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Dr. Murthy Interview Holiday Travel Retired Sex Worker Steve's VM and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show feel
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  Speaker 1: with nothing but joy and hope about it too. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's a great thing to be able to wake up
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  Speaker 1: in the morning with peace in your heart and joy.
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  Speaker 1: Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has a value
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  Speaker 1: attached to it, and I have no idea what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's invaluable. It is worth so much more than any
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  Speaker 1: amount of money you can make. Peace and joy. I
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  Speaker 1: have not always had that. I have not always been
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  Speaker 1: a peaceful person or a person who lived his life
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  Speaker 1: in a joy spirit. It took an arrival at this moment.
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  Speaker 1: Some people arrive sooner than others. I wish I had
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  Speaker 1: arrived at this point sooner, but I think it was
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  Speaker 1: necessary for me to learn a few things too. That's
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  Speaker 1: the amazing thing I've learned about life is that instead
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  Speaker 1: of reflecting on your past incidences and calling them failures,
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  Speaker 1: instead of focusing on the negative and calling them bad times,
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  Speaker 1: I look at them now as experiences. I had to
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  Speaker 1: have those experiences that were negative, that were good, positive, wrong,
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  Speaker 1: even I had to have all those experiences to become
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  Speaker 1: to shape who we are today. We all have to
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  Speaker 1: have them. If you look back at all the negative
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  Speaker 1: experiences you've had, all the things that you called failures,
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  Speaker 1: all the businesses I started that went under, all of
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  Speaker 1: the jobs I had that I was fired from, all
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  Speaker 1: the show that were canceled, all of the times I
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  Speaker 1: thought I was gonna get something happened in my way
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  Speaker 1: and turned out I didn't get it at all. When
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  Speaker 1: you look at all of it, all of it, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: along the way, what you have done as a person
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  Speaker 1: is you've taken those negatives and those failures and you've
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  Speaker 1: used them for what they actually are. They are experiences,
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  Speaker 1: and they've now created in you an experienced person and
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  Speaker 1: you know that is worth something. That's then it becomes
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  Speaker 1: a positive. But what too many people do is they
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  Speaker 1: let the negative things that have happened in their life.
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  Speaker 1: They allow the failures that have happened in them lives
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  Speaker 1: never to manifest themselves as experiences. And you sit up
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  Speaker 1: there and you dwell on it, and you dwell on
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  Speaker 1: it until you have this woe is me attitude. Stop
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  Speaker 1: looking at it like that, y'all. You go through things
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  Speaker 1: in order to become the person that you are today.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you who you sometimes have to sit down
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  Speaker 1: and talk to. Sometimes you are to sit down to
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  Speaker 1: an inmate that really gets it, an inmate that says, man,
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  Speaker 1: I've actually heard inmates say it to me and write
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  Speaker 1: to me, and they've said things like, man coming to prison,
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  Speaker 1: save my life. Now, those of you have never got
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  Speaker 1: how can he say a thing like that? But some men, no, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I was so far out there that if I had
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  Speaker 1: stayed out there, I wouldn't even be here today. This
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  Speaker 1: actually allowed me to stop, spend some time with myself
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  Speaker 1: and learn some things about me. Now does that happen
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  Speaker 1: for everybody like that? Now? But here's a person who
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  Speaker 1: was taking an experience that could be considered a failure
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  Speaker 1: or a negative and turning it into a positive and
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  Speaker 1: using it to enrich their lives. You can do it
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  Speaker 1: no matter what your set of circumstances is. I recommend
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  Speaker 1: to everybody that you try changing your outlook in order
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  Speaker 1: to change your outcome. Everything that happens to you that's
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  Speaker 1: negative or you can said a failure their experiences. You've
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  Speaker 1: got to go through these things in order to have
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  Speaker 1: the knowledge that you have today. So I wish that
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  Speaker 1: I had come to this arrival, that I may now
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  Speaker 1: this place of peace and joy. But then guess what,
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  Speaker 1: I would not know what I know. I could not
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  Speaker 1: share some of the things that I'm able to share
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  Speaker 1: if I had not gone through some of them. And
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  Speaker 1: sometimes that's the purpose of them, is to teach you
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  Speaker 1: a lesson because you know, God has a plan for you,
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  Speaker 1: He really really does. And eventually he can use you
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  Speaker 1: no matter how old you are, and he can use
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  Speaker 1: you no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine
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  Speaker 1: ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God, what
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  Speaker 1: do you want me to do? That's why I say
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  Speaker 1: every day Steve Harvey got radio show, y'all. Because man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I
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  Speaker 1: ain't seen it. Half of the amazing things that are
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  Speaker 1: happened to me, I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, man,
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  Speaker 1: asking God for some direction. And then I got smart
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  Speaker 1: enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker. Now because faithful,
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  Speaker 1: our works is there and it came. And I'll remind
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  Speaker 1: you of this. God has given all of you a gift.
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  Speaker 1: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God
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  Speaker 1: has never created a soul that he did not provide
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  Speaker 1: a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a
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  Speaker 1: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts
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  Speaker 1: are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who
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  Speaker 1: really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and in that you can become great. You
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  Speaker 1: know a lot of people people think that successful and
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  Speaker 1: greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at
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  Speaker 1: my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something
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  Speaker 1: so pointed. He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness.
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  Speaker 1: The two have nothing to do with each other. See,
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  Speaker 1: people determine success about money and fame and all this here,
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  Speaker 1: but greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's
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  Speaker 1: how you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant
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  Speaker 1: you become in your community, at your church, on your job,
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  Speaker 1: to the club scout unit that you run, to the
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  Speaker 1: little girls lives that you change that that little center
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  Speaker 1: in the hood. Who are you just one place of
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  Speaker 1: hope to so many people and they come back. And
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  Speaker 1: I used the example of lou Danzler who passed away
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  Speaker 1: in LA who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club
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  Speaker 1: out in LA. And he wasn't a rich man at all,
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  Speaker 1: and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know
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  Speaker 1: who he was. But if you look at all the
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  Speaker 1: people who have gone on to become politicians, who have
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  Speaker 1: gone on to become CEO's, who have gone on to
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  Speaker 1: become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building
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  Speaker 1: in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, man,
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  Speaker 1: prad changes things. I said all the time. But when
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  Speaker 1: you see people become successful or great, that somebody praying
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  Speaker 1: somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's day Mama.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I think of Tiger Woods and all the
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  Speaker 1: greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk about as
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  Speaker 1: farther than all this here, somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods.
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  Speaker 1: I got cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama
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  Speaker 1: is a praying woman or something. My mother was. She
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  Speaker 1: prayed me into this place because she ushould call me
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  Speaker 1: all the time. Praying for your boy, and prayer changes things.
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  Speaker 1: It really does. Try it today. It can change you.
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  Speaker 1: It has changed millions of people. Open up yourself to
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  Speaker 1: the greatness that's in you because God is giving you
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  Speaker 1: a gift that the fact that you ain't using it.
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  Speaker 1: Who fought you think that is? I'm just telling you
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  Speaker 1: you got one, and if you start praying about it,
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  Speaker 1: it'll manifest itself and you can become one or two things,
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  Speaker 1: successful or great or both. You can make the decision. Today.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning show, ladies and gentlemen. It is here another
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  Speaker 1: great day and we start this day. We are involved
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  Speaker 1: in a friendship with Roscoe Wallace, helping him bring down
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  Speaker 1: one of the largest industries in the world, the entire
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  Speaker 1: music industry. Roscoe Wallace is involved in a three trillion
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  Speaker 1: dollar lawsuit against the entire industry for every hit that
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  Speaker 1: he has ever written and never received Walty's publishing rights
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  Speaker 1: or any funds at all. Ladies and gentlemen, Here he
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  Speaker 1: is with another hit, I got him Baby I one day,
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  Speaker 1: the rocking ready hit. Here I go, Here we go
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  Speaker 1: three to one hour. Oh yeah, do you remember whenry
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  Speaker 1: Fairly Love? Will you won young innocent day? Do you
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  Speaker 1: remember how we used to be all? It happened way
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  Speaker 1: back when? Uh? Do you remember we was on the
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  Speaker 1: phone on it on old Do you remember? I said?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember the time? No? You don't, huh Fairly Love?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember the time when when we first met? Girl?
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  Speaker 1: Remember time all Roscoe? They can't remember because they stole
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  Speaker 1: the song for me. Boy. I know, hell yeah, I remember,
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  Speaker 1: I really I knew all that time. I get that song.
