Latest / The Steve Harvey Morning Show / FULL SHOW: Special Guest - Terri J. Vaughn, Strawberry Letter - Has My Husband Been Faking It - 06.13.25
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all
- 0:05Speaker 1: don't know y'all, but.
- 0:09Speaker 2: All at all, so given them.
- 0:15Speaker 3: Back.
- 0:15Speaker 1: A million bus busy.
- 0:24Speaker 4: Listening to show.
- 0:38Speaker 5: I want joy joy.
- 0:58Speaker 4: You know you love, you.
- 1:10Speaker 6: Know you.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Gotta turn.
- 1:31Speaker 7: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got
- 1:44Speaker 7: to turn the mouth. Water the money up looking me?
- 1:55Speaker 5: Come me?
- 1:58Speaker 3: Come on, you'll think that, huh, I sure will. Good
- 2:03Speaker 3: morning everybody.
- 2:04Speaker 8: You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
- 2:07Speaker 8: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah,
- 2:13Speaker 8: I do.
- 2:14Speaker 3: Man. God been good to me, man, he been so
- 2:17Speaker 3: good to me. Wow.
- 2:21Speaker 8: And and you know why I say it like that.
- 2:24Speaker 8: What makes it amazing is because it's been in spite
- 2:26Speaker 8: of myself.
- 2:29Speaker 3: I mean, you know what I mean by that. I
- 2:31Speaker 3: mean I mean that he's been good to me.
- 2:35Speaker 8: In spite of all the craziness I've done, all the
- 2:39Speaker 8: foolishness I've gotten myself involved with, and not only got
- 2:43Speaker 8: but knowingly got myself involved with, all of the stupid
- 2:49Speaker 8: decisions I've made. Put all that to the side, and
- 2:55Speaker 8: he's still been good to me. Bring it all and
- 2:58Speaker 8: put it on the plate, and he's still being good
- 3:00Speaker 8: to me.
- 3:01Speaker 3: Man.
- 3:01Speaker 8: That's amazing, man, And I'm sure there's a lot of
- 3:04Speaker 8: people that can say the exact same thing.
- 3:06Speaker 3: I mean, come on, man, I got you.
- 3:09Speaker 8: Ain't famous, I got ain't nobody, got no microphone in
- 3:12Speaker 8: your face, I got nobody, ain't got no spotlight on you.
- 3:14Speaker 8: I got nobody, ain't got no camera in your face.
- 3:16Speaker 8: I got nobody probably ain't nobody blogging about you. But
- 3:19Speaker 8: let me tell you something. If you break it down
- 3:21Speaker 8: and be real about it, Oh you done done something
- 3:24Speaker 8: outside the box. You done done something ladies included, you've
- 3:27Speaker 8: done something out the box. You woke up and went
- 3:30Speaker 8: what did I do that for?
- 3:33Speaker 3: Oh? We've all done it. So with all that said and.
- 3:37Speaker 8: Done, God still loves you, man, God still loves you,
- 3:41Speaker 8: still wants the best for you, still considers you his child.
- 3:45Speaker 3: And it's willing. It's willing man to show you your future.
- 3:50Speaker 3: He is willing to show you your life. He is
- 3:53Speaker 3: willing to let you take a peek at the blueprint.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Man.
- 3:58Speaker 8: That's an amazing God right there. Because I know I
- 4:01Speaker 8: couldn't do it. I couldn't do it. I'm glad it's him,
- 4:05Speaker 8: you know. Today, Man, I want to encourage brothers out there.
- 4:08Speaker 8: And when I say brothers, I'm talking to everybody that's
- 4:10Speaker 8: of the male species. I don't care about your color.
- 4:13Speaker 8: I really really don't. I don't even have time for
- 4:15Speaker 8: that in my day. Matter of fact, sometimes when you
- 4:18Speaker 8: get to discuss and race, I just get tired of it.
- 4:21Speaker 3: Sometimes I just wish, you know, some days I just
- 4:23Speaker 3: want to wake up, just do me.
- 4:25Speaker 8: You know, I got what the skin tone is, I
- 4:29Speaker 8: got that, But I just want to wake up some
- 4:31Speaker 8: days and just going by my business and do me.
- 4:33Speaker 8: I don't want to have to deal with it somebody.
- 4:35Speaker 8: I get tired of talking about the issues. Ain't gonna
- 4:37Speaker 8: make them go away, But sometimes I get tired. So
- 4:39Speaker 8: to day, I'm talking to brothers, all the brothers of
- 4:41Speaker 8: the male species. I'm talking about men today. Man, if
- 4:48Speaker 8: you ain't doing it all, if you're feeling empty, man,
- 4:50Speaker 8: start today completing your process and your journey. And you
- 4:54Speaker 8: know what I'm saying by that, if there's a part
- 4:57Speaker 8: of you just missing as a man. And now, man,
- 5:01Speaker 8: I'm talking to you. So you know, some ladies listening,
- 5:04Speaker 8: but you know what I'm talking about. It's some part
- 5:07Speaker 8: of you that's missing as a man. If you ain't
- 5:10Speaker 8: really been in touch with your kids like you're supposed
- 5:13Speaker 8: to now for whatever the reason is. And please know,
- 5:17Speaker 8: I do understand how sometimes women can use children as pawns.
- 5:23Speaker 8: It happens all the time. I've been through it. I've
- 5:26Speaker 8: been through it, man, I know what it feels like, man,
- 5:29Speaker 8: to wanna do something. But because you ain't got this
- 5:33Speaker 8: or you ain't doing this, then I ain't gonna let
- 5:34Speaker 8: you have this. You gotta fight through, fellas, you got
- 5:38Speaker 8: to fight through. You got to fulfill your end of
- 5:43Speaker 8: the deal. And I got how difficult they making it.
- 5:47Speaker 8: I got how man, it's gonna come with some drama,
- 5:49Speaker 8: but you gotta fight through it. Because man, we need
- 5:53Speaker 8: fathers to be fathers. That's really what we need. If
- 5:56Speaker 8: you're a man out there and you are a father
- 5:59Speaker 8: of a child, we need you do your job.
- 6:02Speaker 3: I'm talking about.
- 6:04Speaker 8: Our community, our situation, us as a people, all of us.
- 6:10Speaker 8: We need you to be a father period. Hey man,
- 6:15Speaker 8: I ain't coming down on you. I'm just your boy.
- 6:18Speaker 8: I'm your man. And I've been in the same predicament,
- 6:21Speaker 8: in the same hole myself, where I couldn't get to them,
- 6:25Speaker 8: where they were used as pawns, where they were told
- 6:29Speaker 8: things about me that wasn't even true. I've been through it.
- 6:33Speaker 8: You can't see them, you don't come up. Okay, okay,
- 6:35Speaker 8: I got all that. You ain't sent this. You ain't okay,
- 6:37Speaker 8: Hey got all that. If you can call them sometimes,
- 6:43Speaker 8: tell them you're thinking about them, tell them you love them.
- 6:47Speaker 8: If you can get a letter to them, if you
- 6:49Speaker 8: can get a message to your children through one of
- 6:51Speaker 8: your relatives, start the process today.
- 6:56Speaker 3: Be a father.
- 6:58Speaker 8: It's your job now, because cause you ignoring him, or
- 7:01Speaker 8: you acting like they ain't over there, or you thee
- 7:04Speaker 8: backed them out of your mind because the situation got
- 7:06Speaker 8: too difficult. I got that. I got that, But you
- 7:10Speaker 8: got to step up and be fathers. You got to
- 7:13Speaker 8: write a letter. You gotta send the money if she
- 7:15Speaker 8: talking about it. If you don't send all the money,
- 7:17Speaker 8: you ain't gonna see him. Send what you got if
- 7:19Speaker 8: she if taking it over there is too much drama,
- 7:22Speaker 8: send it through a relative, Give it to a mama,
- 7:24Speaker 8: Give it to her sister, ask her to take it
- 7:26Speaker 8: over there and do something for the baby. Because okay, okay,
- 7:29Speaker 8: you can't deal with the drama. I got that, and
- 7:31Speaker 8: I know it's much to pay. When you have to
- 7:34Speaker 8: deal with that because I clearly I know hell have
- 7:37Speaker 8: no fury like a woman's going. Please know. I know that,
- 7:41Speaker 8: Please know. And that's a real statement. That ain't no saying,
- 7:44Speaker 8: Steve got that's that's the truth. But do what you
- 7:48Speaker 8: gotta do. Sometimes you have to apologize. Sometimes an apology
- 7:54Speaker 8: goes a long way to your children. Just say look,
- 7:58Speaker 8: because I've made this uponology before. Hey man, look I'm
- 8:02Speaker 8: sorry I wasn't there for you. I was out grinding
- 8:06Speaker 8: and hustling and I wasn't paying attention to you, and
- 8:09Speaker 8: I should have been. And I apologize now. I imagine, man,
- 8:13Speaker 8: there's days where you was telling people I was your
- 8:15Speaker 8: father up at the school and they wasn't believing you.
- 8:18Speaker 8: I apologize for sending you through that. But now, man,
- 8:22Speaker 8: I tell you what. I made some mistakes, and I
- 8:25Speaker 8: got it together. I want me and you to move
- 8:27Speaker 8: forward as father and son. I want me and you
- 8:29Speaker 8: to move forward as father and daughter. I want to
- 8:32Speaker 8: be in your life now. I ain't got a lot,
- 8:34Speaker 8: but guess what, I know a lot because if you
- 8:37Speaker 8: a man and you a father, please know, you know something.
- 8:40Speaker 3: That child don't know.
- 8:41Speaker 8: You have information, you have experience, that's all they need
- 8:45Speaker 8: sometimes to have somebody to talk to. That daughter yours
- 8:49Speaker 8: just needs to know from her daddy, how should a
- 8:52Speaker 8: man treat me?
- 8:53Speaker 6: Dad?
- 8:54Speaker 3: What should I look for in a man?
- 8:56Speaker 8: See, they'll take that information from you because they know
- 8:59Speaker 8: it's from the right place. And then you know that
- 9:02Speaker 8: your son needs you, because you know how difficult it
- 9:06Speaker 8: is if you're trying to be a man without your daddy.
- 9:09Speaker 8: You already know how funky that is, right there. So
- 9:13Speaker 8: come on, man and meet your mistakes and move forward.
- 9:16Speaker 8: Call your kids, write a letter, get a phone number
- 9:20Speaker 8: on them, send a text, drop a message, send a
- 9:23Speaker 8: note up to the school. Through something. Man, if those
- 9:27Speaker 8: of us that are fathers would just be fathers, I
- 9:31Speaker 8: could shut.
- 9:32Speaker 3: The minering camp down.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Now.
- 9:36Speaker 8: I will say I apologize because I don't want you
- 9:38Speaker 8: to think I'm coming down on you. But I've been
- 9:40Speaker 8: through this myself. I ain't really coming down. I'm just
- 9:43Speaker 8: reminding you. This is our job. These are our children,
- 9:47Speaker 8: this is our responsibility. We are men. There is no excuses.
- 9:52Speaker 8: You don't get you don't get cut a brake on
- 9:55Speaker 8: that one.
- 9:55Speaker 9: Sorry, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Ship.
- 10:04Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, this morning, I have a question.
- 10:09Speaker 8: The question is, when you woke up and open your eyes,
- 10:15Speaker 8: did you feel a very very strong sense of gratitude.
- 10:20Speaker 3: As you start your day? Question?
- 10:23Speaker 8: Have you realized that, Oh my goodness, this is another
- 10:28Speaker 8: great chance. Those are the two questions I have today.
- 10:31Speaker 8: I want you to answer that, and you need to
- 10:34Speaker 8: make the answer yes. And the way to do it
- 10:36Speaker 8: is at least the second part of that. Why I said,
- 10:39Speaker 8: as you start your day, which could be that for
- 10:42Speaker 8: many of us because this is morning, then at least
- 10:45Speaker 8: be able to answer yes to that. Okay, that's the
- 10:48Speaker 8: only way to be Steve Varred Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry,
- 10:50Speaker 8: Colin Farrell, Mississippi, Monica Junior and the legend that is
- 10:54Speaker 8: Nephew Tummy Junior.
- 11:00Speaker 3: Read you right today?
- 11:01Speaker 10: So what you mean I'm grateful and just ask ask
- 11:04Speaker 10: yourself the question, I'm gratefu.
- 11:06Speaker 8: Yeah read wow wow, I'm sorry.
- 11:13Speaker 3: A lot of reference to your hairline, yeah, he diden.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Do you have a question today?
- 11:19Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 11:20Speaker 8: I do.
- 11:20Speaker 3: I do have a question this morning. I want to
- 11:22Speaker 3: ask you.
- 11:22Speaker 10: You know, I know you got your mentoring program going on,
- 11:25Speaker 10: but can you just explain to some people who don't
- 11:27Speaker 10: have a mentor. Why having a mentor is important? What's
- 11:30Speaker 10: the benefit of having a mentor?
- 11:33Speaker 8: Well, Manhood is very difficult, no, ladies suppose. Again, this
- 11:36Speaker 8: is not to say the moment hoood isn't so just
- 11:39Speaker 8: I'm answering a question for the boy's mintoring camp.
- 11:43Speaker 3: Manhood is very, very difficult.
