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Grammy recap, "I Love Him, But I Feel Like We're Stuck", Sista O'Dell, The Pastors, and more! - 02.03.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.
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  Speaker 3: At all at all, So.
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  Speaker 4: Don't given them black the million busy ye listening to to.
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  Speaker 3: I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you.
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  Speaker 5: Don't love you? You gotta turn.
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  Speaker 3: I can't.
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  Speaker 4: I got to turn the mouth turn, probably got to
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  Speaker 4: turn the mouth. Mount the word of the money jumpo me.
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  Speaker 2: Come come on you think.
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  Speaker 6: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are
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  Speaker 6: listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One
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  Speaker 6: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, here
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  Speaker 6: we go. I was working out. I was talking to
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  Speaker 6: a buddy of mine, and I was telling him something
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  Speaker 6: that Bishop td Jakes told me one time. I heard
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  Speaker 6: him say it. He said, I would hate to die
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  Speaker 6: and not do the thing that I was born to do.
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  Speaker 6: I would hate to die and not do the theme
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  Speaker 6: that I was born to do. Man, oh man, oh man, man.
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  Speaker 6: That hit me like a like a like a pile
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  Speaker 6: of bricks man, because it made me feel so grateful
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  Speaker 6: that God has allowed me to live my life this
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  Speaker 6: way now. And I'm talking about grateful for all of it,
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  Speaker 6: the good, the bad, and the ugly, and I have
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  Speaker 6: had all of them. The person you see today. It
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  Speaker 6: ain't always who I was. It was on the inside
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  Speaker 6: of me, but it hadn't externalized itself, if that's a word.
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  Speaker 6: It hadn't been bought out. It was in here, but
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  Speaker 6: it was under development. Who I am today was a process.
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  Speaker 6: But like I said before, don't trip. He ain't through
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  Speaker 6: with me yet. Even today, I'm still an imperfect soldier
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  Speaker 6: for Christ. Today. I still fall short oftentimes. But I'll
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  Speaker 6: tell you what, I'm ever grateful for the life I have.
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  Speaker 6: And you know what, I want to courage everybody today
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  Speaker 6: to explore your possibilities. I mean, man, explore your possibilities.
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  Speaker 6: Why would you not want to find out, discover, or
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  Speaker 6: know what it is God got for you? Why would
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  Speaker 6: you not want to achieve or accomplish all of your possibilities?
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  Speaker 2: Now, as I ask you this.
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  Speaker 6: Question, I want you to know that the devil is busy,
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  Speaker 6: that he plays mind tricks. So as you hear this,
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  Speaker 6: I already know he's saying to some of y'all, Yeah, Steve,
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  Speaker 6: that's easy for you to say, but I didn't got
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  Speaker 6: myself in this situation right here. You ain't nothing too
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  Speaker 6: hard for God, nothing nothing, And see so as you
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  Speaker 6: listen to me, try to get your mind open to this.
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  Speaker 6: Why would you not want to explore all of your
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  Speaker 6: life's possibilities, what's possible with your life? And I'm talking
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  Speaker 6: about from right where you are right now. I'm not
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  Speaker 6: asking you to change. I'm not asking you to do anything.
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  Speaker 6: I'm telling you this is a fact that God can
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  Speaker 6: get you from right where you are right now. Broken, misled, misguided, misunderstood, mistaken,
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  Speaker 6: all of that, misfortunate, all of the missus you've been
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  Speaker 6: talking about in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You know you.
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  Speaker 6: I missed the lottery, I missed my ride. They fired me.
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  Speaker 6: I missed the deadline. I didn't get it. Miss people.
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  Speaker 6: People just miss theay self to death. If you've been
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  Speaker 6: all in missus, God can get you from right where
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  Speaker 6: you are. God a home run hitter. I'm here to
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  Speaker 6: tell you that he's a home run hitter. He's a
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  Speaker 6: put him over the wall whenever he want to, all
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  Speaker 6: the time. And you can be a recipient of some
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  Speaker 6: of these home runs. He'll put the bat in your hand.
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  Speaker 6: But you got to swing. Now, listen to me. You've
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  Speaker 6: got to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You got to
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  Speaker 6: stop holding yourself down with beating yourself up. He won't
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  Speaker 6: hold you down about it if you don't hold yourself
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  Speaker 6: down about it. But I'm gonna tell you one more time.
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  Speaker 6: The devil is busy. So what the devil do is
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  Speaker 6: He make you think you ain't worthy. He make you
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  Speaker 6: think that you've done something so despicable that you can't
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  Speaker 6: come back from it.
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  Speaker 2: He makes you feel like you so low you can't
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  Speaker 2: go up high.
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  Speaker 6: He knock you down and make you feel like you've
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  Speaker 6: been knocked down hard than anybody else.
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  Speaker 2: You can't get up.
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  Speaker 6: He rolled you so deep down in that ditch you
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  Speaker 6: can't see over the edge. God can come get you
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  Speaker 6: from no matter where you are. I'm telling you, man,
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  Speaker 6: you ain't in no hold too deep for God. Magic
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  Speaker 6: Johnson to tell you that. Listen to me, you ain't
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  Speaker 6: in no hole too deep for God. Steve Harvey can
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  Speaker 6: tell you that you ain't in a hole too deep
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  Speaker 6: for God. Tyler Perry can tell you that. I can
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  Speaker 6: name you some people. Bishop Jakes can tell you that.
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  Speaker 6: I could tell you. Kenneth Olmah can tell you that.
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  Speaker 6: Bishop Kenneth Omar I could tell you some people. Kirk
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  Speaker 6: Franklin can tell you that. Donny mcclerklin can tell you that.
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  Speaker 6: I just know some people personally man that then been
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  Speaker 6: in a hole. Joel Oldstein can tell you about it.
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  Speaker 6: I know some people man been down, been in a
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  Speaker 6: hole so deep.
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  Speaker 2: I bet you. Paula Dean can tell you about it. See.
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  Speaker 2: But but you know what, then here we.
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  Speaker 6: Go see see see you know, see we don't like
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  Speaker 6: to talk about that because now we want everybody to
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  Speaker 6: pay extra hard for some mistakes they made when clearly
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  Speaker 6: an excuse.
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  Speaker 2: Me for being a new Christian.
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  Speaker 6: But there is a prayer that I've been saying since
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  Speaker 6: I was a little bitty boy, and it took me
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  Speaker 6: till I was a grown man to understand it. Forgive
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  Speaker 6: us our true us passes as we forgive those who
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  Speaker 6: trust pass against us. So see, it ain't my job
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  Speaker 6: to hold nobody down, to keep my knee on somebody's neck.
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  Speaker 2: Who am I.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna need some forgiveness in a second here, probably today.
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  Speaker 6: See So all this you holding people down with the
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  Speaker 6: way you feel, inviot them. And she shouldn't have said this,
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  Speaker 6: and she'll never get it. I'll never support this again. Man,
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  Speaker 6: Get up, get up and get real.
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  Speaker 2: You for real.
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  Speaker 6: You think you ain't finn need forgiveness real soon you
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  Speaker 6: ain't finna make a diabolical mistake in your life.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think you are.
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  Speaker 6: I have thousands of them, probably gonna make a few
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  Speaker 6: hundred more for I get up out of here. So
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  Speaker 6: I've decided to be in a forgiving business because I
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  Speaker 6: want God to forgive. My trust passes as I forgive
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  Speaker 6: those who trustpass against me, you understand.
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  Speaker 2: See excuse me for being a new Christian.
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  Speaker 6: Get I get tired of talking aston to people man
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  Speaker 6: supposed to be saved and talking about dear Christians.
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  Speaker 2: I want that type of religion. Man, I ain't in
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  Speaker 2: that no more. I ain't in that.
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  Speaker 6: You can call me wrong if you want to say
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  Speaker 6: it how you want to say. I ain't in that
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  Speaker 6: no more. I ain't in all that. You can feel
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  Speaker 6: how you want to feel about me. But I got
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  Speaker 6: proof that God work in my life.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I can't.
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  Speaker 6: Hardly get it out Sometime when people ask me something
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  Speaker 6: about depot on the inside of me, about my soul
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  Speaker 6: and how I used to be, and my journey and
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  Speaker 6: my trip. Because people don't know the trip I've been on.
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  Speaker 6: You may have been on one worse than me. But
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  Speaker 6: you know what, you ain't in.
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  Speaker 2: A whole too deep. God can't get you out of.
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  Speaker 6: Man, I wish I want people to remember that, man,
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  Speaker 6: God is a redeemer, He the great I am. So
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  Speaker 6: if you ain't got nothing, now what you asking for?
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  Speaker 6: You know you might not have nothing because you ain't
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  Speaker 6: asking for nothing. Quit asking God to get you out
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  Speaker 6: of debt and ask God for a life of abundance.
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  Speaker 6: Then you take the money and you get out of debt.
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  Speaker 6: You keep asking to get out of debt. You keep
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  Speaker 6: being in debt to get out of Come on, man,
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  Speaker 6: what you asking God for?
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  Speaker 2: I'm just tripping today, that's all. I'm sorry. I apologize
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  Speaker 2: here listening to the seve ladies and gentlemen. You know what.
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  Speaker 6: The time has come for us to realize that, man o,
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  Speaker 6: man o man. How many times can God give us
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  Speaker 6: the opportunity and we not take advantage of it. I
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  Speaker 6: want everybody today to take this gift that has been
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  Speaker 6: given to you, and they call it's a gift.
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  Speaker 2: That's why they call it the present.
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  Speaker 6: What He's given to you today, and I want you
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  Speaker 6: to take full advantage of it. Start with some gratitude
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  Speaker 6: and I'm talking to myself. Start with some gratitude because
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  Speaker 6: I've had a series of things go wrong lately. But
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  Speaker 6: sometimes you got to praise him and thank him even
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  Speaker 6: in the middle of it, because his track record for
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  Speaker 6: me surviving those tough times is one thousand percent. I
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  Speaker 6: have no doubt that this too shall pass, and I'm
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  Speaker 6: gonna be strong with it.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 6: Come on, God, I'm just waiting on you. You now, ladies, gentlemen,
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  Speaker 7: Well, man, you know it's a Black History Month.
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  Speaker 8: Happy Black History Month, everybody. Yeah black, Hey, hey, Trump
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  Speaker 8: say we ain't have nothing no more. He don't tell us,
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  Speaker 8: he don't.
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  Speaker 2: I just want you all to know white before it
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  Speaker 2: was recognized.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, still Black History Month. You know you black?
