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Game of Thrones, Lauren London, Wendy Williams, Golf Talk and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all have
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  Speaker 1: a suit looking like the back down giving them just
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  Speaker 1: like the million bucks things and the Cubs. True good it.
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  Speaker 1: Steve har listening to the move together for stum, Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join join me in doing me. Honey, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn be hurting you go. You gotta turn to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out. You got to turn them out. Then
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  Speaker 1: turn the water the water go. Come, come on your
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  Speaker 1: fad uh huh. I shall well a good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You'll listening to the voice. I come on, dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think I'll explain something to y'all. You know when
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  Speaker 1: I when I wake up in the morning and I say,
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  Speaker 1: dig me now, what I'm asking you to do is
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  Speaker 1: it's old school, you know, man, And you know you
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  Speaker 1: say old people say I dig You know Dad never
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  Speaker 1: stop saying it. Sorry, but dig me now. It's just
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  Speaker 1: I want you to I don't you really feel me?
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  Speaker 1: I don't you to understand what I'm saying, because really,
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  Speaker 1: this morning inspiration is all given in the spirit of
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  Speaker 1: sharing and love. It ain't about to expose me in
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  Speaker 1: any way. That's not the purpose of it. But I
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  Speaker 1: found that in my morning inspiration that it's best that
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  Speaker 1: I use some things about myself, because I mean, what
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  Speaker 1: better example can I use? Because I know me, I
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  Speaker 1: know what's happened to me. I knew exactly how I
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  Speaker 1: felt all along the way. Because concertaining almost everything, every
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  Speaker 1: aspect of my life, I now fully do really understand
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  Speaker 1: why God had my life spend the way it spun.
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  Speaker 1: And here's the part that I want to give to
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  Speaker 1: you this morning, that first of all, whatever position you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself in today, we kind of come to one
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  Speaker 1: realization that we got ourselves there. We put ourselves there
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  Speaker 1: by a series of thoughts and actions. Thoughts turn into things.
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  Speaker 1: That's very important to know. So let's look at both
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  Speaker 1: sides of it. For people who think negative thoughts, it
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  Speaker 1: turns into negative things, and the direct opposite is true.
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  Speaker 1: For those who think positive thoughts, it turns into positive things.
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  Speaker 1: That's the deal. It's as simple as that, folks. I
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  Speaker 1: cannot break it down any cleaner and not make it
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  Speaker 1: any clearer. Thoughts become things. So the one glaring question
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  Speaker 1: for all of us always is, on a daily basis,
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  Speaker 1: what are you thinking? What are your thoughts? What are
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  Speaker 1: you thinking? What are your thoughts? Because I can assure
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  Speaker 1: you and it's not by or promise of mind. This
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  Speaker 1: is not a theory that Steve Harvey then came up with.
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  Speaker 1: This is a fact of life. This is biblical, this
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  Speaker 1: is spiritual, this is written, This is philosophical. This is
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  Speaker 1: the law of the universe. However, you need to drink
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  Speaker 1: this medicine to take to get it down and feel
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you. This is just the way
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  Speaker 1: it is now and here the cold part, folks. It
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  Speaker 1: don't matter if you believe me or not. It does
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  Speaker 1: not matter if you have never been explained this or not.
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  Speaker 1: And it does not matter if you think it works
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  Speaker 1: in your life or not. It don't matter. Listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: It is the way it is. It is as scriptural,
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  Speaker 1: it is as spiritual, it is philosophical, it's just whatever.
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  Speaker 1: It's the law of the universe. You call whatever you
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  Speaker 1: want to call. However, you got to dress this thing
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  Speaker 1: up to put it into phase that you can feel me.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to feel me now, because this is
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  Speaker 1: all it is. So when I say that you are
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  Speaker 1: where we are today because we thought ourselves here or
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  Speaker 1: your best to believe that's true. You thought yourself here,
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  Speaker 1: no one else. See. Let me explain something. I got
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  Speaker 1: people around me who so badly want to take credit
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  Speaker 1: for it, but I don't allow it. But because I
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  Speaker 1: keep pointing to the heavens, I keep pointing and trying
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  Speaker 1: to say it out loud as many times as I
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  Speaker 1: can without being so offensive, that my life is by design,
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  Speaker 1: by grace and mercy, by blessings from God. My life
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  Speaker 1: is because God has seen it to be so. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: but I got plenty of people around me want credit
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  Speaker 1: for and want you to not give credit to God
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  Speaker 1: and give it to them. I got that. I got that,
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  Speaker 1: but I understand that. See, I understand what that is.
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  Speaker 1: That's a person whose design is to get the credit.
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  Speaker 1: But it's okay. It's so clear to me what my
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  Speaker 1: father was saying to me. Man, I get it. As
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  Speaker 1: I get older and older, he always said to me, son,
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  Speaker 1: everybody come with you can't go with you. See. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how people say that in church. You know,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes they go people come into your life for seasons,
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  Speaker 1: and I guess the same thing. You know, they season up,
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  Speaker 1: they're gone, well, you know, and then but then hither
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  Speaker 1: way they try to hold you though, or you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: forget where you come from. Oh, you ain't keep it
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  Speaker 1: real no more. And so you find yourself trying to
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  Speaker 1: not forget where you come from and keep it real
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  Speaker 1: no more. But to what end is it to the
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  Speaker 1: good of your end? Or is it to the good
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  Speaker 1: of the end? To what end is keeping it real
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  Speaker 1: and not forgetting where you come from if it does
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  Speaker 1: not allow you to progress and move forward. I got
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  Speaker 1: where I come from. I don't want to stay that
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  Speaker 1: no more. I don't forget where I come from. I
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  Speaker 1: know full well what I've been through. But that's what
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  Speaker 1: drives me, because I don't want to go back to that.
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  Speaker 1: That's the push for me. I don't want that no more.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to go back where I come from.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to keep it that real no more.
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  Speaker 1: It was real enough for me living in the car.
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  Speaker 1: I had enough of that real. I don't gonna keep
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  Speaker 1: it real now. I don't keep it real. I want
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  Speaker 1: to go keep it dreamy. I want to go keep
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  Speaker 1: it fantasize it. I want I want to I want
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  Speaker 1: to keep it out of this world. I want to
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  Speaker 1: keep it off the chain. I want to keep it moving,
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  Speaker 1: I want to keep it ball, and I want to
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  Speaker 1: see it that's like so naw, I ain't gonna forget
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  Speaker 1: where I come from, but you ain't gonna hold me
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  Speaker 1: to that thought. See, thoughts become things all day long?
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  Speaker 1: Where's your vision board? Where are the things that you
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  Speaker 1: won't written down? What do you think about the most?
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  Speaker 1: How grateful are you for what all God has done
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  Speaker 1: for you? Where you at with that? See here another law?
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  Speaker 1: If thoughts become things, or here come the moment, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: If thoughts become things, let me ask you this. If
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  Speaker 1: all you thinking about is your debt, If all you're
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  Speaker 1: thinking about is what you ain't got, If all you
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  Speaker 1: thinking about or is old, woe is me? If all
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  Speaker 1: you thinking about is every time I turn around, I'm sick.
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  Speaker 1: If all you thinking about it's the things in life
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  Speaker 1: that you're lacking. If that's all you're thinking about, and
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  Speaker 1: if thoughts become things, how much debt you think you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna stay in? How much? How much how much lacking
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  Speaker 1: you think you fin to feel your life with? How
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  Speaker 1: much most stuff you find to not have because you
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  Speaker 1: keep thinking about it all the time? When you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be grateful, when you're gonna say thank you, when it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna come out your mouth. Man, that I may not
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  Speaker 1: be where I want to be, but I sho am
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  Speaker 1: grateful for what you've given me so far, for the
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  Speaker 1: things I have to date, because I don't have to
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  Speaker 1: have these things. You know that does? That then opens
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  Speaker 1: up room for more stuff to come your way. To
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  Speaker 1: be grateful fall. But if you're gonna be ungrateful, man,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you something. I ain't God, I don't
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  Speaker 1: claim to be, But let me ask you something. Man,
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  Speaker 1: If you're ungrateful for the things we've got, we can't
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  Speaker 1: show no gratitude for what we have. Why would God
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  Speaker 1: give us some most stuff to be ungrateful for? What
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  Speaker 1: would he do that for? Man? I blessed you with that.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't like that I gave you this. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: saying nothing to me about that. You ain't feeling me
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  Speaker 1: on this right here. So I'll tell you what. Man,
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  Speaker 1: Let me stop giving this dude something because he just
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  Speaker 1: over here he ain't glad for nothing. Because if I
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  Speaker 1: give him some mold, he gonna be mad about that too, Tad.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody feel me right now? So when I say come on, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: dig me. Now, do you understand why I say dig me?
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  Speaker 1: Because I want you to feel me. I want you
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  Speaker 1: to understand and come to the understanding, not saying you ain't.
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  Speaker 1: Because so many people got a deeper understanding than me
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  Speaker 1: about this whole thing. I promise you they do, but
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  Speaker 1: they listen to me. I'm just trying to get you
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  Speaker 1: to walk up in this light, man, so you can
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  Speaker 1: go on with your life and quit tripping yourself out
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  Speaker 1: with your thoughts, because thoughts become things, all right. All
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  Speaker 1: days you're listening show ladies and gentlemen might have you
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  Speaker 1: I know. You know. I don't think I can do
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  Speaker 1: that no more? Big don it hurts always? Anyway, Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the show man. Hey, carl Hey, I damn called you, Sharlotte,
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte Morning. None thing? What's going on day? Y'all talk
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  Speaker 1: to me? Yeah, tried to mean everything. Man. It's a
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  Speaker 1: good day, yeah, man on Friday? Good day? Yeah? How
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  Speaker 1: you Oh, I'm wonderful. Just gonna go to work right
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  Speaker 1: after this Friday. Nothing. I don't know what all about.
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  Speaker 1: do you ever want to let a job go? Yep?
