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FULL SHOW: Special Guest, Attorney Benjamin Crump, Strawberry Letter: He Gets To See the World, But We Don't - 2.11.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all but.
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  Speaker 1: Listening to.
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  Speaker 2: Show ton't joy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Joy, show.
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  Speaker 3: You you love You.
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  Speaker 4: Gotta turn.
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  Speaker 5: I can't.
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  Speaker 2: I got to turn them out, turn the probably.
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  Speaker 1: Come out, you're think, I sure will.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come
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  Speaker 6: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 6: a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Man, oh man, old man.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, you know today, I just want to say something
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  Speaker 6: that I don't think I've ever shared this way before.
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  Speaker 6: The The the title is very simple, and that is
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  Speaker 6: it's been worth it to me, you know I I
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  Speaker 6: just I just kept thinking that this morning, that it's
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  Speaker 6: all been worth it to me. And what I mean
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  Speaker 6: by that is this relationship that I have with my
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  Speaker 6: heavenly father, it's been worth it to me. I can't
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  Speaker 6: even tell you the value that it has had in
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  Speaker 6: my life. I can't tell you how it's helped me
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  Speaker 6: to understand not only my purpose, but to better understand
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  Speaker 6: my past' that's critical, man, because I'm grateful for that
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  Speaker 6: because so many people can't get beyond their past and
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  Speaker 6: event a set of circumstances, some calamity that besaids them.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe it's been grief something, but it ties so many
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  Speaker 6: people up. It's been so worth it to me, it is, man,
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  Speaker 6: it's it's been worth having someone to go to when
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  Speaker 6: no one else was there. Do you understand what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 6: It has It has given me a place to go
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  Speaker 6: when no one else has been there. Oh, hey man,
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  Speaker 6: we pulling for you. Hey man, hanging now, Hey man, keep.
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  Speaker 7: Your head up.
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  Speaker 1: All of that.
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  Speaker 6: But I gotta tell you, man, you get yourself in
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  Speaker 6: some circumstances and situations in this thing called life when
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  Speaker 6: no one can help you but God, When the only
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  Speaker 6: person that could possibly understand or know what you're feeling
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  Speaker 6: is God. The only person that will sit there with
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  Speaker 6: you through it all and understand everything about it has
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  Speaker 6: been God. It's been worth it to me, man, It's
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  Speaker 6: it's been worth it to me. It's been the biggest
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  Speaker 6: improvement in my life. I mean, man, as I look
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  Speaker 6: back over my life, man, forming a strong bond with
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  Speaker 6: God has been the most beneficial thing to me, you know,
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  Speaker 6: these things you read in your in your in writings
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  Speaker 6: in the Bible or or or whatever you're reading. You know,
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  Speaker 6: when you when you read scriptures and things of that nature.
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  Speaker 6: It it's it's been around a long time. It holds
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  Speaker 6: so much truth to it. I mean, man, it's like,
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  Speaker 6: how could this have been written so long ago and
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  Speaker 6: still pertained directly to today?
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  Speaker 1: I mean that that's amazing. That is amazing to me that.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, that has to be God at work to
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  Speaker 6: have written something so complete, so dead on point that
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  Speaker 6: if you read it today it means exactly what pertains
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  Speaker 6: to today. That's amazing.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 6: That's why my spiritual walk it's just worth it to me.
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  Speaker 6: And I keep saying it's worth it, because if you're
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  Speaker 6: sitting out there and you tripping like I was tripping, deciding, nah,
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  Speaker 6: let me do it. I got a few more things
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  Speaker 6: I want to do. Couple more girls I want to
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  Speaker 6: holler at, couple more things I want to get into.
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  Speaker 6: I got a cup more deals I want to do.
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  Speaker 6: I got a little bit more dirt. I want to
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  Speaker 6: roll up on me a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: First.
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  Speaker 6: For a while, man, I wish I had known, I
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  Speaker 6: really wish I had understood exactly what forming a relationship
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  Speaker 6: with God would do for me. It's been at worth
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  Speaker 6: every person who out there who hate know me, that
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  Speaker 6: don't even know me, it's because I have a relationship
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  Speaker 6: with Him that I'm fine with that. I don't care
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  Speaker 6: for it, but it ain't gonna stop me though, See,
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  Speaker 6: because I know for a fact that haters make you greater.
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  Speaker 6: I know for a fact that haters validate your mere existence.
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  Speaker 6: I know for a fact that half of them is
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  Speaker 6: out of envy and jealousy because of something you're doing
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  Speaker 6: that they wish they could do or they won't credit for,
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  Speaker 6: so they just nah, I ain't anything all that bam,
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  Speaker 6: And now you just all over the place with people. Man,
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  Speaker 6: I'm so grateful for this relationship that it has not
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  Speaker 6: allowed outside influences that do not have my best interest
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  Speaker 6: at heart to throw me off.
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  Speaker 1: Course.
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  Speaker 6: It has just been worth it. And if you're sitting
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  Speaker 6: out there and you're wondering about the benefits of it,
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  Speaker 6: I can't even tell you what it's like to know
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  Speaker 6: that when bad things are happening to me, the calming
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  Speaker 6: peace that I feel that I know that that's gonna
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  Speaker 6: be all right too, that I know that this too
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  Speaker 6: shall pass. That I know in my heart of hearts, man,
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  Speaker 6: that there's got to be a reason for this. And
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  Speaker 6: if I can just hang on in there, he gonna
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  Speaker 6: unfold that from me and he gonna let me see it.
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  Speaker 6: But the number one thing I always know is I'm
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  Speaker 6: gonna survive this one too, that this too shall pass.
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  Speaker 6: It has been worth it to me, man, to have
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  Speaker 6: this thing called faith, which is the belief in things
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  Speaker 6: that you cannot see, and to know man along the
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  Speaker 6: way that, oh my goodness, man, even though I don't
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  Speaker 6: know what's next, or even I'm not really sure about
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  Speaker 6: the next step, I do know for a fact that
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  Speaker 6: Samoa is coming. I do know for a fact. It
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  Speaker 6: is a fact that God will take care of me.
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  Speaker 6: It is a fact that he will never ever leave
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  Speaker 6: me or desert me. If I just stay here where
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  Speaker 6: I'm supposed to be. He's coming. The Calvary's coming over
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  Speaker 6: the hill. He coming over the hill. And when he
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  Speaker 6: come over that hill, he gonna wipe out all this
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  Speaker 6: mess down here that's trying to hurt me. That I
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  Speaker 6: don't have to worry about my enemies anymore, that my
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  Speaker 6: enemies that are all around you can surround me. You
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  Speaker 6: can shoot all the arrows you want. Now, it's not
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  Speaker 6: to say that none of them ain't gonna come close.
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  Speaker 6: And I ain't gonna say that, you know, I ain't
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  Speaker 6: gonna be a little under some pressure, a little nervous
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  Speaker 6: about being shot at so hard. But at the end
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  Speaker 6: of the day, I know this for show. Ain't none
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  Speaker 6: of them gonna stick in me. You can shoot them,
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  Speaker 6: but ain't none of them gonna stick in me. No
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  Speaker 6: matter what you do, no weapon formed against me, nothing
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  Speaker 6: you can't. You can't do nothing with me. Man, I'm
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  Speaker 6: so cool. It's been worth it for me. Man, you're
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  Speaker 6: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Ladies, gentlemen, everybody,
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  Speaker 6: if you're working, if you're unemployed, if you're stable, if
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  Speaker 6: you're just a little off, I'm talking to you this
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  Speaker 6: morning to remind you that you are not so unstable,
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  Speaker 6: that you are not so unemploying, that you have so much.
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  Speaker 5: Going for you.
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  Speaker 6: Realizing that it could be worse, y'all, say thank you,
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  Speaker 6: y'all to tell God today that I appreciate you God
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  Speaker 6: for waking me up, giving.
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  Speaker 1: Me whatever measure of health, that I still have the
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  Speaker 1: ability to get it right. And another chance at it.
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  Speaker 6: That's how we started on the Steve Harvey Morning Show,
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  Speaker 6: and we invite you to do the same. Shirley Strawberry,
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  Speaker 6: calin Frail, Mississippi, Monica, the comeback here kid Junior and
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  Speaker 6: the legend that is Nephew Tommy. Uh Junior got your
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  Speaker 6: head on tight today and your eyes is love opened up.
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  Speaker 1: So how you doing day? I'm doing great?
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  Speaker 8: Ut Is asked something, Yes, sir, if you can change
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  Speaker 8: anything that's happened to you on your road to success,
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  Speaker 8: would you change anything or would you just keep it
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  Speaker 8: the way it was?
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  Speaker 9: Would you change it?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I would.
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  Speaker 6: I would have loved to have changed some stuff when
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  Speaker 6: it was happening to me. But as I look back
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  Speaker 6: on it, I realized what it was and it kind
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  Speaker 6: of really makes a whole lot of sense of what
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  Speaker 6: as I've matured and I look back on it. You know,
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  Speaker 6: this is sort of cliche, but everything that happened to
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  Speaker 6: you happens to you in the perfect order that it
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  Speaker 6: needs to happen and needed in order for you to
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  Speaker 6: be who you are.
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  Speaker 1: Today and where you are today.
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  Speaker 6: And if you are not completely where you want to
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  Speaker 6: be today, it is simply because you are still in
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  Speaker 6: the process. It's some lesson that you haven't gotten that life,
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  Speaker 6: the universe, God Almighty is trying to get you to see, but.
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  Speaker 1: You keep holding on. You keep holding on to old
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  Speaker 1: ways and old.
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  Speaker 6: Things and that present that prevent some sorry, that prevents
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  Speaker 6: the blessing from happening. You have got in order. I
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  Speaker 6: learned this from Bishop Jays. In order to get to
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  Speaker 6: the next level, you got to break through a glass ceiling.
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  Speaker 6: Anytime you break through glass and glass shatters, that will
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  Speaker 6: be blood shed. And the blood you shed usually has
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  Speaker 6: to be something that you care about. Sometimes you got
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  Speaker 6: to let certain friends go to move to the next level.
