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Happy Veteran's Day, Heart Health, Steve's VM, Sheryl Underwood and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know, y'all back a suit on the don giving
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  Speaker 1: them like a million bucks things and it's not good.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harp to mother Stuart Joy. You gotta use that turn.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn
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  Speaker 1: them out. Then the water, the water, y'all, come, come
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  Speaker 1: on your bad uh huh, I show will good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all listening to the bars, Come on dig me now
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  Speaker 1: one and on it. Steve Harvey got a radio show,
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  Speaker 1: Man on Man on man, grateful for it comes with
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  Speaker 1: a huge amount of responsibility. I didn't really know I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna have to be this responsible, you know, Um,
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  Speaker 1: can I share something with y'all? I started out to
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  Speaker 1: Finally I had gotten on track and was able to
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  Speaker 1: see a way to even pursue my dream. It has
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  Speaker 1: been a long, a long trip that I've been on,
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  Speaker 1: and I've gone through so many phases of it. It
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  Speaker 1: is rewarding along the way to accomplish your dreams. What
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying is this, let me let me put it together,
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  Speaker 1: because I got so much running through my head right now.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's one thing to accomplish your dream,
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  Speaker 1: but there's joy in the process of achieving it. See,
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  Speaker 1: some people are so caught up in the goal, the
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  Speaker 1: final goal, that they find no joy, no enjoyment in
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  Speaker 1: the process. If you have found what it is you
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  Speaker 1: want to do and you strike out on that journey,
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  Speaker 1: please understand you are far more blessed than the average
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  Speaker 1: person to know what it is you really want to do.
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  Speaker 1: To find your work in life, your purpose, to find
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  Speaker 1: out what direction you want to go in is such
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  Speaker 1: a blessing. The average person, if you sit down and
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  Speaker 1: talk to them, oftentimes don't have their life on track.
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  Speaker 1: And it'd be some people that you're looking at you
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  Speaker 1: think God are going on because of their appearance, their swagger,
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  Speaker 1: or they walk like it, they talk like it, they
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  Speaker 1: look like it. But if you sit down and talk
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  Speaker 1: to the average person, the average person man does not
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  Speaker 1: know what their purpose is, has not discovered what they
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  Speaker 1: want to do, and have no idea how to get there.
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  Speaker 1: If you are on the other side of that, if
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  Speaker 1: you understand your purpose, if you have an idea of
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  Speaker 1: what you want to be, and you are on your
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  Speaker 1: way there, you are truly blessed. And in that blessing.
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  Speaker 1: You must recognize it as a blessing. You must recognize
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you are on the right side, and
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  Speaker 1: that there should be a sense of accomplishment and a
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  Speaker 1: feeling of pride in you that you are on track
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  Speaker 1: to accomplish your goal. See what used to happen was
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  Speaker 1: sometimes I used to keep my nose so on the
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  Speaker 1: grindstone that I wouldn't even look up and realize. Man, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: I know you're trying to get here, but steve, hold on, man,
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  Speaker 1: can't you see what you've done so far? Can't you
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  Speaker 1: find just some joy in the process. See, a lot
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  Speaker 1: of us lose the joy of the blessings God has
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  Speaker 1: given us because we're looking at the end. Toot, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't there yet. You on your way. I'm gonna give
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  Speaker 1: you an example. I had a friend who told me
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  Speaker 1: that they wanted to be a million now, and they
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  Speaker 1: asked me some questions and I told him, so they
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  Speaker 1: started the process, and I am telling you, this dude
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  Speaker 1: works extremely hard. So about a year later we were talking.
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  Speaker 1: He had found this business, he had set his goal,
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  Speaker 1: and he was working towards it. Then about two years
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  Speaker 1: later I ran up into him again. We were talking
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  Speaker 1: about it and everything. It's a man really really appreciate
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  Speaker 1: the advice. He said, Man, but this is all jacked up, man,
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  Speaker 1: because I still ain't made that million I was talking about.
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  Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, just just keep at it.
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  Speaker 1: It's coming. He a, man, keep at it. Man. You
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  Speaker 1: know how long I've been doing this? Been two years now.
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  Speaker 1: And I didn't say that to him, but I said
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  Speaker 1: to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man, I've been
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  Speaker 1: grinding so long. Man, it's just it ain't having it
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  Speaker 1: from me. I said, wait a minute, man, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: hold on. I said, about how much you're making right
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  Speaker 1: now a year? Man, about two hundred and fifty thousand.
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  Speaker 1: I quit breathing. I said, well, my man, two years
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  Speaker 1: ago you didn't have a clue. Two years later, you're
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  Speaker 1: making a quarter of a million dollars. I said, man,
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  Speaker 1: do you understand how blessed you are? I said, man,
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  Speaker 1: your family was about to get put out two years ago.
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  Speaker 1: You don't bought a house? Yeah, man, but this ain't
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  Speaker 1: the house. I really won't. Ohoa Pardner, WHOA, I got that.
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  Speaker 1: I got that the house you really won't make Mike
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  Speaker 1: call five eight million. I don't know, but Man, y'all
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  Speaker 1: got a house, you're making a payments, you drive it.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't out no more. I said, hold on, man,
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  Speaker 1: you got to stop. I said, you got to stop.
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  Speaker 1: I said, man, because right now, man, you you coming
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  Speaker 1: across as real ungrateful to me. And so he said, man,
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  Speaker 1: why are you tripping like that? Man? Man, you act
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  Speaker 1: like don't nobody want to have nothing but you? I said,
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  Speaker 1: whoa man, where are you going with this conversation? I said, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't come to you. I just came to you
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  Speaker 1: and ask you how you doing. And I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: point out to you that the journey that you started on,
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  Speaker 1: that you are on your weight, and you are in
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  Speaker 1: the process of accomplishing your goals. And can you not
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  Speaker 1: feel some joy and some pleasure in your accomplishment. Quit
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  Speaker 1: tripping on the fact that you ain't made a million yet.
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  Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought,
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  Speaker 1: this dude was making fifteen thousand dollars a year. You
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  Speaker 1: making quarter of a million dollars in two years. May
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  Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So
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  Speaker 1: he said eventually a man, I kind of see what
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  Speaker 1: you're saying. But that ain't about nothing to me because
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  Speaker 1: I ran up into him a year and a half later.
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  Speaker 1: How you doing, man, Man, I showed, wish I'd appreciate
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  Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said,
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  Speaker 1: what you mean? Had it like that? Man? Just fell
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  Speaker 1: on some hard times. Man, I'm right back why I was.
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  Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry
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  Speaker 1: about it. I said, Once you know how to accomplish something,
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  Speaker 1: I said, you just reapply the same principles and start
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  Speaker 1: on over again. Man, you know how hard it is
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  Speaker 1: to be to start over. Okay, my man, Hold up, partner,
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  Speaker 1: you can't do yourself like this again. First you wasn't
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  Speaker 1: grateful for what you had. Now you're looking at the
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  Speaker 1: fact that you might have to start over, and you
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  Speaker 1: know how hard it is to start over. Maybe God said, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't happy with this. Okay, didn't handle it your way?
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  Speaker 1: You obviously ain't happy with the way I'm bringing it
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  Speaker 1: into your life. You want to handle it your weight,
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead and handle it because he will let you
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  Speaker 1: have it your way. Can I tell you that he
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  Speaker 1: will let you do it exactly the way you want
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  Speaker 1: to it because he gives us all the power of choice.
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  Speaker 1: So then maybe he said, Okay, you don't appreciate the
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  Speaker 1: way I'm doing it. You don't like the favor I'm
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  Speaker 1: showing you. You think it's take it too long. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna let you do it your way. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let you
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  Speaker 1: do it your way. Just just say. Maybe he said that,
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  Speaker 1: and now he right back where it was. So what
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  Speaker 1: I try to get the young cat to understand was, man,
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  Speaker 1: appreciate your life for what it is. Because like life,
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  Speaker 1: Jenny's got that song that he got out off this album.
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  Speaker 1: Still I still believe it could have been worse. And
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  Speaker 1: now that it is worse, what's on your mind now, Folks,
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  Speaker 1: If you are on that side of life where you
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  Speaker 1: have figured out what you want to do, you know
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  Speaker 1: how you're gonna get that, and you know your purpose.
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  Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do.
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  Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't
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  Speaker 1: throw yourself off to cliff. It's gonna be all right.
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  Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy.
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  Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Show again introducing a man who has claimed to be
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  Speaker 1: the innovator, creator, an activator of the entire music industry.
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  Speaker 1: He is currently in a three trillion dollar lawsuit against
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  Speaker 1: the music industry for rights, publishing rights, ownership of all
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  Speaker 1: music that he is responsible for. Ladies and Gentlemen, one
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  Speaker 1: of the greatest lounge singers songwriters of our time, Roscoe Wallace,
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  Speaker 1: with another song that is involved in the lawsuit that
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  Speaker 1: he wrote, There's one things as appreciated very for believing
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  Speaker 1: every everything. Here we go on two one, two three paper?
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  Speaker 1: Who was a roll houling stone? Hell, well, he laid
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  Speaker 1: hat wasn't home and when he died everybody got left alone. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I said, Nah, Papa wasn't we wasnt rolling stone? And
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  Speaker 1: what do you do? Whoever? He laid hat home and
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  Speaker 1: when he died everybody felt all alone? Yeah? That jam
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  Speaker 1: right there, Papa rolling tim jj omen for that too.