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  Speaker 1: Right away? The nervousness is which one we better not
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  Speaker 1: to be? This one? Who? I actually liked this one? Look?
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  Speaker 1: Why what were you gonna do something to him? Physically?
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  Speaker 1: Mentally against something to him? Yeah? He was gonna really
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  Speaker 1: turn to him? What? Why? This job? For everybody? What?
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  Speaker 1: This is the first job? What are we talking about?
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  Speaker 1: There was the time when it was all it was
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  Speaker 1: got your blessing and yeah your blessing? Amen? Well it
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  Speaker 1: was what else happened? Yo? What you know? What? You what?
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  Speaker 1: I'm disappointed him? Man. The Houston Rockets were about to
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  Speaker 1: be the number two seeds in the playoffs, in the playoffs,
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  Speaker 1: in the NBA playoffs, and now they are the number
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  Speaker 1: four seeds since they lost lost to Oklahoma City. That
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  Speaker 1: that just really bothered me. Now who they behind? They're
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  Speaker 1: about to play Utah Jazz, That's who they're gonna play first.
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  Speaker 1: But I think if once they well hopefully if they
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  Speaker 1: beat the Utah Jazz, I think it's gonna be Golden
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  Speaker 1: State immediately? Am I right? Junior? Because Junior know the
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  Speaker 1: whole thing. They play in the fifth seed. Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: so so Julie if they be, if they beat Utah,
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  Speaker 1: who do they play outter that probably Golden States ain't ready,
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  Speaker 1: it's too early. We'll look at it this way. You're
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  Speaker 1: not a Lakers fan? Yeah, well ask me who Cleveland playing? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: put this in perspective, who Cleveland? Who Lebron playing. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you guys the question, what are your feelings
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  Speaker 1: on d Wade leaving? I'm proud of d Wade, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm proud too. I mean, I know he retired, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I know, Steve, you really liked his game.
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  Speaker 1: I love his game. Man. He's a he's a great player,
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  Speaker 1: a great person, and I just think that he's he's
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  Speaker 1: one of the great ones. He's getting out while he's
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  Speaker 1: kids steal ball. All right, coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, Season eight people, Season eight of Game
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  Speaker 1: of Thrones is this Sunday night, and we will talk
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  Speaker 1: about it right after this. Yes, you're listening to show?
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  Speaker 1: You know, salt from Salt and Pampa. She want to
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  Speaker 1: highlight you about this. You know that, don't you? What? Man? Girl,
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  Speaker 1: I just didn't know what you were talking about. All right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk about something everybody knows about. Uh, that is
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  Speaker 1: a game of Thrones. Okay. Winter winters can really last
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  Speaker 1: a long time. Summers span decades too. The struggle for
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  Speaker 1: the Iron throne begins this Sunday. Same. Yeah, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna be able to watch it this Sunday. I gotta
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  Speaker 1: wait till all of them over. Now, are you full
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  Speaker 1: seasons behind? That's why I was just asking, are you
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  Speaker 1: all called? I'm actually caught up, sir. Okay, you've watched it.
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  Speaker 1: I just being watched the wall go down. Yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: saw the dragon get up over there because the Whitewater
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  Speaker 1: got their damn dragons, dragons, damn wall down. Everybody got
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  Speaker 1: get about here the damn dragon. Now the White Waters coming, Neil,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll tell you what's gonna happen after y'all talk. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to see John's No. Just let's get
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  Speaker 1: some theme music. Yeah, okay, come on, come on, and
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  Speaker 1: your your favorite character, Steve. I know it's carry hunt.
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  Speaker 1: Shut up, shut up? What you know it's on the way.
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  Speaker 1: That's when you know it's coming. Okay, So Steve, come
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  Speaker 1: on with your predictions, right hold on, let me get
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  Speaker 1: my breath. He gonna tell you. It's about to happen,
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  Speaker 1: all right. When we laugh left, okay, come on, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: when we laugh left. Whitewalker okay, went out to the
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  Speaker 1: lake and pull it dead, dragging out they did, ye,
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  Speaker 1: pull him out and gave him blue eyes. Now he did,
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  Speaker 1: but he on eighteen. Now, so the head white Walker
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  Speaker 1: I call him Skelly Lly, got up on his back
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  Speaker 1: and his ass over there to the wall white Walkers
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  Speaker 1: and trying to get in that wall for the beginning
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  Speaker 1: of time. That's right. They had that damn five breathing dragon,
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  Speaker 1: blowing blue fire, running that damn wall down. White folk
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  Speaker 1: running there and there I don't and who you is,
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  Speaker 1: black white Latino? Your ass scared of fire? Yeah, So
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  Speaker 1: they got out, and so now they're heading out. And
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  Speaker 1: now they got to go and get John Snowneil and
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  Speaker 1: round of all the different clans because now they got
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  Speaker 1: to come together because they all got to go to
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  Speaker 1: walk against the white Walker. So now while the whitewalkers
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  Speaker 1: is coming called, they slow in hell. You know they're dead, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, those done trock they're rocking. So they take
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  Speaker 1: a long time. So they own horses and stuff running
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  Speaker 1: here to come here to come, oh Lord, here to come,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of people you know. And but the
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  Speaker 1: white walker walking, Yeah, you're calling white walker because take
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  Speaker 1: a long time. Always looked like they're walking this white
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  Speaker 1: snowy white runners, the white white white short. So they
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  Speaker 1: don't get back. They gotta get everything together. Somebody gotta
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  Speaker 1: go tell that white girl Kalisa it all Haler broke up.
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  Speaker 1: One of her dragons is down. But he coming back
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  Speaker 1: with blue eyes because they're gonna have some witnesses from
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  Speaker 1: the wall. They're gonna tell her the dragon his hat
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  Speaker 1: with the blue eyes, I dash shay, the dragon his hell.
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  Speaker 1: And it's they call a white locker that John Snow
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  Speaker 1: that fold the season go out. Y'all need to know
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  Speaker 1: that John Snow gonna get killed. Yeah, he coming back.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody gonna die in this hill. Well see this is
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  Speaker 1: a very last season of gonna kill everybody because you
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  Speaker 1: can't say they living called where you don't want Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want John Snow an got to go. He
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  Speaker 1: hadn't been going already. You didn't want him go on
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  Speaker 1: the first time, so he bought him back. They can't
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  Speaker 1: do it twite, right, they can't. So they're gonna take
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  Speaker 1: John Snow out, John Snow on trip. Now, John Snow,
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  Speaker 1: you know that white girl he liked that was wintering? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: wold yeah, wining. So they always got on first coach,
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  Speaker 1: so I don't call him wildings, I call him withintering.
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  Speaker 1: They always win. And Steve, he married her in real life.
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  Speaker 1: That's his wife in real life. Yeah, he married her
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  Speaker 1: in real life. He did. Yeah, that's his wife. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's his wife real for real. They married man in
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  Speaker 1: real life in real life? Is she married the hell
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  Speaker 1: in the snow? They rolled plans gonna be off the change, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because she didn't try to kill him three turns. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know anything, John Snow. She said, I ain't man,
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  Speaker 1: nobody tried to kill me. A no damn movie. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, it's gonna be a whole lot of that. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna have to get together with a couple more
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  Speaker 1: tribes that they wasn't trusted. So they all admit they
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  Speaker 1: all gonna had to get together. Okay, because about to
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  Speaker 1: get funking, and we got team up against white walkers.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna kill all the white walkers. But right for us,
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  Speaker 1: over with the lady, the white lady with the dragons. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: gonna convince the blue eyed dragon that that the blue
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  Speaker 1: eyed dragon love for hus greater than being a white walker.
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  Speaker 1: Drag around that blue founder, white walking, kill all them
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  Speaker 1: damn white Yes, yes, yes, yes, no, that's gonna help. Yeah,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I'm righting this hill all right? All right? Listen, thank
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: you Steve for that. I can't wait to watch man
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: coming up the nephews in the building with run that
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: prank back, and probably some more Game of Thrones with
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Steve right after this. You're listening to show coming up
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour and entertain him at news. Wow,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Wendy Williams filed for divorce. Yeah, how are you doing?
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Actress Laurie Laughlin m thought the prosecutors were bluffing about
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: jail time. Girl. This is not a game, this course,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: yeah it is. This is real life, all right, all
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: right now, the nephew is here, would run that brank back?
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: What you got, nap, go big goal? I gotta doing,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: go big running? Kay? Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Darnel. Darnell,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: see this, Darnell. How you doing? This is Scott with bigger,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: bigger and better, where we make you larger in charge
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: how you doing today? Scott? Who? I'm Scott and I'm
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: with Bigger and Better where we make you large and
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: in charge. I'm good Scott. Look what's up? We were actually,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: uh given a phone call by your wife? Your wife?
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Is that correct? Yeah? Okay? Well, um, you know your
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: wife's um, your wife's birthday is coming up pretty soon?
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Is that right? Yeah? Yeah, so a couple of weeks. Yeah,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: it's coming up. Okay. Have you have you decided on
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: getting or anything or have you purchased anything yet? No? No,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I got a couple of days in mind. Um. Well, actually, uh,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: we got a call from from I think we've got
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: something that's gonna that's gonna really help you guys. And
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: and something I think that she wanted to recommend that
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: something that you probably wouldn't wouldn't think about getting all
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: is okay? And racking my brain? So I'm actually gave
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: us a call. She's actually had an idea, you know
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: what she would really really like for her birthday present?
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: So what's her name? You're company? Bigger and Better? Um,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: like I said, she called you. I'm sorry she called
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: you to is me I deal on what I should
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: get her for her birthday? Uh, yeah, well this is
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: this is something that's a little a little different, and
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: it's something that you probably would never in a million
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: years think of. But here at Bigger and Better, where
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: we make you large and in charge, we actually do
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: some things that we definitely know you wouldn't have thought of.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: So I definitely understand her giving, um, what's your name
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: against Sam Scott, Scott Scott, get to the point what
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: you're selling. Actually let us know that there's some things
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: that are really really lacking between you guys, and she
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: would very much like for her birthday where you can
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: be a lot more well endowed. So you know, that's
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: what we do here at Bigger and Beat, We actually hello,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: what I could be more more well? In doubt? Sure,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: So I think really what's going on is beyonc is
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: really not satisfied right now. She called you to tell
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: you that I'm not what you meet willing doubt my junk.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: So you're you're, you're, you're, you're you're inadequate. You know
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: what I mean? You're you're Uh, I guess maybe maybe
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: very impotent. I'm not sure, but are you kidding me?
