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Father's Day, Raptors, Sheryl Underwood, DuVernay and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back
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  Speaker 1: me true good at Steve has listening to move together
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  Speaker 1: your back at it. Huh. I shall will a good
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig
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  Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey. I got a
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  Speaker 1: radio show him just trying to give God some back,
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  Speaker 1: just some back of what even gave me, just a portion,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Just I'm just trying, man to to show
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  Speaker 1: some type of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: trying to man, just just get it right sometimes, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. I mean, man, you just can't
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do and just live wrong
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  Speaker 1: all the time. Man, you got it at one point
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  Speaker 1: in time, Steve, come home. Man, come on, man, you
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  Speaker 1: could do better. I know you can, you know saying
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  Speaker 1: and you know what I had to do I had
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  Speaker 1: to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better, and
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  Speaker 1: I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: do better. You know, trying it's just to put forth
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  Speaker 1: in that and then if it don't work, well, okay.
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  Speaker 1: But if you make up in your mind that I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
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  Speaker 1: it done is the only thing that matters. See, it's
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  Speaker 1: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to
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  Speaker 1: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to
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  Speaker 1: win the game. Now, trying to win the game means
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  Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your
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  Speaker 1: mind made up, most athletes will tell you that they
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  Speaker 1: go out there with the full intent and purpose of
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  Speaker 1: winning and winning only see they don't put the second
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  Speaker 1: place finish on the cover Sports Illustrated. Second place don't
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  Speaker 1: get you there. You got to win. And now take
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  Speaker 1: it out of the scope of athletics, but keep it
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  Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you just want to you want to win in life,
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  Speaker 1: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports
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  Speaker 1: Illustrated the life don't you want to be recognized for
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  Speaker 1: your hard work. Don't you want, you know, to be
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  Speaker 1: recognized within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't
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  Speaker 1: you want to have your plaque up on the wall
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  Speaker 1: down at your job. I mean most people do. Some
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  Speaker 1: people could care less. Some people don't care about looking
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  Speaker 1: good or being their best. And that's cool, But I
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  Speaker 1: ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you. I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to those of you who want to be the
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  Speaker 1: best you can be. You know, people kill me when
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  Speaker 1: they're getting mad at at people here and he Brown
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  Speaker 1: knows and he hall up on an employee at them all. Man,
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  Speaker 1: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability,
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  Speaker 1: and he getting recognized for it? What they got to do?
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  Speaker 1: It all that you're talking about because you ain't up there.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's
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  Speaker 1: so lucky, lucky? Hey man, Don't they kind of get
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  Speaker 1: you a little bit when people call you lucky when
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. Luck
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  Speaker 1: is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some people
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  Speaker 1: call that luck. But hold on, let's think about this.
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  Speaker 1: If you wasn't working hard an opportunity presented itself. What
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  Speaker 1: would you call that? But see, when you've been working hard,
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity presents itself and it bumps up into each other.
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  Speaker 1: Now people want to call that luck. But hold up here,
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  Speaker 1: go to part though to day, ain't paying no attention
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  Speaker 1: to Yeah, that opportunity came by. But if you had
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  Speaker 1: not been working hard and the hard work had not
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  Speaker 1: ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir,
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  Speaker 1: it's not luck, it's work. It is work, because as
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  Speaker 1: a scripture that says, faith without works is dead. But
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  Speaker 1: my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught me enough.
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  Speaker 1: Though now I know different between right and wrong, just
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  Speaker 1: like you do. You ain't gotta you know. Itcused me
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  Speaker 1: when people write a strawberry letter? Am I wrong for this?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Good? Well, look at let's read your letter?
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  Speaker 1: Are you wrong for this? You know you're wrong? What
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  Speaker 1: you don't need that's to be telling, you know? But
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, e see, go ahead, though,
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  Speaker 1: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: here's the best advice I can give you. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I really came to talk about. This morning. But
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  Speaker 1: I got sidetrack because I listened get out of your
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  Speaker 1: own way. So many of us are blocking our home blessings.
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  Speaker 1: We just in our own way. We are in our
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  Speaker 1: own way. And one of the most dangerous ways you
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  Speaker 1: can get in your way is to do it your way,
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  Speaker 1: to get it figured your way, and to lock in
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  Speaker 1: on your way and just the way it's got to go.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how many people are blocking a blessing?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how long I blocked mine with that mindset?
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  Speaker 1: Right there? Look, because it's the way you do it,
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  Speaker 1: Do you think that makes it the right way? You
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  Speaker 1: think jazz because you didn't thought on it long and hard,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what you really want. Do you really think
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  Speaker 1: that your way is the right way or could that
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  Speaker 1: be a better way? See? Until I started listening to
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  Speaker 1: God and started paying attention to his way, man, I
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  Speaker 1: was spending my wheels. Man, I was out here so
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  Speaker 1: determined this how I was going to do it. But
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  Speaker 1: you know, I had to learn how to get out
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  Speaker 1: of my own way because just because I could do
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  Speaker 1: it my way didn't mean it was the right way.
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  Speaker 1: I had to get out of my own way. Just
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  Speaker 1: get out your way, man, Now, what what does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: That means see set your goals, That means have your dreams.
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  Speaker 1: That I'm saying, set your goals, man, I ain't saying
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  Speaker 1: don't set goals. Listen to me. Set your goals. What
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  Speaker 1: is it you want to happen? What is it you'd
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  Speaker 1: like to have? What is it you like to be?
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  Speaker 1: What are you aspire to? Set your goals and set
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  Speaker 1: your dreams. Now, take your goals and your dreams to
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  Speaker 1: God and ask God to show you how. Man, you
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  Speaker 1: can save yourself a lot of pain. Listen to somebody
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  Speaker 1: who did it his way for so long. And when
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  Speaker 1: I finally got out of my way, out of my
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  Speaker 1: own way. When you've heard old people say let go
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  Speaker 1: and let God, you've heard them say that I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't get it, but I got it. Now let
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  Speaker 1: go and let God. And it's amazing little saying. Though
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  Speaker 1: now you know you may not. I get it now.
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  Speaker 1: It took me a bunch of years to get it too.
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  Speaker 1: But when I took my goals and my dreams and
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  Speaker 1: my vision to God and I said, God, this is
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  Speaker 1: what I hope for, this is what I aspired to,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I want to be. This is why
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  Speaker 1: I would love to get to Then I said, help me,
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  Speaker 1: show me how point me in the right direction. Let
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  Speaker 1: me follow your footsteps, guide me and give me a
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  Speaker 1: spirit of discernment. Show me who wrong? Because I meet
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  Speaker 1: people every day. Ain't up to no good with me
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  Speaker 1: every single day? Oh man, Man, I can't believe I
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  Speaker 1: run up into you. Man, the Lord told me something's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen to me today. Well, see, I talked to
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  Speaker 1: him every day. He did not mention you to me.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't said nothing to me. He didn't tell me
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  Speaker 1: what was gonna happen. In mind. Now, I don't mean
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  Speaker 1: it can't happen because I'm open to it. So really, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm and and please no, I'm listening as well as
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  Speaker 1: I've ever listened before. But but get yourself together, though,
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  Speaker 1: see no, your goals and your dreams, and then let
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  Speaker 1: God show you how to do it. He'll do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's so important everybody, that you get focused,
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  Speaker 1: that you aim for something, that you dream of something,
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  Speaker 1: that you aspire to something. But it's the most the
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  Speaker 1: best thing you can do. After you do all that, Man,
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  Speaker 1: get God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: why would you not what you got to lose. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't got to go down there and make no big
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  Speaker 1: scene and run laps around the church and run up
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  Speaker 1: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and
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  Speaker 1: flip over and throw money in the air. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: got to do that. This you and God, man, This
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  Speaker 1: you and God. You know you got to serve and
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  Speaker 1: praise him the way you do it. You gotta let
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  Speaker 1: nobody else tell you highs done. It's a personal relationship.
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  Speaker 1: People kill me if you don't do it this way.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't come here to this church and you
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  Speaker 1: don't run around in this circle and you don't get
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  Speaker 1: flipped in the air, you don't, Hey, man, you better
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  Speaker 1: go have a relationship with God. See what that's about.
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  Speaker 1: You understand? Nobody throw you off with all that? All right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, y'all talk to him. He loved to hear
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  Speaker 1: from you. Today. You're listening morning show, ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show is in full effect right now.
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  Speaker 1: My name is Steve Harvey. The following people are my
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  Speaker 1: compiled todays Shirley Strawberry. Good morning, Steve Colin for real,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning Steve. The Little junior killed spates morning up. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I am a smaller statue. Oh it's okay, don't worry.
