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2018 Description, Obamacare, Go Home for X-mas, Couples NY Resolution, Side Piece Story, Who Said What, Closing Remarks and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back,
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a suit on, looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving the move like the moking buck things. And it's
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  Speaker 1: cos y'all true, good it. Steve har listening to the
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  Speaker 1: movie together for Stu Barn Please don't joy join with me.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn you, you gotta turn to turn them out, turn,
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  Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn the water the water.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your baby, I shall will Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do. Man, what an amazing blessing. God has given
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  Speaker 1: me my health, my strength, my will power, my dreams,
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  Speaker 1: all of it. God gave it to me. I accept it.
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  Speaker 1: I work hard, but man on, man on, man, I
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  Speaker 1: work hard. Is something that He gave me a gift.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what I want to talk to you about today,
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  Speaker 1: because God has gifted everyone, so I can't help but
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  Speaker 1: believe it. You are gifted in some way. Something about you.
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  Speaker 1: It's special and unique. Now that means that doesn't mean
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  Speaker 1: you're the only one that can see? Are you the
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  Speaker 1: only one that can write. Are you the only one
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  Speaker 1: one that can draw, you're the only one that can decorate,
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  Speaker 1: or you're the only one that can network, or you're
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  Speaker 1: the only one that that's not what it means. Or
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  Speaker 1: you have a great scientific mind, or you can figure
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  Speaker 1: things out, or you're good at problem solving. You're not
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  Speaker 1: the only one but you. But you are a unique individual.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody will travel the exact path that you are on.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody will have everything happened in a series of circumstances
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  Speaker 1: in the order that you're going to have it happened
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  Speaker 1: to you. That's what I mean when I say that
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  Speaker 1: you are unique. But now because you are gifted, you
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  Speaker 1: know you have something you have to do. You know,
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  Speaker 1: there's a scripture. It's in Proverbs, Proverbs eighteen and sixteen.
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  Speaker 1: I've been trying to be a little bit better at
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  Speaker 1: that for you, you know. So when I have an
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  Speaker 1: idea and I know where it is, I have somebody
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  Speaker 1: looked the scripture up from it handed to me. So
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  Speaker 1: it's in Proverbs eighteen sixteen. And this is the layman's
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  Speaker 1: term of it. It says a man's gift make room
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  Speaker 1: for him and brings him before great men. It is
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  Speaker 1: your gift that will make room for you. Now, my
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  Speaker 1: interpretation of this is this. Now I could be wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Please go to your local church, Syner God, Temple, Mass,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you do, and go get clarification. But what my
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  Speaker 1: gift has done in making room for me is I've
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  Speaker 1: taken it almost in the literal sense. My gift has
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  Speaker 1: actually made room for me. It has made it has
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  Speaker 1: cleared paths for me. My gift has opened up doors
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  Speaker 1: for me. That's what I take it as. It will
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  Speaker 1: make room for you. My gift has is broadened my
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  Speaker 1: ability to travel. My gift has opened my eyes to fashion.
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  Speaker 1: My gift has caused me to be able to provide
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  Speaker 1: for my family. My gift has caused me to be
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  Speaker 1: able to reach more people. That's what I'm saying in
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  Speaker 1: terms of it will make room for you. That it
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  Speaker 1: may be another interpretation. I'm just telling you how I
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  Speaker 1: took it. Now. It's worked out pretty good for me
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  Speaker 1: to that understanding. But I'm pretty sure Bishop Jake's, Joel Oldstein,
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  Speaker 1: Kenneth for Almah, you know, God, Glenn Staples, Bishop Glenn Stables,
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  Speaker 1: these guys give you much better understanding of it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just giving it to you. You know way, I know
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  Speaker 1: how so you know, it's kind of I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just like to keep it right there. But and
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  Speaker 1: then it says that it brings you before great men.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's gonna take you places. It's
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  Speaker 1: gonna take you places you never thought of going. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna meet people because of your gift. I told my son,
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  Speaker 1: who two of them are good photographers, You'll be taking
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  Speaker 1: pictures of great men. And then I messed with him.
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  Speaker 1: You're already taking pictures, Say your daddy, you know what.
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  Speaker 1: I'm messing with him like that. But that's just me
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  Speaker 1: and them just kicking it. But you know, but one day,
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  Speaker 1: who knows, you could be shooting the president. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you could be shooting some foreign dignitaries. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: could be shooting great sport events. You know, you never
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  Speaker 1: know where it could take you. But that's your gift.
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  Speaker 1: But what you gotta do is you gotta get to
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  Speaker 1: moving though. See, you can't have your gift and not
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  Speaker 1: do nothing with it. See. You know what that reminds
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  Speaker 1: me of. It's something that my father used to say,
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  Speaker 1: get up off your butt because you're sitting on a
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  Speaker 1: gold mine. He say that all the time, Boy, get
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  Speaker 1: up off your butt and move it, because you're sitting
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  Speaker 1: on a gold mine. I never really quite got that
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  Speaker 1: when I was little, but now that I'm an adult,
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  Speaker 1: I got it full well. See, a lot of you
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  Speaker 1: are sitting on a gold mine. You're sitting on a
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  Speaker 1: talent or a gift that you have. You're sitting on
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  Speaker 1: an ability. I don't care if it's making cakes or pies,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't care. That's a gift, man. That's
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  Speaker 1: a talent. I don't care. If it's the ability to
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  Speaker 1: do hell on your kitchen, on your back porch, that's
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  Speaker 1: a gift. Man. Half of you are gifted. A lot
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  Speaker 1: of us are gifted, and we're sitting on it looking
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  Speaker 1: at other people, wondering what can I do to make it?
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  Speaker 1: You already got something to make it with if you
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  Speaker 1: would just get up off your behind, man, quits sitting
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  Speaker 1: on that gold mine. Some of you are tech savvy,
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  Speaker 1: just a whiz is when it comes to engineering and
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  Speaker 1: putting stuff together and cables and wires and computers and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And now you steady looking around trying to figure out, Man,
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  Speaker 1: wonder what I can go do? Go do that? How
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  Speaker 1: about you go do that you know. It ain't that
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  Speaker 1: hard man, if you would just taking note of what
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  Speaker 1: God has given you already. He has given you a
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  Speaker 1: gift already. He has already given you a talent. Now
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you ain't using it and you sitting
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  Speaker 1: on your tail somewhere now, who fathers what we're talking about? Well?
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  Speaker 1: What you you blaming God for that? I'm man. I
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  Speaker 1: tell you what. I sit around people all the time
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  Speaker 1: who are gifted, and I'm looking at their gifts, and
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  Speaker 1: they steady complaining about what they don't have, but will
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  Speaker 1: not get up off there behind and use the gifts
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  Speaker 1: that God gave them. And it's frustrating. It's frustrating. It's
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  Speaker 1: gotta be frustrating for you if you're doing it, because
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  Speaker 1: it's frustrating for me when I see it. So when
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  Speaker 1: these people come to me and ask me for help,
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  Speaker 1: I just keep going the same thing over and over.
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  Speaker 1: Help yourself, man, do for you use your gift. It's
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  Speaker 1: a cat sitting behind the wall right now that's locked up.
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  Speaker 1: That's so good at artistry. It's catch in that tattoo
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  Speaker 1: and everybody, Man, get out do it the right way.
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  Speaker 1: Quit selling drugs. Man, you ain't going nowhere's selling no drugs.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to jail. Saw you going to jail, man.
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  Speaker 1: And if that don't do it, somebody gonna get tired
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  Speaker 1: of you selling drugs because they're gonna want to sell
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  Speaker 1: them over and they're gonna kill you. Let's just keep
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  Speaker 1: this thing real for just a second. Here, Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: get up off your but because you're sitting on the
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  Speaker 1: gold mine, and you're sitting up here, somebody always looking
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  Speaker 1: for a shortcut to the top. Ain't no shortcut. Somebody
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  Speaker 1: told me this the other day. Man. The road to
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  Speaker 1: success is always under construction. It ain't paved, it ain't
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  Speaker 1: free of barrels. It's got detour signs on it. It's
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  Speaker 1: got slow men working. It's got delays. Sometimes they flipped
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  Speaker 1: the stop sign. You gotta sit there and wait. Sometimes
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  Speaker 1: they got slow. There's traffic. That's accidents. Somebody on the
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  Speaker 1: road holding up things with a flat tie. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: get a flat tie. It's nails, it's gravels, this spike,
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  Speaker 1: it's everything. The road to success is always under construction.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't getting ready to be easy just because you
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  Speaker 1: didn't decided to do it. But don't sit around on
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  Speaker 1: your behind and complain all the time about what you
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  Speaker 1: don't have. My daddy said it, Man, get up off
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  Speaker 1: your butt because you sitting on a gold mine. You
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  Speaker 1: got a gift, you got a talent, You got something
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  Speaker 1: that you can do that could make a way for you,
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  Speaker 1: but you won't do it. It is within you. Stop
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  Speaker 1: looking around. Here's where people waste the most time on
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  Speaker 1: the road to success, looking around as somebody else trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out, Man, how can I do what they did?
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  Speaker 1: Do what you do? You ain't jay Z, You ain't sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I got a couple of your homies told you you
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  Speaker 1: rap better than him, But you're not jay Z. Really
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  Speaker 1: you're not. You know, all of us can shot at him,
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  Speaker 1: but we ain't Richard Pryor a nice shot Steve Bernie Dierre,
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  Speaker 1: all of we took some great shots at it. We're
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  Speaker 1: not him. Do what you can do. Do you do
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  Speaker 1: your gift quick, complaining about what you don't have. Get
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  Speaker 1: up off your butt because you're sitting on a gold mine.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, get ready to get
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  Speaker 1: ready to get better, get ready to get ready, get better,
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  Speaker 1: get ready to get ready and get ready, get ready,
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  Speaker 1: get ready to get ready to get ready and get
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  Speaker 1: read and get read and get ready, get ready to
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  Speaker 1: get read and get read and get ready. Take a breath.
