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Tommy Is Cancer Free, Nia Long's Relationship, Junior's Pronouns, Groom Skid Story and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit look like the don
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  Speaker 1: good together to please, I don't join join me. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn hur you gotta turn to turn them out.
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  Speaker 1: Turn You haven't got to turn them out turning water.
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  Speaker 1: The water got me? Come come on your thing, Ah,
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  Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on, dieg me now, one and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Okay, I got something for you today.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a conversation this morning about my understanding
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  Speaker 1: of grace now that I've gotten older and I've come
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  Speaker 1: in to a better understanding of a lot of things
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know about when I was younger. This is
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  Speaker 1: just my interpretation of grace. Now once again, y'all listen
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  Speaker 1: to me. I ain't nobody's pastor, I ain't nobody's minister.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, I'm pretty sure you can go to
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  Speaker 1: church and get a far more extensive definition of one
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  Speaker 1: I'm giving you. I'm just talking to people. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Grace is this thing that that God provides for us
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  Speaker 1: and Grace's just things that you get that's really undeserving,
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  Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I look at my life as
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  Speaker 1: it is today. You know. Look, I work hard and
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  Speaker 1: I have faith in God that I do so things
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  Speaker 1: are going to happen in my life. But the way
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  Speaker 1: my life is now, I don't. I don't. I don't
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  Speaker 1: deserve all of this. I don't. I don't. I don't
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  Speaker 1: look at it that way. I have been the beneficiary
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  Speaker 1: of God's grace. I have aligned myself in a position
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  Speaker 1: to accept whatever grace God has for me, and it
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  Speaker 1: will be far abundant and exceedingly in anything you could
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  Speaker 1: think of. His grace supersedes anything you could possibly imagine.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the goals that I set and the aspirations
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  Speaker 1: that I shoot for, and the things that I have
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  Speaker 1: on my dream board. I have the faith that God
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  Speaker 1: will give it to me. But what He does with grace,
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  Speaker 1: he gives you far more than that. He gives you
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  Speaker 1: what He has for you, not what you can see.
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  Speaker 1: You can't see all he has for you. It's impossible.
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  Speaker 1: Who are you? How can you possibly imagine what he
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  Speaker 1: can imagine? How can you possibly think, how he can think?
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  Speaker 1: How can you possibly do what he can do. How
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  Speaker 1: can it be that isn't a single mind living or
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  Speaker 1: a collection of minds that could have thought of earth?
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  Speaker 1: What in your wildest imagination could have made you think
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  Speaker 1: of Earth? The stars, the heavens, the oceans, the galaxy,
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  Speaker 1: the constellations. What in your mind? What in any man's mind?
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  Speaker 1: We can point at it and analyze it, but we
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  Speaker 1: show it couldn't have thought of it. So come on now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about lining yourself up with God's grace, which
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  Speaker 1: he will give to you if you if you want
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  Speaker 1: some of it now. But now his thing about grace,
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  Speaker 1: it can't be bought. If it could, if it could
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  Speaker 1: be bought, I'm telling you I would pour all the
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  Speaker 1: money I have and dump it into grace, because, after
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  Speaker 1: discovering what it is, it's this goodness that God shines
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  Speaker 1: on you simply as a reward of some type for
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  Speaker 1: his love for you and for you attempting for you,
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  Speaker 1: attempting to do right, not because you get it right.
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  Speaker 1: Because if He judged us purely on how we are
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  Speaker 1: the right and wrong of it, we would all be doomed,
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  Speaker 1: all of us, every last one of us, would be doomed,
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  Speaker 1: because we all fall short. We all make mistakes, we
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  Speaker 1: all sin, we all get it wrong from time to time.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody's perfect. Man. Now I understand what my mother was
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  Speaker 1: saying about cleaning the house. All I want is a
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  Speaker 1: little more grace. All I need is a little more
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  Speaker 1: grace when the last time you ask God for some grace. No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not talking to you like I know everything. If
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  Speaker 1: you just benefit from His grace, which you already have,
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  Speaker 1: but if you're not aware of it, you don't know
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  Speaker 1: what's going on. Become aware of grace, Get aware of
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  Speaker 1: the fact that God does things for you simply because
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  Speaker 1: He loves you. He does things for you that you
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  Speaker 1: don't even deserve. Somehow, you just wonder how you just
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  Speaker 1: got over when you didn't even do the things to
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  Speaker 1: get over. Sometimes you don't even know how you got
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  Speaker 1: that job you got when you ain't even really do
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  Speaker 1: the things to get the job. How you end up
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  Speaker 1: where you are all the education you thought you went
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  Speaker 1: and got it, and how you end up where you
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  Speaker 1: are today in a much better position than your education
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  Speaker 1: could have ever gotten you. That's grace. How I get
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  Speaker 1: every place I am today. I didn't plan this, man.
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  Speaker 1: If I could have planned my life the way it is.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you know how to have have done it? When I
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  Speaker 1: was living in that car? If I knew how to
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  Speaker 1: do it, No, I benefited from his grace. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: a beneficiary of his grace, of his goodness and his mercy.
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  Speaker 1: God's goodness is better than your goodness. God's goodness is
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  Speaker 1: better than your mother's goodness. It's better than your wife's
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  Speaker 1: or your husband or your booze goodness. God's goodness is different.
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  Speaker 1: His goodness man covers some stuff you can't even imagine.
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  Speaker 1: So why are you trying to put your life together
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  Speaker 1: when the last time you asked him for just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of grace? When have you thought of your
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  Speaker 1: life in terms of the grace that it has already
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  Speaker 1: benefited from? Have you ever done that? Man? Just thought
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  Speaker 1: about you know? You hear songs like my soul looked
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  Speaker 1: back and wonder how I got over. That's grace. That's
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  Speaker 1: all I can call it. Now. Like I said, you
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  Speaker 1: can go at church or somewhere ever you want to,
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  Speaker 1: and ministers that the wind at school to teach this
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  Speaker 1: thing way better than me. I'm just giving you from
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  Speaker 1: a layman standpoint. Man, have you thought about his grace.
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  Speaker 1: Would you not bewailed to be a beneficiary of his grace?
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  Speaker 1: Would it not? Now? Check this out. The better you
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  Speaker 1: try to do, the more grace he'll give to you.
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  Speaker 1: And that grace can't be bought. Like I said, it's free.
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  Speaker 1: You can't purchase grace. But the better you try to
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  Speaker 1: become the more the more grace he gets to put
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  Speaker 1: your way. So man, just try, Why don't you just
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  Speaker 1: try to do better? Look, man, quick tip, mind, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna start next week. I'm gonna start at the new year. Now,
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  Speaker 1: you nawn't do that every year, you know, the ambras
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  Speaker 1: at the new year. I'm eat better at the new year.
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  Speaker 1: I'm na I'm gonna gonna get in here and the
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  Speaker 1: new year. If you're gonna do it, you're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: it now. Man, you're gonna do not stop trying to
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  Speaker 1: do something, do it, stop talking about it, do it now.
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  Speaker 1: The best way to benefit from his grace is starting
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  Speaker 1: action now in old w now, right now today. What
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  Speaker 1: you're waiting on. All you're doing is delaying his opportunity
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  Speaker 1: to bless you. You know, man, you know, do you
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  Speaker 1: know how many times we do that? We delay his
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to bless us by not starting now. If you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna get healthy, why don't you start now? Now? You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna trip a little bit called the holidays coming. But
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got to eat bad all the time. You
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  Speaker 1: could start eating correct today, you could. You could, and
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  Speaker 1: then guess what that could be? Some grace on the
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  Speaker 1: end of that. I'm just giving you a little cheap analogy.
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  Speaker 1: But do you feel what I'm saying to you? Start
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  Speaker 1: thinking in terms of grace, what He has done for
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  Speaker 1: you and provided for you that you ain't even see coming.
