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FULL SHOW: Family Drama, Big Ticket Purchases, Strawberry Letter - Fight Or Flight - 08.05.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all at all at all. So given them.
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  Speaker 2: Back a million bus bus things and Booze has.
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  Speaker 3: Ye listening to me to show I want joy.
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  Speaker 4: Joy?
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  Speaker 5: Great?
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  Speaker 6: You don't you.
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  Speaker 7: Love you?
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  Speaker 1: You ogelone.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta turn well, got to turn the mouth, turn
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  Speaker 2: my probably got to turn the mouth, the turn out, turn.
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  Speaker 1: The money, looking me, come me come out. You think that?
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  Speaker 8: Uh huh, I shure, well a good morning everybody. You're
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  Speaker 8: listening to the voice. Come on digny now, one and
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  Speaker 8: only Steve Harley got a radio show. I want to
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  Speaker 8: share something with you this moment.
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  Speaker 7: In order for God to bless you, you have to
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  Speaker 7: you have to have something you know and and and
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  Speaker 7: that means I guess, I guess what I'm saying is
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  Speaker 7: God can only bless you by your faith and your effort.
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  Speaker 7: It's the only way He can bless you by your
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  Speaker 7: faith and your effort. Now, because of his grace, he
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  Speaker 7: gives us so many things that we don't even we
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  Speaker 7: don't ask for, we don't thank him for, you know,
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  Speaker 7: we don't even have on the list.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 7: Oftentimes, you know, many of us have health, we never
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  Speaker 7: thank him for We get another opportunity to wake up
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  Speaker 7: the next day, we never thank him for it. We
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  Speaker 7: take so many all things because of his grace, we
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  Speaker 7: just take for granted, like it's just supposed to pop
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  Speaker 7: off for us, just like that. Okay, including that, what
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  Speaker 7: all this wonderful things he does us? And he blesses
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  Speaker 7: us even far beyond our wildest dreams. I'm talking by
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  Speaker 7: myself now us and a lot of you listening, without
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  Speaker 7: us confiding or conferring in him. He still watches over us,
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  Speaker 7: watches over us. I'm talking to all of us. Here
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  Speaker 7: is what you get blessed on through your faith and
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  Speaker 7: your efforts. I mean, he really gives you, give him
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  Speaker 7: something to work with. This what I'm saying, He's gonna
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  Speaker 7: do certain things for us automatically because he just loves us.
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  Speaker 7: He automatically does things for us that we take so
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  Speaker 7: for granted that a lot of people are not experiencing because.
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  Speaker 1: Their time is up or whatever. I don't know the.
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  Speaker 7: Reason, but whatever the case, but he does so many
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  Speaker 7: things for us automatic. Imagine what could happen to you
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  Speaker 7: if you just gave him a little bit to work with.
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  Speaker 7: Ever thought about that suppose this idea that's been burning
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  Speaker 7: on the inside of you, suppose you just started it
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  Speaker 7: today and don't wait to start an idea so you
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  Speaker 7: can figure it all the way through, because you'll never
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  Speaker 7: get started.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 7: It cripples so many people because they think of how
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  Speaker 7: to start their business. Then they look all the way
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  Speaker 7: down the road and the loans they gonna need, and
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  Speaker 7: they don't know nobody, and they care they bad, and
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  Speaker 7: so they stopped.
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  Speaker 1: They never started.
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  Speaker 7: What would happen had you ever thought if you just
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  Speaker 7: started do the part of the business that you could do,
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  Speaker 7: and ask God to lead you and guide you to
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  Speaker 7: the next step, that that thing called faith, the belief
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  Speaker 7: in things that you cannot see. Suppose you just started
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  Speaker 7: out on faith, You just stepped out the water, stepped
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  Speaker 7: out the boat and stood on the water, just on faith,
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  Speaker 7: seeing that as well, but just believing that He would
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  Speaker 7: take care of you, just believing that He would get
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  Speaker 7: you through through, just believing that He would lead you
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  Speaker 7: to the next step.
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  Speaker 1: Start.
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  Speaker 7: If you just started now, you would then give God
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  Speaker 7: something to put his finger on and to bless. People
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  Speaker 7: say to me, all the time, man, man Steve, it
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  Speaker 7: seemed like everything you do work.
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  Speaker 1: Man, do you know what it is?
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  Speaker 8: Really?
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  Speaker 1: I just lose the fear of failing and I start
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to do all of this.
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  Speaker 7: Come on, man, if I could have told you ten
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  Speaker 7: years ago or there's no way I could have told you,
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  Speaker 7: I'd be why i'm today.
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  Speaker 1: But if anyone had come to me and.
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  Speaker 7: Said, Steve, in ten years you will be doing this, that, this,
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  Speaker 7: that and the other, they will recognize you here. You
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  Speaker 7: will get this recognizable recognition, you'll get this award, and
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  Speaker 7: you'll be living like this.
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  Speaker 1: I'd have just looked at them like they was crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I really would have.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 7: It's not that I didn't have the faith. It's just
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  Speaker 7: that in my imagination I didn't see it. I've always
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  Speaker 7: believed in God, I just didn't see things for myself. See,
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  Speaker 7: I didn't open myself up to what God had for me.
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  Speaker 7: I was just living my life based on what I
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  Speaker 7: could see for me. When I stopped worried about what
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  Speaker 7: I could see for me and started allowing God to
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  Speaker 7: do what he could do for me, it changed my
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  Speaker 7: whole existence because I found out that God's plan was
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  Speaker 7: way better than mine. But you got to start something.
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  Speaker 7: You got to give God something to put his finger
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  Speaker 7: on that might's touched where it turned into something. You
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  Speaker 7: got to let your imagination go. You got to let
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  Speaker 7: your imagination fly as wild as it can fly without
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  Speaker 7: being constricted by the confines of where you live and
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  Speaker 7: what color you are, and what sex you are, and
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  Speaker 7: how much money you make and what your degree say.
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  Speaker 7: You got to let your imagination fly beyond that. You
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  Speaker 7: got to go for it. You got to step out
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  Speaker 7: on faith and you got to go for it. Oh
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  Speaker 7: and did I mention you got to pray? Don't want
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  Speaker 7: to lead that out? Then you got to seek understanding. Man,
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  Speaker 7: read Proverbs. Proverbs is a great book to start with out.
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  Speaker 7: You know, I guess other people got other worse I'm
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  Speaker 7: just telling you about me. Man, this is probably some
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  Speaker 7: better places to start.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: Proverbs was to start for me, the book of wisdom
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  Speaker 7: and understanding that helped develop my thought process, which helped
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  Speaker 7: me become fairly successful. Proverbs teaches you everything you need
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  Speaker 7: to know. And if you can't read the King James version,
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  Speaker 7: get you one of them translated Bibles. What difference it
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  Speaker 7: makes long as you hear what he's saying to you. Oh,
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  Speaker 7: and did I mention? Don't forget to pray and then
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  Speaker 7: take the idea, the business, the journey you want to
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  Speaker 7: embark on and break it down inch by inch anythings
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  Speaker 7: and sich just start with the peace that you can do.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you don't know how you go get the loan?
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  Speaker 1: When it's time for the loan? What part can you?
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  Speaker 1: Can you design the business card?
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  Speaker 3: Can you?
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  Speaker 7: Can you make a YouTube video and post it? Can
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  Speaker 7: you start telling people that you're associated with this is
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  Speaker 7: what you do now? You could start somewhere. You can
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  Speaker 7: get a gig somewhere doing something. Somebody will pay you
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  Speaker 7: for the service right now, and then simplify it, take
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  Speaker 7: it and break it down to the lowest common denominator.
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  Speaker 1: Qut trying to figure it all out? Simplify it? What
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  Speaker 1: can I do now? I can't figure this out. It's
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  Speaker 1: too complex, it's too difficult, there's too many levels. Quit
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  Speaker 1: tripping on that.
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  Speaker 7: Do the part you can do, but start, man, Just
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  Speaker 7: get started today. Stop delaying it. Every time you put
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  Speaker 7: it off, you seen further away from it, don't you.
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  Speaker 7: Why won't you start? Let your imagination go open it up?
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  Speaker 7: You know, if you can't imagine, God show can Einstein
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  Speaker 7: said it one time, he said that imagination is everything.
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  Speaker 7: It's the preview to life's coming attractions. Is that crazy?
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  Speaker 7: Is that crazy? Do you know that everything we do
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  Speaker 7: somebody imagined it? But do you know when they imagine
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  Speaker 7: if somebody laughed at them? Man, I'm gonna make a
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  Speaker 7: car that you can sit on it and will automatically drive,
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  Speaker 7: and the wheels a roll. Who gonna do that? Okay,
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  Speaker 7: here we go. We all ride in cars. Man, I'm
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  Speaker 7: gonna fly. I'm gonna make something that will take people
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  Speaker 7: far away in the air. People board flights every day.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 7: Somebody sat up there and looked at that moon and said, man,
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  Speaker 7: one day, I'm going to the moon. He talking about
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  Speaker 7: going to the moon. They take people to the moon
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  Speaker 7: all the time. Imagination is everything. It's the preview to
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  Speaker 7: life's coming attractions. Or are you imagining for yourself? What
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  Speaker 7: do you see coming? What's your coming attractions? I'm so
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  Speaker 7: grateful I change mine. Oh I see being because I
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  Speaker 7: see God. Come on, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: And gentlemen, we're back again. All thanks to God Almighty.
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  Speaker 7: Just to be back again, that deserves a rondem applause
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  Speaker 7: for God Almighty.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, man, how good is God?
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  Speaker 9: Really?
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  Speaker 1: Really? A amazing Thank you, Dave Roda applause. That's for God, everybody.
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  Speaker 7: Steve Harby Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry is off today, Carlin
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  Speaker 7: Farrell Mississippi Monica Junior is off today, and the legend
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  Speaker 7: that is nephew Tommy.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Shirley's off, best voice.
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  Speaker 7: In all the radio is gone. Junior is off today also,
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  Speaker 7: and so now we're here. Normally I would say, Junior,
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  Speaker 7: what's on your mind today? But Lord, man, I ain't
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  Speaker 7: asking him that today, because Lord, that would be that
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  Speaker 7: would be down a pathway, slipping into.
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  Speaker 3: Dog may.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway out today? Man? Old school had a song for everything. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: wha slipping into darkness? That was war?
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  Speaker 10: Yes, yes, what if your nephew have?
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  Speaker 1: Don't just say if your nephews well, okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 9: Question.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Tommy, you got anything on your mind today?
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  Speaker 9: I do.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't it ain't gonna hurt you.