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: What's the name of this company? Bigger and Better? Where
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: we make you larger in charge, and right now you
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: know you're not. You're not larger in charge, and we
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: want to get you that way, able to come in
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: for a consultation, your consultation. I'll tell you what. I'm
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: gonna call her right now, because it usually right now. Okay,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her. We're we're trying to do. Just
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: do you not do you not think you need to
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: come in? I don't even think I even be talking
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: to you, mister Scott, about whatever it's going on in
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: my bed room. I'm king, so I'm not even I'm
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: not even I don't even know what's going on whatever whatever.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: The first for me, it's gonna increase in the bedroom
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: is the first sign of denial. Right, I don't have
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: no no, I don't have no problems in the bed room. Okay,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: well you know I don't even why am I even
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: still on the phone with you? Okay, But sir, I
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: mean you, and I mean you don't have to wear
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: about here from she gotta something to kind of account
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: with you. Then you ain't got go ahead and call
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: is that out? Mister Burnel Let me say this. You
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: have a you have a very big ego. Sir. What
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I want to do is is you know but you're
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: not You're not as big as your ego. I want
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: to get you to that point. This is some crazy
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I've heard some crazy things people staying online. But you're
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: gonna call me talk about my wife called you saying
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: that I'm in adequate in the bedroom, Sir, you know what?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: And and and once again, I'm trying to I know you,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: you're just doing your job, Scott, but I'm gonna have
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: to call her right now. Okay, don't work. You're in denial.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I'm in denial you. Hello, sir. I really want to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: help you as much as I can. Listen, man, listen,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my wife on the phone right now. Okay,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I know you you got a job to do, but
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: what I need you to do right now? Stop calling me?
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: All right. I'm trying. I'm trying to be nice to
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: you because I'm sure whatever it is she she called you,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: and you just doing your job. If I'm trying to
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: get you in here to get a consultation so we
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: can get you further along on where you are. Consultation
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: a consultation, I don't even know consultation. I don't even
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: know a sisters from you, sir, You're you call me
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: no more? Man. Hey, you're small and I don't want
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: to make you bigger. You want to make me bigger.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: What's what? What is this any like? Bigger? Huh? What
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: kind of job is that? How do you even get
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: a job like that? You apply to this job any
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: when you're a high school job. I'm trying to get you.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to stop calling me man, mister darnel. I'm
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: still trying to help you get through this situation. Okay,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: are you willing to come in for a consultation? At
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: least we're coming in for a consultation. We can get
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: your further on where you are. Are you listening to me?
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: The only consultation we're gonna have is my sister in
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: your face? Did you call me again to tell you what?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I will come in for a consultation. Give me give
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: me your address and everything like that, all your information,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: and I will come down for a consultation. You're gonna
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: be there. I'm here, I'm here, I'm here the first
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: eight hours of the day, sir. What I want to
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: do is get you lined up with get your Let
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: me call my wife. I don't need no damn procedures.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Give me your info and you got to work out
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: here from us. No more? Okay, right now? Sure to
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: get up. I don't want to hang up on you.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: And I understand you're trying to do your job. You're small.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: You're small, and I'm trying to make you bigger. You. Hey, sir,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm trying to person. That's a little
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: small guy and I'm trying to help you with your problem. Now.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: If you're not gonna be appreciative of it, then I
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: don't even understand why. Your wife knows you're having your address?
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Why and we can have this conversation face to face.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: You don't know what your wife here. It doesn't matter.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: If I can get on the line, I can figure
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: out why she calls you because you're coming adequate many sir, sir,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: here's the problem. You're tiny and you don't want to
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: admit it. I ain't even getting you know me, man,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: You never see me. You don't know anything about me.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I can't even believe my wife would even call you.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: But just this is just how you do business. You
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: don't call me and call me. I'm tiny, sir, I'm
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: come to you. I'm not only the president, but I'm
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: also a client. Sir. I don't give up what you
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: are Okay, okay, And there are some other things that
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: let us know as well. What the would that mean?
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: She also wanted me to tell you that this is
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy from Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife just
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: prayed for called you bad man's funny man. I'm on
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: here over here looking at us in the mirror. Kind
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: of I thought I was good, but I got a
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: little nervous. Man, what's the baddest radio show in the land?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Come on now, you know it's a Stee Harvey radio show. Man.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: How y'all felt about it? Wow? You want to make
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  Speaker 1: shore Knoxville, Tennessee. Friday, April nineteen, The Nephew and Bruce
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  Speaker 1: Bruce will be in town at Knoxville Civic Auditorium. Tickets
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  Speaker 1: Virginia Beach Comedy Club. May second through the If that's it,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I'm coming up at the top of the hour while
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: they fight it out. Entertainment news right after this, you're
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at twenty after the hour,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: we're going to talk about celebrities, family members, friends, fans.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: They all paid their final respects to Nipsey Hustle at
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: a celebration of life memorial service yesterday at the Staples Center.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: But first in today's entertainment news, Wendy Williams has filed
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: for divorce from her husband, Kevin Hunter. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: a lot of people were wondering if she was ever
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: going to do it, and here it is. The split
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: comes after nearly twenty two years of marriage and most
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: recently Kevin's alleged mistress, Sharena Hudson having a baby. Wendy's
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: been going through a rough patch. She's been going through
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: a lot lately, living at a sober house and getting
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: round the clock help to deal with addiction issues. Wendy
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: and Kevin, who's also been her manager, you're for quite
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: a while, have been married for more than twenty years,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: as I mentioned, twenty two. They have one son together. Wow.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Who they be married twenty do you? Yeah? No? No,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Wendy been married not clarity, Clarity, who've been married? In him? No,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Wendy's been married? Wow. Yeah. If this was another celebrity,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: she would be talking about it big time, right about it.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: She would be. That's that's what she does. And I
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: also warned on TMZ, Shirley, did you hear this that
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: the papers were served to Kevin on the set of
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: the show? Oh? No, I didn't, because he's manager. He
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: was a producer EP. Yeah, he's an EP manager. And
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: they said they had extra security there just in case,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: you know, he was upset or you know, who are
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: you gonna trip with? Huh? I don't. But but let
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: me just say this, it's hard. It's easier. It's hard
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: to talk about yourself. It's way easier. I'm sure to
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: talk about other people's problems, but to talk about Lord,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: I don't wish that on anyone. We're here the best
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: hope she comes out on the other side a better
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: person and actress Lori Laughlin didn't anticipate getting jail time
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: in the college admission scandal. Excuse me. Yeah, Now that
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: she and her husband Massimo are facing up to forty
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: years behind bars, she's freaking out. She's also kicking herself
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: for not taking the deal that Felicity Huffman took. Turns
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: out that, yeah, Laurie Laughlin thought prosecutors were bluffing the
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: whole jail time thing. Who was the plea deal that
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: other ladyship four to ten months? Something like that? Four
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: to ten months? Yeah, I don't think they get in
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: a sentencing Parma. But she did plead guilty. We do
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, But have y'all not looked at y'all
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: keys and realize what they're not gonna be? Have y'all
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: not realized? Am I the only one? Have you not
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: looked at your kids? And do you not fens to
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: be president? I got a couple of that I know
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be president. You ain't been to be a
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: doctor or lawyer? I see that. So I'm not gonna
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: spend a half a million on you for something I
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: know you're not fensed to be. Why would I do that?
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Why would I do Why would I? Why would I
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: invest in that? You're not fensed to be that? You're
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: just keeping it real If you're not, you ain't your doctor,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: white doctor, stupid? You ain't fensed to be nothing other
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: than that? Wow? Wow, Well, anyway, she's seeing the light now,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Thank god, she's taking it seriously now forty forty years
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: and uh, she and her legal team are looking at
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: things quite differently. Now, Steve, what does she think though?