- 11:46Speaker 8: And because manhood is supposed to have a leadership component
- 11:52Speaker 8: to it is one of the things that makes it
- 11:55Speaker 8: incredibly challenging. And because manhood all has some elements to
- 12:02Speaker 8: it that seem to not being shot sought not excuse
- 12:06Speaker 8: me not being taught and shared with this younger generation,
- 12:10Speaker 8: that we are supposed to be protectives, that we are
- 12:14Speaker 8: supposed to be providers. That is what manhood is. We
- 12:20Speaker 8: are to protect, provide, and preserve. That's a must, that's
- 12:27Speaker 8: our job. But because that's not being taught a lot
- 12:30Speaker 8: of times, when a young man doesn't have a male
- 12:33Speaker 8: figure in his life, it's like an explorer without a map.
- 12:38Speaker 8: You just don't know the way there and it becomes
- 12:42Speaker 8: so challenging and trying to learn this thing called manhood
- 12:45Speaker 8: on your own.
- 12:46Speaker 3: Oh my god. So what happens to these young people and.
- 12:49Speaker 8: All men is you will want to be a man,
- 12:54Speaker 8: and then you are faced with the choices. You get
- 12:56Speaker 8: to be a good man or a sorry man, and
- 13:00Speaker 8: you get to decide along the way.
- 13:02Speaker 3: If you're surrounded by sorry men.
- 13:06Speaker 8: And that's your vision of what it is strong possibility,
- 13:10Speaker 8: that's the one you'll be. So what we do with
- 13:13Speaker 8: our mentoring programers we put a lot of strong, positive
- 13:16Speaker 8: men in front of these young guys, oftentimes for the
- 13:19Speaker 8: first time, and that gives them some insight as to
- 13:22Speaker 8: what it truly looks like. And we have bade these
- 13:24Speaker 8: principles in them for four days and we teach them
- 13:27Speaker 8: a lot of team bill and stuff, and life gets
- 13:29Speaker 8: good and we thank God for the Oh Boy's minering camp.
- 13:33Speaker 3: Ladies and Gentleen, it's time go to break.
- 13:36Speaker 9: Sureley, thank you.
- 13:40Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
- 13:42Speaker 11: hear from the nephew if he runs that frame back
- 13:44Speaker 11: right after this.
- 13:46Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 13:53Speaker 13: My name is Tony and my daughter Bailey is seven
- 13:56Speaker 13: years old. We learned about Seek of Sale at birt
- 13:58Speaker 13: So when we got the news, my first mind was
- 14:01Speaker 13: why us I remember that sometimes the things that you
- 14:04Speaker 13: go through are not necessarily for you, there for somebody else.
- 14:07Speaker 13: I'm so thankful to God and Saint Jude and all
- 14:10Speaker 13: the angels they work here. They took all the where.
- 14:13Speaker 8: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and sickle soul.
- 14:16Speaker 8: Become a Saint Jude partner in hope by texting SHMS
- 14:21Speaker 8: two seven eighty five eight three three.
- 14:24Speaker 11: It is time now to run that prank back with
- 14:27Speaker 11: the nephew. What you got for his nephew on this Friday.
- 14:30Speaker 3: Let's try to start doing two minutes and less. Let's
- 14:33Speaker 3: start with that.
- 14:34Speaker 6: I don't know, I know it ain't gonna work. I
- 14:36Speaker 6: just thought i'd put it out there anyway. This right
- 14:37Speaker 6: here is three minute remarks, three minute remarks.
- 14:40Speaker 3: Let's go get well.
- 14:44Speaker 6: Yes, I'm trying to reach your brother Keith. Please.
- 14:47Speaker 14: Yeah, this is Keith, Keith.
- 14:50Speaker 6: How you doing? This is Lawrence overhead il Funeral Home.
- 14:55Speaker 14: Okay.
- 14:56Speaker 6: We are the ones that have the doing the funeral
- 15:01Speaker 6: for sister Dolores. And that is your aunt. Am I understanding?
- 15:06Speaker 8: Right?
- 15:07Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 15:07Speaker 14: That's Monti okay.
- 15:09Speaker 6: And yes you know the funeral is this coming Thursday.
- 15:14Speaker 14: Yes, I'll be Thursday.
- 15:17Speaker 6: I'm giving you a call because it's been brought to
- 15:20Speaker 6: my attention, uh, that you were going to be giving
- 15:26Speaker 6: remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay.
- 15:32Speaker 6: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to
- 15:34Speaker 6: print the programs for the funeral and let you know
- 15:38Speaker 6: that they have taken you off for the remarks because
- 15:44Speaker 6: they say that you're not going to be Oh.
- 15:48Speaker 14: What do you mean taking me off?
- 15:51Speaker 6: Well, what I'm saying they say that you're not going
- 15:54Speaker 6: to abide by the two three minute rule that they
- 15:58Speaker 6: have for remarks, and they wanted they they've taken you off.
- 16:01Speaker 6: And uh.
- 16:04Speaker 1: Who is they?
- 16:06Speaker 14: Come? Comeut? Wh wh what's the name again?
- 16:10Speaker 1: Lawrence?
- 16:10Speaker 6: I'm launch, I'm the actual funeral director.
- 16:14Speaker 14: Lord. And who who told you to take me off?
- 16:18Speaker 15: Uh?
- 16:18Speaker 6: One of the one of the family members I'm assuming
- 16:21Speaker 6: is who who made the adjustment?
- 16:24Speaker 14: And an adjustment that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing
- 16:27Speaker 14: the whole program. Who else is on the list?
- 16:31Speaker 6: I mean there's quite a few family members doing different
- 16:33Speaker 6: things throughout the funeral.
- 16:36Speaker 14: Okay, So how did you get to my name? Is
- 16:39Speaker 14: what I'm trying to figure out That.
- 16:40Speaker 6: They said that listen to me, listen, listen to me,
- 16:44Speaker 6: listen to me. Brother Keith, Listen to me. What they
- 16:47Speaker 6: said is that you weren't going to abide by the time.
- 16:52Speaker 6: You weren't going to do your remarks in three minutes
- 16:55Speaker 6: or less.
- 16:56Speaker 14: Listen, listen, listen, listen. You raised me, he put me
- 17:01Speaker 14: through college, and you think I'm finna, I'm finish goes
- 17:04Speaker 14: down her funeral and be under two minutes.
- 17:08Speaker 6: Well, well, listen, listen, brother Keith, Brother Keith, listening to me. Normally,
- 17:13Speaker 6: when we have these funerals, people who give remarks, we
- 17:17Speaker 6: have them three minutes or less. Okay, I'll tell you what.
- 17:22Speaker 14: I'll tell you what mister loss quote on list? Is
- 17:25Speaker 14: she on the list?
- 17:26Speaker 15: Uh?
- 17:28Speaker 6: We have a seala. Yes, there's a seala that's singing
- 17:33Speaker 6: name off the list.
- 17:34Speaker 14: You take her off the list and put me where
- 17:36Speaker 14: she's supposed to be with my time and her time.
- 17:39Speaker 14: Is Bobby joy on there too?
- 17:43Speaker 6: The Bobby Now, yes, Bobby Jr. Is given remarks. That's
- 17:48Speaker 6: what that's that's delorous. That's mister de Laurus's son, right, Yes,
- 17:53Speaker 6: their son, the one.
- 17:54Speaker 14: That get locked up. He just got out of till
- 17:57Speaker 14: the truth he told he's the one put her in
- 17:59Speaker 14: the coat. You needn't take him off list too. Give
- 18:02Speaker 14: me all that time, because I mean, if I ain't
- 18:05Speaker 14: gonna take nothing in.
- 18:06Speaker 6: Brother Keith, let me let me, let me just say
- 18:08Speaker 6: this to you. I cannot take Sheila or Bobby Jr.
- 18:13Speaker 15: Off.
- 18:13Speaker 6: I can't make any alterations to this program unless they
- 18:17Speaker 6: say that, Actually, sir.
- 18:21Speaker 14: You already you already take you already taking sample name off,
- 18:25Speaker 14: you're taking my name off.
- 18:26Speaker 6: But but they they orchestrated this though his.
- 18:30Speaker 14: Day, who is day? They for having much problems? They
- 18:34Speaker 14: try to take me off my hockey program? Who was they?
- 18:39Speaker 6: Sir? I'm not gonna get into a family matter. But
- 18:42Speaker 6: until they say.
- 18:43Speaker 14: That, you can be only matter.
- 18:46Speaker 6: Sure, I'm not gonna. I don't wanna. I don't want
- 18:48Speaker 6: to have this turned out to be bad, and we
- 18:51Speaker 6: want to have a great homegoing for sister Deloyd's okay, right,
- 18:56Speaker 6: And if I.
- 18:56Speaker 14: Don't get to say nothing, I guarantee you, I guarantee
- 19:00Speaker 14: even it's gonna be a tooth for one in there,
- 19:01Speaker 14: somebody else gonna get in the car for two. I
- 19:04Speaker 14: ca'ant tell you that. If I don't get to say nothing,
- 19:07Speaker 14: in my Nitifuneral monkey didn't pay for college, I didn't
- 19:11Speaker 14: put six thousand dollars in the funeral. I bet you
- 19:14Speaker 14: I'll tell you this. I'll tell you this, mister Lawd.
- 19:17Speaker 14: I bet you whether I'm on the program I'm not.
- 19:20Speaker 14: I bet you I stay with them. I want to.
- 19:23Speaker 16: I bet you that much.
- 19:24Speaker 14: You tell day that.
- 19:27Speaker 3: I didn't.
- 19:28Speaker 14: You might tell them put me through college. I put
- 19:31Speaker 14: money on the funeral and call around to see who
- 19:33Speaker 14: ain't putting no money on the feudal tell them they
- 19:35Speaker 14: can't be on the program.
- 19:38Speaker 6: Man? Uh keith they when they decide who who who's
- 19:44Speaker 6: on it? If they changed the format, that I will
- 19:48Speaker 6: call you back.
- 19:49Speaker 14: Who who is?
- 19:51Speaker 6: Vy?
- 19:51Speaker 14: That's what I'm trying to get. Get you understand who
- 19:54Speaker 14: is they?
- 19:55Speaker 6: Can? I can? I tell you something and I don't
- 19:57Speaker 6: want you to get to our rape.
- 19:58Speaker 14: Okay, go ahead, go ahead, man.
- 20:02Speaker 6: I just want to say this, keep with them. This
- 20:05Speaker 6: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
- 20:08Speaker 6: just got breaked. You just got breaked by your cousin
- 20:12Speaker 6: bobbing Jr. You bos.
- 20:19Speaker 14: I'm I'm junior up. I'm kicking Bobby. I know that
- 20:27Speaker 14: my mother pressures all up. I ain't got time be
- 20:29Speaker 14: playing man taking me off the program oh, BABBI.
- 20:40Speaker 6: Said, y'all grew up like brothers man, and you was
- 20:43Speaker 6: you was basically another son of mister Lords.
- 20:45Speaker 14: That's right, yes, yes I was.
- 20:47Speaker 15: Man.
- 20:48Speaker 14: Oh my.
- 20:50Speaker 6: Hey. Let me ask you this man, what is the
- 20:52Speaker 6: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the.
- 20:55Speaker 14: Land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show?
- 21:02Speaker 3: And then you have it, Miss Shirley.
- 21:05Speaker 1: All right, just three three minute remarks.
- 21:08Speaker 6: I will be back on Monday morning. Can I say
- 21:11Speaker 6: this real quick? Coming up, Happy anniversary to my beautiful
- 21:15Speaker 6: wife twenty four years. Twenty four years is Jacqueline mis
- 21:19Speaker 6: ooh girl putting up with me for twenty four who.
- 21:23Speaker 2: Made it.
- 21:26Speaker 1: All right?
- 21:27Speaker 12: Congratulations tummy?
- 21:28Speaker 11: And Shackie coming up next to his ass the coelo
- 21:32Speaker 11: or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right
- 21:34Speaker 11: after this.
- 21:35Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 21:42Speaker 17: Kinsley will be six in September. We are at Saint
- 21:46Speaker 17: Jude because she was diagnosed with leukemio. Her treatment is
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- 22:08Speaker 11: today by texting sahms to seven eighty five eight three three.
- 22:14Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, our special
- 22:16Speaker 11: guests will be Miss Terry J.
- 22:17Speaker 15: Vaughn.
- 22:19Speaker 11: She is the star of Netflix's new series She the People.
- 22:23Speaker 12: It's streaming right now.
- 22:24Speaker 11: Terry will tell us all about She the People at
- 22:27Speaker 11: the top of the hour. But right now, at this time, yes,
- 22:30Speaker 11: we can't wait for that. It is time to ask
- 22:33Speaker 11: the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready, CLO always.
- 22:40Speaker 11: This is from Janella and San Antonio. Janella writes, my
- 22:43Speaker 11: husband gets routine manicures and pedicures, but I can't believe
- 22:47Speaker 11: he got his chest and armpits wax at the salon recently.
- 22:52Speaker 11: He said he wants to get other areas wax too
- 22:55Speaker 11: so he can stay cool. Is that really why he's
- 22:58Speaker 11: waxing every thing?
- 23:02Speaker 3: Well?
- 23:03Speaker 8: Interesting, I don't know why you would do that. Personally,
- 23:08Speaker 8: I have no idea. I've never had that thought, nor
- 23:12Speaker 8: have I had that desire. All once you probably need
- 23:17Speaker 8: to do is get down there to that pedicure place.
- 23:23Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, and see if she find that's probably
- 23:25Speaker 3: what you need.
- 23:26Speaker 12: You're talking to the wife right now.
- 23:28Speaker 8: Yeah, you probably need to go down there to the
- 23:30Speaker 8: pedicure place and see if she find that. That's usually
- 23:34Speaker 8: when you get talked in and stuff like this. Yeah, yeah,
- 23:40Speaker 8: and that could be all it is. It's just some
- 23:42Speaker 8: fine chick down there and talked him into it. He
- 23:44Speaker 8: ain't got to be seeing her or nothing like that.
