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Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Spates, Jackson, MS Lawsuit, Sister O'dell, Donda Academy and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: join me. You gotta turn you are you gotta turn
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out? Turn you got to turn out.
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  Speaker 1: Turn the water the water go. Come come on your
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  Speaker 1: bad uh huh, I sure will come on. And everybody
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  Speaker 1: y'all listening to the voice, come on, dig me now.
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  Speaker 1: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Heh man,
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  Speaker 1: back in business too, Man, Man, How good is God?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, really, if you think about it in spite
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  Speaker 1: of all that's going down in your life. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: it could be worse. But secondly, sometimes you have to remember.
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  Speaker 1: And I've just had to have this conversation with myself
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  Speaker 1: this morning. That's how I'm fresh on this one right here.
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  Speaker 1: When a challenge faces you, are you going through a
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  Speaker 1: difficult moment, or you didn't hit a bump in the
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  Speaker 1: road in the middle of that, if you could manage
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  Speaker 1: to be grateful, it would take you a long way.
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  Speaker 1: Gratitude is a powerful resource if you can be grateful
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of it. Gratitude is a powerful resource
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  Speaker 1: when it's dim for you and got a little bumpy
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  Speaker 1: on the road, and he ran into some obstacles, and
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  Speaker 1: you didn't, ran up into some detooled signs, and your
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  Speaker 1: journey ain't smooth as it was last week or last year.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta be grateful for the things that are going
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  Speaker 1: right and that have gone right, and for the thing
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  Speaker 1: that's wrong right now to get right? Man? Can I
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  Speaker 1: share that with you? Man? Is that a tough one
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  Speaker 1: to learn? It is for me. It has been one
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  Speaker 1: of my toughest challenges is to learn how to be
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  Speaker 1: grateful because it's a powerful resource, but how to be
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  Speaker 1: grateful in moments of despair when it ain't going right.
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  Speaker 1: See here's a mistake I would make. See when something
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  Speaker 1: go wrong, I want to focus on the wrong so
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  Speaker 1: much in an attempt to fix it. But even then
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  Speaker 1: the focus ain't always in to fix it. The focus becomes, Man,
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  Speaker 1: this is bad, man, I can't believe this is happening.
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  Speaker 1: Why just keep going down? That doesn't fix anything? You know,
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  Speaker 1: mealing over it, going over what's wrong, explaining it, sharing
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  Speaker 1: it with your friends, you know, making it sound worse
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  Speaker 1: than it is. Tell the story for pity from other people.
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  Speaker 1: All of that right there has nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: the fix. Sometimes you're just mulling over it. You're just
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  Speaker 1: making it worse. You're just making it a bigger problem.
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  Speaker 1: You're manifesting it into your atmosphere, You're putting it out
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  Speaker 1: there in your spirit. Now, all of a sudden, it
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  Speaker 1: consumes your day. Next thing, you know, you're having a
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  Speaker 1: bad day. If you're having a bad day, it's because
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  Speaker 1: you've been having some bad thoughts. So what I've had
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  Speaker 1: to learn how to do, and what I'm working on
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  Speaker 1: this morning is I'm working on this situation that's been
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  Speaker 1: cropped up. I was going kind of smooth here for
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  Speaker 1: a minute, and now I didn't got real bumpy in
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  Speaker 1: the road, you know, and all this here. So what
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about now, though, is even though I've hit
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  Speaker 1: a bump in the and even though out and ran
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  Speaker 1: into a detour, and even though I've hit this love,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going down into a valley, I ain't up on
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  Speaker 1: the peak. Can I not still be grateful for all
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  Speaker 1: the things that God has given me, for all the
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  Speaker 1: things He's done for me, for all the things He's
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  Speaker 1: brought me through, And realizing that even this that's happening
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  Speaker 1: to me again is going to pass too. He gonna
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  Speaker 1: get me through that attitude. Come on, man, God is
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  Speaker 1: a good god man. It's a lot to be grateful for.
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  Speaker 1: So while I'm tripping on this bumping the road out
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  Speaker 1: and here, what I gotta remember is all the things
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  Speaker 1: He's done for me. And like I say, my saying
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  Speaker 1: is joy and depression cannot reside in the same place.
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  Speaker 1: So instead of being down about this new bumping the road,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm constantly filling my mind with the thoughts of
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  Speaker 1: how good He's been to me, of what all he's
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  Speaker 1: done for me, of all the things he's brought me through,
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  Speaker 1: of all the blessings he's presented me with. When I
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  Speaker 1: go down that list, I really don't have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of time to mull over the situation. Now. Do I
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  Speaker 1: have to fix this bump in the road. Of course
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  Speaker 1: I do. Are There's some things I'm going to have
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  Speaker 1: to do to straighten it out, of course it is.
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  Speaker 1: But Steve just going to get the business of doing
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  Speaker 1: it and straighten it out. What you mulling over and
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  Speaker 1: wearing about it for you know, old people. I heard
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  Speaker 1: old people say something I was growing up in the church,
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  Speaker 1: they say, if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry
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  Speaker 1: about it. But if you're gonna worry about it, don't
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  Speaker 1: pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer just
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  Speaker 1: happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, it ain't
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  Speaker 1: always been that way. I want you to understand that
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  Speaker 1: My first weapon of choice was you do it to me,
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  Speaker 1: I do it to you. You call me out, I
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  Speaker 1: call you out, you say something bad about me. I've
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  Speaker 1: tried to find you and say something bad about you.
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  Speaker 1: That was my weapon in the past. How did that
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  Speaker 1: work out for you, Steve? Not so good? Because you
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  Speaker 1: know what, I spent a lot of time fighting back,
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  Speaker 1: kicking back, swinging back, when I could have spent all
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  Speaker 1: that time climbing. See, all you're trying to do at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, folks, is have a better
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  Speaker 1: life than the one you got. All you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: do is to improve your position in life. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my business to make sure you don't get
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  Speaker 1: where you're going. I ain't got no time for that.
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  Speaker 1: It's not my job to assure that you ain't as
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  Speaker 1: high as me. I ain't got no time for that.
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  Speaker 1: Your real mission and purpose is to have the best
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  Speaker 1: life that you can have, to ascend to the highest
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  Speaker 1: plateau that you can get to, to make your family
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  Speaker 1: as comfortable as you can, to provide as much as
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  Speaker 1: you can for your family. But legally, see, those of
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  Speaker 1: us are sitting up here trying to come up with sideways.
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  Speaker 1: You can ask a couple million men sitting in prison
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  Speaker 1: today how they wish they hadn't have done that, and
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  Speaker 1: they'll tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never had
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  Speaker 1: did it. I knew not to go down there. Something
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  Speaker 1: told me not to go down. Man. If I could
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  Speaker 1: change things, I would. But they're sitting somewhere doing some
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  Speaker 1: time that had they made another decision they wouldn't have
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  Speaker 1: to do now. That don't make them throw away people, na, man,
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  Speaker 1: because everybody make mistakes, and God is in the forgiving business.
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  Speaker 1: And some of us have done some things that really
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  Speaker 1: broke the law, and a whole lot of other things
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  Speaker 1: and deserve to do some time. But through the grace
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  Speaker 1: of God, we didn't. But now we set up here
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  Speaker 1: and we passed judgment on people who got to do something. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care what you've done. God
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  Speaker 1: can't forgive anything. But our position, our motivation in life
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  Speaker 1: is to try to have the best life we can
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  Speaker 1: have and provide for those around us and make it comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: If that's your ambition, you don't have time to worry
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  Speaker 1: about or concern yourself with another person. And I wasted
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  Speaker 1: time doing that, And that's not the way to get
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  Speaker 1: it done. It's simply mine to your business taking care
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  Speaker 1: of you and getting yourself right and tight. It's twenty
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  Speaker 1: four seven, so that's a full time job. So what
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  Speaker 1: I had to learn was and what I've the reason
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  Speaker 1: I've chosen prayer as as my weapon of choice now
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  Speaker 1: is that now prayer helps me that I don't have
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  Speaker 1: to fight back. Now, if I get cornered, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: fight you. I ain't even gonna lie to you. And
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  Speaker 1: now I'm still working on some things that trigger me.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know, and and and and
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  Speaker 1: so I'm I'm slowly getting better at that. But I've
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  Speaker 1: learned that my weapon of choice is prayer now. So
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  Speaker 1: when it happens ugly for me, I pray about it.
