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Overcoming the Odds: Toxic Relationships - When you cut toxic ties, you thrive. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 2: now let's get this show started. My guest is a
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  Speaker 2: transformational master coach, author and speaker dedicated to helping high
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  Speaker 2: achievers transcend adversity. With a master's degree in social science
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  Speaker 2: and expertise and neuroscience and Trauma Recovery, she empowers individuals
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  Speaker 2: to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties, and build wealth
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  Speaker 2: driven lives. Please welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. Ldality Princy.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing, LDLT, I'm amazing.
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  Speaker 3: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: I've met a lot of people. That's a unique name.
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  Speaker 2: Tell me about your name?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, l DNC is my higher self and I went
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  Speaker 4: through a major spiritual waken in during college and after
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  Speaker 4: and I realize that we're all source experience and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: So that's my god, awesome, awesome. So you went to college, well,
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  Speaker 4: west Chester University. Now you have a book here. I
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  Speaker 4: want to jump into it. First.
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  Speaker 1: Monetize a mind that's colonized. What does that mean?
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  Speaker 4: Monetization is not just physical, it's mental. So when you
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  Speaker 4: monetize your mind, you will begin to see prosperity unwine
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  Speaker 4: because all this energy energy is a currency. And when
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  Speaker 4: you deprogram your mind from societal beliefs things like that,
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  Speaker 4: then you begin to grow wealth within. Wealth within, then
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  Speaker 4: it comes on the outside of you. Everything within is
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  Speaker 4: externalized on the outside.
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  Speaker 1: So let's talk.
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  Speaker 2: Let's slow down and talk about that because you talk
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  Speaker 2: real fast now, deity, I'm just going to tell you,
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  Speaker 2: because you know what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 1: About.
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  Speaker 2: What I'm hearing is about getting yourself right before you
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  Speaker 2: try to pursue the dollar.
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  Speaker 4: Correct, It's all encompassing. So when you get yourself right,
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  Speaker 4: you attract mentally right, yes, mentally, physically, emotionally because our
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  Speaker 4: emotional pools is what we continue to attract. So when
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  Speaker 4: you master your emotions, when you master your mindset, you
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  Speaker 4: know exactly where you desire to go in life, and
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  Speaker 4: you're not easily astrayed by other people.
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  Speaker 3: Let us stray by other people.
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  Speaker 4: So when you have mastery over your mindset, you have
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  Speaker 4: mastery over your reality and the things that you experience.
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  Speaker 4: So that starts with having to deprogram yourself. Because ninety
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  Speaker 4: five percent of our thoughts, of our behaviors, of our
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  Speaker 4: actions is coming from our self conscious so it's already programmed.
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  Speaker 4: So when you are aware, when you are aware of
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  Speaker 4: your own patterns, the more you begin to master yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Now you're doing a pattern interrupt which then puts you
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  Speaker 4: into the direction you ultimately the desire to go.
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  Speaker 2: Let's talk about cutting toxic ties, because that seems like
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  Speaker 2: that's a part of it too. Yeah, we talk about
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  Speaker 2: a lot of entrepreneurs on this show, small business owners,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm always trying to let them know how the
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  Speaker 2: mental side plays a major role and how you treat
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  Speaker 2: your staff and how.
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  Speaker 1: You build your company. So we said, cut toxic ties.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 4: It's beautiful that you said that, because that even just
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  Speaker 4: using companies for example, I remember where I worked at
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  Speaker 4: as being a therapist, a lot of micromanaging and people
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  Speaker 4: project onto others what they're internally going through. So cutting
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  Speaker 4: ties would be not only how you are being treated,
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  Speaker 4: but how you allow other people to treat you. So
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  Speaker 4: when you cut toxic ties from your own mentality, this
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  Speaker 4: pours onto other people. So in the workplace, if you
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  Speaker 4: have a manager who can micro managing you, that's coming
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  Speaker 4: from a deeper space within. There's something called ten x
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  Speaker 4: and versus two x. It's a mindset, and when you
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  Speaker 4: ten x your mindset, you're not micro managing other people.
