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Brandi Harvey, Sister O'dell, BET Hip Hop Awards, Deon Cole and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all have
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  Speaker 1: all suit looking back to back down, giving them more
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  Speaker 1: like the million bucks things, and its cubbing me through
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  Speaker 1: good it. Steve har listening to the movie together for
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  Speaker 1: ste Please, I don't join Brady, join me in doing me. Honey.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turning to you, gotta turn to turn them out,
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  Speaker 1: turn you love, got to turn them out to turn
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  Speaker 1: the water the water go. Come come on your back,
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  Speaker 1: h I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening
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  Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now. One and
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  Speaker 1: only Steve hart Man got a radio show. M Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do. Man. God been so good to me over
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  Speaker 1: the years, in spite of all the mistakes I've made,
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  Speaker 1: in spite of all the dirt I've done to myself.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about when in no one I was wrong,
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  Speaker 1: His grace and mercy has forgiven me for all of
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  Speaker 1: my sins. God can forgive you of all of your sins,
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  Speaker 1: everything you've done, God can forgive you. He can wipe
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  Speaker 1: your slate clean. Now. Might you might have some you know,
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  Speaker 1: things you got to deal with because of some of
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  Speaker 1: your actions, understand that, But you can wipe your slates.
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  Speaker 1: You can wipe your slate clean with God and start again.
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  Speaker 1: You can repent. God has mercy and grace. You could
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  Speaker 1: be forgiven by God. Now, people answer another story. Some
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  Speaker 1: people may never forgive you, for you've heard them all,
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  Speaker 1: or maybe they're accusing you of doing something else. But
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  Speaker 1: you know they may never forgive you. But God, God
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  Speaker 1: is in the redemption business man. God will forgive you
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  Speaker 1: for every sin you've ever committed. But you gotta want
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  Speaker 1: forgiveness now, and then you got to come correct because
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  Speaker 1: what you can't do is you can't shoot him the crap.
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  Speaker 1: Now you can say that conversation with him. You know,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you told your lawyer, whatever, whatever you told the victims,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you told, whatever the story is you got going
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  Speaker 1: if it ain't the truth, you could say that with God,
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  Speaker 1: because please know, he know, and he know your heart.
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  Speaker 1: He know if you're trying to manipulate somebody just for
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  Speaker 1: the system, if you're trying to say this just so
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  Speaker 1: you can get out, He know all of that. So
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  Speaker 1: if you're planning on shucking him and jiving him, save
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  Speaker 1: your health before you wind up digging yourself in a
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  Speaker 1: deeper hole. Just let me give you that piece of
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  Speaker 1: advice because he ain't nothing to play with. He's too
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  Speaker 1: great to be played with. And so with that in mind,
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  Speaker 1: I want to share some positive stuff with you. To
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  Speaker 1: smarty man, I want to say this now. I want
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  Speaker 1: to remind you not to let your circumstance and your
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  Speaker 1: situations dictate your future or your results. I'm gonna say
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  Speaker 1: this again. This is important information. Man. Don't let your
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  Speaker 1: circumstance and situations dictate your future or your results. Do
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  Speaker 1: you know that in order to get a different future
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  Speaker 1: or some different results, you control that entire situation. It
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  Speaker 1: is you. It is your thoughts that control the entire situation.
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  Speaker 1: It is how you look at the situation that will
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  Speaker 1: determine how the situation is for you. See, the same
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  Speaker 1: situation can be told different for two different people, because
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  Speaker 1: you can say you look at the examples of history,
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  Speaker 1: just just look look in your neighborhood. How can that?
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  Speaker 1: Was a book that a guy wrote one time who
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  Speaker 1: had the name. He had a name, and he did
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  Speaker 1: some research and he found a guy that grew up
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  Speaker 1: at the same age in the same neighborhood as him,
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  Speaker 1: with the exact same name. He went on to become
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  Speaker 1: a corporate CEO. The other man was an inmate, and
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  Speaker 1: they had the same name, grew up in the same neighborhood.
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  Speaker 1: They were both brothers, you know not, I'm just saying
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  Speaker 1: brothers men. And they grew and they went to different
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  Speaker 1: Because how can two different two people the same situation
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  Speaker 1: and the results turn out so different. It is because
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  Speaker 1: of the thought process of one was completely different from
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  Speaker 1: the thought process of the other. You control it. You
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  Speaker 1: don't have to let your circumstances and your situations dictate
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  Speaker 1: your future or results. Here's the way it works. This
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  Speaker 1: is so you can understand this. Your mind. It's the
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  Speaker 1: controlling factor of your thoughts. Your thoughts are the controlling
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  Speaker 1: factor of your outcome. The Bible says a man is
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  Speaker 1: as he thinketh. Please don't short play this scripture here,
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  Speaker 1: because this one is the real deal. This is the
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  Speaker 1: basis of every self improvement book you'll ever read. It's
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  Speaker 1: already written in the Bible. The Bible has all the
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  Speaker 1: information you need. But in case you need a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of clarity in some simple modern day language, then
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  Speaker 1: they have self improvement books. They are all based on
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  Speaker 1: Biblical scripture. A man is as he thinketh. That's why
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  Speaker 1: Norman Vincent Peale wrote the book The Power of Positive Thinking.
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  Speaker 1: That's why a book came out called The Magic of
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  Speaker 1: Thinking Big. That's why a book came out called Think
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  Speaker 1: and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hell that all of you,
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  Speaker 1: All these titles that I've read that have mattered in
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  Speaker 1: my life the most, these three major books that I've read,
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  Speaker 1: they all say one thing. Think thinking thoughts, because that's
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  Speaker 1: what controls the outcome. Your brain works one of two ways.
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  Speaker 1: It works positive or negative. It works good, which is
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  Speaker 1: under the column of positive, or to work evil, which
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  Speaker 1: is under the column of negative. It will have faith,
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  Speaker 1: which is under the column of positive, or you will
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  Speaker 1: operate in fear, which is in the column of negative.
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  Speaker 1: That is the only way your mind works. Your mind
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  Speaker 1: is a factory that's comprised of workers. Those workers are
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  Speaker 1: controlled by two formings, forming positive and forming negative. But
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  Speaker 1: guess what the CEO of the company, the head, man,
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  Speaker 1: the boss is you. You come to work in the
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  Speaker 1: morning and you say, man, today is a great day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to take steps towards brightening my future. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to take another step into making that dream come
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  Speaker 1: true that I've been thinking about. I'm gonna take another
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  Speaker 1: step forward in the development and the changing of my
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  Speaker 1: life in a positive, good direction. If you come to
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  Speaker 1: work and say that every day as the CEO, the boss,
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  Speaker 1: the formans can only obey you, so that what you
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  Speaker 1: just said was a series of positive statements then forming
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  Speaker 1: positive steps to the forefront. He said, I got your
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  Speaker 1: boss right away. He turns around, He blows the whistle.
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  Speaker 1: He alerts all the workers in the factory today as
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  Speaker 1: a good day. Today, we will take steps towards our future.
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  Speaker 1: Today we are putting ourselves on track to get a
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  Speaker 1: little bit closer to making our dreams come true. Today
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  Speaker 1: we will be assembling all the things we need to
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  Speaker 1: make our dreams come true in our life, life better
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  Speaker 1: in the right direction. Everybody break. The workers in the
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  Speaker 1: factory turn around and manufacture thoughts to justify the orders
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  Speaker 1: given by the boss, which is you. You are the
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  Speaker 1: CEO of your corporation. If you don't own nothing else,
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  Speaker 1: you own everything that's going on between your two ears.
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  Speaker 1: You are the CEO of that corporation. If that corporation
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  Speaker 1: is a good one, it's because you set it up
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  Speaker 1: that way. If your corporation is a bad one, it's
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  Speaker 1: because you set it up that day, If you trying,
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  Speaker 1: if you pushing towards your dreams, and you see the
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  Speaker 1: possibility of things happening in your life is because you,
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  Speaker 1: as the CEO, set it up that way. If you
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing popping, if you just want to be
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  Speaker 1: a criminal taking stuff from people, throwing your life out
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  Speaker 1: the window, you're gonna be an inmate. You're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: sitting there there, and you're gonna be mad at everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You've got nobody be mad at. But shoot, you understand
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  Speaker 1: what I'm telling you this morning. You're listening to show.
