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FULL SHOW: Summer Flings, Strawberry Letter: Take Me Money, My House, & My Car - 5.25.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all?
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  Speaker 3: Soon give them a million bus busy? Yeah listening to
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  Speaker 3: to I don't joy?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Joy? You know you.
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  Speaker 5: Love?
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  Speaker 6: You gotta turn.
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  Speaker 3: I can't.
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  Speaker 1: Got to turn the mouth turn.
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  Speaker 7: You probably got to turn mouth turn, turn a wad
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  Speaker 7: of the moat up.
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  Speaker 6: Look me, come.
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  Speaker 8: Come out, you're thinking.
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  Speaker 9: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
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  Speaker 9: to the voice, Come on dig me now.
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  Speaker 8: One and only.
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  Speaker 9: Steve Harvey got this radio show. Man, How I got here?
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  Speaker 9: I really can't explain it. Only by the grace of God,
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  Speaker 9: That's all I can really tell you. I was talking
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  Speaker 9: with a buddy the other day and he was telling me.
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  Speaker 9: He said, Man, he had an interesting philosophy about it.
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  Speaker 8: He say.
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  Speaker 9: You know, you can have dreams and visions, he say,
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  Speaker 9: but God, God will never show you what all he
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  Speaker 9: has for you. He won't show you all of it
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  Speaker 9: because he knows you'll mess it up. And you know what, man,
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  Speaker 9: I thought about that, and wow, how true is that?
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  Speaker 8: Okay?
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  Speaker 9: I know that I got a radio show. I didn't
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  Speaker 9: see it. It's just become this major blessing for me.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't see it. But if I would have seen
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  Speaker 9: it and known when he had planned on giving it
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  Speaker 9: to me, I would have messed it up because Number one,
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  Speaker 9: my first question would have been to him, why I
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  Speaker 9: got to wait so long? Why don't I go down
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  Speaker 9: hill and start on the radio now? And then I'll
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  Speaker 9: be in radio and then TYD, I see there God.
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  Speaker 9: But see the thing about God is God don't need
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  Speaker 9: your help. Matter of fact, he don't really want it.
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  Speaker 9: All he wants is you to love him and obey
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  Speaker 9: if you can do them two things. I think I
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  Speaker 9: could be wrong. I think he'd be really cool with us.
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  Speaker 8: So had I known.
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  Speaker 9: About these blessings that he had for me, I would
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  Speaker 9: have messed him up because I would have put my
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  Speaker 9: thinking in the figuring process, and that would ejected it
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  Speaker 9: all up. That's the first thing I have why I
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  Speaker 9: got away so long. And then if he'd shown me
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  Speaker 9: what I was gonna have to do to get it,
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  Speaker 9: I would have showed messed that up. Man, I ain't
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  Speaker 9: finna do that. I ain't finna do all of that.
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  Speaker 9: Wait a minute, I got to go through all of
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  Speaker 9: these mishaps in my life. So when I get the
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  Speaker 9: radio show I have something to share. Man, why won't
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  Speaker 9: I just read a couple books and share that experience
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  Speaker 9: with them?
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  Speaker 8: Now?
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  Speaker 9: See, I want you to know what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 9: I want you to be transparent. I want people to
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  Speaker 9: be able to identify with your struggle and apply they
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  Speaker 9: struggle to it and see that they can get over.
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  Speaker 8: See.
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  Speaker 9: God never shows you all of it because he know
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  Speaker 9: we'll mess it up.
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  Speaker 8: I wouldn't have.
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  Speaker 9: Any books, I certainly please know, I would not be
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  Speaker 9: the host of family Feld.
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  Speaker 8: Can I tell you that.
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  Speaker 9: It is amazing man, how God works, and my invitation
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  Speaker 9: to everybody today is allowed God to work. You know,
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  Speaker 9: you can ask him why all you want to, and
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  Speaker 9: from time to time I still do no good for me.
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  Speaker 8: But that'll me old woe is me? Lord? Thing that
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  Speaker 8: don't really get it for me?
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  Speaker 9: Because when I start asking him why, I'm asking somebody
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  Speaker 9: who has a thought process so high above mind that
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  Speaker 9: there's no way if he told it to me, I
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  Speaker 9: wouldn't even get it. You wouldn't either, Uncle, I'll bright
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  Speaker 9: you think you are. Man, You just ain't gonna get
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  Speaker 9: how and why he does it his way. You're not
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  Speaker 9: going to understand it. But he has a plan for
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  Speaker 9: each and every one of us. And if we adhere
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  Speaker 9: to the plan, if we submit ourself to his will
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  Speaker 9: and just say, okay, God, what you want me to do.
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  Speaker 9: I am telling you it is the best way to live.
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  Speaker 8: Now.
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  Speaker 9: You can also do it the way I did it
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  Speaker 9: early on. You can just do what you want to
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  Speaker 9: do and see how it go from now. And I
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  Speaker 9: will tell you from personal experience it's not going to
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  Speaker 9: go good. My wife and I were talking the other
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  Speaker 9: day and she said something with me, and I had
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  Speaker 9: to write it down. She says, Steve, you know the
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  Speaker 9: funny thing about sin. She says, sining costs you more
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  Speaker 9: than you want to pay and causes you to stay
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  Speaker 9: longer than you want to stay. I asked my wife
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  Speaker 9: where she got that from. She says, some old person
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  Speaker 9: told it to her. She says, sining cost you more
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  Speaker 9: than you want to pay and causes you to stay
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  Speaker 9: longer than you want to stay. That's the problem, man,
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  Speaker 9: about doing what you want to do. Because we are
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  Speaker 9: all sinners, man, all of us, all of us, every
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  Speaker 9: last one of us a sinners. You will be a
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  Speaker 9: sinner until you die. Now, you could be saved by grace,
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  Speaker 9: but You're going to be a sinner man. You are
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  Speaker 9: going to make mistakes. You are going to in your
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  Speaker 9: life knowingly do wrong. I bet you will. I don't
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  Speaker 9: know who you think you are. I don't know who
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  Speaker 9: you've been listening to. But get this, we are sinners.
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  Speaker 9: We were born into a world that is sinful. Now
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  Speaker 9: it's okay, it's okay, it's our world. But we can
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  Speaker 9: make the best of it because we can form a
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  Speaker 9: relationship with God and we can go to war with
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  Speaker 9: this thing, you know, and we can win. You can
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  Speaker 9: actually get over. Being born into this world is not
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  Speaker 9: an end all. It doesn't mean you're doomed, nah man,
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  Speaker 9: because God is available to give you life, and not
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  Speaker 9: only give you life, but give it to you more abundantly.
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  Speaker 9: I have more of an abundant life than I've ever had.
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  Speaker 8: If you took away the finances, trust.
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  Speaker 9: And believe, I have so many things I could tell
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  Speaker 9: you that I'm grateful for. For my wife, for my children, man,
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  Speaker 9: for my family, for the few friends that I have,
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  Speaker 9: for the work that I do, man for the respect
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  Speaker 9: that some people that I feel around some people from
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  Speaker 9: the reputation I've earned. Now I ain't cool with everybody.
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  Speaker 8: I got that.
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  Speaker 9: I ain't cool with everybody. Everybody ain't cool with me.
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  Speaker 9: Everybody don't like me. Man, get past that right there.
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  Speaker 9: I don't care what you do. Everybody are gonna like you.
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  Speaker 9: Some people didn't like Jesus. What did he do?
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  Speaker 8: What did he do wrong to anybody?
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  Speaker 9: Show it to me where he was just out there
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  Speaker 9: just messing over folks, and you could justify all that
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  Speaker 9: happened to him.
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  Speaker 8: Just show it to me. But he knew everybody ain't
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  Speaker 8: gonna like me. I just come to save y'all, understand.
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  Speaker 8: I got you.
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  Speaker 9: Ain't feeling me. You're gonna spit on me. You're gonna
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  Speaker 9: hang me up there, You're gonna pierce my side. You're
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  Speaker 9: gonna do all that to me. When you get through,
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  Speaker 9: I still love you. That's a powerful statement. Man, God
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  Speaker 9: will take care of you if you form this relationship
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  Speaker 9: with him. He has something for you. He has a
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  Speaker 9: plan for you that is beyond your imagine that. He
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  Speaker 9: will give you the desires of your heart. But he
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  Speaker 9: also has some stuff in store for you that you're
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  Speaker 9: not even asking for. That he is willing to ship
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  Speaker 9: to an address that belongs to you as long as
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  Speaker 9: you stay on the right path and are trying your best.
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  Speaker 9: God to ship you the blessing anyway, because please know
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  Speaker 9: He's done it to me. I'm a living witness to this,
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  Speaker 9: that God will ship you blessings and you ain't gonna
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  Speaker 9: be perfect. But if He know your heart, man, if
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  Speaker 9: he know you trying to do better, if he see
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  Speaker 9: you trying to change, if he see you trying to
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  Speaker 9: get it right, he understands that you're gonna stumble all
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  Speaker 9: the way through this thing. But if he know your
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  Speaker 9: heart and he know you trying to get it right,
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  Speaker 9: and you're doing the best you can, board here, ship
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  Speaker 9: some stuff your way. Man, you really be tripping, man,
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  Speaker 9: you will really be tripping. Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 8: Man. It's crazy, ain't it.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 9: You know what, I think I've said it before, but
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  Speaker 9: I think it's time to say it again. He let
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  Speaker 9: me clear my thoat.
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  Speaker 8: He has done it again. That God I serve that God.
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  Speaker 9: We know that God above has done it again, presented
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  Speaker 9: us with the brand new opportunity another day, another chance,
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  Speaker 9: another glorious time that we've never had before. This is
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  Speaker 9: what makes now so great. You've never been right here before.
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  Speaker 9: And man, God, let us have this again. Man Ain't
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  Speaker 9: God good?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: Is how good?
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  Speaker 10: Is God?
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  Speaker 9: All the time? All the timperence all the time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 9: we are here this morning the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: Junior's out the day, So let's get it started. Shirley
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  Speaker 9: Strawberry calling forrail the mouth of the South, straight out
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  Speaker 9: the silk. I had a family on a family feud
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  Speaker 9: the other day from Mississippi. Really, Lord, have mercy. When
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  Speaker 9: I tell you the country I'm talking about, you could
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  Speaker 9: tell they had ate most of their meals out of
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  Speaker 9: a bucket when I mean boocket fair country. The two dudes.
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  Speaker 9: The women were fine, they were really nice, pleasant, crazy,
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  Speaker 9: But the two dudes, they just ran out of family members. Man,
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  Speaker 9: I know these dudes had to be alternates. And these dudes.
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  Speaker 1: Was this country.
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  Speaker 11: You're saying that wasn't the family's first choice.
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  Speaker 8: I knew it wasn't.
