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- 2:51Speaker 1: Don Brown is a double board certified Child, Adolescent, Adult
- 2:55Speaker 1: and Sports Psychiatrists. That's a lot. Let me see that
- 2:57Speaker 1: one more time. Dr Brown is a double boards or
- 3:00Speaker 1: the five child, Adolescent, Adult and Sports Psychiatrists. Reason. I
- 3:03Speaker 1: bringing up because my daughter, she was a tenis prodigy
- 3:06Speaker 1: of sixteen, and I know that we had to use
- 3:09Speaker 1: a person like this services because when you get into sports,
- 3:13Speaker 1: you question yourself a lot and then you could be
- 3:16Speaker 1: your an injury. You can come in and play, and
- 3:18Speaker 1: so it's a lot of things that physical and many
- 3:20Speaker 1: the many mental aspects of that athleticism and also in
- 3:24Speaker 1: everyday life that comes into play. She's also a pioneer
- 3:27Speaker 1: of the mental health movement and then nationally recognize two
- 3:30Speaker 1: time number one best selling author Forbes. Right there, a
- 3:33Speaker 1: d h D coach, mental health expert, and public speaker.
- 3:37Speaker 1: We're going to discuss with Dr Brown why she chose
- 3:39Speaker 1: psychiatry as our specialty, how to prioritize your health and
- 3:44Speaker 1: the stigma regarding mental health. That's a big one right there.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Plus Dr Brown's secrets to being a successful serial entrepreneur.
- 3:52Speaker 1: You know this money main conversation, you know how to
- 3:54Speaker 1: bring that up. Please working to money making conversations. She's
- 3:57Speaker 1: living in Houston, straight out of flat Michigan, Dr On Brown,
- 4:00Speaker 1: how are you doing? Dr Brown? Mr Sean, thank you
- 4:03Speaker 1: so much for having me. It's a pleasure to be here.
- 4:05Speaker 1: I'm doing great. Thank you for well. First of all,
- 4:07Speaker 1: you look fair, task got that got money green on?
- 4:09Speaker 1: You got money green On Now I'd said it a
- 4:15Speaker 1: little bit earlier. Flip Michigan. We know what's going on
- 4:18Speaker 1: up there now, just not the story about trying to
- 4:20Speaker 1: get find out what's going on with the drinking water.
- 4:22Speaker 1: But it is a part of your past and part
- 4:24Speaker 1: of your life because I'm sure your relative stealing up there.
- 4:27Speaker 1: Now you're in Houston, Texas, and we just came out
- 4:30Speaker 1: that freeze storm to basically shut down the state of
- 4:32Speaker 1: Texas and and saw how they weren't prepared and what
- 4:36Speaker 1: we call a state dis supposed to have they act together.
- 4:38Speaker 1: That's the State of Texas. And we're still dealing with
- 4:41Speaker 1: the consequences of that freeze that really caused the loss
- 4:45Speaker 1: of a lot of lives. And that's important. So when
- 4:48Speaker 1: you're dealing with that, That's all the reason I bring
- 4:50Speaker 1: this up is that those situations cause mental stress. The
- 4:54Speaker 1: flip mission that you Michigan situation where people are drinking water,
- 4:58Speaker 1: they have to worry if that war that's going to
- 5:01Speaker 1: cause a deformity and a childbirthing situation or cut short
- 5:05Speaker 1: their life where their children grow up, where they affect
- 5:08Speaker 1: their brain or they grow they or their growth patterns.
- 5:11Speaker 1: That's Flint Michigan. Then you deal with the free situation
- 5:14Speaker 1: that happened in Texas and people are still trying to
- 5:17Speaker 1: recover from the mental I guess I want to say
- 5:21Speaker 1: effect of trust. Uh, will it happened again? Will I
- 5:26Speaker 1: be prepared to happen with that? Talk about the whole
- 5:28Speaker 1: mental makeup of people in general when stress comes into
- 5:32Speaker 1: their life. It's a very interesting question you bring up,
- 5:36Speaker 1: and even to mention Hurricane Harvey in there as well.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Write in the comparisons, you know, trauma can be a
- 5:41Speaker 1: blessing and a curse. It's actually silverlignement trauma. And how
- 5:45Speaker 1: I say that is because it's obvious the curse, right,
- 5:49Speaker 1: the traumatic experience that people can experience with, how traumatizing
- 5:53Speaker 1: the situation and condition experience could be for someone, How
- 5:57Speaker 1: that affects the mentality, how they affects their emotional health,
- 6:00Speaker 1: their physical health. And then just like you're saying their
- 6:02Speaker 1: trust factor, you know what's gonna happen next is the
- 6:05Speaker 1: Bob'm gonna drop out again. I cannot be happy because
- 6:09Speaker 1: I know something bad is going to happen. But then
- 6:12Speaker 1: it is. It's the blessing. Many people have, you know,
- 6:15Speaker 1: been motivated by trauma. You know, the determination, the diligence,
- 6:19Speaker 1: the drive, the resilience of trauma, right, and so wanting
- 6:24Speaker 1: to motivate yourself out of a situation, find the tools
- 6:27Speaker 1: and the keys necessary to do so, and never stop
- 6:30Speaker 1: giving up. So, but but then the baggage is still there,
- 6:34Speaker 1: and if you don't address if you don't deal with it,
- 6:36Speaker 1: it can actually affect your mental health particularly and leave
- 6:40Speaker 1: a lot of starters. Well, let's talk about the mental
- 6:42Speaker 1: health from the standpoint of just day to day living.
