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Ask Steve, Beyonce in Africa, Sheryl Underwood, Reality Update and More · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all bat
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  Speaker 1: true good it. Steve har listening to together for stum Please, Mommy,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join joined me to be doing men. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn you, you gotta turn the turnout, turn you
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  Speaker 1: water go. Come come on, h huh, I show well,
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  Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on
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  Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey Man got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show. Wow man, how good has God been
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  Speaker 1: to me? You know? Today? Let me get right to
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  Speaker 1: it because I'm I'm kind of feeling this today, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that's just quite a few of you
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  Speaker 1: who go through the same things today. Today was just
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  Speaker 1: a little tough morning for me because I didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to leave home yesterday. You know, I wanted to stay
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  Speaker 1: home a little. I just gotten home, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta go again. And sometimes, you know, just the weight
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  Speaker 1: of all that you have to do just gets on
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  Speaker 1: you sometimes and sometimes you don't feel like doing it today. Huh.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm just talking to those who feel this
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  Speaker 1: way every now and then, and I'm assuming that would
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  Speaker 1: be everybody, because I don't know nobody who can just
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  Speaker 1: ply through this thing without having those days. Well, what
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  Speaker 1: do you do when it gets hard to stay up?
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  Speaker 1: What do you do when it gets hard to be positive?
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  Speaker 1: What do you do when it seems like things aren't
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  Speaker 1: happening for you fast enough or in the time frame
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  Speaker 1: that you thought it was going. What do you do?
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  Speaker 1: And the reason that I guess I chose to speak
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  Speaker 1: about this this morning is because I'm having one of
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  Speaker 1: those days. Because I had one of those days yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a tough day. I really can't explain. It's
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  Speaker 1: nothing really in particular bad happened. It's just I think
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  Speaker 1: the weight of all that's going on started to feel
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  Speaker 1: heavy to me. And so what do you do when
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  Speaker 1: you have days like that? When it's hard to be positive,
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  Speaker 1: when it's hard to stay up? Okay, here's what I
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  Speaker 1: had to start doing this morning. Now. I haven't completed it,
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  Speaker 1: can't I just be real with you, I haven't completed it,
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  Speaker 1: but I am processing it out because I know what
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  Speaker 1: to do. You know, been there, done that, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have that pain before. I know what to do. You know,
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  Speaker 1: if I sprain my finger, I know what to do now.
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  Speaker 1: You know the first sprain I had, O Lord, I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was broke. I thought I got me handac half.
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  Speaker 1: But now if I spray my finger, I know what
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  Speaker 1: to do. So since I've been in this position, in
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  Speaker 1: this hole so many times before and God has always
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  Speaker 1: gotten me through it, I decided I've got to start
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  Speaker 1: the process today. Want to hear all some things now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to the big one last. And one
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  Speaker 1: of the things I do is I remember the plan,
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  Speaker 1: sit down, and I consciously think about the goals I've set.
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  Speaker 1: I go over see. I've got mine down on an
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  Speaker 1: iPad so I can pull them out anywhere I am
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  Speaker 1: and pull them up. And I've got two lists that
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  Speaker 1: I've made. I've got a list of things that I
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  Speaker 1: know I cannot acomplished if I just keep working hard,
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  Speaker 1: and if some couple of things just fall into place
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  Speaker 1: that I can see. Then I got a list of
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  Speaker 1: things that I'm planning on accomplishing. And then I have
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  Speaker 1: a second list. And the heading of this list is
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  Speaker 1: called only God can help me Now. And on this list.
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  Speaker 1: It's things that I'm aspiring for or things that I'm
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  Speaker 1: hoping to that in order for them to happen, I
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  Speaker 1: absolutely have to have God's help. That's my favorite list.
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  Speaker 1: It's the list that I have of the things that
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  Speaker 1: I don't see no way it can happen. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: operating on faith and the hope that God hear me,
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  Speaker 1: and so sometimes, man, when you gotta when I have
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  Speaker 1: this list of who only God can help me, now
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  Speaker 1: that list is stuff that I cannot see. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: operating on faith that God is so much bigger than me,
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  Speaker 1: that he's so much more capable than I am, that
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  Speaker 1: I can actually acquire some things in my life, as
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  Speaker 1: He's proven to me time and time again up to
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  Speaker 1: this point, that He's willing to do for me. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm willing to just give him some of my life.
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  Speaker 1: That's only why I can't explain my existence today. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I began the conversation with my wife, how do I
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  Speaker 1: write a book that becomes so wildly successful? That would
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  Speaker 1: be God. That's only God, Because if you can plan
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  Speaker 1: to sit down and write a wildly successful book, I
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  Speaker 1: would have Benden sat down and did it and so
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  Speaker 1: would you. So that would be God. How it got
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  Speaker 1: purchased to become a movie when that was not my
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  Speaker 1: intent when I wrote the book at all. Again, that
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  Speaker 1: would be God. Right, there has to be, because if
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  Speaker 1: I can't explain it and it is by no doing
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  Speaker 1: of my own, then who did it? So when I
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  Speaker 1: get down in days like this, I remember the goal.
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  Speaker 1: I remember the plan. I remember the journey. I think
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  Speaker 1: about of all the things God has bought me to
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  Speaker 1: how did I even get to this point? Yeah? I
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  Speaker 1: might be having a little bummer of a day. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was a little down yesterday. Yeah, my bio rhythms
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  Speaker 1: is off, whatever they want to call it. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just having one of those days. I feel a little
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  Speaker 1: bit heavy. I need a vacation real bad. I need
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  Speaker 1: some time off to just go and regenerate. But right now, man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got that. So guess what I do. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta start remembering the plan. I gotta start remembering the goals.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta start thinking about all the things that God
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  Speaker 1: has done for me and how He has bought me
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  Speaker 1: this far and the blessings that I have instead of
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  Speaker 1: what I don't have. And that's what I'm in the
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  Speaker 1: process of doing this morning, and on the commercial breaks,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull out my iPad and I'm gonna go
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  Speaker 1: over my two lists, and I'm gonna read my little
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  Speaker 1: list of what I think I can accomplish, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna really read that only God can help Me now list,
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  Speaker 1: because that's the list that's big. That's the part where
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  Speaker 1: I've been telling y'all, I said, quit telling God how
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  Speaker 1: big your problems are, and start telling your problems how
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  Speaker 1: big your God is. See. And that's why I got
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  Speaker 1: to sit down to do this morning. And then sometimes, man,
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  Speaker 1: you got to stay still. That's the other part. You
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  Speaker 1: got to stay still. You gotta quit moving for a second,
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes it feel like you're running on a treadmill
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  Speaker 1: and you really ain't you going somewhere, but it feel
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  Speaker 1: like you're running on a treadmill. Well, when you get
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  Speaker 1: that feeling, sometimes you got to stay still. And then
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  Speaker 1: when you stay still, sometimes you gotta fight to stay positive.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta fight not to let the devil win.
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  Speaker 1: You're in a fight, mam. I told you this. Now
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  Speaker 1: you're in a fight now, So trying to get you
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  Speaker 1: to get on that positive train so he can get
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  Speaker 1: you off the faith train. So God's delivery package that's
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  Speaker 1: coming to you built on your faith that you can.
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  Speaker 1: He can shake your faith and get you to thinking
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  Speaker 1: negative and then he wins. See. So when you start
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  Speaker 1: feeling negative, just know that that's the other force trying
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  Speaker 1: to throw your off track. And when you get through
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  Speaker 1: it all that here is the key to big one.
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  Speaker 1: You want me to tell it to you. You gots
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  Speaker 1: to pray, Man, You got to pray. You gotta take
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  Speaker 1: it to God. You gotta say, hey, God, look I'm
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  Speaker 1: having one of these days. I need your help. I
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  Speaker 1: got business to take care of. You got blessings in
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  Speaker 1: front of me. You got stuff you to ship to me.
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  Speaker 1: You got blessings and packages that's on the way. I
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  Speaker 1: need to be sitting on Faith streets so I can
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  Speaker 1: receive the delivery when you get there. What I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do is be it on be on doubted
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  Speaker 1: Way or lack of Understanding Parkway, or Pity Parkway or
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  Speaker 1: some street like that, and the package keep going by.
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  Speaker 1: I need to be standing and sitting on Faith Street
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  Speaker 1: so when you drop that package down to me, I
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  Speaker 1: can go on and get it. You feel me. You
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  Speaker 1: gots to pray. You got to stay still. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: fight to stay positive. You gotta remember the plan. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta go over the goals. Come on, man, God and
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  Speaker 1: brought you too far, Come on, pick yourself up today.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to Steve Harvey this morning. Hope y'all didn't
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  Speaker 1: mind you're listening show. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls,
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  Speaker 1: let me have your attention. I am talking to everyone
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  Speaker 1: today who has ever had the aspiration of becoming a millionaire.
