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$26K Reward In Vegas, Steve Mentoring Camp, Beyonce @ 40, Will Smith and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving them like the million buck things. And it's not
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  Speaker 1: through goodt has to mother. Please don't join Jo. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn them out.
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  Speaker 1: Got to turn them out. Then turn the water the water. Come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your thing, I show will good morning everybody
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got this radio show. Man,
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  Speaker 1: Hi got here. I really can't explain it. Only by
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  Speaker 1: the grace of God, that's all I can really tell you.
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  Speaker 1: I was talking with a buddy the other day and
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  Speaker 1: he was telling me. He said, Man, he had an
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  Speaker 1: interesting philosophy about it. He said. You know, you can
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  Speaker 1: have dreams and visions. He say, but God, God will
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  Speaker 1: never show you what all he has for you. He
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  Speaker 1: won't show you all of it because he knows you
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  Speaker 1: will mess it up. And you know what, man, I
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  Speaker 1: thought about that, and w how true is that? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: I know that I got a radio show. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: see it. It's just become this major blessing for me.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't see it. But if I would have seen
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  Speaker 1: it and known when he had planned on giving it
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  Speaker 1: to me, I would have messed it up because number one,
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  Speaker 1: my first question would have been to him, why I
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  Speaker 1: got to wait so long? Why don't I go down
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  Speaker 1: him and start on the radio now? And then I
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  Speaker 1: be in radio and then tidy see that God? But
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  Speaker 1: see the thing about God is God don't need your
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  Speaker 1: help a matter of fact, that he don't really want it.
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  Speaker 1: All he want is you to love him and obey
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  Speaker 1: if you can do them two things I think. I
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  Speaker 1: think I could be wrong. I think he'd be really
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  Speaker 1: cool with us. So had I known about these blessings
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  Speaker 1: that he had for me, I would have messed him
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  Speaker 1: up because I would have put my thinking in the
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  Speaker 1: figuring process, and that would have jacked it all up.
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  Speaker 1: That's the first thing I asked, why I got to
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  Speaker 1: wait so long? And then if he has shown me
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  Speaker 1: what I was gonna have to do to get it,
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  Speaker 1: I would have showed messed that up. Man, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna do that. I ain't gonna do all of that.
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I got to go through all of
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  Speaker 1: these mishaps in my life. So when I get the
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  Speaker 1: radio show, I have something to share, Man, why don't
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  Speaker 1: I just read a couple of books and share that
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  Speaker 1: experience with them? Now, See, I want you to know
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  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. I want you to be transparent.
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  Speaker 1: I want people to be able to identify with your
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  Speaker 1: struggle and apply they struggle to it and see that
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  Speaker 1: they can get over. See. God never shows you all
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  Speaker 1: of it because he know will mess it up. I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't have any books, I certainly please know, I would
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  Speaker 1: not be the host of family Field. Can't tell you
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  Speaker 1: that it is amazing man, how God works, and my
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  Speaker 1: invitation to everybody today has allowed God to work. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you can ask him why all you want to, And
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  Speaker 1: from time to time I still do no good for me?
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  Speaker 1: But that old why me, old woe is me? Lord?
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  Speaker 1: Thing that don't really get it for me, because when
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  Speaker 1: I start asking him why, I'm asking somebody who has
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  Speaker 1: a thought process so high above mine that there's no
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  Speaker 1: way if he told it to me, I wouldn't even
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  Speaker 1: get it. You wouldn't need I don't gout bright you
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  Speaker 1: think you are, man, You just ain't gonna get how
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  Speaker 1: and why he does it his way. You're not going
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  Speaker 1: to understand it. But he has a plan for each
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  Speaker 1: and every one of us. And if we adhere to
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  Speaker 1: the plan, if we submit ourselves to his will and
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  Speaker 1: just say, okay, God, what you want me to do,
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  Speaker 1: I am telling you it is the best way to live. Now.
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  Speaker 1: You can also do it the way I did it
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  Speaker 1: early on. You can just do what you want to
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  Speaker 1: do and see how I go from now. And I
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  Speaker 1: will tell you from personal experience, it's not going to
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  Speaker 1: go good. You know, my wife and I were talking
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  Speaker 1: the other day. As she said something women, I had
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  Speaker 1: to write it down. She says, Steve, you know the
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  Speaker 1: funny thing about sin? She says, sin casts you more
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  Speaker 1: than you want to pay and causes you to stay
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  Speaker 1: longer than you want to stay. I asked my wife
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  Speaker 1: where she got them from. She says, some old person
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  Speaker 1: told it to it. She says, sin costs you more
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  Speaker 1: than you want to pay and causes you to stay
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  Speaker 1: longer than you want to stay. That's the problem, man,
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  Speaker 1: about doing what you want to do, because we are
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  Speaker 1: all sinners. Man, all of us, all of us, every
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  Speaker 1: last one of us are sinners. You will be a
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  Speaker 1: sinner until you die. Now, you could be saved by grace,
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  Speaker 1: but you're going to be a sinner man. You are
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  Speaker 1: going to make mistakes. You are going to in your
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  Speaker 1: life knowingly do wrong. I bet you will. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know who you think you are. I don't know who
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  Speaker 1: you've been listening to. But get this, we are sinners.
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  Speaker 1: We were born into a world that is sinful. Now
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  Speaker 1: it's okay, it's okay, it's our world. But we can
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  Speaker 1: make the best of it because we can form a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God and we can go to war with
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  Speaker 1: this thing, you know, and we can win. You can
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  Speaker 1: actually get over. Being born into this world is not
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  Speaker 1: an end all. That doesn't mean you're doomed, nah man,
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  Speaker 1: because God is available to give you life, and not
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  Speaker 1: only give you life, but give it to you more abundantly.
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  Speaker 1: I have more of an abundant life than I've ever had.
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  Speaker 1: If you took away the finances, trust and believe, I
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  Speaker 1: have so many things I could tell you that I'm
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  Speaker 1: grateful for. For my wife, for my children, man, for
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  Speaker 1: my family, for the few friends that I have, for
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  Speaker 1: the work that I do. Man for the respect that
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  Speaker 1: some people that I feel around, some people from the
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  Speaker 1: reputation should not have earned. Now I ain't cool with
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  Speaker 1: everybody I got that. I'm cool. I ain't cool with everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody ain't cool with me. Everybody don't like me. Man,
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  Speaker 1: get past that right there. I don't care what you do.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody ain't gonna like you. Some people didn't like Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: What did he do? What did he do wrong to anybody?
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  Speaker 1: Show it to me where he was just out there,
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  Speaker 1: just messing over folks, and you could justify all that
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  Speaker 1: happened to him. Just show it to me. But he
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  Speaker 1: knew everybody ain't gonna like me. I just come to
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  Speaker 1: save y'all. You understand I got you. Ain't feeling me.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna spit on me. You're gonna hang me up there,
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna pierce my side. You're gonna do all that
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  Speaker 1: to me. When you get through, I still love you.
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  Speaker 1: That's a powerful statement. Man, God will take care of
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  Speaker 1: you if you form this relationship with him. He has
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  Speaker 1: something for you. He has a plan for you that
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  Speaker 1: is beyond your imagination. He will give you the desires
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  Speaker 1: of your heart. But he also has some stuff in
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  Speaker 1: store for you that you're not even asking for. That
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  Speaker 1: he is willing to ship to an address that belongs
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  Speaker 1: to you as long as you stay on the right
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  Speaker 1: path and are trying your best, God to ship you
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  Speaker 1: the blessing anyway, because please know He's done it to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a living witness to this that God will ship
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  Speaker 1: you blessings and you ain't gonna be perfect. But if
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  Speaker 1: he know your heart, man, if he know you trying
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  Speaker 1: to do better, if he see you trying to change,
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  Speaker 1: if he see you trying to get it right, he
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  Speaker 1: understands that you're gonna stumble all the way through this thing.
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  Speaker 1: But if he know your heart and he know you
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  Speaker 1: trying to get it right and you're doing the best
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  Speaker 1: you can, boy, he ships some stuff your way. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you really be tripping, man, you would really be tripping.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man. It's crazy, ain't it.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening for Today, we gather on the hall way
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  Speaker 1: of justice, on the stairway of neutrality. We are here
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  Speaker 1: to say words that don't fit in the sentence. We
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  Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, that's vocabulary, yes one oh one, for
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  Speaker 1: people who don't need to try to be something that
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  Speaker 1: they ain't so let's do it this way right here.
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  Speaker 1: Hey y'all, what's up this Steve? How y'all doing this morning?