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  Speaker 1: The whole catalog belonged to me. I would just another
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  Speaker 1: here right here. Thank you so much for having me
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  Speaker 1: and for letting me plead my case to the world.
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  Speaker 1: For listing. Stop all that breathing college all good. Hat
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  Speaker 1: hate an't gonna get you. No, where's morning? Time too
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  Speaker 1: early for hate, way too early for he. Let me
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  Speaker 1: Jay call. I think me and you both know who
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  Speaker 1: ain't wrote it. No, No, that would be you. I
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  Speaker 1: say I did, and you cause you. I say that
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  Speaker 1: I wrote it because I did. That's a different between
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  Speaker 1: me in you, and that's why I didn't put you
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  Speaker 1: in the lawsuit. Thank you. I'm gonna suit me. Donna
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  Speaker 1: get sued up in him. Came I talked to you,
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  Speaker 1: lay all I would know him. Let me represent your state.
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  Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I like that? Help what Let me
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  Speaker 1: let me represent your state? Be good man. Let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you something you know. You ain't big on the truth.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe in it all the time. Okay, would
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  Speaker 1: you take a lot of take the test if a
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  Speaker 1: Marger was asking a question? What? No? Absolutely, Now, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna let you put all the wires on, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the test of it's gonna be rigged,
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  Speaker 1: you know if when you ain't looking, I'm gonna snatch
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  Speaker 1: a wire too off. But I'm gonna take this test
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  Speaker 1: because I have to appear as dope. I'm cooperating, but
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you you ain't looking. I gotta get
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  Speaker 1: to it. The wise awful. All right, so much for
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  Speaker 1: that rigged polygraph. Coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 1: the hour, we're gonna start the show off with Nephew.
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  Speaker 1: Tommy's run that prank back right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, time to start
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  Speaker 1: your morning off with run that rank back with the nephew.
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  Speaker 1: What you got now, well, Shirley, we're gonna run it back.
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  Speaker 1: It's in w A. Okay, that's not ice cube, that's
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  Speaker 1: not easy Ad, that ain't Andre. Okay. This is n WA,
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  Speaker 1: n word abolisher, in word abolish, and we've been to
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  Speaker 1: put a stop to to using the N word right here,
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  Speaker 1: right now. Okay, okay, let's go randit cat. Hello. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a mister Fears. My name is
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  Speaker 1: Andrews is here. Okay, how are you doing, sir? Everything
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  Speaker 1: going good tonight, man, I'm doing fine? Word um wow,
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  Speaker 1: uh sir, listen, my name is once again Andrews, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm with n WA, which is in word abolishers, and
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  Speaker 1: as you know, the N word just got buried and
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  Speaker 1: we're trying to keep that successful and trying to do
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  Speaker 1: as much as we can for people to not use
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  Speaker 1: the word. It's been brought to our attention that you
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  Speaker 1: have been consistently u using the word even after we've
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  Speaker 1: buried it, and what we're wanted to do is first
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  Speaker 1: of all, ask you to stop, and we don't want
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  Speaker 1: to take any other actions which could mean not only
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  Speaker 1: burying the word, but also burying the people who use it,
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  Speaker 1: such as yourself. Thank you don't call from and I
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  Speaker 1: told you I'm late for work? Man? You called me
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  Speaker 1: with please? I say, I want to say, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got time to be listener n w A y'all need
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  Speaker 1: to go listen to a rap record or something. I'm
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  Speaker 1: calling my su I got to do. I'm big man.
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  Speaker 1: I understand that, sir. We're just asking you, sir, can
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  Speaker 1: we could you possibly not use the N word? Go
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  Speaker 1: ask somebody else? Calling somebody else bother? I say, I say,
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  Speaker 1: station called me with this with you crazy N I
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  Speaker 1: ain't never heard of y'all, sir? Do you were just
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  Speaker 1: I know it's I know it's a process, sir, but
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  Speaker 1: we're asking you that if you could just possibly just
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  Speaker 1: quit using the word man, you I'll use whatever the
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  Speaker 1: hell I want. I don't know you, You don't know me.
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  Speaker 1: What the hell you how you know I'll use the
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  Speaker 1: word anyway, Sir, could you please not call me that?
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  Speaker 1: I said, don't call me that now. Don't get me
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  Speaker 1: bent out of shape about it? All right? You sound
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  Speaker 1: like a stupid I got you what I've said. Huh.
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  Speaker 1: I told you I got to do, man, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got time to play on the pot. I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: make sure that here in this country from now on,
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  Speaker 1: the word is not used anymore. And for you to
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  Speaker 1: do this, for you to continue to go against the grain,
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  Speaker 1: we gotta put a stop to it. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a problem the type of that's who I am. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a good gristling grain type of I don't have a
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  Speaker 1: problem burying you along with the word. Oh look, you
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  Speaker 1: calling crazy boy bury me. I'm a burry You to
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  Speaker 1: bear a hatchet in your back? How about that? You
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  Speaker 1: don't like that, dude? Inn Wa with attitude, that's what
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  Speaker 1: your ship called. It's not it's in wa, it's in
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  Speaker 1: word abolishers with attitude. Stupid. I don't know who made
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  Speaker 1: up with my apologist's spell. Apologists apologists because you're stupid.
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  Speaker 1: Don't call my phone. It's in Look, you're gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: to me with some respects. Talk to me with some respects, sir.
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  Speaker 1: You aren't get no respect for me. Can you call
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  Speaker 1: my phone? Stupid bro? You call me. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how you got my I was spending this much time
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  Speaker 1: talking to your stupid You sound like a dumb calling
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  Speaker 1: somebody phone. Co cost nine wanted one to get you
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  Speaker 1: some help, so don't get you swop him. Oh well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm right here. I ain't moving. I live right here
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  Speaker 1: at thirteen o one. I ain't come to see me.
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  Speaker 1: Look it up. If you can't find it, get your
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  Speaker 1: GPS right here. Can I tell you another thing? You
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  Speaker 1: can tell me whatever you want to tell me. This
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  Speaker 1: is I feel timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
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  Speaker 1: You just got pray by your brother Marcus space Man.
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  Speaker 1: You are crazy. Dog You're crazy, y'all, y'all crazy? Amen?
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  Speaker 1: Amen's true? Hey, look at your brother Marcus told he
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  Speaker 1: told us he said I bet him five hundred dollars.
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  Speaker 1: He was gonna use the N word before the month
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  Speaker 1: was up. Dog Man, y'all, can't just you know told
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  Speaker 1: it like this? You know, cub, but you can't. Just
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  Speaker 1: told U. Something on me made it take time. It's
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  Speaker 1: like stop smoking cigarettes. It take me six months just
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  Speaker 1: to get it out. My sister timeout, your brother said,
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  Speaker 1: he said, I promise you. My brother Calvin is the
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  Speaker 1: craziest person I know. He said, he gonna go off
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  Speaker 1: as soon as you call it. I might have been.
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  Speaker 1: The critic said, he know, but y'all some of the
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  Speaker 1: crazy on the radio. That damn. Hey, Calvin dooman favorite man,
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  Speaker 1: work my man, dog, Yeah, hold up, work on the word,
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  Speaker 1: all right, work on time. I'm gonna try. I promise,
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  Speaker 1: do a fast try to fans for about two weeks
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  Speaker 1: without using all right, okay, yeah, that's a good. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you what is this? Boy? What is the
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  Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. You got to be kids,
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  Speaker 1: don't ask like that. It's the Steve Harby Morning Show. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm listening stol folks every morning. How about that? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Say for now, you say folks and people and y'all
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  Speaker 1: try so, y'all think I got any progress out of
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  Speaker 1: shutting that word down? Did I get any progress with him? No?
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  Speaker 1: Excuse me? Excuse me? Oh my man? They do you
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  Speaker 1: really am getting him to polish that. Yeah, he had
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  Speaker 1: no chance. Will stop it? You're not You're not stopped
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  Speaker 1: it be not stopped it stupid. Is happening tomorrow night, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: In case you didn't know, it's at the Ramona Pavilion Ballroom, Jacksonville, Florida.
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  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy and Friends Comedy Show. We got two shows
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  Speaker 1: Friday to Saturday, seven and ten, both nights, seven and ten,
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  Speaker 1: both nights, Jacksonville. I need some help. Last comedy club, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Head down there. I think it burned down. But it
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  Speaker 1: was a lady in ned that made a hell of
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  Speaker 1: a banana putting. Could you tell her time in coming
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  Speaker 1: to town? She got the best banana putting in the South.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm looking for tell her the nephew looking for.
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  Speaker 1: I am at the Ramona Pavilion ball Room. Leave bring
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  Speaker 1: me something that putting. Lord Hammers all right, but thank you, nephew.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up, it is asked the CLLO. Right after this,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: top of the hour and trending entertainment news. Drake has
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  Speaker 1: broken his silence about Astra Whirl and Attorney Benjamin Crump
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: has been hired to represent one of the victims. Plus,
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  Speaker 1: we'll talk about celebrity couple divorce news, and Carla is
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  Speaker 1: on deck with today's music news. We'll talk about all
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  Speaker 1: of these stories at the top of the hour, but
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  Speaker 1: right now it is time for Steve's favorite segment, Ask
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  Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer. Ready for your love questions?
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  Speaker 1: Here we go. This one is from Simone in Birmingham.
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  Speaker 1: Simone says, I work in administration at a hospital and
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  Speaker 1: I hired a young woman for an entry level position.
