10: trying to get two thousand dollars worth of money that
• 48:59
  Speaker 10: does not belong.
• 49:00
  Speaker 11: To you what you just reviewed damn tape.
• 49:02
  Speaker 10: Then, and you'll see what help would you like for
• 49:06
  Speaker 10: me to get authorities to come over, ma'am and bring
• 49:08
  Speaker 10: you in.
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: Because what.
• 49:11
  Speaker 11: You get, whether you want to get it.
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: If I need to send authorities.
• 49:15
  Speaker 11: Down there, you send them all over here them either
• 49:20
  Speaker 11: I don't.
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: They're gonna bring you in and you're gonna sign this form.
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: I have the deliberately lay down on that floor.
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: Your food, the nerve of you black people.
• 49:32
  Speaker 11: I'm not coming in. I'm not signing nothing. Now what
• 49:35
  Speaker 11: you tell, ma'am, I don't know. I ain't never heard
• 49:38
  Speaker 11: of you, tail, ma'am.
• 49:40
  Speaker 10: Now, I want you to bring your little now black
• 49:42
  Speaker 10: behind in here so we can get this stuff rectified
• 49:44
  Speaker 10: as what I want done?
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: Are you crazy? Your das?
• 49:48
  Speaker 11: You ain't the sharpest tool in the shade. I tell
• 49:50
  Speaker 11: you that I am not coming in. I don't know
• 49:53
  Speaker 11: what something have to.
• 49:54
  Speaker 10: Come in fun, I want you to sign a form
• 49:57
  Speaker 10: that you deliberately laid down on this floor, and it was.
• 49:59
  Speaker 11: All no wonder would I do something like that and
• 50:03
  Speaker 11: then go to jail.
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: Why would you lay down in the floor and in
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: the first place, and when you know nothing.
• 50:08
  Speaker 11: I told you I didn't do that.
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: Yes she did, Yes she did. It was in front
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: of you, in your eyes.
• 50:14
  Speaker 11: And tell when you're lying, I'm told you. I told
• 50:17
  Speaker 11: you what happened. That's all that.
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: Hey, can I say? Let me say one more? Hello?
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: Color right back Hello. I don't want to continue to
• 50:28
  Speaker 4: go back and forth.
• 50:29
  Speaker 11: Look, look you're really look, I told you what happened.
• 50:33
  Speaker 11: I'm not going to keep on telling you that. I
• 50:35
  Speaker 11: don't know why you keep calling me. Let me speak
• 50:38
  Speaker 11: to your damn supervisor.
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: Let me say well, first of all, man, First of all,
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: I am the supervisor. This is what I want.
• 50:43
  Speaker 6: I think we can get this cart.
• 50:45
  Speaker 11: Look what the I'm gonna come in time?
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: What's what I want you to do? If you come
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: down and saying it out together?
• 50:50
  Speaker 11: You think I'm going to come and sign some papers
• 50:54
  Speaker 11: saying I laid on the floor, There ain't none of
• 50:56
  Speaker 11: that truth was on the floor.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: I failed that.
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: If that's out, Now, what the.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Are you talking about?
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: Have you been drinking?
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: Have you been drinking?
• 51:06
  Speaker 11: You've been drinking. I want to go doing anything well,
• 51:09
  Speaker 11: I doing my own personal time is my best drinking.
• 51:15
  Speaker 11: Don't keep calling me with that.
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna say one thing.
• 51:20
  Speaker 11: That still hurt, and you're talking about you ain't gonna
• 51:22
  Speaker 11: give me no money? You crain't up damn gonna get
• 51:25
  Speaker 11: some money. They should hate that stipp flow. Then I
• 51:29
  Speaker 11: want to be having a ghost of none of this
• 51:32
  Speaker 11: you have I been drinking?
• 51:34
  Speaker 4: Glenda. I'm gonna say one more thing to you and
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: then I'm gonna let you go.
