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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all all at all, So.
- 0:12Speaker 3: Don't given a.
- 0:15Speaker 4: The Milican bus bus things Steve listening to.
- 0:38Speaker 5: I don't joy? Well, yeah, joy they you know you
- 1:06Speaker 5: love you?
- 1:25Speaker 4: Turn can.
- 1:40Speaker 6: You got to turn the mouth?
- 1:42Speaker 4: Turn You probably got to turn the mouth to turn him.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Out, turn a w the mon a jap.
- 1:49Speaker 4: Look, come.
- 1:58Speaker 7: Come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will. Good
- 2:04Speaker 7: morning everybody. You all listening to.
- 2:06Speaker 8: The voice, Come on, dig me now, one and only
- 2:10Speaker 8: Steve Harvey got a radio show.
- 2:12Speaker 7: Man oh Man.
- 2:13Speaker 8: Oh Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's
- 2:17Speaker 8: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has
- 2:19Speaker 8: been to me over the years. And I'm thank him
- 2:22Speaker 8: for it too, because I realize every day that I
- 2:24Speaker 8: wake up that I would be nothing without him. That
- 2:28Speaker 8: everything I am, that's any good in me, I owe
- 2:32Speaker 8: to him.
- 2:32Speaker 7: Now.
- 2:33Speaker 8: Have I made some mistakes along the way, yep, bunches,
- 2:37Speaker 8: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes
- 2:41Speaker 8: along the way yep? Not as many, hopefully as I
- 2:46Speaker 8: have in the past, because a lot of stuff I
- 2:49Speaker 8: know better now.
- 2:51Speaker 7: But you're still going to make mistakes. Now.
- 2:55Speaker 8: You know, hopefully I've limited the amount of intentional erarors
- 3:00Speaker 8: in my life. I've wiped quite a few of those out.
- 3:04Speaker 8: But from time to time, because we're human, we're going
- 3:07Speaker 8: to make a mistake every now and then. The trick,
- 3:10Speaker 8: what it is, y'all, is not to let the devil
- 3:13Speaker 8: deceive you into thinking that once you make that mistake
- 3:16Speaker 8: that that's it. You can't do it, and you falling
- 3:18Speaker 8: off the wagon, you can't reboard it. That's the biggest
- 3:22Speaker 8: trick that he uses. He makes you think that if
- 3:26Speaker 8: you keep stumbling, that you can't run the race. It
- 3:33Speaker 8: kind of reminds me of a marathon runner. From time
- 3:37Speaker 8: to time, I watch them on TV, and you'll see
- 3:40Speaker 8: some people who finish the race, you know, in a
- 3:45Speaker 8: nice pace. You see people finish the race sprinting towards
- 3:50Speaker 8: the finished line. But every now and then you'll watch
- 3:54Speaker 8: a marathon and you'll see a runner and the runner
- 3:58Speaker 8: is in really, really bad shape.
- 4:02Speaker 7: The key is they finish the race.
- 4:07Speaker 8: See, you don't get disqualified in the marathon because you stumble,
- 4:13Speaker 8: You don't.
- 4:14Speaker 7: They don't.
- 4:14Speaker 8: They don't take your opportunity to finish the race because
- 4:19Speaker 8: you keep falling, that's not the key. The key is finishing.
- 4:25Speaker 8: And a lot of times what the devil does is
- 4:27Speaker 8: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because
- 4:31Speaker 8: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you
- 4:35Speaker 8: out the race. Well, that's not the case. And see
- 4:39Speaker 8: and then this thing called life, let me help you
- 4:41Speaker 8: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in
- 4:45Speaker 8: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear. That has
- 4:49Speaker 8: some people running faster than you and all like this,
- 4:52Speaker 8: And some people gonna get to the end before you
- 4:55Speaker 8: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the
- 4:57Speaker 8: end come. I ain't in the rust. You get to
- 4:59Speaker 8: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling
- 5:03Speaker 8: and you're falling, it's a part of it. No one
- 5:06Speaker 8: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from
- 5:09Speaker 8: side to side. So don't let the enemy deceie you
- 5:14Speaker 8: in the thinking that it's over. I try to be
- 5:18Speaker 8: encouraging to people because I don't want people to get
- 5:22Speaker 8: stuck on this thing, you know. And my walk is
- 5:25Speaker 8: very different from a lot of people's walks. And then
- 5:27Speaker 8: I know a lot of people who walking in faith
- 5:30Speaker 8: the way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in
- 5:32Speaker 8: the morning is just to remind those that is not
- 5:35Speaker 8: a perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set
- 5:39Speaker 8: up where you're going to be skipping through life scott
- 5:43Speaker 8: free without any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it
- 5:46Speaker 8: over and over and over again because, like I said,
- 5:49Speaker 8: when I was in DC, my boy Hondo said this
- 5:53Speaker 8: to me and it just kind of stuck with me
- 5:54Speaker 8: that the road to construct, the road to success is
- 5:58Speaker 8: always under construction. You have to figure and count on
- 6:03Speaker 8: the setbacks and the pitfalls. But it's those people that
- 6:07Speaker 8: that that that are that fight through will be the
- 6:10Speaker 8: victors in the end. You cannot give up, man, Stop
- 6:13Speaker 8: going somewhere and sitting down every time something goes down.
- 6:18Speaker 8: It's going to go down. It's a part of it.
- 6:22Speaker 8: It's going to happen. It's going to occur that are
- 6:25Speaker 8: going to be setbacks. If you go and sit down
- 6:29Speaker 8: every time there's a setback, that's.
- 6:32Speaker 7: Not how this works. It is designed that way.
- 6:35Speaker 8: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success
- 6:42Speaker 8: is just reserved for those who are willing to fight through,
- 6:45Speaker 8: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more Now,
- 6:51Speaker 8: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual.
- 6:56Speaker 8: So what I may consider to be successful, you may
- 6:59Speaker 8: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considered successful.
- 7:03Speaker 8: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considered successful. I
- 7:08Speaker 8: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might
- 7:11Speaker 8: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.
- 7:15Speaker 8: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your
- 7:19Speaker 8: level of success could be tied up in community service.
- 7:23Speaker 8: It could be tied up in family. It could be
- 7:25Speaker 8: tied up in the church. Your level of success could
- 7:28Speaker 8: be tied up into boys clubs. It could be any
- 7:32Speaker 8: number of things. Whatever your level of success is, you
- 7:36Speaker 8: have to determine what that is you and the best
- 7:39Speaker 8: way to determine that is to get in touch with
- 7:42Speaker 8: your maker, who created you, to find out what your
- 7:46Speaker 8: mission and your purpose is so he can put you
- 7:50Speaker 8: on track. I just had this conversation with my son
- 7:53Speaker 8: and we were talking about getting on the path that
- 7:57Speaker 8: God has.
- 7:58Speaker 7: Set up for you.
- 8:00Speaker 8: So many times we find ourselves fighting through life because
- 8:03Speaker 8: of so much uncertainty, because we have no idea where
- 8:08Speaker 8: we're headed. It's like one of my sayings that I
- 8:14Speaker 8: have at my mentoring camp for boys, is is that
- 8:18Speaker 8: a boy without a male role model is like an
- 8:21Speaker 8: explorer without a map. See if you don't have a
- 8:27Speaker 8: map laid out in front of you of where you're
- 8:31Speaker 8: going when you wake up every day. That pretty much
- 8:35Speaker 8: explains the feeling of confusion, the laxadaisical attitude, the lack
- 8:43Speaker 8: of purpose, the not understanding your mission because you don't
- 8:49Speaker 8: have not gotten in touch with your creator to find
- 8:52Speaker 8: out exactly what your path in life is. What are
- 8:56Speaker 8: you supposed to be doing? The moment you can identify
- 9:00Speaker 8: that is the moment that you get started waking up
- 9:03Speaker 8: with purpose, with the sense of direction. When you kill
- 9:08Speaker 8: the sense of I don't know what's next or what
- 9:10Speaker 8: to do. Now, there's going to be some confusing moments
- 9:13Speaker 8: no matter what happened, it's going to be some uncertainty,
- 9:16Speaker 8: but at least you'll know where you're going. So if
- 9:18Speaker 8: you tied awaking up feeling loss, abandon confuse, don't know
- 9:23Speaker 8: what to do, don't know what you're supposed to be doing,
- 9:28Speaker 8: refer back to your makeup. Because when he created you,
- 9:33Speaker 8: he had a plan for you. When he created you,
- 9:36Speaker 8: he had a path for you. Now we've made some
- 9:39Speaker 8: decisions to get off of both of those. The mission
- 9:42Speaker 8: and the path. But God can get you right back
- 9:45Speaker 8: on track. Do that today, ask him what you're supposed
- 9:50Speaker 8: to be doing, and listen. God has all the answers
- 9:55Speaker 8: if you form the relationship.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Okay, you're listening to the Steed Harvey Morning Show.
- 10:04Speaker 8: All right, everybody, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 10:07Speaker 8: I haven't really decided how I was gonna start the
- 10:10Speaker 8: show this morning, because you know, every morning I kind
- 10:12Speaker 8: of take a different angle on it, and I just
- 10:14Speaker 8: don't have an angle today.
- 10:16Speaker 7: So the angle let me try this.
- 10:18Speaker 8: Let's start the show like it was a regular, regular
- 10:22Speaker 8: morning show. Hi, everybody, This is Steve Harvey and welcome
- 10:25Speaker 8: to the ride. Steve Harvey Morning Show. About you get
- 10:29Speaker 8: you off to a great start today. It's a brisk
- 10:33Speaker 8: morning this morning. In some parts of the country, there's
- 10:36Speaker 8: overhead cloudy and traffic out there. Please be careful on
- 10:39Speaker 8: your way to work this morning. Drive carefully. I hope
- 10:41Speaker 8: the kids get to school safely. And hey, we're gonna
- 10:43Speaker 8: have a fun, fun time today. Well that's how regular
- 10:47Speaker 8: show started. I can't see myself doing that. Hey look here, y'all,
- 10:51Speaker 8: it's Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 10:52Speaker 9: What up?
- 10:53Speaker 7: Talk to God? Yet told me what you needed? Did
- 10:55Speaker 7: you tell him you appreciate it? Now? What I did?
- 10:58Speaker 6: Man?
- 10:58Speaker 8: Spend some time saying I was great for this morning?
- 11:00Speaker 8: God looking out for us.
- 11:02Speaker 7: Man. Let me tell you something, y'all.
- 11:04Speaker 8: Just because the blessing is delayed does not mean is denied.
- 11:09Speaker 8: Hang on in now, man, don't give up, y'all. There
- 11:13Speaker 8: is always hope. If you are awaking today, it is
- 11:17Speaker 8: because God ain't through with you yet. Put a smile
- 11:21Speaker 8: on your face. Face today with cheer. If you're going
- 11:24Speaker 8: through some troubles, ten toes down, dig them in, man,
- 11:27Speaker 8: let's go. Put your knuckles in your lower back and
- 11:31Speaker 8: brace yourself.
- 11:32Speaker 7: Come on with it.
- 11:34Speaker 8: Steve Harvey, Mornin Show, Shelly Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi, Monica
- 11:38Speaker 8: Junior better known as Killer Wan, Space and the legend
- 11:43Speaker 8: of Nephew Tommy Jr.
- 11:46Speaker 7: What is it today, man? You seem a little happy today?
- 11:48Speaker 10: Yeah?
- 11:49Speaker 11: Uh, well, you know, Walkie just brought some of my attention.
- 11:51Speaker 3: Man.
- 11:51Speaker 11: You know this holiday parties and everybody.
- 11:53Speaker 12: You know, when you get the Christmas everything, there are
- 11:55Speaker 12: a certain group of people who really don't care nothing
- 11:57Speaker 12: about Christmas.
- 11:58Speaker 7: They just want to play space.
- 12:00Speaker 8: Yet, what Hold up, Julia, what did I just say
- 12:03Speaker 8: to make you think we was talking about Christmas?
- 12:05Speaker 12: What did epp what I'm talking about before the show on?
- 12:07Speaker 12: It just said I just thought about it. Oh, okay,
- 12:10Speaker 12: side joke. Don't nobody know nothing about it? Come on,
- 12:13Speaker 12: let's try to connect these jokes, JUNR. That's what thing
- 12:16Speaker 12: you got to work on us.
- 12:17Speaker 1: We're doing connecting.
- 12:19Speaker 8: Yeah, we're doing radio because I want to. You know,
- 12:22Speaker 8: the fans listened. So before the show started, we was
- 12:25Speaker 8: talking about spades and cards.
- 12:27Speaker 7: Now go ahead, JUNI, thank you, unk I appreciate it.
- 12:30Speaker 12: Like I said, there's a certain group of people who
- 12:31Speaker 12: don't care nothing.
- 12:33Speaker 11: Certain group people don't care nothing buy Christmas.
- 12:36Speaker 12: It's some people coming over there to the house just
- 12:38Speaker 12: to play spades and dominoes.
- 12:39Speaker 7: That's it.
- 12:40Speaker 11: Just to start a fight old Christmas.
- 12:42Speaker 12: That's what they coming in there to do. Don't play
- 12:45Speaker 12: your right card with them, and see what happened. See
- 12:47Speaker 12: if the Turkey don't be on the flow, See if
- 12:49Speaker 12: Jams ain't gonna be on the.
