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FULL SHOW: Designer Dorm Rooms, Strawberry Letter - Patiently Waiting For My Man To Settle Down - 08.21.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all bat all at all?
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  Speaker 3: So given them back a million bush.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to me, I don't joy Joy.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta do turn love you.
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  Speaker 4: Turn, you.
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  Speaker 2: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,
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  Speaker 2: turn ald the money.
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  Speaker 3: Looking come come out?
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  Speaker 1: You think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You
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  Speaker 1: are listening to the voice one and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Come on, y'all. I said that
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  Speaker 1: a little bit wrong this morning, but I'm tired. I
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  Speaker 1: just came out to gim I'm a little out of
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  Speaker 1: sorts right now, but it's okay. I'll pull it together.
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  Speaker 1: But let me tell you something, man, I got a
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  Speaker 1: clear cut message for you today. I really do you know.
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  Speaker 1: As I've gotten older, I've began to take some supplements.
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  Speaker 1: And supplements are to help your body in things that
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't produce as much as it used to. Supplements
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  Speaker 1: are designed to help you replenish what's been depleted in
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  Speaker 1: your body as supplements. Now, now, people, I can tell
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  Speaker 1: you can speak a lot more aggressively and a lot
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  Speaker 1: more knowledgeable on this subject. But just giving you just
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  Speaker 1: a brief overview of my understanding of it. Now, if
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  Speaker 1: you've been living your life for a while, supplements are
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  Speaker 1: necessary for most of us now. Also, if you've been
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  Speaker 1: living your life for a while spiritually, you may need
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  Speaker 1: some supplements because you've just been at it for a while.
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  Speaker 1: You done got wolled down a little bit. You're tied.
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  Speaker 1: Some people around you ain't changing. Some people around you draining.
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  Speaker 1: It's just life just keeps on coming. Life don't ever
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  Speaker 1: get no easier. It just you become more knowledgeable about
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  Speaker 1: how to handle it. It does not get any either easier.
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  Speaker 1: You continue to lose love ones, you continue to have
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  Speaker 1: to confront the challenges. It's just that over course of
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  Speaker 1: time you become experienced and you can handle them better.
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  Speaker 1: But life don't get no easier. But spiritually you get
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  Speaker 1: a little bit worn down. Well, you need some spiritual
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  Speaker 1: supplements too. And I'm just gonna flat out tell you,
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  Speaker 1: the more God that you can replenish yourself with, the
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  Speaker 1: higher the dosage of God that you are willing to
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  Speaker 1: put into your spiritual self, the possibilities then become limitless.
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  Speaker 1: You actually have the ability to make a conscious decision
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  Speaker 1: to supplement your body, and you have a conscious decision
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  Speaker 1: to supplement your spirit. You can do both. So what
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  Speaker 1: I did was, I could just tell you what I did.
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  Speaker 1: I was taking all these supplements. I started taking supplements
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  Speaker 1: while I was about forty five. I think that's when
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  Speaker 1: I began. I was thinking about it one day and
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  Speaker 1: I just went, wow, Man. I started talking to some
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  Speaker 1: knowledgeable people. I found out I needed these things. But
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  Speaker 1: then spiritually, man, I started supplementing myself too. I started
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  Speaker 1: praying some more. I started trying to gain a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more knowledge and wisdom and understanding from scriptures and
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  Speaker 1: just try to make sense of all of it, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just make a little bit more sense out of my life,
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  Speaker 1: make sure that I was on the right path. As
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  Speaker 1: a matter of fact, get on the right path, find
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  Speaker 1: out my real purpose and my mission in life. And
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  Speaker 1: nobody can do that for you. That's something that you
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  Speaker 1: have to want to do. But I started supplementing my
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  Speaker 1: spiritual side of my life and supplementing my body. Now
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  Speaker 1: I happen to be right now about in the best
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  Speaker 1: shape I've ever been in. Technically, I can assure you
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  Speaker 1: though I am in the best shape spiritually, I have
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  Speaker 1: ever been in. Now my body has looked better, it
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  Speaker 1: really has. I mean, come on now, and where I
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  Speaker 1: am in life, at the stage with the years I've
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  Speaker 1: been walking this earth. Man, I'm cool, but spiritually I'm
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  Speaker 1: in the best shape I've ever been in. And what's
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  Speaker 1: done for me, y'all is it's gave me a peace
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  Speaker 1: and a calmness. You know it used to be, man,
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  Speaker 1: I used to fight so hard against people who attack me. Now, Man,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't that serious to me because now I have
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  Speaker 1: a full understanding that if I come under attack, that
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  Speaker 1: God is with me, because that's a promise he made.
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  Speaker 1: That's Isaiah fifty four seventeen. That's any weapon formed against you,
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  Speaker 1: any weapon formed against you, you shall not prosper. You can't.
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  Speaker 1: You can't come and get me. I'm not here for
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  Speaker 1: you to take down because you didn't put me here.
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  Speaker 1: So why would I feel a person bringing me down
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  Speaker 1: when they're not the reason that I'm here. So when
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  Speaker 1: you attack me, you have to be careful because I
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  Speaker 1: ain't ever by myself. I formed a relationship with the
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  Speaker 1: most high that I can rely on for protection, for coverage,
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  Speaker 1: and for peace. A lot of times when things used
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  Speaker 1: to stress me out how to run this, how to
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  Speaker 1: handle this, how to deal with that. You know, fame
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  Speaker 1: is rough man, and then you put that together with
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  Speaker 1: some business, and you put that together with your family.
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  Speaker 1: You got a lot of stuff you're trying to tend to.
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  Speaker 1: I have a peace of mind about it now because
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  Speaker 1: I have someone who provides me with a sense of
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  Speaker 1: understanding and calmness that lets me know that this too
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  Speaker 1: shall pass. That it ain't just a saying that I
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  Speaker 1: heard old people say that. It ain't just something my
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  Speaker 1: mama used to tell me. It's something that can really
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  Speaker 1: happen once you get in understanding, this too shall pass.
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  Speaker 1: This is just another piece of life that you are
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  Speaker 1: now better equipped to handle. I'm telling you what's done
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  Speaker 1: for me. Millions of people out there hear me, man
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  Speaker 1: has done the same thing for them. I'm telling it
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  Speaker 1: new to some people, but it's some people that show
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  Speaker 1: enough understand what I'm saying. And then if you have
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  Speaker 1: known this but kind of forgot it, it's time for
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  Speaker 1: some supplements. So when you get like that, and now
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  Speaker 1: you find yourself in a situation with a disease or something,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do something. Nah, you gotta start juicing all
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  Speaker 1: your greens. You gotta start detoxing your body. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: start purifying the system. See, the human body has always
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  Speaker 1: had a way to repair itself if you just give
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  Speaker 1: it a chance. Your mind has always had a chance
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  Speaker 1: to repair itself if you give it a chance, and
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  Speaker 1: your spirit always has a chance to repair itself, if
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  Speaker 1: you give it a chance. It's the only way I
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  Speaker 1: can maintain at this level, and it's the only way
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  Speaker 1: I have any chance of going further. I have to
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  Speaker 1: increase my dosage of spiritual supplements. I got to talk
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  Speaker 1: to God a little bit more. I got to pray
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more. I got to understand his word
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  Speaker 1: a little bit more. That's all I'm telling you. Man,
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  Speaker 1: If you do that, if you just pray more, if
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  Speaker 1: you just studied a little bit more, man, just try
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  Speaker 1: to get and understanding, ask him to help you understand.
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  Speaker 1: It will open up the possibilities of your life into
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  Speaker 1: a realm you never could have imagined. I'm telling you
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  Speaker 1: that's real.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: it's here again. It has arrived more importantly you in it.
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  Speaker 1: It's called today, It's called the present. I think they
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  Speaker 1: call it the present because it's a gift from God.
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  Speaker 1: It's a new opportunity we all been invited in. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta take advantage of this. What a blessing it
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  Speaker 1: is to be alive today. I didn't do it properly
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  Speaker 1: this morning. I didn't stop and thank God this morning
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  Speaker 1: like I was supposed to. Something happened really as soon
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  Speaker 1: as I woke up, and I had to deal with it.
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  Speaker 1: But right now I'm saying, thank you God. I show
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  Speaker 1: appreciate this man. I appreciate this life. I appreciate the
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  Speaker 1: measure of health that I have. Thank you for my family.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for your wings of protection. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: honoring me. Thank you for giving me grace and mercy.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for everything you do for me. I don't
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  Speaker 1: all he's done for me. We be over here all day.
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  Speaker 1: It's Steve Harp, Marti Show, Shelley Strawberry, Calin Frail, Mississippi, Monica,
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  Speaker 1: and the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior still out.
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  Speaker 1: So what's going on? Everybody?
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  Speaker 5: Hey, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, good. Yeah, I like hot out here lately. Huh.
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  Speaker 6: I like when you wake up like that grateful and
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  Speaker 6: you forgot. It's okay if you forgot, you could do
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  Speaker 6: it now.
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  Speaker 5: I like that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah I did. I did forget. Something happened, phone ring,
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  Speaker 1: and I had to deal with some stuff and got
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  Speaker 1: up and brush my teeth, was dealing with it, and
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  Speaker 1: next thing you know, I'm on the ass saying, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta be grateful. Hey, you ain't. Yeah, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I was sitting up been telling everybody about how good days,
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  Speaker 1: and I went to her. I said, hey, man, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't get busy. Tell him in front of everybody. That's okay?
