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Steve and Marjorie Anniversary, Jimmy Kimmel, Dr. Bernice King, Bill Cosby and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all all suit on don giving them like
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  Speaker 1: the million bu bus things and it's tough, y'all. Good
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  Speaker 1: Steve listening to movie together for Stu. I don't join Jo.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn you. You gotta turn anyone
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  Speaker 1: to turnout. Turn You got to turn them out. Then
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  Speaker 1: turn the water the water. Come come on your baby now.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh. I show will good morning everybody. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now one and only.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh. Steve Harvey got a radio show, Yeah you do.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. But like I said
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  Speaker 1: the other day, you got something too, though, don't you.
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  Speaker 1: God hadn't done something wonderful for you. You just gotta
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  Speaker 1: thank Him for it, you know, in the midst of
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  Speaker 1: all that's going on in my life and in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I always use myself as an example because well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that way. I guarantee one hundred percent I
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. Um, here's the situation, you know,
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  Speaker 1: with everything that's going on in my life and all
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  Speaker 1: the things I'm asking God for in the midst of
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  Speaker 1: a taxing and a very trying situation. That's very challenging
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  Speaker 1: for me right now. Man, God just keeps on, keeps
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  Speaker 1: on surprising me. He keeps doing things. And I want
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  Speaker 1: you to look at your life. Or for a second,
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  Speaker 1: let's make two columns here. Let's make a column of
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  Speaker 1: all the things you want from God. You know, just
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  Speaker 1: do that throughout the course of the day. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you know, run down the list of all the things
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  Speaker 1: you're asking God for, all the things you're praying for,
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  Speaker 1: the things you aspire to, what your dreams, your visions,
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  Speaker 1: whatever it is. Just make a column, a list of
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  Speaker 1: all those things. Let's make three lists. And then the
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  Speaker 1: second list, I want you to make a list of
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  Speaker 1: everything that you've been asking God for. So I guess
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  Speaker 1: that could be a little bit of the same. But
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  Speaker 1: this third list, I want you to do a check
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  Speaker 1: off point. I want you to do a make a
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  Speaker 1: list of everything that God has given you that you've
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  Speaker 1: asked him for. Just think about it like that for
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  Speaker 1: a second. I may be explaining a little wrong right now,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna pull it together for you. Make a
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  Speaker 1: list of everything you're asking God for, just just listed.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's Okay, it's a dream board. You can
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  Speaker 1: call it that. I got one. It's a vision board.
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  Speaker 1: You know. Every everybody's got something you hope for. Make
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  Speaker 1: a list now. I want you to make another list
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  Speaker 1: of everything you've asked God for that he's given you already.
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  Speaker 1: See this is a good list because sometimes and what
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  Speaker 1: I've been guilty of and maybe you two in my
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  Speaker 1: request list on my dream board. I keep focusing so
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  Speaker 1: hard sometimes on the what I'm yet to receive. I
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  Speaker 1: keep focusing so hard on the what I hope he
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  Speaker 1: gives me. I keep focusing so hard on the things
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  Speaker 1: that I yet not fulfilled in my life that sometimes,
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  Speaker 1: as he starts checking off my wish list the things
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  Speaker 1: I've asked for in the past that have come to
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  Speaker 1: pass that he's given me, I sometimes, in praying for
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  Speaker 1: what I want forget to thank him for what he's
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  Speaker 1: done for me. And I'm currently in the middle of
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  Speaker 1: that situation. And this morning when I woke up, I really, man,
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  Speaker 1: I just got on my knees this morning and I
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  Speaker 1: quit tripping for a second. I said, Man, hey, God,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I really do need all them things
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  Speaker 1: I'm asking for, and I'm really am believing that you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna give it to me. But in the meantime, though, Man,
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  Speaker 1: have I overlooked some important details here. I had to
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  Speaker 1: really look at what he's done for me. I mean, look, man,
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  Speaker 1: take yourself out of it personally and look, well, you
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  Speaker 1: can leave yourself in it however you want to be.
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  Speaker 1: Some people can't do that, So just leave yourself in
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  Speaker 1: it there. But man, I started looking at the eye
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  Speaker 1: part of me, and I started looking around at the
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  Speaker 1: what's happening overall, Like, Man, he has kept my family
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  Speaker 1: together in spite of the attempts to tear it apart.
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  Speaker 1: I look at all of that. I look at how
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  Speaker 1: he's blessing my children with the desires of their heart,
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  Speaker 1: which I pray for my kids. You know, I want
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  Speaker 1: my kids to have a better life than I've had.
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  Speaker 1: I really really do. I don't want them to take
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  Speaker 1: as long as it took me to get it together.
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  Speaker 1: I really really don't. I'm trying to say, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: if you go to college, this is what you can be.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do like your father did. Don't go three years,
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  Speaker 1: drop out, throw yourself into a spiral and then got
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  Speaker 1: to start to scratch all over again. You know, and
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  Speaker 1: for the most part so far, you know, they're doing
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  Speaker 1: quite well of it. You know, you know they they're
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  Speaker 1: getting kicked around a little bit, but that's life. I
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  Speaker 1: started thinking of the blessings that he's helped me overcome
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  Speaker 1: with some of the previous mistakes I've made in relationships
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  Speaker 1: in my life. And then I started looking about the
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  Speaker 1: things he's blessed me with that I've been asking him for.
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  Speaker 1: But since I've moved on from it, I forgot to
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  Speaker 1: keep thinking him because I gotta always thank God for
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  Speaker 1: a roof over my head, because guess what, when I
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  Speaker 1: was asking for the roof and I didn't really have it,
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  Speaker 1: then he gave me one. Since he gave it to me, what,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just cool now, I can't ever go back to
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  Speaker 1: him and go, hey, man, I really do appreciate this
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  Speaker 1: roof over my head because that was a time when
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  Speaker 1: I was living in a car. But see, so every
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  Speaker 1: morning I wake up, I gotta remember the fact that
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  Speaker 1: I have a home now, because I got to look
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  Speaker 1: back and go, man, that was time, Steve, when you
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  Speaker 1: didn't have no home. But see, we forget what God
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  Speaker 1: has done for us, because in our column that won't
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  Speaker 1: column the need column. We oftentimes forget for the columns
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  Speaker 1: and the check marks, as He's already fulfilled in our life.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to take inventory every now and then daily
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  Speaker 1: if possible. But I know we're humans. We're not going
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  Speaker 1: to do that. I don't. But you've got to take
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  Speaker 1: inventory of your life to say, hey, what has God
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  Speaker 1: done for me? You know? And remember something else too.
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  Speaker 1: Change is good, but change is challenging. Accept the challenge
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  Speaker 1: that it is. Look a lot of you come up
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  Speaker 1: to me all the time and say, Steve Man, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: man boy, you in the morning. Man, I really be
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  Speaker 1: needing that, Like I under said it one hundred times,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say it again, y'all. I'll be needing
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  Speaker 1: it too. You know. You understand, sometimes what God is
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  Speaker 1: dealing with me is for me. But now I'm in
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  Speaker 1: a sharing position where I can open up and if
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  Speaker 1: I just if I just quit being so about me
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  Speaker 1: and become a little bit more transparent, I can maybe
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  Speaker 1: some of me that's happening to me is happening to you,
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  Speaker 1: and you can see some of this in me. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I use myself as an example, because man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: catching it too. Y'all, I ain't perfect either. So for
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  Speaker 1: those of you that come up to me and say that,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to understand these these talks in the morning. Man,
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  Speaker 1: this is important for me because man, I need these
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  Speaker 1: conversations from God. I need God to continue to strengthen me,
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  Speaker 1: to show me the way, to help me understand what's
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  Speaker 1: happening to me. And see, as we've all those of
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  Speaker 1: you who have made the decision to change, to become
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  Speaker 1: a better person, a better woman, a better boy, a
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  Speaker 1: better girl, a better man. For those of you who
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  Speaker 1: have made the decision to change, change is a challenge,
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  Speaker 1: and accept the challenge because it's gonna come. Because right
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  Speaker 1: out of that here come to haters. Here they come
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  Speaker 1: people you don't even know, discussing your life and your change.
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  Speaker 1: If God see you really really mean what you say
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  Speaker 1: in spite of what they say about you, God will
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  Speaker 1: raise you above the phrase. He'll keep promoting you, He'll
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  Speaker 1: keep blessing you, He'll keep moving you up. He will
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  Speaker 1: use you as a show off point. He'll show you off. Man.
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  Speaker 1: He'll make you. He'll make you look good to people
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  Speaker 1: man who wish you'd fall all day long, And so
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  Speaker 1: to all your haters. All your haters will end up
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  Speaker 1: just watching you rise. Man, They will watch you continue
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  Speaker 1: to grow. That's what God will do for you. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You can fool the world, but you can't fool God.
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  Speaker 1: God know your heart, He knows your every thought. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to David Good morning show. Ladies and gentlemen
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  Speaker 1: might have your attention. Please, it is time. We are here.
