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Surviving the Loss of a Living Child · TonyTidbit: A Black Executive Perspective

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Tony Tidbit: It
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Tony Tidbit: was
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Tony Tidbit: no
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Tony Tidbit: flight
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Tony Tidbit: to
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Tony Tidbit: get
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Tony Tidbit: there
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Tony Tidbit: that
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Tony Tidbit: night
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Tony Tidbit: from
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Tony Tidbit: here
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Tony Tidbit: to
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Tony Tidbit: Connecticut.
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Tony Tidbit: I
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Tony Tidbit: flew
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Tony Tidbit: out
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Tony Tidbit: the
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Tony Tidbit: first
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Tony Tidbit: flight
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Tony Tidbit: next
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Tony Tidbit: and
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Tony Tidbit: the
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Tony Tidbit: time
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Tony Tidbit: I
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Tony Tidbit: landed
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Tony Tidbit: he
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Tony Tidbit: passed
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Tony Tidbit: away.
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Brad Bowling: Oh,
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Brad Bowling: I'm
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Brad Bowling: so
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Brad Bowling: sorry
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Brad Bowling: to
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Brad Bowling: that
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Brad Bowling: bro.
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Tony Tidbit: Okay,
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Tony Tidbit: and
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Tony Tidbit: think
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Tony Tidbit: about
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Tony Tidbit: the
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Tony Tidbit: guilt
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Tony Tidbit: when
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Tony Tidbit: hospital
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Tony Tidbit: and
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Tony Tidbit: I
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Tony Tidbit: bed.
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Tony Tidbit: And
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Tony Tidbit: saying?
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Tony Tidbit: sorry.
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Tony Tidbit: Right?
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Tony Tidbit: And
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Tony Tidbit: nobody
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Tony Tidbit: wants
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Tony Tidbit: Nobody.
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Tony Tidbit: We'll
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Tony Tidbit: discuss
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Tony Tidbit: race
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Tony Tidbit: and
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Tony Tidbit: how
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Tony Tidbit: And
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Tony Tidbit: how
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Tony Tidbit: we
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Tony Tidbit: didn't
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Tony Tidbit: topic.
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Tony Tidbit: Because
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Tony Tidbit: we
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Tony Tidbit: afraid.
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Tony Tidbit: black
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BEP Narrator: perspective.
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Tony Tidbit: We
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Tony Tidbit: to
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Tony Tidbit: race,
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Tony Tidbit: loss
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Tony Tidbit: parents
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Brad Bowling: Tony.
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51:26
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51:26
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51:27
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51:27
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51:28
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51:30
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51:44
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51:44
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51:45
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51:46
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51:47
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51:56
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51:57
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51:57
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51:58
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51:59
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52:01
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52:01
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52:02
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52:03
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52:04
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52:05
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52:06
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52:07
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52:07
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52:08
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52:10
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52:20
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52:20
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52:28
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52:33
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52:33
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52:34
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52:34
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52:34
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52:37
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52:39
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52:41
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52:42
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52:42
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52:42
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52:43
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52:44
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52:45
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52:49
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52:50
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52:51
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52:51
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52:51
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52:52
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52:52
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52:53
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52:54
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52:55
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52:56
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52:58
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52:58
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52:59
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52:59
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53:00
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53:01
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53:02
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53:03
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