• 51:37
  Speaker 10: What this is nephew Timming from a Steve Harvey Morn Show.
• 51:41
  Speaker 10: You just got pray by your brother Jay James James,
• 51:49
  Speaker 10: Baby James.
• 51:53
  Speaker 11: Kat James. I'm gonna get him when he gets home.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: This is nephew Timmy. How you doing, a baby? You
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: stand your ground? Stand your ground? Baby standing.
• 52:07
  Speaker 7: You all right?
• 52:08
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm fine, I'm fine. My pressures going up a
• 52:11
  Speaker 11: little bit, but now I'm fine.
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: Now everybody here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: We love you, Glinda, Okay, thank you. I love you too.
• 52:22
  Speaker 4: And now you have it.
• 52:24
  Speaker 10: I'm back stupid is back back in the saddle. You
• 52:27
  Speaker 10: know you need to get back in your stupid saddy.
• 52:29
  Speaker 10: You know you gotta wiggle a little bit. It take
• 52:31
  Speaker 10: me a little minute to get as stupid as I
• 52:33
  Speaker 10: want to be. But I think I I think I
• 52:35
  Speaker 10: hit the mark. You know what I'm saying. I think
• 52:37
  Speaker 10: I'm right on the secret.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: Never questioned yourself about did he just say that was
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: the family secret? Did you just say that that was
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: the family secret? What was it again, Steve?
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: Was the family secret?
• 52:47
  Speaker 6: We all thought with Tom le this show. We thought
• 52:50
  Speaker 6: he was gonna be smartish.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Head that secret out. The answer is.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: I take long and started like that time he rode
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: his brand new bike down to the stove and came
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: home without the bike. But it's away your bike and
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: little Thomas oh, and then started running back down to
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: the stuff.
• 53:14
  Speaker 6: Oh, who who forgot that? Who who forgets that? They
• 53:19
  Speaker 6: got a new bike?
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: It was new, it was new man, It's dead boy,
• 53:26
  Speaker 4: all right.
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: I started having moments like that back. I say, school though,
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: nailed it, always a great student.
• 53:34
  Speaker 6: Just how of school?
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: By the way, the bike was gone when we got
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: to the store.
• 53:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah, now I had to go up here. I had
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: to kick Henry Ware.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Asked to get going up next. Strawberry Letter for today.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: This something she sent me, the proof. We'll get into
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening hard Morning Show. It
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you
• 53:56
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• 54:12
  Speaker 4: Right now. Buckle love it, hold on tight, We got
• 54:14
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• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you ne for you subjects. She sent me the proof.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for three years and
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: my husband is a cheater and a liar. A month ago,
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: he got a certified letter and I signed for it.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: The letter disappeared, and when I asked, he said it
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: was nothing. Then I started getting unknown calls and I
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: thought it was spam, so I ignored them. I noticed
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: my husband got the same calls from the same number,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: and he ignored them too. A couple of weeks ago,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: my husband ran to the store for me, and he
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: facetimed me. When he got there, he suddenly got distracted
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: and said he had to go. He must have put
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: his phone in his pants pocket because I could hear
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: a woman yelling in the back background, and he was
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: telling her to stop following him. I asked him about
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: it and he said it was a homeless person. A
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: week later, I found the certified letter and his drawer
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: and it was a notice for child support. I went
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: off on him and he finally admitted that he had
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: a one night stand with a woman right before we met.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: According to the paperwork, their child is four years old,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: so my husband's math ain't mas in because we've been
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: together six years. I called a strange number on my
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: phone and I talked to the woman. She said, it
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: is way more than a one night stand. She sent
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: me an envelope full of greeting cards from him to
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: her and cards from flowers he sent to her. He
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: sent her some of them were recent, since we've been married.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: My husband swears she's lying, even though it's his handwriting.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: This is serious because the child is involved. I know
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: wives have stayed with their men for far worse things,
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: but he won't be honest. Should I excuse myself from
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: this marriage and let them live happily ever after? Please advise? Well,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: here's the question. I mean, do you want to be
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: married to a cheater and a liar? Those are your words,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Those are your words and how you described him at
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: the very beginning of your letter, So again, do you
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: want to be married to a cheetah and a liar?