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  Speaker 2: You black?
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  Speaker 7: What's some of your proudest moments? Asked being black?
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  Speaker 2: What did you do.
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  Speaker 6: As a black self? Yeah, I'm gonna tell you something, man.
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  Speaker 6: It has been a sheer joy for me to be black,
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  Speaker 6: to get to where I am and have been black.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I got to tell you something, man. I got
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  Speaker 9: to give myself a little bit of.
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  Speaker 2: Credit for hanging in there. Come on, for not giving up.
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  Speaker 6: I got to give myself a little bit of credit
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  Speaker 6: for keeping the faith. I got to give myself some
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  Speaker 6: credit when from from against succeeding against the odds, for
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  Speaker 6: defying statistics. Man, Now, if I didn't have God's help,
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  Speaker 6: I couldn't have done it. But boy, boy, I can't
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  Speaker 6: tell you how many proud moments I done had. You know,
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  Speaker 6: I'm thought, Hey, man, I've done a few first. I've
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  Speaker 6: had a few first in my career. Come on, I've
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  Speaker 6: had a few.
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  Speaker 2: First in my family.
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  Speaker 6: I'm first one in my family ever been married three times.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, black any black moment?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, these is real Black history moment. Yeah who you know?
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  Speaker 6: And I ain't even know it was a state until
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  Speaker 6: I I heard some of my family members talking out
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  Speaker 6: loud when I wasn't in the kitchen. Mm hm, Well
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  Speaker 6: you know he gonna he gonna get he gonna get married.
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  Speaker 2: He ain't gonna stay with you if you if you're
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  Speaker 2: on what you know, he don't believe in it. He gone.
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  Speaker 7: That's a black moment.
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  Speaker 6: One thing about that boy, He'll move along. He ain't
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  Speaker 6: finishing there and be miserable. That's when I was start going, damn,
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  Speaker 6: is this a thing?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 6: I think the thing I'm most proud about, what is
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  Speaker 6: my attempt and effort to change young people's lives and
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  Speaker 6: give him a better start. That's probably the thing I'm
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  Speaker 6: most proud of. The ladies, genter, that's Steve har Morty Show.
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  Speaker 6: We'll be right back with church complaint.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show.
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  Speaker 10: All right, ladies and gentlemen, it's time now for Reverend
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  Speaker 10: Motown and Deacon Deaf jam with a word.
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  Speaker 9: We uh prob galvel in this austintatious day, or they'll
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  Speaker 9: change is coming?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we moving in a new direction. In a new direction, Deacon.
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  Speaker 9: Uh, take us through it, if you will. Well past that.
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  Speaker 9: The congregation has been putting in requests. They want to
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  Speaker 9: hear the word. They want to.
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  Speaker 2: Hear more you preaching the gospel.
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  Speaker 9: They they, they they they want to hear yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they want to hear coming from you.
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  Speaker 9: Uh. Uh, preaching been a knowledge, a bit of wisdom.
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  Speaker 2: I think I'll understand.
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  Speaker 6: Letters begin and you. Uh we're reading from the scripture today.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, now the scripture today. Uh, this is from the
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  Speaker 9: book of uh f a A f o f a
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  Speaker 9: a f oh uh f around.
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  Speaker 2: And find out. Yeah, we need that now. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: read this book right here, pastor.
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  Speaker 9: Was written August the fifth, August the fifth, yeah, not
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  Speaker 9: the fourth, not to six y Yeah, August fire and
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  Speaker 9: say a frenzied brawl took shape on a Montgomery, Alabama riverfront.
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  Speaker 2: Doc. Stop right there.
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  Speaker 9: Oh we all remember this great day in black history. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 9: when a mob of angry white jumped on a black
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  Speaker 9: security guard Ria real, doc and sparked by a gang
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  Speaker 9: of white individual.
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  Speaker 2: Wise, stop right there. I said that already, Riya beating
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  Speaker 2: on Damian picket.
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  Speaker 9: Stop right there, everybody, No, you don't jump on nobody
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  Speaker 9: named Damon Rea a black river boat cold captain after
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  Speaker 9: he told them to move there illegally park stop right there,
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  Speaker 9: White folk.
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  Speaker 2: Alway parking for it.
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  Speaker 9: Ain't got no business, didn't expect to state read come on,
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  Speaker 9: I legally park pontoon boat to allow stop right there,
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  Speaker 9: start right there, pontoon boat, extra flotation devices good, hardy boat.
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  Speaker 2: Drinking on it, hard to turn.
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  Speaker 9: Over read to allow a river boat to doc stop
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  Speaker 9: right there. Black folks on the river boat, white folks
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  Speaker 9: on the platoon boat don't want to move to let
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  Speaker 9: the river boat with the pan customers on it doc
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  Speaker 9: so the ass is free read.
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  Speaker 2: Good, got the mighty good, got the mighty all right
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  Speaker 2: back let.
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  Speaker 9: A black man used a far olding ship to hit
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  Speaker 9: a white man and a white woman stop righting? Uh.
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  Speaker 6: Sometimes we used the Bible as inspiration.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, right, that's right, that's right, yes, sir, Yes, sir,
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  Speaker 9: David use a stone to slay the giant.
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  Speaker 2: That's what he did. That's what he did. We use
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  Speaker 2: a folding ship. Whoop a white man we.
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  Speaker 9: Got am alright all right now, al right right right
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  Speaker 9: right right, I just says, I says, what did I
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  Speaker 9: stop man? I'm uh, a black man use a folding
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  Speaker 9: tail to hit a white man and a white woman
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  Speaker 9: who had been punched and knocked down by multiple black women.
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  Speaker 9: Stop right there, yes, sir, key word multiple, which brings
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  Speaker 9: us to the saying.
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  Speaker 6: Don't start not won't be none as you said, Read.
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  Speaker 2: Now here we go past let not not now listen
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  Speaker 2: clothing Now.
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  Speaker 9: Some white people were thrown into the realm stop right there.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we, in.
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  Speaker 6: The goodness of our heart as Christians, Yeah, decided that
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  Speaker 6: even though we were whooping your aid, that you deserve
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  Speaker 6: to be baptized.
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  Speaker 2: Read whoa good God to miney good mine?
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  Speaker 9: Now it says right here pastor Damian Damian pigeon hook
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  Speaker 9: his hat off and threw it in the app.
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  Speaker 2: Stop right to it.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, yes, I For those of you that don't recognize
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  Speaker 9: what was going on, this was a signal, that's what
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  Speaker 9: That's what it was.
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  Speaker 11: Oh.
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  Speaker 9: Sometimes it's a smoke signal, Yeah right, that's right. Sometime
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  Speaker 9: it's a s s come on now.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes is nine one one. But this time it.
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  Speaker 9: Was a black cap that flew up in the air.
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  Speaker 9: Black people knew exactly what that meant. It meant help.
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  Speaker 9: It's too many of the moment black people start diving
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  Speaker 9: in the water, swimming towards the show. White people start
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  Speaker 9: looking around Tarna. It looked like a Tarzan movie in here.
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  Speaker 9: There's too many of them. They was over there woo
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  Speaker 9: and I do it a gettatoo.
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  Speaker 1: Now black.
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  Speaker 9: A black boy swam across the river as fast as
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  Speaker 9: he could to help Dami, who was in districts or
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  Speaker 9: stop right now.
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  Speaker 2: What the shock was all was day thank we case
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  Speaker 2: we because the surprise was what he got.
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  Speaker 6: Now he didn't come alone. Whoah, look at the power prayer.
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  Speaker 10: History Month. Yes it is, and we will celebrate what regardless. Okay,
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  Speaker 10: we'll also recap this weekend's headlines and trending topics, and
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  Speaker 10: that's all coming up at.
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  Speaker 1: The top of the hour.
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  Speaker 10: But right now it is time to ask the CLO
• 22:19
  Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. All right, Hello, this is
• 22:23
  Speaker 10: from Tracy and Syracuse. Tracy writes, I was upset with
• 22:27
  Speaker 10: my sister and I called her a B word. My
• 22:31
  Speaker 10: toddler told her what I called her, and she told
• 22:34
  Speaker 10: my child that she's a little be word.
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  Speaker 1: For repeating it, my.
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  Speaker 10: Sister won't apologize, so now we're not speaking. How could
• 22:41
  Speaker 10: she say that to my child?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? How could she see?
• 22:47
  Speaker 6: Your sister don't understand the number one gangster rule, be
• 22:51
  Speaker 6: wary of the person who brings the message to you.
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  Speaker 10: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 6: And that's what your sister did cause you to already
• 23:01
  Speaker 6: was offended. And then she thinking your little girl trying
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: to be messy? How old is the baby?
• 23:06
  Speaker 10: And she didn't say a toddler though.
• 23:12
  Speaker 6: Ain't nobody got a problem with the toddler talking like that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: But then the taler got it from the mama.
• 23:18
  Speaker 13: Yeah, kids are spunge just they soak up.
• 23:21
  Speaker 10: But she's wrong for that.
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she was wrong for attack before attacking the toddler
• 23:26
  Speaker 6: because off taler. You know exactly where that tddler got
• 23:29
  Speaker 6: it from. Correct, that's not it. That ain't that ain't
• 23:32
  Speaker 6: wah wah, that ain't mill that ain't you know? That's
• 23:39
  Speaker 6: yeah specific, So I think what your sister was wrong
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: for doing that. But now she don't want to apologize
• 23:48
  Speaker 6: to the to the little girl because she taking it
• 23:50
  Speaker 6: out on you and she sent the mess. She tried
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: to hurt you. So she tried to hurt the baby.
• 23:55
  Speaker 6: That's what that is and it ain't no getting around it.
• 23:58
  Speaker 6: You might have to slap your sister issue.
• 24:00
  Speaker 10: Okay, baby, all right? Moving on Colo to Elena and Tacoma.
• 24:08
  Speaker 10: Elena writes, my neighbor is dating my friend. Yesterday I
• 24:12
  Speaker 10: saw a female pull up with a bag of food
• 24:14
  Speaker 10: and she stayed all night. I told my friend the
• 24:19
  Speaker 10: guy told her it was a door dash delivery. This
• 24:22
  Speaker 10: is not his first time. Should I set him up
• 24:24
  Speaker 10: so she can see it for herself?
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  Speaker 1: Wow?
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  Speaker 2: So did.
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  Speaker 6: Because I never heard dough dash. So when dough dash come?