- 12:50Speaker 11: Tape, watch the greens.
- 12:52Speaker 12: If you play out of turn and let a book slide,
- 12:55Speaker 12: and see what happened.
- 12:56Speaker 1: You already know that.
- 12:57Speaker 8: Yeah, but if you knocked that turkey on the flow. Yep,
- 13:02Speaker 8: Christmas is gonna be real different than my house.
- 13:04Speaker 7: We'll tell you that right now.
- 13:09Speaker 8: People that come over your house to play spades on
- 13:12Speaker 8: Christmas usually don't have a gift.
- 13:15Speaker 1: No, they don't know.
- 13:17Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know.
- 13:19Speaker 8: They just said, why are you coming through the door
- 13:21Speaker 8: on the lard's birthday with the deck of cards?
- 13:27Speaker 7: Dog?
- 13:28Speaker 8: I mean you know you didn't get to you ain't
- 13:30Speaker 8: drawing no name, You ain't ain't no card or nothing.
- 13:34Speaker 8: You know, brought a deck of cards up in here.
- 13:36Speaker 8: You know we can't play cards till late night.
- 13:38Speaker 1: All right, guys coming up at thirty two minutes after
- 13:41Speaker 1: the hour. We'll hear from the nephew as he runs
- 13:43Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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- 14:23Speaker 1: And if you is here to run that prank back?
- 14:25Speaker 1: What you got for his nest?
- 14:27Speaker 7: You sent my wife and I'm almost certain is you.
- 14:32Speaker 7: I'm I'm almost certain is you? And you know what
- 14:35Speaker 7: you sent?
- 14:36Speaker 2: Yes, it's got it's got real serious up in here,
- 14:39Speaker 2: cat dog. If you would you sent my wife pictures?
- 14:44Speaker 9: Now speak the trouble.
- 14:47Speaker 2: Hey man, you've been sending pictures of are your stomach
- 14:50Speaker 2: to my wife?
- 14:51Speaker 9: Phone?
- 14:52Speaker 7: Hey man?
- 14:53Speaker 2: Have you been sending pictures of your muscles on your
- 14:57Speaker 2: stomach to my wife phone?
- 15:00Speaker 9: Calling me with this?
- 15:01Speaker 7: This fish right here?
- 15:03Speaker 3: Is who?
- 15:03Speaker 2: This fisher man? My name is Fisher, but they call
- 15:06Speaker 2: me fish. What I want to know from you? Have
- 15:08Speaker 2: you been sending pictures of your stomach to my wife?
- 15:11Speaker 7: Phone?
- 15:12Speaker 13: Man?
- 15:12Speaker 9: I don't know dad you're talking about?
- 15:14Speaker 3: Play boy?
- 15:14Speaker 9: Don't call me with just about am I? If I
- 15:17Speaker 9: am sting pitchers? Ain't none of you business.
- 15:20Speaker 7: It is my business. That's my wife.
- 15:22Speaker 9: Then you say this, you boy, you must ain't got
- 15:25Speaker 9: you must ain't ripped up like me or something. You
- 15:28Speaker 9: worried about it sending fists. Hey man, get you some fitiness.
- 15:32Speaker 13: I'm calling.
- 15:32Speaker 7: I got some business.
- 15:35Speaker 2: My business is my wife, man, And if you say it,
- 15:38Speaker 2: let me tell you something.
- 15:40Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you right now. I want to find you.
- 15:43Speaker 2: If the same muscles that's on her phone is up
- 15:47Speaker 2: underneath your shirt, I'm whooping your.
- 15:50Speaker 9: Hey man, I ain't hard to find plate boy. You
- 15:52Speaker 9: can find me. And if I am senting fists to
- 15:55Speaker 9: your wife, she must like it. Plate boy, Hey.
- 15:58Speaker 2: Man, ain't let me tell you no. You been disrespectful,
- 16:00Speaker 2: is what you're doing. You understand you've been.
- 16:03Speaker 9: You've been a little calling me on the phone. Which
- 16:06Speaker 9: you rather check somebody else about this?
- 16:08Speaker 3: Here?
- 16:08Speaker 9: For I had your wife ruthering on my stomach.
- 16:11Speaker 7: Hey man, who you hey? See who you calling? Out?
- 16:14Speaker 4: Man?
- 16:15Speaker 7: What do you think you are? Hey? Hey, who you
- 16:17Speaker 7: think you talking? Let me tell you something?
- 16:18Speaker 9: Okay, tell us take time my phone about a picture that's.
- 16:23Speaker 7: Walk because them? If I find out them your muscle
- 16:28Speaker 7: on my what what?
- 16:29Speaker 9: Obviously you found my phone number, so I guess you
- 16:32Speaker 9: can find me.
- 16:33Speaker 3: Oh boy, hey, you how about this here?
- 16:35Speaker 7: Where are you?
- 16:36Speaker 9: Let's get'm hey? Ask your wife where I'm at where
- 16:40Speaker 9: she at.
- 16:40Speaker 7: My wife is at work right now.
- 16:43Speaker 9: If you think so, how you think she got the
- 16:45Speaker 9: pictures on?
- 16:46Speaker 3: Boy?
- 16:46Speaker 7: Hey man, I tell you what when I find when
- 16:49Speaker 7: I find you, you.
- 16:50Speaker 9: Little answer your wife where I'm at? Yeah, that was
- 16:54Speaker 9: the new boy.
- 16:55Speaker 3: Call me just open.
- 16:57Speaker 9: Oh it's security. You must not it ripped up like me.
- 17:01Speaker 2: He man. Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles
- 17:04Speaker 2: on my stomach.
- 17:05Speaker 9: I got right now to get these. Get this stomach
- 17:08Speaker 9: right for your wife.
- 17:10Speaker 2: Hey man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right,
- 17:12Speaker 2: that's all right. How about this here? I know who
- 17:15Speaker 2: your wife feels now, that's all right.
- 17:17Speaker 9: I know who she here too.
- 17:18Speaker 2: Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her.
- 17:21Speaker 2: I'm calling her, letting her know what's going on.
- 17:23Speaker 9: Take this out. She liked my stommer too? Yeah, yeah,
- 17:28Speaker 9: you like that?
- 17:28Speaker 7: No, No, I'll tell you what. I tell you what.
- 17:31Speaker 7: She don't like it. When I get to her, I'm
- 17:32Speaker 7: gonna let your wife know what's going on around here.
- 17:34Speaker 9: Say man, you don't know nothing about my wife. My
- 17:37Speaker 9: wife and your wife might be rubbing together home White.
- 17:40Speaker 9: You don't know nothing about my business.
- 17:41Speaker 7: Hey man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me. Man,
- 17:43Speaker 7: I done.
- 17:43Speaker 2: Told you once come see me on what I will see.
- 17:47Speaker 2: I already asked you once. Where are you?
- 17:50Speaker 9: I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see
- 17:52Speaker 9: this ripped up six pact that's your wife?
- 17:54Speaker 7: Like, yeah, all right, okay, okay, it's just a matter
- 17:58Speaker 7: of time. Then all.
- 18:01Speaker 9: You better go chick your wife and don't be calling
- 18:04Speaker 9: across man.
- 18:05Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I tell you what. I'm gonna call a Yanna.
- 18:07Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm going to call a Yana. Baby.
- 18:10Speaker 1: Say what yeah?
- 18:12Speaker 2: Yeah, and slowed you down. Now, yeah, I'm calling your wife.
- 18:16Speaker 9: Call up here. We can get it on the freeway
- 18:18Speaker 9: and then and then I call your wife and get
- 18:20Speaker 9: on my way.
- 18:22Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now.
- 18:25Speaker 9: What I need is tell me what if you want
- 18:26Speaker 9: to tell me.
- 18:27Speaker 7: I'm telling you right now, pump, where you at?
- 18:30Speaker 9: How much fuller thing?
- 18:32Speaker 13: Home?
- 18:32Speaker 7: Boy?
- 18:33Speaker 9: That's where I'm at. Now you got my wife name?
- 18:36Speaker 9: I want to know your name. They called your fish
- 18:38Speaker 9: or chicking the where they call you. You can meet
- 18:41Speaker 9: me wherever you want to on boy, and we just
- 18:43Speaker 9: say this ain't no fick sell to me. I deal
- 18:46Speaker 9: with punk, chump.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Like you every taste okay, okay, not a problem, not
- 18:51Speaker 2: a problem.
- 18:52Speaker 7: I'll be right. How long you gonna be that?
- 18:54Speaker 9: I'm gonna be that to your pump?
- 18:56Speaker 2: Okay, Look, I want you to take my name down
- 18:59Speaker 2: so you know who you're waiting on. You got your what?
- 19:02Speaker 3: Uh?
- 19:02Speaker 9: You said your name was chicken or something like?
- 19:05Speaker 7: Do you have a pin?
- 19:06Speaker 9: I don't need no pink?
- 19:07Speaker 7: Okay? Do you want to know who this is?
- 19:10Speaker 9: You gonna tell me who you was home?
- 19:14Speaker 7: I ain't told you my full name, chump, I.
- 19:16Speaker 9: Don't need to know your name. You got my number
- 19:19Speaker 9: calling me about a chatto off stomach or something.
- 19:24Speaker 2: It's muscles, it's it's muscles of your stombap on my
- 19:28Speaker 2: wife phone?
- 19:29Speaker 9: Did you look at the pictures?
- 19:31Speaker 7: How many sit ups do you be doing?
- 19:33Speaker 9: Did you look at the other pictures?
- 19:35Speaker 7: What other? Well?
- 19:36Speaker 2: Okay, hey man, hey man, I'm not finna be playing
- 19:39Speaker 2: with you about my wife now.
- 19:40Speaker 9: I ain't playing with you. I'm playing with your why.
- 19:42Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm gonna tell you something about your wife.
- 19:45Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something about your wife that you
- 19:47Speaker 2: don't know.
- 19:48Speaker 9: If I don't know it, don't nobody else know it.
- 19:50Speaker 2: Oh, I know it. Me and her know it. I
- 19:53Speaker 2: just got off the phone with her. You want to
- 19:55Speaker 2: know you want me tell you what your wife told me?
- 19:57Speaker 9: Whatever, Man, say what you have to say. I'm gonna
- 19:59Speaker 9: say that's right here.
- 20:00Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this punk. This his nephew Tommy from
- 20:03Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife like Yanna got
- 20:07Speaker 2: me the prank phone call? Your ignorant man, How stupid
- 20:12Speaker 2: are you? Hello this nephew Tommy man from the Steve
- 20:21Speaker 2: Harby Morning Show.
- 20:22Speaker 7: Your wife got me the prank phone call?
- 20:24Speaker 1: You do you?
- 20:26Speaker 7: You you are more ignorant than me?
- 20:33Speaker 9: This? Yeah, boy, God, hey trouble.
- 20:43Speaker 2: I got to ask you this man, answer this question
- 20:46Speaker 2: for me? What is what is the baddest that I mean,
- 20:48Speaker 2: the baddest radio show in the.
- 20:50Speaker 9: Leg the only one with nephew. Imagine I sell you that?
- 20:57Speaker 2: Oh man, I trail man, You be easy, man, go
- 21:01Speaker 2: light on a ya.
- 21:01Speaker 9: All right, I'm all Steve harbout say.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Let's put this out there. Don't try this at home, Okay,
- 21:09Speaker 2: don't do that. Don't be saying nobody to wife some pictures.
- 21:12Speaker 2: Don't don't don't do that. Do you go get yourself hurt,
- 21:16Speaker 2: You're gonna get yourself hurt.
- 21:17Speaker 7: And what you want to do? What you want to do,
- 21:20Speaker 7: I can call it a lao. What you want? All right?
- 21:25Speaker 1: Nev coming up next and his ask the clo on.
- 21:29Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey is ready and in the building.
- 21:34Speaker 7: Right after this.
- 21:35Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey is
- 21:42Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry. You know who taught me my ABC's and
- 21:45Speaker 1: what it means to be kind Sesame Street Sesame Workshop,
- 21:49Speaker 1: the nonprofit behind Sesame Street, is still doing that for
- 21:52Speaker 1: kids everywhere. Elmo and Cookie Monster are out there teaching kindness,
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- 22:03Speaker 1: and donate what you can. Once again, please visit Sesame
- 22:07Speaker 1: dot org this holiday season because the world needs Sesame
- 22:10Speaker 1: and Sesame needs you. It is time to check in
- 22:14Speaker 1: with the cheap Love Officer you to answer all of
- 22:17Speaker 1: everybody's love questions.
- 22:18Speaker 7: Here we go.
- 22:19Speaker 1: Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind
- 22:22Speaker 1: day with the finest girl I have ever met. She's
- 22:25Speaker 1: got beautiful teeth, eyes, and hair, and she's a little
- 22:29Speaker 1: on the thick side, which I love the only problem
- 22:32Speaker 1: is that she smokes cigars and I could taste it
- 22:35Speaker 1: on her breath when we kiss. She only does it
- 22:38Speaker 1: on the weekend, So should I deal with it or
- 22:41Speaker 1: move on?
- 22:43Speaker 7: Pay dag is just on the weekends and along it lant.
- 22:49Speaker 8: I mean you know that being a cigall smoker, there's
- 22:52Speaker 8: some things you can do, you know, to help your situation,
- 22:58Speaker 8: like what I mean, don't smoke for you kiss that's
- 23:02Speaker 8: a big work. Yeah, yeah, it's they got stuff for that.
