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Coach K, Selena Gomez Sanity, Hood Weekend At Bernies, Selfies and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: me through good Steve har Stey, don't join Jo. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn them out. Love,
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  Speaker 1: got to turn out to turn turn the water the water.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your back. Uh huh, I shall Well,
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  Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show. Man, Oh man, almost forgot I had
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  Speaker 1: one this morning. But I'm okay. I'll tell you who
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  Speaker 1: I am in a little bit. You know, I get around. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's so much. But man, good morning everybody. You know
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  Speaker 1: today I was having a conversation with my wife last
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  Speaker 1: night and we were talking about our plans. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we often sit down, you know, just like a married couple.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you know we're married. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we have children, we have aspirations, we have hopes, we
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  Speaker 1: I mean know, we have things we want. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when you're married, you know, I mean it's important to
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  Speaker 1: sit with your partner. I'm not telling you anything you
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  Speaker 1: don't know, it's common sense. Really, It's important to sit
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  Speaker 1: down with the person that you've chosen and decided to
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  Speaker 1: share your life with it and have multiple conversations on
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  Speaker 1: a lot of things. And we try to make sure
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  Speaker 1: that all of our conversations aren't always just business related
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  Speaker 1: and always kid related, you know, because that that that
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  Speaker 1: becomes it's a part of it. But it weighs so
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  Speaker 1: much on the marriage that because that that's the grunt
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  Speaker 1: work of being married. You know, your children, your family,
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  Speaker 1: your bills, your your mortgage, your your car notes. You
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  Speaker 1: know though, what's due, what's coming up, and if you're
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  Speaker 1: not careful, you'll you'll start that becomes the focal point
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  Speaker 1: of you all's conversation. And this woman or man or
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  Speaker 1: person that you've decided to have this life with, all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, they're an extension of your business, and
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  Speaker 1: you guys become business partners or whatever, and and and
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  Speaker 1: it just gets so anywhere. I'm just saying that that
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  Speaker 1: is important to sit down and have these conversations, but
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  Speaker 1: it's even more important to have of the other conversation.
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  Speaker 1: You know, It's it's important with the person that you're
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  Speaker 1: planning on making the run to sit down and talk
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  Speaker 1: about other things, you know, on a more upbeat note.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we were having a conversation that she was
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  Speaker 1: reminding me of what she loved about me, and then I,
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  Speaker 1: in turn, was turned around telling her the things that
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  Speaker 1: I admired about her and loved about her. And we
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  Speaker 1: kind of have these all the time, you know, when
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  Speaker 1: we sit down and we talk about the things that
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  Speaker 1: we still enjoy about one another, or we may talk
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  Speaker 1: about some of the things that we miss in one another.
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  Speaker 1: But we constantly had these conversations about appreciation. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's so important man, that the other person feels appreciated.
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  Speaker 1: So these things are important. But we got into the
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  Speaker 1: conversation deeper last night, and I was telling her about
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  Speaker 1: this idea that I had and that I wanted her
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  Speaker 1: to help me with and make a phone call for
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  Speaker 1: me because she knows these people and I was going
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  Speaker 1: to be doing this, and then my wife reminded me
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  Speaker 1: of something not once again, you know, as always, you know,
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  Speaker 1: when I'm talking to you, I just keep it as
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  Speaker 1: real as I can. I don't know the Bible inside out.
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  Speaker 1: I can't quote to you scriptures and tell you exactly
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  Speaker 1: where it is I just you know, I heard her
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  Speaker 1: say it, but it kind of blew by me. I
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  Speaker 1: was I was telling about something I wanted to make happen,
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  Speaker 1: and she reminded me that there's a scripture somewhere and
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  Speaker 1: somebody emailed it to me to day. I'm sure, well,
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  Speaker 1: the Bible reminds us not to be anxious for anything.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be anxious for something. And you know, it really
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  Speaker 1: mattered to me at that point yesterday that she bought
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  Speaker 1: this to my attention, because how many times I've been
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  Speaker 1: guilty of that in my past and I've learned better now,
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  Speaker 1: but every now and then I need to be reminded,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And I think what that what she was
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  Speaker 1: saying to me was us. You know, I've gotten to
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  Speaker 1: a point in my life and we all should get
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  Speaker 1: to a point where. You know, you've heard old people
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  Speaker 1: say this, if you're gonna pray about something, then don't
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  Speaker 1: worry about it. And if you're gonna worry about it,
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  Speaker 1: don't pray about it. Back to this, be anxious for nothing, don't.
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  Speaker 1: If you're going to him trust in God didn't do that,
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  Speaker 1: and trusting in Him means sometimes you got to be patient.
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  Speaker 1: God has never been too late. You don't know the
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  Speaker 1: plan he has, You don't know You don't really always
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  Speaker 1: know his will. You definitely don't know his route, his
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  Speaker 1: way of doing anything. So he's always on time. He's
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  Speaker 1: always been there on time for me. He's always been
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  Speaker 1: there on time for you. How many times have you
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  Speaker 1: thought it was over only to find out it's really
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  Speaker 1: just begun. How many times have people wrote you off?
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  Speaker 1: Are those of you who have lost jobs but you
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  Speaker 1: are still maintaining. But man, God has already began to
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  Speaker 1: turn around process for many of us. Some of us
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  Speaker 1: lost jobs and now have better jobs. Some of us
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  Speaker 1: lost jobs and now has forced us to rekindle that
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  Speaker 1: dream and that vision for business we had. It's sometimes
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  Speaker 1: the mishap is the thing you need to make something
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  Speaker 1: good happen. See a lot of times we get so
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  Speaker 1: comfortable in our life where we we get complacent, We
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  Speaker 1: just settling in and when this is it and this
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  Speaker 1: is what I'm doing. But in actuality, God has a
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  Speaker 1: tremendous amount of abundance for you. He has an amazing
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  Speaker 1: amount of things. He has all these boxes packaged up
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  Speaker 1: with your name on him that he's willing to ship
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  Speaker 1: if you would just align yourself with some of his
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  Speaker 1: wills so you could get some of these things. How
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  Speaker 1: many times have you thought it was over and it
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  Speaker 1: didn't really go over? How many times have you thought well,
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  Speaker 1: this is it and it wasn't it at all. Well,
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  Speaker 1: how many times do you thought, well, it don't look
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  Speaker 1: like this gonna work out, and it didn't work out,
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  Speaker 1: but then something better came along? How many times has
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  Speaker 1: that happened? You've got to realize this, man. I was
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  Speaker 1: talking to a family who had got displaced from the
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  Speaker 1: Katrina thing that happened down there in New Orleans. And man,
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  Speaker 1: when they said, yeah, we got a displaced from Katrina,
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  Speaker 1: and I braced myself because the old what was me?
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  Speaker 1: Here comes this story. I gotta hear this, and I
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  Speaker 1: gotta be encouraging think of something. It was totally different.
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  Speaker 1: They totally totally blew me away. Man. The brother said, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's actually the best thing that ever happened to my family.
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  Speaker 1: And I went whoa And he said, yeah, man, he said,
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  Speaker 1: because what happened was he said, I got settled in
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  Speaker 1: He said, Plus, I was doing some things outside of
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  Speaker 1: my marriage down there, He said, I was doing some
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  Speaker 1: stuff in the streets. I ain't need to be doing,
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  Speaker 1: he said, Man, it all got washed away. We thought
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  Speaker 1: our life would never be the same. But he said, man,
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  Speaker 1: my life ain't need to be the same. He said, Man,
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  Speaker 1: Now we live up here in Texas. We got a house,
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  Speaker 1: don't know nobody, he said, I ain't got nobody I
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  Speaker 1: know to get into trouble with. He said, man, i'dn't
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  Speaker 1: rediscovering my wife, how beautiful she really is, how much
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  Speaker 1: my family really was counting on me. And he said, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's straightened me up. Man, he says, so I gotta
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  Speaker 1: tell you, Steve, it was the best thing that ever
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  Speaker 1: happened to me. Now that's not always the case, but
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  Speaker 1: it's how you look at a situation. But just don't
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  Speaker 1: be anxious for anything, because God got a fix for
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  Speaker 1: you if you just let him work. So just stay
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  Speaker 1: on course, stay focused, don't lose faith, don't be anxious. Man,
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  Speaker 1: just stay in the wheel. Let God work with you.
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  Speaker 1: He got some great stuff in store for you. You're listening,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It is here that Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Show us upon us energy, attitude, gratitude, latitude, outitude. It's
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  Speaker 1: all positive right now. You've got to wake up and
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  Speaker 1: understand that. Man, When you wake up, it's a sure
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  Speaker 1: sign from God that he ain't through with you yet.