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  Speaker 9: Because when she was introducing them, she rolled her eyes. Nephew,
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  Speaker 9: tell me, yeah, it was interesting to man, it was
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  Speaker 9: so matter. I had a ball with them two dudes
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  Speaker 9: right there. Oh, ball was just talking country too, were
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  Speaker 9: talking about cat fishing and fast fishing.
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  Speaker 8: It they hunted.
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  Speaker 9: Man, we had to take we we really had to
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  Speaker 9: take out most of what they said. Oh wow, I
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  Speaker 9: mean but you know, just regular country though. Hey, Steve,
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  Speaker 9: ain't nothing wrong with we killed the and what we
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  Speaker 9: do we kill?
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  Speaker 10: It?
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  Speaker 9: Was it English, some god to die for us to survive. Okay,
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  Speaker 9: all these hunting stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Food animals. Okay, all right, we've learned a lot this morning.
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  Speaker 9: Already really didn't but it was just, you know, fascinating
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  Speaker 9: thing to go buy it.
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  Speaker 8: So I just hey, so did Steve alo? How's everybody
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  Speaker 8: doing today? Just asking a question?
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  Speaker 1: Good everybody?
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  Speaker 12: Good?
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  Speaker 8: Good? Had your weekend going and everything? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend?
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  Speaker 11: Busy, graduation parties and chilling and.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, barbecue.
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  Speaker 13: What have you have you eaten eating?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You know it's going on.
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  Speaker 9: God and plunging and well, you know, I plunged this morning.
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  Speaker 9: The Cold Plunge Report would be on first commercial break,
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  Speaker 9: but no other.
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  Speaker 1: Than that commercial.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, you're gonna hear their commercial break and you're gonna
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  Speaker 9: like it too. It's what you're gonna do, mister Brail.
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  Speaker 9: You're not gonna sit up here, yes, sir, to do this.
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  Speaker 9: I won't credit. It's disciplining myself and doing this here.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you. You see what kind of morning
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  Speaker 1: this is gonna be coming up at thirty two minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour. It's Monday church complaints on the way
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard morning show. It is Monday,
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  Speaker 1: so you know what that means. It is time now
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  Speaker 1: for church complaints from Reverend Motown and Deacon death Jam.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go.
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  Speaker 8: We all gather most fodiciously.
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  Speaker 9: And we remicate m H for the times that we
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  Speaker 9: are diassisting in this arbitrary thing called life dios.
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  Speaker 8: We are now.
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  Speaker 9: Partiphilating that the momentaryism.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah of gaptology. We begin to teach us the mineralization
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  Speaker 8: muh of constipation.
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  Speaker 9: What we stay Stay with me now, come on, Deacon
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  Speaker 9: on Miller for yourself and yeah yeah let him use
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  Speaker 9: you get him music? All right?
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  Speaker 5: All right, maaster, we got to issue the Some of
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  Speaker 5: ten of the church members went down there the Golden
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  Speaker 5: Kara after church on Sunday. They are still in there
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  Speaker 5: trying to split the check ten different ways. Now since
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  Speaker 5: the early ages, they she's not paying for nobody else's food.
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  Speaker 5: Should we go down there and take care of this
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  Speaker 5: if they didn't spend the night in golden career, I
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  Speaker 5: don't know.
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  Speaker 9: I have told them to stop going down there with
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  Speaker 9: brother Rashan.
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  Speaker 8: Because that is his favorite place.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, and he insists on splitting chicks. Why he would
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  Speaker 9: invite everyone and then do that to him when we
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  Speaker 9: do this every year every year with him. They got
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  Speaker 9: the best bread, They got the best bred. Well, they
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  Speaker 9: don't have the best bread. Olive Garden got the best
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  Speaker 9: bread all right. Now in second place is red lost
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  Speaker 9: with that chee bread this got am and third place
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  Speaker 9: is shown with that Texas tones.
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  Speaker 8: You know now you know your bread? You know your bread?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 8: Sor I'm trying to tell you now now you touch
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  Speaker 8: me right now?
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  Speaker 9: And one of my all time favorite sandwiches Dennies.
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  Speaker 5: Lord man moons over, my heavy.
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  Speaker 9: Lord, take me back, Take me back, dear Lord, to
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  Speaker 9: a place that I wants me. Oh Holley, all right
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  Speaker 9: past that. We got an issue here.
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  Speaker 5: We need to have a receding hairline meeting with a
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  Speaker 5: few of these gentlemen. We got uh, three of them
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  Speaker 5: are out of control now. Brother Simon has one coin
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  Speaker 5: roll that goes from the center of his head back
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  Speaker 5: to the back of his head. Brother cardinil Ya just
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  Speaker 5: got some curls around the side. And last but not lea,
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  Speaker 5: Brother Junior keep wearing hats in the Saint guation.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna have to talk to these three backs, waite.
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  Speaker 8: He just keep wearing hand over.
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  Speaker 9: I'm glad you brought that up because we had talked
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  Speaker 9: to all these people, including brother Kill. As a matter
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  Speaker 9: of fact, I had asked brother Kill for one of
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  Speaker 9: the hats. The hat was such an attractive hat, yeah,
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  Speaker 9: and he said.
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  Speaker 8: He sent it to me. But I've noticed on zoom
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  Speaker 8: he's not wearing it anymore, and I'm starting to think
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  Speaker 8: he may have sent me his hat.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Well, you know it's gonna be drying the front. It's
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  Speaker 5: gonna have all in the back. That's where it hat.
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  Speaker 12: That's how he goes.
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  Speaker 8: Are you saying, Deacon that there will be no sweat
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  Speaker 8: on the sweat.
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  Speaker 5: Band only in the completely dry in the front path
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  Speaker 5: splay just straight all in the.
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  Speaker 9: Back, but his hair all starch though at the button
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  Speaker 9: at the top of the hat.
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  Speaker 8: Hot right, oh Lord, moving right along here, we got
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  Speaker 8: an issue here.
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  Speaker 5: They some folks seed our help now, Sister uh, let's
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  Speaker 5: see Sister Reavera Bailey and brother Norris Baby.
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  Speaker 8: Now they bought a double.
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  Speaker 12: Wide trailer home.
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  Speaker 5: And as you know, when they delivered these homes, they
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  Speaker 5: bring them in half and then they put them together.
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  Speaker 5: When they all get on the property where they brought
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  Speaker 5: their first half on the truck, the second half was
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  Speaker 5: in an accident and got completely total. So now they
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  Speaker 5: don't have no kitchen and.
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  Speaker 8: No living room.
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  Speaker 5: The house is wide old, and they need food. They
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  Speaker 5: need plastic so they can come up because it's just
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  Speaker 5: water raining right on in there. They just I don't
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  Speaker 5: know what to do. They got half a double wide bath. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I don't don't know what to do either. I don't
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  Speaker 5: don't use it. Yeah, he ain't gonna need some.
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  Speaker 9: Of either either top or we can collect all the
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  Speaker 9: cleaning bags from the dry cleaners at the church and
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  Speaker 9: dump tape them together and give them a slight.
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  Speaker 8: Relief for that.
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  Speaker 10: All.
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  Speaker 9: All we can have a brother Reynard nim pulled they
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  Speaker 9: have under a tree.
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  Speaker 8: And that'll provide some shelter at limber shade. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 8: might have to do that. All you can use a.
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  Speaker 9: Brother big boys pit bulls and just tie them up
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  Speaker 9: outside the open half of the house and keep everybody
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  Speaker 9: out that's coming in the steal big Boy from you
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  Speaker 9: know he has pit bulls. And oh, by the way,
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  Speaker 9: big Boy has a wonderful celebrity trailer business down in
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  Speaker 9: Hot Lanter.
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  Speaker 8: You might want to call him.
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  Speaker 9: I'll be using some of his this weekend for the revivals. Alright,
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  Speaker 9: all right, or before we go or we don't normally
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  Speaker 9: Cold Clo complaints out this way, but I want to
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  Speaker 9: just say the brother, Junior.
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  Speaker 8: Deacon and I have been.
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  Speaker 9: Discussing this, and well there's three of us on the show,
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  Speaker 9: and we voted to the one.
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  Speaker 8: That is time for you.
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  Speaker 1: Come on.
• 20:41
  Speaker 8: And walk to the light side. All right, Doc River,
• 20:55
  Speaker 8: go past, Doc Rivers.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: It is asked the Celo, our chief love of Sir
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building, ready for your love questions.
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: Right after this it is Steve Harbin Martin show Man.
• 21:07
  Speaker 12: You too old to be in the strip club?
• 21:09
  Speaker 8: Time you like?
• 21:10
  Speaker 13: Is that your daddy over.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: There does not have an age limit. Don't do that,
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: don't don't you over here?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Let us daddy mister Miles.
• 21:19
  Speaker 8: It really does have as.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: By the time you get to the stage, her dance
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: over with.
• 21:26
  Speaker 8: You can lean over and tuck the money in. You
• 21:30
  Speaker 8: don't need to show coming up right after.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: It is time to ask the c l O. This
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: is from Mandy and Ypsilante, who writes, I'm thirty six
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: years old and I've been married for one year, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: my husband still has an active social life without me.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: If he's going out, he gets dressed and then tells
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: me he's leaving, or he'll text me if he's staying.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Should he be asking me or telling me?
• 22:05
  Speaker 9: Well, see, I don't know what arrangement y'all have, but
• 22:08
  Speaker 9: that ain't the one I got. Because I'm gonna just
• 22:11
  Speaker 9: be honest with you. Me and Tommy can't gonna know. Well,
• 22:16
  Speaker 9: I'm talking about if I leave, I'm going to the store. Yeah,
• 22:19
  Speaker 9: I go to work, But then I got to kiss
• 22:21
  Speaker 9: her before I leave for work and let her know
• 22:23
  Speaker 9: I'm leaving. I did that one time. I just got
• 22:25
  Speaker 9: in the car left. She said, did you forget something?
• 22:28
  Speaker 9: I went No, I got my wallet, I got all
• 22:32
  Speaker 9: my kids and everything. She said, have you lost your
• 22:35
  Speaker 9: ever loving mind? She said, Steve Harvey, you're supposed to
• 22:39
  Speaker 9: give me a kiss before you leave because we don't
• 22:42
  Speaker 9: know what's gonna happen.
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: I said, all right, baby, I got that. She said,
• 22:46
  Speaker 8: you got what I said? I got it?
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: Baby.
• 22:48
  Speaker 8: It never happened again.
• 22:49
  Speaker 9: She said, why are you? I said, I'm in the car.
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: She said where. I said about up at the corner.
• 22:56
  Speaker 9: She said, okay, I should have went on back.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Oh you didn't go back.
• 23:02
  Speaker 8: No, I said.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: Late.
• 23:08
  Speaker 9: Come on now, I'm running late. Well that cost me
• 23:12
  Speaker 9: for about two days.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: I should have gone back.