- 23:10Speaker 8: But when you actually cigar placing and you lean over
- 23:12Speaker 8: a kiss, you fin to eat some cigar dog.
- 23:16Speaker 7: That's just all to it kissing schedule. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 23:23Speaker 7: you're gonna work that out.
- 23:24Speaker 1: Was fine for fine?
- 23:26Speaker 14: Fine, absolutely, yeah, we're finn to be blowing cigar smoke
- 23:32Speaker 14: all over each other.
- 23:38Speaker 7: We all smoke your cigar.
- 23:40Speaker 1: Yeah fine, how fine she is?
- 23:45Speaker 7: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
- 23:46Speaker 14: It has a lot to do it Okay, So he
- 23:49Speaker 14: should deal with it and not move on, just stay
- 23:51Speaker 14: there and take it take absolutely.
- 23:53Speaker 7: I mean, come on, man, come on man, what a
- 23:55Speaker 7: model of doctor Tish.
- 23:59Speaker 1: And they awed him mers old school Jathleen.
- 24:06Speaker 7: Take all her taste bus I'll.
- 24:10Speaker 8: Doctor Trishna removes one layer of mouth landed.
- 24:20Speaker 7: All right.
- 24:21Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have
- 24:25Speaker 1: been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,
- 24:28Speaker 1: and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.
- 24:33Speaker 1: He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too
- 24:37Speaker 1: much for me to handle. I have a schedule to
- 24:40Speaker 1: keep up with and kids to look after, so I
- 24:43Speaker 1: can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it
- 24:46Speaker 1: cool to tell him to hurry up? Or will he
- 24:48Speaker 1: be offended? Please advise.
- 24:52Speaker 8: It's not going to fend him if you tell him
- 24:55Speaker 8: to hurry up. What will offend him is you tell
- 24:59Speaker 8: him why he needs to hurry I know why you
- 25:03Speaker 8: putting in all this extra time? Yeah, you know, you know.
- 25:11Speaker 8: Once again, you know what I'm saying. Being on the
- 25:15Speaker 8: other side of this one right here, I can tell.
- 25:17Speaker 7: You you know what. In my life, I've been too much,
- 25:26Speaker 7: but I ain't never been not enough. I've been.
- 25:31Speaker 8: Lord, I've been O lawd, but I ain't never been Okay.
- 25:40Speaker 8: I think I think you're gonna have to tell him
- 25:42Speaker 8: to hurry up. You got things to do.
- 25:44Speaker 1: But in a nice way.
- 25:46Speaker 8: Is he a really great guy? Does he treats you
- 25:48Speaker 8: really well? They treat the kids great? How is he
- 25:50Speaker 8: as a man? You can work through some of these things.
- 25:54Speaker 8: You know some things you can do to speed up
- 25:56Speaker 8: the process.
- 25:58Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 26:00Speaker 1: Moving on to Carolyn and making Georgia, Carolyn says, as
- 26:04Speaker 1: luck would have it, I'm broke again at the wrong
- 26:07Speaker 1: time of the year. I was talking to my coworker
- 26:10Speaker 1: about my issues and he said he could help me
- 26:12Speaker 1: out if I showed him two things. The two things
- 26:16Speaker 1: are right under my chin and he wants to see them.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I've never been propositioned like this, but he said he'd
- 26:22Speaker 1: give me two hundred dollars and that would help me
- 26:24Speaker 1: get my little girl that bite she wants. It is
- 26:26Speaker 1: so terrible. If I show him what if he wants
- 26:29Speaker 1: to pay to see more?
- 26:31Speaker 7: What you what you what you think is going to
- 26:34Speaker 7: be leading to this?
- 26:36Speaker 13: Is?
- 26:36Speaker 8: This is to see what you're willing to do? Now,
- 26:40Speaker 8: if you do this for two hundred dollars, he already
- 26:42Speaker 8: know he got five hundred.
- 26:45Speaker 7: I mean you.
- 26:47Speaker 8: Mark hey, though, I mean you go in there and
- 26:50Speaker 8: tell your little girl we ain't getting no bike this year.
- 26:52Speaker 7: You know many years. I heard that bike. Oh you working?
- 27:00Speaker 8: I heard stuff like that bike? What's wrong with the
- 27:06Speaker 8: bike you got out there? You're talking about the one
- 27:09Speaker 8: you gave me from the construction site. That bike, Daddy,
- 27:13Speaker 8: that's never been new, like a new bike. Well, I
- 27:16Speaker 8: want a new car. You don't see, No, you don't
- 27:18Speaker 8: see what one sitting out there, dad.
- 27:20Speaker 1: That's a lot, yeah, exactly.
- 27:23Speaker 8: So every time I asked him for something, he every
- 27:26Speaker 8: time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told
- 27:28Speaker 8: me something he wanted.
- 27:31Speaker 7: You know, I want a new bike. I want a
- 27:32Speaker 7: new car.
- 27:33Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to go home. Well, hell, I want
- 27:36Speaker 8: to go home too, But now I got to go
- 27:37Speaker 8: to work. So you can eat what they got to
- 27:40Speaker 8: do with what I said.
- 27:44Speaker 1: So, Carolyn, I hope you're getting something from this, Okay.
- 27:47Speaker 8: I mean if you show him to him for two
- 27:49Speaker 8: hundred dollars, the next office fing to be five hundred.
- 27:53Speaker 7: What you gonna do?
- 27:55Speaker 1: Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.
- 27:59Speaker 1: It's a yeah, really.
- 28:01Speaker 7: All the way, but two hundred dollars that ain't.
- 28:05Speaker 1: Not ye, yes, one hundred dollars each? Goodness, sureley?
- 28:12Speaker 7: Oh you didne divided it up?
- 28:14Speaker 15: Yes, cool, he's horrible, all right, Misty and Rustin Louisiana says,
- 28:23Speaker 15: I'm forty years old and I purchased my first home
- 28:25Speaker 15: for my son and I my son is fifteen years
- 28:28Speaker 15: old and refuses to do the yard work for me.
- 28:31Speaker 1: He told me that I need to get my boyfriend
- 28:33Speaker 1: to do it, since he's always over there. I lit
- 28:36Speaker 1: into him when he spoke to me that way, and
- 28:39Speaker 1: I called my father to come and talk to him.
- 28:41Speaker 1: My father sided with him. I expected my son to
- 28:44Speaker 1: have pride in his home. So am I wrong to
- 28:48Speaker 1: demand that he do the yard work at this house?
- 28:51Speaker 8: Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and
- 28:54Speaker 8: feeling what you're feeling. But your fifteen year old son going,
- 28:57Speaker 8: so what just lazy dude doing it? Is coming up
- 29:00Speaker 8: over here sleeping with my mama. See, at fifteen, he
- 29:03Speaker 8: got some feelings about that that you haven't addressed. The
- 29:06Speaker 8: fifteen year old boy is jealous that you're in this
- 29:09Speaker 8: relationship with this man, and he trying to figure out
- 29:12Speaker 8: what's to value him because he don't see him doing
- 29:14Speaker 8: nothing except sleeping with his mama. That's the problem you have,
- 29:19Speaker 8: and them feelings ain't FITNA leave that boy, no time soon.
- 29:24Speaker 8: So the conversation you should have really is with this
- 29:27Speaker 8: man of yours as to what kind of example he's
- 29:30Speaker 8: setting for your son, Because all boys want to be
- 29:34Speaker 8: some type of man. It's gonna be a good man
- 29:36Speaker 8: or a bad man. And right now, that's the example
- 29:39Speaker 8: of manhood that's been put in front of him, and
- 29:41Speaker 8: he don't see much of a man.
- 29:43Speaker 7: Coming out of him. I was on that talk.
- 29:46Speaker 8: If you went to the bad if you went to
- 29:48Speaker 8: the boyfriend and said I wish you'd talk to my son,
- 29:51Speaker 8: maybe y'all could do it together or something, it would
- 29:54Speaker 8: mean a lot to him and then you could finally
- 29:55Speaker 8: see what you're dealing with, which doesn't sound like much
- 29:57Speaker 8: or nothing.
- 29:59Speaker 1: All right, good morning.
- 30:02Speaker 6: This is your girl, Carla Ferrell from the Steve Harvey
- 30:04Speaker 6: Morning Show. And my favorite Christmas memory is every year
- 30:08Speaker 6: my mom and grandma would decorate the home and play
- 30:12Speaker 6: the Temptations Christmas album and we went here, Donnie Hathaway
- 30:15Speaker 6: my mom with jam every Christmas season. So have a
- 30:18Speaker 6: wonderful holiday season. We would have egnaw my grandmother would
- 30:22Speaker 6: make homemade egnaw.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a.
- 30:26Speaker 6: Wonderful holiday season From Carla Ferrell and all of us
- 30:28Speaker 6: here our family to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 30:32Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. According to
- 30:40Speaker 1: new research, one in five Americans are planning on giving
- 30:43Speaker 1: someone a take the hint gift this year. A new
- 30:46Speaker 1: survey of two thousand Americans found that hit gifts are
- 30:50Speaker 1: a pretty common practice, with one in three respondents saying
- 30:55Speaker 1: they've given at least one in the past year or
- 30:58Speaker 1: so or in the past period. And who is the
- 31:01Speaker 1: person in our life most likely to give us one
- 31:03Speaker 1: of these hint gifts? Well, research shows it's our own partner.
- 31:10Speaker 1: The most popular hint gift Americans gift is deodorant? What
- 31:15Speaker 1: or cologne? Yeah?
- 31:19Speaker 7: Self help books?
- 31:22Speaker 1: Wow?
- 31:24Speaker 7: More than take a hint.
- 31:27Speaker 1: The most popular most popular gift is self help books.
- 31:31Speaker 1: They scored real high. Also on the list were cookbooks No,
- 31:41Speaker 1: I did.
- 31:42Speaker 7: Not don't get one is yet?
- 31:45Speaker 1: Exercise equipment Carla, exercise equipment, belasen bike, I know, razors, toothpaste,
- 31:52Speaker 1: cleaning supplies, and even breath mints. Yeah, well I.
- 31:56Speaker 7: Just bought my wife's the bike.
- 32:00Speaker 6: Huh okay, so she she asked for the bike, though
- 32:04Speaker 6: she wasn't offended by getting.
- 32:06Speaker 7: It right for Christmas.
- 32:09Speaker 12: This wasn't for christ Oh, this is just he can't
- 32:12Speaker 12: get off that even But she asked you to.
- 32:14Speaker 7: Get the bike. Wait a minute, save the Peloton bike
- 32:19Speaker 7: for Christmas?
- 32:20Speaker 1: Okay, well never mind. Yeah, different incomes, different bracket is different.
- 32:32Speaker 7: All right.
- 32:32Speaker 1: So Stephen and Junior and Tommy, if you guys had
- 32:36Speaker 1: to give someone to take ahead gift, who would it
- 32:39Speaker 1: be and what would it be?
- 32:40Speaker 11: As my sister getting every job application pamp it I
- 32:43Speaker 11: could find. Oh, it just got d She can't talk
- 32:47Speaker 11: about they can't find the world.
- 32:48Speaker 1: I see now, high.
- 32:52Speaker 4: I think.
- 32:54Speaker 7: I think we just saw the best take ahead gift.
- 32:57Speaker 8: If I pick you up to go shopping, and I'll
- 32:59Speaker 8: put you in the back seat because I got another
- 33:02Speaker 8: fine chicken in the front, that's about a bigger kit
- 33:06Speaker 8: gift you can get.
- 33:11Speaker 7: What about you now, my auntie?
- 33:16Speaker 1: Huh is she listening?
- 33:18Speaker 7: I don't think she lived in a nice pem box,
- 33:22Speaker 7: a nice term. Let this sit for at least twenty.
- 33:30Speaker 1: Minutes, all right, so our resident poets. Oh yeah, Junior
- 33:36Speaker 1: in the building right now?
- 33:38Speaker 7: Oh yeah, what Christmas time, baby? It is Christmas time?
- 33:45Speaker 12: And it's the time that a lot of people break
- 33:47Speaker 12: it up, but they really don't know how to say
- 33:50Speaker 12: it to the other person. So I thought we might
- 33:52Speaker 12: want to just.
- 33:52Speaker 7: Staying in poem. It's the best way to do it.
- 33:55Speaker 4: Just say it in port.
- 33:57Speaker 11: He ain't go one right here time, he's all Christmas,
- 33:59Speaker 11: break up this holiday?
- 34:01Speaker 1: Here we go.
- 34:03Speaker 7: Mistletoe.
- 34:04Speaker 12: Mistletoe is what we want kissed become this Christmas. These
- 34:09Speaker 12: lips you gonna miss, and that ain't all merry Christmas.
- 34:14Speaker 7: Wow, that's how you break up, right.
- 34:18Speaker 6: You ain't got to.
- 34:19Speaker 7: Waste a lot of time.
- 34:20Speaker 12: You ain't got to waste a lot of time saying
- 34:23Speaker 12: just like that, mistletoe, missle toe is what we want
- 34:26Speaker 12: kissed become this Christmas. These lists you gonna miss, and
- 34:30Speaker 12: that ain't all merry Christmas. Let somebody do He going
- 34:38Speaker 12: another one?