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to announce nephew Tommy all right, Toronto. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Well to one boy, Well, they're at least
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  Speaker 1: they're not being swept by Golden State right now. They're
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  Speaker 1: controlling things like the dog yeah one twenty three one
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  Speaker 1: on nine baby yeah yeah yeah, well better not nobody
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  Speaker 1: come back. I don't you know, I'm so not interested
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  Speaker 1: in the final. It's not really interesting. It's not it's
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  Speaker 1: not it's interesting to me. I'm digging it because because
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  Speaker 1: I think Golden Steak gonna lose. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 1: That's it's interesting to me. Dey'repend to go down. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care who ain't playing. I don't care who playing.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to see the w and I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to belong to to run too. Yeah. I've never heard
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  Speaker 1: you say that, man, Yeah yeah, And I'm a light skid,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you know, supporter, you know. And then Drake
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  Speaker 1: over there, you know, you think gold Steak gonna play
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  Speaker 1: this whole series in Duran ain't coming back. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: but he better hear it better bed. Okay, well come
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  Speaker 1: on end, they're gonna get somebody in this game. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: we'll come on because look at here, I'm telling you
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  Speaker 1: right now, Toronto got the game face out. They're not playing. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you'd like to go who's winning? Nada, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: Golden State beat the heck Rockets because when the Rockets
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  Speaker 1: was winning, you was with the Rocket. When I knew
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  Speaker 1: he wasn't gonna be from I am too, and I
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  Speaker 1: had enough sense to dope, Oh here we go. Now
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  Speaker 1: that's why you're not pulling for Golden State. Come home
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  Speaker 1: exactly like I'm just really body to beat the team
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  Speaker 1: that beat my team. Kay sense, Oh no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: augument makes no, I don't come home. You think you
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  Speaker 1: think they're gonna see NBA Final and Durant ain't coming
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  Speaker 1: back you when we're gonna sleep me back from here,
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  Speaker 1: man Clay. I talked to Durant barber Sis Katie. That
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  Speaker 1: was nephew Twnna quick talking about that brother Ham. They show.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no he don't. We're gonna keep talking about you.
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  Speaker 1: He could see. Why are you gonna ativate demand because
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  Speaker 1: the aggivated I don't know Agiva, I see it. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't see agivate he y'all see him? Oh, y'all see
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  Speaker 1: his threes and jumpers and dunks. Y'all don't see aggivate hair. No,
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  Speaker 1: I see forty three and thirty five and thirty nine
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  Speaker 1: and twenty nine. All right, well listen, you'll see you
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  Speaker 1: friend when we come back. Father's Day is right around
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  Speaker 1: the corner, guys. And so Steve is going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about Father's Day gifts, dudes, and don't. We'll get to
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  Speaker 1: that at thirty two after the hour, right after this
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  Speaker 1: you're listening show. All right, Father's Day is sneaking up
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  Speaker 1: on us again, and June sixteenth will be here before
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  Speaker 1: we know it's Steve. So, how would you guys like
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  Speaker 1: to spend your Father's Day? Um? And Steve? What are
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  Speaker 1: your father What are your Father's Days gifts? Duth and don't.
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  Speaker 1: All right, my Father's Day will be at the mentoring
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  Speaker 1: camp with the boys who don't have father. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: like that. And my kids sacrifice that day because they understand,
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  Speaker 1: because they get me all year long, so they ain't
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  Speaker 1: got no problem with it for Father's Day, just like
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  Speaker 1: Father's Day. Now, what's your next question? Well, uh, oh,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead. Tell me you have to come from my
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  Speaker 1: father to another father. How do you handle your kids
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  Speaker 1: taking you out to dinner? But then you got to
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  Speaker 1: pay the dog gonna be how do you handle that?
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  Speaker 1: Right there? I don't really Oh oh well your kids
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  Speaker 1: are young, yeah, and they don't have jobs. They got
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  Speaker 1: to get the money from you, so they're not really
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  Speaker 1: taking you out to dinner. We're just going to eat that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're just going to eat and it's your day. It'd
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  Speaker 1: be bling room in the restaurant. Don't worry, Yeah, don't worry.
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  Speaker 1: After you fake your death, Yeah, after you fake your death,
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  Speaker 1: tell me y'all playing with us? Well, I mean I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to be something for you. You get it. You
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  Speaker 1: can go to any restaurant, get a tape. It's not
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  Speaker 1: respected because you guys don't carry the children on that day.
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  Speaker 1: We're bond every day coming. I have to say you're
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  Speaker 1: a great father. I'm always really great father, little dude.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just asking chi boy. I thought that some great bonding.
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  Speaker 1: He get his seat, You get your when you come
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  Speaker 1: to the house. I'm gonna just baptized, all right. So Steve,
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  Speaker 1: what about this? I mean, you know we're talking about
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  Speaker 1: your saying Father's Day doesn't get the respect to say
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  Speaker 1: that Mother's Day gets it doesn't. But what about the gifts? What?
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  Speaker 1: What are some dudes and don'ts as far as gifts
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  Speaker 1: are concerned, do get him something he won't like? What? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Like like you you have? Okay, then what do you want? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: So they can't get what I want? And what is that?
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  Speaker 1: What is that? I like a new air plane? Okay? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, well you were right, you were right. So
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  Speaker 1: now that they're not gonna get me what I want,
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  Speaker 1: then you know what don't? But do you know it's
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  Speaker 1: you know people look at you. I don't have everything. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't don't have another time? Time? What's wrong with times?
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  Speaker 1: I have plenty times? Okay? What about this? Socks and underwear?
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that? Why? What's wrong with that? Because you
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  Speaker 1: won't even know if I got along? But if you
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  Speaker 1: need it? Yeah, why I got him? And still you
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  Speaker 1: don't wear drop? Huh? New row? You're telling me? He
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  Speaker 1: changes every day and then and then they wash it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think they watch draws over excuse me, junior.
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  Speaker 1: Every day, every day you have new bed draws every day.
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  Speaker 1: That boy got some money. This boy got some money. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: watch it. Hey, I don't have to have money to
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  Speaker 1: change your draw new When you watched the load of clothes,
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  Speaker 1: what what about? Have you watched a load of clothes?
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  Speaker 1: When do you put the white till over here? The
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  Speaker 1: dog colors over here? We're going on third three years
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  Speaker 1: in this house. Yeah, I saw the line you room
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  Speaker 1: three weeks ago, first time for the first door, and
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  Speaker 1: was stud He were like, oh, this is nice. What
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  Speaker 1: is this? Man? I've been going past that dough. I'd
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  Speaker 1: have seen it, but I ain't know you he man, Seriously,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't put a load of clothes in the washing machine.
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  Speaker 1: My son washed something for me last year at the camp. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know how to wash you just had. I did.
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  Speaker 1: But these new washing machines that can't throw you, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't really look at it. I can't
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  Speaker 1: really I could because I could read, so I could
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  Speaker 1: figure it out, but I probably not gonna What else?
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  Speaker 1: What else? Okay? What else do you want? Okay? You said,
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  Speaker 1: don't get a tie, don't get sockswhere I like Cuban
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  Speaker 1: cigars if you can illegally get them in for me
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  Speaker 1: out of appreciate it the law. Okay, all right, that's
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  Speaker 1: not gonna happen. Yeah. What about um like couplenks and
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  Speaker 1: things like that? No, not in that go Well, you
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  Speaker 1: know what, my daughter Lloyd bought me a cold blooded
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  Speaker 1: pair of cuff links for I think my birthday. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, see that was nice. Father's Day is coming.
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  Speaker 1: I probably won't even see I'll see two of my
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  Speaker 1: sons on Father's Day. But that's I got it. What
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  Speaker 1: about like um, because women like this, like a spa day,
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  Speaker 1: like a day at the spot, I won't go a
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  Speaker 1: little damn what girl? What you better send me? I
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: pay for your hotel room and fla. But not if
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  Speaker 1: paying for it, he owed, he in comfort. We were
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: going to Vegas. What are you putting them up where?
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  Speaker 1: Putting them in where everybody putting people off the strip?
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  Speaker 1: What you talk about off the strip. We had a
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  Speaker 1: gift at the Rio. They got they just remodeled. They got.
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  Speaker 1: Now when you walk in your room on you gonna
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  Speaker 1: see your window. Well now we figured it. Trip to Vegas. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we can do that. Look a good gift for him Vegas.
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  Speaker 1: Some shades, some sunglass, Yeah, he likes, I don't want
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  Speaker 1: because I like to try. You gotta trium on, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta trym on. Well, look like I ain't gonna get
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: nothing again. This ship all right? Coming up? Your nephew
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: would run that prank back, Steve right after this. You're listening,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Hardy running show coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour and entertainment news director and producer Ava du
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  Speaker 1: Verney is not your auntie. Okay, we'll tell you all
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: about it. But yeah, she doesn't want to be your auntie.
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  Speaker 1: But right now, the nephew's in the building would run
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: that prank back. What you got now? Your son and
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  Speaker 1: my daughter? Your son and my daughter? What about it?