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  Speaker 1: I am living my life in expectation of what could
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  Speaker 1: that be? Now? Lord, who what else you got? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Even if it comes wrapped up in a package of pain,
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  Speaker 1: I know when I take the bowl off of it
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  Speaker 1: and I get rid of all that paper and throw
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  Speaker 1: it in the trash and open that box, there's something
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  Speaker 1: in that from it. In order to get to something,
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  Speaker 1: you got to go through something. So whatever the through is,
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  Speaker 1: bring it on so I can get to the thing
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  Speaker 1: that's in the box. That's what I'm trying to get to.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm fired up about mine to day. So come on, Lord,
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  Speaker 1: you walk me up. You're gonna give me the strength
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  Speaker 1: and the wisman understanding to deal with it. And here
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  Speaker 1: I am. I'm ready to go. This is Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? Long? How long we've been able to
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  Speaker 1: sharing Strawberry calling for real Mouth of the South, Junior, Nephew, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: what man? What man? Man? But on fire lit, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: cooking with grease, flying, flying with grease. Man talking about
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  Speaker 1: over mind, junior man. Come on, man, even with the pain,
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  Speaker 1: you said, let me go through it so I could
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  Speaker 1: get to the box. It don't even matter what's gonna
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  Speaker 1: happen to you. You just want to get through it.
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  Speaker 1: It matters not how straight the gate, how charge with
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  Speaker 1: punishment the scroll. I am the man, master of my faith.
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  Speaker 1: I am the captain of my soul. What I think,
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  Speaker 1: whatever God may be from my unconquerable soul. Boy, what man,
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  Speaker 1: what you say? Tommy in the fail clutch, give me
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  Speaker 1: to give me the church music with me black as
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  Speaker 1: the pit from pole to pole. That's right, Come on,
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  Speaker 1: I think whatever God may be, far far my unconquerable soul.
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  Speaker 1: In the fail clutch of circumstance, I have not winced
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  Speaker 1: and nar cried aloud under the bludgeonings of chance. My
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  Speaker 1: head is bloody. But on by old Ah said, beyond
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  Speaker 1: this place of raft and tears looms about the horror
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  Speaker 1: of the shade. Yet the minutes of the years, fine
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  Speaker 1: and farrently, Yes, sir, yes, sir yes, saw the cues
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  Speaker 1: and the nuts is preaching this moment because we have
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  Speaker 1: both been in the fair clutch of circumstances. All right,
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  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour of
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  Speaker 1: the nephew and run that prank back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, all right, it is time now
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  Speaker 1: for the nephew to run that prank back. What you
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  Speaker 1: got for us now, this is no half weed, all
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  Speaker 1: naturalality day. When you come up in this office, I
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  Speaker 1: want natural barely, Carl, I'm on. When you come up
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  Speaker 1: into the office, I want no woman about her hair.
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  Speaker 1: No hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Resa, please reesa.
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  Speaker 1: Hi Resa. My name is Byron, Byron from the job.
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  Speaker 1: How are you? I'm okay, how are you buying? I'm good. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: I hate to call you after hours at your home.
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  Speaker 1: But there has been some new issues that will be
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  Speaker 1: going into effect. That was just tomorrow morning, and we're
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  Speaker 1: calling everyone letting them know the new changes that have
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  Speaker 1: been issued that will take effect first thing tomorrow morning.
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  Speaker 1: So we're giving everyone a call. So don't be alarmed.
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  Speaker 1: It's just giving you a call letting you know what
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  Speaker 1: the what the higher ups have changed. Okay, okay, there's
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  Speaker 1: no problem. Minutes to listen. Okay, that's up tomorrow. What's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen is when you guys come in, you'll be
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  Speaker 1: issued a new key card, and that particular card will
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  Speaker 1: actually registers when you come in and go out. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Second one is there will no longer be
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  Speaker 1: any personal Internet at the job any longer. You won't
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  Speaker 1: be able. They're actually putting a block on all computers.
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  Speaker 1: All the computers will no longer be able to go
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  Speaker 1: to a lot of these sites that you guys go
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  Speaker 1: to that you've been that's been available here in the past. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right. The last one is reesa do you do
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  Speaker 1: you wear a hair weave? What do you wear a
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  Speaker 1: hair weave or a wig? Yes? Okay, Well here's one
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  Speaker 1: thing and hopefully you can get this change about tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: There's no weaves or hair or wigs gonna be allowed
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  Speaker 1: at the job site from this point on. So as
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  Speaker 1: of tomorrow morning, everyone must be wearing their natural hair.
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  Speaker 1: You're joking, Uh No, These are the issues that are
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  Speaker 1: going to be that are in stated, and these are
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  Speaker 1: going to take effect as of tomorrow morning, seven o'clock.
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  Speaker 1: What does hair weave to have to do with any
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  Speaker 1: of these changes? The first two. I can understand punching
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  Speaker 1: in and being on the internet. Yes, that's something that
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  Speaker 1: that corporate. But hair weave and weeks you're getting into
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  Speaker 1: change ups are they're looking down upon it. Wigs and
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  Speaker 1: hair weaves they have to go. So I'm assuming that
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  Speaker 1: if you, like you said, you do have one, I
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  Speaker 1: suggest it doesn't come out of there, taking it down
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  Speaker 1: now and prepare your hair to be natural as you
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  Speaker 1: come in to work tomorrow. I'm not taking my hair down.
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  Speaker 1: I've been here seven years and I've dealt with all
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  Speaker 1: the changes that y'all have made. But there's no way
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  Speaker 1: that I'm taking my hair weave down. I'm sorry. What's
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  Speaker 1: your name, Byron? Yes, my name is Byron, and I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get back to your weave. This has you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to do something. Is there someone that you can
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  Speaker 1: call tonight to help you get your hair down and
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  Speaker 1: so you can look presentable with your natural hair tomorrow. No,
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  Speaker 1: my weave cost over two three hundred dollars and I'm
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  Speaker 1: not about to take that down. I mean, it takes
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  Speaker 1: a long time to take that down. Okay, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: is this something maybe you can take it down and
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  Speaker 1: just wear it on the weekends because as of now,
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  Speaker 1: you're not gonna be allowed to actually wear it on
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  Speaker 1: the property. And how will you know if someone has
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  Speaker 1: a weave or not. Are you gonna do head checks
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  Speaker 1: or something? Okay, ma'am, I'm not quite sure what they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do to check it. But by you telling me
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  Speaker 1: that you you have a weave, then I have to
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  Speaker 1: write it down that you have confirmed that you do,
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  Speaker 1: and we got to make sure that tomorrow morning you're
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  Speaker 1: not wearing one. But you don't know what my natural
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  Speaker 1: hair looks like from my weave? Are you heard how
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  Speaker 1: much I pay for it? So it's a good weave, ma'am.
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  Speaker 1: It's not about how good you know with the quality
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  Speaker 1: of your weave or anything. They don't want it. They
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  Speaker 1: want natural hair. I don't know what that means. But
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  Speaker 1: they're going natural. They're going green, they're going natural. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it is. They're going natural, and so
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  Speaker 1: will you. Tomorrow morning you need to come in with
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  Speaker 1: your hair completely down. I'm gonna do it. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: taking my weave now, Okay, y'all gonna write me up
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  Speaker 1: or something, Okay, ma'am. Do you not want your job? Yeah?
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: I want my job, but this don't make no sense.
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  Speaker 1: You're talking about personal appearance. I can understand y'all have
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  Speaker 1: a job, best coach and forcing a dress code, that's
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  Speaker 1: one thing. But telling somebody to change that. Have you
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  Speaker 1: lost your mind? Man? You're crazy. Man, I'm not good.
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  Speaker 1: I have other people that I have to call. Bottom
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  Speaker 1: line is get your hat out and get your butt
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  Speaker 1: into work tomorrow, and let's not go back and forth anymore. Okay, Well, listen,
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  Speaker 1: by rand you're a low mind. If you're thinking I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking my weave, I'm not taking out at all. Risa
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  Speaker 1: is coming up in there with her hair and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna sit down at my desk and do my job.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all gonna have to drag me out that handsome weave.
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  Speaker 1: You lost your mind, You and your powers that be
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  Speaker 1: or whoever they may be. You tell them that I
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  Speaker 1: said that. Women, women, listen, Are you telling me that
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  Speaker 1: you're coming in regardless with your hair on? Right? That's
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  Speaker 1: what I just said. Okay, you then then we need
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you go ahead and bring some boxes in
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  Speaker 1: because you may I'm not you bring this, man, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to have to pack. You get your stuff
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  Speaker 1: and box it up, and you're losing your job because
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  Speaker 1: you can't take it. You know what? You can do
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  Speaker 1: that because I'm a caller the news station and tell
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  Speaker 1: them you're dragging me out of go behind some weeds.