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  Speaker 1: She presented as very polished and professional, but whenever she
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  Speaker 1: opens her mouth, she wants everyone to know how woke
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  Speaker 1: she is. She loves to bring up civil rights issues
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  Speaker 1: with her white co workers and she's offended. All of
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  Speaker 1: the Trump supporters in the office, even the black employee,
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  Speaker 1: are uncomfortable around her. How can I fix this? You
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  Speaker 1: need brother to inside and go a little sister. Let
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  Speaker 1: me help you out with something or there's a time
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  Speaker 1: and place for everything. She was hired as a what
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  Speaker 1: surely a hospital for entry level position. Now let me
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  Speaker 1: explain something to you. You got everybody around her own edge,
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  Speaker 1: and you're creating an uncomfortable work atmosphere for a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people with your discussions of politics and everything. You
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  Speaker 1: have every right to feel how you feel, vote for
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  Speaker 1: who you want to vote for. You're making your co
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  Speaker 1: workers are uncomfortable with a lot of your stances. Just
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  Speaker 1: asking you to tone it down there. If you all
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  Speaker 1: want to get together and have discussion groups off the
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  Speaker 1: job site, that would be perfectly fine with me. But
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: while at work, if we could refrain from the discussions
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  Speaker 1: of politics that's causing this discomfort in our office, it
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  Speaker 1: would serve you greatly. If you continue continue to create
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  Speaker 1: what's going to be looked at soon as a hostile
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  Speaker 1: work environment, you will be held accountable for that. Get
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  Speaker 1: your black ass back out there. Don't come back in
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  Speaker 1: here with this and see what I'm talking about. Shut
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  Speaker 1: your damn mouth. See woman doesn't set up here and
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  Speaker 1: hide your ass trying to give you a shot at you,
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  Speaker 1: and he scared all the white fox. I personally don't
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  Speaker 1: give a damn bout the Trump's supporter, but well, we
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  Speaker 1: got to work with him now, right right, all right?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Moving on, Nathan and South Philly says, I'm a fifty
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  Speaker 1: five year old married man and I caught my wife
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  Speaker 1: sitting in her car with another man outside her hair salon.
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  Speaker 1: She took longer than expected and didn't answer her phone,
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  Speaker 1: so I went by the salon. The guy got out
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  Speaker 1: of the car and walked inside the salon. My wife
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  Speaker 1: said he is the owner of the salon, and he
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  Speaker 1: just came out to say hi. I had to go
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  Speaker 1: all weekend with my mind racing. Should I have gone
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  Speaker 1: inside and questioned this guy or not? No, But when
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  Speaker 1: you're sitting in that cardo when I roll up, you
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  Speaker 1: know it might be my wife car. But to trust
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  Speaker 1: and believe though I had something to do with it
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  Speaker 1: being her car. Okay, Yeah, we're gonna handle it in
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  Speaker 1: the parking lot, that's all. I ain't gonna get back
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  Speaker 1: in this. You ain't get it back in it. We
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  Speaker 1: ain't get back in that way. You know where the
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  Speaker 1: good that you're going to stay out here in this
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  Speaker 1: parking lot. You ain't gonna get inside and seeing that
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  Speaker 1: year old you fit fire. You ain't shop no more.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't no how that your mind racing. My mind
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be racing. His mind race every time he
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  Speaker 1: come out that salon, his mind gonna get the race.
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  Speaker 1: Every time he opened his card, though, his mind gonna race.
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  Speaker 1: Where is nates At? Where's Nat ass At? I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be like Nat turner on a slave owner. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be looking for me. I'm coming up the river. Where
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  Speaker 1: is NAT's gonna be your message? I'm not fit to
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  Speaker 1: be the only one. My weekend tossed up your whole
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  Speaker 1: life from here on out? Where the hell is now? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Moving on Athena in New Orleans, Closs, I
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  Speaker 1: have three sisters that are very close, but I am
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  Speaker 1: not speaking to them because my oldest sister married a
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  Speaker 1: man that I dated for twelve years. She went behind
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  Speaker 1: my back and slept with him, and he dumped me
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  Speaker 1: for her. My other two sisters knew all along that
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  Speaker 1: they were messing around, and they never told me. This
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  Speaker 1: has been haunting me for years, and now I really
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  Speaker 1: missed my sisters and I want closure. Should I be
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  Speaker 1: the bigger person and contact them? You don't want to
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  Speaker 1: stop talking to them, See, lady, You're trying to create something,
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  Speaker 1: an illusion that you're the bigger person that won't reach
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  Speaker 1: out to them. You stopped talking to your sisters. You
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  Speaker 1: don't even know the whole story, especially from the other
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  Speaker 1: two sisters. Now the other sister that's got the man,
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  Speaker 1: that's where it. Look. You gotta get some closure, got
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  Speaker 1: to reach some type of things, so you can handle that.
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  Speaker 1: But the other sisters, what you're blaming them for? They
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  Speaker 1: didn't tell you what you want them to say. It's
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  Speaker 1: not their fault. So should you be the bigger person?
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  Speaker 1: You do want to walk away from relationship, so quite
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  Speaker 1: naturally you should be the one to go over there saying,
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  Speaker 1: I miss y'all, you know I struggle to get past that.
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  Speaker 1: Where wasn't your man twelve years? Come on now? Twelve
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  Speaker 1: years away? And it ain't lead to manage y'all dated
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  Speaker 1: for twelve years? What is going little ragged ass relationship
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  Speaker 1: you had? Because you ain't got that little ragged as
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  Speaker 1: twelve year golo wee as relationship. It is a tough
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  Speaker 1: blow that that's a tough blow. I'm the unbelievable blow.
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  Speaker 1: If it's your brother, I do I shall I get?
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  Speaker 1: But that's a tough blow. Shouldn't a sister that did
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  Speaker 1: the one to come? I don't know what's wrong with huh?
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  Speaker 1: But you know you should be the bigger one to
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  Speaker 1: go to the other sisters. But like I said, now
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  Speaker 1: that sister that got you. Man, that's where we got
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  Speaker 1: the problem at I don't really know how to work
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  Speaker 1: through that. That's an ass woman. That has to happen.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, my brother already know what that is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but me and my brother know what that is. But
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  Speaker 1: that had never happened O between them, because that's my brother.
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  Speaker 1: It's my brother, and I don't even know how to
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  Speaker 1: We was raised different exactly keep my brother, man, I
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  Speaker 1: had it happened, the ass woman has to happer. But
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  Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. In mind, man, that's an impossibility.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that. I get that's did you guys won't
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  Speaker 1: be fighting because he won't do it. Not my brother, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my brother, my nephew, nephew. I got nephew month old
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  Speaker 1: in me. That could never happen between us. It could never.
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  Speaker 1: It's unthinkable. It's impossible, all right, Well, moving on, Wellnda
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  Speaker 1: and Franklin, Tennessee says, when I got married four years ago,
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  Speaker 1: I came into the marriage with credit card debt, and
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  Speaker 1: I've paid most of it. My credit cards are in
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: our safe and I used them only in case of emergencies.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I was sitting on the back porch earlier and I
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  Speaker 1: got to text alert of suspicious activity on my visa.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I asked my husband if he used my card and
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: he said he bought an air friar on the card
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  Speaker 1: and he will pay it off asap. Um. Shouldn't he
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: have asked me before he used my credit card? Or
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: is this a what's mine is yours type situation? Well?
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: He need a combination to the safe you know, unless
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: you got he isn't her safe? Well is the after?
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I incaut but that sounds like a nice community practice
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  Speaker 1: because I'm show you use laugh watch all right, thank you, Cello.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the same show. Drake has finally broken his silence
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  Speaker 1: in the wake of the Astra World Festival. Drake says,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I've spent the past few days trying to wrap my
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: mind around this devastating tragedy. My heart is broken for
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  Speaker 1: the families and friends of those who lost their lives,
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  Speaker 1: and for anyone who is suffering. I will continue to
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  Speaker 1: pray for all of them and will be of service
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  Speaker 1: in any way I can. That's from Drake. Meanwhile, the
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: lawsuits against Travis Scott are piling up, including one from
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: the family of a nine year old victim who's currently
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: fighting for his life. Ezra Blount was nearly trampled to
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: death during the chaos that ensued at Energy Park. His
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: family has retained the services of Ben Crump for the
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  Speaker 1: lit negation. According to the paperwork Crump filed on the
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  Speaker 1: child's behalf, Ezra was kicked, stepped on, and trampled as
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  Speaker 1: people around him were lifting up unconscious bodies of friends
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  Speaker 1: and strangers and surf them over the top of the crowd,
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  Speaker 1: hoping to send them to safety. Meanwhile, Energy Park has
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  Speaker 1: an insurance policy that'll pay out up to twenty six
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  Speaker 1: million dollars. Oh that's yes, yeah, Energy Park, I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 1: But now I don't know if they're releasing the paperwork
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  Speaker 1: on who he's suing. But Live Nation got problem, thought,
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  Speaker 1: Yeah they do. Energy Park got a problem. All all
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  Speaker 1: the big boys behind this got a problem, y'all. Quit
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  Speaker 1: point of friends at Travis Scott and Drake and all
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  Speaker 1: this here, y'all, y'all can stop all that because they
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: so far down the food chain in this. Because I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you how this works. Man. Now unless it's his company. Yeah, see,
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  Speaker 1: unless it's his company. And trust me, Live Nation is
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  Speaker 1: the big boys. They're the big boys, the biggest. So
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  Speaker 1: they got they got a major problem. My lawyer told me.