• 23:18
  Speaker 9: On that night in bed, I rolled over and was
• 23:22
  Speaker 9: touching and she said, gone, because I'm trying to get
• 23:25
  Speaker 9: to sleep and you're gonna make me late.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Right, okay, yeah. Moving on to Kotaro in Las Vegas,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Kadaro says, hold on.
• 23:38
  Speaker 9: Hold on, just to answer the question, I don't know
• 23:40
  Speaker 9: what y'all doing, because that ain't how manage work.
• 23:43
  Speaker 8: So I'm sorry to not answer your question.
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: But I have no idea what you're talking about, because
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: there's no way I'm getting dressed to go out to
• 23:53
  Speaker 9: an active social life and tell my wife I'm going out.
• 23:58
  Speaker 13: Are we're talking about you?
• 24:00
  Speaker 8: You're one? What did you sign up for?
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I was glue. He don't want it. He gets dressed
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: and tell I'm going out or active socialite?
• 24:13
  Speaker 9: No, I don't even know what that means. I'm going
• 24:16
  Speaker 9: I really ain't got yet. If no more, I actively
• 24:21
  Speaker 9: can came out to work.
• 24:24
  Speaker 8: Go ahead.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: When we got on to Kadero in Las Vegas, Kadaro says,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend is
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: coming to see me for my birthday next weekend. She
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: is bringing two friends, and I asked if they were pretty.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I asked for my homeboys, but my girl took it
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: the wrong way. Why is she so mad?
• 24:45
  Speaker 9: Well see that that don't make no sense.
• 24:49
  Speaker 14: Are they fun?
• 24:49
  Speaker 9: Because that's what you're gonna say. I'm bringing two girlfriends.
• 24:53
  Speaker 9: Well are they pretty?
• 24:54
  Speaker 8: What you mean? Are they pretty?
• 24:58
  Speaker 13: My boys?
• 24:59
  Speaker 9: I've gotta tell a something because if they coming, you know,
• 25:03
  Speaker 9: we can all go out together. But their da ain't pretty?
• 25:05
  Speaker 9: Why they got to be pretty? Because they got to
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: be pretty? My boy wody won't take your friends know where?
• 25:15
  Speaker 9: Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Why isn't my friends ugly?
• 25:18
  Speaker 9: I don't know. I don't know your friends. I just
• 25:20
  Speaker 9: asked you was they pretty? But why you need to
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: know if they pretty? Because I got to tell Gerald Neill?
• 25:29
  Speaker 13: But Gerald ain't pretty.
• 25:30
  Speaker 8: Maybe child ain't got to be pretty.
• 25:32
  Speaker 14: He likes pretty women.
• 25:33
  Speaker 8: Jerld got money.
• 25:36
  Speaker 9: Oh now, yeah, she mad because it's just I don't know, man,
• 25:42
  Speaker 9: And you know it's crazy. These see a lot questions.
• 25:46
  Speaker 9: They're mad because they can do that though. They just mad, right,
• 25:50
  Speaker 9: they get mad. You got to say wrong? Did he
• 25:53
  Speaker 9: even say his friends? He just asked and they was pretty? Yeah,
• 25:56
  Speaker 9: he just asked for.
• 25:57
  Speaker 14: He asked, yeah, if they were pretty?
• 26:00
  Speaker 8: Yeah? Right there. Well, now you go. You know you
• 26:04
  Speaker 8: have to preempt it.
• 26:05
  Speaker 9: So hey, like if they come to town, maybe I
• 26:07
  Speaker 9: can get a couple of friends and we could all
• 26:10
  Speaker 9: go out.
• 26:10
  Speaker 8: And have a nice time.
• 26:11
  Speaker 9: If you had to describe them, how would I describe
• 26:15
  Speaker 9: them to your friends?
• 26:15
  Speaker 8: They are beautiful? Well, let me see a picture. They're beautiful,
• 26:19
  Speaker 8: because it's usually not the case.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: So so if you said you were bringing two guys
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: and your your wife said are they fine?
• 26:30
  Speaker 14: Are they handsome? You would be mad?
• 26:32
  Speaker 8: Right?
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: What?
• 26:35
  Speaker 8: Well, ain't none of my friends attractive? And she know
• 26:40
  Speaker 8: that seen all these you've seen all of them. You
• 26:45
  Speaker 8: already know it ain't none of them fine.
• 26:47
  Speaker 9: So you know we all matter of fact, we all
• 26:50
  Speaker 9: that's why we friends, because we sit together and we
• 26:52
  Speaker 9: enjoy each other's company because we know ain't nobody pretty
• 26:55
  Speaker 9: so sit there and laughing, you know.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, do you ever hit them five to where.
• 27:06
  Speaker 14: You never invite your nephew Steve?
• 27:08
  Speaker 8: Well, he gonna wear a row color, you know.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: I got to come.
• 27:14
  Speaker 5: He got them cues at the I want to come
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: over that to day and just bust up in there
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: with Crimson and cream on and hang out with him
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: the whole.
• 27:21
  Speaker 8: Anna, how that's gold? Go all right?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Moving on to uh Fantina and making Fantina says, my
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: boyfriend and I were out last night and his ex
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: girlfriend was in the lounge too. When we were about
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: to leave, she came over and thanked him for the
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: two rounds of drinks he paid for. I was more
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: hurt than mad. Why would he do that with me there?
• 27:45
  Speaker 8: God?
• 27:46
  Speaker 13: God what?
• 27:50
  Speaker 9: And she knew what she was doing when she came
• 27:52
  Speaker 9: on and said she came right over there because she
• 27:56
  Speaker 9: knows she didn't know.
• 27:59
  Speaker 8: Just so you know, he paid for hour drinks.
• 28:04
  Speaker 6: Good.
• 28:08
  Speaker 9: He's just he's always been so thoughtful, you know, And
• 28:11
  Speaker 9: the fact that I just wanted to thank him because
• 28:13
  Speaker 9: I know that, you know, it's just good to have
• 28:16
  Speaker 9: people who are considerate and think of you.
• 28:19
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 28:19
  Speaker 12: Yeah, do you know how long that?
• 28:23
  Speaker 8: What you should have did? Was you know what she
• 28:25
  Speaker 8: should have did.
• 28:26
  Speaker 9: She should have hauled off and suckle punched her dead
• 28:28
  Speaker 9: in her.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Chest her Why not him?
• 28:34
  Speaker 8: No? Hell no for buying them drink.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for buying them.
• 28:39
  Speaker 8: Hey, but let me tell you something.
• 28:41
  Speaker 9: You I can't take you if you only knew when
• 28:45
  Speaker 9: he saw her walking over there, boy, his head was
• 28:47
  Speaker 9: going a thousand miles a minute.
• 28:50
  Speaker 14: And you know her friends have told her not to go. Yeah,
• 29:00
  Speaker 14: for sure, let me go.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Thank him.
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: You'll be dry the next time I see, because he
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: did that when he went to the bathroom.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, not well, all right, all right, that's today's
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: round of as the clo.
• 29:16
  Speaker 8: It'sters Steve Arbin martinshaw Man.
• 29:19
  Speaker 9: I mean we've known each other long enough, man, We've
• 29:22
  Speaker 9: we've been around each other with children's successes, graduations, acceptance
• 29:29
  Speaker 9: in the college, marriages.
• 29:33
  Speaker 8: He is being born graduated. Wait, Shureley, what did you say?
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Divorce?
• 29:39
  Speaker 8: Oh divorces? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, don't leave that out.
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: Yeah. Me and you know who leading that group right there.
• 29:55
  Speaker 8: Is one? Well, I'm gonna lead you. What you ain't
• 30:00
  Speaker 8: finna do is I'll do me.
• 30:02
  Speaker 9: You can ask that divorce. You ain't getting no divorce.
• 30:08
  Speaker 9: I don't get going you. Oh, oh, you're gonna get
• 30:12
  Speaker 9: somebody new.
• 30:14
  Speaker 8: Oh you finna get somebody new. I am.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna be out done. No, what you're not
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: gonna do.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Up right after.
• 30:31
  Speaker 12: Keeping it?
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: One hundred questions from from Carla for the crew is uh,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: have you prayed for the downfall of your X and Y?
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Have you prayed guys anybody for the downfall of your ex?
• 30:43
  Speaker 10: No?
• 30:44
  Speaker 8: I ain't that better. I'm not that.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Guy allegedly allegedly, allegedly I prayed for the Lord to
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: take you out of my life.
• 30:56
  Speaker 8: I prayed for that.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: But you don't want anything bad.
• 31:00
  Speaker 15: I mean when I heard something bad about my ex,
• 31:02
  Speaker 15: I didn't really be upset about it, like what that
• 31:05
  Speaker 15: happened to them?
• 31:06
  Speaker 8: I didn't.
• 31:06
  Speaker 15: I wouldn't that I took it.
• 31:10
  Speaker 8: Yeah, you know.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: She pregnant. What's a down.
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: To me?
• 31:18
  Speaker 8: I ain't nothing like real bad to have them like
• 31:21
  Speaker 8: you know I was. You know, I prayed for a lot,
• 31:25
  Speaker 8: you know lock y'all one time.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I couldn't talk.
• 31:32
  Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, just a temporary stroke in the left.
• 31:35
  Speaker 8: So just just.
• 31:39
  Speaker 9: Toby Court appears on court day.
• 31:44
  Speaker 8: Court day.
• 31:44
  Speaker 9: I did ask for a card, but it wasn't nothing.
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: I just wanted to do one, not to make it.
• 31:52
  Speaker 9: That's what they want to be hurt. I want the
• 31:53
  Speaker 9: car to be told.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: You're going through man, Yeah, you're really struggling.
• 32:00
  Speaker 9: Yeah, but telling me, what were you saying?
• 32:04
  Speaker 12: I wish you ran out a gain on a cliff?
• 32:06
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 32:09
  Speaker 11: So wait, when we first started this segment and surely
• 32:11
  Speaker 11: asked y'all this question, y'all was like, nah, I ain't
• 32:14
  Speaker 11: never done nothing pray, But what was your question?
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: Though?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: The question is have you prayed for the downfall of
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: your ex? And if you had, not the downfall.
• 32:26
  Speaker 12: But something that happened, you know, but to fall down.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just saying that's the same thing, guys.
• 32:31
  Speaker 9: Yeah, same thing, you know, like slip on some steps
• 32:34
  Speaker 9: in your heels, Yeah, and go into an uncontrollable free fall.
• 32:39
  Speaker 8: Stuff like that.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Ain't in slow motion.
• 32:42
  Speaker 12: Get a heel caught in a sewer, grite, you know something.
• 32:49
  Speaker 12: Now we ball your yap.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: That's about the most you've done. Nothing really bad though, right, No.
• 32:59
  Speaker 15: Stranger come up, slapp the hell out of them something
• 33:01
  Speaker 15: like that.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: That's how you draw the line with something bad.
• 33:04
  Speaker 9: Just don't look really bad to have you. You know,
• 33:08
  Speaker 9: if I find out you know, you.