- 34:38Speaker 3: Time?
- 34:39Speaker 11: He got another one?
- 34:41Speaker 12: Frosty, frosty like your attitude has been But when you
- 34:45Speaker 12: try your key tonight, he won't let you win. Merry Christmas.
- 34:54Speaker 7: You're getting better. It's like we got time to are
- 34:59Speaker 7: y'all a no, no, just say this.
- 35:02Speaker 12: The relationship is over because you've been messing with my weed.
- 35:05Speaker 11: You even smoked.
- 35:06Speaker 7: Three branches off my Christmas tree. You got to go
- 35:09Speaker 7: Merry Christmas. Smoke yea, you.
- 35:14Speaker 11: Got down there and smoke three branches off the tree.
- 35:17Speaker 1: No, we don't need I like this.
- 35:20Speaker 7: This.
- 35:20Speaker 11: This would hit me about one thirty in the morning.
- 35:22Speaker 1: This about one third in the morning.
- 35:23Speaker 12: Paying to me, kid, is you haul may flower or
- 35:28Speaker 12: even two guys and a truck that numbers are on
- 35:31Speaker 12: the counter, and I wish you good luck Merry Christmas.
- 35:37Speaker 7: That's my favorite. Merry Christmas. Just wants you to know.
- 35:42Speaker 7: How about you?
- 35:43Speaker 11: To get it for you?
- 35:44Speaker 7: You hauled you.
- 35:45Speaker 12: May flower or even two guys in a truck that
- 35:48Speaker 12: numbers on the counter, and I wish you good luck
- 35:50Speaker 12: Marry Christmas.
- 35:59Speaker 7: I think I might do that shirt just a break
- 36:01Speaker 7: up Christmas call.
- 36:02Speaker 1: I like him.
- 36:03Speaker 12: Okay, here we go, all right, twas the night before Christmas.
- 36:08Speaker 12: Please try to be gone because I'm getting my life
- 36:11Speaker 12: together and I'm moving off. Bye boo, bye, Merry Christmas.
- 36:16Speaker 12: I got hit with the Merry Christmas at the end,
- 36:18Speaker 12: Merry Christmas.
- 36:22Speaker 7: Yeah, tig gonna lands one I wrote?
- 36:24Speaker 12: Is it, said the gingerbread man to the gingerbread lady.
- 36:29Speaker 11: This relationship is over because you've been.
- 36:31Speaker 12: Asked shady ho ho ho, Merry Christmas, steady. That's how
- 36:39Speaker 12: you break up words.
- 36:43Speaker 7: That's how I like it, Steve Robin Marty show Man.
- 36:48Speaker 8: Everything you're going through is God preparing you for something
- 36:52Speaker 8: you asked for.
- 36:53Speaker 7: But he gotta get you right. You got lessons you
- 36:55Speaker 7: got to learn.
- 36:56Speaker 8: It's character you have to mold, and you got to
- 36:59Speaker 8: go through to have stripp You got to go through
- 37:02Speaker 8: things to be o character because what you're asking God for,
- 37:05Speaker 8: he already knows what you need in order to sustain
- 37:08Speaker 8: when you get there. So you got to learn all
- 37:10Speaker 8: the lessons. And every time you fail, quit looking at
- 37:13Speaker 8: it as a failure.
- 37:16Speaker 7: Steve Harby Morris, You'll comeing up right.
- 37:17Speaker 4: Up to.
- 37:22Speaker 1: It's the most wonderful and stressful time of year. From
- 37:25Speaker 1: airport trips to noisy malls. This is when your family
- 37:29Speaker 1: can drive you crazy. But you don't have to go
- 37:31Speaker 1: along with all that. With Prime Video, you can take
- 37:34Speaker 1: a break from the stress and family feuding. Holiday Edition.
- 37:38Speaker 1: Whether you want me time or we time. Prime Videos
- 37:41Speaker 1: got new releases, holiday classics, and so much more. Sit back,
- 37:46Speaker 1: relax and unwrap your next watch with Prime Video. It's
- 37:50Speaker 1: giving Holiday harmony. It is time now for a round
- 37:55Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather golf all day
- 37:58Speaker 1: by yourself? Or would you rather watch a romantic movie
- 38:01Speaker 1: with your wife?
- 38:03Speaker 7: Golfing? I'm sorry whole day?
- 38:06Speaker 11: How far is that to the pen? Because I'm not there.
- 38:10Speaker 11: I don't even play that much.
- 38:11Speaker 1: Wow, consensus, everybody's going golfing?
- 38:16Speaker 7: You need me time? Let her watch the movie?
- 38:19Speaker 1: Okay?
- 38:20Speaker 8: All right?
- 38:20Speaker 1: Wow you don't. I guess you didn't hear I said
- 38:23Speaker 1: romantic movie.
- 38:24Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not gonna sit down. Face, you can't do that.
- 38:29Speaker 11: Ain't nobody got face.
- 38:34Speaker 7: The notebook over golf.
- 38:37Speaker 8: Out there and look at that car in that driveway,
- 38:39Speaker 8: and go upstairs and look at that jewelry in that box.
- 38:42Speaker 7: Hold, all right, feels a good movie?
- 38:47Speaker 8: It?
- 38:48Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep with the phone on the dresser?
- 38:51Speaker 1: Just come in your bedroom put your phone on the dresser,
- 38:53Speaker 1: or would you rather sleep with the phone by your bed?
- 38:55Speaker 1: Which one my phone is in?
- 38:58Speaker 7: Myra, I gotta get up like like this. Would you
- 39:03Speaker 7: rather my phone is in?
- 39:08Speaker 1: That's not an option the dresser.
- 39:24Speaker 2: It's on silent right, No white lady calling me.
- 39:32Speaker 1: Dress on a night stand in?
- 39:39Speaker 3: All right?
- 39:40Speaker 1: Would you rather start in a Christmas stage play or
- 39:43Speaker 1: would you rather cook an entire Christmas dinner?
- 39:47Speaker 7: I'm starting a phone.
- 39:49Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't want either one could but I'm in
- 39:52Speaker 8: that kitchen that I win in that play because I
- 39:54Speaker 8: don't know when will be in the same age playing
- 39:57Speaker 8: Christmas Baby.
- 39:59Speaker 11: I was in a It's the stage play. I played
- 40:01Speaker 11: all three wise men by.
- 40:03Speaker 7: My all three.
- 40:04Speaker 12: We have enough people in the place. I just keep
- 40:08Speaker 12: going back out with a new gifts. I had to
- 40:17Speaker 12: change my roller. I gotta quick change at the church.
- 40:24Speaker 7: I'm gonna cook that I'm gonna put.
- 40:28Speaker 1: But your last one, guys, would you rather work as
- 40:30Speaker 1: a bill collector or a fast food drive through window worker?
- 40:34Speaker 1: Which one?
- 40:35Speaker 8: Oh?
- 40:35Speaker 3: You the one?
- 40:35Speaker 8: I'm cussing people like I won't in that window?
- 40:39Speaker 7: Man, Come on, I want to see the people.
- 40:42Speaker 1: Huh, what are you gonna say when they drive up?
- 40:44Speaker 8: My whole world is gonna be putting the roll stuff
- 40:46Speaker 8: in that bank your back. You ain't got nothing but
- 40:54Speaker 8: condiments in it, ain't no fishd.
- 41:01Speaker 7: Sir.
- 41:02Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That's today brown back with this mess.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Would you rather, Hey.
- 41:08Speaker 8: Good morning, this is your man Steve Harvey. Have a
- 41:10Speaker 8: happy and a safe holiday from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 41:14Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
- 41:22Speaker 1: to check Steve's voicemail. Eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
- 41:26Speaker 1: call him, leave a message. You might just hear your
- 41:28Speaker 1: call on the air, ready.
- 41:30Speaker 7: Steve, Yeah, all right, here to go.
- 41:32Speaker 1: This is from d Ray from Dallas.
- 41:34Speaker 13: Hey, Steve, this mee raise from Dallas. I was calling
- 41:38Speaker 13: because I got him. I got a situation. I need
- 41:41Speaker 13: good older man advice.
- 41:43Speaker 16: I got a fourteen year old son. Of course he's.
- 41:46Speaker 13: All into girls and sticks, and of course.
- 41:49Speaker 3: He already got him some.
- 41:51Speaker 16: But even though I've already ran everything to him, I
- 41:54Speaker 16: gave it to him, rowling everything even before he had sick.
- 41:57Speaker 3: It's still not resonating to him.
- 41:59Speaker 16: And we are young men before. But of course the
- 42:02Speaker 16: divide in the house is need.
- 42:04Speaker 13: Him and his mama.
- 42:06Speaker 16: But I get what I'm owns me and as we say,
- 42:09Speaker 16: man is kind of it's a tricky one. But I
- 42:12Speaker 16: also started to think to myself as the advice I
- 42:15Speaker 16: keep getting some other men that have teenagers or acclaimed
- 42:19Speaker 16: it's like the world is transversing into man. It's just
- 42:22Speaker 16: reality and you just got to make it happen. And
- 42:25Speaker 16: I thought we were supposed to be raising these boys
- 42:27Speaker 16: to be better than what we do, because everybody keeps
- 42:29Speaker 16: telling me what.
- 42:30Speaker 3: Was you doing when you know you know how it is,
- 42:33Speaker 3: And I'm like, but.
- 42:34Speaker 16: If that's what we're supposed to stick with, and it's
- 42:37Speaker 16: becoming a big problem in the house.
- 42:39Speaker 13: To where you know, mommy and Daddy more Mama really
- 42:42Speaker 13: want to kick him.
- 42:43Speaker 16: At the house to you know, and all that those
- 42:45Speaker 16: types of stuff, And I'm just confused on it and
- 42:48Speaker 16: I don't know what to do.
- 42:49Speaker 7: So I need your help.
- 42:51Speaker 16: Oh, help your boy out.
- 42:54Speaker 7: M m I got you. Man.
- 42:57Speaker 8: If you're a father currently and you have sons, this
- 43:01Speaker 8: is the dilemma. This is the dilemma because you know
- 43:06Speaker 8: what the proving marker is for all boys, and that
- 43:10Speaker 8: is girls. And if you're a heterosexual man, you want
- 43:14Speaker 8: your son quite naturally to gravitate that way towards him girls.
- 43:19Speaker 8: But here is the dilemma. Even though you know it's
- 43:24Speaker 8: going to happen, you don't have to push him in
- 43:27Speaker 8: that direction for it to happen so early, and you
- 43:31Speaker 8: don't have to condone it and reward it, because that's
- 43:36Speaker 8: a dangerous thing to do, especially at fourteen, because this
- 43:40Speaker 8: boy don't even have the capability of understanding the ramifications
- 43:43Speaker 8: of it all and even what it means at fourteen,
- 43:46Speaker 8: he's just doing some reactionary stuff because.
- 43:49Speaker 7: Of all of us.
- 43:50Speaker 8: If you remember your first time with the girl, just
- 43:52Speaker 8: think back when the actual moment happened that the whole
- 43:57Speaker 8: thing was supposed to It was rather confusing.
- 44:00Speaker 7: You didn't really know what was going on.
- 44:02Speaker 8: Godo, your body was trembling all of a sudden, your
- 44:06Speaker 8: hair stood up on your head, and you were just
- 44:07Speaker 8: as confused, and you didn't know what was going on.
- 44:11Speaker 8: So what I decided to do was to raise my
- 44:13Speaker 8: sons and tell them this, look, man, this is the
- 44:17Speaker 8: life you should live as a respectful man. To be
- 44:20Speaker 8: respectful for young girls. Do not go out here and
- 44:23Speaker 8: do anything you want with these girls and then lead
- 44:26Speaker 8: these girls hold in the bag. You go off to college,
- 44:29Speaker 8: pursue your dreams, and this young girl sitting here with
- 44:31Speaker 8: a baby trying to make it work. I said, bruh,
- 44:33Speaker 8: don't do that, And I've tried to talk to them
- 44:36Speaker 8: about that. At the same time, you know that the
- 44:40Speaker 8: world we live in, they are going to partake in it.
- 44:43Speaker 8: It's no way to avoid this with your children, because
- 44:47Speaker 8: they got the internet, they got peer pressure, They go
- 44:49Speaker 8: to school every day, they spend more time away from
- 44:51Speaker 8: you than they do with you. So all you can
- 44:53Speaker 8: do is hope that your teachings resonate with them while
- 44:57Speaker 8: they away, and then prepare yourself for the mistake that
- 45:00Speaker 8: they are going to make. And they are all going
- 45:03Speaker 8: to make mistakes, and you will feel horrible about it,
- 45:06Speaker 8: and you will think of this as if reflection on
- 45:09Speaker 8: you as parenting, but it's not.
- 45:11Speaker 7: It's not reflective of you as a parent.
- 45:13Speaker 8: You can teach your children the right way all you want,
- 45:15Speaker 8: they gonna go out here and make a decision that
- 45:17Speaker 8: goes counter to everything you've ever told them.
- 45:20Speaker 7: So it's a dilemma. But putting your.