• 24:34
  Speaker 6: If they tied they stay at your house. They you know,
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: I just need to know. You need to know how
• 24:44
  Speaker 6: dough dash work. You's my fifth delivery tonight. Well come
• 24:51
  Speaker 6: on in and watch a little TV. Take a load
• 24:54
  Speaker 6: of You're everyone blanket right there. You know, I don't
• 25:01
  Speaker 6: know how He said do.
• 25:03
  Speaker 9: Dash though, but I don't know how do dash worked?
• 25:07
  Speaker 13: You know it's door, door dash, oh door?
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Oh they come to the door.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Oh you thought it was money? Do dash? Are you really?
• 25:25
  Speaker 6: I thought you meant hole dash?
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: My bad? Go ahead, sy all right.
• 25:31
  Speaker 10: Next this is from Findley and Lake. Charles Finley rights.
• 25:36
  Speaker 10: My wife was yelling at me about leaving a cup
• 25:39
  Speaker 10: in the sink, and she said she had to whoop
• 25:41
  Speaker 10: my But because I know better, I told her she
• 25:46
  Speaker 10: had me confused with our son because she said no
• 25:50
  Speaker 10: she didn't. But she said no, she didn't. How do
• 25:52
  Speaker 10: I stop this disrespect from continuing?
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Wow?
• 25:55
  Speaker 9: Oh you Budy gets your ass about him. Yeah, I'll
• 26:00
  Speaker 9: tell you what you need to test, and said, first
• 26:03
  Speaker 9: of all, leave.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Another cup in the sink. That's first.
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: Let's just get that started to see where we're going
• 26:08
  Speaker 6: from there, and then you handle it from there. You're
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: gonna find out if you're gonna get your uh behind.
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: What about this cup in the sink? That's what I
• 26:16
  Speaker 6: would at least look into that.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's not playing. She's playing zero games. She
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: tried to washing dishes. Why he can't wash this cup?
• 26:27
  Speaker 10: Okay, you got me confused with your with our son.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: We got to rule at our house though, where you
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: can't put no cups in the sink. You have to
• 26:38
  Speaker 6: put it next to the sink cause somebody put something
• 26:40
  Speaker 6: in there and chip the cup. So we can't do that.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: But you don't do dishes anyway.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: So I saw a dish washer the other day and
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: had to open it twice. I didn't even know that's
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: where it was.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Rich.
• 26:56
  Speaker 6: This is interesting because she has got cabinetree on the
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: front of it.
• 27:00
  Speaker 12: I thought it was the last so you selling it
• 27:06
  Speaker 12: was the last time you've been in the kitchen, all right,
• 27:11
  Speaker 12: last one, Steve, This is the last one.
• 27:13
  Speaker 10: This is from Regina in Detroit. Regina says, one of
• 27:16
  Speaker 10: my closest friends got married recently, and her husband doesn't
• 27:20
  Speaker 10: want us to be friends anymore after he found out
• 27:23
  Speaker 10: that me and his wife pulled around when we were
• 27:26
  Speaker 10: in our twenties. She's cut me off because of him.
• 27:30
  Speaker 10: Why would he do that?
• 27:31
  Speaker 6: Why would he do that? Because he don't want no
• 27:35
  Speaker 6: more trouble. Oh oh, so if y'all just freez now,
• 27:38
  Speaker 6: y'all don't remember what y'all did.
• 27:40
  Speaker 10: That was when they were in their twenties.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Though, you don't remember nothing from your twenties.
• 27:45
  Speaker 10: Yeah, of course, of course.
• 27:48
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And so that's what he's saying. No, that ain't cool, y'all.
• 27:51
  Speaker 6: I don't want y'all hanging out no more because he
• 27:53
  Speaker 6: don't want to have to deal with wondering what's going on.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I understand for selfish reason.
• 27:59
  Speaker 6: No, that's for jealousy and rights. You're my wife. I
• 28:03
  Speaker 6: don't want you over there with nobody that you messed
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: around with, period, what's what's the matter? But but what?
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: But what said?
• 28:12
  Speaker 10: Because I'm very closer close friends one of her closest friends.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: They was too damn close.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Think they got over it and moved on, Steve.
• 28:22
  Speaker 9: With all that all on for what is y'all Doing's
• 28:26
  Speaker 9: I got y'all close, but that's hey, that's too damn close.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: A friend.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: That's a girl.
• 28:34
  Speaker 10: I mean, you don't do that.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: That was more than friend.
• 28:36
  Speaker 10: In your twenties. Huh, you don't do the same thing
• 28:39
  Speaker 10: you used to do in your twenties.
• 28:41
  Speaker 6: Well, I can take you one thing. I never I
• 28:43
  Speaker 6: ain't never ever been with one of my friends, one
• 28:47
  Speaker 6: of your friends. So now, no, why you shouldn't even
• 28:50
  Speaker 6: have brought that up?
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Get bad?
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Who told? Oh?
• 28:59
  Speaker 14: Well, yeah, so that's it. So that's a no, that's
• 29:05
  Speaker 14: a hard note.
• 29:06
  Speaker 10: Okay, so she hasn't get new friends?
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: Now, yeah, we ain't finna do that no more.
• 29:13
  Speaker 10: So he can just come in and just make that
• 29:15
  Speaker 10: rule and like that and that's it.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Just like that.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: I don't see what the okay, ladies, there we go.
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: Let's stop all this right here. Your man and y'all
• 29:25
  Speaker 6: getting married. You find out that his so called friend
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: right now is a female and they used to sleep together,
• 29:33
  Speaker 6: and you cool with them continuing.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: To be friends. It ain't no different, that's different. Standard?
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: How is it different? Tell me?
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Its standard? First of all, we can't do.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: They slept together.
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: They did it.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: They fooled around. It's the same.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: It's not the same.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: And you know, well, okay, first of all, I know
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: it's not the.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: Same, thank you. We know it's a lot.
• 30:05
  Speaker 14: But I can't condone it, so all right, being a man,
• 30:11
  Speaker 14: you can't.
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  Speaker 10: All right, thank you, Colo. Coming up at the top
• 30:14
  Speaker 10: of the hour, we'll have a weekend recap for you
• 30:17
  Speaker 10: right after this. You're listening to the same Harvey Morning show. Well, guys,
• 30:23
  Speaker 10: it is Black History Month, whether you like it or not.
• 30:27
  Speaker 10: And it's Black History Month. Okay, we plan to celebrate
• 30:29
  Speaker 10: it regardless. But let's go to the headlines first. The
• 30:33
  Speaker 10: country has been in unrest the past few days over
• 30:37
  Speaker 10: back to back tragedies in our nation's capital and in Philadelphia.
• 30:41
  Speaker 10: The biggest tragedy is our commander in chief, Donald Trump.
• 30:46
  Speaker 10: So let's start with his initial response to the devastating
• 30:49
  Speaker 10: and avoidable loss of lives in the Potomac River last Wednesday.
• 30:53
  Speaker 10: Trump told reporters that he has a strong suspicion that
• 30:58
  Speaker 10: DEEI is the reason for the DC crash. Excuse me, excuse.
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: Me, that's hold. But their official reports are out now.
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: The military helicopter was flying above the one hundred foot
• 31:16
  Speaker 6: limit for helicopters that night. That's officially out.
• 31:21
  Speaker 10: Okay, they need to pass that along for the president. Oh,
• 31:26
  Speaker 10: because he also blamed the Biden and Obama administrations. Wow,
• 31:31
  Speaker 10: for the crash.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 31:33
  Speaker 10: He said that the Biden administration thought the Federal Aviation
• 31:37
  Speaker 10: Administration was too white and insinuated that diversity, equity and
• 31:42
  Speaker 10: inclusion took jobs from workers that are quote psychologically superior.
• 31:48
  Speaker 13: Why y'all vote for this man. It's beyond this man, right, Okay?
• 31:53
  Speaker 10: Basically Donald Pearn said white people are psychologically superior to us,
• 31:58
  Speaker 10: black people, other minorities as well. It's only been a month.
• 32:02
  Speaker 10: It's only been a month, guys. And Donald Trump has
• 32:04
  Speaker 10: already been called the worst president in history.
• 32:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah, he was that the first time, the first term.
• 32:14
  Speaker 5: Too.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 32:15
  Speaker 15: If he won't white people to be, you know, psychologically superior,
• 32:18
  Speaker 15: he needs to stop talking.
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: Yeah theory, you're throwing this right out to wonder. I
• 32:27
  Speaker 6: like him talking, but it just shows, I mean, it
• 32:31
  Speaker 6: completely exposes his thought process. You're looking at a guy
• 32:36
  Speaker 6: who can't run again. You're looking at a guy who
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: is going to do everything in his power to show
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: his power and he has nothing to lose. He gonna
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: pardon himself. He got rid of the Justice Department. All
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: these charges they waiting on him to get out of
• 32:52
  Speaker 6: office is gonna be gone. It's gonna be It's gonna
• 32:55
  Speaker 6: be nothing. This dude didn't got away, Scott free, Scott free.
• 33:00
  Speaker 13: He gonna change the constitution, try to run what he
• 33:04
  Speaker 13: can run again?
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I have another term third.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Okay, call, okay. So let's say he run again.
• 33:10
  Speaker 9: Yeah, then that means Obama can run again. Let's let's
• 33:16
  Speaker 9: rock again, Let's rock, Let's go and go for.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Let's do it.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: Let's do.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: But I don't think. I don't think. Just again, I don't.
• 33:33
  Speaker 9: I think Obama would save the world if he come
• 33:36
  Speaker 9: back and go against him.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: I think so.
• 33:38
  Speaker 13: But that's why they like this, not because they couldn't
• 33:40
  Speaker 13: handle him the first time.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: That's why he's losing because he was a black man.
• 33:46
  Speaker 6: Well but see everybody that's voted for him, this is
• 33:50
  Speaker 6: what we got. This is what we have. And I'm
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: not I'm just watching it all. But I can't say no, no, no, no,
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: I told you it's notine none to nine.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: He told you.
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: But what But what a lot of common people don't
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: know is these policies were going to affect them because
• 34:12
  Speaker 6: what they did not realize was he never cared about them.
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: He cared about the rich. He gonna do whatever. And
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: I tell you what else he just did. He just
• 34:20
  Speaker 6: put them tariffs on Mexico, Canada and China. Those tariffs
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: are gonna raise prices. Now he's trying to hide it
• 34:32
  Speaker 6: like he's doing that because he wants to tax fitting
• 34:37
  Speaker 6: all when it comes in.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: But y'all don't know where to fit and all that.
• 34:44
  Speaker 9: This crazy bro I've been watching TV.