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Do you hit? Ready? Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach
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  Speaker 1: Darren's Darren's father. Is this Darren's father? Yes, it's Darren singing. Listen,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I'm calling you Leshawanda is my daughter? She go to
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: college up there with your son. Uh And I'm getting
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: the word I got a few minutes ago. Was that
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  Speaker 1: to do of them then run off and then got
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  Speaker 1: married together? I don't know what what what what make
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: them run off and get married? Like wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
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  Speaker 1: where'd you hit it from? I just got a phone
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  Speaker 1: call from one of the kids at the school saying
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  Speaker 1: that they didn't that this. The girl grew up with it,
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  Speaker 1: went to grew up with an Austle grade school. She
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  Speaker 1: called it, said the Shonda and dared then the red
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  Speaker 1: off and got married together. And they done say that
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  Speaker 1: done yesterday. But wait, wait, my father ain't my father,
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  Speaker 1: ain't I talked to him about three days ago. He
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing like that. I know'ting yesterday. I've been calling
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  Speaker 1: Shonda and call it. Ain't nobody picking up. And I'm
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: calling this the boys. They give me the boy phone number.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I call him and ain't nobody picking up in the
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  Speaker 1: airs or nothing. It just ain't. It ain't like my
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  Speaker 1: baby girl to do like nothing like this here. But
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  Speaker 1: it's not like my father do nothing like that without
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  Speaker 1: talking to me first. So let me call down there
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  Speaker 1: and talked to Darren and uh, I can't give me
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  Speaker 1: your number. I'll call you back. I'm going down there
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: to that school myself. I'm on fine from now. I
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  Speaker 1: gonna call you to let you know his now if
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  Speaker 1: I'm found out my baby girl and then ran off
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  Speaker 1: and got married because she didn't got pregnant. I promise
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  Speaker 1: you I'm gonna do something that boy years. If you
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  Speaker 1: got my baby pregnant, you wait a minute, now, wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute. Now, he doesn't do nothing to my son.
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  Speaker 1: Now I understand about your daughter. That's my son. Now
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  Speaker 1: you're going down and put your hands on my son.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: If if you got my boot, if you got that's
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  Speaker 1: my only baby, I got, well, I understand that's your
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: only baby, because that's that's my only son. If you're
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: talking about gonna put your hands on you're gonna have
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: a problem. If you got my baby pregnant, your son
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Derek going, I'm gonna beat it. I mean, what's your
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  Speaker 1: name again? What's your name? Doing my name? It? Bot
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  Speaker 1: is my baby? What's what's your name? What's your name?
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  Speaker 1: Do it? Day? And I know how to tell you.
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  Speaker 1: Damn there. Look here, mister Dillard. Uh, you're not gonna
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  Speaker 1: put your hands on my son. Let me bring it him.
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  Speaker 1: And there's the only reason I didn't see her doing
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  Speaker 1: something like that because I'm taller. I'm taller years and
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  Speaker 1: years and years. You know, don't make no baby. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, no baby not being married, you
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  Speaker 1: don't do it. He went, don't be good man. That
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  Speaker 1: means you're trying to make it right. No wish you did,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: mister Dillard. Mister Dillard, listen to me. Now. I understand
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  Speaker 1: that's your daughter, she's playing or whatever. But let me
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: talk to my son before you go down there trying
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: to do something crazy. Okay, let me tell you something.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Your son didn't curse my baby girl and getting married
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: and he didn't gotta bring it. I know what's going on.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I know what it is. My son ain't done nothing
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: to your daughter. Let me call down there and talk
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: to him before you talk about going down and putting
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  Speaker 1: your hands on somebody. I told my baby Tom the
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  Speaker 1: little thugs a lot. He ain't none but the thug
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: who who whoo whoa whoa. But don't think are choosing
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  Speaker 1: my son of being no damn third. Now, well, what
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: kind of man grover to get mad at the age
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: of twenty ain't talking to the parts and nobody wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: make them do something like that. Well, you talking about
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: my tody. My son ain't done nothing because as you're
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: raising him, who did you raising? You'm doning? You're in
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: raising right? Wait a minute, now are you talking to
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: I'm talking to you? Got my baby bringing I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: beat your boy. If you done that, you're gonna get
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: your too. My ho ho, who you think you're talking
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  Speaker 1: to you? I'm talking to you. I'm talking to your
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  Speaker 1: whole MANU has on nobody. You put your hays on
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: my so you know clack, you understand me. That's my son,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: but about your daughter. But that's momaning of friend my baby.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, hey, I Hey, that's my show. You're talking
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  Speaker 1: about putting your hands on You don't have a problem
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  Speaker 1: with me if my baby bringing out promises you don't
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  Speaker 1: never knowing that because I'm gonna do something that boy.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: You man, that's the last time on here. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get something my shore. Now, now you gonna sit down
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: gat of your shot and they and I relaxed for
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  Speaker 1: a minute. Let me call my friend like I get
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: back to you because that I don't come out. So
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I need to tell you what we're saying. Man, what
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: you got. I'm gonna sum me the farther out at
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: school to get the woman I want you to know
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: one day for get off this phone. What is it? Man? Yeah,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I'm listening. Is nephew caught me from the Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Mister Darren, you just got bring by your
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: son Darren Junior. Oh, my uncle, that boy boy got medicine.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: And then no, I gotta high blood pressure. What I
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: call is mama my time me. I gotta ask you, man,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
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  Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. Steve Harvey Moran still
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  Speaker 1: goes on Today. You know that don't go to Vegas.
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  Speaker 1: That's different. I keep talking about Vegas. You want to go?
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: That's what that is? He lope, Yeah, hence that time, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: my Ready to Love season two. I'm at I'm at
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  Speaker 1: look a lot better. That's where I would last year.
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  Speaker 1: I was at one eighty five. You're gonna look a
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  Speaker 1: look bad, You're gonna look different. You're gonna look what
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  Speaker 1: did you eat your today? Better? What did you eat today? Tommy? Oh?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I don't eat anything. It's more than sure. But yesterday
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie to you. I had faulk chicken wings.
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  Speaker 1: I did, and that that set me back. That set
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  Speaker 1: me back, David food ran five mile did yesterday, didn't
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  Speaker 1: was it? Something else? You don't get it? Ain't ever
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• 28:42
  Speaker 1: One ninety two? That's exactly where your ass gonna be
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: when this season start coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour entertainment news right after this you're listening to show.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, in today's trending entertainment news, referring to
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: someone as auntie with no relation is usually a term
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: of endearment, right well, Filmmaker Ava DuVernay does not see
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: it that way. When she sat down with Van Lathan
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: from TMZ everybody knows Van from TMZ Well anyway, he
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: has a podcast, Ava revealed that she finds it slightly shady.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: She says, first of all, I have a real issue recently.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I've been getting called on Twitter Auntie Ava. Why why?
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: She said? Am I that old? Because I don't feel
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: that old? Van tried to explain that fans use the
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: term out of respect for what Ava brings to the culture.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: While she can appreciate the concept, she wasn't having it naturally.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Social media weighed in and made Auntie a trending hashtag.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Ava joined in to let everyone know how she prefers
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: to be addressed. For the record, she says, she happily
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: responds to miss DuVernay, Queen Ava, missape Okay, that's Auntie
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: forget about no, no, no, no. So see if you
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: deal with this all the time, Marjorie gets called a Marjorie.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: We're cool with it. That's you cool with it. Let
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: me step in right here. Uh okay, uncle comes from
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: a niece or a nephew blood. Okay, that's when you
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: say uncle or auntie. If it's not your uncle or
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: your auntie, then guess what. Guess what it's not yours?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: You your own. I am about to say how you
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: feel like that? Because I call him Time. Ain't damn uncle, Steve, No,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: he says time. Why where is your Uncle's the right?
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Your uncle? Well right now, he over there, sit next you. No, No,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: where is your uncle? How many uncles you got? How
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: man uncles you got? This one right here? No, how many. Oh,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: my real uncles, like my family, like your father by seven? Okay,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: are you proud of any of them? Not reading? This
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: is the problem. Proud of this one I got sitting
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: over here. This is the problem. What's the problem? Everybody?
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Dam uncle? Get your own uncle. Don't hold on, Timmy,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, won't do Why is you so possessive?
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Because this is my uncle. I'm the one that was
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: born with a rich ass uncle. And if you wasn't,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: that's just that's just you just didn't get one. Okay,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: but watch this though. Okay, no, no, no, that's a
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: person say that every time. But Snoop Dogg calls you uncle?