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  Speaker 6: Sometimes you got to put in a phone call to
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  Speaker 6: the family and just say, hey, it ain't happening like
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  Speaker 6: this no more and move on. Sometimes, man, you just
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  Speaker 6: got to leave certain relationships that you've been in. There's
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  Speaker 6: relationships that can hold you back. So you know, man,
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  Speaker 6: I've learned through looking back on it all that everything
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  Speaker 6: happened to me. It kind of makes sense what God did. Now,
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  Speaker 6: what do I wish I could have skipped it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? I do.
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  Speaker 6: But and that's not how you get that ain't how
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  Speaker 6: you get tested. I didn't like all the tests. I
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  Speaker 6: thought they were so unnecessary.
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  Speaker 1: I just slack.
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  Speaker 10: It makes sense.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, god, you're tripping. This is really going way too
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  Speaker 6: long now, So that's my honest answer, Junior.
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  Speaker 1: That's right.
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  Speaker 6: I would rather have gone through I went through and
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  Speaker 6: be who I am than to not have gone through
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  Speaker 6: what I went through and be somewhere else.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that was good, all right, thank you.
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  Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty two minutes after be our we
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  Speaker 10: will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank
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  Speaker 10: now for the nephew to run that prank back? What
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  Speaker 10: you got for his nept what's happening?
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  Speaker 3: Sure?
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  Speaker 1: I got it for you.
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  Speaker 5: This right here is Valentine's gift card. Valentine's gift card.
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  Speaker 5: All right, we're gonna I sent a gift card to
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  Speaker 5: this lady, but I sent her my wife's gift card,
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  Speaker 5: and so I need to get that one back and
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  Speaker 5: give her the gift card that I have for huh.
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  Speaker 5: In order to do all this, I gotta talked to
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  Speaker 5: a husband so he can help me do this. You
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean, Because I mean, you know it's
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  Speaker 5: about to lake. Let's take care of the ladies.
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  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying, Gonna go.
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  Speaker 1: Teamwork. It makes the dream work. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: We gotta keep these ladies. It's not you got to
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  Speaker 5: keep you ladies happy. Don't let you emotions get into it. Yeah, man,
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  Speaker 5: come on, you gotta look beyond all of that. Man,
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  Speaker 5: come on, all right, This right is Valentine's gift called
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  Speaker 5: Let's go catch down.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, I'm trying to reach Bryce. Ye Hey, Bryce, how
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  Speaker 1: you doing?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 1: My name is Alvin bro. How you doing today?
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  Speaker 4: What's up?
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  Speaker 3: Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Listen? I know you you you married Trisha Ja Tricia
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  Speaker 1: right to Trice.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, who's this okay?
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  Speaker 5: Like I said, yeah, my name is Alvin, and I'm
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  Speaker 5: just trying to make sure I got the right person, man,
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  Speaker 5: because you you have black half white, right from what
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  Speaker 5: I understand.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm half like, who who the prinsidente? Why? Why
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  Speaker 4: are you asking me questions? What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, everything's cool, man, everything's cool, Uh, Trish, So check
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  Speaker 1: this out.
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  Speaker 4: Man, Okay, listen, I got to say at work, man,
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  Speaker 4: say what you need to say. What's happening?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I actually dently. I said.
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  Speaker 5: I said, tricer some flowers for Valentine's They gonna get
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  Speaker 5: there on Friday. But I accidentally put a you know,
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  Speaker 5: I ordered a gift card along with it, and they
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  Speaker 5: put this gift card in Tricia's gift bag, and really
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  Speaker 5: that's that gift card should.
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  Speaker 1: Really be for my wife.
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  Speaker 5: And I was trying to see if maybe if you
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  Speaker 5: get to the gift bag before, maybe you could get
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  Speaker 5: it out for me so I could get that gift card.
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  Speaker 4: Oh okay, so you said, you said my wife flowers
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  Speaker 4: form Valentine's Day?
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  Speaker 1: Right? You know what I'm saying yeah, yeah, but that's
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  Speaker 1: not the key. The key is is that it's a
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  Speaker 1: gift card in there.
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  Speaker 3: That I need.
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  Speaker 4: You know, that's accident, say a gift card to my wife.
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  Speaker 4: You just want the flowers to go to Earth?
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  Speaker 1: What you're saying, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I said the flowers.
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  Speaker 4: Man, Yeah, no problem, No, yeah, that's cool man. I'm said,
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  Speaker 4: this happens, and we make mistakes all the time. How
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  Speaker 4: about this? How about you come out over and I
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  Speaker 4: will be more than happy to give you the gift
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  Speaker 4: card because I'm sure you know if you're saying with
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  Speaker 4: the flowers all, I'll just have to hand those a
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  Speaker 4: gift card over to you and probably a nice uh
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  Speaker 4: spaeding to you. Stupid up, Why in the would you
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  Speaker 4: ever call me about this?
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  Speaker 3: Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Man? And I didn't expect all this hotale an.
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  Speaker 3: Hostility, Hey brou All I'm trying to do is like
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  Speaker 3: I said, I ain't bro what do you mean you're doing?
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  Speaker 4: You didn't think there's gonna be hostile? You send my flowers?
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  Speaker 4: But how do you even know my way?
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  Speaker 3: How do you know Tresh?
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: How do you know Tresh?
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  Speaker 1: I work in I work in the building with that
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  Speaker 1: Trish works in.
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  Speaker 4: Do you work with her? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Good, I don't work I.
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  Speaker 5: Don't work with her. I don't work for her company
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  Speaker 5: at all. But my my, you know, my floor is
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  Speaker 5: on a different floor. I work in a different company,
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  Speaker 5: but she works. She works in the same building. So yeah, dude,
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  Speaker 5: I'm just trying to get the gift card. Man, I
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  Speaker 5: ain't even trying to trip dude, I ain't.
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  Speaker 4: So uh let me So, you sent some flowers. When
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  Speaker 4: the flower is going to be here? What time the
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  Speaker 4: flowers is supposed to be here?
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  Speaker 1: The flowers getting there sometime Friday, I'm all Valentine.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, on Valentine's Day? Okay, good, good, So how about
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  Speaker 4: you come down here on Friday? Okay? And uh, I
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  Speaker 4: will give the flowers the trash, and I will give
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  Speaker 4: you the gift cards. And you mentioned if I was
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  Speaker 4: half black or half white, and I'll go ahead and
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  Speaker 4: let you know that both sides are gonna beat your mother,
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  Speaker 4: because you got to be the most ignorant mother I've
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  Speaker 4: ever met.
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  Speaker 1: In my gut.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't care if you're green, blue, yellow, lavender.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what the you are, but you are
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  Speaker 4: the dumbest piece of sh I've ever met you come
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  Speaker 4: here Friday. You come here and you're getting your wife
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  Speaker 4: will get her great gift card, and my wife will
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  Speaker 4: get your flowers and everybody's gonna be happy.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, dude, what's what's all this about?
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  Speaker 4: Man? Okay? So have you gone an hour? Trans? Are
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  Speaker 4: you guys wanting for lunch or you know, maybe a movie?
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  Speaker 4: Or I mean, how much? How much time have you
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  Speaker 4: spent with my wife?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't spend no time with her?
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  Speaker 4: Why are you sad hering that? What do you mean
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  Speaker 4: you ain't spend no time with her? How you you
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  Speaker 4: seem to know all about her? You haven't gone out
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  Speaker 4: one time with my wife? No, So you just have
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  Speaker 4: a crush on my wife? Is that what you're trying
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  Speaker 4: to say? And you you just actually send them both
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  Speaker 4: to her? Is that what's caught?
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  Speaker 5: ID accidently send the flower I sent because I wanted
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  Speaker 5: her to house.
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  Speaker 1: She's a pretty she's a pretty lady.
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  Speaker 5: I wanted her to have the flowers, but I didn't
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  Speaker 5: want her to but I didn't want her to have
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  Speaker 5: my wife's gift card?
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  Speaker 4: Though? What did you think I was gonna be there?
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: How did you think? How did the in your get crazy?
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  Speaker 4: Bush mine. Did you think this this was gonna be? Okay?
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  Speaker 4: What if I called you right now? I'm like, hey,
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: I set your wife o uh can you send it
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: back to me? How would you feel if I did
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: the same to you?
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: Well, I mean you're talking about something different from flowers
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: and that's same lot.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: That sounds like a little bit offensive.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: Don't you think, oh, oh, that's the pens? Yeah? Man,
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: you know, I'm sorry. Albert, You're is Albert.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Is not Albert's Alvin. It's Alvin, man, it's Alvi.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: I don't give us whether it is Alvin. Come see
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  Speaker 4: me on Friday. I'm gonna have your gift card and
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: I'm super excited to meet you. This is this is
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: gonna be the best Valentine's Day of my life. Come
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  Speaker 4: visit me.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: You sent the flowers to the house, right, I got
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: to address that Tommy gave me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Who is Tommy?
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: He the one gave me the address. He the one
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: told me Tommy.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: Come. How about you and Tommy come over to the house.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: We'll have a We'll have a guys now, I'll put
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: it on a game. We're gonna have some pretzel. Why
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: don't you folk come over here?
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, but why wow? Why wow? The hostility when somebody's
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: showing your wife some d dude.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: No, there's no hostility whatsoever that you hear hostile. I
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: just invited you and your boy Tommy to come to
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: my house. That's not hostiles. I'm being hospitable. That's what
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: it is. It's hospitable. Come see me, come see me.
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: Okay, So let me ask you something. Man, don't you
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: take don't you drop Trish off to work every morning?
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah? I do what I do?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: Now, like when y'all when y'all riding to work, ain't
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: y'all listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: This is not the Steve Harry Bow.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: This is Nephew till Me. Baby.
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: Come on, Bryce, this is Nephew till Me from the
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: Steve Harby mon Show. Your wife Trish got me the
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  Speaker 5: pray phone call you hold run bro.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no way. Oh now I'm back. I'm fisted again.