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  Speaker 1: It hot lately?
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  Speaker 6: Who Lord, Thank you Lord for everything right food, it's
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  Speaker 6: been hot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, And this has been the words of my
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  Speaker 1: late great mother. Mm hmm. If you keep on, hell
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  Speaker 1: gonna be hotter than this.
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  Speaker 5: So would you rather be hot or cold? Which one?
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  Speaker 5: Too hot?
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  Speaker 1: Hot?
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  Speaker 7: Hot?
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  Speaker 8: No?
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather be hot. Yeah. That cold a whole different base.
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  Speaker 9: You know, we trop your bone. We tropical people pick
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  Speaker 9: heat everything it.
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  Speaker 5: Gets all the way in your bone.
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  Speaker 1: Cold create a lot of other problems, you know, cold
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  Speaker 1: you get frost bite, shivers, sick.
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  Speaker 10: Oh, sickness cold and yeah you got yeah a cold.
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  Speaker 1: Now you got your dig he could be ye.
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  Speaker 11: Man, Yeah, just turn on the fan in the air.
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  Speaker 1: You can't you can't freeze to them.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah you can.
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  Speaker 1: Just don't go outside. Yeah you can have a heat stroke,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm probably gonna go in before that happen. Tight outside,
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  Speaker 1: you go stand under, go inside something. We're gonna do something,
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  Speaker 1: all right, guys.
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  Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 6: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
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  Speaker 6: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 6: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 6: brank back. What you got for his nest, We're running
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  Speaker 6: it back.
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  Speaker 1: We're dealing with the ushers down at the church.
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  Speaker 7: Usher, down at the church, y'all remember the usher, the
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  Speaker 7: old usher, All right, start from the back place.
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  Speaker 1: You know who I'm talking about, one.
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  Speaker 7: That look over their glasses through that little window and
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  Speaker 7: won't let you in the dough until pass to get through.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Usher, let's go church Usher.
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  Speaker 8: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister.
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  Speaker 12: How you doing.
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  Speaker 1: Good evening to you, ma'am.
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  Speaker 7: I don't mean to be giving you a call this
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  Speaker 7: late in the evening, but I am the new youth
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  Speaker 7: minister I have. But uh, my name is Sean Williams
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  Speaker 7: over at Missionary Baptist Church which mine is.
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  Speaker 12: Going which youth Minnesota. What happened?
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  Speaker 1: Uh, he's no longer with the church anymore?
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  Speaker 3: Man?
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  Speaker 12: No, oh my, now, well.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not at liberty to speak upon that.
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  Speaker 7: But but what I was doing is getting around and
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  Speaker 7: making sure I met everyone because I haven't met everyone yet,
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  Speaker 7: and I wanted to reach out to.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone at the church.
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  Speaker 7: But listen, let me let me get down to some
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  Speaker 7: more business, because I've I've spoken with the pastor.
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  Speaker 12: Uh we spoke bishop.
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  Speaker 7: Bishop, Okay, I spoke with him on yesterday, and we
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  Speaker 7: have narrowed some things down of a few changes we're
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  Speaker 7: going to be making at the church, and what we
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  Speaker 7: want to do is one of the major subjects that
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  Speaker 7: have come up, sister, is that we're wanting you, if
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  Speaker 7: at all possible, and the deacons we're in on this
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  Speaker 7: meeting as well, but wanting you to change your attitude
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  Speaker 7: when people are coming in and you're seating them. From
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  Speaker 7: my understanding, it's gotten to the point where they think
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  Speaker 7: you're wait wait.
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  Speaker 12: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait a minute wait, I had
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  Speaker 12: a meeting on me.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't a meeting.
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  Speaker 12: Listen here, I've been ushering on that usher board for
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  Speaker 12: forty seven years. I am the singor usher on that
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  Speaker 12: uncher board, and I've been trying to be nuts about it.
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  Speaker 12: But I don't understand how y'all don't have a meeting
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  Speaker 12: without me. First of all, but now you won't call
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  Speaker 12: here and tell me that you won't have you having
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  Speaker 12: a meeting on me about me being nice, always nice.
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  Speaker 1: Well, ma'am, that doesn't seem.
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  Speaker 7: To be the problem with that son twenty seven.
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  Speaker 12: Manna some boy to call me, don't make no.
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  Speaker 3: What is it?
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  Speaker 1: Well?
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  Speaker 7: What that's actually my call, ma'am, is that maybe we
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  Speaker 7: figured if I would call and speak with you about
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  Speaker 7: the matter, that maybe we can get to some type
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  Speaker 7: of uh rectifying this situation the.
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  Speaker 1: Where we can.
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  Speaker 12: We're gonna rectify here. I'm gonna rectify you calling me
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  Speaker 12: this time of night, tell my some meat. This don't
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  Speaker 12: make no time. And I don't appressionate you calling me
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  Speaker 12: any time of night, but away, Bishop, I need to
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  Speaker 12: speak the bishop.
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  Speaker 1: Bishops.
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  Speaker 12: I've been at this church for forty seven years. I've
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  Speaker 12: been saying, oh, my life, this don't make no type
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  Speaker 12: of sense. You calling me here with this mess. Now,
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  Speaker 12: this of gonna make me cuss. I'm trying to be
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  Speaker 12: a question, but y'all not gonna lost me be a Christian.
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  Speaker 12: She's just gonna just gonna agitate me with this mess
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  Speaker 12: telling me about something.
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  Speaker 3: Be nice.
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  Speaker 7: Well man, that sir, that they're having problems when you're
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  Speaker 7: seeding the people, and that's all that we're trying to
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  Speaker 7: get rectified.
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  Speaker 12: People don't want to sit down they want to go
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  Speaker 12: over here, they want to go over there, they want
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  Speaker 12: to have the children run a to and throw It's
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  Speaker 12: like a bunch of demons while he's just bucking around
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  Speaker 12: in the truch like they ain't got no sense. And
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  Speaker 12: I'm not gonna have it in my section. My section
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  Speaker 12: is going be strife, and.
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  Speaker 1: I understand it.
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  Speaker 7: Let you know what, sister, I think if we did this,
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  Speaker 7: if you would do me a favor and hold your phone,
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  Speaker 7: and if you would just bow your head right now
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  Speaker 7: for me, maybe we can come to to get to
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  Speaker 7: get the man up.
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  Speaker 12: What am I my head? If if we can flows
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  Speaker 12: as clean as hospital coffee, it don't make no trap
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  Speaker 12: be about what I buy my head.
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  Speaker 7: If you could, maybe if you could close your eyes, sister, sister,
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  Speaker 7: I want.
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  Speaker 12: I said, you called me and woke me up out
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  Speaker 12: of my fleet with this mess. Come on, come meet.
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  Speaker 12: I am very an it as this and I don't
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  Speaker 12: appreciate it, and I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 12: speak to this now.
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  Speaker 1: Father.
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  Speaker 7: We asked that you look down upon sust We asked
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  Speaker 7: that you look down upon her right now, right now,
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  Speaker 7: asking that you put a smile on her face. On
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  Speaker 7: Sunday morning, asking that you put some joy in her
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  Speaker 7: heart on Sunday morning, that you draw all the pain
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  Speaker 7: that she in, the anguish that she might be going through,
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  Speaker 7: what the demon there is inside.
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  Speaker 1: We asked that you draw that demon out. We asked
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  Speaker 1: that you poured that demon away from sister. Right now.
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  Speaker 1: Any of your name, We asked all of these.
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  Speaker 12: Blessings to come, because I don't appreciate this boy. I
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  Speaker 12: don't even know who you is. All of my what
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  Speaker 12: is you?
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  Speaker 4: Number?
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  Speaker 7: Pastor gave me the number one and asked me to
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  Speaker 7: call I am like I said, I'm Sean Williams.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't met yet, and I am the.
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  Speaker 12: New You know he don't he don't act that way.
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  Speaker 12: And if Bishop, for the third time, I have told
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  Speaker 12: your boy, Bishop, be respectful of the folks.
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  Speaker 1: See that's what miss Let me let me let me
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  Speaker 1: say this right.
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  Speaker 7: Here's sister, and maybe this will shed some light on things.
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  Speaker 1: A little bit.
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  Speaker 12: Clear up, I'm trying to listen to you.
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  Speaker 1: Boy.
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  Speaker 7: This is nephew Timmy from a Steve Harvey morning show.
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  Speaker 7: You just got pranked by sister who is also an
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  Speaker 7: usher at the church for Mission there a Bauptists.
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  Speaker 12: This is a messing, but we already yes, yees, this
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  Speaker 12: don't make no sense lost him, but this is embarrassing.
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• 20:31
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• 21:02
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• 21:29
  Speaker 6: It is as the CELO or Chief Love Officer Steve
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  Speaker 6: Harvey in the building.
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  Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 21:41
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• 21:44
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• 21:53
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• 21:57
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• 22:00
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  Speaker 5: Coming up at the top of the hour.
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  Speaker 6: In Entertainment news and training headline news, Texas Democrat Nicole
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: Collier is getting into good trouble. Tamar Braxton revealed she
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: almost died two days ago, and actress Sharon Stone said
• 22:26
  Speaker 6: she dated Nellie. Okay, we'll talk about we'll talk well
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: the stories at the top of the hour, but right
• 22:35
  Speaker 6: now it is time, yeah to ask the CLO our
• 22:39
  Speaker 6: chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. All right, Colo, here we go.