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  Speaker 1: That you know, you keep calling them blessings and I
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  Speaker 1: got that a lot of it, and us all it is.
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  Speaker 1: But man, have you thought about the stuff that didn't
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  Speaker 1: happen to you? You can't account for I. For me,
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  Speaker 1: that's been grace and I'm beneficiary of it. And that's
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  Speaker 1: available to everybody that wants sun. Next time you're talking
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  Speaker 1: to him, just check in with grace. See what that is.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's better than money. You're listening, Ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry, Colin Pharrell, Mississippi, Monica, the Mouth
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  Speaker 1: of the South, Junior Boy, Ladies and gentlemen, drum roll,
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  Speaker 1: please back from out the dawn, out of nowhere, missing
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  Speaker 1: in action if I ate wounded Warrior Foundation, all of
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  Speaker 1: that gang of freak, Lady Jenner ready for a little
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  Speaker 1: where as his ass been Lada Gimmer Now the few
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  Speaker 1: pomp top top top top top tip, Yeah, top, Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, yeah, top man. How y'all doing good? How
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  Speaker 1: are you good? Yeah? Where have you been? All of that?
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  Speaker 1: We have questions? We have questions. Boy, I got a battle.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't know nothing. Yeah. Then I
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  Speaker 1: got bought along into it they as usual. Then I
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  Speaker 1: got drug into it. Then when I found out I damn.
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  Speaker 1: Then I had to retract several statements I had made
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  Speaker 1: about your answer, always talking about that whoa I was
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  Speaker 1: relationing you up like sneakers. I seed you can't say that, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I can't. What happened? I got called from some family members, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: why is you talking about Tommy like that? When my
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  Speaker 1: response was don't I always yeah? Then they response where
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  Speaker 1: you ain't heard heard what? And they didn't come talking
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  Speaker 1: about then this one. I knew it wasn't gonna be good.
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  Speaker 1: Oh lord, when you know, you know, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: mean when you're talking to old people, you hear that.
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  Speaker 1: I said, you ain't hurt and I hurt none. Oh
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  Speaker 1: look all right, I guess I'm gonna have somebody call
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  Speaker 1: you what you you're talking to me right now? It
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  Speaker 1: ain't my place and I went to hell and now
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting up in hill. I call him his ass
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  Speaker 1: ain't as I'm sorry, what the hell you mean today?
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  Speaker 1: It was your place? That tam Why is she talking
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  Speaker 1: about the lady? Gentlemen, we come back, Yes, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy Pool explanation. Yes, sir, gall you mominel around
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  Speaker 1: the radio. It's about to go down Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Show right after this. Nephew, Tommy, you're listening show, all right?
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  Speaker 1: We are back. Um, if you're just joining us. Nephew,
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  Speaker 1: Tommy is back and we're gonna find out where he's been.
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  Speaker 1: We're so happy that you're back, Tommy. We didn't know
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  Speaker 1: to say this. Hill Oh. I found out two days
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  Speaker 1: after what had happened. And Tommy's been out, Now how long, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: he'd been out a month and we've had a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people. Where's Tommy? Yeah, what he'd have did? Now? Well?
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  Speaker 1: I know, yes, ladies and gentlemen, nephew tim man, how
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  Speaker 1: do I even start? Um? Thanking God? That's first and foremost.
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  Speaker 1: M come all right, so uh let me see if
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  Speaker 1: I can paint the picture for you. Everybody knows I'm
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  Speaker 1: a I'm a guy that likes to work out all
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  Speaker 1: the time, try to keep myself in shape. So my
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  Speaker 1: trainer actually got me a stretcher who stretches you once
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  Speaker 1: a week. So this guy was stretching me and found
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  Speaker 1: a lump on my neck and he had to push
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  Speaker 1: a way down. He's been you got a lump on
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  Speaker 1: your neck. You might want to get get that checked out.
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  Speaker 1: I said, all right, cool, so I go get it
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  Speaker 1: checked out, go to my primary doctor. And he says,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but let's be safe. He sends me
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  Speaker 1: to a your nose and throat doctor. Your nose and
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  Speaker 1: throat doctor drains and then says, I think that's assist.
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  Speaker 1: So he drains. He said, but let's be safe, and
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  Speaker 1: he sends me to another doctor. They get a biopsy.
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  Speaker 1: He said, we're gonna take some sales and see what
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  Speaker 1: we get there. I don't get a call back. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm in Miami shooting, ready to love. It's May eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: My wife is there with me. We're having a good time.
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  Speaker 1: Doctor calls and said, you have thyroid cancer. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: just on the set. Man. I can't believe. If my
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  Speaker 1: wife wouldn't have been with me that day, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I would have made it through. So I have
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  Speaker 1: been diagnosed with thyroid cancer. You got my surgery done
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  Speaker 1: in August to twenty fourth. They completely got it, every
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  Speaker 1: bit of this cancer out of me. While they were
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  Speaker 1: in there removing my thought roy, they found more cancer
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  Speaker 1: in my esophagus and cleaned all that out. So I
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  Speaker 1: told my wife. When I closed my eyes, I say,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to wake up, but I just want
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  Speaker 1: to see you looking at me. That's all I want.
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  Speaker 1: I woke up. Wife is looking dead at me. He said,
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  Speaker 1: you're good boy. You made it through every little bit
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  Speaker 1: of it. It's gone all up. It your cancer free.
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  Speaker 1: You don't even know chemo therapy, noney, that you're good.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't know that they had to go through
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  Speaker 1: my esophagus, she said. But then she say, but I say,
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  Speaker 1: what is the butt? She said, you have a track
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  Speaker 1: in your in your in your throat and it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to be there for a minute. So I had
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  Speaker 1: to have that for about three weeks. And I am
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  Speaker 1: at this point cancer free. I am. You know, my
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  Speaker 1: voice has been through a struggle, so now it's slowly
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  Speaker 1: coming back. But by the grace of God, man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: still Yeah, I'm blessed. Um. I think this is probably
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  Speaker 1: one of them. This is the biggest task I've ever
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  Speaker 1: had in my life ever. And I'm grateful for for
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  Speaker 1: you guys, a radio family, praying for me, just being
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  Speaker 1: able to have a job like this that allowed me
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  Speaker 1: to go do something like that, and and you got
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  Speaker 1: my back, man, So I'm I'm grateful. Um. It's amazing
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  Speaker 1: when God puts you in time out and tell you
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  Speaker 1: you gotta wait for a minute and put you on
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  Speaker 1: mute and I've been on mute for about a month
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  Speaker 1: and I'm slowly coming back. So um, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: any other way to tell you, man, just to hear
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  Speaker 1: Steve said all the time that God is into blessed business.
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  Speaker 1: And kay, yes, sir, yes, okay, it's okay. We're so
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  Speaker 1: glad you're here. Yeah, wow, okay, Well we're voice is
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  Speaker 1: getting strong each day. So it's just it's just a
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  Speaker 1: matter of time that folks yea bo i get back
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  Speaker 1: to cussing and clowning and pranking folks. You But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he may not have been able to talk to us,
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  Speaker 1: but you were texting, and I have noticed that you
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  Speaker 1: haven't cussed since you've been back in me a little
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  Speaker 1: bit out. Know, you probably don't want to waste none
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  Speaker 1: of your voice on some ignorant words. But looking forward
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  Speaker 1: to the day where you full blasting back to cussing,
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  Speaker 1: that's crazy, man, because like you know, man, you don't
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  Speaker 1: you don't ever know what's going on with people around you,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You know, you could be
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  Speaker 1: just going alone, whistling along, and then this thing called
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  Speaker 1: life come up, man, and it's just like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: glad you're back, man, because like it ain't the same
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  Speaker 1: when you ain't here. You know, Oh then you wasn't
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  Speaker 1: here then, Junior, mister week because Junior went offer, Oh
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  Speaker 1: you just you just you just lead just people just
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  Speaker 1: come up missing. You just be leading people missing. Well
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  Speaker 1: you know, you know, I mean we can come up missing.