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  Speaker 1: This Steve Harvey morty show. We don't want to crack it,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Cheery strong, you understand the assignment.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Good morning, and the caller of the pharill
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  Speaker 1: a good morning, Steve of the Harvey. What's up chrow
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  Speaker 1: killed Junior space, Yes up, morning up, morning andybody, glad
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  Speaker 1: of being building, huh, King of Prank's nephew Tommy, good mourning,
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  Speaker 1: good moment. Well, Steve, you introd us. And then I
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  Speaker 1: was tired. Well I tried, you know, I try to
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  Speaker 1: come up with a new opening every morning, and that
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  Speaker 1: one just didn't do it for me. Just to not
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  Speaker 1: do it for me, you know. You know how you
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  Speaker 1: do something you go, well, won't do that again. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it's over now, it's out there now. You can't
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  Speaker 1: take it back. Yeah. Well, you know, sometimes you know
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got to. Sometimes you just gotta admit to
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  Speaker 1: your mistakes and get on up, move on. I made
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  Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes in my life publicly behind the
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  Speaker 1: scenes and came to light. I've done some stuff in public.
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  Speaker 1: I wish was in the dog. But let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you if you made a mistake, did you ever go
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  Speaker 1: last fit yourself when you was alone? Yeah? Something funny though,
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  Speaker 1: I tell you that. Yeah. I didn't laugh about that
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  Speaker 1: one later. You know you're human, Yeah, way past human,
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  Speaker 1: past human? What were you? Oh? I was? Oh that
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  Speaker 1: was like, you know, I was an out of body experience. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but we all do. We all do it. I cut
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  Speaker 1: the TV on the other day and somebody was running
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing back. Really, yeah, let it go. It
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  Speaker 1: was on something. They ran the whole thing back. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you the dude that really it was only
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  Speaker 1: one dude that really kind of hurt. My feelings about
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing was that I can't think of his name,
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  Speaker 1: but he works he used to work on C and
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  Speaker 1: end and what he said about me it bothered me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh let me as soon as I think his name,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you who what I ain't spoke to himself.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, It's like, how could he do that? This
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  Speaker 1: is the worst mistake. I mean, wild go to rehearsal,
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  Speaker 1: you know, do your job, you know that rehearsal. No,
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  Speaker 1: he came for you didn't. He all right, we're moving on.
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  Speaker 1: Look at you now coming up at thirty two minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey in the building right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, guys, time now for asked the
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  Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey is here. This one
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  Speaker 1: is from Johnny in Memphis. Johnny writes, I must be
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  Speaker 1: the biggest fool on the planet. The other night I
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  Speaker 1: got a hotel room with a married woman and she
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  Speaker 1: said she was hungry, so she ordered food. I took
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  Speaker 1: a shower and put all of my belongings on the nightstand.
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  Speaker 1: When I was taking a shower, she yelled at she
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  Speaker 1: was going down to get the food. She left and
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  Speaker 1: took all of my cash and jewelry, and she blocked
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  Speaker 1: my calls. I don't care about the money, but my
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  Speaker 1: deceased wife bought the necklace and I want it back.
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  Speaker 1: Should I stop by her house and get it? Wow? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Doc. Let's go over this. You were in
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  Speaker 1: a hotel room with a married woman, which your deceased
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  Speaker 1: wife necklace song she bought you. You went in their bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: she stole everything. Told me she's going downstairs to get
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  Speaker 1: the food. You come out and the necklace gone. You
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  Speaker 1: want to go over the married woman half to get
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  Speaker 1: your necklace back? Hey, dog, your wife already deceased. I
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  Speaker 1: want what is you trying to do? Though? You miss him?
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  Speaker 1: So you're gonna go over there? Boy, listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: Deal with her later own. But you cannot go to
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  Speaker 1: that house. Now. You can contact that at her job
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  Speaker 1: and say, hey, listen, here's a deal. All I want
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  Speaker 1: is a necklace back. Are your husband gonna know everything?
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  Speaker 1: But I just want a necklace back? All right? She
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  Speaker 1: bring the stuff back over here, though I'm gonna need
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  Speaker 1: my money to them. I ain't gonna lie. Are your
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  Speaker 1: husband yeah, I know he don't care about it, but
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  Speaker 1: since you bring this necklace back, your husband gonna know everything?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Moving on, Sandra says, I'm forty seven years old,
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  Speaker 1: married and sleeping with my gynecologist. We had sex a
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  Speaker 1: few times in his office, but I'm worried because he's
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  Speaker 1: not a savvy cheater. He touches me and kisses on
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  Speaker 1: me and the elevator, and I warned him about cameras
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  Speaker 1: being all over the place. His receptionist just started giving
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  Speaker 1: me the evil eye, and she's short with me. Now
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  Speaker 1: he said not to pay any attempt. Meant not to
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  Speaker 1: pay her any mind, But I'm scared of her. Should
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  Speaker 1: I ask her what her problem is? You already know
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  Speaker 1: what the problem. You're a woman. You already know, y'all women,
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  Speaker 1: You know why she shot with you and giving you
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  Speaker 1: the evil eye? You want what you're gonna ask? Is
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  Speaker 1: that something wrong? Yes, it's something wrong. You in the
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  Speaker 1: office like I want, got to go in and clean up. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all this extra pay for in the trash can't be examining.
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  Speaker 1: Really in the trash? What is you're using? All them sheets? Fault? Oh? No,
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  Speaker 1: because she's married. But then she said she's scared of her.
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  Speaker 1: What is that about? She's scared of her and she
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  Speaker 1: wants to step to her the girlhood. You're gonna step
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  Speaker 1: to her and do what you're gonna lead that woman alone.
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  Speaker 1: You've been to get slapped all into the You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get slapped back into the elevator, all right. Korean Tampa says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm dating a great man that's a single father to
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  Speaker 1: three boys, and I love them dearly, but they are
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  Speaker 1: all so gross, including my boyfriend. Their house always smells
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  Speaker 1: like a dirty clothes hamper, and they always miss the
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  Speaker 1: toilet bowl, so I have to squat when I use it.
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  Speaker 1: They constantly pass gas, and they love to come around
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  Speaker 1: me and do it then runaway laughing. It's all fun
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  Speaker 1: and games daily. Is it okay to set boundaries with
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  Speaker 1: the boys since their dad won't? I mean, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you're gonna do at the house. Does she
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  Speaker 1: live there? Shelly? No, No, she doesn't live there. You're visiting.
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  Speaker 1: It's all dude. They trifle guys, but I'm look, they're
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  Speaker 1: missing the toilet. They're gonna do that now. I don't
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  Speaker 1: understand hand nobody picking up this seat though, But that's
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  Speaker 1: that's a guy thing too. Sometimes they're young. Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you break up with him? Yea, thank you, thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Leave the nasty camper house. She can't talk to him,
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  Speaker 1: she boundary. Oh well, I understand what she said. She
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  Speaker 1: could have a talk to I'm you know, look, I
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  Speaker 1: mean she could put her foot down. You're a woman,
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  Speaker 1: you can get This is going to stop if I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna come over here and y'all enjoying all this cooking
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  Speaker 1: and stuff, you're gonna have to do better. Yeah, yeah, clean,
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  Speaker 1: and if they care about you, they're gonna make an effort.
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  Speaker 1: Get them for breeze, quick cooking, gassy food too, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Moving on. Steve Cilo Kira and Shreveport says, I got
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  Speaker 1: a call from a female saying she had sex with
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  Speaker 1: my boyfriend multiple times. In the back of his camera.
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  Speaker 1: He was right there, so I let him hear the call.
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  Speaker 1: He said it was the crazy girl that works at
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  Speaker 1: the car wash, and she always flirts with him, but
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  Speaker 1: he thinks something is not quite right with her mentally.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I should go to the car wash and
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  Speaker 1: see for myself. Um, did he make call of this
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  Speaker 1: up to throw me off? Should go down to the
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  Speaker 1: car wash? He got, you think about going down to
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  Speaker 1: that car wash or don't it? My dog? I liked that.
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  Speaker 1: That's the crazy ass girl down at the car wash.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what she tripping. Man. You need to
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  Speaker 1: go down there and see for yourself. Now, two things
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  Speaker 1: is go happen. What two things can happen? You can
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  Speaker 1: go down there to the car wash, okay, and you
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  Speaker 1: could discover that it ain't no girl work at the
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  Speaker 1: car wash at all. Because that's why he invited you
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  Speaker 1: down to the car wash. Okay, but now you donna
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  Speaker 1: dud have to explain why how this girl got whose
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  Speaker 1: ever phone number she called, and how they know how
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  Speaker 1: to put you together with her? Work work your line now,
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  Speaker 1: so now you lies got to have levels. It's called
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  Speaker 1: level line. You got to level light on that level. Lies.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a nephew would run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back right after this, Thank you, cello, you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour in trending
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  Speaker 1: entertainment news, it's Beyonce said, whoever got women to feel
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  Speaker 1: bad after turning forty got it all the way blanked up.