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  Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, here we are again another blessed date.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. At least wake up in the morning
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  Speaker 1: and tell God you appreciate that. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you noticed this or not, but you don't have the
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  Speaker 1: ability to wake yourself up. Alarm clocks will go off
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  Speaker 1: all around the world this morning, and people will not
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  Speaker 1: arise to turn them off because it's not the alarm
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  Speaker 1: clock that wakes you. God wakes you allows you to
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  Speaker 1: hear the alarm clock. Can everybody say thank you Lord
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  Speaker 1: for waking me up today? Lord, Thank you Lord. Cheley
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  Speaker 1: Strawberrett Hey, good morning, STI one and only caller for real.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. What's up crew? That damn Junior? Morning up?
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  Speaker 1: My mentor? What's having? Brother? And that food nephew? Tommy? Yah,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't you in the feeling baby a? Yeah? Fool?
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  Speaker 1: But hey man, you know hump day? Yeah, yeah, hump day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm living my best line. Little Duval hosted last night.
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  Speaker 1: How you do good? Good, good God? I did too.
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  Speaker 1: On the red carpet, he said he will always be
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  Speaker 1: living his best Nah, keep going, boy, make another here. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So let me ask you guys something I never asked you. Shirley, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: watch on the dream board that you're looking forward to
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  Speaker 1: accomplish it? Uh something with my daughter? A project I
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  Speaker 1: have going on with my daughter Carla. Uh um, having
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  Speaker 1: um adopting a child. I'm not gonna have another baby?
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  Speaker 1: So oh you Oh, I didn't know that. I want
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  Speaker 1: to we want to grow our family. Yeah. Wow, that's
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  Speaker 1: pretty slick color collin Junior, Uh, one day have my
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  Speaker 1: own want to show. Really, Junior can do that. It's
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  Speaker 1: called Junior in the morning claimant. What about you? Steve Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: Tommy me Winton made man ain't and they ain't had
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  Speaker 1: nothing fall off of me yet. Jesus. Uh, that's nice. No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's still on their call. It ain't
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  Speaker 1: like it ain't like I got some of them yet.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Oh no, no, Tommy, Yeah no, Tommy, No, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: you have them. They just having arrived yet they're on
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  Speaker 1: the way. All of it's on the way. I believe
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  Speaker 1: in them though. Yeah. I got two shows right now.
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  Speaker 1: I want a third show. I want a third show.
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  Speaker 1: My Mike College Quiz Show was back. It starts in January,
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  Speaker 1: and then I got of course, I got ready to Love.
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  Speaker 1: I want one more show. I want I want a
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  Speaker 1: third show. That's that's on my board, just like uncle.
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  Speaker 1: That's I got somebody to file up now, I got
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  Speaker 1: somebody at leading me right, your mentor we do fight?
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  Speaker 1: That's all, idiot, All right, good questions. I want to
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  Speaker 1: yeah him back. Yeah. Coming up at thirty two after
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  Speaker 1: the hour, Steve's going to tell us what he's working on,
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  Speaker 1: what's on his dream board, and from what I understand,
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  Speaker 1: sister Odell may make a visit to the morning show
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  Speaker 1: as well. We'll find out what's on her dream board
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  Speaker 1: as well. That's coming up, right after this, you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show. Coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour. Our special guest will be Steve's daughter, Brandy Hardy.
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  Speaker 1: She has a word for us this morning, Yes she does.
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  Speaker 1: Brandy's gonna tell us about her brand new book. It's
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  Speaker 1: called Breakthrough, sold separately. Brandy will be here at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right now, it's time for something funny.
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  Speaker 1: Before we left, Steve asked us what was on our
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  Speaker 1: vision board that we're working on, and he got around
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  Speaker 1: to everyone, but a time ran out before we got
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  Speaker 1: to you, Steve, and we want to hear what you
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  Speaker 1: have to say. And then sister Odell's coming by too
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  Speaker 1: right here, and that we want to know what's on
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  Speaker 1: her dream board as well. I don't know. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: I'm just working on a couple of things in the
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  Speaker 1: motivational space. I think that's, you know, got a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of other stuff on it, but that's one that's been
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  Speaker 1: like popping up surprisingly to me. You know, I've done
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  Speaker 1: a few speaking engagements. I did one in Jamaica this weekend,
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  Speaker 1: got another one coming up in Duebaye. I do another
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  Speaker 1: one in Boswanna, So it's kind of gotten global. From
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  Speaker 1: me without me even what do you speak on? Just
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  Speaker 1: motivation or whatever like them. The theme in Jamaica was
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  Speaker 1: getting to the next level. Of course I happen to
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  Speaker 1: know about that. Has I've been at all the level.
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  Speaker 1: So the story was compelling from homeless to Hollywood. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's that's that's been a ride, man, I guess that's
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  Speaker 1: our Q. Yeah. Move for Jesus, Jane Moon, No, Jesus,
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  Speaker 1: m ain't it good? No, Jesus Good morning everyone? Morning,
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  Speaker 1: Hey Collie, Hey, sister Old Dale. How you doing? Brutal
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  Speaker 1: for brutal for brutal for hey Junior, morning, Sister Old
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  Speaker 1: Dale's good to hear from you this morning. Did you
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  Speaker 1: did you jest your voice? No, ma'am? Oh, Daddy day
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  Speaker 1: pop seeing it out, it's like it's gotta shout in it.
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  Speaker 1: Hi boy, yes, ma'am. So how good you back to
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  Speaker 1: being respectful. That's mighty kind of you. Thank you. Hello, Shirley, Well,
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  Speaker 1: Hello and welcome, Welcome, Welcome, sister Odell. Where girl a
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  Speaker 1: good to be here? Now? God, it's good man. You
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  Speaker 1: just ran right through me. J man. You know what
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  Speaker 1: we were just talking and normally, you know, we don't
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  Speaker 1: ask people, Uh, and I don't want to be disrespectful,
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  Speaker 1: like of age what their dreams are? You know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? We usually reserve that for younger people who
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  Speaker 1: have the majority of their life ahead of them, but
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  Speaker 1: we wanted to take some time since you're here, to
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  Speaker 1: ask you, because um, surely you still have some dreams. Well. See,
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  Speaker 1: when people gets around my age, they don't call them
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  Speaker 1: dreams anymore. They call them bucket list. Oh yeah, all right, good.
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  Speaker 1: See that's the difference. They ain't just what you want
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  Speaker 1: to help them do. At this age you need to
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  Speaker 1: start scratching stuff off. You ain't that kind of build
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  Speaker 1: now tell us? Yeah, yeah, all your building us is done. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't need to get some money out the bank
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  Speaker 1: and gone and going over there and see it? All right?
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  Speaker 1: So what's on your bucket list? Sister Adell? Well, I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking maybe before our leaders world, thinking about man
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  Speaker 1: Lebron James James. Though you're just thinking, yeah, old Dale James.
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  Speaker 1: You know they said it to be easy if I
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  Speaker 1: married that wide receiver from the Browns, old b j.
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  Speaker 1: Because then my name is already old, and then his
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  Speaker 1: name junior, Old Dale Beckham junior, and she will be
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  Speaker 1: just old Dale Junior. But I like old Dale James,
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  Speaker 1: big old strong buck come down to float that basketball y'
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  Speaker 1: up that high. Yes, ma'am, I know it had never
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  Speaker 1: happened though. You know it's just a bucket list thing. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: what's what's something on the list that you know, um
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  Speaker 1: is attainable that you think you can Wait a minute,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, sweetie, that's bucket listens can happen. You know
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  Speaker 1: it's it's not up to you. It's not it's not okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's not up to you, sweetie. You know I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to change it, become a better person. So you know
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  Speaker 1: what you're not gonna do is Timmy's not doable. No,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't say that, but no, that's not what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm just one. It's married, sister Odell. He's married
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  Speaker 1: and he's old. Things happened. I've been married. Let times
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  Speaker 1: things happened, sweetie. Okay, because I put it on your
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  Speaker 1: list and see how I go? Okay, what else is
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  Speaker 1: on your last? Now I didn't say I was happy,
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  Speaker 1: But wait a minute. Every you know, every you know,
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  Speaker 1: every week you come, you know, just always you know,
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  Speaker 1: you just get on your tippatoes and you just start talking.