• 33:12
  Speaker 14: Know it's.
• 33:15
  Speaker 8: Just so, he don't mean nothing bad.
• 33:16
  Speaker 12: No, no, yeah, chased by a pit bull?
• 33:22
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 33:23
  Speaker 9: Like I find out your house got burned down and
• 33:25
  Speaker 9: all the tapes was in there, I'll be cool.
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: What tapes?
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: What's going on.
• 33:29
  Speaker 8: In the tape.
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: Might super glues your mind. That's a question for y'all,
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: because y'all the one carried grudge.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Tommy, you're the one. I know you're
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: not talking about carrying grudges.
• 33:48
  Speaker 8: I think you owned the sung what I'm recalling.
• 33:52
  Speaker 9: I've been your friend, lord eighteen years now.
• 33:57
  Speaker 8: You ain't all forgave what's her name?
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Not what's his name?
• 34:02
  Speaker 14: We're not talking about that right now.
• 34:04
  Speaker 8: You ain't ever forgave what's the what's his name? Elva?
• 34:09
  Speaker 12: Elva, elba?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: So cl you ain't let it go?
• 34:13
  Speaker 12: Hell no, even today?
• 34:15
  Speaker 8: Hell no, I.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Want to mind to die. Yeah, at my hand, I wanted.
• 34:22
  Speaker 8: To be the murderers.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Surely not you.
• 34:27
  Speaker 13: I want sure you see me scriptures every morning?
• 34:31
  Speaker 14: Yeah to Hey, I'm not perfect, JR.
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: I know he said, you know how to slide on
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: the car and disconnect breaks in by four.
• 34:44
  Speaker 8: Call Pol Sugar in a man tank one time.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I have no proof of that.
• 34:52
  Speaker 8: Call it five pounds back. Call him when the man
• 34:54
  Speaker 8: game tank exploded?
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: What what what?
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: What?
• 34:58
  Speaker 13: What?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: What?
• 34:58
  Speaker 8: What did you need?
• 34:59
  Speaker 10: What?
• 35:00
  Speaker 8: How do I need proof when the butcher knife is
• 35:03
  Speaker 8: still in.
• 35:04
  Speaker 11: The last time Allegedly.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: This is a question for the guys.
• 35:15
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean just out there just stabbing the tie.
• 35:18
  Speaker 12: You have no proof of that is.
• 35:22
  Speaker 8: Calling for real.
• 35:24
  Speaker 11: I will be President Trump on this show because there's
• 35:26
  Speaker 11: no collusion, no obstruction.
• 35:30
  Speaker 8: All stabbed.
• 35:31
  Speaker 9: Caller took a butcher knife, stabbed out the tail light
• 35:35
  Speaker 9: and the head lights and park lights on the car.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Car just a light Jr. Allegedly Stevens just talking so
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: he can't even do that.
• 35:46
  Speaker 9: Go out at night where you're going.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Because that's what got him in trouble. He was out
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: at night creeping. Yeah, at at night.
• 35:55
  Speaker 13: Hard to creep.
• 35:55
  Speaker 8: Ain't no lights on your car.
• 35:59
  Speaker 13: Kiely Just what you think, you know, the people you
• 36:02
  Speaker 13: work with.
• 36:03
  Speaker 14: We've grown so much since then.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not petty like that. We're not petty like that.
• 36:10
  Speaker 11: Yeah, and it wasn't a Sugar allegedly in the gas tank.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: It was a waterhole.
• 36:16
  Speaker 12: Oh sorry, hey what just.
• 36:21
  Speaker 8: His card? Just butter it.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Allegedly, this is Steve.
• 36:28
  Speaker 8: Harbin Martin show Man. How did you How did your
• 36:31
  Speaker 8: father affect your world view?
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Your view of the world exactly.
• 36:35
  Speaker 9: I wasn't allowed to have no view of the world.
• 36:38
  Speaker 9: You just need to see what I see and that's all.
• 36:42
  Speaker 9: Don't worry about what they're doing over there in Spain
• 36:44
  Speaker 9: and all that.
• 36:45
  Speaker 8: That ain't yourbiousness. You don't have no worldview. You just
• 36:49
  Speaker 8: see what I'm You just better look at what I'm
• 36:51
  Speaker 8: trying to show you. And all this world view you
• 36:54
  Speaker 8: get that later.
• 36:55
  Speaker 9: Uh huh, Well, right now, we're digging this hole and
• 36:58
  Speaker 9: put this post in it. Make these fists. Yes your view,
• 37:03
  Speaker 9: look down in that hole. Make sure it's deep enough.
• 37:05
  Speaker 9: That was we I wasn't allowed to have a worldview.
• 37:10
  Speaker 8: Stew coming up right.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: After you, and it's time now for a rounded. Would
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: you rather would you rather go the whole summer without music?
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather go the whole summer without movies?
• 37:27
  Speaker 8: I go the whole summer without movies.
• 37:29
  Speaker 12: Yeh mo, no, no, I'm going without that music.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't do it.
• 37:37
  Speaker 8: Get my movies.
• 37:38
  Speaker 12: But I got to have the movies.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Music, yes, yes, music.
• 37:44
  Speaker 13: And clod up.
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: They got a little they got a score on that.
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: It's gonna be a little bit of music on the
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: on the movie.
• 37:49
  Speaker 8: I want to.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Get you a big sound and action. Oh yeah, the
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: soundtracks are great.
• 37:57
  Speaker 9: You can't you can't hum no music, you can't sing,
• 38:01
  Speaker 9: no music.
• 38:01
  Speaker 8: You can't hear no music?
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Now, yeah, no good movies.
• 38:06
  Speaker 8: Movie. You're how many most I meant without watching a movie?
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: You know how many years?
• 38:12
  Speaker 8: You don't done it?
• 38:12
  Speaker 6: Though?
• 38:15
  Speaker 8: When I lived in the car, I ain't never saw
• 38:17
  Speaker 8: a movie, a movie, TV.
• 38:20
  Speaker 5: No your favorite, No Denzel, no Appacino, no DeNiro, no, no,
• 38:26
  Speaker 5: no what No, we're not doing that.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: And Steve hasn't seen some classics like no Viola Davis?
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Have you seen no more than Freeman?
• 38:36
  Speaker 14: Have you a Boomerang?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: That crazy?
• 38:39
  Speaker 13: You've never seen Boomerang?
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: What you heard that? You didn't know? Barry was in Boomerang?
• 38:48
  Speaker 13: He was the lead.
• 38:49
  Speaker 8: Lady. You ain't seen the movie? How the hell you know?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: But you heard the soundtrack though? Hate you?
• 38:56
  Speaker 14: Yeah, that's soundtrack?
• 39:04
  Speaker 8: All right.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: We're moving on on a hot summer day. Would you
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: rather cool down in an ice bath outside or in
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: an air conditioned room inside.
• 39:13
  Speaker 8: Let me tell you all right, now, get your air
• 39:16
  Speaker 8: condition room.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Plunge, baby, you're.
• 39:21
  Speaker 9: Talking to somebody. Cold plunge every morning? Did it this morning?
• 39:25
  Speaker 9: Get your that air condition room. You don't want to
• 39:29
  Speaker 9: do this minute?
• 39:30
  Speaker 13: What's the time? How long are you in the water?
• 39:33
  Speaker 8: Six minutes? I do a full six T trash all right?
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Would you rather have a one night stand with a
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: stranger or would you rather have a one night stand
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: with your spousest best friend?
• 39:45
  Speaker 8: My spouse friend.
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't even know what this stranger gonna look like.
• 39:51
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna take the stranger route. I'm not doing, Junior.
• 39:56
  Speaker 8: I just got mad.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: I'm not answering that smart all right.
• 40:00
  Speaker 13: Steve, come on? Why why you don't lean away?
• 40:04
  Speaker 8: Just off the mic?
• 40:06
  Speaker 13: What you're doing? Come on, come on, cold plunge into.
• 40:08
  Speaker 8: This answer.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Stranger. You get here.
• 40:15
  Speaker 13: We got ten seconds.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: You don't answer it today, We're gonna carry it over
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: until tomorrow.
• 40:20
  Speaker 14: So answer it now.
• 40:25
  Speaker 7: That's today's round of would you rather? Obviously esteem doesn't want.
• 40:29
  Speaker 8: To answer to tomorrow.
• 40:31
  Speaker 9: Yeah, Steve Harvey Moore on The show Man, anybody.
• 40:34
  Speaker 8: Playing with y'all. This show, I have said a.
• 40:38
  Speaker 9: Thousand times is for enlightenment, entertainment, entertainment and inspiration. And
• 40:45
  Speaker 9: entertainment is a big part of this show. A lot
• 40:47
  Speaker 9: of Lost eight listeners because you don't get the joke.
• 40:51
  Speaker 9: I'm not apologizing for nothing and I ain't preparing no,
• 40:54
  Speaker 9: I'm sorry statement.
• 40:56
  Speaker 8: I tell yo for living And if you didn't like
• 41:00
  Speaker 8: if the joke, tune in tomorrow, I have.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Others you'll come right after. With a return of summer,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: many singles often put aside their search for true love
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: to enjoy some just fun, you know, some fun summer flings.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: But a new survey suggests that such flings don't look
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: so appealing to many. A new dating dot com survey
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: finds that fifty two percent of singles would prefer to
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: find a serious relationship this summer, as opposed to just
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: casual sex. While most admit summer flings including one night
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: stands and friends with benefits, are enjoyable, the majority say
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: they want deeper personal intimacy. Okay, so they don't want just.
• 41:47
  Speaker 8: Now that's a woman making that statement.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: It's a new dating dot com survey, and it didn't
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: say women has that fifty two percent of singles. So
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: that's guys to steve.
• 42:00
  Speaker 9: Well, but there are guys that want something more meaningful,
• 42:02
  Speaker 9: to tell you the truth, you know. But if, but
• 42:05
  Speaker 9: if everybody will quit playing this game and just tell
• 42:07
  Speaker 9: the truth about how you feel. That's one thing. Tell
• 42:12
  Speaker 9: the truth about how you feel. I didn't say, tell
• 42:15
  Speaker 9: the truth about what you did.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Truth.
• 42:20
  Speaker 13: Now let the record show.
• 42:23
  Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, tell the truth about how you feel.
• 42:27
  Speaker 8: It's different from you don't ever tell truth about what
• 42:30
  Speaker 8: you did. Y'all don't need no lie rude.
• 42:39
  Speaker 12: We don't wrong with one night?
• 42:44
  Speaker 8: What's wrong with a one night flame?
• 42:46
  Speaker 13: One night?
• 42:47
  Speaker 14: That's what I was going to ask you.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Guys. So have you had a fling that you were
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: serious about or or that was fun summer fling you
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: know that maybe turned into a real romance.