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  Speaker 1: When it gets tight and dismal for me, I pray
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  Speaker 1: about it. And the thing about prayer man is Prayer
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  Speaker 1: changes things. Yes, it does. Now read about it and
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  Speaker 1: try it. That's the deal. Okay, come on, prayer as
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  Speaker 1: a wonderful weapon. You're listening show, ladies and gentlemen. It
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  Speaker 1: Alive and well, walk too, want to beat. I know
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  Speaker 1: you want to leave me, but I refuse to let
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  Speaker 1: you go. If I have to beg. Please for your sympathy,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind, because you mean that much to me,
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  Speaker 1: and you proud to beg. That's how we're doing it
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  Speaker 1: this morning. Alive and well, grateful, highly motivated. The tunes
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  Speaker 1: is in the building. If you wake up with gratitude,
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  Speaker 1: it affects your attitude, which is in direct correlation to
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  Speaker 1: your altitude. Get your tube together, man, this is the
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  Speaker 1: the South, Mississippi, Monica. That bars back, Junior and ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, yours truly, Junior. What's on your mind today? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Where you been? Junior? Let's let's ask him the question.
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  Speaker 1: Where you've been? Do I have to tell you? Yeah? No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no no no, you don't have to tell us
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  Speaker 1: where you will. But you have to want your check though,
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  Speaker 1: you know what. I understand what you're saying. Um, hey, family, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I know I've been going by the week. I need
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  Speaker 1: a little time. Uh. I ain't hey y'all this, but
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  Speaker 1: I got married over the weekend. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: know that. What Wait a minute, y'all got married? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I got yeah, Julie, you did what? I got married?
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  Speaker 1: Is he for real right now? Yeah? Yeah, y'all see
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  Speaker 1: the ring. What the hell? Y'll tell man he's real?
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  Speaker 1: Herd No, no, not, he not here to do, Julie. No, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you got married this week. Dog. I swear to god,
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  Speaker 1: I got married. We got a whole wife right now.
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  Speaker 1: I got a whole wife in the room right now. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: let me just say this right here. This is space. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: because this is a national radio show, I can't say
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  Speaker 1: what I want to say. You can't. But you know
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  Speaker 1: that emoji that's orange, oh yeah, yeah, with the symbols
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  Speaker 1: across his mouth. Yea yeah, yeah. I need about eight
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  Speaker 1: of them right now. And then I need the little
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  Speaker 1: yellow emoji with the eyes wide open. Yeah yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: need the one Monica always seeing me, the little girl
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  Speaker 1: with her hands up like that. I don't know, being
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  Speaker 1: the one with the hand on her face. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then let me see. I know the fines. You
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  Speaker 1: know I paid them all. Yeah, I paid them all
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  Speaker 1: at three hundred thousand dollars when that hurt. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: know all the prices. But each word of the fanity.
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  Speaker 1: And let me tell you my favorite because words, the
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  Speaker 1: big one with the thirteen letters in it. But I
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  Speaker 1: don't know why they charged me the whole fine because
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  Speaker 1: I don't even say it with all the letters in it.
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  Speaker 1: That's about the account of Okay, ladies and gentlemen, you
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  Speaker 1: heard it. Junior is married. Uh, we need a minute. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to drink. We're not coming right back. We
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  Speaker 1: need a drink right after this. You're listening. It is
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  Speaker 1: time now to run that prank back with Steve. What
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  Speaker 1: you got, Steve and Junior, I've been doing it since
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  Speaker 1: you and Tommy been out. You know, I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: you were doing I'm skilling shot. But this is how
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  Speaker 1: you announced it, said, make your announcement, Shirley. All right,
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  Speaker 1: it is time now to run that prank back with Steve.
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  Speaker 1: We did a church band run a cat. That's how
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  Speaker 1: he did, or saying that's all that's set up when
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  Speaker 1: you heard this damn prank. Let's go. Hello, I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to reach Dann brother, Brother Dan. Hello, Hello, cousin, see
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  Speaker 1: you there. I'm trying to read brother Dare, Brother Dant. Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this brother Scott from the Church and Belt the Baptist. Hello. Brother, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I call you. I'm trying to get a little information
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  Speaker 1: about the church band. What's what's your schedule? Uh? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Will you drive the church man? And what's what's your schedule?
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  Speaker 1: I'd love it. Wednesday, Fridays and Sundays. Okay, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday,
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  Speaker 1: now Sunday. What what is that schedule? Oh, Sunday. I
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  Speaker 1: usually start about eight o'clock in the morning, probably a
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  Speaker 1: little earlier, depending on some of the elderly people that
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  Speaker 1: I had to go pick up and bring to the church.
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  Speaker 1: Make sure they get there okay, and get situated and
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  Speaker 1: make sure they're on time for the service and whatnot. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: and then you take them back home after service is over. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I try to get all of them back home, unless
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  Speaker 1: they got family members or something that come up there
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  Speaker 1: and meet them up there and want to take them
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  Speaker 1: to dinner or something afterwards. But I usually get everybody
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  Speaker 1: back home. Okay, okay, Now this class Sunday, which is
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  Speaker 1: part of the reason why I'm calling me. They saying
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  Speaker 1: that some of the church members that was on the
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  Speaker 1: band this Sunday, they are complaining, saying that that the
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  Speaker 1: church van was spending like weed when they got on there.
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  Speaker 1: Excuse me, they say the church van was spending like
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  Speaker 1: weed when they got on there. And you are the
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  Speaker 1: person that was driving them. No, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: not not the van that that I'm drying. I'm so
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't I ain't smoke weed, and
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  Speaker 1: no van, do you smoke weed? No? I don't smoke weed.
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  Speaker 1: I mean not Carly. I mean I have before, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't smoke weed now, and I wouldn't smoke weed before.
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  Speaker 1: Picking some people love to go to No, no, now
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  Speaker 1: where you carry it from? Who told you this? Well?
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  Speaker 1: All I knew is what what? What's coming down? The
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  Speaker 1: pipeline is? They saying that a couple of the members
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  Speaker 1: came complaining. See this just happened last week about this pipeline.
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  Speaker 1: I want to know who the pipeline is because just
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  Speaker 1: last week, they came at me talking about that I
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  Speaker 1: was using the van to go places that I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go to on my personal time. Now I don't
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  Speaker 1: do that. I don't do stuff like that, and now
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  Speaker 1: I have had a pass, I don't had a history,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't do stuff like that, and I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: smoke no church fan. So are you seriously talking? What? What? What? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to We're trying to get to the bottom
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  Speaker 1: of it and see what's going on with you. Ulderly
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  Speaker 1: person said, do you know which one? Don't? They loved
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  Speaker 1: me Every Sunday? Didn't people tell me they loved me?
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  Speaker 1: They say I'm one of the most respectful young gentlemen
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  Speaker 1: they've ever met in their life. And so I really
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  Speaker 1: find it hard to believe that you you you getting
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  Speaker 1: these type of complaints about me. Okay, what I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: spell like who we I don't know what that means
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  Speaker 1: or nothing like that. Look, brothers, now, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: you too well, and I know you don't know leave.
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  Speaker 1: But I've been driving this vans as a point to
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  Speaker 1: try to change my life and where I come from.
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  Speaker 1: So this was was something that I wanted to volunteer,
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  Speaker 1: even though I'm getting paid to give my time to
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  Speaker 1: do this for the church. And now this is like
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  Speaker 1: the second instance where y'all and came at me on
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  Speaker 1: some stuff about like I'm trying to do something with
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  Speaker 1: this Vand now why would I disrespect the church van
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  Speaker 1: by smoking weed in it and then letting the weeds
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  Speaker 1: stay in there so other people could sell it? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so let me tell you what we're gonna do. We're
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  Speaker 1: gonna go out here to the church they say can
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  Speaker 1: open it up. Like if we see any seeds or
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  Speaker 1: anything around the driver seat, then then then we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna definitely, uh point, gonna open the van up. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I was raising that church. Man, My mamma go to
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  Speaker 1: that church, my grandma. See you go to that church.