• 34:48
  Speaker 6: Man, I'm watching this. He's hiding it under the drug stuff.
• 34:52
  Speaker 6: But America never addresses the real problem. We are the
• 34:55
  Speaker 6: number one consumer of recreational drugs in the world. It's
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: supply and demand. They can't ship it over here unless
• 35:03
  Speaker 6: we bind it. That's the problem. We need to start
• 35:07
  Speaker 6: at tackling.
• 35:08
  Speaker 10: It's a mess. We still have to say our prayers
• 35:11
  Speaker 10: and our condolences to Philly. On Friday night, a medevac
• 35:15
  Speaker 10: airplane crashed after departing from Northeast to Philadelphia Airport. On
• 35:19
  Speaker 10: board was a pediatric patient and her mom, who were
• 35:23
  Speaker 10: returning home to Tijuana, Mexico, after the child had been
• 35:26
  Speaker 10: treated for an illness at Philadelphia's Shriner's Children's Hospital. Also
• 35:31
  Speaker 10: on board were four crew members, a pilot, a co pilot, paramedic,
• 35:34
  Speaker 10: and doctor. All six people that died on the plane
• 35:38
  Speaker 10: were Mexican nationals on One other person was killed in
• 35:42
  Speaker 10: a car and at least nineteen other people were injured
• 35:46
  Speaker 10: on the ground. So, you know, our prayers and condolences
• 35:51
  Speaker 10: so sad. Yeah, this is just and back to back.
• 35:55
  Speaker 10: I think that's what is so hurtful as well. You know,
• 35:58
  Speaker 10: we weren't recovered from the first one and then the
• 36:00
  Speaker 10: second one happened.
• 36:02
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 36:03
  Speaker 13: Yeah, And it's sad that the president has this all diversity.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: He's just coming after diversity. It's just sickness. You're racist.
• 36:13
  Speaker 10: I mean, the fact that he can stay out of
• 36:16
  Speaker 10: his mouth now psychologically superior, come on, who.
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: He's But you know, look, he's always felt that way.
• 36:25
  Speaker 6: He's in that age bracket where they constantly feel that way.
• 36:28
  Speaker 6: There are newborn people who feel that way too. It's
• 36:32
  Speaker 6: just like Martin Luther King said, some people are born
• 36:35
  Speaker 6: with the drum major instinct and simply think they are
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: out front and leading simply by the color of your skin. Yeah,
• 36:42
  Speaker 6: and that's what we have here.
• 36:46
  Speaker 14: Yeah, he's making money and skin related policies.
• 36:51
  Speaker 10: Yeah yeah, all right, again, our condolence is going out
• 36:55
  Speaker 10: to those families now coming up at twenty minutes after
• 36:58
  Speaker 10: the hour we'll switch gear where Carla will be coming
• 37:01
  Speaker 10: back with a recap of the Grammys right after this.
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  Speaker 10: All right, Carla is here with Grammy News. Break it down, Carla, please,
• 37:49
  Speaker 10: what happened?
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 37:52
  Speaker 13: So the Grammys was last night and the emphasis on
• 37:56
  Speaker 13: the show was offering a to those effective Bopa La wildfires.
• 38:01
  Speaker 13: It was it was really really nice. So they were
• 38:03
  Speaker 13: doing Yes, Yes, Trepanoa was back as the host. Yes,
• 38:10
  Speaker 13: good job, good job Beyonce, our girl finally finally one
• 38:15
  Speaker 13: album of the year.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, come on h Town.
• 38:20
  Speaker 13: Yes she absolutely never won, no, not since nineteen ninety nine.
• 38:26
  Speaker 13: A black woman has won. Lauren Hill won for the
• 38:29
  Speaker 13: Miseducation of Lauren Hill.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: I still don't understand how p D. Pablo ain't when.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I don't, right.
• 38:42
  Speaker 13: But be was presented the Grammys the La County Firefighters.
• 38:46
  Speaker 13: They got a chance to walk the red carpet and
• 38:49
  Speaker 13: then they presented that award the Selfless Heroes, and she rose.
• 38:54
  Speaker 13: It was beautiful and Beyonce one Album of the Year.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: She also she also became the.
• 39:01
  Speaker 13: First black woman to win Best Country Album of this.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Because yes, d he gonna have a.
• 39:12
  Speaker 13: Bit and he's gonna throw a tantrum this morning.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 39:17
  Speaker 13: I loved part of her acceptance speech. She said she
• 39:20
  Speaker 13: thinks the word genre is used just to keep people
• 39:24
  Speaker 13: in their place, and so congratulations. It was so cute
• 39:27
  Speaker 13: when she won that award. First, she was sitting there
• 39:30
  Speaker 13: and she was shocked. She was genuinely shocked that she
• 39:34
  Speaker 13: won Country Album of the Year, and her daughter Blue
• 39:36
  Speaker 13: Ivy looked at her like, Mama, get up.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: I did not know.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Isn't she beautiful growing up? Yeah, she's a beautiful young lady,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: all right. Kendrick Lamar one Big five, mystad five. Yes,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: they not like us. Best Rap Song The legendary.
• 39:56
  Speaker 13: Diana Ross, the Boss was there and she presented Kendrick
• 40:01
  Speaker 13: the Grammy for Record of the Year.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: They not like us. He was like, oh, I'm a fan.
• 40:05
  Speaker 13: Diana Ross presented me with the residents, right and let
• 40:10
  Speaker 13: me get to it.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Will Smith made his first.
• 40:12
  Speaker 13: Appearance, had a live awards show ship right the Oscars.
• 40:17
  Speaker 13: He was a presenter to the All Star tribute to
• 40:20
  Speaker 13: Quincy Jones, Cynthia Rebo, Saint Hull.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: But I'll fly into the moon woo.
• 40:25
  Speaker 13: She was called Stevie Wonder played the harmonica sitting right
• 40:30
  Speaker 13: next to Herbie Hancock, Steve Legends in the building. Janelle
• 40:35
  Speaker 13: Money performed Don't Stop Till You Get Enough tribute of course.
• 40:39
  Speaker 13: Michael Jackson, Quincy Jones produced thriller. Queen Latifa presented Alicia
• 40:43
  Speaker 13: Keys with the Doctor Drake Global Impact Awards. Her speech
• 40:46
  Speaker 13: was good and she said, DEEI is not a threat,
• 40:50
  Speaker 13: It's a gift. Drop the Michae Alicia Keys the Grammys
• 40:53
  Speaker 13: last night.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: There you go, Shirley Girl.
• 40:57
  Speaker 10: Great job, Carla, thank you coming up. It is our girl,
• 41:00
  Speaker 10: old sister hotel. Right after this, you're listening Steve Hard
• 41:04
  Speaker 10: Morning Show. Well ladies and gentlemen as logs, all ride
• 41:15
  Speaker 10: with me.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: It's gloat red, good Morning's everyone's hotel.
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: Well, I ain't gonna waste no time. I just come
• 41:26
  Speaker 9: out the hospital.
• 41:28
  Speaker 13: Really were you?
• 41:30
  Speaker 9: We didn't?
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: I have catrick surgery. You have catrick surgery.
• 41:35
  Speaker 14: I can see my OUs all better now.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: I got these glasses on. Now I can see it.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: It's too much.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: It's just too much.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: It's everything is so close.
• 41:55
  Speaker 9: Thank God for it, don't you know? I had asked
• 41:59
  Speaker 9: him what's the age lent me to get it done?
• 42:01
  Speaker 9: And they said, normally, you know, it's up to about
• 42:04
  Speaker 9: sixty ma'am. But I prayed about it and went on
• 42:07
  Speaker 9: and had it done anyway.
• 42:09
  Speaker 10: Okay, and you can see now that's great.
• 42:12
  Speaker 9: Well, you know at my age, you know, they went
• 42:14
  Speaker 9: in there to remove my cat tracks and then they
• 42:17
  Speaker 9: didn't even find them. They had dissolved, so I don't
• 42:23
  Speaker 9: know what they did. I was out for about thirty minutes.
• 42:25
  Speaker 9: I got some eye drops, and Lord have mercy. Is
• 42:28
  Speaker 9: just better now.
• 42:30
  Speaker 10: I know that you've seen that.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: You know I'm looking at fine print now.
• 42:36
  Speaker 13: Oh oh okay, and that's hold it away, you know,
• 42:41
  Speaker 13: got kind of hold it back.
• 42:42
  Speaker 9: My one of my grandkids told me to take my
• 42:45
  Speaker 9: telephone and put the picture, put the.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Photo thing on it and it'll zume it in for you. Okay.
• 42:51
  Speaker 9: That's the only problem was I couldn't find the icon
• 42:55
  Speaker 9: on the on the phone.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I couldn't see that to do it.
• 42:58
  Speaker 9: I couldn't see that so clearly anyway, what else is
• 43:03
  Speaker 9: going on?
• 43:04
  Speaker 11: Well?
• 43:04
  Speaker 10: I wanted to ask you, sister Hotel about you know,
• 43:08
  Speaker 10: this Sunday is the super Bowl, but these seventeen Louisiana
• 43:13
  Speaker 10: Republican legislators are asking that the performers, you know, Kendrick
• 43:18
  Speaker 10: Lamar at the super Bowl halftime show, will sign a
• 43:22
  Speaker 10: contract which states that they won't do anything lude during
• 43:26
  Speaker 10: their performance. So I just wanted to ask.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: You won't do that loud in New Orleans?
• 43:31
  Speaker 10: Yes, ma'am.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: What's your take on it?
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well they got a lot of nerd.
• 43:37
  Speaker 9: That's a whole lot of nerve. Ain't these the same people?
• 43:41
  Speaker 9: So it's got the French Quada Olton twenty four.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Hours a day.
• 43:45
  Speaker 9: Yeah, you go in there and watch a monkey do
• 43:49
  Speaker 9: some things he ain't supposed to do a monkey. You
• 43:52
  Speaker 9: walk right on and there they got women's in that
• 43:55
  Speaker 9: and they're selling on a strip of shoals.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: And all this here you can walk around. You're in
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: Louise Honer.
• 44:01
  Speaker 9: You walking around with an open container and they don't
• 44:04
  Speaker 9: give it there?
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: What's isn't it dack or whatever?
• 44:08
  Speaker 9: Then they got women in here pulling their clothes off,
• 44:12
  Speaker 9: sitting up in here, pulling their clothes off, drawing it,
• 44:15
  Speaker 9: making their brows come up, just for a pack of beads.
