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- 0:00Foreign.
- 0:15I'm
- 0:15Anthony
- 0:15Wright
- 0:16and
- 0:16I
- 0:17am
- 0:17your
- 0:17co
- 0:17host
- 0:17today
- 0:18on
- 0:18Attunement
- 0:19and
- 0:19the
- 0:19Living
- 0:19Conversation
- 0:20with
- 0:20my
- 0:21co
- 0:21host,
- 0:22Adam
- 0:22Dietz.
- 0:23Welcome.
- 0:23And
- 0:23we
- 0:24have
- 0:24a
- 0:24guest.
- 0:24And
- 0:25our
- 0:26guest
- 0:26is
- 0:27Nick
- 0:27Egan.
- 0:28Welcome,
- 0:29Nick.
- 0:31Thank
- 0:31you.
- 0:31Great
- 0:31to
- 0:32be
- 0:32here.
- 0:32And
- 0:32you
- 0:33are
- 0:34an
- 0:34executive
- 0:35coach,
- 0:39but
- 0:40you
- 0:40were
- 0:40also
- 0:41a
- 0:42student
- 0:42at
- 0:42the
- 0:42California
- 0:43Institute
- 0:43of
- 0:44Integral
- 0:44Studies
- 0:45under
- 0:46Steven
- 0:46Goodman,
- 0:47who
- 0:47was
- 0:47the
- 0:49Tibetan
- 0:49Buddhist
- 0:50scholar.
- 0:51So
- 0:51do
- 0:52you
- 0:52speak
- 0:52Tibetan?
- 0:54That's
- 0:54true.
- 0:55I
- 0:55can
- 0:55muddle
- 0:56Tibetan.
- 0:57It
- 0:57was
- 0:58mostly
- 0:58classical
- 0:58Tibetan,
- 0:59so
- 0:59my
- 0:59reading
- 1:00is
- 1:00better
- 1:00than
- 1:00my
- 1:00speaking.
- 1:01Okay.
- 1:01Now
- 1:02it's
- 1:02been.
- 1:02I'm
- 1:02quite
- 1:03out
- 1:03of
- 1:03practice.
- 1:03Yeah.
- 1:04But
- 1:06and
- 1:07my
- 1:07other
- 1:07question
- 1:08first
- 1:08is,
- 1:08has
- 1:08you.
- 1:09Have
- 1:09you
- 1:09ever
- 1:09been
- 1:10in
- 1:10the
- 1:10presence
- 1:10of
- 1:10His
- 1:10Holiness?
- 1:12I
- 1:12have,
- 1:13yeah.
- 1:13His
- 1:13Holiness
- 1:14is
- 1:14Alaiwami?
- 1:14Yeah.
- 1:15Oh,
- 1:15that's
- 1:15extraordinary.
- 1:17Oh,
- 1:17you
- 1:17did?
- 1:18Personally.
- 1:19Wow.
- 1:20What
- 1:20an
- 1:20incredible
- 1:22energy
- 1:22of
- 1:23a.
- 1:23Of
- 1:23a
- 1:23human
- 1:24being.
- 1:25Yeah,
- 1:25he
- 1:26is.
- 1:27He
- 1:27is
- 1:27definitely
- 1:28a
- 1:28guiding
- 1:28light
- 1:28to
- 1:29the
- 1:29world
- 1:29for
- 1:29sure.
- 1:29And
- 1:29if
- 1:30I'm
- 1:30not,
- 1:30am
- 1:31I
- 1:31correct
- 1:31in
- 1:31understanding
- 1:32that
- 1:32he's
- 1:32the
- 1:32reincarnation
- 1:33of
- 1:33Avalakitesvara?
- 1:36Yeah,
- 1:37so
- 1:37yes,
- 1:38that's
- 1:38correct.
- 1:38So
- 1:38Avlikateshvara,
- 1:39the
- 1:40Bodhisattva
- 1:41of
- 1:41compassion,
- 1:41he
- 1:41is
- 1:42considered
- 1:42to
- 1:42be
- 1:42an
- 1:42incarnation.
- 1:43So,
- 1:43I
- 1:44mean,
- 1:44we
- 1:44can
- 1:44get
- 1:44into
- 1:44the
- 1:44technicalities
- 1:45of
- 1:45it.
- 1:45In
- 1:46reason,
- 1:46though,
- 1:46I'm
- 1:47just
- 1:47curious.
- 1:47Bodhisattva
- 1:48would
- 1:48be
- 1:48at
- 1:49that
- 1:49level.
- 1:49So
- 1:49like
- 1:49a
- 1:50high
- 1:50level
- 1:51Bodhisattva,
- 1:52you'd
- 1:52be
- 1:52considered
- 1:52like
- 1:53an
- 1:53emanation.
- 1:54So
- 1:54he's
- 1:54the
- 1:54reincarnation
- 1:55of
- 1:55previous
- 1:56Dalai
- 1:56Lamas.
- 1:56He's
- 1:57an
- 1:57emanation
- 1:57of
- 1:58that
- 1:58bodhisattva.
- 1:59Oh,
- 1:59okay.
- 2:00That's
- 2:00very
- 2:00useful.
