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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
- 0:05Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
- 0:15Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubbing me through good it
- 0:24Speaker 1: listening together for st Please I don't join join me.
- 0:58Speaker 1: You gotta turn hur you go. You gotta turn to
- 1:41Speaker 1: turn them out, turn you love, got to turn them out,
- 1:45Speaker 1: to turn the water to the water. Go. Come come
- 1:58Speaker 1: on your tha. Uh huh, I sure will come on
- 2:04Speaker 1: it everybody, y'all listen to the voice. Come on dig
- 2:06Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey. Uh how a
- 2:10Speaker 1: radio show? Yep, yep? Sometimes saw all I can say yelp, Man,
- 2:20Speaker 1: how far I've come is really unbelievable. But you know
- 2:22Speaker 1: I finally figured it out. Man. God allowed me to
- 2:29Speaker 1: have the life I've had so that I can become
- 2:32Speaker 1: experienced at so many different things. And then this experience
- 2:38Speaker 1: when I'm talking and sharing with people, I will be
- 2:41Speaker 1: able to relate to a lot of different circumstances, not exact,
- 2:45Speaker 1: but just the circumstances. You know. You know if a
- 2:48Speaker 1: person comes to me and they say, man, I've been
- 2:50Speaker 1: down and out, Okay, well I know what that is. Man.
- 2:53Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't have any direction. Okay, got that
- 2:56Speaker 1: been there? Man At one point in time, Man, I
- 3:00Speaker 1: just kept piling mistake on top of mistakes. Okay. So
- 3:06Speaker 1: you know, I think what I'm trying to say to
- 3:09Speaker 1: everybody is when you're going through life and life is
- 3:13Speaker 1: dealing the cards that it deals, I want you to
- 3:17Speaker 1: understand that life deals everybody these cards. The disappointment card,
- 3:23Speaker 1: the setback card, the failure card, the mishap card, the
- 3:30Speaker 1: unexpected misery card. Everybody gonna get, the grief card, everybody
- 3:36Speaker 1: gonna get, the rash of bad decision card, everybody gonna
- 3:40Speaker 1: get them. Understand that going in that everybody is gonna
- 3:46Speaker 1: get these cards. It's how you play them, though, you know,
- 3:54Speaker 1: from time to time, one more time, it's how you
- 3:56Speaker 1: play them, you know. From time to time when I'm
- 3:59Speaker 1: watching TV, I love to watch the World Series of Poker.
- 4:04Speaker 1: I like watching poker tournaments on TV because it's it's
- 4:08Speaker 1: really weird, what's happened to a sport? To a poker
- 4:13Speaker 1: they're actually trying to call it a sport, you know.
- 4:16Speaker 1: And as the everyday guy that doesn't have to be
- 4:18Speaker 1: athletically inclined to anything, who has a shot of winning
- 4:23Speaker 1: a title if they play their cards right. The best
- 4:28Speaker 1: poker players in the world don't have the best hands,
- 4:33Speaker 1: They just make the best plays. I've seen guys win
- 4:38Speaker 1: a hand with nine two in their hand as nothing
- 4:41Speaker 1: and win the hand because they knew the bluff, they
- 4:45Speaker 1: knew the odds, they calculated risks, they made the stakes
- 4:50Speaker 1: higher than the other person was willing to pay. They
- 4:54Speaker 1: gave off the illusion that they had something with an actuality.
- 4:58Speaker 1: They had nothing. So what I what I enjoy about
- 5:03Speaker 1: poker and watching it is that these people, these people here,
- 5:09Speaker 1: played the hand they dealt, and it ain't always a
- 5:12Speaker 1: good hand. But it ain't whether your hand is good,
- 5:15Speaker 1: And it ain't whether you're gonna get dealt bad cards
- 5:18Speaker 1: or not. Because you're gonna get dealt some bad cards.
- 5:20Speaker 1: Everybody ain't finna get two bullets in their hand. You
- 5:22Speaker 1: ain't gonna get two aces when you get dealt. Uh.
- 5:25Speaker 1: You know, when you play a draw poker, some of
- 5:27Speaker 1: your cards gonna be nothing. But you got to turn
- 5:30Speaker 1: that nothing into something. So when you get dealt these
- 5:33Speaker 1: cards in life, it ain't the fact that you're getting
- 5:36Speaker 1: keep getting them dealt. I was talking with a young
- 5:37Speaker 1: person yesterday and we were talking, and we keep having
- 5:41Speaker 1: the same conversation over and over and over, and they
- 5:44Speaker 1: could not understand why they were not moving forward. But
- 5:48Speaker 1: I said, you don't understand. Every time we talk we
- 5:51Speaker 1: have the exact same conversation. It is simply because you
- 5:55Speaker 1: keep getting your cards and you playing them the same way. See.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Until you make a conscientious different, the conscious decision to
- 6:05Speaker 1: do something different, the results will continue to be the same.
- 6:11Speaker 1: See here's the way this works. When you're dealt to
- 6:16Speaker 1: disappointments in life, it's how you handle the disappointments that
- 6:21Speaker 1: determine the outcome and who you are. Because everybody gonna
- 6:25Speaker 1: be disappointment, Everybody gonna lose a love one, Everybody gonna
- 6:28Speaker 1: make a bad decision, Everybody gonna end wake up one
- 6:31Speaker 1: morning they have done something they regretted. Everybody gonna get
- 6:34Speaker 1: caught at the wrong time, every everybody gonna make a mistake.
- 6:39Speaker 1: It ain't just you. That is how you play your
- 6:41Speaker 1: cards when they get dealt to you, that determine who
- 6:44Speaker 1: you are. Na, how do I play my cards better?
- 6:47Speaker 1: First of all, it's a mindset. Quit looking at everything
- 6:51Speaker 1: as just the end when it happens to you. Oh, Lord,
- 6:55Speaker 1: woe is me? Nah, everybody got your circumstance answers somewhere.
- 7:01Speaker 1: It ain't old woe is me. It's hold on, man, Okay,
- 7:04Speaker 1: let me play this out to see how God then
- 7:07Speaker 1: connected this to something else. See, as soon as a
- 7:10Speaker 1: person have a setback, what's the first thing A lot
- 7:11Speaker 1: of people do, They go straight negative. I can't see
- 7:14Speaker 1: him to get a break. I can't see them move forward.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Hold on, man, do you realize this could be connected
- 7:19Speaker 1: to something? See you got to understand, man, that this
- 7:23Speaker 1: thing is all connected. That you're not having these mishaps
- 7:26Speaker 1: and these spills and accidents and falls for no reason.
- 7:30Speaker 1: It's so you can become experienced at them. So when
- 7:33Speaker 1: he takes you to the next level, when it happens again,
- 7:36Speaker 1: you have no how and how to handle it. If
- 7:38Speaker 1: you keep throwing yourself off the cliff every time something happened,
- 7:43Speaker 1: you're just gonna be a cliff diver. Man, Stop tripping
- 7:46Speaker 1: yourself out. I was talking to this young person, I
- 7:49Speaker 1: kept saying, and you know what they tried to tell me.
- 7:51Speaker 1: I'm trying to stay positive. But the people around here,
- 7:54Speaker 1: they're just killing that. Oh. I see. So when you
- 7:58Speaker 1: learn something and you know something, you don't take ownership
- 8:02Speaker 1: of it. You allow other people to come into what
- 8:05Speaker 1: you know and believe and shake it loose from you.
- 8:09Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. You're not doing me
- 8:10Speaker 1: like that. Here's a deal. I have a gift that
- 8:13Speaker 1: was given to me from God. That is the gift
- 8:16Speaker 1: of comedy. That's what I've done. I've made the bulk
- 8:19Speaker 1: of my living on that skill set. Right there. That
- 8:22Speaker 1: are comedians who are supposedly friends of mine, who I've
- 8:26Speaker 1: worked with, who get around in huddles with one another
- 8:29Speaker 1: and they say, man, Steve really ain't funny. I don't
- 8:31Speaker 1: see what they'd be laughing at. He ain't funny to me.
- 8:34Speaker 1: He wasn't the funniest king to me. Excuse me, you're
- 8:38Speaker 1: irrelevant in this conversation because it regardless as to how
- 8:42Speaker 1: you feel about me. That are people think that I'm
- 8:45Speaker 1: knocked down kill over funny. But more importantly, I own
- 8:49Speaker 1: the gift that God gave to me. I take ownership
- 8:53Speaker 1: of his blessing. Because you don't think it's so, you
- 8:55Speaker 1: ain't taking that from me. Stop letting people steal your joy.
- 9:00Speaker 1: Stop letting people take what you're supposed to know. Look,
- 9:04Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a I'm a I'm a kind person
- 9:07Speaker 1: at heart. Man. You ain't nothing now, you said, I
- 9:09Speaker 1: here going. Man, I guess I ain't what you're tripping for.
- 9:12Speaker 1: You are a kind person, own that take ownership of it.
- 9:18Speaker 1: Stop letting things God has given you be taken away
- 9:22Speaker 1: from others. The devil's a cold player, and he got
- 9:25Speaker 1: cold players working for him, just shaking, just taking stuff
- 9:28Speaker 1: from you. You know, I'm a hard worker. I really
- 9:31Speaker 1: am intelligent. You stupid man. I thought I was a
- 9:35Speaker 1: hard worker. Man. They came in here and said I
- 9:37Speaker 1: was stupid. Man, I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
- 9:40Speaker 1: What excuse me? You're a very bright person. Hey, y'all
- 9:44Speaker 1: take ownership. When God gives you something, blesses you would
- 9:47Speaker 1: have gifted talent, a skill set, a mindset. Own it.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Don't let people come in here and take it from you. Man, Okay,
- 9:55Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have went that. You're listening to show,
- 10:02Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Right now, it's about to go down,
- 10:06Speaker 1: It's about to begin. It's a new day, new opportunity,
- 10:12Speaker 1: a new chance. However you want to look at it,
- 10:15Speaker 1: pick the one that applies to you. The best go
- 10:21Speaker 1: with that, start being grateful and let's get it on. Hey,
- 10:29Speaker 1: it is funny how certain words trigger songs in me.