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  Speaker 1: Who wrong? You're wrong? You're wrong? You stupid? Are you gonna?
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  Speaker 1: You need to watch your language, young lady? Why I
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  Speaker 1: need to watch my language? I'm at home. You call
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  Speaker 1: me on my own home phone and my time. I'm
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  Speaker 1: at my house. I'm not on your flock. I say
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  Speaker 1: what I want to say on my phone. Okay? Can
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I say what I want on my phone? And then
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  Speaker 1: I don't let you go and you can come into
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  Speaker 1: to work anyway you want to tomorrow. What is it,
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  Speaker 1: bobm On? What else you got to say? I want
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  Speaker 1: to tell you that your girlfriend Jennifer at your job
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  Speaker 1: got me to plank phone call you. This is Nephew
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  Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. He's just saying,
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  Speaker 1: I know you, hey, reason this is this is nephew
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  Speaker 1: Tommy baby from the Steve Harby More than your Jennifer,
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  Speaker 1: your co worker, got me to prank phone, called my
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  Speaker 1: blood pressure up. I'm gonna kill me tomorrow and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna pull a w weave out. You want to come
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  Speaker 1: down there and watch me drink out of the show. Pressure.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be doing that to me behind my weave.
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  Speaker 1: I pay too much money. I definitely been on my kids.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Oh I ain't look like a black woman and her
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: hell oh man, Okay, baby, I got one more thing
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: to ask you, girl, What is the baddest and I
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land. Well, after
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: this prank, you have to be the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: God alright, nephew, uh here alone, that's right Coming up next,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: ask the CLO with Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey and
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: the building ready for your love questions. Right after this,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: you're listening to Harvey Morning Show coming up at the
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: top of the hour and entertainment news. Have you seen
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: the viral video of the deceased rapper um his body
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: was on stage at a nightclub, his dead body for
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: his public viewing and memorial service. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about it. We'll talk about don't talk about it,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: but right now, yeah, it's time to ask the CLO,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Here we go, Missy
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: and Colorado. I'm dating outside of my race for the
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: first time, and everything was going great until we had sex,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: and his kinky talk turned me off. He asked, if
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: there's chocolate in those mountains, referring to my breasts. Should
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I take it as a joke or educate him? Well, oh,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I didn't see it that Well, you're you a white dough.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff we say, Aksea, you know
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: is a food in their kitchen. You know, you can't
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: some things they can't say. You know, you know how
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: black is the berry? You know. I'm just telling you.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I can't help you, Lay. I don't know what to
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: tell you. I have no experience with outside the race dating. Now,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: don't see nothing wrong with it. Of course, love is love.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: You find it wherever you find it. If I found
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: it outside the race, I do it myself. I just
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: focus strictly on my race because you scared of my mother.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Because my mother said that they can't use our coon,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: don't bring them home, and so therefore I had no option.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I could doctor come in the house with nobody else,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: and neither could my brother. Let my cousin sitting it
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: did it, and she changed the baby on the dining
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: room table, and ain't been back over to the house.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Sits that's been gos with inter racial dating. So I
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: really can't help you. Next question, sure, door to and
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: m and evans and says, I've been married for less
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: than thirty days and my husband has moved in and
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: he's making my seventeen year old want to go live
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: with his father. My husband gave my son a set
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: bedtime and a nine pm curfew. How do I ter
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: intervene and fix their relationship? Well, ask your husband, Well,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: tell your husband that your son has not signed up
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: for the military as of yet. Yeah, in the bed
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: at seven, curfew by nine? How old did she say?
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: How all the board? Seventeen years old? Seventeen? Boy? Man,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: you tripp it? Do you tripping? No? You tripp seventeen
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: year old Finn to be in a curfew at nine o'clock,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: he'll boy, yeah, yeah, yeah, man, you've been married thirty days,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: less than thirty. No, you can't come in here with that.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Come bro, bro, that's not a good rule. He's seventeen
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: in a minute, all in a minute, he can go
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: to wall. Yeah what you can't. Can't treat this boy
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: like this man? Come on, don't you do? Unreal? So
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: what does she do? She wants to know how to
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: how do I intervene and fix their relationship? Well, you
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: gotta intervene. You gotta set your husband now, and that's
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: where you start. We're not doing that. I don't want
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: to lose my son, okay, and I didn't marry you.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: This wasn't a trade off him or you. I want
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: it both. But I'm not gonna lose my son over
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: this foolishness. I'm not over some ignorant ass curfew rules
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: seven to nine. Okay, all right, yeah, all right, Princey
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: and Delaware, we're moving on. Prince says, my mom keeps
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend's baby so she can go out at night
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: while I'm working. All my mother asks is that she
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: picked the baby up by midnight, but my girlfriend is
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: always late. I told my girlfriend to stop disresp expecting
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: my mom, and she a mama's boy. I wrong for
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: taking my mother's side. She called you, or what a
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: mama's boy? That ain't no mama's boy. You can't you
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: disrespecting my mama? She said, before midnight? You're late? Quick?
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I quit keeping the baby. Yeah, that's all we got
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: to sleep the answer. Take your baby somewhere else. I'm
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: not watching this bad. I got to go to bed.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah that is late, man, and nobody find up be
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: opening up the dough for you at midnight. I've been here, dad, sleep, ding, done, ding, done?
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: What the baby? All of that? Oh, you can ask
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: my son how they go sleep in that car. I've
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: done it. Oh. I can't tell you how many times
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: they had to pull up in that garage and then
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: she let that dough down. I know they said, this
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: isn't really it's like I know they was talking to
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: that car top. I'm not coming that dad, you are, click,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: but you're up enough to answer the phone and say no.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I heard the garage door open. I knew it was ill.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I told him to thirty y'all roll in its fall.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Okay cool, I'm not coming downstairs, though. Sleep in the car,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: you'd be all right. Next question, Shirley. All right, we're
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: moving on to Mary and Hampton, who writes my best
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: friend and I have been a dynamic duo for twenty years.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: We're both married with kids, but we still talked daily.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: A few days ago, she facetimed me from a hotel
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: tell me that she was with a co worker and
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: she asked me to cover for her. I did it,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: but I told her I'd only do it once. Now
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: could she be angry with me? Because y'all supposed to
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: be ride or diab But y'all never put that into
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: the ride and handbook that y'all got, cheating. Yeah, yeah,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: it's in our hand you know. It's our handbook. Is
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: ride or die all the way out ride the lie,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Ride or die all the way out with the lie
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: is the motto. And so y'all obviously doesn't have that
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: type of relationship. And yeah, she's angry, but you know
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: you don't. I also say you are not beholding to
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: bad behavior. You don't have to condone it or be
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: a part of it. Sometimes when you make your bed,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: you have to lay in it. Don't ask see you can't.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: You can't mess up your sheets and stuff in expect
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: me to come over every day and put that fitted
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: sheet back on there and make your bed. You gotta
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: do that yourself. You do not have to condone bad behavior.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Nobody does. Nobody does. Example, if a friend of mine
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: rob a bank and the police come to my house
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: looking for the guy who robbed a bank, first worried
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: out my mouth is he upstairs in the attic behind
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: the water heating. First first, well, I would be an
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: accessful if I didn't tell you, right. But once the
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: FBI come in that dope, they ain't coming in that dough. Yeah,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: hoping here and that they got some information. So first
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: words out of my mouth is he's upstairs in the
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: attic behind the water Call it what you want to
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: call it, but I'm not fitting to get the aiding
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: and a bedding, uh conspiracy you knowed yeah, yeah, harbord
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: And now all that sounds like time. You know, I've
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: been at working a bought your ass. This bag of
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: money that you that clearly ain't your all the blue
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: week all over your face is so well, I'm not
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: fit to be a part of this year. Yes, I
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: here you all right? Thank you Cello. Coming up at
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: for you. Right after this. You're listening to the Stave
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. A deceased rapper's body was propped up
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: in DCA's Bliss Nightclub for a public viewing on Sunday.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: It was very reminiscent of a weekend at Bernie's. We
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: all remember that movie, but it was in a nightclub setting.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Trending videos showed the body of twenty four year old
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: murdered rapper Gunu, whose real name is MARKL. Morrow, appearing
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: to be standing upright on a stage for a public
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: viewing and memorial service. The body was decked out in
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: a designer hoodie, it blinged out rolex and a goal
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: crown was on his head. Gnu was murdered by an
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: unknown assailant in District Heights, Maryland, on March eighteenth, and
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: the memorial service was named the last Show. There was
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: a forty dollars cover charge to get in. Bliss's nightclubs
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: management issued a statement containing an apology and some background
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: information event. They said, our deepest condolences to Guno's fancy
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: friends and his fans. Contacted by a local funeral home
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: to rent out our venue or Guno's homecoming celebration. Bliss
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: was never made aware of what would transpire. We sincerely
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: apologize to all those who may be upset or offended.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Please keep Guno's family and friends in your prayers at
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: this difficult time. Respectfully, Bliss DC, well he said most stuff. Respectfully,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: keep me in prayers. Then I saw online. I just
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: found it unbelievable. I just was truly unbelievable. Ye, it
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: was disturbing, really was. You know, do you know what
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: you got to do? The proper body up like that
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: straight up? Yeah? You know what I mean to steal rode?
