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J Is Back, Beyonce, Sheryl Underwood, Carla's Reality Update and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know. Y'all back all
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  Speaker 1: suit looking back to back down, giving the move like
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  Speaker 1: theming buck bus things and the cubs me true good it,
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  Speaker 1: Steve ha listen to mo together for study. I don't
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  Speaker 1: join join with me. You gotta turn, you gotta turn turn, turn,
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  Speaker 1: got to turn out, then turn the water the water.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your back at it. Uh huh, I
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  Speaker 1: sure will come on and everybody you are listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now one and on it.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's important, what can be a huge part
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  Speaker 1: of your success is if you if you find a balance,
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  Speaker 1: if you find a balance in your life. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: been very important for me. And I've really never phrased
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  Speaker 1: it this way until now, but I was kind of
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  Speaker 1: thinking about it after my wife and I mean we
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  Speaker 1: set up one night recently, man for hours. When I
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  Speaker 1: tell you, we talked for hours, not listen. The conversation
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  Speaker 1: started as an argument, Well, it started as a conversation
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  Speaker 1: that turned into an argument that turned into a therapeutic conversation.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we just had one of them, and it
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  Speaker 1: was ours. But but my wife and I we have
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  Speaker 1: a very unique way. Uh. If one of us starts
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  Speaker 1: to raise our voice, the other one just says, hey, okay,
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  Speaker 1: now we're not gonna accomplish anything like that, so so
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  Speaker 1: we go okay, okay. Then that's usually me because you know,
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  Speaker 1: a man, the one anger that we that we gravitate
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  Speaker 1: too quickly more than the other ones. Instead of their loving, caring,
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  Speaker 1: sharing anger, we can we see see me and know
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  Speaker 1: how to deal with anger really well because we know
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  Speaker 1: what it means. I'm mad nowede what I am out
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  Speaker 1: of all of that, What I what I really learned
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  Speaker 1: was you gotta find a balance in your life. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I often come on here and this is kind of
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  Speaker 1: an inspirational moment of the show, and I try to
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  Speaker 1: remind people about that most important relationship between you and God.
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  Speaker 1: And that's that's the apex of it. That's that's the
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  Speaker 1: that's the top of the crown. You gotta form the
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God. If you don't, everything else struggles. It's
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  Speaker 1: hard to be a good husband without God. It's hard
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  Speaker 1: to be a good family man without God. It's hard
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  Speaker 1: to be successful without God. Man, it's hard to be
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  Speaker 1: hard to get through this thing called life without God.
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  Speaker 1: So that's clear. But at the same time, you can't
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  Speaker 1: talk about God twenty four seven. You got to go
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  Speaker 1: to work. Come on, man, let's just be real. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't I ain't your past, and I ain't at your church.
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  Speaker 1: But let's just be real about it. You know, if
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  Speaker 1: people tell you got to keep your mind stayed on
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  Speaker 1: Him and all like that, that's that's a true statement.
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  Speaker 1: Got to keep your mind stayed in that area. I
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  Speaker 1: don't not here to tell you how to live, but
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  Speaker 1: you got to keep your mind stayed in that area
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  Speaker 1: of God, of doing the right thing, caring about people.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I took it as. Now I could be wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I apologize if I'm not saying that the way you've
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  Speaker 1: been taught, I can only do me now. But after that,
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  Speaker 1: you got to go to work. You got to have
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  Speaker 1: some fun. You gotta take care of your business. And
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  Speaker 1: that's to balance. You have to find so it. Once
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  Speaker 1: you focus on shooing up your relationship with God, you
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  Speaker 1: got you gotta balance this now. Now you got to
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  Speaker 1: allocate some time. I don't care who you are, for
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  Speaker 1: your family. If you're gonna have a family, you got
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  Speaker 1: to allocate some time for them. See, we can't just
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  Speaker 1: marry these women or make these kids and then neglect
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  Speaker 1: them and fellas, especially if I'm talking to me and
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  Speaker 1: out him. Ladies you can listen to, but listen. If
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  Speaker 1: you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and you
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  Speaker 1: can't seem to get it together, Let's just go over
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  Speaker 1: a couple of things. The first two things. If you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself struggling you can't seem to pull it together
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  Speaker 1: and reach your goals and get to where you want
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  Speaker 1: to go. Let's let's just do a check how is
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  Speaker 1: your relationship with God? And then next how much time
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  Speaker 1: are you taking to allocate for your family? Now, family
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  Speaker 1: don't always live in your house, but if you made them,
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  Speaker 1: they yours and the responsibility to them is never lessen
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  Speaker 1: because you don't stay that no more. Because you and
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  Speaker 1: the girl broke up, you and the woman don't speak
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  Speaker 1: a man that don't ever release you from the obligation.
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  Speaker 1: Feel me when I'm telling you this now, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: not telling you something I'm wondering about. I've had to
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  Speaker 1: live through them years. So two things you can start
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  Speaker 1: looking at if you're not where you want to be
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  Speaker 1: and you ain't. You ain't really solid. You can't figure
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  Speaker 1: out why you keep spending your wills. Have you just
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  Speaker 1: done a random inventory? Man? Have you just checked on
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  Speaker 1: your relationship with God? Have you checked on the time
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  Speaker 1: you spending dedicated towards your family, your children that you've created?
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  Speaker 1: If them two things is out of saint man, that
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  Speaker 1: I can tell you right now, you can go on
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  Speaker 1: and get to explain in yourself away just like that,
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  Speaker 1: a man, how come you ain't where you want to be?
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  Speaker 1: Mancus man, I really ain't. Well, if you really ain't,
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  Speaker 1: then you really ain't. The third thing is you got
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  Speaker 1: to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got
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  Speaker 1: to handle your business. All of this, man, is the
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  Speaker 1: way it works, and the order, the order is God first,
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  Speaker 1: family second. Then you got to handle all your business.
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  Speaker 1: But as men, And this is what we do. If
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  Speaker 1: I don't handle my business, I can't take care of
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  Speaker 1: my family, true statement. But if your business is in
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  Speaker 1: front of your family, you out of order. Nah. That's
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  Speaker 1: all we're talking about now, ain't it. See that's that's
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  Speaker 1: all we really saying here now, fellas you know you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know let's
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  Speaker 1: let's have a real conversation about being better. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if you have created these children, you got to handle
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  Speaker 1: your business. You may not like the girl no more.
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  Speaker 1: You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might
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  Speaker 1: go your own way. But what that got to do
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  Speaker 1: with the child though, Man out to handle your business.
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  Speaker 1: They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation, man,
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  Speaker 1: And God ain't letting you off the hook for that.
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  Speaker 1: Try it. Go ahead and try it, and thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna get off the hook with that, because you're not man,
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  Speaker 1: You just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, why are
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  Speaker 1: you coming like that? Because I did it like that.
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  Speaker 1: I did it, man. I was over here trying to
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  Speaker 1: reshape my life, getting myself up on my feet when
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  Speaker 1: I was a homeless man and trying to come back. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I thought I had to take care of me first
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  Speaker 1: and then so I can neglect it care about them kids. Man,
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  Speaker 1: That ain't high work. Man. God kept us knee on
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  Speaker 1: my neck for a long time for that one right there,
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  Speaker 1: until I finally learned the lesson hold up man, put
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  Speaker 1: these phone calls in, go spend some time, do something.
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  Speaker 1: And then it started turning around for me. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I can't beat there all the time because I am
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  Speaker 1: out here on the ground in the hustle. But at
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  Speaker 1: the same time, man, some more phone calls, some more letters, smohaha,
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  Speaker 1: he he's something. Then take care of your business. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You got to work hard to be successful. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't put that in there. I just living
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  Speaker 1: and I expect my sons to emulate that. But I
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  Speaker 1: gotta talk to him all the time. How hard you
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  Speaker 1: got to work to be something. It's an all out
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  Speaker 1: of salt on it. Man. If you gotta target in mind,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta go. You gotta wake up every day trying
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  Speaker 1: to get there, and you can't get tired of it
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  Speaker 1: because it's it's it never ends. You're gonna always be
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  Speaker 1: this way. That's how life is designed and set up.
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  Speaker 1: You got to be a hard worker. Man. If you're
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  Speaker 1: always looking for some time to chill, and man, I
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  Speaker 1: wanta go do what I want to do, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna make it. In order to be successful, you have
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  Speaker 1: to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing,
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  Speaker 1: and work is the thing that most of us are
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  Speaker 1: uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill, man, I
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  Speaker 1: wish I could kick back with a cigar man all
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  Speaker 1: the time, but I can't, man, and I can't because
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  Speaker 1: I got to work. Then the last piece of the
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  Speaker 1: balance balance piece is you gotta take some time out
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  Speaker 1: to enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you want
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  Speaker 1: to be, you ain't got a lot of time to
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  Speaker 1: enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even.
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  Speaker 1: It's a whole lot of God, a whole lot of family,
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  Speaker 1: a whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling.
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  Speaker 1: The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business,
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  Speaker 1: or your God. If the chilling is equal to any
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  Speaker 1: of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man,
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  Speaker 1: and go to work like a man. Do what you
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  Speaker 1: post to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship,
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  Speaker 1: work on your God, work on your business. And then
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  Speaker 1: when you chill, you might not chill is long, but
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  Speaker 1: you show gonna chill bigger. You're gonna ball bigger. Baby.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening. Ladies and gentlemen are undivided, all of it.
