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Black Women No Calm, Steve Got Him, Ingrate Wife, Ask Steve and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on the don giving
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  Speaker 1: them like the milling bus things and it's y'all to
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  Speaker 1: be good. Steve listening together for Stu. I don't joy.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta gotta turn hur you gotta turn to turn out,
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  Speaker 1: turn got to turn out to turn turn the water
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  Speaker 1: the water. Come come on your baby now, huh? I
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  Speaker 1: sure will a good ward And everybody y'all listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now, one and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show today, folks. I just
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  Speaker 1: want to dive right in because I think I got
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  Speaker 1: it here. It is. Did you know that there is
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  Speaker 1: a life for you that's greater than you could have
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  Speaker 1: ever dreamed of? Did you know that there's a life
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  Speaker 1: for you better than the one you've ever felt before?
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  Speaker 1: And did you know that there was a life for
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  Speaker 1: you much bigger than the one you wanted? And lastly,
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  Speaker 1: did you know that what I just said it's true?
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  Speaker 1: Did you know that? Did you know that the things
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  Speaker 1: I just said are available to you? It's not just
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  Speaker 1: intended for those who receive awards, It's for everybody. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you two. It's for you who didn't get your high
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  Speaker 1: school diploma. It's for you who are incarcerated. It's for
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  Speaker 1: you who have two strikes. It's for you who've been
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  Speaker 1: sentenced to life. It's for you who've gotten out and
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  Speaker 1: have a felony record and can't seem to get it together.
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  Speaker 1: It's for you who have an illness. It's for you
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  Speaker 1: who the doctors have given up on. It's for you,
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  Speaker 1: this life I'm talking about, it's for you. Did you
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  Speaker 1: know that there's a life for you better than the
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  Speaker 1: one you dreamed about, better than the one you've imagined,
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  Speaker 1: a life better than the one you thought of, That
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  Speaker 1: there's a life for you better than the one you've
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  Speaker 1: ever felt before. There's a life for you better than
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  Speaker 1: the one you saw for yourself. There's a better life
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  Speaker 1: for you than the one you expected and even the
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  Speaker 1: one you wanted. Did you know that this is true
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  Speaker 1: for you? See, here's let me give you the secret
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  Speaker 1: to this thing. Now you have to believe that it
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  Speaker 1: is for you. Now, you got to fight through the doubts.
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  Speaker 1: You got to fight through the will of Satan. Because
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  Speaker 1: the devil is busy man. The devil wants you to
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  Speaker 1: think that is hopeless. The devil wants you to think
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  Speaker 1: that this is it. The devil wants you to think
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  Speaker 1: that ain't no more to it. The devil wants you
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  Speaker 1: to think that this applies to other people. But you, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you've been dealt the worst hand of them all, which
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  Speaker 1: you ate. But that's what the devil wants you to think.
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  Speaker 1: So you gotta fight through. Now. You gotta fight through
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  Speaker 1: to get to what I just said is available for you.
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  Speaker 1: But what else you got to do? You ain't doing
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  Speaker 1: nothing else, might as well fight? Why just wake up
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  Speaker 1: and just let it be? Why would you wake up
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  Speaker 1: every day and just exist when there's a chance for
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  Speaker 1: you to actually live. See the reason I don't mind
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  Speaker 1: smiling so much now is because I'm no longer existing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm living now. See. See, that's where you want to
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  Speaker 1: get to. You don't want to exist to wake up
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  Speaker 1: paycheck to paycheck, date today, not knowing, not understanding, not having,
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  Speaker 1: can't can't get this, can't get that, can't go here,
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  Speaker 1: can't go there, Gotta wait, gotta wait, gota wait, gota
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  Speaker 1: wait till it seems like you never get nowhere. You
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  Speaker 1: can get out of that rut of life feeling like
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  Speaker 1: when you wake up in the morning, that your life
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  Speaker 1: is whole hum that you're just in a rut. I
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  Speaker 1: drive the same way to work. I do the same
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  Speaker 1: thing on my job. When I get off, I drive
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  Speaker 1: all the way back home. I sit there, I read
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  Speaker 1: the newspaper. I water the lawn. I'm so sick of
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  Speaker 1: my life. It ain't this, ain't what I wanted. Man
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  Speaker 1: and start, wake up, start over, do the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: Then the weekend gets in. You got to mow the lawn,
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  Speaker 1: and then you try to fix something in the garage,
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  Speaker 1: and you feel like your life is in the rut.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about if this feels like a rut to
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  Speaker 1: you know, if it's what you've always wanted, I'm cool
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  Speaker 1: with that. But I'm talking to people who want it more,
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  Speaker 1: who would love their life to be more, who would
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  Speaker 1: love their life to different, to be different. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: criticizing you if I just described your life. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: only talking to the ones who would dare to believe
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  Speaker 1: that there's more to it than this. I'm only talking
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  Speaker 1: to the ones who would dad dad to accept the challenge,
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  Speaker 1: to fight through and see what God got for you.
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  Speaker 1: Instead of listening to Satan all the time. Devil is busy, man,
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  Speaker 1: Please understand, he's so busy, so busy, trying to trick you,
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  Speaker 1: get you into the groove. You know they're doing all
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  Speaker 1: kinds of stuff now, man, you know atheists and already
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  Speaker 1: got prayer. Taking out of schools. Excuse me, look at
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  Speaker 1: our skills schools, not as a push by the atheist
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  Speaker 1: to get the words in God we trust, taking off
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  Speaker 1: our money. Here's a deal. If you don't believe in God,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't want trust in God, just going about
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  Speaker 1: your business. But what you can't do is spill off
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  Speaker 1: all into what I'm talking about. That's the problem I
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  Speaker 1: have with all of them. If you're gonna do you,
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  Speaker 1: didn't do you, but don't spill off into what I got. Now. See,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't believe what I'm saying, then I ain't
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  Speaker 1: talking to you. Let's just be clear about the relationship
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  Speaker 1: with Steve Harvey and his crew. I'm only talking to
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  Speaker 1: the people that believe that are looking for something else,
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  Speaker 1: that wants something more, that wants something better, that's got
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  Speaker 1: to be out there searching and hoping and trying to
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  Speaker 1: do more. That's all I'm talking to now. If you
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  Speaker 1: don't believe what I'm saying it's true, didn't go ahead
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  Speaker 1: and try it your way. Go see, write me, email me,
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  Speaker 1: let me know how it's going for you. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you of a way that's tried and true. If
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  Speaker 1: you go to God, if you go to your creator
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  Speaker 1: your makeup, if you go to him and you go
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  Speaker 1: to him for real and tell him, hey, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to go ahead and take over from here.
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  Speaker 1: I'm done. I didn't done all I know how to
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  Speaker 1: do out and tried everything I know how to try.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sick of me right now. Hey look here, you
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  Speaker 1: created me what you want me to do, and here
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  Speaker 1: a cool thing about it. When I made that decision,
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  Speaker 1: y'all see, I was so afraid for years that I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna miss out on something if I did that,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't do this no more. But the stuff I
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  Speaker 1: needed to stop doing, I really need to stop. The
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  Speaker 1: things I was afraid of not being able to do
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  Speaker 1: anymore were the very same things I really didn't need
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  Speaker 1: to be doing no more in the first place. On
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  Speaker 1: the real man, on the real all that temporary fun
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  Speaker 1: I was having all them temporary outlets. I was using
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  Speaker 1: all them temporary things, trying to fulfill myself I was doing.
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  Speaker 1: I was just doing a bunch of temporary mess man.
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  Speaker 1: I said, hold up, man, I want something permanent. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I want a permanent feeling in my heart that it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be all right. So he replaced all that fun
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  Speaker 1: with joy. But it's only because I went and I
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  Speaker 1: faced him. He didn't take me and stop me from
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  Speaker 1: being me. He just made a better version of me. See, God,
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  Speaker 1: don't take he because all the stuff he sent you through,
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  Speaker 1: he needed you to go through all him. He needed
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  Speaker 1: you to have him experience or what it felt like
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  Speaker 1: to be locked up. He needed you to have experience
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  Speaker 1: and know what it was to lose everything. He needed
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  Speaker 1: you to have experience to make you tough. You're just
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  Speaker 1: gonna be a tough one. I'm a tough soldier in
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  Speaker 1: his army. That's all I just say. One of the
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  Speaker 1: weak ones. I protect the weak ones. God didn't take
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  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff from except the stuff I needed.