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  Speaker 1: The Joe Joe know that musical genius Roscoe Michael daddy
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  Speaker 1: and I knew Joe's daddy too, Ella Jackson jack Love
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  Speaker 1: be the Little Church and get never heard of that?
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  Speaker 1: Did you clan burnt that downty? Not only not only
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  Speaker 1: just a lawsuit? Did black history? Yeah? You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Thank y'all. Let me come on share that
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  Speaker 1: right there. I love Michael Lord, Don't get me wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I loved him. I love him dealing, but they hold
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  Speaker 1: me that right there. I talked, y'all, gotta get on
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  Speaker 1: out of here. He's sooning. Teddy Riley, Teddy Riley broke.
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  Speaker 1: Wait on, Teddy Riley, what car Remember the time he
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  Speaker 1: was one of the composers, Holy Holy, holy old star
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  Speaker 1: didn't get it? Hold up, wait a minute, who did I?
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  Speaker 1: You say? Wrote member of time, Michael Jackson, Teddy Riley Riley,
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  Speaker 1: right down right there? See that where you want? You
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  Speaker 1: ain't listening, listen, I wrote, Remember the time? Yeah, they
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  Speaker 1: tried to get cute talking about some damn Do you remember?
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  Speaker 1: That's where the damn lawsuit come in? Right? The hook changed,
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  Speaker 1: the hook took my balls. Roscoe who talked like that,
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  Speaker 1: Good luck in your lawsuit. Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna start the show off
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  Speaker 1: with Nephew Tommy's run that prank back Right after this
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to show It is time to start the
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  Speaker 1: morning off with run that break back from the Nephew,
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  Speaker 1: which you got nef. You're not gonna like me on
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  Speaker 1: this one, but I'm gonna do it anyway because it's
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  Speaker 1: in my heart, it's in my soul to crush you,
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  Speaker 1: prankqu and then't bring you back when you need to
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  Speaker 1: be all at the same time. This right here is
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  Speaker 1: relationship departure. Relationship departure. Okay, everybody, buckle up, don't be
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  Speaker 1: mad at me. Just listen. I make him love her more.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I do. I make him love her more.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go, can't though glove? Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I
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  Speaker 1: was um, I was calling to tell you baby. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I just I just can't do it. Huh oh, hello,
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  Speaker 1: Bryan Brant. Hey, this is Greg. I know, I know
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  Speaker 1: you was just talking to vow, but this is this
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  Speaker 1: is Greg talking to this bang Greg. Oh, yeah, this
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  Speaker 1: is Brian. Greg. I was just talking to my wife.
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  Speaker 1: Did you put her back on the phone. Uh No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna be able to do that.
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  Speaker 1: Why can't you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain
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  Speaker 1: something to you. All right, there's some things, you know,
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  Speaker 1: long conversations about this. Oh well, well, how you know
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  Speaker 1: my wife on the first name basis like that? Man,
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  Speaker 1: how you who are you? Like I said, man, my
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  Speaker 1: name is Greg uh all right? At the airport? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Well airport? Which the airport? And why were you at
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  Speaker 1: the airport with my wife? Sport? Hey? Let me Hey,
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  Speaker 1: all of this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want
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  Speaker 1: to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann.
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  Speaker 1: We've got a lot of long conversations about this. It's
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  Speaker 1: something that's when When was this? Why? Why are you
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  Speaker 1: at the airport with my wife's with me? And why
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  Speaker 1: is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? And what
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  Speaker 1: do you mean leaving? Leaving me? Oh? Hell no? Put
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  Speaker 1: it on the phone. And I don't even want to
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  Speaker 1: talk to you, man. Put her on the phone. Put
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  Speaker 1: her on the phone, man, and look, you need to
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  Speaker 1: put her on the phone right now, leaving. I don't
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  Speaker 1: believe that. Now. I want to hear her say that
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  Speaker 1: you want to talk to me? Oh here, you're staying.
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  Speaker 1: Let me talk to my wife, man, because you you
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  Speaker 1: feed maybe baby? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, what's up? What's this
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  Speaker 1: dude talking about? To tell you this phone? While? So
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  Speaker 1: you think everything, but it hasn't been Okay, why are
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  Speaker 1: you telling me this phone? Why can't you just come
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  Speaker 1: home and sell me this? Can't you just tell me
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  Speaker 1: this to my face? Hey? Hey, hey bro, come on man?
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  Speaker 1: Why my wife? Hey hey hey bro, I know this
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  Speaker 1: is painful moment. Now you don't know, you don't know nothing,
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  Speaker 1: but I noticed. Look, okay, the ladies just put my
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  Speaker 1: wife on the Oh did you you got any ounce
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  Speaker 1: of a man? And you just put my wife's back
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  Speaker 1: on the phone. All right, bro? Let me, let me
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  Speaker 1: let me say, let me can I say something to
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  Speaker 1: you man? Sitement less my wife on the phone, but
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got to tell me. I'm gonna put it
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  Speaker 1: on in the second. But let me say this to
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  Speaker 1: you man, say same man and wrap it up because
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  Speaker 1: I need to talk to my wife. I just want
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  Speaker 1: you to know this, Brian. This is let me know something.
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  Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mary Show.
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  Speaker 1: Got me to prank phone call you. What's your hold on? So?
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  Speaker 1: So okay, if you point to me, what's up with
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  Speaker 1: the airport and stuff in the back, then where y'all
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  Speaker 1: at the airport? No, bro, your wife is here at
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  Speaker 1: the studio. Man, ain't not happening. Man, your wife hold on,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you talk. Yah, you all right? First
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  Speaker 1: of all? Are you all right? Man? Oh man? It
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  Speaker 1: was about to be a murder sing man. Look at now,
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  Speaker 1: who's the I got you? Finally you could have been
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more. I'm you and y'all. Who your brother?
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  Speaker 1: You think? Y'all the only ones can pranking people? So
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  Speaker 1: you and your brother be branking all the time. Man, man,
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  Speaker 1: it's life stuff. Girl. You at happy birthday? Baby? Oh
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  Speaker 1: you got a birthday coming up? Happy birthday, Brian? This yeah,
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  Speaker 1: man looking great? Gifts great? Yes, man, let me tuck
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  Speaker 1: my wife. Man, I got ain't got no dude, your
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  Speaker 1: wife hold on, please? But what woman? You got me?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Don't don't you ain't gotta go this far right?
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  Speaker 1: Every time supposed to be funny. I did feel little bad,
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  Speaker 1: but you kind of started tearing up. But I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: to know you fight for me like that fight. It
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  Speaker 1: was gonna be some fights. It wasn't, oh girl, just
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  Speaker 1: a bring your black home. Don't even see how I
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  Speaker 1: did that? Feel how I did that? It hurt you,
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  Speaker 1: hurt and hurt Bryan a lot, And I get it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you hurt the show, you know the
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  Speaker 1: show you got Tommy ready to look. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: y'all gonna have a new episode. What's that gonna Because
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be ready to get your ass well, and
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: it's gonna look a lot like cheetahs because the camera
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  Speaker 1: gonna be funny. I might have gotten to do with it.
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  Speaker 1: Forces you to love your baby a little strong. But
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, this is still y'all don't
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  Speaker 1: know what he's doing lately, but this is still an
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  Speaker 1: offshoot of praise and worships. Oh I'm sorry, um, as
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  Speaker 1: we were, ladies and gentlemen. I'll be in Dayton, Ohio
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  Speaker 1: this weekend, Okay, Saturday night. Uh, tickets are on sale
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  Speaker 1: right now. I'm at the Convention Center. It's Nephew Tommy
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  Speaker 1: a Friends comedy show. You don't want to miss it.
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  Speaker 1: And um, you know, uh, as we move forward to
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  Speaker 1: the holidays, uh, you know we're gonna do bigger things
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  Speaker 1: as well, so get ready for that. Nephew Tommy will
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  Speaker 1: be with Frederick the Entertainer, Um Eddie Griffith, the earthquake
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  Speaker 1: d l hugely. Oh my god, So you know, go
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  Speaker 1: to my website Thomas Miles dot com. All of my
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  Speaker 1: dates are there. We won't talk about the prank anymore.