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I guess that you know, if what you if if
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: you up with some charges and the crime could hold
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: up to forty years, at what point do you start
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: thinking foe of them would be well yeah, yeah fo
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: days don't. But if you've been getting by and paying
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: for things and being rich and living this fabulous life,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I mean that's her world. So Dame, all right, we
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: gotta get to uh, why why I can't be rich
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: with your dumb ass Keith? Why can't we got ladies
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss and trip. Thank you very much everybody.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: This is a trip with the news. President Trump held
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: talks at the White House yesterday with South Korea's president,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: and after their discussions, both of you are stressed the
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: need for diplomacy, especially where it concerns getting nuclear talks
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: back on track between the US and North Korea. However,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: the President made it clear that any renewed discussions on
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: the North nuclear arsenal would not involve lessening of any sanctions.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Want sanctions to remain in place, and frankly, I had
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: the option of significantly increasing them. I didn't want to
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: do that because of my relationship with Kim Jong un.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I did not want to do that. I didn't think
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: it was necessary, as you know, a couple of weeks ago,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: I held it back. Trump added the quote, good things
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: came out of February's talks with North Korea's leader Kim John.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: I guess we'll have to see that. By the way,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: it looks like the Trump administration is still bent on
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: training the eyes of the nation on out of space.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: From you, I guess not. This president wants to establish
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: a sixth branch of the military that he wants to
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: call Space Force, and his job would be to protect
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: us interest from above real life, your emission to explore strength.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: That was Acting Secretary of Defense. I was trying to
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: get him, Patrick Shanahan, he was testifying before the sent
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: He want to hear what he said. Every member of
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: this committee has access to the classified threat picture. But
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: the bottom line is the next major conflict maybe one
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: or lost in space. That's what he says. That was
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Acting Secretary of Defense Patrick Shanahan testifying before the Senate
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Armed Services Committee about a sixth branch of the military
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: that the president wants to call Space Force. The City
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: of Chicago suiting actor Jesse Smallest. Shytown lawyers followed the
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: civil suit against the TV stars, seeking to recoup the
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: money spent on the investigation into his claim that he
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: was taunted an assaulted by two men because he's both
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: black and gay and attacked that the Chicago Police insists
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: never happened. Charges would drop, but he does have to
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: do some community service and he did have to forfeit
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: his bail. The US State departments come out with a
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: new list of thirty five countries Americans are being warned
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: to stay away from. They're the usual suspects like Iran, Iraq,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: and Libya, but Trindad and Tobago was on that list. Finally,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: some twenty one thousand people in Los Angeles Staples Center,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: along with tens of thousands of others all over social media,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: said goodbye yesterday the rapper, businessman, community activist Nipsey Hustle,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: including his fiance his Lady Love actress Lauren London, who
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: expressed both the heartfelt grief and gratefulness that she felt
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: love him my life. You know what it is. I'm
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: so grateful that I had you. I love you beyond
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: this earth and until we meet again. The marathon continues.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Back to Steve Harvey Morning Show You're listening to show
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Fansville Staples Center on Thursday morning to pay their final
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: respects to Nipsey Hustle. The underlying message of Nipseys celebration
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: of life was that the marathon continues. That was also
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: the name of his clothing store. Of family and friends
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: took the stage to share memories of him. Nipsey's girlfriend
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Lauren London spoke during the family tribute's portion, as did
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Nipsey's mother. His brother Sam also Snoop Dogg, and Minister
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Lewis Farcon spoke. Among the twenty one in attendance were
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Nip's famous friends like Kendrick Lamar, Chance the Rapper, Cassie
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: master P and Romeo and President Obama sent a heartfelt
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: letter and Stevie Wonder spoke and he spoke about gun control.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: Take a listen, stronger guns. It's unacceptable. It's almost like
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: the world is becoming blind. I pray that we will grow.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: I pray that the leaders who have a responsibility to
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: perpetuate life, we'll do it by making sure that the
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: laws will make it so very hard for people to
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: have guns and to take their frustrations out to kill life.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I'm very happy that in his short life he was
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: able to motivate people, and I hope that it motivates
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: you enough to say, listen, enough of people being killed
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: by guns and violence. I hope that we don't just
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: talk about it, but we be about it to make
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: a difference for our future. Wow. Powerful and so true.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: You know, Look, look, man, to get the gun laws
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: in place, we're going to have to change so many things.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: The number one thing is the NIA cannot be one
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: of the number one contributors to the Republican Party. You
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: don't understand that they are one of the top contributors,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: if not the top contributor to the Republican Party. They
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: back Republican candidates. If you come out and speak against
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the right to carry in arms in this country, they
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: pull the money from you. Not only do they pull
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: it from you, they put it behind your opponent. And
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: these people are not willing to give up their power,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: position or money to save nobody like that. Right. There
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: is the ugly, ugly truth of this country. Because we're not,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: by any stretch of imagination, largest country in the world,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: but we have the most gun violence depths of any
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: of them, and we have the most inmates of any
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: of them. And we're making mistakes, man, we are making mistakes. Yeah.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Here were the number one drug using country. Yeah, I
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: don't know, nobody use more drugs than us. Yeah, all right,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four after the hours Steve Lauren
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: London's beautiful speech about the love of her life. We'll
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: listen to that when we come back right after this.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Lauren London, Nipsey Hustle's love and mother
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: of his children, of his child gave a beautiful speech
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: about the love of her life Nipsey Hustle at a
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: celebration of life memorial service. Um, it was a beautiful service.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: His brother Sam spoke very eloquently. I loved what he
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: said about his little brother Snoop dog. I mean, so
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: many wonderful speakers. Know Sureley, I'll say this, I've never
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  Speaker 1: lost you know, my wife, my lover, and she lost
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  Speaker 1: her man hellover, you got to be an incredibly strong
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  Speaker 1: person to talk at that funeral. Yes, lord, this is
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: what Lauren London said. Take a listen. You've given me
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  Speaker 1: the opportunity to really love a man. You've been with
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  Speaker 1: me while I've been sick. Through all my fears, you
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: have encouraged me and inspired me to reach higher. I've
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: learned so much about myself with you. You've been my
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: turn up and my church. I wouldn't want to go
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: through this journey with anyone but you. I look up
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  Speaker 1: to you in a lot of ways, and I'll strive
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: to educate myself more like you have. And when we
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: are at odds, I feel defeated and sad knowing that
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: we are so much better than that. I just want
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  Speaker 1: you to know that you've been You've been the greatest
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: boyfriend to me. You weren't perfect, but I would never
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: ask you to be. You and I work, we fit,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and you're the coolest guy in the world to me. Still,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: I love you so much, unconditionally. My truth is this,
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna give up on you. My love and
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: my devotion is to you. And I sent that January
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: twenty first, twenty nineteen. I had to write something because
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: I've never felt this type of pain before. But I
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: know that God is alive. But bear with me. All
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: his soul was majestic. He was the strongest man that
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I ever knew, a gentle father, a patient leader, a
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: divine light. He was brilliant. He researched everything, completely self taught,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: constantly seeking knowledge. He would he would go to bed
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: and listen to these audio books and his headphones, and
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I would tease him, but that really is what I
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: thought was the coolest ever about him. And he would
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: wake up in the morning and play music for the
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: kids and light a sage and burn it around the
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: house and just make sure that our energy going outside
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: would be uplifted and that we could handle the day.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: You know, my pain is for my two year old
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: that probably won't remember how much his dad loved him. Um,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: this is something that you know, I never I don't
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: really understand, but I know that aramis always used sets
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: people that you experienced them, and I'm so honored and
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: blessed that I got to experience such a man. I
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: know everyone is hurting, but I'd like to say something
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: to my city, Los Angeles. Y'all from our LA stand up,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: because this pain is really ours. You know, we know
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: what it meant to us. We lost an incredible soul.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: We lost someone very rare to us, and we lost
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: a real one and we won't ever be the same
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: but in Hustle's words, because he used to always say this,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: the game is gonna test you. Never fold, stay tin
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: toes down. It's not on you. It's in you. And
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: what's in you they can't take away. And he's in
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: all of us. It's an Airmy is the love of
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: my life. You know what it is. Grief is the
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: final act of love. My heart hears you. I feel
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: you everywhere. I'm so grateful that I had you. I
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: love you beyond this earth and until we meet again.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: The marathon continued. You're listening, all right, guys. Coming up
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry letter for today, the subject What's wrong
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: with her? Chipping in? But right now the nephew is
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: here with today's frank phone call. What you got? Neff?
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  Speaker 1: You know what I ain't gonna I ain't gonna like
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: really make this all that. I ain't gonna do that.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say it like this, this my dad's favorite.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Oh can I have your kid? Man? That's all I'm
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: gonna say that. You know what I'm saying. I ain't
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: don't go into detail, just can I have your kidding? Hello. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a brother, Conny. This is kind
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: of how you're doing. Brother. This is Deacon Patterson called
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: him from the church. How you doing today, Uh, Deacon Patterson. Yeah,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: just doing fun and yourself, sir, I'm doing good, doing good.
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  Speaker 1: And you know the churches behind you on what you're
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: going through. When we were praying for you, man, we
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: know all about the you know you're going in the
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: surgeon on Friday to get your get your prancers removed.
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  Speaker 1: So I wanted to give you a call, man, have
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: a word of prayer and let you know that we
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  Speaker 1: all are pulling for you, and we know that that
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: the man upstairs are gonna pull you through this successful. Well.
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  Speaker 1: God blessing keep you, uh that, deacon, God blessing keep
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  Speaker 1: you because I tell you I'm going through something here.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Me and my wife, we've been talking about it and
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: we've been praying on it and it she was a
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: wonderful thing to know that your church is with you
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: and and y'all thinking about me and prayer. I've really
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: had to take this, this to the Lord. This is
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: a serious thing with me and I ain't never had
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: an operation before in my life, and a right. I
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: know I needed my wife and made it clear. The
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: doctor made it clear that I believe I'm ready to
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: go forward because it was that Deacon Patterson. Yes, yes,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: that's right, Dicon Proteron. I haven't I haven't been. I've
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: been in the church probably about probably about eight months now.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: You've pretty much been out most of the time. Yes,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I have been out of you. Yeah. Yeah, so I've
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: seen you a couple of times. But I wanted to
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: call and and and and put a word in for
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you and let him and you know, let you know
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: that we're all praying for you to church. He's the Lord.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Can't you get back? And and we know out for Friday.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna definitely be a great success. Yes, and we're
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: gonna give the victory to who the victory. Yes, he's
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: the victory. Yet, let me let me have a word
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: of prayer with your brother Conlin, if you don't mind,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: just about your head from me. Father God, we as
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: right now, We asked right now that you touch brother
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: Connelly as he goes in on Friday, please put your
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: hands on him. We ask Father that you hold on
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: to the doctor that's getting ready to go and lay
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: to put surgery on. Yes, we asked that you make
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: sure that the doctor it's got a strong eye on
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: that morning walk with him. We asked that that that
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: he got a steady hand when he got the scalpel
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: in his hand. We asked that you hold own to
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: him please as it goes into a surgeon, because we
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: know comes side the mor the victory gonna belong to
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: brother Connley and the Lord. Lord. We know all of this.