- 2:01Well,
- 2:02anyway,
- 2:02so
- 2:02you're.
- 2:03You're
- 2:03an
- 2:03executive
- 2:03coach
- 2:04and
- 2:07you
- 2:08use
- 2:08a.
- 2:09I'm
- 2:09reading
- 2:10your
- 2:10bio.
- 2:11Deep
- 2:11understanding
- 2:11of
- 2:12positive
- 2:12psychology
- 2:13and
- 2:14Buddhist
- 2:14philosophy
- 2:16to
- 2:17encourage
- 2:18personal
- 2:18and
- 2:19organizational
- 2:20growth.
- 2:22Tell
- 2:22us
- 2:22about,
- 2:24first
- 2:25of
- 2:25all,
- 2:25how
- 2:25did
- 2:25you
- 2:26come
- 2:26to
- 2:27executive
- 2:27coaching?
- 2:30So
- 2:30my
- 2:30undergrad
- 2:31was
- 2:31in
- 2:32psychology,
- 2:33and
- 2:34I
- 2:34thought
- 2:34I
- 2:34would
- 2:34become
- 2:35something
- 2:35of
- 2:36a
- 2:36therapist.
- 2:36And
- 2:36at
- 2:36the
- 2:37time,
- 2:37I
- 2:37was
- 2:37really
- 2:37interested
- 2:38in
- 2:38the
- 2:38understanding
- 2:39of
- 2:39the
- 2:39mind,
- 2:39how
- 2:39the
- 2:40mind
- 2:40works.
- 2:40And
- 2:41I
- 2:41became
- 2:41a
- 2:41bit
- 2:42jaded
- 2:43with
- 2:43at
- 2:43least
- 2:44the
- 2:44psychological
- 2:45principles
- 2:46that
- 2:46were
- 2:46given
- 2:46to
- 2:46me
- 2:47through
- 2:47that
- 2:47kind
- 2:47of
- 2:47cohort.
- 2:48Not
- 2:48to
- 2:48say
- 2:48all
- 2:49of
- 2:49it.
- 2:49Not
- 2:49the
- 2:49field
- 2:49in
- 2:50general.
- 2:50Well,
- 2:50from
- 2:51there
- 2:51I
- 2:51decided,
- 2:51yeah,
- 2:52I
- 2:52don't
- 2:52want
- 2:52to
- 2:52become
- 2:52a
- 2:52therapist.
- 2:53I
- 2:53want
- 2:53to
- 2:53just
- 2:53study
- 2:54what
- 2:54I've
- 2:55been
- 2:55practicing.
- 2:55So
- 2:56I
- 2:56started
- 2:56practicing
- 2:57Dharma
- 2:58from
- 2:58a
- 2:58very
- 2:58young
- 2:58age,
- 2:59from
- 2:59the
- 2:59time
- 2:59I
- 2:59was
- 2:5916.
- 3:00Master,
- 3:01and
- 3:01then
- 3:01later
- 3:01under
- 3:02a
- 3:02Tibetan
- 3:03teacher.
- 3:05And
- 3:05so
- 3:05then
- 3:05I
- 3:05thought,
- 3:06well,
- 3:06I'll
- 3:06go
- 3:06study
- 3:07philosophy
- 3:08and
- 3:08religion.
- 3:09Did
- 3:09that
- 3:09for
- 3:10masters.
- 3:10And
- 3:10then
- 3:10obviously,
- 3:11like
- 3:11Buddhism
- 3:11Was
- 3:11my
- 3:12chosen
- 3:12area.
- 3:12So
- 3:13then
- 3:13studied
- 3:13Indo,
- 3:13Tibetan
- 3:14Buddhism
- 3:14for
- 3:14People,
- 3:15PhD,
- 3:15did
- 3:15field
- 3:15work
- 3:16in
- 3:16Nepal
- 3:16and
- 3:17all
- 3:17of
- 3:17that
- 3:17stuff.
- 3:18Wow.
- 3:18And
- 3:18then
- 3:19somebody
- 3:19came
- 3:19along
- 3:20and
- 3:20said
- 3:20actually
- 3:20was
- 3:21a
- 3:21friend
- 3:21of
- 3:21mine
- 3:22had
- 3:22had
- 3:22a
- 3:23coaching
- 3:24session.
- 3:24I
- 3:24had
- 3:24heard
- 3:24about
- 3:25coaching,
- 3:25just
- 3:25like
- 3:25life
- 3:26coaching,
- 3:26executive
- 3:26coaching.
- 3:27This
- 3:27is
- 3:27a
- 3:27long
- 3:27time
- 3:27ago,
- 3:2710
- 3:28years
- 3:28ago.
- 3:29And
- 3:31she
- 3:31was
- 3:31giving
- 3:31away
- 3:31free
- 3:32sessions,
- 3:32this
- 3:33lady,
- 3:33she
- 3:34was
- 3:34an
- 3:34ad
- 3:34executive
- 3:34out
- 3:35of
- 3:35Chicago
- 3:35session
- 3:36a
- 3:36bit
- 3:36arrogant
- 3:37and
- 3:37thinking
- 3:38like,
- 3:38well
- 3:38I've
- 3:38been
- 3:38meditating
- 3:39for
- 3:3920
- 3:39years,
- 3:40I
- 3:40have
- 3:40all
- 3:41these
- 3:41academic
- 3:41degrees
- 3:42and
- 3:42stuff.