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: And now I'm going through so many emotions right now.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: I'm like who this? Oh?
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Oh man, I am boily holy, she's gonna pay for
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: this one.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: You got to tell me, Bryce, what is the baddest
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  Speaker 5: And I mean the baddest radio show in the lane, right.
• 21:28
  Speaker 10: Nephew, thank you. Coming up next to ask the CLO
• 21:31
  Speaker 10: or Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after.
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  Speaker 10: Our special guest has been on the front lines of
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  Speaker 10: some of the most notable cases of civil rights injustices ever,
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  Speaker 10: and it is Attorney Benjamin Crump. He's joining us to
• 22:26
  Speaker 10: promote his new novel Worse Than a Lie. Ben Crump
• 22:29
  Speaker 10: is coming up at the top of the hour, but
• 22:32
  Speaker 10: right now it is time to ask the CLO our
• 22:35
  Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey Ready Colo, Yes, Shell in Chicago, Rights,
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  Speaker 10: i am a wedding singer and I've made a career
• 22:44
  Speaker 10: out of it. I'm datting a new guy. And he said,
• 22:47
  Speaker 10: if he were to introduce me to his friends, what
• 22:50
  Speaker 10: should he say that I do for a living? Does
• 22:52
  Speaker 10: that mean he doesn't take my career seriously?
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Was that rude?
• 22:57
  Speaker 6: Well, it wasn't rude. He just he wants to know
• 22:59
  Speaker 6: what I mean. You know, it's like, hey man, I'm
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: dating this girl. Yeah, she's a wedding singer.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: You know, I like if you told me that about
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: your girl, you said, hey man, I'm dating It's gonna
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: laugh a little bit on your side because I know
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: she can't not sing that good because you and your
• 23:16
  Speaker 6: sixties and still just a way in the singer and
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: that pretty much cruise that you that you ain't.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: A nightclub singer. You ain't no cavern sing or you
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: ain't what's the difference.
• 23:28
  Speaker 10: I know, I'm trying to night clar to follow your
• 23:30
  Speaker 10: logic here. It's her career. She just sings it wedding.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Okay. Well you know, ladies, Oh, I'm sorry, y'all's not
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: feeling it.
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: Y'all asked me, I don't really know how to respond,
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: be honest with you, I don't know how to respond.
• 23:50
  Speaker 10: Can't He just said, what's wrong with him? Saying she's
• 23:52
  Speaker 10: a wedding singer, that's what she's asking.
• 23:55
  Speaker 6: Let me ask you all the questions and all the
• 23:58
  Speaker 6: years you've been on this person. No, Liam, do you
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: know anybody? No make a living?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: No saying that way? How many people you know? Getting
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: mad because we don't don't very Rarey.
• 24:14
  Speaker 6: Do you see a person on the a woman on
• 24:16
  Speaker 6: their biggest day that they loved and waited all go
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: call somebody they don't know, just going in and net
• 24:22
  Speaker 6: and go, I'm gonna get away in.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: The same most people hire somebody they know that the same.
• 24:27
  Speaker 9: Before and all this here throwing out request.
• 24:30
  Speaker 6: Unless all of her request is are you know worrid
• 24:32
  Speaker 6: of mouth? She sang a stone in mouth?
• 24:35
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean she's made a career of it, so
• 24:38
  Speaker 10: I don't know, all right, Moving on to Russell and
• 24:40
  Speaker 10: Dan Burry.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Russell right, my wife is a.
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: Great dancer, and I can't dance at all. I have
• 24:48
  Speaker 10: two left feet. She was lying dancing at a house
• 24:50
  Speaker 10: party and one of my partners had his hands on
• 24:53
  Speaker 10: her waist from the back. I didn't like it, but
• 24:56
  Speaker 10: she said it's part of the dance. Do I let
• 24:59
  Speaker 10: this live?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:01
  Speaker 6: Dog, I mean it's part of the dance. You don't
• 25:04
  Speaker 6: you can't dance it's it could be a part of
• 25:08
  Speaker 6: the dance. There are some dancing now, Clo.
• 25:11
  Speaker 10: They're they're line dancing. A man is behind her with
• 25:14
  Speaker 10: his hands on her waist from the back.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: So you're okay with that?
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: They don't do that in line dance. Yeah, you ain't
• 25:28
  Speaker 6: got no partner in line dance.
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: You change your exchange your answers, the hello, yes, that
• 25:36
  Speaker 9: to me a line dance?
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I dances all yeah. The person in front of you
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: just that's just because you done got caught up. You
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: didn't make that turn. You get out of your way,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: all right?
• 25:51
  Speaker 10: You can't do it all right now that you're okay.
• 25:55
  Speaker 10: Moving on to Consuela and Marshall, Uh, Consuela writes, I
• 26:00
  Speaker 10: have a problem with my dentist. He said he couldn't
• 26:03
  Speaker 10: focus on my mouth for looking at my chest. I
• 26:07
  Speaker 10: should have checked him, but I didn't be Cnzuela wants
• 26:10
  Speaker 10: to know is it too late to tell him it's inappropriate.
• 26:15
  Speaker 6: Well, no, it's never too late to tell a person
• 26:18
  Speaker 6: it's appropriate, because you got to go back to the dentist.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so no, it's not.
• 26:24
  Speaker 6: It's not inappropriate. I think he gonna get the message
• 26:27
  Speaker 6: real quick. Yeah, yeah, but I don't know why he
• 26:32
  Speaker 6: said that. He done, but but he thought you was
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: feeling him, that's why he said it. But I'm gonna
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: tell you something else too, though. The two things can
• 26:40
  Speaker 6: happen there free work either either you gonna get either
• 26:45
  Speaker 6: you gonna get bumped off the schedule, and he gonna
• 26:48
  Speaker 6: quit looking at your mouth.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Oh you shouldn't get a whole new set of free teeth.
• 26:54
  Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, she definitely should to tell him though.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: That was.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Well anyway, I can't feat your mouth causing your chip.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Who says that?
• 27:09
  Speaker 10: Yeah, not not a professional God made.
• 27:13
  Speaker 6: You're backing them chairs and things going up under your chair, and.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I said, girl, that's crazy. Yeah, can you say.
• 27:22
  Speaker 6: Your chess right up under your mouth? Ain't no where
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: to wear a locking focus change Dennis?
• 27:29
  Speaker 11: Please?
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 27:30
  Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, Last one, Clo, last one. Charlie and
• 27:36
  Speaker 10: Long Long Beach says, I slept with a younger woman
• 27:39
  Speaker 10: that lives in my complex. We were both drunk and
• 27:42
  Speaker 10: it just happened. I want to pursue a relationship with her,
• 27:47
  Speaker 10: but she has a boyfriend. Can a one night stand
• 27:50
  Speaker 10: turn into a relationship? And should I tell her how
• 27:55
  Speaker 10: I feel?
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: Of course it can turn into a relationship, of course
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: it can. And should you tell her how you feel?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Yes, you shouldn't.
• 28:05
  Speaker 10: But even though she has a boyfriend and it just happened.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Hold on, hold, she had boyfriend before you slept you
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: That ain't stopping. Yeah, but I don't see how this
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: is the part that disturbs me.
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: I don't see how a person says, we got drunk
• 28:26
  Speaker 6: and it just happened, but right after it happened, I
• 28:29
  Speaker 6: want to tell her how much I care about her,
• 28:32
  Speaker 6: and I know she got a boyfriend.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Do you think a one nice thing can happen? So
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: you wasn't that drunk dog? Yeah, okay, you can't drunken car.
• 28:44
  Speaker 6: You saw this girl in the complex before, you've had
• 28:48
  Speaker 6: some conversations with her. That's how you knew she was
• 28:51
  Speaker 6: dating somebody. Y'all got drunk. Y'all got drunk, did what
• 28:55
  Speaker 6: you wanted to do? Okay, cool deal? Afterwards, Now you
• 28:57
  Speaker 6: then caught feelings you wouldn't that drunk go.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: On to tel drunk?
• 29:02
  Speaker 10: How did they get to the drunk party?
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: You know how the complex store party?
• 29:08
  Speaker 10: Oh okay, uh huh yeah and the complex through a party.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: And it's crazy.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm to finish. I ain't been in an apart
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: minute so long. It's been a long time, I said.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: But I was throwing it out there hoping you' always say.
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but no.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: Party, I thought.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: I thought you said, yes, they do that all you
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: have been long at the complex party?
• 29:36
  Speaker 10: What I wanted to know your I wanted to hear
• 29:39
  Speaker 10: your take for sure.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: But drinking his coffee after he said it, like, nailed.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: It, nailed it, I said, where there we were asking
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: to what you were gonna behind the complex party? What CP?
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: They try to put the flyers out so you can
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: reach your neighbors, you know, get to know each other.
• 30:10
  Speaker 11: Right.
• 30:13
  Speaker 6: They don't have them real food there because the lady
• 30:15
  Speaker 6: at the lease an office stewart.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: With them tooth picks in it, you feel.
• 30:22
  Speaker 10: Coming up next of the box, we have very special
• 30:26
  Speaker 10: interviews with the one and only Benjamin Crump. Right after this,
• 30:30
  Speaker 10: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:37
  Speaker 6: Hey, y'all, listen, we got a special guest this morning.
• 30:40
  Speaker 6: I told you he's family. He's my frat brother. He's
• 30:44
  Speaker 6: one of the fighters that's on the front line of
• 30:48
  Speaker 6: civil rights and justice for all people. But he is
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: what we consider the trial lawyer of our time. He had,
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: he's probably the most sought of the civil rights attorney
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  Speaker 6: of present day. And like I said, he's just been
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: on the front lines of some of the most notable
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: cases of civil rights and justice.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: But he's also now here's the deal, folks, he's a
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: new author.