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  Speaker 1: But we we asked that you take that pincress and
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: you remove it out successfuly, close him back up like
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: it will never been into the end before walk with Nick.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: That's what we're asking, we ask your Lord. At the
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: same time that they're removing this pincreus. Lord, we asked
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: that your reach around his backside and we asked that
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: you touch his kidney. Lord, touch his kidney and make
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: it hold. Make it a hundred and ten percent. We
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: want you to make that that kidney like it's been
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: that best kidneys. Deacon, that's deacon, Deacon whoop, pat Deacon passing. Yes,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: you know you say they do, sir, They're just nothing
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: wrong with my kidney, Deacon. I'm doing I'm doing fine.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: The Lord is Lord has denated, Well, he's gonna work
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: on my pancris. That's what the doctors operating the then
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: me forward and that's what they're playing to remove. So really,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: my kidnes is fine. They did what they called when
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: they'm in my eyes and everything else is fine. They
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: ain't working on nothing but my pancres, sir, right right right,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Let me let me say I'm glad you brought it
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: up with this. This this when we want to call you.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: What I want to ask you, and I know we
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: we you know we've never met. What I was gonna
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: ask you was yeah, and I know this is. I
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: hate to come at you in the final out and
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you're getting ready to go out, sir and all that,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: But if you don't mind it when they go in
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: on Friday morning and remove that pancres out, do you
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: think that they could go in and get one of
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: your kidneys? Because I need one? Hold hold on, just
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: met deacon up? What did you say? What you say?
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: See see see what else? I've been going through myself
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: up with a little ailment. And I'm wondering if if
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: if I need a kidney, and I'm wondering if you
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: can give me one of yours when they go in
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: and get your pankers. They're going already to have you open.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Did you say you wanted him to take one of
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: my kidneys? Yeah, and give it to me because I
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: need one. You need a kidney? Yeah? What what was
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: I mean? You already gonna be landing the open? Wait
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: a minute, mister, you need a kidney? I need help
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: with my packers. You will call me with some back
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: that man, this ain't no work in the Lord. Now
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: you say you're a deacon like I said, Dickon Patterson
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: my name, But see what I'm asking you? What you are? Man?
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: Brother Connin What harm is it if you already open
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: and land on the table. Oh you ain't heard a
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: danger I saying? Have you? I say, I'll be man,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: you're crazy. It's hell. Now what I'm gonna have to do.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to call the pastor because here's something
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: going on here. You say you knew you managed to
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: mister man, you too do to know who you're talking to.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: What what I'm saying is you have took two Look
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: like you as you say they did the Mr. You
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  Speaker 1: don't give up what I said they did? Man, I
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: got two kidneys. You got to one of yours bad.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: That's your problem, mister. Let me tell you something. I'm
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: trying to get well, and you calling with this. You
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: say you're a new beacons, you show ills and you
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: won't be at the church long. I tell you that,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: because if I ever get good to your sister, we
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: got some reston to do. What is it gonna hurt
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: for you to give me one of them kidnings and
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: both them? If both them kidness is good, it ain't
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: gonna hit them. Thinks you ain't getting my kidney? Man,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna h what's wrong with you? Say? Man? All
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you're gonna be olden and laying
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: on the table, what is it gonna hurt? Old man?
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: You're gonna kill I'm open laying on the table. What
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: kind of a tell you in charge of? Mister? Let
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. Obviously I need to meet you
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: for I get to the hospital and then I can
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: hit the pick kitten in yours and I can tell
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: you that we out you're gonna feel them? How about that?
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: It's too many games going on in the church to day.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I'll be you're gonna call and talk to me out
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: of one of my kitteness. Man, I'm trying to live
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: just like you, trying to let the Lord take care
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: of me, because what you're talking about it ain't got
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: a thing to do with Jesus. You can kiss my
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: and get off my phone. That's what you can do.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: Can I say one more thing to you? What is
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: you listening to me? Man? And don't listen to you
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: and you ain't talking about nothing that's got nothing to
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: do with what's going on with me. Mister, you're running
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: the game. If I could get to y'all put Lord
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: in your But can I just say one more thing
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna let you go? Is you listening
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: for what this is? Nephew timing from the Steve Harby
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got franked by your daughter. Oh Lord,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: have them that girl. Lord have mercy, Lord have much
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Jesus you all right? Please forgive me Lord him mercy. Whoa, y'all.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to Lord him Mersus. My heart is
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: power peton hill, Lord Him, Mercy, Jesus, Brother, Commy, I
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: gotta ask you one more thing, man, what is the
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: That's my dad's favorite right there. Now, wow, that's Papa
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: my favorite right down, Baby, you did that? I have
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: your kids all that is why? Why why why they
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: got you open? Yeah? Yeah, if you don't mind, can
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: they can they reach around and grab one of your kidneys?
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: Because I need you one. He ain't nothing wrong with
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: my kid it's my pancre. It's pagan you talking in
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: the prayer? You put that boy? Oh man, that's classic
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: right there. Knoxville, Tennessee. The Nephews coming to town Friday,
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  Speaker 1: the fourth, Virginia Beach Comedy Club. The Nephew is on
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: the way. That is May second through the fourth. The
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  Speaker 1: Nephew is coming to town. I'm through, I'm through. I
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: didn't say it enough, alright, nephew, alright, nephew, can I
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: reach around and get one of your Coming up next?
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: It's the Strawberry letter subject what's wrong with her? Chipping in?
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: We'll get into it. Right after this, you're listening to
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time now for
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
• 54:36
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• 54:40
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• 54:45
  Speaker 1: reading yours live on the air, just like we're reading
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: this one right now. Buckle up, hold on tight. We
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is. That's straw very alright,
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: was kind of prank callish. All right, here we go.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: What's wrong with her chipping in? Is the subject? What's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: wrong with her chipping in? Here's Stephen Shirley. I'm a
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: hard working man. I worked from sun up to sundown,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: and I do well for myself. Two years ago, I
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: met a very beautiful woman who I can see myself
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: being with for the rest of my life. About a
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: year into the relationship, we moved in together and started
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: planning for the future. I was recently laid off from
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: my job and I had to find a new one.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: She was not working at the time. Money was getting tight,
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. I asked my girlfriend
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: if she could get a part time job just to
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: help out with expenses. She said, you know you are
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: the man, therefore you're the one that's supposed to provide.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: I wanted to do fifty fifty, but she says no roommate.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing and would says she's yeah, oh,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right. I didn't think that sounded right. I
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: wanted to do fifty fifty, but she says she's no roommates.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing and went to Facebook
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: for advice. It backfired and I got called a little boy.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: There are a lot of single women who feel this way.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: I thought relationships or marriages were partnerships. I don't make
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: six figures, surely, and I'm not going to be this
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: girl's father. Please help. Okay, Okay, if you don't make
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: six figures, that's okay. It's whatever works for you, guys,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: in your relationship. And clearly this is not working because
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: you're the only one working. You are working, though you
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: may not make as much as you used to make.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: You said you took a pay cut, but she's not
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: working at all. Now, you guys have to develop set
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: up some ground rules, some boundaries here. Now she's not
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: gonna work at all? Is she able to work? Is
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: she capable of working? I mean, I get the whole.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: You know, you're the man, you're the provider type thing
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: in a marriage. I mean that that's biblical. But does
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: she expect you just to take care of her? She's
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: not going to work at all? What does you mean,
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: like she that doesn't even enter? How she going to
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: take care of herself if you weren't around. I'm not
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: really understanding this. Is she just going to get another
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: man to take care of her and provide for her?
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: Is that where she's at with it? You know, you
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: guys are starting off this relationship on the wrong foot.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: You'll never make it to the future that you want
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: to see with this kind of lack of communication and
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: just lack of partnership. A marriage and a relationship is
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: a partnership. Two of you have to agree on something
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: and you're this is very very basic. If you can't
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: agree on this, then you guys aren't gonna make it. Really,
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: you're not, Steve, what's wrong with her? Chipping in? It's
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: so many things wrong in this letter, man. And I'm
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: a hard working man. I work from SunUp sundown. I
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: do well for myself. That's nice, brother, appreciate you telling
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: us that, you know, two years ago, I met a
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: very beautiful woman who I can see myself being with
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. Now, that's an interesting
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: statement to make. Before he tell us what's happening in
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: this letter, he says he's a hard working man, works
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: sell him sometimes, but he had to met a beautiful
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: woman that he can see himself with the rest of
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: his life. That's what he said. By the year ago
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: into the relationship, we moved in together. Now you're so
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: happy with her, you to move in whatever she that
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  Speaker 1: beautiful dog I got you and we started playing for
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  Speaker 1: the future because because you said you want to be
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  Speaker 1: with her the rest of our life, you saw you
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  Speaker 1: scooped up. Bam. Now you casually mentioned I was recently
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  Speaker 1: laid off from my job, okay, and I had to
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  Speaker 1: find a new one. Well, she was not working at
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: the time. See that? Do you all see the gap
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  Speaker 1: in here? Now? She wasn't working at the time or
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: was he? Was he working when she first met him,
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  Speaker 1: because all he wanted was this beautiful woman and they
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  Speaker 1: moved in together. So I don't know if the woman
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  Speaker 1: was once working and she stopped working. But I do
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  Speaker 1: know he was working and said he was recently laid
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  Speaker 1: off and I had to find a new job. She
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: was not working at the time. Money was getting tight,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. That don't make no
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: damn sense. The money was getting tight, so I took
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: a pay cut. What that means was he said he
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: took another job because they was laid off. Now money
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: was getting light because he took a pay job. Now
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: block money was getting late. You ain't take a pay cut.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: You went to work, right, this is what this job paid.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: You ain't take a pay cut. You went to I
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: got a company to pay less because it's better to
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: have something than nothing, exactly. So that's what that means. Bro.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: I asked my girlfriend if she can get a part
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: time job just to help out with explosion. She said, yeah.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: You the man that for you, the one that's supposed
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: to provide. You know why, because that's what you made
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: her think. You made her think that dog because remember
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: you never mentioned that she wasn't working in the beginning.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: You said at the time when you got laid off,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: she wasn't working either. Now she had the house with you,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: she ain't knowing you to make a move. You the man.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: So now you made a move and it wasn't enough.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: Now you want her to go to work. Then she say, oh,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: she called you on it. Now I understand what you're saying.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: But here where your mistake you keep making. I wanted
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: to do fifty to fifty, but she said she ain't
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: no roommate. Hold on, man, You invite the woman into
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: your house to get a house together because she beautifully
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: you can see yourself spend the rest of lightwooll. Then
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: when stuff got hard, you want her to chip in.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: She says she didn't want to chip in. Now she
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: wrong for that. She did wrong for that. But then
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: you said you wanted to do fifty fifty. Now you
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: want to turn her into your woman, your wife, and
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: the one you could spend the rest of your life with.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: To a fifty fifty roommate. I don't blame the girl
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: for saying ain't your roommate. So I did the worst thing.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: Here you go, see now you keep stacking on stupid.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing. I went to Facebook
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: for advice. Who the hell knows something on faithbook? You
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: went to social media for some advice? Well, hate him up.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: Boy boy, you went to social media for some advice.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: Who you think on social media? Man? Have you read
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: the comments that be on social media? I wouldn't they asked.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: They asked an opinion of nothing, because you're not gonna
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: get a general consensus of nothing. All right, Steve, hang
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: on to your response. We'll have part two coming up
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour, subject what's wrong with
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: her chipping in? We'll be back right after this. You're
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: listening show, all right? Come on, Steve, let's recap today's
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, and the subject is what's wrong with her
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: chipping in? With that woman? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, she's so fine.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: You could see yourself living with her the rest of
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: your life. A year too, it y'all? Moving everything? Grave, man,
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: you work some up to sundown. You're working, man. You
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: never mentioned she was working anhe but all of a
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: sudden you tell me that you got laid off. So
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: when you got re laid off, you had to find
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: a new job. She wasn't working. Money was getting tight,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. I mean, you wouldn't
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: take a job to pay left? I asked my girlfriend
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: she could get a part time job, just to help
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: out with expecially she said, I ain't gonna do this. Here,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: you the man that for you, the one that's supposed
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: to provide. Then you said, here, what you got stupid
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: in the matter? I want to do fifty fifty. But
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: she says she ain't no roommate, and I can understand
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: she's right for that. That she was wrong for teking.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: She ain't taking no part time job to pitch in.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: That was wrong. So then you got stupid in then
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: and you went on Facebook for advice? Boy? Boy, what
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: is wrong with you? You went to social media for
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: some advice? Do you have any idea? Who owns social media?