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: You got to put in this back to this house man. Look,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: first of all, where is this boy's mama and daddy?
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: But I really want to know where his grandmama at
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: because I promise you she wouldn't boy nobody grandmama. You know,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: she got a little nickname for him. Who's gonna put
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Google wear? But you're not fitting up? I just can't
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: see it. And then you know, I was looking at
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: the video. I'm gonna let y'all talk, But I was
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: looking at the video and I saw some people dancing.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: But then I saw the looks on a couple of
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: them dudes faces that was in hoodies. They looked this
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: strap like damn man, like he got my dude, he dad. Yeah,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: something about this just isn't right. I'm sure. Yeah, it
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: was very disturbing, very much. I loved doing stand up,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I love doing play, I love doing movies. When I
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: leave here, put me in that casket, gonna prop my
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: ass nowhere, and now one of them arenas I want
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: to be in the casket on the way. I Hey, man,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: you know what was disturbing to me some of the comments.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: If you are understood our history, this is how we
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: used to do it as Africans, So quit tripping. You're
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: a damn lie. You That boy wasn't propped up because
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: of what we used to do in Africa. You're no
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: good in hell where your dumb man say, read no
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: history book about no burials in all this here. Y'all
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: kill me with all that all that sudden information. The internet, man,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: is a trap for fools. If you don't have your
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: head on right and you listen to the foolishness that
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: be on some of these comments. You've been going, wait
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: a minute, that's somebody think like that. But as soon
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: as somebody think like that, here comes some agreeing and
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I just go, wow, that was really shocking to see
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: that boy propped up. Like when a guy first sent
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: it to me, I didn't know what it was. I
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: thought it was I just thought it was a concert. Yeah,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it was. Yeah, you didn't really
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: know that he was dead. I mean it was, but
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: these shoes, the skinny jeans on his wrist, watch on
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: the crown on his head, but the phone it looked like, yeah,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: it was just way way too So after this over,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: they carried you the body back out of there and
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: then what we're gonna but all of this and I mean,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: you know, and sad to say the young man passed
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: away because he was shot. Absolutely really that's another issue. Yeah, yeah,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: the it's called rip for a reason. Rest in peace,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: peace Yeah that rest, lay down, yeah, rest, stretch out, rest.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: That was too much for me. It was yeah, and
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: we Burnie the movie I was on at So the
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: club is saying they didn't know, so they didn't know
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: what was they were gonna he was they didn't they
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: be right right. They were contacted by a funeral home
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: and to use the facility. I got that I could
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: because you know, because of COVID. I will tell you
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: a lot of funerals are backed up. It's hard to
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: get places in church. And then this boy might not
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: have been a church going. Hey, really a lot of
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: churches available, you know, because they got a save it
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: for their memberships and all this here. That's how bad
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: it's been lately, because I know ministers who say, you know,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: they backed up two three weeks on funerals. My god,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: I've I've lost two friends of mine, two friend brothers
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: over the past three months, and both of them were
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: out of the ground for a considerable amount of time
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: before they were able to be laid to rest properly. Yeah,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: so I can understand them written out a club or something,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: you know, forty dollars cover charge to get in. Yeah,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: what was that? I don't know, playing music that wasn't
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: a church song? They were saying, what was the song
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: they was playing? All I didn't even have the volume up.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I just want to believe it. Yeah, I don't. I
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: don't know what the song was. No, y'all gonna lay
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: my ass down. I'm not gonna do anything like this. Yeah, yeah, exactly, Tommy,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna show. I'm gonna make a show man, I'm
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: gonna use I'm gonna get you, gonna get you right now,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you in a thirteen saze thirteen shot box.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go on that note. Coming up
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: At twenty minutes after the hour, court is in session
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: with Judge Steve Harvey. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: the big show happened last night, Carla. How about last
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: night's Judge Steve episode. It was on ABC and her
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: you noticed my show Judy. Okay, So the first case
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: was the friends. The guy was on the scooters and
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: his friend pushed him and he broke his leg and
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: sixteen it's sixteen pieces. But his lifelong dream was to
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: ride in an ambulance and his friend wouldn't call it.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: It was on his bucket list and he told him
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: to go to the hospital in the uber. What But
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: the guy worked, and the guy worked in medical billing
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: to his friend that he was suing. So basically, his
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: friend was like, you know, I'm help you out. We're
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: gonna get through this. So basically, because he worked in
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: medical billing, he didn't want him to have to pay
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: for all this. But so that's why he sued his
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: friend because he felt like he kind of pushed them.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: The judge said he pushed them ushed right here because hey, man,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: because I was looking at the way he was looking
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: at it, and I told, Hi, dog, you're lying, you know,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: what I'm getting here with because that's what we do.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: He crossed the street, he going real slow. He shoved
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: it now, he said, he said, he bumped up into him.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: No dog, you pushed his ass to hell, you're talking
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: about you bumped up into him? No good here where
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: you pushed his ass because he was going too slow
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: across the street. Yes, so this Paul man broke his
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: legs anyway, to judge rule that the friend had to
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: pay him half of his medical business because the friend
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: felt like he shouldn't have to pay. So that was
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: the judge. That's the way he saw it. Just pushed
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: your podcast, pushed it. Did you say it like that? No,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: he said him on his radio show. He did. Yeah. Okay.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: So then in the second case, these two these two women,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: they decided to have LiPo. So one friend loaned the
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: other friend some money to help her pay for all that.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: So she didn't she took her time paying her back.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: So Steve broke that down. You remember that, Steve. The
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: surgical sisters rush that down. A lot of cases, a
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: lot of cases, all right. And then the final case
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: was the wife sued the husband because she could not cook.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Miss Shirley strawberry. Well, her husband felt like she was
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: not a good cooker, and so she was suing him
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: because he would go to his mama's house and eat. Yeah.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Fine with that. Yeah, she broke out and start doing yoga.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: In the middle of her testimony, she did, Steve say,
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: what are you doing? She said, protecting hers in because
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: ye yes, or anyone and you want Judge Steve to
• 39:03
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• 39:07
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• 39:10
  Speaker 1: dot com and Steve will see you in courts. Coming
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well. Singer
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: and actress Selena Gomez says she has transformed her life
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: simply by spending years off the internet. The twenty nine
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: year old Selena was on Good Money at America earlier
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: this week and talked about her decision to stay offline.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Gomez said that her childhood stardom led her to the
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: decision to step away from scrolling through social media and
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: online surfing. Take a listen I haven't been on Aaron
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Latin four and a half years. What does that do
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: to detox your life? It has changed my life completely.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: I am happier, I am more present, I connect tomorrow
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: with people. It makes me feel normal. Wow. Uh. Selena
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Gomez is one of the most followed stars on Instagram.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: She has three hundred and nine million followers. She says
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: it ain't three million in America. Okay, well she has
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: to see how many she has over three hundred million. Yes,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: she says she helps create the content for her fans,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: but um, she does not post it herself. So here's
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: the question. Could you guys stay off social media for
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: four and a half years? You think, yeah, yeah, and
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: do you and do you miss it when you haven't
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: been on for a day or two? No? No, no,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: away from it, you know. And yeah, Monica and I
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: were talking about that on the phone the other day.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: You just got is I can't operate it. So what
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: do you mean I can't. I can't tell you how
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: to get it up on that line. I can't. I can't.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: I gotta teach with people that do that. I don't
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: do none of that. I don't answer dms, none of that.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how to do none. Yeah,
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: I can't do anything. I think I'm looking forward to
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: the day when I don't participate in it at all,
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm slowly coming to that. Like, can I say
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: something about these fashion posts? I was just can I say, well,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: mister fashions, you know, I don't really you know, Look,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: every time I get dressed, my style is you know,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: maids the stuff out and I put my stuff on
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: to wear. You know, I've been dressing for a long time.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I just started taking pictures. But I take the pictures
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: for him. Okay, you don't you know what I mean.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Times I've been getting dressed up without taking photos and
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: showing you what I wear. I've been doing that for years.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I do it for him, and it really does help
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: him where he's trying to go. He's starting to be recognized,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: and so that that was standing there after I get dressed,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: before I go out the door, taking the pictures for him.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: We get in more fights about that because you don't
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: want to do it all the time. Oh girl, I
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: can't tell you how many pictures we don't have. I'm
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: telling you, man, because I don't like feeling that you know. Look,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what we got in the big argument
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: in Abu Dhabi. I got dressed, you know, running late
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: for a meeting. I gotta go to this meeting. I
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: get dressed walking to the door. Mister Harvey, we need pictures,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I said, I ain't got time for this, man. I
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: got a meeting to go too. But mister Harvey, I
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: need the pictures for this federation. Ask for the pictures
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: on this online magazine. Asked for some fresh looks that
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: no one's seen. Mister Harvey, and you buy these clothes,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: you have these looks. Let's take these pictures. I said, Ellie,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I got to go to a meeting. I got a meeting.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: But mister Hardy, we have to take the pictures. We
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: ain't over here to take pictures. We're over here from meetings. Man,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: do you not understand if I don't go take these
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: meetings a picture of who? See the who I am
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: ain't in these pictures. The only reason they want a
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: picture now, it's cause of who I am. If I
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: wasn't who I was, you just kidding me with these pictures.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: So and I'm gonna have him on the radio the
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: day that the one day to talk about that because
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: it's really wonderful for him in his career, and I
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: really support it. And he's a very very talented young guy.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: He's a great guy. Fire I I can put my
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: clothes on the walk out the door like I've been
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: doing all these other damn years before you came alone. Boy,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I think I had some fire ass outfits on them before.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: You just ain't take no damn picture. Yeah, that's why
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: you got the name blue Cheese, you know. But she's
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: been up for four and a half years and she
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: said her life is much better. She along with her mother,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: talking about Selena Gomez and businesswoman another businesswoman who started
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the mental the mental fitness company Wondermine to provide mental
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: health resources for free online. So there you go. Coming
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: up next, it is a nephew with the prank phone call.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Stry Morning Show.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it's
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he and his brother
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: baby Mama. We'll get into that in just a few
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time for the nephew and
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: the prank phone call. Which you got, neph what you got? Well,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: we just got through talking about young man who passed
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: away unfortunately, and he's deceased and and his I guess
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: his uh what was it called it? It's not a
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: funeral that was at the club. It was what was
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: it pretty much what do you call it? Home cetiontion?