• 31:14
  Speaker 6: His debut novel is worse than a lie, and he's
• 31:19
  Speaker 6: joining us and tell us about it. Please, welcome to
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: the show, my dog attorney, Benjamin Crump.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Yessah, yeah.
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: In morning, Shirley, Timy Calor, y'all. I miss y'all so much.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Morning.
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: You know, Steve Harvey, I just thought about it when
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: I first came on your show. The first time was
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: with Trayvon Martin in twenty twelve. Man, it's been almost
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: fifteen years. You've been rocking with me and support me, brother,
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: and I just want to say thank you.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, man, were in this together. I appreciate the way
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  Speaker 6: you are. You are fearless man. You ain't scared of nobody,
• 32:02
  Speaker 6: nobody and nothing.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: And that's what I love about you. Man.
• 32:06
  Speaker 6: So anytime you need me, I'm here now, like today,
• 32:09
  Speaker 6: and I check this out. Now, we got to talk
• 32:11
  Speaker 6: about something different because you are offer now.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, Well, this.
• 32:16
  Speaker 6: Book that you've come out with, it's a legal thriller.
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: It's called Worse Than a Lie. It's about an attorney
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: named Boli Cooper who seeks to uncover the truth about
• 32:28
  Speaker 6: black ex police officer after black police officer Hollis Montrose
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: is wrongfully imprisoned after a brutal, racially charged traffic stop
• 32:38
  Speaker 6: in Chicago.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you a question.
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: Does Bolei Cooper reflect the values that influence your career.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: Shave in so many ways when you think about what
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: happened in this novel. I was trying to create a
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: legal thriller, civil rights legal thriller, much in the way
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: like John Grisham, The Rainmaker, Michael Conley, the Lincoln Lawyer,
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: even back to Perry Mason Shirley, with Earl Standard Gardener writing,
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: these leagal thrillers engage us. And so it had never
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: been Steve Harvey where we had a black superhero trial
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: lawyer in these books. And so what I endeavored to
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: do was to create a scenario where we introduced Bodley
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: Cooper and created this franchise with a black superhero lawyer
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: to engage us, entertain us, but more importantly educate us.
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: And so that's what we've been doing with this book. Steven.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: It's been getting rave reviews.
• 33:39
  Speaker 6: Well, that's interesting, man, because I was wondering what your
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: inspiration for the book was. So you just told us
• 33:45
  Speaker 6: that's that's something I would have never thought. But let
• 33:48
  Speaker 6: me ask you this man in the book. The book
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: is entitled Worse Than a Lie. There's a contrast in
• 33:56
  Speaker 6: the book of Barack Obama two thousand and eighty election
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: and the tragedy of Hollis Montrose shooting.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: How's that all put together?
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, Steve, I was being intentional about creating
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: this allegory, using you know, symbolic characters, settings and events
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: to create, you know, literally a thought provoking concept. With
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: the election of the first black president in America, this
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: moment of hope, this moment of destiny, and then on
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: that very night you have this black police officer, Hollis
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: Montrose shot ten times by four white police officers, and
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: it makes the reader ask the question, now that we've
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: elected a black president, are we really living in a
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: post racial America? And it is one of those things,
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: Steve that even in the chapter preceding the shooting in
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: the book, Attorney Bullie Cooper is talking to his wife
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: and he said, when he was on the plane coming
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: home that a white gentleman said to him, you a
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: civil rights law. It seems like you're gonna have to
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: change your profession now that we got a black president,
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: because they won't be any more civil rights fishers. And
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: you know, it was foreshadowing, really, Steve, because you think
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: about the pushback to the election as the first black
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: president and what we're dealing with in America today. So
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: not only was I trying to create a legal thriller,
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: but I wanted it to be a historical footnote for America.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: And that's why I think we're getting such raive reviews.
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: And it's fill of so much fuzz because you think
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: about what's going on in America today, and the book
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: is a preachy, but you have the characters doing the
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: trials talking about, you know, president and still we're dealing
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: with these issues.
• 36:03
  Speaker 6: Hey man, this ain't in none of the talking points
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: out and read or nothing like this. But let me
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: ask you a question, man, was Bowley Cooper your all
• 36:11
  Speaker 6: to ego? Yeah, that's what I see.
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: Well, there's a lot of similarities, man, but he's a
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: fictional character for a lot of similarities. And I will
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: tell you this, Stave, the real reason I started writing
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: these books. I wanted to create this franchise with Surrogod
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: Marsha is my personal hero, and he once said that
• 36:41
  Speaker 4: most people would never know what actually happens in a
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: courtroom while you're fighting for the constitutional rights and the
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: liberties of marginalized people. So he would always write his
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: legal memos and his brief to be engaged, Jim, because
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: you wanted to engage people, to be able to learn,
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: and what could be more engaging than a legal thrill though?
• 37:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah, hey man, Hey, hey crump, stay right there. We
• 37:14
  Speaker 6: will come back more. Tell you all how y'all can
• 37:16
  Speaker 6: get your hands on this book. Right after this, Steve
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  Speaker 6: Benjamin Crump, and we're talking about a new project. He's
• 38:15
  Speaker 6: been working on and finished his debut novel. It's called
• 38:18
  Speaker 6: Worse Than a Lie. He's joining us, we're talking about it.
• 38:21
  Speaker 6: What we found out through listening to him in the
• 38:24
  Speaker 6: previous break is that the main character Bowley Cooper is
• 38:30
  Speaker 6: to me, to me, this is Benjamin Crump.
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  Speaker 1: With a kpe on. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 4: The lawyer.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, hey, listen, go ahead, go ahead, Crump. What you're
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: gonna say I.
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  Speaker 4: Want to tell you to and I tell you so
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  Speaker 4: many times. You aspire me in a lot of ways.
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: And even writing this book, you inspired me because what
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: you do every night with Family Few is what I'm
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: trying to do with this novel. You engage people by
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: entertaining them, and then they are educated. I can't tell
• 39:19
  Speaker 4: you how much I learned live watching Family Few, laughing
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: with you, but really learning about different categories and different things.
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: And so that's what I endeavor to do. I you know,
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: we all predict they're already starting to talk about the
• 39:34
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• 39:40
  Speaker 4: we want to be able to engage people, educate them,
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  Speaker 4: and that is the biggest thing.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: If I can have young people be inspired to.
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  Speaker 4: Be civil rights lawyers the way you know, to Kill
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  Speaker 4: a Mockingbird thead for me when I was a little
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: in those Parent of Mason TV shows I used to
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: watch with my grandmother and now, well you know John Grisham,
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  Speaker 4: Lincoln lawyer, and all of this stuff inspiring young people
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: because God knows we need civil rights lawyers in America today.
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  Speaker 6: Wow, we brother listen to me, man, we know it's
• 40:15
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  Speaker 6: book debuts on the seventeenth of February, which is next Tuesday.
• 40:24
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  Speaker 1: And let's make this a hit.
• 40:45
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• 40:49
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• 40:53
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• 40:56
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• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Feel that coratulations. Yeah, appreciate you. I'll let you love it.
• 41:08
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• 41:13
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• 41:14
  Speaker 10: All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 41:16
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• 41:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve.
• 41:20
  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Tommy, Happy Black History
• 41:28
  Speaker 10: Month to you. We all know it's Black History Month, blessed. Okay, yeah,
• 41:33
  Speaker 10: so you have something special for us? What do you
• 41:35
  Speaker 10: and Tommy you know there are something?
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah, sir, I'm sorry that there are some things about
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: black history you know that we don't know, and you
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: know it's I've taken up on deliberty by myself to
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: just be the person to bring you all the black
• 41:46
  Speaker 5: history news. You know, stuff that you don't know that
• 41:49
  Speaker 5: you ever heard about, that you should know.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: So let me give you this one. This one was
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: this This one was not that long ago.
• 41:56
  Speaker 12: This was January twenty ninth, nineteen, January twenty nine, twenty nineteen.
• 42:02
  Speaker 12: January twenty nine, twenty nineteen, at two o'clock in the morning.
• 42:08
  Speaker 12: This was the first time, the first time that a
• 42:13
  Speaker 12: man whooped his own behind. Do you understand what I'm saying?
• 42:18
  Speaker 12: This was January twenty nineteen, twenty nineteen. Let me tell
• 42:21
  Speaker 12: you what happened. He attacked himself.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: He did that.
• 42:26
  Speaker 5: He did that, He used slurs and cuss himself out.
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: He just cussed himself, moved out. You understand. He poured
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: bleach on himself. He did that, and then he put
• 42:37
  Speaker 5: a noose around his neck.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: He did that. January twenty ninth, twenty nineteen.
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: Justice Schmolett was the first person who was ever to
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: beat his own behind, ever tried to beat his own behind.
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: I'm just trying to tell you that's what happened. That
• 42:54
  Speaker 5: is the Black history the time that bringing y'all this morning.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, goodness, it was nineteen.
• 43:03
  Speaker 5: It was twenty nineteen, two o'clock in the morning. That's
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: when it all went down. He cussed himself out. He uh,
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: he beat himself. He poured bleach on him, and then
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: he put that noose around his neck and tried to Yeah. Yeah,
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: his first time justice won't letter has made history. January
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: twenty nine, twenty nineteen, two o'clock in the morning, first
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: one ever.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: White people too? Turn me, didn't he blame it on
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: some white people.
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: Blame it on two African dudes, yes, yeah, and some
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: white folk. He blamed it on a lot of people
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: that night.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And let me let you know. This was out
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: in front of subway. What does that happen?
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: Well, just just you know, there's always some food nearby.
• 43:43
  Speaker 5: You just want to let it know, you know.
• 43:46
  Speaker 10: And this deserves a Black History Month mentioned because what
• 43:50
  Speaker 10: he's the.
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: First time, this is his this first time to set
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: that black maid, tried to beat his own self up.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Why why it is?
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: What's up?
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Big dog? I would like to introduce a moment of
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: black history. If y'all don't mind, come on at your show, sir.