- 23:47Speaker 8: Just probably need to go down there and see if
- 23:48Speaker 8: she finds.
- 23:49Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, and that'll answer all your questions, all right.
- 23:54Speaker 11: Moving on to Freida and Lake Charles. Frida writes that
- 23:57Speaker 11: my work husband got me a purse that I'd been wanting.
- 24:01Speaker 11: I carried the purse for weeks before my husband noticed it.
- 24:06Speaker 11: He knows I can't afford it, so I told him
- 24:08Speaker 11: that I charged it. He'll find out that I'm lying
- 24:11Speaker 11: when he pays the bills. What do I do?
- 24:14Speaker 6: What?
- 24:15Speaker 3: I don't know?
- 24:17Speaker 1: I don't know?
- 24:17Speaker 3: See no, no, come over here now.
- 24:19Speaker 1: See yeah.
- 24:21Speaker 8: See you lie, God, you're lie.
- 24:27Speaker 3: The key to lie.
- 24:31Speaker 8: Is you must be willing at all costs to continue
- 24:37Speaker 8: to lie.
- 24:37Speaker 3: That's true.
- 24:38Speaker 8: And you and you already don't have the right commitment
- 24:42Speaker 8: to be a good lie because you already and told
- 24:46Speaker 8: one lie. Now you shure he gonna find out when you.
- 24:49Speaker 3: Should have thought of that.
- 24:51Speaker 12: Yeah, her work husband bought her a bag.
- 24:54Speaker 3: What why, work husband? Yeah, it's work hub.
- 25:00Speaker 8: Brought you a bag that you couldn't afford and your
- 25:03Speaker 8: husband ain't got for you.
- 25:05Speaker 3: You told him you charged.
- 25:08Speaker 11: The standard line is, but the standard line is, Oh,
- 25:12Speaker 11: I've been had this.
- 25:14Speaker 1: That's it.
- 25:14Speaker 12: That's the standard line.
- 25:17Speaker 11: Anything she boosted the bag, that's another unnecessary lie.
- 25:26Speaker 12: I've been had this, I just haven't carried it. That's
- 25:28Speaker 12: all you say, perfect.
- 25:30Speaker 8: Lie, you got it. You're not fast on your feet,
- 25:33Speaker 8: perfect lie. Was that's not my bag?
- 25:39Speaker 12: Is not my bagh with all your debts?
- 25:43Speaker 3: Yeah, that's she needs bag. She let me carry.
- 25:47Speaker 17: It and I give.
- 25:49Speaker 8: It back to her. Yeah, she let me rock it.
- 25:53Speaker 8: It's dope.
- 25:54Speaker 3: That's the curious.
- 25:57Speaker 12: Don't you love it to me?
- 25:58Speaker 3: Perfect?
- 25:59Speaker 1: Especially if it's.
- 26:02Speaker 8: Yeah, and that's what it is, and the work husband
- 26:05Speaker 8: and and the work husband bought her the bag because
- 26:08Speaker 8: you want to do the things that your regular husband
- 26:10Speaker 8: is doing.
- 26:12Speaker 12: Whoa, he's just not a nice guy.
- 26:16Speaker 18: There.
- 26:18Speaker 3: Once you buying persons. What yeah, right there at this point.
- 26:26Speaker 8: Unless you worked for the Steve Harvey Morning Show years
- 26:29Speaker 8: ago when a bout y'all persons, but see you and
- 26:35Speaker 8: y'all found out that your product bag was a pray
- 26:38Speaker 8: To bag, and then your Gucci bag was a Gusia.
- 26:44Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.
- 26:46Speaker 8: Like, and then your l V bag was a Lewis
- 26:50Speaker 8: Vernon's right.
- 26:56Speaker 11: Moving on to Stephanie and Charlotte, Uh, seventy right. My
- 27:00Speaker 11: husband likes to be intimate in the morning, so I
- 27:02Speaker 11: set my alarm for five a m. Three days a
- 27:05Speaker 11: week so I can do my wife lee duties. He said,
- 27:08Speaker 11: I'm not spontaneous enough. Why can't he compromise if I'm
- 27:12Speaker 11: willing to get up that early to make him happy?
- 27:16Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't care. What complain is he
- 27:19Speaker 3: got your alarm set? You ready?
- 27:21Speaker 1: Cool?
- 27:22Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 27:22Speaker 15: Cool?
- 27:22Speaker 3: I don't care how you do it.
- 27:24Speaker 6: Huh.
- 27:24Speaker 3: Got the alarm go off?
- 27:25Speaker 8: The alarm can go off to signify the end of
- 27:29Speaker 8: it too, if you won't. I have two alarms. You
- 27:36Speaker 8: have start, start and stop what I call time?
- 27:41Speaker 3: Got go work?
- 27:42Speaker 1: Thank you? Yeah?
- 27:46Speaker 6: Uh?
- 27:47Speaker 3: Reset the clock this morning?
- 27:49Speaker 8: I got five thirty and five thirty five ain't no problem.
- 27:54Speaker 12: I'm ready when you are all right.
- 27:57Speaker 11: Last one, Steve, Last one ClOH in Gainesville Rights. I've
- 28:02Speaker 11: been dating a woman for two years and on Sundays
- 28:05Speaker 11: she told my mom that her mac and cheese is
- 28:07Speaker 11: missing something. My heart stopped, but my mom handled it
- 28:11Speaker 11: with grace. After dinner, my mom said to let it go.
- 28:15Speaker 11: Do I let it go or do I let her go?
- 28:19Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 28:19Speaker 11: Do I let it go? Or do I let her
- 28:22Speaker 11: go over this mama's mac and cheese?
- 28:25Speaker 3: Yeah, wouldn't it though? Are you real?
- 28:28Speaker 12: Yeah?
- 28:33Speaker 8: Yeah, so you done thought enough of this woman to
- 28:36Speaker 8: introduce her to your mama. That's when it got good,
- 28:40Speaker 8: you know what. And when he brings you home to
- 28:42Speaker 8: his mama.
- 28:43Speaker 3: He considered it.
- 28:44Speaker 8: Okay, okay, she made a bad move. Probably wasn't the
- 28:47Speaker 8: best thing to say. She just ate the mac and
- 28:50Speaker 8: cheese and then not care for it. But keep your
- 28:52Speaker 8: mouth shut. Yeah, it's missing something. Even your mother saying
- 28:58Speaker 8: let it go, She must like to girl, Yeah, why
- 29:02Speaker 8: did you write us?
- 29:05Speaker 3: What is it missing? Is it the cheese.
- 29:09Speaker 1: That major?
- 29:12Speaker 3: See?
- 29:12Speaker 8: They ain't using chadar or something like that. Probably some
- 29:18Speaker 8: provolone something like that. Man, this dude made some mac
- 29:26Speaker 8: and cheese one time and put almond slithers in it.
- 29:30Speaker 8: I couldn't understand that for the life of What made
- 29:35Speaker 8: you think that this need nuts in it?
- 29:41Speaker 3: Amen?
- 29:43Speaker 2: Amen?
- 29:44Speaker 3: Amen?
- 29:44Speaker 8: You like that little crunch? Yeah, I told my wife
- 29:48Speaker 8: to start doing that. What I said that we was
- 29:55Speaker 8: at his house, so I ain't saying nothing as soon
- 29:56Speaker 8: as I went out of them. You should have never
- 29:58Speaker 8: told your wife that. And I can't believe she did it. Wow,
- 30:03Speaker 8: but she did it. I understood it. I couldn't even
- 30:06Speaker 8: believe you. Well, he married to a white girl, so
- 30:11Speaker 8: she put them moments in there.
- 30:15Speaker 1: They're gonna probably add raises, thank you the l O.
- 30:19Speaker 11: Okay enough please coming up at the top of the hour,
- 30:23Speaker 11: our friend, our family member will.
- 30:24Speaker 3: Gonna put a marshmallow on it too.
- 30:26Speaker 12: You know that's be quiet, one and only. Jerry J.
- 30:29Speaker 12: Vaughan coming up next.
- 30:31Speaker 18: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, y'all.
- 30:39Speaker 3: That's problemse. We got a special guest.
- 30:40Speaker 8: This morning, longtime friend, Lord have Mercy, has played such
- 30:45Speaker 8: a pivotal role in my success early on, as well
- 30:50Speaker 8: as a host of others. We go all the way
- 30:54Speaker 8: back to the Steve Harvey Show. Lord have Mercy. She
- 30:57Speaker 8: starred as LaVita alas A Jenkins. He's an actress or writer, producer.
- 31:02Speaker 8: Her newest project, brand new when y'all, is an all
- 31:04Speaker 8: new series that's on Netflix right now. All new series
- 31:08Speaker 8: on Netflix right now, and it's called She the People.
- 31:13Speaker 8: She is the co creator, she is the executive producer
- 31:19Speaker 8: of She the People, and she's here to tell us
- 31:21Speaker 8: all about it. It's a new series on Netflix. Ladies
- 31:24Speaker 8: and gentlemen, please welcome family member, longtime friend. You know
- 31:28Speaker 8: her as Levita alas A Jenkins, called government name Terry
- 31:33Speaker 8: jay Von.
- 31:37Speaker 12: Welcome.
- 31:42Speaker 3: What was going on? Girl?
- 31:44Speaker 15: I am so happy to be with you guys. Thank you, Seeve,
- 31:47Speaker 15: thank you Shirley, Carlo Tomi, Thank y'all for having me on.
- 31:53Speaker 8: I couldn't believe this. You have been at this for
- 31:57Speaker 8: quite some time.
- 31:58Speaker 3: I know you.
- 31:59Speaker 8: I've heard you discussing projects before. Well we did it.
- 32:04Speaker 8: It's called She the People is streaming right now on Netflix.
- 32:08Speaker 8: You star as a character named Antoinette Dunkerson. She is
- 32:13Speaker 8: Mississippi's first black female lieutenant governor. And She the People
- 32:18Speaker 8: is all about politics, power, and petty. It's Southern style.
- 32:22Speaker 8: So Terry tell us about the show.
- 32:26Speaker 15: Yeah, so she's the people first. I have to tell
- 32:29Speaker 15: you how where the inspiration for the show came from.
- 32:33Speaker 15: When my girlfriend London Breed became the first black female
- 32:38Speaker 15: mayor of our city, San Francisco, where we grew up
- 32:41Speaker 15: in back in twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen, and she
- 32:47Speaker 15: got so much pushback and with so much drama for
- 32:51Speaker 15: her and she's just a girl.
- 32:52Speaker 19: From the hood.
- 32:53Speaker 12: You know, she grew up.
- 32:54Speaker 15: In one hood. I grew up in another hood to
- 32:57Speaker 15: come from very humble beginning and watched her work her
- 33:01Speaker 15: way up through politics in our city, one of the
- 33:04Speaker 15: richest cities in the nation, and to become the first
- 33:08Speaker 15: black female mayor, it was a huge deal. And she
- 33:11Speaker 15: got so much pushback and watching her like mouth through
- 33:15Speaker 15: all the situations and do all the things you have
- 33:18Speaker 15: to do was just so inspiring to me. And so
- 33:22Speaker 15: I was like, dang, that would be a really great
- 33:24Speaker 15: character to play. But of course, though she was dealing
- 33:28Speaker 15: with all this drama and heaviness, I wanted to put
- 33:31Speaker 15: a comical twist on it because I believe you can
- 33:34Speaker 15: tell stories and send your messages and they become more
- 33:38Speaker 15: digestible if you can make people laugh while you're talking
- 33:41Speaker 15: about all the hard things that we have to go through.
- 33:45Speaker 15: So that's where the inspiration where the show came from.
- 33:47Speaker 15: So back during the writer's strike, when the writers and
- 33:51Speaker 15: actors and everybody was on strike, I called Naya Palmer,
- 33:55Speaker 15: who's an amazing writer, and I was like, what if
- 33:58Speaker 15: we shoot a proup of constant of this show because
- 34:01Speaker 15: we've been like pitching it, talking, telling people about it,
- 34:04Speaker 15: and nobody's fighting. So I was like, let's shoot it
- 34:06Speaker 15: while everybody's on strike, so when the strike is over,
- 34:09Speaker 15: we have something to show people. And so that's what
- 34:13Speaker 15: we did. She wrote, like the fifteen minute spect we shot.
- 34:17Speaker 15: I got a team together, as you know seeve I
- 34:19Speaker 15: live here in Atlanta now, so the support of the
- 34:23Speaker 15: people here in the community for us to be able
- 34:25Speaker 15: to shoot it with massive and you know, because it
- 34:29Speaker 15: was in the space of politics and I'm not super
- 34:31Speaker 15: well versed in that area at all, I thought it
- 34:34Speaker 15: was smart to bring somebody onto the team that could
- 34:39Speaker 15: be like the producer, a consulting producer. So I called
- 34:45Speaker 15: our friend Keisha lance Bottom, and I pitched her the
- 34:49Speaker 15: show and asked her if she would be interested in
- 34:51Speaker 15: coming on board with me as a producer, and she
- 34:56Speaker 15: loved the idea and she said, yes.
- 34:58Speaker 16: I'll join you.
- 35:00Speaker 15: So with her by my side, I was able to
- 35:04Speaker 15: get the fund raise the fund from a private investor
- 35:07Speaker 15: here in Atlanta, and we shot this proof of concepts
- 35:12Speaker 15: so it came out exactly like I wanted it to.