- 3:43But
- 3:43in
- 3:43the
- 3:43session
- 3:44I
- 3:44thought,
- 3:44oh
- 3:44like
- 3:45a
- 3:45huge
- 3:45light
- 3:45bulb
- 3:46went
- 3:46off
- 3:46and
- 3:46thought
- 3:46that's
- 3:47exactly
- 3:47the
- 3:48kind
- 3:48of
- 3:48method
- 3:49that
- 3:49I
- 3:49wanted
- 3:49to
- 3:49be
- 3:50practicing.
- 3:50And
- 3:51so
- 3:51I
- 3:51did
- 3:51the
- 3:51same
- 3:52training
- 3:52that
- 3:52she
- 3:52did.
- 3:52And
- 3:53then
- 3:53from
- 3:53there
- 3:54if
- 3:54you
- 3:54can
- 3:54kind
- 3:54of
- 3:54speak
- 3:55fluent
- 3:55business,
- 3:55you
- 3:56oftentimes
- 3:56get
- 3:57tracked
- 3:57into
- 3:58the
- 3:58executive
- 3:58coaching.
- 3:59Like
- 3:59coaching
- 3:59is
- 3:59just
- 3:59coaching.
- 4:00Therapy
- 4:01is
- 4:01just
- 4:01therapy.
- 4:01But
- 4:01there's
- 4:01different
- 4:02modalities.
- 4:02So.
- 4:03Right.
- 4:03These
- 4:04days
- 4:04mostly
- 4:04what
- 4:04I
- 4:05work
- 4:05with
- 4:05is
- 4:06either
- 4:06founders,
- 4:07entrepreneurs,
- 4:07or
- 4:08oftentimes
- 4:09corporate.
- 4:10So
- 4:10you
- 4:10doko
- 4:11san
- 4:12with
- 4:13executives?
- 4:15What's
- 4:15that?
- 4:15You
- 4:16do
- 4:16doko
- 4:16san
- 4:16with
- 4:17executives?
- 4:18Yeah,
- 4:18yeah.
- 4:19Maybe
- 4:19not
- 4:20quite
- 4:20as
- 4:20impactful.
- 4:21Well
- 4:21but
- 4:21I
- 4:22mean
- 4:22that's
- 4:23so
- 4:23interesting
- 4:23that
- 4:24I'm
- 4:24learning
- 4:24how
- 4:24to
- 4:25speak
- 4:25business
- 4:25myself
- 4:26and
- 4:26going
- 4:26through
- 4:26an
- 4:26MBA
- 4:27program
- 4:28and
- 4:28it's
- 4:28really
- 4:29different.
- 4:29And
- 4:30I'm
- 4:30finding
- 4:30that
- 4:32the
- 4:32business
- 4:32terms
- 4:33in
- 4:33English
- 4:34are
- 4:34really
- 4:35laden
- 4:35with
- 4:36certain
- 4:38limiting
- 4:39structures.
- 4:41So
- 4:41for
- 4:41example,
- 4:41the
- 4:42idea
- 4:42of
- 4:42cost.
- 4:43Well,
- 4:43wait,
- 4:44it's
- 4:44an
- 4:44outlay.
- 4:44Well,
- 4:45it's
- 4:45gonna
- 4:45cost
- 4:45you.
- 4:46Well,
- 4:46wow.
- 4:47What.
- 4:47You
- 4:47know,
- 4:48there's
- 4:48a
- 4:48lot
- 4:48of
- 4:48baggage
- 4:49on
- 4:49this
- 4:49stuff.
- 4:50So
- 4:51what
- 4:52would
- 4:52you
- 4:52say
- 4:52that
- 4:54the
- 4:59many
- 4:59of
- 5:00the
- 5:00coach
- 5:00and
- 5:00particularly
- 5:01in
- 5:01these
- 5:01times,
- 5:01what
- 5:01many
- 5:02of
- 5:02the
- 5:02coaching
- 5:02clients
- 5:04are
- 5:05finding
- 5:06troubling.
- 5:09So.
- 5:12Usually
- 5:14my
- 5:14clients,
- 5:14depending
- 5:15on
- 5:15what
- 5:15they're
- 5:15doing,
- 5:16they
- 5:16struggle
- 5:17with
- 5:17things
- 5:17like
- 5:17delegation,
- 5:18things
- 5:18like
- 5:19letting
- 5:19go,
- 5:19delegation
- 5:20responsibilities,
- 5:21delegation.
- 5:22So
- 5:22if
- 5:22you're
- 5:22a
- 5:23high,
- 5:23a
- 5:23high
- 5:23performing
- 5:24individual
- 5:24contributor
- 5:25or
- 5:25high
- 5:25performing
- 5:26at
- 5:26a
- 5:26certain
- 5:26level
- 5:26and
- 5:27then
- 5:27all
- 5:27of
- 5:27a
- 5:27sudden
- 5:27you
- 5:28get
- 5:28ramped
- 5:28up
- 5:28to.