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  Speaker 1: You better get two, get rid of get Fridy, Baby,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you'll talking about? Frid He going on?
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  Speaker 1: What frid and baby? You're about to listen to the
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  Speaker 1: steam Harving Morning show and ship and stop? Man? What else?
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  Speaker 1: Hold up? I'm not ready to get hold up? Get ready,
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  Speaker 1: get ready to get ready and get ready to get
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  Speaker 1: read and get read and get ready. Morning Jay? Happy Friday?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? And color Feller? What's up? Color Jay? Well
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  Speaker 1: you're mark slay it. Get getting ready to get ready
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  Speaker 1: to get ready, get ready, get ready, get ready, get
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  Speaker 1: read and get ready, get read and get ready, get
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  Speaker 1: read to get read and get ready. Go good morning,
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  Speaker 1: but leads the King of prank. What I'm timing? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready, I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready.
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm ready. You didn't say enough, I'm ready?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Point? Hey, what's up? Happy holiday? Happen holidays?
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited during this year, this time of year.
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  Speaker 1: I love Christmas. I love the holidays. Dude, Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: love the points. That's what I like, yes, and it
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  Speaker 1: is what you make it. Jay, It just is. I
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  Speaker 1: don't intend to make it anything. But I've never known
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  Speaker 1: anyone that was this bitter during the holidays. What is
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  Speaker 1: going on? Jay? I'm sorry, I just this is just
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  Speaker 1: me and I speak to the people who are out
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  Speaker 1: there who feel the same way I do. Like I
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  Speaker 1: said them, it's not a happy song we have today
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  Speaker 1: because there's too many, too many, too many happy songs
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  Speaker 1: to getting lost in the shuffle. It's time for a
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  Speaker 1: sad song. This is how you get into it. You
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  Speaker 1: put Do you have a tree? You put your tree up?
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  Speaker 1: Do you put lights up? You decorate? Do you do
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  Speaker 1: any of that? Have green cone? You have the smell
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  Speaker 1: of pine and stuff going through your house? Candy kany,
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  Speaker 1: start baking? Oh, I'm decorated? Lights outside, Christmas music, sick,
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  Speaker 1: come on singing, ja outside brightening? But Jake, but a tree?
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  Speaker 1: Do you at least have a tree? I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a tree. I don't want it. I don't like this.
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  Speaker 1: Two trees, Ja, I got two? You got two trees? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I have one in our fourier and then one in
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  Speaker 1: the din, the smaller one in then and Natasha decorates
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  Speaker 1: that one and the grown folk tree. So nice, that's
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  Speaker 1: so nice. But Jake, when your grand babies come, you've
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  Speaker 1: never got I'm not the house. You come to see
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  Speaker 1: a tree, you know, you come and get your gift.
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  Speaker 1: Then you leave. That's you leave. There's no food to
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  Speaker 1: come in the house. Whether they keep the car. This
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  Speaker 1: is insanity right here. You need help, Yeah, you do,
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  Speaker 1: all right? Listen coming up at thirty two after the
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  Speaker 1: hour inside of something Funny. Twitter is having some fun
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  Speaker 1: asking their followers to sum up their twenty eighteen and
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  Speaker 1: five words. Okay, and we'll play who said what right after.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the show. All right, guys, it is
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  Speaker 1: time for something funny now. Twitter is having some fun.
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  Speaker 1: They're asking their followers to sum up their hashtag twenty
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  Speaker 1: eighteen and five words. Wow, whoa eighteen. I'm gonna just
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  Speaker 1: be honest. Is a year I'm glad to see go
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  Speaker 1: because I'll start it was stressful, stressful, stressful, stressful and stressful. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it was a crazy year for me.
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  Speaker 1: It really really really was. And I'm yeah, Wow, not
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  Speaker 1: trying to bring the party down or nothing, but I
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  Speaker 1: think I just did kill the groove. But yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: those are my yeah, with like a thousand exclamation marks. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm yelling. Okay, let me see. I'm gonna start off
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  Speaker 1: with fantastic. This year was fantastic for me. Uh another
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  Speaker 1: word informative. I had to watch a lot of news,
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  Speaker 1: to watch a lot of news draining, I'll say that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah it was how many? How many words was that?
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  Speaker 1: Let's see? Uh, I got to travel travel. I traveled
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  Speaker 1: a lot this year. One more, one more and uh,
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  Speaker 1: happiness good, very happy this year, very current, complete opposite
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  Speaker 1: of my year, completely in every way. But I'm still standing.
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  Speaker 1: And that's that's all thanks to God. I got through.
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  Speaker 1: I got through it. Yes, all right, come on, Jay,
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  Speaker 1: let's go. Okay, I'm gonna give you, just to get
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  Speaker 1: this out the way, five words to describe twenty eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you two hornies. Two. You got three
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  Speaker 1: words left food if you come out of that house
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  Speaker 1: by yourself. Yeah, I still even say that I've never
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  Speaker 1: heard I haven't heard that in so long? Do they
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  Speaker 1: still say horny because you ain't been there. If you've
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  Speaker 1: been there, you'll say that I just haven't heard it.
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  Speaker 1: I just haven't Okay, okay, three more jay horny, horny, stressful, stressful, um, um, grateful,
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  Speaker 1: that's it. That's fine. Nos, No, I only get four.
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  Speaker 1: You got two hornies. You're too stress stressful and grateful.
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  Speaker 1: Do your two hornies comfort one? No, I get two hornies.
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  Speaker 1: That's one one. That's four and blessing. Okay, yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: got rid of your two hornies. You wouldn't be stressful
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  Speaker 1: and your blessed because you're still standing. All right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: here we go, come on, nephew. Yeah, funny, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's been a funny year you okay, profitable. Oh that's
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  Speaker 1: a good one. Okay. Um? Sexual and either what and
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  Speaker 1: second d and then what's the last one? Naked and
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  Speaker 1: afraid on that show? I go on that show. I
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  Speaker 1: do two days on that show. I live out the
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  Speaker 1: two days naked those bugs. No, when I show up, though,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up dressed in calamine lotion off because
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  Speaker 1: I am not an outdoors person. I am not. I
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  Speaker 1: have a beautiful patio. Never go out there when I
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  Speaker 1: show up. Yeah, I never go out there ever. I
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  Speaker 1: have an upstairs outdoor second level dick people. I worked
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  Speaker 1: most of my life not to get bitten by a bug. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I want. I don't do it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: go out. And La normally doesn't have a lot of bugs.
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  Speaker 1: We really don't. We have spiders and ants, but we
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  Speaker 1: don't have like your typical mosquito and fly and things
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  Speaker 1: like that. Gnats, we don't have that. But this year
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  Speaker 1: it has been that. But I don't go will take
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  Speaker 1: you down. I'm talking about carry you to your grain
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  Speaker 1: to drive around and look for people. Yes, that's so
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  Speaker 1: humid tropical. Yeah, yeah, And that's how it was in
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  Speaker 1: Chicago growing up. And we were all kinds of bugs
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  Speaker 1: in Chicago, New York. Yeah, you know, I got in
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  Speaker 1: Chicago and I did not know it until the nineties
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  Speaker 1: when I was there in the nineties. The them them
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  Speaker 1: bugs are light up just made my dad bugs. We
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  Speaker 1: don't have that in Texas, you know. I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: this is amazing. Yeah. And and ladybugs. We had a
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  Speaker 1: lot of ladybugs. Ladybugs, but butterflies. But okay, surely don't
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  Speaker 1: laughing what call it, don't lay? I thought if I
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  Speaker 1: touched one them bugs, I might get electrocuted. I did
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  Speaker 1: that was an old wives. Still it was okay, but
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  Speaker 1: we used to put They used to put them in jars,
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  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, put them in jar, something cruel.
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  Speaker 1: They tear the butt off and stick it on your head.
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  Speaker 1: Then has kids used to do that and they would
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  Speaker 1: light up? You had a very interesting child. Put that
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  Speaker 1: out there, Jay, put it on your head? Huh? All right?
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  Speaker 1: He Jay, all right, listen. Go to Steve Harvey FM,
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  Speaker 1: and coming up next, it is the nephew's prank phone call,
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  Speaker 1: and we're gonna get to who said what. We're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get to that later on in the morning. Who said what?
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  Speaker 1: It's a segment from Jay. Yes, all right, prank phone
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  Speaker 1: call from the nephew coming up right after this. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
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  Speaker 1: the top of the hour and entertainment news. The Rock
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  Speaker 1: and Roll Hall of Fame inductees have been announced and Sierra,
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  Speaker 1: We love Sierra. Sierra wants court ordered. I'll tell you
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  Speaker 1: why I'm laughing in a minute, Sierra wants court ordered
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  Speaker 1: mediation for future junior. But right now it is time
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  Speaker 1: to run that prank back. I gotta tell you why
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  Speaker 1: I was laughing, because when I first looked at that word,
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  Speaker 1: I thought it said medication. Sierra wants court ordered medication
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  Speaker 1: for future junior. I was like, what, that doesn't make
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  Speaker 1: sense then in its mediation? All right, court order. Yeah,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: and I didn't see the junior in that either. All right,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: let's go, nephew. What you guys, we're about to turn
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: your lights off. We're about to turn your lights south,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: that's what you say. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to find Gerard.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Please get us, Hey, Gerard, how are you doing? This?