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: You also said these cards and letters she sent you
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: were in your husband's handwriting, and they were recent. So
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: he's still still entangled with this woman. She's not just
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: a baby mama. If they were co parenting, he wouldn't
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: be sending her cards and flowers.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: And all that.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: So why do you need him to be honest when
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: you've talked to the woman, she sent you the cards
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: he gave her, and you know there's a four year
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: old child involved, your husband's son. He lied to you
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: throughout your marriage and continues to lie it every turn,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: even though you know the truth now and you take
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: any more of his lives in your marriage. Is there
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: anything he can do to make this right? And finally,
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: will you ever be able to trust him again? These
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: are the questions you need to think about and ask yourself.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: And if the answer is no, then he's got to go.
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  Speaker 4: Steve, Wow, I knew it.
• 57:19
  Speaker 6: I knew it. I knew it when I read the letter.
• 57:21
  Speaker 6: What she was going to do, I knew it.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: And I know what you're gonna do.
• 57:24
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, she's back, She's back, She's back here.
• 57:29
  Speaker 7: You know what.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: This letter is a mess because there is some deception
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: going on. Let's just first admit that there is some
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: deception going on.
• 57:47
  Speaker 4: It is a mess.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: I understand the cause of the deception, which I will
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: try to regulate on this show. I won't have any
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: success because women don't they don't view this this way.
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: But I'm gonna help, try to help you all understand.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: She got a certified letter, then it disappeared. He asked
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: about it, He said it was nothing. She knowed she
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: had been getting a bunch of phone calls from me,
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: and she ignored those two. And then he was getting
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: the same calls from the same number, and he was
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: ignoring them too. And now he went to the store
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: from her and was facetiming, and all of a sudden
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: he got distracted and said he had to go. He
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: put his phone in his pocket, and you can hear
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: a woman yelling at him, and he was telling her
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: to stop following him. I asked him about it, and
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: he said it was a homeless person. Brilliant that brud
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: dog ha come through. Come through, homeless person, stop following me. Okay, good,
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: we're working. I asked him about it, and I found
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: the certified letter in his drawer. Now he's stupid. Now,
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: why how did you keep the damn letter?
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: Though?
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: Why would you keep the certified You read it, you
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: know what it said, throw it away? But it was
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: a notice for child support. I went off on him.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: He finally admitted that he had a one night stand
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: with a woman right before we met, and according to
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: the paperwork, the child is four years old. So my
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: husband's math ain't mathing because we've been together six years. Well,
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: hold up, hold up, hold up, back up, this bad
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: just timeliner. Y'all been together six years. When y'all first met,
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: y'all wasn't really together. Y'all was just talking. You only
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: been married three years. The baby four years old. It
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: takes nine months to make the baby. Then the baby here,
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: that's two years right there, I say, Bam, we right
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: back at six.
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  Speaker 6: Did you see how I did that?
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: You did?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: You said that, Mathew, Matthew, y'all been married three years,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: the baby four years.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 4: That's one year.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 6: To take nine months to make a baby, that's two years.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 4: That's five years.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 6: We right back, and when y'all first met, Bam, here
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 6: we go. So we do have that loophole.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: That's what you're trying to find.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 4: Really get out.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 6: I got to get this bro a one loophole.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: She's already said he was a liar and a cheater.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: All right, well, Charley, that's what you want to go with.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 5: So that's what she said.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: She's the white part talk. Part two of your response
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the subject is
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: she sent me the proof. We'll get back into it
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Morning show, All right, Come on, Steve,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is she sent
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: me the proof?
