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Behavior coach: "Making Motivation Personal by Introducing You to Yourself" · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: founded a personal development and leadership development companies specializing in
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Speaker 1: Money Making Conversation Masterclass CHICONI Prince, how you doing, sir?
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Speaker 2: I'm doing fineing you.
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Speaker 1: That's a lot going on. We're gonna break this down
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Speaker 1: to my audience here because I want to start with
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Speaker 1: the word accountability. Checone, What does that mean when you're
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Speaker 1: in your business model?
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Speaker 2: Well, accountability means to me the ability to be accountable.
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Speaker 2: Some of the ones said that responsibility is your ability
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Speaker 2: to respond. And we all have an opportunity to make
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Speaker 2: the world a better place. But if we don't understand
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Speaker 2: that that's what is given to us. To who much
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Speaker 2: is given, much is required, we won't live up to
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Speaker 2: that mantra. And so my goal is to help people
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Speaker 2: to understand that they have some than to offer the world.
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Speaker 2: Like my coach told me that you can be the
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Speaker 2: askment of somebody's headache, but if you don't realize that,
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Speaker 2: you will go somewhere and sit in the corner. You'll
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Speaker 2: go somewhere and sit down. So to be accountable is
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Speaker 2: to understand what it is you have and how valuable
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Speaker 2: it is, and that it's needed.
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Speaker 1: Now, let me ask this question to you. Is your
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Speaker 1: business tied to following your faith or following your passion?
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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's a combination of both. Because I believe that
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Speaker 2: all of us we have something that we've been placed
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Speaker 2: here to do, because if you weren't needed here, we
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Speaker 2: wouldn't be here. And so I know there are a
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Speaker 2: lot of people that lean so heavy on their faith
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Speaker 2: that they don't want to do anything. And I know
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Speaker 2: that there are so many people that lean so heavy
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Speaker 2: on the actions that they don't have any belief. But
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Speaker 2: I believe that there has to be a combination of both.
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Speaker 2: We have to be able to understand that, yes, we
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Speaker 2: have talent, skills and abilities, but it's not just for
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Speaker 2: us to serve ourselves. We need to serve other people.
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Speaker 1: We just ask that because let's get to the background
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Speaker 1: of who shouldn't with the princess. Because I always tell
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Speaker 1: people the journey of where you're at are currently now
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Speaker 1: may not be how you started, but it's something that
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Speaker 1: you believed in as a youth. Because I always tell people,
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Speaker 1: between the age of eighteen and twenty four, you just fearless.
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Speaker 1: You have all these dreams, all these aspirations, and then
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Speaker 1: what happens is life takes over and then you kind
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Speaker 1: of start listening to other people. They tell you should
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Speaker 1: do this. You might get married, and careers might take
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Speaker 1: you out of town, and you might get off course
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Speaker 1: from your dream. Are you doing what you're doing now
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Speaker 1: that you want to do or aspire to do between
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Speaker 1: the ages of eighteen and twenty four, tikoni.
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Speaker 2: No, sir, I am not, But tell me about that well.
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Speaker 2: And actually, I have always been a very creative person,
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Speaker 2: and I found myself doing something that I really didn't
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Speaker 2: think I would be doing at the time, and that
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Speaker 2: was three D animation. I had a company called three
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Speaker 2: D Solution Providers and we did three D animation and illustration.
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Speaker 2: And I was actually at an event back in twenty twelve.
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Speaker 2: It was called the Power Networking Conference with doctor George Fraser,
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Speaker 2: and at that event, I wind up winning a quick
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Speaker 2: pitch Business Olympics. While I was pitching my business, but
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Speaker 2: while I was on stage, I had an epiphany. While
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Speaker 2: I was up there telling people about my products or
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Speaker 2: my services, I realized that my words could be used
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Speaker 2: for more than selling a product or service. They can
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Speaker 2: be used to sell people on themselves. You know, my
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Speaker 2: first book was entitled Are You Climbing the Wrong Mountain?