- 35:16Speaker 15: So when the strike was over, we sent it out
- 35:18Speaker 15: into the world and we just got called after calls
- 35:21Speaker 15: after calls, people wanting to meet with us for this show.
- 35:25Speaker 15: And one of the people we met with was Tyler Perry,
- 35:30Speaker 15: and we got multiple offers. But going with Tyler Perry,
- 35:34Speaker 15: it sits the vision of what I wanted to do
- 35:37Speaker 15: with the show. And now it's on air, and you know,
- 35:43Speaker 15: a lot of the character's names are named after people
- 35:46Speaker 15: and my family or my neighborhood. My mother's played by
- 35:49Speaker 15: Joe Marie Tayton, who was Harriet Winslow on Family Matter.
- 35:57Speaker 15: Yes she is not Harriet Windblow on show Sasty Saucy.
- 36:03Speaker 15: She drops the F Bob tells it like it is.
- 36:08Speaker 15: This has been twenty years of pitting my own show
- 36:12Speaker 15: and finally it happened.
- 36:15Speaker 1: We did it, and that is persistence.
- 36:19Speaker 8: I mean, I'm telling you what I mean, it's just
- 36:21Speaker 8: a great story of perseverance and vision and all of
- 36:26Speaker 8: that and that's how God works. And congratulations on it
- 36:29Speaker 8: because I think Tyler Perry was the ideal pick for it. Yep, yeah,
- 36:33Speaker 8: I mean congratulations. That's a great story. I think it's
- 36:37Speaker 8: I think it's a worth for everybody. Everybody in the
- 36:41Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Nation. Go on Netflix and check it out.
- 36:45Speaker 8: It is called She the People. It is produced Starry
- 36:51Speaker 8: in our very own Terry J.
- 36:53Speaker 6: Vaughn.
- 36:54Speaker 8: Listen to me, what a great story everybody's involved in.
- 36:57Speaker 8: It sounds like a great project. I'm gonna watch it myself.
- 37:00Speaker 8: I'm telling everybody in Steve arbination, let's go to Netflix
- 37:03Speaker 8: and support our own terror J Bond.
- 37:05Speaker 3: The name of the project is She the People.
- 37:08Speaker 1: The People.
- 37:09Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, put your hands together for my dear.
- 37:13Speaker 3: Friend, Terry J. Vaughn.
- 37:20Speaker 18: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 37:28Speaker 20: They list ten years old. One day she just started
- 37:31Speaker 20: limping out the blue, went to her doctor and the
- 37:34Speaker 20: doctor did emma or her knee. And the next day
- 37:38Speaker 20: was that Saint June eighteen rounds of cameo niee surgery.
- 37:42Speaker 20: Just knowing that Saint June covers everything right now, Layla's man,
- 37:46Speaker 20: she came up. She's cancer free.
- 37:47Speaker 3: Right now.
- 37:48Speaker 10: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like
- 37:51Speaker 10: sickle sell.
- 37:51Speaker 3: Please become a Saint Jude.
- 37:52Speaker 10: Partner in Hope today by texting s h MS to
- 37:56Speaker 10: seven eight five eight three three.
- 37:58Speaker 11: Hey Steve Harvey, Na, We've been telling you all week
- 38:02Speaker 11: about Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital. At Saint Jude, caring
- 38:06Speaker 11: for a patient means the patient's family has nothing to
- 38:10Speaker 11: worry about as far as housing, as far as food,
- 38:14Speaker 11: as far as bills, none of that. That's what Saint
- 38:17Speaker 11: Jude does. By becoming a Saint Jude Partner and Hope,
- 38:21Speaker 11: you can help Saint Jude continue to help children. Tell them, Steve,
- 38:25Speaker 11: if you become a monthly donor, what do you do
- 38:28Speaker 11: you pledge nineteen dollars?
- 38:30Speaker 1: Well you can.
- 38:31Speaker 8: Yeah, And here's the deal, y'all. We need to really
- 38:35Speaker 8: consider participating in this. I need everybody to take a
- 38:39Speaker 8: moment to just think of how blessed you are to
- 38:43Speaker 8: have a healthy child, how blessed you are to have
- 38:46Speaker 8: been healthy yourself. When I see these commercials, I can't
- 38:50Speaker 8: imagine what that must feel like. To have an unhealthy child,
- 38:55Speaker 8: and man, it's a horrible thing for a parent to
- 38:58Speaker 8: go through. So those of us that are blessed, you
- 39:01Speaker 8: have to remember that you are blessed to become a blessing.
- 39:05Speaker 8: It's just nineteen dollars that hot coffee down now, and
- 39:10Speaker 8: we're talking about a month, y'all's been nineteen dollars on
- 39:14Speaker 8: that verday, grande absolute tey down there for that's about
- 39:19Speaker 8: forty dollars by time to put all them stuff in it.
- 39:21Speaker 8: Let's change somebody's life for nineteen dollars. That's all it
- 39:26Speaker 8: takes is nineteen dollars. So now here's what you do.
- 39:29Speaker 8: All you got to do is text shms that little
- 39:35Speaker 8: block where it's got you know where you put two.
- 39:38Speaker 8: Just right in that block where it's say two, put
- 39:41Speaker 8: shms that stands for Steve Harvey Morning Show, just the initials,
- 39:45Speaker 8: and you text it to seven eight five eight three
- 39:50Speaker 8: three seven eight five eight three three. Now they want
- 39:58Speaker 8: me to tell you there's some standard data and text
- 40:01Speaker 8: message and rates apply, but who give it? You're texting
- 40:04Speaker 8: everybody anyway, Just help somebody, man, That's what this is
- 40:09Speaker 8: all about. I'm I'm challenging all the cues. Everybody, don't
- 40:14Speaker 8: make a sound. Five bruhs. Let's just do some kind
- 40:17Speaker 8: for somebody else. Tommy, can you challenge your friend?
- 40:21Speaker 6: I can challenge all the members of Kappa Alpha PSI
- 40:23Speaker 6: Fraternity Incorporated to get out and donate nineteen dollars to
- 40:28Speaker 6: this worthy calls Saint Jude for the children.
- 40:30Speaker 3: Why not, let's do it. Bro Junior, can you tell
- 40:33Speaker 3: all the six sell people.
- 40:34Speaker 10: Yeah, I challenge all the sickle cell people who are
- 40:37Speaker 10: healthy enough to text to go ahead and give nineteen dollars.
- 40:43Speaker 8: Shirley, can you ask tell all the people with big eyes, Charley,
- 40:49Speaker 8: tell all the people with big eyes with live.
- 40:53Speaker 6: People that then scratch up calls and stuff. Call it
- 40:55Speaker 6: going on, talk to the ladies.
- 40:57Speaker 11: Go ahead, you get your out and I got to
- 41:00Speaker 11: seven eight five eight three three.
- 41:02Speaker 12: Okay, thank you just doing it.
- 41:04Speaker 8: You have nineteen dollars to change some lives and help
- 41:07Speaker 8: some people. And remember you are blessed to become a blessing.
- 41:10Speaker 3: Let's do something today.
- 41:12Speaker 11: Thank you. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
- 41:15Speaker 11: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
- 41:18Speaker 11: after this.
- 41:19Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show all right, Carly, your
- 41:27Speaker 12: buddy Roscoe is here.
- 41:31Speaker 3: Right here, right here. We're going more than everybody.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Hey, hey, r.
- 41:40Speaker 14: What what up?
- 41:41Speaker 3: Miss Amy Sady? The golf tourb me. Yes, they had
- 41:44Speaker 3: had had a hanging on you like a like a
- 41:46Speaker 3: like a cloth line. It was up.
- 41:51Speaker 10: Julia was heading Roscoe, my hero many.
- 41:54Speaker 3: Top of time. Whatever revealed Roscoe? You the man baby
- 41:58Speaker 3: all the way? Hey, card up ready what you got
- 42:00Speaker 3: for me? And we were gonna do something.
- 42:02Speaker 1: Man.
- 42:02Speaker 21: Let's talk about it Roscoe this week, this past Monday,
- 42:05Speaker 21: twenty fifth anniversary of the b E t Awards.
- 42:09Speaker 3: Roscoe did just see it? Yeah?
- 42:13Speaker 8: No, no, no, I was backstage. I was back people, Okay, Oh,
- 42:19Speaker 8: I was back there.
- 42:20Speaker 1: Talking to Goriller's mama. Glow Rilla, Oh Glow.
- 42:28Speaker 3: I ain't no turning.
- 42:29Speaker 8: I Whitey called it girl, Gorilla, she pretty, she pretty
- 42:33Speaker 8: little thing.
- 42:33Speaker 3: I couldn't understand it for the life of me.
- 42:35Speaker 8: What he called it be the gold Riller like blow
- 42:40Speaker 8: on the heart. Held mama though, couldn't unders say the
- 42:42Speaker 8: word of Mama.
- 42:43Speaker 3: Said yeah, yeah, he was back there with Lord that country.
- 42:48Speaker 8: Trying to talk to him. Couldn't make hair and tail
- 42:50Speaker 8: and say, hey, we were on you went on, had
- 42:53Speaker 8: walk away?
- 42:54Speaker 3: Can't will them all?
- 42:57Speaker 1: What about uncle Charlie? Did you see him back then?
- 43:00Speaker 1: Snoop uncle Charlie Will.
- 43:01Speaker 8: Yeah, that saw I saw Charlie Willis back there with
- 43:04Speaker 8: me and Charlie talked for a while. He thanked me
- 43:07Speaker 8: for all creating more than so many great as his unit.
- 43:09Speaker 21: Excuse me, excuse Charlie Wilson, thank you for creating writing
- 43:14Speaker 21: what what song?
- 43:17Speaker 3: Let me hear you this inquest? Who else was he
- 43:19Speaker 3: gonna think? Have you ever heard him thinking anybody?
- 43:27Speaker 15: No?
- 43:28Speaker 3: But if back there.
- 43:29Speaker 8: Thanking me, I saw baby, you got me humping day
- 43:36Speaker 8: and night or pay be.
- 43:39Speaker 3: Uh you dropped the bob on me?
- 43:42Speaker 11: Yeah?
- 43:44Speaker 12: What is he saying?
- 43:45Speaker 3: Alie in the morning and I.
- 43:48Speaker 1: Don't I don't know if he's trying to do in
- 43:49Speaker 1: the middle of the day.
- 43:52Speaker 3: That's that called him minuting?
- 43:54Speaker 21: I know I was about to say, I don't know
- 43:55Speaker 21: if you're trying to say that you wrote all the
- 43:57Speaker 21: songs in this medleygue that you're singing.
- 44:00Speaker 3: And last one of them where you think they come from?
- 44:03Speaker 1: The gap band?
- 44:04Speaker 3: Yes, where you think the gap band come from?
- 44:08Speaker 8: On the corner of Greenwood Archick in time, I wrote
- 44:12Speaker 8: they Uncle song oldis I wrote all the older Wilson's
- 44:15Speaker 8: on that where you.
- 44:15Speaker 3: Then Charlie Willimon and don't come from Wow.
- 44:19Speaker 2: I didn't know.
- 44:20Speaker 3: I didn't know. And then I was friend with Oldie Wilson,
- 44:23Speaker 3: Daddy Saxmore Wilson, How old are you? Roscott all and
- 44:30Speaker 3: music anything good came out. I was involved in it
- 44:33Speaker 3: some kind of way.
- 44:35Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get back to the B and
- 44:37Speaker 1: T Awards.
- 44:37Speaker 21: Did you see Baby Faith You what that baby grand
- 44:41Speaker 21: piano that was studded out?
- 44:43Speaker 1: He did that tribute to Jamie Foxx.
- 44:45Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, he was cold Fletcher, baby, baby facing, strong
- 44:49Speaker 8: little writer.
- 44:49Speaker 3: You know I did so much. Well, Oh by you
- 44:52Speaker 3: old clothes, Oh paid old and.
- 45:00Speaker 8: I'll cook your dinner tonight, baby, as soon as I
- 45:07Speaker 8: get home from work, I'll dry your clothes. See this
- 45:12Speaker 8: how I wrote the song. In the beginning he said,
- 45:15Speaker 8: I'll buy your clothes. I didn't have no money back there,
- 45:17Speaker 8: so I wrote, dry your clothes. Wad help you make rent?
- 45:30Speaker 8: Try to scrat up dinner tonight baby, after I find
- 45:38Speaker 8: some work. See there what the song was about. And
- 45:41Speaker 8: then he said, babyface talking about what I don't wanna
- 45:43Speaker 8: sound like I ain't got nothing, So then you're gonna
- 45:45Speaker 8: talk about I'll buy your clothes, I'll pay your rent,
- 45:48Speaker 8: and i'll cook your dinner tonight.
- 45:50Speaker 1: Well no, well what we were doing.
- 45:52Speaker 8: I'll dry your clothes. I'm gonna help you come up
- 45:54Speaker 8: with your rent, and i'll fix you something to eat
- 45:57Speaker 8: after I go. But I gotta go out here and
- 45:59Speaker 8: find some how I'm gonna pay your reading. How you're
- 46:05Speaker 8: working right now?
- 46:07Speaker 6: Out?
- 46:07Speaker 12: Sing us out, Roscoe, sing us out.
- 46:12Speaker 1: In the morning, Coming up next, a nephew and Frank
- 46:17Speaker 1: phone call.
- 46:18Speaker 3: Right today, you're.
- 46:19Speaker 11: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
- 46:27Speaker 11: about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter
- 46:30Speaker 11: for today, and the subject is has my husband been
- 46:32Speaker 11: faking it? We'll get into that find out what that's
- 46:35Speaker 11: all about in just a few because right now the
- 46:37Speaker 11: nephew is on board with today's Frank phone call. What
- 46:41Speaker 11: you got for is nepht today.