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  Speaker 1: It's just amazing how you just won't shut your mind. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I don't know how Kate doesn't. I'd have
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  Speaker 1: been and put your lips in so far back down, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So okay, what else, Sister Dell marrying Lebron. You know
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  Speaker 1: I was listening Geesus Strawberry letter yesterday, yes, ma'am, and
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  Speaker 1: you had the letter where that food had jumped on
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  Speaker 1: a fifteen year old girl who was tussling in the
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  Speaker 1: floor like they were like they were two dudes in
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  Speaker 1: the street. Girl. That reminds me of that time Harry Tubbman,
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  Speaker 1: father the slapped urn of mouth, we were sitting on
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  Speaker 1: the porch, Harry tubmy poor that gun I shot him.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta come back. I want to ask us. I
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to throw that out for your little history
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  Speaker 1: black history, that little known black history fact in October.
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  Speaker 1: We love it all right, Well, thank you, Sister Odell.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up, it's nephews run that prank back. And before
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  Speaker 1: he gets to the prank, he said, he wants to
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  Speaker 1: ask you something. You're welcome, darling. Right after this you're
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  Speaker 1: listening show coming up at the top of the hour.
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  Speaker 1: Our special guest will be the one and only Brandy Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: Seve's daughter. She has a brand new book out. We'll
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  Speaker 1: talk about that with her. That's real nice. That's real nice.
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  Speaker 1: What did Tommy want with me? Yeah? You know you
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  Speaker 1: brought up sister, miss Harriet Tubman. You brought up he
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  Speaker 1: knew very well. Yeah, when we were talking to you earlier,
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  Speaker 1: I just wanted to know. I just want to know
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  Speaker 1: how you know? So? Are you a free slave? I
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  Speaker 1: don't because i've well, how was you that when Harriet daddy?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I said, we were sitting on the poach talking. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but Harriet was a slave. So where did you read
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  Speaker 1: that Harriet was a slave? So you was free too?
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  Speaker 1: Is I'm free? Naw fo? I guess I was back
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  Speaker 1: sitting on her punch taking care of her daddy. She
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  Speaker 1: shot it in the leg. She just went down there
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  Speaker 1: and told everybody, come on, if you turn around, our
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  Speaker 1: shoot you. If you don't believe he will. She can't,
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  Speaker 1: damn my, damnadd I got my daddy, I know. Damn Well,
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  Speaker 1: I shall y'all for having me to see you next week? Yes, many,
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  Speaker 1: Hey gee, nephew, Now was gone? What you got run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back. Once you get sleeping security. God, sleeping
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  Speaker 1: security God, here we go security both man help you, hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Uh this circuit this barely hear Is this? Is this
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  Speaker 1: a security booth down by the by the gate? Yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: this security booth. Yeah. Listen, man, it's some people, uh
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  Speaker 1: next dough to me. They they keep I'm hearing a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of scuffling and stuff going on, but I ain't,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I ain't really show what's happening. I know,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I know I'm hearing this lady scream or something. Man,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: But I I just okay, suns, you can give us
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  Speaker 1: the unit number that you're in. We could have somebody
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: come right over there and check that out. Hello, sir,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: sir um Hello, yeah, sure, okay, yeah, uh, I gotta
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I gotta sleeping disorder, man, So I'm okay, honest. People
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: next door to me, man, they was, I mean, they
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: were sitting there. I heard this lady screen and I
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: just didn't. I ain't want nobody to, you know, start
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: shooting or nothing, because I know they was arguing pretty
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: pretty heavily then I heard it. I know they must
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: have been fighting because I heard something. I understand, sir, sirry,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: what what unit are you in? Hello? Sir? Are you there? Hello? Hello? Hello, Yes,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I'm here. Are you okay? You you're security guy? Right, yes, sir.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: You called us about ten minutes ago and we've been
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: trying to find out what unit you're in. Well, yeah, man,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: the people up here, man, they arguing and I'll be
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing more people over that night and they're fighting. Man,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I know, I hear too. God be too mean and
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: they're fighting. This lady over, sir, I hate you, but
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: tell un sir, are here some kids over that? To sir?
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: We need need to know the unit so that we
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: can come out and investigate. Hello, hello, sir, Hello, Hello sir.
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  Speaker 1: H Hey, hey, look I cannot do this all day.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I am trying to work. I cannot be around with
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: you on the phone. Could you please give me your
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: unit number? Sir? Argument man? I know you. Yes, you
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: have said that they are argument. I heard you when
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: you said that they will arguing. Sir, Just give me
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: that unit number that either you're in or the union number.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: You hear the no it's coming from. We could have
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: somebody to come over there and check that out immediately,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: so what the union number are you in? Again? Sir?
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Do you do you? Do? You? Do you hear them arguments? See?
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Let me put no, I only hear you snore. I
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: need the unit number. Let me see. Listen, I'm gonna
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: put the phone up. Do you hear, yes, sir, But
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I don't hear the unit number. I need the unit number.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Without the unit number, we're just there in the conversation. Hello, hello, hello, Hello,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: sure are you there? Yoh yeah? Oh a man, you
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: checked on the people, No, sir, we have not checked
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: on the people because we have not been able to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: get the unit number from you. Sir, dud pall, please,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: every time you get ready to tell the stuff fall,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: you got to hear it. Following the sleep, Hey man,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: come here, dude, this guy following a sleep on the phone.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: I think it's unit out of him to keep falling asleep. Hello, sir,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Love sir, sir, hey man, I don't know what unit
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: he's in. Keeps following asleep every time I asked you something.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: If he falls asleep. He keeps telling me that over
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: that fight. But I don't then he won't tell me
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: to you. I don't sorry, I don't know to you
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: what's the would you wake him to sleep? Hey? I
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: got a guy on the phone that he says if
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: they get to hear some screaming over his highest unit,
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: but keeps following asleep. I don't can't get him on,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: get him to tell me what the unit number? Hey, dude,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: come in listen to this. Listen. Hello, I'm gonna you
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: to wake up? Sir? Okay, sir? Could you please give
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: me the unity? I gotta ask you something? How come
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: y'all all, y'all, dude, just sit on y'all to watch
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: cars come in and out that door and stand of
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: helping people that need help like you want the number?
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: You shut your housing at me. You didn't do your
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: damn job. You rent a cop. I'm a read a cop.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I'm a rend the cop fall asleep. Would you just
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: give me the you don't number? Please? I give you
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: the number new yo, the number you're ready for the
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: un the number? Are you? Are you listening to me? Yes?
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Listening to you, sir. Death is a few timing from
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got crank by
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: your co worker. Y'all crazy, y'all, y'all got me out
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: here walking around this complex looking for people's hollering and screaming,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: and you're sleeping every Let me let me ask you something, man,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land? All right?