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  Speaker 1: I am hell, they are here. We are all hell
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  Speaker 1: this morning, coming to you as a drunken Englishman in
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  Speaker 1: honor of Bam. Let me set up more probably out,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Earl of Artingham has been a little
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  Speaker 1: into the tea of it. We are hell and honor
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  Speaker 1: of the racial unrest in the United States. I am
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  Speaker 1: hell to straighten out a couple of issues on behalf
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  Speaker 1: of the black population. Go ahead, Earl, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: That was my duke, Duke Thomas smiles, Morning Duke. More
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  Speaker 1: the money girl, Morning guys, Junior Junior page squire man. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Lady Carla Fra morning Duke, and of
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  Speaker 1: course my Queen herself no other than the strawberry patch
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  Speaker 1: Stephen Queen, shout and listen. I have any questions this
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  Speaker 1: morning from all the way from him in England. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I dude, yeah, he said you were drunk. What do
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  Speaker 1: you drink? Drinking English Berbot is what I've had. I
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  Speaker 1: had a spot on that, a moment of how I
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  Speaker 1: was having in it. It was just quite delicious with
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  Speaker 1: my tea this morning. Tea and Captain Crunch serial quite
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  Speaker 1: a combination. Next question, yes, yes, Do you have any
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  Speaker 1: opinion about all the statues that they've been tearing down
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  Speaker 1: over here? Down? Tell them all down. No one cares
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  Speaker 1: about the damn South rising? Can't rise again? Dam Lee,
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  Speaker 1: damn Lee down your Confederate hate that flag? And what
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  Speaker 1: he is? Drunk? Isn't He shouldn't have said that. But
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  Speaker 1: that's hard feeling, Julia. Not. I'm here to class some
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  Speaker 1: things out. I want to inform my hill and a
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  Speaker 1: brother that the South cannot rise again. Yes, tell them, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be there. Lay your flags, and until the star
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  Speaker 1: that cross fall off of it, it'll know you be marching.
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  Speaker 1: Will you be marching with us too? Yes, I'll march,
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  Speaker 1: not long dollar only the only daytime, march what happens
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  Speaker 1: at night and start throwing things. The last time I
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  Speaker 1: ducked I can't remember. I'm not gonna be Can I
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  Speaker 1: come back after this next breakfast? So many, all the
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  Speaker 1: things to talk about from over here in England. Just
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  Speaker 1: want you to know that way and die. I support
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that you're doing over there, and to
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  Speaker 1: hell with Hannity coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 1: the hour. You heard him, the Duke shall return. The
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  Speaker 1: Duke of Idingham right after this you're listening to, the
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  Speaker 1: Earl of Dingham decided that he has to rush back.
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  Speaker 1: That's saying goodbye. Stephen wants to do this. See how
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  Speaker 1: obviously some major hit down. I'm gonna step away now
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  Speaker 1: and go and get some tea. Thank you, Thomas Kyle
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  Speaker 1: was great, Queen Lady Carl, thank you so much. Bye
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  Speaker 1: bye bye Turtles too. That was fun having him around.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't heard from him in a minute. Yeah, titles
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  Speaker 1: m well les, he switches gears. I'll tell you this.
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  Speaker 1: It's time for the CLO. The Chief Love Officer, the
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey is back and Steve, welcome back.
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  Speaker 1: This first situation here is from Kita and Mobile Cota. Coreta,
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  Speaker 1: core Rita. Sure it ain't Coretta, Yeah, I'm sure I'm sure, Coreta. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She's from Mobile, Alabama. She says she got married in December,
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  Speaker 1: and one week after their honeymoon, her husband did a
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  Speaker 1: total three sixty on her um. I'm no longer happily married.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't take me out anymore, and he's out every weekend.
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  Speaker 1: If I question him about anything, he tells me to
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  Speaker 1: stop nagging him because I got the ring and the man.
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  Speaker 1: Now he has started arguments so he can leave the house.
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  Speaker 1: I'm hip to what he's doing, and I'm thinking I
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  Speaker 1: should leave the house one night and let him come
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  Speaker 1: home and wonder where I am. Or should I pick
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  Speaker 1: up and leave him for good. I'm tired of talking
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  Speaker 1: to him about this. I don't know one. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You've only been married a
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  Speaker 1: short time, y'all ain't even ever gone through anything. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: that's all he was doing. He like, he said, you
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  Speaker 1: got the man in the ring, and maybe that's maybe
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  Speaker 1: he'd have gave you all he gonna give you. Sounds
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  Speaker 1: like it, and so I don't know it. So how
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  Speaker 1: you feel, I don't you know? Well, you think you thought,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you started argument to lead a house, But
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  Speaker 1: one week after the honeymoon. Yeah, I don't start argument
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  Speaker 1: to go play basketball. Just go play basket right now,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way to well, I'm gonna light of fire
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  Speaker 1: my house just to play golf. Yeah no, No, if
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna liight to fire the house, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: for another reason. So should she pack up and leave
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  Speaker 1: him for good? She's still gonna should do that, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: but she's tired. But you know, make a move yourself. See,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's a different thing when she was on
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  Speaker 1: the other foot, and you know you might get his attention,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. So you're saying, try some
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  Speaker 1: things before she she only been with the man in
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  Speaker 1: a week. I don't know what ten Well she's done
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  Speaker 1: with him, Yeah, I mean, but what you marrieds asked for? Well,
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  Speaker 1: something's wrong with him before. No, something was wrong with
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  Speaker 1: him before they got married, and she just didn't notice it.
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  Speaker 1: And now she got married, now she got an up
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  Speaker 1: close view of it. I can't believe that after one
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  Speaker 1: one week of married, this all this began. This was
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  Speaker 1: going on before. They ain't just start argument. Ain't nothing
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  Speaker 1: new but the argument. She ignored the red flags. That's right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, this is from Will and Saint Louis. He says,
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  Speaker 1: my wife and I have been married for eleven years
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  Speaker 1: and we work from home. My wife has become addicted
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  Speaker 1: to online shopping, and three or four packages come to
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  Speaker 1: our house weekly. Yeah, she's ordered new patio furniture, dishes, clothes, shoes, etc.
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  Speaker 1: And she uses our American Express because we get points
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  Speaker 1: when we use it. She also knows. She also knows
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  Speaker 1: that I pay this bill, so that's an advantage for her.
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  Speaker 1: I asked her to use her debit card for these
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  Speaker 1: non essential purchases, and she got mad. She said she
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  Speaker 1: will not stop shopping on the American Express card, and
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  Speaker 1: that's that. I'm tired of paying for the bs she buys.
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  Speaker 1: Would I be wrong if I close this account or
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  Speaker 1: buy You can close that account, but do you understand
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  Speaker 1: the penalty for them? Come on, it's just a dog.
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  Speaker 1: You close that account. She go to buy something and
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  Speaker 1: her car get declined. Oh boy, you're gonna embabas hole. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so bro, I understand how you feel. But air Man
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  Speaker 1: didn't know what you're talking about. And every woman too.
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  Speaker 1: I just got My wife told me the reason she
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  Speaker 1: used Americans but because we get the points. Yeah, and hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: get them. We had to pay to get them. Point
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  Speaker 1: there ain't three points. Ain't like they just give us
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  Speaker 1: a point? Why I just tell them sending you how
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  Speaker 1: many points you want? Tell them to send them to
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  Speaker 1: you without you buying that so you can find out
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  Speaker 1: that them points cost some money. So so he shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: close the account. You're saying, Cello on your wife. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: please don't do that. You don't do any gonna pay
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  Speaker 1: for that, and all she bought with some patio furniture
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  Speaker 1: ditions close. She buys a lot of what he called
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  Speaker 1: non essential, Like, yeah, all of that is essential, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Shoes come on, walk around barefoot and you're not really
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  Speaker 1: going to know where y'all doing. COVID nineteen. But she
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  Speaker 1: can't get what she wants and she needs clothes. We
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  Speaker 1: all need. She can't walk around. They just need to
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  Speaker 1: get a budget. Yeah, I's don't have no budget. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I yeah, I think hobby is tripping Joey. This is
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  Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio app listener Steve. He says, I'm a twenty
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  Speaker 1: six year old man and I'm in love with a
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  Speaker 1: thirty six year old woman that I met at work.
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  Speaker 1: She recently got a great new job and she moved
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  Speaker 1: three hours away. The distance is killing us, and she
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  Speaker 1: wants me to quit my job and move to be
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  Speaker 1: with her. I told her I would need a job
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  Speaker 1: first and get established, and she said she would take
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  Speaker 1: care of all the bills, including mine, until I found
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  Speaker 1: a job. I don't want to rely on my woman
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  Speaker 1: for money, but she insists that it's not a problem.
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  Speaker 1: Should I find a job before I moved or tour? Yeah, bro,
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  Speaker 1: find yourself a job. Man, go in the door, doing
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  Speaker 1: your duty. I'm telling you, man, a woman taking care
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  Speaker 1: of man. Get old real fast. You get old real fast. Dog.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't no woman really wanting to sign up for that.
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  Speaker 1: So brother, if you love them, I ain't mad at you,
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  Speaker 1: But man, get yourself a job for you. Go down, yes,
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  Speaker 1: because you think you're going. Yeah, you don't playing no
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: bills around here. Set your ass down. Hormail chili. You
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: can't just get the chili with with the label on
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  Speaker 1: it that say chili. You ain't working all right? God,
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  Speaker 1: I thank you. Feel now you if you don't take
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  Speaker 1: this back and get them brown hot dogs in the building,
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  Speaker 1: now you have a back until you have a cool
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  Speaker 1: national news and entertainment news. Jimmy Kimmel is apologizing for
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  Speaker 1: blackface sketches and offensive language. We're gonna talk about this
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  Speaker 1: story at the top of the hour, but right now
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  Speaker 1: the nephew is here. We'll run that prank back. What
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  Speaker 1: you got for us, nef Right now, we're gonna take
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  Speaker 1: time to pee in the pool. S Oh excuse me.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna take time out right now to pee in
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  Speaker 1: the pool. Have you been today in the pool? All right,
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  Speaker 1: let's go, Kidjo Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach it.