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Is uh Mason Man. I'm the guy that turns the
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: lights on and off if you haven't paid your bill,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: and I'm hoping here at your house. I actually get
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: ready to turn the lights off, but I'm trying to. Uh,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: it's a courtesy car. We're supposed to give if people
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: can pay their bill before we turn them off, and
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: we collect and we keep moving. You said, you say,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: who are you? Who are you a geating? I'm exactly
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: you say, you got to do that. I'm getting ready
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to turn the lights off because the bill hasn't been paid.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I'm getting ready to turn the power off. Are you
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: here at the house? No, I'm at work. Okay, Well, listen,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: is there anyone at the house that can make a payment,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: make a payment. The payment right now that I have
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: is two undred and twenty one dollars and thirty six cents.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Is that right? For what the lesson? For the electric bill?
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: You're sir? No, no, sir, No, sir, no, no, there's
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: nobody at the house, and I don't think I owe
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: that much. Well, that's what I have right now, two
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: hundred and twenty one dollars and thirty six cents. See
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: my wife, she already paid that sick. Okay, well they
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: don't have a record of that. I'm in your driveway
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: right now. I'm getting ready to turn this thing off
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: until the payment has been made. We'll see that, sir.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: As nobody home right now? Okay, Well, if no one
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: is here, then I have to follow through and continue
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: and go ahead and and and turn the power off
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: until everything is rectified. Oh oh, you and my driveway,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I mean your driveway, sir? Is there anyone here? How
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: far are you from here? I'm at work. I can't
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: get off right now, but you gotta get out my driveway. No, no, sir,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to leave your driveway until
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I actually turned the power off. Can't turn my power off.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I got food in the frisgerator to my kids. Got fished,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: you know, come home? Man? Well, what do you mean
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: you got fished? What does that mean? I can be
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: there in thirty minutes? Give you the cast right now?
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: What what do you mean when you say you got fish?
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: This this tank? Oh fish tank? You have a fish tank? Okay, well, sir,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I understand that. But I'll be there in thirty minute.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: You stay right there, don't touch nothing, okay, So I can't.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I can't be here thirty minutes. I can't wait that long.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Thirty minutes. I'll be there with cash and I'll pay
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: you with a two hundred. What we don't We don't
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: accept cash, sir. We're gonna need a money or I'll
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: have time. I'll be there with the cash thirty minute.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I can't take cash. Are you listening to me, sir?
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? I'm listening to you. I
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: can't take cash. I need a money order. I'll beat
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: the thirty minutes. Okay, sir, I have to cut I
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: have to turn your power off if you're not here.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I give everybody ten minutes, ten minutes where they can
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: pay it or we can actually turn it off now
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you tell me what you want me to do. I'm
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: gonna call my wife real quick, ir, real quick. So
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I don't have time to call you. I don't. I
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: don't have time for that. First of all, sir, I'll
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: get me up sting. I'll wight thro mess up bills, okay.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: First of all, okay, okay. So if she doesn't mess
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: up bills, then what the hell is going on? I
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: don't know. I'm an call hunt real quick, little get okay, okay, Well, sir,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I don't have a real quick tide. What we have
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: to do right now is I have to do this.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I have to do to turn your power off. You
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: get it turned off now, listen. I can come back
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: and turn this thing right back on next week. It'll
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: be one hundred and fifty dollars him reconnect. First of all,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: you get me to get the out of my yard.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: First of all, so I tall, y'all. I'm here because
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be here. I'm here because you haven't
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: paid I'm plays. I'm gonna call my wife to look
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: at this right now. I'm here because you haven't paid
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: your bill. I'll pay you my bill. My wife paid
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: my bill. Well, how don't even know she paid it
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: because you don't know what. Damn you don't know anything.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Hold hold up, sir, trust me, a white paid the bill.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: It's my stick in your system. Get out of my yard. Now.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Are you at Avenue? Yeah, that's correct, But I'm in
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I'm in there that I'm in the right place, sir,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: And you haven't plaid your bill, and I've been ordered
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to turn it off. I'll tell you what, tell you
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: what tell me I'm gonna do. I'm gonna be that
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: thay minute. I love that. I'm not gonna be in
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes. Okay, you are you listening? I'm turning this
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: off in the next five minute, and not touch my
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: A wife paid the bill. Leave my lesson. My wife
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: hasn't paid the bill. Now, maybe your wife is out
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: lally gagging doing something else. Who who who ho? Ho? Hole?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: First of all, you keep keep out of it, all right, Okay,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you don't want that brought in. I doesn't want to
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: keep telling me what she has done, what she happened done, Leston, listen,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: keep my hey, that's why I draw the line. I'll
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: be there thirty minutes me and you could chalk. I'm
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: gonna continue to go back and forth with you. So
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I don't have thirty minutes. I got ten minutes, you
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: understand me. I gotta I'm gonna leave right now. I'm
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: gonna getting the call right now. Okay, I'll be there
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes. I don't have thirty minutes. I'm turning it off.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: You can call downtown and get headquarters to turn it
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: back on and we'll come back out here. And it's
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: a reconnect it for one hundred and fifty dollars. So
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I got to come up with three hundred. Oh hell,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: your bill is two hundred and something dollars, and that's
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: gonna be one hundred and fifty dollars reconnecting. No hell, no, hey,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: I'll be had in ten minutes. Just okay, Well, sir,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: and I've told you before you have five minutes to
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: get here. No, listen, listen, listen. Let me call my
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: neighbor real quick. Oh hold, let me call and hold up,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: let me call. I don't have time for you to
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: click over and call other people. Sir? Is there somebody
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: that can give me a money order right now? Yeah? Yeah,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: right now. I get your money order in five minutes. Okay,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: now who's gonna do that. I don't know how I
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: called my wife. I told you your wife is the
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: reason why you're in this situation. I'm gonna report you
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: to your super Are you gonna mean when I'm out
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: doing my job, you should report your wife for not
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: doing what she was supposed Let's care what you say
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: if do you want your lights on or off when
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: you get here? I want my lights holding them. Your
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: lights are getting turned off in the next two minutes
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: because your wife didn't pay the damn bill. I don't
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: tell you, excuse me, I donna tell you. Listen, keep
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: my wife's name out your mouth. I'll tell you what
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: you know what my supervisor would tell you. I don't
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: know what about to tell me you that you have
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: been talking to nephew Tommy from the city of Harvey
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: more to show you just got bright. Man was on
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: my wedding. Your co worker got chosen, so you got you.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into man. Don't do that no more
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: that man you had me. Hey, I got one more
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: thing to ask you, man, what is the baddest radio
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: show in the land? Come on, man, Steve Harvey Moran
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: show Tommy. Everybody get a little tense. Can you manage
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: getting your lights turning off? Christmas times happened? It has
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: the tree out, the lights on the house out, everything out.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Can you imagine Christmas time you didn't got your poe
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: turned though? Well that's Jay's house because he doesn't have
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: any lights or anything. You know. The dumbest thing we
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: do when I don't know if you guys all experiences,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: but I have you tried each room separately? Like they
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: may have left the moon in? Yeah? Yeah, you know
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: why you flip You got to chuck us up in
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: the mail. I hope the lights are on in Columbus,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Georgia because the nephew was coming to town. Baby December
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: twenty eight at the Columbia at the Columbus Georgia Civic Center,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: ticke us on sale right now. And then Washington d C.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: It's satur the December the twenty night. We got two shows,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: seven and ten. It's Joe Claire, It's Country, Wayne red Grant,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Little Duval, Tony Roberts Earthquake and hosted by yours truly.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: And then it is New Year's Eve, Houston, Texas Smart
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Financial Center. All right, coming up entertainment news right after
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty four after the hour. You do
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: not want to miss it. Jay Anthony Brown will murder
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: yet another Christmas hit? What's up? Yes, I don't do
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: he's a holiday hater. I'm convinced he is, all right.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: But first in entertainment news, we can't wait for that,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Jake and Entertainment news, rock and Roll Hall of Fame
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: has announced its class of twenty nineteen. Here are a
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: few of the nominations. The Cure, def Leppard, Janet Jackson,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: and Stevie Nicks. Yes, yes, yes, Jane about time, Yes yes, yes,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: you know what she is. Stevie Nicks has been inducted
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: with back in the late nineties. This is her second
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: induction as a female. Oh I love that. Yeah yeah,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: yeah right, yeah yeah. And we're really happy about Janet Jackson,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: so well deserved. Yes, uh well, anyway, we're mad that
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: the Rock Roll Hall of Fame, though, did not induct L. L.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: Cool J kind of salty about that. Yeah yeah, he
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: didn't make the class. He was nominated, nominated, Yeah yeah,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: he didn't make the class. Ups didn't make it. And
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I'm really really mad about this too. Rufus featuring Shaka Khan.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, they should have been in there legends. Yeah, definitely,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: but Rufus is sweet thing, right, come on, come on? Yeah, yeah,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: something good. Absolutely, Yeah, it's amazing who makes it and
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: who gets left out? That's that's kind of weird. Yeah,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: I mean having another chance coming, you know, in the
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: coming years. But yeah, well I don't know why they
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: didn't make it. When you don't make it, though, create
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: your own, yeah, create your own. I am in the
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: prank called Hall of Fame. Yeah you should you are, man? Yeah, yeah,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: and we you and I'm in the murder to Hit
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Hall of Fame. I mean, I'm you and I voted
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: for you. Thank you. Are you gonna tell me I'm
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: not in the Strawberry Letter Hall of Fame? You are? Well,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: what that's the case. I'm in the Reality Update, Yes, yes,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: you are. No nobody at Reality TV like me. We
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: had ourselves on the background there Rock and Roll Hall
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: of Fame. And when we later on this week, We're
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: gonna let everybody know who're in the big Booty Hall
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: of Fame because I'm voted for a lot of people.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, can't you go first Friday when you laid