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  Speaker 11: You know, family, family and and and families as falling out,
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  Speaker 11: don't get in it, don't get back together. The tension
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  Speaker 11: that that it, that it creates whenever we do come
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  Speaker 11: around each other. How do you handle family fall outs man,
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  Speaker 11: How do you fix them?
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  Speaker 3: Do you do?
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  Speaker 1: You do?
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  Speaker 6: You do?
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  Speaker 11: You jump in and try to fix it, because now
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  Speaker 11: it's gotten to the point where we got we got
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  Speaker 11: let's just say we got we got some relatives, my
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  Speaker 11: wife got some relatives. Ain't spoke in six months, and
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  Speaker 11: it's it's getting stronger and stronger and strong.
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  Speaker 1: Don't have them at your house. That's your advice.
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  Speaker 7: Tell you right now, do not have them at your house, okay,
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  Speaker 7: and and and tell me why, because you can't put
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  Speaker 7: him out. It's hard to put people out. There's arguing,
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  Speaker 7: you know, because it's if the women in there they
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  Speaker 7: trying to fix it all this he is, So don't
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  Speaker 7: have them at your house.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 7: What you could do is separate them, invite the better
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  Speaker 7: half of the family that's involved in the dispute, so
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  Speaker 7: you could try to uh narrate and negotiate what do
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  Speaker 7: they call it?
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  Speaker 1: Mediate?
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  Speaker 7: But you don't want to have them both there and
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  Speaker 7: and they know they both coming, or they don't know
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  Speaker 7: one of them is coming.
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  Speaker 1: That's not what you need. So just have one side
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  Speaker 1: of the family come.
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  Speaker 7: That's the cooler side and the one that you all
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  Speaker 7: have decided that has the right way, because most.
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  Speaker 1: Families know who's the right way. Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, So you know they wrong for that because once
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  Speaker 7: I'm gona tell you something, Man, when people get together
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  Speaker 7: and they will create a narrative amongst themselves that makes
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  Speaker 7: themselves one hundred correct yep, because they ain't talking to
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  Speaker 7: nobody but their self, yep.
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  Speaker 10: Dropping that knowledge.
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  Speaker 3: Family beef early this morning, Okay, coming up at thirty
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  Speaker 3: two minutes after the hour, the nephew is back.
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  Speaker 1: He's gonna run that prank back right after that. Ye
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  Speaker 1: you're listening, Hardy Morning Show.
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  Speaker 11: On August sixth, getting ready to laugh all the way
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  Speaker 1: Some Now to run that prank back?
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  Speaker 10: What your got nephew.
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  Speaker 11: We down there with them. Praise dancer. Y'all, y'all get
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  Speaker 11: on one accord. Okay, I just can't take me.
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  Speaker 1: They are one accord at church. I think it's a limit.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a limit caller. We'll praise.
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  Speaker 11: I think praise dancing man about thirty. I think we
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  Speaker 11: are the you know, an age limit to praise. Yeah,
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  Speaker 11: you need to find a new ministry after you just
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  Speaker 11: you can't. You know, it's a limit on praise. Then
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  Speaker 11: after thirty say okay, I'm gonna give you thirty five
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  Speaker 11: after that. But when I see a fart of some
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  Speaker 11: of your old praise dances, it's that's yeah.
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  Speaker 10: Y'all tell people what age to be the serve on
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  Speaker 10: the ministry you got.
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  Speaker 1: At some point you have to move on to the
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  Speaker 1: usher bowl. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 9: You have to.
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  Speaker 1: And await limit and praise dancers. Let's go cat don.
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  Speaker 6: Hello, this is the day that the Lord has made.
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  Speaker 6: Let us rejoice and be glad. And how you doing?
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  Speaker 6: I'm looking for uh Stania?
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  Speaker 9: This is Tania.
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  Speaker 6: This is brother Puller from the church.
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  Speaker 9: How are you?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm with my brother, so how are you?
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  Speaker 6: I'm good I'm good. We wanted to give you a
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  Speaker 6: call about the about the praise dancing that's at the church.
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  Speaker 6: First of all, I wanted to really show you how
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  Speaker 6: much you're doing a great job over there with the
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  Speaker 6: praise dancers and you you definitely do a great job
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  Speaker 6: on happy third, tell you that you guys actually perform.
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  Speaker 6: Everybody seemed to really like it.
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  Speaker 5: Well, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 6: What can I do for you today? There is a
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  Speaker 6: bit of a situation with you know, it's been brought
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  Speaker 6: to our attention. We actually had a small gathering, a
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  Speaker 6: little meeting about it and wanted to I've been elected
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  Speaker 6: to actually give you a call. Who I'm sorry, who
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  Speaker 6: are you kids? Brother Puller, uh huh and and who
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  Speaker 6: had a meeting uh some of the brothers at the
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  Speaker 6: church and uh path to actually sat in for a
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  Speaker 6: moment on it. And I was actually elected to actually
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  Speaker 6: just give you a call. Nothing that I don't think
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  Speaker 6: we can't get rectified and and you know, move on
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  Speaker 6: smoothly as.
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  Speaker 9: We normally do.
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  Speaker 6: But I just think it's we wanted to reach out
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  Speaker 6: to you and kind of make you aware of it.
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  Speaker 6: If it's if you don't mind, okay, and what things
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  Speaker 6: are those well, sis Antonia? Has any of the praise
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  Speaker 6: dancers before they became praise dancers?
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  Speaker 9: Was? Was?
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  Speaker 6: Was any of them strippers?
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  Speaker 9: I beg your pardon?
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  Speaker 6: Was any of the praise dancers that at the church
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  Speaker 6: that you have on the praise team right now? Was
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  Speaker 6: any of them strippers in the past?
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who
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  Speaker 4: you are, and I don't really understand this line of questions.
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  Speaker 6: Like I said, I'm brother full I don't think we've met.
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  Speaker 6: But uh, like I said, I've been elected to give
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  Speaker 6: you a call.
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  Speaker 7: Not now.
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  Speaker 6: It seems what happened is this past week when you
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  Speaker 6: all actually danced, it seemed like a couple of the
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  Speaker 6: girls was actually GI raiding during the praise routine.
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  Speaker 4: Say what girating, brother Phillip. I don't know who you are,
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  Speaker 4: and I don't know what you saw. None of my
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  Speaker 4: girls with GI rating, they would.
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  Speaker 5: Dancing for the Lord.
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  Speaker 4: And I think if you look through your lord's eye,
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  Speaker 4: perhaps you would see them better instead of maybe you
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  Speaker 4: were looking through the GI rating eye. No, see a
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  Speaker 4: couple of the girl we.
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  Speaker 6: Can pull them out. A couple of them half stript
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  Speaker 6: girl tendencies up and then because some of them have been.
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  Speaker 4: Trimp girl's tendencies. You know what, sir, I think we
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  Speaker 4: need to complete this call. Perhaps I need to call
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  Speaker 4: Bishop and speak to him myself, because you know, I
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  Speaker 4: don't know what you do all day, but I have
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  Speaker 4: a real job, and I'm sitting here holding a conversation
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  Speaker 4: in my office about Ji rating strippers in the church.
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  Speaker 6: Are you kidding me? Well, listen, now here's a couple
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  Speaker 6: of other things that they're talking about. Some of the
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  Speaker 6: girls seat or real ask you when you all are
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  Speaker 6: performing and they wanted to see it. Maybe you can,
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  Speaker 6: you can.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe I don't know if y'all need to grip or
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  Speaker 6: whatever that y'all don't. Y'all don't put lotion on. We're
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  Speaker 6: not sure what that is. As well as the totnail pology,
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  Speaker 6: everybody has three, four, five different designs and everything is it? Anyway,
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  Speaker 6: y'all can be in unison with your totnail pology. But
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  Speaker 6: the most important thing hell the jib rating doing the
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  Speaker 6: dance routine. I don't know what your feet look like.
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  Speaker 4: I don't need you calling me talking to me about
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  Speaker 4: my girls their feet, their nail pology. Perhaps your man
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: should be on Jesus instead of on them.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: How about that?
• 18:32
  Speaker 6: Mind, I don't have time.
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: I don't have time.
• 18:34
  Speaker 6: I want to be on Jesus when somebody's shaking their
• 18:37
  Speaker 6: butt at the church. Now that's the problem.
• 18:40
  Speaker 9: You know what.
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: Look, I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: work tone.
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: You're gonna make me hurse up here and let me.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: Tell you something.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: Don't call me anymore.
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: I will deal with pastor.
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: If he has something to say with me, he can
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: say it to me personally. But I'm done with this conversation.
• 18:52
  Speaker 6: Are you gonna deal with the JI rating? Is what
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: we want to know?
• 18:56
  Speaker 9: Maybe you know what?
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: It just hit me.
• 18:59
  Speaker 6: Maybe you want of the ones that's doing the grub rate.
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  Speaker 4: Look, let me tell you something. My girls ain't doing
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: no jot rating.
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: And neither am I.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Now I am done with this conversation.
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: Do you understand you? But listen, I'm done? Are you
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: done with this? All?
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 19:10
  Speaker 9: Rating?
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: That's what we want to stop so we can We
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: can't praise the Lord if the booty is to shake.
• 19:16
  Speaker 9: You know what?
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: Shirt, Look, I gotta go to work.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: I gotta go now again. I don't know what your
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: issue is. It sounds to me like you have an
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: issue with gut rating booties. I heard so much joy
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: rating booties on one conversation in my entire life. Now
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: my mind is set on Jesus. I don't know what
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: your mind is set on.
• 19:32
  Speaker 6: What's to tell you? Before you was the praise dance
• 19:35
  Speaker 6: a ministry over the ministry? Did you ever used to strip?
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: Y'all didn't do no stripping? Now did you want to
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: do any stripping? Did your mamma do any stripping? You
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: heard what I said? How are you asking to somebody call?
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: You would ask you if your mamma did some stripping?
• 19:50
  Speaker 9: How you like that?
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: You know what I want to know? When is the
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: next rehearsal? Then the way I can come and pick
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: out who it is that's doing this time?
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: You don't You don't have any visits at my rehearsal.
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: I want to see you at my rehearsal. I don't
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: want to.
• 20:02
  Speaker 6: I don't want to see any plight.
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: For you in my arse.
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: If I say, you never one of my girls. That's
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me?
• 20:07
  Speaker 6: You need to find out who's doing that job? I
• 20:09
  Speaker 6: don't know a thing you need to tell your buddy, y'all,
• 20:13
  Speaker 6: And I'm glad y'all. Ain't dancing when the lat is
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: being pains because I ain't no telling her you act
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: with them? One is coming through that you know what.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: That's it.