• 44:06
  Speaker 6: We made people know in nineteen sixty one. Yeah, what's
• 44:12
  Speaker 6: the year that miss Pearl Jackson? Uh huh discovered that
• 44:19
  Speaker 6: even though it was not cheese, thel Veta made the
• 44:25
  Speaker 6: best grilled cheese, saying which in the world. In nineteen
• 44:29
  Speaker 6: sixty one, Pearl Jackson discovered that history we made what
• 44:34
  Speaker 6: there you go? Well, let's let's stay with me, big dog.
• 44:39
  Speaker 6: It was nineteen sixty nine.
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: Roderick Wilson was the first child to have to walk
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: to school with vasolene all over his face. It was
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: Rodrick Wilson, the first one that his mama they ran
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: out of losit then she put vasilyine completely all over
• 44:55
  Speaker 5: his faith and he was slippery the whole day at school.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Yes, he was.
• 44:59
  Speaker 5: That was Rodrick Wilson, the first child with basine tradition.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: That was a tradition.
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: I have to beg to differ. Okay, okay, not but
• 45:10
  Speaker 6: I broadery. What's the first child to walk to school
• 45:16
  Speaker 6: with vascino his face? And that happened six not by that?
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: Do that?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Are we letting it go? This morning? Happy?
• 45:28
  Speaker 10: Three months?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Can I just say one. I got one. I have
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: to say this. It was the It was year seven
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: a D.
• 45:36
  Speaker 9: Year seven eight seven a D was the first time
• 45:41
  Speaker 9: when the Lord fed the multitude with two sisions five low.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 45:46
  Speaker 9: Perseus was the first one to go back for seconds.
• 45:48
  Speaker 9: Can I get another piece of that fish?
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: He went back and boughted the Lord for a second.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Can I get another piece of that fish? That's just
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: greed first seven a D. I remember that? You remember that?
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 46:03
  Speaker 10: I don't know what else to say, but happy Black
• 46:05
  Speaker 10: History Month if you will.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: What is history?
• 46:07
  Speaker 10: Yeah, listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up next.
• 46:12
  Speaker 10: It is a nephew and a prank phone call. Right
• 46:15
  Speaker 10: after Lord, We'll give you, We'll give you what ain't
• 46:17
  Speaker 10: in the book. Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 46:20
  Speaker 10: Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after the hour.
• 46:28
  Speaker 10: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
• 46:31
  Speaker 10: he gets to see the world, but we don't. We'll
• 46:35
  Speaker 10: get into that find out what that's all about in
• 46:37
  Speaker 10: just a few because right now it is time for
• 46:39
  Speaker 10: the next you and today's prank phone call. Nephew, that's
• 46:44
  Speaker 10: on you.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: What you got? I got it. I got it, you know.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: I knee deep in this Valentine's thing right now. So
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: this is right here.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: This is Valentine's Day delivery. Okay, Valentine's Day delivery. Yeah, yesterday,
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: I think it was gift called This is right here
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: Valentie Day delivery.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: But this right here is uh.
• 47:04
  Speaker 5: I'm calling this man to let him know I'm the
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: delivery guy and I got a delivery for his wife.
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: But delivery is coming from her ex hub. Hello boy, Yeah,
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: let's get it spicy up in here. This is how
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: you see who loved who. That's how you said. Right here,
• 47:20
  Speaker 5: that's how you tell who really got love. Valentine's Day delivery.
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: Let's go catch dog.
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: Hello.
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: Hello, my name is Eric. I gotta give you guys
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: a call. I got a delivery. I gotta make there
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: tomorrow for Valentine's for who Kendra Kendre. Yeah, Kendre lives here.
• 47:41
  Speaker 13: That's my wife. But I didn't order. I didn't order
• 47:44
  Speaker 13: anything for her for her from Valentine's Day. I'm supposed
• 47:48
  Speaker 13: to be there between seven and seven point thirty. You
• 47:50
  Speaker 13: guys are first on my list tomorrow morning for Valentine
• 47:54
  Speaker 13: and I got like seven eight boxes here. That's uh,
• 47:57
  Speaker 13: that's coming to you all plays. So uh all right,
• 48:00
  Speaker 13: I can let me let me let me ask you
• 48:02
  Speaker 13: this you at west Don Is that you?
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's me? But uh again there's there must be
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: some clerical error typo because like I just told you, man,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: I didn't boxes and channa it's about seven boxes. But
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, just looking at the total here,
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: that adds up to about chick hunt or something dollars.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, I got flowers, no partner, We just gonna
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna take it to dinner and we're just
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: gonna do our thing. But there was there was There
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: was no delivery schedule from me enough, especially not at
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: at seven o'clock at no partner. You got it. If
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: there's something wrong, well you are you you're not gonna
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: be there? Are you not gonna be there tomorrow morning? Sir?
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm gonna be here. But uh, as far
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: as accepting a delivery that I didn't order and didn't
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: pay for, that's not happening.
• 48:53
  Speaker 13: Man.
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: Well let me tell you I got flowers, two boxes
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: that are lingerie, seven boxes that are sex toys. Well,
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: all that stuff. I have all that stuff.
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: Loaded to be delivered tomorrow at seven am. And dude,
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: obviously there's a communication breakdown between you and me player
• 49:13
  Speaker 4: because I didn't order that, and right, but but you
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: the But what the problem I'm having is that you're
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: telling me I have the right address. You know the
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: name of the person Kendrick, which is your wife. Right yeah, yeah,
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: so far so good man. But uh as far as
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: me ordering that, dude, I'm not.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not accepting it because I didn't pay
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: for it. I did not order. I mean, I mean
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: it's already, it's already paid. Let me let me just
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: look at the name here on the here is here
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: is right here. Okay, we got Devin.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: What would you say?
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: I said, Devon.
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: That's that's who made the purchase. Oh no, no, no, no, okay,
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: that's my wife's ex husband. So even you and him
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: are in cahoots with each other to do this and
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: try to upset me.
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: But guess what you succeeded. All right, So I'm.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: Gonna make this total. I listen to you. I listen
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: to you, so you listen to me. This is what
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: I want to make abundantly clear to you. I understand
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: you have a job to do. But if you bring
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: those roses and all of that stuff past my house tomorrow,
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: this is what's gonna happen. Those roses, those storms. I'm
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: gonna put them somewhere so far up your rear end
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: that the only way that they see sunshine is when
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: you open your mouth. So do not, I repeat, do not.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: You and Devin, y'all can take this and you can
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: do whatever y'all want with it. Y'all can play with
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: the sex toys. Y'all can do whatever you want to,
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: red roses, pedals and all that other stuff.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: Y'all can do what you need to do.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Not show up at my crib tomorrow, because it ain't
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: gonna be a happy Valentine's Day for nobody involved. That's
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: what I'm good.
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: Here's the deal.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: As a delivery person, I am obligated to make the drip.
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: I have to make this drive or then I don't
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: get you know, I get chewed out that I didn't
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: do my job, because that's up okay, So what would
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: what would you rather be twoed out or have throws
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: up your rear end. Let's hold out, let's load down in.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: What you're not gonna do is hold on, stoop in
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: the dow just some flexible you bring you bread? Okay,
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: all right, I won't do the flowers. I'll use the
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: sex toy for you. So you got a choice and
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: then you got flowers. You. Let's let me let me
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: say this with isaas be as professional as possible. You say,
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to be as cool as possible, but you
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: ain't listening to me. Do not bring it to every Okay,
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: you can drop them off at the curve, then you
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: get credit for and whoever walk past and up and
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: down the street they can pick it up. But do
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: not come to my front door and ring my doorbell
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: asking me to sign and accept nothing. It ain't have
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: to drop them off at the door, sir, No, I'm
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: telling you now, I gotta drop them off at the door.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: The problem I'm having is you telling me you're gonna
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: stick some flowers up my Now we got a problem.
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: Just listening to this whole scenario, I'm just curious. Is
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: it possible that maybe Devin does something for her that.
• 52:22
  Speaker 4: You don't do?
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: Hey?
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: Man, you what what's work? Where are you going at
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: with this? All I'm telling you is demand your business
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: and don't make this drop.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: Why am I doing whatever?
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: Is that? Den?
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: I'm that? Why am I gonna do this that Devon
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: has purchased for her? And if you need why don't
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: need to ask Devin because he bet and I show
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: his face up over here. You can take it home
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: and give it to you your girl if you want to.
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: I'm not giving my girl anything that I didn't buy
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: for her. I'm not doing that you think.
• 52:54
  Speaker 4: So if you if you're not gonna give your girl
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: anything that you didn't buy for her, why am I
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: gonna accept something for my girl? I didn't buy it
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: for her.
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: I ain't come home now telling you that you gotta
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: accept it. But I'm saying not remember it and you
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: bring out in my house, I gotta accept it. And
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you now, don't even bring it to my house.
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: Maybe maybe mister Devin know what she looks. She looks
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: like obviously she's gonna want him no more. She knows
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: me a head of the flower delivery person, just like
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: her ex husband. I'm needs boxing and mom whooping. That's
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: all I got to say. Two words for bringing that
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: someone whooping. So you might as well come on now
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: so you can go home after you get to that wooman. Okay, okay, okay,
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: let me let me say this. At the end of
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: the day, I'm gonna say this is Comley already told me, Yo,
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: she's gonna do something like this. He told me that.
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: Who'd you say?
• 53:44
  Speaker 4: Who the hell?
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: I already told me you was gonna act like this?
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Who the hell is Tommy? Nephew Timmy, Isaiah, this is
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: nephew Tommy for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And guess what, Isaiah,
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: your girl Kendrel got me the prank phone call you
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: you know what, you, Kendre. All of y'all can show
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: up tomorrow and all of y'all gonna get portions of
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: this talent times day. Well, oh, you got your brother
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: a chance to cool down?
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: Now, man, I.
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: To my sweet one and only Kindre, with all that
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: is in me, I love your baby girl to death.
• 54:29
  Speaker 4: Do us talk.
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: It almost came early, but I love you.