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  Speaker 1: And we'll talk about aging at the top of the hour.
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  Speaker 1: But right now it is the nephew here with the
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for his nap?
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  Speaker 1: That would be my tip, my tip, you know, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I got a tip. Tip, Yeah, tip, Come on, cat dog, Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach mister mister Kenney's. Yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm actually calling you from the seafood house.
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  Speaker 1: You you you came and had I waited on you.
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  Speaker 1: You came and had dinner over here. The other night. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm about two nights ago. Yeah, I was your food,
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  Speaker 1: I was a service. Um, everything was good. Um, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have any complaints. I always enjoy when I
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: come there. Um, I don't. I never got a phone
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: call from you. Got everything all right? Yeah? Yeah? Everything?
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  Speaker 1: So I'm actually uh, I don't know if you're remembering
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: me waiting on you, but I actually waited on you. Okay, Okay,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm good? Would would you say, would
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: you say that my service was was was pretty good
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: enough to par? Yeah? Like I said, man, everything was
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: excellent every time I come there. The food is great,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: the service is good. Um, I have no complaints. Everything
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: is is good okay, good good deal, A good deal? Uh,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: mister Kennedy, listen you you if you don't mind me asking, man,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: if you really thoroughly enjoyed the service as well as
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: the food, and I'm assuming you you come here a lot,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: so I'm assuming you you really like the food that
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: we put out, if you don't mind, because if I
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: can ask you a question, if you don't mind, sure, okay.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: If if the service was so good and you enjoyed everything,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: why why why you why you tip me the way
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  Speaker 1: you did. Excuse me, why did I well, you know
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: you you you you didn't even even close to ten percent.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: You know I would just I just you call. First
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: of all, let me ask you something, because I don't
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: remember giving my phone number, writing my phone number down
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: on any survey. I didn't. I've never taken a survey,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: nor have I gotten a call from you guys. So
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: how did you get my phone number? Well, I'm just
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: giving a courtesy call, and I'm just curious about, you know,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: a courtesy Hey, that's fine, but how did you You
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: didn't answer my question, how did you get my phone number?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Because I didn't give it to anybody there, So you
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: you've done something to to I went on it, I
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: went on and the research and whether it took to
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: kill a number. So yeah, I did. I you know,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: it was just a bother to me that that you
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: took me the way you did. Well, it's bothering me
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: that you calling me in the middle of the day
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: asking me about a tip. First of all, Uh, you said,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: how much did you say I took you? Yeah? I
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: got five dollar tip and your meal was at least
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: eighty something plus dollars. You you've done all this research
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: and you got the wrong number. You got the wrong
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: damn number because first of all, I took more than
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: five damn dollars. I used to work the kills. Bro
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Let me explain that to you. I used to work
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: for tips, and I know what it's like. And then
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: five dollars is na me. You got the wrong taby.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: You know I've done all this research for no, no, no,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: you you mister kidnies. I waited on you. I'm knny.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: But but then you an't got the wrong kiddy because
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: chinny don't tip no damn five dollars. When I go,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I balled, baby, I go to the people who because
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I want to entertain my people. You know what I'm saying,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: So I don't see but see the problem I'm having.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: You know, you you you you're bringing your people and
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: you want a ball and everything. But you you know
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: you're balling with them, but you shot changing the waist down.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I ain't short change the damn for Look you complaining
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: about five dollars. I give you five dollars. Get off
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: the damn phone. Now, would I give you five dollars
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: for I don't tip, no damn five dollars but I
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: got plenty of money. I got plenty of money. I
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: don't need you to call me tell me how to
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: damn kill. I told you man, I used to work
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: for tips. I don't need you to call me. You
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: would think you would think that if you would, you
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: would think that if you were somebody that worked for
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: some tips, that you would know how to come in
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: and took somebody leading at least teen percent. Man, I
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: can't even understand how how you come in you bawling,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: you know you don't wrong A couple of people with you,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: and you leave me with five out Look here, man,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: I ain't leave you. I told your stupids, I ain't
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: leave you with no five dollars. Man, I left that
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: least twenty five dollars up in that thing called hosting
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: some people. And I want to show my gratitude or something.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: And you calling me about the wrong damn tip them
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: out and the wrong person. You don't got the wrong
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: person and calling got the wrong person? You, mister Kenneth.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I remember waiting on you and two other people when
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: you came in there. What when you in there with
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: two other people? Man? Who the hell are you? How
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: do you know my damn business anyway. Cool, Who the
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: hell are you? Because I'm because I'm the one that waited.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I didn't tell yourself the only way, the only way,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: only way we could really rectify it. Won't you do this, man?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Won't you come back up here and bring me the
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: tip that I deserve. I ain't come in no damn
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: where I told you. A matter of fact, when I
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: come up there again, I'm gonna look for your you
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: give me your name, and you give me your managing name,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: because matter of fact, I'm gonna call up there and
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: come up there to day because I don't appreciate you
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: calling my damn that's some skill and I know better.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Damn well, I kill good money. Okay, we'll do this
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: for me. Do this for me. When you do come
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: up here today, when you bringing me my damn pilling money,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a till. I'm gonna give you
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: a till quick callusing people about it tip and maybe
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: make some better service and you will get a better till.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I'mnna bring your till. I'm bringing you the tip of
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: my shoe up. Y'all that on my brain because you
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: got I get into the job today A Bob Clark,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I ain't look here, man, it ain't no problem. That's
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: perfect Because I get off at five. I'm gonna come
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: down there. I'm gonna thirst, I'm gonna talk to your managers.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Then i'm gonna hand you the little that's your money,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: tip money you want send. I'm gonna whoop you'all in
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: the marking like. That's what I'm gonna do. You know
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: what I ain't worried about to get my who I
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: want to tip. I'm gonna give you a till. Quit
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: talking people by the damn tip. That's what you stop doing.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: That's your till. And see you not tissing me off? Now,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: j I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna whoops.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. Okay, then i'm gonna tell you.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna what the one need to do? You time? Hey? What? Hey, man,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I ain't worried about nothing, because let me tell you something.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: If you will the same way you till, I ain't
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: worried about the damn thing. Now check this out. You
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: got the wrong number, but you got the right because
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there and i'm gonna let you
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: see what it is clem see how I try to
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: conduct myself in a nice matter and be professional. But
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: you don't about this, and you're gonna get it. I
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: got your till when I'm bob. You better weed come'na
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: come down, then beat you. That's what I'm gonna do.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get the real I'm coming down there soon
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: as I get off from work. You better not bring
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: you down now, your bet whatever? And but you ain't
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: got to worry about me, ain't. What's your name? What's
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: your name? Do you? You? You you gotta be in
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: the paper? I remember your name? What's your name? My name? Timmy? Timmy? What?
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Because I'm I don't tim me? Who nephew Timmy from
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Martin stuff. You just got right say what?
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Hey man, this is a nephew Timing from the Steve
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morny show. Your boy Richard got me the pray
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: phone call you. You know what, y'all? You got my
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: damn pressure up, man, y'all some steak I'm gonna I'm
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: gonna get. I'm gonna get both of y'all time, y'all
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: because y'all ain't right. Man. You got me hauling in
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: the day. I'm dealing my employees looking at me. Man,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: ain't not gonna be me at like this. I'm gonna
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: kill talking about a meeting so we can get out
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: of company Christmas party together. Man, And you've got me
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: fool him kid, y'all, Man, Hey, kiddy, Man, I gotta
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I gotta ask you though, Baby, Come on, man, what
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: is what's the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: show in the landing The Steve Harvid Morning Show. Man, Hey, man, Hey, listen,
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  Speaker 1: take all the employee to the seafood house. Man. Hey,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm scared to go down, and now they might they
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: might be scared to go with me. It might be
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  Speaker 1: a good thing off. They're gonna be pulling out they
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: kills nine, They're gonna they're gonna tell any we got
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: the boss. We got it. Man, y'all got me, y'all
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  Speaker 1: got me? And you're having to waits down all right place,
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  Speaker 1: Pardner come all right, thinking nephew coming up at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour, trending entertainment news. Right after this,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: So Queen Bee has spoken. Beyonce is opening up about
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: turning forty, and she refers to this milestone in her
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: life as the best I've ever felt in my life,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: the best I've felt in my life. Beyonce penned a
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: deeply personal message to fans and shared it on her
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: website at the close of Virgo season. She thanked fans
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: for their well wishes after she celebrated turning forty earlier
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: this month, September fourth. She went on to say, whoever
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: tried to condition women to feel that they are supposed
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: to feel old and unhappy when we turned forty got
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: it all the way fed up. That's what she said.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: This has absolutely been the best I've felt in my life.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I'm so grateful to be grown, grown, grown woman beyond.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, she's actually right. I mean I don't I
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: don't get it, you know, but that's that's that's young
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: people who say, man, you old, when clearly old is
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: the goal. But like at my age right now, somebody
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: asked me recently, they said, hey, man, if you could
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: go back to any age, what would you go back to?