• 20:20
  Speaker 6: You call me disrespecting me. I met what. I can't
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: even have this more? You know what? Don't call me
• 20:25
  Speaker 6: no more? Still look at my girls no more? Man,
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: fast come down to church and see what I got
• 20:28
  Speaker 6: for it. I don't want to know if you gonna
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: stop the job rating it moving? Who ain't you talking
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: to like that? You're supposed to be a good Yeah,
• 20:40
  Speaker 6: let's have done. Listen and tell you now.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: I'm getting ready to joubt.
• 20:43
  Speaker 6: Well, I got one more pain to say to you.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: Ford you lead. You ain't got a thing to say
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: to me. I said I was dealing, and I said
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: I got one more pain to say?
• 20:50
  Speaker 9: Is you listen?
• 20:50
  Speaker 6: You know what? Man, get off my phone, and I'm
• 20:52
  Speaker 6: gonna say it anyway. This is nephew Tommy from the
• 20:56
  Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire praise and in the
• 21:00
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• 21:04
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• 21:09
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• 21:14
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• 21:27
  Speaker 10: All right, coming up next? We got asked the CLO
• 21:29
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• 21:30
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• 21:36
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• 22:05
  Speaker 3: In Entertainment News, stephen A. Smith responds to criticism for
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: my former first Lady Michelle Obama.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, stephen A Man, just let that go.
• 22:17
  Speaker 6: Blah.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: My goodness, something. It wasn't nothing.
• 22:23
  Speaker 10: We'll talk about it at the top of the hour.
• 22:25
  Speaker 10: Steve heard about it.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Check this out.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: A glitter sock worn by Michael Jackson sells for nine
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: thousand dollars at a French auction.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: We'll tell you about that.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: In Sad News out of Hollywood, actress Lannie Anderson has
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: passed away.
• 22:40
  Speaker 10: So we'll talk about these stories at the top.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: But right now it's time to ask the clo You ready, Steve,
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: see ready, all right, here we go Trinity in Lake Charles.
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  Speaker 3: She says, I'm moving in with my older sister and
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: she hates my boyfriend. I don't say anything about who
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: she dates, but as the big sister, she judges everything
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I do. I am thirty one years old. So should
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: I have to sneak around her or should I stand
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: up to her?
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Well, you ain't got to do either one. But let
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: me tell you what. He can't come over there though
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: her house, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 7: You ain't got to sneak around, but he can't come
• 23:21
  Speaker 7: over there, and you can't expect her to allow him
• 23:24
  Speaker 7: in the house.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: If you know she don't like her.
• 23:27
  Speaker 7: You can't bring him to her house. That's rule number one.
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: Now you ain't got to sneak around. Because you're thirty one.
• 23:35
  Speaker 7: You can openly date the guy. But hopefully he got
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: a house, cause he can't come over there. When he
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: come to pick you up, he can call you and
• 23:44
  Speaker 7: let you know he outside. He can come and meet
• 23:46
  Speaker 7: you at the door and walk you to the car
• 23:47
  Speaker 7: and open your car door and put you in and
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: shut the door and drive off. And when you get
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: back from the date, he can get out the car,
• 23:55
  Speaker 7: open your door, walk you back up to the house.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: He can't come in. Big sisters not like him. No, No,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: that's how I don't let nobody in my house. I
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: don't like no bad all. I don't care who you are.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: All right, all right, moving on to there you go, Trinity,
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Moving on to Melissa and Jacksonville dou ball.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: All yup.
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  Speaker 3: My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: her uncomfortable. She's almost sixty, so I doubt my husband
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: came on to her. He laughed and denied it. Should
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: I take her seriously?
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: She foined them. That's all. That's a fine sixty dough
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: let me tell you that right now.
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: She shut up something.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: It a ma'am, and she's smart. I know a rithmetic that's.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: What he laughed at off and deny it and deny it.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: This is what Melissa and Jacksonville said.
• 25:05
  Speaker 7: Well what he got to deny it? That that's obvious.
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: But right what is it that the woman is saying?
• 25:12
  Speaker 7: She made the feel is he staring at her?
• 25:16
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 25:16
  Speaker 10: No specific in this from Melissa.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: her uncomfortable.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: She didn't say what exactly he is doing. Well, well,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: she not coming to the house no more.
• 25:31
  Speaker 7: Now if you're not gonna find out what's making her uncomfortable,
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: then your question was should I take her seriously? Well, yeah,
• 25:40
  Speaker 7: you have to take her seriously because we're in a
• 25:44
  Speaker 7: culture now where anything can turn into a lawsuit, So
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: you have to take her seriously. But I think to
• 25:51
  Speaker 7: keep your family together and to keep everybody safe, just
• 25:55
  Speaker 7: get another tutor. Yeah, yeah, because if the woman is lying,
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: you don't need up around your family no more. And
• 26:02
  Speaker 7: if she telling the truth, yeah, you don't need up
• 26:06
  Speaker 7: around the family no more.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: So the boy gonna flunk for a minute. Basic, Yeah,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: he'd be all right, though, I got a lot of else,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I got a lot of made look at you now? Yeah?
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Everything where about? Else said? He gives them else he coupled.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: How old is the boy here? A tutor?
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Well he needs a tutor? Yeah, you know, so, hey,
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: he'd be all right. Maybe you find another place to tutor, like,
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know, library or.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Something like that. Anyway, moving on Rico and Trenton, New
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: jer Zy.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: My wife and I heard our fourteen year old daughter
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: on the phone cursing out a boy that rubbed her
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: butt at school. I think my daughter gets a pass
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: for how she handles the situation, but my wife wants
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: to punish her.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Should she be punished or praised? Punish her?
• 27:02
  Speaker 7: Hey, tell me who the little boy is, right, so
• 27:08
  Speaker 7: I can go up to the school and talk to
• 27:11
  Speaker 7: his daddy. Yeah, see, that's all that is. You know
• 27:16
  Speaker 7: what you want to punish her for? Cause let me
• 27:20
  Speaker 7: tell you something your kids is cussing when you ain't around.
• 27:23
  Speaker 7: Is was at mcgradson's basketball game. Uh huh uh BJ
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: a couple of weeks ago. Oh, by the way, they
• 27:30
  Speaker 7: won the championship, UDJ and the team job and they
• 27:36
  Speaker 7: get they get rings when they wear win ring. Everybody
• 27:39
  Speaker 7: get a ring and a trophy. And the rings are heavy.
• 27:42
  Speaker 7: They look like NBA rings, you know they have they
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: fake diamonds, of course, but they real heavy. They got
• 27:48
  Speaker 7: weight on them like a real wing. I was going
• 27:51
  Speaker 7: and here in third grade we won the elementary school championship.
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: When I was in sixth grade, I got a patch.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Anyway back to iron on patch.
• 28:06
  Speaker 7: So anyway, that's in the seventies. Dog dogs that was
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: in his sixties. Seventies.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Come on, help Rico. Should they punish the girl or no?
• 28:20
  Speaker 7: I don't think you should punish the girl. But I
• 28:22
  Speaker 7: think you all need to realize your kids are talking
• 28:24
  Speaker 7: a little bit different. I had his basketball team down
• 28:28
  Speaker 7: at the ranch for his birthday, and boy, I drove
• 28:31
  Speaker 7: up and they didn't know I was there. Boy, they
• 28:35
  Speaker 7: was out there letting him fly ifew little And you
• 28:40
  Speaker 7: don't know nothing.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: All be sent up.
• 28:42
  Speaker 7: You run around right here, And why you can't dribble
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: h you sent up in there? Tell me you better
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: get out of my l faith. You don't know who
• 28:49
  Speaker 7: you mess with. You're about to beat something up in here,
• 28:51
  Speaker 7: I'm going all right. I was impressed. I was, you
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: will be you know, you know you're not walked in
• 28:57
  Speaker 7: and tried to be his grandparent.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Hey watch your language. Language.
• 29:04
  Speaker 7: But then as soon as I got their attention, I said, nah,
• 29:06
  Speaker 7: good all you little molse get over there on.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: That other side.
• 29:11
  Speaker 7: Stupid, you're all out here. Oh my god, my daughter,
• 29:17
  Speaker 7: Hey man, my daughter, Carly said, she.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Said, Dad, so embarrassed. Daddy? All right, So rego and Trenton.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: You know, y'all shouldn't punish the girl, all right, moving
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: the girl. She probably caught it like her mama, cuss, mama,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: do it?
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: Uh? All right, let's move on. Last one, Kelvin and Philly.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: I kept my kids this past weekend, and my ex
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: wife went to Ohio with her new husband for his
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: ten year old daughter's birthday party. My kids are eight
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: and eleven, and they're wondering why they weren't invited. Is
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: it my place to talk to my ex wife about this? No,
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: the ex he kept his kids.
• 29:56
  Speaker 7: And then you know, yeah, yeah they may not. Y'all
• 30:00
  Speaker 7: them to them kids may not get in there. Y'all
• 30:02
  Speaker 7: ain't a blended.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Family, So you don't think he should talk about.
• 30:07
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you're not a blended family. If what of
• 30:09
  Speaker 7: y'all would have to be date have to be living together?
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: This doesn't matter. You ain't going to the parky Okay, never,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: you ain't going to the war next year?
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Okay, coming up talking to y'all. Entertainment's gold, that's gold.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: Look you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. So according to
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Yahoo dot com, stephen A. Smith has clapped back at
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: former First Lady Out Forever First Lady Michelle Obama after
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: she mentioned him on her podcast last week. She said,
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: in part quote, if I listened to ESPN for an hour,
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: it's like watching the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
• 30:52
  Speaker 10: You know, it's the same drama. They're yelling at each other.
• 30:56
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 30:57
  Speaker 10: She went on about that. So then stephen A. Meth responded,
• 31:01
  Speaker 10: take a listen to his response in.
• 31:03
  Speaker 12: Part, I adore and love practically everything about you and
• 31:08
  Speaker 12: who you are and what you represent, what you mean
• 31:10
  Speaker 12: to this country, what you mean that so many young
• 31:13
  Speaker 12: ladies in this world. What an incredibly motivational and inspirational
• 31:18
  Speaker 12: figure you are. And I feel even more adamant about
• 31:22
  Speaker 12: what your husband, Barack Obama said when he talked to
• 31:25
  Speaker 12: those men in Pittsburgh and implied that to not vote
• 31:29
  Speaker 12: for Kamala is because we're engaging in some sort of misogyny.
