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Younger Self, Ian Cranston, Omarion and Lil' Fizz, COVID Gathering and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's to be good. String together, Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn out. You're going
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  Speaker 1: to arm. You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn
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  Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out with the turn
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  Speaker 1: of water. The water got me. Come come on your thing,
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening
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  Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now. One and
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  Speaker 1: only Steve Arvey got a radio show. Man, Old man.
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  Speaker 1: Old Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's
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  Speaker 1: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has
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  Speaker 1: been to me over the years. And I thank him
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  Speaker 1: for it too, because I realize every day that I
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  Speaker 1: wake up that I would be nothing without him. That
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  Speaker 1: everything I am that's any good in me, I owe
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  Speaker 1: to him. Now. Have I made some mistakes along the way, yep, bunches,
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  Speaker 1: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes
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  Speaker 1: along the way yep? Not as many, hopefully as I
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  Speaker 1: have in the past, because a lot of stuff I
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  Speaker 1: know better now. But you're still going to make mistakes. Now.
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  Speaker 1: You know, hopefully I've limited the amount of intentional in
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  Speaker 1: my life. I've wiped quite a few of those out.
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  Speaker 1: But from time to time, because we're human, we're going
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  Speaker 1: to make a mistake every now and then. The trick
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  Speaker 1: what it is, y'all, it's not to let the devil
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  Speaker 1: deceive you into thinking that once you make that mistake
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  Speaker 1: that that's it. You can't do it. You're falling off
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  Speaker 1: the wagon. You can't reboard it. That's the biggest trick
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  Speaker 1: that he uses. He makes you think that if you
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  Speaker 1: keep stumbling, that you can't run the race. It kind
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  Speaker 1: of reminds me of a marathon runner. From time to
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  Speaker 1: time I watch him on TV, and you'll see some
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  Speaker 1: people who finish the race, you know, in a in
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  Speaker 1: a nice pace. You see people finish the race sprinting
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  Speaker 1: towards the finished line. But every now and then you'll
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  Speaker 1: watch a marathon and you'll see a runner and the
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  Speaker 1: runner is in really, really bad shape. The key is
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  Speaker 1: they finish the race. See, you don't get disqualified in
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  Speaker 1: the marathon because you stumble. You don't. They don't. They
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  Speaker 1: don't take your opportunity to finish the race because you
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  Speaker 1: keep falling. That's not the key. The key is finishing.
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  Speaker 1: And a lot of times what the devil does is
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  Speaker 1: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because
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  Speaker 1: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you
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  Speaker 1: out the race. Well, that's not the case. And see
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  Speaker 1: and then this thing called life, let me help you
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  Speaker 1: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in
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  Speaker 1: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear as some
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  Speaker 1: people running faster than you and all like this. And
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  Speaker 1: some people are gonna get to the end before you
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  Speaker 1: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the
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  Speaker 1: end come. I ain't in the rush to get to
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  Speaker 1: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling
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  Speaker 1: and you're falling, it's a part of it. No one
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  Speaker 1: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from
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  Speaker 1: side to side. So don't let the enemy deceive you
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  Speaker 1: into thinking that it's over. I try to be encouraging
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  Speaker 1: to people because I don't want people to get stuck
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  Speaker 1: on this thing, you know. And my walk is very
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  Speaker 1: different from a lot of people's walks. And then I
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  Speaker 1: know a lot of people who walking in faith the
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  Speaker 1: way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in the
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  Speaker 1: morning is just to remind those that is not a
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  Speaker 1: perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set up
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  Speaker 1: where you're gonna be skipping through life scott free without
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  Speaker 1: any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it over and
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  Speaker 1: over and over again because, like I said, when I
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  Speaker 1: was in DC, my boy Hondo said this to me,
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  Speaker 1: and it just kind of stuck with me that the
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  Speaker 1: road to construct, the road to successes always under construction.
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  Speaker 1: You have to figure and count on the setbacks and
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  Speaker 1: the pitfalls. But it's those people that that that that
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  Speaker 1: fight through will be the victors in the end. You
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  Speaker 1: cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhen sitting down. Every
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  Speaker 1: time something goes down. It's going to go down. It's
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  Speaker 1: a part of it. It's going to happen. It's going
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  Speaker 1: to occur that are going to be setbacks. If you
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  Speaker 1: go and sit down every time there's a setback, that's
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  Speaker 1: not how this works. It is designed that way. If
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  Speaker 1: success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success is
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  Speaker 1: just reserved for those who are willing to fight through,
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  Speaker 1: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now,
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  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual.
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  Speaker 1: So what I may consider to be successful, you may
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  Speaker 1: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considers successful.
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  Speaker 1: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considers successful. I
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  Speaker 1: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might
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  Speaker 1: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.
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  Speaker 1: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your
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  Speaker 1: level of success could be tied up in community service.
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  Speaker 1: It could be tied up in family. It could be
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  Speaker 1: tied up into church. Your level of success could be
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  Speaker 1: tied up into boys clubs. It could be any number
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  Speaker 1: of things. Whatever your level of success is, you have
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  Speaker 1: to determine what that is you and the best way
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  Speaker 1: to determine that is to get in touch with your maker,
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  Speaker 1: who created you, to find out what your mission and
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  Speaker 1: your purpose is so he can put you on track.
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  Speaker 1: I just had this conversation with my son and we
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  Speaker 1: were talking about getting on the path that God has
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  Speaker 1: set up for you. So many times we find ourselves
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  Speaker 1: fighting through life because of so much uncertainty, because we
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  Speaker 1: have no idea where we're headed. It's like one of
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  Speaker 1: my own sayings that I have at my mentoring camp
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  Speaker 1: for boys is is that a boy without a male
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  Speaker 1: role model is like an explorer without a map. See
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  Speaker 1: if you don't have a map laid out in front
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  Speaker 1: of you of where you're going when you wake up
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  Speaker 1: every day, that pretty much explains the feeling of confusion,
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  Speaker 1: the laxadaisical attitude, the lack of purpose, to not understanding
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  Speaker 1: your mission because you don't have not gotten in touch
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  Speaker 1: with your creator to find out exactly what your path
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  Speaker 1: in life is. What are you supposed to be doing?
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  Speaker 1: The moment you can identify that is the moment that
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  Speaker 1: you get started waking up with purpose, with the sense
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  Speaker 1: of direction. When you kill the sense of I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what's next or what to do. Now, there's going
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  Speaker 1: to be some confusing moments no matter what happened, it's
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  Speaker 1: going to be some uncertainty, but at least you'll know
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  Speaker 1: where you're going. So if you're tied a waking up
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  Speaker 1: feeling loss, abandon confused, don't know what to do, don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you're supposed to be doing, refer back to
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  Speaker 1: your makeup. Because when he created you, he had a
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  Speaker 1: plan for you. When he created you, he had a
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  Speaker 1: path for you. Now we've made some decisions to get
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  Speaker 1: off of both of those, the mission and the path
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  Speaker 1: but God can get you right back on track. Do
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  Speaker 1: that today, asking what you're supposed to be doing, and listen,
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  Speaker 1: God has all the answers if you form the relationship. Okaying,
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  Speaker 1: time to me. Somebody told me it was all up
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  Speaker 1: ain't never been to a lounge where the singer is
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  Speaker 1: a relative of the lounge owner and he really has
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  Speaker 1: no business with the singing contract. But right at the
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  Speaker 1: start a happy hour at five, he can go on
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  Speaker 1: from five to five fifteen when they hauling nobody there.
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  Speaker 1: I'd invented them lounges, and that's where they at, man,
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  Speaker 1: and they just be up in their writing songs that
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  Speaker 1: they wrote on their own that don't make no damn say.
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  Speaker 1: You can look at me while I look at you,
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  Speaker 1: You looking at me? What? And one is too hey?
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  Speaker 1: And then he just kicked back like you don't rope
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  Speaker 1: the line of lines. That's how we're gonna do it
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  Speaker 1: this morning, y'all. We're gonna do it like ain't nobody
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  Speaker 1: I had to travel to my dentist, and my dentist
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  Speaker 1: him bring em. You're happy, right because you hate the dentist?
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  Speaker 1: Over joy me. Well I'm not happy, no, no, no no,
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  Speaker 1: I look like I was gonna be out there, but
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  Speaker 1: I didn't pass herebody, I'll be the first one back
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  Speaker 1: at the clubs. What is the appeal? Because a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people still don't get golf, you can't talk about it. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: Lakida writes, I'm using my boss's car temporarily while mine
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  Speaker 1: is getting worked on. He helps me out by putting
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  Speaker 1: gas in the car, getting it washed occasionally. The other
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  Speaker 1: day he took the car and got it washed and
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  Speaker 1: filled it up. I noticed that my weed was gone,
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  Speaker 1: so I asked him if the car man threw it out.