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: And I said sixty four. Yay, said, but you sixty four? Now?
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I don't want to go back nowhere. This is the
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: best out of had it. I don't want to go
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: back nowhere else. I'm living my best life right now
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: and it's a spiritual evolution for me. So I get
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: where Beyonce is coming from. And I think everybody has
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: to get into a new awakening of who they are
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: because age happens to us. All age is the goal.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: It's every Your goal is to get to your next birthday.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: That's that's the goal. Because if you don't, if you
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: miss one, I've got down news for you, man, You're
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: gonna be out of all reports. So I'm like, really
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: really comfortable with being where I am, and I can
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: understand where she's coming from. Yeah, she's also speaking to
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: the double standard. You know that men are more distinguished,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: uh you know, with the gray as they get older,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: but somehow women aren't afforded that same um luxury to
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: grow old gracefully. But it's changing now, thank god, because
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: you're down. No. Absolutely, But it hasn't always been like that,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It hasn't always been like that. Yeah,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: it's a sure for women versus men. I mean, look,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: it's nice to see these beautiful young girls out here,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: but it's a lot more for me. It's a lot
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: more fulfilling and rewarding when I see older women. That's fine, Yeah,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: to take care of themselves. See fellas and fellas. Let
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: me help you understand something. Anyway you might get the
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: like in the way that because it's because if you
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: had a chance to get well, you're not gonna get
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: one of the young ones. No way. You can look,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: you can look, you know, yeah got Google dudes and
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: they were talking about Hey man, so you know you
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: wasn't mad, who would you get? And then they would
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: have had all these young names. I said to see,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: y'all don't understand they don't want you though, right, Why
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: y'all not incorporating that in there? Y'all think like you
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: really got a shot and Mina, you really got a
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: shot at Rihanna. They don't want you? You have you
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: filtered that into the case. No, man, I got game, Doc,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: you ain't got that much? Dog? What game? Dog? They're
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: looking at you? Dog? If you got gag, get it now,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: say Ran, Say Ran, Say Ran, say redyin you doing that?
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Somebody asked me a question about Beyonce and I said,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Beyonce is married. They said, no, man, she wouldn't hold
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: a dog. She has a husband. His name is Jay
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: z Oh. I happen to know. So we're not even
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: having these what if conversations. I don't do that, man,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I don't have what if conversation about another man's wife
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: and all this. Hell, I don't, I don't. I don't
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: even get in conversations like that. I removed myself from
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: all them hypothetical situations because I don't. I don't want that,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: you know, sitting up and you're talking about this grown woman.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of what else about? Hallado. I'm sorry,
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of what else? Yeah, I'm sorry.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: That's all that's gonna ever be. For instance, Tommy, what
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: what what if? We were? But I just I sew
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: a lot of what else? But he's married though you're
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: talking about but let me had at one. I'm sorry,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Hallie gets it? Whoa talk about talking yourself into the grave? Argument?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: That wasn't necessary off the radio? So who's this? Yeah?
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: What's this what if? Thing? What saying? I was telling
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Tommy halle Berry just posted a picture. She went to
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: some kind of event. I think a firm raised at
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: a museum. Look at Tommy trying to quit. Well, black dress,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Look at your hall I love Hallie Berry beautiful as
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: well as sisters black queens. What if he's looking at
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: the look at him looking over his glasses, look looking
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: like an old man. We're just gonna be the first
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: turn off right right over your back. Come on with
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: the swag, Tommy whatever? Wait? Wait what about this? Did
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: you see Naomi Campbell and the runway? Who that woman
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: can walk? He is the beast beautiful of that that
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: hot pink suito. Yeah. Since we talked about women aging
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: and looking good aging, well yeah, yeah, that's the goal.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: Like you say, Steve, you know who looked nice? Who
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: did my Facebook watch show? Uh? Cynthia Bailey. Yeah, she's beautiful.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: She's dropped dead. I think her face is a work
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: of arts. Yes, I love her her cheek bones, she's
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: beautiful and her skin, she's beautiful. All right, coming after
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  Speaker 1: twenty minutes, after the hour, we'll tell you about a
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  Speaker 1: first grader. This story is so beautiful. I love this
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: story raising twenty thousand dollars for college just by being
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: obedient and listening to his mom. We'll talk about it
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: All right, so did you guys see the first grader
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: school picture that went viral as he refused to take
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: off his mask for picture day. Such a cute little boy,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: it was the first grader. His name is Mason Peoples.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: He turned a smile for the camera. An interesting conversation
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: between the photographer and him ensued. The photographer, Okay, take
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: your mask off, little Mason. My mom said to keep
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  Speaker 1: it on at all times unless I'm eating and far
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  Speaker 1: away from everybody. Photographer, I'm sure it's okay to take
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: it off for pictures. Mason. No, my mom seriously told
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: me to make sure to keep it on. Photographer. Are
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: you sure you don't want to take it off for
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: two seconds? Mason, no, thank you. I always listen to
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: my mom. Photographer, Okay, say cheese, so that we have
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: the picture of little Mason with his mask still on now.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: His mom, her name is Nicole. Nicole posted on Facebook
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: that she was so proud of her son's obedience, but
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: she said she should have been a little more clear
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: about the rules on that day. The post, which has
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: garnered over sixteen thousand shares, prompted the mom to start
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: to go fund me page because people wanted to reward
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Mason for his obedience and everything. So now he has
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: over twenty thousand dollars steed for his college fund. How
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: about I want to retire. I want to retire. I
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: need to go fund me page the story. Mason. Ain't
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: nobody funding hundred million. I walk about him. Shut out, Yeah,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: shout him out, and it's shout out Mason. Keep keep
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: doing what your mom tell you to do, man, keep
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: thinking it through, and take that money and go to college, man,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: and turn yourself into something great. Ye now that I'm
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: saying that, let's get away from Mason and let everybody
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: know that ain't with the college. You can still be great. Yeah.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: From those of you that ain't with the college, you
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: can still be great. Don't let that hinder you. Because
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: college ain't in the Bible. Not now. One of them
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: verses out in red didn't mention Harvard or any of them.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I didn't see. If I I've been through the Bible,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know it as good as most people. But
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I ain't nobody sending me a scripture that mentioned USC
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: turned to the Book of Princeton. You know, mo House,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: wasn't it. Now I'm living with us that you can
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: make it without a degree. But you do have to
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: have faith, and you do have to have a work ethic,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: and you do have to apply it to a mission
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: and a dream. Now, if you combine those four things,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: the mission to dream, the faith, and the work ethic,
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: you can make it. Now, if you have a dream
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: that requires a degree, then you have to go get one.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Can't be a dunist or adopted without one, can't fly
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: play without one. All right? Coming up at thirty four
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Hollywood superstar Will Smith celebrated his
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  Speaker 1: birthday this week, said I had affairs too. We'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about all of that. We'll talk about it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: brace yourselves for this story, okay, and trending celebrity marriage news.
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  Speaker 1: Will Smith says he wants the world to know that
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  Speaker 1: his wife isn't the only one who had affairs. He's
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  Speaker 1: had his hair his share of extramarital romances too. Smith
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  Speaker 1: talked about he talked to GQ about Jada Pinkett Smith's
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  Speaker 1: revelation last year. Remember she did this on Red Table
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  Speaker 1: Talk when she said she had an entanglement with August. Also,
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  Speaker 1: the rapper Will said, Jada, his wife of twenty three years,
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  Speaker 1: quote never believed in conventional marriage. Jada had family members
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  Speaker 1: that had an unconventional relationship, so she grew up in
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  Speaker 1: a way that was very different than how I grew up.
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  Speaker 1: There were significant, endless discussions about what is relational perfection?
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  Speaker 1: What is the perfect way to interact as a couple.