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 10: Uh.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: This couple been married three years. She says her husband
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: is a cheater and a got a certified letter came
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: in the mail. All of a sudden, she noticed the
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: letter disappeared. He had opened it, told it wasn't nothing.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: She had been getting some phone calls from some numbers
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: she thought was spam. He was getting calls from the
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: same number. She ignored him. He ignored him too. He
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: went to the store for he facetimed his wife from
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: the store. All of a sudden, she heard a woman
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: yelling at him. He must have put the phone in
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: his pocket without cutting it off, he told her quick
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: following him, you go home. She asked him who it was.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: He brilliantly said it was a homeless person. Perfect.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 6: I asked him about it. He said it was a
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 6: homeless person. A week later, you find she finds the
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 6: certified letter in his jower. Why this man kept this letter,
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 6: I do not.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: You're disappointing in him.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: God you should have put this in the real well
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: of your car where the spare tires had dog.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 4: They'll never go in there.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: You could have did anything, man. You could have told
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: the back hair rest off the back seat and put
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: it up under that little hole and there. It's some
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: places you could put this anyway. And found a letter
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: and there was a notice for child support.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 4: I went off on him.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: He finally admitted he had a one night staying with
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: a woman right before we met.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 6: And according to the paperwork, they child is four years old.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 6: So my husband's math aink't mathing because we've been together
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 6: six years. No, No, No, you've known him six years.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: We've been together.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: No, they've known each other six years. That's what y'all
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: always think. When we met, we was together.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 6: We wasn't. We just met. We knew each other. I
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 6: was hollering at you, but we was not together yet.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: But if the baby is four and y'all been married three,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: that's at least a year before you met. And then
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: when the baby was uh conceived, that's another nine months.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: That's enough damn near two years. That's the baby four.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: Y'all be married three, that's fourth minus.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 6: One plus one.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 4: Were right? There.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: We had five years right there, that's where we first met.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: He is right spot on the money. But he said
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: it was a one night standing. This is where we're
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: getting into trouble at I called the strange number on
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: the phone and I talked to the woman. She said
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: it was way more than a one night stand. She
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: sent me an envelope full of greeting calls from him
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: to her and calls from.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 4: Flowers he sent her.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 6: Some of them were recent.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 5: Since we've been married.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: God, this is where we help him. I can't help him.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: Man can't help him. Give him a lot.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: Now, this envelope, there's too much stuff in this. There's
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: one we can get out, But this envelope full of stuff.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: My husband swear she's lying, even though it's his handwriting.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: That ain't handwriting. That's I get out of that. A
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 6: lot of people write like me.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: What's a handwriting line?
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: What is that?
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 9: Well?
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: A lot of people write like me.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: Just lying, you know.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: I you know, before we got met, I was in
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: for a fraudry of fraud fraud cases and uh, you know,
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: and found out the people it wasn't me, wasn't my
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: hand right? A lot of people write like me, This
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: is serious because the child is involved. I know wives
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: have stayed with that man for far worse things, but
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: he won't be honest. Should I excuse myself from this
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: marriage and let them live happily ever after? Please a
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: buy First of all, he don't want her. Let me
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: just tell you that he don't want her. The reason
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: I know he don't want her is because he has
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: done everything in his power to fix this mistake he made.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 6: Thus you have the lies.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: And here's the part they don't understand, Jr. The lies
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: is because he loves you.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 3: The God that.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 4: Kidding me right now.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: If he didn't care, he lets you get hurt. But
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: he been trying to protect you from his mistake. He
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: made a mistake. His protection is to lie to cover
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: the mistake. And let me tell you something. Obviously, he
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: don't want the woman because now she got the stalking
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: to get him to come through for something. Now she
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: got to follow him. So now there's proof that he's
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: avoiding the woman because you heard him. He didn't even
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: know you was listening. Stop following me. He don't want this.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: He made the mistake. The girl of his dreams is
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: probably who he's married to, and he trying to hang
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: on to it, but he will be honest. Well, see,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: y'all keep talking about honesty. Were he try and hold
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: on this to his marriage. We have time to be
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: honest right now.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: She wants him to tell her the truth.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 6: Well, see the truth is the baby's out there. You
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 6: got the truth?