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  Speaker 1: We don't want to. You know, the haters are in
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  Speaker 1: the building. Let's just put it that way, all right,
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, it is asked the
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  Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to show Coming up at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour, the US Surgeon General will be
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  Speaker 1: the top of the hour with the US Surgeon General,
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  Speaker 1: doctor zvec Murthy, and we will let you know. We
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  Speaker 1: will keep you informed. But right now it is time
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  Speaker 1: for Steve's favorite segment, asked the seats. Oh all right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: here we go. This one is from Lisa and Beaumont, Texas.
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  Speaker 1: Lisa says, my husband is a great man, and he's
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  Speaker 1: good on the grill, but he sucks at cooking anything
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  Speaker 1: besides barbecue. I'm tired of him wasting good food and
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  Speaker 1: making concoctions that I'm afraid to eat. The sniffles and
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  Speaker 1: he made chicken soup, chicken noodle soup, and he had
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  Speaker 1: some of everything in that soup. I was chewing corn, opra,
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  Speaker 1: bacon bits and other stuff, and it tasted like tortilla soup,
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  Speaker 1: but with noodles. Today he grilled lamb chops and finished
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  Speaker 1: them in the microwave. They were tough as leather. Do
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  Speaker 1: stop this. See if you're good on the grill, dog,
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  Speaker 1: stay on the grill. So I don't come in the
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: house cooking. I really don't I do what I do.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: You want lamb chops, you want steaks, you want ribs,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: you won't kill bossy, you want chicken, you want fish.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: If I'm outside and my outdoor kitchen, I'm caying out there.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I don't coming out. It ain't what I do. Marjorie
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: can cook everything and grill. That's bad girl. And I
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: ain't just bragging. I'm this girl country girl. She can
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: really cook. I ain't that good in the kitchen with
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: all this stuff. I make my eggs and go sit
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: on sitting my ass down. But now you come outside
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: on that grill. I can't say this to her. She
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: can't hold a candle to me out there on that
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: damn grill. No, hell no, why whispering. You think she's
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: gonna you don't think she's gonna hear this. She does. Listen,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: show thank you, that's what you'd be telling me. Listen
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: what you're saying food. Yeah, that's why I'm whispend time
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: right here, right here. She's not gonna hear this part
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: right here. Okay, so that's to stay your ass only
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: gal time. Alright. Moving on, Nina and Tallahassee says, I've
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: been with my boyfriend for almost four years. He's twenty seven,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: and he has a great job working with older black
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: men that he looks up to. He started smoking cigars
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and he drinks alcohol more often. What's really shocking is
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: all of the new stuff he's doing in the bedroom
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: and the new brand of condoms he uses. Now. He
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: told me that the old men give great advice and
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: put him up on game. Is it the old men's
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: advice or a new woman. No, it's it's the old
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: man advice. I mean, look at what he's doing. Ain't
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: no woman coming in here tell me y'all to try
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: this new brand to condom. That's old dude conversation. That's
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: an old dude he telling you the truth. The cigars
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: that look at he getting that from an old dude.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to worry about. What you're what
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: you're trying to make something up for, he said, Man,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: got great advice. Well what you're in there? Or you
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: ain't old? I see what you're doing. Oh you ain't
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: an old Oh oh oh, I see, or you don't
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: know the hill move. I called it the WILLI coochie.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: You ain't never tried to WILLI couch you, Hi boy?
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Sit down over that limit ted so or you put
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: that WILLI coochie on him. I'm trying to tell you
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: something now that you haven't come back mote and then
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: any time. And then young boys sitting there going wow, Man,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: these cats know because old dudes know something. That's how
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: the old dudes turn boys into me. Take advantage of this.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Enjoy yourself, all right. Moving on to Claire and Indiana.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: Claire Rights, I was dating a guy for a short
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: period of time, and it made me feel like some
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: kind of nasty woman because of my sexual preferences. I
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: am abstaining from intercourse now, but I absolutely love providing
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: a little oral situation for a man if it gets
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: to that point. My X got hooked up almost daily,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: but he said it wasn't enough and he needed a
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: better connection with me. I feel bad for even trying
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: to please him. Should I abstain from that too? Wow, Claire,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to well, seeing it's how you know,
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I don't really know. You know, I ain't got nothing
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: to base it on. You know, I can't say it.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you want to say to you,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: laid him. I got nothing against it, but I'm I
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: don't know how you want me to tell you to
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: go about it. I don't know. You know, maybe you know,
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: maybe you ain't what you thank he is. You know,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: you know you got to reconsider. Maybe I don't well.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: Next question, Yeah, let's move on, all right. Trendity in Milwaukee,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: it says six months ago, I got a mommy makeover
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: and I'm building up my self confidence again. My husband
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: and I are in our mid forties, but my husband
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: acts like an old man. I dressing more trendy outfits
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: to show off my flat tummy for the first time
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: in many years, and he can't stand it. He said,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I need to dress more tastefully. I told him he
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: needs to makeover so we can both be fly. He
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: got mad and won't speak to me. He can dish it,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: but he can't take it. How is this all he
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: does is critique me? Should I apologize? Any dish it
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: and can't take it? Male ego is so damned fragile.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: But if he gonna dish it, got to be able
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: to take it. If you're living in a glass house,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: don't throw those stones temptations. Now, I know that temptation
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: didn't write there, but they got held us all. If
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: you're living in the glass house, don't throw those stones.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Come on, if you're living in the glass high house,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: don't throw no stones. Are you answering her? No? He
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: got very to take it. Keep wearing your office girls, stay, fly,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: fly to your dad. He acts old, don't say all.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: A lot of dudes just letting it come get him.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. So congratulations, we're looking flying and
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: he's mad, a little bit jealous. I don't know what
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to tell you, but don't keep laying that. But you
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: gotta tell you man. Your man can't give you constructive criticism,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: and you not be allowed to give him constructions constructive
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: criticism right now. I know what a mommy maker is,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: but I haven't really heard of God's getting makeovers. Well
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: here it is. You know, fellas you get up in age,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: hair growing places in your nostrils, in your ear, buy
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: that little thing that target, the little tweezer thing that
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: shave you, and run that thing in your nostrils. Quit
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: letting have grow in your damn nostrils. I'm looking up
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: your nose and see all this gray hair. Get that
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: out of here. You're shaved, your bushes down out your ears.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Just make you look old. Now, look, man, here's another
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: thing you could do. I do it for TV, for
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: my brand. I use just for me and on my
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: much dask because I got a brain. But you don't
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: have to do that. You don't have to. But if
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: your gray ain't coming in right, and you got two
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: three strands and always look like you got something on
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: your face, get your ass a little bit of just
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: for men and just touch it. That's all dog until
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: you get a little more gray, because they look bad
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: when it's gray every three inches, because now I look
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: like you got stuff on your face. Great different advice,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: great advice. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: the Surgeon General of the United States. We'll talk about
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: COVID nineteen vaccinations, all of that right after this. You're listening. Hey,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I'll distinguished guests this morning. Everybody's the twenty first Surgeon
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: General of the United States and he's joining us because
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: we want to discuss the new developments in the COVID
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: pandemic and whether or not we should be concerned about
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: a spike in COVID cases over the holidays. And we're
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: happy to have him join us because we have questions.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: So let's get to it. Please, welcome to the show,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: doctor Vivic Murthy Is it Vivic? Did I get that right? Lake? Oh? Oh? Vic?
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Hey man, We're happy to have you back, man and
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: tell you five year old son Uncle Steve said hello, Oh,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I will tell him. You're looking at me right now
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: about all right? Hey? Hey, sorry, So tell us, man,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: why do we staying right now in the COVID pandemic?