- 6:45Speaker 1: Let's talk about the minority community and where we all
- 6:48Speaker 1: know in the minority community kind of huns from showing weaknesses,
- 6:53Speaker 1: and some people feel that if you admit that you
- 6:54Speaker 1: have a mental illness, then you are weak, that you
- 6:58Speaker 1: are showing a flaw. A flaw all that can that
- 7:01Speaker 1: can have people measure you based on your credibility. Your
- 7:06Speaker 1: sustainability is far as what you can do with your life. Now,
- 7:09Speaker 1: let's let's backtrack a little bit about the minority community
- 7:12Speaker 1: in Houston, Texas. I'm just using the Houston, Texas as
- 7:14Speaker 1: an example because I forgot about Hyricane Harvey. In twenty seventeen.
- 7:19Speaker 1: Hyricane Harvey happens, twity devastated the city of Houston. That's
- 7:22Speaker 1: minorities who would affected the most minorities. Then you move
- 7:25Speaker 1: forward into and COVID hit on top of devastated the
- 7:31Speaker 1: minority community. Okay, then the George Floyd's situation came out,
- 7:36Speaker 1: riding on social and civil unrest. Still on top of that,
- 7:40Speaker 1: you were dealing with COVID nineteen. How do you deal
- 7:43Speaker 1: with that? No vaccination? Then we move into Texas, then
- 7:47Speaker 1: we did the still on top of that, no vaccination
- 7:49Speaker 1: yet the big Texas freeze hit. Who did it affect
- 7:53Speaker 1: the most minorities? Okay, now we're coming out. We have
- 7:57Speaker 1: a vaccination set up when we can getvaccinated, and minorities
- 8:02Speaker 1: are one of the slowest group. They want to get vaccinated.
- 8:06Speaker 1: So that's what the trust comes in. But there's also
- 8:09Speaker 1: distress because not jobs are saying if you don't get vaccinated,
- 8:13Speaker 1: you may not have a job here anymore. Dr Brown,
- 8:17Speaker 1: the floor is yours now. You know, it's so much
- 8:23Speaker 1: to unpack there, right, because historically mental health, physical health,
- 8:28Speaker 1: just medical and general medical health has not done people
- 8:32Speaker 1: of color due diligence, has not been justified, right, I mean,
- 8:36Speaker 1: this is an actual industry that has actually been targeted
- 8:40Speaker 1: towards people of color. Haven't been there, mistreated, um, not treated,
- 8:45Speaker 1: not diagnosed properly. I mean, I can go on and
- 8:48Speaker 1: on and when you talk about mental health, all of
- 8:50Speaker 1: those factors play a role in it's few of us.
- 8:53Speaker 1: The lack of access, the lack of education coming from
- 8:57Speaker 1: people like me that look like people who want to
- 8:59Speaker 1: hear information, you want help, but just don't know who
- 9:03Speaker 1: to trust, where to go to if they have the
- 9:05Speaker 1: financial need or the financial reasons of being able to go. UM.
- 9:09Speaker 1: I mean, it's just so much right, and so what
- 9:12Speaker 1: we try to do is we try to just started
- 9:13Speaker 1: one step at a time. UM, when you have insult
- 9:16Speaker 1: after insult, um that you're saying rashan from you know,
- 9:21Speaker 1: things outside of our controls, such as weather patterns and
- 9:24Speaker 1: you know the traumatic effects of Harvey in Houston, and
- 9:27Speaker 1: then like you're saying the power outs, the water out
- 9:29Speaker 1: EAGs here in Houston, and then you're talking about um
- 9:32Speaker 1: COVID nineteen and you're talking about people like look like
- 9:35Speaker 1: me that are you know, brutalized and murdered in the
- 9:38Speaker 1: street protests going on. I mean, it's insult after insults.
- 9:43Speaker 1: So what happens to our emotional health? Traumatized? And it's
- 9:49Speaker 1: hard and if we don't do something about that, then
- 9:52Speaker 1: it could be actually jeopardizing and very dangerous because those
- 9:56Speaker 1: scars don't heal, they don't heal at all unless you
- 9:59Speaker 1: address them. You know, you can have a physical wound
- 10:02Speaker 1: and you can actually see how the womb is is
- 10:04Speaker 1: how the skin, which is the largest organized system, can
- 10:07Speaker 1: actually do miraculous things. And just covering up that scar.