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  Speaker 4: But it even even getting to family, even with family,
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  Speaker 4: just because someone's your family, but it's toxic. It doesn't
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  Speaker 4: mean that you have to stay. You have to pour
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  Speaker 4: into them. Because everything's energy. So the more you pouring
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  Speaker 4: energy into places that's not bringing you value, the more
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  Speaker 4: it drains you. So when you cut these ties, you thrive,
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  Speaker 4: and it goes for everything work, family, friends, relationships. When
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  Speaker 4: you remove that the weeds, the things that's not serving you,
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  Speaker 4: you're going to blossom.
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking about DIT Princy Master's right, yeah, and neuroscience.
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  Speaker 4: W social science, social science right, So psychology, social all those.
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  Speaker 2: Things because my mind either did the mind or sociology
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  Speaker 2: you know, not saying that's you. But it's about the
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  Speaker 2: mindset the people and how people think. And I want
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  Speaker 2: to stay on this cutting ties, especially in this conversation
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  Speaker 2: because it's called.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about employees, because.
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  Speaker 2: When I hear as a company that we're cutting ties
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  Speaker 2: ties to employees, they might not be good for what
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  Speaker 2: you're trying to do. If you are an employer or
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  Speaker 2: a supervisor, how would you approach cutting ties from I
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  Speaker 2: won't use the word toxic, but basically employees that are
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  Speaker 2: not benefiting what you want them to do exactly.
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  Speaker 3: It goes both ways.
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  Speaker 4: It goes for employees too, but in employers that's the
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  Speaker 4: ten X versus two X. Ten X thinking is basically
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  Speaker 4: accumulating more abundance. Two X is when it's slowed down.
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  Speaker 4: So if you have employees who it's something called I
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  Speaker 4: can't think of the exact terminology, but it's like an.
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  Speaker 3: Eighty twenty rule.
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  Speaker 4: So if you have if eighty percent of your employees
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  Speaker 4: are doing what they have to do, well, twenty percent
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  Speaker 4: doing what they have to do, but the other eighty
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  Speaker 4: is not, it's better to focus on the ones who are,
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  Speaker 4: because that's where you're getting the most productivity, the most
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  Speaker 4: longevity and the most success the ones who are not
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  Speaker 4: doing what they're supposed to do.
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  Speaker 2: That's more of a liability, right, So that really causes
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  Speaker 2: friction that your workspace. Exactly, employees are here complaining about
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  Speaker 2: the employees who are doing it, and employees who are
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  Speaker 2: complaining it but you do it too much.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly Exactly. I had a client like that.
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  Speaker 4: He said, I'm doing all the work and they're not helping,
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  Speaker 4: and that made him frustrated. You know, that made him
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  Speaker 4: very frustrated. And he's hoping that the management sees that.
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  Speaker 4: So the more the mindset begins to integrate into the
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  Speaker 4: higher ups per se, it trickles down into everyone. The
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  Speaker 4: more everyone is more aware of how they're treating others,
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  Speaker 4: how they're treating themselves.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone benefits from that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, now thank you for coming on the shore. When
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  Speaker 1: speaking of LD.
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  Speaker 2: My book Monetize a Mind That's Colonized, Watch Prosperity Unwind.
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  Speaker 2: You know when I when I when I'm always talking
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  Speaker 2: about success. That's what this conversation is about. And you
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  Speaker 2: have a course called eleven Master Consultant.
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  Speaker 1: What exactly is that?
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  Speaker 4: That's my business name, eleven Master Consultant. Anyone who knows numerology.
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  Speaker 4: I add the eleven because I along my journey, I
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  Speaker 4: found thought I was a life path eleven. But you
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  Speaker 4: know everyone sees eleven eleven, so eleven is.
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  Speaker 3: Just good numbers. It's just prosperity.
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  Speaker 4: And I am a master teacher and I consult those
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  Speaker 4: to help them with coaching, to help them with their mindset.
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  Speaker 4: So right now I am self owned, so it's just me.
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  Speaker 4: But that's what I do. I help coach people, I
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  Speaker 4: help guide them. I have courses, I do lives three
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  Speaker 4: times a week. A lot of people are being reprogrammed
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  Speaker 4: for free through my energy thirty minute sessions on Live
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  Speaker 4: because energy is trans is transferable. So that's what my
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  Speaker 4: whole company and bodies just to reprogram and help those,
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  Speaker 4: especially those who look like us, to know that they
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  Speaker 4: are free.