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  Speaker 1: As for the large part of our relationship, monogamy was
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  Speaker 1: what we chose, not thinking of monogamy as the only
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  Speaker 1: relational perfection. I don't know what that means. Perfection in
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: your relationship meaning wait, wait, I know what you want
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  Speaker 1: me to read it again? Perfectional? What are you up
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  Speaker 1: as words? Ya? Well, entanglement was made up, but perfection.
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  Speaker 1: Give me the quote again, relational perfection. Relational perfect y'all
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  Speaker 1: to talking about? Right man? Why are we talking about it? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: It's it's news right now. He did this GQ article,
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  Speaker 1: so it's news. What is up with all these confessions?
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  Speaker 1: Everybody talking about stuff that they did. Go sit your
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  Speaker 1: hands down somewhere by you all in the news talking
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  Speaker 1: about what you did. Go set your ass down somewhere
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  Speaker 1: and stop with all these confessions. Confession that ain't even
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  Speaker 1: usher confession that's Roscoe Wallace Coble spitting and talking about
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  Speaker 1: crying or everything you did would have produced some dying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just so tired of all these still confessions. I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand this though. Man, Yeah, you ain't got to
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  Speaker 1: tell all your damn business. You just don't. You just don't, man,
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  Speaker 1: and listen to me, y'all. Don't just ain't no new trend.
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  Speaker 1: We all can do this. He got a lot of money,
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  Speaker 1: he and jaded. They got money, your money. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: got nothing to survive this. Ain't nobody jumping on this bandwagon.
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  Speaker 1: Run doll understands that he did. He went on to
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  Speaker 1: say that I don't suggest our road for anybody, but
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  Speaker 1: the experiences that the freedoms that we have given one another,
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  Speaker 1: and the unconditional support to me is the highest definition
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  Speaker 1: of love. What I understood that again, Well, you have
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  Speaker 1: to read everything Will say twice because you can't understood
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  Speaker 1: it all. Right, here we go, Steve, he says. Will says,
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  Speaker 1: I don't suggest our road for anybody. Okay, that makes sense, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he said, But the freedoms that we've given one another
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  Speaker 1: and the unconditional support to me is the highest definition
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  Speaker 1: of love. All right, the experiences, the freedom that we've
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  Speaker 1: given one another, and the unconditional support, he says to me,
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  Speaker 1: to him, that's the highest definition of love. No, nobody,
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  Speaker 1: you know what you can call it? All that all
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  Speaker 1: that is is a hall pass. That's all that you
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  Speaker 1: dressed this up, making freedom done. It's an open marriage.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like, no, you know. See what he's saying, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: is I feel better as I watch you kiss August.
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  Speaker 1: What that's what it's saying. I feel better as I
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  Speaker 1: watch you kiss August. I've seen in the mouth. I'm
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  Speaker 1: feeling good about me. I'm supporting that love. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: what was a young boy's name? AUGUSTA? He bad? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I'm sorry. I don't hold them, don't hold up.
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  Speaker 1: Let's back up. You write my apology. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what the hell they talking about. I don't know why
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  Speaker 1: the hell I'm trying to fix it. It makes my bad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm out of this right here, me and d we're
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  Speaker 1: doing none of this. Coming up. You're listening to the
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
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  Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject just tell me the truth.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I would not too bad. We'll get into
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  Speaker 1: act in a fashion of what you want them to act. Oh, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: whatever she said? What it is that we've gotten some
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  Speaker 1: We've gotten some reports that you've been having some problems
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  Speaker 1: with with your particular wife. And I heard where you
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  Speaker 1: never submitted. First of all, here's here's something we can do.
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  Speaker 1: I can ask you questions because we've been notified that
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  Speaker 1: this is probably a service that you would probably want. Now, Um,
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  Speaker 1: has your wife ever snapped on you in public? And
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  Speaker 1: snapped on me? I mean what I mean she My
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  Speaker 1: wife ain't crazy. She on just snap on me. She might,
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  Speaker 1: you know, try to check me, uh say something. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, She's just gonna snap on me
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  Speaker 1: in probably so your wife your so, your wife has
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  Speaker 1: tried to check you. It's what you're saying. May not
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  Speaker 1: check me per se. I mean she might. She might
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  Speaker 1: not like some mom doing and might say something about it.
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  Speaker 1: But so basically your wife is not in her place
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  Speaker 1: where she needs to be hold on. I mean what
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  Speaker 1: you mean? I mean she might say something you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I might be doing something more. You know,
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  Speaker 1: might be with my boys and might get out of
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  Speaker 1: control a little bit. She might just say something at
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  Speaker 1: the time, but she don't just try to all out
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  Speaker 1: check nobody. You know what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Let me ask you this one.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever just had some plans with your guys,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna go out, and had to change your plans
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  Speaker 1: because um, your wife? Well, I mean, if if like
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  Speaker 1: I'm just come about hanging out and I ain't let
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  Speaker 1: her know something, she might you know, be like, well,
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  Speaker 1: baby already had plans, you know, can you stay home
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  Speaker 1: with the boys or something? But I mean, I mean
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  Speaker 1: nothing on the regular, you know how I usually do
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do. Seems like denial. Okay, here's
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  Speaker 1: another one, sir, Well, no, just listen, hear me out. Now,
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: let me ask you this um has your wife? Let's say,
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  Speaker 1: back when Michael Jordan was playing basketball, did you ever
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  Speaker 1: miss a playoff game on television because your wife wanted
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  Speaker 1: to watch something else? I mean, we got two TVs
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  Speaker 1: in my house. Man, I wish now I don't even
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  Speaker 1: get down. I mean I might have to watch the
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  Speaker 1: little TV. Okay, but I mean I usually watch it
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  Speaker 1: on the big Yeah. But but you you've been pushed
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  Speaker 1: to watching the smaller television. Now, I wouldn't push to
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  Speaker 1: do nothing. Man. What I'm trying to tell you is,
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  Speaker 1: I mean we compromise. We do fifty fifty in my house.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, she might get the big TV to watch
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  Speaker 1: her stories or something, and I just had to go
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  Speaker 1: watch to the TV. Thet TV do go out of
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  Speaker 1: here wants to see there. We got so cool with that, dough.
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  Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. You're cool with that. So you're
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  Speaker 1: with that. You're actually the one that's programmed. And ain't
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  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with my wife? Ain't nothing wrong with within
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  Speaker 1: my family? You know, I honestand well. Let me the
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  Speaker 1: reason why I'm asking you these particular questions is because
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  Speaker 1: someone has actually let me know the problems that are
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  Speaker 1: at hand in your household. Let me ask you. I
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  Speaker 1: got one question for you. Here's what I want to
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  Speaker 1: ask you. Has your wife ever cussed you out at
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  Speaker 1: a family cookout? Hey? Man, hold on, man, you know
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  Speaker 1: what you're getting a little personal? Man? Is this even legal? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here. I never heard of this company. Man,
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  Speaker 1: definitely saying something new. I mean what, Don't make me
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  Speaker 1: be your guinea pig. Don't don't start out calling me
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  Speaker 1: trying to get you know, referrals or client tell or
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  Speaker 1: whatever it is you trying to do. Man, don't call
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  Speaker 1: me with this nonsense. Partner, and I completely understand it.
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  Speaker 1: WCS sir, is here to benefit you. It's no benefit
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  Speaker 1: to me. Man, getting I look at my personal business
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  Speaker 1: one and what's going on in my household? Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: last thing I want to ask you, and this is
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  Speaker 1: the last question I have for you. Make it. Make
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  Speaker 1: this the last I want straight up. Okay, have you
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  Speaker 1: do you do? Do you buy your own clothes? Or
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  Speaker 1: does she buy the company? You know what? Man? This man?
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  Speaker 1: You whatever company? This is? Dog? Don't call me mouse
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  Speaker 1: no more? And whatever put you up to this. Whoever
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  Speaker 1: gave you my number? Talk about my wife? Checked me
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  Speaker 1: or got me under control? Got me on lock? Man?
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: You tell him too. Don't call me no more? Are
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  Speaker 1: you are you? Are you in denying? Don't call house
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  Speaker 1: no more? I'm gonna tell you what. George Foreman or
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  Speaker 1: whatever it's Marcus, it's Marcus. Whoever you George Foreman Market. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna find a Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: ready to retaliate on mealiate, but you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: retaliate on the problems you have with your wife. Retaliation man,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: When I'm saying you're calling my house, I'm minding my home,
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  Speaker 1: and as you're worrying about who you're watching, what TV
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  Speaker 1: in my house and my wife checking me in public?