• 31:34
  Speaker 12: There are issues that matter to every American citizen, and
• 31:37
  Speaker 12: it sort of blackmail us emotionally into trying to compel
• 31:41
  Speaker 12: us to vote one way or another.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: It's part of what won Trump the election.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: So that was part of stephen A's response. It was lengthy,
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: but that was part of it. So what do you
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: guys think?
• 31:53
  Speaker 10: I just I don't know.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think.
• 31:56
  Speaker 11: I don't think everything needs to have a response to it.
• 31:59
  Speaker 11: I don't think you are always got to say something.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: He could have just let that go, yeah, because it
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: wasn't nothing.
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: Everything don't but but his I don't know, he must
• 32:07
  Speaker 7: add some something else to say because that wasn't connected
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: to what she said at all at all.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: Well he and he said he respectfully disagreed with I
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: guess her opinion about the show first take, or.
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: Well, you can't disagree with the person's opinion. Listen to me, man,
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: My wife don't like the show.
• 32:28
  Speaker 10: She don't like all that Holland Yeah, it's a lot
• 32:30
  Speaker 10: of Holland on.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: She don't like all that Holland it's like Michelle Obama
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: is correct, it's a lot of yelling.
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: Brouh and it's a lot of women go why he's
• 32:39
  Speaker 7: so angry, Why his rains in his forehead? Why it's
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: just sports about sports? Yeah, you ain't in there interview
• 32:47
  Speaker 7: in Laziskian hoton. So you know, sometimes man, you you
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: just don't have to comment on everything. Yeah, how much
• 32:57
  Speaker 7: you love her and respect her? And what Barack Obama
• 32:59
  Speaker 7: did with the men in Pennsylvania and how what that
• 33:02
  Speaker 7: got to a All she said was watching Sports Center sometimes,
• 33:09
  Speaker 7: like watching the Real Housewives of Atleanta.
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: It's just drama and yelling, right, And she did say
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Stephen A Smith. She did mention his name.
• 33:18
  Speaker 7: Well, that's who be hollering. She ain't wrong, she is
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: not dog. Sometime I don't call my boy because I
• 33:27
  Speaker 7: don't feel like that. Sometime we be talking, i'd be gonna, hey, man,
• 33:30
  Speaker 7: bag it down a little bit. I've done first take.
• 33:33
  Speaker 7: And you know what I said that Stephen At one
• 33:36
  Speaker 7: time he was just talking. I said, hey man, hey,
• 33:42
  Speaker 7: this first take, this ain't just your take, right, Remember that.
• 33:46
  Speaker 7: I remember that I said that to him. Man, you
• 33:48
  Speaker 7: just be talking like you just the voice of it.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So he felt the need to respond
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: to that. I just I'm with you, guys, you could
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: have left that alone.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: That was that big of it.
• 34:01
  Speaker 7: Just relax you acting like Trump now upset? He comment
• 34:07
  Speaker 7: on everything.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Yes he does. Yes'.
• 34:11
  Speaker 7: He mad at Bruce Springsteen. He's a low talent guy.
• 34:14
  Speaker 7: Bruce Springsteen.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Bruce Springsteen, he met dogs, one of the biggest, the Boss,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: the Boss.
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: He's the.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Bro, he said, low talent guy. I went, wow, the
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Boss Bruce Springsteen. Wow.
• 34:34
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 34:35
  Speaker 10: He's also mad at our radio brother, Charlemagne.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: He went in on him.
• 34:39
  Speaker 10: So all right, let's switch gears and other entertainment news.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: A glittered rhinestone sock that Michael Jackson ward during his
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: performance of Billy Jean back in nineteen ninety seven recently
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: sold for about eighty nine hundred dollars at a French auction. Now,
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: according to The New York Post, how we know that's
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: the sock?
• 34:58
  Speaker 10: How we listened? This is what the New York Post
• 35:01
  Speaker 10: is reporting.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: The white and studded sock with crystal ringstones was discovered
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: by a technician backstage at Michael Jackson. You remember the
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: History World tour back then so the sock was preserved
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: in the frame for twenty eight years, and so it
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: sold for about eighty nine hundred dollars at the auction
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: of the King of pop Items.
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: Here.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, bout that out about it? You'd about the sock? Hell?
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Eighty nine hundred? Would you have warned?
• 35:31
  Speaker 9: No? No, no?
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: But it is a lie? A hand with it though?
• 35:35
  Speaker 6: What lie?
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: What would you have said?
• 35:36
  Speaker 10: Why you got a live about Michael Jackson's glitters.
• 35:39
  Speaker 7: I was out of Mike House one night and I
• 35:43
  Speaker 7: had bought these old hookahs out there for him, okay,
• 35:46
  Speaker 7: and he had got nked in the back. Oh, and
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: I found the socks that he had on, because he
• 35:51
  Speaker 7: had the socks on while he was with the girl.
• 35:53
  Speaker 7: Then the sock fell off, and that sock fell off,
• 35:55
  Speaker 7: and I kept it and this it but just the
• 35:58
  Speaker 7: same sock. Though he wore the Billy Jean video because
• 36:01
  Speaker 7: she said that's what she came out there for. So
• 36:04
  Speaker 7: I knew this was it all right. So here's a
• 36:07
  Speaker 7: question for you, Steve.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: This question for Steve, which article of clothing would you
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: have auction off or would you auction off from your career?
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: I auctioned off.
• 36:18
  Speaker 7: I had the jockey strap I had on the last
• 36:20
  Speaker 7: time I dunked the basketball.
• 36:22
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I thought you would say the yellow soup from
• 36:27
  Speaker 11: your special, you know that was legendary.
• 36:31
  Speaker 10: What about the soup from the Kings I got?
• 36:34
  Speaker 7: I got?
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I got the Kings of Comedy suit. Yeah, that I wore.
• 36:38
  Speaker 7: I got the yellow suit and I got the suit
• 36:40
  Speaker 7: I wore my first HBO special.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: So how much? How much? How much you think you
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: can get for the King suit? Michael Sock went for
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: eight nine thiuves Hell, Yeah, that wasn't nothing, but the sock.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: I got the whole suit. I probably take it. Yep,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: how much? A couple of million? A milion?
• 37:02
  Speaker 11: About buying no soup and no coming up.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: At twenty minutes after the hour our big money purchase
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: items discussions with your partner?
• 37:10
  Speaker 10: Is that an issue? Is that stressful? We'll talk about
• 37:13
  Speaker 10: it right after this.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
• 37:22
  Speaker 7: Get into the Hyundai Getaway sales event and get away
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  Speaker 7: with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong.
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• 37:49
  Speaker 11: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: A super yacht believed to be owned by Bill Gates
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: is up for sale. This three hundred and ninety foot
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: yacht is a private residence Infinity Pool Cinema, and it's
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: one of the very first super yachts that run on hydrogen.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was the thing.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: The sticker price is six hundred and forty five million dollars.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Ain't a whole lot of bias for that, No, not
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: at all.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: So is there anything or a big purchase item that
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: you're currently trying to convince your spouse that you want
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: to buy?
• 38:27
  Speaker 10: In Part two?
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: Are these big money discussions stressful? And do they lead
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: to an argument?
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Or what I try to do it with? I had
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: known it, that's what I try to do. That's wait,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: how do you do that? How do you do it? Yeah?
• 38:40
  Speaker 11: If I'm playing that thirty forty thousand here and just
• 38:43
  Speaker 11: buy some stuff, but I known i'd try to do it,
• 38:46
  Speaker 11: and so.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: You could spend thirty thousand dollars and your wife not No,
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: you don't have an amount.
• 38:52
  Speaker 11: What bigna know? Yeah, I just but if it ain't
• 38:55
  Speaker 11: gonna come in to amic, come in third day later,
• 38:57
  Speaker 11: so she ain't gonna see it to late. Wow, rich
• 39:01
  Speaker 11: black car, I ain't rich. You spend thirty thousand dollars
• 39:07
  Speaker 11: at one time on a credit card?
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: First of all? Who got a credit card? Got thirty
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars?
• 39:11
  Speaker 13: That's A and B You do that part problem segment.
• 39:20
  Speaker 13: It's a limit to what I can spend without discussing
• 39:23
  Speaker 13: it with them. Right, we have like me and probably
• 39:27
  Speaker 13: for me and her.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: How much can you spend with and it ain't no drum?
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Can you spend a hundred? Yeah, okay, spend one hundred
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: in a different world, a different tax I got see.
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: But we have those minimum for bank accounts I've been
• 39:43
  Speaker 7: telling you all about for years too.
• 39:45
  Speaker 10: One more time dropping on people's in case.
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: We have we have an account that nobody can touch.
• 39:50
  Speaker 7: It's a savings account. Wise both of our signatures to
• 39:54
  Speaker 7: move a single dollar out of it. We have our
• 39:58
  Speaker 7: household account where we put the money in that covers
• 40:01
  Speaker 7: all of our light bills, electrical house payments, anything like that.
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: So so we make sure for and then Marjorie has
• 40:09
  Speaker 7: her own account and I have my own account. Every
• 40:12
  Speaker 7: month she gets an allowance, and every month I get
• 40:15
  Speaker 7: an allowance. Her allowance is more than mine. Wow, because
• 40:19
  Speaker 7: she spends a different thing. She buy for the grandkids
• 40:23
  Speaker 7: and all that.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: I don't do. None of that.
• 40:25
  Speaker 7: All mine is for me. Now I had to pass
• 40:28
  Speaker 7: on an item, and she was surprised that I passed.
• 40:30
  Speaker 7: She said, I thought you was just gonna go on
• 40:32
  Speaker 7: and do it, but I would now because I don't
• 40:34
  Speaker 7: want to start that. Because you going and do it,
• 40:36
  Speaker 7: we're gonna have problem.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well we having a mouth to my husband
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: and I, what is that? All the money eight hundred dollars?
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: I wish she would I wish she would spend call
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: eight hundred eight or one and nobody picks up the phone.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: That's a problem. One hundred dollars. And he said, nothing
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: to me, even a problem. What do you want that mine?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I went to dinner.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Right, that's it coming up at thirty five after the hour,
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: we're gonna have some more fun with random questions.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening hard Morning show.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: All right, it's time to ask the morning crew some
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: fun random questions.
• 41:26
  Speaker 10: We like to do this every now and then. Are
• 41:27
  Speaker 10: you guys ready?
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Come on?
• 41:30
  Speaker 10: What's your most frequent lie?
• 41:33
  Speaker 11: My most frequent lie? I tell you that if I
• 41:38
  Speaker 11: just told you, whyout? I just why I tell you
• 41:40
  Speaker 11: a lie? I just tell her.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: If I just told it, it's still in effect right now.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: I have one I use all the time. Thank you?