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: Honestly has to do with time now, Yeah, you got
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: the truth.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: He don't want you to think, he continued, because he
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: trying to keep his marriage y'all doing.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 4: He's saying, I do, brother, God Man, damn, thank you,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 4: Tommy and Kim. But he ain't care.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 6: All he would say is hey, just deal with it.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 6: What about it?
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah? I did it.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey
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• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: a cheater too.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 4: He learned because he love you no way.
• 1:06:51
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• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: After the Hours Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: line is carry I'm just telling you're listening Steve Harvey
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Morning Show time out for Junior and sports talk.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 5: What you got, Junior got pippot Deer Week six NFL.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 5: Here we go.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 8: The Bears beat the Jaguars thirty five to sixteen. You
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 8: picked the Jaguars, pimp the Texas thirty Did you pick
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 8: the Texas?
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: They beat the Patrios forty one to twenty one?
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 6: Out of my shirt?
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: The Ravens over the Command that's thirty to twenty three?
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 4: Picked it?
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 5: The Eagles beat the Browns twenty.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 10: Six Do.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 6: I wasn't really you call it because I know better.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 5: The Packers.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 8: The Packers beat the cart These thirty four to thirteen.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 8: Then you got the Saints, man, they failed to the
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 8: Bucks fifty fifty one to twenty seven.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 5: A miss Yon, how is Hot's doing?
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 4: Who?
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 6: That is a mess?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 8: Then you did pick the coachs man? You picked the
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 8: Coats twenty to seventeen. Still we got the Chargers, man,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 8: the Charges, you picked them? The Charges over the Broncos
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 8: twenty three to sixteen. Okay, I know this will hurt you,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 8: but you was right about this. The Steelers over the
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 8: Raiders thirty two to thirteen.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that hurt me, but I was right.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: Well, how about this pimp? How about this man? The
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 5: Lions over the Cowboys forty seven to.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 4: Everybody have it. Y'all didn't listen to me.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 6: Now you're seeing popping off. Got you in the club
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 6: dancing your ass all, break it down, get to that
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 6: part man, my dude, man, there you go.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 8: You picked this with two pippy the Falcons over the
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 8: Panthers thirty eight to twenty.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, now here where we fell off pimping. You
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 5: picked the Giant has to beat the Bengals.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 4: That didn't happen.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 5: The Bengals was over the Giant seventeen to seven.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 6: That was just a hopeful.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: He was just hoping on that one.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 5: Okay, here we go, pivot.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 8: Then you pick the Bills to beat the Jets twenty
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 8: three to twenty.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 5: Not a bad week. Wasn't bad yet? You know you
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 5: had you had nine picks, you had nine right, five wrong?
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 3: That ain't bad.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 8: That's coold week.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: That's still money five.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: You know you go next week it gonna be good. Now,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 4: what do you think wrong with these cowboys? Man?
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: I don't really give a damn about the Cowboys. We
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: have a major problem. Please, we have a major problem.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: That's the problem.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 6: I'm just gonna tell you right now. I have given
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 6: up on this season.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Really yes, week six?