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  Speaker 1: I see, I based it on track record, so I
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  Speaker 1: already knew wasn't nothing wrong. But then something really was
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  Speaker 1: wrong because I went, I ain't I ain't gonna be
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  Speaker 1: morning and all this ain't then wrong, And then I
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  Speaker 1: found out something really was wrong, and then why you
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  Speaker 1: was gonna Junior went away four a week, didn't tell
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  Speaker 1: nobody nothing, just going for a week. Then his last
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  Speaker 1: came back time and he married. Now, oh snap, this
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  Speaker 1: little food went off. He went off and got married.
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  Speaker 1: So now all of all the comedians, it's gone. Time.
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  Speaker 1: I was here by myself. I just had to just man.
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  Speaker 1: I was just doing what I wanted to do. You know,
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  Speaker 1: Junior ass man wasn't doing sports or nothing. You know,
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  Speaker 1: he needed marital advice. So now all of his Junior,
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  Speaker 1: what's on your mind? Yeah, we are every morning. It's
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  Speaker 1: been that so to have you back, man's a joy.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about it a little bit more this morning,
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  Speaker 1: because your story can be inspirational and help a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people. And I think it's a story that need
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  Speaker 1: peting and told because God is in the blessing business. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, man, a lot of people get that
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  Speaker 1: diagnosis and you and you know, and and they ain't
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  Speaker 1: here no more. M right, Hello, that's how good God?
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  Speaker 1: Ya Amen again? All right, Yes, Tommy is back. Uh
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  Speaker 1: and we'll be back with the clo It's Tommy calls
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  Speaker 1: him the cloth, the Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey right
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  Speaker 1: after this You're listening show coming up at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour, and entertainment news Matt Barnes retracts his
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  Speaker 1: support for Emia DUCA in his big cheating scandal and
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  Speaker 1: suspension as Celtics coach. Also Duca's Beyonce Nia Long broke
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  Speaker 1: her silence. We'll talk about that in academics called hip
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: hop legends Dusty U and LLL claps back, Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: the legend is not Dusty. So he had yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he had to make sure there was clar We'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about it. We will coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour, but right now it is time for you Steve.
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  Speaker 1: People want to ask you questions. Cell Oh, here we go,
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  Speaker 1: Cheyenne and Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday, I invited
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  Speaker 1: my cousin to come to visit. She brought her boyfriend,
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  Speaker 1: and she had just met him a week before she came.
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  Speaker 1: So I told her that he couldn't stay in my house.
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  Speaker 1: She got mad and drove back home. What was I
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: wrong for this? No? No, really, not absolutely not. It's
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: your house. She don't even know him. You don't know him,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: and she just told myhre he staying at you? She's
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: staying at your house. That's not how it works. Man.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: People don't even understand order, and and and and and
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: just being civil towards one another. You bring a stranger
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: to your cousin's house, telling where he's staying here with me?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I just met him last week. Nobody waking up, standing,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: nobody over their bed with no action. They had come
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: on high. You know y'all ain't going out of here
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: no more? No, now, come on, put your dirk taple
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: on your arms, mouth shut up crying now you know
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: you don't know me. No nobody fit to do that. No,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: that's craziness, really, all right, um Sammy and Tribecca says,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old married man and I
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: have to share my wife with her male best friend,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: as I am with their friendship. And I had plans
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: to see a movie and she'd already seen it on
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: boundaries without offending them? Okay, excuse me? A married man,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: married man, his wife has a best friend who's also
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: married to a man. It's a gay couple. Okay, I
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: don't give it. Damn. Yeah, the husband is irritated because
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: the wife spends more time with the bestie with their
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: best friend. I don't give a damn if he married
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: to several men. That ain't none of my bits. You
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: can do what you want, right, But do you spending
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: so much time with him over husband? Yeah? You know,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Many'll find something else to do. He got a husband,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Go to movie with him. You got a husband, go
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: to movie with your husband. Don't make no sense, man,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: I keep man? Okay, Yeah, male and female, These opposite
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: sex friendships lead to problems. That's your bestie, man, get
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: another bestie? What girls at So the question is he
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: wants to know Steve, how does he set boundaries? He's
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: worried about offending them. How do I set boundaries? Yeah,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I don't give a damn. I know who offends. I'm offended. No, no, no, no,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what we're gonna do, all us. There
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: you go. I'm gonna treat that off that offensive thing
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: gonna fit to be like peanut butter. Don't finn to
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: get a sm on everybody breath, spread it around. You know,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: When I make my peanut butter sandwich, I put the
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: peanut butter all the way to the edge. You can't
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: see no bread on my I spreads my peanut butter. Now,
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I don't get the jelly all the way to the
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: edge because I don't want it leaking out. But they
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: put a thick Yeah, I'm spreading this officially. He don't
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: want to fear nobody, man, please fear Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana, Joanne writes,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: my husband was ill for three years before he died.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Before he died, I started dating someone else. My marriage
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: had been over for years, but I stayed with my
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved in two
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks I'm dead? Wrong,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Do I owe her an explanation? Well, I'm gonna tell
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: you right now. It ain't a good look, right two weeks.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you right now now. I know the
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: man was probably six six incapacitated or something, and you
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: should have gave it a little more time cause of
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the way it looked. But who we after he moved in? Yeah, damn?
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: What was all the neighbors saying? They ain't even lowered
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the casket in the ground. Again, they don't even put
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: all the dirt on it. It's still got that green
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: astro turf rounded and all the night after the Oh
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: my god, here's the key word. He isn't even cold yet.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: That's where people wrong that though, Oh he ice cold,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: y'all quit saying that on the body ain't even cold? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: a matter of fact, when you die, you called that
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: first morning goodness many up by your finger and she
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: oh the mom and explanation whose mother? His mother? His mother?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Does she owe her an explanation? Yeah? His mama tripping
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: like what two after my son? She already know this
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: was going on. While he was sick. But nobody understands
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: that about life. So you just gotta tell a mom. Look,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: you might, you might, but no matter what you say,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: how you think it's gonna go with his mother? She'd
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: lost her son? Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's gonna hate you forever.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Why don't you move in with him? There you go.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: He ain't got nothing now he all up in her son.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: How girl used to be involved in the drive Oh god, yeah.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Then when they started frying shots up in the house.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: If I was him, I moved back to my house.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I have to let some time cool. That ain't gone. Yeah,
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: every time they pull out the driveway and go to
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: church or shopping's goater forever? All right? Moving on last one.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Cammie in Toronto says, I'm a beginning swimmer and my
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: boyfriend is a professional diver. I learned to swim, but
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I hate being in water. We're going on vacation. He's
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: planning water activities for us. He's forcing me to face
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: my fears. Should I make my own plans? Yeah, well
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: you're gonna die on this vacation? Yeah yeah, yeah, he'd
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: he have to say, your ass all eat day and
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: water sports? What is he doing that, But I love
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: going on the water, huh. In a the water trips
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: out and took out a jet ski three times. Last
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: time I just went circle. The boat came right on. Yes,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: we saw it on your Yeah, all right, thanks Philo.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: We gotta wrap this up. Coming up at the top
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: of the hour. We'll have some entertainment news for you
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Buston.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Celtics coach Emia Duca has been suspended for the twenty
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: twenty two twenty three season for violating team policy, which
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: reportedly was due to an inappropriate and consensual relationship with
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a female member of the Celtics staff. Late last week,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: xix X NBA star player and commentator Matt Barnes posted
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: a video of himself talking about Uduca's suspension, and he
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: said it was a terrible decision for him to be suspended.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: He has since posted another video retracting his support for Duca,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: and he explains why take a listen and I clearly
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: have to stay last night without knowing all this facts,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I spoke on email Eudoka's defense and after finding out
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: the facts. After I spoke, I raced what I posted
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: because this situation in Boston is deep, it's messy, it's
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: a hundred times uglier than any of us thought. And
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: that's why I raced what I said. Uh, some thing's
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: happened that I can't condone. I can't back and it's
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: not my place to tell you what happened. If it
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: ends up coming out, it ends up coming out. But
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: that was the reason why I raced my post last night,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: because after I posted it, I got a call from
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: someone who had all the details and it's deep. So man,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: praying for everybody involved. Um, you know, hope everyone gets
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: through this. If he retract it's mate. It's the same
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: version role from Frisco. Same y'all. See, I was asking
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: a problem where his level of forgiveness then went off. Yeah,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: now I can't forgive. I'm been gonna win with man
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: because your whole marriage played out in the NBA. The
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: whole thing of it is, Man, It's just it's sad
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: because of the Internet now that all these problems have
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: to get added out. All dirty laundry is now aired
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: out publicly, and it don't give you a chance to
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: rest nothing. And that's the sad part of all of this.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: But what, however ugly and whatever information you found out,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: can I tell you something it ain't nothing new? Yeah, okay,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: this because let me whatever it is. There are no
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: allegations right now of any an appropriate sexual advances, you know,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: and so you know, I don't really know all the facts.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: I'm just I just watch how people are so ready
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: to jump on the beating him up bandwagon and let's
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: cancel him and get him to lose his job because
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: he did something a whole lot of humans. Dude, Hey, Steve,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: let me ask you this and the guys, Junior, Tommy,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: what is he? A great coach? Is a good coach?