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  Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Yes, I'm trying to reach Alastasia.
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  Speaker 1: This is she? How are you doing? Listen? I'm Glee
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  Speaker 1: and the lifeguard over here at the pool here in
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  Speaker 1: the apartment complex. Sir, do you have a um if
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  Speaker 1: you have a son named yes, sir? Is everything right? Uh? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: everything is fine. I mean a quick question, man, we
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  Speaker 1: got a situation here with what's going on. We're not
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  Speaker 1: we're not gonna be allowed to uh to let him
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  Speaker 1: swim here at the pool and the complex anymore. What
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  Speaker 1: we got him? Your son. I mean he swims here
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  Speaker 1: pretty much every every every other day. You know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: always here seeing him swim. But it seems like is
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  Speaker 1: you know, we've been trying to figure out who it is.
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  Speaker 1: You'll your fun keep peeing in the pool, slim man.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to get into it with you. Your
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  Speaker 1: son is We finally nailed it down. Your son is
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  Speaker 1: the one that's peeing in the pool every day, and
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  Speaker 1: you know it's really a bad thing. Uh, we can't
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  Speaker 1: continue to keep letting him come over here. We gotta
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  Speaker 1: ban him from the pool, so we ain't nash it
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  Speaker 1: like this. Did you check to be able? He's gonna
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  Speaker 1: says my son? And in the pool, Well, your son
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  Speaker 1: is the one to be making faces and stuff, and
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  Speaker 1: I know that's what he's doing here in their pin.
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  Speaker 1: Your son is the one that's penn making faces. He'd
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  Speaker 1: be making faces, so I know here and their pa
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  Speaker 1: got to do what we can be making faces pool
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  Speaker 1: and something you're gonna say and in the pool because
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  Speaker 1: he's making safe I'm not gonna go lasting like that.
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  Speaker 1: I teach my kids better than that. He ain't been
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  Speaker 1: a pool later. I'm not gonna all I'm saying is
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  Speaker 1: he can't come over here and swim anymore. He's banned
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  Speaker 1: from the pool until we rectify this problem. Not y's
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  Speaker 1: not saying when he gonna be in the pool and
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  Speaker 1: we all pool were gonna be there, and that's tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Man of fact, I'm thinking I'm kids to the pool. No,
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  Speaker 1: we don't allow Man, I'm not gonna city and go
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  Speaker 1: back and forth with you all. I'm trying to tell
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  Speaker 1: you was this right here? Your son has been pinning
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  Speaker 1: in the pool. My boss wants me to be bad.
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  Speaker 1: If he's not the one, then we will allow him
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  Speaker 1: to come back later. But right now with singling people
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  Speaker 1: out and you're son, you know, it just seems like
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  Speaker 1: he's the one that's doing it. What's your name? Was?
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  Speaker 1: My name is Grin. I'm Grinning the lifeguard. That's who
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  Speaker 1: I am. Now what's your real name? Then? What? Because
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  Speaker 1: that I was supposed to be calling you ain't got
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  Speaker 1: little bit this call of my I'm talking about myself,
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  Speaker 1: No fool, how do you do everything to get I'm
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  Speaker 1: not at liberty to give my lad's name. The bottom
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  Speaker 1: line is we can't call in the bottom what but
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  Speaker 1: you don't live me to come down, but you can't
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  Speaker 1: give me your own name. Okay, listen, I'm not All
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  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do is call you Anna, let you
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  Speaker 1: know that we're banned in your son from getting in
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  Speaker 1: the pool. I'm what you're talking about. You can't ban
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  Speaker 1: my father playing the life board. Get a real job,
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  Speaker 1: a summer job. You got a job, and I call him.
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  Speaker 1: You said, you know what you ain't about, and you
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  Speaker 1: can't stop nobody who's come next school And we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be damned though tomorrow again and you do deep, So
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  Speaker 1: do your job to clean it. Man. Let me say
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  Speaker 1: this to you. If your son comes to the pool
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  Speaker 1: tomorrow and get in the pool, I'm snatching your son
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  Speaker 1: out of the pool. I wish you what I wish
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  Speaker 1: you would, because you don't need a life God, snatch
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  Speaker 1: my sign the pool. I wish you would. What time
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  Speaker 1: the poem open? At ten o'clock? We're gonna be that
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  Speaker 1: ninety You got me up? Come about you gonna snatch
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  Speaker 1: my son out of pool? You mindbody pool? Yeah? Mine, ladies.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is whatever has been singled out all the
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  Speaker 1: other kids, appointing us and saying he's the one that's
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  Speaker 1: doing it. Your son is the one that's being our boat.
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  Speaker 1: He's saying whatever whatever for right now, all I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: is is keep your son away from the pool for
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  Speaker 1: the next two weeks. If we fell out that that's
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  Speaker 1: not him, will allow him to come back. Okay, ain't me.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't staying away from the pool for two weeks.
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  Speaker 1: If he do, he's gonna come back and do for
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  Speaker 1: most pool. I'm gonna teving the hold two weeks worth
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  Speaker 1: and go back to that. Come about my son to
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  Speaker 1: cool you can tell you about his faith. You said
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  Speaker 1: what you said, this Bob being life you and then
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  Speaker 1: the pool. You know you must not know what you're
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  Speaker 1: talking to. I will be there and like to model
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  Speaker 1: me and I don't find my kids and they don't
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  Speaker 1: get the pool too. Don't do a little kids go
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  Speaker 1: without getting them in the pool. Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you bring them kids over there and bring them
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  Speaker 1: in the pool. No, none of your children. I don't
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  Speaker 1: give it. And what you say, you don't run life guard,
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  Speaker 1: get rid of John Lady. Listen, lady, I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: go continue to go back and forth. I got one
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  Speaker 1: more thing I need to say to you. What I'm done. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: one more thing that I'm done. You ain't got to
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  Speaker 1: say to me. I do. I want to say that.
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  Speaker 1: I do need to say to you what you have
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  Speaker 1: to say to me. I need to say this. This
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  Speaker 1: is left you Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: You just got Frank from your homeboard. You get me. Hello, kids,
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  Speaker 1: look man, look up till the doctor. Man. You want
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  Speaker 1: to get this bo y'all play too much. Y'all know
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  Speaker 1: y'all play too but little play but nothing. I'm walking
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  Speaker 1: towards forming now. I thought you was coming to the
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  Speaker 1: pool tomorrow. I was coming to the office today. They
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  Speaker 1: still was opening the five cock. I'll to tell me,
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  Speaker 1: I'll call my files myself in the pool. I was
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  Speaker 1: for the common Now take kid of them kids, Baby,
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  Speaker 1: I got one more thing. I got to ask you.
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  Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land. The
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  Speaker 1: Steves has the more this show? Baby, if you a
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  Speaker 1: pete in the pool, raise your hand, jeez, Steve got
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  Speaker 1: both hand. As a kid though right now is an adult? God,
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  Speaker 1: oh God, as a kid, not as an adult right
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  Speaker 1: you didn't get out the pool as a grown I've
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  Speaker 1: been walking on the beach and walked into the ocean,
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  Speaker 1: the ocean. Yeah, and then come on back in, my wife,
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  Speaker 1: come time. Why you go out there and peeing that
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  Speaker 1: water like that? You know what's pissing in there? It's
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  Speaker 1: it's it's about let it go. Yeah. I can't really
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  Speaker 1: pick somebody out and tell if they peeing in the pool,
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  Speaker 1: or I could tell, especially when they get over that
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  Speaker 1: by that jet that you know what when they get
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  Speaker 1: by that jet, you know what's going on? You just
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  Speaker 1: standing there back? Yeah, you let me go. I know
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  Speaker 1: about a jet in the pool. Jet in the pool.
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  Speaker 1: You're ye as a kid, not as an adult. Right No,
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  Speaker 1: like right now, like you always telling them, you can
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  Speaker 1: always tell if I'm peelings I had in Louien in
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  Speaker 1: my job. Let mesten coming up at the time of
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  Speaker 1: the Are we have entertainment and national news right after this?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my lord, you're listening to. Jimmy Kimmel has come
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  Speaker 1: under fire for an old blackface sketch and for using
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  Speaker 1: the N word in a song spoof. You know he's
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  Speaker 1: a late night host, of course, of his own show.
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  Speaker 1: He's apologized. In a statement on Tuesday, Kimmel said, I
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  Speaker 1: have long been reluctant to address this as I knew
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  Speaker 1: doing so would be celebrated as a victory by those
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  Speaker 1: who equate apologies with weakness and cheer for leaders who
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  Speaker 1: use prejudice to divide us. That delay was a mistake.
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  Speaker 1: There is nothing more important to me than your respect,
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  Speaker 1: and I apologize to those who were genuinely hurt or
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  Speaker 1: offended by the makeup I wore or the words I spoke.
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  Speaker 1: And that's Kimmel's response. He says, well, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people this is, you know document, it calls to cancel him.