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Taking up you coming up at the stop at the hour,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I special guest Steve's daughter, our friend, our girl, Brandy Harvey.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, light you out. We got
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: a special guest today. Uh this morning is my firstborn child.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: This one here, Lord Jesus, this one here grew me up.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: For real. I was just twenty five years old and
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I was, you know, doing my thing, and then her
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: and her sister came along, and oh God, Lord Jesus,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: oh God, what have I done? I had no idea
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: what I was in for. They grew me up. This
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: is one half of my twins. I'm really proud of her, though.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Brandy has been doing some incredible work over the years,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: really establishing herself as a speaker, as a motivator, as
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: a nutritionist, as a workout guru, philanthropists, and just an entrepreneur. Well, now,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: she didn't took after her daddy for real. She's an author.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Come on, you know, all of all trying to be
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: good like your Damn Daddy on. Her new book is
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: entitled Listen to This You All or Breakthrough Soul Separately.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: Breakthrough Soul Separately. It's a guide for anyone who needs
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: a push to move past your past and to step
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: into your divine destiny. And as her father, I'm pretty
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: proud of this girl right here, she's here, Lady Jennery,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Please welcome to the show. My first bring daughter, Brandy Harvey.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, made me cheer up on that one. Well,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: welcome back, Brandy. It's spent a minute since you've spent
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: time with us. Well. First of all, before we before
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: we get into the book, Brandy, I just want to
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: say you did found You founded your active wellness brand
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Beyond Her, and you're all about empowering women to eat well,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: to give a darn, and to care for the mind,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: body and spirit. So what was your inspiration for starting
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: your wellness brand to begin with? You know, mom, my
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: inspiration were starting beyond Her that every woman takes the
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: journey beyond and beyond is where a power lies, is
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: where the infinite is. And so what we can tappen
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: to that mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually we could eat well.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: We can live well and we can be well in
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the world. M No, seriously that that's good, and it
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: really is. And you wrote a book. You wrote your
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: new book. Your dad just talked about it. He gave
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: us the title Breakthrough Sold Separately. It serves as a
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: guide to help us to stop dreaming of the life
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: we want and align with our purpose and live up
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: to our full potential. So tell us more about the book.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I can't wait, you know, I'm so excited about this book.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: And really the title of this book was confirmed when
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I spoke at the Vault Empowerment Conference in Los Angeles.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I have done this message Breakthrough Sold Separately, And I
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: think so often we think that the breakthrough is included
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: in our lives, but it is the thing we have
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: to work for. We are going to have to eventually
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: get out of the boat of mediocrity and walk on
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: water in our lives. Absolutely, walk on water. Wow. How
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: proud are you right now, Steve Harvey? How broad are
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: you right now? Listened over the years to a lot
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: of things I've saying, but she's put her own twist
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: on it. Obviously, like the title of the book Breakthrough
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  Speaker 1: Soul Separately, because you know, that's that's all that captures
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: that old saying that the dream is absolutely free. The
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: hustle is sold separately, right, so I think that ties
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: into the breakthrough is soul separately. I think that's a
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: smart title. Steve, this is great. You should really be proud.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: We're going to continue with more from your daughter Brandy
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour. But right now, let's
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: get a quick check on today's headlines. What you got, bakies, gentlemen,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: miss a and trip. Thank you everybody, This is a
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: trip with the news. Well. Dallas police claim they've solved
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: the murder of the key witness in the Amber Geiger case,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: twenty eight year old Joshua Brown, who was expected to
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: be the best witness in the promised investigation into law
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: enforcement's actions a night that Geiger murdered that Amber Geiger
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: murdered Botham Jean. He was found shot and killed in
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: the parking lot outside his new apartment complex, only ten
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: days after he testified in that trial. Dallas Assistant Chief
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: of Every Moore says they have three suspects. We have
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: identified three suspects and the Joshua Brown murder. All three
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: suspects came from the Alexandria, Louisiana to purchase drugs from
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Joshua Brown. Thaddeus Green shot Joshua Brown two times. There's
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: been speculation and rumors claiming that mister Brown's death was
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: related to the Amber Geiger trial and somehow the Dallas
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Police Department was responsible. That is simply not true. Well,
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: some members of the community are still doubtful about that, though,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: insisting the cops have planted drugs and set people up
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: to be killed before one suspects and custody while the
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: other two were still being sought. A West Palm Beast
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  Speaker 1: judge who thought it was appropriate the sentence a gainfully
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  Speaker 1: employed young black man who took care of his grandfather
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: to ten days in jail just because he overslept and
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: missus first day of jury duty, claims he had a
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: change of mind. However, there was a national outcry over
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: that decision. Most lawyers pointed out that when something like
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: that happens, the penalty is usually just a fine. Judge
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: John Costa Nakis called himself teaching twenty one year old
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  Speaker 1: DeAndre some Ofville a lesson by giving him a quote
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  Speaker 1: taste of jail. Congresswoman Ilhan Omar not the only legislator
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  Speaker 1: to see Costa Nakis's action as one of the ways
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: the criminal justice system tries to give young black men
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  Speaker 1: records as soon as possible. In the wake of intense
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: national criticism, cost Nakis now says he'll have some Ofville's
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: sentence vacated. Before this, some Ofville had no record. The
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  Speaker 1: Trump Whitehouse says it's refusing to cooperate with the quote
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: baseless on constitutional congressional impeachment and curee. That's a quote
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: from the letter. Yesterday, the State Department said that US
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Ambassador to the European Union, Gordon Sandal, would not be
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: allowed to testify, even though Solomon, who was a big
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Trump's political supporter, had flown here from Europe to testify,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: and Elliot Ingle, chairman of the House Foreign Affairs Committee,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: tells NPR, that's the wrong attitude. Obstruction of Congress was
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: one of the things that impeached Richard Nixon. We'd rather
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: not use it or anything else. We would rather find
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: out the truth, and we demand that they not stop
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: people from coming to or to testify. We're not accepting
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: what this administration has done, and if anyone fails to
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: cooperate with this inquiry, will consider it obstruction and we'll
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: presume they have something to hide and we'll move on
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: from there. The sentence for these these they sentence for
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Disease Control says more than a thousand cases of vaporing
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: related illnesses have now taken pack. Today is moldy Cheese Day.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: That's right. Now back to more Steve with Steve's daughter
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: Brandy twenty after the hour on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Well, our special guest today is
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Steve's daughter, Brandy Harvey, and we're talking to Brandy about
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: our brand new book. It's called Breakthrough, sold separately. We'll
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: also talk about some interesting father daughter stuff. So Brandy,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: let's get back to it now. Tell us a little
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: bit more, you know, thank you. It really is not
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: just about you know, there are so many ways that
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: we can have breakthroughs in our lives, you know, and
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: they come from really first taking one hundred percent responsibility
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: for your life, you know, losing the victims story, the
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: woe is me, they did it to me story, you know,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: and taking control of your life. And that's the mental control,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: and we all have that ability to find that power
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: within us. But it's gonna take some faith, it's gonna
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: take some water walking in our lives. Girls. That's so wonderful.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I am so proud because what really makes me proud
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: is not just that this is just a body of
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: work that I've I've really spent you know, so many years,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: you know, and my wellness Journey says I was nineteen
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: years old, you know, enhancing my wellness journey. But you know,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: I took the healing journey. And I think that when
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you began to uncover and heal your life so from
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: the inside out, that it's not just about how you
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: show up, you know, physically, but how do you show
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: up and be well in the world. You show up
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: as a light in the world. And I had to
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: go do some real healing. I committed to therapy. You know.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I made these very like really acute changes to my life,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: you know, so I could dig up the roots, uncover
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: the problem, and I show up that's the highest version
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: of myself, you know, I really just wanted to show up.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: That's the best version of me. And this book is
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: a how too, because it's how I did it. But
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: it's not to say that your journey is gonna look
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: like mine. It's supposed to be accustomed to your life
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: because everybody's boat is different. But when you, you know,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: get out of the boat, God is there to meet
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: you on the water, you know, for your destiny to
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: propel you to the next level. And I'm so thankful
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: that my dad, you know, gave me the push. You know,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: he let me go. He let me go as the
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: executive director of his foundation. But he knew that there
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: was something that I was supposed to do. I thank god. Yea,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: if her damn brother make one moment stakes, I ain't