- 46:43Speaker 6: Surely it's the summertime. Everybody's flopping around in the pool,
- 46:47Speaker 6: you know, every now and then, you know you might
- 46:49Speaker 6: have a little gathering. You might need a lifeguard, you
- 46:51Speaker 6: know what I mean, You might need a life Oh yeah,
- 46:54Speaker 6: but this was right here. What we need a naked
- 46:59Speaker 6: like god, no, we don't. Naked life that's what we need.
- 47:04Speaker 6: That's what we need. We need a naked lifeguard. Hey
- 47:07Speaker 6: ya hey, hey, that's the job. Don't knock the job. Okay, job.
- 47:11Speaker 6: We need a naked lifeguard. You can save people, nked,
- 47:16Speaker 6: you can save a float and your body.
- 47:18Speaker 3: That's good. That's it, naked lifeguard. Let's go care Doe.
- 47:25Speaker 16: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a carried Yes, this
- 47:31Speaker 16: is Carried Carrie. My name is Oliver. Oliver. You put
- 47:35Speaker 16: in an application with the with the employment agency about
- 47:38Speaker 16: looking for some work as far as being a lifeguard.
- 47:41Speaker 12: Oh, yeah, I did.
- 47:42Speaker 16: Okay. Have you had much experience being a lifeguard?
- 47:46Speaker 19: Yeah, I've been doing this for a while now, back
- 47:49Speaker 19: since i was like eighteen I got my CPR certification.
- 47:56Speaker 19: I've had as many as like two hundred people and
- 48:00Speaker 19: time watching them. So I'm good. I'm good at what
- 48:03Speaker 19: I do.
- 48:03Speaker 16: I love it, very good, very good. Well, i'll tell
- 48:06Speaker 16: you what. I've looked over your application and I've checked
- 48:09Speaker 16: everything out thoroughly, and I'm very excited about maybe getting
- 48:13Speaker 16: you to I don't know if you're familiar with it.
- 48:15Speaker 16: But public pool. It's actually in the subdivision. There's two
- 48:20Speaker 16: pools there. Are you familiar with Yeah.
- 48:22Speaker 19: I'm familiar with there. They're they're near where I is.
- 48:25Speaker 16: Yeah, okay, Well there's actually in the backup there's a
- 48:28Speaker 16: gated community and that is actually the particular property that
- 48:33Speaker 16: I'm talking about. You coming out and working for us
- 48:36Speaker 16: there at the pool site. If we can get you
- 48:39Speaker 16: on Monday to Friday, we're going to actually hire some
- 48:42Speaker 16: some more college students for Saturday and Sunday.
- 48:46Speaker 22: What do you say, Oh, I say, okay, that sounds great.
- 48:49Speaker 19: Monday weekends off.
- 48:51Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now we start off. Job actually pays
- 48:56Speaker 16: twenty five dollars an hour. Wow. You would be our
- 49:00Speaker 16: head lifeguard, and we would want you to be there
- 49:04Speaker 16: from you know, I mean if you start at twelve,
- 49:06Speaker 16: we'd actually like you to get there around eleven thirty,
- 49:09Speaker 16: you know, just just to be prepared and be the
- 49:12Speaker 16: overseer and make sure the other lifeguards get there on time,
- 49:15Speaker 16: and you know, we'll go from there. Okay, Now, Carrie,
- 49:18Speaker 16: there's only one catch that actually comes along with this job.
- 49:22Speaker 16: We want you to work an additional four hours from
- 49:25Speaker 16: six to ten at night. But it's going to pay
- 49:27Speaker 16: you fifty dollars per hour, so you'll make an extra
- 49:30Speaker 16: two hundred dollars. How do you feel about that?
- 49:33Speaker 15: Man?
- 49:33Speaker 19: I feel good. I mean, with the recession and everything,
- 49:36Speaker 19: I can use that money right now, especially during the
- 49:39Speaker 19: summer time.
- 49:40Speaker 16: Okay, now here's the deal. This is in a gated
- 49:43Speaker 16: community like I told you before, but also it's going
- 49:46Speaker 16: to be adults at night, and they are actually going
- 49:49Speaker 16: to be swimming nude. What Yeah, they're going to be
- 49:54Speaker 16: swimming nude. And what they asked is if they're going
- 49:56Speaker 16: to be swimming nude, they want to make sure that
- 49:58Speaker 16: the lifeguard that's for detecting them is going to be
- 50:01Speaker 16: nude as well.
- 50:03Speaker 19: Okay, I'm a certified lifeguard, I'm CPR certified, I'm a student.
- 50:09Speaker 19: I've had other jobs, but nudity wasn't on my resume.
- 50:13Speaker 16: And I understand that wholeheartedly. But we're talking about you
- 50:18Speaker 16: possibly making seventeen hundred and fifty dollars a week. How
- 50:21Speaker 16: do you feel about seventeen hundred and fifty a week
- 50:23Speaker 16: for your nursing school. I'm sure that'll that'll definitely pay
- 50:25Speaker 16: for it throughout the entire summer. That should be a
- 50:28Speaker 16: big help, shouldn't it? Yeah? I would, But I mean,
- 50:33Speaker 16: I mean, are are you? How do you feel about
- 50:35Speaker 16: trying it for a few weeks and then you know,
- 50:38Speaker 16: how do you feel about that?
- 50:40Speaker 19: I don't know, But I mean, you're.
- 50:42Speaker 16: Gonna watch over some adults who are actually just gonna
- 50:45Speaker 16: be nude in the pool, and you're nude as well,
- 50:47Speaker 16: up on the big chair that overwatches everybody. Seventeen fifty
- 50:53Speaker 16: I don't seventeen fifty carry.
- 50:56Speaker 19: I don't think I'm going to be able to do that.
- 50:58Speaker 16: Seventeen fifty carry. We're talking about four hours of you
- 51:02Speaker 16: being nude along with some other people that are already new. So,
- 51:05Speaker 16: I mean, what's the big deal.
- 51:06Speaker 8: You know?
- 51:06Speaker 16: What we need you to do is come down. We're
- 51:08Speaker 16: gonna do some drills, some lifeguard drills to make sure
- 51:11Speaker 16: that you're definitely qualified. But we're going to make sure
- 51:13Speaker 16: that when you do those, you got to be naked
- 51:15Speaker 16: as well.
- 51:16Speaker 22: Okay, why would I have to do some drills naked?
- 51:21Speaker 22: I'm already a lifeguard.
- 51:23Speaker 16: What do I need to understand all that? But in
- 51:25Speaker 16: order we for our particular property, we got to make
- 51:28Speaker 16: sure that you're actually prepared and ready you know. Un Well,
- 51:33Speaker 16: that's the way it is, carrit We need you to
- 51:34Speaker 16: come down and do some drills. It's not going to
- 51:38Speaker 16: take a long probably about a half hour. You come down,
- 51:40Speaker 16: you get undressed, you get in the pool, and we
- 51:42Speaker 16: make sure that you're qualified to swim nude, to handle
- 51:46Speaker 16: to saving somebody's life, nude, the whole nine yards.
- 51:50Speaker 22: But what I mean, what if my family come to that?
- 51:53Speaker 16: You know, Carrie, you know I can't go back and
- 51:56Speaker 16: forth with you. I can't now. I know you. You know,
- 51:59Speaker 16: I look at your resume. I looked at what you
- 52:01Speaker 16: were doing and what you're pursuing in life, and I
- 52:03Speaker 16: thought this would be a great opportunity for you.
- 52:05Speaker 22: But I can't be here.
- 52:06Speaker 19: I mean, I can't do that to my family.
- 52:09Speaker 16: And you know no, wait a minute, hang on a second. Now,
- 52:11Speaker 16: you can't tell me you can't do it.
- 52:13Speaker 6: Now?
- 52:14Speaker 22: Oh yes, I yes I can.
- 52:16Speaker 16: So you get your down here in the morning so
- 52:18Speaker 16: I can get these drills done. And I want you
- 52:20Speaker 16: naked when you get here and get in this pool.
- 52:22Speaker 16: You understand me, Who the hell do you think you're
- 52:24Speaker 16: talking to?
- 52:25Speaker 22: Are you some kind of pull pimp? Life guard?
- 52:28Speaker 16: You?
- 52:28Speaker 22: The resources are and pimp. You're not tipping me. I
- 52:31Speaker 22: don't have to come down there, but I want to
- 52:33Speaker 22: come down there.
- 52:34Speaker 16: You gotta bring you think it down here tomorrow and
- 52:36Speaker 16: get in this pool and do this drill.
- 52:38Speaker 22: Do you think you're talking too.
- 52:40Speaker 16: I'm talking to you. You get your out here tomorrow
- 52:43Speaker 16: and your duty drill you need to do.
- 52:44Speaker 22: Is go get your pimp with Anderson Bayway. What you're
- 52:51Speaker 22: doing this new restaurant for you all freaking I don't
- 52:54Speaker 22: know them.
- 52:55Speaker 16: I don't know them paper, I don't give a fool
- 52:57Speaker 16: you know. Now, you get your down here and you
- 52:59Speaker 16: take the job.
- 53:00Speaker 22: I'm not coming down there to your fuck pool tomorrow
- 53:03Speaker 22: and swim noodle and life. Go ahead, noodle for a
- 53:06Speaker 22: bunch of ronchy. I don't know who you take your
- 53:10Speaker 22: time to. I'm just trying to be nice to you
- 53:12Speaker 22: when you come along with that. And then because I'm
- 53:16Speaker 22: not there coming the girl you got me? Okay, you
- 53:18Speaker 22: need to gonna get you a Pamela Anderson Baywatch. You
- 53:22Speaker 22: know DeepC diving. I don't know what you need, but
- 53:25Speaker 22: I'm gonna what you need.
- 53:27Speaker 16: You get your block down here tomorrow. What do you
- 53:30Speaker 16: think you're talking to I'm talking to you. You're talking
- 53:33Speaker 16: to you.
- 53:34Speaker 22: I'm talking to you.
- 53:36Speaker 16: Do you think you're talking to I got something I
- 53:38Speaker 16: want to say to you. You listening?
- 53:40Speaker 22: You know where you You better go ahead and stay
- 53:42Speaker 22: because I'm about to hang up this phone in your
- 53:44Speaker 22: face right now.
- 53:45Speaker 16: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 53:49Speaker 16: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I just see it,
- 54:00Speaker 16: frank you, baby, your girlfriend.
- 54:04Speaker 22: When I see that she's gonna have one last float,
- 54:08Speaker 22: I cannot believe.
- 54:09Speaker 8: She d like this.
- 54:11Speaker 16: All right, I gotta ask you something, baby, what is
- 54:14Speaker 16: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
- 54:17Speaker 16: show in the land.
- 54:19Speaker 19: The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 54:26Speaker 6: And there you have it, naked like God? Come on,
- 54:30Speaker 6: come on, y'all wouldn't have a naked like God? Y'all
- 54:33Speaker 6: wouldn't do that? What make it exciting?
- 54:37Speaker 3: Certainly?
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- 55:17Speaker 3: Hughgley all white, Ashley Larry all the wear great, Well,
- 55:24Speaker 3: what great? Just to prove a.
- 55:27Speaker 23: Pointment is funny too, All right, nephew, thank you.
- 55:37Speaker 11: Coming up next my Strawberry letters subject has my husband
- 55:41Speaker 11: been faking it?
- 55:42Speaker 12: We'll get into it right after this.
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- 56:47Speaker 11: Thank you nephew. Subject has my husband been faking it?
- 56:51Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty nine year old married
- 56:54Speaker 11: woman and my husband is thirty seven. My husband lost
- 56:58Speaker 11: his job in twenty twenty and we moved to a
- 57:00Speaker 11: smaller house and use the equity from our old house
- 57:03Speaker 11: to cover our expenses until he could find another job.
- 57:07Speaker 11: The change of lifestyle made us closer and really humbled him.
- 57:11Speaker 11: He finally joined my church and he stopped pressuring me
- 57:14Speaker 11: to have a baby. He told me that he was
- 57:16Speaker 11: happier than he'd been he'd ever been, and he felt
- 57:19Speaker 11: at peace.
- 57:20Speaker 1: Then he got a.
- 57:21Speaker 11: Job in twenty twenty three, late last year, he got
- 57:25Speaker 11: a big promotion and now he earns more than he's
- 57:28Speaker 11: ever earned. By the first of this year, he started
- 57:31Speaker 11: saying that we're outgrowing the small house and we need
- 57:33Speaker 11: to find a house in our old neighborhood. He suggested
- 57:37Speaker 11: that I start looking for a new car for myself,
- 57:39Speaker 11: but I just paid off my Volvo, so I'm good
- 57:42Speaker 11: for now. I am a teacher and I have no
- 57:45Speaker 11: desire to drive a nice car to my job in
- 57:48Speaker 11: the hood. He bought a new SUV and renewed our
- 57:52Speaker 11: membership to a private club where we were usually the
- 57:55Speaker 11: only blacks at events. He started going back to his
- 57:58Speaker 11: old tailor and he cut off his beard that I loved.