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  Speaker 2: Let's walk through the steps of how we get into
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  Speaker 2: the first how do we in touch with your deity?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, the easiest way to get in touch with me
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  Speaker 4: would be through you can just reach out to me
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  Speaker 4: by phone to six seven five to one two nine
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  Speaker 4: nine five.
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  Speaker 1: What's that number again?
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  Speaker 3: Two sixty seven five two one two nine nine five.
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  Speaker 2: Now, a lot of people get out their website, get
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  Speaker 2: they social media.
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  Speaker 1: You are comfortable with somebody calling you?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, yes, I'm comfortable. I'm very comfortable. And if you
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  Speaker 4: I'm the only LDT prince. So if you google me
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  Speaker 4: on any platform, you'll see me. I'm comfortable because I
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  Speaker 4: attract who I am. I attract my reflections just like you.
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  Speaker 4: I attracted you, So I don't I'm not worried too
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  Speaker 4: worried about you know, just the crazy stuff.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm very I'm very comfortable. I'm very comfortable with
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  Speaker 3: what I offer.
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  Speaker 4: I'm comfortable in my energy, and I know I always
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  Speaker 4: get the right people who reach out to me anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, good, So somebody calls you, what's what's the process?
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  Speaker 4: The process is first, I would need to see what
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  Speaker 4: are they looking for coaching or if they want to
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  Speaker 4: take I have people who just want my courses. Everyone's
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  Speaker 4: on different learning journeys. Some people are willing to invest
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  Speaker 4: in coaching. Coaching is something though I went to school
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  Speaker 4: for therapy, I am a coach now. Therapy kind of
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  Speaker 4: has this connotation of.
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  Speaker 3: Your broken, you need healing.
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  Speaker 4: Healing doesn't take years, Healing doesn't take decades. Coaching focuses
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  Speaker 4: on the now and the future, giving you the results,
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  Speaker 4: giving you the strategy. So sometimes people have to know
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  Speaker 4: what are they looking for, And coaching is really that
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  Speaker 4: God just to sit with you, hold you accountable, and
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  Speaker 4: take you through the steps, take you through the journeys.
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  Speaker 4: So that's the first step is to realize, is to
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  Speaker 4: find out what this person is actually looking for. Because courses,
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  Speaker 4: it's self paid, you can do that on your own time.
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  Speaker 4: But when you work with me, I'm serious. I guess
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  Speaker 4: I'm very disciplined. So we get stuff done.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you say I'm serious, like it's some people
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  Speaker 2: like that not serious.
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  Speaker 3: What makes you I'm serious?
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  Speaker 4: As if you say you want this life, we gotta
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  Speaker 4: do it. We have to get it done, no excuses,
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  Speaker 4: you know, because this is our time. So if you
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  Speaker 4: say you want this coaching, it's time for us to
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  Speaker 4: get started, to get rid of the things that's not
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  Speaker 4: serving us. I know that there's always a process, but
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  Speaker 4: just a mindset just to be open to say I'm
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  Speaker 4: ready to be open to say I want to become
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  Speaker 4: the version of me that I desire to be, and
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  Speaker 4: that's what I'm here to do.
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  Speaker 3: I'm here to help.
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  Speaker 4: Those be that version with no fluff, with no games,
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  Speaker 4: because I do consider life as a game. But when
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  Speaker 4: you when it comes to money, and if you're making
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  Speaker 4: money where you don't desire to be, that's not fun.
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  Speaker 3: That's not a game. That's draining.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Let's get a little back up a little
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  Speaker 2: bit so people can know your academic training and not
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  Speaker 2: say we jumped in too quickly, but because I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to really get into the book Monetize a mind that's colonized.
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  Speaker 1: Where did you get your training?
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  Speaker 3: Where Westchester University?
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  Speaker 1: And where's that located at?
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  Speaker 3: It's located in Pennsylvania.
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  Speaker 2: Where did you choose this path academically and now professionally?
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  Speaker 4: Really because of my own childhood. Clinically speaking, I would
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  Speaker 4: be considered a veteran. My child is there's something called
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  Speaker 4: the ac of score with stands for adverse childhood experiences
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  Speaker 4: and this.
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  Speaker 1: Deity you talk really really fast.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what you just said, and I
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  Speaker 2: don't think it's age either.
