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57 Years after Loving v. Virginia: Fathers in Interracial Marriages Speak Out. · TonyTidbit: A Black Executive Perspective

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Tony Tidbit: race
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BEP Narrator: Perspective.
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Tony Tidbit: Welcome
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History Channel Narrator: On
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History Channel Narrator: July
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History Channel Narrator: 11th,
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History Channel Narrator: 1958,
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History Channel Narrator: at
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History Channel Narrator: 2
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History Channel Narrator: m.,
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History Channel Narrator: a
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History Channel Narrator: county
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History Channel Narrator: sheriff
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History Channel Narrator: entered
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History Channel Narrator: the
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History Channel Narrator: home
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History Channel Narrator: of
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History Channel Narrator: Virginia
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History Channel Narrator: couple
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History Channel Narrator: Richard
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History Channel Narrator: and
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History Channel Narrator: Mildred
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History Channel Narrator: Loving,
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History Channel Narrator: forced
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History Channel Narrator: out
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History Channel Narrator: of
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History Channel Narrator: their
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History Channel Narrator: Their
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History Channel Narrator: interracial
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History Channel Narrator: marriage.
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History Channel Narrator: They
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History Channel Narrator: were
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History Channel Narrator: tried
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History Channel Narrator: and
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History Channel Narrator: found
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History Channel Narrator: guilty
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History Channel Narrator: of
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History Channel Narrator: violating
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History Channel Narrator: Virginia's
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History Channel Narrator: Racial
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History Channel Narrator: Integrity
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History Channel Narrator: Act
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History Channel Narrator: of
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History Channel Narrator: 1924,
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History Channel Narrator: a
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History Channel Narrator: series
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History Channel Narrator: of
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History Channel Narrator: laws
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History Channel Narrator: that
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History Channel Narrator: made
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History Channel Narrator: race
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History Channel Narrator: mixing
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History Channel Narrator: illegal.
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History Channel Narrator: On
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History Channel Narrator: June
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History Channel Narrator: 12th,
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History Channel Narrator: 1967,
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History Channel Narrator: the
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History Channel Narrator: unanimously
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History Channel Narrator: struck
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History Channel Narrator: down
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History Channel Narrator: overturned
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History Channel Narrator: the
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History Channel Narrator: Conviction.
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History Channel Narrator: ruling
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History Channel Narrator: reverberated
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History Channel Narrator: invalidating
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History Channel Narrator: anti
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History Channel Narrator: Virginia,
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History Channel Narrator: 16
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History Channel Narrator: free
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History Channel Narrator: They
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History Channel Narrator: quietly
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History Channel Narrator: in
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History Channel Narrator: Virginia
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History Channel Narrator: as
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History Channel Narrator: husband
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History Channel Narrator: wife
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History Channel Narrator: until
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History Channel Narrator: Richard's
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History Channel Narrator: death
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History Channel Narrator: in
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Tony Tidbit: today,
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Tony Tidbit: Supreme
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Tony Tidbit: Court
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Tony Tidbit: case
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Tony Tidbit: Loving
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Tony Tidbit: Virginia,
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Tony Tidbit: legalized
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Tony Tidbit: We'll
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Tony Tidbit: 57
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Tony Tidbit: years
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Tony Tidbit: later
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Tony Tidbit: of
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Tony Tidbit: interracial
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Tony Tidbit: Following
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Tony Tidbit: my
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Robert Townes: Thank
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Brian Stern: Thank
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Tony Tidbit: 57
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4:10
Tony Tidbit: everyone.
4:11
Tony Tidbit: So
4:11
Tony Tidbit: starting
4:11
Tony Tidbit: with
4:12
Tony Tidbit: Brian,
4:12
Tony Tidbit: you
4:12
Tony Tidbit: go
4:12
Tony Tidbit: first.
4:13
Tony Tidbit: Please
4:13
Tony Tidbit: introduce
4:14
Tony Tidbit: yourself.
4:15
Tony Tidbit: Tell
4:15
Tony Tidbit: us
4:15
Tony Tidbit: about
4:16
Tony Tidbit: your
4:16
Tony Tidbit: current
4:16
Tony Tidbit: occupation,
4:17
Tony Tidbit: where
4:17
Tony Tidbit: you're
4:17
Tony Tidbit: living
4:18
Tony Tidbit: and
4:18
Tony Tidbit: the
4:18
Tony Tidbit: racial
4:19
Tony Tidbit: makeup
4:19
Tony Tidbit: of
4:19
Tony Tidbit: your
4:20
Tony Tidbit: spouse.
4:21
Brian Stern: Sure.
4:21
Brian Stern: Thank
4:21
Brian Stern: you
4:21
Brian Stern: for
4:22
Brian Stern: having
4:22
Brian Stern: me
4:22
Brian Stern: back,
4:22
Brian Stern: Tony.
4:23
Brian Stern: It's
4:23
Brian Stern: great
4:23
Brian Stern: to
4:23
Brian Stern: be
4:23
Brian Stern: with
4:24
Brian Stern: you
4:24
Brian Stern: again
4:24
Brian Stern: on
4:24
Brian Stern: the
4:24
Brian Stern: podcast.
4:25
Brian Stern: I
4:25
Brian Stern: really
4:25
Brian Stern: appreciate
4:26
Brian Stern: the
4:26
Brian Stern: opportunity
4:26
Brian Stern: to,
4:27
Brian Stern: uh,
4:27
Brian Stern: to
4:27
Brian Stern: speak.
4:28
Brian Stern: Um,
4:29
Brian Stern: so
4:29
Brian Stern: giving
4:30
Brian Stern: just
4:30
Brian Stern: a
4:30
Brian Stern: little
4:30
Brian Stern: bit
4:30
Brian Stern: of
4:30
Brian Stern: background,
4:31
Brian Stern: uh,
4:31
Brian Stern: on
4:31
Brian Stern: me,
4:32
Brian Stern: uh,
4:32
Brian Stern: currently
4:32
Brian Stern: I
4:33
Brian Stern: help
4:33
Brian Stern: people
4:33
Brian Stern: become
4:34
Brian Stern: entrepreneurs.
4:34
Brian Stern: That's
4:35
Brian Stern: my
4:35
Brian Stern: job.
4:35
Brian Stern: I
4:35
Brian Stern: coach
4:35
Brian Stern: people
4:36
Brian Stern: in
4:36
Brian Stern: the
4:36
Brian Stern: world
4:36
Brian Stern: of
4:36
Brian Stern: entrepreneur.
4:38
Brian Stern: Um,
4:39
Brian Stern: as
4:39
Brian Stern: far
4:39
Brian Stern: as
4:40
Brian Stern: my
4:40
Brian Stern: marriage,
4:40
Brian Stern: I
4:40
Brian Stern: am
4:41
Brian Stern: coming
4:41
Brian Stern: up
4:41
Brian Stern: on
4:42
Brian Stern: my
4:42
Brian Stern: 16th
4:43
Brian Stern: anniversary.
4:44
Brian Stern: Uh,
4:44
Brian Stern: being
4:44
Brian Stern: married
4:45
Brian Stern: to
4:45
Brian Stern: a
4:45
Brian Stern: very
4:45
Brian Stern: beautiful
4:46
Brian Stern: Filipino
4:46
Brian Stern: woman
4:46
Brian Stern: who
4:47
Brian Stern: was
4:47
Brian Stern: born
4:47
Brian Stern: and
4:47
Brian Stern: raised
4:48
Brian Stern: in
4:48
Brian Stern: a
4:49
Brian Stern: very
4:49
Brian Stern: rural
4:49
Brian Stern: part
4:50
Brian Stern: of
4:50
Brian Stern: the
4:50
Brian Stern: Philippines.
4:50
Brian Stern: She
4:50
Brian Stern: came
4:51
Brian Stern: over
4:51
Brian Stern: here
4:51
Brian Stern: as
4:51
Brian Stern: an
4:51
Brian Stern: adult,
4:52
Brian Stern: um,
4:53
Brian Stern: when
4:53
Brian Stern: we
4:53
Brian Stern: met.
4:54
Brian Stern: And
4:54
Brian Stern: um,
4:55
Brian Stern: we
4:55
Brian Stern: have
4:55
Brian Stern: a
4:55
Brian Stern: beautiful
4:56
Brian Stern: daughter
4:57
Brian Stern: at
4:57
Brian Stern: the
4:57
Brian Stern: age
4:57
Brian Stern: of
4:57
Brian Stern: 13.
4:58
Brian Stern: So
4:58
Brian Stern: a
4:59
Brian Stern: brand
4:59
Brian Stern: new
4:59
Brian Stern: teenager
5:00
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5:00
Brian Stern: the
5:00
Brian Stern: household,
5:00
Brian Stern: which
5:00
Brian Stern: is
5:00
Brian Stern: a
5:01
Brian Stern: whole
5:01
Brian Stern: other
5:01
Brian Stern: thing
5:02
Brian Stern: to
5:02
Brian Stern: have
5:02
Brian Stern: fun
5:02
Brian Stern: to
5:02
Brian Stern: talk
5:03
Brian Stern: about
5:03
Brian Stern: as
5:03
Brian Stern: well.
5:03
Tony Tidbit: I
5:03
Tony Tidbit: can
5:03
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5:04
Tony Tidbit: my
5:04
Tony Tidbit: friend.
5:04
Tony Tidbit: And
5:04
Tony Tidbit: where
5:04
Tony Tidbit: are
5:04
Tony Tidbit: you
5:04
Tony Tidbit: residing
5:05
Tony Tidbit: at,
5:05
Tony Tidbit: Brian?
5:07
Brian Stern: I
5:07
Brian Stern: am
5:07
Brian Stern: on
5:07
Brian Stern: the
5:07
Brian Stern: Jersey
5:08
Brian Stern: shore.
5:08
Brian Stern: Okay,
5:09
Brian Stern: great.
5:09
Tony Tidbit: So
5:09
Tony Tidbit: he's
5:09
Tony Tidbit: in
5:09
Tony Tidbit: New
5:09
Tony Tidbit: Jersey.
5:10
Tony Tidbit: So
5:10
Tony Tidbit: welcome
5:10
Tony Tidbit: my
5:11
Tony Tidbit: brother.
5:11
Tony Tidbit: And
5:11
Tony Tidbit: again,
5:12
Tony Tidbit: for
5:12
Tony Tidbit: those
5:12
Tony Tidbit: who,
5:13
Tony Tidbit: um,
5:14
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5:14
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5:14
Tony Tidbit: aware,
5:15
Tony Tidbit: Brian
5:16
Tony Tidbit: Stern
5:16
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5:16
Tony Tidbit: on
5:16
Tony Tidbit: and
5:17
Tony Tidbit: talked
5:17
Tony Tidbit: about
5:17
Tony Tidbit: interracial,
5:18
Tony Tidbit: uh,
5:19
Tony Tidbit: his
5:19
Tony Tidbit: interracial,
5:20
Tony Tidbit: um,
5:20
Tony Tidbit: marriage
5:21
Tony Tidbit: back
5:21
Tony Tidbit: in
5:21
Tony Tidbit: one
5:21
Tony Tidbit: of
5:21
Tony Tidbit: our
5:22
Tony Tidbit: earlier
5:22
Tony Tidbit: episodes.
5:23
Tony Tidbit: So
5:23
Tony Tidbit: I'm
5:23
Tony Tidbit: so
5:23
Tony Tidbit: glad
5:23
Tony Tidbit: you
5:23
Tony Tidbit: came
5:24
Tony Tidbit: back,
5:24
Tony Tidbit: my
5:24
Tony Tidbit: friend,
5:25
Tony Tidbit: Shawn,
5:26
Shawn Norville: my
5:27
Shawn Norville: brother,
5:27
Shawn Norville: um,
5:28
Shawn Norville: Shawn
5:29
Shawn Norville: Norville,
5:29
Shawn Norville: uh,
5:30
Shawn Norville: My
5:31
Shawn Norville: wife
5:31
Shawn Norville: and
5:31
Shawn Norville: I
5:31
Shawn Norville: have
5:32
Shawn Norville: been
5:33
Shawn Norville: married
5:33
Shawn Norville: for
5:33
Shawn Norville: 18
5:34
Shawn Norville: years,
5:34
Shawn Norville: but
5:34
Shawn Norville: we've
5:34
Shawn Norville: known
5:34
Shawn Norville: each
5:35
Shawn Norville: other
5:35
Shawn Norville: since
5:35
Shawn Norville: college.
5:35
Shawn Norville: So
5:36
Shawn Norville: we're
5:36
Shawn Norville: coming
5:36
Shawn Norville: up
5:36
Shawn Norville: on
5:37
Shawn Norville: a
5:37
Shawn Norville: quarter
5:37
Shawn Norville: century
5:38
Shawn Norville: at
5:38
Shawn Norville: this
5:38
Shawn Norville: point.
5:38
Shawn Norville: Um,
5:40
Shawn Norville: I
5:40
Shawn Norville: am
5:40
Shawn Norville: from
5:41
Shawn Norville: the
5:41
Shawn Norville: island
5:41
Shawn Norville: of
5:42
Shawn Norville: Barbados.
5:42
Shawn Norville: Uh,
5:42
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5:43
Shawn Norville: wife,
5:43
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5:43
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5:44
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5:44
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5:45
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5:46
Shawn Norville: Asia
5:46
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5:46
Shawn Norville: India
5:47
Shawn Norville: and
5:47
Shawn Norville: it's
5:47
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5:48
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5:48
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5:48
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5:48
Shawn Norville: And,
5:49
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5:49
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5:49
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5:50
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5:50
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5:51
Shawn Norville: currently
5:51
Shawn Norville: right
5:52
Shawn Norville: now
5:52
Shawn Norville: in
5:52
Shawn Norville: Los
5:52
Shawn Norville: Angeles,
5:53
Shawn Norville: but
5:53
Shawn Norville: we're
5:53
Shawn Norville: formerly,
5:54
Shawn Norville: uh,
5:54
Shawn Norville: New
5:54
Shawn Norville: York
5:55
Shawn Norville: residents,
5:56
Shawn Norville: uh,
5:56
Shawn Norville: New
5:57
Shawn Norville: York
5:57
Shawn Norville: proud.
5:58
Shawn Norville: Um,
5:59
Shawn Norville: our
5:59
Shawn Norville: kids
5:59
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6:00
Shawn Norville: are
6:01
Shawn Norville: eight.
6:02
Shawn Norville: Six,
6:02
Shawn Norville: four,
6:03
Shawn Norville: and
6:03
Shawn Norville: two,
6:04
Shawn Norville: um,
6:04
Shawn Norville: three
6:04
Shawn Norville: boys
6:05
Shawn Norville: and
6:05
Shawn Norville: one
6:05
Shawn Norville: girl.
6:05
Shawn Norville: And,
6:05
Shawn Norville: uh,
6:06
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6:06
Shawn Norville: they're,
6:07
Shawn Norville: uh,
6:07
Shawn Norville: quite
6:08
Shawn Norville: the
6:08
Shawn Norville: project
6:08
Shawn Norville: management
6:08
Shawn Norville: nightmare.
6:11
Tony Tidbit: Seems
6:11
Tony Tidbit: like
6:11
Tony Tidbit: you
6:11
Tony Tidbit: got
6:12
Tony Tidbit: your
6:12
Tony Tidbit: hands
6:12
Tony Tidbit: full,
6:12
Tony Tidbit: my
6:12
Tony Tidbit: brother.
6:13
Tony Tidbit: So
6:13
Tony Tidbit: it's
6:13
Tony Tidbit: all
6:14
Tony Tidbit: good
6:14
Tony Tidbit: though.
6:14
Tony Tidbit: That's
6:14
Tony Tidbit: all
6:15
Tony Tidbit: good.
6:15
Tony Tidbit: So
6:15
Tony Tidbit: again,
6:15
Tony Tidbit: thanks,
6:16
Tony Tidbit: Shawn.
6:16
Tony Tidbit: Really
6:16
Tony Tidbit: appreciate
6:17
Tony Tidbit: you
6:17
Tony Tidbit: joining
6:17
Tony Tidbit: a
6:17
Tony Tidbit: black
6:18
Tony Tidbit: executive
6:18
Tony Tidbit: perspective
6:19
Tony Tidbit: to
6:19
Tony Tidbit: talk
6:19
Tony Tidbit: about
6:19
Tony Tidbit: this
6:19
Tony Tidbit: topic,
6:20
Tony Tidbit: Robert
6:20
Tony Tidbit: towns.
6:22
Robert Townes: How
6:22
Robert Townes: are
6:22
Robert Townes: you
6:22
Robert Townes: doing?
6:23
Robert Townes: Thank
6:23
Robert Townes: you
6:23
Robert Townes: for
6:23
Robert Townes: having
6:24
Robert Townes: me.
6:24
Robert Townes: And
6:24
Robert Townes: thank
6:24
Robert Townes: you
6:25
Robert Townes: for
6:25
Robert Townes: opening
6:25
Robert Townes: up
6:25
Robert Townes: this
6:26
Robert Townes: dialogue,
6:26
Robert Townes: because
6:26
Robert Townes: I
6:26
Robert Townes: think
6:27
Robert Townes: this
6:27
Robert Townes: is
6:27
Robert Townes: very
6:27
Robert Townes: important
6:27
Robert Townes: to
6:27
Robert Townes: have.
6:28
Robert Townes: You
6:28
Robert Townes: know,
6:28
Robert Townes: our
6:28
Robert Townes: perspective
6:29
Robert Townes: on
6:29
Robert Townes: this,
6:29
Robert Townes: this
6:29
Robert Townes: topic.
6:30
Robert Townes: And
6:30
Robert Townes: I
6:30
Robert Townes: look
6:30
Robert Townes: forward
6:31
Robert Townes: to
6:31
Robert Townes: diving
6:31
Robert Townes: into
6:31
Robert Townes: this
6:31
Robert Townes: conversation
6:32
Robert Townes: more.
6:33
Robert Townes: So
6:33
Robert Townes: Robert
6:33
Robert Townes: Towns,
6:34
Robert Townes: I
6:34
Robert Townes: am
6:34
Robert Townes: a,
6:35
Robert Townes: um,
6:36
Robert Townes: a
6:36
Robert Townes: director
6:36
Robert Townes: of
6:37
Robert Townes: external
6:37
Robert Townes: affairs
6:37
Robert Townes: at
6:37
Robert Townes: a
6:37
Robert Townes: local
6:38
Robert Townes: children's
6:38
Robert Townes: museum
6:38
Robert Townes: in
6:39
Robert Townes: Norwalk,
6:39
Robert Townes: Connecticut.
6:40
Robert Townes: I
6:40
Robert Townes: live
6:40
Robert Townes: in
6:40
Robert Townes: Connecticut,
6:41
Robert Townes: been
6:41
Robert Townes: married
6:41
Robert Townes: to
6:42
Robert Townes: my
6:42
Robert Townes: wife
6:42
Robert Townes: for
6:43
Robert Townes: 19
6:44
Robert Townes: years.
6:44
Robert Townes: We're
6:44
Robert Townes: coming
6:45
Robert Townes: up
6:45
Robert Townes: on
6:45
Robert Townes: 20
6:45
Robert Townes: this
6:45
Robert Townes: October.
6:46
Robert Townes: We're
6:46
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6:46
Robert Townes: forward
6:47
Robert Townes: to
6:47
Robert Townes: celebrating
6:47
Robert Townes: that.
6:48
Robert Townes: I
6:48
Robert Townes: have
6:48
Robert Townes: a
6:48
Robert Townes: 16
6:48
Robert Townes: year
6:49
Robert Townes: old
6:49
Robert Townes: boy
6:49
Robert Townes: and
6:49
Robert Townes: a
6:50
Robert Townes: 14
6:50
Robert Townes: year
6:50
Robert Townes: old
6:50
Robert Townes: girl.
6:51
Robert Townes: I'm
6:52
Robert Townes: very
6:52
Robert Townes: excited
6:52
Robert Townes: to
6:52
Robert Townes: talk
6:53
Robert Townes: about
6:53
Robert Townes: this
6:54
Robert Townes: for,
6:54
Robert Townes: uh,
6:55
Robert Townes: A
6:55
Robert Townes: lot
6:55
Robert Townes: of
6:55
Robert Townes: reasons,
6:55
Robert Townes: including
6:56
Robert Townes: the
6:56
Robert Townes: fact
6:56
Robert Townes: that
6:56
Robert Townes: we
6:56
Robert Townes: mentioned
6:56
Robert Townes: Loving
6:57
Robert Townes: versus
6:57
Robert Townes: Virginia.
6:58
Robert Townes: My
6:58
Robert Townes: family
6:58
Robert Townes: is
6:58
Robert Townes: from
6:59
Robert Townes: Virginia
6:59
Robert Townes: originally.
7:00
Robert Townes: Um,
7:00
Robert Townes: I
7:00
Robert Townes: grew
7:00
Robert Townes: up
7:00
Robert Townes: in
7:01
Robert Townes: Connecticut,
7:01
Robert Townes: but
7:01
Robert Townes: my
7:01
Robert Townes: family's
7:01
Robert Townes: from
7:02
Robert Townes: Virginia.