- 58:01Speaker 11: He was becoming his old self again. A Memorial Day,
- 58:05Speaker 11: his company had a cookout, and I could not wait
- 58:08Speaker 11: to meet his coworkers. That he bragged about most of
- 58:11Speaker 11: the black ones don't know they're black. And I didn't
- 58:14Speaker 11: know if I should laugh at my husband or clap
- 58:17Speaker 11: for him when he used proper subject verb agreement. My
- 58:21Speaker 11: husband really wants the status that he once had. I
- 58:24Speaker 11: told him that he lied about being comfortable with my
- 58:27Speaker 11: downs with downsizing our lives. He said that it is
- 58:31Speaker 11: time for a change. Was my husband faking his happiness
- 58:34Speaker 11: with me for the past five years? Well, I mean, definitely,
- 58:38Speaker 11: I don't think he was faking it. But what I'm
- 58:41Speaker 11: trying to figure out is what are you complaining about?
- 58:44Speaker 11: I mean, I would think you would be happy to
- 58:46Speaker 11: move into a nicer home and also that your husband
- 58:51Speaker 11: wants to buy you a new car and do nice
- 58:53Speaker 11: things for you. I mean, he's obviously making more money
- 58:56Speaker 11: now and he's being the provider, and that's what real moment,
- 59:00Speaker 11: real men do.
- 59:01Speaker 12: He's getting a swag back. Okay.
- 59:03Speaker 11: He wants you to be proud of him. He wants
- 59:06Speaker 11: you to go with him, but you're seem stuck and resistant.
- 59:10Speaker 11: I mean, I really again, don't think he was lying
- 59:14Speaker 11: about being comfortable with the downsizing, not at all. He
- 59:18Speaker 11: made the necessary adjustments to deal with the life he
- 59:20Speaker 11: had while he wasn't working.
- 59:22Speaker 12: He didn't complain, He dealt with it.
- 59:24Speaker 11: Now he's back and he wants to live and thrive
- 59:27Speaker 11: and take his life your lives to the next level.
- 59:30Speaker 12: He wants you to go with him. You're his wife.
- 59:32Speaker 12: What's wrong with that? It shows he's adaptable. He's making
- 59:35Speaker 12: up for lost time now.
- 59:37Speaker 11: While you're trying to stay stuck in the past, you know,
- 59:40Speaker 11: and focus on the wrong thing.
- 59:42Speaker 1: Steve, you know what I think.
- 59:44Speaker 3: I think I don't even want to do this letter.
- 59:47Speaker 8: That's how I feel about I really do case, Shelley,
- 59:50Speaker 8: you absolutely correct.
- 59:51Speaker 3: What are you complaining about? What's the matter?
- 59:56Speaker 8: This man ain't cheating, He ain't taking his money, is
- 59:59Speaker 8: spending it no way else. He keep bringing it back
- 1:00:01Speaker 8: into the house. He wants to do something nice for
- 1:00:04Speaker 8: you all the time. You're a teacher. You don't want
- 1:00:08Speaker 8: to drive a nice car into the hood. You sold
- 1:00:11Speaker 8: your your paid your Vovo off. He won't get you
- 1:00:14Speaker 8: a new car.
- 1:00:15Speaker 3: Drive your Vovo. I don't even know what's what's wrong
- 1:00:21Speaker 3: in this letter?
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: Yes, what is wrong?
- 1:00:25Speaker 3: I don't even know. Has my husband been faking it now?
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: I'm thinking you know that title. Yeah, I know what
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: you mean.
- 1:00:32Speaker 8: Yes, faking and telling us we've been in love for
- 1:00:34Speaker 8: years and he got another family some well, he tell
- 1:00:38Speaker 8: me everything all right, and he's seeing this other woman
- 1:00:40Speaker 8: on the side. That letter ain't about none of that.
- 1:00:44Speaker 8: Listen to what he did. You're a thirty nine year
- 1:00:48Speaker 8: old married woman. Your husband is thirty seven. He lost
- 1:00:52Speaker 8: his job y'all moved into a smaller house. Y'all took
- 1:00:55Speaker 8: the equity from the old house and held it down
- 1:00:58Speaker 8: until he could. And you say, to cover our expenses
- 1:01:03Speaker 8: until he could find another good job. That's what you
- 1:01:06Speaker 8: did with the equity in the house, to cover y'all's
- 1:01:08Speaker 8: expenses until he could find another good job. Then you said,
- 1:01:13Speaker 8: the change of lifestyle made us closely closer, and it
- 1:01:16Speaker 8: really humbled him. Okay, see this is what this led about.
- 1:01:21Speaker 8: You like the new humble person. He finally joined my church.
- 1:01:25Speaker 8: He stopped pressuring me to have a baby. See now,
- 1:01:29Speaker 8: as long as he doing what you want to do,
- 1:01:32Speaker 8: there you go. Now you happy he joined your church,
- 1:01:35Speaker 8: And he probably didn't won't go down a little raggedy church.
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: He went on and join you.
- 1:01:40Speaker 8: He might not even like your past, all that hooping
- 1:01:42Speaker 8: and hollery. Everybody don't want to go down there for
- 1:01:44Speaker 8: all that? Why is they running in here?
- 1:01:47Speaker 15: Well?
- 1:01:47Speaker 3: All and everybody want to all you go want the
- 1:01:49Speaker 3: little quiet, little church.
- 1:01:50Speaker 8: Ain't nobody rejoicing all their old dry service, ain't got
- 1:01:54Speaker 8: no jam in choir. He finally joined it, and he
- 1:01:57Speaker 8: does stop pressuring you to have a baby. He want
- 1:01:59Speaker 8: a family. You're thirty nine, that's pressure to have a baby.
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:02:05Speaker 8: He told me that he's happier than he's ever been,
- 1:02:07Speaker 8: and he felt at peace. Here's a man who made
- 1:02:11Speaker 8: the necessary adjustments without complaining, and he settled on in
- 1:02:16Speaker 8: for the sake of his family. Then he got a
- 1:02:19Speaker 8: job in twenty twenty three, he backed making all kinds
- 1:02:22Speaker 8: of new money. He started saying that we're outgrowing the
- 1:02:26Speaker 8: small house. We need to find a house in our
- 1:02:28Speaker 8: old neighborhood. He suggested, you start looking for a new
- 1:02:32Speaker 8: car for yourself. I just paid off my Vovo, so
- 1:02:35Speaker 8: I'm good. I'm a teacher. I don't want to drive
- 1:02:37Speaker 8: his nice car in the hood. He bought a new suv.
- 1:02:39Speaker 8: He renewed your membership down at the private club. We
- 1:02:42Speaker 8: using only blacks at the events. That's what happened when
- 1:02:45Speaker 8: you in certain neighborhoods. He started going back to his
- 1:02:48Speaker 8: old tailor, cut off his beard that I loved. He
- 1:02:51Speaker 8: was becoming his old self again. Then they had a cookout.
- 1:02:55Speaker 8: You met the black people that wasn't really black. You
- 1:02:58Speaker 8: was laughing at him the way he talked, just hang on, girl, buy.
- 1:03:02Speaker 11: Hang hold, hang on, Steve, We'll have for two of
- 1:03:05Speaker 11: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
- 1:03:08Speaker 11: Today's Strawberry Letter subject is has my husband been faking it?
- 1:03:13Speaker 12: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
- 1:03:17Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:03:22Speaker 13: My name is Tony and my daughter, Bailey is seven
- 1:03:25Speaker 13: years old. We learned about seek of Sale at bird
- 1:03:28Speaker 13: So when we got the news, my first mind was whyause.
- 1:03:31Speaker 13: I remember that sometimes the things that you go through
- 1:03:35Speaker 13: are not necessarily for you, there for somebody else. I'm
- 1:03:38Speaker 13: so thankful to God and Saint Jude and all the
- 1:03:41Speaker 13: angels they work here.
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: They took all the worry away.
- 1:03:43Speaker 11: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like
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- 1:03:54Speaker 11: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letter.
- 1:03:57Speaker 11: I know you said you didn't want to really do
- 1:03:59Speaker 11: this letter.
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: Let's do it.
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: They married couple. She thirty nine, he thirty seven. He
- 1:04:08Speaker 3: had a job.
- 1:04:09Speaker 8: He lost his job, and they decided to downsize until
- 1:04:13Speaker 8: he could find a better job.
- 1:04:15Speaker 3: Another good job, they say, So they took the.
- 1:04:17Speaker 8: Equity from the house provided a lifestyle for him, and
- 1:04:21Speaker 8: she said that the change really humbled him. So he
- 1:04:26Speaker 8: stopped pressing you the having a baby, and he finally
- 1:04:29Speaker 8: joined your church. Man, he ain't want to join the
- 1:04:32Speaker 8: church down there. Maybe he ain't like the two reasons
- 1:04:34Speaker 8: you don't want to go to church. You don't want
- 1:04:36Speaker 8: to go down there with all that hooping and holleringd
- 1:04:38Speaker 8: that tracked me to be at some churches. Or you
- 1:04:40Speaker 8: want to go down to this little dry Latin speaking
- 1:04:44Speaker 8: Lord you over there there and got him.
- 1:04:46Speaker 3: Books, the whole dry service. Y'all ain't got no drum
- 1:04:48Speaker 3: at the church. Nothing. Everybody don't want that.
- 1:04:51Speaker 6: Now.
- 1:04:51Speaker 8: You either don't want the hooping and holland or the
- 1:04:53Speaker 8: track meet, or you don't want to go down here
- 1:04:55Speaker 8: that it latins me. Oh oh, we're gonna open up
- 1:05:04Speaker 8: our him books to page toy to eight.
- 1:05:09Speaker 3: I know he will fix it. He will after a while.
- 1:05:16Speaker 3: We didn't have no human books.
- 1:05:17Speaker 8: Somebody just jumped up and busted out into a soung
- 1:05:21Speaker 8: and we followed. Well, he didn't finally join the church.
- 1:05:24Speaker 8: Stop pressing you to have a baby. He told you
- 1:05:27Speaker 8: he was happy and that he had ever been and
- 1:05:28Speaker 8: he felt at peace. This is a man who's adjusting
- 1:05:33Speaker 8: to the circumstance. So instead of getting down that downside
- 1:05:36Speaker 8: and complaining, he told you he was at peace. Last
- 1:05:40Speaker 8: year he got a new job, got a big promotion.
- 1:05:42Speaker 8: Want to move out the old neighborhood, he suggested. They
- 1:05:45Speaker 8: started looking for a bigger house. Then he told you
- 1:05:48Speaker 8: to find yourself a new car. I just paid off
- 1:05:50Speaker 8: my Vovo. I'm a teacher. I don't want to drive
- 1:05:52Speaker 8: no new car to no hood. Keep your Vovo. Then
- 1:05:55Speaker 8: he bought a new su V renewed your membership down
- 1:05:59Speaker 8: at the private club.
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: Well, we usually only blacks at the event. That's what
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: happened all the time.
- 1:06:03Speaker 8: When you move out into neighborhoods, it ain't a lot
- 1:06:06Speaker 8: of us out there, so you wind up being the
- 1:06:08Speaker 8: only one that ain't the first time, then this company
- 1:06:10Speaker 8: had a cookout. I couldn't wait to meet his coworkers
- 1:06:13Speaker 8: that he bragged about. Most of the black ones don't
- 1:06:15Speaker 8: know that they black, or they playing the game too,
- 1:06:20Speaker 8: because when they're at home, they got to be something else.
- 1:06:22Speaker 8: We done all had to put the mask on to
- 1:06:25Speaker 8: come to work. So you know, everybody know what the masks,
- 1:06:28Speaker 8: look like there's work in corporate America and put the
- 1:06:31Speaker 8: mask on. Go down here and deal with it so
- 1:06:33Speaker 8: we can go home. Yeah, most of the black ones
- 1:06:37Speaker 8: don't know they black. They probably do. They just got
- 1:06:39Speaker 8: to play the game. And so I didn't know if
- 1:06:42Speaker 8: I should laugh at my husband or clap when he
- 1:06:44Speaker 8: used proper subject verb agreement. You a teacher, You ought
- 1:06:47Speaker 8: to be happy about that. My husband really wants the
- 1:06:50Speaker 8: status that he once had. Yes, he does, because that's
- 1:06:55Speaker 8: what money does. It provides you with the status. I
- 1:07:00Speaker 8: told him he lied about being comfortable with downsides in
- 1:07:03Speaker 8: our lives.
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: No, he didn't.
- 1:07:06Speaker 8: He just adjusted and instead of being a whiner and complainer,
- 1:07:10Speaker 8: he went along with it. Man, that's the kind of
- 1:07:13Speaker 8: man you won't. He said that it's time for a change.
- 1:07:17Speaker 8: Was my husband faking his happiness with me for the
- 1:07:20Speaker 8: past five years? Why is that your question?
- 1:07:23Speaker 23: Exactly?
- 1:07:24Speaker 3: Why is that your question?
- 1:07:28Speaker 8: If he was faking it, what you would with having
- 1:07:30Speaker 8: a real family and another family or a woman on
- 1:07:33Speaker 8: the side and all that I could have.
- 1:07:34Speaker 3: But he No, he wasn't faking it. That's the happiest
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: he's been.
- 1:07:38Speaker 8: He was at peace, he was out the rat race
- 1:07:40Speaker 8: for a minute, he took a break, but the true
- 1:07:43Speaker 8: him wants to get back in the game. And yes,
- 1:07:46Speaker 8: he won't stack status because that's why you make more money.
- 1:07:50Speaker 8: And he's doing exactly what a man should do. He's
- 1:07:53Speaker 8: making more money to provide a better lifestyle for you.
- 1:07:58Speaker 8: He buying you a bigger house, he buying you a
- 1:08:01Speaker 8: new car. Man, what do you want? What difference do
- 1:08:07Speaker 8: it make? Why are you trying to make something wrong? Exactly,
- 1:08:13Speaker 8: You're just trying to make something wrong. Lady, it's women
- 1:08:16Speaker 8: listening to this letter, going girl by this woman sitting
- 1:08:21Speaker 8: If you're going, that's that sounded like my husband.