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  Speaker 1: But the stuff he made me to be, he allowed
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  Speaker 1: me to keep it, and he just made a better me.
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  Speaker 1: Do that, y'all, and you can have what you want.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, let's get to it. Today
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  Speaker 1: is the day that the Lord has made. Let us
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  Speaker 1: rejoice and be glad in it. I'm gonna tell you why,
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  Speaker 1: because it's the only one you got. You have no
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  Speaker 1: control over any other days, yesterday, gone, future is not promised.
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  Speaker 1: Today is today, right now, Get in it and get
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  Speaker 1: your tuned right. Get the two together, man, triple teas
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  Speaker 1: up in here. Start with gratitude you have to, which
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  Speaker 1: will immediately affect your attitude, which has a direct correlation
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  Speaker 1: on your altitude. It's them tunes, baby, you get them together.
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  Speaker 1: You can be somebody, man, that's my plan. I wanna
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  Speaker 1: be somebody. I'm gonna mess around somehow, some way with
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  Speaker 1: a little more grace and some mercy and a whole
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  Speaker 1: lot of forgiveness, and I'm gonna mess around and be somebody.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all doing, I'm telling you, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm inviting you to get on this to train gratitude
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  Speaker 1: attitude out to tude. That's Steve hare On sure, that's
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  Speaker 1: how we're doing it right now. Shirley Strawberry calling for
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  Speaker 1: real junior Um, Smile for the South, Miss Monica. The
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  Speaker 1: Legend of Nephew Tommy Junior. What here we go? Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you something, man, because it's like the tele
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  Speaker 1: cons to my nephew. Man, and he just he wanted now,
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  Speaker 1: there's such a microwave society day. I want the money, now,
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  Speaker 1: I want this lifestyle now, I want everything now. And
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  Speaker 1: they don't understand. They don't have to trust. This a process,
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  Speaker 1: a process of phase. Everything that I did to get
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  Speaker 1: to my point, I had to fail to get here.
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  Speaker 1: He just wanted me to do it for him. That's good,
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  Speaker 1: you know. No, I didn't have nobody I could even
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  Speaker 1: want to do it for me. So nephews blessed to
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  Speaker 1: even have somebody. He think he got the audacity to
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  Speaker 1: sound like for you to do it for it is
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  Speaker 1: not the way it goes. It's a it's a long
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  Speaker 1: lesson to learn, and the longer it takes you to
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  Speaker 1: learn it, the longest's gonna take for you to get it.
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  Speaker 1: It is imperative man, that people understand what this is.
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  Speaker 1: But know this as long as it takes to get successful.
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  Speaker 1: Must I remind you all there is joy in the journey.
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  Speaker 1: You have got to stop along the way, man, and
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  Speaker 1: appreciate where you are. You may not be where you
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  Speaker 1: want to be, but take inventory and oftentimes you can
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  Speaker 1: realize you may not be where you want to be.
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  Speaker 1: But thank god, I ain't where I was. See you steps,
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes people don't even get joy in the steps. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't where I want to be yet. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: got you, bro, But must I remind you that two
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  Speaker 1: years ago the position you were sitting in, five years ago,
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  Speaker 1: eight years ago, hen last summer that started a new year. See,
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  Speaker 1: some people ain't got to look far back, you understand,
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  Speaker 1: and there's joy in the journey, but you got to
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  Speaker 1: take inventory. Everybody want it now, you know. Yeah, people
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  Speaker 1: trying to take advantage of your success because they want
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  Speaker 1: it now. I'm gonna say that again. People try to
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  Speaker 1: take advantage of your success. All of you out there
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  Speaker 1: had to measure success. Somebody didn't try to capitalize on that.
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  Speaker 1: This is Steve Harbin Martin show man what yes it
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  Speaker 1: is and thank you guys. Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. The nephew is here to run
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  Speaker 1: that brank back. Right after this you're listening to all right,
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  Speaker 1: it is time now to start your morning off with
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  Speaker 1: the nephew and run that brank back. What you got
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  Speaker 1: for us new you can't come back your church. You
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  Speaker 1: can't come back to church saying hey, hey, I understand
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  Speaker 1: you and the Lord got a relationship, but over here
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  Speaker 1: you can't come back to this church though. Come on, cat,
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  Speaker 1: let's get it. Hello, I'm trying to reach us to
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  Speaker 1: short reads Mayfield. Deacon bobs from the from the church
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  Speaker 1: bounds from from our church. Yes, yes, ma'am. Okay, from
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  Speaker 1: from from here. Can you hear me? Good? The old
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  Speaker 1: phone on work? We're good? Yeah, my phone okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: that I called it. The deacon board didn't had a
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  Speaker 1: meeting as well as uh passes and uh they didn't
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  Speaker 1: have a meeting. That come to the understanding that, uh,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna ask you to not come to church right
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  Speaker 1: now because about that the boards of your Eric and
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  Speaker 1: James being in jail the way there is and want
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  Speaker 1: to want you to just stop. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna suspend you from church right now, but they
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  Speaker 1: they thinking put a bad look on the church. My
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  Speaker 1: kids being in jail put a bad look on the church.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's what that's what's what that's what they come
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  Speaker 1: up with. Now we don't have to meet with the
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  Speaker 1: deacon board and with passing stoves. I don't understand why
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  Speaker 1: y'all have for me meeting about my kids in the church.
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  Speaker 1: What my kids got to do with the church. Well,
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  Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is show a good example
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  Speaker 1: to the youth that we got there. Okay, you can
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  Speaker 1: show a good example about me being there, paying my
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  Speaker 1: times and offering. Well, that was another thing that's been
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  Speaker 1: brought down attention that we're gonna be calling a lot
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  Speaker 1: of members about it. People not paying the tide the
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  Speaker 1: way they fold. I pay my task. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who told you that, Deacon bars. I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know, first of all, who you are. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be mean to you, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't I don't even understand why you were how you
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  Speaker 1: even got my phone number. I pay my ties, I
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  Speaker 1: pay my offering. Go on your computer at the church,
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  Speaker 1: call your secretary or whoever. Let me let me, let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you this, just make Do you pay your
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  Speaker 1: ties according to what you make? Yes? I do check
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  Speaker 1: the books. Well, what now, what it is we can't
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  Speaker 1: check the book that we don't know exactly what you make?
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  Speaker 1: It is what I'm saying, what I make is my
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  Speaker 1: business between me and Jesus. I give him his ten percent.
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  Speaker 1: And that's how Mars. He'll need to know. I understand
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  Speaker 1: exactly where you're coming from, but not the main issue
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  Speaker 1: on table is about the boys and and and being
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  Speaker 1: you know, disrupted the way to here. They don't want
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  Speaker 1: that to be to bleed over to the uth. Quiet,
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, Wait a minute. And first of all,
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  Speaker 1: I would appreciate if you would have pathor to tell
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  Speaker 1: me this hisself. And then second of all, if somebody
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  Speaker 1: kids is having trouble in the world or whatever y'all
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  Speaker 1: supposed to pay for him, I put them at the
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  Speaker 1: church or the mama. Well, I'm I'm we're gonna we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna pray for and we're gonna pray for you too,
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  Speaker 1: but we don't want them shared over to the youth
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  Speaker 1: that we got that doing good with that. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna keep coming. Y'all can't stop me from coming to
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  Speaker 1: the church. I'm gonna keep coming. So I don't know
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  Speaker 1: who you're talking to. And you tell a pastor to
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  Speaker 1: call me hit self and tell me I can't come
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  Speaker 1: to Hell, and you have nobody calling me telling me
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  Speaker 1: that I can't come to Hell that is a free church.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get the pass and called up as you
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  Speaker 1: get the pastor to call me, because you have no
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  Speaker 1: business calling me telling me that I can't come to
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  Speaker 1: God's house, which is mazing. I don't want you to
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  Speaker 1: get into role with me now. I'm not getting I'm
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  Speaker 1: not getting angry with nobody. Did I work? I don't
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  Speaker 1: work eighteen sixteen hours today. I don't have half nobody
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  Speaker 1: calling me telling me that I can't come to a
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  Speaker 1: church that I pay my cars and offering that not
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  Speaker 1: that I own the church. I pay my cass because
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  Speaker 1: that's let's due to God. But y'all are really making
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  Speaker 1: me upset. A boy telling me I can't come now
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  Speaker 1: because of my kids in their troubles? Where was you
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  Speaker 1: this past sing? You wasn't there? I wasn't that church
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  Speaker 1: because I had over stuff? And why is that in
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  Speaker 1: your your bill? Now there you go being an up
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  Speaker 1: road with me again. I don't know who this is.