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  Speaker 1: All if you've ever had the aspiration of holding a
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  Speaker 1: full time job, these are the two groups that I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to. Anyone who has had the aspiration of holding
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  Speaker 1: a full time job and anybody who has had the
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  Speaker 1: aspiration of becoming a millionaire. This show is dedicated to
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  Speaker 1: the two coldish groups on planet Earth. You dig, Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. What group you in?
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  Speaker 1: Shuret the strawberr? I'm in both, Steve, thank you very much,
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  Speaker 1: Colin for rel Good morning both did Oh let's get it, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: I got five jobs. Tell me I ain't trying neph
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  Speaker 1: you time me every day. I'm hustling. I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: be in there. Guests up well, for you. Oh you ain't.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't in this sect. Yeah, yeah, I got. I
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  Speaker 1: got somewhere else I'm heading. Ain't nobody to ask me that.
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  Speaker 1: So we just throwing it out, y'all. That's my two
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  Speaker 1: favorite groups of people. Anybody that wants to work and
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  Speaker 1: anybody want to be rich. I live both of them people,
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  Speaker 1: because you ain't got to be rich to be my friend.
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  Speaker 1: Because I gotta tell you something. None of my friends
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  Speaker 1: are rich. Do you know that? Really? Man? None of them.
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  Speaker 1: Well I got one friends really, I mean my friend friends.
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  Speaker 1: I mean my real friends. Oh, real friends. Ninety nine
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  Speaker 1: point nine percent of them are not rich people. But
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  Speaker 1: but what about running in those circles, you know them
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  Speaker 1: like minded people and birds of a feather flock together
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  Speaker 1: and all that. Yeah, that's all. They just business acquaintances
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  Speaker 1: and associates. We make some money together, we do some
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  Speaker 1: deals together, we go to dinner together. You know, we
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  Speaker 1: pull for each other. But I don't. We haven't been
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  Speaker 1: through enough to call them friends, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Not really? Yeah? Well, you know what, remember back in
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  Speaker 1: the day when Oprah and Gail that their friendship was,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so popular and everything. It still is now,
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  Speaker 1: But back in the day, Gail was Oprah's friends. So
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  Speaker 1: Oprah gave her a million dollars so she could be
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  Speaker 1: a millionaire. Two remember that, I don't feel that. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: nothing like that. No, well, junior, Junior, me and you
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  Speaker 1: we co workers, and I'm more like a mentor. You
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  Speaker 1: are you can't buy money from me and call me Steve.
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  Speaker 1: We ain't here, no never will be okay, But what
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  Speaker 1: have we learned? Right here? We ain't rich, and here
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  Speaker 1: he's not opening, we're not gay. Excuse me, excuse me.
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  Speaker 1: Thomas Miles is rich. I'm nephew Tommy. I'm nephew Tommy. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I don't never know what he is? All right? Uh,
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  Speaker 1: Steve coming up at thirty two after the hour, you
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  Speaker 1: mentioned the nephew. Well, he's been, you know, wanting to
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  Speaker 1: ask you something. So we're gonna get to ask Steve
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening morning show, all right, So Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you know, earlier this week we were talking talking about
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  Speaker 1: parenting and our kids and everything, and we didn't get
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  Speaker 1: around to the nephew. He's been wanting to ask you
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  Speaker 1: this question about parenting all week. Nephew. You have the floor,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So uncle. My little girl Sitney. She turned fifteen.
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  Speaker 1: We throw a big, you know, big dinner and she
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  Speaker 1: got a lot of kids there. I mean a lot
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  Speaker 1: of teenagers from Jack and jail. And you know it's fine.
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  Speaker 1: We got about twenty thirty kids at the table and
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  Speaker 1: then at our table. It's more than adults. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: starting to see these little boys hugging my daughter and
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  Speaker 1: taking pictures with it. I ain't ever seen this before.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna had to hit one on them in the face.
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  Speaker 1: I don't hold listen to me, You're gonna no, just
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with y'all ladies. Stadda. You
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  Speaker 1: got to hit one of them little punk as boys
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  Speaker 1: in their face in front of the other boys. But
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  Speaker 1: don't let nobody see it. But the boys all right?
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  Speaker 1: Now go ahead, Now let's do the radio, ass go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: What how do I handle this as a father? And
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be too hard on it, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be too soft on it at
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  Speaker 1: the same time, Hey, man, respect my house. I know
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  Speaker 1: my daughter's beautiful. I know you probably attract the tool,
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  Speaker 1: but this my house. I won't you to be respectful
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  Speaker 1: my house now. In essence, while they're living in your house,
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  Speaker 1: you have some say so, so you can pull the
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  Speaker 1: boy to the side and say, you know what, man,
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  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. I tell you what
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  Speaker 1: this hoighs can. I'll tell you like I did one
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  Speaker 1: of mine. I said, this is what happened. I know
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  Speaker 1: you right now, So this this ain't that method. I'm
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  Speaker 1: really trying to I'm gonna trying to be this new person.
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  Speaker 1: God made me on this boat this year, and but
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  Speaker 1: the old me keeps creeping back around. Dog he talked
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  Speaker 1: all the time. I will see somewhere and shut the
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  Speaker 1: hell up. You know, Tommy, Man, it's hard because in
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  Speaker 1: your house you can set rules and parameters, right, and
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  Speaker 1: so just pull the young dude over to the side
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  Speaker 1: and just say, listen, man, I got rules in my house,
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  Speaker 1: and you have to be respectful of my house. Don't
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  Speaker 1: don't don't come in my house handling my daughter. That's
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  Speaker 1: you can say that because it's your house and they ain't. Man,
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  Speaker 1: don't don't be over the hug. You know nobody when
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  Speaker 1: you and miss my house house. And that's a good
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  Speaker 1: message to have out because after that dog, it's out
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  Speaker 1: your hands. Now. What they do outside the house. It's
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  Speaker 1: not because you're not letting them do it in the house.
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  Speaker 1: That's what people have a misconception of. They think that
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  Speaker 1: in parenting, if you don't allow them to do it
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  Speaker 1: in the house, when they get out the house, if
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  Speaker 1: you don't let them do it in the house, when
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  Speaker 1: they get out the house, they're gonna do it. No,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna do it any damn way. Right. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you got people talking about I let my kids drink
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  Speaker 1: and smoke weed in the house. That way. They ain't
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  Speaker 1: out in the streets drinking and smoking. Yes they are.
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  Speaker 1: If they're drinking a smoking weed in your house, they're
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  Speaker 1: drinking a smoking weed out in the street. You've been
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  Speaker 1: a fool to allow it to happen in your house.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta have some type of rules, man, to give
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  Speaker 1: them pause for thought when they go out the house.
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  Speaker 1: Just Paul's for thought. You're not gonna stop. So. And
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  Speaker 1: your daughter is beautiful, and she's smart, and she's very smart.
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  Speaker 1: She's very smart, so you have to trust her. And
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  Speaker 1: I agree with Steve, you have to. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: think people I want to believe that I do. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So glad she got a lemonade sense. Shut up boy,
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  Speaker 1: she got a mama, and we hope they all make
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  Speaker 1: smart I know, yeah, we all have. What else anybody
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  Speaker 1: else got to ask Steve question? Uh? Let's see. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so you you said I want to get back to
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  Speaker 1: you said you don't have any I just found it,
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  Speaker 1: ah that you said earlier you don't have any friends
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  Speaker 1: that are millionaires. Why is that, Steve? Because it seems
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  Speaker 1: like to me, because you're one, you would hang around
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  Speaker 1: people that are like you. Well, you hang around people,
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  Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean you form friendships. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? Friendship? To me, it's delicate, it's it's it's
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  Speaker 1: a process to become my friend. You know. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: got to have been down in the ditch and you
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  Speaker 1: climb down in there with me. Na, now we're friend
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  Speaker 1: see or you know? Man or? I think that if
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  Speaker 1: I get in the situation I feel in my heart
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  Speaker 1: of hearts, I could call you without you judging me.
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  Speaker 1: You would just help me. Then we'll talk about how
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  Speaker 1: to prevent mistake from happening again. Now I should say this,
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  Speaker 1: though I have a couple of brothers. I have a
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  Speaker 1: couple of brothers that I'm really really close to that
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  Speaker 1: I have been in the trenches with and they do have,
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  Speaker 1: you know, way more money than I got. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know them. They not famous, They business people. They live
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  Speaker 1: out the country, so I would have to put them
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  Speaker 1: to in the in the group now, said the entertainer
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  Speaker 1: is my friend. He is my friend. That dude right there,
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  Speaker 1: he go to blows from me. You know. Now, I
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  Speaker 1: have great relationships with some famous people. I think me
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  Speaker 1: and Kevin Hard have a special relationship. Oh yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's it's it's like a mentoring type. Even with his
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  Speaker 1: star power being much bigger than mine and his earning
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  Speaker 1: potential much bigger than mine, I still are and I'm
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  Speaker 1: held up in his eyes as a mentor to him.