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  Speaker 1: Full house. Yeah, Hutley Strawberry, Good morning, Colin Farrell, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Steve Junior morning? Uh? That damn Jaffony Brown
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  Speaker 1: like I never left, but I'm back. What what and
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  Speaker 1: the food your so and the building that's more like
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  Speaker 1: the Tommy we know right there, team Tommy, baby baby,
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  Speaker 1: my partner crying back up in here. You hear me
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  Speaker 1: here here, here, here? What is disloyal yourself? Though, however
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  Speaker 1: you do it is good here here. That's my partner.
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  Speaker 1: He lived here. That ain't what he was saying. Why
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  Speaker 1: he was missing? What? Oh man? How much? How he
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed all the extra time to tell you know how?
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: You know, yesterday's show was outstanding. They trying to break
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  Speaker 1: us up and I'm but we're glad. Yeah, welcome back.
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  Speaker 1: I went. I really though I was a sad occasion.
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  Speaker 1: I went to a funeral. Two of my friends committed suicide.
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  Speaker 1: Real time. Yeah, they got married. Seriously, I'm joking. Ye,
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  Speaker 1: that's too much. I ain't worried about it all. I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna ask the wards day together? No, really, you
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  Speaker 1: knew immediately. I knew, right, I was gonna my next
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  Speaker 1: question was was day together? Really? Jay? Congratulations? House and Karen?
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  Speaker 1: That was a that was a was It's the best
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  Speaker 1: way I've ever been to my life. Really? Wait wait
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  Speaker 1: wait House got married? Yeah, House gott who House got
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  Speaker 1: married again? Yeah? House got married? So Jay, did it?
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  Speaker 1: Did it make you feel like you wanted to jump
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  Speaker 1: the broom? No? It wasn't that. Damn good on. Hold on,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on. You ain't talking about house. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my buddy, house dog, Randy great house. Yeah. Man to
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  Speaker 1: the show? Yeah, well house on fire heartbeats? No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: he been over to? What show he came over to?
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  Speaker 1: You're sitting in the audience, Yeah, oh no, no, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't that house the house I used to play golf with.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no no, oh no, no oh, That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about. I was thinking about in a
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  Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, that's what I'm wedding. Yeah. And I
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  Speaker 1: ate some chicken. Oh, that's right back. You're vegan, die man,
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  Speaker 1: you back, Jake? I was that chicken though, Jake? You
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  Speaker 1: were crazy? How was that chicken? I ate chicken? It
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  Speaker 1: was time? Me was so damned when you whisper. It
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  Speaker 1: was like a left long lost friend. I know exactly
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  Speaker 1: what you tell about the skin and all everything book.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't you say, Steve, you're vegan until your next uh?
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  Speaker 1: But you can't me vegan down south? It don't even
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  Speaker 1: make sense to go down there with debt. All right, well,
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  Speaker 1: we'll come back with something funny. We're gonna play a
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  Speaker 1: little comedy roulette since Jay is back. We'll be back
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  Speaker 1: at thirty two after the hour. Right after this, you're
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  Speaker 1: listening to Steve Morning Show. Coming up at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour. Our special guests will be former President
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Obama and White House advisor Valerie Jared. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: talk to Miss Jared about her brand new book, Finding
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  Speaker 1: My Voice, My Journey to the West Wing, and the
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  Speaker 1: Path Forward. But right now it is time for something funny. Jay,
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  Speaker 1: please Stephan comedy Baby. Since we have four comedians on
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  Speaker 1: this show, Junior's comedian, Time is a comedian, I'm a comedian,
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  Speaker 1: Steve's a comedian. And what we do is we take
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  Speaker 1: four subjects, we put them on the wheel. We spun
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  Speaker 1: the wheel where it stops. We can make it funny
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  Speaker 1: because we're all comedians. Junior is a comedian, Tommy is
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  Speaker 1: a comedian, I'm a comedian. Comedian stupid, and so we
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  Speaker 1: can make it funny. And the reason we can make
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  Speaker 1: it funny is because Junior is a comedian, I'm a comedian.
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  Speaker 1: Tim is a comedian, and Steve Harvey nerves Jay, you
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  Speaker 1: can start. Let me give you the category. Steve, You're
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: about to be in a long conversation when dot dot
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  Speaker 1: dot stuff. You say to people who having an ugly
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  Speaker 1: Easter outfit, Well, Easter's coming up this Sunday. What food
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  Speaker 1: you can eat? Hot or cold? And something you wore
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  Speaker 1: to school and hated? Oh? Sun, well it better be funny. Man?
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  Speaker 1: Whoa it stopped on? Stuff? You say to people who
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  Speaker 1: having an ugly Easter outfit? Easter? Oh my god, you
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  Speaker 1: put polka dots and plaid together? How did you do that?
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  Speaker 1: You're a comedian. What's the stuff you gonna say this weekend? Promes?
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  Speaker 1: I'm so we will be saying on Saturday. I know
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to church Sunday. I'm having to tell
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  Speaker 1: somebody I can't see you get into heaven with that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see how you gonna get in. How is comedian?
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't see how that's gonna get I
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  Speaker 1: gotta hear them with it like this. Whoa man? Let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you some boy? Whoa you got blind? People
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  Speaker 1: feeling good? Right now? You? Who? Yeah? Tommy's a comedian? Hey, dog,
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  Speaker 1: let mess something that coming in the other color, because
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  Speaker 1: now that's a lot of lime. Yeah. Stuff you say
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  Speaker 1: to people who have over an ugly Eastern outfit? Hey man,
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  Speaker 1: your skinned tone and your suit there's supposed to mash.
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  Speaker 1: It's not people wearing ugly outfits doing Eastern time. Man,
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  Speaker 1: do you know that color ain't nowhere in the color box?
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  Speaker 1: That right, that ain't nowhere in there. I thought I
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  Speaker 1: knew every color. That ain't the time. Oh man. I
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  Speaker 1: like how you mentioned up short with a cape. How
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  Speaker 1: do you do that? Rocking it? Mane my man, I
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  Speaker 1: guess the easter bunning necking hum stuff? You say the
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  Speaker 1: people were ugly outfitst hey man, hey man, what you're
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  Speaker 1: doing pimp services and seven regular colors? That all right? Whoa? Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you something that will make Jesus come
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  Speaker 1: down off that cross right there by that right down
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  Speaker 1: that right now? He might make him come on down.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, man, you used all the fabric. Huh,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't throw none of it away? Come one, look
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  Speaker 1: over there, look over down. Welcome that back room right there.
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  Speaker 1: It looked like an easter basket, but it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: one in there, all right. I like the way he
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  Speaker 1: gonna be that. Hey, look over there, it's gonna his
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  Speaker 1: suit look just like when TV when it go off.
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  Speaker 1: So now is that a Is that a thirty eight
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  Speaker 1: piece suit? Or is that I had lost count dog.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out you can add to this dog.
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  Speaker 1: That's a lot of pockets. A lot of pockets. You
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  Speaker 1: must go to do the magic show for the kids,
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  Speaker 1: Lady rabbit out of one of these everywhere. Excuse me, brother,
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  Speaker 1: got a message from the sun. Can you tone it down?
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  Speaker 1: You're blinding somebody with an eagly Easter outfit? But let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you something do to uh do the draws
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  Speaker 1: go with that too. I'm just trying to figure out
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  Speaker 1: about all that work together. Do the draws on the
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  Speaker 1: garments that don't that sabord don't make you itch because
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  Speaker 1: it's making me grisp. Burlough, you say to people who
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  Speaker 1: have on an ugly Easter outfit, must have been on
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  Speaker 1: sale because that jacket's kind of young. Ye must have
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  Speaker 1: been thank Okay, wait for Sunday. People ain't going We're
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  Speaker 1: gonna see all of this though, all see it? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You of it? Right? Yeah? All right? Coming up next
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  Speaker 1: more fun. The nephew in the building would run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back. Right after this you're listening show coming up
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, our special guests will
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  Speaker 1: before President Obama and White House Advisor Miss Valerie Jarrett.