• 42:57
  Speaker 15: At that moment when I get in that big which
• 42:59
  Speaker 15: I am dead serious. Yeah, at moment there's no games
• 43:03
  Speaker 15: being played.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: We are dead serious.
• 43:05
  Speaker 8: Yeah, everything, yeah, every there's nothing I can focus.
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: On after the summer, after the summer's over, it's over. Yeah,
• 43:17
  Speaker 5: I'll try to go into a fall with.
• 43:19
  Speaker 8: All smer after I get on the brain.
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: What do you want?
• 43:30
  Speaker 8: What did you call him fun but.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: Turned into a real romance?
• 43:35
  Speaker 11: Wow, guys, no relationship at all?
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: Or or do you regret you you've ever did not
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: turn to fling into something real?
• 43:45
  Speaker 12: Regret?
• 43:48
  Speaker 13: No?
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: I just I like to just I used to like
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: to just fling it around as long as you can
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: fling it around. And then yeah, okay, okay much.
• 44:04
  Speaker 9: But but you know it wasn't that wasn't back then.
• 44:06
  Speaker 9: It wasn't no social media nothing, when you lost the
• 44:09
  Speaker 9: passion that.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: No more, where were you gonna stay?
• 44:17
  Speaker 15: You in your I was saying to be fasher. You know,
• 44:19
  Speaker 15: I wasn't always everything you had to fling. You know
• 44:22
  Speaker 15: I wouldn't always some.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: People don't want to fling with me?
• 44:26
  Speaker 8: No more. I wouldn't.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
• 44:31
  Speaker 8: I would out here just killing every fling I was in.
• 44:33
  Speaker 8: Sometimes your fling was just.
• 44:39
  Speaker 9: Wasn't he ain't had.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: You know something way street? But what about the one
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: that got away? Is there one?
• 44:51
  Speaker 8: Maybe there's always one out.
• 44:56
  Speaker 12: And it hurts you to your core when you think
• 44:58
  Speaker 12: about it.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and excuse said, you can't find them anymore or
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: if you do see them again, they're with someone else.
• 45:05
  Speaker 8: They don't won't you? No, Mom, won't you.
• 45:08
  Speaker 9: I found them after social media stuff came out. I
• 45:11
  Speaker 9: found Oh really they didn't look the same they look
• 45:21
  Speaker 9: was in that flame.
• 45:22
  Speaker 8: I believe that picture about twelve different ways.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: So I think what we should get out of this
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: is that singles sometimes are looking for more than just flings. Okay,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: this song, that's what you got out of that? Yeah,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: what what did you get out of it?
• 45:44
  Speaker 8: Tell me?
• 45:45
  Speaker 13: Would fling until you can't fling?
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: No more? Coming up, Carlo, we're just working with a
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: bunch of players. Sound not no moans. With a prank
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: phone call right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.
• 46:10
  Speaker 14: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is Junior,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: take my money, my house, and my car. Come on,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: what this is right there? We'll get into that find
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: out what that's all about in just a little bit,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's prank
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us, nep.
• 46:32
  Speaker 12: Well, let me ask y'all something you before we drop this.
• 46:35
  Speaker 12: You know, there's always a recall on certain things.
• 46:38
  Speaker 8: We've heard about cars being recalled.
• 46:40
  Speaker 5: We've heard about appliances being yeah, toys being unsaved, even
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: food being a recall. And but today it's it's a
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: little something different, folks. This right here is condom recall.
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: Oh everybody by the women, No moh, I mean y'all
• 47:02
  Speaker 5: me with the calls and the toys classes, y'all was
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: right there with me. But as soon as I get
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: y'all the title, now no one is with me. But see,
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: this is why pranking ain't for everybody, right because nobody
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: want to roll with you, cat dog, if you would
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: were going on in there with a condom recall.
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: Hello, I tried to reach a I believe it's Mark Davison.
• 47:26
  Speaker 16: Oh, yes, yes, he's not here right now.
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: You know, Well, this is uh, this is Barry. I
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: work here. I'm the manager here at once. Is he
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: gonna be Is he gonna be home? Come so where
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: he can maybe give me a call? I can chat
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: with him?
• 47:41
  Speaker 16: Yeah, sure, I mean he can be back with it
• 47:43
  Speaker 16: like an hour. So what's going on?
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: Uh, Well, we got a transaction here that he made
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: on Friday of last week, And basically what's going on
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: is we've had a bad batch of condoms and there's
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: actually a kindom recall. This was a credit card transaction,
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: So we're trying our best to reach out and get
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: as many people as we can and let them know
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: that those those condoms are the second So there's a
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: recall on the Magnum condoms that we've had here at here.
• 48:14
  Speaker 4: What we're trying to do is call everybody that has
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: purchased someone in the last week. And you know, he
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: purchased them on Friday, So what we want to do
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: is reach out to him and let him know to
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: bring those Wait wait.
• 48:26
  Speaker 16: Wait, I'm sorry. So you're saying that Marcus purchased his
• 48:30
  Speaker 16: condoms on Friday?
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: Uh the date I have here on this transaction. Man
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: says Friday, He'll last week.
• 48:36
  Speaker 10: Yes, ma'am, we don't even use them.
• 48:39
  Speaker 16: But for the fact that you have to call me talking
• 48:41
  Speaker 16: about that my husband this condom last Friday, when we
• 48:45
  Speaker 16: don't even use them at all, I'm so sad. Right now, Okay,
• 48:48
  Speaker 16: you know what, Hold on, I'm going to call him
• 48:50
  Speaker 16: right now with you ways, well, get.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: The hang on, Hang on a second. Would you rather
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: give me a sale and I give him a call
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: and let him know what's going on. Could you just
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: get me his number?
• 49:00
  Speaker 17: Oh?
• 49:01
  Speaker 16: No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm calling in myself right now.
• 49:05
  Speaker 10: Hold babe, what's up? I'm about to give him the chair?
• 49:09
  Speaker 10: What's that? I'm at the Barbie show.
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: I'm getting in the chair right now.
• 49:13
  Speaker 9: Nah, you need to.
• 49:14
  Speaker 16: Get up and go outside because what I'm about to
• 49:16
  Speaker 16: say you don't want to talk about this?
• 49:19
  Speaker 8: Wait?
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: What?
• 49:20
  Speaker 10: Let's wait? Okay, give me a second book? One second,
• 49:22
  Speaker 10: five minutes? What what's going on? What's up? What's up?
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: Time?
• 49:25
  Speaker 8: Well?
• 49:25
  Speaker 16: Wait, I'll be reflecting of funny of the folks first
• 49:28
  Speaker 16: of all. So why do I get a phone call
• 49:30
  Speaker 16: from like the measure talking about you brought some condoms
• 49:34
  Speaker 16: and they would effective?
• 49:35
  Speaker 8: That's Friday?
• 49:37
  Speaker 10: Wait? What?
• 49:37
  Speaker 8: Wait?
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: What?
• 49:40
  Speaker 10: Baby? What are you talking about? What are you talking?
• 49:42
  Speaker 11: What am I talking about?
• 49:43
  Speaker 16: You tell me what I'm talking about?
• 49:45
  Speaker 9: You'll tell me what.
• 49:45
  Speaker 10: Are you talking about? Crazy?
• 49:47
  Speaker 16: I'm no, I'm not crazy.
• 49:49
  Speaker 15: I'm not crazy.
• 49:50
  Speaker 8: This is real.
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: What Cut the book out and tell me what the
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: what's now? Excuse me?
• 49:56
  Speaker 10: Hello? Hello? Who who is this?
• 49:59
  Speaker 8: Some one?
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 50:00
  Speaker 10: Who you calling me on the phone? Who is this?
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: Okay? How you doing your markers? Correct?
• 50:04
  Speaker 10: Who is this?
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: I'm Barry, I worked, I'm the general manager at and
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: we were calling.
• 50:10
  Speaker 10: Therey very how you get my number? Why? My wife
• 50:14
  Speaker 10: called him talked to the trade about a condoms from Babby.
• 50:17
  Speaker 10: What's what's happening? To get to the point, b y'all
• 50:21
  Speaker 10: know who is what's your name?
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: My name is? My name is Barry Own the general
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: manager here and basically what we have a condom recall
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: and we have your credit card and you made a transaction. Uh,
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: this past.
• 50:36
  Speaker 10: Very very very very What the are you talking about?
• 50:41
  Speaker 16: You're gonna talking about really, you know.
• 50:45
  Speaker 10: Be quiet because you'll be quiet, trying to get because
• 50:49
  Speaker 10: this is crazy. I'm trying to get ahead.
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: This okay, So sir, what it is, we have a
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: transaction with your credit card that condoms for purchase. And
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: what's happening is those columns are defected, so we're doing
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: a recall on.
• 51:01
  Speaker 8: All of them.
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: So we're trying to get those comments back. We don't
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: want to marry Barry.
• 51:06
  Speaker 10: Yes, first of all, you made a mistake. You couldn't
• 51:09
  Speaker 10: possibly have my credit contract you you really well shirt,
• 51:14
  Speaker 10: hold on, Barry, this is my family. I don't I
• 51:18
  Speaker 10: don't play about my family. Then what are you talking about?
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: This? I've stated and sir this card. This is how
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: we got the number to your home where your wife is.
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: And we were trying to actually just read. We weren't
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: trying to create any problems. We just wanted to let
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: you know that the Connors were defect. That's right, market
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: the fat baby.
• 51:37
  Speaker 10: First of all, Baby, you're doing a lot on them
• 51:39
  Speaker 10: on the phone in front of Barry. I don't even
• 51:41
  Speaker 10: know what it's coming from.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: You're doing a lot.
• 51:44
  Speaker 10: We're doing a lot. Listen, baby, we discussed it. We
• 51:47
  Speaker 10: passed this part in our relationship. I told you that
• 51:50
  Speaker 10: I was done all. I told you that, Barry. I apologize.
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: Listen, Well you did you did?
• 51:56
  Speaker 17: You?
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: Were you and Walt Breens on Friday of last week's shirt.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: I was not with these. These were purchased Friday around
• 52:03
  Speaker 4: six o'clock Friday evening of.
• 52:05
  Speaker 10: Last very that's what.
• 52:07
  Speaker 16: He wasn't home, I mean that much, just very fastidating
• 52:10
  Speaker 16: that he was at work doing overtime.
• 52:12
  Speaker 10: Sweetheart, Right, let's stop. What picked very see you got
• 52:18
  Speaker 10: my listen, you got my wife talking crazy?
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: I mean, what do you It is very very Yeah,
• 52:27
  Speaker 4: this is.
• 52:27
  Speaker 10: Long, baby, I didn't do this, baby so disgusting. First
• 52:32
  Speaker 10: of all, we don't even use. We don't even use baby,
• 52:37
  Speaker 10: we don't even use at my down.
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: Clear, this was a pack of twelve you remember by
• 52:48
  Speaker 4: a twelve pack of Magazum.