• 44:19
  Speaker 9: And now they want the rappers to sign for indecen
• 44:22
  Speaker 9: See the whole damn city ain't decent.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: We don't. We don't want to stop that part.
• 44:28
  Speaker 10: Are you plenty on going to the to the Super Bowl?
• 44:31
  Speaker 11: Oh?
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: I goes down there every year to save souls.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, yes, man. And that's how I do it.
• 44:39
  Speaker 9: I take a bunch of beads and if you pull
• 44:40
  Speaker 9: your top up, then I know you need Jesus.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Oh you carried a lot of beads.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's how I know who need to repent.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: That's the boot I said. It's a tricky move.
• 44:54
  Speaker 9: I got purse full of beads and my throw them
• 44:56
  Speaker 9: at you and you pull your top up, I get
• 44:58
  Speaker 9: you you yourself?
• 45:02
  Speaker 10: Or is it with the Missionary board or.
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: Just a group of us, you know, because once we
• 45:06
  Speaker 6: throw the beads, we don't let you keep them because
• 45:08
  Speaker 6: I'm not buying beads every year.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: That ain't what you're doing with them. I got them
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: from some Catholic people.
• 45:16
  Speaker 9: In your younger years, did you ever pull your top
• 45:18
  Speaker 9: up and get some beads?
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Interesting, now, look who then jumped in here? In your
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: younger years? Did you have half? Yes?
• 45:33
  Speaker 9: I did.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: In your younger years, you ever jumped and thought you
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: were tall? Never answered the question right? In your younger years?
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: Did you always had him glasses on?
• 45:51
  Speaker 9: Because maybe you need to get yourself some cadre surgery cataract.
• 45:55
  Speaker 10: It is the nephew in the frank phone call for today,
• 45:58
  Speaker 10: thank you since your death. You're listening to the Steve
• 46:02
  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show coming up at about four minutes after
• 46:06
  Speaker 10: the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and the
• 46:09
  Speaker 10: subject is I love him, but I feel like we're stuck. Okay,
• 46:15
  Speaker 10: we'll get into that, find out what that's all about.
• 46:18
  Speaker 9: We all have are going through that, though not all
• 46:21
  Speaker 9: of us.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Right now, it's time.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: We all are going through this.
• 46:28
  Speaker 10: Go ahead there, it's time for the nephew and today's
• 46:33
  Speaker 10: prank phone phone call. What you got for his neph?
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: All right, shall be going down to the church.
• 46:38
  Speaker 9: This right here is the church Gospel quiz. The Church
• 46:45
  Speaker 9: Gospel Quiz. There's a white guy married to a black woman.
• 46:51
  Speaker 9: So if you're gonna come to our church, there's some
• 46:54
  Speaker 9: things you need to know. There's some things you need
• 46:57
  Speaker 9: to know, there's some customs that you need to be away.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 47:00
  Speaker 9: This is what what we're gonna do, is we're gonna
• 47:02
  Speaker 9: go through the Church Gospel Quiz so we can get
• 47:07
  Speaker 9: him on the same path that we own. Because because
• 47:10
  Speaker 9: you know that's that's just how we do. When you
• 47:12
  Speaker 9: come up in our church, you even know how we roll. Okay,
• 47:15
  Speaker 9: all right, cat dog, if you would the Church Gospel quid.
• 47:22
  Speaker 11: This is Grant, our grand Grant Stevens. Right. Yes, hey,
• 47:27
  Speaker 11: hey Greg, this is brother Lewis Finley. I'm calling from
• 47:30
  Speaker 11: Mount Siny Missionary Baptist Church. You you and your wife
• 47:34
  Speaker 11: just joined a couple of weeks ago, am I right?
• 47:37
  Speaker 16: Absolutely?
• 47:38
  Speaker 11: Yes? Okay, So now listen, I wanted to reach out
• 47:43
  Speaker 11: to you. I know you guys have started the uh
• 47:46
  Speaker 11: the orientation and from my understanding, you you finished one
• 47:50
  Speaker 11: one class of the orientation. You got three more to go?
• 47:52
  Speaker 11: Is that right? Yeah? All right, all right, all right. So,
• 47:56
  Speaker 11: first of all, I want to say welcome to Mount
• 47:59
  Speaker 11: Sinai and and I hope you are enjoying yourself. I
• 48:02
  Speaker 11: know that you and your wife are a mixed couple.
• 48:06
  Speaker 11: You you're a Caucasian and she's she's black. Are you
• 48:10
  Speaker 11: Are you liking the church so far? Grant?
• 48:13
  Speaker 16: Absolutely, we really are enjoying it. We completed our first
• 48:17
  Speaker 16: orientation and uh yeah, so far, we're really enjoying it.
• 48:20
  Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, did I catch it at a bad time.
• 48:23
  Speaker 16: I am a work right now, but it's okay. I've
• 48:25
  Speaker 16: got a couple, I've got a couple of.
• 48:26
  Speaker 11: Minutes, Okay, okay. I just wanted to call you, man.
• 48:30
  Speaker 11: I was worried I know you, because I don't think
• 48:32
  Speaker 11: you noticed. But you are the first Caucasian to join
• 48:36
  Speaker 11: our church, and I just want to make sure you
• 48:39
  Speaker 11: kind of knew the language and and just just kind
• 48:44
  Speaker 11: of knowing what the Black Church is all about. And
• 48:46
  Speaker 11: there's certain sayings and different things I think you should know,
• 48:50
  Speaker 11: so that you know. I just don't want you to
• 48:52
  Speaker 11: say that the wrong thing while you.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: At the church.
• 48:55
  Speaker 11: If that makes sense, okay, okay, So so what I
• 48:59
  Speaker 11: wanted to like, I wanted to give you a little
• 49:02
  Speaker 11: Black Church quiz so you can kind of maybe if
• 49:06
  Speaker 11: you could let me know where you are, you know,
• 49:09
  Speaker 11: if you're on a lower level or a high level
• 49:11
  Speaker 11: as far as being knowledgeable about the Black Church like steel,
• 49:15
  Speaker 11: This blank in for me, grant And if you don't matter,
• 49:18
  Speaker 11: I just want to take a little bit of your
• 49:19
  Speaker 11: time and I'll let you get back to work. But
• 49:21
  Speaker 11: first of all, give a blank to God? What would
• 49:27
  Speaker 11: go in that blank? Right there? First of all, give
• 49:29
  Speaker 11: a blank to God.
• 49:31
  Speaker 16: Now I can think of something has give thanks to God?
• 49:36
  Speaker 11: No, see that's wrong. See that's wrong. See see what
• 49:39
  Speaker 11: it is is. First of all, give a honor to God.
• 49:42
  Speaker 11: All right? Remember that. First of all, give an honor
• 49:45
  Speaker 11: to God. You got that?
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 49:46
  Speaker 11: Yes, yes, okay. First of all, give an honor to God,
• 49:50
  Speaker 11: who is the blank of my life? What what? What
• 49:55
  Speaker 11: goes in the blank? First of all, give an honor
• 49:57
  Speaker 11: to God, who is the blank of my life, the
• 50:01
  Speaker 11: love of my life. No, no, see that's that's that's
• 50:05
  Speaker 11: that's wrong. First of all, give an honor to God,
• 50:08
  Speaker 11: who is the head of my life. Are you sure that?
• 50:14
  Speaker 16: I'm sorry, Okay, I was just are you sure? Are
• 50:16
  Speaker 16: you sure about that?
• 50:17
  Speaker 11: Oh? I'm definitely sure about Man, don't, don't. Don't. What
• 50:20
  Speaker 11: I don't want you to do is question what I know.
• 50:23
  Speaker 11: I'm from the Black Church. I know you.
• 50:25
  Speaker 16: No, I wasn't. I wasn't questioning you, sir. I wasn't question.
• 50:27
  Speaker 11: I'm sorry.
• 50:27
  Speaker 16: I just always heard it that way.
• 50:29
  Speaker 11: But okay, So so I'm trying to give you the
• 50:33
  Speaker 11: understanding of knowing what the Black Church is about.
• 50:35
  Speaker 16: You know what I'm saying, I understand. I'm just I
• 50:38
  Speaker 16: appreciate you.
• 50:38
  Speaker 11: I apologize, Okay.
• 50:40
  Speaker 16: No, No, Look, i don't know these answers obviously, but
• 50:45
  Speaker 16: I've got a meeting. I got to get you here
• 50:46
  Speaker 16: in a minute like this. I'm curious if everyone in
• 50:49
  Speaker 16: the church gets these stone calls.
• 50:50
  Speaker 11: Well wait a minute, wait a minute, grand I know what,
• 50:52
  Speaker 11: you have a meeting, But what's more important your meeting
• 50:54
  Speaker 11: or knowing your position at the Black Church? What what's
• 50:58
  Speaker 11: more important?
• 51:00
  Speaker 16: I really don't have time for this right now. I
• 51:02
  Speaker 16: can't believe it's actually happening, Like, did you did your
• 51:04
  Speaker 16: pastor even know that you're calling you right now?
• 51:07
  Speaker 11: Well? No, I took the liberty of myself when I
• 51:09
  Speaker 11: realized you was Caucasian, that I would call and try
• 51:12
  Speaker 11: to help you so you would know what to do
• 51:14
  Speaker 11: when you're in the black church when people are saying
• 51:16
  Speaker 11: certain things you okay, okay, Grant, if you don't, man,
• 51:21
  Speaker 11: just do this funny Grant, like, do you know what
• 51:24
  Speaker 11: hooping is? Hooping?
• 51:26
  Speaker 16: Like, who's a hooping?
• 51:28
  Speaker 11: No, hooping is when the pastor is at the end
• 51:32
  Speaker 11: of his sermon. So listen to this, good God him
• 51:39
  Speaker 11: do that funny if you If you would, Grant, Oh hell,
• 51:46
  Speaker 11: oh god, oh man, no no, no more, come on
• 51:51
  Speaker 11: you women, Oh good God hot him like I gotta get.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: I can't believe him? Oh no no, yeah, oh god holmighty?
• 52:06
  Speaker 11: Okay go Hey Greg, do you think maybe as possible
• 52:12
  Speaker 11: as Dick mean, you could have some sessions before you
• 52:16
  Speaker 11: come back to the church and I can prepare you more.
• 52:19
  Speaker 16: Hey man, listen, you have caught me at a really
• 52:22
  Speaker 16: bad time, and I'm quite honestly just so frustrated. Like
• 52:26
  Speaker 16: I've never heard of a quiz like this. I'm really offended,
• 52:29
  Speaker 16: to be honest with you, Like, do you guys not
• 52:30
  Speaker 16: want me to go to your church?