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  Speaker 1: How could you call somebody about church business over the phone.
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  Speaker 1: This don't make sense because of Mayfield. Hello, Yeah, one
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  Speaker 1: more thing, this nephew timent from the Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Ship just got I got you this, y'all. Boy, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: who is this guy about? Church? Bill? You know what
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  Speaker 1: I like about you? Though? Nobody gonna keep you out
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  Speaker 1: the Lord's house. You're gonna show up and show out
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  Speaker 1: every Sunday, every church. Thank you, everybody. Let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you something. That's the baddest radio show in the land.
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  Speaker 1: Now do you even have to ask me that? The
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey More itself. If I tell you can't come back,
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  Speaker 1: then you just can't come back. That's you, you tell
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  Speaker 1: I am the appointed person that calls and tell you
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  Speaker 1: when you can't come back. That's why I am, and
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  Speaker 1: the Lord don't call you on this either. It's officials
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  Speaker 1: at the church. Okay, I'm gonna start respecting these church officials. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: do they really put people out the church? Can you
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  Speaker 1: get put out church? Yeah? Yeah, you can't get put
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  Speaker 1: out of a church. Yeah you can put it. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you can. You come in here with that foolishness. They
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  Speaker 1: will ask you not to come back. You can put
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  Speaker 1: out on time, And you're right. I don't even know
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  Speaker 1: why my sister got put out. I don't know why
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  Speaker 1: to get I just thought about it. What. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: can't for what. Oh, oh my gosh, my sister did
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  Speaker 1: too much at the church. You know, all that running
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  Speaker 1: down the house, you know, down the out, screaming and everything.
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  Speaker 1: They told her your ass can't come back here. But
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  Speaker 1: she got through not doing announcement communicated. You don't get this.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: You don't get the spirit doing the announcement. Yeah, we
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: got doing announcement. You don't. But see this right here,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: This was about this lady and her her boy has
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: been in jail. That's what we don't want all that that,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: you know, you don't We don't want you mixing with
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: the other kids. But that okay, now you're not coming
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: up with you with it all right? Thinking that you
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: coming up next to the ask the CLO Chief Love
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this. You're
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: listening Steven show all right. Time now for Steve to
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: help some of our listeners with their relationships. This is
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: our favorite segment, asked the CLO. You can submit your
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: questions with Steve Harvey FM. Are you ready, mister c
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: l O. Yes, this one is for Shun in DC.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I like it. Shun says, I'm a forty five year
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: old married woman that loves old school music. I grew
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: up listening to old school music and playing records with
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: my mom. My favorite is Teddy Pendergrass. I could make
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: love to him every night. My husband is forty five two,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: but he only likes hip hop and rap music. I
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: don't mind listening to it every now and then, but
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: he wants to be intimate with hip hop music on.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I try to get him to compromise by listening to
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Keith's Sweat, but he's not even into that. I can't
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: get into the mood to two chains music, and it's
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: messing up my mojo. How can I get him to
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: compromise for sex? Stop having sex too, change stop having
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: it if you see. If you're a man and you
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: ain't willing to make that sacrifice so you can get
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: yourself taken care of your business, handle make it love you.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: If you don't have it to wrap, you can't have it.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: But your girl won't be that. We'll have so much
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: shot day and need a baker in that damn room.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: You'd be so sickly, Luther, you would hear nothing. I'll
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: have him girl to be so sad. Turn them off.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: That's a card of all the wrapping we're gonna do
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: turn them off. She even like sweat shout out the kid,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: come okay, okay, alright, last, So that's it. He needs
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: to compromise. She's right, dog. All she gotta do is
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: I can't do it to that. I can do it
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: to this real good, but I can't do it to that,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: not to say that toy Sea All right, Fredo and
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Tallahassee says, I've been dating a great woman for eight
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: months and I was trying to be faithful, but my
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: old ways caught up with me and I had a
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: threesome with my ex girlfriend and another chick I used
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: to date. I'm only twenty four, so I guess I
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have tried to be in a serious relationship right now.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: My girl saw the video of my threesome on my
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: phone and I flipped out because she went through my phone.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I'm right. I'm holding on strong to the defense that
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: she shouldn't be snooping. She's not. She must he must
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: listen to this show a lot. She's not trying to
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: hear that, and she will not speak to me. How
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: can I fix this and get my girl back? Bro?
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: You gotta because you're you're kidding me. Right, listen to me, doc.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: You twenty four. You've been doing this, seating this girl
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: for eight months? Did you always slipped back? You had
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: a threesome with your ex and a girl she know boom.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: You recorded it on your phone. She's been snooping through
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: your phone and found it. You're holding strong to the
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: You shouldn't be stupid, but now you can't get your
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: girl back. But you just said you only twenty four.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: You don't even know why you're trying to be in
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: an intimate relationship. You ain't ready for no commitment? Dog
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: gone and do you You ain't gonna get this one
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: back though? Dog? This one is gone, This chicked and
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: flew the coop. This one's a rap after the video? Yeah,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, bro, you can't hold on to that one.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: You gotta let that go. No, you've been you've been
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: sitting up his You ain't posted to snoop through my phone. Correct,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: She's not supposed to snoop through your phone, but she did,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: and guess what she saw? Now you dating her in
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: her mind, ain't supposed to be having no damn threesome,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: threesome on my phone with your ex my phone? Oh,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: this is a rep You're lucky you still living. Yes,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: thank God for that, blessed man. You don't do that
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: to me, Well, you will never bring your friends all right.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Unhappy in Denver says, I'm a twenty eight year old
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: married woman and I'm unhappily married. My husband thinks of
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: buying me things and five minutes sex is enough, but
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I need more than the kiss on my head before
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: he leaves for work. I started having an affair two
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: months ago, and my lover shows me a lot of attention,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: and he has reminded me that I'm special. The sex
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: is passionate, and it's like he taps into my soul
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: when we're intimate. I have been married for five years
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: and I'm ready to get a divorce, but not necessarily
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to be with my lover. So how can I tell
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: if divorce is the right move or not? First of all, off,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: stop lying. You test told me that a man touches
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: you and taps into your soul, so you can even
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: reverse that and say when the man is tapping you,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: he touches your soul. You can say this anyway you
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: want to, but that's what this damn that about. Now
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: you want a damn divorce but there ain't got nothing
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to do with that man. That's just a damn lie.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: That's a lie. You want the divorce now? Yeah, but see,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: but here's a deal. You need the five minute sex.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: He buys you things and he kiss you on the
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: forehead before he go to work. Two out of three
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: ain't bad. But anyway, go ahead. So he buying your stuff, yes,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: do get a kiss on the forehead. Come on, and
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: all you gotta do is try to get this five
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: turn into fifteen and bam you in a healthy marriage.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: We're good because that's just because the bride stuff and
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: kissing on the forehead is pretty good deal. After why
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: who's at that? Now? If you just want to just
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: be in there doing ringling brother activities, then you got
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to go with this dude you had the fan with.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: But you're wrong, and this whole thing can probably backfire
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: on you. I would suggest talking to your husband about
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: them five minutes. See if you can't stretch it out
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: a little bit more than that. Twenty eight, she's been
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: married for five years, she's been married since she was
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: twenty three. Wow, that's you, you know, if you can
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: get a strong twelve in yeah, yeah, compromise I'm talking
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: about Hella though, I'm talking about about Hella. Yeah, I'm
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: talking you know what I'm saying, I'm doing. Wow, all right,
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: thank you as always, o cl we love you. You're
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: listening to show. People are getting ready for work right now,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: probably and uh, maybe they're making their own lunch. You
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: know people do that at home. Well, Steve, it turns
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: out that eighteen percent of people have admitted to eating
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: someone else's lunch at the office. One worker's live tweeting
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: of the mystery of a co worker stolen shrimp fried
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: rice was retweeted over one hundred and seventy three thousand times. Okay,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: uh And while you may think it's funny, and it
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: is kind of funny, I mean when you think about it, um,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: you know, getting away with eating someone else's meal, it
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: actually could have some serious consequences on the job. People
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: don't forget stuff like this, and you see these people
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: every single day. This is according to a human resource expert,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: it becomes a trust issue. So Steve, I have to
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: ask you, I know you did it. He didn't do it. Off, No,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: I have never in my life taking somebody's food because
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I ain't that way. I don't lie. I don't know you.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Oh so you don't know what kind of home they have?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: But how clean? Right now, two things I have done,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I've had mine taken. Yeah, I've called a person what happened?