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  Speaker 1: And I really appreciate his humbleness and in saying that
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  Speaker 1: to me and and talking to me when things, you know,
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  Speaker 1: come up that are questionable and you know, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: give him a real answer. Yeah. And speaking of Kevin,
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  Speaker 1: prayer is still going out for him. Um. Yeah, he's
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  Speaker 1: out of the hospital and everything and just in rehab therapy. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: They Kevin fine physical kids, Yes, yep, he is all right.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things that helped was he was in
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  Speaker 1: great shape, that is physical because but let me tell
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: you something, he's also covered by a lot of grace
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: because you look at that car. For them three people
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: to walk out of there, that was nothing but the
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Lord and you talk to me about something else that
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: was number God, that's grace. Yeah, absolutely all right. Coming
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: up next and is the nephew would run that prank
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: back right after this you're listening. Coming up at the
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: top of the hour and entertainment news, a judge won't
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: give the money back to the woman who helped bail
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: out our Kelly and the very first Yeah, the very
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: first Whitney Houston Hologram tour dates are in announced. But
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: right now, nephew Tommy is here. Who's to Whitney Houston.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: That's really big overseas is huge now, Black people not
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: going down there. That's right now, nephew in the building
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: with today's run that prank back? What you got for us? Nap,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Your wife is cheating on both of us. She got
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: some nerves, she got some nerves. Now we're not gonna
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: let her do this. Hire. Wow, your wife's sitting here
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: cheating on you and the husband are friends, now, y'all boys,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: y'all weren't gonna say nothing, but I got the tea
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: both us. Okay, that's Ronnie, let's go come on. Okay, Hello,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Terrence. Please who's calling? Who's this? Hey?
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: My name is Mark. My name is Mark. How you doing, bro?
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I work with um with your wife Ronic. We're on
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: the same sales Florida together. I think I met you before,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: but I don't know if you remember meeting me. But um,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I work at the job with Veronica. Everything is everything
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: on right there? Or what's going on? No? No, no,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: everything straight here at the job. Not a problem at
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: all at the job. But I wanted to ya, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: she's all right, She's perfectly fine. Man. Um, I just
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: I just you know, I actually, like I said, my
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: name is Mark. Man, you don't remember me, Terrence, But
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to talk to you, Like I say, um,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you know, I got some things on that that's been
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: bothered me for a minute, and I, you know, I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: just I just kind of wanted to reach out to you,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: and you know, just kind of have like a little
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: a little hard to hard talk with you. Man. So
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: maybe you know, uh, you know, we can get things
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: in a in a in a better position. But I
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: just wanted I just wanted me and you to have
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: a conversation. Wait, man, how did you get Veronica give
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: you my number? Or how did you get my number?
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to like, what's going on? I
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: mean I had I had, I've had your number. I
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: just I just I just had never reached out to
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: you before. But like I say, though, man, this this,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: this has been bothered me for a minute and I
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: wanted to get it off my chest so you and
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I can try to, I guess fix this whole issue.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: But I just want us to see if we can
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: fix it. You know, well'll fix the issue. What's the issue?
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. I'm not following you. I don't understand
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: what like what is the issue? So but now you know,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: like I said, I went on to talk to me,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: what's going on? Okay, your wife, man is cheating on
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: both of us, and we gotta figure out how we
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: gotta do something about this. Man? All right? I mean,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: did you say she's eating on the both of us?
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: What is cheating? She is cheating on the both of us? Browne.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: It sounds like you said cheating. I don't know what
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you Veronica. Listen to me, Terce, Veronica is cheating on
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: both of us. You say, Nica cheating on me and me,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: you know, and we gotta, we gotta figure out what
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Man, But as a husband, I gotta
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: you gotta. I'm gonna need you to step up and
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: get this thing in order. What you're talking about. Did
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: you say Veronica is cheating on I mean with you? No, No,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: she cheating on both of us with somebody else. I know.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I've been noticing her going out with this, you know,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: going to lunch with this other cat. So I'm like,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: I got pissed off about it. So I said, you
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: know what, I can't take you no more. I'm calling Terence.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: You're saying to me that my wife has been cheating
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: around a job with somebody else. She cheating on both
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: of us. Dude, I don't get what you mean if
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: my wife has cheating on what I mean you're calling
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: me to tell me that she's cheating on me. I
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: appreciate that, but I don't get what you're saying. You know,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: both of us saying. I don't get that part. I
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: don't understand what you mean. You mean, Veronica have been
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: you know, kind of cool. You know, last eight months
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: to a year, we've been you know, pretty tight here
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: at the job. You know what I'm saying. So listen
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: what you mean y'all been cool? That's what I don't understand. Like,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: what do you mean y'all being cool? Because that's my wife.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Tell me what you're talking about. Okay. All I'm saying
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: is me and me and me and her been real cool.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: We've been real tight. You know. Sometimes we take lunch
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: and then you know, don't come back. That's our thing though.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: But you know, now, you know, I'm noticing. You know,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: she she didn't want out, you know, she didn't want
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: to lunch a couple of time with his brother named Alan,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, no, no, it ain't gonna go
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: down like this here. You know what I'm saying. Are
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: you my wife? Man? Hey, that's that's not why I
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: called you. I called you my wife. That's what I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: want to know. I'm telling you about this dude named Alan.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I need you to step up as the husband and
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: fix this. But you're telling me that my wife is
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: cheating on both of us. Didn't know cheating on the
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: both of us. If she's she's cheating on me. You're
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: telling me that you with my wife too, that you've
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: been messing around with my wife. That's not that's not
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: the part I'm trying to talk about. I'm trying to
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: talk about this dude named Alan. Man, That's what I'm
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: trying to get out. We're gonna get to Alan. You
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: saying that my wife? Man, it's some crazy yo. You
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: know what, Man, I'm about to put my foot right
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: up your because when I don't play those games with her,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: she with me, were messing around. We're doing this and
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: doing that. It don't work like that. Do you understand
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Do I hear what you're saying? But
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: the beef ain't with me. The beef is with Alan. No,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: she messing over. She messing over both of us with Alan. Dog.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I'm about to call her because there's some right here.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I'm telling OK, hold on, bro, I just want you
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to deal with Alan. Are you about to stop? I'm
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: at I'm at the job. Yeah, but I'm about to
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: put my foot in your Do you understand me? No?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I hear you? Man? Alan is the one that then
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: blew this thing out of proportion. Dog, She messing over
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: me and you with this here. There ain't no me
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: and you. I don't share. Do you see what I'm saying? Yeah,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: I hear you. You don't. You don't hear me. I
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: don't shire. There's no sharing that goes on over here. Okay,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I do, I do. I'm just saying, you know, what
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: are you saying? Leaves me right here? Leave me right now.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I'm about to come up with where you at? Right now?
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Where are you at? I'm at the job where what
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Ronnie had I call Ronnie. I'm at the job where
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Ronnie at. I call Ronnie. I called the ronnicka Ronnie.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: I mean that's my little nickname too. It all right,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: but well, hold on, hold on, hold on, ron Ronnie,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Ronnie right here, she's right where she right here, right here?
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: You want hue, Okay, cool man here cool? But can
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I tell you what she's saying? I don't want to
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: hear what she's saying. I'm her on the phone right now. Okay,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: But can I tell you what she's telling me to
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: tell you? She ain't telling you to tell me damn thing,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: because the only thing that you is my foot. Okay, okay,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but but but but Ronnie wants me to tell you
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: this man. Just listen to me, Terrence. She wants me
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got franked by your wife, Veronica.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: You know what, I don't play this yond up, up,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: yond up. I'm gonna give your old school woman you
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: are no, I'm not all right. I'm in the car.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I was on my way over there, about to go
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: to jail, mess to the round with y'all. Hey, let
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: me ask you this man, what is the baddest and
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land. You
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: already known show nothing. Yeah, coming up at the top
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: of the hour, Thank you, nephew, coming up at the
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: top of the our entertainment and national news right after this,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, everybody can make this
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: note to themselves. Doing business with a criminal suspect isn't
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: always the best way to go. Okay, just make that
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: note for yourself. So okay, Valencia Love put up. We're
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: wondering who put up the money to bail r Kelly
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: out of jail. Well, her name is Valencia Love. She
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: put up the one hundred thousand dollars needed to get
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: r Kelly out on bond back in February when he
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: was arrested on ten counts of aggravated criminal sexual abuse.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: She also paid his fifty thousand dollars in back child
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: support when he was jailed in March for missing payments.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: To a national question, before you go any further, this
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: is not a joke. I'm asking a question. Is it
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: true that she owns a daycare? I heard she owned
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: the restaurant restare restaurant care. Yeah, I didn't hear she
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: owned a daycare. Now that was that? That was a
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: serious question. Yeah, yes, the answer had been yes. I
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: ask for restaurant, Okay, cool. I was just asking because
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: then if it was true, then we turned from a
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: question too. I would have several states. Ye, story, It's
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: just it's a restaurant. I just wanted to know. I know, seriously,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: somebody told me that in a very serious tone, and
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: so I was just asking, was that alert a daycare alert?