- 10:10Speaker 1: You may have something to remind you of that scar,
- 10:13Speaker 1: but it's not a wound that's open, it's cut, that's
- 10:16Speaker 1: not you know, vicious. But when you're talking about emotional
- 10:18Speaker 1: health is something completely different, and a lot of the
- 10:21Speaker 1: scars actually can become generational, it can actually be triggering
- 10:26Speaker 1: and actually can come up in different situations where you're
- 10:28Speaker 1: not even thinking about it subconsciously. So, yes, emotional health
- 10:33Speaker 1: is just as equally as important as physical health, and
- 10:37Speaker 1: in our community people of color, we definitely have to
- 10:40Speaker 1: talk about Well, let's talk about that, because I really
- 10:42Speaker 1: like that analogy of the open scar, a wound that
- 10:46Speaker 1: doesn't heal, because let's talk about that for missing because
- 10:50Speaker 1: that's what happens from the mental lass. We can't see it,
- 10:52Speaker 1: so it cannot be acknowledged as a problem to the
- 10:56Speaker 1: everyday viewer or the every day i've you came in.
- 10:59Speaker 1: If I came into the house and my daughter came
- 11:01Speaker 1: into the house and her knee was scarred, we go,
- 11:04Speaker 1: what's wrong, Let's fix that. We put some salve on
- 11:07Speaker 1: his some alcohol shild streams my dady, now though didn't
- 11:11Speaker 1: put the band aids on. Then all of a sudden,
- 11:13Speaker 1: we'll watch it, make sure it doesn't get infected, and
- 11:17Speaker 1: then when it's when it's when it's repaired fully, then
- 11:20Speaker 1: we're comfortable again. Now, from a mental aspect, we don't
- 11:24Speaker 1: see that. So if we did come in here and
- 11:27Speaker 1: we saw a wound on the side of your head,
- 11:29Speaker 1: and that's signified that you were having mental stress, then
- 11:32Speaker 1: we will know what to do. And guess what we
- 11:34Speaker 1: would do, Dr Brown, We will want to fix that problem.
- 11:38Speaker 1: But when it's mental, then all of a sudden, you know,
- 11:43Speaker 1: a lot of terms he crazy, he don't have good sense,
- 11:46Speaker 1: a lot of terms that I've heard in my neighborhood
- 11:49Speaker 1: where you know that's don't don't, don't go dust to him,
- 11:52Speaker 1: that's the crazy to do it on the corner, you know,
- 11:54Speaker 1: walk pat walk fast past him. Because it was always
- 11:57Speaker 1: deemed that somebody who was not who is mentally stressed,
- 12:02Speaker 1: was a person that you should stay away from in
- 12:05Speaker 1: the minority community. Am I right or wrong? No, You're
- 12:08Speaker 1: exactly a hundred percent right. I mean, a band aid
- 12:11Speaker 1: is to cover up a wound, just like a smile,
- 12:13Speaker 1: just cut up depression. Right. But again there's an historical
- 12:16Speaker 1: analogy here. We were taught not to show emotions, right,
- 12:20Speaker 1: Think about slavery. If you showed a bit of emotion,
- 12:24Speaker 1: then you were actually beaten, bruised, victimized, shunned all of
- 12:28Speaker 1: those things, right, And so we had to be strong
- 12:32Speaker 1: um in order to survive that time period, in order
- 12:36Speaker 1: to make it to another day, in order to be okay.
- 12:39Speaker 1: But again, historically we were taught to do that, and
- 12:42Speaker 1: that's become generational part of the generational purse, if you
- 12:46Speaker 1: will that. Nowadays we steal many of us don't show
- 12:50Speaker 1: that emotion, right, And it's taught that if this is
- 12:54Speaker 1: a sign of weakness, just like as a slave, it's
- 12:57Speaker 1: a signing weakness. You're not good enough, you're not built
- 12:59Speaker 1: well enough, all of these type of things. But I
- 13:02Speaker 1: often tell my people of color, hey, you don't have
- 13:05Speaker 1: to do that anymore. That is back then. This is now.
- 13:09Speaker 1: You have me to hear, to support you, your family
- 13:12Speaker 1: that loves you, hear the other support systems, and it's okay.
- 13:16Speaker 1: It's okay not to have to smile all the time.
- 13:19Speaker 1: It's okay to cry, it's God's tears. Let you say, hey,
- 13:23Speaker 1: I need an emotional release because I'm human. And back
- 13:26Speaker 1: then we weren't considered human, considered animals, we were considered victims,
- 13:31Speaker 1: We were considered all these things that we couldn't actually
- 13:34Speaker 1: express ourselves. And part of that mentality is still again
- 13:39Speaker 1: a part of today's society, especially in people of the color.
- 13:43Speaker 1: But again even if we encourage for people like me
- 13:46Speaker 1: to encourage our people. Yet and still in different environments, atmosphere, work,
- 13:51Speaker 1: whatever social circles, that mentality still exists. It's finally here
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- 16:23Speaker 1: in just hearing you talk. Is that you know they
- 16:26Speaker 1: hear the words council, council culture, which I can't stand.