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: And I've had I've seen a person taking a person's line. Okay,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: well what happened when someone took? Both these is now
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: situations I used to my advantage. Yeah, see not, you
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: don't want this out, So now I need a couple
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: of favors. You the mom, No, dog, I mean, look,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I saw you because I'm real observing. Y'all know that
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: about me. I'm extremely observing. So I'm watching this dude
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: steal this dude food and the dude food he was stilling.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: He's deceased. His name is James Paradise, and we worked
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: at General Electric and this dude was taking Jared Jane
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: paradig leca Jameeka cook his ass off, and he was
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: just eating James lunch every night and then and I
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: caught him. Now, if I tell this to James Paradise, dog,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about you've been to get drug out in
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the parking lot, and when you come back in, you're
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: gonna need to show the people that to do your id.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: You know, like sandwiches. You know James cook ribs, he
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: take his ribs. You know he made pork shoulders sandwich.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: You should bring it in to work for everybody. He
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: stole his pork shoulders sandwich and James getting upset. So
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I saw him take James stuff. It was his young
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: white dude that was still in the food because he
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: was single, and you know he wouldn't bring no lunch.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Had to time this stupid ass boy. So I told him,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: I say, hey, man, you know if Jane found out
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: you want taking his lunch, man, you know what's gonna
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: happen to you? Cheese? Wait, what come on? Cheese? Yeah,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: that's what I need. See. Once I hear that fear
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: in your voice, then I got your ass because all geez,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: it's not a hood turn. He said. Ah. I said,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: look hold on, this ain't got to gonna wear no.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Look the distant stay right here. But I'm need a
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: couple of favors. Man. Now, I'm gonna leave early Wednesday.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I need you to cover my job for me. See see,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: it's not a problem with me, Steve, it's mister Harvey. Harvey.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: No now, you're gonna put some speck on my name.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I was the original birds man you were, So you're
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: gonna put some speck on my name. And so I
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: had him cover cover my job three times for that.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Then I saw a dude take my lunch. This is
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: a black dude had it just got hired, and he
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: would hadn't completed his ninety day probation. Now if I
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: report this, you ain't gonna get the job. Oh man,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I thought it was mine. Out of hell.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Your name ain't Steve Gregory, it's Gregory. Now your name Frederick,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Fredi Stev get confused with Frederick, right right, So I said,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: so Frederick, look here, man, I'm just need a couple
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: of favors from it. Now. I'm gonna come in late.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I need you to punch my time clock when you
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: get at the gate, punch my time clock from me.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Hit me in. Oh that's that's not a problem. Now
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: listen to me. They have a camera aimed at the
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: time clock, so you gotta put your back to the camera.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: So he did it the first time. How do you
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: know all of this? Come on, no, no, no, excuse me,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: excuse me time Hulo, I was never thug. Hula hulam
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: was crime with a purpose with respect to thugs just
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: out here doing stuff. Thus crimes with a purpose, and
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: it was always to better uplift one self. Yes, the
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: expensive Yeah, And so that's what I had him do
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: so I could leave early. Caused it a little white dude,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: and I could come in late black cause of Frederick Wow.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: So I had him a nice little set up. And
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: then meanwhile at school he was you know, hall passes huzzling. Yeah,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: y'all need passes to be late in this hallway? Who
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: name you put on it? There? See? My name was
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: never on a hall pass, So I ain't need you
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: talking about You got it from Steve because I ain't
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: got no hall pass because I had told her back
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: off my locker anyway, Yeah, and so I kept my stuff.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: I told her back off my locker. I don't get that.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I had bent down and I put on my step behind.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: So if you owe my locking ship, I ain't never
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: had nothing. Oh I okay, Yeah, So Steve gave you
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: a har How the hell I got hall passed? I'm
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: in class, not learning. I'm here, mister days in high school,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: two cut days. All I ever did man. Oh wow,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: see if your life has been incredible, been wonderful, it
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: really really has really thank you? And look at you now?
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Look at you now? I mean still hustle are you?
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Are you still a hoodler? No? I no, I don't
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: do crime. I had a little running and I had
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: a little running in that kind of straighted me out.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right? Time now, guys, for
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: would you rather here we go? Would you rather be
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: the ugliest person in the room? Or would you rather
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: or would you rather be the least funny person in
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: the room? There you go? There you go, Tommy, I'm
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: gonna gonna be like that. I'm here with y'all. That's
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: what I thought you've been over here. The only confusion
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: is in your mind what you want to be a
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: R b ugliest person in the room or the least
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: funniest person in the room. What you want to be?
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be here first. That's not an option. Okay,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: all right, I think we're clear on that one. Would
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: you rather have dinner with your ex or live in
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: a tiny house? Would they be in a tiny house
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: on the corner of the the tiny house? With that point,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: you the only thing I got to sit on. Yeah,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: put me in there and shut the dopp What about you, Junior,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I send in the tiny house with no windows. You're
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: all in the tiny house, all right, We'll go to
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: tiny jail, Shirley, some little tiny handcuffs, Shirley, I live
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: in a tiny tiny house house. Would you rather take
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: cold showers for three months? Or would you rather connect
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: your phone in the car? You know, when you're when
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: you're with your gonna be shriveled up every day looking
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: like a prone Oh day, I'm prone. Baby, I'm gonna
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: connect my phone. Yeah, I ain't up to nothing. I'm good. Yeah,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Oh I can connect it. But I'd rather shribble up
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: on your phone. Hey, dog, But I'm gonna tell you
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I got some partners that call where I go. Dog,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: I'm on speak in the car with my girl. I
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: have to tell him that you have to immediately, got
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: some partners where I have to say that too. I
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: have to say that too, all right, And it beat
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: the random thought because I gotta go ahead short. Would
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: you guys rather a sixteen hour road trip in an
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: RV or a four hour flight on Spirit Airline. I'm
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: gonna see the sights on that RV. Gonna we're gonna
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: get on this road for sixty I'm gonna geting in
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: that RV for sixteen hours, stopping at truck stops, all
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: that car. You're only on Spirit for four hours, got
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: a fight for five We're getting you know who else
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: on that plane? Though? That's the probably Spirit, it's the
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: other customers. Yeah, it's four hours of that. Especially me
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: sitting back there. I don't think what I've seen you
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: on a few. All right, we'll have more of the
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: all right? Yahoo is reporting, guys, a new pole that
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: finds fifty nine percent of couples say that they suspected
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: their partner of cheating. If they suspected them, they would
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: discuss the matter with them rather than jumping to conclusions.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I'm going to say that again for the lateies. Okay,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: fifty nine of couples say that if they suspected their
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: partner of cheating, they would discuss the matter with them
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: rather than jumping to conclusions. Okay, cool. Let me ask
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: you a questions. Shirley and Calum, Now, let me ask
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: you a question. Just listen, to this question. If you
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: suspected your husband of cheating and it was not on
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: the internet, nobody knew, none of your co workers, it
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: was not it wasn't made public. If you suspected your
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: husband of cheating, would you bring it up calmly? Would
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: you bring it up with anger? How would you do it? Probably?
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: All of the above for me, without the calm though
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: you're already nowhere. I'm coming bigger, all of it. All
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: of the above for me, without the calm. Anger. If
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I suspected that not yet? No, well, I mean, if
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: you had suspicious you ain't have no proof. You ain't
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: you ain't heard nothing, you ain't got no pictures, ain't no,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve, you
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: know we have intuition. You know we have intuition. I'm
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: disappointing to you, mister Harvey. I don't know. I'm just
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: trying to see what y'all would do. I don't really
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: And the word discussion I have a problem with. There
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: will be no discussion. Are you gonna just find out
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: on your own? First? Liked little CUSI let me ask
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: your question. Suppose you discovered that you were wrong about him,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and that he wasn't cheating. What happens at that point? Oh,
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: then I'm apologizing and begging to his forgiveness, begging for
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: his forgiveness and threatening him he better not do it.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: You see what happens? Yeah, God in the heart, you
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: gotta do that. Yeah, you apologize for your wrong doing,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: but you know, make it up to him. You know that. Wow,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: that's amazing. Any more questions, We're here for it. No,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: y'all's answers shorty and truthful, and there's no one. There's
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: no one in between, ain't no. You know that's I
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: don't like talking to y'all if we are. You expecting
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: something else. I don't know what I expected, but that
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: wasn't it. You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: you what I found out, though, Uh what, I'm fine out.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I ain't fired up to have a discussion once they
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: find out I'll cheat this. It's old. You're uglass sitting
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: up here. Got the cheat? No you get, But Junior,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: don't you know that money changes things? Yeah? How you
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: get the nerves that was before? Look at you now?