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. Yeah, I know the
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: one too. Yeah. I remember Nia being just being there
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: cheering him on all of that. He's just not a
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: good cheater. He just didn't know what he was. That's
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: what we missed. Yeah, yeah, that effer perspective to what
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: you do. I give you another example. Okay, Sean Watson
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: can get all the massages you won't. He just got
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: to stop turning over all his trouble star, stay on
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: your stomach. Damn. Massarick heard it over to Sean. A
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: lot of coach team. To answer your question, surely is
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: a great coach he got he got he got a
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: very young team to the NBA Final and they love him. Yeah, okay,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: call it because he's out. What my question is, have
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: you been hearing like I saw Stephen A. Smith talk
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: about this on ESPN, the fact that he because he
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: is African American, We know that there are things that
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: go on the NBA, NFL, all types of leagues, behavior
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: of coaches, of players. But the fact that we know
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: about this, did the Celtics organization leak this out? And
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: now this man is being dragging like you want to
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: public opinion? This is a that I have about it.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think that the Celtics basketball organization would want
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: this hour. I think because of the Me Too movement
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: and women's rights now. I think when that affair got
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: out in the office and people found out, I think
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: that was an uproar within the organization involving people who
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: had nothing to do with the affair accusing him because
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: he was in the head coach position and this girl
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: was in a subservient position that he should not have
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: done that. Now he was wrong, but legally, what did
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: he do and when you get people coming out because
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: they don't. You can't do that to her. And all
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: is here and the woman ain't said nothing, is it?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Is it just one lady? There's so many different rumors
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: about who it is. Yeah, for the Celtics organ right,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: I just I smell a white woman, carl. I just
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just feel like, wait a
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: minute and lost time. We gotta say this though, And
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: the fact that it was on our girl. He cheated
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: on our girl Nia Long. Now we loved me a
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: long queen, if we loved Ni Along. We're mad for her.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: We're mad with her, We stand with her, We love
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: us some Nia Long. Yeah, and she's serious. Yeah, for
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: their support and everything. Yeah, they share together, they share
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: a son together. All of that all right, coming up
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have some music
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: news with our girl Carla. Right after this. You're listening
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: to show, all right, So we've been talking about this
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: whole Boston Celtics coach Emi a Duca and his cheating
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: on Nia Long and all of that, and you know
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: the circumstances. We don't know much about it, but we
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: do know that we love us TONI along. We do
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: know that Nia Long and Emi Aduka have been engaged
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: since twenty fifteen. She broke her silence about the alleged
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: affair in an interview with People magazine, saying, quote the
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: outpouring of love and support from family, friends, and a
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: community during this difficult time it means so much to me.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I asked that my privacy be respected as I process
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: the recent events. Above all, I am a mother and
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: will continue to focus on my children. The couple share
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: a son together, and Nia has an older son from
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: a previous relationship. Source as close to the Celtics told
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: TMZ Sports that Nia had just permanently moved to Boston
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: two weeks ago and that she and Uduka were house hunting. Right,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: So this is just a mess. It just really is.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, go ahead, I was just saying. Then there's
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: a rumor on TMZ saying the woman that helped coordinate
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: that travel is it's part of this scandal. She could
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: be the woman. So it makes it even more like
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: what kind of too Yeah, yeah, so we don't know
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: what that's true, like that where you know where everybody
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: at dirty, but you know what though, See it's like
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: this first of all, this shouldn't even be a news story.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: That have been no criminal charges pressed. There have been
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: no criminal accusations. So now what we are just been
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: privy to is we off into some We are privy
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: to some people's personal lives, right that have been stories
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: of infidelity everywhere, yea, and people work through it and
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: keep their life back in check. You know, I don't
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: know this man at all, except I'm a fan of
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: his is on the basketball court and I saw Nia
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: at the game, and I've always been a fan of Nils,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: and so you know, I was just like wow, pulling
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: for him. And then the question became, they've been engaged
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: since twenty fifteen, why they not married yet? Because things
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: are not in order anymore. People don't live their lives
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: in no order no more. Should you get married become subjective?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: It's not there's no order to this anymore. So I
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: wish they could get a chance to work it out,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: because it don't have to be relationships. And then some
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: people say it is that our women go. If you
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: cheat on me, I'm out. But did they find a house?
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: At least they have somewhere to stay out? Nobody want
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: to saying Boston right now, Tommy. Tommy's back somewhere. I mean,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go through something that through some in a
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: nice house. This was halle Berry. Tommy, be right there
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: with me. Uh, we're gonna go talk to Jesus and
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: we'll be back in a minute. Right after this, you're
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: listening show all right? It is fall now and sister
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Hoteil drop by, um wait here, you know, come morning everyone.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take up a lot of time doing
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: the praise and worship service. I just want to do them.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: I'm when I come on the radio, I had to
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: be more business. I've been told, you know, just get
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: to the what you call it? Said missus, Hey Colline
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Shelley or miss Simmy Junior. Man, Hey boy you back, Yes, ma'am.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: I heard you was not doing well. Look at God.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: Yes he's killed your body. You came some free. Yes man,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: you're saying, oh, that ain't nothing but the Lord. That's
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: all it is. Because you know eight of my husband's
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: just passed from cansel. Oh okay, I didn't all of
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: them didn't. They had it. They didn't all die from it?
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: To them, was any cocks and dies? I choked one
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: of them. This is where Wait, Well, I choked and
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: wilyhead counsel. Then I just go a pay minute. When
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: they came to the house, he passed, can we get
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: to wire here? I don't know what it is. We're
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: her phone. Well, we wanted to ask you a question,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: you know, the saying, um, uh no white before Memorial Day,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: no white after Labor Day. So think things how you're
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: a mother of the church and you wear white all
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, does this put you in a dilemma?
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Will you never have never? White? White? White? White white?
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: I'm a missionary and that's the color. I'm a missionary.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing to that girl, Lisa Ray What
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: is you over here? Phone? Lisa rayin in no church. No,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: we don't know that. I care you where. Whether she
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: do come, she gonna be seating people. Be an usher.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: That's if you wear it on the first because that's
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: how colors on the first Because you know, I'm on
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the missionary board and the Usher boat and first Sunday
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: we wear white. Everybody called it a white out, all right.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to be clear on that. The other
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: thing is, do you have any advice for uh Nia long?