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: on and this show then, and I'm voting for people.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I'm voting for two people that's on this show. Then
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: it ain't Jake and it ain't me. So day, well,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: you be in the hot Hall of Fame, baby myself
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: talking about my big eyes. Who anyway? All right? And
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: other news. Sierra is reaching out for help. She's trying
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: to work out a custody schedule with future and their son.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Sierra's legal team wants court ordered mediation so they can
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: figure out a rotation that works with both of their
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: busy schedules. Okay, so they're trying. The boy don't want
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: to miss football season. I mean we're missing the Sea Hall.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: All right, Gary Wilson, We're moving on. Jay, It's time
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: for today's headlines. Here we go headlines and trip. Y'all
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: very very much, And unfortunately I'm starting out with sad news.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: You're so late. Nancy Wilson, Free time Grammy Award winning
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: artist has passed away. Nancy Wilson was eighty one years old.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: This is what her manager has announced this morning. Miss
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Wilson passed away peacefully, they say, Thursday, at her home
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: after a long illness. Nancy Wilson was from Chillicothe, Ohio.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: She initially focused on R and B music, would later
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: excel to jazz, ballots and torch songs. She made her
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: debut in her nineteen sixty one single guests Who I
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Saw Today. Her biggest hit came in nineteen sixty four
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: with You Don't Know How Glad I Am, which rose
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: through the charts to number eleven spot on Billboard's Hot
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: one hundred Singles and earned her a Grammy Award for
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Best R and B Recording. She's won so many and
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: so many beautiful performances. John Legend reacted to Wilson's passing
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: on Twitter with great sadness again, starting out with this
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: sad note, the great Nancy Wilson has passed away. She
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: was eighty one years old. As a nation's latest budget
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: deadline approaches, looks like the President's still sticking by his
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: demand for five billion more dollars to build a campaign
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: promise border wall and threatening to shut down the government
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: a few days from now if the Congress doesn't authorize
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: the money he wants. Trump's claiming again that Mexico is
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: going to end up paying forward with the savings he
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: says extracted by the former NAFTA deal, which is now
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: called USMCA. However, the expected incoming speaker of a House
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: in January, Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi, seems to feel Trump may
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: not really understand how trade agreement's work. Basically what he's
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: saying and he benefited our economy might have from a
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: trade agreement. A revised trade agreement would be spent on
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: the wall instead of growing our economy and increasing paychecks
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: for our workers. The American people are still paying the price,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: and Pelosi says that a partial shutdown of the government
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: would actually cost the US billions of dollars. The deadline
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: for the Congress to agree in a budget to avoid
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: all of this. December twenty first fast Approaching right admitted
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Russian operative Maria Boudinoff has become the first from her
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: country to acknowledge being part of Moscow's political influence campaign
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: during the twenty sixteen election. Botnoff entered a federal court
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: yesterday and pled guilty to mount to mounting a campaign
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: to influence top Republicans. She said she did buy a
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: using connection with the National Rifle Association and the National
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Prayer Breakfast. Noof has agreed to cooperate with the US prosecutors.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: She expected to spend less than six months in prison
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: if she's sent behind bars at all, and then she's
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: supposed to be deported back to Russia. Judge selected February twelfth,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: if we're at a hearing to assess her value when
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: it comes to the ongoing investigation. Finally, the copyright lawsuit
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: filed over the song Blurred Lines has finally been settled.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: A California federal judge has entered a five million dollar
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: judgment against Robin Thick and Farrell Williamson in favor of
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: the family of the late Great Marvin Gay. Back to
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Boarding Show, everybody you're listening to show.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: If you need health insurance, please listen up. Okay. Individuals
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: and families who buy their own insurance have until this
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: coming Saturday, December fifteenth in most states to sign up
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: for Obamacare. All right, it's a word we haven't heard
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: in a long time because they've been trying to destroy it.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Are you shocked that you didn't know about tomorrow's deadline? Well,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: you are not alone. President Trump has cut funding for
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: the Affordable Care Act you know, we like to call
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: it Obamacare advertising, of course, an outreach media campaigns. The
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Trump administration has cut advertising funding by ninety percent. He
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: did that in twenty seventeen. President Obama, if you recall
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: earlier this week, did a video reminding everyone about tomorrow's
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: urgent deadline on social media. All right, so you can
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: go to healthcare dot gov to sign up. Got it, guys,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: healthcare dot gov to sign up. Yes, it's still available
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: for you. It's been tomorrow. A lot of people, a
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: lot of people. Absolutely, I got I got three children.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: We have used so much in this past year. If
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't had that, oh my god, can you imagine?
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: But think about this, what if you had a pre
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: existing condition? What if you had a child, a loved
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: one with a pre existing condition and didn't have healthcare.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: So this president, mister Trump, who's trying so hard to
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: cut funding and get the word out about the deadline,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: he doesn't care about American citizens that need healthcare to
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: help their family members and children. Man, he is so
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: petty and the right you're still right, And they never
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: came up with a viable alternative. Okay, you want to
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: cut Obamacare and replace it with what Yeah. Right. So
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: in the video and in the video that the President
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: President Obama did, he said, spread the word. We can
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: help save people lives. So just like you just said, Tommy,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: it's our obligation to let everybody know about this deadline.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: It's tomorrow tomorrow. The saddest thing you ever want to
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: see is go and see people getting medication and they
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: don't have enough money, and so they vation out. Yeah,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: and he said, well, I'll get six of these and
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: three because they don't have the money, Well, can you
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: get a pool bottle? Appeals? No, they don't have it. Ye,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: elderly people go through that when I was young. Again. Yeah,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: it's literally so again, go sign up, do it now
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: healthcare dot gov. Tomorrow is the deadline. If you don't
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: do it by tomorrow, healthcare dot gov. Okay, another petty
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Trump news, Carla, the President. The President is canceled the
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: White House Press Christmas Party. It's long run. It's a
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: long running tradition and one of the perks is that
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: members of the press get to take pictures with the president.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: But not this year. The White House will have another
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Christmas party with more favorable members of the press invited.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: So coming up next at thirty two after the hour,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: j Anthony Brown is here to murder another Christmas. Let's Scrooge.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening to the
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, Jay's here because we're so
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: in the Christmas spirit. Jay, and here you go. You
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: knew what I was when you hire. Let's try and exercise. Wait,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: let's try and exercise. Let's try this. Shirley Huh, Merry Christmas,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Happy holidays, so sweet. Thank you, Carla, Merry Christmas and
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: happy holidays to you and your family. Please big hug
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: for me. You know that's the same with Charity. Thank you, Tommy,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Happy holidays, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Happy holidays, prosperous new year.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Tell Tash and and uh and Tasha, I said, big
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Mirry Christmas from uncle Tommy over here. Okay tell them now?
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Will you tell the Miles children the same thing? Jordan,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Sydney Trey, Why I tell everybody? Happy holiday? Yeah, we'll do.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Happy Holiday's Merry Christmas. Time. We've gotten through another year together.
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  Speaker 1: Were family, were family, and and thank you so much.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you've been such an inspiration to
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: us all this year. With your new TV show and everything.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: What a blessing you know. I'm just so happy for
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: you and happy you know. New Year to you and
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: make it may be even more prosperous. Please give her
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: next to my love, please I will, and please you
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: do the same with Jackie with her beautiful self loving.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: I'm so in the Christmas spirit, may be right back
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: to eating up. Jay's segment on the Son is dedicated
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: to out there. There's gotta be somebody somewhere who wishes
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: someone I love one, a friend, a relative, whatever, which
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: is leave their house for Christmas? Please be gone? But
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Christmas es I black. I don't care when you go,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: and I don't care, but so please be gone the
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Chrismas this I beg I be you see it. You're
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: done my less I have my head age. Damn, James,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: you sound so depressed. Why you were saying, there're a
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: mean one, mister Grench mean one, mister be gone? Yeah,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: the word somebody would ride with somebody's shell. And they
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: turn that up. They just make the words come turn
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: it up, come home for Christmas, not be gone gone?
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Oh mar, can we hear it again? What my time? Time? Think?
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: We do? I think we have time. It's so good
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: a day. I don't care, don't I don't please, please
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: get out of steph. I beg you yell out my house.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: But the sounds like somebody's going to jump off a clef,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: evil doctor. What do you say to me? Damn, you
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: don't like? You don't like Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas Holiday? What's
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: what we got next? New Year's even is coming. I
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: hope you elite like that another year came. All right, listen,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: we gotta go up next. It is the nephew in
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: the prank phone call. Right after this you're listening str
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: morning show coming up at the top of the hour, guys.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after it is my strawberry letter
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: for today, subject love is not enough for me. That's right,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: you heard me. But right now the nephew is here
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. You guys. Today, this right
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: here is called an invitation good a party. I gotta
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: see it one more time, an invitation to the party.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: Half of it is, half of it is how you
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: say it, though it is it's how you see it.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: An invitation to the poty sounds like a sermon, though
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: it's getting ready to be but you know what, I
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: wish I could say it like, ah, if I could,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: I can't do his voice. I love Clarence Williams the third.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I look at Brothers, an actor,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: an invitation to the party, the party, inventation, the party
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: here it is running. Hello. Uh, you know I'm trying
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: to reach Danny. Yeah, what's up this Danny? Hey, Danny,
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  Speaker 1: how you doing? My name is Paul Man. How you
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: doing today? Rob? I'm good, Man, I'm good. What's up
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: hey man? I'm wanting to reach out to you man,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: um about your wife? You you you married to Nicole? Right?