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Speaker 2: About finding your true purpose? And I tell people that
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Speaker 2: are three things you can learn by being on the
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Speaker 2: wrong mountain. The first thing you can learn is this
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Speaker 2: is not it, this is not where I'm supposed to be.
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Speaker 2: I can scratch this off my lists. But the second
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Speaker 2: thing is being on the wrong mountain, you can identify
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Speaker 2: the right one. And that's what happened to me at
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Speaker 2: that conference. I realized, this is not where I'm supposed
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Speaker 2: to be. I'm supposed to be encouraging and motivating people.
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Speaker 2: But the third thing I tell people that you can
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Speaker 2: learn by being on the wrong mountain is that once
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Speaker 2: you've identified the right one, it's not going to take
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Speaker 2: you that long to get up it because you have
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Speaker 2: mounting climbing skills. The things you learn even climbing the
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Speaker 2: wrong mouth and that you take with you. And so
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Speaker 2: during those years doing those formative years of eighteen and
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Speaker 2: twenty four, there are a lot of lessons that you
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Speaker 2: can learn, and they aren't It's only a loss if
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Speaker 2: you leave the lesson, and so many individuals they consider
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Speaker 2: what I've wasted my time. No you've gotten experience. If anything,
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Speaker 2: you learn what not to do. And so I try
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Speaker 2: to help people to understand that. Listen, wherever you are
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Speaker 2: in life, you have a wealth of experience and knowledge
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Speaker 2: that's got you that you know some things that work
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Speaker 2: for you, some things that are the goods you can
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Speaker 2: pass on, but you also know some pitfalls that you
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Speaker 2: can help other people avoid. So if we take it
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Speaker 2: all as a total, then we'll understand that we have
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Speaker 2: something to offer the world.
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Speaker 1: Well, how old were you when you hit the stage
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Speaker 1: and you had that moment they realize that you know something.
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Speaker 1: I'm doing this, well, but this is not what I do.
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Speaker 1: How old were you?
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Speaker 2: I was in my mid thirties, So yeah, yes, I
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Speaker 2: was in my mid thirties in fact when I did that.
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Speaker 2: But up until that point, I was satisfied with the direction,
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Speaker 2: the fact that I was going. But again I realized
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Speaker 2: I was climbing.
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Speaker 1: Who was pouring you in that direction where you were going? Would?
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Speaker 1: Who was telling you that was the right direction for
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Speaker 1: you to go? To Coney?
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Speaker 2: Well? Actually it was me because again, like I said,
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Speaker 2: I love being creative and three D animation allowed me
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Speaker 2: a chance to make something out of nothing. When I
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Speaker 2: hear words, I see pictures, and so people would they
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Speaker 2: would literally give me a paragraph explaining the process or
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Speaker 2: a or a new invention, and I could actually as
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Speaker 2: I read it, I saw pictures in my mind. So
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Speaker 2: I would just go on my computer and I would
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Speaker 2: make what I saw. I would animate and I would
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Speaker 2: actually help them to actually illustrate their vision of the
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Speaker 2: future in three D. But again I realize that my
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Speaker 2: real talents, my real gift and abilities. And somebody will say,
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Speaker 2: what's the ConA, how you come from doing three D
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Speaker 2: animation to do in fact motivational speaking? And for me
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Speaker 2: it was easy because it just became a reverse engineering.
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Speaker 2: Whereas before somebody else was giving me the words and
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Speaker 2: I was creating the visuals because I could see it
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Speaker 2: in my mind. Well, now I have the vision in
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Speaker 2: my mind. I just reverse engineer, and I'm giving them
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Speaker 2: the words. I'm painting a picture in their mind to
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Speaker 2: help them to understand who they are and what they
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Speaker 2: have to bring to the table.