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  Speaker 1: He said he found the weed and smoked it. He
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  Speaker 1: said it's his car and anything in the car is
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  Speaker 1: his property. I am so hot? Should I make him
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  Speaker 1: replace my weed? Are you kidding me? What? Are you
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  Speaker 1: kidding me? Legal? Okay? Now let me okay, okay, let
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  Speaker 1: me show them because did I get it confused? What's this?
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  Speaker 1: Her car? Her bosses now her boss's car. She's using
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  Speaker 1: it to she's using her boss's car. Hers is getting
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  Speaker 1: work done? Okay? Cool? Has she left out the part
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  Speaker 1: that her boss is trying or sleeping with her? Oh? No,
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  Speaker 1: she that's not in there. Oh well it should be.
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  Speaker 1: What boss letting you usday car and go washing in
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  Speaker 1: and clean it up and putting gas in it, and
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  Speaker 1: let you letting you use They call for what? For what?
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  Speaker 1: Because hers is getting worked on? Hers in the shop?
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  Speaker 1: But you cool enough with your boss where you can
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  Speaker 1: buy some weed and leave it in the ashtray. He
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  Speaker 1: can smoke it. Y'all got that type relationship? This ain't
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  Speaker 1: about bosson employer, just about something else. So I'm not
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  Speaker 1: even gonna answer the damn question because I don't give
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  Speaker 1: a damn about your weed. But they inner in Colorado.
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  Speaker 1: I guess it is, but it's not my concern who
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  Speaker 1: has a weed. I'm all concerned about how you got
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  Speaker 1: your boss's car driving it and he putting gas in
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  Speaker 1: and washing it. Who's sleeping with who? That's minute? What
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  Speaker 1: this about? Now? Y'all having a lover spat over some
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  Speaker 1: damn weed. They ain't even put this about to me.
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  Speaker 1: He said, it's his car, and anything in his car
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  Speaker 1: is his property, and so is she when she in it.
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  Speaker 1: Get it? Yeah, all right on Shirley, Moving on. Cassandra
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  Speaker 1: in the Midwest says, my husband and I we're planning
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: to go to Antigua over the Christmas holidays, and the
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  Speaker 1: travel agent told us both that we have to be
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  Speaker 1: vaccinated to travel. My husband is paid for the trip
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  Speaker 1: and still won't get vaccinated, so now he's backing out
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  Speaker 1: of the trip. A portion of it is nonrefundable, so
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  Speaker 1: I suggested that I invite my sister to go with
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  Speaker 1: me instead. He said that's fine, but he'd expect my
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  Speaker 1: sister to pay him back, perhaps the trip. He was
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  Speaker 1: going to lose the money, So why does she have
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  Speaker 1: to pay your thoughts? See l oh hey, dog, listen
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  Speaker 1: to me. This situation is because you won't get a vaccine.
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  Speaker 1: You won't get vaccinated. Okay, cool? Now because of that,
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  Speaker 1: only half of the money is refundable. Your sister said,
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  Speaker 1: Your wife says, let my sister go. You say, fine,
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  Speaker 1: but she got to pay me for the other half.
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  Speaker 1: What on the half your hand or the half? Dog?
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  Speaker 1: It's gone cause your ass won't get the vaccine. Now
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  Speaker 1: you can't go. It don't make no sense to ask
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  Speaker 1: the girl for her money back. For your money back,
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  Speaker 1: Your money gone, Yes, whether she go or not, your
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  Speaker 1: half for the money gone? Get it. The unvaccinated is
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  Speaker 1: starting to piss me off because now y'all paying this
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  Speaker 1: unvaccinated thing all into vacations and everything. Man, whatever everybody
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  Speaker 1: else is suffering. I think we should have a vote.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't want to get vaccinated, you can't ever
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  Speaker 1: get a ventilator that'll stop all this mess right here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh really, So if you get it, god forbid you do,
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  Speaker 1: but don't come up in here taking up no hospital space.
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  Speaker 1: Now for people who really need get your ass dynam
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  Speaker 1: get vaccinated. Say what you want to say about me, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: get your ass vaccinated, because I've seen what these vaccines
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  Speaker 1: do to people who get vaccinated. The researchers there and
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  Speaker 1: it's coming in. Yes, you can still get COVID if
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  Speaker 1: you get vaccinated, but it has proven that the symptoms
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  Speaker 1: are reduced greatly where you don't need hospitalization. That's a fact. Now,
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  Speaker 1: other people dying from COVID who don't get vaccinated, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: the likelihood it happened with the vaccinated is unaccinated. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what we're talking about. And right now I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to my old ass sister. This is personal. Why
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  Speaker 1: is everything always because the family? I'm a flying down
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  Speaker 1: so you can you don't sit around and chop it up.
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  Speaker 1: And now we can't go yet because one of the
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  Speaker 1: old my other sister ain't got the vaccine yet. You
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  Speaker 1: ask get a vaccine, Okay too, damn old and be ignorant. Okay,
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: are you done? Because we're moving on now. Anonymous in Tennessee,
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  Speaker 1: Clo says, my wife had all right, I'm gonna let
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  Speaker 1: you all right marinate a little bit while I do this.
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  Speaker 1: One anonymous in Tennessee says, my wife had a son
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  Speaker 1: in December the strange line, and we hired an older
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  Speaker 1: woman to come in and watch the baby while my
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  Speaker 1: wife is in her home office working. This woman is slim,
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  Speaker 1: thick with a tiny little waist and pretty feet. She
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  Speaker 1: is sexy, and she knows that. I fought her off
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  Speaker 1: at first, but she wore a dress with no underwear
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  Speaker 1: and we ended up doing a quickie in the kitchen
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  Speaker 1: while my wife was working. She has asked for more
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  Speaker 1: than a quickie, and she wants me to come over
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  Speaker 1: to her house. Should I go see what's up with granny?
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  Speaker 1: Go see what's people are insane? Well, go see what's
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  Speaker 1: up with Oh, come on, cell, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: you mean by granny. Do you mean, well, she's an
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  Speaker 1: older woman. The babysitter who's watching the baby's an older woman,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: so he's calling her granny. Yeah, well no, did you
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  Speaker 1: miss that part? Yeah, we hired an older woman to
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  Speaker 1: come in and watch the baby while my wife is
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  Speaker 1: in her home office. The woman is slim, thick with
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  Speaker 1: a tiny little waist and pretty feet. She's sexy. She knows. Okay, Well, dog,
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  Speaker 1: I don't recommend going over to her house, because this
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  Speaker 1: is gonna eventually cost you your family. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know if it's your family anyway, because you say
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  Speaker 1: your wife had a son. I don't know. Is it
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  Speaker 1: not your baby? What y'all doing? I don't really know.
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  Speaker 1: But sexy Granny, don't go over her house. Dog, don't
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  Speaker 1: go over there. You're gonna get taped. This ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: work out. She already got you messed up. Yes, all right,
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  Speaker 1: Well that's all we have time for today, Cello, thank
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  Speaker 1: you very much. Coming up now, it's the Nephew and
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  Speaker 1: What you got for his nav? I got kay dog
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  Speaker 1: for y'all. Kay do okay, let's go cat. Hello. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach Terns. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: this is Sans. Who's this this K dog? Uh? His brand?
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  Speaker 1: Your brother? Then? Yeah, that's my brother? Eli up? Why
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Because? Yea cool? Hey look I just got that.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I was actually uh, I was locked up with your brother.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: We was on the same tier together, like I was.
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  Speaker 1: You know, that was kind of like my boy right there.
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  Speaker 1: I took kill of uh. He told me that he was.
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  Speaker 1: He had been writing you to tell you and you was,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: you know, letting you know I had been taken care of,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: you know, while we was locked down or whatever. I
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: know he don't get off for another couple of years,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: but like he told me that when he was writing
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  Speaker 1: you that you know, y'all had already got it situated it.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: You know, you was gonna take care of me when
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I got out. So you know, I, like I said,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I just got out last night, and I wanted to
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: come by and pick up the first ten grand you
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: know sometimes this wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait, wait, wait, wait,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: how much did you just say kenny grand? Yeah? You know,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I mean he told me he had already wrote you
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: and told you what was up. Oh bro, I ain't
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: talking to my brother over a year, so uh ain't
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: hold on? Hold on, hold on, hold on right? You know? Okay?