• 22:43
  Speaker 6: Regina in Phoenix writes, I have hot flashes and mood swings,
• 22:47
  Speaker 6: and my husband thinks it's cool to make jokes about
• 22:50
  Speaker 6: me around his male friends. I'm twelve years older than
• 22:53
  Speaker 6: my husband, and the jokes often crossed the line. Why
• 22:57
  Speaker 6: does he think it's so funny to talk about me?
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Well, you could make him stop some jokes about him.
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: To in front of her girlfriends or his friends.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: In front of his friends, he's not gonna be able
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: to like what. Well, I might be hot, but it
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: ain't causing nothing you did.
• 23:20
  Speaker 6: Oh you're going in for to kill clap Bagay?
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I like it.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: I like it.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. What you don't do is
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: back up off me.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Uh.
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  Speaker 5: His boys would be falling over.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Right with that. Oh there'd be hollid.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it.
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: Hut him back, all right, Regina.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: Moving on to Alice in Wilmington, Alice writes, I'm almost
• 23:50
  Speaker 6: sixty years old and I'm still sexually active, but that's
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: all these old men think about. I would love to
• 23:57
  Speaker 6: go on a few dates before we jump in bed.
• 24:00
  Speaker 6: Would also love to get married again. Where do I
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: go to meet my future husband? Steve, you can't tell
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: you that. I can't tell you that a direct question.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: You're almost sixty, I'm still sexually active. That ain't no news.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of people anybody, anybody gave up at
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: fifty eight and then all they and all these old
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: men won't is that they almost out of time.
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: So get it in.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: They pushing. I don't know where you going to meet
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: date people, but I do know this. Uh, you still
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: have to have standards and.
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: You know, requirements.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you still have to have that regardless, you just
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: haven't met the right person. What circle of people are you?
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: What is your pool that you're selecting from? What does
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: that look like? Are you in the same place looking
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: for him? You know? And then maybe maybe hunting isn't
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: your thing? You know, maybe just maybe that's not it.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: So listen a recommendation. Well, I can't find where do
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I find you?
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: Don't find you?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've very rarely seen a woman go out time
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: man I.
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: Go to meet Yeah, she just wants to go somewhere.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: I think what you need is to be set up
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: by one of your friends who has an older gentleman
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: who thinks you would be you would be best on
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: a set up date because you're not good at picking
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: block is ticking.
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: Well, She says, she just wants to go on a
• 25:53
  Speaker 6: few dates before she jumps in bed with these guys.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's on you. You know that's on you. Yeah,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: it isn't. I don't know why women don't think you
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: don't have control of.
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: That, right exactly, That's what I wanted to do.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right, she's almost sixty weekly Golden Corral. We got
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: to get it in.
• 26:18
  Speaker 6: I'm sorry, she just wants to go at least to
• 26:22
  Speaker 6: Golden Corral first.
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: Before they do all of that. Yeah, all right.
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: Moving on to Charlotte in Valdosta, Charlotte writes, I was
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: sitting in my car putting on makeup for a date
• 26:36
  Speaker 6: when I saw my preacher creeping with the young woman.
• 26:40
  Speaker 6: I've been trying to get my granddaughter into the church daycare,
• 26:44
  Speaker 6: but it's full.
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: Is it wrong to.
• 26:47
  Speaker 6: Use this as leverage to secure her spot?
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: We're talking blackmail?
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Come on, clo, So let me ask you a question.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: You think after spotting your past to creeping with and
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: your granddaughter can't get in there? Churches daycare, church, church daycare.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: You think this would be a good way to use
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: as blackmail. I think you have a deeper issue.
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: What's hers?
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Is this the type of shepherd you want to follow?
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: So now, how good is that daycare? How good is
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: that church under that leadership? If you done already busted him,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: what you don't think is more behind the scenes than that.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: That's the part you busted him off. Ain't not telling
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: what else is going on. So if I were you,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even be a consideration of mine. Don't worry
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: about your granddaughter getting into daycare? Why are you at
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: the church?
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: Okay, all right at the top saying yeah.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just so understand why you you just
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: skipped over all the other stuff just to get your
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: baby in the daycare. That don't make no sense. He
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: out here just running these tricks. Let me get this
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: baby in this daycare? You know, your trick running past her?
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: Who is she gonna tell though?
• 28:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, who's she gonna tell him?
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: And then he's gonna.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna go up to him and go, hay
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: past I saw you creeping. And I'm gonna keep this
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: to myself, but you need to put my grandbaby in
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: this daycare.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I know it's full, but playing.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Wow, and then you know you need to let me
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: get the rest of this makeup on and tell me
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: what you think about me. How wha. There's a whole
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: lot of levels to this.
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: You went there with it.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, once again, we live in this
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: world where all these crazy things has happened that people
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: just normally. I saw my pastor creeping try to get
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: my grand baby in the daycare. Yeah, you think I
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: could use that to bribe him to get him a
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: baby in daycare?
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: Wait?
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Wait, you skipped all of see.
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: That she did?
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: She did?
• 29:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but she says that's wrong to use this as
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: leverage to secure.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Is it wrong?
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: What do you mean?
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Is it wrong? You even you considering it right? But
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: you're not looking at the rest of it. That's your
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: pastor you saw creeping.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: Okay, she knows what's wrong, So all.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Right, No lady, I don't care.
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: Last one, last one, Steve. This is from Jones and Syracuse.
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: Jones right to my wife's twenty four year old son
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: is about to catch these hands. He takes my tools
• 29:49
  Speaker 6: without asking, and he's always borrowing my wife's car. Yesterday,
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: I was working in the garage and I needed my fan.
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: It's at his house. How do I get this to stop?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's real simple. You got to pull him
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: to the side and say, hey, listen, man, you can't
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: touch my stuff without asking me. Period. These ain't your
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: mama's tools, none of this hip. You got to anything
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: in this house. You got to come to me as
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: a man and ask me for it. Don't just walk
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: out of here with nothing else or else. All right,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: that's a want. That's your warnings.
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: Thank you, CLO.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 30:27
  Speaker 6: some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: According to AP News and the Black Information Network, President
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: Trump is pushing GOP state officials to tilt the map
• 30:46
  Speaker 6: for the twenty twenty six mith terms more in his
• 30:49
  Speaker 6: favor to preserve the GOP's House majority. Democratic House Representative
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: Nicole Collier was confined in the capitol overnight. We saw
• 30:57
  Speaker 6: it all over the news after she refused a police
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: escort that Republican leaders imposed on Democratic lawmakers who participated
• 31:05
  Speaker 6: in the two week walkout. Representative Collier said, in part quote,
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: I refuse to sign away my dignity as a duly
• 31:11
  Speaker 6: elected representative, just so Republicans can control my movement and
• 31:16
  Speaker 6: monitor me with police escorts. She went on to say,
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: when I press that button to vote, I know these
• 31:23
  Speaker 6: maps will harm my constituent. I won't just go along
• 31:26
  Speaker 6: quietly with their intimidation or their discrimination. We need to
• 31:31
  Speaker 6: shake things up and make some good trouble to have
• 31:34
  Speaker 6: good change.
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: Okay. You know a lot of people were wondering why.
• 31:38
  Speaker 6: She was in there, and that's why. That's how she felt.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 31:41
  Speaker 6: According to the Texas Tribune, former Vice President Kamala Harris
• 31:45
  Speaker 6: called Representative Collier to express her support for her protest.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: So what do you guys think? What do you thinks
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: to you?
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a hero quote. She's gonna get it done
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: by herself.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: Period.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: Sure, the problem we have if we have two parties.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: The Republicans lawmakers have turned into a party of cowards,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: and then the Democrat lawmakers they don't have a plan,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: they don't know what to do. See the problem with
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Democrats that they keep reacting to what the Republicans are doing.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: They're not spearheading anything. You know, what if they want
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: to one more of them get on TV and say
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: we need to start talking about what people really want
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: to talk about, the cost of living, the price of food.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: The Epstein files, man, they not finish. Show y'all nothing
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: in them Epstein files because he in it. So you
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna see nothing in that because he in Now
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: too many pictures with him with this dude and too
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: many so he can't have at it. You ain't finnah
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: see that. Y'all talking about the cost of food. But
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing nothing.
• 32:57
  Speaker 9: At least out of Texas, she's doing something where the
• 33:01
  Speaker 9: rest of Democrats are staying with.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: Her, not all on want a card, there's no plan.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: She's a hero to me.
• 33:09
  Speaker 11: I stay with her because at least she's doing.
• 33:11
  Speaker 6: Something something, and she's thinking about her constituents as well.
• 33:17
  Speaker 6: She is thinking about the people who put her in office.
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: She's representing those people as well.
• 33:22
  Speaker 10: Always those of Parks, always those of Parks.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Didn't get out of the seat on the bus that
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: sparked it. But guess what, everybody stopped riding the busy? Yes, sir, yes, sir, history, Yes, Okay.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Now that she's done this, what the hell is everybody
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: else gonna do?
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: And that's my frustration with watching this. I appreciate Kama
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: has calling her, supporting her and all this. Hell, well
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: where everybody else?
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: You know, where's the Democratic leadership? That's what I'm saying.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Where and what y'all gonna do?
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: Stop complaining by the Republicans? What are you going to do?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: They know what they're doing. Whatever Trump tells you, do
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: they about that.
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: They have their leadership in place, Yes, what they do?
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Right? All right?
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: Thanks guys.