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  Speaker 1: I think you just a fans talker.
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  Speaker 3: I am.
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  Speaker 2: I've always been told that little doubts on my fans
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  Speaker 2: were't tune out.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, what did you just say? Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I got into this profession because of my own experiences.
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  Speaker 4: There's something called the ACIS score, which stands for adverse
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  Speaker 4: childhood Experiences.
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  Speaker 3: I studied this in college.
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  Speaker 4: Childhood psychology, and childhood trauma is equivalent to veteran PTSD.
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  Speaker 4: Childhood PTSD is equivalent to veteran PTSD. So that's what
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  Speaker 4: made me really intrigued by this because I had to
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  Speaker 4: do my own healing. I had a ten out of
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  Speaker 4: ten ACIST score, which meant that you are likely to be,
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  Speaker 4: you know, re victimized again, go through things again. And
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  Speaker 4: that was my journey a good part until I went
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  Speaker 4: off to school. I went to school specifically because I
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  Speaker 4: wanted to be a therapist because I felt like my
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  Speaker 4: therapist was there for me.
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  Speaker 3: I had someone to talk to.
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  Speaker 4: And it just kind of shifted because then the more
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  Speaker 4: the more I began to a sin and just learn
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  Speaker 4: life more, I realized that I'm not a victim.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not a victim.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a victor, and I've already proven it to myself
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  Speaker 4: by moving around.
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  Speaker 3: So that's what shifted me into coaching.
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  Speaker 4: I've been coached by Maron Golden, and being coached by
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  Speaker 4: him just inspired me so much.
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  Speaker 3: So that's where I.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of came from I came from healing my own
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  Speaker 4: adversities to going to school to study these things, then
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  Speaker 4: realizing that coaching is just who I am. I lost
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  Speaker 4: seventy five pounds on my own, so it's just kind
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  Speaker 4: of I'm just that person. I am a high achiever,
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  Speaker 4: so I want to help those high achievers as well.
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  Speaker 2: So why like a therapist was important to you just
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  Speaker 2: had somebody to talk to? Why was that important?
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  Speaker 4: It was important because I did not have that growing up.
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  Speaker 4: I did not have someone to talk to, someone to
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  Speaker 4: validate me and to validate the things that I've experienced
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  Speaker 4: growing up in a project and having a dysfunctional family.
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  Speaker 3: So having a.
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  Speaker 4: Therapist gave me that validation that I'm not crazy, because
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  Speaker 4: I thought I was crazy at first.
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  Speaker 3: So that's why I.
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  Speaker 1: Should work crazy.
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean when you find that term because
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  Speaker 2: you because you you know in that neuroscience area masters,
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  Speaker 2: when you used the word crazy, it might be different
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  Speaker 2: when I say the word crazy.
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  Speaker 3: I use it all interchangeably. But at that point, at
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  Speaker 3: that point in my.
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  Speaker 4: Life, it was more so being gas lit, being told,
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  Speaker 4: you know, what I'm going through is my my fault,
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  Speaker 4: and just feeling like, you know, my my I say
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  Speaker 4: egg and sperm donor for you know, parents, but feeling like,
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  Speaker 4: you know, my egg and my sperm donor were very
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  Speaker 4: abusive towards me. So I felt like, you know, no
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  Speaker 4: one believes me until once I started to speak up
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  Speaker 4: and talk to you know, the social workers at school,
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  Speaker 4: to therapists.
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  Speaker 3: Then I began to find peace.
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  Speaker 4: So I felt crazy because my environment would tell me
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  Speaker 4: that's not happening when it was right.
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  Speaker 2: So you used the word dysfunctional family, I want to
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  Speaker 2: hear that conversation because of the fact that a lot
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  Speaker 2: of people feel dysfunctional as normal and it's not normal.
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  Speaker 2: And I like for you to explain your version of
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  Speaker 2: what you experience is to be dysfunctional, and maybe some
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  Speaker 2: people might hear that, go that's me and get.
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  Speaker 1: Out of that because it's not going to get better.
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  Speaker 4: And that's actually the neuroscience of it all, because the
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  Speaker 4: more our nervous system is responding, and.
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  Speaker 3: That's our fire fight er freeze.