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: You know, um, where you know, I feel sorry for
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: she's such a pretty girl and young and everything. But
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: you know you can work through a husband that has
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: a moment's empathy. You know, huh, That's what I've seen
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: for there, just a lot of making. What do you mean? Well,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: you know, if you just let people's work through it
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: they self, they can work on you. I asked several
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: husbands that was that had done some things outside of
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: our relationship. Oh, how hand when I kicked the girl
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: ass own to make you feel better at least if
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: its need of gone a man kiss, I asked, you
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: feel a whole lot that about it then, and then
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: created him. I'm gonna kick my ass and go over
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: that again. See what happened to you? I need all
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: that money brought in here for me, your kids, And
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: now you shut up. He ain't liowed to talk at
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: the house for two years and then you know, you
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: go where you want to go. You know, when you guys,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you can get some things you had never got before.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: They still love each other. He got made them stay.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: He's a main You know he made a mistake. But
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: you in this fast world now, you know, women's cheat.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Everybody mad at him. That gun ain't louse hut nothing.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: We know she probably still buy tickets and placing people.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: M Unca dobbo. He ain't got the he woa dobbock
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: adua unca dobbo the domain the coach. Yeah, Indian duke.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Uh huh emy a duker. That's his name. Oh I knew,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Oh I that email dude, I knew his grandfather. Did
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: you big dadda do that down? Then that's a big dadda.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Do that down. Then his daddy's name will look here,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: and then they named his son. Right now that he
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: goes out, all right, we'll have more of Hardy Morning
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Show coming out. Hi, and just a minute right after
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: this you're listening to Morning Show if you're just joining us. Nephew,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Tommy is back and we're going to find out where
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: he's been. We're so happy that you're back, Tommy. We
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: didn't just say this hill. Oh. I found out two
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: days after what had happened. And Tommy's been out, now
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: how long, ladies? Maybe he'd been out a month and
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: and we ain't had a lot of people where Tommy what? Yeah,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: what he'd have did? Now? Will I know? Yes, ladies
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Nephew Tommy man, how do I even start? Um?
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Thank god, that's first of almost m all right, so
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: let me see if I can paint the picture for you.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows I'm a I'm a guy that likes to
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: work out all the time, try to keep myself in shape.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: So my trainer actually got me a stretcher who stretches
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: you once a week. So this guy was stretching me
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: and found a lump on my neck and he had
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: to push way out. He send, you got a lump
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: on your neck. You might want to get that checked out.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I said, all right, cool, So I go get it
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: checked out. Go to my primary doctor, and he says,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but let's be safe. She sends me
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: to a your nose and throat doctor. Your nose and
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: throat doctor drains and then says, I think that's a cist.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: So he trains. He said, but let's be safe, and
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: he sends me to another doctor. They get a biopsy.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: He said, we're gonna take some sales and see what
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: we get there. I don't get a call back. So
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I'm in Miami shooting, ready to love. It's May eighteen.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: My wife is there with me. We're having a good time.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Doctor calls and says, you have thyroid cancer. And I'm
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: just on the set. Man. I can't believe. If my
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: wife wouldn't have been with me that day, I don't
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: think I would have made it through. So I have
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: been diagnosed with thyroid cancer, got my surgery done in
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: August to twenty four. They completely got it, every bit
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: of this cancer out of me. While they were in
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: there removing my thyroid, they found more cancer in my
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: esophagus and cleaned all that out. So I told my
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: wife when I closed my eyes, I say, I just
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: want to wake up, and I just want to see
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: you looking at me. That's all I want. I woke up.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Wife is looking dead at me. You say, you're good boy.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: You made it through every little bit of it. It's
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: gone all up. It your cancer free. You don't even
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: know chemotherapy, none of that. You good. But I don't
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: know that they had to go through my esophagus, she said.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: But then she say, but say what is the butt?
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: He said, you have a track in your in your
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: in your throat and it's gonna have to be there
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: for a minute. So I had to have that for
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: about three weeks and I am at this point cancer free.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I am. You know, my voice has been through a struggle,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: so now it's slowly coming back. But by the grace
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: of God, man, I'm still here. I'm blessed. Um. I
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: think this is probably one of them. This is the
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: biggest task I've ever had in my life ever. And
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: I'm grateful for for you guys, a radio family, praying
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: for me, just being able to have a job like
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: this that allowed me to go do something like that,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: and and you got my back, man, So I'm I'm grateful.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: It's amazing when God puts you in time out and
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: tell you you gotta wait for a minute and put
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: you on mute. And I've been on mute for about
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: a month and I'm slowly coming back. So um, I
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: don't know any other way to tell you, man, Just
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: to hear Steve said all the time that God is
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: in the blessed business. And okay, yes, sir, yes, okay,
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: it's okay. We're so glad you're back. Well, hey man, listen, bro,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: we show glad you're back and everything, man. And I
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: think it's I think you opening up and sharing your
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: story with so many people. First of all, it's a
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: great testimony. You know. Yeah, like I was saying to
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: you before, Man, a lot of times God passes us
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: through these tests for the testimony, and you got a
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: mic man. And there are a lot of people as
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: getting this diagnosis, and it's a lot of people gonna
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: get this diagnosis. And everybody don't have to think it's
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: the end because millions of people survived this. So what
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, man, what's been your
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: attitude about getting better? And what's been your attitude through
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: the whole processes when you heard it? What was your attitude?
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I just I just weren't gonna give up. I just,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I just, I just refused to give up. I just
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: had to desire to to beat it, to do whatever
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: I gotta do. I mean, especially when you got you know,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: I got a beautiful family, man, wife, kids, I got
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: a lot to live for it. I love my job.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: I love doing what I do for a living. So
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I'm my whole mindset is I will I will not
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: let you defeat me. It wouldn't. I will not let
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: it happen. So I just kept fighting every man, every
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: morning I wake up. I'm just I was in fighting
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: mode the whole time, and I'm still waking up every morning.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you, did the doctors say anything to
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: you or like this is the mindset you have to
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: have or did you just decide that yourself. Did you
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: get anything from them along the mental requirements? You can?
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: You can, you can. You can talk to people from
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: a mental perspective if you need to. But but you know, man,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: I have my wife there, I have my mother there.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: I had some soldiers with me. I like, you never
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: know how big your village is until something happens to you.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: And I was able to see how big my village was,
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: how many people really had my back and I and
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: I just you know, I just I just felt my
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: father coming up out of me, like I'm not I'm
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: not giving up. I got too much to live for.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: What you're saying is true. You don't know how big
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: your village is to your hut on fire exactly. You
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: find out who in the village. Until your hut on fire,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: you have no idea who in the village even care,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: who coming with water, who pulling you out, who coming
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: in to get you. That's an amazing statement. You know what, man,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I say this to you, Steve, It's not until something
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: happens that you start to respect the gift that God
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: has given you. You know what I'm saying, just just
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: the gift. I mean, these, these two vocal cords I
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: got mean the world to me. And this this just
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: just that gift alone. Man. I think I think back
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: in the past, how much how many times I've taken
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: that gift for granted? How many times I just expected
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: it to be that? Hey, time to doing the whole time?
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: How long were you silent? Though? Man? I was silent?
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Probably a good three weeks to a month. Just don't
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: straight silent? Wow, and and and and you know, man,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: to have to write down everything on the board and
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: tell everybody what you want, what you're trying to do,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: it's it's, uh, that's a whole different world, man, Oh
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: different world. Let me let's go back for a moment. Tommy.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: I want to ask you something. How did you You
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: didn't have any pain initially or anything? You knew nothing?