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  Speaker 1: We will talk to missus Valerie about her brand new
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  Speaker 1: book called called Finding My Voice, My Journey to the
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  Speaker 1: West Wing and the Path Forward. Right now, time for
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  Speaker 1: some more foolishness, you know. So what we do best
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  Speaker 1: on this show. The nephew is here to run that
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  Speaker 1: brank back. What you got the ring? The ring? You
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  Speaker 1: are stupid. It's about the ring called shirlotte. Y'all got rings.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all know it's about the ring. Okay, so let's chop chop,
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  Speaker 1: Let's get to a cat dog the ring. Hello. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: Hi Denise. My name is Gavin. I'm actually the head
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  Speaker 1: jeweler here, diamond. No, how you doing? I'm good? You
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  Speaker 1: brought your ring in? What was it last week? I
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  Speaker 1: actually wasn't here, but you gave it to one of
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  Speaker 1: my salesperson And yes, you wanted to get it resized
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  Speaker 1: as well as get it a praise. Correct, yes, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: And you don't have to tell him. I to be
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  Speaker 1: a bit on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, I
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  Speaker 1: actually do the resize of the ring. And first of all,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: let me be the first to say, um, congratulations, when
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: when is your wedding? Thank you, I'm getting married and
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: stuffcom there. Well, congratulations to you. Listen. I don't know
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: how to tell you this now, as far as your
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: praiser lists concern, I've looked at your ring over and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: over and this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Excuse me, I've I've been I've been in this business
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: for over twenty years. But you know what, I'm confused
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: on what you just seeing. And I understand that what
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to explain to you is that I've been
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: in this business for over twenty years. I've seen so
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: many different pieces of jewelry. And this is something that
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: you that you buy late night on an infomercial for
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: nineteen ninety nine. This is a Cubic Declonian stone and
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: the gold is not real at all. It's like, wait,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: you wait, you lost me. You lost me as much
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: money as my friends make and as much money as
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: my father is putting down on his wedding or has
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: put down and you're gonna say understand everything you're saying.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: But Denise, honestly don't know. What I need you to
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: do is hold on. Wait, no, no, no, I need
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: you to hold on because we need to call victims.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Wait wait man, First of all, I can't wait wait
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait, hold hold on because do you
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait? What are you trying to what you're
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: trying to do? Sorry? I need I need you to
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: repeat what you just said to me. Okay, I need
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: little of personal stuff. Man, you oh you hit it.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: It's personal now, So I need you to hold on. Okay,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Oh she calling man? Okay, think think hello victim. I
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: want you to listen to this jeweler that's on the phone.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I want you to hit it that he just told me.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Hold on, what's what's the problem? What you mean, what's
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: the problem. He's gonna tell you what the problem is.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Gonna hit on, sir, gonna hit on. Hello. Yeah, who's
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: and actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather?
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: She brought her ring in to actually be resized. Yeah,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: and we we also did an appraisal on the ring
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: for her, and actually the ring is estimated to be only,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: in the word of around fifty dollars. Fifty dollars fifty
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: that's what the man said, sir. Obviously there's some sort
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: of mistakes, sir. Yea, what you got to say about
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: that fifty dollars? That's that's got to be some kind
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: of mistakes. But what'd you say your name was, sir?
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: My name is Gavin. I work here at Diamonds. I'm
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: the head jeweler here. I've been here for twenty years,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and there's there's no way that that ring is worth
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars. I know what I paid for it, So
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: obviously there's some sort of mistakes. There's not a mistake.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I've been dealing with jury, I've seen it. I can
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: pretty much look at a ring, but I actually went
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: into detail on this one, as I do all of them,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: and so I promise you this is probably maybe between
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: forty and fifty dollars before his workers. No, absolutely not.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: That's that's impossible. How is that impossible. He's the jeweler
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: you heard him say, he's been doing it for twenty
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: he's the highest. That impossible. I don't understand that all
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: the money that my dad is putting down on this wedding,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: and you're donna pay fifty dollars. You bought a cheap ring, sir. No, no, no,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I did not buy a team. This is this is
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: this is obviously some kind of mistake. You didn't got it.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: You show got that right, You show got that right.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: So what you got to say for yourself fifty dollar? This?
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: You can't I believe that that's right, that this is
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: obviously some kind of mistair. Oh, it is a mistake.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I'm mistake and thinking I'm gonna get married to the
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: man of my dream. I do have the engagement ring
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: that was purchased and bought for your wife. No, I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think you do. I don't think
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: you have my ring, because if you have my ring,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this is worse fifty dollars.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: I have the ring that your wife, that your fiance
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: brought in his wife. Yet, hold on, hold on, the
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: man trying to explain, I'm trying to get to the body.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Thank you, So you have I don't think you have
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: the right ring. I have the right ring. And what
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know, sir, is that this is something
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: you buy on an infomercial in the two ocock the dude,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you know I ain't bott a damn ring on infomercial.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I bought the ring from a reputable establishment. I have
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: the receipt, I have the certificate. So obviously the mistake
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: is on your and where you're mistakes now here? Search
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: you bought a piece of jump. He's been doing it
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: all these years. How hell you're gonna make a mistake
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: where you come off telling me I bought a piece
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: of jump? I know what I bought. If there's any
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: mistakes that's been made, it's on your end, world, It's
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: not on my end. Yeah, Hold don't. Don't you want
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to think that my dad has had too much money
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: for this wedding? So your doaa? You wait till I
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: tell him this? Chill? Hold on. First of all, I
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this. This
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: is a typical case of you trying to put it off.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Does because you bought a piece of tru for fifty bucks?
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know many that I get fifty dollars worth
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: of a ring? Then he's hold on, let me talk
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: to this. Where are you going and get base I
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: never heard of it, So your wife knows exactly where
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: she's the one that brought the ring. I tell you what,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there to see the ring that
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: you're talking about. If it's not the ring that I
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: gave my girl, I'm gonna take seventy six hundred dollars
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: out of your because that's so. Now you want to
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: jump on me because you bought your wife a pieces.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Come on and you want to put it on me.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: You you don't tell me what the I don't know
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: what the I spin on the ring, and you I
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: don't kind of trying to pull. First of all, I
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: don't appreciate you coming in my household trying to mess
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: my and you want to come at me with this one.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I know the ring's gotta be real. If I were you,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: mister niece, I would not marry somebody that's gonna I'm
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: coming there. I'm looking for your puppet. And you know what,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: you don't get the ring in a right man, you're
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: gonna go in it. Could I say one more thing
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: to both of you? Are better? I tell you what
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: if they did, I want to hear me and you
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: gonna have some more problems this is nephew, tell me
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all just got planked
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: by the niece's sister that that's why she ain't got
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: no man to be Wow. Man, Wow, that's how clue time?
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Are you about to start? Wow? I think I'm sorry, baby,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I will make it ring. I
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: gotta ask y'all something. What is the baddest radio show
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: in the Wow? The Steve Harvey The Morning Wow. All right,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Coming up at the top of the hour.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Valerie Jared will be our special guests right after this
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: you're listening show, all right, everybody else special guests as promised.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: As senior advisor to the Obama Foundation, she's also an
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: advocate for social justice, former government official, and now a
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: best selling author. Her brand new book is called Finding
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: My Voice. It's my journey to the West Wing and
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: the Path forward. Now in this book, everybody, it gets
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: really good because she highlights a really remarkable journey that
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: she's had from childhood to her time spent in the
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: White House and life beyond it. So let's find out
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: more about the book. Please welcome to the show, our friend,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: missus Valerie Jarrett, welcome to your show. It's really good.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I gotta congratulate you because you were for just being
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: the longest serving senior advisor to President Barack Obama. That's
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: a great, just a great accomplishment before he did. In fact,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: I left it about eleven fifty nine on January twentieth,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: two thousand and seventeen, and he left it about eleven
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: fifty eight, so I wanted to go right behind him
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: and say goodbye. It was an amazing, amazing journey to
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: be on with both President Obama and Miss Obama exactly right, Lord,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: do we miss him? You would have seen the advisor
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: to President Obama for all these years. You've got to
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: have some really really interesting stories. I do. I do.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: It was an interesting eight years. I can tell you that,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: that is for sure, and a privilege sieve every single
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: day of such a privilege to see the challenges that
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: President Obama faced up close and personal, and to watch
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: how he made decisions and antonia, Oh my goodness. I
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: hunger for a president or any elected official who is
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: willing to put his own self interest, society his own
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: You know, he didn't react when people would yell at
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: him at the State of the Union address, you lie.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: He never with Bob and when the Republicans snubbed him,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: he just kept trying to do the people's book. And
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I think that a president we could all be proud of.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: And I'm just just honored to have been a part
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: of that administration and so much of what I learned
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: on the ground in Chicago working for Mayor Held Washington,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: the first black mayor of Chicago, where you are approximate
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: to the people you serve. That taught me so much
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: about service and that you should not ever lose sight
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: of why you're there. And I just I've been so disappointed,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: disease the Republicans just for years now forget about the
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: people and focus on the politics. And you can't do that,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: and we deserve better. And the only way that changes
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: is if we all get out there and vote. Yeah,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: that's been a rallying cry for quite some time, and
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I think I hope that people are sick enough to
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: get out and do something about it. You know, we
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: can beat this electoral system, you know, we really can.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: We just gotta vote. So we have to do it,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: not just for the president, but it matters who's your mayor,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: who's in your city council, your state legislature, your state's
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: attorney making decisions of our prosecutions. It all matters. And
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: we have to change the culture. And you know, missus
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Abomini started this new organization called When We All Vote,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: non partisans, but just designed to change the culture so
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: people appreciate, particularly the Black community, people sacrifice so much
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: for us to have the right to vote. None of
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: our children should get a pass on not voting when
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: they are adults. Ladies to vote in every election their
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: entire lives, absolutely, and so do we. We gotta vote.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: We gotta be then example for our children. So tell
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: me this value. What's the takeaway when people are reading
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: finding my voice? Well, what do you want to readers
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: to get from this memoir? Steve? I started out shy,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: painfully shy. I started out insecure where I didn't even listen.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't trust my own voice. That's that quiet one
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: inside of us. And when Harold Washington was elected mayor Chicago,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I was practicing on a big fancy law firm, miserable.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I was in the middle of a bad marriage. I