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Problem with him? Everybody say that? What now? When when
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I see Snoop? I will address this issue with what
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: is that? Because I'm gonna get man. I swear to God,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be sitting right there. When I see Snoop,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I would let him know this is my uncle and
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: not you. Please Steve, mister Harvey, that's it. It ain't hey, uncle,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: It ain't that, ok everybody. I'm telling everybody cross the country, right,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: I think, get your own damn Steve belongs to the world.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Tommy he's no, no, no, I tell you what, Tommy,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you can't whoop the world as thats what you can't do.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Try And because the word I'm calling about this way, Julian,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that I'm not being to try and
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: whoop the world. Ask okay, just this whoa? All right? Look, Uh,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: we don't know what you just said, Tommy, But anyway,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: I've been to try and we still don't know. And
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: it is time to go to headlines with miss Anne Steve.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Come on, gentlemen, miss when we are no, no, and
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: trip everybody. Okay, this is a trip with the news.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you. President Trump arrived in Ireland yesterday, expressing his
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: respect for the Emerald Isles. This trip is really about
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: great relationships that we have with the UK, and I
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: really wanted to do this stop in Ireland. It was
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: very important in me because of the relationship I have
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: with the people and with your Prime Minister. And it
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: has like a golf resort there too. Today he's in
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: France because today is June sixth, that's right, internationally known
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: as D Day, or the day that the US, the British,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: and the Canadian troops landed on the French coast at
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Normandy in order to dislodge the Nazis from France, and
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: as Queen Elizabeth noted yesterday, the strategy won the day,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: but was nevertheless very costly in terms of casualties. Seventy
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: years ago, hundreds of thousands of young soldiers, sailors, and
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: ammon left these shores in the cause of freedom. Many
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: of them would never return, and the heroism, courage, and
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: sacrifice of those who lost their lives will never be forgotten.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: Many dignitaries will be in France and Normandy today, the
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: marked at seventy fifth anniversary. By some estimates, over four
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: thousand Allied troops were killed that day, another five thousand
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: or so left wounded. In Florida, judge says that a
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: sheriff's deputy now under arrest for not doing anything as
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: a gunman was shooting and killing students and faculty inside
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: of a Parkland High school last year. That guy's going
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: to remain in jail until he surrenders his passport. After
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: the shooting, Scott Peterson retired and moved from Florida to
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: North Carolina. Peterson faces eleven charges. If convicted on all
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: of them, he could face as much as one hundred
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: years behind bars. The US Supreme Court says it will
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: not consider the federal sentence given to a white now
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: former South Carolina cop who killed an unarmed black man
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: in twenty fifteen by shooting him several times in the back.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Michael Slager's lawyers appealed to the nation's highest court over
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: his twenty year prison sentence. Slager's a state trough of
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: murdering mister Walter Scott ended in a hung jury, and
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Slager pled guilty to violating Scott's civil rights because he
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: was hoping to get a lesser sentence. However, a federal
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: judge sentence Slager based on the underlying charge of second
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: degree murder. Saga claims that's unfair. Well, the first jury
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: couldn't decide. Well, the High Court says, no, we're not
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: going to weigh in on that. That means the thirty
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: seven year old slayer will remain in prison until at
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: least the year twenty thirty four. The homeless problem in
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Los Angeles growing. The results of the annual Homeless Council
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: that some fifty nine thousand people are living on the
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: streets of the city of Los Angeles. A twelve percent
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: jump from over last year and today is whatever days.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: So sometimes sometimes you don't back to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Junior Golden State Warriors
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: and taking their beef with Drake to new levels? What
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: is going on where? You know Draking? Uh push your
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: t had a beef last year. You know, both we
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: going back and forth over dis tracks and everything. And
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: so the Golden State Warriors played Pushing T dis track
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: you know, the story of Edition in a pregame playlist
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: while warming up on the court last night in orc Arena,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: which did not help them because Toronto took the game
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: one twenty three to one on nine. Now it's two
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: to one Toronto. Do anybody think it's over? No, no,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you can't. Never says over with them, now that's right.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: And he dropped forty seven last night. Man, Yeah he
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: told everybody and Clay you know Leonard Lowary, you know
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Leonard had thirty Lowry had twenty three. Now this is
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: giving them a lot of confidence. You need to know
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: that it does. Yeah, it does, but let's not be crazy.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: I promise you, Durant and Clay is gonna be in
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: this game. Game folk on fray. I don't know, Junior.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: It just seemed like Durant would have been back by
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: now it's his calf, right, it's his calf. Yeah, it
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: just seemed like he'd have been backed by nine dogs
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: on the real injury. Yeah, it just seemed like he'd
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: have been back. I mean, I know, you know, the
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: longer you you sit out, you know, you know you
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: can heal a little bit more. But I don't know
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: what time. It wasn't crucial at that time. This crucial.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: They can't go down three one. Did Cousins A Cousins
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: played that? He played Yeah, yeah, yeah, but he hurt again,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Yes about his He need to trade his calf. That's
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: where you beat these boys. They're gonna have to stay.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Somebody gotta hurt, gotta be hurt. Golden State, man, if
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: they just get any one of them back, they're gonna
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: be They're gonna be formidable. You ain't gonna go on it.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: You're not going there without a fight for game folk.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: They're not just gonna hand you game folk. So who
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: you going for? Timing, Let me hear you. I'm going
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: for Toronto. They beat the Gold State beat the mess
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: out of my Rockets. I'm going for Toronto, me too.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: You you kid for your rockets was not going to change,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: but Golden State was gonna do. That's all right, I'm
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: pulling for Toronto. Let's go. I'm with Drake. Okay, okay,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: well you ain't. You ain't heard Drake saying that. I mean,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I can't afford that the seat that Drake city in
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: because that that's the Yeah, that's something afford. Nah, you can't.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: I know you. I don't don't believe that. How much
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: you think them seats call? They showed it the other day.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: They got some seats that was twenty twenty thirty thousand
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: dollars down this You got that in your back pocket?
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: You can afford? Man? Do you know what that calls?
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: At my house? My wife spending that kind of twenty
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: thirty thousand? Boy, you keep that in your shell? No?
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Damn well shut up? What shale high? All right? Listen?
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Coming up next? Coming up next at thirty four after
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: the hour, more backlash, more fallout for a Central Park
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: five former prosecutor Linda Fairstein. She resigned from the board
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: of her alma mater right after this. You're listening to
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: the Steven show, all right, everyone's talking about the Netflix
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: series When They See Us, which tells the story of
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Kevin Richardson, Raymond Santana, Antron McCray, Yusef Salam and Corey Wise.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: Also known as the Central Park Five, The series by
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: filmmaker Aver DuVernay re examines the accusations, the false confessions,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: and the aftermath of the case against the boys, who
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: were teenagers back then when they were accused of raping
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: a jogger in Central Park. Former prosecutor Linda Fairstein is
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: now facing a new round of backlash and criticism thanks
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: to the Netflix series. Linda Fairstein, who is played by
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Felicity Huffman, is portrayed in the show as immediately convinced
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: of the boys guilt, despite no physical evidence linking them
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: to the scene and descriptions in their confessions that didn't
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: match the crime scene. After Mattea's Riez, a serial rapist,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: confessed to the attack in two thousand and two and
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: DNA confirmed his account, the men were then exonerated. As
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: we mentioned, the backlash continues. Linda Fairstein has just resigned
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: as a member of the board of trustees at Vassar College,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: and there is also an online push to boycott her
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: bestseller crime novels and her books. So there you go.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: They're they're just I mean, you know, it's not a
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: lot they can do because they those boys, their men.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Now they can't get that time served back. But um,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, I gotta watch it. Yeah, it's
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: called when they see us. Yeah. Yeah, I didn't know
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: what it was. I saw the billboards and then I
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: saw and they pretty much excuse me, they pretty much
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: stuck to the facts. Oh yeah, but it's their life
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: after they get out that really disturbed. Yeah. Yeah, how
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: they had to be treated. Yeah, and they see the city, right,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: and they got like forty one million dollars, Yeah, forty
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: one million million. Because the system looked at him as
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: if they were still guilty, and they would not admit
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: to them being guilty. Yeah, you know, I go to
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: the meeting like high, I'm a drug addict, I'm something. No,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: they wouldn't need to I'm a rapist. They would not
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: admit to that. They would they would not. They didn't
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: do it. They called earth those confessions. Out of them,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: those they said, only two out of the five boys
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: even knew each other. It was crazy. Yeah, these kids
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: didn't even know each other. They don't tape lying about
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: the other boys. But he couldn't even remember their name,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: right right, Yeah, and Corey Wise we met him surely
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: at the Circle of Sisters at our home station one
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: or seven five in New York. I remember we had
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: a chance. Yeah, we had a chance to meet and
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: talk with him. Very very nice guy. And he was
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: very young. He he was one of the youngest ones.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: They were like seventeen, really young. But yeah, Carl, I
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: had forgotten all about that until you mentioned it to
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: me that we have met him. I do remember that
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: young man, very very I mean, after all he's gone through.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: He wasn't bitter or anything. And listened to the show Steve,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: they do light this whole thing, man, Yeah, and it
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: wasn't Donald Trump. Didn't he have a lot to say
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: around that time he got a full page and yeah, yeah,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: stopping I remember, yeah, you know, uh, there's part for
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: his cause those young men, um man. Sadly, it happens
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: to so many people falsely charged. I remember I was
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: fourteen fifteen. If you got shot in the hood where
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: we lived, and your parents or grandparents was around, and
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: they knew it was like not too deep in you,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: like in your leg or back yond. They took it
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: out at home because they didn't want to take their
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: sons up to that hospital because you know, you got
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: to report any gunshot because prosecutors try to build cases
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: back in the day like they do now, and it
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: wasn't no forensic size. They would put cases on dudes.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Wow wow. So a lot of times, man, if you
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: got shot in the hood and it didn't look like
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: it was deep, they tried to get the bullet out
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: at the house instead of taking you up the end.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: End did come to the police with that okay, duke
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: they was pulling. It was a lot of that. Man. Well,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: when when you think about watching them, when you think
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: about watching it, oh, I'm gonna watch it because the
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: day you watch it, make sure you ain't got to
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: go nowhere, because if you see somebody, you won't get mad. Yeah.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: But you know what I am. I am glad that
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: this story is finally made it to the man stream
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: of people where people can really get the truth behind
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: this story, because that was just a terrible just blotch
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: on this country. How they did those boys, you know,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: not the first time, and I'm sure it won't be
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: the last, but it was really horrible how they retreated.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: All right, nephew Tommy is up next with a prank
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: phone call as we switch gears. Right after this, you're
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: the subject keeping it all in the family, Keeping it
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: all in the family. But right now the nephew is
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got for
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: is enough? Well, Shirley, you know they have child day call.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: You know they have child Will you drop your kids off?