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah, six, it's over, though, I don't know. I don't
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 6: know how to fix this. You thinks sex.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 5: Deshaun wats he's problem, the whole problem.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 6: No, he's not the whole problem.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: The air of it. Sraig coming up at the top
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: of the hour, Thank you Junior. A man on social
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: media needs some advice. He says, how do I get
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: over my bad parents being good with my kid? We'll
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: talk about it right after this.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 6: Oh that happens.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: You're listening Hard Morning Show? All right, Steve DK on
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM rights. I realized that this might be
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: a therapy issue. But anyway, my parents were bad parents.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: My mom had me when she was fifteen, and it
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: was clear that my teen parents were more interested in
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: being young than being parents. As a result, I have
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: almost no relationship with them. That changed, however, when I
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: had kids of my own. Now they're going out of
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: their way to be to be the best and most
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: doting grandparents ever, and I find myself resenting the heck
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: out of it. They're giving me the quote get over
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: it by but this isn't something that I've been able
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: to just shake off any advice.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, bro, listen, parenting doesn't come with the manual.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: And they had you so young. I mean they were
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: kids trying to raise a child, So you had children
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: raising a child. I mean, if they made huge mistakes,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: they didn't get it right, but you turned out fine. Look,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: by the grace of God, here you are. Now you
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: have a family. Now they now they trying to get
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: it right. Man, They just trying to get it right.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 7: You.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: Resentling is not going to help the situation at all.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 2: It does nothing. Plus they're older now, they just know
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: more about life. And I'm pretty sure they wish they
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: could get over it. I mean, you know, I'm pretty
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: sure they wish they had done a lot of things differently.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: But you have an opportunity, man, to let it go,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 2: you know, because you saying that, They saying they got
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: these get over it vibes. But and that's because there's
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: nothing they can do to go back and rectify. So
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 2: they're just trying to get it right moving forward.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: So they yes, no, yeah anything yeahs trauma and stuff
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: like that, Yeah.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: Just say yes, he should probably seek therapy because therapy
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: is really good for you.
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  Speaker 1: It is for sure.
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  Speaker 4: My parents, my parents beat me. They beat me. I'm
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  Speaker 4: up to it right now.
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  Speaker 5: If I could go back and put.
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  Speaker 8: Charges on my pants for the way he beat me,
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  Speaker 8: I would I walk in the courtroom and turn the
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  Speaker 8: air right in.
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  Speaker 4: I should will, sure, But I'm fine. I'm doing well.
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  Speaker 10: At all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got over because we had to.
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  Speaker 4: That's funny.
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  Speaker 1: We do it well.
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  Speaker 4: I work for him, so.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he should try it. All right, we
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  Speaker 1: have time for another one. See this is the Joycelin
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  Speaker 1: on Facebook. She says, I love my parents, but they
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  Speaker 1: are the worst and totally miserable almost all of the time.
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  Speaker 1: When they're not doing the jobs that they hate or
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  Speaker 1: spending time with people they don't like, they're arguing with
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  Speaker 1: each other about stuff that's not important. I know they
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  Speaker 1: used to be happy, but I've never seen it. I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't even know where to begin to try and help them.
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  Speaker 1: But I do know that I don't want to end
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  Speaker 1: up like them. So here's a question. Is being around
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  Speaker 1: them more likely to make me end up being like them?
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  Speaker 1: Or is it a good guide on how to not
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  Speaker 1: live my life?
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  Speaker 2: Wow?
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Rito judge on the pair.
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  Speaker 2: You know I keep telling y'all that parenting is hard.
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  Speaker 2: It is hard, man, and you are going to make
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  Speaker 2: a lot of mistakes as a parent. I know I have,
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  Speaker 2: We probably all had. Yeah, and now y'all want to
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  Speaker 2: hold it against a parent till the day you died.
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  Speaker 2: You know, didn't go ahead. But man, people make mistakes
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  Speaker 2: and you're going to find that out when you become
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  Speaker 2: a parent. You're going to get it wrong a lot
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  Speaker 2: of times, because, like right now, I had one one
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  Speaker 2: child told me that they loved languages, not gifts. They
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  Speaker 2: love languages words and I don't specialize in words, but
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  Speaker 2: you take these gifts.
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  Speaker 6: Though I ain't seen to give back.
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  Speaker 2: Now one of them love signs, not now one I
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  Speaker 2: wanted verbal. Okay, cool, come in here and ask me
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  Speaker 2: for something else.
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  Speaker 6: Watch this him.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I'm gonna do, but.
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  Speaker 1: I'll talk to them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: and would you rather right after this you're listening Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It's time now, guys for a round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather not be able to control your laughter?