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  Speaker 1: See the reason we even all left that church. And
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  Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna mess up? They ain't. By driving
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  Speaker 1: around in the band full of elderly people smoking and dad,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to shut the band smell like weed? Man,
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  Speaker 1: Now I don't. I don't got the answer to these questions.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that it wasn't me.
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  Speaker 1: Did you ask some weed in your part I can't
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  Speaker 1: admitted with just smelling. I ain't had no weed on me.
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  Speaker 1: Stop trying to say like I had weed on me
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  Speaker 1: and you ain't gonna get me nothing that I ain't
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  Speaker 1: had no and we ain't had no weed on me. Okay, Now,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna mess up my name or my family's
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  Speaker 1: name in this church and disrespect us like this. Now
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  Speaker 1: we've been helping this church for years and I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to tell you that I ain't riding around and no vans,
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  Speaker 1: smoking no weed with no elderly people. Did you ask
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  Speaker 1: any of the elderly people if they had any weed
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  Speaker 1: on them? Uh? No, we did no, No, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: think about it. Oh, el people having a week, So
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  Speaker 1: you just assume it's me what one of them? Guy
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  Speaker 1: got coma or something? What? What? What? You know? What?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Who? I think? Do you know who I
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  Speaker 1: think the weed belonged to? Oh? I think I think
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  Speaker 1: the weed belonged the nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Show.
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  Speaker 1: What the damn? You just got a prank? Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: you just got a prank to put his his name
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  Speaker 1: his name is brother, uh brother Lawrence, Lawrence Lawrence. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my Larry called Larry, but law Larry, Larry in trouble
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  Speaker 1: with me. Hi, Man, I got one more thing that
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  Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you. Man, what
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  Speaker 1: is the saddest and I mean the baddest radio show
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  Speaker 1: in the land? Man, Steve Harvey Morning Man going no risk,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Man going on the chill out the rest of the day.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I'll try, Man. I know I'm gonna smoke no weed.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Well that's it weed in the church. Fan, Hey, listen,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: watch me on a ready ready for some love? All right?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building, ready for
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: your love questions. Right after this, you're listening to the
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: the hour, and Entertainment News music executive Shaka Zulu faces
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: murder charges in Atlanta after a shooting U in Atlanta
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: back in June of this year. And Kim Kardashian dropped
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: about seventy million dollars on a Malibu beach house. But
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: right now it is time to ask the CLO Chief
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one's from Cassandra and Tyler.
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  Speaker 1: Cassandra writes, My husband and I have two teenagers, and
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: he is strict on our son, but not on our daughter.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: She's seventeen and he won't let her get a job,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: but he made our fifteen year old son work with
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: him all summer. How do I fix the imbalanced so
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: my son won't feel bad? So your son won't feel bad? Right, ma'am?
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Your father is teaching your son
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: discipline and responsibility, which is what he has to do.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: He's spoiling your daughter because he's showing your daughter what
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the love of a man feels like. And it's putting
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: her on a pedestal. Now she's seventeen. It's dangerous out
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: here in this world. A day she going out getting
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: a job, got to work late hours. Maybe he's protecting
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: her from net until it's absolutely sini. On the other hand,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: the boy has to get it and stop being the
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: colling mother when I indeed make my son I feel bad.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: What you want to raise? You want to raise this
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: little chump. It's a little ragged ass boy. Don't don't
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: know nothing about no responsibility, doing like he want to
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: do because he's gonna be a man one day. See
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: your son may one day have a wife like you
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: and a daughter like his sister, and if he don't
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: have the ability to take care of her, he won't
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: even be able to give his daughter the choice of
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: staying home or going to work. Because my daddy ain't
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: worth a damn. So now I got to get out here.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: So now, why are you calling me to ask me
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: what you can tell your father, your husband so your
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: son can feel better? Are you kidding me? Look, when
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: you you're married to a man, and you know you
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: have a good man, and he's in part of these
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: little nuggets on these boys about manhood, please allow that
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: to happen, because that's what wrong in our society today.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: We have so many young men that didn't get the
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: nuggets of manhood. Then now they're walking around with a
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: whole different viewpoint of what manhood is. Just let that goal.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Congratulations you lucky. Nothing for your little side, little boy,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: so he don't feel bad. I wish somebody had said
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: that to my father. What would have have doing that
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: so Steve won't feel bad? Who gave his ass permission
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: to feel Okay? It was a different household, So all right,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: let's go all right, moving on to April and Philly
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: April says, I've been married for less than a year
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: and this lady came through the drive through at my
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: job and said she has been sleeping with my husband.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I'm his boss and he was at work, but he
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: refused to address her. I put him out of my house.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Should I fire him? To WHOA? Well, now you gotta
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: think about this lady. If you fire him, who's gonna
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: be the fry cook tomorrow? See you you up in here?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: You you you you Washington judge. Who is gonna be
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: the fry cook tomorrow? If a lady pulls up your
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: drive through window and accuses you of sleeping with your
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: husband and your husband is at working, you the manager?
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Clearly he ain't the manager. You said he works for you.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: That ain't a couple positions back there, whatever I've been
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: back there, you either flipping or you dropping him fried
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: or you are rap duty today. Now, rap duty is
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: when you take the take the beat and put it
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: on the bun and dress it with whatever they're making. Now.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: One of the fast foods you at, but I know
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: all of the stations, was Friedman at Burger Kings where Yeah, well,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something when I moved up to
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: the broad master, boy what and could put them frozen
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: patties on the grilled and they rolled over that fire. Yes,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I can't tell you. Let me get this trait is
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: she should be more concerned about who's gonna be the
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: fried tomorrow than than a woman who's sleeping with her. Well,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: that's that's for joke purposes. I know. I'm just thinking
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: of a woman that drove up through drive through, get
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: a number one, and then ask one number one, and
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: after pay one, then tells you, I'm sleeping with your hub.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: He back that dropping fried. He heard her voice on
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: the intercom, so now he dropping extra fry. He heard
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: that intercom. You can hear people because everybody got a
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: hair set on back then the window like that, that'll
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: be eight ninety. Why don't you get it from the
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: man I'm sleeping with back there? He one told me
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: to come around here and get this free lunch. Oh man,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: that's when you got to start throwing grease on the
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: floe and happened. Well, you got to create a distraction.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, what dog needed to do? He needs to
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: start a small five right now. That's at the restaurant.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: So I would if I was hurt, I would take
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: it with the grain of salt. Who is this woman?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Think of this? Who's the lady that drives through a
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: drive to tell a woman I'm but she already put
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: the man out of the house. Yeah, that could have
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: been at and he and he has nowhere to go.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Now about fry cook paint. Let me tell you some
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: that ain't. They don't leave a lot for save you show, okay,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: savor for the apartment as the fried coop. He could
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: go the hall apartment, said over the Hu. He is
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: definitely out. He back at a relative's house. You made
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Fried Cook that money right there, I'm telling you right
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: now that was Let me see what that was? A dollar?