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: He told nah. You know, Peter told me that you
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: you got me straight with the first ten grand when
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: I first get out and done. A couple of months later,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you hit me with the next ten grands. It's just
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: twenty grand. Wait wait over, that's twenty grand. Bro. I
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: got a wife and kids. I got a family to
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: take care of. Ain't no, I ain't got ten grand
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: to deal with. I gotta feed four kids and the wife. Okay, okay,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: So what you hold on? Hold? How how old? Hold
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: them up? Man? So what you're saying Brandon was lying
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: to me the whole time. What I'm telling you is
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: just locked up eighty man to say anything to uh
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: say to the ain't no ten grand over here? You know,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: twenty grand over here? You want to get in, Brandon's
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: gonna need to wait two years till you get out
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: and deal with that. You get no, no, no, it
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: ain't it ain't. It ain't been. It ain't been a
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: fall like that. Plea nigga, hear what's sens to go down? Okay, Nah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I'm coming over the frad So coming over here, ten grand.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: The first ten grand is old old frid. Now what
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I ain't got the first. First of all, what you
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: need to know is just right here. I don't care
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: nothing about going back. My thing is just right here.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Just pay for supposed to be read. And it took
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: care of your brother all these years while I was
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: up in there keeping people up off of him on
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: the third till. And now you're been to come to me.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: You're fens to come to me nine how to put
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: it in his work is now y'all ain't been to
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: pay up. It ain't been. The LM like this. Yeah,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm telling y'all doesn't put it in work
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: to provide my family, me and my wife work. And
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: you telling me that you're trying to come over here
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Friday to get ten grand that I ain't even got
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: bo that's locked up. Hey man, look I'm not I'm not.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not finna. First of all, all this backing pool,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: but like this hill, this ain't nothing. I do you understand,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't go backing food. I
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: don't you know what it is. It's ten green being
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: on Friday now if you need to try to reach
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: out to your brother that's uh locked in. You didn't
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: talk to him. But like the zill I'm coming looking
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: for terrest, you know, looking from my ten grand. That's this,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: that's a nitti ten grand. I put some tims up
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: yond you come over here to my house, to my family,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: to about you're gonna get ten grand for my no
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: great brother that's locked down. Hold on, hold on, because
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: see you're gonna you're gonna remember around and take this.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: You know way what First of all, what did you
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: just say on him? When I get over what you say?
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: You you bring your to my house with my family here,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna put some tims up yere? How about ten
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars and then another ten and a couple of
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: months you lost so damn blind. I ain't got no
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: damn grand. I've worked my often. You're gonna tell me
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: that you want ten grand? Another ten grand in a
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: few months of taking care of my brother while he
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: locked up. Nobody tell you take care of him. That's
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: a girl man. Let him take care of the self,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Me and my family and the bell just out of
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: so much I'm dumb. Hey, hey, hey, do look at
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I understand how it is that you've seen. But what
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: you what you got to look at all mine for
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: the land. Three and a half years, I've been over
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: here taking kill and he telling me, y'all gonna take
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: kill me. So so I don't know what's going on.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: What I do know, youll though Fried this frid I'm
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: coming to get team Graham from Tim. So you got
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: the six this right here. Anyway, you're gonna feast so
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I And that's just it right there, Come Friday. I'm in.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I'm in front of your house. Down what wait? Hunt on?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: What wa? Hunt on? Kate Dog? You say your name,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Kate dog baby from the third this Kay down from
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: the third till three tills on the side of my left.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I don't done three decades. You probably don't work the
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: everybody in the street and then jail you got with
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: my But I'm gonna tall something you bring over here
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: to my house. Try to me, my wife and my kids.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Thing gonna go down like you think it ain't gonna go.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a thing I got. Then some
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: you come over here, you're gonna be laying down. Bro,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be what gonna be laying down? You come
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: over here and try to me and my family and
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: my kids. That ain't gonna happen that way. You okay,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Then that's then that's that's where we're at to him. Baby,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Then we just we just gonna say this up a Friday,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: and then because it don't make me know, i't already talk,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: we gotta wait to fighting, k dog, we gotta way
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: to fight. I'll meet you somewhere. You're gonna like you
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: think it's gonna go down. Once I get you any
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: thing I got and lay you down, I'm gonna be
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: in there with my brother Brandon whooping his putting me
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: into he doesn't got yourn I'll call you hey. You know,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: first of all, if you ain't got the ten grand,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: you might well going on brand now anyway, get this.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: You need to get your out here and get a
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: job like everybody else. I don't care how long you've
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: been in and everybody got a job. I'm busting you
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: won't tend't work for that ten Grand and get you
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: out here and wash cars such grand. Hey, man, you
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna tell you? Know what your your brother?
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: One thing about him he was right about you though,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: he was right about you. You know what I'm saying.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what thing else he told me
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: about Joe? What? What the hell did he tell you
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: about me? He told me to tell you who I
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: really was. This is nephew Tom and from the Steve
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Harpin more than show your sister. The feeder got me
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: to point phone call you. Who is this man? This
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: is this is this is nephew jommy man for the
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey born to show your sister the Vita got
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: me the prank phone call? You get them. I didn't.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: I didn't let up a cigarette in the house. I
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: could smoke in the house. I'm gonna get hut you
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: all right? Man? I am? You had me on ten.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like ten, Grand, I'm gonna come to my wife. Man,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: it's all good. Man. I gotta ask you, brother, what
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: is bad? And I mean the saddest radio show in
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: the lane. Man, you know what it is is Steve
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You don't make me go see my brother.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Now it's holidays. I'm gonna have to go see that
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: man in jail man. And then you have it. That's
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: the nephew, that's the k dog. I need ten K
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: and I hey, I mean and took you knew it
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: was going to be something with the name like kay Dog. Anyway,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: he talked about his brother man, everybody involved in this situation.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: He didn't give a damn one. I'm know one thing
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: for showing't nobody getting ten vows? Period? Coming up at
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we have some entertainment news
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: for you. Thinking, neph you we'll be back right after this.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Stry Morning Show. So model Emily Rodijowski
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: revealed that while shooting the Blurred Lines music video and Yes,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Steve it was a few years ago, singer Robin Thicke
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: groped her naked breasts. The director called cut on the
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: video shoot and inquired if Emily was okay. Diane Martell confirmed, quote,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I remember the moment that he grabbed her breasts, one
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: in each hand. I screamed, in my very aggressive Brooklyn voice,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: what the effort you doing? The shoot is over? Emily
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: wrote in her autobiography, My Body due this month. Quote
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: out of nowhere, I felt the coolness and foreignness of
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: a stranger's hands, cupping my bare breath from behind. The
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: model Emily Emily Radejowski recall that Thick was a little drunk.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I felt the heat of humiliation pumped through my body.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I didn't react, not really, not like I should have.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Oh so the book, Yeah, that's crazy. I know this
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: one song. He wished he would never record it. I
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: never lost the lawsuit with Marvin Gay children and this
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: video now when was blurred lines out? I think it
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: was twenty Yeah, that was a long time. She didn't
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: say nothing. Then years ago, Why she didn't say nothing,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: We don't know if she said she said. I didn't
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: react like she should have. That is where. Yeah. But
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: now let me ask you a question. Uh, there's a
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: book out now, she's writing My Body, Let's due this month.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: It's coming out. Oh, the book is coming out. Also,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: she's she's promoting the book. Yeah, I would assume. So, yeah,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: she's promoting the book, and that's something that's in the book. Yes,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: out of nowhere, I felt the coolness and foreigness of
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: a stranger's ends, cupping my bare breast from behind yea,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: so he had no right to do that. No, there's
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: no right to do that. But I gotta ask this,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: is this for sales? That what the book? Oh is
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: she trying to promote? Is she's saying this so she
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: can promote her book and get more sales. But yeah,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: I mean I expected to hear this eight years ago.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Whenever that happens, I mean, of course, naturally that's got
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: a lot to do with it now because I mean,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Robin Think is a famous figure. Uh. The whether he
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: did it or not is not what I'm talking about
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: because I don't know. But what I do not do
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: is assume that people are guilty. But if they got
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: witnesses and all of that, I would think. Man, I
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: wish that people were able to come out more freely
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: when things happen to them, you know, come out more
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: freely when it happens. I don't. It becomes a bit
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: m victims are scared to especially when it's somebody that's famous. Well,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: that's why I said I wish it were. I wish
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: people were able to be able to come out when
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: things happen and not have to be ashamed or afraid.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: That's for the whole me to movement, movement about you know, yeah,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: them being afraid, them being you know, up against such
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: powerful entities. You know that they're afraid that they'll lose.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: They'll be the losers, the victims will be the losers
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: and be blamed for what. Yeah, because it's been like