7:02
Robert Townes: So
7:02
Robert Townes: I
7:02
Robert Townes: drive
7:02
Robert Townes: past
7:03
Robert Townes: that
7:03
Robert Townes: historical
7:03
Robert Townes: marker
7:04
Robert Townes: on
7:04
Robert Townes: Route
7:05
Robert Townes: 301
7:05
Robert Townes: in
7:05
Robert Townes: Virginia
7:06
Robert Townes: all
7:06
Robert Townes: the
7:06
Robert Townes: time
7:06
Robert Townes: that
7:06
Robert Townes: marks
7:07
Robert Townes: where
7:07
Robert Townes: they
7:07
Robert Townes: were
7:07
Robert Townes: arrested.
7:08
Robert Townes: And
7:08
Robert Townes: so,
7:08
Robert Townes: um,
7:09
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7:09
Robert Townes: is
7:09
Robert Townes: something
7:09
Robert Townes: that
7:09
Robert Townes: I've
7:10
Robert Townes: thought
7:10
Robert Townes: about,
7:10
Robert Townes: you
7:10
Robert Townes: know,
7:10
Robert Townes: Supreme
7:11
Robert Townes: Court
7:11
Robert Townes: decisions
7:12
Robert Townes: and
7:12
Robert Townes: the
7:12
Robert Townes: current
7:12
Robert Townes: climate.
7:13
Robert Townes: And
7:13
Robert Townes: it's
7:13
Robert Townes: like,
7:13
Robert Townes: this
7:13
Robert Townes: is
7:13
Robert Townes: time
7:14
Robert Townes: to
7:14
Robert Townes: talk
7:14
Robert Townes: about
7:14
Robert Townes: this
7:14
Robert Townes: again.
7:14
Robert Townes: So
7:15
Robert Townes: thank
7:15
Robert Townes: you
7:15
Robert Townes: for
7:15
Robert Townes: having
7:15
Robert Townes: me.
7:16
Tony Tidbit: Thanks,
7:16
Tony Tidbit: my
7:16
Tony Tidbit: brother.
7:16
Tony Tidbit: I
7:16
Tony Tidbit: really
7:17
Tony Tidbit: appreciate
7:17
Tony Tidbit: that.
7:17
Tony Tidbit: And,
7:18
Tony Tidbit: and
7:18
Tony Tidbit: the
7:18
Tony Tidbit: racial
7:18
Tony Tidbit: makeup
7:19
Tony Tidbit: of
7:19
Tony Tidbit: your
7:19
Tony Tidbit: wife,
7:19
Tony Tidbit: your
7:19
Tony Tidbit: lovely
7:19
Tony Tidbit: wife.
7:20
Robert Townes: Oh,
7:20
Robert Townes: sorry
7:20
Robert Townes: about
7:20
Robert Townes: that.
7:20
Robert Townes: No
7:21
Robert Townes: worries.
7:21
Robert Townes: Yes.
7:21
Robert Townes: Racial
7:21
Robert Townes: makeup
7:22
Robert Townes: of
7:22
Robert Townes: my
7:22
Robert Townes: family.
7:22
Robert Townes: My,
7:23
Robert Townes: my
7:23
Robert Townes: wife
7:23
Robert Townes: is,
7:24
Robert Townes: uh,
7:24
Robert Townes: uh,
7:24
Robert Townes: Italian
7:25
Robert Townes: Irish,
7:25
Robert Townes: you
7:25
Robert Townes: know,
7:26
Robert Townes: from,
7:26
Robert Townes: like
7:26
Robert Townes: I
7:26
Robert Townes: said,
7:27
Robert Townes: here
7:27
Robert Townes: in,
7:27
Robert Townes: uh,
7:27
Robert Townes: Connecticut.
7:28
Robert Townes: And
7:28
Robert Townes: I'm
7:28
Robert Townes: a
7:28
Robert Townes: black
7:29
Robert Townes: American,
7:29
Robert Townes: uh,
7:29
Robert Townes: family
7:30
Robert Townes: from
7:30
Robert Townes: Virginia.
7:31
Robert Townes: And,
7:32
Robert Townes: uh,
7:32
Robert Townes: you
7:32
Robert Townes: know,
7:32
Robert Townes: uh,
7:33
Robert Townes: one
7:33
Robert Townes: of
7:33
Robert Townes: the
7:33
Robert Townes: things
7:33
Robert Townes: about
7:34
Robert Townes: our,
7:34
Robert Townes: our
7:34
Robert Townes: family
7:34
Robert Townes: as
7:34
Robert Townes: well
7:35
Robert Townes: is,
7:35
Robert Townes: uh,
7:35
Robert Townes: that,
7:35
Robert Townes: that
7:36
Robert Townes: whole
7:36
Robert Townes: Virginia
7:36
Robert Townes: thing,
7:36
Robert Townes: you
7:36
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7:38
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7:38
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7:38
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7:38
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7:38
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7:39
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7:39
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7:39
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7:40
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7:40
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7:40
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7:41
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7:41
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7:42
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7:43
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7:43
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7:44
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7:44
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7:44
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7:44
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7:45
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7:45
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7:46
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7:46
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7:47
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7:47
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7:47
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7:47
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7:47
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7:47
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7:47
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7:48
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7:48
Robert Townes: my
7:48
Robert Townes: white
7:49
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7:49
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7:49
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7:49
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7:50
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7:50
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7:50
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7:50
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7:51
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7:51
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7:51
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7:51
Robert Townes: to
7:51
Robert Townes: being
7:52
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7:52
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7:52
Robert Townes: dive
7:52
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7:53
Robert Townes: into
7:53
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7:53
Tony Tidbit: Okay,
7:54
Tony Tidbit: brah.
7:54
Tony Tidbit: Well,
7:54
Tony Tidbit: let's
7:54
Tony Tidbit: start
7:55
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7:55
Tony Tidbit: you
7:55
Tony Tidbit: on
7:55
Tony Tidbit: this
7:55
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7:55
Tony Tidbit: right?
7:56
Tony Tidbit: Um,
7:58
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7:58
Tony Tidbit: us,
7:58
Tony Tidbit: why
7:58
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7:59
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7:59
Tony Tidbit: want
7:59
Tony Tidbit: to
7:59
Tony Tidbit: come
7:59
Tony Tidbit: on
7:59
Tony Tidbit: the
7:59
Tony Tidbit: black
8:00
Tony Tidbit: executive
8:00
Tony Tidbit: perspective
8:01
Tony Tidbit: podcast
8:01
Tony Tidbit: to
8:01
Tony Tidbit: talk
8:01
Tony Tidbit: about
8:02
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8:02
Tony Tidbit: this
8:02
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8:04
Robert Townes: The
8:04
Robert Townes: biggest
8:04
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8:05
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8:05
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8:06
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8:07
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8:07
Robert Townes: about
8:07
Robert Townes: the
8:07
Robert Townes: present.
8:08
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8:08
Robert Townes: know
8:09
Robert Townes: we
8:09
Robert Townes: talk
8:09
Robert Townes: about
8:09
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8:11
Robert Townes: as
8:11
Robert Townes: if
8:11
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8:12
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8:12
Robert Townes: long
8:12
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8:12
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8:13
Robert Townes: but
8:13
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8:13
Robert Townes: much
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8:14
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8:14
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8:15
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8:16
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8:16
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8:16
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8:17
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8:17
Robert Townes: the
8:17
Robert Townes: progress
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8:18
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8:18
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8:18
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8:18
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8:18
Robert Townes: last
8:18
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8:18
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8:19
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8:19
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8:19
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8:20
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8:20
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8:20
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8:21
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8:21
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8:22
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8:23
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8:23
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8:23
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8:23
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8:24
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8:24
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8:24
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8:24
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8:25
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8:25
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8:26
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8:26
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8:26
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8:26
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8:27
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8:27
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8:28
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8:28
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8:29
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8:29
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8:29
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8:30
Robert Townes: desegregation
8:31
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8:31
Robert Townes: a
8:31
Robert Townes: high
8:31
Robert Townes: school
8:31
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8:31
Robert Townes: northern
8:32
Robert Townes: virginia.
8:32
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8:32
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8:32
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8:32
Robert Townes: also
8:33
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8:33
Robert Townes: mom's
8:33
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8:33
Robert Townes: year
8:34
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8:34
Robert Townes: was
8:34
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8:35
Robert Townes: in
8:35
Robert Townes: 1975
8:36
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8:36
Robert Townes: I
8:36
Robert Townes: don't
8:37
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8:37
Robert Townes: to
8:37
Robert Townes: go
8:37
Robert Townes: back
8:37
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8:38
Robert Townes: the
8:38
Robert Townes: history
8:38
Robert Townes: books
8:38
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8:38
Robert Townes: talk
8:39
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8:39
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8:39
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8:39
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8:40
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8:40
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8:40
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8:41
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8:41
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8:41
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8:41
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8:42
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8:42
Robert Townes: can
8:42
Robert Townes: just
8:42
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8:42
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8:42
Robert Townes: my
8:43
Robert Townes: mom
8:43
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8:44
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8:44
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8:44
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8:44
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8:44
Robert Townes: she's
8:44
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8:45
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8:45
Robert Townes: us
8:45
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8:45
Robert Townes: be
8:45
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8:45
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8:45
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8:45
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8:46
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8:46
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8:47
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8:47
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8:47
Robert Townes: the
8:48
Robert Townes: conversation
8:48
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8:49
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8:49
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8:49
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8:50
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8:50
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8:50
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8:50
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8:50
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8:50
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8:51
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8:51
Robert Townes: this
8:51
Robert Townes: stuff
8:51
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8:51
Robert Townes: so
8:52
Robert Townes: long
8:52
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8:53
Robert Townes: and
8:53
Robert Townes: it
8:53
Robert Townes: really
8:53
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8:54
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8:55
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8:55
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8:55
Robert Townes: we
8:55
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8:55
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8:55
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8:55
Robert Townes: be
8:56
Robert Townes: vocal
8:56
Robert Townes: about
8:56
Robert Townes: it
8:56
Robert Townes: right
8:56
Robert Townes: now
8:57
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8:57
Robert Townes: we
8:57
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8:57
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8:58
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8:58
Robert Townes: these
8:58
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8:58
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8:59
Robert Townes: We
8:59
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8:59
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8:59
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8:59
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8:59
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9:00
Tony Tidbit: Exactly.
9:01
Tony Tidbit: My
9:01
Tony Tidbit: brother.
9:01
Tony Tidbit: Thank
9:02
Tony Tidbit: you
9:02
Tony Tidbit: for
9:02
Tony Tidbit: that.
9:02
Tony Tidbit: Brian,
9:03
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9:03
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9:03
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9:04
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9:04
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9:04
Tony Tidbit: come
9:04
Tony Tidbit: on
9:04
Tony Tidbit: and
9:04
Tony Tidbit: BEP
9:05
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9:05
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9:05
Tony Tidbit: about
9:05
Tony Tidbit: this?
9:07
Brian Stern: Well,
9:07
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9:07
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9:07
Brian Stern: the
9:08
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9:08
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9:08
Brian Stern: that
9:09
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9:09
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9:10
Brian Stern: Number
9:10
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9:12
Brian Stern: You
9:12
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9:12
Brian Stern: the
9:12
Brian Stern: history
9:13
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9:13
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9:14
Brian Stern: if
9:14
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9:14
Brian Stern: don't
9:14
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9:14
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9:15
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9:15
Brian Stern: And
9:15
Brian Stern: I
9:15
Brian Stern: think
9:16
Brian Stern: we
9:16
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9:16
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9:16
Brian Stern: part
9:16
Brian Stern: of
9:17
Brian Stern: helping
9:17
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9:17
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9:17
Brian Stern: people
9:18
Brian Stern: a
9:18
Brian Stern: little
9:18
Brian Stern: bit
9:19
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9:19
Brian Stern: our
9:19
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9:20
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9:20
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9:20
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9:20
Brian Stern: think
9:21
Brian Stern: the,
9:21
Brian Stern: the
9:21
Brian Stern: second
9:22
Brian Stern: reason
9:23
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9:23
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9:23
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9:24
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9:24
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9:24
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9:24
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9:24
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9:24
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9:25
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9:25
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9:26
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9:26
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9:26
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9:26
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9:26
Brian Stern: not
9:27
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9:27
Brian Stern: topic
9:27
Brian Stern: that
9:27
Brian Stern: I
9:28
Brian Stern: have
9:28
Brian Stern: spent
9:28
Brian Stern: a
9:28
Brian Stern: lot
9:28
Brian Stern: of
9:28
Brian Stern: time
9:29
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9:29
Brian Stern: about,
9:29
Brian Stern: even
9:30
Brian Stern: with
9:30
Brian Stern: my
9:30
Brian Stern: own
9:30
Brian Stern: wife.
9:31
Brian Stern: And
9:32
Brian Stern: I,
9:32
Brian Stern: you
9:32
Brian Stern: know,
9:32
Brian Stern: I
9:33
Brian Stern: actually
9:33
Brian Stern: appreciate
9:34
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9:34
Brian Stern: a
9:34
Brian Stern: safe
9:34
Brian Stern: space
9:35
Brian Stern: to
9:35
Brian Stern: come
9:35
Brian Stern: and
9:35
Brian Stern: talk
9:35
Brian Stern: about
9:36
Brian Stern: these
9:36
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9:37
Brian Stern: um,
9:37
Brian Stern: and,
9:38
Brian Stern: and
9:38
Brian Stern: learn
9:38
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9:39
Brian Stern: from
9:39
Brian Stern: others
9:39
Brian Stern: that
9:39
Brian Stern: are
9:39
Brian Stern: experiencing
9:40
Brian Stern: a
9:40
Brian Stern: lot
9:40
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9:40
Brian Stern: the
9:40
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9:40
Brian Stern: things
9:41
Brian Stern: that
9:41
Brian Stern: I
9:41
Brian Stern: may
9:41
Brian Stern: be
9:41
Brian Stern: experiencing.
9:42
Tony Tidbit: Thanks,
9:43
Tony Tidbit: man.
9:43
Tony Tidbit: Shawn?
9:45
Shawn Norville: Uh,
9:45
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9:46
Shawn Norville: me,
9:46
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9:46
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9:46
Shawn Norville: um,
9:48
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9:48
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9:49
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9:49
Shawn Norville: about
9:50
Shawn Norville: Today's
9:51
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9:51
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9:51
Shawn Norville: the
9:51
Shawn Norville: youth.
9:52
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9:53
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9:53
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9:54
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9:54
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9:54
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9:54
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9:54
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9:55
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9:55
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9:55
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9:56
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9:56
Shawn Norville: to
9:57
Shawn Norville: all
9:57
Shawn Norville: the
9:57
Shawn Norville: young
9:58
Shawn Norville: kids
9:58
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9:58
Shawn Norville: I
9:58
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9:59
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9:59
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9:59
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9:59
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9:59
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10:00
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10:00
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10:00
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10:01
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10:01
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10:01
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:03
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10:03
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10:03
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10:03
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10:04
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10:04
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10:04
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10:04
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10:05
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10:05
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10:05
Shawn Norville: grand
10:05
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10:05
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10:05
Shawn Norville: world
10:06
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10:06
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10:06
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10:06
Shawn Norville: great
10:07
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10:07
Shawn Norville: Black
10:07
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10:08
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10:08
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10:08
Shawn Norville: short
10:08
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10:08
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10:09
Shawn Norville: time,
10:09
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10:10
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10:10
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10:10
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10:11
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10:11
Shawn Norville: much
10:12
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10:12
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10:12
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10:12
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10:12
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10:13
Shawn Norville: And
10:13
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10:13
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10:14
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10:14
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10:14
Shawn Norville: country,
10:14
Shawn Norville: ever
10:15
Shawn Norville: since
10:15
Shawn Norville: we've
10:15
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10:15
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10:15
Shawn Norville: black
10:16
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10:16
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10:16
Shawn Norville: forgotten
10:17
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10:17
Shawn Norville: there's
10:17
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10:17
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10:18
Shawn Norville: exists
10:18
Shawn Norville: in
10:18
Shawn Norville: this
10:18
Shawn Norville: world
10:19
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10:19
Shawn Norville: this
10:19
Shawn Norville: country.
10:20
Shawn Norville: And
10:20
Shawn Norville: for
10:21
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10:21
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10:21
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10:21
Shawn Norville: deteriorating
10:23
Shawn Norville: the
10:23
Shawn Norville: strides
10:23
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10:24
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10:24
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10:24
Shawn Norville: And
10:25
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10:25
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10:25
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10:25
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10:25
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10:26
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10:26
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10:26
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10:26
Shawn Norville: up
10:27
Shawn Norville: a
10:27
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10:27
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10:27
Shawn Norville: younger,
10:27
Shawn Norville: maybe
10:28
Shawn Norville: in
10:28
Shawn Norville: the
10:28
Shawn Norville: 90s,
10:29
Shawn Norville: you
10:29
Shawn Norville: know,
10:30
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10:30
Shawn Norville: feels
10:31
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10:31
Shawn Norville: we
10:31
Shawn Norville: fell
10:31
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10:31
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10:31
Shawn Norville: the
10:31
Shawn Norville: wheel
10:32
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10:32
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10:32
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10:32
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10:33
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10:33
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10:33
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10:33
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10:33
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10:34
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10:35
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10:35
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10:35
Shawn Norville: shifting.
10:35
Shawn Norville: Yeah.
10:35
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10:36
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10:36
Shawn Norville: fabric,
10:36
Shawn Norville: the
10:36
Shawn Norville: laws
10:37
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10:37
Shawn Norville: our
10:37
Shawn Norville: country.
10:38
Shawn Norville: Um,
10:38
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10:38
Shawn Norville: if
10:39
Shawn Norville: we're
10:39
Shawn Norville: not
10:39
Shawn Norville: steadfast
10:40
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10:40
Shawn Norville: terms
10:41
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10:41
Shawn Norville: how
10:41
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10:41
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10:41
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
Shawn Norville: a
10:43
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10:43
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10:43
Shawn Norville: different
10:43
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10:43
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10:43
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10:44
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10:44
Shawn Norville: person
10:44
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10:44
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10:44
Shawn Norville: biracial
10:45
Shawn Norville: kids,
10:45
Shawn Norville: there's
10:46
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10:46
Shawn Norville: a
10:46
Shawn Norville: talk
10:46
Shawn Norville: about
10:47
Shawn Norville: them
10:47
Shawn Norville: being
10:47
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10:48
Shawn Norville: or
10:48
Shawn Norville: the
10:48
Shawn Norville: one
10:48
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10:49
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10:49
Shawn Norville: or,
10:50
Shawn Norville: you
10:50
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10:50
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10:50
Shawn Norville: of
10:50
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10:51
Shawn Norville: different
10:51
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10:52
Shawn Norville: um,
10:52
Shawn Norville: and
10:52
Shawn Norville: not
10:53
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10:53
Shawn Norville: of
10:53
Shawn Norville: not
10:54
Shawn Norville: being
10:54
Shawn Norville: either
10:55
Shawn Norville: or,
10:55
Shawn Norville: um,
10:55
Shawn Norville: but
10:56
Shawn Norville: for
10:56
Shawn Norville: them,
10:56
Shawn Norville: I
10:56
Shawn Norville: want
10:56
Shawn Norville: them
10:56
Shawn Norville: to
10:57
Shawn Norville: understand
10:57
Shawn Norville: their
10:57
Shawn Norville: ethnicity
10:58
Shawn Norville: on
10:58
Shawn Norville: both
10:58
Shawn Norville: sides,
10:58
Shawn Norville: not
10:59
Shawn Norville: just,
10:59
Shawn Norville: you
10:59
Shawn Norville: know,
10:59
Shawn Norville: one
10:59
Shawn Norville: or
10:59
Shawn Norville: the
11:00
Shawn Norville: other.
11:00
Shawn Norville: But
11:00
Shawn Norville: it's
11:00
Shawn Norville: important
11:01
Shawn Norville: for
11:01
Shawn Norville: me
11:01
Shawn Norville: to
11:01
Shawn Norville: have
11:02
Shawn Norville: this
11:02
Shawn Norville: dialogue.
11:03
Shawn Norville: Uh,
11:03
Shawn Norville: learn,
11:03
Shawn Norville: give
11:04
Shawn Norville: my
11:04
Shawn Norville: experience
11:05
Shawn Norville: so
11:05
Shawn Norville: that
11:05
Shawn Norville: other
11:05
Shawn Norville: people
11:06
Shawn Norville: out
11:06
Shawn Norville: there
11:06
Shawn Norville: in
11:06
Shawn Norville: the
11:06
Shawn Norville: community
11:06
Shawn Norville: can
11:06
Shawn Norville: understand
11:07
Shawn Norville: and
11:07
Shawn Norville: learn
11:07
Shawn Norville: from
11:07
Shawn Norville: that.
11:08
Shawn Norville: And
11:08
Shawn Norville: also
11:08
Shawn Norville: just
11:08
Shawn Norville: reach
11:09
Shawn Norville: out
11:09
Shawn Norville: to
11:09
Shawn Norville: say,
11:09
Shawn Norville: hey,
11:09
Shawn Norville: look,
11:09
Shawn Norville: there's
11:10
Shawn Norville: somebody
11:10
Shawn Norville: else
11:10
Shawn Norville: having
11:10
Shawn Norville: the
11:10
Shawn Norville: same
11:11
Shawn Norville: issues.