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: But see Tommy saying dang Junior, like you can't believe
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Junior called itself ugly, Tommy, you're ugly. No, I am
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: not am not gonna let you bring stop doing that.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: You go listen twenty eighteen. You're not gonna do this.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm gonna tell the truth in two thousand
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: and eighteen. Are you fine, Tommy? No, I'm not no fine,
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: and I'm not out, but I ain't just gonna be
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: ugly though. No, I'm not doing this. Dog, You're not
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: fine and I'm not ugly. But listen to me. If
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: you're not fine, then by a long ship, what you
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: think that is? Why did you do that to him? Steve?
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. Tommy keep thinking he cute, but
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: you're not cute. I didn't say I was cute. I'm
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: just saying I'm not. Listen to me. Listen to me.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: You look strang I'm decent. I don't look strang man,
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: You do not looks crazy. To get a mirror and
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: look at yourself from the side, you're strange. Look I
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: am not strange. Don't tell me you are. You look
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: strange all everybody, all the men in our family, we're
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: strange looking from the side. Look't have fun with the time,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: and when you accept it Tommy, he's never going to
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: accept that. You guys know that I'm not I'm not
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: doing it. Speaking of to break with your strange you're
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: today's subject, his ex wife is willing to share him
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: with me. His ex wife is willing to share him
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: with me. All right, we'll get into that. She might be,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: but I'm not thank you right now. We'll get into
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: it right now. The nephew's here with today's prank phone call.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: What you got for is after your wife is in
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: the limo, let's go care dog. Your wife is in
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: a limo. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: read Rob Robert, Robert, what's up us? Hey? Hey, how
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: you doing? Hey? Hey, listen, man, my name is Field. Dog.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I know you threw some other people. Your brother, right, Yeah,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: that's my brother. Yeah, what's that? Listen, man, I'm calling
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: you cause little something bad. First of all, everything, my brother, right,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: you need this ain't no, he ain't no trouble is it? No? No? No, no, no,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: no no straight man, just a no. You're married to right, Yes,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: that's my wife's boss. Okay, we'll see. Man. What I'm trying,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: little man? Um? I mean stood out? What's happened about?
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Listen what I'm trying to explain to you? Once getting
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: my name for you? Because for a time I drive
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: Limos and uh I'm actually driving right now. Okay, what's up? Well?
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I had seen your wife, you know, I knew you
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: were a little brother. You know. I was like, Okay,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: this this right here ain't cool. Hold on, No, what
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: you seen my wife? What do you mean? My wife?
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: How do you know? What are you talking about? Okay,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: we'll live. Okay, okay, Rob, let me ask you. Is
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: your wife there right now? Love? Was? My wife's been gone, man,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: she was out with us in her home. Girl. Man,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: they've been gone. What are you trying to get that? Man? Okay?
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: I got he Hey, I understand. Just listen to me. Man, listen,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: hey man, I'd have been dog got a many times
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: about some ladies. You know what I'm saying. I just
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: hate to see brothers get done wrong. I'm like, whoa
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: where are you coming from? Dog? Listen? Down? You go ahead?
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: And he stood out the oldest revenue. I get the drive, drive,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I drive limousine. And what I'm trying to say to
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: you is what you're trying to say. Man, spit it all.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Your wife is in the back of the limousine and
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I'm driving right now. She and the back though. What
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: what the girls out? And and like that? What y'all? No, man,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: if it was a bunch of girls out, I wouldn't
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: even be calling you, bro. Your wife is in the
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: fact that it's limousine with a man. What the man?
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: What the band? Hey y'all step about, Hey, y'all, step
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: about the room from any man, step about the room
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: from it, step about the room. Just hold on, hold
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: on by step about the room from me to man,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: step about the room. Hello, uh si, yeah, Hey, hey,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: look man, you need to come collect man because this
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna matter. White here, dog, you're saying that my wife.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: You you got my wife in the back of the
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: limits and you're driving. Man, she got other dog? What
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: she got on? What card? It is that she got
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: on a black trans with white lines? Ain't it what
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I'm trying I'm trying to hey, hey, hey, hey, Rob,
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to make sure I got the right person.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: What she had on? You know, my brother, you ain't
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: got that accomplished. And you said that you got my
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: wife what she is? The house? We're talking about this?
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: This look cute? This listen, I wasn't starting this look cute?
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: And you said, he it back for your car. Where
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: are you driving that dog? Where are you driving that? Man?
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: That's all I need to know about you. You need
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to have that. Who are college? Look? Who the dog? Who? Okay? Dogs? Listen, man, Well,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to say this to you. See though, I've
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: been around hunting on this road. You know my hell, man,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm looking. I did tell me this
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: man out to you. It's it's it's the wrong that's
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: sitting in the back. She got the curls coming down
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: on the side. That's all I need to know. Do
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: she got the curls that dangling on the side. You
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: know I can't hear you, boss, I can't hear you.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Speak up, man, I said, yeah, Man, I can't talk. Man,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: they're in the bag. I can't look. Man. You calling
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: me though, and this isn't he You're gonna call it.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: You're trying to make it straight, right, so you bring
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: it only over to where I'm at, boss, dog I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: can't do that, man, I can't bring what you do
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: that you're gonna ask crazy crazy, I'm saying what you
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: ain't me a look? Do you call me? Put her
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: on the phone. Put it on the phone. I can't
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: put get a phone to her. Dog, get a phone
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: over here. You need to drive where I'm at, boss,
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: flying where I'm at boss, because this is gonna be
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: hamble right now. I just got I said, I want
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: you going back to my hole. Hold up, hold ups,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: damn me, man, I can't hear you. Dog you you listen,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: listen all this whichmanes. You need to need to stop
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: the car and say you need to some stand outside
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: the car and tell me where the others I can
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: come meet you whenever the lust or you need to
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: do around to tell huh this. You gotta take a
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: desour the dog because you go, okay, you gotta calm
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: calm man. You don't even know me. Man, you will
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: list with the room. Dog, So listen about it's the
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: thing box. Look, I used to gonna find out what
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: little zas over the rither. You drive and I'm gonna
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: find y'all or you're gonna have to come find me. Dog.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: You don't mess with the wrong one. Put on the
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: phone box. Put them on the phone and they push
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: the phone. Many, ain't got selling to be, ain't look
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: looking up and you helped me out. Appreciate the call man,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: put up the phone. Wait wait wait wait wait wait
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait Rob, Rob? What's that? Man? Okay,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: listen man, you say this is a game. Man, I'm
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: gonna come first. Don't want I'm just to go out. Hey.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: All I know is they're gonna stop at the hotel
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: for a minute, man and change. Tell what this play? Hey?
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Look here you had wrote me out. Do you come
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: on my way? I'm on the way. Tell dog, come on, man,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: don't don't act like what ship at all. Don't act
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: like that. Man. Hey, look, you got one more time
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: to be trying to tell me how to act. Cret Okay,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you man to listen to me.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: I want to tell you one more thing, man, what
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: because they ain't got time for no more one more things.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: One more thing you need to be telling me is
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: when you hit dog, we'ret man. This is nephew Tom
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: May from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: prayed for your wife. Now, man, man, what do you
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: te tell me? Man? My bad man? You got my man?