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I had nothing. All I did was I was just
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: trying to y'all know me. I'm always trying to lose
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: weight before it's time to shoot the TV show. So
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I had got stretching me. He just felt something way
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: down in my neck while you straight. I mean you
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: got a little lump there, yea, I said, okay, you
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: said that. He said it might not be much, but
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: you know, go get it checked out. I got it
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: checked out. So one doctor started it from sending me
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: this place, this place, that place. Finally they did a
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: biopsy and when they called me, they said, hey, you
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: you have thyroid cancer. And I was just I was devastated.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: But yeah, immediately I got in picked me up mode.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: All right, let's let's not let's let's let's get into
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: the fight mode. But I wouldn't say this, no pity party. Man.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: I'm coming back. My voice is getting better each day.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: If you hear I'm coming to your city, you better
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: get them tickets because I got a story to tell. Yeah,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: yoke for a man. All right, nephew, glad you're back.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: Look at God. Thank you Lord. Coming up at about
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, it's my Strawberry letter for today.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: The subject is my wife's co worker's feet. Right after this,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: you're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. It is
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting or more. Please
• 53:40
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• 53:43
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• 53:46
  Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live like we're gonna do
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: it could be yours, nephews back, oh, buckle up and
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here it
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: is strawberry Annie sounds sexy. You hear all that. You
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: hear that right? I know, right like you don't want
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: to hear that subject My thank you, nephew, welcome back again.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: My wife's co worker's feet is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I'm a fifty five year old married man and my
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: wife and I work in the same building, but for
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: different companies. I'm able to dress down for work, but
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: my wife has to always dress up and be jazzy
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: because she interacts with the public. Her office is full
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: of dime pieces in their early thirties, and everything on
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: these women is right where it needs to be, if
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Me and my coworkers love
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: to sit in the courtyard watching the women come and go.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: I started following one of the ladies on I g
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: because She is a most beautiful woman I've ever seen,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: and on top of that, she smiles and makes eye
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: contact with me whenever I see her. What I love
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: most about her is her pretty feet. They're the sexiest
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: part of her, and they had their own Instagram page.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: I secretly looked at her ig footpage for months until
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: my wife saw me and took my phone. She kept
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: my phone for two days and I was a nervous
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: wreck when I got it back. I made a fake
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: IG page so I can see pictures of my wife's
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: co workers pretty feet without my wife knowing it. I
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: thought I had outsmart at her this time, but she
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: caught me again. She went into my settings and found
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: the fake ig account attached to my real account, and
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: I was busted again. She saw all of the mojis
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: and the comments that I left under her co worker's pictures,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: and she started crying. She didn't react how I thought
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: she would at all. She told me that my actions
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: made her feel unpretty and undervalued. That broke my heart,
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: and I cried too. How can I hurt my soul
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: mate like this? I saw this harmless entertainment, but now
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: she's so hurt and broken because of me, how do
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: I restore my wife's confidence in herself and in me. Okay,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: let me get this straight. You're about to ruin your marriage,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: and all this is over some feet. You've got to
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: be kidding me. I mean, I know people have all
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: kinds of fetishes, and food fetishes are big, and people
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: are really into feet. But to do what you did
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: this was just so stupid. I mean, yeah, you say
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: you like her feet, but admitted you like her too,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: and you went too far. I mean you're stalking her
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: on Instagram and commenting and putting little emojis on her page.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: This woman, your colleague works. Your wife's colleague works in
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: the same building and place as your wife, and this
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: is right under your wife's nose. It's disrespectful. And now
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: your wife's hurt and feels undervalued and unpretty, like she said,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: and she doesn't try stew and rightfully so so this
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: was not harmless entertainment as you call it. And now
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: your wife is blaming herself, which a lot of women
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: do when their men do things like this. And it's
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: not the wives, it's just that their husbands, you know,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: get stupid. I mean, you created a problem in your
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: marriage where there was none. So now it's your job
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: you ask how you can fix this. Now it's your
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: job to do everything you can to reassure your wife
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: that she did nothing wrong. You have to ask her
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: how you can possibly make this up to her and
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: do what she says. And you're gonna have to be
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: patient with your wife as you guys work through this.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: And in the meantime, you got to stay off Instagram,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: stay out of the courtyard with the fellas checking out
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: the women, and stop making eye contact with this woman,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: leave her alone, focus on your wife and your marriage,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: and just stop doing stupid stuff, because this was stupid.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: Steve for real mirth, surely say it at best, even
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: lose your wife over some damn feet and you stupid.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: Ain't no food like an old food, and you just
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: old food. Let me tell you how stupid you. I'm
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: anna fify you, old man. Man. My wife and I
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: work in the same damn bill. I'd have been quit
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: that job long time ago. Really transfer me out, put
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: me across town something. Your wife always gotta dress up
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: and be jazzy because she interacts to the public. You
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: able to dress down for work her office. This is
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: how I know you old, her office full of dime pieces.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Put the hell say that we are and we are old?
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: Dude that thank he a player to see that's your
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: real problem. The dime pieces in their early thirties, and
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: everything on these women's right where it need to be,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: if you know what I mean? Now we don't what
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: sits whe they started moving people lass around on their stomach.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: The last time you've seen the one with some breasts
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: on her knee? Kelp? What do that mean? And everything
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: on these women is the right where it need to be? Where? What? What?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: You don't even know how to describe being a player
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: with your old man, if you know what I mean? No,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. Hell you mean think
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: a ass statement. Me and my co workers love to
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: sit in the courtyard. Or ain't nobody gonna see that?
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: You and your co workers sitting in the court yard
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: watching women come and go. I started following one of
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: the ladies on ig because she's the most beautiful woman
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen. And on top of that, she smiles
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: and make eye contact with me whenever I see her.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: Now she don't, Now she don't, that's your damn imagination.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: She'll eye contact a smile at you, well you know,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: she cock eys. She's smiling at the man next to you.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: Hold on, Steve, hold on that your old ass damn pieces.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: my wife's co worker's fate. We'll get back into it
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Come on, Steve,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: let's recap today's crazy strawberry letter and finish up with
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: your response. The subject is my wife's co worker's feet.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: What this old fool over here and wrote this letter? Tumber?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: He fifty five, he married, he worked in the same
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: bill and his wife he dressed down because his job
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: he don't require him dress up. His wife got to
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: be jazz and everything and all who went her wife
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: work around a bunch of thirty year olds in the office,
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: and they died pieces. M Yeah, that's how he described.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: He's so old they die pieces and everything and everything
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: on these women is right where need to be. If
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: you know your favorite line, Oh hey, old ass player, No,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I didn't really know what you meant by that. If
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: you refer to their breast is up there by their
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: chest and they foot's right behind they pelvet. Ain't that
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: where it's supposed to be. That's where it's supposed to be. Yes, yea.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: When the last time you saw a woman unless she
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: was old, with her breath down in her knee, Well,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: last time you've seen it? You know, breasts like where
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: they posted. So let's save all these ignorant ass statements. Then,
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: my co workers love is sitting in the court y'all
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: watching the women coming go. Didn't you just say that
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: you and your wife work in the same building. It
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: you don't think words and got around the building that
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: all of me are sitting in the court y'all work
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: watching people. I started following one of these ladies on
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: ig because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: On top of that, she smiles and make eye contact
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: with me whenever I see her. No, she don't. It's
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: your imagination, dog, how the baddest chick in the building,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: won't you? She the finest woman you'dn't ever seen, and
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: she won't you? Boy? Stop. What I love most about
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: her as her pretty feet. They're the sexiest part of
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: her and they have their own Instagram page. I secretly
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: looked at her It's ig footpage for months until my
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: wife saw me and took my phone. She kept my
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: phone for two days. I was a nervous wreck when
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: I got it back. I made a fake IG page
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: so I can see pictures of my wife co workers
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: pretty feet without my wife knowing it. Now right there,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: you're thinking, my man, great move right away. I thought
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: I had outsmarted her this time. You ain't done nothing
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: smart in this whole damn letter. Now you have made
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: a fake I G page and you said I thought
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: I had outsmart at Hood this time. Wait a minute,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: didn't she bust you on the phone. Yes, Ain't you
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: the same one that think this girl is looking at
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: you every time you out? Ain't you the same one
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: that's still calling women damn pieces. Ain't you the someone
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: to work in the same office as your wife, but
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: you sit in the courtyard with your friends looking at women? Yeah?