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: Switching gears and other entertainment news, Sixty seven year old
• 34:20
  Speaker 6: legendary actress Sharon Stone admitted on Watch What Happens with
• 34:24
  Speaker 6: Andy Cohen that she once dated Nelly, who happens to
• 34:28
  Speaker 6: be seventy seventeen years younger than her, but they only
• 34:32
  Speaker 6: went on one date, she says, just one date. Now,
• 34:34
  Speaker 6: we all know that Nelly is now married to Ashanti
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: and Sharon Stone is currently single. So here's the question, guys,
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: if you could go on one date with a celebrity,
• 34:46
  Speaker 6: all right, who would it be? Well back in the day,
• 34:49
  Speaker 6: of course, when you weren't married, So who would it be?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Can you say I'll follow your kids back in the day?
• 34:56
  Speaker 7: This is this is this is scared to say but
• 34:59
  Speaker 7: go ahead, Stey comes back back in the day.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Well, why we're talking about it now? Long enough? Not
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: if you're still tripping on so and so back in
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: the day.
• 35:18
  Speaker 6: All right, let's go with Bernadette's Bernadette standards back in
• 35:22
  Speaker 6: the day. Oh time, just one date?
• 35:28
  Speaker 11: That was good enough, good enough for you.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: But that's how y'all gave me one day, So I'm
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: good with that.
• 35:34
  Speaker 6: Well that's all Sharon Stone and Nelly had was one date?
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Did she throw that leg open like she did?
• 35:40
  Speaker 9: And I don't think she looked like that no.
• 35:45
  Speaker 13: More because Michael Douglas, he was all the way in.
• 35:56
  Speaker 13: You got to lose his job.
• 36:00
  Speaker 6: All right, tell me you said Bernadette Stanis from Good Times,
• 36:05
  Speaker 6: Thelma from Good Times. Today, it would be we know,
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: it would be halle Berry today.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's been upsetting me lately, but it's still heavy.
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah, what upsetting you?
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: We're just so shappy with this man. She just.
• 36:20
  Speaker 9: Yeah, you don't want your crush happy. Don't understand she
• 36:26
  Speaker 9: should be happy?
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Right, I know I'm throwing shade.
• 36:29
  Speaker 6: Yeah right, Steve, you still haven't answered. We've given you
• 36:34
  Speaker 6: enough time.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, nothing to answer that question. You
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: go back to the Pymbria days. Don't jump big.
• 36:41
  Speaker 7: Dog coffee here, exactly what do you say, Marilyn McCoo.
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: Dimention, Okay, she's beautiful.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Dang Carollo, Beuty Folk Paine god Is left is aband?
• 37:10
  Speaker 6: Guys, out of the dreams out Designer college dorm room trends.
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show.
• 37:27
  Speaker 7: This Sunday, the remaining fourteen's battle to make the championship
• 37:30
  Speaker 7: in the most physical, fierce, and competitive basketball league in
• 37:33
  Speaker 7: the world. The action starts with the Big Three Monster
• 37:36
  Speaker 7: Energy Celebrity Game. Then Dwight Howard and his La Riot
• 37:39
  Speaker 7: take on Montes Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. The
• 37:43
  Speaker 7: finale we'll see popular Miami three oh five would start.
• 37:46
  Speaker 7: MVP Michael Beasley and Land Stephenson take on Nancy Lieberman's
• 37:50
  Speaker 7: Dallas Power who will make it to the Big Three Championship.
• 37:53
  Speaker 7: The action starts Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific
• 37:56
  Speaker 7: only on CBS Designer Dorms.
• 38:00
  Speaker 5: Designer Dorms, things have changed in college dorm life.
• 38:03
  Speaker 8: Guys.
• 38:03
  Speaker 6: Parents are spending a lot, a lot of money to
• 38:05
  Speaker 6: decorate their kids college dorm rooms now like they're on
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: an HGTV makeover show or something. In fact, it's become
• 38:13
  Speaker 6: such a trend now that a woman in Mississippi quit
• 38:16
  Speaker 6: her job as an elementary school teacher and now has
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: a business where she decorates dorm rooms and she charges
• 38:24
  Speaker 6: up to twenty thousand dollars to do it. Twenty thousand dollars,
• 38:27
  Speaker 6: so it could be a lucrative.
• 38:29
  Speaker 5: It's a lucrative business for her.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: Right But to get down to Walmart, get you some
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: colored sheets in the throw room all day, and then
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: learn yourself.
• 38:39
  Speaker 6: So that's kind of the leads into the question, Steve,
• 38:45
  Speaker 6: what were your dorm rooms like when you were in college?
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: I had cold designer room.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm signed it oh Man. So first of all, yeah,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: we had a super boy Rico. We had a super
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: double because we was in a quad, but we ran
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: our roommates out so it was just me and him.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: So he had a bedroom. I had a bedroom with
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: bunk beds in it. He had a bedroom with bunk
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: beds in it, and we each had a door, and
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: then we had a little common area and then we
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: shared a bathroom with the sweet next door. It had
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: two sinks in it, one toilet in it, and one shower.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: So what I did was each each each person had
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: a desk. I took the desk and stacked the desk
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: on top of each other to make an entertainment center.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I put money. Where was you studying at? Study?
• 39:45
  Speaker 11: Desk was for for homework?
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Deep Oh no, no, no, no, no, you did that
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: right there. Then I had me a bean bag chair,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: and then I went to the student center one night
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: they had a luminum framed cow. I put that on
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: my head and walked that to my room.
• 40:05
  Speaker 11: From the student center at the university to put.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: I used the couch that I set on at the
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: student center to sit on it in my room.
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  Speaker 11: Did you have permission to take that?
• 40:17
  Speaker 7: No?
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: But the other other students was allowed to come in
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: my room and sit on it. Hit a cold part,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I took some oxyd dog bleaching soap powder, mixed a
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: little water in it, made a past because it had
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: the blue bleaching crystals. And I took a spoon and
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: threw it all over the ceiling, splashed it. And then
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I took a fish net and pinned it on that
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: and inside the fish net I put Ohio player and
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: other album covers. And then at night I had a
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: lava lamp and a blue light. When I cut the
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: blue light on the oxy dog bleaching crystals sparkl like
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: stars in the sky.
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: You go ahead and decorate, or.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: You couldn't tell me that. Everybody trying to figure out
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: how I put it. I wouldn't tell nobody that was
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: oxygo Nobody.
• 41:11
  Speaker 11: College Days. Happy college Day.
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: talk marital advice.
• 41:18
  Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: We have to say happy anniversary to our very own
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: Carlo Farrell Tash. Yeah, the Pharaohs, the pharaoh Universary. Happy anniversary, Corloge.
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: So how many years now have you guys been married?
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Thank you?
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Twenty one twenty one?
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  Speaker 5: All right, congratulation is we're.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Going to have a parade for Toash. I don't have
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: special for Tash. Yeah for Tash because I don't know
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: how he did it twenty one years with you. We
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: need to see him. Make me ill, So Cigar carn
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: y'all good on podcast. My soul looks back at wonder,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: make me sick. Thank you all right?
• 42:20
  Speaker 11: So well.
• 42:22
  Speaker 6: En route to their wedding, in Phoenix. Another couple not
• 42:25
  Speaker 6: Tash in Carla on this one. This is another couple.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: They received a touching surprise when Alaska Airline staff invited
• 42:33
  Speaker 6: passengers to share a marriage advice on napkins and notes.
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: Here's some of the heartfelt tips the couple received. Communicate,
• 42:42
  Speaker 6: never go to bed angry, cherish the little things. Always
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: acknowledge small gestures, maintain intimacy, give genuine compliments. Genuine compliments. So,
• 42:53
  Speaker 6: Steve Tommy, any advice you want to add to this?
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: You guys have been married long as well.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: If we start aging a little third of her to hell,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: we ain't going to bed man And that's crazy, just
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: as mad as she was when she went to sleep.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I never understood, because I'll go to bed
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: and wake up. I don't forgot, No, we won't. Baby,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: What you mean?
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: Hey?
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Baby? I still you say last night?
• 43:25
  Speaker 6: Don't let the sun set on your anger? What about
• 43:28
  Speaker 6: the acknowledging the small gestures? Sometimes you just be tired.
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: You don't want to.
• 43:37
  Speaker 11: Must have been giving tips to mad people out there.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you it was vir genuine. Ain't nobody
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: finna do all that? Because if you've been married long enough,
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: ask caller, has she ever went to bed mad? Oh? Yeah,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: yeah the other day. Yes, yeah, you know, I mean
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: all that's great advice, but you're gonna do all of that.
• 44:04
  Speaker 6: Yeah, tell me you asked about the genuine statement. It
• 44:07
  Speaker 6: was give genuine compliments, genuine compliment. You still can compliment
• 44:13
  Speaker 6: your wives, right, No?
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes no, sometimes that compliment can't be genuine exactly
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to do. You just have to give the
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: company you like what I got on Oh baby, that's nice.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: Genuine lies, that's what you do. That's what you're lying
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: and lies genuine.
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: No, what about communicating, You got to do that in
• 44:43
  Speaker 5: a marriage.
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: You have to go.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: You got all you have to communicate, but a large
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: percentage that it's gonna have to be lies.
• 44:53
  Speaker 14: See lying.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Just if you want to stay married, you tell the
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: truth all the time, you're not gonna stay married. So
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: put that down, lion helps the relationship.