- 1:08:24Speaker 12: Yeah, I wish I could get my husband to do
- 1:08:26Speaker 12: this or.
- 1:08:28Speaker 3: Or that's my husband.
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's just the way of manhood.
- 1:08:36Speaker 8: So that's why they want to answer this letter because
- 1:08:38Speaker 8: I don't know what she's complaining about. It just lady,
- 1:08:43Speaker 8: you ain't even got no problem. Let me cut my
- 1:08:44Speaker 8: computer on. I ain't got no more comments on. Y'all
- 1:08:48Speaker 8: want to talk about something else?
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: How the weather ever good? Right now?
- 1:09:04Speaker 8: Anybody heard anything about Puffy? What's happening with the puppy trial?
- 1:09:08Speaker 12: Same old s freakoff details and all of that crazy.
- 1:09:13Speaker 23: It's too long.
- 1:09:14Speaker 12: This Yeah, it's really long. It's really long.
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: Too much, long and slippery?
- 1:09:20Speaker 12: Yes, too much.
- 1:09:21Speaker 23: You're just saying anything that comes to your mind.
- 1:09:26Speaker 12: Yeah, don't filter, he doesn't think.
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: No, no, no, no filter what waitit wait?
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: Thank filter?
- 1:09:36Speaker 12: Think for what.
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: It's way more, way, more interesting than this letter.
- 1:09:45Speaker 11: Yeah, this letter was crazy. She shouldn't have been. She
- 1:09:48Speaker 11: really shouldn't have been complaining. All right, So you can
- 1:09:52Speaker 11: comment trial. You can comment on Today's letter on Instagram.
- 1:09:59Speaker 11: You can comment on Instagram or Facebook at Steve Harvey FM.
- 1:10:03Speaker 11: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on
- 1:10:06Speaker 11: the free iHeartRadio app. Now, coming up next, it is
- 1:10:09Speaker 11: Junior in the Building with Sports Talk. Right after this,
- 1:10:13Speaker 11: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:10:20Speaker 3: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow rum?
- 1:10:22Speaker 8: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. Until
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- 1:10:51Speaker 12: It is time now for junior and sports talk. Junior,
- 1:10:54Speaker 12: what you got for us?
- 1:10:55Speaker 10: All right, Shirley, Well let me know tonight though, shorty tonight.
- 1:10:58Speaker 10: I'm in Monroe, Louisiana at Billions Arena, So that's what
- 1:11:00Speaker 10: I have to do tonight.
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: Yes, I am in Monroll.
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: You remember what one road he is on?
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: Monroe, Monroe, Louisiana, right off twenty pe Ca and Mam.
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: It's a board a bit everywhere.
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: I would be there tonight though. See just east, just
- 1:11:17Speaker 3: east of Shreveport Bowlshie City. Yes, it is.
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: Bing up the one got.
- 1:11:24Speaker 3: It about ninety miles up the road is ravel and Telula.
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: What you've been everywhere? Rave on and toe Lula about
- 1:11:31Speaker 3: ninety miles up the road going east off twenty.
- 1:11:35Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:11:35Speaker 10: Well let's talk about it up here we go, man
- 1:11:38Speaker 10: Game four tonight in the NBA Finals.
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: Okay, these Pacers got a two to one league.
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: Where they playing at as they back to the now, Yeah,
- 1:11:47Speaker 3: they're playing Indiana.
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: Oh so it's two two one, No, no, no, it's
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: two to one too to one Indiana.
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm asking you the format of where
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: they play.
- 1:11:56Speaker 1: Oh yeah too too yeah to two to one one one.
- 1:12:00Speaker 8: Yes, so they going back if they win tonight. It's
- 1:12:03Speaker 8: gonna be hard for Okay. See, I kind of really
- 1:12:06Speaker 8: am kind of like pulling for Indiana now because I
- 1:12:09Speaker 8: didn't have a dog in this fight.
- 1:12:11Speaker 3: But it's a hard game to watch anyway.
- 1:12:13Speaker 8: But I do like Indiana, yeah, more than because I
- 1:12:16Speaker 8: can't stand that tall European player they got on.
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: Ok see, the real skinny one. Oh he's weak. He weak, weak.
- 1:12:25Speaker 3: He would never made it back in the day. He weak, y'all. Yeah,
- 1:12:29Speaker 3: nog he weak man. He would have never made it.
- 1:12:32Speaker 8: He wouldn't even bro He wouldn't even have been on
- 1:12:34Speaker 8: the team in the nineties, eighties, He wouldn't even been
- 1:12:36Speaker 8: out there eighty his he weak.
- 1:12:39Speaker 3: He he makes me sick.
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: He don't know nobody's name.
- 1:12:44Speaker 3: I ain't got no time.
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: Kid player chet hober that's only one and and.
- 1:12:53Speaker 8: He ain't gonna be in the middle. He'd be out
- 1:12:54Speaker 8: there at the three point line. Then when he go
- 1:12:56Speaker 8: to the paint, they just be throwing his stuff. I'll
- 1:13:02Speaker 8: be going why as.
- 1:13:03Speaker 12: You tall, wasted height, just wasted.
- 1:13:12Speaker 3: He could have he could have been five all he
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: could have.
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: Also, Manu, y'all pray for the Rockets.
- 1:13:21Speaker 10: Y'all play for US Rockets Kevin because Kevin Durant is
- 1:13:26Speaker 10: looking for a new team trade proposal and Rockets is
- 1:13:29Speaker 10: one of the teams that he's considering. So we just
- 1:13:31Speaker 10: need to go and prayer and ask he come to Houston.
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: That's what we should be praying for. It to pray
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: for the Rockets. Are were praying for?
- 1:13:40Speaker 6: No time for that?
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: You think Kevin drink could be a rocket? Way too much?
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: Talk to God about it.
- 1:13:46Speaker 8: Ain't gonna bedloads your arms?
- 1:13:56Speaker 12: All right, Junior?
- 1:13:57Speaker 11: Thank you coming up at the top of the or
- 1:14:00Speaker 11: a woman that needs some help Steve.
- 1:14:03Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: All right, Steve.
- 1:14:11Speaker 11: This is from Canetra in mid Lothian. Canetra says, I'm
- 1:14:16Speaker 11: old school when it comes to dating and my boyfriend
- 1:14:19Speaker 11: is older, so I would expect him to get certain
- 1:14:22Speaker 11: things right. For example, he will text me when he
- 1:14:25Speaker 11: pulls up to let me know he's downstairs instead of
- 1:14:28Speaker 11: coming up to get me. So what I live on
- 1:14:30Speaker 11: the second floor, and he texts me all day long
- 1:14:34Speaker 11: instead of calling me. If I call him, he always
- 1:14:37Speaker 11: asks what's wrong. He also won't hold my hand in public,
- 1:14:41Speaker 11: and he won't sit beside me in restaurants. What's weird
- 1:14:45Speaker 11: is that he told me that he loves me. How
- 1:14:48Speaker 11: do I get this forty five year old man's actions
- 1:14:50Speaker 11: to match up with his words?
- 1:14:53Speaker 8: Wait a minute, First of all, your actions are not.
- 1:14:55Speaker 8: You don't require anything. He texts you downstairs, go down
- 1:15:00Speaker 8: there and get in the.
- 1:15:01Speaker 3: Car, okay, Instead of you can train a man how
- 1:15:05Speaker 3: to treat you, he texts you you go down and
- 1:15:09Speaker 3: get in the car.
- 1:15:11Speaker 12: But you're mad about it now.
- 1:15:12Speaker 8: He don't sit next to you in the restaurant because
- 1:15:15Speaker 8: he got he should be sitting there watching that door.
- 1:15:20Speaker 8: I don't sit next to my wife in the restaurant.
- 1:15:22Speaker 8: We sit across from each other, and I'll sit with
- 1:15:24Speaker 8: my I face the door. I got to see this door.
- 1:15:28Speaker 8: I gotta see what's happening. So there's nothing wrong with that.
- 1:15:31Speaker 8: He texts you, and you respond. That's why he keep
- 1:15:34Speaker 8: texting me. You've never said, hey, look, I don't care
- 1:15:37Speaker 8: for text I want to hear your voice. Call me
- 1:15:39Speaker 8: if you want this to continue. So it ain't what
- 1:15:42Speaker 8: he doing wrong, it's what you're allowing him to do
- 1:15:45Speaker 8: so once again. And if a man loves you, he
- 1:15:49Speaker 8: gonna accommodate.
- 1:15:50Speaker 3: You sitting next to each other texting so stupid.
- 1:16:02Speaker 11: All right, we have done for another one, Steve, So
- 1:16:04Speaker 11: you're telling kenetra I just told her Shirley, Yeah, and
- 1:16:09Speaker 11: to get her standards together. That's all all right, We
- 1:16:11Speaker 11: do have time for another one. This is from Levi
- 1:16:13Speaker 11: and Saint Louis. Levi said, I had company over watching
- 1:16:17Speaker 11: TV and enjoying a bottle of bourbon, and my date's
- 1:16:20Speaker 11: phone kept ringing. She put it on vibrate and it
- 1:16:24Speaker 11: kept on vibrating. Finally I asked her if she needed
- 1:16:27Speaker 11: to check her phone. She said it was her roommate
- 1:16:29Speaker 11: and she'd call her. When she got in the car.
- 1:16:32Speaker 11: She asked if we could go on back to my
- 1:16:35Speaker 11: bed because she was ready to have sex. I told
- 1:16:38Speaker 11: her to go ahead and leave so she could call
- 1:16:40Speaker 11: her roommates. She seemed like she had a few screws
- 1:16:43Speaker 11: loose and she was hiding something. Did I do the
- 1:16:46Speaker 11: right thing?
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:16:47Speaker 8: You did, doog, Yeah you did? Yeah, very rarely do
- 1:16:52Speaker 8: me and make the smart decision in it. That's going
- 1:16:56Speaker 8: in the back to the bedroom because I'm ready to
- 1:16:58Speaker 8: have sex with y'all going it, let's go, It's usually
- 1:17:01Speaker 8: the response.
- 1:17:03Speaker 3: But you knew something was wrong, You knew something was wrong.
- 1:17:08Speaker 12: What was wrong?
- 1:17:10Speaker 3: Well, you know, some screws is loose? Phone just vibrating.
- 1:17:13Speaker 3: That ain't your girlfriend, So you know that's a problem.
- 1:17:21Speaker 3: And so that was a problem.
- 1:17:22Speaker 6: And then.
- 1:17:24Speaker 8: The other one about you know, let's go on in
- 1:17:27Speaker 8: the back, bro, and I'm gonna tell you something else
- 1:17:29Speaker 8: to fine? And she really wasn't that fine?
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: Yeah, why do you say that?
- 1:17:39Speaker 12: Why let the people know why you said that?
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: Questions?
- 1:17:43Speaker 3: Why do I say she wasn't fine?
- 1:17:45Speaker 8: If a woman said let's go on in the back
- 1:17:47Speaker 8: of the bedroom, how you ain't going over there?
- 1:17:51Speaker 3: I don't care what screw you got loose in your head?
- 1:17:53Speaker 3: Who was about that?
- 1:17:54Speaker 6: Later on?
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like crazy anyway?
- 1:17:57Speaker 8: Yeah, you know how many fine people out and been
- 1:18:01Speaker 8: with about you having no loose screw?
- 1:18:09Speaker 12: Was she too aggressive in her approach?
- 1:18:12Speaker 23: Was she to aggressive?
- 1:18:13Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 1:18:13Speaker 12: That phone?
- 1:18:14Speaker 3: You know she might you know that. You don't know
- 1:18:17Speaker 3: how dog, that phone just vibrating? That sound like that
- 1:18:19Speaker 3: sounded like call girl to me.
- 1:18:22Speaker 1: Oh wow, you went there with it.
- 1:18:25Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just ranging and ranging and ranging and ranging
- 1:18:28Speaker 8: in your roommate ain't calling you that much.
- 1:18:32Speaker 12: But something maybe something happened at the house surely.
- 1:18:36Speaker 1: Yeah, his name is Levi.
- 1:18:38Speaker 3: Yeah, Frank, that's all. What is.
- 1:18:45Speaker 19: All right?
- 1:18:45Speaker 12: I wish we had time to explore that junior.
- 1:18:48Speaker 11: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
- 1:18:51Speaker 11: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:18:52Speaker 12: Right after this.
- 1:18:54Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
- 1:19:02Speaker 11: this is it Father's Day? Is this coming Sunday? So
- 1:19:07Speaker 11: we want to take the time to shout out all
- 1:19:09Speaker 11: the amazing fathers, the stepfathers, the grandfathers, and any man
- 1:19:16Speaker 11: that stepped up to raise, you know, or mentor child.
- 1:19:20Speaker 12: That's not his biological child.
- 1:19:21Speaker 3: I mean, you will breaking do this? Why show breaking
- 1:19:27Speaker 3: the show to do this?
- 1:19:29Speaker 11: See if you get a special shout out, you're a
- 1:19:31Speaker 11: dad to seven children, you.
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: Got the mentoring. Yeah, but then on this weekend.
- 1:19:36Speaker 11: You spend your time mentoring other young men that are
- 1:19:39Speaker 11: growing up without a dad. I mean you're giving back
- 1:19:42Speaker 11: right there. Why do you do that every single year?
- 1:19:44Speaker 11: And Happy Father's day.
- 1:19:46Speaker 8: You didn't have to tag that with happy fathers subject
- 1:19:51Speaker 8: because I won't.