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  Speaker 1: I want man, Hey, doll, look, I'm telling you. Don't
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  Speaker 1: you want to watch the big television? Big TV? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with the TV I got. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's in my room. I gonna get across
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  Speaker 1: the bed, watch whatever I want to whenever I want
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  Speaker 1: to do. Don't you want to be able to go
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  Speaker 1: tell you what's in You need to get your wife
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  Speaker 1: Just tell me the truth. Dear Stephen Shirley, I have
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  Speaker 1: been married for two years to a man that is
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  Speaker 1: twenty four years older than I am. I was his
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  Speaker 1: side piece for the last two years of his marriage,
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  Speaker 1: and he got divorced to be with me. After we
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: got married, things changed. I had to accept that my
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: husband was not going to be monogamous, partly because he
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: was having sex with me while he was married. I
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: never signed up or agreed to an open marriage, but
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I'm wise enough to know that he needs more than
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  Speaker 1: one woman to make him feel like a king. I
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: won't say that I'm miserable with him, because we've had
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  Speaker 1: a lot of fun and we traveled to exotic places often.
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  Speaker 1: I just wish he'd tell me the truth about what
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  Speaker 1: he is doing. On the side, I have to be
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  Speaker 1: the most reasonable wife on the planet, and I don't
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: check his phone or his social media accounts. I can
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  Speaker 1: get in his car and smell perfume on the passenger
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  Speaker 1: seatbelt and I don't say a word. I know he
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  Speaker 1: loves me because he shows me over his wife. I
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  Speaker 1: thought he would continue to be open and honest once
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  Speaker 1: we got married, But he lies about simple things like
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  Speaker 1: where he had lunch. I will see a receipt that
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  Speaker 1: says otherwise. He will lie about which one of his
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  Speaker 1: male friends he was with. He lies about taking a shower,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: getting a pedicure, getting a haircut. He's just a liar.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: I got a call recently from his barber saying he
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: left his credit card, and I called my husband and
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: asked him what he was doing, and he said he
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: was sitting in the barber chair. I hung up on
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: him and canceled a card so no one could use it.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: I've told him repeatedly that he does not have to
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  Speaker 1: lie to me because I'm not going anywhere. How is
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  Speaker 1: he going to keep this up as he gets older?
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: Am I setting myself up for a lot of heartache
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: and headaches with this man? Please advise? Okay, My question
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: to you is what do you want from us? Because,
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: in case you haven't heard this before, payback is a
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: bee and that's what's happening here. You're being paid back.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, were you cheated with him on her? So
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: look what's happening now? So yes, to answer your question,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: you are in store for a lot of heartaches and
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: headaches with this man. It's already happening. You were cheating
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  Speaker 1: with this woman's husband, and he divorced her to marry you.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're concerned he's cheating on you and he's lying
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: to you. You're concerned about that. What he's doing, what
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: he does, and he was doing it before you with
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: you and now during you excuse me, did you think
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: he was gonna change when he married you? You thought that? No,
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: you married what He is a liar? You said it
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: in the letter. He is a liar, a liar, and
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: a cheater. This time he's just cheating on you and
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: not with you. Okay, The question is what are you
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: gonna do about all of this, because clearly you're worried
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: and unhappy. Now you might even be feeling some empathy
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: for his ex wife now you know what she went
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  Speaker 1: through when he was with you. And no matter how
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: reasonable you say you are in this letter, how are
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: you not going to be checking his phone and stuff?
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: This marriage that you're in right now, it's not good
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: because he's not gonna stop what he's doing. I mean,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: this is who he is and this is who you married. Steve. Wow,
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: just tell me the truth. Really, Oh you're concerned about
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: the truth, all right, Well let's tell you the truth.
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  Speaker 1: I will thank you, Shirley. I've been married for two
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  Speaker 1: years to a man that's twenty four years older than
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  Speaker 1: I am. I want you to keep that information because
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring it back. Twenty four years older than
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  Speaker 1: I am. I was his side piece for the last
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  Speaker 1: two years of the marriage. He got divorced to be
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  Speaker 1: with me, and after we got married, things changed, really
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: things change. I had to accept that my husband was
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  Speaker 1: not going to be monogamous. You know why, because nothing changed.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: You said, you gotta accept that things change. What's changed,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: it's the same, it's the exact same. You had now
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: have to accept that your husband's not gonna be monogamous.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: He ain't never been, partly because he was having sexual
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: me when he was married. I never signed up or
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: agreed to an open marriage. Wait, I don't understand. You
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: accepted the cheating before. See, but you were the cheat,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: but you the cheat turn, not the cheat. And it
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: was okay as long as you were the cheat turn.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: But now you don't want to be the cheat t See.
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  Speaker 1: What's what's wrong with you? Lady? What is wrong with you?
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: How you don't see this? But I'm wise? Here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Now we did see this with stupid people throw me.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm wise enough to know that he needs more
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  Speaker 1: than one woman to make him feel like a king.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: That ain't wisdom. That's called his track record. What the
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: hell that got to do with wisdom? It's his track record,
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Like Shirley said, it's what he'd do. I won't say
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: that I'm miserable with him, because we have a lot
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: of fun and we travel to exotic places often. I
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: just wish he'd tell me the truth about what he's
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: doing on the side. What you need to hear the
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  Speaker 1: truth about what you already know he doing on the
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: side because you don't. You don't check his phone and
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: social media. Kids get kids in social media accounts. Here
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  Speaker 1: the stupid line. I get in his car and I
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: smell perfume on the passion the seat belt, and I
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: don't see a word? Right? Oh? You hell a stupid
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  Speaker 1: You get in the car and you smell perfume on
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  Speaker 1: the seat belt and you don't say a word. That
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  Speaker 1: makes you a good reasonable wife, That makes you a food?
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: Oh damn food, And I ain't got number more this
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: hold on, Steve, we'll la part two of your response
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  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
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  Speaker 1: strawberry letter subject, just tell me the truth. We'll get
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter subject, Just tell me the truth?
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  Speaker 1: What is with all these truths? I've had my feeling
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: truth to day? Will if GQ telling the truth to
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Straba and let her truth us? What happened to shut
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: your damn mouth? What happened to that? Don't you know
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: truth ain't the best policy. Silence is shut show, damn MO,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: now here we go. I'm mad, no, so hell, let
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: me quit trying to fix this up. This stupid ass
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: woman didn't Mary. This man just twenty four years older
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: than she is, and she was his side piece for
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: two years. He got divorced to be with her, and
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: after we got married, things changed. Well I guess what
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: she say changed. I had to accept that my man
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: was not gonna be in a monogamous relationship. Ain't nothing changed.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: He wasn't even one before when he was cheating with
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: you for two years. It's the same, and I have
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: to accept that, probably because he was having sex with
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: me while he was married. I never signed up or
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: agreed to an open marriage. His ex wife didn't even wow,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: see button Knight. But you turn it into an open marriage,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: and now you married to the dude that was cheating
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: with you, and now all of a sudden you don't
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: want it to be open. But that's what he'd do. Well.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say I'm miserable because we have a
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: lot of fun, we go to exotic places. I just
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: wish he'd tell me the truth about what he's doing.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: On the side. Did you hear yourself? I just wish
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: he would tell me the truth about what he doing
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: on the side. Everybody nothing Hattie will Smith, whoa. We
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: all not fitt the gone or tabletop all this here,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: this here, we just not fit to do this here.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know what you expect him to do,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: but he doing what he'd do. I'm I'm I'm a
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  Speaker 1: most reasonable wife on the planet. I don't check his
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: phone social media, and I can get in his con
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: smell perfume on the passage to see belt and I
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: don't say a word. What so you stupid and a food?