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  Speaker 4: The parasympathetic nervous system is when we are more able
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  Speaker 4: to relax and be calm.
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  Speaker 3: So when you're walking on.
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  Speaker 4: Eggshells, when you are feeling like you have to fight back,
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  Speaker 4: when you're feeling like you.
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  Speaker 3: Know your blood is boiling.
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  Speaker 4: That's not in your pair of sympathetic nervous system at all.
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  Speaker 3: That's not a calm body at all.
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  Speaker 4: So any relationship, any environment that makes you have to
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  Speaker 4: be on high alert, which being on higher alert that's
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  Speaker 4: your higher beta waves of your mind. So when you
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  Speaker 4: are on higher alert, you're stressed out. That's not conducive,
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  Speaker 4: that's not healthy to build wealth because your prefrontal cortex
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  Speaker 4: is the part, is the aspect that creates.
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  Speaker 3: That planning, the decision making.
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  Speaker 4: When a person is constantly in fire fight or freeze,
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  Speaker 4: they're not able to think clearly and to make decisions clearly.
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  Speaker 4: So this can again your mom, your dad, sisters, brothers.
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  Speaker 4: If it's not healthy, it's going to stay within that
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  Speaker 4: program and within your nervous system is going to respond
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  Speaker 4: to these things. You're going to attract more of those
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  Speaker 4: experiences because we do attract what we are.
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  Speaker 1: I'm speaking to l Deity Princy.
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  Speaker 2: She's a Master Code Transformational Master Coach, a master's degree
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  Speaker 2: in social science and expertise in neuroscience and trauma recovery.
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  Speaker 2: Champael's individuals to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties which
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  Speaker 2: we've just talked in great detail about and build wealth
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  Speaker 2: driven lives. This show us money Making Conversation masterclass. When
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  Speaker 2: I hear the word wealth driven lives, what are you
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  Speaker 2: talking about?
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  Speaker 3: Wealth driven lives? Again?
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  Speaker 4: You master your mindset, you do the things that bring
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  Speaker 4: you joy instead of working. I've had over thirty different jobs.
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  Speaker 4: What you'll read about that in.
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  Speaker 1: The book, and thirty different jobs.
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  Speaker 3: I had over thirty different jobs. Yes, because coming from
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  Speaker 3: the function trying to figure.
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  Speaker 4: Out life, and it was a horrible experience. I was
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  Speaker 4: never happy, never fulfilled. Amazon, I did all kinds of things.
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  Speaker 4: So building wealths begins within the things you eat, the
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  Speaker 4: things you do, having a routine, and the more you
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  Speaker 4: have this momentum, the more you routine.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, routine is tea I always talk about I preach
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  Speaker 2: routine on this.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, when you.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Say routine, what do you mean when you say routine?
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  Speaker 3: Routine is important.
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  Speaker 4: It's the things that you're consuming, the things that you're doing,
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  Speaker 4: the environments you put yourself in. The better routine that
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  Speaker 4: you have, the more you are going into the wealth
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: that you desire to have, which is our wealth is within.
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  Speaker 4: Everyone has a gift, Everyone has a talent. And the
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: more you're doing a routine. I like to meditate. Like
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: I said, I lost seventy five pounds, so I work out.
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  Speaker 4: But when you find that your niche, when you find
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  Speaker 4: what brings you.
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  Speaker 3: Joy, Now you realize, oh I have I want to
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: be a painter.
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  Speaker 4: Just because society or if someone told you you can't
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  Speaker 4: do that doesn't mean you won't be profitable. Then you
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: realize I can do that. I can do a rapper
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  Speaker 4: or a singer, whatever you want. Because you're building this routine,
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  Speaker 4: and the wealth starts within because it's all energy. Energy
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  Speaker 4: is a currency, So the more you build your own
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: energy within, it comes out.
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  Speaker 5: Please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more
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  Speaker 5: Money Making Conversations Master Class. Welcome back to Money Making
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  Speaker 5: Conversation Mastered Class with me Rashawn McDonald.
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  Speaker 2: Let's talk about this seventy five pounds. You mentioned that
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: several times in this interview, so obviously less important paths
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: that you are a positivity in your life. But at
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: some point you were comfortable with that seventy five pounds
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: or you were uncomfortable and you used to know how to.