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  Speaker 1: We were talking about it the other day. My lawyer said,
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  Speaker 1: trust me, Live Nation lawyers ain't been to sleep because
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  Speaker 1: you haven't heard much from them or about them. You
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  Speaker 1: know your statement. So surely they're so busy. Oh but
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  Speaker 1: it is. I really feel bad for I feel bad
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  Speaker 1: for all the victims. But a child. But now, let
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  Speaker 1: me say something to adults. Let me say something to
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  Speaker 1: adults that have children. Your children can't go everywhere just
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  Speaker 1: because they want to, that's true. Yeah. And this man
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  Speaker 1: had the little boy on his shoulders, on the shoulders
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  Speaker 1: so he could see the concert. It's a brother and
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  Speaker 1: the little boys, the nine year old, and he I
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  Speaker 1: think the father fell, Yeah, it had to. Yeah, then
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  Speaker 1: that's how his son, father protect his son. I'm sure that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: of course, I'm sure of that. I'm sure his brother
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  Speaker 1: right here did everything in his power. Yeah. That's a
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  Speaker 1: hard fall of that boy up there on his shoulders. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's so sad, horrible. That's what some of the reports say,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: all right, m we're gonna switch gears here. Talk about
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: some celebrities that are breaking up. This couple is a
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: hip hop producer and reality stars Stevie J and his
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  Speaker 1: wife Faith Evans. Well, they've called it quits after only
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: three years of marriage. Stevij put in the paperwork, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: at a Los Angeles County Superior court. It's unclear just
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: what promoted the split between Faith and Stevie J, but
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: the marriage started off a bit rocky. Last year, Faith
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: was reportedly arrested for domestic violence for allegedly attacking Stevie.
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  Speaker 1: This will be the second divorce for Faith and the
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: first for Stevie. That's sad. Well, I met them out
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  Speaker 1: at this function. I was at out in Beverly Hills,
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  Speaker 1: and yeah, I just really liked her because I always
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: liked Stevie Ja, yes character, and now I've always liked Faith,
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  Speaker 1: so I thought I thought they looked good together. But
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, it happens. I'm back over here theaepid Day,
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  Speaker 1: Come on back, I'm a day. I'm all right moving on.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Carlos is here with today's music news. What you got Carlo, Well,
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  Speaker 1: we just want to give a shout out guys to
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  Speaker 1: Missy Elliott. She received her own star on the Hollywood
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Walk of Fame. So yeah, I love me some Missy,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: miss Nina Elliott. She did a speech and she showed
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  Speaker 1: love to her sisters in hip hop, the women she
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: called godmothers, Queen Latifa, you know the just moony love
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  Speaker 1: Angie Stone, Rock Say and Chantey Yo Yo mc light,
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  Speaker 1: Salton Pepper and you know, Missy showed them all love
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  Speaker 1: and then she praised them as the backs that we
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  Speaker 1: stand on in the foundation of you know, women, female
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  Speaker 1: mcs and hip hop and producers. And Missy also thanked
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  Speaker 1: her fans. Uh Sierra was there with her. So it
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  Speaker 1: was really really nice, so much deserved. So shout out
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  Speaker 1: to Missy Elliott. Get your Hollywood Yeah like cool to
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  Speaker 1: be on. Yeah, I remember when we were out there
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  Speaker 1: for you see. Oh yeah said doctor Phil was there.
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  Speaker 1: Ye meant the most timidle Sonny Calhoun was there, Lord
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: him or your childhood friend straight out of Cleveland where
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  Speaker 1: he wasn't really my friend, he was my my whole
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: ambition in life. He was Manny. His brother was my friend.
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  Speaker 1: Man Sunday was his big brother. Sunday wasn't pimp. Sunday
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  Speaker 1: came out on Where is this going, had on the
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  Speaker 1: lemon yellow suit. I was loved boy, right hill Man,
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  Speaker 1: this dude right here when I saw Sunday, Man, it
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  Speaker 1: was hot at hell outside. Yeah, but he had fur
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  Speaker 1: coat with him. A little about pimps. Dog Hi boys, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I can't leave this man. Look at you got a star. Man.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody leaves, aren't taking picture with it. He don't need
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  Speaker 1: nobody to fit. Yeah, only standing around with everybody, only
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  Speaker 1: pure with him. Man, Steve, gotta star here on ground. Man, Man,
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  Speaker 1: you want us? Man? God coming up at twenty minutes
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  Speaker 1: after the hour more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: on this Veteran's Day right after this. You're listening today
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  Speaker 1: Veterans Day. This is the holiday that we recognize an
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: honor all past and present military who have served our country.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Unlike Memorial Day, which remembers the fallen, this day celebrates
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: those who served in war and got to come home.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: This holiday is celebrated each year on November eleventh because
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: it's the day that signifies the eleventh hour of the
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  Speaker 1: eleventh day of the eleventh month of nineteen eighteen, when
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  Speaker 1: World War One ended. We want it takes the time
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  Speaker 1: to thank all of our veterans for serving and their sacrifices.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Of course, I mean thank you, thank you, thank thank you.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah to the veterans, absolutely yeah you. Happy better
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  Speaker 1: day to my husband, Toosh Army bet yep yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: we also want to remind everyone that our very own nephew,
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  Speaker 1: Tommy's found dation, Miles of Giving, is dedicated dedicated to
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  Speaker 1: helping veterans. Right, Tommy as that Miles and Giving, we
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: give back to wounded veterans. Tommy went over did two?
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  Speaker 1: USO two is over there? Oh? Saudi Arabia, afghanastand Germany? Kuwait,
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  Speaker 1: you name it. I was there on the front line.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: If you ain't ever seeing what the front line looking like,
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: let me tell you it's a whole different beach, buddy.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: So I take my hat off to all the soldiers
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  Speaker 1: and just I'm gonna give this to you. Save the date,
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  Speaker 1: all right, This is the Miles of Giving weekend twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty two, May thirteenth to the sixteenth, where well, New Orleans, Louisiana.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Miles and Giving weekend. But we got comedy shows,
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  Speaker 1: We're doing service projects for the betters. We got a
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  Speaker 1: Sunday brunch hosted by oh My first Lady, the one
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  Speaker 1: and only Jacqueline. Jacqueline Miles will be hosting the Sunday brunch.
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  Speaker 1: I got a golf tournament that's gonna be off the
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  Speaker 1: chain Monday to sixteenth PPC, Louisiana. So everybody in Louisiana
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  Speaker 1: and around the way, you want to come hang out
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  Speaker 1: with your boy? This has saved the date. Miles. A
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  Speaker 1: given weekend twenty twenty two, May thirteen through the sixteen,
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  Speaker 1: New Orleans, Louisiana, and a golf course down that time.
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  Speaker 1: And that's nice, man, that's a nice PC course in
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  Speaker 1: the New Orleans. Ship got it on. Lock on the
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  Speaker 1: stay pretty. If you ain't business man, come play with
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  Speaker 1: your boy. Man. I showed you, man, I want to
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  Speaker 1: come down there. Man, I'm gonna take more time out. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna be a better golfer this year.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I say that a year. I said that two weeks ago,
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  Speaker 1: and I wasn't worth damn. I mean, as soon as
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  Speaker 1: you say it and go out there, golf call, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be a better what man? Congratulations, hit the golf
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  Speaker 1: ball to make it go where you want it to go.
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  Speaker 1: It's very very hard to do man, to make a
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  Speaker 1: what I missed that a golf ball go where you
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: want it to go, Jess, cause you hit it with
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: this stick. That's hard though, it's really really hard. I'm
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  Speaker 1: about I don't knows that hit a golf ball to
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  Speaker 1: make money. I can't do that. I can't do that.
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  Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna check Steve Harvey's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: it is time to check Steve's voicemail. Let's see what
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: we got at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. All right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: let's go to the phones. Line one. Sharanda in Louisiana.
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  Speaker 1: All right, missus, Steve, Barbon you all. Her name is?