• 54:35
  Speaker 5: There it is that boy, now, that boy right there,
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: it's gonna get it one of these.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: Ranking ranking it's gonna be this year. Somebody gonna get
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: him this year. Hey, hey, you know what y'all always
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: talking about.
• 54:53
  Speaker 5: You know that somebody might run up on me it
• 54:55
  Speaker 5: might happen at the comedy club because nephew Tommy is
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: now Frank and live on stage. I have found the
• 55:01
  Speaker 5: technology and I know how to deal with now. So
• 55:03
  Speaker 5: when you come see me in West Nayak, bring your
• 55:06
  Speaker 5: little phone numbers because there's no telling who we might
• 55:08
  Speaker 5: be calling at the end of the show because we
• 55:10
  Speaker 5: leave it on a bang with a prank. So come
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: holl at your boy. We're pranking somebody. I might I
• 55:15
  Speaker 5: might need a little bit more security, but we're gonna
• 55:17
  Speaker 5: we're gonna be.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be. We're gonna be just we're gonna prank
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: somebody that's there.
• 55:22
  Speaker 5: No, somebody that's there is going to give me some
• 55:25
  Speaker 5: numbers and we're gonna call some of their friends.
• 55:28
  Speaker 9: Oh that's too bold, right, they know where you at.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew.
• 55:37
  Speaker 10: Coming up next it is my Strawberry Letter and the
• 55:40
  Speaker 10: subject is he gets to see the world, but we don't.
• 55:43
  Speaker 10: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Steve
• 55:47
  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for my Strawberry
• 55:54
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• 56:11
  Speaker 10: never know, it could be yours.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter.
• 56:19
  Speaker 10: Thank you nephew. Subject he gets to see the world,
• 56:23
  Speaker 10: but we don't hear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for
• 56:26
  Speaker 10: six years. When we got married, we already had a
• 56:29
  Speaker 10: twelve year old, and now we have a six year old.
• 56:32
  Speaker 10: When my husband and I argue, he loves to say
• 56:35
  Speaker 10: that he was pressured into getting married. I have let
• 56:38
  Speaker 10: it slide because I'm not letting him off the hook,
• 56:41
  Speaker 10: and he will forever take care of me and our
• 56:43
  Speaker 10: children because I didn't have them by myself. I did
• 56:47
  Speaker 10: insist that he married me when I got pregnant with
• 56:49
  Speaker 10: our second child. I do not care if it was
• 56:52
  Speaker 10: at a courthouse or not. I want my children to
• 56:55
  Speaker 10: live in a house with married parents, but they're still
• 56:58
  Speaker 10: not as privileged as their friends are. See, my husband
• 57:03
  Speaker 10: is a big wig at his job, and he goes
• 57:06
  Speaker 10: on fabulous work trips He's been to Africa, to Singapore, France,
• 57:11
  Speaker 10: and Brazil, and he won't allow me or the children
• 57:14
  Speaker 10: to go with him. He loves to brag about the
• 57:16
  Speaker 10: sweets that he stays in and sends the children pictures
• 57:20
  Speaker 10: of all the places he visits. When they ask him
• 57:23
  Speaker 10: if they can go with him, he says he's busy
• 57:25
  Speaker 10: the entire time and won't have time to go sight
• 57:29
  Speaker 10: seeing or spend any time with us on the trip.
• 57:32
  Speaker 10: All of my children's friends go on summer vacations, trips
• 57:35
  Speaker 10: for spring break, and they're out of town during the holidays.
• 57:40
  Speaker 10: But never mind the children. What about me the wife?
• 57:43
  Speaker 10: I have seen his coworkers' wives on trips with them,
• 57:46
  Speaker 10: at fancy dinners and on cruises. I feel like I'm
• 57:49
  Speaker 10: raising the children and not providing them any cultural outlet.
• 57:53
  Speaker 10: He gets to see the world, but we don't. He
• 57:55
  Speaker 10: resents me for having children. He resents me for having
• 57:59
  Speaker 10: the kids. That's plain and clear. He provides the money
• 58:02
  Speaker 10: for the family and that's all. Is it worth it
• 58:04
  Speaker 10: to stay with a self centered man? Well, yes, you
• 58:09
  Speaker 10: are right about that. He's very selfish, self self absorbed.
• 58:13
  Speaker 10: And if his coworkers are bringing their families on work, trips,
• 58:17
  Speaker 10: and he's not. It's pretty clear that he just doesn't
• 58:20
  Speaker 10: want you, guys to come. You say he's a big
• 58:23
  Speaker 10: wig down at the job. Well, what is the point
• 58:25
  Speaker 10: in having those kinds of perks and being a big
• 58:27
  Speaker 10: wig if you can't take your family and do some
• 58:31
  Speaker 10: of those things. Bring your wife and kids. You want
• 58:34
  Speaker 10: the kids to see their dad in action, to learn
• 58:37
  Speaker 10: from his example, not throwing it up in his face
• 58:40
  Speaker 10: then their faces like he does with the pictures and
• 58:43
  Speaker 10: all of that. I think your husband is immature. And
• 58:46
  Speaker 10: to answer your question about is it worth it to
• 58:49
  Speaker 10: stay with a self centered man? Only you can answer
• 58:52
  Speaker 10: that because you're in it and you're writing us, which
• 58:55
  Speaker 10: means you're unhappy. But the facts are as you described
• 58:59
  Speaker 10: him resent you for having the kids in the first place.
• 59:02
  Speaker 10: He says you pressured him into getting married. You guys,
• 59:06
  Speaker 10: never go on any family trips vacations. He doesn't take
• 59:10
  Speaker 10: you his wife anywhere, you said, and other than providing
• 59:14
  Speaker 10: the money for the family, he's not a very involved parent.
• 59:18
  Speaker 10: You and your husband need some therapy if you want
• 59:20
  Speaker 10: to save this marriage. But the problem is he probably
• 59:22
  Speaker 10: won't go to therapy because he'll be on a trip
• 59:25
  Speaker 10: somewhere you know it worked there, Steve.
• 59:28
  Speaker 6: Very good response, really absolutely excellent. I have a lot
• 59:33
  Speaker 6: of problems with this letter, but let's just dissect it
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: this way. You've been married for six years. When you
• 59:40
  Speaker 6: got married, you all already had a twelve year old,
• 59:44
  Speaker 6: and now you have a six year old. So you
• 59:48
  Speaker 6: did get married when you found out you were pregnant
• 59:51
  Speaker 6: the second time. And then when you all argue, you say,
• 59:56
  Speaker 6: he loves to throw it up in your face that
• 59:58
  Speaker 6: he was forced to.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: Marry you and pressured you, and.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 6: You know, and you've let it slide because you're not
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 6: gonna let him off the hook, and he will ever
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 6: take care of you and the children because you didn't
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 6: have them by yourself. Now, you insisted that this guy
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 6: marry you after you got pregnant with your second child. Now,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 6: I don't know what you did to insist that he
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 6: marry you, but as you should. You probably could have
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 6: did this same move twelve years ago too, but you didn't.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 6: That's whatever, That's just life. That's how it goes sometime.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 6: Ain't nobody perfect. You ain't gotta worry about that. You
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 6: didn't care if it was at the courthouse or not.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 6: You wanted the kids who grow up in the house
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 6: with married parents. But then you say they're not as
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 6: privileged as his other friends because your husband is a
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 6: big shot down at the job and he go on
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 6: trips all over the world Singapore, Africa, everything, France, Brazil,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 6: and he won't take you and the kids. But you
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 6: have seen pictures of him at fancy dinners and stuff,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 6: and the other wives is there. Okay, I've summed up
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 6: a lot, but he don't take you nowhere. He don't
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 6: take the kids nowhere. You've seen pictures of other wives
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 6: on these trips because you know what you're gonna wear. Singapore, Africa, Brazil.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 6: I want to go see some of them places. Most
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 6: husbands will take their wives on some of the trips.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 6: It just stands to reason you're bigger.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 13: Now.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 6: You say that he resents you from having kids. Okay,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 6: why I don't understand that part. He resents you from
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 6: having the kids. But yet and still, y'all do any
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 6: things that can produce a kid. The thing about this letter,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 6: y'all is Shirley pointed it out. You want to ask
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 6: the question that you asked at the bottom of the letter,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 6: is it worth it to stay with a self centered man,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 6: and Shirley's right. Only you can answer that because you
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 6: got married because you didn't want the kids growing up
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 6: in the house without married parents. You got that accomplished,
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 6: and now you want to go to some of the places,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 6: but he won't take you. I don't know how you
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 6: get a man to won't you. See that's the problem.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 6: I don't know how to tell you to make your
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 6: husband want you.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 10: All right, hang on, hang on, see we'll have part
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 10: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 10: after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject he gets to
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 10: see the world, but we don't. Right after this, you're
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• 1:03:34
  Speaker 10: come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 10: is he gets to see the world, but we don't what.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: I've decided to do with this letter to this woman
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 6: who's married to this man who's a big shot on
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 6: this job, and he travels a lot, goes to a
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 6: lot of exotic countries, seeing some amazing places. And they
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: have two children, one twelve and one six. She forced
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 6: him to marry him while she was pregnant with the
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 6: second child, so they've been married six years. She's upset
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 6: because when he goes on these trips, he never takes
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 6: her are the kids, But she has seen pictures of
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: some of these fancy dinners they go to and the
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: wives are there, and he sends pictures of these incredible
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 6: sweets that he's staying in and the kids, his own kids,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 6: are asking him can he go? Can they go with
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 6: him sometime? And because all the other friends that they got,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 6: they go on summer vacation's trips, on spring breaks and
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 6: they're out of town during the holidays.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: But she say, but never mind the children, what about me,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: the wife.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 6: I've seen his coworkers' wives on trips with them at
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 6: fancy dinners and all cruisers, and I feel like I'm
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 6: raising the children and not providing them any cultural outlet.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 6: You're not providing them any culture. I don't think that's
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 6: what it is. I think he want to go and
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 6: he don't want you to go. He gets to see
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 6: the world, but we don't. He resents to me for
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 6: having the kids. That statement throws me a little bit.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 6: He resents you for having the kids. Y'all got two kids.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 6: He was a willing participant in all of the makings
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 6: of those children. What you've got to know from health
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: class in elementary school that if you get together with
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: a woman and you do a certain thing, that a
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: certain thing can happen. That's just you know, they showed
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 6: a little sperm going up the canal and the egg
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: running and all this. He you know, millions of sperms
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 6: fighting their way through one of the more fascinating days
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 6: of school I ever went to. But now you got
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 6: these kids, and he provides the money for the family,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 6: and that's all.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: Is it worth it to stay with self? Center back?