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I think that was a dollar or sixty five, But
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: that was back then. Wage is higher now everything else
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I do not. I do not relative house. All right, Well,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: moving on, I guess Bailey and Tacoma said. My older
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: sister had a pool party last weekend and we all
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: got drunk. My sister's husband kissed me, and my little
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: sister saw it, and she told my mom what happened.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: My older sister had a pool party last weekend. We
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: all got drunk. My sister's husband kissed me, and my
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: little sister saw it and told my mom My, Mama
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: is upset and said, I've got to tell my sister
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: about her husband. Should I really do that? From Bailey,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: y'all got drunk. I would let that go. M I
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: would let that go and tell mom stay out of it. Mama.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Problem is if she let the sister's husband kiss her,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: which I don't hear nothing about. No fight at the pool.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I didn't hear no. I snatched and fell into water,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: We knocked over the bobby que. I didn't hear none
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: of that. So she might have fell into his arms
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: and really went with this. Okay, Mama, all right, thank you.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Cielo coming up at the top of the hour, we'll
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Shot kaZulu. That name may sound familiar to a lot
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: of people. Shakazulu is a long time music executive and
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: manager of rapper Ludicrous. He's been charged with murder, aggravated assault,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: simple battery, and possession of a firearm during the commission
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: of a felony. According to arrest warrants, Shakazulu, whose real
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: name is Ahmed Obafemi is accused of fatally shooting a
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: twenty three year old man in the chest, grazing another
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: man in the leg, and assaulting a third man by
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: slamming his head against a window outside of apartment for
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: B restaurant in Atlanta. This happened back in June. Fifty
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: two year old Zulu turned himself in last week and
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: posted a two hundred thousand dollars bond. That same day,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: Zulu and another man were both shot in the back,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: but Zulu is the only arrest made in this case.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Zulu's lawyer issued this statement saying a close review of
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: all the evidence, including the surveillance footage and eyewitness interviews,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: reveals that mister Zulu was attacked and jumped from behind
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: by a gang of at least four individuals, sadly including
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: the decedent, and was forced to defend himself after this
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: gang repeatedly stomped, punched, and kicked him while he was
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: on the ground in a defenseless posture. Mister Zulu was
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: shot in the back during the shooting and nearly lost
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: his life and is still recovering from the nearly fatal injuries.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: He sustained that evening It is not lost on mister
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: Zulu that someone lost his life. But had mister Zulu
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: not lawfully defended himself, mister Zulu would have been killed
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: that night. Soah, that's a lot. And yeah, that's a
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: whole lot. That's really too bad because I've known this
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: brother for a number of years. Man, he's just always
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: been just a fine business man, a great guy man.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: So I wish you well a whole His attorney is
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: correct with all this footage, that doesn't stop charges from
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: coming in. We have to remember something. Just because a
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: person's charge don't mean he's guilty, right, I mean, you know,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: if this attorney's statements are true or remotely true, that
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: could be a cause for self defence. I just don't
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: see this guy walk around, uh, initiated a crime violence,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: That's not shocking. We all know him. He's a standard guy,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: philanthropy working on the city of Atlanta. He cares about
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: the community. This track record is pretty good. Yeah, yeah,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: it's a good guy, all right. Yeah, So we'll keep
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: you posted on what happens and develops in this story.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Um and switching gears now. Earlier, Um, you know we
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: mentioned that Junior have been out for a week shirltte.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Your announcement is not the way I want to get
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: into this one shot. Polight, surely it's such a it's
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: wonderful this damn food and came in here this morning
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: and hold us I'm married now? Hell what? Yeah? Because
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: you remember all them questions I had been asking you.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: That's what I was getting prepared for. That's why I
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: need to know that missed it. What happened. I was
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: strolling over the weekend. Over the weekend, I went down
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: there to the church and got married. I'm really we're
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: still bugging out about this. I want you to hear
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: high sound up over the weekend. Over the weekend, I
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: just you know when I got I got mad. You know,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I asked mad. Now I went you know all the
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: questions I was asking you. I guess that was the
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: next thing I know. Oh no, I look ding dong.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I'm married, Junior. We we talk all the time. You
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: never once mentioned this to me ever, So Junior, you
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: are legally married right now. That's where that work is amazing.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: You see your name marriage license? Boy? Who did you marry?
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I'm married? Here, I'm married. I'm married a lady that
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I've been dating for a very long time, and you know,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I just I love her. I mean, it really is
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: just you know when she walked in that when she
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: walked in that chap man, you ever think I've ever
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: seen that's that's that was what's so amazing. And I said,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: God is actually on his mission. Man, he actually did
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: that for him. You're not gonna go from that statement.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: You think you think you know she walked in and
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I ever seen she's coming down the O was just like,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: you know, God, it's you know him. All of a sudden,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I'm having this realization you know who I am, you know,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: in this rold In life of crime and criminology that's
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: coming on the heels of that last story we just heard.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: And I'm sitting the pig just trying to figure out
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: how God it's good to me, you know, because you know,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I felt shot myself. It was I felt like it
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: was a shot of love for me. You know, I
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: just tied it into the last story. It just felt
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: like a shot of love to me. I support you,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: watch you. I hate to ask you this, junior, but
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: this is personal. But where she pregnant? No, no, I
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: too old for my friend. It was a little shot.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: You ain't got any nobody. Yeah, that's no shotgun though,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: you know. Congratulations, but in shock. So I know you
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: have kids. Look what a kid. I'm a husband, a father,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: and a grandfather. One day I did all of that.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Oh you're gonna need they wait what Yeah, I've actually
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: and it has been missus Junior next because I got
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: grand Keiths. Have you heard your voice? Anybody from to
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: call you papa? Yeah? What hold on, mister Junior. We
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: gotta we gotta get the rest, he said. That's what
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: we have to call him. Now, all right? Coming up
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after Wow, we'll have more of the
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up. We have to talk
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: about this Jackson, Mississippi ongoing water crisis and what's been happening.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: the Steven Show. A class action lawsuit has been brought
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: against the City of Jackson, Mississippi, and the city's ongoing
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: water crisis. It is the first federal class action lawsuits
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: seeking injective relief uh and monetary damages against various government
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: and private engineer entities over the neglect, mismanagement, and maintenance
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: failures that led to an environmental catastrophe, leaving more than
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty three thousand Jackson area residents without
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: access to safe running water. Legal counsel representing the plane
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: has stated government officials are turning a blind eye to
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: contaminated water and letting a major American city's infrastructure crumble
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: into disrepair. This lawsuit seeks to bring justice and safe
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: clean water to the Jackson community. Jackson's boil water notice
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: was lifted almost a week ago, but many Jackson residents
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: are still traumatized by the lead and harmful bacteria that
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: may still be lurking in the water supply. Wow, I mean, yeah,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: this is sad. Yeah, this really really is. Yeah. Well
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: the sadness of it is, this only happens in communities
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: that are underserved, under hacks, under privilege and black period.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: They don't happen nowhere else. This is what happened in Flint, Michigan. Yeah,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: it only happens there. This don't happen in the Hamptons.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: This is not gonna happen in the Prescott area in Dallas.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: This won't happen in Plain Oh you know, no, this
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: won't happen in sugarloaf in Houston. It's not gonna happen.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: It's well, it's a sugarloaf in Atlanta, and it's a
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: sugarland in Texas. This ain't gonna happen in Beverly Hill. No,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: it's not. And you just have to you have to
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: just tell the truth about it. You know, everybody is
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you know, our country as supposed to be the richest
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: and most opportunity, most opportunities available, and the freest country
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: of them all. That's how claim. But we find a
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: way to treat our people about as bad as a
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: country with that reputation can do. Now, if your country
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: don't have that reputation, if you led by a dictator,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: that's a horrible tyrant, that's you. But we're talking about
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: the United States of America and the fact that we
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: can't even fix this wobbler problem with all our resources.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: So hold on, let me ask you something. We can
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: put a man in a spaceship, take him to the moon,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: land him and bring him back to the same landing place.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: That's what we're able to do. But we can't get
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: the people in Jackson, Mississippi, some damn water. Help me
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: understand that, ready, set go help me, all right, Steve,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: we're gonna move on and switch gears here because coming
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll talk
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: to sister O'Dell. She was over in London and we'll
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: see what happened over there for the queen's funeral. We'll
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: see right after this. You're listening morning show, all right, So, uh,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: sister Odell is here. She brings us news from across
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: the pond. She was in England. Jesus h really convicted
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: sounding keep me long? Whoa he will? Yes? Gloray, good
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: morna is everyone? Hey, sister down your mon is Shirley
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Colling Sippy Clare was happening to the water, sweetie. We're
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: gonna pray for you. Get it all straight for the
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: people's down there. Hey, junior boy morning Sis, No down
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: hurt you. I'd married this weekend and they don't tell nobody. Yeah, yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: that was dumb. How y'all today? What why don't say
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: that troll? The say nobody gonna say it to him,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: but you tooth call h All right, that's fine with me.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: They want him here phone? What's going on there? It
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: was well, I'm not even gonna talk to him because
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I'm gonna check. You're gonna check to
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: see if he really got married. My granddaughter works down
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: at the coat. I'm gonna call down and have her
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: do the art marriage license. Junior getting married, Well, he
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: is wearing a ring. That's that's some news. But the
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: other thing that's going on, we heard you were in England. Um,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: we don't know. Did you go to the queen's funeral
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: or were you over there? Yes? I went over there,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: you know, me and the queen. You shall roll who
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: wait a minute? What? Huh? Oh? She was queen. You know,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: she was just a white girl waiting where the queen
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: samy years for that. She was just a white girl.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: And that's when I know them, you know, And we
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: ran for twenty years. Then when she came queen, you know,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: she got all up there, you know, unless she ain't
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: know nobody. Then, you know, we hung out a couple
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: of times after that, you know, you know, I had
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: to quit hanger with her because she started wearing all
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: them different colors, you know, or with the matching hat,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: you know, all that powder blue and yelling all that.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: If you ain't gonna wait missionary white we can't run. No,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: people that hang with you have to wear white tooth. Well, well,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: if we hang it where as we're going. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: missionary for Jeus. I ain't gonna get off of that
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  Speaker 1: just because you the queen. Now you know you might
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: be the queen, but I'm going to see the king,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: ain't massa? Yes? Lord? And I wanted to say also,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: congratulations to the new king. Yes now yeah lord? Good? Hello?