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: Now listen to me. I know he loves me because
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: he chose me over his wife. He didn't choose you.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: His wife got rid of him. You're not listening. His
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: wife got rid of him. And he wouldn't got you
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: because he know you a fool and he can do
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: what he want to do to you and steal and
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: get a wife too. But now, I thought he would
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: continue to be open and honest once we got married.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: But he lies to me about simple things like where
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: he had lunch. Wait a minute, he was open and
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: honest about you in the marriage because he was telling
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: you he was unhappy, but he was lying to his wife.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: But he told you he was unhappy. You thought that
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: was honesty. Everybody cheats say they're unhappy. Then he lied
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: about what friends he would be, lied about taking a shot,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: getting the pedocute, live bout the hairculd lie bout the
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: credit card? He just he just lie, lie live. I
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: hung up on him, and one time I called it bober.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: Shop called the house, say he left his credit card.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: I called the bober. I called him and told him
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: he left his boys. He said he in a barber chair.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: I hung up him and canceling the car so no
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: one could use it to hear the stupid bro. I've
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: told him repeatedly he does not have to lie to
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: me because I'm not going anywhere. Well, I'm not since
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: you're not going anywhere, and you know he got side pieces.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: Why do y'all have to talk? He don't have to
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: lie to you because you're not going anywhere. And then
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: check this out. How is he going to keep this
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: up as he gets older? Can I go back to
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: the top of the letter? Did not you say I've
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: been married for two years to a man that is
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: twenty four years older than I am? How old his
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: ass got to be? Hard time, you said, how is
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: he going to keep this up as he gets older?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: You said, you've been married two years to a man
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: that's twenty four years older than I am. How old
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: his ass got to be? He twenty four years older
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: than you, and your concern is how is he gonna
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: keep this up as he gets older? He already old
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: keeping it up? He doing fine. A matter of fact,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: he killing it. Am I setting myself up for a
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: lot of heartache and headaches with this man? Please? No,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: you're not setting yourself up for heartache and headaches and heartaches.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: You're in the headache and heartache. You're in it. You
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: didn't set yourself up. You arranged it when you thought
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: he was leaving his wife for you, when in actuality,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: he got put out by his wife because he got busted.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: Then he went straight to you. You know what, Let
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: me fix this for y'all. I haven't told y'all over
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: and over that we do not give promotions. I've told
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: y'all that, So now you think he left her to
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: be with you, but you still the side piece. See,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: I told y'all we don't do promotions. Y'all don't believe me.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: I've been a man in my whole life. We don't
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: do promotions. He didn't leave his wife for you. He
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: left his wife because he got put out. Then he
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: would and got you and made you his wife. What
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: you thought was a promotion. But now guess what. You
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: still the side piece because he knew you accepted second before.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: Why would he make you number one? Now you still
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: number two? Lord, have mercy. I've been telling y'all, we
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: don't give promotions. Can't be the side piece, and me
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: and the wife help for what you wanted? The truth?
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: There's the truth. Poster comment safety on today's Strawberry Letter
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour. It's Junior with Sports Talk
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, Time now
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior, Shirley
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: Well right now. NBA training camp starting a preseason starts Sunday,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: and Kyrie Irving Andrew Wigg is already making headlines. As
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: y'all noticed, City of New York has already mandated that
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: pro athletes in the city from of New York. That
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: means the New York Knicks and the Brooklyn Nets must
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: be vaccinated. Kyrie Irving said, I ain't, I ain't. I
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: ain't doing it. So he couldn't even show up for
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: media day already because he's not vaccinated. He said, it's
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: a private issue. He's not gonna discuss it. And all
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: he has to do is get one shot. One shot.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: He just got to get one. He ain't got get both,
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: didn't get one. You can get your check all He
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: won't be allowed to play at home games, and he
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: just got to play at a way game. He won't
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: be able to play at Oh yeah, anybody fit to
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: pay you your whole check for half your time? Oh?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: No jobs? Who you know doing that? And I'm sorry, man,
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: these players just gonna have to comply because you're in
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: a team sport. Yeah, and you're coming around in the
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: team sport in the locker room. Man, it's a team effort,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Man. Yeah, I'm I heard
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: Kareem said, Hey, I can't accept that answer because you're
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: putting pressure on the team. You're gonna have to You're
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: gonna have to get You're gonna have to solve either
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: you want to get vaccinated, and he said he should mandate.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: He said, the nbation, Man, they all players get vaccinated.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: Now not percent of the league is vaccinated. Well, but
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's going that way. Yeah, yeah, because and
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: it's like this, but it's it's really simple, man. It's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: they are jobs. They're a cologist that require vaccinations. If
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: you want this job, to hold this position, and you
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: want this check, and I'm your boss, you have to
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: do this. I'm sorry. In my company, man, you have
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: to get you you have to get vaccinated. That's what.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: You can't be up in my face all day. But
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no vaccination. I got to go to work.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: There's too many people count on me. Yeah, and if
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: you want to vaccination, that's fine. In fine, Yeah, sowhere
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: else to work. I don't care. He think he was
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: gonna shoot three phoners and be away from everybody. What
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: do you think? I don't know, Anna, I ain't gonna
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: go into paint. I'm gonna stay out of here. And
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: I'm definitely not a person saying he should just play basketball,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: because if you can get involved with issues. I highly
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: I welcome that you You should use your platform to
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: awareness and voting, awareness and black lives matter. I'm with
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: all of that, and that's not what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: we're gonna follow and see what you do. I don't
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: even know it already. You need to get that damn shot.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: Anybody need to shots him? It might all right, you
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: can st coming up at the time of the hour.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about Steve Harvey's mentoring right after this. You're
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, So Steve, this Saturday, you're
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: inviting young men between the ages of fourteen and eighteen
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: to join your virtual mentoring program. And the mission of
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: your foundation, well, you could probably say it better than
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: I can. Go ahead, I mean, it's very simplest that
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: we have boys and girls. Marjorie just finished up her
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: mentoring camp, which wasn't virtual, but we have so many
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: boys that live in so many different areas. We're still virtual.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: We're hoping to get out of it soon. But the
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: mission is simple, is to teach boys the principles of
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: manhood and the principles of dream building. Now, what you
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: do with these principles once you learn the principles of
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: manhood and the principles of dream building. It enables you
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: to go and be whatever you want to be. But
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: whatever you choose to be, let's be good men. At
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, those two, to me are
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: the two most important things. I don't care if you
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: go to college. I don't care if you go to
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: the military. I don't care if you go work at
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: home depot. I don't care if you join the management program.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: I don't care. I want to teach you how to
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: live out your dreams and how to be a good man.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: And that's what happens when you don't have fathers. Man,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: and you can look at I'm telling you, man, you
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: can see the absence of fathers in boys lives very quickly.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: You can see the absence of fathers in girls lives.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: And you can't do that to young girl. And so
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is we take these young
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: boys from single parent homes headed up by women, and
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: we teach them the principles of manhood, and we aid
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: these single mothers who are raising these boys. We give
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: them the aid and the tools and the supplemental help
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: that helps them get their boys into manhood. Because if
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: one thing becomes clear at the count Knowing what not
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: to do is just as importantess knowing what to do.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: And so a lot of these boys are living their
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: life without their fathers being active in their life, and
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: they don't want to repeat that behavior to their children.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: And we give them the added tools of forgiveness, you know,
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: because a lot of them are angry and you cannot
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: blame them. These young men are hurting because they fathers
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: ain't in their lives. And so on Saturday, we open
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: up the Virtual minut program to go virtual so anybody
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: can join in and doing the pandemic man. And this
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: was no joke. We had over six million kids wow,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: worldwide throughout the pandemic. We touched global. We touched six
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: million kids, and so it's really really real. And so
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: we've been doing the work and now my vision has
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: expanded even and I'm working real hard to cut this deal.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: I'm about to buy another ranch, a new one, bigger
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: than the one I had in Dallas, and I'm going
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: to build the facility out. I'm gonna own it myself,
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna make a permanent facility that's in the
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: changing lives of young men and young women but I'm
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: gonna do it with a lot of educational things to
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: a lot of coding and steam programs and things of
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: that nature. Called the athletics will be there because it's
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: a great draw. But we were doing some fantastic work
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: man and nece sanity will be another step in the
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: right direction for that. So steve one principle of manhood,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: give us one. Do the number one rule of manhood.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: Do what you say you're gonna do. That's the number
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: one rule. If you I try to embed that in
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: young boys, if you do that one thing, if you
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: learn that one thing to do whatever it is you
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: say you're going to do, do that. You will gain
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: the respect of your other peer. You will gain the
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: respect of all women. You will gain the respect of
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: your children. You will gain the respect of your coworkers.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: There's no one that doesn't respect a man that does
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: what he says he's going to do. If you learn
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: that principle, that's manhood. If you say you're coming, you
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: got to show up. YEA. Now, if I tell you
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: I'm not coming, you can quit looking for me. That's right.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: Don't be telling when I thought you'd come anyway, I
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: told you I wasn't coming. But if I tell you
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: I'm coming, please know I'm gonna be there. And you
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: can ask anybody that I sign a contract with that
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: is no, he just don't show up. All right, Steve, Well,
• 1:14:41
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• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: I'm the next morning, next three morns. And what are
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  Speaker 1: you gonna do when you get well, yeah, I'm just
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  Speaker 1: come there three I might probably won't. They probably won't
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  Speaker 1: let me come in on third day. May now, let
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  Speaker 1: you come in on the second day, because after what
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna start saying on first day, I'm pretty sure
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna want to talk to me about day two
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  Speaker 1: at three. The stuff I'm going to say with a
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  Speaker 1: half billion dollars, it's not going and I'm gonna say
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  Speaker 1: it anyway. Just get your all I can tell you.