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  Speaker 1: Began Monday Night Yeah, with many citing his black face
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  Speaker 1: impersonation of Karl Malone as an imitation and an imitation
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  Speaker 1: of Snoop Dogg's voice on an in word Field track
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  Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety six Christmas album. Kimmel has done impersonations
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  Speaker 1: of Oprah and other celebrities. In each case, he said,
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  Speaker 1: I thought of them as impersonations of celebrities and nothing more.
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  Speaker 1: But now he says he finds the sketches embarrassing, and
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  Speaker 1: he seems to think the controversy was being used to
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  Speaker 1: stop him from criticizing President Trump. So there, ye look him,
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  Speaker 1: and I knew about a couple of those things. You know,
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  Speaker 1: and it was him really trying to do an impersonation.
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  Speaker 1: To call for his resignation at this point is like
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  Speaker 1: ridiculous show, because if you listen into what his heart
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  Speaker 1: speaks about all the time, he's been fighting the races,
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  Speaker 1: the racist antics of Trump since he got in office.
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  Speaker 1: He calls everything, you know, and so you know, for
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  Speaker 1: people doing that, I ain't with that right there. I
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  Speaker 1: know him to be a really solid guy. For him.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, let's just start right here with the apology,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll tell you something else. I know a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people, well, why you always get your president to
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  Speaker 1: apologize for just anything he's done. Isn't he a lot
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  Speaker 1: more important to you than Jimmy Kimmel? And haven't you
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  Speaker 1: heard Jimmy Kimmel at least care about what's going on
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  Speaker 1: in this country. I'm all right with Kimmel. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when people do change, people do change, they grow, they learn,
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  Speaker 1: they change, you know, thee several times, and he's did
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  Speaker 1: it as an imitation. He wasn't doing it as a
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  Speaker 1: you know. But but now you can't do that anymore,
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  Speaker 1: you know. I mean, come on, y'all, we got some
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  Speaker 1: real issues. We got to take care of yes, we
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  Speaker 1: got that. There's credit laws that's against us. Systemic racism
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  Speaker 1: is there's credit laws against us. We need to talk
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  Speaker 1: about that, the police, banking, residential zoning, insurance, redlining. Like
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  Speaker 1: Shirley said, Oh, we got a lot of stuff concerning
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  Speaker 1: ourselves with let's not get caught up in every single
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  Speaker 1: aspect calling for people's jobs. Who could really be an
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  Speaker 1: ally to you. I just liked Jimmy Kimmel. I've always
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  Speaker 1: liked him and respected to God. You know, I knew
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  Speaker 1: what he did, I knew how he did it. But
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  Speaker 1: you know, once you're a comedian, man, it's people that
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  Speaker 1: ain't taking nothing in the form of a joke. And
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  Speaker 1: that's that's one of the one of the reasons I'm
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  Speaker 1: really grateful that I got out of the stand up
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  Speaker 1: game when I did. Who but Lord loveful? Right there, Charlotte,
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  Speaker 1: I was watching one of my old tapes. One of
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  Speaker 1: my guys came up to me and said, man, steel
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  Speaker 1: tripping is my favorite. He said, when you went to war,
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  Speaker 1: the reason why you can't go to the army, He
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  Speaker 1: said that joke right there, he said, I spit up
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  Speaker 1: on my TV though, Ladies and gentlemen, missing trip. No,
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  Speaker 1: thank you very much. Everybody. Here we go, Here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty seven year old right shot Brooks was funeralized yesterday
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  Speaker 1: by family and friends and remembered as a caring father
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  Speaker 1: and a loving husband who died thanks to a violent
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  Speaker 1: and corrupt system. Doctor Burney's King, the daughter of doctor
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  Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Junior, says that young mister Brooks should
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  Speaker 1: have been able to go home that night, and the
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  Speaker 1: officers should have gone home that night without blood on
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  Speaker 1: their hands. This is the great tragedy in our nation
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  Speaker 1: that must cease. The white cop who shot Richard Brooks
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  Speaker 1: in the back could face the death sentence if convicted.
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  Speaker 1: The Georgia General Assembly passed a hate crimes bill yesterday
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  Speaker 1: ain't the wake of the murder of Jaga Ahmad Aarbury.
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  Speaker 1: The Peach State is one of only four states without
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  Speaker 1: a hate crime statute with a previous version struck down
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  Speaker 1: by the state Supreme Court, and where that bill given
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  Speaker 1: new life after the senseless and deliberate murder of the
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  Speaker 1: unarmed young black man. The admitted killer reportedly used a
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  Speaker 1: racial slur as mister Aarbury lay dying, and David Ralston
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  Speaker 1: is a Republican Speaker of the House today, we have
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  Speaker 1: said that we will not be defined by senseless act
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  Speaker 1: of evil and by the murder of Ahmud Aarbury, but
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  Speaker 1: that our Georgia is better than this. Right. That's the
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  Speaker 1: Republican Speaker of the House down there. The bill imposes
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  Speaker 1: harsher penalties for crimes that target people because of their race,
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  Speaker 1: or gender or sexual orientation. Governor Brian Kemp says he'll
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  Speaker 1: sign it pending legal review. The Pennsylvania Supreme Courts is
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  Speaker 1: going to hear an appeal by Bill Cosby of his
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  Speaker 1: twenty eighteen conviction for a sexual assault. The court will
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  Speaker 1: reportedly look at two issues that his attorneys say should
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  Speaker 1: not have been part of the court case anyway. Cosby's
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  Speaker 1: attorney says some witness testimony that was part of the
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  Speaker 1: state's evidence should not have been allowed. They also questioned
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  Speaker 1: the use of a deposition that Cosby gave after he
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  Speaker 1: was assured by district attorney that that debt position would
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  Speaker 1: never be used to prosecute him. The a two year
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  Speaker 1: old Cosby has served less than two years of a
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  Speaker 1: three to ten year term. President Trump says he intends
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  Speaker 1: to issue an executive order protecting monuments that have become
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  Speaker 1: targets of vandalism and takedowns. By the way, the Lorry
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  Speaker 1: says that another top ranked tennis player tested positive for
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  Speaker 1: the coronavirus, and it looks like the coronavirus pandemic has
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  Speaker 1: affected one of the biggest religious rituals in the whole world.
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  Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia has now officially banned the world's Muslims from
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  Speaker 1: attending the Hajj, that's the annual pilgrimage to Mecca next
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  Speaker 1: month because authorities stay just not safe. In normal times,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: any Muslim who is fit and has the money can
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  Speaker 1: require to make that trip to Mecca at least once
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  Speaker 1: in their lives, not this year. Now back to Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning, Joe, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: The FBI says the news found in Bubba Wallace's garage
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  Speaker 1: stall at Talladega Superspeedway in Alabama had been there since
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  Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, and they're determined no crime was committed. Now
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  Speaker 1: that's according to the FBI. In fact, NASCAR says the
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  Speaker 1: item in question is a garage door pool rope fashioned
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  Speaker 1: like a news that have been positioned in the garage
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  Speaker 1: since last fall. NASCAR adds Bubba Wallace was not the
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  Speaker 1: target of a hate crime. A representative said. Although the
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  Speaker 1: news is now known to have been in Garage number
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  Speaker 1: four in twenty nineteen, no one could have known mister
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  Speaker 1: Wallace would be assigned to garage number four last week.
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  Speaker 1: The FBI and the US prosecutors say the decision not
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  Speaker 1: to pursue federal charges as proper. I see what happened.
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  Speaker 1: So it wasn't in his garage since two thousand nineteen
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  Speaker 1: at this particular speedway. He gotta sign that night for Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when he walked in, he saw the news for the
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  Speaker 1: first time. Got it, understand understandable mistake. Yeah you're thinking, wow,
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  Speaker 1: I walked in here, but no, it's just been in
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  Speaker 1: there since two thousand and nineteen. Well, who had the
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  Speaker 1: news before? There was a garage pulled? The garage pulled that.
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  Speaker 1: They made it like a news. It was all white
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  Speaker 1: people in there. That's somebody made the news. Let's not
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  Speaker 1: get well, well it's a noose not you know, But
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  Speaker 1: you can't say it was a hate crime because it's
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  Speaker 1: all white people in there. Ain't nobody driving to call
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  Speaker 1: black but Bubba. Yeah, So when he got to sign
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  Speaker 1: that garage. That's the mistake. It ain't like it was
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  Speaker 1: been hanging in there since two thy nineteen. He just
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  Speaker 1: noticed it in his garage. That was one he got
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  Speaker 1: to sign for Telladega or and he got a sign
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  Speaker 1: to it, and then they put it in there. They
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  Speaker 1: said it's been in there since last year. The FBI
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  Speaker 1: and the US prosecutors again say the decision not to
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  Speaker 1: pursue federal charges is proper after reviewing all available facts
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  Speaker 1: and all applicable federal laws. So they're not going to
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  Speaker 1: um pursue it. They said it wasn't a crime, and
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't a hate crime. That's cool. Well, that's good, good, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I know he was feeling some type of way black.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you see him? He was emotional.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm no good hair. Well, if I walk in
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  Speaker 1: the garage and see a newse I'm gonna figures for
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  Speaker 1: me and then exactly and then the turn up is real,
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  Speaker 1: all the way turns, all everybody wrong, trying to win.
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  Speaker 1: I'm running over. He word getting tossed about is MM
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  Speaker 1: which M don't. But he handled it. Yeah, why ill okay?