11:11
Shawn Norville: You
11:11
Shawn Norville: know,
11:12
Shawn Norville: my
11:12
Shawn Norville: kids
11:12
Shawn Norville: are
11:12
Shawn Norville: relatively
11:13
Shawn Norville: young,
11:13
Shawn Norville: but
11:13
Shawn Norville: they
11:13
Shawn Norville: face
11:14
Shawn Norville: racism
11:14
Shawn Norville: at
11:15
Shawn Norville: quite
11:15
Shawn Norville: a
11:15
Shawn Norville: young
11:15
Shawn Norville: age
11:16
Shawn Norville: from
11:16
Shawn Norville: kindergarten
11:16
Shawn Norville: down
11:17
Shawn Norville: to,
11:17
Shawn Norville: you
11:17
Shawn Norville: know,
11:17
Shawn Norville: 2nd
11:17
Shawn Norville: grade.
11:18
Shawn Norville: And
11:18
Shawn Norville: that's
11:18
Shawn Norville: why
11:18
Shawn Norville: I
11:19
Shawn Norville: wanted
11:19
Shawn Norville: to
11:19
Shawn Norville: be
11:19
Shawn Norville: on
11:19
Shawn Norville: here
11:19
Shawn Norville: to
11:19
Shawn Norville: just
11:20
Shawn Norville: talk
11:20
Shawn Norville: about
11:20
Shawn Norville: those
11:20
Shawn Norville: things.
11:20
Shawn Norville: So
11:20
Shawn Norville: people
11:21
Shawn Norville: can
11:21
Shawn Norville: be
11:21
Shawn Norville: cognizant
11:22
Shawn Norville: and
11:22
Shawn Norville: aware.
11:24
Tony Tidbit: Thank
11:24
Tony Tidbit: all
11:24
Tony Tidbit: three
11:25
Tony Tidbit: of
11:25
Tony Tidbit: you.
11:25
Tony Tidbit: I
11:25
Tony Tidbit: really
11:25
Tony Tidbit: appreciate
11:26
Tony Tidbit: that.
11:26
Tony Tidbit: And
11:26
Tony Tidbit: you
11:26
Tony Tidbit: guys
11:26
Tony Tidbit: totally
11:27
Tony Tidbit: make
11:27
Tony Tidbit: sense.
11:27
Tony Tidbit: And
11:27
Tony Tidbit: I,
11:28
Tony Tidbit: I
11:28
Tony Tidbit: cannot
11:29
Tony Tidbit: disagree
11:29
Tony Tidbit: with
11:29
Tony Tidbit: anything
11:30
Tony Tidbit: you
11:31
Tony Tidbit: all
11:31
Tony Tidbit: said.
11:32
Tony Tidbit: So
11:32
Tony Tidbit: let
11:33
Tony Tidbit: me
11:33
Tony Tidbit: ask
11:33
Tony Tidbit: you
11:33
Tony Tidbit: this
11:33
Tony Tidbit: question.
11:33
Tony Tidbit: Are
11:33
Tony Tidbit: you
11:34
Tony Tidbit: guys
11:34
Tony Tidbit: ready
11:34
Tony Tidbit: to
11:34
Tony Tidbit: talk
11:34
Tony Tidbit: about
11:35
Tony Tidbit: it?
11:35
Robert Townes: Yeah,
11:36
Shawn Norville: absolutely.
11:37
Tony Tidbit: All
11:37
Tony Tidbit: right,
11:37
Tony Tidbit: my
11:37
Tony Tidbit: brothers,
11:38
Tony Tidbit: let's
11:38
Tony Tidbit: talk
11:38
Tony Tidbit: about
11:39
Tony Tidbit: it.
11:39
Tony Tidbit: So,
11:39
Tony Tidbit: Shawn,
11:39
Tony Tidbit: I'm
11:39
Tony Tidbit: going
11:39
Tony Tidbit: to
11:40
Tony Tidbit: back
11:40
Tony Tidbit: up
11:40
Tony Tidbit: to
11:40
Tony Tidbit: you,
11:40
Tony Tidbit: my
11:41
Tony Tidbit: friend.
11:42
Tony Tidbit: So,
11:42
Tony Tidbit: you
11:42
Tony Tidbit: know,
11:43
Tony Tidbit: you
11:43
Tony Tidbit: guys
11:43
Tony Tidbit: been
11:44
Tony Tidbit: married
11:44
Tony Tidbit: 19
11:44
Tony Tidbit: years.
11:46
Tony Tidbit: You're
11:46
Tony Tidbit: originally
11:47
Tony Tidbit: from
11:47
Tony Tidbit: the
11:48
Tony Tidbit: East
11:48
Tony Tidbit: coast,
11:48
Tony Tidbit: New
11:48
Tony Tidbit: York,
11:48
Tony Tidbit: correct?
11:49
Tony Tidbit: So
11:50
Tony Tidbit: just
11:50
Tony Tidbit: briefly
11:51
Tony Tidbit: talk
11:51
Tony Tidbit: a
11:51
Tony Tidbit: little
11:51
Tony Tidbit: bit
11:52
Tony Tidbit: about
11:52
Tony Tidbit: where
11:52
Tony Tidbit: you
11:52
Tony Tidbit: grow
11:52
Tony Tidbit: up.
11:53
Tony Tidbit: And
11:53
Tony Tidbit: then
11:53
Tony Tidbit: the
11:53
Tony Tidbit: follow
11:54
Tony Tidbit: up
11:54
Tony Tidbit: question
11:54
Tony Tidbit: I
11:54
Tony Tidbit: have,
11:55
Tony Tidbit: did
11:55
Tony Tidbit: you
11:55
Tony Tidbit: ever,
11:56
Tony Tidbit: See
11:56
Tony Tidbit: yourself
11:57
Tony Tidbit: when
11:57
Tony Tidbit: you
11:57
Tony Tidbit: were
11:57
Tony Tidbit: young,
11:58
Tony Tidbit: um,
11:59
Tony Tidbit: being
11:59
Tony Tidbit: in
12:00
Tony Tidbit: an
12:00
Tony Tidbit: interracial
12:00
Tony Tidbit: relationship
12:01
Tony Tidbit: and
12:01
Tony Tidbit: not
12:01
Tony Tidbit: that
12:02
Tony Tidbit: you're
12:02
Tony Tidbit: not
12:02
Tony Tidbit: not
12:02
Tony Tidbit: that
12:02
Tony Tidbit: you're
12:02
Tony Tidbit: old
12:03
Tony Tidbit: today,
12:03
Tony Tidbit: my
12:03
Tony Tidbit: brother
12:07
Tony Tidbit: I'm
12:07
Tony Tidbit: talking
12:07
Tony Tidbit: tadpole
12:08
Tony Tidbit: time.
12:08
Tony Tidbit: Okay.
12:09
Tony Tidbit: So
12:09
Tony Tidbit: so
12:09
Tony Tidbit: when
12:10
Tony Tidbit: you
12:10
Tony Tidbit: were
12:10
Tony Tidbit: tadpole,
12:11
Tony Tidbit: did
12:11
Tony Tidbit: you
12:11
Tony Tidbit: see
12:12
Tony Tidbit: yourself
12:12
Tony Tidbit: being
12:12
Tony Tidbit: in
12:12
Tony Tidbit: an
12:12
Tony Tidbit: interracial
12:13
Tony Tidbit: relationship?
12:15
Shawn Norville: Honestly,
12:16
Shawn Norville: no.
12:16
Shawn Norville: Um,
12:17
Shawn Norville: from
12:17
Shawn Norville: what
12:17
Shawn Norville: I
12:18
Shawn Norville: know
12:18
Shawn Norville: and
12:18
Shawn Norville: where,
12:18
Shawn Norville: and
12:18
Shawn Norville: again,
12:19
Shawn Norville: I,
12:19
Shawn Norville: and
12:19
Shawn Norville: I,
12:19
Shawn Norville: I
12:19
Shawn Norville: speak
12:19
Shawn Norville: to
12:20
Shawn Norville: my
12:20
Shawn Norville: experience
12:21
Shawn Norville: and
12:21
Shawn Norville: I,
12:21
Shawn Norville: my
12:22
Shawn Norville: family's
12:22
Shawn Norville: from
12:22
Shawn Norville: Barbados,
12:23
Shawn Norville: and
12:23
Shawn Norville: if
12:24
Shawn Norville: you
12:24
Shawn Norville: understand
12:24
Shawn Norville: how
12:24
Shawn Norville: the
12:25
Shawn Norville: slave
12:25
Shawn Norville: trade
12:25
Shawn Norville: worked,
12:25
Shawn Norville: you
12:26
Shawn Norville: understand
12:26
Shawn Norville: there's
12:26
Shawn Norville: a
12:26
Shawn Norville: lot
12:26
Shawn Norville: of
12:26
Shawn Norville: people
12:27
Shawn Norville: from,
12:27
Shawn Norville: um,
12:28
Shawn Norville: Southeast
12:28
Shawn Norville: Asia
12:29
Shawn Norville: and
12:29
Shawn Norville: from
12:29
Shawn Norville: India
12:29
Shawn Norville: who
12:30
Shawn Norville: have
12:30
Shawn Norville: been,
12:30
Shawn Norville: uh,
12:31
Shawn Norville: you
12:31
Shawn Norville: know,
12:31
Shawn Norville: part
12:31
Shawn Norville: of
12:32
Shawn Norville: that
12:32
Shawn Norville: process
12:32
Shawn Norville: made
12:33
Shawn Norville: it
12:33
Shawn Norville: to
12:33
Shawn Norville: Africa
12:33
Shawn Norville: and
12:33
Shawn Norville: some
12:34
Shawn Norville: parts
12:34
Shawn Norville: of
12:34
Shawn Norville: South
12:34
Shawn Norville: America
12:35
Shawn Norville: and
12:35
Shawn Norville: some
12:35
Shawn Norville: parts
12:35
Shawn Norville: of
12:35
Shawn Norville: the
12:36
Shawn Norville: Caribbean
12:36
Shawn Norville: islands.
12:37
Shawn Norville: So
12:37
Shawn Norville: when
12:37
Shawn Norville: I
12:37
Shawn Norville: talk
12:37
Shawn Norville: about
12:38
Shawn Norville: being
12:38
Shawn Norville: an
12:38
Shawn Norville: inter
12:39
Shawn Norville: interracial
12:39
Shawn Norville: marriage.
12:40
Shawn Norville: The
12:40
Shawn Norville: woman
12:40
Shawn Norville: that
12:40
Shawn Norville: I've
12:41
Shawn Norville: married
12:41
Shawn Norville: historically
12:42
Shawn Norville: and
12:42
Shawn Norville: from
12:42
Shawn Norville: where
12:42
Shawn Norville: I'm
12:43
Shawn Norville: from,
12:43
Shawn Norville: where
12:43
Shawn Norville: she
12:43
Shawn Norville: visually
12:44
Shawn Norville: looks
12:44
Shawn Norville: like,
12:44
Shawn Norville: looks
12:44
Shawn Norville: like
12:44
Shawn Norville: people
12:45
Shawn Norville: that
12:45
Shawn Norville: where
12:45
Shawn Norville: I'm
12:45
Shawn Norville: from,
12:46
Shawn Norville: right.
12:46
Shawn Norville: And
12:47
Shawn Norville: from
12:47
Shawn Norville: the
12:47
Shawn Norville: islands
12:47
Shawn Norville: that
12:47
Shawn Norville: I,
12:48
Shawn Norville: that
12:48
Shawn Norville: I
12:48
Shawn Norville: had,
12:48
Shawn Norville: you
12:48
Shawn Norville: know,
12:48
Shawn Norville: that
12:49
Shawn Norville: we
12:49
Shawn Norville: sort
12:49
Shawn Norville: of
12:49
Shawn Norville: commerce
12:50
Shawn Norville: with.
12:50
Shawn Norville: So
12:51
Shawn Norville: for
12:51
Shawn Norville: me,
12:51
Shawn Norville: it
12:51
Shawn Norville: wasn't
12:52
Shawn Norville: like
12:52
Shawn Norville: I
12:52
Shawn Norville: was
12:52
Shawn Norville: being
12:52
Shawn Norville: an
12:52
Shawn Norville: interracial
12:53
Shawn Norville: marriage
12:53
Shawn Norville: or
12:53
Shawn Norville: I
12:53
Shawn Norville: was
12:53
Shawn Norville: marrying
12:54
Shawn Norville: somebody
12:54
Shawn Norville: outside
12:54
Shawn Norville: of
12:54
Shawn Norville: my
12:55
Shawn Norville: culture
12:55
Shawn Norville: because
12:56
Shawn Norville: I
12:56
Shawn Norville: really
12:56
Shawn Norville: married
12:57
Shawn Norville: someone
12:57
Shawn Norville: that
12:57
Shawn Norville: I
12:57
Shawn Norville: thought
12:57
Shawn Norville: was
12:58
Shawn Norville: someone
12:58
Shawn Norville: to
12:58
Shawn Norville: my
12:58
Shawn Norville: culture.
12:59
Shawn Norville: Um,
12:59
Shawn Norville: but
13:00
Shawn Norville: it
13:00
Shawn Norville: was
13:00
Shawn Norville: everyone
13:00
Shawn Norville: else's
13:01
Shawn Norville: viewpoint
13:02
Shawn Norville: of
13:02
Shawn Norville: who
13:02
Shawn Norville: I
13:02
Shawn Norville: was
13:02
Shawn Norville: marrying
13:03
Shawn Norville: and
13:03
Shawn Norville: also
13:04
Shawn Norville: her
13:04
Shawn Norville: family
13:04
Shawn Norville: as
13:04
Shawn Norville: well.
13:05
Shawn Norville: So
13:05
Shawn Norville: it
13:05
Shawn Norville: was
13:05
Shawn Norville: interesting
13:05
Shawn Norville: dynamic
13:06
Shawn Norville: and
13:06
Shawn Norville: growing
13:06
Shawn Norville: up
13:06
Shawn Norville: in
13:07
Shawn Norville: New
13:07
Shawn Norville: York.
13:08
Shawn Norville: Uh,
13:08
Shawn Norville: Brooklyn
13:09
Shawn Norville: specifically
13:09
Shawn Norville: where
13:10
Shawn Norville: you're
13:10
Shawn Norville: spoiled
13:11
Shawn Norville: with
13:11
Shawn Norville: the
13:11
Shawn Norville: melting
13:11
Shawn Norville: pot
13:11
Shawn Norville: that
13:11
Shawn Norville: you
13:12
Shawn Norville: are
13:12
Shawn Norville: in.
13:12
Shawn Norville: Uh,
13:13
Shawn Norville: but
13:13
Shawn Norville: once
13:13
Shawn Norville: you
13:13
Shawn Norville: leave
13:13
Shawn Norville: those
13:14
Shawn Norville: areas
13:14
Shawn Norville: of
13:14
Shawn Norville: comfort
13:14
Shawn Norville: and
13:15
Shawn Norville: safety,
13:16
Shawn Norville: everyone
13:16
Shawn Norville: looks
13:16
Shawn Norville: at
13:16
Shawn Norville: you
13:16
Shawn Norville: differently.
13:17
Shawn Norville: Everyone
13:17
Shawn Norville: has
13:17
Shawn Norville: different
13:17
Shawn Norville: questions
13:18
Shawn Norville: and
13:18
Shawn Norville: then
13:18
Shawn Norville: everyone
13:18
Shawn Norville: treats
13:19
Shawn Norville: you
13:19
Shawn Norville: a
13:19
Shawn Norville: little
13:19
Shawn Norville: sort
13:19
Shawn Norville: of
13:19
Shawn Norville: way.
13:20
Shawn Norville: So,
13:21
Shawn Norville: you
13:21
Shawn Norville: know,
13:21
Shawn Norville: that's
13:21
Shawn Norville: a
13:21
Shawn Norville: little
13:21
Shawn Norville: bit
13:21
Shawn Norville: about,
13:22
Shawn Norville: about
13:22
Shawn Norville: us.
13:23
Tony Tidbit: Oh,
13:23
Tony Tidbit: thanks
13:23
Tony Tidbit: buddy.
13:23
Tony Tidbit: Brian,
13:24
Tony Tidbit: let
13:24
Tony Tidbit: me
13:24
Tony Tidbit: pose
13:25
Tony Tidbit: the
13:25
Tony Tidbit: same
13:25
Tony Tidbit: question
13:25
Tony Tidbit: to
13:25
Tony Tidbit: you,
13:25
Tony Tidbit: my
13:25
Tony Tidbit: brother.
13:28
Brian Stern: So
13:29
Brian Stern: I
13:29
Brian Stern: grew
13:29
Brian Stern: up
13:30
Brian Stern: in
13:30
Brian Stern: rural
13:30
Brian Stern: New
13:30
Brian Stern: Jersey,
13:31
Brian Stern: um,
13:31
Brian Stern: out
13:31
Brian Stern: in,
13:32
Brian Stern: you
13:32
Brian Stern: know,
13:32
Brian Stern: horse
13:33
Brian Stern: country.
13:33
Brian Stern: And
13:34
Brian Stern: it
13:34
Brian Stern: was
13:35
Brian Stern: incredibly,
13:36
Brian Stern: incredibly,
13:37
Brian Stern: for
13:37
Brian Stern: lack
13:37
Brian Stern: of
13:37
Brian Stern: a
13:37
Brian Stern: better
13:38
Brian Stern: term,
13:38
Brian Stern: white,
13:39
Brian Stern: right?
13:39
Brian Stern: Very
13:40
Brian Stern: little
13:40
Brian Stern: diversity.
13:41
Brian Stern: Um,
13:42
Brian Stern: so
13:42
Brian Stern: no,
13:42
Brian Stern: I,
13:42
Brian Stern: I
13:43
Brian Stern: really
13:43
Brian Stern: did
13:43
Brian Stern: not
13:43
Brian Stern: conceive
13:44
Brian Stern: of,
13:44
Brian Stern: of
13:44
Brian Stern: being
13:45
Brian Stern: in
13:45
Brian Stern: an
13:45
Brian Stern: interracial
13:46
Brian Stern: relationship
13:46
Brian Stern: when
13:47
Brian Stern: I
13:47
Brian Stern: grew
13:47
Brian Stern: older.
13:48
Brian Stern: Um,
13:49
Brian Stern: so
13:52
Brian Stern: the
13:52
Brian Stern: big
13:52
Brian Stern: difference
13:52
Brian Stern: for
13:53
Brian Stern: me
13:53
Brian Stern: was
13:53
Brian Stern: when
13:53
Brian Stern: I
13:53
Brian Stern: moved
13:54
Brian Stern: to
13:54
Brian Stern: New
13:54
Brian Stern: York
13:54
Brian Stern: and
13:55
Brian Stern: getting
13:55
Brian Stern: exposure.
13:56
Brian Stern: To
13:56
Brian Stern: just
13:57
Brian Stern: an
13:57
Brian Stern: incredible
13:57
Brian Stern: array
13:58
Brian Stern: of
13:58
Brian Stern: different
13:58
Brian Stern: cultures
13:59
Brian Stern: and
13:59
Brian Stern: experiences
14:00
Brian Stern: that
14:00
Brian Stern: really
14:01
Brian Stern: opened
14:01
Brian Stern: my
14:01
Brian Stern: eyes.
14:02
Brian Stern: Um,
14:05
Brian Stern: but
14:05
Brian Stern: you
14:05
Brian Stern: know,
14:06
Brian Stern: from
14:06
Brian Stern: a,
14:06
Brian Stern: from
14:06
Brian Stern: a
14:06
Brian Stern: family
14:07
Brian Stern: standpoint,
14:07
Brian Stern: I
14:07
Brian Stern: think
14:08
Brian Stern: my
14:08
Brian Stern: family
14:08
Brian Stern: was
14:08
Brian Stern: always
14:09
Brian Stern: open
14:09
Brian Stern: to
14:09
Brian Stern: the
14:09
Brian Stern: idea.
14:10
Brian Stern: There
14:10
Brian Stern: wasn't
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Brian Stern: any,
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14:11
Brian Stern: or
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14:12
Brian Stern: um,
14:12
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14:13
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14:13
Brian Stern: It
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Brian Stern: just
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14:14
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Brian Stern: part
14:14
Brian Stern: of
14:15
Brian Stern: our
14:15
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14:15
Tony Tidbit: Right,
14:16
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14:17
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14:17
Tony Tidbit: Robert,
14:17
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14:18
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14:18
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14:18
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14:19
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Tony Tidbit: Virginia,
14:20
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14:20
Tony Tidbit: so
14:21
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14:21
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14:21
Robert Townes: So,
14:22
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14:22
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14:23
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14:23
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Robert Townes: Southern
14:24
Robert Townes: Connecticut.
14:24
Robert Townes: I
14:25
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14:25
Robert Townes: up
14:25
Robert Townes: in
14:25
Robert Townes: Stanford.
14:25
Robert Townes: So
14:26
Robert Townes: right
14:26
Robert Townes: here
14:27
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14:27
Robert Townes: the
14:27
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14:27
Robert Townes: state
14:27
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14:28
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14:28
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14:28
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14:29
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14:30
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14:30
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14:31
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14:31
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14:31
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14:32
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14:32
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14:32
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14:32
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14:33
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14:33
Robert Townes: Virginia.
14:33
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14:34
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14:34
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14:34
Robert Townes: formative
14:34
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14:35
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14:36
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14:36
Robert Townes: diversity
14:36
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14:37
Robert Townes: I
14:37
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14:37
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14:38
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14:38
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14:38
Robert Townes: home.