• 52:32
  Speaker 11: Anymore.
• 52:33
  Speaker 16: Like, as a matter of fact, dude, you should be
• 52:35
  Speaker 16: calling my wife right now.
• 52:36
  Speaker 11: She's black. Well, she should already know the quolest questions
• 52:41
  Speaker 11: you the ones. Don't know how I'm gonna call. I
• 52:43
  Speaker 11: should call you.
• 52:44
  Speaker 16: I am at work right now. I have a meeting
• 52:46
  Speaker 16: to get you in just a minute. I don't know
• 52:48
  Speaker 16: what you're doing.
• 52:50
  Speaker 11: And I hold on a second.
• 52:51
  Speaker 16: I have got to close my office door. This is
• 52:53
  Speaker 16: so embarrassing. I have never ever received a phone call
• 52:58
  Speaker 16: like this in my life. And you better be lucky.
• 53:01
  Speaker 16: I mean, I want to talk to your pastor. I
• 53:03
  Speaker 16: am going to talk to him next Sunday.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: No joke.
• 53:06
  Speaker 11: Well, I didn't mean to put you to get hostile
• 53:08
  Speaker 11: like that. I didn't mean to get you. I didn't
• 53:09
  Speaker 11: mean to upset you or nothing like that. What cannot
• 53:12
  Speaker 11: Can I say something else to you? One last thing?
• 53:15
  Speaker 11: And I have to go, Okay, I just want to
• 53:18
  Speaker 11: let you know that this is nephew. Tell me from
• 53:21
  Speaker 11: the Steve Harbit Morning Show. Your wife Carolyn got me
• 53:25
  Speaker 11: to brank phone call you. Shut up, Shut up. I
• 53:36
  Speaker 11: am sore.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: I am so sorry.
• 53:40
  Speaker 11: Oh you're good, you alight, I'm all right, man, I'm.
• 53:44
  Speaker 16: Alright, a little embarrassed, but I'm alright, Greg.
• 53:47
  Speaker 11: You gotta do it for me one more time. Oh
• 53:53
  Speaker 11: oh no, no, yeah, God, okay, man, look at you
• 54:01
  Speaker 11: this for me. Tell me what is the baddest, I mean,
• 54:03
  Speaker 11: the baddest radio show in the land.
• 54:07
  Speaker 16: The Steve Harvey Morning Show all the way.
• 54:11
  Speaker 9: And now you have it right there, right down, Come on,
• 54:16
  Speaker 9: come on, get just just just just give me my probers.
• 54:22
  Speaker 9: Maybe maybe today I need some some some praising pranks
• 54:25
  Speaker 9: up in here. Can I get some prank praising here?
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: Thank you?
• 54:30
  Speaker 10: King King?
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: No, you know that's what little only one you know
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: he needs that.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Well, well, let me know. I am the on this
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: show doing pranks, So I guess you is the best.
• 54:48
  Speaker 13: Lord.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: That's that's that's how they do it.
• 54:51
  Speaker 9: I this coming weekend, I am in Memphis, Tennessee, Memphis
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  Speaker 9: Baby soundstage, that's right, sound stage, Graceland.
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  Speaker 2: The Nephew is come into town laying in the greatest
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  Speaker 9: Huh yeah, yeah, I am huh And I'm lexingdon good Tucky,
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  Speaker 9: don't be the greatest come through that in March.
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: Yes, what what say? Oh? Yes you are? Oh, thank you,
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: thank you?
• 55:16
  Speaker 10: All right, all right, nephew coming up next Strawberry Letter
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  Speaker 1: We could be.
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  Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
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  Speaker 2: We got a fully heavity and Strawberry.
• 56:23
  Speaker 10: Letter, thank you nephew subject. I love him, but I
• 56:28
  Speaker 10: feel like we're stuck. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've known my
• 56:31
  Speaker 10: husband for seven years and he is still saying that
• 56:35
  Speaker 10: everything we have hoped for and stuff we dream about
• 56:37
  Speaker 10: will happen soon. Meanwhile, he stopped being eager to look
• 56:41
  Speaker 10: at at new homes for us, even though I'm pregnant
• 56:44
  Speaker 10: and his parents' old three bedroom house is too small
• 56:48
  Speaker 10: for us. We are a lot of commotion at night
• 56:50
  Speaker 10: on our street, but he thinks that this area will
• 56:53
  Speaker 10: be gentrified soon and will be instant millionaires if we
• 56:57
  Speaker 10: wait to sell the house. I've been working hard and
• 57:00
  Speaker 10: saving money. I got a second job to buy the
• 57:03
  Speaker 10: essentials for our first child, and he always says it's
• 57:06
  Speaker 10: a waste of money because the baby won't care how
• 57:09
  Speaker 10: the room looks. It's a struggle to spend money to
• 57:12
  Speaker 10: better myself or him. I buy what I want him
• 57:16
  Speaker 10: to wear, and he will wear most of what I buy,
• 57:18
  Speaker 10: unless he thinks it was too expensive. After a year
• 57:22
  Speaker 10: of marriage, he started penny pinching. We stopped taking vacations,
• 57:26
  Speaker 10: and he cut up my American Express card. He said,
• 57:29
  Speaker 10: that's how marriage goes. He then started saying that I
• 57:32
  Speaker 10: want to keep up with everyone I see on social media,
• 57:36
  Speaker 10: and he's right. I do want to have a lavish
• 57:39
  Speaker 10: lifestyle because we work hard and shouldn't have to accept less.
• 57:43
  Speaker 10: I would like a new home close to better schools,
• 57:46
  Speaker 10: and I want to get a small SUV since I'm
• 57:48
  Speaker 10: having his baby. There is nothing wrong with doing better,
• 57:52
  Speaker 10: and I keep telling him that he needs to change
• 57:54
  Speaker 10: his mindset. I don't know why he snapped out after
• 57:58
  Speaker 10: we got married, but we are stuck in the same
• 58:00
  Speaker 10: lifestyle and that we had when we started dating. I
• 58:05
  Speaker 10: hate to say it, but I regret marrying him sometimes.
• 58:08
  Speaker 10: I was fly a f before I met my husband.
• 58:11
  Speaker 10: How can I turn this hopeless?
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: What that means, sir?
• 58:17
  Speaker 10: You know what it means?
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: You don't know what that means for.
• 58:22
  Speaker 10: Okay, I'll tell you. I'll tell you off ear, ya
• 58:25
  Speaker 10: know what it means. Or I have to get someone
• 58:27
  Speaker 10: that curses and then I'll.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Fly fly as all right. You know what it means.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: It's the same f as f A A F.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: Is the Federal Aviation Association.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: All right, So you know what?
• 58:51
  Speaker 10: You guys really couldn't be more unequally yoked at this point,
• 58:54
  Speaker 10: I mean, you have nothing in common. You were right
• 58:58
  Speaker 10: in the sense that there's nothing wrong with wanting to
• 59:01
  Speaker 10: be better and elevate yourself in life. There's nothing wrong
• 59:04
  Speaker 10: with that.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: Having a.
• 59:06
  Speaker 10: Successful mindset is nothing wrong with that. But not if
• 59:10
  Speaker 10: you can't afford it. Okay, you don't like it, but
• 59:13
  Speaker 10: your husband is right because he knows you're trying to
• 59:16
  Speaker 10: live a lie right now, not if you want to
• 59:19
  Speaker 10: live way above your means.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: He's looking out for his family.
• 59:22
  Speaker 10: It seems he knows the baby is coming and living
• 59:26
  Speaker 10: in instagram lifestyle should not be a role.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: Model for you.
• 59:29
  Speaker 10: You have to get something that's more real. Only some
• 59:33
  Speaker 10: of those people really live like that on Instagram. And
• 59:37
  Speaker 10: those people who are balling out like that, you need
• 59:39
  Speaker 10: to check their bank accounts because for all you know,
• 59:42
  Speaker 10: they could be living from paycheck to paycheck, okay, and
• 59:45
  Speaker 10: pinching pennies like you say your husband is doing. And
• 59:48
  Speaker 10: guess what, A lot of them really don't look like
• 59:50
  Speaker 10: that on social media. It's smoking mirrors, it's filters. We
• 59:54
  Speaker 10: talk about that a lot on this show. You can
• 59:56
  Speaker 10: get all kinds of apps and change your skin, your eyes, body,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 10: all of that. So I just say to you, your
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 10: husband is not wrong. He might have some communication issues
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 10: and not know how to express his frustration to you.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 10: So you got to take that into consideration and concentrate
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 10: on being a real person, flaws and all. Be authentically.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 10: You don't let social media dictate to you how you
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 10: should live. Be happy, appreciate where you are, be grateful
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 10: without social media because you and your husband have major
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 10: life stuff going on right now, life changing things. You
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 10: got a baby coming. You need to be a good
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 10: example for your baby and not let's try to do
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 10: what the people on social media do that you say, Steve.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 6: I agree with you, Shirley in some respects, but I
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 6: also understand what this lady is saying, and this is
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: a hard spot for her to be In the title
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 6: of the letter is I love him, but I feel
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 6: like we're stuck. Well, you know, and your husband's seven.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Years and he's still saying that everything we have.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 6: Hoped for and stuff we dream about what happens soon,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 6: she says. Meanwhile, he stopped being eager to look at
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 6: new homes for us, even though I'm pregnant and we
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 6: live in his parents' own three bed roomhouse. When a
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 6: person says he stopped being eager. What does that really mean?