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  Speaker 1: And where dim x l it? Would have been. Might
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  Speaker 1: they might have found that news wasn't hate Krame but
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  Speaker 1: Steve as Steve definitely hate Cram all right, coming up
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  Speaker 1: next and thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. Dozens of mourners, most
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: dressed in white and nearly all wearing masks, filled the
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: historic Ebenezer Baptist Church yesterday for the private funeral of
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Ray Shard Brooks. Um Ray Shard Brooks, of course, was
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  Speaker 1: the unarmed black man who was fatally shot by a
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  Speaker 1: white police officer outside of Atlanta's Wendy's Restaurant almost two
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  Speaker 1: weeks ago. Uh Brooks was remembered as a giving, loving person,
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  Speaker 1: a devoted husband, and a wonderful father of three daughters
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  Speaker 1: and a step son. Wow Reverend Berneath King delivered a
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  Speaker 1: moving message at the church where her father, Reverend Doctor
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: Martin Luther King Junior, once preached, take a listen. I
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  Speaker 1: am here to stand with you in what feels like
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: an all too familiar moment. Having a father killed when
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  Speaker 1: I was only five years of age, my heart deeply
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: grieves Rachard Brooks's life matters, and he should have been
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: able to live, to enjoy his family and watch his
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: kids grow up into adulthood. And the officers should have
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: gone home that night without blood on their hands. This
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: is the great tragedy in our nation that must cease.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: We are here because individuals continue to hide behind badges
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: and trainings and policies procedures, rather than regarding the humanity
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: of others in general and black lives specifically. Wow Wow
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: like that Welson. Yeah, I'm very h the cop who
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: shot mister Brooks. Of course, twenty seven year old Garrett
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Roth was fired and charged with capital with the murder felony.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: They'd have moved him to another jail m for safety reason. Yeah,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: they're gonna get you how long, Well, you can't move
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: you And I know all white jails, so right at
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: some point you're gonna run into a black person in
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: a minute, Ain't there are no all white jails? Now, Okay,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: we in there. I think said, there's amount of time
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. You can get in protective because if
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: you want to, it's gonna happen. M hmmm, I'm gonna
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: tell you high it's gonna happen. They're gonna pay one
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: of your little guard friends, one of your little guards,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: gonna turn your hands in, probably gonna be the black guard.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw that out there for you. So
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: don't get friendly with Harold Banks because he can. You
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: watch a lot of TV, don't you before. That's exactly
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: how it happens in the movie. Yeah, I know, life
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: is definitely stranger than Prisoner. Ain't science fiction. That ain't
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: sci fi. That's real. Everything you see in the movie
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: doesn't happen, you know. Um, it's it's it's it's a
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: sad state for this young man to lose his life.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Like she said before, he was allowed to see his
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: children grow up, and repeatedly it happens. But it's it
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: keeps happening just to us. So here's a deal. I'm
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: going to continue to say it. And I got to
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: find a way, and I want somebody that send politics
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: to help me with this. I started with Pcard sellers.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I asked Paccard sellers on a zoom call we were
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: doing with my boys from mentoring mondays. I want to
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: find a way to get this forward for mandatory police sentences,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: nothing special against the police. Just can the police be
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: upheld to the same law that they are trained and
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: hired to hold us too. If they could be held
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: just to that same law, that's not asking a lot,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: that's not unreasonable. That's a very common sense thinking. If
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: I can't kill an unarmed man and get away with it,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: then neither should you. If I can't shoot a person
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: in the back running away, then neither should you. If
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I can't prove that my life was in danger, and
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: you take another person's life and it finds out he
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: just had a sell phone or was reaching for his keys, unarmed, unarmed,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: you you have to do some time, and I think
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: that will cause everybody a bit of pause. But right
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: now you could do what you want to do and
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: say it's because I'm a police officer. Yeah, well you've
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: been a police officer. Should not give you the permission
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: to deside whether we die to day or nothing. You
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: You should not have that right, not with twenty one
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: weeks of training. All right, we're gonna switch gears here
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: and try to make you laugh even more with today's
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: praying phone call with the nephew coming up right after this,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: you're listening to coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: subject should I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend?
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: All right, right now, the nephew is here with today's
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: praying phone call. What you got for us, NEF today?
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Your new boss? You're a new bass Okay, your new bass?
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: That sounds all right? Okay, I'm with you. I'm so
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: I'm with you so far for you franking employees about you.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: I want you want to hear the twist because I
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: let I let it run if you want to hit yeah, yeah,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: like a like a head Come on, cad dog runy. Hello, Hello,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Jason place. Yester, how cannot help you? Hey, Jason,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: this is Lyle. I'm giving you a call out of
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: human resources. Right. How you doing? You're the former the
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: project guy out there? Yes, I am on the project manageers.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I cannot help you. Listen, you've been training an individual
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: out there, I think for the last month or so
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: you have you've been training a Yes, great guy, um
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: doing great work. He's doing good? Okay? How was he is?
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: He coming along pretty good with everything? Oh? Man? He
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: picking up real good man? He learned to trade. I
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: mean he's picking up just let us love from me,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: pick up excellent young walker. And here how many monon
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: weeks of training out there? I will say probably about
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: another week or two or we let him, you know,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: put him on his arm. Okay, and you think he'll
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: handle it efficiently? Oh? Yes, I think he would be
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: a great, great employee. Okay, you've been with the company?
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: How long? Going on about seventeen years? Yeah? My records
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: are telling me somewhere around sixteen plus, right, right, Okay,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: you've been with us quite a while. And first of all,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: let you know we're grateful of you, of the work
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: that you're putting in. Well, man, I appreciate a man
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: made man. I appreciate it. You have to company to
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: man and you know, being here to eat many years man.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: He let you know, man, I love my company exactly. Listen,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: we got a few adjustments we're gonna be making out
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: there on the plan. Here's what we're gonna do now
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: you say, gonna be done in about a week or two? Yes,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: about a week. Okay, here's here's what we're gonna do
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: on that particular day that he gets released. And you
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: you definitely know he's ready for everything. Um, I'm gonna
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card as well
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: as the key to your office. What man, I'm gonna
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card that gets
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: you actually onto the property. And you have you have
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: your own parking space too, don't you? Yes? I do. Okay,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Now we're gonna need you to give it your key
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: card in your office key and um, well, we'll find
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: you another place to park. He's actually probably gonna be
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: parking in your space. Hold hold, what you mean you're
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: telling me to give him my key parking right, I'm
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: talking to your parking space, but your key card to
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: get you onto the property and a little electrical card
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: there right that as well as your office. He's gonna
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: actually be taking over as project manager. No, no, sir,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not giving up nothing, sir, nobody to think over
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: the pocket manager. Let's let's first of all, sir, let's
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: do this. Let's stone the language down. Okay, we're gonna
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: find a place for you, but for the time being,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: we're gonna put you back into play until we find
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: the game. I'm fignd the place of me, my place
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: where right now? I'm not moving from nowhere. That's akay.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I'm not getting into to sign me nothing like I
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I seventeen years op. Ain't nobody said to sign me.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: Not a place to move. You got to understand that
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: part down. I got seventeen years up in him and
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: chain a young guy, and this guy got a couple
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: of months, and you're telling me the other one to
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: do what me move me, Jason, this is a temporary move.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: We're gonna find something better for you. No, you ain't
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: know what this project. Ain't nobody got that understanding. This
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: has come from the head and on the head and
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: head is I know, the head of people. This decision
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: actually come from the vice president. They ain't told me
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: none of that. It comes to me first. I'll tell
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: you what, Jason, this is something I'm supposed to probably
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: not tell you. But let me let me let you
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: in on a little something. Yeah, let me hand on
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: something because this is gonna be some bull him because
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: I shut the whole place up out him. And I mean,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you, Jason. This young guy
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: that you've been training, he's actually the nephew of the
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: vice president. I don't give a about no neshew or
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: no vice president. Man, do you think I care about
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: some president telling him share the president? I said what
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: I said, yeah, man, the nexhew? Who care about the nephew?
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: They ain't never told me this? Well? Can I expect
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: you to give your key over to him? No? Hell no,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: I ain't getting nobody nothing. Definitely get the law to
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: come and get it. Ain't nobody getting nothing. I ain't
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: leaving how that sounds. So all I can ask you
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: for is I need your key card and I need
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: the key to your offers. I need you to empty
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: out your things so we can move fixture in there
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: and you a place. This is just a temporary slop
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: right now, you damn all. It ain't nobody getting nothing
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: saying okay, and I've been here. I tell you what
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: I gonna do. I go out there and I tempt
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: slap this who have something? Okay? And then I find
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: out who is boll says or whoever did nest the
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: bot to be and kick hit because I ain't giving
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: up nothing. And I'm talking about job y'all with the
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: wrong one, okay, with the wrong one at this time,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: because nobody taking nothing. You're talking about beating the vice
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: president's nephew you're you're you're losing control here. Uh, Jason, No,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: I ain't losing nothing. I'm gonna think control. I'm gonna
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: lose and when I kickh how that sounds? And I'm
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: gonna kick the boat to see you? All of them?