• 41:51
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 41:52
  Speaker 7: Okay, For example, if you call my phone, you know
• 41:55
  Speaker 7: how it comes up, and you had that little message
• 41:58
  Speaker 7: thing over there that you can customize.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you can't pick up the phone. You're doing
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: something or whatever. I just hit that. You know, I
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: have messages to go out. I'm on the zoom.
• 42:09
  Speaker 7: I don't be no matter if you get one of them,
• 42:12
  Speaker 7: all all four of them customizations.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I'm on the zoom. I don't I'm on the zoom.
• 42:21
  Speaker 7: Text me, I can't talk. I don't recognize the number.
• 42:28
  Speaker 7: Oh and I got one more. Yeah, but I'm hitting
• 42:33
  Speaker 7: one of them.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, now my lie like that, Uncles, I'm at my
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: son gang is too live? Text me? Okay, you don't
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: want to pick up?
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: Okay, you guys frequently live about phone calls. I don't
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: want to talk to people every day every day.
• 42:53
  Speaker 7: Well, Michael, I'm sorry. Yeah, you're on the zoom talking
• 42:57
  Speaker 7: about it. That's how I got what something?
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you send that to us. You're coworkers. Well I'm not.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: We're not gonna talk. So what difference do it make?
• 43:06
  Speaker 7: What I say?
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: And we need to talk to you moving on? I
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: just text h when I need to tell him something.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 43:14
  Speaker 10: That's all you can do because he's not gonna pick.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Up the phone. Nog.
• 43:18
  Speaker 7: I got stuff I'm doing. I'm like sometimes I'm just thinking.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: They care.
• 43:26
  Speaker 10: All right.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Here's another one.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: What's a myth about men? That's one hun untrue and
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: it makes you mad whenever you hear it.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Once a cheatah, always a Cheatah. That just ticks me off.
• 43:40
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: So that's not true. No, that's not true. I don't
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: know why y'all don't understand this thing about cheating.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Explain it.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: First of all, every.
• 43:53
  Speaker 7: Man has cheated somewhere somewhere down the line before he
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: met you. Something something, And that's how we learned. Because
• 44:03
  Speaker 7: you pay for something, you lose something along the way.
• 44:06
  Speaker 7: You lose trust, you lose a person, you lose companionship, friendship,
• 44:11
  Speaker 7: and you learn. And but I've said this on the show.
• 44:15
  Speaker 7: I can't tell you how many times. All men can change,
• 44:19
  Speaker 7: all men will change. But there's only one woman we
• 44:22
  Speaker 7: will change for, and when we meet him, we will
• 44:26
  Speaker 7: give up all all the foolishness. That's the one I
• 44:28
  Speaker 7: hate that women say.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: That's some man.
• 44:33
  Speaker 10: All right, Okay, Steve, what about your nephew?
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: You got all men, all men with big hands and
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: feet is blessed? That's a lie.
• 44:42
  Speaker 11: I'm a little guy. I'm blessed. I'm a little guy.
• 44:45
  Speaker 11: I got little hand lift here. I'm still blessing that
• 44:48
  Speaker 11: that didn't say that.
• 44:49
  Speaker 7: But I beg to different about what you just said,
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: seeing it's how you ain't got big hands of.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Sound like hate to me the struggle. Okay, here's a
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: lot of stuff, y'all. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
• 45:11
  Speaker 10: What's something that you don't like or enjoy but wish that.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: You did something I don't like or enjoy, but wish
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I did something I don't like? Yeah, but you wish
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: you did.
• 45:25
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: That's a good crush. Yeah, that's a good one. Because
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: if I don't like it, I just I don't like it.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I ain't I if I don't like it. I don't
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: like what I wanted for. Well, that's fair. You can't
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: think of anything I wish.
• 45:43
  Speaker 11: I like black Jack, but I don't know what the
• 45:44
  Speaker 11: hell I'm doing when I'm sitting there, I don't. I
• 45:46
  Speaker 11: can't enjoy that. That's then I sit on the end
• 45:49
  Speaker 11: and I'm messing it up for everybody else.
• 45:51
  Speaker 7: I don't.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I don't like that.
• 45:52
  Speaker 7: I wish I loved everybody, but I don't. I don't
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: know how I'm getting to Heaven with that attitude.
• 46:03
  Speaker 10: Coming up next, nephews on freak phone.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: I'm explaining to do when I get to that gate cap.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: I'm with you. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: Right about four minutes after Shirley left us was one
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: of her favorite Strawberry letters. The subject is Yeah, fight
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: or flight. This is one of her favorites. But right
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: now the nephew is here with today's phone call.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: What you got, nephew.
• 46:36
  Speaker 11: We headed back to the church, called it. We headed
• 46:38
  Speaker 11: back to the church again. Yeah, you know, you know
• 46:43
  Speaker 11: I love the church. We grew up in church. Me
• 46:45
  Speaker 11: and I grew up in church, and we're there every day,
• 46:47
  Speaker 11: every other day. We grew up in the church house.
• 46:49
  Speaker 11: But that's right, that's starting to bother me. When you
• 46:51
  Speaker 11: go to church, of course, you know, maybe you ain't
• 46:53
  Speaker 11: been in a couple of days, a couple of a
• 46:55
  Speaker 11: couple of weeks, and they I just don't like it
• 46:58
  Speaker 11: when I don't get no notetion that it's a guest past.
• 47:02
  Speaker 11: I guess, I guess you know that preaching where is
• 47:07
  Speaker 11: Ain't nobody told me nothing? I want my money back.
• 47:09
  Speaker 11: I want my money back. He's preaching from the Book
• 47:12
  Speaker 11: of Ruth. Don't nobody preach from Ruth?
• 47:14
  Speaker 6: Lo?
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: What you doing? Man? What is all this? Where is
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: the regular past that? I ain't come in here for this?
• 47:20
  Speaker 11: I got all dressed up and got here at ten o'clock,
• 47:22
  Speaker 11: and now past ain't here. And here I hear the
• 47:25
  Speaker 11: guests past here preaching in front the book of Ruth?
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: Who do that?
• 47:29
  Speaker 6: Who do that?
• 47:30
  Speaker 11: I need my money back? I'm calling the church and
• 47:31
  Speaker 11: I need my money back. Let's go catch dog. I
• 47:33
  Speaker 11: want my money back.
• 47:35
  Speaker 9: Hello, I need to speak to sister Policia.
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: I okay, who is this?
• 47:40
  Speaker 9: That's right? Here is Glen? All right? This is Glenn?
• 47:42
  Speaker 9: I need this is brother Glen. Can I speak of
• 47:44
  Speaker 9: suster policia? But I have some please?
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: Okay, sir, how did you get my number?
• 47:49
  Speaker 9: I got your number from one of the deacons at
• 47:50
  Speaker 9: the church.
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: Okay what deacon was that?
• 47:52
  Speaker 9: I don't even know the deacon name. I listen when
• 47:55
  Speaker 9: I'm trying to ask you, I'm trying to ask you,
• 47:57
  Speaker 9: can you reimburse me for some money that I put
• 48:00
  Speaker 9: in church on Sunday?
• 48:01
  Speaker 5: Okay? Well, can you just calm down just a little plea? Sir?
• 48:04
  Speaker 9: I I'm look. Are you the financial person at the church?
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 48:07
  Speaker 9: I am soo.
• 48:07
  Speaker 5: What can I do for you?
• 48:08
  Speaker 9: I'm trying to get my money back that I put
• 48:11
  Speaker 9: in church on Sunday. I put one hundred dollars in
• 48:14
  Speaker 9: church on Sunday, and I'm trying to get my one
• 48:16
  Speaker 9: hundred dollars back.
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: Okay, what did you not give from your heart?
• 48:19
  Speaker 9: I gave from my heart what I thought was gonna happen,
• 48:21
  Speaker 9: but it didn't happen.
• 48:23
  Speaker 5: Okay, help me help you what you mean what didn't happen?
• 48:27
  Speaker 5: What didn't happen?
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: Sir? Okay, Pastor wasn't there. Pastor was not there on
• 48:31
  Speaker 9: Sunday and y'all had this guest minister come in who
• 48:36
  Speaker 9: I ain't like him at all. But the dog on
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: the offering was before he even got up to preach,
• 48:43
  Speaker 9: so I didn't already gain my offer, which was one
• 48:45
  Speaker 9: hundred dollars, and then I didn't even know Pastor wasn't.
• 48:49
  Speaker 9: Now you know what I'm saying. So here I am
• 48:52
  Speaker 9: giving one hundred dollars. I'm thinking, I know I'm gonna
• 48:54
  Speaker 9: get the word when Pastor there. But y'all put this
• 48:56
  Speaker 9: dude up. He's coming from Don't nobody come from the
• 48:59
  Speaker 9: Book of Roots.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: No, mo.
• 49:01
  Speaker 9: He was at Ruth Leviticus. He was all over the place.
• 49:04
  Speaker 9: I want to get my one hundred dollars back. I
• 49:06
  Speaker 9: ain't giving to that, sir.
• 49:08
  Speaker 5: Do you not read the bulletin? I mean, how often
• 49:10
  Speaker 5: do you even come to church?
• 49:11
  Speaker 9: I come to church often. I mean, what dos got
• 49:13
  Speaker 9: to do with anythiing?
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: W if you were come a little often to read
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: the bulletin, so you would have known that Pastor took
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: a vacation.
• 49:20
  Speaker 9: He took a vacation, so so everybody knew he wasn't
• 49:23
  Speaker 9: gonna be there.
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: Yes, sir, the regulars, the people that come regular to church.
• 49:27
  Speaker 4: They know that, sir.
• 49:28
  Speaker 9: Okay, well, I ain't know that, so I need I
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: need to get I need to get my money back.
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 49:32
  Speaker 5: What I need you to do, though, is calm down.
• 49:35
  Speaker 9: I'm come. I'm just trying to say I want to
• 49:37
  Speaker 9: get my one hundred dollars. I'm not giving that sermon
• 49:40
  Speaker 9: I got on Sunday. I'm not giving one hundred dollars
• 49:42
  Speaker 9: for that.
• 49:43
  Speaker 5: Well, Sir, I cannot give you one hundred dollars back. Okay,
• 49:45
  Speaker 5: we donna do no refund checks. I can't do that. Okay.
• 49:48
  Speaker 5: I have to wait to pastor to get back in
• 49:49
  Speaker 5: because two people have to sign the checks. I can't
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: even do that for.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: You, sir.