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't hear that. The food in the end of
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: the daycare, Timmy, where did you hit this all? Alright?
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Here it is here this once it was revealed a
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: woman helped free R Kelly. Twitter began to track her
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: down and found out she was a forty seven year
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: old and an owner of a couple of businesses in
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Chicago area, one day care center, the other a restaurant.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: So she owned both of them, actually both and that's okay.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: So well, now, after after finding that out and thinking
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: it through a little bit more, album reserved my comments.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: In a four page motion, Steve Valencia Love claims that
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: she knew R. Kelly personally and that he promised to
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: pay her money back at the time, she said she
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: didn't know about other investigations. Unfortunately, Illinois Judge Lawrence Flood
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: said no to Valencia Love's request because she has no
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: legal basis to get her money back. Meanwhile, R. Kelly
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: is in jail again, this time for federal crime. Wait
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: a minute, hold up, whoa, he's in jail again? He
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: and pop. Yeah, I didn't know that. How long you
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: been in jail? Some months? Yeah, that's been a couple
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: You was on the boat when they picked him up. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: you was on the boat when they picked up y'all.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations. This is a big story
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: from my Home station Mix ninety two point three in Detroit.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations to the Detroit Youth Choir.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: They were a finalist last night on America's Gut Tell
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Hit Detroit. We are so proud of you. They didn't win.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Cody Lee, the Blind Artistic guys, he won the million dollars.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: But Detroit Youth Choir, they were right there and they
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: represent yeah, all right, switching gears now, ladies and gentlemen.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Miss Anne Tripp. Okay, thank you very much and good morning,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: and yes, yes, yes, congratulations Detroit. This is a trip
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: with the news. Secretary State Mike Pompeia was accusing Iran
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: of making what he describes as an act of war
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: by attacking Saudi Arabia's oil infrastructure a few days ago.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: Rebels and Yemen have cleaned responsibility for it, though, but
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Pompey was dismissing that one because he says the Whosies
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: just don't have that kind of capability. The equipment used
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: is unknown to be in the hood the arsenal. Meanwhile,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: President Trump is appointed Robert O'Brien to be his next
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: National security advisor, and this will be the fourth man
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: appointed to the position by Trump and only three years
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: before him. There were Generals Michael Flynn, HR mcmasses and
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: John boltimost recently, whom he said he fired, but John
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Bolton said, no, I quit. Robert O'Brien has been serving
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: as America's point man, by the way, on hostage affairs. Also,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: President Trump was in California yesterday where he announced that
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: he is revoking that state's long standing authority to regulate
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: its own emission standards for cars and trucks. California was
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: granted the authority to do that to regulate its own
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: emissions because the unhealthy air that was actually kind of
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: famous or infamous to be found in Los Angeles and
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: some other cities, all the smog and stuff, and that's
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: why they got the right in the first place. But
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: the Trump administration insists that relaxed standards will result in
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: less expensive and safer cars. But California Governor Gavin Newsom
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: says the White House is really trying to only please
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: one constituency, the oil industry. They don't care. He doesn't
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: care about the economy, he says, or consumers or health
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: or anything like that. As a result of an investigation
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: conducted by New Jersey's Attorney General and the Division of
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: civil rights. A white wrestling coach named Alan Maloney, who
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: had an assistant cut in African American kids, dreads off
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: before he would let the man compete. Young man compete well.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Alan Maloney has now been suspended himself from refereeing any
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: matches for the next two years. By the way, a
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: black wrestling coach says the same guy Maloney poked him
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: in the chest three years ago and called him the
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: N word when they had a disagreement. The black coach,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Preston Hamilton, responded by slamming Maloney to the floor. Troops
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: are being deployed in Bermuda this morning to help with
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: the reparation the preparations needed in advance of the arrival
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: of Hurricane Berto. The Category A three storm is expected
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: just north of Bermuda this morning. It may be kind
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: of a day right now. Any shift that could put
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: it right on top of the island. So we have
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: to see how the winds are going because it can
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: go from really bad to worse. Schools are closed into Bermuda,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: so of the government offices, and there's no ferry or
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: bus service and a lot of folks try to get out.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Yesterday and the day before GM factories remain idle for
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: a fourth day to day, with some forty nine thousand
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: UAW workers still walking picking lines at Union wants a
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: bigger share of the carmaker's profits and better working conditions.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: GM is said to want to bring labor costs down
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: so that they're closer to auto plants running foreign country
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: cut countries. Finally, today's National Cheeseburger Day. It's what's for
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: dinner if you like burgers. Now back to the Steve
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show, all right, So
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: people are saying with all of these NFL quarterback injuries,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: the Jets, the Saints, the Steelers, and now possibly Cam
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Newton may not start on Sunday due to a foot
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: or an ankle injury. Foot and an ankle injury. Colin
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Kaepernick's agent said Colin is literally in the best shape
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: of his life. He's been working out five days a week, yeah,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: at five am, for three years. He wants to play.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: His agent also has been kind tacking teams in need
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: of a quarterback. So what do you think, Steve, I
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: think it would be great for the league. The problem
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: that I'm having right now, though, is this settlement that
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: he signed with the NFL. I'm concerned that it has
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: some stipulations in it. See listen. Okay, okay, First of all,
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: you all do understand this that the NFL it's group
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: of owners. The group of owners hires Roger Goodell. You
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: do understand this. They hire the commissioner because the commissioner
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: is to represent the shield of the NFL. Now, he's
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: a pretty well liked owner amongst a lot of players
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: and amongst the owners, he's very popular guy amongst them.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Crowds boo him, but the players can said to him
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: to be a fair judge of character. I don't know
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: what the deal was that Colins signed the settlement money
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: that they had to pay him for keeping him out
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: of the league. So I don't know if his agent
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: is being fourth right with that, because you would think
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: his phone would ring at this particular time. Yeah, they
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: really need him. Would you have signed that knowing you
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: can't play that money? Okay? Yeah? It must have been
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: a lot of them because you might not play. Hello.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: And see true, it's hard to get guaranteed money in
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: the NFL. Most players don't get guaranteed. Now, if you
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: get hurt and you don't make the team. You out
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: of money, I don't give it. If you don't. If
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: you signed a four year contract without guarantees and you
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: get cut the second year, they don't pay you. But
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: it's not like that in baseball and basketball. Huh oh. No,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Baseball the major and football is number one spectator sport
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: for television and everything. But the problem is they have
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: a sixteen game season. It's eighty six games in the NBA,
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: A hundred and sixty eight and eighty something games in baseball.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you know what I'm saying,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: six to one hundred and sixty two sixteen at the
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: money's not there, okay, but my owners, Dough they clock it. Yeah,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: they're getting money at TV contract him, endorsements. I think
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Colin should play. I would love to see him back.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: That would be great, all right. Coming up next to
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: thirty four after the Hour, guys, Beyonce says that visiting
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: countries in Africa Steve is always a very emotional experience
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: for her. We'll talk about that right after this you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: On Monday, ABC released Beyonce's documentary called Making the Gift,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: which gave fans behind the scene to look at the
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: making of her Lion King inspired album, It's her self
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: described love letter to Africa and the Long. In the
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: hour long special, Beyonce shared intimate, never before seen moments
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: with her family as cameras followed her and her husband
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  Speaker 1: and their children and her mom on a trip to Africa.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: Steve Beyonce says, visiting countries in Africa is always an
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: emotional experience for me. Feels like I'm making a peace.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I'm making peace with a part of me that's yeourning
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: for my ancestral connection. Your thoughts on that, Steve who
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: I think She's absolutely right. That is probably the perfect
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: way to describe it. And that's why I think it's imperative.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: It's if I know, I know people are gonna go, man,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: that it's a long way them tickets. Listen to me,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Every African American should go back to their homeland. It
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: is beyond emotional. It is beyond emotional. You It's it's
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: a magnetic pool. It's where we're all from. See. America's
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: our home. I was born here, I was raised here,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: My family is here, my friends are here. Things I
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: love I was cutting made in Cleveland. America's my home.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Make no mistake about that. But Africa is my home land.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: When you step off the plane in Araica and Africa,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: you feel a very very strong sense of belonging. Let
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: me tell you something else I've discovered. I'm gonna tell
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: you something and deep because I really had to come
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: to terms with this the other day, because I was
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: really searching my soul, man to really find out the
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: way to describe how I was feeling, because I just
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: didn't I couldn't put a grip on it. And I
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: discovered this, America is my home. Yeah, Africa is my
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: home land. America has my heart, Africa has my soul. Wow,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: that is the best way. And I had to write
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: it down because I was just just happening. Let me
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: tell you today the seventeenth, on my morning meditation on
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Tuesday morning the seventeenth, at six thirty am, I wrote
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: this in my journal because I was just wrastling with
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: how I felt about Africa and America and America is
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: my home I was born here. Come on, man, there
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: was opportunities here that I was able to take advantage of.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Has been a lot of strife that hit me, but
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I dealt with it. My family is here, my brothers
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: and sisters is here, my mom and daddy buried here,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: my family hill, my friends is here. That America my home,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: but Africa is my home land. It's a piece of me.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: When I was in that slave dungeon and I felt
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: and couldn't get up, and I told y'all what happened
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: to me. One of my ancestors was in that room
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: and he was on me. And when I put my
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: hand on the wall, I felt pressure on me. And
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: what made me know it was real, my oldest son,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: Broderick Junior, was with me. He was facing that same wall,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: heaving uncontrollably. He couldn't even turn around. That's when I
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: knew that I had made this boy, and somebody that
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: was in that male dungeon had made one of us.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Because there's no there's no, there's nothing beyond my father
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: in my ancestry dot com. Everybody trying and nothing passed
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: or my father. Now, America has my heart because of
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: my mom and daddy and my brothers and my sisters
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: and my friends and my career and family whew keeping.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: But Africa has my soul. Africa will make you feel
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: something in your soul that you've never failed here. I
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: promise you that that's why every African American should make
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: it a vow to make a what's what's the word
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: pil pilgrimage, pilgrimage, pilgrimage to the motherland. It will change
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: your life forever. That's my speech. Okay, all right, well
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: read more about Beyonce story. I'm Steve Harvey FM dot com.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Now coming up next, nephew in the building with today
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: frank phone call. That's right after this. You're listening to
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: the show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: The subject should I love him or leave him? Is
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: the subject? Okay, right now, nephew in the building with
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for us? In after?