- 5:29Let's
- 5:29say
- 5:29you're
- 5:29running
- 5:30a
- 5:30team
- 5:30of
- 5:3015
- 5:30people.
- 5:31Right.
- 5:31You
- 5:31have
- 5:31to
- 5:32run
- 5:32a
- 5:32team
- 5:32of
- 5:33people
- 5:33that's
- 5:33running
- 5:34a
- 5:34team
- 5:34of
- 5:34150
- 5:35people.
- 5:35Surprise.
- 5:36You
- 5:36have
- 5:36to
- 5:36have
- 5:36a
- 5:37mindset
- 5:37shift.
- 5:37Yeah.
- 5:38So
- 5:38a
- 5:38lot
- 5:38of
- 5:39the
- 5:39work
- 5:39that
- 5:39I
- 5:39do
- 5:39is
- 5:40by
- 5:40is
- 5:40mindset
- 5:41shifts.
- 5:41But
- 5:41it's
- 5:41kind
- 5:42of,
- 5:42it's
- 5:42a,
- 5:43it's
- 5:43hidden
- 5:44in
- 5:44the
- 5:44guise
- 5:44of
- 5:45strategic
- 5:45discussions.
- 5:47We
- 5:47talk
- 5:48strategy,
- 5:48then
- 5:48we
- 5:49talk
- 5:49tactics.
- 5:49But
- 5:49then
- 5:50at
- 5:50the
- 5:50heart
- 5:50of
- 5:50it
- 5:51it's,
- 5:51it's
- 5:51mindset,
- 5:52which
- 5:53is
- 5:53where
- 5:53the
- 5:53understanding
- 5:54of
- 5:54Buddhism
- 5:54I
- 5:54think
- 5:55comes
- 5:55in.
- 5:55At
- 5:55least
- 5:56on
- 5:56The
- 5:56Tibetan
- 5:57side
- 5:57of
- 5:57things.
- 5:58There's
- 5:58a
- 5:58really
- 5:58strong
- 5:59tradition
- 5:59around
- 6:00Logojong,
- 6:00which
- 6:00means,
- 6:01like,
- 6:01mind
- 6:01training
- 6:02would
- 6:02be
- 6:03considered
- 6:03more
- 6:03like.
- 6:04What's
- 6:04that?
- 6:06The
- 6:06name
- 6:06of
- 6:06it
- 6:07is
- 6:07called
- 6:07Logojun
- 6:08Lojong.
- 6:09Lojong.
- 6:10Okay.
- 6:11Low
- 6:11meaning,
- 6:12like
- 6:12train.
- 6:13Okay.
- 6:13It's.
- 6:14It's
- 6:15like
- 6:15reflective
- 6:16analysis.
- 6:16So
- 6:16it's
- 6:17not
- 6:17meditation
- 6:17the
- 6:18way
- 6:18that
- 6:18most
- 6:18people
- 6:18think
- 6:19about
- 6:19it.
- 6:19It's
- 6:19like
- 6:19thinking
- 6:20about
- 6:20cause
- 6:21and
- 6:21effect
- 6:21within
- 6:22a
- 6:22relational
- 6:23sense.
- 6:24Okay.
- 6:25All
- 6:25right.
- 6:26And
- 6:26so
- 6:27you're
- 6:27assisting
- 6:27people
- 6:28to
- 6:28make
- 6:28a
- 6:28transition
- 6:29into
- 6:30a
- 6:30different
- 6:30mindset.
- 6:33That's.
- 6:33That's
- 6:34the
- 6:34whole.
- 6:34The
- 6:34hope,
- 6:36the
- 6:36goal.
- 6:36Yeah.
- 6:37And
- 6:38if
- 6:38you
- 6:38can't
- 6:38change
- 6:39your
- 6:39mindset,
- 6:39you're
- 6:39not
- 6:40going
- 6:40to
- 6:40be
- 6:40able
- 6:40to
- 6:40actually
- 6:41affect
- 6:41change.
- 6:42Yeah,
- 6:42that's
- 6:43right.
- 6:43That's
- 6:44right.
- 6:45So,
- 6:46Adam,
- 6:47do
- 6:47you
- 6:47have
- 6:47anything
- 6:49that
- 6:50you
- 6:50want
- 6:51to
- 6:51check
- 6:51in
- 6:51with
- 6:51Nick
- 6:52about
- 6:52in
- 6:53this
- 6:53line
- 6:54as
- 6:54you're
- 6:54speaking.
- 6:54Already,
- 6:55and
- 6:55I
- 6:55know
- 6:55you
- 6:56have
- 6:56some
- 6:56similar
- 6:56background
- 6:57in
- 6:57also
- 6:58Daoism.
- 7:00Do
- 7:00you
- 7:00find
- 7:02that
- 7:04the
- 7:04Daoist
- 7:05method
- 7:06of
- 7:06leadership
- 7:07can
- 7:07come
- 7:07into
- 7:09effect
- 7:10here?
- 7:12Yeah,
- 7:13the.
- 7:14The
- 7:15Taoist,
- 7:16I
- 7:16mean,
- 7:16thinking
- 7:17of
- 7:17like.