- 10:35Speaker 1: I want to thank God for R and B because
- 10:37Speaker 1: I don't know why I would be without R and B. Look,
- 10:39Speaker 1: no disrespect to hip hop at all. It's turned out
- 10:43Speaker 1: to be one of the largest and greatest music genres
- 10:46Speaker 1: ever created. I was alive when it was created. I've
- 10:50Speaker 1: been here for a lot of change. But ain't nothing
- 10:54Speaker 1: know where greater than on B H. Unless you're talking
- 11:01Speaker 1: about spiritual and gospel music that has comforted you in
- 11:07Speaker 1: some really rough moment, I ain't talking about that. I'm
- 11:11Speaker 1: talking about secular music. Dog gone it, RD bet It's supreme,
- 11:18Speaker 1: ain't you Heaven? Metal, rock and roll, south rock, the
- 11:23Speaker 1: old soul, a dunk, contemporary, note and the beat, rhythm
- 11:31Speaker 1: and blue Lord ha mercy man, It's been everything to me.
- 11:37Speaker 1: Charley Strawberry calling for real mouth and South Junior board
- 11:41Speaker 1: in legendar everytime. What is on your mind? But just
- 11:46Speaker 1: stay right here, man, just right here, listen R and B.
- 11:50Speaker 1: What has it done for you in your whole life?
- 11:52Speaker 1: What has it not done? Be a quicker list? What
- 11:59Speaker 1: has it done for me that we were in here
- 12:02Speaker 1: all day justfore our show would be dedicated. I don't
- 12:08Speaker 1: care what situation you name, There is a song for it.
- 12:12Speaker 1: Name a situation, any kind of situation. Okay, okay, okay.
- 12:16Speaker 1: See your girl with somebody else? You see your girl
- 12:19Speaker 1: with somebody else, my friend if they're punched, dude, and
- 12:30Speaker 1: keep trying to tell me yeah or wait, he had
- 12:38Speaker 1: another one too? Uh? What is the one way here?
- 12:42Speaker 1: Doo doo doo doo? Oh man, we passed and try
- 12:51Speaker 1: to stare me down. Look at you and when I
- 12:57Speaker 1: looked at you, not looking at Junior, you pig ground.
- 13:04Speaker 1: I don't know who he is, but I think that
- 13:08Speaker 1: you do that. Gumm it? Who is he? And what
- 13:17Speaker 1: is a he? Do you singing? Harvey? Do do? Man?
- 13:24Speaker 1: Boy boy? If I could shout right now, all right, come,
- 13:30Speaker 1: we could do this all day. It ain't nothing you
- 13:32Speaker 1: can say. I don't know the song that go for
- 13:35Speaker 1: the situation? All right? How about this? Coming up? At
- 13:39Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, run that prank back
- 13:41Speaker 1: with the nephew. Right after this. You're listening to the
- 13:45Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now to start
- 13:48Speaker 1: your morning off with the nephew and run that prank back.
- 13:51Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nap? Me and your baby
- 13:55Speaker 1: getting married? Me and your baby getting married? No, mighty,
- 13:59Speaker 1: got a married? Whose wife? Is this you? So you communicate?
- 14:04Speaker 1: I'm letting you know. All right, let's go, man, your
- 14:08Speaker 1: baby getting mad? Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm
- 14:12Speaker 1: trying to reach mister. Yes, hey, mister, how you doing.
- 14:16Speaker 1: I'm trying. Let me let me make you I'm calling
- 14:18Speaker 1: the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, yo,
- 14:23Speaker 1: I got the right person. Hey, listen, well, I wanted
- 14:26Speaker 1: to do mister Richards's call and introduce myself to you
- 14:30Speaker 1: and let you know who I was. My name is Jeff, Jeff,
- 14:34Speaker 1: and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh you know, pretty
- 14:40Speaker 1: much like the lads, five or six months, and I
- 14:43Speaker 1: wanted to, um, let you know that I'm very very
- 14:46Speaker 1: interested in you. And I know this kind of crazy
- 14:49Speaker 1: for you to get a phone call for me when
- 14:51Speaker 1: I'm very interested in Crystal right now. And I wanted
- 14:54Speaker 1: to you know, I just wanted to do the man
- 14:57Speaker 1: thing and just reach out to your man and say
- 15:00Speaker 1: I'm really interested in in, uh in marrying your daughter
- 15:04Speaker 1: and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what what
- 15:08Speaker 1: what do you say? Your name again? My name is Jeff, Jeff. Okay,
- 15:13Speaker 1: Jeff Jeff. Listen. I'm very close with my daughter, and
- 15:17Speaker 1: my daughter has never ever mentioned you. I talked to
- 15:21Speaker 1: my daughter every day. Wow, I don't know what that's about.
- 15:24Speaker 1: What it's been like about five close to six months,
- 15:27Speaker 1: that me and Cristal being you know, going out, you know,
- 15:30Speaker 1: up here at the school. But what I wanted to
- 15:32Speaker 1: do is tell you that I really really really like
- 15:36Speaker 1: Crystal man. Uh, And I wanted to call and tell
- 15:40Speaker 1: you that, you know, I'm really really interested in Mary Crystal.
- 15:44Speaker 1: You know, I want, I really do want Cristal to
- 15:46Speaker 1: be my wife. Well, I again, I've never heard of
- 15:52Speaker 1: you before, and my daughter has never ever mentioned you.
- 15:56Speaker 1: My daughter isn't dating anybody right now. My daughter is
- 15:58Speaker 1: in grad school. I understand. And then and you know,
- 16:00Speaker 1: we you know, it's been you know, we've been you know,
- 16:03Speaker 1: a little back and forth or whatever. But you know,
- 16:05Speaker 1: the main thing is me and Christal really, you know,
- 16:08Speaker 1: we really we really do love each other. Mister, I
- 16:10Speaker 1: want to But if you love my daughter, she would
- 16:14Speaker 1: have told me that she was in love with someone.
- 16:17Speaker 1: Well you know what you know, And maybe it's a
- 16:19Speaker 1: situation where Christa is like a little maybe a little
- 16:22Speaker 1: uneasy about talking to you about it. You know what
- 16:24Speaker 1: I'm saying. My daughter can talk to me about anything.
- 16:26Speaker 1: We talk every day, right right, You're like you, I
- 16:29Speaker 1: talked to my daughter every day, your daughter? And how
- 16:32Speaker 1: old is your daughter? My daughter? Fifteen? Hold on momentute, man,
- 16:37Speaker 1: you say your daughter was fifteen? Right right? Right? Okay?
- 16:41Speaker 1: Well how old are you? I'm forty six, forty six,
- 16:46Speaker 1: you're forty six years old? You want to man, my
- 16:48Speaker 1: twenty five year old daughter. He let me say this
- 16:54Speaker 1: right here. Love ain't got no limit, man, And I
- 16:57Speaker 1: understand you know, I was a little shocked there first,
- 17:00Speaker 1: is about the age difference between us, but you get
- 17:03Speaker 1: you know what, man, I'm shock to me okay, and
- 17:06Speaker 1: I understand that. But what I'm trying to explain to you, man,
- 17:08Speaker 1: is that it comes a time man when you just
- 17:10Speaker 1: you just don't know what's gonna have. Man. Love just
- 17:13Speaker 1: love is love, man, And you've been locked up on
- 17:16Speaker 1: parole at the University on work releasing that my daughter. Yeah, man,
- 17:22Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna say this, man, Crystal is just a
- 17:26Speaker 1: beautiful person. Man, hold on, man, you calling me at
- 17:29Speaker 1: the Blue Daughter. Look, Man, I'm gonna work. I got
- 17:32Speaker 1: a lot of work on my damn desk, and you
- 17:34Speaker 1: calling me telling me you uh form a gentle bird
- 17:37Speaker 1: wants to marry my daughter, my twenty five year old daughter,
- 17:40Speaker 1: and you damn that fifty you damn it at my
- 17:42Speaker 1: age you want to marry my daughter. Man, I'm not
- 17:45Speaker 1: trying to talk to you, but well, I need I
- 17:47Speaker 1: need to talk to Crystal and get to the bottom
- 17:49Speaker 1: of this. That's what the hell I need to do. Hey,
- 17:51Speaker 1: And I understand that miss you was probably gonna I
- 17:54Speaker 1: want to talk to and I ain't got no problem
- 17:56Speaker 1: with it. What I'm trying to explain to you is
- 17:58Speaker 1: that man live ain't got no limit. Man, It's just
- 18:01Speaker 1: something that album Crystal Love Me, I love huh, and
- 18:04Speaker 1: it is what it is. I just wanted to try
- 18:06Speaker 1: to get your blessings on this. You can't get Crystal
- 18:10Speaker 1: Love still gonna marry my daughter. Now. My daughter's been
- 18:15Speaker 1: a private school. I love dad in life she was
- 18:17Speaker 1: I'm doing all four years of college and she's going
- 18:21Speaker 1: to grad school and you're gonna man my daughter. You're
- 18:24Speaker 1: working Miss I understand that what I'm what I'm trying
- 18:27Speaker 1: to explain to you that you know what, man, Sometimes
- 18:29Speaker 1: I love is right the second time around? You understand
- 18:32Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What the hell you mean the second time?
- 18:34Speaker 1: I got kids already? What I'm trying to say. It
- 18:37Speaker 1: didn't work out with me on the first time. What
- 18:40Speaker 1: I wanted to do, Man, it just called you and
- 18:42Speaker 1: solidified the culinary experience. They got to do it, dude,
- 18:48Speaker 1: But the helln't you talking about it? Listen? Look, look, look, look,
- 18:52Speaker 1: I got to talk to my daughter. I'm gonna call
- 18:53Speaker 1: Crystal and I'm gonna find out what the hell is
- 18:56Speaker 1: going on, because look, man, I'm not even trying to
- 18:58Speaker 1: have this conversation with you and I ask parents. I
- 19:01Speaker 1: understand all that, I understand what you're saying. What I
- 19:04Speaker 1: want to say to you, is this right here? Crystal
- 19:06Speaker 1: is twenty five. Even if you don't agree with this here,
- 19:10Speaker 1: we're gonna eat Lowe and make sure that we get
- 19:13Speaker 1: look to him. You ain't doing a thing with my
- 19:17Speaker 1: daughter unless it's mine you, ok here, man, you ain't
- 19:21Speaker 1: doing I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't
- 19:26Speaker 1: doing I'm gonna call my daughter final horn. You really
- 19:29Speaker 1: are lost your mind. You think your old jail bird
- 19:34Speaker 1: is gonna be marry and my daughter, My daughter has
- 19:36Speaker 1: not a future. He ain't got the head is wrong
- 19:39Speaker 1: with jil rust. I'm not gonna sit and go back
- 19:42Speaker 1: and forth. But you miss me and Crystal getting married.