14:38
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14:39
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14:39
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14:39
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14:39
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14:40
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14:40
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14:40
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14:41
Robert Townes: and
14:41
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14:41
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14:41
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14:41
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14:42
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14:42
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14:42
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14:43
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14:43
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14:44
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14:44
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14:44
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14:44
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14:44
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14:45
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14:45
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14:45
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14:45
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14:45
Robert Townes: an
14:45
Robert Townes: interracial
14:46
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14:47
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14:47
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14:48
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14:48
Robert Townes: diverse
14:49
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14:49
Robert Townes: but
14:49
Robert Townes: never
14:49
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14:50
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14:50
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14:50
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14:51
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14:52
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14:52
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14:53
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14:53
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14:54
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14:55
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14:55
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14:55
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14:56
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14:56
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14:56
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14:57
Robert Townes: me
14:57
Robert Townes: being
14:57
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14:57
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14:57
Robert Townes: be
14:57
Robert Townes: with
14:58
Robert Townes: whoever
14:58
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14:58
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14:58
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14:58
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14:59
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14:59
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14:59
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14:59
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14:59
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14:59
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15:00
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15:01
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15:02
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15:02
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15:02
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15:03
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15:04
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15:05
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15:05
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15:05
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15:07
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15:07
Robert Townes: the
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15:08
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15:08
Robert Townes: some
15:08
Robert Townes: people
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Robert Townes: say,
15:09
Robert Townes: you
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15:10
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15:11
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15:11
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15:11
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15:11
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15:12
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15:12
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15:12
Robert Townes: home,
15:12
Robert Townes: you
15:12
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15:13
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Robert Townes: I
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Robert Townes: would
15:13
Robert Townes: hear
15:13
Robert Townes: the
15:13
Robert Townes: stuff
15:13
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15:14
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15:14
Robert Townes: But
15:14
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15:14
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15:15
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15:15
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15:16
Robert Townes: Stanford,
15:17
Robert Townes: I
15:17
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15:17
Robert Townes: what
15:17
Robert Townes: those
15:17
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15:17
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15:18
Robert Townes: meant.
15:18
Robert Townes: So,
15:18
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15:19
Robert Townes: into
15:19
Robert Townes: certain
15:20
Robert Townes: communities,
15:20
Robert Townes: like
15:21
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15:21
Robert Townes: New
15:21
Robert Townes: Canaan
15:21
Robert Townes: or
15:21
Robert Townes: a
15:21
Robert Townes: Darien
15:21
Robert Townes: or
15:21
Robert Townes: a
15:22
Robert Townes: Greenwich.
15:23
Robert Townes: And
15:23
Robert Townes: knowing
15:23
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15:23
Robert Townes: me,
15:24
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15:24
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15:24
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15:25
Robert Townes: And
15:25
Robert Townes: so,
15:26
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15:26
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15:26
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15:26
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15:27
Robert Townes: you
15:27
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15:27
Robert Townes: know
15:28
Robert Townes: that
15:28
Robert Townes: they
15:28
Robert Townes: don't
15:28
Robert Townes: want
15:28
Robert Townes: to
15:28
Robert Townes: bring,
15:29
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15:29
Robert Townes: want
15:29
Robert Townes: me
15:29
Robert Townes: to
15:29
Robert Townes: be
15:29
Robert Townes: brought
15:30
Robert Townes: home
15:30
Robert Townes: to
15:30
Robert Townes: daddy,
15:30
Robert Townes: so
15:30
Robert Townes: to
15:30
Robert Townes: speak.
15:31
Robert Townes: Um,
15:32
Tony Tidbit: Well,
15:32
Tony Tidbit: just
15:32
Tony Tidbit: hold
15:32
Tony Tidbit: on
15:32
Tony Tidbit: one
15:32
Tony Tidbit: second,
15:32
Tony Tidbit: Robert,
15:33
Tony Tidbit: just
15:33
Tony Tidbit: so
15:33
Tony Tidbit: everybody's
15:33
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15:33
Tony Tidbit: the
15:33
Tony Tidbit: same
15:34
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15:34
Tony Tidbit: because
15:34
Tony Tidbit: not
15:34
Tony Tidbit: everybody's
15:35
Tony Tidbit: from
15:35
Tony Tidbit: Connecticut.
15:35
Tony Tidbit: So
15:36
Tony Tidbit: when
15:36
Tony Tidbit: you
15:36
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15:36
Tony Tidbit: Darien
15:37
Tony Tidbit: and
15:37
Tony Tidbit: So
15:37
Robert Townes: Greenwich,
15:38
Robert Townes: Stanford,
15:38
Robert Townes: Darien,
15:39
Robert Townes: they're
15:40
Robert Townes: the
15:41
Robert Townes: southern
15:41
Robert Townes: most
15:42
Robert Townes: towns
15:42
Robert Townes: or
15:42
Robert Townes: cities.
15:43
Robert Townes: In
15:44
Robert Townes: Connecticut,
15:44
Robert Townes: about
15:45
Robert Townes: 30
15:45
Robert Townes: miles
15:45
Robert Townes: away
15:45
Robert Townes: from
15:46
Robert Townes: New
15:46
Robert Townes: York
15:46
Robert Townes: City,
15:47
Robert Townes: but
15:47
Robert Townes: they
15:47
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15:47
Robert Townes: a
15:48
Robert Townes: nickname
15:48
Robert Townes: for
15:48
Robert Townes: Fairfield
15:49
Robert Townes: County,
15:49
Robert Townes: Connecticut
15:49
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15:50
Robert Townes: the
15:50
Robert Townes: Gold
15:50
Robert Townes: Coast.
15:50
Robert Townes: And
15:51
Robert Townes: those
15:51
Robert Townes: are
15:51
Robert Townes: three
15:51
Robert Townes: of
15:51
Robert Townes: the
15:51
Robert Townes: wealthiest
15:52
Robert Townes: towns
15:52
Robert Townes: in
15:52
Robert Townes: the
15:52
Robert Townes: United
15:53
Robert Townes: States
15:53
Robert Townes: as
15:53
Robert Townes: well.
15:53
Robert Townes: So
15:54
Robert Townes: Stanford
15:54
Robert Townes: is
15:54
Robert Townes: a
15:54
Robert Townes: very
15:55
Robert Townes: diverse
15:56
Robert Townes: socioeconomic
15:57
Robert Townes: and
15:57
Robert Townes: racially
15:57
Robert Townes: diverse
15:58
Robert Townes: area,
15:59
Robert Townes: town
15:59
Robert Townes: of
15:59
Robert Townes: about
15:59
Robert Townes: 130,
15:59
Robert Townes: 140,
16:00
Robert Townes: 000.
16:01
Robert Townes: But
16:01
Robert Townes: those
16:01
Robert Townes: other
16:02
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16:02
Robert Townes: towns
16:03
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16:03
Robert Townes: very,
16:04
Robert Townes: very
16:04
Robert Townes: different.
16:05
Robert Townes: Um,
16:05
Robert Townes: you
16:05
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16:06
Robert Townes: and,
16:06
Robert Townes: uh,
16:07
Robert Townes: very
16:07
Robert Townes: wealthy
16:08
Robert Townes: and,
16:09
Robert Townes: um,
16:09
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16:09
Robert Townes: a,
16:09
Robert Townes: as,
16:10
Robert Townes: as
16:10
Robert Townes: a
16:10
Robert Townes: matter
16:10
Robert Townes: of
16:11
Robert Townes: course,
16:11
Robert Townes: a
16:11
Robert Townes: lot
16:12
Robert Townes: of
16:12
Robert Townes: times
16:12
Robert Townes: not
16:12
Robert Townes: as
16:12
Robert Townes: welcoming
16:13
Robert Townes: to
16:13
Robert Townes: the
16:13
Robert Townes: diversity,
16:14
Robert Townes: or
16:14
Robert Townes: at
16:14
Robert Townes: least
16:15
Robert Townes: they
16:15
Robert Townes: were
16:15
Robert Townes: back
16:16
Robert Townes: then.
16:16
Tony Tidbit: Right.
16:17
Tony Tidbit: Not,
16:17
Tony Tidbit: not,
16:17
Tony Tidbit: and
16:17
Tony Tidbit: it
16:17
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16:18
Tony Tidbit: a
16:18
Tony Tidbit: very
16:18
Tony Tidbit: diverse.
16:19
Tony Tidbit: It's
16:19
Tony Tidbit: not
16:19
Tony Tidbit: a
16:19
Tony Tidbit: very
16:19
Tony Tidbit: diverse.
16:20
Tony Tidbit: Not,
16:20
Tony Tidbit: not
16:20
Robert Townes: diverse
16:21
Robert Townes: at
16:21
Robert Townes: all.
16:21
Robert Townes: You
16:21
Robert Townes: know,
16:21
Robert Townes: socioeconomically,
16:23
Robert Townes: everybody's
16:24
Robert Townes: pretty
16:24
Robert Townes: wealthy.
16:24
Robert Townes: Got
16:24
Robert Townes: it.
16:25
Robert Townes: So
16:26
Tony Tidbit: let
16:26
Tony Tidbit: me
16:27
Tony Tidbit: ask
16:27
Tony Tidbit: you
16:27
Tony Tidbit: this
16:27
Tony Tidbit: and
16:27
Tony Tidbit: I'll
16:28
Tony Tidbit: start
16:28
Tony Tidbit: with
16:28
Tony Tidbit: Brian.
16:29
Tony Tidbit: So
16:29
Tony Tidbit: what
16:29
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16:30
Tony Tidbit: you?
16:30
Tony Tidbit: So
16:30
Tony Tidbit: your
16:30
Tony Tidbit: wife
16:31
Tony Tidbit: is
16:31
Tony Tidbit: Asian.
16:32
Tony Tidbit: What
16:32
Tony Tidbit: attracted
16:33
Tony Tidbit: you
16:33
Tony Tidbit: to
16:33
Tony Tidbit: your
16:33
Tony Tidbit: wife?
16:37
Brian Stern: What
16:37
Brian Stern: a
16:37
Brian Stern: loaded
16:38
Brian Stern: question,
16:38
Brian Stern: huh?
16:42
Brian Stern: Don't
16:42
Speaker 3: mess
16:43
Speaker 3: up.
16:43
Brian Stern: Yeah,
16:43
Brian Stern: I
16:43
Brian Stern: know,
16:44
Brian Stern: right?
16:45
Brian Stern: She's
16:45
Brian Stern: standing
16:46
Brian Stern: right
16:46
Brian Stern: behind
16:46
Brian Stern: me.
16:47
Brian Stern: Um,
16:50
Brian Stern: She
16:51
Brian Stern: was
16:51
Brian Stern: introduced
16:51
Brian Stern: to
16:51
Brian Stern: me
16:52
Brian Stern: through
16:52
Brian Stern: a
16:52
Brian Stern: friend.
16:53
Brian Stern: And
16:53
Brian Stern: I
16:53
Brian Stern: think,
16:54
Brian Stern: you
16:54
Brian Stern: know,
16:54
Brian Stern: the
16:54
Brian Stern: friend
16:54
Brian Stern: thought
16:55
Brian Stern: we
16:55
Brian Stern: had
16:55
Brian Stern: a
16:55
Brian Stern: lot
16:55
Brian Stern: in
16:55
Brian Stern: common
16:56
Brian Stern: and
16:56
Brian Stern: we
16:56
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16:57
Brian Stern: Um,
16:57
Brian Stern: so
16:57
Brian Stern: I
16:57
Brian Stern: think
16:58
Brian Stern: a
16:58
Brian Stern: lot
16:58
Brian Stern: of
16:58
Brian Stern: it
16:58
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16:59
Brian Stern: the
16:59
Brian Stern: differences
17:00
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17:00
Brian Stern: us.
17:00
Brian Stern: It
17:01
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17:01
Brian Stern: just
17:01
Brian Stern: the
17:01
Brian Stern: commonality,
17:02
Brian Stern: similar
17:02
Brian Stern: sense
17:03
Brian Stern: of
17:03
Brian Stern: humor,
17:04
Brian Stern: um,
17:04
Brian Stern: similar
17:05
Brian Stern: passions
17:05
Brian Stern: for,
17:06
Brian Stern: you
17:06
Brian Stern: know,
17:06
Brian Stern: some
17:06
Brian Stern: of
17:06
Brian Stern: our
17:06
Brian Stern: hobbies,
17:07
Brian Stern: like
17:07
Brian Stern: traveling
17:08
Brian Stern: and,
17:08
Brian Stern: um,
17:08
Brian Stern: you
17:09
Brian Stern: know,
17:09
Brian Stern: exploring.
17:09
Brian Stern: Different
17:09
Brian Stern: things
17:10
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17:10
Brian Stern: that
17:10
Brian Stern: we
17:10
Brian Stern: were
17:10
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17:11
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17:11
Brian Stern: to.
17:12
Brian Stern: I
17:12
Brian Stern: think
17:12
Brian Stern: it
17:12
Brian Stern: was
17:12
Brian Stern: a
17:12
Brian Stern: lot
17:12
Brian Stern: of
17:12
Brian Stern: those
17:13
Brian Stern: commonalities.
17:13
Brian Stern: I
17:13
Brian Stern: mean,
17:14
Brian Stern: it's
17:14
Brian Stern: the
17:14
Brian Stern: same
17:14
Brian Stern: as
17:14
Brian Stern: any
17:15
Brian Stern: relationship,
17:15
Brian Stern: I
17:15
Brian Stern: suppose,
17:16
Brian Stern: right?
17:16
Brian Stern: It's
17:16
Brian Stern: the
17:17
Brian Stern: things
17:17
Brian Stern: that
17:17
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17:18
Brian Stern: together.
17:18
Brian Stern: Aren't
17:18
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17:18
Brian Stern: to
17:18
Brian Stern: be
17:18
Brian Stern: the
17:18
Brian Stern: commonalities
17:19
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17:20
Brian Stern: the
17:20
Brian Stern: differences.
17:21
Brian Stern: So
17:22
Brian Stern: I
17:22
Brian Stern: don't
17:22
Brian Stern: know.
17:22
Brian Stern: I
17:22
Brian Stern: don't
17:22
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17:22
Brian Stern: that
17:23
Brian Stern: race
17:23
Brian Stern: had
17:23
Brian Stern: any,
17:23
Brian Stern: any
17:24
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17:25
Brian Stern: in
17:25
Brian Stern: what
17:25
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17:25
Brian Stern: us
17:26
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17:26
Brian Stern: at
17:26
Brian Stern: all.
17:27
Brian Stern: It
17:27
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17:28
Brian Stern: has
17:28
Brian Stern: played
17:28
Brian Stern: a
17:28
Brian Stern: factor
17:28
Brian Stern: since
17:29
Brian Stern: we've
17:29
Brian Stern: been
17:29
Brian Stern: together,
17:30
Brian Stern: but
17:30
Brian Stern: not
17:31
Brian Stern: part
17:31
Brian Stern: of
17:31
Brian Stern: the
17:31
Brian Stern: initiation
17:32
Brian Stern: of
17:32
Brian Stern: the
17:32
Brian Stern: relationship
17:33
Brian Stern: at
17:33
Brian Stern: all.
17:33
Tony Tidbit: Shawn.
17:37
Shawn Norville: Huh?
17:38
Shawn Norville: That's
17:38
Shawn Norville: a,
17:38
Shawn Norville: that
17:39
Shawn Norville: feels
17:39
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17:39
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17:40
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17:41
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17:43
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17:44
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17:44
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17:44
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17:45
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17:46
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17:46
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17:46
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17:46
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17:47
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17:50
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17:51
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17:51
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17:52
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17:52
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17:53
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17:54
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17:56
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17:57
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17:58
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18:08
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18:16
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18:20
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18:22
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18:22
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18:23
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18:23
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18:24
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18:25
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18:25
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18:26
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18:27
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18:28
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18:28
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18:29
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18:29
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18:31
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18:32
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18:32
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18:32
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18:32
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18:32
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:35
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18:38
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18:40
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18:40
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18:41
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18:42
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18:42
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18:42
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18:42
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18:48
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18:48
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18:48
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18:50
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18:50
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18:50
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18:51
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18:51
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18:51
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18:51
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18:52
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18:52
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18:52
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18:53
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18:53
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18:53
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18:53
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18:53
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18:54
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18:54
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18:55
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18:55
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18:56
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18:56
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18:56
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18:56
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18:56
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18:57
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18:57
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18:58
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18:58
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18:58
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18:58
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18:59
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18:59
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19:01
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19:02
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19:02
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19:03
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19:03
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19:03
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19:03
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19:03
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19:04
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19:04
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19:04
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19:06
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19:11
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19:12
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19:13
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19:13
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19:14
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19:15
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19:21
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19:22
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19:22
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19:22
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19:22
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19:23
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19:23
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19:23
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19:23
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19:24
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19:24
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19:24
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19:24
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19:24
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19:25
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19:25
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19:26
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19:26
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19:26
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19:26
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19:27
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19:27
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19:27
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19:27
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19:27
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19:27
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19:28
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19:28
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19:28
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19:28
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19:29
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19:29
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19:29
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19:29
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19:30
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19:30
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19:30
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19:30
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19:30
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:32
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19:32
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19:33
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19:33
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19:36
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19:42
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19:43
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19:43
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19:43
Robert Townes: Connecticut.
19:44
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19:44
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19:47
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19:47
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19:47
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19:47
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19:48
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19:48
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19:48
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19:49
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19:49
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19:50
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19:50
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19:50
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19:50
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19:51
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19:51
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19:51
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19:52
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19:52
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19:53
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19:53
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19:53
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19:53
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19:53
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19:54
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19:54
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19:54
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19:56
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19:57
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19:57
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19:57
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19:59
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19:59
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19:59
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20:21
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20:21
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20:22
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20:23
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20:24
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20:27
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20:28
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20:29
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20:30
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20:30
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20:31
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20:31
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Robert Townes: And
23:40
Robert Townes: so
23:40
Robert Townes: one
23:40
Robert Townes: of
23:40
Robert Townes: them
23:41
Robert Townes: said
23:41
Robert Townes: to
23:41
Robert Townes: me,
23:41
Robert Townes: you
23:41
Robert Townes: know,
23:41
Robert Townes: it's
23:41
Robert Townes: New
23:42
Robert Townes: Year's
23:42
Robert Townes: Eve,
23:42
Robert Townes: so
23:42
Robert Townes: people
23:42
Robert Townes: have
23:43
Robert Townes: been
23:43
Robert Townes: drinking.
23:44
Robert Townes: And
23:44
Robert Townes: one
23:44
Robert Townes: of
23:44
Robert Townes: those
23:44
Robert Townes: women
23:44
Robert Townes: said
23:45
Robert Townes: to
23:45
Robert Townes: me,
23:45
Robert Townes: ditch
23:45
Robert Townes: the
23:45
Robert Townes: snowflake,
23:46
Robert Townes: you
23:46
Robert Townes: know,
23:46
Robert Townes: like
23:46
Robert Townes: talking
23:46
Robert Townes: about
23:47
Robert Townes: the
23:47
Robert Townes: white
23:47
Robert Townes: woman.
23:48
Robert Townes: I'm
23:48
Robert Townes: like,
23:48
Robert Townes: that's
23:48
Robert Townes: my
23:48
Robert Townes: coworker.
23:49
Robert Townes: Like
23:49
Robert Townes: I,
23:49
Robert Townes: not,
23:49
Robert Townes: that's
23:50
Robert Townes: not,
23:50
Robert Townes: we're
23:50
Robert Townes: not
23:50
Robert Townes: like
23:51
Robert Townes: that.
23:51
Robert Townes: But,
23:51
Robert Townes: but
23:51
Robert Townes: just
23:52
Robert Townes: knowing
23:52
Robert Townes: that,
23:52
Robert Townes: that,
23:52
Robert Townes: that
23:53
Robert Townes: kind
23:53
Robert Townes: of
23:53
Robert Townes: mentality
23:54
Robert Townes: exists.
23:55
Tony Tidbit: Right.
23:55
Robert Townes: You
23:55
Robert Townes: know,
23:56
Robert Townes: wanted
23:56
Robert Townes: to,
23:56
Robert Townes: you
23:56
Robert Townes: know,
23:56
Robert Townes: like
23:57
Robert Townes: I
23:57
Robert Townes: said,
23:57
Robert Townes: when
23:57
Robert Townes: I
23:57
Robert Townes: was
23:57
Robert Townes: with,
23:58
Robert Townes: you
23:58
Robert Townes: know,
23:58
Robert Townes: Shannon
23:58
Robert Townes: in
23:59
Robert Townes: the
23:59
Robert Townes: beginning,
23:59
Robert Townes: ready
23:59
Robert Townes: to
24:00
Robert Townes: slings
24:01
Robert Townes: and
24:01
Robert Townes: arrows
24:02
Robert Townes: that
24:02
Robert Townes: might
24:02
Robert Townes: come
24:02
Robert Townes: our
24:03
Robert Townes: way.
24:03
Robert Townes: And
24:04
Robert Townes: very
24:04
Robert Townes: blessed
24:05
Robert Townes: that
24:05
Robert Townes: nothing
24:05
Robert Townes: really
24:06
Robert Townes: happened
24:06
Robert Townes: like
24:06
Robert Townes: that.