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: that for so long, you know, absolutely absolutely all right, guys,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: moving on and other entertainment news. Carla is here with
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: today's music news, which you got, Carlotta, well quickly. Tonight
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: are the b ET Hip Hop Awards hosted by our
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: guys eighty five South DC, Young h Carlos Miller and
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Chic Goban. We love them, we love them. Yes, the
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I Am hip Hop Award. Nellie will receive that he's
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: a legend and other performance will be there, so we
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: will be watching tonight. And Big Daddy Kane he's going
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: to pay a tribute to Bis Marquis. B ET Hip
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Hop Awards hosted by eighty five South Tonight, All right, Steve,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: come on it. It's time now for today's headlines, ladies
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss Anne Trippy, Thanks Steve, good morning. This
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: is a trip with the news. President Biden says that
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: in refusing to raise the nation's dead limit so that
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: the government can actually pay US bills mostly run up.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: He says, by the Trump administration anyway, that Republicans are
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: showing that they care more about politics than the American people.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Just have to let us do our job. Get out
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: of the way. You don't want to help save the country,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: get out of the way so you don't destroy it.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Mister Biden says that in only four years with the
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: GOP in charge, the government ran up nearly eight trillion
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: dollars in additional debt that the government now has to
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: pay off. That's why I need the debt limit raised, officials,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: saying that the federal government is now only two weeks
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: away from exhausting its cash reserves. Alabama Governor kiv has
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: announced that she intends to use four hundred million dollars
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: in federal COVID relief money. COVID relief money got this
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: and other funds not to strengthen Alabama's infrastructure, not to
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: provide economic assistance to people in need in her state,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: and certainly not to relieve her state's health crisis. She
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: says she's going to use it to build more prisons.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Local people say, yeah, that's because you want to perhaps
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: can incarcerate more blacks. That's what civil civil active people
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: say in Alabama. Meanwhile, the black community of Delaware County
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: demanding justice in the case of a child, an eight
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: year old little black girls shot dead August twenty seventh
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: by a stray bullet outside of a high school football game,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: a bullet which investigators are nearly certain came from a
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: cops gun. Young Fantability was killed as cops from the
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: County of Sharon Hill returned fire after a group of
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: young men got into an argument a block away from
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: the football stadium. State Senator Anthony Williams of the Black
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Legislative Caucus says the group wants to see legal action
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: and several firings. They You've not heard one word from
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: the police chief or the police department involved in the shooting,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: not one word. The grand jury is needed not only
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: to bring charges, but also to vet those they have
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: chosen not to cooperate with this investigation. The three officers
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: who fired their guns that day, by the way, are
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: an administrative leave. Their names have not been released or anything.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: While a review of Sharon Hill's police policies as they
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: relate to the use of Deadly Force, they say is underway.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Finalists looks like Captain James T. Kirk going into space
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: for real. That's right. Actor William Shatner, who's ninety, is
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: scheduled to take to space to dun what was it
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: next week with je on the crew of Jeff Bezos
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: Blue Origin, New Shepherd things. So he's gonna do that
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: for real? Stay tuned. Now back to the Steve Harvey
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to show. Okay, here's the here's
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: the question. What about the current world? What about the
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: current world would be most surprising to your younger self?
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, So do you think the most surprising
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: thing about the current world your younger self would be
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: upset and shocked about is how people can actually make
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: a living as influencers, you know, influencers taking pictures of
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: themselves posting them on the internet on social media. Oh
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: would I be shocked at that? That? Oh? Hell yeah?
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Because all I knew was hard work. I just I
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: just saw my daddy hard work. I ain't never knew
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: no if when an influence who? There were no cell phones? Who,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: how are you going to influence them? And ain't but
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: three TV stations what are you fitting to do? I
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: would be stunned. I'm stunned anyway. I mean, like I'm
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: to be honest with you as my current self. I'm
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: still amazed at the fact and I'm really opening my
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: eyes to the fact that these young people have another
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: way of earning a living and it's not the route
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: we took. And it's been it's been a struggle for
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: me admitting to that. So okay, So that's that's another
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: part two of good Part two of this question, what
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: would your younger self find shocking? What else would you
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: find shocking? Cell phones? Cell phones? Cell phones? Cell phones?
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: It was unthinkable. Yeah, one of the greatest inventions. It's
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: right up there. Think about that. And a computer that
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: you can type in information and it talked talked back
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: to you Siri in your phone, Siri Alexa, dog. Dog.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: We had to call four War one, right, Yeah, we
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: actually had to call four War one operator and she
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: didn't know how to time right. Oh, you had to
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: have all the information. She would say, I don't see
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: that I need more information, old dog. Really hold up,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: hold up a phone book. Hello. You needed to know, bro,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: because if you was looking for John Smith and open
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: up phone book dog which John Smith down that line,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: just trying to call and hope that little girl answer
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: the phone. What a little girl? H huh? John Smith
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: had daddy in lay. I got to go down each smell.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: I don't have her phone number. I got called to
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: s oh a girl you liked when you were yaller
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: cussed out, hung up. I wish you would bring you
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: a little black ass by hill, Come on by him.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: She don't live him, but come by. What about landlines
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: with that real long extension cord, you could go out
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: out of nine. My daddy bought a fifty foot he
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: could talk on the porch. We thought that would the
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: coolest thing in the wood porch talking. You tried to
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: take that phone out on the porch and talking. Here
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: are you going with that phone? You ain't brought no
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: cord in here? All right? Coming up with thirty four
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. What is going on? Last month in Bend, Oregon,
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  Speaker 1: a twenty two year old black man named Barry Washington
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: complimented a twenty se and you're a white man named
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Ian Cranston's girlfriend at a nightclub. She said, no, thank you,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: I'm flattered, but I'm in a relationship. Well, Cranston didn't
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: like that, and a fight broke out between the two.
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  Speaker 1: Prosecutor said that after the fighting stopped, there was only shouting,
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  Speaker 1: at which time Cranston pulled a gun from his waistband
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  Speaker 1: and shot Washington. There was no justification for his use
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  Speaker 1: of the weapon. Cranston was arrested but released on a
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollar bond. This outraged the community, and
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: he was re arrested, and the prosecutor released a statement
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: saying our country has a disgraceful history of denigrating, prosecuting,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: and lynching black men for talking to white women. Over
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: the last week, hundreds of people called and emailed me
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  Speaker 1: to remind me of this history. This is an horrible
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: story right here. This is bad. This is really bad. Absolutely,
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: you don't like the compliment. So let me just what's
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  Speaker 1: being done to this guy that's that pulled the trigger,
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  Speaker 1: that charges they've arrested him and charged him with fire.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: I see he got to you know, because you just
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  Speaker 1: you shooting a man because he complimented your girlfriend, and
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  Speaker 1: the girl said no, it ain't like he physically did
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  Speaker 1: anything to the girl, tried to force hisself on the girl,
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  Speaker 1: none of that. An argument ensued. Now you pull a
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  Speaker 1: gun out and you shoot the black dude, Man, get
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  Speaker 1: out of you. Yeah. This, this, this ain't what we're
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: doing no more. It goes back to people being able
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: to just carry these guns so freely you can just Yeah,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, everybody, this open carry law, this
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: right to bear arms in this country is the most
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: one of the most ignorant laws we have because it's
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: causing so much. It's a sasta in Atlanta right now,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: this carry law. Because here's look, man, here's a deal.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: If you carry a gun, a lot of people end
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: up using it simply because they have access to it. Yeah,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: that's true. And I just think, man, that when you
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: carry a gun, you're using it as a way out
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: to solve a problem. Animal walking away, animal talking, animal,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: reasoning and logic. I have the ultimate decision maker on me,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: and it's called a gun, and I'll use it. Yeah.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: That that creates a lot of crime in our and
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: then the freedom to buy guns allows criminals access to guns,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: which makes us who are law abadding people unsafe at Mars,
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: not being able to go to PHIPS and Linux is.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: It's ridiculous what has happened in the city of Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard enough, Steve, with law enforcement people who legally
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: have the right to carry guns. You know, yeah, misconduct, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know when they when they react badly or wrongly,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: or you know, misjudge the situation or whatever. They're racist,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: whatever the situation. And you got regular, like you say,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: law abiding citizens carrying guns. This is a horrible Now
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: the law abiding citizen tries to counter trying the capabilities
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: of criminals by let me, let me carry me a
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: gun to protect me in my family. Do I understand that? Absolutely? Absolutely,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: I understand that. But now everybody got a gun, yes, yeah,
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Now we live in America to shoot them up society.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: And it's not like that in a lot of other countries.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: And if you look at the deaf and murder rates
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: in other countries, America is far and away the most
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: vicious and criminalized country on Earth. Damn near Damn, Damn
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  Speaker 1: near dog. I mean, dislike hill. This over here is crazy, man,
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: and it's unfair, and I don't think it is reversible.