- 7:18When
- 7:18you
- 7:18say
- 7:18delegating,
- 7:19right,
- 7:19then
- 7:19we're.
- 7:20Like,
- 7:20you're
- 7:20letting
- 7:20go.
- 7:21You're
- 7:22using
- 7:22weakness,
- 7:24you're
- 7:24not
- 7:25controlling
- 7:25results.
- 7:26That's
- 7:27what
- 7:27I'm
- 7:27thinking
- 7:27of
- 7:27the
- 7:27Taoist
- 7:28philosophy
- 7:28in
- 7:28leadership.
- 7:29Did
- 7:29you
- 7:29see
- 7:30that
- 7:30come
- 7:30into
- 7:30your
- 7:31practice?
- 7:32Yeah,
- 7:32I
- 7:32mean,
- 7:33like
- 7:33Lao
- 7:33Tzu
- 7:34himself
- 7:34said,
- 7:34you
- 7:35know,
- 7:35the
- 7:35greatest
- 7:35leaders
- 7:36think
- 7:36that
- 7:36the
- 7:36people
- 7:37leave,
- 7:37the
- 7:37people
- 7:37thinking
- 7:38they
- 7:38did
- 7:38it
- 7:38themselves.
- 7:39And
- 7:39that
- 7:39sort
- 7:40of
- 7:40mentality,
- 7:40it
- 7:40takes
- 7:41a
- 7:41great
- 7:41deal
- 7:41of
- 7:42strength
- 7:43to
- 7:43be
- 7:43able
- 7:43to
- 7:43do
- 7:43that
- 7:43in
- 7:44skill.
- 7:44So
- 7:44I
- 7:45would
- 7:45say
- 7:45it's
- 7:45not
- 7:47the
- 7:47risk
- 7:47when
- 7:48you,
- 7:48when
- 7:48you
- 7:48enter
- 7:48into
- 7:49Daoism,
- 7:49as
- 7:49you
- 7:50know,
- 7:50I
- 7:50think
- 7:50is.
- 7:50It
- 7:51can
- 7:51sound
- 7:51on
- 7:51the
- 7:52surface
- 7:52like,
- 7:52well,
- 7:52I
- 7:53just
- 7:53need
- 7:53to,
- 7:53like,
- 7:53let
- 7:53things
- 7:54go
- 7:54and
- 7:54let
- 7:54things
- 7:54be
- 7:55and
- 7:55all
- 7:55of
- 7:55that.
- 7:55And
- 7:56that's
- 7:56true
- 7:56to
- 7:56some
- 7:57degree,
- 7:57but
- 7:57also
- 7:57at
- 7:57the
- 7:58same
- 7:58time,
- 7:58it's
- 7:58like,
- 7:58well,
- 7:58how
- 7:59can
- 7:59I
- 7:59create
- 7:59the
- 8:00skillful
- 8:00methods
- 8:01for
- 8:02people
- 8:02to
- 8:02blossom
- 8:02on
- 8:03their
- 8:03own?
- 8:03Like
- 8:03how?
- 8:03Like
- 8:03the
- 8:04same
- 8:04way
- 8:04I'm
- 8:04tending
- 8:04to
- 8:04garden.
- 8:05So
- 8:05if
- 8:05I
- 8:06just
- 8:06let
- 8:06my
- 8:06garden
- 8:06totally
- 8:07go,
- 8:07it's
- 8:07going
- 8:07to
- 8:07be
- 8:08weeds
- 8:08or
- 8:08whatever,
- 8:08but
- 8:08if
- 8:09I
- 8:09find
- 8:09a
- 8:09way
- 8:09to
- 8:09skillfully
- 8:10tended,
- 8:10it's
- 8:10like
- 8:11the
- 8:12flowers
- 8:12grow
- 8:12on
- 8:13their
- 8:13own.
- 8:13So,
- 8:13yeah,
- 8:13it's
- 8:14going
- 8:14to
- 8:14make
- 8:14an.
- 8:14Effort
- 8:14of
- 8:15effortlessness,
- 8:15Right?
- 8:16Exactly.
- 8:16Yeah,
- 8:17an
- 8:17effort
- 8:17of
- 8:17effortlessness.
- 8:18So
- 8:18that's
- 8:18a
- 8:18major,
- 8:19I
- 8:19think,
- 8:20thing
- 8:20for
- 8:20people
- 8:20to
- 8:21think
- 8:21about.
- 8:21Which
- 8:21again
- 8:22goes
- 8:22back
- 8:22to
- 8:22the.
- 8:23What
- 8:23I
- 8:23think
- 8:23is
- 8:23the
- 8:23hard
- 8:24work
- 8:24of
- 8:24letting
- 8:24go.
- 8:25Right.
- 8:25And
- 8:26same
- 8:26thing
- 8:26on,
- 8:26like
- 8:26the
- 8:26spiritual
- 8:27path.
- 8:27You
- 8:27want
- 8:27to
- 8:28talk?
- 8:28I
- 8:28know
- 8:29Adam
- 8:29and
- 8:29I
- 8:29have
- 8:29Talked
- 8:29about
- 8:29this
- 8:30at
- 8:30a
- 8:30deeper
- 8:30level.