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: You understand that, right of course, But they also have
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: adult daycam. Will you drop your parents out? And how's
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: this fun? Yeahtanding, yes, you there is the three too much? Well,
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: we're going to drop somebody. Mama, hold on, run a kid. Hello. Hello,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach miss Sharon's. Please. Yes, this is Sharon.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Miss Sharon's. My name is Evan. I'm giving you a
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: call from adult daycare. Okay, because daycare. My name is
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: Evan and I got your number and all your information
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: here on file. Um, it looks like you're gonna be
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: joining us starting on Monday. So we're excited to have you,
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: and I wanted to just give you a call and
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: kind of give you the lay of the land of
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: what we have here and how how much fun you're
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: gonna have being here most of the day with herself.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: From my understanding is you're gonna be here probably the
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: majority of this year. What are you talking? What are
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: you talking about? Being there? Where? Here? At the adult daycare?
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Adult daycare? Where where's that? What are you talking? Okay?
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: You said your name is Evan, my name, My name
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: is Evan, yes, ma'am. And your daughter is Diane. Diane,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: that's daughter. You know my daughters? Yes, Well she's the
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: one that has You're signed up. You're gonna be at
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: the adult daycare. So I'm assuming she's gonna be dropping
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: you off every morning, and I tell you talking about
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Evan Evan, Hang on a second. All right, First of all,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. You don't know who
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I am. I don't know how the you know who
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: my daughter is? But this is this is really uh
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: inappropriate and weird. And what you're trying to get? What
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: do you what do you want? Do you want money
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: to me or you like a solicitor. No, no, no, no, ma'am. No, no, no,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: not at ams, Sharon. No, your daughter has signed you
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: up to be here at the adult daycare during the day,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: so she's going to I don't know what you're talking about.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: There's no way she would do that adult day here.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: What do I need to doult day care for? So what? Well,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: evidently are you home alone most of the time during
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: the day. Who cares if I'm home alone? Who? Why
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: are you asking me that you're trying to break into
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: my house? No? You are, man, I don't know, Sharon. Okay, look,
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: I'm hooked up to that uh nine one month stuff.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Thanks like I could just do a panicle right now
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: and they'll trace this call and they will come to
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: you and arrest you because you're harassing me. No, no, no, no, okay,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: miss Sharon, I'm not harassing you. Your daughter, Diane came
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: in and up. Yes, she signed you up for you
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: to go to this daycare Monday Friday. Why, she's at work,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: so she's going to be dropping you off and then
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: she'll pick you up in the evenings on her way
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: home from work. I know where you got that from.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know who told you that. Yeah, you got
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: my daughter's name. And this is really just freaking me out,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: you know, a little bit over here, Ivan, because I
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: don't know why you know my name. He's on my
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: daughter's name. Ah. This is like the only reason I
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: know you all name, miss miss Sharon, is because she
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: came in and gave all the information and she has
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: paid for you to come to the adult daycare on
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: a daily by Yeah, yeah, yeah, hear ye hear what.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: You sound like a nice guy, you know what I mean,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Like you're smooth, you got a nice voice, You're you're
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: you know, like you know what to say. I don't
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: know who the hell you are, though, I don't know
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. You know what I mean? Like,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to know daycare center. I'm not going
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: with daycare center date because I'm fine. Just get that
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: through your head. There's nothing wrong with me. I stay home,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I got a dog, I walk the dog, I goree shopping,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: my daughter comes over. Everything's fine. I don't get no
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: daycare center. Okay, Well, I understand what I'm saying that
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: there is there is there a reason why she would
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: sign you up, ma'am she must think. She must be
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: looking out for your your the best, you know your health.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you, Let me ask you. Are you single?
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: What are you single? Are you married? What does that happen? Dude? Anybody?
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I'm not coming to no date here center all right, Evan, Like,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: if you want to come to my house and you
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: want to see how I live, you ten, I'm switching this.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: I'm switching it up. Okay, I don't need to come
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: to your home. I'm more concerned about making sure you're
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: comfortable here at the adult day when you get here
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: on Monday. Yeah, I'm not coming there. That's it. I'm
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: not coming there because there's nothing wrong with me. I'm
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: not coming out of my house. But I'll pay you
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: what Evan? You I don't know. Like I like your voice.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I just like your voice. Miss way minute, mister? How old?
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: How old you m? I'm fifty fifty. Have you ever
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: been with an eighty nine year old lady? Wow? Wow? Nine?
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: And you sound really nice? That's all. Like, at first
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: I was scared of you. At first I wanted I'll
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: be honest, I was scared of you. And now I'm not. Like,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm just not you know what
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I mean? Like you just sound like yeah, I don't
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: know who you are. But okay, so wow, will you
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: be here? Will you be at the daycare center like you?
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Because I like to meet you. I'll be at the
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: daycare when you arrive on Monday. But I mean not, um,
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: miss Sharon, I won't be able to I like that,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Miss Sharon. That's nice. Oh ahead, gohead, Okay, So should
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: I should I reach out to Diane about this? All
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: reach out tour? Sure, reach out to her. Okay, Well,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna ok yeah, ahead, you're not gonna come
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: in Monday, right, I'm right, I'm I'm like, I don't
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: know if you're gonna be very just late the Sharon.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: It's not about me. It's about you coming in and
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: you're gonna this is where you're gonna be, uh Monday
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: through Friday from yeah, and all right, listen, you know
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: there's there's there's there's other people your age here. There's
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of ladies. You're aging a lot of
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: me in your age here. I'm not in the ladies.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I'm not in late. I didn't I'm not turning yeah,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: not into it. I'm I'm into you. Okay, um, yeah,
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: I think it's a situation like your your daughter doesn't
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: want you to be by yourself. Yeah, could you could
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: I call you back? Can I call you back? Yeah,
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: let's call you back. Let me call you back in
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: a couple of minutes. I'm on the show and I
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: got pulled my off of the thing. This is the
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: first this is ever happened to me. Okay, uh, miss Sharon,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you who I am? I am Matthew
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: telling me from the Steve Arby Morning Show. Your daughter
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Diane got me the prank. Call you, but I promise
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: you you're different you. I promise you I'm different. I
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: promise you. I'm different here related to Steve Harvey, like
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: the guy on TV out of here. He is gorgeous
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: and called me back. All right, all right, okay, I
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: love you. Oh my god, think I kind of got Yeah. Yeah,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: see that. She started flirting with me, felling you, huh
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: go there, sexy. Yeah that's what you want to be,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: don't but not like not with no me? That what
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: you want? Yeah, I want to be sexy, but not
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: to people. Careful, Yeah, be careful what you wish. Yeah,
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: they're probably are gonna be pull it off in front
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: of nobody, you know so sex. Oh God, that's you.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: The truth same by thank you, nephew. Disillusion. Coming up next,
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: it's the Strawberry Letter, subject keeping It All in the Family.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, guys, time now for today's
• 53:24
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• 53:27
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• 53:31
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• 53:34
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• 53:37
  Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: one right now. Bug hold on tight, We got it
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: for you. Here it is the Strawberry Letter. Yeah, tell me.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: You might need to say that again, m bug hold
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: on tight. Here it is you'd been warned subject keeping
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: it All in the family. Dear Steven Early, I need
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: your advice, but I pray that you are not too
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: stern with me. I am a thirty one year old,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: successful and beautiful woman with two children, ages three and one.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: I am not married, but I am involved with a
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: married man. It's my sister's husband. They have been married
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: for twelve years, and I started sleeping with her husband
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: five years after they were married. My two children are
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: actually his, My sister and my Oh you go take
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: miss Sloan. I told you, I told you this letter
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: right here. I'm trying, I know, Okay, three and one. Yeah,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: she says, I'm not married, but I am involved with
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: a married man. It's my sister's husband. They have been
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: married for twelve years, and I started sleeping with her
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: husband five years after they were married. My two children
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: are actually his. My sister and my family members have
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: no idea that I've been with this man for so long.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: Years ago. She was sleeping with him for five years,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: five years into their twelve year marriage. So seven, yeah,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: all right. My sister and my family members have no
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: idea that I've been with this man for so long.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: Years ago, I started lying about dating a guy that
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: lives out of town, and I told them that it's
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: a crazy relationship, so they don't need to meet him.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: They do think that I take the kids to see
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: him though. My sister's husband, he is the father of
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: my kids, and he was happy that I could give
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: him a family. After they found out that my sister
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: was not able to have children. He has taken care
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: of my children and I since day one. We have
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: a house and a pretty comfortable lifestyle. He and I
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: have been on yeah but right, there's more all right,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: And he and I have been on family vacations together
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: with the kids, and I'm not sure why my sister
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: has never suspected us. I was worried that my three
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: year old would start talking and telling it all, so
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: I had to limit the time that I let my
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: children stay around my family. Now that I have two
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: children by this man, I want him around full time.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: So I gave him an ultimatum. He said that he
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: would never leave me, and he would never leave my sister.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: He said, the arrangement works and there's no need to
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: mess it all up. I am so in love with
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: this man, and I am willing to be truthful about
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: it all in hopes that I can have him to myself.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I know we are wrong for all of this, but
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: we have a chance to make it right. What do
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: you think he buy it or fight for this man?