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: What about sister Hotel? See who's going to be told? See? Well,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: what is the true with What do you mean? I
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: saw him and the queen standard together. I ain't know
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: who was who? Who was? Who are you saying they
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: look alike? Hey, Queen, King, King, Queen Queen was confused
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: your majesty, Hi, your majesty or your king your majest
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was. You know, he's pretty particular,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: is the king is. He's been throwing tantrums and firing people.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Oh you know, he've been waiting to be king for
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah. Oh, hen that showing his natural behind.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Now he ain't He got a nine and shoelaces and
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: you know you heard about making shep with pine the
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: middle of the night that's a heavy meal. Extra hay
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: into the room nine extra Hey where the people they
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: got fined for bringing the hand? They thought it was
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: a horse in there. She got a black horse whether
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: they thought it was hu look at the time. Okay,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: oh y'all ain't got time for the truth. Huh. Move on.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: You don't believe me, but you believe junior. Hold on
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: with the very married junior coming up next. You're listening.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it's
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is I'm
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: not trying to run him away. We'll get into that
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: find out what that's all about in just a few
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time for the prank phone call.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: And guess who's in for the nephew, the newly married,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: the junior. We just found out. We just found this
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: out today. I know that's why you were gone. Boy.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: It's three days a man, it's tough one. You've been
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: doing it alone. What did you say? This is tough? Who? Man?
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Three days in? Boy's pressure? Three days Yeah, man, I
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: need to come by the house talk to you. Three
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: days in after you don't need to bring that attitude
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: over here. Three days in maybe three days in him,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: wait till the third year. I tell you it's right now.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: The stuff we had to argument about last night, what
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: what I'll tell you. I'll tell you what. I'll tell
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you about it in a minute. But right now, he's
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: your prank phone call, your check bounce. Come on cat, Hello, Hello,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Monica system. Monica please, who's calling?
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: This is brother Deshan. I'm calling. Actually I'm a member
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Greater Commissionary Baptist Church. How can I help you? Calling you?
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Actually about the offering? Now? Did you? I know you
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: paid your ties every Sunday? Okay, Now you pay the
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Love offering as well? Right? Yes? I do? Okay, Now
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: this past Sunday. I'm looking at a check that you
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: left us with the bank, right right, I sure did.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now the check, ma'am
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: was two hundred and fifty dollars. Am I correct? Right? Right?
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I wrote two checks for my ties and the love offering? Right?
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I wrote one for fifty for the Love offering? Okay?
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Now what is this call regarding? Why are you calling me? Well?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: What I wanted to tell you is that I hate
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: to be a bar of bad news. But you your
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: check that you wrote for two fifty actually has bounced.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: And wait a minute, you said my check bounce for
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty dollars. Your check bounce. So what
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I'm doing is calling you about recouping the two fifth
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: as well as you know you you cost us thirty
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: dollars in bank fees. But wait a minute, now, I
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: wrote two checks. I wrote a check for one hundred dollars.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Did that one bounce? I don't see to it that
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: that that one bounced. All I know is the one
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: that the love offering has bounced. What did you put
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: them in at the same time? Because I wrote him
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: at the same time. They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: I didn't put them in at the same time. I've
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: been putting them in for the last two three years.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: The problem is why would people write the name m
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: brother Deshaun And you was at it Sunday, I was.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think it matters, And when I was there, ma'm,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: the problem is that I didn't put these checks in,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks to
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: the tracks that they're gonna bunk. The chause a lot
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: of people write that good well not right? Bad checks? Well,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: why one clear? Why the other one didn't clear? Maybe
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: you didn't have enough money for both of them to clear?
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: What what did you just say? Maybe you didn't have
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: enough money in the bank for both of them to clear.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: And I don't understand why people right planning money in
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: the bank at all. My checks clear. I don't write
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: no rubber checks. Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. How you're gonna try to give a look?
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: You wait a minute. I think you got me confused
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: with somebody else. I don't write no bad checks. You
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: didn't wrote that to be nice to you. I'm trying
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: to be nice to you. When can we expect the
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: two fifty plus the thirty dollars? So thirty dollars that's
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: the bank feeds man for the doll gonna check bouncing?
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: My check didn't bounce. I don't check my bank. And
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: if my check clear, you're gonna pay me thirty dollars
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: for calling me, harassing me about a two hundred and
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars check bounce. I don't write no Why would
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: you write check? What? You want to sit up in
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: the church and write these big number checks when you
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: know you ain't got it in the bank. What did
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: you say? I said, why would you write these checks
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: when the money ain't in? Now, let me tell you
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: that's one thing. I don't write no bad check. And
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: you got a lot of nerves calling me telling me
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: my check bounce, y'all. Check is the one that has bounce.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: And you tell you what you do since my check bounce,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: you paid them, since you got all the money, And
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: don't call me with this again. Hello, don't you hang
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: upon me no more? Why don't we gonna get this
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: two fifty and this thirty dollars? Somebody from the church
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: to my I wrote a bad check, I'll write, No,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: you didn't write a bad check. I didn't write no
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: bad Yes, why are you calling me? Why the treasure?
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Don't call me at church? The treasure is bis. I
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: ain't ever know the deacon called nobody about no bad check?
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: Your fully and thank you? You got the money I
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: ain't got. Who the hell is that in the background?
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: Who is that? For mine? Who it is? We both
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: go to the same church, and you're gonna call me
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: to my I wrote a bad check? You don't you
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: call me no more. And if the check bads, you paid? Okay?
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: He passed to know you talking like this? Do pass
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: to No you calling me? Can you ask for that? Look?
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: When are we gonna get this two hundred and eighty dollars?
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: It's what we're looking for from you. I wrote a
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: check for two fifty and not get two eighty. You
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: put the thirty dollars with it. You put two fifty
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: in there. It bounce. Thirty dollars cost us on bake fees.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: That's two eighty. Waken the church. Expect the money. Never
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: not no two eighty. You will never get to eighty.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me come by your and my check
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: in But what did you say? I'm gonna do what
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me come by your house and get
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: this money? Bring it on, bring it, bring it? What
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: is the address on this check? Check? I got it
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: off the check, bring your own. I bet you you'll
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: be limping back and I'm watching you. You bet not
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: be spending no money nowhere. You bet not spend nothing
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: until I get this two fifty plus thirty whatever I
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: want to Okay, No, you you know where I am
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: and you don't call no more with this because my
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: check did not bounce. I don't see how one check
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: went through and the other bounce. Let me say this
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: to you, we cannot accept you back into the House
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: of the Lord no more until you are not don't
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: you come in the Sunday until we get coming up
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: in the Sunday, and I'm gonna make sure I find
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: you because you the person I want to see you.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm gonna call the pastor right
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: now and asked him because I don't believe my check bounce.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: You fuller what Let me say this before you called
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: pastor I got. No, I'm gonna called pastor. No, you
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: should have talked with pastor before you call me with
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: this information. I got one more thing I need to say.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to say to me. You don't
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: upset me with this I'm talking about I bounced a check.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: You should have went to pastor before you call me
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: with you. I tall Pastor one I get, But I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: got one more thing to say before I leave that
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: you're listening. What are you about to say to me?