- 8:30If
- 8:30you
- 8:31talk
- 8:31about
- 8:31like,
- 8:31wu
- 8:31Wei
- 8:32or
- 8:32emptiness
- 8:33or
- 8:33nature
- 8:34of
- 8:34mind,
- 8:34depending
- 8:34on
- 8:35what
- 8:35traditionally
- 8:36using.
- 8:37At
- 8:37its
- 8:37heart,
- 8:37it's
- 8:38like
- 8:38a
- 8:38letting
- 8:38go
- 8:39of
- 8:39the
- 8:39things
- 8:39that
- 8:39we
- 8:40consider
- 8:40our
- 8:41essence
- 8:41but
- 8:42are
- 8:42actually
- 8:42essences.
- 8:44So
- 8:44you
- 8:44mean.
- 8:46And
- 8:46when
- 8:46you
- 8:46say
- 8:46letting
- 8:47go,
- 8:47it's
- 8:48letting
- 8:48go
- 8:49of
- 8:49an
- 8:49attachment,
- 8:49is
- 8:50that
- 8:50right?
- 8:51Or
- 8:51even
- 8:52the
- 8:52idea
- 8:52of
- 8:53it.
- 8:54Yeah.
- 8:55Letting
- 8:55go
- 8:55of
- 8:56an
- 8:56attachment,
- 8:56I
- 8:57would
- 8:57say,
- 8:57is
- 8:57the.
- 8:58Is
- 8:58the
- 8:58main
- 8:59component.
- 8:59Because
- 8:59when
- 9:00people
- 9:00are
- 9:00having
- 9:00trouble
- 9:01doing
- 9:01this
- 9:02mind
- 9:02shift,
- 9:03they're
- 9:04kind
- 9:04of
- 9:05invested
- 9:05in
- 9:06what
- 9:06they
- 9:06used
- 9:06to
- 9:06do.
- 9:07Right?
- 9:08Yeah,
- 9:09There's
- 9:09a.
- 9:09There's
- 9:10a
- 9:10story.
- 9:10And
- 9:11this.
- 9:11This
- 9:11goes,
- 9:11I
- 9:12think,
- 9:12to
- 9:12anybody
- 9:13in
- 9:13any
- 9:13field.
- 9:14There's
- 9:14a
- 9:14story
- 9:14that
- 9:15we
- 9:15tell
- 9:15ourselves
- 9:15that
- 9:16kind
- 9:16of
- 9:16reifies
- 9:16or
- 9:17makes
- 9:17stronger
- 9:18our
- 9:18position
- 9:18in
- 9:19the
- 9:19world.
- 9:19Right.
- 9:19I
- 9:20am
- 9:20a
- 9:20good
- 9:20blank,
- 9:21whatever
- 9:21that
- 9:21is.
- 9:21But
- 9:22it's
- 9:22the.
- 9:22I
- 9:22am
- 9:22sort
- 9:23of
- 9:23self
- 9:23perpetuate
- 9:23that.
- 9:24Yeah,
- 9:24exactly.
- 9:24So
- 9:25if
- 9:25you
- 9:25can
- 9:25kind
- 9:25of
- 9:25let
- 9:25go
- 9:26and
- 9:26allow
- 9:26that
- 9:26to
- 9:28dissipate,
- 9:29you'll
- 9:29find
- 9:29that
- 9:29on
- 9:29the
- 9:30other
- 9:30end,
- 9:30there's
- 9:30not
- 9:30death
- 9:31or
- 9:32nihilism
- 9:32or
- 9:32a
- 9:33negativa.
- 9:33It's
- 9:34only
- 9:34there's
- 9:34like
- 9:34a
- 9:35blossoming
- 9:35of
- 9:35a
- 9:35more
- 9:36full
- 9:36experience.
- 9:38And
- 9:38I
- 9:39would
- 9:39offer
- 9:39to
- 9:39you
- 9:39that
- 9:40in
- 9:40the
- 9:40west,
- 9:41that's
- 9:42pretty
- 9:42scary
- 9:43for
- 9:43folks,
- 9:43isn't
- 9:44it?
- 9:45Well,
- 9:46I
- 9:46think
- 9:46anywhere,
- 9:46like,
- 9:47the
- 9:47promise
- 9:48is.
- 9:50It's
- 9:50hard
- 9:50because
- 9:51there's
- 9:51no
- 9:51promise
- 9:52of
- 9:52something
- 9:52else,
- 9:53so.
- 9:53Exactly.
- 9:54It's
- 9:54like,
- 9:54well,
- 9:54if
- 9:55I
- 9:55let
- 9:55go.
- 9:55Of
- 9:55this
- 9:56thing,
- 9:56then
- 9:56what?
- 9:57Oh,
- 9:57my
- 9:57gosh.
- 9:58Yeah.
- 9:59Right.
- 9:59Yeah.
- 9:59So
- 10:00then
- 10:00you
- 10:00have
- 10:01to
- 10:01have
- 10:01a
- 10:01sort
- 10:01of
- 10:01trust
- 10:01or
- 10:02confidence
- 10:02to
- 10:02be
- 10:02able
- 10:03to
- 10:03let
- 10:03that
- 10:04go.