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  Speaker 1: And the reason I don't think is reversible. Is because
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: the n r A controls the Right League part. Yeah,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: and they'll fight to the death for those Second Amendment rights.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: But to answer your question, Tommy, the grand jury has
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: indict at Kranston. He has been charged with second degree murder,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: first degree manslaughter, second degree manslaughter, first degree assault, in
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: two counts of unlawful use of a weapon. Okay, all right, yeah,
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: all right, and we'll be back with more of the
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. The Nephew with today's
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this. You're listening to the
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject is my children are inconvenient.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: That is the cha. I'm what all this? Everybody on
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  Speaker 1: the show has kids broke the okay? And who are listening?
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it. And justin Bibby right now,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: the Nephew is here. You hear them with today's praying
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for its nat bottom of
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  Speaker 1: the pyramid, Bottom of the pyramid. I think Carlin knows
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  Speaker 1: a little something about this. Right here, shout out fledge
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  Speaker 1: your mom's we bought that life. Yes, all, here we go,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Come on, cat Dog bottom of the pyramid. Hello, Hello, Hello, hello, yeah,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: can you hear me? I'm trying to read. Sorry on
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: just a second, let me turn it down. Okay, Hi,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: who are you trying to reach? I'm trying to reach Angela?
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this Hi Andrew. This is Chip Chip. I'm
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: the new camp director for the cheerleading camp for the summer. Hi, Hip,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: what can I do for you? I just wanted to
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: give you a courtesy call your daughter. You've got her
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: signed up for four weeks with the camp, right yeah,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: but Joe, Yeah, this is your guys third year being
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: a part of the camp, yep. And she's really excited.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: She loved coming to the camp and we think it's
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: a great thing for how to be involved in. What's that? Okay?
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: You guys just finished the whole cheerleading season two? Am I? Right?
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: In the competition season? Yes, it's coming off of that
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: right right? Okay, Well, we're getting ready for the summer
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: and everybody's excited about coming out and being a part
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: of what's going on. So here's what I wanted to
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: give you a little bit like I said, I'm the
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: new camp director. I was just starting at this job.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I got a few notes that that we're giving to
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: me about about, so I wanted to give you a
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: call and see if I could talk to you about it.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: A few notes giving to you about Yeah, just a
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: couple of notes. I don't think it's anything that we
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: can make sure it's okay. What kind of note. Well,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: it's been brought from my team, and that some of
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: the parents whose daughters are out there as well, there's
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: gonna be there this summer. A little concerned about her
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: being on top of the pyramid, that she's uh is
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: getting a little heavy shit she uh wait wait wait
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait ho ho ho.
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  Speaker 1: You calling me about some some other parents and said
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: about how big my child is or how much my
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: child waves? Is that work? What I wanted to let
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: you know was we're gonna put as a base. Oh no,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna put no base. I don't already pay
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: my money. And what you say your name is Chip?
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: And um, how long have you been the director? Because
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: I was just up there two weeks ago and they
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: told me that she was gonna be the same position
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: that she was last year, because that is what worked.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: That's the formation that works. So I don't even know
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: what the world supposedly that some of the girls are
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: complaining that she's too heavy to hold up. So that's
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: what seems to be the problem in there. They're not
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: getting a strong on the pyramids. And wait a minute, way,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: way a minute. I know, well, she ain't the biggest one.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I felt, have you been myself? My child is not
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: the biggest child. I fell when it because I would
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: see you have not seen these chimleys and if some
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: baby so most I felt, Okay, hang on, sud Angela,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I want you to calm down a bit now. Aint
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: nobody's gonna calm down because I'd not already paid my money,
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: And it is that I'll be talking about what parents
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: what Harrison said? Something? Is it? Uh? Is it? Carrie Man?
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not gonna state who it is, but
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: let's just say it was several Harris has got something
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: to say about my child and her position on the
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: chimleading squad. Because if you ain't gonna fuck up no names,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: then I don't understand what you're calling me about. I'll
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: tell you one thing. When she get out fell I
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: didn't pay my money. She better not be on no base.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: She better be in the hour. I guarantee you that, right. Nah,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I've been hanging with the ain't nobody said nothing to
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: me about and my way and all this. Okay, Angela,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: can you hear me? I just wanted you to hear
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: me clearly. I haven't seen these young ladies yet. Once
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I see them, I will critique what I think. You
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: don't even need to be calling me because you ain't
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: even seen nothing. Are you calling me with some He
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: says she's from some other parents that's been skinny and
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: grinned in my face, and they now wanted you and
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: nothing to me. They have't been in my house. We
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: ain't had parties, always hiving the competition every weekend of
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: other day, and they couldn't say nothing to me about
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: my baby. I tell you what, why don't you call
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: your girls on the three way? Mister Chip. If you
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: can't call him on the three I got them. I
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: call him on the three way. Okay, Okay, Look man,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: all I wanted to do is make you aware of
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: the possibility that she may be a good Thank you
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you have made me aware, and I guarantee you that
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: if I bring my big yellow up and come to
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: the practice, I guarantee you she won't be a face.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: How much you want to bet on that, mister Chip, Look,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: you're gonna quit holler and me and I told you
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I would try to take a look at these girls.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: But I tell you what your thought is gonna be
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: a face or she's gonna be a back support, whichever
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: I decide. She's started to do. Who enough do you
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: think you're holler that at, mister chill, No, that's not
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: how it's gonna go down, as a matter of fact.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, mister chill, are you at
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: the registration table to day? I'm here now while people
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: are registering you? Sorry, let me turn it around. I'll
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: tell you what. I'm all my way up there. Why
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: don't you and the parents has been complaining? Why don't
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: all y'all come to the table and we gonna have
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: come to Jesus meeting about whether it's gonna be But
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: it's coming up season because I'm not going to tolerate this.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I've ben't told you, I haven't paid my money, and
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: this high is going down? Game weight? What what is
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: it that you wa game way to night. What does
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: they have to do with her chill meeting? Jude? You
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: agree that probably bigger than most of the girls on
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: the team. It's not bigger than most of the girls
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: on the team. Uh, mommy daughter's visited and she wasn't
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: no base. Last ship they hiked up up some gonna
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: get up to We all just gonna be big impromped
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: up in the air. I didn't turned around, and I'm
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: here to sell you the restration table, So let's be
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: with it. I'll be ready before you get here. That's
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you. You ain't gonna
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: tell me something. All you gotta do is to have
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: you and the pears around that table when I get there,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: because I'm on my way up there right now. Then
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: y'all can say all y'all gotta say in my face, Well,
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I want to get before you get it. I just
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: want to let you know, man, what this is nephew
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: timing from the sea. Who this is on this phone? Wait? Wait, women,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: hold on, holo ho what did you just say? This
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: is a nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: To be good? Oh lord, Rochelle, there's another pair named Rochelle.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: She thought for y'all a good friends out there, oh
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: she got Oh, so she want to break out? All right,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: we're gonna see the season start started uniform. She'll be
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: able to perform a fact we look at to hers.
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: How about I want to break out me? Oh man, hey,
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: let me ask some baby, what is the baddest I mean,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. Now you have
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: some people got to be at the bottom. Okay, some
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: people got to be at the bottom. Up with me, everybody.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: Everybody can't be on the top. All you chier moms
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: and cheer dad's out there, y'all, y'all pull up a
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: little bit, y'all, y'all go hard for y'all be on
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: the sideline doing way too much yelling at the coach.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: You just said, we cheer moms, we about that life.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Everybody can't be on top. It's got to be some
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: people at the bottom of the pyramid. Weight got a
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: lot to do with it. You got to be on
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: the base. You know who you are. You can't be
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: the flyer. We can't throw you up and had a
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: look on him kid's face on when you on your
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: way down you're important. I'm not gonna run the risk
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: of breaking both my arms trying to catch you. I
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: think what costs most money is all expensive as ribbons.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. Your ribbon better not
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: come out your head and hit that floor. You lose
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: points for that. Yes, you better. You better have listen, No, listen.