- 19:45Speaker 1: That will not and under any circumstances, not what you think.
- 19:49Speaker 1: The circumstances are me and Crystal getting married. That's it.
- 19:53Speaker 1: Not the love man. I don't know what the hell
- 19:55Speaker 1: you think you are. It's wrong with you about what
- 19:58Speaker 1: it's gotta be. I got one more thing I need
- 20:00Speaker 1: to say, and then me and Crystal just gonna come
- 20:02Speaker 1: over there and dry down here and tell you exactly
- 20:05Speaker 1: what's going on in our life right now. You got
- 20:09Speaker 1: to say to me, are you listening to me? Yes?
- 20:12Speaker 1: To me? I got to say this. This is nephew
- 20:16Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
- 20:20Speaker 1: pranked by your daughter, Crystal and her boyfriend. Ain't I'm
- 20:31Speaker 1: outside my job. Let people looking at me. I'm crazy.
- 20:38Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, what is the baddest and I
- 20:41Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land, The Sea
- 20:46Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Shown all right, thinking Nephew coming up next.
- 20:54Speaker 1: Entertainment news right after this, you're listening Steve Morning Show
- 21:00Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,
- 21:03Speaker 1: Judge Matthison, the People's Court shows get canceled. Plus in
- 21:07Speaker 1: other entertainment news, I know a woman backtracks comments accusing
- 21:12Speaker 1: Chris Brown of racism at a London nightclub. And we're
- 21:15Speaker 1: going to talk about the highlights from the NBA All
- 21:17Speaker 1: Star Weekend. We'll talk about all of these stories at
- 21:20Speaker 1: the top of the hour, but right now it is
- 21:23Speaker 1: time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey
- 21:28Speaker 1: in the building. This one's from Ali in mid Lothian.
- 21:32Speaker 1: Ali says, I'm thirty four and married, but I have
- 21:35Speaker 1: cheated on my husband a couple of times. Every time
- 21:38Speaker 1: he has left town for a boys trip. I slept
- 21:41Speaker 1: with my co worker. I don't think he cares if
- 21:43Speaker 1: I'm cheating or not, and that makes me sad. Does
- 21:45Speaker 1: that mean he's cheating too? Wait a minute, where I
- 21:50Speaker 1: don't understand the purpose? What don't you understand when yo
- 21:54Speaker 1: man go out on the boys every time he go,
- 21:57Speaker 1: you cheat with a co worker? Yeah, you don't think
- 22:01Speaker 1: your man care? Does that mean he's cheating too, right. No, no,
- 22:05Speaker 1: let's stay right there. Now, let's stay right here. Your
- 22:08Speaker 1: ass is cheating and you guilty. And see that's what
- 22:12Speaker 1: guilt does. Guilts make you think of stuff that ain't
- 22:16Speaker 1: got nothing to do with nothing. The fact of the
- 22:18Speaker 1: matter is you cheat on your husband. Let's just stay
- 22:21Speaker 1: right there. He didn't write in and he didn't admit
- 22:24Speaker 1: that you didn't. Yeah, how stupid is that? You damn mout.
- 22:32Speaker 1: Obviously you are not good at this up. But she
- 22:38Speaker 1: wants him to care. Now he don't care. Now, I
- 22:42Speaker 1: know you want me to say, well, what you think
- 22:44Speaker 1: he's doing on the boys trip, that's what you want
- 22:46Speaker 1: me to say. But no, no, no, no, no, I'm
- 22:48Speaker 1: not gonna release you. You cheat on your husband every
- 22:52Speaker 1: time he goes on the boys trip. That's horrible. And
- 22:56Speaker 1: you're sitting up. You don't think he cares because he
- 22:59Speaker 1: don't know. You are good at covering it, now, women
- 23:01Speaker 1: are good at cover Yeah, so he don't know. All right,
- 23:05Speaker 1: moving on to you don't stop these boys Sandra and
- 23:13Speaker 1: Nashville writes, My nineteen year old babysitter keeps my five
- 23:16Speaker 1: year old three nights a week while at work. Yesterday,
- 23:20Speaker 1: my child had two dollars smushed together and they were naked.
- 23:23Speaker 1: She said. The babysitter does that with the man. She said,
- 23:27Speaker 1: people on TV do it too. I know my child
- 23:30Speaker 1: is very grown. So should I ignore it or talk
- 23:33Speaker 1: to the babysitter? Baby? It's somebody coming through that? What
- 23:40Speaker 1: the baby sit over there at your house at night?
- 23:42Speaker 1: You know what's up? A little company coming through that.
- 23:47Speaker 1: Your baby then saw it, and they do it on
- 23:49Speaker 1: TV too, they and they're watching poor old the baby sleep,
- 23:52Speaker 1: They watching and doing the scenes. And then I know
- 24:00Speaker 1: my baby grown? Why is your baby that grown at five? Right? Right?
- 24:06Speaker 1: You're stupid as a parent if that's your I know
- 24:09Speaker 1: my baby grown? Why is she that grown at five? Yeah?
- 24:13Speaker 1: Where's the innocence? Yeah? Yeah, you didn't mash them dogs together? Yeah,
- 24:19Speaker 1: shut up to Yeah, this is no. So should she
- 24:22Speaker 1: ignore it? Is what she's asking Steve should Yeah, no,
- 24:25Speaker 1: you don't ignore it? Now you got to talk to
- 24:29Speaker 1: the babysitter. What you're writing us for? Yeah? Oh yeah,
- 24:35Speaker 1: come on come yeah all right, we're moving camera set
- 24:41Speaker 1: up in there and don't tell nobody. Yeah, all right.
- 24:45Speaker 1: Moving on to Daphnie and Kalamazoo. Daphanie says, ten years ago,
- 24:49Speaker 1: I had a fling with an old friend before he
- 24:51Speaker 1: got married. I ran into him last week and he
- 24:53Speaker 1: said his marriage is terrible and they don't have sex.
- 24:56Speaker 1: He said, it's fate that we saw each other and
- 24:59Speaker 1: he wants to keep in touch. What if it is fate,
- 25:01Speaker 1: does he deserve some reunion cookie or should I run little? Right?
- 25:10Speaker 1: Every everybody say that each other. Everybody say that their
- 25:18Speaker 1: marriage is bad, and then we ain't having sex, okay,
- 25:23Speaker 1: and he just so having to run up into you
- 25:25Speaker 1: and share the information with you. Stop. Yeah, I bet
- 25:34Speaker 1: when he's saying that line, I bet it sounds so
- 25:36Speaker 1: secure and believable because he just say it before. He
- 25:38Speaker 1: didn't practice like, oh man, I can't believe look at you. Wow.
- 25:45Speaker 1: With everything that's going on in my life right now,
- 25:49Speaker 1: I would just run up into you. You know, I
- 25:52Speaker 1: never really stopped thinking about you. It just we just
- 25:55Speaker 1: run through my mind constantly. I just can't. I can't
- 25:58Speaker 1: even get you out of my mind. You know, I'm
- 26:00Speaker 1: going through so many things in my marriage. Man, my
- 26:02Speaker 1: girl tripping. Man, we ain't even we ain't even really mad.
- 26:07Speaker 1: We just rummates, you know, We're just going through the
- 26:09Speaker 1: motions right now. Crazy man, It's just crazy. I know,
- 26:14Speaker 1: I never thought I'd be in something like this. That's it.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I just I just feel so dark. Nailed the baby,
- 26:27Speaker 1: nailed it Cookie? There you right, I was very accurate.
- 26:39Speaker 1: A yield it grow the ass man? Was it? Yeah?
- 26:50Speaker 1: All right? Moving on last one, Steve Trinity in Brooklyn says,
- 26:55Speaker 1: I'm dating a man that works hard every day, but
- 26:58Speaker 1: he's super clean and all always smells good until he
- 27:01Speaker 1: gets overly excited in the bedroom. We start up fine,
- 27:05Speaker 1: and as we continue he gets a body order that's
- 27:08Speaker 1: very offensive. Um, I'm too embarrassed to talk to him
- 27:11Speaker 1: about it. How do I handle this? Is funk? A
- 27:15Speaker 1: deal breaker? Is the funk a deal breaker? Well? See
- 27:17Speaker 1: that's called musk? What is that? When a wild animal
- 27:21Speaker 1: comes into musk? Musk? You know it just something's happened.
- 27:28Speaker 1: He has off. Oh you're actually you don't notice, but
- 27:32Speaker 1: you're dating a cave man and you know Homeo sapiust
- 27:39Speaker 1: of Milano. Oh magnum, but Neandrethal. Oh that's the name
- 27:45Speaker 1: for him. And that's going to continue to happen. But
- 27:49Speaker 1: he's clean, you know, he goes into a real clean
- 27:52Speaker 1: isself what you might have to do is fow y'all
- 27:55Speaker 1: half that is rubbed him down in tussing Queen the
- 28:03Speaker 1: older and the still rub him that put it on
- 28:05Speaker 1: his whole body like a lotion. That way it can
- 28:08Speaker 1: trap some of it in. You might have to have
- 28:10Speaker 1: that talk with it. Yeah, what you say to him, though, Steve,
- 28:16Speaker 1: she has to talk. Baby listened to me. I love you.
- 28:24Speaker 1: You're very, very clean, but you know when you get excited,
- 28:27Speaker 1: you do know you stink. Just come right on out
- 28:31Speaker 1: with it. I cannot be the first person to tell
- 28:34Speaker 1: you this, which probably speaks volumes as to why you
- 28:40Speaker 1: were even on the market and available anyway, because you've
- 28:45Speaker 1: obviously been put out of several people's houses that you
- 28:48Speaker 1: don't want it. If you don't want this to be
- 28:50Speaker 1: the twelfth house you've been put out of, we're going
- 28:53Speaker 1: to have to dip you in Thompson's waterproof Ceila or
- 28:59Speaker 1: we're done. We can't have you leaking on me. Coming
- 29:03Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, entertainment news for you, right, Josh,
- 29:08Speaker 1: maybe y'all should just have sex in shower. You're listening
- 29:12Speaker 1: to show. Well, Happy Morty grod day today? Is that Tuesday?
- 29:20Speaker 1: Everyone happy, mighty fry. Yes that Tuesday Today, New Orleans, Mobile, Galveston, Texas.
- 29:28Speaker 1: Everywhere wherever they tell celebrate Morty Gray happy, Yes, thank you.