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 6: So lady, here's a deal. What I want to do
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 6: is show you how you're being rejected. Shirley calm. I
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 6: want you all.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: You are the wife, I'm the husband.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 6: Come up with some famous places or things to go
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 6: see and I will tell you the response he's given
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 6: her where she want to go and their kids.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: So, wow, let's let's go see.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 10: Let's go see the ruins in Italy. You know that's
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 10: something to see the ruins. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the ruins.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 10: Uh huh.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 6: You're talking about the Roman Coliseum and all all of that, girl,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 6: So you gonna subject our children, yes, to such a
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 6: traumatic time in history. You mean to tell me you
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 6: want us to go over there and explain to our
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 6: children why these buildings are so raggedy and told, girl,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 6: we're not gonna put.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Them kids through that.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 11: Wow, go ahead, Carla. I've always wanted to go see
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 11: the Eiffel Tower. What a beautiful landmark. I want to
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 11: go to Paris.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 6: In Paris, you've watching the news you have with that
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 6: boycotting and protested and everything in pass Yeah, they piled up.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: What it's just it's it's it's just as bad as America.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: You're talking about Crescant Champagne. Paris, they protested, girl. I
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: mean you, it ain't you prop you.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 6: You can't even walk down the streets over here in
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 6: past and it's crowding. We be the lost one of
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 6: them kids, and you're gonna lose your mind if we
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 6: lose one of these kids. Come on, kids wander off
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 6: getting lost in parents, and we can't get no helc oat.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 6: We all up here talking about ketch can say ketch
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 6: can say, they don't even know what we saying.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 10: Girl, Wow, let's let's just okay. I mentioned Italy earlier.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 10: Let's go to Milan. Let's go see the Olympics.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: They're going long go to the Olympics.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 6: Yeah, cause you ain't no rooms over here available, all
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 6: the rooms took up by the Olympics.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: You can't come to Milan.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 13: Now.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: You waited too late for that trip right there? Did
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: that way too late?
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 13: Right here?
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: All right? Okay, what about this? Let's go to Japan.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: I always wanted to go to Japan. I've heard it's
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: so beautiful, so clean. The food? Oh please, can we
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: go to Japan Japanese food?
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: Eighty kids allergicushi? I think they're here. They're allergic to
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: fish and rice? What that's all they got over there?
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: They ain't got any fishing.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 10: Oh honey, I know you've been to the continent of Africa.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: I know you have.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 10: Okay, let's go back, Let's let's go visit.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: Oh so I see right now? You know is like
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 6: Now you want to sacrifice our children on a sabad
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 6: to some wild and anna a lot man? You be
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 6: walking over there and now wonder MANO was jump on
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 6: them kids? Not them kids is gone. I would never
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 6: put my family in a dangerous situation like that out
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 6: on the Survive with wild animals and everything.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: Girl, by where else? You want to go? Here the Amazon,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: the Amazon and get lost in all them bushes and
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: nail one of them apple condo snakes a hold of you.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: I'm not finished.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 6: Take my kids over here, all them paranas eating them
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 6: babies were trying to walk across the.
• 1:09:34
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  Speaker 1: what you got for us? All right?
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  Speaker 9: Unc, I know you've been watching to win the Olympics, man,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 9: I know you excited about it.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you the middle count right now. The
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: middle count that we have right now.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 9: Norway's one, Switzerland is two, Japan is three, Germany is four,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 9: and the USA is Fave's.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you why we got him now.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 6: First of all, liz On skated and skied and ain't
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 6: had no business skid because she had a torn a
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 6: c l and lifted her off the mountain. She's gonna
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 6: take her butt right back up on that mount now,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 6: she done broke that leg because the leg wasn't stable
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 6: she got so we feel bad for her. But her
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 6: little white friend and Becky white girl went on there
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 6: from America and won the Ladies Downhill for her and
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 6: God won it anyway. And there's a special piece of
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 6: news y'all didn't know. Haiti Haiti participated in the in
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 6: the in the cross country skiing and he finished, oh.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: The dead last. But where was he practice?
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 6: But just shout out to the mighty, mighty country of
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 6: Haiti for having a representative over here. In the Ladies
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 6: Giant slalomn freestyle of snowboarding, it was japan lady was
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 6: expected to win because she had won silver in the
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 6: past two World Games and the Olympics, but another white
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 6: girl from Sweden beat her on the last jump because
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 6: the Chinese. The Japanese girl felled twice on the same
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 6: rail at the top. As soon as she jumped on
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 6: the first rail, she felled two times.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: I said, you fight for your country.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 6: But she's also a supermodel and everything she poses for Vogue.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 6: So on the way down on the gondola, when they
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 6: was taking her back down here, they did her makeup
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 6: for the Vogue shoot, yeah, Doug, I watched one Olympics.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you hood to me and then let me
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: tell you something.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 6: She in college and she made twenty two million dollars
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 6: a year in endorsements outside of snowboarding. I don't know
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 6: riding body. Black kids of mine, no snowboard. They were young,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 6: couldn't save a whole lot of problems. Then next door
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 6: the list, like I said, a week ass out of
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 6: curly because they beats double.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: What happened?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 6: Dan't beat Italy, Dane beat Litho, wasansaon Wansa whatever that country? No,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 6: it ain't Lithuania's elector the country that we can't even
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 6: pronounce the name. They got stoked by Estonia. We don't
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 6: even know where they at. How you losing to these countries?
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 6: So the mixed doubles went down, So but we're still
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 6: in the championship. Figure skating was outstanding. The American team
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 6: won a goal, Yes we did they Yeah they came back.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: Mother. He looked like a free of God brother. Yeah
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: did that. John Moran can do it on the basketball court,
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: but we got a white boy to do it.
• 1:13:47
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  Speaker 10: This is from Tunisia and Oak Cliff, Tanisia. Says, my
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  Speaker 10: on my teenage daughters. They were sneaking out of the windows,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 10: sneaking boys into the windows. My mom went to the
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  Speaker 10: extreme and nailed their bedroom windows shut. She sometimes sleeps
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 10: in their room with them, and she'll make them sleep
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 10: with their bedroom doors open. She also does random room
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 10: checks and cell phone checks. I love how my mom
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 10: handles the girls who are fifteen and seventeen, but they're
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 10: starting to really hate their grandmother. Is it cruel and
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 10: unusual punishment?
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 6: Yeah, as it sho would be. That's what punishment is
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 6: cool and unusual. I don't know why y'all thinking punishment
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 6: is supposed to be some luxury thing. All punishment is
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 6: cruel and unusual. She'd have nailed you window shut? Can't
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 6: I remember that she got that go open?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 9: Wow?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 6: Oh Grandmama is here everything, and she sleeps in the
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 6: room with them, And is she come in there and
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 6: sleep when that way it gets cool? Nobody want to
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 6: sleep at their grandma.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: He smelled different. Oh you now you're smelling the moth balls.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 4: All night.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: One day, I can't holler. What is all the littlement?
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: She got? That littlement on me?
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 6: Now, it's all in my dreams at school kids talking
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 6: about I smell like the hospital.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Grandma saying I got your gentle parents.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 10: I'm the hand of this, all right. So it's not
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 10: a cruel and unusual knowledge.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: It's supposed to be cruel and unused. Yeah, that's speaking.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: It's just regular stuff. Yeah, thinking I complaining about to jail.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 10: Don't go down now, yeah, pro right, all right, we
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 10: have time for another one, Steve. This is from Anne
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  Speaker 10: in Jacksonville and says, my husband has a son by
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 10: his first wife, and we have full custody of him.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 10: His ex wife claims the son on her taxes annually,
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 10: and I think she should pay us child support monthly
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 10: because if the tables were I'm sure she would ask
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 10: for child support. My husband said that as a man,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 10: he would never ask her for money to raise his son.
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  Speaker 1: Does that sound right to you? Why does he allow
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  Speaker 1: her to get over?
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 3: No?
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: It does.
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  Speaker 6: It sounds exactly right, And that's just how real men are.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 6: I don't need your help raising my son. I got
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 6: full custody. You ain't got to give me a quarter
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 6: that's how real man think.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 6: Now, you don't put the little female aspect why letting
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 6: her get away with it? All he wanted was custody
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 6: of his son so he could raise him the right way.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 6: Now you have to ask yourself something too. Now, It
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 6: very rarely does a court take a child away from
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 6: the mother and give custody to the father. That's a
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 6: whole nother statement right there. It is the most difficult
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 6: thing for a man to get custody of a child
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 6: from a mother. So you need to blink right there.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 6: So thank God that you have the type of man
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 6: that you have. Instead of talking about why he letting
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 6: her get away with that, that's the wrong way to
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 6: look at him.
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  Speaker 1: Lady, that's his son. I got him. I don't need
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  Speaker 1: no help raising him.
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  Speaker 10: But you know why the wife is mad because she
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 10: claims the son on the taxes.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a financial thing. So what the game? Look, man,
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be over in a little while. Be trifling.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: We all know when eighteen come, everybody be looking for
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 5: that day when it tell I turn eighteen.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: Oh, we all look for that day. Haying another die.