24:07
Robert Townes: But,
24:08
Robert Townes: you
24:08
Robert Townes: know,
24:08
Robert Townes: we
24:08
Robert Townes: did
24:08
Robert Townes: end
24:08
Robert Townes: up
24:09
Robert Townes: having
24:09
Robert Townes: to
24:09
Robert Townes: have
24:09
Robert Townes: certain
24:09
Robert Townes: conversations
24:10
Robert Townes: just
24:11
Robert Townes: so
24:11
Robert Townes: we
24:11
Robert Townes: were
24:11
Robert Townes: prepared,
24:11
Robert Townes: you
24:12
Robert Townes: know,
24:12
Robert Townes: knew
24:12
Robert Townes: how
24:12
Robert Townes: we
24:12
Robert Townes: would
24:13
Robert Townes: try
24:13
Robert Townes: to
24:13
Robert Townes: react.
24:14
Robert Townes: If
24:14
Robert Townes: something
24:14
Robert Townes: were
24:14
Robert Townes: to
24:14
Robert Townes: happen,
24:15
Robert Townes: but
24:15
Robert Townes: we're
24:15
Robert Townes: blessed
24:15
Robert Townes: that
24:15
Robert Townes: nothing
24:16
Robert Townes: did
24:16
Robert Townes: happen.
24:16
Tony Tidbit: Got
24:17
Tony Tidbit: it.
24:17
Tony Tidbit: Got
24:17
Tony Tidbit: it.
24:18
Tony Tidbit: Who
24:18
Tony Tidbit: wants
24:18
Tony Tidbit: to,
24:18
Tony Tidbit: who
24:18
Tony Tidbit: wants
24:18
Tony Tidbit: to
24:18
Tony Tidbit: go
24:19
Tony Tidbit: next?
24:21
Shawn Norville: I'll
24:21
Shawn Norville: go
24:21
Shawn Norville: next.
24:22
Shawn Norville: Um,
24:23
Shawn Norville: for
24:24
Shawn Norville: me,
24:24
Shawn Norville: we
24:24
Shawn Norville: knew
24:24
Shawn Norville: from
24:24
Shawn Norville: day
24:24
Shawn Norville: one,
24:25
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:25
Shawn Norville: it
24:26
Shawn Norville: would
24:26
Shawn Norville: be
24:26
Shawn Norville: problematic,
24:27
Shawn Norville: um,
24:28
Shawn Norville: from
24:28
Shawn Norville: both
24:29
Shawn Norville: cultures.
24:30
Shawn Norville: Um,
24:31
Shawn Norville: historically,
24:31
Shawn Norville: like,
24:32
Shawn Norville: um,
24:34
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:35
Shawn Norville: she
24:35
Shawn Norville: knew
24:35
Shawn Norville: her,
24:35
Shawn Norville: where
24:36
Shawn Norville: her
24:36
Shawn Norville: family,
24:36
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:37
Shawn Norville: they
24:37
Shawn Norville: had
24:37
Shawn Norville: just
24:37
Shawn Norville: certain,
24:38
Shawn Norville: um,
24:40
Shawn Norville: Things
24:40
Shawn Norville: that
24:40
Shawn Norville: they
24:40
Shawn Norville: traditions,
24:41
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:42
Shawn Norville: cultural,
24:42
Shawn Norville: cultural
24:43
Shawn Norville: norms,
24:43
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:43
Shawn Norville: that
24:44
Shawn Norville: they
24:44
Shawn Norville: did,
24:44
Shawn Norville: um,
24:45
Shawn Norville: you
24:45
Shawn Norville: know,
24:45
Shawn Norville: even
24:46
Shawn Norville: down
24:46
Shawn Norville: to,
24:47
Shawn Norville: um,
24:47
Shawn Norville: just
24:48
Shawn Norville: where
24:48
Shawn Norville: the
24:48
Shawn Norville: person
24:48
Shawn Norville: is
24:49
Shawn Norville: from
24:49
Shawn Norville: and,
24:49
Shawn Norville: um,
24:50
Shawn Norville: you
24:50
Shawn Norville: know,
24:50
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:51
Shawn Norville: what
24:51
Shawn Norville: language
24:51
Shawn Norville: they
24:51
Shawn Norville: spoke
24:52
Shawn Norville: or
24:52
Shawn Norville: what,
24:52
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:52
Shawn Norville: dialect.
24:53
Shawn Norville: Right.
24:53
Shawn Norville: So
24:53
Shawn Norville: it's
24:53
Shawn Norville: very,
24:54
Shawn Norville: you
24:54
Shawn Norville: know,
24:54
Shawn Norville: it's
24:54
Shawn Norville: very
24:55
Shawn Norville: specific,
24:55
Shawn Norville: uh,
24:56
Shawn Norville: within
24:56
Shawn Norville: her
24:56
Shawn Norville: culture
24:56
Shawn Norville: for
24:57
Shawn Norville: me,
24:58
Shawn Norville: it
24:58
Shawn Norville: was
24:58
Shawn Norville: around,
24:58
Shawn Norville: um,
25:00
Shawn Norville: and
25:00
Shawn Norville: I'll,
25:00
Shawn Norville: you
25:00
Shawn Norville: know,
25:00
Shawn Norville: I'll
25:01
Shawn Norville: speak
25:01
Shawn Norville: more
25:01
Shawn Norville: to
25:01
Shawn Norville: my
25:01
Shawn Norville: side
25:02
Shawn Norville: of
25:02
Shawn Norville: it.
25:02
Shawn Norville: Um,
25:03
Shawn Norville: because
25:04
Shawn Norville: as
25:04
Shawn Norville: a
25:04
Shawn Norville: black
25:04
Shawn Norville: man
25:05
Shawn Norville: living
25:05
Shawn Norville: in,
25:05
Shawn Norville: um,
25:06
Shawn Norville: New
25:06
Shawn Norville: York
25:06
Shawn Norville: city,
25:06
Shawn Norville: you
25:07
Shawn Norville: are
25:07
Shawn Norville: ultimately,
25:08
Shawn Norville: if
25:08
Shawn Norville: you
25:08
Shawn Norville: started
25:09
Shawn Norville: dating
25:09
Shawn Norville: outside
25:09
Shawn Norville: of
25:09
Shawn Norville: your
25:09
Shawn Norville: race,
25:10
Shawn Norville: you
25:10
Shawn Norville: are
25:10
Shawn Norville: afraid
25:10
Shawn Norville: of
25:10
Shawn Norville: the
25:10
Shawn Norville: black
25:11
Shawn Norville: woman,
25:11
Shawn Norville: um,
25:12
Shawn Norville: and,
25:12
Shawn Norville: and,
25:12
Shawn Norville: and
25:13
Shawn Norville: the,
25:13
Shawn Norville: the,
25:15
Shawn Norville: the
25:15
Shawn Norville: effect
25:15
Shawn Norville: that
25:16
Shawn Norville: that's
25:16
Shawn Norville: going
25:16
Shawn Norville: to
25:16
Shawn Norville: have
25:16
Shawn Norville: on
25:17
Shawn Norville: her,
25:17
Shawn Norville: but
25:18
Shawn Norville: also
25:18
Shawn Norville: the
25:18
Shawn Norville: response
25:19
Shawn Norville: you're
25:19
Shawn Norville: going
25:19
Shawn Norville: to
25:19
Shawn Norville: get
25:19
Shawn Norville: right.
25:20
Shawn Norville: And
25:20
Shawn Norville: there's
25:20
Shawn Norville: the,
25:21
Shawn Norville: you
25:22
Shawn Norville: know,
25:22
Shawn Norville: the
25:22
Shawn Norville: look
25:22
Shawn Norville: or
25:23
Shawn Norville: the
25:23
Shawn Norville: nod
25:23
Shawn Norville: while
25:23
Shawn Norville: you're
25:24
Shawn Norville: on
25:24
Shawn Norville: the
25:24
Shawn Norville: train
25:24
Shawn Norville: with
25:24
Shawn Norville: your
25:25
Shawn Norville: significant
25:26
Shawn Norville: other
25:26
Shawn Norville: or
25:26
Shawn Norville: girlfriend
25:27
Shawn Norville: or
25:27
Shawn Norville: whatever.
25:28
Shawn Norville: And,
25:29
Shawn Norville: um,
25:30
Shawn Norville: it
25:30
Shawn Norville: sort
25:30
Shawn Norville: of
25:30
Shawn Norville: eats
25:30
Shawn Norville: away
25:31
Shawn Norville: at
25:31
Shawn Norville: your.
25:31
Shawn Norville: Your
25:32
Shawn Norville: soul,
25:32
Shawn Norville: because
25:32
Shawn Norville: you
25:32
Shawn Norville: almost
25:33
Shawn Norville: sometimes
25:34
Shawn Norville: feel
25:34
Shawn Norville: like
25:34
Shawn Norville: you're
25:34
Shawn Norville: betraying
25:34
Shawn Norville: your
25:34
Shawn Norville: mother
25:35
Shawn Norville: or
25:35
Shawn Norville: your
25:35
Shawn Norville: sister,
25:36
Shawn Norville: because
25:36
Shawn Norville: there's
25:36
Shawn Norville: this
25:36
Shawn Norville: connotation
25:37
Shawn Norville: that
25:37
Shawn Norville: a
25:37
Shawn Norville: few
25:37
Shawn Norville: days
25:38
Shawn Norville: outside
25:38
Shawn Norville: of
25:38
Shawn Norville: your
25:38
Shawn Norville: race,
25:38
Shawn Norville: you
25:38
Shawn Norville: don't
25:39
Shawn Norville: love
25:39
Shawn Norville: black
25:40
Shawn Norville: women
25:40
Shawn Norville: the
25:40
Shawn Norville: same
25:40
Shawn Norville: as
25:40
Shawn Norville: you
25:40
Shawn Norville: do
25:41
Shawn Norville: other
25:41
Shawn Norville: women,
25:41
Shawn Norville: because
25:41
Shawn Norville: you've
25:41
Shawn Norville: been
25:42
Shawn Norville: brainwashed
25:42
Shawn Norville: to
25:43
Shawn Norville: like
25:43
Shawn Norville: certain
25:43
Shawn Norville: types
25:44
Shawn Norville: of
25:44
Shawn Norville: hair
25:44
Shawn Norville: or
25:44
Shawn Norville: certain
25:44
Shawn Norville: types
25:45
Shawn Norville: of
25:45
Shawn Norville: complexions.
25:46
Shawn Norville: And
25:46
Shawn Norville: that
25:46
Shawn Norville: complexity
25:47
Shawn Norville: definitely
25:47
Shawn Norville: added
25:48
Shawn Norville: to,
25:49
Shawn Norville: um,
25:50
Shawn Norville: I
25:50
Shawn Norville: want
25:50
Shawn Norville: to
25:50
Shawn Norville: say
25:51
Shawn Norville: hesitation,
25:52
Shawn Norville: doubt,
25:53
Shawn Norville: um,
25:54
Shawn Norville: uh,
25:54
Shawn Norville: commitment,
25:55
Shawn Norville: um,
25:56
Shawn Norville: you
25:56
Shawn Norville: know,
25:56
Shawn Norville: to
25:56
Shawn Norville: the
25:56
Shawn Norville: whole
25:57
Shawn Norville: situation.
25:58
Shawn Norville: We,
25:58
Shawn Norville: we
25:58
Shawn Norville: live
25:59
Shawn Norville: in
25:59
Shawn Norville: a
25:59
Shawn Norville: world
25:59
Shawn Norville: where,
25:59
Shawn Norville: where.
26:00
Shawn Norville: Where,
26:00
Shawn Norville: where
26:01
Shawn Norville: our
26:01
Shawn Norville: bravado
26:02
Shawn Norville: and
26:02
Shawn Norville: being
26:03
Shawn Norville: an
26:03
Shawn Norville: over
26:03
Shawn Norville: sexualized
26:04
Shawn Norville: women
26:04
Shawn Norville: is
26:04
Shawn Norville: sort
26:04
Shawn Norville: of
26:05
Shawn Norville: glorified
26:05
Shawn Norville: and
26:06
Shawn Norville: I
26:06
Shawn Norville: wasn't
26:06
Shawn Norville: that
26:07
Shawn Norville: really
26:07
Shawn Norville: kind
26:07
Shawn Norville: of
26:07
Shawn Norville: guy
26:08
Shawn Norville: where
26:09
Shawn Norville: I
26:09
Shawn Norville: knew
26:09
Shawn Norville: when
26:09
Shawn Norville: I
26:09
Shawn Norville: met
26:10
Shawn Norville: my
26:10
Shawn Norville: wife,
26:10
Shawn Norville: I
26:11
Shawn Norville: told
26:11
Shawn Norville: her
26:11
Shawn Norville: when
26:12
Shawn Norville: we
26:12
Shawn Norville: were
26:12
Shawn Norville: dating
26:12
Shawn Norville: that
26:12
Shawn Norville: I
26:12
Shawn Norville: was
26:12
Shawn Norville: going
26:12
Shawn Norville: to
26:13
Shawn Norville: marry
26:13
Shawn Norville: her
26:13
Shawn Norville: and
26:13
Shawn Norville: she
26:13
Shawn Norville: thought
26:13
Shawn Norville: I
26:14
Shawn Norville: was
26:14
Shawn Norville: joking,
26:15
Shawn Norville: but
26:15
Shawn Norville: she
26:15
Shawn Norville: did
26:15
Shawn Norville: not
26:15
Shawn Norville: know
26:16
Shawn Norville: that.
26:16
Shawn Norville: A
26:16
Shawn Norville: year
26:17
Shawn Norville: before
26:17
Shawn Norville: I
26:17
Shawn Norville: proposed
26:17
Shawn Norville: to
26:17
Shawn Norville: her,
26:18
Shawn Norville: I
26:18
Shawn Norville: was
26:18
Shawn Norville: actually
26:18
Shawn Norville: engaging
26:19
Shawn Norville: into
26:19
Shawn Norville: a
26:19
Shawn Norville: relation,
26:19
Shawn Norville: into
26:19
Shawn Norville: a
26:20
Shawn Norville: relationship
26:20
Shawn Norville: with
26:20
Shawn Norville: building
26:21
Shawn Norville: her
26:21
Shawn Norville: mom
26:21
Shawn Norville: and
26:22
Shawn Norville: speaking
26:22
Shawn Norville: to
26:22
Shawn Norville: her
26:22
Shawn Norville: mother
26:23
Shawn Norville: every
26:23
Shawn Norville: other
26:23
Shawn Norville: day
26:24
Shawn Norville: because
26:24
Shawn Norville: I
26:24
Shawn Norville: understood
26:24
Shawn Norville: culturally
26:25
Shawn Norville: where
26:25
Shawn Norville: she
26:25
Shawn Norville: was
26:25
Shawn Norville: at.
26:26
Shawn Norville: Right.
26:26
Shawn Norville: And
26:26
Shawn Norville: where
26:26
Shawn Norville: she
26:27
Shawn Norville: was
26:27
Shawn Norville: and
26:27
Shawn Norville: what
26:27
Shawn Norville: she
26:27
Shawn Norville: was,
26:27
Shawn Norville: what
26:28
Shawn Norville: she
26:28
Shawn Norville: had
26:28
Shawn Norville: to
26:28
Shawn Norville: do,
26:29
Shawn Norville: meaning
26:29
Shawn Norville: she
26:29
Shawn Norville: had
26:29
Shawn Norville: to
26:29
Shawn Norville: possibly
26:30
Shawn Norville: be
26:30
Shawn Norville: with
26:30
Shawn Norville: me.
26:31
Shawn Norville: And
26:31
Shawn Norville: if
26:31
Shawn Norville: it
26:32
Shawn Norville: being
26:32
Shawn Norville: with
26:32
Shawn Norville: me,
26:32
Shawn Norville: that
26:32
Shawn Norville: meant
26:33
Shawn Norville: she
26:33
Shawn Norville: had
26:33
Shawn Norville: to
26:33
Shawn Norville: walk
26:33
Shawn Norville: away
26:33
Shawn Norville: from
26:33
Shawn Norville: her
26:33
Shawn Norville: whole
26:34
Shawn Norville: family
26:34
Shawn Norville: is
26:34
Shawn Norville: what
26:35
Shawn Norville: she
26:35
Shawn Norville: thought
26:35
Shawn Norville: at
26:35
Shawn Norville: the
26:35
Shawn Norville: time.
26:36
Tony Tidbit: Right.
26:36
Shawn Norville: Um,
26:37
Shawn Norville: so,
26:37
Shawn Norville: so
26:37
Shawn Norville: it's
26:38
Shawn Norville: on
26:38
Shawn Norville: both
26:38
Shawn Norville: sides.
26:39
Shawn Norville: It
26:39
Shawn Norville: was,
26:40
Shawn Norville: we
26:40
Shawn Norville: were
26:40
Shawn Norville: well
26:40
Shawn Norville: aware
26:41
Shawn Norville: of
26:42
Shawn Norville: those
26:43
Shawn Norville: factors.
26:43
Shawn Norville: Um,
26:44
Shawn Norville: you
26:44
Shawn Norville: know,
26:44
Shawn Norville: so
26:45
Shawn Norville: I
26:45
Shawn Norville: want
26:45
Shawn Norville: to
26:45
Shawn Norville: cut
26:46
Shawn Norville: it
26:46
Shawn Norville: short
26:46
Shawn Norville: there,
26:46
Shawn Norville: but
26:46
Shawn Norville: I'll
26:46
Shawn Norville: give
26:46
Shawn Norville: Brian
26:47
Shawn Norville: a
26:47
Shawn Norville: chance
26:47
Shawn Norville: as
26:49
Tony Tidbit: Thanks
26:49
Tony Tidbit: Shawn.
26:50
Tony Tidbit: Brian.
26:50
Brian Stern: Sure.
26:50
Brian Stern: I
26:50
Brian Stern: think,
26:52
Brian Stern: yeah,
26:52
Brian Stern: thank
26:52
Brian Stern: you.
26:53
Brian Stern: Um,
26:54
Brian Stern: I
26:54
Brian Stern: think
26:54
Brian Stern: my
26:55
Brian Stern: experience
26:55
Brian Stern: is
26:55
Brian Stern: a
26:55
Brian Stern: little
26:55
Brian Stern: bit
26:56
Brian Stern: different
26:57
Brian Stern: clearly
26:57
Brian Stern: because
26:58
Brian Stern: I
26:58
Brian Stern: am
26:58
Brian Stern: the
26:58
Brian Stern: white
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30:50
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30:51
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30:52
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30:54
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31:00
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31:09
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31:10
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31:10
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31:11
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31:11
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31:18
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31:20
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31:20
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31:20
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31:22
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31:24
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31:25
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31:26
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31:26
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31:27
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31:27
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31:27
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31:29
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31:30
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31:31
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31:31
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31:31
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31:32
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31:32
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31:32
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31:34
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31:34
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31:38
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31:38
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31:40
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31:40
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31:40
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31:40
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31:41
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31:41
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31:41
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31:42
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31:42
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31:43
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31:44
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31:44
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31:45
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31:45
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31:51
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31:53
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31:55
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31:56
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31:57
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31:58
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31:58
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31:59
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32:01
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32:02
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32:02
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32:02
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32:03
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32:04
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32:04
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32:05
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32:06
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32:06
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32:06
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32:07
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32:10
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32:10
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32:10
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32:10
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32:10
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32:10
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32:11
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32:11
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32:11
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32:12
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32:12
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32:12
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32:12
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32:13
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32:13
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32:14
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32:14
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32:15
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32:15
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32:15
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32:15
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32:15
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32:16
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32:16
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32:18
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32:19
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32:20
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32:21
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32:22
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32:22
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32:22
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32:22
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32:22
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32:22
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32:23
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32:24
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32:24
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32:24
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32:24
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32:25
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32:25
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32:25
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32:25
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32:26
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32:26
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32:27
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32:28
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32:28
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32:28
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32:28
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32:29
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32:29
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32:29
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32:30
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32:30
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32:30
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32:30
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32:31
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32:31
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32:31
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32:31
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32:31
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32:31
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32:32
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32:32
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32:33
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32:33
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32:34
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32:34
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32:34
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32:35
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32:35
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32:35
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32:35
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32:35
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32:36
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32:36
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32:36
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32:37
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32:38
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32:38
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32:38
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32:39
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32:39
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32:40
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32:40
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32:40
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32:40
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32:40
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32:41
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32:41
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32:41
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32:41
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32:41
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32:41
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32:42
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32:43
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32:43
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32:43
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32:44
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32:44
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32:45
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32:46
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32:46
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32:47
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32:48
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32:48
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32:48
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32:49
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32:50
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32:51
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32:53
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32:53
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32:53
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32:53
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32:54
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32:54
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32:54
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32:55
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32:55
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32:55
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32:56
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32:56
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32:57
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32:57
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32:57
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32:58
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32:58
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32:59
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32:59
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32:59
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33:03
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33:03
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33:03
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33:03
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33:07
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33:08
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33:14
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33:16
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33:18
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33:18
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33:41
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33:42
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33:42
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33:42
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33:42
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33:42
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33:43
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33:43
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33:43
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33:43
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33:44
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33:44
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33:44
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33:44
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33:45
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33:45
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33:45
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33:45
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33:45
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33:45
Shawn Norville: myself
33:46
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33:46
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33:47
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33:47
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33:47
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33:47
Shawn Norville: me,
33:48
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33:48
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33:48
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33:48
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33:48
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33:49
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33:49
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33:49
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33:49
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33:49
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33:50
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33:50
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33:50
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33:51
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33:51
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33:51
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33:52
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33:52
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33:52
Shawn Norville: I
33:52
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33:53
Shawn Norville: always
33:53
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33:53
Shawn Norville: to
33:53
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33:53
Shawn Norville: my
33:54
Shawn Norville: parents
33:54
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33:54
Shawn Norville: Always
33:54
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33:55
Shawn Norville: to
33:55
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33:55
Shawn Norville: my
33:55
Shawn Norville: community
33:55
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33:56
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33:56
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33:56
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33:56
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33:56
Shawn Norville: my
33:56
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33:56
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33:57
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33:57
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33:57
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33:57
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33:57
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33:57
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33:58
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33:59
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34:00
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34:00
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34:00
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34:00
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34:00
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34:00
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34:01
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34:02
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34:02
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34:03
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34:04
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34:04
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34:04
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34:05
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34:05
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34:05
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34:05
Shawn Norville: then
34:06
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34:06
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34:06
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34:06
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34:07
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34:08
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34:08
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34:08
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34:08
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34:09
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34:09
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34:09
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34:09
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34:09
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34:10
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34:10
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34:10
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34:11
Shawn Norville: and
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Shawn Norville: doesn't
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34:11
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34:12
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34:12
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34:12
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34:13
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34:13
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34:14
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34:14
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34:14
Shawn Norville: what
34:14
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34:14
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34:14
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34:16
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34:16
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34:17
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34:17
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34:17
Shawn Norville: this
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34:18
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34:18
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34:18
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34:18
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34:19
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34:20
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34:20
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34:20
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34:21
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34:21
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34:21
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34:21
Shawn Norville: world
34:22
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34:22
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34:22
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34:23
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34:23
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34:23
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34:23
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34:23
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34:24
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34:24
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34:24
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34:24
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34:24
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34:26
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34:26
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34:26
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34:27
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34:27
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34:27
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34:27
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34:28
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34:28
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34:28
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34:29
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34:30
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34:30
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34:30
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34:31
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34:31
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34:31
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34:31
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34:32
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34:32
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34:32
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34:32
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34:32
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34:33
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34:33
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34:33
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34:33
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34:33
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34:34
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34:34
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34:34
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34:34
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34:35
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34:35
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34:35
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34:35
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34:35
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34:36
Shawn Norville: really
34:36
Shawn Norville: serious
34:36
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34:36
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34:36
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34:37
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34:37
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34:37
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34:37
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34:37
Shawn Norville: this
34:37
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34:38
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34:38
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34:39
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34:39
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34:39
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34:40
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34:41
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34:42
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34:42
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34:42
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34:42
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34:42
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34:42
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34:43
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34:43
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34:43
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34:43
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34:43
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34:43
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34:44
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34:44
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34:44
Shawn Norville: this
34:44
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34:45
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34:45
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34:45
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34:45
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34:45
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34:45
Shawn Norville: and
34:46
Shawn Norville: chapters
34:46
Shawn Norville: of
34:46
Shawn Norville: your
34:46
Shawn Norville: life
34:46
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34:47
Shawn Norville: um,
34:47
Shawn Norville: you
34:48
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34:48
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34:48
Shawn Norville: the
34:48
Shawn Norville: armor
34:48
Shawn Norville: or
34:49
Shawn Norville: you
34:49
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34:49
Shawn Norville: the
34:49
Shawn Norville: callus
34:49
Shawn Norville: and
34:50
Shawn Norville: it
34:50
Shawn Norville: doesn't
34:50
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34:50
Shawn Norville: you.