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: You got my man? God Man, before we go Rob,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: what is man? The baddest radio show man Steve The
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Morning Show with Nephew Time is crazy. I will prank
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: that ass. You know that. I do it. I do it. Yeah,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I say it like that, say it again. I don't
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: even know if that went with what was I will
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: exactly took it too far? Tim me with the good Hey,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: your wife up in this litmo getting busy. But I'm
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: just trying to let you know. Oh you play so much.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm trying to I'm trying to figure out
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: my next list. You know who where I wants to
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: go in? How about I prank Will Smith Will? But
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: you can't talk about it because he's probably listening. He
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: listens to the show. Well, now you need something else.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Don't say that, do you, Jazzy Jeff instead, Tommy? How
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: about l L how about l L? Who? That would
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: be Oh that would be good. That would be good.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: If you lick your lips one more time, onna beat
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: your head if you will. If you boy, I'm gonna
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: whoop you over half. You beat your little lick your
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: little one more time, and I'm I'm tired of my
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: wife looking at the TV that that TV show you
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: on licking your lib a. You why you gotta be
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: a police officer? Licking your lips? Tommy, where you're gonna
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: drop l l Yeah, all right, looking coming out next.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry Letter. Subject his ex wife is
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: willing to share him with me. We'll get into it
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 52:10
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• 52:13
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• 52:18
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• 52:25
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• 52:30
  Speaker 1: right here, right now. Okay, buggle up, hold on tight,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: all right. Subject his wife is willing to share him
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: with me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I was in a relationship
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: with a man for six months, but we fell in
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: love quickly and we were living together. He is thirty
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: six and I'm thirty one. He's going through a divorce
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: when he met me, so I made him wait until
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. He told
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: me that his wife divorced him because he cheated on
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: her multiple times. He told me that he cheated simply
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: because his wife had stopped having sex with him. He
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: often went to his old house to get more of
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: his things so he could fully move in with me.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Two weeks ago, he went over, and when he came back,
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: he was quiet and wouldn't look me in the eye.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: After I kept asking him what was wrong and accusing
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: him of messing with his ex wife, he admitted that
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: he did. We cried and tried to work through it,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: but the next day he told me that he had
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: talked to his ex wife and told her he would
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: move back in because he's ashamed of how he left her.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: A couple of days later, he left me and moved
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: back into his home with her. I was an emotional wreck.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: He came over to see me a few times to
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: see if I was all right, and we made love.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Each time. I told him I want him to come back.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: He said that it was a possibility if I were to,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: If I were open to have a relationship with him,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: despite him being with his wife, He said he told
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: his ex about me and how he had fallen in love.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: He said his ex wife was willing to let him
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: continue to see me if I was okay with the arrangement.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I'm so love sick. I entertained this crazy notion for
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: a day or two he came over. But he came
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: over to my house last night and he smelled like
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: her perfume, and I lost it. I love him so
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: much and I don't want him to go, but I
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: don't think I can be a third wheel. It's having
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: part of a man better than no man nowadays. Wow,
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: you really drink the kool Ai, didn't you? I mean,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: all the time he was going over to his house,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: supposedly to get things to bring over to your house. Yes,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: he was sleeping with his wife, just like he sleeps
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: with you when he comes over your house. And the
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: question is having part of a man better than no
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: man nowadays. That's unacceptable any day, you know, and it
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: should be unacceptable to you unless you're, like I mean,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: just unbelievably desperate, which it sounds like you are. You
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: just want to settle for anything. Come on, now, why
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: would you want to do that? Let this man go
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: back to his wife and stay there so they can
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: keep their little you know, threesome, more open marriage arrangement
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: they got going on to themselves. And his wife is
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: stupid too if she thinks the only way she can
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: keep him is to invite you into their marriage. But
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: I think they do this. It almost sounds like it's
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: some sort of game. I think you should stand your
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: ground and not become the third wheel, as you say,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: in all of this craziness. I think you won't know better,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: though I think you do in your heart. You just
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: think that you're in love with this guy. You're not
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: in love with him, and what do you really have
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: with him anyway? Didn't don't you remember that he told
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: you he cheated on his wife multiple multiple times, multiple times.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: He's a cheater and that's why he was in trouble
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: with his wife, all right, So do you think he
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: wouldn't cheat on you? Okay, that's what I'm saying if
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: he came to stay with you. Let me just say
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: this to you. Every man who wants to cheat and
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: get with someone one else, they always say that their
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: wife doesn't have sex with them and they're unhappy. That's
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: like the standard line. So don't get sucked into that.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, please just let him stay over there. Do
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: not consider being in a three summer with them. This
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: is craziness right here. This is you don't want to
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: do this. Let that man go back to his wife
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: and stay Steve. This whole damn letter don't make no
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: damn sense. As a matter of fact, as I was
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: listening to surely read the letter, I kept saying, through
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: the whole letter, what so? What I'm calling this letter
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: is the subject is his wife is willing to share
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: me with him. But I'm gonna call this the letter
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: call what? Because there is so many what moments in
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: this damned letter that I can't read it without saying what.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Here we go. I'm in a relationship with a man
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: for six months. We fell in love quickly, living together.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: He thirty six and I'm thirty one. He was going
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: through a divorce when we met, so I made him
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: wait until the papers were signed before we had sex.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: What What didn't you just say? I was in a
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: relationship with a man for six months, but we fell
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: in love quickly, and we were living together. Y'all live together,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: they have sex? He thirty six, he was going through
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: divorce when we met, so I made him wait until
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. What here
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: we go again. He told me that his wife divorced
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: him because he cheated on her multiple time. Wait a minute,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: he told you that. See that was a setup. He
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: told you to read him and his wife because he
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: cheated on her several times. He told me that he
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: cheated simply because his wife had stopped having sex with him.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: What He often went to his old house to get
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: more of his things so he could fully move in
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: with me. Now you just said y'all was living together,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: But now you're saying so he could fully move in
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: with you. And two weeks ago he came back and
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: he was quiet and wouldn't look me in the eye.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: After I kept asking what was wrong and accused him
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: and messing with his ex wife, he admitted that he did.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: What Why did you do that? Because he couldn't look
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: you in the eye? What all right, Steve? Hang on?
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Where on? What when we come back? Well? That part
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: tim Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: the hour Today's Strawberry Letters subject to his ex wife
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: is willing to share him with me. We'll get back.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: I can do it right after this. You're listening show?
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: All right? Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: His ex wife is willing to share him with me.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: You renamed it the letter of what, the letter of what,
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: and there's so many whats in this letter. Let's quickly
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: go over what we found out. Um been with this
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: relationship with a man for six months, fell in love quickly.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: He thirty six, thirty one. He was going through a
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: divorce when we met, so I made him wait till
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. What y'all?
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: He moved in with you, y'all living together? Y'all ain't
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: having sex till the papers get signed. Okay, letty right.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: He told me his wife divorced him because he cheated
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: on her multiple times. He told you that said, Come on?
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: What he told me that he cheated simply because his
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: wife has stopped having sex with him. What you I
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  Speaker 1: mean after she found out you were screwing everybody else,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: she could have a sect with you so you wouldn't
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: screw a few more people. That's what you did, okay, bro.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: He often went to his old house to get more
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: of his things, so he could fully move in with me,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: so you he was living with you, But he kept
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: going back over there and get some more things, and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: you kept unlocking the door. What what Two weeks ago
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: he went over there and when he came back, he
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  Speaker 1: was quiet, and he wouldn't look me in the eye.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: After I kept asking him what was wrong in accusing
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: me of a messing with his ex wife? He admitted
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: that he did. What Why did he tell you that
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: he this dude couldn't look you in your eye? He
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: bit screwing up. He been looking you in your eye
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: just this one night he couldn't do it. He admitted
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: that he did. He go the next line. We cried
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: and tried to work through it. Whatever hell is he
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: crying fault? He's screwing everybody? What is he crying fault?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: We cried and tried to work through it. But the
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: next day, right after that, he told me he had
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: talked to his ex wife and told her he would
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  Speaker 1: move back in because he was ashamed of how he
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: left her. What right? So what was it crying fault?
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: Because he knew what he was gonna tell your stupid
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: ass tomorrow, So he cried, here, gonna leave? What I
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: wuna hear you the mom if we try to wait,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have sexual him. She keeps putting
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  Speaker 1: it in my face. Yeah. A couple of days later,
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  Speaker 1: he left me and moved back into his home with her.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: I was an emotional wreck. Yeah. Oh wait a minute,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, this is the woman that he was cheating
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: on because she wouldn't have sex with him. When did
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: she start having sex with him after he left him?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: For you? Just the story you're going with, okay, lady.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: He left me and moved back into his home with her.
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  Speaker 1: I was an emotional wreck. He came over to see
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  Speaker 1: me a few times to see if I was all right.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: We may love each time. What of course he did?