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: How that sounds? That makes sound clear to you? It
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: makes sense. We're trying to just give you someplace to
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: be temporarily until I find you another slot. Ain't no
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: other blin. My slot is my slot. I'm gonna kick it.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: Gives rats? Not how that sound to you? Turn All
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: I'm asking is I need your key card and I
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: need the key to the office. Get all your things
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: out so I can get Victor moved in within the
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: next week. Ain't he's Okay? All of them, I don't
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: give a how that sounds. I don't care nothing about them. Okay,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: because I see you or maybe somebody out here today. Okay,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I'm tired of it and this ain't gonna happen to me.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get security to come over and walk you out. Okay. No,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: ain't no security for to walk me no where? How
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: that sounds. I came here, ain't buy myself. Ain't nobody
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: for to walk me about the end. Are you having
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: problems moving out for the nephew. The nephew okay, the
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: nephew is not gonna come in here and take Okay,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: there's another that you need to be aware of. Do
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: you know who the other nephew is? Hell no, I
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: ain't never seen no other nephew. I ain't know that
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: wasn't nephew. Let me tell you who the other one is?
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: Who who the other one is? The other one is nephew?
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Jason, you
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: just got rank y'all lying with me. Man, Come on, man,
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: don't play with me. Man, y'all. Man, this ain't no tommy. Man,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: y'all need to put that man. And y'all don't know
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: how long the brother man I worked I worked up man.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: He man. Ain't no just just baby y'all. But may man,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: y'all got me. Good man, I got you, Man, I
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: got I got one thing to ask you, Man, what's
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. That's Steve Harvey
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: Morning Shot. It is your new boss. I don't care
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: nothing about. You've been training him. That's who trying to
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: be the bass. Yeah, that was a twist. All right?
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: Is that almost got your ba whooped again? But why
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: are you playing all the time? Yeah? Yeah, that's real, right, Yeah,
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: that's a real that's cold that's cold blood. That is it? Really? Is?
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: It happens every other week? Rush. Yeah, And it's bad
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: for the person that's doing it and for the person
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: that's having it getting it done too. It's bad for
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah, toxic work environments. Yeah, really, you
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: don't want that. You want it to go smooth. Wa
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: one day we get this trump somebody if you get
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: his job. You know what I'm saying. You want me
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: to sing it you that's my favorite part? Okay, wait, okay,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: what is it? November? November? Yeah, we want to sing that.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: November third, Yeah, November third, but November. Yeah, we have
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: to do our get it. We have to do our part,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: do our part. Vote vote vote vote vote vote vote. Yeah,
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: November fourth, we hopefully, Yeah, we'll be saying just that. Yeah,
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: you need us. They ought to let us help. They
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: ought to let us move him out to watch got
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: to move nothing. We'll get it. Okay. Do let me
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: tell you boarding a dress. It ain't a lot of
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: stuff you can take Okay, no, okay, it's just his
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: his clothes. A lot of long times. You know, there
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: ain't a lot of clothes. You know, you can't. We
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: gotta gotta my faulk fridgerated full of McDonald burgers. Now,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: we gotta get that out of there. I just don't
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: want us to take it for granted. You know that
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: he's going to lose that. You know, I'm gonna tell you, right, Yeah,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: folks voted yesterday, Yes they did. They did, Thank you,
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Some runoffs in North Carolina and South Carolina.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, they did it all right, all right,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: so nephew, thank you. Coming up Strawberry Letter subjects Should
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? We'll get
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: into that right after this. You're listening to Show Time
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice
• 53:57
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• 54:01
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• 54:05
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• 54:08
  Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to raise I
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: like to keep in practice, buck Alapa, hold on tight.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the strawberry letter,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Should I cancel the party or cancel
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend? Dear Steve Anne Shirley. I've been with my
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: girlfriend for ten years and we're having our first major issue.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: When I met my girlfriend, she was new in town,
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: so I introduced her to my group of friends and
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: their wives. There are four couples that hang out, and
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: we've all known each other since college. The wives were
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: all nice enough to my girlfriend, but they've never included
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: her in girls night out or invited her to brunch
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: with them. Whenever we're all together, I make sure my
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: girlfriend feels included. But now there is a problem that
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I need to deal with. My girlfriend thinks that my
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: best friend's wife flirts with me. I will admit that
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: my best friends gets a bit out of hand when
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: she's had too much wine, but her husband is always
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: around and he thinks it's funny. My girlfriend says, as
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: a woman, she sees things differently than I do. Last weekend,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: we all met at the park for a friend's birthday
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: and we got on the subject of race and politics.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: My best friend's wife sat by me and we talked
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: and agreed on most of the issues. My girlfriend was
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: giving me the evil eye the whole time, and I
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: was very uncomfortable. When we left, my girlfriend was furious.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: So it's our return to host the annual Fourth of
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: July celebration at our house. And my girlfriend said, my
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: best friend's wife is not invited, but her husband can come.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: What the hell? How can I get my girlfriend to
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: realize that she might be the problem. I love her,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: but I am sick of constantly validating her feelings. Should
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: I cancel the Fourth of July get together? Or should
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: I cancel my girl friend? Please advise? Are you serious
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: right now? You would cancel your girlfriend of ten years
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: over this? I mean, I just got to say to that, well, well,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: well aren't you aren't your shallow sir? Aren't you drawing
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: a line in the sand and picking sides here and
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: all because you're a little uncomfortable right now? I mean,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: imagine how your girl feels now, mind you? I think
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: she's dead wrong, No, I'm gonna say this. She's just
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: less than tactful for not inviting this flirty pants to
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: your party, but her husband can come. Okay, that's awkward
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: for everyone. I get that awkward for everyone involved. But
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: that's what old girl gets for being so disrespectful to
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend. She's putting her foot down. I think you,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: on the other hand, should should be standing by her.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: You should be supporting your girlfriend and not taking their
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: side or anyone else's side who comes up against her.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: You guys have been together for ten years. You should
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: have said something a long time ago when they never
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: included her socially. You knew all about it and said
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: or did nothing. These are your friends. She was new
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: in town. You introduced her to your group of friends,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: and they snub your girl when they have girls night out,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: when they have brunches and things like that. And this
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: woman openly flirts with you in your face, in her face,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: and all you do is eat it up and blame
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: your girl. Why. I'll tell you why. I know why,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: because you like it. You like the attention she's giving you,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: and the fact that her husband is there and does
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: nothing thinks it's funny. That makes it all okay, doesn't it. Meanwhile,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend is feeling some kind of way and she's
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: letting you know. And okay, this is a side note here.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: Why is it that men always pretend they don't know
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: when a woman is checking for them? You guys never
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: know this. She was oh when, oh, no, girl, you're tripping.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: You're crazy. Come on, knock it off, guys, you know
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: what's up? And so do we? Okay, so do we.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: That's what she's telling you. She feels differently about it
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: because she's a woman. So I say to you, sir,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: if you are considering dumping your ten year girlfriend over
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: this stupid mess, she's probably better off without you. This
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: is over a party, and come on, she's given you
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: ten years more than you deserve. That's what I say, Steve.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: We have a difference of opinion here, so we might
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: as well get started. Let's just start with the subject
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: of the letter. Should I counsel the party? All? Counsel
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend? How is that a question? Now, Shirley says,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: after she's been with you ten years. Well, that's why
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: we have a problem right here. If you've been the
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: girlfriend after college for ten years, has it occurred to
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: you that he don't want you for no more than
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: he already getting from you. If you've been with a
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: man after college for ten years and he ain't asked
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: you to marry him yet, something wrong. So let's just
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: start there. Now, let's go on down the line. You
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: got this best friend now for oh, here's the next part.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: You introduced to a group of friends, and for ten years,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: they don't ask her to go to the happy hour, shopping,
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: to the movie, to brunch. They don't like her. They
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: do not like your girlfriend. It's something about her that
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: they've all picked up on and detected, and they've decided
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: as a group that they don't like her. That's why
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: you ain't married her, because you didn't detected some things too.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: Now this letter is that's the last straw Now when
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: she gets a little bit to drink, you'll admit she's
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: a bit much, and she'd be saying, wow, st and
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: your butt. Your boy be right there, your best friend,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: and he think it's funny, what dude? Thanks, it's funny
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: that his girl is hidden on another dude because she
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: drops ha ha Hi? He him right? Who finds that funny?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: There's something wrong with this whole little group. Hold that thought.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter titles
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: should I cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? We'll
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Should I
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: cancel the party or cancel my girlfriend? That's that's a
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: crazy question. It is. This is just your turn to
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: do a Fourth of July, and you're considering canceling not
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: canceling that, but canceling your girlfriend, who's been your girlfriend
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: from ten years, who you don't really want no more
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: that for what she is anyway, you don't protect her
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: like you want her to be your wife ten years.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: Don't nobody like her. She don't go to brunch half out,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: They don't invite out ten years. And then when you're
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: all together, you always make sure when you're all together
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: that my girlfriend feels included. You're forcing her into the bunge.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: But now there's a problem. My girlfriend thinks that my
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: best friend wife furtual me and I will admit when
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: she gets a bit out of hand, when she's had
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: too much wine and her husband always around it, he
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: thinks it's funny. I don't understand that right there, How
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: that's funny every damn time she gets drunk. I wanted
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: you that ain't funny. But like Shirley said, you kind
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: of enjoyed that, so you put up with it. I
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: bet if it wasn't your best friend's girl, I better
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: be something to this. The fact that your girlfriend has
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: noticed this. Women do see things that men don't see it,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: and surely said why y'all always act like y'all don't
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: see it because we don't. We actually don't. Hey, let
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. If we did, we'd act on it.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: We don't see it, but since you pointed it out,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: we're looking forward. Okay, okay, see you want some of
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: this big daddy all right? Now? Yeah, what's up with you?