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  Speaker 1: Will Smith says he wants the world to know that
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  Speaker 1: his wife isn't the only one who had affairs. He's
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  Speaker 1: had his hair his share of extramarital romances too. Smith
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  Speaker 1: talked about He talked to GQ about Jada Pinkett Smith's
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  Speaker 1: revelation last year. Remember she did this on Red Table
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  Speaker 1: Talk when she said she had an entanglement with August
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  Speaker 1: Alston of The Rapper. Will said, Jada, his wife of
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  Speaker 1: twenty three years quote never believed in conventional marriage. Jada
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  Speaker 1: had family members that had an unconventional relationship, so she
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  Speaker 1: grew up in a way that was very different than
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  Speaker 1: how I grew up. There were significant, endless discussions about
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  Speaker 1: what is relational perfection? What is the perfect way to
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  Speaker 1: interact as a couple. As for the large part of
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  Speaker 1: our relationship, monogamy was what we chose, not thinking of
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  Speaker 1: monogamy as the only relational perfection. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: they mean perfection in your relationship meaning wait, surely I
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  Speaker 1: know what you wanted you to read it again? Perfectional?
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  Speaker 1: What he made up? Ass words? Y'all? Trip, Well, entanglement
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  Speaker 1: was made up? But perfectional? What is it? What is?
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  Speaker 1: Give me the quote again? Relational perfection, relational perfection, entanglement?
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  Speaker 1: Hell y'all talking about? Right? Why are we talking about it. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's news right now. He did the GQ article,
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  Speaker 1: so it's news. What is up with all these confessions
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  Speaker 1: and everybody talking about stuff that they did. Go set
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  Speaker 1: your hand down somewhere by you all in the news
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  Speaker 1: talking about what you did. Go set your ass down
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  Speaker 1: somewhere and stop with all these confessions. Confession that ain't
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  Speaker 1: even usher confect, that's Roscoe Wallace conroblem, sitting and talking
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  Speaker 1: about cray or. Everything you did would have produced something.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just so tired of all the hell conficius.
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand this though many you ain't got to
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  Speaker 1: tell all your damn business. You just don't. You just don't, man,
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  Speaker 1: We all can do this. He got a lot of
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  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to survive this. Ain't nobody jumping
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  Speaker 1: on this bandwagon run. I don't understands that he did.
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  Speaker 1: He went on to say that I don't suggest our
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  Speaker 1: road for anybody, but the experiences, the freedoms that we
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  Speaker 1: have given one another, and the unconditional support to me
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  Speaker 1: is the highest definition of love. What hold up, let's
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  Speaker 1: back up? You right? My apology. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: the hell they talking about. I don't know. Why the
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  Speaker 1: hell I'm trying to fix it. It makes my bad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm out of this right here, me and Martin, we're
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  Speaker 1: doing none of it. Coming up. It is our last
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  Speaker 1: what a day? Yeah? Are you okay lot today? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I'm really struggling with my
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks today because just tell the truth, all right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: got in. You know I don't normally do personal commentary
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  Speaker 1: on closing remarks. I guess I do, But I just
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  Speaker 1: want to say that everybody sometimes the best pot let's
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  Speaker 1: see is to shut show damn money. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what it is in our society today that's got everybody
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  Speaker 1: thinking that they just got to be open, sharing, letting
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  Speaker 1: it out, being more transparent. Look, there's a difference between
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  Speaker 1: between being authentic and being transparent and being foolish. I mean, look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I wish everybody would just take a little bit more
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  Speaker 1: time and consideration and weigh out. While you're sharing all
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  Speaker 1: your private information with everybody, think of the impact sometimes
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  Speaker 1: that it leaves. You. Know, Look, man, I guess we're
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  Speaker 1: all all responsible for being a remote or excuse me,
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  Speaker 1: if we're all responsible for being a role model to
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  Speaker 1: some body. All of us are. I don't know anybody
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  Speaker 1: who's who's exempt from that. Now you can say you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to be a role model, but all of
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  Speaker 1: us have a role to play in somebody's life. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't You don't have to be famous or an athlete
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  Speaker 1: to be a role model. Somebody's patterning themselves after you.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody younger is looking up at you. Well, if that's
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  Speaker 1: the case, then we do all have a sense of
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  Speaker 1: responsibility to kind of monitor the things we say. No, look,
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  Speaker 1: are we all gonna make mistakes? Of course, all we're
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: all gonna say some things we wish we could take back.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I've done it myself over and over
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  Speaker 1: and over again. I can't count the things I wish
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  Speaker 1: I could get a redo in, but you can't. But sometimes, man,
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  Speaker 1: when you're talking and you're sharing, you just gotta be understanding, man,
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  Speaker 1: of who your audience is. There's somebody man that's listening.
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  Speaker 1: That's impression. You know, if you got a wild lifestyle,
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  Speaker 1: it's your business. It's your choice. You get the right
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  Speaker 1: to do what you ever want to do. But you
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  Speaker 1: ain't gotta tell everybody. You ain't got to tell everybody everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't got to go along with everybody. Ain't got to
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  Speaker 1: be cool with what you said. I just happen to
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  Speaker 1: be that person sometimes in this political correct society that
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  Speaker 1: we live in. I get sick and tired sometimes of
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  Speaker 1: having to be so politically correct in terms of because
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  Speaker 1: you know, what a lot of people call political correctness
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  Speaker 1: is if I have a viewpoint and I share it
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  Speaker 1: with you, you have to agree with my viewpoint or
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  Speaker 1: else you're politically incorrect. I'm sorry. I ain't on that bandwagon.
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  Speaker 1: No damn mote, take me off of that bandwagon. That's
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  Speaker 1: not political correctness. That's agreeing with your view. And I
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  Speaker 1: don't have to agree with your view. I got something
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  Speaker 1: else for you. I ain't got to like your view.
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  Speaker 1: I got another thing for you. I don't have to
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  Speaker 1: accept your view from me. It's fine for you. Gold
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  Speaker 1: do you. But the moment you bring it over here
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  Speaker 1: to me, you are now subject to my view? What
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  Speaker 1: about my view? Why can't I say what I want
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  Speaker 1: to say about the statement you made? If your freedom
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  Speaker 1: is to be able to say what you want to say,
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  Speaker 1: ain't my freedom to be able to say what I
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  Speaker 1: want to say? Where my political correctness? Something come in that?
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  Speaker 1: So you know what, y'all, I didn't decide that I
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  Speaker 1: ain't going along with it no more. And you can
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  Speaker 1: call me politically and correct if you want to, But
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  Speaker 1: Uncle Steve is through with this mass. Man. You can't
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  Speaker 1: come over here and share your mess with me, and
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  Speaker 1: then when I share you mine, you got something to
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  Speaker 1: say about mine? What can I say something about yours?
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  Speaker 1: So here's my whole thing. Just shut your damn mouth.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you ain't got to share everything going through and
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  Speaker 1: everything you're feeling, because once you put it out, there
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  Speaker 1: is out there and it's now subject to our viewpoint.
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  Speaker 1: It's now subject to my viewpoint. And I'm sorry, man,
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  Speaker 1: we don't took this seat. See America, so free this
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  Speaker 1: freedom of speech, but there's no freedom of return speech. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're free to speak how you want to speak, But
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  Speaker 1: I ain't free to speak on it. Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: excuse me. Are y'all doing what your forefathers have been
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  Speaker 1: doing with this constitution? Are you writing it just for
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  Speaker 1: certain people because it showed don't apply to all of us?
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  Speaker 1: And political correctness has got to start being political correctness
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  Speaker 1: for everybody. And that's including the people who don't have
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  Speaker 1: to agree with what you said. That don't make us
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  Speaker 1: politically incorrect. You put it out there. So my suggestion
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  Speaker 1: from now on, shut show, damn mouth. Stop sharing with
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  Speaker 1: me your views on marriage. Stop sharing with me your
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  Speaker 1: views on relationship. And then when I say my view
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  Speaker 1: on it, now all of a sudden, I'm wrong for
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  Speaker 1: not agreeing with you. Well I don't, Uncle Steve, don't agree, no,
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  Speaker 1: damn mother. And that's the way I'm doing political correctness
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  Speaker 1: from now on. That my view is my political choice,
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  Speaker 1: just like yours is your political choice. So I'm cool
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  Speaker 1: with it. So now if you don't won't mind, don't
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  Speaker 1: share with me yours. But if you share with me yours,
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  Speaker 1: please be open to mind because mine is just as
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  Speaker 1: valid as yours. Is it not? Welcome to America, Uncle
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