- 10:04But
- 10:04that's
- 10:04where
- 10:05you
- 10:05come
- 10:05in.
- 10:05As
- 10:05a.
- 10:06As
- 10:06a.
- 10:06As
- 10:07a
- 10:07coach,
- 10:07you
- 10:07kind
- 10:07of
- 10:08hold
- 10:08the
- 10:08space
- 10:09for
- 10:09the
- 10:09client.
- 10:09Right.
- 10:11To
- 10:11say,
- 10:12well,
- 10:12you
- 10:12know,
- 10:12let's.
- 10:12Let's
- 10:13go
- 10:13hang
- 10:13out
- 10:13over
- 10:13here.
- 10:14You
- 10:14know,
- 10:14and
- 10:15it
- 10:15might
- 10:15seem
- 10:16like
- 10:16there's
- 10:16nothing
- 10:16there,
- 10:17but
- 10:17let's
- 10:17see
- 10:18what.
- 10:18Just
- 10:19notice
- 10:19what
- 10:19happens.
- 10:20Right?
- 10:20Is
- 10:20that.
- 10:21Yeah,
- 10:21kind
- 10:21of
- 10:21the
- 10:21point.
- 10:22That's.
- 10:23That
- 10:23is
- 10:23a.
- 10:23Definitely
- 10:24a
- 10:24function
- 10:25of
- 10:25it.
- 10:25Okay.
- 10:26Yeah,
- 10:26absolutely.
- 10:27And
- 10:29do
- 10:29you
- 10:29still
- 10:29do
- 10:30a
- 10:30meditative
- 10:30practice
- 10:31or
- 10:31do
- 10:31you.
- 10:31Do
- 10:32you
- 10:32teach
- 10:32a
- 10:32meditative
- 10:33practice?
- 10:34I.
- 10:35I
- 10:35personally
- 10:36do
- 10:36meditation
- 10:37daily.
- 10:37Okay.
- 10:39I
- 10:39tend.
- 10:40I
- 10:40do
- 10:40teach.
- 10:42I
- 10:43do
- 10:43teach
- 10:43some
- 10:44techniques.
- 10:45Okay.
- 10:45I
- 10:46don't
- 10:46think
- 10:46that
- 10:46it's
- 10:46like,
- 10:47in
- 10:47my
- 10:47tradition
- 10:47in
- 10:48Buddhism
- 10:49in
- 10:49particular,
- 10:50and
- 10:50Tibetan
- 10:51traditions
- 10:51specifically,
- 10:53meditation
- 10:54is
- 10:55a
- 10:55pretty
- 10:56serious
- 10:56endeavor.
- 10:57And
- 10:57it's
- 10:57geared
- 10:57toward
- 10:58not
- 10:58just
- 10:58like
- 10:58a
- 10:58worldly
- 10:59happiness
- 10:59or
- 10:59not
- 11:00just
- 11:00like
- 11:01calming,
- 11:01like
- 11:02a
- 11:02mindfulness
- 11:02calming
- 11:03or
- 11:03like
- 11:03a
- 11:03confidence
- 11:04or
- 11:04something
- 11:04like
- 11:04that.
- 11:04Like,
- 11:05those
- 11:05would
- 11:05be
- 11:05considered
- 11:05very
- 11:06worldly
- 11:06elements.
- 11:06So
- 11:07when
- 11:07I
- 11:07Teach
- 11:07people
- 11:07elements
- 11:08of
- 11:08meditation.
- 11:08I
- 11:09think
- 11:09about
- 11:09it
- 11:09more
- 11:09along
- 11:09the
- 11:10lines
- 11:10of
- 11:10like
- 11:11stress
- 11:11relief
- 11:12or
- 11:12maybe
- 11:12confidence
- 11:13building,
- 11:13things
- 11:13like
- 11:14that.
- 11:14And
- 11:14so
- 11:14I
- 11:14hesitate
- 11:15to
- 11:15even
- 11:15call
- 11:15them
- 11:16meditations.
- 11:16It's
- 11:17more
- 11:17along
- 11:18affirmations
- 11:19and
- 11:19visualizations
- 11:20and
- 11:20sort
- 11:20of
- 11:20reflections.
- 11:21But
- 11:21with
- 11:22Tibetan
- 11:22Buddhism
- 11:23and
- 11:23I've
- 11:23looked
- 11:24at
- 11:25the
- 11:25Robert
- 11:26Thurman
- 11:26jewelry
- 11:26of
- 11:27Tibet
- 11:28and
- 11:28also
- 11:30I
- 11:31think
- 11:31its
- 11:31name
- 11:31is
- 11:31Alan
- 11:32Wallace,
- 11:34who
- 11:34was
- 11:34a
- 11:34physicist.
- 11:35Oh
- 11:35man.
- 11:37But
- 11:37they
- 11:38really
- 11:38get
- 11:39into
- 11:40a
- 11:40depthful
- 11:42appreciation
- 11:43and
- 11:43attempt
- 11:43to
- 11:44explain
- 11:45that
- 11:45this
- 11:45is
- 11:45a
- 11:46really
- 11:48very
- 11:49ancient,
- 11:51focused
- 11:52and
- 11:52structured
- 11:54in
- 11:54a
- 11:54way
- 11:55exploration
- 11:56of
- 11:56awareness.