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: What do you have to say now that you're gonna
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: pay the check? This is nephew timing from the Steve
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Harvey Martin Show. You just got prayed by your girlfriend.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: What did you say, baby? This isn't what did you say?
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I'd say, this is nephew, Tommy, baby brother, Steve Harvey Morning.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Tell your girlfriend has pranked you. I'm gonna beat that.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: She just left hid her. She didn't let me ask
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: you one more thing though, baby? What is the baddest
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: radio show in the land, the Steve Harvey That is it?
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Your check back? That's good, hey, Julian, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: what y'all have an argument two days there about what
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: side of the bed? She won't now, now, I ain't,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I ain't never you know, I'm left handed. I need
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: to be on the left side. She said, I like
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: sleep on the left. But I'm yeah, that will be arguing.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Who is she? Who is she? My wife? Yeah, you
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: don't even have the voice tones. That's what That's what
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: the whole thing about. Like She's like, I'm sleeping on
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: the left side, and I think it because my tone.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to be aggressive with us. It didn't really work.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: It didn't come back right, you know what I mean. Like, listen,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: I'm sleeping on the left side. Understand me. Yeah, that
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: don't make nobody even roll over. Nobody, let alone get
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: up in the switch side. That ain't even to roll over.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I hear that thing. How how do you stop? Steve?
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Why did he say? Hey, Hey, I'm sleeping on the
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: left side. I'm left handed. You hear me, I'm left handed.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: I'm on livet side. Listen it bad ain't big enough
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: for the two of us. Didn't move. I said this
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: bad ain't big enough for the two of us. We
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: gotta pray. Oh. Coming up next, it is the Strawberry
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: Letter for today. The subject is I'm trying not to
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: run him away. We'll get into it right after this.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 53:12
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• 53:15
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• 53:32
  Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for the
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: Strawberry re Letter. My good friend Shirley straw theory. Are
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: we really good, Steven Junior? Are we really good? Okay? Subject,
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Thank you Subject. I'm trying not to run him away.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old woman
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: and I'm with a man that is out of my league.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I have a great job and
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: I'm educated, but my past is sketchy. He's a surgeon
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: and his daughter just finished medical school. He's been divorced
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: for six years, and he's ready to settle down with me.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: We met on a site for professional singles, and we've
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: been dating for almost a year. I've never been married,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: but I worked as an escort and lived with a
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: man for fourteen years. Some say he was my pimp,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: but I looked at it as a business that we
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: ran together and we made a lot of money. During
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: that time. I had a son by one of the
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: guys I saw regularly. The guy found out he was
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: the father and he filed for custody and one because
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: of my lifestyle. I have a good relationship with my son,
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: and I paid for his private school tuition up until
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: he graduated two years ago. I want to share this
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: part of my past with my new boyfriend, but I
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: do not want to run him away. I can't get
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: that time back that I wasted as an escort, but
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I made sure that I changed my life for the better.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: My new man and I have run into my ex
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: pimp or whatever he was, and I told my boyfriend
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: that he's an ex boyfriend. In the past, my ex
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: pimp purposely destroyed a great relationship I was in simply
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: because he was jealous. I can't let my new man
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: find out that way. I have not even told him
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: that I have a son. What kind of man will
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: be okay with this? I feel like the longer I wait,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: the worse it will be. I have been in counseling
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: because I don't feel worthy of a good man like this.
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: But I know we all have skeletons. Do you think
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: he will judge me or dump me? Well, he might
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: do both, but that of course depends on how he
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: feels about you and the plans he has for you.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: Guys moving forward, you said he wants to settle down
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: with you, but he doesn't have all the facts. He
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: doesn't know about your past, and he doesn't know that
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: you have a son. Everyone in life, each and every
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: one of us has a past. Yours is different and
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: yours is way more colorful than a lot of people's. Yes,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: it is, But the thing is you say you are
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: no longer that person. That's what I'm going to focus on.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: You've changed for the better, but you can't seem to
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: get past your past. So how do you expect others
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to get past your past? You are constantly judging yourself.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: You're ashamed, you haven't forgiven yourself. You're living with all
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: this guilt and fear. This has to be eating you
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: up inside. But who are you now? Who are you now?
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: That should be your focus. You know, you do need
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: to sit down with this man and tell him you
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: have a son who stays with his dad. Not telling
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: him that looks very suspicious, like what else is she hiding?
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: He's going to be thinking. You do not want him
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: to think you're faking. You do not want him to
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: think that you're not who he thought you were. I mean,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: you're not. But you know you'll have to explain that.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: You don't want him to find out from someone else.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: You will lose his trust that way. You gotta tell
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: him you have a son. He will ask you why
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: you didn't tell him before. That's gonna be a red
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: flag for him. So I honestly think it's best to
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: come clean with your guy now, right now, and tell
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: him about your past. You got to do it. You
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: don't have to tell him every little detail. And please
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: don't want to mention the word pimp to him. Please
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: don't do that. But tell him something you have to
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: because at some point you're gonna have to face your past,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: deal with it, let it go. It happened, you cannot
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: change it. You're better personnel, you're worthy and valuable. You're
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: seeing a therapist. I hope that they're telling you not
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: to beat yourself up. You beat yourself up enough about
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: your past. It's time to look to the future. If
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend really loves you and want you, he will
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: accept you for who you are now. But you also
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: you also have to accept who you are and who
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: you were, deal with that and move on with your life. Steve,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if I can. It wasn't
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: because what I'm gonna tell you it's gonna be a
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: little bit different from what Shirley says, and you have
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: to wear it out for yourself. All right, let's go.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: I'm trying not to run him away. I'm a funny
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: seven year old woman. I'm with the man that's out
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: of my league. Don't get me wrong. I have a
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: great job and I'm educated, but my past is sketching.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Whenever you start a letter like this, we have a problem.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: How are you dating a man that's out of your
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: league when clearly men have one objective to marry up.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: We will get the best chick that we could get,
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: the one that makes us look and feel the best.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: So stop thinking you're out of his league, because you're not. Now,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: because I've known a whole letter, I was going to
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: tell you. You say, I'm educated, but my past is scheduling.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of people, some sketchy pass I
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: can't tell you half of mine. He's a surgeon and
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: his daughter just finished medical school. He's been divorced for
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: six years, and he's ready to settle down with me.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: We went on the site for We met on the
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: site for professional singles. We've been dating for almost a
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: year now. I've never been married, but I worked as
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: an escort and live with a man for fourteen years.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Something say he was my pimp right here? Hold on, Steve, Yeah,
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: we got to kill all this right here. It's going
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: down here with these two escort pimp down here, friend
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: playing on fire. Anybody got a pass? Shoot what we're
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: going through? All right? Hang on, Steve. Part two of
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: your responses coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters, subject I'm not trying to run him away.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: The subject I'm trying not to run him away. Well,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: it's forty seven year old lady that's dating a man.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: She claims he's out of league, and she just says,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. I got a great job and educated,
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  Speaker 1: but my past is sketching. Well, her pass is sketching.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: But you shouldn't be. You shouldn't allow yourself to be
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: married to your past. It's the future in who you
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: are now. That's the key to this whole thing. Right.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: But now we have problems because we're gonna get some information.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: He's been divorced for six years. Rady to settle down
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  Speaker 1: with me. We met on the site of Professional Singles.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: We've been dating for almost a year. I've never been married,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: but I worked as an escort and I lived with
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: a man for fourteen years and something say he was
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: my pimp. Some say he was my pimp, but I
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: looked at it as a business and we were that
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: we ran together, and we made a lot of money.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Don't repeat that ignorant ass line to nobody else. Now,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: we can't help you if you're gonna keep saying dumb
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: sugar honey, iced tea, and that's all. This is damn
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: it to write us with this information and didn't want
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: some damn help talking about I've been mad, I worked
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: as an ascot and I live with a man fourteen years.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: Something to say he was my pimp, but I looked
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: at it as a business that we ran together. We
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: made a lot of money. But during that time I