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Are things getting better? So I'm glad you asked you so,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: because we've been at this for about twenty two months
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: now going on, and I know folks are tired, but
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: we have come a long way and I want people
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: to know why. So if you compare now to where
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: we were last year. Last year we didn't even have
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: the vaccine, but now we've got over one hundred and
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: ninety million people who are fully vaccinated. That means that
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: one hundred ninety million people whose chances of ending up
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: in the hospital or nine from COVID are dramatically lower
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: than those who are not vaccine. That's a good thing.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: We also have two oral medications that could be taken
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: by mouth that are on the horizon. They haven't been
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: approved yet more authorized by the FDA, but they're in
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: the process, in the pipeline, if you will, and the
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: early results have been promising, so that's good news as well.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: And the other big thing is that our kids are
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: back in school. And you know, I say that as
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: a dad who's got two kids who were home with
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: me the entire pandemic last year, and now they're back
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: in school like millions of other kids. So that's a
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: good thing for our children, for their help and their learning.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: But we're not out of the woods yet. You know.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: We've come down certainly from the peak of cases that
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: we had with the delta wave, but we still have
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: about between seventy five to eighty thousand cases a day
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: that we're finding, and the cases in the especially in
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: colder weather regions where people are going indoors are starting
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: to tick up. So that means we've still got to
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: be vigilant. We still have to get vaccineative or not.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: If you are eligibly get boosted, you absolutely should because
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: that will help protect you during this winter. Hey, let
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: me ask you a question about something you just spoke about.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: This all medicine. Is that a form of vaccine or
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: is that something to fight the symptoms of COVID. Yeah,
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: I'm really glad you brought that up. So the oral
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: medicines are there to help you if you get COVID.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: They don't prevent COVID. It's not something you take just
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: david off. But the other important thing to know about
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: the world medicines is, you know, one of them has
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: shown that it reduces your chances of ending of them
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: the hospital dying by fifty percent, and other the other
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: medicine showed that it reduced those chances by eighty nine percent.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: That's really good. But there's one hundred percent way to
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: reduce your chance of getting in the hospital or dying
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: from COVID, and that's not getting COVID in the first place.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: And that's why getting the vaccine is so important. Taking
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: these precautions, it's so important. We would rather people prevent
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: the illness than get it. Hey, before we get into
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: this about the children, let me ask you a question.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: What do you say to people who still don't want
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: to get vaccinated because they say they don't have enough information.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: They think something's in it that hurt, that's harmful. What
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: I'd say to all those who have questions is, you know,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I get why your questions are important to answer, and
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I get why you might have them. But I'm also
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: worried that there's a lot of misinformation circulating on social
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: media and other channels that's leading people to worry about
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: side effects and are real. For example, we know that
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: there are a lot of folks out there who are
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: worried that the vaccine may cause infertility, or that it
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: may cause mutations in your DNA where that it may
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: cause COVID itself. None of those are true, but we've
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: seen those rumors. They've been kicked up on social media,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: but they're not true at all. They're not based in science. Well,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: here's what we do know, and keep in mind, it's
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: not just a couple of people gone this vaccine. Now
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: we've administered more than four hundred and twenty five million
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: doses of the vaccine in the United States alone and
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: billions of doses around the world. What we've learned are
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: two really important things. One is that the vaccine is
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: really effective at preventing the worst outcomes from COVID. It
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: will save your life. And the second thing we've learned
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: is that the vaccine has a remarkably strong safety profile.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: You know, as a doctor, I prescribe many vaccines over
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: the years to adults, our kids, certainly my kids and
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: other kids get many vaccines, you know, as they grow up.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: But you know, overall, as far as vaccines go, this
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: is one of the most safe and effective vaccines you know,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: that we've got out there. So I want people to
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: know that, and please, you know, talk to your doctor
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: if you have a doctor, you know, to understand more
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: about the vaccine. If you've got questions, or you know,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: talk to another credible source, your local health department, your
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: local children's hospital. But don't don't trust the random articles
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: that you might see floating around on the internet, because
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: they're not always true. Let's talk about the vaccination for kids.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: For children, specifically age five and oh, why is that
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: important for eligible children to get vaccinated. This is a
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: really important moment. It's a landmark, really moment in our
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: fight against COVID. Finally we've bet a vaccine for kids
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: side through eleven. No one of my kids is in
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: that range. He's five. He's landing right in the right
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: next to me at this moment as I'm talking to
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: is holding my hand, looking at me and uh and
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: you know, I love him to death and that would
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: do anything for him. And that's how all parents are
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: about their kids. They want to really ultimately look out
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: for the best for the help to their children. It's
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: number one in the studies that we're done with thousands
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: of children. The clinical trials, they showed that this from
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: vaccine worked really well. It was more than ninety one
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: percent effective for around ninety one percent in terms of
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: its epic is in preventing symptomatic COVID. The second thing
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: that was a safety profile was really good. The side
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: effects that kids primarily had were a sore arm, fatigue,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: a headache, a fever that lasted maybe a day or two.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: And then we're left with protection against a vaccine. That
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: is a really big deal and especially as winners is coming.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: It's here in many parts of the country already. The
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: virus is easier to transmit when there's cold, dry air,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: and you know, we know people are getting together an
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: indoor settings. Families want to get together for the holidays.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: So getting your child vaccinated is a way to reduce
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: their risk during this winter season. And if you do
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: it actually this week, you'll be able to get your
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: child fully vaccinated in time for Christmas. Yeah. Hey, well listen,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: stay right there, Doco. We're going to come right back.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more with the Surgeon General
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, everybody, We're back
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: in our special guests this morning as a twenty first
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Surgeon General of the United States, doctor Vibic Murty uh.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: And once again, for those of you that don't like
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: the pronunciation of his name coming from me, it is
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: because my Slovenian accidents are not I'm covering all the
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: bases in the Eastern York thing you want to cover
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: out do that. But this this brother right here is fantastic. Hey,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: we were talking about when we left, we were talking
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: about the pandemic as a getting better. There's been some improvement.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Over one hundred and ninety some million people in this
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: country have been fully vaccinated. That's a great step. Well,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: you know something, doctor, I think this was important to
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: hear from you, from our surgeon General. I know it's
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: people out there still got there. But like you say,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: if you get your information from credible sources, that could
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: help you. Please everybody, get off the internet and talk
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: to your doctors, talk to your medical professionals who do
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: this for a living, who are basing this around science.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: So and now I'll help us all. You know, I
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: really appreciate this because people want to know about their kids.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: That's a vaccination out there available for kids between five
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: and eleven, ninety one percent effective rate. We've had over
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: one hundred and ninety some million people vaccinated fully in
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: this country. We're on our way to getting our hands
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: around this thing. If we could get everybody to participate
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and stop lying. But I also am fully vaccinated, absolutely
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: seeven if I could see one last thing kids, the
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: folks who are listening, that last point you raised about
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: making sure you're getting information for the right sources is
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: absolutely important. You know, I wouldn't ask my electrician for
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: medical advice and I certainly wouldn't ask my doctor for
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: advice on my electrical system in my house. But if
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: you've gotten if you've got a relative out there who's
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: trying to tell you what you should and shouldn't do
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: about the vaccine, and there they've got misinformation there, just remember,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: you know, you can love your relatives, but you know,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: it doesn't mean you got to trust everything that's coming
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: from them. And unfortunately, we do have well intentioned family
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: members in my family too, who are sending messages out
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: over text threads and emails and on social media because
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: they think they're trying to warn their family, but actually
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: information may not be accurate, So you know, don't I
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: don't blame people, you know, necessarily for inadvertently spreading this,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: but just remember before you click share, you know, on
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: an article on social media, just ask yourself, is it
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: really coming preto credible source? Do I know? And if
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: you're not sure, don't share. We put out a community
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: toolkit for people to understand a little bit more about
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: how to identify misinformation went's out there, how to talk
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: to family members about that. People can find that at
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: surge in general dot gov. But bottom line is we
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: want you to be safe. We want you to have
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: accurate information to protect your health in your family, and
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: the SEEN is one powerful step to We're protecting all
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: of us between COVID. Absolutely. Thank you so much, ladies
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Our Sergeant General of the United States, thank
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you for calling, sir, Thanks so much. Steve gets to
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: talk to us always. He all right, my brother, Yes, sir,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: thank you, Doctor Murphy. The Steve Harvey Morning Show is
• 39:16
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• 39:19
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• 39:22
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• 39:25
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• 39:30
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• 39:38
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• 39:41
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• 39:44
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• 39:47
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• 39:50
  Speaker 1: especially that crazy nephew Tommy I live. I look forward
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: to them prank calls every morning. Shirlett's strawberry level. I
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  Speaker 1: just want to say, man, I love the show, always
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  Speaker 1: what you're doing. That's love. Bro right, all right, brock
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• 40:23
  Speaker 1: point is name six point three? Yes, sir, yes, sir, yes,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't say it enough times, go ahead of years. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: see that is not true. Natty. Timing is a fine
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: sexy ball here, man, and I just called to let
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: y'all know that. Don't do my timing like that. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: And this is Lee Andrea tacking all the way in
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  Speaker 1: from Jackson deal floordal baby. First of all, I'm just
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  Speaker 1: based on the name Leo Andrew. We're dealing with a
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  Speaker 1: certain age group. So once a person is old, you
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  Speaker 1: know her vision is in paid sound old ain't gonnahead sounded,
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  Speaker 1: Lee Andrew? Wait, wait wait wait, wait wait wait wait
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  Speaker 1: Lee Andrew wait, listen who starts stop stop? Who started
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  Speaker 1: a conversation? Listen? Stave who you know? Listen, Steve, who
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  Speaker 1: honors this? Y'all stopped taking me? See I listened real
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  Speaker 1: where y'all didn't hear that she didn't sound old. Start
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  Speaker 1: the tape again, Dave, stop that isn't Then they try
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  Speaker 1: to pick it up when they get go old, then
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: they try to sound you listen, scab, that is not
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  Speaker 1: sexy about hearing me sexy? Who? What the hell is sex? Sessy? Sexy?