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: married the boy next door that did not work out,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: and I thought that my life was kind of falling apart,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: and a friend of mine said, why don't you try
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: public service? You feel like you're personally bigger than yourself,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: and so I swerved. I did a zig zag. I
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: did something where I took a cut in salary, a
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: cutting stature. So people thought, but I did what I
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: knew was right for me. And I want people to
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: have the courage to swerve out of their comfort zone,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: to take a chance to do something that's unconventional, just
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: like my dad did when he went off to Iran,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: and recognize that that's where the adventurous and I spent
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: my young adulthood playing it safe, and I wasn't really
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: even very good at my job. I'm feeling like I
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: was doing anything that would make my daughter proud of
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: me one day. And so I'm hoping, as I've told
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: my story about how I found my voice and then
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: what I chose to do with it, which is to
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: try to be a catalyst for positive change and help
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: empower other people to find theirs, that in reading it,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: people will see themselves in my story and recognize that
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: just could just start out as a shy young girl
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you can't grow up to be a
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: senior advisor to the President of the United States. Wow,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: that's exactly what you did, Valerie Jared, I gotta tell you, hey,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: listen to everybody. I want you to listen to this.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Finding My Voice, My Journey to the West Wing and
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: the Path Forwards in all stores now, and it's available online.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I want the book because I'm in a period in
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: my life where i gotta do something different, you know,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I gotta and I just want to hear because I
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: like hearing people who stepped out of their comfort zone
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: to go do something else, because that's really what I'm
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: thinking of doing, and I just want them, you know.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: It could probably be some enlightening encouragement in it for
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: me and for all of you out there, because all
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: of us, if you aren't outside your comfort zone, that's
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: usually where success is anyway, So you're gonna have to
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: get out of it to make it so. Valerie jack
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: that's the book, Finding My Voice, My Journey to the
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: West Wing and the Path for Its online in the
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: stores now. Valerie Jerry, we love you girl, Thank you
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: so much. I love you right back. Thank you so much.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: And hello to everybody. You're listening audience. I just respect
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: and love everything about you, so thank you for having
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: me on. Ladies and Gentlemen, Valerie Jerry, Yeah you're listening. Show. Well,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: yesterday it was all about Beyonce. Yes, it wasn't it though.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Beyonce delivered again, Yeah she did. I mean she's always
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: doing special things for her fans, for her fans, and
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: yesterday was no difference. She delivered a special gift to
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: her fans. Over night, Queen Bee dropped a forty track
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: did you hear Me? Forty track live album to coincide
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: with her new coachellais Netflix concert film. Okay, it's called Homecoming,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: a film by Beyonce. Forty songs, forty City, forty, there's
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: some dudes in the basement right now. I can't finish
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: that one damn song forty that's yeah, Homecoming. The live
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: album was released shortly after midnight to streaming services and
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: includes a brand new song. The album was recorded at
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: her twenty eighteen headline performance at Coachella. That was last year,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: of course. Now, Steve, You're gonna love this. There's a
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: bonus track on the album. It's her cover of Frankie
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: Beverly and Mazes Before I let go got it here, Okay,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: New Orleans, be with it. I about the album A
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: forty yeah, yeah yeah in the car right now. Wait, yeah,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I haven't had a chance to watch the specially yet.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I plan to do that this weekend of course. So yeah,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: Netflix and chill right after Friday. I'm off. Oh yeah,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do well. My girl would be back home.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Un We're gonna really lay around neked a lot. So
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: you got special talent. I'm gonna just be real with
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: what time that's gonna be. So I don't call, so
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: we don't pop up over there. And now I'm telling
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: you all, y'all c pop over my house, try coming
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: in with my as yet. But congratulations though to Cranby Beyonce.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's amazing. She said. She ballooned up
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: to two hundred and eighty pounds with the twins and
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: she had to have an emergency C section. These are
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: some of the things she talks about and when the
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: makes you. And she did that and then did Cochella
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: the next year. Right, the next year, girl, right, she
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: had eight months to get into Coachella's shape, and she
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: did it. Eight months. She did it. She said she
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: didn't need any carbs, any meat, any sugar, any fish.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Just all right, coming up at thirty four after the
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: hour when Easter speeches go wrong, yes, right after this.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right. Everybody knows that Easter is on Sunday,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: this Sunday, which means it's time for the kids to
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: give their Easter speeches. Here's some examples, yeah, for when
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Easter speeches go badly, Okay to hey, we'll have speeches
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: by little Jay, little Junior, little Tommy over there, and
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: look at him over there, high little Stevie. All right,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: this first speech will be by little Jay. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Easter is more than just bunnies. Okay, Easter is more
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: than just bunnies and candy. Oh I got Boobooh Okay,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: that didn't go well. Okay, Now it's time for little Junior.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Little Junior, he is die here, he has risen just
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: as he said, Hey, bye, Hey, Daddy, Bobby's there's my
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: other brother, sister. Dad. Daddy told me not to tell
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: you about Hey, y'all's like going on besides the fact
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: that he has asthma. Okay, we need to have a
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: speech by little Tommy. Now come on up, a little
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Tommy here Competer cottontail hopping down the bunny trail. Hey,
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: they got mister Johnson. Mister Johnson come over the house
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: every day after Daddy go to work. Hey, mister Johnson,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: mister Johnson. Wait, oh god, okay, every everyone calmed down.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Uh uh Now it's time for little Steve. Come on up,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: a little Steve. Je there many years ago on the cross,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: he dad. Yes, Hey, Daddy, that's your boss, the one
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: you called big fast, stupid bastard. Right, um, okay, quite everyone,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: let's get back to little Jay. Come on, come on,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: little Jay, your turn. Okay, okay, okay. He died, but
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: on the he died. He died, but he died, but
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: on the seventh day he rolled. Hey, that's the guy
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: to give Daddy a little packs of sugar. Daddy put
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: in his pocket. Okay, uh moving, hey, okay, but moving
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: to hill, moving right along with our Easter program. It's
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: time once again for little Junior. Little Junior, he gave
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: his life for us that we could be Hey, that's
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: the lay that comes out of the building that has
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  Speaker 1: dances on it, and Daddy always give Oh buddy, it's here.
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  Speaker 1: This is fun the baby. He um, little Tommy, Little
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  Speaker 1: little Tommy, you have your speech writing down. You're call
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  Speaker 1: ears queen clean no's tiny tail. Hey, mommy and dad,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: that's the lady that's got a little boy that looked
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: just like me and daddy. Now now now hey, uh
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: will ended right here with little Stevie. Okay, well we
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: show we ain't gonna ending with this one because Easter
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: is a day for dressing up. Hey, dad, they're gonna
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: demand to give me five dollars to stay down stair
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: to play video game. Hey Mithda Carter, thanks for the money.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: They run up another fad nick Faddy. Okay, daddy, you
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: don't know him. Let's call and that can clud daddy, Daddy,
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  Speaker 1: why are you choking? Mit to call? Happy Easter. That
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: concludes our Easter program for today, ladies and gentlemen, Thank
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: you everyone. Come on boys, my mama fan all right
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: up next guys, Tommy's frank phone call. Right after this
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: you're listening to coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: The subject something wasn't smelling right, But right now the
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's frank phone call what you
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  Speaker 1: got nev six O lord fix ten? Yeah, gotta be
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  Speaker 1: aggressive with it, you know. And you gotta be in
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: franked mold. You ain't in frank mold. It don't work right,
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  Speaker 1: but watch this right here? Ten? Yeah, right, sorry, one
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  Speaker 1: more time? Run Hello, Hello, trying to speak your latrend
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  Speaker 1: to please. This is latrender? Who this? Uh? Hey, you
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  Speaker 1: work at the time with sharp Yes? I do? Who
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: is this? Okay? When you were there? Did you work
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: last Wednesday? Like from six to I guess six to close? Yeah?
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: I work every Wednesday? Yeah? Who who is this? Hey?
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: My name is Ralph and I basically uh uh, you know,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: looked around to try and get your phone numb. I
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: got a bit of a complaint, right wait wait wait
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: wait wait, you're calling me with a complaint on my
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: cell phone. Who gave you my number? I've done the
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: research to get your number, man, And what I'm calling
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: you about is, while I was in there getting a
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: sandwich eating, I'm realizing that you came out of the
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: bathroom without washing your hands, and which first of all,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: you need to be calling the corporate headquarters if you
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: got a complaint or you got that one hundred number
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: on the back of your receipt. Don't be calling my
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: cell phone. Whoever gave your gave you myself on I'm
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: a whoof day. Hey, listen, listen. The problem is is
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: that you're coming out not washing your hands. No, No,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: the problem I don't never come out and not wash
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: my hands. First of all, I'm working. I've been working
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: out for three years. Okay, be coming to me with
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: no books that I ain't came out and I washed
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: my hand. I guess you ain't been washing your hands
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: for no three years and you you're coming out, you know, unsanitizing.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: It's way you're treating people. Don't. First of all, don't
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: be calling my phone talking behind it. I ain't washed
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: my hands, like I said. I've been there three years.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: I've been employer of the month six times. Don't be
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: coming to me with a none of this book. I
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: don't know how you employ You must be the nasty
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: employer of the month because you're coming out you're not
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: washing your hands. I saw you scratch your head and
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: you ain't putting who was on? I always for gloves
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: on my hand. You ain't my gloves on the room.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: We don't know who the hell you think you are.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: But don't be calling my phone with this. You need
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: to be calling headquarters if you gotta complaint. I tell
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: you what. I'm gonna call headquarters. I'm coming there a
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: mom to see if you're gonna be up in there
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: with some gloves on, or you're gonna come out there
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: out of the bathroom again with the same thing. Come
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: on up there. I'm gonna be there from sixty close,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: sixty close, And I bet you if you come up
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: to tom I'm gonna make it sandwich, y'all. You're gonna
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: do what I'm gonna make it sandwich. You'all shoulder. Who's
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you think you're talking to? Yo? You said your name
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: was round right. Don't be call on my phone with this. Hey,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something. All I'm saying to you
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: is this right here. If I come up in there
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: tomorrow and find out you ain't got some gloves, oh
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: you're mess I get whoop? All right, you're gonna with mine.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: You're gonna want sixty ten. I'm gonna be up there
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: from sixty ten, and I ain't gonna call nobody. Ain't
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: calling my brothers, my cousin, my uncle or nothing. I'm
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: gonna whooping by myself. Excuse me, you gonna you you're
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: gonna try to take on the man. I'm gonna whoop
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: your by my sell That's what I said. You need
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: to get to a little man. Sit behind in the
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: bathroom and wash your hands, keeping the put on your
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: head because you donna be coming some people food like that.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Bring your throwing up there six to ten. You know
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: where I work? Six t ten and I'm gonna whoop y'all.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: Who do you think you're talking to? I don't even
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: know who you are, but I'm gonna know y'all tomorrow.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna know you tomorrow. Bring your throwing up there,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: six tit ten and I'm gonna whoop y'all. I'm coming
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: up there to morrow. Come on, I'm going up to tomorrow.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I'm gonna tell you how to be sanitized.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be what some gloves on. Do you hear me?