• 52:49
  Speaker 10: I don't care, but it's a lie. Why you want
• 52:55
  Speaker 10: here believe in this?
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 52:58
  Speaker 10: I wouldn't hear about.
• 53:02
  Speaker 8: Mary.
• 53:03
  Speaker 10: I can't believe you're doing this. Wait up, hold on,
• 53:06
  Speaker 10: hold on, I'm marry, I'm here. I didn't do this.
• 53:11
  Speaker 10: Then you got to be out of your guy man
• 53:14
  Speaker 10: calling me with this, You got.
• 53:15
  Speaker 4: You gotta be up because you gotta be out some line.
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: You're the person that bought the time carry You're the Wow,
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: You're the person cheating on you Wow. And dude, I
• 53:26
  Speaker 4: didn't do this. I didn't do this. Tommy the one
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: did it. It wasn't me.
• 53:30
  Speaker 10: Wait what, Mary, I don't know.
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, tell me the one. So Tommy told me
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: to call you because you're the one bought the time.
• 53:38
  Speaker 4: Tommy said you bought?
• 53:39
  Speaker 10: Who is Timmy?
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: You tell me from a Steve Harvey Morning show. Both
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: y'all just got pan nephew, your sister trench who got
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: me to Frank? Y'all?
• 54:00
  Speaker 10: Man, Well, I guess we're gonna be leaving behind at
• 54:02
  Speaker 10: the holidays. Huh, house, you ain't. You ain't cursing me at.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: On this wrong?
• 54:09
  Speaker 8: You know?
• 54:10
  Speaker 10: I love you know you. You know how I feel
• 54:12
  Speaker 10: about truth?
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: All right, man, Budge love y'all, y'all gotta tell me this.
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: What is the baddest and I mean the bad radio
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: show when the last people tell me? What is this?
• 54:22
  Speaker 10: This Steve Harvey Morning Show?
• 54:24
  Speaker 4: Right seven show?
• 54:28
  Speaker 8: What y'all think?
• 54:29
  Speaker 5: Come on now, come on, hey, recall baby, Hey, it happens.
• 54:35
  Speaker 5: It happens to a lot of different things. It's just
• 54:38
  Speaker 5: a recall. Don't don't get caught up with it. It's
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: all right. These people gonna get They're gonna get past this,
• 54:42
  Speaker 5: all right. I got Hattiesburg, Mississippi, when I'm gonna be
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: down there, had E that'll be Satday, July the eleventh,
• 54:51
  Speaker 5: and Nephews coming to town. Where else I'm I'm just
• 54:53
  Speaker 5: flipping through my calendar back to Ruge, Louisiana, Saturday. That's
• 54:57
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• 55:01
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• 55:09
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• 55:14
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• 55:31
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• 55:33
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Coming up next it is my
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. The subject is my money. My house in
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: my car is a subject. We'll get into it right
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: after this. Hey, this is John Legend. Hi, this is
• 55:46
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• 55:49
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• 55:52
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• 55:54
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• 55:56
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• 55:59
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• 56:07
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• 56:27
  Speaker 15: Okay, you could be yours, butler bit hold on tightest
• 56:33
  Speaker 15: time for the strawberry letter?
• 56:36
  Speaker 14: Is that your sexy Tommy imitation?
• 56:39
  Speaker 8: Just like that was Tommy?
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: Thank you Tommy slash Junior.
• 56:48
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Subject, take my money, my house, and my car. Dear
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm writing this letter for my older brother
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: that is in love with a gold digger. That term
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: not apply to new relationships, because I know a man
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  Speaker 1: is supposed to provide for a woman if he's sleeping
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  Speaker 1: with her, But too many times he's called me to
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  Speaker 1: complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. He gives
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  Speaker 1: her money to go out with her girlfriend's most weekends,
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  Speaker 1: and then she won't even call him till Sunday after
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  Speaker 1: she's been out during whatever she wants to do. In
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  Speaker 1: case you are wondering, my brother is thirty four years old,
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  Speaker 1: but he's the quiet, shy type. He manages several properties
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  Speaker 1: and he owns a barber shop, but he doesn't cut hair.
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  Speaker 1: He has plenty of money in free time, and all
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  Speaker 1: he wants is to spend it with someone that loves him.
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: He's asked his girlfriend to move in with him, but
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: she said it's too soon now, so now he's trying
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  Speaker 1: to get her an engagement ring to make things official.
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  Speaker 1: I hinted to her that after two years he's ready
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  Speaker 1: to settle down, and she said there is no way
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  Speaker 1: that they're ready for marriage. Supposedly, my brother told her
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  Speaker 1: to take his money, his house, and his car and
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  Speaker 1: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's
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  Speaker 1: got him right where she wants him, and I can't
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  Speaker 1: stand by and let her play him like that. I
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  Speaker 1: understand that I don't have a dog in that fight,
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  Speaker 1: and if she's making him happy, then I should butt
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  Speaker 1: out of it. But my question is, if I have
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  Speaker 1: proof that she is sleeping with another man, and she's
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  Speaker 1: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car,
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  Speaker 1: should I tell him? My brother practically raised me, and
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  Speaker 1: I want the best for him, So what do I
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  Speaker 1: do in this situation?
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  Speaker 14: Will he hate me forever if I tell him this?
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  Speaker 1: Well, the answer to that question is maybe not forever,
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  Speaker 1: but he will be upset with you. And look at this,
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: you might not have to do anything because your big
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  Speaker 1: brother has these are your words now called you too
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  Speaker 1: many times to complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses.
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  Speaker 14: So maybe he's getting fed up in some sort of.
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  Speaker 1: Way, because people you know, are really feeling when they
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  Speaker 1: really are f fieling someone and you start to get
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: all up in their business. Yes, you do run the
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  Speaker 1: risk of them turning on you if you tell them.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's a known fact.
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  Speaker 14: I know you care.
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  Speaker 1: About your brother. I can see it in the letter.
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  Speaker 1: I know you do, and you should. He's your brother.
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  Speaker 1: But whatever you say to him at this point, he's
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  Speaker 1: not gonna hear it. He's not gonna see it because
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: he is not trying to hear it and he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: want to. Your brother is a big boy, he's a
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  Speaker 1: grown man who's gonna find out one of these life lessons,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: life lessons that you get only by the experience of
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: being with someone like this, someone who he let drive
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  Speaker 1: his car and she's driving some other man around in it. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: she's obviously a user, she's taking advantage of your brother.
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  Speaker 14: But it's not your business. I'm sorry, it's not your
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  Speaker 14: job to.
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  Speaker 1: Tell him this. He will find out sooner or later,
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: because they always find out and just be there for
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: him when it's over. He will get over her eventually,
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  Speaker 1: But right now he's sprung. Steve.
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  Speaker 9: You know how I respond about people or mine and
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 9: the business. That ain't gonna change you. But my response
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 9: is going to shock you. Here's a young girl that's
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 9: writing this letter for her older brother that's in love
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  Speaker 9: with a gold digger. Now she thinks that that might
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 9: not apply to relationships, because I know a man is
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 9: supposed to provide for a woman if he's sleeping with it. Well,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 9: see right there now, if that depends on the arrangement
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 9: of the arrangement, or shall I say that depends on
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  Speaker 9: the agreement of the arrangement, I will provide for you
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  Speaker 9: if I see a future.
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  Speaker 8: I will invest in you if I see a future.
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  Speaker 8: Awes prompt.
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  Speaker 9: Now, if we're just kicking it, you might ask me something,
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  Speaker 9: I might let you have it. But you're not an
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  Speaker 9: obligation to me until I feel obliged to help you,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 9: because you show an obligation to me. So let's get
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 9: that straight away. But she said, too many times he
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 9: can call to complain about her misusing and abusing his
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  Speaker 9: kindness he gives her money to go out with his girlfriends,
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  Speaker 9: and she's been out doing whatever she want to do.
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  Speaker 12: She don't call.
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  Speaker 9: Him till Sunday. Now, then she says, my brother's thirty four.
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  Speaker 9: But he's a quiet shot type. He manages several properties.
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  Speaker 9: He owns a barber shop, but he don't cut an
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  Speaker 9: smart guy. Smart guy. He has plenty of money in
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 9: free time and all he wants is suspend it with
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 9: somebody that loves him. That this sounds like a good dude,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 9: but he's smart too. He bought a barbershop and don't
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 9: cut hands. Lord have mercy. So that chair that he
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 9: would normally be man and making forty dollars a cut
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 9: this boy that gave that chair to somebody else and
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 9: charging that dude for the chair, and he can keep
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 9: his forty for the cut. But I'm gonna need one
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  Speaker 9: hundred and fifty two hundred a week for the chair.
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  Speaker 9: Whatever it is. Man, I'm finna go owe me a
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  Speaker 9: barber shop. Appreciate the idea, man, I never thought of that.
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  Speaker 9: Don't cut half. He got plenty of money in free
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 9: time and he just wants somebody. So he asked his
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  Speaker 9: girlfriend to move in him but she says too soon.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 9: So now he's trying to get her an engagement reen
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 9: to make things official. I think somewhere in there he's
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 9: been seeing her for two years? Is that correct?
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  Speaker 8: Two years?
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  Speaker 6: Huh?
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  Speaker 9: Anyway, supposedly my brother now he hitted that after two
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 9: years he's ready to settle down. She said, there's no
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  Speaker 9: way they're ready for marriage, and it's gonna be obvious
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 9: in this letter. My brother told her to take his money,
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  Speaker 9: his house's car, whatever else she needs.
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  Speaker 8: To be happy. She knows she's got him right where
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  Speaker 8: she wants, and I can't stand by let him play
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  Speaker 8: it like that.
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  Speaker 9: Shirley says, he's a big boy and he's grown. That's
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 9: a true statement. What Shirley fails to tell you is
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  Speaker 9: that your brother is whipped. Yes, yo, brother whipped.
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  Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, today's strawberry let her subject take my money,
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  Speaker 1: my house, and my car. We'll get back into it
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 14: The subject take my money, in my house and my car.
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  Speaker 1: When we left, you were going to tell the difference
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  Speaker 1: between sprung and whipped this.
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  Speaker 9: Boy in this letter, this thirty four year old man
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  Speaker 9: just being used by this woman.
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  Speaker 8: He wants to move it further to marriage. She said.
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  Speaker 9: There's no way I wish too early to get married.
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  Speaker 9: I'll tell you why, she said, Dad. He's giving her everything.
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  Speaker 9: He's told her to take off his car, his house,
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  Speaker 9: his money, just whatever else she needs to be happy.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 9: She knows she's got him right where she wants. And
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 9: I can't stand by and let him play like that,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 9: I said. Shirley is absolutely right in saying that he's
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 9: a big boy in the grown man. She just left
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 9: off the fact that he's quipped. Shirley said, he's sprung.
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  Speaker 10: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 9: There is a difference. Let me help you understand something, ladies.