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: I do. I do an interview, I get talked about
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: like a dog. I jump around doing a que hot.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: I get a praise life and I'm so dad. Yeah,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: I'm I do a cute hot on a video and
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: I get praised. Hold up? Can I just say that
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: video gave me life? Yeah? I just say that. But
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: ain't he the same? Yeah? Boy? I love that video. Boy,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: But you think, let's see you you you gotta understand
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: what it is, so sir, Then you say you went
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: to Facebook for advice. It backfired and I got called
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: a little boy. Well, you know why backfired because you
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: thought everybody were gonna be in agreement with you, but
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: they wasn't. And you know what, man, a lot of
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: these women technically are correct. Even though I feel she
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: was wrong for saying I'm not getting no part times,
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: I'll help you with no experence. I felt that was filed.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: I really did, but don't. Yeah, you ain't doing everything
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: you can do to step up. You really not. And
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: I just thank you coming up short. A lot of
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: single women who feel this way. I thought relationships or
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: marriages were partnerships. You ever said. I want you to
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: understand what you think the partnership is. Let's go back
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: to what your idea of what you wanted to do.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: You said you wanted to do fifty fifty. I'm married.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: Can I explain something to you on behalf of Shirley
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: and Carlin and Tommy. Marriage is never fifty fifty. I
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: don't know who told that to you, but it's not.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: Marriage is eighty five fifteen, and you're gonna be damn
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: lucky with that fifteen because most days is you get
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: anywhere from nine to twelve percent. That's what marriage really is.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: Fellas you don't get to be fifty fifty. Stop thinking
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: you're getting into a relationship and it's gonna be fifty fifty.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: And you want me to tell you why it's not
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: fifty fifty and it will never ever be fifty fifty
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: because you can't do what a woman does. It's why
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: it can't be fifty fifty. Let me just shut the
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: argument down before you're stupid behind tries to make warm.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: They can make babies, they can bring human life into
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: this world. You can't. I don't care if you can
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: make six figures a year, you can't make a single baby.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: You can't tell me your children ain't worth a hundred thousand.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: You can't tell me your child Somebody told me I'll
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: give you a million dollars I take your child from you.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't even entertain that, not no decent person would.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: So now guess what, Since you can't make a baby,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: how to hell is it fifty fifty? How help me? Brothers,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: it's not fifty fifty. Just from that thing along, and
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: all of you that have children must respect that fact.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: And if you don't have a child, and one day
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: you will respect that fact. But I got news for
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: you where all of us can respect. You wouldn't be
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: here if it wasn't for a woman. They ain't a
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: dude living would be here if it wasn't for a woman.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: It's a woman gave you life somewhere. Well, y'all get
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: this fifty fifty from bros. Just ain't how this work.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: It's eighty five fifteen on a good day. You'll never
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: get more than fifteen. And you have to take this
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: fifteen and put your pants on and be a man
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: and accept the fifteenth. And it's a good thing. Fifteen
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: percent from a woman who gives you so much is
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: an outstanding Because you're eighty five is the equivalent of fifteen.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: That go, you're fifty fifty right now? That go your
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: fifty fifty right there, partner, And it's good. The fact
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: that they can give you the loving you need to
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: get out there and make it through another day. That
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: right there, that's a nub. I'll tell you what. That's
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: the way if she stopped giving you this item that
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: you have to have to survive as a heterosexual male,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: that thing that you have to have to survive, if
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: she stopped giving it to you, what's that worth to you?
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: Six figures eighty five fifteen. What is worth? It's worth whatever.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: She's not giving zero in this letter though he's sleeping
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: with her. She wrong for not wanting to help out
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: and wrong for Tim to to you that way. But
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: you double wrong if you think this thing fit to
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: be fifty fifty. Now advice I have for you since
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: you don't want to Facebook and now you don't, can't
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: to a straw bad letter if you do it every
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: thing we're talking to God. You need to break up. Yeah,
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: you need to bring come and start over until you
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: get an understanding. And that's all I got to say. Peel,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: how you want to feel about me? I ain't on faithbook.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: You called me feel all right? Thank you, sir. You
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: f M and then check out our Strawberry Letter podcast
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: on demand. Okay, now, coming up in ten minutes, Steve
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: is here with his tax tips. All right, Steve's tax
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: Yes better? Who better? This Monday is April fifteenth, you know,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: and that is tax day? Yes? Have you filed yet?
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening to the
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. The White House is pushing back
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: at the Democrats quest their request and quest to have
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump's tax returns released. Last week, House democrats requested
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: the release of the last six years of Trump's personal
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: and business tax returns. In an interview with Fox News,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: White House Acting Chief of Staff mc mulvaney was asked
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: whether Congress should get access to Trump's tax returns. He responded, no, never,
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: you know what, Never you know what. Let me tell
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: you something, man, I don't care anymore about his tax
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: returns because I already know what it's gonna say, and
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: it's not going to stop the people from voting from him,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: that's voting for him. They're gonna think, like he said,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: he's a really smart guy. And guess what what he's
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: done is probably legal. I could almost guarantee you that
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: it's just he has manipulated the loopholes to what they
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: fit perfectly into what he's doing. And even if it's
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: not legal, they're aren't gonna care. Nobody, Yeah, nobody cares.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: They just want him in office. Mulvaney continued, Steve saying
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: Democrats are demanding that the Irs turn over the document.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: This is not going to happen, and then they know it.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: This is a political stunt. The President gave a brief
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: explanation as to why his taxes are being scrutinized by
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: the I R S. Take a listen. I'm always under
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: ordered a change, but I've been under ordered for many
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: years because the the numbers are big. And I guess
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: when you have a name, you you're ordered it. Okay, Yeah,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: there's that up. Everybody cool with that? Now? Yes, yeah,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: it's not gonna because you have a name, you're ordered it.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: How about let's get a candidate that could beat him.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: How about that? You know what? I had Van Jones
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: on my show. He's gonna appear on the show. And uh,
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: you know. He took a lot of flak from quote
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: unquote black Twitter. Yes, there is no such thing as
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: black Twitter because Twitter is on by white folks. Is
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: just black folks tweeter, which is crazy. Yeah, and he
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: said he didn't care. And I listened to him talk man,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: and he was an interesting guy. He's very very smart
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: with what he did. And what President Trump did was
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: he passed this bill. I can't think of the name
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: of the bill, but let me give you the numbers.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: Four thousand inmates will be released this year. Okay, twenty
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: five thousand inmates will have their sentences shortened. These are
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: people who are in there for nonviolent drug related offenses.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: One hundred thousand women who are incarcerated will be able
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: to have their babies in prison without being shackle to
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: the bed. Do you know that if an inmate has
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: a baby in prison, the shackle to the bed. Yeah,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: they had to pass a law to stop that. And
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: he went and he kept meeting, meeting with Trump's people,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: and at first he was against it, and then he
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: understood what Van was saying and he gave it to
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: him and they passed the law. Well, just like Mary Ellis,
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: you know, with the help of Kim Kardashian got out out.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: So this is going to be a trend. You're saying,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: more and more people are going to get out. What's
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: what's the bigger part of it is what Van Jones
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: did because now he has it as a law, it's
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: a law that these people are going to get out.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: I don't have to tell you how many of them
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: people it's us. Oh yeah, you number for this now, well,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: four thousand of getting out this year. Twenty five thousand
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: had their sentences this reduced. I mean they were getting
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: some crazy because these was prison times from the eighties.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: You know when that crazy crack law came out. Yeah,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: you know that Clinton did. Did Did he say why?
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: I think it? Did he say why Donald Trump is
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: so into this? Yeah? He said because he wants to
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: do something right. I mean that was Van Jones's thing.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: He said he wants to do something right. You think
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: that's right? Stick, I think you want to do something right.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: You think that's the reason. You mean, do you really
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: think he wants to do something right? Well, if he's
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: doing it, what what difference do it make to us? Why?