- 16:29Speaker 1: Are he worries about? You know? Why do we have
- 16:32Speaker 1: to worry by chance transgender? Why do you have to
- 16:34Speaker 1: worry by the issue, Why all these people coming out
- 16:37Speaker 1: of the closet because they have been afraid. They have
- 16:42Speaker 1: been afraid to live a life. So now we're their
- 16:45Speaker 1: mental health. We are afraid, and we're trying to erode
- 16:51Speaker 1: or or remove the barriers of fear. It's all right
- 16:54Speaker 1: to say you are depressed. It's all right to say
- 16:58Speaker 1: that you that you don't feel good, and and that
- 17:01Speaker 1: you you're stressing, and that you this is you, you
- 17:05Speaker 1: reach your moment, you need time for yourself. It's all
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- 17:12Speaker 1: I say that because when I talk to when I'm
- 17:15Speaker 1: talking to you, Dr Brown, take this stuff very personal
- 17:18Speaker 1: because of the fact that people can criticize, and people
- 17:22Speaker 1: don't know the power of criticism and really can stop
- 17:25Speaker 1: a lot of people from seeking help. And am I
- 17:28Speaker 1: am I correct what I'm saying that, yes, yes you are.
- 17:31Speaker 1: It is because not only do you have to consider
- 17:34Speaker 1: the criticism that comes externally, but how internally as well.
- 17:38Speaker 1: Right well, criticize ourselves, you know, and that's important. So
- 17:43Speaker 1: so because I you know, like I said, we have
- 17:45Speaker 1: a lot to talk about it, but I want to
- 17:46Speaker 1: just talk about that little partition. But I want to
- 17:48Speaker 1: talk about the mental health athletics athletic centers that you
- 17:52Speaker 1: have and and the services that they offer, and why
- 17:55Speaker 1: was it important to you know, wrap put the word
- 17:58Speaker 1: athletic and health together and maybe they understand it's all
- 18:01Speaker 1: has always been one. You know, I don't care if
- 18:04Speaker 1: you Venus Williams or if you're Tom Brady. There is
- 18:07Speaker 1: a psychology, there's a mental ability. There's been known that
- 18:13Speaker 1: that the reason Serena Williams has not one her gram
- 18:17Speaker 1: Sleer record because she stresses out too much in the finals.
- 18:21Speaker 1: And you said Serena Willims, yes, yes, stress and mental
- 18:27Speaker 1: breakdowns have cost her from achieving her dream of winning
- 18:31Speaker 1: all the last few Grand Slams that she's been in.
- 18:35Speaker 1: And so even at that high level, how did you
- 18:38Speaker 1: come in with these clinics that you created a combined
- 18:40Speaker 1: health and athletics That reason right there you mentioned the mission.
- 18:45Speaker 1: You know, I want athletes to understand that they're human
- 18:49Speaker 1: just who happened to have athletic abilities, So we recognize
- 18:52Speaker 1: them as human first, and a lot of times when
- 18:56Speaker 1: they were younger, you know, they were identified as athletes.
- 18:59Speaker 1: So many of them don't even understand who they are.
- 19:02Speaker 1: You know, they're trying to find your identity through it
- 19:05Speaker 1: all through their journey, and oftentimes that comes too late
- 19:08Speaker 1: during retirement, and that's where we see a lot of
- 19:11Speaker 1: mental health conditions as well that may come up. But
- 19:14Speaker 1: when you talk about an active athlete who is injured,
- 19:17Speaker 1: who actually is trying to top last year's numbers, who
- 19:20Speaker 1: is going for the three p I mean all of
- 19:23Speaker 1: these pressures mental conditioning cannot deal with. I mean they
- 19:27Speaker 1: have mental health issues just like us. Actually, in a
- 19:30Speaker 1: matter of fact, more of them have mental health issues
- 19:33Speaker 1: than the general population. So I thought it was critical
- 19:37Speaker 1: too so they can understand that, Hey, I see you.
- 19:39Speaker 1: You're human first. As a recognized psychiatrist, I'm here this issue.
- 19:44Speaker 1: All of you may not need medicine. All of you
- 19:46Speaker 1: may just need a listening ear. How about just wanting
- 19:49Speaker 1: to hear what you want in life? Right? Wanting to
- 19:52Speaker 1: understand what happened to last night's game that the interview
- 19:56Speaker 1: didn't address. There are criticizing you before you, but to
- 20:00Speaker 1: even you know, process what's happened, so you know it
- 20:03Speaker 1: could be as little as that or as big as
- 20:06Speaker 1: an issue as having a family history of trauma that
- 20:09Speaker 1: got them out the neighborhood to go pro That was
- 20:11Speaker 1: a part of their journey, right, So I wanted something
- 20:14Speaker 1: that it can be all inclusive, that UM athletes can
- 20:17Speaker 1: take advantage of and working with someone like me, and
- 20:20Speaker 1: that is trust. You know that they can trust let
- 20:23Speaker 1: measure it. So so you were there for them. So
- 20:25Speaker 1: why did you I hear what you know just the
- 20:28Speaker 1: journey we were talking about now, but earlier when we
- 20:30Speaker 1: came out of high school we started going into college.
- 20:33Speaker 1: What led you to this field, what led you this
- 20:36Speaker 1: range of study? Why it came to me? Rashaan Um?
- 20:40Speaker 1: I actually um recently. I graduated from my child Fellowship
- 20:44Speaker 1: program at Baylor, and I was in private practice for
- 20:47Speaker 1: about two too and a half years and a Houston
- 20:50Speaker 1: Rocket player came to see me in my private practice
- 20:53Speaker 1: and here his wife came and he was as experiencing anxiety.