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 6: Because if he's saying we're going to have everything we
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 6: hope for and stuff we dream about, it'll happen soon.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: But he stopped being eager, meaning he's stopped.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 6: What this means is he has stopped making effort and
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 6: he stopped making moves. Now we have a problem, because
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 6: guess what, Faith without works is dead.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: And I think that's what we have here.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 6: A man that's saying everything gonna be all right, a
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 6: man that's believing that everything gonna be all right, but
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 6: a man and it ain't doing nothing to make it right.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: That's what this letter is really about.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 6: Now she's looking at stuff and not she wants to
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 6: move out the house because she says it's already too
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 6: small for us. Then he said she you know, she said,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 6: we are a lot of commotion going on that night
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 6: on our street. But he thinks that this area will
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 6: be gentrified soon and we'll be instant millionaires. Well, bro,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 6: when the neighborhood is gentrified, that means they move out
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 6: all the people that's in it to bring in new people.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 10: All right, hang on, Steve with that thought, Well, that
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 10: part two of your response coming up at twenty three
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 10: minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject is I
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 10: love him, but I feel like we're stuck.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:02:53
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• 1:03:29
  Speaker 10: come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 10: is I love him, but I feel like we're stuck.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 6: Now, Shirley made some good points when she addressed a
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 6: letter because this woman is caught up in social media,
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: which is all true what she said, but she has
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: a double plamme of a problem because she feels like
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: they're stuck.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: Y'all been married seven years.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 6: He's still saying everything we had hope for and stuff
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 6: we dream about going to happen soon. The problem is,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 6: she says, he stopped being eager to look at new
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 6: homes and all this here, and he don't want to move.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 6: And you know, he thinking that if they stay in
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 6: this house, gentrification is coming and if they hold on,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 6: it'll be millionaires.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: Well, you know here's a problem. Faith without works is dead.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: He still thinks they gonna have everything, but he's making
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 6: no effort and no moves to make it happen.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: That's why the scripture says, faith without works is dead.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 6: So you can want and hope all you want, but
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 6: if you ain't willing to do nothing what you want
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 6: to happen. And that's where this woman is stuck at
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 6: with him. Now they're about to have this baby and
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 6: she want to go out and fix the room up.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 6: He said, it's a waste of money because the baby
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 6: don't care how the room look. Well, the baby might not,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 6: but she do. And she the mama, and she having
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 6: a baby, she's gonna go in there and sit in
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 6: the new crib and rocking chair and you know, bassing
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 6: that and have stuff for the baby that other babies have.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: You don't even want your baby to have nothing, So
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: you don't want nothing.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 6: You don't want your wife to quit want nothing, and
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 6: now you don't want to get a baby a damn thing.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: Man, Come on, man, and then he will back.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 9: He will wear, but he will wear most of what
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 9: you buy unless he thinks it's too expressive.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: Now he just want cheap stuff. Better. What that white
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: shirt called forty dollars? You know you get a white
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: shirt for fifteen dollars.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 6: Okay, he started penny After a year of marriage, he
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 6: started penny pinching. We stopped taking vacations and he caught
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 6: up my American Express car. Got talk man, he said,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 6: that's how marriage goes. Now, our pardoner, that's how divorce go.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 6: He then started saying that I want to keep on
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 6: everybody I see on social media, and he's right. I
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 6: do want to have a leverage lifestyle because we work
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 6: hard and we shouldn't have to accept lesson.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: I would like a new home.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 6: Close to a better school, and I want to get
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 6: a small SUV since I'm having his there's nothing wrong
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 6: with doing better.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: I keep telling it. He needs to change his mindset.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 6: I don't know why he snapped out after we got married,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 6: but we are stuck in the same lifestyle and we
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 6: have we stuck in the same lifestyle we had when
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 6: we started dating. I hate to say it this at
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 6: the beginning of the end, but I regret marrying him sometime. God, dog,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 6: I'd have tied myself to this. Won't nothing, do nothing
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: as made God. I was fly then on what that's
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: what the letter I was? Oh no, it's said Combs.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 6: It's say I was fly a l Oh yeah, oh,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 6: I had forgot that what it said? I was paraphrasingly,
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 6: I was flying at before I met my husband. I
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 6: have made this trick. Now I'm sitting in here looking
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 6: like a damn Debbie don't knob when I go to work.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 6: Now I'm sitting them been here with damn house coach
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 6: on the way they move me ass dressed. I'm tired
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 6: of going to work looking like I ought to be
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 6: in the back making grits and stuff. I'm sick of
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 6: that's right here. I used to be flying hell when
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 6: I met you, I had everything.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: I was popping.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 6: I'm still being married Jo soryd. Now I had to
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 6: sell my persons and stuff. Hey, but don't worry it,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 6: o baby, because Walmart got a new burking out. Walmart
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 6: has a new burking out. You can make a comeback now.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: You ain't. It ain't finna be the real one, but
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: it looks like it from what I understand it does.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, so I don't know what to tell you about this.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 6: I feel sorry for you. Your husband is in a
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 6: place if he don't want nothing.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: See.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 6: Some people's version is to cut back. Sometimes cutting back
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 6: is necessary, But how about if you make more now?
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: The problem is if you've lived beyond your meanings.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 6: If you lived beyond your means, then cutting back is
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 6: necessary so you can get back within your means. So
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 6: what you do make becomes more manageable and appears to
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 6: be a plenty. But if what you have don't appear
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 6: to be enough, you have two choices. You can cut
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 6: back or you can make more. I don't think he's
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 6: that type of man to go out and make more,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 6: because he ain't finna do that. He's already cut your card.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 6: Once they cut your American Express card up, you're not
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 6: getting no damn new SUV. I can just tell you
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 6: that right now, he'll get damn what the one, he'll
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 6: paint the baby room, but the baby finished sleep in
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 6: whatever bed that's in there. He gonna make a bed
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 6: because it's cheaper. I don't know what he's gonna do.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 6: But your baby ain't fitna have a damn thing. I'm
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 6: just gonna tell you that right now. You and the
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 6: baby ain't fitna have a damn thing. Leaving him, it's
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 6: gonna put you a little bit further behind the eight
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 6: ball for a while. So I think you all are
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 6: gonna have to sit down have some serious conversations. Now,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 6: this ain't high marriage.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 16: Go.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 6: Marriage is a series of compromises, and it's a set
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: of two people working together. So until y'all get on
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 6: that page, you're not fitna have a damn thing and
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 6: the baby not getting.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: No new clothes.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: All right, you can come.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: So who y'all know got a baby that can give
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: y'all they clothes.
• 1:09:33
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• 1:09:40
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• 1:09:43
  Speaker 10: is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 10: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 6: Hey, Look, you can't let the urge to sing your
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 6: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck
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• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: As of December twenty twenty four.
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  Speaker 10: It is time now for junior and sports talk. What
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 10: you got Junior?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 9: Okay, well, you know over the weekend, Uncle Blockbuster, the
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 9: trade happened in the NBA.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 15: Man Luca Dodgers of the Dallas Mavericks is now a
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 15: Los Angeles Laker in exchange for Anthony Davis.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 13: Man.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 15: It is nobody saw this coming. Lebron James said he
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 15: didn't even know he was at dinner when he found
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 15: out that his teammate Anthony Davis has been traded to
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 15: the Lakers. That the Mavericks are saying they traded doctor
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 15: because they had concerns the conditioning and his diet, his
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 15: traditioning is dying yet.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 2: What you what you think ad doing here now? Because
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: his stomach hurt.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: Don't take much.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 7: But who you think got the bit of upgrade here?
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 7: Is it the Lakers or did the Mavericks?
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 6: The Lakers not going no well with the team they got.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 6: Lebron is still hell of a ballplayer. He is still
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 6: at this age, man, a dominating ballplayer. This dude was
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 6: playing against the Knicks. Man, he looked every bit of
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 6: twenty eight.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: So it's not him. Ads a hell of a hooper.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: You just can't count on anym long street clothes. Yeah
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: those are you talking about? Street clothes?
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 11: Now?
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: Why you call him street clothes?
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 9: Because he always got his street clothes on. He always,
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 9: you always look like he going to the movies. He
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 9: always looks like going on a date.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think all of these guys should
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 6: have took a page from Lebron. Lebron, I have never
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 6: seen him before, and I've seen everybody, man. You know,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 6: I've been watching basketball since kareem My dude Jabal who
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 6: was Louis Cinder was playing against Wilt Chamberlain. You know,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 6: I saw them games. Brou I've never seen Lebron James before.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 6: I've never seen a man play at the level that
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 6: they've played at for the amount of time that he's
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 6: played at it.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: Lord have mercy, this guy is.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 6: Sheer greatness for the number of years he done played
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 6: long enough to wear his son in the NBA, that's
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 6: what conversation.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: But his son is in the n BE on the
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: same team with it, on the same team that's in town.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 6: Come on, man, but these other catch they don't take
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 6: care of theirself like that in the offseason. They don't
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 6: take care of themself during the season. They don't take
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 6: care of it because they keep breaking. Now, Luca fat
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 6: I asked, gonna have to come out here and eat
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 6: right now to LA and bring your chubby ass out
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 6: here to LA because we out here eating tofu and
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 6: all this hell.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 7: He's gonna have to eat vegan.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: He gotta be no.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 6: Franchise, take peptides and pesticides and man, you got to
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 6: come out here and start eating like a roach.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: Very little coming up at the top of.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 5: A man.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: Steve needs your advice.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 10: He needs to know if he can ignore his wife
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 10: until after the Super Bowl. We'll get into that right
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 10: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 10: So Steve. This one is from Daryl and Louisville. Darryl says,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 10: I got a suite at a hotel outside of New
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 10: Orleans for the game, and I told my two cousins
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 10: they can share the room with me. My wife got
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 10: into my email and canceled my hotel. She said it
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 10: was too expensive, and she found me an airbnb that's
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 10: farther away from the game. It's so hot with her
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 10: that I haven't slept in the bed with her for
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 10: three nights. I was able to book another suite last night,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 10: but it was a lot more expensive. I also changed
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 10: my password to my email account. And now she's just
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 10: as angry as I am. Am I wrong for not
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 10: caring how she feels at this moment? Can I fix
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 10: things after I go to the game?
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 6: That's don't be alone with your dog. But let me
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 6: explain something to your wife. Was wrong for doing that? Yeah,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 6: you know you his wife.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: You ain't his mama.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 6: You can't change this man's reservation and then book him
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 6: in ABB and B because that's what you want to do.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 6: Maybe that ain't what he want to do. Super Bowl
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 6: come along once a year. Now you ain't staying in
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 6: that expensive suite. You gonna get this and b not
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 6: way away from the game. Well, if you're watching it
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 6: on TV, it don't matter how far away it eatith,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 6: But you ain't gonna be able to go to the
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 6: French quarter after the game.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: But your wife, that was real wrong of her to
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: do that.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 11: Now you.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 6: You your payback is I'm getting me another sweet. Now
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 6: this sweet is even more explicit than that. And I'm
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 6: changing my pedal. You ain't changing the damn thing. Now
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 6: she more mad? Yeah, Ah, that's life.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 10: Man.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 6: The two wrongs don't make it right. Can you ignore
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 6: her till after the super Bowl? I don't know how
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 6: you're gonna enjoy the super Bowl? I really don't that.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 9: No one.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: What's weighing on your ass at the house right after
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: the game?
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: For hours?
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 8: Yes?
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: Lord, you got y'all gonna be out there early?