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: We're having Cheerley the Cuts this morning. The following people
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: will not make the cut, and we will tell you why. Teresa,
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: your inability to smile, you are out cherry, your inability
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: to wear the halfstyles we required. We said pony tails.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: And Larissa, you don't know how to keep your bowing
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: your here coming up, Strawberry Letter. My children are inconvenient
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  Speaker 1: as a subject. We'll get into it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: fh you. My children are inconvenient is the subject. Dear
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty one years old. I'm a married woman,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: and I've been with my husband for seven years. We
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: met at a rap concert while picking up our daughters,
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: who were both sixteen at the time. He and I
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: started talking about how we shouldn't have let our daughters
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: go unchaperoned. My daughter and her friends came out first,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: and he got my number before I walked away. We
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: instantly clicked, and he proposed a year. After a year
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: of dating, our daughters didn't know each other, so they
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: demanded separate bedrooms as we struggled to blend our families
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: after marriage. Right now, we live with two twenty three
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: year old women, and he has a son that is nineteen,
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: and he comes and goes as he pleases. When he
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: breaks up with this girl, he's back on our couch
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: for a few weeks. All of our bedrooms, all of
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: our closets, and two storage rooms have been taken over
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: by grown children. My husband and I are a decent couple,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: and my man works hard, and so do I. We
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: brought our children up in the church and we made
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: sure they went to college. All three of them dropped out.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Our girls smoke weed, and I'm sure our son does too,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: but he's just better at high The girls smoke in
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: our backyard, and the neighbors used to complain, but now
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: they just accept it like we do. I talk to
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: my husband about us selling our house and downsizing to
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: a condo so these freeloaders won't have any space, but
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: he's got a soft spot for these grown, lazy women.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I want to redo our kitchen and din but I
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: refuse to make our home nicer until the freeloaders will leave.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for them because they're a major
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: inconvenience at this point. They have no way to take
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: care of themselves if we put them out. What can
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: we do to get these grown ups out of here? Wow,
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: this is a really sad letter. Smoking weed in the
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: backyard not working. This has got to stop right now. Okay,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: and downsizing to a nice condo sounds really nice. And
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: I got to ask where is their mother? She probably
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: doesn't let them take advantage of her space like you guys,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: You and your husband have to present some sort of
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: night at front. I know you said your husband has
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: a soft spot, But you all got to get this
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: together so you can talk to these entitle, spoiled kids.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: You gotta let them know things are about to change.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: The free rides over. You got to set a deadline
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: for them to get it together and get out. They
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: need jobs, they need apartments so they can get out
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: as soon as possible. They should start looking now, You
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: as parents are enabling them. That's what you're doing. You
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: have these kids have no incentive to get out. They
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: have free meals, free room and boards. They can smoke
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: weed whenever they want to. You guys, don't say anything.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, what's their incentive to leave? I mean, the
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: sun does have a place to live, so you definitely
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be letting him come and go as he pleases.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: I know you love your kids. We all love our kids,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: but there does come a time when we have to
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: let go so they can spread their wings and get
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: started on their own paths, on their own journey. They'll
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: figure it out. They will figure it out as we
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: all did, and they'll thank you later. All right, but
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: you've got to tell them to get out now, set
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: that deadline and stick to it. You and your husband
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: together as a couple. Steve, all of us on this
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: show that have adult children know what this letter is
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: about and were sick of this type of letter. Yeah,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: we feel for you, we understand you, we empathize with you.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, I've had to do some things.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Now let me tell you something ain't all ease because
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: I'm all through this letter. I had blended family. All
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: this here, so you know, here we go. Y'all met
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: at a rap concert. Both of y'all sixteen year old
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: daughters was at the concert. Y'all met waiting on them
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: to come outside. Your daughters came out first with her friends.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: You all clicked. He asked for your number before you
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: walked away. A year later, you all were married. Your daughters,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: who were both sixteen, didn't really know each other, so
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: they demanded separate bedrooms as we struggled to blend our
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: families after marriage. Blend in the family is not easy,
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: especially the older they get. The more opinionated they are,
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: and they have personalities, and they not necessarily would have
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: been friends. They just became family thing. But families you
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: don't get to pick your family. You do get to
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: pick your friends, so when you throw them into this situation,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: it is going to be some difficulties. Right now, after
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: seven years, you live with two twenty three year old women,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: and yeah, as a son is nineteen, come and go
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: as he pleases, he break up with his girlfriend, he's
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: back on our couch for a few weeks. All of
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: our bedrooms, all of our clauses, two stories rooms have
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: been taken up, our grown children. My husband and I
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: have a decent couple, and my man works hard, and
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: so do I. It's just so much going wrong in
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: this letter. First of all, they've been at y'all's house
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: way too long. Now. I'm off for your solution when
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: we come back. But let me say this first. We
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: brought our children up in the church. Okay, so much
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: for that, So much for that. I don't even know
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: why you put that in there. I don't know. I
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if that was supposed to
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: change something. Because you bought them up in the church.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: You can bring them up in the church, and you
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: can bring them up in the club when they ain't
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: doing what they supposed to do. They ain't doing what
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: they're supposed to do, and we made sure they went
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: to college. All three of them dropped out. Okay, so
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: now you're making adult decisions on your own, then it
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: is time for adult consequences when I come back to me.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: This whole letter is about consequences and you have to
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: allow and I've learned this as a parent. You have
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: to allow for the consequences to occur. It's the only
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: way they're gonna learn. And it's not consequences that you inflict.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: It's consequences that happen from their decisions. Will go over
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: this when I come there. Hang on, Steve, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up twenty three minutes
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: after the our subject, my children are inconvenient. We'll get
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning show.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 1: My children are inconvenient? Well? Well, well, well ain't they all?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: Sometimes your children get on your last damn Nerve. Oh,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: they don't think they do, but they do. And guess
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: what the good news is they children gonna get on
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: they damn nerves too, Nann. So that's how I've been
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I've been looking at my son when kids now, and
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: he'd be talking to me, I don't even be listening
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: ahead to tell me why I listening whatever? Whatever, you
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: was that same damn problem you tell me. So now
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: we got these couple gotten married. They have two daughters.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: At sixteen, they blended a family. They're having difficulties. The
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: daughters demanded each separate bed rooms. They struggle with their marriage.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: They got a nineteen year old boy that comes and
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: go when he pleased. If he break up with his girlfriend,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: he back on their couch for a few weeks. All
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: the bed rooms and closets and storage is taken up
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: by grown children. And you all are a decent couple.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: You and your husband. Y'all raised your kids in church,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: which whatever, anyway, we made sure they went to college.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: Now all three of the kids have decided to drop
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: out of college. This is where your consequences have to begin.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: The one thing I've taught my children is this, the
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: older you get, the more die of the consequences. So
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: you can make these mistakes at a child, and then
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: your parents are helping. But the older you get, my man,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: the more die of the consequences. And I'm not going
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: to stop the consequences from happening to you. So once
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: they decided to drop out of college, then guess what
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: they needed to develop then was a plan of action
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: since you don't want to go to college, but they
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: ain't have one, and you all didn't allow them to
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: have one because you all let them come back to
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: the hole. Now all three of them then dropped out,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: and now they're smoking weed, and you sure your son
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: does too. He just bet at hiding it. The girls
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: smoke weed in y'all's backyard, and the neighbors used to complain,
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: but now they just accepted, like we do. Really seem
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: to me like you need some rules at your house. See,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: you can stay here, but these are the rules at
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: our house. You can't smoke weed in the backyard. It's
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: no longer acceptable. And if you smoke weed in the backyard,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: we're gonna put you out. But they ain't got no consequences,
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: so they do what they want to do. Now, you
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: say you talked to your husband about selling your house
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: and downsizing so you can get rid of these freeloaders
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: because they won't have any space. But he got a
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: soft spot for these grown lazy women. I'm assuming that
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: you don't. That's why you wrote the letter. You want
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: to redo your kitchen. It dead, but you don't want
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: to make the place nice until the freeloaders lead. I
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: don't feel bad for them because they have a major
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: inconvenience at this point, they have no way to take
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: care of themselves. This is where you and I have
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: some problems. They have no way to take care of themselves.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: Well that's not true. They do have a way once
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: they have to find a way. I'm gonna repeat that,
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: they do have a way once they have to find
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: a way. But as Shirley said, you've enabled them, so
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: now they ain't got to find a way. We're in
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: the back yard smoking weed. We got a roof over