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: got no problem the surprises. I ain't fired time ass.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I cut my own daughter loose. But it was because
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Brandy had other things in her And what I had
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: to let Brandy go and discover was what it was
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: to beat like you know, Marjorie says this all the time,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: and I had to understand it. All of our children
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: wings work, They all all your kids wings work, but
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: you got to let them get out the nest to see. Okay, wait,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: let's keep this breakthrough conversation going at thirty four after
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: the hour, Okay, we'll have more with Steve's daughter, Brandy
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. This is good. You're listening, all right,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Proud Papa, Steve, your oldest daughter, Brandy Harvey is our
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: special guest. We've been talking to Brandy about her brand
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: new book, Breakthrough, sold separately, and you guys were talking
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: about your father and daughter Breakthrough. So come on, Steve, Okay,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: So Brandon, let's get back to this part right here.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Releasing her allowed her to become what she is to day.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: She didn't need to be the head of the foundation.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: She needed to be the head of her life, of
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: her part of a big part of Brandy's breakthrough, And
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: what can help a lot of people in this book
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: is you got to quit being the victims. And we
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: had a moment in my office one day where she
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: was sitting up there and was the victim and I
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: was just sitting there looking because I didn't raise them
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: to be victims. No, No, I raised them to be champions, leaders, absolutely, entrepreneurs,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: feel as people you know, you know, And that's what
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I did. And August twenty three, twenty seventeen, I was
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: I would let go from the found But August twenty third,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, I sent this book off to the publisher
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: and so there is nothing but God in this story.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: You know, nothing God two years to the day. And
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: so I'm so grateful because my dad's pushed propelled me
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: into my destiny. And so to even see here now,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: to hold this conversation, I feel extremely honored. But I
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: know that there's a supernatural divine power that is working
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: in my life, and that everybody has that power within
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: them to transform their lives from the inside out. Yeah,
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: and you know, we as parents sometimes because we love
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: our children so much, we do have a tendency if
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: we don't let them go or in your case, Steve,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: you know, release them as you say, fire them, or
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it, we will have a
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: tendency to enable our children and they will become dependent
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: upon us and resentful in all of that. So in
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: this instance it worked. Sometimes firing is good, you know.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: And like you say, you can go on and reach
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: your destiny. And Brandy, You've always been deep and we
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: love you. I love the relationship you have with your dad.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: She's such a great speaker, Brandy. You know, I've always
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: told you that I have always pulled Brandy. I want
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Brandy to run for office. Where is this girl there's
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: a lot of girl. Your dad says the same thing, Brandy,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: your dad says, great, we're gonna hold up. She a
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: great speaker. Yes, you haven't heard her spend No, you
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: have here. You think she did it from like this,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: like like like this a new sprout. We're just letting
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: her have her shine, see shine. Nothing in this. You know,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: he's a band one so much. I've learned so much
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: by watching my dad, you know, being such a peakt
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: of light in the community. But also you know, you
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: are signing an example of success. And so I've had
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: the blueprint in front of me. And so with this book,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: you know, of the breakthrough. It really speaks to my
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: own personal breakthrough of how I had to get out
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: of the boat of mediocrity and walk on water. And
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: we all have that christlike potential. And I'm so excited
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: because the book is available today on Amazon. You can
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: once plick this book to your how I love it.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that. I'm gonna do it right now too.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: The book is called This by Brandy Harvey Steve's Baby
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: Girl Breakthrough sold separately. Okay, that is the name of
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: the book. You cannot and we can get the book Queret.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Let me get everybody to get this book with. The
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• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that was great. Coming up next, Nephew Tommy with today's
• 44:38
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• 44:42
  Speaker 1: listening to show. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: today's subject, I'm too sexy to have male friends. Yeah. Wait,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: till you hear this letter. Okay, right now, the nephew
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: in the building with today's praying phone call. What do
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  Speaker 1: you have for us today? Now? Yo? Drug? Husband? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: yo drug us. That's ready here it is, come on,
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  Speaker 1: can't down? Hello? You got a hold on a minute. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I got your phone. I'll give your wife
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  Speaker 1: a call. Hello. Hello, all right, right now, you're inebriated, sir, okay,
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: right now, to be taking you in, but I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna do that. Man. You let me. If I'm able
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  Speaker 1: to come and pick you off, I'll let her come
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  Speaker 1: get you. All right. All Brian is gonna Officer Brian's
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  Speaker 1: gonna put you in his squad car. I'm gonna call
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  Speaker 1: your wife. I've got the phone dialing now, all right, okay, hello, Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Who is he? Hello? Whom whom I fushing with? Please?
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  Speaker 1: Who is it? This is Officer Daniels out to Daniel,
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  Speaker 1: U is Kyle from This is my husband? Now? But
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: who is it? Who is outfer Dane? I am Officer Daniels. Man,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: here is your husband's actually been pulled over and he's
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  Speaker 1: been uh actually he's in another officer's car. He's he's
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of kneebriated here, and we're trying to
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  Speaker 1: see about getting him picked up. I'm trying my best
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  Speaker 1: not to take him in today, so I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: be a good Samaritan. I'm trying to get someone to
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  Speaker 1: come and pick him up. Hold On, hold on, hold on, Becker, Becker,
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  Speaker 1: you got my husband? Uh? What I got here on
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: the driver's license is Kenny Kenny, and he's with you now.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: He's actually an Officer Brian's squad car right now. So
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: he was actually uh bobbing and weaving out on the
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  Speaker 1: road and we pulled him over. He's not creating any problems.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: The young lady wasn't creating any problems. So what we're trying,
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  Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is get somebody to come
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  Speaker 1: and pick him up. You'll have my husband because my
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: husbands and worked, so he can't be in the Officer
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  Speaker 1: Brian in your car. It did you say, Jim again,
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: did you say somebody is with Kenny? There is? There
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  Speaker 1: was a young lady in the car. Man. We're actually
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: letting her go because she's not inebriated from the look though.
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  Speaker 1: As somebody she's a somebody to pick her up now, man, No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Kenny, and I know that dirty
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  Speaker 1: song gotten a back in my car. That's my car.
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  Speaker 1: And you said that he had timid officer timidus look
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  Speaker 1: at that at tell what she looked like. If that'd
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  Speaker 1: not be that, that'd not be the one. I think
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  Speaker 1: you have no idea. I know about it in my
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  Speaker 1: cause he's supposed to be working. I'm so sorry, Jack.
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  Speaker 1: Jasmine okay, you're Jasmine? Okay, no, just there, we'll talk
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  Speaker 1: to your moment. Yea, her name is Jasper. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: sure who keep keep keep it, yeah, holding that time
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  Speaker 1: I get there. I'm on my way. I'm on my
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  Speaker 1: way right now. Hey, Bridget, I want you to watch
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: these children from the time I get back. I'm going
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: to see if I can give me a ride up
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: to the truck stop and I'll be back in a minute. Okay, man, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't stay here too my longer. I can.
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  Speaker 1: I can say maybe another fifteen twenty minute. Somebody come
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  Speaker 1: to get the car, and but I gotta keep moving here.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to do it for another because here
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  Speaker 1: I'm all my way. I'm all my way. I'm all
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  Speaker 1: my way. I got my purse in my hand. I'm
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: all my way to that fuck stop, please don't take
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  Speaker 1: that nowhere because I got something for his And when
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I get there, I hope like hell, And ain't they
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: they's been calling me to with me all through the night.
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  Speaker 1: Leave for the attack. Get them because I got some
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  Speaker 1: things that I need to take care of. This thing.
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  Speaker 1: Don't move the squad car to I get there. I'm
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  Speaker 1: all wait right now, right now, I be there in
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  Speaker 1: a minute. I well, that took my time picked up
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  Speaker 1: the to date, we don't had arguments over this. It's
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  Speaker 1: better not do that. It's better not, I bet you
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  Speaker 1: if better not be here, it's better not be here.
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  Speaker 1: I'm all my way. I'll be there in a minute.
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  Speaker 1: I be there. Keep that I get them. Okay, regard
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  Speaker 1: that was Kenny, Let me was not? She can hear
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  Speaker 1: me better? Man, there was another gentleman that was in
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  Speaker 1: the back seat of the car that was riding with
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  Speaker 1: Kenny and the young lady. I don't give a I
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  Speaker 1: know other riding with Kenny. Just make sure he's there
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  Speaker 1: when I get there. Okay, okay, Now do you know
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  Speaker 1: who this other gentleman? Do you know, uh, nephew Tommy,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Oh I know, nephew Tommy. Nephew Tommy sent for you.
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  Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve waved morning, your baby,
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  Speaker 1: your usban. Kenny got me to Frank fall call you man,
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  Speaker 1: got you've got you at Kennedy just happened to Kenny.
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  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy happen to go down to bank Head in
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are my Now I'm gonna check.