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Speaker 1: Well, I think, Shagoonne, what they're asking you would go,
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Speaker 1: why do you go from motivation to from CD three
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Speaker 1: D animation to motivation? It's like, how do you have
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Speaker 1: the courage because you know yourself. There's so many people
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Speaker 1: are in marriagers they shouldn't be in because they don't
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Speaker 1: have courage to get out of it. So many people
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Speaker 1: are at jobs that they're working on a daily basis,
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Speaker 1: but they're afraid to leave because they don't know if
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Speaker 1: they can get that check someplace else. So a lot
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Speaker 1: of people trapped in environments that they're not happy in
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Speaker 1: out of fear. And I think the question that people
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Speaker 1: are asking you is how did you accomplish that? And
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Speaker 1: what was the turning point? You say, you know something,
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Speaker 1: this is not my path to my future.
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Speaker 2: Well, I guess my turning point came in two phases.
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Speaker 2: One was that event where I realized that my words
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Speaker 2: could be used for something more than again selling the
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Speaker 2: product of service. But the other point or was I
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Speaker 2: actually watched Less Brown's fifty minute Mindset and that really
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Speaker 2: helped me to understand that I could change directions, I
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Speaker 2: could change course, and I had a burning desire and
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Speaker 2: I still do to help people. I mean I tell
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Speaker 2: people all the time, if I'm not here to help,
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Speaker 2: then why am I here?
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Speaker 1: Right?
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Speaker 2: And so understanding the need that everybody has to exercise
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Speaker 2: their God given talents and abilities. That was again, it's
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Speaker 2: like breathing to me. And so I realized that I
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Speaker 2: could sell people on themselves, and that's what I started doing.
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Speaker 1: Selling people on themselves. Expound on that. Please tell me
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Speaker 1: that almost like sounds like self motivation are showing people
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Speaker 1: their value and allowing them to take advantage of it.
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Speaker 1: I may be saying it wrong, but help me out.
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Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to help you out because my slogan
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Speaker 2: is I'm Seconiprince off seconiprince dot com, where we make
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Speaker 2: motivation personal for introducing you to yourself.
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Speaker 1: Love it.
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Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people really don't understand
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Speaker 2: who they are and what they have, and because of that,
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Speaker 2: they again allow the world to pass them by. They
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Speaker 2: don't value their value and see what value their value brings.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that again for those that are taking notes.
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Speaker 2: People need to learn how to value their own value
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Speaker 2: and then see what value their value brings, and so
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Speaker 2: helping people to understand that you have more in you
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Speaker 2: than you're putting out into the world. The question is
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Speaker 2: what's holding you back? And most of the time it's
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Speaker 2: just us and our fear and our inability to move
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Speaker 2: past our own hang ups. But when you realize somebody
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Speaker 2: is waiting on you, somebody is desperately seeking what you have,
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Speaker 2: then you'll find a way. If you can't find a way,
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Speaker 2: you will make a way to get to them and
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Speaker 2: to help them. But if you don't see how valuable
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Speaker 2: your asset is, and I don't care what it is,
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Speaker 2: it could be frying chicken, it can be cutting grass,
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Speaker 2: It could be doing a county. It can be practicing law,
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Speaker 2: whatever you've been gifted to do. Somebody needs you. They
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Speaker 2: are looking for you. When I show up, they turn
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Speaker 2: me away. But when you show up, you make a
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Speaker 2: difference in their life. And so my job is to
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Speaker 2: help inspire people, or should I say motivate, because I
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Speaker 2: believe inspiration can come externally. You can inspire somebody, but
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Speaker 2: motivation has to be internal. What's your motivation? Will you
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Speaker 2: understand what you have? Like I tell people all the time,
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Speaker 2: until you know who you are, anything can stop you.
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Speaker 2: But once you know who you are, nothing can.
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Speaker 1: Okay, before I answer my next ask my next question,
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Speaker 1: what's your slogan? Again?
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Speaker 2: Sicony Siconi Prince of siconiprince dot com, where we make
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Speaker 2: motivation personal by introducing you to yourself.