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  Speaker 9: It's when a man is around you and he feels
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  Speaker 9: all tingling. Sprong is when a man is around you
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 9: and he feels all giddy. Sprung is when a man
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 9: wants to be in your company all the time. That's sprung. Okay,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 9: Sprung is wondering what you do where you're going? Quill,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 9: it's different. She don't put something on this boy so strong?
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 8: Is Lil voodoo?
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 9: The old saying, is he looking for her? In the
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 9: daytime with a flashlight.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Julie noted, Okay.
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  Speaker 4: This.
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  Speaker 9: Is how he talked when he round her by this boy,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 9: this boy right here, sprong when they in the bed.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 9: This boy, he boy, he can't control himself as she
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 9: got and that's what the problem is. Now she knows
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 9: she got him right where she wants him, and I
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 9: can't stand by and let him playing like that. I
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 9: understand that I don't have a dog in this fight,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 9: and if she's making him happy, then I should. But out, well,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 9: she's not making him happy, she's making him unhappy. He
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 9: always calls you to complain about he's being misused. But
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 9: that whip thing, that thing got him thinking it he
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 9: can fix it. So now he want to rush to
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 9: get her a ring because he wants her to move
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 9: forward with this. But now the young girl says that
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 9: she has proof she's sleeping with another man, and she's
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 9: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 9: Should I tell him? My brother practically raised me. I
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 9: want the best for him, So what should I do
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 9: in this? Will he hate me forever if I tell
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 9: him this? No, he won't hate you forever, because this
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 9: is a different situation is the shaker, Yes, you should
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 9: tell him what that is, Steve, Yes, you should tell him.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 9: See this is quite different, oh, because listen to me.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 9: See Normally it's girlfriends that see their girlfriend's man out
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 9: somewhere and see him with a woman not in the
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 9: act of nothing, but then wants to report that you
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 9: don't know what that situation is over there, and that
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 9: report and that that ain't you gonna start to fire
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 9: a house that don't need to get lit.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 8: This is different.
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  Speaker 9: This is a young sister trying to protect her older
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 9: brother and has proof that she's sleeping with another man
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 9: because she's seen another man in.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 8: Her brother car with her. You got to tell your brother,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 8: so the proof.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 14: It's because she has proof saying she got proof.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 9: This ain't speculation. She's been seen in the car with
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 9: another man. Hey, man, that is so disrespectful on her
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 9: part and justice disrespectful on the dupot. And he's your brother.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 9: This ain't your friend, this your brother. You have got
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 9: to go and tell your brother this. Will he hate
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 9: me fever. He gonna be a little ticked at you,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 9: but he gonna get over that because he needs to
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 9: know the truth. This is why she say it's too
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 9: early to get married. Because she got access to his money,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 9: his house, and his car. He knows she'll give him anything,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 9: and she can have her cake and eat it too.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 9: Why would she get married and stop the gravy train
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 9: when the gravy train is rolling all over time? You
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 9: have got to tell your brother this information. And I
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 9: know y'all are surprised, but just let me tell you something.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 9: If my sister saw a girl I was dating driving
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 9: my car with another man in it, my sister coming
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 9: to me, stead, you come here. This little heffle was
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 9: down there on shap Pill with a man in your car.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 9: Now she already knows what's finna happen. I'm finna get
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 9: the key and I'm finna find this man somebody getting there.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 9: You have got to tell your brother because your brother
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 9: has called you complaining she abusing him and tricking him,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 9: and all this here he putting over with that he
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 9: can take some more bad news. He been handling the
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 9: bad he's been handling all the bad news. Pretty good
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 9: something for junior.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 13: What I'm trying to figure out?
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 3: Who will you?
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  Speaker 15: Who are you right now? Because lying is what you do.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 15: I thought this would be.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 8: A good time.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: Just lie?
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 8: Who need to lie? Here?
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 9: The lady in the left, the lady that's doing all
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 9: the receptive stuff, is already lied, So why should the
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 9: little sister pick up her lit? You don't aid a
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 9: bad line, Okay, you ate a purpose, folk, and good
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 9: lie the rules tonight?
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 8: All right? Listen, you're gonna be married long this time?
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: On Instagram and at Steve Harvey f M, and check
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 8: This Steve Harbin Martin show man Flord.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Says, I've been sleeping with our yard man for a
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: while and he doesn't like wearing protection. We got into
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: an argument about it, and now he's not answering my
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: husband's texts to come to our yard.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 14: How can he be so petty when he knows I'm married.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 8: Right here, right here?
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  Speaker 9: God, y'all, y'all got to quit writing us with all
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 9: this craziness, acting like its normal.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, you're not qualified.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 8: Don't what y'all want me to do?
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 9: Yes, y'all, y'all, I can't apply no rules to this stuff,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 9: cause y'all keep coming up with all this abnormal mess
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 9: like it's regular.
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  Speaker 3: Up right after.
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  Speaker 1: All? Right, normally we would be doing junior sports talk
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: right here. But Junior, you have questions about discovery letters,
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: take my money, my house, in my car.
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  Speaker 15: Yeah, you know jose didn't mean none of that. What
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 15: he doing he that is not what Josey was saying
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 15: about what I'm asking you.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Un is okay? Normally, unh you are.
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  Speaker 12: The person who will go along and lie.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 15: Yeah, you saying this is not the time to lie,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 15: and this is what we should tell the truth.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 8: Listen to me, junior. It is rules to liar.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 9: You got to know the lie by lawlaw.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: Just what see this is? This is a new person.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: This is confusing you. Your lie.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 9: Number one has to have a direct purpose, okay. Number
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 9: two rule of line. It should be done in order
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 9: to save or rescue or to number three. Number three,
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 9: the lie should be a preventive measure. You want to
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 9: prevent the feelings being heard?
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 8: Ye, the shock. It has to have a purpose.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 9: Yeah, and it has to have a lie that's aimed
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 9: at making something better. And number four, the lie must
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  Speaker 9: be given to hold it on to what you have.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 8: What Yes, dogs are the bylaw. I don't give a charity.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 8: These are the bylaws of lion.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 14: What lie makes something better?
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 8: Steve it does.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 9: If you if your wife say to you, where have
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 9: you been? And you say I stopped at the stone? Okay,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 9: why would I say I stopped at.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 8: The strip club.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 9: Because I wanted to see diamond dust one more time more?
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: I came to this house so we have to see you.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 8: And you don't look nothing like diamond dust.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 9: And diamond dust can slide down the pole on her
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 9: butt with no hands.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: Why would I want to see that myself?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 8: Except but I'm not gonna tell you that.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 9: So the lie becomes necessary now, Jui in this letter, okay,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 9: the woman that's deceiving, the gold digger that's playing her
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 9: brother is lying to her brother. The young girl has
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 9: no reason to lie to her brother because it's not
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 9: saving anything and it's just nothing good. She has now
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 9: tell her brother the truth. Man, you need to learn
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 9: these bylows.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: Just say it truth.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 15: You just say it truth.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: You You never say truth?
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 8: You never I say truth all the time.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 11: That's a lie, lie when the truth will do?
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 9: I say truth all the time when I'm not Lying's.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 8: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 9: I ain't do nothing around my crack, and you're tattoo
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 9: you can't sketch on it.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 8: You can't.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 9: You can't put tracing paper on my crack. And I'm
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 9: not gonna hold steal. I just can't do it because
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 9: I'm a clinch.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 3: I'm a clinch.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna tell your paper. I'm gonna tell your paper.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 9: I'm just trying to tell you. You can't do nothing, Carla,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 9: I can't do nothing around mine. I'm telling you right,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 9: it ain't gonna work. I don't know what piscol you got.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 8: You think he's gonna draw, but you're finna get your
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 8: pencil broke.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 9: That's all I'm taking. The tattoo gun ain't gonna be
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 9: an work no more. How does I snap a needle? Show?
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 9: Coming up right after you?
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here's a couple of wedding questions for you.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: Are seeing Texas says, I'm getting married at the end
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: of June, and I slept with one of my fiance's cousins.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: I did not know they were related until we had
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: our engagement party ago. I've been dealing with the guilt,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I will feel better if I tell
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  Speaker 1: my fiance what happened. The cousin said, although it was
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: a big mistake, I would be more. I would be
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: more at fault because I cheated and it was with
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: his family. I still want to clear my conscience? Should
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: I tell?
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  Speaker 12: No?
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  Speaker 1: Would you say it?
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  Speaker 8: Don't make no sense? It don't explain to me what
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 8: that will do?
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  Speaker 6: Huh?
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  Speaker 14: Clear of the conscience?
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 13: You got cleary?
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 8: You don't need no clear conscience?
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: Who to the room?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 9: Hey, don let me ex play some teeth. My conscious
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 9: cloudy as hell?
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 8: I can you walk right through it?
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 8: Well, every night i'd be in good and everythink.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 9: No, my conscious cloudy is here. What makes you think
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 9: you need a clear conscience? She better get rid of
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 9: stupid floation. Boys, you're gonna go in there and tell
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 9: your wife you slept with her cousin for what?
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 8: Because you're clear?
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: Conscious?
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 13: Dog?
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 9: You know how men people live with a cloudy conscious.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 9: It's okay, Like a lot of times I don't even
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 9: don't even have one. You only have one some day.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: Don't say a word.
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  Speaker 8: It's just a lot of days I don't even need
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 8: my conscious clear.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 9: You need to stop this stupidity you're talking about. Clear
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 9: your You finish clear your conscious, You finish clear out
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 9: your wife, you finish clear out your family. And she finish,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 9: clear out your bank account. You go in there talking
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 9: about clearing your conscious to tell your wife you cheated
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 9: with her cousin. I can't tell you how much.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: That's gonna clear up to have a clean that's what
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: it is.
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  Speaker 8: Clean too much? Stop this.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 9: You can't keep telling you all that.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 8: What is this? We got to share everything? What keeps
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 8: telling y'all this information?
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 10: Man?
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 9: You want to have a successful marriage? Shut show?
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 14: That sounds crazy yourself, that sounds.
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 8: That sounds crazy.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: Yes, if you want to have married.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 9: Let me ask three if let me ask you three
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 9: married people on this show.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 8: Of course, honesty is the best policy. This is what
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 8: we always say.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 9: Now, have you told your husband everything about you?
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 8: Everything?
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 14: No?
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: No, some stuff take to my grade?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 8: Okay, I just know.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 9: Have you told your husband everything about yourself?
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 14: No, sir, that would be enough for me.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 9: Now let's ask the food and here, Thomas Miles.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 8: Have you told your wife anything?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: Not everything? Anything?
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 8: Everything? Steee.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: I got two caskets, one for me and one is
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 5: for all the stuff that I'm taking with me.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: What is it talking about to make a grade so
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: you can't take it with you?