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  Speaker 1: Or not to be able to control your tears? Laughter
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: or tears?
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  Speaker 4: One of them? Poor lord, I laughed at the wrong.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: That was not funny? Why are you laughing.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 4: Right now? I have to laugh at the roll? And
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  Speaker 4: wouldn't stop.
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking about and been the only one laughing overlaughing,
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking about hard, I'm talking about but I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: about ben over laughing. And when I rose up, I
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  Speaker 2: found out that really the severity of the situation.
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  Speaker 6: Which made me laugh even hard.
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  Speaker 1: No, you couldn't stop, all right? Would you rather give
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  Speaker 1: up traveling? Or would you rather give up celebrating the holidays?
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  Speaker 5: Wow?
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  Speaker 4: Travel? I gotta have.
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  Speaker 1: Holidays traveling, Okay, traveling see the traveling man on this show.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not giving them. We're just gonna have to move
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  Speaker 6: christ We're gonna have it on off day.
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  Speaker 4: Something we do not about. Got to get away, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather be able to only shower twice a month,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: or check your phone one time daily, once a day.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not giving up showering.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta take that shower. Yeah, I'm gonna don't check
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 2: his phone once a day. I do that often anyway, though.
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  Speaker 2: And I'll tell you something. I ain't got to check
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: another email.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, all right.
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather have out of control body hair or
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: a strong, punchent body odor.
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  Speaker 10: Well, we just took the shower on the last one,
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  Speaker 10: so we ain't gonna have nobody Okay, body half called
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 10: body half?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know where it's growing in. I don't know
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 4: if I got a back full of hair. I don't
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  Speaker 4: know why. I just be aware wolf and because yeah,
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 4: just just you know.
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather get all your wisdom teeth pulled at
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  Speaker 1: one time? Or would you get rather get your butt
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: cheeks parce butt cheeks pissed?
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  Speaker 6: I got all full of mine done at the same time, too.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 4: You got to put me on the pierce my butt.
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  Speaker 4: You which one I'm gonna go with? The wisdom deep? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: that other one sounds. I can't say that. I'm getting
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  Speaker 4: a bad party.
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  Speaker 1: What a freak party gone wrong?
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  Speaker 5: Say?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'll want to go into wizard Chief because that's
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: what i'd I actually got them all done it for Yeah,
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: I five hours, I did it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thank you guys. That's today's round of
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  Speaker 1: would you Rather? Coming up at forty nine minutes after
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  Speaker 1: the hour, we'll close out the show with the one
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  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, before you get
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  Speaker 1: to your closing remarks, we know that you and Charlemagne
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  Speaker 1: are friends, right, and you're like a mentor to him.
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  Speaker 1: He looks up to you. Well, today Charlemagne is sitting
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  Speaker 1: down with Vice President Kamala Harris. It's going to be
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. You know Charlemagne is a good guy Man.
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  Speaker 2: I'm really proud of all these cats in radio man
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  Speaker 2: for taking the standard they've taken doing this election. Ricky Smiley,
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: d O Hulet, Charlemagne Us. You know, we've really taken
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  Speaker 2: the banner and done our part in this, you know,
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: in spite of the naysayers, which are not important to me.
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  Speaker 6: You know, listen to me, y'all.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: Whenever you make the decision to do better, to do right,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: to improve, or to accomplish, prepare yourself for the naysayers,
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: for the haters, for the negativity.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 4: I don't know why it's at the level that it's
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: at right.
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  Speaker 2: Now, especially amongst ourselves as black, but you have got
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: to learn how to let this stuff roll off your back.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 2: And I'm talking to myself with this closing remark. Also,
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: you have got to stay focused on the task at hand.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: Then they sayers are coming. You know, whenever God is
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: doing something for you, you have to understand the devil
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: sees it. And sometimes the devil sees more in you
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: than you see in yourself, because the devil know that
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: God's plan for you is to prosper you. He knows
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  Speaker 2: that and it is his job. And I say this
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 2: all the time, his number one job is to rob
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: you of your destiny, is to make you not get
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: to be what God has for you.