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Are you all right about? Oh my god? What is
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Rick James? F Yeah, loved them or lead them? I got?
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I used to do us intermusd then eyes on you.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: What's your girl named? Jail? I can't that girl name
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: and she was good, but you could frank interest boy girl.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: We're just coming on the radio. Yeah, yeah, man, Low Leader,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Low Leader. That girl got out to Low Leader with
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: her singing self. Hey, I got Kate Dog for y'all.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Kate Dog is the prank called Kate Dog. Just got
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: out of jail and looking for a few things that's
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: old to him. Kate Dog. Hello, Oh yeah, I'm trying
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: to reach I'm trying to reach tears. Its appared to
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: this this ky his uh, his brand his branding? Your
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: brother then, yeah, that's my brother. He locked up? White's up?
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Who cause? Yea? Who hey, look I just got that.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I was actually uh, I was locked up with your brother.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: We was on the same TiO together. I was, you know,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: that was kind of like most for right there, I
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: took kill him. He told me that he was. He
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: had been writing you to tell you and you was,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: you know, letting you know I had been taken care
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: of him while he was locked down or whatever. I
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: know he don't get off for another couple of years,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: but like he told me that when he was writing
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: you that you know, y'all had already got it situated it.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: You know, you was gonna take care of me when
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I got out. So you know, I, like I said,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I just got out last night, and I wanted to
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: come by and pick up the first ten grand. You know,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: sometimes this wait wait wait wait, wait wait wait wait wait,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: really how much did you just say? Kenny grand? Yeah?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: You know? I mean he told me he had already
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: wrote you and told you what was up? Oh bro,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't talking to my brother over a year, dude,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: So ain't know. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: on right? You know? Okay he told nah, you know,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Peter told me that you you got me straight with
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: the first ten grand when I first get out and done.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: A couple of months later, you will hit me with
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: the next ten grands. It's just twenty grand. Wait wait,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: well over that's twenty grand. Bro. I got a wife
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: and kids. I got a families take care of. Ain't no,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: I ain't got ten grand to deal with. I gotta
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: feed four kids and the wife. Okay, okay, So what
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: you hold on? Hold? How how old? Hold them up? Man?
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: So what you're saying Brandon was lying to me the
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: whole time. What I'm telling you is just locked up
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: eighty man to say anything to say to Ain't no
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: ten grand over here, Ain't no twenty grand over here.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: You want to get it, Brandon gonna need to wait
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: two years till he get out and deal with that.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: Get grand no, no, it ain't. It ain't. It ain't been.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: It ain't been the fill like that, plea niga hear
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: what's says to go? Okay, Nah, I'm coming over the fraggy,
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: coming over ten grand. The first ten green is old
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: old frad. Now what I ain't got the first. First
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: of all, what you need to know is just right here.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: I don't kill nothing about going back. My thing is
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: just right here, just paper supposed to be rid and
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: took care of your brother all these years while I
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: was up in there keeping people up off of them
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: on the third till. And now you've been to come
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: to me. You're fens to come to me nine How
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: to put it in his work is now y'all ain't
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: been to play up. It ain't been them like this. Yeah,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm telling y'all. Doesn't put it in work
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: to provide my family, me and my wife work. And
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: you telling me that you're telling to come over here
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Friday to get ten grand that I ain't even got
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: for that's locked up. Hey man, Look, I'm not I'm not.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not feeling first of all all this backing pool.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: But like this hill, this ain't nothing too do you understand,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't go back and food.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: I let you know what it is. It's ten green
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: being on Friday now if you need to try to
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: reach out to your brother is uh locked in? You
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: didn't talk to him. But like the deal, I'm coming
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: looking for terres and I'm looking for my ten grand.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: That's this, that's ill native ten grand. I put some
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: tims up beyond. You come over here to my house
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: to my family about you're gonna get ten grand with
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: my no great brother that's locked down. Hold on, hold on,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: because see you're gonna you're gonna reve around and take this.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: You know way what First of all, what did you
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: just say on him? When I get over with us?
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: What you say? You you bring your to my house
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: with my family here, I'm gonna put some tims up yond.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: How about ten thousand dollars and then another ten and
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: a couple of months you lost so damn blind. I
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: ain't got no damn grand. I've worked my often. You're
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: gonna tell me that you want ten grand? Another ten
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: grand in a few months of taking care of my
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: brother while he locked up. Nobody tell you take care
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: of him. That's a girl man. Let him take care
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: of the self, Me and my family and num Bell
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: just out of so much. I'm dumb. Hey, hey, hey,
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: do look at I understand how it is that you're saying.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: But what you what you gotta looking on mine? For
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: the laying three and a half years, I've been over
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: here taking killed and he telling me y'all gonna take
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: kill me. So so here, I don't know what's going on.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: What I do know well though, Fried, this Frid I'm
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: coming to get teen Graham from Tims. So you got
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: the six this right here. Anyway you're gonna feast so
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I and that just is right there. Come Fried, I'm
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: in front of your house. Down what wait, hunt on? What?
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Hunt on? Kate dog you say your name name, Kate
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: dog baby from the third decade down from the third
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: till three tills on the side of my left. I
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: don't done three decades. You probably don't work the everybody
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: in the street and then jail you got with my
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tall something you bring over here to
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: my house. Try to me, my wife and my kids.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Thing gonna go down like you think it ain't gonna
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: go I'm gonna give you a thing I got. Then
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: on them. You come over here, you're gonna be laying down. Bro,
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be what donna be laying down? You come
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: over here and try to me and my family and
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: my kids. That ain't gonna happen that way. You okay,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Then that's then that's that's where we are to him, baby,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: Then we just we just go off this up a Friday,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: and then because it don't make me know, I know
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: I ready to tell about we gotta wait to no Friday,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: kay dog, we gotta wait to find I meet you somewhere.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: You're gonna like you think it's gonna go down. Once
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: I get you anything I got and lay you down,
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in there with my brother Brandon whooping
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: his putting me into he doesn't got yourn I'll call you. Hey.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: You know, first of all, if you ain't got the
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: ten grand, you might well going on brand not anyway.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Get this you know you need to do. You need
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: to get your out here and get a job like
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: everybody else. I don't care how long you've been in
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: and everybody got a job. I'm busting you won't ten
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: been worked for that ten grand and get you out
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: here and wash cause such grand. Hey, man, you know
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: what I'm gonna tell you. Know what your your brother?
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: One thing ain't about you? He was right about you though,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: he was right about you. You know what I'm saying.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what thing else he told me
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: about Joe? What? What the hell did he tell you
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: about me? He told me to tell you who I
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: really was. This is nephew Tom and from the Steve
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: harp and more and show your sister to thee got
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: me to plant phone call you. Who the is this?
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: This is? This is this is nephew jommy man for
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey born to show your sister the Vita
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: got me the prank phone call? You get them? I didn't.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: I hadn't lit up a cigarette in the house. I
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: couldn't smoke in the house. Ta, I'm gonna get hut
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: you all right? Man? I am You had me on ten.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: I'm like ten brands. I'm gonna come to my wife. Man,
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: it's all good, man. I gotta ask for what is bad?