- 29:34Speaker 1: They kind of Modey grod in Columbus, Ohio really really yeah.
- 29:39Speaker 1: School is beyond weeks even clothes. I don't even know
- 29:46Speaker 1: why they have to work, all right, parade people just driving, run,
- 30:03Speaker 1: heading bees, hanging on and Calopus, Ohio. That's it. And
- 30:09Speaker 1: they only do it on the weekend. They just had
- 30:11Speaker 1: it just passed weekend. I'm telling you, yoh okay, all right. Well.
- 30:16Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, Judge Mathis and the People's Court
- 30:20Speaker 1: Show has been canceled after twenty years on the air.
- 30:25Speaker 1: Yeah cold, I know, I love us some judgment this
- 30:28Speaker 1: show man, yeah Corney Yahoo dot com. Judge Mathis premiered
- 30:33Speaker 1: back in nineteen ninety nine. It's Judge Greg Mathis weighed
- 30:36Speaker 1: in on a variety of legal matters ranging from financial
- 30:40Speaker 1: dispute to emotional distress claims. Judge Mathis, who previously presided
- 30:45Speaker 1: as a judge in Michigan's thirty sixth District Court, also
- 30:48Speaker 1: currently holds the title as the longest running black mail
- 30:52Speaker 1: host of a Courtroom television series and they're taking them
- 30:57Speaker 1: off a lot of years ago. Yeah, it is a blessing. Yes,
- 31:02Speaker 1: we're gonna keep that record too. Yeah, that record is head. Yeah,
- 31:06Speaker 1: I won't be breaking that record. That's safe. Matth of
- 31:13Speaker 1: you decame Yeah, Kerr and Gregory. Yeah. Also another entertainment news,
- 31:22Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Weekend was this past weekend. UH
- 31:26Speaker 1: Team Giannis one Sunday's game, raising two hundred and fifty
- 31:29Speaker 1: thousand dollars for the charity raised, the Future Adoption Program.
- 31:34Speaker 1: Carla okay So tell us about the halftime show, Well,
- 31:38Speaker 1: halftime Sunday's game. It was I heard people complaining about
- 31:42Speaker 1: what happened. I didn't see the halftime. The halftime show
- 31:46Speaker 1: was about afrobeats. It was about Nigeria and the NBA
- 31:51Speaker 1: has celebrated Africa's global contributions to the world. So some
- 31:57Speaker 1: a lot of their players from Africa player with the
- 32:00Speaker 1: Toronto Raptors as well, so they celebrated with the players
- 32:04Speaker 1: and the performers. Burn A Boy is Big, Burna Boy, Tims,
- 32:08Speaker 1: all of these Nigerian born artists, but they are worldwide superstars.
- 32:15Speaker 1: They performed a halftime so I thought that was big
- 32:17Speaker 1: of the NBA during Black History Month. It was really
- 32:21Speaker 1: really huge. And Tim's she is that Girl is Fire.
- 32:31Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we play that song right here in the
- 32:35Speaker 1: Steam Harvey Morning Show. But we have to give a
- 32:38Speaker 1: shout out to Tim's and she wrote lift me Up.
- 32:43Speaker 1: That girl is a Beast. So congratulations and Afro beats
- 32:47Speaker 1: the country and Nigerian represented globally at the NBA All
- 32:52Speaker 1: Star Weekend halftime performance. Happy Black History Month. Yea yeah,
- 32:57Speaker 1: try to get it in. It was yeah, all right,
- 33:02Speaker 1: thank you, carlos So. In other entertainment news, a group
- 33:04Speaker 1: of British women have accused Chris singer Chris Brown and
- 33:08Speaker 1: his crew of discriminating and colorism against them. According to
- 33:12Speaker 1: baller Alert, these women claimed that Chris was hosting a
- 33:15Speaker 1: VIP party in London and despite being on the VIP
- 33:18Speaker 1: guest list, the women weren't allowed in while thousands of
- 33:22Speaker 1: white girls were hand picked to let in. Chris Brown
- 33:26Speaker 1: responded and posted a video on his ig story with
- 33:28Speaker 1: the caption stop it, I have black queens all around me.
- 33:32Speaker 1: Since then, the women have backtracked their statements of accusing
- 33:37Speaker 1: Chris Brown of colorism. Okay, once so you just say
- 33:41Speaker 1: this and then you're you can just take it away.
- 33:43Speaker 1: What what is going on? Your ragged ass didn't get
- 33:47Speaker 1: into VIP party? Now you're mad. Chris Brown has always
- 33:53Speaker 1: had bad look well on that Instagram story where he
- 33:59Speaker 1: says style, he showed him showed himself at the party
- 34:04Speaker 1: with sisters around here. So that's why he said, stop it,
- 34:07Speaker 1: you reach it black dogs? He always and you know what, man,
- 34:12Speaker 1: people make me sick. Man. But see, here's the deal.
- 34:18Speaker 1: These people, whether it's something like innuendo, room up or
- 34:24Speaker 1: even go to court, it's something. That's why they do
- 34:30Speaker 1: it because there's no there's no consequences for doing it.
- 34:33Speaker 1: Now you get to make this crazy statement about this man,
- 34:37Speaker 1: and now when it ain't true, you get to just
- 34:39Speaker 1: going about your bids. Yeah, that's why, man, I don't
- 34:44Speaker 1: jump on these band wagons every time you see a
- 34:47Speaker 1: man get accused or something. I don't jump on that
- 34:49Speaker 1: band wagon, man, because I see too many times, and
- 34:53Speaker 1: I see it more than the average person, because I'm
- 34:56Speaker 1: privy to background information from a lot of famous men
- 35:00Speaker 1: who gonn Man, can you believe this man? Yeah? And
- 35:04Speaker 1: we we all be talking about man, that's crazy. Now
- 35:08Speaker 1: when when it when it get proven that ain't the case.
- 35:11Speaker 1: The person who made the accusation, they get the gonna
- 35:13Speaker 1: skip to the loop my dollar. Oh it didn't work.
- 35:15Speaker 1: They busted me, all right, but this man damage is done.
- 35:19Speaker 1: Bru he he out of lawyer fees. He didn't had
- 35:24Speaker 1: to get private detectives, he didn't try to do everything
- 35:27Speaker 1: to clear his name. All this here and then you go,
- 35:29Speaker 1: well they busted me. I'm out, o man, it's gotta
- 35:33Speaker 1: be Yeah. She was saying, well, it was his people,
- 35:36Speaker 1: but you used when you drop his name there, like
- 35:39Speaker 1: you said, the damnage is done. It's done because they
- 35:42Speaker 1: don't look. People don't know his people, but they know
- 35:44Speaker 1: him him outside again, all right, coming up at twenty
- 35:49Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, speaking of All Star Weekend, there
- 35:52Speaker 1: was a huge surprise over this weekend. We'll talk about
- 35:57Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, Steve Show. Well, Junior,
- 36:03Speaker 1: we know you'll talk more about this next hour, but
- 36:06Speaker 1: still trending. Mac McClung won the Slam Dunk Contest during
- 36:10Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Weekend Slam Dunk Contest. What do
- 36:13Speaker 1: you guys think? And who is Matt McClung. Do you guys,
- 36:17Speaker 1: did you guys know him before he didn't know. We
- 36:20Speaker 1: know he is now. Yeah, he jumped over a man
- 36:25Speaker 1: with a baby on his neck. I ain't m seeing
- 36:28Speaker 1: whoa let's getting crazy. Yeah, it's good. Did you see it, Steve?
- 36:37Speaker 1: You didn't see it? Oh? Okay at all? You know, No,
- 36:43Speaker 1: it stopped being even slightly competitive. It stopped that years ago.
- 36:49Speaker 1: It's always been kind of loose, but you know, at
- 36:52Speaker 1: least they would play to try to some stops. Now
- 36:55Speaker 1: it's not even it's not even that. It's just run down, raised,
- 37:01Speaker 1: one down, dump and I don't want to see that,
- 37:05Speaker 1: you know. So in the past All Star Game it
- 37:10Speaker 1: had a little defense. It was a little more competitive
- 37:13Speaker 1: than the show of one, twelve, one twenty five, you
- 37:17Speaker 1: know something. So yeah, you know, like a regular score game,
- 37:22Speaker 1: slightly elevated. Okay, yeah, like like now that you know,
- 37:26Speaker 1: Jason Tatum had fifty five, which was good, but I
- 37:29Speaker 1: was just there was nothing. They're just shooting. I don't
- 37:32Speaker 1: like that part of it. You know, it's cool to have.
- 37:35Speaker 1: It's great for the sport. All the half, though, I
- 37:38Speaker 1: think they should continue with the three point the dunk
- 37:40Speaker 1: and all like that. I think it's just not not
- 37:43Speaker 1: the basketball. I don't watch the Pro Bowl either. The
- 37:47Speaker 1: NFL game it was flagged this year, yeah, which even worse.
- 37:53Speaker 1: But Jun you saw it, you saw the star. Yeah
- 37:56Speaker 1: you think some of it. I mean, I'm like, well, man,
- 37:58Speaker 1: it's just not as competitive no more. I mean, come on,
- 38:01Speaker 1: s one hundred eighty photo one sitting the five. What
- 38:03Speaker 1: do we do? No defense at all like this? I
- 38:07Speaker 1: mean we come on now, damn near two hundred points
- 38:11Speaker 1: clung man, you that I'm talking about. They just yeah,
- 38:16Speaker 1: and they just shooting. They ain't missing nothing. Ain't nobody
- 38:19Speaker 1: guarding you, right right, don He used to be points
- 38:23Speaker 1: in times, it used to be really competitive. And they
- 38:25Speaker 1: think they should go back to the East versus the
- 38:27Speaker 1: West because that that that picking players and all that. No, no,
- 38:31Speaker 1: the both competitive that way. But man, now, I'm sorry,
- 38:33Speaker 1: everybody get you. I got the stoke actually in the
- 38:35Speaker 1: damn game. Oh you were there, you play, I'm put
- 38:38Speaker 1: I put up two points my damn self, and then
- 38:40Speaker 1: then everybody stepped up. But doesn't make you look at
- 38:43Speaker 1: Matt McClung differently. How about him? Well, your man, McClung, Man,
- 38:47Speaker 1: he's just man. He won outright, that brother, man. He
- 38:50Speaker 1: outright one that he did stuff. I saw that boy
- 38:56Speaker 1: and he able six too. Yeah that makes it work.