- 20:57Speaker 1: He didn't know what the terminology was at the time him,
- 21:00Speaker 1: but he actually said, I'm just I'm short of air
- 21:03Speaker 1: like I'm short of bread. I can't breathe, and these
- 21:05Speaker 1: are the conditions that lead to me not being able
- 21:08Speaker 1: to breathe. And so he was describing some of these
- 21:11Speaker 1: instances and we actually came up with the terminology that
- 21:14Speaker 1: identified him having patic attacks underneath the umbrella of having
- 21:19Speaker 1: an anxiety disorder. And so that's how it started. And
- 21:23Speaker 1: you know the cools are so small, right, I mean,
- 21:27Speaker 1: nowadays do you have different professional associations, um that are
- 21:32Speaker 1: gun Hole for mental health mental awareness And I'm loving
- 21:35Speaker 1: these initiatives that are now out. But back then, even
- 21:38Speaker 1: just six years ago, it was difficult for him to
- 21:42Speaker 1: come to me. He came with his wife his experiences
- 21:45Speaker 1: for four or five years. It affected his game. It
- 21:48Speaker 1: affected his game to the point he's not even playing anymore.
- 21:50Speaker 1: He could very well be playing, right. Um. So yes,
- 21:55Speaker 1: that's how it say the thing about it. First of all,
- 21:57Speaker 1: when we talked about mental health and uh, because I
- 22:01Speaker 1: I people always saying how do you juggle so much?
- 22:04Speaker 1: Because it's levels of stress, you know. And I also
- 22:07Speaker 1: know how to walk away, you know, like I watched TV.
- 22:10Speaker 1: You know, you know you asked me on Netflix. I
- 22:13Speaker 1: watched Netflix. You know, I watched Disney, you know, I
- 22:16Speaker 1: watched sports. So what I'm telling everybody is that what
- 22:20Speaker 1: helps you is what walks you away from the stress.
- 22:24Speaker 1: And I remember when I bought the house in Atlanta
- 22:26Speaker 1: and I told my wife, I said, I gotta be
- 22:28Speaker 1: near water as she said. She said why, I said,
- 22:31Speaker 1: because I need to be able to walk out there
- 22:33Speaker 1: and just see something simple. And and I remember we
- 22:36Speaker 1: was I'm just telling everybody and just listen to how
- 22:39Speaker 1: ideal would stress and because they're they're they're little tricks
- 22:43Speaker 1: to it, and their tricks that you can do yourself.
- 22:46Speaker 1: But what I try to do myself is that I
- 22:48Speaker 1: try to make sure that every day looks different. In
- 22:51Speaker 1: other words, we was in a high rise dr Brown
- 22:54Speaker 1: and I started noticing that the tree tops look the
- 22:56Speaker 1: same every day, and I told mar we can't stay here.
- 22:59Speaker 1: She said, what I said, it looks the same. I said,
- 23:01Speaker 1: I gotta have something that triggers my mind to be
- 23:05Speaker 1: creative into another journey. And so she said, okay, she's
- 23:09Speaker 1: that's dear prison. Now now it looks same every day.
- 23:13Speaker 1: I got trees like trees I used to account them. Okay,
- 23:18Speaker 1: So so what happens I think in a lot of things,
- 23:21Speaker 1: and I'm talking to a professional and I'm talking to you,
- 23:23Speaker 1: is that how I deal with that and being able
- 23:26Speaker 1: to deal with stress, deal with the inside, to deal
- 23:28Speaker 1: with depression. I tried to take myself in something normal.
- 23:33Speaker 1: That's when I said normal go to the park, you know,
- 23:36Speaker 1: go fishing, do normal things that are breaking the cycle
- 23:40Speaker 1: create a different conversation. And with people stress, they're stressing
- 23:44Speaker 1: because they're not breaking the norm. This is just Rashan
- 23:48Speaker 1: McDonald's way of thinking about it. I just want to know,
- 23:50Speaker 1: have I been on the right path all these years?
- 23:52Speaker 1: Can you help me? Your doctor? Seriously, very insightful of
- 24:02Speaker 1: you to even bring that up, because it's about taking
- 24:05Speaker 1: a break from that has been my complete message to people. Um,
- 24:10Speaker 1: you gotta take breaks, and then you have to take
- 24:13Speaker 1: a lot of them. Similar to you, Rashwan, I actually
- 24:16Speaker 1: relocated to another part of Houston because my primary goal
- 24:19Speaker 1: was to have a view of the city. In Michigan.
- 24:23Speaker 1: I wanted a view of the city because that's what helps,
- 24:26Speaker 1: you know, just really bring me back to reality. But
- 24:28Speaker 1: I'm hearing different stories, traumatic story situations, people's anxieties, depression.
- 24:33Speaker 1: It's easy for me to take that on. So I
- 24:36Speaker 1: have to take a break. And having a view was
- 24:38Speaker 1: very important and so that he'll determine where I am
- 24:41Speaker 1: and that has been a lifesaver for me. But you
- 24:44Speaker 1: have to find something that's allowing you to break away
- 24:49Speaker 1: from routine, from stress, vacations are important. You gotta schedule
- 24:54Speaker 1: them like your schedule meetings right, even even your daily breaks.