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: I'm not putting that down.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Selective line. You must know when it's time.
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: But that's for you, that's not for your wife.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: That's right. Everybody that wants to stay married, you have
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: got to learn how to selective lie. And I'm not
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: playing with your especially with your spouse, your best friend,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: and sometimes you can't your best friend everything. And that's
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: why we're best friend till death do us part.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: There.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know who wrote that. I don't know who
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: wrote that. Problem and a problem. I can do that too,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: however long you need this line to last to do you?
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: I got a problem with that. I can tell you.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: If you want to stay married, you're gonna have to
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: have select the lying in the think game. You can't
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: tell the truth about everything.
• 46:04
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Kyle, Happy anniversary.
• 46:07
  Speaker 11: You're going to ask him right now you've been lying
• 46:11
  Speaker 11: to me.
• 46:12
  Speaker 6: Coming up, nephew with a frank phone call right after this.
• 46:18
  Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
• 46:26
  Speaker 6: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
• 46:32
  Speaker 6: patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: into it, find out what it's all about in just
• 46:38
  Speaker 6: a few because right now the nephew is here with
• 46:41
  Speaker 6: today's frank phone call.
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: What you got for his nept for y'all?
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: Tell me?
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: You know, I mean, how stupid y'all wanted to be
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: this moment how stupid do you want? Just let me know.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean, there's the levels to your stupid.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: There's levels of you know, from one to ten. I'll
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: be trying to figure out. You know sometime I can't
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: get a right. So on this.
• 47:02
  Speaker 5: You answer that, Steve, I want on this Thursday.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna give you what you won't. Just
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: tell me what it level? You want? How much? How many?
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: He says one to ten you can go from.
• 47:13
  Speaker 7: I can go from one to twenty. Really, I can
• 47:15
  Speaker 7: actually pass him. But I'm talking about that stupid.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, oh oh he's unmatched.
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's off.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: He's he's unmatched. I don't know. I don't even know
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: why we're trying to put hes gonna go past whatever
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: number you got.
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: Exactly, it's off the charts all the time.
• 47:35
  Speaker 11: You're gonna break the rich.
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: You blow our minds without stupid, you can.
• 47:39
  Speaker 7: Be Let me see if I can blow your mind
• 47:41
  Speaker 7: this morning. This one right here is can your wife
• 47:45
  Speaker 7: help me with my thesis?
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: See?
• 47:48
  Speaker 7: Then your wife help me with my thesis. That's what
• 47:54
  Speaker 7: I'm talking about, cat dog, We're all on our way, too, stupid.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Let's go.
• 47:59
  Speaker 8: Hello, I'm trying to reach h yeah, who, well, who
• 48:03
  Speaker 8: is it?
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: Hey, mone ain't ellis man? Is this is this Dallas
• 48:07
  Speaker 4: is a husband?
• 48:08
  Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, yeah this me.
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: Hey listen, my mother is mystery man. She goes to
• 48:14
  Speaker 4: church with with with your wife's moms, uh, with mother
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: and uh I'm actually in med school, man, And they
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: told me your your wife, she's a she's a nurse.
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: Is that right?
• 48:26
  Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's a nurse. But you say,
• 48:29
  Speaker 8: you say your mama go to.
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: Church with my wife's mama, right right, my mother, she
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: goes to church with with with with mother.
• 48:38
  Speaker 8: Okay, then I, uh what I was telling you off
• 48:41
  Speaker 8: for damn.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: Man, If you didn't mind, I wanted to I'm going
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: I'm getting ready to do my thesis. Man, I'm doing
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: my thesis for the end of the year, uh, end
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: of the semester, man for med school. And they told
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: me your wife, you know that might be able to
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: help me out. So I was hoping I could talk
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: to her for a second.
• 48:56
  Speaker 8: If you're on mind, yeah, hold on real quick, hold on, Okay,
• 49:01
  Speaker 8: you want to talk to you mama, So you want
• 49:04
  Speaker 8: to talk to you?
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: Hello?
• 49:08
  Speaker 8: Hello, hey, yes, hey, how you doing?
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: My name is Ellis my mother? Did you go to
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: church with your with your mother and they gave me
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: your number that you might be able to help me
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: out with some stuff. I'm in man's school right now,
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: I'm starting to be a gynocologist and uh that you
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: might be able to help me out with some things.
• 49:25
  Speaker 4: I wanted to reach out to you if it was cool.
• 49:27
  Speaker 8: Okay, what's your name?
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: Against Ellis?
• 49:30
  Speaker 8: And your mom goes to church.
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: With my mom's right?
• 49:32
  Speaker 8: Okay, right, okay?
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: What what?
• 49:35
  Speaker 12: What?
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: What I'm doing is, I'm doing my thesis and you know,
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: this is the this is my big end of the
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: year exam. And what I'm doing is I'm making my
• 49:43
  Speaker 4: thesis a video and opposed to a report, so everything
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: is gonna be on video. So what I'm trying to
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: do is actually get a time where I can hook
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: up with you and maybe examine you and get all
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: that on video.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: So you want to video tape.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: I will be giving you, uh you know, and I
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: put you, you know, your legs in the stirrups and
• 50:03
  Speaker 4: all that and just video me doing the actual examination
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: on you.
• 50:06
  Speaker 8: You want a video name?
• 50:08
  Speaker 12: You want to video ta him giving me all?
• 50:13
  Speaker 8: Hey, like what you're talking about you want to do
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: what again?
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Do well? See, I'm working on my thesis, man, and
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: what I'm doing my thesis is gonna be a video.
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: So I'm actually video myself giving your wife.
• 50:24
  Speaker 8: What can come away? You want a video? Came my
• 50:26
  Speaker 8: wife in.
• 50:28
  Speaker 4: You. Hey, hey, hey, brother, this right here from my grade. Man.
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: You know this ain't nothing on a personal tip, man,
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: this is for the grade. You know, your wife being
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: in the medical field.
• 50:36
  Speaker 8: I told my wife you talking about you? Okay, you
• 50:41
  Speaker 8: want a video came of my wife that we got
• 50:44
  Speaker 8: to look at it. Man, you want you can't say no.
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: Man, listen, this from my grade and this ain't but
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: I mean only the professor is going to walk phone.
• 50:51
  Speaker 8: I'm concerned. You better go find somebody else. My wife
• 50:56
  Speaker 8: this again, man, My name is Ellis.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: Man. I told you know my mama.
• 50:59
  Speaker 8: Missed she go to church with Come on, I'm man. No,
• 51:04
  Speaker 8: we don't know who you was.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 51:06
  Speaker 8: We ain't never seen your mama. Man, what you're trying
• 51:08
  Speaker 8: to do you ain't gonna do no, my wife.
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: Man, All y'all, hey, okay with y'all, let me ask
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: you something. Don't you go in there and get anyway
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: at least once or twice a year.
• 51:18
  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, nobody no hedo cage son video take my
• 51:23
  Speaker 8: wife like that? But man, this it brother, we gonna
• 51:25
  Speaker 8: find somebody else. Man that man, there's all that. Man,
• 51:29
  Speaker 8: I don't know you an'll know your mama dollar y'all.
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: Man, okay, okay, can you put me on speaker PHONPS,
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: I can talk to both y'all.
• 51:35
  Speaker 8: No, he now you ain't gonna talk back to my wife. Okay?
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: Can I say one more thing?
• 51:40
  Speaker 8: Come about video taking my wife?
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 51:43
  Speaker 8: D yeah, you ain't talking to my wife.
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: Come up. I just want to say this. Man, this
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: just got breaked by your homeboy Doug.
• 51:56
  Speaker 8: Baby tell my talking about video taking my wife?
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: Yet you got a boy named Doug.
• 52:07
  Speaker 8: Don't you hold?
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: Wait?
• 52:08
  Speaker 8: Man, what you say?
• 52:09
  Speaker 12: Who did that?
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: Doug?
• 52:14
  Speaker 8: Doug and Tony? I won't kick it man, that's man.
• 52:20
  Speaker 8: Don't con a by this og man. You had me
• 52:22
  Speaker 8: hot dude? Oh man, y'all all right, man, my heart
• 52:25
  Speaker 8: was being fair.
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: Man, Hey, man, hey, put what on the mo? Y'all
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: at heils man?
• 52:31
  Speaker 8: Okay, hold all right, I seek hold on uh go ahead, man.
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, Now what I got one thing. I gotta ask y'all,
• 52:40
  Speaker 4: what is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 52:47
  Speaker 8: Man say?
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 52:48
  Speaker 8: Next time my wife goes back up in there, man,
• 52:50
  Speaker 8: get up, I'm going up in there. Man up in there.
• 53:00
  Speaker 7: And there you have it, fairly, and Carl, I expect
• 53:04
  Speaker 7: some praise from y'all this morning.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: That's what I expect. Now.
• 53:07
  Speaker 11: I expect some praise dranking people's husbands, but it does.
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  Speaker 11: Why do you think that is cool? Why do you
• 53:15
  Speaker 11: think it's cool to do that?
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: I think that's what pranking business is about. I'm sorry.
• 53:23
  Speaker 7: It's drinking husbands, is dranking wives, it's dranking ministers, it's
• 53:27
  Speaker 7: dranking kids.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I don't care.
• 53:30
  Speaker 7: Ain't nobody, No, I don't draw the line. I don't
• 53:36
  Speaker 7: Why are we drawing it? Whoever thought about? Who did that?
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: Anyway? Who got damn drew the line? What is that about?