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: This year? Right? Yeah, I thought I had outsmart at
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: hood this time. M But she caught me again that well,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: that ain't taking long. She went into my settings and
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: found the fake I G account attached to my real account,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: and I was busted again, Cause you stupid, You ain't
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: out smart nobody, you stupid, I thought, and I and I,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: and she saw all the emojis in comment right, there
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: were fifty five emojis. Emojis. Yeah, why are you fifty
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: five with heart? What is? What? What? What? Which one?
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: What is you putting next to the feet? Yeah? Which
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: one is? To her? Show? Want to know? And have
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: you figured out how to make your hands black yet?
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Because you probably ain't. You need to learn how to
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: make your emojis head dark, skin on. It's so stupid ass,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: you're still sitting in out white prayer of hands. I
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: hate when black people praying for me and seeing white hands. Hey, hey,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: act like you praying for me. I could pray for
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: me fifty five, stupid ass with them white hands on
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: everything COMFID and stuff. I gotta pardon to be sending
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: me stuff. I just delete this text anytime me sending
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: me again. Yeah, you know why you got busted again
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: because you fifty five. It's too old to think that
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: you can do anything text savvy. You think you the
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: first person created a fake page. Stupid, Now listen to this.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: She saw the emojens in the comments that I left
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: under the co workers pictures, and she started crying. She
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: didn't react high how I thought she would at all.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: She told me my actions made her feel unpretty and unwanted.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: That broke my heart, and I cried too. You can
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: stop all that because I ain't say right now, you
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: can't outcry woman, So you can stop all this crying
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: too trying to, because that's stupid. You can't outcry her.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: You don't cry with me. Had we had a dull
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: last We'll do that right here, and then let me
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: tell you something he would see. I saw that as
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: harmless entertainment, but now she saw her broken because of me.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: How do I restore my wife's confidence in herself? And
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: you probably can't because you probably because your wife feet
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: probably ain't that flat. That's the problem. See, one of
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: the whole problems you've gotten this letteris your wife feet.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: She no hoofey, it ain't fit to be like. And
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: now she found out that's what you really like, and
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: now she ain't got it. She's dish. We gotta go
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: all right. Listen. It's up on Instagram at Steve harveyfm
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: dot com to comment, youth, you can't check out this
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Jewberry Letter podcast on de Man Got Out Next. It's Junior,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: and we'll see what he wants to talk about today.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: it's time for Junior, and you have some questions for
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: Steve Junior. Yeah, yeah, I do, I do. Uh, you know,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: you know I'm about about the weekend of this thing. Hey,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: before you do it, I want to share with your
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: time out or Junior part for his marriage. You would Yeah,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: let me hear the poem. Here it is, I's married
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: now be here. Oh my god, yeah, go ahead, my dog. Yeah,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: they just didn't you know. You know, I just keep thinking.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to be to
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: a great start. What's what's some advice how you can
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: give me about being a husband now? Because I'm a
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: single no more, and my thought process got to change.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I can't have the same thought no more. And what
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: kind of what kind of thought the process you got?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: Right now? Well? You know talking, I keep I keep
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: saying stuff like I'm just me. Yeah, And it's not
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: how old change your pronown how old? Forty four? See
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: you've been doing this for forty four. It's just in you.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: It's hard to teach your old dog new tricks. But
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: Carlin said it as your pronoun is no longer I
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: it's your pronong is never me, it's hubbed. Your thought
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: can't be what you won't. It's got to be what
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: do she won't. But then you gotta act like it's
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: what we won't, even though it's only what she won't,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: because what she won't might not be the same thing
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: as what he won't. Who's on first base? What's on what? Yeah?
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: Are you? I'm trying to you see how confused that sound? Yeah,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: that's what you in now, sir, I'm in confusion. That's
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: ball of confusion. Has nothing to do with this old
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: question you had me. But that's what I'm in. What
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: else you want to know? Okay, So I got to
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: think of something nice to do every single day, fun
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: every day. Told me something marriage company that ended my marriage. Oh,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: he said, it's not your job to make another person happy,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: nor should you make that your job. You can't make
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: another person happy. That's a state. I don't care how
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: hard you try. That's a that's a job that cannot
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: be happy. Oh all right, uh jor no, it's just
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: allowed to remember, not be forgetting the first But you're
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: gonna forget it a whole lot of turns. All right, listen,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Junior, this
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: wasn't you. Okay, this was not you. But wait until
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: you hear what happened to another room on his wedding day.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: Right out, do it? Yeah, you're listening, Steve Harpy warning show. Well, Junior,
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with you. Okay, so you
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: can relax on this one. But it is a wedding
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: story about a groom though us. Too soon, too soon,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: All right, here, we're gonna try it. We'll try it.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: A groom recently tried a poorly planned and poorly executed
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: stunt on his wedding day. He tried to enter his
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: wedding ceremony on a dirt bike, and he skid it
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: and was thrown off the bike. Bride to be was
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: horrified as he was rushed to the hospital. He broke
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: his collar bone and he needed five stitches in high man,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: he want to do it. I want to do it.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: That's what he want to do it. Oh man, that's
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen standing Bravo. I'm gonna break my collar.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: I thought about that many times in my life. I
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: just never had the character do. I stayed out all
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: night long when I was about twenty eight years old
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: and about twenty six years old, I stayed out all
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: night long, didn't make it back home. I was seriously
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: contemplating wrapping my car around a telephone that's going to
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: check into the hospital because I didn't have a lie
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: together in my mind. Man, my man, congratulations, big man. Yeah,
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: we're just gonna to do this later. Yeah, let me
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: come in hot myself. I'm oh man, everything stitches in
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: his head. Yeah, yeah, got two more years. He got
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: up for two more years being single. He can be
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: single for two more years. Yeah, that's you, beautiful cold feet.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: I'd have heard it all. Man, come in on the
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: dirt fight. He told his boy. Ain't nobody else get hurt. No,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: see that, he told his boy. And I'm gonna come
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: down now from me in hot. Y'all move over. I
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: don't want to hit half. I don't wanna come dead
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: at y'all. Y'all move out the way. I'm gonna hit them,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: break and listen to him live. I will be in
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: the air. He broke his collar bone, got on that
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: tree that was the one she wanted to get married,
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: and almost time all you here, Holly, Yes, running and
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: I love it. And this buddy, his buddy had had
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: a bottle with faked he had to use alright, boys
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: knew man, man, man, you know when you hit the
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: brakes man, Yeah, yeah, that's gonna put me in the end. Though.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: How hard was his grooves been laughing? Let me tell
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: you something man that afternoon? Yeah no, they was laughing
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: the night before when at the basket party when they
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: were playing it. When that did happened though, and they
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: found out he had practiced collar bone and busted his head. Dog,
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: they couldn't breathe. They had to make sure he was
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: all right though. I tried to cut that after that.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: I ain't after that hike to cut that bike. I'll
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: tell you we messed up the bridem ya. I know
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: bride daddy, Yeah he knew what was up. Yeah, oh
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: he did out. Yeah. Man, he didn't like great room anyway.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: He boom or len, What do you learning? All right?