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  Speaker 1: He said, man, my wife, don't play, he said, my
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  Speaker 1: man to pray my wife. You aren't say I'm doing time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm doing what Karia though he didn't work,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know? How was that right there? How was
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  Speaker 1: let me make this announcement, Jackson, Mississippi. I'm supposed to
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  Speaker 1: be there this weekend. The club is not opening this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: I was the grand opening this weekend, because that's how
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  Speaker 1: you grand open. You grand open with somebody like me.
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, that's how you open. But you
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  Speaker 1: stay tuned. I keep you posted on when the show
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  Speaker 1: will happen. But it's not happening this weekend. They're working
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  Speaker 1: on some things. But nevertheless, the Nephew is still coming.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as I let you know, I will be there.
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  Speaker 1: well a, Mississippi. October eighteenth and nineteenth. I'm in Chicago,
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  Speaker 1: Illinois at the Airy Crown. That's two nights, the eighteenth
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  Speaker 1: and nineteenth, along with me one of the craziest ones
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  Speaker 1: Fly Country Wayne, and it is hosted by yours truly
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  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy. That's two nights at the Airy Crown, the
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  Speaker 1: be there, stay right down, thank you? Answer was I will?
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  Speaker 1: your sick ticket and come see me and support me. Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Not this show right here? Okay? See if it was
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  Speaker 1: And how much do you give to charity? How abounds?
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  Speaker 1: That's where we're going. I thought at some point we
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  Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at the top of the hour,
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  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for today,
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: and we'll get right into it. The subject is I'm
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: too sexy to have male friends. Right after this, you're
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: listening to show all right time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 53:56
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  Speaker 1: got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I'm too sexy to have male friends.
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  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a problem with how men
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: see me. I was married for twenty five years and
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I got divorced three years ago and decided to move
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: to another state for a clean slate. I'm not looking
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: for a serious relationship right now. I want to enjoy
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: being single awhile, but I would like male companionship occasionally.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: So here's my problem. I look younger than I am,
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: and apparently I uz sexiness. No matter how I'm dressed
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: or if I have a makeup or not. When I
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: meet a man, all he does is compliment me on
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: how I look, how sexy I am. I'm an all
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: natural woman, from my hair, to my breasts and to
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: my behind. Every man I meet in person or online
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: is only interested in seeing me naked. There is always
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: an innuendo about my body, or my lips or the
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: way I walk. I feel like a fantasy more so
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: than a woman. Men don't take me seriously, and I'm
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: not used to this treatment. When I was married, men
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: seem more interested in what I had to say to me.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: I am average looking and I have a few flaws,
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: but I am funny, smart and loyal. Everyone who knows
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  Speaker 1: me knows that I'm not a wild woman that seeks
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: attention from men. I don't know how I can turn
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: this sexy vibe off, but trying to find companionship has
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: been a disappointment. How do people not start out as
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: friends anymore? What can I do to get a man
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: to see pass my sexiness and pay attention to the
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: entire package? Wow? What a problem to have, a problem
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: to have all sexy and stuff. I mean, well, you
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: know men are visual, yes they are. But um, the
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: stuff you describe in the letter, all this sexual stuff,
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  Speaker 1: these these things they're they're pointing your way. I think
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: it's uncalled for. Okay, it sounds like you're an attractive woman,
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you're sexy, you're well put together. Um, you're confident, but
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: you just keep running into some real losers. I guess
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: at this point people that you're not interested in uh,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: and what you want is a nice gentleman to take
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: you out to dinner, just to you know, maybe go
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: to the movies and stuff like that. So, UM, I
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: just think you need to change your game up, you know, online,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: maybe go to UM because you say, these guys online
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: only want to see you naked, and the guys you
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: meet only want to see you naked. I'm not one
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: to um to blame the woman for what she has
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: on or anything like that. But you did mention your
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: your bud and your breasts and and and all of that.
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  Speaker 1: So what are you wearing. I'm not blaming you. I'm
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: just trying to figure out, you know, what are you wearing?
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: Are you wearing? What are you what are you wearing?
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: I just want to know. But anyway, you can be sexy,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: you can be attractive, you can be all those things.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: I just think this caliber of men that you're attracting,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: you probably need to go to other places. Go to
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: places where you can meet different types of men. That's
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you have girlfriends, check out your girlfriends,
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: see where they're going to meet a different class of men.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: I think that's what the issue is here, especially this
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: online dating site you're on. So talk to your friends,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: your female friends, things like that, and even your male friends,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: because you want to meet some classier guys, more gentlemen.
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: So you need to get in a group that where
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: gentlemen are basically Steve Well, you know, this letter is
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: a bit confusing because I agree with a lot of
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: what you were saying, Shirley, but we don't want to
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: read this letter. I'm too sexy to have male friends.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Now this woman has a problem with how men see her.
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: She told us that she was married for twenty five years,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: divorce three years ago, decided to move to another state
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: for a clean slate. When you get a divorce and
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: move out to state for a clean slate, it's because
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: everybody knew y'all was married. Everybody knew him or something.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: Y'all was popular. People don't get a divorce and move
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: out of state normally. So I'm assuming you were in
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: the spotlight or something to that effect, and you maybe
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: the word got out about the divorce. Maybe that was
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: some embarrassing things and you just wanted to startle, which
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: is a good move. Now, I'm not looking for a
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: serious relationship right now, so I want to enjoy being
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: single for a while. This is the key in the
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: whole letter. You're not looking for a serious relationship and
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: you want to enjoy being single. Well, if you're not
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: looking for a serious relationship, how can you attract a
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: serious relationship? And if you want to enjoy being single,
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: welcome to the single world, because this is what it
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: is now. But here's my problem. I look younger than
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I am, and apparently I ooze sexiness no matter how
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: I'm dressed or no matter how I'm dressed, or have
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: makeup on or not. When I meet a man, all
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: he does is compliment me on how sexy I am.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I'm an all natural woman, from my hat to my
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: breast to my bead. She said, I ooze sexiness. Yeah
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: she did, she did. Yeah, you can't turn off six Hell,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: I can't. Come on. I've been struggling with this problem girl,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: But that's where you are. What did he say? Nothing?
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: Go ahead? Go ahead? No, she said, you can't turn
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: it off. He said me either with confidence, But he
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: didn't mean it. No, he didn't mean that. It just
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: came out. I'm so I just needed that's what you said?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: He No way in hell he could have meant that. Yeah,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: we'll be back with what the rest I think. All right,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour. Subject of this very
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: confusing letter is called I'm too sexy to have male friends.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening to,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: The subject I'm too sexy to have male friends? Well
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: as far as we got was this woman been married
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: twenty five years, got a devote and she just got
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: a problem with how me and Sea. She moved to
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: another state. She's not looking for a serious relationship right now,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: and I want to be enjoyed being single for a while. Well,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: this whole letter does just that. Doug, You're not You
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: don't want a serious relationship now, and you want to
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: enjoy being single, Well, this whole letter is giving you that. See, ma'am,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: you can't. You can't won one thing then when you
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: get it, then don't want it. So here's the problem.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: I look younger than I am apparently who's sex And
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: it's no matter how I'm dressed or if I have
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: on makeup or not. When I meet a man, all
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: he does is compliment me on how I look and
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: how sexy I am. I'm an all natural woman. From
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: my hat to my breast to my behind. Every man
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: I meet in person or online is only interested in
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: seeing me naked. Let's stop right there. Every man you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: meet online or in person is only interested in seeing
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: you naked. Now, I'm like Sherley, what do you have on? Now?
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: Listen to me. It don't take much I'll give it
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: to you. Look, men, we can be also ignorant at times.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: I got it. So I'm not blaming you for what
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: you wear, but you're drawing, you're attracting the same comments
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: over and over and over. If you're attracting the same
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: comments all the time, I want to see you naked.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: You know then what you what you got on? That's
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: damn near got your naked. See something that's happening, man,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: And I don't know what it is, but I want
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: you to think about this. Then you say, as every
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  Speaker 1: man I meet online, there's always an inny window about
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  Speaker 1: my body or my lips or the way I walk. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you online and somebody got something to say about
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  Speaker 1: your body or the way you walk, it's cost that's
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  Speaker 1: what you posted. Now. I'm sorry, man, but that's just
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  Speaker 1: all to it. Now, I feel I feel like a
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  Speaker 1: fantasy more than a woman. What Wow, Wow, that's that's
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: a pretty cool problem to have. Yeah, I say, men
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: don't take me seriously, and I'm not used to this treatment.