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: I never understood that anyway?
• 53:47
  Speaker 7: The nephew, it's the week zero Week zero Comedy Week
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  Speaker 7: zero Comedy Jam's coming up Labor Day weekend August and
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  Speaker 7: in Birmingham, Alabama. All right, big weekend for football, y'all
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  Speaker 7: don't want to miss at Valdosta State versus Clark Atlanta,
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  Speaker 7: University of West Alabama versus Fort Valley and it's all
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  Speaker 7: going down Labor Day weekend. Okay, tickets are on sale
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  Speaker 7: right now, but you're gonna jump it off Friday Night
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  Speaker 7: right and now, okay, that's how we're doing it. That's
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  Speaker 7: exactly how we're doing Okay, right, all right, landing the cut?
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  Speaker 7: What's in September? September nineteenth and twenty the Nephew're coming
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  Speaker 7: to Huntsville, Alabama, all right at Liberty Live Comedy Club
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  Speaker 7: and Nephew will be there.
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  Speaker 1: So all my friends from the Own.
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  Speaker 7: Wait, man, my nephew is coming y'all way, so y'all
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  Speaker 7: get ready and Friday night, don't forget it gets a
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  Speaker 7: little sexy on Friday, it does. You want to tune
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  Speaker 11: Well, thank you.
• 55:26
  Speaker 6: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry letter. The subject
• 55:29
  Speaker 6: is patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We're
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  Speaker 6: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
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  Speaker 6: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject to patiently waiting for
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  Speaker 6: my man to settle down. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm seeking advice,
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  Speaker 6: but I know what you are going to tell me.
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  Speaker 6: I have a man in my life that I've been
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  Speaker 6: with for three years. I say that I've been with
• 57:03
  Speaker 6: him because he has not been with me, well, not
• 57:06
  Speaker 6: the whole time. I have seen him out with other
• 57:09
  Speaker 6: women a few times while we were supposed to be dating.
• 57:13
  Speaker 6: I also made sure he saw me, and then I
• 57:16
  Speaker 6: go home and wait for him to call or come
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  Speaker 6: by and lie to me about what I saw it
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  Speaker 6: bothered me.
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  Speaker 5: At first, but I'm used to it now.
• 57:24
  Speaker 6: At first, I messed up and told my friends and
• 57:28
  Speaker 6: family how his actions hurt me.
• 57:30
  Speaker 5: Big mistake.
• 57:31
  Speaker 6: I'm a lot wiser now and I act like things
• 57:33
  Speaker 6: are going great in my relationship, so they don't judge me.
• 57:37
  Speaker 6: They can't stand my man because of me. My sister
• 57:40
  Speaker 6: in law works with a woman that he was seeing
• 57:42
  Speaker 6: around Christmas time. The lady bought him a TV for Christmas,
• 57:45
  Speaker 6: and he gave it to me for my bedroom. I
• 57:48
  Speaker 6: wanted to thank the lady for her contribution. I like
• 57:52
  Speaker 6: to take lemons and make lemonade. I have told my
• 57:56
  Speaker 6: friends and family that nothing they tell me will ever
• 57:59
  Speaker 6: make me hate my man. I don't condone his cheating,
• 58:03
  Speaker 6: but the way he makes it up to me makes
• 58:05
  Speaker 6: all of the agony worthwhile. I am sure this is
• 58:09
  Speaker 6: where you start judging me, but when I weigh the
• 58:11
  Speaker 6: pros and cons, I am winning. I have access to
• 58:15
  Speaker 6: one of his accounts and he spends all of his
• 58:17
  Speaker 6: money on me. My sister in law even confirmed that
• 58:20
  Speaker 6: he doesn't spend any money on the lady that boughts
• 58:23
  Speaker 6: us the TV. I don't want to start over with
• 58:25
  Speaker 6: a new man, only to find out that he cheats too.
• 58:29
  Speaker 6: Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around and
• 58:32
  Speaker 6: I'll be here waiting. Is it a full proof plan
• 58:36
  Speaker 6: or am I wasting my time?
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 58:41
  Speaker 6: Full proof plan? No wasting your time yet. But I
• 58:45
  Speaker 6: got to ask you, why are you writing Steve? And
• 58:48
  Speaker 6: I You know you're not going to listen to anything
• 58:50
  Speaker 6: we tell you. Your folks have already tried that. Your
• 58:53
  Speaker 6: friends have tried that to tell you about him. You
• 58:55
  Speaker 6: didn't listen to them because you don't want our advice.
• 58:58
  Speaker 6: You just want us to tell you you're right and
• 59:00
  Speaker 6: that yes, he will eventually settle down with you and
• 59:04
  Speaker 6: only you one day. That seems to be how you've
• 59:07
  Speaker 6: worked it out in your head anyway. And this man
• 59:10
  Speaker 6: is trash because he has no respect for you or
• 59:13
  Speaker 6: your relationship.
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: This is sad.
• 59:15
  Speaker 6: And I know deep down you really don't want a
• 59:18
  Speaker 6: man who cheats, but you've convinced yourself that this is
• 59:21
  Speaker 6: the best you can do. In other words, it's better
• 59:24
  Speaker 6: to have a man that cheats than no man at all.
• 59:28
  Speaker 6: You cannot really believe that. I mean, so what, he
• 59:31
  Speaker 6: gave you a TV and has given you access to
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: his bank account. He still cheats on you, and he's
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: been doing it for years? How is this okay in
• 59:40
  Speaker 6: your mind? Because of the money. You said, this is agony,
• 59:44
  Speaker 6: and I know this has to be agony for you.
• 59:47
  Speaker 6: He's never going to stop cheating on you because he
• 59:50
  Speaker 6: knows you're never going to leave him. He has no
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: incentive to stop because he knows you'll always take him back.
• 59:58
  Speaker 6: And this has been going on for three years now. Well,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 6: you say you're winning, You're not winning. You are losing
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 6: to a loser.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Steve Lady surely said something really smart. Shirley said, I
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: don't know why you wrote us, because you're not gonna
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: listen to anything we say, because you just told us
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: that your family can't tell you nothing about him that
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: would make you leave him. So I don't know what
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: you think we're gonna do, but I'm gonna tell you
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: something from the male perspective. I'm gonna give you this
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: letter from the male perspective. Let me see how you
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: feel after you hear this. You say I'm seeking advice,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: but I know what you're going to tell me. That
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: means that you already know what's best, but you've somehow
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: ignored it. I have a man in my life that
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: I've been with for three years. I say that i've
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: been with him because he's not been with me. Okay, cool,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: Then you don't have a man. You don't have a
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: man if you're going to allow me to do what
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: I want to do whenever I want to do it,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: and I can get away with it, there are no consequences.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: You're not my woman. You this peace I'm dealing with
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: that I can run over. You're a doormat to me,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm come in here and wipe my feet off
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: on you and scoot up under the table whenever I
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: want to. I've seen him out with other women a
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: few times while we were supposed to be dating. You've
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: seen him out with women plural a few times while
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: y'all was dating. You saw it for yourself. Didn't nobody
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: come and tell you? So, you saw it for yourself.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: Always made sure he saw me, And then I go
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: home and wait for him to call and come by
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: and lie to me about what I saw. Well, that's brilliant,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: Oh man, What a great way to spend an evening.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: What a great way to be in a relationship with
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: a per if I'm out as a man with another woman,
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: and we're supposed to be dating, and you make sure
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: I see you, and then you go home and wait
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: to see what I'm gonna say. I ain't got to
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: say nothing, Yeah you saw me?
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: What?
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: So at first I messed up and told my friends
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: and family how his actions hurt me. Big mistake. I'm
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: a lot wiser now and I act like things are
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: going great in my relationship so they can't judge me.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: Did you what you're just saying? You did a total contradiction.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: You used to tell your friends how he hurt you.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: That was a big mistake because now they judge you.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: So now you act like things are going great in
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: your relationship, just so they won't judge you, and you
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: won't have to hear how big a fool you are.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: They can't stand my man because of me. You ought
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: not be able to stand you, the one. I don't
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: know how you can't stand in me the right.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: Hang on, Steve, hang on.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 6: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 6: patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 6: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 6: Morning Show.
• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:51
  Speaker 6: All right, Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 6: The subject is patiently waiting for my man to settle down.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: A woman who has a plan that is so far
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: gone it's never going to happen, especially waiting on my
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: man to settle down. You've been with a man for
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: three years. You've caught him out cheating on you several
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: times with other women. You've seen it for yourself. You
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: made sure he saw you, and then your plan was
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: to go back home and wait home to call or
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: come over and lie to you about what you saw.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: You said it bothered me at first, but I'm used
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: to it now. Wow, So how have you conditioned yourself
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: to be subpar. So what you've done is you've gotten
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: used to the fact and condition yourself that I'm not
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: number one, I'm not worthy of being respected and treated right,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: and I'm okay with that. Lady, you need to feel
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: better about yourself because it's obvious you don't feel that
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: way about yourself, and so he ain't. He ain't gonna
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: treat you that way. Then you said, first, you messed up.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: You told your friends and friends and family how his
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: actions hurt you. Big mistake. I'm a lot wiser now
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: and I act like things are going greater in my relationship.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: That's not wiser. That doesn't make you wiser. You're more
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: conditioned to accept bad behavior. You're more conditioned to allow
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: this man to treat you any kind of way he
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: wants you. You allow him to use you as a doormats.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: So they can't stand my man because of me. No, lady,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: they can't stand your man because of how he treats you,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: and you told them that, so they hate him for
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: you because you're too stupid to hate him yourself. Because
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: you have degraded yourself down to some second, third class
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: citizen that's not worthy to be treated like a woman
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: and a lady. My sister in law works with a
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: woman that he was seeing around Christmas time. The lady
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: brought them a TV Christmas and he gave it to
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: me from my bedroom. I wanted to thank the lady
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: for her contribution. Okay, so what else is wrong with you?