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be mine? And you steady talking about whom
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: that's a little Bring you up there. We gonna see
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: who's gonna get me? Who? What kind of man as you?
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Anyways to be talking about? Fighting to walk? You are
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: and you are what what you called me? Um be tee?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: And I'm coming up to to see you tomorrow. Is
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: you go? Is you gonna be ready wanting to get
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: up there? What's up you anyway? Like Carver friends, I'm
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: much you gonna fight female y'all with some hand washing,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: bring your bricks and I'm gonna show you what it is.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Sixty kid, I'm gonna be here smatter of fact, I'm
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: gonna be there at five forty five. Bring your sup
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: for five o'clock again, and I'm gonna whok y'all. Who
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: you think you talking to? I Don'm gonna I'm gonna
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: talk to bring up for tomorrow. Sixty kid, You're gonna see,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: You're gonna see what's up. I got one of my
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: friends to say to you for her come up to tomorrow.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I don't you got to say? I don't care. I'm
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: gonna whoop ya say that. I got I got one more? Three?
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Un listen to me? What do you listen? What? What?
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: This is a few Timmy from the Steve Harveard Morning Show.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Who you you say? Whom? Hey? This nephew Timmy from
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harveart Morning Show. You just got franked by
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: your co worker. Man, you man, she man, y'all got me, Man,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I's like sixty teen in tomorrow. I got something for her.
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: She's gonna have to watch her back every hour, every
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: hour on the hour. I got something for her. I
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna hurt her, but I'm definitely gonna do it
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: in tomorrow. Believe that. Well. You read it though. I was, hell, yeah,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna man. You don't even know what you had
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: in store for you. You was like, y'all is gonna
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: pull me off? And that probably wouldn't have been enough either. Hey,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you, baby girl.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: What is the badest radio station in the land. You
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: already know Steve Harvey Morning Show sixty ten babies, come
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: on down. I'm come on down here. I gave you
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: my hours she pm. Yeah. I usually come in five
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: minute air and wash my hand play too much. Nephew.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all check it out knoxbil Civic Auditorium, the
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: neph we would be Nephew would be there alone with
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: my boy Bruce. Bruce. That's Friday. That's this Friday, y'all,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: April nineteen. That is going down. That's good Friday, Good Friday,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: the nephew would be in the building, and then Virginia
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Beach Comedy Club May second through the fourth. Y'all laying
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: in the cut. I'm on my way now, Uncle Steve.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: Check this texaw Counta, Texas, Arkansas right there on the border,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: nephew going to the Texa Caunta Convention Center. Ump. Think
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: it's our own sail up in Texas County. If you
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, we got a lot of older
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: people that don't want to go online and get no tickets.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: They want to physically go buy their ticket. So tickers
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: on sail at the Miracle Closet, and I also at
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: GQ Fashion, your Miracle closet. Yeah, come on, because after
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: you get it out of that, it's that's how it's
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: gonna look on like a miracle and the GQ closet.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: No GQ Fashion, GQ Fashion and the miracle clause. I'll
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: be damned till me. You ought to go there and
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: get your outfit from GQ and then wear on stage.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: That'd be great promotion, man, if it'll prove that you
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: love the city. So you want to go get your
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: outfit from GQ, Yeah, So go in like the day
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: before going in and get me something to wear, give
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  Speaker 1: me something out of Miracle Close and didn't give me
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: something else out of GQU fast. Yeah, but you've always
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: taught me to have my outfit ready when I get
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: to the city. Yeah, but I want you to now,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: since they're selling your tickets or GQ head, I want
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: you to go down there, buy your your outfit from
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: them and wad Okay, they probably got a nice crush
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: velvet outfit down not the crush velvet, so they don't
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: know find to wear crushed velvet and eight men mate
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: not a Tommy down South? Hey, yeah it was white
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: on Christmas. White. Get your tickets at Miracle Closet or
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: GQ Fashion, or you can go online go to Thomas
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: dot com, click on tech ar can I and get
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: your tickets. I will be there Saturday for a Month's Day,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day weekend. Tommy May, what's up? Who the dude
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: on the talk on trucks selling ticket that they can keep?
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: He keep moving out all right? Thinking of you coming up?
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: It is today's Strawberry Letters subject something wasn't smelling right.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Morning
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: Show It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and
• 54:03
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• 54:07
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• 54:18
  Speaker 1: read this one live today. Buckle up and hold on tight.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the straw
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Berry Letter subject Something Wasn't smelling right. Dear Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a married associate pastor and my wife is a
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: stay at home mom. Two months ago, I went to
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: Africa on a mission trip, and when I came home,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: my wife was acting weird. She would be either really
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: happy or really sleepy, so I thought she was having
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: a nervous breakdown until one night I leaned into her
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: to kiss her, and I noticed a strange smell in
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: her hair and breath. It was weed. I asked her
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: if she had been smoking, and she denied it and
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: got irritated, irritated with me for asking. After that, I
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: started watching her closely and I snooped through her car.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I found cigar wrappers, a lighter, and an ATM receipt
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: under her seat. She told me that she had no
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: idea how that stuff got in her car. He knows
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: that I don't condone marijuana use at all, and definitely
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: not in my home around my children. Thankfully, God revealed
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: her wrongdoings and I was able to bust her in
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: the act of smoking weed on the patio when she
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: thought I'd be gone for a while. She has been
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: living a double life and playing me for a fool.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: She came clean and started defending her smoking by saying
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: that she smokes with a few of the ladies from
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: our church and it's no big deal. Even though it's
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: legal in our state, I still don't allow it in
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: my home. She told me that my views are old
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: school and I'm stuck on stupid. She said, if she
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: is to continue to take care of our kids and
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: the home daily, she does not plan to stop smoking
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: weed because it's therapeutic for her. I want her to
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: go to counseling and or rehab, but she refuses. She
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: said that as long as she does it away from
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: the kids, it's fine. Am I the only one that
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: thinks this is a huge problem? Please help? Oh, You're
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: absolutely right, this is a huge problem because it's affecting
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: your marriage. It's affecting your marriage in a major way,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: and it sounds like it could be a deal breaker
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: because your wife. Your wife likes her weed, Sir, she
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: likes her weed. Pastor, it's disrespectful, I think because you
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: are a pastor, and it's not a good look for you.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: I get that, even though she's smoking it with the
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: ladies from the church, the whole church will know in
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: a minute. I'm sure I get that it's illegal in
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: your state. She said that, but you don't support it.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: You didn't mention it. But I don't think this is
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: for any type of medicinal reasons or anything like that.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: The issue I have is that you say you don't
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: allow it or condone it in your home. Well, guess what,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: it's her home too. It's her home too, and she
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: lives there. She takes care of the kids all day.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: She takes care of the home and the children. And
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: she says she does not want to stop. So this
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: is a major problem. You want her to stop. You
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: don't condone it, you don't think it's cool. You don't
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: want her smoke it in in the house or around
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: the kids. And she says it's therapeutic for her, and
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: she's not going to stop. You've suggested you want her
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: to go to counseling. Have you suggested that to her
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: counseling or rehab? Well, yeah, you said that, but she refuses.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: You guys have a major impasse in your marriage. You're
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: gonna have to try and work this out. But if
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: if you're not into weed smoking and she is, I
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: don't see this working. Absolutely not. Steve well Pastor, you
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: don't believe in weeds, okay, but she do. We have
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: two different belife systems under one roof. You ain't gonna
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: have it because where you found out, you started watching
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: her closely, snooped through her car. You found cigar wrappers,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: a lighter, and an ATM receipt. She told me she
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: had no idea how this stuff got in her car.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: What I do know is I don't condone Mariano use
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: marijuana youth, saying, it's all definitely not in my home
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: around my children. Then he says, thankfully God revealed her
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: own doings and I was able to bust her in
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: the act smoking weed on the paddil when she thought
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: I'd be going for a while. Now she's saying your
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: old fashion because hearing some of the ladies from the
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: church and smoking you don't allow it in your house.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Told you your views as old school, and you stuck
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: old stupid. Then she told you if you want her
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: to continue to take care of them damn kids, she
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: gonna have to smoke a weed. So now let's get
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: into why she got to smoke so much weed. Let's
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: talk about your sermons, pastor. Are they good sermons or
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: the am sermons where people go, Man, what time is
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: it with the game is on? So I'm thinking, I
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: don't know, man, I don't. I don't. I don't really
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: know how to put this to you, except you're dealing
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: with the situation here where your wife smoke weed and
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: you don't. And I think the best way to do
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: this is just a complete reenactment, because we're not gonna
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: get to the bottom of this any other way. Shelly
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: says that she thinks that it is a problem because
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: it's affecting your marriage, so we need to go on
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: and act this out. That Jay been going for a while,
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure he still remember I'm the pastor
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: and you the weed smoker. Oh how perfect? This is?