- 25:01Speaker 1: If the will show how many people don't even break
- 25:04Speaker 1: during the day. Every year we say, well, wake up earlier,
- 25:10Speaker 1: exercise more, really rest and eat healthier. It's hard for us,
- 25:16Speaker 1: but for dogs not so much. Don't drop at dawn,
- 25:20Speaker 1: run for fun, sleep like the champs, and they love
- 25:24Speaker 1: eating fresh, healthy food every single meal. Give your dog
- 25:28Speaker 1: another healthy habit, real fresh food from the Farmer's Dog.
- 25:31Speaker 1: Get off your first box at the Farmer's Dog dot
- 25:35Speaker 1: com slash listen. What grows in the forest? Trees? Sure
- 25:40Speaker 1: you know what else grows in the forest? Our imagination,
- 25:44Speaker 1: our sense of wonder, and our family bonds grow too,
- 25:47Speaker 1: because when we disconnect from this and connect with this,
- 25:53Speaker 1: we reconnect with each other. The forest is closer than
- 25:57Speaker 1: you think. Find a forest near you and start exploring.
- 26:01Speaker 1: I Discover the Forest dot Org, brought to you by
- 26:03Speaker 1: the United States Forest Service and the AD Council. What
- 26:08Speaker 1: grows in the forest trees? Sure you know what else
- 26:11Speaker 1: grows in the forest. Our imagination, our sense of wonder,
- 26:15Speaker 1: and our family bonds grow too, because when we disconnect
- 26:18Speaker 1: from this and connect with this, We reconnect with each other.
- 26:26Speaker 1: The forest is closer than you think. Find a forest
- 26:29Speaker 1: near you and start exploring. I discover the forest dot
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- 26:35Speaker 1: and the AD Council. You know. That's that's why I
- 26:38Speaker 1: was important when I when our schedule this interview because
- 26:41Speaker 1: of the fact that when you're starting a business, stress,
- 26:45Speaker 1: when you're starting a relationship, stress, when you're having children, stress,
- 26:50Speaker 1: when you're doing a job, you know different. That's why
- 26:53Speaker 1: I had to mention about especially in the Houston market.
- 26:55Speaker 1: We can go to different parts of the country. You
- 26:57Speaker 1: can do the stress that came in a state of
- 26:58Speaker 1: Georgia when Resident Trump and was down here saying that
- 27:02Speaker 1: the voting was was illegal, that they were cheating. You
- 27:06Speaker 1: had the Republican stress, you had a Democrats stress, and
- 27:09Speaker 1: then you had then you had the Black Lives Matter
- 27:12Speaker 1: movement running around. They were being called thugs, being called
- 27:17Speaker 1: a terrorist group. That level of stress your profession, I
- 27:21Speaker 1: would have to believe it is understressed too, because so
- 27:26Speaker 1: many people are coming to you for so many new answers.
- 27:28Speaker 1: Dr Brown, Yeah, we're in a pandemic as well. Mental
- 27:33Speaker 1: health is in its own pandemic. The one thing about
- 27:36Speaker 1: is whatever shan is that people are coming to get help,
- 27:40Speaker 1: and technology has been a huge king um in creating
- 27:45Speaker 1: that access for many people who formally didn't have access,
- 27:49Speaker 1: who didn't want to come to a place to get help.
- 27:52Speaker 1: The screen these stigmas is a part of that. The
- 27:54Speaker 1: stigmatizing experience from people where they're in the cover of
- 27:57Speaker 1: their homes talking about something that's triggering and they're able
- 28:00Speaker 1: to communicate that through a screen has been helpful. Insurance
- 28:03Speaker 1: companies have gotten on board to provide coverage for Telly
- 28:07Speaker 1: psychiatry so that people can get help. E A p
- 28:11Speaker 1: S are on board to be able to allow therapy
- 28:13Speaker 1: sessions for their employees who have been at home over
- 28:16Speaker 1: a year and a half. So people are understanding this
- 28:20Speaker 1: mental health movement now, they understand how important mental health
- 28:23Speaker 1: is and it is amazing to see that. But we're
- 28:27Speaker 1: still in the pandemic and we're gonna be in this
- 28:30Speaker 1: for quite some time. So you know, yes, everywhere it's
- 28:35Speaker 1: a part of our normalcy, our normal day life, but
- 28:38Speaker 1: we have to understand that, hey, there is help out
- 28:41Speaker 1: there in order for you to help manage that while
- 28:45Speaker 1: you're dealing with it as well. Well. You know, the
- 28:47Speaker 1: help is first of all, I have to be acknowledged
- 28:50Speaker 1: by youth, you know, I know, like I said, I've
- 28:53Speaker 1: acknowledged the fact that I need. I need. I need
- 28:57Speaker 1: to see things, movements and things like that. That relaxed
- 29:00Speaker 1: my triggers. And that's a popular word you're here, especially
- 29:03Speaker 1: when you talking about mental health. What are your triggers,
- 29:06Speaker 1: whether what are the bad triggers or what are the
- 29:07Speaker 1: good triggers. The good triggers for me is that I
- 29:09Speaker 1: gotta be, so I gotta see change all the time.