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, Carlo's up
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: with music news for today. We'll talk about it right
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening all right? Here we are Carla,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: our girl with some music news. What you got Carla,
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: what's going on. Well, the I Heart Music Festival was
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: over the weekend. It was epic. It all went down
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: at the T Mobile Arena in Vegas. Avril Levine, Black
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: Eye Peas, Lina Richie, Oh my goodness, you know black people,
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Lionel Richie, the legend himself. Yes, ll L couj Megan
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: No Stallion, rock and roll legend, Pat Benatar, Sam Smith,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: Diddy Diddy. It was two nights Friday and Saturday night again.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: Shout out to the legend Steve. We love us from
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: Lionel Richie. He went back to the eighties. He performed
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: a lot of songs you know from his solo days,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: dancing on the ceiling Hello, Oh yes, sir, that's it.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: That's the jam, Jam Jam. He also sang brick House
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: Commodore's got the crowd on their feet yep, yes, Lina
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: Richie is looking good, looking good. So if you missed it,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: if you miss the iHeart Music Festival, don't you worry.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: You can check it out October seventh and eighth on
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: the c W two Nights Special, eight p m Eastern.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: So that's October seventh and eighth. If you miss the
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: iHeart Music festival, and there it is. It was nice.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Vegas was on fire. M all right, thank you, Carla. Well,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: Tommy's back to play. Would you rather with us? So
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: we'll do that at thirty three minutes after the hour? Yeah,
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: for a whole week by my film? Yes, yeah, come on,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: it was epic. Would you rather at thirty three minutes
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: after right after this you're listening to show? All right,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: the nephew is back in. It's time for would you rather,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: like Steve said all last week, Tommy, he did it
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: by himself. It was epic. Before that it was just
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: Junior and Steve. But now you're back, here we go.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: Would you rather, wait a minute, would you rather have
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: extra big eyes or would you rather have an extra
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: long tongue? I'm gonna take that tongue? Yeah, take that. Yeah,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: you don't get you don't. You don't get nothing for
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: having big nothing, man, I beg Yeah, you can get
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: some things done that. Surely you're seeing extra stuff. You
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: don't even need to see that. Ain't it's coming about me? Coming?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: She got big ass. She don't see nothing extra. It's
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: just closer. Wow, it has nothing to do with me.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: All right? Um, would you rather you wear your wife's
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: worn undy's or would you rather she wears your worn undy?
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: Which one I'm not. I'm not gonna get in jacket's
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: brows like whatnot like that? So no, I'm gonna leave
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: that long. Not like that? All right, argument after this? Yeah,
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, if if I put
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: her draws on all, its gonna be as a daughter strap. Okay,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: moving on? Rather, Yeah, y would you rather laugh at
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: everything your wife says? Laugh at everything she says that?
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Would you rather frown when she talked? Those are your
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: I got that? Hey? Come on, hey, it's all a kay,
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: good morning's over active? Yeah, team, Well, I would choose
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: frowning hers. Okays, go from that because if you laugh,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: Let's see a lot of these subjects ain't funny. Um,
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: what's so funny? Because that's the next yea yeah, uh
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: what you laughing at? It's so funny? What I fell
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: in the tube last night? M h your baby called
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: and she in trouble at school? Uh huh? All right, listen,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: thank you. That's today's round of would you rather with
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: the nephew? Back again? Junior? Yeah, we thought you were
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: right there, right, Yeah, coming up at forty nine minutes
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: after the hour, our last break of the day and
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one. We have a very
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: special remark. We're gonna do a re enactment. Oh oh okay,
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: we'll find out what that's about right after this. You're
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: listening show here we are, guys, last break of the day.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: Earlier we did the story about a groom. It wasn't
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: about you, junior, but this was this did really happen.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: A groom recently tried to poorly plan and poorly executed
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: executed stunt on his wedding day. He tried to enter
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: his wedding ceremony on a dirt bike, and he skidded
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: and was thrown off the bike. His bride to be,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: of course, was horrified, and he was rushed to the hospital.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: Now he broke his collar bone. He needed five stitches
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: to his head, five stitches in his head. What would
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: what would make somebody do something like this? I don't
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: I don't get Ladies and gentlemen, we are here at
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: the church, and our boys down at the edge of
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: the street getting ready to roll right in here and
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: be ready to be married. And ladies and gentlemen, here
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: he comes we're gonna I think we can hear that
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: motorbike right now. I think we can hear him yearing up. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: oh yeah. Hey, let me change something. I told her
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. I tried to find
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: a way to get out of here, and I just
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: want to do it. I'm not ready for marriage. Yeah, man,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: but I think I found a perfect way, yeah, to
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: not castle and not be a no show. I'm gonna
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: ride up these steps, what full speed to come down
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: the aisle? Come on, man, but two buddies are in
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: on it, like I'm on. Connor, Come on, I'm not
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: using any breaks. Don't do it. I'm gonna slam into
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: that altar and I'm just gonna deal with it. You
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: deal with it, You deal with it. Let's start this
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: motor Let's get up out of here, let's take off
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: the step. Let's go. Yes, yes, my god, I love it.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: How are you? How are you feeling? How right? Can
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: you talk? What is that noise? The girl? What? Connor?
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: Connor and my old cape? Yeah? Well you your your
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: head's busted wide over. We can see the white meat.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know your collar bone is sticking straight
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: through your tuck seed on. You see that? Great? That
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: scrass just what I wanted. Yeah, I mean we talked
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: about it. We talked about it, We discussed it. Is
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: this what you wanted? I didn't want to stick that
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: far out, but yeah, yeah, I just want to be
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: I know, what's gonna pop out? Like my god, it's
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: sticking straight out. Yeah, it's sticking straight Yeah. Yeah. Did
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: I cut my head? Ah? Yeah? Pretty pretty, pretty bad.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: There's there's blood running down to your ear. You're gonna
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: you're definitely gonna need stitches. What is she doing? Well?
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: Right now, she's he's crying, he's falling out, and she's
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: she's completely fading's faa but her dad is there. Okay, good,
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: she's fading and I'm incapacitated. Uh, she's gotta be no
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: wedding the day pal, No, there's no way. Definitely not
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: a wed. I think we did it. Hey, did somebody
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: call her ambulance? There's there's an ambulance on the way.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: But now your mom's your mom wants to talk to you.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to her. You gotta knock yourself out.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: What do you want? What you want to talk about it?
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: I mean she just wants to make sure she's on you.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, go get her,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: go ahead, honey her. Are you okay? Hey Mom? Yeah,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: I'm trying. I don't move, don't move, don't try to move.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: I just gotta get out of here. Mom. What what
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: are you talking about? I gotta get out? Look at
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: what what do you mean? What am I talking about?
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: The ambulance is coming? Okay, great, hey Mom just leaving. God,
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: just go get dad. I want to talk to dad.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: Oh God, my mom is okay? Talk to day dad.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: Where's my dad? Honey, go get your son? Dad? Yeah,
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: who's gonna be to Steve? That's what I ain't got
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: but one damn voice? So I get that's on you? Son? Son?
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: What I read my daddy? Who wouldn't got mom? Baby too? High?
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: Lord son, Lord Junior Sun my little brother in hill Son.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: That's as low as he. So what were you thinking?
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: What was that? I've been? Damn well, Dad, like your
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: voice change. I gotta sound like I below him? He Dad, Yeah, listen,
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: I know you raised me to do the right thing,
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: but I just couldn't do it. Ahead and get out
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: of it, damn get out of here. I come and
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: do it. You did great far as I'm concerned. Give
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: more awesome quiet Mama. The bride wants to know if
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't you'd like to carry it on and get
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: the service done at the hospital. Probably not gonna be
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: able to do this for a couple of years. Man,
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: it looks like this color bone up and I think
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: on the way to the hospital, I think a little.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose my memory. I'm not gonna know who
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: the hell any of you are playing, gonna die. Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: y'all have a great date. Talk to God. I'm sure
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: he'd loved to hear from you. Y'all, stay in peace.
• 1:26:00
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• 1:26:23
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