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: A man? Baby baby, baby, I would you would sleep
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: up not smelled your breath in your hair and a
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: smell like we was happening. First of all, you have
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: got this dope, women, Hold on, hold on, Claire, I
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: ain't ain't nobody yellow, ain't screaming all the time, girl,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: ain nobody screaming. You don't smoke that weed taking down
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: night while? Are you telling me to take it down
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: or not? And you ain't smoking weed? Dude, dude, don't
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: dude me. Dude, dude, this happens so every day. Let
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: me go preach and you stay here with you see
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: smoking man. I'm telling this ain't an easy job. Baby. Yeah,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: I married you. You didn't smoke. No, and I ain't
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: gonna have it in my house now. I'm not even
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: smoking in him, my side, behind him, I'm side, not
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: even in the house. Yeah, but baby, at night, dude,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: we've sold your breadth fin this in your hair. Look,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: let me just say this. I don't know, but I'm
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: sure weeds was in the Bible. I don't know. I'm
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: not sure. Twelve dudes and I smoked something. Hold on,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Clara and a pastor. Man, we'll have part two of
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: this re enactment. And of Steve's response coming up at
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour, subject of today strawberry letter
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: is something wasn't smelling right. We'll be back right after this.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: You're listening to all right, guys. Uh, let's recap today's
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter and the subject is something wasn't smelling right Steve.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: So this past is married to this woman, went on
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: a trip and came back. Noticed she was acting kind
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: of strange, and uh, she was always tired on he
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: just wasn't herself. So he's one night he smells I
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: had in a mount and smelled a weed. So he
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: says in the letter at wedding point, let me pull
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: it up because I wanted to quote it to you.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: She said that she had no idea how the stuff
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: got in her car. She knows that I don't condone
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: marijuana use at all, definitely not in my home. Thankfully,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: God revealed her wrongdoings and I was able to bust
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: her in the act of smoking weed on the patio
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: when she thought I was going for a while. This
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: ain't really trying to hide it. Past. I'm gonna be
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: real with you. Do she out on the patio. So
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: now here's the pastor confronting her, his beloved Clara, who
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: he didn't they didn't, he didn't know she was a jumper.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Clara Clara, Yeah, no, no, Clara, you're gonna have you
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: gonna gonna pick your head up. Now look at me,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: that reverend Clara, I'm shocked that you would go to
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  Speaker 1: Dees or know it. I'm against I'm a man of God,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: I'm against weed smoking. How could you, Claren, I'm winning this.
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  Speaker 1: Can we make a deal. I'm willing to see things
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: Joe way, but I'm gonna have to smoke. What I
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: got left to get rid of all these snacks I got?
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: I tell us soon as that's Gonne clarack with Yeah,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: I can't stand by hearing good consciousness. Well I've you
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: to smoke we reef in this hill house. Okay, I'm
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: gonna I'll give it a try to give it up.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm under a lot of pressure. What type of pressure, Clara?
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: These kids? Man? You heard you? Don't you have no idea? Clara,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: Dee's kids is twenty nine and thirty two. That's what
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about. They need to be out of here.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: Out But Clara, de kids have their old apartment, Sweete,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: what is wrong with you? I don't want to disrespect you, daddy,
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  Speaker 1: I swear I don't. I don't, but you if you
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: say do it your way, I'll give it a try
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: night because I don't want to joint to come between us. Okay, Claire,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: where did you pick this? Habit? Overall? Just terrible? There's
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: a Jamaican that be out and back of the church.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know you know about it the back of
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: the church, and we're doing back down selling weed, selling weed.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: But if it a key bar, if it a key
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: by our relationship going, I'll give it up. But I
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: gotta finish this last little bag. Well, how much is
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: in the bag? How many? How many to read? Couldn't
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: you make out the bag? I got? Well, I'm gonna
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: be honest, I got about two pounds left. Who does
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: that go through? That? Two pounds of reefers you the world?
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: Where'd you buy that much? That's distribution them charges you.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: You're just making it sound like a lot that is
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: that's just a weekends where it's of weed, and oh
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: my god, the weakend is worth two pounds of Yeah.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: I got I got religious weed too, man, I got
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: walk on the water. I got some of that. You
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: you got to walk on the water weed? Have some
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: holy roly barge blue clay? Where did you birds walk
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: on waterwheel? Then you're making in the back of I
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: got some buyer. Can you get Jamaican on phone from me?
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: No problem? Hold on hello, man? Why why why you woman?
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: Why you want? Do you say? Oh, oh oh oh
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: reefs products to old Claire? No man, no man, man,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: I sell her nothing. Man. Men run a tab She
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: not sell it. She running a tab? Oh building? How
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: much she owe you by seven thousand dollars, But because
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: it's your wife, I let it go and then argue
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: without my wife, wont you seven down? Old reefs? Seven?
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: And that was a dollar in weed mind? But I
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: tell you what she do Every night when the Simmons over,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: she bring out a bottle of rich wine and give
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: back to me. Man. Oh between your marriage. Man now,
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: but what she bringing jeff wine? She mayn't wind them
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: little tanny cookies. She bring them too. No they like
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: they're very small, but you gotta eat a lot of
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: them for to be tasted. Boy, they ain't cookies them
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: communion crackers. Oh, put some peanut butter on the man,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: they're good at take I'm tired of talking to you
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: because that one. All right, guys, we gotta get out
• 1:08:53
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• 1:09:00
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:08
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• 1:09:12
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• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve from the talk
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: it is a girl. You better say it, Steve. That's right?
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: Is that? Is that my main man's after the Browns?
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: Is that Jane Browns? Up? How you doing? Jay? Jake?
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Stop playing I need my soup for Easter, Man, Stop playing.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: I told you I need the six buttons on the
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: vest with the double breastt Jones. Stop playing Jay. You
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: can do it. You know you've been making them soups. Yeah,
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: I think I'm about I think I'm about thirty eight long, timmey,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying, and I needed why
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: in the stomach? Stop playing Jack? Yeah, you know what
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: you don't I'm talking. You know, the stomach is not
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: going down. Everything else is going down. Breast going down?
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: Why to the stomach, all that fat is going Yeah,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: but I need six to eight buttons on my vest.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: Jathy Brown, bring a little chalk thing you becautting stuff with.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: I told you I need a Steve Harvey's Sunrise service.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Silk on, somble silk, that's right, silk on. When I
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: go talk to the Lord resurrection weekend. Man, Hey, had
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: a report came out? Had the mula report came out today?
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: It comes out today. It's come out today. Man, Listen,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: that dude did the same thing long time ago when H. W.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: Bush was in the White House, and he didn't he
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: cover from Jacob for him. I'm in the Republican Party.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: I know all the inside stuff he gonna cover for
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: this this one. And the only way we can get
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: him out of office, we need to vote him out
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: of office. And I don't give a dog on that.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders is number two, and and what what's the name?