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: And I mean the sayest radio show in the lane. Man,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: you know what it is is Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me go see my brother. Now it
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: is holidays. I'm gonna have to go see that man
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: in jail. Many dog right there, y'all's everybody knows somebody.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows somebody getting out now, you know that? Talking
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: about my cousin Greensboro, North Carolina. The fool is coming
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: to town. That is this coming side ofday night at
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: the Carolina Theater. Got a few tickets left. Tickets are
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: on sale right now and it will be those famous
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: two words. It's on this way too, sold out, So
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I will see you very soon. Greensboro, North Carolina, Carolina Theater.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I think it's on sale right now. The fool is
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: coming to town. All right, nephews, Thank you, Thank you.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject should I Love them
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: or leave him? We'll get into it right after this.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys, Time now for
• 55:56
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  Speaker 1: on tight, we got it, Paul you here. It is
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: the Strawberry letter, Thank you nephew. Subject should I love
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: him or leave him? Dear Stephen Shirley. I met an
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: older guy and I was attracted to him, but played
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: hard to get. He begged me for a first date,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: and I eventually agreed to go out with him. He
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: asked me to pick him up, and I didn't think
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: much about it since his house was on the way
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: to the restaurant. When I got to the house, he
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: came out, and so did a much older lady. He
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: got in my car and told me that was his mother.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: That was his mom, and that he lived with her.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: At this point I had an opportunity to tell him
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: that I was not interested, but I went out to
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: dinner with him anyway. At dinner, he told me that
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: he's a convicted felon, but that was years ago and
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: he's got a great job and a new life now.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I kept seeing this man and eventually went to his home,
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: well his mom's house, and saw how filthy his room was.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: And I also noticed that his mom's yard was unkept
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: and there was trash lying around the driveway and porch there.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: These were red flags, and I told him he should
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: do better at helping his mom out around the house.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: Then I invited him to my house to meet my
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: two children. I know he talks really hood and street,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: but I thought he would do better when he met
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: my children, he did not, and my kids asked him
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: why he was talking like a rapper. He kept commenting
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: on how nice I kept my house, and after the visit,
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: his conversations turned to us making a commitment. He suggested
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: moving in with me so we could be closer and
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: he could help me out around the house. I was
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: excited at first because I really liked this man, but
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: then I thought I was being nice eve and he
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: could just be using me although he has some character flaws.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Could I work on this fix er upper and be happy?
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: Or should I leave this man at his mama's house?
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: Please advise, run, run, run as far away from this
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: man as you possibly can. I mean, you got to
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: leave this man alone, please. I mean, when you see
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: red flags, don't ignore them. That's what red flags are for. Okay,
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: let's go through him. He lives with his mom, all right.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: The yard is nasty, his room is nasty. He has
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: no car. He doesn't know how to be a good
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: role model in front of your children. And if he's
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: got such a nice job, in a great job and
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: all this stuff like you see in the letter, why
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: doesn't he save his money and get an apartment. There
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: was no discussion about that in this letter. And you
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: know it wasn't until after he saw your place, after
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: he came over there, that he started, you know, like
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: kind of pressure you to move in and to be committed.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: He said he would help you around the house. Oh really,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: you would help her, but you're not you. He'll help you,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: but he's not going to help his own mom around
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: the house. He could at least clean up the yard,
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: and what about his room. Come on, I don't get this.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: I say, don't let him in your house in this
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: kind of a way. Don't let him move in. Please,
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: this is not how you want to live. You have
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: two kids to think about. I think if he was
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: and you didn't mention you know, what he was incarcerated
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: for or anything like that. You just said he's out.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: That was years ago, and he has a great job
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: in a new life now. But it just doesn't look
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: like it or seem like it. You know, yeah, he
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: could be using you, but I say no, it's too
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  Speaker 1: soon to move in. Don't let him do it. Steve,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm confused. I really am huh about Why? Why
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  Speaker 1: is she writings? Yeah, what is the purpose of this letter?
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: I don't even know why? Why are we? Why are
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: we talking to her about? Who? Who are we talking about? That?
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  Speaker 1: Everything in this letter screams what? Yeah, I mean, the
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  Speaker 1: whole damn letter. Let's start. I met an older guy
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  Speaker 1: right down and use attracted to him, but you played
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  Speaker 1: hard to get Okay, you know, older guy. He begged
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: me for a first date. I agree with brother. He
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: asked me to pick him up. Right now, let's stop,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: let's let's go. Let's listen, just listen. You met an
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: older guy. He asked me to pick him up. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't think nothing about it since his house was on
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  Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the house,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: he came out, and so did a much older lady.
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  Speaker 1: Let's circle this. Let's just go for what we got
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  Speaker 1: so far. I met a older guy. He asked you
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  Speaker 1: to pick him up. He come out of the house
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  Speaker 1: with an old ass lady. He got in my car
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  Speaker 1: and told me this was his mom and he lived
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  Speaker 1: with her. Let's circle that. At this point I had
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  Speaker 1: the opportunity to tell him I was not interesting. But
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: I went out to dinner with him anyway for what? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Let me circle that. I went out to dinner with
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: him anyway. Then at dinner he told me he's a
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  Speaker 1: convicted feeling. Let's circle that twice. But that was years ago,
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  Speaker 1: and he got a good job and got a new life.
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  Speaker 1: Now I kept seeing this man and eventually went to
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  Speaker 1: his house, well, his mom's house. Okay, Let's circle that,
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  Speaker 1: because now about were you? Why are you still talking
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  Speaker 1: to his ass after this? I don't know, But you
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: went back to his mama's house. And then this older
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  Speaker 1: man you met. You saw how filthy his room was.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the last time I had a room, I
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  Speaker 1: was seventeen. Yeah, and last time I took somebody to
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  Speaker 1: my room other than a dormitory in college. Yeah, all right,
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  Speaker 1: how filthy his room was. Let's stop down or to
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  Speaker 1: be right? At twenty three after the hour, a subject
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  Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry Letters. Should I love him or leave him?
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  Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap. Today's my recap can just be
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: a continuation because as I continue, I'll explain it. I'm
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: gonna show you everything that's wrong with this letter. This
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: letter is should I love him or leave him? Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 1: I met an older guy. I circled that I was
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: attracting him, but I played hard to get. He begged
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: me for a first date. I eventually agreed to go
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  Speaker 1: out with him. He asked me to pick him up.
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  Speaker 1: I circled that everything I circle is screaming what I
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: ain't think much about it since his house was on
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: house and he came out, and so did a much
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: older lady. I circled that, who is this old ass lady?
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: He got in my car and told me that this
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  Speaker 1: was his mom and he lived with her. I circled that,
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  Speaker 1: let's go back, older guy, you had to pick him up,
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  Speaker 1: he's this old lady. Stay there, and you found out
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  Speaker 1: his mama. At this point I had an opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: tell him I was not interested, but I went out
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  Speaker 1: to dinner with him anyway. I circled that the question
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  Speaker 1: I'm begging everybody to ask yourself. Is why is you
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  Speaker 1: at dinner with this old ass man to stay at
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: the house with his mama that you had to pick up?
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  Speaker 1: That's all I'm asked At dinner. He told me he
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: was a convicted fellon. This whole letter is going to hell.
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  Speaker 1: But I kept seeing the man why. Eventually I went
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: to his house where his mom's house. So I circled
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  Speaker 1: that because it took you two visits to get it
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  Speaker 1: the first time you pulled up. Next time you went
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  Speaker 1: to the damn house and found out it was a
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: mama's house. Stretch yelled on in blue plates, leaning up
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  Speaker 1: against the wall on the fireplace, and had that big
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  Speaker 1: woodn't and spoon and fox set hanging on the damn wall,
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  Speaker 1: that picture of white Jesus, mar Luther King and John F. Kenned.
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  Speaker 1: And I noticed that his mom's yard was unkept, and
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: it was trash laying around. I circled that he don't
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  Speaker 1: give a damn by his mama. Trash laying around the
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: driveway and the porch that's where he eats. These were
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  Speaker 1: all red flags, and I told him he should do
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: better helping out his mom around. Now you know what
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: judge Lyn told her told me one time on the
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: show what she said, women should stop collecting red flags. Ye,
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  Speaker 1: women should stop collecting red flags time. I'm gonna let
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: you use that already for love this year, women should
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: stop collecting red flags. I told him he should do
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: better helping his mom out around the house. Then I
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: to him to my house to meet my two children.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: I circled this, why is he meeting your damn kids?
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Exactly what redeeming quality has he exhibited where you think
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  Speaker 1: it's time for him to meet your damn kids? Now
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: he talks real hood in street. I circled that he
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  Speaker 1: stay at home with his mama. Is mama old? He
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: had to pick him up. He lived with his mama.
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  Speaker 1: You went out to dinner anyway, he a convicted felling.
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  Speaker 1: You went to his mama's house. His room is filtered.
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  Speaker 1: It's translating around the driveway in the porch. I invited
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  Speaker 1: him to your house to meet the two kids, and
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: he talked real hood in street. This whole letter is
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  Speaker 1: just going to hell. But I thought he would do
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: better when he met my children. He did not, And
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: your kids asked him why was he talking like a rapper?