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: Please help? I'm with you, Steve. I was through. I
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: was threw away about halfway through this letter. Really, when
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: she said she's sleeping with her sister's husband. This has
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: to be the most trifling letter I think we've ever gotten,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: and we've gotten a whole lot of trifling letters. But because, yeah,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: because you are just clueless. I mean, you're you're just clueless.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: You said it's wrong. You know it's wrong. Your brother
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: in law, slash man is cheating with his wife's sister
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: and he has two children with you. Why why would
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: you do this to your sister. I don't understand why
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: you would do something like this. You think you're helping
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: because she can't have kids and you can. Yes, your
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: children are gonna start talking and calling him daddy. Yes,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: So now you're gonna you're involving the children by depriving
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: them of their father and their family because now you
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: have to keep them away. No more family vacations. And
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: like Steve said, where is this house? Your sister never
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: comes to your house. This is when it's okay to
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: say uncle, this is okay man. I mean, think if
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: your brother in law had kids, they would be cousins
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: and brothers and sisters. I mean, you're so in love
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: with this man, you're willing to be truthful about it
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: all in hopes that you can have him to yourself.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: That's not gonna happen. That's not gonna happen. Yeah, you're
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: wrong for all of this. You don't have a chance
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: to make this right the only way you There's nothing
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: you can do to make this right. There's absolutely nothing
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: you can do. What do we think? We think you're crazy?
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: We think your brother in law man, he's crazy. Should
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: you keep quiet or fight for this man? Fight for him?
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: He's not even yours to fight for. This is your
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: sister's husband of twelve years. I don't understand. I really
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: really don't understand where your head is and all of
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: this because you say, you know, you know it's wrong.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: You ask us not to be too stern with you,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: But what are we supposed to do? I mean, come on,
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: this this letter is crazy, really crazy, and we don't
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: have a lot of time, So Steve, take it away please.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what to tell this woman.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: I really don't. I wish you had the road into Yeah,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: what do you say to her? I don't know. I
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: don't I don't know what. Don't be stern me to hell?
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  Speaker 1: You ask me fault? What do you think? Do I
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  Speaker 1: keep quiet or fight for this man, the hell is
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you? Damn? You don't see, don't what's what's wrong?
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: You trifled on so many letters due you always try
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  Speaker 1: to trick people at the beginning when O people didn't
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  Speaker 1: do something trick from this how they opened and that
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  Speaker 1: I'm a beautiful, successful thirty one year old woman. Oh
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: it's something ugly about you. I can tell you that. Hey,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: unflated out damn letter. Yeah. Pert two is coming up
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  Speaker 1: with Steve at twenty three after the hour. Today's Strawberry
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: Letters subjects keeping it all in the family. We'll get
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. Say, no, recap. I'm just
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: fitting to get into it. Ain't no damn recap. Thirty
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  Speaker 1: one year old woman say she's beautiful with two children,
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  Speaker 1: three and one. She ain't married, but she's involved with
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  Speaker 1: a married man now, a married man that she involved with.
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  Speaker 1: It's her sister's husband. Now they've been married for twelve years.
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  Speaker 1: She started sleeping with the dude five years after they
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  Speaker 1: were married. They've been sleeping together seven years. My two children,
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  Speaker 1: the ones that's three and one, they are actually his
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: first of all, my sister and my family members have
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  Speaker 1: no idea that I've been with this man for so long.
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  Speaker 1: You trifling. I don't know how you don't want us
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  Speaker 1: to be sterned. You don't understand how wrong you are.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, you're having an affair with the married man.
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  Speaker 1: But this married man you chose to have an affair with,
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  Speaker 1: it's your sister's husband. I mean, man, that's trifling. That's
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  Speaker 1: really really trifflic You was gonna see a married man, Okay, cool,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: I get it. Just go get you one somebody else. Now,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: your family and your sister, they don't have any idea
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: about this. You know, you started lying to coverage by
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: dating this man that lives out of town, and I
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  Speaker 1: told him that it's a crazy relationship, so they don't
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  Speaker 1: need to meet him. And now they do think that
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: I take the kids to see him though, So I
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  Speaker 1: want to hear this. See, this is what I want
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: wanted to learn. How did your family think that you
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: take the kids to see him? And your sister's husband
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  Speaker 1: knows he's the father of the kids, and he was
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  Speaker 1: happy that you could give him some kids. After he
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  Speaker 1: found out that his wife, who is your sister wasn't
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  Speaker 1: able to have children. Now I've noticed how you started
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  Speaker 1: to weave this story to start to start adding so
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  Speaker 1: it can make sense to you. So my sister can't
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  Speaker 1: have kids. He's so grateful that I was able to
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  Speaker 1: give him two children. But this dude is screwing his
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  Speaker 1: wife's sister. Man, y'all trifling? Man? Okay? Then, and my
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  Speaker 1: sister's husband knows that he the father the kids, and
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  Speaker 1: he was happy because I could give him a family
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  Speaker 1: after they found out my sister wasn't able to have children. See,
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: so now she trying to make a life. She hadn't
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  Speaker 1: done a service, and I'm doing something good because he
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: wanted a family and he couldn't have one, so I
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: gave it to him. He'd took care of me and
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: the kids since day one. We have a house and
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: a pretty comfortable lifestyle. Wait wait, wait wait we have
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: a house where Yeah? But and what do they think
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  Speaker 1: you take the kids too? He and I have been
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: on family vacations together with the kids, and I'm not
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: sure why my sister has never suspected us. Wait wait
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: a minute, how do you go explain this to me?
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: Because I'm dumbfounded? How do you go on vacation with
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  Speaker 1: your sister's husband, and y'all didn't have two kids. How
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: do y'all go on family vacation with the kids? What
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  Speaker 1: do the kid kids call him? Do the kids ever
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: see him with hub? What y'all doing Christmas and Thanksgiving?
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: What the hell is going on here? How long you
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: think you and you keep talking about should you fight
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: for this man or just be quiet? You ain't gonna
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: be quiet with this too much longer. These kids they
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: don't know this little crazy story you didn't wolve. I
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: was warried that my three year old would start talking
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: and telling it all, so I had to limit the
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  Speaker 1: time I let my children stay around my family what
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  Speaker 1: not there? Because they they think he is daddy, but
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: he is they daddy, But he they uncle daddy exactly.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: Now I have two children by this man. I wanted
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: him around full time, so I gave him an ultimatum.
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  Speaker 1: He said he would never leave me and he would
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: never leave my sister. He said, the arrangement works and
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: there's no need to mess it up. Yeah, it works
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  Speaker 1: for him. This food don't know how they say gonna
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: work for him that he has no idea what's coming
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: down the Pike for right. You have to pay for
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: stuff like this. Brothers, I've done some wrong in my day,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: you guys to pay for it. I'm so in love
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: with this man, and I'm willing to be truthful about
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: it all. Wait a minute, you find what? What? What? What? What?