- 45:22Speaker 8: Boy out the house is not the solution. And I
- 45:25Speaker 8: don't know where she coming with that. If you think
- 45:27Speaker 8: putting them out your house is the solution, you sadly
- 45:30Speaker 8: mistaken about that. Because this boy out here got active
- 45:33Speaker 8: at fourteen, you're gonna put him out? Well, what you're
- 45:36Speaker 8: thinking have now? So you got to talk to your
- 45:39Speaker 8: boy about respect. You got to get him to understand
- 45:42Speaker 8: the way to treat women. And that's it. It's a
- 45:46Speaker 8: tough one, but you got state of course. But raise
- 45:48Speaker 8: your son is the right way, man, Tell them the
- 45:50Speaker 8: right thing. How to be respectful of women, you know,
- 45:53Speaker 8: because you got to remember too. You don't want nobody
- 45:55Speaker 8: doing your daughter like that?
- 45:56Speaker 1: Do you right?
- 45:59Speaker 7: Right? Raise your boys accordingly, and the whole protection comed.
- 46:06Speaker 1: All right, all right, great advice.
- 46:09Speaker 7: Steve.
- 46:09Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Nephew with today's prank
- 46:12Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
- 46:15Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.
- 46:22Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today,
- 46:25Speaker 1: and the subject is trying to get through the holidays.
- 46:28Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a few find out
- 46:30Speaker 1: what that's all about. Right now, Junior's in for the
- 46:33Speaker 1: nephew with the frank for today.
- 46:35Speaker 7: What you got now? What you got?
- 46:36Speaker 10: Yah?
- 46:36Speaker 7: Know what? Musca mob pity running?
- 46:40Speaker 1: Can your best impression?
- 46:45Speaker 3: Nephew, I don't want to represent him, will Hello, marg
- 46:51Speaker 3: I'm trying to read muscle Marvin, get it me. What's cranking? Hey?
- 46:55Speaker 3: Uh you you you'd have got to do the training
- 46:57Speaker 3: up there at jail.
- 46:58Speaker 13: Yeah, what's trying to give one of my classes? Or something.
- 47:01Speaker 3: Okay, what kind of classes you got.
- 47:02Speaker 13: Well, let me see, I got a roab's martial arts
- 47:05Speaker 13: and I got body building classes. Or it's really about
- 47:08Speaker 13: whatever you want to do.
- 47:10Speaker 3: You you teach martial arts too.
- 47:12Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm third degree black belt. Man, I've you know,
- 47:14Speaker 13: I've been doing martial arts before I started to budy
- 47:17Speaker 13: building or whatever.
- 47:18Speaker 3: Oh oh, okay, okay, no I ain't. I ain't trying to. Okay, listen,
- 47:23Speaker 3: my my my wife actually been coming to that gym
- 47:26Speaker 3: for at least two or three years now.
- 47:29Speaker 7: Okay.
- 47:29Speaker 3: Now, the problem that I'm having, man, is that I
- 47:33Speaker 3: wanted to call and just be a man and call
- 47:34Speaker 3: and specifically talk to you. But my wife is telling
- 47:37Speaker 3: me that when she comes to the gym, that Mussell
- 47:41Speaker 3: Marvin is always asking her about personal training, trying to
- 47:45Speaker 3: get her to pay for personal training and being one
- 47:48Speaker 3: of your foot camp class World.
- 47:50Speaker 13: World War hold up home and a man, take this out, man.
- 47:52Speaker 13: I don't ask people to train them. People ask me
- 47:55Speaker 13: to train them. I got three classes in each thing
- 47:58Speaker 13: that I do, bro, I got to many folks already.
- 48:01Speaker 17: Man.
- 48:01Speaker 13: I spend most of my time trying to get a break. Man,
- 48:03Speaker 13: what is he talking about I'm asking somebody to train.
- 48:05Speaker 3: My wife is telling me, man, when she come up
- 48:08Speaker 3: to the gym, it's hard for her to work out
- 48:10Speaker 3: because Mussel Marvin is, you know, always hounding up, you know,
- 48:15Speaker 3: flexing you. You're taking your shirt off. People ain't supposed
- 48:17Speaker 3: to be taking their shirt off in the gym. You got
- 48:19Speaker 3: your your chest yo, yo, yo, just jumping from side
- 48:22Speaker 3: to side. You know, I don't know what all this about.
- 48:25Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. But I'm calling you as
- 48:27Speaker 3: a man to tell you this right here, this right here,
- 48:30Speaker 3: this right here. Fin to stop.
- 48:32Speaker 13: Man, Oh hold on, man, watch the way you're talking
- 48:34Speaker 13: to me.
- 48:34Speaker 7: Bruh.
- 48:35Speaker 13: I've already told you man, I don't be asking nobody
- 48:38Speaker 13: to train. And as a matter of fact, man, who
- 48:40Speaker 13: is your wife? Just daying? This is gym and women
- 48:43Speaker 13: come through here every day. Bruh, bruh. I don't know who, yo,
- 48:46Speaker 13: who is your wife? Specifically?
- 48:48Speaker 3: My wife is Coray Coryn all right. And I told
- 48:51Speaker 3: you earlier I'm Jason. Where the okay? And the problem
- 48:55Speaker 3: is is that you running up on my wife? Man? Hey, Now,
- 48:58Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know if you I don't
- 49:00Speaker 3: know what the deal. Is you attracted to or what?
- 49:03Speaker 3: But you keep running up on her about you know,
- 49:05Speaker 3: taking personal training, getting personal training from you. She don't
- 49:09Speaker 3: need all that, but she can't come up that work
- 49:11Speaker 3: takes the gide manflexing all the time.
- 49:13Speaker 13: Man, you tripping man out and told you I don't
- 49:17Speaker 13: know who your wife is, but you're starting to run
- 49:20Speaker 13: me hot. Listen, man, I don't know who your wife is.
- 49:22Speaker 13: I don't know. No, Corey, I don't even know you.
- 49:25Speaker 3: Coryn see r I in corn Man, Coryn, you.
- 49:29Speaker 13: Telling me, you calling me like a man. If you
- 49:31Speaker 13: want to be a man, bring up up here to
- 49:33Speaker 13: where I'm at. Man, all you gotta do is come
- 49:35Speaker 13: up here and you could talk to me in my faith,
- 49:37Speaker 13: since you're a man. Cause only cowards talk over the phone.
- 49:40Speaker 3: Okay, you not the coward. I'm finna tell you this.
- 49:44Speaker 3: See a mister mussel, Marvin.
- 49:46Speaker 13: You know where I'm missing your wife's training up here.
- 49:48Speaker 13: I ain't ask your wife to do nothing. Man, you
- 49:50Speaker 13: lost your mind. Hey, take the eye, brother, bruh. Watch
- 49:54Speaker 13: the way you handle me.
- 49:55Speaker 3: No, no, you watch the way you handling me and
- 49:57Speaker 3: the way you running up on my wife. I tell
- 49:58Speaker 3: you what Hugo, you'll go your warning musclemorrow, let my
- 50:02Speaker 3: wife come on one more time telling me you got
- 50:05Speaker 3: your jumping all in the mirror, got your shirt off.
- 50:08Speaker 3: Instead of running up on you, I'm coming up there
- 50:11Speaker 3: this jail and I'm whooping your I don't get but
- 50:14Speaker 3: my many muffles. You got you.
- 50:16Speaker 13: Coming the walls. Take designed, man, I mean right now,
- 50:19Speaker 13: bring your tide. It's up here anyway. And anything you
- 50:22Speaker 13: got to do with me, we can do right now.
- 50:24Speaker 13: What you got to wait till the next time for
- 50:26Speaker 13: when you can bring your legs up here your two
- 50:29Speaker 13: dollars five SAIDs up here right now and we can
- 50:32Speaker 13: take care of this issue right now. Bruh, cause I
- 50:34Speaker 13: don't run from nothing. I ain't stilling number Jesus. So
- 50:36Speaker 13: whatever you talking about, Tipner, snake gy it cracking man,
- 50:39Speaker 13: you ain't got to wait to the tomorrow for what
- 50:40Speaker 13: you can do today.
- 50:41Speaker 3: I don't care nothing about your martial arts man. I
- 50:43Speaker 3: don't care nothing about no Bruce Lee. I don't care
- 50:45Speaker 3: nothing about none of that.
- 50:46Speaker 9: I don't give it about no muscle unties.
- 50:49Speaker 3: We gonna go to the hood with this. We're gonna
- 50:51Speaker 3: take it today there wherever we gotta take it, But
- 50:54Speaker 3: you ain't gonna be running up on my wife. Man,
- 50:56Speaker 3: bout your boy the building.
- 50:57Speaker 13: Man, I done told you for the last time that
- 51:00Speaker 13: I don't know who your wife is. I deal with
- 51:03Speaker 13: women at all. They know this a gym. I don't
- 51:06Speaker 13: walk around here with my shirt off. I got on
- 51:08Speaker 13: a T shirt.
- 51:09Speaker 3: So why is my wife telling me you the one
- 51:11Speaker 3: running up on hers flexing? You with all your muscles
- 51:13Speaker 3: and all this? Man, Why missa Mussell Marvin, Cause.
- 51:16Speaker 13: I fletched when I finished lifting. If you would know
- 51:19Speaker 13: what a muscle really look a feeling like, you would
- 51:21Speaker 13: understand the process of that. But obviously says I don't
- 51:24Speaker 13: never see your lit twenty two pounds up here. They
- 51:26Speaker 13: don't know that area.
- 51:27Speaker 3: Don't you telling me a musseus? I got muscles too,
- 51:30Speaker 3: Mussele Marvin. Now I might not be in the gym
- 51:32Speaker 3: flexing them every day, but I got muscles too.
- 51:35Speaker 13: You got muscles.
- 51:36Speaker 3: You don't know what you're dinner with. Boy, I'm benching
- 51:38Speaker 3: one eighty five.
- 51:39Speaker 13: You hear me, you bent in one eighty five.
- 51:41Speaker 3: I'm betting one eighty five. I got muscles too, Mister
- 51:44Speaker 3: Mussell Marvin, you gonna quit disrespecting me when I'm not
- 51:47Speaker 3: at the gym. Run up on my wife. Man, you
- 51:50Speaker 3: hear me.
- 51:50Speaker 13: I disrespect people who disrespect me. You call me with
- 51:53Speaker 13: this land. I told you in the very virginning I
- 51:56Speaker 13: didn't know who your wife was. Now you studied trying
- 51:58Speaker 13: to make me know somebody out of no bruck. I
- 52:00Speaker 13: don't have time for this.
- 52:02Speaker 3: I'm on ump your slow talking. If you run up
- 52:05Speaker 3: on my wife again, I'm fina go.
- 52:06Speaker 13: Out in Pune with your ignorant because it's obvious you
- 52:08Speaker 13: a cow, which you ain't, no man, because you just
- 52:10Speaker 13: took the offhae when I told you to bring your
- 52:11Speaker 13: little up here and we could have figured this here,
- 52:14Speaker 13: hiding person you want to talk, fly over the phone,
- 52:16Speaker 13: get up off here and come down here and we
- 52:19Speaker 13: could take care of this right now. You ain't gotta
- 52:21Speaker 13: make no threats over the phone, Bruh. Bring your list
- 52:23Speaker 13: up here to where I'm at. You d' what I
- 52:25Speaker 13: feel like that? I got too much of it to do.
- 52:27Speaker 3: Get off the phone, say man, I got something else
- 52:29Speaker 3: I need to say to you. What you listen to me?
- 52:31Speaker 13: Bruh, don't do your stuff like that. It's gonna be
- 52:33Speaker 13: a misunderstanding and you ain't prepared to handle it.
- 52:35Speaker 3: I got one more thing I need to say to
- 52:37Speaker 3: you as you listening.
- 52:38Speaker 13: I'm hell yeah, I'm listening. I'm listening for you to
- 52:40Speaker 13: say you got your hundred eighty five pounds and no
- 52:42Speaker 13: way down here too, so we could take care of
- 52:44Speaker 13: this here.
- 52:45Speaker 3: Listen, nephew, Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You
- 52:48Speaker 3: just got pranked by your homebody. But you said, what.
- 52:55Speaker 13: Hello, man, what did you say?
- 52:59Speaker 3: Mussa mom? All right?
- 53:02Speaker 18: Man, oh man, you're good, You're good, You're good, massa,
- 53:17Speaker 18: marm it.
- 53:18Speaker 3: I got you. Man.
- 53:19Speaker 13: I'm gonna slap that damn one of these forty five
- 53:22Speaker 13: pounds dump bells when I see this. Man, Man, y'all tripping?
- 53:26Speaker 3: Man?
- 53:29Speaker 13: Right, yeah, I'm good, man, I'm good.
- 53:32Speaker 3: I got one more thing I gotta ask you, man,
- 53:33Speaker 3: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
- 53:36Speaker 3: baddest radio show in the land.
- 53:38Speaker 13: Man, the Steve Harvey Morning the Show.
- 53:40Speaker 10: Many boy, you the greatest? Do it?
- 53:57Speaker 12: Oh?
- 53:57Speaker 1: So what I do?
- 53:59Speaker 3: I do?
- 53:59Speaker 7: Pray?
- 54:00Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you up. Next, it is my
- 54:03Speaker 1: Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is trying to
- 54:06Speaker 1: get through the holidays. We'll get into that right after this.
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- 54:42Speaker 7: Is you, Steve Robin Martin show Man?
- 54:44Speaker 1: Listen, man, hey man. This it's why you say God
- 54:48Speaker 1: did it again. He keep saying it every day, You
- 54:50Speaker 1: keep saying it.