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: This is the other stuff? You don't know nothing about it.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 5: I got to bury that too. I'm not I'm not
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 5: gonna mad it. Man, I got two plots. I don't
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: know what y'all talking.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I get what you say about the honesty.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 11: But this, this is a relationship with.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: The cousin the family. They didn't know, they didn't know
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: that they.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 11: Were related and when the relationship happened. So she shouldn't
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 11: say anything or he shouldn't say anything.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 12: Is this a guy or girl?
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 8: I got confused on that.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 12: Not sure?
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: R C is some man.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 8: W Fion says cousin a year ago did not know
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 8: they related and found out. Okay, so it's come forward.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: They should have taked a year ago. They were gonna tell.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean they were going to.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 13: All right, what is what is telling it?
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 10: What?
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Alright? Listen, we gotta go coming up in twenty minutes
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 13: If you wasn't in there, nicked, this ain't got none built.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: You you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: controversial dating app Ashley Madison has revealed the top American
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: cities for adulterree Okay, keep in mind this dating app
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: slogan is life is short, have an affair. Okay, So
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: here that's there. That's there's motto and their slogan. All right,
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: here's some of the top cheating cities. This is according
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: to Ashley Madison. All Right, Buffalo, New York, Tampa, Las Vegas.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: We all know that one, right, Atlanta, Richmond, Virginia, Cincinnati,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, Baton rouge wow, uh huh. Miami fell off
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: from the number one spot. Any guesses on what the
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: number one spot might be? Any guesses a new or
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: uh uh? You would think so DC? Nope, Steve, New York,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: New York. No good guesses, all good guesses, but no.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 8: Down Salt Lake City, Utah.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: Random, excellent guests. But the number one is Columbus, Ohio. Columbus, Ohio,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: the number one city, your cheaters. Yeah, and Cleveland is
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: all also in there. Cleveland's in there. Oh three, Cleveland.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 8: I'd do there for the survey was out everybody in Cleveland.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 8: No life too short?
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll play around it,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: would you rather? Right after this, you're listening to the
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 14: And it's time now for a rounded.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: Would you rather would you rather go the whole summer
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: without music, or would you rather go the whole summer
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: without movies?
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 8: I go the whole summer without movies. Yeah?
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: Really movie?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 12: No, no, I'm going without that music.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: I couldn't do it get the.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 12: Movies, but I got to have the movie had a music, Yes,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 12: the music.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 4: And them up.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 5: They got a little they got a score on that.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 5: It's gonna be a little bit of music on the
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 5: on the movie.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 8: I don't want.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 9: To get you the sound and action.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the soundtrack.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 9: You can't you can't hum no music, you can't sing,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 9: no music. You can't hear no music? Now, yeah, no,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 9: good movies.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 8: Movie, you're not any more men without watching a movie?
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: How many years you didn't done it up?
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 8: When I lived in the car, I ain't never saw
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 8: a movie, a movie, TV?
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 5: No your favorite, No Denzel, no Appacino, no DeNiro, no, no,
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 5: no what No, we're not doing that.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: And Steve hasn't seen some classics like No Davis, have
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: you seen no Morgan Freeman?
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 14: Have you heard a boomerang?
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: Ain't that crazy?
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 8: You've never seen boomerang?
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: What you heard? You don't know Barry was in Boomerang.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 13: He was the lead lady.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 8: You ain't the movie? How the hell you know?
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: But oh you heard the house rack do hate you? Yeah,
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: that's downtracking. All right, we're moving on. On a hot
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: summer day. Would you rather cool down in a nice
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: bath outside or in an air conditioned room inside?
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 8: Let me tell y'all right, now, get your air condition room.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: Plunge, baby, you're.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 9: Talking to somebody. Cold plunge every morning? Did it this morning?
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 9: Get your air condition room. You don't want to do
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 9: this minute?
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 13: What's the time? How long a you in the water?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 8: Six minutes? I do a full six.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: Fresh all right? Would you rather have a one night
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: stand with a stranger or would you rather have a
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: one night stand with your spouse's best friend?
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 8: My spouse's best friends.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't even know what this stranger gonna look like.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna take this strange route. I'm not doing, Junior.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 12: I just got mad. I'm not answering that.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: Right, all right, Steve that folks.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 13: Come on, why why you don't leave away off the mic?
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 13: What you're doing? Come on, come on, cold plunge into this.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: Stranger.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 13: You we got ten seconds you don't answer today.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 14: We're gonna carry it over until tomorrow, So answer it now.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 7: That's today's round of would you rather? Obviously Steam doesn't
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 7: want to answer to tomorrow. Yeah, come on in forty
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 7: nine minutes after, we'll have our last breakup the day
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 7: and some closing remarks from.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: The man who.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 7: Doesn't want to answer the question.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: Right after this.
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  Speaker 8: Str show Man line three, We got a cinnimon Is
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  Speaker 8: that your real name?
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  Speaker 17: Yes, Je Voats Honey, Bobby lad Wilson, I'm.
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  Speaker 8: Gonna name my baby gun Pow Dance mill Stew coming
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  Speaker 8: up right after. Gosh people, this is Kirk Franklin.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is con what's going on? This is your
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  Speaker 1: boy Kevin Hark Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian. This is
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  Speaker 1: your boy Chris Breen.
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  Speaker 1: This came tow.
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  Speaker 8: This is your boy Sad the Entertainer.
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  Speaker 1: This is your Linda Adams.
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  Speaker 9: Less up, it's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve
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  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Another one, Steve. We're ready for your closing remarks. I'm
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: telling happy they're back.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 8: A hight everybody. My closing remarks today, this is what
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 8: I've chosen to do.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 9: I have variations of this when I'm talking as a
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 9: speaker and things like that, but I'm I'm gonna go
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 9: a different way with you today.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 8: Uh. There's a saying.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 9: That if you're the smartest person in your group, then
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 9: you need a new group. I want you, I want
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 9: you all to just think about that for a minute.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 9: If you're the smartest person in your group, you need
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 9: a new group.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 8: Now. I've been very, very guilty of this, not saying that.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 9: I was smarter than everybody else, but I had been
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 9: exposed more than a certain group of people I had
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 9: employed and had hanging around me.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 8: I had been.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 9: Exposed to more things. I naturally was making more because
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 9: they were mostly employees. I wanted more. Uh, And because
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 9: of the fact that I had more, more was required
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 9: of me. I just had bigger dreams. I outdreamed everybody
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 9: in my group and had just gotten to a point.
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 9: And I'm saying this because I want you all to
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 9: put everything into perspective. As I'm talking to you. Just
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 9: imagine at your place in your life that if you're
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 9: the one that's constantly coming up with the ideas. You're
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 9: the one constantly coming up with the solution. You're the
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 9: one everybody turns to for guidance. You're the person always
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 9: picking up the tab. You're the person that's the.
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 8: Only one who's dreaming really big.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 9: You're the one that's pulling the wagon, and you happen
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 9: to be carrying everybody.
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 8: That's on it.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 9: Ain't none of your associates getting off the wagon to
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 9: help you pull it, push it, guide it or nothing.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 8: They just own the wagon and you're doing all the pulling.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 8: You need a new group. You need a new group.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 10: Now.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 9: The problem with acquiring this new group is gonna be
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 9: that the fact is inevitable.
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 8: You have to get rid of the old group. And
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 8: it's hard.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 9: It's hard cutting people loose because for the most part,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 9: you're just a nice person. Because you start beating yourself
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 9: up with stuff that has nothing to do with you. Well,
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 9: if I let them go, what they gonna do, man,
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 9: How his family gonna eat, How her family gonna survive,
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 9: How they gonna if I let them go, Man, how
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 9: they gonna feel about me? What will they say about me?
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 9: What will the other group members think about me? But
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 9: you know something man, that's not your job. And I'm
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 9: not trying to sound cold to callous, but it's just
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 9: not your job. They are responsible for themselves, but through
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 9: this meaningless emotion called guilt, they will make you feel
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 9: guilty about letting them go and making them stop riding
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 9: up the heel and your wagon for free. And they
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 9: use guilt, which is the most meaningless emotion, and they
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 9: give it to you all the time. Y'all, do yourself
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 9: a favor. Stop doing that. Stop carrying people who should
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 9: be walking themselves.
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 8: Stop pulling people up the heel and your wagon when
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 8: they need to get their own wagon to pull. Stop.
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 9: Do yourself a favor, get yourself a new group. They
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 9: will be fine, because let me ask you a question.
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 9: This is something my father used to say to me
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 9: all the time. What would you do if you didn't
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 9: know me? And I used to never understand when my
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 9: father said it that until I got older, but I
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 9: hear them saying it to me all the time.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 4: Time.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 9: People come to you and ask you for money because
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 9: I know you got it because you're doing better than them. Well,
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 9: you work harder than them, so quite naturally you should
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 9: be doing better than them. Now they come to you
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 9: and lay this guilt.
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 10: Man, you.
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 9: Done came up and all us, over all of us,
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 9: and left us back. He now, we so proud of you.
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 8: Let me hold. My father used to.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 9: Say, if you didn't know me, what would you do?
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 9: So I started incorporating that in my life. If you
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 9: didn't have my number, who would you call? I cannot
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 9: be everybody's emergency. If you are everybody's emergency phone call,
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 9: you need a new group. They gonna bring you down. Man,
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 9: I'm telling you, they're going to bring you down. And
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 9: when you go down, guess what they gonna get another
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 9: emergency number. They not gonna be there for you. All
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 9: these people that use you as they emergency, do you
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 9: have the ability to use them as your emergency?
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 8: I think not.
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 9: It's time to look at getting a new group now.
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 9: You can sever the ties with these people now, or
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 9: you can wait until a major event occurs. That's gonna
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 9: cause you have to break it off and it's gonna
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 9: be a lot more painful and a lot more costly,
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 9: you know. But Bishop Jake said one time, sometimes you
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 9: have to let people go so they can be freed
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 9: up to go be who they're supposed to be. Because
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 9: some people just hanging on costs. It's comfortable because you've
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 9: made it comfortable for people. And I'm talking to everybody
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 9: out there.
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 8: This ain't for me or.
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 9: People who have employees. This is for people who have
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 9: people in their lives that's constantly pulling on you.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 10: Man.
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 8: For twenty dollars here, forty dollars here.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 9: One hundred over here? My light bell went off. They
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 9: cut this off. They calling me, I'm behind on my
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 9: TAXI my income tax check.
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 8: Ain't hear you man?
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 12: Oh man?
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 8: Oh man?
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 9: How many times you get that? Stop being everybody's emergency
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 9: phone call? Because if they didn't know you, what would
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 9: they do? You know, my father used to say, when
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 9: they don't know you, what would they do? They need
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 9: to get home, get to doing it. You can't save
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 9: everybody because they'll bring you down. If you're the smartest
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 9: person in.
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 8: Your group, you need a new group.
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 9: Those are my close remarks. Have a great one today,
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 9: Talk to God today. He would absolutely love to hear
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 9: from peace.
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