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: This woman gave your man a TV for Christmas? He
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: thought enough of you. Well wow, now I ain't got
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: to buy her nothing. I'm a Greek. Gift her a
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: TV that my other chick gave me, So that was
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: your Christmas gift. I wanted to call her and thank
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: the lady for her contribution. Wow, where are you and
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: all of this? Man? Where is the real you? Because
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: you just I mean, this is not even funny to me.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: This is really sad. If you were my daughter, if
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: you were my daughter, girl, we're not doing this right here,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: because I'm telling you right now, you don't have I
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: like to take lemons and make lemonade. But your lemonade
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: ain't good though. No, you don't even know how to
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: take lemonade. Your lemons is rotten. See you taking rotten
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: lemons and you making lemonade with rotten lemons that's what
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: you're doing. I've told my friends and family that nothing
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: they can tell me would ever make me hate my man.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: So well, I don't know what you want me and
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: surely to do. Like she said, I don't condone his cheating,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: but the way he makes it up to me makes
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: all the agony worthwhile. There is no making up for
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: agony to me. So y'all he's sleeping with you that good. Well,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: you have this temporary moment of ecstasy and it justifies
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: him doing what he want to do. That's gonna get old, lady.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I am sure this is where you start judging me.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: I'm not judging me. You's something wrong with you. I
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: have access, but when I weigh the pros and cons,
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: I'm winning.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 3: No you're not.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: You're losing. In every aspect. He's winning, but you're losing.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: I have access to one of his accounts, and he
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: spends all of his money on me. You know, the
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: the account that you have access to that has very
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: little inn it. My sister in law even confirmed that
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: he didn't spend any money on the lady that bought
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: us the TV. I don't want to start over with
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: a new man. You don't have a man you ain't
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: starting over. You ain't got one in the beginning he's
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: not your man, only to find out that he cheats.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: What difference do it make the one you got cheating?
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around, and
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: I'll be here waiting. Is it a food poof playing
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: on my wasting my time? Let me explain something to you.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: Eventually your boyfriend will get tired of running around. But
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: when he settled down, it's not gonna be with you.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: Very seldom do the other chick win, and right now
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: you the other chick. He has no intentions of settling
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: down anytime soon because every first of all, everything he
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: does with you has no consequences. He can get busted
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: with other women. He can give you a TV that
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: another lady gave him. He ain't got to buy you
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: nothing for Christmas. He gets no consequences. You done decided
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: that's nothing anybody can tell you about him, And then
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: all the agony he sends you through, he makes it
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: up to you, and it's all worthwhile. You have got
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: to stop being ignorant and start thinking more of yourself
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: than him, because he thinks plenty of himself and very
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: little of you, you lady, to stop this.
• 1:09:54
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  Speaker 6: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 6: got Tommy in for Junior and Sports Talk.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 5: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:10:19
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• 1:10:23
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  Speaker 1: five or Ionic six.
• 1:10:41
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• 1:10:44
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• 1:10:47
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• 1:10:50
  Speaker 6: All right, here we are, guys, time for Sports Talk.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 6: Junior's out, Tommy's in. What you got for is Tommy?
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 7: We're gonna talk about one that's a little dear to
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 7: my heart. Now, Steve, check this out you've been, you've
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 7: been watching the Little League World Series, all right?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: Love it a bit of a right. It's a controversy
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: going on this year, all right.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 7: Some fans are demanding a big change because they see
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 7: the game as unfair.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 7: The pictures have gotten so big, They got so big
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 7: and so strong that they throwing pitches now eighty miles
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 7: per hour while the distance between the mound and home
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 7: plate is still forty six feet, and that is actually
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 7: equivalent to Major League battles facing one hundred and seven
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 7: miles per hour.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: Fast. Yeah, So the.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 7: Solution would be to increase the size of the field,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 7: which means that would probably you got a bag down,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 7: move and move that mind back. But now if you
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 7: do that, it's got to change lily all over the world.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 7: You got to change everything. And that's the big problem.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 7: And I've been at games, dog, Well, I'm sitting there
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 7: in the stands looking like that mound too close, that
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 7: ball it's humming up in here, it's coming too fast.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: I watched the Little Boy last night. Little boy struck
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: out ten batters in the row. How fast was he
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: throwing the ball? He struck out ten people in the row?
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know how fast he was throwing it. What
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: ibody hitting that. I was sitting in the car. I
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: sitting in that show. Glad I ain't up there. That
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: hell A white boy was scared me. I said, I'm
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: in timberdating this little fat.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 14: Boy.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: He had a little high. It's on him too, you know.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: Hard to see a little white boy with a hot
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: normally they flat. He had a high, That little boy
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: cocky leg. I wouldn't smoke on it, fright. I agree
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: with I agree with spread. I just want that mind
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: to be moved back a little bit because it's just
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: too close. It's too close. Forty seven. It's too close.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell you something else to us Like
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: the w n B A. If they would lower that
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: rim six inches six inches, that game would be so
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: much money. I'm gonna tell you something, man, The w
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: n B A is good basketball to watch. And I
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: would venture to say, you know, I heard this high
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: school team tell about man, we'll crush them. Girls know
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't know, you wouldn't, boy?
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 5: Oh some boys.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: No, it's a high school team.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 11: Yeah, high school boy. The high school girls said that.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: No high school girls down stairs? Chance a high school
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: boys team. I'm gonna tell you right now, you would
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: have a tough time beating them, beating them women. Man,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: And because you don't understand, Yeah, you're more athletic, you
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: can jump higher, and you're faster, but they gonna move
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: that ball around because they shoot three pointers better than men.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: They're gonna outsmart you. If if the realm was six
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: inches smaller man, the w NBA would be hell of
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: basketball to watch.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you guys.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 6: A man on social media needs some advice to He says,
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 6: word has it. My girl girlfriend wants me to propose.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 6: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 6: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 5: All right, Steve, here we go.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 6: TJ on Steve BARBFM says, one of my girlfriend's friends
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 6: told me that my girlfriend is expecting me to propose soon.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 6: I don't know where that came from because it's not
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 6: something I've ever said or that we've discussed. It really
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 6: got me thinking about the relationship and where it's going. Honestly,
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 6: I love her and we've had a great time, but
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 6: I've never wanted to get married. Now that I know
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 6: that she really wants to get married. I'm wondering if
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 6: it's fair to appear to be stringing her along, but
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 6: I don't want to break up. What's the right way
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  Speaker 6: to handle this? I guess I should find out if
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 6: it's even true first, right.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it's true. I can tell you that right now.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: It's true. A lot of women want to be married
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: when they think they had the right guy. And you
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: do love this girl, and you really having a wonderful time,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: and she's thinking, man, this could be it. I hope
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: he asked me to marry him. Now, the fact that
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: you don't want to get married is a conversation you
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: need to have. But see now, if you want to
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: snow her, then keep acting like it's a consideration of yours,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: knowing full well you don't want to get married. I
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: think you should have a conversation with this young lady
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: in all fairness, and let me tell you something, young man.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are, but don't you
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: mess up and let a good one get away? And
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: then two years later you decide you want to get married,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: and now you got to go find another her and
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: it might not happen. Homie, what you get through because
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: a lot of them think that what about it? Why
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: she want to get married?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 7: Why why wouldn't she want to get married and have
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 7: it understands she wants to get married. Why is it
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 7: in your head that you think he's about to propose?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 7: But and y'all ain't even be causing at all.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: Because Tommy, when a woman is sitting in the room
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: by herself, her mind free to go wherever she want,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: this is what she won't And she.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 11: Told her girlfriend that. She told her girlfriend, Yeah, this,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 11: this is what.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: She ain't said. This is what I think he want
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: to do. I think I think he's gonna propose to me.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: So she'd have worked that up in her head and
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: she giddy about it. Tommy, the girlfriend that went to
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: hear and the girlfriend, what hell she get that from?
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 11: Exactly, that's exactly what he's saying.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 14: Steve, where does she get that from?
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 8: Say that.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 5: And tell me you're married? So I don't even know
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 5: why you're mad about this. All right, let's move on.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 5: We have time for another one.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: Steve.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 5: This is CEC on Steve Harvey FM.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 6: CEC says, I recently found out that my boyfriend has
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 6: a second phone while he was in the shower. His
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 6: phone was on the dresser. But then I heard ringing
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 6: coming from his pants on the floor. I pulled out
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 6: another Yeah, I pulled out another phone from his pants
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 6: with a missed call from an unknown number. At first
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 6: I convinced myself it was either someone else's phone or
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 6: maybe a work phone. So I didn't say anything. But
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 6: now my mind won't stop going to the worst place
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 6: that he's hiding a whole secret life.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 5: That was about three weeks ago. Should I say something
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 5: or is it too late?
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: She said, this is her boyfriend.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, her boyfriend has a second phone.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well he got two phones? What yeah?
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so she wants to know what's.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: Going on in LA and you work with me every morning.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: How many phones did I have?