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: our head, we got some need and we can get around.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: So what do we need to do anything for if
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: we put them out? What can they excuse me? I'm sorry,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: we have no way to take They have no way
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: to get care of themselves. If we with them out,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: What can we do to get these grown ups out
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: of here? First of all, you need to set a deadline.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: That's for starters. You all have six months to find
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: a job. Whoever doesn't have a job will be staying
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: with the one that does have a job. But everybody
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: got six months to find a job. Secondly, you and
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: your husband stop cooking at home and y'all go out
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: to dinner. I don't care if it's to go up
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: to Popeyes. I don't give a damn. If it's to
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: go get salad at Wendy's Ball salad Ball, I don't
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: give a damn. If it's go to Jim and Nicks,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: I don't care what it is. Y'all need to stop cooking,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: starved their ass out. See, stop making conveniences. Yeah, so
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: stop cooking, go out to dinner, set a deadline, and
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: then they have to realize consequences. You have to allow
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: life to hand them what they're putting in. See, you
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: get out of life what you put in. So if
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: you don't allow your kids to suffer consequences, Daddy, can
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: I borrow some money, but what you need? And then
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: they tell me, I'm under no obligation to give you
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: the money. It depends on what's happening in your life.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now, for the most part,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: I forced them to figure it out. I forced them
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: to figure it out. And you know what, they go
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: do they go and figure it out, because you know
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: what we all did. We all struggle to give our
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: kids a better life than the one we had, and
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: in that process, you all, we created a safety net
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: for them that we didn't have. And so now guess
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: what they do. They keep diving and laying in the
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: damn net and that's all they do because they think
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: they are and they take advantage of the safety net.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: You have to remove the net. True, I'm sorry. It's
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: the only way to make it happen and let them
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: figure it out. That's the only way to do it. Deadline,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: you gotta get your ass out, That's right, Steve. Post
• 1:07:18
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• 1:07:24
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• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: hour of Sports Talk with you know Who Junior. Right
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, Junior is here with Sports Talk. What's
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: you got Junior? Okay, Shirley, first off, if I'm gonna
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: get to my team in a minute, but just congratulates
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: to Tom Brady for sitting the passing record. He now
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: holds the NFL pass a record with eighty congratulation. Browns
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: the Browns, Yeah you know it again, because you're out
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: there in Texas and ain't got nothing to be grateful for.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, Junior. I'm sorry, yeah, ok on no, because
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: he lost Sunday forty to nothing, forty to nothing to
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: the Buffalo Bills for it, not a now point, not
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: nothing nothing. We had nothing to show for it. So
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: it says now Statistically, teams that are one in three
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: or folk the whole game attendance drops eighteen percent. So
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: since we end that agent percent, I got some ideas
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: to help the team out and get the attendance up.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: Just as a few suggestions, I think we should really
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: implement ahead for a hundred dollars, just just for the take.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: For a hundred dollars, you can run out the tunnel
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: with the team and then run to your seat, because
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: we need to see who out here can run. We
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: need other players can't do a damn thing on the field,
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: just scout retalent at the at the fort out. Why
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: would I give you one hundred dollars to run out
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: with y'all losing asks? Go ahead? We're trying to find
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: better players. We ain't really got nothing. So for fifty
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: we got players or coaching. For fifty dollars, we'll let
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: you drop your own play, will send it down and
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: we'll run it. Because the one we run it ain't
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: doing a damn thing for the whole peack, because we
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: just go a point. We just need player coach. For
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, we'll put pads in a helmet on
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: you and let you play whatever position you want. If
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: you feel like you're a better quarterback. Hell, he's starting
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: eleven games in college. If you got any none league,
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: any two hand touch leading high school football, I don't
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: give a damn what it is you have done. If
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: you can play better quarterback, then heat we'll came. I'm
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: gonna give you two hundred dollars to put on some
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: pads and stand behind that ragged ass official line. Um, Um,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: did you see we lost forty or nothing? We need
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: all the help we can get. Six day. Don't want
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: to initiate no help, We'll I initiate it for football
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: to hand touch. We don't give a damn what it is.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: What's your football sparing? You can do better than what
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: we did because we put up a goose egg for
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: it to nothing, but you know what, and then for
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: another two hundred and fifty dollars. Hell, we'll let you
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: start because the startups we got ain't worth a damn,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: he says, too high, two hundred and fifty start and
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: lose and just you don't. Can you get read my seasons? Parents?
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: And I got two seasons? Fair? Can you go? And
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: I'm abody buying that ragged ass chair you got For
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: the passing time, We'll let you do the pep talk
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: in the locker room to the coach. Get great suggestions, Junior,
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: I love it. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about the man code. Right after this. You're
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: listening to Steve. If you recall, you mentioned that you
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: saw the public apology of B two k's Little Fizz
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: when he apologized to a Marion for dating a Marion's
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: X and the mother of his two children, April Jones Well.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: During a recent B two K concert in Los Angeles.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: Fizz said he was wrong and basically said, I did
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: some fed up sugar honey iced tea stuff to my brother.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it, man, So I want to
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: say humbly, I humbly and sincerely apologize to you for
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: any turmoil and dysfunction I caused between you and your family.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: So here's the question. Yeah you saw it, Yeah it
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: was I'm sure it was a moment too. So here's
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: a question for you. Junior and Tommy Steve talk about
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: this man code. Fizz broke it. But can you really
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: really be cool again once you break that man code?
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: Can you be cool with your with your teammates or
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: your bandmate, your brother again? I sent your name? Well, well,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: well we can just hold on for him because we
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: already know what it is. Yeah, Oh, I don't know
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: that it'll ever be the same because it's two people
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: that's got to be forgiven. Fears is gonna forgive me
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: for doing what he did to my girl, and then
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need forgiven it for what I did to
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Fears for doing it to my girl Maria forgiving Fiz right. Well,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: but see, I then Fear is gonna have to have
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: forgiven me for beating his ass as bad as I
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: did once week. Then now I don't know how time
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: it feel. But that's that's a lot that'll partly we'd
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: probably still be on stage forgiving each other. Okay, all right,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: what no, d Dani, same don't Yeah, I mean I
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: hear what you say saying, but now you know that
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: that you can't fix that because now, well my girl
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: I got Now, I can't trust you around, honey, because
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: y'all ass is a girl snatches. So it ain't a
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: where in the world. I'm gonna sit up here and
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: just be cool with you any time you walk in
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: the room and here feeds in here, get your stuff,
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: baby's gonna go. Come on, put the plate down and
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: let's go. Feez is here ain't awhere in the world.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: All right, well, let's thank you. Let's move on to
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: the man who holds a grudge until he dies. Uh, nephew,
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: what about this man? Code? What you got? I'm through
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: with you when we get to hell and all help,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: I don't with you. That's it. It is what it is.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sucky you've didn't done me. We dune. That's your age.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: That forgiveness. Yeah, I think man don't have that type
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: of forgiveness towards that can't forgive each other. World thank
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: forgive each other because and the reason being is, you know,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: they performing together they got a way to make this money,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: and I can show you something probably happened with that dude.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: Does a Marian still date this girl? No? Yeah, see
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: that that's has two children from her. No, And it
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: sounds like she was she on some revenge stuff to
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: hurt him a Marian and then got with Fizz and
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: he was wrong and she was wrong. So yeah, yeah, apologized.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: I think that big. That was real big. But I
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: would like I said, I'd have had to apologize to them.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: Since we apologize the apology to I think that's being
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: because I think a lot of B two K fans
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: probably thought that they would never see them perform again
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: in the group still as off the stage. Well, if
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: you feel to be in the group and he'll be
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: a cutout, he'll be, he'll be fizzing. It'll be some
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: season out of him. That's but you know what, in
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: all honesty, I like the apology that he made and
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: I'm glad they was able to squash it because it
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: ain't just fears to your girl trifling too. Yeah, so
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: sometimes you need to get the news in a different way.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: One more time as we go out, Tommy, just to
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: be clear on how you feel what averybody annoy it.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: Showed twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: White House Medical Advisor Anthony Fauci said yesterday on the
• 1:15:51
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• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: soon to tell if Americans would need to limit holiday
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: gatherings this year due to a course of pandemic. Doctor
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: Fauci instead says we should focus like a laser on
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: continuing to get those cases down by getting people vaccinated
• 1:16:09
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• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: Last year, at the start of October twenty twenty, the
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: seven day moving average of cases was around forty three thousand,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: according to the CDC. The current seven day moving average
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: is around a one hundred and three thousand. Wow. That's
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: a huge difference. Wow. Yeah, it's almost double, or more
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  Speaker 1: than double, more than double, yeah, more than double. People
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  Speaker 1: are not listening. They're not doing this Christmas like they
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  Speaker 1: did last Christmas. They're gonna gather, is what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, they had football games right now? Will
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  Speaker 1: you watch college football? You're watching a super soaker spreader.