- 29:12Speaker 1: I gotta be. And I'm not talking about I gotta
- 29:14Speaker 1: hear loud music, I gotta go to a party, I
- 29:16Speaker 1: gotta drink. I gotta be the life of that. And
- 29:18Speaker 1: I'm stepping out of my own being to know I'm
- 29:21Speaker 1: talking about I go down to my little lake. I
- 29:24Speaker 1: sit down, and I watched the fish and it relaxes me,
- 29:28Speaker 1: and if and then and it takes me down a
- 29:30Speaker 1: little bit where I can't see any streets. I can
- 29:32Speaker 1: see part of my house. So I'm almost in my
- 29:35Speaker 1: little world. And so and it's kind of like that
- 29:37Speaker 1: been that way for me, you know, my whole life though,
- 29:40Speaker 1: Dr Bro, I've I've I've unconsciously figured out positive triggers
- 29:45Speaker 1: for me. You know, in New York, a lot of
- 29:47Speaker 1: people I can't stand. There's crowds. I love the crowds,
- 29:50Speaker 1: but then you come to my My place is spacious,
- 29:53Speaker 1: you know, and so I'm not so I don't care
- 29:56Speaker 1: that crowded environment of the streets into my home environment.
- 30:00Speaker 1: Hey hey, I got these walls too close. Okay, So
- 30:05Speaker 1: so it's really about some of the decision. But the
- 30:07Speaker 1: bigger thing I'll take away in this conversation and why
- 30:10Speaker 1: you're so important, is that there's so many people who
- 30:13Speaker 1: have not found the positive triggers, and that's why you
- 30:16Speaker 1: are so important to talk to us about that. Hey man,
- 30:19Speaker 1: Hey man, I have an a d h D mind.
- 30:21Speaker 1: I mean I have a d h D and the
- 30:22Speaker 1: n B with a d h D if you will,
- 30:24Speaker 1: And so, like you, I love the noise, the action,
- 30:28Speaker 1: the stimuli because it allows me to be moving with it. Right,
- 30:33Speaker 1: I'm motivated by it. I'm driven unproductive. But then there
- 30:37Speaker 1: are times when it's just too much for me and
- 30:39Speaker 1: it's overstimulating. So I have to travel. So my positive
- 30:42Speaker 1: triggers international travel and The reason I say international because
- 30:46Speaker 1: it gets me out of my comfort zone. I go alone.
- 30:49Speaker 1: I want to learn about different cultures that I don't
- 30:52Speaker 1: know anything about, meeting new people, so it's a lot
- 30:55Speaker 1: of newness that allows me to be in a very calm,
- 31:00Speaker 1: me right type of mood and zone. Positive triggers are
- 31:03Speaker 1: so important. I'm glad you brought that up because oftentimes
- 31:06Speaker 1: when we talk about triggers, the automatic thought process about
- 31:10Speaker 1: that is it's negative. But no are positive triggers, and
- 31:13Speaker 1: we need positive triggers to balance out um our ability,
- 31:17Speaker 1: to manage stress. We need positive triggers to understand when
- 31:21Speaker 1: it need to know when it's time to take that break,
- 31:23Speaker 1: when it's time take that vacation, right when it's time
- 31:26Speaker 1: to go to bed at night. It's not you know,
- 31:28Speaker 1: being up at two o'clock in the morning because you
- 31:30Speaker 1: always gonna have work to do. I want to take something.
- 31:33Speaker 1: I want to say something, you dr Brown, because I'm
- 31:35Speaker 1: kind of a not a know that you but a
- 31:37Speaker 1: know it in this system. You know, like because you
- 31:40Speaker 1: know May is you know mental health Awareness month. Okay,
- 31:44Speaker 1: it's not just one month, everybody, okay, And and and
- 31:49Speaker 1: that gives you a false sense that we're gonna recognize
- 31:53Speaker 1: this month and the problem goes away. It's every day,
- 31:57Speaker 1: every hour, how you deal with it, how you relate
- 32:00Speaker 1: to it. And I brought Dr Brown on this show,
- 32:04Speaker 1: you know, to let you know that she's here for you.
- 32:06Speaker 1: She's here to to give you a sense of awareness,
- 32:10Speaker 1: a sense of hope. Uh ear and when when, when
- 32:16Speaker 1: that ear is listening to you, she's gonna give you answers.
- 32:19Speaker 1: And if you if you don't have the answers, then
- 32:21Speaker 1: she's willing to walk you through the steps to get
- 32:23Speaker 1: to that answer. You come and when you come to
- 32:25Speaker 1: a person like Dr Brown, her centers and and what
- 32:28Speaker 1: she's trying to do is she's trying to let you
- 32:30Speaker 1: know that it's time to acknowledge there is something wrong.
- 32:36Speaker 1: She that's the key, right, Dr Brown, that's the key.