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 12: Woo?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: How do you fix this.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 10: After he goes to the game.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 6: I mean, but you're gonna have to do what I said. Baby,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 6: I'm not your child, I'm your husband. You should have
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 6: confided in me before you change my reservation.
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  Speaker 2: That ticked me off.
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  Speaker 6: And just to show you I'm grown now I get
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  Speaker 6: to do what I want to do, even if you're
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  Speaker 6: gonna be mad at it. But I'm stealing the door.
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  Speaker 6: I would never have done that to you, and you
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  Speaker 6: just gonna to take that stand. And then, in the
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  Speaker 6: or you're gonna die mad.
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  Speaker 2: Now, which one you want to do?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 10: We have time for another one, Steve. This one's from
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  Speaker 10: Asia and Teneck. Asia says, I told a guy that
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  Speaker 10: I just met that he could come over, but my
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  Speaker 10: apartment is a mess because I had some water damage.
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  Speaker 10: We had sex, and then a few days later a
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  Speaker 10: mutual friend told me that the guy said I was
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  Speaker 10: a nasty chick and my place smelled musty. He insisted
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  Speaker 10: on coming over and staying. So why is he talking
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  Speaker 10: about me behind my back?
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  Speaker 2: Because, first of all, lady, you just met the guy,
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  Speaker 2: you don't know him.
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  Speaker 6: You have him over your place when you know it
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  Speaker 6: ain't ready your house stink y'all had sex in the
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  Speaker 6: stinky house anyway, already did what?
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  Speaker 2: They had sex in the stinky house.
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  Speaker 6: This stuff all dissheveled and misplaced, you know what, Ladies,
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  Speaker 6: In the words of Bishop Brown, who gave me the
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  Speaker 6: best information I had in twenty twenty four. Be careful
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  Speaker 6: of people who play the victim in circumstances that they
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  Speaker 6: created themselves.
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  Speaker 2: What you mad at him?
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  Speaker 11: Folk?
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  Speaker 6: You slept with him and you don't know him. You said,
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  Speaker 6: don't come over here in my house and mess he
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 6: coming anyway? Then y'all had sex?
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  Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? Where your pride and dignity at?
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  Speaker 11: Then?
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  Speaker 2: Would somebody go out here and treat you the way
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  Speaker 2: you acted?
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  Speaker 9: Now?
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  Speaker 6: You mad because they talking about you? You talk material.
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  Speaker 6: I don't even gonna say how you mad at him?
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  Speaker 6: He treated you the way you acted. You acted messy,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 6: You acted cheap. Now he dine told everybody you cheat.
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  Speaker 6: Now we don't come back over there and spend another night.
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  Speaker 2: Well you do good things?
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  Speaker 11: Now?
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  Speaker 6: Do you do a couple of things good? Once he
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 6: get in there and he can get past that smell,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 6: he take a little while. He might have a cotton
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  Speaker 6: ball in his nostril with a little perfume on it.
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  Speaker 6: He owned dealing with a little.
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  Speaker 6: Whatever more, go to somebody house to stay, put a
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  Speaker 10: you rather your car whistles if you go over thirty
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  Speaker 10: miles per hour?
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  Speaker 2: I'd rather get a new car. We need a new car.
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  Speaker 1: Sounds like it?
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  Speaker 2: Is it a steady whistle? It didn't matter.
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  Speaker 7: While you go over thirty.
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  Speaker 10: When you're over thirty miles per hour, it whistles, period.
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  Speaker 6: But I can't have this stopping it not me. I
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  Speaker 6: can't stop in the car and gunfire go off. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: you've been through that, all right.
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  Speaker 10: Would you rather have an eye iron fence around your
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  Speaker 10: property or a wooden fence around that's a that's a c.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. We already got fished. We got.
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  Speaker 1: We got fish.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he ain't got any kind of fish. Bob,
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  Speaker 6: Why what you won't raising.
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  Speaker 2: Kicke it? What you want?
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  Speaker 6: What you want, mane we just want. Yeah, you can
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  Speaker 6: get yellow tape. You need something. Just have your property
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  Speaker 6: lined off.
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  Speaker 1: It is not a crime scene, guys.
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  Speaker 16: It is.
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  Speaker 9: If you ain't got a fish, you don't know what
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  Speaker 9: can die in your yard, said Bob Wire like he
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  Speaker 9: in prison.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you're hey, hey, Junie, no fish dog dog. You
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  Speaker 2: can't ever get no swimming pool. That's the law. You
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: cannot have a swimming pool without a fence around it.
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  Speaker 2: That's a law. You cannot just put a swimming pool
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  Speaker 2: without you gotta have Yeah, I want.
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  Speaker 7: To swimming pool.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to s did you you don't want
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  Speaker 2: no pool?
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  Speaker 7: Don't well have y'all have y'all learned anything by me?
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  Speaker 2: I have sickle cell.
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  Speaker 7: I can't go swimming.
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  Speaker 9: You ain't just running ice water in the head. Ain't
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  Speaker 9: a damn ice path. They got heaters on the pool pool.
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  Speaker 1: I can't have a pool.
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  Speaker 2: I got sick of sell.
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  Speaker 7: I've been I ain't been swimming in twenty some years.
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  Speaker 2: But hell you really, When I go to the ocean,
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 7: Even get in it. I just look at it.
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  Speaker 9: Juli, Yeah, have you been baptized? No, hell man, One
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  Speaker 9: for the father, one for the son, and depends on
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  Speaker 9: the lass down in the cold water the drive and
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  Speaker 9: they had to have a ham lass on stand by.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna baptize Junior today. Y'all gotta be over down now.
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  Speaker 6: And my close remarks is pertaining to this presidency. You know,
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  Speaker 6: I'm not surprised that anything he's doing, uh, because it's
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  Speaker 6: par for the course. I mean, he's a continuation of
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  Speaker 6: what he was. The thing of it is is this
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  Speaker 6: is what the American voting mass, the more popular vote
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 6: was for him. Whyatt was for him had a lot
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 6: to do with who he was running against and the
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  Speaker 6: mistakes that was made. A lot of it was because
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 6: simply because there are people who don't want a woman
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  Speaker 6: in charge.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of it is because this country is what
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  Speaker 2: they say they're not.
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  Speaker 6: America has a very very racist element to it. There
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 6: is no denying that. You can sit up and bet
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 6: Tim Scott and put the blinders on all you want
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  Speaker 6: and say America is not a racist country. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 6: have you been listening to what the president of this
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  Speaker 6: country has been saying. Did you even take the time
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  Speaker 6: to understand what any of Project twenty twenty five was saying.
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  Speaker 6: Do you even understand the basic core of the message.
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  Speaker 6: The slogan was Maga make America great again. That alone,
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 6: right there told the whole story. And they are going
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 6: about the business of doing just like it was. Let's
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 6: get it back when it was no affirmative action, Let's
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 6: get it back when there was no DEI, Let's get
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 6: it back when there was no civil rights bill. Many
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 6: they coming for all of that. But y'all so stupid
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 6: though that you actually thought that President Trump was talking
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 6: about you. You actually believed him when he said he's
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 6: gonna bring the prices of groceries down. When rich people
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 6: don't care what the price of groceries is because it's
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 6: not gonna make them a bit of difference one way
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 6: or the other. So look at your groceries. Ain't nothing
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 6: going down, and ain't nothing coming down. And if you
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 6: notice what he just did, he put terrorists on China,
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 6: Canada and Mexico. Now these terrorifts mean that they're gonna
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 6: have to pay twenty five percent more, and Canada has
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 6: to pay ten percent more of everything that they import. Well,
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 6: guess what somebody gotta pay for that more cost, and
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 6: that's gonna be you. That's going to be us, y'all.
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  Speaker 6: Don't get it y'all thinking that he cutting all these
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 6: programs out for these social programs was gonna hurt and
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 6: affect black people.
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  Speaker 9: Y'all got diabetes too. Black people ain't the only one
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 9: with diabetes. That thirty five dollars insulin program. They ain't
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 9: gonna just affect us, That's gonna affect everybody. Y'all didn't
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 9: get it right this time.
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  Speaker 6: You just didn't you thinking when he got rid of DEI,
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 6: he was talking about black people the number one beneficiary.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 6: According to the US Department of Label, the number one
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 6: benefactor of DEI is white women. Do you know the
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 6: least benefactors of DEI programs black people? Latinos is in there,
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 6: Native Americans in their Asians.
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  Speaker 2: Is in there. Do you know that they veterans are
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: in there?
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  Speaker 6: They're cutting out programs for veterans they don't want a
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 6: d Do you know that people with disabilities.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: Are in the DEI cutbacks?
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  Speaker 6: You ain't know that digit nah, because they had your
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 6: stupid ass thinking he was talking about black people.
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  Speaker 2: They was talking about y'all too, because they trying to
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: make money. Let me explain some to you.
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  Speaker 6: See, when you do these cut out these programs to
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 6: help the Medicare cost and cost of medicine and diabetes,
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 6: you know how that helps that in help that helps
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 6: the pharmaceuticals because now they back into the big profits.
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 6: Why do you think they made all these donations to
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 6: the Trump campaign because they knew they was gonna get
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 6: it back tenfold in the money he was gonna put
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 6: back in their pockets. Every move Donald trap is making
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 6: is to put money back into the hands of rich people.
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  Speaker 6: Y'all really thought he was talking about y'all. I went
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 6: out the other day. I was going to this doctor's appointment,
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 6: and I was passing by this big white pickup truck
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 6: and it was flying Trump Vance signs, and I saw
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 6: in his window, his back window. I'm a proud veteran.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 6: I felt bad for this guy because I went, hey, mister,
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 6: proud veteran, the DEI cutbacks that he's doing, it's gonna
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 6: take benefits from you people who fought for this country.
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  Speaker 6: Y'all really thought he was talking about y'all. You know,
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 6: this is the same guy that dodged the draft. You
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 6: remember that, don't you. That's the same guy that talked
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 6: about McCain because he was a prisoner and he thought
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 6: he was a bad prisoner.
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 2: You know, remember that.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 6: But here's a guy who did everything say he was
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 6: flat footed so he couldn't even go to war. Now
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 6: I got you didn't want to go to war. I
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 6: don't want to go to war either, but you can't
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 6: talk about the ones who did. It's really sad what's
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 6: happening here. I did say I really feel sorry for
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 6: the common man. But now it's all come out to play. Wow,
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 6: we got exactly what he told us. We were just
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 6: going to plus. Yeah, I have a great day to day.
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