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: See why he doing it? Because sometimes you know, in
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: trying to reach a peace with an enemy. Uh, the
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: why he wants peace ain't really the other side's part.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: As long as we get to be as long as
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: we each country stopped bombing each other. I'm pretty sure
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: that's what. Now, what's his motive behind it? I have
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: no idea. You don't know that. I can assure you
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: it has something to do with re election, Yes, because
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: I could assure you he wants to say this. Oh yeah,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: and you know what, and and he has every right
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: to do it because he's the one that did it.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: You know, so I'm pretty sure of that. But what
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: difference do it make? We don't have time because Van
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: Jones said, he said, all the inmates he interviewed, all
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: the ones he interviewed, hundreds thousands, he said, not one
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: of them said a man, don't get me out. Wild
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: Trump is okay, thank you, he said, not one of
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: them people say, hey, man, don't get me out, wild
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: trumping office. I don't want him getting credit for that.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: They just won't out. They need to be out. And man,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: he said some stuff that was like amazing. Man, he
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: told me some stuff I'm not gonna repeat. I'm gonna
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: just let y'all watch it. We'll tell everybody when it'll air.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: All right, perfect, all right, Well, um, before we get
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: out of here, Steve, you're not gonna get out of
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: here without giving us at least a couple of tacks tips. Now,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Number one. Pale send them people.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: They damn play with these people, tells you in the Bible,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: gives Caesar his dude. Come on, no, I don't know what.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is better pay people, right, yeah, man,
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: they are the one people who can get your check
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: and your bank account. They the one person. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: get your check and your bank account. I've had my
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: account frozen. Oh oh dog, We're gonna freeze it to
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: your pay us. I paid him. It was six weeks
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: for the own frozen. So they freeze it. And they
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: thought out later how they do it. Slow ass thought,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: the freeze is quick. I've had that happens to him.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: The frost is real, just like thirst. All right, listen
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, All eyes
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: are still on Tiger Woods. Right after this you're listening show,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, all eyes are still on Tiger Woods.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: The Master's Golf Tournament has started, and it's an unusual
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: sporting event because the most famous athlete in the tournament
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: by far is Tiger Woods, who happens to be considered
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: now an older golfer. Imagine that, yeah, imagine that right,
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: he started so young. Other than hardcore golf fans, nobody
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: really cares about the young golfers. Everyone is focused on Tiger.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: Golf is that one sport that guys can compete for
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: championships into their forties and even into their fifties. So
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: you and nephew play golf all the time. You gave
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: us tax tips last hour. How about some golfing tips
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: for those who golf? Whoa Steve, No, but we want
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: to hear your tips. You and your we ain't good.
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  Speaker 1: Oh but we are the best dressed golfer was owned
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  Speaker 1: the course. Your gears on fire? What okay you're saying
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  Speaker 1: we are you in agreement with that? Steve? I'm to
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: get golfer. I'm not a good golfer. Golf all the time. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people golf all the time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he go. He got Tommy golfs way more than me.
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  Speaker 1: He does. Oh, absolutely so Tommy goff way. I got
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: more time to him, he got more jobs. I crushed
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Tommy really will say that about everything, like great, Wait
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: a minute, he had a great thing. It was no
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: he Oh oh he's club speed is outstanding. Oh this
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: is another challenge. Me and Tommy played two rounds of golf,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: one round, not too just one. Well, you know, Tommy,
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: you could just do like we always do. What you know,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: when a boy Calhoun was living, it was me Blue
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  Speaker 1: Calhoun was actually good and you know me Blue. You
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  Speaker 1: know we could take no off. But we played for
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: three days when we go strong. You know. Now, me
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: and Blue we played a two day tournament. Okay, I'll
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: be blue by one stroke, So y'all would actually have
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: a tournament. I think it should be two days because
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: anybody can have a bad day, you know what I mean.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: We're gonna play. We're gonna play in Dubai because you're
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: not gonna fly out over there and playing Dubai where
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: you want to, man, we could play somewhere, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I hate dog a matter of fact, I'll come into
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: Houston and play at your favorite course. Oh much? Yeah,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: I make it light on you. Junior is ready to
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: put the money down. How y'all playing? Come on, timmy,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean now you know what you know,
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: I'm an old. I ain'timal running jumping for me. Well, listen,
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  Speaker 1: my tournament. It's September. Thirty miles are given. But we
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to play against each other that
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: you know, me and you can be the same little
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: team and we make it out on the same team.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: Golf tournament, boy, you know yeah, because in a golf tournament,
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: you play basketball in a forresome. We don't have like that.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: So come on talk to stop me and you where
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: you want to play. You all are so competitive. No,
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  Speaker 1: this is fine, you know, Julia, I can't run. I can't.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: You know you can step up the US. What course
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: do you like going to Pelican Hills? Pelican? We can
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: go to, you know, or the Marriott down in San Diego.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: I like golf out here because you're gonna have good weather. Well,
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: let me let me ask this. Can we play Pebble Beach?
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: You can't. I can only tall people play. Shut up, Julian, Hi,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: I can't, but you can't. What he's not tall him? What?
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with hy It's got
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of people his hype heads off? What is it?
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: Why can't where he got to get on the waiting list?
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: When is you playing? I can just go down there?
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: Oh you remember? Just what? Why I don't just go
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: down there? When you go down there? Well, we ain't
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: gonna play pepper Beach. Now, come on, it's too way
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: to crowd. Let's pick somewhere where we can get on
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: the teeth. All right, all right, well let's pick something
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  Speaker 1: in La. How about La? How about bears? Best in
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: last out here? Where? What do we have your tournament at?
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: Back in I'm a mon at bear best in June.
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  Speaker 1: Mountain Gate. That's what I mean. Let's do Mountain Geeah,
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: Mountain get Okay, I can get us at Mountain Gate. Okay,
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 1: all right, man. Now, f I was you, I wouldn't
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: ask to play Mountain Gate because I'm Greens. They're crazy. Okay,
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: you're playing the same greens an okay, So what do
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: you guys need to practice? He's golfing? Okay, alright, trash talk?
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: Can you trash talking golf? Well? No, I'm just saying
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: because it sounds like he's trash talking. So what's the
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: back gonna be? Oh, there's five dollars? Somebody just sucked
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: the Yeah, okay, my Bentley for your Biley. Oh damn,
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: that's my wife, and I don't know if I can
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: do that. No, you can't. I'll tell you. If it's
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: your wife you lost, you have to kill yourself. Yes,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: she really would, right back? Yeah, okay, okay, let's do
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: We'll do foundations. Charity work. Yeah, charity work. We'll do
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: charity work. Let's do. Let's do. Let's do charity work.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: You know, Harvey, if I lose five grand I pay
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: to yours. If you lose funation. Yeah. If not, you
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: you pay five grand of miles. Again, I don't do
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: that work giving back. Ye either way, we're giving back. Yeah,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: like huh, okay, just tell me when what you wanted?
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: He said, five grand? Five grand cool to each other charity. Yeah,
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: I'm in five. You want to make it ten? No,
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: I do not want to make I just ask say five.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: As soon as I pick a date, I just want
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: to know. Can we go? We just want go down
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: and drive right back. Man, let me look at my
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: calendar right now, Steve, universe that has a calendar, Our
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: calendars both have to work. Okay, okay, all right now
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: look when ain't nobody getting mad or none of that.
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: It's about topping now, man. Yeah, it's gonna be a fight.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: This is supposed to be fun. Oh, this ain't gonna
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: be fun. I ain't playing. Ask a question, Steve, Can
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: I ask a question? So, Tommy, you ain't gonna pull
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: the injuries. You don't need to be five hours, don't
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: you bet on me? No more? Oh? Can we go?
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: Because I will be out there with my golf gear game.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: We're going. Yeah, we're gonna be out there. Yeah, we
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: be in the golf cart at East Oh sure they
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: don't do blonde hair on golf course, Yes they do. Yeah,
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: minus pink. Now, by the way, hey man, I think
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: we could play Tommy where you at made twenty fifth
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: and twenty six. Hang on, let me take a look.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: Oh that's a Memorial Day weekend. I think I'm in Um,
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: I think I'm in Memphis, doll at chuckles. I think
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: I'm at Prescott Place. But let me look though. All right,
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: y'all gonna get it together, work it out, work out,
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: work it out. But you know what, you know what
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: I get out a lead? Chuckles? All right, out work
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: it out, coming out. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Uh. Lauren London, Nipsey Hustle's love and mother
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: of his children, of his child, gave a beautiful speech
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: about the love of her life, Nipsey Hustle at a
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: celebration of life memorial service. Um, it was a beautiful service.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: His brother Sam spoke very eloquently. I loved what he
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: said about his little brother Snoop dog. I mean, so
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: many wonderful speakers, you know, surely I'll say this. I've
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: never lost you know, my wife, my lover, she lost
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: her man hellover. You've got to be an incredibly strong
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: person to talk at that funeral. Yes, Lord, she's what
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: you do. This is what Lauren London said. Take a listen.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: You've given me the opportunity to really love a man.
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: You've been with me while I've been sick through all
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: my fears. You have encouraged me and inspired me to
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: reach higher. I've learned so much about myself with you.
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: You've been my turn up and my church. I wouldn't
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: want to go through this journey with anyone but you.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: I look up to you in a lot of ways,
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: and I strive to educate myself more like you have.
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: And when we are at odds, I feel defeated and
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: sad knowing that we are so much better than that.
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: I just want you to know that you've been You've
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: been the greatest boyfriend to me. You weren't perfect, but
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: I would never ask you to be. You and I work,
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: we fit and you're the coolest guy in the world
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: to me. Still, I love you so much, unconditionally. My
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: truth is this, I'm never gonna give up on you.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: My love and my devotion is to you, and I
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: sent that January twenty first, twenty nineteen. I had to
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 1: write something because I've never felt this type of pain before.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: But I know that God is alive. But bear with me.