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: I want to make sure I got the right person. Yeah,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: yeah again. My name is Paul Man. I know Nicole,
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Nicole my wife. My wife is Regina, and uh you know,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: we know we know Nicole real well. Man. We was
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: trying to uh we trying to actually see about getting
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: getting you guys, uh come out and uh maybe maybe
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: go out on a double day. Man, we all go
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: out into town. So you know my wife Nicole? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I mean she she Um, I got your number out
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: of Nicole's fall and okay, hold on wait wait, wait
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: what you mean you got my number out of the
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: cold phone you you got you you you. I'm not
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: understanding what's going on though, Okay. Let me let me,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: let me try to break this down to you man. Uh, myself,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: my wife rout here and the cold. Uh we we've
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: all actually been hanging out lately, you know then the
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: last last six weeks to two months. You know you
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: ain't you now you ain't hanging up with my wife? Okay?
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: My my wife with me all the time, bro, So
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you know you might want to you might have a
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: own number. No, no, you you you Danny right, I'm Danny, okay,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: and the cold is your wife. The coal is like
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: about five foot four or five foot five light light
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: my wife, yes, my wife. But you ain't you ain't
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: hanging out would them? Okay? Man, I'm trying to explain
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: to you what's going on and now if you and
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: listen to me, school, I'm just trying. Okay, here, here's
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: what's up. Get to your point man. Me, Nicole and
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: my wife have been swinging. That's some buy. That's some buy,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: you know what you walking up the wrong though? You
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: just some buys you you you know, just just just
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: some bully. Hey, man, I want to go. I wanted
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: to call you and tell you what was going on
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: and see if you wanted do you know my my
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: go the wrone number for show. Trust me, let's just
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: break this down. How many Danny is it? Dog? It
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: ain't that men? So I mean, dude, I mean, you're
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: gonna be in denial? Are you gonna go? And except
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: when I'm trying to tell you, I'm trying to comfort me.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: What I'm trying to bude you to come hang out
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: with me and the girls? You know, do you wanna?
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: Do you want to? I mean this might be something
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: you might like if you tried, man, Because I mean,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: we didn't have a lot of fun with the color
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: What what the you mean that far with you? Ain't
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: no guy the pole? So what you're trying to tell me?
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: You're trying to tell me y'all we had fun with Nicole?
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: I explaining you. We we're gonna explain my No, that explained? Man,
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: This one buys Okay, Well, what I know my wife
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: and I know she's a boy like that, and I
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: never heard that. I had never heard of you, and
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: you're my wife and we've been to jump of a year.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: So this some buys. Okay, Well he was something something
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: you need to understand. Man. You know your understand nothing.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: You need to understand your wife. But I know what
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: to I know, I know, I know Nicolee. Now I
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: bet you know what where you at? I'm I'm rolling
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: through the city right now. I got to work. I
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: gotta do. But I'm just trying to see. I need
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: to put my eyes on you. I need to put
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: my eyes on your mind. Okay, a man, do you
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: want to come do what we be doing? And so
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: you trying to tell me that my wife and been
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: with another woman? You man, Dog, I'm just trying to
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: keep it real with you. Dog. I was just trying
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: to let you man, let you know what was going on. See,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to start nothing. You know what. More,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know know them God, Paul, I don't know
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: him more, Keno. And I don't know why you called
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: him my phone. And I tell you what, when my
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: wife get home, I'm gonna fine. I'm for this. Some
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: boys this some boys, many problem. Okay, dog, calm down, though, man,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: Now call mine. You don't call my mother number out
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: of here. You're gonna tell me to calm them down.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: You tell them you getting my wife, your wife speaking
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: with my numb My wife was another one day man.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: And Timmy is the one that told us that Nicole
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: was down. He who taught me, Hey, dog nephew, Timmy
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Barve me more this show. Hey nephew,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: time me man from the Steve Baby Morning Show. Your
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: wife Nicole got me to bray phone call you dog man.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: That ain't even funny. Wow, Wow, you're all right, You're
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: all right man, man, I'm pleased. I'm pleased. I'm glad.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: This was just the morning show man. Y'all just met me.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: But look here, man, somebody you know, boy, somebody gonna
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: get your I hope you gotta call little Shan policy
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: that I gotta ask you, man, what is the baddest
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: ain't number one? Man. I'm gonna ask y'all. And I
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: don't know, only ask I think I do, though, did
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: I go to ye? I was hoping you would ask us. Yeah,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: you don't know what you know what I noticed about
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: your phone call. They always want to find you because
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: they don't know where you are to fight you. But
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: the person that they know. They don't want to do nothing.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: They just want to get their hands on your ass,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: and that's what I want. Yeah, and then we just
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: trying to kill you. We've been hanging out with the cold,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: and the cold likes it. Okay, Nicole, Like, now do
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: you want to join us? Do you want an invitation
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: to the party? Talking? Are you coming to the party
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: or not? What movie with somebody else that Welcome to
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: the party? Oh oh heart, welcome to the party. That's
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: what you said. Welcome to the party. Come on, I
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: was gonna say colored purple, but oh man, hey, I
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: got three cities left. I got three cities up Columbus, Georgia,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: a Washington, d C. And in Houston, Texas. You can
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: go to my website get all the details Thomas Miles
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: dot com, click on my tour and you will see
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: where I will be. You can get your tickets right there.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: We're gonna make it that simple for you, Thomas Miles
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: dot com. And get your laugh on with me. All right,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: three cities left, Columbus, Georgia, Washington, DC, and Houston, Texas.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: Oh all right, well good, and after that you're gonna
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: be uh celebrating, right And you know what I'm gonna do.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: What I'm gonna throw a party? Scary? I don't do scary.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: I do scary. That's what you got from it. Scary,
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Yes from his voice? Yeah, all right, thinking of you
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: up next. It is a Strawberry Letters subject love is
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: not Enough for Me. We'll get into it right after
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: this you're listening show. It is time now, ladies and gentlemen,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships,
• 54:02
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• 54:05
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• 54:14
  Speaker 1: your letter live on the air. Let's go buckle up,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: is the Strawberry let us. This could beat you and
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: your letter. Subject love is not enough for me. Dear
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend and I are not compatible at all.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: I am not sure why I keep trying to make
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: our relationship work. He says he loves me. I love him,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: but I'm not as in love with him as I
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: used to be. We've been together five years and we
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: have two children, but we argue so much We're completely
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: opposite of each other. He likes rap, I like R
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: and B. I'm educated, he's not. I'm a goal achiever.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: He just creates goals and never follows through with them.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: I cook, he eats. I have a car, he doesn't.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: He likes hanging with his family. I would rather go
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: on dates with just him. He refuses to compromise on
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: what he likes to do, so we end up doing
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: whatever he wants to do. I can't stand his family
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: because they are not positive role models for my children,
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: but I let them go over there as much as possible.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I've been forced to do things that go against my morals,
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: but I've done it for this man. I feel like
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: I'm losing myself and turning into a whole different kind
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: of woman. I have told him that I'm not happy,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: and I suggested counseling, but he says he says counseling
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: is for white people. Now I find myself yelling at
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: him more and more, and I can't find a nice
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: way to express myself anymore. Is it me or him
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. I wanted to work out so we
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: can remain together for the children, but I also realize
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: that I don't really know this man. I didn't really
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: know this man before I fell in love with him.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling stuck and unhappy. Do you think this man
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: can change? Or should I move on and find happiness
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: with someone else i'm compatible with. Yes, move on and
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: find someone else you're compatible with if you want to
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: be happy, because this isn't the guy. He's not that guy.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: He's just not all right. You guys have nothing in
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: common but the children, and you have two children no
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: positive role models around them. You've changed as a woman
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: dealing with this man. You're just letting him bring you down. Okay,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: you're not. You've lost yourself in this guy. He's not
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: the guy for you. You need to realize that before
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: you know it gets too late. You don't need to
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: continue in this relationship with him. You find yourself yelling
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: at him more and more. You can you can't find
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: a nice way to express yourself anymore. Is it me
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: or him? That's the problem, you ask? It is you?
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: It's you because you keep allowing this and you won't
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: recognize that nothing is going to help this situation. You
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: want to go to counseling. He doesn't. He thinks it's
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: for white people. You know, I do suggest you go
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: to counseling on your own to figure some of this
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: stuff out. You say you're feeling stuck and unhappy. Why
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: continue to feel like that? Why he's not trying to
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: help you at all. You already said he doesn't compromise.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: He likes to spend time with his family. He sounds
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: very immature to me. And you're raising two children, so
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to realize and decide what you're going
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: to do for your children. Your children are the most
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: important thing, you know, in this relationship. You got to
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: figure out what's the best thing to do for your children.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: I think it's to separate from this guy. You're not
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: even married to him, but you know, do your own thing,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: get your own apartment, you know, give the children some
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: stability in life. That's what they need. They don't want
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: to be sitting around with people that aren't role models
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: for them. To hear you guys arguing all the time, No,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: don't compromise anymore. This meant can this man change? Yeah,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: everybody can change, but you can't change him. That's what
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: you need to understand. You can't change him. Should you
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: move on and find happiness with someone else. Yes, please do,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: please do, because you're not happy and you're feeling stuck. Jay. Finally, finally, finally, finally,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: I found a friend. Someone who doesn't want to go anywhere,
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: don't want to do anything, A nice guy who just
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: wants to in the house and be alone. He don't
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: like Christmas, he don't like New Years, he don't like Thanksgiving.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: He's my buddy. Man, Calm me up. We can do
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: nothing together. Come right here, man, call a dude. Calm
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: me up. Man, what you're doing nothing? What you're doing?