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: It was a funeral. You just shocked by what it
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: looked like it was. And they had his body propped
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: up on the right. So this right here, it's Chopper's funeral,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Chopper's funeral. Let's see if there's in the type of
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: residentulus that's right. Here's Chopper's got dog if you would, Yeah,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your James, James James, Yeah, yeah,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: what's up? Hey? This this is a gerald. Uh. I
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: was a friend of uh uh your your friend Chopper, yeah,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: huh and Chopper just uh passed away last week? Right, Yeah?
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: I know they posed hall the funeral and stuff over
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: at uh at mom Baptist Church and uh, I don't
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: really know you, but me, me and me and Chopper
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: and a bunch of rest of was man. We used
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: to hang out at the club not too far from
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: the house. You know. That's pretty much with chopping Wood
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: all the time. At the club. Anyway, what a bunch
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: of us was over at the club talking, man, and
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: I was, we was really want to reach out to
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: one of the family members, you know, And then somebody
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: said you was, you know, kind of a good friend
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: of his. And when we we we we decided to
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: call you and see if you didn't mind. Do you
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: think that you can talk to some of the family
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: members and see if they don't mind having the funeral
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: at the club. At the club. See what, let me
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: let me try to explain something to you, Jane. What
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: we're trying to do is, see, we believe that we
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: believed at the club. Come on the club, there's a funeral.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: That's what I understand it. But see, see Chop Choppa
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: ain't really go to church a whole lot, you know
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He didn't really really go long as
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: I've been knowing him. Now, he loved a lord and
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: stuff like that, I understand. But see Chopper wouldn't Chopper,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: Chopper went to the club. So what I'm asking you is,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: let's have the funeral at the club. Hell, no, bro,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: come on, we can't have no funeral at no club. Man,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: Come on, No, No, I can't but but what what
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I'm saying is, though, is that he wasn't really he
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: wasn't really no church going person. I believe that a
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: person ought to be uh, the last words are to
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: be said over him in a place he's more familiar with.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Player, player No, I don't.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. Player out. No, just
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: just gotta be a funeral. This is this is church
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: for I go to church, and all my folks go
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: to church. Now we we gotta do this thing up
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: in church. This is church thing. But you don't you
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: don't feel But do you understand where I'm coming from? No,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: that man ought to going on and and the last
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: words are to be in a place he more familiar with. Now,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: if he went to church, then I understand that you
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: see him? Bro Hell no, no, See, this is chance
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: itself right, and we're gonna we're gonna have them up
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: in church in front of everybody. You know that don't
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: make sense? Who's this again? I mean, who are you?
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: My name Gerald? But who is Gerald? I mean? How
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: do you? How do you relate to this? Are you preacher?
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: Are you no? No? Are you no? No? No, No,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm I was friends with Chopper, and see I
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: hung out at the club and still hang out there
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of you know, was real good
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: friends with Chopping, and we were saying that, you know,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: Chopper's the last words about Chopper are to be said
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: at the club, because see that's what Chopper would. But
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: five six days a week, that's what Chopper was. But
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: what church are you affiliated with? I mean, what, what?
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: Why the hell? What I I try to talk to
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: the family, make me look stupid in front of the family,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: telling them to put the thing in a club? How
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: do that gonna go off? Well? See, see that's what
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know him way more than we do,
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: because see that you're talking about trying to move from
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: a damn funeral add a church to a damn nightclub
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: or strip club something. No, no, no strip club, just
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: a nightclub, same, ain't it? I mean you talking about
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: having folks travel from across the country and meeting in
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: the damn club. What kind of that? But that's what
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Chopper was. That's what Chopper was. I'm gonna look, if
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: I'm the one telling them to rooted to the damn club,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: you're gonna look like somebody that's trying to I'm gonna
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: look like a fool. No, you're not. You're gonna look
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: like somebody that's trying to keep it real. Come to
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: the damn funeral if I will to do something like that. Okay, okay,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: let me ask you this, Hi, Then let me ask
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: you this, Hill or Jane? Do you think do you
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: think you can maybe get the body and bring it
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: over to the club. No, well, I'm just saying before
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: they even do the funeral or whatever. You know, I
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: ain't touching getting the walk in the dog by my
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: body for him. Now, we're just trying to say our
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: last words at Chopper Man in a place that Chopper No,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Hilma again, who the you? You get my number? Somebody
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: at the club had your numbers, said you was print.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: But why do y'all call me? Of all folks, y'all
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: called me. They say you good. You in with the family,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: and you can tell me with the family. But I
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: ain't end in the family. Make me look stupid. Hell,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: no'all won't y'all. I get y'all of them to the family.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Y'all call the family, y'all tell them that yourself. Man,
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: I won't. I just want trying to get you to
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: brain the body by man and let us no, I
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: ain't touching no dead body. We just want to have
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: one last drink with Chopper. Man, you have one with
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: your boys and you you get together with them and
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: y'all talk about bottom and let him know how Chopper
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: what kind of prisoning was? What kind of prison? But
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: we need to we won't chop up to be there
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: this Chopper, This is Chopper you talking about? Man, Bring
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: y'all to the church. Y'all need to be up in
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the church. We want to have a Chopper at the club. Well,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: we didn't know them all, man, y'all fuller, well we
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: know have looking like a food letter. Damn what this
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: about Chopper? Though? And write it about Chopper? You break
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Chopper to that club, y'all tripping, man, I ain't doing
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to this funeral. I'm gonna care to
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: say of what I think about Chopping And I'm moving tone.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: If y'all want to clays in front of time of
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: y'all call the family, y'all selling you this. Look, I
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: got one more thing I want to say. I don't
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: even know you what what what this is nephew tim
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: pranked by your board. This nephew Timmy, man from the
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy told me to prank you. Man.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: I just know y'all'd it, James. This is nephew Timmy. No, no,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: don't play out. Oh man, I can't believe this. No,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: he didn't. I can't even believe he did that. Hey man,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you, man, what
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: is what is the baddest radio show in the land,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: The Steve Hardy Moaning Show that was a hang up
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: when he wasn't really talking to you. Ain't gonna call
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: this blanket the blank phone with this blank man my
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: favorite thing. When you told him to go and get
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: the body and brain down there, he said, Man, I'm
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: scared to walk in the duve by myself. I showed
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: the hill ain't gonna get no damn about it. Ain't moving.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Most people feel okay, Yeah, Well look hill, I am
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: in Charlotte, North Carolina for five shows this weekend. We
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: will all be alive in there while I am performing.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: Get your tickets right now at the Comedy Zone and
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: nephew come to town and Shawl to North Carolina two Friday,
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: too sad to one Sunday. You tickets left, but most
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: of them gone. The nephew coming. I appreciate y'all here.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: I come good to know you'll be alive up in
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: the club. Nephew, thank you. Coming up next, the Strawberry Letter.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: The subject he and his brother's baby Mama. We'll get
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: It's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
• 53:33
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• 53:37
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• 53:44
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• 53:47
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• 53:50
  Speaker 1: About that? How about that? Buckle up and hold on type.