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  Speaker 1: She want the awesome time from Basha Louisiana. I love
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  Speaker 1: you our program every morning it's up listening to me,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: especially Virgin had to say about our heavenly Father. It's
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: uplifting and keeping him first. And God bless you all
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: up and here got Monday comes again. Thank y'all. God.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: Lets you all somebody, Oh she do the announcements, Tommy
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  Speaker 1: giving under God, our Past, the first Lady Membership, Friend
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  Speaker 1: Christian Friends. You have a scripture right after. Well, thank
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  Speaker 1: you for that. You know, we try to be inspirational
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  Speaker 1: on this show. It's part of the program, So thank
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  Speaker 1: you very much. What else we got, Sherley? All right,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: let's go down the line for and talk to Steph Walker. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. We listen to your Strawberry letter every morning
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: as we're driving to work, and we heard that Strawberry
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: letter about the brother who married into the family, the
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: white family with the racist brother. So you know, my
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: husband just said, what about part so we need to
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: hear how this and up we need to to be
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: continued a right, So we're waiting. Y'all be good and
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: y'all been safe and well bye bye. Yeah. Now you
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: know something, Steph, I agree with you. I would love
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: to get a letter from the man who wrote the
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: letter because thanksgiving us. So when it gets here, we
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: would love to know what the hell happened to ourselves.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: You know, we've done these Strawberry letters a few ways.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Remember we were doing them live sometimes and then remember
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: we would get the people on the phone. But these
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: are real letters. I know, I know people think we
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: make these letters up, but we don't. These are very
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: real letters. And these letters get a little bit you know,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: remember that time we had that oh lord, we had
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: that all lady that was dating the pastor and they
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: found out about it because they just was listening to
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: the show and it just didn't make it made sense
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: that their church together. Yeah yeah, yeah, and all hell
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: broke loose. So we had stopped doing live Strawbay letters
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: because it was getting live. Yeah, it was some people
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: going up there adding some mode to the story. So
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: we had to stop doing that. But I would like
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: to do some follow ups. We've had some follow ups,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: so that's an interesting concept we would I wish we
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: could reach out to maybe Mississippi Monica could reach out
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: to the letter writer and just say, hey, we love
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: to know how it worked out for you on Thanksgivings
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: follow up let us know. So Steph Walker, We're gonna
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: look into that and see if we make that happen.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: YEA cool? All right, let's go to line at two
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  Speaker 1: and talk to Foster and Pensacola High Steem. My name
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: is Foster Smith in Pensacola, Florida. I'm so glad you
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: saw that up about Michael Jordan. There shouldn't be no
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: debate by Michael Jardon Lebron Jane. Michael Jordan is the
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: greatest that devil put some tennis. Michael Dron was a
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: musty player after his second year in the NBA day
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: his whole career. Thank you, because, man, like you know,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I was sitting here and I was listening to the debate,
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: and I was listening because Lebron's a great player, man
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: and done and his and his off the field is
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: even even more accomplishing. If not, that's great, But and
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I was thinking of he's won titles at the Lakers,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: he's won a title down in Miami, and he's won
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Titling Cleave. That's sheer greatness. When everywhere you go you
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: can manage to put a team together on your back
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: and lead him to the promised Land. That's impressive. But
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: when I look at the footage of the tape and
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: I see the skill set that both these players possessed,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: and I was alive and old enough to witness both
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: of them in my prime, because I'm in my prime
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: now and was in my Prime Prime Nen. I justn't
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: had no money. Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: to ever damn drivel period. Now you argue whoever you want,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: if you want to, I'm saying what I said. You
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: ain't got no radio showy Alright, you have something to say,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: call Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steven,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: please leave a message coming up next to nephew with
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: today's frank phone call. Right after this. You're listening to
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today. The subject my ex paid for
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: my grandma's funeral. We'll get into that in just a bit,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: but right now it is a nephew here with today's
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: frank phone call. What you got for is nef ah.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't know how to say it. Let
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: me find the right words, because I wanted to sound affectionate. Uh,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: your wife as fine as heil. I'm gonna beat your
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: play this ragged ass Penny. I wish you this or
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: something like that. Your wife. Let hello, Hello, I'm trying
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: to reach Daryl. Yeah, this is Darrel Hors this and
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: tell how you're doing. My name is Alonzo man. I
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: um for liquor distributing company. I do a district liquid distribution.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: How you doing today? I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good man.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: What can I do for you? Hey, we're putting together
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: a big, big event man with vodka and they're throwing
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: a They're throwing a huge pool party. And like I say,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I've been I'm in the liquor business man. I've been
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: doing it for for quite some years now. And you know,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: we're always trying to do different type of publicity and
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: really get to hype up. And what we're trying to do, man,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: is really get people to come out to this fashion party.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Because it's the first quarter twenty twenty. We wanted to
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: be a one to remember. And uh, I know the
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: no no no, no, no, no no no no, you're
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: I go to the bank, I go to the bank
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: where your where your wife works at Kindred And Okay,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is have I mean, we
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: want our flyer and slash poster to be something really
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: really memorable, something that's gonna really draw people in. And
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: you have this, This thing is gonna be all over
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: social media, the whole nine yards. So we're trying to
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: see you know, buddy of mine told me that he
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: kind of knew of you or had a had a
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: number on you, and I was like, cool, let me
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: reach out to him. He told me you were Kendra's husband,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: So I want my husband. So I don't understand what
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: my wife's got to do with this whole thing. Okay,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do is see if you were
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: cool with Kindred being on our flyer. Man. I mean,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: because your wife is finish, so we want to put
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: her on the flyer. And what you mean my wife
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: is finish? What do you mean we want? You're gonna
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: call me up and talk about my wife? Vin, it's
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: wrong with you, brother, Brother, it's this. It's a respect
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: thing I'm giving you. I'm giving you crowds. Its crowds,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: and I'm giving bucking out what you need man, because
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: it don't sound right, dude, We're trying to get your wife.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: We want to get her to a photo shoot in
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: a Portini so we can put it how. No, you
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: ain't using my wife and no Porkini to put on
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: no fly you want your damn mind. It's my wife's man,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: respect me. Okay, Okay, okay, okay, hold on man, hold on, man,
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Why are you tripping like this? Bro? Why are you
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: tripping like little wife? My wife ain't gonna be no
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: damn no, the flying for no, the party man with
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: the you think this is what's wrong with you? Okay, bro, bro,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you know what, Man, I tried to call you and
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: give you to respect. I mean I'll get out sound
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: like what? Boy? Well okay, look, I didn't call for
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: no argument. I just I just talked to Kendra. When
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I go to the place, depart and see if she
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: want to do. Oh oh, he's gonna go to my
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: wife's job at the bank. That's what you're gonna do. Okay.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I'm just ain't gonna do this because I'll be there too,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: and I don't make a deposit with my foot, you know,
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: go ahead, okay, okay, hold on man. We were playing,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: we're playing five thousand dollars for the photos. Okay again,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: what you're paying? No amount of money's gonna let me
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: put my wife, the mother of my children, on the
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: close to end. No for Kenny, I don't care how
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: much you can kiss my ass, will let you do that? Okay, Okay, bro, okay,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna really go back and forth what
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: you man? I was calling you trying to be a man. Okay,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: well I'm trying to be man to man with you.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: Just you know, throw the opportunity at you. Now you
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: throwing it back up. You was with disrespect. I wouldn't
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: showing me for my wife to be a side now. No,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I don't want none of that. Okay, man, No, your
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: wife frying is hell. People are Oh, you need to
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: quit telling me how fine my wife is. Okay, horder
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: gave you my phone number in the first place I've got. Hey, man,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: evidently that's all Mulling pointed. Just all right, I don't
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: even matter. Just one the boy day. The issue on
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: the table is I want to take some pictures of Kenny.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: Let me know when you plan on going to my
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: wife job at the bank. Let me know, and you're
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: gonna bring your black down there. I can be there. Okay.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Nobody calls another brother a talk about how fine his
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: wife says Okay, I told you know that you shouldn't
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: get stopped right there, But you're gonna keep all talking
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: about my wife. Okay. So let me say this though,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Tommy is the one that said your wife was fine
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: as hell. That's the one brought all this to our
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: pitching at the meeting. Tommy is the one that said
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: your wife was fine as hell. Though, Tommy just Tommy.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Tommy said your wife is fine as hell. That's what
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Tommy can get hit too. Who is Tommy? You don't
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: you take your wife to work in the morning. Let
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: me know, and you're gonna bring your black down there? Okay?
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: And I wat y'all be what y'all be listening to
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: on the way to work? What radio station y'all be
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: listening to? We've been listening to Matthew Tommy, Baby, see
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: harm mister, you wouldn't aboudy to get y'all. Hey, man,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: your wife kender got me to prank you, bro wait
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: till my wife got my blood pressure up. Oh man,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: She told me, she said, we listen to y'all every
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: morning on the way to work. He drops me off
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: and he goes to work. She said, Tommy, you've got
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: to get it. I said, you gotta let me know
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: what what do he love them most? She say me,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know about that right now. After it's a man,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: a man we love you back, baby, keep listening to
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: the steam off and morning. So tell me this problem.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Man?
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: What is it? Darrel? It's Steve Harvey with nephew Tommy.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Come on, baby me tell me. His reaction was pure
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: right off the dribble, because Doc, I'm telling you when
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you go man and you go, your wife is fine.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Hell Wait a minute, look hook up. Wait you thought
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: you could walk up to me and say that, because now,
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: if this is the statement you picked to say to me, yeah,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: I can't even imagine what's running through your rabbit air mind.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: But but you thought the compliment it your wife find
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: his hell? Bro? Me and you me and you got
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: an instant problem. And like he said, what man calls
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: another man to go? Man? Your wife findes hell? Dog. Yeah,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: it's a compliment. It's all you said it like he
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: was gonna say, ain't she right? Your wife find she
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: find You're at the club and the bottle girl go by, man,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: that little girl, that little bottle girl finding here? Who
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I see you? Man? Your wife find his hell? What?
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: Ain't that a compliment? Though? No, Tommy, it's an insult.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: Because if if you if all you can must up
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: to me where you can't even contain yourself to have
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: that thought to yourself. You guys, to let that much out.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: It's called this way deeper than that. I just don't
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I'm beinna give you five thousand dollars. Man, I don't
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: care what you the mother my children. Okay, but what
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: about flying No, but KINNI, I'm not supposed to say
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: your wife ain't fine at all? Your wife looks straight crazy.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that's better. That's better because that's
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: your opinion. They say everybody in Jackson will be a
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: Florida You know fine, I'm fine. I ain't gonna say
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: I will say this. I will say this. They're coming
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: from all over to see that nephew. They're coming up
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: out of Brunswick, Georgia, Savannah, Georgia, Saint Augustine, Daytona beach Day,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: coming this weekend to see the nephew stand and act
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: a dog Gone Food. So let me tell you something
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: you already know. I'm at the Ramona Pavilion Ballroom two
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: shows Friday, Who Sandy seven and ten Nephew Timmy and
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Friends comedy show. You don't want to miss it because
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: they're coming from all over. See me act a fool?