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: You know why? Because your kids know his whole ass
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: should be talking better than one of the damn piers.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: Your kids know that, but you don't. So I circled that.
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  Speaker 1: He kept commenting on how nice I kept my house.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, hell yeah, you just described as mama's house.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: And after the visit, his conversation has turned to us
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  Speaker 1: making a commitment, a commitment to what he suggested, moving
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  Speaker 1: in with me so he could be closer and he
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: could help out round the house. He don't help out
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: round the house. He don't help out round the house.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: He don't help out in his filth ass room. He
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: don't help out with nothing on the poach, He don't
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  Speaker 1: help out with nothing with the driveway. Where do he
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: clean up at? So he fitn't help you. Well, I
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: was excited at first because I really liked this man.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: What is it you like? You ain't saying nothing in
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: the letter you like ye? Your whole letter is you
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: just how disappointed you on this man? Then you sound
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: really like him? You like what you must not. You
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: ain't never handle man before, you never had a good
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: man before. Because if this is what you like, I
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: show what I hate to see, the one you got
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: rid of, the one you had them two kids by lady,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: you need to up your up your game. I really
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: like this man, but then I have thought I was
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: being you naive and he could be using me. Although
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: he had some character flaw character flaw. He old his hell.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He ain't got a car.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He stayed with Hi Mama.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He's a convicted felon. That
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: ain't a character flaw. His room is filtered. That ain't
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: a character flaw. It's chanced on the dryway in the porch.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He wants to move in
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: with you so he can help out round house here.
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  Speaker 1: Damn Run all right, Steve Run. Post your comments on
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: today Strawberry Letter on the Instagram at Steve Harvey fm
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  Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six after the hour, Our
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: girl from the Talk Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: listening to morning show coming up at the top of
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: the hour. It's Carlos Reality Update. But right now please
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: introduce that girl. Gentlemen, put your hair together. Every thank
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  Speaker 1: you clap for the one and on that shell thr
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  Speaker 1: Hey Junior, Hey Scharley Carlos and Hey Junior, Hey Junior,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: Hey Junior. Where are you in the country because I'm
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: on my way the Hoover Well really Burmingham to do
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: the stardom. So if you are free and you would
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: like to come hang out with me for two days,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: you know, I'll be there on Friday and Saturday. I
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: got two shows on Friday, two shows on Saturday. Yeah,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: where are you? Where are you gonna be? Okay? Do
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: you want to go to Burmingham? Okay, I'll come down
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: for really you we hang out together. Yeah, we hang out.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: The hotels are sold out, so you're gonna have to
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: sleep in the same room as me. Get ready. Yes,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: I'll be shaving and plucking hairs out of my chin.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: So what what men need to know that after the change? Hey,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: I got a question for y'all. I got a question
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: for y'all. You know Whitney Houston. Uh what Pat Houston?
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: They about to do this hologram tour. But I feel
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: this over only overseas. Yeah, yeah, y'all feel about that.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: I y'all feel about feeling And you know I love
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: me from Whitney Houston. Love to anybody asking me, huh yeah,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: well I remember when Whitney Houston was on MERV Griffin.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: She had a short natural she was on MERV Griffin.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: She loved that that But Steve, what you think about it?
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: What you think about the hologram? Black people don't like ghosts?
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: That is that that ray pocket Junr. I ain't fraid
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: of no ghosts. That it is, Steve. They're gonna be
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: hard candy show to Detroit. I'm just checking, you know.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: I wish it well. I wish you to be successful,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: but this will probably do real good overseas. Yea, overseas,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: Fox happen. They don't body. Black people don't like it
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: gold m m no, no not. And you can't do everybody, Steve,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: you can't don't do no Luther Andel's hologram. Nobody wants
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: to listen to that. No, that's hurd our art. That
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: makes us cry. But then they're gonna have them talking
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: to the orders. How y'all doing hell? No behind me, Satan,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: I'm not talking no evil spirit. No, that's my doing it.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: I wish you well. I hope we do good. But
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: how much is the tickets? Well, they're gonna be free
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: over here. Then you don't shut up. If it ain't
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: a real person, ticket need to be free by doing you.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: We gotta get out of you. Start by thank you.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: Cheryl coming up at the top of the hour, it's
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: Carlin Reality. You're listening. All right, Tommy, it's that time.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: Let's go, Low's go, Let's get it. Let's get it.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: She is here, Calor Ferrel with what reality update. Oh,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: let's talk about the Real Housewives of Potomac the Season
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: four the Reunion show, Part one. All right, my girl,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: Jazelle Bryant, Steve Gazelle Bryant. She announced that, yes, that
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: she and her ex husband, Pastor Jamal Bryant are dating again.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: All right now, Yes, isn't that good? Yes, Pastor Jamal
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: and Gizelle they were married, she said, I guess about
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: seven years and they got a divorce. They are co parenting.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: They have three children, beautiful together, three daughters. Yes, those
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: girls are beautiful. And Giselle said that the two have
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: been seeing each other since last year and that Pastor
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: Jamal was heavily pursuing her. And she went on to say,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: there's nobody who knows me like that man. And I said,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: all right, girl. She also forgives him for cheating on her.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: She says that yes, she wanted to. Uh, you know,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: they're giving their love a second chance. That's what it seems.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: You know what. You know, they've had time away from
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: each other. That's not bad. You know, people go, I
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: wants to cheat, always are cheated. That's not true. People change, man, Yeah,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: people change all the time, and for the better. That's outstanding. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Gizelle said, you know, people, you know you you're not
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: You aren't your mistakes. That's what she said. You know,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: you are not your mistakes. And she has forgiven him,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: and so you know they have three children together and
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: they're dating again, and you know, one of the castmates, Monique,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: asked her, oh, are you ready to be a first lady,
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: And she's like, whatever the Lord has for me, I
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: am ready. So good for them, good for Zelle and
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: Jamal has Eddie Long's old church. I've heard, man, nothing
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: but really really good things about it. Yeah. Yeah, I
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: read an article Steve in the Atlanta Journal Constitution. The
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: church is doing building assistant living, affordable assistant living, yeah,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: for senior citizens, medical facility. So they are doing big
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: things for the community in Atlanta. So congratulations. And they're
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: just doing God's work down there. People who are close
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: to me who go to the church. Uh, and I
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: just think, man, they're doing it. He's doing He's doing
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: the heck of a job man down there. He really
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: really is right. Uh yeah, Kanye, he was just there. Yeah.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: We talked about that earlier this week on the show
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: when Kanye was there as well. All right, back to
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: the reunion show. Did you see Shirley, Candice and Ashley
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: they were doing the most. They got him, Steve saying
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: for me again, girl, they got him, yes, Chow, they
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: got on my nerves. Anyway, Candice mother, Candice's mother, Miss Dorothy,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: was there and talked about their relationship. I just don't
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: understand what's going on with them, mother and daughter. Anyway,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: Candice bart receipts, brought receipts there, I should say, to
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  Speaker 1: prove that this town home that her and her husband
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: lived in is actually hers with her mom. Just you know,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: a whole bunch of drama with that. And there's an
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: also there's a rumor that Ashley and her husband Michael,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: that they are not coming back to the show. I
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: don't know if that's true. I don't believe that quite.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior. That's what I need my know, Yeah,
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true. And finally let me
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: move on. Yeah, before we run out of time, y'all,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: we have to say congratulations. This is a big story
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  Speaker 1: from my home station NIX ninety two point three in Detroit.
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  Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations to the Detroit Youth Choir.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: They were a finalist last night on America's Gut tell
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Us No Detroit, we are so proud of you. They
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: didn't win. Cody Lee the Blind Autistics SI guys, he
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: won the million dollars. But Detroit Youth Choir they were
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: right there and they represent Yeah. Yep, so that's reality. Update.
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  Speaker 1: Hit me up at lip Spark, Carla, and we'll be
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  Speaker 1: back at twenty after you're listening to show Well. The
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: chicken sandwich wars are on. First Popeyes versus Chicken Bilelet
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  Speaker 1: Now now KFC is rolling out a new version of
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: their chicken sandwich which features a piece of fried chicken.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: Check this out. Flapped between two glazed donuts. Oh yeah, delicious,
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: sugar and grease together. What's not the love about that?
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Right between no, no joke, fried chicken and doughnuts. Sandwiches
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: are currently being tested at locations in Norfolk and Richmond, Virginia,
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: as well as in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. What do you think,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, let me ask you something. Is it bread
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: or they're using the two doughnuts as the bread? Yeah?