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I'm not even at work right now.
• 49:55
  Speaker 9: Okay, sir, am I gonna get my one hundred dollars back?
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: Okay, sir, why don't you just call the church on
• 50:00
  Speaker 5: tomorrow and then we can go from there.
• 50:02
  Speaker 9: Okay, I'm not calling. I'm not calling the church tomorrow.
• 50:05
  Speaker 9: I tell you what, you know what, you know what
• 50:06
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna come up there tomorrow and
• 50:09
  Speaker 9: you're gonna give me my one hundred dollars either. It's
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: in a check or it's in cash. But you, smister
• 50:14
  Speaker 9: sister for Alicia Patterson, you're gonna give me my money?
• 50:18
  Speaker 5: You say, what did you just cuss me?
• 50:21
  Speaker 9: I just told you that come tomorrow, I'm coming up
• 50:25
  Speaker 9: there to get my one hundred dollars. Whether it's in
• 50:28
  Speaker 9: a check or whether it's in cash, I don't care
• 50:30
  Speaker 9: what it is.
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: He let me care you something, sir. You ain't getting
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: nothing from us. I doubt you call here and cuss
• 50:36
  Speaker 5: me asking.
• 50:37
  Speaker 9: For some money.
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: Bab you got Now you're giving your money from your
• 50:39
  Speaker 5: heart and doesn't not a whole off that preaching the
• 50:41
  Speaker 5: word of God. You give because you love God. You
• 50:44
  Speaker 5: ever thought to me like that, I'll strip you naked, Jim.
• 50:46
  Speaker 6: Then you know what.
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: You better be glad this ain't twenty years ago, because
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: I'll cussed you from causey But he's saying me because
• 50:55
  Speaker 5: you know how You're.
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: Gonna cush you.
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: But I tell you what I will do, young man.
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: I see you want to say your name is again?
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  Speaker 7: What I mean?
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  Speaker 14: Subject fight or Flight, Fight or Flight, Dear Stephens, Shirley,
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  Speaker 14: I'm a thirty year old flight attendant, and I'm married
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  Speaker 14: to a forty four year old professor. I met him
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  Speaker 14: when I was in grad school and we started dating
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  Speaker 14: after I got my degree. He was going going through
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  Speaker 14: a divorce and we kept our relationship private until it
• 57:03
  Speaker 14: was finalized. He has a seventeen year old daughter that
• 57:06
  Speaker 14: found out on social media and she started a lot
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  Speaker 14: of chaos in our lives. She didn't show up at
• 57:12
  Speaker 14: our wedding, and it devastated my husband. He was upset
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  Speaker 14: that his ex wife allowed her to skip the wedding.
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  Speaker 14: I was over her by that time, so I didn't care.
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  Speaker 14: Now she's about to turn eighteen and asks if she
• 57:25
  Speaker 14: can come live with us in Florida and attend a
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  Speaker 14: fashion school. I never answered my husband, and he eventually
• 57:32
  Speaker 14: flipped out on me and made the executive decision to
• 57:35
  Speaker 14: allow her to come. I fixed up our home office
• 57:38
  Speaker 14: for her, and I moved my desk on to our
• 57:40
  Speaker 14: sun porch. I was so irritated. She has been here
• 57:45
  Speaker 14: four months and she has done exactly what I knew
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  Speaker 14: she was going to do. Now, when she's got an attitude,
• 57:50
  Speaker 14: I leave and go to work. I take any flight
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  Speaker 14: available so I can get away from this girl. My
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  Speaker 14: husband and I argue because he says I'm not a
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  Speaker 14: positive model for her. She's a grown woman to me,
• 58:02
  Speaker 14: and she's got parents that failed her and allowed her
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  Speaker 14: to disrespect grown people. I told my husband that if
• 58:08
  Speaker 14: she pops off at the mouth one more time, I'm
• 58:11
  Speaker 14: going to pop her. He says I need to learn
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  Speaker 14: how to be a parent, and I told him I
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  Speaker 14: will as soon as he makes me one. I would
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  Speaker 14: rather work and deal with the plane full of needy
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  Speaker 14: passengers instead of dealing with the grown child. My husband
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  Speaker 14: told me that my fight or flight mentality is ruining us.
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  Speaker 14: He can't see that his child is divisive and honoring.
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  Speaker 14: Am I wrong or does he need to put her out? Absolutely? Yes,
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  Speaker 14: I think you're wrong. I do think you're wrong on
• 58:43
  Speaker 14: so many levels. Here I'll tell you why. It's simple.
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  Speaker 14: You are the adult. You keep calling her a grown woman.
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  Speaker 14: You keep saying she's grown, but she's really still a child.
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  Speaker 14: You're grown when you can pay your own way and
• 58:55
  Speaker 14: when you can take care of yourself, and she's not
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  Speaker 14: doing that right now. She's in your home, living off you, guys,
• 59:01
  Speaker 14: she's living with you, guys. You're also grown when you
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  Speaker 14: can face your problems head on. But what do you
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  Speaker 14: do You run and jump on a flight and as
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  Speaker 14: you say, deal with the plane full of needy passengers
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  Speaker 14: rather than trying to fix a problem at the house.
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  Speaker 14: And yes, it is a problem because it's causing you
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  Speaker 14: and your husband to argue. Now why would you let
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  Speaker 14: that happen? You too should prevent present a united front
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  Speaker 14: to his daughter, making it impossible for her to come
• 59:28
  Speaker 14: between you guys, because that is what's happening, that situation.
• 59:32
  Speaker 14: You all are allowing to let it come between you.
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  Speaker 14: Stay home in the midst of all this and handle
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  Speaker 14: your situation. No more jumping on planes when you can't
• 59:41
  Speaker 14: deal with it anymore. I say, first you and your
• 59:44
  Speaker 14: husband should talk agree on some basic house rules. Then
• 59:47
  Speaker 14: a family meeting should be called to let the daughter
• 59:50
  Speaker 14: know about the new changes. And again, remember you and
• 59:53
  Speaker 14: your husband are on the same team, and you guys
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  Speaker 14: are the adults. I mean, she needs to see that
• 59:58
  Speaker 14: you guys are together her dad, but he's your husband,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 14: which means it's your house and your rules. So as
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 14: you know, she's welcome as long as she abides by
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 14: the house rules. I mean that means no attitudes, no
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 14: popping off, at the mouth, no disrespect of any kind.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 14: And let me say this, if she pops off at
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 14: the mouth one more time, you're gonna pop her.
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  Speaker 1: Don't don't pop her. That's not what this is all about.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 14: I mean, you know, she's angry, she's she's trying you
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 14: and all of that, trying to come between her.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: But you don't have to take it there. You can
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: be the bigger person here.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 14: You can invite her to lunch, you can do something
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 14: fun with her, you know, and try to make peace
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 14: with her, and like your husband said, be a role
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 14: model for her. I think you should try that before
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 14: you give up on this situation and start, you know,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 14: popping her and all that all together.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: Steve, Wow, this is gonna have a couple of twists
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  Speaker 1: and turns.
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  Speaker 6: And I.
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  Speaker 7: Agree with what She'll was saying about the letter. The problem,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 7: the real problem here is in the letter writer. That
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 7: seems to be the real problem.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Now you're a.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 7: Thirty year old flight attendant and you're married to a
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 7: forty four year old professor.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: Now see, I want you to understand something.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 7: The news got out some kind of ways because this
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 7: story got told because somebody knows he was your professor
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 7: at the school. I met him when I was a
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 7: grad school and we started dating after I got my degree.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 7: He was going through a divorce and we kept our
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 7: relationship private until it was finalized. He has a seventeen
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 7: year old daughter that found out on social media and
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 7: she started a lot of chaos.
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  Speaker 3: In our lives.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the daughter found out what on social media that
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: you all were dating or you all had gotten married.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 7: I think she found out y'all was dating, so quite naturally,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 7: her and the mother are now blaming you.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: As the cause of the divorce. That's how it always works,
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: ain't it. Yes, So now after they found.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 7: Out on social media, she started a lot of chaos
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 7: in our lives. She didn't show up at our wedding,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 7: and it devastated my husband. He was upset that his
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 7: ex wife allowed her to skip the wed You mean
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 7: his ex wife didn't make her go to the web
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  Speaker 7: His ex wife wasn't now, so the ex wife didn't
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 7: make the daughter go to the wedding. What you mean
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 7: allow her to skip it? She's seventeen. She didn't want
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 7: to go down there because she figured you the reason
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 7: her mama and daddy ain't together, and her Mama didn't
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 7: co sign that, because as soon as you start dating somebody,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 7: they go, oh here.
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  Speaker 1: She is right here. You the reason that you was dating,
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: and you younger, and you younger.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 14: Hang on, Steve, Part two of your responses coming up
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  Speaker 14: at twenty five minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter,
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  Speaker 14: subject fight or Flight. We'll get back into it right
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  Speaker 14: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 14: The subject fight or flight.
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  Speaker 7: Thirty year old flight attendant is married to a forty
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 7: four year old professor. She met the professor in grad
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 7: school and they started dating after she got the degree.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 7: What she says he was going through a divorce, and
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 7: we kept our relationship private until it was finalized.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: He got a seventeen year old daughter that found out
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: on social.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 7: Media and she started a lot of chaos in her life.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 7: She was seventeen then, well, now listen to that. She
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 7: didn't show up at our wearing and it devastated my
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 7: husband because he was upset that his ex wife allowed
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 7: her to skip the wear. No, his ex wife didn't
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 7: make her go down there, because the ex wife and
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 7: the daughter then came to the conclusion that this young
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 7: girl you married is the reason why y'all got the
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 7: divorce any way, and that's exactly how it looks.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: And then when they found out about.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 7: Y'all's relationship on social media, that validated because it was
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 7: only telling one story. Then you said I was over
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 7: her by that time, so I didn't care. So now
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 7: you didn't care if she comes to the wind because
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 7: you over.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: Her by that time.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 7: It was a year chaos that you was through with
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 7: the girl. She's about to turn eighteam Oh, So it
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 7: wasn't even a whole year because now you say it
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 7: was about to turn it to you see how fast
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 7: this is moving.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: But you left that out the letter, baby, baby, you
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: left that out after she finds out there.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 7: Next thing, she know y'all getting married and there's a
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 7: fourteen year age justice and you were his students while
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 7: he was a professor, and y'all were seeing each other
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 7: while they still were married and not yet the boy
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 7: because y'all kept.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: It to see see how this working? See how this working?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 11: Ah?