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Subject he and his brother's baby mama. Stephen Shirley. I
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: was married for eleven years and we had two daughters.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: The last three years of our marriage, he messed with
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: his brother's baby mother and she got pregnant. His brother
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: has two sons by this woman, and my husband is
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: the godfather of both of his brother's sons. His brother
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: left her after he caught her in bed with another
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: man at their house. She started popping up at our
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: house to talk to my husband, and I always assumed
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: it was to talk about his brother's dumping her. I
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: invited her over for Thanksgiving in twenty twenty and she
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: pulled my husband aside to talk to him, and I
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: let them talk. She got very upset and was crying.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: Then she got I rate and started pointing her finger
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: forcibly forcefully into my husband's head. He pulled her close
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: to comfort her, and I still did not get involved.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: This sort of thing happened four more times, and she
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: was always very upset when she came to my house.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Figured she must still be suffering from the breakup, so
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I stayed out of it. Then, earlier this year, my
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: husband got a letter from our local child support office.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: And I opened the letter and it said he is
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: the father of a baby girl, and it listed his
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: brother's baby mama as the mother. I started snooping. Yeah,
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: I started snooping through his drawers and I found DNA
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: test results hidden in a cigar box in his junk drawer.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: This woman mysteriously had a baby, and I had no
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: idea she was pregnant. I sent a picture of the
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: DNA results to my husband's brother and he responded that
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: he's known about them for three years because he caught
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: them in the act. I felt so lost and stupid.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: Their daughter is two years old, and this woman wants
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: my kids to meet their sister, and she wants to
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: clear the air with me. Should I forgive her and
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: move on or keep ignoring her forever? All right? Give
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: them for sure, forgive her, not for them, not for her,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: but because forgiveness it is for you to be free
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: to move on with your life. But anything else, all
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: bets are off. Keep ignoring her forever, all right? And
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: don't you ever be that trusting to anyone again. You
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: saw what was going on, You didn't think for a
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: second that you know. I mean, I get that she
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: was distraught over her brother, but her pointing her finger
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: at his forehead and your husband pulling her close to him,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: all that's in your letter. I can't believe you didn't
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: suspect something was going on between them with all the
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: stuff they were doing. I mean, maybe because it was
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: done in your face and not behind your back. You
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: didn't think that they would be doing what they were doing.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: I just don't know too many women, including myself, who
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: would have allowed them to carry on like they were
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: carrying on in front of you. So I'm gonna need
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: you to get mad, you know, do something I just asked,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: keep ignoring her forever. You know, it's okay to forgive,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: but you shouldn't forget or clear the air with her
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: like she wants to do if you choose not to, Okay,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: do what's best for you and your children, your family. Okay,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: keep her out of it. She's trashed at this point
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned. What she did to you
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: and her husband Steve the most confusing damn letter of
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: the yell. I don't know. Surely, I can't make no
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: sense of this. I've been trying to find the turning points,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: but the whole letters a turning point. Lady was married
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: for eleven years with a husband. They got two daughters,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: but then the last three years of the marriage he
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: messed with his brother's babies and mama and she got pregnant.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: His brother has two two sons by this woman, and
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: my husband is the godfather or both of his brother's son.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute. If this is your
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: brother and he got two children, what is you the godfather?
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: For you the uncle? You're the uncle? See these this
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: family love giving titles. Now his brother left her, He
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: left her baby mama after he caught her and dad
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: with another man at their house. Who is these men
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: that covid these other men's houses? Man, I just don't
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: understand that. I don't know why more of these ain't
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: winding up in deaths. She started popping up at our
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: house to talk to my husband, and I always sooned
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: it was to talk about his brother dumping her. But
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: now let me say this though. Could it be the
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: way this letter's written when she said her brother left
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: her after he caught her in bed with another man
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: to day house. Could the other man have been his brother? Well? No,
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: I think that that was an additional man, Steve, because
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: lower in the letter he said he's known about we'll
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: find out. I invited over for Thanksgiving in twenty twenty.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: She pulled my husband to decide to talk to him,
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: and I let him talk. She got upset and was crying,
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  Speaker 1: and she got out right and started pouring her finger
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  Speaker 1: forcefully into my husband's head. You know how they'd be
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  Speaker 1: tapping on your head like what you ain't ain't nobody
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: fun do that that to me in front of Margie. Okay,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know any woman alive none quarter what is
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: she tapping? So that's kind of crazy. And I still
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: didn't get get involved. This sort of thing happened full
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: more times, and she was always upset when she came
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  Speaker 1: to my house. I figured she must steal be suffering
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: from the breakup, so I stayed out about how stupid
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: are you? Well, she said that she's so stupid. All right,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: we're talking a lot to come back, all right. Part
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  Speaker 1: two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes
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  Speaker 1: after be our today's Strawberry letter, subject he and his
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  Speaker 1: brother's baby mama. We'll get back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject he and his brother's baby mama.
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  Speaker 1: This regga so confused ter. It's the letter Sherley. Let
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  Speaker 1: me don't even know the damn people mess right here.
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  Speaker 1: This lady married to her husband, they got two kids
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  Speaker 1: and then uh. Later three years, the last three years
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  Speaker 1: of the marriage, he messed with his brother's baby's mama
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  Speaker 1: and she got pregnant. His brother got two sons by
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  Speaker 1: this woman, and my husband is the godfather to both
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  Speaker 1: his brother's son. You ain't uncle. You're a damn uncle.
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  Speaker 1: You legally everything. You they't uncle. You don't need no
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  Speaker 1: extra title. His brother left her because he caught her
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  Speaker 1: in bed with another man at the house. And then
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  Speaker 1: she started popping up at our house to talk to
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  Speaker 1: my husband. Always assumed he was to talk about his
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  Speaker 1: brother dumping her. I'm telling you, Shirley, I think you
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  Speaker 1: got the man he caught in bed with her is
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  Speaker 1: his brother. Because right after that she kept coming to
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  Speaker 1: the house. Yeah, mad every time she come to the house.
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  Speaker 1: Right after that, then they say I invited over the
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  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving twenty twenty, she pulled my husband aside to talk
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  Speaker 1: to him. I let him talk. She got up, setting
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: was crying. Then she got out right and she started
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  Speaker 1: pointing her finger forcefully in my husband's head. Not damn
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  Speaker 1: because his brother found you in bed with another man,
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  Speaker 1: or because he found you in bed and the other
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  Speaker 1: man was his damn brother. And I got starting up
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: to starting to put it together for myself. Here now, Shirley,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: I didn't get involved. This sort of thing happened full
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: more times, and she was always upset when she came
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: to the house. I figured she must be still suffering
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: from the breakup, so I stayed out. And she was
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  Speaker 1: something from the breakup because your husband was to cause
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  Speaker 1: her the breakup because he got caught in his brother's
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  Speaker 1: house in that bed. That's what I believe this letter
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: is really all about. Then, earlier this year, my husband
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: got a letter from our local child support office. I
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  Speaker 1: opened the letter and they said he was the father
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  Speaker 1: of a baby girl and it was listed his brother's
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  Speaker 1: baby's mama, asked the mother. I started snooper through his
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  Speaker 1: drawers and I found DNA test rezone hiding in a
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  Speaker 1: cigar box. That's what really, Why is she putting this
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: in a cigar box? You put this in a cigar box?
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  Speaker 1: Trop see now people like me ass got tight. Now
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: my ass tight because it's in a cigar box. Immediately
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: I go to myself and how many cigar boxes I got.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: I can't think of what important and put in the
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: damn cigar box in about you? Anyway, this woman misterily
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: had a baby and I had no idea she was pranknant. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I sent a picture to DNA results to my husband's
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  Speaker 1: brother and he responded that he's known about them for
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: three years because he caught them in the act. It
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: was his brother that he walked in and saw in
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: the bed with his woman three years ago. She stayed
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  Speaker 1: away and had this baby, but every time she came
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: over she was mad at him. I felt so lost
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  Speaker 1: and stupid. They daughter two years old. This woman wants
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: my kids to meet their sister, and she wants to
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: clear the ad with me. Should I forgive her and
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: move on and keep it knowing her felver where? You
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: can't forgive her? But this is the most confusing mess.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: I really ain't got nothing for her no more. Hellfel
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: and my biggest thing like his What is we finn
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: to call these kids? Because he not even if they meet?