34:50
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34:50
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34:50
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34:51
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34:51
Shawn Norville: then
34:52
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34:52
Shawn Norville: Robert's
34:53
Shawn Norville: point,
34:53
Shawn Norville: Brian's
34:53
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34:54
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34:54
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34:54
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34:54
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34:55
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34:55
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34:55
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34:56
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34:56
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34:56
Shawn Norville: heart
34:56
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34:57
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34:57
Shawn Norville: your
34:57
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34:58
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34:58
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34:58
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34:58
Shawn Norville: how
34:58
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34:58
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
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34:59
Shawn Norville: but
35:00
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35:00
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35:00
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35:00
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35:00
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35:01
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35:02
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35:02
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35:02
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35:02
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35:02
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35:03
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35:03
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35:03
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35:03
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35:04
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35:04
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35:04
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35:05
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35:06
Shawn Norville: So
35:06
Shawn Norville: now
35:06
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35:06
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35:06
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35:06
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35:06
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35:07
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35:07
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35:07
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35:08
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35:08
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35:08
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35:08
Shawn Norville: my
35:09
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35:09
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35:09
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35:09
Shawn Norville: these
35:10
Shawn Norville: days
35:10
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35:10
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35:11
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35:11
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35:11
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35:12
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35:12
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35:12
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35:13
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35:13
Shawn Norville: a
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35:13
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35:14
Shawn Norville: of
35:14
Shawn Norville: similar
35:14
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35:14
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35:15
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35:15
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35:16
Shawn Norville: now
35:16
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35:16
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35:17
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35:17
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35:17
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35:18
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35:18
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35:18
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35:18
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35:18
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35:19
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35:19
Shawn Norville: black
35:19
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35:20
Shawn Norville: group
35:20
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35:20
Shawn Norville: our
35:21
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35:21
Shawn Norville: or
35:21
Shawn Norville: whatever
35:21
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35:21
Shawn Norville: case
35:21
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35:22
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35:22
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35:22
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35:22
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35:22
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35:22
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35:22
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35:23
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35:24
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35:24
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35:24
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35:24
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35:24
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35:25
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35:26
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35:26
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35:26
Shawn Norville: my
35:26
Shawn Norville: kids
35:26
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35:26
Shawn Norville: that
35:27
Shawn Norville: support
35:27
Shawn Norville: system.
35:28
Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
35:28
Shawn Norville: And
35:28
Shawn Norville: you
35:28
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35:29
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35:29
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35:29
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35:29
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35:29
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35:30
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35:31
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35:31
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35:31
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35:33
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35:33
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35:33
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35:33
Shawn Norville: person
35:34
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35:34
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35:34
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35:34
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35:35
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35:35
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35:35
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35:35
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35:35
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35:35
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35:36
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35:36
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35:37
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35:37
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35:37
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35:37
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35:37
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35:37
Shawn Norville: and
35:37
Shawn Norville: you
35:37
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35:38
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35:38
Shawn Norville: day
35:38
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35:38
Shawn Norville: you
35:38
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35:38
Shawn Norville: the
35:38
Shawn Norville: right
35:39
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35:39
Shawn Norville: It
35:39
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35:40
Shawn Norville: about
35:40
Shawn Norville: the
35:40
Shawn Norville: culture.
35:40
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35:41
Shawn Norville: wasn't
35:41
Shawn Norville: about
35:41
Shawn Norville: the
35:41
Shawn Norville: skin.
35:42
Shawn Norville: It
35:42
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35:42
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35:42
Shawn Norville: the
35:42
Shawn Norville: hair.
35:43
Shawn Norville: It
35:43
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35:43
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35:43
Shawn Norville: any
35:43
Shawn Norville: of
35:43
Shawn Norville: the
35:44
Shawn Norville: physical
35:44
Shawn Norville: parts.
35:45
Shawn Norville: It
35:45
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35:45
Shawn Norville: all
35:45
Shawn Norville: that
35:45
Shawn Norville: feeling,
35:46
Shawn Norville: that
35:46
Shawn Norville: heart
35:46
Shawn Norville: that
35:46
Shawn Norville: you.
35:48
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35:48
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35:49
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35:49
Shawn Norville: the
35:49
Shawn Norville: beginning,
35:50
Shawn Norville: um,
35:50
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35:50
Shawn Norville: that's
35:50
Shawn Norville: what
35:51
Shawn Norville: makes
35:51
Shawn Norville: it
35:51
Shawn Norville: easy
35:52
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35:53
Shawn Norville: probably
35:53
Shawn Norville: Brian
35:53
Shawn Norville: and
35:53
Shawn Norville: Robert
35:54
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35:54
Shawn Norville: myself
35:54
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35:55
Shawn Norville: to
35:55
Shawn Norville: move
35:55
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35:56
Shawn Norville: um,
35:57
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35:57
Shawn Norville: matter
35:57
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35:57
Shawn Norville: the
35:57
Shawn Norville: difficulties
35:58
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35:59
Tony Tidbit: Thanks,
35:59
Tony Tidbit: man.
36:00
Tony Tidbit: I
36:00
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36:00
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36:01
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36:01
Tony Tidbit: You
36:01
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36:02
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36:02
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36:02
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36:02
Tony Tidbit: this
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36:03
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36:03
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36:03
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36:03
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36:04
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36:05
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36:05
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36:05
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36:06
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36:06
Tony Tidbit: my
36:06
Tony Tidbit: wife
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36:06
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36:08
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Tony Tidbit: my
36:08
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36:08
Tony Tidbit: a
36:09
Tony Tidbit: small
36:09
Tony Tidbit: town
36:09
Tony Tidbit: outside
36:09
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36:09
Tony Tidbit: Boston.
36:10
Tony Tidbit: She
36:10
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36:11
Tony Tidbit: up
36:11
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36:11
Tony Tidbit: Brian,
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Tony Tidbit: a
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Tony Tidbit: lot
36:12
Tony Tidbit: of
36:12
Tony Tidbit: diversity
36:13
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36:13
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36:14
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36:14
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36:15
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36:15
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36:15
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36:15
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36:16
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36:16
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36:16
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36:16
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36:16
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36:17
Tony Tidbit: when
36:17
Tony Tidbit: we
36:18
Tony Tidbit: started
36:18
Tony Tidbit: dating,
36:20
Tony Tidbit: she
36:20
Tony Tidbit: never
36:20
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36:21
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36:21
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36:22
Tony Tidbit: She
36:22
Tony Tidbit: never
36:22
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36:23
Tony Tidbit: that.
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40:15
Brian Stern: set
40:15
Brian Stern: of
40:15
Brian Stern: challenges
40:16
Brian Stern: that,
40:16
Brian Stern: that
40:16
Brian Stern: we
40:16
Brian Stern: may
40:17
Brian Stern: never
40:17
Brian Stern: have
40:18
Brian Stern: faced
40:18
Brian Stern: during
40:18
Brian Stern: our
40:18
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40:19
Brian Stern: So
40:20
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40:20
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40:20
Brian Stern: it
40:20
Brian Stern: as
40:20
Brian Stern: it
40:21
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40:23
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40:23
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40:23
Tony Tidbit: you,
40:23
Tony Tidbit: Shawn?
40:24
Tony Tidbit: Thanks,
40:24
Tony Tidbit: Brian.
40:26
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40:26
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40:26
Shawn Norville: me,
40:27
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40:27
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40:28
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40:28
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40:28
Shawn Norville: we
40:29
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40:29
Shawn Norville: conversations
40:29
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40:30
Shawn Norville: uh,
40:30
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40:31
Shawn Norville: a
40:31
Shawn Norville: religious
40:31
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40:32
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40:32
Shawn Norville: for,
40:32
Shawn Norville: for
40:32
Shawn Norville: us,
40:33
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40:33
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40:33
Shawn Norville: a
40:33
Shawn Norville: lot
40:33
Shawn Norville: of
40:33
Shawn Norville: similarities
40:34
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40:34
Shawn Norville: terms
40:34
Shawn Norville: of
40:34
Shawn Norville: the
40:34
Shawn Norville: way
40:34
Shawn Norville: we
40:35
Shawn Norville: wanted
40:35
Shawn Norville: our
40:35
Shawn Norville: kids
40:35
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40:35
Shawn Norville: be
40:35
Shawn Norville: raised.
40:36
Shawn Norville: We
40:36
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40:36
Shawn Norville: we
40:36
Shawn Norville: wanted
40:37
Shawn Norville: to,
40:37
Shawn Norville: them
40:37
Shawn Norville: to
40:37
Shawn Norville: celebrate
40:38
Shawn Norville: both
40:38
Shawn Norville: sides
40:38
Shawn Norville: of
40:39
Shawn Norville: their
40:39
Shawn Norville: culture
40:40
Shawn Norville: and
40:40
Shawn Norville: their
40:40
Shawn Norville: backgrounds.
40:41
Shawn Norville: Um,
40:41
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40:42
Shawn Norville: wasn't
40:42
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40:42
Shawn Norville: question
40:42
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40:42
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40:43
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40:43
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40:43
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40:44
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40:44
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40:44
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40:44
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40:44
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40:45
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40:45
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40:45
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40:46
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40:46
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40:47
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40:47
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40:47
Shawn Norville: and
40:47
Shawn Norville: then
40:48
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40:48
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40:48
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40:48
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40:49
Shawn Norville: um,
40:49
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40:50
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40:50
Shawn Norville: and
40:50
Shawn Norville: calypso
40:51
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40:51
Shawn Norville: my
40:51
Shawn Norville: culture
40:51
Shawn Norville: and,
40:52
Shawn Norville: um,
40:52
Shawn Norville: things
40:52
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40:52
Shawn Norville: that
40:53
Shawn Norville: nature.
40:53
Shawn Norville: So
40:53
Shawn Norville: we
40:53
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40:53
Shawn Norville: that
40:54
Shawn Norville: we
40:54
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40:54
Shawn Norville: a
40:54
Shawn Norville: very,
40:55
Shawn Norville: um,
40:55
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40:56
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40:57
Shawn Norville: What
40:57
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40:57
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40:57
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40:59
Shawn Norville: um,
40:59
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40:59
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41:00
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41:00
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41:01
Shawn Norville: how
41:01
Shawn Norville: early
41:02
Shawn Norville: we
41:02
Shawn Norville: would
41:02
Shawn Norville: need
41:02
Shawn Norville: to
41:02
Shawn Norville: have
41:02
Shawn Norville: been
41:03
Shawn Norville: prepared
41:04
Shawn Norville: for
41:04
Shawn Norville: the
41:04
Shawn Norville: dialogue
41:05
Shawn Norville: of
41:05
Shawn Norville: them
41:06
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41:07
Shawn Norville: um,
41:08
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41:08
Shawn Norville: of
41:10
Shawn Norville: put
41:10
Shawn Norville: into
41:10
Shawn Norville: a
41:11
Shawn Norville: box.
41:12
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41:13
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41:13
Shawn Norville: on,
41:13
Shawn Norville: uh,
41:14
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41:15
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41:15
Shawn Norville: certain
41:15
Shawn Norville: things
41:16
Shawn Norville: that
41:16
Shawn Norville: they
41:16
Shawn Norville: may
41:16
Shawn Norville: not
41:16
Shawn Norville: be
41:16
Shawn Norville: able
41:17
Shawn Norville: to
41:17
Shawn Norville: ingest
41:18
Shawn Norville: and
41:18
Shawn Norville: understand
41:19
Shawn Norville: why
41:19
Shawn Norville: people
41:19
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41:19
Shawn Norville: certain
41:20
Shawn Norville: things
41:20
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41:20
Shawn Norville: why
41:20
Shawn Norville: people
41:20
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41:21
Shawn Norville: to
41:21
Shawn Norville: touch
41:21
Shawn Norville: their
41:21
Shawn Norville: hair
41:21
Shawn Norville: and
41:21
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41:21
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41:22
Shawn Norville: their
41:22
Shawn Norville: hair
41:22
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41:22
Shawn Norville: so
41:22
Shawn Norville: curly
41:22
Shawn Norville: or
41:23
Shawn Norville: why
41:23
Shawn Norville: my
41:23
Shawn Norville: daughter
41:24
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41:24
Shawn Norville: braids,
41:25
Shawn Norville: um,
41:25
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41:25
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41:26
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41:26
Shawn Norville: you
41:26
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41:27
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41:27
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41:27
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41:28
Shawn Norville: and
41:28
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41:29
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41:29
Shawn Norville: to
41:29
Shawn Norville: us
41:29
Shawn Norville: and
41:29
Shawn Norville: asking
41:30
Shawn Norville: us
41:30
Shawn Norville: questions
41:30
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41:31
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41:31
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41:31
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41:31
Shawn Norville: my
41:31
Shawn Norville: hair
41:31
Shawn Norville: to
41:31
Shawn Norville: be
41:31
Shawn Norville: yellow
41:32
Shawn Norville: and,
41:32
Shawn Norville: and
41:33
Shawn Norville: down
41:33
Shawn Norville: like
41:33
Shawn Norville: my
41:33
Shawn Norville: friends.
41:34
Shawn Norville: Or,
41:35
Shawn Norville: um,
41:35
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41:35
Shawn Norville: know,
41:36
Shawn Norville: why
41:36
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41:36
Shawn Norville: my
41:36
Shawn Norville: friends
41:37
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41:37
Shawn Norville: me
41:37
Shawn Norville: how
41:37
Shawn Norville: brown
41:38
Shawn Norville: my
41:38
Shawn Norville: skin
41:38
Shawn Norville: is
41:38
Shawn Norville: and
41:38
Shawn Norville: does
41:39
Shawn Norville: it
41:39
Shawn Norville: rub
41:39
Shawn Norville: off?
41:39
Shawn Norville: And
41:41
Shawn Norville: when
41:41
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41:41
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41:41
Shawn Norville: approached
41:42
Shawn Norville: with
41:42
Shawn Norville: those
41:42
Shawn Norville: things
41:43
Shawn Norville: in
41:43
Shawn Norville: real
41:43
Shawn Norville: life
41:43
Shawn Norville: and
41:43
Shawn Norville: real
41:44
Shawn Norville: time,
41:44
Shawn Norville: and
41:44
Shawn Norville: you're
41:45
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41:45
Shawn Norville: able
41:46
Shawn Norville: to
41:46
Shawn Norville: react,
41:46
Shawn Norville: it,
41:46
Shawn Norville: it.
41:47
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41:47
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41:47
Shawn Norville: bit
41:48
Shawn Norville: shocking,
41:48
Shawn Norville: right?
41:49
Shawn Norville: When
41:49
Shawn Norville: I
41:49
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41:49
Shawn Norville: you
41:49
Shawn Norville: off
41:49
Shawn Norville: guard,
41:50
Shawn Norville: you
41:50
Shawn Norville: know,
41:50
Shawn Norville: you
41:50
Shawn Norville: have
41:50
Shawn Norville: to
41:51
Shawn Norville: deal
41:51
Shawn Norville: with
41:51
Shawn Norville: it.
41:51
Shawn Norville: But
41:52
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41:52
Shawn Norville: Robert's
41:53
Shawn Norville: point,
41:53
Shawn Norville: uh,
41:54
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41:54
Shawn Norville: like
41:54
Shawn Norville: a,
41:55
Shawn Norville: it's
41:55
Shawn Norville: a
41:55
Shawn Norville: theory
41:56
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41:56
Shawn Norville: your
41:56
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41:56
Shawn Norville: You're
41:56
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41:56
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41:57
Shawn Norville: yeah,
41:57
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41:57
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41:57
Shawn Norville: to
41:57
Shawn Norville: deal
41:57
Shawn Norville: with
41:57
Shawn Norville: it.
41:57
Shawn Norville: We're
41:57
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41:58
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41:58
Shawn Norville: approach
41:58
Shawn Norville: it.
41:58
Shawn Norville: There's
41:58
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41:58
Shawn Norville: of
41:58
Shawn Norville: things
41:58
Shawn Norville: to
41:59
Shawn Norville: read
41:59
Shawn Norville: and
41:59
Shawn Norville: stuff
41:59
Shawn Norville: like
41:59
Shawn Norville: that.
42:00
Shawn Norville: And
42:00
Shawn Norville: we'll
42:00
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42:00
Shawn Norville: get,
42:00
Shawn Norville: we'll
42:01
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42:01
Shawn Norville: it
42:01
Shawn Norville: very
42:01
Shawn Norville: progressively.
42:02
Shawn Norville: And
42:02
Shawn Norville: then
42:03
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42:03
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42:03
Shawn Norville: you
42:03
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42:03
Shawn Norville: the
42:03
Shawn Norville: face,
42:03
Shawn Norville: like
42:04
Shawn Norville: a
42:04
Shawn Norville: Mike
42:04
Shawn Norville: Tyson
42:04
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42:04
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42:04
Shawn Norville: the
42:04
Shawn Norville: nose.
42:05
Shawn Norville: And
42:05
Shawn Norville: then
42:05
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42:05
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42:05
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42:06
Shawn Norville: Whoa,
42:06
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42:06
Shawn Norville: a
42:06
Shawn Norville: second.
42:08
Tony Tidbit: So,
42:08
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42:08
Tony Tidbit: so
42:08
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42:09
Tony Tidbit: up
42:09
Tony Tidbit: for
42:09
Tony Tidbit: a
42:09
Tony Tidbit: second.
42:09
Tony Tidbit: You
42:09
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42:10
Tony Tidbit: so,
42:10
Tony Tidbit: and
42:10
Tony Tidbit: I
42:10
Tony Tidbit: want
42:10
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42:11
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42:11
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42:11
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42:11
Tony Tidbit: to
42:11
Tony Tidbit: this
42:11
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42:12
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42:12
Tony Tidbit: you
42:12
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42:13
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42:13
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42:13
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42:13
Tony Tidbit: things
42:13
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42:13
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42:14
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42:14
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42:14
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42:14
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42:15
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42:15
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42:16
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42:16
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42:16
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42:17
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42:18
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42:18
Tony Tidbit: people,
42:18
Tony Tidbit: you
42:19
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42:19
Tony Tidbit: would
42:19
Tony Tidbit: make
42:20
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42:20
Tony Tidbit: of
42:20
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42:20
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42:20
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42:21
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42:21
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42:21
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42:21
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42:22
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42:22
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42:23
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42:23
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42:23
Tony Tidbit: mixed.