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna die set because speech like that. I'm
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: just telling you, c SS why you ain't sexy? Timmy?
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: You set sessant? Ball head? Man, You're gonna leave my
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: time alone. I know her daddy old, I know her.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: I know her daddy old because her name le Andrew.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Her daddy name is Lee that takes something right now,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: and her mama name is wood All. It could be
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: her daddy name Andre and her mama named Lee. Yeah,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: a line is she said Tommy was a sexy ball head.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: She said Tommy was sexy. Y'all got to start listening.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: But you know what she meant? Should you? Oh? Lord?
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: All right? Next some love Tommy? You thank nine million
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: people listening to one? Do you want all? Nine million?
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: The call do you want all nine million? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right. The next message is from Mobile Alabama. Be Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: good morning. I am listening to your morning show at
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  Speaker 1: a Mobile, Alabama and I am thriving and I am
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  Speaker 1: dying laughing. If you said the guy that wouldn't take
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  Speaker 1: the four hundred and thirty some thousand dollars per game,
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  Speaker 1: next the sexy nephew with the prank phone call for
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  Speaker 1: it today. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
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• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: The subject She's way too comfortable. We'll get into that
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: in just a bit, because right now the nephew is
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got for us? Enough?
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving is upon us. We all know it's around the corners.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Time to get ready. You got people coming in family members.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: This right here is Thanksgiving with cousin Benji. Oh, Thanksgiving
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: with cousin Benji cat dog. If you hello, Hello, who
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  Speaker 1: is this? Miss Glendon? Who is this this benjy? I'm
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: college is missus Purvis there? Um? You know she's not
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: here right now, but this is our daughter? Um? Is
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: there a problem? Oh? No, this this this bends you.
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  Speaker 1: This Mama, Mama, Lord's nephew. Who is this again? It's
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: Blenda Mama, Mama, Lord, Mamma Lord. Joh Ain't it ain't
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: it correct? You? Mama? Lord's mis pervis sister. Okay, I'm
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: beings you. I'm I'm gonna nephew from the other side
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: of the family. You say your name? What no blends? Okay?
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: What tell y'all supposed to get in and we used
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: to meet there by the afternoon. Okay, Uh? Is missus purvis?
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Is she is your mama making the the dresses? Yeah,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: she's making enough for about forty five people. We actually, um,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: this was discussed about a month ago, right y'all on
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: the y'all they had the U conference call, the conference
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: good family had the conference call, right yes, sir? Okay, Nah, listen,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: what reason why they got me to call? They wanted
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: me to go in and call and and I was
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: trying to give me this pervious she's not there. You
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: know she's not here. What's wrong? Uh? Okay, they're not
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: gonna they're not gonna need her to do them to
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: do the dressing. And why wouldn't they need to do
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: dress She's been making it for ten years. We just
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: we just discussed it. So what do you mean they
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: say that they got somebody down here that's gonna do
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: the dresses, espially since y'all traveling y'all ain't got to
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: bring it, you know, and be traveling with it. But
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: they got somebody gonna do the dressing. Okay, Well, first
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: of all, how are you you're you're Benji? What is
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: your name? That was not my name, Benjamin, but they
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: called me Benji. But but but like I say, uh,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I'm on the other side of a fam I ain't
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: on y'all side. Okay. Well, I'm still trying to fig
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: out why are you calling me? Because she's been making
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: a dressing for ten years, like I said, and I
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: mean it's been discussed. So I don't even know why
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: why you're calling me. I don't even know you. Okay, Well,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to explain to you just right here
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  Speaker 1: is that they got something y'all. Y'all, I all ain't
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: got to worry with bringing the dressing. They got somebody
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: gonna bring They got somebody down here that's gonna cook it.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: So and don'twhere with you know, if you can tell
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: Miss Pervi ain't got to worry about the dressing this year.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I'm so you want me to tell my mama after
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: she'd been making dressing for ten years that y'all say
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: y'all ain't worried about she shouldn't have to make it
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: this year because we're driving there. We drive every year,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna do that to her. So, I mean,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't even know who you are to
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: be calling me anyway. Why didn't somebody calling me that
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know regarding it? Okay, okay, you're good the right,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: I am blended? All right. Listen, let me say this
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: because I don't mind saying what everybody thinking, but most
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: people don't want to say. Let me just say this
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: right here. Really, what's going on is just right here.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: A lot of people in the family you know, don't
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: really don't don't really lighten Miss Prayer of his dressing.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: Dni Benjamin, who you're supposed to be, Let me spot
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: this up. Need my mama gonna make it dressing, you
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: gonna keep it, and we ain't bringing that home with us.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: So you can tell your family that I said that
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: because you understand me. I mean, for first of all,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: you got to understand that I'm bringing news that that
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: people didn't don't voted on, and this is what everybody
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: want to do, don't nobody, Well, why didn't knick house.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: We had a meeting from dressing. She been making it
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: ten years, ain't Nobody had been saying nothing and against
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: what one of them up to the house. Nobody did
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: not be walking up and through that. I'm talking about
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: my mamma either, And you know I'm gonna eat it. Okay,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: we'll see right there. Why why if people don't like
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: the dressing, Glenda, why do you want to make submit
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: everybody to have it to eat it? If they don't
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: like it, you don't eat That's how I don't know.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You want to call me, well, I
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: don't know, no Benjamin Benjie who I I mama Lord's
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: nephew from the other side of the family exactly, And
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: they don't know you, okay, And it really really to
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: the bad all that I don't really know you. But
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I'm but I'm but I'm man, a man another car
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: you and tell you what we're gonna do, what we
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna do, what I know I ain't. I say
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: it wasn't I repeated again. She gonna make that transfix.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: You gonna eat it, and we're gonna rod my name, Okay, okay,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: right there, listen, and I know this might be hard
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: for you to understand what you grew up with liking
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: everybody else might not like even say what you want to.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna even you be white, so you read
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: it like it because you ain't done around. But she
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: make it dress it now. First of all, when y'all
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: get down here, it's gonna already be some more dressing
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: hill okay, okay, and she gonna make cuts her and
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: sense and we're gonna see down and we got I'm
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: gonna eat. And he didn't say it's not even many
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: means discuss my friend and that I said, I don't
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: like say because your name's gonna hurt my mama feeling. Okay,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: there ain't nobody to try that. Why I'm trying to
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: tell you to tell her don't make it nah, so
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: she won't even bring it down. We aren't gonna get anyway. Hey, look,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this hell because every dealer you are
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: really understanding what I'm saying to you. I'm gonna say
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: it as clear as I can say. If y'all come
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: down here with that dress, I'll promise you we already
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: got dressing. Mate, we're throwing that dressing in the trash
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: so everybody can get the dressing that we made fun
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: of him. Floy Blake, that's what we're doing. Please let
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: me splay something in you. I'm gonna be undressing Patroll
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: and if I find out you then through my MAM's
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: dressing in the trash, it's gonna be something and we're
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: gonna set that out. I'm not playing with you. That's
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: what's too funny to me. I'm gonna call ain't tell
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: me we don't hid the coll ain't knowing well enough
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: to call us. I'm telling us to bull. But now
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: they're gonna set She'll stupid because for me, I don't
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: even know she'll tell I can't they feeld like you?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Like you the bad in the world. But beji Beneam,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: I don't even know you're wrapping. I'm telling you now,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I'm tilling that playing with you. I'm telling you every
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: hurt my mama feeling, it's gonna be some and then
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: and I'm telling you all, y'all gonna be yeah down there.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: But I'm call me, y'all have one. Let me I
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: say something else to you. I wish you would. Can
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: I tell you what else they were saying they wanted
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew. Tell
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your cousin Sheila
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: got me the plank phone call. You tell me fine,
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: you about to make me? Said it off? What that man,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: this same gibble will see it wasn't gonna be. No,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: he remade it because I'm gonna have my brother's warm.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: Then you yeah, play to me, Hank, give me a
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: thing of me. Cancel, man, ask question before I let
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: you go. What is the baddest and I mean the
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land Steve Harvey Morning Show,
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Arca carr ain't till ain't nobody say nothing on the
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: She was I'm gonna come up in here, said this,
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  Speaker 1: blanketed blank off. She was this, I'm feel to be
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: on blanketed blank dressing blanking blank patrol. Not dressing patrol, though,
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: man stupid. Yeah yeah yeah. She got tired to your