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: All his soul was majestic. He was the strongest man
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: that I ever knew, A gentle father, a patient leader,
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: a divine light. He was brilliant. He researched everything, completely
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: self taught, constantly seeking knowledge. He would he would go
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: to bed and listen to these audio books and his headphones,
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: and I would tease him, but that really is what
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: I thought was the coolest ever about him. And he
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: would wake up in the morning and play music for
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: the kids and light a sage and burn it around
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: the house and just make sure that our energy going
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: outside would be uplifted and that we could handle the day.
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: You know, my pain is for my two year old
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: that probably won't remember how much his dad loved him.
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: This is something that you know, I never I don't
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: really understand, but I know that aramis always used sets
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 1: people that you experienced them, and I'm so honored and
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 1: blessed that I got to experience such a man. I
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: know everyone is hurting. But I'd like to say something
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: to my city, Los Angeles. Y'all from our LA stand up,
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 1: because this pain is really ours. You know, we know
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: what it meant to us. We lost an incredible soul.
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 1: We lost someone very rare to us, and we lost
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 1: a real one and we won't ever be the same.
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: But in Hustle's words, because he used to always say this,
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: the game is gonna test you. Never fold, stay tin
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: toes down. It's not on you. It's in you. And
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: what's in you they can't take away. And he's in
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: all of us. It's an ammis the love of my life.
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: You know what it is. Grief is the final act
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: of love. My heart hears you. I feel you everywhere.
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that I had you. I love you
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: beyond this earth and until we meet again. The marathon continued.
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve, Let's talk about
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: something everybody knows about. Uh. That is a game of Thrones. Okay,
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: Winter winters can really last a long time. Summer span
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: decades too. The struggle for the Iron throne begins this Sunday.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: Stay yes, Yeah, I ain't gonna be able to watch
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 1: it this Sunday. I gotta wait till all them over. Now,
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: are you gonna called you? Full seasons behind? That's why. Yeah,
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: I was just asking, are you all called I'm actual
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: and caught up, sir washing, I just being washed off.
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: I saw the wall go down. Yeah, I saw the
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: dragon get up over there because the White Walker got
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 1: the damn dragons, damn wall down. Everybody gotta get about here,
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: the damn dragon coming. Now, the White Walkers there coming, Neil,
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what's gonna happen after y'all talk. Yeah,
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to see John Snow, let's get some Yeah. Okay,
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: come on, come on, and your favorite character, Steve. I
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 1: know it's Terria Hunt. Yeah, the me and Tim Okay,
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: shut up, shut up? What you know it's it's on
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: the weight. That's when you know it's coming. Okay, So Steve,
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 1: come on with your predictions. Right, hold on, let me
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: get my breath. It's about to happen when we laugh left, okay,
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: come on still, when we laugh left, the White Walking okay,
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: went out to the lake and pull it dead, dragging
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 1: out they did. They pull him out, and they gave
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: him blue eyes. Now he dead but he on eighteen. Now,
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: so the head white walker, I called him Skelly. Kelly
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: got up on his back and roll his ass over
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: there to the wall. White walker is trying to get
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 1: in that wall for the beginning of time. That's right.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: They had that damn five breathing dragon, blowing blue fire,
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: running that damn wall down. White folk running there, and
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: I don't think who you is, black, white Latino, your
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: ass scared of fire. Yeah, so they got out, and
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: so now they're heading out, and now they got to
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 1: go and get John Snow kneel and round up all
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: the different clans because now they got to come together
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 1: because they all got to go to walk against the whitewalker.
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 1: So now while the whitewalkers is coming, called, they slow
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 1: in hell, you know, they're dead, yeah, you know, try
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 1: they're rocking. So they take a long time. So they
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 1: own horses and stuff running here to come, here to come,
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 1: oh Lord, here to come, and a lot of people,
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 1: you know, and but the white walker walking, Yeah, you're
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: calling white walker because take a long time away. Look
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 1: like they're walking in white snow. Yeah, they't white runners,
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: They white, white, white short. So they don't get back.
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 1: They got to get everything together. Somebody got to go
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: tell that white girl Kalisa it all. Haler broke up.
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 1: One of her dragons is down. But he coming back
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 1: with blue eyes because they're gonna have some witnesses from
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: the wall. They're gonna tell her the dragon is hat.
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: With the blue eyes dash say the dragon is hell.
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 1: It's become a white locker. Now, John Snow now fot
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: to season go out, y'all need not to. John Snow
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: gonna get killed. No, everybody gonna die in this hill.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, listen, thank you Steve for that.
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch coming up next to our
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: last break of the day, and Steve will have some
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: closing remarks coming up at forty nine after the hour
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, Steve, Here
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 1: we are the last break of the day, on this
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: last day of the week for us, this Friday. It's
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: been an impactful week, a great week. Um, leave us
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: with some closing remarks, you know, Steve, Um, what I
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: want to share with you is something that prevents so
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: many people from becoming successful. And that thing is called excuses.
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's amazing how well, we
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: want to justify a lack of effort, or we want
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: to justify our procrastination. All we want to justify not
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: doing something we said we were going to do. We
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: want to justify just not getting started. We can come
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: up with some pretty pretty impressive excuses. But you know
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 1: the thing about an excuse, though, it serves no one
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: except the person that's providing the excuse. The person you're
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: giving the excuse too. It does nothing from them because
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: their level of expectation for you was in place and
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: the fact that you didn't come through. I mean, how
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: can you possibly think that this person is sitting there going, wow,
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: that's great, you didn't come through. Now you're here, okay,
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: well I'm sorry that happened. So when will you get
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: to it? Or you hear something like oh wow, man,
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that. And when you walk a guy
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: and when you walk away, that person goes, wow. I
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 1: can't count on them. If you keep giving excuses, then
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: after a while a person just goes, I don't believe
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: nothing he says. And either way, man, the person that
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: you gave the excuse too, I can promise you they
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: don't think as much of you as they did when
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 1: they first thought you were coming through. Folks, if you
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: could learn to eliminate excuses, you know, taught me not
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: to have excuses. My father follows a strong man man.
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: His dude was powerful. To me. It's the greatest dude
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: to have a new But he taught me about excuses.
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: He says, son, don't ever give me an excuse, because
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: what that ain't gonna do me no good. He said,
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: we ain't got nothing. At least you could give me
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: your word. He said, we ain't got nothing else. We
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: ain't got too much more than a part to piss in.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: But if you're gonna give me your word and tell
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 1: me you're gonna do something, don't give me no excuse instead,
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: because now we ain't got nothing, y'all. If you could
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 1: eliminate excuses, if you could stop the allowing yourself off
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: the hook, because that's all it is. The only person
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: you're hurting with these excuses is you. I'll give you
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: an example of how you hurt other people with your excuse. Sister,
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: If you have a child and you keep promising your
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 1: child that you're gonna do so, if you're a dad,
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: then you don't live with your child. Your boy or
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: your girl. You tell them you're gonna come by. That
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  Speaker 1: child is at the window and at the doorway, and
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  Speaker 1: they got their little bag pack, they got their lunch packs.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going with my dad and man on, man on man.
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  Speaker 1: The disappointment that had that child had when you and
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  Speaker 1: then you call in against what you say. I had
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  Speaker 1: to work, sorry man, but I had to work. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I got you head to work for Guess what that
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  Speaker 1: does nothing for that child that was waiting on their dad.
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  Speaker 1: I got you got to work. But what they got
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  Speaker 1: to do that don't stop the disappointment in the child.
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  Speaker 1: See excuses, man, they go a long wait many they
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  Speaker 1: do far more damage than you can imagine. So after
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  Speaker 1: a while, if you keep doing that to that child,
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  Speaker 1: and you keep promising your child you're gonna do something,
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  Speaker 1: you never do it. Ah, think about that, man, what
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  Speaker 1: that does to that child. If you're in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: and you keep promising the person you're in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: with it you're gonna do something for him, and you
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  Speaker 1: never do it. How long you think this relationship gonna lad?
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  Speaker 1: You gotta do what you say you're gonna do. You
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  Speaker 1: can't create excuses. But then the person who really gets
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  Speaker 1: damaged is you, Because when that child grows up and
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  Speaker 1: he can now stand on his own, and he can
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  Speaker 1: take his own self somewhere, and he can buy his
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  Speaker 1: own clothes, and now you want to come around and hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's my son. And then he's old enough to ask
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  Speaker 1: you questions. Yeah, I'm your sonbol Where were you when
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  Speaker 1: I needed you? Man? Where were you when I was
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  Speaker 1: standing in the window. Where were you when I was
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  Speaker 1: sitting on the porch, man, with my lunch box, just
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  Speaker 1: looking at every card that went by, hoping that my
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  Speaker 1: daddy would finally come through to my mama finally tend
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  Speaker 1: me coming there off the porch. You see, man, Now
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  Speaker 1: you got to deal with that and all the excuses
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  Speaker 1: you was giving that boy or that little girl back then.
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  Speaker 1: It don't mean damn thing to them, you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: And it stops you so much. See, once you become
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  Speaker 1: a person that provides excuses, it ain't just to your children,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't just to your love one, your lover. It's
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  Speaker 1: to your job, it's to your career. And pretty soon
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  Speaker 1: you start giving excuses to yourself because it's a pattern
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  Speaker 1: of behavior. And you got to break that pattern of
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  Speaker 1: behavior because it's a no win situation for you. Stop
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  Speaker 1: making excuses. Man, Why don't you just simply do what
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 1: you say you're gonna do. It's much easier to do that.
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  Speaker 1: If you say you're gonna do it, be a man
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  Speaker 1: of your word, a woman of your word, and go
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  Speaker 1: do it. Period. Now, if you're not gonna do it,
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  Speaker 1: say that. Be a man of your word on that. See,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I do. When somebody asked me to do something,
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  Speaker 1: I distinctly tell him, Amen, I'm not gonna do that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I won't be there that way. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: no hope of you're looking for me? Well, he said
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  Speaker 1: he wasn't coming, but I'm gonna see if he come
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