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: had a son by one of the guys. I saw
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: regularly what the guy found out he was a father
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: and file for custody in one because of my lifestyle.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: What lady, you can't tell this to no damn body.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: It ain't going over good with me. I don't even
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: want you, and you don't judge like that. But you
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: give me this information and the next word out of
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: my mouth is I want to marry you. I suffer
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: wrong with me at this point, I'm just gonna be
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: honest with all y'all listening. Steve, give a hope and
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: all like that. You messed up, though, because you started
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: the relationship wrong. You didn't divulge this information, and you
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: can't pop this on this man. Now. I have a
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: good relationship with my son, and I paid for his
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: private school tuition until he graduated two years ago. I
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: want to share this part of my past with my
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: new boyfriend, but I don't want to run him away later.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: He gone. As soon as you say this, he gone.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: And I can't thinking no man that would state unless
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: his other hustle when he ain't being a surgeon is
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: is he a him? What? I don't know of a
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: guy that can sign up for this. I can't get
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: that time back that I wasted as an escort, but
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: I made sure that I changed my life for the better. Okay,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: now we're working with a positive You've changed your life,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: You're moving forward. That's good, congratulations. But the thing about
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: seeing is that I learned it cost you more than
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: you want to pay, and it makes you stay longer.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: Than you want to stay, and everybody gotta seeing that,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: they got to deal with you. Congratulations on pulling yourself
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: together and climbing up and changing your life, and I
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: commend you with that system. My new man and I
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: have run into my ex pimp or what I've just
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: told you to quit say. Stop saying that. I just
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: told your ass full lines back, stop saying escort and pimp.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: Now you're talking about you ran up into your ex
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: pimp or whatever he was. You know what he was.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: He was the pimp. Y'all run a business together and
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: you're the only one with the product, and he's staying
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: at the house collected money. That's a pimp. And I
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: told my boyfriend that he's an ex boyfriend in the past,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: my ex pimping. Damn it, I just told you to
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: quit saying pimp. My ex pimp purposely destroyed a great
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: relationship I was in simply because he was jealous. I
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: can't let my new man find out that way. Well,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: how else gonna find out? I have not even told
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: him that I have a son. Later. What kind of
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: man will be okay with this? I don't know. Unless
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: het a pimp, A pimp flash surgeon, surgeon, he's pimping
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: on the side. I feel the longest I wait, the
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: worst thing will be. It's already been a year. I
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: will be in I've been in counseling because I don't
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: feel worthy of a good man like this. You can
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: get out of counseling. You need prayer. But I do
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: know we have all have skeleton. Do you think he
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: would judge me and dump me? He gonna go write
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: this one off? Start over, douces. The next man you meet,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: tell him that you have a son. You can leave
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: your path out of this. What have you been doing?
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: I've been working various jobs. Stop saying that escort. Stop
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: saying you had a pimp. You don't have to report
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: that news to nobody. It ain't nobody's damn business. Everybody
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: deserves to recover and get it right. Right now. You now,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: I think you should go ahead and tell this guy
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: and see what he do. Ye all right, Steve, please
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: leave your kind on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: check out you try to running when you tell him up.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: Next it is Sports Talk with the newly married Junior.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to morning show. All right, Junior, um, geez, uh,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: you're married, so you probably haven't seen many sports. Uh. No,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: you a new you in a sport called marriage. Yeah,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: this is a sport. You're gonna go ahead, go ahead, Yeah,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: ski sport. We need to talk. Go ahead and talk
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: to you, go ahead, go ahead. I don't understand what
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: I'm stand like you, you're never gonna understand. Okay, that's
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: never gonna understand. No, you cannot figure woman out. Put
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: your damn hand down. I'm just saying you. Remember you
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: had told me a while back, like you're time for
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: you to get out, me to gonna get married. Well
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: I went when I tell you that, But about three
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: years ago you said, Joe, you're time, it's time. You
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: look like an old horse after end and yeah, get married.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: Remember that? Well, now I got married now now yeah,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: he told I look like an old horse that you
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: ain't got the most way when you have a pot belly,
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: you should be married. He's working on it. Yeah, And
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: so I'm just saying, no, now I got married. Now
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: what I do? What? Yeah? I didn't got married. Now
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: now what I'm supposed to do? It's so worried. You
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: don't even understand what this is. What am I supposed
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: to do now? Yeah, because I've been hurt him. Tell
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: he needs to hear the truth. Junior, you now belong
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: to another person. You have signed up for a contract
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: that allows this person to determine a lot of things
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: in your life that you've never needed help with before.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: Why we got to park back here? It's places closer
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: because I don't want to body scratch the cop. But
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: I don't want to walk this far. Wait, wait, wait,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: I've never had to consider yeah, this type of stuff. Yeah,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: you have to do all of this everything. Why you
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: lead that dope? Because because if I go back over
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: there to get another cookie, I ain't got to open
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: the door. The damn it closed the dough and opened
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: it every time you won't a cookie. I'll tell you something.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: I've realized that when I go get a bottle of water,
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: I got to bring two back. I just came back
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: with one bottle of water getting Oh you're stupid ass,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: Thank you the only one Thursday. Oh you're gonna want
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: some sex, but I can't get no water. What I've
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: been doing that, that's the weird thing you talked about.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: I've been doing that five days. I ain't understood none
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: of this. Yeah heard, Oh you all right? We got
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: to move on, Junior, coming up. I don't know how
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: we can, but we're going to coming up on the
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: top of the US. Did you know that middle age
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: white women travel to Africa for sex? Surprise anyone? All right,
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: women travel to Africa for sex. I understand, We'll be
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to show, all right. So,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: did you guys know that Gambia is the biggest sex
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: tourism destination in Africa for European women who now he is? Yeah? Yes,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Older retired British women and other European women visit the
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: country in search of young men to date or pay
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: for sex. The men are called bumpsters and this is
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: big business for the young African men. But after more
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: than thirty years of seeing thousands of middle aged and
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: older women visit annually for sex tourism, the Gambia government
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: is sick of it and seeks to change Gambia's reputation.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: The director of Gambia's tourism boards stayed at huh would
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: you say I know what some dude, I'd be here.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: Why are you talking to us about this? The director
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: of Gambia's Turia Gambia's tourism boards stated what we want
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: is quality tourists, tourists that come to enjoy the country
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: and the culture, but not tourists that just come for sex.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: You say what, Steve Harvey, I mean, I understand that
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: what the government is saying. And all this here. Oh
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: we're talking about supplying demand. Okay, they're coming over here
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: demanding it. I don't know what you want to do
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: is to do of course they all do this. Let
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: and you know, I don't know what like. Yeah, they
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: might be called bumpsters, but you know, you gotta find
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: them from somewhere. So they gotta have the business cards websites. Huh.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: You know you could commercials out commercial? Hum come to Africa? Yea,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: the where that really? Yeah, we've carried your bags, we've
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: picked your cotton. Now come let her lay your ass.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: That's the commercial. Now here's another commercial. Tired of feeling guilty, colonials,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: they shouldn't bothering you, Oh, guilt racking your nerves. Come
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: to Gambia and pay us all back. It's a small gesture,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: but come and cleanse yourself in the motherland. In the
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: drum Star everything is drum. Everything is done by the
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: beat of the drum. Yeah, pick the beat you like
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: and we'll match you up with the boy boo. Yeah
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: that's choice one. Choice twoooooooooo, Choice three. You could have
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: got this in Jackson, Mississippi with the Sonic Boom. Yeah,
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: you didn't have to go to Africa for that. You
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: could have went to the HBCU. You gonna ain't yourself
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: a whole lot of money in that trip. If that's
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: what y'all trying to do. We're doing the same thing
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: over here. Oh how much they get paid? Yeah, I
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: mean Gamby shit, did embraced this definitely? Really they really
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: should embrace it. Well they did for thirty years or
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: for me? Yeah, yeah, yeah, they want it. They want
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: to clean up their image though, going embrace it. Don't
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: just come over here for sex. Enjoy our country, enjoy
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: our culture. Okay, it's helping the economy though. It's helping
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: the economy, Yeah it is, he says commerce. Yeah, it's
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: driven him. Yeah, it is definitely. I got to look
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: it up and see how that is going on the series. Yeah,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: because I've never heard much, no, neither of mine. Yeah,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: I know they've been doing it over here with athletes
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: for years, last years. Alright, do what you gotta do?