- 32:39Speaker 1: And you know, mental health doesn't necessarily just mean, Um,
- 32:43Speaker 1: I'm having some little thoughts, I'm hearing voices or you know,
- 32:48Speaker 1: these these the kind of the extreme of it. It
- 32:50Speaker 1: could be that I'm fatigue, I'm tired, I'm using my
- 32:53Speaker 1: ear right, nothing is you know, I'm having thoughts that
- 32:57Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily worthy. Like the health shows up for
- 33:01Speaker 1: different people at different levels of severity. And I love
- 33:05Speaker 1: people just you know, just like they get physical evaluations
- 33:08Speaker 1: and physical checks up, checkouts, people check ups. I would
- 33:11Speaker 1: love it people can go to a mentalth professional and
- 33:13Speaker 1: get an annual mental health check up. Wow, how better
- 33:17Speaker 1: they would be? How better this world would be? Um,
- 33:20Speaker 1: it just will will normalize. We gotta normalize mental health
- 33:23Speaker 1: because it's important. We all experienced ment health. Like just
- 33:26Speaker 1: like you said at the beginning of our conversation, we
- 33:28Speaker 1: all have mental health issues and wellnesses, and so it's
- 33:32Speaker 1: important for us to take care of it. We got
- 33:35Speaker 1: what level it is? The thing about it when you
- 33:38Speaker 1: talk about fatigue. I remember one day my wife, I
- 33:41Speaker 1: get up and I'll just drive myself to the airport.
- 33:43Speaker 1: And one day she's, I drive you, you know, I
- 33:45Speaker 1: gotta get up earlier. And we were we were driving,
- 33:48Speaker 1: and she was driving and she was looking at me
- 33:49Speaker 1: in the passage. She says, she said, Wow, when are
- 33:54Speaker 1: you tired? When do you When are you tired? I said,
- 33:59Speaker 1: I'm tired right now. I said, But what I've learned
- 34:02Speaker 1: and I've created triggers to to be able to mask that, Okay,
- 34:07Speaker 1: And I say, that's not a good thing too, to
- 34:09Speaker 1: mask fatigue. And so when you when you're doing things.
- 34:14Speaker 1: Mask is a dangerous term in the mental and physical
- 34:19Speaker 1: awareness because you can mask fatigue and it can lead
- 34:22Speaker 1: to other issues. That's why you have to know your body.
- 34:26Speaker 1: In this case, you have to know your mind. And
- 34:29Speaker 1: and I'm not saying I'm a specialist. I'm just bringing
- 34:31Speaker 1: you on the show. You are especially and believe me,
- 34:33Speaker 1: you got to come back on my show. I could
- 34:35Speaker 1: be talking to you for another hour because you and
- 34:38Speaker 1: I we first of all, we're connecting. But I think
- 34:41Speaker 1: you understand how I think. And I have a lot
- 34:44Speaker 1: of natural awareness, and but you have the technical awareness.
- 34:48Speaker 1: Because I can't teach anybody what I know. It's it's
- 34:51Speaker 1: just something I've designed for myself. But you can't teach
- 34:55Speaker 1: individuals and get them to walk the path of lightening,
- 35:00Speaker 1: you know, come out of the light. And because mental
- 35:02Speaker 1: health is darkness. If you live in you live in
- 35:05Speaker 1: mental health, that light is not on in that room.
- 35:07Speaker 1: It's not on. And you can help them. So tell
- 35:10Speaker 1: us a little bit about in the website so we
- 35:12Speaker 1: can get that out there, so we can just start.
- 35:14Speaker 1: You know, you, you you're my one. You tex Tex
- 35:17Speaker 1: is tex Is the High High Thights. Let's woke us
- 35:22Speaker 1: out of here, Prishan. You know that's why I really
- 35:25Speaker 1: appreciate and respect your platform. I I listened to you
- 35:29Speaker 1: all the time, and I love your openness with others.
- 35:33Speaker 1: I love your realness and you sharing your personal experiences
- 35:36Speaker 1: so people can connect with you. That's why we connect
- 35:39Speaker 1: so well. Because you're realist. You don't have to be
- 35:42Speaker 1: an expert to understand how this works. Your realness and
- 35:46Speaker 1: so I appreciate that about you. So thank you for
- 35:48Speaker 1: having me. Um. You can find me at Dr Down
- 35:51Speaker 1: Psych m D. That's probably my main hub, Dr Down
- 35:55Speaker 1: Psych m D. That's d r D, A w N
- 35:58Speaker 1: Piers and Paul s y c h m D. On
- 36:02Speaker 1: all social media platforms, please connect with me. I would
- 36:05Speaker 1: love to connect with you and see how it can
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- 36:18Speaker 1: But more important, your brand that makes a difference in
- 36:21Speaker 1: everybody's life. That's why I created money Making Conversation. D
- 36:24Speaker 1: Don Brown, Thank you for coming on. And you know
- 36:26Speaker 1: when I come to Houston, you know, we gotta go
- 36:28Speaker 1: somewhere and do a foodie moment because I'm a foodie. Okay,
- 36:31Speaker 1: let you know. Okay, I'll tell you to read it Freddy. Okay,
- 36:35Speaker 1: we'd be good. Thank you for coming on money Making Conversations, Okay,
- 36:38Speaker 1: appreciate it. If you want to hear us see any
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