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: What is we finn to call these kids? Right here?
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  Speaker 1: Mama's these are cousins, Mamas, these are brothers and sisters.
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  Speaker 1: Know they're not it's they our aunts. No, no, baby,
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  Speaker 1: they're not your aunts. It's these are cousins in laws? Na,
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  Speaker 1: they not? What is they mama, is these are nothing
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: laws are nothing? Lost Mama? What is we gonna call
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: these damn kids? Your husband slept with his brothers baby, mama.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: The brother called them. You found the DNA report, send
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: it to his brother to say, hey, on this DNA report,
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: this listing my husband who is your brother as the
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: daddy of your baby, mama's baby. He ain't surprised because
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: he all about it. So what kind of help she want?
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: She I really thought it was two different men. But
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: she says she felt so lost and stupid that yeah,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: she should feel that way. I think it's sognoring what's
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: going on in front of her eyes. Why are we held?
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: Who do you trust in this story? You can't trust
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: your brother in law? Yeah, he held to the code
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: with his brother, and she nobody told you nothing right?
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: And then she's she's considering forgiving this woman and moving
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: and moving on, or to keep ignoring her forever. That's
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: her issue. None of this is what you said made
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: since you could forgive a cause. Forgiveness is for you,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: not the other person. But to forgive don't mean to forget, right.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: You don't have to set yourself back up in the
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: line of fire, just because you forgave somebody. Yes, Tommy,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: I see, can't you forgive as you walking out to
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: do with all your stuff? Can't you forgiving? She can
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: keep ignoring her forever. What I'm not fit to do
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: is sit here and deal with this mess. Now. The
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: kids are gonna have to know each other eventually, because
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: that's baby. All right, we gotta go please us, all right, Look,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, Steve
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcasts done
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: demand sports with Junior coming up next. Right after this
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: now for Junior and sports talk. What you got Junior
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: once again, congratulates the Kansas as they are the national champions.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: And men's basketball congratulations to South Carolina Gamecocks champ. I
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: found so down though. Hey, hey man, hey man, I
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: don't like what my team loses. Okay. I don't know
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: how you be looking for the team. I don't root
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: for them. Stay dude, yes, stay dude, Do I come
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: in here? I want to talk about No. I don't
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: know how you sold you, just so all right. Coach
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: K's replacement has been named, it would be his assistant coach,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: John Shire, thirty four years old. He played four years
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: at Dude two thousand and sixty, two thousand and ten.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: That's a tough job, man, to follow up a career
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: like uh, coach k. That's kind of like the next
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: replacement for a fan. If you gonna have hell, Yeah,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real, it ain't gonna be no damn you.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep it straight. One you're in the series.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: All one thing I've understood. I try to perform on
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: my job. So when I ain't there, it ain't no
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: more damn job. I perform to make people miss me. Yeah,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure they all about Yeah,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: who could re replace him with. I'm pretty show they
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: had Yeah. But but but when you ain't there, it
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be no family few. That's all we do.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: It can be family few, but it's gonna get back
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: to what it was. Just the game boy, listen to me.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you. Yeah, it's like the Steve
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. This show right here, Oh you can
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: you gonna have to rename this and everything. It won't
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Now we can go
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: on to take any consideration. Who would be the likely
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: takeover the Nephew tim It Morning Show. You know you
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: can start there. Oh lord, he say, Oh lord, Tommy,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, man, if you had
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: this show, what would you do differently in sports? You want? No,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: we sport? That's always in sports news. Coach case replaces. Oh,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: Tiger Woods probably gonna play in the in the Masses
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: this weekend. Good news. Let's get to that a good player.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: They say he looked good in his practice round, so
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: we were route for Tiger. Come on, man, is anybody
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: gonna watch the Masses weekend? I can tell you we
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: ain't watch. I'm watching it. If he don't. Everybody out
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: taken play better than me. I was just trying to
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: pick up anything. Okay, all right, anything coming up at
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Have you ever handwritten a
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: love letter to someone? We'll tell you who did, and
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: it might be a bit shocking. Right after this, you're
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: listening to Steve, your favorite rapper. Tupac Shakur's love life
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: is the source of endless fascination. We know that, and
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: who would have thought that he wrote love letters to
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: his high school sweetheart when he was just seventeen years old.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: In a Southeast auction titled The Art and Influence of
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: Hip Hop, Tupac's love letters to Kosima Inez were auctioned
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: off for thousands of dollars each. Kosima was a sophomore
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: at his high school in California. This is after he
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: moved from Baltimore, and in the letters, m Pac revealed
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: his deep love for her. All of the letters were
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: signed at the end with thinking of you eternally, your friend,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Tupac Shakur Pac was a romantic at a very early age. Okay,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: so here's a question for you, guys. Did you ever
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: write love letters to your high school sweetheart or to
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: women period? I mean, do you think, say four dollars now?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Oh yes he did? Hell yeah? How what did you write?
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: I leave this segregation? You ain't write a little letters
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: stamps on about licked him trying and hopes that this
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: girl would want me back. You dropped stuff off. And
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you one of the deepest things I did
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: was I was senior in high school. Man I wanted
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: this girl man so bad. I wrote the lyrics to
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: Devotion by Earth Winning Fire on a poster board, rolled
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: it up, put it in my I tucked my T
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: shirt in my pants, put it in the back of
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: my T shirt like a like a boring arrow case.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: And got on my bike and rode over to her
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: house and rode them down the street till she came
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: out on the porch and jes because you ain't no
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: way of calling her, you know, So rode them down
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: the street till she came out. I got off my
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: bike and handed it to her. She unrolled it on
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: the thing and read the whole or the whole lyrics
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: to devotion. Oh did she cry? Or yeah? She cried? Yeah,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: when the father came out on the porch and put
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: my ass off the porch, you get your punk ass
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: off the boat. This is before social media. What about
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: your nephew love letter? Definitely high school sweetheart wrote it
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: walked to school, sweetheart. Love was so brand new, And
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: as my grandmama said, my nose was wide open. If
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: you ain't had your nose wide open, you ain't lived.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, junior, no we I'm three generations from
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: three funk. That's two fun We over here texted, I
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: made I made cassette tapes. That's what I had. I
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: had that. I listened to quiet store Press playing Paul
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: who you record the song? Then you pausing dog. That's
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: what I had to do. But love letters. We had
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: technology by this time, a little bit of it. Yeah.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: We was paying paper boy. Yeah, y'all were paying a
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: paper damn their pony expressed with my bike. He yeah,
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: delive it, my damn self. I wait on the three
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: days and you know, and mail. It took three days,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: even locally, three days to get to somebody's house. Locally,
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: you had to write a letter. Man, I ain't got
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: no time for this here. I got to ride this
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: over there. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I had pony expressed me
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: and that bike man I had. I wrote. I wrote
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: a girl a letter one time, man, and I you know,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: I just wanted her to like me. I drove it
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: over the house and put it in there, uh uh mailbox,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: and I'm riding up the street and then I come
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: back down the hill just to see and uh she
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: would had reached out there and pulled it, let out
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: the mailbox, didn't even open it and just tow it
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: in hand. O. Man. That broke my heart, manbreaking, yeah,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: he yeah, I had to write it. On there you know.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, you know, got put it in the mail
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: but I gotta make sure her Mama, dadda, don't get it,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: have a name on and everything. She as soon as
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: I came back down the hill, I said, man, she
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: reached in the mailbox to get it. She pulled it
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: out the mailbox and tow it in head. All right,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: look at your sharing. We didn't who knew you guys
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: were so romantic coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: If you hate your facial features selfies, maybe the blame
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: who We'll get into that right after this. You're listening show,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: all right, So if you're feeling down about your looks,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: maybe you need to take a break from taking selfies.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: A new study from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: found that selfies just sort distort sizes and perceptions of
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: our facial features. No matter how well you pose or
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: angle on your phone, selfies can make anyone's nose look
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: bigger than it really is. And there, and there's a
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: direct correlation with the fact that the number he dives
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: in first every time. What happened? What happened? To see? Ready, no,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: you ain't see look around all my Instagram. You don't
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: see no selfies. Hey, no, I don't care how I
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: hold this camera. This damn nose look like the rooftop
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: of a stadium. I don't give a damn what. It
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: looked like the Mercedis Stadium. You look like the AT
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: and T Stadium in Dallas. It looked like the Mad
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: Life Boy selfie. Right now, Steve, let me see, I
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to you. Can't do it. Okay, we'll
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: look at it like he actually doing it right now?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: Talk to you, cute nephew, Steve. Oh, I'm sexist here
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: when I take man, let me see yourselfie posting girl,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: I'd be like this, ye look at on the phone.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: I shoot it down so I looked home. Coming up.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Just got yourselfie, Steve, coming up at thirty three minutes
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll do a round of would you rather?