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  Speaker 3: I was uncomfortable. I just didn't know how to deal
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  Speaker 3: with it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I grew I did grow up in a
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: cold so I was not socialized. I did not you
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: a cult, an actual cult?
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  Speaker 3: C ult?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, cult, a cult? So so what do you call them?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: A cult?
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: A cult? See ult? So there is a cult, a cult,
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: A cult, cults seul and a cult is more so esulteric.
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: But a cult is when you know you're basically manipulation, abuse,
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  Speaker 4: things like that.
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  Speaker 3: It can be verbal, all those things. Okay, that's where
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  Speaker 3: my weight came from.
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  Speaker 4: So that's why for me, losing weight was a big
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  Speaker 4: milestone for me because I grew up, like I said,
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  Speaker 4: sick asthma exma. I was uncomfortable, but I didn't know
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  Speaker 4: what to do. And I was uncomfortable as well, because
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: society does judge you when you are if you're not.
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  Speaker 4: If your weight is not proportioned a certain.
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  Speaker 3: Way, you get judged. So my weight was not proportioned
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  Speaker 3: the ideal way.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Now there's something that we talk about cut and
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  Speaker 2: thrive method.
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  Speaker 1: Who is that for that you talk about?
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  Speaker 4: That's for anyone who's ready to cut toxic ties and
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  Speaker 4: thrive and to their desired reality, their dream life.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh now you're interesting from a standpoint of I
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  Speaker 2: see a very your high achieving person, motivated, fast talking. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So what are the type of people that you invite
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  Speaker 2: in your life illdality, personally.
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  Speaker 4: As on a personal level, I invite people who are
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  Speaker 4: doing the same things as me. Entrepreneurs, people who are
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: building themselves up, not again, not in a victim mentality
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  Speaker 4: and the victor mentality, knowing that they can succeed and
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: have whatever they put their focus on. Whatever you focus
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  Speaker 4: on is what will grow.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: So those are the.
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: Type of people I love to have around me because again,
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: coming from poverty, that wasn't the beginning stages. So now
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: I get to choose, and it's so empowering for me
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  Speaker 4: because that only elevates me even more and we become
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: like those we are around. I elevate my team.
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  Speaker 1: Elevates Was it really interesting?
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  Speaker 2: I grew from the hood a six sisters, two brothers,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: grew up and grew up in a two bedroom shotgun
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: house in Atlanta. In Atlanta and in Houston, Texas where I
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: grew up, and so you know, I had teachers who
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: saw things in me and pushed me and guided me
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  Speaker 2: to where I am today. If they didn't push me
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  Speaker 2: ra Sean McDonald be operating a four fourthlift because that's
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  Speaker 2: all I wanted to be when I graduated.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: From high school was to be a fourth clift driver.
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  Speaker 1: That was my dream.
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  Speaker 2: But they saw more things in me that I didn't see.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: What helped you? Was it an individual or was it life?
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: What got you pointed in the right direction at Deity?
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  Speaker 2: Because you were in a cult c U l T
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  Speaker 2: even in a very dysfunctional family. It seems like it
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: almost feels like you couldn't escape that, but you did.
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  Speaker 4: How Really, it was just I just had to keep
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  Speaker 4: persisting because.
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  Speaker 3: The more I will always get kicked out.
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  Speaker 4: Actually, so I started to leave around nine, so come
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: back and forth, something to call it the cycle of abuse,
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: the cycle of abuse, and you keep coming back, you
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: keep leaving. So I just really got tired of it.
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  Speaker 4: And then I got my first apartment when I was
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  Speaker 4: about eighteen, but it didn't work because I didn't know
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  Speaker 4: what I was doing.
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  Speaker 3: But then someone.
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  Speaker 4: Said, oh, you could go to college. I only wanted
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: to go to college just to have a place to live.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't Again, I didn't grow up educated, so I
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: didn't know much of anything. So I didn't think I
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  Speaker 4: would really succeed in college. I just knew, oh, free housing,
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  Speaker 4: I can get myself together. But I ended up going
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: to college and I end up finding out I'm smart.
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  Speaker 4: So then it turned into now I'm obsessed with my
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  Speaker 4: grades and learning. I just was sitting in front of class,
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: and I just changed my identity. Your self image is
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: what you would tract. So my self image went from
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: being the victim to I'm in front of the class.