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: Bude Ledge? Well? I like him, I mean as a
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: young dude, but he got some racial issues he got
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: to deal with. You know what I'm saying. Got some
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: gentrification issues. He got to deal. See, we gotta look
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: at everybody. I'm still going for Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: That's the money team right there, that's the money what y'alla.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: He hasn't announced formally yet. Joe Biden has issues too, Cheryl,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: though the stupid Democratic Party is calling him on everything. True. Yes,
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: the Republicans would never do that. We want to win
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: by any means necessary. That's why we let this sucker
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: being our part of Donald Trump's with his children, and
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: you go to Africa's many times you want to and
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: they ain't gonna make us feel better about you. And
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: we want our reparation money. We got a list of
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: everybody got reparation money. See, I don't switch my side
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: on this one. We need our coin for reparation. Everybody
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: ain't got money. The Indians ain't got money, Javanese ain't
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: got money, and they should have. All the people should
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: have got money. Don't be playing us talking about you
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: want to put together a panel or something like that.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: What you gonna do? But I don't care what anybody
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: to do. Trump need to get out of all. I'm
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: saying that as a Republican need to get out of office.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: I don't care how many bars he get up that
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: Roseanne Ball, William Ball, whoever it is, it ain't gonna
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: cover for him with this foolishness that's going on, not
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: on Resurrection weekend, see that that ain't that just ain't
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: gonna happen. But Steve, what was you finna say about
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: Joe Bidens and even President Obama say it's a circular fire.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: Scrid y'all just shooting at each other. How stupid is
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: that they need to get together and back one? What
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: was you fing to say, Steve Harves gonna say nothing
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: except that we're tragically making mistakes as a Democratic party
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: because now we're dog and Biden about his past behavior
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: and you know, man making him have to pay for
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: something he did years ago, which the Republicans never do.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: They never do that. Man. They let I mean, man,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: look at this, this dude. They don't care, man and man,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: everybody else has to pay except Republicans. They get together
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: and they said, don't worry about it, and that's what
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: they've done, and they squash it. They squash and the
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: Democrats need to get together, and they need to squash it.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: They need to sell all the difference behind closed door.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: They need to come out back one person then say okay,
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: it's just like we do in Greek them you're gonna
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: run a slate. Then everybody gonna run together, you know,
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: and then we're gonna make it work. This Resurrection weekend,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: first week gonna we're gonna forget if we're gonna say focused.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: And I'm just glad. Let me say this too while
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: I lose my whole train of thought. We're glad that
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: they're given a billion dollars for Notre Dame, but I'm
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: gonna need somebody to go down there. What is an
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: obolusis Louisiana. They got one point three you know what
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. We need some money over there too. And
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: I'm glad that everybody coming together. I'm glad everybody got
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: loving their heart. But then after Resurrection Weekend is over,
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: then I need us to get back to work. I
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: need us to get through these primaries. I need us
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: to start electing the right people. Then I need us
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: first of all, Nasa Pelosi, I need you on nothing
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: but celery water and the air for the rest of
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: your life, because you're the only one putting the foot in.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Colin Farrell, stop looking at me. You're the
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: only one getting that trump Listen. I believe she was
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: in Game of Thrones when they first started last week.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: I believe she was flying on one of them dragons,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: sitting in that chair with all the swords in it.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: Because Pelosi, it's no je I like Nancy for losing.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: She got man. She is one of them people that
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: be getting in your path. You can't even play the
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: dozens with her because she dig in your old family business.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: Don't even that's right, don't even do it. What y'all
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: finna do for Easter, though, what y'all fnna do for Easter?
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: I go the best side Baptists. Yeah, I go the
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: best side Baptists. You know I'll be I'll be trying
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: to motivate myself for Sun. Right, I'm already of the year.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: That's right, That's right. You know what, I really go
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: far the little edge. The boy and I punch your
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: baby in the stomach for a boy, I will Jamee Brown,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: and I have a salt shaker, salt and pepper shaker
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: in my pocket, and I kiss them me. I punch
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: your baby in the stomach. I stopped crying. They go
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: to Eastern Bunny, stop crying, you throw up? Since how
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: five years old? I've been taking blood presidentical, that cholesterol white,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: the yoke and the white. Thank you so much. We
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: love you girls. Is it time for me to go? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: we gotta I'm making me leave because I said I'll
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: punch your baby. Stop. Now, we just gotta go. You
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: know how it goes. It's coming up at the top
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: of the hour. It's Carla's Reality Update. Right after this.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: You're listening to stew get ready to get ready, to
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: get ready, to get ready, to get ready to get ready.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: She is here, call A Ferrell with what reality update?
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: With what that's right? Nephew, Reality update? All right, here
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: we go on Real Housewives of Atlanta Reunion Show Part
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: dose spot two. Okay, so niny, Wow, she was clowning
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: on this particular Listen to this one, yeah, shob please listen.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: Nini said that she and Greg may actually get a divorce.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: What yeah, yeah, yeah, Nini said that her and Greg
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: may get a divorce now on the reunion show. She
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: actually Greg was a guest on this particular part of
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: the reunion show, and he doesn't want to get a divorce.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: But Nini said that her marriage had problems before Greg
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: was diagnosed with colon cancer, and she also mentioned that
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: he cheated in the past and that Greg was grouchy
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: while being sick. She went on and on and on. Yeah,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: there was some issues. Yeah, cancer change. Yeah, he has
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: colon cancer. So anyway, take a listen. When Andy talked
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: to Nini about the possible separation between her and her husband, Greg,
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: take a listen. Do you wish that she had not
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: revealed that you had cheated? Um, that was so long
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: ago that that really just didn't have any weight. Did
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: you hurt from that guy removed from me a long
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: time ago? Um, maybe it didn't get removed from you.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: Maybe Greg. Ninie made it sound like you were the
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: one asking for separation when she was talking to Cynthia
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Eva's wedding. Is that what happened? You know, I can't
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: recall exactly what it was, but we were into it.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: I went to the wedding alone. Well, I was getting dressed,
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: so I thought I was going. He couldn't go, not
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: arguing with me, You ditched him? Yes, yeah, so you know,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: I think Greg was a little uncomfortable about it. But
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: he loved, yes, yes, and he talked about maybe they
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: Nini kind of reveals a little too much, you know,
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: they talked about they both do really yeah, yeah, but
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: he you know you rooting for him. You're rooting for
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: Greg to stay strong, to beat colon cancer. And I
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: hope they worked their marriage out. I really really do.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: Moving on, Ninie was acting mean on the show. You know,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: she was mean, she was short, you know, with the
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: other cast members on the show, and the new cast
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: member member. She's a friend of the show. Her name
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: is Tanya, and she was introduced to the group by Ninie,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: and she says that when you become friends with the
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: other ladies in the group, it's like Ninie will dismiss you,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: and so yeah, so Porta and Cynthia kind of agreed
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: with Tanya. What do you think so too, Steve go
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: ahead say oh yeah, Steve, what's happening there here? Let
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: me help y'all. Ninie is all what you call oh,
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: you know, just wanted. I don't know the name of it.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: The people were and see, nacissists are very close to
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: the word narcotics, and once you get involved with narcotics,
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: it's just all about you damn about your family or nothing,
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: Thus the word narcissist. And so when she just wants
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: you to love her once you go get somebody else,
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: she played you hard to the level because it's gonna
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: be about nine now. Yeah, well I have to say
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: I feel she has. Yeah, she is. And Nini she
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: kind of whispered to Andy that you know, the women
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: were working really hard for their peaches, trying to say,
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: you know, they're just coming after her on this particular
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: reunion special. But she also talks about her behavior at
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: the Bye Wig party, remember the whole closet gate. She
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: had to explain her behavior. You remember when Nini ripped
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: the shirt off the cameraman, pulling him back so he
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: could not film what was going on with her close
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: it and Porche and Candy and all that drama. Pani Uh,
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: Candy and Porsche. But Nini admitted she had a natural
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: breakdown because so los story shore Portia was very hurt
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: by Nini just dismissing them, and and she said, you
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: know what, we pray for you. We thought we were
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: your friends, you know, we pray for you, My family
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: pray for you, my man prayed for you. And then
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: here you are treating us all like this. It just
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: wasn't genuine. Take a listen to Porsche, She's really pouring
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: our heart out to Nini, Take a listen. We were
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: there for you, and we genuinely pray for you and
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: your husband. Your main issue is you don't know how
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: to accept the support from your friends all of us. Yes,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: that's hurtful. Like that makes me feel like any experience
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: I have ever had with you was faced so many
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: times since we've been on this couch, which is brand
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: new to me, that we are not friends. Okay, so
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: just understand what you're doing. You think it's all nonchalant
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: and que but that hurts because me and my fiance
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: have prayed for you and my mother, all of us,
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: and the fact that you would sit here now and
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: give a big to all of us is very hurt fault.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: What's your response? No response? No response, You're just shut down.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: I just irritated me. That's wrong. So what do you want?
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  Speaker 1: I thought sheld just poured her heart out? What do
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  Speaker 1: you want me to say? She wants say something. If
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  Speaker 1: someone poured their heart out to me, I might have
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  Speaker 1: a response. I don't know. Call me crazy, Okay, he
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  Speaker 1: built up. He just built up. Well, no response is
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  Speaker 1: just better, is Yeah. She just feels that they're attacking
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  Speaker 1: her and they're all ganging up on her. And every
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  Speaker 1: time they do a reunion show, it's always about ni
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  Speaker 1: Need and that's what it was, Just like the one
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  Speaker 1: from last Saunion Are you right about he's the same
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  Speaker 1: day of l I heard Needy knows how to get
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  Speaker 1: you to talk about She knows her name out there show.
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  Speaker 1: She knows exactly what she's doing. Yeah, she knows exactly
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  Speaker 1: what she's doing. She does what she wants to do. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but if anybody call on it, then you get like
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  Speaker 1: she said, no comment man with cancer. Damn that's cool man,
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  Speaker 1: yea god, yeah yeah, So hit me up social media
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  Speaker 1: at let's about Carl. Let's tell me what you think.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about Real Housewives of Atlanta. Was Needing wrong
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  Speaker 1: for no response in Porscha, you know, pouring her heart out,
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  Speaker 1: So just hit me up we can talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: And also there's some rumors on the show that they're
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: going to shake up the cast of Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: Phasa may be coming, Vaca may be coming back, Shamari
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  Speaker 1: Da Vox may get demoted. Uh, Scynthia may be gone.