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: I ain't doing a damn thing. See later. I love
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: this guy you cameling to Jay. I love this guy.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: And my first nominee inducted to the Grubby Hall of
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: Fame is this guy right here. Man, keep doing you.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: That's what life is all about. You're not doing your
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: best life. I love it. Jay. Do you feel the
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: same way about counseling as your new buddy, No conseling
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: for black people? Yeah? Well that one I take back.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: A lot of black people need to be in counseling
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: in that right. I get brother, and that my life. Yeah. Yeah,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: it's for all people. If you need it, go get it.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Please he's not on her side at all, absolutely not. Yeah,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no, no, no, I was gonna bring Tommy
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: in this as well. Come on, Tommy. Well you know,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: as though I have a ready to love show, I
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: have to give some device here. I have to How
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: much time do I have? Yeah, you have a little
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: over a minute. Okay, let me start, Let me at
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: least start. Everything that you have done is out of order.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: You didn't do things in order. You fell for this man. Then,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, y'all living together. Now, all of
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: a sudden, y'all got some kids. You didn't take time
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: to see if if y'all were compatible. You didn't take
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: time to hey, why don't we fall in love and
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: maybe getting married? Then have some children. Everything you have
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: done is out of order. Now you found out exactly
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: who this man is and realize you don't like him.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: You didn't take time and at the beginning to see
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: if you all were compatible. Am I gonna fall in
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: love with this man? Do I just like him for this?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: Or do I just like him for that? You didn't
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: give him. You gotta give everybody time to let the
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: real don't come out. Now you're seeing the real person
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: and now it's too late. Now you gotta figure out
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. And I'm with sure to move
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: somewhere on your own. And what you might want to
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: do is get on my next season. Are ready to love?
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  Speaker 1: And let me find you somebody. Yeah, she's they've been
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  Speaker 1: together for five years. They don't need to spend any
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  Speaker 1: more time. Uh, you know, going down or yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're you're absolutely right. And with the two children, uh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you're arguing so much in front of the kids,
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  Speaker 1: around the kids. Then you know, you let them go
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  Speaker 1: with his family so much, and they're not good role models.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta get out of this situation. It's bad for you,
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  Speaker 1: it's bad for your kids. It's just bad. Yeah. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let for two of the Strawberry Letters, subject love is
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  Speaker 1: not enough for Me? At twenty three after the hour
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  Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters, subject love is
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  Speaker 1: not enough for Me. A young woman wrote this. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming she's a young woman. They did not give
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  Speaker 1: their ages, but just based on what she wrote, I'm
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  Speaker 1: assuming they're possibly in their twenties. She says she has
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  Speaker 1: a boyfriend. They've been together. They're not compatible at all,
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  Speaker 1: and she's not sure why she keeps making wants to
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  Speaker 1: make their relationship work. He says he loves her. She
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  Speaker 1: loves him, but she's not as in love with him
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  Speaker 1: as she used to be. Again. They've been together for
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  Speaker 1: five years, but they have nothing in common except the
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  Speaker 1: two children. They argue so much. They're completely opposite. He
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  Speaker 1: likes raps, she likes R and B. She's educated, he's not.
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  Speaker 1: She writes her goals down. She's an achiever. He just
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  Speaker 1: creates goals and never follows through. He eats, she cooks.
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  Speaker 1: She has a car, he does not have a car.
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  Speaker 1: On and on and on. He likes hanging out with
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  Speaker 1: his family, She likes hanging out with him, on and
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  Speaker 1: on and on. She's been forced to do things that
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  Speaker 1: go against her morals, she says, but she's done it
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  Speaker 1: for this man. She's changed as a woman because of him.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to go to counseling. This guy says counseling
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  Speaker 1: is just for white people that line right there alone
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  Speaker 1: or random saying yeah, uh, you know. She wants to
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  Speaker 1: know is it her or him that's a problem. She
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  Speaker 1: wants to work it out so they can remain together
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  Speaker 1: for the children. But she realizes that she doesn't really
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  Speaker 1: know this man, and she didn't know him before she
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  Speaker 1: fell in love with him. So that's the gist of
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  Speaker 1: the letter. All right, So let's get to it. Guys, Uh,
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  Speaker 1: what are you? What are you gonna do? A reenact me?
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking. I'm talking to my baby right now. Baby.
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? What's up? What's you cook? The day?
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  Speaker 1: You want? You want to do something to day? You
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  Speaker 1: want to go out? I want you to cook something, baby,
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  Speaker 1: that's all. You don't want something. You don't want to
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  Speaker 1: go nowhere like I want to go into kitchen and
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  Speaker 1: eat something after you cook something. Baby, there's a seminar
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  Speaker 1: and positive thinking at your church. Would you like to
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  Speaker 1: attend that? Would you like to go to that? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: that's very nice. I got a paper. Could well go
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  Speaker 1: the day? Ain't saying just to out the house. Don't
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  Speaker 1: you get tired of stand in the house. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: gotta how going to back yard? My boys in the
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  Speaker 1: back yard. You went going to back y'all? I know
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  Speaker 1: that they're back there doing stuff that I don't got
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  Speaker 1: the kids here, we smell all that. What who wants
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  Speaker 1: to do that all the time? And maybe back we
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  Speaker 1: live in our best life. I'm going back and forth
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  Speaker 1: with your girl. I'm living my best life. You live
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  Speaker 1: in my life? That's what you Okay, okay, okay, okay, Queta, Queta,
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  Speaker 1: what you're trying to say, I'm trying to what you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to say. Quit, But if you let me finish,
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  Speaker 1: say what I'm trying to say. What's like what you're saying, Queta,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, I'm listening. What you need to
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  Speaker 1: do is really gets your life together? Because this ain't
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  Speaker 1: my life? What what que quick? What you see wrong
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  Speaker 1: with me? Quet? What the thing? Everything a lot? Look like?
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  Speaker 1: What like? What? Let's look at the mere let's look
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  Speaker 1: at the mir together all right now? Look at okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: right here, Look how dog your lips are from all
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  Speaker 1: that stuff you smoke. Look at your eyes. You look
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  Speaker 1: like you're not rested. And smell your clothes smelling what
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  Speaker 1: that smell that you smell? That? What is that? That?
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  Speaker 1: What I've been out side with the boys? What is what?
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  Speaker 1: Why you got why you that to go out there?
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: Why you want me to do it? In here? I
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  Speaker 1: do it in here. I think you want me doing
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: it that the kids in here. We don't want to
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  Speaker 1: smell lad. Nobody wants to smell lad. I got look,
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  Speaker 1: look what I'm gonna take it. We're gonna do something. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna do something. We're gonna do. I'm gonna take
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  Speaker 1: you to see the three of me go me go,
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  Speaker 1: damn three of me going. You got two of me
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  Speaker 1: goes here? You even do a damn Now you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: see three of meg Okay, do you want to go?
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  Speaker 1: Do you wanna not want to go? Take somewhere? Me go?
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: You almost thirty five years old? Yet kids down You
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be down there? And how do you get
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  Speaker 1: down that? Because I'm not taking it? You ain't got
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: no I'm taking I'm taking the car. What's wrong with
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: you taking my cart? And you know you're gonna leave
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: your two amigos in the house? This little she three
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: more damn amigos. Si Okay, okay, okay, okay. I'm trying
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: to take you somewhere, you know, show you a good time,
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  Speaker 1: Let you enjoy nice cans. These boys you don't you
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: don't you don't understand the costume. These boys gotta do
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: you understand what you missing. I'm trying to take you somewhere,
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  Speaker 1: hold your hand, walk you down there, get you some tickets.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: You're sending up your time out. Who were leaving at
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: the house. My boys outside, they're gonna watch these kids.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: You ain't got worried about that boy get hot and
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: its the megoes, yeah, okay, we'll cool. You know I
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  Speaker 1: ain't you know, I'm I'm in a different state right now,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: you know I'm saying. And why you gotta listen to
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  Speaker 1: all that rap music all the time? Anyway, that's what
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  Speaker 1: I like. Queen, Why are you trying to change me? M?
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: Why are you trying to change me? Quick? You know what?
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  Speaker 1: You know what you see? This is what you're talking about. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: let me listen to me. Que I'm the man on
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  Speaker 1: the house. I'm man. Damn it. Queen. Now, I'm told
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  Speaker 1: you now in order for this, you're the last one
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  Speaker 1: trying to make me go down and then talk to
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  Speaker 1: the white folk. Remember that, Remember that order for this
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  Speaker 1: to what we need, counseling, we need to go to
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  Speaker 1: counsel I'm not talking to them white people. We got
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: they got black counselors. What's wrong with I'm not talking
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: to no black people with some white ideas. I'm not
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: doing well, he said. She said in the letter, he
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: feels that counseling is for white people. That's what I
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: told him. Now, what don't they okay, okay, okay, quick
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  Speaker 1: what they fence to say to what they fence to
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: say too? Quick talk. We're gonna have an open conversation
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: without you, and that's why we're having right now. Quen
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  Speaker 1: and me. We haven't one right now. We just ain't
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: got no white folk in how but we have white
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  Speaker 1: You got black counselors. Yeah, black woman span it want
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: you want a Spanish counseling? That what you want? You
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: go see the three megos. I'm gonna go to my
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  Speaker 1: mama house. When you get your life together, call me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay finally, Quita, finally, Yeah, your best life for you?