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Speaker 1: Okay, help me out with a person fifty years old,
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Speaker 1: you know, and a job, because that fifty is a
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Speaker 1: rough year for people because sometimes they this is how
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Speaker 1: I'm gon riote it out. They might tell themselves, as
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Speaker 1: there's no relationship out there for them, this is the
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Speaker 1: only job in my life. They want to be an entrepreneur,
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Speaker 1: but they're afraid they have no mentorship. Now, this is
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Speaker 1: about what you're saying. Looking into yourself, self motivation, that's
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Speaker 1: what you do. I got a lot of listeners who
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Speaker 1: are listening to this show right now who need self motivation.
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Speaker 1: Help them out, Sconi Prince.
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Speaker 2: Well, my first question fifty years old, now, fifty years old?
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Speaker 2: Fifty years old, fifty years old? Okay, if you're fifty
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Speaker 2: years old, my question to you is what is it
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Speaker 2: that you love to do? What is your passion? What
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Speaker 2: is that thing that you would do even if you
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Speaker 2: didn't get paid. What is that thing that you get
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Speaker 2: excited about, the thing that you do that you don't
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Speaker 2: even look at your watch, The thing that you do
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Speaker 2: that when it's over, you're actually sad, You're like, when
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Speaker 2: can we do this again? What is that and then
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Speaker 2: figure out a way to build your own economy around that.
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Speaker 2: It could be something the simple as fishing. It could
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Speaker 2: be something as simple as you know, I'm flying the kite.
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Speaker 2: There are so many things that we can do, but
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Speaker 2: I'm telling you there's somebody else out there that needs it,
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Speaker 2: and so understanding that you have what it takes to
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Speaker 2: lead somebody. You know, there are a ton of people
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Speaker 2: that do have have motivational speaking, but there's only one
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Speaker 2: Seconi Prince, and no one can do what I do
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Speaker 2: the way I do it, when I do it, and
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Speaker 2: where I do it, And so understanding that I'm not
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Speaker 2: in competition with them. I'm just trying to be the
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Speaker 2: best version of myself. And if you never take the
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Speaker 2: time to understand who you are and what you have,
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Speaker 2: you're always going to keep second guinst yourself and you're
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Speaker 2: never going to move beyond what's comfortable. If you think
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Speaker 2: about where you want to be. It's just like with
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Speaker 2: ener gps. You can put in a destination, but if
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Speaker 2: you don't have your locations turned on, it's gonna ask
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Speaker 2: you where are you? And we have to be honest
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Speaker 2: enough with where we are right now? What's holding us back?
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Speaker 2: Is it my fear? Is it the fact that I
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Speaker 2: don't know? I may have passion, but I don't know
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Speaker 2: how to do or what to do. You can find
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Speaker 2: that out, but you have to be willing to step out.
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Speaker 2: The only thing between you and your dreams is you.
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Speaker 2: So let's get ourself in gear and let's understand that
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Speaker 2: we have something to do and a place to go,
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Speaker 2: and somebody waiting on us. It's not just about the money.
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Speaker 2: It's not just about the fame or the fortune. Who
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Speaker 2: are you helping? If you really want to impress me,
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Speaker 2: show me the people that you help, not the car
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Speaker 2: you drive. Now much money you have, who are you helping?
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Speaker 2: Doctor mosboronnd Rowe He said that the fruit isn't for
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Speaker 2: the tree, and if you know that you have fruit
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Speaker 2: that somebody is waiting to eat, you will produce it
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Speaker 2: and you would do it for them.
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Speaker 2: You know.
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Speaker 1: I'm talking to Schoni Prince, motivational speaker personal development leadership
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Speaker 1: from a personal development standpoint motivational speaker. You said it earlier.
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Speaker 1: It's a crowd of field. Now, oh yeah, you know,
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Speaker 1: it's like a lot of cookies on the tables, a
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Speaker 1: lot of flavors, and you know, you go out there,
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Speaker 1: you don't know which cookie to buy, which cookie to
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Speaker 1: pick up, which cookie? Is that what's separating you in
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Speaker 1: the motivational game?