- 39:01Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well you deserve it. Yeah yeah, he wanted
- 39:07Speaker 1: out right. There was nobody close. All right, we'll coming
- 39:10Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour. We're gonna
- 39:13Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
- 39:18Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, it is time now to check
- 39:22Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail. And if you would like to leave a
- 39:25Speaker 1: message for Steve, all you have to do is call
- 39:27Speaker 1: him eight seven seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven
- 39:30Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve, we might just play your message on
- 39:32Speaker 1: the air. Steve. You ready, Yeah, all right, let's go.
- 39:37Speaker 1: This is from a guy that needs some relationship advice. Steve. Hey, Steve,
- 39:41Speaker 1: I just went through a hard breakup of six years.
- 39:45Speaker 1: There's my fault for my mistakes. She can't back all
- 39:48Speaker 1: the pass. I need help to try to win her
- 39:51Speaker 1: back and to bring her back in my life. I
- 39:54Speaker 1: know I messed up in the past, but and I
- 39:57Speaker 1: changed and I'm she decided to leave. I just need
- 40:01Speaker 1: to know I need advice on how to get her back.
- 40:04Speaker 1: Thank you, and I hope you consider this well, you know, brother,
- 40:08Speaker 1: you're in trouble and I could feel it. But listen
- 40:11Speaker 1: to me. It's hard for me to give your advice
- 40:14Speaker 1: on how to get up back. And I don't know
- 40:16Speaker 1: what you did, but now you said some some some
- 40:20Speaker 1: keywords in that that I've heard millions of me and say,
- 40:24Speaker 1: I made it was my fault. I made some mistakes
- 40:28Speaker 1: in the past. She just won't let it go. I'm
- 40:33Speaker 1: a change man. All these things are classic lines when
- 40:39Speaker 1: you blow something that was really good for you and
- 40:43Speaker 1: good to you, and you went off and did something
- 40:46Speaker 1: else that made her feel devalue. So now once you
- 40:51Speaker 1: devalue a woman, make her feel like she's not the
- 40:55Speaker 1: premium object of your life that she thought she was,
- 41:01Speaker 1: it's hard to get that back. And then obviously you've
- 41:04Speaker 1: lost her trust because now she don't believe that you've changed.
- 41:09Speaker 1: Obviously there's things in the past that she won't let
- 41:12Speaker 1: god go. Up you think because you've apologized that she
- 41:17Speaker 1: should just let it go because you said I'm sorry
- 41:19Speaker 1: everywhere you know. Well, brother, I don't know if she's
- 41:22Speaker 1: going to accept the apology. I don't know if she's
- 41:24Speaker 1: moved on or not. I don't know because I don't
- 41:26Speaker 1: know the severity of the crime, but this may be
- 41:30Speaker 1: an opportunity for you to get yourself together because we've
- 41:35Speaker 1: all had to deal with this one brother, all of us.
- 41:39Speaker 1: Or we didn't all blue one. Oh, we didn't all
- 41:42Speaker 1: messed up all all? Hey, man, some sometimes it's time
- 41:47Speaker 1: to move on, now, you know. And you didn't you
- 41:51Speaker 1: know man, you didn't love stories? And how could I
- 41:55Speaker 1: let when I new love? There's so many songs. B Yeah,
- 42:10Speaker 1: all right, um man, this one Steve from a lady
- 42:13Speaker 1: who would like to make a No, we have to
- 42:17Speaker 1: get this call in with his grandma. Yes we have
- 42:21Speaker 1: to grandma. Yes, yes, we have to Steve. I love
- 42:27Speaker 1: your show. But one thing that really gets me going
- 42:31Speaker 1: is when you say their selves. There is no such
- 42:35Speaker 1: word as their selves. It's themselves. Please correct it. I
- 42:40Speaker 1: would appreciate it. Love you bye bye hey. First of
- 42:45Speaker 1: all their sales, they sell. That's what I say. I
- 42:51Speaker 1: ain't never say they say. And even if I did,
- 42:54Speaker 1: I like that one too, But it's they sell, they sell.
- 42:59Speaker 1: Don't say myself I self. Sometimes I say I self,
- 43:04Speaker 1: I myself and not You know, lady, I don't really care.
- 43:11Speaker 1: You are very important wasn't important to who you don't
- 43:19Speaker 1: like the self? What a look at him? I've been
- 43:26Speaker 1: to stop taking knees him, I've been to stop taking
- 43:30Speaker 1: knees your call, If that's all y'all fitting the walk
- 43:34Speaker 1: off for me? No, No, whis the last time? Wh's
- 43:42Speaker 1: the last time you had a chance to talk to
- 43:45Speaker 1: a bonafid celebrity? Anyway? When WHI never hump now for now,
- 43:54Speaker 1: vollocate all the rest of that. Thank you, ma'am. I
- 44:01Speaker 1: so appreciate this call from you coming up next to yourself.
- 44:06Speaker 1: Don't call here no more frank phone call for it
- 44:10Speaker 1: today from the nephew coming up right after this. You're
- 44:15Speaker 1: listening to Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top
- 44:21Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my
- 44:23Speaker 1: strawberry letter for it today and the subject is I'm
- 44:26Speaker 1: not leaving and she's not staying. Okay, we'll get into
- 44:30Speaker 1: that in just a few but right now it is
- 44:33Speaker 1: time for the nephew and today's frank phone call. What
- 44:36Speaker 1: you got for us, nest Well, I feel I feel
- 44:40Speaker 1: like having some happy ending. That's what I feel like,
- 44:43Speaker 1: happy ending? What so the title of this is happy ending? Yeah,
- 44:51Speaker 1: here we go come on keeping Hello Grapian shoot speaking.
- 44:56Speaker 1: How may I help you? Yeah, I'm trying to come
- 44:58Speaker 1: in and get some u some therapy done. I was
- 45:01Speaker 1: in an accident at my job. You know, I got
- 45:03Speaker 1: injured like a week and a half ago. I ain't
- 45:05Speaker 1: been able to go back to work for my back
- 45:07Speaker 1: and my league they say, you know, I haven't broke
- 45:09Speaker 1: any bones in none, but it's you know, it's real
- 45:11Speaker 1: soul or real stealth and hard to get out of bed.
- 45:14Speaker 1: So I wanted to see you know what it takes
- 45:16Speaker 1: to get a therapist and get start getting some type
- 45:19Speaker 1: of treatment. Okay, Well, sir, what we typically do is
- 45:22Speaker 1: we ask for our patients to come in, you know,
- 45:25Speaker 1: check out our facility and so we can also accept
- 45:28Speaker 1: you you know, see where the damage is, the majority
- 45:31Speaker 1: of it, and you know, then get you to a therapist.
- 45:33Speaker 1: So if you would like to come in, we can
- 45:35Speaker 1: definitely do that for you. Okay. Do you know what
- 45:38Speaker 1: the therapists actually do when they do in the treatment? Well,
- 45:40Speaker 1: if you come in, sir, we can definitely direct you
- 45:43Speaker 1: to any of our three therapists that we have on
- 45:46Speaker 1: site right now, but each one specializes in a particular field.
- 45:52Speaker 1: So it's more beneficial for you if you come in
- 45:55Speaker 1: and then we can assess you and then direct you
- 45:56Speaker 1: to that particular therapist. So okay, okay, So you said,
- 46:00Speaker 1: how many of y'all do y'all have? We have three.
- 46:02Speaker 1: There's Marty, Brenda and Cecilia here. Okay. The person that
- 46:07Speaker 1: referred me to y'all told me that Cecilia was the
- 46:10Speaker 1: one that that had worked up. Is there a way
- 46:12Speaker 1: I could talk to cecil you Typically, we normally ask
- 46:16Speaker 1: our patience to come in. Then let me see if
- 46:18Speaker 1: she's available right now. I know earlier she was was
- 46:20Speaker 1: a patient, so let me just check really quick. I mean,
- 46:23Speaker 1: if she is available, then I can I can transfer you. Okay, okay, okay,
- 46:27Speaker 1: I just hold on, okay, hold on Hi. This is Cecilia. Yeah,
- 46:34Speaker 1: Miss Cecilia trying to come up there and get some
- 46:36Speaker 1: therapy done. I heard my back and my leg at work.
- 46:39Speaker 1: I mean they are they already told me was nothing broken, nothing,
- 46:41Speaker 1: But I wanted to see what exactly do y'all do
- 46:44Speaker 1: is for as physical therapy? You know, what exactly will
- 46:47Speaker 1: I be doing? Well? When you come in, we'll do
- 46:50Speaker 1: a consultation and you know, will masfage you and take
- 46:55Speaker 1: X rays and put you in a whirlpool tub, and
- 46:59Speaker 1: there are several different things that we could do for you. Okay,
- 47:02Speaker 1: is it a certain timeline? I mean, like, how long
- 47:05Speaker 1: would it take before I can get back to work,
- 47:07Speaker 1: because you know, I've been off for about a week
- 47:09Speaker 1: nine I'm trying to get back within the next couple
- 47:11Speaker 1: of weeks. But it's taking me, like, you know, at
- 47:14Speaker 1: least thirty minutes to get out of bed because of
- 47:16Speaker 1: my back in my leg. Oh wow, Well you need
- 47:19Speaker 1: to come in as soon as possible because that's something
- 47:21Speaker 1: like that's pretty bad. Okay, Well, let me ask you
- 47:24Speaker 1: this hill. After people get through doing the therapy, do
- 47:28Speaker 1: y'all have happy endings? Happy endings? What do you mean
- 47:32Speaker 1: by happy endings? How happy end is? Like, you know,
- 47:34Speaker 1: when therapy is over with, you know, do would you yourself?
- 47:38Speaker 1: You know, would you do happy endings at the end? Okay,
- 47:40Speaker 1: I'm still not understanding what do you mean by happy endings?
- 47:44Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Okay, say like if I
- 47:46Speaker 1: come over then and go through a session or whatever
- 47:49Speaker 1: for about an hour. When we get through, you know,
- 47:51Speaker 1: will you kind of like you know, close the dough
- 47:54Speaker 1: and and you know, you know, do happy endings, you know,
- 47:58Speaker 1: make me feel good? Okay, Um, close the door. I'm
- 48:05Speaker 1: still not quite understanding what you mean by happy ending, sir. Okay.
- 48:10Speaker 1: What I'm trying to say is like, when we get
- 48:12Speaker 1: through with the procedure, uh, you know, make me feel
- 48:15Speaker 1: good in a in a nice uh you know sexual way.