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: What I'm what you're gonna do? What about the kid?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, we we we need to tell everybody
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: if they want to comment on today's letter, they can
• 1:08:55
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  Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey and coming up in ten minutes. Couples
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: resolutions to start the new year off. Right right after
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  Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, well, everyone's starting to
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: think about New Year's resolutions. Most of them are personal,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: and a lot are related to being healthier guys, But
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship, you want it to be
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  Speaker 1: healthy too, right right, yeah, So this is according to
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: Cosmopolitan magazine. And here are some suggestions. All right, be
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  Speaker 1: more grateful for each other. I like that one that yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do too. Yeah. So it means take time to
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  Speaker 1: acknowledge your partner and things you might not notice in
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  Speaker 1: the hustle of everyday life that can help you appreciate
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  Speaker 1: them more. I like that a lot. You know, honey,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: thank you well, because we think it's normal. And then
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: you come in all right, here's here's another one. Guys,
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  Speaker 1: actually listen to your partner. Listen. Yeah really, yeah, guys. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we've heard that. Communication is key, of course, but the
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  Speaker 1: most important part of that isn't what you say. It's
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: hearing what your partner says. Okay, it's not what you say,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: it's hearing what your partner says, go ahead, go ahead. Time.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: Hearing and listening, it's two different things. I would listen
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: more if you would pick up tune times to talk. Okay,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: so you gotta have a special time to time to
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: talk to you. Yeah, this is the person that's in
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: his house about him. That's who it is. Y'all know
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: who y'all time to? Right? When is it a good time? Jay?
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: When is it a good time? I'll let you know.
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  Speaker 1: Just listen, right, Jay, just listen. You take the trash
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  Speaker 1: at there's some truth to that though. There is some
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: truth to that about people. All Right, talk about your
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  Speaker 1: goals for the year ahead. I like that sit down.
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  Speaker 1: That's important, having an adult conversation. You know, what are
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: some of your goals for your personal, professional, all of
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: that as a family. So surely if I tell my
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  Speaker 1: wife that my goal this coming year is for us
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  Speaker 1: to get busy at least old times a week. If
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  Speaker 1: that's my goal, shouldn't she try to help me obtain
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: the goal? Well, I mean she could at least hear
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  Speaker 1: you out and if four and if four times, if
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: she's cool with that, then yeah. But if she's not,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: then you guys got to work in a compromise. Maybe three,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: maybe two and a half, you know, maybe five. I
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: want to go not if it's two and a half.
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  Speaker 1: Don't that leave me hanging somewhere if it's two and
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  Speaker 1: a half. But that's the compromise. Yeah, yeah, all of
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  Speaker 1: us right if she can't do the four, yeah, she
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: mayn't surprise you. Go fine, go yeah her hanging how
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  Speaker 1: about that? Wow? Hey hey, hey hey, hold on that.
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  Speaker 1: But then that goes back to when we were saying
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: you gotta listen and talk and conversation and then you
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: set your goals. Yeah, that's why you have the conversation
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: because I really wanted a calendar just so we kind
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: of get meet vision boy, meet me here too, kids
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: getting here at the out of school meet me right
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: here at Yeah that's cool, you know, making date nights
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: and things like that, but sometimes you want that's date,
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: that's date, thirty minute, that's date date, that's thirty minute. Ye,
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: just right there, thirty That's all I'm asking. I'm not
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: trying to take about your time. I'm fine for go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I'll do something together. But we're doing together
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  Speaker 1: at two, not just to drink at your neighborhood bar.
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  Speaker 1: Do something new, do something different. H and oh here's
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  Speaker 1: a big one. Here's a big one. And Jay, I
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  Speaker 1: want you in on this one. O forgive? Who are
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: you talking of? Man who forgive? Talk about things that
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: are bothering you and dig deep and try to forgive.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: Do not carry those things into the new year. Don't
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: do it. Let it go. Many years we didn't care
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: this into now. You want to pick twenty nineteen to
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: be something different. Tommy, you knew you have a hard
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: time letting go. Oh yeah, yeah. Ever, I'm good to
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: you cross mean, well, sometimes you gotta forgive those who
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: crossed you. That's the whole point of forgiveness. Let him go.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: I had this conversation. I had this conversation last night
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: one of my friends. I was like, wow, wow, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know what he was telling me about someone that
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: owed him some money. This is a buddy, I mean,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: he really, he really did the Christian thing. He's went
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: to this person said you know what, you don't owe
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: me no more. And the dude was like, huh. He said,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just wiping the slate clean. He said,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: this is this is the year of the jubileegue and
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: you don't ot And I was like, are you kidding me? You?
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: And he was like, Toime, I had to let it go.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: He said, He's said, guess what, I got so much
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: more money after that was tenfold. He said, I could
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: not believe it. He said, now that person that I forgave,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: he said, that person is sick and ill and need
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: all the help. And I was like wow there, and
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: I had to just I had to take back and
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: just listen. I had to take it in. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So did you learn something I did? What? Don't be
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: loaning the people out of this money. Don't get yourself called.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: I tell like that man, you can't do that. So
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: to answer your question, Carl, and he learned nothing. And
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: then a lot of man need to get some insurance.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: And he got to get well, you got forgiven. This
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: is powerful and it's not for them, it's right. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: here is a major one major All right before we go, quickly,
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: put those phones away. People put them away when you're together.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: When you're together, make a point to focus on being
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: with your partner and putting your phone away. But if
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: we together, like I want to be at two o'clock,
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: you can text me why are we doing it? And
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: let me know how I'm doing. How about your FaceTime timming?
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: That'd be real cool, man, coming up next, Jay and
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Tommy are gonna let us know what's on their minds
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: during the holiday season. You're listening to Steve Morning Show.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: All right, Jay and Tommy, it's the holiday season. Guys,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: just want to pick into your minds. What's on your
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: mind about this holiday. I think it's time for Tommy
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: and I. Tommy and I together, I wrote a song
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: about it. It's to talk to the side pieces over
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: the holiday because we again stop that called Christmas. Zip
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: it zip it zip what changes? It's thirty days? Do
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: you know what? There are a lot of people who
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: didn't hear what we did for Thanksgiving, So now we're
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: speaking to a new batch of people. Some people became
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: side pieces, you see Christmas. Some people just picked up aside.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: A couple of people picked up side all right, time,
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: and you speak to the women, and I will speak
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: to the men, because there's some men who are side
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: pieces also and over there with them. Okay, my ladies,
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: here we ladies. Let me talk to y'all. Alright, the
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: twenty four Christmas, that's your Christmas? Okay, And let me
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: tell you something. You your twenty four is really from
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: about eight a m. To about eight a m. To
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: about one to two pm right in there. That's your Christmas. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: whatever y'all, whatever you vision y'all doing on Christmas, that's
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: your time right there. So if y'all want to walk
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: into the living room like y'all just woke up, walking
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: down like y'all, dude, woke up, gifts under the tree,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: pajamas on everything. Let's go on. Okay, have some lunch. Okay,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: but now when one o'clock strikes hello, we have to go. Okay,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: he's gotta leave. Now, you's gotta go in the afternoon,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: and afternoon he's gotta go. Your Christmas is over. What
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: is she supposed to do for the rest of the day.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: What is she playing on doing? Yeah? Good part about it?
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: You know when it starts and you know when it ends.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: This is what we're here. We're just we're just laying
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: down brown work. Clarity. Clarity is another you men out
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: there who are side pieces. Men. Men. Don't be getting
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: all up in your feelings. Dude, dude, dude, you're sitting
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: down with your with your legs crossing, you're holding a
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: bottle of wine, all up in your feelings. That woman
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: can't call you and tell him. Tell him this, Jake,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: tell him this to Jake. Ain't nobody fit a hole you? Okay, guys,
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: men gett emotional too, your feelings? Dude, dude, you feeling
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: Why don't you have the comfortable? Why you got the
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: spread up to your neck with you? Man? You emotionally? Okay, ladies, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to the name. Listen, ladies, I want y'all
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  Speaker 1: notice now quit worn about what he got. Huh, Chris,
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  Speaker 1: enjoy yo gift. Enjoy what he bought. Fuck you okay,
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  Speaker 1: r don't be asking what she gets what she gets
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  Speaker 1: that I ain't get what she gets. Now you didn't
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  Speaker 1: get what she got? Okay, and enjoy what you got, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. Don't sit there and be selfish now okay,
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: Oh it's not a time to be selfish. Okay, it's Christmas.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: Don't don't be selfish. Let me talk to the man.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: Come on, if you're a side piece in your ball
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  Speaker 1: and you got it like that, you got it like
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: you can give whatever you that lady can't dry that car?
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: Now what you buy the car? Fuck your stupid ass.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: When I bought a car where she supposed to part
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: this car? She? Oh, I figure out a way. Okay, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking. I'm talking to the lady. I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: the ladies that if you are the side piece, that
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: means he has somewhere in in his uh in his heart,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: he has a place for you. Okay, he's going to
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  Speaker 1: give you a Christmas. Those are on side piece. Children them,
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with him. Okay, ain't side
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  Speaker 1: piece kids. Okay, ain't nobody buying your kids. Nothing. That's cold.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: I understand that caller, understand it's cold. But these are
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: the rules calling Christmas. It's for children anyway. But the
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: man got kids at hard all right. Now if you
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: now listen to if you would like ms now, if
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't like it, is his kids got some old
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: tall from last year. Yes, and we can put them
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  Speaker 1: in a bag and bring them over for the kids again.
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  Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. If it's a word regive,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: why can't we do it? Is if the word exists,
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: somebody had been doing it? Wow? Just what I mean? Look, dude,
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  Speaker 1: Look dude, dude, look at me when I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: look right at me. Ain't don't need you to get
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  Speaker 1: dressed up like you The ups man and go over
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: to them people house like you delivering packages on Christmas?