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  Speaker 6: And part of it right now is social media. It
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 6: is alarming the way.
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  Speaker 2: It's used, man, and it is used a lot of
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: the times by us against us. It is sickening to
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: what it has become. And there's nothing I can do
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: about it. But it's something you can do about it.
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  Speaker 4: Though.
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  Speaker 2: You can keep yourself moving forward by ignoring the the
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: business of social media, it's predominantly negative. Even if you
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  Speaker 2: try to that, man, I don't care what you do.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 2: You can post a picture of a newborn baby and
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: say congratulations to the Walker family on the birth of
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: the new baby. Somebody got some negative to say about
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: the baby, said that ain't they baby? They just be
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: going that baby ugly? What's the matter with whose baby?
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: I don't know why we always talking about them.
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  Speaker 6: Man, you can't do nothing. I don't care what you post.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: President Obama came out talking to black men about getting
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 2: out supporting Kamala Harris. We had the nerve to have
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  Speaker 2: black women, some black women come on these shows talking
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: about heat. Doesn't have the right to talk to black men.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, you ain't a black man. The black
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  Speaker 2: dudes didn't have a problem with Obama because we knew
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: who he was talking to and what he was talking about,
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: and we knew where it was coming from. It was
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: coming from a place of pride and dignity in knowing
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: who we are, and he didn't exclude.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 6: Himself from being one of us.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: We.
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  Speaker 2: He kept saying we, we, we, He kept saying we,
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 2: not y'all, y'all, y'all, he kept saying we. You know why,
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 2: because he knows he's one of us. It's amazing, man,
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: how we do this.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 7: Y'all.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: Stay the course, stay on your path, stay on track.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: Don't let these nay says and haters get to you.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 2: I had to talk to a good friend of mine
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 2: who's famous too, and something had happened online. They were
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: just eating him up and he called me. He said, man, on,
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: understand this, man. I just man, it's so crazy man.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: I mean, he was actually going through some depression about it.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: I had to grab him and say, hold on, man,
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 2: listen to me.
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  Speaker 6: Do you know who you are?
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 4: Do you know whose you are?
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 6: See?
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: You got to keep that in mind, that you are
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 2: a child of God, that you are a creation by God,
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: and when the devil send his ms for you, you
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: are not over here by yourself. God made you and
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 2: created you and created this path for you. And your
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: path is very, very unique. I don't know no people
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 2: that's travel the exact same path. I know a lot
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: of people, I know some similarities, but I don't know
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 2: nobody had the exact same path. Stay the course, You're
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 2: gonna be fine. You just got to stop with it
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 2: allowing the haters to do what they do, even when
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 2: they mask it and try to make it sound like
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 2: they pulling yours. Cause people get on these podcasts talking
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 2: about I'm a truth teller, I'm just gonna tell you
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: the truth, and then they mass some of their little
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: truth with a whole bunch of lies, or it's just
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: lies spun so well that it sounds like truth.
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  Speaker 6: Do you know, man and every woman in here can
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 6: attest to this.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 2: You've all been lied to by a man that made
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 2: it sound so good it sounded believable, didn't it. Well,
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 2: don't you think them the same dudes can lie about
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: other things too. Be careful out there. Y'all know who
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 2: you are, but more importantly, know whose you are. You
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 2: are a child of God, and with that that comes
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 2: a level of protection if you allow him. And the
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: best way to let him protect you is that sometimes
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 2: you just got to be still and let them say
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 2: what they gonna say, because if you give it forty
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: eight hours, they gonna be on to something else anyway.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: It's just the way it work, man. Just keep your
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: mouth closed and stay on the wall, and remember who
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: you are. God is in the blessing business. Talk to
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: God today, y'all. He'd absolutely love to hear from y'all.
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  Speaker 6: Have a good one.
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