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Speaker 2: There seconi Well, I realized not everybody is for me,
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Speaker 2: and I'm okay with that. I'm cool with that. Okay,
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Speaker 2: I don't have a problem with that. But there are
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Speaker 2: a group of individuals that when they hear me talk,
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Speaker 2: they gravitate towards me. Now, some people call it energy,
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Speaker 2: some people call it frequency, some people call it spirit.
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Speaker 2: I don't care what you call it. But when you
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Speaker 2: hear my voice, when you hear my presentation, in fact,
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Speaker 2: when you read my books, when you come to my events,
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Speaker 2: you realize that I have something you need. And those
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Speaker 2: are the people I've been called to serve. Everybody else
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Speaker 2: got bless you have a smile on you, But the
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Speaker 2: ones that I've been call to serve, I'm here to
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Speaker 2: help you. So that's who I am, and I can't
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Speaker 2: be anything other than who I am. I'm not trying
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Speaker 2: to be Anyboudy. I'm not trying to replace anybody. I'm
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Speaker 2: trying to be the best secone that I can be
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Speaker 2: because I know me showing up at my best is
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Speaker 2: going to inspire, motivate, and to courage somebody to do
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Speaker 2: the same.
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Speaker 1: Now, your latest book, Heal, which is h E A
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Speaker 1: L Help Elevate and Learn a God to Healing your
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Speaker 1: Inner child again, is about that person. See one thing
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Speaker 1: I love about you in my short term or just
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Speaker 1: doing my research. You keep putting the burden of responsibility
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Speaker 1: back on that person, and I think I've never heard that.
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Speaker 1: See people always talk about come here, relax, come here
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Speaker 1: with a group of people, you meditate together, but you
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Speaker 1: go to write. Look in that mirror, we're talking about you.
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Speaker 2: When you wake up.
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Speaker 1: You're looking at you when you go to bed. Is
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Speaker 1: about you? What thought proce got you there? Because you're
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Speaker 1: starting a three D animation. Then you went on stage
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Speaker 1: at the George Fraser event. You went you know, so
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Speaker 1: these people are looking at me different. They're not really
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Speaker 1: looking at what I'm doing. They're looking at what listen
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Speaker 1: to what I'm saying yes, And in the process of
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Speaker 1: listening to what you what you're saying. You said, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna let you know that I can only get you
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Speaker 1: there if you get yourself there correctly. Talk to me
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Speaker 1: bout exactly I'm getting on the prints train now.
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Speaker 2: Okay, well listen. I know how critically important it is
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Speaker 2: for us to be able to work on ourselves, because
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Speaker 2: I tell people all the time, no matter where you go,
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Speaker 2: you're there. No matter where you go, you're there. And
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Speaker 2: if you never develop yourself, you take the same thing
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Speaker 2: and from one relationship to the next, from one job
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Speaker 2: to the next, from one project to the next, from
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Speaker 2: one goal to the next, from one diet to the next.
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Speaker 2: So if you never change you, you're gonna wind up
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Speaker 2: getting the same results. One of the latest I had
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Speaker 2: on my podcast, in fact, she said that some people
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Speaker 2: are dating the same person with a different face. And
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Speaker 2: it's like wow, because that really blew me away, because
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Speaker 2: it's like, we tend to keep gravitating towards the same thing,
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Speaker 2: but we need to change our appetite. So that starts
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Speaker 2: with us, That starts with us working and looking in
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Speaker 2: the mirror and say, my really, my personal development journey
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Speaker 2: started when I was in college in Atlanta, and I
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Speaker 2: was dating this young lady. Everything was going good, great
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Speaker 2: and fine and wonderful until it wasn't. And whenever relationship
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Speaker 2: was over, instead of me blaming her and instead of
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Speaker 2: me you know, talking it down to her, I started
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Speaker 2: asking questions, but not of her, of me. I started
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Speaker 2: trying to understand and figure out why did I do
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Speaker 2: to some of the stuff I did, Seconia, why is
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Speaker 2: it that? And most of the relationships you've been in
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Speaker 2: it was a woman that ended it. Why is that?