- 1:19:52Speaker 3: Several thousand more people did not appreciate me too. That's who.
- 1:19:58Speaker 12: You got this all wrong. We do appreciate dads.
- 1:20:02Speaker 19: Man.
- 1:20:02Speaker 3: This little boy got off the bus yesterday. They arrived
- 1:20:04Speaker 3: the other day.
- 1:20:05Speaker 8: We little boy got to the bus and said, man,
- 1:20:07Speaker 8: what's up Steve. I say, hey, man, we're about to
- 1:20:10Speaker 8: get your little back.
- 1:20:11Speaker 3: Up on that bus.
- 1:20:11Speaker 8: If you call it Steve more time, I'm mister Harvey. Okay,
- 1:20:18Speaker 8: I'm sorry, mister Harvey. Okay, cool. So they all right,
- 1:20:22Speaker 8: but you know I do it because it's necessary. We
- 1:20:25Speaker 8: need more role models in these young men's lives to
- 1:20:28Speaker 8: help bake better boys, turn them into better men, so
- 1:20:32Speaker 8: your daughters have better families.
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: Yeah, at imaiate you dad.
- 1:20:37Speaker 11: All right, coming up, we'll have more of the Steve
- 1:20:40Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show right after this.
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- 1:21:29Speaker 11: for a patient means the patient's family has nothing to
- 1:21:33Speaker 11: worry about as far as housing, as far as food,
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- 1:21:38Speaker 12: That's what Saint Jude does.
- 1:21:41Speaker 11: By becoming a Saint Jude Partner and Hope, you can
- 1:21:43Speaker 11: help Saint Jude continue to help children. Tell them, Steve,
- 1:21:47Speaker 11: if you become a monthly donor, what do you do
- 1:21:51Speaker 11: you pledge nineteen dollars?
- 1:21:52Speaker 3: Well you can.
- 1:21:54Speaker 8: Yeah, And here's the deal, y'all. We need to really
- 1:21:57Speaker 8: consider a participating in this. I need everybody to take
- 1:22:02Speaker 8: a moment to just think of how blessed you are
- 1:22:05Speaker 8: to have a healthy child, how blessed you are to
- 1:22:08Speaker 8: have been healthy yourself. When I see these commercials, I
- 1:22:12Speaker 8: can't imagine what that must feel like to have an
- 1:22:16Speaker 8: unhealthy child, and man, it's a horrible thing for a
- 1:22:20Speaker 8: parent to go through. So those of us that are blessed,
- 1:22:23Speaker 8: you have to remember that you are blessing. To become
- 1:22:26Speaker 8: a blessing. It's just nineteen dollars. That hot coffee down now,
- 1:22:32Speaker 8: and we're talking about a month. Y'all spend nineteen dollars
- 1:22:36Speaker 8: on that verday grande absolute ty down there. For that's
- 1:22:41Speaker 8: about forty dollars by time to put all them stuff
- 1:22:43Speaker 8: in it. Let's change somebody's life for nineteen dollars. That's
- 1:22:48Speaker 8: all it takes is nineteen dollars.
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: So now here's what you do.
- 1:22:52Speaker 8: All you got to do is text shms that little
- 1:22:58Speaker 8: block where it's got you know where you two just
- 1:23:01Speaker 8: right in that block where it's say two put shms
- 1:23:04Speaker 8: that stands for Steve Harvey Mortar, show just the initials,
- 1:23:08Speaker 8: and you text it to seven eight five eight three
- 1:23:12Speaker 8: three seven eight five eight three three. Now they want
- 1:23:20Speaker 8: me to tell you that's some standard data and text
- 1:23:23Speaker 8: message and rates apply for who give it you? You're
- 1:23:26Speaker 8: texting everybody anyway, Just help somebody, man, That's what this
- 1:23:31Speaker 8: is all about I'm challenging all the cues. Everybody, don't
- 1:23:36Speaker 8: make a sound. Five bruhs. Let's just do some kind
- 1:23:40Speaker 8: for somebody else. Tommy, can you challenge your.
- 1:23:43Speaker 6: Frad I can challenge all the members of Kappa Alpha
- 1:23:46Speaker 6: PSI Fraternity Incorporated to get out and donate nineteen dollars
- 1:23:50Speaker 6: to this word that calls Saint Jude for the children.
- 1:23:53Speaker 3: Why not?
- 1:23:53Speaker 1: Let's do it.
- 1:23:54Speaker 3: Bro Junior, can you tell all the six sell people.
- 1:23:57Speaker 10: Yeah, I challenge all the sickle cell people who are
- 1:24:00Speaker 10: healthy enough to text to go ahead and give nineteen dollars.
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: I can't, all right, Shirley, can you ask Mary?
- 1:24:08Speaker 3: Tell all the people with big eyes.
- 1:24:10Speaker 8: Charley, tell all the people with big eyes with big
- 1:24:14Speaker 8: bull eyes.
- 1:24:15Speaker 6: Tech people that then scratch up calls and stuff going on.
- 1:24:18Speaker 3: Talk to the ladies. We'll go ahead, Hirley.
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: You get yours out and I got.
- 1:24:21Speaker 12: My to seven eight five eight three three. Okay, thank
- 1:24:25Speaker 12: you just doing it.
- 1:24:27Speaker 8: You have nineteen dollars to change some lives and help
- 1:24:30Speaker 8: some people. And remember you are blessed to become a blessing.
- 1:24:33Speaker 12: Let's do something to thank you.
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- 1:25:30Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:25:30Speaker 8: I want to say real, real quickly about the mentoring camp.
- 1:25:33Speaker 8: Have a new group of boys down here this year,
- 1:25:35Speaker 8: one hundred and fifty strong. Seems like a good group.
- 1:25:38Speaker 8: We're working them through the paces. I want to thank
- 1:25:41Speaker 8: all the volunteer mentors who came down. You know, we
- 1:25:46Speaker 8: lost the United States Army support because it would disadministration
- 1:25:51Speaker 8: put it under the DEI. So they killed that and
- 1:25:54Speaker 8: the contribution that the US Army was making. They took
- 1:25:57Speaker 8: the funding and they took the soldiers. But I want
- 1:26:01Speaker 8: to thank God for so many of the soldiers that
- 1:26:04Speaker 8: have helped me over the years heard about it and
- 1:26:07Speaker 8: they took their vacation.
- 1:26:08Speaker 3: Time and twenty of them came and volunteered. Thank you
- 1:26:13Speaker 3: for you.
- 1:26:16Speaker 8: I thought that was outstanding man for them brothers in
- 1:26:18Speaker 8: the US Army. So that just wanted to say that, Junior,
- 1:26:21Speaker 8: you had a question for me, Yeah.
- 1:26:23Speaker 10: Because it was right up that alley actually, because I
- 1:26:25Speaker 10: was asking what all the success you have?
- 1:26:27Speaker 3: Man?
- 1:26:27Speaker 16: You have?
- 1:26:28Speaker 3: You know, you're a motivational speaker, your.
- 1:26:30Speaker 10: Radio host, your TV personality, and then here you are
- 1:26:34Speaker 10: spending your Father's Day weekend with some men you've never met,
- 1:26:37Speaker 10: some young men you never met before.
- 1:26:38Speaker 3: What made you put mentorship on this list? Because it
- 1:26:40Speaker 3: seems like you had everything.
- 1:26:42Speaker 8: Well, you know, I have a saying that says, your
- 1:26:45Speaker 8: career is what you paid for, but your calling is
- 1:26:49Speaker 8: what you're made for. And I discovered out of all
- 1:26:55Speaker 8: my success that the real purpose that God gave me
- 1:27:01Speaker 8: this vehicle of success for was to turn around and
- 1:27:06Speaker 8: do his work. God blesses you to become a blessing.
- 1:27:12Speaker 8: That's my mother imparted that on me. Even as a child.
- 1:27:17Speaker 8: She used to tell me something one time that I
- 1:27:18Speaker 8: didn't understand. I'd be on my way out to school
- 1:27:20Speaker 8: and every now and then she said, boy, don't forget
- 1:27:24Speaker 8: one day, God gonna give you a big house up
- 1:27:26Speaker 8: on the hill. You can't get up on that hill,
- 1:27:28Speaker 8: and don't take nobody with you.
- 1:27:31Speaker 6: Now.
- 1:27:31Speaker 8: I didn't get it at the time, but my mother
- 1:27:34Speaker 8: knew something that I didn't know, that one day I
- 1:27:39Speaker 8: would have a big house up on the hill, and
- 1:27:43Speaker 8: that it was my obligation to teach other people how
- 1:27:46Speaker 8: to get on the hill too. And that's a big
- 1:27:49Speaker 8: part of it. And I I just have discovered the
- 1:27:54Speaker 8: older I Get Nurse program is sixteen, seventeen years old.
- 1:28:01Speaker 8: Maybe even yeah, plans is older than that. Really, yeah,
- 1:28:06Speaker 8: the minnoring camp is older than that. I don't even know. Wow,
- 1:28:10Speaker 8: I had this minoring camp back in two thousand and three.
- 1:28:14Speaker 8: It's twenty some years old. Man, I've been doing this
- 1:28:17Speaker 8: since Dallas. I lost track. But anyway, Uh, I've.
- 1:28:22Speaker 3: Just learned that.
- 1:28:24Speaker 8: All of this fame and and and and and means
- 1:28:28Speaker 8: that God had graced me would had to have a
- 1:28:30Speaker 8: purpose attacked to it. I've actually found my purpose in life.
- 1:28:36Speaker 8: I got the fame part, that's cool, but that's gonna be.
- 1:28:38Speaker 3: Over with one day.
- 1:28:39Speaker 18: Now.
- 1:28:39Speaker 8: I won't do TV forever, you know, and that's that's
- 1:28:43Speaker 8: gonna go away. But my legacy won't go away. My
- 1:28:49Speaker 8: legacy is gonna be here after I'm gone. I've learned
- 1:28:53Speaker 8: something owning this ranch.
- 1:28:55Speaker 3: As i've.
- 1:28:58Speaker 8: A tornado came through and distroyd a huge part of
- 1:29:01Speaker 8: the forest that I own. So we got with the
- 1:29:05Speaker 8: Department of Georgia Agriculture and they tore down probably one
- 1:29:14Speaker 8: hundred acres of trees, just tore them out the ground,
- 1:29:18Speaker 8: just horrible tornado. So I had to replace them, and
- 1:29:22Speaker 8: I replaced ninety thousand trees, replanted ninety thousand trees. Department
- 1:29:31Speaker 8: of Georgia came down and helped me do it. They
- 1:29:33Speaker 8: send the people down there that make rolls and they
- 1:29:35Speaker 8: plant these sprucelings and I've watched these brucelinks grow over
- 1:29:40Speaker 8: the years. But you know what, I also realize a
- 1:29:45Speaker 8: society becomes great when old men plant trees under which
- 1:29:53Speaker 8: the shade they know they'll never sit. I know that
- 1:30:00Speaker 8: I won't be here when them trees get really, really
- 1:30:05Speaker 8: big enough to create shade. I know I'm not gonna
- 1:30:08Speaker 8: be here for that. Those trees that got took out
- 1:30:10Speaker 8: the ground was one hundred years old. Man, I won't
- 1:30:15Speaker 8: even be here for when they're fifty years old and
- 1:30:19Speaker 8: they provide all that shade. But the saying is a
- 1:30:23Speaker 8: society becomes great when old men plant trees under which
- 1:30:27Speaker 8: the shade they know they'll never sit. And I've decided
- 1:30:31Speaker 8: to be that type of person that I'm gonna plant
- 1:30:34Speaker 8: some seeds and stick some things in the ground under
- 1:30:37Speaker 8: which I won't see the result of, but the results
- 1:30:40Speaker 8: will be there after I'm long gone. And that's why
- 1:30:44Speaker 8: I meant to these young men. Some of these young
- 1:30:46Speaker 8: men gonna be grandfathers one day. I may not be
- 1:30:48Speaker 8: here when they become grandfathers, but I put enough seeds
- 1:30:53Speaker 8: in the ground to produce enough boys. I have been
- 1:30:57Speaker 8: able to see some boys turn into some fine young men.
- 1:31:01Speaker 8: I have lived long enough to see that. And so
- 1:31:04Speaker 8: as I build my legacy by the grace of God
- 1:31:08Speaker 8: and with the help of Marjorie, and we have the
- 1:31:11Speaker 8: Stephen Marjorie Harvey Legacy Ranch. That's why I called it
- 1:31:14Speaker 8: the Legacy Ranch. You know, it was the Rock Ranch
- 1:31:17Speaker 8: for years. They got a big sign out there, Rock Ranch.
- 1:31:19Speaker 8: I had to take the crest out the ground and
- 1:31:22Speaker 8: put my own family crest in the ground because it's
- 1:31:25Speaker 8: something we're doing, and we're doing it to change the
- 1:31:27Speaker 8: lives of boys and girls, to bake, to make better
- 1:31:31Speaker 8: young men and better young women, so people have better families,
- 1:31:35Speaker 8: your daughters have better choices in men. And that's what
- 1:31:38Speaker 8: it's about, man. And so that's the purpose I have
- 1:31:41Speaker 8: in my life. And I'll continue that until I leave here,
- 1:31:44Speaker 8: i end my entertainment career. But that thing right there,
- 1:31:48Speaker 8: I'll never stop doing that. Those are my clothing. Watch
- 1:31:51Speaker 8: you don't talk to God, everybody. He would absolutely love
- 1:31:55Speaker 8: to hear from you. Y'all have a great day, Stay
- 1:31:56Speaker 8: in peace now, holler Father.
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