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: Your wife is? I hope y'all? Come? Okay, yeah, you
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: see the well, somebody to say that to me, I'll
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: be ready to fight, So go all right, Thank you, nephew.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: Coming up next to my Strawberry letter, the subject my
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: ex paid from my grandma's funeral. We'll get into it
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:46
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• 53:49
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• 54:05
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• 54:07
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• 54:12
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• 54:16
  Speaker 1: It is we gotta fight here. It is Strawberry letter,
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: all right, newew thank you, subject my ex paid for
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: my grandma's funeral. Here's Stephen Shirley I am engaged to
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: a man that I work with. We both teach elementary school,
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: and when he transferred to my school, it was love
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: at first sight for me. At the time, I had
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: only been divorced a few months and my ex husband
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: was still pursuing me and trying to work things out.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: He cheated on me more than a few times, and
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: when we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: contest anything and I got whatever I asked for because
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: he is still in love with me. I have our
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: family home sitting on three acres, and he let me
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: have both our dogs. I lost respect for him every
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: time I heard a rumor of him cheating, and I'm
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: much happier divorced. Now. Fast forward to when I met
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: my fiance and we became inseparable in no time. My
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: ex husband was overbearing and used his money to try
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: to lure me back in. He bought me a range
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: Rover last year for my birthday, and I could not
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: tell my fiance this, so the car is still at
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: my ex's house. When we first got engaged, I was
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: honest with my fiance about my ex's extravagant gifts so
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He told
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: me that I do not set boundaries with my ex
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: because I liked the attention. I told him I would
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: do better. Then, my grandma died. She and my ex
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: husband were very close, so I knew he'd be at
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: the funeral. My fiance and my fiance and I went
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: to her funeral, and as soon as a service came
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: to an end, my grandfather stood up and thanked my
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: ex husband for paying for everything. My fiance was furious,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: so we skipped the repast. I tried to control the
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: situation by calling my X and telling him to stop
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: coming around my family. My fiance told me that we're
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: going to pay my ex husband back for the funeral.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? Why does it matter who paid
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: for it? Well, you know what, I kind of think
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: this is a problem that doesn't have to be. I mean,
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you have two men who are fighting over you and
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: fighting for your attention. Really, but your ex if you're divorced,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, he needs to let go. If he was
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: married to you and had you and then he started cheating,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: you know, that's on him. You clearly have moved on
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: and he should too. It's too late for him now.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: When he was married to you. Like I said, he
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: blew it. He lost in this situation. He's not dealing
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: with reality. He's in denial. I think right now he
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: created this problem. I do think your fiance was out
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: of line making you miss your grandmother's repast. He was
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: in his feelings looking at this situation to me all
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: the way wrong. I'm with you on this one. What
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: difference does it make who pays for the funeral? You
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: can't control what your ex does, and you said that
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: he and your grandmother were very close and apparently your
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: grandfather appreciated it. I think it's stupid to spend money
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: to pay your ex back. That's just stupid to me.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: Your fiance shouldn't be trying to prove anything, not to you,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: not to him. He's saying he's going to pay your
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: ex back. I think that's just his ego getting in
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: the way. Funerals are not cheap, okay, so you know
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: you could spend that money on something else. He doesn't
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: have to flex your your new fiance. He's already got
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: the prize and the prizes you as far as the cargoes.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: Just let his stay where it is and your ex's garage,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: and I say, go on and live your life with
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: your fiance and don't let your ex get in the
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: way of your happiness. Steve, surely, Yes, it's a man
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: problem right here. I know, I know it is. Don't
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: worry about it. See it's a lot of man law
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: in hell. There's a lot of codes in Hell, a
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: lot of ego in Hill, a lot of flexing in hill.
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: It's some power struggling here, and there's some trying to
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: stand up and do some pushback. It's all of this.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: But all this is man problem because the woman in
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: this letter is correct and perfect. I see no flaw
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: in this woman right here. I really don't. I'm engaged
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: to a man that I worked with. We both teach
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: elementary school, and when he transferred to my school, it
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: was love at first sight for me. At the time,
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: I had only been divorced a few months. What happens
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: is when people get divorced, they don't know what love
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: gonna come along. So anybody walked through to do it
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: look like love right away. This happens to be real.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: Though he cheated on me, excuse me, You've only been
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: divorced a few months and the ex husband was still
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: pursuing me. This is important information trying to work things out.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: He cheated on me more than a few times when
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't come
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: test anything, and I got whatever I asked for because
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: he's still in love with me. This is a love
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: story going bad, y'all. This is a man who has
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: lost the best thing ever happened to him, and he
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: wanted back. I ain't mad at him. Now we have
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: a problem because he gave you your family home sitting
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: on three acres, and he let me have both our dogs.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: I lost respect for him every time I heard a
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: room of him cheating, and I'm much happier divorced. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you sound like it, and you need to keep that
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  Speaker 1: in mind. Fast forward to when I met my fiance.
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  Speaker 1: We became insuperabowl in no time. Now. My ex hundred
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: was overbearing and used his money to try to lure
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  Speaker 1: me back in. That's what it's for. That's what that's
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  Speaker 1: what me and become powerful to use a power. What
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: good is power if you don't wield it. You gotta wielded.
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  Speaker 1: He bought me a range Rover last year for my birthday,
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  Speaker 1: and I could not tell my fiance this, so the
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  Speaker 1: car is still in my ex's house. You're a good woman.
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  Speaker 1: You are a good woman. I told you. I can't
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  Speaker 1: find no fault in this lady. Right here, you left
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  Speaker 1: that range from Hey, ain't many women gonna lead that
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  Speaker 1: range rover that driveway? Not right, but you did it
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  Speaker 1: to keep the peace, and I admire you. All right,
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  Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at
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  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the our subject of today's Strawberry
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  Speaker 1: letter and my ex paid for my grandma's funeral. We'll
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  Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
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  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject my ex paid for my
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  Speaker 1: grandma's funeral. We ain't got to that part yet, but
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  Speaker 1: we're dealing with some man stuff here. This is man law, man, code, man, flexing, power, struggles,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: all this here, self esteem, This is all this in
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  Speaker 1: this letter. Shirley couldn't tell you because she don't know
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  Speaker 1: all these man ruthe and what Shirley said was fine.
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  Speaker 1: But Shirley liked this woman in this letter. I can't
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  Speaker 1: find no flaw with this woman in this letter because
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: this woman is absolutely doing the right things. She's been divorced.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband cheated on him, he ruined it. She's happier
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  Speaker 1: being divorced without him. She met a new man at
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  Speaker 1: a job. They both elementary school teachers. This is gonna
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  Speaker 1: come into play. He's told the X about he's told
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  Speaker 1: the fiance about the X and extravagant gifts. Doing the divorce.
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  Speaker 1: The man gave her everything, the house on three acres,
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  Speaker 1: both the dogs, everything, because he still loved the woman.
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  Speaker 1: He messed up. He trying to get her back. She
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  Speaker 1: says her ex husband was overbearned and he used his
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  Speaker 1: money to try to lure me back in, as he should,
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  Speaker 1: because that's what it's for. What is power unless you wielded.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't mad at the husband, the ex husband, so
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: he bought you a range Rover last year from my birthday,
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  Speaker 1: and you couldn't tell your fiance this. So the car
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: is still at my ex's house. You're a smart lady.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: You're a smart lady. When we first got engaged at
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  Speaker 1: here's the part. I was honest with my fiance, who
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  Speaker 1: is the school teacher, about my ex husband's extravagant gifts.
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  Speaker 1: So he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He
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  Speaker 1: told me that I do not sound set boundaries with
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  Speaker 1: my ex because I liked the attention. I told him
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  Speaker 1: I do better. Well, it's you know, it's amazing when
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  Speaker 1: people say that you should set boundaries with another person.
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  Speaker 1: You really can't make another person do nothing. If you
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  Speaker 1: could make him do right, he wouldn't. You wouldn't. He
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't have been cheating on you in the first place.
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  Speaker 1: You can't make people do stuff, And it's a little
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  Speaker 1: bit unfair of mister school teacher sir that you talking about.
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  Speaker 1: You don't set no boundaries. She got boundaries, She don't
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  Speaker 1: take the gills, but she can't stop everything because he
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  Speaker 1: flexing on you. Dog, You know what this is now.
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  Speaker 1: Then my grandma died. She and my ex husband were
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: very close, so I knew he'd be at the funeral,
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  Speaker 1: my fiance, said, fiance saying, I went to her funeral,
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  Speaker 1: and as soon as the service came to an end,
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  Speaker 1: my grandfather stood up and thanked my ex husband for
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  Speaker 1: paying for everything. Okay, that's honorable. He thanked another man
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: for stepping up burying his wife, because that's what men do.
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  Speaker 1: I think It was really admirable of your ex husband.