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Speaker 2: And I started to do my own personal, my own
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Speaker 2: research to understand me better. And it wasn't until I
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Speaker 2: stepped into the motivation of speaking arena that I realized
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Speaker 2: how much more work I needed to do. And so
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Speaker 2: that's my thing. So many people we'll ask questions of
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Speaker 2: everybody else, but rarely do we do it of ourselves.
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Speaker 2: So that's my goal to help people to say, Okay,
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Speaker 2: why it's not just what you do, it's why you
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Speaker 2: do it. Some people ain't well again, but that's just
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Speaker 2: the way I am.
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Speaker 1: So what is that inner child that you're trying to
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Speaker 1: get us to allow to grow? And I'm assuming that's
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Speaker 1: the whole angle growth Internally, you let that person or
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Speaker 1: that in the child mature and accept responsibility, then you'll
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Speaker 1: be a better person for it. That was my takeaway
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Speaker 1: from the book.
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Speaker 2: Okay, well, and that is definitely true. We want to
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Speaker 2: do what I call an inner child check up. A
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Speaker 2: couple of years ago, I had a chance to speak
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Speaker 2: at a focused women's conference here Mobill and I finished
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Speaker 2: my presentation with an exercise, and I had all of
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Speaker 2: the ladies in the room. I said, Okay, first of all,
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Speaker 2: secure belongings, because everybody ain't saved. Make sure your person
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Speaker 2: you're phoned right next to you. But then I had
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Speaker 2: them to close their eyes and put their hand over
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Speaker 2: their heart, and I told them to think about the
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Speaker 2: little girl that's still in them and how proud she
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Speaker 2: is of the woman that she's become. But then I
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Speaker 2: also told him, I said, I want you to thank
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Speaker 2: that little girl for the strength that she had to
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Speaker 2: go through everything she went through for you to be
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Speaker 2: here today. And you will not believe how many women
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Speaker 2: of different ages and stages ethnicities came up to me
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Speaker 2: afterwards and thanked me. Some of them were tears in
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Speaker 2: their eyes for that exercise of just reminding them of
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Speaker 2: who they still had in them and I think that
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Speaker 2: was the catalyus for me writing this book, because it
20:54
Speaker 2: is so important for us to understand the things that
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Speaker 2: went into making us who we are, and if we
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Speaker 2: have current day behavior that was seated in our childhood,
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Speaker 2: especially if it's negative, we need to address that. We
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Speaker 2: need to spend some time discovery. Now you can start
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Speaker 2: this process on your own, and the book is a
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Speaker 2: great starting point, and even my podcast helps with that
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Speaker 2: as well. But I've had therapists and psychologists and psychologists
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Speaker 2: on my podcast to help frame up a lot of
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Speaker 2: stuff I put in the book because my slogan for
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Speaker 2: my podcasts I'm not here to end the conversation. I
21:31
Speaker 2: just want to start it. Because a lot of people
21:34
Speaker 2: don't really realize that they have current day behavior that
21:37
Speaker 2: was seated in their childhood. They're trying to impress or
21:40
Speaker 2: trying to please somebody that may not even be here anymore,
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Speaker 2: and they need to just take a step back and
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Speaker 2: look at why they do what they do and understand that. Okay,
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Speaker 2: you can change that, you can rewire your brain, but
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Speaker 2: you have to first identify what it is that's negatively
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Speaker 2: impacting your life. And once you will to do that,
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Speaker 2: then you can take the necessary steps, get the necessary
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Speaker 2: help you need in order to unpack and repack your life.
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Speaker 2: And even in my book I talk about having a
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Speaker 2: second childhood. We can actually get to the place to
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Speaker 2: where life is fun again. But we have optimism and
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Speaker 2: hope and we have dreams. Because again, I think so
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Speaker 2: many people are locked in a box, and they have
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Speaker 2: the key, they lock themselves in. My thing is I
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Speaker 2: want you to take the key and unlock and let
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Speaker 2: yourself out and become the type of person that you
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Speaker 2: dreamed of when you were younger.