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: All right? Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Save Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: Here's a question for you. Would you enroll your child
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: in the Donda Academy, that's the question. It's Kanye's exclusive
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: private school in California, and reportedly Kanye makes the parents
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: of the students sign a non disclosure agreement before the
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: child is admitted. A consultant to Donda Academy stated that
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: parents who want to enroll their children in the school
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: are looking for a good Christian school in that area,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: and there's also a certain notoriety that comes with being
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: affiliated with Donda, so there's no need to advertise. The
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: school has around one hundred children currently enrolled and for
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: the record, no, Kanye's own children do not attend the school.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: Remember he spoke out on social media about that a
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. The school is not accredited by
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: the state of California. If the kids ain't, then why
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: am I going? That's well, him and Kim are battling
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, yeah, he came out and talked about that.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, well, I think child, I think accredited, Yeah,
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: something like that. That's opening the school. Yeah yeah. If
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: it's not accredited, how did the kids get credited? Forward? Yeah,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: you gotta work on that part. I mean I was assuming. Yeah,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: you want to make an accreditation, that's that legitimized exacts.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: What you don't want to do is have these kids
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: go to school, and then when they had to go
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: to school, they got to start over. But what I do,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: like nine, all right, we'll get more of the Seed
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: Harway Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: play around it would you rather it? After this? You're listening,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: all right, it is time now for a round of
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather always be underdressed and
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: tacky or be overdressed and gaudy and just gaudy? But
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: I was this weekend overdressed and gaudy dressed, tachy overdressing.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the overdressing. To feel about it,
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, I'm going overdressed. Yeah. I
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: know we have a picnic, and I know the suit
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: is pink, but this is all I had. What's with
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: that big brooch on your lapel. Yeah all right. Would
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: you rather be bad in bed and not know it?
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: Or have a bad or have bad body odor and
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: not know it? So bad in bed and not know it,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: or have bad body odor and not know it. I'm
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: going with a because he's I'm busy. I'm busy, though
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: you might not be good at it. From you be
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: bad and bed and don't go with that bad body
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: older and don't know it? Yeah yeah, yeah, I smell good,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: but I'm busy. Well what see, Well it's a twofold
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: questions because now I go with being bad in bed
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: and don't know it. Yeah yeah, but my pride life
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: I could not a lie after happened. So, fellow reputation,
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: you rather have bad? Yeah you know, but you've never
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: heard that about me? Well he wasn't nothing else that's fun. No,
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff out me, but everyone ran out
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: of nowhere. But you'd rather people say bad body older?
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: My bad dog just came from the gym. Every every time,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I saw you fall back, I saw you
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: fall back. Just now I think I know what that is.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: My bad I followed that. Whoa, I ain't gotta be
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: a little bit too. All right, now, all right, now, yeah,
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: I said my bad. Hey dog, Hey dog, come on, man,
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: you ain't gotta wipe your ass with t Come on now,
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: come on, but it, come on, dog dog, come on now,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: get about the flow. All this faintness still stop that? Yeah?
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: All right? Um? Last one? I think depending on time? Uh, Junior,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: newly married, would you rather forget your wife's birthday or
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: forget your anniversary? Forget her anniversary? Forget that anniversary? I
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: mean to be averse. I have to get that birthday. No,
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: you're not, you know you're not. That's the wrong ass.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: All right, damn, Junior, you got work, you got work
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: to do. All right, we'll be back with our last
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: break of the day and at forty nine minutes after
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. All right, guys,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day, and
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: it is time for some closing remarks from the one
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey. What you got, Steve, Well, my
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: closing remarks because I found out that my young MENTI
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: got married on the weekend. Us you can play the
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: closing remark music, but you didn't ask you. I just
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: ask questions. Yeah, questions, go ahead, and I'm gonna ask
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: them seriously, I mean because you Yeah you already see
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: I'm already struck. I'm already treading one already that I'm
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: having and so yeah, yeah go ahead. Yeah that killed.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: And I'm saying, uh, just like you know, is everything
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: I got to do by her? Like? Is anything in
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: this for me? Yeah? Yeah, it's it's gonna be something
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: for you. But I want you to these are the
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: rules everything you know, you and her. You signed a
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: contract junior. He is now she and she is now he.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: Every time you get ready to say he or I,
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: you have to think of her. See me, it's no
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: longer me. It's weak. I don't know How'm gonna do that.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: Her is no longer her, it's us? What is no longer?
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: What it is? How every day? Every day to your
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  Speaker 1: ass divorce? Yeah? What else you need to know? Because okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: how about food? If I'm out, if I'm out of
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  Speaker 1: the fat food, wish what I got to bring something back? Well,
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  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. You can come up
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  Speaker 1: in that house and sit down with your bag in
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  Speaker 1: front of the TV and start eating out of it
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  Speaker 1: if you want to better school. And the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you didn't consider her or call her to ask her
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  Speaker 1: she wanted anything. You've made your last decision alone. Every
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  Speaker 1: decision you make moving forward, Junior has to filter and
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  Speaker 1: incorporate her in the decision. If not, the penalty is severe.
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  Speaker 1: Next question, because I'm saying, like, you know, like I did,
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  Speaker 1: because he's fine. No, no, no, right here, see that
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  Speaker 1: right you said. I'm saying you won't say nothing else,
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  Speaker 1: no more. And let that be the last time you
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  Speaker 1: say you say it something. Go ahead, next question. So,
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  Speaker 1: so you just said if you said something, So now
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  Speaker 1: for going to say something, I need to stop saying that. Now,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead and say it. You can say it to me. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying to you. I'm trying to tell you, like
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  Speaker 1: you are oh h h h h oh oh oh
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  Speaker 1: Asked you something? Let them ask your question. Watch this
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  Speaker 1: right here. And I don't even know the answer to
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  Speaker 1: the who paid for the wed? Oh man? I did okay,
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  Speaker 1: well you you you you? You don't think it's some
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  Speaker 1: more coming behind that. You think all you was gonna
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  Speaker 1: do was pay for the wed boy. You've been to
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  Speaker 1: pay for lifestyle everything. What else your stupid ass want
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  Speaker 1: used to it, your damn opinion. What I gotta ask you?
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  Speaker 1: What you thought? You ain't listen to me? The key
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  Speaker 1: to being marriage. Listen to me, junior, here's the key
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  Speaker 1: to being married. This is rule number one. All you
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  Speaker 1: need to know. From now you can be happy or
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  Speaker 1: you can be right. Pick m. I like being right.
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  Speaker 1: I've been right a long time. I've been right. Okay, cool, cool,
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  Speaker 1: Then your ass safean to be happy. Next question, all
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  Speaker 1: of this, yeah, come on? Okay her family I got
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  Speaker 1: all her family too. Yeah, everything comes with his package. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Does she have kids? Yes, sir, you are now a father. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: does the kids have any kids? Yes, sir, you are
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  Speaker 1: now a grandfather. Yeah. Your little ass that ain't never
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  Speaker 1: been married, you'd have been into the whole ancelotta. Your
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  Speaker 1: ass is now a husband, a daddy, and a granddaddy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh and three day as we don't even know what's coming. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: now let me how do you be a grandfather? I
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  Speaker 1: don't have no grandfather advice other than stop put that down,
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  Speaker 1: get from over there. That's all I got what the
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  Speaker 1: grandfather and they gonna hate you a minute if you're
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  Speaker 1: about to find out just how stupid you really are.
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  Speaker 1: The wife is gonna tell you, the children are gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell you, and the grandkids kids will let you know.
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  Speaker 1: And Junior, with all that said, yeah, marriage can be
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  Speaker 1: one of the greatest things that's ever happened to you.
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  Speaker 1: You just got to learn the damn rules. And right
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  Speaker 1: now you don't know him. What do you inn't need?
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  Speaker 1: They needed kicking in now? Three days in, Junior will
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