- 48:18Speaker 1: You know, happy endings. When Judy sent you back to me,
- 48:24Speaker 1: what are we talking about with this happy ending thing?
- 48:26Speaker 1: Because I don't, I don't. I didn't ask something hum
- 48:28Speaker 1: about the happy ending? Is that that right there just
- 48:30Speaker 1: gonna be between me and you? We'll see. I don't.
- 48:32Speaker 1: I don't play that. I don't know. This is a
- 48:34Speaker 1: place of business. We're professional here. We do therapy for
- 48:39Speaker 1: people who are seriously being hurt. This is not the
- 48:43Speaker 1: nearest bar. What's talking about happy endings after we finish
- 48:48Speaker 1: with that? What's not a place? Do you think this is? Well?
- 48:51Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's I know it's therapy, But
- 48:52Speaker 1: I mean, if people going through that much pain at
- 48:55Speaker 1: least have some type of happy endings, don't you think well,
- 48:58Speaker 1: I think you might see just your significant other. Okay,
- 49:02Speaker 1: so you wouldn't be up for doing a happy ending
- 49:04Speaker 1: for hell? No, I ain't interested in the man? What
- 49:08Speaker 1: kind of this you call about talking about? You heard? Hell?
- 49:12Speaker 1: Have you heard? You shouldn't be talking about fending? You're
- 49:15Speaker 1: talking about it? Okay? Hold on, I mean you're not
- 49:17Speaker 1: talking to me professionally. Well you coming at me with
- 49:20Speaker 1: this happy ending ain't professionally at all either. What kind
- 49:23Speaker 1: of place you think we're running over here? Okay? Hold on,
- 49:26Speaker 1: I don't referred to you. I'm thinking you know the
- 49:29Speaker 1: guy telling me? You know you're gonna take kevimy? What
- 49:32Speaker 1: God told you like this? I'm sorry, God, I told
- 49:36Speaker 1: you something like this. Look, let you know what that's
- 49:38Speaker 1: not even going there because I don't even want to
- 49:40Speaker 1: bring him any of this? Can you satisfy me out
- 49:43Speaker 1: to each there? I'm gonna tip you a little bit too, man?
- 49:48Speaker 1: Have you lost your everlasting marble mind? Are you gone crazy? Julie, Julie?
- 49:54Speaker 1: Who in the hell is this on the phone that
- 49:57Speaker 1: you didn't sit through me thinking this is an happy
- 50:00Speaker 1: ending place? Who is this? Missus Cilia? She don't she
- 50:03Speaker 1: don't know nothing about the happy ending part. It don't
- 50:06Speaker 1: matter you. You you're the receptionist. You know what you
- 50:09Speaker 1: on the borderline losing your job, because this is hello,
- 50:14Speaker 1: missus Cilia. Can I just tell you who who referred me?
- 50:17Speaker 1: Who who who? And told you that I have happy
- 50:21Speaker 1: injuries for anybody? Because person I have happy juries for
- 50:25Speaker 1: it is my husband. Who Who is it, missus Cilia?
- 50:29Speaker 1: Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvin Morning Show, Your girlfriend
- 50:34Speaker 1: Karen got me the prank phone call you y'all, y'all
- 50:41Speaker 1: in here getting me read. I'm about to find my reptionist.
- 50:44Speaker 1: I got folks in the libbists back out have lost
- 50:48Speaker 1: my called me on my job. I'm a kick cuts
- 50:58Speaker 1: just don't make no sense, missus silius. She told me,
- 51:01Speaker 1: she said, my girlfriend Patience is short day day. Oh
- 51:08Speaker 1: it's own. She gonna need her. That's all right. I
- 51:10Speaker 1: got something for her. Oh you got some happy I
- 51:15Speaker 1: got some happy dues for her. You just wait till
- 51:21Speaker 1: you gotta tell me this baby. What is the baddest
- 51:24Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,
- 51:27Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Nephew crazy. Somebody makes somebody
- 51:36Speaker 1: happy today, y'all makes somebody happen. Okay, please please go
- 51:43Speaker 1: make somebody happy today. You two, You two can do
- 51:47Speaker 1: can be a something positive in somebody's life. Let's just
- 51:50Speaker 1: make somebody happy today. Quiet all right, all right, listen Tommy,
- 51:58Speaker 1: because you do stuff like this, we have a phone
- 52:00Speaker 1: call for you, sir. Check it out. I don't do
- 52:03Speaker 1: call files. Who is Steve Ain't Company. This is Devil
- 52:06Speaker 1: from Memphis and I would like to you didn't know
- 52:09Speaker 1: that nephew Tommy is still here. He was out here
- 52:13Speaker 1: last night as the Chuckle come to club. We really
- 52:16Speaker 1: enjoyed him and the guest. So just saying, you know,
- 52:20Speaker 1: nephew Tommy is still here, so you've been kicking it all.
- 52:26Speaker 1: Can I say something? Can I say something to the
- 52:30Speaker 1: lady that call did? Be careful how you talk, because
- 52:34Speaker 1: we have a Jamaican lady that listens to this show
- 52:37Speaker 1: and gets very offended with the pronuncia. She's a word.
- 52:41Speaker 1: So when you said nephew Tommy is still her, he gonna.
- 52:45Speaker 1: I want you to know she probably heard that. So
- 52:48Speaker 1: you said that Tommy is still her, Well, no, he
- 52:52Speaker 1: isn't still hurt because Tommy has never been heard before
- 52:56Speaker 1: my never. You need to go over there and just
- 52:59Speaker 1: work on your dish. Make sure you stay true to
- 53:01Speaker 1: what are your dishes, you know, make sure you're racing
- 53:05Speaker 1: piggis and all that stuff, and y'all your jerk is
- 53:08Speaker 1: on point. Got time to call in. Thank you baby.
- 53:18Speaker 1: Coming up. Strawberry Letter is up next, the subject I'm
- 53:21Speaker 1: not leaving and she's not staying. We'll find out what
- 53:23Speaker 1: that's all about right after this. You're listening hard morning show,
- 53:30Speaker 1: Happy Bartie Gray, everybody. It is time now for today's
- 53:34Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. By everybody. I mean, Carla for sure, I
- 53:39Speaker 1: got some beads for y'all. I'm just saying I got some.
- 53:42Speaker 1: You got some beans and some gumbo gumbo. But in
- 53:47Speaker 1: order to get these beads, you gotta show you something
- 53:52Speaker 1: for water. All right, Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. Listen.
- 53:57Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
- 54:01Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM
- 54:04Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
- 54:07Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
- 54:10Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and
- 54:12Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours. It could be yours.
- 54:17Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for
- 54:19Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject I'm not leaving
- 54:23Speaker 1: and she's not staying. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am twenty
- 54:27Speaker 1: nine years old and my parents got a divorce six
- 54:29Speaker 1: years ago. My dad cheated on my mom, and after
- 54:33Speaker 1: the divorce, he moved in with his girlfriend. My mother
- 54:36Speaker 1: eventually met a nice man and she got remarried three
- 54:39Speaker 1: years ago and moved in with him. My mother owns
- 54:42Speaker 1: the house I'm living in, and she promised it to
- 54:45Speaker 1: me as a wedding gift. My fiance moved in and
- 54:48Speaker 1: we are fixing the house up, slowly but surely. My
- 54:51Speaker 1: dad had given me five thousand dollars to help us
- 54:54Speaker 1: with the renovations, and my fiance and I were overjoyed.
- 54:59Speaker 1: But now everything is falling apart and we're miserable because
- 55:03Speaker 1: my dad is living with us. His second wife kicked
- 55:07Speaker 1: him out and filed for divorce after he got caught
- 55:10Speaker 1: cheating again. He was supposed to be with us temporarily,
- 55:14Speaker 1: but it's been seven months. The worst part is he
- 55:17Speaker 1: wants his new girlfriend to live with us too, until
- 55:20Speaker 1: they can find a place that suits them. I lost
- 55:23Speaker 1: so much respect for my dad after he cheated on
- 55:26Speaker 1: my mom, and my emotions boiled over earlier this week,
- 55:29Speaker 1: and I let him know exactly how I feel. I
- 55:32Speaker 1: told him that I want him and its new girlfriend
- 55:35Speaker 1: out of my house and if it was a problem,
- 55:37Speaker 1: my fiance and I would give him every penny of
- 55:40Speaker 1: the five thousand dollars back. He had done a little
- 55:43Speaker 1: research on the house and found out that my mother
- 55:45Speaker 1: hadn't done what she was supposed to do to put
- 55:49Speaker 1: the house in my name, and since she had been
- 55:51Speaker 1: paying taxes, since he had been paying taxes on the
- 55:54Speaker 1: house for years, I couldn't put him out. I told
- 55:57Speaker 1: him I'm not leaving and she's not staying. We'll have
- 56:01Speaker 1: to deal with my dad a bit longer, but we
- 56:03Speaker 1: do not have to deal with his girlfriend living with us.
- 56:06Speaker 1: How can my own dad be so evil when he
- 56:09Speaker 1: knows I'm getting married and fixing up this house. Do
- 56:12Speaker 1: I let him and his girlfriend have the house or
- 56:15Speaker 1: fight for what's mine? Well, I definitely think you should
- 56:18Speaker 1: fight for what's yours. I mean, sorry, sorry that this
- 56:22Speaker 1: is your dad you're gonna have to be fighting with,
- 56:24Speaker 1: But I mean, just what a mess this is, and
- 56:27Speaker 1: it's nothing like family mess. I know you love your dad,
- 56:31Speaker 1: but you know I also see how you've lost respect
- 56:34Speaker 1: for him. He's in there on you for all this time,
- 56:37Speaker 1: and now he wants to bring his girlfriend in. He
- 56:38Speaker 1: shouldn't be living with you under any circumstances if he
- 56:42Speaker 1: can help it, and certainly shouldn't be trying to move
- 56:44Speaker 1: his girlfriend in there. Why would she even want a
- 56:47Speaker 1: grown man with kids? Why would this woman even want
- 56:51Speaker 1: a grown man who has to live with his son.
- 56:54Speaker 1: I mean, sorry, but they both sound trifling to me. Sorry,
- 56:57Speaker 1: I know that's your dad. Your father's bad behaved if
- 57:00Speaker 1: you got him into this predicament and he's got you
- 57:03Speaker 1: and your fiance all involved. You're trying to plan for
- 57:05Speaker 1: your future, you know, fix up the house, who you
- 57:08Speaker 1: all can have something. I think your father's very selfish,
- 57:12Speaker 1: doesn't care about anyone but himself. And the fact that
- 57:15Speaker 1: he took the time to look up the paperwork on
- 57:18Speaker 1: the house and try to use what he found to
- 57:20Speaker 1: impose on you guys, that's even more disgusting and unbelievable.