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Speaker 1: I love it. We're talking Seconi Prince, the arthor of
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Speaker 1: the whole process of how can we find out where
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Speaker 1: you're speaking? How can we find out and stay in
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Speaker 1: touch with you. You mentioned your podcast, tell us your podcast,
22:57
Speaker 1: but more importantly, how we can get you your next
23:00
Speaker 1: speaking engagement? See you do your thing. All these are
23:03
Speaker 1: private engagements that are structured around events that people invite
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Speaker 1: you to.
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Speaker 2: Well. Actually, I have an event coming up in Dallas
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Speaker 2: on October the Trough, so I'm excited about that. I'm
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Speaker 2: gonna be speaking there along with some other incredible men.
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Speaker 2: But the easiest way to find out, in fact, what's
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Speaker 2: going on with me as you can check out my
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Speaker 2: You can also follow me on all social medias. I'm
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Speaker 2: on TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, and even YouTube. In fact,
23:49
Speaker 2: YouTube you can go and see all of my podcasts
23:51
Speaker 2: there there. You can watch all of them. You can
23:54
Speaker 2: listen to them on Spotify and iHeartRadio as well. But uh,
23:59
Speaker 2: the the easiest way to get in contact with me
24:01
Speaker 2: is you go on my website. My email is there
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Speaker 2: at scone asseconiprins dot com. Even my phone numbers there,
24:09
Speaker 2: you know. So I am here to help everybody that
24:14
Speaker 2: I meet understand their value, see what value their value brings.
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Speaker 1: Two. A couple of things. How old you when you're
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Speaker 1: in college?
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Speaker 2: I was in my early twenties, early.
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Speaker 1: Twenties, okay, And your name of your and your company
24:32
Speaker 1: basically you found it on personal development and leadership development
24:35
Speaker 1: specialized in real world business leadership and personal accountability approaches. Right, yes, sir, okay,
24:42
Speaker 1: in their early twenties, when you're in college, that's when
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Speaker 1: you started understanding personal development about yourself.
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Speaker 2: Correct. Correct, I actually saw the need for it.
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Speaker 1: Right, So you did have this internal develop between the
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Speaker 1: ages of eighteen and twenty four that you are now
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Speaker 1: making money on. Now, it's all I'm saying, brother, All
25:09
Speaker 1: I do is just wrap it up and let you know.
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Speaker 1: I hear when people talk again, our gifts are discovered
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Speaker 1: early in life. If we have to listen and understand,
25:19
Speaker 1: that's the journey and the journey you live in.
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Speaker 2: Now.
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Speaker 1: You started a brother in college, you became a three
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Speaker 1: D animator. You went on stage and it started letting
25:29
Speaker 1: you know, giving you moments of saying that ain't what
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Speaker 1: you do, brother, that ain't what you do. Now, what
25:35
Speaker 1: you're doing is what you do. I'm going to tell
25:36
Speaker 1: you right now to go on it. I'm impressed by you, brother,
25:39
Speaker 1: and I want to thank you for taking the time
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Speaker 1: to fill out that farm and come on my show.
25:43
Speaker 1: And I want to give you another opportunity to speak
25:45
Speaker 1: to another side of our audience, because the more people.
25:48
Speaker 1: I believe hear your story, the more your brand will
25:51
Speaker 1: be able to impact the people that you're trying to impact.
25:54
Speaker 1: And I think it really is I feel it really
25:57
Speaker 1: is true. It is all about you. I will tell
25:59
Speaker 1: people stop that stop sign, that stop signs that hand
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Speaker 1: we kind of put in our face. When you look
26:04
Speaker 1: in the mirror, that's you. When you go to sleep,
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Speaker 1: that's you. There's a responsibility along the way. You need
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Speaker 1: to hold yourself accountable, and that's the journey that you're
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Speaker 1: trying to impose on us.
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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, that's it. That's it.
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Speaker 1: Thank you, sir. You're a wonderful brother, and I appreciate you.
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Speaker 2: Man. Thank you. I appreciate you too as well.
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