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 5: Maybe three?
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: It was a lot. I had three phones back, yeah,
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: three three phones. Yeah, three phones. One was for business.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, one was for personal, and one was for
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: the wife.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 5: Wait wait wait, personal and the wife should be one.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 5: That should be one that should be white. Personally, yeah,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 5: personally and your wife should be the same.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: Phone, right, I'm not. She wasn't personal.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 6: She was my wife, okay. And the difference is because
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 6: you're not making any sense right now?
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: That makes sense? Your nerves with this lot of sense.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 5: Sorry, we gotta leave.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: This about to ask me nothing about happiness.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 11: I'm sorry.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 14: This on the table.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 6: We'll get more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
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  Speaker 6: up at twenty.
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 5: We'll bring it back then right after this. You're listening
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 5: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 6: All right, Steve, So before we went to break, you
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 6: were talking about you had two phones, okay three three phones,
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 6: I mean three. You had a business phone, a personal phone,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 6: and a phone for your wife. Okay, back in then,
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 6: so I'm thinking your personal phone and the phone for
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 6: your wife should just be one phone.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 5: Correct.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: That wife, I just said, she had her own phone,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: special white, special her phone.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 5: But personal though that I don't understand what makes this
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 5: make sense to me?
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 3: Please?
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: It is for friends, friends and bs. Your wife get
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: her own personal phone. Not that second off that was
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: you know, that was back in that second marriage was
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: a little rough and I had to find a way
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: to maintain and how to overcome what I was going through.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 5: But let me just say this, So when you were.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: On that business phone rarely ever wrong.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 6: Yeah, So your personal phone, when you're talking to your
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 6: friends and your.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: Wife called that thing was hot?
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 5: Can you just hang up with your friends and talk
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 5: to your wife?
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no no. That stayed
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: under the flow mat in the bounty, which the flow
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: mat with the personal phone stayed under the folk flow mat.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 5: Okay, so who's calling you on the personal phone?
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 14: Friends, Shirley, you're yelling, Steve, no friends?
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 5: All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 6: It's time now, guys, for a round of would you rather?
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 6: Would you rather detect every lie you hear? Or would
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 6: you rather get away with every lie you tell?
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 1: To this? Yeah, we know with my all my line
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: Scott's free.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 5: But people lie to you. That's okay too.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: Now I'm lying right back to you. Well all right, yeah.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: Plus plus I know when you line anywhere, I'm so
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: gone good at it was because because once you lie
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: to me, I in my mind, I go, oh we line.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 11: Now it's a two way street. You're happy.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 5: You want someone that's as good as you are at it.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: You can't out you can't. No, no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: surely I'm sixty eight. No that ain't gonnall. That ain't
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: gonna happen. That's not going to happen.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 5: I don't believe that, all right.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't believe what you don't believe. They can
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: outlie you.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 11: There is someone.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you can
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: out lie me. Okay, we're good. Yeah, I'm just gonna
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: know it. It's a whole lot of people can outlie
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: me because I don't lie all the time. Just enough.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 3: Just a lot.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 5: Don't get that the truth?
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 5: Would you rather?
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 6: Would you rather have your first child when you're nineteen
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 6: or when you're fifty.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: Well, all of my kids was a surprise anyway. So
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: you always say that I felt the same way at
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: twenty five and again at forty. So I ain't really.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 11: Take health health class.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: Playing parenthood.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 11: Health science in school.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: That took all that you know. I ain't every supply
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: I had.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: Guess the honey.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: I ain't doing it at fifty though, I'm sorry.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 5: Fifty okay, all right?
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: Would you got money? All right?
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 5: Would you rather be half your height or or double
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 5: your weight? Who wrote this?
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: I want to know?
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 9: Who?
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 5: Want me to keep going?
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 3: Yes? I did.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 11: I'm very proud of it.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: One more time, Shirley, double my weight. I waited for farting.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 5: Would you God either half or double your weight?
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Going down there? Did half my height? I'm god
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: dog three foot one? Then double this, wait and get
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: back to the gym.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 7: Though I know we get I can't be I'm not
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 7: gonna be that heavy. I can't i'ma be half my
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 7: hand can't be shut, you can show, can't be short.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna just tell you that I'm gonna be already.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 7: You already can't get nothing off top refrigerator.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know that's today. You ain't gonna be refrigerated
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: handled though you know that handle refrigerate. You don't love
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: your way, right, back, and you ain't gonna be a
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: get refrigerator today. And I can't get nothing but pot
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: because the food is up too hot. With the one
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: and only Steve Ford behalf.
• 1:24:40
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  Speaker 5: All right, guys, here we go, last break of the
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 5: day on this Thursday. It's been a fun day.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 6: We got to say happy twenty first anniversary to Carla
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 6: and Tash again the Pharaohs, Gerald, thank you.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 11: Yeah, twenty one years o shah yeah, yeah.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 6: A lot of love, my heart work, yeah, a lot
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 6: of heart work, love my husband, love my man.
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 11: Alright, those closing remarks.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: I had a question for you, Steve. Okay, okay, I'll
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: take it.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 11: What are the things that you think you should let
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 11: go of?
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, what are the things I think I would
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: let well? First of all, and this is gonna sign
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: sound kind of wide spread, but you've got to release worry.
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: Worry is a dangerous thing because it occupies time and
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: it robs you of the gift of the present. Worry
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: is a dangerous component because it robs you of the
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: gift of the present. If God allows you to have
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: today as a gift, and he wakes you up, it
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: allows you exist in it and this is yours and
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: He still has something for you. But you spend that
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: day worry about one of two things tomorrow or yesterday.
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: And I got news for you. You can't do You
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 1: cannot do anything about either one of those. Worry is
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: time consuming. Worry destroys the act of faith, which is
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: a requirement to have a really, really great relationship with God.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: God really just wants you to do simple things. Just
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: believe in him. God wants you to trust in him,
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: but you got to have a relationship with him. But
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: worry cancels out that relationship because it has you focused
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: on things you can't control. And it also puts you
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: in the position of you're not talking to God about this.
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: I can assure you, if you're worrying about something repeatedly,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: over and over and over, you haven't turned it over
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: to God. I know people say yes, Steve, but you
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: still got to think about stuff. I said worry. I
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: didn't say think. Anybody told you not to think. I
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: said worry. I would let go of worry because worry.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: Does you know how many times have you worried about
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: something tomorrow and when tomorrow got here it ain't or
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: nothing like that. I mean, zilch ah man oh man,
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: no man, I mean. And it can go both ways. Man.
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: I thought tomorrow when I woke up, I was gonna
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: get some great news, only to find out that celebration
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: need to be put on hold. Homie, you ain't got
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: no good news today. Or I was expecting some bad
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: news tomorrow and I was worrying about this bad news.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: And then when I showed up, God and worked it
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: completely out another way and it was over with. So
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 1: guess what I did. I wasted my yesterday I ruined
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: my moment of present peace worrying about something I had
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: no control over. I would get rid of worry. The
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: other thing I would get rid of I would get
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: rid of people who bring me nothing but bad news.
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: Life is already difficult. The last thing you need is
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 1: somebody had every time you see them, something wrong, something
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: going on. Did you see what they said about you
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: on the internet? Man, did you read this? It's this true.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know how you do it. I was at
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: the barber shop and they was just talking about you.
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: I be just sitting there, hey hey, hey man, hey,
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: hey hey stop stop stop stop bringing that to me,
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 1: because guess what I'm having another day of perfect peace,
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 1: and now here you come with that. Take people out
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: your life that are not praying for you, pulling for you,
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: cheering for you, and helping you. If you are the
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: one that's always has to do something for them, you
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 1: are being used and manipulated and you don't need that.
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: The other thing I would get rid of is the
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: fear of saying no. It's okay to say no. Man.
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: Stop wondering what people gonna think about you if you
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: say no. Let me tell you what say no? Yes,
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: they gonna feel what they want to feel about you
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: anyway you can give it to them, and they talk
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: about you.
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 3: You know what.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: I many times you've helped somebody and then later on
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: they forgot you help them, and you hear them talking
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 1: about you somewhere. Man, lose your fear of saying no, no, man,
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 1: I can't do that. I just got a text this morning.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm in town. Man, I got this going on,
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 1: that going on. I need about ten minutes of your time.
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: I say, I ain't got it, man, I'm busy. You
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: ain't got ten minutes. No, no, no, not for you.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: I don't not for you, because I know the ten
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 1: minutes is gonna break my peace. You not my child.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 1: If my child need ten minutes, I have an obligation
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 1: to them. I still feel obligated to my children, even
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 1: though the youngest one is twenty eight. If they say, Dad,
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 1: I need to talk to you, I'm finna give them
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: some time. But other than that, man, lose your fear
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: of saying no, no, it's good man. Protect your peace,
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: protect your happiness, protect your space, get away from those people.
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 1: So those are the things I would lose my fear, worry.
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 1: I would lose my fear of people. I would lose
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 1: people around me who bring me no good, and I
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: would lose my fear of saying no, no, no thank you.
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, put thank you with it,
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 1: Hey man, can you loan me five hundred dollars?
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 4: No?
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: Thank you? No, no, thank you.
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 4: No.
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: It affects them differently. Try it. Try it today. Somebody
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: gonna ask you for some money, Just say no, thank you.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 1: Y'all have a great day today, and remember everybody talk
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: to God today. He would absolutely love to hear from you.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, have a good will see all. God's
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: will will see y'all.
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