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. It
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: is time now to play a round of would you rather?
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Would you rather? Guys, would you rather? Star as James
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: Bond or Michael Carlyone Corleon? James Bond or Michael Corleone
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Carlyon What how the god Father were you your hot head.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: You more like, ain't nobody following name and everybody gonna
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: had all the families? Yes, yeah, you like Junior said
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: you could be boss baby something like that, but you
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: ain't going to be Him's sunny the brother. Remember he
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: was a hothead. Family of the cor Leons. Yeah, nobody
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: James Bond because you know there's talk they might put
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: a brother in that row. Come on, reggae. No, I
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: ain't got bon what I ain't got body? No more,
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: I can't run, I can't through it. I'na would you be?
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to hang on the edge and a
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: helicopter blade. And because that opening scene is ten minutes, man,
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: this is how to go. No, this is how to go. Yeah,
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: rock that wardrobe on? Got on? That's all that's double
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Get a stuck up bull, Steve, it's not double? What else?
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: All right? You're done with that one? All right? Would
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: you rather all your text messages get leaked, all your
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: text messages get leaked, or all your photos get leaked?
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: Oh god, so you want all your pictures to get leaked,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: not your text messages? Yeah, I ain't got no pictures. Yeah?
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, Junior, Yeah, b I can't. I can't. I
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: can't what I said to somebody. No, not the stuff
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: I've said. It cost you a career. Okay, Yes, Tommy,
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: I'm with him, a right one. All right, Let's keep
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: with the phone theme here. Would you rather your phone
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: ringer make porn sounds or belching sounds? Belch? What is
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  Speaker 1: pawing sounds the poem? Huh? What is pawing sounds? Yeah? Sounds? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: moaning and groaning and all you know, just oh ah,
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  Speaker 1: you know all that stuff you know, Oh, and that's
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  Speaker 1: coming from my phone? Yeah, yeah, yes, your ringers ringer? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: would your rather belching or pouring sounds? Belch loud as
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  Speaker 1: you can? All right? All right, we'll do our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day, coming up at forty nine minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, and of course we'll have some closing
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  Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: here we are. This is Wednesday, hump day. It's been
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  Speaker 1: a good day. Huh, yes, today, yes, week. If we
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  Speaker 1: get the humps and day is gonna being better. I
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  Speaker 1: just say anything. Do you run it through a filter once?
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  Speaker 1: You get past fifes, say what you want to say,
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  Speaker 1: that's the age. I'm gonna tell you right now that
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  Speaker 1: ain't true. Why you say that did? Because the consequences
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  Speaker 1: more diet. The older you get, the more diet of
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  Speaker 1: the consequences. Yeah. That's one of the things I've really
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  Speaker 1: tried to teach my children. I said, Look, man, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna have to keep giving you these punishments and sprinking.
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  Speaker 1: I said, because life gonna take over in a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Oh Dad, What you mean by that? I say, because
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  Speaker 1: the older you get your decisions, you make the consequences
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  Speaker 1: or more diet or older you get. Yeah, everything is
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  Speaker 1: at steak. Yeah. I saw a T shirt Steve that
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  Speaker 1: said the dumbest thing I ever did growing up was
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  Speaker 1: the dumbest thing I ever did. Man. Ye man, And
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  Speaker 1: when you're little, that's all you want to do is
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  Speaker 1: grow up, yeah, man, not realizing that growing up come
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  Speaker 1: with everything that that is being a grown up. The
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  Speaker 1: sad part of it is is when you rush the process. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you're an adult way longer than you're a kid,
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  Speaker 1: way man now and man, and you be sitting up
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  Speaker 1: doing stuff as a younger person because you you think
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  Speaker 1: you ready for it now. Oh no you're not. Oh
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  Speaker 1: no you're not, because you don't have the life experience
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  Speaker 1: to deal with decisions. You. I want a baby now, Okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you might want the baby now, but I'm not sure
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna want all that come with the baby. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: if you end up with the baby, you're gonna find
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  Speaker 1: out quickly because the requirements of that baby they not
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  Speaker 1: they don't lessen, they do not lessen. They come full package,
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  Speaker 1: ready out the dope. I need everything. I remember in school.
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  Speaker 1: I remember in school that made us carry a raw
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  Speaker 1: egg around for a whole day. This, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. This is symbolic of being a baby and
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  Speaker 1: see them you can take care of it. I dropped
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  Speaker 1: that egg so many damn turn I'm not. I am
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  Speaker 1: not ready for that left it left him a locker up,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the baby, all of that right in your defense.
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  Speaker 1: You're a great dad right now, Oh my god, yes
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  Speaker 1: you are. I'm a great dad right now. Haven't always
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  Speaker 1: been a great dad because I went through the process differently,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and I had to grow into this man
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  Speaker 1: that I am. And that's why I talked to me
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  Speaker 1: and all the time about look man, you just got
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  Speaker 1: a gold and throw yourself into this thing called fatherhood
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  Speaker 1: head first. And you got to get about the business.
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  Speaker 1: Because if you don't take on the responsibility of being
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  Speaker 1: a father, ain't a lot of good fit to come
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  Speaker 1: your way. Man, It's just not a lot of good.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to encourage men out there to day,
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  Speaker 1: if you have made a child, get active in your
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  Speaker 1: child's life. I know it's challenging. I know you may
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  Speaker 1: not be where you want to be, but has nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with your abilities to be a father. Your
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  Speaker 1: ability to be a father encompasses things that don't cost
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  Speaker 1: you money, time, guidance, and love. Time, guidance and love.
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  Speaker 1: That's your responsibility. You don't have to have money to
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  Speaker 1: do that. Get over there and see them kids, spend
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  Speaker 1: some time with them. Tell them what you've learned, share
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  Speaker 1: the mistakes you've made, let them know if you could
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  Speaker 1: do it differently, you would have. But now that I'm here,
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  Speaker 1: let me just start from who I am right now,
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  Speaker 1: I've had to have these compensations, and so as fathers,
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  Speaker 1: I'm encouraging all men today to step up to the plate.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm sorry, I have no other way I
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  Speaker 1: can put it be a man. Step up to the plate,
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  Speaker 1: forward your way through these attitudes with these baby mamas
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  Speaker 1: and all this here get you gotta get past that. Now.
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  Speaker 1: The women out there that is using the children as palms,
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  Speaker 1: you wrong like two left shoes. And because a man
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  Speaker 1: ain't paid child support, you should not stop him from
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  Speaker 1: seeing his child. Because he ain't he behind on child support.
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  Speaker 1: That punishment you're issuing to him is costing your child
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  Speaker 1: even more deally, and quit trying to be the issuer
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  Speaker 1: of punishment. It ain't your job. God got this thing
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  Speaker 1: all taken care of. And I'm telling you right now,
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  Speaker 1: as a man, you've got to step up to the
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  Speaker 1: plate and take care of your responsibility. It's yours, and
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  Speaker 1: yours your responsibility is not gonna lessen. God, don't let
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  Speaker 1: us off the hook from being fathers. He don't okay,
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  Speaker 1: Well you didn't get it right, Get it right. All
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  Speaker 1: you was going through a bad time, so you ain't
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  Speaker 1: the only one. Get over there and be a man,
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  Speaker 1: get a presence in your child's life. Start if you
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  Speaker 1: got to start with the woman, start with the woman. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I know I'm behind on these child support payments.
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  Speaker 1: I just ain't got it. But man, I would love
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  Speaker 1: to see my son. I would love to see my daughter.
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  Speaker 1: I would love to be active in their life. Just
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  Speaker 1: let me take them to school sometimes. Let me pick
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  Speaker 1: them up, man, Let me take them to the park.
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  Speaker 1: Can I keep them overnight? You know? Can I stay there?
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  Speaker 1: Can I sleep in the other rooms? Something? But man,
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  Speaker 1: it's time for me to do my duty. Be a man.
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  Speaker 1: Get over there and get yourself active in these children's lives.
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  Speaker 1: And mothers. Stop blocking these men from having access to
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  Speaker 1: their children over a child support check or the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you don't like him. You're hurting your child. Those
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  Speaker 1: are my closing remarks today. I should have started this
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  Speaker 1: earlier because I got so much more to say. Part
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