- 54:51Speaker 7: Over and over.
- 54:51Speaker 8: He did.
- 54:52Speaker 11: He woke me up, got another opportunity.
- 54:54Speaker 1: Well, how do you handle somebody that's about say, how
- 54:55Speaker 1: do you know what?
- 54:56Speaker 7: God?
- 54:56Speaker 1: It could be me doing this?
- 54:58Speaker 8: Okay, keep on thinking, man. You know I'm not really
- 55:01Speaker 8: good at the witnessing part.
- 55:04Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 55:04Speaker 8: I'm more of a witness through example and a witness
- 55:07Speaker 8: through you know, you look at me and see how
- 55:10Speaker 8: good God is being. But if you're defiant to that,
- 55:13Speaker 8: I'm not really the best Christian for that because I
- 55:18Speaker 8: don't have time. I just really don't have time to
- 55:21Speaker 8: address a person that thinks it's them.
- 55:23Speaker 7: And not God. I really don't know.
- 55:25Speaker 8: Look, I'm not going to get into a debate with
- 55:27Speaker 8: you about it, as I oftentimes see people do.
- 55:30Speaker 7: That's just not my strong suit because me.
- 55:33Speaker 8: Personally, if you don't believe in God, I think you
- 55:36Speaker 8: a fool. I think you're a complete idiotic fool. I
- 55:41Speaker 8: think you're an imbelcome. But then I'm pretty sure if
- 55:45Speaker 8: you're an atheist, you must feel the same way about
- 55:48Speaker 8: me and other people who believe in God. How can
- 55:51Speaker 8: you believe in this unseen power? How can you believe
- 55:54Speaker 8: in this? I got a lot of proof. But if
- 55:57Speaker 8: you think I'm a fool, and I think you a fool,
- 56:00Speaker 8: like I said on Piers Morgan that time, I just
- 56:03Speaker 8: don't think two fools ought to be standing around talking
- 56:07Speaker 8: to Steve Harby Morris.
- 56:08Speaker 7: Show coming up right after you're.
- 56:11Speaker 1: Listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
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- 56:34Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you
- 56:36Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours.
- 56:38Speaker 7: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
- 56:40Speaker 7: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
- 56:43Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject trying to get through the holidays.
- 56:46Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in love with another man, and
- 56:49Speaker 1: I just need to make it through the holidays with
- 56:52Speaker 1: my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get
- 56:55Speaker 1: with the new guy. But I need your advice before
- 56:58Speaker 1: I let a sure thing go and move on to
- 57:00Speaker 1: a fairy tale lover. I don't want to leave my
- 57:03Speaker 1: current boyfriend just yet because he is getting my breaks
- 57:07Speaker 1: fixed on my car and he's getting me a bracelet
- 57:10Speaker 1: that I want for Christmas. I already saw it hiding
- 57:13Speaker 1: in his drawer, so I'm doing all I can to
- 57:16Speaker 1: stay faithful until the new year. My new man is
- 57:19Speaker 1: in a similar situation, but he's married. He advised me
- 57:24Speaker 1: to stay put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out.
- 57:27Speaker 1: He and his wife don't have any children, so he
- 57:30Speaker 1: can make a clean break. We've been looking at apartments together,
- 57:34Speaker 1: but I told him we might be moving too soon
- 57:36Speaker 1: by choosing to move in together. I agree that I
- 57:39Speaker 1: will put the apartment and all of the utilities in
- 57:42Speaker 1: my name until his divorce is finalized. I told my
- 57:46Speaker 1: sister about my excitement over the new guy, and she
- 57:49Speaker 1: wanted to meet him, but he said it's best to
- 57:52Speaker 1: not invite family into our messed up situation until he's
- 57:56Speaker 1: out of his marriage. My sister took that as a
- 57:59Speaker 1: bad sign that he's going to have me staying in
- 58:02Speaker 1: an apartment all by myself and he's going to come
- 58:04Speaker 1: over and have sex with me and go right back
- 58:07Speaker 1: to his wife. I don't think that's the case, because
- 58:09Speaker 1: this guy is the one that initiated everything. He pursued
- 58:13Speaker 1: me and told me I deserve to be treated like
- 58:15Speaker 1: a queen. Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore,
- 58:20Speaker 1: and he never wants to have sex. All he does
- 58:22Speaker 1: is ask me to be patient with him because he's
- 58:25Speaker 1: working on a master plan for us. It's been three
- 58:27Speaker 1: years and he's not even ready to live together.
- 58:30Speaker 7: Do I start with.
- 58:31Speaker 1: My prince or stay with this bump? All right? I
- 58:36Speaker 1: know we've said this before about a lot of strawberry letters.
- 58:39Speaker 1: But I think this is one of the truly dumbest
- 58:41Speaker 1: letters we've had. And I hope the men that are
- 58:45Speaker 1: listening don't think all women are like this, because we
- 58:47Speaker 1: are not. It's wrong what you're doing to your current boyfriend,
- 58:52Speaker 1: who doesn't take you out anymore, who doesn't want to
- 58:54Speaker 1: have sex with you. Maybe he knows about the man
- 58:57Speaker 1: that you have, this married man. Just say, if you
- 59:00Speaker 1: don't want your boyfriend, let him go. You ask for
- 59:04Speaker 1: advice about leaving your current boyfriend before you let a
- 59:07Speaker 1: sure thing go. And here it is. I mean, he
- 59:12Speaker 1: said he's just waiting for his marriage to fizzle out.
- 59:15Speaker 1: I mean, do you hear how stupid that sounds. There's
- 59:18Speaker 1: no end date, no nothing, no papers in the works, nothing.
- 59:22Speaker 1: Then you volunteer to put the apartment and all of
- 59:25Speaker 1: the utilities in your name. Now, why would you do that?
- 59:28Speaker 1: Why would you do that for a man who's married.
- 59:32Speaker 1: You said he pursued you and said you should.
- 59:34Speaker 7: Be treated like a queen.
- 59:35Speaker 1: Well, yes you should, we all should, but this is
- 59:38Speaker 1: not queen treatment. A queen wouldn't accept any of this mess.
- 59:42Speaker 1: There are way too many red flags here. Your sister
- 59:45Speaker 1: saw them, right, away when he said he didn't want
- 59:47Speaker 1: to meet her until he got out of his marriage.
- 59:50Speaker 1: That sounded like a cop out to her, but not
- 59:53Speaker 1: to you. You are still making excuses for him. Listen,
- 59:57Speaker 1: this married man is gonna do just That's what your
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: sister said. If he's that into you, then then why
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: not get out of his marriage then get with you,
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: and you should back off until he gets out of
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: his marriage. You're you're talking about making all these moves
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: and he's not available. Okay, he is not available for
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: you to do this right now, so don't do it.
- 1:00:20Speaker 9: Steve.
- 1:00:23Speaker 7: I'm so sickreous, I'm tired, I'm time.
- 1:00:27Speaker 8: I'm gonna just tell you all right now, after I
- 1:00:29Speaker 8: do this strawberry letter, I'm gonna go in there and
- 1:00:32Speaker 8: lay down, you know, because I'm tired. I don't know
- 1:00:38Speaker 8: what to keep telling y'all. I don't know why y'all
- 1:00:42Speaker 8: keep trying me. But today today, though today ain't today.
- 1:00:49Speaker 8: I ain't the one fault today. Let's just get into it.
- 1:00:54Speaker 8: I'm telling you nothing but raw, raw truth, a w truth.
- 1:01:04Speaker 8: I'm in love with another man, Okay. I just need
- 1:01:08Speaker 8: to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend.
- 1:01:12Speaker 8: So I can dump him and get with the new guy. Wow,
- 1:01:18Speaker 8: this letter got stupid rode on it so far, because
- 1:01:22Speaker 8: right now we just talking about a boyfriend. This ain't
- 1:01:25Speaker 8: even a marriage, and I can dump him to get
- 1:01:28Speaker 8: the new guy. But I need your advice and hear
- 1:01:30Speaker 8: where I come here at before I let a sure
- 1:01:33Speaker 8: thing go and move on to a fairy tale level.
- 1:01:38Speaker 8: So we gonna let go of the sure thing to
- 1:01:40Speaker 8: go to the fairy tale level. But let's find out
- 1:01:42Speaker 8: a little bit about this show thing in this fairy
- 1:01:44Speaker 8: tale level.
- 1:01:45Speaker 7: I don't want to leave. Listen to this reason right here.
- 1:01:49Speaker 8: I don't want to leave my carent boyfriend just yet,
- 1:01:53Speaker 8: because he's getting my breaks fixed on my car and
- 1:01:56Speaker 8: he give me a bracelet I want for Christmas.
- 1:01:58Speaker 7: I'll be.
- 1:02:01Speaker 8: Your whole life is hanging on some breaks and a bracelet.
- 1:02:06Speaker 8: You done put your life on hold so you can
- 1:02:10Speaker 8: get some breaks and a bracelet. I'm gonna tell you
- 1:02:16Speaker 8: right now you ain't worth it. I'm just gonna tell
- 1:02:19Speaker 8: you that you're not. You are so cheap you're worth
- 1:02:23Speaker 8: a set of breaks and a bracelet. Girl, I already
- 1:02:32Speaker 8: saw it hiding in this drawer, so I'm doing all
- 1:02:34Speaker 8: I can to be stay faithful until the new year.
- 1:02:39Speaker 7: You're gonna ride it out. You're gonna stay faithful for
- 1:02:42Speaker 7: the Embraceleting breaks. That's all that take to be and
- 1:02:45Speaker 7: b break. Bracelet boyfriend break.
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: We'll have part of your response coming up at twenty
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: three minutes after the subject of today's strawberry letter trying
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: to get through the holidays. We'll get back into this
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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- 1:03:47Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: The subject is trying to get through the holidays.
- 1:03:53Speaker 8: This ignorant strawberry letters about a woman is trying to
- 1:03:56Speaker 8: get through the straw trying to get through the holidays
- 1:03:58Speaker 8: because she in lowd with the no the man.
- 1:04:00Speaker 7: But she don't want to.
- 1:04:01Speaker 8: Leave her boyfriend yet because she can't dump him just
- 1:04:04Speaker 8: yet because she need advice. But now she say, before
- 1:04:07Speaker 8: I let a sure thing go and move on to
- 1:04:09Speaker 8: a fairy tale level.
- 1:04:11Speaker 7: Hear why she don't want to.
- 1:04:12Speaker 8: Leave her current boyfriend ready because he getting my breaks
- 1:04:16Speaker 8: fixed on my car and he gonna get me a
- 1:04:19Speaker 8: bracelet I want for Christmas? That is Hey, y'all out
- 1:04:24Speaker 8: there that's got real lives. How many y'all willing.
- 1:04:27Speaker 7: To hold your life up for a break job and
- 1:04:29Speaker 7: a bracelet?
- 1:04:32Speaker 8: How many of y'all feed delay your happiness and what
- 1:04:35Speaker 8: you really want over some breaks? Probably just need some
- 1:04:38Speaker 8: new pants at a bracelet. Already saw it hiding in
- 1:04:42Speaker 8: this drawer, So I'm doing all I can to stay
- 1:04:45Speaker 8: faithful until the new year. He was just laying in
- 1:04:47Speaker 8: the drawer. It wasn't it a box or nothing? Your bracelet, hot,
- 1:04:54Speaker 8: that's a lot of bracelet.
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: Drawers just laying in the drawer.
- 1:04:58Speaker 8: You don't see it in no velvet bar, nothing your
- 1:05:00Speaker 8: breathlet heart. He just got that out to pawn shopping.
- 1:05:05Speaker 8: When they find it. They gonna take your breaklet from you.
- 1:05:11Speaker 8: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.
- 1:05:18Speaker 8: Mister got done, wow breaks, bracelets, break up and boyfriend
- 1:05:23Speaker 8: the fox bees.
- 1:05:24Speaker 7: Here we go.
- 1:05:26Speaker 8: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.
- 1:05:30Speaker 8: He advised me to stay put while he lets his
- 1:05:32Speaker 8: marriage fizzle own out. What what does that mean?
- 1:05:39Speaker 7: What does that mean? I'm gonna let my marriage fizzle
- 1:05:43Speaker 7: own out?
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: Girl? This ain't a birthday counterla.
- 1:05:48Speaker 8: You can't just wait till your marriage fizzle out. This
- 1:05:51Speaker 8: ain't one of them sparkless we used to have when
- 1:05:54Speaker 8: we was kids. You know, you lighting, you waving around
- 1:05:57Speaker 8: till it's fizzle out. This is marriage. This ain't no firecracker.
- 1:06:04Speaker 8: This is marriage. He can't just let it fizzle out.
- 1:06:08Speaker 8: He got to go to court and they got something
- 1:06:11Speaker 8: for your little fizzle out playing.
- 1:06:12Speaker 7: I can tell you that right now. I'm been dying.
- 1:06:14Speaker 8: Now talk about you gonna let it fizzle out. They're
- 1:06:17Speaker 8: finna help your outside, is what they finn do? This
- 1:06:21Speaker 8: fen the cost?
- 1:06:22Speaker 7: This hain't you don't let marriage fizzle out.
- 1:06:24Speaker 8: He and his wife don't have any children, so he
- 1:06:27Speaker 8: can make a clean break. What what did you say?