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  Speaker 6: So you know, I think it's cool that you got
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 6: the tape of man that you got. Yeah, you know
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 6: she claiming him on the taxes. Now, I'm gonna tell
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 6: you right now, you should be claiming him. He should
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 6: claim his son on his tax Yeah.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: That's her issue. That should happen. That's her issue.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 6: Man, I don't I don't know why he won't do that,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 6: because that's just as a real simple thing. I don't
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 6: require child support, but I'm taking full care of him.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: I should claim me mo my tex. Yeah that the
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: man should do that.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 10: The ex is doing it. Yeah, no, you not this year.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: You had to put some else on that line this
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: April here on the dependent On All right, thank you.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 10: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we will
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 10: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, Valentine's Day,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 10: as we know, is this Saturday, So the time is
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 10: winding down.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: Guys.
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  Speaker 10: By now, you've probably ordered your flowers, you've bought a
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 10: nice gift from Macy's. But what about dinner. How about
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 10: a romantic dinner at home this year instead of overspace
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 10: a restaurant because Macy's has that cover too. Let me
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 10: tell you. They have dishware, they have candles, they have
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 10: table linens. There's even a cute heart shaped La Crusee
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  Speaker 10: dish that I have my eye on. Okay, Macy's is
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 10: your one stop shopping spot for Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 10: is this Saturday, So get on down to Macy's. Guys,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 10: you don't want to miss it. You don't want to
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 10: be sad, you don't want to be upset. Go to
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 10: Macy's and get some.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: Idea, that idea cooking a romantic dinner.
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  Speaker 11: Crowded restaurants and then they have that limited menu what
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 11: you can't order.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: Because it's so crowded. All like that, good idea. Thank you, Macy's.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: We appreciate it, Junior.
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  Speaker 10: I know you already just see it.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: Shirley. I'm gonna put all of it. Everything you say.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna go buy all of them Macy's. But those
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 9: plates gonna be at this restaurant. We're gonna have to
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 9: eat off those.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: Can you cook? Absolutely? Are you to cook?
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 3: Joe Man?
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: What y'all thought I was? Ever heard you talking about
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: grill and the nut? Where that comes from? How you
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: thought I was eaten? She see what can you do?
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 9: Chili, spaghetti, steaks, chicken, don't matter what it is, you
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 9: can't come up.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: Oh oh oh no, no, all right, we do stop.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: Tell you we'll have more of.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 10: The Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. We'll play around.
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  Speaker 10: It's time now, guys, for a round it would you rather?
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 10: Would you rather the ability to lie with a straight face?
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 10: Or would you rather to be able to eat without
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 10: gaining weight?
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: Hey? He was more important? Yeah, I take.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 10: They're experts.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: When we lie you only this.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 9: Morning already, I've already lied this morning to my wife.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 6: When you told you could, Why would you let's skill set?
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 6: Then I clearly already possess.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you're the best status in your face, your face,
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 7: no one saying nothing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 10: Be able to eat without gaining weight? Oh yes, I
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 10: love that. Uh huh, all right? Would you rather win
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 10: the Nobel Peace Prize or a gold medal at the Olympic?
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: Man, give me that gold medal. Let me talk to
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: these two dudes right here. What what what did you want?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 4: Gold?
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: We know I'm gonna be on the track. You know
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: I can, I can run? What tim me? What what
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: would your gold medal being? Let me think what what junior?
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 4: What?
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: Junior short jump? Jump?
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 3: Not long?
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: Something like rugby?
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean nothing than what Jr.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: Said. I'm on the rugby team. But what about the
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: winter Olympic sport? What would you do because none of that?
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah, oh the one where you lay on your back
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: and slide down that slide and just lay.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: You said that the other day, that Steve, that's the luge.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 6: The luge skeleton is when you forward face from I
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 6: don't know who want that. I want to ski jump.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 6: I want to be the dude that come down the
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 6: ramp and take off and lean over the ski.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: Be flying it. Yeah, what's my sport? Right there? Hit
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: that ground.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 10: Card one more time? One more time?
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: Hit the ground?
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 3: What ca?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: And then and then throw that snow in your face
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: down at the head. That's pimp, all right?
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 10: Would you rather dress this Cupid for Valentine's Day? Or
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 10: is the easter bunny for an Easter egg hunt?
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: Cupid?
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 3: Why what?
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: Because he's short and he can shut shut up? Got
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: the little dipod?
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 6: Remember the pictures he took and Tommy took that picture
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 6: of that tie over him.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: I said, here's going on here? Think he's so male?
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 10: Would you would you rather recreate your first date for
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 10: Valentine Day? Or get a couple's massage.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: First Valentine's date ever, or you could.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 10: Say with your current wife. I mean I'm sure that
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 10: first one.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: I had that was poverty streaky. Okay, we've run out
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: of time.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 10: Unfortunately that was a teenager. Thank you guys for today's
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 10: Would you rather round? Coming up next? It is our
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 10: last break of the day, and we'll close out the
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 10: show with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
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  Speaker 10: Radio dot com. All right, guys, here we are our
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 10: last break of the day. It's been a fun day.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 10: We want to say thank you once again to Attorney
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 10: Benjamin Crump, who's doing something different. He's an author now,
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 10: he's a novelist. He's out with a new book called
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 10: what Is a Junior?
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 9: In Crumb's voice, Yes, yes, Steve, Steve, I got a
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 9: new book call dead a lie.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 10: Yeah, it's been a lie.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 9: Thank you, Steve. I can't tell you every time I
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 9: come on here, Steve. We all we got still on
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 9: the front line, Steve, Steve, did you.
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  Speaker 4: Change it.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: A little bit? Yeah, a little bit? Try to go
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: deep with his voice.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 9: I can't that deep, y'all asking me to do something
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 9: I know I can't do.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: You can't do well. He just came out of crisis, y'all. Yeah,
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: that's what it is. That's all. You know what, you
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: know what you come back.
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  Speaker 10: Person a Lie is the name of attorney Benjamin Crump's
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 10: new book.
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, it's on you.
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: You know this morning when we started to show and
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 9: you said you wouldn't change nothing that happened to you.
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 9: And you know, I never heard you speak like that
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 9: about your life, about everything that's happened to you to
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 9: make it to where you are now. You really believe
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 9: in that.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 6: You believe you listen as things happen to you in life.
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 6: Of course, you are uncomfortable being in it as you
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 6: go through life's challenges and setbacks. Of course, you regretting
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 6: the decisions you've made. But once you are through all
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 6: of the storms and you are in reflective mode, you
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 6: have got to sit there in that moment and go, Wow,
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 6: God is really good because somehow he bought you through it,
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 6: somehow you survived it at his worst moment when it
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 6: just kept feeling like he was just raining and thunderstorming
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 6: on you. Man, and and and and and and and
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 6: the boat was about to turn over. Somehow it didn't,
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 6: and He got you through it. And as I sit
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 6: and I look in my life right now, all of
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 6: the things that happened to me that I wish that
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 6: I was wishing I could have changed at that particular moment,
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 6: And there are many. I realize now why they happened,
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 6: because everything you're going through is God preparing.
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: You for what you asked for.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 6: Look, man, I didn't even know it, I said, But
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 6: you know, somewhere down the line, I kept asking God
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 6: to make me relevant. That's always been a prayer of mine.
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 6: I wanted to be a relevant person. I wanted my
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 6: life to count for something. See for me, it's always
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 6: been more than just telling jokes. I wanted to be relevant.
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 6: So in that God prepared me to be relevant. And
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 6: you know how He did it by making me incredibly irrelevant.
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 6: That's what I had to learn. He took everything from me.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 6: I lost it all. He stripped me down, He tested me,
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 6: He ran me through the furnace, poured me into a
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 6: new mold. I didn't like none of that heat. I
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 6: didn't like getting liquified. I didn't like getting poured into
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 6: the new mold. And then it cooled off and I
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 6: realized that all of that through the furnace was so
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 6: he could pour me into this new mold and make
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 6: me the strong engine block that I become. God Man
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 6: prepared me for this. So, okay, Steve, you wanna be relevant?
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 6: Watch this. I'm gonna make you relevant. I'm gonna put
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 6: you through the grinder. I'm gonna make you lose everything.
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna make you fall, I'm gonna put your.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: See.
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  Speaker 6: He put me under so when I got up, I
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 6: could teach people how to get over. He knocked me
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 6: down and got me up so I could show people
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 6: how to get up. He made me lose everything so
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 6: I could then show people how to recover from anything.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 6: And you know, it just kind of got me in
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 6: a position where her old people say, I'm just a
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 6: nobody trying to tell everybody about somebody that can save anybody.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 6: And that's what my life has come to. And had
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 6: I not gone through all the perils and hardships and
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 6: trials and challenges, I would not know what I know today.
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 6: And now do you know what's crazy?
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 6: And I didn't even see it coming after I stopped
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 6: doing stand up. Do you know what the majority all
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 6: of your people around the world know me from the
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 6: majority and a lot of.
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 1: People remember the kings of comedy. They still are I got.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 6: I was on the plane the other day and the
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 6: guy said, hey, man, I just won't tell you something.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 6: I love the kings of comedy, Oh white guy. But
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 6: do you know what the majority of people today know
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 6: me as my video clips that have gone viral, the
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 6: jump video, all the moments on stage when I stopped
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 6: my shoulders speak to people. That's what people remember me
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 6: from the last two gigs I had. The last two
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 6: gigs I had, I was speaking in another country. I
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 6: wasn't telling jokes. I was a motivational speaker in another country.
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 6: You know why cause he made me relevant. And you
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 6: know how he made me relevant by re forging me,
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 6: by testing me, challenging me, stripping me. And man, I
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 6: look back on it all and it was all worth
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 6: it because if I had not done those things, I
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 6: would not be where I am and who.
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 1: I am today. And I owe it all.
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 6: All to the grace, goodness and mercy of my heavenly Father.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 6: Had he not done what he done, and no way
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 6: I would be where I am. So no, I ain't
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 6: got no regrets. You know those are my clothes, room lawns.
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 6: Hope you got something truck today. Hey, y'all talk to
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 6: God today. He would have some loops. It would just
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 6: thrill him.
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