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  Speaker 1: It's all kind of rumors I did, and uh I heard.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: Marlow's definitely moving up. Marlow may get promoted. All right,
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  Speaker 1: love this story. Time magazine has released its annual Time
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  Speaker 1: Our Girl Gail King yea, Gail, Yeah yeah yeah. Also
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  Speaker 1: among those making this year's list Lebron James, Mark Zuckerberg,
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  Speaker 1: Regina King Yes, yes yes, Alexandria Ocasio Cortez, Y, William Barr, Pope,
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  Speaker 1: Michelle Obama, Lady Gaga, Tiger Woods, and Amelia Clark from
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  Speaker 1: one hundred most influential people in the world. Time Magazine's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be You're not gonna be. No Time magazine. They
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  Speaker 1: don't consider me influential anyway. So but but you that's
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  Speaker 1: why we're doing it, boy, because you own you. You're
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  Speaker 1: a very influential Why said, how do you think we eat?
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  Speaker 1: Influence that don't that don't bother you nothing that I
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  Speaker 1: about this list? No, but yeah, you're influential to us, Sonny. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We love your fans and your fans I mean absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited, but I don't I don't know if I'm
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  Speaker 1: being on the list. To him, well, there's always next year.
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  Speaker 1: He always liked this. After he Texas, y'all just had
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, he is kind of somber. Yeah, King. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: We'll be back with Laura of the Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to show, Well, yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: it was all about Beyonce. Uh yes, wasn't it though?
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  Speaker 1: Beyonce delivered again, Yeah she did. I mean she's always
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  Speaker 1: doing special things for her spans, for her fans, and
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  Speaker 1: yesterday was no difference. She delivered a special gift to
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  Speaker 1: her fans. Overnight, Queen Bee dropped a forty track did
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  Speaker 1: You hear Me? Forty track live album to coincide with
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  Speaker 1: her new Coachella Netflix Netflix concert film okay, called Homecoming,
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  Speaker 1: a film by Beyonce. Forty songs, forty City, forty there's
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  Speaker 1: some dudes in the basement right now. I can't finish
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  Speaker 1: that one damn song forty that's my yeah. Homecoming. The
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  Speaker 1: live album was really shortly after midnight to streaming services
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  Speaker 1: and includes a brand new song. The album was recorded
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  Speaker 1: at her twenty eighteen headline performance at Coachella. That was
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  Speaker 1: last year, of course. Now, Steve, you're gonna love this.
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  Speaker 1: There's a bonus track on the album. It's her cover
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  Speaker 1: of Frankie Beverly and Mazes before I Let Go Got
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  Speaker 1: It here Okay, New Orleans, be with it. I am
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  Speaker 1: about the album A forty yeah, forty tracks, Yeah, no, yes,
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  Speaker 1: in the car right now? Wait yeah, I haven't had
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  Speaker 1: a chance to watch the specially yet. I planned to
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  Speaker 1: do that this weekend of course. So yeah, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do well to be back. Yeah. Yeah, we're gonna really
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  Speaker 1: lay around ned a lot. So you got special talent,
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  Speaker 1: real with what time that's gonna be, So I don't
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  Speaker 1: house try coming in with as yet. But congratulations though
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  Speaker 1: to Cranby Beyonce, I mean, yeah, that's amazing. She said
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  Speaker 1: she ballooned up to two hundred and eighteen pounds with
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  Speaker 1: the twins and she had to have an emergency c section.
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  Speaker 1: These are some of the things she talks about, the
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  Speaker 1: which makes you bow down even more. And she did
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  Speaker 1: that and then did coello the next year. Right, the
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  Speaker 1: next year, girl, Right. She had eight months to get
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  Speaker 1: into Cella's shape and she did it. Eight months. She
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  Speaker 1: did it. She said she didn't need any carbs, any meat,
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  Speaker 1: any sugar, any fish, just what that leave. All right,
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  Speaker 1: we'll be back with the clothes. Uh, today has been
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  Speaker 1: a good day. Um, we'll be back to closing the
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  Speaker 1: show with Steve's closing remarks coming up at forty nine
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, Right, after this. You're listening here, we are,
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day. Wants to get it's about Sherry. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: the things that I've learned along the way. One of
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  Speaker 1: the things I think is very important that we should
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  Speaker 1: talk about. We should talk about blame and excuses. Um,
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  Speaker 1: blame and excuses. I'm telling you, man, they serve no purpose.
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  Speaker 1: Excuses first of all, only good for the person that's
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  Speaker 1: providing them. It does nothing for the person who receives it.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever had somebody tell you a reason why
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  Speaker 1: they didn't do something and you were counting on them
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  Speaker 1: to get it done, and they gave you an excuse
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  Speaker 1: as to why. Okay, here's somebody's supposed to pick you
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  Speaker 1: up in the car pool for work. Now you didn't
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  Speaker 1: gave your car to your spouse so they could go
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  Speaker 1: do what they want to do. Now you're sitting there
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  Speaker 1: waiting on the car pool to come pick you up.
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  Speaker 1: They don't pick you up now they late. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: had a hard time getting up this morning. Man, I'm glad,
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  Speaker 1: but i'm here though. Whoa man, that's an excuse? What
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  Speaker 1: do you mean you're late? You had a hard time
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  Speaker 1: getting up? I'm sitting up here waiting on you to
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  Speaker 1: pick me up, and you come forty five minutes later.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm late for work. See that excuse that does
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  Speaker 1: okay for I was sick this morning. I didn't fill
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  Speaker 1: up to it. That excuse works wonderful for you, but
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  Speaker 1: the person receiving the excuse gets nothing. You've got to
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  Speaker 1: remove excuses from your vocabulary and your walk in life. See,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really accept excuses from anybody in my camp.
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  Speaker 1: If you're an employer, you work for me. I don't
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  Speaker 1: do excuses because I don't give none. Today. For example,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not feeling real well. You know, my sign assistant
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  Speaker 1: kicked in. I've had a troublesome night last night. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not feeling well. But guess what, I came to work
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  Speaker 1: on the radio today, and I'll do these two shows
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  Speaker 1: I got to do today because I don't. I heard
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  Speaker 1: they don't care up about my excuses. People who are
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  Speaker 1: looking for me to wake them up in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: give them a laugh, or give them a thought starter.
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  Speaker 1: They're not looking for my excuses, they're just looking for
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: the results. Excuses don't do me no good. Now, that's
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  Speaker 1: some days all of us are not up to part.
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  Speaker 1: We're not on but I'm not. I don't care about
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  Speaker 1: the excuses. I don't accept excuses because I don't give excuses.
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  Speaker 1: The other thing I removed from my life is blame.
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  Speaker 1: And once you blame another person, man, this is what
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  Speaker 1: happened with blame, blame and excuses. Listen to me. Finger
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  Speaker 1: pointing does nothing. Because you've heard old saying, every time
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  Speaker 1: you point your finger in a person, you notice that's
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  Speaker 1: three of them pointing back at you. Once you're in
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  Speaker 1: the blame business and the excuse business, you forfeit your
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  Speaker 1: chance for growth. I give you an example. If you're
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  Speaker 1: always talking about is somebody else's fault and you're always
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: have an excuse why something didn't get done or accomplished,
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: guess what now you can't grow. You can't grow, You
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  Speaker 1: can't fix it because the reason why it didn't happen,
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: or the reason why you didn't accomplish it is because
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: you blame someone else and you have an excuse. Once
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  Speaker 1: you aren't accepting blame and excuses, you forfeit your chance
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  Speaker 1: for growth. You killed any chance for change. Sometimes all
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: you have to do as a person is search within
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  Speaker 1: yourself and find out what it is about you that
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  Speaker 1: you could change that could start producing a better result.
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  Speaker 1: But if you always blaming somebody else and providing it
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: and accepting excuses from yourself and other people, guess what
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: you've done. You've killed your chance for change. Sometimes you
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: could be doing a whole lot better in life if
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 1: you would just change, if you would search yourself and
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: change something about you, you would be doing so much better.
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  Speaker 1: If you just search yourself, stop allowing excuses to be
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  Speaker 1: a part of your makeup, and stop allowing blame to
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  Speaker 1: be a part of it, and you would discover a
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  Speaker 1: lot of this suggest you it could be you another
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: thing to blame an excuse it does. It allows you
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  Speaker 1: to fail favorably, you know, man, you can just get
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  Speaker 1: all right with failing. You can fail favorably because it
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  Speaker 1: ain't my fault and I didn't do it because it
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: was cold outside. So ta you allow yourself to fail favorably.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: That's an ugly spot to be in. But blaming excuses
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: allows you to fail favorably, Like it's okay to fail
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 1: because it ain't my fault because I have an excuse.
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: And if they fault, blaming excuses, man, is a very
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  Speaker 1: very dangerous thing out there. Also, blaming excuses promotes a
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  Speaker 1: climate of failure. It just premeates man throughout your life.
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  Speaker 1: And next thing, you know, you ain't accomplishing nothing because
• 1:36:45
  Speaker 1: if blaming, blaming excuses a part of your makeup, you
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 1: now have promoted a climate for failure. It's okay, It's
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: okay because I have a reason why why you didn't
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: finish school, because because it was too cold to go?
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: Why you didn't finish school because that test was too hard.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: I didn't study them two pages. I thought they said
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: the first chapter. She questions us on the first three chapters.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't hear that that's the only reason I failed.
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 1: And you get all right with it. When you're no
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 1: longer the reason why something happens. You no longer have
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: control over what happens. Let me say that to you
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 1: one more time. When you're no longer the reason why
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: something happens, you ain't gonna take responsibility. You're not the reason.
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: Stop allowing blame and excuses to end into your makeup.
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  Speaker 1: They served nobody any good, especially you. Those are my
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  Speaker 1: closing all right now, day, have yourself a good week.
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