- 1:06:33Speaker 8: You think, cause ain't no kids involved, you can make
- 1:06:36Speaker 8: a clean break, girl.
- 1:06:38Speaker 7: Bye.
- 1:06:39Speaker 8: We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him
- 1:06:42Speaker 8: we might be moving too soon by choosing to move
- 1:06:44Speaker 8: in together. He not moving in with you. All y'all
- 1:06:48Speaker 8: been doing is looking at apartments. He can't move in
- 1:06:52Speaker 8: with you cause the marriage ain't fizzled our chet, it's
- 1:06:57Speaker 8: still sparkling.
- 1:07:00Speaker 7: Show dumb self.
- 1:07:03Speaker 8: I agreed that I will put the apartment in all
- 1:07:05Speaker 8: the utilities in my name until his divorce is finalized.
- 1:07:09Speaker 8: They gonna stay in your name even if he do
- 1:07:14Speaker 8: get a divorce. Who who switch?
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: Who?
- 1:07:19Speaker 8: Switched names on apartments and electric bills and all that? Girl,
- 1:07:25Speaker 8: I can't believe you this signat. I told my sister
- 1:07:29Speaker 8: about my excitement over the new guy, and she wanted
- 1:07:31Speaker 8: to meet me. But he said it's best not to
- 1:07:33Speaker 8: invite family into our messed up situation. That's a true
- 1:07:36Speaker 8: statement until he's out of his marriage. My sister took
- 1:07:40Speaker 8: that as a bad sign. Your sister stupid too. She
- 1:07:49Speaker 8: took the fact that he didn't want to meet her
- 1:07:51Speaker 8: as a bad sign. You don't think the bad sign
- 1:07:55Speaker 8: is he married? Ain't that ain't a bad sign? Also, y'all.
- 1:08:01Speaker 8: Y'all think the bad sign is he didn't won't meet you.
- 1:08:07Speaker 8: The bad sign is he married and he told you
- 1:08:11Speaker 8: he waiting on his marriage to fizzle out. They ain't
- 1:08:16Speaker 8: got no kids yet, so they're gonna make a clean break.
- 1:08:20Speaker 8: Let me show you how this marriage fit in a fizzle.
- 1:08:22Speaker 8: She fit to get pregnant because the wife don't know
- 1:08:27Speaker 8: nothing about this. This is him telling you that the
- 1:08:30Speaker 8: marriage is fizzling out. I promise you that the wife's
- 1:08:33Speaker 8: sitting over there thinking everything is honky doing. I promise
- 1:08:36Speaker 8: you that. I promise you that all men that's married
- 1:08:40Speaker 8: that's trying to have an affair with a woman gonna
- 1:08:42Speaker 8: tell him something wrong at the house. That's the opening
- 1:08:47Speaker 8: line because we play on the fact that you all
- 1:08:49Speaker 8: are nurturers by nature and y'all always want to fix something.
- 1:08:55Speaker 7: Let me hear him get through with this.
- 1:08:59Speaker 8: I don't think that it's the case because this guy's
- 1:09:01Speaker 8: one that initiated everything. Wait a minute, you don't think
- 1:09:04Speaker 8: that's the case because he initiated everything.
- 1:09:09Speaker 7: Curl you.
- 1:09:10Speaker 8: He pursued me and told me that I deserve to
- 1:09:13Speaker 8: be treated like a queen. Well, you're not getting treated
- 1:09:16Speaker 8: like a queen, though you don't see that. Meanwhile, my
- 1:09:20Speaker 8: boyfriend does not take me out anymore, and he never
- 1:09:24Speaker 8: wants to have sex. That's because he having sex somewhere else.
- 1:09:29Speaker 8: Y'all been together three years. All you getting is your
- 1:09:32Speaker 8: breaks fixed and a bracelet. You ain't getting no wed
- 1:09:35Speaker 8: and ring because you having sex with somebody else. Let
- 1:09:39Speaker 8: me tell you how stupid this is. You're in the
- 1:09:41Speaker 8: movie Dumb and Dumber. Your boyfriend is dumb, your married
- 1:09:48Speaker 8: boyfriend is dumb up, and you the hand signed.
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: A post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve
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- 1:10:02Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded
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- 1:10:45Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to look into the
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: crazy mind of Jay Anthony Brown. Oh lord, I'm.
- 1:10:52Speaker 13: Glad you did that.
- 1:10:53Speaker 17: I'm glad you're doing that.
- 1:10:54Speaker 9: You are.
- 1:10:55Speaker 17: I know a lot of time. I have foolishness and craziness.
- 1:10:58Speaker 7: A lot of what you got today. Now with what's
- 1:11:04Speaker 7: in there today.
- 1:11:05Speaker 17: Something I have that's very will put put together a
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- 1:11:12Speaker 7: Now you won't for.
- 1:11:13Speaker 17: A side Piece, you won't be able to get in
- 1:11:15Speaker 17: touch with who you want to get in touch with
- 1:11:18Speaker 17: out on the holidays.
- 1:11:19Speaker 7: It's starting.
- 1:11:19Speaker 17: It's gonna be tough for you. But with Side Piece Helper,
- 1:11:23Speaker 17: I can call and get out all your frustration. They're
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- 1:11:32Speaker 17: doing that at Side Peace Helper. Side Piece Helper is
- 1:11:35Speaker 17: helping side pieces get through the holidays.
- 1:11:38Speaker 1: They're listening, they're quiet, they.
- 1:11:41Speaker 17: Got good advice. Tommy knows about it. I mean you
- 1:11:43Speaker 17: we talked about putting together and so tell me what
- 1:11:46Speaker 17: what you got.
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: Now, Well, I mean, you know, they help us and
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: we are helpless, you know what I mean, And we're
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: gonna try to do what we can.
- 1:11:54Speaker 7: You get the message to your love war right, Okay,
- 1:11:57Speaker 7: So what.
- 1:11:57Speaker 19: You have to do is if you watch the movie Hair,
- 1:12:00Speaker 19: you go in your backyard and start saying it, and
- 1:12:03Speaker 19: then the people next to start singing, and soon a
- 1:12:05Speaker 19: lady the message we get weighed on the way to
- 1:12:08Speaker 19: the person that you wanted to get away.
- 1:12:09Speaker 17: You understand, get a message to the one love because
- 1:12:15Speaker 17: I know these able.
- 1:12:18Speaker 5: Side with everything in us.
- 1:12:23Speaker 7: You know, you guys.
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: One thing about this show.
- 1:12:25Speaker 17: We're always helping people. That's what this is.
- 1:12:32Speaker 7: Nobody out now and.
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: Get w this is this is ball up in a
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: not time.
- 1:12:37Speaker 7: This is time you ball up in the nine.
- 1:12:40Speaker 11: You didn't tell Joy about the side piece helper of
- 1:12:43Speaker 11: mobile app.
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: You didn't tell them.
- 1:12:45Speaker 12: Yes, go to the yeah like you need it, like
- 1:12:49Speaker 12: in side peace on Christmas.
- 1:12:51Speaker 11: You can't get it to it.
- 1:12:52Speaker 12: We will take a plate to her from your house
- 1:12:56Speaker 12: and we take the plate to her and we put
- 1:12:58Speaker 12: the you know, her gift transport Dad, you know whatever
- 1:13:01Speaker 12: it is.
- 1:13:03Speaker 7: You know what we got. You know what else we got.
- 1:13:06Speaker 7: We got side piece hamburger. Help. That's the dinner for them,
- 1:13:11Speaker 7: you see, that's the dinner for them to hand, you know,
- 1:13:14Speaker 7: because they can't have with everybody else. You see what
- 1:13:16Speaker 7: I'm saying.
- 1:13:17Speaker 17: Now you're thinking, download the app and get out of
- 1:13:22Speaker 17: that ball.
- 1:13:26Speaker 12: Yeah, you told her, how did your wife cooking?
- 1:13:28Speaker 13: Is?
- 1:13:29Speaker 7: Well?
- 1:13:29Speaker 12: Now she can taste it app all right?
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: after this.
- 1:13:42Speaker 12: Everybody is your favorite play cousin, Junr. We want to
- 1:13:44Speaker 12: thank you for rocket with the Steve Harvey Morning Show
- 1:13:47Speaker 12: all year long. It is the holiday season and we
- 1:13:50Speaker 12: want to wish you a very merry Christmas for the
- 1:13:52Speaker 12: Steve Harry Morning Show and especially for your favorite play
- 1:13:54Speaker 12: cousin man.
- 1:13:55Speaker 11: I love y'all. Happy holidays.
- 1:13:57Speaker 4: You're listening.
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: Took the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. See this
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: is from Haley in Tampa. Haley says, I'm a thirty
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: year old teacher in my fiance's twelve year old son
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: transferred to my school so I can keep an eye
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: on him. The first time I addressed his son's grades,
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: the son got mad at me and told his teacher
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: that his dad still spends the night with his mom
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: sometimes because he wants her back. When I told my
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: fiance about that, he didn't say a word to his son.
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: He said, it's a cry for help and we need
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: to let him heal from their divorce in his own way.
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: Does that sound right to you?
- 1:14:43Speaker 7: Right there?
- 1:14:45Speaker 8: I'm so proud of him. I'm just man a man.
- 1:14:55Speaker 7: That one right there? Srey read his response, so.
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: She's he says, when I told my fiance about it,
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: he didn't say a word to his son. He said,
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: it's a cry for help, and we need to let
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: him heal from their divorce in his own way.
- 1:15:09Speaker 8: Yes, it's a cry for help and we need to
- 1:15:14Speaker 8: let him heal from this divorce in his own way.
- 1:15:20Speaker 7: Lord, do you know.
- 1:15:22Speaker 8: What he did with that lie? Let me tell you
- 1:15:24Speaker 8: how how great this one is. First of all, he
- 1:15:29Speaker 8: created a pathway by using his son's pain to allow
- 1:15:36Speaker 8: him to show concern and put the focus on the
- 1:15:40Speaker 8: boy's mental health.
- 1:15:42Speaker 7: Lord Hemmerton, come on.
- 1:15:44Speaker 8: And then at the same time never ever addressed the
- 1:15:49Speaker 8: accusation at hand, Lord Hemberson, Boy, let me tell you
- 1:15:57Speaker 8: something I ain't mentioned.
- 1:15:58Speaker 7: Spending the ninth won the woman back. None of that that.
- 1:16:02Speaker 8: Didn't even come up because the focus has been the
- 1:16:07Speaker 8: chows mental health, and with mental health issues being at
- 1:16:12Speaker 8: the forefront.
- 1:16:13Speaker 7: Of our society, I just want you can.
- 1:16:16Speaker 2: Use it to Peter, it's wrong to use it, but.
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: It is wrong to use it out y'all over here.
- 1:16:29Speaker 8: Problem inspired me because the next time what you say
- 1:16:34Speaker 8: anything to me, I'm goin to talk about the mental
- 1:16:38Speaker 8: health of our ship.
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: All right, I think we have time for another one.
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: This is from Peter Peter s f M. Peter says,
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: I want to I went out after work with a
- 1:16:54Speaker 1: group of co workers. We got lit. I told my
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: wife that I misplaced my keys. So I was getting
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: a ride home from a coworker. Uh, Jalen from a coworker, Jalen.
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: I was home in bed next to my wife when
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: my phone rang. I had to answer it, and it
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: was my coworker Lisa, letting me know that they found
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: my keys. My wife heard the whole call. She thinks
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: I was out cheating on her with a white lady.
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: I showed her my receipt and everything. She's not buying it.
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: What do I do?
- 1:17:27Speaker 7: I'll be.
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: What you Jalen.
- 1:17:34Speaker 7: The white girl called the house.
- 1:17:40Speaker 4: Wow.
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: This time of the night.
- 1:17:43Speaker 7: You got a ride, so she found a spiece. If
- 1:17:50Speaker 7: you don't get white called.
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: Out, I missed that.
- 1:17:59Speaker 7: You can't call my house at dinner. No more.
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: He had he had receiveds Steve, what receipts?
- 1:18:09Speaker 7: What kind of reid? Sure? What do his receipts say?
- 1:18:13Speaker 7: I was I wasn't with no white lady.
- 1:18:15Speaker 12: Yeah, he should have just brought off the mental health
- 1:18:21Speaker 12: of them children.
- 1:18:24Speaker 7: Carry over.
- 1:18:27Speaker 1: Refer to the letter one.
- 1:18:32Speaker 7: The whole phone conversation.
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, coming up at twenty minutes.
- 1:18:42Speaker 7: Involved in this dog right now, we will.
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: Have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:18:54Speaker 7: Okay, you're right.
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:18:57Speaker 12: These the gifts that me and really won't Okay, you
- 1:19:00Speaker 12: know what I said, I know what I said.
- 1:19:02Speaker 7: I know what I said.
- 1:19:03Speaker 11: He don't really matter, baby, but it do because.
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: Something real low key.
- 1:19:08Speaker 12: Let me tell you something we don't want bad gifts.
- 1:19:11Speaker 12: Like bad gift is winter gloves. I boys don't ask
- 1:19:14Speaker 12: about winter glove. They don't ask about that.
- 1:19:18Speaker 7: Get cold. We put him in our pocket.
- 1:19:19Speaker 12: We put him in our pocket. Don't care about that.
- 1:19:21Speaker 12: There's another here's another gift that'll kill about a rope?