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  Speaker 4: I'm talking to all my teachers, going to the you know,
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: the after hours. If I get a B on my paper,
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: hey can I get an A? How can I redo
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: this to get my A? I graduated summa cum lade.
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  Speaker 4: So I just kept on pushing as much knowledge as
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: I can, putting myself going to different business events. And
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: I just changed my self image because I got tired
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  Speaker 4: of going through the pain and going through basically begging
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  Speaker 4: for love. I got tired of begging for crumbs of love,
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: and I began to give myself loaves of love.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, this is a very powerful story. Den tell, I
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: thank you for coming to the Mind Show.
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  Speaker 2: This interview is not over, but just looking at it's
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: a journey of earnesty and a journey of power self
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  Speaker 2: power because of the fact that.
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  Speaker 1: You can't turn your life around.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, but sometimes the Lord here, this is what I
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  Speaker 2: love about your personality. Okay, you're willing to pivot. Yes,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: and a lot of people aren't will willing to pivot?
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: You know, this is what you do. You know, a
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: transformational coach talking to you about audience, how can they
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: pivot and also how we want to give out that
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: number so they can call you again because you can
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: help them pivot if they're.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: I actually said this yesterday on Live. You have to
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: ask yourself are you Are you tired yet? Are you
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: tired yet? If the answer is yes, it's you've got it.
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: You gotta move because in order to get anywhere, it
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: has to start from an action. So no matter what
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: the experience is, it's all asking yourself. It's just bringing
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: value to my life again being inside of that, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Fire fight or freeze.
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  Speaker 4: Am I tired of always having to defend myself like
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: that song? All my life I had to fight, right
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  Speaker 4: like am I.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Tired of fighting.
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  Speaker 4: That's how you start and that's how you pivot out
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  Speaker 4: because it's all about the only person who can move
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: us is us. You are, and you are the only
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: person even if somebody was to come and say, hey,
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: here's a million dollars if you don't feel like a
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: million dollars is not going to last long because you're
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: you have to program yourself to exactly. So, if somebody
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: can tell you all day you're beautiful, hands on whatever,
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: if you don't feel it for yourself, it's not going
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: to land where it's supposed to.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: And you're not gonna pivot to take advantage of the
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: opportunities that are being presented to you. Exactly like you
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: said your examples of million dollars, Yes, million dollars and
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: you feel the wrong way, you just gonna spend it.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: And then million dollars is not going to have any
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: value ten years because you spent it like in a month.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: Exactly if you didn't think about investing, getting a financial planner.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: How do I want to actually make this lucrative instead
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: of getting it? Because again I'm from the hood, so
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: you get it. I'm about to go shopping. I'm gonna
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: go get me a new car. You know it sound good,
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: and of course you can have all those beautiful things
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: with your first mindset. You want to be strategic. It's
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: all strategy. It's monopoly. I consider life like the game Monopoly.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: When you play Monopoly, the goal is to get the
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: most off that board.
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  Speaker 3: So that's what we get to do.
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: We get to get the most out of our life
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: and when we leave, we get to leave behind a legacy.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Talking to our deity, Princy Business eleven Master consultant, we
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: just talked about cutting thrive, not coagulation law. That's first
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: time I ever heard that. I think I'm an educated person.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: But what does that mean? Coagulation law?
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: I made that, So coagulation is No, I didn't make
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: the word, but I made the law. Coagulation is basically
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: the bonding of blood. But the way I said, yeah,
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: with manifesting, manifesting is not just belief alone, just thought alone.
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  Speaker 4: Like I know, you know my car, for example, my
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: car is going to get me from here to be
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  Speaker 4: for forever. But if you don't put oil, if you
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: don't change the tires, change the brakes, if you don't
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: put gas, it's not going to get But so far,
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: so coagulation law is resources. It is Sustainment is actually
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: movement because it's more than just belief and thought alone.
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  Speaker 4: You have to add the resources and you have to
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: add the action as well.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Ideality again, this name I show Money Made Conversation Masterclass.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: How do you get people, your clients to map themselves
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  Speaker 2: to eventually mash the money.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: Yes, that's a beautiful question. So it starts with mastering themselves.