- 57:24Speaker 1: I mean, come on, dad, you know this is wrong
- 57:26Speaker 1: and out of order. So son, to answer your question, No,
- 57:32Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to give up on your cheating dad,
- 57:35Speaker 1: give up your house to him, and none of that
- 57:37Speaker 1: and his girlfriend. No you shouldn't. I think you should
- 57:39Speaker 1: get with your mom, get these papers in order for
- 57:41Speaker 1: your house, and ask your dad to leave. Period. Steve,
- 57:46Speaker 1: this is a really, really complex letter on so many levels,
- 57:49Speaker 1: and I happen to know these levels, not personally, but
- 57:53Speaker 1: I've seen aspects of this acted out in my own life.
- 57:58Speaker 1: I've seen it acted out in people's lives close to me,
- 58:01Speaker 1: So I've had some experience with this, not really personally.
- 58:05Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, yeah, so, And that's the only way
- 58:09Speaker 1: i can answer this question, the way I'm going to
- 58:11Speaker 1: answer it, because the main problem here is and I'm
- 58:16Speaker 1: gonna go at it from this standpoint. First of all,
- 58:18Speaker 1: I think your mother did a very noble thing. I
- 58:21Speaker 1: think your mother wanted you to have the house as
- 58:24Speaker 1: a wedding gift promise to her, so forth and so on.
- 58:27Speaker 1: So I think the intentions were well serving and thought out,
- 58:31Speaker 1: and do it. The problem in this whole letter is
- 58:36Speaker 1: two people, and I want you to hear me out
- 58:39Speaker 1: before you get mad at me. First of all, your daddy.
- 58:45Speaker 1: Your daddy is be un trifling own so many levels.
- 58:53Speaker 1: And the problem with this man is he has no
- 58:55Speaker 1: problem sharing his triflingness and spreading it around. He has
- 59:01Speaker 1: no consideration. Shirley called it right. He has no consideration
- 59:04Speaker 1: for anybody but himself. But it's because he's trifling. Now,
- 59:08Speaker 1: first of all, you cheat on your original wife. I'm
- 59:11Speaker 1: not judging the man. Things happen. I don't know what's
- 59:13Speaker 1: going on in his family life or nothing like That
- 59:17Speaker 1: could have been the mama's fault as well as his.
- 59:19Speaker 1: But whatever he cheated got busted. They got a divorce,
- 59:25Speaker 1: he moved out, he moved in with his girlfrid. Now
- 59:33Speaker 1: then your mother eventually eventually met a nice man had
- 59:37Speaker 1: gotten remarried. Now this was three years ago. She moved
- 59:40Speaker 1: in with him. Now, your mama owns the house that
- 59:43Speaker 1: you're living in, and she promised it to you as
- 59:46Speaker 1: a wedding gilt. Your mama ow's house, or your mom
- 59:50Speaker 1: and your daddy owned the house. See there's a little
- 59:52Speaker 1: glitch right there. That's where we started to run a problem.
- 59:55Speaker 1: My fiance moved in. We're fixing up the house slowly,
- 59:59Speaker 1: and your daddy gave five thousand and help. Y'all overjoyed.
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: Everything was going fine, and then hell broke loose. And
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: this is why I got the answer to you Okay,
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: hold on, Steve. We'll have part two of your response
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject I'm not leaving and she's not staying.
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: The subject I'm not leaving and she's not staying. The
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: reason we have a problem because there's twenty nine year
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: old woman who has a fiancee. Three years ago. Her
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: father cheated on her mom, well six years ago. They
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: got a divorce six years ago. The cheating had probably
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: been going on for a while, but divorce was six
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: years ago. She was twenty three. Your dad moved in
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: with the girlfriend that he was cheating on your wife with.
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: Your mother met a new man, got remarried three years ago,
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: moved in with him. That your mother owns the house
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: you're living in now, and she promised it to you
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: as a wedding guilt. Your fiance moved in and we're
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: fixing up the house slowly but surely. And my dad
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: gave y'all. Your dad gave you five thousand dollars to
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: help y'all with the renovation and your fiance and you
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: were overjoyed, but now everything's falling apart with miserable because
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: your dad is now living with us his second wife.
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: Now he got married to the girlfriend that he was
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: cheating on your mama with, but now she didn't kicked
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: him out of the house and filed for divorce because
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: he got caught cheating again. And he was supposed to
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: be with us for seven months temporarily, but he's been
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: seven months and the worst part is he wants his
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: new girlfriend. This is the new girlfriend that he's now
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: cheating on his second wife with. This how trifling, this dudey,
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: So she filed for divorce. Divorce ain't went through yet
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: he didn't went and got another girlfriend. Now he wants
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: and the girlfriend live with y'all too, until they can
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: find a place that suits them. I've lost so much
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: respect for my dad after you cheated on my mom,
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: and my emotions boiled over earlier this week and I
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: let him know exactly how you feel. I can't blame
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: you for that. You're a woman, you his daughter. You
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: would think that a man worth any salt would not
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: drag his daughters into his mess, or any of his
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: children for that matter, but especially your daughter, because what
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: you want to try to be for your daughter, it's
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: somewhat of an example of what a man should be,
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: so she has a right to know how to pick one.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: But oh no, your trifling ass, it's just gonna be
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: trifling across the ball. I'm coming to my solution for
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: all this. I told him I wanted him and his
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: new girlfriend out of my house, and if it was able,
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: my fiance and I would give him every penny of
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: the five thousand dollars back. Okay, gangster move, I like that.
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: But then your daddy Trifond. He did a little research
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: on the house and found that my mother hadn't done
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: what she was supposed to do to put the house
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: in my name, and since he had been paying taxes
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: on the house for years, I couldn't put him out.
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: But if the house is in your mama's name, your
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: mama can quit d eat the house to you immediately.
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: If you notify your mother, your mama can quit need
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: you the house, and his ass is out, and any
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: quarter log will give you the house. Now, that's the
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: one solution. But then I told him I'm not leaving
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: and she's not staying. We have to deal with my
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: dad a bit longer. But do we have to deal
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: with this girlfriend living with us? No, you don't. How
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: can my own dad be so evil when he knows
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: I'm getting married and fixing up this house? Do I
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: let him and his girlfriend him house or fight for
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: what's mine? Here's the second problem to the problem. You
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: got trifling people in your life. Number one is your daddy,
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: the number two person here. And I'm not saying that
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: this young man is trifling because of but I don't
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: really what does your fiance doing Because I'm I'm I'm
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: I'm a little stump fright here because I'm gonna tell
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: you how I am, and I'm gonna tell you how
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: my dad raised me to be. Because see, I ain't
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: finn to sit up here. Take all this hire not
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: off this dude. Hey man, you can have your five
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: thousand fact. I'm not Finn to sit up in here
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: and no house you acting like you own, because can't
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: be but one king and one queen in this house.
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: Ain't no two kings, ain't no two queens. So me personally,
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: as the fiance, if I was, y'all, I would gather
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: myself and move on. I would because Jess, as a man,
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: I'm not fitting to be sitting uped and beholding to
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: this man because he didn't paid some taxes or have
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: to listen to you upsetting my girl because you aren't here,
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: because you ain't ain't trifling and you do on us here.
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: I understand you want to hold onto the house. I
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: understand your mama gave it to you, and I think
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: it's worth fighting for. I really really do. And I
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: would get my mama the quick deed that house to
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: me and get your daddy ass out of there. But
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: the young man that you are the fiance of, see,
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: it's hard. The daddy is trifling on so many levels.
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: It's not this young man's fault. He may be very supportive.
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: He may be saying, hey, look let's just move and
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: she gonna this is my house. And I understand you
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: fighting for so I kind of let me backpeddler a
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: little bit. I don't want you all to think that
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: I think that the young man is trifling, because he's not.
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: I think it's the daddy that's the ultimate triflet grown
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: up ass man, and for him to show this type
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: of the example of what a man who it is
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: to his daughter. And not only did you destroy yours,
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: but then now you're over here messing up. Mind to
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: damn daddy, how can this be your fault? Your damn
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: daddy ain't for damn Go to your mom and get
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: the house quick, ded it over to you. Go down
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: there and get a restraint in order. Lie. Your father
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: has been physically threatening to you. It's mentally abusive to you.
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: And that I'm telling you in this culture, your daddy
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: gone had to move out house, get a restraintoroid came
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: going with the two unfeeted out body right. Poster your
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: on demand coming up at forty six minutes after. It's
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: Junior with Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening to
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for Junior
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: and Sports Talk Junior, which you got. Well, we know
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Game was this weekend, and I'm
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: just highly disappointed. I didn't. I didn't see nothing I
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: liked over there. I mean, I'm congratulation saw the All Stars.
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: I think you worked hard for that. But one eighty
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: four or what's seventy five? Teen yard? It was a
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: point scored every thirty seconds. It's just you've never seen
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: this much shooting going on. I'm talking about They're shooting
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: from the stands, shooting from behind the board. Everybody get
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: a dunk, everybody get a pad, everybody shooting from half court.
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: You can shoot two. They gave it to the coach.
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: Coach shot. Everybody got to shoot in this game. One
- 1:07:10Speaker 1: eighty photo, one seventy five? Where was a block? As
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: it was? It was zero blocks in the whole game.
- 1:07:16Speaker 1: What basketball game ain't no blocks? None. Jason Tatum congratulates
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: the MVP fifty five points All Star scoring record. Okay, cool,
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: Damien little three point contest with Hey good. But mc McClung.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: I have to give it to this boy here, man,
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: I just got I'm just saying this brother was flying
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: out the gym. That's all you can give it to him. Man,
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: jumping over two people? What jumping over two and then
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: reversed up or what kissed it off the board? Dog?
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: You you deserve to win. We've never seen that, man,
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: So congratulations to him. Man, But I just didn't know
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I can't see that type
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: of stuff. Man, go back to East versus West. Can
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: we get back to that dunk? We drafted players for
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: play for your division. I think it's better this way.