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: stupid to talk to me. I don't even know Benjamin,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: Benji by folks, what is your name? I love man,
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: you know, no hurt our mama's feeling, you know feeling.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I don't like the dressing. You better swallow. I tell
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: you what. We're gonna bring that dressing down there. We
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: ain't bringing none back home. We're gonna make and y'all
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: end's gonna eat it. Man, I love it. See right there,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: right there, and see you not that right there? Why
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: would we see? I'm gonna just say to see why
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: See things you grew up on liking might not be
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: what you boyce your stupid, but with your stupid ass,
• 53:24
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• 53:26
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• 53:37
  Speaker 1: Coming up next Strawberry letter subject She's way too comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: is the strong very Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject, She's
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: way too comfortable. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: year old man and I was dating an almost perfect
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: woman until recently. We met at the wedding of one
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: of my oldest friends, and my friend had lots of
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: great things to say about her. That would seven months ago,
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: and we were taking time to get to know each
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: each other. She's two years older than me and further
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: along in her career than I am, but she's never
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: made a big deal out of it. We started attending
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: church together right away, and I've met her family and friends,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: and she's met my mother. My mother didn't have much
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: to say about her, and that bothered me. A few
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: weeks later, my mother called me and said, my girlfriend
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: has mannerisms of a trifling woman. She told me that
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: my kitchen should have been clean, and there should have
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: been the basic things like an adequate amount of bottle
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: of water and liquid soap in the kitchen and both
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: of my bathrooms. I didn't know what that meant until recently,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: when I started leaving my girlfriend alone at my house
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: when I go on work trips. I came home one
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: day to find her dirty clothes in a pile on
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: the floor of my closet, and she said she didn't
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: know where else to put them. The bed looked like
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: it hadn't been made up since I left, and she
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: said she intended to wash the sheets before I came home.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: That's not the half of it, though. She now comes
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: into the bathroom and uses the bathroom while I'm in
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: the shower or brushing my teeth. She's spend every night
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: at my house since then, and whenever she goes back
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: to her house, she brings more clothes to my guest room.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: My mother was right, and I wish I had paid
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: more attention. I want to be with her, but she's
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: too comfortable and taking over my home. How do I
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: slow things down a bit and get her back into
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: her own house. Okay, I'm trying to assess what the
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: problem is and what you really want and why, because
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: at the beginning of this letter, when you guys, you know,
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: met and everything, and you didn't have an issue with
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: this woman, you said she was almost perfect, almost perfect
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: until your mom stepped in and said she had trifling ways.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Your mom had a small list of wrong things in
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: your house that she held your girlfriend accountable for, things
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: like soap in the bathrooms, in the kitchen, no bottled water,
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: and the messy kitchen too. I agree that if your
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: girl is staying there, she should at least make sure
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: she cleans up after herself. I have no problem with that,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: But it sounds like your girl is thinking she's a guest.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: She's thinking herself as a guest, not the woman of
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: the house. Right now, you know what I say, don't
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: be a mama's boy. Here, have your own grown man
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: conversation with your girlfriend and discuss these boundaries in the
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: bathroom and stuff that you don't like, you know, meaning
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: her staying at your house too much. All that. Discuss
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: everything with her. Remember you said you were taking time
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: to get to know each other, and that's a process,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: and talking and communicating, it's all a major part of that.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: See how she receives this conversation. If she receives it
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: negatively positively, and then go from there. And by the way,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: have you been to her house because you didn't mention
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: that was her house clean. If it's a mess and
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: you like a clean then you guys have a real problem.
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: The point is you should handle this situation, not your mom, Steve, Nope, Shirley,
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. This young man has a different problem.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: This boy right here, Lord him moving too fast? Boy,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: We're just moving too fast. Twenty nine year old guy
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: the Tyler letters, she weighed too comfortable. Oh boy, I
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: will watch How to Teach You Something Sun. Twenty nine
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: year old man. I was dating an almost perfect woman. Keyword,
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: I was dating an almost perfect woman. There are none
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: of them, so there are none. There are no perfect men,
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: there are no perfect relationships, there are no perfect people.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: When you thought that, you was only setting yourself up
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: for the let down. So let's go on and start.
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  Speaker 1: Met at the wedding of one of my oldest friends.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: My friends had a lot of great things to say
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: about her. That was seven months ago. We were taking
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: time to get to know each other. But watch this.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: She's two years older than me and further along in
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: her career than I am. But she never made a
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: big deal out of that. We started attending church together
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: right away, and I met her family and friends, and
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: she's met my mother. My mother didn't have much to
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: say about her, and that bothered me. A few weeks later,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: my mother called me and said, my girlfriend has mannerisms
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: of a trifling woman. Oh, you casted you. That's gonna
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: Perkerman's kids back when her mama, when a man's mama
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: made that assessment. It don't make you a mama's boys,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: just her assessment. Now, I could have called this to Mamma,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: just don't like and she hating, she over protective. I
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: could go there, but that's not the case. She called
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: and said that after a few weeks, and then the
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: reason she told us what I didn't agree with. She
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: said the kitchen should have been clean, and that should
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: have been basic things like adequate amount of bottle water
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: and liquid soaping the kitchen on both of my bathrooms.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: I ain't know what that meant me either dog, I
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: don't eat, so what do they ain't No, damn bottle
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: water isn't there. I got a big ass house and
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: pay people and sometimes ain't. No, damn bottle water isn't
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: now here's will roll because of this, But that's neither
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: here nor that. Okay, I got hang on. We'll have
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up in twenty three minutes.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: After the subject of today's strawberry letter is she's way
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: too comfortable. We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject She's way too comfortable. Well,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: let me. I'm gonna teach you something about being a
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: young man. So listen up. This is gonna be good.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: You're twenty nine year od dude. Day knew woman a
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: couple of years old, and you you met out of
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: way and everything was going to God. You've met her
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: and you thought she was at almost perfect woman, which
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: was setting yourself up for this letter because there are
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: none of those out there, and there are no perfect
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: men out there. So now that she was looking for
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: near perfection and you found out it ain't there. Now
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: you're gonna write into the radio show. So well, here
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: we go. But you wrote in Uncle Steve. So that's
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: good because I'm gonna teach you something. Man, she makes
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: more money than you. Never made a big deal out
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: of it. Y'all immediately started attending the church and everybody
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you met her family, you met your family. That thing
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: to Ball that you was. Your mother didn't have much
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: to say about it at Ball, that you and I understand.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: But a couple of weeks later, your mama called and
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: your mama said that your girlfriend has mannerisms of a
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: trifling woman. Now that perks a young man's ears back
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: when his mother says that because he loves his mother.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: Most men are looking for their mama or traits like
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: or inner woman. So when your mama said your girlfriend
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: got mannerisms of a trifling woman, that's different. So and
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: she told me that your kitchen should have been clean
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: and should have been basic things like adequate amount of
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: out of water liquid soap in the kitchen and both
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: of my bathrooms. I don't know what that meant well
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: me either, Dog be honest with you, I don't either.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: You can come over my house and not bring no
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: damn bottle water. I can deal with that. You ain't
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: got to put soap in the kitchen on the bathroom. Hell,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: wipe your hands off, run them under some water, wipe
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: your hands off, come on back in here. But that's
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: neither hear nor that. And then he started figuring out
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: when I started leaving my girlfriend alone in my house
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: when I go on work trips. I came home one
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: day to found dirty clothes in the pile on the
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: floor in the closet. The girl told you she didn't
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: know where else to put them, but the bed looked
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: like they had been made up since I left. She
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: said she intended to wash the sheets before I came home.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: And but that ain't the half of it. She now
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: comes into the bathroom and use this the bathroom while
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: let me in the shower or brushing my teeth. This
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: where the latter took a turn. What was that sound?