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  Speaker 1: But he's always showing that he's dead. But he paid
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: for that funeral, so you could see he paid for
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: the funeral because he tried to get you back, so
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  Speaker 1: he didn't know. You don't want to range Rover, I'm
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: gonna pay for your dear grandmother's funeral. Everything. The grandfather,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: he don't know what's going on behind the story with y'all.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: So he stands up and he thanks the man after
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: funeral because he's going wild. This boy didn't have to
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: do this now. He didn't even date my granddaughter no more.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: And that's true. My fiance was furious, so we skipped
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: the repass. Pete probably want to go over there because
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: they repairs. I promise he repass was nice because he
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: paid for the funeral. Oh they got a steaking lops
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: over there. They got a chef had to repass. Oh
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: it's finn to be ball loved. He finned set the
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: repass out. The repass gonna look like a d Waden reception.
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  Speaker 1: And your boyfriend knew we cannot go to this repass
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: because he didn't clowned over there too. I be damned.
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  Speaker 1: Who got this big gass cake up in here this repairs?
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: Who in the hell got a chocolate fountain at the repair? Ex?
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: Her ex husband flexing? Now we gotta eagle problem because
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: he hadn't told you you don't say boundaries. He hadn't
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: told you he ain't go into the repass. Then you,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: being a decent lady, you try to control the situation
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  Speaker 1: by calling your X and telling him to stop coming
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: around your family. You've done everything you can, but you
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: aren't going to stop this grown man because he trying
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: to get you back. My fiance told me that we
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: are going to pay my ex husband back for the funeral?
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? What doesn't matter who paid for it?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Really shouldn't matter who paid for it. But see he
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: got your ex making him look bad as all he
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: thinking because he a school teacher. He couldn't come up
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: with the money for the funeral because school teachers are
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: the most underserved, underpaid people in our community. And a
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: great man is he? I bet you he is? But
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: that school teacher salary got some things going on that's
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: limiting him to flex it and arrange rovers range rover
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: and the funeral. Now, unless we're gonna put Grandma in
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: the back. Could have arranged, Rob, we got some double
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: summit this up. You know what, you stop the school teacher. Now,
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: we'd have had to put grandmama in the range roll
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be where the funeral. That in the back
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: of the range rover, that's gonna be, had to double
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: up as the casket, and we're gonna have to drive
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: that off into just into the ocean, and just your
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: mama have an ass sea burial. Okay, is this really
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  Speaker 1: what you want to say? That's exactly what I wanted
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: to say. Not really, because there's nothing this school teacher
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: can do with this man's money. He gonna had to
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: grow up and get past it. And now he can't
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: afford to pay this back. If you pay this back,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna be able to get that house or
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: nothing else y'all want? All right? Thank you, Steve. Post
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• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve introduced our girl from the Talk ladies, gentlemen,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: come on now, Sheryl Underwood. Thank you, Steve Harvey. You know,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: but it is Veteran's Day and I want to shout
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: out all the veterans out there in the world. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think we started the week then we started the week.
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  Speaker 1: Colifl describe areas laying a strong veteran to rest the dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: Amazing General Cola Power, coldest brother, yes, bad in a
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  Speaker 1: super baby should have ran for president. We wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: dealing with the dude in the Republican Party we got now.
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  Speaker 1: I think Cola Power had the man. He was cold brother,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And see for me, I shout out the
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  Speaker 1: veterans because you know, black people when we came over here,
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  Speaker 1: some of us was free, Some of us was not Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Steve, uh you, Julius, you know. But we
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  Speaker 1: fought in every war to try to prove our dedication
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  Speaker 1: and love to this country that didn't always love us so.
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  Speaker 1: But but to put a uniform on, to stand up
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  Speaker 1: for this flag in this constitution, it was an honor.
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  Speaker 1: It was an honor. So we saluted all vestans out
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  Speaker 1: there and do y'all remember in roots when the veterans
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  Speaker 1: from World War Two and World War One came back
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  Speaker 1: and they were not treated with respect. And remember the
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  Speaker 1: Great Stand Show was one of this. He's a good
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  Speaker 1: but the bomb actor you know him? Uh Steve and
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  Speaker 1: Tommy now from Harlem Knights, he was the boxer. He
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: was a boxer. And to take this, but they were
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  Speaker 1: veterans that had got together to stand up for themselves,
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  Speaker 1: and they were World War One veterans. And I really
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  Speaker 1: just want to salute veterans, especially when we put on
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  Speaker 1: the uniform whatever branch of service. When you talk about Army, Navy,
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: Air Force, Marines, and even the coast Guard, that means
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  Speaker 1: that we understand that we are sophisticated enough to understand
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  Speaker 1: that we fight for this country and we love this country,
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  Speaker 1: and we can be laying under a black commander in chief,
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  Speaker 1: President Barack Obama. That and then when they made President
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  Speaker 1: Barack Obama, I commanded chief. I was so so proud.
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  Speaker 1: So I just want to say Happy Veteran's Day to
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  Speaker 1: all the veterans out there. And I wanted to join
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  Speaker 1: the military because I saw a picture of my father
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: and all of his brothers wearing their army uniform and
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: a special shout out. Now, this is my stepfather, John Chappelle,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: who married my mother. He was stationed at Offen Air
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  Speaker 1: Force Base. That's how I got to Castle Air Force Base,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: which brought me to California and the rest is history.
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  Speaker 1: And I was in the Air Force Reserve at Travis
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  Speaker 1: Air Force Base and O'Hare, Phil. So we are saluting
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  Speaker 1: all veterans out there today. We salute you on this
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  Speaker 1: Veteran's Day. Well, thank you for your service. Ryl, thank you,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I love being it man. I
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: love being a military man. I didn't think I could
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: run a mile. Whoo chat listen, motivated, motivated, I'm like, whoa,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: this is what we gonna do. Air date. All right, Cheryl,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: We're going to talk about traveling. Right after this. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kyle Rittenhouse, the
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: armed Illinois teenager who killed two people and wounded another
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: during protests in Kenosha, Wisconsin, took the stand yesterday to
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: testify in his own defense in his trial on homicide charges.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: All right, so here's what happened in court, Rittenhouse took
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: the stand right. He says he did nothing wrong. Rittenhouse
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: defended his actions in Kenosha in the wake of the
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: protests related to the police shooting of Jacob Blake in
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: August of last year. Remember they shot Jacob Blake seven
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: times in the back. This happened in August of last year.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: Rittenhouse told the court. I didn't do anything wrong. I
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: defended myself. He's a teenager. It also said that he
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: didn't intend to kill anyone, but agreed he used deadly
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: force that night. It was a very emotional testimony if
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: you had a chance to see it. Rittenhouse broke down
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: on the stand while describing the night of the shooting,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: prompting the judge to call a ten minute recess. Rittenhouse
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: says he was ambushed. Rittenhouse testify that Joseph Rosenbaum, who
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: he shot and killed, had threatened to kill him, and
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: he said he came out from behind the car and
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: ambushed me. Well, the interesting thing about it was, this
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  Speaker 1: is the first time I've seen the video, and I
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: just happened to watch some of them, and I watched
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: all the clips. I didn't know it had went down
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: like that. I just didn't remember Steve. That was from
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: the last year. No, no, no, no, yeah, no, I
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  Speaker 1: know we talked about it. I never saw the footage.
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  Speaker 1: This is the first time I saw footag was doing
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  Speaker 1: the trial. The prosecutor presented the footage. Now, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how. I didn't even realize that he had killed
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  Speaker 1: the two people in two separate places. So this dude
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  Speaker 1: just on one yeah, and he talking about they said
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: get him, getting him. Wait a minute, man, First of all,
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  Speaker 1: you're not a police officer, right, But I'm just watching
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  Speaker 1: the footage of how he killed these two people. At
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  Speaker 1: no point in time did anyone point a gun at him,
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  Speaker 1: At no point in time. Why is he there? It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't make any He there cross state lines to get there.
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  Speaker 1: He's from Illinois to start trouble. That's why he took
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: his gun. He took a k How how you on
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: film shooting two people one man unarmed? You shot an
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: unarmed man, you say, because he was charging you, and
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  Speaker 1: what what are you talking about? And his testimony was
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: very dramatic too. You know, Y got no time for that.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: But in the drama, the actor the Oscars, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: think he would be on the stand. I didn't think
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: that was his defense. That was risky though, because we've
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: never seen that, so it might. But I'm gonna tell
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: you something. I saw enough. What well, Okay, let me
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  Speaker 1: start this two ways. I saw enough where I know
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  Speaker 1: for a fact, if this boy was black, he's fitting
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: to get convicted. I know that. It's if you play
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: that tape for me and a black dude has got
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: this gun, I'm going all right, this dude going to jail. Now.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: If you play this tape for me and it's a
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: police officer doing this, the police officer is in trouble,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: but Steve. But but now let me finish. If our
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: seventeen year old white boy does this, and I watched
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: the tape, I'm nervous. But now I saw enough that
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  Speaker 1: I saw two murders. Yes, but I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: these damn generous is gonna see. That's what's crazy to me.
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  Speaker 1: But if this is a seventeen year old black boy,
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  Speaker 1: he'd have died that night walking down the street with
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: the acape Thomas with the the police are not allowing
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: that a black dude to be walking around him strapped
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: with a rifle one like that. Come on, man, this
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: white boy with his hat on backwards went there with
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: the intent to be a vigilante. And that's exactly how
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  Speaker 1: he added it. He got to go to prison. All right,
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Coming up, we'll have more of the
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after. Right after this,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. The time
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: you decide to lie down for the night and go
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: to sleep may determine how at risk you are to
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: develop heart disease. Research are studying the sleep habits of
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  Speaker 1: eighty eight thousand adults over six years found a correlation
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: between bedtime and heart disease. The data is showing that
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: those who went to sleep after eleven pm had a
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: twenty five percent higher risk of cardiovascar cardiovascular disease, and
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: those who dozed off before ten pm were at a
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: twenty four percent higher risk. That led researchers to conclude
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: that the ideal bedtime is between ten and eleven pm.