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: What then? When he was just an emotional wreck, he
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: just left you. He told you why he was leaving you.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: He told you why he left his wife the first time.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: He because he kept screwing around. He'd been going over
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: that picking up socks and stuff, bringing slowly packing the drawer.
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  Speaker 1: He probably ain't got a whole drawing show house. I
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: told him I wanted him to come back. He said
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  Speaker 1: it was a possibility if I was open to have
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with him. Despite him being with his wife.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: What Steve, Wait a minute, that's what you're doing now?
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  Speaker 1: He back with his wife. He keeps coming on that
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: screwing you. You already in that. He just checking with
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: you to make sure you still cool with it. How
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: stupid are you? He said? He told his ex wife
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: about me and how we had fallen in love. She said,
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  Speaker 1: his ex wife was willing to let him continue to
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  Speaker 1: see me if I was okay with the arrangement. So
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: you really think that. This man then told his ex wife,
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  Speaker 1: who he had to move back in with, that he
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  Speaker 1: in love with you, and he asked her could he
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  Speaker 1: still see you? And she said, as long as it's
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: okay with you, you should call her ask her if
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: that's what she's say because I can promise you. I'll
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: promise you. Just comes name head. She said, I'm so
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  Speaker 1: love sick. I entertained this crazy notion for a day
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: or two. What entertained it? But he came over to
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: my house last night and he smelled like her perfume,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: and I lost it. What you're mad? Phone, he's sleeping
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: back with her. He didn't move back in with her.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: That's who gonna be on him when he come over
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: your house is huh, you better be lucky. It was perfume.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: You was smelling? Hello? What why didn't he shower? I
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: love him so much and I don't want him to go,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: but I don't think I could be a third whill. No, no,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: you are the third wheel. You've been the third wheel.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: What is hell you thinking? You can't be that phone?
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: No more, you are the third wheel. It's having part
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: of man better than no man. Nowadays, he loves sick.
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  Speaker 1: He moved back in with her, which he never really
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: left anyway, because he was just packing the drool at
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: your house. He never did have a close one pair
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  Speaker 1: it is time for ask Steve. We have a question? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: now listen to this, yeah a one question one yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this from well, this is from a twenty two year old.
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  Speaker 1: This is from a millennial. So um and and his
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  Speaker 1: name is also Steve, your namesake, He says, Hi, mister Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: I work full time and I'm currently in school to
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  Speaker 1: become a psychiatric mental health nurse. My faith is strong
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: and I know that with God, anything is possible. So
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: my question to you is, on your path to become
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  Speaker 1: an entertainer, did you ever doubt yourself, think your dream
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  Speaker 1: was too big or think about giving up? And how
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: did you strengthen your connection to God and never lose
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: hope that your prayers and hard work would pay off.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: That's a great question. Well, you know, look, no matter
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: who you are, we're human and you're gonna have moments
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: of doubt because it's so difficult to make a success
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: of yourself. So that's gonna be times. Man, what you're
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: gonna be faced with the man that I make the
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: right move? Man? It's this working? Man? Is it ever?
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: Is it gonna change? Is it gonna get better? I mean,
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: you know I'm living in that calm going Man. Is
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: it gonna get better? Man? Did I make the right move? Man?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Should I go back home? Man? I mean, you know
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have doubts along the way. Sometimes you're gonna
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: doubt it. Or let me say it to you this way.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be so daunting at times. That you're gonna
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: be faced with some things that appear to be insurmountable.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: But here's what I always had to do. Whenever I
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: got to moments like that, I thought of the ultimate
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: dream that I had for myself and my family. What
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: am I really shooting for? And I think what people
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: have to do is you have to be conscious of
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: the size of your dreams. You have to have dreams
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: so big that not getting your dream is unacceptable because
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: the consequence, the alternative, the alternative to not receiving your dreams,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: is unacceptable. And you've just got to dreams so big
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: that your dreams are bigger than whatever problem you're having.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: So dreaming big is not the problem because God is
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: all out there in them big dreams. God is in
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: to make your dream come true. Business, So I want
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: you to just stay. You have to stay prayerful man,
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: throughout the journey. Prayer changes things, and prayer gives you
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: a relationship with your creator that allows you to have
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: the strength that you don't have in your weakest moments,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: allows you to be your strongest because it connects you
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: closer to him. Your weakness is where He gives you
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: the strength. Hey man, go ahead, all right, Steve, all right,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening. Is your relationship so good?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: Guys that sometimes you wish you and your spouse would
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: argue more? Huh? If youre good? So if one argument,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: just one argument, could save your marriage, that is it.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: But this husband cooked, clean, swept and loved his wife
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: passionately completely. She in turn felt choked by his affection
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: and now wants to do divorced him. The woman sought
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: divorce from her husband in a city in the United
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: Arab Emirates because his love was too much for her
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: to bear. He never yelled at me or turned me down.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: The woman told the court, I was choked by extreme
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: love and affection. He even helped me clean the house.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: The court ordered the adjournment of the case to give
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: a couple a chance at reconciliation. So, guys, here's a
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: question for you. Do you wish you and your spouse
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: would actually argue more? Or have you ever ended a
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: relationship because there was no conflict at all, It was
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: just too much love and affection. No, please, stee soon
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: as soon as you say something to him, you disagree
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: with his answer is getting some papers. Draw Are you serious?
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: Are you serious? Too much out of this reship? Is
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: that fast? Can be quick? Getting that? Really? Jay? Yeah?
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: He out? I'm out out. I don't know who wants
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: an argument? But this woman, what's wrong with her? Exactly?
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: She's a problem staying what real love is. She's got
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: a different view. She saw somebody getting cussed out of
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: views something. I want that. Yeah, that's probably yeah, she
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: said that something. Yeah, I want to get cussed out.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: Too much love and affection. I've never heard a woman
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: who wants conflict. Who want that? Unless he's ultra cleanly.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: She did say she felt choked by his love. She
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: felt choked by it? You mean she just rather just
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: be choked. He cooked, he cleaned, He cooked, he clean,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: He loved her passionately and completely. This sounds like a romance, Joe. Yeah,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: he said he never yelled at me or turned me down.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: Never yet, baby, you need to be who are you?
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: He never turned you down? Oh my god? So this
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: is the opposite of an abusive relationship. Extreme He cooking
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: and cleaning, girl, Please, Yeah, I cook, I'm not gonna clean.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: He swept, well, I'll leave the spot on a stove
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. Wow, this this, I mean, women say
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: all the time they want a good man. Women complain
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: all the time. And he never helps me around the house.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: I don't. We never spend enough time together. He's not affectionate,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: he's not romantic. Help you pack? But Jay, Now, one
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: time she said something, she's out. You're done. Well. I
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: don't take talking back. I don't let us talking back.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: See what we're doing there? That her daddy, you're her dad,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: her husband, you're her man? Jack your daddy, say, uh, Dad,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: say we don't do back, We just do phone. I've
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: never heard of this before. But Jay, we can't disagree.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: We can't agree you talking back to me, you would
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: have been gone. But we don't like what you're saying. Jay,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: we have a right to say. Yeah you do like
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: somebody's daddy. Yeah, baddy, I'm just gonna pack you up.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna tone. No, j Yeah none, man, Wow,
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up, more music, more fun, more chauvinism,
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  Speaker 1: sound like Yeah. At twenty minutes after the hour, right
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  Speaker 1: here on this Steve Harvey Morning Show, you're listening to show,
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  Speaker 1: So listen to this story. Guys, A meat manufacturing company
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: experienced a glitch in its payroll recently and accidentally paid
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: a worker three hundred times his salary, and now they
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: can't seem to find the guy. The worker expected his
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: usual monthly check of five hundred and forty five dollars,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: but instead received a check for more than one hundred
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: and eighty thousand dollars. Now when he noticed, yeah, when
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: he noticed the mistake, he alerted his manager, who told
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: him to go to his bank and repay the money.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: But he never did and the company can't find him.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: They tried to reach him for several days and eventually
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: received a letter from his attorney informing them of his resignation.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah you roll, baby. He hasn't been heard from since.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: The company has filed a complaint with the police, but
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: no arrest has been made. So the question to you
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: guys is what would you do in this situation if
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: you got paid three hundred times your salary? Oh, I'm out.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I will die in front of you
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: right there. You would think I'm gone, fly out, roll
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  Speaker 1: me out the dough. Pardon I'm gone, junior. I call
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: in him. I will call see how y'all doing. How
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: do I want to show dough Hell's not coming back. Boy,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: y'all stay boy three hundred times? You'll pay? All right,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: we'll have more, Thanks, guys. We'll have more of the
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. We'll do a round
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: of would you rather at thirty three minutes after the
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  Speaker 1: hour right after this you're listening, She's a Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right? Time now guys for would you rather?