- 11:57Would
- 11:57you
- 11:57say
- 11:57that's
- 11:58right?
- 12:00Yeah,
- 12:00first
- 12:00I
- 12:01would
- 12:01say,
- 12:01I
- 12:01mean
- 12:01if,
- 12:02if
- 12:02people
- 12:02are
- 12:03scholarly
- 12:03inclined
- 12:05B.
- 12:05Alan
- 12:05Wallace
- 12:06is
- 12:06probably
- 12:06the
- 12:06preeminent
- 12:07scholar
- 12:08practitioner.
- 12:08He's
- 12:09fantastic.
- 12:10I
- 12:10can't
- 12:10say
- 12:11enough
- 12:11about
- 12:11it
- 12:11actually
- 12:12I've
- 12:12met
- 12:12him
- 12:12a
- 12:12couple
- 12:12times.
- 12:12Oh
- 12:13you
- 12:13have?
- 12:14Yeah,
- 12:14he's
- 12:14fantastic.
- 12:15Wow.
- 12:16Really
- 12:16a
- 12:16person
- 12:17of
- 12:17like
- 12:17real
- 12:17accomplishment.
- 12:18Just
- 12:19a
- 12:19heavy
- 12:19endorsement
- 12:20for
- 12:20him.
- 12:21What
- 12:22he's
- 12:22talking
- 12:22about
- 12:23in
- 12:23a
- 12:23lot
- 12:23of
- 12:23his
- 12:23books
- 12:24is
- 12:24shamata,
- 12:24which
- 12:25is.
- 12:25Or
- 12:25in
- 12:26Tibetan
- 12:26it's
- 12:26called
- 12:26shine,
- 12:27which
- 12:27means
- 12:27like
- 12:27calm
- 12:28abiding.
- 12:28So
- 12:29that
- 12:29what
- 12:29that
- 12:29is
- 12:30is
- 12:30what
- 12:30most
- 12:30people
- 12:30think
- 12:31of
- 12:31as
- 12:31meditation,
- 12:31which
- 12:32is
- 12:32there's
- 12:32an
- 12:33object
- 12:33of
- 12:33awareness
- 12:34that
- 12:34could
- 12:34be
- 12:34breath,
- 12:34that
- 12:35could
- 12:35be
- 12:35visualization,
- 12:35it
- 12:36could
- 12:36be
- 12:36energy,
- 12:36whatever
- 12:37it
- 12:37is.
- 12:38And
- 12:38then
- 12:38there's
- 12:38your
- 12:38awareness
- 12:39and
- 12:39then
- 12:39it's
- 12:39just
- 12:40training
- 12:40your
- 12:40awareness
- 12:40to
- 12:41be
- 12:41stabilized
- 12:42with
- 12:42that
- 12:43object
- 12:43of
- 12:43awareness.
- 12:44And
- 12:44once
- 12:44that
- 12:44happens,
- 12:44then
- 12:45all
- 12:45kinds
- 12:45of
- 12:45so
- 12:46called
- 12:46mystical
- 12:46states
- 12:47can
- 12:47kind
- 12:47of
- 12:47unlock.
- 12:50Well,
- 12:51let's
- 12:51unlock
- 12:52it
- 12:52after
- 12:52the
- 12:52break.
- 12:52I'm
- 12:53Anthony
- 12:53Wright
- 12:54and
- 12:54I
- 12:54am
- 12:54your
- 12:54co
- 12:54host
- 12:55with
- 12:56Adam
- 12:57Dietz.
- 12:57Adam
- 12:57Dietz,
- 12:58you
- 12:58can
- 12:58contact
- 12:58me
- 12:59at
- 12:59theonaut
- 13:00T-H-E-O-N-A-T.com
- 13:02and
- 13:03Adam,
- 13:03how
- 13:04can
- 13:04people.
- 13:04Contact
- 13:04you@deetsadammail.com
- 13:08or
- 13:08you
- 13:08can
- 13:08find
- 13:09links
- 13:09to
- 13:09all
- 13:09my
- 13:10different
- 13:10socials
- 13:10and
- 13:11sites.
- 13:11At
- 13:11the
- 13:12way
- 13:12betweenubstack.com
- 13:14and
- 13:14our
- 13:14guest,
- 13:15Nick
- 13:15Egan.
- 13:15I
- 13:16know
- 13:16that
- 13:16you're
- 13:16on
- 13:17LinkedIn,
- 13:17but
- 13:17how
- 13:18else
- 13:18would
- 13:18you
- 13:18prefer
- 13:19that
- 13:19People
- 13:19contact
- 13:19you?
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- 13:21direct
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- 13:22are
- 13:22great.
- 13:22Nickeganphd@LinkedIn.
- 13:24You
- 13:24can
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- 13:35at
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- 13:40there's
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- 13:42All
- 13:42right,
- 13:42we're
- 13:42going
- 13:42to
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- 13:43a
- 13:43short
- 13:43break
- 13:43and
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- 13:43right
- 13:44back,
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- 13:48Sam.