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: Don't nobody to deliver packages on stating people's He went
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: over the delivery is delivering people. We don't go over
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: there with that foolish look comfortable like that, and you
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  Speaker 1: delivering bagage with streets. You you all so wrong for
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  Speaker 1: these all right, Jack, here we go, ladies. After he
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  Speaker 1: lead out on the twenty fourth at one o'clock, don't
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: you get up Sunday, yeah, sending all of these merry
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: Christmas texts and stuff and expect him to respond to you.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: Don't and especially don't be sending und about how you
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: enjoyed yesterday. Christmas is on a Tuesday. This year is out.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, okay, okay, cool, Monday is hers. Huh, don't
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: call tuesday. You go from the twenty four to the
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: twenty six. That's what you do now. I mean, we
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: see what's on you guys' mind. We'll be I mean,
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: this is crazy. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: coming up right after this. I hate both of you.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Jay, So happy holidays again. I
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: hope we helped someone. I think last break Yeah yet
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: holiday male and female side piece. We talked to him.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: I think I think we helped him. I didn't did
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: it for thanksgiving A quill through with it. We help me,
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: help it and we can guess what we're gonna do
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: it for balantap that's coming around helpless. That's what we do,
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: all right. So you did that. Now, Jay, you've come
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: up with something. I think I'm sure that was your
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: brain child, the side piece stuff, Tommy, because you we
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 1: talked on the phone, and yeah, we want to help people.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: We want to help that's what we want to do,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: all right. So now you guys have come up with
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: the segment called who said what? Who said what? I want?
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: The ladies in on in the ship? You know, didn't
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: yell it out? Okay, okay, go quick? Who said? Who
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: said she ready tippany? All right? All right? Who said
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: you need Jesus? M my mama? Everybody say that one?
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: I mean this, Yeah, he says it all the time.
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a hit. It's a mail dyell
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  Speaker 1: hugy y'all come on, okay, okay, okay, shout out at
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  Speaker 1: toughing right here. Really, I don't know if y'all gonna
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: get this says, watch you you what? What again? Is
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: it Tom? What's her name? Not on here? Steve Harvey? No, no, no,
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: no way, we know what you all right, there's another man.
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  Speaker 1: It's another who said, all right, there's another who said
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  Speaker 1: whack whack? What is that? Jacking? Nack whack w Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's still so that they want to hear it. They
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: do you get married? Don't you say? Sucker? Doctor? Whack whack?
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: Who said, Oh that's good, that's easy. John Weber's phone. Yeah,
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: I'm scared of you, you know, Jack, you say that?
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: But that who says? Who says? I'll be thinking George Waller.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: I didn't know who said. I don't even know I
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: wrote this, but I forgot Who says, where whit whit? Well?
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: Is that Kevin Hart? Yeah, that's Kevin Hart? Is it
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: was a guest? That was guest? Got it though? Last
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: but not least, because Timmy's got a few of them.
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: Who says, show your love? We all know that one. Steve,
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey. Yeah, you can ask
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: the Lord about me. That Steve Harvey, who said what
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: that's what we're playing right now? Let me give you
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: one more. Let me give you one okay, here one
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: Jake Okay who said damn don down Yeah, Florida? All right?
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: All right? Uh more with the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:27:59
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• 1:28:05
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• 1:28:09
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• 1:28:13
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• 1:28:22
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• 1:28:27
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• 1:28:31
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• 1:28:34
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• 1:28:39
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• 1:28:43
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• 1:28:48
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• 1:29:08
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• 1:29:24
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• 1:29:27
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• 1:29:29
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• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: hard to cut funding and get the word out about
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: the deadline, he doesn't care about American citizens that need
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: healthcare to help their family members and children. Man, he
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: is so petty. And they right, you're still right. And
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: they never came up with a viable alternative. Okay, you
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 1: want to cut Obamacare and replace it with what? Yeah? Right.
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: So in the video and in the video that the
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: president President of Mamma did, he said, spread the word.
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: We can help save people lives. So, just like you
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: just said, Tommy, it's our obligation to let everybody know
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: about this deadline. It's tomorrow. Tomorrow. The saddest thing you
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 1: ever want to see is go and see people getting
• 1:30:14
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• 1:30:17
  Speaker 1: ration out, Yeah, and he said, well, I'll get six
• 1:30:19
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• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: you get the full bottle appeals. No, they don't have it. Ye,
• 1:30:25
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• 1:30:30
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• 1:30:35
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• 1:30:38
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• 1:30:42
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• 1:30:48
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• 1:30:53
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• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: members of the press get to take pictures with the President,
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 1: but not the White House. We'll have another Christmas party
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• 1:31:14
  Speaker 1: the day, our last break of the day, and some
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 1: closing remarks from Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening,
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: all right, guys. Before we get to Steve's closing remarks,
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 1: let's send some love and some prayers out to our
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 1: friend Donnie McClerkin, Pastor Donnie McClerkin, pastor. Donnie was in
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 1: a serious accident. Uh he passed out while driving on
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 1: the highway. But the good news is he is okay.
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: He is okay. Yeah, thank the Lord, he says, I
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: am alive. He gives all the credit, of course, to
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: God and two human angels that pulled him out of
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 1: the car on the passenger side. He says, he remembers nothing. Um. Yeah,
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 1: he got some stitches on his left left um, sprained wrists,
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: a hurt knee. But he's still here and he's thanking
• 1:32:01
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• 1:32:05
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• 1:32:07
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• 1:32:12
  Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, all right, guys, ready for Steve and
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 1: his closing remarks. Let's do it. Let's do it, Let's
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 1: do it. You know, I've always heard people say you
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: gotta take the high road. But you know that's been
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: difficult for me at times because sometimes that hasn't always
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: registered with me. I haven't I haven't received it the
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: way I should have taking the high road. But Oprah
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: put it a little bit differently, and I've received it differently.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: She said, She's always been taught never to meet negativity
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: with negativity, because the only thing can him come out
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: of that is more negativity, she said. The only way
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 1: to come back darkness is with light, she said, and
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: it only takes a little bit of light to affect darkness.
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: And so I started thinking, if you're in a completely
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: pitch black cave and you happen to have the smallest candle,
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 1: let's just say a birthday candle, and you light a
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 1: birthday candle in a pitch black cave, it has a
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 1: profound effect on a very large area in which was
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: normally a completely dark space. Just that one little piece
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: of light from a candle has a profound effect on
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 1: a pitch black dark cave. And she's absolutely correct. The
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: only way to combat darkness is to be light. And
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: I was talking to the girls and they were saying, Steve,
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: that's taking the high road. And they're absolutely right. That's
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: exactly what people mean when they say take the high road.
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: But I just never really received it that way because
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: it's been difficult for me sometimes to take the high road.
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: I've done it many times, but it's been challenging because
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 1: I being the way I am, sometimes I go, okay,
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: all right, so this the road we're riding towards each
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 1: other own. Then let's dry these cars and pick up
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: some speed and let's go. But that's not fruitful. That's
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: that's not to a benefit of me. It never has been.
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 1: I've had people to help me understand, Like when they
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 1: blog about you. Now everybody's on social media some form
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: or fashion or another, no matter how many followers are, Like,
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: you get on Facebook or something, you're gonna run into
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: some hate. And what I was told being in this
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: position was when bloggers blog about you, it's a blog.
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: If you respond to them, Steve, it's a press conference.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: Because now you're gonna meet this negativity with more negativity.
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: You're gonna you're gonna heighten a much more ne get
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: a situation. So what open was saying, I wish everybody
• 1:35:04
  Speaker 1: receive it the way I did. It's just light, man.
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: You can't you can't win like that. You've got to
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 1: be light. I've always wanted to be a person that
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 1: when you walk into a room, people be glad to
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 1: see you. You know, I talk to my kids about
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: that all the time too. You know, you want to
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: be the person when they walk in the room everybody
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: going okay, cool, my man, Oh that's what my dude,
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: what's up? Boy? All of us know someone that walks
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: into a room and they just take that air out
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: the room. Everybody knows somebody like that. Man when they man,
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 1: y'all be sitting around having a good time. Man, you
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 1: and your boys or your girls, y'all sitting around. Then
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: this one person walk in and the whole attitude go.
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: It's like they take the out the room because they
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: just darkness. Man, they just darkness. Y'all in there having
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: this light time. They here comes this black cloud that's
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 1: gonna cover over a fan and just start raining on it.
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: I never wanted to be that person. I've always wanted
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 1: to be a person. And when I walk in the room,
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: man that I could make a difference, But I just
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: wanted to be a bright spot up. You know, a
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: little more positivity. You can ask God to help make
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: you relevant, and I just I would rather be relative
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 1: on a positive level than to try to create relativity
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: by dragging other people down. These people who have shows
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: where all they do is talk about people, and they're
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 1: trying to be relevant by talking about people. Or you
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: got haters out there, who's a whole blog and whole
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: Instagram and whole social media's set up to draw hate
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: so they can draw viewers, so they can monetize and
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: and sell ads. Man, you know that ain't no good money.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: You know how that's gonna last, because somebody gonna turn
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 1: around and say something about you, and then somebody gonna
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: stop viewing you. It's much better if you try to
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 1: make your living in a positive way. It lasts a
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 1: lot longer. I say this all the time. Hate is louder,
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 1: but love is stronger. You have even noticed that hate
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 1: is so loud when they got stuff on all these
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 1: blog sites. They're just talking about people. You go, oh,
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 1: but love is stronger. It's quieter, but it's stronger. And
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 1: if you just keep loving yourself, you keep loving your God,
• 1:37:28
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