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  Speaker 4: I had a client. This is a beautiful and example
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: one of my clients. She also was dealing with toxic
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: parents as well, and just to be brief, she was
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: really tired of that. So she already had talents. She
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: already did modeling, singing, acting. I got her to really
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: look in and hone into that. When she did that,
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: she moved out of her parents' house. She would keep
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: going back and forth as I would do as a kid.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: She'm a bit older, but she would just go back
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: and forth, back and forth, and then until one day
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: when she met me, we made a plan.
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  Speaker 3: She left. When she left, she.
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: Had got a job, but her job is of course temporary.
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  Speaker 4: She's working doing her own talents, modeling, singing, singing.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Then from there she.
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Attracted her provider, her man, her partner, and from there
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: they're building. They're building together. Now they're coming together. He
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: does I'm not sure what he does, but I know
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: she's in the industry. So now her getting away from
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: her toxic pearance, her believing in herself and again having
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: that person there to remind her of her own power
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: that pivoted her and allowed her to bring forth more wealth,
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: to meet the right people in her life.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Who's gonna build with her?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Now just about show it's about money making conversations with
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: small business owners and entrepreneurs. How what device would we
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: give for entrepreneurs struggling to monetize their genius.
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  Speaker 4: The advice I would give is change the wording. Change
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: the wording, cause when we say I'm struggling again, our
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: reality is being commanded through the words that we speak,
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: so our brain listens to that. So if we say
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: I'm struggling, if you play around and say, oh, I'm fat,
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: your brain gonna keep saying, okay, well, let me show
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: you that you are. So if you feel like you're
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: struggling with your own genius, change that. And affirmations are
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: powerful because this is the neuroscience. When you speak positivity,
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: your brain hears that and accept that is true. So
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: I'm not you know, don't say I'm struggling and change
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  Speaker 4: the words for you, of course. But I'm empowered. I'm
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: very intelligent, I'm very smart. Speak life into yourself and
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: then dive into those aspects. If you feel like you
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: know I'm lacking in this area, now sit with that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: Instead of doing ten things a day, allow your schedule
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: to go down and do that one or two things.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: Doing less is not people think when you do a
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: little bit, you're not doing nothing.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: No, that's actually better.
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: If you can focus on one thing, you're going to
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: feel ten times better a year.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: I've heard that you say the statement live, what do
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: you reference?
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: Oh lives? I do a live streaming on TikTok.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: A little bit more detail about that.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: So if you find me on all platforms of dit
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: princ but on my TikTok, I do go live three
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: days a week where I'm able to talk to people
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: about reprogramming their mindset, giving them advice. People come through,
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: they get free coaching. That's the time I do free
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: coaching for thirty minutes a day Monday, Wednesday and Friday
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: three thirty East your standard time.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: As you close out and tell us one more time
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: about your book, Manda Tithes of Mind. That's colonized and
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: what readers can expect when they pick up this book.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: I know you're talking about your thirty jobs in here briefly.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, this book is going to shift you.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: It's not a long read at all. It's a very
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: easy read. I made it like that on purpose. It's
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: going to reprogram you. Was going to activate you. And
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: it's a portal. It's really a portal for you to
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: reprogram yourself. Know that your wealth lies within and for
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: you to create that wealth on an external.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: So where can I get it?
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Oh, it's available on Amazon. Yes, if you go to Amazon,
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: you can type in monetize a mind that's colonized. It
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: will pop right up.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: It is under my real name, Princess Hill, so you
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: will be able to see. But I'm the only monetize
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: a mind that's colinized too, So it's a black book
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: and it will.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Pop right up for you.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, first of all, you contacted me. I
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: fell out to be a guest document that wonderful.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: What an honest conversation journey. The fact that I always
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: tell people going to college change my life. And I
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: always tell people to go to college because it allows
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: you to find who you are, and I found myself
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: in college. It looks like you outside of room and board.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: You found yourself in college exactly.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: You absolutely wrapped just what for room and board, but
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: it shifted me.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: So congratulations in your life and congratulations on any future
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: success that you have. And thank you your deity for
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: coming on Money Making Conversations Class.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I'm so grateful.
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: This has been another edition of Money Making Conversations Masterclass
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: hosted by me Rashaan McDonald. Thank you to our guests
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: on the show today and thank you our listening audience.
• 30:41
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