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: It added a spice of element, you know. Just the
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: All Star Game is what it is. And I bet
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: they will never go to U talk again. Nobody, everybody
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: in the hotel room, nobody enjoyed you talk, has nothing
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: to do. That was the worst choice of cities they
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: could have ever made. You take all these black people up,
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: you talk, you talk, police department on red alert. I mean, man,
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: six you couldn't even have fun. Man, don't nobody like
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: you talk? No body? What time did everything close? And
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: you talk? Eight thirty? Hey, hey man, they the most fake,
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: You talk, the most fake, hypocritical plays, got all these
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: drinking laws and all this here. Number one state for Porto, really,
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: I never knew s for one. A few years ago
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: they were number one in Portal. Wows All right, thank you, Junior,
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: and thank you Steve for that coming up at the
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: top of the hour. If we didn't know, we didn't know.
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: This guy in social media. Steve needs some advice. He says,
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: my neighbors should be worried about thin walls. We'll talk
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: about it right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So, Steve Corey on Facebook writes,
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: I always knew my apartment building had thin walls, but
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: I never noticed how thin they were until my neighbor
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: moved in. Since he showed up, I've heard arguments, presumably
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: over the phone, in which he yelled at some doctor
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: for not taking his issue seriously, his girlfriend for not
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: understanding him, and his own mother for not giving money
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: and supporting him while he deals with things. And that
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: last one. He also went off off on his mom
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: and told her to think about things because she's crossing
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: the line. I tend to be one that minds his
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: own business, but this is aggravating me and getting on
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: my nerves that I feel like I have something to
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: you know, I just need to go over there and
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: talk to him and the landlord. Is this an overreach?
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: That's what wants to know. You're fitting to go over
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: there and talk to this man, And he wasn't talking
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: to you, Cola, So I'm confused you was gonna go
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: You fitting to go over there talk to him about
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: the way he talked to his mom. You're gonna go
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: over here and talk to him about why are you
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: talking to his girl like that? Right? And then you're
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: gonna talk to him about how his damn doctor ain't
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: handling his medical issues. Seriously, You're gonna go there and
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: talk to that that you can This cannot be a
- 1:11:05Speaker 1: black person, and you cannot be black, and the person
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: and the person you're going to talk to you can't
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: be black either, because all this is the line of
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: this guy that asked what rot all over? It's no,
- 1:11:19Speaker 1: it's no weight though. Now you're dealing with the person
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: who everybody fault but he is. That's you. You're dealing
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: with this type of person anyway. So when you come
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: over there, you think, all of a sudden, he finished
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: straightened out this personality flaw. You think after you're knock
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: going to excuse me? Tell me? I want you to
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: be the dude in the house that's the blam. I'm
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: the guy that's coming over to the house. Helloa, what's up? Hi?
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: Uh hey, um listen cry me next to your neighbor.
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: I stay our next door, all right? What you want?
- 1:12:02Speaker 1: It's kind of kind of you've given me the things
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: I want. You know I want. I gave you at
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: I don't know you to be in the game uniting.
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: What do you Well, well, well, you kind of have inadvertently,
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: you know, indurtingly, in advertingly. Well, let's just say, you know, unintentionally. Okay,
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: And I'm thinking that I'm sitting in my house and
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: you know, the walls are super thin, and you're talking,
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hey, Mama turned the chicken down
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: kind of down. Go ahead, she's there, Mama, Your mom's there.
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Men? After the way you talk to her,
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: You've got her in the cooking chicken for you. That's
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: my favorite. That's my favorite, as my mama cheeking. What
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: what what? What do you want? What? Man? Wait a minute,
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what do I what? What you don't? Man?
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: Oh my god. It wasn't the walls, you know. I
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: thought you had a slight speech impediment picking it up.
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: I mean the neighbor, what do you what? What is
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: the reason you over here? Is what I'm in? What
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: do you? I'm over here because of the way you
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: talk to people. I ain't I don't even talk to you.
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: I don't even know who you is. That's coming through
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: the walls, is what I'm saying. I'm come through that
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: wall and tell your ass something what you want. Oh
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: my god, are you? Are you threatening me right here
- 1:13:42Speaker 1: in your damn face? Yes? You wanna strike me? Strike you?
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit you. Right, Guys, you're talking about striking me.
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: I ain't gonna strike you, but I'm gonnaknock the hell
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: out of my word. Oh my god, that's who you
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: gonna need. God, Oh no, You're gonna need Johnny Cochrane,
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: Weiler and high Cough more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:14:09Speaker 1: Cover boy, You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: According to the Washington Posts, getting hot and sweating between
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: the sheets can feel like a workout, and several recent
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: studies um looking too answering is sex exercise. Researchers in
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: Spain studied couples and found that sex counts as moderate
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: exercise as it revs up the heart rate and burns calories,
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: but just how much varies widely. The amount of time
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: people spend having sex also varies, with young, healthy couples
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: going at it for an average of thirty two minutes.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: While couples with health conditions last about nineteen minutes. So
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: here's a question for you, guys. Guys, Yeah, yeah, go
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: back the health conditions. That's why I'm in nineteen nineteen,
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: not twenty minutes. All right, So come on, sexy guys.
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: Do you consider sexy workout? And do you ever look
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: at your fitness tracker to see how many calories it
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: burns or your heart rate? That's the question. Okay. I
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: can't have nothing on me when I'm in. I can't
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: have no ask for chords or nothing I watch caught
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: on the sheet of None of that can throw my
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: rhythm off. I can't he a long go off. Yeah,
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: morning morning, you're in the red. You're in the red.
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: You're a heart rates You're dying. You are dying. You
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: had it. We're coming up with thirty three minutes after
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: the hour. We'll play around it. Would you rather right
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: after this? Who is this guy? Don't know? I don't
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: know him. You're listening to morning show? It is time
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: rather clean the French Quarter after Marty Gras or would
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: you rather clean Times Square after New Year's Eve? I'm clean? No, damn.
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: I know you ain't going to be one. Not today. No,
- 1:16:25Speaker 1: I'm not cleaning up a damn man. I don't get
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: this paper stay that. That paper can stay that the
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: next marnycra. That paper is there, that paper is there
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: to the next monac Well, I've seen both, and if
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: I had to clean up one, I'm gonna clean up
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: French Quarter. Really, damn times square lord him merci man,
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: it's it's ungoden and Mary is No. I've been there
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: after Monacra. I've been there after. I've been New Year,
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. There's a trifleness you can't even imagine.
- 1:17:04Speaker 1: All right, just just just a confetti M. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather get married and never have kids?
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: Or have kids and never get married? M? Yeah, y'all
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: picking on me or something specifically about you, though, Man,
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: do sound personal, Julian. Would I'd rather be married than
- 1:17:35Speaker 1: not have kids? I have kids or nothing? Yeah? I
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: mean I'm married, I ain't got no kids. I just
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: thought we'll just trying to make some John, Yeah, you practice. Well,
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: I don't really know. I failed that both, so I'm
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: not really sure which one. I want to cry, Tommy,
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: I want the kids. Sorry, I asked you. Okay, wait
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: a minute, Wait a minute, wait man, he don't get
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: a do over, go to the next question. So sorry,
- 1:18:17Speaker 1: I asked you that I go ask me later on
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: to day. Hello, Yes, would you rather be the richest
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: person on the planet or would you rather be immortal?
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: Live forever? Hey, you're not alone. I just can't do it.
- 1:18:31Speaker 1: It's just hey, I actually know who that is. Actually
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: we don't have a clue. I don't know who that is.
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: Richest person? We know? Yeah, which talk about all the people.
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: That's sad, you're the richest person in my context. Yeah,
- 1:18:57Speaker 1: I actually like when you calling for the people. That's
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: a lot of people think you're the richest person. A
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: lot of people do. All right, Yeah they do, Yeah
- 1:19:09Speaker 1: they do. I know the truth. Trust All right, thank
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: you guys. That's today's round of would you rather? Coming
- 1:19:17Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after, we'll close out the
- 1:19:19Speaker 1: show and get some closing remarks from the one and
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey. Right after this. You're listening to Steve
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are our
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. Happy Tuesday.
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: Happy Marty Gras all of that. Um, Carla did that
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: one for you? Yeah? I might get a dacory today.
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: Kane cake. I got a Kane cake? Man? Good is
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: it with the little baby in it? That's what that is,
- 1:19:54Speaker 1: right you sk I didn't grow up. It's just that's
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: a good cake. Like no like uh white cake, cinna
- 1:20:16Speaker 1: like um pastry. It's like a pastry and you put
- 1:20:20Speaker 1: icing on it like and then uh purple and edible
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: glitter and then the little baby is if you pull
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: the baby, then you have to get the kingcake next year.
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: I think that's such addition. Is it a real baby? Cheerless? Anyway? Happy?
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: All right? Okay, Steve, let's do something a little different, um,
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: if you want to. As we close out the show today.
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: When we started, Junior asked you, um, a situation and
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: you said you have a song for every situation? And
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: b is that h on? That's what made it at
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: what made it and makes it the great music that
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: it is. It's a shame that it's faded, because boy
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: was good. So what y'all? Could you just give me
- 1:21:06Speaker 1: a situation? I got one? I got one. Um, Okay,
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: guy meets girl really really likes, really really interested wants
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: to take it to the next level. Who wants to
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: send her a song about how he feels? Oh? Oh,
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: look because I'm going down the list. Okay, here going here,
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: you go, all right, hold on, hold on, hold on
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: if you want to send her a song of ha
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: excuse me, miss, oh, hold on? Okay, because that's it
- 1:21:48Speaker 1: just came to me. But I don't really excuse me? Miss?
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: What's your name? Where? Had I come? Where? How are
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: you know? Where? How are you from? Can I come yet?
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: I take you out to NA movies? Do the pop?
- 1:22:08Speaker 1: I can't have your home before it is dark? Yeah?
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: I take you out to Luke the baby. Yeah, how
- 1:22:19Speaker 1: about this? I want to know your name? Who you went?
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: All the way? Your name? Girl? One? Okay? Situation guy
- 1:22:32Speaker 1: walks in his wife girl whatever fools around cheating, He
- 1:22:37Speaker 1: caught him in the act. Somebody, No, so somebody with
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: my feel that I feel that. Ok, you go, you
- 1:23:01Speaker 1: go a situation first? Two? Yeah? So this man, he
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: just he's looking at the situation. He can't live without her.
- 1:23:16Speaker 1: There's nothing he can do. He can't breathe, he can't
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: live without this one. Who as well? Oh what blues you? Baby? Man?
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: I never sence you went away. Ad for all Steve
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