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  Speaker 1: The study also found that the risk is higher for
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: women after eleven pm and higher for men before ten pm.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, into bed. We have to get up early,
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  Speaker 1: that stupid ass. That yeah, a heart attack. Thirty We
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  Speaker 1: got a show started ten thirty. I'm just trying to
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: figure out what they're talking about. Yeah. Yeah, the people
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: have different jobs and stuff careers than we. Sound like
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: they got different goals. You out here trying to get it? Man,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what y'all. Y'all
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: quit talking to me about sneak. Next question. All right,
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: play a round of would you rather? At thirty three
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: minutes after? Right after this you're listening to show? All right,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: here we go, guys, would you rather? Would you rather
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: become someone else? Or just stay you? Or just stay you? Yet?
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: I can't even know who the other else? Who is else?
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: Even if you could pick something, I'll tell you what.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: How about this a better question? If you could pick
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: to be whoever you wanted to be or yourself? Who
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: would you pick? Man? Or would you just stay yourself? Men?
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: You've got to want to change time? Please? What is advantage?
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  Speaker 1: What is wrong? Admittedly you stupid? Why would you want
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: to continue? Well? Look where he has gotten me. M
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  Speaker 1: thank you for that brought me a mighty long way.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead, sir, Okay, would your brother explore space, explore
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  Speaker 1: the ocean, the ocean space. Scared of both of them.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: I'm scared of them. I can't food with the water man. Lord,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: people have been going into space lately. Yeah, William, it's
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: something down that water. We ain't seen you now, nothing,
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  Speaker 1: we ain't seen nothing. I'm sure something's face too, but
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  Speaker 1: down in that water. Yeah, once you get to space,
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  Speaker 1: we don't go that far space. We just go right
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  Speaker 1: to the moon and back. That's it. We just want
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  Speaker 1: to make a you turn. There's a nice little you turn.
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  Speaker 1: That's all that water space over the ocean. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather be a kid for your
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  Speaker 1: whole life or be an adult your entire life? Adult,
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  Speaker 1: you'd rather be an adult. You're way more freedom as kids.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't having no damn ocean. Now, I'm not going back
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  Speaker 1: saying my daddy house. That's he. Oh you in here
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  Speaker 1: changing channels? You work now, excuse me. I know you
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  Speaker 1: ain't slamming no dos in here. You don't hold no dope.
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  Speaker 1: A close that dope for you? Let all out? Yeah. Also,
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  Speaker 1: if I leave this dobe, then we're gonna stop breathing. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you rather be an adult in your entire life? Did
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  Speaker 1: you answer Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna go with adult, but
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  Speaker 1: be the size of a child. I would rather he
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  Speaker 1: shut up, That's what I would rather. Come on, he
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  Speaker 1: kind of he kind of got the best of both.
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  Speaker 1: We else he's an adult and a child. Come on, sir, Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, all right. Would you rather go on a
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  Speaker 1: cruise with your friends or go on a cruise with
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  Speaker 1: your spouse? I know what you're going to say, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I know my wife. No, No, I have the option
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  Speaker 1: every year. It's me and my girl. Man. Yeah, hands down.
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  Speaker 1: You've never gone on a guy's trip on a bump.
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  Speaker 1: It's been that kind of money. We don't damn. All right,
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  Speaker 1: coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's
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  Speaker 1: the last break of the day. We'll have some closing
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  Speaker 1: remarks from Steve Harvey right after this you're listening show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are last break of the
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  Speaker 1: day on this Thursday, and we have to say again
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  Speaker 1: Happy Veterans Day to all of our veterans. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: so much for your service. Yes, um yeah, yea. And
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  Speaker 1: Steve yeah, Uh, here's a philosophy that I live with. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: it's just something simple. I don't you know. I just
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  Speaker 1: try to throw a lot of thought starters out there
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  Speaker 1: for people to kind of get you, uh, you know,
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: just looking at stuff maybe a little bit differently that
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  Speaker 1: might be able to help you in your day to day,
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  Speaker 1: especially on your journey to becoming successful. And one of
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  Speaker 1: the things I don't do, I don't do percentages. I
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  Speaker 1: don't do percentages. I don't care about the percentage. And
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of ways I don't do percentages. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, let me tell you what statistics are usually
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  Speaker 1: involving some type of percentage. One out of every six,
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  Speaker 1: out of every only one in a million. Some type
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  Speaker 1: of statistics usually involve some type of percentage. And that's
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  Speaker 1: why I don't do percentage. I'm always one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: in every aspect of my life. I try to give
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  Speaker 1: whatever i'm doing one hundred percent. Matter fact, I don't try,
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  Speaker 1: I do it. When I go to work, I give
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  Speaker 1: it one hundred percent. If I'm playing golf, no matter
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  Speaker 1: how bad that day is gone, and it's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of them, I'm giving one hundred percent. When I'm relaxing,
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  Speaker 1: I'm giving one hundred percent. If I'm motivating somebody, I'm
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  Speaker 1: all in one hundred percent. I have no other percentage
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  Speaker 1: because I don't do percentages. Man, I'm not gonna let
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  Speaker 1: anybody determine my value with a percentage. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: deflect or ruin the chances of the outcome being what
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  Speaker 1: I needed to be by giving less than one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do percentages. I don't care when you come
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  Speaker 1: up to me and tell me, why are you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do that type of show? Anybody never did that by
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  Speaker 1: show that did that show before. That's one out of
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  Speaker 1: every three thousand shows. One out of every twenty thousand
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: comedians were told they would get on the Tonight Show.
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  Speaker 1: So every night before I walked on stage in comedy clubs,
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  Speaker 1: I used to hum the Johnny Carson theme, Done Anything Done?
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  Speaker 1: I just hummed it. One time a comedian heard me said, hey,
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  Speaker 1: man's that's the Tonight Show thing? I see? Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: one day, man, I'm gonna get that. He said, Man, yea,
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  Speaker 1: how hard he is to get on Tonight Show? I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I I don't know. He said, Man, one out of
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  Speaker 1: every twenty thousand comedians to ever get on that show. Okay, cool,
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  Speaker 1: but see it seeing us, I don't care nothing about
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  Speaker 1: your percentage the number you said that. I only cared
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  Speaker 1: about where you said one. Then my goal was to
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  Speaker 1: just be that one. I guess what, I never I
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  Speaker 1: never made it to the Johnny Carson Show. I never
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  Speaker 1: got there. I did go on the show when Jay
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  Speaker 1: Lennar was hosting it, called it Tonight Show. I finally
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: made it and me and Jay Lennar was in the
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: back having a conversation about it. He said, Man, how
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: is it that you're not doing Late Night? He said, Man,
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: they're missing a boat on you. Man. And how is it, man,
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  Speaker 1: that this is your first time doing the Tonight Show.
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  Speaker 1: I said, well, I believed I'd always get to the
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  Speaker 1: Tonight Show. I just thought it would be with Johnny Carson.
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  Speaker 1: But it's better cause as you, he said, it's better
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  Speaker 1: being on the show cause it's me. I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: at least I know you. Because if you know one thing,
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  Speaker 1: I did not care about the percentage one in every
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  Speaker 1: twenty thousand. Okay, cool, you did say one, though. See,
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  Speaker 1: when you believe in percentages, you kill all your hopes
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  Speaker 1: for probability. When you go into the probability factor too much,
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  Speaker 1: you kill all chances at possibility. Did you know what
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  Speaker 1: I just said? If you rely on statistics, you ruin
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  Speaker 1: your chances for probability. But if you lean too heavy
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  Speaker 1: on probability, you kill all your chances of possibility. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't care what the stats said. I did don't care
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  Speaker 1: about the probability. It not heart is for one in
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  Speaker 1: twenty thousand, get there. I only concern myself with the
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  Speaker 1: possibility that I could be one. I'm telling you, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: these things that you keep imagining, these themes that you
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  Speaker 1: keep hoping for, these things that you're praying about, these
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  Speaker 1: things that you're expiring to, It's gonna happen if you
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  Speaker 1: believe it's gonna happen, and you stay the course and
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: you never give up, and you keep the faith and
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: you put in the unrelenting work ethic that's required, which
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  Speaker 1: is one hundred percent all the time in all things.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me, y'all. Here's the formula. It's one one
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  Speaker 1: percent of the time and in one hundred percent of
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  Speaker 1: all things. Let me give you the formula again. It's
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  Speaker 1: one hundred percent of the time, in one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: all things. If you follow that formula, that is no
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  Speaker 1: way you will not be successful. That's a promise of
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  Speaker 1: your heavenly father. It's not a theory. God said that
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  Speaker 1: if you believe, you shall receive you. And if you
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  Speaker 1: put the work ethic with it, you're gonna mess around
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: and half something. Get out of the statistics and get
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  Speaker 1: out of percentages. It's only one that matters. If you
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  Speaker 1: give one hundred percent, one hundred percent of the time,
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  Speaker 1: in one hundred percent of the things you do, you
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 1: will be successful. And if you put God in the
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  Speaker 1: mix of all that, you're about to be a winner. Y'all. Congratulations, Hey,
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: y'all hanging there. We'll see y'all tomorrow morning. God knows you,
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: and let you do about that, God willing. We'll see
• 1:26:59
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