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: What do that mean? You find to go be truthful
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: with it to who, to your sister, to your mama,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: to your family. That's what you find to tell him.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: I just want to say one more thing when we
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: come back on is all right? All right? All right,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna do more, Steve on this letter. H this
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  Speaker 1: is a crazy letter, Keeping it All in the family. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it part three right after this
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  Speaker 1: at forty six after the hour you're listening, all right,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll get
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: into more of the show with Cheryl Underwood. But right now, Steve,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: we want to get back into the Strawberry letter subject
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  Speaker 1: keeping It All in the family. This year old woman
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  Speaker 1: who claims to be beautiful, successful has been seeing a
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  Speaker 1: married man. The married man happens to be her sister's husband.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: She's had two kids with this man. They've gone on
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: family vacations together, she's nervous that the three year old
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: was gonna start talking and the baby will right now
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: to three year old, ain't got the words for a check,
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: but five oh yeah, oh yeah. She didn't have it
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  Speaker 1: together a minute. He has taken care of you, as
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  Speaker 1: her and the children since day one. They got a
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: house together and pretty comfortable. They haven't been on family
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  Speaker 1: vacation together as with the kids. I'm not sure why
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  Speaker 1: my sister has never suspected us, which means you've kind
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  Speaker 1: of not cared, well, not no, kind of you have
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  Speaker 1: never gave a damn about what your sister think or
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  Speaker 1: feel because you want this for yourself. Then you said,
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  Speaker 1: now you got the two children bodies man, you want
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: him around full time. So she wouldn't and gave a
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: man an ultimatum. He said he would never leave her
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: and he would never leave my sister. He said, the
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: arrangement works, and there's no need to mess it all up.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: This thing is unraveling, as every time we read it,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: it's unraveling. So listen to this. I'm so in love
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: with this man that I'm willing to be truthful about
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: it all in hopes that I can have him to myself. Wait, okay, lady.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: First of all, let let me explain something to you
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: about that statement, in hopes that I can have him
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  Speaker 1: all to myself. He ain't never gave himself all to
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: no one person. You don't. You don't recognize that. You don't.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: You don't, don't you don't. You're not looking at that statement.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: I want him all to myself, but he don't want
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: to be all to himself with nobody he doing it? Now,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: you're stupid. You ain't gonna be truthful about another day.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: You ain't about a damn thing. I'm gonna have him
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: to myself now. I know we are wrong for all this,
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: but we have a chance to make it right. He ain't.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: He stopped saying that we have a chance. You said
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: you was going in there. He told me you ain't
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: going in there. But now I say a damn thing.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: What do you think? Keep quiet? A fight for this man?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: You can't fight for something that ain't cho or should
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: have told you that you can't fight for this man.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: He ain't cho us. All this is a disaster. All
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: of this is wrong on so many levels. You have
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  Speaker 1: no idea that damnage you have done to an entire
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: family structure. You have no idea, lady, and there's nothing
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: we can do to spare you from the misery that's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: coming down your street. For this hanging there, get prayed
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: up and ask for forgilt, that's all. And take care
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: of those kids. Those are the ones that are really
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: gonna suffer. All right. You can email us, you know,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM, or listen to the Strawberry Letter podcast
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: and Cheryl Underwood is coming up next right here, right
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to. All right, Steve, introduce our girl.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: She is here, Udies and gentlemen, without further ado, Shirley,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Listen, President Trump's is out of the country. Okay, listen,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: Well we need to do right now. We need to
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: go change all the locks at the White House. You
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: need to let all the air out, the ties of
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Air Force one, they all need to come back, you
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So while he over there, why
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: don't you just stay over though. But this is what
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. I don't understand. They got the polls
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: out where they say fifty four percent of the population
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: believe that Trump's is gonna give reelected president. That's just
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: sound like they not gave up already. Now we can't
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: get the impeachment inquiry. They need to start it. See
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: back when Nixon and the water Gate, Nixon had like
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: I think he had it, like a sixty five percent
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: approve of rated and then when they did they impeachment
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: inquiry and all that stuff start coming out in all
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: them earrings. Then people start bailing on Nixon because they
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: knew what the real story was and they couldn't save him.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: But they told him, Hey, we can't save you, so
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: you need to resign. Why am I telling you all
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: of this? Don't give up now. If you don't like
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: Trump as the president, do you? First, we need an
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: impeachment inquiry, and impeachment is not gonna happen overnight. But
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: you need to dig into this. You need to find
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: out how the Russians took advantage of the fact that
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: the thirst is real with Trump. He wanted to be
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: president that bad that he could take help from our adversary,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: which in my opinion, means you should not be the president.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And you damn sure should
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: not be presenting us now when you were talking about
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't go to Vietnam, and this is the week
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: where were celebrating what is yeah, seventy five year Listen
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: to me, that's not what the commander in chief does.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: And now and then we got to figure out not
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: just how we get this dude out of office, and
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: if we can't get him out of office, then we
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: need to vote him out of office. But then everybody say,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: but we don't want Biden, We don't want Biden. Why
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: we don't want Biden? You know why you don't want
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: Biden because everybody think they can win this. Biden is
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: the dude that got the highest numbers in the little poem. Okay,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: so obviously somebody like Biden. Black people like Biden because
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: he was President Obama's vice president. So why don't y'all
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: stop tripping Democrats? And why are the thirty five of
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: y'all that's running. Why don't y'all rock paper scissor this
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: and decide who's gonna be the vice president and let's
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: get on with putting this dude out of office if
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: that's what you feel now. Last for not lest everybody
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: talking about this high amendment and everybody talking about when
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: women got the right to vote, well before that it
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: was the fifteenth Amendment that gave men the right to vote,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: and then people sold us out. See, we gotta go
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: back and study our history. While we believe in and
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: supporting everybody bought ourselves. There was two amendment's Fifteenth Amendment,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: nineteenth Amendment. Then they start doing stuff to black people,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: so we definitely could not vote. Now let's talk about
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: abortion before I go. And this is me talking not
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. If you don't know anything
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: about Fanny lew Hammer's life, then you need to study
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: who Fanny lew Hammer was. Fanny lew Hammer was a
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: civil rights person that got what they called back then
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: Tommy Junior caller, Shirley and Steve a Mississippi appendect to me,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: what did she get? She got a histor direct me,
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: she got sterilized without Hussey, so for a minor tumor.
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  Speaker 1: That's why she was saying that abortion was genocide. We
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  Speaker 1: don't all think alike, we don't all act alike, but
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: we got to come together so we can protect our rights.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: So don't tell me, well Biden supports the High Amendment,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: Let him feel the way he feels. Because we got
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: the worst president in the history of mankind in the
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: White House and we're still fighting over who's gonna take
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: this dude out. We don't need to be fighting over that.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: We need to come together and if we don't like him,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: as Americans, vote his ass right about the White House
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: while he overseas on. Sorry, did I go to far Steve?
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, girl, perfect you, Thank you, Sue. Don't even
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  Speaker 1: look good with a tight vessel with its old lord
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  Speaker 1: embarrassing us. I just he the worst, and I'm a
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  Speaker 1: Republican in our case that get old Lord. Turn my
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  Speaker 1: mic off, I say something good jobs, Thank you, Cheryl.
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  Speaker 1: All right, coming up music and more fun on the
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening, all right, Chirlette Strawberry, it's
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: good news Thursday. What you've got going on? I heard
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: you're doing something in the city of Atlanta, my dear. Yeah,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: well you know. I'm a member of the board on
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: the Alma Gee Davis Foundation. It's a domestic violence foundation.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: She helps women who have been victims of domestic violence. Anyway,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: they're having their tenth anniversary this weekend in Atlanta. Yes,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: I will be one of the special guests. It's called
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: Dinner for Divas. She does this every single year. She
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: treats women who have been victims of domestic abuse, like divas.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: She put she puts on this elaborate dinner for them.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: It's a it's a formal affair. Everybody has to wear,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: you know, the long gowns and every just to make
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: them feel special and to know that they can survive
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: and you know, and to looking forward now. But anyway, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's at the Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta. And if you
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  Speaker 1: need some more information, if you want to get involved
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  Speaker 1: or be a part of it, go to Alma G.