- 1:19:25Speaker 12: Our boys, rode beautiful road. We open this box up
- 1:19:29Speaker 12: again and see a rope. Okay, I tell you we're
- 1:19:31Speaker 12: not putting it out. We don't care about it.
- 1:19:37Speaker 7: Slips.
- 1:19:40Speaker 12: Excuse me, there's an exception. Well, well, I ain't experienced that.
- 1:19:46Speaker 12: I'm just gonna talk about what I want that.
- 1:19:49Speaker 11: Okay, I'm gonna look into that. I ain't there yet,
- 1:19:54Speaker 11: but I know the dudes I'll be dealing with.
- 1:19:56Speaker 1: We don't care about the roads we get.
- 1:19:57Speaker 8: Okay, you know, okay, won't the tearing cloth that one
- 1:20:02Speaker 8: that looked like a tow burn your neck up, so
- 1:20:07Speaker 8: you put it on.
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: Steve, you don't want the short one.
- 1:20:12Speaker 20: Because I'm tall, one pocket. We don't want to show
- 1:20:23Speaker 20: our bullets.
- 1:20:24Speaker 11: That's all.
- 1:20:24Speaker 7: Yeah, that is true.
- 1:20:26Speaker 8: We won't gifts that we said dude, man, my girl,
- 1:20:29Speaker 8: man a man?
- 1:20:30Speaker 7: Check what my girl got?
- 1:20:31Speaker 1: Nice watch?
- 1:20:32Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: Why nice suit? All right, We'll be back with more
- 1:20:35Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey is Shirley Strawberry?
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: You know who taught me my A B c's and
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: what it means to be kind Sesame Street Sesame Workshop,
- 1:20:53Speaker 1: the nonprofit behind Sesame Street. It's still doing that for
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: kids everywhere. Elmo and Cookie Monster are out there teach kindness,
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: empathy and joy. But they need our help to keep
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: it going. So this holiday season, visit Sesame dot org
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: and donate what you can. Once again, please visit Sesame
- 1:21:10Speaker 1: dot org this holiday season because the world needs Sesame
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: and Sesame needs you. It is time now for a
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Would you rather golf all
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: day by yourself? Or would you rather watch a romantic
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: movie with your wife golfing?
- 1:21:28Speaker 11: I'm sorry, holiday, how far is that to the pens?
- 1:21:34Speaker 7: I won't even play that much?
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: Wow a consensus, everybody's going golfing.
- 1:21:41Speaker 7: Let her watch the movie?
- 1:21:42Speaker 9: Okay?
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: All right?
- 1:21:44Speaker 1: Wow, you know I guess you didn't hear I said
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: romantic movie.
- 1:21:49Speaker 7: I'm not gonna sit there and well, face, you.
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: Can't do that.
- 1:21:53Speaker 7: Ain't nobody got the notebook over golf? Come on out.
- 1:22:01Speaker 8: There and look at that car in that driveway, and
- 1:22:02Speaker 8: go upstairs and look at that jewelry in that bottle.
- 1:22:05Speaker 7: Honey, Hold all right, feels a good movie? It is?
- 1:22:11Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep with the phone on the dresser,
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: just come in your bedroom, put your phone on the dresser,
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: or would you rather sleep with the phone by your bed?
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: Which one?
- 1:22:20Speaker 7: My phone is in my draw I gotta get up
- 1:22:25Speaker 7: like this. Would you rather my phone is.
- 1:22:29Speaker 1: In That's not an option the dresser.
- 1:22:47Speaker 7: It's on silent right, No white lady calling me.
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: Dress on a night staying.
- 1:22:59Speaker 7: In all right?
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: Would you rather start in a Christmas stage play? Or
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: would you rather cook an entire Christmas dinner?
- 1:23:10Speaker 7: I'm starting? Oh yeah, I don't want either one. Not good.
- 1:23:14Speaker 8: But I'm gonna in that kitchen that I went in
- 1:23:17Speaker 8: that play because I don't know when I'm gonna be
- 1:23:18Speaker 8: in the same age play at Christmas.
- 1:23:22Speaker 12: Baby, I was in a Christmas stage play. I played
- 1:23:24Speaker 12: all three wise men by my all three. We have
- 1:23:28Speaker 12: enough people in the play. I just keep going back
- 1:23:31Speaker 12: out with a new gift.
- 1:23:40Speaker 11: I had to change my robe. I got a quick
- 1:23:42Speaker 11: change at the church.
- 1:23:46Speaker 7: That I'm gonna cook that I'm gonna.
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: But your last one, guys, would you rather work as
- 1:23:53Speaker 1: a bill collector or a fast food drive through window worker?
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: Which one?
- 1:23:57Speaker 7: Oh you're the one I'm cussing people. You got I
- 1:24:01Speaker 7: won't in that window man?
- 1:24:02Speaker 8: Come on.
- 1:24:03Speaker 7: I want to see the people.
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: Huh, what are you gonna say when they drive up?
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: My whole world.
- 1:24:08Speaker 8: Is gonna be putting the wrong stuff in that baby.
- 1:24:14Speaker 8: You don't know your bag. You ain't got nothing but
- 1:24:17Speaker 8: condiments in it, ain't no fish sal.
- 1:24:25Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That's today's round with this mess. Would
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: you rather coming up in forty nine minutes after we'll
- 1:24:32Speaker 1: close out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey.
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:24:43Speaker 7: Hey, good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey.
- 1:24:45Speaker 8: My favorite Christmas memory is my mom and dad, My
- 1:24:49Speaker 8: mother and father.
- 1:24:50Speaker 7: Man I missed him, SUF.
- 1:24:51Speaker 8: Have a wonderful holiday season from yours truly right here,
- 1:24:54Speaker 8: your boy Steve Harvey and the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: Hey, it's Tommy, and this season your home with more
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- 1:25:17Speaker 2: plays in every room. Spred joy that lasts long after
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- 1:25:28Speaker 1: See their closing remarks are back as well.
- 1:25:30Speaker 7: What you have for us, here we go. Here's a suggestion.
- 1:25:35Speaker 8: Here, Here's what I came up with for today, a
- 1:25:38Speaker 8: suggestion or something I've learned that has helped me out
- 1:25:42Speaker 8: dramatically in accomplishing my goals and attaining my dreams. I
- 1:25:49Speaker 8: still have things I'm after, still have goals that I've
- 1:25:52Speaker 8: not yet met and dreams that i haven't seen come
- 1:25:55Speaker 8: true yet. But I'm working on them and I know
- 1:25:59Speaker 8: they will, and I know they will because I have
- 1:26:02Speaker 8: mastered one technique of how to do it. I'm gonna
- 1:26:06Speaker 8: share it with you right now. If you are wanting
- 1:26:10Speaker 8: something from God, this is just for spiritual people. If
- 1:26:14Speaker 8: you're not a spiritual person, you can go do what
- 1:26:16Speaker 8: you want to do right now. Only this is for
- 1:26:19Speaker 8: people who believe in God. When I want something for God,
- 1:26:27Speaker 8: when I'm trying to reach a certain goal or fulfill
- 1:26:30Speaker 8: a dream or attain something, I never go about it
- 1:26:35Speaker 8: without his help. You know the things that I do
- 1:26:38Speaker 8: that on my own, I'm just doing them you know,
- 1:26:40Speaker 8: like you know, I don't know. Simple stuff, you know,
- 1:26:43Speaker 8: like make sure I got water in my office so
- 1:26:46Speaker 8: I can drink enough.
- 1:26:47Speaker 7: I don't. I can do that, right.
- 1:26:51Speaker 8: But let's say I have an aspiration or dream that's
- 1:26:55Speaker 8: pretty big, as are most of mine, and as should
- 1:26:58Speaker 8: yours be. You should dream as big as you possibly can.
- 1:27:03Speaker 8: You should let your imagination lead you into the life
- 1:27:07Speaker 8: that God has for you. Now, the way to do
- 1:27:10Speaker 8: that is to first of all, ask, because the scripture
- 1:27:13Speaker 8: says you have not because you ask not.
- 1:27:16Speaker 7: And then you have to believe.
- 1:27:19Speaker 8: You have to have faith that God can do anything
- 1:27:22Speaker 8: but fail. The third thing you need is a work ethic,
- 1:27:28Speaker 8: an unrelenting work ethic. There is a scripture that says
- 1:27:33Speaker 8: faith without works is dead. So after you ask for
- 1:27:38Speaker 8: this incredible dream or visional goal that you have, and
- 1:27:41Speaker 8: you put the faith in it, the belief, you got
- 1:27:44Speaker 8: to work because faith without works is dead.
- 1:27:48Speaker 7: Okay, cool?
- 1:27:49Speaker 8: Now, the best way to accomplish your dreams and gifts,
- 1:27:53Speaker 8: First of all, you should tie it to your I
- 1:27:55Speaker 8: mean your goals and gifts. Your goals and dreams, you
- 1:27:57Speaker 8: have to tie it to your gift. Everything should be
- 1:28:00Speaker 8: tied to your gift. Now, if you wan an airplane
- 1:28:03Speaker 8: or go on special trips has nothing to do with
- 1:28:05Speaker 8: your gift. But the route that you're gonna get to
- 1:28:08Speaker 8: this goal and to this dream has to be tied
- 1:28:12Speaker 8: to your gift.
- 1:28:14Speaker 7: Okay.
- 1:28:14Speaker 8: Now, once you do that and you ask God for
- 1:28:18Speaker 8: something that's impossible, be careful who you share it with
- 1:28:24Speaker 8: because sharing things from your imagination is not always in
- 1:28:29Speaker 8: your best interest. Because your imagination is yours and yours alone.
- 1:28:34Speaker 8: Other people can't see it, they don't see no way how.
- 1:28:37Speaker 8: They just start shooting it down. But when you do
- 1:28:41Speaker 8: ask God for this incredible thing, listen to me. The
- 1:28:48Speaker 8: how too is none of your business. Let me repeat that.
- 1:28:54Speaker 8: When you ask God for your visions, your goals, your dreams,
- 1:28:58Speaker 8: your aspirations, and you believe he'll do it, and you're
- 1:29:01Speaker 8: willing to work as hard as you can to accomplish it,
- 1:29:04Speaker 8: that's all that's required of you. The how too is
- 1:29:09Speaker 8: none of your business. Get out of the way. The
- 1:29:14Speaker 8: reason there is no scripture that tells us as people
- 1:29:18Speaker 8: to figure it out is because if you're asking God
- 1:29:21Speaker 8: for something so big, you got to leave it up
- 1:29:25Speaker 8: to him. You gotta let him handle it. The how
- 1:29:28Speaker 8: to is not any of your business. The how too
- 1:29:34Speaker 8: is not up to you. It's up to your faith
- 1:29:38Speaker 8: and your belief in a higher power. Stop tripping on
- 1:29:43Speaker 8: the how too. It ain't your business. The reason the
- 1:29:48Speaker 8: how to is not up to you. I have found
- 1:29:51Speaker 8: in my life is for this reason right here, because
- 1:29:55Speaker 8: my ways and my understanding is not enough to get
- 1:30:00Speaker 8: me to where I want to go, be half and
- 1:30:03Speaker 8: attained to where I want to go be half n attained.
- 1:30:08Speaker 1: My ways and my understanding is not.
- 1:30:13Speaker 8: Enough because I'm asking God for something so huge that
- 1:30:17Speaker 8: I don't know how to get it, but I know
- 1:30:21Speaker 8: that he does. You can't even fathom his ways. You
- 1:30:27Speaker 8: can quit tripping. You can save yourself a lot of time.
- 1:30:30Speaker 8: You can't google his ways. You don't know the route
- 1:30:33Speaker 8: he's gonna take. You don't know how he's gonna touch
- 1:30:36Speaker 8: certain people's hearts along the way. You don't know how
- 1:30:38Speaker 8: he's gonna move people into position to get you exactly
- 1:30:41Speaker 8: what you need, when you need it, and how you
- 1:30:43Speaker 8: need it. You have no idea what God is going
- 1:30:48Speaker 8: to do and how he's going.
- 1:30:50Speaker 7: To do it.
- 1:30:51Speaker 8: So why trouble yourself with the how too? Because it
- 1:30:54Speaker 8: ain't your business? The how too is not up to you.
- 1:30:58Speaker 8: And the reason is not up to you is because
- 1:31:01Speaker 8: when you ask for something so great that you absolutely
- 1:31:04Speaker 8: have to have God's help to get it, your ways
- 1:31:06Speaker 8: and understanding is not enough. You won't be able to
- 1:31:10Speaker 8: accomplish it because you can't even fathom his ways. You
- 1:31:16Speaker 8: have no idea how He's going to go about it.
- 1:31:19Speaker 8: You're clueless. You can't move the pieces the way God can't.
- 1:31:25Speaker 8: You can't do it man. As a matter of fact,
- 1:31:29Speaker 8: if you try, you're all in the way. Now you're
- 1:31:31Speaker 8: gonna mess it up. You are now blocking the blessing
- 1:31:34Speaker 8: with concerning yourself with the how to. The how to
- 1:31:38Speaker 8: is none of your business. You have to ask, believe,
- 1:31:41Speaker 8: and be willing to work your tail off. That's how
- 1:31:44Speaker 8: you accomplish it in life, and the how tools you'll.
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