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  Speaker 1: When I was married, men seem more interested in what
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  Speaker 1: I had to say because they knew they couldn't get
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: to you. To me, I'm average looking, Okay, stop that.
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  Speaker 1: That's the way to try to bag it down a
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: little bit. But if you was average looking, you begetting
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  Speaker 1: average ass request And I have a flute, few flaws. Man,
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  Speaker 1: we don't see him. But I'm funny, smart and loyal.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone who knows me knows that I'm not a wild woman.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: That's probably true. That seeks attention from me, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how I can turn this sexy vibe all
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: but now, see, listen to me. You don't see the
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: attention to men, but you keep getting it. Now, if
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: you online and they only want to see your neck
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: and they're always complimenting the way you walk, I want
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: to see your neck and all this here, right here,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: right here, somebody is attracting the same thing because you're
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: exuding the same thing. See this sexiness that just uses
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: out you, that loses at you use it out of me.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: You know, honey draw flies, But then so do sugar
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: honey iced tea. Now you got to make up your mind,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: because you could do something about this. But if you're
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: saying you're not interested in a serious relationship, then guess
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: what nobody's gonna treat you seriously. If you say you
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: just want to enjoy the single life. This is what
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: single life is now. They're hitting on people. They hooking
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: up on apps, they hook it up on line. See
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: you've requested this in your letter. I don't wan't no
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: serious relationship. Antybody trying to get you one. They just
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  Speaker 1: want to see you naked. You just said you ain't
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: want no serious relationship. See, words are very powerful. I
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  Speaker 1: think people lose the sight of how powerful words are.
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  Speaker 1: Stop saying things, and then when it comes back to you,
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  Speaker 1: you're mad because you got it. I'm not looking for
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  Speaker 1: a serious relationship. Ain't nobody offering none. I just want
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  Speaker 1: to enjoy the single life. This is what they're doing now.
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  Speaker 1: They're hooking up on tender, they they sex online apples.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you ask for. How can I turn this
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  Speaker 1: sexy vibe off? Why don't you change your request? Why
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: don't you change your ambition now? If you don't want
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship right now, I can understand that,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: then don't get in relationship situation. You're sitting down a
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: cross dinner from a man. He's gonna have, so he's
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: gonna want some kind of relationship now. So if you're
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: tired of being married, and tired of twenty five Just
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  Speaker 1: go do you for a while? But you didn't invite
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  Speaker 1: it all these men in because you want to have
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  Speaker 1: some fun and all this If it's twenty five years later,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: baby champ, fund and change. What can I do to
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  Speaker 1: get a man to see past my sexiness and pay
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: attention to the entire package? Tell these men that they
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: can only get they that you're only interested in a package.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: Quit going on these meaningless says dates meaningly, meaningly meaningless
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: meaningless dates is going to result in meaningless results. Yeah,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know how else is said to you, sir?
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we get it. Poster comments on Today's
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  Speaker 1: talk about some of the highlights from last night's b
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  Speaker 1: ET Hip Awards. Right after this, you're listening to the
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  Speaker 1: show and trending hip hop news. Last night was the
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  Speaker 1: twenty nineteen b ET Hip Hop Awards. It was hosted
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  Speaker 1: by the one and only Little Duvalvo I know. Performances
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: included Little Duval Chance, the Rapper, The Baby, Little Baby,
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  Speaker 1: Little John, Megan Dust Stallion, Offset Anderson, pok Rick, Ross
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  Speaker 1: t Payne, Little John. It was a music celebration including
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: some really fly fashion. Shout out to Little Kim the
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  Speaker 1: Queen Bee. Yes she Rocket Park. Yes, I mean, how
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: can you not. She definitely is a Queen Bee. Rock
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  Speaker 1: day pink Gucci outfit by Dapper Dan on the red carpet.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: Little Kim also took home the I Am hip Hop Award.
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  Speaker 1: Also shout out to be Et for their first ever
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  Speaker 1: comedy Cipher to bridging comedy and hip hop featuring Chico Bean,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: Carlos Miller, Afion Crockett and Little Dude Duval. That that
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: was funny. That was funny. That was funny. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I like that. I like that school though. Yeah, I
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: mean hip hop they got a lot in common now
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: these days. Yeah they do. And congratulations once again to
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  Speaker 1: Queen b I mean, who's more deserving than Little Kim
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: when you talk about I Am hip Hop and the
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  Speaker 1: Hip Hop Awards, So congratulations to her. And she rocked
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: that stage too, yes she did. I love him and
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Little ceas reunion with him, yes, yes, yeah it was
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: really good. Yeah, it really really was. And and congratulations
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: to little Duval too. He did an outstanding job. I'm
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: happy for Yeah, I really am. Yeah. He said he's
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: always going to be living his best life. It's cool, dude, man, right, yes, yes, yeah,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: it was cute. Tiana Taylor Shirley, her hair cold, Yeah,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: short haircut. It was good dress too, and she's got
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  Speaker 1: the bang in his body. I mean okay, yeah, man,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: go ahead when you want the papers, papers draw this weekend, Monday, Monday,
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  Speaker 1: So it's safe to say though. Kim was rocking the
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: Gucci outfit and the big old Gucci bell, and Tiana
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: was we're good. Yeah, he did her outfit. He dressed
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: Doctor Dan is a legend. If he thought with it,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: we got to all get in line. My sneaks is clean.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: I just didn't know I could put them on again.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: My st been riddy. I had missed some cold outfit.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: I didn't wear my leader. So he's cool with it.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: We're cool with it, right, yeah, all right, listen, coming
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, the judge and
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: the Amber Geiger murder trial defends hugging her at the sentencing.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it at the top of the hour, right,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to District Judge Tammy Kemp, who
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: was a sister who presided over the Ambergeiger trial. She's
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: come at her fire for the compassion that she showed
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: last week to Ambergeiger. Of course, Ambergeiger was convicted of
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: murdering both of both of John. During Geiger's sentencing, the
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: victim's brother, Brent John, also wished her well and hugged
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: her talking about Amberg Geiger. Both Judge Kemp and Brent
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: John's actions have angered some in the African American community.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: Judge Kemp said that Ambergeiger asked her twice for a hug.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: She hesitated the first time. Judge Kemp told NBC News,
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  Speaker 1: I could not refuse that woman a hug. Take a listen.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to look at the person beyond the act.
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  Speaker 1: This morning, District Judge Tammy Kemp speaking publicly for the
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  Speaker 1: first time, sharing how the Amber Geiger murder trial changed
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: her and her courtroom forever. Yes, moments like when Brandt
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  Speaker 1: John asked the judge if he could hug the woman
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: who killed his brother, not surprising an emotional hug, leading
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: to another from the judge yourself, I just said to her,
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  Speaker 1: Miss Geiger, mister mister John has forgiven you. Please forgive
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  Speaker 1: yourself so that you can live a purposeful life. And
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: she said, do you think my life can still have purpose?
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: And I said, I know it can. We the jury.
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  Speaker 1: After a jury convicted Geiger of murder and sentence her
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  Speaker 1: to ten years, Kemp stepped away and returned with a Bible,
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  Speaker 1: handing it to Geiger, who asked for a hug before
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: going to prison. Your job is to do justice, to love, mercy,
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  Speaker 1: and walk humbly. So how can you not hug this lady?
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: So we hugged. I felt somebody who was incredibly fragile. Wow, yeah, yeah, See,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: you know it's things like this. Uh, we are in
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: such a world of hate now that any acts of
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: compassion and love it's almost startling. Because we've accepted hate
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: and and and boycotting and lawsuits and and and dislikes
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: and all this, we've accepted it as the norm. We
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: accepted from the White House now that that's the norm.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: So when you see in any act of compassion, any
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: act of love, any act of forgiveness, what we're we're appalled.