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  Speaker 1: Davis Foundation. That's almag Davis Foundation dot org. Slash events. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: and hopefully I'll see you there Saturday night. That's nice.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: Surely give them that Dinner for Davis. Yeah. You know,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: people don't talk about it a lot. It's not a
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: sexy subject. It's not a fun subject to talk about.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: But you know, it's still happening every day, you know,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: where women men, you know, are being violated and you
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: know violence, Yeah, and definitely abuse. It's the leading cause
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: of injury to women between the ages of fifteen and
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: forty four in the US. All right, yeah, wow, sure,
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  Speaker 1: So go to the Alma G. Davis Foundation dot org
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: slash events for more information, and we'll be back with
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys. In today's trending
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: entertainment news, referring to someone as auntie with no relation
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: as usually a term of endearment, right well, filmmaker Ava
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: DuVernay does not see it that way. When she sat
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: down with Van Lathan from TMZ. Everybody knows Van from TMZ,
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  Speaker 1: Well anyway, he has a podcast, Ava revealed that she
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: finds it slightly shady. She says, first of all, I
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: have a real issue recently. I've been getting called on
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: Twitter Auntie Ava. Why she said? Am I that old?
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: Because I don't feel that old. Van tried to explain
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: that fans use the term out of respect for what
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: Ava brings to the culture. While she can appreciate the concept,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: she wasn't having it. Naturally. Social media weighed in and
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: made Auntie a trending hashtag. Ava joined in to let
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: everyone know how she prefers to be addressed. For the record,
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: she says she happily responds to miss DuVernay, sis queen Ava,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: miss Ava. Okay, that's auntie. Forget about it. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: So see if you deal with this all the time
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: I can. Uncle Marjorie gets called a Marjorie. We're cool
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: with it. You cool with it. Let me step in
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: right here. Uh Okay, uncle comes from a niece or
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: a nephew. Okay, that's when you say uncle or auntie.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: If it's not your uncle or your auntie, then guess what.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: Guess what it's not yours? You your own? Damn what
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to say? How you feel like that? Because
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  Speaker 1: I call him? Time? Ain't damn Uncle Steve? No, he
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  Speaker 1: says some time. Why where is your uncle's there? Right well,
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  Speaker 1: right now? He over there? Next you? What you no? No?
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  Speaker 1: Where is your uncle? How many uncles you got? How
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  Speaker 1: many uncles you got? Jim? This one right here? No?
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  Speaker 1: How many? Oh? My real uncles like Faither's brother by seven? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: are you proud of any of them? Not reading? This
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  Speaker 1: is the problem. I'm proud of this one I got
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  Speaker 1: sitting over here. This is the problem. Who's the prophet? Everybody? Uncle?
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  Speaker 1: Get your own car? Hold on time? Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: won't don't. Why is you so possessing because this is
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  Speaker 1: my uncle. I'm the one that was born put a
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  Speaker 1: rich ass uncle. And if you wasn't, that's just that's
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  Speaker 1: just you just didn't get one. Well, I'll tell you
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  Speaker 1: what timing you can't whoof the world as all right?
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  Speaker 1: Look coming up our last break of the day, and
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  Speaker 1: we'll close out the show with some closing remarks from
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  Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine after
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  Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this you're listening to all right,
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  Speaker 1: Here we are live break of the day. It's been
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  Speaker 1: a crazy day as usual the time we like, right
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  Speaker 1: and here's our fearless leader to take us home with
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks. Today, I just want to pose a question
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  Speaker 1: because I try to find different ways to motivate people
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  Speaker 1: as as I ask God to help me find new ways.
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  Speaker 1: Today I just decided to try this. I just want
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  Speaker 1: to ask you a series of questions because I'm just
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  Speaker 1: trying to get everybody to get to moving towards their dreams.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get everybody to get started on
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  Speaker 1: the pathway of accomplishing your visions and your goals and
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  Speaker 1: your dreams. It's going to take some action though. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you can't just want something. Have you ever people say
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  Speaker 1: if you want something bad enough, it'll happen. That's not true,
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  Speaker 1: that's so not true. Do you know how many times
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  Speaker 1: you've actually wanted something really bad and didn't get it? What? Who?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who said that? Why? Why they tell
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  Speaker 1: people that if you want something bad enough, it'll really happen.
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  Speaker 1: It can happen, No, it won't. It requires an action.
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  Speaker 1: Faith without works is dead. If you don't do anything,
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  Speaker 1: you can't stop expecting to get everything. If you don't
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  Speaker 1: do anything, you can stop expecting to get everything. Now,
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  Speaker 1: God is going to give all of us some grace
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  Speaker 1: in spite of our shortcomings and lack of effort. He
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  Speaker 1: will give all of us some grace, and we'll all
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  Speaker 1: get some things that we really don't deserve. You know.
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  Speaker 1: It just provides us breaks. But in those breaks, he's
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  Speaker 1: trying to sustain you, just to get you to say, wow, man,
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  Speaker 1: if I had just done a little bit more of
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  Speaker 1: what could I have had, or if I had done
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more of what could have happened. So
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  Speaker 1: my question today for you, it's just I'm asking you
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  Speaker 1: a series of very, very simple questions, maybe four or
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  Speaker 1: five you're waiting for? What? Tell me what is it
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  Speaker 1: you're waiting for? Because oftentimes when I talk to people,
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  Speaker 1: I get some responses that just throw me off, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because what you're waiting for? What? What is it going
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  Speaker 1: to take to get you started? What is the motivation?
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  Speaker 1: What is the button? What is the trigger that fires
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  Speaker 1: you to get going to moving towards your dreams and visions?
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  Speaker 1: You're waiting for what? I don't understand. Are you perfectly
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  Speaker 1: comfortable where you are right now? Have you decided and
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  Speaker 1: settled in that this is it for me? Have you
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  Speaker 1: gotten tired of waking up and asking the question, whow
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  Speaker 1: It's got to be more to my life than this? What?
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  Speaker 1: Have you just gotten tired of that and you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to deal with it no more? So you just
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  Speaker 1: decided what that You're just gonna lock in like where
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  Speaker 1: I am? It's cool? You all right with that? Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you another question. Have all the ducks ever
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  Speaker 1: lined up in a row? Because if that's what you're
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  Speaker 1: waiting for, let me just ask you. Has it never
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  Speaker 1: been set that while I see exactly step by step,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna ge down, gonna get everything is perfect. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna start now. If you're waiting on the perfect time
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  Speaker 1: to start, you may never start, because there is no
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  Speaker 1: such a thing as the perfect time. The perfect time
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  Speaker 1: is now. That's the perfect time. If you're waiting on
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  Speaker 1: something else to happen, it probably ain't gonna happen because
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  Speaker 1: you gotta figure like this. Suppose it don't happen what
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna do, then, see, you just got to come
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  Speaker 1: to that conclusion. Suppose it don't happen what you're gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: Then suppose you don't get to degree what you're gonna do,
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  Speaker 1: then you're gonna fail. Suppose you don't get that job
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  Speaker 1: that you got your eyes on. So you don't get
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  Speaker 1: that job. So now what you unemployed the rest of
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  Speaker 1: your life because you didn't meet that deadline. You can't
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  Speaker 1: make another one. You're waiting for. What what's it gonna
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  Speaker 1: take to get you started? Have your ducks ever all
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  Speaker 1: lined up in a row? The answer is no. The
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  Speaker 1: perfect time to start is now. Let me ask you
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  Speaker 1: this question. Does it appear to be getting any closer
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  Speaker 1: even though you're not moving towards it? Oh? Does it
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  Speaker 1: appear to be getting any closer? Even though you're not
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  Speaker 1: moving towards it. The answer is no, it's not getting
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  Speaker 1: closer because you're not walking towards anything. If you don't
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  Speaker 1: walk towards something, please stop expecting it to get closer.
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  Speaker 1: It will not happen. Success is not a magic trick.
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  Speaker 1: It's a series of steps that people take over and
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  Speaker 1: over and over and over, and in spite of what happens,
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  Speaker 1: they take those steps. Anyway, Does it appear to be
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  Speaker 1: getting closer even though you're not moving towards it? It's
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  Speaker 1: probably not. But could that be why you're not getting
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  Speaker 1: what you want because you ain't moving towards nothing? Last question,
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  Speaker 1: Could it be that you just don't want anything more?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe that's it. Maybe you don't quit wanting a new car.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you don't quit wanting a bigger house. Maybe you
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  Speaker 1: don't quit wanting that second home. Maybe you quit wanting
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  Speaker 1: to open up a business. Is it that you just
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  Speaker 1: don't want anymore? Just answer to these questions. Now, let
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  Speaker 1: me tell all of y'allself. Put God in your life
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  Speaker 1: and it can change all of this. You can go
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  Speaker 1: to God and ask God to strengthen you. You can
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  Speaker 1: go to God right now and ask God to give
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  Speaker 1: you the desires of your heart, but enable you with
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  Speaker 1: the character to make him come true. Ask God to
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  Speaker 1: strengthen your character, Ask him to strengthen your will, Ask
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  Speaker 1: him to strengthen your stick tuitiveness. Ask God for his help,
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  Speaker 1: because God is going to make your dream come true. Business.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my closing monks. Drop it, baby, drop it now.
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