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: See that's what it turned into. Well, here's a deal.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Last weekend we all met at the park from a
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: friend's birthday. We got on subject of racing politics and
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: your best friend's wife said by me, and we talked
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: and greed the most issues. My girlfriend was giving you
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: the evil the whole time, and I was very uncomfortable.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: You should have moved, got your ass up off that
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: park bench, and what's set on the other side. You
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: saw her looking at you, your stupid ass, you're gonna
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: stay there now. That's why your ass was uncomfortable. You
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: saw her looking upside your head talking to this drunk healther.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Then when we left, your girlfriend was furious. So now
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: as y'all's time, the horse host the forth of July
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: celebration at your house, and my girlfriend said, your best
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: friend wife is not invited, but her husband can come.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: What the hell right exactly? You ain't lying, y'all? What
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: the hell you Your boy can come? But hey, man,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: Sheila don't want your wife. Sheila said, I don't even
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: know how you say that. Hey girl, hey man, let
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: me forth of July thing. Listen, you're welcome to come,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: but huh jacket uh jack um reader reader read it
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  Speaker 1: on want sheila? Excuse me? I said? My wife said
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: you're welcome her. You can come down, you know you
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: might do. But readers say, Sheila can't come. You gotta
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: come so low to the fourth July. No, no, no,
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: you misunderstanding. Dog. You good. You could come over, get
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: yourself some que get some drinks. Man, you have some
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: nice music. But reader don't want Sheila to come. Yeah no, no, no,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: well you know because she you know, because you no
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: matter where she drank. It's fun. Man. Look I know
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: it's all fun. It don't even bother me, man, But man,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: my girl be tripping man, look, I don't know how
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do this here, but you know you're welcome
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: to come because dogs really don't we dogs. But uh
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: ha ha he he she can't come. Cannot come? He
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: read it right? How can I get my girlfriend to
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: realize that she might be the problem? She is? They
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: don't invite her know where. She's not really that likable
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: to the group, None of them girls and say, you
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: know what, let's invite read them ain't know what I'm
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: saying that listen, everybody, just because she's not married to him,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: and everybody know what else you're doing, dough and the
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: wives know it, so they know that your girl ain't
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: gonna make make She ain't gonna make the race, so
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: they all ready to cut her out. She ain't the
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: one because you because you know, because you know what, man,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: you're doing your thing. But now y'all had this thing
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: at your house, she ain't having over there. So your
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: question is what do I do? Do I cancel the
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: party or counsel my girlfriend? But I'm sick of constantly
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: validating her feelings. That's what's wrong. You always got to
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: make her feel included in all of that, and you exhausted.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I hadn't done that before. Dog. It's exhausted. You always
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: got to explain dog dog, She tied dog dog dog dog.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: She did had a long day and he tired of that.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: Counsel fourth of July or my girlfriend. I think the
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: girlfriend should cancel him, all right, Steve Poster comments, you'll
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: probably be happy. Yeah she will too. Poster comments on
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook,
• 1:06:52
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• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: up at forty six minutes after the hour and trending
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: news out of feeling. Bill Cosby has been granted an
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: appeal in his sexual assault case by the Pennsylvania Supreme Court.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning Show. The Pennsylvania Supreme Court said yesterday
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: that it has accepted convicted sex offender Bill Cosby's appeal
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: of his two eighteen conviction, thus raising the possibility that
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: it might be overturned in the future. The Supreme Court
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: said it will review the appellate Panel's decision in Cosby's
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: case based on the issue that focuses on the witnesses
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: who testified about alleged assault that were not part of
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: the charges, and the second focuses on the prior district
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: attorney's decision not to charge Cosby a decade ago. The
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: eighty two year old Cosby has been imprisoned for nearly
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: two years after a jury convicted him of drugging and
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: sexually assaulting a woman at his home back in two
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: thousand and four. He is serving a three to two
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: ten years sentence. Bill's wife, Camille Kasby, spoke to ABC
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: News last night. Take a listen. My first reaction is hopefulness, possibilities.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: Now finally there is a court, the state's highest court,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: that has said, wait a minute, there are some problems here.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: They can be considered for an appeal. I'm very very
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: pleased with It's not one hundred percent, but now I'm
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: looking at something that is possible, possible for vindication. That
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: is the goal we communicate every single day. My husband
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: is doing very well, and in terms of visiting him, no,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: I do not want to see my husband in that
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: kind of an environment, and he doesn't want me to
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: see him in that kind of an environment. Wow, wow,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: you know something. I think that she is well within
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: her right to feel how she's feeling. It's her husband,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: and though the general consensus and the public feels one
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: way or her husband. Now, if there will are some
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: improprieties that happened the way our judicial system is set up,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: then he's entitled to an appeal like everyone else, like
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: everyone else, because seemingly, and like she said, it's not
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: but she's hopeful. And you know, if they've done something
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: wrong in the procedure, you can't do that and then
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: give the man time, not if you broke a procedure,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: and that happens in the judicial system a lot of times. Look,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: if you do wrong, you have to pay. But since
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: we're talking about it, if you do wrong, you have
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: to pay. Ain't that what all these protests about? Yeah? Okay,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: so yeah, and he's done two years. Like I said,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: he's serving a three to ten years sentence. So he's
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: eighty two years old. And on the other side of it,
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: the victim and her lawyers, they feel that what the
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: trial court, what their decision was, will hold up. So again,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: and it's up to the Pennsylvania Supreme Court to hear
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: both sides of it and make their decision from there.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: And Missus Cosby said she's hopeful, but she said she
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to you know what, I can kind of
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: understand that, Yeah, she doesn't want to see him in that,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: and he doesn't want her to see him like that.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: You know. All right, coming up at the top of
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: Show right after this you're listening to. All right, here's
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: a question for you guys. You know, we've heard a
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: lot about what's been going on since you know, COVID
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: nineteen and everything. We've been quarantine in the home. Some
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: people have gotten a divorce, some people have gotten closer.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's just you don't know what's
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: going on. Some people decided they didn't like each other anymore. Well,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: here's the question from each other. Yeah, yeah, one side
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: of exactly apartment. That's all. It's a little difficult, isn't it.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: All Right, So here's a question. Are you and your
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: your significant other, your spouse, are you arguing over how
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: much you should go out and do right now? Because
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: you know, some of a lot of the cities and
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: states are opening up so people can go out. So,
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: you know, here's some of the questions. Should you go
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: out to a restaurant? Should you eat outside without masks?
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, should you guys go to an indoor to
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: an outdoor birthday party or a barbecue or something? How
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: many public places? How should you you know? Should you go?
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: Is there a debate between you and your significant other
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: unwhere to go and what to do? And with home
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: to do it? These are questions. Let me just say
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: this right here, Okay, we ain't having no arguments about
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: where to go. All of our discussions that has any
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: argumentative tone to it is simply because she wants to
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: talk when I don't, won't do. You're talking talking in
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: the spring, were summer, it's covid. Oh there's coding, and
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: she wants to talk every day. You know I work
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: from the house now we all do? Yeah, Well, I
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: got I got to get out of here. We talk
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: all day. She come in here while I'm working on
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: the talk. What we just talked? Sit out? And you
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: haven't talked to me today. We talk every day about
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: talking to your nerves. It's too much because so bad
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: and I y'all haven't said anything but today When I
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: get through today's manniverse got so. I just wanted to
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: let you know that after this. You know, we even
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: were discussing like tonight, you know, what do we do tonight?
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: Because anniversary? I got talking talk, But it's gonna be
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: over dinner at the house. March one thing being the
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: president of Senators for Disease Control. You know what, my
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: wife has really made me feel old during COVID. You know,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: my wife keeps telling me and she got she she
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: ain't got. But one more time to say this to me? What, Steve,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: you are over sixty, you are in the high risk group,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: but you don't You're gonna quit saying that to me.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: I ain't no, damn high risk. I ain't got no conditions.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: If you left the house, dog dog, I listen to me,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: ain't been nowhere since March. What that's love? Well, that's
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: what love looks like. Let me leave, But no, this
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: looks like house arrest. The only thing I'm missing is
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: a brace That's all I'm missing, the ankle bracelet. That's
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: the only thing. If I had that on, I would
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: at least explain that this is love, Steve, this is love. Sureley,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: Do you do the same thing to your husband? I
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: know I do the same. We talk a lot, no
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: to ask him where is he going? And all listen
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: talk a lot? Yeah, sometimes yeah, if I care to. Yeah,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: let me ask this. Why wouldn't we leave a house?
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: Why do y'all call right after we din left? What
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: what is that about? Yeah? We forgot to say something
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: when you walked out? Yea, that's all it is. Just
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: pick up when I Yeah, you gotta do that. You
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: can't not pick up, but you won't. Oh, don't pick
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: up and see how it goes after right? All right,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: So so Steve, now you know what love really looks like?