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: The two donuts tell the bread. Uh? Well, I'll tell
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: you right now. It might taste good because I've had glaze,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: don't know which, some fried chicken. But if you eat
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: that whole sandwich, what's gonna happen? I strongly suggest that
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: you eat it under the overhang at the emergency room,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: like a lot of bites up there, and eat your
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: sandwich on the curb in front of the emergency did right,
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: that's enough cholesterol to bush your heart. Yeah, that's a
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: lot right there. And the sugar. If you don't have diabetes,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: you wheel all right? All right, We'll have more of
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up and some trending
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: news at thirty three after the hour. Right after this.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, So, Steve, you know,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: earlier this week we were talking about parenting and our
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: kids and everything, and we didn't get around to the nephew.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: He's been wanting to ask you this question about parenting
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: all week. Nephew, you have the floor, all right. So
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: my little girl, Sitney, she turned fifteen. We throw a big,
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: you know, big dinner, and she got a lot of
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: kids there. I mean a lot of teenagers from Jack
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: and jail. And you know it's fine. We got about
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: twenty thirty kids at the table and then at our table.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: It's more than adults. But I'm starting to see these
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  Speaker 1: little boys hugging my daughter and taking pictures with it.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never seen this before. You're gonna have to
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  Speaker 1: hit one of them in the face. I don't know how.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. You're gone, No, just ain't got nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with y'all ladies. Dadda. You had to hit
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  Speaker 1: one of them little punk as boys in their face
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  Speaker 1: in front of the other boys. But don't let nobody
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  Speaker 1: see it but the boys. All right, now go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: now let's do the radio as ahead. What how do
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  Speaker 1: I handle this as a father? And I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to be too hard on it, but I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to be too soft on it at the same time, Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: respect my house. I know my daughter's beautiful. I know
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  Speaker 1: you probably attract a tool, but this my house. I
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  Speaker 1: won't you be respectful my house now? In essence, while
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  Speaker 1: they're living in your house, you have some say so
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  Speaker 1: now I'll tell you like I did one of mine.
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  Speaker 1: I said, this is what happened. I'm really trying to
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  Speaker 1: be this new person. God made me on this boat
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  Speaker 1: this year, and but the old meet keeps creeping back.
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  Speaker 1: Mind dog, he talked all the time. I will see
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  Speaker 1: go somewhere and shut the hell up. You know, Tommy, Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's hard because in your house you can set rules
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  Speaker 1: and parameters, right, and so just pull the young dude
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  Speaker 1: over to the side and just say, listen, man, I
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  Speaker 1: got rules in my house, and you have to be
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  Speaker 1: respectful of my house. Yeah, don't don't. Don't come in
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  Speaker 1: my house handling my daughter. That's you can say that
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  Speaker 1: because it's your house and a man, don't don't be
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  Speaker 1: over the hug. You know nobody when you and missed
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  Speaker 1: my house. House. And that's a good message to have
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  Speaker 1: out because after that, dog, it's out your hands. Know
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  Speaker 1: what they do outside the house, it's not because you're
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  Speaker 1: not letting them do it in the house. That's what
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  Speaker 1: people have misconception of they think that in parenting, if
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  Speaker 1: you don't allow them to do it in the house,
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  Speaker 1: when they get out the house, if you don't let
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  Speaker 1: them do it in the house, when they get out
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  Speaker 1: the house, they're gonna do it. No, they're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: it any damn way. Right. You know, you got people
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  Speaker 1: talking about I let my kids drink and small weed
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  Speaker 1: in the house. That way. They ain't out in the
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  Speaker 1: streets drinking and smoking. Yes they are. If they're drinking
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  Speaker 1: a smoking weed in your house, they're drinking a smoking
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  Speaker 1: weed on the street. You be a fool to allow
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  Speaker 1: it to happen in your house. You gotta have some
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  Speaker 1: type of rules, man, to give them. Pauls for thought
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  Speaker 1: when they go out the house. Just Paul's for thought.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna stop. All right, coming up, our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day and some closing remarks from the
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  Speaker 1: very wise and very talented too Steve Harvey. Right after
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, here we go, last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day, and um, Steve, yeah, you're this
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  Speaker 1: is the time you get kind of quiet and in
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  Speaker 1: your pensive moment because it's almost time for your closing remarks.
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  Speaker 1: But it's been a good day. Rights, it's an it's
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  Speaker 1: good you know these closing remarks of late Man. I
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  Speaker 1: just want to kind of explain it to everybody. What
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  Speaker 1: I've decided to do is, uh, just share with you
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  Speaker 1: some experiences that I've gained uh and and a lot
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  Speaker 1: of it has to do with spirituality. Now let me
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  Speaker 1: let me just start by saying this. I'm not a
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  Speaker 1: very religious person per se. Uh. I think I'm really
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  Speaker 1: a spiritual person, but religious it kind of comes with
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: a different connotation. I don't claim to be perfect. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me what church you go to, what
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: mosque you go to, what synagogue you go to. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me. It's not my business. And I've
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  Speaker 1: chosen to be that way. And I think that God
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  Speaker 1: is okay with me being that way, because my message
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  Speaker 1: is to try to convince or to help people understand
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  Speaker 1: that having a relationship with God is really cool. It's
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: the relationship you want with God. Your choice of religion
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  Speaker 1: is none of my business. I have a lot of
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: Muslim friends. I know some great Muslim people around the world.
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  Speaker 1: I know some great Christian people around the world. I
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: know great Catholics around the world. I know great Jewish
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  Speaker 1: people protesting whatever. I know some really really cool people,
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  Speaker 1: and I just decided that my mission is not to
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  Speaker 1: convince you to see it my way. My mission is
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  Speaker 1: to try to help you understand that having a relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God, it's critical for you. It's necessary serry for you.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I posted something the other day on my
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  Speaker 1: Instagram and it was a picture of a warrior with
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  Speaker 1: his head bent and he was on his knee and
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: he had a sword in his hand and a shield.
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  Speaker 1: And on this Instagram post I posted it, and if
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: you go on my Instagram you can see it from yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: and this man is on his knees with his head bowed,
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: with his sword in his hand and armor and shield on.
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  Speaker 1: And he said, the devil saw me with my head
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  Speaker 1: down and thought he'd won until I said, a man,
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  Speaker 1: So what the paint was saying is my head ain't down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually praying. And so after I sent that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I was just reading the comments, which which I know better.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: But the second comment and the capture under it was
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: prayer works. The second comment under their third comment was no,
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: it don't. And you just go, wow, wait a minute, man,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: it don't matter what you say, some people gonna they
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: just dared to counter. But I don't do it for
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: those people anymore. I do it for those people who
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: trying to get it. And if you're trying to get
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: a relationship with God, it's important for you to understand something.
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: You know what you gotta understand something. Let me sprain
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: to you what I learned about favor because my life
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  Speaker 1: has a lot of favor on it. But I know
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: a lot of people who got favor on their life.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody told me one time, favor ain't fair. Favor is
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  Speaker 1: not fair. If favor was fairly giving out, if it
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  Speaker 1: was favor was giving out family, none of us would
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  Speaker 1: get it. Oh, favor ain't fair because if favor was
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  Speaker 1: given out to the just or the righteous, if that's
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  Speaker 1: how fair was passed out, would none of us get it.
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  Speaker 1: Favor ain't fair. That's why you can look over somebody's
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: life and you can judge them and say, well, they
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: ain't all this, but they got this. That's cause favor
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  Speaker 1: ain't fair. But let me show you what what favor do.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how much favor gods give to you?
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: To show you that favor ain't fair, Watch this him.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever woke up in the morning and didn't
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  Speaker 1: thank God for waking you up in the morning, but
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: he woke you up anyway? That was favor. Let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you a question, because I hardly ever do this
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  Speaker 1: when I lay down at night. I have never I
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  Speaker 1: don't recall asking God to wake me up in the morning.
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: But you know what he did for sixty two years,
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: he didn't woke me up in the morning. You know
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  Speaker 1: what that was? That was some favor. Favor ain't fail
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  Speaker 1: because guess what, I ain't even asked to be awaken.
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  Speaker 1: I have left the house without thinking him for waking
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: me up. But he keep waking me up, and he
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  Speaker 1: keep laying me down to sleep, and he keep giving
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: me another chance, and he keeps me alive when it
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 1: seems like I should have been gone. He holds me
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: when I feel so alone. He corrects mistakes that I've made,
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: on decisions I've made. He's correcting him from me. You
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  Speaker 1: know what that was, y'all? That was favor. Every time
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  Speaker 1: you take a breath that you have no control over,
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  Speaker 1: can I tell you something that's favor? That's why you
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 1: you hear old people talk about grace and favor, and
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 1: old people say, all I want is a little more grace,
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  Speaker 1: because great, you can't earn grace, you can't earn favor.
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  Speaker 1: It's just given. Favor is given to the just, Favor
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  Speaker 1: is given to the unjust. Favor is given to the grateful.
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  Speaker 1: Favor is given to people that don't ever say thank you.
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  Speaker 1: All of us have benefited from his favor. What do
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  Speaker 1: you think would happen if you form the closer relationship
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  Speaker 1: with him? Well, tomorrow, I tell you what ha happened,
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  Speaker 1: because it happened to me. I just want to share
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  Speaker 1: that with you. Y'all, have a great weekend. Talk to God.
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  Speaker 1: He'd loved to hear from you. Okay, that's a good one.
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