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  Speaker 1: How dare you that that's what the world we've come
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: to man, do you do you realize that we're in
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: a world now where any act of love, forgiveness or
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: kindness it we are apart. The world is appalled at that.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: When it used to be we were appalled at evil
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: doing Now do good, and not only do we get
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: appalled at it, you get hated for doing it. This
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: is a different day we're living in, man. That's that's
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: what I gather from this. That's what I see when
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: I see this, man. I mean, because man, they can't
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: wait till lace to judge both of them's brother. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: they're talking to this boy like he ain't lost his brother. R.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know how he feels. You have no idea.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: That's hard, man. Yeah, we definitely as I saw that
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: that interview too as well. And a judge was saying
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: she thought the embrace was okay because the trial was
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: over as well. You know she didn't do it during
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: the proceedings. Oh that's right. You know she's been sentenced.
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  Speaker 1: You know this ain't no. I'm gonna hug you and
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: then now let me get you a light a sentence.
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  Speaker 1: The sentence was passed down by the Jewelry. Yeah, there's
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: nothing you can do. What did the judge do wrong?
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: And the judge gave her a Bible so you can
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: have a purposeful life, She said, do you think my
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: life can steal? Have purpose? This woman just killed somebody? Man,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: don't you know the hell this woman? Fitney catch. She's
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: going to prison as a police officer. You can't have
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: a worse state going to prison as a police officer. Man, yeah,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: disc man please, wow? Yeah. All right, Well we're on
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: the switch gears here coming up, more music, more trending
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: topics on the Steve Harvery Morning Show. We'll be back
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  Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: listening Steve Morning Show. All right, guys, some trending comedy news.
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  Speaker 1: All you comedians we love comedian and black and star
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  Speaker 1: so funny at the gas station last week, did you really? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's back with the brand new comedy stand up special.
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  Speaker 1: It is on Netflix. It's called Coal Hearted. It's funny.
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  Speaker 1: I saw the advertisement of it. Yeah, I saw the
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  Speaker 1: Look anyway, congratulations to Dian Cole. We love you, din Cole.
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  Speaker 1: meet you. You know what. We were just talking and normally,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we don't ask people, uh and I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be disrespectful, like of age, what their dreams are?
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We usually reserve that for
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: younger people who have the majority of their life ahead
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  Speaker 1: of them. But we wanted to take the time, since
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: you're here, to ask you because, um, surely you still
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  Speaker 1: have some dreams. Well, I'll see, when people get around
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  Speaker 1: my age, they don't call them dreams anymore. They call
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  Speaker 1: that's the difference what you want to hear them do.
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  Speaker 1: So what's on your bucket list? Sister Adell? Thinking about
• 1:19:20
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  Speaker 1: the day, and of course some closing remarks from the
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: one and only, our fearless leader. He's so smart, we
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  Speaker 1: show all right, it's been a good hump day. Huh yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think so right, Dirt, Yeah, that's what I was
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  Speaker 1: Get these steaks going, all right, Steve, Yeah, you know
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: I kind of mentioned it earlier, but you know, just
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: as a closer remark, I want to say this, And
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: you know, I've been thinking about this, both of them,
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: John thing for so long, the reaction of social media
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: to this young boy who offer gave this police officer
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: for killing his brother and then ask for a hug.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: And I've read a lot of the things and watched
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: the comments about the judge coming off to stand and
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: hugging this police officer who killed this young man, and everybody,
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, man, everybody's upset about this, and it seems
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: like but you know, I just wanted to say this,
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: and let me tell you something, Man, if you want
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: to be upset about it, I understand. If you're a
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: person who couldn't hug somebody who killed your brother, I
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: understand I do, because I don't. I don't even know
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: that I would have that in me. I know at
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: that particular moment I probably wouldn't, but the fact that
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't have it in me don't mean that that
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: young man can't have it in him. And as we
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: were talking the other day, and I kept listening to
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: a lot of men say you're a better man than me.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: And the dude that said it was forty eight and
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: wanted to do said it was thirty, and another dude
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: said it was fifty. And I'm sitting up here at
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: sixty two and I'm listening to everybody talk about, well,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: he's a better man than me. And that made me
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: start to think, Wow, at eighteen, he's already a better
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: man than us. Man, what have we been doing wrong?
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: And I just started thinking about that. But the outcry
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: of hatred and the social media that's going towards this judge,
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: it just caused me to think about this thing again. Man,
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: our world is so filled with hatred. Now. This is
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: probably the most hateful this world has ever been. I know,
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: it's the most one of the most hateful times I've
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: lived in, even though at times for blacks weren't great.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I was sheltered from it
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: to a degree. You know, I saw it on TV.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: I knew my parents were sitting in at lunch counters
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  Speaker 1: and my brothers was nationalists and panthers, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: I was feeling some kind of way, especially when they
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  Speaker 1: killed doctor King, and I started feeling a disappointment and
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  Speaker 1: a dislike for people who didn't like us, and where
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  Speaker 1: everybody went through that. But this is the most hateful, outward,
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  Speaker 1: hateful time and for us as black people, we've seen
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  Speaker 1: many of these years. I don't know which is worse,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because slavery was definitely one of the greatest
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  Speaker 1: atrocities ever perpetrated against a human group of people. Ever,
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  Speaker 1: that's not to knock any other trocity because the Holocaust
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  Speaker 1: was certainly right there, and I'm pretty sure the Asian
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  Speaker 1: Americans feel the same way about being in the encamped
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  Speaker 1: in prisons also doing the war. So I'm not comparing it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying slavery was vicious. Now we live in
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  Speaker 1: a very hateful time today, and it's so hateful that
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  Speaker 1: and we've accepted the hatred as normal to the point
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  Speaker 1: everybody where if anybody does anything kind, if somebody hugs somebody,
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  Speaker 1: if somebody forgives somebody, if somebody gives somebody a Bible,
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  Speaker 1: if somebody tells them they love them, guess what that's
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  Speaker 1: not the norm anymore, and it's actually frowned upon. You
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  Speaker 1: actually get hated on for doing something that's an act
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  Speaker 1: of love. Now, what this young man did. It shocked
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  Speaker 1: the courtroom. There were people crying in that court. The
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  Speaker 1: judge was crying. He was crying. She was. But man,
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  Speaker 1: he forgave her. Whether he forgave her at the trial,
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  Speaker 1: if he gave her ten years later, he did it
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  Speaker 1: that day. He was a better man than most of us.
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  Speaker 1: We all keep saying that. So let's give him credit
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  Speaker 1: for being a better man. What's the hate for? What's
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  Speaker 1: the hate of the judge? For the sentence had already
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  Speaker 1: been passed down. The jury came back and gave her
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  Speaker 1: the years. The judge stepped out the thing hooked and
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  Speaker 1: gave her a Bible and told her that she has
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  Speaker 1: a chance to make something out of her life. That
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  Speaker 1: woman said, you still think I could make something out
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  Speaker 1: of my life? Do you know that this woman is
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  Speaker 1: going to prison as a police officer. You know what's
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  Speaker 1: fitting to happen to this girl. It ain't no way
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  Speaker 1: around that. That's the rules of prison. This girl friend
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  Speaker 1: to pay. And the fact that you don't know what's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen, and you want her to pay with more
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  Speaker 1: years and all that. It ain't really up to us
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  Speaker 1: all the time, y'all. We have got to start treating
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  Speaker 1: we have got to stop treating acts of kindness, love,
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  Speaker 1: and forgiveness like it'sn't like it's something evil, like it's
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  Speaker 1: something wrong, the very thing we should be applauding. It's
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  Speaker 1: the thing that we've now grown to hate kindness, love,
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: and forgiveness. It's supposed to be the other way around.
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  Speaker 1: It really is. Just think about that, y'all, because I've
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  Speaker 1: been forced to think about it since I said he's
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  Speaker 1: a better man than me, And how he got to
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  Speaker 1: be a better man than me at eighteen and I'm
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: sixty two kind of threw me a little bit. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna just be real with you. Those are my closing remarks. Yep,
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  Speaker 1: drop it, baby dropping like yeah say that. Yeah, y'all
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  Speaker 1: have a good kids. Think I'm not. Yeah, see all
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