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 7: Now she want to come live with y'all in Florida
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 7: and attend the fashion school. I never answered my husband.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 7: He eventually flipped out on me and made an executive
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 7: decision to allow her to come.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: It's his daughter.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 7: She want to come down there and stay with her
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: daddy's go to fashion school. What you want him to
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 7: say except yes, I fixed up her home office for her.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 7: I moved my desk into our son point. I was
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 7: so irritated you did all this begrudging me. She has
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 7: been there four months since. She's done exactly what I
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 7: knew she was gonna do. Now she's got an attitude.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 7: Now when she's got an attitude, I leave and go
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 7: to work. See you're not explaining this. You're not explaining
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 7: she did exactly what you want. You don't give us
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 7: no information. I take a flight whenever available, anything to
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 7: get away from this girl. My husband, I argue, because
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 7: he says, I'm not a positive role model for her.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 7: She's a grown woman. To me, Shirley's right, she's not
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 7: a grown woman. She's eighteen. She's just not turning eighteen.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 7: She's a child.
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  Speaker 1: She don't get it. Now you're an adult. You know
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: what happened.
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  Speaker 7: You know why this girl mad. She's got parents that
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 7: failed her and allowed her to disrespect grown people. Wait
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 7: a minute, respect.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: On social media?
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 7: You dating her daddy that's divorce and her mama? Wow
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 7: they still married that You kept it a secret. That's
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 7: what you said. Respect. See you want something you wasn't
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  Speaker 7: willing to give, See, little sister, that's how this game work.
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  Speaker 7: Now this the grown folk game. I'm just giving it
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  Speaker 7: to you straight. I told my husband, and she pops
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 7: off at the mouth one more time. I'm gonna pop
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  Speaker 7: up and then what?
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: And then what?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 7: Because she talking that You're gonna hit her in the mouth,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 7: so you gonna resort the virus pharol stop. He says,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 7: I need to learn how to be a parent. I
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 7: told him as soon as I will, as soon as
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 7: he makes me. Won Wait a minute, excuse me, Harry,
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  Speaker 7: you're twelve years older than this girl. That best you
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 7: can be a big sister, but parent she has two parents,
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  Speaker 7: you not. She's not finna call you mama. Hey, none
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 7: of this is sitting to work. I'm gonna have a
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 7: suggestion for you to say. I told him as soon
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 7: as he makes me, I would rather work and deal
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 7: with a plane full of needy passages instead of dealing.
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  Speaker 1: With a grown child. He keep saying grown. But she
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: a child, She's not.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 7: My husband told me that my fighter fighter flight mentality
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 7: is runnings. He can't see that his child is divisive
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 7: and honored.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: Am I wrong?
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 7: Or does he need to put out? First of all,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: he can't put his daughter out, Well, you're asking a
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 7: man to not be a man. You're asking a father
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 7: to not be a farther. You asking a man to
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 7: show his daughter an example of man that he's hoping
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 7: that one day she'll be able to find put her out?
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? And you asking that?
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 7: What's wrong with your maturity level? No, he can't ask
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 7: his daughter to leave, and no he can't put her out.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you right here, y'all, you never failed
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 7: to mention in this letter that.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: You all have ever had to sit down to discuss this,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: to work through it, because you know what. Your corner decided.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: You don't like her. You was through with the boat.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 7: She came to you house, and now you're reaping what
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 7: you saw. You remember how I got your man des.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: All right, coming up at forty six minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 3: Nephew is in for junior today.
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  Speaker 1: So Nephew got some sports for us right after this. Thus, people,
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  Speaker 3: Time now for sports Talk, Tommy in for Junior. What
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  Speaker 3: you got, nephew, you're doing sports today?
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  Speaker 1: Look man, the nephew doing sports. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: y'all saw it.
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  Speaker 11: Sterling shape, Jared Allen, Eric Allen and Antonio Gates would
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 11: just welcome into the Pro Football Hall of Fame on Saturday,
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 11: and can know how they're in the shop. They had
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 11: a moment of course with his brother shinning sharp as
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  Speaker 11: they are now the first brothers both enshrine in the
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  Speaker 11: Hall of Fame.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: Did you see it? Y'all saw some of it? Yeah?
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you what you think?
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  Speaker 11: Do you think with all of the drama that's going
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 11: on with Shannon, do you kind you think it may
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 11: have dampered what was going on with brother.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think it did. I don't think it did.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 7: You know, he still went into the hall. I mean,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 7: of course he would have loved He asked ESPN to
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 7: hold the announcement until afterwards. They didn't because ESPN don't
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 7: care about his brother or his feelings. You know, they Disney,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 7: we're doing the right thing. We're electric right now, so
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 7: you know, you know, they had a great moment on
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  Speaker 7: stage together. Shinnon his brother, Sterling loves him, you know,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 7: and he gonna stand by his brother no matter what
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 7: he did, as he's that's right to die, that's right.
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  Speaker 3: Sterlin gave an emotional speech. I didn't see all of it,
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 3: but I saw people crying and people you know, talking
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 3: about it on social media, so that you know, everybody
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: was saying it was a touching.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: Moment for them.
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  Speaker 3: So that I mean, like you said, Tommy, first two
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  Speaker 3: brothers to be enshrined the Hall of Fame, that's.
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  Speaker 11: Being one family with two of them gold jackets. Yeah,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 11: and I held my jacket on ed tank.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all see me out at the gas station with that
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: gold jacket on, pumping gas everything. You come by the house,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: I'm cutting the yard. I got my gold jacket on. Man,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: you can't tell me nothow.
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  Speaker 3: So who do you think, guys? Is there anybody that
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 3: is not in the Hall of Fame yet that you
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 3: think should be? Steve favorite players?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: You are in the hall? Yeah, in the hall that's
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: not in it now?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, I don't have anybody in the Hall
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 7: of Fame I think ought to be in there. I
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 7: think there's somebody in the Baseball Hall of Fame that
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 7: I think should be in there. I think the Roles
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 7: should be in there. I think Sammy Solser should be
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 7: in there. I think Mark McGuire should be in there.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 7: And I think one thousand percent that very bonds.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that I do know. But America is so
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: dog on hypocritical.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 7: They got a lot of nerve man passing judgment on cats,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 7: They got a lot of nerve. You can put Trump
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 7: in the White House, but you can't put Barry Bones
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 7: in the hall, man.
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  Speaker 1: Right that part?
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, thank you, Steve, Thank you, nephew.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: Coming up at the top of the hour, a young
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  Speaker 3: man on social media needs some advice, job offer or
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  Speaker 3: love of my life.
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  Speaker 10: We'll talk about it right after this you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: To the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 10: G on' Steve Harvey FM Rights.
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  Speaker 3: I'm twenty three and just finish school with a tech degree,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 3: but landing a job.
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  Speaker 1: Has been harder than I expected.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 3: Right now, I've got a temporary job that pays the bills,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 3: but I just got a full time offer with great pay,
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 3: double what I'm making now. The problem is is that
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: it's four hours away from my girlfriend. We've been together
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 3: since high school and I really do see a future
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 3: with her. But she can't move right now because she's
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 3: helping her parents out, especially since her dad's been sick.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 3: If I stay, I might miss my shot. If I go,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know if our relationship will make it. Do
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 3: I hold out for something closer or take the job
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: and risk losing the person that I love.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: You better go get this dog on job. Ory this
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: man up time right here.
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  Speaker 7: You can't buy houses and provide for families with just love.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: You have a part of your life as a man.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: Provision is a huge part of it.
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  Speaker 7: M now, you stay in town and hold hands all
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 7: you want, but that's gonna get going to the movies.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 7: But if you don't start progressing, the train up the track. Brother,
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  Speaker 7: it's gonna be hard. So at one point in time,
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  Speaker 7: you're gonna she's gonna a woman will marry you for security.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: So you're telling him, go get it, go, get it, go,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: get the job, right, yeah, man? Yeah, you know many
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: times I have to move from work. We all have
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: ye move.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, we're going, We're going, We're going.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: We live in New York, we live in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 7: Right.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 3: You gotta do what you gotta do. Yeah, so that's
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: good advice. All right, Steve, here we go. We got
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  Speaker 3: time for one more. Steve and nephew. Marva on Steve
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  Speaker 3: I've been married just under two years to someone I
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  Speaker 3: We had the same goals, the same sense of humor,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: the same dreams. But lately I feel like I'm vanishing
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: inside the relationship. I'm not working right now, and my
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 3: husband was okay with that, but now he's grown distant,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 3: even passive. Aggressive when I ask for money for the bills.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: When I think about leaving, I hesitate because he's kind
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 3: to others says the right things in front of friends,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 3: and I wonder.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: If I'm just being ungrateful.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 3: I've started emotionally pulling back, But I don't know if
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 3: that means it's time to go or am I giving
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 3: up too early? How do you know when your heart
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: is tired for a reason.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: Or not, and not just overwhelmed. So there's a lot
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: in that. What do you think?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that's a lot in that, you know. Look, I
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 7: don't it's there's so much information we don't have to
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 7: help you deal with that.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: You know, men are going to stress about the finances.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 7: They're gonna stress about the finances because that's how he equates.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 7: That's how he measures his his manhood, his value. We
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 7: measure it by our work and what we bring to
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 7: the table and contribute to the to the UH, to
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 7: the relationship. Yeah, I'm still guilty of that myself after
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 7: all these years. So he's not going to stop m
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 7: HM wanting to have a say so in it. I
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 7: think what has to happen is he has to be
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 7: convinced that you're not going to sink the ship with
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 7: your decisions. I think you all got to have monthly
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 7: meetings financially to discuss moving forward what you're doing, because
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 7: if you don't, after two years of not discussing it,
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 7: all of a sudden, you're saying stuff like he's grown
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 7: distance and he's checking me.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: Now. Well, y'all should be having monthly meetings, and some
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: of this could have been avoided.
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  Speaker 6: Job.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I don't know if she quit because you
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 3: said it was okay with it. If you got fired,
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 3: you have no choice.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 11: When he said okay, it wasn't okay though when he
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 11: said it, it would clearly.
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  Speaker 1: But I like Chick for Something, got to get the
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  Speaker 1: My Pleasure. More of today's trigger stories.
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  Speaker 10: At twenty minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning.
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  Speaker 3: Show Snack Lovers, the snack aisle may never be the
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  Speaker 3: same again. At the grocery store, we're talking about a
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  Speaker 3: marriage between Oreo and Recea's resulting in two new items,
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  Speaker 3: Reese's Yes, Recie's.
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  Speaker 10: Oreo cup and an Oreos Receis cookie.
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  Speaker 3: They're calling it a combo two way delicious mash up
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  Speaker 3: between America's number one candy and America's number one cookie.