42:23
Tony Tidbit: They
42:24
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42:24
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42:25
Tony Tidbit: So
42:25
Tony Tidbit: when
42:25
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42:25
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42:26
Tony Tidbit: um,
42:26
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42:27
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42:27
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42:27
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42:27
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42:27
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42:27
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42:27
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42:28
Tony Tidbit: like
42:28
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42:28
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42:28
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42:29
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42:29
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42:31
Shawn Norville: meaning
42:31
Shawn Norville: we've
42:31
Shawn Norville: always
42:32
Shawn Norville: taught
42:32
Shawn Norville: our
42:32
Shawn Norville: kids
42:32
Shawn Norville: that
42:33
Shawn Norville: they're
42:33
Shawn Norville: two
42:33
Shawn Norville: sides
42:33
Shawn Norville: of
42:34
Shawn Norville: them.
42:34
Shawn Norville: They're
42:34
Shawn Norville: fit.
42:34
Shawn Norville: They're
42:34
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42:34
Shawn Norville: and
42:35
Shawn Norville: half,
42:35
Shawn Norville: but
42:36
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42:36
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42:36
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42:36
Shawn Norville: out
42:36
Shawn Norville: into
42:36
Shawn Norville: the
42:36
Shawn Norville: world,
42:37
Shawn Norville: the
42:37
Shawn Norville: world
42:37
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42:37
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42:38
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42:38
Shawn Norville: as
42:38
Shawn Norville: one
42:38
Shawn Norville: thing,
42:38
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42:38
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42:39
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42:42
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42:43
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42:43
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42:43
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42:43
Tony Tidbit: how
42:44
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42:44
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42:44
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42:44
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42:44
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42:45
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42:45
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42:45
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42:45
Tony Tidbit: when,
42:46
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42:46
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42:46
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42:46
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42:47
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42:47
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42:48
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42:48
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42:48
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42:49
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42:49
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42:49
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42:49
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42:50
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42:50
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42:50
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42:51
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42:51
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42:51
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42:51
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42:51
Tony Tidbit: a
42:52
Tony Tidbit: little
42:52
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42:52
Tony Tidbit: right?
42:52
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42:52
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42:53
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42:53
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42:53
Tony Tidbit: in
42:53
Tony Tidbit: the
42:53
Tony Tidbit: world,
42:54
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42:54
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42:54
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42:55
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42:56
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42:56
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42:56
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42:57
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42:57
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42:57
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42:58
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42:58
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42:58
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42:58
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42:58
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42:59
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42:59
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42:59
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42:59
Tony Tidbit: your
42:59
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43:00
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43:00
Tony Tidbit: I
43:00
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43:00
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43:00
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43:00
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43:00
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43:01
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43:01
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43:01
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43:02
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43:02
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43:02
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43:03
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43:03
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43:03
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43:03
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43:03
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43:03
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43:06
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43:07
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43:07
Shawn Norville: you
43:07
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43:07
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43:07
Shawn Norville: Tony.
43:07
Shawn Norville: I'm
43:07
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43:08
Shawn Norville: strategy
43:08
Shawn Norville: guy.
43:08
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43:09
Shawn Norville: up
43:09
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43:09
Shawn Norville: a
43:09
Shawn Norville: plan,
43:09
Shawn Norville: right?
43:10
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43:10
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43:10
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43:10
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43:11
Shawn Norville: I
43:11
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43:11
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43:11
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43:12
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43:12
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43:12
Shawn Norville: the
43:12
Shawn Norville: home,
43:13
Shawn Norville: uh,
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Shawn Norville: by
43:14
Shawn Norville: repetitively
43:14
Shawn Norville: making
43:15
Shawn Norville: sure
43:15
Shawn Norville: my
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45:28
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45:28
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45:48
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45:54
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45:54
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45:54
Robert Townes: Jewish
45:54
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45:55
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45:56
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Tony Tidbit: Right.
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Tony Tidbit: Shawn
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Shawn Norville: Uh,
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Shawn Norville: for,
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Shawn Norville: for,
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Shawn Norville: from
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Shawn Norville: a
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Shawn Norville: marriage
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Shawn Norville: standpoint,
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Shawn Norville: it's,
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Shawn Norville: um,
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Shawn Norville: I
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Shawn Norville: to
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Shawn Norville: say,
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Shawn Norville: I
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50:21
Shawn Norville: it's
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Shawn Norville: down
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Shawn Norville: or
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Shawn Norville: more
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Shawn Norville: just
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Shawn Norville: I'm
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Shawn Norville: now,
50:24
Shawn Norville: unaware
50:25
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Shawn Norville: it
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Shawn Norville: or
50:25
Shawn Norville: don't
50:25
Shawn Norville: care
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Shawn Norville: anymore.
50:26
Shawn Norville: And
50:26
Shawn Norville: so
50:26
Shawn Norville: I'm,
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Shawn Norville: I'm
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Shawn Norville: sensitive
50:27
Shawn Norville: to
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Shawn Norville: it
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Shawn Norville: or
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Shawn Norville: less
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Shawn Norville: cognizant
50:28
Shawn Norville: of
50:28
Shawn Norville: it
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Shawn Norville: you
50:29
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50:30
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Shawn Norville: stared
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Shawn Norville: at
50:31
Shawn Norville: for
50:31
Shawn Norville: long
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Shawn Norville: of
50:32
Shawn Norville: time
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50:33
Shawn Norville: a
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Shawn Norville: train
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Shawn Norville: ride
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50:33
Shawn Norville: like
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Shawn Norville: the
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Shawn Norville: time
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50:34
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50:34
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Shawn Norville: you
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50:35
Shawn Norville: the
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Shawn Norville: train.
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Shawn Norville: Um,
50:36
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50:36
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50:36
Shawn Norville: just
50:37
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50:37
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50:38
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50:38
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50:38
Shawn Norville: is,
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Shawn Norville: but
50:38
Shawn Norville: it's
50:38
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50:38
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50:39
Shawn Norville: Like
50:39
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50:39
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50:39
Shawn Norville: to
50:39
Shawn Norville: stare
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Shawn Norville: at
50:40
Shawn Norville: me
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Shawn Norville: for
50:40
Shawn Norville: 20
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Shawn Norville: minutes.
50:41
Shawn Norville: That's
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50:42
Shawn Norville: weird
50:43
Shawn Norville: and
50:43
Shawn Norville: awkward.
50:44
Shawn Norville: Right.
50:44
Shawn Norville: So,
50:45
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50:45
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50:45
Shawn Norville: those
50:45
Shawn Norville: are
50:45
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50:45
Shawn Norville: of
50:45
Shawn Norville: the
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Shawn Norville: things
50:46
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50:46
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50:47
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50:47
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50:47
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50:48
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50:48
Shawn Norville: um,
50:49
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50:49
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50:49
Shawn Norville: life
50:49
Shawn Norville: changes,
50:50
Shawn Norville: you
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Shawn Norville: yourself
50:50
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50:51
Shawn Norville: certain
50:52
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Shawn Norville: um,
50:54
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50:54
Shawn Norville: comfortable,
50:55
Shawn Norville: I
50:55
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50:55
Shawn Norville: Um,
50:55
Shawn Norville: so
50:56
Shawn Norville: things
50:56
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50:56
Shawn Norville: that
50:56
Shawn Norville: don't
50:56
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50:57
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Shawn Norville: much.
50:57
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Shawn Norville: um,
50:58
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50:58
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50:58
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50:58
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50:59
Shawn Norville: I'm
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51:00
Shawn Norville: a
51:00
Shawn Norville: family
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51:01
Shawn Norville: Um,
51:02
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51:02
Shawn Norville: the
51:02
Shawn Norville: things
51:02
Shawn Norville: that
51:03
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51:03
Shawn Norville: saying,
51:04
Shawn Norville: because
51:05
Shawn Norville: they're
51:05
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51:06
Shawn Norville: sometimes,
51:07
Shawn Norville: and
51:07
Shawn Norville: they're
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51:07
Shawn Norville: being
51:07
Shawn Norville: exposed
51:08
Shawn Norville: to
51:08
Shawn Norville: different
51:09
Shawn Norville: people
51:09
Shawn Norville: or
51:09
Shawn Norville: different
51:10
Shawn Norville: cultures.
51:10
Shawn Norville: So
51:11
Shawn Norville: they
51:11
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51:11
Shawn Norville: these
51:11
Shawn Norville: questions,
51:11
Shawn Norville: which
51:11
Shawn Norville: are
51:12
Shawn Norville: obviously
51:12
Shawn Norville: really
51:12
Shawn Norville: innocent,
51:13
Shawn Norville: but
51:13
Shawn Norville: they
51:13
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51:13
Shawn Norville: from
51:13
Shawn Norville: a
51:13
Shawn Norville: place
51:14
Shawn Norville: of
51:14
Shawn Norville: just
51:15
Shawn Norville: lack
51:15
Shawn Norville: of
51:15
Shawn Norville: exposure
51:16
Shawn Norville: and,
51:16
Shawn Norville: um.
51:17
Shawn Norville: I
51:18
Shawn Norville: wouldn't
51:18
Shawn Norville: say
51:18
Shawn Norville: they're
51:18
Shawn Norville: outrageous.
51:19
Shawn Norville: They're
51:19
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51:19
Shawn Norville: naive,
51:20
Shawn Norville: you
51:20
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51:20
Shawn Norville: and,
51:20
Shawn Norville: uh,
51:21
Shawn Norville: but
51:21
Shawn Norville: what
51:21
Shawn Norville: I
51:21
Shawn Norville: do
51:22
Shawn Norville: sense
51:22
Shawn Norville: is
51:22
Shawn Norville: that
51:23
Shawn Norville: my
51:23
Shawn Norville: kids
51:24
Shawn Norville: don't
51:24
Shawn Norville: ask
51:24
Shawn Norville: the
51:24
Shawn Norville: same
51:24
Shawn Norville: questions
51:25
Shawn Norville: back.
51:25
Shawn Norville: Um,
51:26
Shawn Norville: and
51:26
Shawn Norville: that's
51:26
Shawn Norville: the
51:26
Shawn Norville: point
51:27
Shawn Norville: that
51:27
Shawn Norville: I
51:28
Shawn Norville: don't,
51:28
Shawn Norville: I'm
51:28
Shawn Norville: still
51:28
Shawn Norville: trying
51:28
Shawn Norville: to
51:28
Shawn Norville: figure
51:29
Shawn Norville: out
51:29
Shawn Norville: in
51:29
Shawn Norville: real
51:29
Shawn Norville: time,
51:29
Shawn Norville: to
51:30
Shawn Norville: be
51:30
Shawn Norville: honest
51:30
Shawn Norville: with
51:30
Shawn Norville: you.
51:31
Tony Tidbit: Right.
51:32
Tony Tidbit: So
51:32
Tony Tidbit: I
51:32
Tony Tidbit: got
51:32
Tony Tidbit: to
51:32
Tony Tidbit: say,
51:32
Robert Townes: Tony,
51:33
Robert Townes: Tony,
51:34
Robert Townes: let
51:34
Robert Townes: me
51:34
Robert Townes: jump
51:34
Robert Townes: in
51:34
Robert Townes: on
51:34
Robert Townes: that.
51:35
Tony Tidbit: Go
51:35
Tony Tidbit: ahead,
51:35
Tony Tidbit: Robert.
51:36
Robert Townes: So
51:36
Robert Townes: one
51:36
Robert Townes: of
51:36
Robert Townes: the
51:36
Robert Townes: things
51:37
Robert Townes: is
51:37
Robert Townes: also
51:37
Robert Townes: a
51:38
Robert Townes: basis
51:38
Robert Townes: of
51:38
Robert Townes: comparison.
51:39
Robert Townes: Like
51:39
Robert Townes: what
51:40
Robert Townes: we
51:40
Robert Townes: go
51:40
Robert Townes: through
51:40
Robert Townes: in
51:40
Robert Townes: our
51:41
Robert Townes: lives
51:41
Robert Townes: with
51:41
Robert Townes: our
51:41
Robert Townes: marriages
51:42
Robert Townes: and
51:42
Robert Townes: with
51:42
Robert Townes: our
51:42
Robert Townes: children
51:42
Robert Townes: is
51:43
Robert Townes: kind
51:43
Robert Townes: of
51:43
Robert Townes: our
51:43
Robert Townes: normal.
51:44
Robert Townes: So,
51:45
Robert Townes: the
51:45
Robert Townes: word
51:45
Robert Townes: outrageous
51:46
Robert Townes: is
51:46
Robert Townes: a
51:46
Robert Townes: little
51:46
Robert Townes: bit
51:46
Robert Townes: different
51:47
Robert Townes: because
51:47
Robert Townes: it's
51:47
Robert Townes: just
51:47
Robert Townes: normal
51:48
Robert Townes: for
51:48
Robert Townes: us.
51:48
Robert Townes: Correct.
51:49
Robert Townes: The
51:49
Robert Townes: issue
51:49
Robert Townes: is
51:49
Robert Townes: when
51:49
Robert Townes: you
51:49
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51:49
Robert Townes: a
51:49
Robert Townes: basis
51:50
Robert Townes: of
51:50
Robert Townes: comparison
51:51
Robert Townes: to
51:51
Robert Townes: somebody
51:51
Robert Townes: else's
51:52
Robert Townes: experience
51:52
Robert Townes: and
51:52
Robert Townes: then
51:52
Robert Townes: you
51:53
Robert Townes: can
51:53
Robert Townes: see
51:53
Robert Townes: something
51:53
Robert Townes: different.
51:54
Robert Townes: So,
51:54
Robert Townes: for
51:54
Robert Townes: instance,
51:55
Robert Townes: you
51:55
Robert Townes: know,
51:55
Robert Townes: if
51:56
Robert Townes: I
51:56
Robert Townes: were
51:56
Robert Townes: to
51:56
Robert Townes: find
51:56
Robert Townes: out,
51:56
Robert Townes: for
51:57
Robert Townes: instance,
51:57
Robert Townes: that
51:57
Robert Townes: my
51:57
Robert Townes: wife
51:58
Robert Townes: and
51:58
Robert Townes: I
51:58
Robert Townes: are
51:58
Robert Townes: trying
51:58
Robert Townes: to
51:58
Robert Townes: buy
51:58
Robert Townes: a
51:58
Robert Townes: house
51:59
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51:59
Robert Townes: a
51:59
Robert Townes: certain
51:59
Robert Townes: neighborhood,
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Robert Townes: and
52:00
Robert Townes: if
52:00
Robert Townes: I'm
52:01
Robert Townes: the
52:01
Robert Townes: person
52:01
Robert Townes: who
52:01
Robert Townes: is
52:01
Robert Townes: the
52:01
Robert Townes: lead
52:02
Robert Townes: on
52:02
Robert Townes: the
52:02
Robert Townes: conversation,
52:03
Robert Townes: I
52:03
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52:04
Robert Townes: you
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Robert Townes: mortgage
52:04
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52:05
Robert Townes: a
52:05
Robert Townes: certain
52:05
Robert Townes: level,
52:06
Robert Townes: exactly.
52:07
Robert Townes: She
52:07
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52:07
Robert Townes: it
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Robert Townes: separately,
52:08
Robert Townes: or
52:08
Robert Townes: she
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52:09
Robert Townes: pictures
52:09
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52:09
Robert Townes: me
52:09
Robert Townes: out
52:10
Robert Townes: of
52:10
Robert Townes: the,
52:10
Robert Townes: the,
52:10
Robert Townes: the,
52:11
Robert Townes: the
52:11
Robert Townes: house.
52:12
Robert Townes: Then
52:12
Robert Townes: all
52:12
Robert Townes: of
52:12
Robert Townes: a
52:12
Robert Townes: sudden
52:13
Robert Townes: it's
52:13
Robert Townes: a
52:13
Robert Townes: totally
52:13
Robert Townes: different
52:13
Robert Townes: conversation
52:14
Robert Townes: about
52:14
Robert Townes: how
52:15
Robert Townes: tired
52:15
Robert Townes: exactly
52:16
Robert Townes: those
52:16
Robert Townes: kinds
52:16
Robert Townes: of
52:17
Robert Townes: things
52:17
Robert Townes: would
52:17
Robert Townes: be
52:17
Robert Townes: really
52:17
Robert Townes: outrageous.
52:18
Robert Townes: That
52:18
Robert Townes: hasn't
52:18
Robert Townes: happened
52:19
Robert Townes: to
52:19
Robert Townes: us.
52:19
Robert Townes: In
52:19
Robert Townes: particular,
52:20
Robert Townes: what
52:20
Robert Townes: I'm
52:20
Robert Townes: saying,
52:20
Robert Townes: if
52:21
Robert Townes: we
52:21
Robert Townes: had
52:21
Robert Townes: that
52:21
Robert Townes: basis
52:21
Robert Townes: of
52:21
Robert Townes: comparison,
52:22
Robert Townes: then
52:22
Robert Townes: we
52:23
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52:23
Robert Townes: realize
52:23
Robert Townes: how
52:24
Robert Townes: out
52:24
Robert Townes: of
52:24
Robert Townes: whack
52:24
Robert Townes: things
52:25
Robert Townes: may
52:25
Robert Townes: actually
52:25
Robert Townes: be
52:25
Robert Townes: for
52:25
Robert Townes: us.
52:26
Robert Townes: And
52:26
Robert Townes: we're
52:26
Robert Townes: just
52:26
Robert Townes: not
52:26
Robert Townes: aware.
52:27
Tony Tidbit: Yeah,
52:27
Tony Tidbit: so
52:28
Tony Tidbit: and
52:28
Tony Tidbit: that's
52:28
Tony Tidbit: where
52:28
Tony Tidbit: I
52:28
Tony Tidbit: was
52:28
Tony Tidbit: going
52:29
Tony Tidbit: to
52:29
Tony Tidbit: because
52:30
Tony Tidbit: yeah,
52:30
Tony Tidbit: I
52:30
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52:30
Tony Tidbit: at
52:30
Tony Tidbit: the
52:30
Tony Tidbit: end
52:30
Tony Tidbit: of
52:30
Tony Tidbit: the
52:30
Tony Tidbit: day
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52:31
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52:31
Tony Tidbit: say
52:31
Tony Tidbit: I'm
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Tony Tidbit: about
52:32
Tony Tidbit: this
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Tony Tidbit: stuff
52:33
Tony Tidbit: That's
52:34
Tony Tidbit: yes,
52:34
Tony Tidbit: we
52:35
Tony Tidbit: deal
52:35
Tony Tidbit: with
52:36
Tony Tidbit: but
52:36
Tony Tidbit: yeah
52:36
Tony Tidbit: other
52:36
Tony Tidbit: other
52:37
Tony Tidbit: people
52:38
Tony Tidbit: don't
52:38
Tony Tidbit: so
52:38
Tony Tidbit: I
52:39
Tony Tidbit: can
52:39
Tony Tidbit: give
52:39
Tony Tidbit: you
52:39
Tony Tidbit: a
52:39
Tony Tidbit: million
52:39
Tony Tidbit: exam
52:39
Tony Tidbit: Because
52:39
Tony Tidbit: I
52:40
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52:40
Tony Tidbit: just
52:40
Tony Tidbit: about
52:40
Tony Tidbit: to
52:40
Tony Tidbit: say
52:40
Tony Tidbit: maybe
52:41
Tony Tidbit: me
52:41
Tony Tidbit: and
52:41
Tony Tidbit: my
52:42
Tony Tidbit: family
52:42
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52:42
Tony Tidbit: the
52:42
Tony Tidbit: only
52:42
Tony Tidbit: ones
52:43
Tony Tidbit: right
52:43
Tony Tidbit: because
52:44
Tony Tidbit: my
52:44
Tony Tidbit: daughter's
52:44
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52:45
Tony Tidbit: my
52:45
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55:49
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55:53
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55:54
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Brian Stern: you
56:13
Brian Stern: know,
56:13
Brian Stern: 57
56:14
Brian Stern: years
56:14
Brian Stern: is
56:14
Brian Stern: going
56:14
Brian Stern: to
56:14
Brian Stern: feel
56:14
Brian Stern: a
56:14
Brian Stern: lot
56:15
Brian Stern: closer
56:16
Brian Stern: than
56:16
Brian Stern: it
56:16
Brian Stern: even
56:17
Brian Stern: is,
56:17
Brian Stern: um,
56:18
Brian Stern: so
56:18
Brian Stern: I'm
56:18
Brian Stern: very
56:18
Brian Stern: worried
56:18
Brian Stern: about
56:19
Brian Stern: that.
56:19
Brian Stern: And
56:19
Brian Stern: I
56:19
Brian Stern: think,
56:19
Brian Stern: you
56:20
Brian Stern: know,
56:20
Brian Stern: people
56:20
Brian Stern: need
56:20
Brian Stern: to
56:20
Brian Stern: talk
56:21
Brian Stern: about
56:21
Brian Stern: it.