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: That's a cost slamming on break what I'm in here
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: brushing my teeth. You're using the tarlet, I'm in the shower.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: You're using the toilet. That ain't comfortable. You're doing too much.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this while I'm in the bathroom.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: I don't want to see this side of you. We
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: ain't that cool. She spent every night at my house
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: since then, and whenever she goes back to her house,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: she brings more clothes to my guest room. She's moving
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: too fast, she's trying to move in. You're a good dude, man,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: and she see it. She seeing she trying to get
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: all her stuff over that marker territory. Y'all been spending
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: every night together. But when she go home, she brings
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: more clothes to your guest room because it ain't a
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: guest room no more. You know why, because you ain't
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: fit to hand no more guests. Your guest room stands
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: for guess who was the last person in? Now that's
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: what your guest room is. Now. My mother was right,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: and I wish I had paid more attention. I want
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: to be with her, but she's too comfortable and taking
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: over my home. How do I slow things down a
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: bit and get her back to her own house? Now, Son,
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: this is where I'm gonna help you out. This is
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Uncle Steve talking to you. See. The problem is, young man,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: you don't know how to analyze your own feelings and situation.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: That's the problem you're having because you like her, and
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: you thought she was perfect. You trying to work through
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: a couple things. But some of these things that you're
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: trying to work through, I don't think you're gonna be
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: able to tolerate this. A messy woman is hard to
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: deal with, just like a messy man. It's hard to
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: deal with. But I for me, and you can call
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: it sexist or whatever you want want to. I can't
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: date a sloppy woman. I can't do it. I can't.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: I can't do that. I cannot date a woman that
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: that don't keep herself up in the house. I can't
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: do it. I can't do it. I can't do it.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not that great when it comes to keeping things
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: around the house. Cleaning. Now, both of us trifling. So
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: now I'm sorry. You can call that what you wanted,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: but my girl can't be trifling because I already know
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting my trifling when they come to the house.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: See right there, right there. Now, you say what you
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: want to say about me, but I'm making a car
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: and they't her job to keep it clean. It's really ain't.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I understand that it's a pitch in and do it
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: both ways. I got all that and that's what we
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: do around here. I pitch in, I pitch you, I
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: pay for somebody to do my part. Yeah, that's how
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: I pitch in. And you can do what you want
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: to do. But I don't know how you're gonna handle it.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: But just coming in this damn bathroom, I'm here trying
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: to brush my teeth. That's what you ain't gonna do.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: You definitely pull your drawers down, leave around your ankles
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: to be sitting there making sounds and noise. I'm in
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: here brushing my damn this is gonna stop right here.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: You got to go back home. Now. You say, now
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: heting that not that's what? What do? What you think?
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Using the bathroom? And she and that champn? Now how
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: do I slow things down a bit and get her
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: back to her house? Dog? You don't know this, but
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: you got to break up with this one because let
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: me explain something to you. It's more of this. You
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: just seeing this, You just get scratching the surface. Dog
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: in seven months, if she using the bath room in
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: front of you, it's some more behind curtain number three.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: I promise you that dog. You don't know how to
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: analyze these feelings you have. And I break up at her.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: Thank you, she's not fit to stop being triping dog.
• 1:06:42
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• 1:06:52
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• 1:06:55
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• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to show in today's trending headlines,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: a lot going on in the world. First, in the
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: trial of Kyle Rittenhouse, the judge rips the media, saying
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: that he'll think long and hard about allowing televised trials
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: in the future. Also, when he referred to jurors from
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: a previous trial, he referred to the African Americans as
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: a black or the black. I mean, come on, judge,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: that sounds crazy, Okay, I heard. I mean it sounds
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: like the racist that this judicial system is and has
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: always been. He's a judge and you're referring to blacks
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: as the black, a black. But they can't help it.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: And see the problem is he's having with live televised
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: things is now people get to see what he'd been doing, Yes, sir,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: behind Clau's doors. See that's what problem is because now
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: it ain't. It ain't the media. It's you see, see
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: what happened with social media. It allowed us to take
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: a peek behind the curtain because they've had the curtain
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: up for years. See all of these, all these killings
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: of blacks and all this heath. I've seen this mind
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: tome sixty four. I've seen this mind entire life. I've
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: seen blacks get killed by the police in Cleveland. It
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: don't even make the paper. I saw it before, So
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: this ain't nothing new to me. But now the curtain
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: is back, and they don't like that. The curtain is back.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: That's right, you're right. Also in the Ahmad Arbery murder trial,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: we have two murder trials going on at the same time.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: The man Travis McMichael, who fatally shot Ahmad Arbery, describes
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: a life or death encounter. Did you see they had
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: the gun? You know, normally you don't see defendants take
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: the stand right right, because it's self. But they know
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: they have to do a desperate measure because this right here,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: they taking the stand so he can try to create something.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: What this man said was he grabbed my gun, and
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: if that had if he had taken my gun, I
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: feared for my life. That's a favorite thing. Wait a minute.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: First of all, why you got a gun? You chase
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: this man down? He jogged and then he had to
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: nerve this say, because I assumed he was a guy
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: that had been breaking in a black dude running down
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: the street. I said, man, you murder him on an
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: that's your damn defense. You're a murder yes. Yes. Also
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: in today's trending headlines, our condolence is going out to
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: the family a rapper, young Dolph. He was shocked and
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: killed at a bakery in Memphis yesterday. Our condolences definitely
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: to his wife, his children. He was a beloved rapper. Wow.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be honest, I don't. I don't
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: know much about him at all. That's not my lane.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: But the tragedy of it is, look this this violence. Man,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: it's out of hand. Yes it is. It's stam Shane
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: kill this boy liked it all right. We'll have more
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the
• 1:10:15
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• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: wherever we go, but it's been a minute. Yeah, so, um,
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  Speaker 1: Carla came up with these questions for the crew. Uh,
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: if everyone morning come on, if everyone on the Morning
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: Show was at the airport, who would get pulled aside
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: by TSA? Sure? Surely all that all that you need
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: to fly? With all this here masking, I covering, I
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: have come on. A man's got metal all on bluetooth speakers,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: trying to calm your nerves. Where you get on, I'm
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: not hot blood pressure cuff? She got a high blood
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: pressure cuff. Taking her blood pressure room and set your
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: hands down somewhere. What's the next question? Here we go?
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Who would take the longest in the security lines? Tom
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: surely fly through all this stuff, man, Tommy to be
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: having a lot of stuff, clear everything right on? All right?
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: Who would be which one of us would take his
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: or her shoes off on the plane. See, I gotta
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: take my damn I got to get the damn shoes
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: off there anyway. Hell, I'm flying all that way over
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: there on which I got. I gotta old, I gotta
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: separate them. You know. It's a very rare that they
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: spend time away from each other, but they enjoy the
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: freedom sometimes. So I got spread these toes out little,
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: not touched like like I can't like if I spread
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: my toes like wild as I can like that second
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: and third toe have never been away from each other,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: the one next to the big toe on the one
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: right next to that, the tallest toe. He has never
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: been away from his friend. They've never Yeah, dog, they
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: damn this Simmese twins. Damn did they? I ain't never
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: opened them up. But they might be webbed. They might
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: not be able to separate. But that toe that's next
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: to my big toe and the one next hit. They
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: never separated. Now, Baby told him been off on his own.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: And I had a manicures, a pediculator that had a
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: whole fifth round my big toe. One time I couldn't
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: even breathe. I was hyperventilated. Help, if you don't get
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: my toe ich your hand like that, just hold just
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: five on your toe. They'll put that divide where it
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: separate all of them. Well, Tommy, that's what if you're
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: doing nail polish. That question isn't on here lacked up.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Let's see, I don't. I don't polish my damn toad
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: jail all right? Who would get their way too early?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: Julie Junior because he's scared I'm there. Who would get
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: their late? Monica gonna get their weird? I'm getting there early.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: Who's who's gonna get there late? Late? Tommy probably Tommy. Yeah.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: Who's gonna get drunk before getting on the plane, Tommy, Julia,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: it's Julie want he gonna get drunk before you get
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: on plane? On the plane, so let's get off the plane.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: All right. We'll have more of today's trending stories coming
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• 1:14:55
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  Speaker 1: six year old prostitute Beatrice three Dollars Thompson. Beatrice has
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: retired after a fifty four years career. Huh. She left
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: over five hundred thousand customers satisfied, including four American presidents.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: Beatrice three dollars Thompson is nicknamed three dollars for the
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: price of a sexual act. When she started working in
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: the sex industry. I mean, you had to work so
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: long three dollars. Damn Inflation didn't nothing take the price up.