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  Speaker 3: One is a classic Recie's Peanut butter cup with Oreo
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 3: cookie bites mixed in, and the other one is an
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  Speaker 3: Oreo cookie stuffed with Reese's Peanut butter Delicious. Fans will
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  Speaker 3: start seeing this on the shelves. It's September. So here's
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 3: a question, guys. If you can mash up your favorite
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 3: snack food or maybe your favorite candy and cookie together,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 3: what would it be?
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: What do you if I put that Hershey ba down
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: in that Bluebell ice cream? I would? If I could
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: cram that down in there, I'd do it. Which Bluebell flavor? Vanilla? Vanilla?
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 9: Yes?
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 3: Oh, I got some goodie Hershey Yes, come on, Steve,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: mash up your favorite snack.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: Coldstone. I don't really, it won't nothing butter Pekanye.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 7: You know, if I could get butterscotch swirls mashed down
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 7: in the ice cream, just already, just butterscotch ice cream,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 7: just swirls of butterscotch in there, that'd be nice to.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: Find that night. That sounds delicious, yummy?
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 10: All right, coming up, guys, another round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning.
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  Speaker 3: Time Now for would you rather? Would you rather your
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 3: mind stays young forever or your body?
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: Let my body stay young, let my mind be get
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: more wisdom? Yeah? No, and you get to pick either once.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 7: So if your mind stay young, then whatever I mean,
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 7: If your body stay young, then your mind?
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: What what happened? He going? Keep going? For hell, That's
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do now, I'm trying that. Now
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: what what year? Body?
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 6: What year?
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: Body? Would you go back to? Let's see, well now
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: it's too skinny back then, but lord, I could run
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: for a long time. It was twenty eight about right?
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: Well yeah, hell yeah.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 10: That's a good age for your body.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 7: Nice, yeah, nice, mature, strong fly Oh I thought you
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 7: got ready say something else?
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: I heard that?
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 10: L No, third, No third, say fly.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about who I was some deceit. Moving on?
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 3: Would you rather play twister or do jumping jacks while naked?
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 7: We ain't got the body to do twisted to begin with.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 7: Now I'm gonna do that twisted naked. But I'm telling
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 7: you right now he jumping jacks ain't fiting wor I'm
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 7: gonna fink if I do jumping jacks jumping jackson naked,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 7: I'm a frank.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot moving right there.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 6: You know that.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: I'm doing twist though, But who am I playing window?
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: Because that makes a difference. I don't care. I don't know.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: The visual is too much for me.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 10: But you pick twist the naked.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: We should do that.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 11: Though, call it we can everybody else. Let's do a
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 11: nicked twister. Everybody's sign up for that. That'd be nice,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 11: man like a tournament. Yeah, like I wish we still
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 11: had the hoodies I going on and had that on
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 11: Friday naked twist in Vegas?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 3: Would you rather have a friend with benefits or a
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 3: one night stand with a stranger?
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: I'm too old.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 3: I'd rather have what a friend with benefits or one
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: night stand with a stranger.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 7: What is the benefits? Yeah, I'd rather have a friend
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 7: with benefits. I don't need that because you won't mess
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 7: around and be on the internet in the morning.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: My headline, yeah, strange and strange for a reason. A
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: stranger danger. All right, Finally here we go.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 3: Would you rather lie and tell someone you like the
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 3: meal that he or she prepared or cooked for you?
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 10: Or would you rather be honest and tell them you
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 10: didn't like it?
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 11: These some nasty greens you don't cook. I got to
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 11: say it. I can say you can't have no bad greens.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 11: I got to take you this is terrible. Don't you
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 11: ever cook this again?
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 6: What?
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  Speaker 7: But they gonna keep cooking it though if we don't
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  Speaker 7: Keep our coworkers in your prayers, Shirley and Junior, just
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  Speaker 7: remember that. Also in my closing, let me say this,
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  Speaker 7: and this is something that I'm currently dealing with, and
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  Speaker 7: I know a lot of people. Matter of fact, I
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  Speaker 7: don't know nobody who's not dealing with it. You know,
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  Speaker 7: you know when you've been praying about something, and you've
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  Speaker 7: prayed about it for a long time, and it's something
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  Speaker 7: you've wanted and hoped for, and it's been a long time,
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  Speaker 7: and sometimes you get to the point where you just
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  Speaker 7: you want to go, Hey, God, are you listening.
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  Speaker 1: I said, this is what I want. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I need. You know, the part that you have to.
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  Speaker 7: Understand, especially if you've been in contact with him on
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  Speaker 7: a regular and even if you just started back with him,
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  Speaker 7: or are you are? Are you starting up with him now?
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  Speaker 7: God knows what we need before we ask. But the
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  Speaker 7: part that we got to get to is to trust
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  Speaker 7: in the timing that He has. Now, this is a
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  Speaker 7: tough thing to do, y'all, because God's timing has never
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  Speaker 7: ever been my timing.
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  Speaker 1: Ever, I don't don't.
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  Speaker 7: I look back on all of the things I've asked
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  Speaker 7: for and I found out that the answer was no.
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  Speaker 7: And I think about, man, how disappointed I was. Let
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  Speaker 7: me tell you something I was. I was about twenty seven,
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  Speaker 7: hadn't gotten into comedy yet. I interviewed with an insurance company.
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  Speaker 7: And I won't say the name of the insurance company,
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  Speaker 7: but my boy had got me the interview.
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  Speaker 1: The man I interviewed it with. His name was either
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  Speaker 1: Roy Foster or Ray Foster.
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  Speaker 7: And I'd been through about four or five interviews and
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  Speaker 7: this was my final interview, and man, I was so excited.
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  Speaker 7: This was around in eighty four, eighty five, somewhere like that,
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  Speaker 7: and I was so excited. Man, I knew I was
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  Speaker 7: gonna get this job. And I went to the interview
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  Speaker 7: and the man told me, you know, this is a
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  Speaker 7: final interview, and I just have one concern. I'm looking
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  Speaker 7: at your record and it looks like you've moved four
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  Speaker 7: times over the last six years, and for that, that
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  Speaker 7: just doesn't symbolize stability. He said, you want to explain that,
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  Speaker 7: and I just told her. I said, man, I had
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  Speaker 7: a couple of things happened.
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  Speaker 1: He had to move.
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  Speaker 7: My least went up, I moved again. I had the twins,
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  Speaker 7: and I had to move to get a bigger place.
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  Speaker 7: He said, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yo. All that says to
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  Speaker 7: me is instability. Well, sorry, we won't be hind you
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  Speaker 7: at that time.
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  Speaker 1: And so I got in my.
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  Speaker 7: Seventy two Chevy and I drove out the parking lot
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  Speaker 7: and I was heartbroken because man, I wanted that job
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  Speaker 7: so bad.
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  Speaker 1: And I swung around on the freeway.
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  Speaker 7: And I was driving past the big sign of the
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  Speaker 7: insurance company as I had made that U turn and
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  Speaker 7: loopter and tears was just rolling down my face. I
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  Speaker 7: felt so disappointed at that moment. Man, God, you know
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  Speaker 7: I need this job. I'm trying to take care of
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  Speaker 7: these kids, and he said no.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what.
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  Speaker 7: Had I gotten that job at guess what, I probably
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  Speaker 7: wouldn't have got into comedy because that would have been
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  Speaker 7: the career path I thought that I really wanted, and
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  Speaker 7: God said, no, I'm not gonna do that. So the
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  Speaker 7: answer is no. And as I look back over my life,
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  Speaker 7: I can think of so many times that the answer
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  Speaker 7: to my prayer has been no. And if it had
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  Speaker 7: a been yes what I was praying for, my outcome
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  Speaker 7: would have been totally different. There's no way I would
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  Speaker 7: be where I am today had the answer had to
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  Speaker 7: he answer to prayer the way I wanted it to.
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  Speaker 7: So as I sit here today, are you sitting here
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  Speaker 7: today and you've been asking for something over and over?
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  Speaker 7: And I said, like I've been asking for something over
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  Speaker 7: and over. Could it be possible that the answer is no?
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  Speaker 7: And usually when God tells me no is because he
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  Speaker 7: has a better plan. It has always worked that way. Man,
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  Speaker 7: It's crazy. Hey, you know what, suppose you had stayed
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  Speaker 7: with that person that you had prayed for. Suppose you
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  Speaker 7: had stayed with that person that you really thought was
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  Speaker 7: this that or the other, and you stayed with him,
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  Speaker 7: would you be where you were in to.
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  Speaker 1: No, probably not. Had you stayed there, had they not
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  Speaker 1: left you, had you been able to find who you
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  Speaker 1: have now? Probably not. If you had stayed on that
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  Speaker 1: job that you had, would you be in a position
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  Speaker 1: that you're in now? Probably not?
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  Speaker 7: Or maybe it still ain't just works itself completely out yet, y'all.
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  Speaker 7: You gotta keep waking up and understanding that when God
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  Speaker 7: wakes you up, it's a clear sign that He ain't
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  Speaker 7: through with you yet.
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  Speaker 1: So why don't you see what the process? He is quick.
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  Speaker 7: Complaining all the time when it don't go your way.
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  Speaker 7: Sometimes your way ain't really the best way. I've had
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  Speaker 7: to discover that as smart as I think I am,
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  Speaker 7: I've really made some dumb decisions.
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  Speaker 1: I really have.
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  Speaker 7: Man, I done walked myself into some crazy situations. So
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  Speaker 7: now I'm really just learning to trust trusting his steps
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  Speaker 7: as he's ordering a mind, because I ask him to
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  Speaker 7: order my steps and trust in his timing and ask
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  Speaker 7: God to let your plans to prosper me, let them
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  Speaker 7: come true.
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  Speaker 1: That's the best way to live. If you can do that, man,
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  Speaker 1: you release a lot.
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  Speaker 7: Of pressure from yourself because you're trying to figure out
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  Speaker 7: which way to go. When God clearly has a path
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  Speaker 7: for you that's already designed. Why don't you talk to
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  Speaker 7: God about that? Ask God what would he have for
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  Speaker 7: you to do today? Ask God to order your steps today.
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 7: Ask God to give you peace of mind, the direction,
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  Speaker 7: and ask God for the strength to just stand the
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  Speaker 7: test and trust in his timing. God's timing is different,
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  Speaker 7: but it's usually way way better. Those are my close
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  Speaker 7: remarks today. Have a go with today, y'all. Hey, listen,
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  Speaker 7: talk to God today. He'd absolutely love to hear from you. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: all right, do that, y'all. Stay in peace.
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