56:22
Brian Stern: People
56:22
Brian Stern: need
56:22
Brian Stern: to
56:22
Brian Stern: bring
56:22
Brian Stern: it
56:22
Brian Stern: up,
56:22
Brian Stern: bring
56:23
Brian Stern: it
56:23
Brian Stern: to
56:23
Brian Stern: the
56:23
Brian Stern: forefront.
56:23
Brian Stern: Don't
56:23
Brian Stern: be
56:24
Brian Stern: afraid
56:24
Brian Stern: to
56:24
Brian Stern: have
56:25
Brian Stern: conversations
56:25
Brian Stern: about
56:26
Brian Stern: it.
56:26
Brian Stern: Um,
56:27
Brian Stern: the
56:27
Brian Stern: other
56:27
Brian Stern: thing,
56:27
Brian Stern: my,
56:28
Brian Stern: my
56:28
Brian Stern: parting
56:28
Brian Stern: thought
56:29
Brian Stern: is,
56:29
Brian Stern: my
56:30
Brian Stern: goodness,
56:30
Brian Stern: I
56:30
Brian Stern: have
56:30
Brian Stern: learned
56:31
Brian Stern: so
56:31
Brian Stern: much
56:31
Brian Stern: from
56:31
Brian Stern: Robert
56:32
Brian Stern: and
56:32
Brian Stern: Shawn
56:32
Brian Stern: today.
56:32
Brian Stern: I
56:33
Brian Stern: am
56:33
Brian Stern: just,
56:34
Brian Stern: I'm
56:34
Brian Stern: so
56:34
Brian Stern: thankful
56:35
Brian Stern: that
56:35
Brian Stern: I
56:35
Brian Stern: got
56:35
Brian Stern: to
56:35
Brian Stern: be
56:35
Brian Stern: a
56:35
Brian Stern: part
56:35
Brian Stern: of
56:35
Brian Stern: this,
56:36
Brian Stern: just
56:36
Brian Stern: hearing
56:36
Brian Stern: your
56:36
Brian Stern: perspectives.
56:37
Brian Stern: I'm
56:38
Brian Stern: coming
56:38
Brian Stern: away
56:38
Brian Stern: so
56:38
Brian Stern: much
56:38
Brian Stern: wiser.
56:39
Brian Stern: So
56:39
Brian Stern: I,
56:40
Brian Stern: I,
56:40
Brian Stern: I'm
56:40
Brian Stern: just
56:41
Brian Stern: so
56:41
Brian Stern: thankful
56:41
Brian Stern: I
56:41
Brian Stern: was
56:41
Brian Stern: part
56:41
Brian Stern: of
56:42
Brian Stern: this.
56:43
Tony Tidbit: It's
56:43
Tony Tidbit: awesome,
56:44
Tony Tidbit: buddy.
56:44
Tony Tidbit: And,
56:44
Tony Tidbit: and
56:45
Tony Tidbit: let's
56:45
Tony Tidbit: be
56:45
Tony Tidbit: fair
56:45
Tony Tidbit: though,
56:46
Tony Tidbit: too.
56:46
Tony Tidbit: You
56:47
Tony Tidbit: brought
56:47
Tony Tidbit: a
56:47
Tony Tidbit: lot
56:47
Tony Tidbit: of
56:47
Tony Tidbit: wisdom
56:48
Tony Tidbit: as
56:48
Tony Tidbit: well.
56:49
Tony Tidbit: Okay.
56:50
Tony Tidbit: You,
56:50
Tony Tidbit: you
56:50
Tony Tidbit: definitely
56:51
Tony Tidbit: threw
56:51
Tony Tidbit: some
56:51
Tony Tidbit: nuggets
56:52
Tony Tidbit: out
56:52
Tony Tidbit: there
56:52
Tony Tidbit: that
56:52
Tony Tidbit: we
56:52
Tony Tidbit: all
56:52
Tony Tidbit: can
56:53
Tony Tidbit: learn
56:53
Tony Tidbit: from.
56:54
Tony Tidbit: So
56:54
Tony Tidbit: I
56:54
Tony Tidbit: really
56:54
Tony Tidbit: appreciate
56:55
Tony Tidbit: that.
56:55
Tony Tidbit: Shawn.
56:57
Shawn Norville: Yeah.
56:57
Shawn Norville: Um,
56:58
Shawn Norville: appreciate
56:58
Shawn Norville: that,
56:58
Shawn Norville: Brian.
56:59
Shawn Norville: Like
56:59
Shawn Norville: I
56:59
Shawn Norville: said,
56:59
Shawn Norville: I'm,
56:59
Shawn Norville: I
57:00
Shawn Norville: appreciated
57:00
Shawn Norville: your,
57:00
Shawn Norville: your,
57:01
Shawn Norville: your
57:01
Shawn Norville: viewpoint.
57:01
Shawn Norville: It's
57:02
Shawn Norville: a
57:02
Shawn Norville: viewpoint
57:02
Shawn Norville: we
57:02
Shawn Norville: don't
57:02
Shawn Norville: hear
57:02
Shawn Norville: too
57:03
Shawn Norville: often.
57:03
Shawn Norville: Um,
57:04
Shawn Norville: we'd
57:04
Shawn Norville: love
57:04
Shawn Norville: to
57:04
Shawn Norville: hear
57:04
Shawn Norville: more
57:05
Shawn Norville: of
57:05
Shawn Norville: that,
57:05
Shawn Norville: but
57:05
Shawn Norville: for
57:05
Shawn Norville: me,
57:07
Shawn Norville: ah,
57:08
Shawn Norville: what
57:09
Shawn Norville: do
57:09
Shawn Norville: I
57:09
Shawn Norville: want
57:09
Shawn Norville: people
57:09
Shawn Norville: to
57:09
Shawn Norville: know?
57:10
Shawn Norville: Uh,
57:11
Shawn Norville: You
57:12
Shawn Norville: know,
57:12
Shawn Norville: the
57:12
Shawn Norville: funny
57:12
Shawn Norville: thing
57:12
Shawn Norville: is,
57:13
Shawn Norville: um,
57:13
Shawn Norville: relationships,
57:14
Shawn Norville: family,
57:15
Shawn Norville: um,
57:15
Shawn Norville: kids,
57:16
Shawn Norville: wives,
57:17
Shawn Norville: like,
57:17
Shawn Norville: it's
57:17
Shawn Norville: all
57:17
Shawn Norville: hard,
57:18
Shawn Norville: like,
57:18
Shawn Norville: life
57:18
Shawn Norville: is
57:18
Shawn Norville: generally
57:19
Shawn Norville: not
57:19
Shawn Norville: the
57:19
Shawn Norville: easiest
57:19
Shawn Norville: thing
57:20
Shawn Norville: ever,
57:20
Shawn Norville: um,
57:21
Shawn Norville: but,
57:22
Shawn Norville: um,
57:22
Shawn Norville: it's
57:22
Shawn Norville: not
57:23
Shawn Norville: about
57:23
Shawn Norville: being
57:24
Shawn Norville: black,
57:25
Shawn Norville: white,
57:25
Shawn Norville: Asian,
57:27
Shawn Norville: you
57:27
Shawn Norville: know,
57:27
Shawn Norville: uh,
57:28
Shawn Norville: Latinx,
57:28
Shawn Norville: whatever
57:29
Shawn Norville: it
57:29
Shawn Norville: is,
57:29
Shawn Norville: uh,
57:29
Shawn Norville: it's
57:30
Shawn Norville: about
57:30
Shawn Norville: being
57:30
Shawn Norville: a
57:30
Shawn Norville: person
57:31
Shawn Norville: first.
57:31
Shawn Norville: Um,
57:32
Shawn Norville: and
57:32
Shawn Norville: I
57:32
Shawn Norville: think
57:33
Shawn Norville: for
57:33
Shawn Norville: me,
57:34
Shawn Norville: with
57:34
Shawn Norville: all
57:34
Shawn Norville: the
57:34
Shawn Norville: things
57:34
Shawn Norville: that
57:35
Shawn Norville: are
57:35
Shawn Norville: happening
57:35
Shawn Norville: in
57:35
Shawn Norville: the
57:35
Shawn Norville: past
57:36
Shawn Norville: few
57:36
Shawn Norville: years
57:36
Shawn Norville: politically,
57:36
Shawn Norville: and
57:37
Shawn Norville: you
57:37
Shawn Norville: know,
57:37
Shawn Norville: what's
57:38
Shawn Norville: been
57:38
Shawn Norville: happening
57:38
Shawn Norville: to
57:38
Shawn Norville: divide
57:38
Shawn Norville: in
57:39
Shawn Norville: the
57:39
Shawn Norville: country,
57:39
Shawn Norville: what
57:39
Shawn Norville: we
57:39
Shawn Norville: don't
57:40
Shawn Norville: see
57:40
Shawn Norville: statistically,
57:40
Shawn Norville: or
57:40
Shawn Norville: what
57:41
Shawn Norville: people
57:41
Shawn Norville: keep
57:41
Shawn Norville: forgetting
57:41
Shawn Norville: is
57:42
Shawn Norville: that
57:42
Shawn Norville: the
57:43
Shawn Norville: integration
57:44
Shawn Norville: of
57:44
Shawn Norville: culturals
57:45
Shawn Norville: and
57:45
Shawn Norville: races
57:45
Shawn Norville: are
57:46
Shawn Norville: exponentially
57:47
Shawn Norville: happening
57:47
Shawn Norville: as
57:47
Shawn Norville: well.
57:48
Shawn Norville: Um,
57:48
Shawn Norville: so
57:49
Shawn Norville: there's
57:49
Shawn Norville: going
57:49
Shawn Norville: to
57:49
Shawn Norville: be,
57:50
Shawn Norville: the
57:50
Shawn Norville: majority
57:51
Shawn Norville: is
57:51
Shawn Norville: going
57:51
Shawn Norville: to
57:51
Shawn Norville: be
57:51
Shawn Norville: the
57:51
Shawn Norville: minority
57:52
Shawn Norville: soon.
57:53
Shawn Norville: Um,
57:54
Shawn Norville: and
57:54
Shawn Norville: I,
57:54
Shawn Norville: I
57:54
Shawn Norville: want
57:54
Shawn Norville: to
57:55
Shawn Norville: say
57:55
Shawn Norville: that
57:55
Shawn Norville: I
57:56
Shawn Norville: have
57:56
Shawn Norville: a
57:56
Shawn Norville: tremendous
57:57
Shawn Norville: amount
57:57
Shawn Norville: of
57:57
Shawn Norville: faith
57:58
Shawn Norville: in
57:58
Shawn Norville: the
57:58
Shawn Norville: children
57:58
Shawn Norville: today.
57:59
Shawn Norville: You
57:59
Shawn Norville: know,
58:00
Shawn Norville: uh,
58:00
Shawn Norville: Robert's
58:00
Shawn Norville: Children
58:01
Shawn Norville: and
58:01
Shawn Norville: Brian's
58:01
Shawn Norville: Children
58:02
Shawn Norville: and
58:02
Shawn Norville: Tony's
58:02
Shawn Norville: Children
58:02
Shawn Norville: because
58:03
Shawn Norville: your
58:03
Shawn Norville: children
58:03
Shawn Norville: are
58:03
Shawn Norville: older
58:03
Shawn Norville: than
58:03
Shawn Norville: mine.
58:04
Shawn Norville: I
58:04
Shawn Norville: have
58:04
Shawn Norville: a
58:04
Shawn Norville: tremendous
58:05
Shawn Norville: amount
58:05
Shawn Norville: of
58:05
Shawn Norville: faith
58:05
Shawn Norville: in
58:05
Shawn Norville: how
58:06
Shawn Norville: they're
58:06
Shawn Norville: moving
58:06
Shawn Norville: and
58:06
Shawn Norville: maneuvering
58:07
Shawn Norville: in
58:07
Shawn Norville: the
58:07
Shawn Norville: world.
58:07
Shawn Norville: I'm
58:08
Shawn Norville: so
58:08
Shawn Norville: hopeful,
58:09
Shawn Norville: right?
58:09
Shawn Norville: And
58:09
Shawn Norville: I
58:10
Shawn Norville: believe
58:10
Shawn Norville: that
58:10
Shawn Norville: they're
58:10
Shawn Norville: going
58:10
Shawn Norville: to
58:10
Shawn Norville: do
58:11
Shawn Norville: the
58:11
Shawn Norville: right
58:11
Shawn Norville: things
58:12
Shawn Norville: and
58:12
Shawn Norville: make
58:12
Shawn Norville: the
58:12
Shawn Norville: right
58:12
Shawn Norville: choices.
58:13
Shawn Norville: I
58:13
Shawn Norville: just
58:13
Shawn Norville: don't
58:14
Shawn Norville: want
58:14
Shawn Norville: them
58:14
Shawn Norville: to
58:14
Shawn Norville: be
58:14
Shawn Norville: impacted
58:15
Shawn Norville: by
58:15
Shawn Norville: the
58:15
Shawn Norville: things
58:15
Shawn Norville: that
58:16
Shawn Norville: we
58:16
Shawn Norville: do
58:16
Shawn Norville: today.
58:17
Shawn Norville: Um,
58:17
Shawn Norville: so
58:17
Shawn Norville: what
58:17
Shawn Norville: I
58:17
Shawn Norville: want
58:18
Shawn Norville: to
58:18
Shawn Norville: leave
58:18
Shawn Norville: here
58:18
Shawn Norville: in
58:18
Shawn Norville: this
58:18
Shawn Norville: conversation
58:19
Shawn Norville: is
58:19
Shawn Norville: that
58:19
Shawn Norville: Robert's
58:20
Shawn Norville: There
58:20
Shawn Norville: is
58:21
Shawn Norville: a
58:21
Shawn Norville: lot
58:21
Shawn Norville: of
58:21
Shawn Norville: hope
58:21
Shawn Norville: later,
58:22
Shawn Norville: right?
58:22
Shawn Norville: Let's
58:23
Shawn Norville: just
58:23
Shawn Norville: not
58:24
Shawn Norville: mess
58:24
Shawn Norville: it
58:24
Shawn Norville: up
58:24
Shawn Norville: for
58:24
Shawn Norville: them
58:25
Shawn Norville: to
58:25
Shawn Norville: not
58:25
Shawn Norville: have
58:26
Shawn Norville: a
58:26
Shawn Norville: runway
58:26
Shawn Norville: to
58:27
Shawn Norville: take
58:27
Shawn Norville: off.
58:28
Shawn Norville: Um,
58:28
Shawn Norville: you
58:28
Shawn Norville: know,
58:28
Shawn Norville: and
58:29
Shawn Norville: we
58:29
Shawn Norville: have
58:29
Shawn Norville: to
58:29
Shawn Norville: understand
58:30
Shawn Norville: that
58:30
Shawn Norville: we
58:30
Shawn Norville: are
58:30
Shawn Norville: people
58:31
Shawn Norville: first.
58:31
Shawn Norville: We
58:32
Shawn Norville: have
58:32
Shawn Norville: to
58:32
Shawn Norville: love
58:32
Shawn Norville: one
58:32
Shawn Norville: another,
58:33
Shawn Norville: no
58:33
Shawn Norville: matter
58:33
Shawn Norville: who,
58:33
Shawn Norville: what
58:34
Shawn Norville: ilk
58:34
Shawn Norville: or
58:34
Shawn Norville: creed
58:34
Shawn Norville: you're
58:34
Shawn Norville: from.
58:35
Shawn Norville: And
58:35
Shawn Norville: always
58:35
Shawn Norville: start
58:36
Shawn Norville: there.
58:37
Tony Tidbit: Love
58:37
Tony Tidbit: it.
58:38
Tony Tidbit: I
58:38
Tony Tidbit: love
58:38
Tony Tidbit: it,
58:38
Tony Tidbit: my
58:38
Tony Tidbit: brother.
58:38
Tony Tidbit: Thank
58:39
Tony Tidbit: you,
58:39
Tony Tidbit: Robert.
58:40
Tony Tidbit: Close
58:40
Tony Tidbit: us
58:40
Tony Tidbit: out,
58:40
Tony Tidbit: buddy.
58:41
Robert Townes: All
58:41
Robert Townes: right.
58:41
Robert Townes: So
58:42
Robert Townes: Tony,
58:42
Robert Townes: first
58:42
Robert Townes: of
58:42
Robert Townes: all,
58:42
Robert Townes: thank
58:43
Robert Townes: you
58:43
Robert Townes: for
58:43
Robert Townes: the
58:43
Robert Townes: platform,
58:44
Robert Townes: Shawn
58:44
Robert Townes: and
58:44
Robert Townes: Brian.
58:44
Robert Townes: Thank
58:45
Robert Townes: you
58:45
Robert Townes: for
58:45
Robert Townes: sharing.
58:45
Robert Townes: I
58:45
Robert Townes: really,
58:46
Robert Townes: really
58:46
Robert Townes: do
58:46
Robert Townes: appreciate
58:47
Robert Townes: the
58:47
Robert Townes: conversation.
58:48
Robert Townes: Um,
58:49
Robert Townes: So
58:49
Robert Townes: for
58:49
Robert Townes: me,
58:50
Robert Townes: my
58:50
Robert Townes: parting
58:50
Robert Townes: shot
58:50
Robert Townes: is
58:50
Robert Townes: really
58:51
Robert Townes: around
58:52
Robert Townes: not
58:52
Robert Townes: taking
58:53
Robert Townes: for
58:53
Robert Townes: granted
58:53
Robert Townes: the
58:54
Robert Townes: progress
58:54
Robert Townes: that
58:54
Robert Townes: was
58:54
Robert Townes: made.
58:55
Robert Townes: Um,
58:55
Robert Townes: I
58:55
Robert Townes: know
58:56
Robert Townes: that
58:57
Robert Townes: especially
58:57
Robert Townes: in
58:57
Robert Townes: this
58:58
Robert Townes: political
58:58
Robert Townes: and
58:58
Robert Townes: judicial
58:59
Robert Townes: climate,
58:59
Robert Townes: things
59:00
Robert Townes: are
59:00
Robert Townes: some
59:00
Robert Townes: in
59:01
Robert Townes: some
59:01
Robert Townes: cases
59:01
Robert Townes: rolling
59:01
Robert Townes: backwards
59:02
Robert Townes: and
59:03
Robert Townes: we
59:03
Robert Townes: can't
59:04
Robert Townes: allow
59:04
Robert Townes: that
59:04
Robert Townes: to
59:04
Robert Townes: happen
59:05
Robert Townes: because
59:05
Robert Townes: our
59:06
Robert Townes: Children
59:06
Robert Townes: and
59:06
Robert Townes: our
59:06
Robert Townes: Children's
59:07
Robert Townes: Children
59:07
Robert Townes: and
59:07
Robert Townes: everybody
59:08
Robert Townes: else
59:08
Robert Townes: moving
59:08
Robert Townes: forward,
59:09
Robert Townes: um,
59:10
Robert Townes: will
59:10
Robert Townes: be
59:10
Robert Townes: impacted
59:11
Robert Townes: if
59:11
Robert Townes: we
59:11
Robert Townes: allow
59:12
Robert Townes: progress
59:13
Robert Townes: to
59:13
Robert Townes: roll
59:13
Robert Townes: backwards
59:14
Robert Townes: and
59:14
Robert Townes: we
59:15
Robert Townes: don't
59:15
Robert Townes: want
59:15
Robert Townes: that.
59:16
Robert Townes: As
59:16
Robert Townes: far
59:16
Robert Townes: as
59:16
Robert Townes: our
59:16
Robert Townes: families
59:17
Robert Townes: are
59:17
Robert Townes: concerned,
59:17
Robert Townes: our
59:17
Robert Townes: families
59:18
Robert Townes: are
59:18
Robert Townes: loving
59:18
Robert Townes: units
59:18
Robert Townes: and
59:19
Robert Townes: as,
59:19
Robert Townes: as
59:19
Robert Townes: Shawn
59:19
Robert Townes: is
59:19
Robert Townes: saying,
59:20
Robert Townes: you
59:20
Robert Townes: know,
59:20
Robert Townes: we
59:20
Robert Townes: are
59:21
Robert Townes: certainly
59:22
Robert Townes: a
59:22
Robert Townes: melting
59:22
Robert Townes: pot
59:22
Robert Townes: in
59:23
Robert Townes: this
59:23
Robert Townes: country
59:23
Robert Townes: and
59:23
Robert Townes: there's
59:24
Robert Townes: a
59:24
Robert Townes: lot
59:24
Robert Townes: of
59:24
Robert Townes: diversity
59:24
Robert Townes: and
59:25
Robert Townes: that's
59:25
Robert Townes: a
59:25
Robert Townes: strength
59:26
Robert Townes: and
59:26
Robert Townes: we
59:26
Robert Townes: have
59:26
Robert Townes: to
59:26
Robert Townes: make
59:26
Robert Townes: sure
59:27
Robert Townes: that
59:27
Robert Townes: we
59:27
Robert Townes: uphold
59:28
Robert Townes: that
59:28
Robert Townes: strength
59:28
Robert Townes: for
59:28
Robert Townes: everybody,
59:29
Robert Townes: you
59:29
Robert Townes: know,
59:29
Robert Townes: and
59:29
Robert Townes: make
59:30
Robert Townes: sure
59:30
Robert Townes: that,
59:31
Robert Townes: um,
59:32
Robert Townes: everybody,
59:33
Robert Townes: our
59:33
Robert Townes: children
59:34
Robert Townes: in
59:34
Robert Townes: particular
59:35
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