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: Here we go? Would you rather be the ugliest person
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: in the room? Or would you rather or would you
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: rather be the least funny person in the room? There
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: you go? Are you going, Tommy, I'm gonna be like that.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: I'm with y'all. That's what I thought you've been over here.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: The only confusion is in your mind. What you want
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: to be a R b ugliest person in the room
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: or the least funniest person in the room. What you
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: want to be? That's not an option? Okay, all right,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: I think we're clear on that one. Would you rather
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: have dinner with your ex or live in a tiny house?
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: Be in a tiny house on the corner of the
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Wolf's the tiny house? With that point you the only
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: thing I got to sit on. Yeah, put me in
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: there and shut the dope. What about you, Junior, I
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: send in the tiny house with no windows. House. You're
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: all in the tiny house, all right, We'll go to
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: tiny jail, Shirley, some little tiny hand, Shirley, I live
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: in a tiny tiny house house. Would you rather take
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: cold showers for three months? Or would you rather connect
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: your phone in the car? You know when you're when
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: you're with your gonna be shriveled up every day looking
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: like a prone Oh day, I'm prone, baby. I'm gonna
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: connect my phone. Yeah, I ain't up to nothing. I'm good. Oh,
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: I can connect it. But I'd rather shribble up on
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: your phone. Hey, dog, But I'm gonna tell you I
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: got some partners that call where I go. Dog, I'm
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: going to speak in the car with my girl. I
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: have to tell him that. Yeah, you have immediately got
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: some partners where I have to say that too. I
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: have to say that too, all right, and it beat
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: the random thought because I gotta go ahead short, would
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  Speaker 1: you guys, brother a sixteen hour road trip in an
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: RV or a four hour flight on Spirit airline. I'm
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: gonna see the sights on that RV. We gonna we're
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: gonna get on this road for sixty I'm gonna geting
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: in that RV for sixteen hours. You're stopping, the truck
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: stops all that. You're only on Spirit for four hours.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: Got a fight for five we get you know who
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: else on that plane though? That's the probably Spirit, it's
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: the other customers. Yes, it's four hours of that, especially
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: me sitting back. Then, I don't tell you what funny
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: thing I've seen you on Family few. We'll be back
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: with the last break of the day and a forty
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, of course, Steve Harvey, we'll
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: have some closing remarks for us right after this. You're listening,
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve. Here we are last break of the
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: day on this Thursday. It's been a good day. Yeah,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: it has. On a personal level, we're ready for it.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: Everybody experiences what I'm about to talk about. Everybody has
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: some form of it. It could be in a relationship,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: a loving relationship, a sexual relationship. It could be in
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: a you know, a job relationship. It could be in
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: a coworker relationship. It could just be anything, man, it
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: could be anything at all. So let's let's talk about it.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: Let's let's let's talk about this for a minute, because
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: here's what I want you all to think about it.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: And somebody sent this to who works at the radio station,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: donned young lady that's in charge about social media. It's
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: a post board, and it really got me to thinking
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: because it's so true. Life is too short to be
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: waiting on somebody to act right. Touch the nerve, Touch
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: the nerve. Life is too short to be waiting on
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: somebody to act right. You know, the clock is ticking,
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: and I don't know if you know this, man, but
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: time just time flies by sometime, especially if you have
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: a job that you don't mind going to, that you enjoy,
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: if you if you're working in your life's ambition, if
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: you're following your dreams, if you're chasing your dreams, if
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: you're pursuing something of value. You noticed, time has a
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: tendency to get away from you a little bit, you
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's like, you know, man,
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: you go along when you go wow, okay, cool man,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: we gotta get it together, but we just keep running
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: out of daylight and all of this right here, and
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  Speaker 1: it just gets to a point where you just realize, man,
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  Speaker 1: life kind of gets away from you a little bit,
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  Speaker 1: so you gotta start thinking. Man, life is too short
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  Speaker 1: to be waiting on somebody to act right. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: not just talking about in a relationship like you married
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  Speaker 1: or something like that, which is another one. But my goodness, man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really have time for that. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: time for you to act right. I would rather surround
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  Speaker 1: my people who act like me. I would rather surround
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  Speaker 1: myself with people who add value to my life instead
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  Speaker 1: of subtracting from my life. If you got somebody in
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  Speaker 1: your life that's always taking and never giving, you're probably
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  Speaker 1: waiting on them to act right. If you got a
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  Speaker 1: person that's all he's getting something from you and never
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  Speaker 1: say thank you, life is too short to be waiting
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  Speaker 1: on somebody to act right. You in a relationship with
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  Speaker 1: a person who constantly, and I mean constantly, does you
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  Speaker 1: wrong repeatedly, and you keep expecting them to change their
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  Speaker 1: behavior and there don't. Are you kidding me? Man? You
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  Speaker 1: know they say that the definition of insanity is doing
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  Speaker 1: the same thing over and expecting a different result. It's
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  Speaker 1: insane for us to continue to wait on somebody to
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  Speaker 1: act right when, first of all, you can't make nobody
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  Speaker 1: act right. You can't change nobody that don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be changed. So we keep getting back to this plaque
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  Speaker 1: that I got set that said life is too short
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  Speaker 1: to be waiting on somebody to act right. I've done
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  Speaker 1: it before. I've done it with employees, I've done it
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  Speaker 1: with associates, I've done it in relationships. I've done it
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  Speaker 1: with my children. I mean, man, just sitting around waiting
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  Speaker 1: on my children to get it. I taught it to them,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm waiting on them to get it. And I
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  Speaker 1: got tired of it, and I told him one time,
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  Speaker 1: I said, hey, I'm done. I'm done trying to get
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  Speaker 1: you to understand my position. I'm done trying to get
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  Speaker 1: you to move on and let's just have a great
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  Speaker 1: life together. I'm tired of you bringing up issues. I
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: don't let people do that to me no more. You
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: stop bringing up issues from the past. We've all changed,
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  Speaker 1: grow up, move on now. If you want to step
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  Speaker 1: back there, you want to hang onto something in the
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  Speaker 1: past so you can keep talking about how miserable you are,
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  Speaker 1: Go on and be miserable. But life is too short
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  Speaker 1: for me to be waiting on you to act right.
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  Speaker 1: So now here I am over here. This is the
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  Speaker 1: way I am. If you want some of this love,
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  Speaker 1: some of this guidance, some of this understanding, some of
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  Speaker 1: this leadership, you need some occasional help, I'm here. But
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  Speaker 1: if you want to keep dragging me over the colds
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  Speaker 1: about an issue that you can't get past, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I'm no longer available for you. I'm sorry that you
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  Speaker 1: can't get past it. I'm sorry that it has bothered
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  Speaker 1: you for a number of years. My apologies, but obviously
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  Speaker 1: my apologies ain't good enough. Have you ever had that
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  Speaker 1: happen to you? Have you ever found yourself apologizing to
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  Speaker 1: somebody over and over for the same thing because they
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  Speaker 1: just can't seem to get past it. Life is too
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  Speaker 1: short to be waiting on somebody to act right. And
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  Speaker 1: I look up, man, and I just decided, Man, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't doing it no more. I'm just not gonna do
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  Speaker 1: it no more. I'm sorry if I've offended you, if
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: I hurt you, and I'm man enough to apologize, I
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  Speaker 1: expect you to be mad enough or woman enough to
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  Speaker 1: accept it. You don't have to forget it. I'm just
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: saying I'm sorry, and I'm asking for your forgiveness. But
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: if you ain't in a forgiving move, I'm gonna take
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  Speaker 1: it to God. I'm gonna ask God to forgive me
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  Speaker 1: because he will. And then I'm moving on me. And
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got to talk no more. You can't get
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  Speaker 1: past it. I understand, But my daddy always said, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna either get over it or you're gonna die mad. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you choose to die mad, you stay over there
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  Speaker 1: and let you lead a world mad. I'm moving on.
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  Speaker 1: Life is too short to be waiting on somebody to act.
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