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  Speaker 1: But the pros too though, right, professional games too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: everything is back, surely, I said it exactly. Why so yeah? Man? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well man, my grandmother. You gotta have your vaccine car
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  Speaker 1: to get in hot house. But Thanksgiving that first. All right,
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  Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this, you're
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  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. This one
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  Speaker 1: is from Lakida and Denver. Lakida writes, I'm using my
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  Speaker 1: boss's car temporarily while mine is getting worked on. He
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  Speaker 1: helps me out by putting gas in the car, getting
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  Speaker 1: it washed occasionally. The other day he took the car
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  Speaker 1: and got it washed and filled it up. I noticed
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  Speaker 1: that my weed was gone, so I asked him if
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  Speaker 1: the car man threw it out. He said he found
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  Speaker 1: the weed and smoked it. He said it's his are
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  Speaker 1: and anything in the car is his property. I am
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  Speaker 1: so hot? Should I make him replace my weed? Are
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  Speaker 1: you kidding me? Are you kidding me? Legal? Okay? Now,
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  Speaker 1: let me okay, okay, let me ask something, because did
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  Speaker 1: I get it confused. What's this her car? Her bosses
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  Speaker 1: now her boss's car, she's using it. She's using her
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  Speaker 1: boss's car, hers is getting worked done it? Has she
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  Speaker 1: left out the part that her boss is trying or
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  Speaker 1: sleeping with her? Oh? Well it should be. What boss
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  Speaker 1: letting you use their car and go wash it in
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  Speaker 1: and clean it up and pitting gas in it? But
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  Speaker 1: you cool enough with your boss where you can buy
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  Speaker 1: some weed and leave it in the ashtray he can
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  Speaker 1: smoke it. Y'all got that type relationship. This ain't about
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  Speaker 1: bossing employees, just about something else. So I'm not even
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  Speaker 1: gonna answer the damn question because I don't give a
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  Speaker 1: damn about your weed. But they in Colorado, I guess
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  Speaker 1: it is. But it's not my concern. Who has we?
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  Speaker 1: I'm more concerned about how you got your boss's car,
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  Speaker 1: driving it and he putting gas in and washing it.
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  Speaker 1: Who's sleeping with Who's That's really what y'all having a
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  Speaker 1: love of spat over some damn we dat me. He
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  Speaker 1: said it's his car and anything in his car is
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  Speaker 1: his property, and so is she when she in it?
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  Speaker 1: Get it? Yeah, all right, sir? Moving on, Cassandra in
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  Speaker 1: the Midwest, says, my husband and I we're planning to
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  Speaker 1: go to Antigua over the Christmas holidays, and the travel
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  Speaker 1: agent told us both that we have to be vaccinated
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  Speaker 1: to travel. My husband is paid for the trip and
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  Speaker 1: still won't get vaccinated, so now he's backing out of
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  Speaker 1: the trip. A portion of it is nonrefundable, so I
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  Speaker 1: suggested that I invite my sister to go with me instead.
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  Speaker 1: He says, that's fine, but he'd expect my sister to
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  Speaker 1: pay him back for half the trip. He was going
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  Speaker 1: to lose the money, so why did she have to
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  Speaker 1: pay your thoughts c l oh, hey, dog, listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: This situation is because you won't get a vaccine. You
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  Speaker 1: won't get vaccinated, Okay, cool. Now because of that, only
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  Speaker 1: half of the money is refundable, your sister said, Your
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: wife says, let my sister go. You say, fine, but
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  Speaker 1: she got to pay me for the other half. What
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  Speaker 1: other half? You don't hand no other half? Dog, it's
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  Speaker 1: gone cause your ass won't get the vaccine. Now you
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  Speaker 1: can't go. It don't make no sense to ask the
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  Speaker 1: girl for her money back, for your money back, Your
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  Speaker 1: money gone. The unvaccinated is starting to piss me off.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up, it is our last break of the day,
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  Speaker 1: and of course we'll have some closing remarks from the
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  Speaker 1: one and only, our fearless leader, our Captain, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after right after this, you're listening
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are
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  Speaker 1: on this Tuesday with our last break of the day,
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  Speaker 1: and this is it for our show for today. We've
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  Speaker 1: had fun. It's been good. Yes man, had a good time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: good Tuesday. Uh huh? And I don't what are you
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  Speaker 1: so mad? You don't really need to say nothing else today? Really?
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  Speaker 1: Really you really think you need to be talking? I
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: told y'all cut his mic off. But what is he
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: mad about? The little fist and mary stuff? Too long? Caller,
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: that was forty minutes ago. We talked about that for years,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: than boy and mad at Earl Patterson on street about
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  Speaker 1: his bike that will never change. That makes you bitter inside.
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: Earl Patterson. Earl got always be, Earl got to be
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  Speaker 1: at least sixty eight now he's still be talking about
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  Speaker 1: Earl Patterson. I'll be gonna Tommy, if you saw Earl,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't need recognized, all right, what is that? What
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: the close remark about? On? Man, we ain't got enough
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  Speaker 1: time for them closing my mom with him. Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: I do want to say this though. I want to
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  Speaker 1: remind people of something. I want everybody to go back
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  Speaker 1: and look again. Go back and look again. If you
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  Speaker 1: have given up on a mission in life, if you've
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  Speaker 1: given up on a dream, if you've given up on
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  Speaker 1: an aspiration, if you've stopped pursuing anything you that that
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  Speaker 1: that you had your eyes on as a goal, I
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  Speaker 1: want you to go back and look again. Sometimes you
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: have to rekindle the dream. Sometimes you got to fire
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  Speaker 1: fired back up. Sometimes you gotta find a new motivation.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you just gotta Sometimes you just gotta go back
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  Speaker 1: and look again. I can't tell you how many times
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  Speaker 1: I stopped doing something because I thought it wasn't gonna happen,
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  Speaker 1: or because I thought that wasn't God's will, or because
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  Speaker 1: I just got tired. But if you go back and
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  Speaker 1: look again, you might come to the realization that God
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  Speaker 1: was behind the scenes working some stuff out for you.
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  Speaker 1: Because God sees things you don't see. He hears conversations
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  Speaker 1: you don't hear, so quite naturally, God gonna make moves
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't make. Sometimes you got to go back and
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  Speaker 1: look again, because I can promise you it was not
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  Speaker 1: his fault at all. It is always because of a
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  Speaker 1: decision we make. Stop letting the devil rob you of
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  Speaker 1: your destiny by giving up too early. A blessing delayed
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  Speaker 1: is not a blessing denied. God has impeccable timing. His
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  Speaker 1: timing is always on point. He's never too late. The
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  Speaker 1: problem with people is we give up too early. We
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  Speaker 1: get tied awaiting on God's impeccable timing, and we give
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  Speaker 1: up too early. When all you got to do is
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  Speaker 1: stay the course. If you stay the course, lem la
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  Speaker 1: menation you something? What's wrong with staying the course? If
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: you don't see any move then happening? Why would you
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: not just stay the course when you don't see movement happening?
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't mean movement ain't happening. Could it possibly be
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  Speaker 1: that God is doing some things behind the scenes? You
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  Speaker 1: ever thought about that? I'm telling y'all, man, Sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: got to go back and look again. You gotta take
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  Speaker 1: a second look, man, and you'll find out. Oftentimes, man,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't God as you you got to stop giving
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  Speaker 1: up so quick. You got to stop throwing in the towel.
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  Speaker 1: You got to stop raising the white flag. What you're
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  Speaker 1: doing that for? What you're quitting for the problem with
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  Speaker 1: quitting is you, when you quit, you finalize the blessing
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  Speaker 1: from happenings. You impede the blessing from coming because you quit,
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  Speaker 1: You gave up. Sometimes you gotta go back and look again.
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  Speaker 1: God has always working behind the scenes. He's always preparing
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  Speaker 1: a table for you. I can't count the times how
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  Speaker 1: many times God didn't prepare the table in the presence
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  Speaker 1: of my enemies. I can't even tell you. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: living witness to this, man. But you gotta keep the faith.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta keep believing. You gotta keep going when it
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  Speaker 1: feels like it ain't gonna happen hanging there? Why quit
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  Speaker 1: when it doesn't feel right, when it doesn't seem like
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  Speaker 1: it's moving. This is not the time to quit. This
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  Speaker 1: is the time to knuckle down, stand still, and keep
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  Speaker 1: your faith. This is all what faith is. How many
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  Speaker 1: times can I say it? Man, Faith is the belief
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  Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see. God ain't gonna always
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  Speaker 1: reveal to you exactly how he's doing it. You just
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  Speaker 1: got to believe that it's gonna get done, just like
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  Speaker 1: it's been done every other time. Tell me one time
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  Speaker 1: God has failed you. Name it. Name the one time
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  Speaker 1: he failed you. Now, if you thank you're smart enough
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  Speaker 1: where you can name a time God has failed you.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to look back at that. Was it
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  Speaker 1: really God? Or was it you? I bet you it
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  Speaker 1: was you. God never fails. Come on, y'all, keep your faith,
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  Speaker 1: keep your head up. God is working. Look back again,
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  Speaker 1: take a look, don't give up hanging there. Those are
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  Speaker 1: my closing remarks. Y'all have a great one today. Hey, look,
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