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  Speaker 1: You know, some people enjoy what they do. They love
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: their jobs. I mean. The Sex Workers Union of Nevada
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  Speaker 1: named her sex Worker of the Year seventeen times. Okay,
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: sex work of the Century. Her old ass was seventy six. Yes,
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: she got six Worker of the Year of the year
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  Speaker 1: seventeen times and between check this out, Steve. Between nineteen
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  Speaker 1: sixty nine and nineteen ninety two, she was honored with
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  Speaker 1: her count for her contribution to the profession with a
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: Lifetime Achievement award, and her very last customer was a
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  Speaker 1: thirty four year old man from Germany who made a
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: trip to see her fifty four hundred miles. He wanted
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: to see her and no one else. He said it
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: was the best experience of his life. She has God
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: given skills and over fifty years of experience. Wait a
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  Speaker 1: you weather our round of would you rather go as
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  Speaker 1: like this? Um hm For the guys, would you rather
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  Speaker 1: have people admire you for the good things that you
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  Speaker 1: do in life? Or would you have rather have people
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  Speaker 1: respect you for your power? So you want to be
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  Speaker 1: a good person, to be a powerful person, basically, okay,
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  Speaker 1: would you rather have people admire you for your good
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  Speaker 1: deeds or would you rather people respect you for your power?
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  Speaker 1: Want to respect? I'm abo you want to be admired
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  Speaker 1: or respect Yeah, I'll just be admired. Yeah that's what
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  Speaker 1: I would you say, Junior, I'd rather be admired because
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm doing. Now I'm doing at currently don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Would you say, m r. Spect you want people to
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  Speaker 1: respect you for your power? I really got no damn power.
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  Speaker 1: So what how you choose beating? I guess I'm hoping
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  Speaker 1: for the power, you know, I really ain't got no power.
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  Speaker 1: You want to see what they feel like. But at
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  Speaker 1: least he came to its own conclusion. We didn't have
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  Speaker 1: to help him out. Well, it's hard because I've I've
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  Speaker 1: felt both of those things, you know. But I think
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  Speaker 1: it's more important to be admired for the good things
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  Speaker 1: that you do. That's probably the most important respective power.
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't like having to flex that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't um limited in certain areas, you know, But any
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  Speaker 1: you know, And yeah, anytime you're in the position of
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  Speaker 1: authoritative position, that gives you a certain amount of power,
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  Speaker 1: but you got to be careful with it. You have
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  Speaker 1: to be very very careful with it. And there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: you should I'd rather be liked for the good things
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  Speaker 1: that I do. It's power can work, all right. Here's
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  Speaker 1: another one. Would you rather live to be one hundred
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  Speaker 1: years old and you're out or would you rather live
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  Speaker 1: to be five hundred years old? Like they used to
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  Speaker 1: be some Bible and stuff, one hundred or five hundred,
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  Speaker 1: one hundred. I ain't gonna know nobody. We just walk
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  Speaker 1: around talking. Ain't nobody to talk to my lad free
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  Speaker 1: and dad for one hundred and ninety seven years ago?
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  Speaker 1: What the hell about to be doing? You? Ain't nobody
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  Speaker 1: gonna want to talk to me? Well, I remember when
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  Speaker 1: they they ain't had them with cell phone, y'all flying
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  Speaker 1: you know, do you know we actually walk somewhere? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Yes one thanks from dressing. Wow Y, you know I'm
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  Speaker 1: eating a Keto diet right now, you know, Keto eating program.
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  Speaker 1: And uh my wife asked me, says, so, how do
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  Speaker 1: like I've been doing it for the other sixty three day.
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  Speaker 1: Change give me not changing damn fitting to go out
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  Speaker 1: of katosis, is all I'm saying. Yeah, that's right, all right.
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  Speaker 1: know what, Steve, we have? We really really do. I
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  Speaker 1: think I think sometimes we as human beings have a
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  Speaker 1: tendency to lose sight of what we have to be
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  Speaker 1: and in our quest to get more, we oftentimes forget
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  Speaker 1: there's so many things that we should really be grateful for,
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  Speaker 1: because really, it doesn't have to be this way. I
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  Speaker 1: was on the set of the other day and we
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  Speaker 1: were in a briefing for my new show. We were
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: all in the group talking. I don't really know these people,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: you know, that part of the show team and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I've just met him for formatter a few weeks and
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  Speaker 1: I just said to them. We were all in the
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  Speaker 1: group talking and I said, you know, man, we all fortunate.
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  Speaker 1: You know, this is not how it really goes to
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  Speaker 1: be able to do. If you have a position or
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  Speaker 1: a job that allows you to do something that you
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  Speaker 1: enjoy doing. Do you realize that the average person does
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  Speaker 1: not really enjoy their job. The average person doesn't really
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  Speaker 1: enjoy their job. So I said, man, this is not regular.
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  Speaker 1: This ain't how it's supposed to be. I'm supposed to
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  Speaker 1: really be back on one of them jobs. I had
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  Speaker 1: living my life in complete and utter misery. But now
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  Speaker 1: you're also very fortunate if you have a job at all. See,
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  Speaker 1: and so instead of complaining about it not being the
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  Speaker 1: ideal job you want to have, what about the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you do have a job. And let's just think
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  Speaker 1: about the things that that job does provide. It may
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  Speaker 1: not be paying everything you wan't, but guess what. It
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  Speaker 1: provides a comfortable place to live, It provides clothing, it
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  Speaker 1: provides shelter, food, it provides some types of comforts, cable TV,
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  Speaker 1: car notes, gas money. It provides something. So even if
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  Speaker 1: you don't have a job you enjoy. How about the fact,
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  Speaker 1: where's the gratitude and just having the job? See, we
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  Speaker 1: lose sight looking at what we want, hope for, and
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  Speaker 1: aspire to, and we lose sight of what he's done
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  Speaker 1: for us, because remember when you didn't have a job
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  Speaker 1: and you just wanted a job. I remember setting them saying, man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what I do. I just got to
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  Speaker 1: find a job. I gotta get some money in him.
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  Speaker 1: And the other day it was kind of fool for
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  Speaker 1: me and me and my wife were having a conversation
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: and she says, Steve, I know you're tip, She said, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: I noticed is a lot. She said, I really appreciate
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  Speaker 1: to where you work to keep your family together and
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  Speaker 1: all you do for everybody, for everybody, Steve hard And
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  Speaker 1: then I was sitting there, going, I'll steal a little
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  Speaker 1: kind of tying down and everything. And then my wife
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  Speaker 1: looked at me and she says, Steve, I just have
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  Speaker 1: to say this to me, because I know you can
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  Speaker 1: handle it. I said, babe, what is it? She said?
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  Speaker 1: Heavy is the head and wears the clown. And I
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  Speaker 1: knew that because I told it to her. But she's
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  Speaker 1: smart enough to remind me, and she know I'm the
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  Speaker 1: man that can handle that statement. She said, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: but I have to tell you this. Heavy is the
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  Speaker 1: head that wears the crown, she said, and you wear
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  Speaker 1: it well, she said. But there ain't nobody gonna know
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  Speaker 1: how heavy this one is but you, because you only
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  Speaker 1: want to got this crown on you the king of
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  Speaker 1: this castle. She said. Now I'm the queen. I got
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  Speaker 1: some stuff on me you don't even know about. But
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  Speaker 1: she be you the king and heavy as the head
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  Speaker 1: that wears the crown. And then she looked at me
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  Speaker 1: and she said, and what's that other thing you always
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  Speaker 1: tell me about your plate? And I had to remind
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  Speaker 1: myself of this one. I said, you can't complain about
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  Speaker 1: what all's on your plate when your whole goal was
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  Speaker 1: to eat. And I went, oh, my goodness, And you
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  Speaker 1: know what this was the other day when I was
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  Speaker 1: a little tired and exhausted, or wearing the crown, when
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  Speaker 1: I was a little tired and exhausted of everything that
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  Speaker 1: was on my plate. And when I got through, I
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  Speaker 1: realized that I had the crown. So I got grateful,
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  Speaker 1: and I realized I had a lot on my plate,
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  Speaker 1: and I got grateful. So instead of worrying about what
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got, how about praising God for what you do? God?
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  Speaker 1: How that signed? So I like a winner to me.
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