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: Coming up more of today's trending stories in this on
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour,
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, can we
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: get a drum roll? Please? We need a drum roll
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: right here? Okay, oh yeah we got drums. Yeah we
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: got drums. Yeah, not m drum Oh yeah, well, Steve,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: we gotta say this you you alluded to it earlier,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: but happy anniversary to you and Marjory. Have made it
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: love on your hand up. Wonderful man. Come on, I'm huh,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: I'm actually all honestly, I'm in a great marriage. You know,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's not without his chapel ledges and problems marriage.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: But Man, at the end of the day, when I
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: look at her, I'm happy. Man, I'm overjoyed. She's just
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: the one for me. Man, I could not have a
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: better chick. I could not have a better person. I
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: don't there as a person out there better for me.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: I just don't believe that this is it. Right here,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: I've been with you all the rest of them. This
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: is the best. Right I've been with you through all
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: the rest of them. How many lawyers, though, Steve, how
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: many years? This is uh fourteen and I've been happy
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: all fourteen? Here E've been wonderful. He got married, fourteen
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: years of marriage. Blissed all right? More of the Steve
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show and some training news coming up with
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after after this you're listening to show.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: Dozens of mourners, most dressed in white and nearly all
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: wearing masks, filled the historic Ebenezer Baptist Church yesterday for
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: the private funeral of Ray Schard Brooks. Ray Shard Brooks,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: of course, was the unarmed black man who was fatally
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: shot by a white police officer outside of Atlanta's Wendy's
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: Restaurant almost two weeks ago. Brooks was remembered as a giving,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: loving person, a devoted husband, and a wonderful father of
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: three daughters and a step son. Wow. Reverend Bernice King
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: delivered a moving message at the church where her father,
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: Reverend Doctor Martin Luther King Junior, once preached, Take a listen.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: I am here to stand with you in what feels
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: like an all too familiar moment, having a father killed
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: when I was only five years of age. My heart
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: deeply grieves Ray Schard Brooks's life matters, and he should
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: have been able to live, to enjoy his family and
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: watch his kids grow up into adulthood. And the officers
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: should have gone home that night without blood on their hands.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: This is the great tragedy in our nation that must cease.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: We are here because individuals continue to hide behind badges
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: and trainings and policies and procedures rather than regarding the
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: humanity of others in general, and black lives specifically. Wow
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: Wow like that Welson. Yeah, the cop who shot mister Brooks,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: of course, twenty seven year old Garrett Roth was fired
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: and charged with capital with the murder felony. Many moved
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: him to another jail for safety reason. Yeah, they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get so how long do well? You can't move you
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  Speaker 1: and I know all white jails, so right at some
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  Speaker 1: point you're gonna run into a black person in a minute,
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  Speaker 1: ain't there are no all white jails. Now, Okay, we're
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  Speaker 1: in there, she said, it's amount of time it's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: You can get in protective because if you want to,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. M And I'm gonna tell you how
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. They're gonna pay one of your little
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  Speaker 1: guard friends, one of your little guards, gonna turn your
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  Speaker 1: ass in, probably gonna be the black guard. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: gonna throw that out there for you. You know, it's
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  Speaker 1: a sad state for this young man to lose his life,
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  Speaker 1: Like she said before, he was allowed to see his
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  Speaker 1: children grow up and repeatedly it happens. But it's just
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  Speaker 1: it keeps happening just to us. So his deal. Can
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  Speaker 1: the police be upheld to the same law that they
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  Speaker 1: are trained and hired to hold Old Dust two, that's
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: a very common sense thinking coming up. It's our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day, last break of the day, and
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  Speaker 1: we'll have some wonderful closing remarks from the anniversary boy
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  Speaker 1: himself fourteen years with the love of his life. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey closing remarks forty nine minutes after right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, guys, Here we are last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day on this Wednesday hump day. I guess, stee,
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  Speaker 1: what do you have plan for your anniversary? Yeah? I
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  Speaker 1: can't go nowhere, so we have no in house. I
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  Speaker 1: no think so, man, think we're gonna do that day?
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  Speaker 1: My wife. Don't let nobody owe you. That's why this
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  Speaker 1: has got to end. I can't see your friends that seriously, man,
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  Speaker 1: because she took this way too far, like hand washing
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  Speaker 1: and all this him in my hands. Seriously, mane they
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  Speaker 1: don't even want to be washed, no more dry. That's
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  Speaker 1: a good thing. It's a good thing. But but let
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  Speaker 1: me say this. In cloth, uh I found uh not
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  Speaker 1: the best person in the world, just the best person
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  Speaker 1: in the world for me. Uh See. You may not
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  Speaker 1: feel that way about it, but that's not important to me.
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  Speaker 1: And so as you look for mates and choose mates
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  Speaker 1: and decide to make a life with somebody, if that's
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  Speaker 1: what you choose to do, find the person that's right
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  Speaker 1: for you. I wish you and I wish you well
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  Speaker 1: with that endeavor, because that's all it really matters. The
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  Speaker 1: other people's opinion of them. It doesn't matter, not one
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  Speaker 1: way or the other. You've got to find the person
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  Speaker 1: floats your boat that makes you happy. And I want
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  Speaker 1: to say this to men about relationships. I was talking
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  Speaker 1: to a guy today and I've said it on the
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  Speaker 1: show many times. He said, Oh, this is my fourth marriage,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm getting sick of getting married. I just can't
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  Speaker 1: get a woman to understand how I am. And I said,
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  Speaker 1: what seems to be problem, sir? And he says, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I want a woman that gets how this is supposed
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  Speaker 1: to go. I'm the man in the house and I
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  Speaker 1: and I don't want that disputed. I said, brother, how
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  Speaker 1: many marriages you'd have for? I said, you'venn have full
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  Speaker 1: more like that. I said, that's not the way it works.
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  Speaker 1: I said, have you ever thought that marriage is a compromise?
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever thought that a quality relationship is a compromise?
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  Speaker 1: He said. If I'm the man and were talking it
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  Speaker 1: and I say something, it ought to go the way
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  Speaker 1: I say, I said, brother, Thus explains the four wives.
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  Speaker 1: I said, but you're gonna have four more unless you
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  Speaker 1: change that. He said, you know I ain't with that
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: fifty fifty crap either. You know it's sixty forty. I said,
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  Speaker 1: as I said, see now you're talking to me, and
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: he said that's what I mean. I said, well, who
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  Speaker 1: gets to sixty? He said, I do? Oh? I said,
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  Speaker 1: oh you man, I said, that's why you went. He said, man,
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  Speaker 1: I've heard you talk about your wife so many times.
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  Speaker 1: What makes you have a successful man? I say, the
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  Speaker 1: percentage that you use it is off. I said. Marriage
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  Speaker 1: is not fifty fifty. It's not sixty forty. I said, marriage,
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  Speaker 1: it's eighty five fifteen, and we who are men, get
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  Speaker 1: the fifteen. He said, well, that's ridiculous. I'm not taking
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  Speaker 1: fifteen percent. I said, see, you're not willing to understand
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  Speaker 1: how it works. I said, bro, listen to me. I'm
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  Speaker 1: really about fifteen percent of it. I get to do
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do fifteen percent of the time.
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  Speaker 1: I get a space in the house. That's about fifteen
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  Speaker 1: percent of the house at maybe at best. I said,
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  Speaker 1: but I take that fifteen. I embrace it, I love it,
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  Speaker 1: I own it, I make it mine. I find my
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  Speaker 1: happiness in that fifteen and when I go over there
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  Speaker 1: to her eighty five side, if she's happy, do you
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  Speaker 1: know that she shares that eighty five with me? So
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  Speaker 1: I not only get to keep my fifteen and have
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  Speaker 1: that all to myself, my little man cave, or my
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  Speaker 1: little golf set up in the corner, or maybe it's
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: just your desk in the corner. Maybe you got your
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: video game set up on a little screen. Whatever it is.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you map out a little piece of the
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  Speaker 1: world that's just for you, and they keep the kids
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  Speaker 1: out of it. Don't go over that. That's your daddy's area.
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  Speaker 1: Every man needs that. If you get that little fifteen percent,
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: take that embrace it. Let her have the rest of it, don't.
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  Speaker 1: My father told me a long time ago, it's your
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  Speaker 1: job to buy the house. It's her job to make
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  Speaker 1: it at home. Fellas, listen to me. It's okay to
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: live that way. You take a lot of pride in
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: being a provider. You can take a lot of a
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: lot of pride in being the protector. There's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of pride in that. Stop trying to decorate the house
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: and all that. You ain't what you do. Dog really,
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  Speaker 1: it's really not never that maybe some guys out there
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  Speaker 1: in frigy tality that the majority of us are not
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  Speaker 1: let her do it eighty five fifteen. You'll be a
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  Speaker 1: lot happier like that. But I'll tell you something, when
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  Speaker 1: it's time for them to give, if you've given them
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  Speaker 1: eighty five, the return that they give to you for that, brothers,
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: it's immeasurable. Well, Steve, why they get eighty five? Well,
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: let's just talk about this for a second. They can
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: do one thing that you can't do, and that is
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: produce a life. They have produced. Every single life that's
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: on this earth today was out to you by a woman.
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 1: They ain't a man living that they made one child,
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: ain't incubated one egg. Hayte bought nobody in there. That's
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: a major accomplishment, man, And for that alone, that puts
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: him in a category that we can never ever get in.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care how famous you get, how much money
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: you make, but your job, titanly, is how many degrees
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  Speaker 1: you got. You can't make a baby. If you could
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: just grab that, fellas and be okay with that, and
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: honor women and put somebody's daughter on a pedestal and
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: treat her like a queen. The return you will get
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: for that is immeasurable, man, it really really is. And
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: you will find that you have a much better life
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  Speaker 1: with somebody than by yourself. I found that to be true.
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  Speaker 1: I wish everybody could get there, but sometimes to just
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 1: take a little bit of time. Happy anniversary to me
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  Speaker 1: and Marjree and going out tonight, and I ain't gonna
• 1:27:01
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